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MENTAL EFFICIENCY










BY ARNOLD BENNETT

Novels

Books

THE OLD WIVES' TALE
HELEN WITH THE HIGH HAND
THE BOOK OF CARLOTTA
BURIED ALIVE
A GREAT MAN
LEONORA
WHOM GOD HATH JOINED
A MAN FROM THE NORTH
ANNA OF THE FIVE TOWNS
THE GLIMPSE

THE OLD WIVES' TALE
HELEN WITH THE HIGH HAND
THE BOOK OF CARLOTTA
BURIED ALIVE
A GREAT MAN
LEONORA
WHOM GOD HAS JOINED
A MAN FROM THE NORTH
ANNA OF THE FIVE TOWNS
THE GLIMPSE


Pocket Philosophies

Pocket Philosophies

HOW TO LIVE ON 24 HOURS A DAY
THE HUMAN MACHINE
LITERARY TASTE
MENTAL EFFICIENCY

HOW TO LIVE ON 24 HOURS A DAY
THE HUMAN MACHINE
LITERARY TASTE
MENTAL EFFICIENCY


Miscellaneous

Other

CUPID AND COMMONSENSE: A Play
WHAT THE PUBLIC WANTS: A Play
THE TRUTH ABOUT AN AUTHOR
THE FEAST OF ST. FRIEND

CUPID AND COMMONSENSE: A Play
WHAT THE PUBLIC WANTS: A Play
THE TRUTH ABOUT AN AUTHOR
THE FEAST OF ST. FRIEND




GEORGE H. DORAN COMPANY

NEW YORK

NYC







MENTAL EFFICIENCY

AND OTHER HINTS
TO
MEN AND WOMEN





BY

ARNOLD BENNETT

Author of "How to Live on 24 Hours a Day"
"The Old Wives' Tale," etc.

Author of "How to Live on 24 Hours a Day"
"The Old Wives' Tale," etc.







GEORGE H. DORAN COMPANY
PUBLISHERS             NEW YORK







Copyright, 1911
By George H. Doran Company






CONTENTS


    Page
I. Mental Efficiency 7
  The Appeal 7
  The Replies 13
  The Cure 19
  Mental Calisthenics 24
II. Expressing One's Individuality 32
III. Breaking with the Past 39
IV. Settling Down in Life 45
V. Marriage 53
  The Duty of It 53
  The Adventure of It 59
  The Two Ways of It 65
VI. Books 72
  The Physical Side 72
  The Philosophy of Book Buying 78
VII. Success 84
  Candid Remarks 84
  The Successful and the Unsuccessful 91
  The Inwardness of Success 97
VIII. The Petty Artificialities 104
IX. The Secret of Content 112






I

MENTAL EFFICIENCYToC


THE APPEAL

If there is any virtue in advertisements—and a journalist should be the last person to say that there is not—the American nation is rapidly reaching a state of physical efficiency of which the world has probably not seen the like since Sparta. In all the American newspapers and all the American monthlies are innumerable illustrated announcements of "physical-culture specialists," who guarantee to make all the organs of the body perform their duties with the mighty precision of a 60 h.p. motor-car that never breaks down. I saw a book the other day written by one of these specialists, to show how perfect health could be attained by devoting a quarter of an hour a day to certain exercises. The advertisements multiply and increase in size. They cost a great deal of money. Therefore they must bring in a great deal of business. [8]Therefore vast numbers of people must be worried about the non-efficiency of their bodies, and on the way to achieve efficiency. In our more modest British fashion, we have the same phenomenon in England. And it is growing. Our muscles are growing also. Surprise a man in his bedroom of a morning, and you will find him lying on his back on the floor, or standing on his head, or whirling clubs, in pursuit of physical efficiency. I remember that once I "went in" for physical efficiency myself. I, too, lay on the floor, my delicate epidermis separated from the carpet by only the thinnest of garments, and I contorted myself according to the fifteen diagrams of a large chart (believed to be the magna charta of physical efficiency) daily after shaving. In three weeks my collars would not meet round my prize-fighter's neck; my hosier reaped immense profits, and I came to the conclusion that I had carried physical efficiency quite far enough.

If there's any good in advertisements—and a journalist should be the last to say there isn't—the American nation is quickly achieving a level of physical efficiency that the world probably hasn't seen since Sparta. All across American newspapers and magazines, there are countless illustrated ads from "physical-culture specialists," promising to ensure that all body organs work together with the impressive precision of a 60 h.p. motorcar that never fails. I recently saw a book by one of these specialists, claiming that perfect health could be reached by dedicating just fifteen minutes a day to specific exercises. The ads keep multiplying and getting larger. They cost a lot of money, which means they must bring in significant business. [8] Consequently, a lot of people must be concerned about their bodies not performing well and are actively seeking to improve efficiency. In our more modest British way, we’re seeing the same trend in England, and it’s growing. Our muscles are growing too. Catch a man off guard in his bedroom in the morning, and you'll find him lying on his back on the floor, or standing on his head, or swinging clubs, all in the name of physical efficiency. I remember once I tried to get fit myself. I, too, lay on the floor, my sensitive skin barely shielded from the carpet by the thinnest clothing, contorting myself according to the fifteen diagrams on a large chart (thought to be the magna charta of physical efficiency) every day after shaving. In three weeks, my collars could no longer meet around my prize-fighter’s neck; my sock supplier made huge profits, and I concluded that I'd pushed physical efficiency quite far enough.

A strange thing—was it not?—that I never had the idea of devoting a quarter of an hour a day after shaving to the pursuit of mental efficiency. The average body is a pretty [9]complicated affair, sadly out of order, but happily susceptible to culture. The average mind is vastly more complicated, not less sadly out of order, but perhaps even more susceptible to culture. We compare our arms to the arms of the gentleman illustrated in the physical efficiency advertisement, and we murmur to ourselves the classic phrase: "This will never do." And we set about developing the muscles of our arms until we can show them off (through a frock coat) to women at afternoon tea. But it does not, perhaps, occur to us that the mind has its muscles, and a lot of apparatus besides, and that these invisible, yet paramount, mental organs are far less efficient than they ought to be; that some of them are atrophied, others starved, others out of shape, etc. A man of sedentary occupation goes for a very long walk on Easter Monday, and in the evening is so exhausted that he can scarcely eat. He wakes up to the inefficiency of his body, caused by his neglect of it, and he is so shocked that he determines on remedial measures. Either he will walk to the office, or he will play golf, or he will execute the post-shaving exercises. But let the same man after a prolonged sedentary course of newspapers, magazines, and novels, take [10]his mind out for a stiff climb among the rocks of a scientific, philosophic, or artistic subject. What will he do? Will he stay out all day, and return in the evening too tired even to read his paper? Not he. It is ten to one that, finding himself puffing for breath after a quarter of an hour, he won't even persist till he gets his second wind, but will come back at once. Will he remark with genuine concern that his mind is sadly out of condition and that he really must do something to get it into order? Not he. It is a hundred to one that he will tranquilly accept the status quo, without shame and without very poignant regret. Do I make my meaning clear?

A strange thing, isn’t it? I never thought about spending just fifteen minutes a day after shaving to improve my mental efficiency. The average body is a pretty complicated mess, often out of shape, but thankfully able to be trained. The average mind is way more complex, no less out of shape, but maybe even more open to development. We compare our arms to the ones in fitness ads and mutter to ourselves, “This is unacceptable.” Then we start working on our arm muscles until we can show them off (under a suit) to women at afternoon tea. But it doesn’t usually dawn on us that the mind has its own muscles and much more besides, and that these invisible yet crucial mental tools are often not working as well as they should; some are weakened, some are undernourished, others are out of shape, etc. A guy with a desk job might take a long walk on Easter Monday, and by evening, he’s so worn out he can barely eat. He realizes how inefficient his body has become due to neglect, and he’s so shocked that he decides to take action. He might start walking to the office, or play golf, or do some exercises after shaving. But let that same guy, after spending too long with newspapers, magazines, and novels, try to push his mind with a challenging topic in science, philosophy, or art. What will he do? Will he stay out all day and return in the evening too exhausted to even read a newspaper? No way. Chances are, after just fifteen minutes of struggle, he won’t even wait to catch his breath and will head back right away. Will he genuinely worry that his mind is out of shape and that he needs to do something to fix it? Not really. It’s highly likely he’ll calmly accept things as they are, without any shame or deep regret. Is my point clear?

I say, without a very poignant regret, because a certain vague regret is indubitably caused by realizing that one is handicapped by a mental inefficiency which might, without too much difficulty, be cured. That vague regret exudes like a vapour from the more cultivated section of the public. It is to be detected everywhere, and especially among people who are near the half-way house of life. They perceive the existence of immense quantities of knowledge, not the smallest particle of which will they ever make their own. [11]They stroll forth from their orderly dwellings on a starlit night, and feel dimly the wonder of the heavens. But the still small voice is telling them that, though they have read in a newspaper that there are fifty thousand stars in the Pleiades, they cannot even point to the Pleiades in the sky. How they would like to grasp the significance of the nebular theory, the most overwhelming of all theories! And the years are passing; and there are twenty-four hours in every day, out of which they work only six or seven; and it needs only an impulse, an effort, a system, in order gradually to cure the mind of its slackness, to give "tone" to its muscles, and to enable it to grapple with the splendours of knowledge and sensation that await it! But the regret is not poignant enough. They do nothing. They go on doing nothing. It is as though they passed for ever along the length of an endless table filled with delicacies, and could not stretch out a hand to seize. Do I exaggerate? Is there not deep in the consciousness of most of us a mournful feeling that our minds are like the liver of the advertisement—sluggish, and that for the sluggishness of our minds there is the excuse neither of incompetence, nor of lack of time, nor of lack of opportunity, nor of lack of means?

I say, without a very strong regret, because a certain vague regret definitely comes from realizing that one is held back by a mental inefficiency that could be fixed without too much effort. That vague regret seeps out from the more educated segment of society. It can be felt everywhere, especially among those who are around the halfway point of life. They see the vast amounts of knowledge out there, yet not a single bit of it will they ever claim as their own. [11]They step out of their tidy homes on a starry night and faintly appreciate the beauty of the sky. But the quiet voice within them reminds them that, even though they read in a newspaper that there are fifty thousand stars in the Pleiades, they can’t even point out the Pleiades in the night sky. How much they would love to understand the significance of the nebular theory, the most staggering of all theories! And time keeps ticking; there are twenty-four hours in each day, out of which they only work six or seven; it only takes a push, some effort, a plan, to gradually awaken the mind from its laziness, to give "tone" to its muscles, and to help it engage with the wonders of knowledge and experiences that await them! But the regret isn’t strong enough. They do nothing. They continue doing nothing. It’s as if they walk endlessly along a long table filled with treats and can’t reach out to grab any. Am I exaggerating? Isn’t there a deep, sad feeling in most of us that our minds are like the liver in that advertisement—slow, and that for this sluggishness of thought, we have no excuse of incompetence, lack of time, lack of opportunity, or lack of resources?

[12]Why does not some mental efficiency specialist come forward and show us how to make our minds do the work which our minds are certainly capable of doing? I do not mean a quack. All the physical efficiency specialists who advertise largely are not quacks. Some of them achieve very genuine results. If a course of treatment can be devised for the body, a course of treatment can be devised for the mind. Thus we might realize some of the ambitions which all of us cherish in regard to the utilization in our spare time of that magnificent machine which we allow to rust within our craniums. We have the desire to perfect ourselves, to round off our careers with the graces of knowledge and taste. How many people would not gladly undertake some branch of serious study, so that they might not die under the reproach of having lived and died without ever really having known anything about anything! It is not the absence of desire that prevents them. It is, first, the absence of will-power—not the will to begin, but the will to continue; and, second, a mental apparatus which is out of condition, "puffy," "weedy," through sheer neglect. The remedy, then, divides itself into two parts, the cultivation of will-power, and the [13]getting into condition of the mental apparatus. And these two branches of the cure must be worked concurrently.

[12]Why don’t some mental efficiency experts step up and show us how to unlock the potential our minds clearly have? I’m not talking about a fraud. Many of the physical efficiency experts who heavily promote themselves aren’t frauds. Some actually achieve real results. If we can create a treatment plan for the body, we can also create one for the mind. This way, we could finally achieve some of the goals we all have regarding making better use of that incredible machine we let gather dust in our heads. We want to improve ourselves and add the finishing touches to our lives with knowledge and refinement. How many people wouldn’t eagerly dive into a serious field of study to avoid the embarrassment of having lived and died without truly knowing anything? It’s not a lack of desire that holds them back. It’s, first, a lack of willpower—not the will to start, but the will to keep going; and second, a mental capacity that’s out of shape, "sluggish," "overgrown," due to neglect. So, the solution splits into two parts: building willpower and getting our mental capacity back in shape. And these two aspects of the solution need to be addressed together. [13]

I am sure that the considerations which I have presented to you must have already presented themselves to tens of thousands of my readers, and that thousands must have attempted the cure. I doubt not that many have succeeded. I shall deem it a favour if those readers who have interested themselves in the question will communicate to me at once the result of their experience, whatever its outcome. I will make such use as I can of the letters I receive, and afterwards I will give my own experience.

I’m sure that the points I’ve shared have already occurred to tens of thousands of my readers, and that many of them have tried to find a solution. I have no doubt that quite a few have succeeded. I would appreciate it if those readers who are invested in this issue could share their experiences with me right away, no matter the result. I will make the best use of the responses I get, and later, I’ll share my own experience.


THE REPLIES

The correspondence which I have received in answer to my appeal shows that at any rate I did not overstate the case. There is, among a vast mass of reflecting people in this country, a clear consciousness of being mentally less than efficient, and a strong (though ineffective) desire that such mental inefficiency should cease to be. The desire is stronger than I had imagined, but it does not [14]seem to have led to much hitherto. And that "course of treatment for the mind," by means of which we are to "realize some of the ambitions which all of us cherish in regard to the utilization in our spare time of the magnificent machine which we allow to rust within our craniums"—that desiderated course of treatment has not apparently been devised by anybody. The Sandow of the brain has not yet loomed up above the horizon. On the other hand, there appears to be a general expectancy that I personally am going to play the rôle of the Sandow of the brain. Vain thought!

The responses I’ve received to my appeal indicate that I didn’t exaggerate the situation. Many thoughtful people in this country are clearly aware that they aren’t mentally as sharp as they could be, and there’s a strong (but ineffective) wish for that mental sluggishness to end. The desire is stronger than I expected, but it hasn’t led to much so far. And that "mental treatment" we need to "achieve some of the goals we all have for making better use of the incredible machine we allow to rust in our heads"—that much-needed treatment hasn’t been figured out by anyone yet. The brain’s Sandow hasn’t appeared on the horizon. On the flip side, there seems to be a general belief that I will take on the role of the brain’s Sandow. What a foolish thought!

I have been very much interested in the letters, some of which, as a statement of the matter in question, are admirable. It is perhaps not surprising that the best of them come from women—for (genius apart) woman is usually more touchingly lyrical than man in the yearning for the ideal. The most enthusiastic of all the letters I have received, however, is from a gentleman whose notion is that we should be hypnotised into mental efficiency. After advocating the establishment of "an institution of practical psychology from whence there can be graduated fit [15]and proper people whose efforts would be in the direction of the subconscious mental mechanism of the child or even the adult," this hypnotist proceeds: "Between the academician, whose specialty is an inconsequential cobweb, the medical man who has got it into his head that he is the logical foster-father for psychonomical matters, and the blatant 'professor' who deals with monkey tricks on a few somnambules on the music-hall stage, you are allowing to go unrecognized one of the most potent factors of mental development." Am I? I have not the least idea what this gentleman means, but I can assure him that he is wrong. I can make more sense out of the remarks of another correspondent who, utterly despising the things of the mind, compares a certain class of young men to "a halfpenny bloater with the roe out," and asserts that he himself "got out of the groove" by dint of having to unload ten tons of coal in three hours and a half every day during several years. This is interesting and it is constructive, but it is just a little beside the point.

I’ve been really interested in the letters, some of which are brilliantly put as far as expressing the issue at hand. It’s maybe not surprising that the best ones come from women—because, apart from genius, women tend to be more emotionally expressive than men when it comes to longing for the ideal. However, the most enthusiastic letter I received is from a guy who believes we should be hypnotized into being mentally efficient. After suggesting we set up "an institution of practical psychology where we can train suitable people who would work on the subconscious mental processes of children or even adults," this hypnotist goes on: "Between the academic, whose specialty is an irrelevant detail, the doctor who thinks he’s the logical caretaker of psychological matters, and the loud 'professor' who performs tricks with a few sleepwalkers on stage, you are ignoring one of the most significant factors of mental growth." Am I? I have no idea what this guy means, but I can assure him he’s mistaken. I can understand the comments from another writer who, completely disregarding mental matters, compares a certain group of young men to "a cheap fish without the eggs," and claims he "got out of the rut" by having to unload ten tons of coal in three and a half hours every day for several years. This is interesting and constructive, but it’s a bit off point.

A lady, whose optimism is indicated by her pseudonym, "Espérance," puts her finger on the spot, or, rather, on one of the spots, in a very [16]sensible letter. "It appears to me," she says, "that the great cause of mental inefficiency is lack of concentration, perhaps especially in the case of women. I can trace my chief failures to this cause. Concentration, is a talent. It may be in a measure cultivated, but it needs to be inborn.... The greater number of us are in a state of semi-slumber, with minds which are only exerted to one-half of their capability." I thoroughly agree that inability to concentrate is one of the chief symptoms of the mental machine being out of condition. "Espérance's" suggested cure is rather drastic. She says: "Perhaps one of the best cures for mental sedentariness is arithmetic, for there is nothing else which requires greater power of concentration." Perhaps arithmetic might be an effective cure, but it is not a practical cure, because no one, or scarcely any one, would practise it. I cannot imagine the plain man who, having a couple of hours to spare of a night, and having also the sincere desire but not the will-power to improve his taste and knowledge, would deliberately sit down and work sums by way of preliminary mental calisthenics. As Ibsen's puppet said: "People don't do these things." Why do they not? The answer is: Simply because [17]they won't; simply because human nature will not run to it. "Espérance's" suggestion of learning poetry is slightly better.

A lady, whose optimism is shown in her pseudonym, "Espérance," highlights an important issue in a very [16]sensible letter. "It seems to me," she says, "that a major cause of mental inefficiency is a lack of concentration, especially among women. I can link my biggest failures to this issue. Concentration is a talent. It can be somewhat developed, but it needs to be innate.... Most of us are in a state of semi-consciousness, with minds that only function at half their potential." I completely agree that the inability to concentrate is a primary symptom of a mental system that isn't functioning well. "Espérance's" proposed solution is quite extreme. She suggests: "Perhaps one of the best remedies for mental inactivity is arithmetic, since nothing else demands more focus." Arithmetic might be an effective remedy, but it's not a practical one because hardly anyone would actually do it. I can't envision an ordinary person who, with a couple of hours to spare at night and the genuine desire but not the willpower to improve their taste and knowledge, would choose to sit down and do math as a form of mental warm-up. As Ibsen's puppet said: "People don't do these things." Why don't they? The answer is: Simply because [17]they won't; simply because human nature doesn't lean that way. "Espérance's" suggestion of learning poetry is a bit better.

Certainly the best letter I have had is from Miss H. D. She says: "This idea [to avoid the reproach of 'living and dying without ever really knowing anything about anything'] came to me of itself from somewhere when I was a small girl. And looking back I fancy that the thought itself spurred me to do something in this world, to get into line with people who did things—people who painted pictures, wrote books, built bridges, or did something beyond the ordinary. This only has seemed to me, all my life since, worth while." Here I must interject that such a statement is somewhat sweeping. In fact, it sweeps a whole lot of fine and legitimate ambitions straight into the rubbish heap of the Not-worth-while. I think the writer would wish to modify it. She continues: "And when the day comes in which I have not done some serious reading, however small the measure, or some writing ... or I have been too sad or dull to notice the brightness of colour of the sun, of grass and flowers, of the sea, or the moonlight on the water, I think the [18]day ill-spent. So I must think the incentive to do a little each day beyond the ordinary towards the real culture of the mind, is the beginning of the cure of mental inefficiency." This is very ingenious and good. Further: "The day comes when the mental habit has become a part of our life, and we value mental work for the work's sake." But I am not sure about that. For myself, I have never valued work for its own sake, and I never shall. And I only value such mental work for the more full and more intense consciousness of being alive which it gives me.

Certainly, the best letter I've received is from Miss H. D. She says: "This idea [to avoid the reproach of 'living and dying without ever really knowing anything about anything'] came to me on its own when I was a little girl. Looking back, I think that thought pushed me to make something of my life, to connect with people who did things—people who painted pictures, wrote books, built bridges, or accomplished something beyond the ordinary. This has always seemed worth it to me." Here, I need to point out that such a statement is a bit broad. In fact, it dismisses a lot of fine and legitimate ambitions as if they weren't worth it. I think the writer would want to clarify that. She continues: "And when the day comes when I haven't done some serious reading, no matter how little, or some writing... or I've been too sad or dull to notice the bright colors of the sun, grass and flowers, the sea, or the moonlight on the water, I think the [18] day is wasted. So I believe the incentive to do a little each day beyond the ordinary towards truly cultivating the mind is the start of overcoming mental inefficiency." This is very clever and true. She adds: "The day arrives when this mental habit becomes part of our life, and we appreciate mental work for its own sake." But I'm not sure about that. Personally, I've never valued work for its own sake, and I probably never will. I only value such mental work for the deeper and more intense awareness of being alive that it gives me.

Miss H. D.'s remedies are vague. As to lack of will-power, "the first step is to realize your weakness; the next step is to have ordinary shame that you are defective." I doubt, I gravely doubt, if these steps would lead to anything definite. Nor is this very helpful: "I would advise reading, observing, writing. I would advise the use of every sense and every faculty by which we at last learn the sacredness of life." This is begging the question. If people, by merely wishing to do so, could regularly and seriously read, observe, write, and use every faculty and sense, there would be very little mental inefficiency. I [19]see that I shall be driven to construct a programme out of my own bitter and ridiculous experiences.

Miss H. D.'s remedies are vague. Regarding lack of willpower, "the first step is to recognize your weakness; the next step is to feel some basic shame about being flawed." I seriously doubt that these steps would lead to anything concrete. This advice isn't very useful either: "I suggest reading, observing, and writing. I recommend using every sense and ability so we finally understand the sacredness of life." This is circular reasoning. If people could consistently and seriously read, observe, write, and engage all their abilities and senses simply by wanting to, there would hardly be any mental inefficiency. I [19]see that I will have to create a program based on my own painful and absurd experiences.



THE CURE

"But tasks in moments of insight desired
"Can be fulfilled through hours of gloom."

The above lines from Matthew Arnold are quoted by one of my very numerous correspondents to support a certain optimism in this matter of a systematic attempt to improve the mind. They form part of a beautiful and inspiring poem, but I gravely fear that they run counter to the vast mass of earthly experience. More often than not I have found that a task willed in some hour of insight can not be fulfilled through hours of gloom. No, no, and no! To will is easy: it needs but the momentary bright contagion of a stronger spirit than one's own. To fulfil, morning after morning, or evening after evening, through months and years—this is the very dickens, and there is not one of my readers that will not agree with me. Yet such is the elastic quality of human nature that most of my correspondents are quite ready to ignore the sad fact and to demand at once: [20]"what shall we will? Tell us what we must will." Some seem to think that they have solved the difficulty when they have advocated certain systems of memory and mind-training. Such systems may be in themselves useful or useless—the evidence furnished to me is contradictory—but were they perfect systems, a man cannot be intellectually born again merely by joining a memory-class. The best system depends utterly on the man's power of resolution. And what really counts is not the system, but the spirit in which the man handles it. Now, the proper spirit can only be induced by a careful consideration and realization of the man's conditions—the limitations of his temperament, the strength of adverse influences, and the lessons of his past.

