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THE
HUMAN MACHINE
BY
ARNOLD BENNETT
First Published November 1908
First Published November 1908
Second Edition September 1910
Second Edition September 1910
Third Edition April 1911
Third Edition April 1911
Fourth Edition August 1912
4th Edition August 1912
Fifth Edition January 1913
5th Edition January 1913
Sixth Edition August 1913
6th Edition August 1913
CONTENTS
- TAKING ONESELF FOR GRANTED
- AMATEURS IN THE ART OF LIVING
- THE BRAIN AS A GENTLEMAN-AT-LARGE
- THE FIRST PRACTICAL STEP
- HABIT-FORMING BY CONCENTRATION
- LORD OVER THE NODDLE
- WHAT 'LIVING' CHIEFLY IS
- THE DAILY FRICTION
- 'FIRE!'
- MISCHIEVOUSLY OVERWORKING IT
- AN INTERLUDE
- AN INTEREST IN LIFE
- SUCCESS AND FAILURE
- A MAN AND HIS ENVIRONMENT
- L.S.D.
- REASON, REASON!
I
TAKING ONESELF FOR GRANTED
There are men who are capable of loving a machine more deeply than they can love a woman. They are among the happiest men on earth. This is not a sneer meanly shot from cover at women. It is simply a statement of notorious fact. Men who worry themselves to distraction over the perfecting of a machine are indubitably blessed beyond their kind. Most of us have known such men. Yesterday they were constructing motorcars. But to-day aeroplanes are in the air—or, at any rate, they ought to be, according to the inventors. Watch the inventors. Invention is not usually their principal business. They must invent in their spare time. They must invent before breakfast, invent in the Strand between Lyons's and the office, invent after dinner, invent on Sundays. See with what ardour they rush home of a night! See how they seize a half-holiday, like hungry dogs a bone! They don't want golf, bridge, limericks, novels, illustrated magazines, clubs, whisky, starting-prices, hints about neckties, political meetings, yarns, comic songs, anturic salts, nor the smiles that are situate between a gay corsage and a picture hat. They never wonder, at a loss, what they will do next. Their evenings never drag—are always too short. You may, indeed, catch them at twelve o'clock at night on the flat of their backs; but not in bed! No, in a shed, under a machine, holding a candle (whose paths drop fatness) up to the connecting-rod that is strained, or the wheel that is out of centre. They are continually interested, nay, enthralled. They have a machine, and they are perfecting it. They get one part right, and then another goes wrong; and they get that right, and then another goes wrong, and so on. When they are quite sure they have reached perfection, forth issues the machine out of the shed—and in five minutes is smashed up, together with a limb or so of the inventors, just because they had been quite sure too soon. Then the whole business starts again. They do not give up—that particular wreck was, of course, due to a mere oversight; the whole business starts again. For they have glimpsed perfection; they have the gleam of perfection in their souls. Thus their lives run away. 'They will never fly!' you remark, cynically. Well, if they don't? Besides, what about Wright? With all your cynicism, have you never envied them their machine and their passionate interest in it?
There are guys who can love a machine more deeply than they can love a woman. They're some of the happiest people on the planet. This isn't a jab at women; it's just a well-known fact. Men who obsess over perfecting a machine are undeniably blessed in ways that others aren't. Most of us have encountered such men. Yesterday they were building cars. But today, planes are in the sky—or at least they should be, according to the inventors. Watch those inventors. Usually, invention isn't their main job. They have to invent in their spare time. They invent before breakfast, in the Strand between Lyons's and the office, after dinner, and on Sundays. Look at how eagerly they rush home at night! See how they grab a half-holiday like starving dogs with a bone! They don’t care for golf, bridge, limericks, novels, magazines, clubs, whiskey, betting odds, necktie tips, political meetings, stories, silly songs, or the smiles that lie between a stylish dress and a fancy hat. They never sit around wondering what to do next. Their evenings never drag—they're always too short. You might catch them at midnight lying flat on their backs, but not in bed! No, they’ll be in a shed, under a machine, holding a candle (which drips grease) up to the connecting rod that’s strained or the wheel that’s out of alignment. They’re constantly interested, even captivated. They have a machine, and they’re perfecting it. They fix one part, only to have another break; they fix that part, and then another fails, and so on. When they’re sure they’ve achieved perfection, out rolls the machine from the shed—and within five minutes, it’s wrecked, along with a limb or two of the inventors, just because they were too sure too soon. Then the whole process starts over again. They don’t give up—whatever wrecked it was just a small mistake; the whole process starts over again. They’ve caught a glimpse of perfection; they have the spark of perfection in their souls. That’s how their lives pass by. "They'll never fly!" you say cynically. Well, if they don’t? And, what about the Wright brothers? With all your cynicism, have you never envied them their machine and their passionate pursuit of it?
You know, perhaps, the moment when, brushing in front of the glass, you detected your first grey hair. You stopped brushing; then you resumed brushing, hastily; you pretended not to be shocked, but you were. Perhaps you know a more disturbing moment than that, the moment when it suddenly occurred to you that you had 'arrived' as far as you ever will arrive; and you had realised as much of your early dream as you ever will realise, and the realisation was utterly unlike the dream; the marriage was excessively prosaic and eternal, not at all what you expected it to be; and your illusions were dissipated; and games and hobbies had an unpleasant core of tedium and futility; and the ideal tobacco-mixture did not exist; and one literary masterpiece resembled another; and all the days that are to come will more or less resemble the present day, until you die; and in an illuminating flash you understood what all those people were driving at when they wrote such unconscionably long letters to the Telegraph as to life being worth living or not worth living; and there was naught to be done but face the grey, monotonous future, and pretend to be cheerful with the worm of ennui gnawing at your heart! In a word, the moment when it occurred to you that yours is 'the common lot.' In that moment have you not wished—do you not continually wish—for an exhaustless machine, a machine that you could never get to the end of? Would you not give your head to be lying on the flat of your back, peering with a candle, dirty, foiled, catching cold—but absorbed in the pursuit of an object? Have you not gloomily regretted that you were born without a mechanical turn, because there is really something about a machine...?
You might remember the moment when, brushing your hair in front of the mirror, you noticed your first grey hair. You stopped brushing for a moment, then quickly went back to it; you tried to act like it didn't surprise you, but it did. Maybe you know a more alarming moment than that—the moment when it hit you that you had 'arrived' as far as you ever would. You realized that you had achieved as much of your early dream as you ever would, and the realization was nothing like the dream itself; the marriage was way too ordinary and forever, not at all what you had hoped it would be. Your illusions faded away; your hobbies and pastimes had an unpleasant hint of boredom and futility; the perfect tobacco blend didn’t exist; one literary masterpiece looked just like another; and all the days ahead will, more or less, look like today, until the end; and in a moment of clarity, you understood what all those people meant when they wrote those ridiculously long letters to the Telegraph about whether life is worth living or not; and there was nothing to do but face the dull, monotonous future, pretending to be happy while the worm of ennui gnawed at your heart! In short, that moment when it dawned on you that you share 'the common fate.' In that moment, haven't you wished—do you not constantly wish—for an endless machine, a machine with no finish line? Wouldn’t you give anything to be lying on your back, peering with a candle, dirty and cold—but completely engrossed in chasing a goal? Haven't you sadly wished that you had a knack for mechanics, because there’s really something about a machine...?
It has never struck you that you do possess a machine! Oh, blind! Oh, dull! It has never struck you that you have at hand a machine wonderful beyond all mechanisms in sheds, intricate, delicately adjustable, of astounding and miraculous possibilities, interminably interesting! That machine is yourself. 'This fellow is preaching. I won't have it!' you exclaim resentfully. Dear sir, I am not preaching, and, even if I were, I think you would have it. I think I can anyhow keep hold of your button for a while, though you pull hard. I am not preaching. I am simply bent on calling your attention to a fact which has perhaps wholly or partially escaped you—namely, that you are the most fascinating bit of machinery that ever was. You do yourself less than justice. It is said that men are only interested in themselves. The truth is that, as a rule, men are interested in every mortal thing except themselves. They have a habit of taking themselves for granted, and that habit is responsible for nine-tenths of the boredom and despair on the face of the planet.
It has never occurred to you that you actually have a machine! Oh, so oblivious! Oh, so dull! It has never dawned on you that you have at your disposal a machine more amazing than any device in a workshop, complex, finely adjustable, full of incredible and miraculous possibilities, endlessly fascinating! That machine is you. "This person is preaching. I won't stand for it!" you complain bitterly. Dear sir, I am not preaching, and even if I were, I believe you would listen. I think I can still hold on to your attention for a bit, even if you pull away hard. I am not preaching. I simply want to point out a fact that may have completely or partially escaped you—namely, that you are the most captivating piece of machinery that ever existed. You sell yourself short. They say that people are only interested in themselves. The truth is that, generally, people are interested in everything except themselves. They tend to take themselves for granted, and that tendency is responsible for nine-tenths of the boredom and despair on this planet.
A man will wake up in the middle of the night (usually owing to some form of delightful excess), and his brain will be very active indeed for a space ere he can go to sleep again. In that candid hour, after the exaltation of the evening and before the hope of the dawn, he will see everything in its true colours—except himself. There is nothing like a sleepless couch for a clear vision of one's environment. He will see all his wife's faults and the hopelessness of trying to cure them. He will momentarily see, though with less sharpness of outline, his own faults. He will probably decide that the anxieties of children outweigh the joys connected with children. He will admit all the shortcomings of existence, will face them like a man, grimly, sourly, in a sturdy despair. He will mutter: 'Of course I'm angry! Who wouldn't be? Of course I'm disappointed! Did I expect this twenty years ago? Yes, we ought to save more. But we don't, so there you are! I'm bound to worry! I know I should be better if I didn't smoke so much. I know there's absolutely no sense at all in taking liqueurs. Absurd to be ruffled with her when she's in one of her moods. I don't have enough exercise. Can't be regular, somehow. Not the slightest use hoping that things will be different, because I know they won't. Queer world! Never really what you may call happy, you know. Now, if things were different ...' He loses consciousness.
A man will wake up in the middle of the night (usually because of some kind of enjoyable excess), and his mind will be very active for a while before he can fall asleep again. In that honest hour, after the excitement of the evening and before the hope of the dawn, he will see everything as it really is—except for himself. There’s nothing like a sleepless couch for a clear view of one’s surroundings. He will see all his wife’s flaws and the futility of trying to fix them. He will briefly see, though with less clarity, his own flaws. He will likely conclude that the worries of raising kids outweigh the joys of having them. He will acknowledge all the shortcomings of life, facing them like a man, grimly and sourly, in a stubborn despair. He will mutter: 'Of course I'm angry! Who wouldn't be? Of course I'm disappointed! Did I expect this twenty years ago? Yes, we should save more. But we don't, so here we are! I'm bound to worry! I know I’d be better off if I didn’t smoke so much. I know it makes no sense to drink liqueurs. It’s ridiculous to get upset with her when she’s in one of her moods. I don’t get enough exercise. I can’t seem to be consistent. There’s no point in hoping that things will be different because I know they won’t. Strange world! Never really what you'd call happy, you know. Now, if things were different...' He loses consciousness.
Observe: he has taken himself for granted, just glancing at his faults and looking away again. It is his environment that has occupied his attention, and his environment—'things'—that he would wish to have 'different,' did he not know, out of the fulness of experience, that it is futile to desire such a change? What he wants is a pipe that won't put itself into his mouth, a glass that won't leap of its own accord to his lips, money that won't slip untouched out of his pocket, legs that without asking will carry him certain miles every day in the open air, habits that practise themselves, a wife that will expand and contract according to his humours, like a Wernicke bookcase, always complete but never finished. Wise man, he perceives at once that he can't have these things. And so he resigns himself to the universe, and settles down to a permanent, restrained discontent. No one shall say he is unreasonable.
Observe: he has taken himself for granted, just glancing at his faults and looking away again. It's his environment that has captured his attention, and his environment—'things'—that he wishes were 'different,' if he didn't know, from experience, that it's pointless to want such a change. What he wants is a pipe that won't put itself in his mouth, a glass that won't jump to his lips on its own, money that won't slip untouched from his pocket, legs that will take him certain miles every day without him asking, habits that practice themselves, a wife that will adjust according to his moods, like a Wernicke bookcase, always complete but never finished. Wise man, he realizes immediately that he can't have these things. And so he accepts the universe as it is and settles into a permanent, restrained discontent. No one can say he is unreasonable.
You see, he has given no attention to the machine. Let us not call it a flying-machine. Let us call it simply an automobile. There it is on the road, jolting, screeching, rattling, perfuming. And there he is, saying: 'This road ought to be as smooth as velvet. That hill in front is ridiculous, and the descent on the other side positively dangerous. And it's all turns—I can't see a hundred yards in front.' He has a wild idea of trying to force the County Council to sand-paper the road, or of employing the new Territorial Army to remove the hill. But he dismisses that idea—he is so reasonable. He accepts all. He sits clothed in reasonableness on the machine, and accepts all. 'Ass!' you exclaim. 'Why doesn't he get down and inflate that tyre, for one thing? Anyone can see the sparking apparatus is wrong, and it's perfectly certain the gear-box wants oil.
You see, he hasn’t paid any attention to the vehicle. Let’s not call it a flying machine. Let’s just call it a car. There it is on the road, bumping, screeching, rattling, and emitting fumes. And there he is, saying: ‘This road should be as smooth as silk. That hill ahead is absurd, and the descent on the other side is definitely dangerous. And it’s all turns—I can’t see a hundred yards ahead.’ He has a crazy idea of trying to force the County Council to smooth out the road, or of getting the new Territorial Army to remove the hill. But he brushes off that idea—he’s pretty reasonable. He sits there, wrapped in reasonableness on the car, and accepts everything. ‘What an idiot!’ you exclaim. ‘Why doesn’t he get out and inflate that tire, for starters? Anyone can see the spark plug is faulty, and it’s clear the gear box needs oil.
Why doesn't he—?' I will tell you why he doesn't. Just because he isn't aware that he is on a machine at all. He has never examined what he is on. And at the back of his consciousness is a dim idea that he is perched on a piece of solid, immutable rock that runs on castors.
Why doesn’t he—?' I’ll tell you why he doesn’t. It’s simply that he doesn’t even realize he’s on a machine. He’s never taken a good look at what he's on. Deep down in his mind, he has a vague sense that he’s sitting on a sturdy, unchanging piece of rock that’s on wheels.
II
AMATEURS IN THE ART OF LIVING
Considering that we have to spend the whole of our lives in this human machine, considering that it is our sole means of contact and compromise with the rest of the world, we really do devote to it very little attention. When I say 'we,' I mean our inmost spirits, the instinctive part, the mystery within that exists. And when I say 'the human machine' I mean the brain and the body—and chiefly the brain. The expression of the soul by means of the brain and body is what we call the art of 'living.' We certainly do not learn this art at school to any appreciable extent. At school we are taught that it is necessary to fling our arms and legs to and fro for so many hours per diem. We are also shown, practically, that our brains are capable of performing certain useful tricks, and that if we do not compel our brains to perform those tricks we shall suffer. Thus one day we run home and proclaim to our delighted parents that eleven twelves are 132. A feat of the brain! So it goes on until our parents begin to look up to us because we can chatter of cosines or sketch the foreign policy of Louis XIV. Good! But not a word about the principles of the art of living yet! Only a few detached rules from our parents, to be blindly followed when particular crises supervene. And, indeed, it would be absurd to talk to a schoolboy about the expression of his soul. He would probably mutter a monosyllable which is not 'mice.'
Considering that we have to spend our entire lives in this human body, and that it’s our only way to connect with and engage the world, we really don’t give it much thought. When I say 'we,' I mean our true selves, the instinctual part, the unknown aspect within us. And when I say 'the human machine,' I’m referring to the brain and the body—mainly the brain. The way our soul expresses itself through the brain and body is what we call the art of 'living.' We certainly don’t learn this art in school to any significant degree. In school, we’re taught that we need to move our arms and legs around for a certain number of hours each day. We’re also shown, practically, that our brains can do specific useful tasks, and if we don't make our brains do these tasks, we will face consequences. So one day we rush home and excitedly tell our proud parents that eleven twelves are 132. A brain achievement! This continues until our parents start looking up to us because we can talk about cosines or outline the foreign policy of Louis XIV. Great! But not a peep about the principles of living! Just a few random rules from our parents to be followed blindly when certain situations arise. And honestly, it would be ridiculous to talk to a schoolboy about expressing his soul. He would probably mumble a one-syllable response that isn’t 'mice.'
Of course, school is merely a preparation for living; unless one goes to a university, in which case it is a preparation for university. One is supposed to turn one's attention to living when these preliminaries are over—say at the age of about twenty. Assuredly one lives then; there is, however, nothing new in that, for one has been living all the time, in a fashion; all the time one has been using the machine without understanding it. But does one, school and college being over, enter upon a study of the machine? Not a bit. The question then becomes, not how to live, but how to obtain and retain a position in which one will be able to live; how to get minute portions of dead animals and plants which one can swallow, in order not to die of hunger; how to acquire and constantly renew a stock of other portions of dead animals and plants in which one can envelop oneself in order not to die of cold; how to procure the exclusive right of entry into certain huts where one may sleep and eat without being rained upon by the clouds of heaven. And so forth. And when one has realised this ambition, there comes the desire to be able to double the operation and do it, not for oneself alone, but for oneself and another. Marriage! But no scientific sustained attention is yet given to the real business of living, of smooth intercourse, of self-expression, of conscious adaptation to environment—in brief, to the study of the machine. At thirty the chances are that a man will understand better the draught of a chimney than his own respiratory apparatus—to name one of the simple, obvious things—and as for understanding the working of his own brain—what an idea! As for the skill to avoid the waste of power involved by friction in the business of living, do we give an hour to it in a month? Do we ever at all examine it save in an amateurish and clumsy fashion? A young lady produces a water-colour drawing. 'Very nice!' we say, and add, to ourselves, 'For an amateur.' But our living is more amateurish than that young lady's drawing; though surely we ought every one of us to be professionals at living!
Of course, school is just preparation for life; unless you go to university, in which case it’s preparation for university. You’re expected to focus on living once these early stages are over—around the age of twenty. You definitely start living then; but honestly, that isn’t new since you’ve been living in some way all along; you’ve been using life without fully understanding it. But once school and college are done, do you dive into studying life? Not at all. The focus shifts from how to live to how to get and keep a job that allows you to live; how to get tiny bits of dead animals and plants to eat so you don’t starve; how to acquire and keep a supply of materials to keep warm; how to secure a place to sleep and eat without being exposed to the rain. And so on. Once you achieve this, you might want to double that effort and provide for someone else too. Marriage! But no serious, sustained effort goes into the real business of living, of getting along with others, of expressing yourself, of adapting consciously to your surroundings—in short, studying life. By the age of thirty, most guys can understand how a chimney works better than their own breathing—just to name one simple thing—and as for understanding how their own brain works—what a thought! As for mastering the skills to minimize wasted effort in living, do we even spend an hour on that in a month? Do we ever examine it seriously, or just in a half-hearted and clumsy way? A young woman shows off a watercolor painting. “Very nice!” we say, and think to ourselves, “For an amateur.” But our lives are more amateurish than that young woman’s painting; yet we should all be professionals at living!
When we have been engaged in the preliminaries to living for about fifty-five years, we begin to think about slacking off. Up till this period our reason for not having scientifically studied the art of living—the perfecting and use of the finer parts of the machine—is not that we have lacked leisure (most of us have enormous heaps of leisure), but that we have simply been too absorbed in the preliminaries, have, in fact, treated the preliminaries to the business as the business itself. Then at fifty-five we ought at last to begin to live our lives with professional skill, as a professional painter paints pictures. Yes, but we can't. It is too late then. Neither painters, nor acrobats, nor any professionals can be formed at the age of fifty-five. Thus we finish our lives amateurishly, as we have begun them. And when the machine creaks and sets our teeth on edge, or refuses to obey the steering-wheel and deposits us in the ditch, we say: 'Can't be helped!' or 'Doesn't matter! It will be all the same a hundred years hence!' or: 'I must make the best of things.' And we try to believe that in accepting the status quo we have justified the status quo, and all the time we feel our insincerity.
When we’ve been going through the basics of living for about fifty-five years, we start to think about taking it easy. Up until this point, our reason for not scientifically studying the art of living—the refining and utilizing of the finer aspects of the machine—is not because we lack time (most of us have plenty of free time), but because we’ve been too caught up in the basics, treating them as if they were the main event. By fifty-five, we should finally start living our lives with real skill, like a professional painter creates art. But we can’t. It’s too late for that. Neither painters, nor acrobats, nor any professionals can really be made at fifty-five. So we end our lives doing things half-heartedly, just like we began. And when the machine creaks and annoys us, or fails to follow our lead and crashes into a ditch, we say: 'Can’t be helped!' or 'Doesn’t matter! It’ll all be the same in a hundred years!' or: 'I’ve got to make the best of it.' And we try to convince ourselves that by accepting the status quo, we’ve validated the status quo, even though we always feel that it’s insincere.
You exclaim that I exaggerate. I do. To force into prominence an aspect of affairs usually overlooked, it is absolutely necessary to exaggerate. Poetic licence is one name for this kind of exaggeration. But I exaggerate very little indeed, much less than perhaps you think. I know that you are going to point out to me that vast numbers of people regularly spend a considerable portion of their leisure in striving after self-improvement. Granted! And I am glad of it. But I should be gladder if their strivings bore more closely upon the daily business of living, of self-expression without friction and without futile desires. See this man who regularly studies every evening of his life! He has genuinely understood the nature of poetry, and his taste is admirable. He recites verse with true feeling, and may be said to be highly cultivated. Poetry is a continual source of pleasure to him. True! But why is he always complaining about not receiving his deserts in the office? Why is he worried about finance? Why does he so often sulk with his wife? Why does he persist in eating more than his digestion will tolerate? It was not written in the book of fate that he should complain and worry and sulk and suffer. And if he was a professional at living he would not do these things. There is no reason why he should do them, except the reason that he has never learnt his business, never studied the human machine as a whole, never really thought rationally about living. Supposing you encountered an automobilist who was swerving and grinding all over the road, and you stopped to ask what was the matter, and he replied: 'Never mind what's the matter. Just look at my lovely acetylene lamps, how they shine, and how I've polished them!' You would not regard him as a Clifford-Earp, or even as an entirely sane man. So with our student of poetry. It is indubitable that a large amount of what is known as self-improvement is simply self-indulgence—a form of pleasure which only incidentally improves a particular part of the machine, and even that to the neglect of far more important parts.
