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CHARACTER



By Samuel Smiles










Contents

CHAPTER I. INFLUENCE OF CHARACTER.
CHAPTER II. HOME POWER.
CHAPTER III. COMPANIONSHIP AND EXAMPLES
CHAPTER IV. WORK.
CHAPTER V. COURAGE.
CHAPTER VI. SELF-CONTROL.
CHAPTER VII. DUTY—TRUTHFULNESS.
CHAPTER VIII. TEMPER.
CHAPTER IX. MANNER—ART.
CHAPTER X. COMPANIONSHIP OF BOOKS.
CHAPTER XI. COMPANIONSHIP IN MARRIAGE.
CHAPTER XII.     THE DISCIPLINE OF EXPERIENCE.
FOOTNOTES.   






CHAPTER I.—INFLUENCE OF CHARACTER.

     "Unless above himself he can Erect himself, how poor a thing
     is man"—DANIEL.

     "Character is moral order seen through the medium, of an
     individual nature.... Men of character are the conscience of
     the society to which they belong."—EMERSON.

     "The prosperity of a country depends, not on the abundance
     of its revenues, nor on the strength of its fortifications,
     nor on the beauty of its public buildings; but it consists
     in the number of its cultivated citizens, in its men of
     education, enlightenment, and character; here are to be
     found its true interest, its chief strength, its real
     power."—MARTIN LUTHER.
     "Unless he can rise above himself, how pitiful is man"—DANIEL.

     "Character is moral order viewed through the lens of an individual nature.... People of character represent the conscience of the society they belong to."—EMERSON.

     "The prosperity of a country relies not on the wealth of its revenues, the strength of its defenses, or the beauty of its public buildings; but rather on the number of its educated citizens, its enlightened individuals, and its people of character; therein lies its true interest, its greatest strength, and its real power."—MARTIN LUTHER.

Character is one of the greatest motive powers in the world. In its noblest embodiments, it exemplifies human nature in its highest forms, for it exhibits man at his best.

Character is one of the strongest driving forces in the world. In its finest forms, it represents human nature at its best, showcasing people at their highest potential.

Men of genuine excellence, in every station of life—men of industry, of integrity, of high principle, of sterling honesty of purpose—command the spontaneous homage of mankind. It is natural to believe in such men, to have confidence in them, and to imitate them. All that is good in the world is upheld by them, and without their presence in it the world would not be worth living in.

Men of true excellence, in every walk of life—hardworking individuals, those of integrity, with strong principles and genuine honesty—earn the automatic respect of others. It’s only natural to trust such people, to have faith in them, and to want to follow their example. Everything good in the world is supported by them, and without them, life wouldn’t be worth living.

Although genius always commands admiration, character most secures respect. The former is more the product of brain-power, the latter of heart-power; and in the long run it is the heart that rules in life. Men of genius stand to society in the relation of its intellect, as men of character of its conscience; and while the former are admired, the latter are followed.

Although genius always earns admiration, character earns respect. Genius is more about intellectual ability, while character comes from compassion and integrity; in the end, it's the heart that leads in life. People of genius represent society's intellect, while people of character represent its conscience; and while the former are admired, the latter are followed.

Great men are always exceptional men; and greatness itself is but comparative. Indeed, the range of most men in life is so limited, that very few have the opportunity of being great. But each man can act his part honestly and honourably, and to the best of his ability. He can use his gifts, and not abuse them. He can strive to make the best of life. He can be true, just, honest, and faithful, even in small things. In a word, he can do his Duty in that sphere in which Providence has placed him.

Great people are always exceptional individuals; and greatness itself is just relative. In fact, most people's lives are so limited that very few get the chance to be great. However, each person can play their role honestly and honorably, to the best of their ability. They can use their talents without misusing them. They can work to make the most of life. They can be true, just, honest, and faithful, even in small matters. In short, they can fulfill their duty in the position where they find themselves.

Commonplace though it may appear, this doing of one's Duty embodies the highest ideal of life and character. There may be nothing heroic about it; but the common lot of men is not heroic. And though the abiding sense of Duty upholds man in his highest attitudes, it also equally sustains him in the transaction of the ordinary affairs of everyday existence. Man's life is "centred in the sphere of common duties." The most influential of all the virtues are those which are the most in request for daily use. They wear the best, and last the longest. Superfine virtues, which are above the standard of common men, may only be sources of temptation and danger. Burke has truly said that "the human system which rests for its basis on the heroic virtues is sure to have a superstructure of weakness or of profligacy."

While it might seem ordinary, fulfilling one's duty represents the highest ideal of life and character. It may not seem heroic; however, the everyday lives of people are not filled with heroism. The lasting sense of duty supports individuals in their highest moments, but it also equally helps them navigate the routine tasks of daily life. A person's existence is "centered in the sphere of common duties." The most impactful virtues are those most needed for everyday situations. They endure the longest and are the most reliable. Fancy virtues that are beyond the reach of ordinary people can often lead to temptation and risk. As Burke aptly pointed out, "the human system which rests for its basis on the heroic virtues is sure to have a superstructure of weakness or of profligacy."

When Dr. Abbot, afterwards Archbishop of Canterbury, drew the character of his deceased friend Thomas Sackville, 101 he did not dwell upon his merits as a statesman, or his genius as a poet, but upon his virtues as a man in relation to the ordinary duties of life. "How many rare things were in him!" said he. "Who more loving unto his wife? Who more kind unto his children?—Who more fast unto his friend?—Who more moderate unto his enemy?—Who more true to his word?" Indeed, we can always better understand and appreciate a man's real character by the manner in which he conducts himself towards those who are the most nearly related to him, and by his transaction of the seemingly commonplace details of daily duty, than by his public exhibition of himself as an author, an orator, or a statesman.

When Dr. Abbot, later Archbishop of Canterbury, described his late friend Thomas Sackville, 101 he didn’t focus on his accomplishments as a politician or his talent as a poet, but rather on his qualities as a person in relation to everyday responsibilities. "How many rare things were in him!" he said. "Who was more loving to his wife? Who was more kind to his children? — Who was more loyal to his friend? — Who was more moderate with his enemy? — Who was more true to his word?" In fact, we can always understand and appreciate a person's true character better through how he treats those closest to him and how he handles the seemingly simple tasks of daily life than through his public persona as a writer, speaker, or politician.

At the same time, while Duty, for the most part, applies to the conduct of affairs in common life by the average of common men, it is also a sustaining power to men of the very highest standard of character. They may not have either money, or property, or learning, or power; and yet they may be strong in heart and rich in spirit—honest, truthful, dutiful. And whoever strives to do his duty faithfully is fulfilling the purpose for which he was created, and building up in himself the principles of a manly character. There are many persons of whom it may be said that they have no other possession in the world but their character, and yet they stand as firmly upon it as any crowned king.

At the same time, while Duty mainly relates to how average people conduct themselves in everyday life, it also serves as a source of strength for those with the highest standards of character. They might not have money, property, knowledge, or power, but they can still be strong-hearted and rich in spirit—honest, truthful, and responsible. Anyone who works hard to fulfill their duty is achieving the purpose for which they were created and developing strong principles of character. Many people can be said to have no other assets in the world besides their character, yet they stand as firmly on that as any crowned king.

Intellectual culture has no necessary relation to purity or excellence of character. In the New Testament, appeals are constantly made to the heart of man and to "the spirit we are of," whilst allusions to the intellect are of very rare occurrence. "A handful of good life," says George Herbert, "is worth a bushel of learning." Not that learning is to be despised, but that it must be allied to goodness. Intellectual capacity is sometimes found associated with the meanest moral character with abject servility to those in high places, and arrogance to those of low estate. A man may be accomplished in art, literature, and science, and yet, in honesty, virtue, truthfulness, and the spirit of duty, be entitled to take rank after many a poor and illiterate peasant.

Intellectual culture isn't necessarily linked to purity or character excellence. The New Testament often appeals to the heart of man and "the spirit we are of," while references to intellect are quite rare. "A handful of good life," says George Herbert, "is worth a bushel of learning." This doesn't mean learning should be dismissed, but it needs to be connected to goodness. Sometimes, great intellectual ability exists alongside a very poor moral character, showing submissiveness to the powerful and arrogance toward the less privileged. A person can be skilled in art, literature, and science, yet still, in terms of honesty, virtue, truthfulness, and a sense of duty, rank below many poor and uneducated peasants.

"You insist," wrote Perthes to a friend, "on respect for learned men. I say, Amen! But, at the same time, don't forget that largeness of mind, depth of thought, appreciation of the lofty, experience of the world, delicacy of manner, tact and energy in action, love of truth, honesty, and amiability—that all these may be wanting in a man who may yet be very learned." 102

"You insist," wrote Perthes to a friend, "on respecting knowledgeable people. I say, Amen! But, at the same time, don't forget that open-mindedness, depth of thought, appreciation for the great, worldly experience, gracefulness, tact, energy in action, love of truth, honesty, and friendliness—these can all be absent in someone who might still be quite educated." 102

When some one, in Sir Walter Scott's hearing, made a remark as to the value of literary talents and accomplishments, as if they were above all things to be esteemed and honoured, he observed, "God help us! what a poor world this would be if that were the true doctrine! I have read books enough, and observed and conversed with enough of eminent and splendidly-cultured minds, too, in my time; but I assure you, I have heard higher sentiments from the lips of poor UNEDUCATED men and women, when exerting the spirit of severe yet gentle heroism under difficulties and afflictions, or speaking their simple thoughts as to circumstances in the lot of friends and neighbours, than I ever yet met with out of the Bible. We shall never learn to feel and respect our real calling and destiny, unless we have taught ourselves to consider everything as moonshine, compared with the education of the heart." 103

When someone made a comment in Sir Walter Scott's presence about the value of literary talent and skills, suggesting they were the most esteemed and honored of all things, he replied, "God help us! What a sad world this would be if that were the truth! I've read enough books and interacted with enough brilliant, well-educated people in my time; but I assure you, I've heard more profound thoughts from poor, UNEDUCATED men and women when they showed quiet bravery in tough times or shared their simple opinions about the lives of their friends and neighbors than I ever have outside the Bible. We will never learn to recognize and appreciate our true calling and purpose unless we’ve trained ourselves to see everything else as trivial, compared to the education of the heart." 103

Still less has wealth any necessary connection with elevation of character. On the contrary, it is much more frequently the cause of its corruption and degradation. Wealth and corruption, luxury and vice, have very close affinities to each other. Wealth, in the hands of men of weak purpose, of deficient self-control, or of ill-regulated passions, is only a temptation and a snare—the source, it may be, of infinite mischief to themselves, and often to others.

Wealth doesn't inherently lead to a higher character. In fact, it often leads to corruption and decline. Wealth, corruption, luxury, and vice are closely linked. When wealth is in the hands of people with weak resolve, poor self-discipline, or uncontrolled desires, it becomes nothing more than a temptation and a trap—potentially causing endless harm to themselves and frequently to others.

On the contrary, a condition of comparative poverty is compatible with character in its highest form. A man may possess only his industry, his frugality, his integrity, and yet stand high in the rank of true manhood. The advice which Burns's father gave him was the best:

On the other hand, being relatively poor can still go hand in hand with a person’s character at its best. A man might only have his hard work, thriftiness, and honesty, and still be regarded as a true man. The advice Burns's father gave him was the best:

   "He bade me act a manly part, though I had ne'er a farthing,
   For without an honest manly heart no man was worth regarding."
   "He told me to act like a real man, even though I had not a penny to my name,  
   For without a true and honest heart, no man is worth paying attention to."

One of the purest and noblest characters the writer ever knew was a labouring man in a northern county, who brought up his family respectably on an income never amounting to more than ten shillings a week. Though possessed of only the rudiments of common education, obtained at an ordinary parish school, he was a man full of wisdom and thoughtfulness. His library consisted of the Bible, 'Flavel,' and 'Boston'—books which, excepting the first, probably few readers have ever heard of. This good man might have sat for the portrait of Wordsworth's well-known 'Wanderer.' When he had lived his modest life of work and worship, and finally went to his rest, he left behind him a reputation for practical wisdom, for genuine goodness, and for helpfulness in every good work, which greater and richer men might have envied.

One of the purest and noblest people the writer ever met was a working man from a northern county who raised his family respectably on an income that never exceeded ten shillings a week. Even though he only had the basics of common education from a regular parish school, he was a man full of wisdom and thoughtfulness. His library included the Bible, 'Flavel,' and 'Boston'—books that, aside from the first, probably very few readers have ever heard of. This good man could have been the model for Wordsworth's famous 'Wanderer.' After living his simple life of work and worship, when he finally passed away, he left behind a reputation for practical wisdom, genuine goodness, and helpfulness in every good deed that greater and wealthier men might have envied.

When Luther died, he left behind him, as set forth in his will, "no ready money, no treasure of coin of any description." He was so poor at one part of his life, that he was under the necessity of earning his bread by turning, gardening, and clockmaking. Yet, at the very time when he was thus working with his hands, he was moulding the character of his country; and he was morally stronger, and vastly more honoured and followed, than all the princes of Germany.

When Luther died, he left behind, as stated in his will, "no cash, no treasure of any kind." He was so broke at one point in his life that he had to earn a living by working as a turner, gardener, and clockmaker. Yet, while he was working with his hands, he was shaping the character of his country; and he was morally stronger and far more respected and followed than all the princes of Germany.

Character is property. It is the noblest of possessions. It is an estate in the general goodwill and respect of men; and they who invest in it—though they may not become rich in this world's goods—will find their reward in esteem and reputation fairly and honourably won. And it is right that in life good qualities should tell—that industry, virtue, and goodness should rank the highest—and that the really best men should be foremost.

Character is an asset. It's the most valuable possession you can have. It's a foundation built on the goodwill and respect of others; those who invest in it—though they may not get rich in material wealth—will gain their reward in esteem and a reputation earned with honesty and honor. It's only fair that in life, good qualities should shine; that hard work, virtue, and kindness should be the most valued—and that the truly best people should lead the way.

Simple honesty of purpose in a man goes a long way in life, if founded on a just estimate of himself and a steady obedience to the rule he knows and feels to be right. It holds a man straight, gives him strength and sustenance, and forms a mainspring of vigorous action. "No man," once said Sir Benjamin Rudyard, "is bound to be rich or great,—no, nor to be wise; but every man is bound to be honest." 104

Simple honesty in a person really matters in life, as long as it’s based on a realistic view of themselves and a consistent commitment to the principles they believe are right. It keeps a person grounded, provides them with strength and support, and serves as a driving force for meaningful action. "No man," once said Sir Benjamin Rudyard, "is required to be rich or great,—nor even wise; but every man is required to be honest." 104

But the purpose, besides being honest, must be inspired by sound principles, and pursued with undeviating adherence to truth, integrity, and uprightness. Without principles, a man is like a ship without rudder or compass, left to drift hither and thither with every wind that blows. He is as one without law, or rule, or order, or government. "Moral principles," says Hume, "are social and universal. They form, in a manner, the PARTY of humankind against vice and disorder, its common enemy."

But the goal, besides being honest, should be driven by solid principles and pursued with unwavering commitment to truth, integrity, and righteousness. Without principles, a person is like a ship without a rudder or compass, aimlessly drifting with every breeze. They exist as someone without laws, rules, order, or government. "Moral principles," Hume says, "are social and universal. They create, in a way, the UNITY of humanity against vice and disorder, its common enemy."

Epictetus once received a visit from a certain magnificent orator going to Rome on a lawsuit, who wished to learn from the stoic something of his philosophy. Epictetus received his visitor coolly, not believing in his sincerity. "You will only criticise my style," said he; "not really wishing to learn principles."—"Well, but," said the orator, "if I attend to that sort of thing; I shall be a mere pauper, like you, with no plate, nor equipage, nor land."—"I don't WANT such things," replied Epictetus; "and besides, you are poorer than I am, after all. Patron or no patron, what care I? You DO care. I am richer than you. I don't care what Caesar thinks of me. I flatter no one. This is what I have, instead of your gold and silver plate. You have silver vessels, but earthenware reasons, principles, appetites. My mind to me a kingdom is, and it furnishes me with abundant and happy occupation in lieu of your restless idleness. All your possessions seem small to you; mine seem great to me. Your desire is insatiate—mine is satisfied." 105

Epictetus once had a visit from a well-known orator heading to Rome for a lawsuit, who wanted to learn something about his philosophy. Epictetus greeted his visitor with indifference, doubting his sincerity. "You just want to criticize my style," he said, "not actually learn the principles." The orator replied, "Well, if I focus on that, I’ll end up being a mere poor person like you, with no fancy dishes, no carriage, and no land." Epictetus responded, "I don't want those things, and besides, you're actually poorer than I am. I don't care about having a patron. You do care. I’m richer than you. I don’t care what Caesar thinks of me. I don’t flatter anyone. This is what I have instead of your gold and silver dishes. You have silver utensils but shallow reasons, principles, and desires. My mind is my kingdom, and it gives me plenty of fulfilling activities instead of your restless idle time. All your possessions seem small to you; mine feel significant to me. Your desire is never-ending—mine is content." 105

Talent is by no means rare in the world; nor is even genius. But can the talent be trusted?—can the genius? Not unless based on truthfulness—on veracity. It is this quality more than any other that commands the esteem and respect, and secures the confidence of others. Truthfulness is at the foundation of all personal excellence. It exhibits itself in conduct. It is rectitude—truth in action, and shines through every word and deed. It means reliableness, and convinces other men that it can be trusted. And a man is already of consequence in the world when it is known that he can be relied on,—that when he says he knows a thing, he does know it,—that when he says he will do a thing, he can do, and does it. Thus reliableness becomes a passport to the general esteem and confidence of mankind.

Talent is definitely not rare in the world, and neither is genius. But can we trust that talent? Can we trust that genius? Not unless it's grounded in honesty—on truthfulness. This quality more than any other earns respect and secures the confidence of others. Truthfulness is the foundation of all personal excellence. It shows in our actions. It's about integrity—truth in action—and it shines through every word and deed. It means being reliable and convinces others that they can depend on you. A person already holds significance in the world when it's known that they can be counted on—that when they say they know something, they truly do—and that when they say they'll do something, they follow through. Thus, being reliable becomes a ticket to the respect and trust of everyone around.

In the affairs of life or of business, it is not intellect that tells so much as character,—not brains so much as heart,—not genius so much as self-control, patience, and discipline, regulated by judgment. Hence there is no better provision for the uses of either private or public life, than a fair share of ordinary good sense guided by rectitude. Good sense, disciplined by experience and inspired by goodness, issues in practical wisdom. Indeed, goodness in a measure implies wisdom—the highest wisdom—the union of the worldly with the spiritual. "The correspondences of wisdom and goodness," says Sir Henry Taylor, "are manifold; and that they will accompany each other is to be inferred, not only because men's wisdom makes them good, but because their goodness makes them wise." 106

In life and business, it’s not just intelligence that matters but also character—it's not just about having brains but also having heart—it's not solely about genius but about self-control, patience, and discipline, guided by sound judgment. Therefore, there's no better preparation for both private and public life than having a good amount of common sense that is guided by integrity. Good sense, shaped by experience and inspired by goodness, leads to practical wisdom. In fact, goodness to some extent suggests wisdom—the highest form of wisdom—bringing together the material and the spiritual. "The connections between wisdom and goodness," says Sir Henry Taylor, "are numerous; and it can be inferred that they will accompany each other, not only because human wisdom makes people good, but because their goodness makes them wise." 106

It is because of this controlling power of character in life that we often see men exercise an amount of influence apparently out of all proportion to their intellectual endowments. They appear to act by means of some latent power, some reserved force, which acts secretly, by mere presence. As Burke said of a powerful nobleman of the last century, "his virtues were his means." The secret is, that the aims of such men are felt to be pure and noble, and they act upon others with a constraining power.

It’s because of this strong influence of character in life that we often see people have an amount of influence that seems way out of sync with their intellectual abilities. They seem to operate through some hidden strength, some quiet force, that impacts others just by being there. As Burke said about a powerful nobleman from the last century, "his virtues were his means." The secret is that the goals of these individuals are recognized as pure and noble, and they have a compelling impact on others.

Though the reputation of men of genuine character may be of slow growth, their true qualities cannot be wholly concealed. They may be misrepresented by some, and misunderstood by others; misfortune and adversity may, for a time, overtake them but, with patience and endurance, they will eventually inspire the respect and command the confidence which they really deserve.

Though the reputation of truly good people may take time to develop, their real qualities can't be completely hidden. They might be misrepresented by some and misunderstood by others; tough times and challenges may come their way for a while, but with patience and resilience, they will ultimately earn the respect and trust they truly deserve.

It has been said of Sheridan that, had he possessed reliableness of character, he might have ruled the world; whereas, for want of it, his splendid gifts were comparatively useless. He dazzled and amused, but was without weight or influence in life or politics. Even the poor pantomimist of Drury Lane felt himself his superior. Thus, when Delpini one day pressed the manager for arrears of salary, Sheridan sharply reproved him, telling him he had forgotten his station. "No, indeed, Monsieur Sheridan, I have not," retorted Delpini; "I know the difference between us perfectly well. In birth, parentage, and education, you are superior to me; but in life, character, and behaviour, I am superior to you."

It has been said about Sheridan that if he had been more reliable, he could have ruled the world; instead, without that quality, his impressive talents were mostly wasted. He captivated and entertained, but he lacked real impact or power in life or politics. Even the struggling performer from Drury Lane considered himself better than him. So, when Delpini once asked the manager for unpaid wages, Sheridan reprimanded him, saying he had forgotten his place. "Not at all, Mr. Sheridan," Delpini shot back; "I know the difference between us very well. In terms of birth, parentage, and education, you are above me; but in terms of life, character, and behavior, I am above you."

Unlike Sheridan, Burke, his countryman, was a great man of character. He was thirty-five before he gained a seat in Parliament, yet he found time to carve his name deep in the political history of England. He was a man of great gifts, and of transcendent force of character. Yet he had a weakness, which proved a serious defect—it was his want of temper; his genius was sacrificed to his irritability. And without this apparently minor gift of temper, the most splendid endowments may be comparatively valueless to their possessor.

Unlike Sheridan, Burke, his fellow countryman, was a man of great character. He was thirty-five when he finally got a seat in Parliament, yet he managed to make a significant impact on the political history of England. He was incredibly talented and had an extraordinary force of character. However, he had a flaw that became a serious drawback—it was his lack of patience; his brilliance was undermined by his irritability. Without this seemingly minor quality of temperament, even the most impressive talents can be relatively worthless to their owner.

Character is formed by a variety of minute circumstances, more or less under the regulation and control of the individual. Not a day passes without its discipline, whether for good or for evil. There is no act, however trivial, but has its train of consequences, as there is no hair so small but casts its shadow. It was a wise saying of Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's mother, never to give way to what is little; or by that little, however you may despise it, you will be practically governed.

Character is shaped by a mix of small circumstances, mostly under a person's control. Not a day goes by without its lessons, whether positive or negative. Every action, no matter how minor, has consequences, just like every hair, no matter how tiny, casts a shadow. It was a smart saying of Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's mother to never give in to the little things; if you do, no matter how much you look down on them, you’ll end up being influenced by them.

Every action, every thought, every feeling, contributes to the education of the temper, the habits, and understanding; and exercises an inevitable influence upon all the acts of our future life. Thus character is undergoing constant change, for better or for worse—either being elevated on the one hand, or degraded on the other. "There is no fault nor folly of my life," says Mr. Ruskin, "that does not rise up against me, and take away my joy, and shorten my power of possession, of sight, of understanding. And every past effort of my life, every gleam of rightness or good in it, is with me now, to help me in my grasp of this art and its vision." 107

Every action, every thought, every feeling shapes our character, habits, and understanding, and has a significant impact on everything we do in the future. Character is always changing, for better or worse—either improving or declining. "There’s no mistake or foolishness in my life," says Mr. Ruskin, "that doesn’t come back to me, steal my joy, and limit my ability to see, understand, and enjoy. And every effort I’ve made in my life, every moment of goodness or clarity, is with me now to assist me in mastering this art and its vision." 107

The mechanical law, that action and reaction are equal, holds true also in morals. Good deeds act and react on the doers of them; and so do evil. Not only so: they produce like effects, by the influence of example, on those who are the subjects of them. But man is not the creature, so much as he is the creator, of circumstances: 108 and, by the exercise of his freewill, he can direct his actions so that they shall be productive of good rather than evil. "Nothing can work me damage but myself," said St. Bernard; "the harm that I sustain I carry about with me; and I am never a real sufferer but by my own fault."

The principle that for every action there's an equal reaction applies to morals as well. Good deeds affect both the doer and those who witness them, and the same goes for bad deeds. Moreover, they have similar effects through the power of example on those affected by them. However, a person is not just a product of their circumstances; they are also the creator of their own circumstances: 108 and, by exercising their free will, they can choose actions that lead to good outcomes rather than bad. "Nothing can harm me but myself," said St. Bernard; "the damage I face comes from within; and I am never truly suffering except through my own mistakes."

The best sort of character, however, cannot be formed without effort. There needs the exercise of constant self-watchfulness, self-discipline, and self-control. There may be much faltering, stumbling, and temporary defeat; difficulties and temptations manifold to be battled with and overcome; but if the spirit be strong and the heart be upright, no one need despair of ultimate success. The very effort to advance—to arrive at a higher standard of character than we have reached—is inspiring and invigorating; and even though we may fall short of it, we cannot fail to be improved by every, honest effort made in an upward direction.

The best kind of character, however, can't be developed without effort. It requires constant self-awareness, self-discipline, and self-control. There will be many moments of hesitation, stumbling, and temporary setbacks; numerous challenges and temptations to face and overcome; but if the spirit is strong and the heart is right, no one needs to lose hope for eventual success. The very effort to grow—to achieve a higher standard of character than we have reached—is uplifting and energizing; and even if we don't fully reach it, we will definitely improve with every honest effort we make toward progress.

And with the light of great examples to guide us—representatives of humanity in its best forms—every one is not only justified, but bound in duty, to aim at reaching the highest standard of character: not to become the richest in means, but in spirit; not the greatest in worldly position, but in true honour; not the most intellectual, but the most virtuous; not the most powerful and influential, but the most truthful, upright, and honest.

And with the inspiration from great role models—representatives of humanity at its best—everyone is not only justified but obligated to strive for the highest standard of character: not to become the richest in resources, but in spirit; not the highest in social status, but in true honor; not the most intellectual, but the most virtuous; not the most powerful and influential, but the most truthful, upright, and honest.

It was very characteristic of the late Prince Consort—a man himself of the purest mind, who powerfully impressed and influenced others by the sheer force of his own benevolent nature—when drawing up the conditions of the annual prize to be given by Her Majesty at Wellington College, to determine that it should be awarded, not to the cleverest boy, nor to the most bookish boy, nor to the most precise, diligent, and prudent boy,—but to the noblest boy, to the boy who should show the most promise of becoming a large-hearted, high-motived man. 109

It was typical of the late Prince Consort—a man of the highest integrity, who profoundly impacted and inspired others with his naturally kind nature—when he established the requirements for the yearly prize to be awarded by Her Majesty at Wellington College, to decide that it should go, not to the smartest boy, nor to the most studious boy, nor to the most meticulous, hardworking, and cautious boy—but to the noblest boy, the one who demonstrated the greatest potential for becoming a compassionate and motivated man. 109

Character exhibits itself in conduct, guided and inspired by principle, integrity, and practical wisdom. In its highest form, it is the individual will acting energetically under the influence of religion, morality, and reason. It chooses its way considerately, and pursues it steadfastly; esteeming duty above reputation, and the approval of conscience more than the world's praise. While respecting the personality of others, it preserves its own individuality and independence; and has the courage to be morally honest, though it may be unpopular, trusting tranquilly to time and experience for recognition.

Character shows itself in behavior, guided and inspired by principles, integrity, and practical wisdom. At its best, it's the individual will acting with determination under the influence of faith, ethics, and reason. It chooses its path thoughtfully and follows it with persistence; valuing duty over reputation and the approval of conscience more than the praise of the world. While respecting the individuality of others, it maintains its own uniqueness and independence; and has the courage to be morally honest, even if it’s unpopular, confidently relying on time and experience for acknowledgment.

Although the force of example will always exercise great influence upon the formation of character, the self-originating and sustaining force of one's own spirit must be the mainstay. This alone can hold up the life, and give individual independence and energy. "Unless man can erect himself above himself," said Daniel, a poet of the Elizabethan era, "how poor a thing is man!" Without a certain degree of practical efficient force—compounded of will, which is the root, and wisdom, which is the stem of character—life will be indefinite and purposeless—like a body of stagnant water, instead of a running stream doing useful work and keeping the machinery of a district in motion.

While the power of example will always have a strong impact on shaping character, the self-generated and sustaining power of one's own spirit must be the foundation. This alone can support life and provide individual independence and energy. "Unless a person can rise above themselves," said Daniel, a poet from the Elizabethan era, "how poor a thing is a person!" Without a certain degree of practical effective force—made up of will, which is the root, and wisdom, which is the stem of character—life will be indefinite and aimless—like a body of stagnant water, instead of a flowing stream doing useful work and keeping the machinery of a community in motion.

When the elements of character are brought into action by determinate will, and, influenced by high purpose, man enters upon and courageously perseveres in the path of duty, at whatever cost of worldly interest, he may be said to approach the summit of his being. He then exhibits character in its most intrepid form, and embodies the highest idea of manliness. The acts of such a man become repeated in the life and action of others. His very words live and become actions. Thus every word of Luther's rang through Germany like a trumpet. As Richter said of him, "His words were half-battles." And thus Luther's life became transfused into the life of his country, and still lives in the character of modern Germany.

When a person’s character is put into action by a clear will, and driven by a strong purpose, they embark on and bravely stick to their duty, regardless of the sacrifices to their worldly interests, they can be said to reach the peak of their existence. They then show character in its boldest form and embody the highest ideals of manhood. The actions of such a person inspire others to follow suit. Even their words resonate and turn into actions. Every word of Luther's echoed throughout Germany like a trumpet. As Richter remarked about him, "His words were half-battles." In this way, Luther’s life became woven into the fabric of his country, and continues to shape the character of modern Germany.

On the other hand, energy, without integrity and a soul of goodness, may only represent the embodied principle of evil. It is observed by Novalis, in his 'Thoughts on Morals,' that the ideal of moral perfection has no more dangerous rival to contend with than the ideal of the highest strength and the most energetic life, the maximum of the barbarian—which needs only a due admixture of pride, ambition, and selfishness, to be a perfect ideal of the devil. Amongst men of such stamp are found the greatest scourges and devastators of the world—those elect scoundrels whom Providence, in its inscrutable designs, permits to fulfil their mission of destruction upon earth. 1010

On the other hand, energy, lacking integrity and a spirit of goodness, may simply embody the principle of evil. Novalis notes in his 'Thoughts on Morals' that the pursuit of moral perfection faces its most dangerous rival in the pursuit of ultimate strength and vigorous life, the peak of barbarism—which only requires a mix of pride, ambition, and selfishness to become a perfect embodiment of evil. Among such individuals are the greatest plagues and destroyers of the world—those chosen villains whom Providence, in its mysterious ways, allows to carry out their destructive missions on earth. 1010

Very different is the man of energetic character inspired by a noble spirit, whose actions are governed by rectitude, and the law of whose life is duty. He is just and upright,—in his business dealings, in his public action, and in his family life—justice being as essential in the government of a home as of a nation. He will be honest in all things—in his words and in his work. He will be generous and merciful to his opponents, as well as to those who are weaker than himself. It was truly said of Sheridan—who, with all his improvidence, was generous, and never gave pain—that,

Very different is the man of energetic character inspired by a noble spirit, whose actions are guided by integrity, and for whom duty is the guiding principle in life. He is just and upright—in his business dealings, in his public actions, and in his family life—justice being just as important in governing a home as it is in managing a nation. He will be honest in all things—in his words and in his work. He will be generous and compassionate toward his opponents, as well as to those who are less fortunate than he is. It was truly said of Sheridan—who, despite his carelessness, was generous and never caused pain—that,

     "His wit in the combat, as gentle as bright,
     Never carried a heart-stain away on its blade."
"His cleverness in the fight, as kind as it is sharp,  
Never took a mark on its blade."

Such also was the character of Fox, who commanded the affection and service of others by his uniform heartiness and sympathy. He was a man who could always be most easily touched on the side of his honour. Thus, the story is told of a tradesman calling upon him one day for the payment of a promissory note which he presented. Fox was engaged at the time in counting out gold. The tradesman asked to be paid from the money before him. "No," said Fox, "I owe this money to Sheridan; it is a debt of honour; if any accident happened to me, he would have nothing to show." "Then," said the tradesman, "I change MY debt into one of honour;" and he tore up the note. Fox was conquered by the act: he thanked the man for his confidence, and paid him, saying, "Then Sheridan must wait; yours is the debt of older standing."

Fox was also a person who gained the affection and loyalty of others through his consistent warmth and empathy. He was someone who could be easily moved when it came to his sense of honor. One story recounts a tradesman who came to him one day to collect payment on a promissory note he had presented. At that moment, Fox was busy counting out gold. The tradesman asked to be paid from the money in front of him. "No," said Fox, "I owe this money to Sheridan; it's a matter of honor. If anything were to happen to me, he would be left with nothing." The tradesman replied, "Then I will turn MY debt into a matter of honor," and he tore up the note. Fox was touched by this gesture; he thanked the man for his trust and paid him, saying, "Then Sheridan can wait; your debt is older."

The man of character is conscientious. He puts his conscience into his work, into his words, into his every action. When Cromwell asked the Parliament for soldiers in lieu of the decayed serving-men and tapsters who filled the Commonwealth's army, he required that they should be men "who made some conscience of what they did;" and such were the men of which his celebrated regiment of "Ironsides" was composed.

The man of character is responsible. He brings his principles into his work, his words, and everything he does. When Cromwell asked Parliament for soldiers instead of the worn-out servants and bartenders who made up the Commonwealth's army, he insisted they should be men "who take their actions seriously;" and those were the men who made up his famous regiment of "Ironsides."

The man of character is also reverential. The possession of this quality marks the noblest, and highest type of manhood and womanhood: reverence for things consecrated by the homage of generations—for high objects, pure thoughts, and noble aims—for the great men of former times, and the highminded workers amongst our contemporaries. Reverence is alike indispensable to the happiness of individuals, of families, and of nations. Without it there can be no trust, no faith, no confidence, either in man or God—neither social peace nor social progress. For reverence is but another word for religion, which binds men to each other, and all to God.

A person of character is also respectful. This quality defines the noblest and highest forms of manhood and womanhood: respect for things honored by generations—such as high ideals, pure thoughts, and noble goals—for the great figures of the past and the principled individuals among us today. Respect is essential for the happiness of individuals, families, and nations. Without it, there can be no trust, faith, or confidence in either people or God—neither social peace nor progress. Respect is simply another word for religion, which connects people to one another and everyone to God.

"The man of noble spirit," says Sir Thomas Overbury, "converts all occurrences into experience, between which experience and his reason there is marriage, and the issue are his actions. He moves by affection, not for affection; he loves glory, scorns shame, and governeth and obeyeth with one countenance, for it comes from one consideration. Knowing reason to be no idle gift of nature, he is the steersman of his own destiny. Truth is his goddess, and he takes pains to get her, not to look like her. Unto the society of men he is a sun, whose clearness directs their steps in a regular motion. He is the wise man's friend, the example of the indifferent, the medicine of the vicious. Thus time goeth not from him, but with him, and he feels age more by the strength of his soul than by the weakness of his body. Thus feels he no pain, but esteems all such things as friends, that desire to file off his fetters, and help him out of prison." 1011

"The noble-hearted man," says Sir Thomas Overbury, "turns every experience into knowledge, and between that knowledge and his reasoning, there's a union, producing his actions. He acts out of passion, not just to gain affection; he loves honor, disregards shame, and leads as well as follows with a unified spirit, as it's rooted in a single purpose. Understanding that reason isn’t a pointless gift of nature, he navigates his own fate. Truth is his guiding principle, and he puts in the effort to achieve it, not just to resemble it. To those around him, he is like the sun, whose brightness guides their paths in a steady direction. He is the friend of the wise, a model for the indifferent, and a remedy for the corrupt. So, time does not pass him by; instead, he moves with it, feeling the passage of time more through the strength of his mind than the frailty of his body. Thus, he feels no real pain, but views all such challenges as allies, wanting to free him from his constraints and help him escape his confinement." 1011

Energy of will—self-originating force—is the soul of every great character. Where it is, there is life; where it is not, there is faintness, helplessness, and despondency. "The strong man and the waterfall," says the proverb, "channel their own path." The energetic leader of noble spirit not only wins a way for himself, but carries others with him. His every act has a personal significance, indicating vigour, independence, and self-reliance, and unconsciously commands respect, admiration, and homage. Such intrepidity of character characterised Luther, Cromwell, Washington, Pitt, Wellington, and all great leaders of men.

The energy of will—self-created force—is the essence of every great character. Where it exists, there is life; where it doesn’t, there is weakness, helplessness, and despair. "The strong man and the waterfall," as the saying goes, "carve their own path." The dynamic leader of noble spirit not only forges a path for himself but also brings others along with him. Every action he takes carries personal significance, showing vitality, independence, and self-reliance, and naturally commands respect, admiration, and reverence. This bravery of character defined Luther, Cromwell, Washington, Pitt, Wellington, and all great leaders of people.

"I am convinced," said Mr. Gladstone, in describing the qualities of the late Lord Palmerston in the House of Commons, shortly after his death—"I am convinced that it was the force of will, a sense of duty, and a determination not to give in, that enabled him to make himself a model for all of us who yet remain and follow him, with feeble and unequal steps, in the discharge of our duties; it was that force of will that in point of fact did not so much struggle against the infirmities of old age, but actually repelled them and kept them at a distance. And one other quality there is, at least, that may be noticed without the smallest risk of stirring in any breast a painful emotion. It is this, that Lord Palmerston had a nature incapable of enduring anger or any sentiment of wrath. This freedom from wrathful sentiment was not the result of painful effort, but the spontaneous fruit of the mind. It was a noble gift of his original nature—a gift which beyond all others it was delightful to observe, delightful also to remember in connection with him who has left us, and with whom we have no longer to do, except in endeavouring to profit by his example wherever it can lead us in the path of duty and of right, and of bestowing on him those tributes of admiration and affection which he deserves at our hands."

"I truly believe," Mr. Gladstone stated while reflecting on the qualities of the late Lord Palmerston in the House of Commons shortly after his death, "I truly believe that it was his strong will, sense of duty, and determination not to give up that allowed him to become a role model for all of us who remain and follow in his footsteps, albeit hesitantly and unevenly, as we carry out our responsibilities; it was that strong will that did not just resist the challenges of old age, but actually kept them at bay. Additionally, there is another quality that can be noted without causing any painful feelings. Lord Palmerston had a nature that could not tolerate anger or any feeling of rage. This absence of anger was not the result of struggle, but rather a natural outcome of his mindset. It was a wonderful trait of his inherent character—a trait that was especially delightful to see, and also to remember in relation to him who has departed, and with whom we now only engage by trying to learn from his example wherever it may guide us in fulfilling our duties and doing right, and by offering him the admiration and affection he truly deserves from us."

The great leader attracts to himself men of kindred character, drawing them towards him as the loadstone draws iron. Thus, Sir John Moore early distinguished the three brothers Napier from the crowd of officers by whom he was surrounded, and they, on their part, repaid him by their passionate admiration. They were captivated by his courtesy, his bravery, and his lofty disinterestedness; and he became the model whom they resolved to imitate, and, if possible, to emulate. "Moore's influence," says the biographer of Sir William Napier, "had a signal effect in forming and maturing their characters; and it is no small glory to have been the hero of those three men, while his early discovery of their mental and moral qualities is a proof of Moore's own penetration and judgment of character."

The great leader naturally attracts people with similar traits, pulling them in like a magnet pulls iron. This is how Sir John Moore quickly noticed the three brothers Napier amidst the other officers around him, and they, in return, admired him deeply. They were drawn to his kindness, bravery, and selflessness; he became the role model they aimed to follow and, if possible, surpass. "Moore's influence," says the biographer of Sir William Napier, "had a significant impact on shaping and developing their characters; it’s no small honor to have been the inspiration for those three men, and his early recognition of their mental and moral strengths shows Moore's own keen insight and judgment of character."

There is a contagiousness in every example of energetic conduct. The brave man is an inspiration to the weak, and compels them, as it were, to follow him. Thus Napier relates that at the combat of Vera, when the Spanish centre was broken and in flight, a young officer, named Havelock, sprang forward, and, waving his hat, called upon the Spaniards within sight to follow him. Putting spurs to his horse, he leapt the abbatis which protected the French front, and went headlong against them. The Spaniards were electrified; in a moment they dashed after him, cheering for "EL CHICO BLANCO!" [10the fair boy], and with one shock they broke through the French and sent them flying downhill. 1012

There’s an infectious energy in every example of brave behavior. A courageous person inspires those who are weaker and pushes them to follow along. Napier recounts that during the battle of Vera, when the Spanish center was defeated and retreating, a young officer named Havelock charged ahead, waving his hat and urging the Spaniards in sight to join him. He spurred his horse, jumped over the barricade that protected the French front, and surged straight at them. The Spaniards were electrified; in an instant, they rushed after him, cheering for "EL CHICO BLANCO!" [10the fair boy], and with one rush, they broke through the French lines and sent them tumbling downhill. 1012

And so it is in ordinary life. The good and the great draw others after them; they lighten and lift up all who are within reach of their influence. They are as so many living centres of beneficent activity. Let a man of energetic and upright character be appointed to a position of trust and authority, and all who serve under him become, as it were, conscious of an increase of power. When Chatham was appointed minister, his personal influence was at once felt through all the ramifications of office. Every sailor who served under Nelson, and knew he was in command, shared the inspiration of the hero.

And that's how it is in everyday life. The good and the great inspire those around them; they uplift and elevate everyone within their reach. They act as living centers of positive energy. When a person with strong morals and energy is put in a position of trust and authority, everyone working under them tends to feel a boost in their own capabilities. When Chatham became a minister, his personal influence was immediately felt throughout the entire office. Every sailor serving under Nelson, knowing he was in charge, felt the motivation of that hero.

When Washington consented to act as commander-in-chief, it was felt as if the strength of the American forces had been more than doubled. Many years late; in 1798, when Washington, grown old, had withdrawn from public life and was living in retirement at Mount Vernon, and when it seemed probable that France would declare war against the United States, President Adams wrote to him, saying, "We must have your name, if you will permit us to use it; there will be more efficacy in it than in many an army." Such was the esteem in which the great President's noble character and eminent abilities were held by his countrymen! 1013

When Washington agreed to serve as commander-in-chief, it felt like the strength of the American forces had more than doubled. Many years later, in 1798, when Washington, now older, had stepped back from public life and was enjoying his retirement at Mount Vernon, and when it seemed likely that France would declare war on the United States, President Adams wrote to him, saying, "We need your name, if you allow us to use it; it will carry more weight than many armies." Such was the respect in which the great President's noble character and outstanding abilities were held by his fellow citizens! 1013

An incident is related by the historian of the Peninsular War, illustrative of the personal influence exercised by a great commander over his followers. The British army lay at Sauroren, before which Soult was advancing, prepared to attack, in force. Wellington was absent, and his arrival was anxiously looked for. Suddenly a single horseman was seen riding up the mountain alone. It was the Duke, about to join his troops. One of Campbell's Portuguese battalions first descried him, and raised a joyful cry; then the shrill clamour, caught up by the next regiment, soon swelled as it ran along the line into that appalling shout which the British soldier is wont to give upon the edge of battle, and which no enemy ever heard unmoved. Suddenly he stopped at a conspicuous point, for he desired both armies should know he was there, and a double spy who was present pointed out Soult, who was so near that his features could be distinguished. Attentively Wellington fixed his eyes on that formidable man, and, as if speaking to himself, he said: "Yonder is a great commander; but he is cautious, and will delay his attack to ascertain the cause of those cheers; that will give time for the Sixth Division to arrive, and I shall beat him"—which he did. 1014

An incident is recounted by the historian of the Peninsular War that shows the personal influence a great commander has over his followers. The British army was at Sauroren, where Soult was advancing, ready to attack with force. Wellington was absent, and everyone was anxiously awaiting his arrival. Suddenly, a single horseman was seen riding up the mountain alone. It was the Duke, on his way to join his troops. One of Campbell's Portuguese battalions spotted him first and erupted in cheers; then the excited shout spread down the line, growing into that daunting battle cry that British soldiers are known to give right before they fight, a sound that no enemy could hear without being shaken. He abruptly stopped at a noticeable point because he wanted both armies to know he was present, and a double spy who was nearby identified Soult, who was so close that his features could be clearly seen. Wellington focused intently on that formidable man and, almost as if talking to himself, said, "There’s a great commander; but he’s cautious and will hold off his attack to figure out what caused those cheers; that will give the Sixth Division time to arrive, and I will defeat him"—and he did. 1014

In some cases, personal character acts by a kind of talismanic influence, as if certain men were the organs of a sort of supernatural force. "If I but stamp on the ground in Italy," said Pompey, "an army will appear." At the voice of Peter the Hermit, as described by the historian, "Europe arose, and precipitated itself upon Asia." It was said of the Caliph Omar that his walking-stick struck more terror into those who saw it than another man's sword. The very names of some men are like the sound of a trumpet. When the Douglas lay mortally wounded on the field of Otterburn, he ordered his name to be shouted still louder than before, saying there was a tradition in his family that a dead Douglas should win a battle. His followers, inspired by the sound, gathered fresh courage, rallied, and conquered; and thus, in the words of the Scottish poet:—

In some cases, a person's character has a kind of magical influence, as if certain individuals are the channels of a supernatural force. "If I just stamp on the ground in Italy," said Pompey, "an army will show up." At the call of Peter the Hermit, as the historian describes, "Europe rose and rushed toward Asia." It was said about Caliph Omar that his walking stick struck more fear into those who saw it than another man's sword. The very names of some individuals are like the sound of a trumpet. When the Douglas lay mortally wounded on the field of Otterburn, he ordered his name to be shouted louder than before, saying there was a tradition in his family that a dead Douglas should win a battle. His followers, inspired by the sound, found new courage, rallied, and triumphed; and thus, in the words of the Scottish poet:—

"The Douglas dead, his name hath won the field." 1015

"The Douglas is dead; his name has conquered the battlefield." 1015

There have been some men whose greatest conquests have been achieved after they themselves were dead. "Never," says Michelet, "was Caesar more alive, more powerful, more terrible, than when his old and worn-out body, his withered corpse, lay pierced with blows; he appeared then purified, redeemed,—that which he had been, despite his many stains—the man of humanity." 1016 Never did the great character of William of Orange, surnamed the Silent, exercise greater power over his countrymen than after his assassination at Delft by the emissary of the Jesuits. On the very day of his murder the Estates of Holland resolved "to maintain the good cause, with God's help, to the uttermost, without sparing gold or blood;" and they kept their word.

Some men have achieved their greatest victories even after they died. "Never," says Michelet, "was Caesar more alive, more powerful, more fearsome, than when his old, worn-out body, his decayed corpse, lay pierced with wounds; he seemed then purified, redeemed—that which he had been, despite his many flaws—the man of humanity." 1016 Never did the remarkable figure of William of Orange, known as the Silent, hold greater influence over his fellow countrymen than after his assassination in Delft by a Jesuit agent. On the very day he was killed, the Estates of Holland decided "to uphold the good cause, with God's help, to the very end, without holding back gold or blood;" and they kept their promise.

The same illustration applies to all history and morals. The career of a great man remains an enduring monument of human energy. The man dies and disappears; but his thoughts and acts survive, and leave an indelible stamp upon his race. And thus the spirit of his life is prolonged and perpetuated, moulding the thought and will, and thereby contributing to form the character of the future. It is the men that advance in the highest and best directions, who are the true beacons of human progress. They are as lights set upon a hill, illumining the moral atmosphere around them; and the light of their spirit continues to shine upon all succeeding generations.

The same idea applies to all of history and ethics. The life of a great person stands as a lasting testament to human effort. The person may die and fade away, but their ideas and actions live on, leaving a permanent mark on their community. In this way, the essence of their life is extended and preserved, shaping thoughts and intentions, and helping to develop the character of the future. It is those who strive for the highest and best outcomes who are the true symbols of human progress. They are like lights on a hill, brightening the moral climate around them; and the light of their spirit keeps shining for all future generations.

It is natural to admire and revere really great men. They hallow the nation to which they belong, and lift up not only all who live in their time, but those who live after them. Their great example becomes the common heritage of their race; and their great deeds and great thoughts are the most glorious of legacies to mankind. They connect the present with the past, and help on the increasing purpose of the future; holding aloft the standard of principle, maintaining the dignity of human character, and filling the mind with traditions and instincts of all that is most worthy and noble in life.

It's natural to admire and respect truly great individuals. They honor the nation they come from, uplifting not just those who live in their time but also future generations. Their outstanding examples become the shared legacy of their people, and their significant achievements and ideas are some of the finest gifts to humanity. They link the present with the past and support the ongoing purpose of the future, upholding the standard of principles, preserving the dignity of human character, and enriching the mind with traditions and instincts of all that is most valuable and noble in life.

Character, embodied in thought and deed, is of the nature of immortality. The solitary thought of a great thinker will dwell in the minds of men for centuries until at length it works itself into their daily life and practice. It lives on through the ages, speaking as a voice from the dead, and influencing minds living thousands of years apart. Thus, Moses and David and Solomon, Plato and Socrates and Xenophon, Seneca and Cicero and Epictetus, still speak to us as from their tombs. They still arrest the attention, and exercise an influence upon character, though their thoughts be conveyed in languages unspoken by them and in their time unknown. Theodore Parker has said that a single man like Socrates was worth more to a country than many such states as South Carolina; that if that state went out of the world to-day, she would not have done so much for the world as Socrates. 1017

Character, expressed through thoughts and actions, is inherently eternal. The solitary idea of a great thinker will linger in people's minds for centuries until it eventually integrates into their daily lives and habits. It endures through the ages, communicating like a voice from beyond the grave and impacting minds separated by thousands of years. Thus, Moses, David, Solomon, Plato, Socrates, Xenophon, Seneca, Cicero, and Epictetus still resonate with us as if from their graves. They continue to captivate our attention and influence our character, even though their ideas are shared in languages they never spoke and in times unknown to them. Theodore Parker stated that a single individual like Socrates is worth more to a country than many states like South Carolina; he claimed that if that state disappeared today, it would not have contributed as much to the world as Socrates did. 1017

Great workers and great thinkers are the true makers of history, which is but continuous humanity influenced by men of character—by great leaders, kings, priests, philosophers, statesmen, and patriots—the true aristocracy of man. Indeed, Mr. Carlyle has broadly stated that Universal History is, at bottom, but the history of Great Men. They certainly mark and designate the epochs of national life. Their influence is active, as well as reactive. Though their mind is, in a measure; the product of their age, the public mind is also, to a great extent, their creation. Their individual action identifies the cause—the institution. They think great thoughts, cast them abroad, and the thoughts make events. Thus the early Reformers initiated the Reformation, and with it the liberation of modern thought. Emerson has said that every institution is to be regarded as but the lengthened shadow of some great man: as Islamism of Mahomet, Puritanism of Calvin, Jesuitism of Loyola, Quakerism of Fox, Methodism of Wesley, Abolitionism of Clarkson.

Great workers and great thinkers are the true creators of history, which is just the ongoing story of humanity shaped by people of character—by great leaders, kings, priests, philosophers, statesmen, and patriots—the true elite of mankind. In fact, Mr. Carlyle has clearly stated that Universal History is basically just the history of Great Men. They certainly mark significant periods in a nation’s life. Their influence is both proactive and reactive. Although their thoughts are partly shaped by their time, the public mindset is also largely their creation. Their individual actions define the cause and the institution. They have profound ideas, spread them around, and those ideas lead to events. This is how the early Reformers sparked the Reformation, along with the liberation of modern thought. Emerson noted that every institution can be seen as merely the extended shadow of some great individual: Islamism of Mahomet, Puritanism of Calvin, Jesuitism of Loyola, Quakerism of Fox, Methodism of Wesley, Abolitionism of Clarkson.

Great men stamp their mind upon their age and nation—as Luther did upon modern Germany, and Knox upon Scotland. 1018 And if there be one man more than another that stamped his mind on modern Italy, it was Dante. During the long centuries of Italian degradation his burning words were as a watchfire and a beacon to all true men. He was the herald of his nation's liberty—braving persecution, exile, and death, for the love of it. He was always the most national of the Italian poets, the most loved, the most read. From the time of his death all educated Italians had his best passages by heart; and the sentiments they enshrined inspired their lives, and eventually influenced the history of their nation. "The Italians," wrote Byron in 1821, "talk Dante, write Dante, and think and dream Dante, at this moment, to an excess which would be ridiculous, but that he deserves their admiration." 1019

Great men leave their mark on their time and country—like Luther did on modern Germany and Knox on Scotland. 1018 And if there’s one man who most influenced modern Italy, it was Dante. Throughout the long periods of Italy’s decline, his passionate words served as a guiding light and inspiration for all true patriots. He was the champion of his country’s freedom—facing persecution, exile, and death for its sake. He was the most nationalistic of Italian poets, the most beloved, and the most widely read. Since his death, all educated Italians have memorized his finest lines; the ideas they contained shaped their lives and eventually impacted the history of their nation. "The Italians," Byron wrote in 1821, "talk Dante, write Dante, and think and dream Dante, to an extent that would seem ridiculous if he weren’t so deserving of their admiration." 1019

A succession of variously gifted men in different ages—extending from Alfred to Albert—has in like manner contributed, by their life and example, to shape the multiform character of England. Of these, probably the most influential were the men of the Elizabethan and Cromwellian, and the intermediate periods—amongst which we find the great names of Shakspeare, Raleigh, Burleigh, Sidney, Bacon, Milton, Herbert, Hampden, Pym, Eliot, Vane, Cromwell, and many more—some of them men of great force, and others of great dignity and purity of character. The lives of such men have become part of the public life of England, and their deeds and thoughts are regarded as among the most cherished bequeathments from the past.

A series of talented individuals from different times—ranging from Alfred to Albert—has similarly shaped the diverse character of England through their lives and examples. Among these, the most influential were likely those from the Elizabethan and Cromwellian periods, along with those in between—where we find the remarkable names of Shakespeare, Raleigh, Burleigh, Sidney, Bacon, Milton, Herbert, Hampden, Pym, Eliot, Vane, Cromwell, and many others—some known for their strength, while others are celebrated for their dignity and purity of character. The lives of these individuals have become part of England's public history, and their actions and ideas are considered some of the most treasured legacies from the past.

So Washington left behind him, as one of the greatest treasures of his country, the example of a stainless life—of a great, honest, pure, and noble character—a model for his nation to form themselves by in all time to come. And in the case of Washington, as in so many other great leaders of men, his greatness did not so much consist in his intellect, his skill, and his genius, as in his honour, his integrity, his truthfulness, his high and controlling sense of duty—in a word, in his genuine nobility of character.

So Washington left behind one of the greatest treasures of his country: the example of a spotless life—a great, honest, pure, and noble character—a model for his nation to look up to for all time. In Washington's case, as with many other great leaders, his greatness was less about his intellect, skill, and genius, and more about his honor, integrity, truthfulness, and strong sense of duty—in short, his true nobility of character.

Men such as these are the true lifeblood of the country to which they belong. They elevate and uphold it, fortify and ennoble it, and shed a glory over it by the example of life and character which they have bequeathed. "The names and memories of great men," says an able writer, "are the dowry of a nation. Widowhood, overthrow, desertion, even slavery, cannot take away from her this sacred inheritance.... Whenever national life begins to quicken.... the dead heroes rise in the memories of men, and appear to the living to stand by in solemn spectatorship and approval. No country can be lost which feels herself overlooked by such glorious witnesses. They are the salt of the earth, in death as well as in life. What they did once, their descendants have still and always a right to do after them; and their example lives in their country, a continual stimulant and encouragement for him who has the soul to adopt it." 1020

Men like these are the true lifeblood of their country. They uplift and strengthen it, enhance its dignity, and bring it glory through the legacy of their lives and character. "The names and memories of great men," says a skilled writer, "are a nation's inheritance. Widowhood, defeat, abandonment, even slavery, cannot strip her of this sacred gift.... Whenever national life starts to revive.... the memories of fallen heroes resurface, and they seem to stand by as solemn witnesses in support. No country can be lost that feels watched over by such glorious figures. They are the essence of humanity, in death as in life. What they achieved once, their descendants still have the right to pursue; and their example lives on in their country, continuously inspiring and encouraging those who have the courage to embrace it." 1020

But it is not great men only that have to be taken into account in estimating the qualities of a nation, but the character that pervades the great body of the people. When Washington Irving visited Abbotsford, Sir Walter Scott introduced him to many of his friends and favourites, not only amongst the neighbouring farmers, but the labouring peasantry. "I wish to show you," said Scott, "some of our really excellent plain Scotch people. The character of a nation is not to be learnt from its fine folks, its fine gentlemen and ladies; such you meet everywhere, and they are everywhere the same." While statesmen, philosophers, and divines represent the thinking power of society, the men who found industries and carve out new careers, as well as the common body of working-people, from whom the national strength and spirit are from time to time recruited, must necessarily furnish the vital force and constitute the real backbone of every nation.

But it's not just great individuals that matter when assessing the qualities of a nation; it's the character that permeates the majority of the population. When Washington Irving visited Abbotsford, Sir Walter Scott introduced him to many of his friends and favorites, not only among the nearby farmers but also among the working-class people. "I want to show you," said Scott, "some of our truly wonderful ordinary Scots. You can’t understand a nation by only looking at its upper class, its wealthy gentlemen and ladies; those can be found everywhere, and they’re all pretty much the same." While statesmen, philosophers, and clergy represent the intellectual strength of society, the men who create industries and build new career paths, along with the general working population, from which the national strength and spirit are periodically drawn, are essential for providing the vital energy and forming the true backbone of every nation.

Nations have their character to maintain as well as individuals; and under constitutional governments—where all classes more or less participate in the exercise of political power—the national character will necessarily depend more upon the moral qualities of the many than of the few. And the same qualities which determine the character of individuals, also determine the character of nations. Unless they are highminded, truthful, honest, virtuous, and courageous, they will be held in light esteem by other nations, and be without weight in the world. To have character, they must needs also be reverential, disciplined, self-controlling, and devoted to duty. The nation that has no higher god than pleasure, or even dollars or calico, must needs be in a poor way. It were better to revert to Homer's gods than be devoted to these; for the heathen deities at least imaged human virtues, and were something to look up to.

Nations have a character to uphold just like individuals do; and in constitutional governments—where all classes have some say in political power—the national character largely depends on the moral qualities of the many rather than the few. The same traits that define individual character also shape the character of nations. If they aren’t high-minded, truthful, honest, virtuous, and brave, they will be looked down upon by other nations and lack influence in the world. To have character, they also need to be respectful, disciplined, self-controlled, and committed to their responsibilities. A nation that has no higher values than pleasure, or even money or basic goods, is in a bad state. It would be better to return to the gods of Homer than to be devoted to these things; because at least the ancient gods represented human virtues and were something to aspire to.

As for institutions, however good in themselves, they will avail but little in maintaining the standard of national character. It is the individual men, and the spirit which actuates them, that determine the moral standing and stability of nations. Government, in the long run, is usually no better than the people governed. Where the mass is sound in conscience, morals, and habit, the nation will be ruled honestly and nobly. But where they are corrupt, self-seeking, and dishonest in heart, bound neither by truth nor by law, the rule of rogues and wirepullers becomes inevitable.

When it comes to institutions, no matter how good they are, they don’t do much to uphold the standard of a nation’s character. It’s the individual people and the spirit that drives them that shape the moral foundation and stability of countries. In the long run, government reflects the integrity of the people it governs. When the majority has a sound conscience, morals, and habits, the nation will be led honestly and with honor. But where people are corrupt, selfish, and dishonest at heart, with no regard for truth or law, the rule of dishonest individuals and manipulators becomes unavoidable.

The only true barrier against the despotism of public opinion, whether it be of the many or of the few, is enlightened individual freedom and purity of personal character. Without these there can be no vigorous manhood, no true liberty in a nation. Political rights, however broadly framed, will not elevate a people individually depraved. Indeed, the more complete a system of popular suffrage, and the more perfect its protection, the more completely will the real character of a people be reflected, as by a mirror, in their laws and government. Political morality can never have any solid existence on a basis of individual immorality. Even freedom, exercised by a debased people, would come to be regarded as a nuisance, and liberty of the press but a vent for licentiousness and moral abomination.

The only real defense against the tyranny of public opinion, whether it's from the majority or the minority, is informed individual freedom and a strong personal character. Without these, there can't be true strength or real liberty in a nation. Political rights, no matter how well designed, won't lift up a morally corrupt people. In fact, the more comprehensive a system of popular voting and the better its safeguards, the more the true character of the people will be reflected—like a mirror—in their laws and government. Political ethics can't have a solid foundation if individuals lack morality. Even freedom, exercised by a morally degraded society, would eventually be seen as a problem, and freedom of the press would just become an outlet for immorality and ethical decay.

Nations, like individuals, derive support and strength from the feeling that they belong to an illustrious race, that they are the heirs of their greatness, and ought to be the perpetuators of their glory. It is of momentous importance that a nation should have a great past 1021 to look back upon. It steadies the life of the present, elevates and upholds it, and lightens and lifts it up, by the memory of the great deeds, the noble sufferings, and the valorous achievements of the men of old. The life of nations, as of men, is a great treasury of experience, which, wisely used, issues in social progress and improvement; or, misused, issues in dreams, delusions, and failure. Like men, nations are purified and strengthened by trials. Some of the most glorious chapters in their history are those containing the record of the sufferings by means of which their character has been developed. Love of liberty and patriotic feeling may have done much, but trial and suffering nobly borne more than all.

Nations, like individuals, gain support and strength from the belief that they belong to a remarkable heritage, that they are the descendants of greatness, and should carry on that legacy. It's crucial for a nation to have a significant past 1021 to reflect on. It stabilizes present life, elevates and supports it, and lifts it up through the memories of great deeds, noble sacrifices, and courageous achievements of those who came before. The life of nations, like that of individuals, is a vast storehouse of experience, which, when wisely applied, leads to social progress and improvement; or, if misapplied, results in dreams, illusions, and failure. Just like people, nations are refined and strengthened through challenges. Some of the most glorious chapters in their history are those that recount the struggles that shaped their character. Love of freedom and patriotic spirit may have played a significant role, but enduring trials and suffering have contributed even more.

A great deal of what passes by the name of patriotism in these days consists of the merest bigotry and narrow-mindedness; exhibiting itself in national prejudice, national conceit, amid national hatred. It does not show itself in deeds, but in boastings—in howlings, gesticulations, and shrieking helplessly for help—in flying flags and singing songs—and in perpetual grinding at the hurdy-gurdy of long-dead grievances and long-remedied wrongs. To be infested by SUCH a patriotism as this is, perhaps, amongst the greatest curses that can befall any country.

A lot of what we call patriotism these days is really just bigotry and narrow-mindedness; it shows up as national prejudice, arrogance, and hatred. It's not about real actions but rather boasts—about loud complaints, dramatic gestures, and desperate cries for help—about waving flags and singing songs—and constantly whining about old grievances and issues that have already been resolved. Being plagued by this kind of patriotism might be one of the worst curses that can hit any country.

But as there is an ignoble, so is there a noble patriotism—the patriotism that invigorates and elevates a country by noble work—that does its duty truthfully and manfully—that lives an honest, sober, and upright life, and strives to make the best use of the opportunities for improvement that present themselves on every side; and at the same time a patriotism that cherishes the memory and example of the great men of old, who, by their sufferings in the cause of religion or of freedom, have won for themselves a deathless glory, and for their nation those privileges of free life and free institutions of which they are the inheritors and possessors.

But just as there's a dishonorable patriotism, there’s also a noble one—the kind that strengthens and uplifts a country through meaningful efforts—that does its duty with honesty and courage—that leads an honest, sober, and honorable life, and aims to make the most of the opportunities for growth that arise everywhere; and at the same time, a patriotism that honors the memory and example of the great figures of the past, who, through their struggles for religion or freedom, have achieved lasting glory for themselves and granted their nation the privileges of freedom and democratic institutions that they now inherit and enjoy.

Nations are not to be judged by their size any more than individuals:

Nations shouldn't be judged by their size any more than people should be:

    "it is not growing like a tree
    In bulk, doth make Man better be."
    "it's not about growing in size like a tree
    that makes a person better."

For a nation to be great, it need not necessarily be big, though bigness is often confounded with greatness. A nation may be very big in point of territory and population and yet be devoid of true greatness. The people of Israel were a small people, yet what a great life they developed, and how powerful the influence they have exercised on the destinies of mankind! Greece was not big: the entire population of Attica was less than that of South Lancashire. Athens was less populous than New York; and yet how great it was in art, in literature, in philosophy, and in patriotism! 1022

For a country to be great, it doesn't have to be large, even though size is often mistaken for greatness. A country can be huge in terms of land and population but still lack true greatness. The people of Israel were small in number, yet they created a remarkable legacy and had a powerful impact on the course of humanity! Greece wasn’t large either: the whole population of Attica was smaller than that of South Lancashire. Athens had fewer residents than New York, and yet it was incredibly significant in art, literature, philosophy, and national pride! 1022

But it was the fatal weakness of Athens that its citizens had no true family or home life, while its freemen were greatly outnumbered by its slaves. Its public men were loose, if not corrupt, in morals. Its women, even the most accomplished, were unchaste. Hence its fall became inevitable, and was even more sudden than its rise.

But the tragic flaw of Athens was that its citizens lacked a real family or home life, while the free people were greatly outnumbered by slaves. Its public officials were morally lax, if not outright corrupt. Its women, even the most talented, were unfaithful. As a result, its downfall became unavoidable and came even more swiftly than its rise.

In like manner the decline and fall of Rome was attributable to the general corruption of its people, and to their engrossing love of pleasure and idleness—work, in the later days of Rome, being regarded only as fit for slaves. Its citizens ceased to pride themselves on the virtues of character of their great forefathers; and the empire fell because it did not deserve to live. And so the nations that are idle and luxurious—that "will rather lose a pound of blood," as old Burton says, "in a single combat, than a drop of sweat in any honest labour"—must inevitably die out, and laborious energetic nations take their place.

Similarly, the decline and fall of Rome was due to the widespread corruption of its people and their overwhelming love for pleasure and laziness—work, in the later days of Rome, was seen only as suitable for slaves. Its citizens stopped taking pride in the virtues and character of their great ancestors, and the empire fell because it didn't deserve to exist. Thus, nations that are lazy and indulgent—that "would rather lose a pound of blood," as old Burton puts it, "in a single fight than a drop of sweat in any honest work"—will inevitably fade away, making room for hardworking and vigorous nations.

When Louis XIV. asked Colbert how it was that, ruling so great and populous a country as France, he had been unable to conquer so small a country as Holland, the minister replied: "Because, Sire, the greatness of a country does not depend upon the extent of its territory, but on the character of its people. It is because of the industry, the frugality, and the energy of the Dutch that your Majesty has found them so difficult to overcome."

When Louis XIV asked Colbert why, in ruling such a great and populous country like France, he had been unable to conquer the small country of Holland, the minister replied: "Because, Sir, the greatness of a country doesn't depend on the size of its territory, but on the character of its people. It's the industriousness, frugality, and drive of the Dutch that Your Majesty has found so hard to overcome."

It is also related of Spinola and Richardet, the ambassadors sent by the King of Spain to negotiate a treaty at the Hague in 1608, that one day they saw some eight or ten persons land from a little boat, and, sitting down upon the grass, proceed to make a meal of bread-and-cheese and beer. "Who are those travellers?" asked the ambassadors of a peasant. "These are worshipful masters, the deputies from the States," was his reply. Spinola at once whispered to his companion, "We must make peace: these are not men to be conquered."

It’s also noted about Spinola and Richardet, the ambassadors sent by the King of Spain to negotiate a treaty in The Hague in 1608, that one day they saw about eight or ten people land from a small boat and sit down on the grass to have a meal of bread and cheese with beer. "Who are those travelers?" one of the ambassadors asked a peasant. "Those are esteemed gentlemen, the deputies from the States," was the answer. Spinola immediately whispered to his companion, "We need to make peace: these are not men to be conquered."

In fine, stability of institutions must depend upon stability of character. Any number of depraved units cannot form a great nation. The people may seem to be highly civilised, and yet be ready to fall to pieces at first touch of adversity. Without integrity of individual character, they can have no real strength, cohesion, soundness. They may be rich, polite, and artistic; and yet hovering on the brink of ruin. If living for themselves only, and with no end but pleasure—each little self his own little god—such a nation is doomed, and its decay is inevitable.

In summary, the stability of institutions relies on the stability of character. A collection of corrupted individuals cannot create a great nation. The people might appear to be very civilized, yet they can easily fall apart at the first sign of trouble. Without integrity in individual character, they lack true strength, unity, and stability. They may be wealthy, polite, and artistic, but still be on the edge of disaster. If they live only for themselves, seeking nothing but pleasure—each individual worshipping their own little desires—such a nation is doomed, and its decline is unavoidable.

Where national character ceases to be upheld, a nation may be regarded as next to lost. Where it ceases to esteem and to practise the virtues of truthfulness, honesty, integrity, and justice, it does not deserve to live. And when the time arrives in any country when wealth has so corrupted, or pleasure so depraved, or faction so infatuated the people, that honour, order, obedience, virtue, and loyalty have seemingly become things of the past; then, amidst the darkness, when honest men—if, haply, there be such left—are groping about and feeling for each other's hands, their only remaining hope will be in the restoration and elevation of Individual Character; for by that alone can a nation be saved; and if character be irrecoverably lost, then indeed there will be nothing left worth saving.

When a country stops valuing its national character, it can be considered almost lost. If it no longer treasures and practices the values of honesty, integrity, justice, and truthfulness, it no longer deserves to exist. When a country reaches a point where wealth has corrupted, pleasure has degraded, or divisions have blinded the people to the point that honor, order, obedience, virtue, and loyalty seem like relics of the past, then, in that darkness, if there are still any honest people left feeling around for each other's hands, their only hope will lie in restoring and uplifting Individual Character; it is only through that that a nation can be saved. If character is irretrievably lost, then there will truly be nothing left worth saving.





CHAPTER II.—HOME POWER.

        "So build we up the being that we are,
         Thus deeply drinking in the soul of things,
         We shall be wise perforce."  WORDSWORTH.

    "The millstreams that turn the clappers of the world
     arise in solitary places."—HELPS.

     "In the course of a conversation with Madame Campan,
     Napoleon Buonaparte remarked: 'The old systems of
     instruction seem to be worth nothing; what is yet wanting in
     order that the people should be properly educated?'
     'MOTHERS,' replied Madame Campan. The reply struck the
     Emperor. 'Yes!' said he 'here is a system of education in
     one word. Be it your care, then, to train up mothers who
     shall know how to educate their children.'"—AIME MARTIN.

        "Lord! with what care hast Thou begirt us round!
          Parents first season us.  Then schoolmasters
         Deliver us to laws.  They send us bound
          To rules of reason."—GEORGE HERBERT.
        "So we create the beings that we are,  
         By deeply absorbing the essence of things,  
         We will inevitably become wise."  WORDSWORTH.  

    "The millstreams that drive the workings of the world  
     originate in quiet places."—HELPS.  

     "During a conversation with Madame Campan,  
     Napoleon Bonaparte said: 'The old education systems  
     seem worthless; what else do we need  
     for the people to be properly educated?'  
     'MOTHERS,' answered Madame Campan. The reply impressed the  
     Emperor. 'Yes!' he said, 'that's a whole education system in  
     one word. It’s your responsibility to raise mothers who  
     will know how to educate their children.'"—AIME MARTIN.  

        "Lord! with how much care have You surrounded us!  
          Parents first prepare us. Then teachers  
         Hand us over to laws. They bind us  
          To the rules of reason."—GEORGE HERBERT.  

HOME is the first and most important school of character. It is there that every human being receives his best moral training, or his worst; for it is there that he imbibes those principles of conduct which endure through manhood, and cease only with life.

HOME is the first and most important school for building character. It’s where every person gets their best or worst moral education; this is where they absorb the principles of behavior that last throughout adulthood and only end with death.

It is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" and there is a second, that "Mind makes the man;" but truer than either is a third, that "Home makes the man." For the home-training includes not only manners and mind, but character. It is mainly in the home that the heart is opened, the habits are formed, the intellect is awakened, and character moulded for good or for evil.

There’s a popular saying that "Manners make the man," and another one that says "Mind makes the man," but more accurately, "Home makes the man." Home training covers not just manners and knowledge, but also character. It's primarily within the home that feelings are shared, habits are formed, intellect is sparked, and character is shaped for better or worse.

From that source, be it pure or impure, issue the principles and maxims that govern society. Law itself is but the reflex of homes. The tiniest bits of opinion sown in the minds of children in private life afterwards issue forth to the world, and become its public opinion; for nations are gathered out of nurseries, and they who hold the leading-strings of children may even exercise a greater power than those who wield the reins of government. 111

From that source, whether it's good or bad, come the principles and rules that shape society. The law is simply a reflection of family life. The smallest opinions planted in the minds of children at home eventually spread into the world and form public opinion; nations are built from households, and those who guide children may hold more influence than those who control the government. 111

It is in the order of nature that domestic life should be preparatory to social, and that the mind and character should first be formed in the home. There the individuals who afterwards form society are dealt with in detail, and fashioned one by one. From the family they enter life, and advance from boyhood to citizenship. Thus the home may be regarded as the most influential school of civilisation. For, after all, civilisation mainly resolves itself into a question of individual training; and according as the respective members of society are well or ill-trained in youth, so will the community which they constitute be more or less humanised and civilised.

It's natural for home life to serve as a preparation for social life, and for a person's mind and character to be shaped at home first. This is where the individuals who will eventually make up society are carefully developed, one by one. From the family, they step into the world and progress from childhood to being active citizens. Therefore, the home can be seen as the most powerful school of civilization. Ultimately, civilization comes down to individual development; the way each member of society is raised and educated in their youth determines how humane and civilized the community they belong to will be.

The training of any man, even the wisest, cannot fail to be powerfully influenced by the moral surroundings of his early years. He comes into the world helpless, and absolutely dependent upon those about him for nurture and culture. From the very first breath that he draws, his education begins. When a mother once asked a clergyman when she should begin the education of her child, then four years old, he replied: "Madam, if you have not begun already, you have lost those four years. From the first smile that gleams upon an infant's cheek, your opportunity begins."

The upbringing of any person, even the smartest, is strongly shaped by the moral environment of their early years. They enter the world helpless and completely reliant on those around them for care and growth. From the very first breath they take, their education starts. When a mother asked a clergyman when she should start educating her child, who was then four years old, he replied, "Ma'am, if you haven’t started yet, you’ve already lost those four years. From the first smile that lights up an infant's face, your opportunity begins."

But even in this case the education had already begun; for the child learns by simple imitation, without effort, almost through the pores of the skin. "A figtree looking on a figtree becometh fruitful," says the Arabian proverb. And so it is with children; their first great instructor is example.

But even in this case, the education had already started; because a child learns effortlessly through simple imitation, almost through osmosis. "A fig tree looking at a fig tree becomes fruitful," says the Arabian proverb. The same goes for children; their first and most important teacher is example.

However apparently trivial the influences which contribute to form the character of the child, they endure through life. The child's character is the nucleus of the man's; all after-education is but superposition; the form of the crystal remains the same. Thus the saying of the poet holds true in a large degree, "The child is father of the man;" or, as Milton puts it, "The childhood shows the man, as morning shows the day." Those impulses to conduct which last the longest and are rooted the deepest, always have their origin near our birth. It is then that the germs of virtues or vices, of feelings or sentiments, are first implanted which determine the character for life.

No matter how seemingly insignificant the influences are that shape a child's character, they last a lifetime. The child's character is at the core of the adult; all future education is just an addition to that foundation; the basic structure remains unchanged. So, the poet's saying rings true to a large extent: "The child is father of the man;" or, as Milton expressed it, "The childhood shows the man, as morning shows the day." The impulses that influence our behavior the longest and are the most deeply rooted almost always originate from our early years. It's during this time that the seeds of virtues or vices, emotions or sentiments, are first sown, ultimately shaping our lifelong character.

The child is, as it were, laid at the gate of a new world, and opens his eyes upon things all of which are full of novelty and wonderment. At first it is enough for him to gaze; but by-and-by he begins to see, to observe, to compare, to learn, to store up impressions and ideas; and under wise guidance the progress which he makes is really wonderful. Lord Brougham has observed that between the ages of eighteen and thirty months, a child learns more of the material world, of his own powers, of the nature of other bodies, and even of his own mind and other minds, than he acquires in all the rest of his life. The knowledge which a child accumulates, and the ideas generated in his mind, during this period, are so important, that if we could imagine them to be afterwards obliterated, all the learning of a senior wrangler at Cambridge, or a first-classman at Oxford, would be as nothing to it, and would literally not enable its object to prolong his existence for a week.

The child is, in a sense, placed at the entrance of a new world and opens his eyes to everything filled with novelty and wonder. At first, it’s enough for him to just look; but soon, he starts to see, to notice, to compare, to learn, and to store up impressions and ideas. With proper guidance, the progress he makes is truly impressive. Lord Brougham noted that between the ages of eighteen months and thirty months, a child learns more about the physical world, his own abilities, the nature of other objects, and even his own mind and the minds of others than he does for the rest of his life. The knowledge a child gathers and the ideas formed in his mind during this time are so crucial that if we could somehow erase them, all the learning of a top student at Cambridge or a first-class man at Oxford would mean nothing in comparison, and wouldn’t even help him survive for a week.

It is in childhood that the mind is most open to impressions, and ready to be kindled by the first spark that falls into it. Ideas are then caught quickly and live lastingly. Thus Scott is said to have received, his first bent towards ballad literature from his mother's and grandmother's recitations in his hearing long before he himself had learned to read. Childhood is like a mirror, which reflects in after-life the images first presented to it. The first thing continues for ever with the child. The first joy, the first sorrow, the first success, the first failure, the first achievement, the first misadventure, paint the foreground of his life.

Childhood is when the mind is most open to new ideas and ready to be sparked by the first impression it receives. Ideas are quickly absorbed and tend to last. For example, Scott is said to have developed his initial interest in ballad literature from hearing his mother and grandmother recite stories before he even learned to read. Childhood acts like a mirror, reflecting the experiences first encountered throughout life. The initial experiences stay with the child forever: the first joy, the first sorrow, the first success, the first failure, the first achievement, the first misadventure—all shape the backdrop of their life.

All this while, too, the training of the character is in progress—of the temper, the will, and the habits—on which so much of the happiness of human beings in after-life depends. Although man is endowed with a certain self-acting, self-helping power of contributing to his own development, independent of surrounding circumstances, and of reacting upon the life around him, the bias given to his moral character in early life is of immense importance. Place even the highest-minded philosopher in the midst of daily discomfort, immorality, and vileness, and he will insensibly gravitate towards brutality. How much more susceptible is the impressionable and helpless child amidst such surroundings! It is not possible to rear a kindly nature, sensitive to evil, pure in mind and heart, amidst coarseness, discomfort, and impurity.

All this time, the development of character is also happening—shaping the temper, will, and habits—which greatly impacts the happiness of people later in life. While a person has a certain ability to contribute to their own growth, independent of their environment, the influence on their moral character in early life is incredibly important. Even the most principled philosopher placed in a situation filled with daily discomfort, immorality, and filth will unconsciously drift towards brutish behavior. How much more vulnerable is an impressionable and defenseless child in such an environment? It’s impossible to nurture a kind nature that is sensitive to wrong, and pure in mind and heart, in an atmosphere of coarseness, discomfort, and impurity.

Thus homes, which are the nurseries of children who grow up into men and women, will be good or bad according to the power that governs them. Where the spirit of love and duty pervades the home—where head and heart bear rule wisely there—where the daily life is honest and virtuous—where the government is sensible, kind, and loving, then may we expect from such a home an issue of healthy, useful, and happy beings, capable, as they gain the requisite strength, of following the footsteps of their parents, of walking uprightly, governing themselves wisely, and contributing to the welfare of those about them.

Therefore, homes, which are the places where children grow up to become men and women, will be good or bad based on the influence that shapes them. When love and responsibility fill the home—when both mind and heart are guided wisely—when daily life is honest and virtuous—when the household is led with sense, kindness, and love, then we can expect that such a home will raise healthy, useful, and happy individuals, who, as they develop the necessary strength, can follow in their parents' footsteps, live righteously, manage themselves wisely, and contribute positively to the well-being of those around them.

On the other hand, if surrounded by ignorance, coarseness, and selfishness, they will unconsciously assume the same character, and grow up to adult years rude, uncultivated, and all the more dangerous to society if placed amidst the manifold temptations of what is called civilised life. "Give your child to be educated by a slave," said an ancient Greek, "and instead of one slave, you will then have two."

On the other hand, if they are surrounded by ignorance, rudeness, and selfishness, they will unknowingly adopt those same traits and grow into adults who are crude, unrefined, and potentially more harmful to society when faced with the various temptations of what is considered civilized life. "If you let a slave educate your child," an ancient Greek once said, "you’ll end up with two slaves instead of one."

The child cannot help imitating what he sees. Everything is to him a model—of manner, of gesture, of speech, of habit, of character. "For the child," says Richter, "the most important era of life is that of childhood, when he begins to colour and mould himself by companionship with others. Every new educator effects less than his predecessor; until at last, if we regard all life as an educational institution, a circumnavigator of the world is less influenced by all the nations he has seen than by his nurse." 112 Models are therefore of every importance in moulding the nature of the child; and if we would have fine characters, we must necessarily present before them fine models. Now, the model most constantly before every child's eye is the Mother.

The child can’t help but imitate what he sees. Everything serves as a model for him—his manner, gestures, speech, habits, and character. "For the child," says Richter, "the most crucial time in life is childhood, when he starts to shape himself through interactions with others. Each new educator has less impact than the one before; ultimately, if we consider all of life as an educational experience, a traveler exploring the world is influenced less by all the cultures he’s encountered than by his caregiver." 112 Models play a crucial role in shaping a child's nature; if we want to cultivate strong characters, we must present them with positive examples. The model that is most often in front of every child is the Mother.

One good mother, said George Herbert, is worth a hundred schoolmasters. In the home she is "loadstone to all hearts, and loadstar to all eyes." Imitation of her is constant—imitation, which Bacon likens to "a globe of precepts." But example is far more than precept. It is instruction in action. It is teaching without words, often exemplifying more than tongue can teach. In the face of bad example, the best of precepts are of but little avail. The example is followed, not the precepts. Indeed, precept at variance with practice is worse than useless, inasmuch as it only serves to teach the most cowardly of vices—hypocrisy. Even children are judges of consistency, and the lessons of the parent who says one thing and does the opposite, are quickly seen through. The teaching of the friar was not worth much, who preached the virtue of honesty with a stolen goose in his sleeve.

One good mother, said George Herbert, is worth a hundred teachers. In the home, she is "a magnet to all hearts and a guiding star to all eyes." People constantly imitate her—an imitation that Bacon compares to "a globe of rules." But example means so much more than rules. It's instruction in action. It's teaching without words, often showing more than what speech can convey. When faced with poor examples, the best advice is of little help. People follow the example, not the rules. In fact, advice that conflicts with practice is worse than useless, as it only fosters the most cowardly of vices—hypocrisy. Even kids can see inconsistency, and they quickly recognize the lessons of a parent who says one thing and does another. The teaching of the friar was not very valuable, who preached the virtue of honesty while hiding a stolen goose in his sleeve.

By imitation of acts, the character becomes slowly and imperceptibly, but at length decidedly formed. The several acts may seem in themselves trivial; but so are the continuous acts of daily life. Like snowflakes, they fall unperceived; each flake added to the pile produces no sensible change, and yet the accumulation of snowflakes makes the avalanche. So do repeated acts, one following another, at length become consolidated in habit, determine the action of the human being for good or for evil, and, in a word, form the character.

By copying actions, a person's character is gradually and subtly shaped, but eventually becomes distinctly defined. Each individual action may seem insignificant; however, so do the repetitive actions we take every day. Like snowflakes, they fall unnoticed; each flake added to the heap makes no noticeable difference, yet the buildup of snowflakes creates an avalanche. Similarly, repeated actions, one after another, eventually solidify into habits, influencing a person's behavior for better or worse, and ultimately shaping their character.

It is because the mother, far more than the father, influences the action and conduct of the child, that her good example is of so much greater importance in the home. It is easy to understand how this should be so. The home is the woman's domain—her kingdom, where she exercises entire control. Her power over the little subjects she rules there is absolute. They look up to her for everything. She is the example and model constantly before their eyes, whom they unconsciously observe and imitate.

It’s because the mother, more than the father, influences the actions and behavior of the child that her good example is so much more important in the home. It’s easy to see how this works. The home is the woman’s domain—her kingdom, where she has complete control. Her power over the little ones she cares for is total. They look to her for everything. She is the example and role model constantly in front of them, whom they subconsciously watch and mimic.

Cowley, speaking of the influence of early example, and ideas early implanted in the mind, compares them to letters cut in the bark of a young tree, which grow and widen with age. The impressions then made, howsoever slight they may seem, are never effaced. The ideas then implanted in the mind are like seeds dropped into the ground, which lie there and germinate for a time, afterwards springing up in acts and thoughts and habits. Thus the mother lives again in her children. They unconsciously mould themselves after her manner, her speech, her conduct, and her method of life. Her habits become theirs; and her character is visibly repeated in them.

Cowley, discussing the impact of early experiences and ideas that are set in our minds, likens them to letters carved into the bark of a young tree, which expand and grow over time. The impressions made, no matter how small they may seem, are never erased. The ideas planted in the mind are like seeds dropped into the soil, lying dormant for a while before emerging in actions, thoughts, and habits. In this way, a mother lives on through her children. They unknowingly shape themselves to mirror her mannerisms, speech, behavior, and way of life. Her habits become theirs, and her character is clearly reflected in them.

This maternal love is the visible providence of our race. Its influence is constant and universal. It begins with the education of the human being at the out-start of life, and is prolonged by virtue of the powerful influence which every good mother exercises over her children through life. When launched into the world, each to take part in its labours, anxieties, and trials, they still turn to their mother for consolation, if not for counsel, in their time of trouble and difficulty. The pure and good thoughts she has implanted in their minds when children, continue to grow up into good acts, long after she is dead; and when there is nothing but a memory of her left, her children rise up and call her blessed.

This maternal love is the visible care of our people. Its impact is constant and widespread. It starts with the nurturing of a human being from the very beginning of life and continues thanks to the strong influence that every good mother has on her children throughout their lives. When they are sent out into the world to face its challenges, worries, and hardships, they still turn to their mother for comfort, if not advice, during tough times. The positive and loving ideas she instills in their minds as children continue to grow into good actions, long after she has passed away; and when all that’s left is her memory, her children rise up and call her blessed.

It is not saying too much to aver that the happiness or misery, the enlightenment or ignorance, the civilisation or barbarism of the world, depends in a very high degree upon the exercise of woman's power within her special kingdom of home. Indeed, Emerson says, broadly and truly, that "a sufficient measure of civilisation is the influence of good women." Posterity may be said to lie before us in the person of the child in the mother's lap. What that child will eventually become, mainly depends upon the training and example which he has received from his first and most influential educator.

It’s not an exaggeration to say that the happiness or suffering, the knowledge or ignorance, the civilization or barbarism of the world largely depends on how women exercise their influence in their special realm of home. In fact, Emerson rightly states that "a sufficient measure of civilization is the influence of good women." The future can be seen in the child sitting in the mother’s lap. What that child grows up to be mainly depends on the training and example provided by their first and most significant teacher.

Woman, above all other educators, educates humanly. Man is the brain, but woman is the heart of humanity; he its judgment, she its feeling; he its strength, she its grace, ornament, and solace. Even the understanding of the best woman seems to work mainly through her affections. And thus, though man may direct the intellect, woman cultivates the feelings, which mainly determine the character. While he fills the memory, she occupies the heart. She makes us love what he can only make us believe, and it is chiefly through her that we are enabled to arrive at virtue.

Woman, more than any other teachers, educates with humanity. Man is the intellect, but woman is the heart of humanity; he is its judgment, she is its emotion; he is its strength, she is its grace, beauty, and comfort. Even the understanding of the finest woman primarily comes through her feelings. So, while man may guide the intellect, woman nurtures the emotions, which largely shape character. He fills the mind, she fills the heart. She inspires us to love what he can only make us believe, and it is mainly through her that we reach virtue.

The respective influences of the father and the mother on the training and development of character, are remarkably illustrated in the life of St. Augustine. While Augustine's father, a poor freeman of Thagaste, proud of his son's abilities, endeavoured to furnish his mind with the highest learning of the schools, and was extolled by his neighbours for the sacrifices he made with that object "beyond the ability of his means"—his mother Monica, on the other hand, sought to lead her son's mind in the direction of the highest good, and with pious care counselled him, entreated him, advised him to chastity, and, amidst much anguish and tribulation, because of his wicked life, never ceased to pray for him until her prayers were heard and answered. Thus her love at last triumphed, and the patience and goodness of the mother were rewarded, not only by the conversion of her gifted son, but also of her husband. Later in life, and after her husband's death, Monica, drawn by her affection, followed her son to Milan, to watch over him; and there she died, when he was in his thirty-third year. But it was in the earlier period of his life that her example and instruction made the deepest impression upon his mind, and determined his future character.

The different influences of the father and the mother on the upbringing and character development are clearly shown in the life of St. Augustine. Augustine's father, a poor freeman from Thagaste, proud of his son's talents, tried to provide him with the best education possible, and was praised by his neighbors for the sacrifices he made for this, “beyond what he could afford.” Meanwhile, his mother Monica aimed to guide her son's mind toward what was truly good. She sincerely counseled him, pleaded with him, and urged him to remain chaste, and despite enduring much sorrow and distress because of his sinful life, she never stopped praying for him until her prayers were answered. Ultimately, her love prevailed, and the patience and goodness of the mother were rewarded not only with the conversion of her gifted son but also of her husband. Later in life, after her husband's death, Monica, motivated by her love, followed her son to Milan to take care of him; she passed away there when he was thirty-three years old. However, it was during his earlier years that her example and guidance made the strongest impact on his mind and shaped his future character.

There are many similar instances of early impressions made upon a child's mind, springing up into good acts late in life, after an intervening period of selfishness and vice. Parents may do all that they can to develope an upright and virtuous character in their children, and apparently in vain. It seems like bread cast upon the waters and lost. And yet sometimes it happens that long after the parents have gone to their Rest—it may be twenty years or more—the good precept, the good example set before their sons and daughters in childhood, at length springs up and bears fruit.

There are many similar cases of early influences on a child's mind that later lead to positive actions, even after a phase of selfishness and wrongdoing. Parents can do everything possible to nurture a strong and moral character in their children, and it may seem pointless. It feels like throwing bread onto the water that gets lost. Yet sometimes, long after the parents have passed away—it might be twenty years or more—the good teachings and examples shown to their sons and daughters during childhood eventually resurface and result in positive outcomes.

One of the most remarkable of such instances was that of the Reverend John Newton of Olney, the friend of Cowper the poet. It was long subsequent to the death of both his parents, and after leading a vicious life as a youth and as a seaman, that he became suddenly awakened to a sense of his depravity; and then it was that the lessons which his mother had given him when a child sprang up vividly in his memory. Her voice came to him as it were from the dead, and led him gently back to virtue and goodness.

One of the most remarkable examples of this was the Reverend John Newton of Olney, who was friends with the poet Cowper. Long after the death of both his parents, and after living a reckless life as a young man and a sailor, he suddenly became aware of his own moral failures; that's when the lessons his mother taught him as a child came back to him clearly. Her voice felt like it was coming from beyond the grave, guiding him gently back to a life of virtue and goodness.

Another instance is that of John Randolph, the American statesman, who once said: "I should have been an atheist if it had not been for one recollection—and that was the memory of the time when my departed mother used to take my little hand in hers, and cause me on my knees to say, 'Our Father who art in heaven!'"

Another example is John Randolph, the American politician, who once said: "I would have been an atheist if it hadn’t been for one memory—and that was the time when my late mother would take my little hand in hers and make me say on my knees, 'Our Father who art in heaven!'"

But such instance must, on the whole, be regarded as exceptional. As the character is biassed in early life, so it generally remains, gradually assuming its permanent form as manhood is reached. "Live as long as you may," said Southey, "the first twenty years are the longest half of your life," and they are by far the most pregnant in consequences. When the worn-out slanderer and voluptuary, Dr. Wolcot, lay on his deathbed, one of his friends asked if he could do anything to gratify him. "Yes," said the dying man, eagerly, "give me back my youth." Give him but that, and he would repent—he would reform. But it was all too late! His life had become bound and enthralled by the chains of habit.' 113

But such instances should generally be seen as exceptions. Just as a person's character is shaped in early life, it usually stays that way, slowly taking on its permanent form as they reach adulthood. "No matter how long you live," Southey said, "the first twenty years are the longest half of your life," and they have the greatest impact on what comes next. When the worn-out slanderer and pleasure-seeker, Dr. Wolcot, was on his deathbed, one of his friends asked if there was anything they could do to please him. "Yes," the dying man responded eagerly, "give me back my youth." If he had that, he would regret it—he would change. But it was all too late! His life had become trapped and enslaved by the habits he had formed. 113

Gretry, the musical composer, thought so highly of the importance of woman as an educator of character, that he described a good mother as "Nature's CHEF-D'OEUVRE." And he was right: for good mothers, far more than fathers, tend to the perpetual renovation of mankind, creating, as they do, the moral atmosphere of the home, which is the nutriment of man's moral being, as the physical atmosphere is of his corporeal frame. By good temper, suavity, and kindness, directed by intelligence, woman surrounds the indwellers with a pervading atmosphere of cheerfulness, contentment, and peace, suitable for the growth of the purest as of the manliest natures.

Gretry, the musical composer, valued the role of women as character educators so much that he referred to a good mother as "Nature's MASTERPIECE." And he was right: good mothers, more than fathers, contribute to the ongoing development of humanity, as they create the moral environment of the home, which nourishes a person's moral existence, just like the physical environment supports their body. Through good humor, gentleness, and kindness, guided by intelligence, women provide those living in the home with an atmosphere filled with cheerfulness, contentment, and peace, which is ideal for nurturing both the purest and the strongest characters.

The poorest dwelling, presided over by a virtuous, thrifty, cheerful, and cleanly woman, may thus be the abode of comfort, virtue, and happiness; it may be the scene of every ennobling relation in family life; it may be endeared to a man by many delightful associations; furnishing a sanctuary for the heart, a refuge from the storms of life, a sweet resting-place after labour, a consolation in misfortune, a pride in prosperity, and a joy at all times.

The simplest home, managed by a kind, resourceful, upbeat, and tidy woman, can still be a place of comfort, goodness, and happiness; it can be the backdrop for all the meaningful connections in family life; it can hold special memories for a man; providing a safe haven for the heart, a shelter from life's challenges, a cozy spot to relax after work, a source of comfort during tough times, a reason for pride during good times, and a consistent source of joy.

The good home is thus the best of schools, not only in youth but in age. There young and old best learn cheerfulness, patience, self-control, and the spirit of service and of duty. Izaak Walton, speaking of George Herbert's mother, says she governed her family with judicious care, not rigidly nor sourly, "but with such a sweetness and compliance with the recreations and pleasures of youth, as did incline them to spend much of their time in her company, which was to her great content."

The ideal home is the greatest school, both for the young and the old. Here, people of all ages learn cheerfulness, patience, self-control, and the values of service and duty. Izaak Walton, referring to George Herbert's mother, mentions that she managed her family with thoughtful care, not harshly or sourly, "but with such kindness and willingness to embrace the joys and fun of youth, that it encouraged them to spend a lot of their time with her, which brought her great happiness."

The home is the true school of courtesy, of which woman is always the best practical instructor. "Without woman," says the Provencal proverb, "men were but ill-licked cubs." Philanthropy radiates from the home as from a centre. "To love the little platoon we belong to in society," said Burke, "is the germ of all public affections." The wisest and the best have not been ashamed to own it to be their greatest joy and happiness to sit "behind the heads of children" in the inviolable circle of home. A life of purity and duty there is not the least effectual preparative for a life of public work and duty; and the man who loves his home will not the less fondly love and serve his country. But while homes, which are the nurseries of character, may be the best of schools, they may also be the worst. Between childhood and manhood how incalculable is the mischief which ignorance in the home has the power to cause! Between the drawing of the first breath and the last, how vast is the moral suffering and disease occasioned by incompetent mothers and nurses! Commit a child to the care of a worthless ignorant woman, and no culture in after-life will remedy the evil you have done. Let the mother be idle, vicious, and a slattern; let her home be pervaded by cavilling, petulance, and discontent, and it will become a dwelling of misery—a place to fly from, rather than to fly to; and the children whose misfortune it is to be brought up there, will be morally dwarfed and deformed—the cause of misery to themselves as well as to others.

The home is the real school of courtesy, where women are often the best teachers. "Without women," says the Provencal proverb, "men would be like poorly groomed cubs." Kindness spreads from the home like a central light. "To love the little community we belong to in society," said Burke, "is the foundation of all public feelings." The wisest and best among us have proudly acknowledged that their greatest joy and happiness comes from sitting "behind the heads of children" in the sacred space of home. A life of purity and responsibility there is an essential preparation for a life of public service; a man who loves his home will also love and serve his country. However, while homes, which shape character, can be the best of schools, they can also be the worst. Between childhood and adulthood, the damage caused by ignorance at home can be incalculable. From the moment of first breath to the last, how much moral suffering and dysfunction can result from unqualified mothers and caregivers! Place a child in the hands of an incompetent, ignorant woman, and no amount of later education can fix the harm done. If a mother is lazy, immoral, and disorganized; if her home is filled with bickering, irritability, and discontent, it becomes a place of misery—a place to escape from, not to seek refuge in; and the children raised there will be morally stunted and twisted—bringing misery to themselves and others.

Napoleon Buonaparte was accustomed to say that "the future good or bad conduct of a child depended entirely on the mother." He himself attributed his rise in life in a great measure to the training of his will, his energy, and his self-control, by his mother at home. "Nobody had any command over him," says one of his biographers, "except his mother, who found means, by a mixture of tenderness, severity, and justice, to make him love, respect, and obey her: from her he learnt the virtue of obedience."

Napoleon Bonaparte often said that "a child's future behavior, whether good or bad, entirely depends on the mother." He believed that his success in life was largely due to the way his mother trained his will, energy, and self-control at home. "No one had any authority over him," one of his biographers notes, "except his mother, who managed to make him love, respect, and obey her through a blend of kindness, discipline, and fairness: from her, he learned the value of obedience."

A curious illustration of the dependence of the character of children on that of the mother incidentally occurs in one of Mr. Tufnell's school reports. The truth, he observes, is so well established that it has even been made subservient to mercantile calculation. "I was informed," he says, "in a large factory, where many children were employed, that the managers before they engaged a boy always inquired into the mother's character, and if that was satisfactory they were tolerably certain that her children would conduct themselves creditably. NO ATTENTION WAS PAID TO THE CHARACTER OF THE FATHER." 114

A telling example of how children's behavior depends on their mother's character is found in one of Mr. Tufnell's school reports. He points out that this fact is so well recognized that it has even been used for business purposes. "I was told," he states, "at a large factory where many children worked, that the managers would always inquire about the mother's character before hiring a boy, and if that was acceptable, they were fairly sure her children would behave well. NO ATTENTION WAS PAID TO THE CHARACTER OF THE FATHER." 114

It has also been observed that in cases where the father has turned out badly—become a drunkard, and "gone to the dogs"—provided the mother is prudent and sensible, the family will be kept together, and the children probably make their way honourably in life; whereas in cases of the opposite sort, where the mother turns out badly, no matter how well-conducted the father may be, the instances of after-success in life on the part of the children are comparatively rare.

It has also been noticed that in situations where the father has become a failure—turned into a drunkard and "gone to the dogs"—as long as the mother is wise and sensible, the family tends to stay together, and the children likely succeed in life. However, in cases where the mother fails, no matter how well the father conducts himself, the chances of the children succeeding later in life are relatively low.

The greater part of the influence exercised by women on the formation of character necessarily remains unknown. They accomplish their best work in the quiet seclusion of the home and the family, by sustained effort and patient perseverance in the path of duty. Their greatest triumphs, because private and domestic, are rarely recorded; and it is not often, even in the biographies of distinguished men, that we hear of the share which their mothers have had in the formation of their character, and in giving them a bias towards goodness. Yet are they not on that account without their reward. The influence they have exercised, though unrecorded, lives after them, and goes on propagating itself in consequences for ever.

Most of the impact that women have on character development remains unknown. They do their best work in the quiet comfort of home and family through consistent effort and perseverance in fulfilling their duties. Their biggest successes, being private and domestic, often go unrecognized; even in the biographies of notable men, we rarely hear about how their mothers contributed to shaping their character and instilling a sense of goodness in them. However, this doesn't mean they lack reward. The influence they've had, though unrecognized, continues to live on and create lasting consequences.

We do not often hear of great women, as we do of great men. It is of good women that we mostly hear; and it is probable that by determining the character of men and women for good, they are doing even greater work than if they were to paint great pictures, write great books, or compose great operas. "It is quite true," said Joseph de Maistre, "that women have produced no CHEFS-DOEUVRE. They have written no 'Iliad,' nor 'Jerusalem Delivered,' nor 'Hamlet,' nor 'Phaedre,' nor 'Paradise Lost,' nor 'Tartuffe;' they have designed no Church of St. Peter's, composed no 'Messiah,' carved no 'Apollo Belvidere,' painted no 'Last Judgment;' they have invented neither algebra, nor telescopes, nor steam-engines; but they have done something far greater and better than all this, for it is at their knees that upright and virtuous men and women have been trained—the most excellent productions in the world."

We don’t often hear about great women as much as we do great men. We mostly hear about good women, and it's likely that by shaping the character of both men and women for the better, they are achieving even more than if they were creating great art, writing major books, or composing famous operas. "It's true," said Joseph de Maistre, "that women haven't produced any MASTERPIECES. They haven't written an 'Iliad,' or 'Jerusalem Delivered,' or 'Hamlet,' or 'Phaedre,' or 'Paradise Lost,' or 'Tartuffe;' they haven't designed a St. Peter's Church, composed a 'Messiah,' carved an 'Apollo Belvedere,' or painted a 'Last Judgment;' they haven't invented algebra, telescopes, or steam engines; but they've done something far greater and better than all of this, for it is at their knees that honorable and virtuous men and women have been raised—the finest creations in the world."

De Maistre, in his letters and writings, speaks of his own mother with immense love and reverence. Her noble character made all other women venerable in his eyes. He described her as his "sublime mother"—"an angel to whom God had lent a body for a brief season." To her he attributed the bent of his character, and all his bias towards good; and when he had grown to mature years, while acting as ambassador at the Court of St. Petersburg, he referred to her noble example and precepts as the ruling influence in his life.

De Maistre, in his letters and writings, talks about his mother with great love and respect. Her noble character made all other women admirable in his eyes. He called her his "sublime mother"—"an angel whom God had given a body for a short time." He credited her with shaping his character and instilling in him a tendency toward good; and as he reached adulthood, while serving as ambassador at the Court of St. Petersburg, he pointed to her noble example and teachings as the guiding force in his life.

One of the most charming features in the character of Samuel Johnson, notwithstanding his rough and shaggy exterior, was the tenderness with which he invariably spoke of his mother 115—a woman of strong understanding, who firmly implanted in his mind, as he himself acknowledges, his first impressions of religion. He was accustomed, even in the time of his greatest difficulties, to contribute largely, out of his slender means, to her comfort; and one of his last acts of filial duty was to write 'Rasselas' for the purpose of paying her little debts and defraying her funeral charges.

One of the most endearing aspects of Samuel Johnson’s character, despite his rough and unkempt appearance, was the fondness with which he always spoke of his mother 115—a woman of strong intellect who deeply influenced his early views on religion, as he himself admitted. Even during his toughest times, he made it a point to support her comfort financially, often giving generously from his limited resources. One of his final acts of devotion was writing 'Rasselas' to help cover her small debts and her funeral expenses.

George Washington was only eleven years of age—the eldest of five children—when his father died, leaving his mother a widow. She was a woman of rare excellence—full of resources, a good woman of business, an excellent manager, and possessed of much strength of character. She had her children to educate and bring up, a large household to govern, and extensive estates to manage, all of which she accomplished with complete success. Her good sense, assiduity, tenderness, industry, and vigilance, enabled her to overcome every obstacle; and as the richest reward of her solicitude and toil, she had the happiness to see all her children come forward with a fair promise into life, filling the spheres allotted to them in a manner equally honourable to themselves, and to the parent who had been the only guide of their, principles, conduct, and habits. 116

George Washington was only eleven years old—the oldest of five kids—when his father passed away, leaving his mother a widow. She was an exceptional woman—resourceful, a skilled businesswoman, a great manager, and very strong-willed. She had her children to educate and raise, a large household to run, and vast estates to oversee, and she managed all of this successfully. Her common sense, hard work, kindness, dedication, and watchfulness helped her overcome every challenge; and as the greatest reward for her caring and efforts, she was happy to see all her children make a promising start in life, successfully filling the roles they were given, which brought honor to both themselves and the mother who had guided their principles, actions, and habits. 116

The biographer of Cromwell says little about the Protector's father, but dwells upon the character of his mother, whom he describes as a woman of rare vigour and decision of purpose: "A woman," he says, "possessed of the glorious faculty of self-help when other assistance failed her; ready for the demands of fortune in its extremest adverse turn; of spirit and energy equal to her mildness and patience; who, with the labour of her own hands, gave dowries to five daughters sufficient to marry them into families as honourable but more wealthy than their own; whose single pride was honesty, and whose passion was love; who preserved in the gorgeous palace at Whitehall the simple tastes that distinguished her in the old brewery at Huntingdon; and whose only care, amidst all her splendour, was for the safety of her son in his dangerous eminence." 117

The biographer of Cromwell doesn't say much about the Protector's father, but he focuses on the character of his mother, describing her as a woman with incredible strength and determination: "A woman," he says, "who had the amazing ability to help herself when other support was lacking; ready to face any challenge that came her way; her spirit and energy matched her kindness and patience; who, with her own hard work, provided dowries for five daughters, enough to marry them into families that were just as respectable but richer than their own; whose only pride was honesty, and whose passion was love; who maintained her simple tastes in the grand palace at Whitehall, just as she had in the old brewery at Huntingdon; and whose only concern, despite all her wealth, was for the safety of her son in his risky position of power." 117

We have spoken of the mother of Napoleon Buonaparte as a woman of great force of character. Not less so was the mother of the Duke of Wellington, whom her son strikingly resembled in features, person, and character; while his father was principally distinguished as a musical composer and performer. 118 But, strange to say, Wellington's mother mistook him for a dunce; and, for some reason or other, he was not such a favourite as her other children, until his great deeds in after-life constrained her to be proud of him.

We have talked about Napoleon Bonaparte's mother as a woman with a strong personality. The mother of the Duke of Wellington was equally notable, as her son closely resembled her in looks, stature, and character; while his father was mainly known as a music composer and performer. 118 However, oddly enough, Wellington's mother thought he was dim-witted; for some reason, he wasn't as favored as her other kids until his remarkable achievements later in life made her proud of him.

The Napiers were blessed in both parents, but especially in their mother, Lady Sarah Lennox, who early sought to inspire her sons' minds with elevating thoughts, admiration of noble deeds, and a chivalrous spirit, which became embodied in their lives, and continued to sustain them, until death, in the path of duty and of honour.

The Napiers were lucky to have both parents, but especially their mother, Lady Sarah Lennox, who early on tried to inspire her sons with uplifting ideas, admiration for noble actions, and a chivalrous spirit. This influence became a part of their lives and helped guide them in their commitment to duty and honor until the end.

Among statesmen, lawyers, and divines, we find marked mention made of the mothers of Lord Chancellors Bacon, Erskine, and Brougham—all women of great ability, and, in the case of the first, of great learning; as well as of the mothers of Canning, Curran, and President Adams—of Herbert, Paley, and Wesley. Lord Brougham speaks in terms almost approaching reverence of his grandmother, the sister of Professor Robertson, as having been mainly instrumental in instilling into his mind a strong desire for information, and the first principles of that persevering energy in the pursuit of every kind of knowledge which formed his prominent characteristic throughout life.

Among politicians, lawyers, and religious leaders, there's a notable mention of the mothers of Lord Chancellors Bacon, Erskine, and Brougham—all of whom were very capable women, and in the case of the first, very learned; as well as the mothers of Canning, Curran, and President Adams—of Herbert, Paley, and Wesley. Lord Brougham speaks almost reverently of his grandmother, the sister of Professor Robertson, as having been key in instilling in him a strong desire for knowledge, and the foundational principles of the relentless pursuit of knowledge that defined him throughout his life.

Canning's mother was an Irishwoman of great natural ability, for whom her gifted son entertained the greatest love and respect to the close of his career. She was a woman of no ordinary intellectual power. "Indeed," says Canning's biographer, "were we not otherwise assured of the fact from direct sources, it would be impossible to contemplate his profound and touching devotion to her, without being led to conclude that the object of such unchanging attachment must have been possessed of rare and commanding qualities. She was esteemed by the circle in which she lived, as a woman of great mental energy. Her conversation was animated and vigorous, and marked by a distinct originality of manner and a choice of topics fresh and striking, and out of the commonplace routine. To persons who were but slightly acquainted with her, the energy of her manner had even something of the air of eccentricity." 119

Canning's mother was an Irishwoman with incredible natural talent, for whom her gifted son held immense love and respect until the end of his life. She was a woman of exceptional intellectual strength. "In fact," says Canning's biographer, "if we weren't otherwise assured of this from direct sources, it would be hard to consider his deep and heartfelt devotion to her without concluding that the person of such unwavering attachment must have had rare and commanding qualities. She was valued by the community she was part of as a woman of great mental vigor. Her conversations were lively and strong, characterized by a distinct originality in style and a selection of topics that were fresh, striking, and far from ordinary. To those who knew her only slightly, the energy of her manner even came across as somewhat eccentric." 119

Curran speaks with great affection of his mother, as a woman of strong original understanding, to whose wise counsel, consistent piety, and lessons of honourable ambition, which she diligently enforced on the minds of her children, he himself principally attributed his success in life. "The only inheritance," he used to say, "that I could boast of from my poor father, was the very scanty one of an unattractive face and person; like his own; and if the world has ever attributed to me something more valuable than face or person, or than earthly wealth, it was that another and a dearer parent gave her child a portion from the treasure of her mind." 1110

Curran speaks very fondly of his mother, describing her as a woman of strong, natural insight. He attributes his success in life mainly to her wise advice, unwavering faith, and lessons in honorable ambition, which she tirelessly impressed upon her children. "The only inheritance," he would say, "that I could claim from my poor father was the very meager one of an unattractive face and physique, just like his; and if the world has ever seen something in me that is more valuable than looks or physical attributes, or even material wealth, it was the gift of wisdom that another, dearer parent passed on to her child." 1110

When ex-President Adams was present at the examination of a girls' school at Boston, he was presented by the pupils with an address which deeply affected him; and in acknowledging it, he took the opportunity of referring to the lasting influence which womanly training and association had exercised upon his own life and character. "As a child," he said, "I enjoyed perhaps the greatest of blessings that can be bestowed on man—that of a mother, who was anxious and capable to form the characters of her children rightly. From her I derived whatever instruction [11religious especially, and moral] has pervaded a long life—I will not say perfectly, or as it ought to be; but I will say, because it is only justice to the memory of her I revere, that, in the course of that life, whatever imperfection there has been, or deviation from what she taught me, the fault is mine, and not hers."

When former President Adams attended an inspection of a girls' school in Boston, the students presented him with a heartfelt address that moved him deeply. In his response, he took the chance to speak about the lasting impact that nurturing and connections with women had on his life and character. "As a child," he said, "I experienced perhaps the greatest blessing one can receive—that of a mother who was both eager and able to shape her children's characters appropriately. From her, I gained all the guidance [especially religious and moral] that has influenced my long life—I won't claim it was perfect or as it should be; but I will say, as a matter of justice to the memory of the one I honor, that throughout my life, any shortcomings or deviations from what she taught me are my faults, not hers."

The Wesleys were peculiarly linked to their parents by natural piety, though the mother, rather than the father, influenced their minds and developed their characters. The father was a man of strong will, but occasionally harsh and tyrannical in his dealings with his family; 1111 while the mother, with much strength of understanding and ardent love of truth, was gentle, persuasive, affectionate, and simple. She was the teacher and cheerful companion of her children, who gradually became moulded by her example. It was through the bias given by her to her sons' minds in religious matters that they acquired the tendency which, even in early years, drew to them the name of Methodists. In a letter to her son, Samuel Wesley, when a scholar at Westminster in 1709, she said: "I would advise you as much as possible to throw your business into a certain METHOD, by which means you will learn to improve every precious moment, and find an unspeakable facility in the performance of your respective duties." This "method" she went on to describe, exhorting her son "in all things to act upon principle;" and the society which the brothers John and Charles afterwards founded at Oxford is supposed to have been in a great measure the result of her exhortations.

The Wesleys had a special connection to their parents through natural piety, though their mother, rather than their father, shaped their thoughts and developed their characters. The father was a strong-willed man, sometimes harsh and domineering with his family; 1111 while the mother, with deep understanding and a passionate love for truth, was gentle, persuasive, affectionate, and straightforward. She was both a teacher and a cheerful companion to her children, who gradually became influenced by her example. It was the religious perspective she instilled in her sons that earned them the name Methodists, even at a young age. In a letter to her son, Samuel Wesley, while he was a student at Westminster in 1709, she advised him, "I would suggest that you try to organize your tasks into a certain METHOD, which will help you make the most of every precious moment and find it much easier to fulfill your responsibilities." She elaborated on this "method," encouraging her son to "act on principle in everything;" it’s believed the society founded by brothers John and Charles at Oxford was largely inspired by her encouragement.

In the case of poets, literary men, and artists, the influence of the mother's feeling and taste has doubtless had great effect in directing the genius of their sons; and we find this especially illustrated in the lives of Gray, Thomson, Scott, Southey, Bulwer, Schiller, and Goethe. Gray inherited, almost complete, his kind and loving nature from his mother, while his father was harsh and unamiable. Gray was, in fact, a feminine man—shy, reserved, and wanting in energy,—but thoroughly irreproachable in life and character. The poet's mother maintained the family, after her unworthy husband had deserted her; and, at her death, Gray placed on her grave, in Stoke Pogis, an epitaph describing her as "the careful tender mother of many children, one of whom alone had the misfortune to survive her." The poet himself was, at his own desire, interred beside her worshipped grave.

For poets, writers, and artists, the feelings and tastes of their mothers have definitely played a significant role in shaping their sons' talents. This is particularly evident in the lives of Gray, Thomson, Scott, Southey, Bulwer, Schiller, and Goethe. Gray inherited much of his kind and loving nature from his mother, while his father was harsh and unpleasant. Gray was, in fact, quite sensitive—shy, reserved, and lacking in energy—but completely blameless in both life and character. The poet's mother supported the family after her unworthy husband left her; and upon her death, Gray placed an epitaph on her grave in Stoke Pogis that described her as "the careful tender mother of many children, one of whom alone had the misfortune to survive her." The poet himself chose to be buried next to her beloved grave.

Goethe, like Schiller, owed the bias of his mind and character to his mother, who was a woman of extraordinary gifts. She was full of joyous flowing mother-wit, and possessed in a high degree the art of stimulating young and active minds, instructing them in the science of life out of the treasures of her abundant experience. 1112 After a lengthened interview with her, an enthusiastic traveller said, "Now do I understand how Goethe has become the man he is." Goethe himself affectionately cherished her memory. "She was worthy of life!" he once said of her; and when he visited Frankfort, he sought out every individual who had been kind to his mother, and thanked them all.

Goethe, like Schiller, credited his mindset and character to his mother, who was an exceptionally gifted woman. She had a joyful and clever way of thinking and was highly skilled at inspiring young, active minds, teaching them about life based on her rich experiences. 1112 After an extended conversation with her, an enthusiastic traveler remarked, "Now I understand how Goethe became the man he is." Goethe himself fondly remembered her. "She was truly deserving of life!" he once said about her, and whenever he visited Frankfurt, he made it a point to find everyone who had shown kindness to his mother and thanked them all.

It was Ary Scheffer's mother—whose beautiful features the painter so loved to reproduce in his pictures of Beatrice, St. Monica, and others of his works—that encouraged his study of art, and by great self-denial provided him with the means of pursuing it. While living at Dordrecht, in Holland, she first sent him to Lille to study, and afterwards to Paris; and her letters to him, while absent, were always full of sound motherly advice, and affectionate womanly sympathy. "If you could but see me," she wrote on one occasion, "kissing your picture, then, after a while, taking it up again, and, with a tear in my eye, calling you 'my beloved son,' you would comprehend what it costs me to use sometimes the stern language of authority, and to occasion to you moments of pain. * * * Work diligently—be, above all, modest and humble; and when you find yourself excelling others, then compare what you have done with Nature itself, or with the 'ideal' of your own mind, and you will be secured, by the contrast which will be apparent, against the effects of pride and presumption."

It was Ary Scheffer's mother—whose beautiful features the painter loved to capture in his paintings of Beatrice, St. Monica, and other works—who encouraged his pursuit of art and, through great sacrifice, provided him the resources to do so. While living in Dordrecht, Holland, she first sent him to Lille to study and then to Paris; her letters to him during his time away were always filled with solid motherly advice and caring, feminine support. "If only you could see me," she wrote on one occasion, "kissing your picture, then, after a moment, picking it up again, and, with a tear in my eye, calling you 'my beloved son,' you would understand how much it costs me to sometimes speak with stern authority and cause you moments of pain. * * * Work hard—be, above all, modest and humble; and when you find yourself surpassing others, then compare what you’ve done to Nature itself or to the 'ideal' in your own mind, and this contrast will protect you from pride and arrogance."

Long years after, when Ary Scheffer was himself a grandfather, he remembered with affection the advice of his mother, and repeated it to his children. And thus the vital power of good example lives on from generation to generation, keeping the world ever fresh and young. Writing to his daughter, Madame Marjolin, in 1846, his departed mother's advice recurred to him, and he said: "The word MUST—fix it well in your memory, dear child; your grandmother seldom had it out of hers. The truth is, that through our lives nothing brings any good fruit except what is earned by either the work of the hands, or by the exertion of one's self-denial. Sacrifices must, in short, be ever going on if we would obtain any comfort or happiness. Now that I am no longer young, I declare that few passages in my life afford me so much satisfaction as those in which I made sacrifices, or denied myself enjoyments. 'Das Entsagen' [11the forbidden] is the motto of the wise man. Self-denial is the quality of which Jesus Christ set us the example." 1113

Many years later, when Ary Scheffer was a grandfather himself, he fondly remembered his mother's advice and shared it with his own children. This is how the power of a good example continues to live on, renewing each generation. Writing to his daughter, Madame Marjolin, in 1846, he recalled his mother's words and said: "The word MUST—remember it well, dear child; your grandmother rarely forgot it. The truth is, throughout our lives, the only things that bring any real rewards are those earned through hard work or through self-denial. Sacrifices must, in short, be constantly made if we want to find any comfort or happiness. Now that I’m older, I can say that very few moments in my life give me as much satisfaction as those in which I sacrificed or denied myself pleasures. 'Das Entsagen' [the forbidden] is the motto of a wise person. Self-denial is what Jesus Christ taught us by example." 1113

The French historian Michelet makes the following touching reference to his mother in the Preface to one of his most popular books, the subject of much embittered controversy at the time at which it appeared:—

The French historian Michelet makes the following heartfelt mention of his mother in the Preface to one of his most well-known books, which sparked a lot of bitter controversy when it was released:—

"Whilst writing all this, I have had in my mind a woman, whose strong and serious mind would not have failed to support me in these contentions. I lost her thirty years ago [11I was a child then]—nevertheless, ever living in my memory, she follows me from age to age.

"While writing all this, I've been thinking of a woman whose strong and serious mind would have definitely supported me in these arguments. I lost her thirty years ago [11I was a child then]—however, she continues to stay in my memory, following me through the years."

"She suffered with me in my poverty, and was not allowed to share my better fortune. When young, I made her sad, and now I cannot console her. I know not even where her bones are: I was too poor then to buy earth to bury her!"

"She went through my struggles with me but wasn’t allowed to enjoy any of my good fortune. When I was young, I made her unhappy, and now I can’t comfort her. I don’t even know where her remains are: I was too broke back then to afford a grave for her!"

"And yet I owe her much. I feel deeply that I am the son of woman. Every instant, in my ideas and words [11not to mention my features and gestures], I find again my mother in myself. It is my mother's blood which gives me the sympathy I feel for bygone ages, and the tender remembrance of all those who are now no more."

"And yet I owe her a lot. I truly feel that I am a product of my mother. Every moment, in my thoughts and words [not to mention my looks and gestures], I see my mother in myself. It's my mother's blood that gives me the empathy I have for the past and the gentle memories of all those who are no longer here."

"What return then could I, who am myself advancing towards old age, make her for the many things I owe her? One, for which she would have thanked me—this protest in favour of women and mothers." 1114

"What can I, as I get older, give her in return for all that I owe her? One thing she would have appreciated is this statement supporting women and mothers." 1114

But while a mother may greatly influence the poetic or artistic mind of her son for good, she may also influence it for evil. Thus the characteristics of Lord Byron—the waywardness of his impulses, his defiance of restraint, the bitterness of his hate, and the precipitancy of his resentments—were traceable in no small degree to the adverse influences exercised upon his mind from his birth by his capricious, violent, and headstrong mother. She even taunted her son with his personal deformity; and it was no unfrequent occurrence, in the violent quarrels which occurred between them, for her to take up the poker or tongs, and hurl them after him as he fled from her presence. 1115 It was this unnatural treatment that gave a morbid turn to Byron's after-life; and, careworn, unhappy, great, and yet weak as he was, he carried about with him the mother's poison which he had sucked in his infancy. Hence he exclaims, in his 'Childe Harold':—

But while a mother can have a huge influence on her son’s creative or artistic mind for the better, she can also impact it negatively. The traits of Lord Byron—his unpredictable impulses, his disregard for limits, the intensity of his hatred, and the quickness of his anger—were largely shaped by the negative influences from his unpredictable, harsh, and stubborn mother from the moment he was born. She even mocked him for his physical flaws; during their frequent, intense arguments, she would often grab the poker or tongs and throw them at him as he ran away. 1115 It was this unnatural treatment that twisted Byron's life; despite being brilliant and significant, yet burdened and unhappy, he carried the emotional scars from his mother's toxic influence that he had absorbed in his early years. Hence he exclaims, in his 'Childe Harold':—

      "Yet must I think less wildly:—I have thought
        Too long and darkly, till my brain became,
      In its own eddy boiling and o'erwrought,
        A whirling gulf of phantasy and flame:
      And thus, UNTAUGHT IN YOUTH MY HEART TO TAME,
        MY SPRINGS OF LIFE WERE POISONED."
"Yet I have to think less wildly: I have thought too long and too deeply, until my mind became, in its own turmoil, a whirlpool of imagination and fire: And thus, having never learned in my youth to control my heart, my sources of life were poisoned."

In like manner, though in a different way, the character of Mrs. Foote, the actor's mother, was curiously repeated in the life of her joyous, jovial-hearted son. Though she had been heiress to a large fortune, she soon spent it all, and was at length imprisoned for debt. In this condition she wrote to Sam, who had been allowing her a hundred a year out of the proceeds of his acting:-"Dear Sam, I am in prison for debt; come and assist your loving mother, E. Foote." To which her son characteristically replied—"Dear mother, so am I; which prevents his duty being paid to his loving mother by her affectionate son, Sam Foote."

Similarly, although in a different way, the life of Mrs. Foote, the actor's mother, mirrored the character of her cheerful, happy-hearted son. Even though she had inherited a large fortune, she quickly spent it all and eventually ended up in prison for debt. In this situation, she wrote to Sam, who had been sending her a hundred a year from his acting earnings: "Dear Sam, I am in prison for debt; come and help your loving mother, E. Foote." To which her son replied, characteristically, "Dear mother, so am I; which makes it impossible for me to fulfill my duty to my loving mother from your affectionate son, Sam Foote."

A foolish mother may also spoil a gifted son, by imbuing his mind with unsound sentiments. Thus Lamartine's mother is said to have trained him in altogether erroneous ideas of life, in the school of Rousseau and Bernardin de St.-Pierre, by which his sentimentalism, sufficiently strong by nature, was exaggerated instead of repressed: 1116 and he became the victim of tears, affectation, and improvidence, all his life long. It almost savours of the ridiculous to find Lamartine, in his 'Confidences,' representing himself as a "statue of Adolescence raised as a model for young men." 1117 As he was his mother's spoilt child, so he was the spoilt child of his country to the end, which was bitter and sad. Sainte-Beuve says of him: "He was the continual object of the richest gifts, which he had not the power of managing, scattering and wasting them—all, excepting, the gift of words, which seemed inexhaustible, and on which he continued to play to the end as on an enchanted flute." 1118

A foolish mother can also spoil a talented son by filling his mind with unhealthy ideas. Lamartine's mother is said to have taught him completely misguided views on life, drawing from Rousseau and Bernardin de St.-Pierre, which only exaggerated his natural sentimentalism instead of curbing it: 1116 and he became a lifelong victim of tears, pretentiousness, and carelessness. It's almost laughable to see Lamartine in his 'Confidences' depict himself as a "statue of Adolescence raised as a model for young men." 1117 As he was his mother's pampered child, he remained the pampered child of his country until the end, which was both bitter and sad. Sainte-Beuve remarked about him: "He was the constant recipient of lavish gifts, which he couldn't manage, wasting and squandering them—except for the gift of words, which seemed limitless, and on which he continued to play until the end like an enchanted flute." 1118

We have spoken of the mother of Washington as an excellent woman of business; and to possess such a quality as capacity for business is not only compatible with true womanliness, but is in a measure essential to the comfort and wellbeing of every properly-governed family. Habits of business do not relate to trade merely, but apply to all the practical affairs of life—to everything that has to be arranged, to be organised, to be provided for, to be done. And in all these respects the management of a family, and of a household, is as much a matter of business as the management of a shop or of a counting-house. It requires method, accuracy, organization, industry, economy, discipline, tact, knowledge, and capacity for adapting means to ends. All this is of the essence of business; and hence business habits are as necessary to be cultivated by women who would succeed in the affairs of home—in other words, who would make home happy—as by men in the affairs of trade, of commerce, or of manufacture.

We have talked about Washington's mother as an impressive businesswoman; having a skill for business isn’t just compatible with being a true woman, but it’s somewhat essential for the comfort and wellbeing of every properly managed family. Business skills aren’t limited to trade, but apply to all the practical aspects of life—everything that needs to be organized, coordinated, prepared for, or accomplished. In this sense, managing a family and household is just as much a business as running a store or an office. It takes method, precision, organization, hard work, frugality, discipline, insight, knowledge, and the ability to adapt resources to achieve goals. All of this is fundamental to business; therefore, developing business skills is just as important for women who want to thrive in home matters—in other words, who want to create a happy home—as it is for men in trade, commerce, or manufacturing.

The idea has, however, heretofore prevailed, that women have no concern with such matters, and that business habits and qualifications relate to men only. Take, for instance, the knowledge of figures. Mr. Bright has said of boys, "Teach a boy arithmetic thoroughly, and he is a made man." And why?—Because it teaches him method, accuracy, value, proportions, relations. But how many girls are taught arithmetic well?—Very few indeed. And what is the consequence?—When the girl becomes a wife, if she knows nothing of figures, and is innocent of addition and multiplication, she can keep no record of income and expenditure, and there will probably be a succession of mistakes committed which may be prolific in domestic contention. The woman, not being up to her business—that is, the management of her domestic affairs in conformity with the simple principles of arithmetic—will, through sheer ignorance, be apt to commit extravagances, though unintentional, which may be most injurious to her family peace and comfort.

The idea has, however, previously prevailed that women have no role in such matters, and that business skills and qualifications are only for men. Take, for example, the understanding of numbers. Mr. Bright has said about boys, "Teach a boy arithmetic thoroughly, and he is a made man." And why? Because it teaches him organization, precision, value, proportions, and relationships. But how many girls are actually taught arithmetic well? Very few, indeed. And what’s the result? When a girl becomes a wife, if she knows nothing about numbers and is unfamiliar with addition and multiplication, she won't be able to keep track of income and expenses, leading to a series of mistakes that can create domestic conflict. The woman, not being skilled in her responsibilities—that is, managing her household according to simple arithmetic principles—may unintentionally make extravagant choices that could be very harmful to her family's peace and comfort.