The lines above from Matthew Arnold are quoted by one of my many correspondents to back a certain optimism about systematically trying to improve the mind. They are part of a beautiful and inspiring poem, but I seriously doubt that they align with the vast amount of real-life experience. More often than not, I've found that a task desired in a moment of clarity cannot be completed during periods of darkness. No, no, and no! To want something is easy; it only takes the brief, uplifting influence of a stronger spirit than your own. To actually achieve it, morning after morning or evening after evening, for months and years—that's the real challenge, and there isn't a single one of my readers who wouldn't agree with me. Yet, the amazing flexibility of human nature means that most of my correspondents are quick to overlook this harsh reality and immediately ask: [20]"What should we want? Tell us what we must want." Some seem to think they're solving the problem when they suggest certain systems for memory and mental training. These systems might be useful or not—the evidence I've received is mixed—but even if they were perfect, a person cannot be intellectually reborn just by joining a memory class. The best system relies completely on a person's willpower. And what really matters is not the system itself, but the mindset with which a person approaches it. Now, the right mindset can only be developed through careful consideration and understanding of a person's circumstances—the limitations of their temperament, the strength of negative influences, and the lessons from their past.

Let me take an average case. Let me take your case, O man or woman of thirty, living in comfort, with some cares, and some responsibilities, and some pretty hard daily work, but not too much of any! The question of mental efficiency is in the air. It interests you. It touches you nearly. Your conscience tells you that your mind is less active and less informed than it might be. You suddenly spring up from the [21]garden-seat, and you say to yourself that you will take your mind in hand and do something with it. Wait a moment. Be so good as to sink back into that garden-seat and clutch that tennis racket a little longer. You have had these "hours of insight" before, you know. You have not arrived at the age of thirty without having tried to carry out noble resolutions—and failed. What precautions are you going to take against failure this time? For your will is probably no stronger now than it was aforetime. You have admitted and accepted failure in the past. And no wound is more cruel to the spirit of resolve than that dealt by failure. You fancy the wound closed, but just at the critical moment it may reopen and mortally bleed you. What are your precautions? Have you thought of them? No. You have not.

Let me use an average example. Let’s take your situation, you person in your thirties, living comfortably, with some worries, some responsibilities, and a decent amount of daily work, but not too much of any! The topic of mental efficiency is everywhere. It intrigues you. It’s personally relevant. Your conscience tells you that your mind isn’t as active or informed as it could be. You suddenly jump up from the [21]garden seat, and you tell yourself that you’re going to take charge of your mind and do something with it. Hold on a second. Please sit back down on that garden seat and hold onto that tennis racket a little longer. You’ve had these "moments of clarity" before, after all. You haven't reached thirty without attempting to stick to noble resolutions—and failing. What steps are you going to take to avoid failure this time? Your willpower is probably no stronger now than it was before. You’ve recognized and accepted failure in the past. And no wound is more damaging to your determination than the one caused by failure. You think the wound has healed, but just at the crucial moment, it may reopen and really hurt you. What are your safeguards? Have you considered them? No. You haven’t.

I have not the pleasure of your acquaintance. But I know you because I know myself. Your failure in the past was due to one or more of three causes. And the first was that you undertook too much at the beginning. You started off with a magnificent programme. You are something of an expert in physical exercises—you would [22]be ashamed not to be, in these physical days—and so you would never attempt a hurdle race or an uninterrupted hour's club-whirling without some preparation. The analogy between the body and the mind ought to have struck you. This time, please do not form an elaborate programme. Do not form any programme. Simply content yourself with a preliminary canter, a ridiculously easy preliminary canter. For example (and I give this merely as an example), you might say to yourself: "Within one month from this date I will read twice Herbert Spencer's little book on 'Education'—sixpence—and will make notes in pencil inside the back cover of the things that particularly strike me." You remark that that is nothing, that you can do it "on your head," and so on. Well, do it. When it is done you will at any rate possess the satisfaction of having resolved to do something and having done it. Your mind will have gained tone and healthy pride. You will be even justified in setting yourself some kind of a simple programme to extend over three months. And you will have acquired some general principles by the light of which to construct the programme. But best of all, you will have avoided failure, that dangerous wound.

I don't have the pleasure of knowing you. But I do know you because I know myself. Your past failure can be attributed to one or more of three reasons. The first is that you took on too much right from the start. You kicked things off with an ambitious plan. You’re somewhat of an expert in physical fitness—you'd be embarrassed if you weren't, in today’s fitness-focused world—and you would never try a hurdle race or a continuous hour of club-whirling without some preparation. You should have noticed the similarity between the body and the mind. This time, please don’t create an elaborate plan. Don’t make any plan at all. Just settle for a simple warm-up, a ridiculously easy warm-up. For instance (and I’m giving this just as an example), you might say to yourself: "Within one month from today, I will read Herbert Spencer's small book on 'Education'—sixpence—and I will jot down notes in pencil inside the back cover about the things that stand out to me." You might think that's no big deal, that you can do it “with your eyes closed,” and so on. Well, go ahead and do it. Once it’s done, you’ll at least have the satisfaction of having committed to something and actually achieved it. Your mind will feel sharper and more confident. You can then justify giving yourself a simple plan for the next three months. And you will have gained some basic principles that will help you create that plan. But best of all, you will have avoided failure, that painful setback.

[23]The second possible cause of previous failure was the disintegrating effect on the will-power of the ironic, superior smile of friends. Whenever a man "turns over a new leaf" he has this inane giggle to face. The drunkard may be less ashamed of getting drunk than of breaking to a crony the news that he has signed the pledge. Strange, but true! And human nature must be counted with. Of course, on a few stern spirits the effect of that smile is merely to harden the resolution. But on the majority its influence is deleterious. Therefore don't go and nail your flag to the mast. Don't raise any flag. Say nothing. Work as unobtrusively as you can. When you have won a battle or two you can begin to wave the banner, and then you will find that that miserable, pitiful, ironic, superior smile will die away ere it is born.

[23]The second possible reason for past failures was the weakening effect of friends' ironic, superior smiles. Whenever someone "turns over a new leaf," they're faced with this annoying giggle. A drunk may feel less embarrassed about getting drunk than about telling a friend that he’s made a commitment to stop. Strange but true! And we have to acknowledge human nature. Of course, for a few strong-willed individuals, that smile just strengthens their resolve. But for most, its effect is harmful. So don’t rush to declare your intentions. Don’t raise any flags. Keep quiet. Work as quietly as you can. Once you've won a battle or two, you can start to celebrate, and then you’ll find that miserable, pathetic, ironic, superior smile will fade away before it even gets started.

The third possible cause was that you did not rearrange your day. Idler and time-waster though you have been, still you had done something during the twenty-four hours. You went to work with a kind of dim idea that there were twenty-six hours in every day. Something large and definite has to be dropped. Some space in the rank jungle [24]of the day has to be cleared and swept up for the new operations. Robbing yourself of sleep won't help you, nor trying to "squeeze in" a time for study between two other times. Use the knife, and use it freely. If you mean to read or think half an hour a day, arrange for an hour. A hundred per cent. margin is not too much for a beginner. Do you ask me where the knife is to be used? I should say that in nine cases out of ten the rites of the cult of the body might be abbreviated. I recently spent a week-end in a London suburb, and I was staggered by the wholesale attention given to physical recreation in all its forms. It was a gigantic debauch of the muscles on every side. It shocked me. "Poor withering mind!" I thought. "Cricket, and football, and boating, and golf, and tennis have their 'seasons,' but not thou!" These considerations are general and prefatory. Now I must come to detail.

The third possible reason was that you didn’t rearrange your day. Even though you’ve been lazy and wasting time, you still did something during those twenty-four hours. You went through your day with a vague sense that there were twenty-six hours to work with. Something significant and definite needs to go. Some space in the chaotic jungle [24] of your day needs to be cleared for new tasks. Sacrificing your sleep won’t help, nor will trying to "squeeze in" study time between other activities. Use the knife, and use it generously. If you plan to read or think for half an hour each day, set aside an hour. A hundred percent margin is not too much for a beginner. Are you wondering where to apply the knife? I’d say that in nine out of ten cases, the rituals of physical wellness could be shortened. I recently spent a weekend in a London suburb and was shocked by the extreme focus on physical activities everywhere. It felt like a huge waste of muscle power all around me. It disturbed me. "Poor, neglected mind!" I thought. "Cricket, football, boating, golf, and tennis have their 'seasons,' but not you!" These thoughts are general and introductory. Now I need to get into specifics.



MENTAL CALISTHENICS

I have dealt with the state of mind in which one should begin a serious effort towards mental efficiency, and also with the probable causes of failure in previous efforts. We come now to what I may call the calisthenics of the [25]business, exercises which may be roughly compared to the technical exercises necessary in learning to play a musical instrument. It is curious that a person studying a musical instrument will have no false shame whatever in doing mere exercises for the fingers and wrists while a person who is trying to get his mind into order will almost certainly experience a false shame in going through performances which are undoubtedly good for him. Herein lies one of the great obstacles to mental efficiency. Tell a man that he should join a memory class, and he will hum and haw, and say, as I have already remarked, that memory isn't everything; and, in short, he won't join the memory class, partly from indolence, I grant, but more from false shame. (Is not this true?) He will even hesitate about learning things by heart. Yet there are few mental exercises better than learning great poetry or prose by heart. Twenty lines a week for six months: what a "cure" for debility! The chief, but not the only, merit of learning by heart as an exercise is that it compels the mind to concentrate. And the most important preliminary to self-development is the faculty of concentrating at will. Another excellent exercise is to read a page of [26]no-matter-what, and then immediately to write down—in one's own words or in the author's—one's full recollection of it. A quarter of an hour a day! No more! And it works like magic.

I have addressed the mindset needed to start a serious effort toward mental efficiency and also discussed the likely reasons for failing in past attempts. Now, let's talk about what I can call the basic exercises of the [25] business, which can be roughly compared to the practice exercises required to learn a musical instrument. It's interesting that someone learning an instrument feels no shame in doing simple finger and wrist exercises, while a person trying to organize their mind will likely feel embarrassed about engaging in activities that are clearly beneficial for them. This is one of the major barriers to mental efficiency. If you suggest to a person that they should join a memory class, they'll hesitate and say, as I've noted before, that memory isn't everything; ultimately, they won’t join the class, partly out of laziness, but more so from embarrassment. (Isn't that true?) They will even be reluctant to memorize things. Yet, few mental exercises are better than memorizing great poetry or prose. Memorizing twenty lines a week for six months could be an incredible "cure" for weakness! The main, but not the only, benefit of memorizing as an exercise is that it forces the mind to focus. The most essential preliminary to self-development is the ability to concentrate on command. Another great exercise is to read a page of [26]—regardless of the content—and then immediately write down your complete recollection of it, either in your own words or in the author's words. Just fifteen minutes a day! No more! And it works wonders.

This brings me to the department of writing. I am a writer by profession; but I do not think I have any prejudices in favour of the exercise of writing. Indeed, I say to myself every morning that if there is one exercise in the world which I hate, it is the exercise of writing. But I must assert that in my opinion the exercise of writing is an indispensable part of any genuine effort towards mental efficiency. I don't care much what you write, so long as you compose sentences and achieve continuity. There are forty ways of writing in an unprofessional manner, and they are all good. You may keep "a full diary," as Mr. Arthur Christopher Benson says he does. This is one of the least good ways. Diaries, save in experienced hands like those of Mr. Benson, are apt to get themselves done with the very minimum of mental effort. They also tend to an exaggeration of egotism, and if they are left lying about they tend to strife. Further, one never knows when one may not be [27]compelled to produce them in a court of law. A journal is better. Do not ask me to define the difference between a journal and a diary. I will not and I cannot. It is a difference that one feels instinctively. A diary treats exclusively of one's self and one's doings; a journal roams wider, and notes whatever one has observed of interest. A diary relates that one had lobster mayonnaise for dinner and rose the next morning with a headache, doubtless attributable to mental strain. A journal relates that Mrs. ——, whom one took into dinner, had brown eyes, and an agreeable trick of throwing back her head after asking a question, and gives her account of her husband's strange adventures in Colorado, etc. A diary is

This brings me to the writing department. I’m a writer by profession, but I don’t think I have any bias in favor of writing. In fact, I tell myself every morning that if there’s one thing I dislike, it’s writing. However, I must say that, in my opinion, writing is an essential part of any genuine effort toward mental efficiency. I don’t care much about what you write, as long as you form sentences and maintain continuity. There are plenty of ways to write informally, and they’re all acceptable. You might keep “a full diary,” as Mr. Arthur Christopher Benson claims he does. This is one of the less effective methods. Diaries, except in the hands of skilled people like Mr. Benson, tend to require very little mental effort. They often lead to excessive self-centeredness, and if left lying around, they can cause conflict. Plus, you never know when you might be required to produce them in a court of law. A journal is better. Don't ask me to explain the difference between a journal and a diary. I can’t and I won’t. It’s a difference you feel instinctively. A diary focuses solely on yourself and your activities; a journal has a broader scope and notes anything interesting you’ve observed. A diary might mention that you had lobster mayonnaise for dinner and woke up the next morning with a headache, likely due to mental strain. A journal, on the other hand, would note that Mrs. —, whom you had for dinner, had brown eyes and a charming way of tossing her head back after asking a question, and recounts her husband’s unusual adventures in Colorado, etc. A diary is

All I, I, I, I, itself I

(to quote a line of the transcendental poetry of Mary Baker G. Eddy). A journal is the large spectacle of life. A journal may be special or general. I know a man who keeps a journal of all cases of current superstition which he actually encounters. He began it without the slightest suspicion that he was beginning a document of astounding interest and real scientific value; but such was the fact. In default of a diary or a [28]journal, one may write essays (provided one has the moral courage); or one may simply make notes on the book one reads. Or one may construct anthologies of passages which have made an individual and particular appeal to one's tastes. Anthology construction is one of the pleasantest hobbies that a person who is not mad about golf and bridge—that is to say, a thinking person—can possibly have; and I recommend it to those who, discreetly mistrusting their power to keep up a fast pace from start to finish, are anxious to begin their intellectual course gently and mildly. In any event, writing—the act of writing—is vital to almost any scheme. I would say it was vital to every scheme, without exception, were I not sure that some kind correspondent would instantly point out a scheme to which writing was obviously not vital.

(to quote a line of the transcendental poetry of Mary Baker G. Eddy). A journal is a broad overview of life. A journal can be specific or general. I know a guy who keeps a journal of all the superstitions he comes across. He started it without realizing he was creating a document of incredible interest and genuine scientific worth; but that’s what happened. If you don’t have a diary or a [28]journal, you can write essays (if you have the guts); or you can just make notes on the books you read. Or you can put together collections of quotes that resonate with your tastes. Putting together anthologies is one of the most enjoyable hobbies for someone who isn’t crazy about golf and bridge—that is, a thoughtful person—and I recommend it to those who, cautiously doubting their ability to maintain a fast pace from start to finish, want to start their intellectual journey gently. In any case, writing—the act of writing—is essential to almost any plan. I would say it’s essential to every plan, without exception, if I weren’t sure that some kind reader would immediately point out a plan where writing clearly isn’t essential.

After writing comes thinking. (The sequence may be considered odd, but I adhere to it.) In this connexion I cannot do better than quote an admirable letter which I have received from a correspondent who wishes to be known only as "An Oxford Lecturer." The italics (except the last) are mine, not his. He says: "Till a man [29]has got his physical brain completely under his control—suppressing its too-great receptivity, its tendencies to reproduce idly the thoughts of others, and to be swayed by every passing gust of emotion—I hold that he cannot do a tenth part of the work that he would then be able to perform with little or no effort. Moreover, work apart, he has not entered upon his kingdom, and unlimited possibilities of future development are barred to him. Mental efficiency can be gained by constant practice in meditation—i.e., by concentrating the mind, say, for but ten minutes daily, but with absolute regularity, on some of the highest thoughts of which it is capable. Failures will be frequent, but they must be regarded with simple indifference and dogged perseverance in the path chosen. If that path be followed without intermission even for a few weeks the results will speak for themselves." I thoroughly agree with what this correspondent says, and am obliged to him for having so ably stated the case. But I regard such a practice of meditation as he indicates as being rather an "advanced" exercise for a beginner. After the beginner has got under way, and gained a little confidence in his strength of purpose, and acquired the skill to define his [30]thoughts sufficiently to write them down—then it would be time enough, in my view, to undertake what "An Oxford Lecturer" suggests. By the way, he highly recommends Mrs. Annie Besant's book, Thought Power: Its Control and Culture. He says that it treats the subject with scientific clearness, and gives a practical method of training the mind, I endorse the latter part of the statement.

After writing comes thinking. (This order might seem strange, but I stand by it.) In this regard, I can’t do better than share a brilliant letter I received from someone who prefers to be identified only as "An Oxford Lecturer." The italics (except the last one) are mine, not his. He says: "Until a person [29]has complete control over their physical brain—holding back its excessive receptivity, its tendency to mindlessly echo others' thoughts, and to be influenced by every fleeting emotion—I believe they can’t accomplish even a fraction of what they could achieve with minimal effort. Furthermore, aside from work, they haven’t entered their realm, and endless possibilities for future growth are closed off to them. Mental efficiency can be developed through regular meditation practice—specifically, by focusing the mind for just ten minutes a day, but doing so consistently on some of the highest thoughts it can handle. There will be frequent failures, but they should be met with indifference and determination to stick with the chosen path. If that path is pursued without interruption even for a few weeks, the results will be evident." I completely agree with what this correspondent has said and appreciate him for articulating the case so well. However, I see the meditation practice he describes as somewhat of an "advanced" exercise for beginners. After a beginner has started, gained a bit of confidence in their determination, and learned to articulate their [30]thoughts enough to write them down, then I think it would be the right time to take on what "An Oxford Lecturer" suggests. By the way, he highly recommends Mrs. Annie Besant's book, Thought Power: Its Control and Culture. He mentions that it approaches the topic with scientific clarity and offers a practical method for training the mind. I agree with the latter part of his statement.

So much for the more or less technical processes of stirring the mind from its sloth and making it exactly obedient to the aspirations of the soul. And here I close. Numerous correspondents have asked me to outline a course of reading for them. In other words, they have asked me to particularize for them the aspirations of their souls. My subject, however, was not self-development My subject was mental efficiency as a means to self-development. Of course, one can only acquire mental efficiency in the actual effort of self-development. But I was concerned, not with the choice of route; rather with the manner of following the route. You say to me that I am busying myself with the best method of walking, and refusing to discuss where to go. Precisely. One [31]man cannot tell another man where the other man wants to go.

So much for the somewhat technical methods of waking the mind from its laziness and making it fully responsive to the desires of the soul. Now, I’ll wrap things up. Many readers have asked me to suggest a reading list for them. In other words, they want me to specify the desires of their souls. However, my topic wasn't self-improvement; it was mental efficiency as a tool for self-improvement. Sure, you can only achieve mental efficiency through the actual process of self-improvement. But my focus was not on which path to take; it was on how to travel that path. You might say I’m focused on the best way to walk while not discussing where to go. Exactly. One [31]person can't tell another person where they want to go.

If he can't himself decide on a goal he may as well curl up and expire, for the root of the matter is not in him. I will content myself with pointing out that the entire universe is open for inspection. Too many people fancy that self-development means literature. They associate the higher life with an intimate knowledge of the life of Charlotte Brontë, or the order of the plays of Shakespeare. The higher life may just as well be butterflies, or funeral customs, or county boundaries, or street names, or mosses, or stars, or slugs, as Charlotte Brontë or Shakespeare. Choose what interests you. Lots of finely-organized, mentally-efficient persons can't read Shakespeare at any price, and if you asked them who was the author of The Tenant of Wildfell Hall they might proudly answer Emily Brontë, if they didn't say they never heard of it. An accurate knowledge of any subject, coupled with a carefully nurtured sense of the relativity of that subject to other subjects, implies an enormous self-development. With this hint I conclude.

If he can't decide on a goal for himself, he might as well give up and fade away, because the core issue isn't within him. I'll just point out that the whole universe is available for exploration. Too many people think that self-improvement equates to literature. They link a higher life with being deeply familiar with Charlotte Brontë's life or the order of Shakespeare's plays. The higher life can just as easily be about butterflies, funeral customs, county borders, street names, mosses, stars, or slugs, just like it can be with Charlotte Brontë or Shakespeare. Pick what interests you. Many well-organized, mentally sharp individuals can't stand Shakespeare at any cost, and if you asked them who wrote The Tenant of Wildfell Hall, they might confidently say it was Emily Brontë, if they didn't say they had never heard of it. A solid understanding of any subject, paired with a well-cultivated awareness of how that subject relates to others, indicates significant self-growth. With that note, I’ll wrap up.







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EXPRESSING ONE'S INDIVIDUALITY


A most curious and useful thing to realize is that one never knows the impression one is creating on other people. One may often guess pretty accurately whether it is good, bad, or indifferent—some people render it unnecessary for one to guess, they practically inform one—but that is not what I mean. I mean much more than that. I mean that one has one's self no mental picture corresponding to the mental picture which one's personality leaves in the minds of one's friends. Has it ever struck you that there is a mysterious individual going around, walking the streets, calling at houses for tea, chatting, laughing, grumbling, arguing, and that all your friends know him and have long since added him up and come to a definite conclusion about him—without saying more than a chance, cautious word to you; and that that person is you? Supposing that you came into a [33]drawing-room where you were having tea, do you think you would recognize yourself as an individuality? I think not. You would be apt to say to yourself, as guests do when disturbed in drawing-rooms by other guests: "Who's this chap? Seems rather queer, I hope he won't be a bore." And your first telling would be slightly hostile. Why, even when you meet yourself in an unsuspected mirror in the very clothes that you have put on that very day and that you know by heart, you are almost always shocked by the realization that you are you. And now and then, when you have gone to the glass to arrange your hair in the full sobriety of early morning, have you not looked on an absolute stranger, and has not that stranger piqued your curiosity? And if it is thus with precise external details of form, colour, and movement, what may it not be with the vague complex effect of the mental and moral individuality?

A really interesting and useful thing to understand is that you never know the impression you're making on other people. You can often guess pretty accurately whether it's good, bad, or just okay—some people make it clear without needing you to guess, but that's not what I mean. I mean much more than that. I mean that you don't have a mental image that matches how your personality comes across to your friends. Has it ever occurred to you that there's a mysterious person out there, walking the streets, visiting homes for tea, chatting, laughing, complaining, arguing, and that all your friends know him and have already formed a clear opinion about him—without saying more than a few cautious words to you; and that person is you? Imagine you walked into a [33] drawing room where you were having tea. Do you think you'd recognize yourself as an individual? I don’t think so. You’d probably think to yourself, like guests do when they're interrupted in drawing rooms: "Who’s this guy? Seems a bit strange; I hope he won’t be boring." And your first impression would likely be a bit negative. Even when you unexpectedly catch a glimpse of yourself in a mirror while wearing the same clothes you put on that very day—clothes you know well—you’re often shocked to realize that you're looking at yourself. And sometimes, when you look in the mirror to fix your hair in the early morning, don’t you see a complete stranger, and doesn’t that stranger intrigue you? And if this is true for the specific external details of your appearance, what might it be like for the complex overall impact of your mental and moral individuality?