You say that I exaggerate. I do. To highlight something usually ignored, you need to exaggerate. "Poetic license" is one term for this kind of exaggeration. But I exaggerate very little, much less than you might think. I know you’re going to tell me that many people regularly spend a good chunk of their free time striving for self-improvement. That’s true! And I’m glad about it. But I’d be even happier if their efforts were more closely related to the daily realities of living, to expressing themselves without conflict and without pointless desires. Look at this guy who studies every evening of his life! He truly understands the nature of poetry, and his taste is excellent. He recites poetry with genuine emotion and can be considered quite cultured. Poetry brings him continuous joy. True! But why is he always complaining about not getting what he deserves at work? Why is he stressed about money? Why does he often sulk with his wife? Why does he keep eating more than he can handle? It wasn’t destined for him to complain, worry, sulk, and suffer. If he were really good at living, he wouldn’t do those things. There’s no reason for him to act this way, except that he’s never learned the craft of living, never studied the human condition as a whole, and never really thought rationally about life. Imagine you come across a driver swerving all over the road, and when you stop to ask what’s wrong, he says, “Forget about what’s wrong. Just look at my beautiful headlights, how they shine and how I’ve polished them!” You wouldn’t see him as entirely sane. The same goes for our poetry student. It’s clear that much of what’s called self-improvement is just self-indulgence—a form of pleasure that only occasionally enhances a particular part of the person while neglecting far more important aspects.
My aim is to direct a man's attention to himself as a whole, considered as a machine, complex and capable of quite extraordinary efficiency, for travelling through this world smoothly, in any desired manner, with satisfaction not only to himself but to the people he meets en route, and the people who are overtaking him and whom he is overtaking. My aim is to show that only an inappreciable fraction of our ordered and sustained efforts is given to the business of actual living, as distinguished from the preliminaries to living.
My goal is to get a person to focus on themselves as a whole, seen as a complex machine capable of remarkable efficiency for navigating this world smoothly, in any desired way, bringing satisfaction not just to themselves but also to the people they encounter along the way and those who pass them by or whom they pass. I want to demonstrate that only a tiny fraction of our organized and sustained efforts is dedicated to the actual experience of living, as opposed to the preparations for living.
III
THE BRAIN AS A GENTLEMAN-AT-LARGE
It is not as if, in this business of daily living, we were seriously hampered by ignorance either as to the results which we ought to obtain, or as to the general means which we must employ in order to obtain them. With all our absorption in the mere preliminaries to living, and all our carelessness about living itself, we arrive pretty soon at a fairly accurate notion of what satisfactory living is, and we perceive with some clearness the methods necessary to success. I have pictured the man who wakes up in the middle of the night and sees the horrid semi-fiasco of his life. But let me picture the man who wakes up refreshed early on a fine summer morning and looks into his mind with the eyes of hope and experience, not experience and despair. That man will pass a delightful half-hour in thinking upon the scheme of the universe as it affects himself. He is quite clear that contentment depends on his own acts, and that no power can prevent him from performing those acts. He plans everything out, and before he gets up he knows precisely what he must and will do in certain foreseen crises and junctures. He sincerely desires to live efficiently—who would wish to make a daily mess of existence?—and he knows the way to realise the desire.
It’s not like, in this everyday life, we’re really held back by ignorance about the outcomes we should aim for or the general methods we need to use to achieve them. Even with all our focus on the basics of living and our lack of attention to living itself, we quickly develop a pretty clear idea of what a satisfying life looks like, and we can see with some clarity the steps needed to succeed. I’ve imagined the person who wakes up in the middle of the night and realizes how messed up his life is. But let me envision the person who wakes up refreshed on a beautiful summer morning and reflects on his thoughts with hope and experience, not experience and despair. That person will spend a lovely half-hour thinking about how the universe affects him. He understands that happiness relies on his own actions and that no external force can stop him from taking those actions. He plans everything out, and before getting up, he knows exactly what he must and will do in certain anticipated challenges and moments. He genuinely wants to live effectively—who would want to mess up their life every day?—and he knows how to make that desire a reality.
And yet, mark me! That man will not have been an hour on his feet on this difficult earth before the machine has unmistakably gone wrong: the machine which was designed to do this work of living, which is capable of doing it thoroughly well, but which has not been put into order! What is the use of consulting the map of life and tracing the itinerary, and getting the machine out of the shed, and making a start, if half the nuts are loose, or the steering pillar is twisted, or there is no petrol in the tank? (Having asked this question, I will drop the mechanico-vehicular comparison, which is too rough and crude for the delicacy of the subject.) Where has the human machine gone wrong? It has gone wrong in the brain. What, is he 'wrong in the head'? Most assuredly, most strictly. He knows—none better—that when his wife employs a particular tone containing ten grains of asperity, and he replies in a particular tone containing eleven grains, the consequences will be explosive. He knows, on the other hand, that if he replies in a tone containing only one little drop of honey, the consequences may not be unworthy of two reasonable beings. He knows this. His brain is fully instructed. And lo! his brain, while arguing that women are really too absurd (as if that was the point), is sending down orders to the muscles of the throat and mouth which result in at least eleven grains of asperity, and conjugal relations are endangered for the day. He didn't want to do it. His desire was not to do it. He despises himself for doing it. But his brain was not in working order. His brain ran away—'raced'—on its own account, against reason, against desire, against morning resolves—and there he is!
And yet, listen to me! That guy won’t last an hour on his feet in this tough world before the machine clearly malfunctions: the machine meant to handle the task of living, which can do it really well, but hasn’t been set up right! What’s the point of looking at the map of life, planning the route, getting the machine out of the garage, and making a move, if half the nuts are loose, or the steering column is bent, or there’s no gas in the tank? (After asking this, I’ll drop the vehicle comparison, which is too rough for such a delicate topic.) Where’s the human machine gone wrong? It’s gone wrong in the brain. Is he 'wrong in the head'? Absolutely, without a doubt. He knows—better than anyone—that when his wife uses a specific tone with a bit of sharpness, and he responds with a tone that’s even sharper, the results will be explosive. He also knows that if he replies with just a hint of sweetness, the outcome might actually be reasonable for both of them. He knows this. His brain is fully aware. Yet, while arguing that women are really too ridiculous (as if that’s the issue), his brain is sending signals to his throat and mouth that end up being at least way too sharp, and his marital situation is jeopardized for the day. He didn’t intend to do it. He didn’t want to do it. He hates himself for doing it. But his brain wasn’t in working order. His brain went off— 'raced'—on its own, against reason, against what he wanted, against his morning promises—and there he is!
That is just one example, of the simplest and slightest. Examples can be multiplied. The man may be a young man whose immediate future depends on his passing an examination—an examination which he is capable of passing 'on his head,' which nothing can prevent him from passing if only his brain will not be so absurd as to give orders to his legs to walk out of the house towards the tennis court instead of sending them upstairs to the study; if only, having once safely lodged him in the study, his brain will devote itself to the pages of books instead of dwelling on the image of a nice girl—not at all like other girls. Or the man may be an old man who will live in perfect comfort if only his brain will not interminably run round and round in a circle of grievances, apprehensions, and fears which no amount of contemplation can destroy or even ameliorate.
That’s just one example, and a pretty simple one at that. There are plenty more. The person could be a young guy whose future relies on passing an exam—an exam he’s fully capable of acing if he just doesn’t let his brain mess with him and tell his legs to head out to the tennis court instead of upstairs to study. If he can settle into his study, he just needs to focus on the books instead of getting distracted by thoughts of a girl who’s really not like the others. Or he could be an older man who would be perfectly comfortable if only his mind wouldn’t keep spiraling through a loop of complaints, worries, and fears that no amount of thinking can erase or even lessen.
The brain, the brain—that is the seat of trouble! 'Well,' you say, 'of course it is. We all know that!' We don't act as if we did, anyway. 'Give us more brains, Lord!' ejaculated a great writer. Personally, I think he would have been wiser if he had asked first for the power to keep in order such brains as we have. We indubitably possess quite enough brains, quite as much as we can handle. The supreme muddlers of living are often people of quite remarkable intellectual faculty, with a quite remarkable gift of being wise for others. The pity is that our brains have a way of 'wandering,' as it is politely called. Brain-wandering is indeed now recognised as a specific disease. I wonder what you, O business man with an office in Ludgate Circus, would say to your office-boy, whom you had dispatched on an urgent message to Westminster, and whom you found larking around Euston Station when you rushed to catch your week-end train. 'Please, sir, I started to go to Westminster, but there's something funny in my limbs that makes me go up all manner of streets. I can't help it, sir!' 'Can't you?' you would say. 'Well, you had better go and be somebody else's office-boy.' Your brain is something worse than that office-boy, something more insidiously potent for evil.
The brain, the brain—that's where all the trouble starts! 'Well,' you might say, 'of course it is. We all know that!' Yet, we don't really act like we do. 'Lord, give us more brains!' exclaimed a famous writer. Personally, I think he would have been smarter if he had first asked for the ability to manage the brains we already have. We definitely have enough brains, probably more than we can handle. The people who mess up life the most are often quite intelligent, with a remarkable ability to give advice to others. The sad part is that our brains tend to 'wander,' as it's politely put. Brain-wandering is now recognized as a specific condition. I wonder what you, the businessman with an office at Ludgate Circus, would say to your office boy, who you sent on an urgent message to Westminster, but ended up goofing off at Euston Station while you rushed to catch your weekend train. 'Please, sir, I meant to go to Westminster, but something feels off in my legs, making me take all sorts of wrong turns. I can't help it, sir!' 'Can't you?' you would reply. 'Well, you better find someone else to work for.' Your brain is something worse than that office boy, something more insidiously powerful for causing problems.
I conceive the brain of the average well-intentioned man as possessing the tricks and manners of one of those gentlemen-at-large who, having nothing very urgent to do, stroll along and offer their services gratis to some shorthanded work of philanthropy. They will commonly demoralise and disorganise the business conduct of an affair in about a fortnight. They come when they like; they go when they like. Sometimes they are exceedingly industrious and obedient, but then there is an even chance that they will shirk and follow their own sweet will. And they mustn't be spoken to, or pulled up—for have they not kindly volunteered, and are they not giving their days for naught! These persons are the bane of the enterprises in which they condescend to meddle. Now, there is a vast deal too much of the gentleman-at-large about one's brain. One's brain has no right whatever to behave as a gentleman-at-large: but it in fact does. It forgets; it flatly ignores orders; at the critical moment when pressure is highest, it simply lights a cigarette and goes out for a walk. And we meekly sit down under this behaviour! 'I didn't feel like stewing,' says the young man who, against his wish, will fail in his examination. 'The words were out of my mouth before I knew it,' says the husband whose wife is a woman. 'I couldn't get any inspiration to-day,' says the artist. 'I can't resist Stilton,' says the fellow who is dying of greed. 'One can't help one's thoughts,' says the old worrier. And this last really voices the secret excuse of all five.
I see the brain of the average well-meaning person as having the quirks and behavior of one of those free-spirited individuals who, with nothing urgent to handle, wander around and offer their help for free with some understaffed charitable cause. They usually mess up and disrupt the operation of things in about two weeks. They show up whenever they feel like it and leave whenever they want. Sometimes they are super productive and compliant, but there's always a chance they'll slack off and do whatever they please. And you can't say anything to them or call them out—after all, they kindly volunteered, right? They’re giving their time for nothing! These people are a real headache for the projects they choose to meddle in. Now, there’s way too much of that free-spirit vibe in my brain. My brain shouldn't behave like that free spirit, but it totally does. It forgets things; it completely disregards instructions; at the critical moment when the pressure peaks, it just lights a cigarette and goes for a walk. And we just sit back and accept this behavior! "I didn’t feel like stressing out," says the young man who, against his wishes, will fail his exam. "The words came out before I even realized it," says the husband whose wife is assertive. "I couldn’t find any inspiration today," says the artist. "I can’t resist Stilton," says the guy who is struggling with greed. "I can’t control my thoughts," says the old overthinker. And this last one really sums up the hidden excuse for all five.
And you all say to me: 'My brain is myself. How can I alter myself? I was born like that.' In the first place you were not born 'like that,' you have lapsed to that. And in the second place your brain is not yourself. It is only a part of yourself, and not the highest seat of authority. Do you love your mother, wife, or children with your brain? Do you desire with your brain? Do you, in a word, ultimately and essentially live with your brain? No. Your brain is an instrument. The proof that it is an instrument lies in the fact that, when extreme necessity urges, you can command your brain to do certain things, and it does them. The first of the two great principles which underlie the efficiency of the human machine is this: The brain is a servant, exterior to the central force of the Ego. If it is out of control the reason is not that it is uncontrollable, but merely that its discipline has been neglected. The brain can be trained, as the hand and eye can be trained; it can be made as obedient as a sporting dog, and by similar methods. In the meantime the indispensable preparation for brain discipline is to form the habit of regarding one's brain as an instrument exterior to one's self, like a tongue or a foot.
And you all say to me: "My brain is me. How can I change myself? I was born this way." First of all, you weren't born "this way"; you've become this way over time. Secondly, your brain is not you. It's just a part of you, and it’s not the most important part. Do you love your mother, wife, or children with your brain? Do you feel desire with your brain? In other words, do you truly and fundamentally live with your brain? No. Your brain is just a tool. The evidence that it’s a tool is that, in times of extreme need, you can tell your brain to do certain things, and it does them. The first of the two key principles that drive the effectiveness of the human being is this: The brain is a servant, separate from the central force of the self. If it's out of control, it's not because it can't be controlled, but simply because it hasn't been properly trained. The brain can be trained, just like your hand and eyes can be trained; it can be made as obedient as a well-trained dog, using similar techniques. In the meantime, the essential step towards brain training is to develop the habit of seeing your brain as a tool outside of yourself, like a tongue or a foot.
IV
THE FIRST PRACTICAL STEP
The brain is a highly quaint organism. Let me say at once, lest I should be cannonaded by physiologists, psychologists, or metaphysicians, that by the 'brain' I mean the faculty which reasons and which gives orders to the muscles. I mean exactly what the plain man means by the brain. The brain is the diplomatist which arranges relations between our instinctive self and the universe, and it fulfils its mission when it provides for the maximum of freedom to the instincts with the minimum of friction. It argues with the instincts. It takes them on one side and points out the unwisdom of certain performances. It catches them by the coat-tails when they are about to make fools of themselves. 'Don't drink all that iced champagne at a draught,' it says to one instinct; 'we may die of it.' 'Don't catch that rude fellow one in the eye,' it says to another instinct; 'he is more powerful than us.' It is, in fact, a majestic spectacle of common sense. And yet it has the most extraordinary lapses. It is just like that man—we all know him and consult him—who is a continual fount of excellent, sagacious advice on everything, but who somehow cannot bring his sagacity to bear on his own personal career.
The brain is a really interesting organ. Let me clarify right away, so I don't get bombarded by physiologists, psychologists, or philosophers, that when I say 'brain,' I mean the part that thinks and sends commands to the muscles. I'm referring to exactly what an everyday person means by the brain. The brain acts like a diplomat that manages the relationship between our instinctive selves and the world, successfully achieving its goal when it allows our instincts the most freedom with the least resistance. It negotiates with our instincts. It sides with them and highlights the foolishness of certain actions. It grabs them by the metaphorical coat-tails when they’re about to embarrass themselves. "Don’t chug that iced champagne all at once," it advises one instinct; "we might regret it." "Don’t punch that rude guy in the face," it warns another instinct; "he's stronger than us." It's truly a remarkable display of common sense. And yet, it also has some really strange failures. It's just like that guy—we all know him and ask him for advice—who is always a source of great, wise advice on everything but somehow can't apply that wisdom to his own life.
In the matter of its own special activities the brain is usually undisciplined and unreliable. We never know what it will do next. We give it some work to do, say, as we are walking along the street to the office. Perhaps it has to devise some scheme for making £150 suffice for £200, or perhaps it has to plan out the heads of a very important letter. We meet a pretty woman, and away that undisciplined, sagacious brain runs after her, dropping the scheme or the draft letter, and amusing itself with aspirations or regrets for half an hour, an hour, sometimes a day. The serious part of our instinctive self feebly remonstrates, but without effect. Or it may be that we have suffered a great disappointment, which is definite and hopeless. Will the brain, like a sensible creature, leave that disappointment alone, and instead of living in the past live in the present or the future? Not it! Though it knows perfectly well that it is wasting its time and casting a very painful and utterly unnecessary gloom over itself and us, it can so little control its unhealthy morbid appetite that no expostulations will induce it to behave rationally. Or perhaps, after a confabulation with the soul, it has been decided that when next a certain harmful instinct comes into play the brain shall firmly interfere. 'Yes,' says the brain, 'I really will watch that.' But when the moment arrives, is the brain on the spot? The brain has probably forgotten the affair entirely, or remembered it too late; or sighs, as the victorious instinct knocks it on the head: 'Well, next time!'
In terms of its own special activities, the brain is usually chaotic and unreliable. We never know what it will do next. We give it a task, like when we’re walking to the office. Maybe it needs to come up with a way to stretch £150 to cover £200, or maybe it has to outline an important letter. Then we see a pretty woman, and that impulsive, clever brain chases after her, abandoning the task or the draft letter, and getting lost in thoughts of desire or regret for half an hour, an hour, sometimes even a day. The more serious part of ourselves weakly protests, but it doesn’t make a difference. Or perhaps we’ve just gone through a major disappointment that feels hopeless. Will the brain, like a reasonable being, let that disappointment go and focus on the present or the future instead? Nope! Even though it knows it’s wasting time and creating unnecessary pain, it can’t control its unhealthy obsession, so no amount of reasoning will make it act sensibly. Or maybe, after discussing with the soul, it’s been decided that next time a certain negative instinct arises, the brain will step in decisively. “Yes,” says the brain, “I really will keep an eye on that.” But when the moment comes, is the brain ready? It’s probably forgotten all about it, or remembers it too late; or it sighs as the overpowering instinct takes charge: “Well, next time!”
All this, and much more that every reader can supply from his own exciting souvenirs, is absurd and ridiculous on the part of the brain. It is a conclusive proof that the brain is out of condition, idle as a nigger, capricious as an actor-manager, and eaten to the core with loose habits. Therefore the brain must be put into training. It is the most important part of the human machine by which the soul expresses and develops itself, and it must learn good habits. And primarily it must be taught obedience. Obedience can only be taught by imposing one's will, by the sheer force of volition. And the brain must be mastered by will-power. The beginning of wise living lies in the control of the brain by the will; so that the brain may act according to the precepts which the brain itself gives. With an obedient disciplined brain a man may live always right up to the standard of his best moments.
All this, along with much more that every reader can draw from their own thrilling experiences, is absurd and ridiculous when it comes to the brain. It's clear proof that the brain is out of shape, lazy, unpredictable like a temperamental actor-manager, and deeply flawed with bad habits. Therefore, the brain needs to be trained. It's the most crucial part of the human machine through which the soul expresses and develops itself, and it has to learn good habits. First and foremost, it must be taught obedience. Obedience can only be instilled by enforcing one’s will through sheer determination. The brain must be controlled by willpower. The foundation of wise living lies in the brain's ability to be governed by the will, so it can operate according to the principles it sets for itself. With a disciplined and obedient brain, a person can consistently live up to the standards of their best moments.
To teach a child obedience you tell it to do something, and you see that that something is done. The same with the brain. Here is the foundation of an efficient life and the antidote for the tendency to make a fool of oneself. It is marvellously simple. Say to your brain: 'From 9 o'clock to 9.30 this morning you must dwell without ceasing on a particular topic which I will give you.' Now, it doesn't matter what this topic is—the point is to control and invigorate the brain by exercise—but you may just as well give it a useful topic to think over as a futile one. You might give it this: 'My brain is my servant. I am not the play-thing of my brain.' Let it concentrate on these statements for thirty minutes. 'What?' you cry. 'Is this the way to an efficient life? Why, there's nothing in it!' Simple as it may appear, this is the way, and it is the only way. As for there being nothing in it, try it. I guarantee that you will fail to keep your brain concentrated on the given idea for thirty seconds—let alone thirty minutes. You will find your brain conducting itself in a manner which would be comic were it not tragic. Your first experiments will result in disheartening failure, for to exact from the brain, at will and by will, concentration on a given idea for even so short a period as half an hour is an exceedingly difficult feat—and a fatiguing! It needs perseverance. It needs a terrible obstinacy on the part of the will. That brain of yours will be hopping about all over the place, and every time it hops you must bring it back by force to its original position. You must absolutely compel it to ignore every idea except the one which you have selected for its attention. You cannot hope to triumph all at once. But you can hope to triumph. There is no royal road to the control of the brain. There is no patent dodge about it, and no complicated function which a plain person may not comprehend. It is simply a question of: 'I will, I will, and I will.' (Italics here are indispensable.)
To teach a child obedience, you tell them to do something and make sure it gets done. The same goes for the brain. This is the foundation of an efficient life and the cure for the tendency to act foolishly. It’s incredibly simple. Say to your brain: 'From 9:00 to 9:30 this morning, you must focus nonstop on a specific topic that I will provide.' It doesn't matter what this topic is—the key is to exercise and energize the brain by controlling it—but you might as well give it a meaningful topic to dwell on rather than a useless one. You could give it this: 'My brain is my servant. I am not just a toy for my brain.' Let it focus on these statements for thirty minutes. 'What?' you exclaim. 'Is this really the path to an efficient life? There’s nothing to it!' Simple as it may seem, this is the way, and it’s the only way. As for there being nothing to it, try it. I guarantee you won't be able to keep your brain focused on that idea for even thirty seconds—let alone thirty minutes. You’ll notice your brain acting out in a way that would be funny if it weren't so sad. Your initial attempts will end in disheartening failure because getting the brain to concentrate on a specific idea for even just half an hour, at will, is extremely challenging—and exhausting! It requires perseverance. It demands an incredible stubbornness from your will. Your brain will jump around all over the place, and each time it does, you have to force it back to its original focus. You must absolutely make it ignore every other thought except the one you’ve chosen for it to concentrate on. Don’t expect to succeed all at once. But you can hope to succeed. There’s no easy shortcut to controlling the brain. There’s no quick trick or complicated process that a regular person can’t understand. It’s simply a matter of: 'I will, I will, and I will.' (Italics here are essential.)
Let me resume. Efficient living, living up to one's best standard, getting the last ounce of power out of the machine with the minimum of friction: these things depend on the disciplined and vigorous condition of the brain. The brain can be disciplined by learning the habit of obedience. And it can learn the habit of obedience by the practice of concentration. Disciplinary concentration, though nothing could have the air of being simpler, is the basis of the whole structure. This fact must be grasped imaginatively; it must be seen and felt. The more regularly concentration is practised, the more firmly will the imagination grasp the effects of it, both direct and indirect. After but a few days of honest trying in the exercise which I have indicated, you will perceive its influence. You will grow accustomed to the idea, at first strange in its novelty, of the brain being external to the supreme force which is you, and in subjection to that force. You will, as a not very distant possibility, see yourself in possession of the power to switch your brain on and off in a particular subject as you switch electricity on and off in a particular room. The brain will get used to the straight paths of obedience. And—a remarkable phenomenon—it will, by the mere practice of obedience, become less forgetful and more effective. It will not so frequently give way to an instinct that takes it by surprise. In a word, it will have received a general tonic. With a brain that is improving every day you can set about the perfecting of the machine in a scientific manner.