Method, which is the soul of business, is also of essential importance in the home. Work can only be got through by method. Muddle flies before it, and hugger-mugger becomes a thing unknown. Method demands punctuality, another eminently business quality. The unpunctual woman, like the unpunctual man, occasions dislike, because she consumes and wastes time, and provokes the reflection that we are not of sufficient importance to make her more prompt. To the business man, time is money; but to the business woman, method is more—it is peace, comfort, and domestic prosperity.

Method, which is the heart of business, is also crucial in the home. Work can only be accomplished through method. Chaos disappears in its presence, and disorder becomes a thing of the past. Method requires punctuality, another key quality in business. An unpunctual woman, like an unpunctual man, creates dislike because she wastes time and makes us feel unimportant, as she can't be more prompt. For the businessman, time is money; but for the businesswoman, method is even more—it represents peace, comfort, and domestic prosperity.

Prudence is another important business quality in women, as in men. Prudence is practical wisdom, and comes of the cultivated judgment. It has reference in all things to fitness, to propriety; judging wisely of the right thing to be done, and the right way of doing it. It calculates the means, order, time, and method of doing. Prudence learns from experience, quickened by knowledge.

Prudence is another important quality for women in business, just as it is for men. Prudence is practical wisdom that comes from developed judgment. It relates to everything concerning suitability and appropriateness; it involves wisely assessing the right actions and the best ways to carry them out. It considers the means, order, timing, and method of execution. Prudence is shaped by experience and enhanced by knowledge.

For these, amongst other reasons, habits of business are necessary to be cultivated by all women, in order to their being efficient helpers in the world's daily life and work. Furthermore, to direct the power of the home aright, women, as the nurses, trainers, and educators of children, need all the help and strength that mental culture can give them.

For these and other reasons, it's important for all women to develop good business habits so they can be effective contributors to everyday life and work. Additionally, to properly guide the influence of the home, women, as caregivers, mentors, and educators of children, need all the support and strength that education can provide.

Mere instinctive love is not sufficient. Instinct, which preserves the lower creatures, needs no training; but human intelligence, which is in constant request in a family, needs to be educated. The physical health of the rising generation is entrusted to woman by Providence; and it is in the physical nature that the moral and mental nature lies enshrined. It is only by acting in accordance with the natural laws, which before she can follow woman must needs understand, that the blessings of health of body, and health of mind and morals, can be secured at home. Without a knowledge of such laws, the mother's love too often finds its recompence only in a child's coffin. 1119

Simply having instinctual love isn't enough. Instinct, which helps lower animals survive, doesn't require any training; however, human intelligence, which is constantly needed in a family, must be developed. The responsibility for the physical health of the next generation is entrusted to women by Providence, and within physical well-being lies the foundation for moral and mental health. Only by understanding and following natural laws can a woman ensure that her family enjoys both physical and mental well-being at home. Without knowledge of these laws, a mother's love often leads to tragic outcomes, like the loss of a child. 1119

It is a mere truism to say that the intellect with which woman as well as man is endowed, has been given for use and exercise, and not "to fust in her unused." Such endowments are never conferred without a purpose. The Creator may be lavish in His gifts, but he is never wasteful.

It's a simple truth that the intellect given to both women and men is meant to be used and exercised, not to gather dust unused. These abilities are never given without a reason. The Creator may be generous with His gifts, but He is never wasteful.

Woman was not meant to be either an unthinking drudge, or the merely pretty ornament of man's leisure. She exists for herself, as well as for others; and the serious and responsible duties she is called upon to perform in life, require the cultivated head as well as the sympathising heart. Her highest mission is not to be fulfilled by the mastery of fleeting accomplishments, on which so much useful time is now wasted; for, though accomplishments may enhance the charms of youth and beauty, of themselves sufficiently charming, they will be found of very little use in the affairs of real life.

Woman is not meant to be a mindless worker or just a pretty decoration in man's life. She exists for herself as well as for others, and the serious and responsible roles she takes on in life require both a knowledgeable mind and a compassionate heart. Her true purpose isn’t just about mastering temporary skills that waste so much valuable time; while these skills may enhance the appeal of youth and beauty, which are already naturally attractive, they will prove to be of little value in the realities of everyday life.

The highest praise which the ancient Romans could express of a noble matron was that she sat at home and span—"DOMUM MANSIT, LANAM FECIT." In our own time, it has been said that chemistry enough to keep the pot boiling, and geography enough to know the different rooms in her house, was science enough for any woman; whilst Byron, whose sympathies for woman were of a very imperfect kind, professed that he would limit her library to a Bible and a cookery-book. But this view of woman's character and culture is as absurdly narrow and unintelligent, on the one hand, as the opposite view, now so much in vogue, is extravagant and unnatural on the other—that woman ought to be educated so as to be as much as possible the equal of man; undistinguishable from him, except in sex; equal to him in rights and votes; and his competitor in all that makes life a fierce and selfish struggle for place and power and money.

The greatest compliment the ancient Romans could give to a noble woman was that she stayed home and spun—"DOMUM MANSIT, LANAM FECIT." Nowadays, people say that having enough cooking skills to keep dinner on the table and knowing how to navigate the different rooms in her house is all the education a woman needs. Meanwhile, Byron, who didn’t have a very high opinion of women, claimed that a woman’s library should only include a Bible and a cookbook. However, this perspective on a woman's role and education is just as absurdly limited and ignorant as the opposite view that’s currently so popular—that women should be educated to be as equal as possible to men; indistinguishable from men except for their gender; equal in rights and voting; and competing with men in everything that turns life into a brutal and selfish fight for status, power, and money.

Speaking generally, the training and discipline that are most suitable for the one sex in early life, are also the most suitable for the other; and the education and culture that fill the mind of the man will prove equally wholesome for the woman. Indeed, all the arguments which have yet been advanced in favour of the higher education of men, plead equally strongly in favour of the higher education of women. In all the departments of home, intelligence will add to woman's usefulness and efficiency. It will give her thought and forethought, enable her to anticipate and provide for the contingencies of life, suggest improved methods of management, and give her strength in every way. In disciplined mental power she will find a stronger and safer protection against deception and imposture than in mere innocent and unsuspecting ignorance; in moral and religious culture she will secure sources of influence more powerful and enduring than in physical attractions; and in due self-reliance and self-dependence she will discover the truest sources of domestic comfort and happiness.

Generally speaking, the training and discipline that are best for one gender in early life are also the best for the other; the education and culture that enrich a man's mind will also benefit a woman's. In fact, all the arguments made in favor of higher education for men also strongly support higher education for women. In every aspect of home life, intelligence will enhance a woman's usefulness and efficiency. It will provide her with insight and foresight, help her anticipate and prepare for life's challenges, suggest better management methods, and strengthen her in all aspects. With developed mental abilities, she will have a stronger and safer defense against deception and fraud than in simple innocence and ignorance; through moral and religious education, she will gain sources of influence that are more powerful and lasting than mere physical appeal; and in developing self-reliance and independence, she will find the true sources of comfort and happiness at home.

But while the mind and character of women ought to be cultivated with a view to their own wellbeing, they ought not the less to be educated liberally with a view to the happiness of others. Men themselves cannot be sound in mind or morals if women be the reverse; and if, as we hold to be the case, the moral condition of a people mainly depends upon the education of the home, then the education of women is to be regarded as a matter of national importance. Not only does the moral character but the mental strength of man find their best safeguard and support in the moral purity and mental cultivation of woman; but the more completely the powers of both are developed, the more harmonious and well-ordered will society be—the more safe and certain its elevation and advancement.

But while women's minds and characters should be developed for their own well-being, they should also receive a broad education to promote the happiness of others. Men cannot be mentally or morally sound if women are not; and if we believe, as we do, that the moral condition of a society mainly relies on home education, then educating women is crucial for the nation. The moral character and mental strength of men find their best protection and support in the moral purity and mental development of women; and the more fully the abilities of both are cultivated, the more harmonious and well-organized society will be—the safer and more certain its progress and advancement.

When about fifty years since, the first Napoleon said that the great want of France was mothers, he meant, in other words, that the French people needed the education of homes, provided over by good, virtuous, intelligent women. Indeed, the first French Revolution presented one of the most striking illustrations of the social mischiefs resulting from a neglect of the purifying influence of women. When that great national outbreak occurred, society was impenetrated with vice and profligacy. Morals, religion, virtue, were swamped by sensualism. The character of woman had become depraved. Conjugal fidelity was disregarded; maternity was held in reproach; family and home were alike corrupted. Domestic purity no longer bound society together. France was motherless; the children broke loose; and the Revolution burst forth, "amidst the yells and the fierce violence of women." 1120

When about fifty years ago, the first Napoleon said that what France really needed was mothers, he was basically saying that the French people required nurturing homes run by good, virtuous, and intelligent women. In fact, the first French Revolution highlighted the serious social problems that can arise when the positive influence of women is overlooked. At the time of that major national upheaval, society was overwhelmed by vice and immorality. Morals, religion, and virtue were drowned out by hedonism. The character of women had become corrupted. Marital fidelity was ignored; motherhood was looked down upon; family and home life were both in decline. Domestic purity no longer held society together. France was motherless; children ran wild, and the Revolution erupted amid the chaos and fierce energy of women. 1120

But the terrible lesson was disregarded, and again and again France has grievously suffered from the want of that discipline, obedience, self-control, and self-respect which can only be truly learnt at home. It is said that the Third Napoleon attributed the recent powerlessness of France, which left her helpless and bleeding at the feet of her conquerors, to the frivolity and lack of principle of the people, as well as to their love of pleasure—which, however, it must be confessed, he himself did not a little to foster. It would thus seem that the discipline which France still needs to learn, if she would be good and great, is that indicated by the First Napoleon—home education by good mothers.

But the harsh lesson was ignored, and time and time again, France has suffered greatly from the lack of discipline, obedience, self-control, and self-respect that can only be truly learned at home. It's said that the Third Napoleon blamed France’s recent helplessness—leaving her vulnerable and bleeding at the feet of her conquerors—on the frivolity and lack of principles of the people, as well as their love for pleasure—which, it must be acknowledged, he himself did quite a bit to encourage. It seems that the discipline France still needs to learn, if she wants to be both good and great, is the kind emphasized by the First Napoleon—home education by devoted mothers.

The influence of woman is the same everywhere. Her condition influences the morals, manners, and character of the people in all countries. Where she is debased, society is debased; where she is morally pure and enlightened, society will be proportionately elevated.

The influence of women is the same all over the world. Their status affects the morals, manners, and character of people in every country. Where women are degraded, society is degraded; where they are morally upright and educated, society will be correspondingly uplifted.

Hence, to instruct woman is to instruct man; to elevate her character is to raise his own; to enlarge her mental freedom is to extend and secure that of the whole community. For Nations are but the outcomes of Homes, and Peoples of Mothers.

Therefore, teaching women is the same as teaching men; uplifting her character lifts his as well; expanding her mental freedom expands and secures that of the entire community. Nations are simply the results of homes, and people come from mothers.

But while it is certain that the character of a nation will be elevated by the enlightenment and refinement of woman, it is much more than doubtful whether any advantage is to be derived from her entering into competition with man in the rough work of business and polities. Women can no more do men's special work in the world than men can do women's. And wherever woman has been withdrawn from her home and family to enter upon other work, the result has been socially disastrous. Indeed, the efforts of some of the best philanthropists have of late years been devoted to withdrawing women from toiling alongside of men in coalpits, factories, nailshops, and brickyards.

But while it's clear that a nation's character improves with the education and refinement of women, it's very questionable whether there's any real benefit to her competing with men in the tough fields of business and politics. Women can't perform men's specific roles in society any more than men can take on women's roles. And wherever women have left their homes and families to take on other jobs, the social consequences have been disastrous. In fact, some of the most dedicated philanthropists in recent years have focused on getting women out of hard labor alongside men in coal mines, factories, nail shops, and brickyards.

It is still not uncommon in the North for the husbands to be idle at home, while the mothers and daughters are working in the factory; the result being, in many cases, an entire subversion of family order, of domestic discipline, and of home rule. 1121 And for many years past, in Paris, that state of things has been reached which some women desire to effect amongst ourselves. The women there mainly attend to business—serving the BOUTIQUE, or presiding at the COMPTOIR—while the men lounge about the Boulevards. But the result has only been homelessness, degeneracy, and family and social decay.

It's still not uncommon in the North for husbands to hang around at home while mothers and daughters work in the factories; the result is often a complete breakdown of family structure, domestic discipline, and home authority. 1121 For many years in Paris, that situation has developed which some women aim to create here. Women primarily handle business—working at the BOUTIQUE or managing the COMPTOIR—while men relax around the Boulevards. But this has only led to homelessness, decline, and a degradation of family and social life.

Nor is there any reason to believe that the elevation and improvement of women are to be secured by investing them with political power. There are, however, in these days, many believers in the potentiality of "votes," 1122 who anticipate some indefinite good from the "enfranchisement" of women. It is not necessary here to enter upon the discussion of this question. But it may be sufficient to state that the power which women do not possess politically is far more than compensated by that which they exercise in private life—by their training in the home those who, whether as men or as women, do all the manly as well as womanly work of the world. The Radical Bentham has said that man, even if he would, cannot keep power from woman; for that she already governs the world "with the whole power of a despot," 1123 though the power that she mainly governs by is love. And to form the character of the whole human race, is certainly a power far greater than that which women could ever hope to exercise as voters for members of Parliament, or even as lawmakers.

There's no reason to think that raising the status of women will come from giving them political power. Nowadays, though, there are many who believe in the potential of "votes," 1122 expecting some vague benefits from giving women the right to vote. We don't need to dive into this debate right now. It’s enough to say that the political power women lack is more than balanced by the influence they hold in private life—shaping those who, whether men or women, do all the tough and nurturing work in the world. The Radical Bentham has said that man, even if he wanted to, can't prevent women from holding power; they already run the world "with the whole power of a despot," 1123 though their main influence is love. And shaping the character of the entire human race is definitely a power much greater than anything women could ever hope to wield as voters for Parliament members or even as lawmakers.

There is, however, one special department of woman's work demanding the earnest attention of all true female reformers, though it is one which has hitherto been unaccountably neglected. We mean the better economizing and preparation of human food, the waste of which at present, for want of the most ordinary culinary knowledge, is little short of scandalous. If that man is to be regarded as a benefactor of his species who makes two stalks of corn to grow where only one grew before, not less is she to be regarded as a public benefactor who economizes and turns to the best practical account the food-products of human skill and labour. The improved use of even our existing supply would be equivalent to an immediate extension of the cultivable acreage of our country—not to speak of the increase in health, economy, and domestic comfort. Were our female reformers only to turn their energies in this direction with effect, they would earn the gratitude of all households, and be esteemed as among the greatest of practical philanthropists.

There is, however, one important area of women's work that requires the serious attention of all genuine female reformers, although it has been inexplicably overlooked until now. We're talking about better management and preparation of human food, the waste of which today, due to a lack of basic cooking knowledge, is truly outrageous. If a man is considered a benefit to humanity by making two stalks of corn grow where only one grew before, then a woman should also be seen as a public benefactor when she efficiently uses and maximizes the food products of human skill and labor. Improving how we use our existing supply would be like instantly increasing the arable land in our country—not to mention the benefits to health, savings, and home comfort. If our female reformers would focus their efforts in this direction effectively, they would gain the gratitude of all households and be honored as some of the greatest practical philanthropists.





CHAPTER III.—COMPANIONSHIP AND EXAMPLES

    "Keep good company, and you shall be of the number."
                                 — GEORGE HERBERT.

    "For mine own part,
    I Shall be glad to learn of noble men."—SHAKSPEARE

    "Examples preach to th' eye—Care then, mine says,
    Not how you end but how you spend your days."
                  HENRY MARTEN—'LAST THOUGHTS.'

     "Dis moi qui t'admire, et je dirai qui tu es."—SAINTE-BEUVE

     "He that means to be a good limner will be sure to draw
     after the most excellent copies and guide every stroke of
     his pencil by the better pattern that lays before him; so he
     that desires that the table of his life may be fair, will be
     careful to propose the best examples, and will never be
     content till he equals or excels them."—OWEN FELTHAM
    "Surround yourself with good people, and you'll become one of them."
                                 — GEORGE HERBERT.

    "As for me, 
    I’ll be happy to learn from noble men."—SHAKESPEARE

    "Examples speak to the eye—So be careful, mine says, 
    It's not about how you end but how you spend your days."
                  HENRY MARTEN—'LAST THOUGHTS.'

     "Tell me who admires you, and I'll tell you who you are."—SAINTE-BEUVE

     "Someone who wants to be a skilled artist will definitely copy the best examples and will guide each stroke of their pencil by the best model they have; similarly, anyone who wants their life to be well-lived will carefully choose the best examples and will never be satisfied until they match or surpass them."—OWEN FELTHAM

The natural education of the Home is prolonged far into life—indeed, it never entirely ceases. But the time arrives, in the progress of years, when the Home ceases to exercise an exclusive influence on the formation of character; and it is succeeded by the more artificial education of the school and the companionship of friends and comrades, which continue to mould the character by the powerful influence of example.

The natural education that comes from home lasts throughout life—really, it never fully stops. However, as the years go by, there comes a time when home no longer has a dominant impact on shaping character; it is replaced by the more formal education of school and the company of friends and peers, which continue to shape character through the strong influence of example.

Men, young and old—but the young more than the old—cannot help imitating those with whom they associate. It was a saying of George Herbert's mother, intended for the guidance of her sons, "that as our bodies take a nourishment suitable to the meat on which we feed, so do our souls as insensibly take in virtue or vice by the example or conversation of good or bad company."

Men, both young and old—but especially the young—can’t help but imitate the people they spend time with. George Herbert's mother once said, to guide her sons, "just as our bodies absorb nutrients from the food we eat, our souls unknowingly absorb virtue or vice from the examples and conversations of those in good or bad company."

Indeed, it is impossible that association with those about us should not produce a powerful influence in the formation of character. For men are by nature imitators, and all persons are more or less impressed by the speech, the manners, the gait, the gestures, and the very habits of thinking of their companions. "Is example nothing?" said Burke. "It is everything. Example is the school of mankind, and they will learn at no other." Burke's grand motto, which he wrote for the tablet of the Marquis of Rockingham, is worth repeating: it was, "Remember—resemble—persevere."

Indeed, it's impossible for our association with those around us not to have a strong impact on shaping our character. People are naturally imitators, and everyone is influenced to some degree by the speech, behavior, walk, gestures, and even the thought patterns of their companions. "Is example nothing?" Burke asked. "It's everything. Example is the school of humanity, and they won't learn anywhere else." Burke's powerful motto, which he wrote for the tablet of the Marquis of Rockingham, is worth repeating: "Remember—resemble—persevere."

Imitation is for the most part so unconscious that its effects are almost unheeded, but its influence is not the less permanent on that account. It is only when an impressive nature is placed in contact with an impressionable one, that the alteration in the character becomes recognisable. Yet even the weakest natures exercise some influence upon those about them. The approximation of feeling, thought, and habit is constant, and the action of example unceasing.

Imitation is mostly so automatic that its effects often go unnoticed, but that doesn’t mean its influence isn’t lasting. It’s only when a strong personality interacts with a more impressionable one that the changes in character become noticeable. However, even the most passive individuals can have some impact on those around them. The blending of feelings, thoughts, and habits is always happening, and the influence of example is relentless.

Emerson has observed that even old couples, or persons who have been housemates for a course of years, grow gradually like each other; so that, if they were to live long enough, we should scarcely be able to know them apart. But if this be true of the old, how much more true is it of the young, whose plastic natures are so much more soft and impressionable, and ready to take the stamp of the life and conversation of those about them!

Emerson has noted that even older couples or people who have lived together for many years gradually start to resemble each other, so much so that if they lived together long enough, we would barely be able to tell them apart. But if this is true for the older generation, how much more so for the young, whose flexible personalities are so much more malleable and impressionable, ready to take on the traits of the lives and conversations of those around them!

"There has been," observed Sir Charles Bell in one of his letters, "a good deal said about education, but they appear to me to put out of sight EXAMPLE, which is all-in-all. My best education was the example set me by my brothers. There was, in all the members of the family, a reliance on self, a true independence, and by imitation I obtained it." 121

"There has been," noted Sir Charles Bell in one of his letters, "a lot of discussion about education, but it seems to me that they overlook EXAMPLE, which is everything. My best education came from the example set by my brothers. In every family member, there was a reliance on themselves, a real independence, and I gained that through imitation." 121

It is in the nature of things that the circumstances which contribute to form the character, should exercise their principal influence during the period of growth. As years advance, example and imitation become custom, and gradually consolidate into habit, which is of so much potency that, almost before we know it, we have in a measure yielded up to it our personal freedom.

It's just how things are that the situations that help shape our character have the biggest impact while we're growing up. As we get older, what we see and copy turns into routine, eventually forming habits that are so powerful that, almost without realizing it, we've given up some of our personal freedom to them.

It is related of Plato, that on one occasion he reproved a boy for playing at some foolish game. "Thou reprovest me," said the boy, "for a very little thing." "But custom," replied Plato, "is not a little thing." Bad custom, consolidated into habit, is such a tyrant that men sometimes cling to vices even while they curse them. They have become the slaves of habits whose power they are impotent to resist. Hence Locke has said that to create and maintain that vigour of mind which is able to contest the empire of habit, may be regarded as one of the chief ends of moral discipline.

It’s said that Plato once scolded a boy for playing a silly game. “You’re criticizing me for something so trivial,” the boy replied. “But habits,” Plato responded, “are not trivial.” Bad habits, ingrained into behavior, are such tyrants that people often hold onto their vices even while they condemn them. They become slaves to habits that they feel powerless to fight against. Therefore, Locke stated that developing and maintaining the mental strength to challenge the power of habits can be seen as one of the main goals of moral education.

Though much of the education of character by example is spontaneous and unconscious, the young need not necessarily be the passive followers or imitators of those about them. Their own conduct, far more than the conduct of their companions, tends to fix the purpose and form the principles of their life. Each possesses in himself a power of will and of free activity, which, if courageously exercised, will enable him to make his own individual selection of friends and associates. It is only through weakness of purpose that young people, as well as old, become the slaves of their inclinations, or give themselves up to a servile imitation of others.

Although much of character education through example happens naturally and unconsciously, young people don't have to be passive followers or imitators of those around them. Their own behavior, much more than that of their peers, tends to shape their goals and principles in life. Each person has a will and the ability to act freely, which, if used boldly, allows them to choose their own friends and associates. It's only due to a lack of determination that both young and old become slaves to their impulses or give in to blindly copying others.

It is a common saying that men are known by the company they keep. The sober do not naturally associate with the drunken, the refined with the coarse, the decent with the dissolute. To associate with depraved persons argues a low taste and vicious tendencies, and to frequent their society leads to inevitable degradation of character. "The conversation of such persons," says Seneca, "is very injurious; for even if it does no immediate harm, it leaves its seeds in the mind, and follows us when we have gone from the speakers—a plague sure to spring up in future resurrection."

It's a common saying that you can tell a lot about a person by their friends. The sober don't usually hang out with the drunk, the refined don't mix with the rude, and decent people avoid the dissolute. Associating with morally corrupt individuals shows poor judgment and bad tendencies, and spending time with them leads to a decline in character. "The conversations with such people," says Seneca, "are very harmful; even if they don't cause immediate damage, they plant seeds in the mind that linger after we've left the speakers—a plague likely to resurface later."

If young men are wisely influenced and directed, and conscientiously exert their own free energies, they will seek the society of those better than themselves, and strive to imitate their example. In companionship with the good, growing natures will always find their best nourishment; while companionship with the bad will only be fruitful in mischief. There are persons whom to know is to love, honour, and admire; and others whom to know is to shun and despise,—"DONT LE SAVOIR N'EST QUE BETERIE," as says Rabelais when speaking of the education of Gargantua. Live with persons of elevated characters, and you will feel lifted and lighted up in them: "Live with wolves," says the Spanish proverb, "and you will learn to howl."

If young men are guided well and put in the effort, they will seek the company of people who are better than they are and try to follow their example. Being around good people will always provide the best growth, while being around bad influences will only lead to trouble. There are people who, once you know them, you can't help but love, respect, and admire; and then there are those you want to avoid and look down upon. As Rabelais says when talking about Gargantua's education, "Not knowing them is just foolishness." Surround yourself with people of high character, and you'll feel inspired and uplifted by them. As the Spanish proverb goes, "If you live with wolves, you'll learn to howl."

Intercourse with even commonplace, selfish persons, may prove most injurious, by inducing a dry, dull reserved, and selfish condition of mind, more or less inimical to true manliness and breadth of character. The mind soon learns to run in small grooves, the heart grows narrow and contracted, and the moral nature becomes weak, irresolute, and accommodating, which is fatal to all generous ambition or real excellence.

Interacting with even ordinary, selfish people can be quite damaging, leading to a dry, dull, reserved, and selfish mindset that is less conducive to true manliness and a well-rounded character. The mind quickly gets stuck in narrow patterns, the heart becomes small and limited, and the moral compass weakens, becoming uncertain and overly accommodating, which undermines any aspirations for generosity or genuine excellence.

On the other hand, association with persons wiser, better, and more experienced than ourselves, is always more or less inspiring and invigorating. They enhance our own knowledge of life. We correct our estimates by theirs, and become partners in their wisdom. We enlarge our field of observation through their eyes, profit by their experience, and learn not only from what they have enjoyed, but—which is still more instructive—from what they have suffered. If they are stronger than ourselves, we become participators in their strength. Hence companionship with the wise and energetic never fails to have a most valuable influence on the formation of character—increasing our resources, strengthening our resolves, elevating our aims, and enabling us to exercise greater dexterity and ability in our own affairs, as well as more effective helpfulness of others.

On the other hand, being around people who are smarter, better, and more experienced than we are is always somewhat inspiring and uplifting. They expand our understanding of life. We adjust our opinions by considering theirs and share in their wisdom. We broaden our perspective through their insights, benefit from their experiences, and learn not just from their joys but—more importantly—from their struggles. If they are stronger than we are, we share in their strength. Therefore, spending time with wise and energetic people always has a valuable impact on our character, increasing our resources, reinforcing our determination, raising our aspirations, and allowing us to be more skilled and capable in our own lives, as well as more effectively supportive of others.

"I have often deeply regretted in myself," says Mrs. Schimmelpenninck, "the great loss I have experienced from the solitude of my early habits. We need no worse companion than our unregenerate selves, and, by living alone, a person not only becomes wholly ignorant of the means of helping his fellow-creatures, but is without the perception of those wants which most need help. Association with others, when not on so large a scale as to make hours of retirement impossible, may be considered as furnishing to an individual a rich multiplied experience; and sympathy so drawn forth, though, unlike charity, it begins abroad, never fails to bring back rich treasures home. Association with others is useful also in strengthening the character, and in enabling us, while we never lose sight of our main object, to thread our way wisely and well."

"I have often regretted," says Mrs. Schimmelpenninck, "the significant loss I've faced due to the isolation of my early habits. There's no worse companion than our unrefined selves, and by living alone, a person becomes completely unaware of how to help others and lacks the understanding of the needs that require assistance. Interacting with others, as long as it doesn’t take away too much time for solitude, can provide an individual with a wealth of different experiences; and the empathy that arises from these interactions, even though it starts externally, always manages to bring valuable insights back home. Connecting with others also helps strengthen our character, allowing us to keep our main goal in view while navigating our path wisely and effectively."

An entirely new direction may be given to the life of a young man by a happy suggestion, a timely hint, or the kindly advice of an honest friend. Thus the life of Henry Martyn the Indian missionary, seems to have been singularly influenced by a friendship which he formed, when a boy, at Truro Grammar School. Martyn himself was of feeble frame, and of a delicate nervous temperament. Wanting in animal spirits, he took but little pleasure in school sports; and being of a somewhat petulant temper, the bigger boys took pleasure in provoking him, and some of them in bullying him. One of the bigger boys, however, conceiving a friendship for Martyn, took him under his protection, stood between him and his persecutors, and not only fought his battles for him, but helped him with his lessons. Though Martyn was rather a backward pupil, his father was desirous that he should have the advantage of a college education, and at the age of about fifteen he sent him to Oxford to try for a Corpus scholarship, in which he failed. He remained for two years more at the Truro Grammar School, and then went to Cambridge, where he was entered at St. John's College. Who should he find already settled there as a student but his old champion of the Truro Grammar School? Their friendship was renewed; and the elder student from that time forward acted as the Mentor, of the younger one. Martyn was fitful in his studies, excitable and petulant, and occasionally subject to fits of almost uncontrollable rage. His big friend, on the other hand, was a steady, patient, hardworking fellow; and he never ceased to watch over, to guide, and to advise for good his irritable fellow-student. He kept Martyn out of the way of evil company, advised him to work hard, "not for the praise of men, but for the glory of God;" and so successfully assisted him in his studies, that at the following Christmas examination he was the first of his year. Yet Martyn's kind friend and Mentor never achieved any distinction himself; he passed away into obscurity, leading, most probably, a useful though an unknown career; his greatest wish in life having been to shape the character of his friend, to inspire his soul with the love of truth, and to prepare him for the noble work, on which he shortly after entered, of an Indian missionary.

A young man's life can completely change thanks to a positive suggestion, a well-timed hint, or the friendly advice of a trustworthy friend. This seems to be the case for Henry Martyn, the Indian missionary, whose life was significantly shaped by a friendship he formed as a boy at Truro Grammar School. Martyn was small and had a sensitive, nervous disposition. Lacking in energy, he didn’t enjoy school sports much; and with a somewhat irritable temperament, the older boys enjoyed provoking him and sometimes bullying him. However, one older boy took a liking to Martyn, protected him from his bullies, fought his battles, and even helped him with his lessons. Although Martyn struggled academically, his father wanted him to have the opportunity for a college education. So, around the age of fifteen, he sent Martyn to Oxford to compete for a Corpus scholarship, but he didn’t succeed. Martyn stayed at Truro Grammar School for two more years before moving on to Cambridge, where he enrolled at St. John's College. To his surprise, he found his old protector from Truro there as a student. Their friendship was rekindled, and the older student became a mentor to the younger one. Martyn was inconsistent in his studies, often excitable and irritable, and occasionally prone to nearly uncontrollable anger. In contrast, his larger friend was steady, patient, and hardworking, and he continually looked out for, guided, and positively influenced his moody classmate. He kept Martyn away from bad influences, encouraged him to work hard “not for the praise of men, but for the glory of God,” and helped him so effectively with his studies that Martyn ranked first in his year during the following Christmas exam. Yet, his kind friend and mentor never gained any recognition himself; he faded into obscurity, likely leading a valuable but unacknowledged life. His greatest wish was to shape Martyn's character, inspire his love for truth, and prepare him for the noble call he soon answered as an Indian missionary.

A somewhat similar incident is said to have occurred in the college career of Dr. Paley. When a student at Christ's College Cambridge, he was distinguished for his shrewdness as well as his clumsiness, and he was at the same time the favourite and the butt of his companions. Though his natural abilities were great, he was thoughtless, idle, and a spendthrift; and at the commencement of his third year he had made comparatively little progress. After one of his usual night-dissipations, a friend stood by his bedside on the following morning. "Paley," said he, "I have not been able to sleep for thinking about you. I have been thinking what a fool you are! I have the means of dissipation, and can afford to be idle: YOU are poor, and cannot afford it. I could do nothing, probably, even were I to try: YOU are capable of doing anything. I have lain awake all night thinking about your folly, and I have now come solemnly to warn you. Indeed, if you persist in your indolence, and go on in this way, I must renounce your society altogether!"

A similar incident is said to have happened during Dr. Paley's time in college. While studying at Christ's College Cambridge, he was known for both his cleverness and his awkwardness, becoming both a favorite and the target of his friends. Despite his great natural talent, he was careless, lazy, and a spender; by the start of his third year, he had made only limited progress. After one of his usual late-night outings, a friend stood by his bedside the next morning. "Paley," he said, "I couldn’t sleep last night thinking about you. I’ve been thinking about how foolish you are! I can party and take it easy because I have the resources; YOU are struggling and can’t afford to be like this. I probably couldn’t do anything even if I tried: YOU have the ability to do anything. I stayed awake all night worrying about your foolishness, and I’ve come to honestly warn you. If you keep being lazy and go on like this, I will have to cut off our friendship!"

It is said that Paley was so powerfully affected by this admonition, that from that moment he became an altered man. He formed an entirely new plan of life, and diligently persevered in it. He became one of the most industrious of students. One by one he distanced his competitors, and at the end of the year he came out Senior Wrangler. What he afterwards accomplished as an author and a divine is sufficiently well known.

It is said that Paley was so deeply moved by this advice that from that moment on, he became a changed man. He created a completely new life plan and worked hard to stick to it. He became one of the most dedicated students. One by one, he surpassed his competitors, and by the end of the year, he was named Senior Wrangler. What he later achieved as an author and a theologian is well known.

No one recognised more fully the influence of personal example on the young than did Dr. Arnold. It was the great lever with which he worked in striving to elevate the character of his school. He made it his principal object, first to put a right spirit into the leading boys, by attracting their good and noble feelings; and then to make them instrumental in propagating the same spirit among the rest, by the influence of imitation, example, and admiration. He endeavoured to make all feel that they were fellow-workers with himself, and sharers with him in the moral responsibility for the good government of the place. One of the first effects of this highminded system of management was, that it inspired the boys with strength and self-respect. They felt that they were trusted. There were, of course, MAUVAIS SUJETS at Rugby, as there are at all schools; and these it was the master's duty to watch, to prevent their bad example contaminating others. On one occasion he said to an assistant-master: "Do you see those two boys walking together? I never saw them together before. You should make an especial point of observing the company they keep: nothing so tells the changes in a boy's character."

No one understood the impact of personal example on the young better than Dr. Arnold. It was the main tool he used to improve the character of his school. His primary goal was to instill a positive spirit in the leading boys by appealing to their good and noble feelings, and then to encourage them to spread that same spirit among others through imitation, example, and admiration. He aimed to make everyone feel like they were working alongside him and sharing in the moral responsibility for the proper management of the school. One of the first results of this principled approach was that it filled the boys with strength and self-respect. They felt trusted. Of course, there were troubled students at Rugby, just like at all schools; it was the master's responsibility to keep an eye on them to prevent their negative example from influencing others. On one occasion, he said to an assistant master: "Do you see those two boys walking together? I've never seen them together before. You should pay special attention to the company they keep: nothing reveals changes in a boy's character quite like that."

Dr. Arnold's own example was an inspiration, as is that of every great teacher. In his presence, young men learned to respect themselves; and out of the root of self-respect there grew up the manly virtues. "His very presence," says his biographer, "seemed to create a new spring of health and vigour within them, and to give to life an interest and elevation which remained with them long after they had left him; and dwelt so habitually in their thoughts as a living image, that, when death had taken him away, the bond appeared to be still unbroken, and the sense of separation almost lost in the still deeper sense of a life and a Union indestructible." 123 And thus it was that Dr. Arnold trained a host of manly and noble characters, who spread the influence of his example in all parts of the world.

Dr. Arnold's example was inspiring, just like that of every great teacher. In his presence, young men learned to respect themselves, and from that self-respect, true virtues developed. "His very presence," his biographer says, "seemed to generate a new sense of health and energy within them, giving life an interest and uplift that stayed with them long after they had left him; and it remained a constant thought in their minds, a living image, so that when death took him away, the connection felt unbroken, and the sense of loss was almost overshadowed by a deeper feeling of an indestructible life and bond." 123 And so, Dr. Arnold trained many strong and noble individuals, who spread his influence all around the world.

So also was it said of Dugald Stewart, that he breathed the love of virtue into whole generations of pupils. "To me," says the late Lord Cockburn, "his lectures were like the opening of the heavens. I felt that I had a soul. His noble views, unfolded in glorious sentences, elevated me into a higher world... They changed my whole nature." 124

So it was also said about Dugald Stewart that he inspired a love for virtue in entire generations of students. "To me," said the late Lord Cockburn, "his lectures felt like the dawn of a new understanding. I realized I had a soul. His grand ideas, expressed in beautiful language, lifted me to a higher level... They transformed my entire being." 124

Character tells in all conditions of life. The man of good character in a workshop will give the tone to his fellows, and elevate their entire aspirations. Thus Franklin, while a workman in London, is said to have reformed the manners of an entire workshop. So the man of bad character and debased energy will unconsciously lower and degrade his fellows. Captain John Brown—the "marching-on Brown"—once said to Emerson, that "for a settler in a new country, one good believing man is worth a hundred, nay, worth a thousand men without character." His example is so contagious, that all other men are directly and beneficially influenced by him, and he insensibly elevates and lifts them up to his own standard of energetic activity.

Character reveals itself in every situation. A person of good character in a workshop can inspire his coworkers and raise their ambitions. For instance, Franklin is said to have transformed the behavior of an entire workshop while he was working in London. Conversely, a person of poor character and negative energy can unintentionally bring down and degrade those around him. Captain John Brown—known as "marching-on Brown"—once told Emerson that "for a settler in a new country, one good, believing person is worth a hundred, even a thousand people without character." His example is so powerful that it positively influences everyone around him, lifting them up to his level of energetic effort.

Communication with the good is invariably productive of good. The good character is diffusive in his influence. "I was common clay till roses were planted in me," says some aromatic earth in the Eastern fable. Like begets like, and good makes good. "It is astonishing," says Canon Moseley, "how much good goodness makes. Nothing that is good is alone, nor anything bad; it makes others good or others bad—and that other, and so on: like a stone thrown into a pond, which makes circles that make other wider ones, and then others, till the last reaches the shore.... Almost all the good that is in the world has, I suppose, thus come down to us traditionally from remote times, and often unknown centres of good." 125 So Mr. Ruskin says, "That which is born of evil begets evil; and that which is born of valour and honour, teaches valour and honour."

Communication with good people always leads to good outcomes. A person of good character spreads their positive influence. "I was just ordinary until beautiful things were nurtured in me," says some fragrant earth in an Eastern fable. Like attracts like, and good creates more good. "It’s incredible," says Canon Moseley, "how much good comes from goodness. Nothing good exists in isolation, nor is anything bad; it influences others to be good or bad—and that effect continues onward: like a stone tossed into a pond, creating ripples that expand to larger circles, and then others, until the last one reaches the shore.... I believe nearly all the goodness in the world has been passed down to us over time, often from distant sources of good." 125 So, Mr. Ruskin states, "That which is born of evil produces evil; and that which is born of courage and honor teaches courage and honor."

Hence it is that the life of every man is a daily inculcation of good or bad example to others. The life of a good man is at the same time the most eloquent lesson of virtue and the most severe reproof of vice. Dr. Hooker described the life of a pious clergyman of his acquaintance as "visible rhetoric," convincing even the most godless of the beauty of goodness. And so the good George Herbert said, on entering upon the duties of his parish: "Above all, I will be sure to live well, because the virtuous life of a clergyman is the most powerful eloquence, to persuade all who see it to reverence and love, and—at least to desire to live like him. And this I will do," he added, "because I know we live in an age that hath more need of good examples than precepts." It was a fine saying of the same good priest, when reproached with doing an act of kindness to a poor man, considered beneath the dignity of his office,—that the thought of such actions "would prove music to him at midnight." 126 Izaak Walton speaks of a letter written by George Herbert to Bishop Andrewes, about a holy life, which the latter "put into his bosom," and after showing it to his scholars, "did always return it to the place where he first lodged it, and continued it so, near his heart, till the last day of his life."

Therefore, every person's life serves as a daily lesson in good or bad behavior for others. The life of a good person is not only the most powerful example of virtue but also the strongest condemnation of vice. Dr. Hooker described the life of a devout clergyman he knew as "visible rhetoric," convincing even the most irreligious people of the beauty of goodness. Similarly, George Herbert remarked upon taking on his parish duties: "Above all, I will make sure to live well because the virtuous life of a clergyman is the most convincing way to inspire everyone who sees it to respect and love, and—at least to want to live like him. And I will do this," he continued, "because I know we live in a time that needs good examples more than rules." It was a poignant statement from the same good priest when he was criticized for helping a poor man, considered beneath his position, saying that the thought of such actions "would be music to him at midnight." 126 Izaak Walton mentions a letter written by George Herbert to Bishop Andrewes about living a holy life, which the bishop "kept close to his heart," after sharing it with his students, and "always returned it to the place where it first rested, keeping it near his heart until the last day of his life."

Great is the power of goodness to charm and to command. The man inspired by it is the true king of men, drawing all hearts after him. When General Nicholson lay wounded on his deathbed before Delhi, he dictated this last message to his equally noble and gallant friend, Sir Herbert Edwardes:—"Tell him," said he, "I should have been a better man if I had continued to live with him, and our heavy public duties had not prevented my seeing more of him privately. I was always the better for a residence with him and his wife, however short. Give my love to them both!"

Great is the power of kindness to attract and inspire respect. The person influenced by it is the true leader, capturing everyone's hearts. When General Nicholson lay injured on his deathbed before Delhi, he dictated this final message to his equally noble and brave friend, Sir Herbert Edwardes:—"Tell him," he said, "I would have been a better man if I had lived longer with him, and our demanding public duties hadn't kept me from spending more time with him privately. I was always better off being around him and his wife, no matter how brief. Send my love to both of them!"

There are men in whose presence we feel as if we breathed a spiritual ozone, refreshing and invigorating, like inhaling mountain air, or enjoying a bath of sunshine. The power of Sir Thomas More's gentle nature was so great that it subdued the bad at the same time that it inspired the good. Lord Brooke said of his deceased friend, Sir Philip Sidney, that "his wit and understanding beat upon his heart, to make himself and others, not in word or opinion, but in life and action, good and great."

There are men whose presence makes us feel like we're breathing in a refreshing and energizing spiritual energy, much like the fresh mountain air or soaking up the sun. Sir Thomas More's gentle spirit was so powerful that it tamed negativity while uplifting positivity. Lord Brooke remarked about his late friend, Sir Philip Sidney, that "his wit and understanding influenced his heart, inspiring himself and others to be good and great, not just in words or thoughts, but in life and actions."

The very sight of a great and good man is often an inspiration to the young, who cannot help admiring and loving the gentle, the brave, the truthful, the magnanimous! Chateaubriand saw Washington only once, but it inspired him for life. After describing the interview, he says: "Washington sank into the tomb before any little celebrity had attached to my name. I passed before him as the most unknown of beings. He was in all his glory—I in the depth of my obscurity. My name probably dwelt not a whole day in his memory. Happy, however, was I that his looks were cast upon me. I have felt warmed for it all the rest of my life. There is a virtue even in the looks of a great man."

The sight of a truly great and good person often inspires young people, who can’t help but admire and love those who are gentle, brave, truthful, and generous! Chateaubriand saw Washington just once, but that moment stayed with him for life. After describing their meeting, he says: "Washington passed away before any little fame attached to my name. I stood before him as a complete nobody. He was in all his glory—I was in the depths of my obscurity. My name probably didn’t last more than a day in his memory. Still, I felt lucky that he looked at me. I have felt warmed by that moment for the rest of my life. There’s a certain power in the gaze of a great man."

When Niebuhr died, his friend, Frederick Perthes, said of him: "What a contemporary! The terror of all bad and base men, the stay of all the sterling and honest, the friend and helper of youth." Perthes said on another occasion: "It does a wrestling man good to be constantly surrounded by tried wrestlers; evil thoughts are put to flight when the eye falls on the portrait of one in whose living presence one would have blushed to own them." A Catholic money-lender, when about to cheat, was wont to draw a veil over the picture of his favourite saint. So Hazlitt has said of the portrait of a beautiful female, that it seemed as if an unhandsome action would be impossible in its presence. "It does one good to look upon his manly honest face," said a poor German woman, pointing to a portrait of the great Reformer hung upon the wall of her humble dwelling.

When Niebuhr passed away, his friend, Frederick Perthes, remarked: "What a contemporary! The fear of all wicked and lowly people, the support of all the decent and honest, the friend and helper of the young." Perthes mentioned on another occasion: "It really benefits a wrestler to be consistently surrounded by experienced wrestlers; evil thoughts disappear when you see the picture of someone whose presence would make you ashamed to admit them." A Catholic moneylender, when about to cheat, would cover the image of his favorite saint. Hazlitt noted about the portrait of a beautiful woman that it felt like doing something wrong would be impossible in her presence. "It feels good to look at his strong, honest face," said a poor German woman, pointing to a portrait of the great Reformer hanging on the wall of her modest home.

Even the portrait of a noble or a good man, hung up in a room, is companionship after a sort. It gives us a closer personal interest in him. Looking at the features, we feel as if we knew him better, and were more nearly related to him. It is a link that connects us with a higher and better nature than our own. And though we may be far from reaching the standard of our hero, we are, to a certain extent, sustained and fortified by his depicted presence constantly before us.

Even the portrait of a noble or good person, hanging in a room, offers a form of companionship. It creates a more personal connection with them. When we look at their features, we feel like we know them better and are more closely related to them. It's a link that connects us to a higher and better nature than our own. And even if we may never fully match our hero’s standard, we are, in some way, supported and strengthened by their image always being there in front of us.

Fox was proud to acknowledge how much he owed to the example and conversation of Burke. On one occasion he said of him, that "if he was to put all the political information he had gained from books, all that he had learned from science, or that the knowledge of the world and its affairs taught him, into one scale, and the improvement he had derived from Mr. Burke's conversation and instruction into the other, the latter would preponderate."

Fox was proud to recognize how much he owed to Burke's example and discussions. At one point, he remarked that "if he were to weigh all the political knowledge he had gained from books, everything he learned from science, or what the world's knowledge and its events taught him, against the insights he gained from Mr. Burke's conversations and guidance, the latter would outweigh them all."

Professor Tyndall speaks of Faraday's friendship as "energy and inspiration." After spending an evening with him he wrote: "His work excites admiration, but contact with him warms and elevates the heart. Here, surely, is a strong man. I love strength, but let me not forget the example of its union with modesty, tenderness, and sweetness, in the character of Faraday."

Professor Tyndall describes Faraday's friendship as "energy and inspiration." After spending an evening with him, he wrote: "His work inspires admiration, but being around him warms and uplifts the heart. Here, without a doubt, is a strong man. I admire strength, but I must also remember how it combines with modesty, kindness, and sweetness in Faraday's character."

Even the gentlest natures are powerful to influence the character of others for good. Thus Wordsworth seems to have been especially impressed by the character of his sister Dorothy, who exercised upon his mind and heart a lasting influence. He describes her as the blessing of his boyhood as well as of his manhood. Though two years younger than himself, her tenderness and sweetness contributed greatly to mould his nature, and open his mind to the influences of poetry:

Even the kindest people have a strong impact on others for the better. Wordsworth seemed particularly touched by his sister Dorothy, who had a lasting effect on his thoughts and feelings. He described her as a blessing in both his childhood and adulthood. Although she was two years younger than him, her kindness and gentle nature greatly shaped who he was and opened his mind to the world of poetry.

        "She gave me eyes, she gave me ears,
         And humble cares, and delicate fears;
         A heart, the fountain of sweet tears,
                 And love and thought and joy."
        "She gave me vision, she gave me hearing,  
         And humble worries, and tender anxieties;  
         A heart, the source of gentle tears,  
                 And love and reflection and happiness."

Thus the gentlest natures are enabled, by the power of affection and intelligence, to mould the characters of men destined to influence and elevate their race through all time.

So, the kindest people are able, through love and understanding, to shape the characters of those who are meant to inspire and uplift their community for generations.

Sir William Napier attributed the early direction of his character, first to the impress made upon it by his mother, when a boy; and afterwards to the noble example of his commander, Sir John Moore, when a man. Moore early detected the qualities of the young officer; and he was one of those to whom the General addressed the encouragement, "Well done, my majors!" at Corunna. Writing home to his mother, and describing the little court by which Moore was surrounded, he wrote, "Where shall we find such a king?" It was to his personal affection for his chief that the world is mainly indebted to Sir William Napier for his great book, 'The History of the Peninsular War.' But he was stimulated to write the book by the advice of another friend, the late Lord Langdale, while one day walking with him across the fields on which Belgravia is now built. "It was Lord Langdale," he says, "who first kindled the fire within me." And of Sir William Napier himself, his biographer truly says, that "no thinking person could ever come in contact with him without being strongly impressed with the genius of the man."

Sir William Napier credited the early shaping of his character first to the influence of his mother during his childhood and later to the inspiring example of his commander, Sir John Moore, as an adult. Moore recognized the young officer's qualities early on and was one of the ones the General encouraged with the words, "Well done, my majors!" at Corunna. In a letter to his mother, while describing the small circle around Moore, he wrote, "Where shall we find such a king?" The world owes much of Sir William Napier's great book, 'The History of the Peninsular War,' to his personal affection for his chief. However, he was also motivated to write the book by another friend, the late Lord Langdale, during a walk one day across the fields where Belgravia is now located. "It was Lord Langdale," he says, "who first ignited the passion within me." His biographer rightly notes that "no thoughtful person could ever meet him without being profoundly struck by the man's genius."

The career of the late Dr. Marshall Hall was a lifelong illustration of the influence of character in forming character. Many eminent men still living trace their success in life to his suggestions and assistance, without which several valuable lines of study and investigation might not have been entered on, at least at so early a period. He would say to young men about him, "Take up a subject and pursue it well, and you cannot fail to succeed." And often he would throw out a new idea to a young friend, saying, "I make you a present of it; there is fortune in it, if you pursue it with energy."

The career of the late Dr. Marshall Hall was a lifelong example of how character shapes character. Many successful people today credit their achievements to his guidance and support, without which several important areas of study and research might never have been explored, or at least not as early. He often told young men around him, "Choose a subject and study it thoroughly, and you can't help but succeed." He would frequently share a new idea with a young friend, saying, "I’m giving you this; there's great potential in it if you chase it with determination."

Energy of character has always a power to evoke energy in others. It acts through sympathy, one of the most influential of human agencies. The zealous energetic man unconsciously carries others along with him. His example is contagious, and compels imitation. He exercises a sort of electric power, which sends a thrill through every fibre—flows into the nature of those about him, and makes them give out sparks of fire.

The energy of a strong character has the ability to energize others. It works through empathy, one of the most powerful human forces. An enthusiastic and driven person naturally inspires others to join him. His example is infectious and encourages others to follow suit. He has a kind of electric influence that sends a jolt through everyone around him, igniting their own passions.

Dr. Arnold's biographer, speaking of the power of this kind exercised by him over young men, says: "It was not so much an enthusiastic admiration for true genius, or learning, or eloquence, which stirred within them; it was a sympathetic thrill, caught from a spirit that was earnestly at work in the world—whose work was healthy, sustained, and constantly carried forward in the fear of God—a work that was founded on a deep sense of its duty and its value." 127

Dr. Arnold's biographer, discussing the influence he had over young men, states: "It wasn't just a passionate admiration for true talent, knowledge, or oratory that inspired them; it was a relatable excitement, drawn from a spirit that was actively engaged in the world—whose efforts were healthy, persistent, and always driven by a sense of reverence for God—work that was built on a profound awareness of its responsibility and worth." 127

Such a power, exercised by men of genius, evokes courage, enthusiasm, and devotion. It is this intense admiration for individuals—such as one cannot conceive entertained for a multitude—which has in all times produced heroes and martyrs. It is thus that the mastery of character makes itself felt. It acts by inspiration, quickening and vivifying the natures subject to its influence.

Such a power, wielded by talented individuals, inspires courage, passion, and loyalty. It's this deep admiration for specific people—something unimaginable for a crowd—that has always created heroes and martyrs. This is how strong character leaves its mark. It works through inspiration, energizing and bringing to life those who are influenced by it.

Great minds are rich in radiating force, not only exerting power, but communicating and even creating it. Thus Dante raised and drew after him a host of great spirits—Petrarch, Boccacio, Tasso, and many more. From him Milton learnt to bear the stings of evil tongues and the contumely of evil days; and long years after, Byron, thinking of Dante under the pine-trees of Ravenna, was incited to attune his harp to loftier strains than he had ever attempted before. Dante inspired the greatest painters of Italy—Giotto, Orcagna, Michael Angelo, and Raphael. So Ariosto and Titian mutually inspired one another, and lighted up each other's glory.

Great minds have a powerful influence, not just in exercising their strength, but in sharing and even creating it. Dante, for instance, inspired a whole host of great thinkers—Petrarch, Boccaccio, Tasso, and many others. From him, Milton learned to endure the insults from critics and the hardships of difficult times; and many years later, Byron, reflecting on Dante beneath the pine trees of Ravenna, felt motivated to elevate his poetry to greater heights than ever before. Dante also inspired the greatest painters of Italy—Giotto, Orcagna, Michelangelo, and Raphael. Similarly, Ariosto and Titian inspired each other, enhancing each other’s brilliance.

Great and good men draw others after them, exciting the spontaneous admiration of mankind. This admiration of noble character elevates the mind, and tends to redeem it from the bondage of self, one of the greatest stumbling blocks to moral improvement. The recollection of men who have signalised themselves by great thoughts or great deeds, seems as if to create for the time a purer atmosphere around us: and we feel as if our aims and purposes were unconsciously elevated.

Great and admirable people inspire others, evoking a natural admiration from everyone. This admiration for noble character lifts our spirits and helps free us from the limitations of selfishness, which is one of the biggest obstacles to personal growth. Remembering those who have distinguished themselves through remarkable ideas or actions seems to momentarily create a clearer environment around us: we feel as if our goals and intentions are elevated without even realizing it.

"Tell me whom you admire," said Sainte-Beuve, "and I will tell you what you are, at least as regards your talents, tastes, and character." Do you admire mean men?—your own nature is mean. Do you admire rich men?—you are of the earth, earthy. Do you admire men of title?—you are a toad-eater, or a tuft-hunter. 128 Do you admire honest, brave, and manly men?—you are yourself of an honest, brave, and manly spirit.

"Tell me who you look up to," said Sainte-Beuve, "and I'll reveal what you are, at least when it comes to your skills, preferences, and personality." Do you admire unkind people?—your nature is unkind. Do you admire wealthy people?—you are down to earth. Do you admire titled individuals?—you are a sycophant or a social climber. 128 Do you admire honest, brave, and noble individuals?—you yourself possess an honest, brave, and noble spirit.

It is in the season of youth, while the character is forming, that the impulse to admire is the greatest. As we advance in life, we crystallize into habit; and "NIL ADMIRARI" too often becomes our motto. It is well to encourage the admiration of great characters while the nature is plastic and open to impressions; for if the good are not admired—as young men will have their heroes of some sort—most probably the great bad may be taken by them for models. Hence it always rejoiced Dr. Arnold to hear his pupils expressing admiration of great deeds, or full of enthusiasm for persons or even scenery. "I believe," said he, "that 'NIL ADMIRARI' is the devil's favourite text; and he could not choose a better to introduce his pupils into the more esoteric parts of his doctrine. And, therefore, I have always looked upon a man infected with the disorder of anti-romance as one who has lost the finest part of his nature, and his best protection against everything low and foolish." 129

In our youth, when our character is developing, our urge to admire is strongest. As we grow older, we settle into habits, and "NIL ADMIRARI" often becomes our mantra. It’s important to foster admiration for great characters while our nature is flexible and open to influences; if we don’t admire the good—since young people will look up to someone—they are likely to take the great evils as their role models. That’s why Dr. Arnold was always pleased to hear his students express admiration for great actions or show enthusiasm for people or even nature. "I believe," he said, "that 'NIL ADMIRARI' is the devil's favorite saying; it’s the perfect way to lead his students into the deeper parts of his teachings. Therefore, I’ve always viewed someone infected with the anti-romance mindset as having lost the best part of themselves, along with their best defense against everything low and foolish." 129

It was a fine trait in the character of Prince Albert that he was always so ready to express generous admiration of the good deeds of others. "He had the greatest delight," says the ablest delineator of his character, "in anybody else saying a fine saying, or doing a great deed. He would rejoice over it, and talk about it for days; and whether it was a thing nobly said or done by a little child, or by a veteran statesman, it gave him equal pleasure. He delighted in humanity doing well on any occasion and in any manner." 1210

It was a great quality in Prince Albert that he was always quick to express genuine admiration for the good actions of others. "He took the greatest joy," says the best observer of his character, "in anyone else saying something remarkable or doing something great. He would celebrate it and talk about it for days; whether it was something nobly said or done by a small child or by an experienced statesman, it brought him equal joy. He found happiness in humanity doing well on any occasion and in any way." 1210

"No quality," said Dr. Johnson, "will get a man more friends than a sincere admiration of the qualities of others. It indicates generosity of nature, frankness, cordiality, and cheerful recognition of merit." It was to the sincere—it might almost be said the reverential—admiration of Johnson by Boswell, that we owe one of the best biographies ever written. One is disposed to think that there must have been some genuine good qualities in Boswell to have been attracted by such a man as Johnson, and to have kept faithful to his worship in spite of rebuffs and snubbings innumerable. Macaulay speaks of Boswell as an altogether contemptible person—as a coxcomb and a bore—weak, vain, pushing, curious, garrulous; and without wit, humour, or eloquence. But Carlyle is doubtless more just in his characterisation of the biographer, in whom—vain and foolish though he was in many respects—he sees a man penetrated by the old reverent feeling of discipleship, full of love and admiration for true wisdom and excellence. Without such qualities, Carlyle insists, the 'Life of Johnson' never could have been written. "Boswell wrote a good book," he says, "because he had a heart and an eye to discern wisdom, and an utterance to render it forth; because of his free insight, his lively talent, and, above all, of his love and childlike openmindedness."

"No quality," said Dr. Johnson, "will earn a man more friends than a genuine admiration of the qualities of others. It shows a generous nature, openness, warmth, and a joyful recognition of talent." It's thanks to Boswell's sincere—it could almost be called reverential—admiration for Johnson that we have one of the greatest biographies ever written. One might think that Boswell must have had some genuine good qualities to be drawn to a man like Johnson and to remain devoted to him despite countless rejections and snubs. Macaulay describes Boswell as a completely contemptible person—self-absorbed and tedious—weak, vain, pushy, inquisitive, talkative; and lacking wit, humor, or eloquence. However, Carlyle is certainly more accurate in his portrayal of the biographer, in whom—vain and foolish as he was in many ways—he sees a man deeply inspired by the old, respectful feeling of being a disciple, filled with love and admiration for true wisdom and excellence. Without such qualities, Carlyle argues, the 'Life of Johnson' could never have been written. "Boswell wrote a good book," he says, "because he had a heart and an eye to recognize wisdom, and the ability to express it; because of his keen insight, his lively talent, and, above all, his love and childlike open-mindedness."

Most young men of generous mind have their heroes, especially if they be book-readers. Thus Allan Cunningham, when a mason's apprentice in Nithsdale, walked all the way to Edinburgh for the sole purpose of seeing Sir Walter Scott as he passed along the street. We unconsciously admire the enthusiasm of the lad, and respect the impulse which impelled him to make the journey. It is related of Sir Joshua Reynolds, that when a boy of ten, he thrust his hand through intervening rows of people to touch Pope, as if there were a sort of virtue in the contact. At a much later period, the painter Haydon was proud to see and to touch Reynolds when on a visit to his native place. Rogers the poet used to tell of his ardent desire, when a boy, to see Dr. Johnson; but when his hand was on the knocker of the house in Bolt Court, his courage failed him, and he turned away. So the late Isaac Disraeli, when a youth, called at Bolt Court for the same purpose; and though he HAD the courage to knock, to his dismay he was informed by the servant that the great lexicographer had breathed his last only a few hours before.

Most young men with a generous spirit have their heroes, especially if they love reading. For example, Allan Cunningham, when he was a mason's apprentice in Nithsdale, walked all the way to Edinburgh just to see Sir Walter Scott as he walked down the street. We can’t help but admire the boy’s enthusiasm and respect the drive that made him take that journey. It’s said that Sir Joshua Reynolds, at just ten years old, reached through a crowd to touch Pope, as if there were some sort of significance in that touch. Much later, the painter Haydon felt proud to see and touch Reynolds when he visited his hometown. Rogers the poet used to share how he desperately wanted to meet Dr. Johnson; however, when he finally approached the door of the house on Bolt Court, he lost his nerve and walked away. Similarly, the late Isaac Disraeli, as a young man, went to Bolt Court for the same reason; and though he had the courage to knock, to his disappointment, the servant informed him that the great lexicographer had passed away just a few hours earlier.

On the contrary, small and ungenerous minds cannot admire heartily. To their own great misfortune, they cannot recognise, much less reverence, great men and great things. The mean nature admires meanly. The toad's highest idea of beauty is his toadess. The small snob's highest idea of manhood is the great snob. The slave-dealer values a man according to his muscles. When a Guinea trader was told by Sir Godfrey Kneller, in the presence of Pope, that he saw before him two of the greatest men in the world, he replied: "I don't know how great you may be, but I don't like your looks. I have often bought a man much better than both of you together, all bones and muscles, for ten guineas!"

On the other hand, small-minded and petty people can’t truly admire anyone. Sadly for them, they can’t recognize, let alone respect, great individuals and amazing things. Those with a narrow view appreciate things on a small scale. The highest standard of beauty for a toad is its mate. The small-minded snob's idea of a real man is just another snob. A slave trader values a person based on their physical strength. When Sir Godfrey Kneller, in front of Pope, told a Guinea trader that he saw two of the greatest men in the world, the trader replied, "I don’t care how great you might be; I just don’t like the way you look. I’ve often bought a man much better than either of you, all bones and muscles, for ten guineas!"

Although Rochefoucauld, in one of his maxims, says that there is something that is not altogether disagreeable to us in the misfortunes of even our best friends, it is only the small and essentially mean nature that finds pleasure in the disappointment, and annoyance at the success of others. There are, unhappily, for themselves, persons so constituted that they have not the heart to be generous. The most disagreeable of all people are those who "sit in the seat of the scorner." Persons of this sort often come to regard the success of others, even in a good work, as a kind of personal offence. They cannot bear to hear another praised, especially if he belong to their own art, or calling, or profession. They will pardon a man's failures, but cannot forgive his doing a thing better than they can do. And where they have themselves failed, they are found to be the most merciless of detractors. The sour critic thinks of his rival:

Although Rochefoucauld, in one of his maxims, says there’s something not entirely unpleasant about the misfortunes of even our closest friends, it’s only a small and petty nature that finds joy in the failures and annoyance at the achievements of others. Sadly, some people are just not capable of being generous. The most unpleasant people are those who "sit in the seat of the scorner." These individuals often view the success of others, even when it’s for a good cause, as a personal offense. They can’t stand to hear someone praised, especially if that person is in their own field or profession. They might excuse someone’s failures, but they can’t forgive anyone for doing something better than they can. And where they have failed themselves, they tend to be the harshest critics. The bitter critic thinks of his rival:

    "When Heaven with such parts has blest him,
    Have I not reason to detest him?"
"When Heaven has blessed him with such qualities,  
Have I not reason to hate him?"

The mean mind occupies itself with sneering, carping, and fault-finding; and is ready to scoff at everything but impudent effrontery or successful vice. The greatest consolation of such persons are the defects of men of character. "If the wise erred not," says George Herbert, "it would go hard with fools." Yet, though wise men may learn of fools by avoiding their errors, fools rarely profit by the example which, wise men set them. A German writer has said that it is a miserable temper that cares only to discover the blemishes in the character of great men or great periods. Let us rather judge them with the charity of Bolingbroke, who, when reminded of one of the alleged weaknesses of Marlborough, observed,—"He was so great a man that I forgot he had that defect."

The petty mind focuses on mocking, criticizing, and finding faults; it’s quick to sneer at everything except for brazen arrogance or thriving wrongdoing. The biggest comfort for such people is the flaws of those with real character. "If wise people didn’t make mistakes," says George Herbert, "it would be tough for fools." However, while wise individuals can learn from fools by steering clear of their mistakes, fools seldom benefit from the examples set by wise people. A German author once remarked that it’s a sorry mindset that only seeks out the flaws in the characters of great individuals or remarkable eras. Instead, let’s assess them with the kindness of Bolingbroke, who, when reminded of one of Marlborough's supposed weaknesses, said, “He was such a great man that I forgot he had that flaw.”

Admiration of great men, living or dead, naturally evokes imitation of them in a greater or less degree. While a mere youth, the mind of Themistocles was fired by the great deeds of his contemporaries, and he longed to distinguish himself in the service of his country. When the Battle of Marathon had been fought, he fell into a state of melancholy; and when asked by his friends as to the cause, he replied "that the trophies of Miltiades would not suffer him to sleep." A few years later, we find him at the head of the Athenian army, defeating the Persian fleet of Xerxes in the battles of Artemisium and Salamis,—his country gratefully acknowledging that it had been saved through his wisdom and valour.

Admiration for great people, whether they are alive or dead, naturally inspires us to imitate them to some extent. When he was still a young man, Themistocles was inspired by the remarkable achievements of his peers and wanted to make his mark in service to his country. After the Battle of Marathon, he fell into a state of sadness; when his friends asked him why, he said, "The trophies of Miltiades keep me from sleeping." A few years later, we see him leading the Athenian army and defeating Xerxes' Persian fleet in the battles of Artemisium and Salamis, with his country gratefully recognizing that it was saved by his intelligence and bravery.

It is related of Thucydides that, when a boy, he burst into tears on hearing Herodotus read his History, and the impression made upon his mind was such as to determine the bent of his own genius. And Demosthenes was so fired on one occasion by the eloquence of Callistratus, that the ambition was roused within him of becoming an orator himself. Yet Demosthenes was physically weak, had a feeble voice, indistinct articulation, and shortness of breath—defects which he was only enabled to overcome by diligent study and invincible determination. But, with all his practice, he never became a ready speaker; all his orations, especially the most famous of them, exhibiting indications of careful elaboration,—the art and industry of the orator being visible in almost every sentence.

It's said that when Thucydides was a boy, he burst into tears upon hearing Herodotus read his History, and the impact it had on him shaped his own talents. Similarly, Demosthenes was so inspired by Callistratus's eloquence that he developed a strong desire to become an orator himself. However, Demosthenes was physically weak, had a soft voice, poor articulation, and shortness of breath—challenges he only managed to overcome through hard work and unwavering determination. Despite all his practice, he never became a spontaneous speaker; his speeches, especially the most famous ones, showed signs of careful preparation—the skill and effort of the orator were evident in nearly every sentence.

Similar illustrations of character imitating character, and moulding itself by the style and manner and genius of great men, are to be found pervading all history. Warriors, statesmen, orators, patriots, poets, and artists—all have been, more or less unconsciously, nurtured by the lives and actions of others living before them or presented for their imitation.

Similar examples of one character imitating another and shaping itself by the style, manner, and brilliance of great individuals can be found throughout all of history. Warriors, statesmen, speakers, patriots, poets, and artists—each has been, often unconsciously, influenced by the lives and actions of those who came before them or who have been set before them as role models.

Great men have evoked the admiration of kings, popes, and emperors. Francis de Medicis never spoke to Michael Angelo without uncovering, and Julius III. made him sit by his side while a dozen cardinals were standing. Charles V. made way for Titian; and one day, when the brush dropped from the painter's hand, Charles stooped and picked it up, saying, "You deserve to be served by an emperor." Leo X. threatened with excommunication whoever should print and sell the poems of Ariosto without the author's consent. The same pope attended the deathbed of Raphael, as Francis I. did that of Leonardo da Vinci.

Great men have earned the admiration of kings, popes, and emperors. Francis de Medicis never spoke to Michelangelo without showing respect, and Julius III made him sit beside him while a dozen cardinals stood. Charles V cleared the way for Titian; one day, when the brush fell from the painter's hand, Charles bent down and picked it up, saying, "You deserve to be served by an emperor." Leo X threatened with excommunication anyone who printed and sold Ariosto's poems without the author's permission. The same pope was present at Raphael's deathbed, just as Francis I was for Leonardo da Vinci.

Though Haydn once archly observed that he was loved and esteemed by everybody except professors of music, yet all the greatest musicians were unusually ready to recognise each other's greatness. Haydn himself seems to have been entirely free from petty jealousy. His admiration of the famous Porpora was such, that he resolved to gain admission to his house, and serve him as a valet. Having made the acquaintance of the family with whom Porpora lived, he was allowed to officiate in that capacity. Early each morning he took care to brush the veteran's coat, polish his shoes, and put his rusty wig in order. At first Porpora growled at the intruder, but his asperity soon softened, and eventually melted into affection. He quickly discovered his valet's genius, and, by his instructions, directed it into the line in which Haydn eventually acquired so much distinction.

Though Haydn once wryly remarked that everyone loved and respected him except music professors, the greatest musicians were generally quick to acknowledge each other's talent. Haydn himself seemed completely free from petty jealousy. His admiration for the famous Porpora was so strong that he decided to get into his house and serve him as a valet. After getting to know the family Porpora lived with, he was allowed to take on that role. Every morning, he made sure to brush the veteran's coat, polish his shoes, and fix his worn-out wig. At first, Porpora grumbled about the intruder, but his harshness soon softened and eventually turned into affection. He quickly recognized his valet's talent and, through his guidance, helped steer Haydn in the direction where he would ultimately gain significant fame.

Haydn himself was enthusiastic in his admiration of Handel. "He is the father of us all," he said on one occasion. Scarlatti followed Handel in admiration all over Italy, and, when his name was mentioned, he crossed himself in token of veneration. Mozart's recognition of the great composer was not less hearty. "When he chooses," said he, "Handel strikes like the thunderbolt." Beethoven hailed him as "The monarch of the musical kingdom." When Beethoven was dying, one of his friends sent him a present of Handel's works, in forty volumes. They were brought into his chamber, and, gazing on them with reanimated eye, he exclaimed, pointing at them with his finger, "There—there is the truth!"

Haydn was genuinely enthusiastic about Handel. "He is the father of us all," he remarked once. Scarlatti admired Handel and followed his footsteps throughout Italy, and whenever Handel's name came up, he would cross himself out of respect. Mozart's appreciation for the great composer was equally strong. "When he wants to," he said, "Handel strikes like a thunderbolt." Beethoven referred to him as "The monarch of the musical kingdom." As Beethoven lay dying, a friend gifted him a collection of Handel's works in forty volumes. They were brought to his room, and with a renewed sparkle in his eye, he pointed to them and exclaimed, "There—there is the truth!"

Haydn not only recognised the genius of the great men who had passed away, but of his young contemporaries, Mozart and Beethoven. Small men may be envious of their fellows, but really great men seek out and love each other. Of Mozart, Haydn wrote "I only wish I could impress on every friend of music, and on great men in particular, the same depth of musical sympathy, and profound appreciation of Mozart's inimitable music, that I myself feel and enjoy; then nations would vie with each other to possess such a jewel within their frontiers. Prague ought not only to strive to retain this precious man, but also to remunerate him; for without this the history of a great genius is sad indeed.... It enrages me to think that the unparalleled Mozart is not yet engaged by some imperial or royal court. Forgive my excitement; but I love the man so dearly!"

Haydn not only recognized the brilliance of the great individuals who had passed away but also that of his younger contemporaries, Mozart and Beethoven. While small-minded people might feel envious of their peers, truly great individuals seek out and appreciate one another. About Mozart, Haydn said, "I wish I could instill in every music lover, and especially in great figures, the same deep musical understanding and profound appreciation for Mozart's unique music that I feel and enjoy; then nations would compete to claim such a treasure within their borders. Prague should not only work to keep this precious man but also reward him; because without that, the story of a great genius is indeed a sad one... It angers me to think that the unparalleled Mozart hasn't yet been hired by some imperial or royal court. Please forgive my excitement; but I care for the man so deeply!"

Mozart was equally generous in his recognition of the merits of Haydn. "Sir," said he to a critic, speaking of the latter, "if you and I were both melted down together, we should not furnish materials for one Haydn." And when Mozart first heard Beethoven, he observed: "Listen to that young man; be assured that he will yet make a great name in the world."

Mozart was just as generous in acknowledging Haydn's talents. "Sir," he told a critic when talking about Haydn, "if you and I were both melted down together, we wouldn't have enough to create even one Haydn." And when Mozart first listened to Beethoven, he remarked, "Listen to that young man; I'm sure he will make a big name for himself in the world."

Buffon set Newton above all other philosophers, and admired him so highly that he had always his portrait before him while he sat at work. So Schiller looked up to Shakspeare, whom he studied reverently and zealously for years, until he became capable of comprehending nature at first-hand, and then his admiration became even more ardent than before.

Buffon considered Newton superior to all other philosophers and admired him so much that he kept his portrait in front of him while he worked. Likewise, Schiller looked up to Shakespeare, studying him with great respect and enthusiasm for years. Eventually, he gained a deep understanding of nature, and his admiration grew even more intense.

Pitt was Canning's master and hero, whom he followed and admired with attachment and devotion. "To one man, while he lived," said Canning, "I was devoted with all my heart and all my soul. Since the death of Mr. Pitt I acknowledge no leader; my political allegiance lies buried in his grave." 1211

Pitt was Canning's mentor and idol, whom he followed and admired with great loyalty and devotion. "To one man, while he was alive," Canning said, "I was dedicated with all my heart and soul. Since Mr. Pitt's death, I recognize no leader; my political loyalty is buried with him." 1211

A French physiologist, M. Roux, was occupied one day in lecturing to his pupils, when Sir Charles Bell, whose discoveries were even better known and more highly appreciated abroad than at home, strolled into his class-room. The professor, recognising his visitor, at once stopped his exposition, saying: "MESSIEURS, C'EST ASSEZ POUR AUJOURD'HUI, VOUS AVEZ VU SIR CHARLES BELL!"

A French physiologist, M. Roux, was giving a lecture to his students one day when Sir Charles Bell, whose discoveries were more recognized and valued overseas than at home, walked into his classroom. The professor, noticing his guest, immediately paused his lecture and said: "Gentlemen, that's enough for today, you've seen Sir Charles Bell!"

The first acquaintance with a great work of art has usually proved an important event in every young artist's life. When Correggio first gazed on Raphael's 'Saint Cecilia,' he felt within himself an awakened power, and exclaimed, "And I too am a painter" So Constable used to look back on his first sight of Claude's picture of 'Hagar,' as forming an epoch in his career. Sir George Beaumont's admiration of the same picture was such that he always took it with him in his carriage when he travelled from home.

The first encounter with a great piece of art is often a significant moment in every young artist's life. When Correggio first saw Raphael's 'Saint Cecilia,' he felt a surge of creativity inside him and exclaimed, "And I'm a painter too." Similarly, Constable looked back at his first view of Claude's painting of 'Hagar' as a turning point in his career. Sir George Beaumont was so impressed by the same painting that he always brought it with him in his carriage when he traveled away from home.

The examples set by the great and good do not die; they continue to live and speak to all the generations that succeed them. It was very impressively observed by Mr. Disraeli, in the House of Commons, shortly after the death of Mr. Cobden:—"There is this consolation remaining to us, when we remember our unequalled and irreparable losses, that those great men are not altogether lost to us—that their words will often be quoted in this House—that their examples will often be referred to and appealed to, and that even their expressions will form part of our discussions and debates. There are now, I may say, some members of Parliament who, though they may not be present, are still members of this House—who are independent of dissolutions, of the caprices of constituencies, and even of the course of time. I think that Mr. Cobden was one of those men."

The examples set by remarkable individuals never fade away; they keep living on and inspiring future generations. Mr. Disraeli pointed this out very eloquently in the House of Commons shortly after Mr. Cobden's passing: "There is some consolation when we think about our unmatched and irreplaceable losses, knowing that these great individuals are not entirely gone from us—that their words will still be quoted in this House—that their examples will frequently be referenced and called upon, and that even their expressions will be part of our discussions and debates. There are currently, I can say, some members of Parliament who, even though they may not be physically present, still belong to this House—who are unaffected by dissolutions, the whims of constituencies, or even the passage of time. I believe Mr. Cobden was one of those individuals."

It is the great lesson of biography to teach what man can be and can do at his best. It may thus give each man renewed strength and confidence. The humblest, in sight of even the greatest, may admire, and hope, and take courage. These great brothers of ours in blood and lineage, who live a universal life, still speak to us from their graves, and beckon us on in the paths which they have trod. Their example is still with us, to guide, to influence, and to direct us. For nobility of character is a perpetual bequest; living from age to age, and constantly tending to reproduce its like.

The main takeaway from biographies is to show what people can achieve at their best. This can give each person renewed strength and confidence. Even the most modest individuals can admire, hope, and find courage when they look up to the greatest among us. These remarkable figures, who share our humanity and history, continue to inspire us even after their passing, encouraging us to follow the paths they walked. Their examples are still present to guide, influence, and direct us. Noble character is a legacy that keeps living on through the ages, always inspiring similar qualities in others.

"The sage," say the Chinese, "is the instructor of a hundred ages. When the manners of Loo are heard of, the stupid become intelligent, and the wavering determined." Thus the acted life of a good man continues to be a gospel of freedom and emancipation to all who succeed him:

"The wise person," say the Chinese, "is the teacher of countless generations. When people hear about the virtues of Loo, the foolish become wise, and the indecisive find their resolve." Therefore, the life of a good person remains a message of freedom and liberation for all who come after them:

          "To live in hearts we leave behind,
          is not to die."
          "To live on in the hearts we leave behind,          is not to die."

The golden words that good men have uttered, the examples they have set, live through all time: they pass into the thoughts and hearts of their successors, help them on the road of life, and often console them in the hour of death. "And the most miserable or most painful of deaths," said Henry Marten, the Commonwealth man, who died in prison, "is as nothing compared with the memory of a well-spent life; and great alone is he who has earned the glorious privilege of bequeathing such a lesson and example to his successors!"

The wise words spoken by good people and the examples they've set endure through time: they become part of the thoughts and hearts of those who come after them, guiding them through life and often providing comfort during their final moments. "And the most miserable or painful death," said Henry Marten, the Commonwealth figure who died in prison, "is nothing compared to the memory of a life well-lived; and truly great is the person who has earned the honorable privilege of passing down such a lesson and example to future generations!"





CHAPTER IV.—WORK.

     "Arise therefore, and be doing, and the Lord be with thee."
     —l CHRONICLES xxii. 16.

        "Work as if thou hadst to live for aye;
        Worship as if thou wert to die to-day."—TUSCAN PROVERB.

          "C'est par le travail qu'on regne."—LOUIS XIV

       "Blest work! if ever thou wert curse of God,
        What must His blessing be!"—J. B. SELKIRK.

     "Let every man be OCCUPIED, and occupied in the highest
     employment of which his nature is capable, and die with the
     consciousness that he has done his best"—Sydney Smith.
     "So get up, get to work, and may the Lord be with you."
     —1 CHRONICLES 22:16.

        "Work as if you were meant to live forever;  
        Worship as if you were to die today." —TUSCAN PROVERB.

          "It is through work that one reigns." —LOUIS XIV

       "Blessed work! If it were ever a curse from God,  
        What must His blessing be!" —J. B. SELKIRK.

     "Let every person be BUSY, and busy with the highest  
     work that their nature can achieve, and die knowing they have done their best." —Sydney Smith.

WORK is one of the best educators of practical character. It evokes and disciplines obedience, self-control, attention, application, and perseverance; giving a man deftness and skill in his special calling, and aptitude and dexterity in dealing with the affairs of ordinary life.

WORK is one of the best teachers of practical character. It encourages and trains obedience, self-control, focus, dedication, and perseverance; helping a person become skilled and proficient in their specific job, and capable and agile in managing everyday life.

Work is the law of our being—the living principle that carries men and nations onward. The greater number of men have to work with their hands, as a matter of necessity, in order to live; but all must work in one way or another, if they would enjoy life as it ought to be enjoyed.

Work is the foundation of our existence—the driving force that propels individuals and nations forward. Most people need to work with their hands out of necessity to survive; however, everyone must contribute in some way if they want to truly enjoy life as it’s meant to be enjoyed.

Labour may be a burden and a chastisement, but it is also an honour and a glory. Without it, nothing can be accomplished. All that is great in man comes through work; and civilisation is its product. Were labour abolished, the race of Adam were at once stricken by moral death.

Work can be tough and punishing, but it's also something to be proud of and celebrated. Without it, nothing gets done. Everything impressive about humanity comes from hard work, and civilization itself is a result of our efforts. If work were to disappear, humanity would suffer a moral decline.

It is idleness that is the curse of man—not labour. Idleness eats the heart out of men as of nations, and consumes them as rust does iron. When Alexander conquered the Persians, and had an opportunity of observing their manners, he remarked that they did not seem conscious that there could be anything more servile than a life of pleasure, or more princely than a life of toil.

It’s idleness that’s the curse of humanity—not hard work. Idleness drains the spirit of people just like it does nations, and wears them down like rust does to iron. When Alexander defeated the Persians and got a chance to observe their ways, he noted that they didn’t seem to realize there could be anything more degrading than a life of pleasure, or more noble than a life of hard work.

When the Emperor Severus lay on his deathbed at York, whither he had been borne on a litter from the foot of the Grampians, his final watchword to his soldiers was, "LABOREMUS" [we must work]; and nothing but constant toil maintained the power and extended the authority of the Roman generals.

When Emperor Severus was on his deathbed in York, after being carried there on a litter from the base of the Grampians, his last message to his soldiers was, "LABOREMUS" [we must work]; and only through steady effort did the Roman generals keep their power and expand their authority.

In describing the earlier social condition of Italy, when the ordinary occupations of rural life were considered compatible with the highest civic dignity, Pliny speaks of the triumphant generals and their men, returning contentedly to the plough. In those days the lands were tilled by the hands even of generals, the soil exulting beneath a ploughshare crowned with laurels, and guided by a husbandman graced with triumphs: "IPSORUM TUNC MANIBUS IMPERATORUM COLEBANTUR AGRI: UT FAS EST CREDERE, GAUDENTE TERRA VOMERE LAUREATO ET TRIUMPHALI ARATORE." 131 It was only after slaves became extensively employed in all departments of industry that labour came to be regarded as dishonourable and servile. And so soon as indolence and luxury became the characteristics of the ruling classes of Rome, the downfall of the empire, sooner or later, was inevitable.

In describing the social conditions of early Italy, when typical rural jobs were seen as fitting for the highest civic honor, Pliny mentions the victorious generals and their troops, happily returning to farming. Back then, fields were cultivated even by generals, the land thriving under a plow adorned with laurels, operated by a farmer celebrated for his victories: "IPSORUM TUNC MANIBUS IMPERATORUM COLEBANTUR AGRI: UT FAS EST CREDERE, GAUDENTE TERRA VOMERE LAUREATO ET TRIUMPHALI ARATORE." 131 It was only after the widespread use of slaves in every industry that work started to be seen as dishonorable and servile. As soon as laziness and luxury became typical of Rome's ruling classes, the downfall of the empire was, sooner or later, unavoidable.

There is, perhaps, no tendency of our nature that has to be more carefully guarded against than indolence. When Mr. Gurney asked an intelligent foreigner who had travelled over the greater part of the world, whether he had observed any one quality which, more than another, could be regarded as a universal characteristic of our species, his answer was, in broken English, "Me tink dat all men LOVE LAZY." It is characteristic of the savage as of the despot. It is natural to men to endeavour to enjoy the products of labour without its toils. Indeed, so universal is this desire, that James Mill has argued that it was to prevent its indulgence at the expense of society at large, that the expedient of Government was originally invented. 132

There’s probably no part of our nature that needs more careful oversight than laziness. When Mr. Gurney asked a well-traveled foreigner if he noticed any single trait that could be seen as a universal quality of humanity, his reply, in broken English, was, "I think that all men love lazy." This trait is found in both savages and tyrants. It’s natural for people to want to enjoy the benefits of work without the effort. In fact, this desire is so widespread that James Mill argued it was to stop this indulgence from harming society that the idea of Government was first created. 132

Indolence is equally degrading to individuals as to nations. Sloth never made its mark in the world, and never will. Sloth never climbed a hill, nor overcame a difficulty that it could avoid. Indolence always failed in life, and always will. It is in the nature of things that it should not succeed in anything. It is a burden, an incumbrance, and a nuisance—always useless, complaining, melancholy, and miserable.

Laziness is just as damaging to individuals as it is to nations. Sloth has never made a significant impact in the world, and it never will. Sloth has never tackled a challenge or faced an obstacle it could dodge. Laziness has always led to failure in life, and it always will. It’s simply part of the way things are that it shouldn’t succeed at anything. It’s a burden, a hindrance, and a nuisance—always pointless, whining, gloomy, and unhappy.

Burton, in his quaint and curious, book—the only one, Johnson says, that ever took him out of bed two hours sooner than he wished to rise—describes the causes of Melancholy as hingeing mainly on Idleness. "Idleness," he says, "is the bane of body and mind, the nurse of naughtiness, the chief mother of all mischief, one of the seven deadly sins, the devil's cushion, his pillow and chief reposal.... An idle dog will be mangy; and how shall an idle person escape? Idleness of the mind is much worse than that of the body: wit, without employment, is a disease—the rust of the soul, a plague, a hell itself. As in a standing pool, worms and filthy creepers increase, so do evil and corrupt thoughts in an idle person; the soul is contaminated.... Thus much I dare boldly say: he or she that is idle, be they of what condition they will, never so rich, so well allied, fortunate, happy—let them have all things in abundance and felicity that heart can wish and desire, all contentment—so long as he, or she, or they, are idle, they shall never be pleased, never well in body or mind, but weary still, sickly still, vexed still, loathing still, weeping, sighing, grieving, suspecting, offended with the world, with every object, wishing themselves gone or dead, or else carried away with some foolish phantasie or other." 133

Burton, in his unique and intriguing book—the only one, Johnson says, that ever got him out of bed two hours earlier than he wanted to wake up—explains that the main cause of Melancholy is Idleness. "Idleness," he states, "is the curse of both body and mind, the breeding ground for trouble, the main source of all mischief, one of the seven deadly sins, the devil's cushion, his pillow, and favorite resting place.... An idle dog will be mangy; and how can an idle person escape? Idleness of the mind is far worse than that of the body: wit, without something to do, is a sickness—the rust of the soul, a plague, a hell itself. Just as a stagnant pond breeds worms and filthy creatures, so do evil and corrupt thoughts grow in an idle person; the soul becomes tainted.... I can boldly say this: whether they are rich, well-connected, fortunate, or happy—no matter how much they have that their heart can wish for and desire, all the contentment in the world—as long as they are idle, they will never be satisfied, never truly well in body or mind, but always weary, always sickly, always troubled, always dissatisfied, weeping, sighing, grieving, suspicious, offended by the world, by everything around them, wishing they were gone or dead, or lost in some foolish fantasy or another." 133

Burton says a great deal more to the same effect; the burden and lesson of his book being embodied in the pregnant sentence with which it winds up:—"Only take this for a corollary and conclusion, as thou tenderest thine own welfare in this, and all other melancholy, thy good health of body and mind, observe this short precept, Give not way to solitariness and idleness. BE NOT SOLITARY—BE NOT IDLE." 134

Burton has a lot more to say in the same vein; the main message of his book is summed up in the powerful statement at the end: "Just remember this as a key takeaway for your own well-being and in all other sad matters, for your physical and mental health, follow this simple rule: Don't give in to loneliness and inactivity. DO NOT BE LONELY—DO NOT BE IDLE." 134

The indolent, however, are not wholly indolent. Though the body may shirk labour, the brain is not idle. If it do not grow corn, it will grow thistles, which will be found springing up all along the idle man's course in life. The ghosts of indolence rise up in the dark, ever staring the recreant in the face, and tormenting him:

The lazy, however, are not completely lazy. Even if their bodies avoid work, their minds are still active. If they don’t cultivate good things, they’ll end up growing problems, which will pop up all along the idle person's path in life. The shadows of laziness emerge in the dark, constantly confronting the coward and tormenting him:

      "The gods are just, and of our pleasant vices,
       Make instrument to scourge us."
      "The gods are fair, and from our enjoyable flaws,  
       Create tools to punish us."

True happiness is never found in torpor of the faculties, 135 but in their action and useful employment. It is indolence that exhausts, not action, in which there is life, health, and pleasure. The spirits may be exhausted and wearied by employment, but they are utterly wasted by idleness. Hense a wise physician was accustomed to regard occupation as one of his most valuable remedial measures. "Nothing is so injurious," said Dr. Marshall Hall, "as unoccupied time." An archbishop of Mayence used to say that "the human heart is like a millstone: if you put wheat under it, it grinds the wheat into flour; if you put no wheat, it grinds on, but then 'tis itself it wears away."

True happiness is never found in the sluggishness of our abilities, 135 but in their activation and meaningful use. It’s laziness that drains us, not action, which brings life, health, and joy. Our spirits might feel tired and worn out from work, but they’re truly squandered by doing nothing. That’s why a wise doctor considered being busy one of his best treatments. "Nothing is so harmful," said Dr. Marshall Hall, "as idle time." An archbishop of Mayence used to say that "the human heart is like a millstone: if you put wheat under it, it grinds the wheat into flour; if you put no wheat, it keeps grinding, but then it wears itself down."

Indolence is usually full of excuses; and the sluggard, though unwilling to work, is often an active sophist. "There is a lion in the path;" or "The hill is hard to climb;" or "There is no use trying—I have tried, and failed, and cannot do it." To the sophistries of such an excuser, Sir Samuel Romilly once wrote to a young man:—"My attack upon your indolence, loss of time, &c., was most serious, and I really think that it can be to nothing but your habitual want of exertion that can be ascribed your using such curious arguments as you do in your defence. Your theory is this: Every man does all the good that he can. If a particular individual does no good, it is a proof that he is incapable of doing it. That you don't write proves that you can't; and your want of inclination demonstrates your want of talents. What an admirable system!—and what beneficial effects would it be attended with, if it were but universally received!"

Laziness is usually just full of excuses; and the lazy person, even though they don't want to work, often comes up with clever arguments. "There's a lion in the way;" or "The hill is too steep to climb;" or "There's no point in trying—I’ve tried, failed, and I can’t do it." To the arguments of such an excuse-maker, Sir Samuel Romilly once wrote to a young man:—"My critique of your laziness, wasting time, etc., was very serious, and I genuinely think that your habitual lack of effort is why you come up with such strange arguments in your defense. Your belief is this: Every person does as much good as they can. If a specific person does no good, it proves they aren’t capable of doing it. That you don’t write shows that you can’t; and your lack of desire proves you lack talent. What a brilliant system!—and what great outcomes it would produce if it were just widely accepted!"

It has been truly said, that to desire to possess, without being burdened with the trouble of acquiring, is as much a sign of weakness, as to recognise that everything worth having is only to be got by paying its price, is the prime secret of practical strength. Even leisure cannot be enjoyed unless it is won by effort. If it have not been earned by work, the price has not been paid for it. 136

It has been rightly said that wanting to have something without dealing with the hassle of getting it is just as much a sign of weakness as understanding that everything valuable must be earned. This realization is the key to real strength. You can’t truly enjoy leisure unless you've worked for it. If it hasn’t been earned through effort, then you haven't paid the price for it. 136

There must be work before and work behind, with leisure to fall back upon; but the leisure, without the work, can no more be enjoyed than a surfeit. Life must needs be disgusting alike to the idle rich man as to the idle poor man, who has no work to do, or, having work, will not do it. The words found tattooed on the right arm of a sentimental beggar of forty, undergoing his eighth imprisonment in the gaol of Bourges in France, might be adopted as the motto of all idlers: "LE PASSE M'A TROMPE; LE PRESENT ME TOURMENTE; L'AVENIR M'EPOUVANTE;"—[13The past has deceived me; the present torments me; the future terrifies me]

There has to be effort before and effort behind, with leisure to rely on; but leisure, without effort, can be just as unpleasurable as excess. Life is bound to be frustrating for both the wealthy slacker and the broke slacker, who have nothing to do or, if they have work, refuse to do it. The words etched on the right arm of a sentimental beggar in his forties, going through his eighth stint in the jail of Bourges in France, could be a motto for all the lazy: "LE PASSE M'A TROMPE; LE PRESENT ME TOURMENTE; L'AVENIR M'EPOUVANTE;"—[13The past has deceived me; the present torments me; the future terrifies me]

The duty of industry applies to all classes and conditions of society. All have their work to do in the irrespective conditions of life—the rich as well as the poor. 137 The gentleman by birth and education, however richly he may be endowed with worldly possessions, cannot but feel that he is in duty bound to contribute his quota of endeavour towards the general wellbeing in which he shares. He cannot be satisfied with being fed, clad, and maintained by the labour of others, without making some suitable return to the society that upholds him. An honest highminded man would revolt at the idea of sitting down to and enjoying a feast, and then going away without paying his share of the reckoning. To be idle and useless is neither an honour nor a privilege; and though persons of small natures may be content merely to consume—FRUGES CONSUMERE NATI—men of average endowment, of manly aspirations, and of honest purpose, will feel such a condition to be incompatible with real honour and true dignity.

The responsibility of work applies to everyone in society. Everyone has their role to play, regardless of their situation in life—wealthy or poor. 137 A person who is well-born and educated, no matter how rich they are, must recognize that they have a duty to contribute to the overall wellbeing they benefit from. They can't just be comfortable knowing they're supported by the efforts of others without giving something back to the society that sustains them. A genuinely decent person would be appalled at the thought of enjoying a meal without paying their fair share. Being idle and unproductive is neither an honor nor a privilege; while those of lesser character might be fine with just consuming—FRUGES CONSUMERE NATI—men of decent abilities, strong aspirations, and good intentions will find that state incompatible with real honor and true dignity.

"I don't believe," said Lord Stanley [13now Earl of Derby] at Glasgow, "that an unemployed man, however amiable and otherwise respectable, ever was, or ever can be, really happy. As work is our life, show me what you can do, and I will show you what you are. I have spoken of love of one's work as the best preventive of merely low and vicious tastes. I will go further, and say that it is the best preservative against petty anxieties, and the annoyances that arise out of indulged self-love. Men have thought before now that they could take refuge from trouble and vexation by sheltering themselves as it were in a world of their own. The experiment has, often been tried, and always with one result. You cannot escape from anxiety and labour—it is the destiny of humanity.... Those who shirk from facing trouble, find that trouble comes to them. The indolent may contrive that he shall have less than his share of the world's work to do, but Nature proportioning the instinct to the work, contrives that the little shall be much and hard to him. The man who has only himself to please finds, sooner or later, and probably sooner than later, that he has got a very hard master; and the excessive weakness which shrinks from responsibility has its own punishment too, for where great interests are excluded little matters become great, and the same wear and tear of mind that might have been at least usefully and healthfully expended on the real business of life is often wasted in petty and imaginary vexations, such as breed and multiply in the unoccupied brain." 138

"I don't believe," said Lord Stanley [13now Earl of Derby] at Glasgow, "that an unemployed man, no matter how nice and otherwise respectable, has ever been, or ever can be, truly happy. Since work is our life, show me what you can do, and I will show you who you are. I've mentioned that having a love for your work is the best way to avoid low and harmful habits. I'll go further and say that it's also the best shield against petty worries and the annoyances that come from indulging in self-love. People have thought they could escape trouble and frustration by retreating into their own little world. This has often been tried, and always ends the same way. You can't escape from anxiety and hard work—it's part of being human. Those who shy away from facing problems find that troubles catch up with them. The lazy might manage to avoid some of the world's workload, but nature makes sure that what little they have to do feels like too much and really tough for them. A person who only aims to please themselves will, sooner or later—and likely sooner—realize they have a very demanding boss; and the extreme weakness that avoids responsibility has its own consequences, because when significant responsibilities are avoided, trivial matters start to seem big, and the mental strain that could have been healthily and usefully spent on the real responsibilities of life is often wasted on minor and imaginary frustrations that thrive in an idle mind." 138

Even on the lowest ground—that of personal enjoyment—constant useful occupation is necessary. He who labours not, cannot enjoy the reward of labour. "We sleep sound," said Sir Walter Scott, "and our waking hours are happy, when they are employed; and a little sense of toil is necessary to the enjoyment of leisure, even when earned by study and sanctioned by the discharge of duty."

Even on the most basic level—personal enjoyment—being constantly occupied is essential. Those who don't work can't appreciate the rewards of their labor. "We sleep well," said Sir Walter Scott, "and our waking hours are happy when they are spent productively; a little bit of hard work is necessary to truly enjoy our leisure, even when it's earned through study and fulfilling our responsibilities."

It is true, there are men who die of overwork; but many more die of selfishness, indulgence, and idleness. Where men break down by overwork, it is most commonly from want of duly ordering their lives, and neglect of the ordinary conditions of physical health. Lord Stanley was probably right when he said, in his address to the Glasgow students above mentioned, that he doubted whether "hard work, steadily and regularly carried on, ever yet hurt anybody."

It’s true that some people die from overwork; however, many more die from selfishness, excess, and laziness. When people break down from overwork, it’s usually because they haven’t managed their lives well and have neglected basic physical health needs. Lord Stanley was probably right when he said, in his talk to the Glasgow students mentioned earlier, that he doubted whether "hard work, steadily and regularly carried on, ever yet hurt anybody."

Then, again, length of YEARS is no proper test of length of LIFE. A man's life is to be measured by what he does in it, and what he feels in it. The more useful work the man does, and the more he thinks and feels, the more he really lives. The idle useless man, no matter to what extent his life may be prolonged, merely vegetates.

Then again, the number of years isn't a valid measure of how long someone has truly lived. A person's life should be evaluated based on their actions and feelings. The more meaningful work someone does and the more they think and feel, the more they genuinely experience life. The idle, unproductive person, regardless of how long they live, just exists.

The early teachers of Christianity ennobled the lot of toil by their example. "He that will not work," said Saint Paul, "neither shall he eat;" and he glorified himself in that he had laboured with his hands, and had not been chargeable to any man. When St. Boniface landed in Britain, he came with a gospel in one hand and a carpenter's rule in the other; and from England he afterwards passed over into Germany, carrying thither the art of building. Luther also, in the midst of a multitude of other employments, worked diligently for a living, earning his bread by gardening, building, turning, and even clockmaking. 139

The early teachers of Christianity elevated the value of hard work through their own actions. "Anyone who doesn’t work," said Saint Paul, "should not eat;" and he took pride in having worked with his hands and not being a burden to anyone. When St. Boniface arrived in Britain, he brought a gospel in one hand and a carpenter’s rule in the other; later, he traveled to Germany, bringing with him the skills of building. Luther, too, amidst many other tasks, worked hard to support himself, earning his living through gardening, construction, woodworking, and even clockmaking. 139

It was characteristic of Napoleon, when visiting a work of mechanical excellence, to pay great respect to the inventor, and on taking his leave, to salute him with a low bow. Once at St. Helena, when walking with Mrs. Balcombe, some servants came along carrying a load. The lady, in an angry tone, ordered them out of the way, on which Napoleon interposed, saying, "Respect the burden, madam." Even the drudgery of the humblest labourer contributes towards the general wellbeing of society; and it was a wise saying of a Chinese Emperor, that "if there was a man who did not work, or a woman that was idle, somebody must suffer cold or hunger in the empire."

It was typical of Napoleon, when visiting a site of mechanical innovation, to show great respect for the inventor and, when taking his leave, to bow slightly. Once at St. Helena, while walking with Mrs. Balcombe, some workers passed by carrying a load. The lady, in an irritated tone, ordered them to move aside, to which Napoleon responded, "Respect the burden, madam." Even the hard work of the humblest laborer contributes to the overall well-being of society; and it was a wise saying of a Chinese Emperor that "if there is a man who does not work, or a woman who is idle, someone must face cold or hunger in the empire."

The habit of constant useful occupation is as essential for the happiness and wellbeing of woman as of man. Without it, women are apt to sink into a state of listless ENNUI and uselessness, accompanied by sick headache and attacks of "nerves." Caroline Perthes carefully warned her married daughter Louisa to beware of giving way to such listlessness. "I myself," she said, "when the children are gone out for a half-holiday, sometimes feel as stupid and dull as an owl by daylight; but one must not yield to this, which happens more or less to all young wives. The best relief is WORK, engaged in with interest and diligence. Work, then, constantly and diligently, at something or other; for idleness is the devil's snare for small and great, as your grandfather says, and he says true." 1310

The habit of being constantly engaged in meaningful activities is just as important for a woman's happiness and well-being as it is for a man's. Without it, women can easily fall into a state of aimless boredom and uselessness, often accompanied by headaches and anxiety. Caroline Perthes warned her married daughter Louisa to be careful not to succumb to such boredom. "I myself," she said, "when the kids have gone out for a half-day, sometimes feel as dull as an owl in the daylight; but one must not give in to this, which happens to most young wives. The best remedy is WORK—something that you do with interest and diligence. So, keep working consistently and diligently at something or other; because idleness is the devil's trap for everyone, as your grandfather says, and he's right." 1310

Constant useful occupation is thus wholesome, not only for the body, but for the mind. While the slothful man drags himself indolently through life, and the better part of his nature sleeps a deep sleep, if not morally and spiritually dead, the energetic man is a source of activity and enjoyment to all who come within reach of his influence. Even any ordinary drudgery is better than idleness. Fuller says of Sir Francis Drake, who was early sent to sea, and kept close to his work by his master, that such "pains and patience in his youth knit the joints of his soul, and made them more solid and compact." Schiller used to say that he considered it a great advantage to be employed in the discharge of some daily mechanical duty—some regular routine of work, that rendered steady application necessary.

Staying actively engaged is good for both the body and the mind. While a lazy person drags through life, allowing the best parts of themselves to lie dormant, if not completely dead inside, an energetic person brings activity and joy to everyone around them. Even the most mundane tasks are better than doing nothing at all. Fuller mentions Sir Francis Drake, who was sent to sea early on and kept busy by his master, saying that such "hard work and patience in his youth strengthened his character and made him more solid and reliable." Schiller believed that having a daily routine or a mechanical job that required consistent effort was a significant advantage.

Thousands can bear testimony to the truth of the saying of Greuze, the French painter, that work—employment, useful occupation—is one of the great secrets of happiness. Casaubon was once induced by the entreaties of his friends to take a few days entire rest, but he returned to his work with the remark, that it was easier to bear illness doing something, than doing nothing.

Thousands can attest to the truth of Greuze's saying, the French painter, that work—employment, meaningful activity—is one of the key secrets to happiness. Casaubon was once persuaded by his friends to take a few days off completely, but he went back to his work with the comment that it was easier to cope with illness when doing something than to do nothing at all.

When Charles Lamb was released for life from his daily drudgery of desk-work at the India Office, he felt himself the happiest of men. "I would not go back to my prison," he said to a friend, "ten years longer, for ten thousand pounds." He also wrote in the same ecstatic mood to Bernard Barton: "I have scarce steadiness of head to compose a letter," he said; "I am free! free as air! I will live another fifty years.... Would I could sell you some of my leisure! Positively the best thing a man can do is—Nothing; and next to that, perhaps, Good Works." Two years—two long and tedious years passed; and Charles Lamb's feelings had undergone an entire change. He now discovered that official, even humdrum work—"the appointed round, the daily task"—had been good for him, though he knew it not. Time had formerly been his friend; it had now become his enemy. To Bernard Barton he again wrote: "I assure you, NO work is worse than overwork; the mind preys on itself—the most unwholesome of food. I have ceased to care for almost anything.... Never did the waters of heaven pour down upon a forlorner head. What I can do, and overdo, is to walk. I am a sanguinary murderer of time. But the oracle is silent."

When Charles Lamb was set free from his daily grind at the India Office, he felt like the happiest man alive. "I wouldn’t go back to my prison," he told a friend, "for ten years longer, even for ten thousand pounds." In the same excited spirit, he wrote to Bernard Barton: "I can barely focus enough to write a letter," he said; "I’m free! Free as air! I’ll live another fifty years... I wish I could sell you some of my free time! Honestly, the best thing a man can do is—Nothing; and after that, maybe Good Works." Two years—two long, boring years went by; and Charles Lamb’s feelings had changed completely. He now realized that official, even monotonous work—the "daily task"—had actually been good for him, even if he didn’t know it at the time. Time, once his friend, had now turned into his enemy. He wrote again to Bernard Barton: "I assure you, NO work is worse than overwork; the mind feeds on itself—the most unhealthy of diets. I’ve stopped caring about almost anything... Never have the heavens poured down on a more forlorn head. What I can do, and overdo, is walk. I’m a ruthless killer of time. But the oracle is silent."

No man could be more sensible of the practical importance of industry than Sir Walter Scott, who was himself one of the most laborious and indefatigable of men. Indeed, Lockhart says of him that, taking all ages and countries together, the rare example of indefatigable energy, in union with serene self-possession of mind and manner, such as Scott's, must be sought for in the roll of great sovereigns or great captains, rather than in that of literary genius. Scott himself was most anxious to impress upon the minds of his own children the importance of industry as a means of usefulness and happiness in the world. To his son Charles, when at school, he wrote:—"I cannot too much impress upon your mind that LABOUR is the condition which God has imposed on us in every station of life; there is nothing worth having that can be had without it, from the bread which the peasant wins with the sweat of his brow, to the sports by which the rich man must get rid of his ENNUI.... As for knowledge, it can no more be planted in the human mind without labour than a field of wheat can be produced without the previous use of the plough. There is, indeed, this great difference, that chance or circumstances may so cause it that another shall reap what the farmer sows; but no man can be deprived, whether by accident or misfortune, of the fruits of his own studies; and the liberal and extended acquisitions of knowledge which he makes are all for his own use. Labour, therefore, my dear boy, and improve the time. In youth our steps are light, and our minds are ductile, and knowledge is easily laid up; but if we neglect our spring, our summers will be useless and contemptible, our harvest will be chaff, and the winter of our old age unrespected and desolate." 1311

No one understood the practical importance of hard work better than Sir Walter Scott, who was one of the most hardworking and tireless people himself. In fact, Lockhart mentions that, across all ages and cultures, the rare combination of relentless energy and calm composure found in Scott is more likely seen in great leaders or military commanders than in literary figures. Scott was very eager to instill in his children the value of hard work as a way to be useful and happy in life. To his son Charles, while he was at school, he wrote:—"I cannot stress enough that HARD WORK is the condition God has placed on us in every role we have; nothing worth having can be gained without it, from the bread earned by the peasant through hard effort, to the pastimes that help the wealthy avoid their BOREDOM.... When it comes to knowledge, it cannot be implanted in the human mind without effort any more than a field of wheat can grow without being plowed first. There is, however, a major difference: by chance or circumstance, someone else may benefit from what the farmer sows; but no one can be deprived, by accident or misfortune, of the rewards of their own studies; and the wealth of knowledge they acquire is all for their own benefit. So, work hard, my dear boy, and make the most of your time. In our youth, we move lightly and our minds are flexible, making it easy to gather knowledge; but if we waste our springtime, our summers will be useless and contemptible, our harvest will be worthless, and the winter of our old age will be disrespected and lonely." 1311

Southey was as laborious a worker as Scott. Indeed, work might almost be said to form part of his religion. He was only nineteen when he wrote these words:—"Nineteen years! certainly a fourth part of my life; perhaps how great a part! and yet I have been of no service to society. The clown who scares crows for twopence a day is a more useful man; he preserves the bread which I eat in idleness." And yet Southey had not been idle as a boy—on the contrary, he had been a most diligent student. He had not only read largely in English literature, but was well acquainted, through translations, with Tasso, Ariosto, Homer, and Ovid. He felt, however, as if his life had been purposeless, and he determined to do something. He began, and from that time forward he pursued an unremitting career of literary labour down to the close of his life—"daily progressing in learning," to use his own words—"not so learned as he is poor, not so poor as proud, not so proud as happy."

Southey was as hard a worker as Scott. In fact, you could say that work was almost part of his faith. He was only nineteen when he wrote: "Nineteen years! definitely a fourth of my life; maybe even more! And yet I haven't contributed anything to society. The farmer who chases away crows for a couple of pennies a day is more useful; he protects the food I eat while being idle." Still, Southey hadn't been idle as a kid—in fact, he had been a very dedicated student. He had not only read extensively in English literature but was also well-versed, through translations, in Tasso, Ariosto, Homer, and Ovid. He felt, however, as if his life lacked purpose and decided he needed to do something. He started, and from that moment on, he maintained a relentless career of literary work until the end of his life— "daily progressing in learning," as he put it—"not so learned as he is poor, not so poor as proud, not so proud as happy."

The maxims of men often reveal their character. 1312 That of Sir Walter Scott was, "Never to be doing nothing." Robertson the historian, as early as his fifteenth year, adopted the maxim of "VITA SINE LITERIS MORS EST" [13Life without learning is death]. Voltaire's motto was, "TOUJOURS AU TRAVAIL" [13Always at work]. The favourite maxim of Lacepede, the naturalist, was, "VIVRE C'EST VEILLER" [13To live is to observe]: it was also the maxim of Pliny. When Bossuet was at college, he was so distinguished by his ardour in study, that his fellow students, playing upon his name, designated him as "BOS-SUETUS ARATRO" [13The ox used to the plough]. The name of VITA-LIS [13Life a struggle], which the Swedish poet Sjoberg assumed, as Frederik von Hardenberg assumed that of NOVA-LIS, described the aspirations and the labours of both these men of genius.

The beliefs of individuals often show their true nature. 1312 Sir Walter Scott's was, "Never be idle." Historian Robertson, at just fifteen, embraced the saying "VITA SINE LITERIS MORS EST" [13Life without learning is death]. Voltaire’s motto was "TOUJOURS AU TRAVAIL" [13Always at work]. Naturalist Lacepede favored the saying, "VIVRE C'EST VEILLER" [13To live is to observe], which was also held by Pliny. When Bossuet was in college, he excelled in his studies so much that his peers humorously referred to him as "BOS-SUETUS ARATRO" [13The ox used to the plough]. The name VITA-LIS [13Life a struggle] adopted by the Swedish poet Sjoberg, and NOVA-LIS taken by Frederik von Hardenberg, reflected the ambitions and efforts of these two talented individuals.

We have spoken of work as a discipline: it is also an educator of character. Even work that produces no results, because it IS work, is better than torpor,—inasmuch as it educates faculty, and is thus preparatory to successful work. The habit of working teaches method. It compels economy of time, and the disposition of it with judicious forethought. And when the art of packing life with useful occupations is once acquired by practice, every minute will be turned to account; and leisure, when it comes, will be enjoyed with all the greater zest.

We’ve talked about work as a discipline: it’s also a way to build character. Even work that doesn’t lead to any results, simply because it IS work, is better than being idle, as it develops skills and prepares us for successful work. The habit of working teaches us how to be organized. It forces us to use our time wisely and manage it with careful planning. Once you learn the skill of filling your life with meaningful activities through practice, every minute will be valuable, and when free time comes, you’ll enjoy it even more.

Coleridge has truly observed, that "if the idle are described as killing time, the methodical man may be justly said to call it into life and moral being, while he makes it the distinct object not only of the consciousness, but of the conscience. He organizes the hours and gives them a soul; and by that, the very essence of which is to fleet and to have been, he communicates an imperishable and spiritual nature. Of the good and faithful servant, whose energies thus directed are thus methodized, it is less truly affirmed that he lives in time than that time lives in him. His days and months and years, as the stops and punctual marks in the record of duties performed, will survive the wreck of worlds, and remain extant when time itself shall be no more." 1313

Coleridge has rightly pointed out that "while the idle people are said to be killing time, the organized person can be said to bring it to life and moral existence, as he makes it the clear focus of not just his awareness, but also his conscience. He arranges his hours and gives them purpose; and by doing so, he transforms what is essentially fleeting and transient into something enduring and meaningful. For the diligent and faithful individual, whose efforts are thus organized, it is arguably more accurate to say that he doesn't just exist in time, but that time exists within him. His days, months, and years, acting as the stops and precise markers in the record of duties accomplished, will outlast the destruction of worlds and remain after time itself has come to an end." 1313

It is because application to business teaches method most effectually, that it is so useful as an educator of character. The highest working qualities are best trained by active and sympathetic contact with others in the affairs of daily life. It does not matter whether the business relate to the management of a household or of a nation. Indeed, as we have endeavoured to show in a preceding chapter, the able housewife must necessarily be an efficient woman of business. She must regulate and control the details of her home, keep her expenditure within her means, arrange everything according to plan and system, and wisely manage and govern those subject to her rule. Efficient domestic management implies industry, application, method, moral discipline, forethought, prudence, practical ability, insight into character, and power of organization—all of which are required in the efficient management of business of whatever sort.

Business applications are particularly valuable for character development because they teach effective methods. The best way to cultivate strong work habits is through active and supportive interactions with others in everyday situations. It doesn’t matter if the business involves managing a household or a nation. In fact, as we’ve explained in a previous chapter, a skilled homemaker must also be a competent businesswoman. She must manage her home’s details, keep her expenses within budget, plan and organize everything systematically, and effectively lead those under her care. Efficient management at home requires diligence, commitment, structure, moral discipline, foresight, caution, practical skills, understanding of people, and organizational ability—all of which are essential for successfully managing any type of business.

Business qualities have, indeed, a very large field of action. They mean aptitude for affairs, competency to deal successfully with the practical work of life—whether the spur of action lie in domestic management, in the conduct of a profession, in trade or commerce, in social organization, or in political government. And the training which gives efficiency in dealing with these various affairs is of all others the most useful in practical life. 1314 Moreover, it is the best discipline of character; for it involves the exercise of diligence, attention, self-denial, judgment, tact, knowledge of and sympathy with others.

Business qualities have a wide range of application. They refer to the ability to handle affairs, the competence to effectively manage the practical aspects of life—whether that motivation comes from managing a household, pursuing a career, engaging in trade or commerce, organizing social activities, or participating in political governance. The training that fosters efficiency in navigating these different areas is the most beneficial for practical life. 1314 Additionally, it serves as the best character-building discipline, as it requires the practice of diligence, focus, self-discipline, judgment, tact, and an understanding and empathy for others.

Such a discipline is far more productive of happiness as well as useful efficiency in life, than any amount of literary culture or meditative seclusion; for in the long run it will usually be found that practical ability carries it over intellect, and temper and habits over talent. It must, however, he added that this is a kind of culture that can only be acquired by diligent observation and carefully improved experience. "To be a good blacksmith," said General Trochu in a recent publication, "one must have forged all his life: to be a good administrator one should have passed his whole life in the study and practice of business."

Such discipline brings more happiness and practical efficiency in life than any amount of literary knowledge or deep introspection. In the long run, it’s usually found that practical skills matter more than intellect, and temperament and habits outweigh talent. However, it should be noted that this kind of culture can only be gained through careful observation and improved experiences. "To be a good blacksmith," General Trochu said in a recent publication, "one must have forged all his life; to be a good administrator, one should have spent his entire life studying and practicing business."

It was characteristic of Sir Walter Scott to entertain the highest respect for able men of business; and he professed that he did not consider any amount of literary distinction as entitled to be spoken of in the same breath with a mastery in the higher departments of practical life—least of all with a first-rate captain.

It was typical of Sir Walter Scott to have great respect for skilled businesspeople; he claimed he didn't think any level of literary achievement was comparable to expertise in the more important areas of practical life—especially not to that of a top-notch captain.

The great commander leaves nothing to chance, but provides for every contingency. He condescends to apparently trivial details. Thus, when Wellington was at the head of his army in Spain, he directed the precise manner in which the soldiers were to cook their provisions. When in India, he specified the exact speed at which the bullocks were to be driven; every detail in equipment was carefully arranged beforehand. And thus not only was efficiency secured, but the devotion of his men, and their boundless confidence in his command. 1315

The great leader leaves nothing to chance and prepares for every situation. He pays attention to seemingly minor details. For example, when Wellington was leading his army in Spain, he instructed precisely how the soldiers should cook their food. While in India, he dictated the exact speed at which the bullocks should be driven; every aspect of their equipment was meticulously planned in advance. As a result, not only was efficiency achieved, but also the loyalty of his men and their absolute trust in his leadership. 1315

Like other great captains, Wellington had an almost boundless capacity for work. He drew up the heads of a Dublin Police Bill [13being still the Secretary for Ireland], when tossing off the mouth of the Mondego, with Junot and the French army waiting for him on the shore. So Caesar, another of the greatest commanders, is said to have written an essay on Latin Rhetoric while crossing the Alps at the head of his army. And Wallenstein when at the head of 60,000 men, and in the midst of a campaign with the enemy before him, dictated from headquarters the medical treatment of his poultry-yard.

Like other great leaders, Wellington had an almost limitless ability to work. He prepared the main points of a Dublin Police Bill [13 being still the Secretary for Ireland] while navigating the mouth of the Mondego, with Junot and the French army waiting for him on the shore. Similarly, Caesar, another one of the greatest commanders, is said to have written an essay on Latin Rhetoric while crossing the Alps with his army. And Wallenstein, in command of 60,000 men and in the middle of a campaign with the enemy in front of him, dictated the medical care for his poultry from headquarters.

Washington, also, was an indefatigable man of business. From his boyhood he diligently trained himself in habits of application, of study, and of methodical work. His manuscript school-books, which are still preserved, show that, as early as the age of thirteen, he occupied himself voluntarily in copying out such things as forms of receipts, notes of hand, bills of exchange, bonds, indentures, leases, land-warrants, and other dry documents, all written out with great care. And the habits which he thus early acquired were, in a great measure, the foundation of those admirable business qualities which he afterwards so successfully brought to bear in the affairs of government.

Washington was also a tireless businessman. From a young age, he worked hard to develop habits of focus, study, and organized work. His handwritten school books, which are still kept today, show that by the time he was thirteen, he was voluntarily copying forms like receipts, promissory notes, bills of exchange, bonds, contracts, leases, land warrants, and other tedious documents, all written with great care. The habits he formed early on became the basis for the remarkable business skills he later applied so successfully in government affairs.

The man or woman who achieves success in the management of any great affair of business is entitled to honour,—it may be, to as much as the artist who paints a picture, or the author who writes a book, or the soldier who wins a battle. Their success may have been gained in the face of as great difficulties, and after as great struggles; and where they have won their battle, it is at least a peaceful one, and there is no blood on their hands.

The person who succeeds in managing any major business is deserving of respect—possibly as much as an artist who creates a painting, a writer who crafts a book, or a soldier who wins a battle. Their success could have been achieved despite significant challenges and after considerable struggle; and where they’ve won their battle, it's at least a peaceful one, with no blood on their hands.

The idea has been entertained by some, that business habits are incompatible with genius. In the Life of Richard Lovell Edgeworth, 1316 it is observed of a Mr. Bicknell—a respectable but ordinary man, of whom little is known but that he married Sabrina Sidney, the ELEVE of Thomas Day, author of 'Sandford and Merton'—that "he had some of the too usual faults of a man of genius: he detested the drudgery of business." But there cannot be a greater mistake. The greatest geniuses have, without exception, been the greatest workers, even to the extent of drudgery. They have not only worked harder than ordinary men, but brought to their work higher faculties and a more ardent spirit. Nothing great and durable was ever improvised. It is only by noble patience and noble labour that the masterpieces of genius have been achieved.

Some people believe that business skills clash with creativity. In the Life of Richard Lovell Edgeworth, 1316 it mentions a Mr. Bicknell—a respectable but average man, known mainly for marrying Sabrina Sidney, who was mentored by Thomas Day, the author of 'Sandford and Merton'—that "he had some of the common flaws of a creative person: he hated the monotonous grind of business." But that couldn't be further from the truth. The greatest creative minds have always been the hardest workers, sometimes even engaging in tedious tasks. They not only put in more effort than average people but also brought greater talent and passion to their work. Nothing great and lasting is ever created on a whim. It's through dedicated patience and hard work that the masterpieces of creativity are made.

Power belongs only to the workers; the idlers are always powerless. It is the laborious and painstaking men who are the rulers of the world. There has not been a statesman of eminence but was a man of industry. "It is by toil," said even Louis XIV., "that kings govern." When Clarendon described Hampden, he spoke of him as "of an industry and vigilance not to be tired out or wearied by the most laborious, and of parts not to be imposed on by the most subtle and sharp, and of a personal courage equal to his best parts." While in the midst of his laborious though self-imposed duties, Hampden, on one occasion, wrote to his mother: "My lyfe is nothing but toyle, and hath been for many yeares, nowe to the Commonwealth, nowe to the Kinge.... Not so much tyme left as to doe my dutye to my deare parents, nor to sende to them." Indeed, all the statesmen of the Commonwealth were great toilers; and Clarendon himself, whether in office or out of it, was a man of indefatigable application and industry.

Power belongs solely to the workers; those who are idle are always powerless. It's the hardworking and dedicated individuals who truly run the world. There hasn't been a prominent statesman who wasn't industrious. "It is through hard work," said even Louis XIV., "that kings rule." When Clarendon described Hampden, he referred to him as "a person of relentless industry and vigilance, not easily tired or worn out by the most laborious tasks, and possessing a personal courage as strong as his best qualities." While engaged in his demanding yet self-imposed responsibilities, Hampden once wrote to his mother: "My life is nothing but toil, and has been for many years, now for the Commonwealth, now for the King.... There's hardly any time left even to fulfill my duties to my dear parents or to send to them." Indeed, all the statesmen of the Commonwealth were great workers; and Clarendon himself, whether in office or not, was a person of tireless effort and industriousness.

The same energetic vitality, as displayed in the power of working, has distinguished all the eminent men in our own as well as in past times. During the Anti-Corn Law movement, Cobden, writing to a friend, described himself as "working like a horse, with not a moment to spare." Lord Brougham was a remarkable instance of the indefatigably active and laborious man; and it might be said of Lord Palmerston, that he worked harder for success in his extreme old age than he had ever done in the prime of his manhood—preserving his working faculty, his good-humour and BONHOMMIE, unimpaired to the end. 1317 He himself was accustomed to say, that being in office, and consequently full of work, was good for his health. It rescued him from ENNUI. Helvetius even held, that it is man's sense of ENNUI that is the chief cause of his superiority over the brute,—that it is the necessity which he feels for escaping from its intolerable suffering that forces him to employ himself actively, and is hence the great stimulus to human progress.

The same energetic vitality, as shown in the power of working, has characterized all the prominent individuals in both our time and in the past. During the Anti-Corn Law movement, Cobden, writing to a friend, described himself as "working like a horse, with not a moment to spare." Lord Brougham was a remarkable example of a relentlessly active and hardworking person; it could be said of Lord Palmerston that he worked harder for success in his later years than he ever had in the prime of his youth—maintaining his ability to work, his good humor, and his congeniality, all the way to the end. 1317 He often said that being in office and therefore busy with work was good for his health. It saved him from boredom. Helvetius even believed that a person's sense of boredom is the main reason for their superiority over animals—that the need to escape from its unbearable suffering drives them to stay actively engaged, serving as a significant motivator for human progress.

Indeed, this living principle of constant work, of abundant occupation, of practical contact with men in the affairs of life, has in all times been the best ripener of the energetic vitality of strong natures. Business habits, cultivated and disciplined, are found alike useful in every pursuit—whether in politics, literature, science, or art. Thus, a great deal of the best literary work has been done by men systematically trained in business pursuits. The same industry, application, economy of time and labour, which have rendered them useful in the one sphere of employment, have been found equally available in the other.

Indeed, the principle of constant work, being busy, and engaging directly with people in everyday matters has always been the best way to develop the energetic vitality of strong individuals. Business habits, when developed and disciplined, are useful in every field—whether in politics, literature, science, or art. As a result, a significant amount of the best literary work has been produced by individuals who have been systematically trained in business. The same hard work, focus, and efficient use of time and effort that made them successful in one area have proven just as effective in another.

Most of the early English writers were men of affairs, trained to business; for no literary class as yet existed, excepting it might be the priesthood. Chaucer, the father of English poetry, was first a soldier, and afterwards a comptroller of petty customs. The office was no sinecure either, for he had to write up all the records with his own hand; and when he had done his "reckonings" at the custom-house, he returned with delight to his favourite studies at home—poring over his books until his eyes were "dazed" and dull.

Most of the early English writers were people involved in business; there wasn't really a literary class yet, except maybe for the clergy. Chaucer, known as the father of English poetry, started out as a soldier and later became a customs officer. His job wasn’t an easy one either, as he had to write all the records by hand. After finishing his "accounts" at the customs office, he happily went back to his favorite studies at home, spending hours immersed in his books until his eyes felt "dazed" and tired.

The great writers in the reign of Elizabeth, during which there was such a development of robust life in England, were not literary men according to the modern acceptation of the word, but men of action trained in business. Spenser acted as secretary to the Lord Deputy of Ireland; Raleigh was, by turns, a courtier, soldier, sailor, and discoverer; Sydney was a politician, diplomatist, and soldier; Bacon was a laborious lawyer before he became Lord Keeper and Lord Chancellor; Sir Thomas Browne was a physician in country practice at Norwich; Hooker was the hardworking pastor of a country parish; Shakspeare was the manager of a theatre, in which he was himself but an indifferent actor, and he seems to have been even more careful of his money investments than he was of his intellectual offspring. Yet these, all men of active business habits, are among the greatest writers of any age: the period of Elizabeth and James I. standing out in the history of England as the era of its greatest literary activity and splendour.

The great writers during Elizabeth's reign, a time when England experienced significant growth and vitality, weren’t literary figures in the modern sense, but rather men of action who were skilled in various trades. Spenser served as secretary to the Lord Deputy of Ireland; Raleigh shifted roles between courtier, soldier, sailor, and explorer; Sydney was a politician, diplomat, and soldier; Bacon worked hard as a lawyer before becoming Lord Keeper and then Lord Chancellor; Sir Thomas Browne was a practicing physician in Norwich; Hooker was a dedicated pastor in a rural parish; and Shakespeare managed a theater, where he was only a mediocre actor himself, and appeared to be even more focused on his financial investments than on his creative works. Yet, all these men, grounded in active business practices, are among the greatest writers of any time, with the period of Elizabeth and James I standing out in England's history as its peak of literary activity and brilliance.

In the reign of Charles I., Cowley held various offices of trust and confidence. He acted as private secretary to several of the royalist leaders, and was afterwards engaged as private secretary to the Queen, in ciphering and deciphering the correspondence which passed between her and Charles I.; the work occupying all his days, and often his nights, during several years. And while Cowley was thus employed in the royal cause, Milton was employed by the Commonwealth, of which he was the Latin secretary, and afterwards secretary to the Lord Protector. Yet, in the earlier part of his life, Milton was occupied in the humble vocation of a teacher. Dr. Johnson says, "that in his school, as in everything else which he undertook, he laboured with great diligence, there is no reason for doubting" It was after the Restoration, when his official employment ceased, that Milton entered upon the principal literary work of his life; but before he undertook the writing of his great epic, he deemed it indispensable that to "industrious and select reading" he should add "steady observation" and "insight into all seemly and generous arts and affairs." 1318

During the reign of Charles I, Cowley held several trusted positions. He served as private secretary to various royalist leaders and later worked as private secretary to the Queen, where he spent time encoding and decoding the correspondence between her and Charles I. This work took up all his days and often his nights for several years. While Cowley was dedicated to the royal cause, Milton was working for the Commonwealth as its Latin secretary, and later as secretary to the Lord Protector. However, in the earlier part of his life, Milton was in the modest role of a teacher. Dr. Johnson notes that "in his school, as in everything else he undertook, he worked with great diligence, and there is no reason to doubt that." After the Restoration, when his official duties ended, Milton began the major literary work of his life; but before he started writing his great epic, he believed it was essential to complement "industrious and select reading" with "steady observation" and "insight into all seemly and generous arts and affairs." 1318

Locke held office in different reigns: first under Charles II. as Secretary to the Board of Trade and afterwards under William III. as Commissioner of Appeals and of Trade and Plantations. Many literary men of eminence held office in Queen Anne's reign. Thus Addison was Secretary of State; Steele, Commissioner of Stamps; Prior, Under-Secretary of State, and afterwards Ambassador to France; Tickell, Under-Secretary of State, and Secretary to the Lords Justices of Ireland; Congreve, Secretary of Jamaica;, and Gay, Secretary of Legation at Hanover.

Locke served in various positions during different reigns: first under Charles II as Secretary to the Board of Trade, and later under William III as Commissioner of Appeals and Commissioner of Trade and Plantations. Many prominent literary figures held positions during Queen Anne's reign. For example, Addison was Secretary of State; Steele was Commissioner of Stamps; Prior was Under-Secretary of State and later became Ambassador to France; Tickell was Under-Secretary of State and Secretary to the Lords Justices of Ireland; Congreve was Secretary of Jamaica; and Gay was Secretary of Legation in Hanover.