A man honestly tries to make a good impression. What is the result? The result merely is that his friends, in the privacy of their minds, set him down as a man who tries to make a good impression. If much depends on the result of a [34]single interview, or a couple of interviews, a man may conceivably force another to accept an impression of himself which he would like to convey. But if the receiver of the impression is to have time at his disposal, then the giver of the impression may just as well sit down and put his hands in his pockets, for nothing that he can do will modify or influence in any way the impression that he will ultimately give. The real impress is, in the end, given unconsciously, not consciously; and further, it is received unconsciously, not consciously. It depends partly on both persons. And it is immutably fixed beforehand. There can be no final deception. Take the extreme case, that of the mother and her son. One hears that the son hoodwinks his mother. Not he! If he is cruel, neglectful, overbearing, she is perfectly aware of it. He does not deceive her, and she does not deceive herself. I have often thought: If a son could look into a mother's heart, what an eye-opener he would have! "What!" he would cry. "This cold, impartial judgment, this keen vision for my faults, this implacable memory of little slights, and injustices, and callousnesses committed long ago, in the breast of my mother!" Yes, my friend, in [35]the breast of your mother. The only difference between your mother and another person is that she takes you as you are, and loves you for what you are. She isn't blind: do not imagine it.

A man genuinely tries to make a good impression. What happens? The result is simply that his friends, in their private thoughts, see him as someone who tries to impress others. If a lot rides on the outcome of a [34]single interview or a few interviews, a man might force someone to accept the impression he wants to create. But if the person receiving the impression has time to ponder it, then the giver might as well sit back and relax, because nothing he does will change or influence the impression he ultimately gives. The real impression is, in the end, given unconsciously, not consciously; and further, it is received unconsciously, not consciously. It depends on both individuals. And it is firmly established ahead of time. There can be no ultimate deception. Consider the extreme case of a mother and her son. You might hear that the son tricks his mother. Not true! If he is cruel, neglectful, or domineering, she sees right through it. He doesn't deceive her, and she doesn't deceive herself. I've often thought: if a son could look into a mother's heart, what an awakening it would be! "What!" he would exclaim. "This cold, objective judgment, this sharp awareness of my flaws, this relentless memory of past slights and injustices, and unkindnesses from long ago, all within my mother's heart!" Yes, my friend, in [35]the heart of your mother. The only difference between your mother and anyone else is that she accepts you as you are and loves you for who you are. She’s not blind: don’t think that.

The marvel is, not that people are such bad judges of character, but that they are such good judges, especially of what I may call fundamental character. The wiliest person cannot for ever conceal his fundamental character from the simplest. And people are very stern judges, too. Think of your best friends—are you oblivious of their defects? On the contrary, you are perhaps too conscious of them. When you summon them before your mind's eye, it is no ideal creation that you see. When you meet them and talk to them you are constantly making reservations in their disfavour—unless, of course, you happen to be a schoolgirl gushing over like a fountain with enthusiasm. It is well, when one is judging a friend, to remember that he is judging you with the same godlike and superior impartiality. It is well to grasp the fact that you are going through life under the scrutiny of a band of acquaintances who are subject to very few illusions about you, whose views of you are, indeed, apt to be harsh and [36]even cruel. Above all it is advisable to comprehend thoroughly that the things in your individuality which annoy your friends most are the things of which you are completely unconscious. It is not until years have passed that one begins to be able to form a dim idea of what one has looked like to one's friends. At forty one goes back ten years, and one says sadly, but with a certain amusement: "I must have been pretty blatant then. I can see how I must have exasperated 'em. And yet I hadn't the faintest notion of it at the time. My intentions were of the best. Only I didn't know enough." And one recollects some particularly crude action, and kicks one's self.... Yes, that is all very well; and the enlightenment which has come with increasing age is exceedingly satisfactory. But you are forty now. What shall you be saying of yourself at fifty? Such reflections foster humility, and they foster also a reluctance, which it is impossible to praise too highly, to tread on other people's toes.

The amazing thing isn't that people are such bad judges of character, but that they're actually pretty good at it, especially when it comes to fundamental character. Even the smartest person can't hide their true nature from the simplest individual forever. And people can be pretty tough judges too. Think about your closest friends—are you blind to their flaws? On the contrary, you probably notice them even more. When you think of them, you're not seeing an idealized version. When you interact with them, you're constantly noting their shortcomings—unless, of course, you're a schoolgirl bubbling over with excitement. It’s important to remember that when you're judging a friend, they’re judging you with the same godlike and superior objectivity. It’s crucial to realize that you’re moving through life while being watched by a group of acquaintances who are not fooled by many illusions about you, whose perceptions can be quite harsh and even cruel. Most importantly, it’s advisable to understand that the traits in your personality that annoy your friends the most are the very things you are completely unaware of. It often takes years before one starts to get a vague sense of how one has appeared to friends. At forty, one looks back a decade and thinks sadly, yet a bit amusingly: "I must have been pretty obvious then. I can see how I must have frustrated them. And yet I had no clue at the time. My intentions were good, I just didn’t know better." And you remember some particularly awkward behavior and regret it... Yes, that’s all fair enough; the understanding that comes with age is indeed satisfying. But you’re forty now. What will you think of yourself at fifty? Such thoughts encourage humility and create a healthy caution about stepping on other people's toes.

A moment ago I used the phrase "fundamental character." It is a reminiscence of Stevenson's phrase "fundamental decency." And [37]it is the final test by which one judges one's friends. "After all, he's a decent fellow." We must be able to use that formula concerning our friends. Kindliness of heart is not the greatest of human qualities—and its general effect on the progress of the world is not entirely beneficent—but it is the greatest of human qualities in friendship. It is the least dispensable quality. We come back to it with relief from more brilliant qualities. And it has the great advantage of always going with a broad mind. Narrow-minded people are never kind-hearted. You may be inclined to dispute this statement: please think it over; I am inclined to uphold it.

A moment ago, I used the term "fundamental character." It reminds me of Stevenson's term "fundamental decency." And [37] it serves as the ultimate measure by which we evaluate our friends. "After all, he's a decent guy." We need to be able to apply that standard to our friends. Kindness isn't the greatest human quality—and its overall impact on the world isn't always positive—but it is the most essential quality in friendship. It’s the least replaceable trait. We find comfort in it compared to more impressive qualities. Plus, it has the major advantage of always accompanying an open mind. Close-minded people are never kind-hearted. You might be tempted to disagree with this statement: please consider it; I am inclined to stand by it.

We can forgive the absence of any quality except kindliness of heart. And when a man lacks that, we blame him, we will not forgive him. This is, of course, scandalous. A man is born as he is born. And he can as easily add a cubit to his stature as add kindliness to his heart. The feat never has been done, and never will be done. And yet we blame those who have not kindliness. We have the incredible, insufferable, and odious audacity to blame them. We think of them as though they had nothing [38]to do but go into a shop and buy kindliness. I hear you say that kindliness of heart can be "cultivated." Well, I hate to have even the appearance of contradicting you, but it can only be cultivated in the botanical sense. You can't cultivate violets on a nettle. A philosopher has enjoined us to suffer fools gladly. He had more usefully enjoined us to suffer ill-natured persons gladly.... I see that in a fit of absentmindedness I have strayed into the pulpit. I descend.

We can overlook the lack of any quality except kindness of heart. And when someone doesn’t have that, we judge them; we won’t forgive them. This is, of course, outrageous. A person is born as they are born. And it’s just as impossible to make someone more kind as it is to make them taller. No one has ever managed to do that, and no one ever will. Yet we still blame those who aren’t kind. We have the unbelievable, intolerable, and ridiculous audacity to blame them. We assume they could just walk into a store and buy kindness. I can hear you say that kindness of heart can be "cultivated." Well, I hate to contradict you, but it can only be cultivated in the botanical sense. You can’t grow violets on a nettle. A philosopher has told us to tolerate fools gladly. It would have been more helpful if he had told us to tolerate unkind people gladly.... I realize that in a moment of distraction I’ve wandered into lecturing. I’ll step back.







IIIToC

BREAKING WITH THE PAST


On that dark morning we woke up, and it instantly occurred to us—or at any rate to those of us who have preserved some of our illusions and our naïveté—that we had something to be cheerful about, some cause for a gay and strenuous vivacity; and then we remembered that it was New Year's Day, and there were those Resolutions to put into force! Of course, we all smile in a superior manner at the very mention of New Year's Resolutions; we pretend they are toys for children, and that we have long since ceased to regard them seriously as a possible aid to conduct. But we are such deceivers, such miserable, moral cowards, in such terror of appearing naïve, that I for one am not to be taken in by that smile and that pretence. The individual who scoffs at New Year's Resolutions resembles the woman who says she doesn't look under the bed at nights; the truth is not in him, and in the very moment [40]of his lying, could his cranium suddenly become transparent, we should see Resolutions burning brightly in his brain like lamps in Trafalgar Square. Of this I am convinced, that nineteen-twentieths of us got out of bed that morning animated by that special feeling of gay and strenuous vivacity which Resolutions alone can produce. And nineteen-twentieths of us were also conscious of a high virtue, forgetting that it is not the making of Resolutions, but the keeping of them, which renders pardonable the consciousness of virtue.

On that dark morning we woke up, and it instantly occurred to us—or at least to those of us who still held on to some of our illusions and our naïveté—that we had something to be cheerful about, a reason for lively excitement; and then we remembered it was New Year’s Day, and there were those Resolutions to put into action! Of course, we all smile condescendingly at the mere mention of New Year’s Resolutions; we act like they’re just toys for kids, and that we’ve long since stopped taking them seriously as a way to guide our behavior. But we are such deceivers, such miserable, moral cowards, so afraid of looking naïve, that I for one won’t be fooled by that smile and that pretense. The person who mocks New Year’s Resolutions is like the woman who claims she doesn’t check under the bed at night; the truth is not in them, and in the very moment [40]of their deception, if their head were suddenly to become transparent, we would see Resolutions glowing brightly in their mind like lamps in Trafalgar Square. I am convinced that nineteen out of twenty of us got out of bed that morning filled with that unique sense of lively excitement that only Resolutions can bring. And nineteen out of twenty of us were also aware of a sense of virtue, forgetting that it’s not the making of Resolutions, but the keeping of them, that makes the consciousness of virtue excusable.

And at this hour, while the activity of the Resolution is yet in full blast, I would wish to insist on the truism, obvious perhaps, but apt to be overlooked, that a man cannot go forward and stand still at the same time. Just as moralists have often animadverted upon the tendency to live in the future, so I would animadvert upon the tendency to live in the past. Because all around me I see men carefully tying themselves with an unbreakable rope to an immovable post at the bottom of a hill and then struggling to climb the hill. If there is one Resolution more important than another it is the Resolution to break with the past. If life is not a continual [41]denial of the past, then it is nothing. This may seem a hard and callous doctrine, but you know there are aspects of common sense which decidedly are hard and callous. And one finds constantly in plain common-sense persons (O rare and select band!) a surprising quality of ruthlessness mingled with softer traits. Have you not noticed it? The past is absolutely intractable. One can't do anything with it. And an exaggerated attention to it is like an exaggerated attention to sepulchres—a sign of barbarism. Moreover, the past is usually the enemy of cheerfulness, and cheerfulness is a most precious attainment.

And at this moment, while the Resolution is still going strong, I want to emphasize a simple truth that might seem obvious but is often overlooked: you can't move forward and stay still at the same time. Just as moralists often criticize the tendency to focus on the future, I want to call out the tendency to dwell on the past. All around me, I see people tying themselves to an unbreakable rope connected to a fixed post at the bottom of a hill and then struggling to climb that hill. If there’s one Resolution that matters more than any other, it’s the Resolution to let go of the past. If life isn’t a constant denial of the past, then it’s nothing. This might sound harsh and uncaring, but you know that some aspects of common sense can be pretty tough and unemotional. You often find in straightforward common-sense people (oh, such a rare and special group!) a surprising blend of ruthlessness and gentler qualities. Haven’t you noticed? The past is completely unchangeable. You can’t do anything with it. Focusing too much on it is like obsessing over graves—a sign of backwardness. Moreover, the past often stands in the way of happiness, and happiness is a truly valuable thing to achieve.

Personally, I could even go so far as to exhibit hostility towards grief, and a marked hostility towards remorse—two states of mind which feed on the past instead of on the present. Remorse, which is not the same thing as repentance, serves no purpose that I have ever been able to discover. What one has done, one has done, and there's an end of it. As a great prelate unforgettably said, "Things are what they are, and the consequences of them will be what they will be. Why, then, attempt to [42]deceive ourselves"—that remorse for wickedness is a useful and praiseworthy exercise? Much better to forget. As a matter of fact, people "indulge" in remorse; it is a somewhat vicious form of spiritual pleasure. Grief, of course, is different, and it must be handled with delicate consideration. Nevertheless, when I see, as one does see, a man or a woman dedicating existence to sorrow for the loss of a beloved creature, and the world tacitly applauding, my feeling is certainly inimical. To my idea, that man or woman is not honouring, but dishonouring, the memory of the departed; society suffers, the individual suffers, and no earthly or heavenly good is achieved. Grief is of the past; it mars the present; it is a form of indulgence, and it ought to be bridled much more than it often is. The human heart is so large that mere remembrance should not be allowed to tyrannize over every part of it.

Personally, I could even go as far as to show hostility towards grief and a clear hostility towards remorse—two mindsets that feed on the past rather than the present. Remorse, which isn't the same as repentance, serves no purpose that I've ever been able to identify. What’s done is done, and that’s that. As a great religious leader once said, "Things are what they are, and the consequences of them will be what they will be. Why, then, attempt to [42]deceive ourselves"—that feeling remorse for wrongdoing is a useful and commendable exercise? It’s much better to forget. In fact, people often "indulge" in remorse; it’s a somewhat unhealthy form of spiritual pleasure. Grief, of course, is different and must be handled with care. Still, when I see someone dedicating their life to mourning a lost loved one, and the world quietly cheering them on, my reaction is definitely negative. In my view, that person is not honoring but dishonoring the memory of the deceased; society suffers, the individual suffers, and no good comes of it, either worldly or heavenly. Grief belongs to the past; it damages the present; it’s a kind of indulgence that should be restrained much more than it usually is. The human heart is so vast that mere remembrance should not be allowed to control every part of it.

But cases of remorse and absorbing grief are comparatively rare. What is not rare is that misguided loyalty to the past which dominates the lives of so many of us. I do not speak of leading principles, which are not likely to [43]incommode us by changing; I speak of secondary yet still important things. We will not do so-and-so because we have never done it—as if that was a reason! Or we have always done so-and-so, therefore we must always do it—as if that was logic! This disposition to an irrational Toryism is curiously discoverable in advanced Radicals, and it will show itself in the veriest trifles. I remember such a man whose wife objected to his form of hat (not that I would call so crowning an affair as a hat a trifle!). "My dear," he protested, "I have always worn this sort of hat. It may not suit me, but it is absolutely impossible for me to alter it now." However, she took him by means of an omnibus to a hat shop and bought him another hat and put it on his head, and made a present of the old one to the shop assistant, and marched him out of the shop. "There!" she said, "you see how impossible it is." This is a parable. And I will not insult your intelligence by applying it.

But instances of regret and deep sorrow are pretty uncommon. What’s more common is the misguided loyalty to the past that drives so many of us. I'm not talking about core principles, which are unlikely to [43] disrupt us by changing; I mean the less important but still significant things. We won’t do something because we’ve never done it—like that’s a valid reason! Or we’ve always done something a certain way, so we must always do it—like that’s logical! This tendency towards an irrational traditionalism can surprisingly be found in even the most progressive people, and it can appear in the smallest details. I recall a guy whose wife didn’t like his choice of hat (not that I’d call something as significant as a hat a small detail!). “My dear,” he argued, “I’ve always worn this kind of hat. It might not look good on me, but it’s completely impossible for me to change it now.” However, she took him on a bus to a hat store, bought him a new hat, put it on his head, gave the old one to the shop assistant, and marched him out of the store. “See?” she said, “you see how impossible it is.” This is a parable. And I won’t insult your intelligence by explaining it.

The faculty that we chiefly need when we are in the resolution-making mood is the faculty of imagination, the faculty of looking at our lives [44]as though we had never looked at them before—freshly, with a new eye. Supposing that you had been born mature and full of experience, and that yesterday had been the first day of your life, you would regard it to-day as an experiment, you would challenge each act in it, and you would probably arrange to-morrow in a manner that showed a healthy disrespect for yesterday. You certainly would not say: "I have done so-and-so once, therefore I must keep on doing it." The past is never more than an experiment. A genuine appreciation of this fact will make our new Resolutions more valuable and drastic than they usually are. I have a dim notion that the most useful Resolution for most of us would be to break quite fifty per cent. of all the vows we have ever made. "Do not accustom yourself to enchain your volatility with vows.... Take this warning; it is of great importance." (The wisdom is Johnson's, but I flatter myself on the italics.)

The main skill we need when we're in a decision-making state is imagination—the ability to look at our lives [44] as if we’re seeing them for the first time—freshly, with a new perspective. Imagine you were born fully grown and experienced, and yesterday was the first day of your life; you’d see today as an experiment, you’d question every action, and you’d likely plan tomorrow in a way that showed a healthy disregard for yesterday. You certainly wouldn’t think, “I did this once, so I have to keep doing it.” The past is just an experiment. Truly recognizing this will make our new resolutions more impactful and bold than they usually are. I have a strong feeling that the most beneficial resolution for many of us would be to break about fifty percent of all the promises we've ever made. “Don’t get used to tying your volatility down with promises.... Take this advice; it's very important.” (The wisdom is Johnson's, but I’m proud of the italics.)







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SETTLING DOWN IN LIFE


The other day a well-known English novelist asked me how old I thought she was, really. "Well," I said to myself, "since she has asked for it, she shall have it; I will be as true to life as her novels." So I replied audaciously: "Thirty-eight." I fancied I was erring if at all, on the side of "really," and I trembled. She laughed triumphantly. "I am forty-three," she said. The incident might have passed off entirely to my satisfaction had she not proceeded: "And now tell me how old you are." That was like a woman. Women imagine that men have no reticences, no pretty little vanities. What an error! Of course I could not be beaten in candour by a woman. I had to offer myself a burnt sacrifice to her curiosity, and I did it, bravely but not unflinchingly. And then afterwards the fact of my age remained with me, worried me, obsessed me. I saw more clearly than ever before that age was telling on me. I could [46]not be blind to the deliberation of my movements in climbing stairs and in dressing. Once upon a time the majority of persons I met in the street seemed much older than myself. It is different now. The change has come unperceived. There is a generation younger than mine that smokes cigars and falls in love. Astounding! Once I could play left-wing forward for an hour and a half without dropping down dead. Once I could swim a hundred and fifty feet submerged at the bottom of a swimming-bath. Incredible! Simply incredible!... Can it be that I have already lived?

The other day, a well-known English novelist asked me how old I thought she was, really. "Well," I thought to myself, "since she’s asked, I’ll give her an honest answer; I’ll be as real as her novels." So I replied boldly: "Thirty-eight." I figured I was only slightly off, leaning towards "really," and I felt nervous. She laughed triumphantly. "I’m forty-three," she said. The situation might have gone away without bothering me if she hadn’t followed up with, "And now tell me how old you are." Typical of a woman. Women seem to think men have no reservations, no little vanity. What a mistake! Of course, I couldn’t let a woman outdo me in honesty. I had to sacrifice myself to her curiosity, and I did it, bravely but not without hesitation. After that, though, the thought of my age lingered with me, bothered me, haunted me. I realized more than ever that age was catching up with me. I couldn’t ignore how deliberate my movements were when climbing stairs and getting dressed. There was a time when most people I encountered on the street seemed way older than me. That’s changed now. The shift happened so subtly. There’s a generation younger than mine that smokes cigars and falls in love. Amazing! There used to be a time when I could play left-wing forward for an hour and a half without feeling exhausted. There was a time I could swim one hundred fifty feet underwater at the bottom of a pool. Unbelievable! Simply unbelievable!... Is it possible that I’ve already lived?

And lo! I, at the age of nearly forty, am putting to myself the old questions concerning the intrinsic value of life, the fundamentally important questions: What have I got out of it? What am I likely to get out of it? In a word, what's it worth? If a man can ask himself a question more momentous, radical, and critical than these questions, I would like to know what it is. Innumerable philosophers have tried to answer these questions in a general way for the average individual, and possibly they have succeeded pretty well. Possibly I might derive [47]benefit from a perusal of their answers. But do you suppose I am going to read them? Not I! Do you suppose that I can recall the wisdom that I happen already to have read? Not I! My mind is a perfect blank at this moment in regard to the wisdom of others on the essential question. Strange, is it not? But quite a common experience, I believe. Besides, I don't actually care twopence what any other philosopher has replied to my question. In this, each man must be his own philosopher. There is an instinct in the profound egoism of human nature which prevents us from accepting such ready-made answers. What is it to us what Plato thought? Nothing. And thus the question remains ever new, and ever unanswered, and ever of dramatic interest. The singular, the highly singular thing is—and here I arrive at my point—that so few people put the question to themselves in time, that so many put it too late, or even die without putting it.

And here I am, almost forty, asking myself the age-old questions about the real value of life, the really important ones: What have I gained from it? What can I expect to get out of it? In short, what's it worth? If someone can ask a more important, foundational, and critical question than these, I'd like to know what it is. Countless philosophers have tried to answer these questions generally for the average person, and they might have done a decent job. I might benefit from reading their answers. But do you think I'm going to do that? Not a chance! Do you think I can remember the wisdom I've already read? Not at all! Right now, my mind is completely blank when it comes to other people's thoughts on this essential question. Strange, isn't it? But I think it’s a pretty common experience. Plus, I honestly don’t care at all what any other philosopher has said in response to my question. In this, each person has to be their own philosopher. There's an instinct in the deep self-centeredness of human nature that stops us from accepting easy answers. What does Plato’s opinion matter to us? Nothing at all. So the question stays eternally fresh, unanswered, and always intriguing. The remarkable thing is—that leads me to my point—that so few people ask themselves this question in time; many wait too long, or even die without ever asking it.

I am firmly convinced that an immense proportion of my instructed fellow-creatures do not merely omit to strike the balance-sheet of their lives, they omit even the preliminary operation of [48]taking stock. They go on, and on, and on, buying and selling they know not what, at unascertained prices, dropping money into the till and taking it out. They don't know what goods are in the shop, nor what amount is in the till, but they have a clear impression that the living-room behind the shop is by no means as luxurious and as well-ventilated as they would like it to be. And the years pass, and that beautiful furniture and that system of ventilation are not achieved. And then one day they die, and friends come to the funeral and remark: "Dear me! How stuffy this room is, and the shop's practically full of trash!" Or, some little time before they are dead, they stay later than usual in the shop one evening, and make up their minds to take stock and count the till, and the disillusion lays them low, and they struggle into the living-room and murmur: "I shall never have that beautiful furniture, and I shall never have that system of ventilation. If I had known earlier, I would have at least got a few inexpensive cushions to go on with, and I would have put my fist through a pane in the window. But it's too late now. I'm used to Windsor chairs, and I should feel the draught horribly."