Let me summarize. Living efficiently, reaching your highest potential, and maximizing output with minimal effort all depend on a well-disciplined and active brain. You can train your brain to be disciplined by developing the habit of obedience. This habit can be cultivated through the practice of concentration. Disciplinary concentration, although it may seem straightforward, is the foundation of everything. This concept needs to be understood on an imaginative level; it should be visualized and felt. The more you practice concentration, the better your imagination will understand its effects, both directly and indirectly. After just a few days of genuinely trying the exercises I've mentioned, you'll notice its impact. You'll become accustomed to the initially strange idea that your brain operates outside of the ultimate force that is you, and that it is subject to that force. Soon enough, you may find yourself capable of turning your brain on and off regarding specific topics, just like flipping a switch for electricity in a room. Your brain will adapt to following clear paths of obedience. And—remarkably—it will, simply through practicing obedience, become less forgetful and more efficient. It won't easily succumb to unexpected impulses. In short, it will receive a general boost. With a brain that is improving every day, you can work on refining the machine in a scientific way.
V
HABIT-FORMING BY CONCENTRATION
As soon as the will has got the upper hand of the brain—as soon as it can say to the brain, with a fair certainty of being obeyed: 'Do this. Think along these lines, and continue to do so without wandering until I give you leave to stop'—then is the time arrived when the perfecting of the human machine may be undertaken in a large and comprehensive spirit, as a city council undertakes the purification and reconstruction of a city. The tremendous possibilities of an obedient brain will be perceived immediately we begin to reflect upon what we mean by our 'character.' Now, a person's character is, and can be, nothing else but the total result of his habits of thought. A person is benevolent because he habitually thinks benevolently. A person is idle because his thoughts dwell habitually on the instant pleasures of idleness. It is true that everybody is born with certain predispositions, and that these predispositions influence very strongly the early formation of habits of thought. But the fact remains that the character is built by long-continued habits of thought. If the mature edifice of character usually shows in an exaggerated form the peculiarities of the original predisposition, this merely indicates a probability that the slow erection of the edifice has proceeded at haphazard, and that reason has not presided over it. A child may be born with a tendency to bent shoulders. If nothing is done, if on the contrary he becomes a clerk and abhors gymnastics, his shoulders will develop an excessive roundness, entirely through habit. Whereas, if his will, guided by his reason, had compelled the formation of a corrective physical habit, his shoulders might have been, if not quite straight, nearly so. Thus a physical habit! The same with a mental habit.
As soon as the will takes control over the brain—when it can confidently tell the brain, "Do this. Think this way, and keep doing it until I say you can stop"—that's when we can start refining the human machine in a big and thorough way, much like a city council works on cleaning up and rebuilding a city. The incredible potential of an obedient brain becomes clear as soon as we start thinking about what we mean by 'character.' A person's character is essentially the sum of their habits of thought. Someone is kind because they consistently think kind thoughts. Someone is lazy because they usually focus on the immediate pleasures of laziness. It's true that everyone is born with certain tendencies, and these tendencies significantly shape their early thought habits. But ultimately, character is formed by long-standing thought patterns. If the mature structure of character often amplifies the traits of the original tendencies, it simply suggests that its slow development hasn't been carefully managed and that reason hasn't had a hand in it. A child may be born with a tendency to hunch their shoulders. If nothing is done, and if, for instance, they become a desk worker and dislike exercise, their shoulders will round out excessively, purely due to habit. However, if their will, guided by reason, had prompted the development of a corrective physical habit, their shoulders could have ended up, if not perfectly straight, then certainly closer to it. So, just as with a physical habit, the same goes for a mental habit.
The more closely we examine the development of original predispositions, the more clearly we shall see that this development is not inevitable, is not a process which works itself out independently according to mysterious, ruthless laws which we cannot understand. For instance, the effect of an original predisposition may be destroyed by an accidental shock. A young man with an inherited tendency to alcohol may develop into a stern teetotaller through the shock caused by seeing his drunken father strike his mother; whereas, if his father had chanced to be affectionate in drink, the son might have ended in the gutter. No ruthless law here! It is notorious, also, that natures are sometimes completely changed in their development by chance momentary contact with natures stronger than themselves. 'From that day I resolved—' etc. You know the phrase. Often the resolve is not kept; but often it is kept. A spark has inflamed the will. The burning will has tyrannised over the brain. New habits have been formed. And the result looks just like a miracle.
The more we look into the development of our natural tendencies, the clearer it becomes that this development isn’t set in stone. It doesn’t unfold according to some mysterious, harsh laws that we can’t grasp. For example, an inherent tendency can be completely altered by an unexpected event. A young man with a genetic predisposition to alcoholism might become a strict teetotaler after witnessing his drunken father hit his mother. But if his father had been kind while drinking, the son could have ended up in a really bad place. There’s nothing inevitable about that! It’s also well-known that people can change completely due to a brief encounter with stronger personalities. “From that day I resolved—” you know how it goes. Sometimes the determination doesn’t last; but often it does. A spark ignites the will. That intense will can dominate the mind. New habits form, and the outcome can seem miraculous.
Now, if these great transformations can be brought about by accident, cannot similar transformations be brought about by a reasonable design? At any rate, if one starts to bring them about, one starts with the assurance that transformations are not impossible, since they have occurred. One starts also in the full knowledge of the influence of habit on life. Take any one of your own habits, mental or physical. You will be able to recall the time when that habit did not exist, or if it did exist it was scarcely perceptible. And you will discover that nearly all your habits have been formed unconsciously, by daily repetitions which bore no relation to a general plan, and which you practised not noticing. You will be compelled to admit that your 'character,' as it is to-day, is a structure that has been built almost without the aid of an architect; higgledy-piggledy, anyhow. But occasionally the architect did step in and design something. Here and there among your habits you will find one that you consciously and of deliberate purpose initiated and persevered with—doubtless owing to some happy influence. What is the difference between that conscious habit and the unconscious habits? None whatever as regards its effect on the sum of your character. It may be the strongest of all your habits. The only quality that differentiates it from the others is that it has a definite object (most likely a good object), and that it wholly or partially fulfils that object. There is not a man who reads these lines but has, in this detail or that, proved in himself that the will, forcing the brain to repeat the same action again and again, can modify the shape of his character as a sculptor modifies the shape of damp clay.
Now, if these major changes can happen by chance, can't similar changes come about through thoughtful planning? At the very least, if you start to make them happen, you can be confident that transformations are possible since they have already occurred. You also begin with a clear understanding of how habits influence life. Think of one of your own habits, whether mental or physical. You can probably recall a time when that habit didn’t exist, or if it did, it was barely noticeable. You’ll find that almost all your habits have formed unconsciously, through daily repetition that wasn't connected to any overall plan, and that you practiced without really noticing. You have to acknowledge that your 'character,' as it is today, is a structure that has been built almost without an architect's help; haphazard, in a sense. But sometimes, the architect did step in and design something. Here and there among your habits, you’ll discover one that you consciously and intentionally started and continued—probably because of some positive influence. What’s the difference between that conscious habit and the unconscious ones? None at all regarding its impact on your overall character. It may be the strongest of all your habits. The only thing that sets it apart is that it has a clear purpose (most likely a positive one) and that it fully or partially achieves that purpose. There isn’t a person reading this who hasn’t, in some way or another, shown himself that the will, by making the brain repeat the same action over and over, can change the shape of his character just like a sculptor reshapes damp clay.
But if a grown man's character is developing from day to day (as it is), if nine-tenths of the development is due to unconscious action and one-tenth to conscious action, and if the one-tenth conscious is the most satisfactory part of the total result; why, in the name of common sense, henceforward, should not nine-tenths, instead of one-tenth, be due to conscious action? What is there to prevent this agreeable consummation? There is nothing whatever to prevent it—except insubordination on the part of the brain. And insubordination of the brain can be cured, as I have previously shown. When I see men unhappy and inefficient in the craft of living, from sheer, crass inattention to their own development; when I see misshapen men building up businesses and empires, and never stopping to build up themselves; when I see dreary men expending precisely the same energy on teaching a dog to walk on its hind-legs as would brighten the whole colour of their own lives, I feel as if I wanted to give up the ghost, so ridiculous, so fatuous does the spectacle seem! But, of course, I do not give up the ghost. The paroxysm passes. Only I really must cry out: 'Can't you see what you're missing? Can't you see that you're missing the most interesting thing on earth, far more interesting than businesses, empires, and dogs? Doesn't it strike you how clumsy and short-sighted you are—working always with an inferior machine when you might have a smooth-gliding perfection? Doesn't it strike you how badly you are treating yourself?'
But if a man's character develops day by day (as it does), and if nine-tenths of that development comes from unconscious actions while one-tenth comes from conscious choices, and if that one-tenth is the most satisfying part of the overall outcome; then, for the love of common sense, why shouldn't nine-tenths, instead of one-tenth, come from conscious action? What’s stopping this positive change? There’s nothing at all—except for the brain’s refusal to comply. But this refusal can be corrected, as I’ve mentioned before. When I see people unhappy and unproductive in the art of living due to sheer neglect of their own growth; when I see flawed individuals building businesses and empires without ever pausing to improve themselves; when I see dreary people putting the same effort into teaching a dog to walk on its hind legs as could transform their own lives, I feel an urge to give up entirely, as the scene seems so absurd and misguided! However, of course, I don’t give up. The moment passes. But I really must shout out: 'Can’t you see what you’re missing? Can’t you realize you’re missing the most fascinating thing on earth, far more interesting than businesses, empires, and dogs? Doesn’t it strike you how clumsy and shortsighted you are—always working with a subpar machine when you could have a flawlessly functioning one? Doesn’t it hit you how poorly you’re treating yourself?'
Listen, you confirmed grumbler, you who make the evening meal hideous with complaints against destiny—for it is you I will single out. Are you aware what people are saying about you behind your back? They are saying that you render yourself and your family miserable by the habit which has grown on you of always grumbling. 'Surely it isn't as bad as that?' you protest. Yes, it is just as bad as that. You say: 'The fact is, I know it's absurd to grumble. But I'm like that. I've tried to stop it, and I can't!' How have you tried to stop it? 'Well, I've made up my mind several times to fight against it, but I never succeed. This is strictly between ourselves. I don't usually admit that I'm a grumbler.' Considering that you grumble for about an hour and a half every day of your life, it was sanguine, my dear sir, to expect to cure such a habit by means of a solitary intention, formed at intervals in the brain and then forgotten. No! You must do more than that. If you will daily fix your brain firmly for half an hour on the truth (you know it to be a truth) that grumbling is absurd and futile, your brain will henceforward begin to form a habit in that direction; it will begin to be moulded to the idea that grumbling is absurd and futile. In odd moments, when it isn't thinking of anything in particular, it will suddenly remember that grumbling is absurd and futile. When you sit down to the meal and open your mouth to say: 'I can't think what my ass of a partner means by—' it will remember that grumbling is absurd and futile, and will alter the arrangement of your throat, teeth, and tongue, so that you will say: 'What fine weather we're having!' In brief, it will remember involuntarily, by a new habit. All who look into their experience will admit that the failure to replace old habits by new ones is due to the fact that at the critical moment the brain does not remember; it simply forgets. The practice of concentration will cure that. All depends on regular concentration. This grumbling is an instance, though chosen not quite at hazard.
Listen, you consistent complainant, you who turn dinner time into a nightmare with your whining about fate—it's you I'm calling out. Do you know what people are saying about you behind your back? They're saying that you make yourself and your family miserable with your constant grumbling. “It can’t be that bad,” you insist. Actually, it is exactly that bad. You say, “I know it's ridiculous to complain, but I can’t help it. I've tried to stop, but I just can’t!” How have you tried to stop? “Well, I’ve decided several times to fight against it, but I never manage to. Just between us, I usually don’t admit that I’m a grumbler.” Given that you complain for about an hour and a half every single day, it was overly optimistic, my dear sir, to think you could break such a habit with a single intention formed sporadically in your mind and then forgotten. No! You need to do more than that. If you set aside half an hour each day to focus on the truth (which you know is true) that grumbling is pointless and ridiculous, your mind will start to build a habit in that direction; it will begin to accept that grumbling is absurd and futile. In those random moments when your mind isn’t occupied, it will suddenly recall that grumbling is absurd and futile. When you sit down to eat and are about to say, “I can’t believe what my stupid partner means by—” it will remember that grumbling is absurd and futile and will adjust your throat, teeth, and tongue so that you end up saying, “What nice weather we’re having!” In short, it will start to remember automatically, forming a new habit. Everyone who reflects on their own experiences will agree that failing to replace old habits with new ones happens because, at crucial moments, the brain doesn’t remember; it simply forgets. The practice of concentration will fix that. Everything hinges on consistent concentration. This grumbling is just one example, though not randomly chosen.
VI
LORD OVER THE NODDLE
Having proved by personal experiment the truth of the first of the two great principles which concern the human machine—namely, that the brain is a servant, not a master, and can be controlled—we may now come to the second. The second is more fundamental than the first, but it can be of no use until the first is understood and put into practice. The human machine is an apparatus of brain and muscle for enabling the Ego to develop freely in the universe by which it is surrounded, without friction. Its function is to convert the facts of the universe to the best advantage of the Ego. The facts of the universe are the material with which it is its business to deal—not the facts of an ideal universe, but the facts of this universe. Hence, when friction occurs, when the facts of the universe cease to be of advantage to the Ego, the fault is in the machine. It is not the solar system that has gone wrong, but the human machine. Second great principle, therefore: 'In case of friction, the machine is always at fault.'
Having proven through personal experience the truth of the first of the two main principles regarding the human machine—specifically, that the brain is a servant, not a master, and can be controlled—we can now discuss the second principle. The second is more fundamental than the first, but it cannot be effectively applied until the first is understood and practiced. The human machine is a system of brain and muscle that enables the Ego to grow freely in the surrounding universe, without friction. Its role is to turn the facts of the universe to the best advantage of the Ego. The facts of the universe are the material it must work with—not the facts of an ideal universe, but the facts of this universe. Therefore, when friction occurs, when the facts of the universe stop benefiting the Ego, the issue lies within the machine. It is not the solar system that is malfunctioning, but the human machine. The second great principle, then: 'In case of friction, the machine is always at fault.'
You can control nothing but your own mind. Even your two-year-old babe may defy you by the instinctive force of its personality. But your own mind you can control. Your own mind is a sacred enclosure into which nothing harmful can enter except by your permission. Your own mind has the power to transmute every external phenomenon to its own purposes. If happiness arises from cheerfulness, kindliness, and rectitude (and who will deny it?), what possible combination of circumstances is going to make you unhappy so long as the machine remains in order? If self-development consists in the utilisation of one's environment (not utilisation of somebody else's environment), how can your environment prevent you from developing? You would look rather foolish without it, anyway. In that noddle of yours is everything necessary for development, for the maintaining of dignity, for the achieving of happiness, and you are absolute lord over the noddle, will you but exercise the powers of lordship. Why worry about the contents of somebody else's noddle, in which you can be nothing but an intruder, when you may arrive at a better result, with absolute certainty, by confining your activities to your own? 'Look within.' 'The Kingdom of Heaven is within you.' 'Oh, yes!' you protest. 'All that's old. Epictetus said that. Marcus Aurelius said that. Christ said that.' They did. I admit it readily. But if you were ruffled this morning because your motor-omnibus broke down, and you had to take a cab, then so far as you are concerned these great teachers lived in vain. You, calling yourself a reasonable man, are going about dependent for your happiness, dignity, and growth, upon a thousand things over which you have no control, and the most exquisitely organised machine for ensuring happiness, dignity, and growth, is rusting away inside you. And all because you have a sort of notion that a saying said two thousand years ago cannot be practical.
You can only control your own mind. Even your two-year-old can defy you with their natural personality. But your own mind is under your control. It’s a private space that nothing harmful can enter without your permission. Your mind has the ability to change any external situation to fit its own needs. If happiness comes from being cheerful, kind, and righteous (and who would argue with that?), what combination of events could make you unhappy as long as your mind is working well? If personal growth comes from using your environment (not someone else’s), how can your surroundings stop you from developing? You’d look pretty silly without it anyway. Everything you need for growth, maintaining dignity, and achieving happiness is in that head of yours, and you are the complete master of it, as long as you use that power. Why worry about what’s going on in someone else’s head, where you can only be an outsider, when you can achieve much better results by focusing on your own? 'Look inside.' 'The Kingdom of Heaven is within you.' 'Oh, sure!' you might say. 'That’s all old news. Epictetus said that. Marcus Aurelius said that. Christ said that.' They did, and I agree. But if you were upset this morning because your bus broke down and you had to take a cab, then to you, these great thinkers have lived in vain. You, who consider yourself reasonable, are relying on countless things you can’t control for your happiness, dignity, and growth, while the incredible mechanism for achieving those things is slowly deteriorating inside you. And all because you think that something said two thousand years ago can’t be practical.
You remark sagely to your child: 'No, my child, you cannot have that moon, and you will accomplish nothing by crying for it. Now, here is this beautiful box of bricks, by means of which you may amuse yourself while learning many wonderful matters and improving your mind. You must try to be content with what you have, and to make the best of it. If you had the moon you wouldn't be any happier.' Then you lie awake half the night repining because the last post has brought a letter to the effect that 'the Board cannot entertain your application for,' etc. You say the two cases are not alike. They are not. Your child has never heard of Epictetus. On the other hand, justice is the moon. At your age you surely know that. 'But the Directors ought to have granted my application,' you insist. Exactly! I agree. But we are not in a universe of oughts. You have a special apparatus within you for dealing with a universe where oughts are flagrantly disregarded. And you are not using it. You are lying awake, keeping your wife awake, injuring your health, injuring hers, losing your dignity and your cheerfulness. Why? Because you think that these antics and performances will influence the Board? Because you think that they will put you into a better condition for dealing with your environment to-morrow? Not a bit. Simply because the machine is at fault.
You wise up your child: 'No, my child, you can’t have that moon, and crying for it won’t get you anywhere. Here’s this beautiful box of bricks, which you can use to entertain yourself while learning many amazing things and improving your mind. You need to try to be content with what you have and make the best of it. If you had the moon, you wouldn't be any happier.' Then you lie awake half the night regretting because the last letter brought news that 'the Board cannot consider your application for,' etc. You argue that the two situations aren’t the same. They’re not. Your child has never heard of Epictetus. But on the other hand, justice is the moon. At your age, you definitely know that. 'But the Directors should have accepted my application,' you insist. Exactly! I agree. But we don’t live in a universe of shoulds. You have a special ability inside you to handle a universe where shoulds are blatantly ignored. And you’re not using it. Instead, you’re lying awake, keeping your wife awake, harming your health, harming hers, losing your dignity and your happiness. Why? Because you believe that these antics will somehow influence the Board? Because you think they’ll prepare you better for dealing with your circumstances tomorrow? Not at all. It’s simply because the system is malfunctioning.
In certain cases we do make use of our machines (as well as their sad condition of neglect will allow), but in other cases we behave in an extraordinarily irrational manner. Thus if we sally out and get caught in a heavy shower we do not, unless very far gone in foolishness, sit down and curse the weather. We put up our umbrella, if we have one, and if not we hurry home. We may grumble, but it is not serious grumbling; we accept the shower as a fact of the universe, and control ourselves. Thus also, if by a sudden catastrophe we lose somebody who is important to us, we grieve, but we control ourselves, recognising one of those hazards of destiny from which not even millionaires are exempt. And the result on our Ego is usually to improve it in essential respects. But there are other strokes of destiny, other facts of the universe, against which we protest as a child protests when deprived of the moon.
In some situations, we do make use of our machines (as much as their neglected state allows), but in other situations, we act in a surprisingly irrational way. So, if we go out and get caught in a heavy downpour, we don’t, unless we’re really being foolish, just sit down and complain about the weather. We open our umbrella if we have one, and if not, we rush home. We might grumble, but it’s not serious complaining; we accept the rain as a fact of life and keep ourselves together. Similarly, if we suddenly lose someone important to us, we feel sad, but we hold it together, recognizing it as one of those risks of life that even millionaires can’t escape. Usually, this experience actually makes us better in important ways. But there are other twists of fate, other realities of life, against which we protest like a child does when they can’t have the moon.
Take the case of an individual with an imperfect idea of honesty. Now, that individual is the consequence of his father and mother and his environment, and his father and mother of theirs, and so backwards to the single-celled protoplasm. That individual is a result of the cosmic order, the inevitable product of cause and effect. We know that. We must admit that he is just as much a fact of the universe as a shower of rain or a storm at sea that swallows a ship. We freely grant in the abstract that there must be, at the present stage of evolution, a certain number of persons with unfair minds. We are quite ready to contemplate such an individual with philosophy—until it happens that, in the course of the progress of the solar system, he runs up against ourselves. Then listen to the outcry! Listen to the continual explosions of a righteous man aggrieved! The individual may be our clerk, cashier, son, father, brother, partner, wife, employer. We are ill-used! We are being treated unfairly! We kick; we scream. We nourish the inward sense of grievance that eats the core out of content. We sit down in the rain. We decline to think of umbrellas, or to run to shelter.
Take the case of someone with a flawed understanding of honesty. That person is shaped by their parents and their surroundings, and those parents are shaped by theirs, going all the way back to the single-celled protoplasm. That individual is a result of the cosmic order, the inevitable outcome of cause and effect. We understand that. We have to accept that they are just as much a part of the universe as a rainfall or a storm at sea that sinks a ship. We readily agree in theory that, at this stage of evolution, there must be a number of people with unfair perspectives. We’re completely fine with thinking about such a person philosophically—until, at some point in the solar system's journey, they come into conflict with us. Then listen to the uproar! Hear the constant outcry from an offended righteous person! That individual could be our employee, cashier, son, father, brother, partner, spouse, or boss. We feel wronged! We’re being treated unfairly! We complain; we shout. We nurture an inner sense of grievance that destroys our contentment. We sit down in the rain. We refuse to think about umbrellas or seek shelter.
We care not that that individual is a fact which the universe has been slowly manufacturing for millions of years. Our attitude implies that we want eternity to roll back and begin again, in such wise that we at any rate shall not be disturbed. Though we have a machine for the transmutation of facts into food for our growth, we do not dream of using it. But, we say, he is doing us harm! Where? In our minds. He has robbed us of our peace, our comfort, our happiness, our good temper. Even if he has, we might just as well inveigh against a shower. But has he? What was our brain doing while this naughty person stepped in and robbed us of the only possessions worth having? No, no! It is not that he has done us harm—the one cheerful item in a universe of stony facts is that no one can harm anybody except himself—it is merely that we have been silly, precisely as silly as if we had taken a seat in the rain with a folded umbrella by our side.... The machine is at fault. I fancy we are now obtaining glimpses of what that phrase really means.