Indeed, habits of business, instead of unfitting a cultivated mind for scientific or literary pursuits, are often the best training for them. Voltaire insisted with truth that the real spirit of business and literature are the same; the perfection of each being the union of energy and thoughtfulness, of cultivated intelligence and practical wisdom, of the active and contemplative essence—a union commended by Lord Bacon as the concentrated excellence of man's nature. It has been said that even the man of genius can write nothing worth reading in relation to human affairs, unless he has been in some way or other connected with the serious everyday business of life.

Indeed, business habits, instead of making a refined mind unsuitable for scientific or literary pursuits, often provide the best training for them. Voltaire accurately claimed that the true essence of business and literature is the same; the perfection of each lies in the combination of energy and thoughtfulness, developed intelligence and practical wisdom, and the balance of action and contemplation—a combination praised by Lord Bacon as the highest excellence of human nature. It has been said that even a genius can’t write anything worth reading about human affairs unless he has been in some way connected with the serious, everyday business of life.

Hence it has happened that many of the best books, extant have been written by men of business, with whom literature was a pastime rather than a profession. Gifford, the editor of the 'Quarterly,' who knew the drudgery of writing for a living, once observed that "a single hour of composition, won from the business of the day, is worth more than the whole day's toil of him who works at the trade of literature: in the one case, the spirit comes joyfully to refresh itself, like a hart to the waterbrooks; in the other, it pursues its miserable way, panting and jaded, with the dogs and hunger of necessity behind." 1319

Many of the best books still around today have been written by people in business, for whom writing was more of a hobby than a job. Gifford, the editor of the 'Quarterly,' who understood the grind of writing for a paycheck, once said that "an hour of writing, carved out of a busy day, is worth more than an entire day's labor for someone who works in literature: in one case, the spirit comes to refresh itself joyfully, like a deer at the water; in the other, it trudges along, exhausted and panting, with the pressure of necessity close behind." 1319

The first great men of letters in Italy were not mere men of letters; they were men of business—merchants, statesmen, diplomatists, judges, and soldiers. Villani, the author of the best History of Florence, was a merchant; Dante, Petrarch, and Boccacio, were all engaged in more or less important embassies; and Dante, before becoming a diplomatist, was for some time occupied as a chemist and druggist. Galileo, Galvani, and Farini were physicians, and Goldoni a lawyer. Ariosto's talent for affairs was as great as his genius for poetry. At the death of his father, he was called upon to manage the family estate for the benefit of his younger brothers and sisters, which he did with ability and integrity. His genius for business having been recognised, he was employed by the Duke of Ferrara on important missions to Rome and elsewhere. Having afterwards been appointed governor of a turbulent mountain district, he succeeded, by firm and just governments in reducing it to a condition of comparative good order and security. Even the bandits of the country respected him. Being arrested one day in the mountains by a body of outlaws, he mentioned his name, when they at once offered to escort him in safety wherever he chose.

The first great writers in Italy weren't just writers; they were also businesspeople—merchants, politicians, diplomats, judges, and soldiers. Villani, who wrote the best History of Florence, was a merchant; Dante, Petrarch, and Boccaccio were all involved in various important diplomatic missions; and Dante, before becoming a diplomat, worked for a time as a chemist and druggist. Galileo, Galvani, and Farini were doctors, while Goldoni was a lawyer. Ariosto was just as skilled in business as he was in poetry. After his father's death, he managed the family estate for the benefit of his younger siblings, doing so with skill and honesty. Once his business acumen was recognized, he was hired by the Duke of Ferrara for important assignments in Rome and beyond. Later, he was appointed governor of a troubled mountain region and successfully restored order and safety through firm and fair governance. Even the local bandits held him in respect. One day, when he was captured by a group of outlaws in the mountains, he mentioned his name, and they immediately offered to safely escort him wherever he wanted to go.

It has been the same in other countries. Vattel, the author of the 'Rights of Nations,' was a practical diplomatist, and a first-rate man of business. Rabelais was a physician, and a successful practitioner; Schiller was a surgeon; Cervantes, Lope de Vega, Calderon, Camoens, Descartes, Maupertius, La Rochefoucauld, Lacepede, Lamark, were soldiers in the early part of their respective lives.

It has been the same in other countries. Vattel, the author of the 'Rights of Nations,' was a practical diplomat and a top-notch businessman. Rabelais was a doctor and a successful practitioner; Schiller was a surgeon; Cervantes, Lope de Vega, Calderon, Camoens, Descartes, Maupertius, La Rochefoucauld, Lacepede, and Lamark were all soldiers in the early part of their lives.

In our own country, many men now known by their writings, earned their living by their trade. Lillo spent the greater part of his life as a working jeweller in the Poultry; occupying the intervals of his leisure in the production of dramatic works, some of them of acknowledged power and merit. Izaak Walton was a linendraper in Fleet Street, reading much in his leisure hours, and storing his mind with facts for future use in his capacity of biographer. De Foe was by turns horse-factor, brick and tile maker, shopkeeper, author, and political agent.

In our country today, many men who are now recognized for their writing made a living through their trades. Lillo spent most of his life as a working jeweler in the Poultry, using his free time to create dramatic works, some of which are widely regarded for their power and quality. Izaak Walton was a linen merchant in Fleet Street, spending much of his free time reading and filling his mind with facts for future use as a biographer. Defoe worked at various jobs, including horse dealer, brick and tile maker, shopkeeper, author, and political agent.

Samuel Richardson successfully combined literature, with business; writing his novels in his back-shop in Salisbury Court, Fleet Street, and selling them over the counter in his front-shop. William Hutton, of Birmingham, also successfully combined the occupations of bookselling and authorship. He says, in his Autobiography, that a man may live half a century and not be acquainted with his own character. He did not know that he was an antiquary until the world informed him of it, from having read his 'History of Birmingham,' and then, he said, he could see it himself. Benjamin Franklin was alike eminent as a printer and bookseller—an author, a philosopher and a statesman.

Samuel Richardson skillfully merged literature with business by writing his novels in his back room at Salisbury Court, Fleet Street, and selling them directly from his front shop. William Hutton from Birmingham also successfully juggled bookselling and writing. In his Autobiography, he mentions that a person could go for half a century without truly knowing their own character. He had no idea he was an antiquarian until others pointed it out after reading his 'History of Birmingham,' and then he realized it himself. Benjamin Franklin was notable as a printer and bookseller, as well as an author, philosopher, and statesman.

Coming down to our own time, we find Ebenezer Elliott successfully carrying on the business of a bar-iron merchant in Sheffield, during which time he wrote and published the greater number of his poems; and his success in business was such as to enable him to retire into the country and build a house of his own, in which he spent the remainder of his days. Isaac Taylor, the author of the 'Natural History of Enthusiasm,' was an engraver of patterns for Manchester calico-printers; and other members of this gifted family were followers of the same branch of art.

Coming to our own time, we see Ebenezer Elliott successfully running a bar-iron business in Sheffield, during which he wrote and published most of his poems. His success in business allowed him to retire to the countryside and build his own house, where he spent the rest of his life. Isaac Taylor, the author of the 'Natural History of Enthusiasm,' was a pattern engraver for Manchester calico printers, and other members of this talented family also pursued the same art form.

The principal early works of John Stuart Mill were written in the intervals of official work, while he held the office of principal examiner in the East India House,—in which Charles Lamb, Peacock the author of 'Headlong Hall,' and Edwin Norris the philologist, were also clerks. Macaulay wrote his 'Lays of Ancient Rome' in the War Office, while holding the post of Secretary of War. It is well known that the thoughtful writings of Mr. Helps are literally "Essays written in the Intervals of Business." Many of our best living authors are men holding important public offices—such as Sir Henry Taylor, Sir John Kaye, Anthony Trollope, Tom Taylor, Matthew Arnold, and Samuel Warren.

The main early works of John Stuart Mill were written during breaks from his official duties as the principal examiner at the East India House, where Charles Lamb, Peacock, the author of 'Headlong Hall,' and Edwin Norris, the philologist, also worked as clerks. Macaulay wrote his 'Lays of Ancient Rome' while he was at the War Office, serving as Secretary of War. It’s well-known that Mr. Helps' thoughtful writings are literally "Essays written in the Intervals of Business." Many of our best contemporary authors hold significant public positions, like Sir Henry Taylor, Sir John Kaye, Anthony Trollope, Tom Taylor, Matthew Arnold, and Samuel Warren.

Mr. Proctor the poet, better known as "Barry Cornwall," was a barrister and commissioner in lunacy. Most probably he assumed the pseudonym for the same reason that Dr. Paris published his 'Philosophy in Sport made Science in Earnest' anonymously—because he apprehended that, if known, it might compromise his professional position. For it is by no means an uncommon prejudice, still prevalent amongst City men, that a person who has written a book, and still more one who has written a poem, is good for nothing in the way of business. Yet Sharon Turner, though an excellent historian, was no worse a solicitor on that account; while the brothers Horace and James Smith, authors of 'The Rejected Addresses,' were men of such eminence in their profession, that they were selected to fill the important and lucrative post of solicitors to the Admiralty, and they filled it admirably.

Mr. Proctor, the poet better known as "Barry Cornwall," was a lawyer and a commissioner in mental health cases. He likely chose the pseudonym for the same reason that Dr. Paris published his 'Philosophy in Sport made Science in Earnest' anonymously—because he feared it might harm his career if his identity became known. It’s not an uncommon belief, still held by many in the City, that someone who has published a book, especially a poem, isn’t fit for business. However, Sharon Turner, despite being a great historian, was not a worse lawyer for it; similarly, the brothers Horace and James Smith, authors of 'The Rejected Addresses,' were so distinguished in their profession that they were chosen to serve as solicitors to the Admiralty, and they did an excellent job.

It was while the late Mr. Broderip, the barrister, was acting as a London police magistrate, that he was attracted to the study of natural history, in which he occupied the greater part of his leisure. He wrote the principal articles on the subject for the 'Penny Cyclopaedia,' besides several separate works of great merit, more particularly the 'Zoological Recreations,' and 'Leaves from the Notebook of a Naturalist.' It is recorded of him that, though he devoted so much of his time to the production of his works, as well as to the Zoological Society and their admirable establishment in Regent's Park, of which he was one of the founders, his studies never interfered with the real business of his life, nor is it known that a single question was ever raised upon his conduct or his decisions. And while Mr. Broderip devoted himself to natural history, the late Lord Chief Baron Pollock devoted his leisure to natural science, recreating himself in the practice of photography and the study of mathematics, in both of which he was thoroughly proficient.

It was during the time when the late Mr. Broderip, a barrister, was serving as a London police magistrate that he became interested in studying natural history, which occupied most of his free time. He wrote the main articles on the topic for the 'Penny Cyclopaedia,' as well as several noteworthy separate works, especially 'Zoological Recreations' and 'Leaves from the Notebook of a Naturalist.' It's recorded that, despite spending so much time producing his works and contributing to the Zoological Society and its excellent facility in Regent's Park—of which he was one of the founders—his studies never interfered with his actual job, and it’s not known that any questions were ever raised about his conduct or decisions. While Mr. Broderip dedicated himself to natural history, the late Lord Chief Baron Pollock spent his leisure time on natural science, enjoying photography and studying mathematics, in which he was highly skilled.

Among literary bankers we find the names of Rogers, the poet; Roscoe, of Liverpool, the biographer of Lorenzo de Medici; Ricardo, the author of 'Political Economy and Taxation; 1320 Grote, the author of the 'History of Greece;' Sir John Lubbock, the scientific antiquarian; 1321 and Samuel Bailey, of Sheffield, the author of 'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,' besides various important works on ethics, political economy, and philosophy.

Among literary bankers, we see names like Rogers, the poet; Roscoe from Liverpool, who wrote the biography of Lorenzo de Medici; Ricardo, the author of 'Political Economy and Taxation;' 1320 Grote, who wrote the 'History of Greece;' Sir John Lubbock, the scientific antiquarian; 1321 and Samuel Bailey from Sheffield, who wrote 'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,' along with several significant works on ethics, political economy, and philosophy.

Nor, on the other hand, have thoroughly-trained men of science and learning proved themselves inefficient as first-rate men of business. Culture of the best sort trains the habit of application and industry, disciplines the mind, supplies it with resources, and gives it freedom and vigour of action—all of which are equally requisite in the successful conduct of business. Thus, in young men, education and scholarship usually indicate steadiness of character, for they imply continuous attention, diligence, and the ability and energy necessary to master knowledge; and such persons will also usually be found possessed of more than average promptitude, address, resource, and dexterity.

Nor have well-trained scientists and educated individuals proven to be less effective as top-notch businesspeople. High-quality education fosters habits of focus and hard work, trains the mind, provides resources, and grants the freedom and energy needed for action—all of which are essential for successfully running a business. Therefore, in young individuals, education and scholarship often reflect a strong character, as they suggest ongoing commitment, hard work, and the skill and energy needed to acquire knowledge. Such individuals are also typically found to possess above-average quickness, charm, resourcefulness, and skill.

Montaigne has said of true philosophers, that "if they were great in science, they were yet much greater in action;... and whenever they have been put upon the proof, they have been seen to fly to so high a pitch, as made it very well appear their souls were strangely elevated and enriched with the knowledge of things." 1322

Montaigne said of true philosophers that "if they were great in knowledge, they were even greater in action;... and whenever they were tested, they showed such a high level of excellence that it was clear their minds were deeply elevated and enriched with understanding." 1322

At the same time, it must be acknowledged that too exclusive a devotion to imaginative and philosophical literature, especially if prolonged in life until the habits become formed, does to a great extent incapacitate a man for the business of practical life. Speculative ability is one thing, and practical ability another; and the man who, in his study, or with his pen in hand, shows himself capable of forming large views of life and policy, may, in the outer world, be found altogether unfitted for carrying them into practical effect.

At the same time, it’s important to recognize that being overly dedicated to imaginative and philosophical literature, especially if it continues throughout life until it becomes a habit, can significantly hinder a person’s ability to deal with practical matters. The ability to think conceptually is one thing, while practical skills are another; a person who can develop broad ideas about life and policies in their studies or while writing may find themselves completely unprepared to implement those ideas in the real world.

Speculative ability depends on vigorous thinking—practical ability on vigorous acting; and the two qualities are usually found combined in very unequal proportions. The speculative man is prone to indecision: he sees all the sides of a question, and his action becomes suspended in nicely weighing the pros and cons, which are often found pretty nearly to balance each other; whereas the practical man overleaps logical preliminaries, arrives at certain definite convictions, and proceeds forthwith to carry his policy into action. 1323

Speculative thinking relies on active thought—practical ability relies on active doing; and these two qualities are often found together in very uneven amounts. The speculative person tends to be indecisive: they see all sides of an issue, and their actions get held up while they carefully weigh the pros and cons, which often end up being almost equal; meanwhile, the practical person skips the logical steps, reaches firm conclusions, and immediately takes action on their plans. 1323

Yet there have been many great men of science who have proved efficient men of business. We do not learn that Sir Isaac Newton made a worse Master of the Mint because he was the greatest of philosophers. Nor were there any complaints as to the efficiency of Sir John Herschel, who held the same office. The brothers Humboldt were alike capable men in all that they undertook—whether it was literature, philosophy, mining, philology, diplomacy, or statesmanship.

Yet there have been many great scientists who have also proven to be effective businesspeople. We don't see that Sir Isaac Newton was any less effective as Master of the Mint simply because he was the greatest philosopher. Nor were there any complaints about the efficiency of Sir John Herschel, who held the same position. The Humboldt brothers were equally skilled in everything they tackled—whether it was literature, philosophy, mining, linguistics, diplomacy, or politics.

Niebuhr, the historian, was distinguished for his energy and success as a man of business. He proved so efficient as secretary and accountant to the African consulate, to which he had been appointed by the Danish Government, that he was afterwards selected as one of the commissioners to manage the national finances; and he quitted that office to undertake the joint directorship of a bank at Berlin. It was in the midst of his business occupations that he found time to study Roman history, to master the Arabic, Russian, and other Sclavonic languages, and to build up the great reputation as an author by which he is now chiefly remembered.

Niebuhr, the historian, was known for his energy and success as a businessman. He was so effective as the secretary and accountant for the African consulate, which he was appointed to by the Danish Government, that he was later chosen as one of the commissioners to oversee the national finances. He left that position to take on the joint directorship of a bank in Berlin. Even while busy with his work, he managed to find time to study Roman history, master Arabic, Russian, and other Slavic languages, and establish the great reputation as an author that he is primarily remembered for now.

Having regard to the views professed by the First Napoleon as to men of science, it was to have been expected that he would endeavour to strengthen his administration by calling them to his aid. Some of his appointments proved failures, while others were completely successful. Thus Laplace was made Minister of the Interior; but he had no sooner been appointed than it was seen that a mistake had been made. Napoleon afterwards said of him, that "Laplace looked at no question in its true point of view. He was always searching after subtleties; all his ideas were problems, and he carried the spirit of the infinitesimal calculus into the management of business." But Laplace's habits had been formed in the study, and he was too old to adapt them to the purposes of practical life.

Considering the opinions expressed by First Napoleon regarding scientists, it was expected that he would try to bolster his administration by bringing them on board. Some of his appointments were failures, while others were completely successful. For example, Laplace was appointed Minister of the Interior, but it quickly became clear that it was a mistake. Napoleon later remarked that "Laplace never looked at any question from the right perspective. He was always chasing after subtleties; all his ideas were problems, and he applied the spirit of infinitesimal calculus to managing affairs." However, Laplace's habits were formed in academia, and he was too old to adjust them for practical life.

With Darn it was different. But Darn had the advantage of some practical training in business, having served as an intendant of the army in Switzerland under Massena, during which he also distinguished himself as an author. When Napoleon proposed to appoint him a councillor of state and intendant of the Imperial Household, Darn hesitated to accept the office. "I have passed the greater part of my life," he said, "among books, and have not had time to learn the functions of a courtier." "Of courtiers," replied Napoleon, "I have plenty about me; they will never fail. But I want a minister, at once enlightened, firm, and vigilant; and it is for these qualities that I have selected you." Darn complied with the Emperor's wishes, and eventually became his Prime Minister, proving thoroughly efficient in that capacity, and remaining the same modest, honourable, and disinterested man that he had ever been through life.

With Darn, it was different. But Darn had the advantage of some practical training in business, having served as an administrator of the army in Switzerland under Massena, during which he also distinguished himself as an author. When Napoleon proposed to appoint him a state counselor and manager of the Imperial Household, Darn hesitated to accept the position. "I have spent most of my life," he said, "among books, and I haven’t had time to learn the responsibilities of a courtier." "I have plenty of courtiers," replied Napoleon, "and they will never be in short supply. But I want a minister who is knowledgeable, firm, and vigilant; and that's why I've chosen you." Darn agreed to the Emperor's wishes and eventually became his Prime Minister, proving to be thoroughly effective in that role while remaining the same modest, honorable, and selfless man he had always been throughout his life.

Men of trained working faculty so contract the habit of labour that idleness becomes intolerable to them; and when driven by circumstances from their own special line of occupation, they find refuge in other pursuits. The diligent man is quick to find employment for his leisure; and he is able to make leisure when the idle man finds none. "He hath no leisure," says George Herbert, "who useth it not." "The most active or busy man that hath been or can be," says Bacon, "hath, no question, many vacant times of leisure, while he expecteth the tides and returns of business, except he be either tedious and of no despatch, or lightly and unworthily ambitious to meddle with things that may be better done by others." Thus many great things have been done during such "vacant times of leisure," by men to whom industry had become a second nature, and who found it easier to work than to be idle.

People with a strong work ethic become so accustomed to hard work that idleness feels unbearable to them. When circumstances force them away from their usual jobs, they seek out other activities. The hardworking individual quickly finds ways to fill their free time, while the idle person struggles to make the most of theirs. "He has no leisure," says George Herbert, "who does not use it." "The busiest person," says Bacon, "certainly has many moments of free time while waiting for work to come back around, unless they’re slow and inefficient, or foolishly eager to get involved in tasks that others can do better." As a result, many significant achievements have happened during these "free moments," by people for whom hard work is second nature and who find it easier to be productive than to do nothing.

Even hobbies are useful as educators of the working faculty. Hobbies evoke industry of a certain kind, and at least provide agreeable occupation. Not such hobbies as that of Domitian, who occupied himself in catching flies. The hobbies of the King of Macedon who made lanthorns, and of the King of France who made locks, were of a more respectable order. Even a routine mechanical employment is felt to be a relief by minds acting under high-pressure: it is an intermission of labour—a rest—a relaxation, the pleasure consisting in the work itself rather than in the result.

Even hobbies can be beneficial for developing our skills. Hobbies encourage a certain kind of productivity and at least offer enjoyable activities. Not like the hobby of Domitian, who spent his time catching flies. The hobbies of the King of Macedon, who made lanterns, and the King of France, who crafted locks, were more respectable. Even a routine mechanical task can provide relief for minds under stress: it's a break from work—a rest—a chance to relax, with the enjoyment coming from the work itself rather than the outcome.

But the best of hobbies are intellectual ones. Thus men of active mind retire from their daily business to find recreation in other pursuits—some in science, some in art, and the greater number in literature. Such recreations are among the best preservatives against selfishness and vulgar worldliness. We believe it was Lord Brougham who said, "Blessed is the man that hath a hobby!" and in the abundant versatility of his nature, he himself had many, ranging from literature to optics, from history and biography to social science. Lord Brougham is even said to have written a novel; and the remarkable story of the 'Man in the Bell,' which appeared many years ago in 'Blackwood,' is reputed to have been from his pen. Intellectual hobbies, however, must not be ridden too hard—else, instead of recreating, refreshing, and invigorating a man's nature, they may only have the effect of sending him back to his business exhausted, enervated, and depressed.

But the best hobbies are intellectual ones. So, active-minded people step away from their daily work to unwind in other activities—some in science, some in art, and most in literature. These pastimes are some of the best defenses against selfishness and shallow materialism. It’s believed that Lord Brougham said, "Blessed is the man that has a hobby!" and he himself had many, showcasing the wide range of his interests, from literature to optics, history and biography to social science. Lord Brougham is even said to have written a novel, and the intriguing story of the 'Man in the Bell,' which was published many years ago in 'Blackwood,' is rumored to have been written by him. However, intellectual hobbies shouldn’t be pursued too intensely—otherwise, instead of rejuvenating and refreshing a person, they may leave him returning to work feeling worn out, drained, and disheartened.

Many laborious statesmen besides Lord Brougham have occupied their leisure, or consoled themselves in retirement from office, by the composition of works which have become part of the standard literature of the world. Thus 'Caesar's Commentaries' still survive as a classic; the perspicuous and forcible style in which they are written placing him in the same rank with Xenophon, who also successfully combined the pursuit of letters with the business of active life.

Many hardworking politicians besides Lord Brougham have used their free time, or found comfort in retirement from office, by writing works that have become part of the world's standard literature. For example, 'Caesar's Commentaries' still exist as a classic; the clear and powerful style in which they are written places him at the same level as Xenophon, who also successfully balanced writing with a busy life.

When the great Sully was disgraced as a minister, and driven into retirement, he occupied his leisure in writing out his 'Memoirs,' in anticipation of the judgment of posterity upon his career as a statesman. Besides these, he also composed part of a romance after the manner of the Scuderi school, the manuscript of which was found amongst his papers at his death.

When the renowned Sully was shamed as a minister and forced into retirement, he spent his free time writing his 'Memoirs,' hoping for a favorable evaluation from future generations regarding his political career. In addition to this, he also wrote part of a romance in the style of the Scuderi school, and the manuscript was discovered among his papers after his death.

Turgot found a solace for the loss of office, from which he had been driven by the intrigues of his enemies, in the study of physical science. He also reverted to his early taste for classical literature. During his long journeys, and at nights when tortured by the gout, he amused himself by making Latin verses; though the only line of his that has been preserved was that intended to designate the portrait of Benjamin Franklin:

Turgot found comfort after losing his position, which he lost due to the scheming of his enemies, in the study of physical science. He also returned to his early love for classical literature. During his long travels and at night when he was suffering from gout, he entertained himself by composing Latin verses; however, the only line of his that has been kept is the one meant to describe the portrait of Benjamin Franklin:

      "Eripuit caelo fulmen, sceptrumque tyrannis."
"Snatched lightning from the sky, and the scepter from tyrants."

Among more recent French statesmen—with whom, however, literature has been their profession as much as politics—may be mentioned De Tocqueville, Thiers, Guizot, and Lamartine, while Napoleon III. challenged a place in the Academy by his 'Life of Caesar.'

Among more recent French politicians—who have also been as much involved in literature as in politics—are De Tocqueville, Thiers, Guizot, and Lamartine, while Napoleon III sought a spot in the Academy with his 'Life of Caesar.'

Literature has also been the chief solace of our greatest English statesmen. When Pitt retired from office, like his great contemporary Fox, he reverted with delight to the study of the Greek and Roman classics. Indeed, Grenville considered Pitt the best Greek scholar he had ever known. Canning and Wellesley, when in retirement, occupied themselves in translating the odes and satires of Horace. Canning's passion for literature entered into all his pursuits, and gave a colour to his whole life. His biographer says of him, that after a dinner at Pitt's, while the rest of the company were dispersed in conversation, he and Pitt would be observed poring over some old Grecian in a corner of the drawing-room. Fox also was a diligent student of the Greek authors, and, like Pitt, read Lycophron. He was also the author of a History of James II., though the book is only a fragment, and, it must be confessed, is rather a disappointing work.

Literature has been the main comfort for our greatest English statesmen. When Pitt stepped down from office, he, like his prominent contemporary Fox, eagerly returned to studying the Greek and Roman classics. In fact, Grenville believed Pitt was the best Greek scholar he had ever known. During their retirement, Canning and Wellesley spent their time translating the odes and satires of Horace. Canning's love for literature influenced all his activities and colored his entire life. His biographer notes that after dinner at Pitt's, while the rest of the guests engaged in conversation, he and Pitt could be seen engrossed in some ancient Greek text in a corner of the drawing-room. Fox was also a dedicated student of Greek literature, reading Lycophron just like Pitt. He even wrote a History of James II., although the book remains just a fragment and is, to be honest, somewhat disappointing.

One of the most able and laborious of our recent statesmen—with whom literature was a hobby as well as a pursuit—was the late Sir George Cornewall Lewis. He was an excellent man of business—diligent, exact, and painstaking. He filled by turns the offices of President of the Poor Law Board—the machinery of which he created,—Chancellor of the Exchequer, Home Secretary, and Secretary at War; and in each he achieved the reputation of a thoroughly successful administrator. In the intervals of his official labours, he occupied himself with inquiries into a wide range of subjects—history, politics, philology, anthropology, and antiquarianism. His works on 'The Astronomy of the Ancients,' and 'Essays on the Formation of the Romanic Languages,' might have been written by the profoundest of German SAVANS. He took especial delight in pursuing the abstruser branches of learning, and found in them his chief pleasure and recreation. Lord Palmerston sometimes remonstrated with him, telling him he was "taking too much out of himself" by laying aside official papers after office-hours in order to study books; Palmerston himself declaring that he had no time to read books—that the reading of manuscript was quite enough for him.

One of the most capable and hardworking statesmen of our time—who treated literature as both a hobby and a career—was the late Sir George Cornewall Lewis. He was an exceptional businessman—dedicated, precise, and thorough. He held various positions, including President of the Poor Law Board (which he established), Chancellor of the Exchequer, Home Secretary, and Secretary at War; in each role, he gained a reputation as a highly effective administrator. During his time off from official duties, he explored a broad range of topics—history, politics, linguistics, anthropology, and archaeology. His works on 'The Astronomy of the Ancients' and 'Essays on the Formation of the Romanic Languages' could have been penned by the most knowledgeable German scholars. He particularly enjoyed delving into the more complex areas of study, finding his greatest joy and relaxation in them. Lord Palmerston occasionally expressed concern, telling him he was "taking too much out of himself" by putting aside official documents after hours to read. Palmerston claimed he had no time for books, stating that reading manuscripts was more than enough for him.

Doubtless Sir George Lewis rode his hobby too hard, and but for his devotion to study, his useful life would probably have been prolonged. Whether in or out of office, he read, wrote, and studied. He relinquished the editorship of the 'Edinburgh Review' to become Chancellor of the Exchequer; and when no longer occupied in preparing budgets, he proceeded to copy out a mass of Greek manuscripts at the British Museum. He took particular delight in pursuing any difficult inquiry in classical antiquity. One of the odd subjects with which he occupied himself was an examination into the truth of reported cases of longevity, which, according to his custom, he doubted or disbelieved. This subject was uppermost in his mind while pursuing his canvass of Herefordshire in 1852. On applying to a voter one day for his support, he was met by a decided refusal. "I am sorry," was the candidate's reply, "that you can't give me your vote; but perhaps you can tell me whether anybody in your parish has died at an extraordinary age!"

There’s no doubt that Sir George Lewis pushed himself too hard, and if it weren't for his dedication to study, he probably would have lived a longer life. Whether he was in office or not, he read, wrote, and studied. He gave up being the editor of the 'Edinburgh Review' to become Chancellor of the Exchequer, and when he wasn’t busy preparing budgets, he copied a large number of Greek manuscripts at the British Museum. He particularly enjoyed tackling difficult questions related to classical antiquity. One of the unusual topics he focused on was investigating the truth behind reported cases of longevity, which he, as usual, questioned or doubted. This topic was on his mind while he campaigned in Herefordshire in 1852. One day, when he asked a voter for their support, he was met with a firm refusal. "I’m sorry," the candidate replied, "that you can’t give me your vote; but maybe you can tell me if anyone in your parish has lived to an extraordinary age!"

The contemporaries of Sir George Lewis also furnish many striking instances of the consolations afforded by literature to statesmen wearied with the toils of public life. Though the door of office may be closed, that of literature stands always open, and men who are at daggers-drawn in politics, join hands over the poetry of Homer and Horace. The late Earl of Derby, on retiring from power, produced his noble version of 'The Iliad,' which will probably continue to be read when his speeches have been forgotten. Mr. Gladstone similarly occupied his leisure in preparing for the press his 'Studies on Homer,' 1324 and in editing a translation of 'Farini's Roman State;' while Mr. Disraeli signalised his retirement from office by the production of his 'Lothair.' Among statesmen who have figured as novelists, besides Mr. Disraeli, are Lord Russell, who has also contributed largely to history and biography; the Marquis of Normandy, and the veteran novelist, Lord Lytton, with whom, indeed, politics may be said to have been his recreation, and literature the chief employment of his life.

The contemporaries of Sir George Lewis also provide many striking examples of the comfort that literature offers to politicians worn out by the demands of public life. Although the door to political office may be closed, the door to literature is always open. Men who are fierce rivals in politics can unite over the poetry of Homer and Horace. The late Earl of Derby, upon stepping down from power, released his impressive version of 'The Iliad,' which will likely continue to be read long after his speeches are forgotten. Mr. Gladstone similarly spent his free time preparing for publication his 'Studies on Homer,' 1324 and editing a translation of 'Farini's Roman State.' Meanwhile, Mr. Disraeli marked his retirement from office with the release of his novel 'Lothair.' Among the politicians who have also been novelists, besides Mr. Disraeli, are Lord Russell, who has made significant contributions to history and biography; the Marquis of Normandy, and the seasoned novelist, Lord Lytton, for whom politics can be considered a pastime and literature the main focus of his life.

To conclude: a fair measure of work is good for mind as well as body. Man is an intelligence sustained and preserved by bodily organs, and their active exercise is necessary to the enjoyment of health. It is not work, but overwork, that is hurtful; and it is not hard work that is injurious so much as monotonous work, fagging work, hopeless work. All hopeful work is healthful; and to be usefully and hopefully employed is one of the great secrets of happiness. Brain-work, in moderation, is no more wearing than any other kind of work. Duly regulated, it is as promotive of health as bodily exercise; and, where due attention is paid to the physical system, it seems difficult to put more upon a man than he can bear. Merely to eat and drink and sleep one's way idly through life is vastly more injurious. The wear-and-tear of rust is even faster than the tear-and-wear of work.

To sum up: a balanced amount of work is beneficial for both the mind and body. A person is an intellect supported and maintained by physical organs, and keeping them active is essential for good health. It's not the work itself that's harmful, but overworking; and it's not challenging work that's damaging as much as it is repetitive work, exhausting work, or work that feels pointless. All work done with hope is good for your health, and being usefully and positively engaged is one of the key secrets to happiness. Mental work, when done in moderation, is no more tiring than other types of work. When managed properly, it promotes health just as much as physical exercise does; and if attention is given to the physical aspect, it’s hard to push someone beyond their limits. Simply eating, drinking, and sleeping through life idly is far more damaging. The deterioration from inaction happens even faster than from work.

But overwork is always bad economy. It is, in fact, great waste, especially if conjoined with worry. Indeed, worry kills far more than work does. It frets, it excites, it consumes the body—as sand and grit, which occasion excessive friction, wear out the wheels of a machine. Overwork and worry have both to be guarded against. For over-brain-work is strain-work; and it is exhausting and destructive according as it is in excess of nature. And the brain-worker may exhaust and overbalance his mind by excess, just as the athlete may overstrain his muscles and break his back by attempting feats beyond the strength of his physical system.

But overworking is always a bad idea. It's actually a huge waste, especially when combined with anxiety. In fact, anxiety is far more harmful than work is. It irritates, it agitates, it drains the body—just like sand and grit, which create too much friction, wear down a machine's wheels. Both overwork and worry need to be avoided. Excessive mental work is tiring and damaging, especially when it goes beyond what’s natural. A person who works their brain too hard can wear themselves out and disrupt their mental balance, just like an athlete can strain their muscles and hurt themselves by pushing their body beyond its limits.





CHAPTER V.—COURAGE.

        "It is not but the tempest that doth show
         The seaman's cunning; but the field that tries
         The captain's courage; and we come to know
         Best what men are, in their worst jeopardies."—DANIEL.

    "If thou canst plan a noble deed,
     And never flag till it succeed,
     Though in the strife thy heart should bleed,
     Whatever obstacles control,
     Thine hour will come—go on, true soul!
     Thou'lt win the prize, thou'lt reach the goal."—C. MACKAY.

     "The heroic example of other days is in great part the
     source of the courage of each generation; and men walk up
     composedly to the most perilous enterprises, beckoned
     onwards by the shades of the brave that were."—HELPS.

            "That which we are, we are,
      One equal temper of heroic hearts,
      Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
      To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."—TENNYSON.
        "It's only the storm that reveals
         A sailor's skill; but it's the battlefield that tests
         A captain's bravery; and we truly understand
         Who people are in their most dangerous moments."—DANIEL.

    "If you can plan a great act,
     And never give up until you succeed,
     Even if your heart breaks in the struggle,
     No matter what obstacles get in your way,
     Your time will come—keep going, brave soul!
     You'll win the prize, you'll reach the goal."—C. MACKAY.

     "The heroic examples from the past largely inspire
     The courage of every generation; and people face
     The most dangerous challenges with composure, guided
     By the spirits of the brave who came before."—HELPS.

            "What we are, we are,
      One steady spirit of heroic hearts,
      Made weak by time and circumstance, but strong in will
      To strive, to seek, to find, and not to give up."—TENNYSON.

THE world owes much to its men and women of courage. We do not mean physical courage, in which man is at least equalled by the bulldog; nor is the bulldog considered the wisest of his species.

THE world owes a lot to its brave men and women. We're not talking about physical courage, which can be found in animals like bulldogs as much as in humans; nor is the bulldog seen as the smartest of their kind.

The courage that displays itself in silent effort and endeavour—that dares to endure all and suffer all for truth and duty—is more truly heroic than the achievements of physical valour, which are rewarded by honours and titles, or by laurels sometimes steeped in blood.

The courage that shows up in quiet hard work and determination—that is willing to endure everything and suffer anything for truth and duty—is more genuinely heroic than the feats of physical bravery, which are celebrated with honors and titles, or by laurels that are sometimes soaked in blood.

It is moral courage that characterises the highest order of manhood and womanhood—the courage to seek and to speak the truth; the courage to be just; the courage to be honest; the courage to resist temptation; the courage to do one's duty. If men and women do not possess this virtue, they have no security whatever for the preservation of any other.

It is moral courage that defines the highest form of manhood and womanhood—the bravery to seek and share the truth; the bravery to be fair; the bravery to be honest; the bravery to resist temptation; the bravery to fulfill one's responsibilities. If individuals lack this virtue, they have no guarantee for the protection of any other.

Every step of progress in the history of our race has been made in the face of opposition and difficulty, and been achieved and secured by men of intrepidity and valour—by leaders in the van of thought—by great discoverers, great patriots, and great workers in all walks of life. There is scarcely a great truth or doctrine but has had to fight its way to public recognition in the face of detraction, calumny, and persecution. "Everywhere," says Heine, "that a great soul gives utterance to its thoughts, there also is a Golgotha."

Every step forward in the history of our species has been made despite opposition and challenges, achieved and secured by brave and courageous individuals—by leaders at the forefront of ideas—by great pioneers, great patriots, and great workers in every field. Almost every significant truth or belief has had to battle for public acknowledgment against ridicule, slander, and persecution. "Everywhere," says Heine, "that a great soul expresses its thoughts, there too is a Golgotha."

    "Many loved Truth and lavished life's best oil,
       Amid the dust of books to find her,
    Content at last, for guerdon of their toil,
       With the cast mantle she had left behind her.
    Many in sad faith sought for her,
    Many with crossed hands sighed for her,
    But these, our brothers, fought for her,
    At life's dear peril wrought for her,
    So loved her that they died for her,
    Tasting the raptured fleetness
    Of her divine completeness." 141
"Many loved Truth and poured their best efforts into finding her among the dusty books, finally satisfied for the reward of their labor, with the cast-off mantle she had left behind. Many in sorrowful faith searched for her, many sighed for her with their hands crossed, but these, our brothers, fought for her, risking life itself for her, so deeply loved her that they died for her, experiencing the ecstatic fleetingness of her divine wholeness." 141

Socrates was condemned to drink the hemlock at Athens in his seventy-second year, because his lofty teaching ran counter to the prejudices and party-spirit of his age. He was charged by his accusers with corrupting the youth of Athens by inciting them to despise the tutelary deities of the state. He had the moral courage to brave not only the tyranny of the judges who condemned him, but of the mob who could not understand him. He died discoursing of the doctrine of the immortality of the soul; his last words to his judges being, "It is now time that we depart—I to die, you to live; but which has the better destiny is unknown to all, except to the God."

Socrates was sentenced to drink poison in Athens at the age of seventy-two because his high-minded teachings went against the biases and political factions of his time. His accusers claimed he was corrupting the young people of Athens by encouraging them to disregard the protective gods of the city. He had the moral strength to stand up not just to the oppressive judges who sentenced him, but also to the crowd that failed to understand him. He died discussing the belief in the immortality of the soul, with his last words to his judges being, "It's time for us to part—I to die, you to live; but which of us has the better fate is known only to God."

How many great men and thinkers have been persecuted in the name of religion! Bruno was burnt alive at Rome, because of his exposure of the fashionable but false philosophy of his time. When the judges of the Inquisition condemned him, to die, Bruno said proudly: "You are more afraid to pronounce my sentence than I am to receive it."

How many great men and thinkers have been persecuted in the name of religion! Bruno was burned alive in Rome for exposing the popular yet false philosophy of his time. When the Inquisition judges sentenced him to death, Bruno proudly said, "You are more afraid to pronounce my sentence than I am to receive it."

To him succeeded Galileo, whose character as a man of science is almost eclipsed by that of the martyr. Denounced by the priests from the pulpit, because of the views he taught as to the motion of the earth, he was summoned to Rome, in his seventieth year, to answer for his heterodoxy. And he was imprisoned in the Inquisition, if he was not actually put to the torture there. He was pursued by persecution even when dead, the Pope refusing a tomb for his body.

To him succeeded Galileo, whose identity as a scientist is almost overshadowed by his role as a martyr. He was denounced by priests from the pulpit for the theories he presented about the movement of the earth and was called to Rome at the age of seventy to defend his beliefs. He was imprisoned by the Inquisition, and though he may not have been tortured there, he faced continued persecution even after his death, with the Pope denying him a burial site for his body.

Roger Bacon, the Franciscan monk, was persecuted on account of his studies in natural philosophy, and he was charged with, dealing in magic, because of his investigations in chemistry. His writings were condemned, and he was thrown into prison, where he lay for ten years, during the lives of four successive Popes. It is even averred that he died in prison.

Roger Bacon, the Franciscan monk, faced persecution due to his studies in natural philosophy and was accused of practicing magic because of his research in chemistry. His writings were banned, and he was imprisoned for ten years, throughout the reigns of four consecutive Popes. It's even claimed that he died in prison.

Ockham, the early English speculative philosopher, was excommunicated by the Pope, and died in exile at Munich, where he was protected by the friendship of the then Emperor of Germany.

Ockham, the early English speculative philosopher, was excommunicated by the Pope and died in exile in Munich, where he was sheltered by the friendship of the Emperor of Germany at that time.

The Inquisition branded Vesalius as a heretic for revealing man to man, as it had before branded Bruno and Galileo for revealing the heavens to man. Vesalius had the boldness to study the structure of the human body by actual dissection, a practice until then almost entirely forbidden. He laid the foundations of a science, but he paid for it with his life. Condemned by the Inquisition, his penalty was commuted, by the intercession of the Spanish king, into a pilgrimage to the Holy Land; and when on his way back, while still in the prime of life, he died miserably at Zante, of fever and want—a martyr to his love of science.

The Inquisition labeled Vesalius a heretic for exposing human anatomy, just as it had previously done to Bruno and Galileo for revealing the cosmos. Vesalius had the audacity to dissect the human body, a practice that had been nearly completely banned until then. He established the groundwork for a new science but paid the ultimate price. Although condemned by the Inquisition, his punishment was changed, thanks to the intervention of the Spanish king, to a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. Tragically, on his way back, while still young, he suffered a miserable death from fever and deprivation in Zante—a martyr for his passion for science.

When the 'Novum Organon' appeared, a hue-and-cry was raised against it, because of its alleged tendency to produce "dangerous revolutions," to "subvert governments," and to "overturn the authority of religion;" 142 and one Dr. Henry Stubbe [14whose name would otherwise have been forgotten] wrote a book against the new philosophy, denouncing the whole tribe of experimentalists as "a Bacon-faced generation." Even the establishment of the Royal Society was opposed, on the ground that "experimental philosophy is subversive of the Christian faith."

When the 'Novum Organon' was published, there was an uproar against it because people thought it would lead to "dangerous revolutions," "overthrow governments," and "undermine the authority of religion;" 142 and one Dr. Henry Stubbe [14whose name would otherwise have been forgotten] wrote a book criticizing the new philosophy, attacking the entire group of experimentalists as "a Bacon-faced generation." Even the formation of the Royal Society faced resistance, with critics claiming that "experimental philosophy undermines the Christian faith."

While the followers of Copernicus were persecuted as infidels, Kepler was branded with the stigma of heresy, "because," said he, "I take that side which seems to me to be consonant with the Word of God." Even the pure and simpleminded Newton, of whom Bishop Burnet said that he had the WHITEST SOUL he ever knew—who was a very infant in the purity of his mind—even Newton was accused of "dethroning the Deity" by his sublime discovery of the law of gravitation; and a similar charge was made against Franklin for explaining the nature of the thunderbolt.

While Copernicus's followers faced persecution as nonbelievers, Kepler was labeled a heretic, saying, "I align with what seems to me to be in agreement with the Word of God." Even the pure-hearted Newton, whom Bishop Burnet declared had the WHITEST SOUL he ever knew—who was like a child in the purity of his mind—even Newton was accused of "dethroning God" with his groundbreaking discovery of the law of gravitation; a similar accusation was made against Franklin for explaining the nature of lightning.

Spinoza was excommunicated by the Jews, to whom he belonged, because of his views of philosophy, which were supposed to be adverse to religion; and his life was afterwards attempted by an assassin for the same reason. Spinoza remained courageous and self-reliant to the last, dying in obscurity and poverty.

Spinoza was excommunicated by the Jewish community he was part of because of his philosophical views, which were seen as opposed to religion. Later, an assassin tried to kill him for the same reason. Spinoza stayed brave and independent until the end, dying in obscurity and poverty.

The philosophy of Descartes was denounced as leading to irreligion; the doctrines of Locke were said to produce materialism; and in our own day, Dr. Buckland, Mr. Sedgwick, and other leading geologists, have been accused of overturning revelation with regard to the constitution and history of the earth. Indeed, there has scarcely been a discovery in astronomy, in natural history, or in physical science, that has not been attacked by the bigoted and narrow-minded as leading to infidelity.

The philosophy of Descartes was criticized for promoting irreligion; Locke's ideas were said to lead to materialism; and today, Dr. Buckland, Mr. Sedgwick, and other prominent geologists have been accused of contradicting revealed truths about the earth's structure and history. In fact, almost every discovery in astronomy, natural history, or physical science has faced backlash from the bigoted and narrow-minded as being a path to infidelity.

Other great discoverers, though they may not have been charged with irreligion, have had not less obloquy of a professional and public nature to encounter. When Dr. Harvey published his theory of the circulation of the blood, his practice fell off, 143 and the medical profession stigmatised him as a fool. "The few good things I have been able to do," said John Hunter, "have been accomplished with the greatest difficulty, and encountered the greatest opposition." Sir Charles Bell, while employed in his important investigations as to the nervous system, which issued in one of the greatest of physiological discoveries, wrote to a friend: "If I were not so poor, and had not so many vexations to encounter, how happy would I be!" But he himself observed that his practice sensibly fell off after the publication of each successive stage of his discovery.

Other great discoverers, even if they weren’t accused of being irreligious, still faced significant public and professional criticism. When Dr. Harvey published his theory on blood circulation, his medical practice declined, 143 and the medical community branded him a fool. "The few good things I’ve been able to do," John Hunter said, "have been achieved with tremendous difficulty and met with the greatest opposition." Sir Charles Bell, while working on his important research into the nervous system that led to one of the most significant physiological discoveries, wrote to a friend: "If I weren’t so poor, and didn’t have so many frustrations to deal with, how happy I would be!" However, he noticed that his practice noticeably decreased after each part of his discovery was published.

Thus, nearly every enlargement of the domain of knowledge, which has made us better acquainted with the heavens, with the earth, and with ourselves, has been established by the energy, the devotion, the self-sacrifice, and the courage of the great spirits of past times, who, however much they have been opposed or reviled by their contemporaries, now rank amongst those whom the enlightened of the human race most delight to honour.

Thus, almost every expansion of our understanding, which has helped us know more about the skies, the earth, and ourselves, has been driven by the energy, dedication, selflessness, and bravery of the great minds from the past. Despite facing opposition or criticism from their peers, they are now celebrated by those who are enlightened in our society.

Nor is the unjust intolerance displayed towards men of science in the past, without its lesson for the present. It teaches us to be forbearant towards those who differ from us, provided they observe patiently, think honestly, and utter their convictions freely and truthfully. It was a remark of Plato, that "the world is God's epistle to mankind;" and to read and study that epistle, so as to elicit its true meaning, can have no other effect on a well-ordered mind than to lead to a deeper impression of His power, a clearer perception of His wisdom, and a more grateful sense of His goodness.

The unfair intolerance shown towards scientists in the past has lessons for us today. It reminds us to be patient with those who have different views, as long as they observe carefully, think honestly, and express their beliefs freely and truthfully. Plato once said, “the world is God's message to humanity;” and studying that message to uncover its true meaning should only deepen our appreciation of His power, enhance our understanding of His wisdom, and increase our gratitude for His goodness.

While such has been the courage of the martyrs of science, not less glorious has been the courage of the martyrs of faith. The passive endurance of the man or woman who, for conscience sake, is found ready to suffer and to endure in solitude, without so much as the encouragement of even a single sympathising voice, is an exhibition of courage of a far higher kind than that displayed in the roar of battle, where even the weakest feels encouraged and inspired by the enthusiasm of sympathy and the power of numbers. Time would fail to tell of the deathless names of those who through faith in principles, and in the face of difficulty, danger, and suffering, "have wrought righteousness and waxed valiant" in the moral warfare of the world, and been content to lay down their lives rather than prove false to their conscientious convictions of the truth.

While the courage of the martyrs of science is admirable, the courage of the martyrs of faith is just as glorious. The quiet endurance of a person who is willing to suffer and persist in solitude for the sake of their conscience—without even the comfort of a single sympathetic voice—shows a level of bravery far greater than what is displayed in the heat of battle, where even the weakest can find motivation and strength in the collective support of others. There isn’t enough time to recount the countless heroic individuals who, driven by their beliefs and in the face of hardship, danger, and suffering, “have done what is right and shown great courage” in the moral battles of the world, choosing to give their lives rather than betray their deeply held convictions of the truth.

Men of this stamp, inspired by a high sense of duty, have in past times exhibited character in its most heroic aspects, and continue to present to us some of the noblest spectacles to be seen in history. Even women, full of tenderness and gentleness, not less than men, have in this cause been found capable of exhibiting the most unflinching courage. Such, for instance, as that of Anne Askew, who, when racked until her bones were dislocated, uttered no cry, moved no muscle, but looked her tormentors calmly in the face, and refused either to confess or to recant; or such as that of Latimer and Ridley, who, instead of bewailing their hard fate and beating their breasts, went as cheerfully to their death as a bridegroom to the altar—the one bidding the other to "be of good comfort," for that "we shall this day light such a candle in England, by God's grace, as shall never be put out;" or such, again, as that of Mary Dyer, the Quakeress, hanged by the Puritans of New England for preaching to the people, who ascended the scaffold with a willing step, and, after calmly addressing those who stood about, resigned herself into the hands of her persecutors, and died in peace and joy.

People like this, driven by a strong sense of duty, have shown remarkable character throughout history and continue to offer some of the most inspiring examples we have. Even women, filled with compassion and kindness, have proven to be just as capable of demonstrating unwavering courage. Take Anne Askew, for instance, who, when subjected to torturous treatment that dislocated her bones, cried out not once, moved not a muscle, but faced her tormentors with calm defiance, refusing to confess or retract her beliefs; or consider Latimer and Ridley, who, instead of lamenting their cruel fate and grieving, faced their deaths with the same joy as a groom walking down the aisle—one encouraging the other to "be of good comfort," for "today we shall light such a candle in England, by God's grace, as shall never be put out;" or think of Mary Dyer, the Quaker woman who was hanged by the Puritans in New England for preaching, who stepped up to the gallows willingly and, after speaking calmly to those gathered, surrendered herself to her persecutors, dying in peace and joy.

Not less courageous was the behaviour of the good Sir Thomas More, who marched willingly to the scaffold, and died cheerfully there, rather than prove false to his conscience. When More had made his final decision to stand upon his principles, he felt as if he had won a victory, and said to his son-in-law Roper: "Son Roper, I thank Our Lord, the field is won!" The Duke of Norfolk told him of his danger, saying: "By the mass, Master More, it is perilous striving with princes; the anger of a prince brings death!". "Is that all, my lord?" said More; "then the difference between you and me is this—that I shall die to-day, and you to-morrow."

The good Sir Thomas More showed just as much courage when he walked willingly to the scaffold and faced his death cheerfully rather than betray his conscience. Once More decided to stand by his principles, he felt like he had won a victory and told his son-in-law Roper, "Son Roper, I thank Our Lord, the field is won!" The Duke of Norfolk warned him about the danger he was in, saying, "By the mass, Master More, it’s dangerous to go against princes; a prince’s anger leads to death!" "Is that all, my lord?" More replied; "then the difference between you and me is that I will die today, and you will die tomorrow."

While it has been the lot of many great men, in times of difficulty and danger, to be cheered and supported by their wives, More had no such consolation. His helpmate did anything but console him during his imprisonment in the Tower. 144 She could not conceive that there was any sufficient reason for his continuing to lie there, when by merely doing what the King required of him, he might at once enjoy his liberty, together with his fine house at Chelsea, his library, his orchard, his gallery, and the society of his wife and children. "I marvel," said she to him one day, "that you, who have been alway hitherto taken for wise, should now so play the fool as to lie here in this close filthy prison, and be content to be shut up amongst mice and rats, when you might be abroad at your liberty, if you would but do as the bishops have done?" But More saw his duty from a different point of view: it was not a mere matter of personal comfort with him; and the expostulations of his wife were of no avail. He gently put her aside, saying cheerfully, "Is not this house as nigh heaven as my own?"—to which she contemptuously rejoined: "Tilly vally—tilly vally!"

While many great men have found comfort and support from their wives during tough times, More didn't have that solace. His partner didn't console him at all during his imprisonment in the Tower. 144 She couldn’t understand why he continued to stay there when he could be free simply by doing what the King wanted. He could immediately enjoy his liberty, his beautiful house in Chelsea, his library, his orchard, his gallery, and the company of his wife and children. "I can't believe," she said one day, "that you, who have always been considered wise, are now acting like a fool by lying here in this cramped, disgusting prison, content to be surrounded by mice and rats, when you could be out enjoying your freedom if you just did what the bishops have done?" But More perceived his duty differently: it wasn't just about personal comfort for him, and his wife's pleas didn't change his mind. He gently dismissed her concerns, saying cheerfully, "Isn't this place as close to heaven as my own?"—to which she dismissively replied, "Tilly vally—tilly vally!"

More's daughter, Margaret Roper, on the contrary, encouraged her father to stand firm in his principles, and dutifully consoled and cheered him during his long confinement. Deprived of pen-and-ink, he wrote his letters to her with a piece of coal, saying in one of them: "If I were to declare in writing how much pleasure your daughterly loving letters gave me, a PECK OF COALS would not suffice to make the pens." More was a martyr to veracity: he would not swear a false oath; and he perished because he was sincere. When his head had been struck off, it was placed on London Bridge, in accordance with the barbarous practice of the times. Margaret Roper had the courage to ask for the head to be taken down and given to her, and, carrying her affection for her father beyond the grave, she desired that it might be buried with her when she died; and long after, when Margaret Roper's tomb was opened, the precious relic was observed lying on the dust of what had been her bosom.

More's daughter, Margaret Roper, on the other hand, encouraged her father to stay true to his principles and faithfully consoled and cheered him during his long imprisonment. Unable to use pen and ink, he wrote his letters to her with a piece of coal, saying in one of them: "If I were to express in writing how much joy your loving letters brought me, a PECK OF COALS wouldn't be enough to make the pens." More was a martyr for truth: he refused to swear a false oath, and he died because of his sincerity. After his head was severed, it was displayed on London Bridge, as was the brutal custom of the time. Margaret Roper bravely requested that his head be taken down and given to her, and, carrying her love for her father beyond death, she wanted it to be buried with her when she died; and long after, when Margaret Roper's tomb was opened, the precious relic was found resting on the dust of what had once been her chest.

Martin Luther was not called upon to lay down his life for his faith; but, from the day that he declared himself against the Pope, he daily ran the risk of losing it. At the beginning of his great struggle, he stood almost entirely alone. The odds against him were tremendous. "On one side," said he himself, "are learning, genius, numbers, grandeur, rank, power, sanctity, miracles; on the other Wycliffe, Lorenzo Valla, Augustine, and Luther—a poor creature, a man of yesterday, standing wellnigh alone with a few friends." Summoned by the Emperor to appear at Worms; to answer the charge made against him of heresy, he determined to answer in person. Those about him told him that he would lose his life if he went, and they urged him to fly. "No," said he, "I will repair thither, though I should find there thrice as many devils as there are tiles upon the housetops!" Warned against the bitter enmity of a certain Duke George, he said—"I will go there, though for nine whole days running it rained Duke Georges."

Martin Luther wasn’t asked to sacrifice his life for his beliefs; however, ever since he spoke out against the Pope, he faced the daily risk of losing it. At the start of his significant struggle, he was almost entirely alone. The odds were stacked against him. "On one side," he said himself, "are education, talent, numbers, power, status, holiness, miracles; on the other side are Wycliffe, Lorenzo Valla, Augustine, and Luther—a nobody, a man of yesterday, standing nearly alone with just a few friends." When the Emperor summoned him to appear in Worms to respond to the charge of heresy, he decided to go in person. Those around him warned that he would lose his life if he went and urged him to escape. "No," he replied, "I will go there, even if I find three times as many devils as there are tiles on the rooftops!" When advised about the intense hostility from a certain Duke George, he said, "I will go there, even if it rains Duke Georges for nine straight days."

Luther was as good as his word; and he set forth upon his perilous journey. When he came in sight of the old bell-towers of Worms, he stood up in his chariot and sang, "EIN FESTE BURG IST UNSER GOTT."—the 'Marseillaise' of the Reformation—the words and music of which he is said to have improvised only two days before. Shortly before the meeting of the Diet, an old soldier, George Freundesberg, put his hand upon Luther's shoulder, and said to him: "Good monk, good monk, take heed what thou doest; thou art going into a harder fight than any of us have ever yet been in." But Luther's only answer to the veteran was, that he had "determined to stand upon the Bible and his conscience."

Luther kept his promise and set off on his dangerous journey. When he saw the old bell towers of Worms, he stood up in his carriage and sang, "A MIGHTY FORTRESS IS OUR GOD."—the anthem of the Reformation—the words and music of which he is said to have created just two days earlier. Just before the Diet meeting, an old soldier, George Freundesberg, placed his hand on Luther's shoulder and said to him, "Good monk, good monk, be careful what you do; you are heading into a tougher fight than any of us have faced before." But Luther simply replied to the veteran that he was "determined to stand on the Bible and his conscience."

Luther's courageous defence before the Diet is on record, and forms one of the most glorious pages in history. When finally urged by the Emperor to retract, he said firmly: "Sire, unless I am convinced of my error by the testimony of Scripture, or by manifest evidence, I cannot and will not retract, for we must never act contrary to our conscience. Such is my profession of faith, and you must expect none other from me. HIER STEHE ICH: ICH KANN NICHT ANDERS: GOTT HELFE MIR!" [14Here stand I: I cannot do otherwise: God help me!]. He had to do his duty—to obey the orders of a Power higher than that of kings; and he did it at all hazards.

Luther's brave defense at the Diet is well documented and stands as one of the most notable moments in history. When the Emperor finally pressed him to take back his words, he responded firmly: "Sir, unless I am convinced of my mistake by the evidence of Scripture or clear proof, I cannot and I will not retract, for we must never act against our conscience. That is my declaration of faith, and you should expect nothing else from me. HERE I STAND: I CANNOT DO OTHERWISE: GOD HELP ME!" He had to fulfill his duty—to follow the commands of a higher authority than that of kings; and he did so at all costs.

Afterwards, when hard pressed by his enemies at Augsburg, Luther said that "if he had five hundred heads, he would lose them all rather than recant his article concerning faith." Like all courageous men, his strength only seemed to grow in proportion to the difficulties he had to encounter and overcome. "There is no man in Germany," said Hutten, "who more utterly despises death than does Luther." And to his moral courage, perhaps more than to that of any other single man, do we owe the liberation of modern thought, and the vindication of the great rights of the human understanding.

Afterwards, when he was under heavy pressure from his enemies in Augsburg, Luther said that "if he had five hundred heads, he would lose them all rather than take back his views on faith." Like all brave individuals, his strength seemed to grow in relation to the challenges he faced and conquered. "There is no man in Germany," said Hutten, "who more completely disregards death than Luther." To his moral courage, perhaps more than to that of anyone else, we owe the freedom of modern thought and the affirmation of the significant rights of human understanding.

The honourable and brave man does not fear death compared with ignominy. It is said of the Royalist Earl of Strafford that, as he walked to the scaffold on Tower Hill, his step and manner were those of a general marching at the head of an army to secure victory, rather than of a condemned man to undergo sentence of death. So the Commonwealth's man, Sir John Eliot, went alike bravely to his death on the same spot, saying: "Ten thousand deaths rather than defile my conscience, the chastity and purity of which I value beyond all this world." Eliot's greatest tribulation was on account of his wife, whom he had to leave behind. When he saw her looking down upon him from the Tower window, he stood up in the cart, waved his hat, and cried: "To heaven, my love!—to heaven!—and leave you in the storm!" As he went on his way, one in the crowd called out, "That is the most glorious seat you ever sat on;" to which he replied: "It is so, indeed!" and rejoiced exceedingly. 145

The honorable and brave man doesn't fear death more than disgrace. It’s said that the Royalist Earl of Strafford, as he walked to the scaffold on Tower Hill, carried himself like a general leading an army to victory, instead of a condemned man facing execution. Similarly, the Commonwealth supporter, Sir John Eliot, approached his death with courage at the same spot, declaring: "I'd face ten thousand deaths rather than betray my conscience, which I value more than anything in this world." Eliot's greatest sorrow was having to leave his wife behind. When he saw her looking down at him from the Tower window, he stood in the cart, waved his hat, and shouted: "To heaven, my love!—to heaven!—and I leave you in the storm!" As he continued on his way, someone in the crowd shouted, "That’s the most glorious seat you’ve ever sat on;" to which he responded: "It truly is!" and felt immense joy. 145

Although success is the guerdon for which all men toil, they have nevertheless often to labour on perseveringly, without any glimmer of success in sight. They have to live, meanwhile, upon their courage—sowing their seed, it may be, in the dark, in the hope that it will yet take root and spring up in achieved result. The best of causes have had to fight their way to triumph through a long succession of failures, and many of the assailants have died in the breach before the fortress has been won. The heroism they have displayed is to be measured, not so much by their immediate success, as by the opposition they have encountered, and the courage with which they have maintained the struggle.

Although success is the reward that everyone works hard for, people often have to keep pushing through without any sign of success in sight. In the meantime, they rely on their courage—planting their seeds, perhaps in the dark, hoping that they will eventually grow and lead to real results. The best causes often have to fight their way to victory through a long series of failures, and many of those trying to succeed have died in the effort before the goal has been reached. The heroism they show should be measured not just by their immediate success, but by the challenges they faced and the bravery with which they continued to fight.

The patriot who fights an always-losing battle—the martyr who goes to death amidst the triumphant shouts of his enemies—the discoverer, like Columbus, whose heart remains undaunted through the bitter years of his "long wandering woe"—are examples of the moral sublime which excite a profounder interest in the hearts of men than even the most complete and conspicuous success. By the side of such instances as these, how small by comparison seem the greatest deeds of valour, inciting men to rush upon death and die amidst the frenzied excitement of physical warfare!

The patriot who fights a battle he can never win—the martyr who dies while his enemies celebrate— the explorer, like Columbus, whose spirit stays strong through the painful years of his long journey—are examples of the moral greatness that inspire deeper feelings in people's hearts than even the most remarkable and visible success. Next to these examples, the greatest acts of bravery seem insignificant, urging people to charge into death amidst the chaotic thrill of physical combat!

But the greater part of the courage that is needed in the world is not of a heroic kind. Courage may be displayed in everyday life as well as in historic fields of action. There needs, for example, the common courage to be honest—the courage to resist temptation—the courage to speak the truth—the courage to be what we really are, and not to pretend to be what we are not—the courage to live honestly within our own means, and not dishonestly upon the means of others.

But most of the courage needed in the world isn't the heroic kind. Courage can show up in everyday life just as much as it does in historical moments. For instance, there's the everyday courage to be honest—the courage to resist temptation—the courage to speak the truth—the courage to be our true selves, rather than pretending to be someone we're not—the courage to live honestly within our own means, instead of dishonestly relying on what others have.

A great deal of the unhappiness, and much of the vice, of the world is owing to weakness and indecision of purpose—in other words, to lack of courage. Men may know what is right, and yet fail to exercise the courage to do it; they may understand the duty they have to do, but will not summon up the requisite resolution to perform it. The weak and undisciplined man is at the mercy of every temptation; he cannot say "No," but falls before it. And if his companionship be bad, he will be all the easier led away by bad example into wrongdoing.

A lot of the unhappiness and many of the problems in the world come from weakness and a lack of direction—in other words, a lack of courage. People might know what’s right, but still don’t have the guts to do it; they may understand their responsibilities but won’t find the determination to carry them out. A weak and undisciplined person is vulnerable to every temptation; they can’t say “No” and easily give in to it. And if they’re around the wrong people, they’ll be even more likely to follow bad examples into trouble.

Nothing can be more certain than that the character can only be sustained and strengthened by its own energetic action. The will, which is the central force of character, must be trained to habits of decision—otherwise it will neither be able to resist evil nor to follow good. Decision gives the power of standing firmly, when to yield, however slightly, might be only the first step in a downhill course to ruin.

Nothing is more certain than that a person's character can only be maintained and strengthened through its active effort. The will, which is the core of character, needs to be trained to make decisions—otherwise, it won't be able to resist wrongdoing or pursue what is right. Making decisions empowers one to stand firm, as giving in, even a little, could be the first step toward a downward spiral into destruction.

Calling upon others for help in forming a decision is worse than useless. A man must so train his habits as to rely upon his own powers and depend upon his own courage in moments of emergency. Plutarch tells of a King of Macedon who, in the midst of an action, withdrew into the adjoining town under pretence of sacrificing to Hercules; whilst his opponent Emilius, at the same time that he implored the Divine aid, sought for victory sword in hand, and won the battle. And so it ever is in the actions of daily life.

Relying on others for help in making a decision is more harmful than helpful. A person needs to train themselves to trust their own abilities and depend on their own courage in difficult situations. Plutarch mentions a King of Macedon who, during a battle, retreated to a nearby town under the excuse of offering a sacrifice to Hercules, while his opponent Emilius, at the same time, asked for divine help but fought for victory with sword in hand, ultimately winning the battle. This is how it always is in our everyday actions.

Many are the valiant purposes formed, that end merely in words; deeds intended, that are never done; designs projected, that are never begun; and all for want of a little courageous decision. Better far the silent tongue but the eloquent deed. For in life and in business, despatch is better than discourse; and the shortest answer of all is, DOING. "In matters of great concern, and which must be done," says Tillotson, "there is no surer argument of a weak mind than irresolution—to be undetermined when the case is so plain and the necessity so urgent. To be always intending to live a new life, but never to find time to set about it,—this is as if a man should put off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to another, until he is starved and destroyed."

Many noble intentions are formed, but they often just stay as words; plans that are meant to happen but never take place; projects that are never started—all because of a lack of bold decision-making. A quiet voice is far better than empty talk followed by action. In both life and business, taking action is more important than just talking about it; and the simplest answer of all is, DOING. "In matters of great importance that must be addressed," says Tillotson, "nothing shows a weak mind more than hesitation—being undecided when the situation is clear and urgent. Always planning to start a new life but never making the time to begin is like someone postponing eating, drinking, and sleeping day after day, until they’re famished and ruined."

There needs also the exercise of no small degree of moral courage to resist the corrupting influences of what is called "Society." Although "Mrs. Grundy" may be a very vulgar and commonplace personage, her influence is nevertheless prodigious. Most men, but especially women, are the moral slaves of the class or caste to which they belong. There is a sort of unconscious conspiracy existing amongst them against each other's individuality. Each circle and section, each rank and class, has its respective customs and observances, to which conformity is required at the risk of being tabooed. Some are immured within a bastile of fashion, others of custom, others of opinion; and few there are who have the courage to think outside their sect, to act outside their party, and to step out into the free air of individual thought and action. We dress, and eat, and follow fashion, though it may be at the risk of debt, ruin, and misery; living not so much according to our means, as according to the superstitious observances of our class. Though we may speak contemptuously of the Indians who flatten their heads, and of the Chinese who cramp their toes, we have only to look at the deformities of fashion amongst ourselves, to see that the reign of "Mrs. Grundy" is universal.

It also takes a fair amount of moral courage to resist the corrupting influences of what's known as "Society." Even though "Mrs. Grundy" may be a very common and unrefined figure, her influence is still tremendous. Most people, especially women, are the moral captives of the class or group they belong to. There's an unspoken conspiracy among them against each other's individuality. Every social circle, rank, and class has its own customs and traditions that everyone is expected to follow, or they risk being ostracized. Some are trapped in a fortress of fashion, others in customs, and others in opinions; and very few have the courage to think beyond their group, act outside their party, and step into the fresh air of individual thought and action. We dress, eat, and follow trends even if it puts us in debt, ruin, and misery; living not so much according to our means but according to the superstitious customs of our class. While we may disdain the Indians who flatten their heads and the Chinese who cramp their toes, we only need to look at the distortions of fashion in our own lives to see that the rule of "Mrs. Grundy" is everywhere.

But moral cowardice is exhibited quite as much in public as in private life. Snobbism is not confined to the toadying of the rich, but is quite as often displayed in the toadying of the poor. Formerly, sycophancy showed itself in not daring to speak the truth to those in high places; but in these days it rather shows itself in not daring to speak the truth to those in low places. Now that "the masses" 146 exercise political power, there is a growing tendency to fawn upon them, to flatter them, and to speak nothing but smooth words to them. They are credited with virtues which they themselves know they do not possess. The public enunciation of wholesome because disagreeable truths is avoided; and, to win their favour, sympathy is often pretended for views, the carrying out of which in practice is known to be hopeless.

But moral cowardice shows up just as much in public as it does in private life. Snobbism isn’t just about flattering the rich; it’s often about flattering the poor too. In the past, sycophants were too afraid to tell the truth to those in power; now, it’s more about being afraid to tell the truth to those who are less powerful. Now that "the masses" 146 hold political power, there’s a growing trend to cater to them, to flatter them, and to only say nice things to them. They’re attributed with qualities they know they don’t have. People avoid openly sharing unpleasant truths that are actually good for them, and to gain their approval, sympathy is often feigned for ideas that are clearly impossible to realize in practice.

It is not the man of the noblest character—the highest-cultured and best-conditioned man—whose favour is now sought, so much as that of the lowest man, the least-cultured and worst-conditioned man, because his vote is usually that of the majority. Even men of rank, wealth, and education, are seen prostrating themselves before the ignorant, whose votes are thus to be got. They are ready to be unprincipled and unjust rather than unpopular. It is so much easier for some men to stoop, to bow, and to flatter, than to be manly, resolute, and magnanimous; and to yield to prejudices than run counter to them. It requires strength and courage to swim against the stream, while any dead fish can float with it.

It’s not the man of the highest character—the most cultured and well-prepared individual—whose approval is sought as much as that of the least qualified person, the one with the least culture and the worst background, because that person’s vote usually represents the majority. Even those with rank, riches, and education are seen bowing down to the uninformed, in order to win their votes. They’re willing to be unprincipled and unfair rather than unpopular. For some people, it’s much easier to bend, bow, and flatter than to be strong, determined, and generous; and to go along with prejudices instead of challenging them. It takes strength and courage to go against the tide, while any dead fish can simply float along with it.

This servile pandering to popularity has been rapidly on the increase of late years, and its tendency has been to lower and degrade the character of public men. Consciences have become more elastic. There is now one opinion for the chamber, and another for the platform. Prejudices are pandered to in public, which in private are despised. Pretended conversions—which invariably jump with party interests are more sudden; and even hypocrisy now appears to be scarcely thought discreditable.

This fawning over popularity has been increasing quickly in recent years, and it tends to lower and degrade the character of public figures. People's morals have become more flexible. There's one opinion for the assembly and another for the public. Prejudices are catered to in public, even though they're looked down upon in private. Fake conversions— which always align with party interests—are happening more suddenly; and even hypocrisy now seems to be hardly viewed as shameful.

The same moral cowardice extends downwards as well as upwards. The action and reaction are equal. Hypocrisy and timeserving above are accompanied by hypocrisy and timeserving below. Where men of high standing have not the courage of their opinions, what is to be expected from men of low standing? They will only follow such examples as are set before them. They too will skulk, and dodge, and prevaricate—be ready to speak one way and act another—just like their betters. Give them but a sealed box, or some hole-and-corner to hide their act in, and they will then enjoy their "liberty!"

The same moral cowardice trickles down as well as up. The action and reaction are equal. The hypocrisy and opportunism at the top are matched by hypocrisy and opportunism at the bottom. When people of high status lack the courage of their convictions, what can we expect from those of lower status? They'll follow the examples set for them. They'll also hide, avoid confrontation, and lie—ready to say one thing and do another—just like their superiors. Just give them a sealed box or some secret place to hide their actions, and they'll feel like they have their "freedom!"

Popularity, as won in these days, is by no means a presumption in a man's favour, but is quite as often a presumption against him. "No man," says the Russian proverb, "can rise to honour who is cursed with a stiff backbone." But the backbone of the popularity-hunter is of gristle; and he has no difficulty in stooping and bending himself in any direction to catch the breath of popular applause.

Popularity, as it is earned these days, is not necessarily a sign of a person's worth. In fact, it can often be seen as a negative trait. "No man," says a Russian proverb, "can rise to honor who is burdened with a stiff backbone." But the backbone of someone chasing popularity is flexible; they easily bend and adapt in any direction to gain the approval of the crowd.

Where popularity is won by fawning upon the people, by withholding the truth from them, by writing and speaking down to the lowest tastes, and still worse by appeals to class-hatred, 147 such a popularity must be simply contemptible in the sight of all honest men. Jeremy Bentham, speaking of a well-known public character, said: "His creed of politics results less from love of the many than from hatred of the few; it is too much under the influence of selfish and dissocial affection." To how many men in our own day might not the same description apply?

Where popularity is gained by flattering the masses, by hiding the truth from them, by writing and speaking to the lowest common denominator, and even worse, by inciting class hatred, 147 such popularity must be looked down upon by all honest people. Jeremy Bentham, referring to a well-known public figure, said: "His political beliefs stem less from a love for the many than from a hatred of the few; they are overly influenced by selfish and anti-social feelings." How many men in our own time could the same description apply to?

Men of sterling character have the courage to speak the truth, even when it is unpopular. It was said of Colonel Hutchinson by his wife, that he never sought after popular applause, or prided himself on it: "He more delighted to do well than to be praised, and never set vulgar commendations at such a rate as to act contrary to his own conscience or reason for the obtaining them; nor would he forbear a good action which he was bound to, though all the world disliked it; for he ever looked on things as they were in themselves, not through the dim spectacles of vulgar estimation." 148

Men of strong character have the courage to tell the truth, even when it's unpopular. Colonel Hutchinson's wife said he never chased after popular approval or took pride in it: "He found more joy in doing what's right than in getting praise, and he never valued cheap compliments enough to go against his own conscience or judgment to get them; nor would he skip doing a good deed he was obligated to do, even if everyone else disapproved; because he always viewed things as they truly are, not through the blurry lens of common opinion." 148

"Popularity, in the lowest and most common sense," said Sir John Pakington, on a recent occasion, 149 "is not worth the having. Do your duty to the best of your power, win the approbation of your own conscience, and popularity, in its best and highest sense, is sure to follow."

"Popularity, in the most basic and ordinary sense," said Sir John Pakington, on a recent occasion, 149 "is not worth having. Do your duty to the best of your ability, earn the approval of your own conscience, and true popularity will naturally follow."

When Richard Lovell Edgeworth, towards the close of his life, became very popular in his neighbourhood, he said one day to his daughter: "Maria, I am growing dreadfully popular; I shall be good for nothing soon; a man cannot be good for anything who is very popular." Probably he had in his mind at the time the Gospel curse of the popular man, "Woe unto you, when all men shall speak well of you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets."

When Richard Lovell Edgeworth, towards the end of his life, became really popular in his neighborhood, he said one day to his daughter: "Maria, I'm getting incredibly popular; I'll soon be useless; a man can't be good for anything if he's very popular." He was probably thinking of the Gospel warning about popular people, "Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you! For that's what their ancestors did to the false prophets."

Intellectual intrepidity is one of the vital conditions of independence and self-reliance of character. A man must have the courage to be himself, and not the shadow or the echo of another. He must exercise his own powers, think his own thoughts, and speak his own sentiments. He must elaborate his own opinions, and form his own convictions. It has been said that he who dare not form an opinion, must be a coward; he who will not, must be an idler; he who cannot, must be a fool.

Intellectual boldness is essential for independence and self-reliance. A person needs the courage to be themselves, not just a reflection of someone else. They should exercise their own abilities, think their own thoughts, and express their own feelings. They must develop their own opinions and establish their own beliefs. It has been said that someone who is afraid to form an opinion is a coward; someone who won’t is just being lazy; and someone who can’t is a fool.

But it is precisely in this element of intrepidity that so many persons of promise fall short, and disappoint the expectations of their friends. They march up to the scene of action, but at every step their courage oozes out. They want the requisite decision, courage, and perseverance. They calculate the risks, and weigh the chances, until the opportunity for effective effort has passed, it may be never to return.

But it's in this aspect of bravery that so many talented people fall short and let their friends down. They approach the action but lose their courage with every step. They lack the necessary determination, bravery, and persistence. They evaluate the risks and consider the chances until the chance for meaningful action has slipped away, perhaps never to come back.

Men are bound to speak the truth in the love of it. "I had rather suffer," said John Pym, the Commonwealth man, "for speaking the truth, than that the truth should suffer for want of my speaking." When a man's convictions are honestly formed, after fair and full consideration, he is justified in striving by all fair means to bring them into action. There are certain states of society and conditions of affairs in which a man is bound to speak out, and be antagonistic—when conformity is not only a weakness, but a sin. Great evils are in some cases only to be met by resistance; they cannot be wept down, but must be battled down.

Men have to speak the truth because they believe in it. "I would rather suffer," said John Pym, the Commonwealth man, "for speaking the truth than let the truth suffer because I don’t speak up." When a person's beliefs are genuinely formed after careful thought, they are right to use all fair means to act on them. There are certain situations in society where a person must speak out and oppose—when going along with things is not just a weakness, but wrong. Sometimes, great wrongs can only be confronted through resistance; they can't be cried away, but must be fought against.

The honest man is naturally antagonistic to fraud, the truthful man to lying, the justice-loving man to oppression, the pureminded man to vice and iniquity. They have to do battle with these conditions, and if possible overcome them. Such men have in all ages represented the moral force of the world. Inspired by benevolence and sustained by courage, they have been the mainstays of all social renovation and progress. But for their continuous antagonism to evil conditions, the world were for the most part given over to the dominion of selfishness and vice. All the great reformers and martyrs were antagonistic men—enemies to falsehood and evildoing. The Apostles themselves were an organised band of social antagonists, who contended with pride, selfishness, superstition, and irreligion. And in our own time the lives of such men as Clarkson and Granville Sharpe, Father Mathew and Richard Cobden, inspired by singleness of purpose, have shown what highminded social antagonism can effect.

The honest person is naturally against fraud, the truthful person against lying, the justice-loving person against oppression, and the pure-minded person against vice and wrongdoing. They must fight these issues and strive to overcome them. Throughout history, such individuals have represented the moral strength of the world. Driven by kindness and supported by courage, they have been the backbone of all social change and progress. Without their persistent opposition to evil, the world would largely be ruled by selfishness and vice. All the great reformers and martyrs were adversaries of injustice—opponents of falsehood and wrongdoing. The Apostles themselves formed a united group of social challengers, battling against pride, selfishness, superstition, and irreligion. In our own time, the lives of individuals like Clarkson and Granville Sharpe, Father Mathew, and Richard Cobden, fueled by a clear sense of purpose, have demonstrated the powerful impact of principled social opposition.

It is the strong and courageous men who lead and guide and rule the world. The weak and timid leave no trace behind them; whilst the life of a single upright and energetic man is like a track of light. His example is remembered and appealed to; and his thoughts, his spirit, and his courage continue to be the inspiration of succeeding generations.

It’s the strong and brave people who lead, guide, and govern the world. The weak and fearful leave no mark behind them; while the life of a single honest and dynamic person shines like a beacon. Their example is remembered and looked up to; their thoughts, spirit, and courage continue to inspire future generations.

It is energy—the central element of which is will—that produces the miracles of enthusiasm in all ages. Everywhere it is the mainspring of what is called force of character, and the sustaining power of all great action. In a righteous cause the determined man stands upon his courage as upon a granite block; and, like David, he will go forth to meet Goliath, strong in heart though an host be encamped against him.

It’s energy—driven by will—that creates the wonders of enthusiasm throughout history. It’s the key force behind what we call character and the driving power of all significant actions. In a just cause, a determined person stands firm in their courage like they’re on solid ground; and, like David, they will face Goliath, strong in spirit even if an army is gathered against them.

Men often conquer difficulties because they feel they can. Their confidence in themselves inspires the confidence of others. When Caesar was at sea, and a storm began to rage, the captain of the ship which carried him became unmanned by fear. "What art thou afraid of?" cried the great captain; "thy vessel carries Caesar!" The courage of the brave man is contagious, and carries others along with it. His stronger nature awes weaker natures into silence, or inspires them with his own will and purpose.

Men often overcome challenges because they believe they can. Their self-confidence boosts the confidence of others. When Caesar was at sea and a fierce storm started, the ship's captain panicked with fear. "What are you afraid of?" shouted the great leader; "your ship is carrying Caesar!" The bravery of a courageous person is contagious and lifts others along with it. His stronger character silences those who are weaker or inspires them with his determination and purpose.

The persistent man will not be baffled or repulsed by opposition. Diogenes, desirous of becoming the disciple of Antisthenes, went and offered himself to the cynic. He was refused. Diogenes still persisting, the cynic raised his knotty staff, and threatened to strike him if he did not depart. "Strike!" said Diogenes; "you will not find a stick hard enough to conquer my perseverance." Antisthenes, overcome, had not another word to say, but forthwith accepted him as his pupil.

The determined person won't be discouraged or turned away by challenges. Diogenes, wanting to be a student of Antisthenes, approached the cynic to offer himself as a disciple. He was turned down. Diogenes kept insisting, and the cynic lifted his rough staff, threatening to hit him if he didn’t leave. "Go ahead and strike!" Diogenes replied; "you won’t find a stick strong enough to break my persistence." Antisthenes, now at a loss for words, immediately accepted him as his student.

Energy of temperament, with a moderate degree of wisdom, will carry a man further than any amount of intellect without it. Energy makes the man of practical ability. It gives him VIS, force, MOMENTUM. It is the active motive power of character; and if combined with sagacity and self-possession, will enable a man to employ his powers to the best advantage in all the affairs of life.

The energy of temperament, along with a reasonable amount of wisdom, will take a person further than any level of intellect alone. Energy creates a person with practical skills. It gives them strength, force, and momentum. It is the driving force of character; and when combined with insight and composure, it allows a person to use their abilities to their best advantage in all aspects of life.

Hence it is that, inspired by energy of purpose, men of comparatively mediocre powers have often been enabled to accomplish such extraordinary results. For the men who have most powerfully influenced the world have not been so much men of genius as men of strong convictions and enduring capacity for work, impelled by irresistible energy and invincible determination: such men, for example, as were Mahomet, Luther, Knox, Calvin, Loyola, and Wesley.

Because of this, driven by a strong sense of purpose, people with relatively average abilities have often been able to achieve extraordinary results. The individuals who have had the greatest impact on the world haven't necessarily been geniuses, but rather those with strong beliefs and a lasting ability to work hard, fueled by undeniable energy and unwavering determination. Examples of such individuals include Mahomet, Luther, Knox, Calvin, Loyola, and Wesley.

Courage, combined with energy and perseverance, will overcome difficulties apparently insurmountable. It gives force and impulse to effort, and does not permit it to retreat. Tyndall said of Faraday, that "in his warm moments he formed a resolution, and in his cool ones he made that resolution good." Perseverance, working in the right direction, grows with time, and when steadily practised, even by the most humble, will rarely fail of its reward. Trusting in the help of others is of comparatively little use. When one of Michael Angelo's principal patrons died, he said: "I begin to understand that the promises of the world are for the most part vain phantoms, and that to confide in one's self, and become something of worth and value, is the best and safest course."

Courage, along with energy and determination, can overcome challenges that seem impossible. It fuels effort and prevents it from backing down. Tyndall remarked about Faraday that "in his passionate moments he made a decision, and in his calm moments he followed through on that decision." Perseverance, when directed positively, increases over time, and when consistently applied, even by the most modest individuals, it rarely fails to yield results. Relying on the support of others is generally not very helpful. When one of Michelangelo's main patrons passed away, he remarked: "I’m starting to realize that the promises of the world are mostly empty illusions, and that trusting in oneself and becoming something of true worth is the best and safest path."

Courage is by no means incompatible with tenderness. On the contrary, gentleness and tenderness have been found to characterise the men, not less than the women, who have done the most courageous deeds. Sir Charles Napier gave up sporting, because he could not bear to hurt dumb creatures. The same gentleness and tenderness characterised his brother, Sir William, the historian of the Peninsular War. 1410 Such also was the character of Sir James Outram, pronounced by Sir Charles Napier to be "the Bayard of India, SANS PEUR ET SANS REPROCHE"—one of the bravest and yet gentlest of men; respectful and reverent to women, tender to children, helpful of the weak, stern to the corrupt, but kindly as summer to the honest and deserving. Moreover, he was himself as honest as day, and as pure as virtue. Of him it might be said with truth, what Fulke Greville said of Sidney: "He was a true model of worth—a man fit for conquest, reformation, plantation, or what action soever is the greatest and hardest among men; his chief ends withal being above all things the good of his fellows, and the service of his sovereign and country."

Courage is definitely not at odds with gentleness. In fact, kindness and tenderness have been seen in both men and women who have accomplished the most brave acts. Sir Charles Napier stopped participating in sports because he couldn’t stand to harm animals. His brother, Sir William, who documented the Peninsular War, was marked by the same kindness and tenderness. 1410 Sir James Outram was also known for this character; Sir Charles Napier called him "the Bayard of India, SANS PEUR ET SANS REPROCHE"—one of the bravest yet gentlest men; respectful and reverent to women, kind to children, supportive of the weak, tough on the corrupt, yet warm and pleasant to the honest and deserving. Furthermore, he was as honest as daylight and as pure as virtue. It could truthfully be said of him what Fulke Greville said of Sidney: "He was a true model of worth—a man fit for conquest, reformation, planting, or whatever action is the greatest and hardest among men; his main goals being above all things the well-being of his fellow humans and the service of his sovereign and country."

When Edward the Black Prince won the Battle of Poictiers, in which he took prisoner the French king and his son, he entertained them in the evening at a banquet, when he insisted on waiting upon and serving them at table. The gallant prince's knightly courtesy and demeanour won the hearts of his captives as completely as his valour had won their persons; for, notwithstanding his youth, Edward was a true knight, the first and bravest of his time—a noble pattern and example of chivalry; his two mottoes, 'Hochmuth' and 'Ich dien' [14high spirit and reverent service] not inaptly expressing his prominent and pervading qualities.

When Edward the Black Prince defeated the French at the Battle of Poictiers, capturing the king and his son, he hosted them at a banquet that evening, insisting on serving them himself. His chivalrous behavior and demeanor won over the hearts of his captives just as much as his bravery had captured them; despite his young age, Edward embodied the true spirit of knighthood, being one of the greatest knights of his time—a noble example of chivalry. His two mottos, 'Hochmuth' and 'Ich dien' [high spirit and reverent service], perfectly reflected his key qualities.

It is the courageous man who can best afford to be generous; or rather, it is his nature to be so. When Fairfax, at the Battle of Naseby, seized the colours from an ensign whom he had struck down in the fight, he handed them to a common soldier to take care of. The soldier, unable to resist the temptation, boasted to his comrades that he had himself seized the colours, and the boast was repeated to Fairfax. "Let him retain the honour," said the commander; "I have enough beside."

It’s the brave person who can truly afford to be generous; or rather, it’s just in their nature to be so. When Fairfax, during the Battle of Naseby, took the colors from an ensign he had knocked down in battle, he gave them to a regular soldier to look after. The soldier, unable to resist temptation, bragged to his friends that he was the one who seized the colors, and this bragging made its way back to Fairfax. "Let him keep the glory," said the commander; "I have plenty of my own."

So when Douglas, at the Battle of Bannockburn, saw Randolph, his rival, outnumbered and apparently overpowered by the enemy, he prepared to hasten to his assistance; but, seeing that Randolph was already driving them back, he cried out, "Hold and halt! We are come too late to aid them; let us not lessen the victory they have won by affecting to claim a share in it."

So when Douglas, at the Battle of Bannockburn, saw Randolph, his rival, outnumbered and seemingly overwhelmed by the enemy, he got ready to rush to his aid; however, seeing that Randolph was already pushing them back, he shouted, "Stop right there! We're too late to help them; let's not undermine the victory they've achieved by pretending we deserve part of it."

Quite as chivalrous, though in a very different field of action, was the conduct of Laplace to the young philosopher Biot, when the latter had read to the French Academy his paper, "SUR LES EQUATIONS AUX DIFFERENCE MELEES." The assembled SAVANS, at its close, felicitated the reader of the paper on his originality. Monge was delighted at his success. Laplace also praised him for the clearness of his demonstrations, and invited Biot to accompany him home. Arrived there, Laplace took from a closet in his study a paper, yellow with age, and handed it to the young philosopher. To Biot's surprise, he found that it contained the solutions, all worked out, for which he had just gained so much applause. With rare magnanimity, Laplace withheld all knowledge of the circumstance from Biot until the latter had initiated his reputation before the Academy; moreover, he enjoined him to silence; and the incident would have remained a secret had not Biot himself published it, some fifty years afterwards.

Just as noble, albeit in a completely different realm, was Laplace's behavior toward the young philosopher Biot after he presented his paper, "SUR LES EQUATIONS AUX DIFFERENCE MELEES," to the French Academy. The gathered scholars congratulated him on his originality. Monge was thrilled with his success. Laplace also praised him for the clarity of his explanations and invited Biot to come home with him. Once they arrived, Laplace retrieved a paper from his study that was yellowed with age and handed it to the young philosopher. To Biot's surprise, he discovered it contained the solutions he had just received so much acclaim for. With remarkable generosity, Laplace kept this fact from Biot until he had established his reputation before the Academy; furthermore, he asked him to remain silent about it. The incident would have stayed a secret if Biot hadn't published it himself about fifty years later.

An incident is related of a French artisan, exhibiting the same characteristic of self-sacrifice in another form. In front of a lofty house in course of erection at Paris was the usual scaffold, loaded with men and materials. The scaffold, being too weak, suddenly broke down, and the men upon it were precipitated to the ground—all except two, a young man and a middle-aged one, who hung on to a narrow ledge, which trembled under their weight, and was evidently on the point of giving way. "Pierre," cried the elder of the two, "let go; I am the father of a family." "C'EST JUSTE!" said Pierre; and, instantly letting go his hold, he fell and was killed on the spot. The father of the family was saved.

An incident is told about a French artisan, showcasing the same spirit of self-sacrifice in a different way. In front of a tall house being built in Paris, there was the usual scaffold, crowded with workers and materials. The scaffold was too weak and suddenly collapsed, sending the men on it tumbling to the ground—except for two, a young man and a middle-aged one, who clung to a narrow ledge that was shaking under their weight and was clearly about to give way. "Pierre," shouted the older man, "let go; I have a family." "THAT'S FAIR!" said Pierre; and without hesitation, he released his grip and fell, dying instantly. The father of the family was saved.

The brave man is magnanimous as well as gentle. He does not take even an enemy at a disadvantage, nor strike a man when he is down and unable to defend himself. Even in the midst of deadly strife such instances of generosity have not been uncommon. Thus, at the Battle of Dettingen, during the heat of the action, a squadron of French cavalry charged an English regiment; but when the young French officer who led them, and was about to attack the English leader, observed that he had only one arm, with which he held his bridle, the Frenchman saluted him courteously with his sword, and passed on. 1411

The brave person is not just courageous but also kind. They don't take advantage of even their enemies, nor do they hit someone when they're down and can't defend themselves. Even in the heat of battle, acts of kindness like this happen more often than you'd think. For example, at the Battle of Dettingen, as the fighting raged on, a squad of French cavalry charged an English regiment. But when the young French officer in charge saw that the English leader only had one arm and was using it to hold his reins, he respectfully saluted him with his sword and rode on. 1411

It is related of Charles V., that after the siege and capture of Wittenburg by the Imperialist army, the monarch went to see the tomb of Luther. While reading the inscription on it, one of the servile courtiers who accompanied him proposed to open the grave, and give the ashes of the "heretic" to the winds. The monarch's cheek flushed with honest indignation: "I war not with the dead," said he; "let this place be respected."

It’s said that Charles V, after the siege and capture of Wittenburg by the Imperial army, went to visit Luther's tomb. While he was reading the inscription on it, one of the sycophantic courtiers with him suggested they open the grave and scatter the "heretic's" ashes to the wind. The monarch's face flushed with genuine anger: "I do not wage war against the dead," he said; "let this place be respected."

The portrait which the great heathen, Aristotle, drew of the Magnanimous Man, in other words the True Gentleman, more than two thousand years ago, is as faithful now as it was then. "The magnanimous man," he said, "will behave with moderation under both good fortune and bad. He will know how to be exalted and how to be abased. He will neither be delighted with success nor grieved by failure. He will neither shun danger nor seek it, for there are few things which he cares for. He is reticent, and somewhat slow of speech, but speaks his mind openly and boldly when occasion calls for it. He is apt to admire, for nothing is great to him. He overlooks injuries. He is not given to talk about himself or about others; for he does not care that he himself should be praised, or that other people should be blamed. He does not cry out about trifles, and craves help from none."

The portrait that the great philosopher, Aristotle, painted of the Magnanimous Man, or the True Gentleman, over two thousand years ago, is just as accurate today as it was back then. "The magnanimous man," he said, "will act with balance in both good times and bad. He will know how to celebrate success and handle failure. He will neither be overjoyed by victories nor upset by defeats. He doesn’t shy away from challenges, nor does he actively seek them out, as he cares little for many things. He is reserved and somewhat slow to speak, but when the time is right, he expresses himself clearly and confidently. He tends to admire, for nothing appears grand to him. He lets go of offenses. He doesn’t talk about himself or others much; he doesn’t care for personal praise or for criticizing others. He doesn’t fuss over small matters and doesn’t ask for help from anyone."

On the other hand, mean men admire meanly. They have neither modesty, generosity, nor magnanimity. They are ready to take advantage of the weakness or defencelessness of others, especially where they have themselves succeeded, by unscrupulous methods, in climbing to positions of authority. Snobs in high places are always much less tolerable than snobs of low degree, because they have more frequent opportunities of making their want of manliness felt. They assume greater airs, and are pretentious in all that they do; and the higher their elevation, the more conspicuous is the incongruity of their position. "The higher the monkey climbs," says the proverb, "the more he shows his tail."

On the other hand, mean people admire in a mean way. They lack modesty, generosity, and greatness of spirit. They are quick to exploit the weaknesses or helplessness of others, especially when they have used shady tactics to rise to positions of power themselves. Snobs in high places are often much less bearable than snobs of lower status because they have more chances to showcase their lack of character. They act more superior and are pretentious in everything they do; and the higher they get, the more obvious the mismatch of their role becomes. "The higher the monkey climbs," the saying goes, "the more he shows his tail."

Much depends on the way in which a thing is done. An act which might be taken as a kindness if done in a generous spirit, when done in a grudging spirit, may be felt as stingy, if not harsh and even cruel. When Ben Jonson lay sick and in poverty, the king sent him a paltry message, accompanied by a gratuity. The sturdy plainspoken poet's reply was: "I suppose he sends me this because I live in an alley; tell him his soul lives in an alley."

Much depends on how something is done. An action that might be seen as kind when done with a generous attitude can come off as cheap, if not harsh or even cruel, if done with reluctance. When Ben Jonson was sick and struggling financially, the king sent him a meager message along with a small payment. The straightforward poet's response was: "I guess he sends me this because I live in an alley; tell him his soul lives in an alley."

From what we have said, it will be obvious that to be of an enduring and courageous spirit, is of great importance in the formation of character. It is a source not only of usefulness in life, but of happiness. On the other hand, to be of a timid and, still more, of a cowardly nature is one of the greatest misfortunes. A. wise man was accustomed to say that one of the principal objects he aimed at in the education of his sons and daughters was to train them in the habit of fearing nothing so much as fear. And the habit of avoiding fear is, doubtless, capable of being trained like any other habit, such as the habit of attention, of diligence, of study, or of cheerfulness.

From what we’ve discussed, it’s clear that having a strong and brave spirit is crucial for building character. It’s a source of not just usefulness in life, but also happiness. On the flip side, having a timid or even cowardly nature is one of the biggest misfortunes. A wise person used to say that one of his main goals in educating his sons and daughters was to teach them to fear nothing more than fear itself. And the habit of overcoming fear can definitely be developed just like any other habit, such as being attentive, hardworking, studious, or cheerful.

Much of the fear that exists is the offspring of imagination, which creates the images of evils which MAY happen, but perhaps rarely do; and thus many persons who are capable of summoning up courage to grapple with and overcome real dangers, are paralysed or thrown into consternation by those which are imaginary. Hence, unless the imagination be held under strict discipline, we are prone to meet evils more than halfway—to suffer them by forestalment, and to assume the burdens which we ourselves create.

A lot of the fear we feel comes from our imagination, which conjures up images of threats that might happen but rarely do. As a result, many people who can muster the courage to face and overcome real dangers become paralyzed or overwhelmed by those that are just in their heads. Therefore, unless we keep our imagination in check, we tend to encounter problems more than halfway—suffering from them in advance and taking on the burdens we create for ourselves.

Education in courage is not usually included amongst the branches of female training, and yet it is really of greater importance than either music, French, or the use of the globes. Contrary to the view of Sir Richard Steele, that women should be characterised by a "tender fear," and "an inferiority which makes her lovely," we would have women educated in resolution and courage, as a means of rendering them more helpful, more self-reliant, and vastly more useful and happy.

Education in courage is not typically seen as part of women's training, but it's actually more important than music, French, or geography. Unlike Sir Richard Steele's belief that women should embody a "tender fear" and an "inferiority that makes them lovely," we think women should be taught to be strong and courageous, as this will make them more helpful, self-reliant, and ultimately more useful and happy.

There is, indeed, nothing attractive in timidity, nothing loveable in fear. All weakness, whether of mind or body, is equivalent to deformity, and the reverse of interesting. Courage is graceful and dignified, whilst fear, in any form, is mean and repulsive. Yet the utmost tenderness and gentleness are consistent with courage. Ary Scheffer, the artist, once wrote to his daughter:-"Dear daughter, strive to be of good courage, to be gentle-hearted; these are the true qualities for woman. 'Troubles' everybody must expect. There is but one way of looking at fate—whatever that be, whether blessings or afflictions—to behave with dignity under both. We must not lose heart, or it will be the worse both for ourselves and for those whom we love. To struggle, and again and again to renew the conflict—THIS is life's inheritance." 1412

There really is nothing attractive about being timid and nothing lovable about fear. All weakness, whether mental or physical, is like a deformity and not at all interesting. Courage is elegant and dignified, while fear, in any form, is small-minded and unappealing. Yet, the deepest tenderness and gentleness can coexist with courage. The artist Ary Scheffer once wrote to his daughter: “Dear daughter, strive to be courageous and gentle-hearted; these are the true qualities of a woman. Everyone must expect troubles. There’s only one way to view fate—whatever it brings, whether blessings or hardships—by behaving with dignity in both situations. We must not lose heart, or things will be worse for both ourselves and those we love. To struggle, and to continuously renew the fight—THIS is life's inheritance.” 1412

In sickness and sorrow, none are braver and less complaining sufferers than women. Their courage, where their hearts are concerned, is indeed proverbial:

In times of illness and sadness, no one is braver or less whiny than women. Their courage, especially when it comes to matters of the heart, is truly legendary:

      "Oh! femmes c'est a tort qu'on vous nommes timides,
      A la voix de vos coeurs vous etes intrepides."
      "Oh! women, it’s wrong to call you timid,  
      To the voice of your hearts, you are fearless."

Experience has proved that women can be as enduring as men, under the heaviest trials and calamities; but too little pains are taken to teach them to endure petty terrors and frivolous vexations with fortitude. Such little miseries, if petted and indulged, quickly run into sickly sensibility, and become the bane of their life, keeping themselves and those about them in a state of chronic discomfort.

Experience has shown that women can be just as resilient as men when facing tough challenges and hardships. However, not enough effort is made to help them handle minor fears and trivial annoyances with strength. These small miseries, if coddled and indulged, can easily turn into excessive sensitivity, which negatively impacts their lives and keeps both themselves and those around them in a constant state of discomfort.

The best corrective of this condition of mind is wholesome moral and mental discipline. Mental strength is as necessary for the development of woman's character as of man's. It gives her capacity to deal with the affairs of life, and presence of mind, which enable her to act with vigour and effect in moments of emergency. Character, in a woman, as in a man, will always be found the best safeguard of virtue, the best nurse of religion, the best corrective of Time. Personal beauty soon passes; but beauty of mind and character increases in attractiveness the older it grows.

The best way to address this mindset is through healthy moral and mental discipline. Mental strength is just as important for developing a woman's character as it is for a man's. It equips her to handle life's challenges and gives her the composure needed to act decisively and effectively in emergencies. Character, in both women and men, will always be the best protector of virtue, the most supportive of faith, and the most effective counter to the effects of time. Personal beauty fades quickly, but the beauty of the mind and character becomes more appealing as it matures.

Ben Jonson gives a striking portraiture of a noble woman in these lines:—

Ben Jonson paints a vivid picture of a noblewoman in these lines:—

   "I meant she should be courteous, facile, sweet,
      Free from that solemn vice of greatness, pride;
    I meant each softed virtue there should meet,
      Fit in that softer bosom to abide.
    Only a learned and a manly soul,
      I purposed her, that should with even powers,
    The rock, the spindle, and the shears control
      Of destiny, and spin her own free hours."
"I meant for her to be kind, easygoing, and sweet,  
      Free from that serious flaw of greatness, pride;  
    I meant for every gentle quality to come together,  
      To fit in that tender heart and dwell.  
    I envisioned her as a knowledgeable and strong spirit,  
      Who would confidently guide  
    The rock, the spindle, and the scissors  
      Of fate, and create her own free time."

The courage of woman is not the less true because it is for the most part passive. It is not encouraged by the cheers of the world, for it is mostly exhibited in the recesses of private life. Yet there are cases of heroic patience and endurance on the part of women which occasionally come to the light of day. One of the most celebrated instances in history is that of Gertrude Von der Wart. Her husband, falsely accused of being an accomplice in the murder of the Emperor Albert, was condemned to the most frightful of all punishments—to be broken alive on the wheel. With most profound conviction of her husband's innocence the faithful woman stood by his side to the last, watching over him during two days and nights, braving the empress's anger and the inclemency of the weather, in the hope of contributing to soothe his dying agonies. 1413

The courage of women is no less genuine just because it’s mostly passive. It's not celebrated by the world, as it often takes place in the privacy of personal life. However, there are remarkable examples of patience and endurance from women that sometimes come to light. One of the most well-known cases in history is that of Gertrude Von der Wart. Her husband, who was wrongfully accused of being involved in the murder of Emperor Albert, was sentenced to the most horrific punishment—to be broken alive on the wheel. Deeply convinced of her husband's innocence, the devoted woman stood by him until the end, watching over him for two days and nights, facing the empress's wrath and the harsh weather, hoping to ease his suffering as he died. 1413

But women have not only distinguished themselves for their passive courage: impelled by affection, or the sense of duty, they have occasionally become heroic. When the band of conspirators, who sought the life of James II. of Scotland, burst into his lodgings at Perth, the king called to the ladies, who were in the chamber outside his room, to keep the door as well as they could, and give him time to escape. The conspirators had previously destroyed the locks of the doors, so that the keys could not be turned; and when they reached the ladies' apartment, it was found that the bar also had been removed. But, on hearing them approach, the brave Catherine Douglas, with the hereditary courage of her family, boldly thrust her arm across the door instead of the bar; and held it there until, her arm being broken, the conspirators burst into the room with drawn swords and daggers, overthrowing the ladies, who, though unarmed, still endeavoured to resist them.

But women haven't just shown their courage in quiet ways: motivated by love or a sense of duty, they have sometimes become truly heroic. When a group of conspirators attempted to assassinate James II of Scotland and broke into his lodgings in Perth, the king called to the women waiting in the room outside to try to hold the door and give him time to escape. The conspirators had already destroyed the locks, making it impossible to turn the keys; and when they reached the ladies' room, they discovered that the bar had also been removed. However, when they heard the approaching men, the brave Catherine Douglas, embodying her family's courageous spirit, boldly placed her arm across the door to block it instead of using the bar; she held it there until her arm was broken, at which point the conspirators forced their way into the room with drawn swords and daggers, overpowering the ladies, who, although unarmed, still tried to fight back.

The defence of Lathom House by Charlotte de la Tremouille, the worthy descendant of William of Nassau and Admiral Coligny, was another striking instance of heroic bravery on the part of a noble woman. When summoned by the Parliamentary forces to surrender, she declared that she had been entrusted by her husband with the defence of the house, and that she could not give it up without her dear lord's orders, but trusted in God for protection and deliverance. In her arrangements for the defence, she is described as having "left nothing with her eye to be excused afterwards by fortune or negligence, and added to her former patience a most resolved fortitude." The brave lady held her house and home good against the enemy for a whole year—during three months of which the place was strictly besieged and bombarded—until at length the siege was raised, after a most gallant defence, by the advance of the Royalist army.

The defense of Lathom House by Charlotte de la Tremouille, a noble descendant of William of Nassau and Admiral Coligny, was another remarkable example of heroic bravery by a noble woman. When the Parliamentary forces demanded her surrender, she stated that she had been entrusted by her husband to defend the house and that she could not relinquish it without her beloved lord's orders, but she trusted in God for protection and deliverance. In her preparations for the defense, she is said to have "left nothing to chance, making sure she wouldn't later be excused by fate or carelessness, and added to her previous patience a strong determination." This brave lady successfully defended her house and home against the enemy for an entire year—of which three months involved a strict siege and bombardment—until the siege was finally lifted, following a heroic defense, by the advance of the Royalist army.

Nor can we forget the courage of Lady Franklin, who persevered to the last, when the hopes of all others had died out, in prosecuting the search after the Franklin Expedition. On the occasion of the Royal Geographical Society determining to award the Founder's Medal to Lady Franklin, Sir Roderick Murchison observed, that in the course of a long friendship with her, he had abundant opportunities of observing and testing the sterling qualities of a woman who had proved herself worthy of the admiration of mankind. "Nothing daunted by failure after failure, through twelve long years of hope deferred, she had persevered, with a singleness of purpose and a sincere devotion which were truly unparalleled. And now that her one last expedition of the FOX, under the gallant M'Clintock, had realised the two great facts—that her husband had traversed wide seas unknown to former navigators, and died in discovering a north-west passage—then, surely, the adjudication of the medal would be hailed by the nation as one of the many recompences to which the widow of the illustrious Franklin was so eminently entitled."

We also can't overlook the bravery of Lady Franklin, who kept pushing forward until the very end, even when everyone else's hopes had faded, in the search for the Franklin Expedition. When the Royal Geographical Society decided to give the Founder's Medal to Lady Franklin, Sir Roderick Murchison pointed out that throughout their long friendship, he had many chances to witness and appreciate the remarkable qualities of a woman who truly deserved the admiration of humanity. "Undeterred by one failure after another, over twelve long years of postponed hopes, she persisted with a singular focus and a sincere dedication that were truly unmatched. Now that her final expedition of the FOX, led by the brave M'Clintock, had confirmed two major truths—that her husband had crossed vast, uncharted seas and had died while seeking a north-west passage—then surely, the awarding of the medal would be celebrated by the nation as just one of the many honors that the widow of the distinguished Franklin so richly deserved."

But that devotion to duty which marks the heroic character has more often been exhibited by women in deeds of charity and mercy. The greater part of these are never known, for they are done in private, out of the public sight, and for the mere love of doing good. Where fame has come to them, because of the success which has attended their labours in a more general sphere, it has come unsought and unexpected, and is often felt as a burden. Who has not heard of Mrs. Fry and Miss Carpenter as prison visitors and reformers; of Mrs. Chisholm and Miss Rye as promoters of emigration; and of Miss Nightingale and Miss Garrett as apostles of hospital nursing?

But the dedication to duty that defines a heroic character has often been shown by women through acts of charity and kindness. Most of these acts go unnoticed because they are done quietly, away from the public eye, and simply out of a desire to help others. When they do gain recognition due to the impact of their work in a broader context, it’s usually unintentional and can sometimes feel overwhelming. Who hasn’t heard of Mrs. Fry and Miss Carpenter as prison visitors and reformers; Mrs. Chisholm and Miss Rye as advocates for emigration; and Miss Nightingale and Miss Garrett as pioneers of hospital nursing?

That these women should have emerged from the sphere of private and domestic life to become leaders in philanthropy, indicates no small, degree of moral courage on their part; for to women, above all others, quiet and ease and retirement are most natural and welcome. Very few women step beyond the boundaries of home in search of a larger field of usefulness. But when they have desired one, they have had no difficulty in finding it. The ways in which men and women can help their neighbours are innumerable. It needs but the willing heart and ready hand. Most of the philanthropic workers we have named, however, have scarcely been influenced by choice. The duty lay in their way—it seemed to be the nearest to them—and they set about doing it without desire for fame, or any other reward but the approval of their own conscience.

That these women have moved from private and domestic life to become leaders in philanthropy shows a significant amount of moral courage on their part; for women, more than anyone else, find tranquility, comfort, and retreat most natural and appealing. Very few women venture beyond the confines of home to seek a broader opportunity to be useful. However, when they have felt the desire for one, they have found it easily. There are countless ways men and women can help their neighbors. It only takes a willing heart and a ready hand. Most of the philanthropic workers we've mentioned, however, have not been driven by choice. The duty was presented to them—it felt closest to them—and they pursued it without seeking fame or any reward other than the approval of their own conscience.

Among prison-visitors, the name of Sarah Martin is much less known than that of Mrs. Fry, although she preceded her in the work. How she was led to undertake it, furnishes at the same time an illustration of womanly trueheartedness and earnest womanly courage.

Among prison visitors, Sarah Martin is much less recognized than Mrs. Fry, even though she started this work before her. How she came to take it on demonstrates both genuine compassion and true courage in women.

Sarah Martin was the daughter of poor parents, and was left an orphan at an early age. She was brought up by her grandmother, at Caistor, near Yarmouth, and earned her living by going out to families as assistant-dressmaker, at a shilling a day. In 1819, a woman was tried and sentenced to imprisonment in Yarmouth Gaol, for cruelly beating and illusing her child, and her crime became the talk of the town. The young dressmaker was much impressed by the report of the trial, and the desire entered her mind of visiting the woman in gaol, and trying to reclaim her. She had often before, on passing the walls of the borough gaol, felt impelled to seek admission, with the object of visiting the inmates, reading the Scriptures to them, and endeavouring to lead them back to the society whose laws they had violated.

Sarah Martin was the daughter of poor parents and became an orphan at a young age. She was raised by her grandmother in Caistor, near Yarmouth, and made a living by working as an assistant dressmaker for a shilling a day. In 1819, a woman was tried and sentenced to prison in Yarmouth Gaol for brutally beating and mistreating her child, and her crime became the talk of the town. The young dressmaker was deeply affected by the trial's report, and the idea came to her to visit the woman in prison and try to help her turn her life around. She had often felt compelled to seek entry into the borough gaol as she passed by, with the intention of visiting the inmates, reading the Scriptures to them, and trying to guide them back to the society that they had wronged.

At length she could not resist her impulse to visit the mother. She entered the gaol-porch, lifted the knocker, and asked the gaoler for admission. For some reason or other she was refused; but she returned, repeated her request, and this time she was admitted. The culprit mother shortly stood before her. When Sarah Martin told the motive of her visit, the criminal burst into tears, and thanked her. Those tears and thanks shaped the whole course of Sarah Martin's after-life; and the poor seamstress, while maintaining herself by her needle, continued to spend her leisure hours in visiting the prisoners, and endeavouring to alleviate their condition. She constituted herself their chaplain and schoolmistress, for at that time they had neither; she read to them from the Scriptures, and taught them to read and write. She gave up an entire day in the week for this purpose, besides Sundays, as well as other intervals of spare time, "feeling," she says, "that the blessing of God was upon her." She taught the women to knit, to sew, and to cut out; the sale of the articles enabling her to buy other materials, and to continue the industrial education thus begun. She also taught the men to make straw hats, men's and boys' caps, gray cotton shirts, and even patchwork—anything to keep them out of idleness, and from preying on their own thoughts. Out of the earnings of the prisoners in this way, she formed a fund, which she applied to furnishing them with work on their discharge; thus enabling them again to begin the world honestly, and at the same time affording her, as she herself says, "the advantage of observing their conduct."

Finally, she could no longer resist the urge to visit the mother. She entered the jail entrance, knocked on the door, and asked the jailer for permission to enter. For some reason, she was denied; but she went back, repeated her request, and this time she was let in. The incarcerated mother soon stood before her. When Sarah Martin explained why she was there, the mother broke down in tears and thanked her. Those tears and thanks changed the entire direction of Sarah Martin's life; and the poor seamstress, while supporting herself with her sewing, continued to spend her free time visiting prisoners and trying to improve their situation. She took on the roles of their chaplain and school teacher, since they had neither at that time; she read to them from the Bible and taught them to read and write. She dedicated an entire day each week to this, in addition to Sundays, along with other free moments, "feeling," she said, "that the blessing of God was upon her." She taught the women how to knit, sew, and cut fabric; the sales from their work allowed her to buy more supplies and continue the skills training she had started. She also taught the men to make straw hats, men's and boys' caps, gray cotton shirts, and even patchwork—anything to keep them busy and prevent them from dwelling on their own thoughts. From the prisoners' earnings, she created a fund, which she used to give them work when they were released; this enabled them to start anew honestly in the world and also allowed her, as she put it, "the advantage of observing their behavior."

By attending too exclusively to this prison-work, however, Sarah Martin's dressmaking business fell off; and the question arose with her, whether in order to recover her business she was to suspend her prison-work. But her decision had already been made. "I had counted the cost," she said, "and my mind, was made up. If, whilst imparting truth to others, I became exposed to temporal want, the privations so momentary to an individual would not admit of comparison with following the Lord, in thus administering to others." She now devoted six or seven hours every day to the prisoners, converting what would otherwise have been a scene of dissolute idleness into a hive of orderly industry. Newly-admitted prisoners were sometimes refractory, but her persistent gentleness eventually won their respect and co-operation. Men old in years and crime, pert London pickpockets, depraved boys and dissolute sailors, profligate women, smugglers, poachers, and the promiscuous horde of criminals which usually fill the gaol of a seaport and county town, all submitted to the benign influence of this good woman; and under her eyes they might be seen, for the first time in their lives, striving to hold a pen, or to master the characters in a penny primer. She entered into their confidences—watched, wept, prayed, and felt for all by turns. She strengthened their good resolutions, cheered the hopeless and despairing, and endeavoured to put all, and hold all, in the right road of amendment.

By focusing too much on her prison work, Sarah Martin's dressmaking business started to decline; she began to wonder if she should pause her prison work to revive her business. But she had already made her decision. "I had calculated the costs," she said, "and I’m sure of my choice. If, while sharing truth with others, I face temporary hardship, the short-term struggles of one person are nothing compared to following the Lord and helping others." She now spent six or seven hours each day with the prisoners, transforming what could have been a scene of aimless idleness into a hub of productive activity. Newly admitted prisoners were sometimes difficult, but her consistent kindness eventually earned their respect and cooperation. Men both old and young, seasoned criminals and petty pickpockets from London, wayward boys and unruly sailors, wayward women, smugglers, poachers, and the mixed group of offenders commonly found in the jails of a seaport and county town, all responded to the positive influence of this kind woman. For the first time in their lives, they could be seen attempting to hold a pen or learning from a basic reading book. She listened to their secrets—watched, cried, prayed, and empathized with each of them in turn. She encouraged their good intentions, lifted the spirits of the hopeless and despairing, and tried to guide them all toward a path of improvement.

For more than twenty years this good and truehearted woman pursued her noble course, with little encouragement, and not much help; almost her only means of subsistence consisting in an annual income of ten or twelve pounds left by her grandmother, eked out by her little earnings at dressmaking. During the last two years of her ministrations, the borough magistrates of Yarmouth, knowing that her self-imposed labours saved them the expense of a schoolmaster and chaplain [14which they had become bound by law to appoint], made a proposal to her of an annual salary of 12L. a year; but they did it in so indelicate a manner as greatly to wound her sensitive feelings. She shrank from becoming the salaried official of the corporation, and bartering for money those serviced which had throughout been labours of love. But the Gaol Committee coarsely informed her, "that if they permitted her to visit the prison she must submit to their terms, or be excluded." For two years, therefore, she received the salary of 12L. a year—the acknowledgment of the Yarmouth corporation for her services as gaol chaplain and schoolmistress! She was now, however, becoming old and infirm, and the unhealthy atmosphere of the gaol did much towards finally disabling her. While she lay on her deathbed, she resumed the exercise of a talent she had occasionally practised before in her moments of leisure—the composition of sacred poetry. As works of art, they may not excite admiration; yet never were verses written truer in spirit, or fuller of Christian love. But her own life was a nobler poem than any she ever wrote—full of true courage, perseverance, charity, and wisdom. It was indeed a commentary upon her own words:

For more than twenty years, this kind and sincere woman followed her noble path, with little support and not much help; her main source of income was an annual sum of ten or twelve pounds left by her grandmother, supplemented by her small earnings from dressmaking. In the last two years of her work, the local magistrates of Yarmouth, aware that her selfless efforts saved them the costs of hiring a schoolmaster and chaplain [14which they were legally required to appoint], offered her an annual salary of £12. However, they presented it in such a blunt way that it deeply hurt her feelings. She recoiled from becoming a paid official of the corporation and exchanging the services she provided out of love for money. But the Gaol Committee crudely told her that if she wanted to continue visiting the prison, she had to accept their terms, or she would be banned. So for two years, she accepted the £12 salary—the recognition from the Yarmouth corporation for her work as gaol chaplain and schoolmistress! However, she was growing older and weaker, and the unhealthy environment of the gaol contributed significantly to her decline. While lying on her deathbed, she returned to a skill she had sometimes practiced in her free time—the writing of sacred poetry. While they may not be masterpieces, those verses were written with genuine spirit and filled with Christian love. But her life itself was a nobler poem than anything she ever penned—full of true courage, perseverance, charity, and wisdom. It was truly a reflection of her own words:

      "The high desire that others may be blest
       Savours of heaven."
      "The strong wish for others to be happy
       has a heavenly quality."




CHAPTER VI.—SELF-CONTROL.

     "Honour and profit do not always lie in the same sack."—
     GEORGE HERBERT.

     "The government of one's self is the only true freedom for
     the Individual."—FREDERICK PERTHES.

     "It is in length of patience, and endurance, and
     forbearance, that so much of what is good in mankind and
     womankind is shown."—ARTHUR HELPS.

                      "Temperance, proof
      Against all trials; industry severe
      And constant as the motion of the day;
      Stern self-denial round him spread, with shade
      That might be deemed forbidding, did not there
      All generous feelings flourish and rejoice;
      Forbearance, charity indeed and thought,
      And resolution competent to take
      Out of the bosom of simplicity
      All that her holy customs recommend."—WORDSWORTH.
     "Honor and profit don't always come together."— 
     GEORGE HERBERT.

     "The ability to govern oneself is the only real freedom for 
     the individual."—FREDERICK PERTHES.

     "It’s through patience, endurance, and forbearance that so much of what is good in humans is revealed."—ARTHUR HELPS.

                      "Temperance, a test
      Against all challenges; hard work steady 
      And constant like the rhythm of the day; 
      Stern self-denial surrounding him, with a shade 
      That might seem daunting, if not for the fact 
      That all generous feelings thrive and celebrate; 
      Forbearance, indeed charity and thought, 
      And determination capable of extracting 
      From the heart of simplicity 
      All that her sacred traditions endorse."—WORDSWORTH.

Self-control is only courage under another form. It may almost be regarded as the primary essence of character. It is in virtue of this quality that Shakspeare defines man as a being "looking before and after." It forms the chief distinction between man and the mere animal; and, indeed, there can be no true manhood without it.

Self-control is just courage in a different form. It can almost be seen as the core essence of character. Because of this quality, Shakespeare describes humans as beings "looking before and after." It is the main thing that sets humans apart from mere animals; in fact, there cannot be true manhood without it.

Self-control is at the root of all the virtues. Let a man give the reins to his impulses and passions, and from that moment he yields up his moral freedom. He is carried along the current of life, and becomes the slave of his strongest desire for the time being.

Self-control is the foundation of all virtues. When a person lets their impulses and passions take over, they lose their moral freedom. They are swept along by the flow of life and become a slave to their strongest desire in that moment.

To be morally free—to be more than an animal—man must be able to resist instinctive impulse, and this can only be done by the exercise of self-control. Thus it is this power which constitutes the real distinction between a physical and a moral life, and that forms the primary basis of individual character.

To be morally free—to be more than just an animal—people must be able to resist instinctual urges, and this can only happen through self-control. This ability is what truly sets apart a physical life from a moral one, and it serves as the foundation of individual character.

In the Bible praise is given, not to the strong man who "taketh a city," but to the stronger man who "ruleth his own spirit." This stronger man is he who, by discipline, exercises a constant control over his thoughts, his speech, and his acts. Nine-tenths of the vicious desires that degrade society, and which, when indulged, swell into the crimes that disgrace it, would shrink into insignificance before the advance of valiant self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. By the watchful exercise of these virtues, purity of heart and mind become habitual, and the character is built up in chastity, virtue, and temperance.

In the Bible, praise is given not to the strong man who "takes a city," but to the stronger man who "controls his own spirit." This stronger man is someone who, through discipline, consistently manages his thoughts, words, and actions. Most of the destructive desires that harm society, and which, when acted upon, turn into the crimes that shame it, would diminish significantly with the practice of courageous self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. By actively cultivating these virtues, purity of heart and mind becomes a habit, leading to a character built on chastity, virtue, and temperance.

The best support of character will always be found in habit, which, according as the will is directed rightly or wrongly, as the case may be, will prove either a benignant ruler or a cruel despot. We may be its willing subject on the one hand, or its servile slave on the other. It may help us on the road to good, or it may hurry us on the road to ruin.

The strongest foundation of character will always come from habit, which, depending on whether the will is guided in the right or wrong direction, can become either a kind ruler or a harsh tyrant. We can be its willing follower on one hand or its obedient servant on the other. It can assist us in our journey toward goodness, or it can push us down the path to destruction.

Habit is formed by careful training. And it is astonishing how much can be accomplished by systematic discipline and drill. See how, for instance, out of the most unpromising materials—such as roughs picked up in the streets, or raw unkempt country lads taken from the plough—steady discipline and drill will bring out the unsuspected qualities of courage, endurance, and self-sacrifice; and how, in the field of battle, or even on the more trying occasions of perils by sea—such as the burning of the SARAH SANDS or the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD—such men, carefully disciplined, will exhibit the unmistakable characteristics of true bravery and heroism!

Habit is built through careful training. It’s impressive how much can be achieved through consistent discipline and practice. Take, for example, how even the most unlikely candidates—like troubled kids from the streets or rough, unpolished farm boys—can develop unexpected traits of courage, resilience, and selflessness through steady training. In battle or during tough situations at sea—like the fire on the SARAH SANDS or the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD—these well-trained individuals will show clear signs of real bravery and heroism!

Nor is moral discipline and drill less influential in the formation of character. Without it, there will be no proper system and order in the regulation of the life. Upon it depends the cultivation of the sense of self-respect, the education of the habit of obedience, the development of the idea of duty. The most self-reliant, self-governing man is always under discipline: and the more perfect the discipline, the higher will be his moral condition. He has to drill his desires, and keep them in subjection to the higher powers of his nature. They must obey the word of command of the internal monitor, the conscience—otherwise they will be but the mere slaves of their inclinations, the sport of feeling and impulse.

Moral discipline and training play a crucial role in shaping character. Without it, there can be no proper structure and order in life. It's essential for developing a sense of self-respect, instilling the habit of obedience, and fostering a sense of duty. The most independent and self-disciplined individuals are always in some form of discipline: the better the discipline, the higher their moral standards will be. They need to manage their desires and keep them under control of the higher aspects of their nature. These desires must follow the guidance of their internal compass, their conscience—otherwise, they will just be slaves to their impulses and feelings.

"In the supremacy of self-control," says Herbert Spencer, "consists one of the perfections of the ideal man. Not to be impulsive—not to be spurred hither and thither by each desire that in turn comes uppermost—but to be self-restrained, self-balanced, governed by the joint decision of the feelings in council assembled, before whom every action shall have been fully debated and calmly determined—that it is which education, moral education at least, strives to produce." 151

"In having control over oneself," says Herbert Spencer, "lies one of the key qualities of the ideal person. It's about not being impulsive—not being swayed back and forth by every desire that pops up—but being self-disciplined, self-composed, and guided by a collective decision from our emotions, where every action is thoroughly discussed and thoughtfully concluded—that's what education, at least moral education, aims to achieve." 151

The first seminary of moral discipline, and the best, as we have already shown, is the home; next comes the school, and after that the world, the great school of practical life. Each is preparatory to the other, and what the man or woman becomes, depends for the most part upon what has gone before. If they have enjoyed the advantage of neither the home nor the school, but have been allowed to grow up untrained, untaught, and undisciplined, then woe to themselves—woe to the society of which they form part!

The first place where people learn moral values—and the best one, as we've already mentioned—is at home; after that comes school, and then there's the world, which is the big classroom of real life. Each step prepares you for the next, and who you become mostly depends on what you've experienced before. If someone hasn’t had the benefit of a home or school and has grown up without guidance, education, or discipline, then it's unfortunate for them—and unfortunate for the society they belong to!

The best-regulated home is always that in which the discipline is the most perfect, and yet where it is the least felt. Moral discipline acts with the force of a law of nature. Those subject to it yield themselves to it unconsciously; and though it shapes and forms the whole character, until the life becomes crystallized in habit, the influence thus exercised is for the most part unseen and almost unfelt.

The most well-managed home is the one where the discipline is the strongest, yet feels the lightest. Moral discipline works like a natural law. Those who are part of it often submit without even realizing it; and while it shapes their entire character, leading to habits that become second nature, this influence is mostly invisible and barely felt.

The importance of strict domestic discipline is curiously illustrated by a fact mentioned in Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's Memoirs, to the following effect: that a lady who, with her husband, had inspected most of the lunatic asylums of England and the Continent, found the most numerous class of patients was almost always composed of those who had been only children, and whose wills had therefore rarely been thwarted or disciplined in early life; whilst those who were members of large families, and who had been trained in self-discipline, were far less frequent victims to the malady.

The importance of strict family discipline is interestingly highlighted by a fact mentioned in Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's Memoirs: a woman who, along with her husband, visited most of the mental hospitals in England and abroad, found that the largest group of patients was usually those who had been only children. Their wills had rarely been challenged or disciplined in their early years. In contrast, those from large families who had learned self-discipline were much less likely to suffer from mental illness.

Although the moral character depends in a great degree on temperament and on physical health, as well as on domestic and early training and the example of companions, it is also in the power of each individual to regulate, to restrain, and to discipline it by watchful and persevering self-control. A competent teacher has said of the propensities and habits, that they are as teachable as Latin and Greek, while they are much more essential to happiness.

Although moral character is heavily influenced by our temperament, physical health, upbringing, and the examples set by those around us, each person also has the ability to manage, control, and discipline it through careful and consistent self-discipline. A knowledgeable teacher once remarked that our tendencies and habits can be taught just like Latin and Greek, but they are much more crucial for our happiness.

Dr. Johnson, though himself constitutionally prone to melancholy, and afflicted by it as few have been from his earliest years, said that "a man's being in a good or bad humour very much depends upon his will." We may train ourselves in a habit of patience and contentment on the one hand, or of grumbling and discontent on the other. We may accustom ourselves to exaggerate small evils, and to underestimate great blessings. We may even become the victim of petty miseries by giving way to them. Thus, we may educate ourselves in a happy disposition, as well as in a morbid one. Indeed, the habit of viewing things cheerfully, and of thinking about life hopefully, may be made to grow up in us like any other habit. 152 It was not an exaggerated estimate of Dr. Johnson to say, that the habit of looking at the best side of any event is worth far more than a thousand pounds a year.

Dr. Johnson, who was naturally prone to sadness and had struggled with it more than most since he was young, said that "a person's mood—good or bad—heavily relies on their will." We can train ourselves to develop a habit of patience and contentment on one side, or of complaining and dissatisfaction on the other. We might get used to blowing small problems out of proportion while downplaying our significant blessings. We could even fall victim to minor troubles by succumbing to them. In this way, we can cultivate a happy mindset just as much as a negative one. In fact, the habit of looking at things positively and thinking about life with hope can be developed in us just like any other habit. 152 It wasn't an overstatement to say that developing the habit of seeing the bright side of any situation is worth far more than a thousand pounds a year.

The religious man's life is pervaded by rigid self-discipline and self-restraint. He is to be sober and vigilant, to eschew evil and do good, to walk in the spirit, to be obedient unto death, to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand; to wrestle against spiritual wickedness, and against the rulers of the darkness of this world; to be rooted and built up in faith, and not to be weary of well-doing; for in due season he shall reap, if he faint not.