I am firmly convinced that a huge number of my fellow humans don't just forget to balance the books of their lives; they don’t even do the basic step of assessing their situation. They keep going on, buying and selling things they don't really understand, at unclear prices, putting money in the register and taking it out. They have no idea what's on the shelves or how much cash is in the till, but they have a strong feeling that the living room behind the shop isn't as nice or well-ventilated as they wish it were. And as the years go by, that elegant furniture and proper ventilation never materialize. Then one day they pass away, and friends come to the funeral and comment: "Wow! This room is so stuffy, and the shop is practically filled with junk!" Or, some time before they die, they stay later than usual in the shop one evening and decide to take stock and count the money, but the reality hits them hard. They stumble into the living room and say: "I will never have that nice furniture, and I will never have that ventilation. If I had known sooner, I would have at least gotten some cheap cushions to start with, and I would have broken a window. But it’s too late now. I’m used to these Windsor chairs, and I would feel the draft terribly."

[49]If I were a preacher, and if I hadn't got more than enough to do in minding my own affairs, and if I could look any one in the face and deny that I too had pursued for nearly forty years the great British policy of muddling through and hoping for the best—in short, if things were not what they are, I would hire the Alhambra Theatre or Exeter Hall of a Sunday night—preferably the Alhambra, because more people would come to my entertainment—and I would invite all men and women over twenty-six. I would supply the seething crowd with what they desired in the way of bodily refreshment (except spirits—I would draw the line at poisons), and having got them and myself into a nice amiable expansive frame of mind, I would thus address them—of course in ringing eloquence that John Bright might have envied:

[49]If I were a preacher, and if I didn’t have more than enough to handle in my own life, and if I could look anyone in the eye and deny that I too had spent nearly forty years following the great British approach of just getting by and hoping for the best—in short, if things were different, I would rent out the Alhambra Theatre or Exeter Hall on a Sunday night—preferably the Alhambra, since more people would show up to my event—and I would invite all men and women over twenty-six. I would provide the eager crowd with the refreshments they wanted (except for alcohol—I would draw the line at toxins), and once we were all in a friendly, open-minded mood, I would address them—of course in a powerful way that even John Bright would have envied:

Men and women (I would say), companions in the universal pastime of hiding one's head in the sand,—I am about to impart to you the very essence of human wisdom. It is not abstract. It is a principle of daily application, affecting the daily round in its entirety, from the straphanging on the District Railway in the morning to the [50]straphanging on the District Railway the next morning. Beware of hope, and beware of ambition! Each is excellently tonic, like German competition, in moderation. But all of you are suffering from self-indulgence in the first, and very many of you are ruining your constitutions with the second. Be it known unto you, my dear men and women, that existence rightly considered is a fair compromise between two instincts—the instinct of hoping one day to live, and the instinct to live here and now. In most of you the first instinct has simply got the other by the throat and is throttling it. Prepare to live by all means, but for heaven's sake do not forget to live. You will never have a better chance than you have at present. You may think you will have, but you are mistaken. Pardon this bluntness. Surely you are not so naïve as to imagine that the road on the other side of that hill there is more beautiful than the piece you are now traversing! Hopes are never realized; for in the act of realization they become something else. Ambitions may be attained, but ambitions attained are rather like burnt coal, ninety per cent. of the heat generated has gone up the chimney instead of into the room. Nevertheless, [51]indulge in hopes and ambitions, which, though deceiving, are agreeable deceptions; let them cheat you a little, a lot. But do not let them cheat you too much. This that you are living now is life itself—it is much more life itself than that which you will be living twenty years hence. Grasp that truth. Dwell on it. Absorb it. Let it influence your conduct, to the end that neither the present nor the future be neglected. You search for happiness? Happiness is chiefly a matter of temperament. It is exceedingly improbable that you will by struggling gain more happiness than you already possess. In fine, settle down at once into life. (Loud cheers.)

Men and women, I'd say, partners in the universal habit of sticking their heads in the sand—I'm about to share with you the essence of human wisdom. It's not theoretical. It's a principle you can use every day, impacting everything from riding the District Line in the morning to riding it again the next morning. Be careful of hope and be wary of ambition! Both can be invigorating, like healthy competition, in moderation. But many of you are overindulging in hope, and a lot of you are damaging your well-being with ambition. Let me tell you, my dear friends, that life, when viewed correctly, is a balanced mix of two instincts—the urge to hope for a better future and the need to enjoy the present. For most of you, the first instinct has completely choked the second. By all means, prepare to live, but for heaven's sake, don't forget to actually live. You won't have a better opportunity than you do right now. You might think that a better chance lies ahead, but you're mistaken. Sorry for being blunt. Surely, you’re not foolish enough to think that the view on the other side of that hill is prettier than the one you’re currently experiencing! Hopes are rarely fulfilled; when they are, they transform into something different. Ambitions can be achieved, but when they are, they’re often like burnt coal—most of the energy goes up the chimney instead of warming the room. Still, indulge in hopes and ambitions, which, though misleading, can be pleasant illusions; let them trick you a bit, or a lot. But don’t let them trick you too much. What you are living right now is life itself—it’s much more life than what you’ll be living twenty years from now. Understand that truth. Reflect on it. Let it shape your actions, so that neither the present nor the future gets overlooked. Are you looking for happiness? Happiness mostly depends on your mindset. It's highly unlikely that through struggle you'll find more happiness than you already have. So, settle right into life. (Loud cheers.)

The cheers would of course be for the refreshments.

The cheers were obviously for the snacks.

There is no doubt that the mass of the audience would consider that I had missed my vocation, and ought to have been a caterer instead of a preacher. But, once started, I would not be discouraged. I would keep on, Sunday night after Sunday night. Our leading advertisers have richly proved that the public will believe anything if they are told of it often enough. I would practise iteration, always with [52]refreshments. In the result, it would dawn upon the corporate mind that there was some glimmering of sense in my doctrine, and people would at last begin to perceive the folly of neglecting to savour the present, the folly of assuming that the future can be essentially different from the present, the fatuity of dying before they have begun to live.

There’s no doubt that most people would think I was meant to be a caterer instead of a preacher. But once I got going, I wouldn’t let that stop me. I’d keep going, week after week. Our top advertisers have clearly shown that people will believe anything if they hear it enough times. I’d use repetition, always with [52] refreshments. Eventually, it would become clear to everyone that there was some sense in my message, and people would finally start to realize the foolishness of ignoring the present, the mistake of thinking the future can be totally different from now, and the absurdity of dying before they’ve truly begun to live.







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MARRIAGE


THE DUTY OF IT

Every now and then it becomes necessary to deal faithfully with that immortal type of person, the praiser of the past at the expense of the present. I will not quote Horace, as by all the traditions of letters I ought to do, because Horace, like the incurable trimmer that he was, "hedged" on this question; and I do not admire him much either. The praiser of the past has been very rife lately. He has told us that pauperism and lunacy are mightily increasing, and though the exact opposite has been proved to be the case and he has apologized, he will have forgotten the correction in a few months, and will break out again into renewed lamentation. He has told us that we are physically deteriorating, and in such awful tones that we have shuddered, and many of us have believed. And considering that [54]the death-rate is decreasing, that slums are decreasing, that disease is decreasing, that the agricultural labourer eats more than ever he did, our credence does not do much credit to our reasoning powers, does it? Of course, there is that terrible "influx" into the towns, but I for one should be much interested to know wherein the existence of the rustic in times past was healthier than the existence of the town-dwellers of to-day. The personal appearance of agricultural veterans does not help me; they resemble starved 'bus-drivers twisted out of shape by lightning.

Every now and then, it becomes necessary to faithfully confront that timeless type of person who praises the past at the cost of the present. I won’t quote Horace, as tradition suggests I should, because Horace, being the indecisive character he was, "hedged" on this topic; and I don’t admire him much either. The praiser of the past has been quite common lately. He has told us that poverty and mental illness are significantly rising, and although the opposite has been proven true and he has apologized, he’ll likely forget that correction in a few months and start lamenting again. He’s claimed that we are physically declining, and in such dire tones that we’ve shuddered, many of us believing him. Considering that [54]the death rate is decreasing, that slums are diminishing, that diseases are less common, and that agricultural workers are eating better than ever, our acceptance of this doesn’t reflect well on our reasoning skills, does it? Of course, there’s that alarming "influx" into the cities, but I would love to know how the life of rural people in the past was healthier than that of today’s city dwellers. Just looking at the personal appearance of seasoned farmers doesn’t help; they look like starved bus drivers warped by lightning.

But the pièce de résistance of the praiser of the past is now marriage, with discreet hints about the birth-rate. The praiser of the past is going to have a magnificent time with the subject of marriage. The first moanings of the tempest have already been heard. Bishops have looked askance at the birth-rate, and have mentioned their displeasure. The matter is serious. As the phrase goes, "it strikes at the root." We are marrying later, my friends. Some of us, in the hurry and pre-occupation of business, are quite forgetting to marry. It is the duty of the citizen [55]to marry and have children, and we are neglecting our duty, we are growing selfish! No longer are produced the glorious "quiverfuls" of old times! Our fathers married at twenty; we marry at thirty-five. Why? Because a gross and enervating luxury has overtaken us. What will become of England if this continues? There will be no England! Hence we must look to it! And so on, in the same strain.

But the pièce de résistance for those who praise the past is now marriage, with subtle nods towards the birth rate. The admirer of the past is going to have a wonderful time discussing marriage. The initial rumblings of trouble are already being heard. Bishops have raised their eyebrows at the birth rate and expressed their dissatisfaction. This issue is serious. As the saying goes, "it strikes at the root." We are marrying later, my friends. Some of us, caught up in the rush of work, are completely forgetting to get married. It's a citizen's duty [55] to marry and have kids, and we are neglecting our responsibility; we're becoming selfish! Gone are the days of the glorious "quiverfuls" of the past! Our parents married at twenty; we marry at thirty-five. Why? Because we’ve become ensnared by a harmful and draining luxury. What will happen to England if this keeps up? There will be no England! So we must take action! And so on, in the same vein.

I should like to ask all those who have raised and will raise such outcries. Have you read "X"? Now, the book that I refer to as "X" is a mysterious work, written rather more than a hundred years ago by an English curate. It is a classic of English science; indeed, it is one of the great scientific books of the world. It has immensely influenced all the scientific thought of the nineteenth century, especially Darwin's. Mr. H.G. Wells, as cited in "Chambers's Cyclopædia of English Literature," describes it as "the most 'shattering' book that ever has or will be written." If I may make a personal reference, I would say that it affected me more deeply than any other scientific book that I have read. Although it is perfectly easy to understand, and [56]free from the slightest technicality, it is the most misunderstood book in English literature, simply because it is not read. The current notion about it is utterly false. It might be a powerful instrument of education, general and sociological, but publishers will not reprint it—at least, they do not. And yet it is forty times more interesting and four hundred times more educational than Gilbert White's remarks on the birds of Selborne. I will leave you to guess what "X" is, but I do not offer a prize for the solution of a problem which a vast number of my readers will certainly solve at once.

I want to ask everyone who has criticized or will criticize this. Have you read "X"? The book I’m referring to as "X" is a mysterious work, written just over a hundred years ago by an English curate. It’s a classic of English science; in fact, it’s one of the greatest scientific books ever. It’s had a huge impact on all scientific thinking in the nineteenth century, especially Darwin’s. Mr. H.G. Wells, as mentioned in "Chambers's Cyclopædia of English Literature," calls it "the most 'shattering' book that has ever been or will ever be written." Personally, I can say it impacted me more deeply than any other scientific book I've read. Even though it's very easy to understand and [56] free from any technical language, it’s the most misunderstood book in English literature, simply because people don’t read it. The current view of it is completely wrong. It could be a powerful tool for education, both general and sociological, but publishers won’t reprint it—at least, they haven’t. Yet it’s forty times more interesting and four hundred times more educational than Gilbert White's observations on the birds of Selborne. I'll let you guess what "X" is, but I won’t offer a prize for solving a puzzle that many of my readers will likely figure out right away.

If those who are worrying themselves about the change in our system of marriage would read "X," they would probably cease from worrying. For they would perceive that they had been putting the cart before the horse; that they had elevated to the dignity of fundamental principles certain average rules of conduct which had sprung solely from certain average instincts in certain average conditions, and that they were now frightened because, the conditions having changed, the rules of conduct had changed with them. One of the truths that "X" makes clear [57]is that conduct conforms to conditions, and not conditions to conduct.

If those worried about the changes in our marriage system read "X," they would probably stop worrying. They would realize they had been putting the cart before the horse; they had mistakenly treated certain average rules of behavior as fundamental principles, which came only from average instincts in average situations. Now, they are scared because, as conditions have changed, the rules of behavior have changed too. One of the truths that "X" makes clear [57] is that behavior adapts to conditions, not the other way around.

The payment of taxes is a duty which the citizen owes to the state. Marriage, with the begetting of children, is not a duty which the citizen owes to the state. Marriage, with its consequences, is a matter of personal inclination and convenience. It never has been anything else, and it never will be anything else. How could it be otherwise? If a man goes against inclination and convenience in a matter where inclination is "of the essence of the contract," he merely presents the state with a discontented citizen (if not two) in exchange for a contented one! The happiness of the state is the sum of the happiness of all its citizens; to decrease one's own happiness, then, is a singular way of doing one's duty to the state! Do you imagine that when people married early and much they did so from a sense of duty to the state—a sense of duty which our "modern luxury" has weakened? I imagine they married simply because it suited 'em. They married from sheer selfishness, as all decent people do marry. And do those who clatter about the duty of marriage kiss the [58]girls of their hearts with an eye to the general welfare? I can fancy them saying, "My angel, I love you—from a sense of duty to the state. Let us rear innumerable progeny—from a sense of duty to the state." How charmed the girls would be!

The payment of taxes is a responsibility that citizens have to the government. Marriage, along with having children, is not a responsibility that citizens owe to the government. Marriage, with all its implications, is a personal choice and a matter of convenience. It always has been and always will be. How could it be any different? If a person chooses to ignore their inclinations and convenience in a matter where those inclinations are "essential to the contract," they only end up presenting the government with an unhappy citizen (if not two) instead of a satisfied one! The well-being of the government is the total well-being of all its citizens; reducing one's own happiness is a rather odd way to fulfill one's duty to the government! Do you really think that when people married young and often, they did it out of a sense of obligation to the government—an obligation that our "modern luxury" has diminished? I believe they married simply because it worked for them. They married out of pure self-interest, like all decent people do. And do those who talk about the duty of marriage really pursue the ones they love with the public good in mind? I can imagine them saying, "My darling, I love you—from a sense of duty to the state. Let's have many children—from a sense of duty to the state." How delighted those girls would be!

If the marrying age changes, if the birth-rate shows a sympathetic tendency to follow the death-rate (as it must—see "X"), no one need be alarmed. Elementary principles of right and wrong are not trembling on their bases. The human conscience is not silenced. The nation is not going to the dogs. Conduct is adjusting itself to new conditions, and that is all. We may not be able to see exactly how conditions are changing; that is a detail; our descendants will see exactly; meanwhile the change in our conduct affords us some clew. And although certain nervous persons do get alarmed, and do preach, and do "take measures," the rest of us may remain placid in the sure faith that "measures" will avail nothing whatever. If there are two things set high above legislation, "movements," crusades, and preaching, one is the marrying age and the other is the birth-rate. For there [59]the supreme instinct comes along and stamps ruthlessly on all insincere reasonings and sham altruisms; stamps on everything, in fact, and blandly remarks: "I shall suit my own convenience, and no one but Nature herself (with a big, big N) shall talk to me. Don't pester me with Right and Wrong. I am Right and Wrong...." Having thus attempted to clear the ground a little of fudge, I propose next to offer a few simple remarks on marriage.

If the age for getting married changes and the birth rate seems to follow the death rate (as it naturally should—see "X"), there’s no need for panic. Basic principles of right and wrong aren’t shaking at their core. Human conscience isn’t silenced. The nation isn’t going to ruin. Behavior is adapting to new circumstances, and that’s all there is to it. We might not see exactly how things are changing; that’s just a detail; our future generations will understand it clearly; meanwhile, the change in our behavior gives us some insight. And even though some anxious people might freak out, preach, and try to "take action," the rest of us can stay calm in the firm belief that actions will make no difference at all. When it comes to two things that stand above laws, "movements," campaigns, and preaching, one is the marrying age and the other is the birth rate. Because there [59] the ultimate instinct comes in and ruthlessly dismisses all dishonest reasoning and fake concerns; it disregards everything, in fact, and calmly states: "I will do what’s convenient for me, and only Nature herself (with a big, big N) can talk to me. Don’t bother me with Right and Wrong. I am Right and Wrong...." Having tried to clear away some nonsense, I now intend to share a few simple thoughts on marriage.



THE ADVENTURE OF IT

Having endeavoured to show that men do not, and should not, marry from a sense of duty to the state or to mankind, but simply and solely from an egoistic inclination to marry, I now proceed to the individual case of the man who is "in a position to marry" and whose affections are not employed. Of course, if he has fallen in love, unless he happens to be a person of extremely powerful will, he will not weigh the pros and cons of marriage; he will merely marry, and forty thousand cons will not prevent him. And he will be absolutely right and justified, just as the straw as it rushes down the current is [60]absolutely right and justified. But the privilege of falling in love is not given to everybody, and the inestimable privilege of falling deeply in love is given to few. However, the man whom circumstances permit to marry but who is not in love, or is only slightly amorous, will still think of marriage. How will he think of it?

Having tried to explain that men do not, and should not, marry out of a sense of duty to the state or to society, but purely from a personal desire to marry, I now turn to the specific case of the man who is "in a position to marry" but whose feelings are not engaged. Of course, if he has fallen in love, unless he has an exceptionally strong will, he won’t consider the pros and cons of marriage; he’ll simply go ahead and marry, and no amount of reasons against it will stop him. And he will be completely right and justified, much like how the straw rushing down the current is [60] absolutely right and justified. However, the ability to fall in love isn’t available to everyone, and the priceless experience of truly falling deeply in love is granted to very few. Still, the man whose circumstances allow him to marry but who isn’t in love, or is only slightly attracted, will still contemplate marriage. How will he consider it?

I will tell you. In the first place, if he has reached the age of thirty unscathed by Aphrodite, he will reflect that that peculiar feeling of romantic expectation with which he gets up every morning would cease to exist after marriage—and it is a highly agreeable feeling! In its stead, in moments of depression, he would have the feeling of having done something irremediable, of having definitely closed an avenue for the outlet of his individuality. (Kindly remember that I am not describing what this human man ought to think. I am describing what he does think.) In the second place, he will reflect that, after marriage, he could no longer expect the charming welcomes which bachelors so often receive from women; he would be "done with" as a possibility, and he does not relish the prospect of being done with as a possibility. Such [61]considerations, all connected more or less with the loss of "freedom" (oh, mysterious and thrilling word!), will affect his theoretical attitude. And be it known that even the freedom to be lonely and melancholy is still freedom.

I will tell you. First of all, if he has made it to thirty without being affected by love, he’ll realize that the special feeling of romantic anticipation he wakes up with every morning will disappear after marriage—and it’s a really nice feeling! Instead, in moments of sadness, he would feel like he’s done something irreversible, like he’s permanently shut off a part of his individuality. (Just remember, I’m not saying what this man should think. I’m describing what he actually thinks.) Secondly, he’ll recognize that after marriage, he won’t receive those charming welcomes that bachelors often get from women; he’ll be seen as “off the market,” and he doesn’t like the idea of being off the market. Such [61] thoughts, all tied to the loss of "freedom" (oh, that mysterious and exciting word!), will influence his mindset. And keep in mind that even the freedom to be alone and sad is still freedom.

Other ideas will suggest themselves. One morning while brushing his hair he will see a gray hair, and, however young he may be, the anticipation of old age will come to him. A solitary old age! A senility dependent for its social and domestic requirements on condescending nephews and nieces, or even more distant relations! Awful! Unthinkable! And his first movement, especially if he has read that terrible novel, "Fort comme la Mort," of De Maupassant, is to rush out into the street and propose to the first girl he encounters, in order to avoid this dreadful nightmare of a solitary old age. But before he has got as far as the doorstep he reflects further. Suppose he marries, and after twenty years his wife dies and leaves him a widower! He will still have a solitary old age, and a vastly more tragical one than if he had remained single. Marriage is not, therefore, a sure remedy for a solitary old age; it may [62]intensify the evil. Children? But suppose he doesn't have any children! Suppose, there being children, they die—what anguish! Suppose merely that they are seriously ill and recover—what an ageing experience! Suppose they prove a disappointment—what endless regret! Suppose they "turn out badly" (children do)—what shame! Suppose he finally becomes dependent upon the grudging kindness of an ungrateful child—what a supreme humiliation! All these things are occurring constantly everywhere. Suppose his wife, having loved him, ceased to love him, or suppose he ceased to love his wife! Ces choses ne se commandent pas—these things do not command themselves. Personally, I should estimate that in not one per cent. even of romantic marriages are the husband and wife capable of passion for each other after three years. So brief is the violence of love! In perhaps thirty-three per cent. passion settles down into a tranquil affection—which is ideal. In fifty per cent. it sinks into sheer indifference, and one becomes used to one's wife or one's husband as to one's other habits. And in the remaining sixteen per cent. it develops into dislike or detestation. Do you think my percentages are [63]wrong, you who have been married a long time and know what the world is? Well, you may modify them a little—you won't want to modify them much.

Other ideas will come to mind. One morning while brushing his hair, he will notice a gray hair, and despite how young he is, the thought of getting old will hit him. A lonely old age! A senility that relies on the pity of condescending nephews and nieces, or even more distant relatives! Terrible! Unimaginable! His first impulse, especially if he has read that awful novel, "Fort comme la Mort," by De Maupassant, is to rush out into the street and propose to the first girl he sees, just to escape the horrifying nightmare of a lonely old age. But before he even reaches the front door, he thinks again. What if he gets married and, after twenty years, his wife dies and leaves him a widower? He'll still face a lonely old age, and it will be much more tragic than if he had stayed single. So, marriage isn’t a guaranteed fix for a lonely old age; it could actually make things worse. Kids? What if he doesn’t have any? Or if he has children and they die—what pain! What if they're seriously ill and recover—what a draining experience! What if they turn out to be a disappointment—what endless regret! What if they "turn out badly" (which kids often do)—what shame! Imagine relying on the reluctant kindness of an ungrateful child—what a deep humiliation! These situations are happening everywhere all the time. What if his wife, who once loved him, stops loving him, or what if he stops loving his wife? Ces choses ne se commandent pas—these things can't be controlled. Personally, I estimate that in less than one percent of romantic marriages, the husband and wife are capable of passion for each other after three years. Love's intensity is so brief! In about thirty-three percent of cases, passion settles into calm affection—which is great. In fifty percent, it turns into complete indifference, and you get used to your wife or husband just like any other routine. And in the remaining sixteen percent, it results in dislike or even hatred. Do you think my percentages are [63] wrong, you who have been married a long time and understand how the world works? Well, you might adjust them a bit—you won't want to change them too much.

The risk of finding one's self ultimately among the sixteen per cent. can be avoided by the simple expedient of not marrying. And by the same expedient the other risks can be avoided, together with yet others that I have not mentioned. It is entirely obvious, then (in fact, I beg pardon for mentioning it), that the attitude towards marriage of the heart-free bachelor must be at best a highly cautious attitude. He knows he is already in the frying-pan (none knows better), but, considering the propinquity of the fire, he doubts whether he had not better stay where he is. His life will be calmer, more like that of a hibernating snake; his sensibilities will be dulled; but the chances of poignant suffering will be very materially reduced.