We don’t care that this person is a product that the universe has been slowly creating for millions of years. Our attitude suggests we want eternity to rewind and start fresh, so we won't be disturbed. Even though we have a way to turn facts into nourishment for our growth, we don’t even think about using it. Instead, we say he’s causing us harm! Where? In our minds. He has taken away our peace, our comfort, our happiness, our good mood. Even if he has, we could just as easily complain about a rain shower. But has he? What was our brain doing while this troublesome person came in and took away the only things worth having? No, it’s not that he has harmed us—the one bright spot in a universe full of cold facts is that no one can hurt anyone else except themselves—it’s just that we’ve been foolish, exactly like if we had sat in the rain with a closed umbrella next to us. The real issue is with how we process things. I think we’re starting to get a clearer picture of what that phrase really means.
VII
WHAT 'LIVING' CHIEFLY IS
It is in intercourse—social, sentimental, or business—with one's fellows that the qualities and the condition of the human machine are put to the test and strained. That part of my life which I conduct by myself, without reference—or at any rate without direct reference—to others, I can usually manage in such a way that the gods do not positively weep at the spectacle thereof. My environment is simpler, less puzzling, when I am alone, my calm and my self-control less liable to violent fluctuations. Impossible to be disturbed by a chair! Impossible that a chair should get on one's nerves! Impossible to blame a chair for not being as reasonable, as archangelic as I am myself! But when it comes to people!... Well, that is 'living,' then! The art of life, the art of extracting all its power from the human machine, does not lie chiefly in processes of bookish-culture, nor in contemplations of the beauty and majesty of existence. It lies chiefly in keeping the peace, the whole peace, and nothing but the peace, with those with whom one is 'thrown.' Is it in sitting ecstatic over Shelley, Shakespeare, or Herbert Spencer, solitary in my room of a night, that I am 'improving myself' and learning to live? Or is it in watching over all my daily human contacts? Do not seek to escape the comparison by insinuating that I despise study, or by pointing out that the eternal verities are beyond dailiness. Nothing of the kind! I am so 'silly' about books that merely to possess them gives me pleasure. And if the verities are good for eternity they ought to be good for a day. If I cannot exchange them for daily coin—if I can't buy happiness for a single day because I've nothing less than an eternal verity about me and nobody has sufficient change—then my eternal verity is not an eternal verity. It is merely an unnegotiable bit of glass (called a diamond), or even a note on the Bank of Engraving.
It’s in interactions—whether social, emotional, or business-related—with others that the qualities and state of the human machine are truly tested and challenged. The part of my life that I handle alone, without referencing—or at least not directly referencing—others, I can usually manage in a way that doesn't make the gods weep at the sight of it. My surroundings are simpler and less confusing when I'm by myself, and my calmness and self-control are less prone to wild swings. It’s impossible to be upset by a chair! It’s impossible for a chair to get on my nerves! It’s impossible to blame a chair for not being as rational or angelic as I am! But when it comes to people!... Well, that’s what 'living' is! The art of life, the skill of maximizing all its potential from the human machine, isn't mainly about academic pursuits or contemplating the beauty and majesty of existence. It mainly lies in maintaining peace, complete peace, and nothing but peace, with those with whom we’re 'thrown.' Am I ‘improving myself’ and learning to live by sitting in awe of Shelley, Shakespeare, or Herbert Spencer, all alone in my room at night? Or is it in managing all my everyday human interactions? Don’t try to avoid the comparison by suggesting that I disdain study, or by pointing out that eternal truths are beyond the mundane. Nothing could be further from the truth! I’m so 'silly' about books that just having them brings me joy. And if the eternal truths are good for forever, they should also be good for a day. If I can't exchange them for daily currency—if I can’t buy happiness for even one day because I only have an eternal truth and no one has the right change—then my eternal truth isn’t really eternal. It’s just an unexchangeable piece of glass (called a diamond), or even a note from the Bank of Engraving.
I can say to myself when I arise in the morning: 'I am master of my brain. No one can get in there and rage about like a bull in a china shop. If my companions on the planet's crust choose to rage about they cannot affect me! I will not let them. I have power to maintain my own calm, and I will. No earthly being can force me to be false to my principles, or to be blind to the beauty of the universe, or to be gloomy, or to be irritable, or to complain against my lot. For these things depend on the brain; cheerfulness, kindliness, and honest thinking are all within the department of the brain. The disciplined brain can accomplish them. And my brain is disciplined, and I will discipline it more and more as the days pass. I am, therefore, independent of hazard, and I will back myself to conduct all intercourse as becomes a rational creature.' ... I can say this. I can ram this argument by force of will into my brain, and by dint of repeating it often enough I shall assuredly arrive at the supreme virtues of reason. I should assuredly conquer—the brain being such a machine of habit—even if I did not take the trouble to consider in the slightest degree what manner of things my fellow-men are—by acting merely in my own interests. But the way of perfection (I speak relatively) will be immensely shortened and smoothed if I do consider, dispassionately, the case of the other human machines. Thus:—
I can tell myself when I wake up in the morning: 'I am in control of my mind. No one can barge in there and throw a tantrum like a bull in a china shop. If the people around me choose to get all worked up, they can’t affect me! I won’t let them. I have the power to keep my cool, and I will. No one can force me to betray my principles, ignore the beauty of the universe, feel down, be irritable, or complain about my situation. Because these feelings depend on the mind; happiness, kindness, and clear thinking are all under the control of the mind. A disciplined mind can achieve them. And my mind is disciplined, and I will make it even more disciplined as days go by. Therefore, I am independent of random events, and I’m sure I can manage all interactions like a rational being.' ... I can affirm this. I can push this idea into my mind with sheer willpower, and by repeating it enough, I will definitely reach the highest virtues of reason. I will surely succeed—the mind being such a habitual machine—even if I don’t bother to think about what kind of people my fellow humans are—just by focusing on my own interests. But my path to perfection (relatively speaking) will be greatly shortened and made easier if I do consider, without bias, the situation of other human beings. So:—
The truth is that my attitude towards my fellows is fundamentally and totally wrong, and that it entails on my thinking machine a strain which is quite unnecessary, though I may have arranged the machine so as to withstand the strain successfully. The secret of smooth living is a calm cheerfulness which will leave me always in full possession of my reasoning faculty—in order that I may live by reason instead of by instinct and momentary passion. The secret of calm cheerfulness is kindliness; no person can be consistently cheerful and calm who does not consistently think kind thoughts. But how can I be kindly when I pass the major portion of my time in blaming the people who surround me—who are part of my environment? If I, blaming, achieve some approach to kindliness, it is only by a great and exhausting effort of self-mastery. The inmost secret, then, lies in not blaming, in not judging and emitting verdicts. Oh! I do not blame by word of mouth! I am far too advanced for such a puerility. I keep the blame in my own breast, where it festers. I am always privately forgiving, which is bad for me. Because, you know, there is nothing to forgive. I do not have to forgive bad weather; nor, if I found myself in an earthquake, should I have to forgive the earthquake.
The truth is that my attitude toward my peers is fundamentally and entirely wrong, and it puts unnecessary stress on my mind, even though I may have set up my thinking process to handle that stress successfully. The key to a smooth life is to have a calm cheerfulness that allows me to always have full control over my reasoning—so I can live by reason instead of by instinct and fleeting emotions. The key to calm cheerfulness is kindness; no one can truly be cheerful and calm if they don’t consistently think kind thoughts. But how can I be kind when I spend most of my time blaming the people around me—who are part of my environment? If I reach any form of kindness while blaming, it only happens through an exhausting effort of self-control. The deepest truth, then, lies in not blaming, not judging, and not passing judgment. Oh! I don’t blame out loud! I’m way beyond that childishness. I keep the blame inside, where it festers. I’m always privately forgiving, which is not good for me. Because, you know, there’s nothing to forgive. I don’t have to forgive bad weather; nor should I have to forgive an earthquake if I find myself in one.
All blame, uttered or unexpressed, is wrong. I do not blame myself. I can explain myself to myself. I can invariably explain myself. If I forged a friend's name on a cheque I should explain the affair quite satisfactorily to myself. And instead of blaming myself I should sympathise with myself for having been driven into such an excessively awkward corner. Let me examine honestly my mental processes, and I must admit that my attitude towards others is entirely different from my attitude towards myself. I must admit that in the seclusion of my mind, though I say not a word, I am constantly blaming others because I am not happy. Whenever I bump up against an opposing personality and my smooth progress is impeded, I secretly blame the opposer. I act as though I had shouted to the world: 'Clear out of the way, every one, for I am coming!' Every one does not clear out of the way. I did not really expect every one to clear out of the way. But I act, within, as though I had so expected. I blame. Hence kindliness, hence cheerfulness, is rendered vastly more difficult for me.
All blame, whether spoken or unspoken, is wrong. I don’t blame myself. I can explain my actions to myself. I can always explain myself. If I forged a friend’s name on a check, I would be able to explain the situation quite well to myself. Instead of blaming myself, I should feel sympathy for myself for being pushed into such an awkward situation. Let me honestly examine my thought processes, and I have to admit that my attitude toward others is completely different from how I view myself. I have to acknowledge that, in the privacy of my mind, even if I don’t say anything, I constantly blame others for my unhappiness. Whenever I encounter someone who opposes me and my smooth progress is blocked, I secretly blame that person. I act as if I had shouted to the world: 'Get out of my way, everyone, because I’m coming through!' Not everyone gets out of the way. I didn’t really expect everyone to clear my path. But internally, I act as if I did expect that. I blame. As a result, being kind and cheerful becomes much more difficult for me.
What I ought to do is this! I ought to reflect again and again, and yet again, that the beings among whom I have to steer, the living environment out of which I have to manufacture my happiness, are just as inevitable in the scheme of evolution as I am myself; have just as much right to be themselves as I have to be myself; are precisely my equals in the face of Nature; are capable of being explained as I am capable of being explained; are entitled to the same latitude as I am entitled to, and are no more responsible for their composition and their environment than I for mine. I ought to reflect again and again, and yet again, that they all deserve from me as much sympathy as I give to myself. Why not? Having thus reflected in a general manner, I ought to take one by one the individuals with whom I am brought into frequent contact, and seek, by a deliberate effort of the imagination and the reason, to understand them, to understand why they act thus and thus, what their difficulties are, what their 'explanation' is, and how friction can be avoided. So I ought to reflect, morning after morning, until my brain is saturated with the cases of these individuals. Here is a course of discipline. If I follow it I shall gradually lose the preposterous habit of blaming, and I shall have laid the foundations of that quiet, unshakable self-possession which is the indispensable preliminary of conduct according to reason, of thorough efficiency in the machine of happiness. But something in me, something distinctly base, says: 'Yes. The put-yourself-in-his-place business over again! The do-unto-others business over again!' Just so! Something in me is ashamed of being 'moral.' (You all know the feeling!) Well, morals are naught but another name for reasonable conduct; a higher and more practical form of egotism—an egotism which, while freeing others, frees myself. I have tried the lower form of egotism. And it has failed. If I am afraid of being moral, if I prefer to cut off my nose to spite my face, well, I must accept the consequences. But truth will prevail.
What I really need to do is this! I need to think over and over again that the people around me, the environment I need to create my happiness from, are just as much a part of evolution as I am; they have just as much right to be themselves as I do to be myself; they are exactly my equals in the eyes of Nature; they can be understood just as I can be understood; they deserve the same freedom that I deserve, and they are no more responsible for their nature and surroundings than I am for mine. I need to remind myself repeatedly that they all deserve from me as much understanding as I give to myself. Why not? After reflecting in a general way, I should take each individual I interact with regularly and try, through a conscious effort of imagination and reason, to understand them—why they act the way they do, what challenges they face, what their ‘explanation’ is, and how to avoid friction. So I should think about this every morning until my mind is filled with thoughts about these individuals. Here’s a way to improve myself. If I stick to it, I’ll gradually lose the silly habit of blaming others, and I’ll build up the solid, unwavering composure that’s essential for acting rationally and effectively in the machinery of happiness. But part of me, something quite low, says: ‘Yes. The put-yourself-in-his-place thing again! The do-unto-others thing again!’ Exactly! There’s a part of me that feels embarrassed about being ‘moral.’ (You all know that feeling!) Well, morals are just another way of saying reasonable behavior; a higher and more practical form of self-interest—an interest that, while liberating others, also liberates myself. I’ve tried the more selfish form of self-interest, and it hasn’t worked. If I’m scared of being moral, if I’d rather hurt myself than do the right thing, then I have to deal with the outcome. But in the end, truth will win out.
VIII
THE DAILY FRICTION
It is with common daily affairs that I am now dealing, not with heroic enterprises, ambitions, martyrdoms. Take the day, the ordinary day in the ordinary house or office. Though it comes seven times a week, and is the most banal thing imaginable, it is quite worth attention. How does the machine get through it? Ah! the best that can be said of the machine is that it does get through it, somehow. The friction, though seldom such as to bring matters to a standstill, is frequent—the sort of friction that, when it occurs in a bicycle, is just sufficient to annoy the rider, but not sufficient to make him get off the machine and examine the bearings. Occasionally the friction is very loud; indeed, disturbing, and at rarer intervals it shrieks, like an omnibus brake out of order. You know those days when you have the sensation that life is not large enough to contain the household or the office-staff, when the business of intercourse may be compared to the manoeuvres of two people who, having awakened with a bad headache, are obliged to dress simultaneously in a very small bedroom. 'After you with that towel!' in accents of bitter, grinding politeness. 'If you could kindly move your things off this chair!' in a voice that would blow brains out if it were a bullet. I venture to say that you know those days. 'But,' you reply, 'such days are few. Usually...!' Well, usually, the friction, though less intense, is still proceeding. We grow accustomed to it. We scarcely notice it, as a person in a stuffy chamber will scarcely notice the stuffiness. But the deteriorating influence due to friction goes on, even if unperceived. And one morning we perceive its ravages—and write a letter to the Telegraph to inquire whether life is worth living, or whether marriage is a failure, or whether men are more polite than women. The proof that friction, in various and varying degrees, is practically conscious in most households lies in the fact that when we chance on a household where there is no friction we are startled. We can't recover from the phenomenon. And in describing this household to our friends, we say: 'They get on so well together,' as if we were saying: 'They have wings and can fly! Just fancy! Did you ever hear of such a thing?'
It’s the everyday things I’m dealing with now, not grand adventures, ambitions, or sacrifices. Take a regular day in a typical house or office. Even though it happens seven days a week and seems completely dull, it really deserves some attention. How does the machine get through it? The best thing to say about the machine is that it somehow manages to keep going. There’s friction, which rarely stops everything but happens often—the kind of friction that, when it occurs in a bike, is just annoying enough to bother the rider without making them get off and check the parts. Sometimes the friction is very loud; it can be quite disturbing, and occasionally it screams, like a bus brake that’s not working. You know those days when it feels like life isn’t big enough to accommodate your household or office staff, when interacting is like two people, both nursing a bad headache, trying to get dressed in a tiny bedroom. “After you with that towel!” in a tone of bitter politeness. “Could you please move your stuff off this chair!” in a voice that could explode heads if it were a bullet. I bet you know those days. “But,” you say, “those days are rare. Usually...!” Well, usually, the friction, while less intense, is still there. We get used to it. We hardly notice it, like someone in a stuffy room barely noticing the stuffiness. But the negative impact from the friction continues, even if we don’t see it. And one morning, we notice its effects—and write a letter to the Telegraph to ask if life is worth living, or whether marriage is a failure, or if men are more polite than women. The proof that friction, in all its forms, is pretty obvious in most households is that when we come across a home with no friction, we’re shocked. We can’t get over it. And when we describe this household to our friends, we say: “They get along so well!” as if we were saying: “They can fly! Can you believe it? Have you ever heard of such a thing?”
Ninety per cent. of all daily friction is caused by tone—mere tone of voice. Try this experiment. Say: 'Oh, you little darling, you sweet pet, you entirely charming creature!' to a baby or a dog; but roar these delightful epithets in the tone of saying: 'You infernal little nuisance! If I hear another sound I'll break every bone in your body!' The baby will infallibly whimper, and the dog will infallibly mouch off. True, a dog is not a human being, neither is a baby. They cannot understand. It is precisely because they cannot understand and articulate words that the experiment is valuable; for it separates the effect of the tone from the effect of the word spoken. He who speaks, speaks twice. His words convey his thought, and his tone conveys his mental attitude towards the person spoken to. And certainly the attitude, so far as friction goes, is more important than the thought. Your wife may say to you: 'I shall buy that hat I spoke to you about.' And you may reply, quite sincerely, 'As you please.' But it will depend on your tone whether you convey: 'As you please. I am sympathetically anxious that your innocent caprices should be indulged.' Or whether you convey: 'As you please. Only don't bother me with hats. I am above hats. A great deal too much money is spent in this house on hats. However, I'm helpless!' Or whether you convey: 'As you please, heart of my heart, but if you would like to be a nice girl, go gently. We're rather tight.' I need not elaborate. I am sure of being comprehended.
Ninety percent of all daily conflicts come from tone—just the tone of voice. Try this experiment. Say: 'Oh, you little darling, you sweet pet, you totally charming creature!' to a baby or a dog; but shout these nice words in the tone of saying: 'You annoying little pest! If I hear another sound, I'll break every bone in your body!' The baby will likely start to cry, and the dog will definitely run away. True, a dog isn't a human being, and neither is a baby. They can’t understand. It's exactly because they can't understand and articulate words that the experiment is valuable; it separates the effect of the tone from the effect of the words spoken. The speaker communicates twice. Their words express their thoughts, and their tone reflects their attitude toward the person they’re talking to. And certainly, the attitude, as far as conflict goes, is more important than the thought. Your wife might say to you: 'I’m going to buy that hat I told you about.' And you might reply, completely sincerely, 'As you wish.' But it will depend on your tone whether you come across as: 'As you wish. I'm genuinely concerned that your innocent whims are accommodated.' Or whether you sound like: 'As you wish. Just don’t bother me with hats. I’m above hats. Too much money is spent in this house on hats. Anyway, I’m powerless!' Or whether you express: 'As you wish, my love, but if you want to be nice, take it easy. We're a bit tight on money.' I don’t need to explain further. I’m sure you get it.
As tone is the expression of attitude, it is, of course, caused by attitude. The frictional tone is chiefly due to that general attitude of blame which I have already condemned as being absurd and unjustifiable. As, by constant watchful discipline, we gradually lose this silly attitude of blame, so the tone will of itself gradually change. But the two ameliorations can proceed together, and it is a curious thing that an agreeable tone, artificially and deliberately adopted, will influence the mental attitude almost as much as the mental attitude will influence the tone. If you honestly feel resentful against some one, but, having understood the foolishness of fury, intentionally mask your fury under a persuasive tone, your fury will at once begin to abate. You will be led into a rational train of thought; you will see that after all the object of your resentment has a right to exist, and that he is neither a doormat nor a scoundrel, and that anyhow nothing is to be gained, and much is to be lost, by fury. You will see that fury is unworthy of you.
As tone reflects our attitude, it’s naturally influenced by our attitude. The negative tone mainly comes from that overall blameful attitude I've already pointed out as unreasonable and unjust. As we consistently work to overcome this silly blame mentality, the tone will gradually change on its own. However, both improvements can happen at the same time, and it’s interesting that adopting a positive tone intentionally can impact your mindset almost as much as your mindset affects your tone. If you genuinely feel angry at someone, but, realizing the foolishness of that anger, you deliberately cover it up with a friendly tone, your anger will start to fade. You’ll begin to think more logically; you’ll recognize that the person you’re mad at has a right to be who they are, and that they’re neither a pushover nor a villain. Plus, you’ll realize that being angry helps nothing and only leads to more trouble. You’ll see that anger doesn’t really suit you.
Do you remember the gentleness of the tone which you employed after the healing of your first quarrel with a beloved companion? Do you remember the persuasive tone which you used when you wanted to obtain something from a difficult person on whom your happiness depended? Why should not your tone always combine these qualities? Why should you not carefully school your tone? Is it beneath you to ensure the largest possible amount of your own 'way' by the simplest means? Or is there at the back of your mind that peculiarly English and German idea that politeness, sympathy, and respect for another immortal soul would imply deplorable weakness on your part? You say that your happiness does not depend on every person whom you happen to speak to. Yes, it does. Your happiness is always dependent on just that person. Produce friction, and you suffer. Idle to argue that the person has no business to be upset by your tone! You have caused avoidable friction, simply because your machine for dealing with your environment was suffering from pride, ignorance, or thoughtlessness. You say I am making a mountain out of a mole-hill. No! I am making a mountain out of ten million mole-hills. And that is what life does. It is the little but continuous causes that have great effects. I repeat: Why not deliberately adopt a gentle, persuasive tone—just to see what the results are? Surely you are not ashamed to be wise. You may smile superiorly as you read this. Yet you know very well that more than once you have resolved to use a gentle and persuasive tone on all occasions, and that the sole reason why you had that fearful shindy yesterday with your cousin's sister-in-law was that you had long since failed to keep your resolve. But you were of my mind once, and more than once.
Do you remember the gentle tone you used after healing your first fight with a close friend? Do you recall the persuasive tone you adopted when you wanted something from a difficult person upon whom your happiness relied? Why shouldn’t your tone always combine those qualities? Why not train yourself to use your tone carefully? Is it beneath you to ensure the best chance of getting your way by the simplest means? Or do you secretly hold that distinctly English and German belief that being polite, sympathetic, and respectful toward another person would show weakness on your part? You say your happiness doesn't hinge on every person you talk to. Yes, it does. Your happiness is always influenced by that person. Create friction, and you'll suffer. It's pointless to argue that the person shouldn't be upset by your tone! You've caused unnecessary friction simply because your approach to dealing with your environment was affected by pride, ignorance, or thoughtlessness. You say I'm making a big deal out of nothing. No! I’m making a big deal out of countless small issues. And that’s what life does. It's the little but consistent causes that lead to significant effects. I repeat: Why not intentionally use a gentle, persuasive tone—just to see what happens? Surely, you’re not embarrassed to be wise. You might smirk as you read this. Yet you know very well that more than once you have resolved to maintain a gentle and persuasive tone at all times, and that the only reason you had that big argument yesterday with your cousin's sister-in-law was that you had long since broken that promise. But you once shared my perspective, and more than once.
What you have to do is to teach the new habit to your brain by daily concentration on it; by forcing your brain to think of nothing else for half an hour of a morning. After a time the brain will begin to remember automatically. For, of course, the explanation of your previous failures is that your brain, undisciplined, merely forgot at the critical moment. The tone was out of your mouth before your brain had waked up. It is necessary to watch, as though you were a sentinel, not only against the wrong tone, but against the other symptoms of the attitude of blame. Such as the frown. It is necessary to regard yourself constantly, and in minute detail. You lie in bed for half an hour and enthusiastically concentrate on this beautiful new scheme of the right tone. You rise, and because you don't achieve a proper elegance of necktie at the first knotting, you frown and swear and clench your teeth! There is a symptom of the wrong attitude towards your environment. You are awake, but your brain isn't. It is in such a symptom that you may judge yourself. And not a trifling symptom either! If you will frown at a necktie, if you will use language to a necktie which no gentleman should use to a necktie, what will you be capable of to a responsible being?... Yes, it is very difficult. But it can be done.
