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OUR ANDROCENTRIC CULTURE,



OR THE MAN MADE WORLD





By Charlotte Perkins Gilman










CONTENTS


OUR ANDROCENTRIC CULTURE,
or THE MAN-MADE WORLD



I.   AS TO HUMANNESS.

II.   THE MAN-MADE FAMILY.

III.   HEALTH AND BEAUTY.

IV.   MEN AND ART.

V.   MASCULINE LITERATURE.

VI.   GAMES AND SPORTS

VII.   ETHICS AND RELIGION.

VIII.   EDUCATION.

IX.   "SOCIETY" AND "FASHION"

X.   LAW AND GOVERNMENT.

XI.   CRIME AND PUNISHMENT.

XII.   POLITICS AND WARFARE.

     WOMAN AND THE STATE

XIII.     INDUSTRY AND ECONOMICS.

XIV.   A HUMAN WORLD.

CONTENTS


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__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_1__  ABOUT HUMANITY.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_2__  THE FAMILY WE CREATE.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_3__  WELLNESS AND BEAUTY.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_4__  ART AND MEN.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_5__  MALE LITERATURE.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_6__  PLAY AND ATHLETICS

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_7__  MORALS AND SPIRITUALITY.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_8__  LEARNING.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_9__  "SOCIETY" AND "STYLE"

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_10__  RULES AND GOVERNANCE.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_11__  OFFENSE AND CONSEQUENCES.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_12__  GOVERNMENT AND CONFLICT.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_13__  WOMEN AND THE NATION

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_14__  BUSINESS AND FINANCE.

__A_TAG_PLACEHOLDER_15__  A GLOBAL COMMUNITY.






OUR ANDROCENTRIC CULTURE, or THE MAN-MADE WORLD





I. AS TO HUMANNESS.

Let us begin, inoffensively, with sheep. The sheep is a beast with which we are all familiar, being much used in religious imagery; the common stock of painters; a staple article of diet; one of our main sources of clothing; and an everyday symbol of bashfulness and stupidity.

Let’s start, gently, with sheep. Sheep are animals we're all familiar with, often found in religious imagery; they're a common subject for artists; a regular part of our diet; one of our main sources of clothing; and an everyday symbol of shyness and lack of intelligence.

In some grazing regions the sheep is an object of terror, destroying grass, bush and forest by omnipresent nibbling; on the great plains, sheep-keeping frequently results in insanity, owing to the loneliness of the shepherd, and the monotonous appearance and behavior of the sheep.

In some grazing areas, sheep are a source of destruction, constantly nibbling away at grass, bushes, and forests. On the open plains, raising sheep often leads to madness due to the isolation of the shepherd and the dull look and behavior of the sheep.

By the poet, young sheep are preferred, the lamb gambolling gaily; unless it be in hymns, where "all we like sheep" are repeatedly described, and much stress is laid upon the straying propensities of the animal.

By the poet, young sheep are favored, the lamb frolicking playfully; unless it’s in hymns, where "all we like sheep" are often portrayed, and a lot of emphasis is placed on the animal's tendency to wander.

To the scientific mind there is special interest in the sequacity of sheep, their habit of following one another with automatic imitation. This instinct, we are told, has been developed by ages of wild crowded racing on narrow ledges, along precipices, chasms, around sudden spurs and corners, only the leader seeing when, where and how to jump. If those behind jumped exactly as he did, they lived. If they stopped to exercise independent judgment, they were pushed off and perished; they and their judgment with them.

To the scientific mind, there is a particular interest in how sheep follow each other through automatic imitation. This instinct, we learn, has evolved over ages of racing in the wild on narrow ledges, along cliffs, through chasms, and around sudden turns, with only the leader knowing when, where, and how to jump. If those behind jumped exactly like he did, they survived. If they paused to think for themselves, they were pushed off and perished; they and their judgment along with them.

All these things, and many that are similar, occur to us when we think of sheep. They are also ewes and rams. Yes, truly; but what of it? All that has been said was said of sheep, genus ovis, that bland beast, compound of mutton, wool, and foolishness so widely known. If we think of the sheep-dog (and dog-ess), the shepherd (and shepherd-ess), of the ferocious sheep-eating bird of New Zealand, the Kea (and Kea-ess), all these herd, guard, or kill the sheep, both rams and ewes alike. In regard to mutton, to wool, to general character, we think only of their sheepishness, not at all of their ramishness or eweishness. That which is ovine or bovine, canine, feline or equine, is easily recognized as distinguishing that particular species of animal, and has no relation whatever to the sex thereof.

All these things, and many similar concepts, come to mind when we think of sheep. They are also ewes and rams. Yes, that’s true; but what does it matter? Everything mentioned refers to sheep, genus ovis, that simple creature, made up of mutton, wool, and widely recognized foolishness. When we consider the sheepdog (and sheepdog-ess), the shepherd (and shepherd-ess), and the fierce sheep-eating bird of New Zealand, the Kea (and Kea-ess), all of these either herd, guard, or kill the sheep, both rams and ewes. When it comes to mutton, wool, or their general nature, we mainly think of their sheepishness, not at all of their ramishness or eweishness. Traits that are ovine, bovine, canine, feline, or equine are easily recognized as identifying that specific animal species and have no connection to their sex.

Returning to our muttons, let us consider the ram, and wherein his character differs from the sheep. We find he has a more quarrelsome disposition. He paws the earth and makes a noise. He has a tendency to butt. So has a goat—Mr. Goat. So has Mr. Buffalo, and Mr. Moose, and Mr. Antelope. This tendency to plunge head foremost at an adversary—and to find any other gentleman an adversary on sight—evidently does not pertain to sheep, to genus ovis; but to any male creature with horns.

Returning to our topic, let’s look at the ram and how he’s different from the sheep. We see that he has a more aggressive nature. He stomps the ground and makes noise. He has a tendency to butt heads. So does a goat—Mr. Goat. So do Mr. Buffalo, Mr. Moose, and Mr. Antelope. This habit of charging headfirst at an opponent—and considering any other male creature an opponent at first glance—clearly doesn’t apply to sheep, to genus ovis; but to any male creature with horns.

As "function comes before organ," we may even give a reminiscent glance down the long path of evolution, and see how the mere act of butting—passionately and perpetually repeated—born of the belligerent spirit of the male—produced horns!

As "function comes before organ," we can even take a nostalgic look down the long road of evolution and see how the simple act of butting—done passionately and continuously—originated from the combative nature of the male—led to the development of horns!

The ewe, on the other hand, exhibits love and care for her little ones, gives them milk and tries to guard them. But so does a goat—Mrs. Goat. So does Mrs. Buffalo and the rest. Evidently this mother instinct is no peculiarity of genus ovis, but of any female creature.

The ewe, on the other hand, shows love and care for her young, feeds them milk, and tries to protect them. But so does a goat—Mrs. Goat. So does Mrs. Buffalo and the others. Clearly, this maternal instinct isn't unique to genus ovis, but is found in any female creature.

Even the bird, though not a mammal, shows the same mother-love and mother-care, while the father bird, though not a butter, fights with beak and wing and spur. His competition is more effective through display. The wish to please, the need to please, the overmastering necessity upon him that he secure the favor of the female, has made the male bird blossom like a butterfly. He blazes in gorgeous plumage, rears haughty crests and combs, shows drooping wattles and dangling blobs such as the turkey-cock affords; long splendid feathers for pure ornament appear upon him; what in her is a mere tail-effect becomes in him a mass of glittering drapery.

Even the bird, while not a mammal, demonstrates the same love and care as a mother, while the father bird, even though he’s not a butter, fights with his beak, wings, and claws. His competition is more effective through showing off. The desire to impress, the need to be liked, and the overwhelming pressure to win over the female has caused the male bird to flourish like a butterfly. He shines with vibrant colors, raises impressive crests and combs, displays drooping wattles and hanging bits like those found on a turkey; long, stunning feathers for pure decoration adorn him; what is just a tail for her becomes a stunning display of shimmering fabric on him.

Partridge-cock, farmyard-cock, peacock, from sparrow to ostrich, observe his mien! To strut and languish; to exhibit every beauteous lure; to sacrifice ease, comfort, speed, everything—to beauty—for her sake—this is the nature of the he-bird of any species; the characteristic, not of the turkey, but of the cock! With drumming of loud wings, with crow and quack and bursts of glorious song, he woos his mate; displays his splendors before her; fights fiercely with his rivals. To butt—to strut—to make a noise—all for love's sake; these acts are common to the male.

Partridge, farmyard rooster, peacock, from sparrow to ostrich, check him out! To strut and show off; to flaunt every beautiful feature; to give up comfort, speed, and everything else—for her sake—this is what male birds of any kind do; it's the trait, not of the turkey, but of the rooster! With loud flaps of his wings, with crowing and quacking and bursts of beautiful song, he courts his mate; shows off his beauty for her; fiercely battles his rivals. To butt heads—to strut—to make noise—all for love; these actions are typical of the male.

We may now generalize and clearly state: That is masculine which belongs to the male—to any or all males, irrespective of species. That is feminine which belongs to the female, to any or all females, irrespective of species. That is ovine, bovine, feline, canine, equine or asinine which belongs to that species, irrespective of sex.

We can now summarize and say clearly: Masculine refers to anything related to males, regardless of species. Feminine refers to anything related to females, regardless of species. Ovine, bovine, feline, canine, equine, or asinine refers to anything belonging to that specific species, regardless of sex.

In our own species all this is changed. We have been so taken up with the phenomena of masculinity and femininity, that our common humanity has largely escaped notice. We know we are human, naturally, and are very proud of it; but we do not consider in what our humanness consists; nor how men and women may fall short of it, or overstep its bounds, in continual insistence upon their special differences. It is "manly" to do this; it is "womanly" to do that; but what a human being should do under the circumstances is not thought of.

In our own species, everything has changed. We've become so focused on the differences between masculinity and femininity that we've largely ignored our shared humanity. We know we're human, of course, and we're quite proud of it; however, we don't really think about what it means to be human, or how men and women can either fall short or go beyond that definition by constantly emphasizing their differences. It's seen as "manly" to act one way and "womanly" to act another; yet what a human being should do in any situation often gets overlooked.

The only time when we do recognize what we call "common humanity" is in extreme cases, matters of life and death; when either man or woman is expected to behave as if they were also human creatures. Since the range of feeling and action proper to humanity, as such, is far wider than that proper to either sex, it seems at first somewhat remarkable that we have given it so little recognition.

The only time we really acknowledge what we refer to as "common humanity" is during extreme situations, like life and death; when either a man or a woman is expected to act as if they are also human beings. Since the range of emotions and actions appropriate to humanity, in general, is much broader than what's typical for either gender, it seems surprising at first that we haven't recognized it more.

A little classification will help us here. We have certain qualities in common with inanimate matter, such as weight, opacity, resilience. It is clear that these are not human. We have other qualities in common with all forms of life; cellular construction, for instance, the reproduction of cells and the need of nutrition. These again are not human. We have others, many others, common to the higher mammals; which are not exclusively ours—are not distinctively "human." What then are true human characteristics? In what way is the human species distinguished from all other species?

A bit of classification will help us here. We share certain qualities with inanimate objects, like weight, opacity, and resilience. Clearly, these aren’t human traits. We have other qualities in common with all forms of life, such as cellular structure, the reproduction of cells, and the need for nutrition. Again, these are not human traits. We also have many qualities in common with higher mammals that aren’t uniquely ours—aren’t distinctly "human." So, what are truly human characteristics? How is the human species different from all other species?

Our human-ness is seen most clearly in three main lines: it is mechanical, psychical and social. Our power to make and use things is essentially human; we alone have extra-physical tools. We have added to our teeth the knife, sword, scissors, mowing machine; to our claws the spade, harrow, plough, drill, dredge. We are a protean creature, using the larger brain power through a wide variety of changing weapons. This is one of our main and vital distinctions. Ancient animal races are traced and known by mere bones and shells, ancient human races by their buildings, tools and utensils.

Our humanity is best understood through three main aspects: it is mechanical, psychological, and social. Our ability to create and use tools is what makes us truly human; we are the only ones with tools that go beyond our physical bodies. We have enhanced our natural abilities by creating knives, swords, scissors, and machines for cutting grass; we have improved our claws with shovels, plows, drills, and dredges. We are adaptable beings, utilizing our advanced brain power with a diverse range of constantly evolving tools. This is one of our essential and defining characteristics. Ancient animal species are identified and understood through their bones and shells, while ancient human societies are recognized by their structures, tools, and everyday objects.

That degree of development which gives us the human mind is a clear distinction of race. The savage who can count a hundred is more human than the savage who can count ten.

That level of development that gives us the human mind clearly distinguishes races. A savage who can count to a hundred is more human than one who can only count to ten.

More prominent than either of these is the social nature of humanity. We are by no means the only group-animal; that ancient type of industry the ant, and even the well-worn bee, are social creatures. But insects of their kind are found living alone. Human beings never. Our human-ness begins with some low form of social relation and increases as that relation develops.

More significant than either of these is the social nature of humanity. We are certainly not the only social animals; the age-old ant and even the familiar bee are social creatures. However, insects like them can be found living alone. Humans never do. Our humanity starts with some basic form of social connection and grows as that connection evolves.

Human life of any sort is dependent upon what Kropotkin calls "mutual aid," and human progress keeps step absolutely with that interchange of specialized services which makes society organic. The nomad, living on cattle as ants live on theirs, is less human than the farmer, raising food by intelligently applied labor; and the extension of trade and commerce, from mere village market-places to the world-exchanges of to-day, is extension of human-ness as well.

Human life in any form relies on what Kropotkin refers to as "mutual aid," and human progress directly corresponds to the exchange of specialized services that makes society cohesive. The nomad, who survives on cattle like ants depend on theirs, is less human than the farmer, who cultivates food through skillful labor; and the growth of trade and commerce, from simple village markets to today’s global exchanges, represents an expansion of human connection as well.

Humanity, thus considered, is not a thing made at once and unchangeable, but a stage of development; and is still, as Wells describes it, "in the making." Our human-ness is seen to lie not so much in what we are individually, as in our relations to one another; and even that individuality is but the result of our relations to one another. It is in what we do and how we do it, rather than in what we are. Some, philosophically inclined, exalt "being" over "doing." To them this question may be put: "Can you mention any form of life that merely 'is,' without doing anything?"

Humanity, when you think about it, isn't something created all at once and fixed, but rather a stage of growth; we are still, as Wells puts it, "in the making." Our humanity is found not just in who we are as individuals, but in our relationships with each other; and even that individuality comes from these connections. It’s more about what we do and how we do it than about our inherent nature. Some people, who are more philosophically minded, prefer to emphasize "being" over "doing." To them, you might ask: "Can you name any form of life that simply 'is,' without taking any action?"

Taken separately and physically, we are animals, genus homo; taken socially and psychically, we are, in varying degree, human; and our real history lies in the development of this human-ness.

Taken separately and physically, we are animals, genus homo; taken socially and psychologically, we are, to varying degrees, human; and our true history lies in the development of this humanity.

Our historic period is not very long. Real written history only goes back a few thousand years, beginning with the stone records of ancient Egypt. During this period we have had almost universally what is here called an Androcentric Culture. The history, such as it was, was made and written by men.

Our historical period isn’t very long. Real written history only goes back a few thousand years, starting with the stone records of ancient Egypt. During this time, we’ve almost universally had what’s referred to here as an Androcentric Culture. The history, as it was, was created and written by men.

The mental, the mechanical, the social development, was almost wholly theirs. We have, so far, lived and suffered and died in a man-made world. So general, so unbroken, has been this condition, that to mention it arouses no more remark than the statement of a natural law. We have taken it for granted, since the dawn of civilization, that "mankind" meant men-kind, and the world was theirs.

The mental, mechanical, and social development was almost entirely their own. Up to now, we have lived, suffered, and died in a world created by men. This situation has been so common and so consistent that discussing it gets as little attention as stating a natural law. Since the beginning of civilization, we’ve assumed that "mankind" referred to men and that the world belonged to them.

Women we have sharply delimited. Women were a sex, "the sex," according to chivalrous toasts; they were set apart for special services peculiar to femininity. As one English scientist put it, in 1888, "Women are not only not the race—they are not even half the race, but a subspecies told off for reproduction only."

Women have been clearly defined. Women were seen as a sex, "the sex," according to polite toasts; they were designated for special roles unique to femininity. As one English scientist put it in 1888, "Women are not only not the race—they aren’t even half the race, but a subspecies reserved for reproduction only."

This mental attitude toward women is even more clearly expressed by Mr. H. B. Marriot-Watson in his article on "The American Woman" in the "Nineteenth Century" for June, 1904, where he says: "Her constitutional restlessness has caused her to abdicate those functions which alone excuse or explain her existence." This is a peculiarly happy and condensed expression of the relative position of women during our androcentric culture. The man was accepted as the race type without one dissentient voice; and the woman—a strange, diverse creature, quite disharmonious in the accepted scheme of things—was excused and explained only as a female.

This mindset towards women is even more clearly articulated by Mr. H. B. Marriot-Watson in his article "The American Woman" published in the "Nineteenth Century" for June 1904, where he states: "Her constant restlessness has led her to give up those roles that justify or explain her existence." This is a particularly succinct and impactful statement on the position of women in our male-centered culture. Men were accepted as the standard for the human race without any opposition, while women—a strange and diverse group, completely out of sync with the established order—were only rationalized and defined as females.

She has needed volumes of such excuse and explanation; also, apparently, volumes of abuse and condemnation. In any library catalogue we may find books upon books about women: physiological, sentimental, didactic, religious—all manner of books about women, as such. Even to-day in the works of Marholm—poor young Weininger, Moebius, and others, we find the same perpetual discussion of women—as such.

She has required a lot of excuses and explanations; also, it seems, a lot of criticism and blame. In any library catalog, we can find book after book about women: scientific, emotional, educational, religious—every kind of book about women, just as they are. Even today, in the works of Marholm, the unfortunate young Weininger, Moebius, and others, we see the same ongoing discussion about women—as they are.

This is a book about men—as such. It differentiates between the human nature and the sex nature. It will not go so far as to allege man's masculine traits to be all that excuse, or explain his existence: but it will point out what are masculine traits as distinct from human ones, and what has been the effect on our human life of the unbridled dominance of one sex.

This is a book about men, in that sense. It distinguishes between human nature and gender nature. It won't claim that all of man's masculine traits are enough to justify or explain his existence, but it will highlight what masculine traits are, as opposed to human ones, and what impact the unchecked dominance of one gender has had on our human lives.

We can see at once, glaringly, what would have been the result of giving all human affairs into female hands. Such an extraordinary and deplorable situation would have "feminized" the world. We should have all become "effeminate."

We can clearly see what would have happened if all human affairs were left in the hands of women. Such a strange and unfortunate situation would have "feminized" the world. We would have all become "effeminate."

See how in our use of language the case is clearly shown. The adjectives and derivatives based on woman's distinctions are alien and derogatory when applied to human affairs; "effeminate"—too female, connotes contempt, but has no masculine analogue; whereas "emasculate"—not enough male, is a term of reproach, and has no feminine analogue. "Virile"—manly, we oppose to "puerile"—childish, and the very word "virtue" is derived from "vir"—a man.

See how our use of language clearly illustrates this. The adjectives and derivatives based on women's characteristics are foreign and negative when related to human matters; "effeminate"—too feminine, suggests disdain but has no masculine equivalent; while "emasculate"—not masculine enough, is a term of criticism, and doesn't have a feminine counterpart. We contrast "virile"—manly, with "puerile"—childish, and even the word "virtue" comes from "vir"—meaning man.

Even in the naming of other animals we have taken the male as the race type, and put on a special termination to indicate "his female," as in lion, lioness; leopard, leopardess; while all our human scheme of things rests on the same tacit assumption; man being held the human type; woman a sort of accompaniment and subordinate assistant, merely essential to the making of people.

Even when naming other animals, we’ve used the male as the standard reference and added a special ending to show “his female,” like in lion, lioness; leopard, leopardess. Similarly, our entire view of humanity is based on this unspoken assumption; man is considered the human standard, while woman is seen as a sort of accessory and a subordinate helper, only important for producing offspring.

She has held always the place of a preposition in relation to man. She has been considered above him or below him, before him, behind him, beside him, a wholly relative existence—"Sydney's sister," "Pembroke's mother"—but never by any chance Sydney or Pembroke herself.

She has always occupied the role of a preposition in relation to man. She has been viewed as above him, below him, in front of him, behind him, next to him—a completely relative existence—"Sydney's sister," "Pembroke's mother"—but never just Sydney or Pembroke herself.

Acting on this assumption, all human standards have been based on male characteristics, and when we wish to praise the work of a woman, we say she has "a masculine mind."

Acting on this assumption, all human standards have been based on male characteristics, and when we want to praise a woman's work, we say she has "a masculine mind."

It is no easy matter to deny or reverse a universal assumption. The human mind has had a good many jolts since it began to think, but after each upheaval it settles down as peacefully as the vine-growers on Vesuvius, accepting the last lava crust as permanent ground.

It’s not easy to deny or change a universal belief. The human mind has experienced a lot of shocks since it started thinking, but after each upheaval, it settles down just as calmly as the grape growers on Vesuvius, accepting the most recent layer of lava as its permanent ground.

What we see immediately around us, what we are born into and grow up with, be it mental furniture or physical, we assume to be the order of nature.

What we see right around us, what we are born into and grow up with, whether it's our way of thinking or our surroundings, we take for granted as the natural order of things.

If a given idea has been held in the human mind for many generations, as almost all our common ideas have, it takes sincere and continued effort to remove it; and if it is one of the oldest we have in stock, one of the big, common, unquestioned world ideas, vast is the labor of those who seek to change it.

If an idea has been in the human mind for many generations, like most of our common ideas, it requires genuine and ongoing effort to change it; and if it’s one of the oldest, one of the big, common, unquestioned beliefs in the world, the work needed by those trying to change it is immense.