The risk of ending up in the sixteen percent can be avoided simply by not getting married. By choosing this route, a person can dodge the other risks as well, plus some that I haven't mentioned. It's pretty clear (and I apologize for stating the obvious) that a single guy's view on marriage must be extremely cautious. He knows he’s already in a tricky situation (no one knows this better), but given how close the danger is, he wonders if it might be better to just stick with what he has. His life will be quieter, more like that of a hibernating snake; his feelings may become numbed; but the chances of intense pain will be significantly reduced.

So that the bachelor in a position to marry but not in love will assuredly decide in theory against marriage—that is to say, if he is timid, if he prefers frying-pans, if he is lacking in initiative, if he has the soul of a rat, if he wants to live as [64]little as possible, if he hates his kind, if his egoism is of the miserable sort that dares not mingle with another's. But if he has been more happily gifted he will decide that the magnificent adventure is worth plunging into; the ineradicable and fine gambling instinct in him will urge him to take, at the first chance, a ticket in the only lottery permitted by the British Government. Because, after all, the mutual sense of ownership felt by the normal husband and the normal wife is something unique, something the like of which cannot be obtained without marriage. I saw a man and a woman at a sale the other day; I was too far off to hear them, but I could perceive they were having a most lively argument—perhaps it was only about initials on pillowcases; they were absorbed in themselves; the world did not exist for them. And I thought: "What miraculous exquisite Force is it that brings together that strange, sombre, laconic organism in a silk hat and a loose, black overcoat, and that strange, bright, vivacious, querulous, irrational organism in brilliant fur and feathers?" And when they moved away the most interesting phenomenon in the universe moved away. And I thought: "Just as no beer [65]is bad, but some beer is better than other beer, so no marriage is bad." The chief reward of marriage is something which marriage is bound to give—companionship whose mysterious interestingness nothing can stale. A man may hate his wife so that she can't thread a needle without annoying him, but when he dies, or she dies, he will say: "Well, I was interested." And one always is. Said a bachelor of forty-six to me the other night: "Anything is better than the void."

So, a bachelor who has the chance to marry but isn’t in love will definitely talk himself out of marriage—basically, if he's shy, if he prefers comfort over challenges, if he's lacking in motivation, if he has a cowardly nature, if he wants to live as [64] little as possible, if he despises others, or if his selfishness is of the kind that keeps him from connecting with anyone. But if he’s been fortunate enough, he'll think that the incredible adventure of love is worth taking the risk; that persistent and noble gambling instinct inside him will push him to grab, at the first opportunity, a ticket in the only lottery allowed by the British Government. Because, in the end, the sense of shared ownership between a typical husband and wife is something special, something you can't find anywhere else without marriage. I saw a couple at a sale recently; I was too far away to hear them, but I could tell they were having a really intense argument—maybe it was just about initials on pillowcases; they were wrapped up in their own world; nothing else mattered to them. And I thought, "What amazing, exquisite force is at work bringing together that peculiar, quiet man in a silk hat and an oversized black coat and that odd, lively, chatty woman in bright fur and feathers?" When they walked away, it felt like the most captivating event in the universe had just left. And I thought, "Just like no beer [65] is bad, but some beer is better than others, no marriage is bad." The greatest benefit of marriage is something it inevitably provides—companionship with a mystery that never gets old. A man might dislike his wife to the point where just watching her struggle to thread a needle irritates him, but when one of them passes away, he'll think: "Well, that was interesting." And it always is. A 46-year-old bachelor told me the other night, "Anything is better than the emptiness."



THE TWO WAYS OF IT

Sabine and other summary methods of marrying being now abandoned by all nice people, there remain two broad general ways. The first is the English way. We let nature take her course. We give heed to the heart's cry. When, amid the hazards and accidents of the world, two souls "find each other," we rejoice. Our instinctive wish is that they shall marry, if the matter can anyhow be arranged. We frankly recognise the claim of romance in life, and we are prepared to make sacrifices to it. We see a young couple at the altar; they are in love. Good! They are poor. So much the worse! But nevertheless we feel that love will [66]pull them through. The revolting French system of bargain and barter is the one thing that we can neither comprehend nor pardon in the customs of our great neighbours. We endeavour to be polite about that system; we simply cannot. It shocks our finest, tenderest feelings. It is so obviously contrary to nature.

Sabine and other outdated ways of arranging marriages are now rejected by all decent people, leaving us with two main approaches. The first is the English way. We let nature take its course. We pay attention to what the heart desires. When, amid life's challenges and unpredictability, two souls "find each other," we celebrate. Our natural wish is for them to marry if possible. We openly acknowledge the role of romance in life and are willing to make sacrifices for it. We see a young couple at the altar; they are in love. Great! They may be poor. That's unfortunate! But still, we believe that love will [66] help them get through it. The disgusting French system of negotiation and exchange is something we simply cannot understand or accept in the customs of our great neighbors. We try to be polite about that system, but we just can't. It offends our most sensitive feelings. It is clearly against nature.

The second is the French way, just alluded to as bargain and barter. Now, if there is one thing a Frenchman can neither comprehend nor pardon in the customs of a race so marvellously practical and sagacious as ourselves, it is the English marriage system. He endeavours to be polite about it, and he succeeds. But it shocks his finest, tenderest feelings. He admits that it is in accordance with nature; but he is apt to argue that the whole progress of civilisation has been the result of an effort to get away from nature. "What! Leave the most important relation into which a man can enter to the mercy of chance, when a mere gesture may arouse passion, or the colour of a corsage induce desire! No, you English, you who are so self-controlled, you are not going seriously to defend that! You talk of love as though it lasted for ever. You [67]talk of sacrificing to love; but what you really sacrifice, or risk sacrificing, is the whole of the latter part of married existence for the sake of the first two or three years. Marriage is not one long honeymoon. We wish it were. When you agree to a marriage you fix your eyes on the honeymoon. When we agree to a marriage we try to see it as it will be five or ten years hence. We assert that, in the average instance, five years after the wedding it doesn't matter whether or not the parties were in love on the wedding-day. Hence we will not yield to the gusts of the moment. Your system is, moreover, if we may be permitted the observation, a premium on improvidence; it is, to some extent, the result of improvidence. You can marry your daughters without dowries, and the ability to do so tempts you to neglect your plain duty to your daughters, and you do not always resist the temptation. Do your marriages of 'romance' turn out better than our marriages of prudence, of careful thought, of long foresight? We do not think they do."

The second is the French way, simply referred to as bargain and barter. Now, if there's one thing a Frenchman can neither understand nor forgive in the habits of a race as practical and wise as ours, it's the English marriage system. He tries to be polite about it, and he manages to be. But it definitely offends his deepest, most sensitive feelings. He agrees that it aligns with nature; however, he tends to argue that the entire progress of civilization has been an effort to move away from nature. "What! Leave the most important relationship a person can have up to chance, when a simple gesture can spark passion, or the color of a dress can trigger desire! No, you English, you who are so self-controlled, you can't truly defend that! You speak of love as if it lasts forever. You [67]talk about sacrificing for love; but what you really sacrifice, or risk sacrificing, is the entire latter part of married life for the sake of the first two or three years. Marriage isn't one long honeymoon. We wish it were. When you agree to a marriage, you focus on the honeymoon. When we agree to a marriage, we try to envision how it will be five or ten years down the road. We believe that, on average, five years after the wedding, it doesn't really matter whether or not the couple was in love on their wedding day. Therefore, we won't give in to momentary impulses. Your system is, if we may point it out, an encouragement of recklessness; it is, to a degree, a result of recklessness. You can marry off your daughters without dowries, and the ability to do so tempts you to neglect your basic responsibility to your daughters, and you don't always resist that temptation. Do your marriages based on 'romance' turn out better than our marriages based on careful planning, thoughtfulness, and long-term consideration? We don't think they do."

So much for the two ways. Patriotism being the last refuge of a scoundrel, according to [68]Doctor Johnson, I have no intention of judging between them, as my heart prompts me to do, lest I should be accused of it. Nevertheless, I may hint that, while perfectly convinced by the admirable logic of the French, I am still, with the charming illogicalness of the English, in favour of romantic marriages (it being, of course, understood that dowries ought to be far more plentiful than they are in England). If a Frenchman accuses me of being ready to risk sacrificing the whole of the latter part of married life for the sake of the first two or three years, I would unhesitatingly reply: "Yes, I am ready to risk that sacrifice. I reckon the first two or three years are worth it." But, then, I am English, and therefore romantic by nature. Look at London, that city whose outstanding quality is its romantic quality; and look at the Englishwomen going their ways in the wonderful streets thereof! Their very eyes are full of romance. They may, they do, lack chic, but they are heroines of drama. Then look at Paris; there is little romance in the fine right lines of Paris. Look at the Parisiennes. They are the most astounding and adorable women yet invented by nature. But they aren't romantic, you know. They [69]don't know what romance is. They are so matter-of-fact that when you think of their matter-of-factness it gives you a shiver in the small of your back.

So much for the two approaches. Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel, according to [68]Dr. Johnson, and I don’t plan to take sides, even though my instincts urge me to, for fear of being accused of it. Still, I can suggest that, while I totally get the impressive reasoning of the French, I’m still, with the lovely lack of logic of the English, in favor of romantic marriages (though it’s understood that dowries should definitely be much more abundant than they are in England). If a Frenchman says I’m willing to risk sacrificing most of the later years of married life for the sake of the first couple of years, I would gladly reply: "Yes, I am willing to make that sacrifice. I believe the first couple of years are worth it." But, then again, I’m English, which means I’m romantic by nature. Look at London, a city whose standout feature is its romantic vibe; and look at the Englishwomen walking through its amazing streets! Their eyes are filled with romance. They might lack chic, but they are the heroines of drama. Now look at Paris; there’s not much romance in the sleek lines of Paris. Check out the Parisiennes. They are the most incredible and delightful women nature has ever created. But they aren’t romantic, you know. They [69]don’t have a clue what romance is. They are so practical that just thinking about their practicality sends a shiver down your spine.

To return. One may view the two ways in another light. Perhaps the difference between them is, fundamentally, less a difference between the ideas of two races than a difference between the ideas of two "times of life"; and in France the elderly attitude predominates. As people get on in years, even English people, they are more and more in favour of the marriage of reason as against the marriage of romance. Young people, even French people, object strongly to the theory and practice of the marriage of reason. But with them the unique and precious ecstasy of youth is not past, whereas their elders have forgotten its savour. Which is right? No one will ever be able to decide. But neither the one system nor the other will apply itself well to all or nearly all cases. There have been thousands of romantic marriages in England of which it may be said that it would have been better had the French system been in force to prevent their existence. And, equally, thousands of possible [70]romantic marriages have been prevented in France which, had the English system prevailed there, would have turned out excellently. The prevalence of dowries in England would not render the English system perfect (for it must be remembered that money is only one of several ingredients in the French marriage), but it would considerably improve it. However, we are not a provident race, and we are not likely to become one. So our young men must reconcile themselves to the continued absence of dowries.

To go back. One can look at the two approaches differently. Maybe the difference between them is more about the ideas of two "stages of life" than those of two cultures; in France, the older perspective is more dominant. As people age, even the English tend to favor reasoned marriage over romantic marriage. Young people, including the French, strongly oppose the idea and practice of marriage based on reason. This is because they are still experiencing the unique and cherished joy of youth, while their elders have forgotten its flavor. Which side is right? No one will ever truly know. However, neither system applies well to nearly all situations. There have been thousands of romantic marriages in England that would likely have been better off if the French system had been in place to prevent them. Similarly, countless potential romantic marriages have been stopped in France that would have turned out wonderfully had the English system been adopted. The presence of dowries in England wouldn't make the English system perfect (since money is just one of several factors in French marriage), but it would certainly enhance it. Nonetheless, we are not a cautious society, and we are not expected to become one. So, our young men must come to terms with the ongoing absence of dowries.

The reader may be excused for imagining that I am at the end of my remarks. I am not. All that precedes is a mere preliminary to what follows. I want to regard the case of the man who has given the English system a fair trial and found it futile. Thus, we wait on chance in England. We wait for love to arrive. Suppose it doesn't arrive? Where is the English system then? Assume that a man in a position to marry reaches thirty-five or forty without having fallen in love. Why should he not try the French system for a change? Any marriage is better than none at all. Naturally, in England, [71]he couldn't go up to the Chosen Fair and announce: "I am not precisely in love with you, but will you marry me?" He would put it differently. And she would understand. And do you think she would refuse?

The reader might think I'm wrapping up my thoughts. I'm not. Everything I've said so far is just a setup for what comes next. Let's consider the situation of a man who has given the English system a fair shot and found it pointless. This is how we operate in England. We wait for love to come along. What if it never shows up? Where does that leave the English system? Imagine a man who is ready to marry but reaches thirty-five or forty without ever falling in love. Why shouldn't he explore the French system for a change? Any marriage is better than none. Naturally, in England, [71]he couldn't approach the woman he'd like to marry and say: "I'm not really in love with you, but will you marry me?" He would phrase it differently. And she would get it. Do you really think she would say no?







VIToC

BOOKS


THE PHYSICAL SIDE

The chief interest of many of my readers is avowedly books; they may, they probably do, profess other interests, but they are primarily "bookmen," and when one is a bookman one is a bookman during about twenty-three and three-quarter hours in every day. Now, bookmen are capable of understanding things about books which cannot be put into words; they are not like mere subscribers to circulating libraries; for them a book is not just a book—it is a book. If these lines should happen to catch the eye of any persons not bookmen, such persons may imagine that I am writing nonsense; but I trust that the bookmen will comprehend me. And I venture, then, to offer a few reflections upon an aspect of modern bookishness that is [73]becoming more and more "actual" as the enterprise of publishers and the beneficent effects of education grow and increase together. I refer to "popular editions" of classics.

The main interest of many of my readers is definitely books; they might claim to have other interests, but they are mainly "book lovers," and for a book lover, being passionate about books takes up about twenty-three and three-quarter hours of every day. Book lovers understand things about books that can't be expressed in words; they're not just casual users of libraries; for them, a book is not just any book—it is a book. If these lines happen to catch the eye of anyone who isn't a book lover, they might think I'm speaking nonsense; but I hope that fellow book lovers will get what I mean. So, I’d like to share a few thoughts on a side of modern book culture that is [73]becoming increasingly "real" as publishers' efforts and the positive outcomes of education grow together. I’m talking about "popular editions" of classics.

Now, I am very grateful to the devisers of cheap and handy editions. The first book I ever bought was the first volume of the first modern series of presentable and really cheap reprints, namely, Macaulay's "Warren Hastings," in "Cassell's National Library" (sixpence, in cloth). That foundation stone of my library has unfortunately disappeared beneath the successive deposits, but another volume of the same series, F.T. Palgrave's "Visions of England" (an otherwise scarce book), still remains to me through the vicissitudes of seventeen years of sale, purchase, and exchange, and I would not care to part with it. I have over two hundred volumes of that inestimable and incomparable series, "The Temple Classics," besides several hundred assorted volumes of various other series. And when I heard of the new "Everyman's Library," projected by that benefactor of bookmen, Mr. J.M. Dent, my first impassioned act was to sit down and write a postcard [74]to my bookseller ordering George Finlay's "The Byzantine Empire," a work which has waited sixty years for popular recognition. So that I cannot be said to be really antagonistic to cheap reprints.

Now, I am really thankful for the creators of affordable and convenient editions. The first book I ever bought was the first volume of the first modern series of nice and genuinely cheap reprints, specifically Macaulay's "Warren Hastings," in "Cassell's National Library" (sixpence, cloth cover). That foundational piece of my library has unfortunately been buried under various additions, but another volume from the same series, F.T. Palgrave's "Visions of England" (which is otherwise a rare book), has survived through the ups and downs of seventeen years of buying, selling, and trading, and I wouldn’t want to give it up. I have over two hundred volumes from that invaluable and unmatched series, "The Temple Classics," along with several hundred other assorted volumes from various series. When I heard about the new "Everyman's Library," planned by that friend to book lovers, Mr. J.M. Dent, my first enthusiastic action was to sit down and write a postcard [74]to my bookseller to order George Finlay's "The Byzantine Empire," a work that has waited sixty years for popular acknowledgment. So, I can’t really be considered opposed to cheap reprints.

Strong in this consciousness, I beg to state that cheap and handy reprints are "all very well in their way"—which is a manner of saying that they are not the Alpha and Omega of bookishness. By expending £20 yearly during the next five years a man might collect, in cheap and handy reprints, all that was worth having in classic English literature. But I for one would not be willing to regard such a library as a real library. I would regard it as only a cheap edition of a library. There would be something about it that would arouse in me a certain benevolent disdain, even though every volume was well printed on good paper and inoffensively bound. Why? Well, although it is my profession in life to say what I feel in plain words, I do not know that in this connection I can say what I feel in plain words. I have to rely on a sympathetic comprehension of my attitude in the bookish breasts of my readers.

Confident in this understanding, I want to say that affordable and convenient reprints are "all very well in their way"—which basically means they’re not the end-all and be-all of reading. By spending £20 a year for the next five years, a person could gather, through cheap and handy reprints, everything worth having in classic English literature. But I personally wouldn't consider such a collection to be a real library. I would see it as just a budget version of a library. There would be something about it that would provoke in me a kind of benevolent disdain, even if each book was well printed on quality paper and nicely bound. Why? Well, even though it’s my job to express my feelings clearly, I’m not sure I can convey what I feel in straightforward terms in this case. I have to depend on my readers’ understanding of my perspective as fellow book lovers.

[75]In the first place, I have an instinctive antipathy to a "series." I do not want "The Golden Legend" and "The Essays of Elia" uniformed alike in a regiment of books. It makes me think of conscription and barracks. Even the noblest series of reprints ever planned (not at all cheap, either, nor heterogeneous in matter), the Tudor Translations, faintly annoys me in the mass. Its appearances in a series seems to me to rob a book of something very delicate and subtle in the aroma of its individuality—something which, it being inexplicable, I will not try to explain.

[75]First of all, I have an instinctive dislike of a "series." I don’t want “The Golden Legend” and “The Essays of Elia” grouped together in a lineup of books. It reminds me of conscription and barracks. Even the finest collection of reprints ever put together (not cheap, either, or random in content), the Tudor Translations, slightly bothers me as a whole. The fact that it’s presented as a series seems to take away something very delicate and subtle from the uniqueness of each book—something that I can’t explain, so I won’t try.

In the second place, most cheap and handy reprints are small in size. They may be typographically excellent, with large type and opaque paper; they may be convenient to handle; they may be surpassingly suitable for the pocket and the very thing for travel; they may save precious space where shelf-room is limited; but they are small in size. And there is, as regards most literature, a distinct moral value in size. Do I carry my audience with me? I hope so. Let "Paradise Lost" be so produced that you can put it in your waistcoat pocket, and it is no more "Paradise Lost." Milton needs a solid octavo [76]form, with stoutish paper and long primer type. I have "Walpole's Letters" in Newnes's "Thin Paper Classics," a marvellous volume of near nine hundred pages, with a portrait and a good index and a beautiful binding, for three and six, and I am exceedingly indebted to Messrs. Newnes for creating that volume. It was sheer genius on their part to do so. I get charming sensations from it, but sensations not so charming as I should get from Mrs. Paget Toynbee's many-volumed and grandiose edition, even aside from Mrs. Toynbee's erudite notes and the extra letters which she has been able to print. The same letter in Mrs. Toynbee's edition would have a higher æsthetic and moral value for me than in the "editionlet" of Messrs. Newnes. The one cheap series which satisfies my desire for size is Macmillan's "Library of English Classics," in which I have the "Travels" of that mythical personage, Sir John Mandeville. But it is only in paying for it that you know this edition to be cheap, for it measures nine inches by six inches by two inches.

In the second place, most affordable and convenient reprints are small in size. They might be visually appealing, using large print and opaque paper; they might be easy to handle; they might be perfect for your pocket and ideal for travel; they might save valuable space when shelf space is limited; but they are still small. And in the case of most literature, size carries a distinct moral value. Am I connecting with my audience? I hope so. If "Paradise Lost" is produced in a way that allows it to fit in your waistcoat pocket, then it’s no longer "Paradise Lost." Milton deserves a solid octavo [76] format, with sturdy paper and large print. I have "Walpole's Letters" in Newnes's "Thin Paper Classics," a fantastic volume of nearly nine hundred pages, complete with a portrait, a good index, and beautiful binding, all for three and six, and I am very grateful to Messrs. Newnes for putting that volume together. It was sheer brilliance on their part to do this. I get lovely feelings from it, but those feelings aren’t as lovely as what I would get from Mrs. Paget Toynbee's many-volume and grand edition, even leaving aside Mrs. Toynbee's scholarly notes and the extra letters she managed to include. The same letter in Mrs. Toynbee's edition would hold more aesthetic and moral value for me than in the "editionlet" from Messrs. Newnes. The only affordable series that meets my size preference is Macmillan's "Library of English Classics," where I have the "Travels" of that legendary figure, Sir John Mandeville. However, it's only when you pay for it that you realize this edition is inexpensive, as it measures nine inches by six inches by two inches.

And in the third place, when one buys series, one only partially chooses one's books; they are [77]mainly chosen for one by the publisher. And even if they are not chosen for one by the publisher, they are suggested to one by the publisher. Not so does the genuine bookman form his library. The genuine bookman begins by having specific desires. His study of authorities gives him a demand, and the demand forces him to find the supply. He does not let the supply create the demand. Such a state of affairs would be almost humiliating, almost like the parvenu who calls in the wholesale furnisher and decorator to provide him with a home. A library must be, primarily, the expression of the owner's personality.

And thirdly, when someone buys book series, they only partially choose their books; they are [77]mainly selected for them by the publisher. Even if the publisher doesn't choose them, they are still suggested to the buyer by the publisher. This isn’t how a true book lover builds their library. A true book lover starts with specific interests. Their study of various sources creates a demand, and that demand drives them to find the right books. They don't let the available options dictate their needs. That would be almost embarrassing, similar to a parvenu who hires a wholesale supplier and decorator to furnish their home. A library should primarily reflect the owner's personality.

Let me assert again that I am strongly in favour of cheap series of reprints. Their influence though not the very finest, is undisputably good. They are as great a boon as cheap bread. They are indispensable where money or space is limited, and in travelling. They decidedly help to educate a taste for books that are neither cheap nor handy; and the most luxurious collectors may not afford to ignore them entirely. But they have their limitations, their disadvantages. They cannot form the backbone of a "proper" library. [78]They make, however, admirable embroidery to a library. My own would look rather plain if it was stripped of them.

Let me say again that I really support affordable reprints. Their impact, while not the highest quality, is definitely positive. They're as valuable as cheap bread. They're essential when money or space is tight, and when traveling. They certainly help develop a taste for books that are neither inexpensive nor easy to find; even the most extravagant collectors can't completely overlook them. However, they do have limitations and drawbacks. They can’t be the foundation of a "proper" library. [78] Still, they make excellent additions to a library. Mine would look pretty plain without them.