What you need to do is train your brain to adopt the new habit by focusing on it daily; by making your brain think of nothing else for half an hour each morning. After a while, your brain will start to remember it automatically. The reason for your past failures is that your brain, not being disciplined, simply forgot at the crucial moment. The tone slipped out of your mouth before your brain even woke up. You need to keep a close watch, like a guard, not just against the wrong tone, but also against other signs of a blameful attitude, like frowning. It’s essential to pay attention to yourself constantly and in fine detail. You lie in bed for half an hour, enthusiastically focusing on this wonderful new plan for the right tone. You get up, and because you don’t manage to tie your necktie perfectly on the first try, you frown, curse, and grind your teeth! That’s a sign of the wrong attitude toward your surroundings. You might be awake, but your brain isn't. It's in such moments that you can evaluate yourself. And it's not a minor indicator either! If you frown at a necktie, if you talk to a necktie in a way no gentleman should, what will you do to a fellow human being?... Yes, it’s very challenging. But it can be achieved.
IX
'FIRE!'
In this business of daily living, of ordinary usage of the machine in hourly intercourse, there occurs sometimes a phenomenon which is the cause of a great deal of trouble, and the result of a very ill-tended machine. It is a phenomenon impossible to ignore, and yet, so shameful is it, so degrading, so shocking, so miserable, that I hesitate to mention it. For one class of reader is certain to ridicule me, loftily saying: 'One really doesn't expect to find this sort of thing in print nowadays!' And another class of reader is certain to get angry. Nevertheless, as one of my main objects in the present book is to discuss matters which 'people don't talk about,' I shall discuss this matter. But my diffidence in doing so is such that I must approach it deviously, describing it first by means of a figure.
In this daily grind of life, in the typical use of the machine during our hourly interactions, there sometimes arises a phenomenon that causes a lot of trouble and stems from a poorly maintained machine. It's something impossible to overlook, yet it's so shameful, so demeaning, so shocking, and so miserable that I hesitate to bring it up. One group of readers will surely mock me, saying, "You really don’t expect to see this kind of thing in print these days!" Meanwhile, another group is bound to be offended. Still, since one of my main goals in this book is to tackle topics that "people don’t discuss," I will address this issue. However, I'm so uneasy about it that I feel the need to approach it indirectly, using a metaphor to describe it first.
Imagine that, looking at a man's house, you suddenly perceive it to be on fire. The flame is scarcely perceptible. You could put it out if you had a free hand. But you have not got a free hand. It is his house, not yours. He may or may not know that his house is burning. You are aware, by experience, however, that if you directed his attention to the flame, the effect of your warning would be exceedingly singular, almost incredible. For the effect would be that he would instantly begin to strike matches, pour on petroleum, and fan the flame, violently resenting interference. Therefore you can only stand and watch, hoping that he will notice the flames before they are beyond control, and extinguish them. The probability is, however, that he will notice the flames too late. And powerless to avert disaster, you are condemned, therefore, to watch the damage of valuable property. The flames leap higher and higher, and they do not die down till they have burned themselves out. You avert your gaze from the spectacle, and until you are gone the owner of the house pretends that nothing has occurred. When alone he curses himself for his carelessness.
Imagine looking at a man's house and suddenly realizing it's on fire. The flames are barely noticeable. You could extinguish them if you had a free hand. But you don't; it's his house, not yours. He might or might not know it's burning. However, you know from experience that if you point out the flames to him, the result would be shockingly strange, almost unbelievable. He would immediately start striking matches, pouring on gasoline, and fanning the flames, angrily resisting any interference. So, you can only stand by and hope he sees the fire before it gets out of control and is able to put it out. The likelihood, though, is that he will notice it too late. Helpless to prevent the disaster, you are forced to watch valuable property get damaged. The flames rise higher and higher, and they won’t die down until they burn themselves out. You turn away from the scene, and until you leave, the homeowner pretends nothing has happened. Alone, he curses himself for being careless.
The foregoing is meant to be a description of what happens when a man passes through the incendiary experience known as 'losing his temper.' (There! the cat of my chapter is out of the bag!) A man who has lost his temper is simply being 'burnt out.' His constitutes one of the most curious and (for everybody) humiliating spectacles that life offers. It is an insurrection, a boiling over, a sweeping storm. Dignity, common sense, justice are shrivelled up and destroyed. Anarchy reigns. The devil has broken his chain. Instinct is stamping on the face of reason. And in that man civilisation has temporarily receded millions of years. Of course, the thing amounts to a nervous disease, and I think it is almost universal. You at once protest that you never lose your temper—haven't lost your temper for ages! But do you not mean that you have not smashed furniture for ages? These fires are of varying intensities. Some of them burn very dully. Yet they burn. One man loses his temper; another is merely 'ruffled.' But the event is the same in kind. When you are 'ruffled,' when you are conscious of a resentful vibration that surprises all your being, when your voice changes, when you notice a change in the demeanour of your companion, who sees that he has 'touched a tender point,' you may not go to the length of smashing furniture, but you have had a fire, and your dignity is damaged. You admit it to yourself afterwards. I am sure you know what I mean. And I am nearly sure that you, with your courageous candour, will admit that from time to time you suffer from these mysterious 'fires.'
The above is meant to describe what happens when a man goes through the explosive experience known as 'losing his temper.' (There! The secret of my chapter is out!) A man who has lost his temper is simply being 'burnt out.' This is one of the most curious and (for everyone) embarrassing sights that life offers. It’s an uprising, an eruption, a wild storm. Dignity, common sense, and justice are shriveled up and destroyed. Chaos reigns. The devil has broken free. Instinct is trampling on reason. In that moment, civilization has temporarily slid back millions of years. Of course, this is essentially a nervous condition, and I believe it is almost universal. You might immediately protest that you never lose your temper—haven't lost it in ages! But don’t you mean you haven’t broken any furniture in ages? These tempests vary in intensity. Some burn very slowly. Yet they burn. One person loses his temper; another is just 'ruffled.' But the event is the same in essence. When you are 'ruffled,' when you feel a resentful tension that shocks your entire being, when your voice changes, and you notice a shift in your companion's behavior, who realizes he has 'hit a nerve,' you may not go so far as to break furniture, but you’ve still had a fire, and your dignity has taken a hit. You acknowledge this to yourself later. I’m sure you know what I mean. And I am almost certain that you, with your brave honesty, will concede that from time to time you experience these mysterious 'fires.'
'Temper,' one of the plagues of human society, is generally held to be incurable, save by the vague process of exercising self-control—a process which seldom has any beneficial results. It is regarded now as smallpox used to be regarded—as a visitation of Providence, which must be borne. But I do not hold it to be incurable. I am convinced that it is permanently curable. And its eminent importance as a nuisance to mankind at large deserves, I think, that it should receive particular attention. Anyhow, I am strongly against the visitation of Providence theory, as being unscientific, primitive, and conducive to unashamed laissez-aller. A man can be master in his own house. If he cannot be master by simple force of will, he can be master by ruse and wile. I would employ cleverness to maintain the throne of reason when it is likely to be upset in the mind by one of these devastating and disgraceful insurrections of brute instinct.
'Temper,' one of the issues in human society, is generally thought to be incurable, except through the vague process of practicing self-control—a process that rarely yields positive results. It's seen now like smallpox used to be viewed—as a punishment from above that must be endured. But I don't believe it can't be cured. I'm convinced it can be permanently cured. Its significant nuisance to humanity as a whole deserves, in my opinion, special attention. In any case, I'm strongly opposed to the theory of divine punishment, as it's unscientific, primitive, and leads to unrestrained behavior. A person can be in charge of their own life. If they can't do so purely by willpower, they can outsmart and trick their way to it. I would use cleverness to keep reason in control when it's likely to be disrupted by one of these destructive and shameful outbursts of raw instinct.
It is useless for a man in the habit of losing or mislaying his temper to argue with himself that such a proceeding is folly, that it serves no end, and does nothing but harm. It is useless for him to argue that in allowing his temper to stray he is probably guilty of cruelty, and certainly guilty of injustice to those persons who are forced to witness the loss. It is useless for him to argue that a man of uncertain temper in a house is like a man who goes about a house with a loaded revolver sticking from his pocket, and that all considerations of fairness and reason have to be subordinated in that house to the fear of the revolver, and that such peace as is maintained in that house is often a shameful and an unjust peace. These arguments will not be strong enough to prevail against one of the most powerful and capricious of all habits. This habit must be met and conquered (and it can be!) by an even more powerful quality in the human mind; I mean the universal human horror of looking ridiculous. The man who loses his temper often thinks he is doing something rather fine and majestic. On the contrary, so far is this from being the fact, he is merely making an ass of himself. He is merely parading himself as an undignified fool, as that supremely contemptible figure—a grown-up baby. He may intimidate a feeble companion by his raging, or by the dark sullenness of a more subdued flame, but in the heart of even the weakest companion is a bedrock feeling of contempt for him. The way in which a man of uncertain temper is treated by his friends proves that they despise him, for they do not treat him as a reasonable being. How should they treat him as a reasonable being when the tenure of his reason is so insecure? And if only he could hear what is said of him behind his back!...
It’s pointless for someone who often loses their temper to argue with themselves that it’s foolish, that it serves no purpose, and only causes harm. It doesn't help to think that by letting their temper run wild, they're being cruel and definitely unfair to those who have to witness it. It’s useless to point out that someone with a volatile temper in a household is like someone walking around with a loaded gun in their pocket, where all ideas of fairness and logic are overshadowed by the fear of that gun, and that any peace in that home is often a shameful and unjust peace. These arguments won’t be strong enough to overcome one of the most powerful and unpredictable habits. This habit must be challenged and defeated (and it can be!) by an even more potent quality of the human mind: the universal fear of looking ridiculous. A person who loses their temper often believes they’re doing something impressive and grand. In reality, they’re just making a fool of themselves. They’re simply acting like an undignified idiot, like that truly unappealing figure—a grown-up baby. They might scare a weaker companion with their anger or the dark gloom of a more controlled rage, but deep down, even the weakest companion feels a solid sense of contempt for them. The way friends treat someone with a volatile temper shows that they look down on them, as they don’t treat them like a rational being. Why would they treat them as rational when their grip on reason is so shaky? And if only they could hear what people say about them behind their back!...
The invalid can cure himself by teaching his brain the habit of dwelling upon his extreme fatuity. Let him concentrate regularly, with intense fixation, upon the ideas: 'When I lose my temper, when I get ruffled, when that mysterious vibration runs through me, I am making a donkey of myself, a donkey, and a donkey! You understand, a preposterous donkey! I am behaving like a great baby. I look a fool. I am a spectacle bereft of dignity. Everybody despises me, smiles at me in secret, disdains the idiotic ass with whom it is impossible to reason.'
The person with a disability can heal by training their mind to focus on their own foolishness. They should regularly concentrate intensely on these thoughts: 'When I lose my cool, when I get upset, when that strange feeling comes over me, I'm making a fool of myself, a complete fool! You get it, a ridiculous fool! I'm acting like a big baby. I look silly. I'm a sight without any dignity. Everyone looks down on me, secretly laughs at me, and thinks poorly of the foolish person who can't be reasoned with.'
Ordinarily the invalid disguises from himself this aspect of his disease, and his brain will instinctively avoid it as much as it can. But in hours of calm he can slowly and regularly force his brain, by the practice of concentration, to familiarise itself with just this aspect, so that in time its instinct will be to think first, and not last, of just this aspect. When he has arrived at that point he is saved. No man who, at the very inception of the fire, is visited with a clear vision of himself as an arrant ass and pitiable object of contempt, will lack the volition to put the fire out. But, be it noted, he will not succeed until he can do it at once. A fire is a fire, and the engines must gallop by themselves out of the station instantly. This means the acquirement of a mental habit. During the preliminary stages of the cure he should, of course, avoid inflammable situations. This is a perfectly simple thing to do, if the brain has been disciplined out of its natural forgetfulness.
Usually, the sick person hides this part of his illness from himself, and his mind will instinctively try to avoid it as much as possible. But during calm moments, he can gradually and consistently train his mind, through concentration, to become familiar with this very aspect, so that eventually his instinct will be to think about it first, not last. Once he reaches that point, he is saved. No one who, at the very start of a problem, clearly sees himself as a complete fool and a pitiable object of scorn will lack the drive to fix the issue. However, it's important to note that he won't succeed until he can act immediately. A fire is a fire, and the fire trucks must rush out of the station instantly. This requires developing a mental habit. During the early stages of recovery, he should, of course, avoid triggering situations. This is perfectly simple to do if the mind has been trained to overcome its natural tendency to forget.
X
MISCHIEVOUSLY OVERWORKING IT
I have dealt with the two general major causes of friction in the daily use of the machine. I will now deal with a minor cause, and make an end of mere dailiness. This minor cause—and after all I do not know that its results are so trifling as to justify the epithet 'minor'—is the straining of the machine by forcing it to do work which it was never intended to do. Although we are incapable of persuading our machines to do effectively that which they are bound to do somehow, we continually overburden them with entirely unnecessary and inept tasks. We cannot, it would seem, let things alone.
I’ve talked about the two main causes of friction in the daily operation of the machine. Now, I’ll address a minor cause and wrap up the daily issues. This minor cause—and honestly, I’m not sure its effects are trivial enough to call it 'minor'—is the strain on the machine from pushing it to perform tasks it was never designed for. Even though we can’t get our machines to do what they should do efficiently, we keep piling on unnecessary and unfit tasks. It seems we just can’t leave things be.
For example, in the ordinary household the amount of machine horse-power expended in fighting for the truth is really quite absurd. This pure zeal for the establishment and general admission of the truth is usually termed 'contradictoriness.' But, of course, it is not that; it is something higher. My wife states that the Joneses have gone into a new flat, of which the rent is £165 a year. Now, Jones has told me personally that the rent of his new flat is £156 a year. I correct my wife. Knowing that she is in the right, she corrects me. She cannot bear that a falsehood should prevail. It is not a question of £9, it is a question of truth. Her enthusiasm for truth excites my enthusiasm for truth. Five minutes ago I didn't care twopence whether the rent of the Joneses' new flat was £165 or £156 or £1056 a year. But now I care intensely that it is £156. I have formed myself into a select society for the propagating of the truth about the rent of the Joneses' new flat, and my wife has done the same. In eloquence, in argumentative skill, in strict supervision of our tempers, we each of us squander enormous quantities of that h.-p. which is so precious to us. And the net effect is naught.
For example, in a typical household, the amount of effort put into fighting for the truth is really quite ridiculous. This pure drive for establishing and recognizing the truth is usually called 'being contradictory.' But really, it's something more significant. My wife says that the Joneses have moved into a new apartment, which costs £165 a year. However, Jones has told me personally that his new apartment costs £156 a year. I correct my wife. Knowing that she's right, she corrects me. She can't stand that a falsehood should prevail. It's not about the £9 difference; it's about the truth. Her passion for truth sparks my passion for truth. Five minutes ago, I didn't care at all whether the rent of the Joneses' new apartment was £165, £156, or even £1056 a year. But now I intensely care that it's £156. I've formed my own little group dedicated to spreading the truth about the rent of the Joneses' new apartment, and my wife has done the same. In our eloquence, argumentative skills, and careful control of our tempers, we both waste enormous amounts of that energy which is so valuable to us. And the result is nothing.
Now, if one of us two had understood the elementary principles of human engineering, that one would have said (privately): 'Truth is indestructible. Truth will out. Truth is never in a hurry. If it doesn't come out to-day it will come out to-morrow or next year. It can take care of itself. Ultimately my wife (or my husband) will learn the essential cosmic truth about the rent of the Joneses' new flat. I already know it, and the moment when she (or he) knows it also will be the moment of my triumph. She (or he) will not celebrate my triumph openly, but it will be none the less real. And my reputation for accuracy and calm restraint will be consolidated. If, by a rare mischance, I am in error, it will be vastly better for me in the day of my undoing that I have not been too positive now. Besides, nobody has appointed me sole custodian of the great truth concerning the rent of the Joneses' new flat. I was not brought into the world to be a safe-deposit, and more urgent matters summon me to effort.' If one of us had meditated thus, much needless friction would have been avoided and power saved; amour-propre would not have been exposed to risks; the sacred cause of truth would not in the least have suffered; and the rent of the Joneses' new flat would anyhow have remained exactly what it is.
Now, if one of us had grasped the basic principles of human behavior, that person would have thought (to themselves): 'Truth is indestructible. Truth will come out. Truth is never in a rush. If it doesn't come out today, it will come out tomorrow or next year. It can handle itself. Eventually, my spouse will discover the essential truth about the rent of the Joneses' new apartment. I already know it, and the moment they find out will be my moment of victory. They won’t celebrate my victory publicly, but it will still be valid. And my reputation for being accurate and calm will be strengthened. If, by some rare mistake, I'm wrong, it will be much better for me when my downfall comes that I haven't been overly certain now. Besides, no one has made me the sole keeper of the big truth about the rent of the Joneses' new apartment. I wasn't brought into this world to be a vault, and more pressing matters require my attention.' If one of us had thought this way, a lot of unnecessary conflict would have been avoided, and energy saved; self-esteem wouldn’t have been put at risk; the noble cause of truth wouldn’t have suffered at all; and the rent of the Joneses' new apartment would still be exactly what it is.
In addition to straining the machine by our excessive anxiety for the spread of truth, we give a very great deal too much attention to the state of other people's machines. I cannot too strongly, too sarcastically, deprecate this astonishing habit. It will be found to be rife in nearly every household and in nearly every office. We are most of us endeavouring to rearrange the mechanism in other heads than our own. This is always dangerous and generally futile. Considering the difficulty we have in our own brains, where our efforts are sure of being accepted as well-meant, and where we have at any rate a rough notion of the machine's construction, our intrepidity in adventuring among the delicate adjustments of other brains is remarkable. We are cursed by too much of the missionary spirit. We must needs voyage into the China of our brother's brain, and explain there that things are seriously wrong in that heathen land, and make ourselves unpleasant in the hope of getting them put right. We have all our own brain and body on which to wreak our personality, but this is not enough; we must extend our personality further, just as though we were a colonising world-power intoxicated by the idea of the 'white man's burden.'
In addition to putting a strain on ourselves with our excessive anxiety about spreading the truth, we pay way too much attention to how other people's minds work. I can't stress enough how ridiculous this habit is. You’ll find it common in nearly every household and office. Most of us are trying to fix the way others think instead of focusing on ourselves. This is always risky and usually pointless. Given how tough it is to manage our own thoughts, where our efforts are at least seen as well-intentioned and we have some idea of how our own minds work, it’s surprising how daring we are when we poke around in other people's minds. We suffer from having too much of a missionary mindset. We feel compelled to explore the "China" of someone else’s brain and point out that things are seriously messed up in that "heathen" land, making things uncomfortable in the hope of fixing them. We each have our own mind and body to express ourselves, but that’s not enough; we need to reach out and impose our views on others, just like a colonial power obsessed with the idea of the "white man's burden."
One of the central secrets of efficient daily living is to leave our daily companions alone a great deal more than we do, and attend to ourselves. If a daily companion is conducting his life upon principles which you know to be false, and with results which you feel to be unpleasant, the safe rule is to keep your mouth shut. Or if, out of your singular conceit, you are compelled to open it, open it with all precautions, and with the formal politeness you would use to a stranger. Intimacy is no excuse for rough manners, though the majority of us seem to think it is. You are not in charge of the universe; you are in charge of yourself. You cannot hope to manage the universe in your spare time, and if you try you will probably make a mess of such part of the universe as you touch, while gravely neglecting yourself. In every family there is generally some one whose meddlesome interest in other machines leads to serious friction in his own. Criticise less, even in the secrecy of your chamber. And do not blame at all. Accept your environment and adapt yourself to it in silence, instead of noisily attempting to adapt your environment to yourself. Here is true wisdom. You have no business trespassing beyond the confines of your own individuality. In so trespassing you are guilty of impertinence. This is obvious. And yet one of the chief activities of home-life consists in prancing about at random on other people's private lawns. What I say applies even to the relation between parents and children. And though my precept is exaggerated, it is purposely exaggerated in order effectively to balance the exaggeration in the opposite direction.
One of the key secrets to living effectively every day is to leave our daily companions alone much more than we do and focus on ourselves. If a daily companion is living by values that you know are false and with outcomes that you find unpleasant, the best rule is to keep quiet. Or if your ego compels you to speak up, do so with caution and with the formal politeness you would use with a stranger. Being close to someone doesn’t excuse bad manners, even though most of us seem to think it does. You are not in charge of the universe; you are in charge of yourself. You can't hope to manage the universe in your free time, and if you try, you'll probably mess up whatever part of the universe you engage with, while seriously neglecting yourself. In every family, there’s usually someone whose meddling interest in other people's lives causes serious tension at home. Criticize less, even in the privacy of your room. And don't blame at all. Accept your surroundings and adapt to them quietly, instead of loudly trying to change your environment to suit you. This is true wisdom. You have no right to overstep your own individuality. By doing so, you're being rude. This is clear. Yet, one of the main activities of family life often involves wandering around on other people's private space. What I’m saying applies even to the relationship between parents and children. And while my advice may seem extreme, it's intentionally exaggerated to effectively counterbalance the opposite exaggeration.
All individualities, other than one's own, are part of one's environment. The evolutionary process is going on all right, and they are a portion of it. Treat them as inevitable. To assert that they are inevitable is not to assert that they are unalterable. Only the alteration of them is not primarily your affair; it is theirs. Your affair is to use them, as they are, without self-righteousness, blame, or complaint, for the smooth furtherance of your own ends. There is no intention here to rob them of responsibility by depriving them of free-will while saddling you with responsibility as a free agent. As your environment they must be accepted as inevitable, because they are inevitable. But as centres themselves they have their own responsibility: which is not yours. The historic question: 'Have we free-will, or are we the puppets of determinism?' enters now. As a question it is fascinating and futile. It has never been, and it never will be, settled. The theory of determinism cannot be demolished by argument. But in his heart every man, including the most obstinate supporter of the theory, demolishes it every hour of every day. On the other hand, the theory of free-will can be demolished by ratiocination! So much the worse for ratiocination! If we regard ourselves as free agents, and the personalities surrounding us as the puppets of determinism, we shall have arrived at the working compromise from which the finest results of living can be obtained. The philosophic experience of centuries, if it has proved anything, has proved this. And the man who acts upon it in the common, banal contracts and collisions of the difficult experiment which we call daily life, will speedily become convinced of its practical worth.