Nevertheless, if the matter is one of importance, if the previous idea was a palpable error, of large and evil effect, and if the new one is true and widely important, the effort is worth making.

Nevertheless, if the issue is significant, if the earlier idea was a clear mistake that had serious negative consequences, and if the new idea is accurate and highly relevant, the effort is worth it.

The task here undertaken is of this sort. It seeks to show that what we have all this time called "human nature" and deprecated, was in great part only male nature, and good enough in its place; that what we have called "masculine" and admired as such, was in large part human, and should be applied to both sexes: that what we have called "feminine" and condemned, was also largely human and applicable to both. Our androcentric culture is so shown to have been, and still to be, a masculine culture in excess, and therefore undesirable.

The task at hand is like this. It aims to demonstrate that what we've often referred to as "human nature," which we've criticized, was mostly just male nature and actually valid in its context; that what we've labeled as "masculine" and praised as such, was largely human and should apply to both genders: that what we've termed "feminine" and judged negatively, was also mostly human and relevant to both. Our male-centered culture has proven to be, and continues to be, an overly masculine culture, which is therefore not ideal.

In the preliminary work of approaching these facts it will be well to explain how it can be that so wide and serious an error should have been made by practically all men. The reason is simply that they were men. They were males, avid saw women as females—and not otherwise.

In the early stages of looking into these facts, it’s important to clarify how such a large and significant mistake could occur among almost everyone. The simple truth is that they were men. They saw women purely as females—and nothing more.

So absolute is this conviction that the man who reads will say, "Of course! How else are we to look at women except as females? They are females, aren't they?" Yes, they are, as men are males unquestionably; but there is possible the frame of mind of the old marquise who was asked by an English friend how she could bear to have the footman serve her breakfast in bed—to have a man in her bed-chamber—and replied sincerely, "Call you that thing there a man?"

So strong is this belief that anyone reading this will say, "Of course! How else are we supposed to see women except as females? They are females, right?" Yes, they are, just as men are definitely males; but there's also the perspective of the old marquise who was asked by an English friend how she could stand having the footman serve her breakfast in bed—to have a man in her bedroom—and she honestly replied, "Do you call that thing there a man?"

The world is full of men, but their principal occupation is human work of some sort; and women see in them the human distinction preponderantly. Occasionally some unhappy lady marries her coachman—long contemplation of broad shoulders having an effect, apparently; but in general women see the human creature most; the male creature only when they love.

The world is full of men, but their main role is to engage in some form of human work; and women primarily recognize them as people. Sometimes, a lonely woman might marry her coachman—apparently, staring at broad shoulders makes an impression; but generally, women see men as human beings first, and only view them as men when they are in love.

To the man, the whole world was his world; his because he was male; and the whole world of woman was the home; because she was female. She had her prescribed sphere, strictly limited to her feminine occupations and interests; he had all the rest of life; and not only so, but, having it, insisted on calling it male.

To the man, the entire world was his domain; it was his because he was male, while the entire world of women was the home because she was female. She had her assigned role, which was strictly confined to her feminine tasks and interests; he had everything else in life, and not only that, but he also insisted on labeling it as male.

This accounts for the general attitude of men toward the now rapid humanization of women. From her first faint struggles toward freedom and justice, to her present valiant efforts toward full economic and political equality, each step has been termed "unfeminine" and resented as an intrusion upon man's place and power. Here shows the need of our new classification, of the three distinct fields of life—masculine, feminine and human.

This explains how men generally feel about the quick progress women are making towards becoming more humanized. From her initial hesitant attempts to achieve freedom and justice to her current brave fight for complete economic and political equality, every advancement has been labeled as "unfeminine" and resented as a threat to men's roles and authority. This highlights the need for our new classification of the three distinct areas of life—masculine, feminine, and human.

As a matter of fact, there is a "woman's sphere," sharply defined and quite different from his; there is also a "man's sphere," as sharply defined and even more limited; but there remains a common sphere—that of humanity, which belongs to both alike.

As a matter of fact, there is a "woman's sphere," clearly defined and quite different from his; there is also a "man's sphere," just as clearly defined and even more limited; but there still exists a shared sphere—that of humanity, which belongs to both equally.

In the earlier part of what is known as "the woman's movement," it was sharply opposed on the ground that women would become "unsexed." Let us note in passing that they have become unsexed in one particular, most glaringly so, and that no one has noticed or objected to it.

In the early days of what we call "the women's movement," it faced strong opposition because people believed women would become "unsexed." It's worth mentioning that they have indeed become unsexed in one obvious way, and yet no one has noticed or complained about it.

As part of our androcentric culture we may point to the peculiar reversal of sex characteristics which make the human female carry the burden of ornament. She alone, of all human creatures, has adopted the essentially masculine attribute of special sex-decoration; she does not fight for her mate as yet, but she blooms forth as the peacock and bird of paradise, in poignant reversal of nature's laws, even wearing masculine feathers to further her feminine ends.

As part of our male-centered culture, we can observe the strange reversal of gender traits that lead the human female to bear the weight of decoration. She alone, among all humans, has taken on the traditionally male characteristic of distinctive sexual adornment; she doesn’t compete for her mate yet, but instead, she showcases herself like a peacock or a bird of paradise, in striking opposition to nature's laws, even donning masculine feathers to enhance her feminine appeal.

Woman's natural work as a female is that of the mother; man's natural work as a male is that of the father; their mutual relation to this end being a source of joy and well-being when rightly held: but human work covers all our life outside of these specialties. Every handicraft, every profession, every science, every art, all normal amusements and recreations, all government, education, religion; the whole living world of human achievement: all this is human.

A woman's natural role is that of a mother, while a man's natural role is that of a father; their relationship towards this purpose brings joy and well-being when it’s understood correctly. However, human work encompasses all aspects of life beyond these specific roles. Every trade, every profession, every field of study, every art, all ordinary entertainment and leisure activities, all forms of governance, education, and religion; the entire scope of human achievement: all of this is part of being human.

That one sex should have monopolized all human activities, called them "man's work," and managed them as such, is what is meant by the phrase "Androcentric Culture."

That one gender should have dominated all human activities, labeled them "men's work," and managed them that way is what is referred to by the term "Androcentric Culture."





II. THE MAN-MADE FAMILY.

The family is older than humanity, and therefore cannot be called a human institution. A post office, now, is wholly human; no other creature has a post office, but there are families in plenty among birds and beasts; all kinds permanent and transient; monogamous, polygamous and polyandrous.

The family existed before humans, so it can't be labeled a human institution. A post office, on the other hand, is entirely a human creation; no other species has a post office. However, there are many families in the animal kingdom—among birds and beasts—of all sorts, both permanent and temporary; monogamous, polygamous, and polyandrous.

We are now to consider the growth of the family in humanity; what is its rational development in humanness; in mechanical, mental and social lines; in the extension of love and service; and the effect upon it of this strange new arrangement—a masculine proprietor.

We are now going to look at how the family grows in humanity; what its logical development is in being human; in physical, mental, and social aspects; in the expansion of love and service; and the impact of this unusual new structure—a male owner.

Like all natural institutions the family has a purpose; and is to be measured primarily as it serves that purpose; which is, the care and nurture of the young. To protect the helpless little ones, to feed and shelter them, to ensure them the benefits of an ever longer period of immaturity, and so to improve the race—this is the original purpose of the family.

Like all natural institutions, the family has a purpose and should primarily be measured by how well it serves that purpose, which is to care for and nurture the young. Its role is to protect the vulnerable little ones, provide them with food and shelter, ensure they enjoy an extended period of childhood, and thereby improve the future of humanity—this is the fundamental purpose of the family.

When a natural institution becomes human it enters the plane of consciousness. We think about it; and, in our strange new power of voluntary action do things to it. We have done strange things to the family; or, more specifically, men have.

When a natural institution becomes human, it steps into the realm of awareness. We contemplate it; and with our unique ability for intentional action, we influence it. We have done unusual things to the family; or, more precisely, men have.

Balsac, at his bitterest, observed, "Women's virtue is man's best invention." Balsac was wrong. Virtue—the unswerving devotion to one mate—is common among birds and some of the higher mammals. If Balsac meant celibacy when he said virtue, why that is one of man's inventions—though hardly his best.

Balsac, at his most cynical, noted, "A woman's virtue is man's greatest invention." Balsac was mistaken. Virtue—the unwavering commitment to one partner—is found in birds and some higher mammals. If Balsac meant celibacy when he referred to virtue, then that's one of man's inventions—though certainly not the best.

What man has done to the family, speaking broadly, is to change it from an institution for the best service of the child to one modified to his own service, the vehicle of his comfort, power and pride.

What people have done to the family, in general, is change it from being an institution that best serves the child to one that has been altered for their own benefit, a way to enhance their comfort, power, and pride.

Among the heavy millions of the stirred East, a child—necessarily a male child—is desired for the credit and glory of the father, and his fathers; in place of seeing that all a parent is for is the best service of the child. Ancestor worship, that gross reversal of all natural law, is of wholly androcentric origin. It is strongest among old patriarchal races; lingers on in feudal Europe; is to be traced even in America today in a few sporadic efforts to magnify the deeds of our ancestors.

Among the millions in the bustling East, a boy is often valued for the pride and honor of his father and his ancestors, instead of recognizing that a parent's true purpose is to serve the child's best interests. Ancestor worship, a complete distortion of natural law, comes from a male-centered perspective. It is most prominent among ancient patriarchal cultures, still exists in feudal Europe, and can even be seen today in America through occasional attempts to glorify our forefathers' achievements.

The best thing any of us can do for our ancestors is to be better than they were; and we ought to give our minds to it. When we use our past merely as a guide-book, and concentrate our noble emotions on the present and future, we shall improve more rapidly.

The best thing any of us can do for our ancestors is to be better than they were, and we should really focus on that. When we treat our past like a guide and direct our positive feelings towards the present and future, we'll improve much faster.

The peculiar changes brought about in family life by the predominance of the male are easily traced. In these studies we must keep clearly in mind the basic masculine characteristics: desire, combat, self-expression—all legitimate and right in proper use; only mischievous when excessive or out of place. Through them the male is led to strenuous competition for the favor of the female; in the overflowing ardours of song, as in nightingale and tomcat; in wasteful splendor of personal decoration, from the pheasant's breast to an embroidered waistcoat; and in direct struggle for the prize, from the stag's locked horns to the clashing spears of the tournament.

The strange changes in family life caused by male dominance are easy to see. In these studies, we need to remember the core masculine traits: desire, competition, self-expression—all are valid and right when used properly; they're only problematic when they're excessive or misdirected. These traits drive men to compete hard for female attention, whether it's through passionate displays of song, like a nightingale or a tomcat; through extravagant personal grooming, from a peacock's feathers to a fancy waistcoat; or in direct competition for the prize, from the locked horns of a stag to the jousting lances of a tournament.

It is earnestly hoped that no reader will take offence at the necessarily frequent, reference to these essential features of maleness. In the many books about women it is, naturally, their femaleness that has been studied and enlarged upon. And though women, after thousands of years of such discussion, have become a little restive under the constant use of the word female: men, as rational beings, should not object to an analogous study—at least not for some time—a few centuries or so.

It is sincerely hoped that no reader will be offended by the frequent references to these important aspects of being male. In the many books about women, it’s naturally their femininity that has been explored and discussed. And while women, after thousands of years of this kind of discussion, have started to feel a bit uneasy about the constant use of the term female, men, as rational beings, shouldn’t mind a similar study—at least not for a while—maybe a few centuries or so.

How, then, do we find these masculine tendencies, desire, combat and self-expression, affect the home and family when given too much power?

How do these masculine tendencies—like desire, aggression, and self-expression—impact the home and family when they become too dominant?

First comes the effect in the preliminary work of selection. One of the most uplifting forces of nature is that of sex selection. The males, numerous, varied, pouring a flood of energy into wide modifications, compete for the female, and she selects the victor, this securing to the race the new improvements.

First comes the impact in the initial process of selection. One of the most motivating forces in nature is sex selection. The males, abundant and diverse, channel a great deal of energy into various changes, competing for the female, who chooses the winner, ensuring that the species gains new enhancements.

In forming the proprietary family there is no such competition, no such selection. The man, by violence or by purchase, does the choosing—he selects the kind of woman that pleases him. Nature did not intend him to select; he is not good at it. Neither was the female intended to compete—she is not good at it.

In creating the proprietary family, there’s no competition or selection process. The man, through force or buying power, makes the choice—he picks the type of woman he finds appealing. Nature didn't mean for him to be the one making the selection; he's not skilled at it. And the woman wasn't meant to compete either—she's not good at that either.

If there is a race between males for a mate—the swiftest gets her first; but if one male is chasing a number of females he gets the slowest first. The one method improves our speed: the other does not. If males struggle and fight with one another for a mate, the strongest secures her; if the male struggles and fights with the female—(a peculiar and unnatural horror, known only among human beings) he most readily secures the weakest. The one method improves our strength—the other does not.

If males compete for a mate, the fastest one gets to her first; but if one male is pursuing several females, he ends up with the slowest one first. One method helps improve our speed, while the other doesn't. When males fight with each other for a mate, the strongest wins her; but if a male fights with a female—(a strange and unnatural horror, unique to humans)—he tends to get the weakest. One method enhances our strength, while the other does not.

When women became the property of men; sold and bartered; "given away" by their paternal owner to their marital owner; they lost this prerogative of the female, this primal duty of selection. The males were no longer improved by their natural competition for the female; and the females were not improved; because the male did not select for points of racial superiority, but for such qualities as pleased him.

When women became the property of men—sold and traded; "given away" by their fathers to their husbands—they lost their right to choose. Men no longer improved through natural competition for women, and women didn't benefit either, because men weren't choosing based on traits that indicated racial superiority, but rather based on what appealed to them.

There is a locality in northern Africa, where young girls are deliberately fed with a certain oily seed, to make them fat,—that they may be the more readily married,—as the men like fat wives. Among certain more savage African tribes the chief's wives are prepared for him by being kept in small dark huts and fed on "mealies" and molasses; precisely as a Strasbourg goose is fattened for the gourmand. Now fatness is not a desirable race characteristic; it does not add to the woman's happiness or efficiency; or to the child's; it is merely an accessory pleasant to the master; his attitude being much as the amorous monad ecstatically puts it, in Sill's quaint poem, "Five Lives,"

There’s a place in northern Africa where young girls are intentionally fed a specific oily seed to make them gain weight, so they can be married off more easily, since the men prefer heavier wives. In some more primitive African tribes, the chief's wives are prepared by being kept in small dark huts and fed on cornmeal and molasses, similar to how a Strasbourg goose is fattened for a foodie. However, being overweight isn’t a desirable trait; it doesn’t contribute to a woman's happiness or effectiveness, nor to a child's either; it’s just something that pleases the husband, much like the passionate monad joyfully expresses in Sill's quirky poem, "Five Lives,"

    "O the little female monad's lips!
     O the little female monad's eyes!
     O the little, little, female, female monad!"
"O the little female monad's lips!  
O the little female monad's eyes!  
O the little, little, female, female monad!"

This ultra littleness and ultra femaleness has been demanded and produced by our Androcentric Culture.

This extreme smallness and extreme femininity has been demanded and created by our male-centered culture.

Following this, and part of it, comes the effect on motherhood. This function was the original and legitimate base of family life; and its ample sustaining power throughout the long early period of "the mother-right;" or as we call it, the matriarchate; the father being her assistant in the great work. The patriarchate, with its proprietary family, changed this altogether; the woman, as the property of the man was considered first and foremost as a means of pleasure to him; and while she was still valued as a mother, it was in a tributary capacity. Her children were now his; his property, as she was; the whole enginery of the family was turned from its true use to this new one, hitherto unknown, the service of the adult male.

Following this, and part of it, comes the impact on motherhood. This role was the original and legitimate foundation of family life; it had a strong sustaining power throughout the long early period of "the mother-right," or as we now call it, the matriarchate, with the father acting as her helper in this important work. The patriarchate, with its proprietary family, changed everything; the woman, seen as the property of the man, was primarily considered a source of pleasure for him. While she was still valued as a mother, it was in a secondary role. Her children became his; his property, just as she was; the entire structure of the family was shifted from its true purpose to this new one, which had never been seen before: serving the adult male.

To this day we are living under the influence of the proprietary family. The duty of the wife is held to involve man-service as well as child-service, and indeed far more; as the duty of the wife to the husband quite transcends the duty of the mother to the child.

To this day, we are still living under the influence of the owning family. The wife's responsibilities are seen to include serving her husband as well as caring for the children, and in fact, much more; the wife's obligations to her husband go well beyond a mother’s responsibilities to her child.

See for instance the English wife staying with her husband in India and sending the children home to be brought up; because India is bad for children. See our common law that the man decides the place of residence; if the wife refuses to go with him to howsoever unfit a place for her and for the little ones, such refusal on her part constitutes "desertion" and is ground for divorce.

See, for example, the English wife living with her husband in India while sending the children back home to be raised there because India isn't suitable for kids. Notice our common law that states the man determines where they live; if the wife refuses to move with him to any place that might be unsafe for her and the kids, her refusal counts as "desertion" and can be a reason for divorce.

See again the idea that the wife must remain with the husband though a drunkard, or diseased; regardless of the sin against the child involved in such a relation. Public feeling on these matters is indeed changing; but as a whole the ideals of the man-made family still obtain.

See again the idea that the wife has to stay with the husband even if he’s a drunk or unwell, no matter the harm this does to the child in such a relationship. Public opinion on these issues is definitely changing; however, the ideals of the traditional family still prevail overall.

The effect of this on the woman has been inevitably to weaken and overshadow her sense of the real purpose of the family; of the relentless responsibilities of her duty as a mother. She is first taught duty to her parents, with heavy religious sanction; and then duty to her husband, similarly buttressed; but her duty to her children has been left to instinct. She is not taught in girlhood as to her preeminent power and duty as a mother; her young ideals are all of devotion to the lover and husband: with only the vaguest sense of results.

The impact of this on women has inevitably weakened and overshadowed their understanding of the true purpose of family and the unending responsibilities that come with being a mother. They are taught to prioritize duty to their parents, with strong religious backing, and then duty to their husbands, also reinforced; however, their duty to their children is left to instinct. From a young age, they aren’t educated about their significant power and responsibility as mothers; their ideals focus primarily on devotion to their partner and husband, with only a vague awareness of the consequences.

The young girl is reared in what we call "innocence;" poetically described as "bloom;" and this condition is held one of her chief "charms." The requisite is wholly androcentric. This "innocence" does not enable her to choose a husband wisely; she does not even know the dangers that possibly confront her. We vaguely imagine that her father or brother, who do know, will protect her. Unfortunately the father and brother, under our current "double standard" of morality do not judge the applicants as she would if she knew the nature of their offenses.

The young girl is raised in what we call "innocence," poetically referred to as "bloom," and this state is seen as one of her main "charms." This requirement is entirely male-centered. This "innocence" doesn’t help her choose a husband wisely; she doesn’t even recognize the potential dangers around her. We somewhat assume that her father or brother, who are aware, will look out for her. Unfortunately, the father and brother, under our current "double standard" of morality, don’t evaluate the suitors as she would if she understood the nature of their offenses.

Furthermore, if her heart is set on one of them, no amount of general advice and opposition serves to prevent her marrying him. "I love him!" she says, sublimely. "I do not care what he has done. I will forgive him. I will save him!"

Furthermore, if her heart is set on one of them, no amount of general advice or opposition will stop her from marrying him. "I love him!" she says, passionately. "I don't care what he has done. I will forgive him. I will save him!"

This state of mind serves to forward the interests of the lover, but is of no advantage to the children. We have magnified the duties of the wife, and minified the duties of the mother; and this is inevitable in a family relation every law and custom of which is arranged from the masculine viewpoint.

This mindset benefits the lover, but does nothing for the children. We have blown up the responsibilities of the wife while downplaying those of the mother. This is unavoidable in a family dynamic where every rule and tradition is shaped by a male perspective.

From this same viewpoint, equally essential to the proprietary family, comes the requirement that the woman shall serve the man. Her service is not that of the associate and equal, as when she joins him in his business. It is not that of a beneficial combination, as when she practices another business and they share the profits; it is not even that of the specialist, as the service of a tailor or barber; it is personal service—the work of a servant.

From this same perspective, it's just as important for the woman to serve the man. Her role isn’t that of a partner or an equal, like when she works alongside him in his business. It’s not a mutually beneficial arrangement, like when she runs her own business and they split the profits; it’s not even the role of a specialist, like a tailor or a barber; it’s personal service—the work of a servant.

In large generalization, the women of the world cook and wash, sweep and dust, sew and mend, for the men.

In general terms, women around the world cook, clean, sweep, dust, sew, and mend for men.

We are so accustomed to this relation; have held it for so long to be the "natural" relation, that it is difficult indeed to show that it is distinctly unnatural and injurious. The father expects to be served by the daughter, a service quite different from what he expects of the son. This shows at once that such service is no integral part of motherhood, or even of marriage; but is supposed to be the proper industrial position of women, as such.

We are so used to this relationship; we've accepted it as the "natural" way for so long that it's truly challenging to demonstrate that it's actually unnatural and harmful. The father expects to be taken care of by the daughter, which is very different from what he expects from the son. This immediately indicates that such care isn't a core part of motherhood or even marriage; rather, it's assumed to be the expected role of women in general.

Why is this so? Why, on the face of it, given a daughter and a son, should a form of service be expected of the one, which would be considered ignominious by the other?

Why is that? Why, at first glance, should a daughter be expected to provide a certain kind of service that would be seen as shameful for a son?

The underlying reason is this. Industry, at its base, is a feminine function. The surplus energy of the mother does not manifest itself in noise, or combat, or display, but in productive industry. Because of her mother-power she became the first inventor and laborer; being in truth the mother of all industry as well as all people.