The life of a religious person is filled with strict self-discipline and self-control. They must be alert and clear-headed, avoid evil and do good, live according to their beliefs, be obedient even to death, withstand challenges in tough times, and, after doing everything, remain strong; to struggle against spiritual evil and the powers of darkness in this world; to be grounded and strengthened in faith, and not grow tired of doing good; for in time, they will reap the rewards if they don’t give up.

The man of business also must needs be subject to strict rule and system. Business, like life, is managed by moral leverage; success in both depending in no small degree upon that regulation of temper and careful self-discipline, which give a wise man not only a command over himself, but over others. Forbearance and self-control smooth the road of life, and open many ways which would otherwise remain closed. And so does self-respect: for as men respect themselves, so will they usually respect the personality of others.

The businessman must also adhere to strict rules and systems. Business, like life, is guided by moral influence; success in both relies significantly on emotional regulation and careful self-discipline, which give a wise person not only control over themselves but also over others. Patience and self-control make life's journey easier and open up many opportunities that would otherwise be unavailable. Self-respect does the same: as people respect themselves, they are likely to respect the individuality of others.

It is the same in politics as in business. Success in that sphere of life is achieved less by talent than by temper, less by genius than by character. If a man have not self-control, he will lack patience, be wanting in tact, and have neither the power of governing himself nor of managing others. When the quality most needed in a Prime Minister was the subject of conversation in the presence of Mr. Pitt, one of the speakers said it was "Eloquence;" another said it was "Knowledge;" and a third said it was "Toil," "No," said Pitt, "it is Patience!" And patience means self-control, a quality in which he himself was superb. His friend George Rose has said of him that he never once saw Pitt out of temper. 153 Yet, although patience is usually regarded as a "slow" virtue, Pitt combined with it the most extraordinary readiness, vigour, and rapidity of thought as well as action.

It’s the same in politics as it is in business. Success in that area of life comes more from temperament than talent, and more from character than genius. If someone doesn’t have self-control, they will lack patience, be short on tact, and won't be able to govern themselves or manage others. When discussing what quality is most needed in a Prime Minister in front of Mr. Pitt, one person said it was "Eloquence," another said it was "Knowledge," and a third claimed it was "Hard Work." "No," Pitt said, "it’s Patience!" And patience means self-control, a quality he had in abundance. His friend George Rose mentioned that he never once saw Pitt lose his temper. 153 However, while patience is often seen as a "slow" virtue, Pitt also possessed remarkable readiness, vigor, and quickness of thought and action.

It is by patience and self-control that the truly heroic character is perfected. These were among the most prominent characteristics of the great Hampden, whose noble qualities were generously acknowledged even by his political enemies. Thus Clarendon described him as a man of rare temper and modesty, naturally cheerful and vivacious, and above all, of a flowing courtesy. He was kind and intrepid, yet gentle, of unblameable conversation, and his heart glowed with love to all men. He was not a man of many words, but, being of unimpeachable character, every word he uttered carried weight. "No man had ever a greater power over himself.... He was very temperate in diet, and a supreme governor over all his passions and affections; and he had thereby great power over other men's." Sir Philip Warwick, another of his political opponents, incidentally describes his great influence in a certain debate: "We had catched at each other's locks, and sheathed our swords in each other's bowels, had not the sagacity and great calmness of Mr. Hampden, by a short speech, prevented it, and led us to defer our angry debate until the next morning."

It’s through patience and self-control that a truly heroic character is developed. These were some of the key traits of the great Hampden, whose noble qualities were recognized even by his political rivals. Clarendon described him as a man of rare temperament and humility, naturally cheerful and lively, and above all, a man of flowing courtesy. He was kind and fearless, yet gentle, with impeccable conversation, and his heart was filled with love for everyone. He wasn’t overly talkative, but his unimpeachable character made every word he spoke carry weight. "No man ever had greater control over himself.... He was very moderate in his eating, and had supreme control over all his passions and feelings; thus, he had great influence over others." Sir Philip Warwick, another political opponent, noted his significant impact during a particular debate: "We would have grabbed each other’s hair and stabbed each other had it not been for the wisdom and great calm of Mr. Hampden, who, with a brief speech, prevented it and led us to postpone our heated debate until the following morning."

A strong temper is not necessarily a bad temper. But the stronger the temper, the greater is the need of self-discipline and self-control. Dr. Johnson says men grow better as they grow older, and improve with experience; but this depends upon the width, and depth, and generousness of their nature. It is not men's faults that ruin them so much as the manner in which they conduct themselves after the faults have been committed. The wise will profit by the suffering they cause, and eschew them for the future; but there are those on whom experience exerts no ripening influence, and who only grow narrower and bitterer and more vicious with time.

A strong temper isn’t necessarily a bad thing. However, the stronger the temper, the greater the need for self-discipline and self-control. Dr. Johnson says that men improve as they get older and gain experience; but this improvement depends on the breadth, depth, and generosity of their character. It’s not so much men’s faults that ruin them, but how they handle themselves after those faults are made. The wise will learn from the pain they cause and avoid repeating those mistakes in the future; but some people remain unchanged by experience, becoming narrower, more bitter, and more vicious over time.

What is called strong temper in a young man, often indicates a large amount of unripe energy, which will expend itself in useful work if the road be fairly opened to it. It is said of Stephen Gerard, a Frenchman, who pursued a remarkably successful career in the United States, that when he heard of a clerk with a strong temper, he would readily take him into his employment, and set him to work in a room by himself; Gerard being of opinion that such persons were the best workers, and that their energy would expend itself in work if removed from the temptation to quarrel.

What is often seen as a strong temper in a young man usually shows a lot of untapped energy, which can be channeled into productive work if given the right opportunities. Stephen Gerard, a Frenchman who had a very successful career in the United States, was known to hire clerks with strong tempers. He would place them in a separate room, believing that these individuals were the best workers and that their energy would be focused on their tasks if they were kept away from situations that might lead to conflict.

Strong temper may only mean a strong and excitable will. Uncontrolled, it displays itself in fitful outbreaks of passion; but controlled and held in subjection—like steam pent-up within the organised mechanism of a steam-engine, the use of which is regulated and controlled by slide-valves and governors and levers—it may become a source of energetic power and usefulness. Hence, some of the greatest characters in history have been men of strong temper, but of equally strong determination to hold their motive power under strict regulation and control.

A strong temper can simply indicate a vigorous and passionate will. When unchecked, it shows up as sudden bursts of emotion; but when controlled and confined—like steam trapped within the organized system of a steam engine, regulated by slide valves, governors, and levers—it can turn into a powerful and useful force. As a result, some of the greatest figures in history have been people with strong tempers but also a strong resolve to keep their driving force well-regulated and under control.

The famous Earl of Strafford was of an extremely choleric and passionate nature, and had great struggles with himself in his endeavours to control his temper. Referring to the advice of one of his friends, old Secretary Cooke, who was honest enough to tell him of his weakness, and to caution him against indulging it, he wrote: "You gave me a good lesson to be patient; and, indeed, my years and natural inclinations give me heat more than enough, which, however, I trust more experience shall cool, and a watch over myself in time altogether overcome; in the meantime, in this at least it will set forth itself more pardonable, because my earnestness shall ever be for the honour, justice, and profit of my master; and it is not always anger, but the misapplying of it, that is the vice so blameable, and of disadvantage to those that let themselves loose there-unto." 154

The famous Earl of Strafford had a very short temper and was quite passionate, constantly fighting with himself to keep his anger in check. Reflecting on advice from one of his friends, the honest old Secretary Cooke, who pointed out his flaw and warned him against giving in to it, he wrote: "You taught me a valuable lesson in patience; and, honestly, my age and natural tendencies already give me more than enough heat, which I hope experience will help to cool down, and that I'll eventually keep under control. In the meantime, at least my passion will seem more forgivable, since my intentions are always for the honor, justice, and benefit of my master; and it’s not always anger itself, but how it’s misused, that’s the real problem, and it harms those who lose control to it." 154

Cromwell, also, is described as having been of a wayward and violent temper in his youth—cross, untractable, and masterless—with a vast quantity of youthful energy, which exploded in a variety of youthful mischiefs. He even obtained the reputation of a roysterer in his native town, and seemed to be rapidly going to the bad, when religion, in one of its most rigid forms, laid hold upon his strong nature, and subjected it to the iron discipline of Calvinism. An entirely new direction was thus given to his energy of temperament, which forced an outlet for itself into public life, and eventually became the dominating influence in England for a period of nearly twenty years.

Cromwell is also described as having a rebellious and violent temper in his youth—moody, unmanageable, and unruly—full of youthful energy that expressed itself in various kinds of mischief. He earned a reputation as a troublemaker in his hometown and seemed to be heading down a bad path when religion, in one of its strictest forms, took hold of his strong character and subjected it to the harsh discipline of Calvinism. This completely redirected his energetic temperament, pushing him into public life, where he became a dominant figure in England for almost twenty years.

The heroic princes of the House of Nassau were all distinguished for the same qualities of self-control, self-denial, and determination of purpose. William the Silent was so called, not because he was a taciturn man—for he was an eloquent and powerful speaker where eloquence was necessary—but because he was a man who could hold his tongue when it was wisdom not to speak, and because he carefully kept his own counsel when to have revealed it might have been dangerous to the liberties of his country. He was so gentle and conciliatory in his manner that his enemies even described him as timid and pusillanimous. Yet, when the time for action came, his courage was heroic, his determination unconquerable. "The rock in the ocean," says Mr. Motley, the historian of the Netherlands, "tranquil amid raging billows, was the favourite emblem by which his friends expressed their sense of his firmness."

The heroic princes of the House of Nassau were all known for their qualities of self-control, self-denial, and strong determination. William the Silent got his name not because he was a quiet person—he was actually an articulate and powerful speaker when it mattered—but because he knew when to hold his tongue and when it was wise not to speak. He carefully kept his own thoughts private when sharing them could have endangered his country's freedoms. He was so gentle and diplomatic in his demeanor that his enemies even labeled him as timid and weak. Yet, when it was time to act, his bravery was exceptional, and his resolve was unbreakable. "The rock in the ocean," says Mr. Motley, the historian of the Netherlands, "calm amid the raging waves, was the favorite symbol by which his friends expressed their appreciation of his steadfastness."

Mr. Motley compares William the Silent to Washington, whom he in many respects resembled. The American, like the Dutch patriot, stands out in history as the very impersonation of dignity, bravery, purity, and personal excellence. His command over his feelings, even in moments of great difficulty and danger, was such as to convey the impression, to those who did not know him intimately, that he was a man of inborn calmness and almost impassiveness of disposition. Yet Washington was by nature ardent and impetuous; his mildness, gentleness, politeness, and consideration for others, were the result of rigid self-control and unwearied self-discipline, which he diligently practised even from his boyhood. His biographer says of him, that "his temperament was ardent, his passions strong, and amidst the multiplied scenes of temptation and excitement through which he passed, it was his constant effort, and ultimate triumph, to check the one and subdue the other." And again: "His passions were strong, and sometimes they broke out with vehemence, but he had the power of checking them in an instant. Perhaps self-control was the most remarkable trait of his character. It was in part the effect of discipline; yet he seems by nature to have possessed this power in a degree which has been denied to other men." 155

Mr. Motley compares William the Silent to Washington, who resembled him in many ways. The American, like the Dutch patriot, stands out in history as a true representation of dignity, bravery, purity, and personal excellence. His ability to control his emotions, even in tough and dangerous situations, gave those who didn’t know him well the impression that he was naturally calm and almost emotionless. Yet Washington was actually passionate and impulsive by nature; his kindness, gentleness, politeness, and consideration for others were the result of strict self-control and tireless self-discipline that he practiced diligently from a young age. His biographer states that "his temperament was fiery, his passions intense, and during the many trials and temptations he faced, it was his constant goal, and ultimate success, to rein in the former and master the latter." And again: "His passions were intense, and at times they erupted forcefully, but he had the ability to rein them in instantly. Perhaps self-control was the most striking aspect of his character. It was partly a result of discipline; however, he seems to have had this ability innately, to a degree not found in other men." 155

The Duke of Wellington's natural temper, like that of Napoleon, was irritable in the extreme; and it was only by watchful self-control that he was enabled to restrain it. He studied calmness and coolness in the midst of danger, like any Indian chief. At Waterloo, and elsewhere, he gave his orders in the most critical moments, without the slightest excitement, and in a tone of voice almost more than usually subdued. 156

The Duke of Wellington's natural temperament, much like Napoleon's, was incredibly irritable; it was only through careful self-control that he managed to keep it in check. He focused on staying calm and composed during dangerous situations, similar to any Indian chief. At Waterloo and in other critical moments, he issued his orders without the slightest hint of excitement, using a tone of voice that was almost unusually subdued. 156

Wordsworth the poet was, in his childhood, "of a stiff, moody, and violent temper," and "perverse and obstinate in defying chastisement." When experience of life had disciplined his temper, he learnt to exercise greater self-control; but, at the same time, the qualities which distinguished him as a child were afterwards useful in enabling him to defy the criticism of his enemies. Nothing was more marked than Wordsworth's self-respect and self-determination, as well as his self-consciousness of power, at all periods of his history.

Wordsworth, the poet, was "stubborn, moody, and quick-tempered" in his childhood, and he was "defiant and stubborn when it came to punishment." As he gained life experience and learned to manage his temper, he developed better self-control; however, the traits that set him apart as a child later helped him resist criticism from his foes. Wordsworth's self-respect, determination, and awareness of his own strength were evident throughout his life.

Henry Martyn, the missionary, was another instance of a man in whom strength of temper was only so much pent-up, unripe energy. As a boy he was impatient, petulant, and perverse; but by constant wrestling against his tendency to wrongheadedness, he gradually gained the requisite strength, so as to entirely overcome it, and to acquire what he so greatly coveted—the gift of patience.

Henry Martyn, the missionary, was another example of someone whose strong temperament was really just a lot of untapped energy. As a child, he was impatient, irritable, and stubborn; however, through persistent effort to fight against his tendency to be difficult, he gradually developed the strength needed to fully overcome it and to gain what he deeply desired—the ability to be patient.

A man may be feeble in organization, but, blessed with a happy temperament, his soul may be great, active, noble, and sovereign. Professor Tyndall has given us a fine picture of the character of Faraday, and of his self-denying labours in the cause of science—exhibiting him as a man of strong, original, and even fiery nature, and yet of extreme tenderness and sensibility. "Underneath his sweetness and gentleness," he says, "was the heat of a volcano. He was a man of excitable and fiery nature; but, through high self-discipline, he had converted the fire into a central glow and motive power of life, instead of permitting it to waste itself in useless passion."

A man might be weak in organization, but if he has a positive attitude, his soul can be great, active, noble, and powerful. Professor Tyndall paints a vivid picture of Faraday's character and his selfless efforts in the name of science, portraying him as a person with a strong, original, and even passionate nature, yet also with great kindness and sensitivity. "Beneath his sweetness and gentleness," he says, "was the heat of a volcano. He was a person with an excitable and fiery nature, but through strong self-discipline, he transformed that fire into a central glow and driving force in his life, rather than letting it be squandered in pointless passion."

There was one fine feature in Faraday's character which is worthy of notice—one closely akin to self-control: it was his self-denial. By devoting himself to analytical chemistry, he might have speedily realised a large fortune; but he nobly resisted the temptation, and preferred to follow the path of pure science. "Taking the duration of his life into account," says Mr. Tyndall, "this son of a blacksmith and apprentice to a bookbinder had to decide between a fortune of L.150,000 on the one side, and his undowered science on the other. He chose the latter, and died a poor man. But his was the glory of holding aloft among the nations the scientific name of England for a period of forty years." 157

There was one admirable trait in Faraday's character that deserves attention—something closely related to self-control: it was his self-denial. By focusing on analytical chemistry, he could have quickly made a fortune, but he nobly resisted that temptation and chose to pursue pure science instead. "Considering the length of his life," says Mr. Tyndall, "this son of a blacksmith and apprentice to a bookbinder had to choose between a fortune of £150,000 on one side and his unsupported science on the other. He chose the latter and died a poor man. But his achievement was in elevating the scientific reputation of England for forty years." 157

Take a like instance of the self-denial of a Frenchman. The historian Anquetil was one of the small number of literary men in France who refused to bow to the Napoleonic yoke. He sank into great poverty, living on bread-and-milk, and limiting his expenditure to only three sous a day. "I have still two sous a day left," said he, "for the conqueror of Marengo and Austerlitz." "But if you fall sick," said a friend to him, "you will need the help of a pension. Why not do as others do? Pay court to the Emperor—you have need of him to live." "I do not need him to die," was the historian's reply. But Anquetil did not die of poverty; he lived to the age of ninety-four, saying to a friend, on the eve of his death, "Come, see a man who dies still full of life!"

Take a similar example of self-denial from a Frenchman. The historian Anquetil was one of the few literary figures in France who refused to submit to Napoleonic rule. He fell into severe poverty, surviving on bread and milk, with a budget of only three sous a day. "I still have two sous a day left," he said, "for the conqueror of Marengo and Austerlitz." "But if you get sick," a friend told him, "you'll need a pension. Why not do what others do? Flatter the Emperor—you need him to survive." "I don’t need him to die," was the historian's response. However, Anquetil did not die from poverty; he lived to the age of ninety-four, telling a friend the night before he passed away, "Come, see a man who dies still full of life!"

Sir James Outram exhibited the same characteristic of noble self-denial, though in an altogether different sphere of life. Like the great King Arthur, he was emphatically a man who "forbore his own advantage." He was characterised throughout his whole career by his noble unselfishness. Though he might personally disapprove of the policy he was occasionally ordered to carry out, he never once faltered in the path of duty. Thus he did not approve of the policy of invading Scinde; yet his services throughout the campaign were acknowledged by General Sir C. Napier to have been of the most brilliant character. But when the war was over, and the rich spoils of Scinde lay at the conqueror's feet, Outram said: "I disapprove of the policy of this war—I will accept no share of the prize-money!"

Sir James Outram showed the same trait of noble selflessness, though in a completely different area of life. Like the legendary King Arthur, he was definitely a man who "put aside his own advantage." Throughout his entire career, he was marked by his remarkable unselfishness. Even if he personally disagreed with the policies he was sometimes ordered to implement, he never wavered in his sense of duty. For instance, he did not support the invasion of Scinde; however, his contributions during the campaign were recognized by General Sir C. Napier as exceptionally brilliant. But once the war ended, and the valuable spoils of Scinde lay at the victor's feet, Outram stated: "I disapprove of the policy of this war—I will accept no share of the prize-money!"

Not less marked was his generous self-denial when despatched with a strong force to aid Havelock in fighting his way to Lucknow. As superior officer, he was entitled to take upon himself the chief command; but, recognising what Havelock had already done, with rare disinterestedness, he left to his junior officer the glory of completing the campaign, offering to serve under him as a volunteer. "With such reputation," said Lord Clyde, "as Major-General Outram has won for himself, he can afford to share glory and honour with others. But that does not lessen the value of the sacrifice he has made with such disinterested generosity."

His generous selflessness was also clearly evident when he was sent with a strong force to help Havelock fight his way to Lucknow. As the higher-ranking officer, he could have taken over the main command, but recognizing what Havelock had already accomplished, he selflessly allowed his junior officer to enjoy the recognition for finishing the campaign, offering to serve under him as a volunteer. "With the reputation that Major-General Outram has earned for himself," said Lord Clyde, "he can afford to share glory and honor with others. But that doesn’t diminish the value of the sacrifice he has made with such selfless generosity."

If a man would get through life honourably and peaceably, he must necessarily learn to practise self-denial in small things as well as great. Men have to bear as well as forbear. The temper has to be held in subjection to the judgment; and the little demons of ill-humour, petulance, and sarcasm, kept resolutely at a distance. If once they find an entrance to the mind, they are very apt to return, and to establish for themselves a permanent occupation there.

If a man wants to navigate life honorably and peacefully, he must learn to practice self-control in both small and big matters. Men need to both endure and exercise restraint. One must keep their temper under control and push away the annoying feelings of bad mood, irritability, and sarcasm. Once these feelings creep into the mind, they tend to stick around and set up a permanent residence there.

It is necessary to one's personal happiness, to exercise control over one's words as well as acts: for there are words that strike even harder than blows; and men may "speak daggers," though they use none. "UN COUP DE LANGUE," says the French proverb, "EST PIRE QU'UN COUP DE LANCE." The stinging repartee that rises to the lips, and which, if uttered, might cover an adversary with confusion, how difficult it sometimes is to resist saying it! "Heaven keep us," says Miss Bremer in her 'Home,' "from the destroying power of words! There are words which sever hearts more than sharp swords do; there are words the point of which sting the heart through the course of a whole life."

It's essential for personal happiness to control both your words and actions. Some words can hurt even more than physical blows; people can "speak daggers" without using any. A French proverb states, "UN COUP DE LANGUE, EST PIRE QU'UN COUP DE LANCE." The sharp comeback that comes to mind, which, if said, could greatly embarrass someone, can be so hard to hold back sometimes! "Heaven protect us," says Miss Bremer in her 'Home,' "from the destructive power of words! Some words can divide hearts more than sharp swords can; there are words whose sting can affect the heart for a lifetime."

Thus character exhibits itself in self-control of speech as much as in anything else. The wise and forbearant man will restrain his desire to say a smart or severe thing at the expense of another's feelings; while the fool blurts out what he thinks, and will sacrifice his friend rather than his joke. "The mouth of a wise man," said Solomon, "is in his heart; the heart of a fool is in his mouth."

Character shows itself in how we control our speech just as much as in anything else. A wise and patient person will hold back their urge to say something clever or harsh that could hurt someone else’s feelings, while a fool spills out whatever comes to mind and would throw a friend under the bus for a laugh. "The mouth of a wise person," said Solomon, "is in their heart; the heart of a fool is in their mouth."

There are, however, men who are no fools, that are headlong in their language as in their acts, because of their want of forbearance and self-restraining patience. The impulsive genius, gifted with quick thought and incisive speech—perhaps carried away by the cheers of the moment—lets fly a sarcastic sentence which may return upon him to his own infinite damage. Even statesmen might be named, who have failed through their inability to resist the temptation of saying clever and spiteful things at their adversary's expense. "The turn of a sentence," says Bentham, "has decided the fate of many a friendship, and, for aught that we know, the fate of many a kingdom." So, when one is tempted to write a clever but harsh thing, though it may be difficult to restrain it, it is always better to leave it in the inkstand. "A goose's quill," says the Spanish proverb, "often hurts more than a lion's claw."

There are, however, men who are no fools, but who speak impulsively just like they act, due to their lack of patience and self-control. The quick-witted genius, blessed with sharp thoughts and cutting words—perhaps swept up by the excitement of the moment—can unleash a sarcastic remark that may come back to hurt him deeply. Even politicians could be mentioned, who have stumbled because they couldn’t resist the urge to say clever and hurtful things at their opponents' expense. "The wording of a sentence," says Bentham, "has determined the fate of many friendships, and, for all we know, the fate of many kingdoms." So, when you're tempted to write something clever but harsh, even though it might be hard to hold back, it's always better to leave it in the inkstand. "A goose's quill," says the Spanish proverb, "often hurts more than a lion's claw."

Carlyle says, when speaking of Oliver Cromwell, "He that cannot withal keep his mind to himself, cannot practise any considerable thing whatsoever." It was said of William the Silent, by one of his greatest enemies, that an arrogant or indiscreet word was never known to fall from his lips. Like him, Washington was discretion itself in the use of speech, never taking advantage of an opponent, or seeking a shortlived triumph in a debate. And it is said that in the long run, the world comes round to and supports the wise man who knows when and how to be silent.

Carlyle says, when discussing Oliver Cromwell, "Anyone who can’t keep their thoughts to themselves can’t accomplish anything significant." One of William the Silent's biggest enemies remarked that he never let an arrogant or careless word escape his lips. Like him, Washington was extremely careful with his words, never exploiting an opponent or seeking a temporary victory in a debate. It’s also said that in the end, the world tends to favor and support the wise person who understands when and how to remain silent.

We have heard men of great experience say that they have often regretted having spoken, but never once regretted holding their tongue. "Be silent," says Pythagoras, "or say something better than silence." "Speak fitly," says George Herbert, "or be silent wisely." St. Francis de Sales, whom Leigh Hunt styled "the Gentleman Saint," has said: "It is better to remain silent than to speak the truth ill-humouredly, and so spoil an excellent dish by covering it with bad sauce." Another Frenchman, Lacordaire, characteristically puts speech first, and silence next. "After speech," he says, "silence is the greatest power in the world." Yet a word spoken in season, how powerful it may be! As the old Welsh proverb has it, "A golden tongue is in the mouth of the blessed."

We've heard experienced people say that they often regret having spoken, but never regret keeping quiet. "Be silent," says Pythagoras, "or say something better than silence." "Speak appropriately," says George Herbert, "or choose to be wisely silent." St. Francis de Sales, referred to by Leigh Hunt as "the Gentleman Saint," said: "It's better to stay silent than to speak the truth in a bad mood, thus ruining a great dish with poor sauce." Another Frenchman, Lacordaire, emphasizes speech first, then silence. "After speech," he states, "silence is the greatest power in the world." Yet, a well-timed word can be incredibly powerful! As the old Welsh proverb goes, "A golden tongue is in the mouth of the blessed."

It is related, as a remarkable instance of self-control on the part of De Leon, a distinguished Spanish poet of the sixteenth century, who lay for years in the dungeons of the Inquisition without light or society, because of his having translated a part of the Scriptures into his native tongue, that on being liberated and restored to his professorship, an immense crowd attended his first lecture, expecting some account of his long imprisonment; but Do Leon was too wise and too gentle to indulge in recrimination. He merely resumed the lecture which, five years before, had been so sadly interrupted, with the accustomed formula "HERI DICEBAMUS," and went directly into his subject.

It’s noteworthy that De Leon, a prominent Spanish poet from the sixteenth century, displayed remarkable self-control during his years spent in the dungeons of the Inquisition without light or companionship, simply for translating part of the Scriptures into his native language. When he was finally freed and returned to his teaching position, a huge crowd gathered for his first lecture, anticipating stories from his long imprisonment. However, De Leon was too wise and gentle to engage in blame. He simply continued the lecture that had been so abruptly interrupted five years earlier, starting with the familiar phrase "HERI DICEBAMUS," and went straight into the topic at hand.

There are, of course, times and occasions when the expression of indignation is not only justifiable but necessary. We are bound to be indignant at falsehood, selfishness, and cruelty. A man of true feeling fires up naturally at baseness or meanness of any sort, even in cases where he may be under no obligation to speak out. "I would have nothing to do," said Perthes, "with the man who cannot be moved to indignation. There are more good people than bad in the world, and the bad get the upper hand merely because they are bolder. We cannot help being pleased with a man who uses his powers with decision; and we often take his side for no other reason than because he does so use them. No doubt, I have often repented speaking; but not less often have I repented keeping silence." 158

There are definitely times when expressing indignation is not just justified but necessary. It's natural to feel outraged by lies, selfishness, and cruelty. A person with genuine feelings naturally gets upset by any form of meanness, even when they’re not obligated to say anything. "I would avoid," said Perthes, "anyone who can't be stirred to indignation. There are more good people than bad in the world, and the bad often take charge simply because they’re bolder. We can’t help but admire someone who acts decisively with their abilities; sometimes we support them for no other reason than that they do. I know I've often regretted speaking out, but I've regretted staying silent even more." 158

One who loves right cannot be indifferent to wrong, or wrongdoing. If he feels warmly, he will speak warmly, out of the fulness of his heart. As a noble lady 159 has written:

One who loves what's right cannot ignore wrong or wrongdoing. If he feels passionately, he will express that passion, coming from the depths of his heart. As a noble lady 159 has written:

      "A noble heart doth teach a virtuous scorn—
      To scorn to owe a duty overlong,
      To scorn to be for benefits forborne,
      To scorn to lie, to scorn to do a wrong,
      To scorn to bear an injury in mind,
      To scorn a freeborn heart slave-like to bind."
      "A noble heart teaches a virtuous disdain—  
      To disdain owing a debt for too long,  
      To disdain holding back on kindness,  
      To disdain lying, to disdain doing wrong,  
      To disdain holding onto past injuries,  
      To disdain binding a free heart like a slave."

We have, however, to be on our guard against impatient scorn. The best people are apt to have their impatient side; and often, the very temper which makes men earnest, makes them also intolerant. 1510 "Of all mental gifts," says Miss Julia Wedgwood, "the rarest is intellectual patience; and the last lesson of culture is to believe in difficulties which are invisible to ourselves."

We need to be careful about being impatient and contemptuous. Even the best people can be quick to lose their patience; often, the same passion that drives people to be earnest can also make them intolerant. 1510 "Of all mental gifts," says Miss Julia Wedgwood, "the rarest is intellectual patience, and the final lesson of growth is to recognize difficulties that we can't see ourselves."

The best corrective of intolerance in disposition, is increase of wisdom and enlarged experience of life. Cultivated good sense will usually save men from the entanglements in which moral impatience is apt to involve them; good sense consisting chiefly in that temper of mind which enables its possessor to deal with the practical affairs of life with justice, judgment, discretion, and charity. Hence men of culture and experience are invariably, found the most forbearant and tolerant, as ignorant and narrowminded persons are found the most unforgiving and intolerant. Men of large and generous natures, in proportion to their practical wisdom, are disposed to make allowance for the defects and disadvantages of others—allowance for the controlling power of circumstances in the formation of character, and the limited power of resistance of weak and fallible natures to temptation and error. "I see no fault committed," said Goethe, "which I also might not have committed." So a wise and good man exclaimed, when he saw a criminal drawn on his hurdle to Tyburn: "There goes Jonathan Bradford—but for the grace of God!"

The best way to correct intolerance is by gaining more wisdom and broader life experience. Practical intelligence typically helps people avoid the traps that moral impatience can lead them into; this intelligence is mainly about having the mindset that allows someone to handle life’s practical matters with fairness, good judgment, discretion, and compassion. As a result, educated and experienced individuals tend to be the most patient and tolerant, while uninformed and narrow-minded people are usually the most unforgiving and intolerant. Those with generous and open natures, in relation to their practical wisdom, are inclined to consider the flaws and hardships of others—recognizing how circumstances can shape one’s character and understanding the limited ability of weak and imperfect people to resist temptation and make mistakes. "I see no fault committed," said Goethe, "which I also might not have committed." Similarly, a wise and good man exclaimed upon seeing a criminal taken to Tyburn, "There goes Jonathan Bradford—but for the grace of God!"

Life will always be, to a great extent, what we ourselves make it. The cheerful man makes a cheerful world, the gloomy man a gloomy one. We usually find but our own temperament reflected in the dispositions of those about us. If we are ourselves querulous, we will find them so; if we are unforgiving and uncharitable to them, they will be the same to us. A person returning from an evening party not long ago, complained to a policeman on his beat that an ill-looking fellow was following him: it turned out to be only his own shadow! And such usually is human life to each of us; it is, for the most part, but the reflection of ourselves.

Life is largely what we make of it. A happy person creates a happy world, while a gloomy person creates a gloomy one. We often see our own mood reflected in the attitudes of those around us. If we are irritable, we’ll find others are too; if we are harsh and unkind to them, they will be the same with us. Recently, a person leaving a party complained to a policeman that a suspicious-looking guy was following him, but it turned out to just be his own shadow! This is often how human life is for each of us; it’s mostly just a reflection of ourselves.

If we would be at peace with others, and ensure their respect, we must have regard for their personality. Every man has his peculiarities of manner and character, as he has peculiarities of form and feature; and we must have forbearance in dealing with them, as we expect them to have forbearance in dealing with us. We may not be conscious of our own peculiarities, yet they exist nevertheless. There is a village in South America where gotos or goitres are so common that to be without one is regarded as a deformity. One day a party of Englishmen passed through the place, when quite a crowd collected to jeer them, shouting: "See, see these people—they have got NO GOTOS!"

If we want to be at peace with others and earn their respect, we need to consider their individuality. Everyone has their own unique quirks and traits, just like they have different physical appearances; we must show patience when dealing with them, just as we expect them to show patience with us. We might not be aware of our own quirks, but they’re still there. There’s a village in South America where goiters are so common that not having one is considered unusual. One day, a group of Englishmen went through the village, and a crowd gathered to mock them, shouting: "Look, look at these people—they have NO GOITERS!"

Many persons give themselves a great deal of fidget concerning what other people think of them and their peculiarities. Some are too much disposed to take the illnatured side, and, judging by themselves, infer the worst. But it is very often the case that the uncharitableness of others, where it really exists, is but the reflection of our own want of charity and want of temper. It still oftener happens, that the worry we subject ourselves to, has its source in our own imagination. And even though those about us may think of us uncharitably, we shall not mend matters by exasperating ourselves against them. We may thereby only expose ourselves unnecessarily to their illnature or caprice. "The ill that comes out of our mouth," says Herbert, "ofttimes falls into our bosom."

Many people stress a lot about what others think of them and their quirks. Some are quick to assume the worst, judging from their own negative experiences. Often, the unkindness of others, when it exists, is just a reflection of our own lack of kindness and patience. Even more often, the anxiety we put ourselves through comes from our own imagination. And even if those around us think poorly of us, getting upset won't make things better. It might just make us more vulnerable to their negativity or whims. "The harm that comes out of our mouth," says Herbert, "often falls back on us."

The great and good philosopher Faraday communicated the following piece of admirable advice, full of practical wisdom, the result of a rich experience of life, in a letter to his friend Professor Tyndall:- "Let me, as an old man, who ought by this time to have profited by experience, say that when I was younger I found I often misrepresented the intentions of people, and that they did not mean what at the time I supposed they meant; and further, that, as a general rule, it was better to be a little dull of apprehension where phrases seemed to imply pique, and quick in perception when, on the contrary, they seemed to imply kindly feeling. The real truth never fails ultimately to appear; and opposing parties, if wrong, are sooner convinced when replied to forbearingly, than when overwhelmed. All I mean to say is, that it is better to be blind to the results of partisanship, and quick to see goodwill. One has more happiness in one's self in endeavouring to follow the things that make for peace. You can hardly imagine how often I have been heated in private when opposed, as I have thought unjustly and superciliously, and yet I have striven, and succeeded, I hope, in keeping down replies of the like kind. And I know I have never lost by it." 1511

The great philosopher Faraday shared some valuable advice based on his extensive life experience in a letter to his friend Professor Tyndall: "Let me, as an older man who should have learned from experience by now, say that when I was younger, I often misunderstood what people intended. They didn't always mean what I thought they meant. Generally speaking, it's better to be a bit slow to judge when comments seem to show annoyance, and quick to pick up on kindness when that’s implied. The truth always comes out in the end; and when opposing sides are wrong, they are convinced more easily when responded to with patience rather than being overwhelmed. What I mean is that it’s better to overlook the effects of partisanship and be quick to notice goodwill. You find more happiness in trying to focus on what promotes peace. You can hardly imagine how often I've felt frustrated in private when I thought I was being treated unfairly and arrogantly, but I've worked hard and hopefully succeeded in staying calm and not responding in kind. I know I’ve never lost out by doing that." 1511

While the painter Barry was at Rome, he involved himself, as was his wont, in furious quarrels with the artists and dilettanti, about picture-painting and picture-dealing, upon which his friend and countryman, Edmund Burke—always the generous friend of struggling merit—wrote to him kindly and sensibly: "Believe me, dear Barry, that the arms with which the ill-dispositions of the world are to be combated, and the qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and we reconciled to it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence to others, and a great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues of a great and noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a well-composed soul as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations—in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. We must be at peace with our species, if not for their sakes, at least very much for our own." 1512

While the painter Barry was in Rome, he got caught up, as usual, in heated arguments with other artists and art lovers about painting and art dealing. His friend and fellow countryman, Edmund Burke—always a supportive friend to those who deserve recognition—wrote to him thoughtfully and kindly: "Believe me, dear Barry, the tools to deal with the world's negativity, and the qualities that help us find common ground with it, and ourselves with it, are moderation, kindness, a bit of tolerance for others, and a good amount of self-doubt. These aren't signs of weakness, as some might think, but rather great and noble virtues that elevate our spirit as much as they contribute to our peace and success. Nothing is more unworthy of a well-balanced person than to spend life in arguments and fights—snipping and struggling with everyone around us. We need to find peace with our fellow humans, if not for their sake, then certainly for ours." 1512

No one knew the value of self-control better than the poet Burns, and no one could teach it more eloquently to others; but when it came to practice, Burns was as weak as the weakest. He could not deny himself the pleasure of uttering a harsh and clever sarcasm at another's expense. One of his biographers observes of him, that it was no extravagant arithmetic to say that for every ten jokes he made himself a hundred enemies. But this was not all. Poor Burns exercised no control over his appetites, but freely gave them rein:

No one understood the importance of self-control better than the poet Burns, and no one could express it more effectively to others; however, when it came to putting it into practice, Burns was as weak as anyone. He couldn't resist the urge to make a biting and witty remark at someone else's expense. One of his biographers notes that it was no exaggeration to say that for every ten jokes he told, he made a hundred enemies. But that wasn't all. Poor Burns had no control over his desires and indulged them freely:

      "Thus thoughtless follies laid him low
             And stained his name."
      "So careless mistakes brought him down
             And tarnished his reputation."

Nor had he the self-denial to resist giving publicity to compositions originally intended for the delight of the tap-room, but which continue secretly to sow pollution broadcast in the minds of youth. Indeed, notwithstanding the many exquisite poems of this writer, it is not saying too much to aver that his immoral writings have done far more harm than his purer writings have done good; and that it would be better that all his writings should be destroyed and forgotten provided his indecent songs could be destroyed with them.

Nor did he have the self-control to avoid sharing works that were initially meant for the enjoyment of the pub, but which continue to spread negativity in the minds of young people. In fact, despite the many beautiful poems by this writer, it's not an exaggeration to say that his immoral works have caused far more damage than his more innocent ones have done good; and it would be better if all his writings were destroyed and forgotten, as long as his inappropriate songs could be eliminated as well.

The remark applies alike to Beranger, who has been styled "The Burns of France." Beranger was of the same bright incisive genius; he had the same love of pleasure, the same love of popularity; and while he flattered French vanity to the top of its bent, he also painted the vices most loved by his countrymen with the pen of a master. Beranger's songs and Thiers' History probably did more than anything else to reestablish the Napoleonic dynasty in France. But that was a small evil compared with the moral mischief which many of Beranger's songs are calculated to produce; for, circulating freely as they do in French households, they exhibit pictures of nastiness and vice, which are enough to pollute and destroy a nation.

The comment also applies to Beranger, who has been called "The Burns of France." Beranger had the same sharp, vibrant genius; he shared the same love of pleasure and popularity. While he stroked French vanity to its fullest, he also highlighted the vices most adored by his fellow countrymen with a masterful pen. Beranger's songs and Thiers' History likely did more than anything else to bring back the Napoleonic dynasty in France. However, that was a minor issue compared to the moral damage many of Beranger's songs might cause; since they spread freely in French homes, they show images of filth and vice that could corrupt and ruin a nation.

One of Burns's finest poems, written, in his twenty-eighth year, is
entitled 'A Bard's Epitaph.' It is a description, by anticipation, of
his own life. Wordsworth has said of it: "Here is a sincere and solemn
avowal; a public declaration from his own will; a confession at once
devout, poetical and human; a history in the shape of a prophecy." It
concludes with these lines:—

      "Reader, attend—whether thy soul
       Soars fancy's flights beyond the pole,
       Or darkling grubs this earthly hole
                           In low pursuit;
       Know—prudent, cautious self-control,
                           Is Wisdom's root."
One of Burns's greatest poems, written when he was twenty-eight, is called 'A Bard's Epitaph.' It reflects, in advance, on his own life. Wordsworth remarked on it: "Here is a sincere and solemn declaration; a public statement from his own will; a confession that is devout, poetic, and human; a story presented as a prophecy." It ends with these lines:—

      "Reader, pay attention—whether your soul
       Soars on fancy's flights beyond the pole,
       Or digs in this earthly hole
                           In low pursuit;
       Know—prudent, cautious self-control,
                           Is Wisdom's root."

One of the vices before which Burns fell—and it may be said to be a master-vice, because it is productive of so many other vices—was drinking. Not that he was a drunkard, but because he yielded to the temptations of drink, with its degrading associations, and thereby lowered and depraved his whole nature. 1513 But poor Burns did not stand alone; for, alas! of all vices, the unrestrained appetite for drink was in his time, as it continues to be now, the most prevalent, popular, degrading, and destructive.

One of the major flaws that Burns struggled with—and it can be considered a primary flaw because it leads to many other issues—was drinking. He wasn't a full-blown alcoholic, but he gave in to the temptations of alcohol, which came with degrading associations, and as a result, he compromised and corrupted his entire character. 1513 Sadly, Burns wasn't alone in this; because, unfortunately, out of all vices, the excessive craving for alcohol was, in his time and still is today, the most common, accepted, degrading, and destructive.

Were it possible to conceive the existence of a tyrant who should compel his people to give up to him one-third or more of their earnings, and require them at the same time to consume a commodity that should brutalise and degrade them, destroy the peace and comfort of their families, and sow in themselves the seeds of disease and premature death—what indignation meetings, what monster processions there would be! 'What eloquent speeches and apostrophes to the spirit of liberty!—what appeals against a despotism so monstrous and so unnatural! And yet such a tyrant really exists amongst us—the tyrant of unrestrained appetite, whom no force of arms, or voices, or votes can resist, while men are willing to be his slaves.

If we could imagine a tyrant who forced his people to hand over one-third or more of their earnings and also required them to consume something that would brutalize and degrade them, destroy their families' peace and comfort, and lead to disease and early death—imagine the outrage, the protest marches that would happen! What powerful speeches and passionate pleas for freedom! What calls to resist such a monstrous and unnatural despotism! Yet, such a tyrant truly exists among us—the tyrant of unchecked desire, whom no amount of force, speech, or votes can oppose as long as people are willing to be his slaves.

The power of this tyrant can only be overcome by moral means—by self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. There is no other way of withstanding the despotism of appetite in any of its forms. No reform of institutions, no extended power of voting, no improved form of government, no amount of scholastic instruction, can possibly elevate the character of a people who voluntarily abandon themselves to sensual indulgence. The pursuit of ignoble pleasure is the degradation of true happiness; it saps the morals, destroys the energies, and degrades the manliness and robustness of individuals as of nations.

The only way to overcome the power of this tyrant is through moral means—by practicing self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. There's no other way to resist the tyranny of desire in any form. No reform of institutions, no expansion of voting rights, no better form of government, and no amount of academic education can truly uplift a society whose people willingly give in to indulgence. Chasing after lowly pleasures leads to the decline of genuine happiness; it weakens morals, drains energy, and diminishes the strength and resilience of both individuals and nations.

The courage of self-control exhibits itself in many ways, but in none more clearly than in honest living. Men without the virtue of self-denial are not only subject to their own selfish desires, but they are usually in bondage to others who are likeminded with themselves. What others do, they do. They must live according to the artificial standard of their class, spending like their neighbours, regardless of the consequences, at the same time that all are, perhaps, aspiring after a style of living higher than their means. Each carries the others along with him, and they have not the moral courage to stop. They cannot resist the temptation of living high, though it may be at the expense of others; and they gradually become reckless of debt, until it enthrals them. In all this there is great moral cowardice, pusillanimity, and want of manly independence of character.

The courage of self-control shows itself in many ways, but none is clearer than in living honestly. People without the ability to deny themselves are not only slaves to their own selfish desires, but they usually end up under the influence of others just like them. They do what others do. They have to live up to the artificial standards of their social class, spending like their neighbors without thinking about the consequences, even as they all, perhaps, aim for a lifestyle beyond their means. Each person pulls the others along, and none of them have the moral courage to stop. They can't resist the temptation to live lavishly, even if it hurts others; and they slowly become indifferent to their debts until those debts take control of them. In all of this, there's a lot of moral cowardice, weakness, and a lack of strong personal independence.

A rightminded man will shrink from seeming to be what he is not, or pretending to be richer than he really is, or assuming a style of living that his circumstances will not justify. He will have the courage to live honestly within his own means, rather than dishonestly upon the means of other people; for he who incurs debts in striving to maintain a style of living beyond his income, is in spirit as dishonest as the man who openly picks your pocket.

A good person will avoid pretending to be something he’s not, or acting like he has more money than he actually does, or living a lifestyle that doesn’t match his situation. He will have the courage to live honestly within his own financial means, rather than dishonestly relying on others’ money; because someone who goes into debt trying to keep up a lifestyle beyond what he can afford is just as dishonest in spirit as someone who openly steals from you.

To many, this may seem an extreme view, but it will bear the strictest test. Living at the cost of others is not only dishonesty, but it is untruthfulness in deed, as lying is in word. The proverb of George Herbert, that "debtors are liars," is justified by experience. Shaftesbury somewhere says that a restlessness to have something which we have not, and to be something which we are not, is the root of all immorality. 1514 No reliance is to be placed on the saying—a very dangerous one—of Mirabeau, that "LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT L'ENNEMIE DE LA GRANDE." On the contrary, strict adherence to even the smallest details of morality is the foundation of all manly and noble character.

To many, this may seem like an extreme view, but it holds up under the toughest scrutiny. Living off the backs of others is not just dishonest; it's untruthful in action, just like lying is in words. George Herbert’s saying that "debtors are liars" is proven true by experience. Shaftesbury once mentioned that a constant desire for what we don’t have and for being what we’re not is the source of all immorality. 1514 We shouldn’t take the saying from Mirabeau—that "LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT L'ENNEMIE DE LA GRANDE"—too seriously; it’s quite dangerous. In fact, strict adherence to even the smallest details of morality is the foundation of all noble and admirable character.

The honourable man is frugal of his means, and pays his way honestly. He does not seek to pass himself off as richer than he is, or, by running into debt, open an account with ruin. As that man is not poor whose means are small, but whose desires are uncontrolled, so that man is rich whose means are more than sufficient for his wants. When Socrates saw a great quantity of riches, jewels, and furniture of great value, carried in pomp through Athens, he said, "Now do I see how many things I do NOT desire." "I can forgive everything but selfishness," said Perthes. "Even the narrowest circumstances admit of greatness with reference to 'mine and thine'; and none but the very poorest need fill their daily life with thoughts of money, if they have but prudence to arrange their housekeeping within the limits of their income."

The honorable man is careful with his money and pays his way honestly. He doesn’t try to appear wealthier than he is, nor does he go into debt and risk failure. Just as a person isn’t poor because their resources are limited, but because their desires are out of control, a person is wealthy when they have more than enough for their needs. When Socrates saw a large amount of wealth, jewels, and expensive furniture being paraded through Athens, he remarked, “Now I see how many things I do NOT want.” “I can overlook anything except selfishness,” said Perthes. “Even the most limited circumstances can reflect greatness regarding 'mine and thine,' and only the very poorest need to fill their daily lives with thoughts of money if they have the wisdom to manage their household within their income.”

A man may be indifferent to money because of higher considerations, as Faraday was, who sacrificed wealth to pursue science; but if he would have the enjoyments that money can purchase, he must honestly earn it, and not live upon the earnings of others, as those do who habitually incur debts which they have no means of paying. When Maginn, always drowned in debt, was asked what he paid for his wine, he replied that he did not know, but he believed they "put something down in a book." 1515

A man might not care about money because of greater values, like Faraday, who gave up wealth to focus on science. However, if he wants to enjoy the things money can buy, he has to earn it honestly and not rely on others’ earnings, like those who constantly rack up debts they can’t pay. When Maginn, who was always in debt, was asked how much he paid for his wine, he said he didn’t know, but he thought they "wrote something down in a book." 1515

This "putting-down in a book" has proved the ruin of a great many weakminded people, who cannot resist the temptation of taking things upon credit which they have not the present means of paying for; and it would probably prove of great social benefit if the law which enables creditors to recover debts contracted under certain circumstances were altogether abolished. But, in the competition for trade, every encouragement is given to the incurring of debt, the creditor relying upon the law to aid him in the last extremity. When Sydney Smith once went into a new neighbourhood, it was given out in the local papers that he was a man of high connections, and he was besought on all sides for his "custom." But he speedily undeceived his new neighbours. "We are not great people at all," he said: "we are only common honest people—people that pay our debts."

This "writing things down" has been the downfall of many weak-minded individuals who can't resist the urge to buy things on credit that they can't afford to pay for right now. It might be really beneficial for society if the law that allows creditors to collect debts under certain conditions were completely eliminated. But in the race for business, there's a lot of pressure to take on debt, with creditors counting on the law to back them up in tough situations. When Sydney Smith moved into a new neighborhood, the local newspapers announced that he was a person of high status, and everyone wanted to gain his "business." But he quickly set his new neighbors straight. "We're not important people at all," he said: "we're just ordinary honest people—people who pay our debts."

Hazlitt, who was a thoroughly honest though rather thriftless man, speaks of two classes of persons, not unlike each other—those who cannot keep their own money in their hands, and those who cannot keep their hands from other people's. The former are always in want of money, for they throw it away on any object that first presents itself, as if to get rid of it; the latter make away with what they have of their own, and are perpetual borrowers from all who will lend to them; and their genius for borrowing, in the long run, usually proves their ruin.

Hazlitt, a genuinely honest but somewhat careless man with money, talks about two similar types of people—those who can't hold onto their own money and those who can't keep their hands off other people's money. The first group is always broke because they waste their cash on whatever comes their way, almost as if they're trying to get rid of it. The second group manages to burn through their own money and constantly borrows from anyone willing to lend. In the end, their knack for borrowing often leads to their downfall.

Sheridan was one of such eminent unfortunates. He was impulsive and careless in his expenditure, borrowing money, and running into debt with everybody who would trust him. When he stood for Westminster, his unpopularity arose chiefly from his general indebtedness. "Numbers of poor people," says Lord Palmerston in one of his letters, "crowded round the hustings, demanding payment for the bills he owed them." In the midst of all his difficulties, Sheridan was as lighthearted as ever, and cracked many a good joke at his creditors' expense. Lord Palmerston was actually present at the dinner given by him, at which the sheriff's in possession were dressed up and officiated as waiters

Sheridan was one of those prominent unfortunate characters. He was impulsive and careless with his spending, borrowing money and building up debts with anyone who would lend to him. When he ran for Westminster, his unpopularity mainly stemmed from his overall indebtedness. "Many poor people," Lord Palmerston mentioned in one of his letters, "crowded around the hustings, demanding payment for the bills he owed them." Despite all his struggles, Sheridan remained as cheerful as ever and made many jokes at his creditors' expense. Lord Palmerston was even present at the dinner he hosted, where the sheriff's officers were dressed up and served as waiters.

Yet however loose Sheridan's morality may have been as regarded his private creditors, he was honest so far as the public money was concerned. Once, at dinner, at which Lord Byron happened to be present, an observation happened to be made as to the sturdiness of the Whigs in resisting office, and keeping to their principles—on which Sheridan turned sharply and said: "Sir, it is easy for my Lord this, or Earl that, or the Marquis of t'other, with thousands upon thousands a year, some of it either presently derived or inherited in sinecure or acquisitions from the public money, to boast of their patriotism, and keep aloof from temptation; but they do not know from what temptation those have kept aloof who had equal pride, at least equal talents, and not unequal passions, and nevertheless knew not, in the course of their lives, what it was to have a shilling of their own." And Lord Byron adds, that, in saying this, Sheridan wept. 1516

Yet no matter how lax Sheridan's morals were with his private creditors, he was honest when it came to public funds. One time, at a dinner where Lord Byron was present, a comment was made about how determined the Whigs were in resisting positions of power and sticking to their principles. Sheridan quickly responded, "Sir, it’s easy for my Lord this, or Earl that, or the Marquis of the other, with thousands upon thousands a year—some of it earned or inherited through sinecures or public fund acquisitions—to brag about their patriotism and avoid temptation. But they don’t understand what it takes to resist temptation when people of equal pride, at least equal talent, and not lesser passions have lived their lives without ever having a shilling to call their own." Lord Byron added that as Sheridan said this, he was in tears. 1516

The tone of public morality in money-matters was very low in those days. Political peculation was not thought discreditable; and heads of parties did not hesitate to secure the adhesion of their followers by a free use of the public money. They were generous, but at the expense of others—like that great local magnate, who,

The tone of public morality regarding money matters was quite poor back then. Political corruption wasn't seen as shameful, and party leaders readily garnered support from their followers by generously using public funds. They were giving, but it came at the cost of others—like that prominent local figure, who,

         "Out of his great bounty,
      Built a bridge at the expense of the county."
"From his immense generosity,  
He constructed a bridge funded by the county."

When Lord Cornwallis was appointed Lord-Lieutenant of Ireland, he pressed upon Colonel Napier, the father of THE Napiers, the comptrollership of army accounts. "I want," said his Lordship, "AN HONEST MAN, and this is the only thing I have been able to wrest from the harpies around me."

When Lord Cornwallis was appointed Lord-Lieutenant of Ireland, he urged Colonel Napier, the father of THE Napiers, to take the position of comptroller of army accounts. "I need," his Lordship said, "AN HONEST MAN, and this is the only thing I’ve been able to get away from the vultures around me."

It is said that Lord Chatham was the first to set the example of disdaining to govern by petty larceny; and his great son was alike honest in his administration. While millions of money were passing through Pitt's hands, he himself was never otherwise than poor; and he died poor. Of all his rancorous libellers, not one ever ventured to call in question his honesty.

It’s said that Lord Chatham was the first to set the example of refusing to govern through dishonest means; and his great son was just as honest in his leadership. While millions of dollars went through Pitt's hands, he personally was always poor; and he died poor. Of all his bitter critics, not one ever dared to question his honesty.

In former times, the profits of office were sometimes enormous. When Audley, the famous annuity-monger of the sixteenth century, was asked the value of an office which he had purchased in the Court of Wards, he replied:—"Some thousands to any one who wishes to get to heaven immediately; twice as much to him who does not mind being in purgatory; and nobody knows what to him who is not afraid of the devil."

In the past, the rewards of holding office could be really high. When Audley, the well-known annuity seller from the sixteenth century, was asked about the worth of a position he bought in the Court of Wards, he replied:—"A few thousand for anyone who wants to get to heaven right away; double that for someone who doesn't mind being in purgatory; and no one knows what it's worth for someone who's not scared of the devil."

Sir Walter Scott was a man who was honest to the core of his nature and his strenuous and determined efforts to pay his debts, or rather the debts of the firm with which he had become involved, has always appeared to us one of the grandest things in biography. When his publisher and printer broke down, ruin seemed to stare him in the face. There was no want of sympathy for him in his great misfortune, and friends came forward who offered to raise money enough to enable him to arrange with his creditors. "No! "said he, proudly; "this right hand shall work it all off!" "If we lose everything else," he wrote to a friend, "we will at least keep our honour unblemished." 1517 While his health was already becoming undermined by overwork, he went on "writing like a tiger," as he himself expressed it, until no longer able to wield a pen; and though he paid the penalty of his supreme efforts with his life, he nevertheless saved his honour and his self-respect.

Sir Walter Scott was a man who was completely honest, and his tireless and determined efforts to pay off his debts, or rather the debts of the company he had become involved with, have always struck us as one of the most remarkable things in biography. When his publisher and printer went under, disaster seemed imminent. There was no shortage of sympathy for his great misfortune, and friends stepped in to offer money to help him settle with his creditors. "No!" he said proudly; "this right hand will work it all off!" "If we lose everything else," he wrote to a friend, "we will at least keep our honor intact." 1517 Even though his health was already suffering from overwork, he kept "writing like a tiger," as he put it, until he could no longer hold a pen; and although he paid for his intense efforts with his life, he still preserved his honor and self-respect.

Everybody knows bow Scott threw off 'Woodstock,' the 'Life of Napoleon' (which he thought would be his death 1518 ), articles for the 'Quarterly,' 'Chronicles of the Canongate,' 'Prose Miscellanies,' and 'Tales of a Grandfather'—all written in the midst of pain, sorrow, and ruin. The proceeds of those various works went to his creditors. "I could not have slept sound," he wrote, "as I now can, under the comfortable impression of receiving the thanks of my creditors, and the conscious feeling of discharging my duty as a man of honour and honesty. I see before me a long, tedious, and dark path, but it leads to stainless reputation. If I die in the harrows, as is very likely, I shall die with honour. If I achieve my task, I shall have the thanks of all concerned, and the approbation of my own conscience." 1519

Everybody knows about how Scott created 'Woodstock,' the 'Life of Napoleon' (which he thought would be his last 1518), articles for the 'Quarterly,' 'Chronicles of the Canongate,' 'Prose Miscellanies,' and 'Tales of a Grandfather'—all while dealing with pain, sorrow, and ruin. The money from those various works went to his creditors. "I couldn’t have slept well," he wrote, "as I now can, knowing that I have the gratitude of my creditors, and the clear sense of fulfilling my duty as an honorable and honest man. I see ahead of me a long, difficult, and dark path, but it leads to a spotless reputation. If I die in the struggle, which is very likely, I will die with honor. If I complete my task, I will have the thanks of everyone involved and the approval of my own conscience." 1519

And then followed more articles, memoirs, and even sermons—'The Fair Maid of Perth,' a completely revised edition of his novels, 'Anne of Geierstein,' and more 'Tales of a Grandfather'—until he was suddenly struck down by paralysis. But he had no sooner recovered sufficient strength to be able to hold a pen, than we find him again at his desk writing the 'Letters on Demonology and Witchcraft,' a volume of Scottish History for 'Lardner's Cyclopaedia,' and a fourth series of 'Tales of a Grandfather' in his French History. In vain his doctors told him to give up work; he would not be dissuaded. "As for bidding me not work," he said to Dr. Abercrombie, "Molly might just as well put the kettle on the fire and say, 'Now, kettle, don't boil;'" to which he added, "If I were to be idle I should go mad!"

And then came more articles, memoirs, and even sermons—'The Fair Maid of Perth,' a completely revised version of his novels, 'Anne of Geierstein,' and more 'Tales of a Grandfather'—until he was suddenly hit by paralysis. But as soon as he had enough strength to hold a pen, he was back at his desk writing the 'Letters on Demonology and Witchcraft,' a volume of Scottish History for 'Lardner's Cyclopaedia,' and a fourth series of 'Tales of a Grandfather' in his French History. His doctors advised him to stop working, but he wouldn’t listen. "As for telling me not to work," he said to Dr. Abercrombie, "Molly might as well put the kettle on the stove and say, 'Now, kettle, don’t boil;'" and he added, "If I were to be idle, I would go mad!"

By means of the profits realised by these tremendous efforts, Scott saw his debts in course of rapid diminution, and he trusted that, after a few more years' work, he would again be a free man. But it was not to be. He went on turning out such works as his 'Count Robert of Paris' with greatly impaired skill, until he was prostrated by another and severer attack of palsy. He now felt that the plough was nearing the end of the furrow; his physical strength was gone; he was "not quite himself in all things," and yet his courage and perseverance never failed. "I have suffered terribly," he wrote in his Diary, "though rather in body than in mind, and I often wish I could lie down and sleep without waking. But I WILL FIGHT IT OUT IF I CAN." He again recovered sufficiently to be able to write 'Castle Dangerous,' though the cunning of the workman's hand had departed. And then there was his last tour to Italy in search of rest and health, during which, while at Naples, in spite of all remonstrances, he gave several hours every morning to the composition of a new novel, which, however, has not seen the light.

Thanks to the profits from his hard work, Scott saw his debts shrinking quickly, and he hoped that after a few more years of effort, he would be free again. But that wasn’t meant to be. He continued to produce works like 'Count Robert of Paris' with significantly reduced skill until he was struck down by another severe attack of paralysis. He now felt that his journey was almost over; his physical strength was gone, and he was "not quite himself in all things," yet his courage and determination never wavered. "I have suffered terribly," he wrote in his Diary, "though more in body than in mind, and I often wish I could lie down and sleep without waking. But I WILL FIGHT IT OUT IF I CAN." He recovered enough to write 'Castle Dangerous,' although the craft of his writing had diminished. Then came his last trip to Italy seeking rest and health, during which, while in Naples, he dedicated several hours every morning to working on a new novel, despite all objections, though it has never been published.

Scott returned to Abbotsford to die. "I have seen much," he said on his return, "but nothing like my own house—give me one turn more." One of the last things he uttered, in one of his lucid intervals, was worthy of him. "I have been," he said, "perhaps the most voluminous author of my day, and it IS a comfort to me to think that I have tried to unsettle no man's faith, to corrupt no man's principles, and that I have written nothing which on my deathbed I should wish blotted out." His last injunction to his son-in-law was: "Lockhart, I may have but a minute to speak to you. My dear, be virtuous—be religious—be a good man. Nothing else will give you any comfort when you come to lie here."

Scott returned to Abbotsford to die. "I've seen a lot," he said on his return, "but nothing compares to my own home—just let me have one more look." One of the last things he said during a clear moment was noteworthy. "I have been," he said, "maybe the most prolific author of my time, and it comforts me to think that I haven’t tried to shake anyone's faith, corrupt anyone's principles, and that I've written nothing I would want erased from my memory on my deathbed." His final advice to his son-in-law was: "Lockhart, I might only have a minute to talk to you. My dear, be virtuous—be religious—be a good man. Nothing else will bring you any comfort when you find yourself here."

The devoted conduct of Lockhart himself was worthy of his great relative. The 'Life of Scott,' which he afterwards wrote, occupied him several years, and was a remarkably successful work. Yet he himself derived no pecuniary advantage from it; handing over the profits of the whole undertaking to Sir Walter's creditors in payment of debts which he was in no way responsible, but influenced entirely by a spirit of honour, of regard for the memory of the illustrious dead.

The dedicated actions of Lockhart were deserving of his distinguished relative. The 'Life of Scott' that he later wrote took him several years and was very successful. However, he didn't profit from it at all; he gave all the proceeds to Sir Walter's creditors to pay off debts he wasn't responsible for, driven purely by a sense of honor and respect for the memory of the great man.





CHAPTER VII.—DUTY—TRUTHFULNESS.

     "I slept, and dreamt that life was Beauty; I woke, and found
     that life was Duty."

     "Duty! wondrous thought, that workest neither by fond
     insinuation, flattery, nor by any threat, but merely by
     holding up thy naked law in the soul, and so extorting for
     thyself always reverence, if not always obedience; before
     whom all appetites are dumb, however secretly they rebel"—
     KANT.

            "How happy is he born and taught,
              That serveth not another's will!
            Whose armour is his honest thought,
              And simple truth his utmost skill!

            "Whose passions not his masters are,
              Whose soul is still prepared for death;
            Unti'd unto the world by care
              Of public fame, or private breath.

          "This man is freed from servile bands,
            Of hope to rise, or fear to fall:
          Lord of himself, though not of land;
            And having nothing, yet hath all."—WOTTON.

          "His nay was nay without recall;
             His yea was yea, and powerful all;
          He gave his yea with careful heed,
            His thoughts and words were well agreed;
          His word, his bond and seal."
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     "I slept and dreamed that life was beautiful; I woke up and realized that life was about responsibility."

     "Responsibility! What an amazing idea, that works not through sweet persuasion, flattery, or threats, but simply by presenting its clear principles in the soul, demanding respect for itself, if not always obedience; before which all desires are silenced, no matter how secretly they resist" — KANT.

            "How fortunate is the one who is born and educated,
              Whose actions aren't dictated by someone else's will!
            Whose strength comes from honest thinking,
              And whose greatest skill is simple truth!

            "Whose passions are not his masters,
              Whose soul is always ready for death;
            Untied from the world’s concerns
              Of public reputation or private opinion.

          "This person is free from servile chains,
            Without the hope of rising or the fear of falling:
          A master of himself, though not of property;
            And having nothing, still possesses everything." — WOTTON.

          "His no was definitive and couldn't be taken back;
             His yes was affirmative and carried weight;
          He granted his yes with careful consideration,
            His thoughts and words were consistent;
          His word was his bond and his seal."
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DUTY is a thing that is due, and must be paid by every man who would avoid present discredit and eventual moral insolvency. It is an obligation—a debt—which can only be discharged by voluntary effort and resolute action in the affairs of life.

DUTY is something that is owed and must be fulfilled by everyone who wants to avoid immediate shame and eventual moral bankruptcy. It’s an obligation—a debt—that can only be paid off through voluntary effort and determined action in life.

Duty embraces man's whole existence. It begins in the home, where there is the duty which children owe to their parents on the one hand, and the duty which parents owe to their children on the other. There are, in like manner, the respective duties of husbands and wives, of masters and servants; while outside the home there are the duties which men and women owe to each other as friends and neighbours, as employers and employed, as governors and governed.

Duty encompasses every aspect of a person's life. It starts at home, where children have obligations to their parents and parents have obligations to their children. Similarly, there are duties between husbands and wives, and between masters and servants. Beyond the home, men and women have responsibilities to each other as friends and neighbors, as employers and employees, and as leaders and those they govern.

"Render, therefore," says St. Paul, "to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom honour. Owe no man anything, but to love one another; for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law,"

"Give everyone what you owe them: pay taxes to those you owe taxes, revenue to those you owe revenue, respect to those you owe respect, and honor to those you owe honor. Don’t owe anyone anything except to love one another; because the one who loves another has fulfilled the law."

Thus duty rounds the whole of life, from our entrance into it until our exit from it—duty to superiors, duty to inferiors, and duty to equals—duty to man, and duty to God. Wherever there is power to use or to direct, there is duty. For we are but as stewards, appointed to employ the means entrusted to us for our own and for others' good.

Thus, duty encompasses our entire lives, from the moment we arrive until we leave—duty to those above us, duty to those below us, and duty to our peers—duty to humanity and duty to God. Wherever there is power to use or direct, there exists duty. We are merely stewards, tasked with using the resources given to us for our own benefit and the benefit of others.

The abiding sense of duty is the very crown of character. It is the upholding law of man in his highest attitudes. Without it, the individual totters and falls before the first puff of adversity or temptation; whereas, inspired by it, the weakest becomes strong and full of courage. "Duty," says Mrs. Jameson, "is the cement which binds the whole moral edifice together; without which, all power, goodness, intellect, truth, happiness, love itself, can have no permanence; but all the fabric of existence crumbles away from under us, and leaves us at last sitting in the midst of a ruin, astonished at our own desolation."

A strong sense of duty is the ultimate mark of character. It represents the guiding principle of people at their best. Without it, a person wavers and falls at the first sign of hardship or temptation; however, motivated by it, even the weakest can become strong and courageous. "Duty," says Mrs. Jameson, "is the glue that holds the entire moral structure together; without it, all power, goodness, intellect, truth, happiness, and even love cannot endure; without it, the very foundation of our existence crumbles beneath us, leaving us sitting amid the wreckage, stunned by our own desolation."

Duty is based upon a sense of justice—justice inspired by love, which is the most perfect form of goodness. Duty is not a sentiment, but a principle pervading the life: and it exhibits itself in conduct and in acts, which are mainly determined by man's conscience and freewill.

Duty is rooted in a sense of justice—justice motivated by love, which is the highest form of goodness. Duty isn't just a feeling; it's a principle that shapes our lives. It shows itself in our actions and behavior, which are primarily guided by our conscience and free will.

The voice of conscience speaks in duty done; and without its regulating and controlling influence, the brightest and greatest intellect may be merely as a light that leads astray. Conscience sets a man upon his feet, while his will holds him upright. Conscience is the moral governor of the heart—the governor of right action, of right thought, of right faith, of right life—and only through its dominating influence can the noble and upright character be fully developed.

The voice of conscience speaks through the fulfillment of duty; without its guiding and controlling influence, even the brightest and most talented intellect may lead one astray. Conscience gets a person back on their feet, while their will keeps them standing tall. Conscience is the moral leader of the heart—it governs right actions, right thoughts, right beliefs, and a right life—and only through its commanding influence can a noble and upright character fully develop.

The conscience, however, may speak never so loudly, but without energetic will it may speak in vain. The will is free to choose between the right course and the wrong one, but the choice is nothing unless followed by immediate and decisive action. If the sense of duty be strong, and the course of action clear, the courageous will, upheld by the conscience, enables a man to proceed on his course bravely, and to accomplish his purposes in the face of all opposition and difficulty. And should failure be the issue, there will remain at least this satisfaction, that it has been in the cause of duty.

The conscience may shout as loudly as it wants, but without strong will, it can be ignored. The will is free to choose between right and wrong, but that choice means nothing unless it's followed by immediate and decisive action. If the sense of duty is strong and the path forward is clear, a courageous will, supported by the conscience, lets a person move forward bravely and achieve their goals despite any opposition or challenges. And if failure happens, there will still be the satisfaction of knowing it was for the sake of duty.

"Be and continue poor, young man," said Heinzelmann, "while others around you grow rich by fraud and disloyalty; be without place or power while others beg their way upwards; bear the pain of disappointed hopes, while others gain the accomplishment of theirs by flattery; forego the gracious pressure of the hand, for which others cringe and crawl. Wrap yourself in your own virtue, and seek a friend and your daily bread. If you have in your own cause grown gray with unbleached honour, bless God and die!"

"Stay poor, young man," said Heinzelmann, "while others around you get rich through dishonesty and betrayal; be without status or influence while others claw their way to the top; endure the pain of shattered dreams, while others achieve theirs through flattering others; give up the kind touch of a hand for which others grovel and crawl. Cloak yourself in your own integrity, and look for a friend and your daily bread. If you have become gray from unfading honor, thank God and move on!"

Men inspired by high principles are often required to sacrifice all that they esteem and love rather than fail in their duty. The old English idea of this sublime devotion to duty was expressed by the loyalist poet to his sweetheart, on taking up arms for his sovereign:—

Men driven by strong principles often have to give up everything they value and love instead of failing in their duty. The traditional English concept of this profound commitment to duty was expressed by the loyalist poet to his sweetheart when he took up arms for his king:—

          "I could love thee, dear, so much,
          Loved I not honour more." 161
          "I could love you, dear, so much,  
          If I didn’t value honor more." 161

And Sertorius has said: "The man who has any dignity of character, should conquer with honour, and not use any base means even to save his life." So St. Paul, inspired by duty and faith, declared himself as not only "ready to be bound, but to die at Jerusalem."

And Sertorius said: "A person with any sense of dignity should win with honor, and not resort to any dishonorable methods, even to save their life." Similarly, St. Paul, driven by duty and faith, stated that he was not just "ready to be bound, but to die in Jerusalem."

When the Marquis of Pescara was entreated by the princes of Italy to desert the Spanish cause, to which he was in honour bound, his noble wife, Vittoria Colonna, reminded him of his duty. She wrote to him: "Remember your honour, which raises you above fortune and above kings; by that alone, and not by the splendour of titles, is glory acquired—that glory which it will be your happiness and pride to transmit unspotted to your posterity." Such was the dignified view which she took of her husband's honour; and when he fell at Pavia, though young and beautiful, and besought by many admirers, she betook herself to solitude, that she might lament over her husband's loss and celebrate his exploits. 162

When the Marquis of Pescara was urged by the princes of Italy to abandon the Spanish cause, to which he felt obligated, his noble wife, Vittoria Colonna, reminded him of his duty. She wrote to him: "Remember your honor, which elevates you above fortune and kings; only by that, and not by the shine of titles, is glory achieved—that glory which will be your joy and pride to pass down untouched to your descendants." This was the dignified perspective she had on her husband's honor; and when he fell at Pavia, though young and handsome, and pursued by many admirers, she withdrew into solitude to mourn her husband's loss and honor his feats. 162

To live really, is to act energetically. Life is a battle to be fought valiantly. Inspired by high and honourable resolve, a man must stand to his post, and die there, if need be. Like the old Danish hero, his determination should be, "to dare nobly, to will strongly, and never to falter in the path of duty." The power of will, be it great or small, which God has given us, is a Divine gift; and we ought neither to let it perish for want of using on the one hand, nor profane it by employing it for ignoble purposes on the other. Robertson, of Brighton, has truly said, that man's real greatness consists not in seeking his own pleasure, or fame, or advancement—"not that every one shall save his own life, not that every man shall seek his own glory—but that every man shall do his own duty."

To truly live is to act with energy. Life is a battle to be fought bravely. Motivated by noble and honorable intentions, a person must stand their ground and be ready to face the consequences if necessary. Like the old Danish hero, their determination should be to "dare boldly, will strongly, and never waver in their duty." The power of will, whether strong or weak, is a Divine gift from God; we should neither let it go to waste by not using it nor misuse it for unworthy purposes. Robertson, of Brighton, wisely said that a person's true greatness doesn't lie in pursuing their own pleasure, fame, or success—"not that everyone should save their own life, not that everyone should seek their own glory—but that everyone should do their own duty."

What most stands in the way of the performance of duty, is irresolution, weakness of purpose, and indecision. On the one side are conscience and the knowledge of good and evil; on the other are indolence, selfishness, love of pleasure, or passion. The weak and ill-disciplined will may remain suspended for a time between these influences; but at length the balance inclines one way or the other, according as the will is called into action or otherwise. If it be allowed to remain passive, the lower influence of selfishness or passion will prevail; and thus manhood suffers abdication, individuality is renounced, character is degraded, and the man permits himself to become the mere passive slave of his senses.

What usually gets in the way of fulfilling our duties is uncertainty, lack of determination, and indecision. On one side are our conscience and awareness of right and wrong; on the other are laziness, selfishness, a desire for pleasure, or strong emotions. A weak and undisciplined will might stay caught between these influences for a while; but eventually, the scale tips one way or another, depending on whether the will is activated or not. If it stays inactive, the negative forces of selfishness or passion will take over; and as a result, a person's sense of manhood diminishes, individuality is given up, character is lowered, and the person allows themselves to become a mere passive slave to their desires.

Thus, the power of exercising the will promptly, in obedience to the dictates of conscience, and thereby resisting the impulses of the lower nature, is of essential importance in moral discipline, and absolutely necessary for the development of character in its best forms. To acquire the habit of well-doing, to resist evil propensities, to fight against sensual desires, to overcome inborn selfishness, may require a long and persevering discipline; but when once the practice of duty is learnt, it becomes consolidated in habit, and thence-forward is comparatively easy.

Thus, the ability to quickly exercise your will, following your conscience and resisting the impulses of your baser instincts, is crucial for moral discipline and totally necessary for developing character in its best forms. Building the habit of doing good, resisting negative tendencies, fighting against sensual desires, and overcoming inherent selfishness may take a long and persistent effort; but once the practice of duty is learned, it becomes ingrained as a habit and is much easier to maintain going forward.

The valiant good man is he who, by the resolute exercise of his freewill, has so disciplined himself as to have acquired the habit of virtue; as the bad man is he who, by allowing his freewill to remain inactive, and giving the bridle to his desires and passions, has acquired the habit of vice, by which he becomes, at last, bound as by chains of iron.

The courageous good person is someone who, through determined use of their free will, has trained themselves to develop a habit of virtue; while the bad person is one who, by letting their free will go unused and indulging their desires and passions, has formed a habit of vice, which ultimately binds them like chains of iron.

A man can only achieve strength of purpose by the action of his own freewill. If he is to stand erect, it must be by his own efforts; for he cannot be kept propped up by the help of others. He is master of himself and of his actions. He can avoid falsehood, and be truthful; he can shun sensualism, and be continent; he can turn aside from doing a cruel thing, and be benevolent and forgiving. All these lie within the sphere of individual efforts, and come within the range of self-discipline. And it depends upon men themselves whether in these respects they will be free, pure, and good on the one hand; or enslaved, impure, and miserable on the other.

A man can only achieve strength of purpose through his own free will. If he wants to stand tall, it has to be through his own efforts; he can't rely on others to hold him up. He is in control of himself and his actions. He can choose to be honest rather than deceitful; he can avoid indulgence and practice restraint; he can decide against doing something cruel, choosing instead to be kind and forgiving. All of these choices fall within the realm of personal effort and self-discipline. Ultimately, it’s up to individuals whether they want to be free, pure, and good, or whether they’ll end up enslaved, impure, and miserable.

Among the wise sayings of Epictetus we find the following: "We do not choose our own parts in life, and have nothing to do with those parts: our simple duty is confined to playing them well. The slave may be as free as the consul; and freedom is the chief of blessings; it dwarfs all others; beside it all others are insignificant; with it all others are needless; without it no others are possible.... You must teach men that happiness is not where, in their blindness and misery, they seek it. It is not in strength, for Myro and Ofellius were not happy; not in wealth, for Croesus was not happy; not in power, for the Consuls were not happy; not in all these together, for Nero and Sardanapulus and Agamemnon sighed and wept and tore their hair, and were the slaves of circumstances and the dupes of semblances. It lies in yourselves; in true freedom, in the absence or conquest of every ignoble fear; in perfect self-government; and in a power of contentment and peace, and the even flow of life amid poverty, exile, disease, and the very valley of the shadow of death." 163

Among the wise sayings of Epictetus, we find the following: "We don’t choose our roles in life and have no control over them; our simple duty is just to play them well. A slave can be as free as a consul; and freedom is the greatest blessing; it overshadows everything else; without it, all else becomes meaningless; without it, nothing else is possible.... You must teach people that happiness is not where, in their blindness and suffering, they look for it. It’s not in strength, since Myro and Ofellius weren't happy; it's not in wealth, as Croesus wasn't happy; it's not in power, as the Consuls weren't happy; not in all these combined, since Nero, Sardanapulus, and Agamemnon sighed, wept, and tore their hair out, becoming slaves to their circumstances and victims of illusions. Happiness is within you; in true freedom, in overcoming every base fear; in perfect self-control; and in a sense of contentment and peace, flowing steadily through life even amid poverty, exile, illness, and the very shadow of death." 163

The sense of duty is a sustaining power even to a courageous man. It holds him upright, and makes him strong. It was a noble saying of Pompey, when his friends tried to dissuade him from embarking for Rome in a storm, telling him that he did so at the great peril of his life: "It is necessary for me to go," he said; "it is not necessary for me to live." What it was right that he should do, he would do, in the face of danger and in defiance of storms.

A sense of duty is a powerful force even for a brave person. It keeps him steady and makes him strong. Pompey famously said when his friends tried to convince him not to sail to Rome during a storm, warning him of the serious danger to his life: "I have to go; living is not the priority." He believed he should do what was right, no matter the danger or the storms he faced.

As might be expected of the great Washington, the chief motive power in his life was the spirit of duty. It was the regal and commanding element in his character which gave it unity, compactness, and vigour. When he clearly saw his duty before him, he did it at all hazards, and with inflexible integrity. He did not do it for effect; nor did he think of glory, or of fame and its rewards; but of the right thing to be done, and the best way of doing it.

As you would expect from the great Washington, the main driving force in his life was a sense of duty. It was the majestic and authoritative aspect of his character that provided it with cohesion, strength, and energy. When he recognized his duty, he pursued it at all costs, with unwavering integrity. He didn’t act for show, nor was he concerned about glory or fame and its rewards; he focused on doing what was right and finding the best way to accomplish it.

Yet Washington had a most modest opinion of himself; and when offered the chief command of the American patriot army, he hesitated to accept it until it was pressed upon him. When acknowledging in Congress the honour which had been done him in selecting him to so important a trust, on the execution of which the future of his country in a great measure depended, Washington said: "I beg it may be remembered, lest some unlucky event should happen unfavourable to my reputation, that I this day declare, with the utmost sincerity, I do not think myself equal to the command I am honoured with."

Yet Washington had a very humble view of himself; and when he was offered the top position in the American patriot army, he hesitated to accept it until he was urged to do so. While acknowledging in Congress the honor he received in being chosen for such an important responsibility, which would greatly impact the future of his country, Washington said: "I sincerely hope it will be remembered, in case some unfortunate event occurs that could harm my reputation, that I declare today, with complete honesty, I do not believe I am fit for the command I am being honored with."

And in his letter to his wife, communicating to her his appointment as Commander-in-Chief, he said: "I have used every endeavour in my power to avoid it, not only from my unwillingness to part with you and the family, but from a consciousness of its being a trust too great for my capacity; and that I should enjoy more real happiness in one month with you at home, than I have the most distant prospect of finding abroad, if my stay were to be seven times seven years. But, as it has been a kind of destiny that has thrown me upon this service, I shall hope that my undertaking it is designed for some good purpose. It was utterly out of my power to refuse the appointment, without exposing my character to such censures as would have reflected dishonour upon myself, and given pain to my friends. This, I am sure, could not, and ought not, to be pleasing to you, and must have lessened me considerably in my own esteem." 164

And in his letter to his wife, informing her of his appointment as Commander-in-Chief, he wrote: "I have done everything I can to avoid this, not only because I don’t want to leave you and the family, but because I know this is a responsibility that’s too big for me. I would find more real happiness in just one month with you at home than I could possibly find in seven times seven years away. But since it seems like fate has put me in this position, I hope that taking it will lead to something good. I couldn’t refuse the appointment without damaging my reputation and causing pain to my friends, and I know that wouldn’t please you and would make me feel less worthy of myself." 164

Washington pursued his upright course through life, first as Commander-in-Chief, and afterwards as President, never faltering in the path of duty. He had no regard for popularity, but held to his purpose, through good and through evil report, often at the risk of his power and influence. Thus, on one occasion, when the ratification of a treaty, arranged by Mr. Jay with Great Britain, was in question, Washington was urged to reject it. But his honour, and the honour of his country, was committed, and he refused to do so. A great outcry was raised against the treaty, and for a time Washington was so unpopular that he is said to have been actually stoned by the mob. But he, nevertheless, held it to be his duty to ratify the treaty; and it was carried out, in despite of petitions and remonstrances from all quarters. "While I feel," he said, in answer to the remonstrants, "the most lively gratitude for the many instances of approbation from my country, I can no otherwise deserve it than by obeying the dictates of my conscience." Wellington's watchword, like Washington's, was duty; and no man could be more loyal to it than he was. 165 "There is little or nothing," he once said, "in this life worth living for; but we can all of us go straight forward and do our duty." None recognised more cheerfully than he did the duty of obedience and willing service; for unless men can serve faithfully, they will not rule others wisely. There is no motto that becomes the wise man better than ICH DIEN, "I serve;" and "They also serve who only stand and wait."

Washington followed his principles throughout his life, first as Commander-in-Chief and later as President, never wavering from his responsibilities. He didn't care about popularity and stayed focused on his goals, despite facing criticism and jeopardizing his power and influence. For instance, during the debate over a treaty arranged by Mr. Jay with Great Britain, Washington was pressured to reject it. However, he prioritized his honor and that of his country and refused to do so. A huge outcry ensued against the treaty, and for a time, Washington became so unpopular that he was reportedly stoned by a mob. Nevertheless, he believed it was his duty to ratify the treaty, and it was executed despite numerous petitions and protests. "While I feel," he said in response to the protests, "the deepest gratitude for the many expressions of approval from my country, I can only deserve it by following the dictates of my conscience." Wellington, like Washington, emphasized duty, and no one could be more dedicated to it than he was. "There is little or nothing," he once said, "in this life worth living for, but we can all go straight ahead and do our duty." He recognized the obligation of obedience and heartfelt service better than anyone; for if people cannot serve faithfully, they will not lead wisely. There is no motto more fitting for a wise person than ICH DIEN, "I serve;" and "They also serve who only stand and wait."

When the mortification of an officer, because of his being appointed to a command inferior to what he considered to be his merits, was communicated to the Duke, he said: "In the course of my military career, I have gone from the command of a brigade to that of my regiment, and from the command of an army to that of a brigade or a division, as I was ordered, and without any feeling of mortification."

When an officer felt upset about being assigned to a position he thought was below his abilities, he told the Duke, who replied: "Throughout my military career, I've moved from leading a brigade to my regiment, and from commanding an army to a brigade or division, as ordered, and I've never felt upset about it."

Whilst commanding the allied army in Portugal, the conduct of the native population did not seem to Wellington to be either becoming or dutiful. "We have enthusiasm in plenty," he said, "and plenty of cries of 'VIVA!' We have illuminations, patriotic songs, and FETES everywhere. But what we want is, that each in his own station should do his duty faithfully, and pay implicit obedience to legal authority."

While leading the allied army in Portugal, Wellington felt that the behavior of the local population was neither proper nor respectful. "We have plenty of enthusiasm," he said, "and there are lots of shouts of 'VIVA!' We have celebrations, patriotic songs, and parties everywhere. But what we need is for everyone to do their duty responsibly in their own role and to obey legal authority without question."

This abiding ideal of duty seemed to be the governing principle of Wellington's character. It was always uppermost in his mind, and directed all the public actions of his life. Nor did it fail to communicate itself to those under him, who served him in the like spirit. When he rode into one of his infantry squares at Waterloo, as its diminished numbers closed up to receive a charge of French cavalry, he said to the men, "Stand steady, lads; think of what they will say of us in England;" to which the men replied, "Never fear, sir—we know our duty."

This lasting ideal of duty seemed to be the guiding principle of Wellington's character. It was always at the forefront of his mind and influenced all his public actions. It also inspired those under him, who served in the same spirit. When he rode into one of his infantry squares at Waterloo, as its reduced numbers tightened to face a charge of French cavalry, he said to the men, "Stay steady, lads; think about what they'll say of us back in England;" to which the men replied, "Don't worry, sir—we know our duty."

Duty was also the dominant idea in Nelson's mind. The spirit in which he served his country was expressed in the famous watchword, "England expects every man to do his duty," signalled by him to the fleet before going into action at Trafalgar, as well as in the last words that passed his lips,—"I have done my duty; I praise God for it!"

Duty was the main focus in Nelson’s mind. The way he served his country was summed up in the famous saying, "England expects every man to do his duty," which he signaled to the fleet before entering battle at Trafalgar, as well as in his last words—"I have done my duty; I thank God for it!"

And Nelson's companion and friend—the brave, sensible, homely-minded Collingwood—he who, as his ship bore down into the great sea-fight, said to his flag-captain, "Just about this time our wives are going to church in England,"—Collingwood too was, like his commander, an ardent devotee of duty. "Do your duty to the best of your ability," was the maxim which he urged upon many young men starting on the voyage of life. To a midshipman he once gave the following manly and sensible advice:- "You may depend upon it, that it is more in your own power than in anybody else's to promote both your comfort and advancement. A strict and unwearied attention to your duty, and a complacent and respectful behaviour, not only to your superiors but to everybody, will ensure you their regard, and the reward will surely come; but if it should not, I am convinced you have too much good sense to let disappointment sour you. Guard carefully against letting discontent appear in you. It will be sorrow to your friends, a triumph to your competitors, and cannot be productive of any good. Conduct yourself so as to deserve the best that can come to you, and the consciousness of your own proper behaviour will keep you in spirits if it should not come. Let it be your ambition to be foremost in all duty. Do not be a nice observer of turns, but ever present yourself ready for everything, and, unless your officers are very inattentive men, they will not allow others to impose more duty on you than they should."

And Nelson's friend and companion—the brave, sensible, down-to-earth Collingwood—who, as his ship entered the great battle, said to his flag captain, "Right about now, our wives are going to church in England," was also, like his commander, a devoted follower of duty. "Do your duty as well as you can," was the principle he encouraged many young men starting their journey in life. He once gave a young midshipman this straightforward and wise advice: "You can count on it; it’s more in your hands than anyone else's to enhance both your comfort and progress. A strict and tireless focus on your duties, along with a friendly and respectful attitude towards your superiors and everyone else, will earn you their respect, and rewards will undoubtedly follow. But if that doesn’t happen, I’m sure you have too much good sense to let disappointment get to you. Be careful not to let discontent show. It will bring sorrow to your friends, give your competitors a sense of victory, and will lead to nothing good. Act in a way that deserves the best outcomes, and your awareness of your own proper conduct will keep your spirits up if they don't come. Strive to be at the forefront of every responsibility. Don’t be just a passive observer; always be ready for anything, and unless your officers are very negligent, they won’t let others pile more duties on you than they should."

This devotion to duty is said to be peculiar to the English nation; and it has certainly more or less characterised our greatest public men. Probably no commander of any other nation ever went into action with such a signal flying as Nelson at Trafalgar—not "Glory," or "Victory," or "Honour," or "Country"—but simply "Duty!" How few are the nations willing to rally to such a battle-cry!

This commitment to duty is said to be unique to the English nation, and it has definitely characterized many of our greatest leaders. No commander from any other nation has likely gone into battle with a banner as distinctive as Nelson’s at Trafalgar—not "Glory," or "Victory," or "Honor," or "Country"—but simply "Duty!" How rare are the nations willing to unite under such a battle cry!

Shortly after the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD off the coast of Africa, in which the officers and men went down firing a FEU-DE-JOIE after seeing the women and children safely embarked in the boats,—Robertson of Brighton, referring to the circumstance in one of his letters, said: "Yes! Goodness, Duty, Sacrifice,—these are the qualities that England honours. She gapes and wonders every now and then, like an awkward peasant, at some other things—railway kings, electro-biology, and other trumperies; but nothing stirs her grand old heart down to its central deeps universally and long, except the Right. She puts on her shawl very badly, and she is awkward enough in a concert-room, scarce knowing a Swedish nightingale from a jackdaw; but—blessings large and long upon her!—she knows how to teach her sons to sink like men amidst sharks and billows, without parade, without display, as if Duty were the most natural thing in the world; and she never mistakes long an actor for a hero, or a hero for an actor." 166

Shortly after the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD off the coast of Africa, where the officers and crew went down firing a salute after seeing the women and children safely onto the lifeboats, Robertson from Brighton commented in one of his letters: "Yes! Goodness, Duty, Sacrifice—these are the qualities that England respects. She occasionally stares in amazement, like an awkward peasant, at other things—railway tycoons, electro-biology, and other nonsense; but nothing truly moves her great old heart deeply and for long, except what is Right. She wraps her shawl on awkwardly, and she feels out of place in a concert hall, hardly able to tell a Swedish nightingale from a jackdaw; but—blessings to her!—she knows how to teach her sons to sink like men among sharks and waves, without show or fuss, as if Duty were the most natural thing in the world; and she never easily confuses an actor with a hero, or a hero with an actor." 166

It is a grand thing, after all, this pervading spirit of Duty in a nation; and so long as it survives, no one need despair of its future. But when it has departed, or become deadened, and been supplanted by thirst for pleasure, or selfish aggrandisement, or "glory"—then woe to that nation, for its dissolution is near at hand!

It’s a magnificent thing, after all, this widespread sense of Duty in a nation; and as long as it continues to exist, no one should lose hope for its future. But when it fades away, or becomes dull, and is replaced by a craving for pleasure, selfish gain, or “glory”—then trouble awaits that nation, for its downfall is close!

If there be one point on which intelligent observers are agreed more than another as to the cause of the late deplorable collapse of France as a nation, it was the utter absence of this feeling of duty, as well as of truthfulness, from the mind, not only of the men, but of the leaders of the French people. The unprejudiced testimony of Baron Stoffel, French military attache at Berlin, before the war, is conclusive on this point. In his private report to the Emperor, found at the Tuileries, which was written in August, 1869, about a year before the outbreak of the war, Baron Stoffel pointed out that the highly-educated and disciplined German people were pervaded by an ardent sense of duty, and did not think it beneath them to reverence sincerely what was noble and lofty; whereas, in all respects, France presented a melancholy contrast. There the people, having sneered at everything, had lost the faculty of respecting anything, and virtue, family life, patriotism, honour, and religion, were represented to a frivolous generation as only fitting subjects for ridicule. 167 Alas! how terribly has France been punished for her sins against truth and duty!

If there’s one thing that intelligent observers agree on regarding the recent disastrous fall of France as a nation, it's the complete lack of a sense of duty and honesty in both the citizens and the leaders of the French people. The unbiased account from Baron Stoffel, the French military attaché in Berlin before the war, clearly supports this claim. In his private report to the Emperor, found at the Tuileries and written in August 1869, about a year before the war began, Baron Stoffel noted that the highly educated and disciplined German people were filled with a strong sense of duty and didn't feel it was beneath them to sincerely honor what was noble and high. In contrast, France presented a sad picture. The people, having mocked everything, lost the ability to respect anything, and values like virtue, family, patriotism, honor, and religion were seen by a frivolous generation as just subjects for ridicule. 167 Sadly, France has been severely punished for her transgressions against truth and duty!

Yet the time was, when France possessed many great men inspired by duty; but they were all men of a comparatively remote past. The race of Bayard, Duguesclin, Coligny, Duquesne, Turenne, Colbert, and Sully, seems to have died out and left no lineage. There has been an occasional great Frenchman of modern times who has raised the cry of Duty; but his voice has been as that of one crying in the wilderness. De Tocqueville was one of such; but, like all men of his stamp, he was proscribed, imprisoned, and driven from public life. Writing on one occasion to his friend Kergorlay, he said: "Like you, I become more and more alive to the happiness which consists in the fulfilment of Duty. I believe there is no other so deep and so real. There is only one great object in the world which deserves our efforts, and that is the good of mankind." 168

Yet there was a time when France had many great men motivated by duty; but they were all from a somewhat distant past. The legacy of Bayard, Duguesclin, Coligny, Duquesne, Turenne, Colbert, and Sully seems to have vanished without any successors. There have been a few remarkable Frenchmen in modern times who have called out for Duty; however, their voices have been like someone shouting in the wilderness. De Tocqueville was one of them; but, like all people of his kind, he was exiled, imprisoned, and pushed out of public life. In a letter to his friend Kergorlay, he wrote: "Like you, I increasingly recognize the joy found in fulfilling Duty. I believe there is nothing deeper or more genuine. There is only one significant purpose in the world that deserves our efforts, and that is the well-being of humanity." 168

Although France has been the unquiet spirit among the nations of Europe since the reign of Louis XIV., there have from time to time been honest and faithful men who have lifted up their voices against the turbulent warlike tendencies of the people, and not only preached, but endeavoured to carry into practice, a gospel of peace. Of these, the Abbe de St.-Pierre was one of the most courageous. He had even the boldness to denounce the wars of Louis XIV., and to deny that monarch's right to the epithet of 'Great,' for which he was punished by expulsion from the Academy. The Abbe was as enthusiastic an agitator for a system of international peace as any member of the modern Society of Friends. As Joseph Sturge went to St. Petersburg to convert the Emperor of Russia to his views, so the Abbe went to Utrecht to convert the Conference sitting there, to his project for a Diet; to secure perpetual peace. Of course he was regarded as an enthusiast, Cardinal Dubois characterising his scheme as "the dream of an honest man." Yet the Abbe had found his dream in the Gospel; and in what better way could he exemplify the spirit of the Master he served than by endeavouring to abate the horrors and abominations of war? The Conference was an assemblage of men representing Christian States: and the Abbe merely called upon them to put in practice the doctrines they professed to believe. It was of no use: the potentates and their representatives turned to him a deaf ear.

Although France has been a restless force among the nations of Europe since the reign of Louis XIV, there have been, from time to time, honest and loyal individuals who have spoken out against the aggressive and warlike tendencies of the people. Not only did they preach a message of peace, but they also tried to put it into action. One of the bravest of these was the Abbe de St.-Pierre. He even had the courage to criticize the wars of Louis XIV and to challenge the king's claim to the title of 'Great,' which led to his expulsion from the Academy. The Abbe was as passionate a advocate for a system of international peace as any member of today’s Society of Friends. Just as Joseph Sturge went to St. Petersburg to persuade the Emperor of Russia to adopt his views, the Abbe traveled to Utrecht to convince the Conference there about his plan for a Diet to achieve lasting peace. Naturally, people viewed him as an idealist, with Cardinal Dubois describing his proposal as "the dream of an honest man." Yet the Abbe found his inspiration in the Gospel; how better could he embody the spirit of the Master he served than by trying to lessen the horrors of war? The Conference was a gathering of representatives from Christian States, and the Abbe simply urged them to practice the beliefs they claimed to hold. It was pointless: the rulers and their delegates turned a deaf ear to him.

The Abbe de St.-Pierre lived several hundred years too soon. But he determined that his idea should not be lost, and in 1713 he published his 'Project of Perpetual Peace.' He there proposed the formation of a European Diet, or Senate, to be composed of representatives of all nations, before which princes should be bound, before resorting to arms, to state their grievances and require redress. Writing about eighty years after the publication of this project, Volney asked: "What is a people?—an individual of the society at large. What a war?—a duel between two individual people. In what manner ought a society to act when two of its members fight?—Interfere, and reconcile or repress them. In the days of the Abbe de St.-Pierre, this was treated as a dream; but, happily for the human race, it begins to be realised." Alas for the prediction of Volney! The twenty-five years that followed the date at which this passage was written, were distinguished by more devastating and furious wars on the part of France than had ever been known in the world before.

The Abbe de St.-Pierre lived several hundred years too early. But he was determined that his idea shouldn’t be forgotten, and in 1713 he published his 'Project of Perpetual Peace.' In it, he proposed the creation of a European Diet, or Senate, made up of representatives from all nations. Before going to war, rulers would have to present their grievances and seek resolutions. About eighty years after this project was published, Volney wrote: "What is a people?—an individual within the larger society. What is a war?—a duel between two individual people. How should a society respond when two of its members are fighting?—Intervene, and either reconcile or control them. Back in the days of the Abbe de St.-Pierre, this was seen as a fantasy; but fortunately for humanity, it’s starting to come true." Sadly for Volney’s prediction! The twenty-five years following when he wrote this passage were marked by more devastating and intense wars from France than the world had ever seen before.

The Abbe was not, however, a mere dreamer. He was an active practical philanthropist and anticipated many social improvements which have since become generally adopted. He was the original founder of industrial schools for poor children, where they not only received a good education, but learned some useful trade, by which they might earn an honest living when they grew up to manhood. He advocated the revision and simplification of the whole code of laws—an idea afterwards carried out by the First Napoleon. He wrote against duelling, against luxury, against gambling, against monasticism, quoting the remark of Segrais, that "the mania for a monastic life is the smallpox of the mind." He spent his whole income in acts of charity—not in almsgiving, but in helping poor children, and poor men and women, to help themselves. His object always was to benefit permanently those whom he assisted. He continued his love of truth and his freedom of speech to the last. At the age of eighty he said: "If life is a lottery for happiness, my lot has been one of the best." When on his deathbed, Voltaire asked him how he felt, to which he answered, "As about to make a journey into the country." And in this peaceful frame of mind he died. But so outspoken had St.-Pierre been against corruption in high places, that Maupertius, his Successor at the Academy, was not permitted to pronounce his ELOGE; nor was it until thirty-two years after his death that this honour was done to his memory by D'Alembert. The true and emphatic epitaph of the good, truth-loving, truth-speaking Abbe was this—"HE LOVED MUCH!"

The Abbe wasn’t just a dreamer; he was a hands-on philanthropist who anticipated many social reforms that are now widely accepted. He was the original founder of industrial schools for underprivileged children, where they received a solid education and learned useful trades to earn a decent living as adults. He pushed for a revision and simplification of the entire legal code—an idea later realized by First Napoleon. He wrote against dueling, luxury, gambling, and monasticism, citing Segrais’s remark that "the obsession with a monastic life is the smallpox of the mind." He spent all his income on charitable acts—not merely giving money, but helping poor children and adults to become self-sufficient. His goal was always to create lasting benefits for those he helped. He maintained his love for truth and freedom of speech until the end. At eighty, he remarked, "If life is a lottery for happiness, my ticket has been one of the best." On his deathbed, when Voltaire asked how he felt, he replied, "Like I’m about to take a trip to the countryside." In this serene state of mind, he passed away. However, St.-Pierre had been so outspoken against corruption in powerful circles that Maupertius, his successor at the Academy, was not allowed to deliver his ELOGE. It wasn't until thirty-two years after his death that D'Alembert paid tribute to his memory. The true and telling epitaph of the good, truth-loving, truth-telling Abbe was simply this—"HE LOVED MUCH!"

Duty is closely allied to truthfulness of character; and the dutiful man is, above all things, truthful in his words as in his actions. He says and he does the right thing, in the right way, and at the right time.

Duty is closely connected to being truthful; and a dutiful person is, above all, honest in both their words and actions. They say and do the right thing, in the right way, and at the right time.

There is probably no saying of Lord Chesterfield that commends itself more strongly to the approval of manly-minded men, than that it is truth that makes the success of the gentleman. Clarendon, speaking of one of the noblest and purest gentlemen of his age, says of Falkland, that he "was so severe an adorer of truth that he could as easily have given himself leave to steal as to dissemble."

There’s probably no saying of Lord Chesterfield that resonates more with strong-minded men than the idea that it’s truth that ensures the success of a gentleman. Clarendon, discussing one of the noblest and purest gentlemen of his time, says of Falkland that he "was such a devoted admirer of truth that he could as easily have allowed himself to steal as to lie."

It was one of the finest things that Mrs. Hutchinson could say of her husband, that he was a thoroughly truthful and reliable man: "He never professed the thing he intended not, nor promised what he believed out of his power, nor failed in the performance of anything that was in his power to fulfil."

It was one of the best things Mrs. Hutchinson could say about her husband: he was completely honest and dependable. "He never claimed to do something he didn’t intend to do, nor did he promise anything he didn’t truly believe he could deliver, nor did he ever fail to follow through on anything he was capable of doing."

Wellington was a severe admirer of truth. An illustration may be given. When afflicted by deafness he consulted a celebrated aurist, who, after trying all remedies in vain, determined, as a last resource, to inject into the ear a strong solution of caustic. It caused the most intense pain, but the patient bore it with his usual equanimity. The family physician accidentally calling one day, found the Duke with flushed cheeks and bloodshot eyes, and when he rose he staggered about like a drunken man. The doctor asked to be permitted to look at his ear, and then he found that a furious inflammation was going on, which, if not immediately checked, must shortly reach the brain and kill him. Vigorous remedies were at once applied, and the inflammation was checked. But the hearing of that ear was completely destroyed. When the aurist heard of the danger his patient had run, through the violence of the remedy he had employed, he hastened to Apsley House to express his grief and mortification; but the Duke merely said: "Do not say a word more about it—you did all for the best." The aurist said it would be his ruin when it became known that he had been the cause of so much suffering and danger to his Grace. "But nobody need know anything about it: keep your own counsel, and, depend upon it, I won't say a word to any one." "Then your Grace will allow me to attend you as usual, which will show the public that you have not withdrawn your confidence from me?" "No," replied the Duke, kindly but firmly; "I can't do that, for that would be a lie." He would not act a falsehood any more than he would speak one. 169

Wellington was a strict believer in honesty. Here's an example. When he was struggling with deafness, he saw a well-known ear specialist who, after trying every treatment without success, decided to inject a strong caustic solution into his ear as a last resort. It caused excruciating pain, but he endured it with his usual calmness. One day, when the family doctor happened to drop by, he found the Duke with flushed cheeks and bloodshot eyes, and when he got up, he staggered around like a drunk person. The doctor asked if he could check his ear, and then he discovered that there was severe inflammation happening, which, if not treated immediately, would quickly reach the brain and could kill him. Strong treatments were applied right away, and the inflammation was brought under control. However, the hearing in that ear was completely lost. When the ear specialist heard about the danger his patient had faced from the harsh treatment he used, he rushed to Apsley House to express his sorrow and shame, but the Duke simply said, "Don't say another word about it—you did what you thought was best." The specialist worried that it would ruin him if it became known he had caused so much suffering and danger to the Duke. "But nobody needs to know about it: keep it to yourself, and I promise I won't tell anyone." "So your Grace will allow me to continue treating you, which would show the public that you haven’t lost confidence in me?" "No," the Duke replied kindly but firmly; "I can't do that, because that would be a lie." He wouldn't pretend to be something he wasn't any more than he would say something untrue. 169

Another illustration of duty and truthfulness, as exhibited in the fulfilment of a promise, may be added from the life of Blucher. When he was hastening with his army over bad roads to the help of Wellington, on the 18th of June, 1815, he encouraged his troops by words and gestures. "Forwards, children—forwards!" "It is impossible; it can't be done," was the answer. Again and again he urged them. "Children, we must get on; you may say it can't be done, but it MUST be done! I have promised my brother Wellington—PROMISED, do you hear? You wouldn't have me BREAK MY WORD!" And it was done.

Another example of duty and honesty, shown through the keeping of a promise, can be taken from Blucher's life. When he was rushing with his army over rough roads to support Wellington on June 18, 1815, he motivated his troops with words and gestures. "Forward, everyone—let’s go!" "It's impossible; we can't do it," was the response. Time and time again, he pushed them on. "Everyone, we need to keep moving; you might say it can't be done, but it MUST be done! I promised my brother Wellington—PROMISED, do you hear? You wouldn't want me to BREAK MY WORD!" And they succeeded.

Truth is the very bond of society, without which it must cease to exist, and dissolve into anarchy and chaos. A household cannot be governed by lying; nor can a nation. Sir Thomas Browne once asked, "Do the devils lie?" "No," was his answer; "for then even hell could not subsist." No considerations can justify the sacrifice of truth, which ought to be sovereign in all the relations of life.

Truth is the essential bond of society; without it, society would break down into anarchy and chaos. A household can't be run on lies, and neither can a nation. Sir Thomas Browne once asked, "Do the devils lie?" His answer was, "No; otherwise, even hell couldn't exist." No circumstances can justify compromising the truth, which should reign supreme in all aspects of life.

Of all mean vices, perhaps lying is the meanest. It is in some cases the offspring of perversity and vice, and in many others of sheer moral cowardice. Yet many persons think so lightly of it that they will order their servants to lie for them; nor can they feel surprised if, after such ignoble instruction, they find their servants lying for themselves.

Of all the petty vices, maybe lying is the pettiest. Sometimes it comes from a twisted sense of morality, and in many cases, it’s just plain moral cowardice. Still, a lot of people think so little of it that they ask their servants to lie for them; then they can’t be shocked when, after giving such dishonorable orders, they discover their servants are lying for their own benefit.

Sir Harry Wotton's description of an ambassador as "an honest man sent to lie abroad for the benefit of his country," though meant as a satire, brought him into disfavour with James I. when it became published; for an adversary quoted it as a principle of the king's religion. That it was not Wotton's real view of the duty of an honest man, is obvious from the lines quoted at the head of this chapter, on 'The Character of a Happy Life,' in which he eulogises the man

Sir Harry Wotton's description of an ambassador as "an honest man sent to lie abroad for the benefit of his country," although intended as a satire, caused him to fall out of favor with James I when it was published; an opponent cited it as a principle of the king's religion. It's clear that this was not Wotton's true perspective on the duty of an honest man, as shown in the lines quoted at the beginning of this chapter, on 'The Character of a Happy Life,' where he praises the man.

          "Whose armour is his honest thought,
           And simple truth his utmost skill."
          "Whose armor is his honest thoughts, 
           And straightforward truth is his greatest skill."

But lying assumes many forms—such as diplomacy, expediency, and moral reservation; and, under one guise or another, it is found more or less pervading all classes of society. Sometimes it assumes the form of equivocation or moral dodging—twisting and so stating the things said as to convey a false impression—a kind of lying which a Frenchman once described as "walking round about the truth."

But lying takes many forms—like diplomacy, convenience, and moral hesitation; and, under one name or another, it's found to some extent in all levels of society. Sometimes it appears as equivocation or dodging responsibility—twisting and presenting statements in a way that gives a misleading impression—a kind of lying that a Frenchman once described as "walking around the truth."

There are even men of narrow minds and dishonest natures, who pride themselves upon their jesuitical cleverness in equivocation, in their serpent-wise shirking of the truth and getting out of moral back-doors, in order to hide their real opinions and evade the consequences of holding and openly professing them. Institutions or systems based upon any such expedients must necessarily prove false and hollow. "Though a lie be ever so well dressed," says George Herbert, "it is ever overcome." Downright lying, though bolder and more vicious, is even less contemptible than such kind of shuffling and equivocation.

There are even small-minded and dishonest people who take pride in their cleverness at dodging the truth, cleverly avoiding it and finding ways to escape the moral consequences of their beliefs to hide what they really think and avoid openly admitting it. Any institution or system built on such tricks will ultimately be false and empty. "Though a lie be ever so well dressed," says George Herbert, "it is ever overcome." Outright lying, while bolder and more vicious, is still less contemptible than this kind of shuffling and evasion.

Untruthfulness exhibits itself in many other forms: in reticency on the one hand, or exaggeration on the other; in disguise or concealment; in pretended concurrence in others opinions; in assuming an attitude of conformity which is deceptive; in making promises, or allowing them to be implied, which are never intended to be performed; or even in refraining from speaking the truth when to do so is a duty. There are also those who are all things to all men, who say one thing and do another, like Bunyan's Mr. Facing-both-ways; only deceiving themselves when they think they are deceiving others—and who, being essentially insincere, fail to evoke confidence, and invariably in the end turn out failures, if not impostors.

Dishonesty shows up in many ways: sometimes as silence and sometimes as exaggeration; it may involve hiding the truth or pretending to agree with others' opinions; it can be pretending to fit in, which is misleading; making promises or letting them be assumed that you never intend to keep; or even avoiding the truth when it’s your responsibility to speak it. There are also those who try to please everyone, saying one thing and doing another, like Bunyan's Mr. Facing-both-ways, only fooling themselves if they think they’re fooling others—and who, being deeply insincere, fail to inspire trust and usually end up as failures, if not frauds.

Others are untruthful in their pretentiousness, and in assuming merits which they do not really possess. The truthful man is, on the contrary, modest, and makes no parade of himself and his deeds. When Pitt was in his last illness, the news reached England of the great deeds of Wellington in India. "The more I hear of his exploits," said Pitt, "the more I admire the modesty with which he receives the praises he merits for them. He is the only man I ever knew that was not vain of what he had done, and yet had so much reason to be so."

Some people are dishonest in their pretentiousness and claim talents they don’t actually have. In contrast, a truthful person is modest and doesn’t boast about himself or his accomplishments. When Pitt was suffering from his last illness, news came to England about Wellington's impressive achievements in India. "The more I hear about what he’s done," Pitt said, "the more I admire how modestly he accepts the praise he deserves for it. He is the only person I’ve ever known who wasn’t conceited about his achievements, even though he had every reason to be."

So it is said of Faraday by Professor Tyndall, that "pretence of all kinds, whether in life or in philosophy, was hateful to him." Dr. Marshall Hall was a man of like spirit—courageously truthful, dutiful, and manly. One of his most intimate friends has said of him that, wherever he met with untruthfulness or sinister motive, he would expose it, saying—"I neither will, nor can, give my consent to a lie." The question, "right or wrong," once decided in his own mind, the right was followed, no matter what the sacrifice or the difficulty—neither expediency nor inclination weighing one jot in the balance.

Professor Tyndall said of Faraday that "any kind of pretense, whether in life or in philosophy, was repugnant to him." Dr. Marshall Hall shared a similar spirit—he was boldly honest, responsible, and principled. One of his closest friends remarked that whenever he encountered dishonesty or malicious intent, he would call it out, stating—"I will neither give my consent to a lie, nor can I." Once he had determined what was "right or wrong" in his own mind, he pursued the right path, regardless of the cost or challenges—neither practicality nor personal preference swayed him in the least.

There was no virtue that Dr. Arnold laboured more sedulously to instil into young men than the virtue of truthfulness, as being the manliest of virtues, as indeed the very basis of all true manliness. He designated truthfulness as "moral transparency," and he valued it more highly than any other quality. When lying was detected, he treated it as a great moral offence; but when a pupil made an assertion, he accepted it with confidence. "If you say so, that is quite enough; OF COURSE I believe your word." By thus trusting and believing them, he educated the young in truthfulness; the boys at length coming to say to one another: "It's a shame to tell Arnold a lie—he always believes one." 1610

Dr. Arnold worked hard to teach young men the importance of being truthful, seeing it as the most manly virtue and the foundation of true manliness. He called truthfulness "moral transparency" and valued it more than any other trait. When he caught someone lying, he viewed it as a serious moral failure; however, when a student made a statement, he accepted it without hesitation. "If you say so, that’s enough; OF COURSE I believe you." By trusting and believing in them, he encouraged honesty among the young, leading the boys to eventually say to each other, "It's a shame to lie to Arnold—he always takes your word for it." 1610

One of the most striking instances that could be given of the character of the dutiful, truthful, laborious man, is presented in the life of the late George Wilson, Professor of Technology in the University of Edinburgh. 1611 Though we bring this illustration under the head of Duty, it might equally have stood under that of Courage, Cheerfulness, or Industry, for it is alike illustrative of these several qualities.

One of the most impressive examples of a dedicated, honest, hard-working individual can be seen in the life of the late George Wilson, Professor of Technology at the University of Edinburgh. 1611 While we classify this example under Duty, it could just as easily fit under Courage, Cheerfulness, or Industry, as it exemplifies all of these qualities.

Wilson's life was, indeed, a marvel of cheerful laboriousness; exhibiting the power of the soul to triumph over the body, and almost to set it at defiance. It might be taken as an illustration of the saying of the whaling-captain to Dr. Kane, as to the power of moral force over physical: "Bless you, sir, the soul will any day lift the body out of its boots!"

Wilson's life was truly a remarkable example of joyful hard work, showing how the spirit can overcome the body and almost disregard it. It could serve as a perfect illustration of what the whaling captain said to Dr. Kane about the strength of moral force over physical strength: "Bless you, sir, the soul can lift the body out of its boots any day!"

A fragile but bright and lively boy, he had scarcely entered manhood ere his constitution began to exhibit signs of disease. As early, indeed, as his seventeenth year, he began to complain of melancholy and sleeplessness, supposed to be the effects of bile. "I don't think I shall live long," he then said to a friend; "my mind will—must work itself out, and the body will soon follow it." A strange confession for a boy to make! But he gave his physical health no fair chance. His life was all brain-work, study, and competition. When he took exercise it was in sudden bursts, which did him more harm than good. Long walks in the Highlands jaded and exhausted him; and he returned to his brain-work unrested and unrefreshed.

A delicate but vibrant boy, he barely reached adulthood before his health started showing signs of illness. Even by his seventeenth year, he began to complain of depression and insomnia, thought to be caused by bile. "I don’t think I’ll live long," he told a friend; "my mind will—must—wear itself out, and my body will soon follow." What a strange thing for a boy to say! But he didn’t give his physical health a fair shot. His life was all about mental work, studying, and competition. When he exercised, it was in quick bursts, which ended up doing more harm than good. Long walks in the Highlands left him tired and drained; he returned to his mental work feeling unrested and unrefreshed.

It was during one of his forced walks of some twenty-four miles in the neighbourhood of Stirling, that he injured one of his feet, and he returned home seriously ill. The result was an abscess, disease of the ankle-joint, and long agony, which ended in the amputation of the right foot. But he never relaxed in his labours. He was now writing, lecturing, and teaching chemistry. Rheumatism and acute inflammation of the eye next attacked him; and were treated by cupping, blisetring, and colchicum. Unable himself to write, he went on preparing his lectures, which he dictated to his sister. Pain haunted him day and night, and sleep was only forced by morphia. While in this state of general prostration, symptoms of pulmonary disease began to show themselves. Yet he continued to give the weekly lectures to which he stood committed to the Edinburgh School of Arts. Not one was shirked, though their delivery, before a large audience, was a most exhausting duty. "Well, there's another nail put into my coffin," was the remark made on throwing off his top-coat on returning home; and a sleepless night almost invariably followed.

It was during one of his forced walks of about twenty-four miles around Stirling that he hurt one of his feet and came home seriously ill. This led to an abscess, ankle joint disease, and prolonged agony, which ended in the amputation of his right foot. However, he never eased up on his work. He was now writing, lecturing, and teaching chemistry. Next, he was hit by rheumatism and a severe eye inflammation, treated with cupping, blistering, and colchicum. Unable to write himself, he prepared his lectures and dictated them to his sister. Pain haunted him day and night, and he could only sleep with the help of morphine. While in this state of overall weakness, signs of lung disease began to appear. Yet he kept giving the weekly lectures he had committed to at the Edinburgh School of Arts. Not one was missed, even though speaking in front of a large audience was incredibly exhausting. "Well, there's another nail in my coffin," he remarked after taking off his overcoat when he got home, and he almost always faced a sleepless night afterward.

At twenty-seven, Wilson was lecturing ten, eleven, or more hours weekly, usually with setons or open blister-wounds upon him—his "bosom friends," he used to call them. He felt the shadow of death upon him; and he worked as if his days were numbered. "Don't be surprised," he wrote to a friend, "if any morning at breakfast you hear that I am gone." But while he said so, he did not in the least degree indulge in the feeling of sickly sentimentality. He worked on as cheerfully and hopefully as if in the very fulness of his strength. "To none," said he, "is life so sweet as to those who have lost all fear to die."

At twenty-seven, Wilson was teaching ten, eleven, or more hours a week, usually with setons or open blister-wounds on him—his "best friends," as he called them. He felt the weight of death looming over him, and he worked as if his days were limited. "Don't be surprised," he wrote to a friend, "if any morning at breakfast you hear that I've passed away." But while he said that, he didn't indulge in any sickly sentimentality. He continued to work as cheerfully and hopefully as if he were in the prime of his strength. "For no one," he said, "is life so sweet as to those who have lost all fear of dying."

Sometimes he was compelled to desist from his labours by sheer debility, occasioned by loss of blood from the lungs; but after a few weeks' rest and change of air, he would return to his work, saying, "The water is rising in the well again!" Though disease had fastened on his lungs, and was spreading there, and though suffering from a distressing cough, he went on lecturing as usual. To add to his troubles, when one day endeavouring to recover himself from a stumble occasioned by his lameness, he overstrained his arm, and broke the bone near the shoulder. But he recovered from his successive accidents and illnesses in the most extraordinary way. The reed bent, but did not break: the storm passed, and it stood erect as before.

Sometimes he had to stop working because he was really weak from losing blood from his lungs; but after a few weeks of rest and a change of scenery, he would return to his work, saying, "The water is rising in the well again!" Even though an illness had taken hold of his lungs and was getting worse, and despite suffering from a bad cough, he continued lecturing as usual. To make matters worse, one day while trying to steady himself after tripping because of his lameness, he overstretched his arm and broke a bone near his shoulder. But he bounced back from his series of accidents and illnesses in an incredible way. The reed bent, but didn’t break: the storm passed and it stood tall again.

There was no worry, nor fever, nor fret about him; but instead, cheerfulness, patience, and unfailing perseverance. His mind, amidst all his sufferings, remained perfectly calm and serene. He went about his daily work with an apparently charmed life, as if he had the strength of many men in him. Yet all the while he knew he was dying, his chief anxiety being to conceal his state from those about him at home, to whom the knowledge of his actual condition would have been inexpressibly distressing. "I am cheerful among strangers," he said, "and try to live day by day as a dying man." 1612

There was no worry, no fever, no fuss about him; instead, there was cheerfulness, patience, and unwavering perseverance. His mind, despite all his suffering, stayed perfectly calm and peaceful. He went about his daily tasks with an almost enchanted life, as if he had the strength of many men within him. Yet he knew he was dying, with his main concern being to hide his condition from those at home, as knowing the truth would be unbearably distressing for them. "I stay cheerful around strangers," he said, "and try to live day by day like a man who is dying." 1612

He went on teaching as before—lecturing to the Architectural Institute and to the School of Arts. One day, after a lecture before the latter institute, he lay down to rest, and was shortly awakened by the rupture of a bloodvessel, which occasioned him the loss of a considerable quantity of blood. He did not experience the despair and agony that Keats did on a like occasion; 1613 though he equally knew that the messenger of death had come, and was waiting for him. He appeared at the family meals as usual, and next day he lectured twice, punctually fulfilling his engagements; but the exertion of speaking was followed by a second attack of haemorrhage. He now became seriously ill, and it was doubted whether he would survive the night. But he did survive; and during his convalescence he was appointed to an important public office—that of Director of the Scottish Industrial Museum, which involved a great amount of labour, as well as lecturing, in his capacity of Professor of Technology, which he held in connection with the office.

He continued teaching as usual—giving lectures at the Architectural Institute and the School of Arts. One day, after a lecture at the latter, he lay down to rest and was soon awakened by a burst blood vessel, which caused him to lose a significant amount of blood. He didn't feel the despair and pain that Keats did in a similar situation; 1613 though he was aware that death was near and waiting for him. He joined the family for meals as usual, and the next day, he lectured twice, faithfully honoring his commitments; however, the effort of speaking led to a second hemorrhage. He then became seriously ill, and it was uncertain if he would survive the night. But he did survive; and during his recovery, he was appointed to a significant public role—Director of the Scottish Industrial Museum, which required a lot of work, as well as lecturing, in his role as Professor of Technology, a position he held alongside this office.

From this time forward, his "dear museum," as he called it, absorbed all his surplus energies. While busily occupied in collecting models and specimens for the museum, he filled up his odds-and-ends of time in lecturing to Ragged Schools, Ragged Kirks, and Medical Missionary Societies. He gave himself no rest, either of mind or body; and "to die working" was the fate he envied. His mind would not give in, but his poor body was forced to yield, and a severe attack of haemorrhage—bleeding from both lungs and stomach 1614—compelled him to relax in his labours. "For a month, or some forty days," he wrote—"a dreadful Lent—the mind has blown geographically from 'Araby the blest,' but thermometrically from Iceland the accursed. I have been made a prisoner of war, hit by an icicle in the lungs, and have shivered and burned alternately for a large portion of the last month, and spat blood till I grew pale with coughing. Now I am better, and to-morrow I give my concluding lecture [16on Technology], thankful that I have contrived, notwithstanding all my troubles, to carry on without missing a lecture to the last day of the Faculty of Arts, to which I belong." 1615

From now on, his "dear museum," as he referred to it, took up all his extra energy. While he was busy collecting models and specimens for the museum, he filled his spare time by lecturing at Ragged Schools, Ragged Kirks, and Medical Missionary Societies. He never allowed himself to rest, mentally or physically; he envied those who "die working." His mind wouldn’t give up, but his poor body had to give in, and a severe attack of hemorrhaging—bleeding from both his lungs and stomach—forced him to take a break from his work. "For a month, or about forty days," he wrote, "a dreadful Lent—my mind has drifted geographically from 'Araby the blessed,' but climatically from cursed Iceland. I've been a prisoner of war, struck by an icicle in the lungs, alternating between shivering and burning for a large part of the last month, and I've coughed up blood until I turned pale. Now I’m feeling better, and tomorrow I’ll give my final lecture [16on Technology], grateful that despite all my struggles, I managed to keep going without missing a single lecture up to the last day of the Faculty of Arts to which I belong."

How long was it to last? He himself began to wonder, for he had long felt his life as if ebbing away. At length he became languid, weary, and unfit for work; even the writing of a letter cost him a painful effort, and. he felt "as if to lie down and sleep were the only things worth doing." Yet shortly after, to help a Sunday-school, he wrote his 'Five Gateways of Knowledge,' as a lecture, and afterwards expanded it into a book. He also recovered strength sufficient to enable him to proceed with his lectures to the institutions to which he belonged, besides on various occasions undertaking to do other people's work. "I am looked upon as good as mad," he wrote to his brother, "because, on a hasty notice, I took a defaulting lecturer's place at the Philosophical Institution, and discoursed on the Polarization of Light.... But I like work: it is a family weakness."

How long would it last? He started to wonder, as he had felt his life slipping away for a while. Eventually, he became lethargic, tired, and unable to work; even writing a letter felt like a huge effort, and he thought "lying down and sleeping was the only thing worth doing." Yet soon after, to support a Sunday school, he wrote his 'Five Gateways of Knowledge' as a lecture and later expanded it into a book. He also regained enough strength to continue his lectures at the institutions he was part of, and on various occasions, he took on other people’s work. "People think I'm kind of crazy," he wrote to his brother, "because, on short notice, I filled in for a no-show lecturer at the Philosophical Institution and talked about the Polarization of Light.... But I enjoy working: it runs in the family."

Then followed chronic malaise—sleepless nights, days of pain, and more spitting of blood. "My only painless moments," he says, "were when lecturing." In this state of prostration and disease, the indefatigable man undertook to write the 'Life of Edward Forbes'; and he did it, like everything he undertook, with admirable ability. He proceeded with his lectures as usual. To an association of teachers he delivered a discourse on the educational value of industrial science. After he had spoken to his audience for an hour, he left them to say whether he should go on or not, and they cheered him on to another half-hour's address. "It is curious," he wrote, "the feeling of having an audience, like clay in your hands, to mould for a season as you please. It is a terribly responsible power.... I do not mean for a moment to imply that I am indifferent to the good opinion of others—far otherwise; but to gain this is much less a concern with me than to deserve it. It was not so once. I had no wish for unmerited praise, but I was too ready to settle that I did merit it. Now, the word DUTY seems to me the biggest word in the world, and is uppermost in all my serious doings."

Then came the constant feeling of being unwell—sleepless nights, painful days, and more blood-spitting. "My only pain-free moments," he says, "were when I was lecturing." Despite being in such a weakened state, the tireless man set out to write the 'Life of Edward Forbes'; and he did it, as he did everything, with remarkable skill. He continued with his lectures as usual. To a group of teachers, he gave a talk on the educational importance of industrial science. After speaking for an hour, he asked the audience if he should continue, and they encouraged him to give another half-hour's address. "It's interesting," he wrote, "the feeling of having an audience, like clay in your hands, to shape as you wish for a while. It's a huge responsibility…. I don’t mean to suggest that I don’t care about what others think—quite the opposite; but gaining their approval matters much less to me than earning it. That wasn’t always the case. I didn’t want unearned praise, but I was too quick to think I deserved it. Now, the word DUTY seems to me the most important word in the world and is at the forefront of all my serious actions."

This was written only about four months before his death. A little later he wrote, "I spin my thread of life from week to week, rather than from year to year." Constant attacks of bleeding from the lungs sapped his little remaining strength, but did not altogether disable him from lecturing. He was amused by one of his friends proposing to put him under trustees for the purpose of looking after his health. But he would not be restrained from working, so long as a vestige of strength remained.

This was written only about four months before his death. A little later he wrote, "I spin my thread of life from week to week, rather than from year to year." Constant bleeding from his lungs drained his remaining strength, but it didn’t completely stop him from lecturing. He found it funny when one of his friends suggested putting him under trustees to take care of his health. But he refused to be held back from working as long as he had any strength left.

One day, in the autumn of 1859, he returned from his customary lecture in the University of Edinburgh with a severe pain in his side. He was scarcely able to crawl upstairs. Medical aid was sent for, and he was pronounced to be suffering from pleurisy and inflammation of the lungs. His enfeebled frame was ill able to resist so severe a disease, and he sank peacefully to the rest he so longed for, after a few days' illness:

One day, in the fall of 1859, he returned from his usual lecture at the University of Edinburgh with a sharp pain in his side. He could barely make it up the stairs. A doctor was called, and he was diagnosed with pleurisy and lung inflammation. His weakened body struggled to fight off such a serious illness, and he peacefully passed away, finding the rest he had longed for, after a few days of being ill.

          "Wrong not the dead with tears!
          A glorious bright to-morrow
      Endeth a weary life of pain and sorrow."
          "Don’t mourn the dead with tears!  
          A glorious bright tomorrow  
      Brings to an end a tired life of pain and sorrow."

The life of George Wilson—so admirably and affectionately related by his sister—is probably one of the most marvellous records of pain and longsuffering, and yet of persistent, noble, and useful work, that is to be found in the whole history of literature. His entire career was indeed but a prolonged illustration of the lines which he himself addressed to his deceased friend, Dr. John Reid, a likeminded man, whose memoir he wrote:—

The life of George Wilson—so wonderfully and lovingly described by his sister—is probably one of the most remarkable accounts of suffering and perseverance, yet also of consistent, honorable, and meaningful work, that can be found in all of literature. His whole career was truly just a long example of the lines he himself wrote to his late friend, Dr. John Reid, a kindred spirit, whose memoir he penned:—

         "Thou wert a daily lesson
            Of courage, hope, and faith;
          We wondered at thee living,
            We envy thee thy death.

          Thou wert so meek and reverent,
            So resolute of will,
          So bold to bear the uttermost,
            And yet so calm and still."
         "You were a daily lesson
            In courage, hope, and faith;
          We admired you living,
            We envy you your death.

          You were so humble and respectful,
            So determined in your will,
          So brave to endure the worst,
            And yet so calm and still."




CHAPTER VIII.—TEMPER.

      "Temper is nine-tenths of Christianity."—BISHOP WILSON.

        "Heaven is a temper, not a place."—DR. CHALMERS.

        "And should my youth, as youth is apt I know,
                   Some harshness show;
        All vain asperities I day by day
                   Would wear away,
        Till the smooth temper of my age should be
        Like the high leaves upon the Holly Tree"—SOUTHEY.

    "Even Power itself hath not one-half the might of Gentleness"
                                                  —LEIGH HUNT.
      "Temper is nine-tenths of Christianity."—BISHOP WILSON.

        "Heaven is a mindset, not a location."—DR. CHALMERS.