All individualities, aside from your own, are part of your environment. The evolutionary process is happening as it should, and they are a part of it. Treat them as unavoidable. Saying they are unavoidable doesn’t mean they can’t change. However, changing them isn’t mainly your responsibility; it’s theirs. Your responsibility is to use them as they are, without self-righteousness, blame, or complaint, to smoothly advance your own goals. There’s no intention here to take away their responsibility by denying them free will while placing the burden of responsibility on you as a free agent. As your environment, they must be accepted as inevitable, because they are indeed inevitable. But as individuals, they have their own responsibility, which is not yours. The age-old question: 'Do we have free will, or are we just puppets of determinism?' comes into play now. As a question, it’s intriguing yet pointless. It has never been resolved and never will be. The theory of determinism can't be destroyed by debate. Yet deep down, everyone, including the most stubborn supporter of the theory, dismantles it every hour of every day. On the flip side, the theory of free will can be challenged through reasoning! So much for reasoning! If we see ourselves as free agents and the people around us as the puppets of determinism, we will have reached a workable compromise that can yield the best results in life. The philosophical insights of centuries, if they've demonstrated anything, have shown this. And anyone who operates on this principle in the everyday challenges and interactions of our daily lives will quickly realize its practical value.
XI
AN INTERLUDE
For ten chapters you have stood it, but not without protest. I know the feeling which is in your minds, and which has manifested itself in numerous criticisms of my ideas. That feeling may be briefly translated, perhaps, thus: 'This is all very well, but it isn't true, not a bit! It's only a fairy-tale that you have been telling us. Miracles don't happen,' etc. I, on my part, have a feeling that unless I take your feeling in hand at once, and firmly deal with it, I had better put my shutters up, for you will have got into the way of regarding me simply as a source of idle amusement. Already I can perceive, from the expressions of some critics, that, so far as they are concerned, I might just as well not have written a word. Therefore at this point I pause, in order to insist once more upon what I began by saying.
For ten chapters, you've put up with this, but not without complaining. I understand what's on your minds, and it's come out in many criticisms of my ideas. That sentiment can be summed up like this: 'This is all fine, but it's not true at all! It's just a fairy tale you've been telling us. Miracles don't happen,' and so on. I feel that unless I address your feelings right now and deal with them directly, I might as well close up shop because you'll just see me as a source of pointless entertainment. Already, I can tell from some critics that, as far as they’re concerned, I could have just stayed silent. So, at this moment, I’m going to pause to reiterate what I started with.
The burden of your criticism is: 'Human nature is always the same. I know my faults. But it is useless to tell me about them. I can't alter them. I was born like that.' The fatal weakness of this argument is, first, that it is based on a complete falsity; and second, that it puts you in an untenable position. Human nature does change. Nothing can be more unscientific, more hopelessly mediæval, than to imagine that it does not. It changes like everything else. You can't see it change. True! But then you can't see the grass growing—not unless you arise very early.
The issue with your criticism is: 'Human nature never changes. I know my flaws. But it’s pointless to point them out to me. I can’t change them. I was born this way.' The main flaw in this argument is, first, that it’s based on a total falsehood; and second, it puts you in a weak position. Human nature does change. Nothing could be more unscientific or stuck in the past than to think it doesn’t. It changes just like everything else. You can’t see it change. True! But then you can’t see the grass growing—not unless you get up very early.
Is human nature the same now as in the days of Babylonian civilisation, when the social machine was oiled by drenchings of blood? Is it the same now as in the days of Greek civilisation, when there was no such thing as romantic love between the sexes? Is it the same now as it was during the centuries when constant friction had to provide its own cure in the shape of constant war? Is it the same now as it was on 2nd March 1819, when the British Government officially opposed a motion to consider the severity of the criminal laws (which included capital punishment for cutting down a tree, and other sensible dodges against friction), and were defeated by a majority of only nineteen votes? Is it the same now as in the year 1883, when the first S.P.C.C. was formed in England?
Is human nature the same now as it was during the Babylonian civilization, when society was fueled by bloodshed? Is it the same now as in ancient Greece, when romantic love didn’t exist between the sexes? Is it the same now as during centuries where constant conflict was the norm? Is it the same now as it was on March 2, 1819, when the British Government officially opposed discussing the harshness of criminal laws (which included the death penalty for chopping down a tree and other nonsensical responses to conflict), and lost by just nineteen votes? Is it the same now as in 1883, when the first Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children was established in England?
If you consider that human nature is still the same you should instantly go out and make a bonfire of the works of Spencer, Darwin, and Wallace, and then return to enjoy the purely jocular side of the present volume. If you admit that it has changed, let me ask you how it has changed, unless by the continual infinitesimal efforts, upon themselves, of individual men, like you and me. Did you suppose it was changed by magic, or by Acts of Parliament, or by the action of groups on persons, and not of persons on groups? Let me tell you that human nature has changed since yesterday. Let me tell you that to-day reason has a more powerful voice in the directing of instinct than it had yesterday. Let me tell you that to-day the friction of the machines is less screechy and grinding than it was yesterday.
If you think human nature is still the same, you should immediately go out and burn the works of Spencer, Darwin, and Wallace, and then come back to enjoy the purely humorous side of this book. If you believe it has changed, let me ask you how it has changed, unless it’s through the ongoing small efforts, by themselves, of individual people, like you and me. Did you think it changed by magic, or through legislation, or by groups influencing individuals rather than individuals influencing groups? Let me tell you that human nature has changed since yesterday. Let me tell you that today reason plays a stronger role in guiding instinct than it did yesterday. Let me tell you that today the noise of the machines is less screechy and grinding than it was yesterday.
'You were born like that, and you can't alter yourself, and so it's no use talking.' If you really believe this, why make any effort at all? Why not let the whole business beautifully slide and yield to your instincts? What object can there be in trying to control yourself in any manner whatever if you are unalterable? Assert yourself to be unalterable, and you assert yourself a fatalist. Assert yourself a fatalist, and you free yourself from all moral responsibility—and other people, too. Well, then, act up to your convictions, if convictions they are. If you can't alter yourself, I can't alter myself, and supposing that I come along and bash you on the head and steal your purse, you can't blame me. You can only, on recovering consciousness, affectionately grasp my hand and murmur: 'Don't apologise, my dear fellow; we can't alter ourselves.'
'You were born like that, and you can’t change who you are, so discussing it is pointless.' If you really think this way, then why bother trying at all? Why not just let everything go and follow your instincts? What’s the point of trying to control yourself in any way if you’re unchangeable? Claim you're unchangeable, and you’re claiming to be a fatalist. Say you’re a fatalist, and you free yourself from all moral responsibility—and everyone else too. So, act according to your beliefs, if they really are beliefs. If you can’t change yourself, then I can’t change myself either. And if I come along and hit you on the head and take your wallet, you can’t blame me. You’d just have to, once you recover, grasp my hand affectionately and say, 'Don't apologize, my dear fellow; we can’t change who we are.'
This, you say, is absurd. It is. That is one of my innumerable points. The truth is, you do not really believe that you cannot alter yourself. What is the matter with you is just what is the matter with me—sheer idleness. You hate getting up in the morning, and to excuse your inexcusable indolence you talk big about Fate. Just as 'patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel,' so fatalism is the last refuge of a shirker. But you deceive no one, least of all yourself. You have not, rationally, a leg to stand on. At this juncture, because I have made you laugh, you consent to say: 'I do try, all I can. But I can only alter myself a very little. By constitution I am mentally idle. I can't help that, can I?' Well, so long as you are not the only absolutely unchangeable thing in a universe of change, I don't mind. It is something for you to admit that you can alter yourself even a very little. The difference between our philosophies is now only a question of degree.
This, you say, is ridiculous. It is. That's one of my countless points. The truth is, you don’t really believe that you can’t change yourself. What’s wrong with you is the same thing that’s wrong with me—sheer laziness. You hate getting up in the morning, and to justify your unacceptable laziness, you talk a big game about Fate. Just like "patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel," fatalism is the last refuge of someone trying to avoid responsibility. But you’re not fooling anyone, least of all yourself. You have no solid argument. At this point, because I’ve made you laugh, you agree to say: "I do try, as much as I can. But I can only change myself a little. It’s just how I am. I can’t help that, can I?" Well, as long as you’re not the only thing in a changing universe that can’t be changed, I’m okay with it. It’s something that you acknowledge that you can change yourself even just a little. The difference between our viewpoints is now just a matter of degree.
In the application of any system of perfecting the machine, no two persons will succeed equally. From the disappointed tone of some of your criticisms it might be fancied that I had advertised a system for making archangels out of tailors' dummies. Such was not my hope. I have no belief in miracles. But I know that when a thing is thoroughly well done it often has the air of being a miracle. My sole aim is to insist that every man shall perfect his machine to the best of his powers, not to the best of somebody else's powers. I do not indulge in any hope that a man can be better than his best self. I am, however, convinced that every man fails to be his best self a great deal oftener than he need fail—for the reason that his will-power, be it great or small, is not directed according to the principles of common sense.
In any system for improving the machine, no two people will achieve the same level of success. From the disappointed tone of some of your criticisms, it might seem like I promised a method for turning tailors' dummies into archangels. That was never my intention. I don't believe in miracles. However, I recognize that when something is done exceptionally well, it can often seem miraculous. My main goal is to emphasize that each person should perfect their machine to the best of their abilities, not based on someone else's abilities. I have no illusion that someone can be better than their best self. I am, however, convinced that people fail to be their best selves much more often than necessary—mainly because their willpower, whether strong or weak, isn't directed by common sense principles.
Common sense will surely lead a man to ask the question: 'Why did my actions yesterday contradict my reason?' The reply to this question will nearly always be: 'Because at the critical moment I forgot.' The supreme explanation of the abortive results of so many efforts at self-alteration, the supreme explanation of our frequent miserable scurrying into a doctrine of fatalism, is simple forgetfulness. It is not force that we lack, but the skill to remember exactly what our reason would have us do or think at the moment itself. How is this skill to be acquired? It can only be acquired, as skill at games is acquired, by practice; by the training of the organ involved to such a point that the organ acts rightly by instinct instead of wrongly by instinct. There are degrees of success in this procedure, but there is no such phenomenon as complete failure.
Common sense will definitely lead a person to ask, 'Why did my actions yesterday go against my reasoning?' The answer to this question is almost always: 'Because I forgot at the crucial moment.' The main reason for the unsuccessful outcomes of so many attempts at self-improvement, and for our constant miserable rush into a belief in fatalism, is simply forgetfulness. It’s not that we lack the willpower, but rather the ability to remember what our reasoning would have us do or think in that moment. How can we develop this ability? It can only be developed, just like any skill, through practice; by training the mind to the point that it reacts correctly by instinct rather than incorrectly. There are varying levels of success in this process, but there’s no such thing as total failure.
Habits which increase friction can be replaced by habits which lessen friction. Habits which arrest development can be replaced by habits which encourage development. And as a habit is formed naturally, so it can be formed artificially, by imitation of the unconscious process, by accustoming the brain to the new idea. Let me, as an example, refer again to the minor subject of daily friction, and, within that subject, to the influence of tone. A man employs a frictional tone through habit. The frictional tone is an instinct with him. But if he had a quarter of an hour to reflect before speaking, and if during that quarter of an hour he could always listen to arguments against the frictional tone, his use of the frictional tone would rapidly diminish; his reason would conquer his instinct. As things are, his instinct conquers his reason by a surprise attack, by taking it unawares. Regular daily concentration of the brain, for a certain period, upon the non-frictional tone, and the immense advantages of its use, will gradually set up in the brain a new habit of thinking about the non-frictional tone; until at length the brain, disciplined, turns to the correct act before the old, silly instinct can capture it; and ultimately a new sagacious instinct will supplant the old one.
Habits that create friction can be replaced by habits that reduce friction. Habits that hinder development can be replaced by habits that promote development. Just as a habit is formed naturally, it can also be formed intentionally, by mimicking the unconscious process and training the brain to accept the new idea. For example, let’s look again at the minor issue of daily friction, specifically at the impact of tone. A person uses a frictional tone out of habit. The frictional tone feels instinctual to him. However, if he took fifteen minutes to think before speaking, and during that time he could always consider arguments against using a frictional tone, his use of that tone would quickly decrease; his reasoning would win over his instinct. As things stand, his instinct surprises his reasoning, catching it off guard. Regular daily focus on the non-frictional tone for a set amount of time, and understanding the significant benefits of using it, will gradually train the brain to think more about the non-frictional tone; eventually, the disciplined brain
This is the rationale. It applies to all habits. Any person can test its efficiency in any habit. I care not whether he be of strong or weak will—he can test it. He will soon see the tremendous difference between merely 'making a good resolution'—(he has been doing that all his life without any very brilliant consequences)—and concentrating the brain for a given time exclusively upon a good resolution. Concentration, the efficient mastery of the brain—all is there!
This is the reasoning behind it. It applies to all habits. Anyone can test its effectiveness on any habit. I don't care if they have a strong or weak will—they can try it out. They'll quickly notice the huge difference between just 'making a good resolution'—which they've been doing their whole life without any notable results—and focusing their mind solely on that resolution for a set period. Concentration, effectively controlling the mind—it's all right there!
XII
AN INTEREST IN LIFE
After a certain period of mental discipline, of deliberate habit-forming and habit-breaking, such as I have been indicating, a man will begin to acquire at any rate a superficial knowledge, a nodding acquaintance, with that wonderful and mysterious affair, his brain, and he will also begin to perceive how important a factor in daily life is the control of his brain. He will assuredly be surprised at the miracles which lie between his collar and his hat, in that queer box that he calls his head. For the effects that can be accomplished by mere steady, persistent thinking must appear to be miracles to apprentices in the practice of thought. When once a man, having passed an unhappy day because his clumsy, negligent brain forgot to control his instincts at a critical moment, has said to his brain: 'I will force you, by concentrating you on that particular point, to act efficiently the next time similar circumstances arise,' and when he has carried out his intention, and when the awkward circumstances have recurred, and his brain, disciplined, has done its work, and so prevented unhappiness—then that man will regard his brain with a new eye. 'By Jove!' he will say; 'I've stopped one source of unhappiness, anyway. There was a time when I should have made a fool of myself in a little domestic crisis such as to-day's. But I have gone safely through it. I am all right. She is all right. The atmosphere is not dangerous with undischarged electricity! And all because my brain, being in proper condition, watched firmly over my instincts! I must keep this up.' He will peer into that brain more and more. He will see more and more of its possibilities. He will have a new and a supreme interest in life. A garden is a fairly interesting thing. But the cultivation of a garden is as dull as cold mutton compared to the cultivation of a brain; and wet weather won't interfere with digging, planting, and pruning in the box.
After a certain amount of mental training, through forming and breaking habits as I've mentioned, a person will start to gain at least a basic understanding, a casual familiarity, with that amazing and mysterious thing, their brain. They will also begin to recognize how crucial controlling their brain is in everyday life. They will definitely be surprised by the wonders that exist between their collar and their hat in that strange box they call their head. The effects that can be achieved through simply consistent and focused thinking must seem miraculous to those just starting to practice thought. Once someone, after a frustrating day because their clumsy, careless brain failed to manage their instincts at a key moment, has told their brain: 'I will concentrate on that specific point to ensure you perform well next time similar situations arise,' and then follows through on that intention—when the awkward situation comes up again, and their disciplined brain does its job and prevents unhappiness—then that person will view their brain in a new way. 'Wow!' they will think; 'I've managed to eliminate one source of unhappiness. There was a time when I would have embarrassed myself in a small domestic crisis like today’s. But I got through it just fine. I’m okay. She’s okay. The atmosphere isn’t tense with unresolved issues! All because my brain, being in good shape, kept a close watch over my instincts! I need to keep this going.' They will look into that brain more and more. They will discover more and more of its potential. They will develop a new and profound interest in life. A garden can be quite interesting. But taking care of a garden is as boring as cold leftover meat compared to nurturing a brain; and rainy weather won't get in the way of digging, planting, and trimming in that box.
In due season the man whose hobby is his brain will gradually settle down into a daily routine, with which routine he will start the day. The idea at the back of the mind of the ordinary man (by the ordinary man I mean the man whose brain is not his hobby) is almost always this: 'There are several things at present hanging over me—worries, unfulfilled ambitions, unrealised desires. As soon as these things are definitely settled, then I shall begin to live and enjoy myself.' That is the ordinary man's usual idea. He has it from his youth to his old age. He is invariably waiting for something to happen before he really begins to live. I am sure that if you are an ordinary man (of course, you aren't, I know) you will admit that this is true of you; you exist in the hope that one day things will be sufficiently smoothed out for you to begin to live. That is just where you differ from the man whose brain is his hobby. His daily routine consists in a meditation in the following vein: 'This day is before me. The circumstances of this day are my environment; they are the material out of which, by means of my brain, I have to live and be happy and to refrain from causing unhappiness in other people. It is the business of my brain to make use of this material. My brain is in its box for that sole purpose. Not to-morrow! Not next year! Not when I have made my fortune! Not when my sick child is out of danger! Not when my wife has returned to her senses! Not when my salary is raised! Not when I have passed that examination! Not when my indigestion is better! But now! To-day, exactly as to-day is! The facts of to-day, which in my unregeneracy I regarded primarily as anxieties, nuisances, impediments, I now regard as so much raw material from which my brain has to weave a tissue of life that is comely.'
In due time, the man who makes his mind his hobby will gradually settle into a daily routine that he uses to start his day. The common thought of the average person (by the average person, I mean someone who doesn't make their mind their hobby) is usually this: 'I have several things weighing on me right now—worries, unfulfilled dreams, unrealized desires. Once these things are sorted out, then I will start living and enjoying life.' That's the typical mindset of the average person. They carry this thought from youth to old age. They are always waiting for something to happen before they truly start living. I’m sure if you’re an average person (though I know you aren’t), you’d acknowledge this is true for you; you exist hoping that one day things will be sorted enough for you to begin living. That’s exactly where you differ from the man who makes his mind his hobby. His daily routine involves a meditation along these lines: 'This day is ahead of me. The circumstances of this day are my environment; they are the raw material from which, through my mind, I have to live, find happiness, and avoid bringing unhappiness to others. It’s my brain’s job to make use of this material. My brain is in its box for that one purpose. Not tomorrow! Not next year! Not when I’ve built my fortune! Not when my sick child is out of danger! Not when my wife regains her senses! Not when I get a raise! Not when I pass that exam! Not when my digestive issues improve! But now! Today, just as it is! The reality of today, which in my old mindset I saw primarily as worries, annoyances, obstacles, I now see as raw material from which my brain has to craft a beautiful tapestry of life.'
And then he foresees the day as well as he can. His experience teaches him where he will have difficulty, and he administers to his brain the lessons of which it will have most need. He carefully looks the machine over, and arranges it specially for the sort of road which he knows that it will have to traverse. And especially he readjusts his point of view, for his point of view is continually getting wrong. He is continually seeing worries where he ought to see material. He may notice, for instance, a patch on the back of his head, and he wonders whether it is the result of age or of disease, or whether it has always been there. And his wife tells him he must call at the chemist's and satisfy himself at once. Frightful nuisance! Age! The endless trouble of a capillary complaint! Calling at the chemist's will make him late at the office! etc. etc. But then his skilled, efficient brain intervenes: 'What peculiarly interesting material this mean and petty circumstance yields for the practice of philosophy and right living!' And again: 'Is this to ruffle you, O my soul? Will it serve any end whatever that I should buzz nervously round this circumstance instead of attending to my usual business?'
And then he anticipates the day as best as he can. His experience shows him where he will struggle, and he gives his brain the lessons it will need most. He thoroughly checks the machine and tweaks it for the type of road he knows it will have to navigate. He especially adjusts his perspective, as his view often gets skewed. He often focuses on worries instead of reality. For example, he might notice a spot on the back of his head and wonder if it's from age or illness, or if it's always been there. His wife tells him he needs to stop by the pharmacy and get it checked out immediately. What a hassle! Age! The never-ending issue of a scalp condition! Stopping by the pharmacy will make him late for work! etc. etc. But then his sharp, efficient mind chimes in: 'What a fascinating opportunity this trivial and petty situation provides for practicing philosophy and living wisely!' And again: 'Is this really going to upset you, my soul? Will it accomplish anything for me to buzz anxiously around this issue instead of focusing on my usual tasks?'
I give this as an example of the necessity of adjusting the point of view, and of the manner in which a brain habituated by suitable concentration to correct thinking will come to the rescue in unexpected contingencies. Naturally it will work with greater certainty in the manipulation of difficulties that are expected, that can be 'seen coming '; and preparation for the expected is, fortunately, preparation for the unexpected. The man who commences his day by a steady contemplation of the dangers which the next sixteen hours are likely to furnish, and by arming himself specially against those dangers, has thereby armed himself, though to a less extent, against dangers which he did not dream of. But the routine must be fairly elastic. It may be necessary to commence several days in succession—for a week or for months, even—with disciplining the brain in one particular detail, to the temporary neglect of other matters. It is astonishing how you can weed every inch of a garden path and keep it in the most meticulous order, and then one morning find in the very middle of it a lusty, full-grown plant whose roots are positively mortised in granite! All gardeners are familiar with such discoveries.
I use this as an example of how important it is to adjust your perspective and how a mind trained through focused thinking can help in surprising situations. Naturally, it will operate with more confidence when dealing with anticipated challenges—those that can be 'seen coming.' Thankfully, preparing for the expected also helps prepare for the unexpected. A person who starts their day by thoughtfully considering the risks the next sixteen hours may bring, and by getting ready specifically for those risks, has inadvertently prepared themselves, at least to some degree, for dangers they didn’t even see coming. However, the routine needs to be flexible. It may be necessary to spend several days in a row—for a week or even months—training the brain on one specific detail, while temporarily ignoring other matters. It’s amazing how you can meticulously clear every inch of a garden path and keep it perfectly maintained, only to find a robust, fully grown plant right in the middle of it with roots buried deep in solid rock! Every gardener knows about such surprises.
But a similar discovery, though it entails hard labour on him, will not disgust the man whose hobby is his brain. For the discovery in itself is part of the material out of which he has to live. If a man is to turn everything whatsoever into his own calm, dignity, and happiness, he must make this use even of his own failures. He must look at them as phenomena of the brain in that box, and cheerfully set about taking measures to prevent their repetition. All that happens to him, success or check, will but serve to increase his interest in the contents of that box. I seem to hear you saying: 'And a fine egotist he'll be!' Well, he'll be the right sort of egotist. The average man is not half enough of an egotist. If egotism means a terrific interest in one's self, egotism is absolutely essential to efficient living. There is no getting away from that. But if egotism means selfishness, the serious student of the craft of daily living will not be an egotist for more than about a year. In a year he will have proved the ineptitude of egotism.