The main point is this. At its core, industry is a feminine role. A mother's extra energy doesn't show up as noise, conflict, or spectacle, but rather in productive work. Because of her nurturing power, she was the first inventor and worker; she is truly the mother of all industry as well as all humanity.

Man's entrance upon industry is late and reluctant; as will be shown later in treating his effect on economics. In this field of family life, his effect was as follows:

Man's entry into industry came late and with hesitation, as will be discussed later when addressing his impact on economics. In the realm of family life, his influence was as follows:

Establishing the proprietary family at an age when the industry was primitive and domestic; and thereafter confining the woman solely to the domestic area, he thereby confined her to primitive industry. The domestic industries, in the hands of women, constitute a survival of our remotest past. Such work was "woman's work" as was all the work then known; such work is still considered woman's work because they have been prevented from doing any other.

Establishing a family business at a time when the industry was basic and home-based, and then restricting women solely to the home, kept them tied to outdated work. The domestic jobs women handle are a remnant of our ancient history. This type of work was seen as “women's work,” just like all the work that existed back then; it’s still viewed as women's work today because they've been barred from pursuing any other options.

The term "domestic industry" does not define a certain kind of labor, but a certain grade of labor. Architecture was a domestic industry once—when every savage mother set up her own tepee. To be confined to domestic industry is no proper distinction of womanhood; it is an historic distinction, an economic distinction, it sets a date and limit to woman's industrial progress.

The term "domestic industry" doesn't refer to a specific type of labor but rather a certain level of labor. Architecture used to be a domestic industry—back when every mother built her own tepee. Being limited to domestic industry is not a true definition of womanhood; it's a historical distinction, an economic distinction, which puts a date and a limit on women's industrial progress.

In this respect the man-made family has resulted in arresting the development of half the field. We have a world wherein men, industrially, live in the twentieth century; and women, industrially, live in the first—and back of it.

In this regard, the constructed family has hindered the progress of half the field. We have a world where men, in terms of industry, are living in the twentieth century, while women, industrially, are stuck in the first century—and even before that.

To the same source we trace the social and educational limitations set about women. The dominant male, holding his women as property, and fiercely jealous of them, considering them always as his, not belonging to themselves, their children, or the world; has hedged them in with restrictions of a thousand sorts; physical, as in the crippled Chinese lady or the imprisoned odalisque; moral, as in the oppressive doctrines of submission taught by all our androcentric religions; mental, as in the enforced ignorance from which women are now so swiftly emerging.

To the same source, we can trace the social and educational limitations imposed on women. The dominant male sees women as his property and is fiercely protective of them, viewing them as his rather than as individuals with their own rights, children, or role in the world. He has surrounded them with countless restrictions—physical, like the disabled Chinese woman or the confined odalisque; moral, from the oppressive teachings of submission found in all our male-centered religions; and mental, from the forced ignorance that women are now rapidly overcoming.

This abnormal restriction of women has necessarily injured motherhood. The man, free, growing in the world's growth, has mounted with the centuries, filling an ever wider range of world activities. The woman, bound, has not so grown; and the child is born to a progressive fatherhood and a stationary motherhood. Thus the man-made family reacts unfavorably upon the child. We rob our children of half their social heredity by keeping the mother in an inferior position; however legalized, hallowed, or ossified by time, the position of a domestic servant is inferior.

This unfair restriction on women has harmed motherhood. The man, being free and evolving with the world's changes, has expanded his role in society over the centuries. The woman, being constrained, hasn't developed in the same way; as a result, the child grows up with an advancing father and a stagnant mother. This male-dominated family has a negative impact on the child. By keeping mothers in a subordinate role—regardless of whether that role is legalized, revered, or outdated—we deprive our children of half their social heritage because the role of a domestic servant is inherently inferior.

It is for this reason that child culture is at so low a level, and for the most part utterly unknown. Today, when the forces of education are steadily working nearer to the cradle, a new sense is wakening of the importance of the period of infancy, and its wiser treatment; yet those who know of such a movement are few, and of them some are content to earn easy praise—and pay—by belittling right progress to gratify the prejudices of the ignorant.

It’s for this reason that child culture is at such a low level and mostly unknown. Today, as educational efforts are increasingly reaching closer to infancy, there’s a new awareness of the importance of early childhood and its better care. However, those who are aware of this movement are few, and some among them are satisfied with gaining easy praise—and money—by diminishing real progress just to please the biases of the uninformed.

The whole position is simple and clear; and easily traceable to its root. Given a proprietary family, where the man holds the woman primarily for his satisfaction and service—then necessarily he shuts her up and keeps her for these purposes. Being so kept, she cannot develop humanly, as he has, through social contact, social service, true social life. (We may note in passing, her passionate fondness for the child-game called "society" she has been allowed to entertain herself withal; that poor simiacrum of real social life, in which people decorate themselves and madly crowd together, chattering, for what is called "entertainment.") Thus checked in social development, we have but a low grade motherhood to offer our children; and the children, reared in the primitive conditions thus artificially maintained, enter life with a false perspective, not only toward men and women, but toward life as a whole.

The whole situation is straightforward and easy to trace back to its origin. In a family structure where the man primarily sees the woman as a source of his own satisfaction and service, he inevitably confines her for those purposes. Being kept this way, she can't develop as a person like he has, through social interactions, contribution to society, and genuine social experiences. (It’s worth mentioning her enthusiastic interest in the child-like game called "society" that she’s been allowed to engage in; that poor imitation of real social life, where people dress up and gather together, chatting away for what’s referred to as "entertainment.") With her social growth stunted, we can only provide our children with a limited understanding of motherhood. As a result, the children raised in these artificially maintained, primitive conditions enter life with a distorted view—not just of men and women, but of life as a whole.

The child should receive in the family, full preparation for his relation to the world at large. His whole life must be spent in the world, serving it well or ill; and youth is the time to learn how. But the androcentric home cannot teach him. We live to-day in a democracy-the man-made family is a despotism. It may be a weak one; the despot may be dethroned and overmastered by his little harem of one; but in that case she becomes the despot—that is all. The male is esteemed "the head of the family;" it belongs to him; he maintains it; and the rest of the world is a wide hunting ground and battlefield wherein he competes with other males as of old.

The child should receive complete preparation in the family for his connection to the wider world. He will spend his entire life in that world, either contributing positively or negatively; youth is the time to learn how to navigate it. But a male-focused home can’t teach him that. We live in a democracy today—the traditional family structure is a form of dictatorship. It might be a weak one; the leader may be overpowered by his small harem of one; but then she becomes the dictator—that's all. The male is regarded as "the head of the family;" it's his domain; he supports it; and the rest of the world is a vast hunting ground and battleground where he competes with other males as in the past.

The girl-child, peering out, sees this forbidden field as belonging wholly to men-kind; and her relation to it is to secure one for herself—not only that she may love, but that she may live. He will feed, clothe and adorn her—she will serve him; from the subjection of the daughter to that of the wife she steps; from one home to the other, and never enters the world at all—man's world.

The girl, looking out, sees this forbidden field as completely belonging to men; her role in it is to find one for herself—not just so she can love, but so she can survive. He will provide for her—clothing and adornments—while she will take care of him; she moves from being a daughter to becoming a wife, shifting from one home to another, never really entering the world—men's world.

The boy, on the other hand, considers the home as a place of women, an inferior place, and longs to grow up and leave it—for the real world. He is quite right. The error is that this great social instinct, calling for full social exercise, exchange, service, is considered masculine, whereas it is human, and belongs to boy and girl alike.

The boy, on the other hand, thinks of home as a place for women, a lesser place, and can't wait to grow up and leave it—for the real world. He’s totally right. The mistake is that this strong social instinct, which demands full social engagement, exchange, and service, is seen as masculine when it's actually human and belongs to both boys and girls.

The child is affected first through the retarded development of his mother, then through the arrested condition of home industry; and further through the wrong ideals which have arisen from these conditions. A normal home, where there was human equality between mother and father, would have a better influence.

The child is impacted first by the slow development of his mother, then by the stagnant state of home life; and additionally by the misguided ideals that have emerged from these situations. A healthy home, where there is equality between mother and father, would have a more positive influence.

We must not overlook the effect of the proprietary family on the proprietor himself. He, too, has been held back somewhat by this reactionary force. In the process of becoming human we must learn to recognize justice, freedom, human rights; we must learn self-control and to think of others; have minds that grow and broaden rationally; we must learn the broad mutual interservice and unbounded joy of social intercourse and service. The petty despot of the man-made home is hindered in his humanness by too much manness.

We can’t ignore how the family dynamics affect the owner himself. He, too, has been somewhat restricted by this backward force. In our journey to become more human, we need to understand justice, freedom, and human rights; we must develop self-control and consider others; we should have minds that expand and grow rationally; we need to learn the deep mutual support and limitless joy of social connections and service. The small tyrant of a constructed household is limited in his humanity by excessive masculinity.

For each man to have one whole woman to cook for and wait upon him is a poor education for democracy. The boy with a servile mother, the man with a servile wife, cannot reach the sense of equal rights we need to-day. Too constant consideration of the master's tastes makes the master selfish; and the assault upon his heart direct, or through that proverbial side-avenue, the stomach, which the dependent woman needs must make when she wants anything, is bad for the man, as well as for her.

For every man to have one woman dedicated to cooking for him and serving him is a poor lesson in democracy. A boy with a subservient mother and a man with a subservient wife can't grasp the equal rights we need today. Constantly catering to the master's preferences makes him selfish; and when the dependent woman wants something, the way she has to appeal to his heart directly or through that well-known route, the stomach, is harmful to both him and her.

We are slowly forming a nobler type of family; the union of two, based on love and recognized by law, maintained because of its happiness and use. We are even now approaching a tenderness and permanence of love, high pure enduring love; combined with the broad deep-rooted friendliness and comradeship of equals; which promises us more happiness in marriage than we have yet known. It will be good for all the parties concerned—man, woman and child: and promote our general social progress admirably.

We are gradually creating a better kind of family; a partnership between two people, grounded in love and legally recognized, lasting because of its joy and usefulness. We are even getting closer to a kind of love that is tender and lasting, a true, pure, enduring love; mixed with the deep-rooted friendship and camaraderie of equals; which promises us more happiness in marriage than we’ve experienced so far. This will benefit everyone involved—man, woman, and child—and will greatly enhance our overall social progress.

If it needs "a head" it will elect a chairman pro tem. Friendship does not need "a head." Love does not need "a head." Why should a family?

If it needs "a head," it will elect a temporary chairperson. Friendship doesn’t need "a head." Love doesn’t need "a head." So why should a family?





III. HEALTH AND BEAUTY.

     NOTE—The word "Androcentric" we owe to Prof. Lester F.
     Ward.  In his book, "Pure Sociology," Chap. 14, he describes
     the Androcentric Theory of life, hitherto universally
     accepted; and introduces his own "Gyneacocentric Theory."
     All who are interested in the deeper scientific aspects of
     this question are urged to read that chapter. Prof. Ward's
     theory is to my mind the most important that has been
     offered the world since the Theory of Evolution; and without
     exception the most important that has ever been put forward
     concerning women.
     NOTE—The term "Androcentric" comes from Prof. Lester F. Ward. In his book, "Pure Sociology," Chap. 14, he discusses the Androcentric Theory of life, which has been widely accepted until now; and he presents his own "Gyneacocentric Theory." Anyone interested in the deeper scientific aspects of this topic is encouraged to read that chapter. In my opinion, Prof. Ward's theory is the most significant idea presented to the world since the Theory of Evolution; and without a doubt, the most important ever proposed regarding women.

Among the many paradoxes which we find in human life is our low average standard of health and beauty, compared with our power and knowledge. All creatures suffer from conflict with the elements; from enemies without and within—the prowling devourers of the forest, and "the terror that walketh in darkness" and attacks the body from inside, in hidden millions.

Among the many contradictions we see in human life is how our average level of health and beauty is so low compared to our abilities and knowledge. All living beings face struggles with the environment; from outside threats and internal ones—the lurking predators of the wild, and "the fear that walks in darkness," which attacks the body from within, in unseen millions.

Among wild animals generally, there is a certain standard of excellence; if you shoot a bear or a bird, it is a fair sample of the species; you do not say, "O what an ugly one!" or "This must have been an invalid!"

Among wild animals in general, there’s a certain standard of quality; if you shoot a bear or a bird, it's a typical example of the species; you wouldn't say, "Oh, what an ugly one!" or "This must have been a sick one!"

Where we have domesticated any animal, and interfered with its natural habits, illness has followed; the dog is said to have the most diseases second to man; the horse comes next; but the wild ones put us to shame by their superior health and the beauty that belongs to right development.

Wherever we have domesticated animals and disrupted their natural behaviors, illness has resulted; the dog is said to have more diseases than any other animal except for humans; the horse comes next; but wild animals put us to shame with their better health and the beauty that comes from proper development.

In our long ages of blind infancy we assume that sickness was a visitation frown the gods; some still believe this, holding it to be a special prerogative of divinity to afflict us in this way. We speak of "the ills that flesh is heir to" as if the inheritance was entailed and inalienable. Only of late years, after much study and long struggle with this old belief which made us submit to sickness as a blow from the hand of God, we are beginning to learn something of the many causes of our many diseases, and how to remove some of them.

In our long period of ignorance, we assumed that illness was a punishment from the gods; some still think this, believing it's a special privilege of the divine to afflict us this way. We talk about "the ills that flesh is heir to" as if this inheritance is guaranteed and unchangeable. Only recently, after extensive research and a long fight against this old belief that made us accept illness as a strike from God, are we starting to understand the various causes of our many diseases and how to eliminate some of them.

It is still true, however, that almost every one of us is to some degree abnormal; the features asymmetrical, the vision defective, the digestion unreliable, the nervous system erratic—we are but a job lot even in what we call "good health"; and are subject to a burden of pain and premature death that would make life hideous if it were not so ridiculously unnecessary.

It’s still true, though, that almost all of us are, to some extent, abnormal; our features are asymmetrical, our vision isn’t perfect, our digestion is unpredictable, and our nervous systems can be erratic—we're a mixed bag even in what we refer to as "good health"; and we carry a weight of pain and early death that would make life unbearable if it weren't so absurdly unnecessary.

As to beauty—we do not think of expecting it save in the rarely exceptional case. Look at the faces—the figures—in any crowd you meet; compare the average man or the average woman with the normal type of human beauty as given us in picture and statue; and consider if there is not some general cause for so general a condition of ugliness.

When it comes to beauty, we don’t really expect to see it except in rare exceptions. Look at the faces and bodies in any crowd you come across; compare the average man or woman with the typical standard of human beauty depicted in pictures and sculptures. You have to wonder if there’s a common reason for this widespread lack of attractiveness.

Moreover, leaving our defective bodies concealed by garments; what are those garments, as conducive to health and beauty? Is the practical ugliness of our men's attire, and the impractical absurdity of our women's, any contribution to human beauty? Look at our houses—are they beautiful? Even the houses of the rich?

Moreover, hiding our flawed bodies under clothing; what do those clothes really do for our health and attractiveness? Do the unappealing outfits of men and the impractical styles of women add anything to human beauty? Take a look at our homes—are they beautiful? Even the homes of the wealthy?

We do not even know that we ought to live in a world of overflowing loveliness; and that our contribution to it should be the loveliest of all. We are so sodden in the dull ugliness of our interiors, so used to calling a tame weary low-toned color scheme "good taste," that only children dare frankly yearn for Beauty—and they are speedily educated out of it.

We don’t even realize that we should be living in a world full of beauty, and that we should be contributing the most beautiful things of all. We are so soaked in the boring ugliness of our surroundings, so accustomed to calling a dull, muted color scheme "good taste," that only kids are bold enough to openly long for Beauty—and they are quickly trained out of it.

The reasons specially given for our low standards of health and beauty are ignorance, poverty, and the evil effects of special trades. The Man with the Hoe becomes brother to the ox because of over-much hoeing; the housepainter is lead-poisoned because of his painting; books have been written to show the injurious influence of nearly all our industries upon workers.

The main reasons cited for our poor health and beauty standards are lack of knowledge, poverty, and the harmful impacts of certain jobs. The Man with the Hoe ends up like an ox due to excessive hoeing; housepainters suffer from lead poisoning because of their work; books have been written to highlight the negative effects of almost all our industries on workers.

These causes are sound as far as they go; but do not cover the whole ground.

These reasons are valid up to a point, but they don't cover everything.

The farmer may be muscle-bound and stooping from his labor; but that does not account for his dyspepsia or his rheumatism.

The farmer might be incredibly strong and bent over from all his hard work, but that doesn’t explain his indigestion or his arthritis.

Then we allege poverty as covering all. Poverty does cover a good deal. But when we find even a half-fed savage better developed than a well paid cashier; and a poor peasant woman a more vigorous mother than the idle wife of a rich man, poverty is not enough.

Then we claim that poverty encompasses everything. Poverty does cover quite a bit. But when we see that even a half-fed savage is better developed than a well-paid cashier, and a poor peasant woman is a more vigorous mother than the idle wife of a rich man, poverty is not sufficient.

Then we say ignorance explains it. But there are most learned professors who are ugly and asthmathic; there are even doctors who can boast no beauty and but moderate health; there are some of the petted children of the wealthy, upon whom every care is lavished from birth, and who still are ill to look at and worse to marry.

Then we say ignorance is the reason for it. But there are plenty of highly educated professors who are unattractive and have asthma; there are even doctors who can't claim any beauty and only have average health; there are some of the spoiled kids of the rich, who have had every possible care taken of them since birth, and yet they are still hard to look at and worse to marry.

All these special causes are admitted, given their due share in lowering our standards, but there is another far more universal in its application and its effects. Let us look back on our little ancestors the beasts, and see what keeps them so true to type.

All these specific reasons are acknowledged, contributing their part in lowering our standards, but there's another cause that is much more universal in its impact. Let's reflect on our small ancestors, the animals, and examine what keeps them so consistent in their nature.

The type itself set by that balance of conditions and forces we call "natural selection." As the environment changes they must be adapted to it, if they cannot so adapt themselves they die. Those who live are, by living, proven capable of maintaining themselves. Every creature which has remained on earth, while so many less effective kinds died out, remains as a conqueror. The speed of the deer—the constant use of speed—is what keeps it alive and makes it healthy and beautiful. The varied activities of the life of a leopard are what have developed the sinuous gracile strength we so admire. It is what the creature does for its living, its daily life-long exercise which makes it what it is.

The type itself is shaped by the balance of conditions and forces we call "natural selection." As the environment changes, they need to adapt to it; if they can’t, they die. Those who survive prove that they can sustain themselves. Every creature that has survived on Earth, while many less effective kinds have gone extinct, remains a victor. The speed of the deer—the constant use of its speed—is what keeps it alive and makes it healthy and beautiful. The various activities in the life of a leopard have developed the graceful, strong physique we admire. It's what the creature does to survive, its daily physical activity that defines what it is.

But there is another great natural force which works steadily to keep all animals up to the race standard; that is sexual selection. Throughout nature the male is the variant, as we have already noted. His energy finds vent not only in that profuse output of decorative appendages Ward defines as "masculine efflorescence" but in variations not decorative, not useful or desirable at all.

But there’s another powerful natural force that consistently works to keep all animals at their best: sexual selection. In nature, the male is the one that varies, as we’ve already mentioned. His energy expresses itself not just in the elaborate decorations that Ward calls "masculine efflorescence," but also in variations that aren’t decorative, useful, or desirable in any way.

The female, on the other hand, varies much less, remaining nearer the race type; and her function is to select among these varying males the specimens most valuable to the race. In the intense masculine competition the victor must necessarily be stronger than his fellows; he is first proven equal to his environment by having lived to grow up, then more than equal to his fellows by overcoming them. This higher grade of selection also develops not only the characteristics necessary to make a living; but secondary ones, often of a purely aesthetic nature, which make much of what we call beauty. Between the two, all who live must be up to a certain grade, and those who become parents must be above it; a masterly arrangement surely!

The female, on the other hand, changes a lot less, staying closer to the typical traits of the species; her role is to choose the most valuable males for the species. In the fierce competition among males, the winner has to be stronger than his peers; he first proves himself capable of surviving by reaching adulthood, and then shows he's better than the others by defeating them. This advanced selection not only strengthens the traits necessary for survival, but also develops secondary traits, often related to aesthetics, which contribute to what we consider beauty. Everyone who survives must meet a certain standard, and those who become parents have to exceed it; quite a smart system!

Here is where, during the period of our human history, we in our newborn consciousness and imperfect knowledge, have grievously interfered with the laws of nature. The ancient proprietary family, treating the woman as a slave, keeping her a prisoner and subject to the will of her master, cut her off at once from the exercise of those activities which alone develop and maintain the race type.

Here is where, during our human history, we, in our newfound awareness and limited understanding, have seriously disrupted the laws of nature. The traditional family system, treating women like property and keeping them as captives under the authority of their husbands, immediately deprived them of the ability to engage in the activities that foster and sustain the identity of our species.

Take the one simple quality of speed. We are a creature built for speed, a free swift graceful animal; and among savages this is still seen—the capacity for running, mile after mile, hour after hour. Running is as natural a gait for genus homo as for genus cervus. Now suppose among deer, the doe was prohibited from running; the stag continuing free on the mountain; the doe living in caves and pens, unequal to any exercise. The effect on the species would be, inevitably, to reduce its speed.

Take the one simple quality of speed. We are creatures built for speed, free, swift, and graceful animals; and among uncivilized people, this is still evident—the ability to run mile after mile, hour after hour. Running is as natural a movement for genus homo as it is for genus cervus. Now imagine if, among deer, the female was not allowed to run; while the male continued to roam freely on the mountain, the female confined to caves and pens, unable to exercise. The impact on the species would inevitably be a decrease in its speed.