        "And if my youth, as youth often does, 
                   Shows some harshness; 
        All the false roughness I will gradually 
                   Wear away, 
        Until the smooth disposition of my old age 
        Is like the glossy leaves of the Holly Tree"—SOUTHEY.

    "Even Power itself doesn't have half the strength of Kindness"
                                                  —LEIGH HUNT.

It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their temper as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that their happiness in life depends mainly upon their equanimity of disposition, their patience and forbearance, and their kindness and thoughtfulness for those about them. It is really true what Plato says, that in seeking the good of others we find our own.

It’s been said that men achieve success in life as much through their character as through their skills. Regardless of the truth in that, it’s clear that their happiness primarily relies on their inner calm, patience, tolerance, and consideration for those around them. Plato was right when he said that by looking out for the well-being of others, we discover our own.

There are some natures so happily constituted that they can find good in everything. There is no calamity so great but they can educe comfort or consolation from it—no sky so black but they can discover a gleam of sunshine issuing through it from some quarter or another; and if the sun be not visible to their eyes, they at least comfort themselves with the thought that it IS there, though veiled from them for some good and wise purpose.

Some people are so naturally optimistic that they can find something good in everything. No disaster is so overwhelming that they can't draw comfort or solace from it—there's no dark sky that they can't spot a ray of sunshine breaking through from somewhere; and even if the sun isn't visible to them, they at least reassure themselves that it’s there, even if hidden for some good and wise reason.

Such happy natures are to be envied. They have a beam in the eye—a beam of pleasure, gladness, religious cheerfulness, philosophy, call it what you will. Sunshine is about their hearts, and their mind gilds with its own hues all that it looks upon. When they have burdens to bear, they bear them cheerfully—not repining, nor fretting, nor wasting their energies in useless lamentation, but struggling onward manfully, gathering up such flowers as lie along their path.

Such happy people are to be envied. They have a light in their eyes—a light of joy, happiness, positivity, or whatever you want to call it. Sunshine surrounds their hearts, and their minds color everything they see with their own brightness. When they face challenges, they handle them with a good attitude—not complaining, not stressing, and not wasting their energy on pointless sorrow, but pushing forward bravely, picking up any flowers that are along their way.

Let it not for a moment be supposed that men such as those we speak of are weak and unreflective. The largest and most comprehensive natures are generally also the most cheerful, the most loving, the most hopeful, the most trustful. It is the wise man, of large vision, who is the quickest to discern the moral sunshine gleaming through the darkest cloud. In present evil he sees prospective good; in pain, he recognises the effort of nature to restore health; in trials, he finds correction and discipline; and in sorrow and suffering, he gathers courage, knowledge, and the best practical wisdom.

Don't for a second think that the men we're talking about are weak and unthoughtful. The most expansive and deep-minded people are usually the most cheerful, loving, hopeful, and trusting. It's the wise person, with a broad perspective, who is fastest to spot the silver lining shining through the darkest clouds. In current troubles, they see future good; in pain, they recognize nature's effort to heal; in challenges, they find lessons and growth; and in sorrow and suffering, they gain courage, knowledge, and practical wisdom.

When Jeremy Taylor had lost all—when his house had been plundered, and his family driven out-of-doors, and all his worldly estate had been sequestrated—he could still write thus: "I am fallen into the hands of publicans and sequestrators, and they have taken all from me; what now? Let me look about me. They have left me the sun and moon, a loving wife, and many friends to pity me, and some to relieve me; and I can still discourse, and, unless I list, they have not taken away my merry countenance and my cheerful spirit, and a good conscience; they have still left me the providence of God, and all the promises of the Gospel, and my religion, and my hopes of heaven, and my charity to them, too; and still I sleep and digest, I eat and drink, I read and meditate.... And he that hath so many causes of joy, and so great, is very much in love with sorrow and peevishness, who loves all these pleasures, and chooses to sit down upon his little handful of thorns." 171

When Jeremy Taylor had lost everything—when his house had been ransacked, his family forced out, and all his possessions taken away—he could still write this: "I have fallen into the hands of tax collectors and seizers, and they have taken everything from me; what now? Let me take a look around. They have left me the sun and moon, a loving wife, and many friends who pity me, and some who help me; I can still talk, and unless I choose not to, they haven't taken away my cheerful face or my positive spirit, and I still have a clear conscience; they have also left me with God's providence, all the promises of the Gospel, my faith, my hopes for heaven, and my charity toward others; and I still sleep and digest, I eat and drink, I read and reflect.... And someone who has so many reasons for joy, especially such great ones, is quite enamored with sorrow and grumpiness if they enjoy all these pleasures and decide to dwell on their small pile of thorns." 171

Although cheerfulness of disposition is very much a matter of inborn temperament, it is also capable of being trained and cultivated like any other habit. We may make the best of life, or we may make the worst of it; and it depends very much upon ourselves whether we extract joy or misery from it. There are always two sides of life on which we can look, according as we choose—the bright side or the gloomy. We can bring the power of the will to bear in making the choice, and thus cultivate the habit of being happy or the reverse. We can encourage the disposition of looking at the brightest side of things, instead of the darkest. And while we see the cloud, let us not shut our eyes to the silver lining.

While having a cheerful attitude is largely a result of our natural temperament, it's also something we can develop and nurture like any other habit. We can choose to make the most of life or the least of it, and it really depends on us whether we find joy or misery in our experiences. Life always has two sides we can focus on: the bright side or the gloomy side. We can use our willpower to make this choice, and in doing so, foster the habit of being happy or the opposite. We can actively choose to view the brighter side of things instead of the darker. And even when we see the cloud, let's not forget to look for the silver lining.

The beam in the eye sheds brightness, beauty, and joy upon life in all its phases. It shines upon coldness, and warms it; upon suffering, and comforts it; upon ignorance, and enlightens it; upon sorrow, and cheers it. The beam in the eye gives lustre to intellect, and brightens beauty itself. Without it the sunshine of life is not felt, flowers bloom in vain, the marvels of heaven and earth are not seen or acknowledged, and creation is but a dreary, lifeless, soulless blank.

The light in the eye brings brightness, beauty, and joy to every aspect of life. It shines on coldness and warms it; it comforts suffering; it enlightens ignorance; it cheers up sorrow. The light in the eye gives shine to intellect and enhances beauty itself. Without it, life’s sunshine isn’t felt, flowers bloom without purpose, the wonders of the world go unnoticed, and creation becomes a dull, lifeless void.

While cheerfulness of disposition is a great source of enjoyment in life, it is also a great safeguard of character. A devotional writer of the present day, in answer to the question, How are we to overcome temptations? says: "Cheerfulness is the first thing, cheerfulness is the second, and cheerfulness is the third." It furnishes the best soil for the growth of goodness and virtue. It gives brightness of heart and elasticity of spirit. It is the companion of charity, the nurse of patience the mother of wisdom. It is also the best of moral and mental tonics. "The best cordial of all," said Dr. Marshall Hall to one of his patients, "is cheerfulness." And Solomon has said that "a merry heart doeth good like a medicine." When Luther was once applied to for a remedy against melancholy, his advice was: "Gaiety and courage—innocent gaiety, and rational honourable courage—are the best medicine for young men, and for old men, too; for all men against sad thoughts." 172 Next to music, if not before it, Luther loved children and flowers. The great gnarled man had a heart as tender as a woman's.

While having a cheerful attitude is a major source of enjoyment in life, it’s also a strong protector of character. A modern devotional writer, in response to the question, How do we overcome temptations? says: "Cheerfulness is the first thing, cheerfulness is the second, and cheerfulness is the third." It provides the best environment for the growth of goodness and virtue. It brings a bright heart and a lively spirit. It’s a companion of kindness, a supporter of patience, and a source of wisdom. It’s also the best moral and mental boost. "The best remedy of all," said Dr. Marshall Hall to one of his patients, "is cheerfulness." And Solomon said that "a merry heart is good medicine." When Luther was once asked for a cure for melancholy, he advised: "Joy and courage—innocent joy and rational honorable courage—are the best medicine for young men, and for old men, too; for everyone against gloomy thoughts." 172 Next to music, if not even before it, Luther loved children and flowers. The great, rugged man had a heart as tender as a woman's.

Cheerfulness is also an excellent wearing quality. It has been called the bright weather of the heart. It gives harmony of soul, and is a perpetual song without words. It is tantamount to repose. It enables nature to recruit its strength; whereas worry and discontent debilitate it, involving constant wear-and-tear. How is it that we see such men as Lord Palmerston growing old in harness, working on vigorously to the end? Mainly through equanimity of temper and habitual cheerfulness. They have educated themselves in the habit of endurance, of not being easily provoked, of bearing and forbearing, of hearing harsh and even unjust things said of them without indulging in undue resentment, and avoiding worreting, petty, and self-tormenting cares. An intimate friend of Lord Palmerston, who observed him closely for twenty years, has said that he never saw him angry, with perhaps one exception; and that was when the ministry responsible for the calamity in Affghanistan, of which he was one, were unjustly accused by their opponents of falsehood, perjury, and wilful mutilation of public documents.

Cheerfulness is also a great quality to have. It’s been described as the sunny weather of the heart. It brings harmony to the soul and is like a constant song without lyrics. It’s similar to being at peace. It allows our nature to regain its strength, while worry and discontent wear us down, causing constant strain. How is it that we see people like Lord Palmerston aging gracefully, working tirelessly until the end? Mostly because of their calm nature and habitual cheerfulness. They have trained themselves to be resilient, not easily provoked, and to tolerate and endure, even when faced with harsh and unfair criticism, without holding onto unnecessary anger and avoiding trivial, nagging worries. A close friend of Lord Palmerston, who watched him closely for twenty years, said he never saw him angry, except for one time, when the ministry he was part of was unfairly accused by their opponents of lying, perjury, and deliberately altering public documents.

So far as can be learnt from biography, men of the greatest genius have been for the most part cheerful, contented men—not eager for reputation, money, or power—but relishing life, and keenly susceptible of enjoyment, as we find reflected in their works. Such seem to have been Homer, Horace, Virgil, Montaigne, Shakspeare, Cervantes. Healthy serene cheerfulness is apparent in their great creations. Among the same class of cheerful-minded men may also be mentioned Luther, More, Bacon, Leonardo da Vinci, Raphael, and Michael Angelo. Perhaps they were happy because constantly occupied, and in the pleasantest of all work—that of creating out of the fulness and richness of their great minds.

According to what we know from biographies, the most brilliant individuals have mostly been cheerful and content—not driven by the desire for fame, wealth, or power—but enjoying life and deeply receptive to pleasure, as shown in their works. This seems to apply to Homer, Horace, Virgil, Montaigne, Shakespeare, and Cervantes. Their impressive creations reflect a healthy, calm cheerfulness. Other cheerful-minded people who could be included are Luther, More, Bacon, Leonardo da Vinci, Raphael, and Michelangelo. They might have found happiness in being constantly engaged in the most enjoyable work—creating from the richness of their remarkable minds.

Milton, too, though a man of many trials and sufferings, must have been a man of great cheerfulness and elasticity of nature. Though overtaken by blindness, deserted by friends, and fallen upon evil days—"darkness before and danger's voice behind"—yet did he not bate heart or hope, but "still bore up and steered right onward."

Milton, despite facing many challenges and hardships, must have been a person of great optimism and resilience. Even though he went blind, was abandoned by friends, and faced tough times—"darkness ahead and danger's voice behind"—he didn't lose heart or hope, but "kept pushing forward and stayed the course."

Henry Fielding was a man borne down through life by debt, and difficulty, and bodily suffering; and yet Lady Mary Wortley Montague has said of him that, by virtue of his cheerful disposition, she was persuaded he "had known more happy moments than any person on earth."

Henry Fielding was a man weighed down by debt, struggles, and physical pain; yet Lady Mary Wortley Montague remarked that, because of his cheerful nature, she believed he "had experienced more happy moments than anyone else on earth."

Dr. Johnson, through all his trials and sufferings and hard fights with fortune, was a courageous and cheerful-natured man. He manfully made the best of life, and tried to be glad in it. Once, when a clergyman was complaining of the dulness of society in the country, saying "they only talk of runts" [17young cows], Johnson felt flattered by the observation of Mrs. Thrale's mother, who said, "Sir, Dr. Johnson would learn to talk of runts"—meaning that he was a man who would make the most of his situation, whatever it was.

Dr. Johnson, despite all his struggles and hardships and tough battles with fate, was a brave and optimistic man. He made the best of life and tried to find joy in it. Once, when a clergyman was complaining about how dull rural society was, saying "they only talk about runts" [17young cows], Johnson felt flattered by what Mrs. Thrale's mother said, who remarked, "Sir, Dr. Johnson would learn to talk about runts"—implying that he was someone who would make the most out of any situation.

Johnson was of opinion that a man grew better as he grew older, and that his nature mellowed with age. This is certainly a much more cheerful view of human nature than that of Lord Chesterfield, who saw life through the eyes of a cynic, and held that "the heart never grows better by age: it only grows harder." But both sayings may be true according to the point from which life is viewed, and the temper by which a man is governed; for while the good, profiting by experience, and disciplining themselves by self-control, will grow better, the ill-conditioned, uninfluenced by experience, will only grow worse.

Johnson believed that a person becomes better as they get older and that their character improves with age. This is definitely a more optimistic perspective on human nature than that of Lord Chesterfield, who viewed life through a cynical lens and claimed that "the heart never gets better with age; it only gets harder." However, both statements can hold true depending on how life is perceived and the disposition of the individual; while those with good character, learning from their experiences and practicing self-discipline, will improve, those with a bad attitude, unaffected by experience, will only become worse.

Sir Walter Scott was a man full of the milk of human kindness. Everybody loved him. He was never five minutes in a room ere the little pets of the family, whether dumb or lisping, had found out his kindness for all their generation. Scott related to Captain Basil Hall an incident of his boyhood which showed the tenderness of his nature. One day, a dog coming towards him, he took up a big stone, threw it, and hit the dog. The poor creature had strength enough left to crawl up to him and lick his feet, although he saw its leg was broken. The incident, he said, had given him the bitterest remorse in his after-life; but he added, "An early circumstance of that kind, properly reflected on, is calculated to have the best effect on one's character throughout life."

Sir Walter Scott was a genuinely kind man. Everyone loved him. It took less than five minutes for the family pets, whether they were silent or chattering, to sense his kindness towards their kind. Scott told Captain Basil Hall a story from his childhood that highlighted his gentle nature. One day, when a dog approached him, he picked up a large stone, threw it, and hit the dog. The poor animal had just enough strength to crawl over to him and lick his feet, despite having a broken leg. He said this incident haunted him with deep regret for the rest of his life; however, he added, "A situation like that, if properly reflected on, can greatly improve one’s character for a lifetime."

"Give me an honest laugher," Scott would say; and he himself laughed the heart's laugh. He had a kind word for everybody, and his kindness acted all round him like a contagion, dispelling the reserve and awe which his great name was calculated to inspire. "He'll come here," said the keeper of the ruins of Melrose Abbey to Washington Irving—"he'll come here some-times, wi' great folks in his company, and the first I'll know of it is hearing his voice calling out, 'Johnny! Johnny Bower!' And when I go out I'm sure to be greeted wi' a joke or a pleasant word. He'll stand and crack and laugh wi' me, just like an auld wife; and to think that of a man that has SUCH AN AWFU' KNOWLEDGE O' HISTORY!"

"Give me a real laugh," Scott would say; and he himself laughed with genuine joy. He had a kind word for everyone, and his kindness spread around him like a contagion, breaking down the reserve and awe that his renowned name was likely to inspire. "He'll come here," said the caretaker of the ruins of Melrose Abbey to Washington Irving—"he'll come here sometimes, with important people in his company, and the first I know about it is hearing his voice calling out, 'Johnny! Johnny Bower!' And when I go out, I'm sure to be met with a joke or a friendly word. He'll stand and joke and laugh with me, just like a little old lady; and to think that of a man who has SUCH AN AMAZING KNOWLEDGE OF HISTORY!"

Dr. Arnold was a man of the same hearty cordiality of manner—full of human sympathy. There was not a particle of affectation or pretence of condescension about him. "I never knew such a humble man as the doctor," said the parish clerk at Laleham; "he comes and shakes us by the hand as if he was one of us." "He used to come into my house," said an old woman near Fox How, "and talk to me as if I were a lady."

Dr. Arnold was a genuinely warm person—full of human kindness. There was no hint of pretentiousness or superiority about him. "I’ve never met such a humble guy as the doctor," said the parish clerk in Laleham; "he comes and shakes our hands like he’s one of us." "He would come into my house," said an elderly woman near Fox How, "and talk to me as if I were a lady."

Sydney Smith was another illustration of the power of cheerfulness. He was ever ready to look on the bright side of things; the darkest cloud had to him its silver lining. Whether working as country curate, or as parish rector, he was always kind, laborious, patient, and exemplary; exhibiting in every sphere of life the spirit of a Christian, the kindness of a pastor, and the honour of a gentleman. In his leisure he employed his pen on the side of justice, freedom, education, toleration, emancipation; and his writings, though full of common-sense and bright humour, are never vulgar; nor did he ever pander to popularity or prejudice. His good spirits, thanks to his natural vivacity and stamina of constitution, never forsook him; and in his old age, when borne down by disease, he wrote to a friend: "I have gout, asthma, and seven other maladies, but am otherwise very well." In one of the last letters he wrote to Lady Carlisle, he said: "If you hear of sixteen or eighteen pounds of flesh wanting an owner, they belong to me. I look as if a curate had been taken out of me."

Sydney Smith was another example of the power of cheerfulness. He was always willing to look at the bright side of things; the darkest cloud had a silver lining for him. Whether he was working as a country curate or as a parish rector, he was always kind, hardworking, patient, and exemplary, showing in every area of life the spirit of a Christian, the kindness of a pastor, and the honor of a gentleman. In his free time, he used his writing to advocate for justice, freedom, education, tolerance, and emancipation; his work, while filled with common sense and bright humor, was never vulgar, nor did he ever cater to popularity or bias. His good spirits, thanks to his natural energy and strong constitution, never left him; and in his old age, when weighed down by illness, he wrote to a friend: "I have gout, asthma, and seven other ailments, but otherwise I’m doing quite well." In one of the last letters he sent to Lady Carlisle, he remarked: "If you hear of sixteen or eighteen pounds of flesh needing a home, they belong to me. I look like a curate has been taken out of me."

Great men of science have for the most part been patient, laborious, cheerful-minded men. Such were Galileo, Descartes, Newton, and Laplace. Euler the mathematician, one of the greatest of natural philosophers, was a distinguished instance. Towards the close of his life he became completely blind; but he went on writing as cheerfully as before, supplying the want of sight by various ingenious mechanical devices, and by the increased cultivation of his memory, which became exceedingly tenacious. His chief pleasure was in the society of his grandchildren, to whom he taught their little lessons in the intervals of his severer studies.

Great scientists have mostly been patient, hardworking, and optimistic individuals. This was true for Galileo, Descartes, Newton, and Laplace. Euler, the mathematician and one of the greatest natural philosophers, was a notable example. Toward the end of his life, he became completely blind, yet he continued writing just as cheerfully as before, using various clever mechanical devices to compensate for his lack of sight and improving his already impressive memory. His greatest joy came from spending time with his grandchildren, teaching them their lessons during breaks from his more intense studies.

In like manner, Professor Robison of Edinburgh, the first editor of the 'Encyclopaedia Britannica,' when disabled from work by a lingering and painful disorder, found his chief pleasure in the society of his grandchild. "I am infinitely delighted," he wrote to James Watt, "with observing the growth of its little soul, and particularly with its numberless instincts, which formerly passed unheeded. I thank the French theorists for more forcibly directing my attention to the finger of God, which I discern in every awkward movement and every wayward whim. They are all guardians of his life and growth and power. I regret indeed that I have not time to make infancy and the development of its powers my sole study."

Similarly, Professor Robison from Edinburgh, the first editor of the 'Encyclopaedia Britannica,' when unable to work due to a lingering and painful illness, found his greatest joy in spending time with his grandchild. "I'm incredibly delighted," he wrote to James Watt, "to see the development of its little soul, especially its countless instincts that I previously overlooked. I’m grateful to the French theorists for helping me notice the hand of God in every awkward movement and every quirky desire. They are all protectors of its life, growth, and strength. I truly wish I had the time to make the study of infancy and its development my only focus."

One of the sorest trials of a man's temper and patience was that which befell Abauzit, the natural philosopher, while residing at Geneva; resembling in many respects a similar calamity which occurred to Newton, and which he bore with equal resignation. Amongst other things, Abauzit devoted much study to the barometer and its variations, with the object of deducing the general laws which regulated atmospheric pressure. During twenty-seven years he made numerous observations daily, recording them on sheets prepared for the purpose. One day, when a new servant was installed in the house, she immediately proceeded to display her zeal by "putting things to-rights." Abauzit's study, amongst other rooms, was made tidy and set in order. When he entered it, he asked of the servant, "What have you done with the paper that was round the barometer?" "Oh, sir," was the reply, "it was so dirty that I burnt it, and put in its place this paper, which you will see is quite new." Abauzit crossed his arms, and after some moments of internal struggle, he said, in a tone of calmness and resignation: "You have destroyed the results of twenty-seven years labour; in future touch nothing whatever in this room."

One of the toughest tests of a person’s temper and patience was what happened to Abauzit, the natural philosopher, while he was living in Geneva; it was similar in many ways to a disaster that befell Newton, which he handled with the same level of calm. Among other things, Abauzit spent a lot of time studying the barometer and its changes, aiming to figure out the general laws that governed atmospheric pressure. For twenty-seven years, he recorded numerous daily observations on sheets he prepared for this purpose. One day, when a new servant started working in the house, she eagerly decided to "tidy things up." Abauzit's study, among other rooms, got cleaned and organized. When he walked in, he asked the servant, "What did you do with the paper that was around the barometer?" "Oh, sir," she replied, "it was so dirty that I burnt it and replaced it with this paper, which you can see is brand new." Abauzit crossed his arms, and after a moment of internal struggle, he said in a calm and resigned tone: "You’ve destroyed the results of twenty-seven years of work; from now on, don’t touch anything in this room."

The study of natural history more than that of any other branch of science, seems to be accompanied by unusual cheerfulness and equanimity of temper on the part of its votaries; the result of which is, that the life of naturalists is on the whole more prolonged than that of any other class of men of science. A member of the Linnaean Society has informed us that of fourteen members who died in 1870, two were over ninety, five were over eighty, and two were over seventy. The average age of all the members who died in that year was seventy-five.

The study of natural history, more than any other field of science, seems to bring a unique sense of joy and calm to its practitioners. As a result, naturalists tend to live longer lives compared to other scientists. A member of the Linnaean Society told us that among the fourteen members who passed away in 1870, two were over ninety, five were over eighty, and two were over seventy. The average age of all the members who died that year was seventy-five.

Adanson, the French botanist, was about seventy years old when the Revolution broke out, and amidst the shock he lost everything—his fortune, his places, and his gardens. But his patience, courage, and resignation never forsook him. He became reduced to the greatest straits, and even wanted food and clothing; yet his ardour of investigation remained the same. Once, when the Institute invited him, as being one of its oldest members, to assist at a SEANCE, his answer was that he regretted he could not attend for want of shoes. "It was a touching sight," says Cuvier, "to see the poor old man, bent over the embers of a decaying fire, trying to trace characters with a feeble hand on the little bit of paper which he held, forgetting all the pains of life in some new idea in natural history, which came to him like some beneficent fairy to cheer him in his loneliness." The Directory eventually gave him a small pension, which Napoleon doubled; and at length, easeful death came to his relief in his seventy-ninth year. A clause in his will, as to the manner of his funeral, illustrates the character of the man. He directed that a garland of flowers, provided by fifty-eight families whom he had established in life, should be the only decoration of his coffin—a slight but touching image of the more durable monument which he had erected for himself in his works.

Adanson, the French botanist, was about seventy years old when the Revolution started, and amid the upheaval, he lost everything—his wealth, his positions, and his gardens. Yet, he never lost his patience, courage, or acceptance. He found himself in dire straits and even faced hunger and a lack of clothing; still, his passion for research remained unchanged. Once, when the Institute invited him, as one of its oldest members, to attend a meeting, he responded that he regretted he couldn't go because he had no shoes. "It was a moving sight," says Cuvier, "to see the poor old man, hunched over the dying embers of a fire, trying to write with a shaky hand on the small piece of paper he held, forgetting all the struggles of life in the spark of a new idea in natural history, which came to him like a kind fairy to lift his spirits in his solitude." The Directory eventually gave him a small pension, which Napoleon later doubled; and finally, a peaceful death came to him in his seventy-ninth year. A clause in his will regarding his funeral illustrates the kind of person he was. He requested that a garland of flowers, provided by fifty-eight families he had helped establish in society, be the only decoration on his coffin—a simple yet poignant representation of the lasting monument he had created for himself through his work.

Such are only a few instances, of the cheerful-working-ness of great men, which might, indeed, be multiplied to any extent. All large healthy natures are cheerful as well as hopeful. Their example is also contagious and diffusive, brightening and cheering all who come within reach of their influence. It was said of Sir John Malcolm, when he appeared in a saddened camp in India, that "it was like a gleam of sunlight,.... no man left him without a smile on his face. He was 'boy Malcolm' still. It was impossible to resist the fascination of his genial presence." 173

Here are just a few examples of the positive energy of great people, which could really be expanded endlessly. All big, healthy personalities are cheerful as well as optimistic. Their example is contagious and widespread, lifting the spirits of everyone who comes into contact with their influence. When Sir John Malcolm showed up in a somber camp in India, it was said that "it was like a ray of sunlight... no one left him without a smile on their face. He was still 'boy Malcolm.' It was impossible to resist the charm of his warm presence." 173

There was the same joyousness of nature about Edmund Burke. Once at a dinner at Sir Joshua Reynolds's, when the conversation turned upon the suitability of liquors for particular temperaments, Johnson said, "Claret is for boys, port for men, and brandy for heroes." "Then," said Burke, "let me have claret: I love to be a boy, and to have the careless gaiety of boyish days." And so it is, that there are old young men, and young old men—some who are as joyous and cheerful as boys in their old age, and others who are as morose and cheerless as saddened old men while still in their boyhood.

There was the same joyfulness about Edmund Burke. One time at a dinner at Sir Joshua Reynolds's, when the discussion shifted to which drinks suited different people, Johnson remarked, "Claret is for boys, port for men, and brandy for heroes." Burke replied, "Then I’ll have claret: I love being a boy and enjoying the carefree happiness of childhood." This shows that there are older young men and younger old men—some who remain joyful and cheerful like boys in their old age, and others who are as gloomy and joyless as unhappy old men while still being young.

In the presence of some priggish youths, we have heard a cheerful old man declare that, apparently, there would soon be nothing but "old boys" left. Cheerfulness, being generous and genial, joyous and hearty, is never the characteristic of prigs. Goethe used to exclaim of goody-goody persons, "Oh! if they had but the heart to commit an absurdity!" This was when he thought they wanted heartiness and nature. "Pretty dolls!" was his expression when speaking of them, and turning away.

In front of some uptight young people, we've heard a cheerful old man say that soon there would be nothing left but "old boys." Cheerfulness, which is kind, friendly, joyful, and hearty, is never a trait of snobs. Goethe used to say about goody-goody types, "Oh! If only they had the guts to do something silly!" He believed they lacked warmth and authenticity. He referred to them as "pretty dolls" when talking about them, and then he would turn away.

The true basis of cheerfulness is love, hope, and patience. Love evokes love, and begets loving kindness. Love cherishes hopeful and generous thoughts of others. It is charitable, gentle, and truthful. It is a discerner of good. It turns to the brightest side of things, and its face is ever directed towards happiness. It sees "the glory in the grass, the sunshine on the flower." It encourages happy thoughts, and lives in an atmosphere of cheerfulness. It costs nothing, and yet is invaluable; for it blesses its possessor, and grows up in abundant happiness in the bosoms of others. Even its sorrows are linked with pleasures, and its very tears are sweet.

The real foundation of joy is love, hope, and patience. Love inspires love and promotes kindness. Love nurtures optimistic and generous thoughts about others. It is charitable, gentle, and truthful. It recognizes goodness. It focuses on the positive side of things and is always aimed at happiness. It sees "the glory in the grass, the sunshine on the flower." It encourages positive thoughts and thrives in an atmosphere of cheerfulness. It costs nothing, yet is priceless; it blesses those who have it and fosters abundant happiness in the hearts of others. Even its sorrows are tied to happiness, and its very tears are sweet.

Bentham lays it down as a principle, that a man becomes rich in his own stock of pleasures in proportion to the amount he distributes to others. His kindness will evoke kindness, and his happiness be increased by his own benevolence. "Kind words," he says, "cost no more than unkind ones. Kind words produce kind actions, not only on the part of him to whom they are addressed, but on the part of him by whom they are employed; and this not incidentally only, but habitually, in virtue of the principle of association.".... "It may indeed happen, that the effort of beneficence may not benefit those for whom it was intended; but when wisely directed, it MUST benefit the person from whom it emanates. Good and friendly conduct may meet with an unworthy and ungrateful return; but the absence of gratitude on the part of the receiver cannot destroy the self-approbation which recompenses the giver, and we may scatter the seeds of courtesy and kindliness around us at so little expense. Some of them will inevitably fall on good ground, and grow up into benevolence in the minds of others; and all of them will bear fruit of happiness in the bosom whence they spring. Once blest are all the virtues always; twice blest sometimes." 174

Bentham establishes a principle that a person enriches their own experience of pleasure based on how much they share with others. Their generosity prompts more generosity, and their happiness is amplified by their own kindness. "Kind words," he says, "don’t cost any more than unkind ones. Kind words lead to kind actions, not just from the person they are directed at, but also from the person using them; and this happens consistently, thanks to the principle of association."... "It may happen that efforts to help may not benefit those they are aimed at; however, when done wisely, they MUST benefit the person who offers them. Good and friendly behavior may receive an unworthy and thankless response; but a lack of gratitude from the recipient cannot take away the self-satisfaction that rewards the giver, and we can spread seeds of courtesy and kindness around us at very little cost. Some of these seeds will surely land on fertile ground and grow into goodwill in others’ hearts; and all of them will bring happiness back to the person who spreads them. Virtues are always blessed; sometimes they are doubly blessed." 174

The poet Rogers used to tell a story of a little girl, a great favourite with every one who knew her. Some one said to her, "Why does everybody love you so much?" She answered, "I think it is because I love everybody so much." This little story is capable of a very wide application; for our happiness as human beings, generally speaking, will be found to be very much in proportion to the number of things we love, and the number of things that love us. And the greatest worldly success, however honestly achieved, will contribute comparatively little to happiness, unless it be accompanied by a lively benevolence towards every human being.

The poet Rogers used to tell a story about a little girl who was a favorite among everyone who knew her. Someone asked her, "Why does everyone love you so much?" She replied, "I think it's because I love everyone so much." This little story can apply in many ways; our happiness as humans, in general, is often linked to how many things we love and how many things love us back. Even the greatest worldly success, no matter how honestly earned, will bring only a little happiness unless it's paired with a genuine kindness towards every person.

Kindness is indeed a great power in the world. Leigh Hunt has truly said that "Power itself hath not one half the might of gentleness." Men are always best governed through their affections. There is a French proverb which says that, "LES HOMMES SE PRENNENT PAR LA DOUCEUR," and a coarser English one, to the effect that "More wasps are caught by honey than by vinegar." "Every act of kindness," says Bentham, "is in fact an exercise of power, and a stock of friendship laid up; and why should not power exercise itself in the production of pleasure as of pain?"

Kindness is truly a powerful force in the world. Leigh Hunt accurately stated that "Power itself has not one half the strength of gentleness." People are always best influenced through their feelings. There's a French saying that goes, "LES HOMMES SE PRENNENT PAR LA DOUCEUR," and a rougher English saying that "More wasps are caught by honey than by vinegar." "Every act of kindness," says Bentham, "is really a display of power and a way to build friendships; so why shouldn't power be used to create joy as well as suffering?"

Kindness does not consist in gifts, but in gentleness and generosity of spirit. Men may give their money which comes from the purse, and withhold their kindness which comes from the heart. The kindness that displays itself in giving money, does not amount to much, and often does quite as much harm as good; but the kindness of true sympathy, of thoughtful help, is never without beneficent results.

Kindness isn't about giving gifts; it's about being gentle and generous in spirit. People can hand over their money, which comes from their wallets, but still hold back their true kindness, which comes from the heart. The kindness shown through giving money doesn’t mean much and can often do just as much harm as good. However, the kindness that shows true sympathy and offers thoughtful help always brings positive results.

The good temper that displays itself in kindness must not be confounded with softness or silliness. In its best form, it is not a merely passive but an active condition of being. It is not by any means indifferent, but largely sympathetic. It does not characterise the lowest and most gelatinous forms of human life, but those that are the most highly organized. True kindness cherishes and actively promotes all reasonable instrumentalities for doing practical good in its own time; and, looking into futurity, sees the same spirit working on for the eventual elevation and happiness of the race.

The good nature shown in kindness shouldn’t be confused with weakness or foolishness. At its best, it’s not just a passive state, but an active one. It’s not indifferent; rather, it’s mostly sympathetic. It doesn’t define the lowest, most formless aspects of human life, but those that are the most developed. True kindness nurtures and actively supports all reasonable ways to do practical good in the present, and, looking ahead, recognizes the same spirit striving for the eventual uplift and happiness of humanity.

It is the kindly-dispositioned men who are the active men of the world, while the selfish and the sceptical, who have no love but for themselves, are its idlers. Buffon used to say, that he would give nothing for a young man who did not begin life with an enthusiasm of some sort. It showed that at least he had faith in something good, lofty, and generous, even if unattainable.

It's the kind-hearted people who are the driven ones in the world, while the selfish and the cynical, who only care about themselves, are the ones who sit idle. Buffon used to say that he wouldn't value a young man who didn't start life with some kind of enthusiasm. It meant that at the very least, he believed in something good, noble, and generous, even if it was out of reach.

Egotism, scepticism, and selfishness are always miserable companions in life, and they are especially unnatural in youth. The egotist is next-door to a fanatic. Constantly occupied with self, he has no thought to spare for others. He refers to himself in all things, thinks of himself, and studies himself, until his own little self becomes his own little god.

Egotism, skepticism, and selfishness are always terrible companions in life, and they feel especially out of place in youth. The egotist is almost a fanatic. Always focused on themselves, they have no room to consider others. They talk about themselves in everything, think about themselves, and analyze themselves, until their own little self becomes their own little god.

Worst of all are the grumblers and growlers at fortune—who find that "whatever is is wrong," and will do nothing to set matters right—who declare all to be barren "from Dan even to Beersheba." These grumblers are invariably found the least efficient helpers in the school of life. As the worst workmen are usually the readiest to "strike," so the least industrious members of society are the readiest to complain. The worst wheel of all is the one that creaks.

Worst of all are the complainers and whiners about life—who think that "whatever is, is wrong," and won’t do anything to change things—who claim everything is barren "from Dan even to Beersheba." These complainers are usually the least effective helpers in the school of life. Just as the worst workers are often the first to "strike," the least hardworking members of society are the quickest to complain. The noisiest wheel is usually the one that squeaks.

There is such a thing as the cherishing of discontent until the feeling becomes morbid. The jaundiced see everything about them yellow. The ill-conditioned think all things awry, and the whole world out-of-joint. All is vanity and vexation of spirit. The little girl in PUNCH, who found her doll stuffed with bran, and forthwith declared everything to be hollow and wanted to "go into a nunnery," had her counterpart in real life. Many full-grown people are quite as morbidly unreasonable. There are those who may be said to "enjoy bad health;" they regard it as a sort of property. They can speak of "MY headache"—"MY backache," and so forth, until in course of time it becomes their most cherished possession. But perhaps it is the source to them of much coveted sympathy, without which they might find themselves of comparatively little importance in the world.

There’s a way of nurturing discontent until it becomes unhealthy. Those with a negative outlook see everything around them in a bad light. The pessimistic believe that everything is wrong and that the entire world is out of balance. Everything feels pointless and frustrating. The little girl in PUNCH, who discovered her doll was stuffed with bran and immediately claimed everything was superficial and expressed a desire to “go into a nunnery,” has a real-life equivalent. Many adults can be just as unreasonably gloomy. Some people seem to "enjoy bad health;" they see it as a kind of personal asset. They refer to "MY headache," "MY backache," and so on, until it becomes their most prized possession. But perhaps it’s a source of much-needed sympathy, without which they might feel less significant in the world.

We have to be on our guard against small troubles, which, by encouraging, we are apt to magnify into great ones. Indeed, the chief source of worry in the world is not real but imaginary evil—small vexations and trivial afflictions. In the presence of a great sorrow, all petty troubles disappear; but we are too ready to take some cherished misery to our bosom, and to pet it there. Very often it is the child of our fancy; and, forgetful of the many means of happiness which lie within our reach, we indulge this spoilt child of ours until it masters us. We shut the door against cheerfulness, and surround ourselves with gloom. The habit gives a colouring to our life. We grow querulous, moody, and unsympathetic. Our conversation becomes full of regrets. We are harsh in our judgment of others. We are unsociable, and think everybody else is so. We make our breast a storehouse of pain, which we inflict upon ourselves as well as upon others.

We need to be careful about small issues, which, if we encourage them, we tend to blow out of proportion. In fact, the main source of anxiety in the world is not real problems but imagined ones—minor annoyances and trivial difficulties. When faced with a major sorrow, all small troubles fade away; however, we’re too quick to hold on to some beloved misery, nurturing it. Often, it’s a creation of our minds; and, forgetting the many sources of happiness available to us, we indulge this spoiled mindset until it takes control. We close ourselves off from joy and surround ourselves with negativity. This habit colors our lives. We become irritable, moody, and unsympathetic. Our conversations are filled with regrets. We’re harsh in judging others. We withdraw socially and assume everyone else does too. We turn our hearts into a storage space for pain, which we impose on both ourselves and others.

This disposition is encouraged by selfishness: indeed, it is for the most part selfishness unmingled, without any admixture of sympathy or consideration for the feelings of those about us. It is simply wilfulness in the wrong direction. It is wilful, because it might be avoided. Let the necessitarians argue as they may, freedom of will and action is the possession of every man and woman. It is sometimes our glory, and very often it is our shame: all depends upon the manner in which it is used. We can choose to look at the bright side of things, or at the dark. We can follow good and eschew evil thoughts. We can be wrongheaded and wronghearted, or the reverse, as we ourselves determine. The world will be to each one of us very much what we make it. The cheerful are its real possessors, for the world belongs to those who enjoy it.

This attitude is driven by selfishness: in fact, it's mostly pure selfishness, with no mix of empathy or concern for how others feel. It's just stubbornness in the wrong direction. It's stubborn because it could be avoided. No matter how much the necessitarians debate, every man and woman has the freedom of will and action. Sometimes it's our pride, and often it's our shame: it all depends on how we choose to use it. We can decide to see the positive side of things or the negative. We can pursue good thoughts and avoid bad ones. We can be misguided and unkind, or the opposite, depending on our choices. The world will be a reflection of what each of us makes it. The happy people are the true owners of it, because the world belongs to those who enjoy it.

It must, however, be admitted that there are cases beyond the reach of the moralist. Once, when a miserable-looking dyspeptic called upon a leading physician and laid his case before him, "Oh!" said the doctor, "you only want a good hearty laugh: go and see Grimaldi." "Alas!" said the miserable patient, "I am Grimaldi!" So, when Smollett, oppressed by disease, travelled over Europe in the hope of finding health, he saw everything through his own jaundiced eyes. "I'll tell it," said Smellfungus, "to the world." "You had better tell it," said Sterne, "to your physician." The restless, anxious, dissatisfied temper, that is ever ready to run and meet care half-way, is fatal to all happiness and peace of mind. How often do we see men and women set themselves about as if with stiff bristles, so that one dare scarcely approach them without fear of being pricked! For want of a little occasional command over one's temper, an amount of misery is occasioned in society which is positively frightful. Thus enjoyment is turned into bitterness, and life becomes like a journey barefooted amongst thorns and briers and prickles. "Though sometimes small evils," says Richard Sharp, "like invisible insects, inflict great pain, and a single hair may stop a vast machine, yet the chief secret of comfort lies in not suffering trifles to vex us; and in prudently cultivating an undergrowth of small pleasures, since very few great ones, alas! are let on long leases." 175

It must be acknowledged that there are situations that the moralist can't address. Once, when a miserable-looking person with indigestion visited a well-known doctor and explained his condition, the doctor replied, "Oh! You just need a good hearty laugh: go see Grimaldi." The miserable patient sighed, "Alas! I am Grimaldi!" So, when Smollett, burdened by illness, traveled across Europe in search of health, he viewed everything through his own pessimistic lens. "I’ll share this with the world," said Smellfungus. "You might as well share it with your doctor," Sterne replied. The restless, anxious, and dissatisfied attitude that constantly seeks to confront worry is detrimental to happiness and inner peace. How often do we see men and women act so defensively that it feels risky to approach them? Due to a lack of occasional self-control, an immense amount of misery is created in society that's truly alarming. As enjoyment turns into resentment, life feels like a barefoot journey through thorns and brambles. "Though sometimes minor annoyances," Richard Sharp states, "like hidden insects, can cause significant pain, and a single hair can stop a massive machine, the main key to comfort is not letting small issues bother us; instead, we should wisely nurture a foundation of small pleasures, as very few great ones, unfortunately, are available for long." 175

St. Francis de Sales treats the same topic from the Christian's point of view. "How carefully," he says, "we should cherish the little virtues which spring up at the foot of the Cross!" When the saint was asked, "What virtues do you mean?" he replied: "Humility, patience, meekness, benignity, bearing one another's burden, condescension, softness of heart, cheerfulness, cordiality, compassion, forgiving injuries, simplicity, candour—all, in short of that sort of little virtues. They, like unobtrusive violets, love the shade; like them are sustained by dew; and though, like them, they make little show, they shed a sweet odour on all around." 176

St. Francis de Sales discusses the same topic from a Christian perspective. "How carefully," he says, "we should treasure the small virtues that grow at the foot of the Cross!" When the saint was asked, "Which virtues do you mean?" he replied: "Humility, patience, gentleness, kindness, helping each other, being considerate, having a tender heart, being cheerful, being warm-hearted, compassion, forgiving wrongs, simplicity, honesty—all these small virtues. They, like unassuming violets, prefer the shade; like them, they thrive on dew; and though, like them, they don’t draw much attention, they spread a sweet fragrance all around." 176

And again he said: "If you would fall into any extreme, let it be on the side of gentleness. The human mind is so constructed that it resists rigour, and yields to softness. A mild word quenches anger, as water quenches the rage of fire; and by benignity any soil may be rendered fruitful. Truth, uttered with courtesy, is heaping coals of fire on the head—or rather, throwing roses in the face. How can we resist a foe whose weapons are pearls and diamonds?" 177

And once more he said: "If you're going to go to any extreme, let it be on the side of kindness. The human mind is built in a way that it pushes back against harshness and responds to gentleness. A soft word douses anger, just like water puts out fire; and with kindness, any ground can become fruitful. Speaking the truth with respect is like heaping coals of fire on someone's head—or rather, throwing roses in their face. How can we fight against an enemy whose weapons are pearls and diamonds?" 177

Meeting evils by anticipation is not the way to overcome them. If we perpetually carry our burdens about with us, they will soon bear us down under their load. When evil comes, we must deal with it bravely and hopefully. What Perthes wrote to a young man, who seemed to him inclined to take trifles as well as sorrows too much to heart, was doubtless good advice: "Go forward with hope and confidence. This is the advice given thee by an old man, who has had a full share of the burden and heat of life's day. We must ever stand upright, happen what may, and for this end we must cheerfully resign ourselves to the varied influences of this many-coloured life. You may call this levity, and you are partly right; for flowers and colours are but trifles light as air, but such levity is a constituent portion of our human nature, without which it would sink under the weight of time. While on earth we must still play with earth, and with that which blooms and fades upon its breast. The consciousness of this mortal life being but the way to a higher goal, by no means precludes our playing with it cheerfully; and, indeed, we must do so, otherwise our energy in action will entirely fail." 178

Facing troubles in advance isn’t the way to beat them. If we always carry our burdens with us, they’ll quickly weigh us down. When challenges arise, we need to tackle them with courage and optimism. What Perthes told a young man who seemed to take both small and big worries too seriously was surely great advice: “Move forward with hope and confidence. This is the advice from an old man who has experienced the ups and downs of life. We must always stand tall, no matter what happens, and to do this, we need to willingly accept the different influences of this vibrant life. You might call this being carefree, and you’re partly correct; flowers and colors are just light, airy things, but that carefree attitude is an essential part of our human nature, without which we would be crushed by the burden of time. While we’re here on earth, we should still engage with it and the things that bloom and wither around us. Knowing that this earthly life is just a path to something greater doesn’t stop us from enjoying it; in fact, we must embrace it, or our energy will completely fade.” 178

Cheerfulness also accompanies patience, which is one of the main conditions of happiness and success in life. "He that will be served," says George Herbert, "must be patient." It was said of the cheerful and patient King Alfred, that "good fortune accompanied him like a gift of God." Marlborough's expectant calmness was great, and a principal secret of his success as a general. "Patience will overcome all things," he wrote to Godolphin, in 1702. In the midst of a great emergency, while baffled and opposed by his allies, he said, "Having done all that is possible, we should submit with patience."

Cheerfulness goes hand in hand with patience, which is one of the key ingredients for happiness and success in life. "Those who want to be served," says George Herbert, "must be patient." It was said of the cheerful and patient King Alfred that "good fortune followed him like a gift from God." Marlborough's calm expectation was remarkable and a major secret to his success as a general. "Patience will conquer everything," he wrote to Godolphin in 1702. In the midst of a significant crisis, while frustrated and challenged by his allies, he said, "After doing everything possible, we must accept it with patience."

Last and chiefest of blessings is Hope, the most common of possessions; for, as Thales the philosopher said, "Even those who have nothing else have hope." Hope is the great helper of the poor. It has even been styled "the poor man's bread." It is also the sustainer and inspirer of great deeds. It is recorded of Alexander the Great, that when he succeeded to the throne of Macedon, he gave away amongst his friends the greater part of the estates which his father had left him; and when Perdiccas asked him what he reserved for himself, Alexander answered, "The greatest possession of all,—Hope!"

Last and most important of blessings is Hope, the most common of treasures; for, as the philosopher Thales said, "Even those who have nothing else have hope." Hope is a great support for the poor. It's even been called "the poor man's bread." It also sustains and inspires great actions. It's said that when Alexander the Great became king of Macedon, he gave away most of the estates that his father had left him to his friends; and when Perdiccas asked him what he kept for himself, Alexander replied, "The greatest treasure of all—Hope!"

The pleasures of memory, however great, are stale compared with those of hope; for hope is the parent of all effort and endeavour; and "every gift of noble origin is breathed upon by Hope's perpetual breath." It may be said to be the moral engine that moves the world, and keeps it in action; and at the end of all there stands before us what Robertson of Ellon styled "The Great Hope." "If it were not for Hope," said Byron, "where would the Future be?—in hell! It is useless to say where the Present is, for most of us know; and as for the Past, WHAT predominates in memory?—Hope baffled. ERGO, in all human affairs it is Hope, Hope, Hope!" 179

The joys of memory, no matter how significant, feel dull compared to those of hope; for hope drives all effort and ambition, and "every gift of noble origin is touched by Hope's constant breath." It can be seen as the moral force that moves the world and keeps it going; and at the end of everything stands what Robertson of Ellon called "The Great Hope." "If it weren't for Hope," Byron remarked, "where would the Future be?—in hell! There’s no point in discussing where the Present is, since most of us already know; and regarding the Past, what dominates our memories?—Hope thwarted. THEREFORE, in all human matters, it's Hope, Hope, Hope!" 179





CHAPTER IX.—MANNER—ART.

     "We must be gentle, now we are gentlemen."—SHAKSPEARE.

          "Manners are not idle, but the fruit
           Of noble nature and of loyal mind."—TENNYSON.

     "A beautiful behaviour is better than a beautiful form; it
     gives a higher pleasure than statues and pictures; it is the
     finest of the fine arts."—EMERSON.

     "Manners are often too much neglected; they are most
     important to men, no less than to women.... Life is too
     short to get over a bad manner; besides, manners are the
     shadows of virtues."—THE REV. SIDNEY SMITH.
     "We need to be kind, now that we are gentlemen."—SHAKESPEARE.

          "Manners aren't just for show; they are the result
           Of a noble character and a loyal mind."—TENNYSON.

     "Good behavior is more valuable than a great appearance; it
     brings more joy than sculptures and paintings; it is the
     highest form of art."—EMERSON.

     "Manners are often overlooked; they matter as much to men
     as they do to women.... Life is too short to endure bad manners;
     moreover, manners reflect our virtues."—THE REV. SIDNEY SMITH.

Manner is one of the principal external graces of character. It is the ornament of action, and often makes the commonest offices beautiful by the way in which it performs them. It is a happy way of doing things, adorning even the smallest details of life, and contributing to render it, as a whole, agreeable and pleasant.

Manner is one of the main external qualities of character. It enhances actions and often makes even the simplest tasks beautiful through the way they are done. It's a delightful way of handling things, embellishing even the smallest details of life and helping to make life, in general, enjoyable and pleasant.

Manner is not so frivolous or unimportant as some may think it to be; for it tends greatly to facilitate the business of life, as well as to sweeten and soften social intercourse. "Virtue itself," says Bishop Middleton, "offends, when coupled with a forbidding manner."

Manners are not as trivial or insignificant as some might believe; they greatly help with the practicalities of life and make social interactions more pleasant and gentle. "Even virtue," says Bishop Middleton, "can be off-putting when accompanied by a harsh manner."

Manner has a good deal to do with the estimation in which men are held by the world; and it has often more influence in the government of others than qualities of much greater depth and substance. A manner at once gracious and cordial is among the greatest aids to success, and many there are who fail for want of it. 181 For a great deal depends upon first impressions; and these are usually favourable or otherwise according to a man's courteousness and civility.

Manners play a big role in how people are perceived by others, and they often have more impact on influencing others than deeper qualities. A manner that is both gracious and friendly is one of the best assets for success, and many people fail because they lack it. 181 A lot hinges on first impressions, which are typically positive or negative based on a person's politeness and courtesy.

While rudeness and gruffness bar doors and shut hearts, kindness and propriety of behaviour, in which good manners consist, act as an "open sesame" everywhere. Doors unbar before them, and they are a passport to the hearts of everybody, young and old.

While rudeness and harshness close doors and shut people out, kindness and proper behavior, which good manners embody, serve as a "magic key" everywhere. Doors open in their presence, and they become a way into everyone's hearts, regardless of age.

There is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" but this is not so true as that "Man makes the manners." A man may be gruff, and even rude, and yet be good at heart and of sterling character; yet he would doubtless be a much more agreeable, and probably a much more useful man, were he to exhibit that suavity of disposition and courtesy of manner which always gives a finish to the true gentleman.

There's a saying that "Manners make the man," but it's actually more accurate to say that "Man makes the manners." A guy can be rough around the edges and even impolite, yet still have a good heart and solid character. However, he would likely be a lot more pleasant and probably a lot more helpful if he showed the charm and politeness that always define a true gentleman.

Mrs. Hutchinson, in the noble portraiture of her husband, to which we have already had occasion to refer, thus describes his manly courteousness and affability of disposition:—"I cannot say whether he were more truly magnanimous or less proud; he never disdained the meanest person, nor flattered the greatest; he had a loving and sweet courtesy to the poorest, and would often employ many spare hours with the commonest soldiers and poorest labourers; but still so ordering his familiarity, that it never raised them to a contempt, but entertained still at the same time a reverence and love of him." 182

Mrs. Hutchinson, in the impressive portrayal of her husband that we’ve already mentioned, describes his genuine kindness and friendly nature: “I can’t say whether he was more truly generous or less arrogant; he never looked down on the lowest person, nor did he flatter the highest; he showed warm and kind courtesy to the poorest and often spent his free time with the common soldiers and least fortunate workers; but he managed his familiarity in such a way that it never brought them down, while still maintaining their respect and affection for him.” 182

A man's manner, to a certain extent, indicates his character. It is the external exponent of his inner nature. It indicates his taste, his feelings, and his temper, as well as the society to which he has been accustomed. There is a conventional manner, which is of comparatively little importance; but the natural manner, the outcome of natural gifts, improved by careful self-culture, signifies a great deal.

A man's behavior, to some degree, reflects his character. It shows what he's like on the inside. It reveals his preferences, emotions, and temperament, as well as the social environment he’s familiar with. There’s a standard way of acting that doesn’t mean much; however, a natural manner, shaped by inherent abilities and refined through diligent self-improvement, says a lot.

Grace of manner is inspired by sentiment, which is a source of no slight enjoyment to a cultivated mind. Viewed in this light, sentiment is of almost as much importance as talents and acquirements, while it is even more influential in giving the direction to a man s tastes and character. Sympathy is the golden key that unlocks the hearts of others. It not only teaches politeness and courtesy, but gives insight and unfolds wisdom, and may almost be regarded as the crowning grace of humanity.

Grace in how we present ourselves comes from our feelings, which brings significant pleasure to an educated mind. When seen this way, feelings are nearly as important as skills and knowledge, and they play an even bigger role in shaping a person's tastes and character. Compassion is the golden key that opens the hearts of others. It not only teaches us to be polite and courteous, but it also provides understanding and reveals wisdom, making it almost the highest virtue of humanity.

Artificial rules of politeness are of very little use. What passes by the name of "Etiquette" is often of the essence of unpoliteness and untruthfulness. It consists in a great measure of posture-making, and is easily seen through. Even at best, etiquette is but a substitute for good manners, though it is often but their mere counterfeit.

Artificial rules of politeness are pretty useless. What we call "Etiquette" is often actually impolite and untruthful. It's mostly about pretending, and people can easily see through it. Even at its best, etiquette is just a stand-in for good manners, though most of the time it’s just a fake version of them.

Good manners consist, for the most part, in courteousness and kindness. Politeness has been described as the art of showing, by external signs, the internal regard we have for others. But one may be perfectly polite to another without necessarily having a special regard for him. Good manners are neither more nor less than beautiful behaviour. It has been well said, that "a beautiful form is better than a beautiful face, and a beautiful behaviour is better than a beautiful form; it gives a higher pleasure than statues or pictures—it is the finest of the fine arts."

Good manners mainly involve being courteous and kind. Politeness is often seen as the skill of expressing our internal respect for others through our actions. However, it’s possible to be polite to someone without having any special feelings for them. Good manners are simply about exhibiting beautiful behavior. It’s been wisely said that "a beautiful shape is better than a beautiful face, and beautiful behavior is better than a beautiful shape; it brings a greater joy than statues or paintings—it is the highest form of fine art."

The truest politeness comes of sincerity. It must be the outcome of the heart, or it will make no lasting impression; for no amount of polish can dispense with truthfulness. The natural character must be allowed to appear, freed of its angularities and asperities. Though politeness, in its best form, should [18as St. Francis de Sales says] resemble water—"best when clearest, most simple, and without taste,"—yet genius in a man will always cover many defects of manner, and much will be excused to the strong and the original. Without genuineness and individuality, human life would lose much of its interest and variety, as well as its manliness and robustness of character.

The most genuine politeness comes from sincerity. It has to come from the heart; otherwise, it won't leave a lasting impact because no amount of refinement can replace honesty. A person's true nature should shine through, free from its rough edges. While genuine politeness, as St. Francis de Sales puts it, should be like water—"best when clear, simple, and without flavor"—a person's genius will often overshadow many social shortcomings, and much can be forgiven for those who are strong and unique. Without authenticity and individuality, life would lose a lot of its interest and diversity, as well as its strength and depth of character.

True courtesy is kind. It exhibits itself in the disposition to contribute to the happiness of others, and in refraining from all that may annoy them. It is grateful as well as kind, and readily acknowledges kind actions. Curiously enough, Captain Speke found this quality of character recognised even by the natives of Uganda on the shores of Lake Nyanza, in the heart of Africa, where, he says. "Ingratitude, or neglecting to thank a person for a benefit conferred, is punishable."

True courtesy is kind. It shows in the willingness to contribute to other people's happiness and in avoiding anything that might annoy them. It is grateful as well as kind, and it readily acknowledges kind actions. Interestingly, Captain Speke found that this quality of character was recognized even by the locals of Uganda on the shores of Lake Nyanza, in the heart of Africa, where, he says, "Ingratitude, or neglecting to thank someone for a favor, is punishable."

True politeness especially exhibits itself in regard for the personality of others. A man will respect the individuality of another if he wishes to be respected himself. He will have due regard for his views and opinions, even though they differ from his own. The well-mannered man pays a compliment to another, and sometimes even secures his respect, by patiently listening to him. He is simply tolerant and forbearant, and refrains from judging harshly; and harsh judgments of others will almost invariably provoke harsh judgments of ourselves.

True politeness especially shows itself in respecting other people's individuality. A person will respect someone else's uniqueness if they want to be respected in return. They will consider another's views and opinions, even if they don’t agree. A well-mannered person compliments others and sometimes earns their respect by listening patiently. They are simply tolerant and understanding, holding back from making harsh judgments; after all, harsh judgments of others usually lead to harsh judgments of ourselves.

The unpolite impulsive man will, however, sometimes rather lose his friend than his joke. He may surely be pronounced a very foolish person who secures another's hatred at the price of a moment's gratification. It was a saying of Brunel the engineer—himself one of the kindest-natured of men—that "spite and ill-nature are among the most expensive luxuries in life." Dr. Johnson once said: "Sir, a man has no more right to SAY an uncivil thing than to ACT one—no more right to say a rude thing to another than to knock him down."

The rude, impulsive man will sometimes choose to lose a friend rather than let go of a joke. It's definitely foolish to gain someone’s hatred just for a moment of fun. Brunel, the engineer, who was known for being kind, once said that "spite and bad temper are some of the most costly luxuries in life." Dr. Johnson also stated: "Sir, a man has no more right to say something uncivil than to do something uncivil—no more right to say a rude thing to someone than to knock him down."

A sensible polite person does not assume to be better or wiser or richer than his neighbour. He does not boast of his rank, or his birth, or his country; or look down upon others because they have not been born to like privileges with himself. He does not brag of his achievements or of his calling, or "talk shop" whenever he opens his mouth. On the contrary, in all that he says or does, he will be modest, unpretentious, unassuming; exhibiting his true character in performing rather than in boasting, in doing rather than in talking.

A sensible, polite person doesn’t think they’re better, wiser, or richer than their neighbor. They don’t brag about their status, family background, or nationality, or look down on others because they haven’t enjoyed the same privileges. They don’t boast about their achievements or their job, or "talk shop" every time they speak. Instead, everything they say or do is modest, unpretentious, and unassuming; their true character shines through in their actions rather than in boasting, in doing rather than in talking.

Want of respect for the feelings of others usually originates in selfishness, and issues in hardness and repulsiveness of manner. It may not proceed from malignity so much as from want of sympathy and want of delicacy—a want of that perception of, and attention to, those little and apparently trifling things by which pleasure is given or pain occasioned to others. Indeed, it may be said that in self-sacrificingness, so to speak, in the ordinary intercourse of life, mainly consists the difference between being well and ill bred.

Disrespect for other people's feelings usually comes from selfishness and leads to a cold and unwelcoming demeanor. It may not stem from malice as much as from a lack of empathy and sensitivity—a failure to notice and care about the small, seemingly insignificant things that can bring joy or cause hurt to others. In fact, it's often said that having a willingness to put others first in our everyday interactions is what primarily distinguishes good manners from bad manners.

Without some degree of self-restraint in society, a man may be found almost insufferable. No one has pleasure in holding intercourse with such a person, and he is a constant source of annoyance to those about him. For want of self-restraint, many men are engaged all their lives in fighting with difficulties of their own making, and rendering success impossible by their own crossgrained ungentleness; whilst others, it may be much less gifted, make their way and achieve success by simple patience, equanimity, and self-control.

Without some level of self-control in society, a person can be nearly unbearable. Nobody enjoys interacting with someone like that, and they become a constant source of irritation to those around them. Due to a lack of self-restraint, many people spend their entire lives struggling with challenges they created themselves, making success impossible because of their own stubbornness and unkindness; meanwhile, others—who might be much less talented—find their path and achieve success through simple patience, calmness, and self-discipline.

It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their temper as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that their happiness depends mainly on their temperament, especially upon their disposition to be cheerful; upon their complaisance, kindliness of manner, and willingness to oblige others—details of conduct which are like the small-change in the intercourse of life, and are always in request.

It’s been said that men achieve success in life just as much through their temperament as their talents. Whatever the case may be, it’s clear that their happiness largely hinges on their temperament, particularly their tendency to be cheerful; their agreeableness, kindness, and willingness to help others—these are the small gestures that are always valued in social interactions.

Men may show their disregard of others in various unpolite ways—as, for instance, by neglect of propriety in dress, by the absence of cleanliness, or by indulging in repulsive habits. The slovenly dirty person, by rendering himself physically disagreeable, sets the tastes and feelings of others at defiance, and is rude and uncivil only under another form.

Men can show their disregard for others in a variety of rude ways—like by not dressing appropriately, being unclean, or engaging in unpleasant habits. A messy, dirty person makes themselves physically unappealing, dismissing the preferences and feelings of others, and is simply being rude and impolite in a different form.

David Ancillon, a Huguenot preacher of singular attractiveness, who studied and composed his sermons with the greatest care, was accustomed to say "that it was showing too little esteem for the public to take no pains in preparation, and that a man who should appear on a ceremonial-day in his nightcap and dressing-gown, could not commit a greater breach of civility."

David Ancillon, a striking Huguenot preacher who carefully studied and crafted his sermons, often said that it showed a lack of respect for the audience to not put in effort for preparation. He believed that a person showing up on a ceremonial day in their nightcap and bathrobe would be committing an even greater rudeness.

The perfection of manner is ease—that it attracts no man's notice as such, but is natural and unaffected. Artifice is incompatible with courteous frankness of manner. Rochefoucauld has said that "nothing so much prevents our being natural as the desire of appearing so." Thus we come round again to sincerity and truthfulness, which find their outward expression in graciousness, urbanity, kindliness, and consideration for the feelings of others. The frank and cordial man sets those about him at their ease. He warms and elevates them by his presence, and wins all hearts. Thus manner, in its highest form, like character, becomes a genuine motive power.

The key to perfect manners is being relaxed—so it doesn’t draw attention to itself but feels natural and genuine. Pretentiousness doesn’t mix well with polite honesty. Rochefoucauld once said, "Nothing stops us from being natural like the wish to seem that way." This brings us back to sincerity and honesty, which show themselves through kindness, politeness, warmth, and consideration for others' feelings. A straightforward and friendly person makes those around them feel comfortable. They uplift those in their company and earn everyone's affection. In this way, manners can become a true source of influence, just like character.

"The love and admiration," says Canon Kingsley, "which that truly brave and loving man, Sir Sydney Smith, won from every one, rich and poor, with whom he came in contact seems to have arisen from the one fact, that without, perhaps, having any such conscious intention, he treated rich and poor, his own servants and the noblemen his guests, alike, and alike courteously, considerately, cheerfully, affectionately—so leaving a blessing, and reaping a blessing, wherever he went."

"The love and admiration," says Canon Kingsley, "that the truly brave and loving man, Sir Sydney Smith, earned from everyone, rich and poor, he interacted with seems to have come from the simple fact that, perhaps without even intending to, he treated both the rich and the poor, his own servants and the noblemen who were his guests, equally, and with the same courtesy, thoughtfulness, cheerfulness, and warmth—thus leaving a blessing and receiving a blessing wherever he went."

Good manners are usually supposed to be the peculiar characteristic of persons gently born and bred, and of persons moving in the higher rather than in the lower spheres of society. And this is no doubt to a great extent true, because of the more favourable surroundings of the former in early life. But there is no reason why the poorest classes should not practise good manners towards each other as well as the richest.

Good manners are generally seen as a trait of those who come from a well-off background and those who belong to higher social circles. While this is often true, mainly due to the better upbringing of the former, there’s no reason why even the poorest people can’t show good manners to one another, just like the wealthiest do.

Men who toil with their hands, equally with those who do not, may respect themselves and respect one another; and it is by their demeanour to each other—in other words, by their manners—that self-respect as well as mutual respect are indicated. There is scarcely a moment in their lives, the enjoyment of which might not be enhanced by kindliness of this sort—in the workshop, in the street, or at home. The civil workman will exercise increased power amongst his class, and gradually induce them to imitate him by his persistent steadiness, civility, and kindness. Thus Benjamin Franklin, when a working-man, is said to have reformed the habits of an entire workshop.

Men who work with their hands, just like those who don’t, can respect themselves and each other; and it’s through their behavior towards one another—in other words, through their manners—that self-respect and mutual respect are shown. There’s hardly a moment in their lives that wouldn’t be better with this kind of kindness—whether at work, on the street, or at home. A polite worker will gain more influence among his peers and gradually encourage them to follow his example through his consistent hard work, politeness, and kindness. For instance, Benjamin Franklin, when he was a laborer, is said to have transformed the habits of an entire workshop.

One may be polite and gentle with very little money in his purse. Politeness goes far, yet costs nothing. It is the cheapest of all commodities. It is the humblest of the fine arts, yet it is so useful and so pleasure-giving, that it might almost be ranked amongst the humanities.

One can be polite and kind even with very little money in their wallet. Politeness goes a long way, yet it doesn't cost a thing. It's the cheapest of all goods. It’s the simplest of the fine arts, yet it’s so useful and brings so much joy that it could almost be considered one of the humanities.

Every nation may learn something of others; and if there be one thing more than another that the English working-class might afford to copy with advantage from their Continental neighbours, it is their politeness. The French and Germans, of even the humblest classes, are gracious in manner, complaisant, cordial, and well-bred. The foreign workman lifts his cap and respectfully salutes his fellow-workman in passing. There is no sacrifice of manliness in this, but grace and dignity. Even the lowest poverty of the foreign workpeople is not misery, simply because it is cheerful. Though not receiving one-half the income which our working-classes do, they do not sink into wretchedness and drown their troubles in drink; but contrive to make the best of life, and to enjoy it even amidst poverty.

Every country can learn from others, and if there's one thing the English working class could benefit from adopting from their Continental neighbors, it's their politeness. The French and Germans, even from the most humble backgrounds, are gracious, accommodating, friendly, and well-mannered. The foreign worker tips his cap and respectfully greets his fellow worker when passing by. This doesn’t compromise their manliness; it shows grace and dignity. Even the most severe poverty among foreign workers doesn’t equate to misery, simply because they maintain a cheerful outlook. Although they earn less than half of what our working class does, they don't fall into despair or drown their troubles in alcohol; they find ways to make the best of life and enjoy it even in hardship.

Good taste is a true economist. It may be practised on small means, and sweeten the lot of labour as well as of ease. It is all the more enjoyed, indeed, when associated with industry and the performance of duty. Even the lot of poverty is elevated by taste. It exhibits itself in the economies of the household. It gives brightness and grace to the humblest dwelling. It produces refinement, it engenders goodwill, and creates an atmosphere of cheerfulness. Thus good taste, associated with kindliness, sympathy, and intelligence, may elevate and adorn even the lowliest lot.

Good taste is a true economic skill. It can be practiced with limited resources and can enhance both hard work and leisure. In fact, it’s often more appreciated when paired with diligence and responsibility. Even in poverty, good taste can uplift one’s situation. It shows up in how households are managed. It brings brightness and elegance to the simplest homes. It fosters sophistication, cultivates goodwill, and creates a cheerful environment. So, good taste, combined with kindness, empathy, and intelligence, can elevate and beautify even the most modest circumstances.

The first and best school of manners, as of character, is always the Home, where woman is the teacher. The manners of society at large are but the reflex of the manners of our collective homes, neither better nor worse. Yet, with all the disadvantages of ungenial homes, men may practise self-culture of manner as of intellect, and learn by good examples to cultivate a graceful and agreeable behaviour towards others. Most men are like so many gems in the rough, which need polishing by contact with other and better natures, to bring out their full beauty and lustre. Some have but one side polished, sufficient only to show the delicate graining of the interior; but to bring out the full qualities of the gem needs the discipline of experience, and contact with the best examples of character in the intercourse of daily life.

The first and best place to learn manners and develop character is always at home, where women serve as the teachers. The manners of society as a whole simply reflect those of our households—neither better nor worse. However, despite the challenges of less-than-welcoming homes, men can work on refining their manners just as they do their intellect and can learn from good examples to develop graceful and pleasant behavior toward others. Most men are like rough diamonds that need to be polished through interactions with better people to reveal their full beauty and shine. Some may only have one side that is polished, enough to show the fine details inside, but fully exposing the qualities of the gem requires the discipline of experience and contact with the best examples of character in everyday interactions.

A good deal of the success of manner consists in tact, and it is because women, on the whole, have greater tact than men, that they prove its most influential teachers. They have more self-restraint than men, and are naturally more gracious and polite. They possess an intuitive quickness and readiness of action, have a keener insight into character, and exhibit greater discrimination and address. In matters of social detail, aptness and dexterity come to them like nature; and hence well-mannered men usually receive their best culture by mixing in the society of gentle and adroit women.

A lot of the success of good manners comes from tact, and it's because women generally have more tact than men that they become the most effective teachers of it. They tend to have more self-control than men and are naturally more gracious and polite. They have an instinctive quickness and readiness to act, a sharper insight into character, and show greater discernment and skill. When it comes to social nuances, they are naturally adept and nimble; therefore, well-mannered men often improve the most by socializing with kind and skilled women.

Tact is an intuitive art of manner, which carries one through a difficulty better than either talent or knowledge. "Talent," says a public writer, "is power: tact is skill. Talent is weight: tact is momentum. Talent knows what to do: tact knows how to do it. Talent makes a man respectable: tact makes him respected. Talent is wealth: tact is ready-money."

Tact is an intuitive skill in behavior that helps a person navigate challenges better than talent or knowledge. "Talent," as one public writer put it, "is power; tact is skill. Talent is weight; tact is momentum. Talent knows what to do; tact knows how to do it. Talent makes someone respectable; tact makes them respected. Talent is wealth; tact is cash on hand."

The difference between a man of quick tact and of no tact whatever was exemplified in an interview which once took place between Lord Palmerston and Mr. Behnes, the sculptor. At the last sitting which Lord Palmerston gave him, Behnes opened the conversation with—"Any news, my Lord, from France? How do we stand with Louis Napoleon?" The Foreign Secretary raised his eyebrows for an instant, and quietly replied, "Really, Mr. Behnes, I don't know: I have not seen the newspapers!" Poor Behnes, with many excellent qualities and much real talent, was one of the many men who entirely missed their way in life through want of tact.

The difference between a man with good instincts and one with no instincts at all was shown in an interview that happened between Lord Palmerston and Mr. Behnes, the sculptor. During their last meeting, Behnes started the conversation with, "Any news, my Lord, from France? What’s our situation with Louis Napoleon?" The Foreign Secretary raised his eyebrows for a moment and calmly replied, "Honestly, Mr. Behnes, I don’t know; I haven’t seen the newspapers!" Poor Behnes, who had many great qualities and real talent, was one of those people who completely lost their way in life due to a lack of tact.

Such is the power of manner, combined with tact, that Wilkes, one of the ugliest of men, used to say, that in winning the graces of a lady, there was not more than three days' difference between him and the handsomest man in England.

Such is the power of charm, combined with finesse, that Wilkes, one of the ugliest men, used to say that when it came to winning a woman's affection, there was no more than a three-day difference between him and the most handsome man in England.

But this reference to Wilkes reminds us that too much importance must not be attached to manner, for it does not afford any genuine test of character. The well-mannered man may, like Wilkes, be merely acting a part, and that for an immoral purpose. Manner, like other fine arts, gives pleasure, and is exceedingly agreeable to look upon; but it may be assumed as a disguise, as men "assume a virtue though they have it not." It is but the exterior sign of good conduct, but may be no more than skin-deep. The most highly-polished person may be thoroughly depraved in heart; and his superfine manners may, after all, only consist in pleasing gestures and in fine phrases.

But this mention of Wilkes reminds us that we shouldn't place too much importance on manners, as they don't really reflect a person's true character. A well-mannered person can, like Wilkes, just be playing a role for selfish reasons. Manners, like other refined arts, are enjoyable and pleasing to observe; however, they can also be used as a mask, as people "act virtuous even when they're not." It's merely an outward sign of good behavior, but it can be just superficial. The most polished person can have a deeply corrupted heart, and their refined manners might just be about charming gestures and fancy words.

On the other hand, it must be acknowledged that some of the richest and most generous natures have been wanting in the graces of courtesy and politeness. As a rough rind sometimes covers the sweetest fruit, so a rough exterior often conceals a kindly and hearty nature. The blunt man may seem even rude in manner, and yet, at heart, be honest, kind, and gentle.

On the other hand, it's important to recognize that some of the wealthiest and kindest people lack the qualities of courtesy and politeness. Just as a tough skin can cover the sweetest fruit, a rough exterior can often hide a warm and genuine personality. A straightforward person may come across as rude, yet deep down, they can be honest, kind, and gentle.

John Knox and Martin Luther were by no means distinguished for their urbanity. They had work to do which needed strong and determined rather than well-mannered men. Indeed, they were both thought to be unnecessarily harsh and violent in their manner. "And who art thou," said Mary Queen of Scots to Knox, "that presumest to school the nobles and sovereign of this realm?"—"Madam," replied Knox, "a subject born within the same." It is said that his boldness, or roughness, more than once made Queen Mary weep. When Regent Morton heard of this, he said, "Well, 'tis better that women should weep than bearded men."

John Knox and Martin Luther weren't exactly known for their politeness. They had important work to do that required strong and determined individuals rather than polite ones. In fact, many considered them unnecessarily harsh and aggressive. "And who are you," Mary, Queen of Scots, asked Knox, "to presume to teach the nobles and ruler of this realm?"—"Madam," Knox replied, "I am a subject born within the same." It’s said that his boldness, or bluntness, made Queen Mary cry more than once. When Regent Morton heard this, he remarked, "Well, it's better for women to weep than for bearded men."

As Knox was retiring from the Queen's presence on one occasion, he overheard one of the royal attendants say to another, "He is not afraid!" Turning round upon them, he said: "And why should the pleasing face of a gentleman frighten me? I have looked on the faces of angry men, and yet have not been afraid beyond measure." When the Reformer, worn-out by excess of labour and anxiety, was at length laid to his rest, the Regent, looking down into the open grave, exclaimed, in words which made a strong impression from their aptness and truth—"There lies he who never feared the face of man!"

As Knox was leaving the Queen's presence one time, he overheard one of the royal attendants say to another, "He's not scared!" Turning to them, he replied, "And why should the friendly face of a gentleman scare me? I've faced angry men and haven't been overly afraid." When the Reformer, exhausted from too much work and worry, finally rested, the Regent, looking into the open grave, exclaimed with words that left a lasting impression because they were so fitting and true, "There lies the man who never feared anyone!"

Luther also was thought by some to be a mere compound of violence and ruggedness. But, as in the case of Knox, the times in which he lived were rude and violent; and the work he had to do could scarcely have been accomplished with gentleness and suavity. To rouse Europe from its lethargy, he had to speak and to write with force, and even vehemence. Yet Luther's vehemence was only in words. His apparently rude exterior covered a warm heart. In private life he was gentle, loving, and affectionate. He was simple and homely, even to commonness. Fond of all common pleasures and enjoyments, he was anything but an austere man, or a bigot; for he was hearty, genial, and even "jolly." Luther was the common people's hero in his lifetime, and he remains so in Germany to this day.

Some people saw Luther as nothing more than a mix of aggression and toughness. However, like Knox, he lived in a harsh and violent time; the work he needed to do couldn't have been done gently or politely. To wake Europe from its slumber, he had to speak and write with intensity and even passion. Yet, Luther's passion was only verbal. Beneath his seemingly rough exterior was a warm heart. In his personal life, he was kind, loving, and affectionate. He was straightforward and down-to-earth, almost ordinary. Enjoying all simple pleasures and pastimes, he was far from being a strict or narrow-minded person; instead, he was hearty, friendly, and even "cheerful." Luther was a hero of the common people during his lifetime, and he remains one in Germany to this day.

Samuel Johnson was rude and often gruff in manner. But he had been brought up in a rough school. Poverty in early life had made him acquainted with strange companions. He had wandered in the streets with Savage for nights together, unable between them to raise money enough to pay for a bed. When his indomitable courage and industry at length secured for him a footing in society, he still bore upon him the scars of his early sorrows and struggles. He was by nature strong and robust, and his experience made him unaccommodating and self-asserting. When he was once asked why he was not invited to dine out as Garrick was, he answered, "Because great lords and ladies did not like to have their mouths stopped;" and Johnson was a notorious mouth-stopper, though what he said was always worth listening to.

Samuel Johnson was often rude and gruff. But he grew up in a tough environment. Poverty in his early life had familiarized him with some unusual companions. He had spent nights wandering the streets with Savage, unable to gather enough money between them to afford a bed. When his relentless courage and hard work finally earned him a place in society, he still carried the scars of his early hardships and battles. He was naturally strong and robust, and his experiences made him uncompromising and assertive. When he was once asked why he wasn’t invited to dinner parties like Garrick, he replied, "Because the great lords and ladies didn’t like to have their mouths shut;" and Johnson was well known for being a conversation-stopper, though what he said was always worth listening to.

Johnson's companions spoke of him as "Ursa Major;" but, as Goldsmith generously said of him, "No man alive has a more tender heart; he has nothing of the bear about him but his skin." The kindliness of Johnson's nature was shown on one occasion by the manner in which he assisted a supposed lady in crossing Fleet Street. He gave her his arm, and led her across, not observing that she was in liquor at the time. But the spirit of the act was not the less kind on that account. On the other hand, the conduct of the bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit employment, and who, regarding his athletic but uncouth person, told him he had better "go buy a porter's knot and carry trunks," in howsoever bland tones the advice might have been communicated, was simply brutal.

Johnson's friends referred to him as "Ursa Major," but as Goldsmith generously said, "No man alive has a more tender heart; he has nothing of the bear about him but his skin." Johnson's kindness was evident when he once helped a supposed lady cross Fleet Street. He offered her his arm and guided her across, not realizing she was drunk at the time. Nonetheless, the spirit of the act was just as kind. On the other hand, the response of the bookseller Johnson approached for a job, who, judging his strong but awkward appearance, told him he would be better off "buying a porter's knot and carrying trunks," no matter how politely it was said, was nothing short of brutal.

While captiousness of manner, and the habit of disputing and contradicting everything said, is chilling and repulsive, the opposite habit of assenting to, and sympathising with, every statement made, or emotion expressed, is almost equally disagreeable. It is unmanly, and is felt to be dishonest. "It may seem difficult," says Richard Sharp, "to steer always between bluntness and plain-dealing, between giving merited praise and lavishing indiscriminate flattery; but it is very easy—good-humour, kindheartedness, and perfect simplicity, being all that are requisite to do what is right in the right way." 183

While being overly critical and constantly arguing against everything said is off-putting and annoying, the opposite behavior of agreeing with and supporting every statement or emotion expressed is nearly just as unpleasant. It's unmanly and comes across as dishonest. "It may seem difficult," says Richard Sharp, "to always find the balance between being blunt and being straightforward, between giving well-deserved praise and just handing out empty compliments; but it's actually quite simple—good humor, kindness, and complete honesty are all that's needed to do what's right in the right way." 183

At the same time, many are unpolite—not because they mean to be so, but because they are awkward, and perhaps know no better. Thus, when Gibbon had published the second and third volumes of his 'Decline and Fall,' the Duke of Cumberland met him one day, and accosted him with, "How do you do, Mr. Gibbon? I see you are always AT IT in the old way—SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE!" The Duke probably intended to pay the author a compliment, but did not know how better to do it, than in this blunt and apparently rude way.

At the same time, many people are rude—not because they want to be, but because they’re awkward and might not know any better. So, when Gibbon published the second and third volumes of his 'Decline and Fall,' the Duke of Cumberland ran into him one day and said, "How are you, Mr. Gibbon? I see you’re still at it in the old way—SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE!" The Duke likely meant to compliment the author, but didn’t know how to do it in a nicer way, so it came off as blunt and kind of rude.

Again, many persons are thought to be stiff, reserved, and proud, when they are only shy. Shyness is characteristic of most people of Teutonic race. It has been styled "the English mania," but it pervades, to a greater or less degree, all the Northern nations. The ordinary Englishman, when he travels abroad, carries his shyness with him. He is stiff, awkward, ungraceful, undemonstrative, and apparently unsympathetic; and though he may assume a brusqueness of manner, the shyness is there, and cannot be wholly concealed. The naturally graceful and intensely social French cannot understand such a character; and the Englishman is their standing joke—the subject of their most ludicrous caricatures. George Sand attributes the rigidity of the natives of Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they carry about with them, that renders them impassive under all circumstances, and "as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse as a mouse in the centre of an exhausted receiver." 184

Again, many people are seen as stiff, reserved, and proud when they are just shy. Shyness is common among most people of Teutonic descent. It's been called "the English mania," but it affects all Northern nations to varying degrees. The average Englishman traveling abroad brings his shyness with him. He appears stiff, awkward, ungraceful, unsociable, and seemingly unsympathetic; and even if he tries to act brusque, his shyness is still there and can't be completely hidden. The naturally graceful and highly social French struggle to understand such a personality; thus, the Englishman becomes the butt of their jokes and the subject of their most ridiculous caricatures. George Sand explains the stiffness of the natives of Albion as a result of a kind of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE that they carry with them, making them unresponsive in all situations and "as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse as a mouse in the center of an exhausted receiver." 184

The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman, German, or American in courtesy and ease of manner, simply because it is his nature. They are more social and less self-dependent than men of Teutonic origin, more demonstrative and less reticent; they are more communicative, conversational, and freer in their intercourse with each other in all respects; whilst men of German race are comparatively stiff, reserved, shy, and awkward. At the same time, a people may exhibit ease, gaiety, and sprightliness of character, and yet possess no deeper qualities calculated to inspire respect. They may have every grace of manner, and yet be heartless, frivolous, selfish. The character may be on the surface only, and without any solid qualities for a foundation.

The average Frenchman or Irishman is friendlier and more relaxed than the average Englishman, German, or American, simply because that’s their nature. They tend to be more social and less independent than people of Teutonic descent, more expressive and less reserved; they are more open, talkative, and casual in their interactions with each other in every way, while German men are often more formal, reserved, shy, and awkward. However, a people can be easygoing, cheerful, and lively in character, yet lack deeper qualities that would earn respect. They might possess all the charm in the world and still be heartless, superficial, and selfish. Their character may be superficial, lacking any real qualities as a foundation.

There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of people—the easy and graceful, or the stiff and awkward—it is most agreeable to meet, either in business, in society, or in the casual intercourse of life. Which make the fastest friends, the truest men of their word, the most conscientious performers of their duty, is an entirely different matter.

There’s no question about which type of person is more pleasant to encounter—those who are easygoing and graceful or those who are stiff and awkward—whether in business, social settings, or everyday interactions. However, when it comes to who makes the quickest friends, the most reliable individuals, and the most diligent performers of their responsibilities, that’s a completely different issue.

The dry GAUCHE Englishman—to use the French phrase, L'ANGLAIS EMPETRE—is certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at first. He looks as if he had swallowed a poker. He is shy himself, and the cause of shyness in others. He is stiff, not because he is proud, but because he is shy; and he cannot shake it off, even if he would. Indeed, we should not be surprised to find that even the clever writer who describes the English Philistine in all his enormity of awkward manner and absence of grace, were himself as shy as a bat.

The uptight Englishman—using the French term, L'ANGLAIS EMPETRE—is definitely a bit unpleasant to deal with at first. He seems like he might have swallowed a poker. He’s awkward himself and makes others feel shy too. He’s stiff, not out of pride, but because he’s timid; and he can’t just shake it off, even if he wanted to. In fact, we wouldn’t be surprised if the clever writer who depicts the English Philistine in all his awkwardness and lack of grace is just as shy as a bat himself.

When two shy men meet, they seem like a couple of icicles. They sidle away and turn their backs on each other in a room, or when travelling creep into the opposite corners of a railway-carriage. When shy Englishmen are about to start on a journey by railway, they walk along the train, to discover an empty compartment in which to bestow themselves; and when once ensconced, they inwardly hate the next man who comes in. So; on entering the dining-room of their club, each shy man looks out for an unoccupied table, until sometimes—all the tables in the room are occupied by single diners. All this apparent unsociableness is merely shyness—the national characteristic of the Englishman.

When two shy guys meet, they act like a couple of icicles. They sneak away and turn their backs on each other in a room, or when traveling, they creep into opposite corners of a train carriage. When shy Englishmen are about to head out on a train journey, they walk along the train to find an empty compartment where they can settle in; and once they're in, they secretly resent the next person who comes in. Similarly, when they enter the dining room of their club, each shy guy scans for an empty table, until sometimes—all the tables in the room are taken by solo diners. This apparent lack of sociability is just shyness—the national trait of the Englishman.

"The disciples of Confucius," observes Mr. Arthur Helps, "say that when in the presence of the prince, his manner displayed RESPECTFUL UNEASINESS. There could hardly be given any two words which more fitly describe the manner of most Englishmen when in society." Perhaps it is due to this feeling that Sir Henry Taylor, in his 'Statesman,' recommends that, in the management of interviews, the minister should be as "near to the door" as possible; and, instead of bowing his visitor out, that he should take refuge, at the end of an interview, in the adjoining room. "Timid and embarrassed men," he says, "will sit as if they were rooted to the spot, when they are conscious that they have to traverse the length of a room in their retreat. In every case, an interview will find a more easy and pleasing termination WHEN THE DOOR IS AT HAND as the last words are spoken." 185

"The followers of Confucius," notes Mr. Arthur Helps, "say that when in the presence of the prince, his demeanor showed a RESPECTFUL UNEASINESS. It's hard to find two words that better describe how most Englishmen behave in social situations." Perhaps this feeling is why Sir Henry Taylor, in his 'Statesman,' suggests that when managing meetings, the minister should stay as "close to the door" as possible; instead of bowing his guest out, he should escape to the next room at the end of a meeting. "Timid and awkward men," he says, "will sit as if they were glued to their seats when they realize they have to cross the length of the room to leave. In every case, a meeting will come to a smoother and more pleasant end WHEN THE DOOR IS NEAR as the last words are exchanged." 185

The late Prince Albert, one of the gentlest and most amiable, was also one of the most retiring of men. He struggled much against his sense of shyness, but was never able either to conquer or conceal it. His biographer, in explaining its causes, says: "It was the shyness of a very delicate nature, that is not sure it will please, and is without the confidence and the vanity which often go to form characters that are outwardly more genial." 186

The late Prince Albert, one of the kindest and most friendly individuals, was also one of the most reserved. He fought hard against his feelings of shyness but could never fully overcome or hide it. His biographer explains its origins, saying: "It was the shyness of a very sensitive nature, unsure if it would be pleasing, lacking the confidence and vanity that often contribute to personalities that seem more outwardly friendly." 186

But the Prince shared this defect with some of the greatest of Englishmen. Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his age. He kept secret for a time some of his greatest discoveries, for fear of the notoriety they might bring him. His discovery of the Binomial Theorem and its most important applications, as well as his still greater discovery of the Law of Gravitation, were not published for years after they were made; and when he communicated to Collins his solution of the theory of the moon's rotation round the earth, he forbade him to insert his name in connection with it in the 'Philosophical Transactions,' saying: "It would, perhaps, increase my acquaintance—the thing which I chiefly study to decline."

But the Prince shared this flaw with some of the greatest Englishmen. Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his time. He kept some of his biggest discoveries secret for a while, worried about the fame they might bring him. His discovery of the Binomial Theorem and its most important uses, as well as his even greater discovery of the Law of Gravitation, weren’t published for years after he made them; and when he shared with Collins his solution to the theory of the moon's rotation around the earth, he asked him not to include his name in the 'Philosophical Transactions,' saying: "It would, perhaps, increase my acquaintance—the thing which I mainly try to avoid."

From all that can be learnt of Shakspeare, it is to be inferred that he was an exceedingly shy man. The manner in which his plays were sent into the world—for it is not known that he edited or authorized the publication of a single one of them—and the dates at which they respectively appeared, are mere matters of conjecture. His appearance in his own plays in second and even third-rate parts—his indifference to reputation, and even his apparent aversion to be held in repute by his contemporaries—his disappearance from London [18the seat and centre of English histrionic art] so soon as he had realised a moderate competency—and his retirement about the age of forty, for the remainder of his days, to a life of obscurity in a small town in the midland counties—all seem to unite in proving the shrinking nature of the man, and his unconquerable shyness.

From everything we know about Shakespeare, it's clear that he was a very shy person. The way his plays were released into the world—since there's no evidence that he edited or approved the publication of any of them—and the specific dates they were published are all just guesses. His roles in his own plays, often in minor parts, his lack of concern for his reputation, and even his apparent dislike of being well-regarded by his peers—along with his departure from London [18the seat and center of English theater] as soon as he achieved a comfortable lifestyle—and his retirement around the age of forty to live a quiet life in a small town in the Midlands, all seem to point to his introverted nature and his unchangeable shyness.

It is also probable that, besides being shy—and his shyness may, like that of Byron, have been increased by his limp—Shakspeare did not possess in any high degree the gift of hope. It is a remarkable circumstance, that whilst the great dramatist has, in the course of his writings, copiously illustrated all other gifts, affections, and virtues, the passages are very rare in which Hope is mentioned, and then it is usually in a desponding and despairing tone, as when he says:

It’s likely that, in addition to being shy—his shyness may have been heightened by his limp like Byron’s—Shakespeare didn’t really have a strong sense of hope. It’s interesting to note that while the great playwright richly illustrated all other talents, feelings, and virtues throughout his works, he rarely mentions Hope, and when he does, it’s often in a gloomy and hopeless way, as when he says:

      "The miserable hath no other medicine, But only Hope."
      "The miserable have no other remedy, but just Hope."

Many of his sonnets breathe the spirit of despair and hopelessness. 187 He laments his lameness; 188 apologizes for his profession as an actor; 189 expresses his "fear of trust" in himself, and his hopeless, perhaps misplaced, affection; 1810 anticipates a "coffin'd doom;" and utters his profoundly pathetic cry "for restful death."

Many of his sonnets reflect feelings of despair and hopelessness. 187 He mourns his limitations; 188 apologizes for being an actor; 189 shares his "fear of trust" in himself, and his hopeless, maybe misguided, love; 1810 foresees a "coffin'd doom;" and expresses his deeply sad plea "for restful death."

It might naturally be supposed that Shakspeare's profession of an actor, and his repeated appearances in public, would speedily overcome his shyness, did such exist. But inborn shyness, when strong, is not so easily conquered. 1811 Who could have believed that the late Charles Mathews, who entertained crowded houses night after night, was naturally one of the shyest of men? He would even make long circuits [18lame though he was] along the byelanes of London to avoid recognition. His wife says of him, that he looked "sheepish" and confused if recognised; and that his eyes would fall, and his colour would mount, if he heard his name even whispered in passing along the streets. 1812

It might be assumed that Shakespeare's job as an actor and his frequent appearances in public would quickly get rid of his shyness, if he had any. However, deep-rooted shyness, especially when it's intense, isn't so easily overcome. 1811 Who would have thought that the late Charles Mathews, who entertained full audiences night after night, was naturally one of the shyest people? He would even take long detours [18lame though he was] through the backstreets of London to avoid being recognized. His wife said that he looked "sheepish" and uneasy when someone recognized him, and that his gaze would drop and his cheeks would flush if he heard his name even whispered as he walked down the street. 1812

Nor would it at first sight have been supposed that Lord Byron was affected with shyness, and yet he was a victim to it; his biographer relating that, while on a visit to Mrs. Pigot, at Southwell, when he saw strangers approaching, he would instantly jump out of the window, and escape on to the lawn to avoid them.

It wouldn't have been obvious at first that Lord Byron was shy, but he really struggled with it. His biographer noted that when he visited Mrs. Pigot in Southwell and saw strangers coming, he would immediately jump out of the window and escape onto the lawn to avoid them.

But a still more recent and striking instance is that of the late Archbishop Whately, who, in the early part of his life, was painfully oppressed by the sense of shyness. When at Oxford, his white rough coat and white hat obtained for him the soubriquet of "The White Bear;" and his manners, according to his own account of himself, corresponded with the appellation. He was directed, by way of remedy, to copy the example of the best-mannered men he met in society; but the attempt to do this only increased his shyness, and he failed. He found that he was all the while thinking of himself, rather than of others; whereas thinking of others, rather than of one's self, is of the true essence of politeness.

But an even more recent and striking example is that of the late Archbishop Whately, who, during the early part of his life, struggled with intense shyness. While at Oxford, his white rough coat and white hat earned him the nickname "The White Bear," and his manners, according to his own description, matched the name. He was advised to follow the example of the most well-mannered people he encountered in society, but this attempt only made his shyness worse, and he couldn't succeed. He realized that he was constantly focused on himself instead of on others; however, true politeness comes from thinking about others rather than oneself.

Finding that he was making no progress, Whately was driven to utter despair; and then he said to himself: "Why should I endure this torture all my life to no purpose? I would bear it still if there was any success to be hoped for; but since there is not, I will die quietly, without taking any more doses. I have tried my very utmost, and find that I must be as awkward as a bear all my life, in spite of it. I will endeavour to think as little about it as a bear, and make up my mind to endure what can't be cured." From this time forth he struggled to shake off all consciousness as to manner, and to disregard censure as much as possible. In adopting this course, he says: "I succeeded beyond my expectations; for I not only got rid of the personal suffering of shyness, but also of most of those faults of manner which consciousness produces; and acquired at once an easy and natural manner—careless, indeed, in the extreme, from its originating in a stern defiance of opinion, which I had convinced myself must be ever against me; rough and awkward, for smoothness and grace are quite out of my way, and, of course, tutorially pedantic; but unconscious, and therefore giving expression to that goodwill towards men which I really feel; and these, I believe, are the main points." 1813

Realizing he was getting nowhere, Whately fell into deep despair. Then he thought to himself, "Why should I put up with this torture all my life for no reason? I could handle it if there was any chance of success, but there isn't, so I’ll just quietly accept my fate without taking any more meds. I've done everything I can, and it looks like I'm going to be as clumsy as a bear for the rest of my life, no matter what. I’ll try to think about it as little as a bear would, and just accept what can’t be changed." From that point on, he tried to let go of any awareness of his behavior and ignore judgment as much as possible. In taking this approach, he said: "I succeeded beyond my expectations; not only did I shake off the personal pain of shyness, but I also got rid of most of the awkwardness that self-consciousness brings. I developed an easy and natural style—indeed quite careless, since it came from a firm rejection of opinions that I had convinced myself would always be against me; rough and awkward, since smoothness and grace are just not my thing, and, naturally, a bit pedantic; but it was all unconscious, and therefore it reflected the genuine goodwill I have for others, which I truly feel. I believe these are the main points." 1813

Washington, who was an Englishman in his lineage, was also one in his shyness. He is described incidentally by Mr. Josiah Quincy, as "a little stiff in his person, not a little formal in his manner, and not particularly at ease in the presence of strangers. He had the air of a country gentleman not accustomed to mix much in society, perfectly polite, but not easy in his address and conversation, and not graceful in his movements."

Washington, who had English heritage, was also shy. Mr. Josiah Quincy describes him as "a little stiff in his posture, somewhat formal in his manner, and not particularly comfortable around strangers. He had the demeanor of a country gentleman not used to socializing much, perfectly polite but not at ease in his speech or conversation, and not graceful in his movements."

Although we are not accustomed to think of modern Americans as shy, the most distinguished American author of our time was probably the shyest of men. Nathaniel Hawthorne was shy to the extent of morbidity. We have observed him, when a stranger entered the room where he was, turn his back for the purpose of avoiding recognition. And yet, when the crust of his shyness was broken, no man could be more cordial and genial than Hawthorne.

Although we don't usually think of modern Americans as shy, the most notable American author of our time was probably the shyest person ever. Nathaniel Hawthorne was shy to an extreme degree. We've seen him turn his back when a stranger entered the room just to avoid being recognized. Yet, once you broke through his shyness, there was no one more warm and friendly than Hawthorne.

We observe a remark in one of Hawthorne's lately-published 'Notebooks,' 1814 that on one occasion he met Mr. Helps in society, and found him "cold." And doubtless Mr. Helps thought the same of him. It was only the case of two shy men meeting, each thinking the other stiff and reserved, and parting before their mutual film of shyness had been removed by a little friendly intercourse. Before pronouncing a hasty judgment in such cases, it would be well to bear in mind the motto of Helvetius, which Bentham says proved such a real treasure to him: "POUR AIMER LES HOMMES, IL FAUT ATTENDRE PEU."

We see a comment in one of Hawthorne's recently published 'Notebooks,' 1814 that one time he encountered Mr. Helps in social settings and found him "cold." And surely, Mr. Helps thought the same about him. It was just two shy people meeting, each believing the other was stiff and reserved, and parting ways before their shared awkwardness could be eased with a bit of friendly conversation. Before making a quick judgment in such situations, it's good to remember the saying of Helvetius, which Bentham said was such a valuable insight for him: "TO LOVE PEOPLE, YOU MUST EXPECT LITTLE."

We have thus far spoken of shyness as a defect. But there is another way of looking at it; for even shyness has its bright side, and contains an element of good. Shy men and shy races are ungraceful and undemonstrative, because, as regards society at large, they are comparatively unsociable. They do not possess those elegances of manner, acquired by free intercourse, which distinguish the social races, because their tendency is to shun society rather than to seek it. They are shy in the presence of strangers, and shy even in their own families. They hide their affections under a robe of reserve, and when they do give way to their feelings, it is only in some very hidden inner-chamber. And yet the feelings ARE there, and not the less healthy and genuine that they are not made the subject of exhibition to others.

So far, we've talked about shyness as a flaw. But there's another perspective to consider; even shyness has its positive side and includes a touch of good. Shy people and shy cultures can seem awkward and reserved because, when it comes to society as a whole, they tend to be less social. They lack the social graces developed through open interactions that characterize more outgoing groups, as they prefer to avoid social situations rather than seek them out. They feel uncomfortable around strangers and even within their own families. They keep their emotions hidden under a layer of restraint, and when they do express their feelings, it’s usually in a very private space. Nevertheless, those feelings are there, and they are just as healthy and genuine, even if they aren't shared openly with others.

It was not a little characteristic of the ancient Germans, that the more social and demonstrative peoples by whom they were surrounded should have characterised them as the NIEMEC, or Dumb men. And the same designation might equally apply to the modern English, as compared, for example, with their nimbler, more communicative and vocal, and in all respects more social neighbours, the modern French and Irish.

It was quite typical of the ancient Germans that the more social and expressive people around them called them the NIEMEC, or Dumb men. This label could also apply to modern English people when compared to their more lively, talkative, and generally more sociable neighbors, the modern French and Irish.

But there is one characteristic which marks the English people, as it did the races from which they have mainly sprung, and that is their intense love of Home. Give the Englishman a home, and he is comparatively indifferent to society. For the sake of a holding which he can call his own, he will cross the seas, plant himself on the prairie or amidst the primeval forest, and make for himself a home. The solitude of the wilderness has no fears for him; the society of his wife and family is sufficient, and he cares for no other. Hence it is that the people of Germanic origin, from whom the English and Americans have alike sprung, make the best of colonizers, and are now rapidly extending themselves as emigrants and settlers in all parts of the habitable globe.

But there's one trait that defines the English people, just like the races they primarily come from, and that's their deep love for home. Give an Englishman a home, and he’s pretty indifferent to society. For the sake of a place he can call his own, he’ll cross oceans, settle on the prairie, or in the heart of the forest, and create a home for himself. The solitude of the wilderness doesn’t scare him; the company of his wife and family is enough, and he doesn’t seek anything more. This is why people of Germanic origin, from whom both the English and Americans come, make the best colonizers and are rapidly expanding as emigrants and settlers in all parts of the inhabited world.

The French have never made any progress as colonizers, mainly because of their intense social instincts—the secret of their graces of manner,—and because they can never forget that they are Frenchmen. 1815 It seemed at one time within the limits of probability that the French would occupy the greater part of the North American continent. From Lower Canada their line of forts extended up the St. Lawrence, and from Fond du Lac on Lake Superior, along the River St. Croix, all down the Mississippi, to its mouth at New Orleans. But the great, self-reliant, industrious "Niemec," from a fringe of settlements along the seacoast, silently extended westward, settling and planting themselves everywhere solidly upon the soil; and nearly all that now remains of the original French occupation of America, is the French colony of Acadia, in Lower Canada.

The French have never really succeeded as colonizers, mostly because of their strong social instincts—the key to their charm—and because they can never forget that they are French. 1815 At one point, it seemed likely that the French would take over most of the North American continent. From Lower Canada, their network of forts stretched up the St. Lawrence River, and from Fond du Lac on Lake Superior, along the St. Croix River, all the way down the Mississippi to where it meets the Gulf of Mexico at New Orleans. But the hardworking, independent "Niemec," originating from a small number of settlements along the coast, quietly pushed westward, establishing themselves firmly on the land; and nearly all that remains of the original French presence in America is the French colony of Acadia in Lower Canada.

And even there we find one of the most striking illustrations of that intense sociability of the French which keeps them together, and prevents their spreading over and planting themselves firmly in a new country, as it is the instinct of the men of Teutonic race to do. While, in Upper Canada, the colonists of English and Scotch descent penetrate the forest and the wilderness, each settler living, it may be, miles apart from his nearest neighbour, the Lower Canadians of French descent continue clustered together in villages, usually consisting of a line of houses on either side of the road, behind which extend their long strips of farm-land, divided and subdivided to an extreme tenuity. They willingly submit to all the inconveniences of this method of farming for the sake of each other's society, rather than betake themselves to the solitary backwoods, as English, Germans, and Americans so readily do. Indeed, not only does the American backwoodsman become accustomed to solitude, but he prefers it. And in the Western States, when settlers come too near him, and the country seems to become "overcrowded," he retreats before the advance of society, and, packing up his "things" in a waggon, he sets out cheerfully, with his wife and family, to found for himself a new home in the Far West.

And even there we see one of the most striking examples of the intense sociability of the French, which keeps them close together and prevents them from spreading out and establishing themselves firmly in a new country, unlike the tendency of people of Teutonic descent. While in Upper Canada, colonists of English and Scottish descent venture into the forests and wilderness, with each settler living miles apart from their nearest neighbor, the Lower Canadians of French descent remain clustered in villages, typically consisting of a row of houses on each side of the road, behind which stretch their long, narrow strips of farmland, divided to a very fine degree. They willingly accept all the inconveniences of this farming method for the sake of each other’s company instead of moving out to the isolated backwoods, as the English, Germans, and Americans often do. In fact, not only does the American backwoodsman get used to being alone, but he even prefers it. In the Western States, when settlers come too close to him, and the area feels “overcrowded,” he moves away from the encroachment of society, packing up his things in a wagon and cheerfully setting out with his wife and family to build a new home in the Far West.

Thus the Teuton, because of his very shyness, is the true colonizer. English, Scotch, Germans, and Americans are alike ready to accept solitude, provided they can but establish a home and maintain a family. Thus their comparative indifference to society has tended to spread this race over the earth, to till and to subdue it; while the intense social instincts of the French, though issuing in much greater gracefulness of manner, has stood in their way as colonizers; so that, in the countries in which they have planted themselves—as in Algiers and elsewhere—they have remained little more than garrisons. 1816

Thus, the Teuton, due to his natural shyness, is the true colonizer. English, Scottish, Germans, and Americans all willingly accept solitude as long as they can create a home and raise a family. This relative indifference to society has helped spread this race across the globe to cultivate and conquer it. In contrast, the strong social instincts of the French, while resulting in a much more graceful demeanor, have hindered their ability as colonizers. In the places where they have settled—like Algiers and elsewhere—they have mostly stayed as garrisons. 1816

There are other qualities besides these, which grow out of the comparative unsociableness of the Englishman. His shyness throws him back upon himself, and renders him self-reliant and self-dependent. Society not being essential to his happiness, he takes refuge in reading, in study, in invention; or he finds pleasure in industrial work, and becomes the best of mechanics. He does not fear to entrust himself to the solitude of the ocean, and he becomes a fisherman, a sailor, a discoverer. Since the early Northmen scoured the northern seas, discovered America, and sent their fleets along the shores of Europe and up the Mediterranean, the seamanship of the men of Teutonic race has always been in the ascendant.

There are more qualities beyond these that stem from the Englishman's tendency to be unsociable. His shyness makes him turn inward, fostering his self-reliance and independence. Because he doesn’t need society for happiness, he seeks comfort in reading, study, and invention; he enjoys hands-on work and becomes an excellent craftsman. He isn’t afraid to embrace the solitude of the ocean and becomes a fisherman, sailor, or explorer. Since the early Norsemen navigated the northern seas, discovered America, and sent their fleets along Europe’s coasts and into the Mediterranean, the seamanship of Teutonic people has always been strong.

The English are inartistic for the same reason that they are unsociable. They may make good colonists, sailors, and mechanics; but they do not make good singers, dancers, actors, artistes, or modistes. They neither dress well, act well, speak well, nor write well. They want style—they want elegance. What they have to do they do in a straightforward manner, but without grace. This was strikingly exhibited at an International Cattle Exhibition held at Paris a few years ago. At the close of the Exhibition, the competitors came up with the prize animals to receive the prizes. First came a gay and gallant Spaniard, a magnificent man, beautifully dressed, who received a prize of the lowest class with an air and attitude that would have become a grandee of the highest order. Then came Frenchmen and Italians, full of grace, politeness, and CHIC—themselves elegantly dressed, and their animals decorated to the horns with flowers and coloured ribbons harmoniously blended. And last of all came the exhibitor who was to receive the first prize—a slouching man, plainly dressed, with a pair of farmer's gaiters on, and without even a flower in his buttonhole. "Who is he?" asked the spectators. "Why, he is the Englishman," was the reply. "The Englishman!—that the representative of a great country!" was the general exclamation. But it was the Englishman all over. He was sent there, not to exhibit himself, but to show "the best beast," and he did it, carrying away the first prize. Yet he would have been nothing the worse for the flower in his buttonhole.

The English lack an artistic flair for the same reason they tend to be unsociable. They may excel as colonists, sailors, and mechanics, but they're not known for their singing, dancing, acting, artistry, or fashion sense. They don’t dress well, perform well, speak well, or write well. They crave style—they desire elegance. What they do, they do in a straightforward way, but it lacks grace. This was clearly demonstrated at an International Cattle Exhibition held in Paris a few years ago. At the end of the Exhibition, the competitors came forward with their prize animals to receive their awards. First, there was a lively and dashing Spaniard, a striking man in fine clothing, who received a lower-tier prize with the demeanor and poise of a high-ranking nobleman. Next came the Frenchmen and Italians, exuding grace, politeness, and style, all dressed elegantly, with their animals adorned with flowers and colorful ribbons artfully arranged. Finally, there was the exhibitor set to receive the top prize—a slouching man, dressed plainly in farm-style gaiters, without even a flower in his lapel. "Who is he?" asked the spectators. "Oh, he's the Englishman," came the response. "The Englishman!—Is that really the representative of a great country?" was the collective reaction. But he was very much the Englishman. He was there not to showcase himself, but to present "the best beast," which he did, ultimately taking home the first prize. Still, a flower in his buttonhole wouldn’t have hurt.

To remedy this admitted defect of grace and want of artistic taste in the English people, a school has sprung up amongst us for the more general diffusion of fine art. The Beautiful has now its teachers and preachers, and by some it is almost regarded in the light of a religion. "The Beautiful is the Good"—"The Beautiful is the True"—"The Beautiful is the priest of the Benevolent," are among their texts. It is believed that by the study of art the tastes of the people may be improved; that by contemplating objects of beauty their nature will become purified; and that by being thereby withdrawn from sensual enjoyments, their character will be refined and elevated.

To address the acknowledged lack of elegance and artistic taste in the English people, a movement has emerged focused on spreading fine art more widely. The Beautiful now has its teachers and advocates, and for some, it's almost viewed as a form of religion. "The Beautiful is the Good"—"The Beautiful is the True"—"The Beautiful is the priest of the Benevolent" are some of their key beliefs. It's thought that by studying art, people's tastes can improve; that by reflecting on beautiful objects, their nature will become purer; and that by being removed from indulgent pleasures, their character will be refined and uplifted.

But though such culture is calculated to be elevating and purifying in a certain degree, we must not expect too much from it. Grace is a sweetener and embellisher of life, and as such is worthy of cultivation. Music, painting, dancing, and the fine arts, are all sources of pleasure; and though they may not be sensual, yet they are sensuous, and often nothing more. The cultivation of a taste for beauty of form or colour, of sound or attitude, has no necessary effect upon the cultivation of the mind or the development of the character. The contemplation of fine works of art will doubtless improve the taste, and excite admiration; but a single noble action done in the sight of men will more influence the mind, and stimulate the character to imitation, than the sight of miles of statuary or acres of pictures. For it is mind, soul, and heart—not taste or art—that make men great.

But even though this culture is meant to be uplifting and purifying to some extent, we shouldn’t expect too much from it. Grace enhances and beautifies life, making it worth pursuing. Music, painting, dancing, and the fine arts all provide enjoyment; and while they might not be purely sensual, they are still sensuous, often nothing more. Developing an appreciation for beauty in form, color, sound, or movement doesn’t automatically lead to a growth in intellect or character. Appreciating great works of art will certainly refine one’s taste and inspire admiration; however, a single noble act witnessed by others will have a greater impact on the mind and motivate character development more than endless statues or vast collections of paintings. It is mind, soul, and heart—not taste or art—that truly elevate individuals.

It is indeed doubtful whether the cultivation of art—which usually ministers to luxury—has done so much for human progress as is generally supposed. It is even possible that its too exclusive culture may effeminate rather than strengthen the character, by laying it more open to the temptations of the senses. "It is the nature of the imaginative temperament cultivated by the arts," says Sir Henry Taylor, "to undermine the courage, and, by abating strength of character, to render men more easily subservient—SEQUACES, CEREOS, ET AD MANDATA DUCTILES." 1817 The gift of the artist greatly differs from that of the thinker; his highest idea is to mould his subject—whether it be of painting, or music, or literature—into that perfect grace of form in which thought [18it may not be of the deepest] finds its apotheosis and immortality.

It’s really uncertain whether the development of art—which often caters to luxury—has contributed as much to human progress as people typically believe. It might even be that its overly exclusive focus could weaken rather than strengthen character by making it more vulnerable to sensory temptations. “The imaginative temperament shaped by the arts,” says Sir Henry Taylor, “tends to undermine courage and, by diminishing strength of character, makes people more easily submissive—SEQUACES, CEREOS, ET AD MANDATA DUCTILES.” 1817 The artist's talent is quite different from that of the thinker; the artist’s ultimate goal is to shape their subject—whether it’s painting, music, or literature—into that perfect form where thought, even if not the deepest, achieves its ideal and lasting expression.

Art has usually flourished most during the decadence of nations, when it has been hired by wealth as the minister of luxury. Exquisite art and degrading corruption were contemporary in Greece as well as in Rome. Phidias and Iktinos had scarcely completed the Parthenon, when the glory of Athens had departed; Phidias died in prison; and the Spartans set up in the city the memorials of their own triumph and of Athenian defeat. It was the same in ancient Rome, where art was at its greatest height when the people were in their most degraded condition. Nero was an artist, as well as Domitian, two of the greatest monsters of the Empire. If the "Beautiful" had been the "Good," Commodus must have been one of the best of men. But according to history he was one of the worst.

Art has often thrived the most during the decline of nations, when it’s been used by wealth as a tool for luxury. Amazing art and moral corruption existed side by side in both Greece and Rome. Phidias and Iktinos had just finished the Parthenon when Athens had lost its greatness; Phidias ended up in prison, and the Spartans erected monuments in the city to celebrate their victory and Athens’ defeat. The same was true in ancient Rome, where art reached its peak while the people were at their lowest. Nero was an artist, as was Domitian, two of the worst tyrants of the Empire. If the “Beautiful” were the same as the “Good,” Commodus would have been one of the finest men. But according to history, he was one of the worst.

Again, the greatest period of modern Roman art was that in which Pope Leo X. flourished, of whose reign it has been said, that "profligacy and licentiousness prevailed amongst the people and clergy, as they had done almost uncontrolled ever since the pontificate of Alexander VI." In like manner, the period at which art reached its highest point in the Low Countries was that which immediately succeeded the destruction of civil and religious liberty, and the prostration of the national life under the despotism of Spain. If art could elevate a nation, and the contemplation of The Beautiful were calculated to make men The Good—then Paris ought to contain a population of the wisest and best of human beings. Rome also is a great city of art; and yet there, the VIRTUS or valour of the ancient Romans has characteristically degenerated into VERTU, or a taste for knicknacks; whilst, according to recent accounts, the city itself is inexpressibly foul. 1818

Again, the peak of modern Roman art occurred during the time of Pope Leo X, whose reign is noted for "widespread debauchery and moral decay among both the people and the clergy, as it had been almost unchecked since the papacy of Alexander VI." Similarly, the era when art flourished in the Low Countries came right after the collapse of civil and religious freedoms, along with the national spirit being crushed under Spanish rule. If art could uplift a nation, and if appreciating beauty could lead people to be good, then Paris should be home to the smartest and kindest individuals. Rome is also a major center of art; however, there, the bravery of the ancient Romans has notably declined into a mere preference for collectibles, while recent reports indicate that the city itself is incredibly dirty. 1818

Art would sometimes even appear to have a close connection with dirt; and it is said of Mr. Ruskin, that when searching for works of art in Venice, his attendant in his explorations would sniff an ill-odour, and when it was strong would say, "Now we are coming to something very old and fine!"—meaning in art. 1819 A little common education in cleanliness, where it is wanting, would probably be much more improving, as well as wholesome, than any amount of education in fine art. Ruffles are all very well, but it is folly to cultivate them to the neglect of the shirt.

Art sometimes seems to have a close connection with dirt; it's said that when Mr. Ruskin was looking for works of art in Venice, his assistant would catch a whiff of something unpleasant, and when it got stronger, he'd say, "Now we're getting close to something very old and great!"—referring to art. 1819 A little basic education on cleanliness, where it's lacking, would probably be much more beneficial and healthier than any amount of education in fine art. Ruffles are nice, but it's foolish to focus on them and neglect the shirt.

Whilst, therefore, grace of manner, politeness of behaviour, elegance of demeanour, and all the arts that contribute to make life pleasant and beautiful, are worthy of cultivation, it must not be at the expense of the more solid and enduring qualities of honesty, sincerity, and truthfulness. The fountain of beauty must be in the heart; more than in the eye, and if art do not tend to produce beautiful life and noble practice, it will be of comparatively little avail. Politeness of manner is not worth much, unless accompanied by polite action. Grace may be but skin-deep—very pleasant and attractive, and yet very heartless. Art is a source of innocent enjoyment, and an important aid to higher culture; but unless it leads to higher culture, it will probably be merely sensuous. And when art is merely sensuous, it is enfeebling and demoralizing rather than strengthening or elevating. Honest courage is of greater worth than any amount of grace; purity is better than elegance; and cleanliness of body, mind, and heart, than any amount of fine art.

While grace, politeness, elegance, and all the skills that make life enjoyable and beautiful are definitely worth developing, it shouldn't come at the cost of more solid and lasting qualities like honesty, sincerity, and truthfulness. The source of beauty needs to come from the heart more than from the appearance, and if art doesn't help create a beautiful life and noble actions, it's not going to be very useful. Politeness means little unless it’s paired with polite actions. Grace can be superficial—very nice and appealing, yet completely heartless. Art can provide innocent enjoyment and support higher culture; however, if it doesn't contribute to that higher culture, it may just be sensuous. When art is merely sensuous, it weakens and corrupts rather than strengthens or elevates. Honest courage is more valuable than any amount of grace; purity is better than elegance; and cleanliness of body, mind, and heart is worth more than any level of fine art.

In fine, while the cultivation of the graces is not to be neglected, it should ever be held in mind that there is something far higher and nobler to be aimed at—greater than pleasure, greater than art, greater than wealth, greater than power, greater than intellect, greater than genius—and that is, purity and excellence of character. Without a solid sterling basis of individual goodness, all the grace, elegance, and art in the world would fail to save or to elevate a people.

In summary, while it's important to develop our graces, we must always remember that there’s something much higher and more noble to strive for—something greater than pleasure, art, wealth, power, intellect, and genius—and that is purity and excellence of character. Without a strong foundation of individual goodness, all the grace, elegance, and art in the world won't be enough to save or uplift a society.





CHAPTER X—COMPANIONSHIP OF BOOKS.

                         "Books, we know,
      Are a substantial world, both pure and good,
      Round which, with tendrils strong as flesh and blood,
      Our pastime and our happiness can grow."—WORDSWORTH.

     "Not only in the common speech of men, but in all art too—
     which is or should be the concentrated and conserved essence
     of what men can speak and show—Biography is almost the one
     thing needful" —CARLYLE.
                         "Books, we know,
      Are a significant world, both innocent and good,
      Around which, with tendrils as strong as flesh and blood,
      Our leisure and our joy can thrive."—WORDSWORTH.

     "Not just in the everyday language of people, but in all art too—
     which is or should be the distilled and preserved essence
     of what people can express and demonstrate—Biography is almost the one
     thing essential" —CARLYLE.
     "I read all biographies with intense interest. Even a man
     without a heart, like Cavendish, I think about, and read
     about, and dream about, and picture to myself in all
     possible ways, till he grows into a living being beside me,
     and I put my feet into his shoes, and become for the time
     Cavendish, and think as he thought, and do as he did."
     —GEORGE WILSON.

          "My thoughts are with the dead; with them
            I live in long-past years;
          Their virtues love, their faults condemn;
            Partake their hopes and fears;
          And from their lessons seek and find
            Instruction with a humble mind."—SOUTHEY.
     "I read every biography with great interest. Even a guy
     like Cavendish, who seems heartless, I think about, read 
     about, dream about, and imagine in every possible way, 
     until he feels like a real presence beside me. I step 
     into his shoes, become Cavendish for a while, think his 
     thoughts, and do what he did."
     —GEORGE WILSON.

          "My thoughts are with the dead; with them
            I live in long-ago years;
          Their virtues I admire, their faults I criticize;
            I share their hopes and fears;
          And from their lessons, I seek and find
            Guidance with a humble mind."—SOUTHEY.

A man may usually be known by the books he reads, as well as by the company he keeps; for there is a companionship of books as well as of men; and one should always live in the best company, whether it be of books or of men.

A person can often be judged by the books they read, just like by the people they hang out with; there’s a friendship in books just as there is among people; and one should always surround themselves with the best company, whether that’s books or friends.

A good book may be among the best of friends. It is the same to-day that it always was, and it will never change. It is the most patient and cheerful of companions. It does not turn its back upon us in times of adversity or distress. It always receives us with the same kindness; amusing and instructing us in youth, and comforting and consoling us in age.

A good book can be one of the greatest friends. It remains the same today as it always has, and it will never change. It’s the most patient and cheerful companion. It doesn’t abandon us in tough times or moments of sadness. It always welcomes us with the same kindness; entertaining and teaching us when we’re young, and comforting and supporting us as we grow older.

Men often discover their affinity to each other by the mutual love they have for a book—just as two persons sometimes discover a friend by the admiration which both entertain for a third. There is an old proverb, "Love me, love my dog." But there is more wisdom in this: "Love me, love my book." The book is a truer and higher bond of union. Men can think, feel, and sympathise with each other through their favourite author. They live in him together, and he in them.

Men often find their connection with each other through their shared love for a book—just as two people might become friends through their admiration for someone else. There’s an old saying, "Love me, love my dog." But there's a deeper truth in this: "Love me, love my book." The book creates a stronger and more meaningful bond. Men can think, feel, and empathize with each other through their favorite author. They live together in that author’s work, and he lives on in them.

"Books," said Hazlitt, "wind into the heart; the poet's verse slides into the current of our blood. We read them when young, we remember them when old. We read there of what has happened to others; we feel that it has happened to ourselves. They are to be had everywhere cheap and good. We breathe but the air of books. We owe everything to their authors, on this side barbarism."

"Books," said Hazlitt, "weave their way into our hearts; the poet's words flow into our veins. We read them when we’re young and remember them when we’re old. We read about what has happened to others; we feel like it has happened to us. They’re available everywhere, affordable and great. We breathe in the essence of books. We owe everything to their authors, keeping us from falling into barbarism."

A good book is often the best urn of a life, enshrining the best thoughts of which that life was capable; for the world of a man's life is, for the most part, but the world of his thoughts. Thus the best books are treasuries of good words and golden thoughts, which, remembered and cherished, become our abiding companions and comforters. "They are never alone," said Sir Philip Sidney, "that are accompanied by noble thoughts." The good and true thought may in time of temptation be as an angel of mercy purifying and guarding the soul. It also enshrines the germs of action, for good words almost invariably inspire to good works.

A good book is often the best reflection of a life, capturing the best thoughts that life could hold; because, for the most part, a person's life is just the world of their thoughts. So, the best books are collections of meaningful words and precious ideas that, when remembered and cherished, become our constant companions and sources of comfort. "Those who have noble thoughts are never alone," said Sir Philip Sidney. Good and true thoughts can, in times of temptation, act like angels of mercy, purifying and protecting the soul. They also contain the seeds of action, as good words almost always inspire good deeds.

Thus Sir Henry Lawrence prized above all other compositions Wordsworth's 'Character of the Happy Warrior,' which he endeavoured to embody in his own life. It was ever before him as an exemplar. He thought of it continually, and often quoted it to others. His biographer says: "He tried to conform his own life and to assimilate his own character to it; and he succeeded, as all men succeed who are truly in earnest." 191

Thus Sir Henry Lawrence valued Wordsworth's 'Character of the Happy Warrior' above all other works, striving to embody it in his own life. It remained a guiding example for him. He thought about it all the time and frequently quoted it to others. His biographer notes: "He endeavored to shape his life and align his character with it; and he succeeded, as all people do who are genuinely sincere." 191

Books possess an essence of immortality. They are by far the most lasting products of human effort. Temples crumble into ruin; pictures and statues decay; but books survive. Time is of no account with great thoughts, which are as fresh to-day as when they first passed through their authors' minds ages ago. What was then said and thought still speaks to us as vividly as ever from the printed page. The only effect of time has been to sift and winnow out the bad products; for nothing in literature can long survive but what is really good. 192

Books have a sense of immortality. They are by far the most enduring products of human effort. Temples fall into ruin; paintings and statues decay; but books endure. Time doesn't matter for great ideas, which are as relevant today as when they first entered their authors' minds ages ago. What was said and thought back then still resonates with us as vividly as ever from the printed page. The only effect of time has been to filter out the lesser works; because nothing in literature can last long except what is truly good. 192

Books introduce us into the best society; they bring us into the presence of the greatest minds that have ever lived. We hear what they said and did; we see them as if they were really alive; we are participators in their thoughts; we sympathise with them, enjoy with them, grieve with them; their experience becomes ours, and we feel as if we were in a measure actors with them in the scenes which they describe.

Books connect us with the best of society; they bring us face-to-face with the greatest minds in history. We hear their words and actions; we see them as if they were truly alive; we engage with their thoughts; we empathize with them, celebrate with them, mourn with them; their experiences become ours, and we feel as though we share in the experiences they describe.

The great and good do not die, even in this world. Embalmed in books their spirits walk abroad. The book is a living voice. It is an intellect to which one still listens. Hence we ever remain under the influence of the great men of old:

The great and good don’t die, even in this world. Preserved in books, their spirits roam freely. The book is a living voice. It is an intellect that we still listen to. Thus, we always remain influenced by the great figures of the past:

         "The dead but sceptred sovrans, who still rule
          Our spirits from their urns."
"The dead but crowned rulers, who still govern  
Our spirits from their tombs."

The imperial intellects of the world are as much alive now as they were ages ago. Homer still lives; and though his personal history is hidden in the mists of antiquity, his poems are as fresh to-day as if they had been newly written. Plato still teaches his transcendent philosophy; Horace, Virgil, and Dante still sing as when they lived; Shakspeare is not dead: his body was buried in 1616, but his mind is as much alive in England now, and his thought as far-reaching, as in the time of the Tudors.

The great minds of the world are just as alive now as they were long ago. Homer still resonates; even though we don't know much about his personal life, his poems feel brand new today. Plato continues to share his incredible philosophy; Horace, Virgil, and Dante still sing as they did in their time; Shakespeare isn’t gone: his body was laid to rest in 1616, but his spirit is just as vibrant in England now, and his ideas are as influential as they were during the Tudor era.

The humblest and poorest may enter the society of these great spirits without being thought intrusive. All who can read have got the ENTREE. Would you laugh?—Cervantes or Rabelais will laugh with you. Do you grieve?—there is Thomas a Kempis or Jeremy Taylor to grieve with and console you. Always it is to books, and the spirits of great men embalmed in them, that we turn, for entertainment, for instruction and solace—in joy and in sorrow, as in prosperity and in adversity.

Anyone, no matter how humble or poor, can join the company of these great minds without being seen as annoying. Anyone who can read has access. Want to laugh? Cervantes or Rabelais will laugh alongside you. Feeling sad? Thomas a Kempis or Jeremy Taylor will mourn with you and offer comfort. We always turn to books, and the spirits of great men preserved within them, for entertainment, learning, and solace—through joy and sorrow, as well as in good times and bad.

Man himself is, of all things in the world, the most interesting to man. Whatever relates to human life—its experiences, its joys, its sufferings, and its achievements—has usually attractions for him beyond all else. Each man is more or less interested in all other men as his fellow-creatures—as members of the great family of humankind; and the larger a man's culture, the wider is the range of his sympathies in all that affects the welfare of his race.

Man is, of all things in the world, the most intriguing to man. Whatever has to do with human life—its experiences, its joys, its struggles, and its accomplishments—usually captivates him more than anything else. Every person is somewhat interested in all other people as his fellow beings—as part of the larger family of humanity; and the broader a person's culture, the wider his range of sympathies regarding everything that impacts the well-being of his species.

Men's interest in each other as individuals manifests itself in a thousand ways—in the portraits which they paint, in the busts which they carve, in the narratives which they relate of each other. "Man," says Emerson, "can paint, or make, or think, nothing but Man." Most of all is this interest shown in the fascination which personal history possesses for him. "Man s sociality of nature," says Carlyle, "evinces itself, in spite of all that can be said, with abundance of evidence, by this one fact, were there no other: the unspeakable delight he takes in Biography."

Men's interest in each other as individuals shows up in countless ways—in the portraits they create, in the busts they carve, and in the stories they tell about one another. "Man," Emerson says, "can paint, or create, or think of nothing but Man." This interest is especially clear in the deep fascination he has for personal history. "Man's social nature," Carlyle states, "is evident, despite everything that can be said, with plenty of proof, by this one fact, if there were no other: the incredible joy he finds in Biography."

Great, indeed, is the human interest felt in biography! What are all the novels that find such multitudes of readers, but so many fictitious biographies? What are the dramas that people crowd to see, but so much acted biography? Strange that the highest genius should be employed on the fictitious biography, and so much commonplace ability on the real!

Great is the human fascination with biography! What are all the novels that attract so many readers if not various made-up biographies? What are the plays that people flock to see if not portrayed biographies? It's odd that the highest talent is used on fictional biographies while so much ordinary skill is focused on the real ones!

Yet the authentic picture of any human being's life and experience ought to possess an interest greatly beyond that which is fictitious, inasmuch as it has the charm of reality. Every person may learn something from the recorded life of another; and even comparatively trivial deeds and sayings may be invested with interest, as being the outcome of the lives of such beings as we ourselves are.

Yet the true story of any person's life and experiences should be much more interesting than something made up, since it has the appeal of reality. Everyone can learn something from the documented life of another person; even seemingly insignificant actions and words can hold interest because they come from the lives of beings just like us.

The records of the lives of good men are especially useful. They influence our hearts, inspire us with hope, and set before us great examples. And when men have done their duty through life in a great spirit, their influence will never wholly pass away. "The good life," says George Herbert, "is never out of season."

The stories of good people are especially valuable. They touch our hearts, give us hope, and provide us with great examples. When people fulfill their responsibilities in life with a strong spirit, their impact will never completely fade. "The good life," says George Herbert, "is never out of season."

Goethe has said that there is no man so commonplace that a wise man may not learn something from him. Sir Walter Scott could not travel in a coach without gleaning some information or discovering some new trait of character in his companions. 193 Dr. Johnson once observed that there was not a person in the streets but he should like to know his biography—his experiences of life, his trials, his difficulties, his successes, and his failures. How much more truly might this be said of the men who have made their mark in the world's history, and have created for us that great inheritance of civilization of which we are the possessors! Whatever relates to such men—to their habits, their manners, their modes of living, their personal history, their conversation, their maxims, their virtues, or their greatness—is always full of interest, of instruction, of encouragement, and of example.