But a similar discovery, even though it requires hard work, won’t bother someone whose passion is their mind. The discovery itself is part of the material that shapes their life. If a person wants to turn everything into their own calm, dignity, and happiness, they have to learn from their own failures. They should view these failures as events happening in that brain of theirs and happily take steps to avoid making the same mistakes again. Everything that happens to them, whether it’s success or failure, will only deepen their interest in what’s going on in that brain. I can almost hear you saying, 'And what a self-centered person he’ll become!' Well, he’ll be the right kind of self-centered. The average person isn’t nearly self-centered enough. If being self-centered means having a strong interest in oneself, then being self-centered is crucial for effective living. There’s no escaping that. But if being self-centered means being selfish, then someone genuinely focused on mastering the art of daily living won’t remain self-centered for more than about a year. In a year, they will have proven that self-centeredness isn’t effective.
XIII
SUCCESS AND FAILURE
I am sadly aware that these brief chapters will be apt to convey, especially to the trustful and enthusiastic reader, a false impression; the impression of simplicity; and that when experience has roughly corrected this impression, the said reader, unless he is most solemnly warned, may abandon the entire enterprise in a fit of disgust, and for ever afterwards maintain a cynical and impolite attitude towards all theories of controlling the human machine. Now, the enterprise is not a simple one. It is based on one simple principle—the conscious discipline of the brain by selected habits of thought—but it is just about as complicated as anything well could be. Advanced golf is child's play compared to it. The man who briefly says to himself: 'I will get up at 8, and from 8.30 to 9 I will examine and control my brain, and so my life will at once be instantly improved out of recognition'—that man is destined to unpleasant surprises. Progress will be slow. Progress may appear to be quite rapid at first, and then a period of futility may set in, and the would-be vanquisher of his brain may suffer a series of the most deadly defeats. And in his pessimism he may imagine that all his pains have gone for nothing, and that the unserious loungers in exhibition gardens and readers of novels in parlours are in the right of it after all. He may even feel rather ashamed of himself for having been, as he thinks, taken in by specious promises, like the purchaser of a quack medicine.
I’m sadly aware that these short chapters might give, especially to the trusting and eager reader, a misleading impression; the impression of simplicity. And when real experience sets in to correct this impression, the reader, unless they are firmly warned, might give up on the whole endeavor in frustration, adopting a cynical and rude attitude towards any theories about managing the human mind. Now, this endeavor is not simple. It's based on one straightforward principle—the conscious training of the brain through chosen thought habits—but it’s actually quite complicated. Advanced golf feels like child’s play in comparison. The person who thinks they can just say, "I will get up at 8, then from 8:30 to 9 I will analyze and control my mind, and my life will suddenly improve dramatically"—that person is in for some rude awakenings. Progress will be slow. It might seem fast at first, but then a lack of results can kick in, and the aspiring conqueror of their mind might face a series of frustrating defeats. In their pessimism, they might think all their efforts were in vain, and that the careless loungers in parks and those reading novels in living rooms have the right idea after all. They might even feel a bit embarrassed for having been, as they believe, fooled by flashy promises, like someone who bought a bogus remedy.
The conviction that great effort has been made and no progress achieved is the chief of the dangers that affront the beginner in machine-tending. It is, I will assert positively, in every case a conviction unjustified by the facts, and usually it is the mere result of reaction after fatigue, encouraged by the instinct for laziness. I do not think it will survive an impartial examination; but I know that a man, in order to find an excuse for abandoning further effort, is capable of convincing himself that past effort has yielded no fruit at all. So curious is the human machine. I beg every student of himself to consider this remark with all the intellectual honesty at his disposal. It is a grave warning.
The belief that a lot of effort has been put in but no progress has been made is one of the biggest challenges that beginners in machine-tending face. I can say for sure that this belief is always unfounded and is usually just a reaction to fatigue, fueled by a tendency toward laziness. I don’t think this belief would hold up under careful scrutiny. However, I know that someone looking for an excuse to stop trying can easily convince themselves that their past efforts have amounted to nothing. The human psyche is quite strange. I urge every self-reflective student to think about this statement with complete intellectual honesty. It’s an important warning.
When the machine-tender observes that he is frequently changing his point of view; when he notices that what he regarded as the kernel of the difficulty yesterday has sunk to a triviality to-day, being replaced by a fresh phenomenon; when he arises one morning and by means of a new, unexpected glimpse into the recesses of the machine perceives that hitherto he has been quite wrong and must begin again; when he wonders how on earth he could have been so blind and so stupid as not to see what now he sees; when the new vision is veiled by new disappointments and narrowed by continual reservations; when he is overwhelmed by the complexity of his undertaking—then let him unhearten himself, for he is succeeding. The history of success in any art—and machine-tending is an art—is a history of recommencements, of the dispersal and reforming of doubts, of an ever-increasing conception of the extent of the territory unconquered, and an ever-decreasing conception of the extent of the territory conquered.
When the machine operator notices that he keeps changing his perspective; when he realizes that what he thought was the main issue yesterday now seems trivial today, replaced by a new challenge; when he wakes up one morning and, through a surprising insight into the inner workings of the machine, realizes that he has been completely wrong and needs to start over; when he questions how he could have been so blind and foolish not to see what he now sees; when this new understanding is clouded by fresh disappointments and limited by ongoing doubts; when he feels overwhelmed by the complexity of his task—then he should lift his spirits, because he is making progress. The journey of success in any craft—and machine operation is a craft—consists of starting over, working through and reshaping doubts, gaining a greater understanding of the vast territory yet to be explored, and recognizing that the territory already conquered is smaller than he once thought.
It is remarkable that, though no enterprise could possibly present more diverse and changeful excitements than the mastering of the brain, the second great danger which threatens its ultimate success is nothing but a mere drying-up of enthusiasm for it! One would have thought that in an affair which concerned him so nearly, in an affair whose results might be in a very strict sense vital to him, in an affair upon which his happiness and misery might certainly turn, a man would not weary from sheer tedium. Nevertheless, it is so. Again and again I have noticed the abandonment, temporary or permanent, of this mighty and thrilling enterprise from simple lack of interest. And I imagine that, in practically all cases save those in which an exceptional original force of will renders the enterprise scarcely necessary, the interest in it will languish unless it is regularly nourished from without. Now, the interest in it cannot be nourished from without by means of conversation with other brain-tamers. There are certain things which may not be discussed by sanely organised people; and this is one. The affair is too intimate, and it is also too moral. Even after only a few minutes' vocalisation on this subject a deadly infection seems to creep into the air—the infection of priggishness. (Or am I mistaken, and do I fancy this horror? No; I cannot believe that I am mistaken.)
It's remarkable that, although no pursuit could possibly offer more varied and exciting challenges than mastering the brain, the second major threat to its ultimate success is simply losing enthusiasm for it! One would think that in a matter so personally relevant—one whose outcomes could literally be crucial for him, one that could certainly impact his happiness and misery—a person wouldn’t tire of it just from boredom. Yet, that’s exactly what happens. Time and again, I’ve observed people abandoning this powerful and exciting venture due to a lack of interest. I suspect that, in almost all cases, except where an exceptional willpower makes the endeavor feel unnecessary, the interest will fade unless it is regularly fueled from outside. However, that interest can’t be stimulated through conversations with fellow brain enthusiasts. There are certain topics that sane individuals can’t discuss, and this is one of them. The matter is too personal, and it’s also too moral. Even just a few minutes of talking about this topic seems to infect the atmosphere with a sense of self-righteousness. (Or am I wrong, and just imagining this dread? No; I can't believe I’m mistaken.)
Hence the nourishment must be obtained by reading; a little reading every day. I suppose there are some thousands of authors who have written with more or less sincerity on the management of the human machine. But the two which, for me, stand out easily above all the rest are Marcus Aurelius Antoninus and Epictetus. Not much has been discovered since their time. 'The perfecting of life is a power residing in the soul,' wrote Marcus Aurelius in the ninth book of To Himself, over seventeen hundred years ago. Marcus Aurelius is assuredly regarded as the greatest of writers in the human machine school, and not to read him daily is considered by many to be a bad habit. As a confession his work stands alone. But as a practical 'Bradshaw' of existence, I would put the discourses of Epictetus before M. Aurelius. Epictetus is grosser; he will call you a blockhead as soon as look at you; he is witty, he is even humorous, and he never wanders far away from the incidents of daily life. He is brimming over with actuality for readers of the year 1908. He was a freed slave. M. Aurelius was an emperor, and he had the morbidity from which all emperors must suffer. A finer soul than Epictetus, he is not, in my view, so useful a companion. Not all of us can breathe freely in his atmosphere. Nevertheless, he is of course to be read, and re-read continually. When you have gone through Epictetus—a single page or paragraph per day, well masticated and digested, suffices—you can go through M. Aurelius, and then you can return to Epictetus, and so on, morning by morning, or night by night, till your life's end. And they will conserve your interest in yourself.
Therefore, you need to get nourishment through reading; just a little bit every day. I guess there are thousands of authors who have written with varying degrees of sincerity about managing the human experience. But the two that really stand out for me are Marcus Aurelius Antoninus and Epictetus. Not much new has been discovered since their time. "The perfecting of life is a power residing in the soul," wrote Marcus Aurelius in the ninth book of To Himself, over seventeen hundred years ago. Marcus Aurelius is definitely considered the greatest writer in the human experience school, and many believe that not reading him daily is a bad habit. His work is unique as a confession. However, when it comes to a practical guide for living, I would place Epictetus's discourses above Marcus Aurelius's. Epictetus is more direct; he's not afraid to call you a fool right to your face; he’s witty, even humorous, and he stays close to the events of everyday life. He feels very relevant for readers in 1908. He was a freed slave, while Marcus Aurelius was an emperor, and he suffered from the usual struggles that come with being an emperor. While he may be a finer soul than Epictetus, I don’t think he’s as helpful a companion. Not everyone can thrive in his environment. Still, of course, you should read him and keep rereading him. Once you’ve gone through Epictetus—just a single page or paragraph a day, thoroughly thought over—you can move on to Marcus Aurelius, and then back to Epictetus, and continue this pattern, morning and night, until the end of your life. They will keep your interest in yourself alive.
In the matter of concentration, I hesitate to recommend Mrs. Annie Besant's Thought Power, and yet I should be possibly unjust if I did not recommend it, having regard to its immense influence on myself. It is not one of the best books of this astounding woman. It is addressed to theosophists, and can only be completely understood in the light of theosophistic doctrines. (To grasp it all I found myself obliged to study a much larger work dealing with theosophy as a whole.) It contains an appreciable quantity of what strikes me as feeble sentimentalism, and also a lot of sheer dogma. But it is the least unsatisfactory manual of the brain that I have met with. And if the profane reader ignores all that is either Greek or twaddle to him, there will yet remain for his advantage a vast amount of very sound information and advice. All these three books are cheap.
Regarding concentration, I’m hesitant to recommend Mrs. Annie Besant’s Thought Power, but it would be unfair not to mention it since it has had a huge impact on me. It’s not her best work, and it’s aimed at theosophists, meaning you can only fully understand it through the lens of theosophical teachings. (To really get it, I had to study a much larger work that covers theosophy comprehensively.) It includes a fair bit of what I see as weak sentimentalism and a lot of straightforward dogma. However, it’s the least unsatisfactory guide to the mind that I’ve come across. If the casual reader skips over what seems confusing or nonsensical to them, they’ll still find a lot of valuable information and advice. All three of these books are affordable.
XIV
A MAN AND HIS ENVIRONMENT
I now come to an entirely different aspect of the whole subject. Hitherto I have dealt with the human machine as a contrivance for adapting the man to his environment. My aim has been to show how much depends on the machine and how little depends on the environment, and that the essential business of the machine is to utilise, for making the stuff of life, the particular environment in which it happens to find itself—and no other! All this, however, does not imply that one must accept, fatalistically and permanently and passively, any preposterous environment into which destiny has chanced to throw us. If we carry far enough the discipline of our brains, we can, no doubt, arrive at surprisingly good results in no matter what environment. But it would not be 'right reason' to expend an excessive amount of will-power on brain-discipline when a slighter effort in a different direction would produce consequences more felicitous. A man whom fate had pitched into a canal might accomplish miracles in the way of rendering himself amphibian; he might stagger the world by the spectacle of his philosophy under amazing difficulties; people might pay sixpence a head to come and see him; but he would be less of a nincompoop if he climbed out and arranged to live definitely on the bank.
I now turn to a completely different aspect of the whole subject. Up until now, I have discussed the human machine as a tool for adapting people to their surroundings. My goal has been to demonstrate how much relies on the machine and how little relies on the environment, and that the main purpose of the machine is to use the specific environment it finds itself in—nothing else! However, this doesn’t mean we should accept any ridiculous situation we find ourselves in with a passive or fatalistic attitude. If we push our mental discipline far enough, we can certainly achieve surprisingly good results in any environment. But it wouldn’t be 'right reason' to spend too much willpower on brain discipline when a smaller effort in a different area would yield better outcomes. A person thrown into a canal might achieve miracles by learning to live amphibiously; they could impress the world with their philosophy under remarkable challenges; people might even pay sixpence to come and watch them. But they would be less foolish if they simply climbed out and decided to live on the bank instead.
The advantage of an adequate study of the control of the machine, such as I have outlined, is that it enables the student to judge, with some certainty, whether the unsatisfactoriness of his life is caused by a disordered machine or by an environment for which the machine is, in its fundamental construction, unsuitable. It does help him to decide justly whether, in the case of a grave difference between them, he, or the rest of the universe, is in the wrong. And also, if he decides that he is not in the wrong, it helps him to choose a new environment, or to modify the old, upon some scientific principle. The vast majority of people never know, with any precision, why they are dissatisfied with their sojourn on this planet. They make long and fatiguing excursions in search of precious materials which all the while are concealed in their own breasts. They don't know what they want; they only know that they want something. Or, if they contrive to settle in their own minds what they do want, a hundred to one the obtaining of it will leave them just as far off contentment as they were at the beginning! This is a matter of daily observation: that people are frantically engaged in attempting to get hold of things which, by universal experience, are hideously disappointing to those who have obtained possession of them. And still the struggle goes on, and probably will go on. All because brains are lying idle! 'It is no trifle that is at stake,' said Epictetus as to the question of control of instinct by reason. 'It means, Are you in your senses or are you not?' In this significance, indubitably the vast majority of people are not in their senses; otherwise they would not behave as they do, so vaguely, so happy-go-luckily, so blindly. But the man whose brain is in working order emphatically is in his senses.
The benefit of properly understanding how to control the machine, as I’ve described, is that it helps the student recognize whether their dissatisfaction in life stems from a malfunctioning machine or from an environment that's fundamentally unsuitable for how the machine is built. It assists them in fairly determining whether, in the case of a significant disagreement between the two, they or the rest of the world is at fault. Moreover, if they conclude that they're not at fault, it aids them in choosing a new environment or adjusting the current one based on some scientific principle. Most people never truly understand why they’re unhappy during their time on this planet. They embark on exhausting journeys in search of valuable things that are actually hidden within themselves. They don't know what they want; they just know they want something. Or, even if they manage to figure out what they desire, there's a high chance that getting it will leave them just as far from happiness as they were at the start! It's a common observation that people are desperately trying to acquire things that, through shared experience, are ultimately disappointing to those who have them. Yet the struggle continues and likely will for a long time. All because their minds are idle! 'It's not a small matter at stake,' Epictetus remarked about the need to control instinct with reason. 'It means, Are you in your senses or not?' In this sense, it's clear that most people are not in their senses; otherwise, they wouldn't act as they do—so vaguely, so carelessly, so blindly. But the person whose mind is functioning properly is definitely in their senses.
And when a man, by means of the efficiency of his brain, has put his reason in definite command over his instincts, he at once sees things in a truer perspective than was before possible, and therefore he is able to set a just value upon the various parts which go to make up his environment. If, for instance, he lives in London, and is aware of constant friction, he will be led to examine the claims of London as a Mecca for intelligent persons. He may say to himself: 'There is something wrong, and the seat of trouble is not in the machine. London compels me to tolerate dirt, darkness, ugliness, strain, tedious daily journeyings, and general expensiveness. What does London give me in exchange?' And he may decide that, as London offers him nothing special in exchange except the glamour of London and an occasional seat at a good concert or a bad play, he may get a better return for his expenditure of brains, nerves, and money in the provinces. He may perceive, with a certain French novelist, that 'most people of truly distinguished mind prefer the provinces.' And he may then actually, in obedience to reason, quit the deceptions of London with a tranquil heart, sure of his diagnosis. Whereas a man who had not devoted much time to the care of his mental machinery could not screw himself up to the step, partly from lack of resolution, and partly because he had never examined the sources of his unhappiness. A man who, not having full control of his machine, is consistently dissatisfied with his existence, is like a man who is being secretly poisoned and cannot decide with what or by whom. And so he has no middle course between absolute starvation and a continuance of poisoning.
And when a person uses their brain effectively to gain control over their instincts, they start to see things more clearly than before, allowing them to accurately assess the different aspects of their environment. For example, if they live in London and feel constant frustration, they might start to reconsider London’s reputation as a hub for smart people. They could think to themselves: 'Something is off, and the issue isn't with me. London forces me to put up with dirt, darkness, ugliness, stress, long daily commutes, and high costs. What does London give me in return?' They might conclude that since London doesn’t offer much besides its allure and the occasional good concert or mediocre play, they could get a better return on their investment of energy, nerves, and money by moving to the provinces. They might realize, as a certain French novelist noted, that 'most people of genuinely distinguished minds prefer the provinces.' Consequently, they may choose to leave behind the illusions of London with a calm heart, confident in their decision. In contrast, someone who hasn’t put much effort into understanding their mental state might struggle to take that step, partly due to a lack of determination and partly because they’ve never looked into the reasons behind their dissatisfaction. A person who doesn’t have full control over their mind and is continually unhappy feels like someone who is being secretly poisoned but can’t figure out the source or the cause. As a result, they face no option between complete deprivation and ongoing distress.
As with the environment of place, so with the environment of individuals. Most friction between individuals is avoidable friction; sometimes, however, friction springs from such deep causes that no skill in the machine can do away with it. But how is the man whose brain is not in command of his existence to judge whether the unpleasantness can be cured or not, whether it arises in himself or in the other? He simply cannot judge. Whereas a man who keeps his brain for use and not for idle amusement will, when he sees that friction persists in spite of his brain, be so clearly impressed by the advisability of separation as the sole cure that he will steel himself to the effort necessary for a separation. One of the chief advantages of an efficient brain is that an efficient brain is capable of acting with firmness and resolution, partly, of course, because it has been toned up, but more because its operations are not confused by the interference of mere instincts.
Just like with the environment of places, it's the same with the environment of individuals. Most conflict between individuals can be avoided; however, sometimes the conflict comes from such deep issues that no amount of skill can resolve it. But how is someone whose mind isn't in control of their life supposed to determine if the unpleasantness can be fixed or if it comes from within themselves or the other person? They simply can't make that judgment. On the other hand, a person who uses their mind for practical purposes rather than for distraction will clearly recognize the need for separation if friction continues despite their efforts. This realization will motivate them to take the necessary steps toward separating. One of the key benefits of a well-functioning mind is its ability to act decisively and resolutely; this is partly because it has been sharpened, but more so because its functions are not muddled by basic instincts.
Thirdly, there is the environment of one's general purpose in life, which is, I feel convinced, far more often hopelessly wrong and futile than either the environment of situation or the environment of individuals. I will be bold enough to say that quite seventy per cent. of ambition is never realised at all, and that ninety-nine per cent. of all realised ambition is fruitless. In other words, that a gigantic sacrifice of the present to the future is always going on. And here again the utility of brain-discipline is most strikingly shown. A man whose first business it is every day to concentrate his mind on the proper performance of that particular day, must necessarily conserve his interest in the present. It is impossible that his perspective should become so warped that he will devote, say, fifty-five years of his career to problematical preparations for his comfort and his glory during the final ten years. A man whose brain is his servant, and not his lady-help or his pet dog, will be in receipt of such daily content and satisfaction that he will early ask himself the question: 'As for this ambition that is eating away my hours, what will it give me that I have not already got?' Further, the steady development of interest in the hobby (call it!) of common-sense daily living will act as an automatic test of any ambition. If an ambition survives and flourishes on the top of that daily cultivation of the machine, then the owner of the ambition may be sure that it is a genuine and an invincible ambition, and he may pursue it in full faith; his developed care for the present will prevent him from making his ambition an altar on which the whole of the present is to be offered up.
Thirdly, there’s the overall environment of one’s purpose in life, which I’m convinced is often way off and pointless compared to the environment of situations or individuals. I’d go so far as to say that about seventy percent of ambition never gets realized at all, and that ninety-nine percent of realized ambition ends up being fruitless. In other words, a huge sacrifice of the present for the future is constantly happening. Once again, the value of mental discipline stands out. A person who makes it a priority each day to focus on doing their best for that specific day will naturally maintain their interest in the present. It’s impossible for their perspective to become so twisted that they would spend, say, fifty-five years of their career preparing for comfort and glory during the last ten years. A person whose mind is their servant—rather than a housekeeper or a pet—will experience such daily contentment and satisfaction that they will begin to question, ‘What will this ambition that’s consuming my time give me that I don’t already have?’ Moreover, a consistent interest in the ‘hobby’ of practical daily living will serve as a natural test for any ambition. If an ambition can survive and thrive alongside that daily care of one’s life, then its owner can be sure it’s a genuine and unstoppable ambition, and they can pursue it with confidence; their developed concern for the present will stop them from turning their ambition into a sacrifice of the whole present.
I shall be told that I want to do away with ambition, and that ambition is the great motive-power of existence, and that therefore I am an enemy of society and the truth is not in me. But I do not want to do away with ambition. What I say is that current ambitions usually result in disappointment, that they usually mean the complete distortion of a life. This is an incontestable fact, and the reason of it is that ambitions are chosen either without knowledge of their real value or without knowledge of what they will cost. A disciplined brain will at once show the unnecessariness of most ambitions, and will ensure that the remainder shall be conducted with reason. It will also convince its possessor that the ambition to live strictly according to the highest common sense during the next twenty-four hours is an ambition that needs a lot of beating.
I’ll be told that I want to eliminate ambition, and that ambition is the main driving force of life, which means I’m an enemy of society and not truthful. But I don’t want to get rid of ambition. What I’m saying is that typical ambitions often lead to disappointment and usually end up completely distorting a person’s life. This is an undeniable fact, and the reason is that ambitions are often chosen without fully understanding their real worth or what they will cost. A well-disciplined mind quickly reveals that most ambitions are unnecessary and ensures that the ones that matter are pursued rationally. It will also convince its owner that the ambition to live purely based on common sense for the next twenty-four hours is a goal that requires serious effort.
XV
L.S.D.