In this way, by keeping women to one small range of duties, and in most cases housebound, we have interfered with natural selection and its resultant health and beauty. It can easily be seen what the effect on the race would have been if all men had been veiled and swathed, hidden in harems, kept to the tent or house, and confined to the activities of a house-servant. Our stalwart laborers, our proud soldiers, our athletes, would never have appeared under such circumstances. The confinement to the house alone, cutting women off from sunshine and air, is by itself an injury; and the range of occupation allowed them is not such as to develop a high standard of either health or beauty. Thus we have cut off half the race from the strengthening influence of natural selection, and so lowered our race-standards in large degree.

In this way, by limiting women to a narrow set of responsibilities and often keeping them at home, we have disrupted natural selection and its effects on health and beauty. It’s easy to see how the race would have been affected if all men were hidden away, covered up, and confined to the house, living like servants. Our strong laborers, proud soldiers, and athletes wouldn’t have emerged under those conditions. Just being stuck indoors, away from sunlight and fresh air, is harmful enough, and the limited job options available to them don’t support a high standard of health or beauty. Thus, we have excluded half the population from the positive effects of natural selection, which has significantly lowered our overall standards as a race.

This alone, however, would not have hid such mischievous effects but for our further blunder in completely reversing nature's order of sexual selection. It is quite possible that even under confinement and restriction women could have kept up the race level, passably, through this great function of selection; but here is the great fundamental error of the Androcentric Culture. Assuming to be the possessor of women, their owner and master, able at will to give, buy and sell, or do with as he pleases, man became the selector.

This alone, however, wouldn't have hidden such harmful effects if it weren't for our further mistake in completely reversing nature's order of sexual selection. It's quite possible that even in confinement and restriction, women could have maintained the population level reasonably well through this important function of selection; but here lies the major fundamental error of Androcentric Culture. By assuming he owned women, controlling them and having the power to give, buy, sell, or do as he wished, man became the selector.

It seems a simple change; and in those early days, wholly ignorant of natural laws, there was no suspicion that any mischief would result. In the light of modern knowledge, however, the case is clear. The woman was deprived of the beneficent action of natural selection, and the man was then, by his own act, freed from the stern but elevating effect of sexual selection. Nothing was required of the woman by natural selection save such capacity as should please her master; nothing was required of the man by sexual selection save power to take by force, or buy, a woman.

It seems like a straightforward change; back then, completely unaware of natural laws, no one suspected any harm would come from it. However, with today’s understanding, the situation is clear. The woman was deprived of the positive influence of natural selection, and the man, through his own actions, was released from the harsh but uplifting effects of sexual selection. Natural selection required nothing from the woman except the ability to please her partner; sexual selection required nothing from the man except the strength to take a woman by force or to buy her.

It does not take a very high standard of feminine intelligence, strength, skill, health, or beauty to be a houseservant, or even a housekeeper; witness the average.

It doesn't require a high level of feminine intelligence, strength, skill, health, or beauty to be a house servant, or even a housekeeper; just look at the average.

It does not take a very high standard of masculine, intelligence, strength, skill, health or beauty to maintain a woman in that capacity—witness average.

It doesn't require a very high level of masculinity, intelligence, strength, skill, health, or beauty to keep a woman in that role—just look at the average.

Here at the very root of our physiological process, at the beginning of life, we have perverted the order of nature, and are suffering the consequences.

Here at the very core of our biological process, at the start of life, we've twisted the natural order and are facing the repercussions.

It has been held by some that man as the selector has developed beauty, more beauty than we had before; and we point to the charms of our women as compared with those of the squaw. The answer to this is that the squaw belongs to a decadent race; that she too is subject to the man, that the comparison to have weight should be made between our women and the women of the matriarchate—an obvious impossibility. We have not on earth women in a state of normal freedom and full development; but we have enough difference in their placing to learn that human strength and beauty grows with woman's freedom and activity.

Some people believe that humans, as the ones choosing, have created more beauty than ever before; we can see this in the allure of our women compared to that of the squaw. However, the response to this is that the squaw comes from a declining race; she is also under the influence of men, and for a valid comparison, it should be made between our women and the women from a matriarchal society—something that is clearly impossible. There are no women on earth who are fully free and fully developed; however, we can see enough differences in their circumstances to understand that human strength and beauty increase with women's freedom and involvement.

The second answer is that much of what man calls beauty in woman is not human beauty at all, but gross overdevelopment of certain points which appeal to him as a male. The excessive fatness, previously referred to, is a case in point; that being considered beauty in a woman which is in reality an element of weakness, inefficiency and ill-health. The relatively small size of women, deliberately preferred, steadfastly chosen, and so built into the race, is a blow at real human progress in every particular. In our upward journey we should and do grow larger, leaving far behind us our dwarfish progenitors. Yet the male, in his unnatural position as selector, preferring for reasons both practical and sentimental, to have "his woman" smaller than himself, has deliberately striven to lower the standard of size in the race. We used to read in the novels of the last generation, "He was a magnificent specimen of manhood"—"Her golden head reached scarcely to his shoulder"—"She was a fairy creature—the tiniest of her sex." Thus we have mated, and yet expected that by some hocus pocus the boys would all "take after their father," and the girls, their mother. In his efforts to improve the breed of other animals, man has never tried to deliberately cross the large and small and expect to keep up the standard of size.

The second point is that a lot of what people consider beauty in women isn't true human beauty at all, but rather an exaggerated development of certain traits that attract men. The excessive fatness mentioned earlier is a perfect example; what’s deemed beautiful in a woman is actually a sign of weakness, inefficiency, and poor health. The relatively smaller size of women, which is purposely preferred and ingrained in the population, undermines real human progress in every way. As we evolve, we should and do grow larger, leaving our small ancestors behind. However, the male, in his unusual role as the chooser, prefers "his woman" to be smaller than himself, and has intentionally worked to lower the standard of size in the population. We used to read in novels from previous generations, "He was a magnificent specimen of manhood"—"Her golden hair barely touched his shoulder"—"She was a delicate creature—the tiniest of her kind." This is how we have paired up, yet still expected that somehow all the boys would "take after their father," and the girls, their mother. In his attempts to improve the breeding of other animals, man has never tried to intentionally mix large and small breeds and expect to maintain the standard size.

As a male he is appealed to by the ultra-feminine, and has given small thought to effects on the race. He was not designed to do the selecting. Under his fostering care we have bred a race of women who are physically weak enough to be handed about like invalids; or mentally weak enough to pretend they are—and to like it. We have made women who respond so perfectly to the force which made them, that they attach all their idea of beauty to those characteristics which attract men; sometimes humanly ugly without even knowing it.

As a man, he is drawn to the ultra-feminine and hasn’t really thought about the impact on society. He wasn’t meant to be the one making choices. Under his care, we’ve raised a generation of women who are physically fragile enough to be treated like invalids, or mentally weak enough to pretend and actually enjoy it. We’ve created women who respond so well to the influences shaping them that they link their entire concept of beauty to the traits that attract men, sometimes even becoming unattractive in a human sense without realizing it.

For instance, our long restriction to house-limits, the heavy limitations of our clothing, and the heavier ones of traditional decorum, have made women disproportionately short-legged. This is a particularly undignified and injurious characteristic, bred in women and inherited by men, most seen among those races which keep their women most closely. Yet when one woman escapes the tendency and appears with a normal length of femur and tibia, a normal height of hip and shoulder, she is criticized and called awkward by her squatty sisters!

For example, our long confinement to the home, the strict limitations on our clothing, and the even stricter rules of traditional decorum have led to women being disproportionately short-legged. This is an especially undignified and harmful trait, developed in women and passed on to men, most apparent among those cultures that restrict their women the most. Yet when one woman breaks free from this trend and has a normal length of thigh and shin, a normal height of hip and shoulder, she is criticized and called awkward by her shorter peers!

The most convenient proof of the inferiority of women in human beauty is shown by those composite statues prepared by Mr. Sargent for the World's Fair of '93. These were made from gymnasium measurements of thousands of young collegians of both sexes all over America. The statue of the girl has a pretty face, small hands and feet, rather nice arms, though weak; but the legs are too thick and short; the chest and shoulders poor; and the trunk is quite pitiful in its weakness. The figure of the man is much better proportioned.

The easiest proof of women's lesser beauty compared to men is shown through the composite statues made by Mr. Sargent for the World's Fair of '93. These statues were created using gym measurements from thousands of young college students of both genders across America. The girl statue has a pretty face, small hands and feet, and reasonably nice but weak arms; however, her legs are too thick and short, her chest and shoulders are lacking, and the overall trunk appears quite weak. The male statue is much better proportioned.

Thus the effect on human beauty of masculine selection.

Thus, the impact of male selection on human beauty.

Beyond this positive deteriorative effect on women through man's arbitrary choice comes the negative effect of woman's lack of choice. Bought or stolen or given by her father, she was deprived of the innately feminine right and duty of choosing. "Who giveth this woman?" we still inquire in our archaic marriage service, and one man steps forward and gives her to another man.

Beyond this negative impact on women due to men's arbitrary choices, there's the downside of women's lack of choice. Whether bought, taken, or given by her father, she was robbed of the natural right and responsibility of choosing. "Who gives this woman?" we still ask in our outdated marriage ceremony, and one man steps up to give her to another man.

Free, the female chose the victor, and the vanquished went unmated—and without progeny. Dependent, having to be fed and cared for by some man, the victors take their pick perhaps, but the vanquished take what is left; and the poor women, "marrying for a home," take anything. As a consequence the inferior male is as free to transmit his inferiority as the superior to give better qualities, and does so—beyond computation. In modern days, women are freer, in some countries freer than in others; here in modern America freest of all; and the result is seen in our improving standards of health and beauty.

Free, the woman chose the winner, and the loser stayed single—and without children. Dependent on being fed and cared for by some man, the winners may pick whoever they want, but the losers settle for what's left; and the unfortunate women, "marrying for a home," accept anything. As a result, the lesser male can easily pass on his shortcomings just as the superior male can pass on better traits, and they do—more than we can count. Nowadays, women are freer, with some countries allowing more freedom than others; here in modern America, they have the most freedom of all; and this is reflected in our improving standards of health and beauty.

Still there remains the field of inter-masculine competition, does there not? Do not the males still struggle together? Is not that as of old, a source of race advantage?

Still, there is the area of competition among men, isn’t there? Don’t men still compete with each other? Isn't that still, like before, a source of racial advantage?

To some degree it is. When life was simple and our activities consisted mainly in fighting and hard work; the male who could vanquish the others was bigger and stronger. But inter-masculine competition ceases to be of such advantage when we enter the field of social service. What is required in organized society is the specialization of the individual, the development of special talents, not always of immediate benefit to the man himself, but of ultimate benefit to society. The best social servant, progressive, meeting future needs, is almost always at a disadvantage besides the well-established lower types. We need, for social service, qualities quite different from the simple masculine characteristics—desire, combat, self-expression.

To some extent, it is. When life was simpler and our activities mainly involved fighting and hard work, the male who could defeat others was typically bigger and stronger. However, competition among men loses its advantage when we move into social service. What organized society needs is the specialization of individuals and the development of specific talents, which aren't always immediately beneficial to the person but are ultimately beneficial to society. The best social worker, one who is progressive and anticipates future needs, often finds himself at a disadvantage compared to the well-established lower types. For social service, we need qualities that are quite different from basic masculine traits—like ambition, aggression, and self-expression.

By keeping what we call "the outside world" so wholly male, we keep up masculine standards at the expense of human ones. This may be broadly seen in the slow and painful development of industry and science as compared to the easy dominance of warfare throughout all history until our own times.

By keeping what we refer to as "the outside world" entirely male, we uphold masculine standards at the cost of human ones. This is evident in the slow and difficult progress of industry and science compared to the straightforward dominance of warfare throughout history up until now.

The effect of all this ultra masculine competition upon health and beauty is but too plainly to be seen. Among men the male idea of what is good looking is accentuated beyond reason. Read about any "hero" you please; or study the products of the illustrator and note the broad shoulders, the rugged features, the strong, square, determined jaw. That jaw is in evidence if everything else fails. He may be cross-eyed, wide-eared, thick-necked, bandy-legged—what you please; but he must have a more or less prognathous jaw.

The impact of all this hyper-masculine competition on health and beauty is clearly visible. Among men, the ideal of what is attractive is exaggerated beyond logic. Read about any "hero" you like, or look at the work of illustrators and notice the broad shoulders, rugged features, and strong, square, determined jaw. That jaw is important, even if everything else falls short. He could be cross-eyed, have big ears, a thick neck, or bandy legs—whatever you want; but he must have a more or less pronounced jaw.

Meanwhile any anthropologist will show you that the line of human development is away from that feature of the bulldog and the alligator, and toward the measured dignity of the Greek type. The possessor of that kind of jaw may enable male to conquer male, but does not make him of any more service to society; of any better health or higher beauty.

Meanwhile, any anthropologist will show you that the path of human development moves away from the traits of the bulldog and the alligator, and toward the measured dignity of the Greek ideal. Having that kind of jaw may help one male dominate another, but it doesn’t make him more beneficial to society or any healthier or more attractive.

Further, in the external decoration of our bodies, what is the influence here of masculine dominance.

Further, what impact does masculine dominance have on how we decorate our bodies on the outside?

We have before spoken of the peculiar position of our race in that the woman is the only female creature who carries the burden of sex ornament. This amazing reversal of the order of nature results at its mildest in a perversion of the natural feminine instincts of love and service, and an appearance of the masculine instincts of self-expression and display. Alone among all female things do women decorate and preen themselves and exhibit their borrowed plumage (literally!) to attract the favor of the male. This ignominy is forced upon them by their position of economic dependence; and their general helplessness. As all broader life is made to depend, for them, on whom they marry, indeed as even the necessities of life so often depend on their marrying someone, they have been driven into this form of competition, so alien to the true female attitude.

We have previously discussed the unusual status of our race, where women are the only female beings that bear the burden of sexual adornment. This striking reversal of natural order leads, at its most benign, to a distortion of the natural feminine instincts of love and nurturing, while promoting masculine instincts of self-expression and showiness. Unlike any other female creatures, women decorate and groom themselves, flaunting their acquired beauty (literally!) to win the attention of men. This shame is imposed on them due to their economic dependency and general vulnerability. Since their entire lives often hinge on whom they marry, and even their basic needs frequently depend on securing a husband, they are pushed into this form of competition, which is so contrary to the true feminine spirit.

The result is enough to make angels weep—and laugh. Perhaps no step in the evolution of beauty went farther than our human power of making a continuous fabric; soft and mobile, showing any color and texture desired. The beauty of the human body is supreme, and when we add to it the flow of color, the ripple of fluent motion, that comes of a soft, light garment over free limbs—it is a new field of loveliness and delight. Naturally this should have filled the whole world with a new pleasure. Our garments, first under right natural selection developing perfect use, under right sex selection developing beauty; and further, as our human aesthetic sense progresses, showing a noble symbolism, would have been an added strength and glory, a ceaseless joy.

The result is enough to make angels weep—and laugh. No part of beauty's evolution has gone further than our ability to create a continuous fabric; soft and fluid, showcasing any color and texture we want. The beauty of the human body is unmatched, and when we enhance it with the flow of color and the graceful movement of a light, soft garment draped over free limbs—it opens up a new realm of beauty and joy. Naturally, this should have filled the world with a fresh sense of pleasure. Our clothing, initially shaped by natural selection for perfect function, then refined by sexual selection for beauty; and as our appreciation for aesthetics grows, expressing a noble symbolism, would have brought us added strength and glory, a never-ending source of joy.

What is the case?

What's the situation?

Men, under a too strictly inter-masculine environment, have evolved the mainly useful but beautiless costume common to-day; and women—?

Men, in a strictly masculine environment, have developed the mostly functional but unattractive clothing we see today; and women—?

Women wear beautiful garments when they happen to be the fashion; and ugly garments when they are the fashion, and show no signs of knowing the difference. They show no added pride in the beautiful, no hint of mortification in the hideous, and are not even sensitive under criticism, or open to any persuasion or argument. Why should they be?

Women wear beautiful clothes when they're in style, and ugly clothes when that's what's trendy, showing no awareness of the difference. They feel no extra pride in the beautiful, no shame in the hideous, and are indifferent to criticism, unwilling to be swayed or convinced. Why should they be?

Their condition, physical and mental, is largely abnormal, their whole passionate absorption in dress and decoration is abnormal, and they have never looked, from a frankly human standpoint, at their position and its peculiarities, until the present age.

Their physical and mental condition is mostly unusual, their intense focus on clothing and decoration is strange, and they have never truly considered their position and its peculiarities from a genuinely human perspective until now.

In the effect of our wrong relation on the world's health, we have spoken of the check to vigor and growth due to the housebound state of women and their burdensome clothes. There follow other influences, similar in origin, even more evil in result. To roughly and briefly classify we may distinguish the diseases due to bad air, to bad food, and that field of cruel mischief we are only now beginning to discuss—the diseases directly due to the erroneous relation between men and women.

In discussing how our unhealthy relationships impact the world’s health, we've talked about how the confinement of women at home and their heavy clothing stifles their strength and growth. There are other influences that stem from the same issues, but have even worse outcomes. To summarize, we can categorize these into three main areas: diseases caused by poor air quality, diseases caused by unhealthy food, and the area of harm we’re just starting to address—diseases that arise directly from the flawed dynamics between men and women.

We are the only race where the female depends on the male for a livelihood. We are the only race that practices prostitution. From the first harmless-looking but abnormal general relation follows the well recognized evil of the second, so long called "a social necessity," and from it, in deadly sequence, comes the "wages of sin;" death not only of the guilty, but of the innocent. It is no light part of our criticism of the Androcentric Culture that a society based on masculine desires alone, has willingly sacrificed such an army of women; and has repaid the sacrifice by the heaviest punishments.

We are the only race where women depend on men for their livelihood. We are the only race that engages in prostitution. From the first seemingly harmless but abnormal general relationship comes the well-known problem of the second, long deemed "a social necessity," and from it, in a devastating chain reaction, arises the "wages of sin;" death not only for the guilty but also for the innocent. It is no minor part of our critique of the Androcentric Culture that a society solely based on male desires has willingly sacrificed countless women and has repaid that sacrifice with severe punishments.

That the unfortunate woman should sicken and die was held to be her just punishment; that man too should bear part penalty was found unavoidable, though much legislation and medical effort has been spent to shield him; but to the further consequences society is but now waking up.

That the unfortunate woman got sick and died was seen as her deserved punishment; it was considered unavoidable that the man should also share in the consequences, even though a lot of laws and medical efforts have been made to protect him; however, society is only just beginning to realize the additional repercussions.





IV. MEN AND ART.

Among the many counts in which women have been proven inferior to men in human development is the oft-heard charge that there are no great women artists. Where one or two are proudly exhibited in evidence, they are either pooh-poohed as not very great, or held to be the trifling exceptions which do but prove the rule.

Among the many arguments claiming that women are inferior to men in human development is the frequent claim that there are no great women artists. When one or two are showcased as examples, they are either dismissed as not being truly great or seen as minor exceptions that just reinforce the stereotype.

Defenders of women generally make the mistake of over-estimating their performances, instead of accepting, and explaining, the visible facts. What are the facts as to the relation of men and women to art? And what, in especial, has been the effect upon art of a solely masculine expression?

Defenders of women often make the mistake of overestimating their contributions instead of acknowledging and explaining the visible facts. What are the facts regarding the relationship between men and women in art? And what, in particular, has been the impact of a purely masculine expression on art?

When we look for the beginnings of art, we find ourselves in a period of crude decoration of the person and of personal belongings. Tattooing, for instance, is an early form of decorative art, still in practice among certain classes, even in advanced people. Most boys, if they are in contact with this early art, admire it, and wish to adorn themselves therewith; some do so—to later mortification. Early personal decoration consisted largely in direct mutilation of the body, and the hanging upon it, or fastening to it, of decorative objects. This we see among savages still, in its gross and primitive forms monopolized by men, then shared by women, and, in our time, left almost wholly to them. In personal decoration today, women are still near the savage. The "artists" developed in this field of art are the tonsorial, the sartorial, and all those specialized adorners of the body commonly known as "beauty doctors."

When we explore the origins of art, we come across a time characterized by simple decoration of people and their belongings. Tattooing, for example, is one of the earliest forms of decorative art, still practiced by certain groups, even among more advanced societies. Most boys, when they encounter this ancient art, admire it and want to decorate themselves with it; some do, which they later regret. Early personal decoration mainly involved direct body mutilation and attaching decorative items to the body. We still observe this among some tribes today, where it's largely a male activity at first, later involving women, and now it’s almost exclusively associated with them. In today's personal decoration, women still reflect a close connection to these primitive practices. The "artists" in this area of art are hairstylists, fashion designers, and all those specialized body adorners commonly referred to as "beauty professionals."

Here, as in other cases, the greatest artists are men. The greatest milliners, the greatest dressmakers and tailors, the greatest hairdressers, and the masters and designers in all our decorative toilettes and accessories, are men. Women, in this as in so many other lines, consume rather than produce. They carry the major part of personal decoration today; but the decorator is the man. In the decoration of objects, woman, as the originator of primitive industry, originated also the primitive arts; and in the pottery, basketry, leatherwork, needlework, weaving, with all beadwork, dyeing and embroideries of ancient peoples we see the work of the woman decorator. Much of this is strong and beautiful, but its time is long past. The art which is part of industry, natural, simple, spontaneous, making beauty in every object of use, adding pleasure to labor and to life, is not Art with a large A, the Art which requires Artists, among whom are so few women of note.