THE PHILOSOPHY OF BOOK-BUYING

For some considerable time I have been living, as regards books, with the minimum of comfort and decency—with, in fact, the bare necessaries of life, such necessaries being, in my case, sundry dictionaries, Boswell, an atlas, Wordsworth, an encyclopædia, Shakespere, Whitaker, some De Maupassant, a poetical anthology, Verlaine, Baudelaire, a natural history of my native county, an old directory of my native town, Sir Thomas Browne, Poe, Walpole's Letters, and a book of memoirs that I will not name. A curious list, you will say. Well, never mind! We do not all care to eat beefsteak and chip potatoes off an oak table, with a foaming quart to the right hand. We have our idiosyncrasies. The point is that I existed on the bare necessaries of life (very healthy—doctors say) for a long time. And then, just lately, I summoned energy and caused fifteen hundred volumes to be transported to me; and I [79]arranged them on shelves; and I re-arranged them on shelves; and I left them to arrange themselves on shelves.

For a long time, I’ve been living with the bare minimum when it comes to books—just the essentials—like a few dictionaries, Boswell, an atlas, Wordsworth, an encyclopedia, Shakespeare, Whitaker, some De Maupassant, a poetry anthology, Verlaine, Baudelaire, a natural history of my home county, an old directory of my hometown, Sir Thomas Browne, Poe, Walpole's Letters, and a memoir that I won't mention. It’s an interesting mix, you might say. Well, that’s fine! Not everyone enjoys steak and fried potatoes on a wooden table with a pint of beer to the side. We all have our quirks. The point is I managed to live on the bare necessities (which the doctors say is very healthy) for quite a while. Then recently, I gathered the energy to have fifteen hundred volumes brought to me; I [79] arranged them on shelves, rearranged them on shelves, and then just let them organize themselves on shelves.

Well, you know, the way that I walk up and down in front of these volumes, whose faces I had half-forgotten, is perfectly infantile. It is like the way of a child at a menagerie. There, in its cage, is that 1839 edition of Shelley, edited by Mrs. Shelley, that I once nearly sold to the British Museum because the Keeper of Printed Books thought he hadn't got a copy—only he had! And there, in a cage by himself, because of his terrible hugeness, is the 1652 Paris edition of Montaigne's Essays. And so I might continue, and so I would continue, were it not essential that I come to my argument.

Well, the way I walk up and down in front of these books, whose spines I had almost forgotten, is totally childish. It's like how a kid behaves at a zoo. There, in its case, is that 1839 edition of Shelley, edited by Mrs. Shelley, which I almost sold to the British Museum because the Keeper of Printed Books thought he didn’t have a copy—except he did! And there, in a separate case because of its massive size, is the 1652 Paris edition of Montaigne's Essays. I could go on and on, and I would, if it weren't necessary for me to get to my point.

Do you suppose that the presence of these books, after our long separation, is making me read more than I did? Do you suppose I am engaged in looking up my favourite passages? Not a bit. The other evening I had a long tram journey, and, before starting, I tried to select a book to take with me. I couldn't find one to suit just the tram-mood. As I had to [80]catch the tram I was obliged to settle on something, and in the end I went off with nothing more original than "Hamlet," which I am really too familiar with.... Then I bought an evening paper, and read it all through, including advertisements. So I said to myself: "This is a nice result of all my trouble to resume company with some of my books!" However, as I have long since ceased to be surprised at the eccentric manner in which human nature refuses to act as one would have expected it to act, I was able to keep calm and unashamed during this extraordinary experience. And I am still walking up and down in front of my books and enjoying them without reading them.

Do you think that having these books around, after our long time apart, is making me read more than I used to? Do you think I'm busy looking up my favorite passages? Not at all. The other night, I had a long tram ride ahead of me, and before I left, I tried to pick a book to take with me. I couldn't find anything that fit the tram vibe. Since I had to [80]catch the tram, I had to choose something quickly, and in the end, I ended up with nothing more original than "Hamlet," which I know too well.... Then I bought an evening paper and read it from cover to cover, even the ads. So I thought to myself: "This is a great outcome of all my efforts to reconnect with some of my books!" However, since I've long stopped being surprised by the strange ways human nature doesn't act how you expect, I managed to stay calm and unembarrassed during this weird experience. And I'm still pacing in front of my books and enjoying their presence without actually reading them.

I wish to argue that a great deal of cant is talked (and written) about reading. Papers such as the "Anthenæum," which nevertheless I peruse with joy from end to end every week, can scarcely notice a new edition of a classic without expressing, in a grieved and pessimistic tone, the fear that more people buy these agreeable editions than read them. And if it is so? What then? Are we only to buy the books that we read? The question has merely to be thus bluntly put, and [81]it answers itself. All impassioned bookmen, except a few who devote their whole lives to reading, have rows of books on their shelves which they have never read, and which they never will read. I know that I have hundreds such. My eye rests on the works of Berkeley in three volumes, with a preface by the Right Honourable Arthur James Balfour. I cannot conceive the circumstances under which I shall ever read Berkeley; but I do not regret having bought him in a good edition, and I would buy him again if I had him not; for when I look at him some of his virtue passes into me; I am the better for him. A certain aroma of philosophy informs my soul, and I am less crude than I should otherwise be. This is not fancy, but fact.

I want to point out that a lot of nonsense is talked (and written) about reading. Publications like the "Anthenæum," which I happily read cover to cover every week, barely mention a new edition of a classic without expressing, in a sad and cynical way, the worry that more people are buying these nice editions than actually reading them. So what? Does that mean we should only buy the books we actually read? The question is simple enough, and [81] it answers itself. Most passionate book lovers, except for a few who dedicate their whole lives to reading, have shelves full of books they’ve never read and never will read. I know I have hundreds like that. My eyes land on the works of Berkeley in three volumes, with a preface by the Right Honourable Arthur James Balfour. I can’t imagine a situation in which I’ll ever read Berkeley, but I don’t regret buying him in a nice edition, and I’d buy him again if I didn’t have him; because when I see him, some of his value transfers to me; I benefit from it. A certain essence of philosophy enriches my soul, and I’m less naive than I would otherwise be. This isn’t just imagination, it’s a reality.

Taking Berkeley simply as an instance, I will utilise him a little further. I ought to have read Berkeley, you say; just as I ought to have read Spenser, Ben Jonson, George Eliot, Victor Hugo. Not at all. There is no "ought" about it. If the mass of obtainable first-class literature were, as it was perhaps a century ago, not too large to be assimilated by a man of ordinary limited leisure in his leisure and during the first [82]half of his life, then possibly there might be an "ought" about it. But the mass has grown unmanageable, even by those robust professional readers who can "grapple with whole libraries." And I am not a professional reader. I am a writer, just as I might be a hotel-keeper, a solicitor, a doctor, a grocer, or an earthenware manufacturer. I read in my scanty spare time, and I don't read in all my spare time, either. I have other distractions. I read what I feel inclined to read, and I am conscious of no duty to finish a book that I don't care to finish. I read in my leisure, not from a sense of duty, not to improve myself, but solely because it gives me pleasure to read. Sometimes it takes me a month to get through one book. I expect my case is quite an average case. But am I going to fetter my buying to my reading? Not exactly! I want to have lots of books on my shelves because I know they are good, because I know they would amuse me, because I like to look at them, and because one day I might have a caprice to read them. (Berkeley, even thy turn may come!) In short, I want them because I want them. And shall I be deterred from possessing them by the fear of some [83]sequestered and singular person, some person who has read vastly but who doesn't know the difference between a J.S. Muria cigar and an R.P. Muria, strolling in and bullying me with the dreadful query: "Sir, do you read your books?"

Taking Berkeley as just one example, I'll go into a bit more detail. You might say I should have read Berkeley, just like I should have read Spenser, Ben Jonson, George Eliot, or Victor Hugo. But that’s not true. There’s no "should" about it. If the amount of available top-notch literature were, like it was maybe a hundred years ago, small enough for an average person with limited free time to digest in their leisure during the first [82] half of their life, then maybe there could be a "should." But the volume has become overwhelming, even for those dedicated professional readers who can "tackle entire libraries." And I’m not a professional reader. I’m a writer, just like I could be a hotel manager, a lawyer, a doctor, a grocery store owner, or a pottery manufacturer. I read in my limited spare time, and I don’t spend all my spare time reading either. I have other interests. I read whatever I feel like reading, and I feel no obligation to finish a book I don’t want to. I read in my free time, not out of duty, not to better myself, but simply because I enjoy it. Sometimes it takes me a month to finish one book. I expect my situation is pretty typical. But am I going to restrict my book purchases based on my reading? Not really! I want to have lots of books on my shelves because I know they’re good, because I know they’d entertain me, because I like looking at them, and because I might someday feel like reading them. (Berkeley, your time may come!) In short, I want them because I want them. And should I be discouraged from having them by the fear of some [83] quirky and judgmental person, someone who has read a lot but doesn’t know the difference between a J.S. Muria cigar and an R.P. Muria, coming in and intimidating me with the awful question: "Sir, do you read your books?"

Therefore I say: In buying a book, be influenced by two considerations only. Are you reasonably sure that it is a good book? Have you a desire to possess it? Do not be influenced by the probability or the improbability of your reading it. After all, one does read a certain proportion of what one buys. And further, instinct counts. The man who spends half a crown on Stubbs's "Early Plantagenets" instead of going into the Gaiety pit to see "The Spring Chicken," will probably be the sort of man who can suck goodness out of Stubbs's "Early Plantagenets" years before he bestirs himself to read it.

So I say this: When buying a book, focus on just two things. Are you reasonably sure it's a good book? Do you actually want to own it? Don't let the chances of you reading it sway your decision. After all, you do read a portion of what you buy. And also, trust your instincts. A person who spends two and six on Stubbs's "Early Plantagenets" instead of heading to the Gaiety pit to see "The Spring Chicken" will likely be the kind of person who can draw value from Stubbs's "Early Plantagenets" long before they actually get around to reading it.







VIIToC

SUCCESS


CANDID REMARKS

There are times when the whole free and enlightened Press of the United Kingdom seems to become strangely interested in the subject of "success," of getting on in life. We are passing through such a period now. It would be difficult to name the prominent journalists who have not lately written, in some form or another, about success. Most singular phenomenon of all, Dr. Emil Reich has left Plato, duchesses, and Claridge's Hotel, in order to instruct the million readers of a morning paper in the principles of success! What the million readers thought of the Doctor's stirring and strenuous sentences I will not imagine; but I know what I thought, as a plain man. After taking due cognizance of his airy play with the "constants" and "variables" of success, after watching him treat "energetics" (his wonderful [85]new name for the "science" of success) as though because he had made it end in "ics" it resembled mathematics, I thought that the sublime and venerable art of mystification could no further go. If my fellow-pilgrim through this vale of woe, the average young man who arrives at Waterloo at 9.40 every morning with a cigarette in his mouth and a second-class season over his heart and vague aspirations in his soul, was half as mystified as I was, he has probably ere this decided that the science of success has all the disadvantages of algebra without any of the advantages of cricket, and that he may as well leave it alone lest evil should befall him. On the off-chance that he has come as yet to no decision about the science of success, I am determined to deal with the subject in a disturbingly candid manner. I feel that it is as dangerous to tell the truth about success as it is to tell the truth about the United States; but being thoroughly accustomed to the whistle of bullets round my head, I will nevertheless try.

There are times when the entire free and enlightened press of the United Kingdom seems oddly fascinated by the topic of "success," or how to get ahead in life. We're in one of those periods right now. It would be hard to find a prominent journalist who hasn’t recently written, in some way, about success. Most notably, Dr. Emil Reich has left behind Plato, duchesses, and Claridge's Hotel to teach a million readers of a morning newspaper about the principles of success! I can’t imagine what the million readers thought of the Doctor's passionate and forceful words, but I know what I thought as an everyday person. After recognizing his lighthearted manipulation of the "constants" and "variables" of success, and seeing him treat "energetics" (his fancy new term for the "science" of success) as if it resembled mathematics just because he added "ics" to it, I felt that the art of mystifying people couldn’t go any further. If my fellow traveler through this tough world, the average young man who arrives at Waterloo at 9:40 every morning with a cigarette in his mouth, a second-class season ticket close to his heart, and vague dreams in his soul, was even half as confused as I was, he has probably already decided that the science of success has all the drawbacks of algebra without any of the perks of cricket, and that it's better for him to avoid it altogether to keep trouble at bay. Just in case he hasn’t made up his mind about the science of success yet, I’m determined to tackle the topic in a disturbingly honest way. I believe that telling the truth about success is just as risky as telling the truth about the United States; but since I’m used to bullets whizzing by my head, I will attempt it anyway.

Most writers on success are, through sheer goodness of heart, wickedly disingenuous. For the basis of their argument is that nearly any [86]one who gives his mind to it can achieve success. This is, to put it briefly, untrue. The very central idea of success is separation from the multitude of plain men; it is perhaps the only idea common to all the various sorts of success—differentiation from the crowd. To address the population at large, and tell it how to separate itself from itself, is merely silly. I am now, of course, using the word success in its ordinary sense. If human nature were more perfect than it is, success in life would mean an intimate knowledge of one's self and the achievement of a philosophic inward calm, and such a goal might well be reached by the majority of mortals. But to us success signifies something else. It may be divided into four branches: (1) Distinction in pure or applied science. This is the least gross of all forms of success as we regard it, for it frequently implies poverty, and it does not by any means always imply fame. (2) Distinction in the arts. Fame and adulation are usually implied in this, though they do not commonly bring riches with them. (3) Direct influence and power over the material lives of other men; that is to say, distinction in politics, national or local. (4) Success in amassing money. This [87]last is the commonest and easiest. Most forms of success will fall under one of these heads. Are they possible to that renowned and much-flattered person, the man in the street? They are not, and well you know it, all you professors of the science of success! Only a small minority of us can even become rich.

Most writers on success, despite their good intentions, are often pretty deceptive. They argue that almost anyone can achieve success if they really try. This is, to put it simply, false. The core idea of success is standing out from the mass of ordinary people; it's perhaps the only concept shared across all types of success—being different from the crowd. Addressing everyone and telling them how to stand out is just ridiculous. I'm using the word success in its typical sense. If human nature were more perfect, success in life would mean having a deep understanding of oneself and achieving a calm state of mind, and that goal might be attainable for many people. But for us, success means something different. It can be divided into four categories: (1) Distinction in pure or applied science. This is the least crude form of success because it often involves poverty and doesn't always lead to fame. (2) Distinction in the arts. This usually comes with fame and praise, though it doesn't commonly bring wealth. (3) Direct influence and power over the material lives of others, meaning distinction in politics, whether national or local. (4) Success in accumulating wealth. This last type is the most common and easiest to achieve. Most forms of success will fall under one of these categories. Are these attainable for that praised and often glorified person, the average person? They are not, and you all know it, you experts on success! Only a small minority of us can even get rich.

Happily, while it is true that success in its common acceptation is, by its very essence, impossible to the majority, there is an accompanying truth which adjusts the balance; to wit, that the majority do not desire success. This may seem a bold saying, but it is in accordance with the facts. Conceive the man in the street suddenly, by some miracle, invested with political power, and, of course, under the obligation to use it. He would be so upset, worried, wearied, and exasperated at the end of a week that he would be ready to give the eyes out of his head in order to get rid of it. As for success in science or in art, the average person's interest in such matters is so slight, compared with that of the man of science or the artist, that he cannot be said to have an interest in them. And supposing that distinction in them were thrust upon him he [88]would rapidly lose that distinction by simple indifference and neglect. The average person certainly wants some money, and the average person does not usually rest until he has got as much as is needed for the satisfaction of his instinctive needs. He will move the heaven and earth of his environment to earn sufficient money for marriage in the "station" to which he has been accustomed; and precisely at that point his genuine desire for money will cease to be active. The average man has this in common with the most exceptional genius, that his career in its main contours is governed by his instincts. The average man flourishes and finds his ease in an atmosphere of peaceful routine. Men destined for success flourish and find their ease in an atmosphere of collision and disturbance. The two temperaments are diverse. Naturally the average man dreams vaguely, upon occasion; he dreams how nice it would be to be famous and rich. We all dream vaguely upon such things. But to dream vaguely is not to desire. I often tell myself that I would give anything to be the equal of Cinquevalli, the juggler, or to be the captain of the largest Atlantic liner. But the reflective part of me tells me that my [89]yearning to emulate these astonishing personages is not a genuine desire, and that its realization would not increase my happiness.

Happily, while it's true that success, in the usual sense, is impossible for most people, there's another truth that balances things out: most people don't actually want success. This might sound bold, but it's based on reality. Imagine an average person suddenly given political power, and then expected to use it. They would be so overwhelmed, stressed, exhausted, and frustrated by the end of a week that they would do anything to get rid of it. When it comes to success in science or art, the average person's interest in these fields is so minimal, compared to that of a scientist or artist, that it's fair to say they don't care about them. And if they were forced to excel in these areas, they would quickly lose that distinction out of simple indifference and neglect. The average person definitely wants some money, and they typically keep working until they have enough to cover their basic needs. They will move heaven and earth to earn enough money for marriage within their social class; and right at that point, their genuine desire for money will stop being a driving force. The average person shares with the most exceptional talent that their life's path is mainly driven by their instincts. The average person thrives and feels comfortable in a routine, peaceful environment. Those destined for success thrive in an atmosphere of conflict and disruption. The two temperaments are different. Naturally, the average person occasionally dreams in a vague way about how nice it would be to be famous and wealthy. We all have those vague dreams. But dreaming vaguely isn’t the same as truly wanting something. I often tell myself that I would give anything to be as great as Cinquevalli, the juggler, or to be the captain of the largest ocean liner. However, the reflective side of me knows that my yearning to be like those remarkable individuals is not a real desire, and that achieving it wouldn't actually make me happier.

To obtain a passably true notion of what happens to the mass of mankind in its progress from the cradle to the grave, one must not attempt to survey a whole nation, nor even a great metropolis, nor even a very big city like Manchester or Liverpool. These panoramas are so immense and confusing that they defeat the observing eye. It is better to take a small town of, say, twenty or thirty thousand inhabitants—such a town as most of us know, more or less intimately. The extremely few individuals whose instincts mark them out to take part in the struggle for success can be identified at once. For the first thing they do is to leave the town. The air of the town is not bracing enough for them. Their nostrils dilate for something keener. Those who are left form a microcosm which is representative enough of the world at large. Between the ages of thirty and forty they begin to sort themselves out. In their own sphere they take their places. A dozen or so politicians form the town council and rule the town. Half a dozen business men stand for [90]the town's commercial activity and its wealth. A few others teach science and art, or are locally known as botanists, geologists, amateurs of music, or amateurs of some other art. These are the distinguished, and it will be perceived that they cannot be more numerous than they are. What of the rest? Have they struggled for success and been beaten? Not they. Do they, as they grow old, resemble disappointed men? Not they. They have fulfilled themselves modestly. They have got what they genuinely tried to get. They have never even gone near the outskirts of the battle for success. But they have not failed. The number of failures is surprisingly small. You see a shabby, disappointed, ageing man flit down the main street, and someone replies to your inquiry: "That's So-and-so, one of life's failures, poor fellow!" And the very tone in which the words are uttered proves the excessive rarity of the real failure. It goes without saying that the case of the handful who have left the town in search of the Success with the capital S has a tremendous interest of curiosity for the mass who remain. I will consider it.

To get a somewhat accurate idea of what happens to the majority of people as they move from birth to death, you shouldn’t try to look at an entire nation, a big city, or even a large city like Manchester or Liverpool. These broad views are so vast and chaotic that they overwhelm the observer. It's better to focus on a small town with maybe twenty or thirty thousand residents—like a town many of us know fairly well. The very few individuals whose instincts drive them to seek success can be easily spotted. The first thing they do is leave the town. The atmosphere there isn't stimulating enough for them; they crave something sharper. Those who stay create a microcosm that’s representative enough of the wider world. Between the ages of thirty and forty, they start finding their roles. A dozen or so politicians make up the town council and run the town. A handful of business people represent the town's commercial scene and its wealth. A few others teach science and art, or are recognized locally as botanists, geologists, music enthusiasts, or fans of other arts. These are the notable ones, and it’s clear they can’t be more numerous than they are. What about the rest? Did they strive for success and fall short? Not really. Do they, as they age, come off as disappointed? Not at all. They’ve realized their potential in a modest way. They’ve achieved what they genuinely aimed for. They’ve never even approached the competitive world of seeking success. But they haven’t failed. The number of true failures is surprisingly low. You might see a shabby, disappointed, older man walking down the main street, and when you ask about him, someone might say, “That’s So-and-so, one of life’s failures, poor guy!” The way those words are spoken highlights just how rare true failure is. It goes without saying that the experiences of the few who have left the town in pursuit of Success with a capital S are of great interest to those who remain. I will look into that.



THE SUCCESSFUL AND THE UNSUCCESSFUL

Having boldly stated that success is not, and cannot be, within grasp of the majority, I now proceed to state, as regards the minority, that they do not achieve it in the manner in which they are commonly supposed to achieve it. And I may add an expression of my thankfulness that they do not. The popular delusion is that success is attained by what I may call the "Benjamin Franklin" method. Franklin was a very great man; he united in his character a set of splendid qualities as various, in their different ways, as those possessed by Leonardo da Vinci. I have an immense admiration for him. But his Autobiography does make me angry. His Autobiography is understood to be a classic, and if you say a word against it in the United States you are apt to get killed. I do not, however, contemplate an immediate visit to the United States, and I shall venture to assert that Benjamin Franklin's Autobiography is a detestable book and a misleading book. I can recall only two other volumes which I would more willingly [92]revile. One is Samuel Budgett: The Successful Merchant, and the other is From Log Cabin to White House, being the history of President Garfield. Such books may impose on boys, and it is conceivable that they do not harm boys (Franklin, by the way, began his Autobiography in the form of a letter to his son), but the grown man who can support them without nausea ought to go and see a doctor, for there is something wrong with him.

Having confidently stated that success is not, and cannot be, within the reach of most people, I will now address the minority and clarify that they don't achieve it in the way most assume they do. And I’m thankful that they don't. The common misconception is that success is achieved through what I might call the "Benjamin Franklin" method. Franklin was a remarkable individual; he possessed a diverse set of impressive qualities, similar in their uniqueness to those of Leonardo da Vinci. I have great admiration for him. However, his Autobiography frustrates me. It’s considered a classic, and if you criticize it in the United States, you might as well be asking for trouble. I don’t plan an immediate visit to the United States, so I will confidently say that Benjamin Franklin's Autobiography is a terrible and misleading book. I can think of only two other books that I would more eagerly [92]criticize. One is Samuel Budgett: The Successful Merchant, and the other is From Log Cabin to White House, which tells the story of President Garfield. Such books might trick young readers, and perhaps they don't do any real harm (By the way, Franklin started his Autobiography as a letter to his son), but any grown man who can read them without feeling sick should definitely see a doctor, because something is definitely off with him.

"I began now," blandly remarks Franklin, "to have some acquaintance among the young people of the town that were lovers of reading, with whom I spent my evenings very pleasantly; and gained money by my industry and frugality." Or again: "It was about this time I conceived the bold and arduous project of arriving at moral perfection.... I made a little book, in which I allotted a page for each of the virtues. I ruled each page with red ink, so as to have seven columns, one for each day of the week.... I crossed these columns with thirteen red lines, marking the beginning of each line with the first letter of one of the virtues; on which line, and in its proper column, I might mark, by a little black [93]spot, every fault I found upon examination to have been committed respecting that virtue, upon that day." Shade of Franklin, where'er thou art, this is really a little bit stiff! A man may be excused even such infamies of priggishness, but truly he ought not to go and write them down, especially to his son. And why the detail about red ink? If Franklin's son was not driven to evil courses by the perusal of that monstrous Autobiography, he must have been a man almost as astounding as his father. Now Franklin could only have written his "immortal classic" from one of three motives: (1) Sheer conceit. He was a prig, but he was not conceited. (2) A desire that others should profit by his mistakes. He never made any mistakes. Now and again he emphasizes some trifling error, but that is "only his fun." (3) A desire that others should profit by the recital of his virtuous sagacity to reach a similar success. The last was undoubtedly his principal motive. Honest fellow, who happened to be a genius! But the point is that his success was in no way the result of his virtuous sagacity. I would go further, and say that his dreadful virtuous sagacity often hindered his success.