Goethe said that no one is so ordinary that a wise person can't learn something from them. Sir Walter Scott couldn't ride in a coach without picking up new information or noticing new character traits in his fellow passengers. 193 Dr. Johnson once remarked that he would like to know the story of every person he saw on the street—their life experiences, struggles, challenges, successes, and failures. This is even more true for the men who have left their mark on history and contributed to the great legacy of civilization that we inherit today! Anything related to such individuals— their habits, manners, lifestyles, personal stories, conversations, maxims, virtues, or greatness—is always captivating, educational, inspiring, and exemplary.

The great lesson of Biography is to show what man can be and do at his best. A noble life put fairly on record acts like an inspiration to others. It exhibits what life is capable of being made. It refreshes our spirit, encourages our hopes, gives us new strength and courage and faith—faith in others as well as in ourselves. It stimulates our aspirations, rouses us to action, and incites us to become co-partners with them in their work. To live with such men in their biographies, and to be inspired by their example, is to live with the best of men, and to mix in the best of company.

The main takeaway from biographies is to show what people can achieve at their best. A well-documented noble life serves as an inspiration for others. It demonstrates what life can potentially become. It revitalizes our spirits, boosts our hopes, and gives us new strength, courage, and faith—faith in others as well as in ourselves. It fuels our ambitions, motivates us to take action, and encourages us to join them in their endeavors. To engage with such individuals through their biographies and to be inspired by their examples means to associate with the best of people and to be in great company.

At the head of all biographies stands the Great Biography, the Book of Books. And what is the Bible, the most sacred and impressive of all books—the educator of youth, the guide of manhood, and the consoler of age—but a series of biographies of great heroes and patriarchs, prophets, kings, and judges, culminating in the greatest biography of all, the Life embodied in the New Testament? How much have the great examples there set forth done for mankind! How many have drawn from them their truest strength, their highest wisdom, their best nurture and admonition! Truly does a great Roman Catholic writer describe the Bible as a book whose words "live in the ear like a music that can never be forgotten—like the sound of church bells which the convert hardly knows how he can forego. Its felicities often seem to be almost things rather than mere words. It is part of the national mind, and the anchor of national seriousness. The memory of the dead passes into it, The potent traditions of childhood are stereotyped in its verses. The power of all the griefs and trials of man is hidden beneath its words. It is the representative of his best moments, and all that has been about him of soft, and gentle, and pure, and penitent, and good, speaks to him for ever out of his English Bible. It is his sacred thing, which doubt has never dimmed and controversy never soiled. In the length and breadth of the land there is not a Protestant with one spark of religiousness about him whose spiritual biography is not in his Saxon Bible." 194

At the top of all biographies is the Great Biography, the Book of Books. And what is the Bible, the most sacred and impressive of all books—the teacher for youth, the guide for adulthood, and the comfort for old age—but a collection of biographies about great heroes, patriarchs, prophets, kings, and judges, culminating in the most significant biography of all, the Life presented in the New Testament? Just think of how much the great examples shared there have done for humanity! How many people have drawn from them their truest strength, highest wisdom, and best guidance! A great Catholic writer aptly describes the Bible as a book whose words "echo in the ear like music that can never be forgotten—like the sound of church bells that a convert can hardly imagine living without. Its joys often feel like experiences rather than just words. It forms part of the national consciousness and is the foundation of national seriousness. The memories of the deceased are captured in it. The powerful traditions of childhood are etched in its verses. The weight of all human griefs and struggles is hidden within its words. It represents our best moments, and everything that has been gentle, pure, humble, and good speaks to him forever from his English Bible. It is his sacred possession, untouched by doubt and untainted by controversy. Across the entire country, there is not a Protestant with a hint of spirituality whose spiritual biography isn't found in his Saxon Bible." 194

It would, indeed, be difficult to overestimate the influence which the lives of the great and good have exercised upon the elevation of human character. "The best biography," says Isaac Disraeli, "is a reunion with human existence in its most excellent state." Indeed, it is impossible for one to read the lives of good men, much less inspired men, without being unconsciously lighted and lifted up in them, and growing insensibly nearer to what they thought and did. And even the lives of humbler persons, of men of faithful and honest spirit, who have done their duty in life well, are not without an elevating influence upon the character of those who come after them.

It would definitely be hard to overstate the impact that the lives of great and good people have had on the improvement of human character. "The best biography," as Isaac Disraeli puts it, "is a connection with human existence at its finest." It's impossible to read about the lives of good people, especially those who are inspired, without being unconsciously uplifted and feeling closer to what they believed and accomplished. Even the stories of everyday people, those with dedicated and honest spirits who have fulfilled their duties well, have an uplifting effect on the character of those who follow them.

History itself is best studied in biography. Indeed, history is biography—collective humanity as influenced and governed by individual men. "What is all history," says Emerson, "but the work of ideas, a record of the incomparable energy which his infinite aspirations infuse into man?" In its pages it is always persons we see more than principles. Historical events are interesting to us mainly in connection with the feelings, the sufferings, and interests of those by whom they are accomplished. In history we are surrounded by men long dead, but whose speech and whose deeds survive. We almost catch the sound of their voices; and what they did constitutes the interest of history. We never feel personally interested in masses of men; but we feel and sympathise with the individual actors, whose biographies afford the finest and most real touches in all great historical dramas.

History is best understood through biographies. In fact, history is biography—it's about how individual people influence and shape collective humanity. "What is all history," Emerson says, "but the work of ideas, a record of the incredible energy that his infinite aspirations inject into humanity?" In its pages, we see people more than principles. Historical events capture our interest mainly in relation to the feelings, struggles, and stakes of those who make them happen. In history, we’re surrounded by people long gone, but their words and actions live on. We can almost hear their voices, and what they did is what makes history interesting. We rarely feel connected to masses of people; rather, we identify with the individual actors, whose lives give us the most genuine and relatable moments in all the great historical stories.

Among the great writers of the past, probably the two that have been most influential in forming the characters of great men of action and great men of thought, have been Plutarch and Montaigne—the one by presenting heroic models for imitation, the other by probing questions of constant recurrence in which the human mind in all ages has taken the deepest interest. And the works of both are for the most part cast in a biographic form, their most striking illustrations consisting in the exhibitions of character and experience which they contain.

Among the great writers of the past, the two that have likely had the biggest impact on shaping the characters of influential leaders and thinkers are Plutarch and Montaigne—one by providing heroic examples to follow, the other by asking timeless questions that engage the human mind across generations. Most of their works are written in a biographical format, and their most compelling illustrations come from the portrayals of character and experience within those writings.

Plutarch's 'Lives,' though written nearly eighteen hundred years ago, like Homer's 'Iliad,' still holds its ground as the greatest work of its kind. It was the favourite book of Montaigne; and to Englishmen it possesses the special interest of having been Shakspeare's principal authority in his great classical dramas. Montaigne pronounced Plutarch to be "the greatest master in that kind of writing"—the biographic; and he declared that he "could no sooner cast an eye upon him but he purloined either a leg or a wing."

Plutarch's 'Lives,' even though it was written almost eighteen hundred years ago, just like Homer's 'Iliad,' remains one of the greatest works of its kind. It was Montaigne's favorite book, and for English readers, it has a unique significance as it was Shakespeare's main source for his classic plays. Montaigne referred to Plutarch as "the greatest master in that kind of writing"—the biography; and he stated that he "could no sooner glance at him than he stole either a leg or a wing."

Alfieri was first drawn with passion to literature by reading Plutarch. "I read," said he, "the lives of Timoleon, Caesar, Brutus, Pelopidas, more than six times, with cries, with tears, and with such transports, that I was almost furious.... Every time that I met with one of the grand traits of these great men, I was seized with such vehement agitation as to be unable to sit still." Plutarch was also a favourite with persons of such various minds as Schiller and Benjamin Franklin, Napoleon and Madame Roland. The latter was so fascinated by the book that she carried it to church with her in the guise of a missal, and read it surreptitiously during the service.

Alfieri was initially captivated by literature through reading Plutarch. "I read," he said, "the lives of Timoleon, Caesar, Brutus, and Pelopidas more than six times, with shouts, tears, and such excitement that I was almost beside myself.... Every time I encountered one of the remarkable qualities of these great men, I was filled with such intense emotion that I couldn’t sit still." Plutarch was also a favorite among various thinkers like Schiller, Benjamin Franklin, Napoleon, and Madame Roland. The latter was so enchanted by the book that she took it to church disguised as a missal and read it secretly during the service.

It has also been the nurture of heroic souls such as Henry IV. of France, Turenne, and the Napiers. It was one of Sir William Napier's favourite books when a boy. His mind was early imbued by it with a passionate admiration for the great heroes of antiquity; and its influence had, doubtless, much to do with the formation of his character, as well as the direction of his career in life. It is related of him, that in his last illness, when feeble and exhausted, his mind wandered back to Plutarch's heroes; and he descanted for hours to his son-in-law on the mighty deeds of Alexander, Hannibal, and Caesar. Indeed, if it were possible to poll the great body of readers in all ages whose minds have been influenced and directed by books, it is probable that—excepting always the Bible—the immense majority of votes would be cast in favour of Plutarch.

It has also inspired heroic figures like Henry IV of France, Turenne, and the Napiers. It was one of Sir William Napier's favorite books as a child. His early exposure to it instilled in him a deep admiration for the great heroes of the past; its impact likely played a significant role in shaping his character and guiding his life’s path. It is said that during his final illness, when he was weak and tired, his mind went back to Plutarch's heroes, and he spoke for hours to his son-in-law about the incredible feats of Alexander, Hannibal, and Caesar. In fact, if we could survey readers throughout history on which books have influenced their thoughts and lives, it’s likely that, aside from the Bible, a vast majority would vote for Plutarch.

And how is it that Plutarch has succeeded in exciting an interest which continues to attract and rivet the attention of readers of all ages and classes to this day? In the first place, because the subject of his work is great men, who occupied a prominent place in the world's history, and because he had an eye to see and a pen to describe the more prominent events and circumstances in their lives. And not only so, but he possessed the power of portraying the individual character of his heroes; for it is the principle of individuality which gives the charm and interest to all biography. The most engaging side of great men is not so much what they do as what they are, and does not depend upon their power of intellect but on their personal attractiveness. Thus, there are men whose lives are far more eloquent than their speeches, and whose personal character is far greater than their deeds.

And how has Plutarch managed to spark an interest that still captures and holds the attention of readers from all backgrounds today? First, because his focus is on great figures who played significant roles in history, and he had the insight to observe and the talent to describe the key events and circumstances in their lives. Moreover, he had the ability to depict the unique character of his subjects; individuality is what brings charm and interest to any biography. The most appealing aspect of great individuals is not just what they do, but who they are, and it doesn’t rely on their intellectual power but rather on their personal charm. There are people whose lives speak volumes more than their words, and whose character is far more impressive than their actions.

It is also to be observed, that while the best and most carefully-drawn of Plutarch's portraits are of life-size, many of them are little more than busts. They are well-proportioned but compact, and within such reasonable compass that the best of them—such as the lives of Caesar and Alexander—may be read in half an hour. Reduced to this measure, they are, however, greatly more imposing than a lifeless Colossus, or an exaggerated giant. They are not overlaid by disquisition and description, but the characters naturally unfold themselves. Montaigne, indeed, complained of Plutarch's brevity. "No doubt," he added, "but his reputation is the better for it, though in the meantime we are the worse. Plutarch would rather we should applaud his judgment than commend his knowledge, and had rather leave us with an appetite to read more than glutted with what we have already read. He knew very well that a man may say too much even on the best subjects.... Such as have lean and spare bodies stuff themselves out with clothes; so they who are defective in matter, endeavour to make amends with words." 195

It’s worth noting that while the best and most carefully crafted portraits by Plutarch are life-size, many of them are more like busts. They are well-proportioned but compact, and within such a reasonable length that the best among them—like the lives of Caesar and Alexander—can be read in half an hour. When shortened like this, they are much more impressive than a lifeless giant or an exaggerated statue. They aren’t weighed down by lengthy explanations and descriptions; instead, the characters reveal themselves naturally. Montaigne even complained about Plutarch’s brevity, saying, "No doubt, but his reputation benefits from it, even if we suffer for it. Plutarch would rather we admire his judgment than praise his knowledge, wanting us to be left wanting to read more instead of being overwhelmed with what we've already read. He understood that sometimes a person can say too much, even on the best subjects.... Those who are lean and thin often stuff themselves with clothes; similarly, those who lack substance try to compensate with words." 195

Plutarch possessed the art of delineating the more delicate features of mind and minute peculiarities of conduct, as well as the foibles and defects of his heroes, all of which is necessary to faithful and accurate portraiture. "To see him," says Montaigne, "pick out a light action in a man's life, or a word, that does not seem to be of any importance, is itself a whole discourse." He even condescends to inform us of such homely particulars as that Alexander carried his head affectedly on one side; that Alcibiades was a dandy, and had a lisp, which became him, giving a grace and persuasive turn to his discourse; that Cato had red hair and gray eyes, and was a usurer and a screw, selling off his old slaves when they became unfit for hard work; that Caesar was bald and fond of gay dress; and that Cicero [19like Lord Brougham] had involuntary twitchings of his nose.

Plutarch had a talent for capturing the subtle nuances of personality and the small quirks of behavior, as well as the weaknesses and flaws of his heroes, all of which are essential for a true and accurate portrayal. "To see him," Montaigne remarks, "pick out a trivial action in a person's life, or a word that seems insignificant, is in itself a full discussion." He even goes so far as to share everyday details like how Alexander carried his head at a tilt; that Alcibiades was a dandy with a lisp that suited him, adding charm to his speech; that Cato had red hair and gray eyes, was a moneylender, and sold off his old slaves when they could no longer work hard; that Caesar was bald and loved flashy clothing; and that Cicero, like Lord Brougham, had involuntary twitches of his nose.

Such minute particulars may by some be thought beneath the dignity of biography, but Plutarch thought them requisite for the due finish of the complete portrait which he set himself to draw; and it is by small details of character—personal traits, features, habits, and characteristics—that we are enabled to see before us the men as they really lived. Plutarch's great merit consists in his attention to these little things, without giving them undue preponderance, or neglecting those which are of greater moment. Sometimes he hits off an individual trait by an anecdote, which throws more light upon the character described than pages of rhetorical description would do. In some cases, he gives us the favourite maxim of his hero; and the maxims of men often reveal their hearts.

Some may consider these tiny details unworthy of biography, but Plutarch believed they were essential for capturing the complete portrait he aimed to create; it's through these small aspects of character—personal traits, features, habits, and characteristics—that we can truly understand how these men lived. Plutarch's main strength lies in his focus on these little things without letting them overshadow or overlook more significant elements. At times, he expresses a unique trait through an anecdote that illuminates the character more effectively than lengthy descriptions could. In some instances, he shares his hero's favorite saying, and such sayings often reveal a person's true nature.

Then, as to foibles, the greatest of men are not visually symmetrical. Each has his defect, his twist, his craze; and it is by his faults that the great man reveals his common humanity. We may, at a distance, admire him as a demigod; but as we come nearer to him, we find that he is but a fallible man, and our brother. 196

Then, when it comes to quirks, even the greatest people aren’t visually perfect. Each person has their flaws, their quirks, their oddities; and it’s through these imperfections that the great person shows their shared humanity. From a distance, we might admire them like a demigod; but as we get closer, we realize they are just a fallible person, like us. 196

Nor are the illustrations of the defects of great men without their uses; for, as Dr. Johnson observed, "If nothing but the bright side of characters were shown, we should sit down in despondency, and think it utterly impossible to imitate them in anything."

Nor are the examples of the flaws of great people without their value; for, as Dr. Johnson noted, "If we only saw the good side of characters, we would feel hopeless and think it was completely impossible to emulate them in any way."

Plutarch, himself justifies his method of portraiture by averring that his design was not to write histories, but lives. "The most glorious exploits," he says, "do not always furnish us with the clearest discoveries of virtue or of vice in men. Sometimes a matter of much less moment, an expression or a jest, better informs us of their characters and inclinations than battles with the slaughter of tens of thousands, and the greatest arrays of armies or sieges of cities. Therefore, as portrait-painters are more exact in their lines and features of the face and the expression of the eyes, in which the character is seen, without troubling themselves about the other parts of the body, so I must be allowed to give my more particular attention to the signs and indications of the souls of men; and while I endeavour by these means to portray their lives, I leave important events and great battles to be described by others."

Plutarch justifies his method of depicting people by stating that his goal was not to write histories, but to portray lives. "The most glorious exploits," he says, "don't always give us the clearest insight into a man's virtue or vice. Sometimes, a matter of much less significance, like an expression or a joke, reveals their character and inclinations better than battles with the deaths of tens of thousands, the largest armies, or city sieges. Therefore, just as portrait artists focus on the exact lines and features of the face and the expression in the eyes—where character is evident—I'm allowed to pay closer attention to the signs and indicators of people's souls. While I strive to portray their lives in this way, I leave the important events and great battles to be covered by others."

Things apparently trifling may stand for much in biography as well as history, and slight circumstances may influence great results. Pascal has remarked, that if Cleopatra's nose had been shorter, the whole face of the world would probably have been changed. But for the amours of Pepin the Fat, the Saracens might have overrun Europe; as it was his illegitimate son, Charles Martel, who overthrew them at Tours, and eventually drove them out of France.

Things that seem trivial can actually be quite significant in both biography and history, and small circumstances can have a big impact on major outcomes. Pascal pointed out that if Cleopatra's nose had been shorter, the entire world might look different. If it weren't for the affairs of Pepin the Fat, the Saracens might have taken over Europe; instead, it was his illegitimate son, Charles Martel, who defeated them at Tours and ultimately expelled them from France.

That Sir Walter Scott should have sprained his foot in running round the room when a child, may seem unworthy of notice in his biography; yet 'Ivanhoe,' 'Old Mortality,' and all the Waverley novels depended upon it. When his son intimated a desire to enter the army, Scott wrote to Southey, "I have no title to combat a choice which would have been my own, had not my lameness prevented." So that, had not Scott been lame, he might have fought all through the Peninsular War, and had his breast covered with medals; but we should probably have had none of those works of his which have made his name immortal, and shed so much glory upon his country. Talleyrand also was kept out of the army, for which he had been destined, by his lameness; but directing his attention to the study of books, and eventually of men, he at length took rank amongst the greatest diplomatists of his time.

That Sir Walter Scott sprained his foot running around the room as a child may seem unimportant in his biography; yet 'Ivanhoe,' 'Old Mortality,' and all the Waverley novels depended on it. When his son expressed a desire to join the army, Scott wrote to Southey, "I have no right to challenge a choice that would have been mine, if my lameness hadn't held me back." So, if Scott hadn't been lame, he might have fought throughout the Peninsular War and earned a chest full of medals; but we probably wouldn’t have the great works that made his name legendary and brought so much honor to his country. Talleyrand was also kept out of the army for which he was intended because of his lameness; but by focusing on studying books and eventually people, he ended up being recognized as one of the greatest diplomats of his time.

Byron's clubfoot had probably not a little to do with determining his destiny as a poet. Had not his mind been embittered and made morbid by his deformity, he might never have written a line—he might have been the noblest fop of his day. But his misshapen foot stimulated his mind, roused his ardour, threw him upon his own resources—and we know with what result.

Byron's clubfoot likely played a significant role in shaping his destiny as a poet. If his mind hadn't been influenced and darkened by his deformity, he might never have written a single line—he could have been the most charming dandy of his time. But his misshapen foot challenged his mind, sparked his passion, pushed him to rely on himself—and we know the outcome.

So, too, of Scarron, to whose hunchback we probably owe his cynical verse; and of Pope, whose satire was in a measure the outcome of his deformity—for he was, as Johnson described him, "protuberant behind and before." What Lord Bacon said of deformity is doubtless, to a great extent, true. "Whoever," said he, "hath anything fixed in his person that doth induce contempt, hath also a perpetual spur in himself to rescue and deliver himself from scorn; therefore, all deformed persons are extremely bold."

So, too, with Scarron, to whose hunchback we probably owe his cynical poetry; and with Pope, whose satire partly came from his deformity—he was, as Johnson put it, “protruding at the front and back.” What Lord Bacon said about deformity is likely very true. “Whoever,” he said, “has anything about them that causes contempt has a constant motivation to save and elevate themselves from scorn; therefore, all deformed individuals tend to be quite bold.”

As in portraiture, so in biography, there must be light and shade. The portrait-painter does not pose his sitter so as to bring out his deformities; nor does the biographer give undue prominence to the defects of the character he portrays. Not many men are so outspoken as Cromwell was when he sat to Cooper for his miniature: "Paint me as I am," said he, "warts and all." Yet, if we would have a faithful likeness of faces and characters, they must be painted as they are. "Biography," said Sir Walter Scott, "the most interesting of every species of composition, loses all its interest with me when the shades and lights of the principal characters are not accurately and faithfully detailed. I can no more sympathise with a mere eulogist, than I can with a ranting hero on the stage." 197

Just like in portrait painting, biography also needs light and shadow. The portrait artist doesn't position their subject to highlight flaws, and the biographer shouldn't exaggerate the shortcomings of the person they're writing about. Not many people are as candid as Cromwell was when he posed for Cooper's miniature: "Paint me as I am," he said, "warts and all." However, to get a true likeness of faces and personalities, they must be portrayed as they really are. "Biography," said Sir Walter Scott, "which is the most engaging type of writing, loses all its appeal for me when the complexities and nuances of the main characters aren't accurately and faithfully represented. I can't connect with a mere flatterer any more than I can with an over-the-top hero on stage." 197

Addison liked to know as much as possible about the person and character of his authors, inasmuch as it increased the pleasure and satisfaction which he derived from the perusal of their books. What was their history, their experience, their temper and disposition? Did their lives resemble their books? They thought nobly—did they act nobly? "Should we not delight," says Sir Egerton Brydges, "to have the frank story of the lives and feelings of Wordsworth, Southey, Coleridge, Campbell, Rogers, Moore, and Wilson, related by themselves?—with whom they lived early; how their bent took a decided course; their likes and dislikes; their difficulties and obstacles; their tastes, their passions; the rocks they were conscious of having split upon; their regrets, their complacencies, and their self-justifications?" 198

Addison wanted to learn as much as he could about the personalities and backgrounds of his authors since it enhanced his enjoyment and satisfaction from reading their works. What were their life stories, experiences, and personalities? Did their lives reflect their writing? They thought highly—did they also act with integrity? "Wouldn't we love," says Sir Egerton Brydges, "to hear the honest accounts of the lives and feelings of Wordsworth, Southey, Coleridge, Campbell, Rogers, Moore, and Wilson told by them?—who they spent their early years with; how their paths took shape; their preferences and aversions; the challenges they faced; their tastes, their passions; the mistakes they were aware of making; their regrets, their contentment, and their reasons for justifying themselves?" 198

When Mason was reproached for publishing the private letters of Gray, he answered, "Would you always have my friends appear in full-dress?" Johnson was of opinion that to write a man's life truly, it is necessary that the biographer should have personally known him. But this condition has been wanting in some of the best writers of biographies extant. 199 In the case of Lord Campbell, his personal intimacy with Lords Lyndhurst and Brougham seems to have been a positive disadvantage, leading him to dwarf the excellences and to magnify the blots in their characters. Again, Johnson says: "If a man profess to write a life, he must write it really as it was. A man's peculiarities, and even his vices, should be mentioned, because they mark his character." But there is always this difficulty,—that while minute details of conduct, favourable or otherwise, can best be given from personal knowledge, they cannot always be published, out of regard for the living; and when the time arrives when they may at length be told, they are then no longer remembered. Johnson himself expressed this reluctance to tell all he knew of those poets who had been his contemporaries, saying that he felt as if "walking upon ashes under which the fire was not extinguished."

When Mason was criticized for publishing Gray's private letters, he replied, "Would you have my friends always dressed up?" Johnson believed that to write a person's life accurately, the biographer needed to have known them personally. However, this requirement has been missing in some of the best biography writers out there. 199 In Lord Campbell's case, his close friendship with Lords Lyndhurst and Brougham seems to have worked against him, causing him to downplay their strengths and exaggerate their flaws. Johnson also said: "If someone claims to write a life, they must write it exactly as it was. A person's quirks, and even their faults, should be noted because they define their character." But there's always this challenge—while detailed accounts of behavior, whether good or bad, are best shared from personal experience, they can't always be published out of respect for the living; and by the time it's appropriate to share them, they are often forgotten. Johnson himself showed reluctance to reveal everything he knew about the poets of his time, saying it felt like "walking on ashes with a fire still smoldering beneath."

For this reason, amongst others, we rarely obtain an unvarnished picture of character from the near relatives of distinguished men; and, interesting though all autobiography is, still less can we expect it from the men themselves. In writing his own memoirs, a man will not tell all that he knows about himself. Augustine was a rare exception, but few there are who will, as he did in his 'Confessions,' lay bare their innate viciousness, deceitfulness, and selfishness. There is a Highland proverb which says, that if the best man's faults were written on his forehead he would pull his bonnet over his brow. "There is no man," said Voltaire, "who has not something hateful in him—no man who has not some of the wild beast in him. But there are few who will honestly tell us how they manage their wild beast." Rousseau pretended to unbosom himself in his 'Confessions;' but it is manifest that he held back far more than he revealed. Even Chamfort, one of the last men to fear what his contemporaries might think or say of him, once observed:—"It seems to me impossible, in the actual state of society, for any man to exhibit his secret heart, the details of his character as known to himself, and, above all, his weaknesses and his vices, to even his best friend."

For this reason, among others, we rarely get an honest view of someone's character from the close relatives of famous people; and, interesting as all autobiographies are, we can expect even less from the individuals themselves. When writing their own memoirs, a person won’t share everything they know about themselves. Augustine was a rare exception, but few will, like he did in his 'Confessions,' openly reveal their inherent flaws, deceit, and selfishness. There’s a Highland proverb that says if the best man’s faults were written on his forehead, he would pull his hat down over his face. "There is no man," said Voltaire, "who does not have something detestable in him—no man who does not have some of the wild beast in him. But there are few who will honestly tell us how they control their wild beast." Rousseau pretended to be open in his 'Confessions;' but it’s clear he held back much more than he shared. Even Chamfort, one of the last people to worry about what his peers might think or say about him, once noted: "It seems impossible, in today’s society, for any man to reveal his innermost heart, the details of his character as he sees them, and, above all, his weaknesses and vices, even to his closest friend."

An autobiography may be true so far as it goes; but in communicating only part of the truth, it may convey an impression that is really false. It may be a disguise—sometimes it is an apology—exhibiting not so much what a man really was, as what he would have liked to be. A portrait in profile may be correct, but who knows whether some scar on the off-cheek, or some squint in the eye that is not seen, might not have entirely altered the expression of the face if brought into sight? Scott, Moore, Southey, all began autobiographies, but the task of continuing them was doubtless felt to be too difficult as well as delicate, and they were abandoned.

An autobiography might be true to some extent, but by sharing only part of the story, it can create a misleading impression. It can serve as a disguise—sometimes even as an apology—showing not what a person truly was, but what they wished to be. A profile portrait may look accurate, but who knows if a scar on the other cheek or a squint in the unseen eye could have completely changed the expression if they were visible? Scott, Moore, and Southey all started autobiographies, but they likely found the challenge of continuing them too tough and sensitive, so they were left unfinished.

French literature is especially rich in a class of biographic memoirs, of which we have few counterparts in English. We refer to their MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR, such as those of Sully, De Comines, Lauzun, De Retz, De Thou, Rochefoucalt, &c., in which we have recorded an immense mass of minute and circumstantial information relative to many great personages of history. They are full of anecdotes illustrative of life and character, and of details which might be called frivolous, but that they throw a flood of light on the social habits and general civilisation of the periods to which they relate. The MEMOIRES of Saint-Simon are something more: they are marvellous dissections of character, and constitute the most extraordinary collection of anatomical biography that has ever been brought together.

French literature is particularly rich in a type of biographical memoirs that we have few counterparts for in English. We refer to their MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR, such as those by Sully, De Comines, Lauzun, De Retz, De Thou, Rochefoucault, etc., which contain a vast amount of detailed and specific information about many historical figures. They are filled with anecdotes that illustrate life and character, and though some details might seem trivial, they illuminate the social habits and overall way of life of the periods they cover. The MEMOIRES of Saint-Simon offer something even more: they provide incredible insights into character and represent the most extraordinary collection of detailed biographies ever assembled.

Saint-Simon might almost be regarded in the light of a posthumous court-spy of Louis the Fourteenth. He was possessed by a passion for reading character, and endeavouring to decipher motives and intentions in the faces, expressions, conversation, and byplay of those about him. "I examine all my personages closely," said he—"watch their mouth, eyes, and ears constantly." And what he heard and saw he noted down with extraordinary vividness and dash. Acute, keen, and observant, he pierced the masks of the courtiers, and detected their secrets. The ardour with which he prosecuted his favourite study of character seemed insatiable, and even cruel. "The eager anatomist," says Sainte-Beuve, "was not more ready to plunge the scalpel into the still-palpitating bosom in search of the disease that had baffled him."

Saint-Simon could almost be seen as a posthumous court spy for Louis XIV. He had a passion for reading people and trying to figure out their motives and intentions through their faces, expressions, conversations, and interactions. "I examine all my characters closely," he said—"constantly watching their mouths, eyes, and ears." He recorded what he heard and saw with remarkable clarity and flair. Sharp, perceptive, and observant, he looked beyond the courtiers' façades and uncovered their secrets. The enthusiasm with which he pursued his favorite study of character seemed unquenchable and even ruthless. "The eager anatomist," Sainte-Beuve says, "was no more ready to plunge the scalpel into the still-beating heart in search of the illness that had eluded him."

La Bruyere possessed the same gift of accurate and penetrating observation of character. He watched and studied everybody about him. He sought to read their secrets; and, retiring to his chamber, he deliberately painted their portraits, returning to them from time to time to correct some prominent feature—hanging over them as fondly as an artist over some favourite study—adding trait to trait, and touch to touch, until at length the picture was complete and the likeness perfect.

La Bruyere had the same talent for keen and insightful observation of character. He observed and analyzed everyone around him. He tried to uncover their secrets; then, retreating to his room, he carefully crafted their portraits, revisiting them occasionally to adjust some key feature—hovering over them affectionately like an artist with a beloved piece of work—adding detail after detail, until finally the picture was finished and the likeness was spot on.

It may be said that much of the interest of biography, especially of the more familiar sort, is of the nature of gossip; as that of the MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR is of the nature of scandal, which is no doubt true. But both gossip and scandal illustrate the strength of the interest which men and women take in each other's personality; and which, exhibited in the form of biography, is capable of communicating the highest pleasure, and yielding the best instruction. Indeed biography, because it is instinct of humanity, is the branch of literature which—whether in the form of fiction, of anecdotal recollection, or of personal narrative—is the one that invariably commends itself to by far the largest class of readers.

It can be said that a lot of what makes biographies interesting, especially the more common ones, is similar to gossip; while the MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR leans more towards scandal, which is certainly accurate. However, both gossip and scandal show the strong interest that people have in each other's personalities. When presented as biography, this interest can provide great enjoyment and valuable lessons. In fact, biography—because it's a natural human instinct—is a type of literature that, whether in the form of fiction, anecdotal memories, or personal stories, always appeals to the largest group of readers.

There is no room for doubt that the surpassing interest which fiction, whether in poetry or prose, possesses for most minds, arises mainly from the biographic element which it contains. Homer's 'Iliad' owes its marvellous popularity to the genius which its author displayed in the portrayal of heroic character. Yet he does not so much describe his personages in detail as make them develope themselves by their actions. "There are in Homer," said Dr. Johnson, "such characters of heroes and combination of qualities of heroes, that the united powers of mankind ever since have not produced any but what are to be found there."

There’s no doubt that the incredible appeal of fiction, whether in poetry or prose, comes mainly from the biographical element it includes. Homer's 'Iliad' owes its remarkable popularity to the talent its author showed in depicting heroic characters. However, he doesn’t describe his characters in detail; instead, he allows them to reveal themselves through their actions. "In Homer," Dr. Johnson said, "there are such characters of heroes and combinations of heroic qualities that the combined efforts of humanity since then have produced none that aren't found there."

The genius of Shakspeare also was displayed in the powerful delineation of character, and the dramatic evolution of human passions. His personages seem to be real—living and breathing before us. So too with Cervantes, whose Sancho Panza, though homely and vulgar, is intensely human. The characters in Le Sage's 'Gil Blas,' in Goldsmith's 'Vicar of Wakefield,' and in Scott's marvellous muster-roll, seem to us almost as real as persons whom we have actually known; and De Foe's greatest works are but so many biographies, painted in minute detail, with reality so apparently stamped upon every page, that it is difficult to believe his Robinson Crusoe and Colonel Jack to have been fictitious instead of real persons.

The genius of Shakespeare is also shown in his powerful portrayal of character and the dramatic unfolding of human emotions. His characters feel real—living and breathing right in front of us. The same goes for Cervantes, whose Sancho Panza, though simple and rough around the edges, is deeply human. The characters in Le Sage's 'Gil Blas,' Goldsmith's 'Vicar of Wakefield,' and Scott's remarkable collection seem almost as real as people we've actually met; and Defoe's greatest works are like a series of biographies, described in intricate detail, with a sense of reality so prominent on every page that it's hard to believe his Robinson Crusoe and Colonel Jack are made-up rather than real people.

Though the richest romance lies enclosed in actual human life, and though biography, because it describes beings who have actually felt the joys and sorrows, and experienced the difficulties and triumphs, of real life, is capable of being made more attractive, than the most perfect fictions ever woven, it is remarkable that so few men of genius have been attracted to the composition of works of this kind. Great works of fiction abound, but great biographies may be counted on the fingers. It may be for the same reason that a great painter of portraits, the late John Philip, R.A., explained his preference for subject-painting, because, said he, "Portrait-painting does not pay." Biographic portraiture involves laborious investigation and careful collection of facts, judicious rejection and skilful condensation, as well as the art of presenting the character portrayed in the most attractive and lifelike form; whereas, in the work of fiction, the writer's imagination is free to create and to portray character, without being trammelled by references, or held down by the actual details of real life.

While the richest romances are found in real human experiences, and biography is often more engaging because it tells stories of people who have truly felt joys and sorrows and faced challenges and victories, it's surprising that so few talented individuals have chosen to write these kinds of works. There are countless great works of fiction, but truly great biographies are rare. This may be similar to what the late John Philip, R.A., a renowned portrait painter, mentioned about his preference for subject painting, noting that "Portrait-painting doesn’t pay." Writing a biography requires extensive research, careful fact-gathering, thoughtful elimination, and the skill to present the subject's character in the most appealing and realistic way. In contrast, fiction allows writers the freedom to create and portray characters without being constrained by specific details or real-life limitations.

There is, indeed, no want among us of ponderous but lifeless memoirs, many of them little better than inventories, put together with the help of the scissors as much as of the pen. What Constable said of the portraits of an inferior artist—"He takes all the bones and brains out of his heads"—applies to a large class of portraiture, written as well as painted. They have no more life in them than a piece of waxwork, or a clothes-dummy at a tailor's door. What we want is a picture of a man as he lived, and lo! we have an exhibition of the biographer himself. We expect an embalmed heart, and we find only clothes.

There really isn’t a shortage of heavy but dull memoirs among us, many of which are barely better than lists, created with scissors as much as with a pen. What Constable said about the portraits of a lesser artist—“He removes all the bones and brains from his heads”—applies to many kinds of portraiture, both written and painted. They have no more life in them than a wax figure or a mannequin outside a tailor's shop. What we want is a portrayal of a person as they truly lived, and instead, we get a display of the biographer themselves. We expect a preserved heart, but all we find is just clothing.

There is doubtless as high art displayed in painting a portrait in words, as there is in painting one in colours. To do either well requires the seeing eye and the skilful pen or brush. A common artist sees only the features of a face, and copies them; but the great artist sees the living soul shining through the features, and places it on the canvas. Johnson was once asked to assist the chaplain of a deceased bishop in writing a memoir of his lordship; but when he proceeded to inquire for information, the chaplain could scarcely tell him anything. Hence Johnson was led to observe that "few people who have lived with a man know what to remark about him."

There's definitely as much artistry in painting a portrait with words as there is in using colors. To do either well requires a keen eye and skillful pen or brush. A typical artist only sees the features of a face and copies them, while a great artist perceives the living soul shining through those features and captures it on the canvas. Johnson was once asked to help the chaplain of a deceased bishop write a memoir about his lordship; however, when he started asking for information, the chaplain could hardly tell him anything. This led Johnson to remark that "few people who have lived with a man know what to comment on about him."

In the case of Johnson's own life, it was the seeing eye of Boswell that enabled him to note and treasure up those minute details of habit and conversation in which so much of the interest of biography consists. Boswell, because of his simple love and admiration of his hero, succeeded where probably greater men would have failed. He descended to apparently insignificant, but yet most characteristic, particulars. Thus he apologizes for informing the reader that Johnson, when journeying, "carried in his hand a large English oak-stick:" adding, "I remember Dr. Adam Smith, in his rhetorical lectures at Glasgow, told us he was glad to know that Milton wore latchets in his shoes instead of buckles." Boswell lets us know how Johnson looked, what dress he wore, what was his talk, what were his prejudices. He painted him with all his scars, and a wonderful portrait it is—perhaps the most complete picture of a great man ever limned in words.

In Johnson's life, it was Boswell's keen eye that helped capture and preserve those small details of habits and conversations that make biographies so interesting. Boswell, driven by his genuine love and admiration for Johnson, succeeded where many others might have failed. He focused on seemingly trivial but very telling details. For instance, he notes that Johnson, while traveling, "carried in his hand a large English oak-stick," and recalls Dr. Adam Smith mentioning in his lectures at Glasgow that he appreciated knowing that Milton wore laces in his shoes instead of buckles. Boswell informs us about Johnson's appearance, his clothing, his conversations, and his biases. He portrayed him with all his flaws, creating an incredible portrait—perhaps the most comprehensive depiction of a great man ever captured in words.

But for the accident of the Scotch advocate's intimacy with Johnson, and his devoted admiration of him, the latter would not probably have stood nearly so high in literature as he now does. It is in the pages of Boswell that Johnson really lives; and but for Boswell, he might have remained little more than a name. Others there are who have bequeathed great works to posterity, but of whose lives next to nothing is known. What would we not give to have a Boswell's account of Shakspeare? We positively know more of the personal history of Socrates, of Horace, of Cicero, of Augustine, than we do of that of Shakspeare. We do not know what was his religion, what were his politics, what were his experiences, what were his relations to his contemporaries. The men of his own time do not seem to have recognised his greatness; and Ben Jonson, the court poet, whose blank-verse Shakspeare was content to commit to memory and recite as an actor, stood higher in popular estimation. We only know that he was a successful theatrical manager, and that in the prime of life he retired to his native place, where he died, and had the honours of a village funeral. The greater part of the biography which has been constructed respecting him has been the result, not of contemporary observation or of record, but of inference. The best inner biography of the man is to be found in his sonnets.

But if it weren't for the Scotch lawyer's close friendship with Johnson and his deep admiration for him, Johnson probably wouldn't be as highly regarded in literature as he is today. It's in the writings of Boswell that Johnson truly comes to life; without Boswell, he might have been just a name. There are others who have left behind great works for future generations, but we know almost nothing about their lives. What wouldn’t we give for a Boswell-like account of Shakespeare? We actually know more about the personal history of Socrates, Horace, Cicero, and Augustine than we do about Shakespeare. We don't know his religion, his political views, his experiences, or his relationships with his peers. It seems that the people of his time didn't recognize his greatness; even Ben Jonson, the court poet, who Shakespeare memorized and recited as an actor, was more popular. All we know is that he was a successful theater manager, and in the prime of his life, he returned to his hometown, where he died and had a village funeral. Most of what we know about him comes not from observations or records from his time but from assumptions. The best insight into his life can be found in his sonnets.

Men do not always take an accurate measure of their contemporaries. The statesman, the general, the monarch of to-day fills all eyes and ears, though to the next generation he may be as if he had never been. "And who is king to-day?" the painter Greuze would ask of his daughter, during the throes of the first French Revolution, when men, great for the time, were suddenly thrown to the surface, and as suddenly dropt out of sight again, never to reappear. "And who is king to-day? After all," Greuze would add, "Citizen Homer and Citizen Raphael will outlive those great citizens of ours, whose names I have never before heard of." Yet of the personal history of Homer nothing is known, and of Raphael comparatively little. Even Plutarch, who wrote the lives of others: so well, has no biography, none of the eminent Roman writers who were his contemporaries having so much as mentioned his name. And so of Correggio, who delineated the features of others so well, there is not known to exist an authentic portrait.

Men don’t always see their contemporaries clearly. The statesman, the general, the monarch of today captures everyone's attention, but to the next generation, they may as well have never existed. "And who is king today?" the painter Greuze would ask his daughter during the first French Revolution, when men who were significant at the time suddenly emerged and just as suddenly disappeared, never to be heard from again. "And who is king today? After all," Greuze would add, "Citizen Homer and Citizen Raphael will outlast those prominent figures of ours, whose names I’ve never even heard before." Yet, we know virtually nothing about the personal life of Homer, and quite a bit less about Raphael. Even Plutarch, who wrote so well about the lives of others, has no biography himself, with none of the notable Roman writers of his time even mentioning his name. Similarly, for Correggio, who captured the faces of others so well, there is no known authentic portrait that exists.

There have been men who greatly influenced the life of their time, whose reputation has been much greater with posterity than it was with their contemporaries. Of Wickliffe, the patriarch of the Reformation, our knowledge is extremely small. He was but as a voice crying in the wilderness. We do not really know who was the author of 'The Imitation of Christ'—a book that has had an immense circulation, and exercised a vast religious influence in all Christian countries. It is usually attributed to Thomas a Kempis but there is reason to believe that he was merely its translator, and the book that is really known to be his, 1910 is in all respects so inferior, that it is difficult to believe that 'The Imitation' proceeded from the same pen. It is considered more probable that the real author was John Gerson, Chancellor of the University of Paris, a most learned and devout man, who died in 1429.

There have been men who significantly impacted their time, whose legacy is much more recognized by later generations than it was by their peers. Our knowledge of Wickliffe, the father of the Reformation, is quite limited. He was like a voice crying out in the wilderness. We don't actually know who wrote 'The Imitation of Christ'—a book that has widely circulated and had a huge religious impact across Christian countries. It's usually attributed to Thomas a Kempis, but there's reason to believe he was just its translator, and the work that is definitely his, 1910, is so much lesser in quality that it's hard to believe 'The Imitation' came from the same writer. It's more likely that the true author was John Gerson, Chancellor of the University of Paris, a very learned and devout man, who died in 1429.

Some of the greatest men of genius have had the shortest biographies. Of Plato, one of the great fathers of moral philosophy, we have no personal account. If he had wife and children, we hear nothing of them. About the life of Aristotle there is the greatest diversity of opinion. One says he was a Jew; another, that he only got his information from a Jew: one says he kept an apothecary's shop; another, that he was only the son of a physician: one alleges that he was an atheist; another, that he was a Trinitarian, and so forth. But we know almost as little with respect to many men of comparatively modern times. Thus, how little do we know of the lives of Spenser, author of 'The Faerie Queen,' and of Butler, the author of 'Hudibras,' beyond the fact that they lived in comparative obscurity, and died in extreme poverty! How little, comparatively, do we know of the life of Jeremy Taylor, the golden preacher, of whom we should like to have known so much!

Some of the greatest geniuses have the briefest biographies. We have no personal account of Plato, one of the founding figures of moral philosophy. If he had a wife and children, we don't hear anything about them. The life of Aristotle is surrounded by conflicting opinions. Some say he was a Jew; others claim he only got his information from a Jew. Some believe he ran an apothecary shop, while others say he was just the son of a physician. Some argue he was an atheist, while others say he was a Trinitarian, and so on. But we know almost as little about many relatively modern figures. For example, how little do we know about the lives of Spenser, the author of 'The Faerie Queene,' and Butler, the author of 'Hudibras,' other than that they lived in relative obscurity and died in extreme poverty? How little, comparatively, do we know about the life of Jeremy Taylor, the golden preacher, whom we would have loved to know so much more about!

The author of 'Philip Van Artevelde' has said that "the world knows nothing of its greatest men." And doubtless oblivion has enwrapt in its folds many great men who have done great deeds, and been forgotten. Augustine speaks of Romanianus as the greatest genius that ever lived, and yet we know nothing of him but his name; he is as much forgotten as the builders of the Pyramids. Gordiani's epitaph was written in five languages, yet it sufficed not to rescue him from oblivion.

The author of 'Philip Van Artevelde' once said, "the world knows nothing of its greatest men." And it's true that oblivion has shrouded many great individuals who accomplished remarkable things and have been forgotten. Augustine referred to Romanianus as the greatest genius to ever exist, yet we know nothing about him except his name; he is just as forgotten as the builders of the Pyramids. Gordiani's epitaph was written in five languages, but that was not enough to save him from being forgotten.

Many, indeed, are the lives worthy of record that have remained unwritten. Men who have written books have been the most fortunate in this respect, because they possess an attraction for literary men which those whose lives have been embodied in deeds do not possess. Thus there have been lives written of Poets Laureate who were mere men of their time, and of their time only. Dr. Johnson includes some of them in his 'Lives of the Poets,' such as Edmund Smith and others, whose poems are now no longer known. The lives of some men of letters—such as Goldsmith, Swift, Sterne, and Steele—have been written again and again, whilst great men of action, men of science, and men of industry, are left without a record. 1911

Many lives worthy of recognition have gone unwritten. People who have written books have been the most fortunate in this regard, because they have an appeal for literary figures that those whose lives have been captured in actions do not have. Consequently, there have been biographies of Poets Laureate who were merely products of their era, and of that era only. Dr. Johnson includes some of them in his 'Lives of the Poets,' like Edmund Smith and others, whose works are no longer recognized. The lives of some writers—like Goldsmith, Swift, Sterne, and Steele—have been retold many times, while great figures of action, science, and industry are left without documentation. 1911

We have said that a man may be known by the company he keeps in his books. Let us mention a few of the favourites of the best-known men. Plutarch's admirers have already been referred to. Montaigne also has been the companion of most meditative men. Although Shakspeare must have studied Plutarch carefully, inasmuch as he copied from him freely, even to his very words, it is remarkable that Montaigne is the only book which we certainly know to have been in the poet's library; one of Shakspeare's existing autographs having been found in a copy of Florio's translation of 'The Essays,' which also contains, on the flyleaf, the autograph of Ben Jonson.

We’ve said that you can tell a lot about a person by the books they read. Let’s look at a few favorites of some well-known figures. Plutarch’s fans have already been mentioned. Montaigne has also been a go-to for many thoughtful people. Even though Shakespeare must have studied Plutarch closely since he borrowed from him extensively, using even his exact words, it’s interesting that Montaigne is the only book we definitely know was in the poet’s library; one of Shakespeare’s surviving signatures was found in a copy of Florio's translation of 'The Essays,' which also has Ben Jonson’s signature on the flyleaf.

Milton's favourite books were Homer, Ovid, and Euripides. The latter book was also the favourite of Charles James Fox, who regarded the study of it as especially useful to a public speaker. On the other hand, Pitt took especial delight in Milton—whom Fox did not appreciate—taking pleasure in reciting, from 'Paradise Lost,' the grand speech of Belial before the assembled powers of Pandemonium. Another of Pitt's favourite books was Newton's 'Principia.' Again, the Earl of Chatham's favourite book was 'Barrow's Sermons,' which he read so often as to be able to repeat them from memory; while Burke's companions were Demosthenes, Milton, Bolingbroke, and Young's 'Night Thoughts.'

Milton’s favorite books were Homer, Ovid, and Euripides. The latter was also the favorite of Charles James Fox, who thought studying it was especially helpful for public speakers. On the other hand, Pitt particularly enjoyed Milton—whom Fox didn’t appreciate—finding joy in reciting, from 'Paradise Lost,' Belial’s grand speech before the gathered powers of Pandemonium. Another one of Pitt's favorite books was Newton's 'Principia.' Additionally, the Earl of Chatham’s favorite book was 'Barrow's Sermons,' which he read so often that he could recite them from memory; while Burke's companions included Demosthenes, Milton, Bolingbroke, and Young’s 'Night Thoughts.'

Curran's favourite was Homer, which he read through once a year. Virgil was another of his favourites; his biographer, Phillips, saying that he once saw him reading the 'Aeneid' in the cabin of a Holyhead packet, while every one about him was prostrate by seasickness.

Curran's favorite was Homer, which he read once a year. Virgil was another favorite of his; his biographer, Phillips, noted that he once saw him reading the 'Aeneid' in the cabin of a Holyhead packet while everyone around him was laid low by seasickness.

Of the poets, Dante's favourite was Virgil; Corneille's was Lucan; Schiller's was Shakspeare; Gray's was Spenser; whilst Coleridge admired Collins and Bowles. Dante himself was a favourite with most great poets, from Chaucer to Byron and Tennyson. Lord Brougham, Macaulay, and Carlyle have alike admired and eulogized the great Italian. The former advised the students at Glasgow that, next to Demosthenes, the study of Dante was the best preparative for the eloquence of the pulpit or the bar. Robert Hall sought relief in Dante from the racking pains of spinal disease; and Sydney Smith took to the same poet for comfort and solace in his old age. It was characteristic of Goethe that his favourite book should have been Spinoza's 'Ethics,' in which he said he had found a peace and consolation such as he had been able to find in no other work. 1912

Of all the poets, Dante's favorite was Virgil; Corneille’s was Lucan; Schiller’s was Shakespeare; Gray’s was Spenser; while Coleridge admired Collins and Bowles. Dante himself was a favorite among many great poets, from Chaucer to Byron and Tennyson. Lord Brougham, Macaulay, and Carlyle all admired and praised the great Italian. Brougham advised the students at Glasgow that, next to Demosthenes, studying Dante was the best preparation for eloquence in the pulpit or the courtroom. Robert Hall found relief in Dante from the severe pains of spinal disease, and Sydney Smith turned to the same poet for comfort and solace in his old age. It was typical of Goethe that his favorite book was Spinoza’s 'Ethics,' in which he said he found a peace and consolation he couldn’t find in any other work. 1912

Barrow's favourite was St. Chrysostom; Bossuet's was Homer. Bunyan's was the old legend of Sir Bevis of Southampton, which in all probability gave him the first idea of his 'Pilgrim's Progress.' One of the best prelates that ever sat on the English bench, Dr. John Sharp, said—"Shakspeare and the Bible have made me Archbishop of York." The two books which most impressed John Wesley when a young man, were 'The Imitation of Christ' and Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying.' Yet Wesley was accustomed to caution his young friends against overmuch reading. "Beware you be not swallowed up in books," he would say to them; "an ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge."

Barrow's favorite was St. Chrysostom; Bossuet's was Homer. Bunyan's was the old tale of Sir Bevis of Southampton, which probably inspired his 'Pilgrim's Progress.' One of the best bishops to ever serve in England, Dr. John Sharp, said, "Shakespeare and the Bible have made me Archbishop of York." The two books that left the biggest impression on John Wesley as a young man were 'The Imitation of Christ' and Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying.' Yet, Wesley often reminded his young friends not to read too much. "Be careful not to get lost in books," he would tell them; "an ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge."

Wesley's own Life has been a great favourite with many thoughtful readers. Coleridge says, in his preface to Southey's 'Life of Wesley,' that it was more often in his hands than any other in his ragged book-regiment. "To this work, and to the Life of Richard Baxter," he says, "I was used to resort whenever sickness and languor made me feel the want of an old friend of whose company I could never be tired. How many and many an hour of self-oblivion do I owe to this Life of Wesley; and how often have I argued with it, questioned, remonstrated, been peevish, and asked pardon; then again listened, and cried, 'Right! Excellent!' and in yet heavier hours entreated it, as it were, to continue talking to me; for that I heard and listened, and was soothed, though I could make no reply!" 1913

Wesley's own Life has been a favorite among many reflective readers. Coleridge mentions in his preface to Southey's 'Life of Wesley' that it was in his hands more often than any other book in his rough collection. "I used to turn to this work, along with the Life of Richard Baxter," he says, "whenever sickness and fatigue made me miss the company of an old friend I could never get tired of. How many hours of forgetting myself do I owe to this Life of Wesley; and how often have I debated with it, questioned it, complained, been irritable, and asked for forgiveness; only to listen again and shout, 'Right! Excellent!' and in even tougher times begged it to keep talking to me; for I heard, listened, and felt comforted, even though I couldn't respond!" 1913

Soumet had only a very few hooks in his library, but they were of the best—Homer, Virgil, Dante, Camoens, Tasso, and Milton. De Quincey's favourite few were Donne, Chillingworth, Jeremy Taylor, Milton, South, Barrow, and Sir Thomas Browne. He described these writers as "a pleiad or constellation of seven golden stars, such as in their class no literature can match," and from whose works he would undertake "to build up an entire body of philosophy."

Soumet had only a handful of books in his library, but they were the best—Homer, Virgil, Dante, Camoens, Tasso, and Milton. De Quincey's favorite few were Donne, Chillingworth, Jeremy Taylor, Milton, South, Barrow, and Sir Thomas Browne. He referred to these writers as "a group of seven shining stars, unmatched by any literature in their category," and from whose works he would aim "to create a complete philosophy."

Frederick the Great of Prussia manifested his strong French leanings in his choice of books; his principal favourites being Bayle, Rousseau, Voltaire, Rollin, Fleury, Malebranche, and one English author—Locke. His especial favourite was Bayle's Dictionary, which was the first book that laid hold of his mind; and he thought so highly of it, that he himself made an abridgment and translation of it into German, which was published. It was a saying of Frederick's, that "books make up no small part of true happiness." In his old age he said, "My latest passion will be for literature."

Frederick the Great of Prussia showed his strong preference for French culture through his book choices. His main favorites included Bayle, Rousseau, Voltaire, Rollin, Fleury, Malebranche, and one English author—Locke. His particular favorite was Bayle's Dictionary, which was the first book to capture his attention; he valued it so much that he created an abridged and translated version in German, which was published. Frederick once said, "Books make up a significant part of true happiness." In his later years, he remarked, "My final passion will be for literature."

It seems odd that Marshal Blucher's favourite book should have been Klopstock's 'Messiah,' and Napoleon Buonaparte's favourites, Ossian's 'Poems' and the 'Sorrows of Werther.' But Napoleon's range of reading was very extensive. It included Homer, Virgil, Tasso; novels of all countries; histories of all times; mathematics, legislation, and theology. He detested what he called "the bombast and tinsel" of Voltaire. The praises of Homer and Ossian he was never wearied of sounding. "Read again," he said to an officer on board the BELLEROPHO—"read again the poet of Achilles; devour Ossian. Those are the poets who lift up the soul, and give to man a colossal greatness." 1914

It seems strange that Marshal Blucher's favorite book was Klopstock's 'Messiah,' while Napoleon Bonaparte favored Ossian's 'Poems' and 'The Sorrows of Young Werther.' However, Napoleon had a very wide range of reading. He explored Homer, Virgil, and Tasso; novels from all over; histories from various eras; along with subjects like mathematics, law, and theology. He couldn't stand what he called "the bombast and tinsel" of Voltaire. He never tired of praising Homer and Ossian. "Read again," he told an officer on board the BELLEROPHO—"read again the poet of Achilles; devour Ossian. Those are the poets who elevate the soul and grant man a monumental greatness." 1914

The Duke of Wellington was an extensive reader; his principal favourites were Clarendon, Bishop Butler, Smith's 'Wealth of Nations,' Hume, the Archduke Charles, Leslie, and the Bible. He was also particularly interested by French and English memoirs—more especially the French MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR of all kinds. When at Walmer, Mr. Gleig says, the Bible, the Prayer Book, Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying,' and Caesar's 'Commentaries,' lay within the Duke's reach; and, judging by the marks of use on them, they must have been much read and often consulted.

The Duke of Wellington was an avid reader; his main favorites were Clarendon, Bishop Butler, Smith's 'Wealth of Nations,' Hume, the Archduke Charles, Leslie, and the Bible. He was especially interested in French and English memoirs—particularly the French MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR of all types. When he was at Walmer, Mr. Gleig notes that the Bible, the Prayer Book, Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying,' and Caesar's 'Commentaries' were always at the Duke's fingertips; and judging by the wear on them, they must have been read a lot and frequently referred to.

While books are among the best companions of old age, they are often the best inspirers of youth. The first book that makes a deep impression on a young man's mind, often constitutes an epoch in his life. It may fire the heart, stimulate the enthusiasm, and by directing his efforts into unexpected channels, permanently influence his character. The new book, in which we form an intimacy with a new friend, whose mind is wiser and riper than our own, may thus form an important starting-point in the history of a life. It may sometimes almost be regarded in the light of a new birth.

While books are some of the best companions in old age, they’re often the greatest sources of inspiration for young people. The first book that leaves a strong impression on a young man's mind can mark a significant moment in his life. It can ignite passion, boost enthusiasm, and by guiding his efforts into unexpected paths, it can have a lasting impact on his character. A new book, where we connect with a new friend whose thoughts are deeper and more developed than ours, can be a crucial starting point in a person’s life story. Sometimes, it can even feel like a new beginning.

From the day when James Edward Smith was presented with his first botanical lesson-book, and Sir Joseph Banks fell in with Gerard's 'Herbal'—from the time when Alfieri first read Plutarch, and Schiller made his first acquaintance with Shakspeare, and Gibbon devoured the first volume of 'The Universal History'—each dated an inspiration so exalted, that they felt as if their real lives had only then begun.

From the day James Edward Smith received his first botany textbook, and Sir Joseph Banks discovered Gerard's 'Herbal'—from the moment Alfieri first read Plutarch, Schiller got to know Shakespeare, and Gibbon immersed himself in the first volume of 'The Universal History'—each of these moments sparked such an intense inspiration that they felt like their true lives had just begun.

In the earlier part of his youth, La Fontaine was distinguished for his idleness, but hearing an ode by Malherbe read, he is said to have exclaimed, "I too am a poet," and his genius was awakened. Charles Bossuet's mind was first fired to study by reading, at an early age, Fontenelle's 'Eloges' of men of science. Another work of Fontenelle's—'On the Plurality of Worlds'—influenced the mind of Lalande in making choice of a profession. "It is with pleasure," says Lalande himself in a preface to the book, which he afterwards edited, "that I acknowledge my obligation to it for that devouring activity which its perusal first excited in me at the age of sixteen, and which I have since retained."

In his early years, La Fontaine was known for being lazy, but after hearing a poem by Malherbe, he reportedly exclaimed, "I’m a poet too," and his creativity was sparked. Charles Bossuet was inspired to study at a young age after reading Fontenelle's 'Eloges' of scientists. Another of Fontenelle's works—'On the Plurality of Worlds'—had a significant impact on Lalande's choice of career. "I am happy," Lalande said in a preface to the book he later edited, "to acknowledge my debt to it for that intense motivation it first ignited in me at the age of sixteen, which I’ve kept ever since."

In like manner, Lacepede was directed to the study of natural history by the perusal of Buffon's 'Histoire Naturelle,' which he found in his father's library, and read over and over again until he almost knew it by heart. Goethe was greatly influenced by the reading of Goldsmith's 'Vicar of Wakefield,' just at the critical moment of his mental development; and he attributed to it much of his best education. The reading of a prose 'Life of Gotz vou Berlichingen' afterwards stimulated him to delineate his character in a poetic form. "The figure of a rude, well-meaning self-helper," he said, "in a wild anarchic time, excited my deepest sympathy."

Similarly, Lacepède was inspired to study natural history after discovering Buffon's 'Histoire Naturelle' in his father's library. He read it repeatedly until he nearly memorized it. Goethe was significantly impacted by reading Goldsmith's 'Vicar of Wakefield' during a crucial period of his mental growth, crediting it with much of his education. Later, reading a prose version of 'Life of Götz von Berlichingen' motivated him to portray the character in a poetic way. "The image of a rough, well-meaning self-reliant person," he noted, "in a chaotic, anarchic time, stirred my deepest sympathy."

Keats was an insatiable reader when a boy; but it was the perusal of the 'Faerie Queen,' at the age of seventeen, that first lit the fire of his genius. The same poem is also said to have been the inspirer of Cowley, who found a copy of it accidentally lying on the window of his mother's apartment; and reading and admiring it, he became, as he relates, irrecoverably a poet.

Keats was an eager reader as a boy; however, it was reading the 'Faerie Queen' at seventeen that first sparked his genius. This same poem is also said to have inspired Cowley, who happened to find a copy resting on his mother's window. After reading and admiring it, he claims he became a poet for life.

Coleridge speaks of the great influence which the poems of Bowles had in forming his own mind. The works of a past age, says he, seem to a young man to be things of another race; but the writings of a contemporary "possess a reality for him, and inspire an actual friendship as of a man for a man. His very admiration is the wind which fans and feeds his hope. The poems themselves assume the properties of flesh and blood." 1915

Coleridge talks about the significant impact that Bowles' poems had on shaping his thoughts. He says that the works from the past feel like they belong to a different era for a young person; however, contemporary writings "hold a real connection for him and evoke a genuine friendship, just like one man feels for another. His admiration acts like the wind that stirs and nurtures his hopes. The poems themselves take on the qualities of flesh and blood." 1915

But men have not merely been stimulated to undertake special literary pursuits by the perusal of particular books; they have been also stimulated by them to enter upon particular lines of action in the serious business of life. Thus Henry Martyn was powerfully influenced to enter upon his heroic career as a missionary by perusing the Lives of Henry Brainerd and Dr. Carey, who had opened up the furrows in which he went forth to sow the seed.

But men haven’t just been inspired to pursue specific literary interests by reading certain books; they’ve also been encouraged to take on specific paths in the serious work of life. For instance, Henry Martyn was strongly influenced to embark on his heroic journey as a missionary by reading the lives of Henry Brainerd and Dr. Carey, who had paved the way for him to go out and spread the message.

Bentham has described the extraordinary influence which the perusal of 'Telemachus' exercised upon his mind in boyhood. "Another book," said he, "and of far higher character [19than a collection of Fairy Tales, to which he refers], was placed in my hands. It was 'Telemachus.' In my own imagination, and at the age of six or seven, I identified my own personality with that of the hero, who seemed to me a model of perfect virtue; and in my walk of life, whatever it may come to be, why [19said I to myself every now and then]—why should not I be a Telemachus?.... That romance may be regarded as THE FOUNDATION-STONE OF MY WHOLE CHARACTER—the starting-post from whence my career of life commenced. The first dawning in my mind of the 'Principles of Utility' may, I think, be traced to it." 1916

Bentham described the powerful impact that reading 'Telemachus' had on him as a child. "Another book," he said, "and of much greater significance [19than a collection of Fairy Tales, which he mentions], was given to me. It was 'Telemachus.' At the age of six or seven, I imagined myself as the hero, who seemed to embody perfect virtue; and in whatever path my life takes, I would often think to myself—why shouldn’t I be a Telemachus?.... That story can be seen as THE FOUNDATION-STONE OF MY ENTIRE CHARACTER—the starting point from which my life began. I believe the first spark in my mind of the 'Principles of Utility' can be traced back to it." 1916

Cobbett's first favourite, because his only book, which he bought for threepence, was Swift's 'Tale of a Tub,' the repeated perusal of which had, doubtless, much to do with the formation of his pithy, straightforward, and hard-hitting style of writing. The delight with which Pope, when a schoolboy, read Ogilvy's 'Homer' was, most probably, the origin of the English 'Iliad;' as the 'Percy Reliques' fired the juvenile mind of Scott, and stimulated him to enter upon the collection and composition of his 'Border Ballads.' Keightley's first reading of 'Paradise Lost,' when a boy, led to his afterwards undertaking his Life of the poet. "The reading," he says, "of 'Paradise Lost' for the first time forms, or should form, an era in the life of every one possessed of taste and poetic feeling. To my mind, that time is ever present.... Ever since, the poetry of Milton has formed my constant study—a source of delight in prosperity, of strength and consolation in adversity."

Cobbett's first favorite was Swift's 'Tale of a Tub,' which he bought for threepence. Reading it repeatedly definitely played a big part in shaping his direct, punchy, and impactful writing style. The joy Pope felt as a schoolboy reading Ogilvy's 'Homer' probably inspired the English 'Iliad,' just like the 'Percy Reliques' ignited Scott's youthful imagination and encouraged him to start collecting and writing his 'Border Ballads.' Keightley's first time reading 'Paradise Lost' as a boy led him to later write his Life of the poet. "Reading 'Paradise Lost' for the first time is a pivotal moment in the life of anyone with taste and a sense of poetry. To me, that moment is always present.... Since then, Milton's poetry has been a constant source of study for me—a source of joy in good times and strength and comfort in tough times."

Good books are thus among the best of companions; and, by elevating the thoughts and aspirations, they act as preservatives against low associations. "A natural turn for reading and intellectual pursuits," says Thomas Hood, "probably preserved me from the moral shipwreck so apt to befal those who are deprived in early life of their parental pilotage. My books kept me from the ring, the dogpit, the tavern, the saloon. The closet associate of Pope and Addison, the mind accustomed to the noble though silent discourse of Shakspeare and Milton, will hardly seek or put up with low company and slaves."

Good books are some of the best companions; by uplifting our thoughts and dreams, they help protect us from negative influences. "A natural inclination for reading and intellectual activities," says Thomas Hood, "probably saved me from the moral dangers that often befall those who lack parental guidance in their early years. My books kept me away from the arena, the dog fights, the pub, and the bar. Someone who closely associates with Pope and Addison, and whose mind is used to the inspiring yet quiet conversations of Shakespeare and Milton, will hardly look for or tolerate low company and dishonorable people."

It has been truly said, that the best books are those which most resemble good actions. They are purifying, elevating, and sustaining; they enlarge and liberalize the mind; they preserve it against vulgar worldliness; they tend to produce highminded cheerfulness and equanimity of character; they fashion, and shape, and humanize the mind. In the Northern universities, the schools in which the ancient classics are studied, are appropriately styled "The Humanity Classes." 1917

It has been honestly said that the best books are the ones that resemble good actions the most. They are uplifting, inspiring, and supportive; they expand and open up the mind; they protect it from common superficiality; they promote a noble joy and steadiness of character; they cultivate, shape, and humanize the mind. In the Northern universities, the schools where the ancient classics are studied are fittingly called "The Humanity Classes." 1917

Erasmus, the great scholar, was even of opinion that books were the necessaries of life, and clothes the luxuries; and he frequently postponed buying the latter until he had supplied himself with the former. His greatest favourites were the works of Cicero, which he says he always felt himself the better for reading. "I can never," he says, "read the works of Cicero on 'Old Age,' or 'Friendship,' or his 'Tusculan Disputations,' without fervently pressing them to my lips, without being penetrated with veneration for a mind little short of inspired by God himself." It was the accidental perusal of Cicero's 'Hortensius' which first detached St. Augustine—until then a profligate and abandoned sensualist—from his immoral life, and started him upon the course of inquiry and study which led to his becoming the greatest among the Fathers of the Early Church. Sir William Jones made it a practice to read through, once a year, the writings of Cicero, "whose life indeed," says his biographer, "was the great exemplar of his own."

Erasmus, the great scholar, believed that books were essential for life and that clothes were a luxury. He often delayed buying clothes until he had stocked up on books. His favorite works were those of Cicero, which he said always made him feel better after reading. "I can never," he stated, "read Cicero's works on 'Old Age,' 'Friendship,' or the 'Tusculan Disputations' without passionately pressing them to my lips, without feeling deep respect for a mind that seems almost inspired by God himself." It was by chance that St. Augustine first read Cicero's 'Hortensius,' which pulled him away from his immoral lifestyle as a reckless sensualist and set him on a path of inquiry and study that led him to become one of the greatest Fathers of the Early Church. Sir William Jones made it a habit to read Cicero's writings every year, "whose life indeed," according to his biographer, "was the great example of his own."

When the good old Puritan Baxter came to enumerate the valuable and delightful things of which death would deprive him, his mind reverted to the pleasures he had derived from books and study. "When I die," he said, "I must depart, not only from sensual delights, but from the more manly pleasures of my studies, knowledge, and converse with many wise and godly men, and from all my pleasure in reading, hearing, public and private exercises of religion, and such like. I must leave my library, and turn over those pleasant books no more. I must no more come among the living, nor see the faces of my faithful friends, nor be seen of man; houses, and cities, and fields, and countries, gardens, and walks, will be as nothing to me. I shall no more hear of the affairs of the world, of man, or wars, or other news; nor see what becomes of that beloved interest of wisdom, piety, and peace, which I desire may prosper."

When the good old Puritan Baxter thought about the valuable and enjoyable things he would lose when he died, he focused on the joy he found in books and learning. "When I die," he said, "I won’t just be leaving behind physical pleasures, but also the deeper joys of my studies, knowledge, and conversations with many wise and godly people, along with all my enjoyment from reading, listening to, and participating in religious activities, both public and private. I will have to say goodbye to my library and won’t be able to pick up those delightful books again. I won’t be able to be around the living, see the faces of my loyal friends, or be seen by anyone. Houses, cities, fields, countries, gardens, and walks will mean nothing to me anymore. I won’t hear about the world’s happenings, people, or wars, or any other news; nor will I see what happens to the cherished pursuits of wisdom, piety, and peace, which I hope will thrive."

It is unnecessary to speak of the enormous moral influence which books have exercised upon the general civilization of mankind, from the Bible downwards. They contain the treasured knowledge of the human race. They are the record of all labours, achievements, speculations, successes, and failures, in science, philosophy, religion, and morals. They have been the greatest motive powers in all times. "From the Gospel to the Contrat Social," says De Bonald, "it is books that have made revolutions." Indeed, a great book is often a greater thing than a great battle. Even works of fiction have occasionally exercised immense power on society. Thus Rabelais in France, and Cervantes in Spain, overturned at the same time the dominion of monkery and chivalry, employing no other weapons but ridicule, the natural contrast of human terror. The people laughed, and felt reassured. So 'Telemachus' appeared, and recalled men back to the harmonies of nature.

It’s unnecessary to talk about the huge moral impact that books have had on the overall civilization of humanity, starting with the Bible. They hold the valuable knowledge of the human race. They are the record of all efforts, achievements, ideas, successes, and failures in science, philosophy, religion, and ethics. They have been the biggest driving forces throughout history. "From the Gospel to the Contrat Social," says De Bonald, "it is books that have caused revolutions." In fact, a great book can often be more significant than a great battle. Even fiction has sometimes wielded immense power over society. For example, Rabelais in France and Cervantes in Spain challenged the dominance of monkery and chivalry at the same time, using nothing but ridicule, the natural contrast to human fear. People laughed and felt reassured. Then 'Telemachus' came out, reminding people of the harmonies of nature.

"Poets," says Hazlitt, "are a longer-lived race than heroes: they breathe more of the air of immortality. They survive more entire in their thoughts and acts. We have all that Virgil or Homer did, as much as if we had lived at the same time with them. We can hold their works in our hands, or lay them on our pillows, or put them to our lips. Scarcely a trace of what the others did is left upon the earth, so as to be visible to common eyes. The one, the dead authors, are living men, still breathing and moving in their writings; the others, the conquerors of the world, are but the ashes in an urn. The sympathy [19so to speak] between thought and thought is more intimate and vital than that between thought and action. Thought is linked to thought as flame kindles into flame; the tribute of admiration to the MANES of departed heroism is like burning incense in a marble monument. Words, ideas, feelings, with the progress of time harden into substances: things, bodies, actions, moulder away, or melt into a sound—into thin air.... Not only a man's actions are effaced and vanish with him; his virtues and generous qualities die with him also. His intellect only is immortal, and bequeathed unimpaired to posterity. Words are the only things that last for ever." 1918

"Poets," says Hazlitt, "live longer than heroes: they embody more of the essence of immortality. Their thoughts and actions endure more completely. We have all that Virgil or Homer created, just as if we had lived alongside them. We can hold their works in our hands, place them on our pillows, or bring them to our lips. There’s hardly any trace of what the others accomplished left on earth, so it’s visible to ordinary eyes. The former, the dead authors, are living beings, still breathing and moving through their writings; the latter, the conquerors of the world, are just ashes in an urn. The connection between thoughts is more profound and vital than that between thought and action. Thoughts ignite one another like flames; the tribute of admiration to the MEMORY of past heroism is like burning incense at a marble monument. Words, ideas, feelings harden into tangible things over time; objects, bodies, and actions decay or dissolve into sound—into thin air.... Not only do a man's actions disappear with him; his virtues and noble qualities vanish as well. Only his intellect remains immortal, passed down intact to future generations. Words are the only things that last forever." 1918





CHAPTER XI.—COMPANIONSHIP IN MARRIAGE.

          "Kindness in women, not their beauteous looks,
          Shall win my love."—SHAKSPEARE.

     "In the husband Wisdom, In the wife Gentleness."—GEORGE
     HERBERT.

     "If God had designed woman as man's master, He would have
     taken her from his head; If as his slave, He would have
     taken her from his feet; but as He designed her for his
     companion and equal, He took her from his side."—SAINT
     AUGUSTINE.—'DE CIVITATE DEI.'

     "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above
     rubies.... Her husband is known in the gates, and he sitteth
     among the elders of the land.... Strength and honour are her
     clothing, and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth
     her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of
     kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her husband, and
     eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up and
     call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her."—
     PROVERBS OF SOLOMON.
          "Kindness in women, not their beautiful looks,  
          shall win my love." —SHAKESPEARE.  

     "In the husband, wisdom; in the wife, gentleness." —GEORGE  
     HERBERT.  

     "If God had meant for woman to be man's master, He would have  
     taken her from his head; if as his slave, He would have  
     taken her from his feet; but since He designed her to be his  
     companion and equal, He took her from his side." —SAINT  
     AUGUSTINE. —'DE CIVITATE DEI.'  

     "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her worth is far above  
     rubies... Her husband is known at the city gates, and he sits  
     among the elders of the land... Strength and dignity are her  
     clothing, and she will rejoice in the future. She opens her  
     mouth with wisdom, and the law of kindness is on her tongue.  
     She looks well to the ways of her husband and does not eat the  
     bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed;  
     her husband also, and he praises her." —PROVERBS OF SOLOMON.

THE character of men, as of women, is powerfully influenced by their companionship in all the stages of life. We have already spoken of the influence of the mother in forming the character of her children. She makes the moral atmosphere in which they live, and by which their minds and souls are nourished, as their bodies are by the physical atmosphere they breathe. And while woman is the natural cherisher of infancy and the instructor of childhood, she is also the guide and counsellor of youth, and the confidant and companion of manhood, in her various relations of mother, sister, lover, and wife. In short, the influence of woman more or less affects, for good or for evil, the entire destinies of man.

THE character of men, like that of women, is greatly shaped by the people they surround themselves with at every stage of life. We’ve already discussed how a mother's influence helps shape her children's character. She creates the moral environment they grow up in, which nourishes their minds and souls just as the physical air they breathe nourishes their bodies. While women are naturally the nurturers of infancy and teachers of childhood, they also serve as guides and advisers during youth, and as confidants and companions in adulthood, playing roles as mothers, sisters, lovers, and wives. In short, a woman’s influence has a significant impact—whether positive or negative—on the overall destinies of men.

The respective social functions and duties of men and women are clearly defined by nature. God created man AND woman, each to do their proper work, each to fill their proper sphere. Neither can occupy the position, nor perform the functions, of the other. Their several vocations are perfectly distinct. Woman exists on her own account, as man does on his, at the same time that each has intimate relations with the other. Humanity needs both for the purposes of the race, and in every consideration of social progress both must necessarily be included.

The social roles and responsibilities of men and women are clearly defined by nature. God created men and women, each to do their own jobs and to occupy their own spaces. Neither can take on the role or perform the tasks of the other. Their individual roles are completely separate. A woman exists for her own reasons, just as a man does for his, while both have close connections with each other. Humanity needs both for the continuation of the species, and in any discussion about social progress, both must be included.

Though companions and equals, yet, as regards the measure of their powers, they are unequal. Man is stronger, more muscular, and of rougher fibre; woman is more delicate, sensitive, and nervous. The one excels in power of brain, the other in qualities of heart; and though the head may rule, it is the heart that influences. Both are alike adapted for the respective functions they have to perform in life; and to attempt to impose woman's work upon man would be quite as absurd as to attempt to impose man's work upon woman. Men are sometimes womanlike, and women are sometimes manlike; but these are only exceptions which prove the rule.

Though friends and equals, when it comes to their abilities, they are not the same. Men are stronger, more muscular, and have a rougher build; women are more delicate, sensitive, and emotional. One excels in intellectual power, while the other shines in emotional qualities; and while the mind may lead, it’s the heart that has the real impact. Both are well-suited for the different roles they need to fulfill in life, and trying to assign a woman’s role to a man would be just as ridiculous as trying to assign a man’s role to a woman. Men can sometimes act in a feminine way, and women can sometimes act in a masculine way; but these are only exceptions that confirm the overall pattern.

Although man's qualities belong more to the head, and woman's more to the heart—yet it is not less necessary that man's heart should be cultivated as well as his head, and woman's head cultivated as well as her heart. A heartless man is as much out-of-keeping in civilized society as a stupid and unintelligent woman. The cultivation of all parts of the moral and intellectual nature is requisite to form the man or woman of healthy and well-balanced character. Without sympathy or consideration for others, man were a poor, stunted, sordid, selfish being; and without cultivated intelligence, the most beautiful woman were little better than a well-dressed doll.

Although men tend to focus more on logic and women on emotions, it's equally important for men to nurture their emotions and for women to develop their intellect. A man without compassion doesn't fit into civilized society any more than an unintelligent woman does. To create a well-rounded person with a healthy character, it's essential to develop both moral and intellectual capacities. Without empathy and regard for others, a man would be a poor, limited, selfish individual; and without intellectual growth, even the most beautiful woman would be no more than a well-dressed doll.

It used to be a favourite notion about woman, that her weakness and dependency upon others constituted her principal claim to admiration. "If we were to form an image of dignity in a man," said Sir Richard Steele, "we should give him wisdom and valour, as being essential to the character of manhood. In like manner, if you describe a right woman in a laudable sense, she should have gentle softness, tender fear, and all those parts of life which distinguish her from the other sex, with some subordination to it, but an inferiority which makes her lovely." Thus, her weakness was to be cultivated, rather than her strength; her folly, rather than her wisdom. She was to be a weak, fearful, tearful, characterless, inferior creature, with just sense enough to understand the soft nothings addressed to her by the "superior" sex. She was to be educated as an ornamental appanage of man, rather as an independent intelligence—or as a wife, mother, companion, or friend.

It used to be a common belief about women that their weakness and reliance on others were their main reasons for admiration. "If we were to picture dignity in a man," said Sir Richard Steele, "we should attribute wisdom and courage to him, as those are essential to being a man. Similarly, if you describe a virtuous woman, she should have gentle softness, tender fear, and all the qualities that distinguish her from men, along with some deference to them, but not an inferiority that makes her lovely." Thus, her weakness was to be nurtured rather than her strength; her foolishness, rather than her wisdom. She was expected to be a weak, fearful, tearful, characterless, inferior being, with just enough sense to understand the sweet nothings spoken to her by the "superior" sex. She was to be educated as a decorative accessory to man, rather than as an independent individual—or as a wife, mother, companion, or friend.

Pope, in one of his 'Moral Essays,' asserts that "most women have no characters at all;" and again he says:—

Pope, in one of his 'Moral Essays,' claims that "most women don't have any character at all;" and then he adds:—

          "Ladies, like variegated tulips, show:
          'Tis to their changes half their charms we owe,
          Fine by defect and delicately weak."
          "Women, like colorful tulips, demonstrate:  
          It's their changes that give them half their appeal,  
          Beautiful in their flaws and gracefully fragile."

This satire characteristically occurs in the poet's 'Epistle to Martha Blount,' the housekeeper who so tyrannically ruled him; and in the same verses he spitefully girds at Lady Mary Wortley Montague, at whose feet he had thrown himself as a lover, and been contemptuously rejected. But Pope was no judge of women, nor was he even a very wise or tolerant judge of men.

This satire typically appears in the poet's 'Epistle to Martha Blount,' the housekeeper who dominated him; in the same lines, he spitefully criticizes Lady Mary Wortley Montague, at whose feet he had humbly thrown himself as a lover and was dismissively rejected. But Pope was not a good judge of women, nor was he a very wise or tolerant judge of men.

It is still too much the practice to cultivate the weakness of woman rather than her strength, and to render her attractive rather than self-reliant. Her sensibilities are developed at the expense of her health of body as well as of mind. She lives, moves, and has her being in the sympathy of others. She dresses that she may attract, and is burdened with accomplishments that she may be chosen. Weak, trembling, and dependent, she incurs the risk of becoming a living embodiment of the Italian proverb—"so good that she is good for nothing."

It's still common to encourage women's weaknesses instead of their strengths, making them attractive rather than self-sufficient. Their sensitivities are developed at the cost of both their physical and mental health. They live, move, and exist in the empathy of others. They dress to attract attention and are weighed down by skills intended to make them appealing. Weak, anxious, and reliant, they risk becoming a living example of the Italian proverb—"so good that she is good for nothing."

On the other hand, the education of young men too often errs on the side of selfishness. While the boy is incited to trust mainly to his own efforts in pushing his way in the world, the girl is encouraged to rely almost entirely upon others. He is educated with too exclusive reference to himself and she is educated with too exclusive reference to him. He is taught to be self-reliant and self-dependent, while she is taught to be distrustful of herself, dependent, and self-sacrificing in all things. Thus, the intellect of the one is cultivated at the expense of the affections, and the affections of the other at the expense of the intellect.

On the other hand, the education of young men often falls into the trap of selfishness. While boys are taught to rely mainly on their own efforts to succeed, girls are encouraged to depend almost entirely on others. Boys are educated with too much focus on themselves, while girls are educated with too much focus on boys. He learns to be self-reliant and independent, while she is taught to be insecure, dependent, and self-sacrificing in everything. As a result, one person's intellect is developed at the cost of emotional connections, and the other’s emotional connections are developed at the cost of intellectual growth.

It is unquestionable that the highest qualities of woman are displayed in her relationship to others, through the medium of her affections. She is the nurse whom nature has given to all humankind. She takes charge of the helpless, and nourishes and cherishes those we love. She is the presiding genius of the fireside, where she creates an atmosphere of serenity and contentment suitable for the nurture and growth of character in its best forms. She is by her very constitution compassionate, gentle, patient, and self-denying. Loving, hopeful, trustful, her eye sheds brightness everywhere. It shines upon coldness and warms it, upon suffering and relieves it, upon sorrow and cheers it:—

It’s clear that the greatest qualities of a woman are shown in her relationships with others, through her capacity for love. She is the caregiver that nature has given to everyone. She looks after the vulnerable and nurtures those we care about. She is the heart of the home, where she creates a peaceful and content environment that's perfect for nurturing and developing good character. By her nature, she is compassionate, gentle, patient, and selfless. Loving, hopeful, and trusting, her presence brings light everywhere. She shines on coldness and warms it, on suffering and eases it, on sorrow and uplifts it:—

                          "Her silver flow
          Of subtle-paced counsel in distress,
        Right to the heart and brain, though undescried,
          Winning its way with extreme gentleness
        Through all the outworks of suspicion's pride."
                          "Her silver words
          Of carefully measured advice in tough times,
        Right to the heart and mind, though unseen,
          Gaining entrance with remarkable kindness
        Through all the barriers built by pride and doubt."

Woman has been styled "the angel of the unfortunate." She is ready to help the weak, to raise the fallen, to comfort the suffering. It was characteristic of woman, that she should have been the first to build and endow an hospital. It has been said that wherever a human being is in suffering, his sighs call a woman to his side. When Mungo Park, lonely, friendless, and famished, after being driven forth from an African village by the men, was preparing to spend the night under a tree, exposed to the rain and the wild beasts which there abounded, a poor negro woman, returning from the labours of the field, took compassion upon him, conducted him into her hut, and there gave him food, succour, and shelter. 201

Woman has been called "the angel of the unfortunate." She is always ready to help the weak, uplift the fallen, and comfort those who are suffering. It’s typical for a woman to be the first to build and support a hospital. It's been said that wherever someone is in pain, their sighs summon a woman to their side. When Mungo Park, lonely, friendless, and starving, was forced out of an African village by the men and was about to spend the night under a tree, vulnerable to the rain and the wild animals around, a poor African woman, coming back from her work in the fields, took pity on him, led him to her hut, and there provided him with food, assistance, and shelter. 201

But while the most characteristic qualities of woman are displayed through her sympathies and affections, it is also necessary for her own happiness, as a self-dependent being, to develope and strengthen her character, by due self-culture, self-reliance, and self-control. It is not desirable, even were it possible, to close the beautiful avenues of the heart. Self-reliance of the best kind does not involve any limitation in the range of human sympathy. But the happiness of woman, as of man, depends in a great measure upon her individual completeness of character. And that self-dependence which springs from the due cultivation of the intellectual powers, conjoined with a proper discipline of the heart and conscience, will enable her to be more useful in life as well as happy; to dispense blessings intelligently as well as to enjoy them; and most of all those which spring from mutual dependence and social sympathy.

But while the most typical qualities of women are shown through their compassion and affection, it's also essential for their own happiness, as independent individuals, to develop and strengthen their character through self-improvement, self-reliance, and self-control. It's not ideal, even if it were possible, to shut off the beautiful pathways of the heart. The best kind of self-reliance doesn't limit the capacity for human empathy. However, a woman's happiness, like a man's, largely relies on her overall completeness of character. That self-dependence, which comes from nurturing intellectual abilities combined with proper training of the heart and conscience, will enable her to be both more valuable in life and more fulfilled; to share blessings thoughtfully as well as enjoy them, especially those that arise from mutual dependence and social connection.

To maintain a high standard of purity in society, the culture of both sexes must be in harmony, and keep equal pace. A pure womanhood must be accompanied by a pure manhood. The same moral law applies alike to both. It would be loosening the foundations of virtue, to countenance the notion that because of a difference in sex, man were at liberty to set morality at defiance, and to do that with impunity, which, if done by a woman, would stain her character for life. To maintain a pure and virtuous condition of society, therefore, man as well as woman must be pure and virtuous; both alike shunning all acts impinging on the heart, character, and conscience—shunning them as poison, which, once imbibed, can never be entirely thrown out again, but mentally embitters, to a greater or less extent, the happiness of after-life.

To maintain a high standard of purity in society, both genders must be in sync and keep pace with each other. Pure womanhood must go hand in hand with pure manhood. The same moral standards apply to both. It would undermine the foundations of virtue to accept the idea that, simply because of their gender, men can disregard morality without facing consequences, while a woman would forever tarnish her character for the same actions. To keep society pure and virtuous, both men and women must uphold those values, avoiding any actions that impact the heart, character, and conscience—steering clear of them as if they were poison, which, once ingested, can never be completely expelled, but will always taint the happiness of later life to some degree.

And here we would venture to touch upon a delicate topic. Though it is one of universal and engrossing human interest, the moralist avoids it, the educator shuns it, and parents taboo it. It is almost considered indelicate to refer to Love as between the sexes; and young persons are left to gather their only notions of it from the impossible love-stories that fill the shelves of circulating libraries. This strong and absorbing feeling, this BESOIN D'AIMER—which nature has for wise purposes made so strong in woman that it colours her whole life and history, though it may form but an episode in the life of man—is usually left to follow its own inclinations, and to grow up for the most part unchecked, without any guidance or direction whatever.

And here we would like to address a sensitive topic. Although it’s one that interests everyone, the moralist avoids it, educators steer clear of it, and parents consider it off-limits. It’s almost seen as inappropriate to discuss love between the sexes; young people are left to form their own ideas from unrealistic love stories that fill the shelves of libraries. This intense and captivating feeling, this NEED FOR LOVE—which nature has purposefully made so powerful in women that it colors their entire lives and histories, while it might just be a side note in a man’s life—is usually allowed to develop on its own, growing largely unchecked and without any guidance or direction.

Although nature spurns all formal rules and directions in affairs of love, it might at all events be possible to implant in young minds such views of Character as should enable them to discriminate between the true and the false, and to accustom them to hold in esteem those qualities of moral purity and integrity, without which life is but a scene of folly and misery. It may not be possible to teach young people to love wisely, but they may at least be guarded by parental advice against the frivolous and despicable passions which so often usurp its name. "Love," it has been said, "in the common acceptation of the term, is folly; but love, in its purity, its loftiness, its unselfishness, is not only a consequence, but a proof, of our moral excellence. The sensibility to moral beauty, the forgetfulness of self in the admiration engendered by it, all prove its claim to a high moral influence. It is the triumph of the unselfish over the selfish part of our nature."

Although nature ignores all formal rules and guidelines in matters of love, it might still be possible to instill in young minds perspectives on character that help them distinguish between what is true and what is false. This would encourage them to value qualities of moral purity and integrity, without which life is just a series of foolishness and suffering. While it may not be feasible to teach young people to love wisely, they can at least be protected by parental guidance against the shallow and contemptible passions that often masquerade as love. "Love," it has been said, "in the usual sense, is foolishness; but love, in its purity, its nobility, its selflessness, is not only a result but also a confirmation of our moral excellence. The sensitivity to moral beauty and the selflessness that comes from its admiration all demonstrate its potential for a significant moral impact. It represents the victory of the unselfish over the selfish aspects of our nature."

It is by means of this divine passion that the world is kept ever fresh and young. It is the perpetual melody of humanity. It sheds an effulgence upon youth, and throws a halo round age. It glorifies the present by the light it casts backward, and it lightens the future by the beams it casts forward. The love which is the outcome of esteem and admiration, has an elevating and purifying effect on the character. It tends to emancipate one from the slavery of self. It is altogether unsordid; itself is its only price. It inspires gentleness, sympathy, mutual faith, and confidence. True love also in a measure elevates the intellect. "All love renders wise in a degree," says the poet Browning, and the most gifted minds have been the sincerest lovers. Great souls make all affections great; they elevate and consecrate all true delights. The sentiment even brings to light qualities before lying dormant and unsuspected. It elevates the aspirations, expands the soul, and stimulates the mental powers. One of the finest compliments ever paid to a woman was that of Steele, when he said of Lady Elizabeth Hastings, "that to have loved her was a liberal education." Viewed in this light, woman is an educator in the highest sense, because, above all other educators, she educates humanly and lovingly.

It’s through this divine passion that the world stays fresh and youthful. It’s the constant melody of humanity. It brings a glow to youth and creates a halo around age. It enhances the present with the light it shines backward and brightens the future with the beams it casts forward. The love that comes from respect and admiration has an uplifting and purifying effect on one’s character. It helps free a person from the bondage of self. It is entirely unselfish; its only worth is in itself. It inspires kindness, empathy, mutual trust, and confidence. True love also elevates the mind to some degree. "All love makes us wiser to an extent," says the poet Browning, and the most talented individuals have often been the most genuine lovers. Great souls elevate all affections, enhancing and sanctifying all genuine joys. This sentiment even reveals qualities that were previously dormant and unnoticed. It lifts aspirations, broadens the soul, and stimulates mental abilities. One of the best compliments ever given to a woman came from Steele, who said of Lady Elizabeth Hastings, "to have loved her was a broad education." Seen this way, a woman is an educator in the truest sense, because, more than any other educator, she teaches with humanity and love.

It has been said that no man and no woman can be regarded as complete in their experience of life, until they have been subdued into union with the world through their affections. As woman is not woman until she has known love, neither is man man. Both are requisite to each other's completeness. Plato entertained the idea that lovers each sought a likeness in the other, and that love was only the divorced half of the original human being entering into union with its counterpart. But philosophy would here seem to be at fault, for affection quite as often springs from unlikeness as from likeness in its object.

It has been said that no man or woman can be considered complete in their experience of life until they have been united with the world through their emotions. A woman isn't truly a woman until she has known love, and the same goes for a man. Both are essential to each other's wholeness. Plato suggested that lovers seek similarities in one another, believing that love was simply the separated half of the original human being coming together with its match. However, this philosophical idea seems flawed, as affection often arises from differences as much as from similarities in its object.

The true union must needs be one of mind as well as of heart, and based on mutual esteem as well as mutual affection. "No true and enduring love," says Fichte, "can exist without esteem; every other draws regret after it, and is unworthy of any noble human soul." One cannot really love the bad, but always something that we esteem and respect as well as admire. In short, true union must rest on qualities of character, which rule in domestic as in public life.

True union has to be one of both mind and heart, grounded in mutual respect as well as mutual affection. "No true and lasting love," says Fichte, "can exist without respect; every other kind leads to regret and is unworthy of any noble human soul." You can't genuinely love something bad; love is always directed towards what we respect and admire. In short, true union should be based on character qualities that apply in both home and public life.

But there is something far more than mere respect and esteem in the union between man and wife. The feeling on which it rests is far deeper and tenderer—such, indeed, as never exists between men or between women. "In matters of affection," says Nathaniel Hawthorne, "there is always an impassable gulf between man and man. They can never quite grasp each other's hands, and therefore man never derives any intimate help, any heart-sustenance, from his brother man, but from woman—his mother, his sister, or his wife." 202

But there’s something much deeper than just respect and admiration in the bond between a husband and wife. The feelings that hold it together are more profound and tender—feelings that don’t exist in the same way between men or between women. "In matters of affection," says Nathaniel Hawthorne, "there is always an unbridgeable gap between man and man. They can never fully connect with each other, and as a result, a man never receives any intimate support, any emotional nourishment, from his male friends, but rather from a woman—his mother, his sister, or his wife." 202

Man enters a new world of joy, and sympathy, and human interest, through the porch of love. He enters a new world in his home—the home of his own making—altogether different from the home of his boyhood, where each day brings with it a succession of new joys and experiences. He enters also, it may be, a new world of trials and sorrows, in which he often gathers his best culture and discipline. "Family life," says Sainte-Beuve, "may be full of thorns and cares; but they are fruitful: all others are dry thorns." And again: "If a man's home, at a certain period of life, does not contain children, it will probably be found filled with follies or with vices." 203

Man steps into a new world of joy, empathy, and human connection through the doorway of love. He enters a new world in his home—the one he has created—completely different from his childhood home, where each day brings a wave of new joys and experiences. He may also enter a new realm of challenges and sadness, where he often cultivates his best growth and resilience. "Family life," says Sainte-Beuve, "might be filled with thorns and worries; but they bear fruit: all others are just dry thorns." And again: "If a man's home, at a certain stage of life, doesn’t have children, it will likely be filled with foolishness or vice." 203

A life exclusively occupied in affairs of business insensibly tends to narrow and harden the character. It is mainly occupied with self-watching for advantages, and guarding against sharp practice on the part of others. Thus the character unconsciously tends to grow suspicious and ungenerous. The best corrective of such influences is always the domestic; by withdrawing the mind from thoughts that are wholly gainful, by taking it out of its daily rut, and bringing it back to the sanctuary of home for refreshment and rest:

A life focused solely on business affairs gradually tends to narrow and harden a person's character. It mainly revolves around watching out for personal advantages and protecting oneself from the deceptive practices of others. As a result, one’s character can unconsciously become suspicious and unkind. The best way to counteract these influences is through home life; by pulling your mind away from purely material concerns, stepping out of your daily routine, and returning to the comfort of home for refreshment and rest:

          "That truest, rarest light of social joy,
          Which gleams upon the man of many cares."
          "That genuine, rare light of social happiness,  
          Which shines on the man with many worries."

"Business," says Sir Henry Taylor, "does but lay waste the approaches to the heart, whilst marriage garrisons the fortress." And however the head may be occupied, by labours of ambition or of business—if the heart be not occupied by affection for others and sympathy with them—life, though it may appear to the outer world to be a success, will probably be no success at all, but a failure. 204

"Business," says Sir Henry Taylor, "only wastes the paths to the heart, while marriage protects the stronghold." And no matter how busy the mind is with ambition or work—if the heart isn’t filled with love for others and empathy for them—life, even if it seems successful to the outside world, will likely be a failure in reality. 204

A man's real character will always be more visible in his household than anywhere else; and his practical wisdom will be better exhibited by the manner in which he bears rule there, than even in the larger affairs of business or public life. His whole mind may be in his business; but, if he would be happy, his whole heart must be in his home. It is there that his genuine qualities most surely display themselves—there that he shows his truthfulness, his love, his sympathy, his consideration for others, his uprightness, his manliness—in a word, his character. If affection be not the governing principle in a household, domestic life may be the most intolerable of despotisms. Without justice, also, there can be neither love, confidence, nor respect, on which all true domestic rule is founded.

A man's true character is always clearer at home than anywhere else, and his real wisdom is shown by how he manages his household, even more than in business or public life. His mind might be focused on work, but if he wants to be happy, his heart needs to be invested in his home. It's there that his genuine qualities come to light—where he demonstrates his honesty, love, empathy, thoughtfulness for others, integrity, and masculinity—in short, his character. If love isn't the main principle in a household, domestic life can become a harsh dictatorship. Without justice, there can be no love, trust, or respect, which are the foundations of true domestic governance.

Erasmus speaks of Sir Thomas More's home as "a school and exercise of the Christian religion." "No wrangling, no angry word was heard in it; no one was idle; every one did his duty with alacrity, and not without a temperate cheerfulness." Sir Thomas won all hearts to obedience by his gentleness. He was a man clothed in household goodness; and he ruled so gently and wisely, that his home was pervaded by an atmosphere of love and duty. He himself spoke of the hourly interchange of the smaller acts of kindness with the several members of his family, as having a claim upon his time as strong as those other public occupations of his life which seemed to others so much more serious and important.

Erasmus describes Sir Thomas More's home as "a school and practice of the Christian faith." "There was no arguing, no harsh words spoken; no one was idle; everyone fulfilled their responsibilities with eagerness and a calm cheerfulness." Sir Thomas won everyone's hearts to comply through his gentleness. He was a person filled with kindness at home; he governed so gently and wisely that his household was filled with an atmosphere of love and responsibility. He considered the constant exchange of small acts of kindness among his family members to be as important as the other public duties in his life that seemed so much more serious and crucial to others.

But the man whose affections are quickened by home-life, does not confine his sympathies within that comparatively narrow sphere. His love enlarges in the family, and through the family it expands into the world. "Love," says Emerson, "is a fire that, kindling its first embers in the narrow nook of a private bosom, caught from a wandering spark out of another private heart, glows and enlarges until it warms and beams upon multitudes of men and women, upon the universal heart of all, and so lights up the whole world and nature with its generous flames."

But a man who is deeply affected by home life doesn’t limit his compassion to just that small circle. His love grows within the family and, through them, spreads out into the world. "Love," as Emerson puts it, "is a fire that starts with the first sparks in the cozy corner of a private heart, caught from a random flash from another private heart, it glows and expands until it warms and shines on countless people, on the universal heart of everyone, and lights up the whole world and nature with its generous flames."

It is by the regimen of domestic affection that the heart of man is best composed and regulated. The home is the woman's kingdom, her state, her world—where she governs by affection, by kindness, by the power of gentleness. There is nothing which so settles the turbulence of a man's nature as his union in life with a highminded woman. There he finds rest, contentment, and happiness—rest of brain and peace of spirit. He will also often find in her his best counsellor, for her instinctive tact will usually lead him right when his own unaided reason might be apt to go wrong. The true wife is a staff to lean upon in times of trial and difficulty; and she is never wanting in sympathy and solace when distress occurs or fortune frowns. In the time of youth, she is a comfort and an ornament of man's life; and she remains a faithful helpmate in maturer years, when life has ceased to be an anticipation, and we live in its realities.

It's through the routine of home love that a man's heart is best balanced and managed. The home is a woman's domain—her territory, her world—where she leads with love, kindness, and the power of gentleness. Nothing calms a man's restless nature like being united in life with a noble woman. There, he finds rest, fulfillment, and happiness—peace of mind and tranquility of spirit. He will often also find in her his best advisor, as her natural intuition usually guides him correctly when his own judgment might lead him astray. The true wife is a support during tough times, always providing sympathy and comfort when trouble arises or fate turns against him. In youth, she is a source of comfort and beauty in a man's life, and she remains a loyal partner in later years when life shifts from anticipation to reality.

What a happy man must Edmund Burke have been, when he could say of his home, "Every care vanishes the moment I enter under my own roof!" And Luther, a man full of human affection, speaking of his wife, said, "I would not exchange my poverty with her for all the riches of Croesus without her." Of marriage he observed: "The utmost blessing that God can confer on a man is the possession of a good and pious wife, with whom he may live in peace and tranquillity—to whom he may confide his whole possessions, even his life and welfare." And again he said, "To rise betimes, and to marry young, are what no man ever repents of doing."

What a happy man Edmund Burke must have been when he could say of his home, "Every worry disappears the moment I step under my own roof!" And Luther, a man full of human warmth, spoke of his wife, saying, "I wouldn't trade my poverty with her for all the riches of Croesus without her." About marriage, he noted: "The greatest blessing that God can give a man is a good and devout wife, with whom he can live in peace and tranquility—to whom he can trust his whole life, even his safety and well-being." He also said, "Getting up early and marrying young are things no man ever regrets doing."

For a man to enjoy true repose and happiness in marriage, he must have in his wife a soul-mate as well as a helpmate. But it is not requisite that she should be merely a pale copy of himself. A man no more desires in his wife a manly woman, than the woman desires in her husband a feminine man. A woman's best qualities do not reside in her intellect, but in her affections. She gives refreshment by her sympathies, rather than by her knowledge. "The brain-women," says Oliver Wendell Holmes, "never interest us like the heart-women." 205 Men are often so wearied with themselves, that they are rather predisposed to admire qualities and tastes in others different from their own. "If I were suddenly asked," says Mr. Helps, "to give a proof of the goodness of God to us, I think I should say that it is most manifest in the exquisite difference He has made between the souls of men and women, so as to create the possibility of the most comforting and charming companionship that the mind of man can imagine." 206 But though no man may love a woman for her understanding, it is not the less necessary for her to cultivate it on that account. 207 There may be difference in character, but there must be harmony of mind and sentiment—two intelligent souls as well as two loving hearts:

For a man to truly relax and find happiness in marriage, he needs a wife who is both a soulmate and a partner. But she doesn’t have to be just a pale version of him. A man doesn’t want a masculine woman any more than a woman wants a feminine man. A woman’s best traits aren’t her intellect, but her emotions. She offers comfort through her empathy, rather than her knowledge. "Brainy women," as Oliver Wendell Holmes says, "never interest us like heartful women." 205 Men often feel so tired of themselves that they’re likely to appreciate qualities and preferences in others that are different from their own. "If I were suddenly asked," says Mr. Helps, "to prove God's goodness to us, I think I would say it’s most evident in the beautiful differences He has created between the souls of men and women, allowing for the most comforting and delightful companionship that the mind of man can imagine." 206 But even if no man loves a woman for her intellect, it’s still important for her to develop it. 207 There may be differences in character, but there must be harmony in mind and feelings—two intelligent souls as well as two loving hearts:

          "Two heads in council, two beside the hearth,
          Two in the tangled business of the world,
          Two in the liberal offices of life."
          "Two people discussing things, two by the fireplace,  
          Two dealing with the complexities of life,  
          Two engaged in the generous acts of living."

There are few men who have written so wisely on the subject of marriage as Sir Henry Taylor. What he says about the influence of a happy union in its relation to successful statesmanship, applies to all conditions of life. The true wife, he says, should possess such qualities as will tend to make home as much as may be a place of repose. To this end, she should have sense enough or worth enough to exempt her husband as much as possible from the troubles of family management, and more especially from all possibility of debt. "She should be pleasing to his eyes and to his taste: the taste goes deep into the nature of all men—love is hardly apart from it; and in a life of care and excitement, that home which is not the seat of love cannot be a place of repose; rest for the brain, and peace for the spirit, being only to be had through the softening of the affections. He should look for a clear understanding, cheerfulness, and alacrity of mind, rather than gaiety and brilliancy, and for a gentle tenderness of disposition in preference to an impassioned nature. Lively talents are too stimulating in a tired man's house—passion is too disturbing....

There are few men who have written as wisely about marriage as Sir Henry Taylor. What he says about the impact of a happy partnership on successful leadership applies to all aspects of life. The ideal wife, he suggests, should have qualities that make home as much as possible a place of rest. To achieve this, she should be sensible or valuable enough to relieve her husband from the stresses of managing the household, especially when it comes to financial troubles. "She should be attractive to him and align with his tastes: taste is deeply embedded in all men—love is closely connected to it; and in a life filled with worries and excitement, a home that lacks love can't be a place of rest; true relaxation for the mind and peace for the spirit can only come from nurturing feelings. He should seek a clear understanding, cheerfulness, and readiness of mind, rather than mere joy and brilliance, and a gentle kindness over an intense nature. Lively talents can be too stimulating in a tired man's home—passion can be too disruptive....

                         "Her love should be
      A love that clings not, nor is exigent,
      Encumbers not the active purposes,
      Nor drains their source; but profers with free grace
      Pleasure at pleasure touched, at pleasure waived,
      A washing of the weary traveller's feet,
      A quenching of his thirst, a sweet repose,
      Alternate and preparative; in groves
      Where, loving much the flower that loves the shade,
      And loving much the shade that that flower loves,
      He yet is unbewildered, unenslaved,
      Thence starting light, and pleasantly let go
      When serious service calls." 208
"Her love should be  
      A love that doesn’t cling or demand,  
      Doesn’t weigh down active pursuits,  
      Nor drains their energy; but offers freely  
      Joy when it’s welcomed, and steps back when needed,  
      A washing of the weary traveler’s feet,  
      A satisfying drink, a sweet rest,  
      Alternating and preparing; in groves  
      Where, loving the flower that loves the shade,  
      And loving the shade that the flower loves,  
      He remains clear-headed, unbound,  
      Ready to move lightly, and easily let go  
      When serious work calls." 208

Some persons are disappointed in marriage, because they expect too much from it; but many more, because they do not bring into the co-partnership their fair share of cheerfulness, kindliness, forbearance, and common sense. Their imagination has perhaps pictured a condition never experienced on this side Heaven; and when real life comes, with its troubles and cares, there is a sudden waking-up as from a dream. Or they look for something approaching perfection in their chosen companion, and discover by experience that the fairest of characters have their weaknesses. Yet it is often the very imperfection of human nature, rather than its perfection, that makes the strongest claims on the forbearance and sympathy of others, and, in affectionate and sensible natures, tends to produce the closest unions.

Some people are let down by marriage because they expect too much from it; but many more are disappointed because they don't contribute their fair share of positivity, kindness, patience, and common sense to the partnership. Their imagination may have created an ideal state that never truly exists on this side of Heaven; and when reality hits, with all its troubles and stresses, it's like waking up from a pleasant dream. Or they search for something close to perfection in their partner and find out through experience that even the most admirable characters have their flaws. Yet, it's often the very imperfection of human nature, rather than its perfection, that calls for the most understanding and compassion from others, and in caring and sensible people, this can lead to the strongest bonds.

The golden rule of married life is, "Bear and forbear." Marriage, like government, is a series of compromises. One must give and take, refrain and restrain, endure and be patient. One may not be blind to another's failings, but they may be borne with good-natured forbearance. Of all qualities, good temper is the one that wears and works the best in married life. Conjoined with self-control, it gives patience—the patience to bear and forbear, to listen without retort, to refrain until the angry flash has passed. How true it is in marriage, that "the soft answer turneth away wrath!"

The golden rule of married life is, "Put up with each other." Marriage, like government, involves a lot of compromises. You have to give and take, hold back and exercise self-control, and be patient. You shouldn’t ignore your partner's flaws, but you can deal with them with a good attitude. Of all the qualities, having a good temper is the one that works best in marriage. Combined with self-control, it results in patience—the patience to put up with each other, to listen without snapping back, and to wait until the anger has cooled down. How true it is in marriage that "a gentle response defuses anger!"

Burns the poet, in speaking of the qualities of a good wife, divided them into ten parts. Four of these he gave to good temper, two to good sense, one to wit, one to beauty—such as a sweet face, eloquent eyes, a fine person, a graceful carriage; and the other two parts he divided amongst the other qualities belonging to or attending on a wife—such as fortune, connections, education [20that is, of a higher standard than ordinary], family blood, &c.; but he said: "Divide those two degrees as you please, only remember that all these minor proportions must be expressed by fractions, for there is not any one of them that is entitled to the dignity of an integer."

Burns the poet, when discussing the qualities of a good wife, broke them down into ten parts. He allocated four of these to a good temper, two to good sense, one to wit, and one to beauty—features like a lovely face, expressive eyes, a nice figure, and an elegant presence. The remaining two parts were spread across other qualities that a wife should have, such as wealth, social connections, education (that is, above average), family background, etc. However, he noted, "You can divide those two parts as you wish, just remember that all these smaller qualities must be expressed as fractions, because none of them deserves the status of a whole number."

It has been said that girls are very good at making nets, but that it would be better still if they would learn to make cages. Men are often as easily caught as birds, but as difficult to keep. If the wife cannot make her home bright and happy, so that it shall be the cleanest, sweetest, cheerfulest place that her husband can find refuge in—a retreat from the toils and troubles of the outer world—then God help the poor man, for he is virtually homeless!

It’s been said that girls are great at making nets, but it would be even better if they learned to build cages. Men can be as easily caught as birds, but they are harder to hold onto. If a wife can’t make her home bright and happy, creating the cleanest, sweetest, and most cheerful place for her husband to escape to from the struggles of the outside world, then God help that poor man, because he’s practically homeless!

No wise person will marry for beauty mainly. It may exercise a powerful attraction in the first place, but it is found to be of comparatively little consequence afterwards. Not that beauty of person is to be underestimated, for, other things being equal, handsomeness of form and beauty of features are the outward manifestations of health. But to marry a handsome figure without character, fine features unbeautified by sentiment or good-nature, is the most deplorable of mistakes. As even the finest landscape, seen daily, becomes monotonous, so does the most beautiful face, unless a beautiful nature shines through it. The beauty of to-day becomes commonplace to-morrow; whereas goodness, displayed through the most ordinary features, is perennially lovely. Moreover, this kind of beauty improves with age, and time ripens rather than destroys it. After the first year, married people rarely think of each other's features, and whether they be classically beautiful or otherwise. But they never fail to be cognisant of each other's temper. "When I see a man," says Addison, "with a sour rivelled face, I cannot forbear pitying his wife; and when I meet with an open ingenuous countenance, I think of the happiness of his friends, his family, and his relations."

No wise person will marry primarily for looks. It might attract you initially, but it turns out to matter very little later on. That’s not to say physical beauty shouldn’t be appreciated—when everything else is equal, attractiveness and good features often reflect good health. However, marrying someone who is good-looking but lacks character or kindness is a huge mistake. Just like even the most stunning landscape can become boring if you see it every day, the most beautiful face loses its charm unless a beautiful personality shines through. Today's beauty can quickly feel ordinary tomorrow; meanwhile, kindness and goodness, even in the most average features, remain timelessly appealing. Furthermore, this kind of beauty gets better with age; time enhances it rather than diminishes it. After the first year, married couples rarely focus on each other's looks, whether they're conventionally attractive or not. But they always notice each other's temperament. "When I see a man," says Addison, "with a sour, wrinkled face, I can’t help but feel sorry for his wife; and when I encounter a warm, genuine expression, I think about the happiness of his friends, family, and loved ones."

We have given the views of the poet Burns as to the qualities necessary in a good wife. Let us add the advice given by Lord Burleigh to his son, embodying the experience of a wise statesman and practised man of the world. "When it shall please God," said he, "to bring thee to man's estate, use great providence and circumspection in choosing thy wife; for from thence will spring all thy future good or evil. And it is an action of thy life, like unto a stratagem of war, wherein a man can err but once.... Enquire diligently of her disposition, and how her parents have been inclined in their youth. 209 Let her not be poor, how generous [20well-born] soever; for a man can buy nothing in the market with gentility. Nor choose a base and uncomely creature altogether for wealth; for it will cause contempt in others, and loathing in thee. Neither make choice of a dwarf, or a fool; for by the one thou shalt beget a race of pigmies, while the other will be thy continual disgrace, and it will yirke [20irk] thee to hear her talk. For thou shalt find it to thy great grief, that there is nothing more fulsome [20disgusting] than a she-fool."

We have shared the poet Burns' thoughts on what qualities are important in a good wife. Now, let’s add the advice given by Lord Burleigh to his son, reflecting the wisdom of an experienced statesman. "When it pleases God," he said, "to bring you into adulthood, use great caution and care when choosing your wife; for your future happiness or misery will spring from this choice. It’s a decision in your life akin to a military strategy, where a man can only make one mistake.... Investigate her character thoroughly, and consider how her parents behaved when they were young. 209 Don’t choose someone poor, no matter how noble she appears; a man can’t buy anything in the market with just gentility. Also, don’t pick an unattractive person just for their wealth; that will bring you scorn from others and disgust for yourself. Avoid choosing a short or foolish partner; with the former, you’ll have a family of little people, and the latter will always bring you shame and annoy you with her words. You’ll find that nothing is more unpleasant than a foolish woman."

A man's moral character is, necessarily, powerfully influenced by his wife. A lower nature will drag him down, as a higher will lift him up. The former will deaden his sympathies, dissipate his energies, and distort his life; while the latter, by satisfying his affections, will strengthen his moral nature, and by giving him repose, tend to energise his intellect. Not only so, but a woman of high principles will insensibly elevate the aims and purposes of her husband, as one of low principles will unconsciously degrade them. De Tocqueville was profoundly impressed by this truth. He entertained the opinion that man could have no such mainstay in life as the companionship of a wife of good temper and high principle. He says that in the course of his life, he had seen even weak men display real public virtue, because they had by their side a woman of noble character, who sustained them in their career, and exercised a fortifying influence on their views of public duty; whilst, on the contrary, he had still oftener seen men of great and generous instincts transformed into vulgar self-seekers, by contact with women of narrow natures, devoted to an imbecile love of pleasure, and from whose minds the grand motive of Duty was altogether absent.

A man's moral character is strongly influenced by his wife. A partner with a lower nature will pull him down, while a partner with a higher nature will lift him up. The former will numb his empathy, waste his energy, and distort his life; while the latter, by fulfilling his emotional needs, will strengthen his moral character and help energize his mind by providing him with peace. Additionally, a woman with strong principles will naturally elevate her husband's goals and ambitions, just as one with low principles will unknowingly lower them. De Tocqueville was deeply struck by this truth. He believed that a man could have no greater support in life than the companionship of a wife with a good temperament and strong principles. He noted that throughout his life, he had seen even weak men show genuine public virtue because they had a woman of noble character by their side, who supported them in their endeavors and strengthened their sense of public duty; conversely, he had more often witnessed men with great and generous instincts turn into shallow self-seekers because of their association with women of limited character, who were solely focused on a foolish love of pleasure, completely lacking the grand motivation of Duty.

De Tocqueville himself had the good fortune to be blessed with an admirable wife: 2010 and in his letters to his intimate friends, he spoke most gratefully of the comfort and support he derived from her sustaining courage, her equanimity of temper, and her nobility of character. The more, indeed, that De Tocqueville saw of the world and of practical life, the more convinced he became of the necessity of healthy domestic conditions for a man's growth in virtue and goodness. 2011 Especially did he regard marriage as of inestimable importance in regard to a man's true happiness; and he was accustomed to speak of his own as the wisest action of his life. "Many external circumstances of happiness," he said, "have been granted to me. But more than all, I have to thank Heaven for having bestowed on me true domestic happiness, the first of human blessings. As I grow older, the portion of my life which in my youth I used to look down upon, every day becomes more important in my eyes, and would now easily console me for the loss of all the rest." And again, writing to his bosom-friend, De Kergorlay, he said: "Of all the blessings which God has given to me, the greatest of all in my eyes is to have lighted on Marie. You cannot imagine what she is in great trials. Usually so gentle, she then becomes strong and energetic. She watches me without my knowing it; she softens, calms, and strengthens me in difficulties which disturb ME, but leave her serene." 2012 In another letter he says: "I cannot describe to you the happiness yielded in the long run by the habitual society of a woman in whose soul all that is good in your own is reflected naturally, and even improved. When I say or do a thing which seems to me to be perfectly right, I read immediately in Marie's countenance an expression of proud satisfaction which elevates me. And so, when my conscience reproaches me, her face instantly clouds over. Although I have great power over her mind, I see with pleasure that she awes me; and so long as I love her as I do now, I am sure that I shall never allow myself to be drawn into anything that is wrong."

De Tocqueville was fortunate to have an amazing wife: 2010. In his letters to close friends, he often expressed deep gratitude for the comfort and support he gained from her strong courage, calm demeanor, and noble character. The more De Tocqueville experienced the world and everyday life, the more he believed in the importance of a healthy home environment for a man's growth in virtue and goodness. 2011 He especially viewed marriage as crucial for a man's true happiness and considered his own to be the best decision of his life. "Many external circumstances of happiness," he stated, "have been given to me. But above all, I owe my thanks to Heaven for granting me true domestic happiness, the greatest of human blessings. As I grow older, the part of my life that I once overlooked in my youth grows increasingly significant, and it would now easily comfort me for the loss of everything else." Again, writing to his close friend, De Kergorlay, he shared: "Of all the blessings God has given me, the greatest is finding Marie. You cannot imagine how she handles great trials. Usually so gentle, she then becomes strong and energetic. She observes me without me noticing; she softens, calms, and strengthens me through challenges that upset me, but leave her unaffected." 2012 In another letter, he wrote: "I can't describe the happiness that comes from the constant company of a woman in whose soul all the good in yours is naturally reflected and even enhanced. When I say or do something I believe is truly right, I can immediately see a look of proud satisfaction on Marie's face that lifts me up. And when my conscience bothers me, her expression instantly darkens. Although I have significant influence over her thoughts, I take pleasure in the fact that she commands my respect; as long as I love her as I do now, I'm sure I will never let myself be led into anything wrong."

In the retired life which De Tocqueville led as a literary man—political life being closed against him by the inflexible independence of his character—his health failed, and he became ill, irritable, and querulous. While proceeding with his last work, 'L'Ancien Regime et la Revolution,' he wrote: "After sitting at my desk for five or six hours, I can write no longer; the machine refuses to act. I am in great want of rest, and of a long rest. If you add all the perplexities that besiege an author towards the end of his work, you will be able to imagine a very wretched life. I could not go on with my task if it were not for the refreshing calm of Marie's companionship. It would be impossible to find a disposition forming a happier contrast to my own. In my perpetual irritability of body and mind, she is a providential resource that never fails me." 2013

In the quiet life that De Tocqueville led as a writer—political life being closed to him because of his strong independence—his health declined, and he became sick, irritable, and complaining. While working on his final book, 'L'Ancien Regime et la Revolution,' he wrote: "After sitting at my desk for five or six hours, I can’t write anymore; the machine just won’t work. I really need a break, and a long one at that. If you consider all the worries that come at the end of a project, you can imagine how miserable life can be. I couldn't continue with my work if it weren’t for the refreshing peace that Marie’s companionship brings. It’s impossible to find a temperament that contrasts more happily with my own. In my constant irritability of body and mind, she is a reliable support that never lets me down." 2013

M. Guizot was, in like manner, sustained and encouraged, amidst his many vicissitudes and disappointments, by his noble wife. If he was treated with harshness by his political enemies, his consolation was in the tender affection which filled his home with sunshine. Though his public life was bracing and stimulating, he felt, nevertheless, that it was cold and calculating, and neither filled the soul nor elevated the character. "Man longs for a happiness," he says in his 'Memoires,' "more complete and more tender than that which all the labours and triumphs of active exertion and public importance can bestow. What I know to-day, at the end of my race, I have felt when it began, and during its continuance. Even in the midst of great undertakings, domestic affections form the basis of life; and the most brilliant career has only superficial and incomplete enjoyments, if a stranger to the happy ties of family and friendship."

M. Guizot was similarly supported and encouraged, despite his many ups and downs and disappointments, by his wonderful wife. When his political enemies treated him harshly, he found comfort in the loving affection that brought warmth to his home. Although his public life was invigorating and exciting, he still felt it was cold and calculating, lacking in soul and character. "A man longs for a happiness," he states in his 'Memoires,' "that is more complete and more tender than what all the work and successes of public life can offer. What I understand now, at the end of my journey, I felt when it began and throughout its course. Even amid significant endeavors, the bonds of home are what truly support life; and the most dazzling career is filled with only superficial and inadequate joys if one is a stranger to the joyful connections of family and friendship."

The circumstances connected with M. Guizot's courtship and marriage are curious and interesting. While a young man living by his pen in Paris, writing books, reviews, and translations, he formed a casual acquaintance with Mademoiselle Pauline de Meulan, a lady of great ability, then editor of the PUBLICISTE. A severe domestic calamity having befallen her, she fell ill, and was unable for a time to carry on the heavy literary work connected with her journal. At this juncture a letter without any signature reached her one day, offering a supply of articles, which the writer hoped would be worthy of the reputation of the PUBLICISTE. The articles duly arrived, were accepted, and published. They dealt with a great variety of subjects—art, literature, theatricals, and general criticism. When the editor at length recovered from her illness, the writer of the articles disclosed himself: it was M. Guizot. An intimacy sprang up between them, which ripened into mutual affection, and before long Mademoiselle de Meulan became his wife.

The story of M. Guizot's courtship and marriage is both curious and interesting. As a young man making a living as a writer in Paris—producing books, reviews, and translations—he met Mademoiselle Pauline de Meulan, a talented woman who was then the editor of the PUBLICISTE. After a serious family tragedy struck her, she fell ill and was unable to continue the demanding literary work associated with her journal. During this time, she received an unsigned letter offering a supply of articles, which the sender hoped would reflect well on the PUBLICISTE. The articles arrived, were accepted, and published, covering a wide range of topics—art, literature, theater, and general criticism. Once the editor recovered from her illness, the author of the articles revealed himself: it was M. Guizot. A close bond formed between them, blossoming into mutual affection, and soon Mademoiselle de Meulan became his wife.

From that time forward, she shared in all her husband's joys and sorrows, as well as in many of his labours. Before they became united, he asked her if she thought she should ever become dismayed at the vicissitudes of his destiny, which he then saw looming before him. She replied that he might assure himself that she would always passionately enjoy his triumphs, but never heave a sigh over his defeats. When M. Guizot became first minister of Louis Philippe, she wrote to a friend: "I now see my husband much less than I desire, but still I see him.... If God spares us to each other, I shall always be, in the midst of every trial and apprehension, the happiest of beings." Little more than six months after these words were written, the devoted wife was laid in her grave; and her sorrowing husband was left thenceforth to tread the journey of life alone.

From that moment on, she shared in all her husband’s joys and sorrows, as well as in many of his struggles. Before they got married, he asked her if she thought she would ever feel disheartened by the ups and downs of his future, which he could already see coming. She responded that he could be confident she would always celebrate his successes with passion, but would never lament his failures. When M. Guizot became the first minister under Louis Philippe, she wrote to a friend: "I now see my husband much less than I wish I could, but I still see him... If God allows us to be together, I will always be, amidst every challenge and worry, the happiest person." Just over six months after she wrote these words, the devoted wife was laid to rest, leaving her grieving husband to navigate life’s journey alone from then on.

Burke was especially happy in his union with Miss Nugent, a beautiful, affectionate, and highminded woman. The agitation and anxiety of his public life was more than compensated by his domestic happiness, which seems to have been complete. It was a saying of Burke, thoroughly illustrative of his character, that "to love the little platoon we belong to in society is the germ of all public affections." His description of his wife, in her youth, is probably one of the finest word-portraits in the language:—

Burke was particularly happy in his relationship with Miss Nugent, a beautiful, caring, and principled woman. The stress and worries of his public life were more than balanced by his home life, which appeared to be fulfilling. Burke had a saying that truly reflected his character: "to love the small group we belong to in society is the foundation of all public affection." His depiction of his wife in her youth is likely one of the best descriptions in the language:—

"She is handsome; but it is a beauty not arising from features, from complexion, or from shape. She has all three in a high degree, but it is not by these she touches the heart; it is all that sweetness of temper, benevolence, innocence, and sensibility, which a face can express, that forms her beauty. She has a face that just raises your attention at first sight; it grows on you every moment, and you wonder it did no more than raise your attention at first.

"She's attractive, but her beauty doesn't come from her features, skin tone, or body shape. She has all three in abundance, but what truly touches the heart is her sweetness, kindness, innocence, and sensitivity that her face conveys. At first glance, her face catches your eye; with every moment, it becomes more captivating, and you start to marvel that it only caught your attention at first."

"Her eyes have a mild light, but they awe when she pleases; they command, like a good man out of office, not by authority, but by virtue.

"Her eyes have a soft glow, but they inspire awe when she desires; they command, like a good man out of power, not through authority, but through virtue."

"Her stature is not tall; she is not made to be the admiration of everybody, but the happiness of one.

"She's not tall; she wasn't meant to be admired by everyone, but to bring happiness to one person."

"She has all the firmness that does not exclude delicacy; she has all the softness that does not imply weakness.

"She has all the strength that doesn’t exclude grace; she has all the gentleness that doesn’t imply fragility."

"Her voice is a soft low music—not formed to rule in public assemblies, but to charm those who can distinguish a company from a crowd; it has this advantage—YOU MUST COME CLOSE TO HER TO HEAR IT.

"Her voice is a gentle, soothing sound—not meant to command attention in big crowds, but to enchant those who can tell the difference between a gathering and a mob; it has this benefit—YOU HAVE TO GET CLOSE TO HER TO HEAR IT."

"To describe her body describes her mind—one is the transcript of the other; her understanding is not shown in the variety of matters it exerts itself on, but in the goodness of the choice she makes.

"Describing her body also reveals her mind—what’s outside reflects what’s inside; her intelligence isn’t just shown in the different areas she engages with, but in the quality of the choices she makes."

"She does not display it so much in saying or doing striking things, as in avoiding such as she ought not to say or do.

"She doesn't show it as much through saying or doing impressive things, but in avoiding what she shouldn't say or do."

"No person of so few years can know the world better; no person was ever less corrupted by the knowledge of it.

"No one so young can know the world better; no one has ever been less influenced by that knowledge."

"Her politeness flows rather from a natural disposition to oblige, than from any rules on that subject, and therefore never fails to strike those who understand good breeding and those who do not.

"Her politeness comes more from a natural desire to be accommodating than from any specific rules about it, and so it always impresses both those who understand good manners and those who do not."

"She has a steady and firm mind, which takes no more from the solidity of the female character than the solidity of marble does from its polish and lustre. She has such virtues as make us value the truly great of our own sex. She has all the winning graces that make us love even the faults we see in the weak and beautiful, in hers."

"She has a steady and strong mind, which doesn't detract from the strength of the female character any more than the polish and shine of marble do. She possesses virtues that lead us to appreciate the truly great among our own gender. She has all the charming qualities that make us love even the flaws we notice in those who are weak and beautiful, like in her."

Let us give, as a companion picture, the not less beautiful delineation of a husband, that of Colonel Hutchinson, the Commonwealth man, by his widow. Shortly before his death, he enjoined her "not to grieve at the common rate of desolate women." And, faithful to his injunction, instead of lamenting his loss, she indulged her noble sorrow in depicting her husband as he had lived.

Let’s provide, as a companion image, the equally beautiful portrayal of a husband, Colonel Hutchinson, the Commonwealth man, by his widow. Just before he died, he urged her "not to mourn like most heartbroken women." And, true to his request, instead of crying over his loss, she channeled her deep sorrow into capturing her husband as he had lived.

"They who dote on mortal excellences," she says, in her Introduction to the 'Life,' "when, by the inevitable fate of all things frail, their adored idols are taken from them, may let loose the winds of passion to bring in a flood of sorrow, whose ebbing tides carry away the dear memory of what they have lost; and when comfort is essayed to such mourners, commonly all objects are removed out of their view which may with their remembrance renew the grief; and in time these remedies succeed, and oblivion's curtain is by degrees drawn over the dead face; and things less lovely are liked, while they are not viewed together with that which was most excellent. But I, that am under a command not to grieve at the common rate of desolate women, 2014 while I am studying which way to moderate my woe, and if it were possible to augment my love, I can for the present find out none more just to your dear father, nor consolatory to myself, than the preservation of his memory, which I need not gild with such flattering commendations as hired preachers do equally give to the truly and titularly honourable. A naked undressed narrative, speaking the simple truth of him, will deck him with more substantial glory, than all the panegyrics the best pens could ever consecrate to the virtues of the best men."