Here, as in many other situations, the top artists are men. The best hatmakers, dressmakers and tailors, hairdressers, along with the experts and designers in all our decorative clothing and accessories, are men. Women, in this area as in many others, are more consumers than producers. They handle most personal decoration today; but the creator is the man. When it comes to decorating objects, women, as the pioneers of early industry, also began the primitive arts; and in pottery, basket weaving, leatherwork, sewing, weaving, along with all beadwork, dyeing, and ancient embroidery, we see the contributions of women decorators. A lot of this work is strong and beautiful, but its time has long gone. The art that is part of industry—natural, simple, and spontaneous—creates beauty in every functional object, adding pleasure to work and life, is not Art with a capital A, the kind of Art that needs Artists, among whom there are so few notable women.

Art as a profession, and the Artist as a professional, came later; and by that time women had left the freedom and power of the matriarchate and become slaves in varying degree. The women who were idle pets in harems, or the women who worked hard as servants, were alike cut off from the joy of making things. Where constructive work remained to them, art remained, in its early decorative form. Men, in the proprietary family, restricting the natural industry of women to personal service, cut off their art with their industry, and by so much impoverished the world.

Art as a profession and the artist as a professional emerged later on; by then, women had lost the freedom and power of the matriarchate and had become subjugated to varying extents. Women who were idle favorites in harems or those who worked hard as servants were both denied the joy of creating. Where there was any constructive work available, it was limited to art in its early decorative forms. Men, within the confines of the traditional family structure, restricted women’s natural talents to personal service, cutting off their ability to create and, in turn, impoverishing the world.

There is no more conspicuously pathetic proof of the aborted development of women than this commonplace—their lack of a civilized art sense. Not only in the childish and savage display upon their bodies, but in the pitiful products they hang upon the walls of the home, is seen the arrest in normal growth.

There is no more clearly sad evidence of women's stalled development than this simple fact—their lack of a refined artistic sense. This is evident not only in the childish and primitive adornments on their bodies but also in the disappointing artwork they display on the walls of their homes, which shows their halted normal growth.

After ages of culture, in which men have developed Architecture, Sculpture, Painting, Music and the Drama, we find women in their primitive environment making flowers of wax, and hair, and worsted; doing mottoes of perforated cardboard, making crazy quilts and mats and "tidies"—as if they lived in a long past age, or belonged to a lower race.

After countless years of culture, where men have created architecture, sculpture, painting, music, and drama, we see women in their basic surroundings crafting flowers from wax, hair, and yarn; creating mottoes from perforated cardboard, making patchwork quilts, mats, and decorative items—as if they were stuck in a bygone era or belonged to a less advanced culture.

This, as part of the general injury to women dating from the beginning of our androcentric culture, reacts heavily upon the world at large. Men, specializing, giving their lives to the continuous pursuit of one line of service, have lifted our standard in aesthetic culture, as they have in other matters; but by refusing the same growth to women, they have not only weakened and reduced the output, but ruined the market as it were, hopelessly and permanently kept down the level of taste.

This, as part of the overall harm to women that has existed since the start of our male-centered culture, has a significant impact on society as a whole. Men, who focus their lives on the continuous pursuit of a single line of work, have elevated our standards in art and culture, as they have in other areas. However, by denying women the same opportunities for growth, they have not only diminished and limited the contributions made by women but have also fundamentally damaged the quality of taste in the process.

Among the many sides of this great question, some so terrible, some so pathetic, some so utterly absurd, this particular phase of life is especially easy to study and understand, and has its own elements of amusement. Men, holding women at the level of domestic service, going on themselves to lonely heights of achievement, have found their efforts hampered and their attainments rendered barren and unsatisfactory by the amazing indifference of the world at large. As the world at large consists half of women, and wholly of their children, it would seem patent to the meanest understanding that the women must be allowed to rise in order to lift the world. But such has not been the method—heretofore.

Among the many aspects of this significant issue, some are terrible, some are pathetic, and some are completely absurd. This particular phase of life is especially easy to study and understand, and it has its own elements of humor. Men, who see women only as domestic help while they pursue lonely achievements, have found their efforts hindered and their successes unfulfilling due to the astonishing indifference of society as a whole. Since society is made up of half women and entirely of their children, it should be obvious even to the least perceptive that women need to be allowed to rise in order to improve the world. But that hasn’t been the approach until now.

We have spoken so far in this chapter of the effect of men on art through their interference with the art of women. There are other sides to the question. Let us consider once more the essential characteristics of maleness, and see how they have affected art, keeping always in mind the triune distinction between masculine, feminine and human. Perhaps we shall best see this difference by considering what the development of art might have been on purely human terms.

We have discussed in this chapter how men impact art through their interference with women's art. There are other aspects to this issue. Let's revisit the essential traits of masculinity and examine how they have influenced art, while always remembering the three-part distinction between masculine, feminine, and human. We might best understand this difference by considering how art could have developed on purely human terms.

The human creature, as such, naturally delights in construction, and adds decoration to construction as naturally. The cook, making little regular patterns around the edge of the pie, does so from a purely human instinct, the innate eye-pleasure in regularity, symmetry, repetition, and alternation. Had this natural social instinct grown unchecked in us, it would have manifested itself in a certain proportion of specialists—artists of all sorts—and an accompanying development of appreciation on the part of the rest of us. Such is the case in primitive art; the maker of beauty is upheld and rewarded by a popular appreciation of her work—or his.

The human being, in essence, naturally enjoys creating and adds decoration to their creations just as instinctively. A cook, for example, makes neat patterns around the edge of a pie out of a basic human instinct, finding joy in regularity, symmetry, repetition, and variation. If this natural social instinct had been allowed to develop freely in us, it would have resulted in a certain number of specialists—artists of all kinds—and a corresponding growth in appreciation from the rest of us. This is true in primitive art; the creator of beauty is supported and recognized by the community for their work.

Had this condition remained, we should find a general level of artistic expression and appreciation far higher than we see now. Take the one field of textile art, for instance: that wide and fluent medium of expression, the making of varied fabrics, the fashioning of garments and the decoration of them—all this is human work and human pleasure. It should have led us to a condition where every human being was a pleasure to the eye, appropriately and beautifully clothed.

Had this situation continued, we would see a generally higher level of artistic expression and appreciation than we do today. Take textile art, for example: that broad and flexible medium, the creation of diverse fabrics, the design of garments, and their decoration—all of this is human work and joy. It should have resulted in a state where every person was a pleasure to look at, appropriately and beautifully dressed.

Our real condition in this field is too patent to need emphasis; the stiff, black ugliness of our men's attire; the irritating variegated folly of our women's; the way in which we spoil the beauty and shame the dignity of childhood by modes of dress.

Our real situation in this area is so obvious it doesn't need highlighting; the rigid, dark unattractiveness of our men's clothing; the annoying mixed ridiculousness of our women's; the way we ruin the beauty and disgrace the dignity of childhood with our fashion choices.

In normal human growth, our houses would be a pleasure to the eye; our furniture and utensils, all our social products, would blossom into beauty as naturally as they still do in those low stages of social evolution where our major errors have not yet borne full fruit.

In typical human development, our homes would be visually appealing; our furniture and tools, along with all our social creations, would naturally flourish in beauty just like they still do in those early stages of social evolution where our biggest mistakes haven't fully taken effect yet.

Applied art in all its forms is a human function, common to every one to some degree, either in production or appreciation, or both. "Pure art," as an ideal, is also human; and the single-hearted devotion of the true artist to this ideal is one of the highest forms of the social sacrifice. Of all the thousand ways by which humanity is specialized for inter-service, none is more exquisite than this; the evolution of the social Eye, or Ear, or Voice, the development of those whose work is wholly for others, and to whom the appreciation of others is as the bread of life. This we should have in a properly developed community; the pleasure of applied art in the making and using of everything we have; and then the high joy of the Great Artist, and the noble work thereof, spread far and wide.

Applied art in all its forms is a human function that everyone engages with to some extent, whether in creating or appreciating it, or both. "Pure art," as an ideal, is also a human pursuit, and the dedicated commitment of a true artist to this ideal represents one of the highest forms of social sacrifice. Among the countless ways humanity specializes for mutual service, none is more beautiful than this; the evolution of social perception—be it Eye, Ear, or Voice—along with the development of those whose work is entirely for the benefit of others, who find joy in the appreciation of their work as essential as life itself. This is what we should strive for in a well-developed community: the enjoyment of applied art in the making and using of everything we possess, along with the profound joy of the Great Artist and the noble work that extends throughout the community.

What do we find?

What do we discover?

Applied art at a very low level; small joy either for the maker or the user. Pure art, a fine-spun specialty, a process carried on by an elect few who openly despise the unappreciative many. Art has become an occult profession requiring a long special education even to enjoy, and evolving a jargon of criticism which becomes more esoteric yearly.

Applied art exists at a very basic level; there's little joy for either the creator or the user. Fine art is a delicate specialty, pursued by a select group who look down on those who don’t appreciate it. Art has turned into a niche profession that demands extensive training just to appreciate, developing a criticism jargon that becomes more obscure each year.

Let us now see what part in this undesirable outcome is due to our Androcentric Culture.

Let’s now examine how much of this unwanted outcome is caused by our Androcentric Culture.

As soon as the male of our species assumed the exclusive right to perform all social functions, he necessarily brought to that performance the advantages—and disadvantages—of maleness, of those dominant characteristics, desire, combat, self-expression.

As soon as men in our society claimed the exclusive right to handle all social roles, they inevitably brought with them the benefits—and drawbacks—of being male, including the traits of dominance, desire, conflict, and self-expression.

Desire has overweighted art in many visible forms; it is prominent in painting and music, almost monopolizes fiction, and has pitifully degraded dancing.

Desire has heavily influenced art in many noticeable ways; it's obvious in painting and music, almost dominates fiction, and has sadly degraded dancing.

Combat is not so easily expressed in art, where even competition is on a high plane; but the last element is the main evil, self-expression. This impulse is inherently and ineradicably masculine. It rests on that most basic of distinctions between the sexes, the centripetal and centrifugal forces of the universe. In the very nature of the sperm-cell and the germ-cell we find this difference: the one attracts, gathers, draws in; the other repels, scatters, pushes out. That projective impulse is seen in the male nature everywhere; the constant urge toward expression, to all boasting and display. This spirit, like all things masculine, is perfectly right and admirable in its place.

Combat is hard to portray in art, where even competition is elevated; but the last factor is the main issue, self-expression. This drive is naturally and fundamentally masculine. It relies on the most basic distinction between the sexes, the attracting and repelling forces of the universe. In the very nature of the sperm cell and the egg cell, we see this difference: one draws in, gathers, attracts; the other pushes out, scatters, repels. That outgoing impulse is present in male nature everywhere; the constant desire for expression, for boasting and showcasing. This spirit, like all things masculine, is completely valid and admirable in the right context.

It is the duty of the male, as a male, to vary; bursting forth in a thousand changing modifications—the female, selecting, may so incorporate beneficial changes in the race. It is his duty to thus express himself—an essentially masculine duty; but masculinity is one thing, and art is another. Neither the masculine nor the feminine has any place in art—Art is Human.

It’s the job of a man, as a man, to change; to emerge in a thousand different ways—the woman, through selection, may then incorporate those helpful changes into the species. It’s his responsibility to express himself in this way—an inherently masculine responsibility; but masculinity is one thing, and art is another. Neither masculinity nor femininity has a role in art—Art is Human.

It is not in any faintest degree allied to the personal processes of reproduction; but is a social process, a most distinctive social process, quite above the plane of sex. The true artist transcends his sex, or her sex. If this is not the case, the art suffers.

It is not in the slightest connected to personal reproduction; rather, it is a social process, a highly distinctive social process, completely beyond the level of sex. The true artist goes beyond their gender. If this isn’t the case, the art suffers.

Dancing is an early, and a beautiful art; direct expression of emotion through the body; beginning in subhuman type, among male birds, as the bower-bird of New Guinea, and the dancing crane, who swing and caper before their mates. Among early peoples we find it a common form of social expression in tribal dances of all sorts, religious, military, and other. Later it becomes a more explicit form of celebration, as among the Greeks; in whose exquisite personal culture dancing and music held high place.

Dancing is one of the oldest and most beautiful arts; it’s a direct way to express emotions through the body. It starts in the animal kingdom, seen in male birds like the bowerbird of New Guinea and the dancing crane, which perform and prance for their mates. In early human societies, dancing was a common form of social expression, seen in various tribal dances—religious, military, and more. Over time, it evolved into a more defined form of celebration, especially among the Greeks, where dancing and music were highly valued in their rich personal culture.

But under the progressive effects of purely masculine dominance we find the broader human elements of dancing left out, and the sex-element more and more emphasized. As practiced by men alone dancing has become a mere display of physical agility, a form of exhibition common to all males. As practiced by men and women together we have our social dances, so lacking in all the varied beauty of posture and expression, so steadily becoming a pleasant form of dalliance.

But with the ongoing influence of purely male dominance, we see the more universal aspects of dancing being neglected, while the sexual aspect is increasingly emphasized. When only men dance, it turns into just a show of physical skill, a performance typical of all males. In contrast, when men and women dance together, we have our social dances, which are missing the diverse beauty of posture and expression, and are gradually turning into a pleasant form of flirtation.

As practiced by women alone we have one of the clearest proofs of the degrading effect of masculine dominance:—the dancing girl. In the frank sensualism of the Orient, this personage is admired and enjoyed on her merits. We, more sophisticated in this matter, joke shamefacedly about "the bald-headed row," and occasionally burst forth in shrill scandal over some dinner party where ladies clad in a veil and a bracelet dance on the table. Nowhere else in the whole range of life on earth, is this degradation found—the female capering and prancing before the male. It is absolutely and essentially his function, not hers. That we, as a race, present this pitiful spectacle, a natural art wrested to unnatural ends, a noble art degraded to ignoble ends, has one clear cause.

As practiced by women alone, we have one of the clearest examples of the degrading impact of male dominance: the dancing girl. In the open sensuality of the East, this figure is appreciated and enjoyed for her talents. We, being more sophisticated in this regard, awkwardly joke about "the bald-headed row" and occasionally erupt in scandal over some dinner party where women dressed in veils and bracelets dance on the table. Nowhere else in life on earth do we find this degradation—the female moving and dancing for the male. It is entirely and fundamentally his role, not hers. The fact that we, as a society, present this pitiful display, a natural talent exploited for unnatural purposes, a noble art reduced to disreputable ends, has one clear reason.

Architecture, in its own nature, is least affected by that same cause. The human needs secured by it, are so human, so unescapably human, that we find less trace of excessive masculinity than in other arts. It meets our social demands, it expresses in lasting form our social feeling, up to the highest; and it has been injured not so much by an excess of masculinity as by a lack of femininity.

Architecture, by its very nature, is the least impacted by that same factor. The human needs it addresses are so fundamentally human, so undeniably human, that we see less evidence of excessive masculinity compared to other art forms. It fulfills our social needs, encapsulates our social emotions in a lasting way, and while it hasn’t suffered much from too much masculinity, it has really been harmed by a lack of femininity.

The most universal architectural expression is in the home; the home is essentially a place for the woman and the child; yet the needs of woman and child are not expressed in our domestic architecture. The home is built on lines of ancient precedent, mainly as an industrial form; the kitchen is its working centre rather than the nursery.

The most universal form of architecture is found in the home; the home is fundamentally a space for women and children; however, the needs of women and children are not reflected in our home design. The home is constructed based on traditional patterns, primarily as a functional space; the kitchen serves as its main working area instead of the nursery.

Each man wishes his home to preserve and seclude his woman, his little harem of one; and in it she is to labor for his comfort or to manifest his ability to maintain her in idleness. The house is the physical expression of the limitations of women; and as such it fills the world with a small drab ugliness. A dwelling house is rarely a beautiful object. In order to be such, it should truly express simple and natural relations; or grow in larger beauty as our lives develop.

Each man wants his home to protect and isolate his woman, his personal harem of one; and in that space, she is expected to work for his comfort or to show off his ability to support her in idleness. The house symbolizes the restrictions placed on women, and because of this, it brings a dull ugliness to the world. A typical house isn't usually a beautiful sight. To be considered beautiful, it should genuinely reflect simple and natural relationships, or it should evolve into greater beauty as our lives progress.

The deadlock for architectural progress, the low level of our general taste, the everlasting predominance of the commonplace in buildings, is the natural result of the proprietary family and its expression in this form.

The standoff in architectural progress, the poor quality of our general taste, and the ongoing dominance of the ordinary in buildings, is the natural outcome of the owning family and its expression in this form.

In sculpture we have a noble art forcing itself into some service through many limitations. Its check, as far as it comes under this line of study, has been indicated in our last chapter; the degradation of the human body, the vicious standards of sex-consciousness enforced under the name of modesty, the covered ugliness, which we do not recognize, all this is a deadly injury to free high work in sculpture.

In sculpture, we have a noble art that is compelled to serve various limitations. Its constraints, as we've noted in the last chapter, include the degradation of the human body, the harmful ideals of sexuality imposed in the name of modesty, and the hidden ugliness that we fail to acknowledge. All of this is a serious blow to the ability to create truly great work in sculpture.

With a nobly equal womanhood, stalwart and athletic; with the high standards of beauty and of decorum which we can never have without free womanhood; we should show a different product in this great art.

With a strong and athletic sense of womanhood, along with the high standards of beauty and decency that can only exist with true freedom for women, we should showcase a different outcome in this great art.

An interesting note in passing is this: when we seek to express socially our noblest, ideas, Truth; Justice; Liberty; we use the woman's body as the highest human type. But in doing this, the artist, true to humanity and not biassed by sex, gives us a strong, grand figure, beautiful indeed, but never decorated. Fancy Liberty in ruffles and frills, with rings in her ears—or nose.

An interesting point to mention is this: when we try to express our highest social ideals—Truth, Justice, Liberty—we often represent these concepts using the female body as the ultimate human form. However, in doing this, the artist, remaining true to humanity and not influenced by gender, presents us with a strong, grand figure that is undeniably beautiful, yet never embellished. Imagine Liberty dressed in ruffles and frills, with rings in her ears or nose.

Music is injured by a one-sided handling, partly in the excess of the one dominant masculine passion, partly by the general presence of egoism; that tendency to self-expression instead of social expression, which so disfigures our art; and this is true also of poetry.

Music suffers from being treated too one-dimensionally, partly due to an overwhelming masculine energy and partly because of rampant egoism. This focus on self-expression over social expression really distorts our art, and the same applies to poetry.

Miles and miles of poetry consist of the ceaseless outcry of the male for the female, which is by no means so overwhelming as a feature of human life as he imagines it; and other miles express his other feelings, with that ingenuous lack of reticence which is at its base essentially masculine. Having a pain, the poet must needs pour it forth, that his woe be shared and sympathized with.

Miles and miles of poetry are filled with the constant cry of men for women, which isn't as big a part of human life as they think; and other miles express their other emotions, with that straightforward lack of hesitation that is fundamentally masculine. When feeling pain, the poet has to let it out, wanting his sorrow to be shared and understood.

As more and more women writers flock into the field there is room for fine historic study of the difference in sex feeling, and the gradual emergence of the human note.

As more and more women writers enter the field, there's an opportunity for a detailed historical study of the differences in emotional expression between sexes and the gradual emergence of a more human tone.

Literature, and in especial the art of fiction, is so large a field for this study that it will have a chapter to itself; this one but touching on these various forms; and indicating lines of observation.

Literature, especially the art of fiction, is such a vast area for this study that it will have its own chapter; this one only briefly addresses these different forms and outlines areas for further observation.

That best known form of art which to my mind needs no qualifying description—painting—is also a wide field; and cannot be done full justice to within these limits. The effect upon it of too much masculinity is not so much in choice of subject as in method and spirit. The artist sees beauty of form and color where the ordinary observer does not; and paints the old and ugly with as much enthusiasm as the young and beautiful—sometimes. If there is in some an over-emphasis of feminine attractions it is counterbalanced in others by a far broader line of work.

That well-known form of art, which I believe doesn’t require any extra description—painting—is a vast field and can't be fully appreciated within these limits. The influence of excessive masculinity affects it not so much in the choice of subject, but in technique and attitude. The artist perceives beauty in form and color where the average observer might not, and sometimes paints the old and ugly with just as much enthusiasm as the young and beautiful. If some artists overemphasize feminine qualities, others balance it out with a much broader range of work.

But the main evils of a too masculine art lie in the emphasis laid on self-expression. The artist, passionately conscious of how he feels, strives to make other people aware of these sensations. This is now so generally accepted by critics, so seriously advanced by painters, that what is called "the art world" accepts it as established.

But the main issues with overly masculine art come from the focus on self-expression. The artist, intensely aware of their feelings, works to make others understand these sensations. This idea is now widely accepted by critics and seriously promoted by painters, to the point that what is known as "the art world" takes it as a given.

If a man paints the sea, it is not to make you see and feel as a sight of that same ocean would, but to make you see and feel how he, personally, was affected by it; a matter surely of the narrowest importance. The ultra-masculine artist, extremely sensitive, necessarily, and full of the natural urge to expression of the sex, uses the medium of art as ingenuously as the partridge-cock uses his wings in drumming on the log; or the bull moose stamps and bellows; not narrowly as a mate call, but as a form of expression of his personal sensations.

If a man paints the sea, it's not to make you see and feel what the ocean itself would evoke, but to show you how he personally was moved by it; which is certainly a matter of limited importance. The hyper-masculine artist, who is highly sensitive and filled with the natural urge to express himself, uses art as straightforwardly as a male partridge uses his wings to drum on a log; or how a bull moose stomps and bellows; not just as a mating call, but as a way to express his personal feelings.

The higher the artist the more human he is, the broader his vision, the more he sees for humanity, and expresses for humanity, and the less personal, the less ultra-masculine, is his expression.

The higher the artist, the more human they are; the broader their vision, the more they see and express for humanity, and the less personal and less ultra-masculine their expression is.