"I started to get to know some of the young people in town who loved to read, and I spent my evenings with them very happily; and I earned money through my hard work and frugality." Or again: "Around this time, I came up with the bold and challenging idea of achieving moral perfection.... I created a little book, in which I dedicated a page to each of the virtues. I lined each page with red ink, creating seven columns, one for each day of the week.... I crossed these columns with thirteen red lines, marking the beginning of each line with the first letter of one of the virtues; on that line, and in its designated column, I would mark, with a little black [93]dot, every fault I discovered upon reflection that I had committed regarding that virtue on that day." Shade of Franklin, wherever you are, this is really quite stiff! A man can be excused for such pretentiousness, but honestly, he shouldn't write it down, especially to his son. And what's with the detail about red ink? If Franklin's son wasn't led astray by reading that monstrous Autobiography, he must have been almost as remarkable as his father. Now, Franklin could only have written his "immortal classic" for one of three reasons: (1) Sheer ego. He was a prig, but he wasn't vain. (2) A wish for others to learn from his mistakes. He never really made any mistakes. Occasionally he highlights some minor error, but that's "just for fun." (3) A desire for others to benefit from his account of his virtuous wisdom to achieve similar success. The last was undoubtedly his main motivation. An honest guy who happened to be a genius! But the reality is that his success didn't come from his virtuous wisdom at all. I would go so far as to say that his intense virtuous wisdom often got in the way of his success.

[94]No one is a worse guide to success than your typical successful man. He seldom understands the reasons of his own success; and when he is asked by a popular magazine to give his experiences for the benefit of the youth of a whole nation, it is impossible for him to be natural and sincere. He knows the kind of thing that is expected from him, and if he didn't come to London with half a crown in his pocket he probably did something equally silly, and he puts that down, and the note of the article or interview is struck, and good-bye to genuine truth! There recently appeared in a daily paper an autobiographic-didactic article by one of the world's richest men which was the most "inadequate" article of the sort that I have ever come across. Successful men forget so much of their lives! Moreover, nothing is easier than to explain an accomplished fact in a nice, agreeable, conventional way. The entire business of success is a gigantic tacit conspiracy on the part of the minority to deceive the majority.

[94]No one makes a worse guide to success than your average successful person. They often don’t understand the reasons behind their own success; and when they’re asked by a popular magazine to share their experiences for the benefit of an entire generation, it’s impossible for them to be genuine and sincere. They know what’s expected of them, and if they didn’t come to London with just a little money in their pocket, they probably did something similarly foolish, and they focus on that, and the tone of the article or interview is set, leaving genuine truth behind! Recently, a daily paper published an autobiographical-didactic article by one of the world’s richest individuals, which was the most “inadequate” piece of its kind that I’ve ever read. Successful people forget so much of their lives! Furthermore, nothing is easier than to put a nice, agreeable, conventional spin on an achieved outcome. The whole concept of success is a massive silent conspiracy by the few to mislead the many.

Are successful men more industrious, frugal, and intelligent than men who are not successful? I maintain that they are not, and I have studied [95]successful men at close quarters. One of the commonest characteristics of the successful man is his idleness, his immense capacity for wasting time. I stoutly assert that as a rule successful men are by habit comparatively idle. As for frugality, it is practically unknown among the successful classes: this statement applies with particular force to financiers. As for intelligence, I have over and over again been startled by the lack of intelligence in successful men. They are, indeed, capable of stupidities that would be the ruin of a plain clerk. And much of the talk in those circles which surround the successful man is devoted to the enumeration of instances of his lack of intelligence. Another point: successful men seldom succeed as the result of an ordered arrangement of their lives; they are the least methodical of creatures. Naturally when they have "arrived" they amuse themselves and impress the majority by being convinced that right from the start, with a steady eye on the goal, they had carefully planned every foot of the route.

Are successful men more hard-working, thrifty, and smart than those who aren't successful? I argue that they are not, and I've observed successful men up close. One common trait of successful men is their laziness and their incredible ability to waste time. I strongly assert that, as a general rule, successful men tend to be relatively idle. When it comes to being frugal, it's pretty much nonexistent among the successful crowd; this is especially true for financiers. Regarding intelligence, I've been repeatedly surprised by the lack of it in successful men. They are capable of foolishness that would cost an ordinary clerk their job. Much of the conversation in circles around successful men focuses on examples of their lack of intelligence. One more point: successful men rarely achieve their success through a well-organized approach to their lives; they are among the least methodical people. Naturally, once they've "made it," they entertain and impress most people by believing that from the very beginning, with their eyes on the prize, they had meticulously planned every step of the way.

No! Great success never depends on the practice of the humbler virtues, though it may occasionally depend on the practice of the prouder [96]vices. Use industry, frugality, and common sense by all means, but do not expect that they will help you to success. Because they will not. I shall no doubt be told that what I have just written has an immoral tendency, and is a direct encouragement to sloth, thriftlessness, etc. One of our chief national faults is our hypocritical desire to suppress the truth on the pretext that to admit it would encourage sin, whereas the real explanation is that we are afraid of the truth. I will not be guilty of that fault. I do like to look a fact in the face without blinking. I am fully persuaded that, per head, there is more of the virtues in the unsuccessful majority than in the successful minority. In London alone are there not hundreds of miles of streets crammed with industry, frugality, and prudence? Some of the most brilliant men I have known have been failures, and not through lack of character either. And some of the least gifted have been marvellously successful. It is impossible to point to a single branch of human activity in which success can be explained by the conventional principles that find general acceptance. I hear you, O reader, murmuring to yourself: "This is all very well, but he is simply being paradoxical for his [97]own diversion." I would that I could persuade you of my intense seriousness! I have endeavoured to show what does not make success. I will next endeavour to show what does make it. But my hope is forlorn.

No! Great success never relies on practicing the simpler virtues, even if it sometimes depends on embracing the more arrogant vices. Use hard work, thriftiness, and common sense by all means, but don’t expect them to lead you to success. Because they won’t. I’m sure I’ll be told that what I’ve just said is immoral and directly encourages laziness and wastefulness. One of our main national problems is our hypocritical desire to hide the truth under the guise of preventing sin, when really we’re just afraid of the truth. I won’t be guilty of that. I prefer to face facts head-on without flinching. I firmly believe that there’s more virtue in the unsuccessful majority than in the successful minority. In London alone, aren’t there hundreds of miles of streets filled with hard work, thrift, and common sense? Some of the most brilliant people I’ve known have failed, not due to a lack of character. And some of the least talented have become incredibly successful. It’s impossible to point to any area of human activity where success can be explained by conventional principles that most people accept. I hear you, dear reader, muttering to yourself: “This is all well and good, but he’s just being paradoxical for his own amusement.” I wish I could convince you of my serious intent! I’ve tried to show what doesn’t lead to success. Next, I’ll try to show what does. But my hope is in vain.



THE INWARDNESS OF SUCCESS

Of course, one can no more explain success than one can explain Beethoven's C minor symphony. One may state what key it is written in, and make expert reflections upon its form, and catalogue its themes, and relate it to symphonies that preceded it and symphonies that followed it, but in the end one is reduced to saying that the C minor symphony is beautiful—because it is. In the same manner one is reduced to saying that the sole real difference between success and failure is that success succeeds. This being frankly admitted at the outset, I will allow myself to assert that there are three sorts of success. Success A is the accidental sort. It is due to the thing we call chance, and to nothing else. We are all of us still very superstitious, and the caprices of chance have a singular effect upon us. Suppose that I go to Monte Carlo and [98]announce to a friend my firm conviction that red will turn up next time, and I back red for the maximum and red does turn up; my friend, in spite of his intellect, will vaguely attribute to me a mysterious power. Yet chance alone would be responsible. If I did that six times running all the players at the table would be interested in me. If I did it a dozen times all the players in the Casino would regard me with awe. Yet chance alone would be responsible. If I did it eighteen times my name would be in every newspaper in Europe. Yet chance alone would be responsible. I should be, in that department of human activity, an extremely successful man, and the vast majority of people would instinctively credit me with gifts that I do not possess.

Of course, you can't explain success any more than you can explain Beethoven's C minor symphony. You can say what key it’s in, discuss its structure, list its themes, and connect it to other symphonies before and after it, but in the end, you're left saying that the C minor symphony is beautiful—simply because it is. Similarly, the only real difference between success and failure is that success happens. With that clearly stated, I’d like to point out that there are three types of success. Success A is the accidental kind. It happens because of what we call chance, and nothing else. We all remain quite superstitious, and the whims of chance have a strange effect on us. For example, if I go to Monte Carlo and [98] tell a friend that I'm absolutely sure red is going to come up next, and I bet on red for the maximum and red wins; my friend, despite being smart, will oddly think I have some mysterious power. But really, chance is the only reason. If I did that six times in a row, all the players at the table would be intrigued by me. If I did it a dozen times, everyone in the Casino would be in awe of me. Yet chance would still be the only reason. If I did it eighteen times, my name would be in every newspaper across Europe. Still, chance would be the only reason. I would be considered an incredibly successful person in that area of human activity, and most people would instinctively attribute to me abilities that I don't actually have.

If such phenomena of superstition can occur in an affair where the agency of chance is open and avowed, how much more probable is it that people should refuse to be satisfied with the explanation of "sheer accident" in affairs where it is to the interest of the principal actors to conceal the rôle played by chance! Nevertheless, there can be no doubt in the minds of persons who have viewed success at close quarters that [99]a proportion of it is due solely and utterly to chance. Successful men flourish to-day, and have flourished in the past, who have no quality whatever to differentiate them from the multitude. Red has turned up for them a sufficient number of times, and the universal superstitious instinct not to believe in chance has accordingly surrounded them with a halo. It is merely ridiculous to say, as some do say, that success is never due to chance alone. Because nearly everybody is personally acquainted with reasonable proof, on a great or a small scale, to the contrary.

If superstitions can happen in situations where chance is obvious and acknowledged, how much more likely is it that people would reject the idea of "sheer accident" in scenarios where it's in the best interest of the key players to hide the role of chance! Still, there's no doubt for those who have closely observed success that [99]a portion of it is purely and completely due to chance. Successful individuals thrive today and have thrived in the past without any qualities that set them apart from the crowd. They’ve had red come up enough times, and the universal instinct to distrust chance has created a kind of glow around them. It's just absurd to claim, as some do, that success is never solely a matter of chance. Because nearly everyone has personal experience, whether big or small, that proves otherwise.

The second sort of success, B, is that made by men who, while not gifted with first-class talents, have, beyond doubt, the talent to succeed. I should describe these men by saying that, though they deserve something, they do not deserve the dazzling reward known as success. They strike us as overpaid. We meet them in all professions and trades, and we do not really respect them. They excite our curiosity, and perhaps our envy. They may rise very high indeed, but they must always be unpleasantly conscious of a serious reservation in our attitude towards them. And if they could read their [100]obituary notices they would assuredly discern therein a certain chilliness, however kindly we acted up to our great national motto of De mortuis nil nist bunkum. It is this class of success which puzzles the social student. How comes it that men without any other talent possess a mysterious and indefinable talent to succeed? Well, it seems to me that such men always display certain characteristics. And the chief of these characteristics is the continual, insatiable wish to succeed. They are preoccupied with the idea of succeeding. We others are not so preoccupied. We dream of success at intervals, but we have not the passion for success. We don't lie awake at nights pondering upon it.

The second type of success, B, is achieved by people who, while not having top-tier talents, definitely have the ability to succeed. I would say these individuals deserve some recognition, but not the glittering prize called success. They come across as overcompensated. We see them in all kinds of jobs and industries, and we don’t really respect them. They pique our curiosity and perhaps stir some envy. They might rise quite high, but they're always uncomfortably aware of a significant reservation in our view of them. And if they could read their [100]obituaries, they would definitely notice a certain chilliness, no matter how kindly we try to adhere to our great national motto of De mortuis nil nisi bonum. This kind of success confuses social observers. How is it that people without any special talent have a mysterious and undefined talent for succeeding? Well, it seems to me these individuals consistently show certain traits. The most important of these traits is an insatiable desire to succeed. They are focused on the idea of succeeding. The rest of us aren't as obsessed. We think about success from time to time, but we don’t have that same passion for it. We don’t lie awake at night contemplating it.

The second characteristic of these men springs naturally from the first. They are always on the look-out. This does not mean that they are industrious. I stated in a previous article my belief that as a rule successful men are not particularly industrious. A man on a raft with his shirt for a signal cannot be termed industrious, but he will keep his eyes open for a sail on the horizon. If he simply lies down and goes to sleep he may miss the chance of his life, in a [101]very special sense. The man with the talent to succeed is the man on the raft who never goes to sleep. His indefatigable orb sweeps the main from sunset to sunset. Having sighted a sail, he gets up on his hind legs and waves that shirt in so determined a manner that the ship is bound to see him and take him off. Occasionally he plunges into the sea, risking sharks and other perils. If he doesn't "get there," we hear nothing of him. If he does, some person will ultimately multiply by ten the number of sharks that he braved: that person is called a biographer.

The second trait of these men naturally follows from the first. They are always on the lookout. This doesn’t mean they are hard workers. I mentioned in a previous article that, generally, successful people aren’t especially hard-working. A guy on a raft with his shirt as a signal can’t be called industrious, but he’s going to keep his eyes peeled for a sail on the horizon. If he just lies down and falls asleep, he might miss the opportunity of a lifetime, in a very specific way. The person with the talent to succeed is like the guy on the raft who never sleeps. His tireless gaze scans the sea from dusk till dawn. Once he spots a sail, he jumps up and waves that shirt in such an enthusiastic way that the ship can't help but notice him and pick him up. Sometimes he dives into the water, risking sharks and other dangers. If he doesn’t make it, we hear nothing about him. If he does, someone will eventually exaggerate the number of sharks he faced by ten times: that person is called a biographer.

Let me drop the metaphor. Another characteristic of these men is that they seem to have the exact contrary of what is known as common sense. They will become enamoured of some enterprise which infallibly impresses the average common-sense person as a mad and hopeless enterprise. The average common-sense person will demolish the hopes of that enterprise by incontrovertible argument. He will point out that it is foolish on the face of it, that it has never been attempted before, and that it responds to no need of humanity. He will say to himself: "This fellow with his precious enterprise has a [102]twist in his brain. He can't reply to my arguments, and yet he obstinately persists in going on." And the man destined to success does go on. Perhaps the enterprise fails; it often fails; and then the average common-sense person expends much breath in "I told you so's." But the man continues to be on the look-out. His thirst is unassuaged; his taste for enterprises foredoomed to failure is incurable. And one day some enterprise foredoomed to failure develops into a success. We all hear of it. We all open our mouths and gape. Of the failures we have heard nothing. Once the man has achieved success, the thing becomes a habit with him. The difference between a success and a failure is often so slight that a reputation for succeeding will ensure success, and a reputation for failing will ensure failure. Chance plays an important part in such careers, but not a paramount part. One can only say that it is more useful to have luck at the beginning than later on. These "men of success" generally have pliable temperaments. They are not frequently un-moral, but they regard a conscience as a good servant and a bad master. They live in an atmosphere of compromise.

Let me cut to the chase. Another trait of these guys is that they seem to have the complete opposite of what’s called common sense. They get really passionate about a project that, to the average person with common sense, appears completely insane and pointless. The average common-sense person will shatter their hopes with solid arguments. They’ll point out that it’s obviously foolish, has never been done before, and doesn’t meet any human need. They’ll think to themselves: "This guy with his precious idea has a [102]twist in his brain. He can’t counter my arguments, yet he stubbornly keeps going." Yet the guy destined for success keeps pushing forward. Maybe the project fails; it often does, and then the average common-sense person takes a big breath to go, "I told you so." But that guy remains on the lookout. His thirst isn’t quenched; his appetite for doomed ventures is unchangeable. Then one day, a project thought to be doomed turns into a success. We all hear about it. We all stand there in shock. We never heard about the failures. Once he finds success, it becomes a habit for him. The line between success and failure is often so thin that being known for success will lead to more success, and being known for failure will lead to more failure. Luck plays a significant role in these careers, but it’s not everything. It’s just more helpful to have good fortune at the beginning than later on. These "successful men" usually have flexible personalities. They’re not usually immoral, but they see conscience as a helpful tool, not a boss. They live in a world of compromise.

[103]There remains class C of success—the class of sheer high merit. I am not a pessimist, nor am I an optimist. I try to arrive at the truth, and I should say that in putting success C at ten per cent. of the sum total of all successes, I am being generous to class C. Not that I believe that vast quantities of merit go unappreciated. My reason for giving to Class C only a modest share is the fact that there is so little sheer high merit. And does it not stand to reason that high merit must be very exceptional? This sort of success needs no explanation, no accounting for. It is the justification of our singular belief in the principle of the triumph of justice, and it is among natural phenomena perhaps the only justification that can be advanced for that belief. And certainly when we behold the spectacle of genuine distinguished merit gaining, without undue delay and without the sacrifice of dignity or of conscience, the applause of the kind-hearted but obtuse and insensible majority of the human race, we have fair reason to hug ourselves.

[103]There’s class C of success—the class of pure high merit. I’m neither a pessimist nor an optimist. I aim to find the truth, and I’d say that by rating success C at ten percent of all successes, I’m being generous to class C. It’s not that I think a lot of merit goes unrecognized. The reason I only give class C a small share is that there’s so little pure high merit. Doesn’t it make sense that high merit must be quite rare? This kind of success doesn’t need an explanation or justification. It supports our strong belief in the triumph of justice, and it might be the only reason we can give for that belief among natural events. When we see genuine distinguished merit being rewarded quickly, without losing dignity or conscience, by the kind-hearted yet oblivious majority of humanity, we have good reason to feel proud.







VIIIToC

THE PETTY ARTIFICIALITIES


The phrase "petty artificialities," employed by one of the correspondents in the great Simple Life argument, has stuck in my mind, although I gave it a plain intimation that it was no longer wanted there. Perhaps it sheds more light than I had at first imagined on the mental state of the persons who use it when they wish to arraign the conditions of "modern life." A vituperative epithet is capable of making a big show. "Artificialities" is a sufficiently scornful word, but when you add "petty" you somehow give the quietus to the pretensions of modern life. Modern life had better hide its diminished head, after that. Modern life is settled and done for—in the opinion of those who have thrown the dart. Only it isn't done for, really, you know. "Petty," after all, means nothing in that connexion. Are there, then, artificialities which are not "petty," [105]which are noble, large, and grand? "Petty" means merely that the users of the word are just a little cross and out of temper. What they think they object to is artificialities of any kind, and so to get rid of their spleen they refer to "petty" artificialities. The device is a common one, and as brilliant as it is futile. Rude adjectives are like blank cartridge. They impress a vain people, including the birds of the air, but they do no execution.

The term "petty artificialities," used by one of the writers in the big Simple Life debate, has stuck with me, even though I made it clear that it wasn’t welcome there anymore. It might reveal more about the mindset of people who use it to criticize "modern life" than I initially thought. A harsh term can create a strong impression. "Artificialities" sounds pretty disdainful, but adding "petty" really takes the wind out of the sails of modern life’s claims. Modern life should probably keep its head down after that. According to those who threw the insult, modern life is finished. But it’s not really done, you know. "Petty," in this context, means nothing at all. Are there artificialities that aren't "petty"—that are noble, significant, and grand? "Petty" just shows that the people using the term are a bit annoyed and out of sorts. What they think they’re upset about are artificialities in general, and to vent their frustration, they call them "petty" artificialities. This tactic is common and as flashy as it is pointless. Harsh adjectives are like blank rounds. They impress a superficial audience, including the birds in the skies, but they don’t actually have any impact.

At the same time, let me admit that I deeply sympathize with the irritated users of the impolite phrase "petty artificialities." For it does at any rate show a "divine discontent"; it does prove a high dissatisfaction with conditions which at best are not the final expression of the eternal purpose. It does make for a sort of crude and churlish righteousness. I well know that feeling which induces one to spit out savagely the phrase "petty artificialities of modern life." One has it usually either on getting up or on going to bed. What a petty artificial business it is, getting up, even for a male! Shaving! Why shave? And then going to a drawer and choosing a necktie. Fancy an immortal soul, fancy a fragment of the [106]eternal and indestructible energy, which exists from everlasting to everlasting, deliberately expending its activity on the choice of a necktie! Why a necktie? Then one goes downstairs and exchanges banal phrases with other immortals. And one can't start breakfast immediately, because some sleepy mortal is late.

At the same time, I have to admit that I really feel for those frustrated users of the rude phrase "petty artificialities." It does reflect a sense of "divine discontent"; it shows a deep dissatisfaction with situations that are, at best, not the ultimate expression of our eternal purpose. It does contribute to a kind of rough and grumpy righteousness. I totally understand that urge to angrily spit out the phrase "petty artificialities of modern life." You usually feel it either when you wake up or right before you go to bed. What a trivial and annoying task getting up is, even for a guy! Shaving! Why bother? Then there's the whole process of rifling through a drawer to pick out a necktie. Imagine a soul that’s eternal, a piece of the [106]indestructible energy that has existed forever, actively choosing a necktie! Why a necktie? Then you go downstairs and exchange meaningless small talk with other immortals. And you can’t even start breakfast right away because some groggy person is running late.

Why babble? Why wait? Why not say straight out: "Go to the deuce, all of you! Here it's nearly ten o'clock, and me anxious to begin living the higher life at once instead of fiddling around in petty artificialities. Shut up, every one of you. Give me my bacon instantly, and let me gobble it down quick and be off. I'm sick of your ceremonies!" This would at any rate not be artificial. It would save time. And if a similar policy were strictly applied through the day, one could retire to a well-earned repose in the full assurance that the day had been simplified. The time for living the higher life, the time for pushing forward those vast schemes of self-improvement which we all cherish, would decidedly have been increased. One would not have that maddening feeling, which one so frequently does have when the shades of night are [107]falling fast, that the day had been "frittered away." And yet—and yet—I gravely doubt whether this wholesale massacre of those poor petty artificialities would bring us appreciably nearer the millennium.

Why talk nonsense? Why wait? Why not just say straight out: "Go away, all of you! It's almost ten o'clock, and I'm eager to start living a meaningful life right now instead of wasting time on trivial formalities. Be quiet, everyone. Give me my bacon right now, and let me eat it quickly and get going. I'm done with your rituals!" This would at least be genuine. It would save time. And if a similar approach were consistently applied throughout the day, one could relax at the end of the day knowing it had been simplified. The time for living a meaningful life, the time for tackling those big self-improvement plans we all have, would definitely have increased. One wouldn’t have that frustrating feeling, which often occurs when night is [107]quickly approaching, that the day had been "wasted." And yet—and yet—I seriously doubt if this complete elimination of those annoying formalities would actually bring us any closer to a better future.