Anybody who really wishes to talk simple truth about money at the present time is confronted by a very serious practical difficulty. He must put himself in opposition to the overwhelming body of public opinion, and resign himself to being regarded either as a poseur, a crank, or a fool. The public is in search of happiness now, as it was a million years ago. Money is not the principal factor in happiness. It may be argued whether, as a factor in happiness, money is of twentieth-rate importance or fiftieth-rate importance. But it cannot be argued whether money, in point of fact, does or does not of itself bring happiness. There can be no doubt whatever that money does not bring happiness. Yet, in face of this incontrovertible and universal truth, the whole public behaves exactly as if money were the sole or the principal preliminary to happiness. The public does not reason, and it will not listen to reason; its blood is up in the money-hunt, and the philosopher might as well expostulate with an earthquake as try to take that public by the button-hole and explain. If a man sacrifices his interest under the will of some dead social tyrant in order to marry whom he wishes, if an English minister of religion declines twenty-five thousand dollars a year to go into exile and preach to New York millionaires, the phenomenon is genuinely held to be so astounding that it at once flies right round the world in the form of exclamatory newspaper articles! In an age when such an attitude towards money is sincere, it is positively dangerous—I doubt if it may not be harmful—to persist with loud obstinacy that money, instead of being the greatest, is the least thing in the world. In times of high military excitement a man may be ostracised if not lynched for uttering opinions which everybody will accept as truisms a couple of years later, and thus the wise philosopher holds his tongue—lest it should be cut out. So at the zenith of a period when the possession of money in absurd masses is an infallible means to the general respect, I have no intention either of preaching or of practising quite all that I privately in the matter of riches.
Anyone who genuinely wants to have an honest conversation about money today faces a serious challenge. They must oppose the overwhelming tide of public opinion and accept being seen as a poseur, a weirdo, or a fool. Just like a million years ago, people are searching for happiness now. Money isn't the main factor in happiness. You can debate whether money's role in happiness is of minor or negligible importance. But you can't argue that money, in itself, brings happiness. There's no doubt at all that money does not bring happiness. Yet, despite this undeniable truth, everyone acts as if money is the only or main key to happiness. The public doesn't think logically and won't listen to reason; they are obsessed with chasing money, and trying to reason with them is as futile as trying to stop an earthquake. If someone gives up their interests due to the demands of some deceased social tyrant to marry who they want, or if an English religious leader turns down twenty-five thousand dollars a year to preach to wealthy New Yorkers, the reaction is so surprising that it quickly spans the globe in sensational newspaper articles! In a time when this attitude towards money is sincere, it's downright dangerous—I wonder if it's even harmful—to insist that money, instead of being the most important thing, is the least important. During periods of intense military fervor, a person might be shunned or even lynched for expressing views that everyone will agree with as common sense a couple of years later, so the wise philosopher keeps quiet—unless they want to risk losing their voice. Thus, at the height of a time when having vast amounts of money guarantees respect, I have no intention of either preaching or practicing all that I personally believe regarding wealth.
It was not always thus. Though there have been previous ages as lustful for wealth and ostentation as our own, there have also been ages when money-getting and millionaire-envying were not the sole preoccupations of the average man. And such an age will undoubtedly succeed to ours. Few things would surprise me less, in social life, than the upspringing of some anti-luxury movement, the formation of some league or guild among the middling classes (where alone intellect is to be found in quantity), the members of which would bind themselves to stand aloof from all the great, silly, banal, ugly, and tedious luxe-activities of the time and not to spend more than a certain sum per annum on eating, drinking, covering their bodies, and being moved about like parcels from one spot of the earth's surface to another. Such a movement would, and will, help towards the formation of an opinion which would condemn lavish expenditure on personal satisfactions as bad form. However, the shareholders of grand hotels, restaurants, and race-courses of all sorts, together with popular singers and barristers, etc., need feel no immediate alarm. The movement is not yet.
It hasn't always been this way. While there have been times just as obsessed with money and status as we are today, there have also been times when making money and envying millionaires weren't the only concerns of the average person. And a time like that will surely follow ours. I would be less surprised by the emergence of some anti-luxury movement in society than by the formation of a league or group among the middle classes (where real intellect can be found), in which members would commit to avoiding all the extravagant, silly, superficial, and tedious luxury activities of the moment and limit their spending on food, drinks, clothing, and transportation. Such a movement would help create an opinion that looks down on excessive spending on personal pleasures as poor taste. That said, the owners of fancy hotels, restaurants, and racetracks, along with popular entertainers and lawyers, shouldn't worry just yet. The movement hasn't arrived.
As touching the effect of money on the efficient ordering of the human machine, there is happily no necessity to inform those who have begun to interest themselves in the conduct of their own brains that money counts for very little in that paramount affair. Nothing that really helps towards perfection costs more than is within the means of every person who reads these pages. The expenses connected with daily meditation, with the building-up of mental habits, with the practice of self-control and of cheerfulness, with the enthronement of reason over the rabble of primeval instincts—these expenses are really, you know, trifling. And whether you get that well-deserved rise of a pound a week or whether you don't, you may anyhow go ahead with the machine; it isn't a motor-car, though I started by comparing it to one. And even when, having to a certain extent mastered, through sensible management of the machine, the art of achieving a daily content and dignity, you come to the embroidery of life—even the best embroidery of life is not absolutely ruinous. Meat may go up in price—it has done—but books won't. Admission to picture galleries and concerts and so forth will remain quite low. The views from Richmond Hill or Hindhead, or along Pall Mall at sunset, the smell of the earth, the taste of fruit and of kisses—these things are unaffected by the machinations of trusts and the hysteria of stock exchanges. Travel, which after books is the finest of all embroideries (and which is not to be valued by the mile but by the quality), is decidedly cheaper than ever it was. All that is required is ingenuity in one's expenditure. And much ingenuity with a little money is vastly more profitable and amusing than much money without ingenuity.
As for the impact of money on how we effectively manage ourselves, there's no need to explain to those who are starting to pay attention to their own minds that money doesn't play a big role in that important area. Nothing that truly contributes to self-improvement costs more than what anyone reading this can afford. The costs related to daily meditation, building mental habits, practicing self-control and positivity, and prioritizing reason over our basic instincts—these costs are really minimal. Whether you get that well-deserved pay raise of a pound a week or not, you can still move forward with your personal growth; it’s not like a car, even though I initially compared it to one. And even when you’ve somewhat mastered the art of achieving daily satisfaction and dignity through sensible management of yourself, when you delve into the finer aspects of life—none of the best aspects of life are prohibitively expensive. Food prices may rise—it has happened—but book prices won’t. Entry to art galleries, concerts, and similar outings will remain quite affordable. The views from Richmond Hill or Hindhead, or along Pall Mall at sunset, the scent of the earth, the taste of fruit and kisses—these experiences are untouched by corporate maneuvers and the frenzy of the stock market. Travel, which is the finest of all enriching experiences after books (and which should be appreciated not by distance but by quality), is definitely cheaper than it ever was. All that’s needed is some creativity in how you spend your money. And a lot of creativity with a little money is far more rewarding and enjoyable than having a lot of money without creativity.
And all the while as you read this you are saying, with your impatient sneer: 'It's all very well; it's all very fine talking, but ...' In brief, you are not convinced. You cannot deracinate that wide-rooted dogma within your soul that more money means more joy. I regret it. But let me put one question, and let me ask you to answer it honestly. Your financial means are greater now than they used to be. Are you happier or less discontented than you used to be? Taking your existence day by day, hour by hour, judging it by the mysterious feel (in the chest) of responsibilities, worries, positive joys and satisfactions, are you genuinely happier than you used to be?
And all the while you're reading this, you're probably thinking with a dismissive attitude: 'This sounds nice, but...' In short, you're not convinced. You can’t shake off that deeply rooted belief inside you that more money equals more happiness. I find that unfortunate. But let me ask you one question, and please answer it honestly. Your financial situation is better now than it used to be. Are you happier or less unhappy than before? As you go through your life day by day, hour by hour, judging it by that nagging feeling in your chest of responsibilities, worries, genuine joys, and satisfactions, do you truly feel happier than you did in the past?
I do not wish to be misunderstood. The financial question cannot be ignored. If it is true that money does not bring happiness, it is no less true that the lack of money induces a state of affairs in which efficient living becomes doubly difficult. These two propositions, superficially perhaps self-contradictory, are not really so. A modest income suffices for the fullest realisation of the Ego in terms of content and dignity; but you must live within it. You cannot righteously ignore money. A man, for instance, who cultivates himself and instructs a family of daughters in everything except the ability to earn their own livelihood, and then has the impudence to die suddenly without leaving a penny—that man is a scoundrel. Ninety—or should I say ninety-nine?—per cent. of all those anxieties which render proper living almost impossible are caused by the habit of walking on the edge of one's income as one might walk on the edge of a precipice. The majority of Englishmen have some financial worry or other continually, everlastingly at the back of their minds. The sacrifice necessary to abolish this condition of things is more apparent than real. All spending is a matter of habit.
I don’t want to be misunderstood. The financial issue can’t be overlooked. It's true that money doesn't guarantee happiness, but it's equally true that not having money creates situations where living well becomes incredibly tough. These two ideas might seem contradictory at first glance, but they're not really. A modest income is enough for a person to fully realize their potential in both substance and dignity, but you have to live within your means. You can't just ignore money. For example, a person who focuses on self-improvement and educates his daughters in everything except how to earn a living, and then has the audacity to die suddenly without leaving any money—that person is a jerk. Ninety—or should I say ninety-nine?—percent of all the worries that make it hard to live well come from the habit of living on the edge of one's income, like walking along the edge of a cliff. Most people in England have some financial concern lingering in their minds all the time. The effort needed to change this situation is more obvious than actual. All spending is a matter of habit.
Speaking generally, a man can contrive, out of an extremely modest income, to have all that he needs—unless he needs the esteem of snobs. Habit may, and habit usually does, make it just as difficult to keep a family on two thousand a year as on two hundred. I suppose that for the majority of men the suspension of income for a single month would mean either bankruptcy, the usurer, or acute inconvenience. Impossible, under such circumstances, to be in full and independent possession of one's immortal soul! Hence I should be inclined to say that the first preliminary to a proper control of the machine is the habit of spending decidedly less than one earns or receives. The veriest automaton of a clerk ought to have the wherewithal of a whole year as a shield against the caprices of his employer. It would be as reasonable to expect the inhabitants of an unfortified city in the midst of a plain occupied by a hostile army to apply themselves successfully to the study of logarithms or metaphysics, as to expect a man without a year's income in his safe to apply himself successfully to the true art of living.
Generally speaking, a guy can manage to meet all his needs on a very modest income—unless he craves the approval of snobs. Habit can, and usually does, make it just as tough to raise a family on two thousand a year as it is on two hundred. I think that for most people, going without income for just one month would lead to either bankruptcy, reliance on loan sharks, or serious discomfort. In such situations, it's impossible to truly be in control of one’s life! So, I would argue that the first step to properly managing your finances is to develop the habit of spending significantly less than you earn or receive. Even the most basic clerk should have enough savings for a whole year as a safety net against the unpredictability of their boss. It would be just as unreasonable to expect people living in an unprotected city surrounded by a hostile army to successfully tackle logarithms or metaphysics as it is to expect someone without a year's worth of income saved up to thrive in the actual art of living.
And the whole secret of relative freedom from financial anxiety lies not in income, but in expenditure. I am ashamed to utter this antique platitude. But, like most aphorisms of unassailable wisdom, it is completely ignored. You say, of course, that it is not easy to leave a margin between your expenditure and your present income. I know it. I fraternally shake your hand. Still it is, in most cases, far easier to lessen one's expenditure than to increase one's income without increasing one's expenditure. The alternative is before you. However you decide, be assured that the foundation of philosophy is a margin, and that the margin can always be had.
And the whole key to being free from financial stress isn’t about how much you earn, but rather how much you spend. I feel embarrassed to say this old saying. But, like many nuggets of wisdom, it gets completely overlooked. You might say that it's not easy to create a gap between your spending and your current income. I get it. I empathize with you. Still, in most situations, it's usually much easier to cut back on spending than to boost your income without also raising your expenses. The choice is yours. Whatever you decide, remember that the foundation of good financial habits is having a buffer, and that buffer is always achievable.
XVI
REASON, REASON!
In conclusion, I must insist upon several results of what I may call the 'intensive culture' of the reason. The brain will not only grow more effectively powerful in the departments of life where the brain is supposed specially to work, but it will also enlarge the circle of its activities. It will assuredly interfere in everything. The student of himself must necessarily conduct his existence more and more according to the views of his brain. This will be most salutary and agreeable both for himself and for the rest of the world. You object. You say it will be a pity when mankind refers everything to reason. You talk about the heart. You envisage an entirely reasonable existence as a harsh and callous existence. Not so. When the reason and the heart come into conflict the heart is invariably wrong. I do not say that the reason is always entirely right, but I do say that it is always less wrong than the heart. The empire of the reason is not universal, but within its empire reason is supreme, and if other forces challenge it on its own soil they must take the consequences. Nearly always, when the heart opposes the brain, the heart is merely a pretty name which we give to our idleness and our egotism.
In conclusion, I must emphasize several outcomes of what I would call the 'intensive culture' of reason. The brain will not only become more powerful in areas of life where it's expected to function, but it will also expand the range of its activities. It will definitely have an impact on everything. A person who studies themselves must increasingly live their life according to the logic of their brain. This will be beneficial and pleasant for both themselves and the rest of the world. You might object. You might say it’s unfortunate if humanity relies solely on reason. You mention the heart. You imagine a completely rational life as a harsh and insensitive one. Not at all. When reason and the heart are at odds, the heart is usually mistaken. I don’t claim that reason is always completely right, but I do assert that it is always less wrong than the heart. The domain of reason isn't all-encompassing, but within its territory, reason is supreme, and if other forces challenge it on its own ground, they must face the consequences. Almost always, when the heart opposes the brain, the heart is just a pretty term we use for our laziness and self-centeredness.
We pass along the Strand and see a respectable young widow standing in the gutter, with a baby in her arms and a couple of boxes of matches in one hand. We know she is a widow because of her weeds, and we know she is respectable by her clothes. We know she is not begging because she is selling matches. The sight of her in the gutter pains our heart. Our heart weeps and gives the woman a penny in exchange for a halfpenny box of matches, and the pain of our heart is thereby assuaged. Our heart has performed a good action. But later on our reason (unfortunately asleep at the moment) wakes up and says: 'That baby was hired; the weeds and matches merely a dodge. The whole affair was a spectacle got up to extract money from a fool like you. It is as mechanical as a penny in the slot. Instead of relieving distress you have simply helped to perpetuate an infamous system. You ought to know that you can't do good in that offhand way.' The heart gives pennies in the street. The brain runs the Charity Organisation Society. Of course, to give pennies in the street is much less trouble than to run the C.O.S. As a method of producing a quick, inexpensive, and pleasing effect on one's egotism the C.O.S. is simply not in it with this dodge of giving pennies at random, without inquiry. Only—which of the two devices ought to be accused of harshness and callousness? Which of them is truly kind? I bring forward the respectable young widow as a sample case of the Heart v. Brain conflict. All other cases are the same. The brain is always more kind than the heart; the brain is always more willing than the heart to put itself to a great deal of trouble for a very little reward; the brain always does the difficult, unselfish thing, and the heart always does the facile, showy thing. Naturally the result of the brain's activity on society is always more advantageous than the result of the heart's activity.
We walk along the Strand and see a respectable young widow standing in the gutter, holding a baby in her arms and a couple of boxes of matches in one hand. We know she’s a widow because of her mourning clothes, and we recognize her respectability from her attire. She isn't begging; she's selling matches. Seeing her in the gutter makes us feel sad. Our heart aches, and we give the woman a penny for a halfpenny box of matches, which eases our heartache. We feel we’ve done a good deed. But later, when our reason (unfortunately taking a break earlier) kicks in, it says, "That baby was hired; the mourning clothes and matches were just a trick. The whole thing was staged to get money from someone like you. It's as mechanical as putting a penny in a vending machine. Instead of helping someone in need, you’ve just supported a rotten system. You should know that you can't really do good like that." The heart gives pennies on the street. The brain runs the Charity Organization Society. Sure, giving pennies on the street is a lot easier than managing the C.O.S. For achieving a quick, cheap, and satisfying boost to one’s ego, the C.O.S. doesn’t even compare to this random penny-giving without any thought. But really— which of the two approaches should be called harsh and insensitive? Which is genuinely kind? I present the respectable young widow as a case of the Heart vs. Brain conflict. All other situations are the same. The brain is always kinder than the heart; it’s always more willing to put in a lot of effort for a small payoff; the brain tends to do the hard, selfless work while the heart opts for the easy, flashy option. Naturally, the impact of the brain's efforts on society is always more beneficial than the heart's actions.
Another point. I have tried to show that, if the reason is put in command of the feelings, it is impossible to assume an attitude of blame towards any person whatsoever for any act whatsoever. The habit of blaming must depart absolutely. It is no argument against this statement that it involves anarchy and the demolition of society. Even if it did (which emphatically it does not), that would not affect its truth. All great truths have been assailed on the ground that to accept them meant the end of everything. As if that mattered! As I make no claim to be the discoverer of this truth I have no hesitation in announcing it to be one of the most important truths that the world has yet to learn. However, the real reason why many people object to this truth is not because they think it involves the utter demolition of society (fear of the utter demolition of society never stopped any one from doing or believing anything, and never will), but because they say to themselves that if they can't blame they can't praise. And they do so like praising! If they are so desperately fond of praising, it is a pity that they don't praise a little more! There can be no doubt that the average man blames much more than he praises. His instinct is to blame. If he is satisfied he says nothing; if he is not, he most illogically kicks up a row. So that even if the suppression of blame involved the suppression of praise the change would certainly be a change for the better. But I can perceive no reason why the suppression of blame should involve the suppression of praise. On the contrary, I think that the habit of praising should be fostered. (I do not suggest the occasional use of trowels, but the regular use of salt-spoons.) Anyhow, the triumph of the brain over the natural instincts (in an ideally organised man the brain and the natural instincts will never have even a tiff) always means the ultimate triumph of kindness.
Another point. I’ve tried to show that if reason takes charge of our feelings, it’s impossible to blame anyone for any action. The habit of blaming must completely disappear. It doesn’t matter if this idea seems to lead to chaos and the breakdown of society. Even if it did (which it absolutely doesn’t), that wouldn’t change its truth. All significant truths have been challenged on the grounds that accepting them would mean the end of everything. As if that mattered! I don’t claim to be the one who discovered this truth, but I confidently say it’s one of the most important truths the world still needs to learn. However, the real reason many people resist this truth isn’t because they believe it would completely tear down society (fear of total societal collapse has never stopped anyone from doing or believing anything, and it never will), but because they think that without blame, there can be no praise. And they really like to praise! If they enjoy praising so much, it’s a shame they don’t do it more often! There’s no doubt that the average person blames far more than they praise. Their instinct is to blame. If they’re satisfied, they say nothing; if they’re not, they irrationally make a fuss. So even if stopping blame meant stopping praise, it would certainly be an improvement. But I see no reason why stopping blame should mean stopping praise. On the contrary, I think we should encourage the habit of praising. (I’m not suggesting we occasionally use shovels, but rather that we regularly use teaspoons.) In any case, the triumph of reason over our natural instincts (in a perfectly balanced person, reason and instincts will never even clash) ultimately leads to greater kindness.
And, further, the culture of the brain, the constant disciplinary exercise of the reasoning faculty, means the diminution of misdeeds. (Do not imagine I am hinting that you are on the verge of murdering your wife or breaking into your neighbour's house. Although you personally are guiltless, there is a good deal of sin still committed in your immediate vicinity.) Said Balzac in La Cousine Bette, 'A crime is in the first instance a defect of reasoning powers.' In the appreciation of this truth, Marcus Aurelius was, as usual, a bit beforehand with Balzac. M. Aurelius said, 'No soul wilfully misses truth.' And Epictetus had come to the same conclusion before M. Aurelius, and Plato before Epictetus. All wrong-doing is done in the sincere belief that it is the best thing to do. Whatever sin a man does he does either for his own benefit or for the benefit of society. At the moment of doing it he is convinced that it is the only thing to do. He is mistaken. And he is mistaken because his brain has been unequal to the task of reasoning the matter out. Passion (the heart) is responsible for all crimes. Indeed, crime is simply a convenient monosyllable which we apply to what happens when the brain and the heart come into conflict and the brain is defeated. That transaction of the matches was a crime, you know.
And, additionally, developing the brain, the ongoing practice of our reasoning ability, leads to fewer wrongdoings. (Don’t think I’m suggesting you’re about to murder your wife or break into your neighbor’s home. Even though you are personally innocent, there’s still quite a bit of wrongdoing happening around you.) Balzac said in La Cousine Bette, 'A crime is primarily a failure of reasoning abilities.' In recognizing this truth, Marcus Aurelius was, as usual, ahead of Balzac. M. Aurelius stated, 'No soul deliberately misses the truth.' And Epictetus reached the same conclusion before M. Aurelius, and Plato before Epictetus. All wrongdoing occurs under the sincere belief that it's the best choice. Whatever sin a person commits, they do it either for their own benefit or for the benefit of society. In the moment of the act, they are convinced it’s the only choice. They are wrong. And they are wrong because their brain wasn’t capable of properly reasoning the situation. Passion (the heart) is responsible for all crimes. In fact, 'crime' is just a simple term we use to describe what happens when the brain and the heart clash, and the brain loses. That incident with the matches was a crime, you know.
Lastly, the culture of the brain must result in the habit of originally examining all the phenomena of life and conduct, to see what they really are, and to what they lead. The heart hates progress, because the dear old thing always wants to do as has always been done. The heart is convinced that custom is a virtue. The heart of the dirty working man rebels when the State insists that he shall be clean, for no other reason than that it is his custom to be dirty. Useless to tell his heart that, clean, he will live longer! He has been dirty and he will be. The brain alone is the enemy of prejudice and precedent, which alone are the enemies of progress. And this habit of originally examining phenomena is perhaps the greatest factor that goes to the making of personal dignity; for it fosters reliance on one's self and courage to accept the consequences of the act of reasoning. Reason is the basis of personal dignity.
Lastly, the mindset of the brain must lead to the habit of actively examining all aspects of life and behavior to understand what they truly are and where they lead. The heart resists change because it prefers to stick with what has always been done. The heart believes that tradition is a virtue. The heart of the struggling worker pushes back when the State insists he should be clean, simply because it has always been his custom to be dirty. It’s pointless to tell him that he’ll live longer if he stays clean! He’s been dirty, and he plans to stay that way. The brain is the only thing that challenges prejudice and tradition, which are the true enemies of progress. This habit of critically examining situations is likely the most significant factor in building personal dignity, as it encourages self-reliance and the bravery to accept the consequences of reasoning. Logic is the foundation of personal dignity.
I finish. I have said nothing of the modifications which the constant use of the brain will bring about in the general value of existence. Modifications slow and subtle, but tremendous! The persevering will discover them. It will happen to the persevering that their whole lives are changed—texture and colour, too! Naught will happen to those who do not persevere.
I finish. I haven't mentioned the changes that constant use of the brain will lead to in the overall value of existence. These changes are slow and subtle, but they’re significant! Those who persist will notice them. For the persistent, their entire lives will transform—both in texture and color! Nothing will happen to those who don't persevere.
THE END
THE END
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