V. MASCULINE LITERATURE.

When we are offered a "woman's" paper, page, or column, we find it filled with matter supposed to appeal to women as a sex or class; the writer mainly dwelling upon the Kaiser's four K's—Kuchen, Kinder, Kirche, Kleider. They iterate and reiterate endlessly the discussion of cookery, old and new; of the care of children; of the overwhelming subject of clothing; and of moral instruction. All this is recognized as "feminine" literature, and it must have some appeal else the women would not read it. What parallel have we in "masculine" literature?

When we get a "women's" paper, page, or column, we see it packed with topics that are meant to attract women as a group; the writer mostly focuses on the Kaiser's four K's—Cooking, Kids, Church, Clothes. They endlessly repeat discussions about cooking, both traditional and modern; taking care of children; the never-ending topic of clothing; and moral lessons. This is all considered "feminine" writing, and it must have some appeal, or else women wouldn’t read it. What do we have that’s similar in "masculine" writing?

"None!" is the proud reply. "Men are people! Women, being 'the sex,' have their limited feminine interests, their feminine point of view, which must be provided for. Men, however, are not restricted—to them belongs the world's literature!"

"None!" is the proud reply. "Men are people! Women, being 'the sex,' have their limited feminine interests and their feminine perspective, which must be taken into account. Men, however, are not limited—world literature belongs to them!"

Yes, it has belonged to them—ever since there was any. They have written it and they have read it. It is only lately that women, generally speaking, have been taught to read; still more lately that they have been allowed to write. It is but a little while since Harriet Martineau concealed her writing beneath her sewing when visitors came in—writing was "masculine"—sewing "feminine."

Yes, it has belonged to them—ever since there was any. They have written it and they have read it. It’s only recently that women, in general, have been taught to read; and even more recently that they have been allowed to write. It was only a short time ago that Harriet Martineau hid her writing under her sewing when visitors came over—writing was seen as "masculine" and sewing as "feminine."

We have not, it Is true, confined men to a narrowly construed "masculine sphere," and composed a special literature suited to it. Their effect on literature has been far wider than that, monopolizing this form of art with special favor. It was suited above all others to the dominant impulse of self-expression; and being, as we have seen essentially and continually "the sex;" they have impressed that sex upon this art overwhelmingly; they have given the world a masculized literature.

We haven't, it's true, restricted men to a limited "masculine sphere," nor created a specific type of literature just for them. Their influence on literature has been much broader than that, controlling this form of art with particular preference. It was more suited than any other to the main drive of self-expression; and being, as we've noted, fundamentally and consistently "the sex," they have overwhelmingly stamped that identity onto this art; they've provided the world with a masculine literature.

It is hard for us to realize this. We can readily see, that if women had always written the books, no men either writing or reading them, that would have surely "feminized" our literature; but we have not in our minds the concept, much less the word, for an overmasculized influence.

It’s hard for us to grasp this. We can easily see that if women had always been the ones writing the books, with no men involved in either writing or reading them, that would have definitely "feminized" our literature; however, we don’t really have a concept, let alone a word, for an overly masculine influence.

Men having been accepted as humanity, women but a side-issue; (most literally if we accept the Hebrew legend!), whatever men did or said was human—and not to be criticized. In no department of life is it easier to contravert this old belief; to show how the male sex as such differs from the human type; and how this maleness has monopolized and disfigured a great social function.

Men have been seen as the standard for humanity, while women have often been treated as an afterthought; (most literally if we take the Hebrew legend into account!), whatever men did or said was considered human—and beyond criticism. It’s in no area of life that it's easier to challenge this outdated belief; to demonstrate how men, as a group, differ from the broader concept of humanity; and how this focus on maleness has taken over and distorted an important social role.

Human life is a very large affair; and literature is its chief art. We live, humanly, only through our power of communication. Speech gives us this power laterally, as it were, in immediate personal contact. For permanent use speech becomes oral tradition—a poor dependence. Literature gives not only an infinite multiplication to the lateral spread of communion but adds the vertical reach. Through it we know the past, govern the present, and influence the future. In its servicable common forms it is the indispensable daily servant of our lives; in its nobler flights as a great art no means of human inter-change goes so far.

Human life is a vast experience, and literature is its primary art form. We can only truly live as humans through our ability to communicate. Speech allows us this power directly, in personal interactions. Over time, speech turns into oral tradition—which is a limited form of communication. Literature not only amplifies our ability to connect with each other but also extends our understanding over time. Through literature, we access the past, manage the present, and impact the future. In its everyday forms, it is an essential part of our daily lives; in its more elevated expressions as a significant art form, no other means of human exchange reaches as far.

In these brief limits we can touch but lightly on some phases of so great a subject; and will rest the case mainly on the effect of an exclusively masculine handling of the two fields of history and fiction. In poetry and the drama the same influence is easily traced, but in the first two it is so baldly prominent as to defy objection.

In this brief space, we can only briefly touch on certain aspects of a topic this vast; we will mainly focus on the impact of a purely male perspective in both history and fiction. The same influence can be clearly seen in poetry and drama, but in the first two, it is so obvious that it cannot be challenged.

History is, or should be, the story of our racial life. What have men made it? The story of warfare and conquest. Begin at the very beginning with the carven stones of Egypt, the clay records of Chaldea, what do we find of history?

History is, or should be, the story of our shared human experience. What have people made it? A tale of war and conquest. Starting with the carved stones of Egypt and the clay records of Chaldea, what do we actually discover in history?

"I Pharaoh, King of Kings! Lord of Lords! (etc. etc.), went down into the miserable land of Kush, and slew of the inhabitants thereof an hundred and forty and two thousands!" That, or something like it, is the kind of record early history gives us.

"I, Pharaoh, King of Kings! Lord of Lords! (etc. etc.), went down into the miserable land of Kush and killed a hundred and forty-two thousand of its inhabitants!" That, or something like it, is the kind of record early history provides us.

The story of Conquering Kings, who and how many they killed and enslaved; the grovelling adulation of the abased; the unlimited jubilation of the victor; from the primitive state of most ancient kings, and the Roman triumphs where queens walked in chains, down to our omni present soldier's monuments: the story of war and conquest—war and conquest—over and over; with such boasting and triumph, such cock-crow and flapping of wings as show most unmistakably the natural source.

The tale of conquering kings, who they killed and how many they enslaved; the groveling admiration of the defeated; the endless celebration of the victor; from the primitive nature of most ancient kings, to the Roman triumphs where queens were paraded in chains, all the way to our ever-present soldier monuments: the story of war and conquest—war and conquest—repeated time and again; with such bragging and triumph, such crowing and flapping of wings that clearly reveal the natural origin.

All this will strike the reader at first as biased and unfair. "That was the way people lived in those days!" says the reader.

All of this will seem biased and unfair to the reader at first. "That's how people lived back then!" the reader might say.

No—it was not the way women lived.

No—it wasn't how women lived.

"O, women!" says the reader, "Of course not! Women are different."

"O, women!" says the reader, "Of course not! Women are unique."

Yea, women are different; and men are different! Both of them, as sexes, differ from the human norm, which is social life and all social development. Society was slowly growing in all those black blind years. The arts, the sciences, the trades and crafts and professions, religion, philosophy, government, law, commerce, agriculture—all the human processes were going on as well as they were able, between wars.

Yeah, women are different; and men are different! Both of them, as sexes, are different from the human norm, which is social life and all social development. Society was slowly developing during those dark times. The arts, sciences, trades and crafts, professions, religion, philosophy, government, law, commerce, agriculture—all human activities were continuing as best as they could, even amidst wars.

The male naturally fights, and naturally crows, triumphs over his rival and takes the prize—therefore was he made male. Maleness means war.

The male instinctively fights and boasts, overcomes his rival, and claims the reward—this is why he is called male. Being male means conflict.

Not only so; but being male, he cares only for male interests. Men, being the sole arbiters of what should be done and said and written, have given us not only a social growth scarred and thwarted from the beginning by continual destruction; but a history which is one unbroken record of courage and red cruelty, of triumph and black shame.

Not only that, but because he's male, he only focuses on men's interests. Men, being the only ones who decide what should be done, said, and written, have given us not just a social landscape that has been damaged and hindered from the start by constant destruction; they've also created a history that is a continuous account of bravery and brutal violence, of success and deep shame.

As to what went on that was of real consequence, the great slow steps of the working world, the discoveries and inventions, the real progress of humanity—that was not worth recording, from a masculine point of view. Within this last century, "the woman's century," the century of the great awakening, the rising demand for freedom, political, economic, and domestic, we are beginning to write real history, human history, and not merely masculine history. But that great branch of literature—Hebrew, Greek, Roman, and all down later times, shows beyond all question, the influence of our androcentric culture.

As for what truly mattered—the gradual advancements in the working world, the discoveries and inventions, the genuine progress of humanity—that didn’t seem worth noting from a male perspective. In this past century, often referred to as "the woman's century," a time of great awakening and increasing demands for freedom—political, economic, and personal—we are starting to create authentic history, human history, instead of just male history. However, that extensive body of literature—Hebrew, Greek, Roman, and beyond—clearly reflects the influence of our male-centered culture.

Literature is the most powerful and necessary of the arts, and fiction is its broadest form. If art "holds the mirror up to nature" this art's mirror is the largest of all, the most used. Since our very life depends on some communication; and our progress is in proportion to our fullness and freedom of communication; since real communication requires mutual understanding; so in the growth of the social consciousness, we note from the beginning a passionate interest in other people's lives.

Literature is the most powerful and essential of the arts, and fiction is its broadest form. If art "holds a mirror up to nature," this art’s mirror is the largest and the most widely used. Since our very existence relies on some form of communication, and our progress is tied to how rich and free our communication is, and since genuine communication needs mutual understanding, we observe from the start a deep interest in the lives of others as social awareness grows.

The art which gives humanity consciousness is the most vital art. Our greatest dramatists are lauded for their breadth of knowledge of "human nature," their range of emotion and understanding; our greatest poets are those who most deeply and widely experience and reveal the feelings of the human heart; and the power of fiction is that it can reach and express this great field of human life with no limits but those of the author.

The art that brings humanity awareness is the most essential art. Our greatest playwrights are praised for their deep understanding of "human nature," their wide range of emotions and insights; our finest poets are those who deeply and broadly experience and express the feelings of the human heart; and the strength of fiction lies in its ability to explore and convey this vast realm of human experience without limits except for those set by the author.

When fiction began it was the legitimate child of oral tradition; a product of natural brain activity; the legend constructed instead of remembered. (This stage is with us yet as seen in the constant changes in repetition of popular jokes and stories.)

When fiction started, it was a rightful offspring of oral tradition; a result of natural thought processes; a legend created rather than recalled. (This stage is still present today, as shown by the ongoing variations in the repetition of popular jokes and stories.)

Fiction to-day has a much wider range; yet it is still restricted, heavily and most mischievously restricted.

Fiction today has a much broader scope; however, it is still limited, heavily and very detrimentally limited.

What is the preferred subject matter of fiction?

What are the favorite topics in fiction?

There are two main branches found everywhere, from the Romaunt of the Rose to the Purplish Magazine;—the Story of Adventure, and the Love Story.

There are two main branches that can be found everywhere, from the Romaunt of the Rose to the Purplish Magazine: the Adventure Story and the Love Story.

The Story-of-Adventure branch is not so thick as the other by any means, but it is a sturdy bough for all that. Stevenson and Kipling have proved its immense popularity, with the whole brood of detective stories and the tales of successful rascality we call "picaresque" Our most popular weekly shows the broad appeal of this class of fiction.

The Adventure Stories branch isn’t as thick as the others, but it’s still a strong one. Stevenson and Kipling have shown how popular it is, along with the entire range of detective stories and the tales of clever trickery we refer to as "picaresque." Our most popular weekly underscores the wide appeal of this genre.

All these tales of adventure, of struggle and difficulty; of hunting and fishing and fighting; of robbing and murdering, catching and punishing, are distinctly and essentially masculine. They do not touch on human processes, social processes, but on the special field of predatory excitement so long the sole province of men.

All these stories of adventure, struggle, and difficulty; of hunting, fishing, and fighting; of stealing and killing, capturing and punishing, are clearly and essentially masculine. They don’t delve into human experiences or social dynamics, but focus on the unique realm of predatory excitement that has long been dominated by men.

It is to be noted here that even in the overwhelming rise of industrial interests to-day, these, when used as the basis for a story, are forced into line with one, or both, of these two main branches of fiction;—conflict or love. Unless the story has one of these "interests" in it, there is no story—so holds the editor; the dictum being, put plainly, "life has no interests except conflict and love!"

It’s worth mentioning that even with the significant rise of industrial interests today, these interests, when used as the foundation for a story, must align with one or both of these two main genres of fiction: conflict or love. If a story doesn’t include one of these "interests," then there’s no story—this is what the editor claims, with the straightforward idea being, "life only has interests in conflict and love!"

It is surely something more than a coincidence that these are the two essential features of masculinity—Desire and Combat—Love and War.

It’s definitely more than just a coincidence that these are the two key aspects of masculinity—Desire and Combat—Love and War.

As a matter of fact the major interests of life are in line with its major processes; and these—in our stage of human development—are more varied than our fiction would have us believe. Half the world consists of women, we should remember, who are types of human life as well as men, and their major processes are not those of conflict and adventure, their love means more than mating. Even on so poor a line of distinction as the "woman's column" offers, if women are to be kept to their four Ks, there should be a "men's column" also; and all the "sporting news" and fish stories be put in that; they are not world interests; they are male interests.

Actually, the main interests in life align with its key processes, and these—at our current stage of human development—are much more diverse than our fiction suggests. We should remember that half the world is made up of women, who are just as much a part of human life as men, and their significant experiences go beyond just conflict and adventure; their love means more than just mating. Even with something as trivial as what the "woman's column" presents, if we insist on confining women to their four Ks, there should be a "men's column" too; all the "sporting news" and fishing stories could go there; they don't represent global interests; they represent male interests.

Now for the main branch—the Love Story. Ninety per cent. of fiction is In this line; this is preeminently the major interest of life—given in fiction. What is the love-story, as rendered by this art?

Now for the main topic—the Love Story. Ninety percent of fiction revolves around this; it's definitely the biggest interest in life—expressed through fiction. What is the love story, as portrayed by this art?

It is the story of the pre-marital struggle. It is the Adventures of Him in Pursuit of Her—and it stops when he gets her! Story after story, age after age, over and over and over, this ceaseless repetition of the Preliminaries.

It’s the tale of the pre-marital struggle. It’s the Adventures of Him in Pursuit of Her—and it ends when he finally gets her! Story after story, age after age, again and again, this endless cycle of the Preliminaries.

Here is Human Life. In its large sense, its real sense, it is a matter of inter-relation between individuals and groups, covering all emotions, all processes, all experiences. Out of this vast field of human life fiction arbitrarily selects one emotion, one process, one experience, as its necessary base.

Here is Human Life. In its broadest sense, its true meaning, it’s about the connections between individuals and groups, encompassing all emotions, all processes, and all experiences. From this immense realm of human life, fiction randomly chooses one emotion, one process, or one experience as its essential foundation.

"Ah! but we are persons most of all!" protests the reader. "This is personal experience—it has the universal appeal!"

"Ah! but we are people above everything else!" the reader argues. "This is personal experience—it has universal appeal!"

Take human life personally then. Here is a Human Being, a life, covering some seventy years; involving the changing growth of many faculties; the ever new marvels of youth, the long working time of middle life, the slow ripening of age. Here is the human soul, in the human body, Living. Out of this field of personal life, with all of its emotions, processes, and experiences, fiction arbitrarily selects one emotion, one process, one experience, mainly of one sex.

Take human life personally then. Here’s a person, a life, lasting about seventy years; involving the changing development of many abilities; the constant wonders of youth, the long working years of middle age, the gradual maturing of old age. Here is the human soul, in the human body, living. From this landscape of personal life, with all its emotions, processes, and experiences, fiction randomly picks one emotion, one process, one experience, mostly from one gender.

The "love" of our stories is man's love of woman. If any dare dispute this, and say it treats equally of woman's love for man, I answer, "Then why do the stories stop at marriage?"

The "love" in our stories is a man's love for a woman. If anyone argues that it equally represents a woman's love for a man, I respond, "Then why do the stories end at marriage?"

There is a current jest, revealing much, to this effect:

There’s a popular joke going around that says a lot about this:

The young wife complains that the husband does not wait upon and woo her as he did before marriage; to which he replies, "Why should I run after the street-car when I've caught it?"

The young wife complains that her husband doesn’t pay attention to her or court her like he used to before they got married. He replies, “Why should I chase after the bus when I’ve already caught it?”

Woman's love for man, as currently treated in fiction is largely a reflex; it is the way he wants her to feel, expects her to feel; not a fair representation of how she does feel. If "love" is to be selected as the most important thing in life to write about, then the mother's love should be the principal subject: This is the main stream. This is the general underlying, world-lifting force. The "life-force," now so glibly chattered about, finds its fullest expression in motherhood; not in the emotions of an assistant in the preliminary stages.

A woman's love for a man, as it's often portrayed in today's stories, is mostly just a response; it's about how he wants her to feel, how he expects her to feel—not a true reflection of her feelings. If "love" is chosen as the most significant topic to write about, then a mother's love should be the central focus: This is the main narrative. This is the fundamental, uplifting force in the world. The so-called "life-force," which is often talked about so casually, is best expressed through motherhood, not in the feelings of a woman just starting out.

What has literature, what has fiction, to offer concerning mother-love, or even concerning father-love, as compared to this vast volume of excitement about lover-love? Why is the search-light continually focussed upon a two or three years space of life "mid the blank miles round about?" Why indeed, except for the clear reason, that on a starkly masculine basis this is his one period of overwhelming interest and excitement.

What does literature, what does fiction, have to say about motherly love, or even fatherly love, compared to all the excitement surrounding romantic love? Why is there so much focus on just a couple of years in life when there's so much else around? Why, indeed, is it the case that, from a distinctly masculine perspective, this is the one period of intense interest and excitement?

If the beehive produced literature, the bee's fiction would be rich and broad; full of the complex tasks of comb-building and filling; the care and feeding of the young, the guardian-service of the queen; and far beyond that it would spread to the blue glory of the summer sky, the fresh winds, the endless beauty and sweetness of a thousand thousand flowers. It would treat of the vast fecundity of motherhood, the educative and selective processes of the group-mothers; and the passion of loyalty, of social service, which holds the hive together.

If beehives produced literature, the bees' stories would be rich and diverse; filled with the intricate tasks of building and filling their combs, nurturing their young, protecting the queen, and extending far beyond to the blue majesty of the summer sky, the fresh breezes, and the endless beauty and sweetness of countless flowers. It would explore the incredible abundance of motherhood, the teaching and selection processes of the group-moms, and the deep loyalty and commitment to community that keep the hive united.

But if the drones wrote fiction, it would have no subject matter save the feasting of many; and the nuptial flight, of one.

But if the drones wrote fiction, it would only be about the feasting of many and the wedding flight of one.

To the male, as such, this mating instinct is frankly the major interest of life; even the belligerent instincts are second to it. To the female, as such, it is for all its intensity, but a passing interest. In nature's economy, his is but a temporary devotion, hers the slow processes of life's fulfillment.

To the male, this mating instinct is honestly the biggest focus of life; even his aggressive instincts come second. For the female, while it’s intense, it’s more of a fleeting interest. In the grand scheme, his attention is just temporary, while hers is about the gradual journey of life’s fulfillment.

In Humanity we have long since, not outgrown, but overgrown, this stage of feeling. In Human Parentage even the mother's share begins to pale beside that ever-growing Social love and care, which guards and guides the children of to-day.

In humanity, we have long ago not outgrown, but rather surpassed, this stage of feeling. In human parenthood, even the mother's role starts to fade compared to the ever-increasing social love and care that protects and guides today's children.

The art of literature in this main form of fiction is far too great a thing to be wholly governed by one dominant note. As life widened and intensified, the artist, if great enough, has transcended sex; and in the mightier works of the real masters, we find fiction treating of life, life in general, in all its complex relationships, and refusing to be held longer to the rigid canons of an androcentric past.

The art of literature, especially in fiction, is too significant to be controlled by just one dominant theme. As life has expanded and deepened, a truly great artist has gone beyond gender, and in the more powerful works of true masters, we see fiction exploring life as a whole, in all its complex relationships, and moving away from the strict norms of a male-centered past.

This was the power of Balzac—he took in more than this one field. This was the universal appeal of Dickens; he wrote of people, all kinds of people, doing all kinds of things. As you recall with pleasure some preferred novel of this general favorite, you find yourself looking narrowly for the "love story" in it. It is there—for it is part of life; but it does not dominate the whole scene—any more than it does in life.

This was the strength of Balzac—he explored more than just one area. This was the broad appeal of Dickens; he wrote about all sorts of people and their various experiences. As you fondly remember some favorite novel of this widely loved author, you might find yourself searching for the "love story" within it. It’s there—because it’s part of life—but it doesn’t take over the entire narrative—just like in real life.

The thought of the world is made and handed out to us in the main. The makers of books are the makers of thoughts and feelings for people in general. Fiction is the most popular form in which this world-food is taken. If it were true, it would teach us life easily, swiftly, truly; teach not by preaching but by truly re-presenting; and we should grow up becoming acquainted with a far wider range of life in books than could even be ours in person. Then meeting life in reality we should be wise—and not be disappointed.

The way we understand the world is mostly created and shared with us. The authors of books shape the thoughts and emotions of people everywhere. Fiction is the most common way we consume this kind of "world food." If it were truly impactful, it would teach us about life easily, quickly, and genuinely; not through lectures but by accurately reflecting experiences. We would grow to know a much broader range of life through books than we could ever experience in real life. So, when we encounter reality, we would be wise—and not feel let down.

As it is, our great sea of fiction is steeped and dyed and flavored all one way. A young man faces life—the seventy year stretch, remember, and is given book upon book wherein one set of feelings is continually vocalized and overestimated. He reads forever of love, good love and bad love, natural and unnatural, legitimate and illegitimate; with the unavoidable inference that there is nothing else going on.