For there is one thing, and a thing of fundamental importance, which the revolutionists against petty artificialities always fail to appreciate, and that is the necessity and the value of convention. I cannot in a paragraph deal effectively with this most difficult and complex question. I can only point the reader to analogous phenomena in the arts. All the arts are a conventionalization, an ordering of nature. Even in a garden you put the plants in rows, and you subordinate the well-being of one to the general well-being. The sole difference between a garden and the wild woods is a petty artificiality. In writing a sonnet you actually cramp the profoundest emotional conceptions into a length and a number of lines and a jingling of like sounds arbitrarily fixed beforehand! Wordsworth's "The world is too much with us" is a solid, horrid mass of petty artificiality. Why couldn't the fellow say what he meant and [108]have done with it, instead of making "powers" rhyme with "ours," and worrying himself to use exactly a hundred and forty syllables? As for music, the amount of time that must have been devoted to petty artificiality in the construction of an affair like Bach's Chaconne is simply staggering. Then look at pictures, absurdly confined in frames, with their ingenious contrasts of light and shade and mass against mass. Nothing but petty artificiality! In other words, nothing but "form"—"form" which is the basis of all beauty, whether material or otherwise.

For there’s one crucial thing that those who rebel against small, artificial constraints always overlook: the importance and value of conventions. I can’t cover this complicated issue fully in just a paragraph. I can only direct you to similar ideas in the arts. All art is a form of conventionalization, an organization of nature. Even in a garden, you plant the flowers in rows, prioritizing the overall health of the garden over individual plants. The only difference between a garden and untamed woods is a minor artificiality. When you write a sonnet, you restrict deep emotional ideas into a specific length, number of lines, and a pattern of sounds that were fixed beforehand! Wordsworth’s "The world is too much with us" is a dense, awful example of minor artificiality. Why couldn’t he say what he meant and just be done with it, instead of making "powers" rhyme with "ours" and stressing over using exactly one hundred and forty syllables? As for music, the sheer amount of time spent on the minor artificiality in creating something like Bach's Chaconne is truly overwhelming. Then look at paintings, absurdly confined in frames, with their clever contrasts of light and shadow and shapes against shapes. It’s just minor artificiality! In other words, it’s all about "form"—the "form" that underlies all beauty, whether it’s physical or not.

Now, what form is in art, conventions (petty artificialities) are in life. Just as you can have too much form in art, so you can have too much convention in life. But no art that is not planned in form is worth consideration, and no life that is not planned in convention can ever be satisfactory. Convention is not the essence of life, but it is the protecting garment and preservative of life, and it is also one very valuable means by which life can express itself. It is largely symbolic; and symbols, while being expressive, are also great time-savers. The [109]despisers of petty artificialities should think of this. Take the striking instance of that pettiest artificiality, leaving cards. Well, searchers after the real, what would you substitute for it? If you dropped it and substituted nothing, the result would tend towards a loosening of the bonds of society, and it would tend towards the diminution of the number of your friends. And if you dropped it and tried to substitute something less artificial and more real, you would accomplish no more than you accomplish with cards, you would inconvenience everybody, and waste a good deal of your own time. I cannot too strongly insist that the basis of convention is a symbolism, primarily meant to display a regard for the feelings of other people. If you do not display a regard for the feelings of other people, you may as well go and live on herbs in the desert. And if you are to display such a regard you cannot do it more expeditiously, at a smaller outlay of time and brains, than by adopting the code of convention now generally practised. It comes to this—that you cannot have all the advantages of living in the desert while you are living in a society. It would be delightful for you if you could, but you can't.

Now, the form in art is like the conventions (small artificial rules) in life. Just as too much form can overwhelm art, too much convention can weigh down life. However, any art that isn’t thoughtfully designed is unworthy of attention, and a life without organized conventions will never be truly fulfilling. Convention isn’t the core of life, but it’s the protective layer and safeguard of life, and it's also a valuable way for life to express itself. It largely serves as a symbol; and symbols, while being expressive, also save a lot of time. The [109]haters of minor artificialities should keep this in mind. Take the simple example of leaving cards. So, seekers of authenticity, what would you replace it with? If you eliminated it without offering anything in return, it would loosen society's bonds and shrink your circle of friends. And if you removed it in favor of something less artificial and more genuine, you'd achieve no more than what cards do; you'd inconvenience everyone and waste a lot of your own time. I can’t emphasize enough that the foundation of convention is a symbol system, mainly intended to show consideration for others' feelings. If you neglect to show concern for others, you might as well live off herbs in the desert. And if you want to show that concern, you can’t do it more efficiently or with less time and effort than by following the standard conventions practiced today. The reality is—you can’t enjoy all the perks of living in the desert while being part of society. It would be wonderful if you could, but you can't.

[110]There are two further reasons for the continuance of conventionality. And one is the mysterious but indisputable fact that the full beauty of an activity is never brought out until it is subjected to discipline and strict ordering and nice balancing. A life without petty artificiality would be the life of a tiger in the forest. A beautiful life, perhaps, a life of "burning bright," but not reaching the highest ideal of beauty! Laws and rules, forms and ceremonies are good in themselves, from a merely æsthetic point of view, apart from their social value and necessity.

[110]There are two more reasons why conventionality continues. One is the mysterious but undeniable fact that the true beauty of an activity only shines through when it’s put under discipline, organization, and careful balance. A life without any artificiality would be like a tiger in the wild. It might be a beautiful life, maybe one that is "burning bright," but it wouldn’t reach the highest ideal of beauty! Laws and rules, forms and ceremonies are worthwhile in themselves, purely from an aesthetic perspective, aside from their social significance and necessity.

And the other reason is that one cannot always be at the full strain of "self-improvement," and "evolutionary progress," and generally beating the big drum. Human nature will not stand it. There is, if we will only be patient, ample time for the "artificial" as well as for the "real." Those persons who think that there isn't, ought to return to school and learn arithmetic. Supposing that all "petty artificialities" were suddenly swept away, and we were able to show our regard and consideration for our fellow creatures by the swift processes of thought alone, we should find ourselves with a terrible lot of time [111]hanging heavy on our hands. We can no more spend all our waking hours in consciously striving towards higher things than we can dine exclusively off jam. What frightful prigs we should become if we had nothing to do but cultivate our noblest faculties! I beg the despisers of artificiality to reflect upon these observations, however incomplete these observations may be, and to consider whether they would be quite content if they got what they are crying out for.

And the other reason is that you can’t always be at full throttle with “self-improvement,” “evolutionary progress,” and constantly making a big show of it. Human nature just won’t allow it. If we are patient, there’s plenty of time for both the “artificial” and the “real.” Those who think there isn’t should go back to school and learn some math. Let’s say all “petty artificialities” were suddenly gone, and we could show our care and consideration for others just through quick thinking—we’d end up with way too much time on our hands. We can’t spend all our waking hours striving for higher things any more than we can live solely on jam. Imagine how insufferable we’d become if we only focused on developing our best qualities! I urge those who look down on artificiality to think about these points, however incomplete they might be, and to consider whether they would truly be satisfied if they got what they keep asking for.







IXToC

THE SECRET OF CONTENT


I have said lightly à propos of the conclusion arrived at by several correspondents and by myself that the cry for the simple life was merely a new form of the old cry for happiness, that I would explain what it was that made life worth living for me. The word has gone forth, and I must endeavour to redeem my promise. But I do so with qualms and with diffidence. First, there is the natural instinct against speaking of that which is in the core of one's mind. Second, there is the fear, nearly amounting to certainty, of being misunderstood or not comprehended at all. And third, there is the absurd insufficiency of space. However!... For me, spiritual content (I will not use the word "happiness," which implies too much) springs essentially from no mental or physical facts. It springs from the spiritual fact that there is [113]something higher in man than the mind, and that that something can control the mind. Call that something the soul, or what you will. My sense of security amid the collisions of existence lies in the firm consciousness that just as my body is the servant of my mind, so is my mind the servant of me. An unruly servant, but a servant—and possibly getting less unruly every day! Often have I said to that restive brain: "Now, O mind, sole means of communication between the divine me and all external phenomena, you are not a free agent; you are a subordinate; you are nothing but a piece of machinery; and obey me you shall."

I’ve casually mentioned, regarding the conclusion reached by several correspondents and myself, that the call for a simpler life was just a new expression of the old desire for happiness, and I promised to explain what makes life meaningful for me. The word is out, and I need to keep my promise. However, I approach this with hesitation and uncertainty. First, there’s a natural instinct to avoid discussing what’s at the core of one’s mind. Second, there’s the fear—almost a certainty—of being misunderstood or not understood at all. And third, there’s the ridiculous limitation of space. But!... For me, spiritual fulfillment (I won't use the word "happiness," since it suggests too much) comes fundamentally from a spiritual truth: there is [113]something greater in people than just the mind, and that something can govern the mind. You can call that something the soul or something else. My sense of stability amid life’s challenges comes from the clear understanding that just as my body serves my mind, my mind serves me. It’s a tough servant, but still a servant—and maybe it’s getting a little easier to manage every day! I’ve often told that restless brain: “Now, O mind, the only way I connect with the divine me and everything outside of me, you are not your own master; you are a subordinate; you are merely a machine; and you will obey me.”

The mind can only be conquered by regular meditation, by deciding beforehand what direction its activity ought to take, and insisting that its activity takes that direction; also by never leaving it idle, undirected, masterless, to play at random like a child in the streets after dark. This is extremely difficult, but it can be done, and it is marvellously well worth doing. The fault of the epoch is the absence of meditativeness. A sagacious man will strive to correct in himself the faults of his epoch. In some deep [114]ways the twelfth century had advantages over the twentieth. It practised meditation. The twentieth does Sandow exercises. Meditation (I speak only for myself) is the least dispensable of the day's doings. What do I force my mind to meditate upon? Upon various things, but chiefly upon one.

The mind can only be mastered through consistent meditation, by choosing in advance the direction it should take, and making sure it follows that path; also by never leaving it idle, unorganized, or free to wander like a child playing aimlessly on the streets after dark. This is really challenging, but it's possible, and it's incredibly worthwhile. The problem with our time is the lack of meditation. A wise person will work to change in themselves the shortcomings of their era. In some fundamental [114]ways, the twelfth century had advantages over the twentieth. It practiced meditation. The twentieth century does Sandow exercises. Meditation (I’m only speaking for myself) is the most essential part of my day. What do I make my mind focus on? On various things, but mostly on one thing.

Namely, that Force, Energy, Life—the Incomprehensible has many names—is indestructible, and that, in the last analysis, there is only one single, unique Force, Energy, Life. Science is gradually reducing all elements to one element. Science is making it increasingly difficult to conceive matter apart from spirit. Everything lives. Even my razor gets "tired." And the fatigue of my razor is no more nor less explicable than my fatigue after a passage of arms with my mind. The Force in it, and in me, has been transformed, not lost. All Force is the same force. Science just now has a tendency to call it electricity; but I am indifferent to such baptisms. The same Force pervades my razor, my cow in my field, and the central me which dominates my mind: the same force in different stages of evolution. And that Force persists forever. In such [115]paths do I compel my mind to walk daily. Daily it has to recognize that the mysterious Ego controlling it is a part of that divine Force which exists from everlasting to everlasting, and which, in its ultimate atoms, nothing can harm. By such a course of training, even the mind, the coarse, practical mind, at last perceives that worldly accidents don't count.

Namely, that Force, Energy, Life—the Incomprehensible has many names—is indestructible, and that, in the end, there is only one unique Force, Energy, Life. Science is gradually breaking everything down to a single element. It's becoming harder to think of matter as separate from spirit. Everything is alive. Even my razor gets "tired." And the fatigue of my razor is no more or less explainable than my fatigue after wrestling with my thoughts. The Force within it, and in me, has transformed, not disappeared. All Force is the same force. Science currently tends to call it electricity, but I don’t care about such labels. The same Force runs through my razor, my cow in the field, and the central me that dominates my mind: the same force at different stages of evolution. And that Force lasts forever. In such [115]paths, I make my mind walk every day. It has to recognize that the mysterious Ego controlling it is part of that divine Force which exists from everlasting to everlasting, and in its ultimate atoms, nothing can harm it. By following this training, even the mind, the coarse, practical mind, eventually sees that worldly accidents don’t matter.

"But," you will exclaim, "this is nothing but the immortality of the soul over again!" Well, in a slightly more abstract form, it is. (I never said I had discovered anything new.) I do not permit myself to be dogmatic about the persistence of personality, or even of individuality after death. But, in basing my physical and mental life on the assumption that there is something in me which is indestructible and essentially changeless, I go no further than science points. Yes, if it gives you pleasure, let us call it the immortality of the soul. If I miss my train, or my tailor disgraces himself, or I lose that earthly manifestation of Force that happens to be dearest to me, I say to my mind: "Mind, concentrate your powers upon the full realization of the fact that I, your master, am immortal and [116]beyond the reach of accidents." And my mind, knowing by this time that I am a hard master, obediently does so. Am I, a portion of the Infinite Force that existed billions of years ago, and which will exist billions of years hence, going to allow myself to be worried by any terrestrial physical or mental event? I am not. As for the vicissitudes of my body, that servant of my servant, it had better keep its place, and not make too much fuss. Not that any fuss occurring in either of these outward envelopes of the eternal me could really disturb me. The eternal is calm; it has the best reason for being so.

"But," you might say, "this is just the immortality of the soul all over again!" Well, in a slightly different way, it is. (I never claimed to have discovered anything new.) I don’t want to be rigid about the idea that personality or individuality persists after death. However, I base my physical and mental life on the belief that there’s something inside me that is indestructible and essentially unchangeable, and I don’t go beyond what science suggests. Yes, if it makes you happy, let’s call it the immortality of the soul. If I miss my train, or my tailor lets me down, or I lose the earthly thing that means the most to me, I tell myself: "Mind, focus your energy on fully realizing that I, your master, am immortal and [116]beyond the reach of accidents." And my mind, knowing by now that I’m a tough master, obeys. Am I, a part of the Infinite Force that existed billions of years ago and will exist billions of years in the future, going to let myself be troubled by any earthly physical or mental event? I’m not. As for the ups and downs of my body, that servant of my servant, it had better know its place and not create too much drama. Not that any drama in either of these outer shells of the eternal me could truly disturb me. The eternal is peaceful; it has every reason to be.

So you say to yourselves: "Here is a man in a penny weekly paper advocating daily meditation upon the immortality of the soul as a cure for discontent and unhappiness! A strange phenomenon!" That it should be strange is an indictment of the epoch. My only reply to you is this: Try it. Of course, I freely grant that such meditation, while it "casts out fear," slowly kills desire and makes for a certain high indifference; and that the extinguishing of desire, with an accompanying indifference, be it high or low, is bad for youth. But I am not a youth, and [117]to-day I am writing for those who have tasted disillusion: which youth has not. Yet I would not have you believe that I scorn the brief joys of this world. My attitude towards them would fain be that of Socrates, as stated by the incomparable Marcus Aurelius: "He knew how to lack, and how to enjoy, those things in the lack whereof most men show themselves weak; and in the fruition, intemperate."

So you say to yourselves: "Here’s a guy in a weekly penny paper promoting daily meditation on the immortality of the soul as a way to overcome discontent and unhappiness! That’s pretty strange!" The fact that it seems strange is a criticism of the times we live in. My only response is this: Give it a try. I freely admit that such meditation, while it "drives out fear," gradually diminishes desire and leads to a certain high indifference; and that suppressing desire, along with indifference, whether high or low, isn’t great for young people. But I’m not young, and [117] today I’m writing for those who have experienced disillusionment: which young person hasn’t? Still, I don’t want you to think I look down on the fleeting joys of this world. I would like to adopt Socrates’ attitude towards them, as described by the remarkable Marcus Aurelius: "He knew how to do without, and how to enjoy, those things that most people struggle with lacking; and in the enjoyment, he was moderate."

Besides commanding my mind to dwell upon the indestructibly and final omnipotence of the Force which is me, I command it to dwell upon the logical consequence of that unity of force which science is now beginning to teach. The same essential force that is me is also you. Says the Indian proverb: "I met a hundred men on the road to Delhi, and they were all my brothers." Yes, and they were all my twin brothers, if I may so express it, and a thousand times closer to me even than the common conception of twin brothers. We are all of us the same in essence; what separates us is merely differences in our respective stages of evolution. Constant reflection upon this fact must produce that universal sympathy which alone can [118]produce a positive content. It must do away with such ridiculous feelings as blame, irritation, anger, resentment. It must establish in the mind an all-embracing tolerance. Until a man can look upon the drunkard in his drunkenness, and upon the wife-beater in his brutality, with pure and calm compassion; until his heart goes out instinctively to every other manifestation of the unique Force; until he is surcharged with an eager and unconquerable benevolence towards everything that lives; until he has utterly abandoned the presumptuous practice of judging and condemning—he will never attain real content. "Ah!" you exclaim again, "he has nothing newer to tell us than that 'the greatest of these is charity'!" I have not. It may strike you as excessively funny, but I have discovered nothing newer than that. I merely remind you of it. Thus it is, twins on the road to Delhi, by continual meditation upon the indestructibility of Force, that I try to cultivate calm, and by continual meditation upon the oneness of Force that I try to cultivate charity, being fully convinced that in calmness and in charity lies the secret of a placid if not ecstatic happiness. It is often said that no thinking [119]person can be happy in this world. My view is that the more a man thinks the more happy he is likely to be. I have spoken. I am overwhelmingly aware that I have spoken crudely, abruptly, inadequately, confusedly.

Besides directing my mind to focus on the unbreakable and ultimate power of the Force that is me, I also instruct it to consider the logical outcome of that unity of force that science is starting to reveal. The same fundamental force that is me is also you. An Indian proverb states: "I met a hundred men on the road to Delhi, and they were all my brothers." Yes, they were all my twin brothers, if I can put it that way, and a thousand times closer to me than the typical idea of twin brothers. We are all essentially the same; what divides us are merely differences in our levels of evolution. Constantly reflecting on this truth should create a universal empathy that can [118] generate a positive content. It should eliminate ridiculous feelings like blame, irritation, anger, and resentment. It must create in the mind a wide-reaching tolerance. Until someone can view the drunkard in his drunkenness, and the wife-beater in his brutality, with pure and calm compassion; until his heart instinctively reaches out to every other expression of the unique Force; until he is filled with eager and unstoppable goodwill towards everything that lives; until he wholly lets go of the arrogant habit of judging and condemning—he will never achieve true contentment. "Ah!" you might exclaim again, "he has nothing new to tell us except that 'the greatest of these is charity'!" I haven't. It may sound amusing, but I have discovered nothing newer than that. I simply remind you of it. Thus it is, twins on the road to Delhi, through regular meditation on the indestructibility of Force, that I try to nurture calmness, and through consistent meditation on the oneness of Force, that I attempt to cultivate charity, fully convinced that in calmness and charity lies the secret to a tranquil if not ecstatic happiness. It's often said that no thoughtful [119] person can be happy in this world. My perspective is that the more a person thinks, the more likely they are to be happy. I have spoken. I am acutely aware that I have spoken crudely, abruptly, inadequately, and confusingly.



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THE NOVELS OF ARNOLD BENNETT


WHOM GOD HATH JOINED:

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WHOM GOD HATH JOINED is a dramatic presentation of the working of the English divorce laws. Their injustice to woman has long been acknowledged; Arnold Bennett proves them almost as unjust to man.

WHOM GOD HATH JOINED is a dramatic portrayal of the English divorce laws in action. Their unfairness to women has been recognized for a long time; Arnold Bennett demonstrates that they are nearly as unfair to men.

The novel is a stern morality, with laughter interspersed. It possesses the sincerity and vitality which come of a careful study of the problem.

The novel presents a serious moral lesson, sprinkled with moments of laughter. It has the genuine feeling and energy that come from a thorough examination of the issue.

It contains passages of the most brilliant motive analysis which have been written in recent years. It presents a vivid world of actual personages.

It features some of the most insightful motive analysis written in recent years. It paints a vivid picture of real characters.


THE GLIMPSE:

The Adventures of a Soul. Price $1.20 Net

The Adventures of a Soul. Price $1.20 net

The story is told of a man who passed over to the Other Side and remained there long enough to gain a glimpse—only to return again.

The story goes about a man who crossed over to the Other Side and stayed there long enough to catch a glimpse—only to return again.

Written with the careful realism which distinguishes all Arnold Bennett's work, it is curious to note the fine use that he makes of his realistic genius in the handling of a visionary situation.

Written with the careful realism that characterizes all of Arnold Bennett's work, it’s interesting to see how effectively he uses his realistic talent to manage a visionary scenario.


A MAN FROM THE NORTH:

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The story of a young man from the Five Towns, who comes up London to seek his fortune. He is grossly ignorant of life and naively curious about love. This is the history of his adventures towards love and of his enlightenment.

The story of a young man from the Five Towns, who goes to London to seek his fortune. He is completely clueless about life and innocently curious about love. This is the tale of his adventures in love and his journey to understanding.

All the loneliness, passion and quenchless curiosity of youth are in these pages—and the magic power of youth to wrap about the commonplace the cloak of romance.

All the loneliness, passion, and insatiable curiosity of youth are in these pages—and the magical ability of youth to turn the ordinary into something romantic.


GEORGE H. DORAN COMPANY, Publishers




ARNOLD BENNETT: PLAYS


CUPID AND COMMON-SENSE:

A Play in Four Acts, with a Preface on the Crisis in the Theatre.

A Play in Four Acts, with a Preface on the Crisis in the Theatre.

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"Cupid and Common-Sense" reads well, and reads as if it would prove still more effective and enjoyable when acted.—The Scotsman.

"Cupid and Common-Sense" is a great read, and it seems like it would be even more fun and impactful if performed.—The Scotsman.


WHAT THE PUBLIC WANTS: A Play.

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This clever comedy, based on modern neswpaperdom, reveals Arnold Bennett in another phase.

This witty comedy, inspired by today's newspapers, shows Arnold Bennett in a different light.


POLITE FARCES: Three Plays.

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The three farces which comprise this book deal with possible domestic and refined crises of everyday life.

The three farces in this book explore potential domestic and subtle crises of everyday life.


THE HONEYMOON:

A Comedy in Three Acts. Price $1.00 Net

A Comedy in Three Acts. Price $1.00 Net

Originality without grotesquerie and satire without malice combine to make a play that is full of sparkle and genuine charm.

Originality without absurdity and humor without cruelty come together to create a play that is full of brightness and real charm.


THE GREAT ADVENTURE:

A Play of Fancy in Four Acts. Price $1.00 Net

A Play of Imagination in Four Acts. Price $1.00 Net

The play based on Mr. Bennett's successful novel, "Buried Alive." As the novel stands out among humorous fiction so THE GREAT ADVENTURE stands out among modern comedies.

The play is adapted from Mr. Bennett's successful novel, "Buried Alive." Just as the novel is a standout in humorous fiction, THE GREAT ADVENTURE is a standout among contemporary comedies.


ARNOLD BENNETT AND EDWARD KNOBLAUCH
MILESTONES:

A Play in Three Acts. Price $1.00 Net

A Play in Three Acts. Price $1.00 Net

This is the play which has created a sensation because of its boldness and novelty. It passes, in rapid survey, three generations—the milestones of the last half century. A big New York success.

This is the play that has caused a stir because of its daring and freshness. It quickly covers three generations—the key events of the last fifty years. A huge success in New York.


GEORGE H. DORAN COMPANY, Publishers







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