"Those who obsess over human perfection," she says in her Introduction to the 'Life,' "when, faced with the inevitable loss of their cherished idols, might unleash a storm of emotions that leads to overwhelming sorrow, whose receding waves wash away the precious memories of what they once had; and when attempts are made to comfort these mourners, typically all reminders of their loss are kept out of sight to prevent renewed grief; and eventually, these strategies work, and the veil of forgetfulness gradually covers the lifeless features; and less desirable things are appreciated as long as they're not compared to what was once most admirable. But I, who am commanded not to grieve in the usual way of heartbroken women, 2014 while I’m trying to find a way to temper my sadness, and if it's possible to deepen my love, I currently see no better tribute to your dear father, nor one more comforting for myself, than keeping his memory alive, which I don't need to embellish with flattering praises like those delivered by hired speakers who praise the truly and supposedly noble. A straightforward, honest account that tells the simple truth about him will give his memory more genuine glory than all the accolades the best writers could ever bestow upon the virtues of the greatest men."

The following is the wife's portrait of Colonel Hutchinson as a husband:—

The following is the wife’s description of Colonel Hutchinson as a husband:—

"For conjugal affection to his wife, it was such in him as whosoever would draw out a rule of honour, kindness, and religion, to be practised in that estate, need no more but exactly draw out his example. Never man had a greater passion for a woman, nor a more honourable esteem of a wife: yet he was not uxorious, nor remitted he that just rule which it was her honour to obey, but managed the reins of government with such prudence and affection, that she who could not delight in such an honourable and advantageable subjection, must have wanted a reasonable soul.

His affection for his wife was a perfect example of how to live with honor, kindness, and faith in marriage. Anyone who wanted to understand the principles of respect and love in this relationship needed only to look at his example. No man ever loved a woman more deeply or held his wife in higher regard. Yet, he was not overly submissive, nor did he neglect the rightful authority that it was her honor to respect. He governed their relationship with such wisdom and care that anyone who couldn't appreciate such a noble and beneficial partnership must have been lacking in reason.

"He governed by persuasion, which he never employed but to things honourable and profitable to herself; he loved her soul and her honour more than her outside, and yet he had ever for her person a constant indulgence, exceeding the common temporary passion of the most uxorious fools. If he esteemed her at a higher rate than she in herself could have deserved, he was the author of that virtue he doated on, while she only reflected his own glories upon him. All that she was, was HIM, while he was here, and all that she is now, at best, is but his pale shade.

"He led by persuasion, which he only used for things that were honorable and beneficial to her; he valued her soul and her honor more than her appearance, but he always had a steady affection for her looks, surpassing the usual fleeting infatuation of the most devoted fools. If he regarded her more highly than she could have deserved on her own, he was the reason for the virtue he adored, while she merely mirrored his own greatness back to him. Everything she was, was HIM while he was present, and everything she is now, at best, is just a faint echo of him."

"So liberal was he to her, and of so generous a temper, that he hated the mention of severed purses, his estate being so much at her disposal that he never would receive an account of anything she expended. So constant was he in his love, that when she ceased to be young and lovely he began to show most fondness. He loved her at such a kind and generous rate as words cannot express. Yet even this, which was the highest love he or any man could have, was bounded by a superior: he loved her in the Lord as his fellow-creature, not his idol; but in such a manner as showed that an affection, founded on the just rules of duty, far exceeds every way all the irregular passions in the world. He loved God above her, and all the other dear pledges of his heart, and for his glory cheerfully resigned them." 2015

"So generous was he toward her, and so kind-hearted, that he couldn't stand the thought of money issues, his wealth being so much at her service that he never asked for a report on how she spent it. His love for her was so constant that even when she stopped being young and beautiful, he began to show even more affection. He loved her in such a deep and generous way that words can't fully capture it. However, even this, which was the highest form of love he or anyone could have, had its limits: he loved her in the Lord as his equal, not as his idol; but in such a way that showed that a love grounded in duty far surpasses all the chaotic emotions in the world. He loved God more than her and all the other precious things in his heart, and for God's glory, he willingly let them go." 2015

Lady Rachel Russell is another of the women of history celebrated for her devotion and faithfulness as a wife. She laboured and pleaded for her husband's release so long as she could do so with honour; but when she saw that all was in vain, she collected her courage, and strove by her example to strengthen the resolution of her dear lord. And when his last hour had nearly come, and his wife and children waited to receive his parting embrace, she, brave to the end, that she might not add to his distress, concealed the agony of her grief under a seeming composure; and they parted, after a tender adieu, in silence. After she had gone, Lord William said, "Now the bitterness of death is passed!" 2016

Lady Rachel Russell is another woman from history known for her devotion and loyalty as a wife. She worked and pleaded for her husband’s release for as long as she could do so honorably; but when she realized it was hopeless, she gathered her strength and tried to bolster her dear husband's resolve by her example. When his final moments were approaching, and his wife and children were waiting to receive his last embrace, she, brave until the end, hid her deep sorrow under a facade of calm so as not to distress him further; and they parted, after a heartfelt goodbye, in silence. Once she left, Lord William said, "Now the bitterness of death is passed!" 2016

We have spoken of the influence of a wife upon a man's character. There are few men strong enough to resist the influence of a lower character in a wife. If she do not sustain and elevate what is highest in his nature, she will speedily reduce him to her own level. Thus a wife may be the making or the unmaking of the best of men. An illustration of this power is furnished in the life of Bunyan. The profligate tinker had the good fortune to marry, in early life, a worthy young woman of good parentage. "My mercy," he himself says, "was to light upon a wife whose father and mother were accounted godly. This woman and I, though we came together as poor as poor might be [20not having so much household stuff as a dish or a spoon betwixt us both], yet she had for her part, 'The Plain Man's Pathway to Heaven,' and 'The Practice of Piety,' which her father had left her when he died." And by reading these and other good books; helped by the kindly influence of his wife, Bunyan was gradually reclaimed from his evil ways, and led gently into the paths of peace.

We’ve talked about how a wife can influence a man’s character. There are few men strong enough to resist the negative effects of a wife with a lower character. If she doesn’t support and uplift the best parts of him, she will quickly bring him down to her level. A wife can be the foundation of a man’s greatness or his downfall. A good example of this is Bunyan’s life. The reckless tinker was fortunate to marry a good woman from a respectable family early on. “My blessing,” he says, “was marrying a wife whose parents were considered godly. Though we came together with almost nothing [not even a dish or a spoon to our names], she had a copy of 'The Plain Man's Pathway to Heaven' and 'The Practice of Piety,' which her father had left her when he passed away.” Through reading these and other good books, along with the positive influence of his wife, Bunyan was slowly turned away from his bad habits and gently guided toward a better life.

Richard Baxter, the Nonconformist divine, was far advanced in life before he met the excellent woman who eventually became his wife. He was too laboriously occupied in his vocation of minister to have any time to spare for courtship; and his marriage was, as in the case of Calvin, as much a matter of convenience as of love. Miss Charlton, the lady of his choice, was the owner of property in her own right; but lest it should be thought that Baxter married her for "covetousness," he requested, first, that she should give over to her relatives the principal part of her fortune, and that "he should have nothing that before her marriage was hers;" secondly, that she should so arrange her affairs "as that he might be entangled in no lawsuits;" and, thirdly, "that she should expect none of the time that his ministerial work might require." These several conditions the bride having complied with, the marriage took place, and proved a happy one. "We lived," said Baxter, "in inviolated love and mutual complacency, sensible of the benefit of mutual help, nearly nineteen years." Yet the life of Baxter was one of great trials and troubles, arising from the unsettled state of the times in which he lived. He was hunted about from one part of the country to another, and for several years he had no settled dwelling-place. "The women," he gently remarks in his 'Life,' "have most of that sort of trouble, but my wife easily bore it all." In the sixth year of his marriage Baxter was brought before the magistrates at Brentford, for holding a conventicle at Acton, and was sentenced by them to be imprisoned in Clerkenwell Gaol. There he was joined by his wife, who affectionately nursed him during his confinement. "She was never so cheerful a companion to me," he says, "as in prison, and was very much against me seeking to be released." At length he was set at liberty by the judges of the Court of Common Pleas, to whom he had appealed against the sentence of the magistrates. At the death of Mrs. Baxter, after a very troubled yet happy and cheerful life, her husband left a touching portrait of the graces, virtues, and Christian character of this excellent woman—one of the most charming things to be found in his works.

Richard Baxter, the Nonconformist minister, was quite advanced in age when he met the wonderful woman who would become his wife. He was so busy with his work as a minister that he had little time for romance; his marriage, much like Calvin's, was more about practicality than love. Miss Charlton, the woman he chose, owned property in her own right; however, to avoid any suspicion that he married her for greed, Baxter first asked her to give most of her fortune to her relatives and that "he would receive nothing that was hers before their marriage." Secondly, he requested that she manage her affairs in a way that would not entangle him in any legal disputes, and thirdly, "that she should not expect any of the time needed for his ministerial duties." After the bride agreed to these conditions, they married, and it turned out to be a happy union. "We lived," Baxter noted, "in unwavering love and mutual satisfaction, aware of the benefits of helping each other for nearly nineteen years." Still, Baxter's life was filled with significant trials and tribulations due to the unstable times in which he lived. He was chased across the country, and for several years, he had no permanent home. "The women," he gently reflected in his 'Life,' "usually bear this kind of trouble, but my wife handled it all with ease." In the sixth year of their marriage, Baxter was brought before the magistrates at Brentford for holding a meeting at Acton and was sentenced to imprisonment in Clerkenwell Gaol. His wife joined him there, caring for him affectionately during his time in confinement. "She was never a more cheerful companion to me," he said, "than in prison, and she strongly opposed my attempts to seek release." Eventually, he gained his freedom through the judges of the Court of Common Pleas, to whom he had appealed against the magistrates' sentence. After Mrs. Baxter's death, following a life that was both troubled yet joyful and bright, her husband left a heartfelt tribute to her graces, virtues, and Christian character—one of the most beautiful aspects of his works.

The noble Count Zinzendorf was united to an equally noble woman, who bore him up through life by her great spirit, and sustained him in all his labours by her unfailing courage. "Twenty-four years' experience has shown me," he said, "that just the helpmate whom I have is the only one that could suit my vocation. Who else could have so carried through my family affairs?—who lived so spotlessly before the world? Who so wisely aided me in my rejection of a dry morality?.... Who would, like she, without a murmur, have seen her husband encounter such dangers by land and sea?—who undertaken with him, and sustained, such astonishing pilgrimages? Who, amid such difficulties, could have held up her head and supported me?.... And finally, who, of all human beings, could so well understand and interpret to others my inner and outer being as this one, of such nobleness in her way of thinking, such great intellectual capacity, and free from the theological perplexities that so often enveloped me?"

The noble Count Zinzendorf was joined to a similarly noble woman, who uplifted him throughout life with her incredible spirit and supported him in all his endeavors with her unwavering courage. "After twenty-four years of experience, I’ve learned," he said, "that the helpmate I have is exactly the one that fits my calling. Who else could have managed my family affairs so well?—who lived so impeccably in the eyes of the world? Who so wisely helped me reject a lifeless morality?.... Who would, like her, without complaint, have watched her husband face such dangers by land and sea?—who would have undertaken with him, and endured, such astonishing journeys? Who, amidst such challenges, could have held her head high and supported me?.... And finally, who, among all people, could understand and explain my inner and outer self as well as this person, with her noble way of thinking, impressive intellect, and freedom from the theological issues that often troubled me?"

One of the brave Dr. Livingstone's greatest trials during his travels in South Africa was the death of his affectionate wife, who had shared his dangers, and accompanied him in so many of his wanderings. In communicating the intelligence of her decease at Shupanga, on the River Zambesi, to his friend Sir Roderick Murchison, Dr. Livingstone said: "I must confess that this heavy stroke quite takes the heart out of me. Everything else that has happened only made me more determined to overcome all difficulties; but after this sad stroke I feel crushed and void of strength. Only three short months of her society, after four years separation! I married her for love, and the longer I lived with her I loved her the more. A good wife, and a good, brave, kindhearted mother was she, deserving all the praises you bestowed upon her at our parting dinner, for teaching her own and the native children, too, at Kolobeng. I try to bow to the blow as from our Heavenly Father, who orders all things for us.... I shall do my duty still, but it is with a darkened horizon that I again set about it."

One of the toughest challenges Dr. Livingstone faced during his travels in South Africa was the death of his beloved wife, who had shared in his dangers and accompanied him on many of his journeys. When he informed his friend Sir Roderick Murchison about her passing at Shupanga on the Zambezi River, Dr. Livingstone said: "I have to admit that this heavy blow has completely taken the heart out of me. Everything else I've gone through only made me more determined to overcome all obstacles; but after this tragic event, I feel crushed and drained of strength. We had only three short months together after four years apart! I married her for love, and the longer I was with her, the more I loved her. She was a wonderful wife and a brave, kind-hearted mother, deserving of all the praise you gave her at our farewell dinner for teaching both her own and the local children at Kolobeng. I try to accept this blow as coming from our Heavenly Father, who arranges everything for us.... I will continue to do my duty, but it's with a darkened horizon that I face it again."

Sir Samuel Romilly left behind him, in his Autobiography, a touching picture of his wife, to whom he attributed no small measure of the success and happiness that accompanied him through life. "For the last fifteen years," he said, "my happiness has been the constant study of the most excellent of wives: a woman in whom a strong understanding, the noblest and most elevated sentiments, and the most courageous virtue, are united to the warmest affection, and to the utmost delicacy of mind and heart; and all these intellectual perfections are graced by the most splendid beauty that human eyes ever beheld." 2017 Romilly's affection and admiration for this noble woman endured to the end; and when she died, the shock proved greater than his sensitive nature could bear. Sleep left his eyelids, his mind became unhinged, and three days after her death the sad event occurred which brought his own valued life to a close. 2018

Sir Samuel Romilly shared a heartfelt depiction of his wife in his Autobiography, crediting her with much of the success and happiness he experienced throughout his life. "For the last fifteen years," he said, "my happiness has been the constant focus of the most wonderful of wives: a woman who combines a sharp intellect, the highest and most uplifted principles, and the greatest courage with the deepest affection and the utmost sensitivity of mind and heart; and all these intellectual qualities are enhanced by the most remarkable beauty anyone has ever seen." 2017 Romilly's love and admiration for this extraordinary woman lasted until the very end; and when she passed away, the shock was more than his sensitive nature could handle. He couldn’t sleep, his mind became unstable, and three days after her death, the tragic event occurred that ended his own cherished life. 2018

Sir Francis Burdett, to whom Romilly had been often politically opposed, fell into such a state of profound melancholy on the death of his wife, that he persistently refused nourishment of any kind, and died before the removal of her remains from the house; and husband and wife were laid side by side in the same grave.

Sir Francis Burdett, who had often been on the opposite side of politics from Romilly, became deeply depressed after the death of his wife. He refused to eat anything and died before her body was taken away from their home; husband and wife were buried together in the same grave.

It was grief for the loss of his wife that sent Sir Thomas Graham into the army at the age of forty-three. Every one knows the picture of the newly-wedded pair by Gainsborough—one of the most exquisite of that painter's works. They lived happily together for eighteen years, and then she died, leaving him inconsolable. To forget his sorrow—and, as some thought, to get rid of the weariness of his life without her—Graham joined Lord Hood as a volunteer, and distinguished himself by the recklessness of his bravery at the siege of Toulon. He served all through the Peninsular War, first under Sir John Moore, and afterwards under Wellington; rising through the various grades of the service, until he rose to be second in command. He was commonly known as the "hero of Barossa," because of his famous victory at that place; and he was eventually raised to the peerage as Lord Lynedoch, ending his days peacefully at a very advanced age. But to the last he tenderly cherished the memory of his dead wife, to the love of whom he may be said to have owed all his glory. "Never," said Sheridan of him, when pronouncing his eulogy in the House of Commons—"never was there seated a loftier spirit in a braver heart."

It was the grief over losing his wife that drove Sir Thomas Graham to join the army at the age of forty-three. Everyone knows the portrait of the newlyweds by Gainsborough—one of the most beautiful pieces by that artist. They lived happily together for eighteen years, and then she passed away, leaving him heartbroken. To escape his sorrow—and, as some believed, to alleviate the emptiness of his life without her—Graham volunteered with Lord Hood, where he stood out for his daring courage during the siege of Toulon. He served throughout the Peninsular War, first under Sir John Moore and later under Wellington, steadily climbing the ranks until he became second in command. He was widely recognized as the "hero of Barossa," thanks to his famous victory there, and he was eventually elevated to the peerage as Lord Lynedoch, living out his final years in peace at a very old age. Yet, until the end, he lovingly held onto the memory of his deceased wife, to whose love he owed all his glory. "Never," said Sheridan about him while delivering his eulogy in the House of Commons—"never was there a nobler spirit in a braver heart."

And so have noble wives cherished the memory of their husbands. There is a celebrated monument in Vienna, erected to the memory of one of the best generals of the Austrian army, on which there is an inscription, setting forth his great services during the Seven Years' War, concluding with the words, "NON PATRIA, NEC IMPERATOR, SED CONJUX POSUIT." When Sir Albert Morton died, his wife's grief was such that she shortly followed him, and was laid by his side. Wotton's two lines on the event have been celebrated as containing a volume in seventeen words:

And so noble wives have cherished the memory of their husbands. There’s a famous monument in Vienna, built to honor one of the best generals of the Austrian army, which has an inscription highlighting his great contributions during the Seven Years' War, finishing with the words, "NON PATRIA, NEC IMPERATOR, SED CONJUX POSUIT." When Sir Albert Morton passed away, his wife's grief was so profound that she soon followed him and was laid to rest beside him. Wotton's two lines about this event have gained recognition for expressing a lot in just seventeen words:

          "He first deceased; she for a little tried
          To live without him, liked it not, and died."
          "He died first; she tried for a while to live without him, didn’t like it, and then died."

So, when Washington's wife was informed that her dear lord had suffered his last agony—had drawn his last breath, and departed—she said: "'Tis well; all is now over. I shall soon follow him; I have no more trials to pass through."

So, when Washington's wife found out that her beloved husband had passed away—taken his last breath and left this world—she said, "It's fine; it's all over now. I will join him soon; I have no more struggles to endure."

Not only have women been the best companions, friends, and consolers, but they have in many cases been the most effective helpers of their husbands in their special lines of work. Galvani was especially happy in his wife. She was the daughter of Professor Galeazzi; and it is said to have been through her quick observation of the circumstance of the leg of a frog, placed near an electrical machine, becoming convulsed when touched by a knife, that her husband was first led to investigate the science which has since become identified with his name. Lavoisier's wife also was a woman of real scientific ability, who not only shared in her husband's pursuits, but even undertook the task of engraving the plates that accompanied his 'Elements.'

Not only have women been the best companions, friends, and sources of comfort, but they have often been the most effective helpers to their husbands in their specific fields of work. Galvani was particularly fortunate to have his wife. She was the daughter of Professor Galeazzi, and it's said that through her keen observation of how the leg of a frog, placed near an electrical machine, twitched when touched by a knife, her husband was first inspired to explore the science that has since been associated with his name. Lavoisier's wife was also a woman of genuine scientific talent, who not only participated in her husband's work but even took on the task of engraving the plates that accompanied his 'Elements.'

The late Dr. Buckland had another true helper in his wife, who assisted him with her pen, prepared and mended his fossils, and furnished many of the drawings and illustrations of his published works. "Notwithstanding her devotion to her husband's pursuits," says her son, Frank Buckland, in the preface to one of his father's works, "she did not neglect the education of her children, but occupied her mornings in superintending their instruction in sound and useful knowledge. The sterling value of her labours they now, in after-life, fully appreciate, and feel most thankful that they were blessed with so good a mother." 2019

The late Dr. Buckland had a true partner in his wife, who helped him with her writing, prepared and repaired his fossils, and created many of the drawings and illustrations for his published works. "Despite her commitment to her husband's work," writes her son, Frank Buckland, in the introduction to one of his father's books, "she did not neglect her children's education, spending her mornings overseeing their instruction in sound and practical knowledge. They now fully appreciate the true value of her efforts in their later lives and are very grateful to have had such a wonderful mother." 2019

A still more remarkable instance of helpfulness in a wife is presented in the case of Huber, the Geneva naturalist. Huber was blind from his seventeenth year, and yet he found means to study and master a branch of natural history demanding the closest observation and the keenest eyesight. It was through the eyes of his wife that his mind worked as if they had been his own. She encouraged her husband's studies as a means of alleviating his privation, which at length he came to forget; and his life was as prolonged and happy as is usual with most naturalists. He even went so far as to declare that he should be miserable were he to regain his eyesight. "I should not know," he said, "to what extent a person in my situation could be beloved; besides, to me my wife is always young, fresh, and pretty, which is no light matter." Huber's great work on 'Bees' is still regarded as a masterpiece, embodying a vast amount of original observation on their habits and natural history. Indeed, while reading his descriptions, one would suppose that they were the work of a singularly keensighted man, rather than of one who had been entirely blind for twenty-five years at the time at which he wrote them.

An even more remarkable example of a wife's helpfulness is seen in the case of Huber, the naturalist from Geneva. Huber lost his sight at seventeen, yet he found a way to study and master a field of natural history that required intense observation and sharp eyesight. It was through his wife's eyes that his mind functioned as if they were his own. She supported her husband's studies as a way to ease his hardship, which eventually he came to forget; his life was as lengthy and joyful as is typical for most naturalists. He even claimed that he would be unhappy if he regained his eyesight. "I wouldn’t know," he said, "how much a person in my situation could be loved; plus, to me, my wife is always young, vibrant, and attractive, which is no small thing." Huber's major work on 'Bees' is still viewed as a masterpiece, filled with a wealth of original observations about their behavior and natural history. In fact, while reading his descriptions, one might think they were written by someone with exceptionally sharp vision, rather than by a man who had been completely blind for twenty-five years at the time he wrote them.

Not less touching was the devotion of Lady Hamilton to the service of her husband, the late Sir William Hamilton, Professor of Logic and Metaphysics in the University of Edinburgh. After he had been stricken by paralysis through overwork at the age of fifty-six, she became hands, eyes, mind, and everything to him. She identified herself with his work, read and consulted books for him, copied out and corrected his lectures, and relieved him of all business which she felt herself competent to undertake. Indeed, her conduct as a wife was nothing short of heroic; and it is probable that but for her devoted and more than wifely help, and her rare practical ability, the greatest of her husband's works would never have seen the light. He was by nature unmethodical and disorderly, and she supplied him with method and orderliness. His temperament was studious but indolent, while she was active and energetic. She abounded in the qualities which he most lacked. He had the genius, to which her vigorous nature gave the force and impulse.

Not less touching was Lady Hamilton's dedication to her husband, the late Sir William Hamilton, who was a Professor of Logic and Metaphysics at the University of Edinburgh. After he suffered a paralysis due to overwork at the age of fifty-six, she became his hands, eyes, mind, and everything else. She immersed herself in his work, read and consulted books for him, transcribed and corrected his lectures, and took care of all the business tasks she felt capable of handling. Truly, her role as a wife was nothing short of heroic; it's likely that without her devoted and more than just wifely support, along with her exceptional practical skills, many of her husband's greatest works would never have been published. He was naturally disorganized, and she brought him structure and order. His temperament was studious but lazy, while she was active and energetic. She possessed the qualities he lacked the most. He had the genius, which her vigorous nature fueled and propelled.

When Sir William Hamilton was elected to his Professorship, after a severe and even bitter contest, his opponents, professing to regard him as a visionary, predicted that he could never teach a class of students, and that his appointment would prove a total failure. He determined, with the help of his wife, to justify the choice of his supporters, and to prove that his enemies were false prophets. Having no stock of lectures on hand, each lecture of the first course was written out day by day, as it was to be delivered on the following morning. His wife sat up with him night after night, to write out a fair copy of the lectures from the rough sheets, which he drafted in the adjoining room. "On some occasions," says his biographer, "the subject of the lectures would prove less easily managed than on others; and then Sir William would be found writing as late as nine o'clock in the morning, while his faithful but wearied amanuensis had fallen asleep on a sofa." 2020

When Sir William Hamilton was elected to his professorship, following a tough and even nasty competition, his opponents, who saw him as a dreamer, predicted that he would never be able to teach a class and that his appointment would be a complete flop. He decided, with the help of his wife, to prove his supporters right and his enemies wrong. With no prepared lectures on hand, he wrote each lecture of his first course day by day, just in time to present it the next morning. His wife stayed up with him night after night to create a clean copy of the lectures from the rough drafts he wrote in the adjacent room. "On some occasions," says his biographer, "the subject of the lectures would prove more challenging to manage than others; and then Sir William would be found writing as late as nine o'clock in the morning, while his dedicated but exhausted assistant had fallen asleep on the sofa." 2020

Sometimes the finishing touches to the lecture were left to be given just before the class-hour. Thus helped, Sir William completed his course; his reputation as a lecturer was established; and he eventually became recognised throughout Europe as one of the leading intellects of his time. 2021

Sometimes the final touches to the lecture were added just before class started. With that support, Sir William completed his course; his reputation as a lecturer was solidified, and he eventually became known across Europe as one of the top intellects of his time. 2021

The woman who soothes anxiety by her presence, who charms and allays irritability by her sweetness of temper, is a consoler as well as a true helper. Niebuhr always spoke of his wife as a fellow-worker with him in this sense. Without the peace and consolation which be found in her society, his nature would have fretted in comparative uselessness. "Her sweetness of temper and her love," said he, "raise me above the earth, and in a manner separate me from this life." But she was a helper in another and more direct way. Niebuhr was accustomed to discuss with his wife every historical discovery, every political event, every novelty in literature; and it was mainly for her pleasure and approbation, in the first instance, that he laboured while preparing himself for the instruction of the world at large.

The woman who calms anxiety just by being there, who eases irritation with her kindness, is a comforter as well as a genuine supporter. Niebuhr always referred to his wife as his partner in this way. Without the peace and comfort he found in her company, he would have felt largely ineffective. "Her kindness and love," he said, "lift me above the mundane and somewhat detach me from this life." But she was also helpful in a more direct way. Niebuhr would discuss every historical discovery, every political event, and every new book with his wife; it was primarily for her enjoyment and approval that he worked hard to prepare himself to educate the broader world.

The wife of John Stuart Mill was another worthy helper of her husband, though in a more abstruse department of study, as we learn from his touching dedication of the treatise 'On Liberty':—"To the beloved and deplored memory of her who was the inspirer, and in part the author, of all that is best in my writings—the friend and wife, whose exalted sense of truth and right was my strongest incitement, and whose approbation was my chief reward, I dedicate this volume." Not less touching is the testimony borne by another great living writer to the character of his wife, in the inscription upon the tombstone of Mrs. Carlyle in Haddington Churchyard, where are inscribed these words:—"In her bright existence, she had more sorrows than are common, but also a soft amiability, a capacity of discernment, and a noble loyalty of heart, which are rare. For forty years she was the true and loving helpmate of her husband, and by act and word unweariedly forwarded him as none else could, in all of worthy that he did or attempted."

The wife of John Stuart Mill was another invaluable support to her husband, though in a more complex area of study, as we see from his heartfelt dedication of the treatise 'On Liberty':—"To the beloved and mourned memory of her who inspired, and partly authored, all that is best in my writings—the friend and wife, whose high sense of truth and justice was my greatest motivation, and whose approval was my main reward, I dedicate this volume." Equally moving is the acknowledgment from another prominent writer about his wife, found on the tombstone of Mrs. Carlyle in Haddington Churchyard, where it reads:—"In her vibrant life, she faced more sorrows than usual, but also exhibited a gentle kindness, a keen insight, and a noble loyalty that are uncommon. For forty years, she was the true and loving partner of her husband, tirelessly supporting him in every worthy endeavor he pursued."

The married life of Faraday was eminently happy. In his wife he found, at the same time, a true helpmate and soul-mate. She supported, cheered, and strengthened him on his way through life, giving him "the clear contentment of a heart at ease." In his diary he speaks of his marriage as "a source of honour and happiness far exceeding all the rest." After twentyeight years' experience, he spoke of it as "an event which, more than any other, had contributed to his earthly happiness and healthy state of mind.... The union [20said he] has in nowise changed, except only in the depth and strength of its character." And for six-and-forty years did the union continue unbroken; the love of the old man remaining as fresh, as earnest, as heart-whole, as in the days of his impetuous youth. In this case, marriage was as—

The married life of Faraday was incredibly happy. In his wife, he found both a true partner and a soulmate. She supported, uplifted, and strengthened him throughout his life, giving him "the clear contentment of a heart at ease." In his diary, he described his marriage as "a source of honor and happiness far exceeding all the rest." After twenty-eight years of experience, he referred to it as "an event which, more than any other, had contributed to his earthly happiness and healthy state of mind... The union [20 said he] has in no way changed, except only in the depth and strength of its character." And for forty-six years, the union continued unbroken; the love of the old man remained as fresh, as passionate, and as whole-hearted as in the days of his fiery youth. In this case, marriage was as—

"A golden chain let down from heaven, Whose links are bright and even; That falls like sleep on lovers, and combines The soft and sweetest minds In equal knots."

"A golden chain coming down from heaven, Whose links are shiny and smooth; That falls like sleep on lovers, and brings together The gentle and kindest minds In equal ties."

Besides being a helper, woman is emphatically a consoler. Her sympathy is unfailing. She soothes, cheers, and comforts. Never was this more true than in the case of the wife of Tom Hood, whose tender devotion to him, during a life that was a prolonged illness, is one of the most affecting things in biography. A woman of excellent good sense, she appreciated her husband's genius, and, by encouragement and sympathy, cheered and heartened him to renewed effort in many a weary struggle for life. She created about him an atmosphere of hope and cheerfulness, and nowhere did the sunshine of her love seem so bright as when lighting up the couch of her invalid husband.

Besides being a helper, a woman is definitely a source of comfort. Her empathy is unwavering. She calms, uplifts, and consoles. This was especially true in the case of Tom Hood's wife, whose deep devotion to him during his prolonged illness is one of the most touching stories in biography. A woman of great common sense, she recognized her husband's talent and, through encouragement and compassion, inspired him to keep fighting through many tough battles for life. She created an environment full of hope and positivity around him, and nowhere did the warmth of her love shine brighter than when it brought light to the couch of her ill husband.

Nor was he unconscious of her worth. In one of his letters to her, when absent from his side, Hood said: "I never was anything, Dearest, till I knew you; and I have been a better, happier, and more prosperous man ever since. Lay by that truth in lavender, Sweetest, and remind me of it when I fail. I am writing warmly and fondly, but not without good cause. First, your own affectionate letter, lately received; next, the remembrance of our dear children, pledges—what darling ones!—of our old familiar love; then, a delicious impulse to pour out the overflowings of my heart into yours; and last, not least, the knowledge that your dear eyes will read what my hand is now writing. Perhaps there is an afterthought that, whatever may befall me, the wife of my bosom will have the acknowledgment of her tenderness, worth, excellence—all that is wifely or womanly, from my pen." In another letter, also written to his wife during a brief absence, there is a natural touch, showing his deep affection for her: "I went and retraced our walk in the park, and sat down on the same seat, and felt happier and better."

He was well aware of her worth. In one of his letters to her while he was away, Hood wrote: "I never was anything, my Dearest, until I met you; and I’ve been a better, happier, and more successful man ever since. Remember that truth, my Sweetest, and remind me of it when I’m struggling. I’m writing to you with warmth and affection, and there’s good reason for it. First, your lovely letter, which I just received; then, the memories of our dear children, our sweet little ones, reminders of our old, familiar love; next, the wonderful urge to share the feelings overflowing in my heart with yours; and lastly, knowing that your dear eyes will read what I’m writing now. And maybe there’s the added thought that, no matter what happens to me, the woman I love will know of her tenderness, worth, and excellence—all that is wifely or womanly—from my words." In another letter, also written to his wife during a short absence, he expressed his deep affection for her: "I retraced our walk in the park, sat on the same bench, and felt happier and better."

But not only was Mrs. Hood a consoler, she was also a helper of her husband in his special work. He had such confidence in her judgment, that he read, and re-read, and corrected with her assistance all that he wrote. Many of his pieces were first dedicated to her; and her ready memory often supplied him with the necessary references and quotations. Thus, in the roll of noble wives of men of genius, Mrs. Hood will always be entitled to take a foremost place.

But not only was Mrs. Hood a source of comfort, she also helped her husband with his work. He trusted her judgment so much that he would read, re-read, and correct everything he wrote with her help. Many of his pieces were first dedicated to her, and her quick memory often gave him the references and quotes he needed. So, in the list of great wives of genius men, Mrs. Hood will always have a top spot.

Not less effective as a literary helper was Lady Napier, the wife of Sir William Napier, historian of the Peninsular War. She encouraged him to undertake the work, and without her help he would have experienced great difficulty in completing it. She translated and epitomized the immense mass of original documents, many of them in cipher, on which it was in a great measure founded. When the Duke of Wellington was told of the art and industry she had displayed in deciphering King Joseph's portfolio, and the immense mass of correspondence taken at Vittoria, he at first would hardly believe it, adding—"I would have given 20,000L. to any person who could have done this for me in the Peninsula." Sir William Napier's handwriting being almost illegible, Lady Napier made out his rough interlined manuscript, which he himself could scarcely read, and wrote out a full fair copy for the printer; and all this vast labour she undertook and accomplished, according to the testimony of her husband, without having for a moment neglected the care and education of a large family. When Sir William lay on his deathbed, Lady Napier was at the same time dangerously ill; but she was wheeled into his room on a sofa, and the two took their silent farewell of each other. The husband died first; in a few weeks the wife followed him, and they sleep side by side in the same grave.

Not less effective as a literary assistant was Lady Napier, the wife of Sir William Napier, historian of the Peninsular War. She encouraged him to take on the project, and without her support, he would have faced significant challenges in completing it. She translated and summarized the vast amount of original documents, many in code, that formed the basis of his work. When the Duke of Wellington heard about the skill and effort she put into deciphering King Joseph's portfolio and the extensive correspondence captured at Vittoria, he could hardly believe it at first, saying, “I would have given £20,000 to anyone who could have done this for me in the Peninsula.” Since Sir William Napier's handwriting was nearly illegible, Lady Napier decoded his rough interlined manuscript, which he could barely read, and created a clean copy for the printer; she managed this enormous task, according to her husband's account, without ever neglecting the care and education of their large family. When Sir William was on his deathbed, Lady Napier was also seriously ill; yet she was brought into his room on a sofa, and they silently bid farewell to each other. The husband passed away first; a few weeks later, the wife followed him, and they rest side by side in the same grave.

Many other similar truehearted wives rise up in the memory, to recite whose praises would more than fill up our remaining space—such as Flaxman's wife, Ann Denham, who cheered and encouraged her husband through life in the prosecution of his art, accompanying him to Rome, sharing in his labours and anxieties, and finally in his triumphs, and to whom Flaxman, in the fortieth year of their married life, dedicated his beautiful designs illustrative of Faith, Hope, and Charity, in token of his deep and undimmed affection;—such as Katherine Boutcher, "dark-eyed Kate," the wife of William Blake, who believed her husband to be the first genius on earth, worked off the impressions of his plates and coloured them beautifully with her own hand, bore with him in all his erratic ways, sympathised with him in his sorrows and joys for forty-five years, and comforted him until his dying hour—his last sketch, made in his seventy-first year, being a likeness of himself, before making which, seeing his wife crying by his side, he said, "Stay, Kate! just keep as you are; I will draw your portrait, for you have ever been an angel to me;"—such again as Lady Franklin, the true and noble woman, who never rested in her endeavours to penetrate the secret of the Polar Sea and prosecute the search for her long-lost husband—undaunted by failure, and persevering in her determination with a devotion and singleness of purpose altogether unparalleled;—or such again as the wife of Zimmermann, whose intense melancholy she strove in vain to assuage, sympathizing with him, listening to him, and endeavouring to understand him—and to whom, when on her deathbed, about to leave him for ever, she addressed the touching words, "My poor Zimmermann! who will now understand thee?"

Many other similar devoted wives come to mind, whose praises could easily fill the rest of our space—like Flaxman's wife, Ann Denham, who supported and inspired her husband throughout his career, traveling with him to Rome, sharing in his struggles and worries, and celebrating his successes. Flaxman dedicated his beautiful designs representing Faith, Hope, and Charity to her in the fortieth year of their marriage as a sign of his deep and lasting love. Then there’s Katherine Boutcher, "dark-eyed Kate," the wife of William Blake, who thought her husband was the greatest genius alive. She hand-printed and beautifully colored his plates, put up with his unpredictable ways, shared in his highs and lows for forty-five years, and comforted him until he passed away. His last sketch, created in his seventy-first year, was of himself; before he drew it, he saw his wife in tears beside him and said, "Stay, Kate! just keep as you are; I will draw your portrait, for you have always been an angel to me." There’s also Lady Franklin, the true and noble woman who tirelessly worked to uncover the mysteries of the Polar Sea while searching for her long-lost husband—undaunted by setbacks, she pursued her goal with a level of devotion and focus that was truly unmatched. And then there’s the wife of Zimmermann, who tried in vain to soothe his deep sadness, empathizing with him, listening to him, and striving to understand him. On her deathbed, as she prepared to leave him forever, she said the heartfelt words, "My poor Zimmermann! Who will now understand you?"

Wives have actively helped their husbands in other ways. Before Weinsberg surrendered to its besiegers, the women of the place asked permission of the captors to remove their valuables. The permission was granted, and shortly after, the women were seen issuing from the gates carrying their husbands on their shoulders. Lord Nithsdale owed his escape from prison to the address of his wife, who changed garments with him, sending him forth in her stead, and herself remaining prisoner,—an example which was successfully repeated by Madame de Lavalette.

Wives have actively supported their husbands in other ways. Before Weinsberg surrendered to its attackers, the women of the town asked the captors for permission to take their valuables. The permission was granted, and shortly after, the women were seen coming out of the gates carrying their husbands on their backs. Lord Nithsdale escaped from prison thanks to his wife, who swapped clothes with him, sending him out in her place while she stayed behind as a prisoner—an act that was successfully repeated by Madame de Lavalette.

But the most remarkable instance of the release of a husband through the devotion of a wife, was that of the celebrated Grotius. He had lain for nearly twenty months in the strong fortress of Loevestein, near Gorcum, having been condemned by the government of the United Provinces to perpetual imprisonment. His wife, having been allowed to share his cell, greatly relieved his solitude. She was permitted to go into the town twice a week, and bring her husband books, of which he required a large number to enable him to prosecute his studies. At length a large chest was required to hold them. This the sentries at first examined with great strictness, but, finding that it only contained books [20amongst others Arminian books] and linen, they at length gave up the search, and it was allowed to pass out and in as a matter of course. This led Grotius' wife to conceive the idea of releasing him; and she persuaded him one day to deposit himself in the chest instead of the outgoing books. When the two soldiers appointed to remove it took it up, they felt it to be considerably heavier than usual, and one of them asked, jestingly, "Have we got the Arminian himself here?" to which the ready-witted wife replied, "Yes, perhaps some Arminian books." The chest reached Gorcum in safety; the captive was released; and Grotius escaped across the frontier into Brabant, and afterwards into France, where he was rejoined by his wife.

But the most remarkable example of a wife’s devotion leading to her husband’s release was that of the famous Grotius. He had been held for nearly twenty months in the strong fortress of Loevestein, near Gorcum, after being sentenced to life imprisonment by the government of the United Provinces. His wife, allowed to share his cell, greatly eased his loneliness. She could go into town twice a week to bring him books, of which he needed many to continue his studies. Eventually, a large chest was needed to hold them. The guards initially inspected it very thoroughly, but after finding only books—among them Arminian texts—and linen, they eventually stopped searching and allowed it to pass in and out regularly. This led Grotius’ wife to come up with the idea to help him escape; she convinced him one day to hide inside the chest instead of the outgoing books. When the two soldiers assigned to carry it lifted it, they noticed it was much heavier than usual, and one joked, "Do we have the Arminian himself in here?" To which the quick-thinking wife replied, "Yes, maybe some Arminian books." The chest reached Gorcum safely; the captive was freed, and Grotius escaped across the border into Brabant and then to France, where he was reunited with his wife.

Trial and suffering are the tests of married life. They bring out the real character, and often tend to produce the closest union. They may even be the spring of the purest happiness. Uninterrupted joy, like uninterrupted success, is not good for either man or woman. When Heine's wife died, he began to reflect upon the loss he had sustained. They had both known poverty, and struggled through it hand-in-hand; and it was his greatest sorrow that she was taken from him at the moment when fortune was beginning to smile upon him, but too late for her to share in his prosperity. "Alas I" said he, "amongst my griefs must I reckon even her love—the strongest, truest, that ever inspired the heart of woman—which made me the happiest of mortals, and yet was to me a fountain of a thousand distresses, inquietudes, and cares? To entire cheerfulness, perhaps, she never attained; but for what unspeakable sweetness, what exalted, enrapturing joys, is not love indebted to sorrow! Amidst growing anxieties, with the torture of anguish in my heart, I have been made, even by the loss which caused me this anguish and these anxieties, inexpressibly happy! When tears flowed over our cheeks, did not a nameless, seldom-felt delight stream through my breast, oppressed equally by joy and sorrow!"

Trial and hardship are the real tests of married life. They reveal true character and often lead to the strongest bond. They can even be the source of the purest happiness. Constant joy, like constant success, isn’t healthy for either partner. When Heine's wife died, he started to think about the loss he faced. They had both experienced poverty and worked through it together; his greatest sorrow was that she was taken from him just as fortune was starting to favor him, but too late for her to enjoy his success. "Alas!" he lamented, "must I include in my grief even her love—the strongest, truest love that ever inspired a woman's heart—that made me the happiest person alive, yet was also a source of countless worries, anxieties, and troubles? She may never have reached complete cheerfulness, but for what unimaginable sweetness, what thrilling joys, does love not owe to sorrow! Amid increasing worries and the pain of anguish in my heart, I found myself, even through the loss that caused me this pain and these worries, inexplicably happy! When tears streamed down our faces, didn’t a nameless, rarely felt delight flow through my chest, weighed down as I was by both joy and sorrow?"

There is a degree of sentiment in German love which seems strange to English readers,—such as we find depicted in the lives of Novalis, Jung Stilling, Fichte, Jean Paul, and others that might be named. The German betrothal is a ceremony of almost equal importance to the marriage itself; and in that state the sentiments are allowed free play, whilst English lovers are restrained, shy, and as if ashamed of their feelings. Take, for instance, the case of Herder, whom his future wife first saw in the pulpit. "I heard," she says, "the voice of an angel, and soul's words such as I had never heard before. In the afternoon I saw him, and stammered out my thanks to him; from this time forth our souls were one." They were betrothed long before their means would permit them to marry; but at length they were united. "We were married," says Caroline, the wife, "by the rose-light of a beautiful evening. We were one heart, one soul." Herder was equally ecstatic in his language. "I have a wife," he wrote to Jacobi, "that is the tree, the consolation, and the happiness of my life. Even in flying transient thoughts [20which often surprise us], we are one!"

There is a kind of sentiment in German love that seems unusual to English readers, such as we see in the lives of Novalis, Jung Stilling, Fichte, Jean Paul, and others who could be mentioned. The German betrothal is almost as important as the marriage itself; in this stage, emotions are fully expressed, while English lovers tend to be reserved, shy, and almost ashamed of their feelings. For example, consider Herder, whom his future wife first saw in the pulpit. "I heard," she says, "the voice of an angel, and words from the soul that I'd never heard before. In the afternoon, I saw him and managed to stammer my thanks to him; from that moment on, our souls became one." They were engaged long before they could afford to get married, but eventually, they tied the knot. "We were married," says Caroline, the wife, "by the soft glow of a beautiful evening. We were one heart, one soul." Herder expressed similar joy in his writing. "I have a wife," he wrote to Jacobi, "who is the tree, the comfort, and the happiness of my life. Even in fleeting thoughts [20that often catch us off guard], we are one!"

Take, again, the case of Fichte, in whose history his courtship and marriage form a beautiful episode. He was a poor German student, living with a family at Zurich in the capacity of tutor, when he first made the acquaintance of Johanna Maria Hahn, a niece of Klopstock. Her position in life was higher than that of Fichte; nevertheless, she regarded him with sincere admiration. When Fichte was about to leave Zurich, his troth plighted to her, she, knowing him to be very poor, offered him a gift of money before setting out. He was inexpressibly hurt by the offer, and, at first, even doubted whether she could really love him; but, on second thoughts, he wrote to her, expressing his deep thanks, but, at the same time, the impossibility of his accepting such a gift from her. He succeeded in reaching his destination, though entirely destitute of means. After a long and hard struggle with the world, extending over many years, Fichte was at length earning money enough to enable him to marry. In one of his charming letters to his betrothed he said:—"And so, dearest, I solemnly devote myself to thee, and thank thee that thou hast thought me not unworthy to be thy companion on the journey of life.... There is no land of happiness here below—I know it now—but a land of toil, where every joy but strengthens us for greater labour. Hand-in-hand we shall traverse it, and encourage and strengthen each other, until our spirits—oh, may it be together!—shall rise to the eternal fountain of all peace."

Take, for example, the case of Fichte, whose story includes a lovely chapter about his courtship and marriage. He was a struggling German student, living with a family in Zurich as a tutor when he first met Johanna Maria Hahn, a niece of Klopstock. Her social standing was higher than Fichte's, yet she admired him sincerely. When Fichte was about to leave Zurich, engaged to her, she, knowing he was very poor, offered him a monetary gift before he departed. He was deeply offended by the offer and initially questioned whether she could truly love him; however, after some reflection, he wrote to her, expressing his heartfelt gratitude but also stating that he could not accept such a gift from her. He managed to reach his destination, though he had no money. After many years of hard work and struggle, Fichte finally earned enough to marry. In one of his beautifully written letters to his fiancée, he said: "And so, dearest, I commit myself to you, and I thank you for thinking me worthy to be your partner on this journey of life.... I know now that there is no land of happiness in this world—but rather a land of hard work, where every joy prepares us for greater challenges. Together, hand-in-hand, we will navigate it, encouraging and supporting each other until our spirits—oh, may it be together!—rise to the eternal source of all peace."

The married life of Fichte was very happy. His wife proved a true and highminded helpmate. During the War of Liberation she was assiduous in her attention to the wounded in the hospitals, where she caught a malignant fever, which nearly carried her off. Fichte himself caught the same disease, and was for a time completely prostrated; but he lived for a few more years and died at the early age of fifty-two, consumed by his own fire.

The married life of Fichte was very happy. His wife was a true and noble partner. During the War of Liberation, she was dedicated in her care for the wounded in the hospitals, where she contracted a severe fever that almost took her life. Fichte himself contracted the same illness and was completely incapacitated for a time; however, he lived for a few more years and died at the young age of fifty-two, consumed by his own passion.

What a contrast does the courtship and married life of the blunt and practical William Cobbett present to the aesthetical and sentimental love of these highly refined Germans! Not less honest, not less true, but, as some would think, comparatively coarse and vulgar. When he first set eyes upon the girl that was afterwards to become his wife, she was only thirteen years old, and he was twenty-one—a sergeant-major in a foot regiment stationed at St. John's in New Brunswick. He was passing the door of her father's house one day in winter, and saw the girl out in the snow, scrubbing a washing-tub. He said at once to himself, "That's the girl for me." He made her acquaintance, and resolved that she should be his wife so soon as he could get discharged from the army.

What a contrast William Cobbett's straightforward and practical courtship and married life is compared to the romantic and sentimental love of these refined Germans! Not any less honest or true, but, as some might say, relatively rough and ordinary. When he first laid eyes on the girl who would later become his wife, she was just thirteen, and he was twenty-one—a sergeant-major in an infantry regiment stationed in St. John's, New Brunswick. One winter day, as he was walking past her father's house, he saw her outside in the snow scrubbing a wash tub. He instantly thought to himself, "That's the girl for me." He got to know her and decided that she would be his wife as soon as he could get out of the army.

On the eve of the girl's return to Woolwich with her father, who was a sergeant-major in the artillery, Cobbett sent her a hundred and fifty guineas which he had saved, in order that she might be able to live without hard work until his return to England. The girl departed, taking with her the money; and five years later Cobbett obtained his discharge. On reaching London, he made haste to call upon the sergeant-major's daughter. "I found," he says, "my little girl a servant-of-all-work [20and hard work it was], at five pounds a year, in the house of a Captain Brisac; and, without hardly saying a word about the matter, she put into my hands the whole of my hundred and fifty guineas, unbroken." Admiration of her conduct was now added to love of her person, and Cobbett shortly after married the girl, who proved an excellent wife. He was, indeed, never tired of speaking her praises, and it was his pride to attribute to her all the comfort and much of the success of his after-life.

On the night before the girl returned to Woolwich with her father, who was a sergeant-major in the artillery, Cobbett sent her one hundred and fifty guineas that he had saved so she could live comfortably until he came back to England. The girl left with the money, and five years later, Cobbett got his discharge. When he arrived in London, he quickly went to see the sergeant-major's daughter. "I found," he says, "my little girl working as a maid for five pounds a year in the house of Captain Brisac; and without really saying much about it, she handed me back all of my hundred and fifty guineas, untouched." His admiration for her actions added to his love for her, and Cobbett soon married the girl, who turned out to be a wonderful wife. He was truly never tired of singing her praises, and it was a source of pride for him to credit her with all the comfort and much of the success in his later life.

Though Cobbett was regarded by many in his lifetime as a coarse, hard, practical man, full of prejudices, there was yet a strong undercurrent of poetry in his nature; and, while he declaimed against sentiment, there were few men more thoroughly imbued with sentiment of the best kind. He had the tenderest regard for the character of woman. He respected her purity and her virtue, and in his 'Advice to Young Men,' he has painted the true womanly woman—the helpful, cheerful, affectionate wife—with a vividness and brightness, and, at the same time, a force of good sense, that has never been surpassed by any English writer. Cobbett was anything but refined, in the conventional sense of the word; but he was pure, temperate, self-denying, industrious, vigorous, and energetic, in an eminent degree. Many of his views were, no doubt, wrong, but they were his own, for he insisted on thinking for himself in everything. Though few men took a firmer grasp of the real than he did, perhaps still fewer were more swayed by the ideal. In word-pictures of his own emotions, he is unsurpassed. Indeed, Cobbett might almost be regarded as one of the greatest prose poets of English real life.

Though many saw Cobbett as a rough, tough, and practical guy filled with biases during his time, there was a deep undercurrent of poetry in him; and while he spoke out against sentimentality, few men were more genuinely filled with the best kind of sentiment. He held a deep respect for the character of women. He honored their purity and virtue, and in his 'Advice to Young Men,' he vividly portrayed the true womanly woman—the supportive, cheerful, loving wife—with such brilliance and clarity, along with a strong sense of practicality, that no English writer has ever matched it. Cobbett was far from refined in the traditional sense. However, he was pure, moderate, self-denying, hardworking, vigorous, and highly energetic. While many of his opinions were undoubtedly incorrect, they were his own because he insisted on thinking independently about everything. Though few grasped reality more firmly than he did, perhaps even fewer were as influenced by ideals. In expressing his own emotions through vivid imagery, he cannot be surpassed. In fact, Cobbett might almost be considered one of the greatest prose poets of English everyday life.





CHAPTER XII—THE DISCIPLINE OF EXPERIENCE.

      "I would the great would grow like thee.
        Who grewest not alone in power
        And knowledge, but by year and hour
      In reverence and in charity."—TENNYSON.

      "Not to be unhappy is unhappynesse,
      And misery not t'have known miserie;
      For the best way unto discretion is
      The way that leades us by adversitie;
      And men are better shew'd what is amisse,
      By th'expert finger of calamitie,
      Than they can be with all that fortune brings,
      Who never shewes them the true face of things."—DANIEL.

      "A lump of wo affliction is,
      Yet thence I borrow lumps of bliss;
      Though few can see a blessing in't,
      It is my furnace and my mint."
             —ERSKINE'S GOSPEL SONNETS.

    "Crosses grow anchors, bear as thou shouldst so
    Thy cross, and that cross grows an anchor too."—DONNE.

        "Be the day weary, or be the day long,
        At length it ringeth to Evensong."—ANCIENT COUPLET.
      "I wish the great would grow like you.  
        Who grows not only in power  
        And knowledge, but with every year and hour  
      In respect and in kindness."—TENNYSON.

      "Not being unhappy is unhappiness,  
      And misery is not having experienced misery;  
      For the best path to wisdom is  
      The route that takes us through adversity;  
      And people learn better what is wrong,  
      By the pointed finger of calamity,  
      Than they can from all that fortune offers,  
      Who never shows them the true nature of things."—DANIEL.

      "A chunk of woe is affliction,  
      Yet from it I draw pieces of joy;  
      Though few can see a blessing in it,  
      It is my furnace and my mint."  
             —ERSKINE'S GOSPEL SONNETS.

    "Crosses become anchors, bear your cross as you should,  
    Your cross will also grow into an anchor."—DONNE.

        "Whether the day is weary or whether it is long,  
        In the end, it rings to Evensong."—ANCIENT COUPLET.

Practical wisdom is only to be learnt in the school of experience. Precepts and instructions are useful so far as they go, but, without the discipline of real life, they remain of the nature of theory only. The hard facts of existence have to be faced, to give that touch of truth to character which can never be imparted by reading or tuition, but only by contact with the broad instincts of common men and women.

Practical wisdom can only be gained through real-life experience. Guidelines and teachings are helpful to some extent, but without the discipline of actual life, they stay theoretical. One must confront the harsh realities of life to add that element of truth to one’s character that can’t be gained through reading or instruction, but only through interacting with the fundamental instincts of ordinary people.

To be worth anything, character must be capable of standing firm upon its feet in the world of daily work, temptation, and trial; and able to bear the wear-and-tear of actual life. Cloistered virtues do not count for much. The life that rejoices in solitude may be only rejoicing in selfishness. Seclusion may indicate contempt for others; though more usually it means indolence, cowardice, or self-indulgence. To every human being belongs his fair share of manful toil and human duty; and it cannot be shirked without loss to the individual himself, as well as to the community to which he belongs. It is only by mixing in the daily life of the world, and taking part in its affairs, that practical knowledge can be acquired, and wisdom learnt. It is there that we find our chief sphere of duty, that we learn the discipline of work, and that we educate ourselves in that patience, diligence, and endurance which shape and consolidate the character. There we encounter the difficulties, trials, and temptations which, according as we deal with them, give a colour to our entire after-life; and there, too, we become subject to the great discipline of suffering, from which we learn far more than from the safe seclusion of the study or the cloister.

To be valuable, character must be able to stand strong in the challenges of daily work, temptation, and hardship; and capable of handling the pressures of real life. Isolated virtues don't mean much. A life that thrives in solitude might just be celebrating selfishness. Being alone can show disregard for others; but more often, it reflects laziness, fear, or self-indulgence. Every person has their share of meaningful work and human responsibility; avoiding this takes a toll on both the individual and the community they belong to. It's only by engaging in the everyday life of the world and participating in its activities that we can gain practical knowledge and wisdom. That's where we discover our main responsibilities, learn the value of hard work, and develop the patience, diligence, and endurance that shape and strengthen our character. There, we face the challenges, trials, and temptations that, depending on how we handle them, can influence our entire future; and there, we also learn from the significant discipline of suffering, which teaches us much more than the safe isolation of study or retreat.

Contact with others is also requisite to enable a man to know himself. It is only by mixing freely in the world that one can form a proper estimate of his own capacity. Without such experience, one is apt to become conceited, puffed-up, and arrogant; at all events, he will remain ignorant of himself, though he may heretofore have enjoyed no other company.

Connecting with others is essential for a person to understand themselves. It's only by engaging openly with the world that someone can accurately gauge their own abilities. Without this kind of experience, a person can easily become self-centered, boastful, and arrogant; in any case, they will remain unaware of who they truly are, even if they have previously been alone.

Swift once said: "It is an uncontroverted truth, that no man ever made an ill-figure who understood his own talents, nor a good one who mistook them." Many persons, however, are readier to take measure of the capacity of others than of themselves. "Bring him to me," said a certain Dr. Tronchin, of Geneva, speaking of Rousseau—"Bring him to me, that I may see whether he has got anything in him!"—the probability being that Rousseau, who knew himself better, was much more likely to take measure of Tronchin than Tronchin was to take measure of him.

Swift once said, "It's an undeniable truth that no one ever made a bad impression who understood their own abilities, nor a good one who misjudged them." However, many people are quicker to assess the abilities of others than their own. "Bring him to me," said a certain Dr. Tronchin from Geneva, referring to Rousseau—"Bring him to me, so I can see if he has anything to offer!"—the likelihood being that Rousseau, who knew himself better, was much more likely to evaluate Tronchin accurately than Tronchin was to assess Rousseau.

A due amount of self-knowledge is, therefore, necessary for those who would BE anything or DO anything in the world. It is also one of the first essentials to the formation of distinct personal convictions. Frederic Perthes once said to a young friend: "You know only too well what you CAN do; but till you have learned what you CANNOT do, you will neither accomplish anything of moment, nor know inward peace."

A good amount of self-awareness is essential for anyone who wants to BE or DO anything in the world. It's also one of the first things needed to form clear personal beliefs. Frederic Perthes once told a young friend: "You know very well what you CAN do; but until you understand what you CANNOT do, you won't achieve anything significant or find inner peace."

Any one who would profit by experience will never be above asking for help. He who thinks himself already too wise to learn of others, will never succeed in doing anything either good or great. We have to keep our minds and hearts open, and never be ashamed to learn, with the assistance of those who are wiser and more experienced than ourselves.

Anyone who wants to benefit from experience will never hesitate to ask for help. Those who believe they are too wise to learn from others will never achieve anything truly good or great. We need to keep our minds and hearts open and never be ashamed to learn from those who are wiser and more experienced than we are.

The man made wise by experience endeavours to judge correctly of the thugs which come under his observation, and form the subject of his daily life. What we call common sense is, for the most part, but the result of common experience wisely improved. Nor is great ability necessary to acquire it, so much as patience, accuracy, and watchfulness. Hazlitt thought the most sensible people to be met with are intelligent men of business and of the world, who argue from what they see and know, instead of spinning cobweb distinctions of what things ought to be.

The experienced man tries to make accurate judgments about the people he observes in his everyday life. What we refer to as common sense is mostly just the outcome of shared experiences that have been wisely utilized. You don't need to be exceptionally talented to gain it, but rather require patience, precision, and attentiveness. Hazlitt believed the most sensible individuals are smart businesspeople and worldly people who base their arguments on what they see and know, rather than getting caught up in complicated theories about what things should be.

For the same reason, women often display more good sense than men, having fewer pretensions, and judging of things naturally, by the involuntary impression they make on the mind. Their intuitive powers are quicker, their perceptions more acute, their sympathies more lively, and their manners more adaptive to particular ends. Hence their greater tact as displayed in the management of others, women of apparently slender intellectual powers often contriving to control and regulate the conduct of men of even the most impracticable nature. Pope paid a high compliment to the tact and good sense of Mary, Queen of William III., when he described her as possessing, not a science, but [21what was worth all else] prudence.

For the same reason, women often show more common sense than men, having fewer pretensions and naturally judging things by the instinctive impressions they make on the mind. Their intuition is sharper, their perceptions are more acute, their empathy is stronger, and their behavior is more adaptable to specific goals. This leads to their greater skill in managing others; women with seemingly limited intellectual abilities often manage to control and influence even the most difficult men. Pope gave high praise to Mary, Queen of William III, when he described her as having not just knowledge, but [21what was worth all else] prudence.

The whole of life may be regarded as a great school of experience, in which men and women are the pupils. As in a school, many of the lessons learnt there must needs be taken on trust. We may not understand them, and may possibly think it hard that we have to learn them, especially where the teachers are trials, sorrows, temptations, and difficulties; and yet we must not only accept their lessons, but recognise them as being divinely appointed.

Life can be seen as a huge school of experience, where men and women are the students. Like in school, many of the lessons learned must be taken on faith. We might not understand them and may find it difficult to learn them, especially when the teachers are challenges, grief, temptations, and hardships; yet we must not only accept these lessons but also recognize them as having a divine purpose.

To what extent have the pupils profited by their experience in the school of life? What advantage have they taken of their opportunities for learning? What have they gained in discipline of heart and mind?—how much in growth of wisdom, courage, self-control? Have they preserved their integrity amidst prosperity, and enjoyed life in temperance and moderation? Or, has life been with them a mere feast of selfishness, without care or thought for others? What have they learnt from trial and adversity? Have they learnt patience, submission, and trust in God?—or have they learnt nothing but impatience, querulousness, and discontent?

To what extent have the students benefited from their experiences in the school of life? What advantages have they taken from their learning opportunities? What have they gained in terms of discipline in heart and mind?—how much have they grown in wisdom, courage, and self-control? Have they maintained their integrity during times of success, enjoying life with balance and moderation? Or has their life simply been a self-indulgent feast, disregarding the needs and thoughts of others? What have they learned from challenges and hardships? Have they gained patience, acceptance, and trust in God?—or have they only learned impatience, complaining, and dissatisfaction?

The results of experience are, of course, only to be achieved by living; and living is a question of time. The man of experience learns to rely upon Time as his helper. "Time and I against any two," was a maxim of Cardinal Mazarin. Time has been described as a beautifier and as a consoler; but it is also a teacher. It is the food of experience, the soil of wisdom. It may be the friend or the enemy of youth; and Time will sit beside the old as a consoler or as a tormentor, according as it has been used or misused, and the past life has been well or ill spent.

The results of experience can only come from living, and living takes time. A person with experience learns to count on Time as a partner. "Time and I against any two," was a saying of Cardinal Mazarin. Time is often seen as a beautifier and a comforter, but it’s also a teacher. It nourishes experience and is the foundation of wisdom. Time can be either a friend or an enemy to youth; it can sit with the elderly as a comforter or a tormentor, depending on whether it has been used well or wasted, and how one’s past has been lived.

"Time," says George Herbert, "is the rider that breaks youth." To the young, how bright the new world looks!—how full of novelty, of enjoyment, of pleasure! But as years pass, we find the world to be a place of sorrow as well as of joy. As we proceed through life, many dark vistas open upon us—of toil, suffering, difficulty, perhaps misfortune and failure. Happy they who can pass through and amidst such trials with a firm mind and pure heart, encountering trials with cheerfulness, and standing erect beneath even the heaviest burden!

"Time," says George Herbert, "is the rider that breaks youth." To the young, the world looks so bright!—full of novelty, enjoyment, and pleasure! But as the years go by, we come to see that life is a mix of sorrow and joy. As we move through life, many dark paths open up before us—filled with hard work, suffering, challenges, and possibly misfortune and failure. Those who can navigate these trials with a strong mind and a pure heart are lucky, facing challenges with positivity and standing tall even under the heaviest burdens!

A little youthful ardour is a great help in life, and is useful as an energetic motive power. It is gradually cooled down by Time, no matter how glowing it has been, while it is trained and subdued by experience. But it is a healthy and hopeful indication of character,—to be encouraged in a right direction, and not to be sneered down and repressed. It is a sign of a vigorous unselfish nature, as egotism is of a narrow and selfish one; and to begin life with egotism and self-sufficiency is fatal to all breadth and vigour of character. Life, in such a case, would be like a year in which there was no spring. Without a generous seedtime, there will be an unflowering summer and an unproductive harvest. And youth is the springtime of life, in which, if there be not a fair share of enthusiasm, little will be attempted, and still less done. It also considerably helps the working quality, inspiring confidence and hope, and carrying one through the dry details of business and duty with cheerfulness and joy.

A bit of youthful enthusiasm is a huge boost in life and serves as a powerful driving force. Over time, no matter how intense it is, it gradually cools down and gets shaped by experience. However, it’s a healthy and positive sign of character that should be encouraged in the right way, not mocked or stifled. It shows a strong, selfless nature, while egotism reflects a narrow and selfish one. Starting life with egotism and self-sufficiency can be detrimental to developing a broad and vibrant character. Life, in that case, would be like a year without spring. Without a generous seedtime, there won’t be a flourishing summer or a fruitful harvest. Youth is the springtime of life; without a good dose of enthusiasm, not much will be attempted, and even less accomplished. It also significantly enhances one’s work ethic, fostering confidence and hope, and helping to get through the mundane details of business and duty with happiness and joy.

"It is the due admixture of romance and reality," said Sir Henry Lawrence, "that best carries a man through life... The quality of romance or enthusiasm is to be valued as an energy imparted to the human mind to prompt and sustain its noblest efforts." Sir Henry always urged upon young men, not that they should repress enthusiasm, but sedulously cultivate and direct the feeling, as one implanted for wise and noble purposes. "When the two faculties of romance and reality," he said, "are duly blended, reality pursues a straight rough path to a desirable and practicable result; while romance beguiles the road by pointing out its beauties—by bestowing a deep and practical conviction that, even in this dark and material existence, there may be found a joy with which a stranger intermeddleth not—a light that shineth more and more unto the perfect day." 211

"It’s the right mix of romance and reality," said Sir Henry Lawrence, "that helps a person navigate life... The quality of romance or enthusiasm is important because it energizes the human mind to inspire and support its greatest efforts." Sir Henry always encouraged young men not to suppress their enthusiasm but to diligently nurture and channel those feelings, as they are meant for wise and noble purposes. "When the two elements of romance and reality," he said, "are properly combined, reality takes a straightforward path to a desirable and achievable outcome, while romance makes the journey enjoyable by highlighting its beauty—providing a deep and practical belief that, even in this dark and material world, there is a joy that remains untouched by outsiders—a light that shines brighter and brighter until the perfect day." 211

It was characteristic of Joseph Lancaster, when a boy of only fourteen years of age, after reading 'Clarkson on the Slave Trade,' to form the resolution of leaving his home and going out to the West Indies to teach the poor blacks to read the Bible. And he actually set out with a Bible and 'Pilgrim's Progress' in his bundle, and only a few shillings in his purse. He even succeeded in reaching the West Indies, doubtless very much at a loss how to set about his proposed work; but in the meantime his distressed parents, having discovered whither he had gone, had him speedily brought back, yet with his enthusiasm unabated; and from that time forward he unceasingly devoted himself to the truly philanthropic work of educating the destitute poor. 212

At just fourteen years old, Joseph Lancaster read 'Clarkson on the Slave Trade' and decided to leave home and head to the West Indies to teach poor Black people how to read the Bible. He actually set off with a Bible and 'Pilgrim's Progress' in his bag, with only a few shillings to his name. He even managed to make it to the West Indies, though he likely had no idea how to begin his mission. Meanwhile, his worried parents found out where he had gone and quickly brought him back, but his enthusiasm remained intact. From then on, he dedicated himself to the truly charitable work of educating the impoverished. 212

There needs all the force that enthusiasm can give to enable a man to succeed in any great enterprise of life. Without it, the obstruction and difficulty he has to encounter on every side might compel him to succumb; but with courage and perseverance, inspired by enthusiasm, a man feels strong enough to face any danger, to grapple with any difficulty. What an enthusiasm was that of Columbus, who, believing in the existence of a new world, braved the dangers of unknown seas; and when those about him despaired and rose up against him, threatening to cast him into the sea, still stood firm upon his hope and courage until the great new world at length rose upon the horizon!

It takes all the energy that enthusiasm can provide for someone to succeed in any major venture in life. Without it, the obstacles and challenges he faces on all sides could force him to give up; but with courage and determination fueled by enthusiasm, a person feels strong enough to tackle any danger and confront any difficulty. What an enthusiasm Columbus had, who, believing in the existence of a new world, risked the perils of uncharted seas; and when those around him lost hope and turned against him, threatening to throw him overboard, he still stood firm in his hope and courage until the great new world finally appeared on the horizon!

The brave man will not be baffled, but tries and tries again until he succeeds. The tree does not fall at the first stroke, but only by repeated strokes and after great labour. We may see the visible success at which a man has arrived, but forget the toil and suffering and peril through which it has been achieved. When a friend of Marshal Lefevre was complimenting him on his possessions and good fortune, the Marshal said: "You envy me, do you? Well, you shall have these things at a better bargain than I had. Come into the court: I'll fire at you with a gun twenty times at thirty paces, and if I don't kill you, all shall be your own. What! you won't! Very well; recollect, then, that I have been shot at more than a thousand times, and much nearer, before I arrived at the state in which you now find me!"

The brave person won’t get discouraged but keeps trying until they succeed. A tree doesn’t fall with the first hit; it takes multiple strikes and a lot of hard work. We might see the success someone has achieved, but we often forget the hard work, struggle, and danger they went through to get there. When a friend of Marshal Lefevre was praising him for his possessions and good fortune, the Marshal replied, "You envy me, do you? Well, you can have these things for an even better deal than I did. Step into the court: I'll shoot at you with a gun twenty times from thirty paces, and if I don’t hit you, everything will be yours. What? You won't do it? Fine; remember that I’ve been shot at more than a thousand times, and much closer, before I reached the position you see me in now!"

The apprenticeship of difficulty is one which the greatest of men have had to serve. It is usually the best stimulus and discipline of character. It often evokes powers of action that, but for it, would have remained dormant. As comets are sometimes revealed by eclipses, so heroes are brought to light by sudden calamity. It seems as if, in certain cases, genius, like iron struck by the flint, needed the sharp and sudden blow of adversity to bring out the divine spark. There are natures which blossom and ripen amidst trials, which would only wither and decay in an atmosphere of ease and comfort.

The challenge of difficulty is one that even the greatest people have had to face. It’s often the best motivation and training for character. It frequently brings out strengths in action that would otherwise stay hidden. Just as comets sometimes appear during eclipses, heroes emerge during unexpected hardships. It seems that, in some cases, genius, like iron struck by flint, needs the sharp and sudden impact of adversity to reveal its true brilliance. Some personalities thrive and grow through challenges, while they would only fade and decline in a comfortable and easy environment.

Thus it is good for men to be roused into action and stiffened into self-reliance by difficulty, rather than to slumber away their lives in useless apathy and indolence. 213 It is the struggle that is the condition of victory. If there were no difficulties, there would be no need of efforts; if there were no temptations, there would be no training in self-control, and but little merit in virtue; if there were no trial and suffering, there would be no education in patience and resignation. Thus difficulty, adversity, and suffering are not all evil, but often the best source of strength, discipline, and virtue.

It’s better for people to be pushed into action and to become self-reliant through challenges, rather than to waste their lives in pointless apathy and laziness. 213 The struggle is what leads to victory. Without difficulties, there would be no need to make an effort; without temptations, there would be no practice of self-control and little value in virtue; without trials and suffering, there would be no lessons in patience and acceptance. So, difficulty, hardship, and suffering aren’t entirely bad; they are often the best sources of strength, discipline, and virtue.

For the same reason, it is often of advantage for a man to be under the necessity of having to struggle with poverty and conquer it. "He who has battled," says Carlyle, "were it only with poverty and hard toil, will be found stronger and more expert than he who could stay at home from the battle, concealed among the provision waggons, or even rest unwatchfully 'abiding by the stuff.'"

For the same reason, it’s often beneficial for a person to have to face poverty and overcome it. "He who has fought," says Carlyle, "even if it’s just against poverty and hard work, will be stronger and more skilled than someone who stayed at home, hiding among the supply wagons, or even just resting lazily 'watching the supplies.'"

Scholars have found poverty tolerable compared with the privation of intellectual food. Riches weigh much more heavily upon the mind. "I cannot but choose say to Poverty," said Richter, "Be welcome! so that thou come not too late in life." Poverty, Horace tells us, drove him to poetry, and poetry introduced him to Varus and Virgil and Maecenas. "Obstacles," says Michelet, "are great incentives. I lived for whole years upon a Virgil, and found myself well off. An odd volume of Racine, purchased by chance at a stall on the quay, created the poet of Toulon."

Scholars have found poverty more bearable than the lack of intellectual stimulation. Wealth can be a heavier burden on the mind. "I have to say to Poverty, 'Welcome! Just don't show up too late in life,'" said Richter. Poverty, according to Horace, inspired him to write poetry, and that poetry connected him to Varus, Virgil, and Maecenas. "Challenges," says Michelet, "are great motivators. I lived for years on Virgil and felt quite well off. A random volume of Racine, found at a stall by the quay, sparked the poet from Toulon."

The Spaniards are even said to have meanly rejoiced the poverty of Cervantes, but for which they supposed the production of his great works might have been prevented. When the Archbishop of Toledo visited the French ambassador at Madrid, the gentlemen in the suite of the latter expressed their high admiration of the writings of the author of 'Don Quixote,' and intimated their desire of becoming acquainted with one who had given them so much pleasure. The answer they received was, that Cervantes had borne arms in the service of his country, and was now old and poor. "What!" exclaimed one of the Frenchmen, "is not Senor Cervantes in good circumstances? Why is he not maintained, then, out of the public treasury?" "Heaven forbid!" was the reply, "that his necessities should be ever relieved, if it is those which make him write; since it is his poverty that makes the world rich!" 214

The Spaniards are even said to have shamefully celebrated Cervantes' poverty, thinking it might have stopped him from creating his great works. When the Archbishop of Toledo visited the French ambassador in Madrid, the men in the ambassador's entourage expressed their admiration for the author of 'Don Quixote' and showed interest in meeting someone who had brought them so much joy. The response they got was that Cervantes had fought for his country and was now old and poor. "What!" one of the Frenchmen exclaimed, "Isn’t Señor Cervantes well-off? Why isn’t he supported by the government?" "Heaven forbid!" came the reply, "that his needs should ever be met if it's those that inspire his writing; since it’s his poverty that enriches the world!" 214

It is not prosperity so much as adversity, not wealth so much as poverty, that stimulates the perseverance of strong and healthy natures, rouses their energy and developes their character. Burke said of himself: "I was not rocked, and swaddled, and dandled into a legislator. 'NITOR IN ADVERSUM' is the motto for a man like you." Some men only require a great difficulty set in their way to exhibit the force of their character and genius; and that difficulty once conquered becomes one of the greatest incentives to their further progress.

It's not prosperity that drives strong and healthy individuals, but rather adversity; it's not wealth that fuels them, but poverty. Burke remarked about himself: "I wasn't coddled and pampered into becoming a legislator. 'NITOR IN ADVERSUM' is the motto for someone like you." Some people only need a significant challenge to reveal their character and talent; overcoming that challenge often becomes one of their biggest motivators for further growth.

It is a mistake to suppose that men succeed through success; they much oftener succeed through failure. By far the best experience of men is made up of their remembered failures in dealing with others in the affairs of life. Such failures, in sensible men, incite to better self-management, and greater tact and self-control, as a means of avoiding them in the future. Ask the diplomatist, and he will tell you that he has learned his art through being baffled, defeated, thwarted, and circumvented, far more than from having succeeded. Precept, study, advice, and example could never have taught them so well as failure has done. It has disciplined them experimentally, and taught them what to do as well as what NOT to do—which is often still more important in diplomacy.

It's a mistake to think that people succeed because of their successes; they actually succeed much more often because of their failures. The best lessons people learn come from their past failures in dealing with others in life. For sensible individuals, these failures motivate better self-management, greater tact, and self-control to avoid repeating them in the future. Ask a diplomat, and they’ll tell you that they’ve learned their craft through being confused, defeated, and outmaneuvered much more than through their successes. Teaching, studying, advice, and examples could never instruct them as effectively as their failures have. Failure has given them real-life experience, showing them what to do as well as what NOT to do—which is often even more crucial in diplomacy.

Many have to make up their minds to encounter failure again and again before they succeed; but if they have pluck, the failure will only serve to rouse their courage, and stimulate them to renewed efforts. Talma, the greatest of actors, was hissed off the stage when he first appeared on it. Lacordaire, one of the greatest preachers of modern times, only acquired celebrity after repeated failures. Montalembert said of his first public appearance in the Church of St. Roch: "He failed completely, and on coming out every one said, 'Though he may be a man of talent, he will never be a preacher.'" Again and again he tried until he succeeded; and only two years after his DEBUT, Lacordaire was preaching in Notre Dame to audiences such as few French orators have addressed since the time of Bossuet and Massillon.

Many have to decide to face failure repeatedly before they succeed; but if they're determined, the failure will only boost their courage and motivate them to keep trying. Talma, the greatest actor, was booed off the stage during his first performance. Lacordaire, one of the greatest preachers of modern times, only gained fame after several setbacks. Montalembert commented on his first public appearance in the Church of St. Roch: "He failed completely, and when he left, everyone said, 'Even if he has talent, he'll never be a preacher.'" He tried again and again until he succeeded; and just two years after his debut, Lacordaire was preaching in Notre Dame to audiences that few French speakers have addressed since Bossuet and Massillon.

When Mr. Cobden first appeared as a speaker, at a public meeting in Manchester, he completely broke down, and the chairman apologized for his failure. Sir James Graham and Mr. Disraeli failed and were derided at first, and only succeeded by dint of great labour and application. At one time Sir James Graham had almost given up public speaking in despair. He said to his friend Sir Francis Baring: "I have tried it every way—extempore, from notes, and committing all to memory—and I can't do it. I don't know why it is, but I am afraid I shall never succeed." Yet, by dint of perseverance, Graham, like Disraeli, lived to become one of the most effective and impressive of parliamentary speakers.

When Mr. Cobden first spoke at a public meeting in Manchester, he completely fell apart, and the chairman apologized for his failure. Sir James Graham and Mr. Disraeli also struggled at first and faced ridicule, but they eventually succeeded through hard work and dedication. At one point, Sir James Graham nearly gave up on public speaking in frustration. He told his friend Sir Francis Baring, "I’ve tried every approach—speaking off the cuff, using notes, and memorizing everything—but I can’t do it. I don’t know why, but I’m worried I’ll never succeed." However, through perseverance, Graham, like Disraeli, went on to become one of the most effective and impressive speakers in Parliament.

Failures in one direction have sometimes had the effect of forcing the farseeing student to apply himself in another. Thus Prideaux's failure as a candidate for the post of parish-clerk of Ugboro, in Devon, led to his applying himself to learning, and to his eventual elevation to the bishopric of Worcester. When Boileau, educated for the bar, pleaded his first cause, he broke down amidst shouts of laughter. He next tried the pulpit, and failed there too. And then he tried poetry, and succeeded. Fontenelle and Voltaire both failed at the bar. So Cowper, through his diffidence and shyness, broke down when pleading his first cause, though he lived to revive the poetic art in England. Montesquieu and Bentham both failed as lawyers, and forsook the bar for more congenial pursuits—the latter leaving behind him a treasury of legislative procedure for all time. Goldsmith failed in passing as a surgeon; but he wrote the 'Deserted Village' and the 'Vicar of Wakefield;' whilst Addison failed as a speaker, but succeeded in writing 'Sir Roger de Coverley,' and his many famous papers in the 'Spectator.'

Failures in one area have sometimes pushed insightful students to focus on other paths. For instance, Prideaux's unsuccessful bid for the parish-clerk position in Ugboro, Devon, motivated him to dive into learning, ultimately leading to his rise as the Bishop of Worcester. When Boileau, initially trained for law, presented his first case, he faltered amidst laughter. He then attempted preaching but struggled there as well. Finally, he turned to poetry and found success. Both Fontenelle and Voltaire faced setbacks in law. Similarly, Cowper, due to his nerves and shyness, stumbled during his first case but went on to revive the art of poetry in England. Montesquieu and Bentham also had legal failures and left the bar for pursuits that suited them better, with Bentham leaving behind a lasting legacy of legislative procedures. Goldsmith couldn't succeed as a surgeon but wrote 'The Deserted Village' and 'The Vicar of Wakefield,' while Addison struggled as a speaker but wrote 'Sir Roger de Coverley' and many of his famous essays in the 'Spectator.'

Even the privation of some important bodily sense, such as sight or hearing, has not been sufficient to deter courageous men from zealously pursuing the struggle of life. Milton, when struck by blindness, "still bore up and steered right onward." His greatest works were produced during that period of his life in which he suffered most—when he was poor, sick, old, blind, slandered, and persecuted.

Even the loss of an important sense, like sight or hearing, hasn't stopped brave people from passionately pursuing life's challenges. Milton, when he became blind, "still kept going and moved straight ahead." His greatest works were created during the time in his life when he faced the most struggles—when he was poor, sick, old, blind, slandered, and persecuted.

The lives of some of the greatest men have been a continuous struggle with difficulty and apparent defeat. Dante produced his greatest work in penury and exile. Banished from his native city by the local faction to which he was opposed, his house was given up to plunder, and he was sentenced in his absence to be burnt alive. When informed by a friend that he might return to Florence, if he would consent to ask for pardon and absolution, he replied: "No! This is not the way that shall lead me back to my country. I will return with hasty steps if you, or any other, can open to me a way that shall not derogate from the fame or the honour of Dante; but if by no such way Florence can be entered, then to Florence I shall never return." His enemies remaining implacable, Dante, after a banishment of twenty years, died in exile. They even pursued him after death, when his book, 'De Monarchia,' was publicly burnt at Bologna by order of the Papal Legate.

The lives of some of the greatest men have been a continuous struggle with difficulty and apparent defeat. Dante produced his greatest work while in poverty and exile. Banished from his hometown by the local faction he opposed, his house was looted, and he was sentenced to be burned alive in his absence. When a friend informed him that he could return to Florence if he asked for pardon and absolution, he replied: "No! This is not the path that will lead me back to my country. I will return quickly if you, or anyone else, can find a way that does not tarnish the reputation or honor of Dante; but if no such way exists for entering Florence, then I will never return." His enemies remained unforgiving, and after twenty years of exile, Dante died away from home. They even targeted him after his death, as his book 'De Monarchia' was publicly burned in Bologna by order of the Papal Legate.

Camoens also wrote his great poems mostly in banishment. Tired of solitude at Santarem, he joined an expedition against the Moors, in which he distinguished himself by his bravery. He lost an eye when boarding an enemy's ship in a sea-fight. At Goa, in the East Indies, he witnessed with indignation the cruelty practised by the Portuguese on the natives, and expostulated with the governor against it. He was in consequence banished from the settlement, and sent to China. In the course of his subsequent adventures and misfortunes, Camoens suffered shipwreck, escaping only with his life and the manuscript of his 'Lusiad.' Persecution and hardship seemed everywhere to pursue him. At Macao he was thrown into prison. Escaping from it, he set sail for Lisbon, where he arrived, after sixteen years' absence, poor and friendless. His 'Lusiad,' which was shortly after published, brought him much fame, but no money. But for his old Indian slave Antonio, who begged for his master in the streets, Camoens must have perished. 215 As it was, he died in a public almshouse, worn out by disease and hardship. An inscription was placed over his grave:—"Here lies Luis de Camoens: he excelled all the poets of his time: he lived poor and miserable; and he died so, MDLXXIX." This record, disgraceful but truthful, has since been removed; and a lying and pompous epitaph, in honour of the great national poet of Portugal, has been substituted in its stead.

Camoens wrote most of his great poems while in exile. Fed up with the solitude in Santarem, he joined an expedition against the Moors and distinguished himself through his bravery. He lost an eye while boarding an enemy ship during a sea battle. In Goa, in the East Indies, he was outraged by the cruelty of the Portuguese towards the locals and protested to the governor about it. As a result, he was banished from the settlement and sent to China. During his later adventures and misfortunes, Camoens suffered a shipwreck, narrowly escaping with his life and the manuscript of his 'Lusiad.' Persecution and hardship seemed to follow him everywhere. In Macao, he was imprisoned. After his escape, he sailed to Lisbon, where he returned, after a sixteen-year absence, poor and without friends. His 'Lusiad,' published shortly after, earned him fame but no money. If it weren't for his old Indian slave Antonio, who begged for him in the streets, Camoens would have perished. 215 As it happened, he died in a public almshouse, worn down by illness and hardship. An inscription was placed over his grave: "Here lies Luis de Camoens: he excelled all the poets of his time: he lived poor and miserable; and he died so, MDLXXIX." This shameful yet truthful record has since been removed, and a false, grandiose epitaph honoring the great national poet of Portugal has replaced it.

Even Michael Angelo was exposed, during the greater part of his life, to the persecutions of the envious—vulgar nobles, vulgar priests, and sordid men of every degree, who could neither sympathise with him, nor comprehend his genius. When Paul IV. condemned some of his work in 'The Last Judgment,' the artist observed that "The Pope would do better to occupy himself with correcting the disorders and indecencies which disgrace the world, than with any such hypercriticisms upon his art."

Even Michelangelo faced, for most of his life, the hardships brought on by jealousy—from petty nobles, ordinary priests, and various greedy individuals who couldn’t understand him or appreciate his talent. When Pope Paul IV condemned some of his work in 'The Last Judgment,' the artist remarked that "The Pope should focus more on fixing the wrongs and indecencies that shame the world, rather than criticizing his art."

Tasso also was the victim of almost continual persecution and calumny. After lying in a madhouse for seven years, he became a wanderer over Italy; and when on his deathbed, he wrote: "I will not complain of the malignity of fortune, because I do not choose to speak of the ingratitude of men who have succeeded in dragging me to the tomb of a mendicant."

Tasso was constantly persecuted and slandered. After spending seven years in a mental institution, he became a wanderer throughout Italy. On his deathbed, he wrote: "I will not complain about the cruelty of fate, because I choose not to speak of the ingratitude of those who have succeeded in bringing me to the grave like a beggar."

But Time brings about strange revenges. The persecutors and the persecuted often change places; it is the latter who are great—the former who are infamous. Even the names of the persecutors would probably long ago have been forgotten, but for their connection with the history of the men whom they have persecuted. Thus, who would now have known of Duke Alfonso of Ferrara, but for his imprisonment of Tasso? Or, who would have heard of the existence of the Grand Duke of Wurtemburg of some ninety years back, but for his petty persecution of Schiller?

But time brings about strange paybacks. The persecutors and the persecuted often switch places; it's the latter who become great and the former who become infamous. Even the names of the persecutors would probably have been forgotten long ago if not for their connection to the stories of the men they persecuted. For example, who would know about Duke Alfonso of Ferrara if not for his imprisonment of Tasso? Or who would have heard of the Grand Duke of Wurtemburg from about ninety years ago if not for his petty persecution of Schiller?

Science also has had its martyrs, who have fought their way to light through difficulty, persecution, and suffering. We need not refer again to the cases of Bruno, Galileo, and others, 216 persecuted because of the supposed heterodoxy of their views. But there have been other unfortunates amongst men of science, whose genius has been unable to save them from the fury of their enemies. Thus Bailly, the celebrated French astronomer [21who had been mayor of Paris], and Lavoisier, the great chemist, were both guillotined in the first French Revolution. When the latter, after being sentenced to death by the Commune, asked for a few days' respite, to enable him to ascertain the result of some experiments he had made during his confinement, the tribunal refused his appeal, and ordered him for immediate execution—one of the judges saying, that "the Republic had no need of philosophers." In England also, about the same time, Dr. Priestley, the father of modern chemistry, had his house burnt over his head, and his library destroyed, amidst shouts of "No philosophers!" and he fled from his native country to lay his bones in a foreign land.

Science has also had its martyrs, who fought their way to enlightenment despite hardship, persecution, and suffering. We need not mention again the cases of Bruno, Galileo, and others, 216 persecuted for their supposedly unorthodox views. However, there have been other unfortunate scientists whose brilliance couldn’t save them from the wrath of their enemies. For instance, Bailly, the famous French astronomer [21who had been mayor of Paris], and Lavoisier, the renowned chemist, were both guillotined during the first French Revolution. After being sentenced to death by the Commune, Lavoisier requested a few days' reprieve to find out the results of some experiments he had conducted while in confinement, but the tribunal denied his request and ordered his immediate execution—one of the judges remarked that "the Republic had no need of philosophers." Similarly, in England around the same time, Dr. Priestley, the father of modern chemistry, had his house burned down and his library destroyed amidst cries of "No philosophers!" and he fled his homeland to rest in a foreign country.

The work of some of the greatest discoverers has been done in the midst of persecution, difficulty, and suffering. Columbus, who discovered the New World and gave it as a heritage to the Old, was in his lifetime persecuted, maligned, and plundered by those whom he had enriched. Mungo Park's drowning agony in the African river he had discovered, but which he was not to live to describe; Clapperton's perishing of fever on the banks of the great lake, in the heart of the same continent, which was afterwards to be rediscovered and described by other explorers; Franklin's perishing in the snow—it might be after he had solved the long-sought problem of the North-west Passage—are among the most melancholy events in the history of enterprise and genius.

The work of some of the greatest explorers has taken place in the face of persecution, hardship, and suffering. Columbus, who discovered the New World and left it as a legacy for the Old, was persecuted, slandered, and robbed by those he had enriched during his lifetime. Mungo Park's tragic drowning in the African river he discovered, but did not live to describe; Clapperton dying from fever on the banks of the great lake in the heart of the same continent, which would later be rediscovered and described by other explorers; Franklin's death in the snow—possibly after he had solved the long-sought problem of the Northwest Passage—are among the saddest events in the history of exploration and brilliance.

The case of Flinders the navigator, who suffered a six years' imprisonment in the Isle of France, was one of peculiar hardship. In 1801, he set sail from England in the INVESTIGATOR, on a voyage of discovery and survey, provided with a French pass, requiring all French governors [21notwithstanding that England and France were at war] to give him protection and succour in the sacred name of science. In the course of his voyage he surveyed great part of Australia, Van Diemen's Land, and the neighbouring islands. The INVESTIGATOR, being found leaky and rotten, was condemned, and the navigator embarked as passenger in the PORPOISE for England, to lay the results of his three years' labours before the Admiralty. On the voyage home the PORPOISE was wrecked on a reef in the South Seas, and Flinders, with part of the crew, in an open boat, made for Port Jackson, which they safely reached, though distant from the scene of the wreck not less than 750 miles. There he procured a small schooner, the CUMBERLAND, no larger than a Gravesend sailing-boat, and returned for the remainder of the crew, who had been left on the reef. Having rescued them, he set sail for England, making for the Isle of France, which the CUMBERLAND reached in a sinking condition, being a wretched little craft badly found. To his surprise, he was made a prisoner with all his crew, and thrown into prison, where he was treated with brutal harshness, his French pass proving no protection to him. What aggravated the horrors of Flinders' confinement was, that he knew that Baudin, the French navigator, whom he had encountered while making his survey of the Australian coasts, would reach Europe first, and claim the merit of all the discoveries he had made. It turned out as he had expected; and while Flinders was still imprisoned in the Isle of France, the French Atlas of the new discoveries was published, all the points named by Flinders and his precursors being named afresh. Flinders was at length liberated, after six years' imprisonment, his health completely broken; but he continued correcting his maps, and writing out his descriptions to the last. He only lived long enough to correct his final sheet for the press, and died on the very day that his work was published!

The story of Flinders the navigator, who spent six years in prison on the Isle of France, is one of unusual hardship. In 1801, he set sail from England on the INVESTIGATOR for a journey of discovery and survey, equipped with a French pass that required all French governors [21 despite the ongoing war between England and France] to give him protection and assistance in the name of science. During his voyage, he mapped much of Australia, Van Diemen's Land, and the surrounding islands. The INVESTIGATOR was found to be leaky and rotten, so it was condemned, and Flinders took a passenger spot on the PORPOISE to return to England and present the results of his three years of work to the Admiralty. On the way home, the PORPOISE wrecked on a reef in the South Seas, and Flinders, along with part of the crew, made their way to Port Jackson in an open boat, successfully reaching it despite being 750 miles from the wreck. There, he managed to get a small schooner called the CUMBERLAND, no bigger than a Gravesend sailing boat, and went back for the remaining crew left on the reef. After rescuing them, he set sail for England, heading for the Isle of France, where the CUMBERLAND arrived in a badly damaged state. To his shock, he and his crew were taken prisoner and thrown into jail, where they faced brutal treatment; his French pass offered him no protection. The stress of Flinders' imprisonment was worsened by the knowledge that Baudin, the French navigator he had met while surveying the Australian coasts, would reach Europe first and take credit for all the discoveries Flinders had made. As he suspected, while Flinders was still locked up on the Isle of France, the French Atlas of the new discoveries was published, with all the points named by Flinders and his predecessors being renamed. Finally, after six years in prison, Flinders was released, but his health was completely shattered; nevertheless, he continued to work on his maps and written descriptions until the end. He lived just long enough to finalize his last sheet for publication and died on the very day that his work was released!

Courageous men have often turned enforced solitude to account in executing works of great pith and moment. It is in solitude that the passion for spiritual perfection best nurses itself. The soul communes with itself in loneliness until its energy often becomes intense. But whether a man profits by solitude or not will mainly depend upon his own temperament, training, and character. While, in a large-natured man, solitude will make the pure heart purer, in the small-natured man it will only serve to make the hard heart still harder: for though solitude may be the nurse of great spirits, it is the torment of small ones.

Brave individuals have often made the most of forced isolation by accomplishing significant work. It's in solitude that the desire for spiritual growth thrives best. The soul reflects on itself in loneliness until its energy often becomes powerful. However, whether someone benefits from solitude really depends on their temperament, upbringing, and character. For a generous person, solitude will cleanse the heart even more, while for a petty person, it will only harden their already tough heart: solitude may nurture great spirits but torment the small-minded.

It was in prison that Boetius wrote his 'Consolations of Philosophy,' and Grotius his 'Commentary on St. Matthew,' regarded as his masterwork in Biblical Criticism. Buchanan composed his beautiful 'Paraphrases on the Psalms' while imprisoned in the cell of a Portuguese monastery. Campanella, the Italian patriot monk, suspected of treason, was immured for twenty-seven years in a Neapolitan dungeon, during which, deprived of the sun's light, he sought higher light, and there created his 'Civitas Solis,' which has been so often reprinted and reproduced in translations in most European languages. During his thirteen years' imprisonment in the Tower, Raleigh wrote his 'History of the World,' a project of vast extent, of which he was only able to finish the first five books. Luther occupied his prison hours in the Castle of Wartburg in translating the Bible, and in writing the famous tracts and treatises with which he inundated all Germany.

It was in prison that Boetius wrote his 'Consolations of Philosophy,' and Grotius created his 'Commentary on St. Matthew,' which is considered his masterpiece in Biblical Criticism. Buchanan wrote his beautiful 'Paraphrases on the Psalms' while locked up in a cell of a Portuguese monastery. Campanella, the Italian patriot monk suspected of treason, spent twenty-seven years confined in a Neapolitan dungeon, where, deprived of sunlight, he sought higher enlightenment and wrote 'Civitas Solis,' which has been reprinted and translated into most European languages. During his thirteen years in the Tower, Raleigh worked on his 'History of the World,' an extensive project, of which he only managed to complete the first five books. Luther spent his time in prison at the Castle of Wartburg translating the Bible and writing the famous tracts and treatises that he spread throughout Germany.

It was to the circumstance of John Bunyan having been cast into gaol that we probably owe the 'Pilgrim's Progress.' He was thus driven in upon himself; having no opportunity for action, his active mind found vent in earnest thinking and meditation; and indeed, after his enlargement, his life as an author virtually ceased. His 'Grace Abounding' and the 'Holy War' were also written in prison. Bunyan lay in Bedford Gaol, with a few intervals of precarious liberty, during not less than twelve years; 217 and it was most probably to his prolonged imprisonment that we owe what Macaulay has characterised as the finest allegory in the world.

It was likely due to John Bunyan being locked up in jail that we have 'Pilgrim's Progress.' He was forced to turn inward; without the chance to act, his active mind expressed itself through deep thinking and reflection. In fact, after he was released, he pretty much stopped writing altogether. His 'Grace Abounding' and 'Holy War' were also created while he was in prison. Bunyan spent time in Bedford Jail, with a few unstable periods of freedom, for at least twelve years; 217 and it’s probably because of his long imprisonment that we owe what Macaulay called the finest allegory in the world.

All the political parties of the times in which Bunyan lived, imprisoned their opponents when they had the opportunity and the power. Bunyan's prison experiences were principally in the time of Charles II. But in the preceding reign of Charles I., as well as during the Commonwealth, illustrious prisoners were very numerous. The prisoners of the former included Sir John Eliot, Hampden, Selden, Prynne 218 [21a most voluminous prison-writer], and many more. It was while under strict confinement in the Tower, that Eliot composed his noble treatise, 'The Monarchy of Man.' George Wither, the poet, was another prisoner of Charles the First, and it was while confined in the Marshalsea that he wrote his famous 'Satire to the King.' At the Restoration he was again imprisoned in Newgate, from which he was transferred to the Tower, and he is supposed by some to have died there.

All the political parties during Bunyan's time locked up their opponents whenever they could. Bunyan mostly experienced imprisonment during the reign of Charles II. However, during the previous reign of Charles I, as well as during the Commonwealth, there were many notable prisoners. Among those prisoners were Sir John Eliot, Hampden, Selden, Prynne 218 [21a most voluminous prison-writer], and many others. While he was held in strict confinement in the Tower, Eliot wrote his famous work, 'The Monarchy of Man.' George Wither, the poet, was another prisoner of Charles I, and while he was locked up in the Marshalsea, he wrote his well-known 'Satire to the King.' After the Restoration, he was imprisoned again in Newgate, from which he was moved to the Tower, where some believe he died.

The Commonwealth also had its prisoners. Sir William Davenant, because of his loyalty, was for some time confined a prisoner in Cowes Castle, where he wrote the greater part of his poem of 'Gondibert': and it is said that his life was saved principally through the generous intercession of Milton. He lived to repay the debt, and to save Milton's life when "Charles enjoyed his own again." Lovelace, the poet and cavalier, was also imprisoned by the Roundheads, and was only liberated from the Gatehouse on giving an enormous bail. Though he suffered and lost all for the Stuarts, he was forgotten by them at the Restoration, and died in extreme poverty.

The Commonwealth also had its prisoners. Sir William Davenant, because of his loyalty, was held as a prisoner in Cowes Castle for a while, where he wrote most of his poem 'Gondibert.' It's said that his life was mostly saved through Milton's generous intercession. He lived to repay that debt and to save Milton's life when "Charles enjoyed his own again." Lovelace, the poet and supporter of the monarchy, was also imprisoned by the Roundheads and was only released from the Gatehouse after posting an enormous bail. Although he suffered and lost everything for the Stuarts, they forgot about him at the Restoration, and he died in extreme poverty.

Besides Wither and Bunyan, Charles II. imprisoned Baxter, Harrington [21the author of 'Oceana'], Penn, and many more. All these men solaced their prison hours with writing. Baxter wrote some of the most remarkable passages of his 'Life and Times' while lying in the King's Bench Prison; and Penn wrote his 'No Cross no Crown' while imprisoned in the Tower. In the reign of Queen Anne, Matthew Prior was in confinement on a vamped-up charge of treason for two years, during which he wrote his 'Alma, or Progress of the Soul.'

Besides Wither and Bunyan, Charles II imprisoned Baxter, Harrington [21 the author of 'Oceana'], Penn, and many others. All these men spent their time in prison writing. Baxter created some of the most notable sections of his 'Life and Times' while in the King's Bench Prison, and Penn wrote his 'No Cross No Crown' while locked up in the Tower. During Queen Anne's reign, Matthew Prior was imprisoned for two years on a trumped-up charge of treason, during which he wrote his 'Alma, or Progress of the Soul.'

Since then, political prisoners of eminence in England have been comparatively few in number. Among the most illustrious were De Foe, who, besides standing three times in the pillory, spent much of his time in prison, writing 'Robinson Crusoe' there, and many of his best political pamphlets. There also he wrote his 'Hymn to the Pillory,' and corrected for the press a collection of his voluminous writings. 219 Smollett wrote his 'Sir Lancelot Greaves' in prison, while undergoing confinement for libel. Of recent prison-writers in England, the best known are James Montgomery, who wrote his first volume of poems while a prisoner in York Castle; and Thomas Cooper, the Chartist, who wrote his 'Purgatory of Suicide' in Stafford Gaol.

Since then, there have been relatively few prominent political prisoners in England. Among the most notable was Defoe, who, in addition to being put in the pillory three times, spent a lot of time in prison, where he wrote 'Robinson Crusoe' and many of his best political pamphlets. He also wrote his 'Hymn to the Pillory' there and prepared a collection of his extensive writings for publication. 219 Smollett wrote his 'Sir Lancelot Greaves' while he was in prison for libel. Among the more recent prison writers in England, the most well-known are James Montgomery, who penned his first volume of poems while incarcerated in York Castle, and Thomas Cooper, the Chartist, who wrote 'Purgatory of Suicide' in Stafford Gaol.

Silvio Pellico was one of the latest and most illustrious of the prison writers of Italy. He lay confined in Austrian gaols for ten years, eight of which he passed in the Castle of Spielberg in Moravia. It was there that he composed his charming 'Memoirs,' the only materials for which were furnished by his fresh living habit of observation; and out of even the transient visits of his gaoler's daughter, and the colourless events of his monotonous daily life, he contrived to make for himself a little world of thought and healthy human interest.

Silvio Pellico was one of the most recent and notable prison writers from Italy. He spent ten years locked up in Austrian jails, eight of which were in the Castle of Spielberg in Moravia. It was during this time that he wrote his beautiful 'Memoirs,' drawing inspiration from his keen powers of observation. Even the brief visits from his jailer's daughter and the dull routine of his everyday life helped him create a unique world filled with thought and genuine human interest.

Kazinsky, the great reviver of Hungarian literature, spent seven years of his life in the dungeons of Buda, Brunne, Kufstein, and Munkacs, during which he wrote a 'Diary of his Imprisonment,' and amongst other things translated Sterno's 'Sentimental Journey;' whilst Kossuth beguiled his two years' imprisonment at Buda in studying English, so as to be able to read Shakspeare in the original.

Kazinsky, the great revitalizer of Hungarian literature, spent seven years of his life in the dungeons of Buda, Brunne, Kufstein, and Munkacs, during which he wrote a 'Diary of his Imprisonment' and translated Sterno's 'Sentimental Journey.' Meanwhile, Kossuth spent his two years in prison in Buda studying English to read Shakespeare in the original.

Men who, like these, suffer the penalty of law, and seem to fail, at least for a time, do not really fail. Many, who have seemed to fail utterly, have often exercised a more potent and enduring influence upon their race, than those whose career has been a course of uninterupted success. The character of a man does not depend on whether his efforts are immediately followed by failure or by success. The martyr is not a failure if the truth for which he suffered acquires a fresh lustre through his sacrifice. 2110 The patriot who lays down his life for his cause, may thereby hasten its triumph; and those who seem to throw their lives away in the van of a great movement, often open a way for those who follow them, and pass over their dead bodies to victory. The triumph of a just cause may come late; but when it does come, it is due as much to those who failed in their first efforts, as to those who succeeded in their last.

Men who, like these, face legal consequences and seem to fail, at least for a while, don’t actually fail. Many who have appeared to fail completely have often had a more powerful and lasting impact on their people than those whose paths have seen nothing but continuous success. A person's character isn’t determined by whether their efforts are met with immediate failure or success. The martyr isn’t a failure if the truth they suffered for gains new significance through their sacrifice. 2110 The patriot who sacrifices their life for their cause may actually speed up its victory; and those who seem to waste their lives in the forefront of a significant movement often pave the way for those who follow them, helping them achieve victory over their fallen comrades. The success of a just cause may come slowly; but when it arrives, it is owed as much to those who struggled and failed in their early attempts, as to those who triumphed in the end.

The example of a great death may be an inspiration to others, as well as the example of a good life. A great act does not perish with the life of him who performs it, but lives and grows up into like acts in those who survive the doer thereof and cherish his memory. Of some great men, it might almost be said that they have not begun to live until they have died.

The example of a remarkable death can inspire others, just like the example of a good life. A great action doesn’t fade away with the life of the person who does it; instead, it lives on and influences similar actions in those who remember and honor the person who performed it. For some great individuals, it could be said that they truly begin to live only after they have passed away.

The names of the men who have suffered in the cause of religion, of science, and of truth, are the men of all others whose memories are held in the greatest esteem and reverence by mankind. They perished, but their truth survived. They seemed to fail, and yet they eventually succeeded. 2111 Prisons may have held them, but their thoughts were not to be confined by prison-walls. They have burst through, and defied the power of their persecutors. It was Lovelace, a prisoner, who wrote:

The names of the men who have suffered for their beliefs in religion, science, and truth are the ones most respected and revered by people everywhere. They may have died, but their truths lived on. They appeared to fail, but in the end, they succeeded. 2111 Prisons may have restricted them, but their thoughts weren't limited by those walls. They broke free and challenged the power of their oppressors. It was Lovelace, a prisoner, who wrote:

        "Stone walls do not a prison make,
            Nor iron bars a cage;
          Minds innocent and quiet take
            That for a hermitage."
        "Stone walls don't make a prison,  
            Nor do iron bars make a cage;  
          Innocent and calm minds find  
            That to be a retreat."  

It was a saying of Milton that, "who best can suffer best can do." The work of many of the greatest men, inspired by duty, has been done amidst suffering and trial and difficulty. They have struggled against the tide, and reached the shore exhausted, only to grasp the sand and expire. They have done their duty, and been content to die. But death hath no power over such men; their hallowed memories still survive, to soothe and purify and bless us. "Life," said Goethe, "to us all is suffering. Who save God alone shall call us to our reckoning? Let not reproaches fall on the departed. Not what they have failed in, nor what they have suffered, but what they have done, ought to occupy the survivors."

It was a saying of Milton that, "whoever can suffer the best can also do the best." The work of many of the greatest individuals, driven by duty, has been accomplished amid suffering, trials, and hardships. They fought against overwhelming odds and reached the shore exhausted, only to grasp at the sand and pass away. They fulfilled their duties and were at peace with dying. But death holds no power over such individuals; their cherished memories remain, comforting, purifying, and blessing us. "Life," said Goethe, "is suffering for all of us. Who but God alone will call us to account? Let not blame fall on those who have passed. Not what they have failed at, nor what they have endured, but what they have achieved should matter to those who remain."

Thus, it is not ease and facility that tries men, and brings out the good that is in them, so much as trial and difficulty. Adversity is the touchstone of character. As some herbs need to be crushed to give forth their sweetest odour, so some natures need to be tried by suffering to evoke the excellence that is in them. Hence trials often unmask virtues, and bring to light hidden graces. Men apparently useless and purposeless, when placed in positions of difficulty and responsibility, have exhibited powers of character before unsuspected; and where we before saw only pliancy and self-indulgence, we now see strength, valour, and self-denial.

So, it's not comfort and ease that test people and reveal their true qualities, but rather challenges and hardships. Adversity is the true measure of character. Just as some plants must be crushed to release their sweetest scent, some people need to go through suffering to bring out their best qualities. Therefore, challenges often reveal virtues and highlight hidden strengths. Individuals who seem useless or aimless can show remarkable character when faced with difficulties and responsibilities; where we once saw only compliance and self-indulgence, we now witness strength, courage, and selflessness.

As there are no blessings which may not be perverted into evils, so there are no trials which may not be converted into blessings. All depends on the manner in which we profit by them or otherwise. Perfect happiness is not to be looked for in this world. If it could be secured, it would be found profitless. The hollowest of all gospels is the gospel of ease and comfort. Difficulty, and even failure, are far better teachers. Sir Humphry Davy said: "Even in private life, too much prosperity either injures the moral man, and occasions conduct which ends in suffering; or it is accompanied by the workings of envy, calumny, and malevolence of others."

As there are no blessings that can't be turned into evils, there are also no challenges that can't be transformed into blessings. It all depends on how we respond to them. Perfect happiness isn't something to expect in this world. If it were attainable, it would be ultimately unfulfilling. The emptiest of all messages is the one promoting ease and comfort. Struggles, and even failures, are much better teachers. Sir Humphry Davy remarked: "Even in private life, too much prosperity either harms a person's morals and leads to behavior that results in suffering; or it brings about envy, slander, and malice from others."

Failure improves tempers and strengthens the nature. Even sorrow is in some mysterious way linked with joy and associated with tenderness. John Bunyan once said how, "if it were lawful, he could even pray for greater trouble, for the greater comfort's sake." When surprise was expressed at the patience of a poor Arabian woman under heavy affliction, she said, "When we look on God's face we do not feel His hand."

Failure enhances our patience and toughens our character. Even sadness is somehow connected to happiness and tied to compassion. John Bunyan once remarked that "if it were allowed, he could even pray for more challenges, for the sake of greater comfort." When someone was surprised by the patience of a struggling Arabian woman during her trials, she responded, "When we see God's face, we don't feel His hand."

Suffering is doubtless as divinely appointed as joy, while it is much more influential as a discipline of character. It chastens and sweetens the nature, teaches patience and resignation, and promotes the deepest as well as the most exalted thought. 2112

Suffering is definitely as divinely intended as joy, but it has a much stronger impact on shaping character. It refines and enriches our nature, teaches patience and acceptance, and encourages both profound and elevated thinking. 2112

                      "The best of men
      That e'er wore earth about Him was a sufferer;
      A soft, meek, patient, humble, tranquil spirit
      The first true gentleman that ever breathed." 2113
                      "The best of men
      Who ever lived on this earth was a sufferer;
      A gentle, humble, patient, calm spirit
      The first true gentleman to ever exist." 2113

Suffering may be the appointed means by which the highest nature of man is to be disciplined and developed. Assuming happiness to be the end of being, sorrow may be the indispensable condition through which it is to be reached. Hence St. Paul's noble paradox descriptive of the Christian life,—"as chastened, and not killed; as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things."

Suffering might be the necessary way for the best parts of humanity to be shaped and grown. If we accept happiness as the ultimate goal of life, then pain could be the essential path to achieve it. This aligns with St. Paul's profound paradox about the Christian life: "as disciplined, but not defeated; as sorrowful, yet always joyful; as poor, yet making many wealthy; as having nothing, yet owning everything."

Even pain is not all painful. On one side it is related to suffering, and on the other to happiness. For pain is remedial as well as sorrowful. Suffering is a misfortune as viewed from the one side, and a discipline as viewed from the other. But for suffering, the best part of many men's nature would sleep a deep sleep. Indeed, it might almost be said that pain and sorrow were the indispensable conditions of some men's success, and the necessary means to evoke the highest development of their genius. Shelley has said of poets:

Even pain isn't just painful. On one hand, it’s tied to suffering, and on the other, to happiness. Pain can be healing as well as sorrowful. Suffering is seen as misfortune from one angle, but as a form of discipline from another. Without suffering, the best parts of many people’s nature would lie dormant. In fact, it could be said that pain and sorrow are essential for some people's success and necessary for bringing out the greatest potential of their talent. Shelley once said of poets:

      "Most wretched men are cradled into poetry by wrong,
       They learn in suffering what they teach in song."
      "Most miserable people are pushed into poetry by their struggles,  
       They discover in pain what they express in music."

Does any one suppose that Burns would have sung as he did, had he been rich, respectable, and "kept a gig;" or Byron, if he had been a prosperous, happily-married Lord Privy Seal or Postmaster-General?

Does anyone think that Burns would have sung the way he did if he had been wealthy, respectable, and "driving around in a fancy carriage"; or Byron, if he had been a successful, happily married Lord Privy Seal or Postmaster-General?

Sometimes a heartbreak rouses an impassive nature to life. "What does he know," said a sage, "who has not suffered?" When Dumas asked Reboul, "What made you a poet?" his answer was, "Suffering!" It was the death, first of his wife, and then of his child, that drove him into solitude for the indulgence of his grief, and eventually led him to seek and find relief in verse. 2114 It was also to a domestic affliction that we owe the beautiful writings of Mrs. Gaskell. "It was as a recreation, in the highest sense of the word," says a recent writer, speaking from personal knowledge, "as an escape from the great void of a life from which a cherished presence had been taken, that she began that series of exquisite creations which has served to multiply the number of our acquaintances, and to enlarge even the circle of our friendships." 2115

Sometimes a heartbreak brings a cold heart to life. "What does he know," said a wise person, "who hasn't suffered?" When Dumas asked Reboul, "What made you a poet?" his reply was, "Suffering!" It was the death, first of his wife and then of his child, that drove him into solitude to indulge in his grief and ultimately led him to seek and find solace in poetry. 2114 It was also a personal loss that inspired the beautiful writings of Mrs. Gaskell. "It was as a creative outlet, in the truest sense of the word," says a recent writer, speaking from personal experience, "to escape from the immense emptiness of a life from which a beloved presence had been taken, that she began that series of exquisite works which has helped expand our social circle and deepen our friendships." 2115

Much of the best and most useful work done by men and women has been done amidst affliction—sometimes as a relief from it, sometimes from a sense of duty overpowering personal sorrow. "If I had not been so great an invalid," said Dr. Darwin to a friend, "I should not have done nearly so much work as I have been able to accomplish." So Dr. Donne, speaking of his illnesses, once said: "This advantage you and my other friends have by my frequent fevers is, that I am so much the oftener at the gates of Heaven; and by the solitude and close imprisonment they reduce me to, I am so much the oftener at my prayers, in which you and my other dear friends are not forgotten."

A lot of the best and most meaningful work by both men and women has been accomplished in difficult times—sometimes as a way to cope with it, and sometimes out of a sense of duty that outweighs personal grief. "If I hadn't been such a severe invalid," Dr. Darwin told a friend, "I wouldn’t have achieved nearly as much as I have." Similarly, Dr. Donne, reflecting on his illnesses, once remarked: "The advantage you and my other friends gain from my frequent fevers is that I find myself at the gates of Heaven more often; and due to the solitude and confinement they cause me, I end up in prayer more frequently, remembering you and my other dear friends."

Schiller produced his greatest tragedies in the midst of physical suffering almost amounting to torture. Handel was never greater than when, warned by palsy of the approach of death, and struggling with distress and suffering, he sat down to compose the great works which have made his name immortal in music. Mozart composed his great operas, and last of all his 'Requiem,' when oppressed by debt, and struggling with a fatal disease. Beethoven produced his greatest works amidst gloomy sorrow, when oppressed by almost total deafness. And poor Schubert, after his short but brilliant life, laid it down at the early age of thirty-two; his sole property at his death consisting of his manuscripts, the clothes he wore, and sixty-three florins in money. Some of Lamb's finest writings were produced amidst deep sorrow, and Hood's apparent gaiety often sprang from a suffering heart. As he himself wrote,

Schiller created his greatest tragedies while dealing with severe physical pain that was almost unbearable. Handel was never more extraordinary than when, warned by paralysis of death’s approach and battling through distress and suffering, he sat down to compose the amazing works that made him a legend in music. Mozart wrote his famous operas, including his last piece, the 'Requiem,' while struggling with debt and facing a terminal illness. Beethoven produced his best works during dark times, grappling with nearly total deafness. And sadly, Schubert, after his brief but brilliant life, passed away at just thirty-two, leaving behind only his manuscripts, the clothes he had, and sixty-three florins in cash. Some of Lamb's best writings were created amid deep sorrow, and Hood's seemingly cheerful demeanor often hid a hurting heart. As he himself wrote,

      "There's not a string attuned to mirth,
       But has its chord in melancholy."
      "There's not a note that brings joy,
       That doesn't have a chord of sadness."

Again, in science, we have the noble instance of the suffering Wollaston, even in the last stages of the mortal disease which afflicted him, devoting his numbered hours to putting on record, by dictation, the various discoveries and improvements he had made, so that any knowledge he had acquired, calculated to benefit his fellow-creatures, might not be lost.

Again, in science, we have the admirable example of the suffering Wollaston, even in the final stages of the terminal illness that affected him, dedicating his remaining hours to recording, by dictation, the various discoveries and advancements he had made, so that any knowledge he had gained, meant to benefit his fellow humans, would not be lost.

Afflictions often prove but blessings in disguise. "Fear not the darkness," said the Persian sage; it "conceals perhaps the springs of the waters of life." Experience is often bitter, but wholesome; only by its teaching can we learn to suffer and be strong. Character, in its highest forms, is disciplined by trial, and "made perfect through suffering." Even from the deepest sorrow, the patient and thoughtful mind will gather richer wisdom than pleasure ever yielded.

Challenges often turn out to be blessings in disguise. "Don't fear the darkness," said the Persian sage; it "might be hiding the sources of life's waters." Experience can be tough but valuable; only through its lessons can we learn to endure and grow stronger. Character, at its best, is shaped by trials and "made complete through suffering." Even from the deepest sadness, a patient and reflective mind will gain deeper insights than pleasure ever provided.

"The soul's dark cottage, batter'd and decayed, Lets in new light through chinks that Time has made."

"The soul's worn-down cottage, battered and decayed, allows new light in through cracks that time has created."

"Consider," said Jeremy Taylor, "that sad accidents, and a state of afflictions, is a school of virtue. It reduces our spirits to soberness, and our counsels to moderation; it corrects levity, and interrupts the confidence of sinning.... God, who in mercy and wisdom governs the world, would never have suffered so many sadnesses, and have sent them, especially, to the most virtuous and the wisest men, but that He intends they should be the seminary of comfort, the nursery of virtue, the exercise of wisdom, the trial of patience, the venturing for a crown, and the gate of glory." 2116

"Think about it," said Jeremy Taylor, "those sad accidents and tough times can teach us virtue. They bring our spirits down to earth and our decisions to a place of balance; they correct our frivolity and hold back our reckless behavior.... God, who mercifully and wisely governs the world, would never allow so much sadness, especially to fall on the most virtuous and wise people, if He didn't mean for it to be a source of comfort, a breeding ground for virtue, a way to practice wisdom, a test of patience, a challenge for a reward, and a pathway to glory." 2116

And again:—"No man is more miserable than he that hath no adversity. That man is not tried, whether he be good or bad; and God never crowns those virtues which are only FACULTIES and DISPOSITIONS; but every act of virtue is an ingredient unto reward." 2117

And once more:—"No one is more miserable than someone who faces no challenges. That person isn't tested, whether they are good or bad; and God never rewards those qualities that are simply talents or traits; every act of virtue contributes to the reward." 2117

Prosperity and success of themselves do not confer happiness; indeed, it not unfrequently happens that the least successful in life have the greatest share of true joy in it. No man could have been more successful than Goethe—possessed of splendid health, honour, power, and sufficiency of this world's goods—and yet he confessed that he had not, in the course of his life, enjoyed five weeks of genuine pleasure. So the Caliph Abdalrahman, in surveying his successful reign of fifty years, found that he had enjoyed only fourteen days of pure and genuine happiness. 2118 After this, might it not be said that the pursuit of mere happiness is an illusion?

Prosperity and success alone don't bring happiness; in fact, it often happens that those who are least successful in life experience the most true joy. No one was more successful than Goethe—he had great health, honor, power, and plenty of material wealth—but he admitted that throughout his life, he didn't enjoy five weeks of real pleasure. Similarly, Caliph Abdalrahman, reflecting on his successful fifty-year reign, realized he had only experienced fourteen days of true happiness. 2118 So, can we really say that the pursuit of mere happiness is an illusion?

Life, all sunshine without shade, all happiness without sorrow, all pleasure without pain, were not life at all—at least not human life. Take the lot of the happiest—it is a tangled yarn. It is made up of sorrows and joys; and the joys are all the sweeter because of the sorrows; bereavements and blessings, one following another, making us sad and blessed by turns. Even death itself makes life more loving; it binds us more closely together while here. Dr. Thomas Browne has argued that death is one of the necessary conditions of human happiness; and he supports his argument with great force and eloquence. But when death comes into a household, we do not philosophise—we only feel. The eyes that are full of tears do not see; though in course of time they come to see more clearly and brightly than those that have never known sorrow.

Life, with only sunshine and no shade, only happiness and no sorrow, only pleasure and no pain, wouldn't really be life at all—at least not human life. Think about the happiest people—their lives are a complex mix. It's made up of both sorrows and joys, and the joys feel so much sweeter because of the sorrows; losses and blessings, coming one after the other, making us feel both sad and grateful at different times. Even death makes life more meaningful; it brings us closer together while we're here. Dr. Thomas Browne argued that death is one of the essential parts of human happiness, and he makes his point with great strength and passion. But when death enters a home, we don’t analyze—it’s all about how we feel. The eyes filled with tears struggle to see; however, over time they come to understand much more clearly and brightly than those who have never experienced sorrow.

The wise person gradually learns not to expect too much from life. While he strives for success by worthy methods, he will be prepared for failures, he will keep his mind open to enjoyment, but submit patiently to suffering. Wailings and complainings of life are never of any use; only cheerful and continuous working in right paths are of real avail.

The wise person gradually learns not to expect too much from life. While they strive for success through honorable means, they will be ready for failures, keep an open mind to enjoyment, and patiently endure suffering. Complaining and lamenting about life are never helpful; only cheerful and consistent effort in the right direction truly matters.

Nor will the wise man expect too much from those about him. If he would live at peace with others, he will bear and forbear. And even the best have often foibles of character which have to be endured, sympathised with, and perhaps pitied. Who is perfect? Who does not suffer from some thorn in the flesh? Who does not stand in need of toleration, of forbearance, of forgiveness? What the poor imprisoned Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark wrote on her chapel-window ought to be the prayer of all,—"Oh! keep me innocent! make others great."

A wise person won't expect too much from those around them. If they want to live peacefully with others, they'll need to show patience and understanding. Even the best among us have quirks in their character that we have to accept, empathize with, and maybe even feel sorry for. Who is perfect? Who doesn’t have some issue they’re dealing with? Who doesn’t need understanding, patience, and forgiveness? What the unfortunate Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark wrote on her chapel window should be everyone’s prayer: "Oh! keep me innocent! make others great."

Then, how much does the disposition of every human being depend upon their innate constitution and their early surroundings; the comfort or discomfort of the homes in which they have been brought up; their inherited characteristics; and the examples, good or bad, to which they have been exposed through life! Regard for such considerations should teach charity and forbearance to all men.

Then, how much does each person's behavior depend on their natural traits and early environment; the comfort or discomfort of the homes they grew up in; their inherited traits; and the good or bad role models they encountered throughout their lives! Recognizing these factors should encourage kindness and patience toward everyone.

At the same time, life will always be to a large extent what we ourselves make it. Each mind makes its own little world. The cheerful mind makes it pleasant, and the discontented mind makes it miserable. "My mind to me a kingdom is," applies alike to the peasant as to the monarch. The one may be in his heart a king, as the other may be a slave. Life is for the most part but the mirror of our own individual selves. Our mind gives to all situations, to all fortunes, high or low, their real characters. To the good, the world is good; to the bad, it is bad. If our views of life be elevated—if we regard it as a sphere of useful effort, of high living and high thinking, of working for others' good as well as our own—it will be joyful, hopeful, and blessed. If, on the contrary, we regard it merely as affording opportunities for self-seeking, pleasure, and aggrandisement, it will be full of toil, anxiety, and disappointment.

At the same time, life is largely what we make it. Each person creates their own little world. A cheerful mindset makes it pleasant, while a discontented mindset makes it miserable. "To me, my mind is a kingdom" applies equally to a peasant and a monarch. One may feel like a king at heart, just as the other may feel like a slave. Life mostly reflects our individual selves. Our mind influences the true nature of all situations and circumstances, whether they are good or bad. To a good person, the world seems good; to a bad person, it seems bad. If we have an elevated view of life—if we see it as a realm for meaningful effort, high living, and high thinking, working for the good of others as well as ourselves—it will be joyful, hopeful, and blessed. Conversely, if we see it only as a chance for selfishness, pleasure, and self-promotion, it will be filled with hard work, anxiety, and disappointment.

There is much in life that, while in this state, we can never comprehend. There is, indeed, a great deal of mystery in life—much that we see "as in a glass darkly." But though we may not apprehend the full meaning of the discipline of trial through which the best have to pass, we must have faith in the completeness of the design of which our little individual lives form a part.

There’s a lot in life that we just can’t understand while we’re in this state. There’s certainly a lot of mystery in life—much of it we see “as in a glass darkly.” But even if we can’t grasp the full significance of the struggles that the best among us go through, we need to have faith in the wholeness of the design that our small individual lives are part of.

We have each to do our duty in that sphere of life in which we have been placed. Duty alone is true; there is no true action but in its accomplishment. Duty is the end and aim of the highest life; the truest pleasure of all is that derived from the consciousness of its fulfilment. Of all others, it is the one that is most thoroughly satisfying, and the least accompanied by regret and disappointment. In the words of George Herbert, the consciousness of duty performed "gives us music at midnight."

We each have to fulfill our responsibilities in the area of life where we find ourselves. Duty is what’s real; there’s no genuine action without completing it. Duty is the goal and purpose of living our best life; the deepest pleasure comes from knowing we’ve fulfilled it. Among all pleasures, it’s the one that’s most completely satisfying and carries the least amount of regret and disappointment. As George Herbert said, the awareness of having done our duty "gives us music at midnight."

And when we have done our work on earth—of necessity, of labour, of love, or of duty,—like the silkworm that spins its little cocoon and dies, we too depart. But, short though our stay in life may be, it is the appointed sphere in which each has to work out the great aim and end of his being to the best of his power; and when that is done, the accidents of the flesh will affect but little the immortality we shall at last put on:

And when we finish our work on Earth—whether it's out of necessity, hard work, love, or duty—like the silkworm that spins its little cocoon and then dies, we too will depart. But even though our time in life may be brief, it’s the designated space where each of us must fulfill the great purpose and goal of our existence as best as we can; and when that’s accomplished, the troubles of the body will have little impact on the immortality we will ultimately embrace:

        "Therefore we can go die as sleep, and trust
                            Half that we have
                     Unto an honest faithful grave;
        Making our pillows either down or dust!"
"So we can go die in our sleep and trust  
                            Half that we have  
                     to an honest, faithful grave;  
        Making our pillows either soft or dust!"




FOOTNOTES:

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[ Sackville, Lord Buckhurst, Lord High Treasurer under Elizabeth and James I.]

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[ Sackville, Lord Buckhurst, who served as Lord High Treasurer during the reigns of Elizabeth and James I.]

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[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 217.]

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[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 217.]

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[ Lockhart's 'Life of Scott.']

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[ Lockhart's 'Life of Scott.']

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[ Debate on the Petition of Right, A.D. 1628.]

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[ Debate on the Petition of Right, A.D. 1628.]

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[ The Rev. F. W. Farrer's 'Seekers after God,' p. 241.]

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[ The Rev. F. W. Farrer's 'Seekers after God,' p. 241.]

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[ 'The Statesman,' p. 30.]

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[ 'The Statesman,' p. 30.]

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[ 'Queen of the Air,' p. 127]

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[ 'Queen of the Air,' p. 127]

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[ "Instead of saying that man is the creature of Circumstance, it would be nearer the mark to say that man is the architect of Circumstance. It is Character which builds an existence out of Circumstance. Our strength is measured by our plastic power. From the same materials one man builds palaces, another hovels: one warehouses, another villas. Bricks and mortar are mortar and bricks, until the architect can make them something else. Thus it is that in the same family, in the same circumstances, one man rears a stately edifice, while his brother, vacillating and incompetent, lives for ever amid ruins: the block of granite, which was an obstacle on the pathway of the weak, becomes a stepping-stone on the pathway of the strong."—G. H. Lewes, LIFE OF GOETHE.]

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[ "Instead of saying that man is shaped by Circumstance, it's more accurate to say that man creates his Circumstance. It's Character that constructs an existence from Circumstance. Our strength is defined by our ability to adapt. From the same resources, one person builds grand homes, while another makes shacks; one constructs warehouses, while another designs villas. Bricks and mortar are just that, until the architect transforms them into something more. This is why in the same family, under the same conditions, one person can create an impressive structure, while his brother, indecisive and incompetent, remains surrounded by ruins: the block of granite that is a barrier for the weak becomes a stepping-stone for the strong."—G. H. Lewes, LIFE OF GOETHE.]

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[ Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the Prince Consort' (1862, pp. 39-40.)]

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[ Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the Prince Consort' (1862, pp. 39-40.)]

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[ Among the latest of these was Napoleon "the Great," a man of abounding energy, but destitute of principle. He had the lowest opinion of his fellowmen. "Men are hogs, who feed on gold," he once said: "Well, I throw them gold, and lead them whithersoever I will." When the Abbe de Pradt, Archbishop of Malines, was setting out on his embassy to Poland in 1812, Napoleon's parting instruction to him was, "Tenez bonne table et soignez les femmes,"—of which Benjamin Constant said that such an observation, addressed to a feeble priest of sixty, shows Buonaparte's profound contempt for the human race, without distinction of nation or sex.]

1010 (return)
[ Among the latest of these was Napoleon "the Great," a man full of energy, but lacking in principles. He had a low opinion of his fellow human beings. "Men are pigs, who feast on gold," he once said: "Well, I throw them gold, and lead them wherever I want." When the Abbe de Pradt, Archbishop of Malines, was about to head out on his mission to Poland in 1812, Napoleon's parting advice to him was, "Have a good table and take care of the women,"—which Benjamin Constant remarked showed Buonaparte's deep disdain for humanity, regardless of nationality or gender.]

1011 (return)
[ Condensed from Sir Thomas Overbury's 'Characters' [101614].]