As it stands, our vast sea of fiction is all painted in the same colors and flavors. A young man faces life—the lengthy journey of seventy years, remember, and he’s handed book after book where one set of emotions is constantly expressed and exaggerated. He reads endlessly about love, both good and bad, real and unreal, acceptable and unacceptable; with the inescapable conclusion that there’s nothing else happening.

If he is a healthy young man he breaks loose from the whole thing, despises "love stories" and takes up life as he finds it. But what impression he does receive from fiction is a false one, and he suffers without knowing it from lack of the truer broader views of life it failed to give him.

If he's a healthy young guy, he shakes off the whole situation, dismisses "love stories," and deals with life as it comes. But the impression he gets from fiction is misleading, and he suffers without realizing it from not having the deeper, broader perspectives on life that it didn’t provide.

A young woman faces life—the seventy year stretch remember; and is given the same books—with restrictions. Remember the remark of Rochefoucauld, "There are thirty good stories in the world and twenty-nine cannot be told to women." There is a certain broad field of literature so grossly androcentric that for very shame men have tried to keep it to themselves. But in a milder form, the spades all named teaspoons, or at the worst appearing as trowels—the young woman is given the same fiction. Love and love and love—from "first sight" to marriage. There it stops—just the fluttering ribbon of announcement, "and lived happily ever after."

A young woman faces life—the seventy-year journey, remember; and she is given the same books—with restrictions. Recall Rochefoucauld's remark, "There are thirty great stories in the world, and twenty-nine can't be told to women." There is a wide range of literature so heavily focused on men that, out of embarrassment, they have tried to keep it to themselves. But in a lesser way, the spades all called teaspoons, or at worst showing up as trowels—the young woman is given the same fiction. Love and love and love—from "first sight" to marriage. That’s where it ends—just the fluttering announcement ribbon, "and they lived happily ever after."

Is that kind of fiction any sort of picture of a woman's life? Fiction, under our androcentric culture, has not given any true picture of woman's life, very little of human life, and a disproportioned section of man's life.

Is that kind of fiction an accurate reflection of a woman's life? Fiction, in our male-centered culture, hasn't provided a true depiction of a woman's life, very little of human life, and an unbalanced slice of a man's life.

As we daily grow more human, both of us, this noble art is changing for the better so fast that a short lifetime can mark the growth. New fields are opening and new laborers are working in them. But it is no swift and easy matter to disabuse the race mind from attitudes and habits inculcated for a thousand years. What we have been fed upon so long we are well used to, what we are used to we like, what we like we think is good and proper.

As we both become more human every day, this noble art is evolving for the better so quickly that even a short lifespan can witness its growth. New areas are emerging, and new workers are entering them. But it's not a quick or easy task to change the collective mindset from the attitudes and habits ingrained over a thousand years. What we've been accustomed to for so long feels familiar, what feels familiar we tend to like, and what we like we believe is good and right.

The widening demand for broader, truer fiction is disputed by the slow racial mind: and opposed by the marketers of literature on grounds of visible self-interest, as well as lethargic conservatism.

The growing demand for more expansive and authentic fiction is challenged by the slow-moving racial mindset and resisted by literature marketers due to obvious self-interest, as well as a sluggish conservatism.

It is difficult for men, heretofore the sole producers and consumers of literature; and for women, new to the field, and following masculine canons because all the canons were masculine; to stretch their minds to a recognition of the change which is even now upon us.

It’s hard for men, who have always been the only creators and consumers of literature, and for women, who are new to this space and following male standards since all the standards were male, to open their minds to the change that is happening right now.

This one narrow field has been for so long overworked, our minds are so filled with heroes and heroes continually repeating the one-act play, that when a book like David Harum is offered the publisher refuses it repeatedly, and finally insists on a "heart interest" being injected by force.

This one narrow field has been worked to death for so long, our minds are so packed with heroes and the same old one-act plays that when a book like David Harum is presented, the publisher keeps turning it down and finally insists on adding a "romantic interest" by any means necessary.

Did anyone read David Harum for that heart interest? Does anyone remember that heart interest? Has humanity no interests but those of the heart?

Did anyone read David Harum for the emotional aspect? Does anyone remember that emotional aspect? Does humanity have interests beyond just the heart?

Robert Ellesmere was a popular book—but not because of its heart interest.

Robert Ellesmere was a well-liked book—but not because of its emotional appeal.

Uncle Tom's Cabin appealed to the entire world, more widely than any work of fiction that was ever written; but if anybody fell in love and married in it they have been forgotten. There was plenty of love in that book, love of family, love of friends, love of master for servant and servant for master; love of mother for child; love of married people for each other; love of humanity and love of God.

Uncle Tom's Cabin resonated with the entire world, more than any other work of fiction ever written; but if anyone found love and got married in it, they've been forgotten. There was a lot of love in that book—love for family, love for friends, love from master to servant and servant to master; love from mother to child; love between married couples; love for humanity, and love for God.

It was extremely popular. Some say it was not literature. That opinion will live, like the name of Empedocles.

It was hugely popular. Some people say it wasn't literature. That opinion will endure, just like the name of Empedocles.

The art of fiction is being re-born in these days. Life is discovered to be longer, wider, deeper, richer, than these monotonous players of one June would have us believe.

The art of fiction is being re-born nowadays. Life is proving to be longer, broader, deeper, and richer than these dull characters from one June would have us think.

The humanizing of woman of itself opens five distinctly fresh fields of fiction: First the position of the young woman who is called upon to give up her "career"—her humanness—for marriage, and who objects to it; second, the middle-aged woman who at last discovers that her discontent is social starvation—that it is not more love that she wants, but more business in life: Third the interrelation of women with women—a thing we could never write about before because we never had it before: except in harems and convents: Fourth the inter-action between mothers and children; this not the eternal "mother and child," wherein the child is always a baby, but the long drama of personal relationship; the love and hope, the patience and power, the lasting joy and triumph, the slow eating disappointment which must never be owned to a living soul—here are grounds for novels that a million mothers and many million children would eagerly read: Fifth the new attitude of the full-grown woman who faces the demands of love with the high standards of conscious motherhood.

The empowerment of women opens up five completely new areas for fiction: First, the young woman who is expected to sacrifice her "career"—her individuality—for marriage and resists this expectation; second, the middle-aged woman who finally realizes that her unhappiness stems from a lack of social fulfillment—not just a lack of love but a need for more purpose in her life; third, the relationships between women—something we couldn't write about before because we didn't experience it, except in harems and convents; fourth, the dynamics between mothers and children; this isn't just the eternal "mother and child," where the child is always a baby, but a deeper exploration of their long-term relationship; the love and hope, the patience and strength, the lasting joy and triumph, along with the slow-growing disappointments that should never be confessed to anyone—this presents opportunities for stories that countless mothers and their children would love to read; fifth, the new perspective of the fully grown woman who approaches love with the mindful standards of being a conscious mother.

There are other fields, broad and brilliantly promising, but this chapter is meant merely to show that our one-sided culture has, in this art, most disproportionately overestimated the dominant instincts of the male—Love and War—an offense against art and truth, and an injury to life.

There are other areas, vast and full of potential, but this chapter is solely intended to demonstrate that our biased culture has, in this art, greatly overvalued the primary instincts of men—Love and War—dishonoring both art and truth, and causing harm to life.





VI. GAMES AND SPORTS

One of the sharpest distinctions both between the essential characters and the artificial positions of men and women, is in the matter of games and sports. By far the greater proportion of them are essentially masculine, and as such alien to women; while from those which are humanly interesting, women have been largely debarred by their arbitrary restrictions.

One of the biggest differences between the fundamental traits and the roles assigned to men and women is in the area of games and sports. Most of these activities are primarily associated with men and are therefore not suited for women; meanwhile, women have been mostly excluded from the games that are genuinely interesting due to these unfair restrictions.

The play instinct is common to girls and boys alike; and endures in some measure throughout life. As other young animals express their abounding energies in capricious activities similar to those followed in the business of living, so small children gambol, physically, like lambs and kids; and as the young of higher kinds of animals imitate in their play the more complex activities of their elders, so do children imitate whatever activities they see about them. In this field of playing there is no sex.

The play instinct is found in both girls and boys, and it lasts to some extent throughout life. Just like other young animals channel their energy into playful activities similar to their everyday routines, young children play around, physically, like lambs and kids. Similarly, as the young of more advanced animals mimic the more complex behaviors of their parents in their play, children replicate whatever activities they observe around them. In the realm of play, there is no gender.

Similarly in adult life healthy and happy persons, men and women, naturally express surplus energy in various forms of sport. We have here one of the most distinctively human manifestations. The great accumulation of social energy, and the necessary limitations of one kind of work, leave a human being tired of one form of action, yet still uneasy for lack of full expression; and this social need has been met by our great safety valve of games and sports.

Similarly, in adult life, healthy and happy people, both men and women, naturally channel their extra energy into different sports. This is one of the most distinctly human behaviors. The significant buildup of social energy, combined with the necessary limits of any single type of work, leaves a person exhausted from one kind of activity but still restless for a fuller expression; this social need has been addressed by our great outlet of games and sports.

In a society of either sex, or in a society without sex, there would still be both pleasure and use in games; they are vitally essential to human life. In a society of two sexes, wherein one has dictated all the terms of life, and the other has been confined to an extremely limited fraction of human living, we may look to see this great field of enjoyment as disproportionately divided.

In a society with any gender or in a genderless society, games would still provide both enjoyment and utility; they are crucial to human life. In a society with two genders, where one has set all the rules of life and the other has been restricted to a very small part of human existence, we can expect this vast area of enjoyment to be unfairly divided.

It is not only that we have reduced the play impulse in women by restricting them to one set of occupations, and overtaxing their energies with mother-work and housework combined; and not only that by our androcentric conventions we further restrict their amusements; but we begin in infancy, and forcibly differentiate their methods of play long before any natural distinction would appear.

It’s not just that we’ve limited women’s desire to play by confining them to a specific range of jobs, and exhausting them with both motherhood and housework; it's also that our male-centered norms further limit their enjoyment. We start from infancy, forcibly separating their ways of playing long before any natural differences would emerge.

Take that universal joy the doll, or puppet, as an instance. A small imitation of a large known object carries delight to the heart of a child of either sex. The worsted cat, the wooden horse, the little wagon, the tin soldier, the wax doll, the toy village, the "Noah's Ark," the omnipresent "Teddy Bear," any and every small model of a real thing is a delight to the young human being. Of all things the puppet is the most intimate, the little image of another human being to play with. The fancy of the child, making endless combinations with these visible types, plays as freely as a kitten in the leaves; or gravely carries out some observed forms of life, as the kitten imitates its mother's hunting.

Take the universal joy of dolls or puppets, for example. A small replica of a larger object brings joy to the heart of any child. The felt cat, the wooden horse, the little wagon, the tin soldier, the wax doll, the toy village, Noah's Ark, the ever-present Teddy Bear—any and every small model of a real thing delight young kids. Among all toys, the puppet is the most personal, a tiny version of a human to engage with. A child’s imagination, creating endless combinations with these tangible figures, plays as freely as a kitten in the leaves, or seriously mimics observed behaviors, just as a kitten copies its mother's hunting.

So far all is natural and human.

So far, everything feels natural and human.

Now see our attitude toward child's play—under a masculine culture. Regarding women only as a sex, and that sex as manifest from infancy, we make and buy for our little girls toys suitable to this view. Being females—which means mothers, we must needs provide them with babies before they cease to be babies themselves; and we expect their play to consist in an imitation of maternal cares. The doll, the puppet, which interests all children, we have rendered as an eternal baby; and we foist them upon our girl children by ceaseless millions.

Now look at our attitude toward childhood play—shaped by a male-dominated culture. By viewing women solely as a gender and seeing that gender as evident from a young age, we create and purchase toys for our little girls that reflect this perspective. Since they are females—which implies they will be mothers—we feel we must provide them with dolls before they even stop being babies themselves; and we expect their play to revolve around mimicking maternal responsibilities. The doll, the puppet, which fascinates all children, we have turned into a perpetual baby; and we push them onto our girl children by the millions.

The doll, as such, is dear to the little boy as well as the girl, but not as a baby. He likes his jumping-jack, his worsted Sambo, often a genuine rag-doll; but he is discouraged and ridiculed in this. We do not expect the little boy to manifest a father's love and care for an imitation child—but we do expect the little girl to show maternal feelings for her imitation baby. It has not yet occurred to us that this is monstrous.

The doll is cherished by both the little boy and the girl, but not in the same way as a baby. He enjoys his jumping jack, his knitted Sambo, and often a real rag doll; however, he feels discouraged and mocked for it. We don’t expect the little boy to show a father’s love and care for a pretend child, but we do expect the little girl to express maternal feelings for her toy baby. It hasn’t crossed our minds that this is unreasonable.

Little children should not be expected to show, in painful precocity, feelings which ought never to be experienced till they come at the proper age. Our kittens play at cat-sports, little Tom and Tabby together; but little Tabby does not play she is a mother!

Little kids shouldn't be expected to express, in an uncomfortable way, feelings that they shouldn't have to deal with until they're older. Our kittens play cat games, little Tom and Tabby are at it together; but little Tabby doesn't play—she's a mother!

Beyond the continuous dolls and their continuous dressing, we provide for our little girls tea sets and kitchen sets, doll's houses, little work-boxes—the imitation tools of their narrow trades. For the boy there is a larger choice. We make for them not only the essentially masculine toys of combat—all the enginery of mimic war; but also the models of human things, like boats, railroads, wagons. For them, too, are the comprehensive toys of the centuries, the kite, the top, the ball. As the boy gets old enough to play the games that require skill, he enters the world-lists, and the little sister, left inside, with her everlasting dolls, learns that she is "only a girl," and "mustn't play with boys—boys are so rough!" She has her doll and her tea set. She "plays house." If very active she may jump rope, in solitary enthusiasm, or in combination of from two to four. Her brother is playing games. From this time on he plays the games of the world. The "sporting page" should be called "the Man's Page" as that array of recipes, fashions and cheap advice is called "the Woman's Page."

Beyond the endless dolls and their constant dressing, we provide our little girls with tea sets and kitchen sets, dollhouses, and little craft boxes—the pretend tools of their limited roles. For boys, there are more options. We give them not only the typical masculine toys of combat—all the gear for pretend warfare—but also models of real-life things, like boats, trains, and trucks. They also get the timeless toys of the ages, like kites, tops, and balls. As boys grow old enough to enjoy games that require skill, they step into the competitive arena, while their little sisters stay inside with their never-ending dolls, learning that they are "just girls" and "shouldn't play with boys—boys are too rough!" She has her doll and her tea set. She "plays house." If she's very active, she might jump rope, either alone or with a group of two to four. Her brother is off playing games. From this point on, he engages in the games of the world. The "sporting page" should be called "the Man's Page," just as that collection of recipes, styles, and cheap advice is labeled "the Woman's Page."

One of the immediate educational advantages of the boy's position is that he learns "team work." This is not a masculine characteristic, it is a human one; a social power. Women are equally capable of it by nature; but not by education. Tending one's imitation baby is not team-work; nor is playing house. The little girl is kept forever within the limitations of her mother's "sphere" of action; while the boy learns life, and fancies that his new growth is due to his superior sex.

One of the immediate benefits of the boy's position is that he learns "teamwork." This isn't a masculine trait; it's a human one— a social skill. Women are just as naturally capable of it, but not through education. Taking care of a toy baby isn't teamwork, nor is playing house. The little girl is always confined to her mother's "sphere" of influence, while the boy learns about life and believes that his new development is because of his superior sex.

Now there are certain essential distinctions in the sexes, which would manifest themselves to some degree even in normally reared children; as for instance the little male would be more given to fighting and destroying; the little female more to caring for and constructing things.

Now there are some key differences between the sexes that would show up to some extent even in normally raised kids; for example, little boys would be more inclined to fight and break things, while little girls would be more focused on caring for and making things.

"Boys are so destructive!" we say with modest pride—as if it was in some way a credit to them. But early youth is not the time to display sex distinction; and they should be discouraged rather than approved.

"Boys are so destructive!" we say with a hint of pride—as if it's something to admire. But early childhood isn't the time to highlight gender differences; they should be discouraged rather than celebrated.

The games of the world, now the games of men, easily fall into two broad classes—games of skill and games of chance.

The games of the world, now the games of people, easily fall into two broad categories—skill games and chance games.

The interest and pleasure in the latter is purely human, and as such is shared by the two sexes even now. Women, in the innocent beginnings or the vicious extremes of this line of amusement, make as wild gamblers as men. At the races, at the roulette wheel, at the bridge table, this is clearly seen.

The interest and enjoyment in this is entirely human, and as such, it's shared by both genders even today. Women, whether in the innocent beginnings or the extreme excesses of this kind of fun, can be just as wild as men when it comes to gambling. This is clearly evident at the races, at the roulette wheel, and at the bridge table.

In games of skill we have a different showing. Most of these are developed by and for men; but when they are allowed, women take part in them with interest and success. In card games, in chess, checkers, and the like, in croquet and tennis, they play, and play well if well-trained. Where they fall short in so many games, and are so wholly excluded in others, is not for lack of human capacity, but for lack of masculinity. Most games are male. In their element of desire to win, to get the prize, they are male; and in their universal attitude of competition they are male, the basic spirit of desire and of combat working out through subtle modern forms.

In skill-based games, the situation is different. Most of these are created by and for men; however, when given the chance, women participate with enthusiasm and succeed. In card games, chess, checkers, croquet, and tennis, they compete and perform well if properly trained. Where they struggle in many games and are excluded from others is not due to a lack of ability, but rather a lack of male-oriented environments. Most games are geared towards men. In their drive to win and claim prizes, they embody a male perspective; and in their overall competitive nature, they reflect a male spirit, with the fundamental instincts of ambition and rivalry manifesting in subtle modern forms.

There is something inherently masculine also in the universal dominance of the projectile in their games. The ball is the one unescapable instrument of sport. From the snapped marble of infancy to the flying missile of the bat, this form endures. To send something forth with violence; to throw it, bat it, kick it, shoot it; this impulse seems to date back to one of the twin forces of the universe—the centrifugal and centripetal energies between which swing the planets.

There’s something inherently masculine about the universal dominance of the projectile in their games. The ball is the one unavoidable tool of sports. From the snapped marble of childhood to the soaring missile of the bat, this form persists. To send something flying with force; to throw it, hit it, kick it, or shoot it; this instinct seems to trace back to one of the twin forces of the universe—the centrifugal and centripetal energies between which the planets revolve.

The basic feminine impulse is to gather, to put together, to construct; the basic masculine impulse to scatter, to disseminate, to destroy. It seems to give pleasure to a man to bang something and drive it from him; the harder he hits it and the farther it goes the better pleased he is.

The fundamental feminine instinct is to collect, create, and build; the fundamental masculine instinct is to spread out, share, and break down. It appears to bring a man joy to hit something and push it away from him; the harder he strikes it and the farther it flies, the more satisfied he seems to be.

Games of this sort will never appeal to women. They are not wrong; not necessarily evil in their place; our mistake is in considering them as human, whereas they are only masculine.

Games like this will never appeal to women. They're not wrong; not necessarily bad in their context; our mistake is in viewing them as human when they are only meant for men.

Play, in the childish sense is an expression of previous habit; and to be studied in that light. Play in the educational sense should be encouraged or discouraged to develop desired characteristics. This we know, and practice; only we do it under androcentric canons; confining the girl to the narrow range we consider proper for women, and assisting the boy to cover life with the expression of masculinity, when we should be helping both to a more human development.

Play, in a childish way, is a reflection of past experiences and should be viewed that way. Play, in an educational context, should be encouraged or limited to foster certain traits. We understand this and put it into practice; however, we do it according to male-centered standards, limiting the girl to the narrow roles we deem appropriate for women, while allowing the boy to express masculinity throughout life. Instead, we should be supporting both to grow in a more human way.

Our settled conviction that men are people—the people, and that masculine qualities are the main desideratam in life, is what keeps up this false estimate of the value of our present games. Advocates of football, for instance, proudly claim that it fits a man for life. Life—from the wholly male point of view—is a battle, with a prize. To want something beyond measure, and to fight to get—that is the simple proposition. This view of life finds its most naive expression in predatory warfare; and still tends to make predatory warfare of the later and more human processes of industry. Because they see life in this way they imagine that skill and practice in the art of fighting, especially in collective fighting, is so valuable in our modern life. This is an archaism which would be laughable if it were not so dangerous in its effects.

Our strong belief that men are people—the people—and that masculine traits are the most important things in life, is what maintains this misguided view of the value of our current games. Supporters of football, for example, confidently assert that it prepares a man for life. Life—from a purely male perspective—is a battle, with a reward. Wanting something desperately and fighting to obtain it—that’s the basic idea. This outlook on life finds its simplest expression in aggressive warfare; and it tends to turn later, more civilized industrial processes into a form of warfare. Because they see life this way, they think that skill and training in fighting, especially in group fighting, are invaluable in today’s world. This is an outdated notion that would be funny if it weren’t so harmful in its consequences.

The valuable processes to-day are those of invention, discovery, all grades of industry, and, most especially needed, the capacity for honest service and administration of our immense advantages. These are not learned on the football field. This spirit of desire and combat may be seen further in all parts of this great subject. It has developed into a cult of sportsmanship; so universally accepted among men as of superlative merit as to quite blind them to other standards of judgment.

The valuable processes today are those of invention, discovery, all levels of industry, and, most importantly, the ability to provide honest service and manage our vast advantages. These skills aren't gained on the football field. This spirit of ambition and competition is evident throughout this entire important topic. It has turned into a culture of sportsmanship, so widely embraced by people as exceptionally admirable that it completely blinds them to other criteria for judgment.