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[ Condensed from Sir Thomas Overbury's 'Characters' [101614].]

1012 (return)
[ 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 319.—Napier mentions another striking illustration of the influence of personal qualities in young Edward Freer, of the same regiment [10the 43rd], who, when he fell at the age of nineteen, at the Battle of the Nivelle, had already seen more combats and sieges than he could count years. "So slight in person, and of such surpassing beauty, that the Spaniards often thought him a girl disguised in man's clothing, he was yet so vigorous, so active, so brave, that the most daring and experienced veterans watched his looks on the field of battle, and, implicitly following where he led, would, like children, obey his slightest sign in the most difficult situations."]

1012 (return)
[ 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 319.—Napier points out another striking example of how personal qualities can have a big impact in young Edward Freer, from the same regiment [10th the 43rd]. When he died at just nineteen during the Battle of the Nivelle, he had already experienced more battles and sieges than he could count in years. "So slight in build, and so exceptionally beautiful, that the Spaniards often mistook him for a girl dressed as a man, he was also incredibly vigorous, active, and brave. The most daring and experienced veterans would watch his expressions on the battlefield, and, without question, would follow his lead, obeying his slightest gesture even in the toughest situations."]

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[ When the dissolution of the Union at one time seemed imminent, and Washington wished to retire into private life, Jefferson wrote to him, urging his continuance in office. "The confidence of the whole Union," he said, "centres in you. Your being at the helm will be more than an answer to every argument which can be used to alarm and lead the people in any quarter into violence and secession.... There is sometimes an eminence of character on which society has such peculiar claims as to control the predilection of the individual for a particular walk of happiness, and restrain him to that alone arising from the present and future benedictions of mankind. This seems to be your condition, and the law imposed on you by Providence in forming your character and fashioning the events on which it was to operate; and it is to motives like these, and not to personal anxieties of mine or others, who have no right to call on you for sacrifices, that I appeal from your former determination, and urge a revisal of it, on the ground of change in the aspect of things."—Sparks' Life of Washington, i. 480.]

1013 (return)
[ When it seemed like the Union might fall apart, and Washington wanted to step back from public life, Jefferson wrote to him, urging him to stay in office. "The trust of the entire Union," he said, "rests with you. Your presence at the helm will counter any arguments that could incite fear and lead people to violence and secession.... Sometimes, there is a level of character that society has such strong claims on that it keeps an individual in a specific path to happiness, limiting them to what benefits humanity now and in the future. This appears to be your situation, and the responsibility placed on you by fate in shaping your character and the events it influences; and it is for reasons like these, not my own personal concerns or those of others, who shouldn't be asking you for sacrifices, that I appeal to you to reconsider your earlier decision based on the changes in circumstances."—Sparks' Life of Washington, i. 480.]

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[ Napier's 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 226.]

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[Napier's 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 226.]

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[ Sir W. Scott's 'History of Scotland,' vol. i. chap. xvi.]

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[ Sir W. Scott's 'History of Scotland,' vol. i. chap. xvi.]

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[ Michelet's 'History of Rome,' p. 374.]

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[ Michelet's 'History of Rome,' p. 374.]

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[ Erasmus so reverenced the character of Socrates that he said, when he considered his life and doctrines, he was inclined to put him in the calendar of saints, and to exclaim, "SANCTE SOCRATES, ORA PRO NOBIS." (Holy Socrates, pray for us!)]

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[ Erasmus held Socrates in such high regard that he expressed that when reflecting on his life and teachings, he was tempted to include him in the calendar of saints and to shout, "HOLY SOCRATES, PRAY FOR US!"]

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[ "Honour to all the brave and true; everlasting honour to John Knox one of the truest of the true! That, in the moment while he and his cause, amid civil broils, in convulsion and confusion, were still but struggling for life, he sent the schoolmaster forth to all corners, and said, 'Let the people be taught:' this is but one, and, and indeed, an inevitable and comparatively inconsiderable item in his great message to men. This message, in its true compass, was, 'Let men know that they are men created by God, responsible to God who work in any meanest moment of time what will last through eternity...' This great message Knox did deliver, with a man's voice and strength; and found a people to believe him. Of such an achievement, were it to be made once only, the results are immense. Thought, in such a country, may change its form, but cannot go out; the country has attained MAJORITY thought, and a certain manhood, ready for all work that man can do, endures there.... The Scotch national character originated in many circumstances: first of all, in the Saxon stuff there was to work on; but next, and beyond all else except that, is the Presbyterian Gospel of John Knox."—(Carlyle's MISCELLANIES, iv. 118.)]

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[ "Respect to all the brave and honest; everlasting respect to John Knox, one of the most genuine! At the moment he and his cause were struggling for survival amid civil conflicts and chaos, he sent the schoolmaster out to teach everywhere, saying, 'Let the people be educated:' this is just one, and indeed a necessary and relatively small part of his significant message to humanity. The essence of this message was, 'Let people understand that they are created by God and are accountable to Him, working even in the smallest moments of time on things that will last for eternity...' Knox delivered this powerful message with conviction and strength; and he found a people who believed him. Such an achievement, even if it were accomplished only once, yields enormous results. Thought in such a nation may change its form, but it cannot disappear; the nation has reached a point of maturity and a certain level of manhood, ready for all that humanity can achieve, persists there.... The Scottish national character emerged from many factors: primarily from the Saxon heritage to build upon; but secondly, and above all else except that, is the Presbyterian Gospel of John Knox."—(Carlyle's MISCELLANIES, iv. 118.)]

1019 (return)
[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. ed. p.484.—Dante was a religious as well as a political reformer. He was a reformer three hundred years before the Reformation, advocating the separation of the spiritual from the civil power, and declaring the temporal government of the Pope to be a usurpation. The following memorable words were written over five hundred and sixty years ago, while Dante was still a member of the Roman Catholic Church:—"Every Divine law is found in one or other of the two Testaments; but in neither can I find that the care of temporal matters was given to the priesthood. On the contrary, I find that the first priests were removed from them by law, and the later priests, by command of Christ, to His disciples."—DE MONARCHIA, lib. iii. cap. xi.

1019 (return)
[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. ed. p.484.—Dante was both a religious and a political reformer. He was advocating for change three hundred years before the Reformation, pushing for the separation of spiritual and civil power, and stating that the Pope's control over temporal affairs was a usurpation. The following significant words were written over five hundred and sixty years ago, while Dante was still part of the Roman Catholic Church:—"Every Divine law is found in one or the other of the two Testaments; but in neither do I see that the management of temporal matters was assigned to the priesthood. On the contrary, I see that the first priests were legally removed from them, and the later priests, by the command of Christ, to His disciples."—DE MONARCHIA, lib. iii. cap. xi.

Dante also, still clinging to 'the Church he wished to reform,' thus anticipated the fundamental doctrine of the Reformation:-"Before the Church are the Old and New Testament; after the Church are traditions. It follows, then, that the authority of the Church depends, not on traditions, but traditions on the Church."]

Dante, still holding onto 'the Church he wanted to change,' anticipated the main doctrine of the Reformation: "The Old and New Testaments come before the Church; traditions come after the Church. Therefore, the authority of the Church is based not on traditions but on the Church itself."

1020 (return)
[ 'Blackwood's Magazine,' June, 1863, art. 'Girolamo Savonarola.']

1020 (return)
[ 'Blackwood's Magazine,' June, 1863, article 'Girolamo Savonarola.']

1021 (return)
[ One of the last passages in the Diary of Dr. Arnold, written the year before his death, was as follows:—"It is the misfortune of France that her 'past' cannot be loved or respected—her future and her present cannot be wedded to it; yet how can the present yield fruit, or the future have promise, except their roots be fixed in the past? The evil is infinite, but the blame rests with those who made the past a dead thing, out of which no healthful life could be produced."—LIFE, ii. 387-8, Ed. 1858.]

1021 (return)
[ One of the last entries in the Diary of Dr. Arnold, written the year before he died, was as follows:—"It's unfortunate for France that her 'past' can't be loved or respected—her future and her present can't be connected to it; yet how can the present bear fruit, or the future hold promise, unless their roots are anchored in the past? The problem is endless, but the blame lies with those who made the past a lifeless thing, from which no healthy life could arise."—LIFE, ii. 387-8, Ed. 1858.]

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[ A public orator lately spoke with contempt of the Battle of Marathon, because only 192 perished on the side of the Athenians, whereas by improved mechanism and destructive chemicals, some 50,000 men or more may now be destroyed within a few hours. Yet the Battle of Marathon, and the heroism displayed in it, will probably continue to be remembered when the gigantic butcheries of modern times have been forgotten.]

1022 (return)
[ A public speaker recently criticized the Battle of Marathon, claiming that only 192 Athenians died, while modern technology and deadly chemicals could eliminate over 50,000 people in just a few hours. However, the Battle of Marathon and the bravery shown during it will likely be remembered long after the massive slaughters of today are forgotten.]

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[ Civic virtues, unless they have their origin and consecration in private and domestic virtues, are but the virtues of the theatre. He who has not a loving heart for his child, cannot pretend to have any true love for humanity.—Jules Simon's LE DEVOIR.]

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[ Civic virtues, if they don't stem from and get their foundation in personal and family values, are just performances. Someone who doesn't have a loving heart for their child can't genuinely claim to love humanity. —Jules Simon's LE DEVOIR.]

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[ 'Levana; or, The Doctrine of Education.']

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[ 'Levana; or, The Doctrine of Education.']

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[ Speaking of the force of habit, St. Augustine says in his 'Confessions' "My will the enemy held, and thence had made a chain for me, and bound me. For of a froward will was a lust made; and a lust served became custom; and custom not resisted became necessity. By which links, as it were, joined together [11whence I called it a chain] a hard bondage held me enthralled."]

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[ Speaking of the power of habit, St. Augustine says in his 'Confessions', "My will was held captive by the enemy, and that created a chain for me, binding me. From a stubborn will, a desire was formed; and a desire that was indulged became a habit; and a habit that went unchallenged turned into a necessity. By these links, as it were, connected [that’s why I called it a chain] a harsh bondage kept me trapped."]

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[ Mr. Tufnell, in 'Reports of Inspectors of Parochial School Unions in England and Wales,' 1850.]

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[ Mr. Tufnell, in 'Reports of Inspectors of Parochial School Unions in England and Wales,' 1850.]

115 (return)
[ See the letters [11January 13th, 16th, 18th, 20th, and 23rd, 1759], written by Johnson to his mother when she was ninety, and he himself was in his fiftieth year.—Crokers BOSWELL, 8vo. Ed. pp. 113, 114.]

115 (return)
[ See the letters [January 13th, 16th, 18th, 20th, and 23rd, 1759], written by Johnson to his mother when she was ninety, and he was in his fiftieth year.—Crokers BOSWELL, 8vo. Ed. pp. 113, 114.]

116 (return)
[ Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington.']

116 (return)
[ Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington.']

117 (return)
[ Forster's 'Eminent British Statesmen' [11Cabinet Cyclop.] vi. 8.]

117 (return)
[ Forster's 'Eminent British Statesmen' [11Cabinet Cyclop.] vi. 8.]

118 (return)
[ The Earl of Mornington, composer of 'Here in cool grot,' &c.]

118 (return)
[ The Earl of Mornington, composer of 'Here in cool grot,' etc.]

119 (return)
[ Robert Bell's 'Life of Canning,' p. 37.]

119 (return)
[ Robert Bell's 'Life of Canning,' p. 37.]

1110 (return)
[ 'Life of Curran,' by his son, p. 4.]

1110 (return)
[ 'Life of Curran,' by his son, p. 4.]

1111 (return)
[ The father of the Wesleys had even determined at one time to abandon his wife because her conscience forbade her to assent to his prayers for the then reigning monarch, and he was only saved from the consequences of his rash resolve by the accidental death of William III. He displayed the same overbearing disposition in dealing with his children; forcing his daughter Mehetabel to marry, against her will, a man whom she did not love, and who proved entirely unworthy of her.]

1111 (return)
[ The father of the Wesleys once decided to leave his wife because she couldn't agree to pray for the current king, but he was spared from this hasty decision by the unexpected death of William III. He showed the same domineering attitude toward his children, insisting that his daughter Mehetabel marry a man she didn’t love, who turned out to be completely unworthy of her.]

1112 (return)
[ Goethe himself says—"Vom Vater hab' ich die Statur, Des Lebens ernstes Fuhren; Von Mutterchen die Frohnatur Und Lust zu fabuliren."]

1112 (return)
[ Goethe himself says—"From my father, I got his stature, the serious approach to life; from my mother, the cheerful nature and a love for storytelling."]

1113 (return)
[ Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' p. 154.]

1113 (return)
[ Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' p. 154.]

1114 (return)
[ Michelet, 'On Priests, Women, and Families.']

1114 (return)
[ Michelet, 'On Priests, Women, and Families.']

1115 (return)
[ Mrs. Byron is said to have died in a fit of passion, brought on by reading her upholsterer's bills.]

1115 (return)
[ Mrs. Byron reportedly died from a fit of passion after reading her upholsterer's bills.]

1116 (return)
[ Sainte-Beuve, 'Causeries du Lundi,' i. 23.]

1116 (return)
[ Sainte-Beuve, 'Causeries du Lundi,' i. 23.]

1117 (return)
[ Ibid. i. 22.]

1117 (__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_0__)
[ Ibid. i. 22.]

1118 (return)
[ Ibid. 1. 23.]

1118 (__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_0__)
[Ibid. 1. 23.]

1119 (return)
[ That about one-third of all the children born in this country die under five years of age, can only he attributable to ignorance of the natural laws, ignorance of the human constitution, and ignorance of the uses of pure air, pure water, and of the art of preparing and administering wholesome food. There is no such mortality amongst the lower animals.]

1119 (return)
[ The fact that about one-third of all children born in this country die before reaching five years old can only be blamed on a lack of understanding of natural laws, a lack of knowledge about the human body, and ignorance regarding the importance of clean air, clean water, and the skills needed to prepare and provide healthy food. Animals do not experience this level of mortality.]

1120 (return)
[ Beaumarchais' 'Figaro,' which was received with such enthusiasm in France shortly before the outbreak of the Revolution, may be regarded as a typical play; it represented the average morality of the upper as well as the lower classes with respect to the relations between the sexes. "Label men how you please," says Herbert Spencer, "with titles of 'upper' and 'middle' and 'lower,' you cannot prevent them from being units of the same society, acted upon by the same spirit of the age, moulded after the same type of character. The mechanical law, that action and reaction are equal, has its moral analogue. The deed of one man to another tends ultimately to produce a like effect upon both, be the deed good or bad. Do but put them in relationship, and no division into castes, no differences of wealth, can prevent men from assimilating.... The same influences which rapidly adapt the individual to his society, ensure, though by a slower process, the general uniformity of a national character.... And so long as the assimilating influences productive of it continue at work, it is folly to suppose any one grade of a community can be morally different from the rest. In whichever rank you see corruption, be assured it equally pervades all ranks—be assured it is the symptom of a bad social diathesis. Whilst the virus of depravity exists in one part of the body-politic, no other part can remain healthy."—SOCIAL STATICS, chap. xx. 7.]

1120 (return)
[ Beaumarchais' 'Figaro,' which was greeted with such excitement in France just before the Revolution began, can be seen as a typical play; it depicted the common moral beliefs of both the upper and lower classes regarding relationships between men and women. "Label men however you want," says Herbert Spencer, "as 'upper,' 'middle,' or 'lower,' you can't stop them from being part of the same society, affected by the same spirit of the times, shaped by the same type of character. The mechanical law that states action and reaction are equal has a moral counterpart. One person's actions toward another ultimately produce similar effects on both, whether those actions are good or bad. Just establish a relationship between them, and no separation into castes or differences in wealth can stop people from merging together... The same forces that quickly mold an individual to their society also ensure, albeit more slowly, the overall uniformity of a national character... And as long as these assimilating forces are at play, it's foolish to think any single group within a community can be morally different from the others. Wherever you find corruption, know that it equally affects all layers—know that it is a sign of a deeper social issue. As long as the toxin of depravity exists in one part of the political body, no other part can stay healthy."—SOCIAL STATICS, chap. xx. 7.]

1121 (return)
[ Some twenty-eight years since, the author wrote and published the following passage, not without practical knowledge of the subject; and notwithstanding the great amelioration in the lot of factory-workers, effected mainly through the noble efforts of Lord Shaftesbury, the description is still to a large extent true:—"The factory system, however much it may have added to the wealth of the country, has had a most deleterious effect on the domestic condition of the people. It has invaded the sanctuary of home, and broken up family and social ties. It has taken the wife from the husband, and the children from their parents. Especially has its tendency been to lower the character of woman. The performance of domestic duties is her proper office,—the management of her household, the rearing of her family, the economizing of the family means, the supplying of the family wants. But the factory takes her from all these duties. Homes become no longer homes. Children grow up uneducated and neglected. The finer affections become blunted. Woman is no more the gentle wife, companion, and friend of man, but his fellow-labourer and fellow-drudge. She is exposed to influences which too often efface that modesty of thought and conduct which is one of the best safeguards of virtue. Without judgment or sound principles to guide them, factory-girls early acquire the feeling of independence. Ready to throw off the constraint imposed on them by their parents, they leave their homes, and speedily become initiated in the vices of their associates. The atmosphere, physical as well as moral, in which they live, stimulates their animal appetites; the influence of bad example becomes contagious among them and mischief is propagated far and wide."—THE UNION, January, 1843.]

1121 (return)
[ About twenty-eight years ago, the author wrote and published the following passage, drawing from real experience with the topic; and despite the significant improvements in the lives of factory workers, primarily due to the admirable efforts of Lord Shaftesbury, the description is still largely accurate:—"The factory system, while it may have contributed to the country's wealth, has had a seriously negative impact on the home life of the people. It has invaded the sanctity of the home and fractured family and social connections. It has taken the wife away from her husband and the children away from their parents. Its main tendency has been to degrade the role of women. The management of domestic responsibilities should be her primary role—overseeing her household, raising her family, budgeting the family's resources, and fulfilling the family's needs. But the factory takes her away from all these responsibilities. Homes cease to be true homes. Children grow up uneducated and neglected. The deeper emotions become dulled. Women are no longer the gentle wives, companions, and friends of men, but rather their co-workers and co-laborers. They are subjected to influences that often erase the modesty of thought and behavior, which is one of the strongest protections of virtue. Without guidance from sound judgment or principles, factory girls quickly develop a sense of independence. Eager to break free from the control of their parents, they leave their homes and soon become familiar with the vices of their peers. The physical and moral environment they inhabit heightens their base instincts; the influence of bad role models spreads among them, and chaos is propagated far and wide."—THE UNION, January, 1843.]

1122 (return)
[ A French satirist, pointing to the repeated PLEBISCITES and perpetual voting of late years, and to the growing want of faith in anything but votes, said, in 1870, that we seemed to be rapidly approaching the period when the only prayer of man and woman would be, "Give us this day our daily vote!"]

1122 (return)
[ A French satirist, pointing to the constant referendums and endless voting in recent years, and to the increasing lack of faith in anything except votes, remarked in 1870 that we seemed to be quickly heading towards a time when the only prayer for men and women would be, "Give us this day our daily vote!"]

1123 (return)
[ "Of primeval and necessary and absolute superiority, the relation of the mother to the child is far more complete, though less seldom quoted as an example, than that of father and son.... By Sir Robert Filmer, the supposed necessary as well as absolute power of the father over his children, was taken as the foundation and origin, and thence justifying cause, of the power of the monarch in every political state. With more propriety he might have stated the absolute dominion of a woman as the only legitimate form of government."—DEONTOLOGY, ii. 181.]

1123 (return)
[ "The relationship between a mother and her child is of fundamental, necessary, and absolute superiority, and is much more complete, although it is less often cited as an example, than that of a father and son.... Sir Robert Filmer argued that the supposed necessary and absolute power of the father over his children was the basis and origin, and thereby justifying cause, of the monarch's power in every political state. It would have been more accurate for him to say that a woman's absolute dominion is the only legitimate form of government."—DEONTOLOGY, ii. 181.]

121 (return)
[ 'Letters of Sir Charles Bell,' p. 10. [122: 'Autobiography of Mary Anne Schimmelpenninck,' p. 179.]

121 (return)
[ 'Letters of Sir Charles Bell,' p. 10. [122: 'Autobiography of Mary Anne Schimmelpenninck,' p. 179.]

123 (return)
[ Dean Stanley's 'Life of Dr. Arnold,' i. 151 [12Ed. 1858].]

123 (return)
[ Dean Stanley's 'Life of Dr. Arnold,' i. 151 [12Ed. 1858].]

124 (return)
[ Lord Cockburn's 'Memorials,' pp. 25-6.]

124 (return)
[ Lord Cockburn's 'Memorials,' pp. 25-6.]

125 (return)
[ From a letter of Canon Moseley, read at a Memorial Meeting held shortly after the death of the late Lord Herbert of Lea.]

125 (return)
[ From a letter of Canon Moseley, read at a Memorial Meeting held shortly after the passing of the late Lord Herbert of Lea.]

126 (return)
[ Izaak Walton's 'Life of George Herbert.']

126 (return)
[ Izaak Walton's 'Life of George Herbert.']

127 (return)
[ Stanley's 'Life and Letters of Dr. Arnold,' i. 33.]

127 (return)
[ Stanley's 'Life and Letters of Dr. Arnold,' i. 33.]

128 (return)
[ Philip de Comines gives a curious illustration of the subservient, though enforced, imitation of Philip, Duke of Burgundy, by his courtiers. When that prince fell ill, and had his head shaved, he ordered that all his nobles, five hundred in number, should in like manner shave their heads; and one of them, Pierre de Hagenbach, to prove his devotion, no sooner caught sight of an unshaven nobleman, than he forthwith had him seized and carried off to the barber!—Philip de Comines [12Bohn's Ed.], p. 243.]

128 (return)
[ Philip de Comines provides an intriguing example of the submissive, though compelled, imitation of Philip, Duke of Burgundy, by his courtiers. When the duke fell ill and had his head shaved, he demanded that all his nobles, numbering five hundred, do the same. One noble, Pierre de Hagenbach, in a show of loyalty, immediately had any unshaved nobleman captured and brought to the barber!—Philip de Comines [12Bohn's Ed.], p. 243.]

129 (return)
[ 'Life,' i. 344.]

129 (__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_0__)
[ 'Life,' i. 344.]

1210 (return)
[ Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the Prince Consort,' p. 33.]

1210 (return)
[ Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the Prince Consort,' p. 33.]

1211 (return)
[ Speech at Liverpool, 1812.]

1211 (return)
[ Speech at Liverpool, 1812.]

131 (return)
[In the third chapter of his Natural History, Pliny relates in what high honour agriculture was held in the earlier days of Rome; how the divisions of land were measured by the quantity which could be ploughed by a yoke of oxen in a certain time [13JUGERUM, in one day; ACTUS, at one spell]; how the greatest recompence to a general or valiant citizen was a JUGERUM; how the earliest surnames were derived from agriculture (Pilumnus, from PILUM, the pestle for pounding corn; Piso, from PISO, to grind coin; Fabius, from FABA, a bean; Lentulus, from LENS, a lentil; Cicero, from CICER, a chickpea; Babulcus, from BOS, &c.); how the highest compliment was to call a man a good agriculturist, or a good husbandman (LOCUPLES, rich, LOCI PLENUS, PECUNIA, from PECUS, &c.); how the pasturing of cattle secretly by night upon unripe crops was a capital offence, punishable by hanging; how the rural tribes held the foremost rank, while those of the city had discredit thrown upon them as being an indolent race; and how "GLORIAM DENIQUE IPSAM, A FARRIS HONORE, 'ADOREAM' APPELLABANT;" ADOREA, or Glory, the reward of valour, being derived from Ador, or spelt, a kind of grain.]

131 (return)
[In the third chapter of his Natural History, Pliny describes how highly esteemed agriculture was in the early days of Rome; how land was divided based on how much could be plowed by a yoke of oxen in a certain time [13JUGERUM, in one day; ACTUS, at one time]; how the greatest reward for a general or brave citizen was a JUGERUM; how the earliest surnames were derived from agriculture (Pilumnus, from PILUM, the pestle for crushing grain; Piso, from PISO, to grind grain; Fabius, from FABA, a bean; Lentulus, from LENS, a lentil; Cicero, from CICER, a chickpea; Babulcus, from BOS, etc.); how secretly grazing cattle on unripe crops at night was a serious crime, punishable by hanging; how rural tribes held the highest status, while city dwellers were disdained as being a lazy people; and how "GLORIAM DENIQUE IPSAM, A FARRIS HONORE, 'ADOREAM' APPELLABANT;" ADOREA, or Glory, the reward of bravery, coming from Ador, or spelt, a type of grain.]

132 (return)
[ 'Essay on Government,' in 'Encyclopaedia Britannica.']

132 (return)
[ 'Essay on Government,' in 'Encyclopaedia Britannica.']

133 (return)
[ Burton's 'Anatomy of Melancholy,' Part i., Mem. 2, Sub. 6.]

133 (return)
[ Burton's 'Anatomy of Melancholy,' Part 1, Memoir 2, Subject 6.]

134 (return)
[ Ibid. End of concluding chapter.]

134 (return)
[Same source. End of concluding chapter.]

135 (return)
[ It is characteristic of the Hindoos to regard entire inaction as the most perfect state, and to describe the Supreme Being as "The Unmoveable."]

135 (return)
[ The Hindoos typically view total inaction as the ideal state and refer to the Supreme Being as "The Unmoveable."]

136 (return)
[ Lessing was so impressed with the conviction that stagnant satisfaction was fatal to man, that he went so far as to say: "If the All-powerful Being, holding in one hand Truth, and in the other the search for Truth, said to me, 'Choose,' I would answer Him, 'O All-powerful, keep for Thyself the Truth; but leave to me the search for it, which is the better for me.'" On the other hand, Bossuet said: "Si je concevais une nature purement intelligente, il me semble que je n'y mettrais qu'entendre et aimer la verite, et que cela seul la rendrait heureux."]

136 (return)
[ Lessing was so convinced that being stuck in satisfaction was harmful to people that he went as far as to say: "If the All-powerful Being, holding Truth in one hand and the pursuit of Truth in the other, said to me, 'Choose,' I would reply, 'O All-powerful, keep the Truth for Yourself; but let me have the pursuit of it, which is better for me.'" On the other hand, Bossuet said: "If I were to conceive a purely intelligent nature, it seems to me I would only include understanding and loving the truth, and that alone would make it happy."]

137 (return)
[ The late Sir John Patteson, when in his seventieth year, attended an annual ploughing-match dinner at Feniton, Devon, at which he thought it worth his while to combat the notion, still too prevalent, that because a man does not work merely with his bones and muscles, he is therefore not entitled to the appellation of a workingman. "In recollecting similar meetings to the present," he said, "I remember my friend, John Pyle, rather throwing it in my teeth that I had not worked for nothing; but I told him, 'Mr. Pyle, you do not know what you are talking about. We are all workers. The man who ploughs the field and who digs the hedge is a worker; but there are other workers in other stations of life as well. For myself, I can say that I have been a worker ever since I have been a boy.'... Then I told him that the office of judge was by no means a sinecure, for that a judge worked as hard as any man in the country. He has to work at very difficult questions of law, which are brought before him continually, giving him great anxiety; and sometimes the lives of his fellow-creatures are placed in his hands, and are dependent very much upon the manner in which he places the facts before the jury. That is a matter of no little anxiety, I can assure you. Let any man think as he will, there is no man who has been through the ordeal for the length of time that I have, but must feel conscious of the importance and gravity of the duty which is cast upon a judge."]

137 (return)
[ The late Sir John Patteson, in his seventies, attended an annual ploughing-match dinner in Feniton, Devon, where he felt it was important to challenge the ongoing belief that just because someone doesn't work with their hands and muscles, they aren't considered a workingman. "Thinking back to similar gatherings," he said, "I remember my friend, John Pyle, teasing me about not working for free; but I told him, 'Mr. Pyle, you don't understand what you're saying. We are all workers. The person who ploughs the field and digs the hedge is a worker; but there are other workers in different roles too. Personally, I've been a worker since I was a boy.'... Then I explained that being a judge is far from an easy job, as a judge works just as hard as anyone else in the country. They tackle very challenging legal questions that come before them all the time, which can cause a lot of stress; and sometimes the lives of other people depend significantly on how they present the facts to the jury. That's not something to take lightly, I assure you. Regardless of what anyone thinks, no one who has gone through this process as long as I have can ignore the importance and seriousness of the responsibilities that come with being a judge."]

138 (return)
[ Lord Stanley's Address to the Students of Glasgow University, on his installation as Lord Rector, 1869.]

138 (return)
[ Lord Stanley's Address to the Students of Glasgow University, on his installation as Lord Rector, 1869.]

139 (return)
[ Writing to an abbot at Nuremberg, who had sent him a store of turning-tools, Luther said: "I have made considerable progress in clockmaking, and I am very much delighted at it, for these drunken Saxons need to be constantly reminded of what the real time is; not that they themselves care much about it, for as long as their glasses are kept filled, they trouble themselves very little as to whether clocks, or clockmakers, or the time itself, go right."—Michelet's LUTHER [13Bogue Ed.], p. 200.]

139 (return)
[ Writing to an abbot in Nuremberg who had sent him a bunch of turning tools, Luther said: "I've made a lot of progress in clockmaking, and I'm really pleased about it because these drunken Saxons need constant reminders of what real time is. Not that they care much; as long as their glasses are full, they hardly think about whether clocks, clockmakers, or even time itself are accurate."—Michelet's LUTHER [13Bogue Ed.], p. 200.]

1310 (return)
[ "Life of Perthes," ii. 20.]

1310 (return)
[ "Life of Perthes," ii. 20.]

1311 (return)
[ Lockhart's 'Life of Scott' [138vo. Ed.], p. 442.]

1311 (return)
[ Lockhart's 'Life of Scott' [138vo. Ed.], p. 442.]

1312 (return)
[ Southey expresses the opinion in 'The Doctor', that the character of a person may be better known by the letters which other persons write to him than by what he himself writes.]

1312 (return)
[ Southey suggests in 'The Doctor' that you can understand a person's character better through the letters others write to them than through the letters they write themselves.]

1313 (return)
[ 'Dissertation on the Science of Method.']

1313 (return)
[ 'Dissertation on the Science of Method.']

1314 (return)
[ The following passage, from a recent article in the PALL MALL GAZETTE, will commend itself to general aproval:—"There can be no question nowadays, that application to work, absorption in affairs, contact with men, and all the stress which business imposes on us, gives a noble training to the intellect, and splendid opportunity for discipline of character. It is an utterly low view of business which regards it as only a means of getting a living. A man's business is his part of the world's work, his share of the great activities which render society possible. He may like it or dislike it, but it is work, and as such requires application, self-denial, discipline. It is his drill, and he cannot be thorough in his occupation without putting himself into it, checking his fancies, restraining his impulses, and holding himself to the perpetual round of small details—without, in fact, submitting to his drill. But the perpetual call on a man's readiness, sell-control, and vigour which business makes, the constant appeal to the intellect, the stress upon the will, the necessity for rapid and responsible exercise of judgment—all these things constitute a high culture, though not the highest. It is a culture which strengthens and invigorates if it does not refine, which gives force if not polish—the FORTITER IN RE, if not the SUAVITER IN MODO. It makes strong men and ready men, and men of vast capacity for affairs, though it does not necessarily make refined men or gentlemen."]

1314 (return)
[ The following passage, from a recent article in the PALL MALL GAZETTE, will commend itself to general approval:—"There’s no doubt these days that working hard, getting involved in activities, interacting with others, and dealing with the pressures of business provide excellent training for the mind and great opportunities to develop character. It's a narrow perspective to see business merely as a way to earn a living. A person's work is their contribution to the world, their part in the important activities that make society function. They might enjoy it or not, but it's work, and it demands focus, self-discipline, and commitment. It’s their training ground, and they can't fully engage in their work without immersing themselves in it, managing their impulses, controlling their whims, and staying on top of the endless details—essentially submitting to their training. The constant demand for a person's readiness, self-control, and energy that business requires, along with the regular challenges to their intellect, the pressure on their will, and the need for quick and responsible decision-making—all these aspects represent a valuable form of development, even if it's not the highest form. It's a development that strengthens and energizes, even if it doesn’t refine; it builds strength if not sophistication—the FORTITER IN RE, if not the SUAVITER IN MODO. It creates capable and agile individuals, and people with a significant capacity for managing business, though it may not necessarily create cultured individuals or gentlemen."]

1315 (return)
[ On the first publication of his 'Despatches,' one of his friends said to him, on reading the records of his Indian campaigns: "It seems to me, Duke, that your chief business in India was to procure rice and bullocks." "And so it was," replied Wellington: "for if I had rice and bullocks, I had men; and if I had men, I knew I could beat the enemy."]

1315 (return)
[ When his 'Despatches' were first published, one of his friends told him, after reading about his campaigns in India: "It looks to me, Duke, like your main job in India was to gather rice and oxen." "And that’s exactly right," Wellington responded: "because if I had rice and oxen, I had soldiers; and if I had soldiers, I was confident I could defeat the enemy."]

1316 (return)
[ Maria Edgeworth, 'Memoirs of R. L. Edgeworth,' ii. 94.]

1316 (return)
[ Maria Edgeworth, 'Memoirs of R. L. Edgeworth,' ii. 94.]

1317 (return)
[ A friend of Lord Palmerston has communicated to us the following anecdote. Asking him one day when he considered a man to be in the prime of life, his immediate reply was, "Seventy-nine!" "But," he added, with a twinkle in his eye, "as I have just entered my eightieth year, perhaps I am myself a little past it."]

1317 (return)
[ A friend of Lord Palmerston shared this anecdote with us. When asked one day what age he considered a man to be in the prime of life, his quick response was, "Seventy-nine!" "But," he added, with a twinkle in his eye, "since I've just entered my eightieth year, maybe I'm a bit past it myself."]

1318 (return)
[ 'Reasons of Church Government,' Book II.]

1318 (return)
[ 'Reasons for Church Governance,' Book II.]

1319 (return)
[ Coleridge's advice to his young friends was much to the same effect. "With the exception of one extraordinary man," he says, "I have never known an individual, least of all an individual of genius, healthy or happy without a profession: i.e., some regular employment which does not depend on the will of the moment, and which can be carried on so far mechanically, that an average quantum only of health, spirits, and intellectual exertion are requisite to its faithful discharge. Three hours of leisure, unalloyed by any alien anxiety, and looked forward to with delight as a change and recreation, will suffice to realise in literature a larger product of what is truly genial, than weeks of compulsion.... If facts are required to prove the possibility of combining weighty performances in literature with full and independent employment, the works of Cicero and Xenophon, among the ancients—of Sir Thomas More, Bacon, Baxter, or [13to refer at once to later and contemporary instances] Darwin and Roscoe, are at once decisive of the question."—BIOGRAPHIA LITERARIA, Chap. xi.]

1319 (return)
[ Coleridge's advice to his young friends was quite similar. "Aside from one exceptional person," he says, "I've never met anyone, especially a person of genius, who was healthy or happy without a profession: that is, some consistent job that doesn't rely on whims and can be done to a certain extent mechanically, requiring only an average amount of health, energy, and intellectual effort to perform well. Three hours of free time, unaffected by any outside worries and eagerly anticipated as a refreshing change, is enough to achieve a greater amount of genuinely inspired writing than weeks of forced labor.... If examples are needed to show that it's possible to combine significant literary work with a full and independent career, the writings of Cicero and Xenophon from ancient times—as well as those of Sir Thomas More, Bacon, Baxter, or to refer to more recent examples, Darwin and Roscoe—clearly answer this question."—BIOGRAPHIA LITERARIA, Chap. xi.]

1320 (return)
[ Mr. Ricardo published his celebrated 'Theory of Rent,' at the urgent recommendation of James Mill [13like his son, a chief clerk in the India House], author of the 'History of British India.' When the 'Theory of Rent' was written, Ricardo was so dissatisfied with it that he wished to burn it; but Mr. Mill urged him to publish it, and the book was a great success.]

1320 (return)
[ Mr. Ricardo published his famous 'Theory of Rent' after being strongly encouraged by James Mill [like his son, a main clerk in the India House], who wrote the 'History of British India.' When Ricardo finished writing the 'Theory of Rent,' he was so unhappy with it that he wanted to burn it; however, Mr. Mill convinced him to publish it, and the book became a huge success.]

1321 (return)
[ The late Sir John Lubbock, his father, was also eminent as a mathematician and astronomer.]

1321 (return)
[The late Sir John Lubbock, his father, was also well-known as a mathematician and astronomer.]

1322 (return)
[ Thales, once inveighing in discourse against the pains and care men put themselves to, to become rich, was answered by one in the company that he did like the fox, who found fault with what he could not obtain. Thereupon Thales had a mind, for the jest's sake, to show them the contrary; and having upon this occasion for once made a muster of all his wits, wholly to employ them in the service of profit, he set a traffic on foot, which in one year brought him in so great riches, that the most experienced in that trade could hardly in their whole lives, with all their industry, have raked so much together. —Montaignes ESSAYS, Book I., chap. 24.]

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[ Thales, while criticizing how much effort people put into becoming wealthy, was told by someone in the group that he was like a fox, complaining about what he couldn't have. To prove them wrong and for the sake of a laugh, Thales decided to show the opposite. He gathered all his intelligence and focused it entirely on making a profit, starting a business that in one year earned him such a vast amount of wealth that even the most experienced traders would struggle to accumulate that much in their entire lives through hard work. —Montaignes ESSAYS, Book I., chap. 24.]

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[ "The understanding," says Mr. Bailey, "that is accustomed to pursue a regular and connected train of ideas, becomes in some measure incapacitated for those quick and versatile movements which are learnt in the commerce of the world, and are indispensable to those who act a part in it. Deep thinking and practical talents require indeed habits of mind so essentially dissimilar, that while a man is striving after the one, he will be unavoidably in danger of losing the other." "Thence," he adds, "do we so often find men, who are 'giants in the closet,' prove but 'children in the world.'"—'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,' pp.251-3.]

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[ "The understanding," says Mr. Bailey, "that is used to following a regular and connected flow of ideas, becomes somewhat unable to make those quick and adaptable moves learned in real-world interactions, which are crucial for those who participate in it. Deep thinking and practical skills require mental habits that are so fundamentally different that while a person is focused on one, they will inevitably risk losing the other." "As a result," he adds, "we often see people who are 'giants in the closet' turn out to be just 'children in the world.'"—'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,' pp.251-3.]

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[ Mr. Gladstone is as great an enthusiast in literature as Canning was. It is related of him that, while he was waiting in his committee-room at Liverpool for the returns coming in on the day of the South Lancashire polling, he occupied himself in proceeding with the translation of a work which he was then preparing for the press.]

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[ Mr. Gladstone is just as passionate about literature as Canning was. It's said that while he was waiting in his committee room in Liverpool for the results on the day of the South Lancashire polling, he kept himself busy working on the translation of a book he was preparing for publication.]

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[ James Russell Lowell.]

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[James Russell Lowell.]

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[ Yet Bacon himself had written, "I would rather believe all the faiths in the Legend, and the Talmud, and the Alcoran, than that this universal frame is without a mind."]

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[ Yet Bacon himself had written, "I would rather believe all the religions in the Legend, the Talmud, and the Quran, than that this entire universe exists without a purpose."]

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[ Aubrey, in his 'Natural History of Wiltshire,' alluding to Harvey, says: "He told me himself that upon publishing that book he fell in his practice extremely."]

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[ Aubrey, in his 'Natural History of Wiltshire,' referring to Harvey, says: "He told me himself that after publishing that book, his practice declined significantly."]

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[ Sir Thomas More's first wife, Jane Colt, was originally a young country girl, whom he himself instructed in letters, and moulded to his own tastes and manners. She died young, leaving a son and three daughters, of whom the noble Margaret Roper most resembled More himself. His second wife was Alice Middleton, a widow, some seven years older than More, not beautiful—for he characterized her as "NEC BELLA, NEC PUELLA"—but a shrewd worldly woman, not by any means disposed to sacrifice comfort and good cheer for considerations such as those which so powerfully influenced the mind of her husband.]

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[ Sir Thomas More's first wife, Jane Colt, was originally a young country girl whom he taught to read and shaped to fit his own preferences and ways. She died young, leaving behind a son and three daughters, with the noble Margaret Roper resembling More the most. His second wife was Alice Middleton, a widow who was about seven years older than More. She wasn't beautiful—he described her as "NEC BELLA, NEC PUELLA"—but she was a clever, practical woman who definitely wasn't inclined to give up comfort and enjoyment for the kinds of things that strongly influenced her husband's thinking.]

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[ Before being beheaded, Eliot said, "Death is but a little word; but ''tis a great work to die.'" In his 'Prison Thoughts' before his execution, he wrote: "He that fears not to die, fears nothing.... There is a time to live, and a time to die. A good death is far better and more eligible than an ill life. A wise man lives but so long as his life is worth more than his death. The longer life is not always the better."]

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[ Before being executed, Eliot said, "Death is just a small word; but it's a big deal to die." In his 'Prison Thoughts' before his execution, he wrote: "He who isn’t afraid to die is afraid of nothing.... There’s a time to live and a time to die. A good death is far better and more desirable than a bad life. A wise person lives only as long as their life is worth more than their death. Sometimes a longer life isn't necessarily a better one."]

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[ Mr. J. S. Mill, in his book 'On Liberty,' describes "the masses," as "collective mediocrity." "The initiation of all wise or noble things," he says, "comes, and must come, from individuals—generally at first from some one individual. The honour and glory of the average man is that he is capable of following that imitation; that he can respond internally to wise and noble things, and be led to them with his eyes open.... In this age, the mere example of nonconformity, the mere refusal to bend the knee to custom, is itself a service. Precisely because the tyranny of opinion is such as to make eccentricity a reproach, it is desirable, in order to break through that tyranny, that people should be eccentric. Eccentricity has always abounded when and where strength of character has abounded; and the amount of eccentricity in a society has generally been proportional to the amount of genius, mental vigour, and moral courage which it contained. That so few now dare to be eccentric, marks the chief danger of the time."—Pp. 120-1.]

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[ Mr. J. S. Mill, in his book 'On Liberty,' describes "the masses" as "collective mediocrity." He says, "The creation of all wise or noble things comes, and must come, from individuals—usually starting with a single individual. The honor and glory of the average person is that they can follow that example; that they can respond internally to wise and noble ideas and be led to them with their eyes open.... In this time, just the act of being nonconformist, the simple refusal to conform to tradition, is itself a valuable contribution. Precisely because the pressure of public opinion is such that it makes being different a mark of shame, it's important, in order to break free from that pressure, that people be different. Eccentricity has always thrived where strength of character has thrived; and the level of eccentricity in a society has typically been in line with the level of genius, mental strength, and moral courage it possessed. The fact that so few today dare to be eccentric indicates the main danger of our times."—Pp. 120-1.]

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[ Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his thoughtful books, published in 1845, made some observations on this point, which are not less applicable now. He there said: "it is a grievous thing to see literature made a vehicle for encouraging the enmity of class to class. Yet this, unhappily, is not unfrequent now. Some great man summed up the nature of French novels by calling them the Literature of Despair; the kind of writing that I deprecate may be called the Literature of Envy.... Such writers like to throw their influence, as they might say, into the weaker scale. But that is not the proper way of looking at the matter. I think, if they saw the ungenerous nature of their proceedings, that alone would stop them. They should recollect that literature may fawn upon the masses as well as the aristocracy; and in these days the temptation is in the former direction. But what is most grievous in this kind of writing is the mischief it may do to the working-people themselves. If you have their true welfare at heart, you will not only care for their being fed and clothed, but you will be anxious not to encourage unreasonable expectations in them—not to make them ungrateful or greedy-minded. Above all, you will be solicitous to preserve some self-reliance in them. You will be careful not to let them think that their condition can be wholly changed without exertion of their own. You would not desire to have it so changed. Once elevate your ideal of what you wish to happen amongst the labouring population, and you will not easily admit anything in your writings that may injure their moral or their mental character, even if you thought it might hasten some physical benefit for them. That is the way to make your genius most serviceable to mankind. Depend upon it, honest and bold things require to be said to the lower as well as the higher classes; and the former are in these times much less likely to have, such things addressed to them."-Claims of Labour, pp. 253-4.]

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[ Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his thoughtful books published in 1845, made some observations on this point that are still relevant today. He said: "It's a terrible thing to see literature used to promote hostility between social classes. Unfortunately, this is still quite common. A notable figure once described French novels as the Literature of Despair; the kind of writing I criticize can be labeled the Literature of Envy. Such writers enjoy tilting the balance in favor of the weaker side. But that's not the right way to approach the issue. I believe if they recognized the unkindness of their actions, that would be enough to change their minds. They should remember that literature can cater to both the masses and the elite; in today's world, the temptation often leans toward the former. However, the most troubling aspect of this kind of writing is the harm it can cause to the working class itself. If you genuinely care for their well-being, you won't just focus on feeding and clothing them; you will strive not to instill unrealistic expectations in them—nor to foster greed or ingratitude. Above all, you will aim to maintain their self-reliance. You'll be cautious not to let them believe their situation can change completely without their own efforts. You wouldn't want it to change that way. Once you raise your aspirations for the working population, you will find it hard to include anything in your writing that could damage their moral or mental character, even if you think it might bring them some immediate benefit. That's how to make your talents most beneficial to humanity. Mark my words, honest and daring things need to be said to both the lower and higher classes; and nowadays, the former are much less likely to receive such messages."-Claims of Labour, pp. 253-4.]

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[ 'Memoirs of Colonel Hutchinson' [14Bohn's Ed.], p. 32.]

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[ 'Memoirs of Colonel Hutchinson' [14Bohn's Ed.], p. 32.]

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[ At a public meeting held at Worcester, in 1867, in recognition of Sir J. Pakington's services as Chairman of Quarter Sessions for a period of twenty-four years, the following remarks, made by Sir John on the occasion, are just and valuable as they are modest:-"I am indebted for whatever measure of success I have attained in my public life, to a combination of moderate abilities, with honesty of intention, firmness of purpose, and steadiness of conduct. If I were to offer advice to any young man anxious to make himself useful in public life, I would sum up the results of my experience in three short rules—rules so simple that any man may understand them, and so easy that any man may act upon them. My first rule would be—leave it to others to judge of what duties you are capable, and for what position you are fitted; but never refuse to give your services in whatever capacity it may be the opinion of others who are competent to judge that you may benefit your neighbours or your country. My second rule is—when you agree to undertake public duties, concentrate every energy and faculty in your possession with the determination to discharge those duties to the best of your ability. Lastly, I would counsel you that, in deciding on the line which you will take in public affairs, you should be guided in your decision by that which, after mature deliberation, you believe to be right, and not by that which, in the passing hour, may happen to be fashionable or popular."]

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[ At a public meeting held in Worcester in 1867, to acknowledge Sir J. Pakington's work as Chairman of Quarter Sessions for twenty-four years, he made the following remarks, which are both thoughtful and humble: "I'm thankful for whatever level of success I've achieved in my public life, which comes from a mix of moderate skills, honesty, determination, and consistency. If I were to give advice to any young man wanting to be helpful in public life, I'd sum up my experiences in three simple rules—rules that anyone can grasp and easily follow. My first rule would be—let others determine what duties you're capable of and what role suits you; but never hesitate to offer your help in whatever way others competent to judge think you can benefit your community or your country. My second rule is—once you agree to take on public responsibilities, put all your energy and abilities into fulfilling those duties to the best of your ability. Finally, I advise that when deciding your approach to public matters, you should make your decision based on what you genuinely believe is right after careful thought, instead of following what may be trendy or popular at the moment."]

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[ The following illustration of one of his minute acts of kindness is given in his biography:—"He was one day taking a long country walk near Freshford, when he met a little girl, about five years old, sobbing over a broken bowl; she had dropped and broken it in bringing it back from the field to which she had taken her father's dinner in it, and she said she would be beaten on her return home for having broken it; when, with a sudden gleam of hope, she innocently looked up into his face, and said, 'But yee can mend it, can't ee?'

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[ The following illustration of one of his small acts of kindness is taken from his biography:—"One day, while he was taking a long walk in the countryside near Freshford, he came across a little girl, about five years old, crying over a broken bowl. She had dropped and broken it while bringing her father's lunch back from the field, and she said she would be punished when she got home for breaking it. Then, with a sudden spark of hope, she looked up at him and said, 'But you can fix it, can't you?'"

"My father explained that he could not mend the bowl, but the trouble he could, by the gift of a sixpence to buy another. However, on opening his purse it was empty of silver, and he had to make amends by promising to meet his little friend in the same spot at the same hour next day, and to bring the sixpence with him, bidding her, meanwhile, tell her mother she had seen a gentleman who would bring her the money for the bowl next day. The child, entirely trusting him, went on her way comforted. On his return home he found an invitation awaiting him to dine in Bath the following evening, to meet some one whom he specially wished to see. He hesitated for some little time, trying to calculate the possibility of giving the meeting to his little friend of the broken bowl and of still being in time for the dinner-party in Bath; but finding this could not be, he wrote to decline accepting the invitation on the plea of 'a pre-engagement,' saying to us, 'I cannot disappoint her, she trusted me so implicitly.'"]

"My father said he couldn't fix the bowl, but he could help by giving a sixpence to buy a new one. However, when he opened his purse, it was empty of silver, so he had to apologize by promising to meet his little friend in the same spot at the same time the next day and to bring the sixpence with him. In the meantime, he asked her to tell her mother that she had seen a gentleman who would bring her the money for the bowl the next day. The child, completely trusting him, went on her way comforted. When he got home, he found an invitation waiting for him to have dinner in Bath the following evening with someone he really wanted to see. He hesitated for a while, trying to figure out if he could meet with his little friend with the broken bowl and still make it to the dinner party in Bath on time. But realizing this wouldn't work, he wrote back to decline the invitation, citing 'a previous engagement,' and said to us, 'I can't disappoint her; she trusted me so completely.'"

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[ Miss Florence Nightingale has related the following incident as having occurred before Sebastopol:—"I remember a sergeant who, on picket, the rest of the picket killed and himself battered about the head, stumbled back to camp, and on his way picked up a wounded man and brought him in on his shoulders to the lines, where he fell down insensible. When, after many hours, he recovered his senses, I believe after trepanning, his first words were to ask after his comrade, 'Is he alive?' 'Comrade, indeed; yes, he's alive—it is the general.' At that moment the general, though badly wounded, appeared at the bedside. 'Oh, general, it's you, is it, I brought in? I'm so glad; I didn't know your honour. But, ——, if I'd known it was you, I'd have saved you all the same.' This is the true soldier's spirit."

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[ Miss Florence Nightingale shared this story that happened before Sebastopol:—"I remember a sergeant who, after the rest of his picket was killed and he was beaten up, stumbled back to camp. On his way, he picked up a wounded man and carried him on his shoulders to the lines, where he collapsed and lost consciousness. After many hours, he regained awareness, likely after surgery, and his first words were to ask about his comrade, 'Is he alive?' 'Comrade, yes, he's alive—it's the general.' Just then, the general, although seriously injured, showed up at the bedside. 'Oh, general, it's you I brought in? I'm so glad; I didn't realize it was you. But if I'd known it was you, I would have helped you just the same.' This reflects the true spirit of a soldier." ]

In the same letter, Miss Nightingale says: "England, from her grand mercantile and commercial successes, has been called sordid; God knows she is not. The simple courage, the enduring patience, the good sense, the strength to suffer in silence—what nation shows more of this in war than is shown by her commonest soldier? I have seen men dying of dysentery, but scorning to report themselves sick lest they should thereby throw more labour on their comrades, go down to the trenches and make the trenches their deathbed. There is nothing in history to compare with it...."]

In the same letter, Miss Nightingale says: "England, despite her great successes in trade and commerce, has been called selfish; God knows she isn’t. The simple bravery, the unwavering patience, the common sense, the strength to endure in silence—what nation demonstrates more of this in war than her most ordinary soldier? I’ve seen men dying of dysentery, yet refusing to report themselves sick for fear of putting more burden on their comrades, going down to the trenches and turning the trenches into their deathbed. There’s nothing in history to compare with it...."

"Say what men will, there is something more truly Christian in the man who gives his time, his strength, his life, if need be, for something not himself—whether he call it his Queen, his country, or his colours—than in all the asceticism, the fasts, the humiliations, and confessions which have ever been made: and this spirit of giving one's life, without calling it a sacrifice, is found nowhere so truly as in England."]

"Regardless of what people say, there’s something more genuinely Christian about a person who dedicates their time, energy, and even their life, if necessary, for something outside of themselves—whether they refer to it as their Queen, their country, or their colors—than in all the ascetic practices, fasting, humiliations, and confessions that have ever been done. This spirit of giving one’s life, without labeling it a sacrifice, is most genuinely found in England."

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[ Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' pp. 154-5.]

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[ Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' pp. 154-5.]

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[ The sufferings of this noble woman, together with those of her unfortunate husband, were touchingly described in a letter afterwards addressed by her to a female friend, which was published some years ago at Haarlem, entitled, 'Gertrude von der Wart; or, Fidelity unto Death.' Mrs. Hemans wrote a poem of great pathos and beauty, commemorating the sad story in her 'Records of Woman.']

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[ The hardships faced by this noble woman and her unfortunate husband were deeply described in a letter she later wrote to a female friend. This letter was published years ago in Haarlem, titled 'Gertrude von der Wart; or, Fidelity unto Death.' Mrs. Hemans wrote a moving and beautiful poem honoring this tragic story in her 'Records of Woman.']

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[ 'Social Statics,' p. 185.]

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[ 'Social Statics,' p. 185.]

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[ "In all cases," says Jeremy Bentham, "when the power of the will can be exercised over the thoughts, let those thoughts be directed towards happiness. Look out for the bright, for the brightest side of things, and keep your face constantly turned to it.... A large part of existence is necessarily passed in inaction. By day [15to take an instance from the thousand in constant recurrence], when in attendance on others, and time is lost by being kept waiting; by night when sleep is unwilling to close the eyelids, the economy of happiness recommends the occupation of pleasurable thought. In walking abroad, or in resting at home, the mind cannot be vacant; its thoughts may be useful, useless, or pernicious to happiness. Direct them aright; the habit of happy thought will spring up like any other habit." DEONTOLOGY, ii. 105-6.]

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[ "In every situation," says Jeremy Bentham, "whenever we can control our thoughts, we should focus on happiness. Look for the bright side, the best aspects of things, and always face that direction.... A significant part of life is spent doing nothing. During the day [15 as an example from countless instances], when waiting on others and time is wasted by delay; or at night when sleep refuses to come, pursuing happiness suggests filling our minds with enjoyable thoughts. Whether walking outside or relaxing at home, the mind can't be empty; its thoughts can help, hinder, or harm our happiness. Guide them wisely; the habit of happy thinking will develop just like any other habit." DEONTOLOGY, ii. 105-6.]

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[ The following extract from a letter of M. Boyd, Esq., is given by Earl Stanhope in his 'Miscellanies':—"There was a circumstance told me by the late Mr. Christmas, who for many years held an important official situation in the Bank of England. He was, I believe, in early life a clerk in the Treasury, or one of the government offices, and for some time acted for Mr. Pitt as his confidential clerk, or temporary private secretary. Christmas was one of the most obliging men I ever knew; and, from the, position he occupied, was constantly exposed to interruptions, yet I never saw his temper in the least ruffled. One day I found him more than usually engaged, having a mass of accounts to prepare for one of the law-courts—still the same equanimity, and I could not resist the opportunity of asking the old gentleman the secret. 'Well, Mr. Boyd, you shall know it. Mr. Pitt gave it to me:—NOT TO LOSE MY TEMPER, IF POSSIBLE, AT ANY TIME, AND NEVER DURING THE HOURS OF BUSINESS. My labours here [15Bank of England] commence at nine and end at three; and, acting on the advice of the illustrious statesman, I NEVER LOSE MY TEMPER DURING THOSE HOURS.'"]

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[ The following extract from a letter of M. Boyd, Esq., is given by Earl Stanhope in his 'Miscellanies':—"There was something told to me by the late Mr. Christmas, who held an important official position at the Bank of England for many years. I believe he started his career as a clerk in the Treasury or one of the government offices, and for a while, he worked as Mr. Pitt's confidential clerk or temporary private secretary. Christmas was one of the most helpful people I've ever met; despite the interruptions that came with his role, I never saw him lose his cool. One day, I found him particularly busy, preparing a ton of accounts for one of the courts—yet he remained just as calm. I couldn’t help but ask the old gentleman for his secret. 'Well, Mr. Boyd, I'm happy to share it with you. Mr. Pitt told me this:—DON'T LOSE YOUR TEMPER, IF YOU CAN HELP IT, AT ANY TIME, AND NEVER DURING WORK HOURS. My work here [Bank of England] starts at nine and ends at three; and following the advice of that remarkable statesman, I NEVER LOSE MY TEMPER DURING THOSE HOURS.'"]

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[ 'Strafford Papers,' i. 87.]

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[ 'Strafford Papers,' i. 87.]

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[ Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 7, 534.]

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[Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 7, 534.]

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[ Brialmont's 'Life of Wellington.']

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[ Brialmont's 'Life of Wellington.']

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[ Professor Tyndall, on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' p. 156.]

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[ Professor Tyndall, on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' p. 156.]

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[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 216.]

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[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 216.]

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[ Lady Elizabeth Carew.]

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[Lady Elizabeth Carew.]

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[ Francis Horner, in one of his letters, says: "It is among the very sincere and zealous friends of liberty that you will find the most perfect specimens of wrongheadedness; men of a dissenting, provincial cast of virtue—who [15according to one of Sharpe's favourite phrases] WILL drive a wedge the broad end foremost—utter strangers to all moderation in political business."—Francis Horner's LIFE AND CORRESPONDENCE (1843, ii. 133.)]

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[Francis Horner, in one of his letters, says: "It is among the most genuine and passionate supporters of freedom that you’ll find the clearest examples of misguided thinking; people with a dissenting, provincial sense of virtue—who [15according to one of Sharpe's favorite phrases] WILL drive a wedge the thick end first—completely unfamiliar with any moderation in political matters."—Francis Horner's LIFE AND CORRESPONDENCE (1843, ii. 133.)]

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[ Professor Tyndall on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' pp. 40-1.]

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[ Professor Tyndall on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' pp. 40-1.]

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[ Yet Burke himself; though capable of giving Barry such excellent advice, was by no means immaculate as regarded his own temper. When he lay ill at Beaconsfield, Fox, from whom he had become separated by political differences arising out of the French Revolution, went down to see his old friend. But Burke would not grant him an interview; he positively refused to see him. On his return to town, Fox told his friend Coke the result of his journey; and when Coke lamented Burke's obstinacy, Fox only replied, goodnaturedly: "Ah! never mind, Tom; I always find every Irishman has got a piece of potato in his head." Yet Fox, with his usual generosity, when he heard of Burke's impending death, wrote a most kind and cordial letter to Mrs. Burke, expressive of his grief and sympathy; and when Burke was no more, Fox was the first to propose that he should be interred with public honours in Westminster Abbey—which only Burke's own express wish, that he should be buried at Beaconsfield, prevented being carried out.]

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[ Yet Burke himself; although he could give Barry great advice, was far from perfect when it came to his own temper. When he was sick in Beaconsfield, Fox, with whom he had become estranged due to political differences from the French Revolution, went to visit his old friend. But Burke refused to see him; he outright denied him an audience. When Fox returned to town, he told his friend Coke about the outcome of his visit, and when Coke expressed his disappointment at Burke's stubbornness, Fox simply replied, good-naturedly: "Ah! never mind, Tom; I always find every Irishman has got a piece of potato in his head." Yet, with his usual generosity, upon hearing of Burke's imminent death, Fox sent a very kind and heartfelt letter to Mrs. Burke, expressing his sorrow and sympathy. When Burke passed away, Fox was the first to suggest that he should be buried with public honors in Westminster Abbey—which was only prevented by Burke's own wish to be laid to rest in Beaconsfield.]

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[ When Curran, the Irish barrister, visited Burns's cabin in 1810, he found it converted into a public house, and the landlord who showed it was drunk. "There," said he, pointing to a corner on one side of the fire, with a most MALAPROPOS laugh-"there is the very spot where Robert Burns was born." "The genius and the fate of the man," says Curran, "were already heavy on my heart; but the drunken laugh of the landlord gave me such a view of the rock on which he had foundered, that I could not stand it, but burst into tears."]

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[ When Curran, the Irish lawyer, visited Burns's cabin in 1810, he found it turned into a pub, and the landlord who showed him around was drunk. "There," he said, pointing to a corner by the fire with a completely inappropriate laugh, "there is the very spot where Robert Burns was born." "The genius and the fate of the man," Curran says, "weighed heavily on my heart already; but the drunken laugh of the landlord gave me such a stark view of the rock on which he had perished that I couldn't take it, and I burst into tears."]

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[ The chaplain of Horsemongerlane Gaol, in his annual report to the Surrey justices, thus states the result of his careful study of the causes of dishonesty: "From my experience of predatory crime, founded upon careful study of the character of a great variety of prisoners, I conclude that habitual dishonesty is to be referred neither to ignorance, nor to drunkenness, nor to poverty, nor to overcrowding in towns, nor to temptation from surrounding wealth—nor, indeed, to any one of the many indirect causes to which it is sometimes referred—but mainly TO A DISPOSITION TO ACQUIRE PROPERTY WITH A LESS DEGREE OF LABOUR THAN ORDINARY INDUSTRY." The italics are the author's.]

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[ The chaplain of Horsemongerlane Gaol, in his annual report to the Surrey justices, states the result of his careful study of the causes of dishonesty: "Based on my experience with predatory crime and a thorough examination of a wide range of prisoners, I conclude that habitual dishonesty cannot be attributed solely to ignorance, drunkenness, poverty, overcrowding in cities, or temptation from surrounding wealth—nor to any of the various indirect causes often cited—but primarily TO A DISPOSITION TO ACQUIRE PROPERTY WITH LESS EFFORT THAN NORMAL HARD WORK." The italics are the author's.]

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[ S. C. Hall's 'Memories.']

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[S. C. Hall's 'Memories.']

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[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 182.]

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[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 182.]

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[ Captain Basil Hall records the following conversation with Scott:-"It occurs to me," I observed, "that people are apt to make too much fuss about the loss of fortune, which is one of the smallest of the great evils of life, and ought to be among the most tolerable."—"Do you call it a small misfortune to be ruined in money-matters?" he asked. "It is not so painful, at all events, as the loss of friends."—"I grant that," he said. "As the loss of character?"—"True again." "As the loss of health?"—"Ay, there you have me," he muttered to himself, in a tone so melancholy that I wished I had not spoken. "What is the loss of fortune to the loss of peace of mind?" I continued. "In short," said he, playfully, "you will make it out that there is no harm in a man's being plunged over-head-and-ears in a debt he cannot remove." "Much depends, I think, on how it was incurred, and what efforts are made to redeem it—at least, if the sufferer be a rightminded man." "I hope it does," he said, cheerfully and firmly.—FRAGMENTS OF VOYAGES AND TRAVELS, 3rd series, pp. 308-9.]

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[ Captain Basil Hall records the following conversation with Scott: - "It strikes me," I said, "that people tend to blow the loss of wealth out of proportion. It's one of the lesser evils in life and should be among the most bearable." - "Do you really think being financially ruined is a small misfortune?" he asked. "It's definitely less painful than losing friends." - "I can agree with that," he replied. "What about losing one's character?" - "That's true as well." "And losing your health?" - "Well, you got me there," he said quietly, in a tone so sad I regretted bringing it up. "What’s losing wealth compared to losing peace of mind?" I pressed on. "In short," he joked, "you're suggesting that there's no real issue with a man being deep in a debt he can't escape." "It largely depends on how the debt came about and what steps the person takes to resolve it—at least if the person is of good character." "I hope that’s the case," he said, with a cheerful and resolute tone.—FRAGMENTS OF VOYAGES AND TRAVELS, 3rd series, pp. 308-9.]

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[ "These battles," he wrote in his Diary, "have been the death of many a man, I think they will be mine."]

1518 (return)
[ "These battles," he wrote in his Diary, "have caused the death of many men, and I believe they will be mine too."]

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[ Scott's Diary, December 17th, 1827.]

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[ Scott's Diary, December 17th, 1827.]

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[ From Lovelace's lines to Lucusta [16Lucy Sacheverell], 'Going to the Wars.']

161 (return)
[ From Lovelace's lines to Lucusta [16Lucy Sacheverell], 'Going to War.']

162 (return)
[ Amongst other great men of genius, Ariosto and Michael Angelo devoted to her their service and their muse.]

162 (return)
[ Among other great geniuses, Ariosto and Michelangelo dedicated their service and creativity to her.]

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[ See the Rev. F. W. Farrar's admirable book, entitled 'Seekers after God' [16Sunday Library]. The author there says: "Epictetus was not a Christian. He has only once alluded to the Christians in his works, and then it is under the opprobrious title of 'Galileans,' who practised a kind of insensibility in painful circumstances, and an indifference to worldly interests, which Epictetus unjustly sets down to 'mere habit.' Unhappily, it was not granted to these heathen philosophers in any true sense to know what Christianity was. They thought that it was an attempt to imitate the results of philosophy, without having passed through the necessary discipline. They viewed it with suspicion, they treated it with injustice. And yet in Christianity, and in Christianity alone, they would have found an ideal which would have surpassed their loftiest anticipations."]

163 (return)
[ See the Rev. F. W. Farrar's excellent book, titled 'Seekers after God' [16Sunday Library]. The author states: "Epictetus was not a Christian. He only mentioned Christians once in his works, and then he referred to them disdainfully as 'Galileans,' who showed a kind of indifference in painful situations and neglected worldly concerns, which Epictetus wrongly attributes to 'mere habit.' Unfortunately, these pagan philosophers were never truly able to understand what Christianity was. They thought it was just an attempt to replicate the outcomes of philosophy without going through the necessary training. They looked at it with suspicion and treated it unfairly. Yet in Christianity, and only in Christianity, they would have discovered an ideal that would have exceeded their highest expectations."]

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[ Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 141-2.]

164 (return)
[ Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 141-2.]

165 (return)
[ Wellington, like Washington, had to pay the penalty of his adherence to the cause he thought right, in his loss of "popularity." He was mobbed in the streets of London, and had his windows smashed by the mob, while his wife lay dead in the house. Sir Walter Scott also was hooted and pelted at Hawick by "the people," amidst cries of "Burke Sir Walter!"]

165 (return)
[Like Washington, Wellington had to face the consequences of his commitment to what he believed was right, resulting in his loss of "popularity." He was attacked in the streets of London, with the mob smashing his windows while his wife was dead inside the house. Sir Walter Scott was also booed and pelted with objects at Hawick by "the people," who shouted, "Burke Sir Walter!"]

166 (return)
[ Robertson's 'Life and Letters,' ii. 157.]

166 (return)
[ Robertson's 'Life and Letters,' ii. 157.]

167 (return)
[ We select the following passages from this remarkable report of Baron Stoffel, as being of more than merely temporary interest:—Who that has lived here [16Berlin] will deny that the Prussians are energetic, patriotic, and teeming with youthful vigour; that they are not corrupted by sensual pleasures, but are manly, have earnest convictions, do not think it beneath them to reverence sincerely what is noble and lofty? What a melancholy contrast does France offer in all this? Having sneered at everything, she has lost the faculty of respecting anything. Virtue, family life, patriotism, honour, religion, are represented to a frivolous generation as fitting subjects of ridicule. The theatres have become schools of shamelessness and obscenity. Drop by drop, poison is instilled into the very core of an ignorant and enervated society, which has neither the insight nor the energy left to amend its institutions, nor—which would be the most necessary step to take—become better informed or more moral. One after the other the fine qualities of the nation are dying out. Where is the generosity, the loyalty, the charm of our ESPRIT, and our former elevation of soul? If this goes on, the time will come when this noble race of France will be known only by its faults. And France has no idea that while she is sinking, more earnest nations are stealing the march upon her, are distancing her on the road to progress, and are preparing for her a secondary position in the world.

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[ We choose the following excerpts from this extraordinary report by Baron Stoffel, as they hold significance beyond the moment:—Who among those who have lived here [16Berlin] would deny that the Prussians are energetic, patriotic, and full of youthful vitality; that they are not swayed by sensual pleasures, but are strong, have genuine beliefs, and do not find it beneath them to sincerely honor what is noble and grand? What a sad contrast France provides in all this. Having mocked everything, she has lost the ability to respect anything. Virtue, family life, patriotism, honor, and religion are presented to a frivolous generation as subjects for mockery. The theaters have turned into schools of indecency and obscenity. Gradually, poison seeps into the very core of an ignorant and weakened society, which lacks the insight or energy to reform its institutions, and which—most importantly—fails to seek greater knowledge or morality. One by one, the admirable qualities of the nation are fading away. Where is the generosity, the loyalty, the charm of our spirit, and our previous nobility? If this continues, the day will come when this noble race of France will only be remembered for its flaws. And France remains oblivious to the fact that, as she declines, more serious nations are advancing, outpacing her in progress, and preparing a secondary role for her on the global stage.

"I am afraid that these opinions will not be relished in France. However correct, they differ too much from what is usually said and asserted at home. I should wish some enlightened and unprejudiced Frenchmen to come to Prussia and make this country their study. They would soon discover that they were living in the midst of a strong, earnest, and intelligent nation, entirely destitute, it is true, of noble and delicate feelings, of all fascinating charms, but endowed with every solid virtue, and alike distinguished for untiring industry, order, and economy, as well as for patriotism, a strong sense of duty, and that consciousness of personal dignity which in their case is so happily blended with respect for authority and obedience to the law. They would see a country with firm, sound, and moral institutions, whose upper classes are worthy of their rank, and, by possessing the highest degree of culture, devoting themselves to the service of the State, setting an example of patriotism, and knowing how to preserve the influence legitimately their own. They would find a State with an excellent administration where everything is in its right place, and where the most admirable order prevails in every branch of the social and political system. Prussia may be well compared to a massive structure of lofty proportions and astounding solidity, which, though it has nothing to delight the eye or speak to the heart, cannot but impress us with its grand symmetry, equally observable in its broad foundations as in its strong and sheltering roof.

"I’m afraid that these opinions won’t be well received in France. As correct as they may be, they differ too much from what’s usually expressed back home. I wish some open-minded and fair-minded French people would come to Prussia and study this country. They would quickly realize that they’re living among a strong, serious, and intelligent nation, completely lacking, it’s true, in noble and delicate feelings, and all the captivating charms, but rich in solid virtues, just as notable for tireless work, order, and economy, as well as for patriotism, a strong sense of duty, and that awareness of personal dignity which is happily balanced with respect for authority and obedience to the law. They would see a country with firm, sound, and moral institutions, whose upper classes deserve their status and, by having the highest level of education, dedicate themselves to serving the State, setting an example of patriotism, and knowing how to maintain the influence that is legitimately theirs. They would find a State with excellent administration where everything is in its proper place, and where admirable order prevails in every aspect of the social and political system. Prussia could be compared to a massive structure of towering proportions and incredible solidity, which, although it has nothing to please the eye or touch the heart, certainly impresses us with its grand symmetry, equally noticeable in its broad foundations and its strong, protective roof."

"And what is France? What is French society in these latter days? A hurly-burly of disorderly elements, all mixed and jumbled together; a country in which everybody claims the right to occupy the highest posts, yet few remember that a man to be employed in a responsible position ought to have a well-balanced mind, ought to be strictly moral, to know something of the world, and possess certain intellectual powers; a country in which the highest offices are frequently held by ignorant and uneducated persons, who either boast some special talent, or whose only claim is social position and some versatility and address. What a baneful and degrading state of things! And how natural that, while it lasts, France should be full of a people without a position, without a calling, who do not know what to do with themselves, but are none the less eager to envy and malign every one who does....

"And what is France? What is French society like these days? It's a chaotic mix of disordered elements, all tangled together; a country where everyone insists they have the right to hold the highest positions, yet few realize that to be in a responsible role, a person should have a balanced mind, be morally upright, have some worldly knowledge, and possess certain intellectual abilities; a country where the top jobs are often held by ignorant and uneducated individuals, who either flaunt some unique talent or whose only qualifications are social status and a bit of charm. What a harmful and degrading situation! And it's no surprise that, as long as this continues, France is filled with people who lack purpose and direction, who don't know what to do with themselves, yet are still eager to envy and criticize anyone who does..."

"The French do not possess in any very marked degree the qualities required to render general conscription acceptable, or to turn it to account. Conceited and egotistic as they are, the people would object to an innovation whose invigorating force they are unable to comprehend, and which cannot be carried out without virtues which they do not possess—self-abnegation, conscientious recognition of duty, and a willingness to sacrifice personal interests to the loftier demands of the country. As the character of individuals is only improved by experience, most nations require a chastisement before they set about reorganising their political institutions. So Prussia wanted a Jena to make her the strong and healthy country she is."]

"The French don’t really have the qualities needed to make conscription appealing or to make the most of it. Given their conceited and self-centered nature, people would resist an innovation they can’t grasp and that demands virtues they lack—like selflessness, a genuine sense of duty, and a readiness to put the country’s needs above personal interests. Since individuals only improve through experience, most nations need a wake-up call before they start reorganizing their political systems. Just like Prussia needed a Jena to transform into the strong and healthy nation it is now."

168 (return)
[ Yet even in De Tocqueville's benevolent nature, there was a pervading element of impatience. In the very letter in which the above passage occurs, he says: "Some persons try to be of use to men while they despise them, and others because they love them. In the services rendered by the first, there is always something incomplete, rough, and contemptuous, that inspires neither confidence nor gratitude. I should like to belong to the second class, but often I cannot. I love mankind in general, but I constantly meet with individuals whose baseness revolts me. I struggle daily against a universal contempt for my fellow, creatures."—MEMOIRS AND REMAINS OF DE TOCQUEVILLE, vol. i. p. 813. [Footnote 16Letter to Kergorlay, Nov. 13th, 1833].]

168 (return)
[ Yet even in De Tocqueville's kind nature, there was an underlying sense of impatience. In the very letter where this passage appears, he writes: "Some people try to help others while looking down on them, and others do it out of love. The help from the first group always has an incomplete, harsh, and disdainful quality that evokes neither trust nor appreciation. I wish I could belong to the second group, but often I can't. I love humanity as a whole, but I frequently encounter individuals whose meanness disgusts me. I fight daily against a widespread contempt for my fellow beings."—MEMOIRS AND REMAINS OF DE TOCQUEVILLE, vol. i. p. 813. [Footnote 16 Letter to Kergorlay, Nov. 13th, 1833].]

169 (return)
[ Gleig's 'Life of Wellington,' pp. 314, 315.]

169 (return)
[Gleig's 'Life of Wellington,' pp. 314, 315.]

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[ 'Life of Arnold,' i. 94.]

1610 (return)
[ 'Life of Arnold,' i. 94.]

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[ See the 'Memoir of George Wilson, M.D., F.R.S.E.' By his sister [Footnote 16Edinburgh, 1860].]

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[ See the 'Memoir of George Wilson, M.D., F.R.S.E.' by his sister [Footnote 16Edinburgh, 1860].]

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[ Such cases are not unusual. We personally knew a young lady, a countrywoman of Professor Wilson, afflicted by cancer in the breast, who concealed the disease from her parents lest it should occasion them distress. An operation became necessary; and when the surgeons called for the purpose of performing it, she herself answered the door, received them with a cheerful countenance, led them upstairs to her room, and submitted to the knife; and her parents knew nothing of the operation until it was all over. But the disease had become too deeply seated for recovery, and the noble self-denying girl died, cheerful and uncomplaining to the end.

1612 (return)
[ Such situations aren't uncommon. We personally knew a young woman, a fellow countrywoman of Professor Wilson, who was battling breast cancer. She kept her illness from her parents so it wouldn't upset them. When surgery became necessary, she answered the door herself when the surgeons arrived, greeted them with a smile, took them upstairs to her room, and went through with the procedure; her parents had no idea about the operation until it was all done. Unfortunately, the cancer was too advanced for any chance of recovery, and the brave, selfless girl passed away, remaining cheerful and composed until the very end.

1613 (return)
[ "One night, about eleven o'clock, Keats returned home in a state of strange physical excitement—it might have appeared, to those who did not know him, one of fierce intoxication. He told his friend he had been outside the stage-coach, had received a severe chill, was a little fevered, but added, 'I don't feel it now.' He was easily persuaded to go to bed, and as he leapt into the cold sheets, before his head was on the pillow, he slightly coughed and said, 'That is blood from my mouth; bring me the candle; let me see this blood' He gazed steadfastly for some moments at the ruddy stain, and then, looking in his friend's face with an expression of sudden calmness never to be forgotten, said, 'I know the colour of that blood—it is arterial blood. I cannot be deceived in that colour; that drop is my death-warrant. I must die!'"—Houghton's LIFE OF KEATS, Ed. 1867, p. 289.

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[ "One night, around eleven o'clock, Keats came home feeling oddly excited—it might have seemed, to those who didn’t know him, like he was really drunk. He told his friend he had been outside the stagecoach, caught a bad chill, and felt a bit feverish, but added, 'I don't feel it now.' He was easily convinced to go to bed, and as he jumped into the cold sheets, before his head even hit the pillow, he coughed slightly and said, 'That's blood from my mouth; bring me the candle; I want to see this blood.' He stared intently at the red stain for a moment, and then, looking at his friend's face with a calmness that would never be forgotten, said, 'I know that color—it’s arterial blood. I can't be wrong about that color; that drop is my death warrant. I have to die!'"—Houghton's LIFE OF KEATS, Ed. 1867, p. 289.

In the case of George Wilson, the bleeding was in the first instance from the stomach, though he afterwards suffered from lung haemorrhage like Keats. Wilson afterwards, speaking of the Lives of Lamb and Keats, which had just appeared, said he had been reading them with great sadness. "There is," said he, "something in the noble brotherly love of Charles to brighten, and hallow, and relieve that sadness; but Keats's deathbed is the blackness of midnight, unmitigated by one ray of light!"]

In George Wilson's case, the initial bleeding was from his stomach, although later he experienced lung hemorrhaging like Keats. Wilson later mentioned that he had been reading the recently published Lives of Lamb and Keats with deep sadness. "There is," he said, "something in the beautiful brotherly love of Charles that can brighten, sanctify, and ease that sadness; but Keats’s deathbed is the darkest hour, without even a ray of light!"

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[ On the doctors, who attended him in his first attack, mistaking the haemorrhage from the stomach for haemorrhage from the lungs, he wrote: "It would have been but poor consolation to have had as an epitaph:—

1614 (return)
[Regarding the doctors who treated him during his initial episode, confusing the bleeding from his stomach with bleeding from his lungs, he wrote: "It would have been little comfort to have as an epitaph:—

      "Here lies George Wilson,
        Overtaken by Nemesis;
      He died not of Haemoptysis,
        But of Haematemesis."]
      "Here lies George Wilson,  
        Taken down by retribution;  
      He didn't die from coughing up blood,  
        But from vomiting blood."

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[ 'Memoir,' p. 427.]

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[ 'Memoir,' p. 427.]

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[ Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living.']

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[ Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living.']

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[ 'Michelet's 'Life of Luther,' pp. 411-12.]

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[ 'Michelet's 'Life of Luther,' pp. 411-12.]

173 (return)
[ Sir John Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.']

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[ Sir John Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.']

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[ 'Deontology,' pp. 130-1, 144.]

174 (return)
[ 'Deontology,' pp. 130-1, 144.]

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[ 'Letters and Essays,' p. 67.]

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[ 'Letters and Essays,' p. 67.]

176 (return)
[ 'Beauties of St. Francis de Sales.']

176 (return)
[ 'Highlights of St. Francis de Sales.']

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[ Ibid.]

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[Same source.]

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[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 449.]

178 (return)
[ 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 449.]

179 (return)
[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 483.]

179 (return)
[ Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 483.]

181 (return)
[ Locke thought it of greater importance that an educator of youth should be well-bred and well-tempered, than that he should be either a thorough classicist or man of science. Writing to Lord Peterborough on his son's education, Locke said: "Your Lordship would have your son's tutor a thorough scholar, and I think it not much matter whether he be any scholar or no: if he but understand Latin well, and have a general scheme of the sciences, I think that enough. But I would have him WELL-BRED and WELL-TEMPERED."]

181 (return)
[ Locke believed it was more important for a youth educator to be well-mannered and emotionally balanced than to be a complete classicist or a scientist. In a letter to Lord Peterborough about his son's education, Locke wrote: "Your Lordship wants your son's tutor to be a thorough scholar, and I don’t think it matters much whether he is a scholar at all: if he simply understands Latin well and has a general overview of the sciences, I think that’s sufficient. But I want him to be WELL-BRED and WELL-TEMPERED."]

182 (return)
[ Mrs. Hutchinson's 'Memoir of the Life of Lieut.-Colonel Hutchinson,' p. 32.]

182 (return)
[ Mrs. Hutchinson's 'Memoir of the Life of Lieut.-Colonel Hutchinson,' p. 32.]

183 (return)
[ 'Letters and Essays,' p. 59.]

183 (return)
[ 'Letters and Essays,' p. 59.]

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[ 'Lettres d'un Voyageur.']

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[ 'Letters from a Traveler.']

185 (return)
[ Sir Henry Taylor's 'Statesman,' p. 59.]

185 (return)
[ Sir Henry Taylor's 'Statesman,' p. 59.]

186 (return)
[ Introduction to the 'Principal Speeches and Addresses of His Royal Highness the Prince Consort,' 1862.]

186 (return)
[ Introduction to the 'Principal Speeches and Addresses of His Royal Highness the Prince Consort,' 1862.]

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[

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    "When in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes,
       I all alone beween my outcast state,
    And troubled deaf heaven with my bootless cries,
       And look upon myself and curse my fate;
    WISHING ME LIKE TO ONE MORE RICH IN HOPE,
       Featured like him, like him with friends possessed,
    Desiring this man's art, and that man's scope,
       With what I most enjoy, contented least;
    Yet in these thoughts, MYSELF ALMOST DESPISING,
       Haply I think on thee," &c.—SONNET XXIX.

    "So I, MADE LAME by sorrow's dearest spite," &c.—SONNET XXXVI]
"When I'm down on my luck and people look at me with disdain,  
I find myself isolated in my outcast situation,  
And I bother the indifferent heavens with my useless cries,  
And I look at myself and curse my fate;  
WISHING I WERE LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS RICHER IN HOPE,  
Looking like him, surrounded by friends,  
Desiring this person’s talent and that person’s opportunities,  
While the things I enjoy the most leave me the least satisfied;  
Yet in these thoughts, I ALMOST DESPISE MYSELF,  
Sometimes I think of you," &c.—SONNET XXIX.

"So I, DISABLED by the harshness of sorrow," &c.—SONNET XXXVI.

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[ "And strength, by LIMPING sway disabled," &c.—SONNET LXVI.

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[ "And strength, rendered weak by limping movements," &c.—SONNET LXVI.

    "Speak of MY LAMENESS, and I straight will halt."—SONNET LXXXIX.]
"Talk about MY LAMENESS, and I will stop right away."—SONNET LXXXIX.

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[

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     "Alas! 'tis true, I have gone here and there,
       And MADE MYSELF A MOTLEY TO THE VIEW,
     Gored mine own thoughts, sold cheap what is most dear,
       Made old offences of affections new," &c.—SONNET CX.

     "Oh, for my sake do you with fortune chide!
       The guilty goddess of my harmful deeds,
     That did not better for my life provide,
       THAN PUBLIC MEANS, WHICH PUBLIC MANNERS BREED;
     Thence comes it that my name receives a brand,
       And almost thence my nature is subdued,
     To what it works in like the dyer's hand," &c.—SONNET CXI.]
     "Unfortunately! It's true, I've wandered here and there,  
       And MADE MYSELF A SPECTACLE TO SEE,  
     Hurt my own thoughts, cheapened what I hold dear,  
       Made old wrongs feel like new feelings," &c.—SONNET CX.

     "Oh, for my sake, do you scold fortune!  
       The guilty goddess of my harmful actions,  
     Who didn’t provide better for my life,  
       THAN PUBLIC WAYS, WHICH PUBLIC BEHAVIOR CREATES;  
     That's why my name is stained,  
       And almost from that, my nature is forced,  
     To act like what it touches, like the dyer's hand," &c.—SONNET CXI.]

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[

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     "In our two loves there is but one respect,
         Though in our loves a separable spite,
     Which though it alter not loves sole effect;
        Yet doth it steal sweet hours from love's delight,
     I may not evermore acknowledge thee,
        Lest MY BEWAILED GUILT SHOULD DO THEE SHAME."—SONNET XXXVI.]
"In our two loves, there's only one respect,  
Even though there’s a separate dark side to our feelings,  
Which, while it doesn’t change the nature of love,  
It does take away some of the joy from our love,  
I can never fully recognize you,  
For fear my sad guilt might bring you shame."—SONNET XXXVI.

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[ It is related of Garrick, that when subpoenaed on Baretti's trial, and required to give his evidence before the court—though he had been accustomed for thirty years to act with the greatest self-possession in the presence of thousands—he became so perplexed and confused, that he was actually sent from the witness-box by the judge, as a man from whom no evidence could be obtained.]

1811 (return)
[It's said that Garrick, when called to testify in Baretti's trial, became so flustered and disoriented that he was dismissed from the witness stand by the judge, despite having performed confidently in front of thousands for thirty years. The court just couldn't extract any useful evidence from him.]

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[ Mrs. Mathews' 'Life and Correspondence of Charles Mathews,' [18Ed. 1860: p. 232.]

1812 (return)
[ Mrs. Mathews' 'Life and Correspondence of Charles Mathews,' [18Ed. 1860: p. 232.]

1813 (return)
[ Archbishop Whately's 'Commonplace Book.']

1813 (return)
[ Archbishop Whately's 'Commonplace Book.']

1814 (return)
[ Emerson is said to have had Nathaniel Hawthorne in his mind when writing the following passage in his 'Society and Solitude:'—"The most agreeable compliment you could pay him was, to imply that you had not observed him in a house or a street where you had met him. Whilst he suffered at being seen where he was, he consoled himself with the delicious thought of the inconceivable number of places where he was not. All he wished of his tailor was to provide that sober mean of colour and cut which would never detain the eye for a moment.... He had a remorse, running to despair, of his social GAUCHERIES, and walked miles and miles to get the twitchings out of his face, and the starts and shrugs out of his arms and shoulders. 'God may forgive sins,' he said, 'but awkwardness has no forgiveness in heaven or earth.'"]

1814 (return)
[ Emerson is believed to have had Nathaniel Hawthorne in mind when he wrote the following passage in his 'Society and Solitude:'—"The best compliment you could give him was to suggest that you hadn’t seen him in a house or street where you ran into him. While he felt uneasy being noticed, he found comfort in the countless places where he wasn’t. All he wanted from his tailor was a simple style and color that wouldn’t catch anyone’s eye... He felt a deep regret, almost despair, over his social awkwardness, and walked for miles to suppress the twitches in his face and the nervous movements of his arms and shoulders. 'God may forgive sins,' he said, 'but awkwardness has no forgiveness in heaven or on earth.'"]

1815 (return)
[ In a series of clever articles in the REVUE DES DEUX MONDES, entitled, 'Six mille Lieues a toute Vapeur,' giving a description of his travels in North America, Maurice Sand keenly observed the comparatively anti-social proclivities of the American compared with the Frenchman. The one, he says, is inspired by the spirit of individuality, the other by the spirit of society. In America he sees the individual absorbing society; as in France he sees society absorbing the individual. "Ce peuple Anglo-Saxon," he says, "qui trouvait devant lui la terre, l'instrument de travail, sinon inepuisable, du mons inepuise, s'est mis a l'exploiter sous l'inspiration de l'egoisme; et nous autres Francais, nous n'avons rien su en faire, parceque NOUS NE POUVONS RIEN DANS L'ISOLEMENT.... L'Americain supporte la solitude avec un stoicisme admirable, mais effrayant; il ne l'aime pas, il ne songe qu'a la detruire.... Le Francais est tout autre. Il aime son parent, son ami, son compagnon, et jusqu'a son voisin d'omnibus ou de theatre, si sa figure lui est sympathetique. Pourquoi? Parce qu'il le regarde et cherche son ame, parce qu'il vit dans son semblable autant qu'en lui-meme. Quand il est longtemps seul, il deperit, et quand il est toujours seul, it meurt."]

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[ In a series of insightful articles in the REVUE DES DEUX MONDES, titled 'Six Thousand Leagues by Steam,' Maurice Sand notes the relatively anti-social tendencies of Americans compared to the French. He explains that one is driven by the spirit of individuality, while the other is motivated by the spirit of community. In America, he observes individuals absorbing society, whereas in France, he sees society absorbing the individual. "This Anglo-Saxon people," he states, "who found before them the land, an instrument for work, if not endless, from a source that is inexhaustible, began to exploit it under the influence of selfishness; and we French, we haven’t known what to do with it because WE CAN'T DO ANYTHING IN ISOLATION.... The American endures solitude with an admirable but frightening stoicism; he doesn’t like it and only thinks about destroying it.... The Frenchman is quite different. He loves his relatives, his friends, his companions, and even his fellow bus or theater-goers if their faces are sympathetic to him. Why? Because he looks at them and seeks their soul, for he lives in others as much as he lives in himself. When he is alone for too long, he withers, and if he is always alone, he dies."]

All this is perfectly true, and it explains why the comparatively unsociable Germans, English, and Americans, are spreading over the earth, while the intensely sociable Frenchmen, unable to enjoy life without each other's society, prefer to stay at home, and France fails to extend itself beyond France.]

All this is completely true, and it explains why the relatively unsociable Germans, English, and Americans are spreading across the globe, while the very sociable French, who can't enjoy life without each other’s company, prefer to stay at home, and France doesn't expand beyond its borders.

1816 (return)
[ The Irish have, in many respects, the same strong social instincts as the French. In the United States they cluster naturally in the towns, where they have their "Irish Quarters," as in England. They are even more Irish there than at home, and can no more forget that they are Irishmen than the French can that they are Frenchmen. "I deliberately assert," says Mr. Maguire, in his recent work on 'The Irish in America,' "that it is not within the power of language to describe adequately, much less to exaggerate, the evils consequent on the unhappy tendency of the Irish to congregate in the large towns of America." It is this intense socialism of the Irish that keeps them in a comparatively hand-to-mouth condition in all the States of the Union.]

1816 (return)
[ The Irish share many of the same strong social instincts as the French. In the United States, they tend to settle in towns, where they have their "Irish Quarters," similar to England. They are even more Irish there than they are back home and can no more forget that they are Irish than the French can forget they are French. "I boldly state," says Mr. Maguire in his recent work on 'The Irish in America,' "that language cannot adequately describe, let alone exaggerate, the problems that arise from the unfortunate tendency of the Irish to cluster in the large towns of America." It is this strong sense of community among the Irish that keeps them in a relatively precarious situation across all the States of the Union.]

1817 (return)
[ 'The Statesman,' p. 35.]

1817 (return)
[ 'The Statesman,' p. 35.]

1818 (return)
[ Nathaniel Hawthorne, in his 'First Impressions of France and Italy,' says his opinion of the uncleanly character of the modern Romans is so unfavourable that he hardly knows how to express it "But the fact is that through the Forum, and everywhere out of the commonest foot-track and roadway, you must look well to your steps.... Perhaps there is something in the minds of the people of these countries that enables them to dissever small ugliness from great sublimity and beauty. They spit upon the glorious pavement of St. Peter's, and wherever else they like; they place paltry-looking wooden confessionals beneath its sublime arches, and ornament them with cheap little coloured prints of the Crucifixion; they hang tin hearts, and other tinsel and trumpery, at the gorgeous shrines of the saints, in chapels that are encrusted with gems, or marbles almost as precious; they put pasteboard statues of saints beneath the dome of the Pantheon;—in short, they let the sublime and the ridiculous come close together, and are not in the least troubled by the proximity."]

1818 (return)
[ Nathaniel Hawthorne, in his 'First Impressions of France and Italy,' expresses such a negative opinion about the cleanliness of modern Romans that he struggles to articulate it. "But the truth is, when you walk through the Forum and anywhere off the usual paths and roadways, you really have to watch your step.... Perhaps there's something in the minds of people in these countries that allows them to separate small ugliness from immense beauty and grandeur. They spit on the magnificent pavement of St. Peter's and anywhere else they want; they put shabby wooden confessionals under its majestic arches and decorate them with cheap little colored prints of the Crucifixion; they hang tin hearts and other garish trinkets at the splendid shrines of the saints in chapels adorned with jewels or marbles that are nearly as valuable; they place cardboard statues of saints under the dome of the Pantheon;—in short, they allow the sublime and the ridiculous to exist side by side and are completely unbothered by the closeness."]

1819 (return)
[ Edwin Chadwick's 'Address to the Economic Science and Statistic Section,' British Association [18Meeting, 1862].]

1819 (return)
[ Edwin Chadwick's 'Address to the Economic Science and Statistics Section,' British Association [18Meeting, 1862].]

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[ 'Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.']

191 (return)
[ 'Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.']

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[ Emerson, in his 'Society and Solitude,' says "In contemporaries, it is not so easy to distinguish between notoriety and fame. Be sure, then, to read no mean books. Shun the spawn of the press or the gossip of the hour.... The three practical rules I have to offer are these:—1. Never read a book that is not a year old; 2. Never read any but famed books; 3. Never read any but what you like." Lord Lytton's maxim is: "In science, read by preference the newest books; in literature, the oldest."]

192 (return)
[ Emerson, in his 'Society and Solitude,' says, "It's not always easy to tell the difference between notoriety and fame among our contemporaries. So make sure to avoid mediocre books. Steer clear of the latest tabloid articles and fleeting gossip.... Here are three practical rules I suggest:—1. Never read a book that’s less than a year old; 2. Only read books that are well-known; 3. Only read what you enjoy." Lord Lytton's advice is: "In science, prefer the newest books; in literature, the oldest."]

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[ A friend of Sir Walter Scott, who had the same habit, and prided himself on his powers of conversation, one day tried to "draw out" a fellow-passenger who sat beside him on the outside of a coach, but with indifferent success. At length the conversationalist descended to expostulation. "I have talked to you, my friend," said he, "on all the ordinary subjects—literature, farming, merchandise, gaming, game-laws, horse-races, suits at law, politics, and swindling, and blasphemy, and philosophy: is there any one subject that you will favour me by opening upon?" The wight writhed his countenance into a grin: "Sir," said he, "can you say anything clever about BEND-LEATHER?" As might be expected, the conversationalist was completely nonplussed.]

193 (return)
[ A friend of Sir Walter Scott, who shared the same habit and took pride in his conversation skills, once tried to "draw out" a fellow passenger sitting next to him on the outside of a coach, but with little success. Finally, the conversationalist resorted to pleading. "I've talked to you, my friend," he said, "about all the usual topics—literature, farming, business, gambling, game laws, horse races, lawsuits, politics, cheating, swearing, and philosophy: is there any one topic you would be willing to discuss?" The man twisted his face into a grin: "Sir," he said, "can you say anything interesting about BEND-LEATHER?" As expected, the conversationalist was completely stumped.]

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[ Coleridge, in his 'Lay Sermon,' points out, as a fact of history, how large a part of our present knowledge and civilization is owing, directly or indirectly, to the Bible; that the Bible has been the main lever by which the moral and intellectual character of Europe has been raised to its present comparative height; and he specifies the marked and prominent difference of this book from the works which it is the fashion to quote as guides and authorities in morals, politics, and history. "In the Bible," he says, "every agent appears and acts as a self-substituting individual: each has a life of its own, and yet all are in life. The elements of necessity and freewill are reconciled in the higher power of an omnipresent Providence, that predestinates the whole in the moral freedom of the integral parts. Of this the Bible never suffers us to lose sight. The root is never detached from the ground, it is God everywhere; and all creatures conform to His decrees—the righteous by performance of the law, the disobedient by the sufferance of the penalty."]

194 (return)
[ Coleridge, in his 'Lay Sermon,' points out that a significant part of our current knowledge and civilization can be traced back, directly or indirectly, to the Bible; that the Bible has been the main force that has raised the moral and intellectual character of Europe to its present level; and he highlights the clear distinction of this book from the works that are commonly cited as guides and authorities in morals, politics, and history. "In the Bible," he says, "every character appears and acts as a unique individual: each has its own life, yet all are alive together. The elements of necessity and free will are brought together through the higher power of an all-encompassing Providence, which predetermines everything while allowing the moral freedom of the individual parts. The Bible never lets us forget this. The root is never separated from the ground; God is everywhere, and all creatures follow His decrees—the righteous by following the law, the disobedient by facing the consequences."]

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[ Montaigne's Essay [19Book I. chap. xxv.]—'Of the Education of Children.']

195 (return)
[ Montaigne's Essay [19Book I. chap. xxv.]—'On Raising Children.']

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[ "Tant il est vrai," says Voltaire, "que les hommes, qui sont audessus des autres par les talents, s'en RAPPROCHENT PRESQUE TOUJOURS PAR LES FAIBLESSES; car pourquoi les talents nous mettraient-ils audessous de l'humanite."—VIE DE MOLIERE.]

196 (return)
[ "It’s true," says Voltaire, "that those who are above others because of their talents almost always bring themselves closer to them through their weaknesses; for why should talents place us above humanity?" —LIFE OF MOLIERE.]

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[ 'Life,' 8vo Ed., p. 102.]

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[ 'Life,' 8vo Ed., p. 102.]

198 (return)
[ 'Autobiography of Sir Egerton Brydges, Bart.,' vol. i. p. 91.]

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[ 'Autobiography of Sir Egerton Brydges, Bart.,' vol. i. p. 91.]

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[ It was wanting in Plutarch, in Southey [19'Life of Nelson'], and in Forster [19'Life of Goldsmith']; yet it must be acknowledged that personal knowledge gives the principal charm to Tacitus's 'Agricola,' Roper's 'Life of More,' Johnson's 'Lives of Savage and Pope,' Boswell's 'Johnson,' Lockhart's 'Scott,' Carlyle's 'Sterling,' and Moore's 'Byron,']

199 (return)
[ It was missing in Plutarch, in Southey [19'Life of Nelson'], and in Forster [19'Life of Goldsmith']; yet it's important to recognize that personal experience adds the main appeal to Tacitus's 'Agricola,' Roper's 'Life of More,' Johnson's 'Lives of Savage and Pope,' Boswell's 'Johnson,' Lockhart's 'Scott,' Carlyle's 'Sterling,' and Moore's 'Byron.']

1910 (return)
[ The 'Dialogus Novitiorum de Contemptu Mundi.']

1910 (return)
[ The 'Dialogus Novitiorum de Contemptu Mundi.']

1911 (return)
[ The Life of Sir Charles Bell, one of our greatest physiologists, was left to be written by Amedee Pichot, a Frenchman; and though Sir Charles Bell's letters to his brother have since been published, his Life still remains to be written. It may also be added that the best Life of Goethe has been written by an Englishman, and the best Life of Frederick the Great by a Scotchman.]

1911 (return)
[ The Life of Sir Charles Bell, one of our greatest physiologists, was left to be written by Amedee Pichot, a Frenchman; and although Sir Charles Bell's letters to his brother have since been published, his biography still needs to be written. It should also be noted that the best biography of Goethe has been written by an Englishman, and the best biography of Frederick the Great by a Scotsman.]

1912 (return)
[ It is not a little remarkable that the pious Schleiermacher should have concurred in opinion with Goethe as to the merits of Spinoza, though he was a man excommunicated by the Jews, to whom he belonged, and denounced by the Christians as a man little better than an atheist. "The Great Spirit of the world," says Schleiermacher, in his REDE UBER DIE RELIGION, "penetrated the holy but repudiated Spinoza; the Infinite was his beginning and his end; the universe his only and eternal love. He was filled with religion and religious feeling: and therefore is it that he stands alone unapproachable, the master in his art, but elevated above the profane world, without adherents, and without even citizenship."]

1912 (return)
[ It's quite remarkable that the devout Schleiermacher shared the same view as Goethe regarding the merits of Spinoza, even though he was a man excommunicated by the Jewish community he belonged to and criticized by Christians as being little better than an atheist. "The Great Spirit of the world," Schleiermacher says in his REDE UBER DIE RELIGION, "embraced the holy yet rejected Spinoza; the Infinite was his beginning and his end; the universe his only and eternal love. He was filled with religion and religious feeling: and that's why he stands alone and unapproachable, a master in his field, but elevated above the ordinary world, without followers and without even citizenship."]

Cousin also says of Spinoza:—"The author whom this pretended atheist most resembles is the unknown author of 'The Imitation of Jesus Christ.'"]

Cousin also says about Spinoza:—"The author that this so-called atheist is most like is the unknown writer of 'The Imitation of Jesus Christ.'"

1913 (return)
[ Preface to Southeys 'Life of Wesley' [191864].]

1913 (return)
[ Preface to Southey's 'Life of Wesley' [191864].]

1914 (return)
[ Napoleon also read Milton carefully, and it has been related of him by Sir Colin Campbell, who resided with Napoleon at Elba, that when speaking of the Battle of Austerlitz, he said that a particular disposition of his artillery, which, in its results, had a decisive effect in winning the battle, was suggested to his mind by the recollection of four lines in Milton. The lines occur in the sixth book, and are descriptive of Satan's artifice during the war with Heaven.

1914 (return)
[ Napoleon also studied Milton closely, and Sir Colin Campbell, who lived with Napoleon at Elba, recounted that when discussing the Battle of Austerlitz, Napoleon mentioned that a specific arrangement of his artillery, which ultimately played a crucial role in winning the battle, was inspired by remembering four lines from Milton. These lines are found in the sixth book and describe Satan's tricks during the war with Heaven.

                "In hollow cube
       Training his devilish engin'ry, impal'd
       On every side WITH SHADOWING SQUADRONS DEEP
       TO HIDE THE FRAUD."
                "In a hollow cube
       Working on his wicked machinery, trapped
       On every side WITH SHADOWING SQUADRONS DEEP
       TO HIDE THE FRAUD."

"The indubitable fact," says Mr. Edwards, in his book 'On Libraries,' "that these lines have a certain appositeness to an important manoeuvre at Austerlitz, gives an independent interest to the story; but it is highly imaginative to ascribe the victory to that manoeuvre. And for the other preliminaries of the tale, it is unfortunate that Napoleon had learned a good deal about war long before he had learned anything about Milton."]

"The undeniable fact," says Mr. Edwards in his book 'On Libraries,' "that these lines are particularly relevant to a significant move at Austerlitz, adds an independent interest to the story; but it's quite fanciful to credit that move for the victory. As for the other background details of the tale, it's unfortunate that Napoleon had a solid grasp of warfare long before he knew anything about Milton."

1915 (return)
[ 'Biographia Literaria,' chap. i.]

1915 (return)
[ 'Biographia Literaria,' chap. i.]

1916 (return)
[ Sir John Bowring's 'Memoirs of Bentham,' p. 10.]

1916 (return)
[ Sir John Bowring's 'Memoirs of Bentham,' p. 10.]

1917 (return)
[ Notwithstanding recent censures of classical studies as a useless waste of time, there can be no doubt that they give the highest finish to intellectual culture. The ancient classics contain the most consummate models of literary art; and the greatest writers have been their most diligent students. Classical culture was the instrument with which Erasmus and the Reformers purified Europe. It distinguished the great patriots of the seventeenth century; and it has ever since characterised our greatest statesmen. "I know not how it is," says an English writer, "but their commerce with the ancients appears to me to produce, in those who constantly practise it, a steadying and composing effect upon their judgment, not of literary works only, but of men and events in general. They are like persons who have had a weighty and impressive experience; they are more truly than others under the empire of facts, and more independent of the language current among those with whom they live."]

1917 (return)
[ Despite recent criticism of classical studies as a pointless use of time, it's clear that they greatly enrich intellectual culture. The ancient classics offer the finest examples of literary artistry, and the greatest writers have been their most dedicated learners. Classical education was the tool with which Erasmus and the Reformers revitalized Europe. It set apart the great patriots of the seventeenth century, and it has consistently characterized our greatest statesmen. "I don’t know how it is," says an English writer, "but their engagement with the ancients seems to create a calming and stabilizing effect on their judgment, not just regarding literary works, but about people and events in general. They resemble individuals who have had significant and impactful experiences; they are more genuinely influenced by facts than others and less swayed by the prevailing language of their contemporaries."]

1918 (return)
[ Hazlitt's TABLE TALK: 'On Thought and Action.']

1918 (return)
[ Hazlitt's TABLE TALK: 'On Thought and Action.']

201 (return)
[ Mungo Park declared that he was more affected by this incident than by any other that befel him in the course of his travels. As he lay down to sleep on the mat spread for him on the floor of the hut, his benefactress called to the female part of the family to resume their task of spinning cotton, in which they continued employed far into the night. "They lightened their labour with songs," says the traveller, "one of which was composed extempore, for I was myself the subject of it; it was sung by one of the young women, the rest joining in a chorus. The air was sweet and plaintive, and the words, literally translated, were these: 'The winds roared, and the rains fell. The poor white man, faint and weary, came and sat under our tree. He has no mother to bring him milk, no wife to grind his corn.' Chorus—'Let us pity the white man, no mother has he!' Trifling as this recital may appear, to a person in my situation the circumstance was affecting in the highest degree. I was so oppressed by such unexpected kindness, that sleep fled before my eyes."]

201 (return)
[ Mungo Park stated that he was more impacted by this incident than by any other during his travels. As he laid down to sleep on the mat spread for him on the floor of the hut, his kind host called to the women in the family to continue their task of spinning cotton, which they did late into the night. "They made their work easier with songs," the traveler recounts, "one of which was created on the spot, as I was the subject of it; it was sung by one of the young women, with the others joining in a chorus. The melody was sweet and mournful, and the words, when translated directly, were these: 'The winds roared, and the rains fell. The poor white man, faint and weary, came and sat under our tree. He has no mother to bring him milk, no wife to grind his corn.' Chorus—'Let’s have compassion for the white man, he has no mother!' Though this account may seem trivial, to someone in my position, the experience was profoundly moving. I was so overwhelmed by such unexpected kindness that sleep eluded me."]

202 (return)
[ 'Transformation, or Monte Beni.']

202 (return)
[ 'Transformation, or Monte Beni.']

203 (return)
[ 'Portraits Contemporains,' iii. 519.]

203 (return)
[ 'Contemporary Portraits,' iii. 519.]

204 (return)
[ Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his Essays, has wisely said: "You observe a man becoming day by day richer, or advancing in station, or increasing in professional reputation, and you set him down as a successful man in life. But if his home is an ill-regulated one, where no links of affection extend throughout the family—whose former domestics [20and he has had more of them than he can well remember] look back upon their sojourn with him as one unblessed by kind words or deeds—I contend that that man has not been successful. Whatever good fortune he may have in the world, it is to be remembered that he has always left one important fortress untaken behind him. That man's life does not surely read well whose benevolence has found no central home. It may have sent forth rays in various directions, but there should have been a warm focus of love—that home-nest which is formed round a good mans heart."—CLAIMS OF LABOUR.]

204 (return)
[ Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his essays, wisely said: "You notice a man getting richer every day, moving up in status, or building his professional reputation, and you think of him as a successful person. But if his home life is disorganized, lacking genuine affection among family members—whose former employees [20and he has had more than he can remember] look back on their time with him as filled with unkind words or actions—I argue that this man has not succeeded. Regardless of any good fortune he has in the world, it’s important to remember he has always left one crucial stronghold untaken behind him. A man’s life doesn’t reflect well if his kindness has no central home. It may have spread out in various ways, but there should have been a warm center of love—that cozy home built around a good man’s heart."—CLAIMS OF LABOUR.]

205 (return)
[ "The red heart sends all its instincts up to the white brain, to be analysed, chilled, blanched, and so become pure reason—which is just exactly what we do NOT want of women as women. The current should run the other way. The nice, calm, cold thought, which, in women, shapes itself so rapidly that they hardly know it as thought, should always travel to the lips VIA the heart. It does so in those women whom all love and admire.... The brain-women never interest us like the heart-women; white roses please less than red."—THE PROFESSOR AT THE BREAKFAST TABLE, by Oliver Wendell Holmes.]

205 (return)
[ "The red heart sends all its instincts to the white brain for analysis, coolness, and sterilization, becoming pure reason—which is exactly what we do NOT want from women. The flow should go the other way. The soft, calm, cool thoughts that, in women, form so quickly that they barely recognize them as thoughts should always travel to the lips THROUGH the heart. This happens in those women whom everyone loves and admires.... The women of the mind never capture our interest like the women of the heart; white roses are less appealing than red."—THE PROFESSOR AT THE BREAKFAST TABLE, by Oliver Wendell Holmes.]

206 (return)
[ 'The War and General Culture,' 1871.]

206 (return)
[ 'The War and General Culture,' 1871.]

207 (return)
[ "Depend upon it, men set more value on the cultivated minds than on the accomplishments of women, which they are rarely able to appreciate. It is a common error, but it is an error, that literature unfits women for the everyday business of life. It is not so with men. You see those of the most cultivated minds constantly devoting their time and attention to the most homely objects. Literature gives women a real and proper weight in society, but then they must use it with discretion."—THE REV. SYDNEY SMITH.]

207 (return)
[ "You can count on it, men value educated women more than their achievements, which they often fail to recognize. It's a common misconception—though still a misconception—that literature makes women less fit for the practicalities of daily life. The same isn't true for men. Those with the most refined minds frequently invest their time and energy in the simplest matters. Literature provides women with genuine and appropriate influence in society, but they need to apply it wisely."—THE REV. SYDNEY SMITH.]

208 (return)
[ 'The Statesman,' pp. 73-75.]

208 (return)
[ 'The Statesman,' pp. 73-75.]

209 (return)
[ Fuller, the Church historian, with his usual homely mother-wit, speaking of the choice of a wife, said briefly, "Take the daughter of a good mother."]

209 (return)
[ Fuller, the church historian, with his usual down-to-earth wisdom, remarked simply, "Marry the daughter of a good mother."]

2010 (return)
[ She was an Englishwoman—a Miss Motley. It maybe mentioned that amongst other distinguished Frenchmen who have married English wives, were Sismondi, Alfred de Vigny, and Lamartine.]

2010 (return)
[ She was an Englishwoman—Miss Motley. It's worth noting that among other notable Frenchmen who married English women were Sismondi, Alfred de Vigny, and Lamartine.]

2011 (return)
[ "Plus je roule dans ce monde, et plus je suis amene a penser qu'il n'y a que le bonheur domestique qui signifie quelque chose."—OEUVRES ET CORRESPONDENCE.]

2011 (return)
[ "The more I go through this world, the more I'm convinced that only domestic happiness really matters."—WORKS AND CORRESPONDENCE.]

2012 (return)
[ De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. i. p. 408.]

2012 (return)
[ De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. i. p. 408.]

2013 (return)
[ De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. ii. p. 48.]

2013 (return)
[ De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. ii. p. 48.]

2014 (return)
[ Colonel Hutchinson was an uncompromising republican, thoroughly brave, highminded, and pious. At the Restoration, he was discharged from Parliament, and from all offices of state for ever. He retired to his estate at Owthorp, near Nottingham, but was shortly after arrested and imprisoned in the Tower. From thence he was removed to Sandown Castle, near Deal, where he lay for eleven months, and died on September 11th, 1664. The wife petitioned for leave to share his prison, but was refused. When he felt himself dying, knowing the deep sorrow which his death would occasion to his wife, he left this message, which was conveyed to her: "Let her, as she is above other women, show herself on this occasion a good Christian, and above the pitch of ordinary women." Hence the wife's allusion to her husband's "command" in the above passage.]

2014 (return)
[ Colonel Hutchinson was a devoted republican, extremely brave, principled, and religious. After the Restoration, he was removed from Parliament and all government positions permanently. He went back to his estate at Owthorp, near Nottingham, but was soon arrested and imprisoned in the Tower. From there, he was transferred to Sandown Castle, near Deal, where he spent eleven months before dying on September 11th, 1664. His wife asked to join him in prison, but her request was denied. Knowing he was dying and understanding the deep grief his passing would cause her, he left a message that was passed on: "Let her, since she is above other women, demonstrate on this occasion that she is a good Christian and rise above the expectations of ordinary women." This explains the wife's reference to her husband's "command" in the passage above.]

2015 (return)
[ Mrs. Lucy Hutchinson to her children concerning their father: 'Memoirs of the Life of Col. Hutchinson' [20Bohn's Ed.], pp. 29-30.]

2015 (return)
[ Mrs. Lucy Hutchinson to her children about their father: 'Memoirs of the Life of Col. Hutchinson' [20Bohn's Ed.], pp. 29-30.]

2016 (return)
[ On the Declaration of American Independence, the first John Adams, afterwards President of the United States, bought a copy of the 'Life and Letters of Lady Russell,' and presented it to his wife, "with an express intent and desire" [20as stated by himself], "that she should consider it a mirror in which to contemplate herself; for, at that time, I thought it extremely probable, from the daring and dangerous career I was determined to run, that she would one day find herself in the situation of Lady Russell, her husband without a head:" Speaking of his wife in connection with the fact, Mr. Adams added: "Like Lady Russell, she never, by word or look, discouraged me from running all hazards for the salvation of my country's liberties. She was willing to share with me, and that her children should share with us both, in all the dangerous consequences we had to hazard."]

2016 (return)
[ Regarding the Declaration of American Independence, John Adams, who later became President of the United States, bought a copy of the 'Life and Letters of Lady Russell' and gave it to his wife, "with a clear intention and desire" [20as stated by himself], "that she should see it as a reflection in which to view herself; for, at that time, I thought it was highly likely, given the bold and risky path I was set on, that she would eventually find herself in a situation similar to Lady Russell, her husband facing execution:" Talking about his wife in this context, Mr. Adams added: "Like Lady Russell, she never, by word or expression, discouraged me from taking all risks for the freedom of my country. She was ready to share with me, and for our children to share with us both, in all the dangerous consequences we faced."]

2017 (return)
[ 'Memoirs of the Life of Sir Samuel Romily,' vol. i. p. 41.]

2017 (return)
[ 'Memoirs of the Life of Sir Samuel Romilly,' vol. i. p. 41.]

2018 (return)
[ It is a singular circumstance that in the parish church of St. Bride, Fleet Street, there is a tablet on the wall with an inscription to the memory of Isaac Romilly, F.R.S., who died in 1759, of a broken heart, seven days after the decease of a beloved wife—CHAMBERS' BOOK OF DAYS, vol. ii. p. 539.]

2018 (return)
[ It's a unique situation that in the parish church of St. Bride, Fleet Street, there is a plaque on the wall honoring Isaac Romilly, F.R.S., who passed away in 1759 from a broken heart, just seven days after the death of his beloved wife—CHAMBERS' BOOK OF DAYS, vol. ii. p. 539.]

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[ Mr. Frank Buckland says "During the long period that Dr. Buckland was engaged in writing the book which I now have the honour of editing, my mother sat up night after night, for weeks and months consecutively, writing to my father's dictation; and this often till the sun's rays, shining through the shutters at early morn, warned the husband to cease from thinking, and the wife to rest her weary hand. Not only with her pen did she render material assistance, but her natural talent in the use of her pencil enabled her to give accurate illustrations and finished drawings, many of which are perpetuated in Dr. Buckland's works. She was also particularly clever and neat in mending broken fossils; and there are many specimens in the Oxford Museum, now exhibiting their natural forms and beauty, which were restored by her perseverance to shape from a mass of broken and almost comminuted fragments."]

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[ Mr. Frank Buckland says, "While Dr. Buckland was busy writing the book that I now have the privilege of editing, my mother would stay up night after night, for weeks and months on end, taking notes dictated by my father; often until the sun’s rays peeked through the shutters in the early morning, signaling that it was time for my father to stop thinking and for my mother to give her tired hand a rest. She didn’t just help with her writing; her natural talent with a pencil allowed her to create accurate illustrations and detailed drawings, many of which are included in Dr. Buckland's works. She was also particularly skilled and precise in repairing broken fossils; there are many specimens in the Oxford Museum, now showcasing their natural forms and beauty, that she meticulously restored from a collection of smashed and nearly shattered pieces."]

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[ Veitch's 'Memoirs of Sir William Hamilton.']

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[ Veitch's 'Memoirs of Sir William Hamilton.']

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[ The following extract from Mr. Veitch's biography will give one an idea of the extraordinary labours of Lady Hamilton, to whose unfailing devotion to the service of her husband the world of intellect has been so much indebted: "The number of pages in her handwriting," says Mr. Veitch,—"filled with abstruse metaphysical matter, original and quoted, bristling with proportional and syllogistic formulae—that are still preserved, is perfectly marvellous. Everything that was sent to the press, and all the courses of lectures, were written by her, either to dictation, or from a copy. This work she did in the truest spirit of love and devotion. She had a power, moreover, of keeping her husband up to what he had to do. She contended wisely against a sort of energetic indolence which characterised him, and which, while he was always labouring, made him apt to put aside the task actually before him—sometimes diverted by subjects of inquiry suggested in the course of study on the matter in hand, sometimes discouraged by the difficulty of reducing to order the immense mass of materials he had accumulated in connection with it. Then her resolution and cheerful disposition sustained and refreshed him, and never more so than when, during the last twelve years of his life, his bodily strength was broken, and his spirit, though languid, yet ceased not from mental toil. The truth is, that Sir William's marriage, his comparatively limited circumstances, and the character of his wife, supplied to a nature that would have been contented to spend its mighty energies in work that brought no reward but in the doing of it, and that might never have been made publicly known or available, the practical force and impulse which enabled him to accomplish what he actually did in literature and philosophy. It was this influence, without doubt, which saved him from utter absorption in his world of rare, noble, and elevated, but ever-increasingly unattainable ideas. But for it, the serene sea of abstract thought might have held him becalmed for life; and in the absence of all utterance of definite knowledge of his conclusions, the world might have been left to an ignorant and mysterious wonder about the unprofitable scholar."]

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[ The following excerpt from Mr. Veitch's biography gives an idea of the incredible dedication of Lady Hamilton, to whom the intellectual world owes so much: "The number of pages in her handwriting," says Mr. Veitch, "filled with complex metaphysical topics, both original and quoted, packed with proportional and syllogistic formulas—that are still preserved is truly remarkable. Everything that was published, along with all the lecture courses, was written by her, either from dictation or from a copy. She approached this work in the truest spirit of love and devotion. Plus, she had a talent for keeping her husband focused on what he needed to do. She wisely navigated a kind of energetic laziness that characterized him, which, while he was always working, led him to put aside the task at hand—sometimes distracted by subjects suggested during his studies, and sometimes discouraged by the overwhelming amount of material he had collected on the topic. Her determination and positive attitude supported and revitalized him, especially during the last twelve years of his life when his physical strength was waning, yet his mind remained engaged. The reality is that Sir William's marriage, his relatively modest circumstances, and the nature of his wife provided a driving force and motivation for a person who would have been satisfied to devote his considerable energy to work that yielded no recognition beyond the act itself, and that might never have been publicly acknowledged or utilized, enabling him to achieve what he did in literature and philosophy. This influence undoubtedly rescued him from becoming completely absorbed in his realm of rare, noble, and elevated, yet ever-more-elusive ideas. Without it, the calm sea of abstract thought might have left him stagnant for life; and without expressing clear understanding of his conclusions, the world might have been left in ignorance and confusion about the unproductive scholar."]

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[ 'Calcutta Review,' article on 'Romance and Reality of Indian Life.']

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[ 'Calcutta Review,' article on 'Romance and Reality of Indian Life.']

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[ Joseph Lancaster was only twenty years of age when [21in 1798: he opened his first school in a spare room in his father's house, which was soon filled with the destitute children of the neighbourhood. The room was shortly found too small for the numbers seeking admission, and one place after another was hired, until at length Lancaster had a special building erected, capable of accommodating a thousand pupils; outside of which was placed the following notice:—"All that will, may send their children here, and have them educated freely; and those that do not wish to have education for nothing, may pay for it if they please." Thus Joseph Lancaster was the precursor of our present system of National Education.]

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[ Joseph Lancaster was only twenty years old when, in 1798, he opened his first school in a spare room at his father's house, which quickly filled up with the needy children from the neighborhood. The room soon became too small for the number of children wanting to enroll, and one location after another was rented until Lancaster finally had a building constructed that could hold a thousand students. Outside of it, a notice was posted: “Anyone who wants to can send their children here to receive free education; those who prefer not to have free education can pay for it if they wish.” In this way, Joseph Lancaster laid the groundwork for our current system of National Education.]

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[ A great musician once said of a promising but passionless cantatrice—"She sings well, but she wants something, and in that something everything. If I were single, I would court her; I would marry her; I would maltreat her; I would break her heart; and in six months she would be the greatest singer in Europe!"—BLACKWOOD'S MAGAZINE.]

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[ A great musician once said about a talented but uninspired singer—"She sings well, but she lacks something, and in that lack is everything. If I were single, I would pursue her; I would marry her; I would mistreat her; I would break her heart; and in six months she’d be the greatest singer in Europe!"—BLACKWOOD'S MAGAZINE.]

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[ Prescot's 'Essays,' art. Cervantes.]

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[ Prescot's 'Essays,' art. Cervantes.]

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[ A cavalier, named Ruy de Camera, having called upon Camoens to furnish a poetical version of the seven penitential psalms, the poet, raising his head from his miserable pallet, and pointing to his faithful slave, exclaimed: "Alas! when I was a poet, I was young, and happy, and blest with the love of ladies; but now, I am a forlorn deserted wretch! See—there stands my poor Antonio, vainly supplicating FOURPENCE to purchase a little coals. I have not them to give him!" The cavalier, Sousa quaintly relates, in his 'Life of Camoens,' closed his heart and his purse, and quitted the room. Such were the grandees of Portugal!—Lord Strangford's REMARKS ON THE LIFE AND WRITINGS OF CAMOENS, 1824.]

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[ A nobleman named Ruy de Camera asked Camoens to create a poetic version of the seven penitential psalms. The poet, lifting his head from his shabby bed and pointing to his loyal servant, exclaimed: "Oh! When I was a poet, I was young, happy, and surrounded by the love of women; but now, I am a lonely, abandoned wretch! Look—there's my poor Antonio, desperately asking for FOURPENCE to buy a bit of coal. I don't even have that to give him!" The nobleman, as Sousa amusingly recounts in his 'Life of Camoens,' shut his heart and his wallet and left the room. Such were the aristocrats of Portugal!—Lord Strangford's REMARKS ON THE LIFE AND WRITINGS OF CAMOENS, 1824.]

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[ See chapter v. p. 125.]

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[ See chapter v. p. 125.]

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[ A Quaker called on Bunyan one day with "a message from the Lord," saying he had been to half the gaols of England, and was glad at last to have found him. To which Bunyan replied: "If the Lord sent thee, you would not have needed to take so much trouble to find me out, for He knew that I have been in Bedford Gaol these seven years past."]

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[ A Quaker visited Bunyan one day with "a message from the Lord," saying he had been to half the jails in England and was glad to finally find him. Bunyan replied, "If the Lord sent you, you wouldn't have had to go through so much trouble to find me, because He knows I've been in Bedford Jail for the last seven years."]

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[ Prynne, besides standing in the pillory and having his ears cut off, was imprisoned by turns in the Tower, Mont Orgueil [21Jersey], Dunster Castle, Taunton Castle, and Pendennis Castle. He after-wards pleaded zealously for the Restoration, and was made Keeper of the Records by Charles II. It has been computed that Prynne wrote, compiled, and printed about eight quarto pages for every working-day of his life, from his reaching man's estate to the day of his death. Though his books were for the most part appropriated by the trunkmakers, they now command almost fabulous prices, chiefly because of their rarity.]

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[ Prynne, in addition to being put in the pillory and having his ears cut off, was imprisoned at different times in the Tower, Mont Orgueil [21Jersey], Dunster Castle, Taunton Castle, and Pendennis Castle. He later argued passionately for the Restoration and was appointed Keeper of the Records by Charles II. It's estimated that Prynne wrote, compiled, and printed about eight pages every workday of his life, from the time he came of age until his death. Although most of his books were taken by the trunkmakers, they now fetch almost incredible prices, mainly due to their rarity.]

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[ He also projected his 'Review' in prison—the first periodical of the kind, which pointed the way to the host of 'Tatlers,' 'Guardians,' and 'Spectators,' which followed it. The 'Review' consisted of 102 numbers, forming nine quarto volumes, all of which were written by De Foe himself, while engaged in other and various labours.]

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[ He also published his 'Review' while in prison—the first magazine of its kind, which paved the way for the many 'Tatlers,' 'Guardians,' and 'Spectators' that came after it. The 'Review' included 102 issues, making up nine quarto volumes, all of which were authored by Defoe himself, while he was involved in various other projects.]

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[ A passage in the Earl of Carlisles Lecture on Pope—'Heaven was made for those who have failed in this world'—struck me very forcibly several years ago when I read it in a newspaper, and became a rich vein of thought, in which I often quarried, especially when the sentence was interpreted by the Cross, which was failure apparently."—LIFE AND LETTERS OF ROBERTSON [21of Brighton], ii. 94.]

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[ A passage in the Earl of Carlisle's lecture on Pope—'Heaven was created for those who have struggled in this world'—really hit me several years ago when I read it in a newspaper, and it became a deep source of contemplation for me, especially when I interpreted the sentence through the lens of the Cross, which represented failure, apparently."—LIFE AND LETTERS OF ROBERTSON [21of Brighton], ii. 94.]

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[

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      "Not all who seem to fail, have failed indeed;
      Not all who fail have therefore worked in vain:
      For all our acts to many issues lead;
      And out of earnest purpose, pure and plain,
      Enforced by honest toil of hand or brain,
      The Lord will fashion, in His own good time,
      [21Be this the labourer's proudly-humble creed,]
      Such ends as, to His wisdom, fitliest chime
      With His vast love's eternal harmonies.
      There is no failure for the good and wise:
      What though thy seed should fall by the wayside
      And the birds snatch it;—yet the birds are fed;
      Or they may bear it far across the tide,
      To give rich harvests after thou art dead."
                      POLITICS FOR THE PEOPLE, 1848.]
"Not everyone who seems to fail has actually failed;  
Not everyone who fails has worked in vain:  
For all our actions lead to many outcomes;  
And from honest intentions, straightforward and pure,  
Driven by the sincere effort of body or mind,  
The Lord will create, in His own good time,  
[21Let this be the proud yet humble belief of the worker,]  
Results that align best with His wisdom  
And the eternal harmony of His great love.  
There is no failure for the good and wise:  
Though your seeds may fall by the wayside  
And the birds snatch them away; yet the birds are fed;  
Or they might carry them far across the sea,  
To produce abundant harvests long after you’re gone."  
                      POLITICS FOR THE PEOPLE, 1848.

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[ "What is it," says Mr. Helps, "that promotes the most and the deepest thought in the human race? It is not learning; it is not the conduct of business; it is not even the impulse of the affections. It is suffering; and that, perhaps, is the reason why there is so much suffering in the world. The angel who went down to trouble the waters and to make them healing, was not, perhaps, entrusted with so great a boon as the angel who benevolently inflicted upon the sufferers the disease from which they suffered."—BREVIA.]

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[ "What drives the deepest thoughts in humanity?" asks Mr. Helps. "It's not education; it's not running a business; it's not even the push of emotions. It's suffering; and maybe that's why there's so much suffering in the world. The angel who came down to stir the waters and make them healing might not have been given a greater gift than the angel who compassionately brought the disease that caused the suffering."—BREVIA.]

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[ These lines were written by Deckar, in a spirit of boldness equal to its piety. Hazlitt has or said of them, that they "ought to embalm his memory to every one who has a sense either of religion, or philosophy, or humanity, or true genius."]

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[ These lines were written by Deckar with a boldness that matched its sincerity. Hazlitt has said that they "should preserve his memory for anyone who has a sense of religion, philosophy, humanity, or true genius."]

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[ Reboul, originally a baker of Nismes, was the author of many beautiful poems—amongst others, of the exquisite piece known in this country by its English translation, entitled 'The Angel and the Child.']

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[ Reboul, who started as a baker in Nismes, wrote many beautiful poems, including the lovely piece known here by its English title, 'The Angel and the Child.']

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[ 'Cornhill Magazine,' vol. xvi. p. 322.]

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[ 'Cornhill Magazine,' vol. xvi. p. 322.]

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[ 'Holy Living and Dying,' ch. ii. sect. 6.]

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[ 'Holy Living and Dying,' ch. ii. sect. 6.]

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[ Ibid., ch. iii. sect. 6.]

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[ Ibid., ch. iii. sect. 6.]

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[ Gibbon's 'Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire,' vol. x. p. 40.]

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[ Gibbon's 'Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire,' vol. x. p. 40.]










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