In the Cook-Peary controversy of 1909, this canon was made manifest. Here, one man had spent a lifetime in trying to accomplish something; and at the eleventh hour succeeded. Then, coming out in the rich triumph long deferred, he finds another man, of character well known to him, impudently and falsely claiming that he had done it first. Mr. Peary expressed himself, quite restrainedly and correctly, in regard to the effrontery and falsity of this claim—and all the country rose up and denounced him as "unsportsmanlike!"

In the Cook-Peary controversy of 1909, this principle was clearly demonstrated. One man had dedicated his life to achieving something and finally succeeded at the last moment. However, upon celebrating his long-awaited victory, he discovers another man, whom he knew well, shamelessly and dishonestly claiming that he had done it first. Mr. Peary spoke up about the audacity and untruth of this claim in a calm and appropriate manner—but the entire country turned against him and labeled him as "unsportsmanlike!"

Sport and the canons of sport are so dominant in the masculine mind that what they considered a deviation from these standards was of far more importance than the question of fact involved; to say nothing of the moral obliquity of one lying to the whole world, for money; and that at the cost of another's hard-won triumph.

Sport and the rules of sports are so ingrained in men's minds that any deviation from these standards seemed way more significant than the actual facts; not to mention the moral wrongness of lying to everyone for money, especially at the expense of someone else's hard-earned success.

If women had condemned the conduct of one or the other as "not good house-wifery," this would have been considered a most puerile comment. But to be "unsportsmanlike" is the unpardonable sin.

If women had criticized one or the other as "not good housewifery," it would have been seen as a childish remark. But being "unsportsmanlike" is the unforgivable offense.

Owing to our warped standards we glaringly misjudge the attitude of the two sexes in regard to their amusements. Of late years more women than ever before have taken to playing cards; and some, unfortunately, play for money. A steady stream of comment and blame follows upon this. The amount of card playing among men—and the amount of money lost and won, does not produce an equivalent comment.

Due to our skewed standards, we clearly misunderstand the attitudes of both genders when it comes to their entertainment. Recently, more women than ever have started playing cards; and some, unfortunately, play for money. A constant stream of criticism and blame comes with this. The level of card playing among men—and the money that changes hands—does not receive the same amount of attention.

Quite aside from this one field of dissipation, look at the share of life, of time, of strength, of money, given by men to their wide range of recreation. The primitive satisfaction of hunting and fishing they maintain at enormous expense. This is the indulgence of a most rudimentary impulse; pre-social and largely pre-human, of no service save as it affects bodily health, and of a most deterring influence on real human development. Where hunting and fishing is of real human service, done as a means of livelihood, it is looked down upon like any other industry; it is no longer "sport."

Aside from this one area of wastefulness, consider the amount of life, time, energy, and money that men spend on various forms of recreation. They maintain the basic pleasure of hunting and fishing at great cost. This is simply indulging a very primitive instinct; it's pre-social and mostly pre-human, providing little benefit except for physical health, and it actually hinders true human growth. When hunting and fishing serve a genuine human purpose, like providing a livelihood, it's regarded as just another job; it’s no longer seen as "sport."

The human being kills to eat, or to sell and eat from the returns; he kills for the creature's hide or tusks, for use of some sort; or to protect his crops from vermin, his flocks from depredation; but the sportsman kills for the gratification of a primeval instinct, and under rules of an arbitrary cult. "Game" creatures are his prey; bird, beast or fish that is hard to catch, that requires some skill to slay; that will give him not mere meat and bones, but "the pleasure of the chase."

The human being kills to eat or to sell what he gets from it; he kills for the animal's skin or tusks, for some kind of use; or to protect his crops from pests and his livestock from harm. But the sportsman kills for the thrill of a basic instinct, following the rules of an arbitrary tradition. "Game" animals are his targets; birds, beasts, or fish that are difficult to catch and require some skill to hunt; that provide him not just meat and bones, but "the pleasure of the chase."

The pleasure of the chase is a very real one. It is exemplified, in its broad sense in children's play. The running and catching games, the hiding and finding games, are always attractive to our infancy, as they are to that of cubs and kittens. But the long continuance of this indulgence among mature civilized beings is due to their masculinity. That group of associated sex instincts, which in the woman prompts to the patient service and fierce defence of the little child, in the man has its deepest root in seeking, pursuing and catching. To hunt is more than a means of obtaining food, in his long ancestry; it is to follow at any cost, to seek through all difficulties, to struggle for and secure the central prize of his being—a mate.

The thrill of the chase is very real. You can see it in children's play. Games of running and catching, as well as hiding and finding, are always appealing to us as kids, just like they are to baby animals. But the reason adults continue to enjoy this kind of play is linked to masculinity. The group of instincts associated with sex that drives women to care for and fiercely protect children, in men, is deeply rooted in the desire to seek, pursue, and capture. Hunting is more than just a way to get food for his ancestors; it's about following at all costs, overcoming obstacles, and fighting for the ultimate goal of his existence—a mate.

His "protective instincts" are far later and more superficial. To support and care for his wife, his children, is a recent habit, in plain sight historically; but "the pleasure of the chase" is older than that. We should remember that associate habits and impulses last for ages upon ages in living forms; as in the tree climbing instincts of our earliest years, of Simian origin; and the love of water, which dates back through unmeasured time. Where for millions of years the strongest pleasure a given organism is fitted for, is obtained by a certain group of activities, those activities will continue to give pleasure long after their earlier use is gone.

His "protective instincts" are much more recent and superficial. Supporting and caring for his wife and children is a modern practice, clearly seen in history; but "the thrill of the chase" goes back much further. We should keep in mind that linked habits and impulses persist for ages in living beings, like the tree-climbing instincts from our early years, which come from our primate ancestors, and the love of water that stretches back through countless ages. When certain activities have brought the greatest pleasure to an organism for millions of years, those activities will continue to be enjoyable long after their original purpose has faded.

This is why men enjoy "the ardor of pursuit" far more than women. It is an essentially masculine ardor. To come easily by what he wants does not satisfy him. He wants to want it. He wants to hunt it, seek it, chase it, catch it. He wants it to be "game." He is by virtue of his sex a sportsman.

This is why men enjoy "the thrill of the chase" far more than women. It’s an inherently masculine thrill. Obtaining what he desires easily doesn’t fulfill him. He wants to crave it. He wants to hunt for it, seek it out, chase it down, and capture it. He wants it to be "game." By nature of his gender, he is a sportsman.

There is no reason why these special instincts should not be gratified so long as it does no harm to the more important social processes; but it is distinctly desirable that we should understand their nature. The reason why we have the present overwhelming mass of "sporting events," from the ball game to the prize fight, is because our civilization is so overwhelmingly masculine. We shall criticize them more justly when we see that all this mass of indulgence is in the first place a form of sex-expression, and in the second place a survival of instincts older than the oldest savagery.

There’s no reason these special instincts shouldn’t be satisfied as long as it doesn't harm the more important social processes; however, it's definitely important for us to understand their nature. The reason we have so many "sporting events," from baseball games to boxing matches, is that our society is predominantly masculine. We'll be able to critique them more fairly when we recognize that this whole array of indulgence is primarily a form of sexual expression and, secondly, a leftover from instincts that are older than any primitive behavior.

Besides our games and sports we have a large field of "amusements" also worth examining. We not only enjoy doing things, but we enjoy seeing them done by others. In these highly specialized days most of our amusement consists in paying two dollars to sit three hours and see other people do things.

Besides our games and sports, we also have a wide range of "amusements" that are worth looking into. We not only like taking part in activities ourselves, but we also enjoy watching others do them. In today's world, most of our entertainment comes from spending two dollars to sit for three hours and watch other people perform.

This in its largest sense is wholly human. We, as social creatures, can enjoy a thousand forms of expression quite beyond the personal. The birds must each sing his own song; the crickets chirp in millionfold performance; but human being feels the deep thrill of joy in their special singers, actors, dancers, as well as in their own personal attempts. That we should find pleasure in watching one another is humanly natural, but what it is we watch, the kind of pleasure and the kind of performance, opens a wide field of choice.

This, in its broadest sense, is entirely human. As social beings, we can appreciate countless forms of expression that go beyond the personal. Birds must each sing their own song; crickets chirp in countless variations; but humans feel a profound joy not only in their own efforts but also in the unique talents of singers, actors, and dancers. It's completely natural for us to enjoy watching one another, but what we choose to watch, the type of pleasure we derive, and the kind of performance involved, offer us a vast range of options.

We know, for instance, something of the crude excesses of aboriginal Australian dances; we know more of the gross license of old Rome; we know the breadth of the jokes in medieval times, and the childish brutality of the bull-ring and the cockpit. We know, in a word, that amusements vary; that they form a ready gauge of character and culture; that they have a strong educational influence for good or bad. What we have not hitherto observed is the predominant masculine influence on our amusements. If we recall once more the statement with regard to entertaining anecdotes, "There are thirty good stories in the world, and twenty-nine of them cannot be told to women," we get a glaring sidelight on the masculine specialization in jokes.

We know, for example, a bit about the wild excesses of Aboriginal Australian dances; we know more about the blatant freedoms of ancient Rome; we understand the range of jokes during medieval times, and the childish brutality of bullfighting and cockfighting. In short, we recognize that entertainment varies; it reflects character and culture; and it has a strong educational impact for better or worse. What we haven't really noticed until now is the strong male influence on our entertainment. If we think again about the saying regarding entertaining stories, "There are thirty good stories in the world, and twenty-nine of them can't be told to women," it highlights the male focus in humor.

"Women have no sense of humor" has been frequently said, when "Women have not a masculine sense of humor" would be truer. If women had thirty "good stories" twenty-nine of which could not be told to men, it is possible that men, if they heard some of the twenty-nine, would not find them funny. The overweight of one sex has told in our amusements as everywhere else.

"Women have no sense of humor" is often said, but it would be more accurate to say, "Women don’t have a masculine sense of humor." If women had thirty "good stories," twenty-nine of them might not be suitable for men, and it's likely that if men heard some of those twenty-nine, they wouldn't find them funny. The dominance of one gender is reflected in our entertainment, just like in every other aspect of life.

Because men are further developed in humanity than women are as yet, they have built and organized great places of amusement; because they carried into their humanity their unchecked masculinity, they have made these amusements to correspond. Dramatic expression, is in its true sense, not only a human distinction, but one of our noblest arts. It is allied with the highest emotions; is religious, educational, patriotic, covering the whole range of human feeling. Through it we should be able continually to express, in audible, visible forms, alive and moving, whatever phase of life we most enjoyed or wished to see. There was a time when the drama led life; lifted, taught, inspired, enlightened. Now its main function is to amuse. Under the demand for amusement, it has cheapened and coarsened, and now the thousand vaudevilles and picture shows give us the broken fragments of a degraded art of which our one main demand is that it shall make us laugh.

Because men are more developed in humanity than women are right now, they have created and organized large entertainment venues. Due to their unchecked masculinity, they have shaped these amusements to reflect that. True dramatic expression is not just a human trait, but one of our greatest arts. It is connected to the highest emotions; it’s religious, educational, and patriotic, covering the entire spectrum of human feeling. Through it, we should be able to continuously express, in audible and visual forms that are alive and dynamic, any phase of life we most enjoy or want to witness. There was a time when drama guided life; it lifted, taught, inspired, and enlightened. Now its main role is to entertain. In the pursuit of amusement, it has become cheap and crude, and now the countless vaudevilles and movie shows offer us the shattered remnants of a degraded art, with our primary demand being that it makes us laugh.

There are many causes at work here; and while this study seeks to show in various fields one cause, it does not claim that cause is the only one. Our economic conditions have enormous weight upon our amusements, as on all other human phenomena; but even under economic pressure the reactions of men and women are often dissimilar. Tired men and women both need amusement, the relaxation and restful change of irresponsible gayety. The great majority of women, who work longer hours than any other class, need it desperately and never get it. Amusement, entertainment, recreation, should be open to us all, enjoyed by all. This is a human need, and not a distinction of either sex. Like most human things it is not only largely monopolized by men, but masculized throughout. Many forms of amusement are for men only; more for men mostly; all are for men if they choose to go.

There are many factors at play here; and while this study aims to highlight one cause across different areas, it doesn’t claim that this cause is the only one. Our economic situation has a huge impact on our leisure activities, just like it does on all other human experiences; but even under economic stress, the responses of men and women often differ. Both tired men and women need enjoyment, a break, and a carefree change of pace. The vast majority of women, who work longer hours than any other group, desperately need it and rarely receive it. Fun, entertainment, and recreation should be accessible to everyone, enjoyed by all. This is a human necessity and not a privilege of either gender. Like many human experiences, it is not only mostly dominated by men but also tailored for them. Many types of entertainment are exclusive to men; more are primarily for men; and all are open to men if they choose to participate.

The entrance of women upon the stage, and their increased attendance at theatres has somewhat modified the nature of the performance; even the "refined vaudeville" now begins to show the influence of women. It would be no great advantage to have this department of human life feminized; the improvement desired is to have it less masculized; to reduce the excessive influence of one, and to bring out those broad human interests and pleasures which men and women can equally participate in and enjoy.

The arrival of women on stage and their growing presence in theaters has changed the nature of performances; even "refined vaudeville" is starting to reflect women's influence. It wouldn’t be beneficial to feminize this aspect of human life; rather, the goal is to lessen the dominance of one gender and highlight the broader human interests and pleasures that both men and women can engage in and enjoy equally.





VII. ETHICS AND RELIGION.

The laws of physics were at work before we were on earth, and continued to work on us long before we had intelligence enough to perceive, much less understand, them. Our proven knowledge of these processes constitutes "the science of physics"; but the laws were there before the science.

The laws of physics existed before we were on Earth and continued to affect us long before we had the intelligence to notice, let alone understand, them. What we know about these processes makes up "the science of physics"; but the laws existed before the science.

Physics is the science of material relation, how things and natural forces work with and on one another. Ethics is the science of social relation, how persons and social forces work with and on one another.

Physics is the science of material relationships, how things and natural forces interact with and affect each other. Ethics is the science of social relationships, how individuals and social forces interact with and affect one another.

Ethics is to the human world what physics is to the material world; ignorance of ethics leaves us in the same helpless position in regard to one another that ignorance of physics left us in regard to earth, air, fire and water.

Ethics is to human life what physics is to the physical world; not understanding ethics puts us in the same powerless situation with each other that not understanding physics put us in concerning earth, air, fire, and water.

To be sure, people lived and died and gradually improved, while yet ignorant of the physical sciences; they developed a rough "rule of thumb" method, as animals do, and used great forces without understanding them. But their lives were safer and their improvement more rapid as they learned more, and began to make servants of the forces which had been their masters.

Sure, people lived and died and slowly got better, even while being unaware of the physical sciences; they created a simple "rule of thumb" approach, like animals do, and employed great forces without fully grasping them. However, their lives became safer and their progress quicker as they learned more and started to control the forces that had once controlled them.

We have progressed, lamely enough, with terrible loss and suffering, from stark savagery to our present degree of civilization; we shall go on more safely and swiftly when we learn more of the science of ethics.

We have moved forward, albeit awkwardly, with significant loss and pain, from extreme brutality to our current level of civilization; we will continue to advance more safely and quickly as we gain a better understanding of the science of ethics.

Let us note first that while the underlying laws of ethics remain steady and reliable, human notions of them have varied widely and still do so. In different races, ages, classes, sexes, different views of ethics obtain; the conduct of the people is modified by their views, and their prosperity is modified by their conduct.

Let’s start by acknowledging that while the fundamental principles of ethics stay constant and dependable, people's ideas about them have changed significantly and continue to do so. In various races, time periods, social classes, and genders, different ethical perspectives exist; people's behavior is shaped by their beliefs, and their success is influenced by their behavior.

Primitive man became very soon aware that conduct was of importance. As consciousness increased, with the power to modify action from within, instead of helplessly reacting to stimuli from without, there arose the crude first codes of ethics, the "Thou shalt" and "Thou shalt not" of the blundering savage. It was mostly "Thou shalt not." Inhibition, the checking of an impulse proven disadvantageous, was an earlier and easier form of action than the later human power to consciously decide on and follow a course of action with no stimulus but one's own will.

Primitive humans quickly realized that behavior mattered. As their awareness grew, along with the ability to change their actions internally rather than just react to external triggers, simple early ethical codes started to emerge, marked by "You should" and "You shouldn't" from the clumsy savage. Most of it was "You shouldn't." Resisting an impulse that was clearly harmful was a simpler and earlier form of action compared to the later human ability to consciously choose and pursue a course of action driven only by one's own will.

Primitive ethics consists mostly of Tabus—the things that are forbidden; and all our dim notions of ethics to this day, as well as most of our religions, deal mainly with forbidding.

Primitive ethics mainly revolves around taboos—things that are off-limits; and many of our vague ideas about ethics today, as well as most of our religions, primarily focus on things that are prohibited.

This is almost the whole of our nursery government, to an extent shown by the well-worn tale of the child who said her name was "Mary." "Mary what?" they asked her. And she answered, "Mary Don't." It is also the main body of our legal systems—a complex mass of prohibitions and preventions. And even in manners and conventions, the things one should not do far outnumber the things one should. A general policy of negation colors our conceptions of ethics and religion.

This is nearly all of how we manage our upbringing, as illustrated by the familiar story of the child who claimed her name was "Mary." "Mary who?" they asked her. And she replied, "Mary Don't." It also reflects the core of our legal systems—a complicated web of rules and restrictions. Even in social etiquette, the things we're not supposed to do far exceed the things we are. A general attitude of saying no shapes our understanding of ethics and religion.

When the positive side began to be developed, it was at first in purely arbitrary and artificial form. The followers of a given religion were required to go through certain motions, as prostrating themselves, kneeling, and the like; they were required to bring tribute to the gods and their priests, sacrifices, tithes, oblations; they were set little special performances to go through at given times; the range of things forbidden was broad; the range of things commanded was narrow. The Christian religion, practically interpreted, requires a fuller "change of heart" and change of life than any preceding it; which may account at once for its wide appeal to enlightened peoples, and to its scarcity of application.

When the positive side started to develop, it was initially in a completely arbitrary and artificial way. Followers of a particular religion were expected to perform certain actions, like prostrating themselves, kneeling, and similar gestures; they had to bring offerings to the gods and their priests, including sacrifices, tithes, and gifts; they were given specific rituals to perform at certain times; the list of forbidden actions was extensive, while the list of required actions was limited. The Christian religion, when practically applied, demands a more significant “change of heart” and transformation of life than any before it, which may explain both its broad appeal to enlightened societies and its limited application.

Again, in surveying the field, it is seen that as our grasp of ethical values widened, as we called more and more acts and tendencies "right" and "wrong," we have shown astonishing fluctuations and vagaries in our judgment. Not only in our religions, which have necessarily upheld each its own set of prescribed actions as most "right," and its own special prohibitions as most "wrong"; but in our beliefs about ethics and our real conduct, we have varied absurdly.

Again, as we look over the landscape, it's clear that as our understanding of ethical values has expanded, labeling more and more actions and tendencies as "right" or "wrong," our judgment has shown surprising ups and downs. This isn't just in our religions, which have each maintained their own list of what’s considered most "right" and their own specific prohibitions as most "wrong"; but also in our beliefs about ethics and in our actual behavior, we've varied in absurd ways.

Take, for instance, the ethical concept among "gentlemen" a century or so since, which put the paying of one's gambling debts as a well-nigh sacred duty, and the paying of a tradesman who had fed and clothed one as a quite negligible matter. If the process of gambling was of social service, and the furnishing of food and clothes was not, this might be good ethics; but as the contrary is true, we have to account for this peculiar view on other grounds.

Take, for example, the ethical idea among "gentlemen" about a hundred years ago, which held that paying off gambling debts was almost a sacred duty, while settling a bill with a tradesman who had provided food and clothing was considered a minor issue. If gambling served a social purpose and providing food and clothing did not, this might make sense ethically; but since the opposite is true, we need to explain this unusual perspective on other terms.

Again, where in Japan a girl, to maintain her parents, is justified in leading a life of shame, we have a peculiar ethical standard difficult for Western minds to appreciate. Yet in such an instance as is described in "Auld Robin Gray," we see precisely the same code; the girl, to benefit her parents, marries a rich old man she does not love—which is to lead a life of shame. The ethical view which justifies this, puts the benefit of parents above the benefit of children, robs the daughter of happiness and motherhood, injures posterity to assist ancestors.

Again, in Japan, a girl may feel it's acceptable to lead a life of shame to support her parents, which presents a unique ethical standard that can be hard for Western minds to understand. However, in the scenario described in "Auld Robin Gray," we see a similar principle; the girl marries a wealthy old man she doesn't love to help her parents—essentially, leading a life of shame. This ethical perspective prioritizes the well-being of parents over that of children, depriving the daughter of happiness and the chance to be a mother, and harming future generations to benefit those who came before.

This is one of the products of that very early religion, ancestor worship; and here we lay a finger on a distinctly masculine influence.

This is one of the results of that early religion, ancestor worship; and here we touch on a clearly masculine influence.

We know little of ethical values during the matriarchate; whatever they were, they must have depended for sanction on a cult of promiscuous but efficient maternity. Our recorded history begins in the patriarchal period, and it is its ethics alone which we know.

We know very little about ethical values during the matriarchate; whatever they were, they probably relied on a cult of promiscuous but effective motherhood for support. Our recorded history starts in the patriarchal period, and it's only its ethics that we are familiar with.

The mother instinct, throughout nature, is one of unmixed devotion, of love and service, care and defence, with no self-interest. The animal father, in such cases as he is of service to the young, assists the mother in her work in similar fashion. But the human father in the family with the male head soon made that family an instrument of desire, and combat, and self-expression, following the essentially masculine impulses. The children were his, and if males, valuable to serve and glorify him. In his dominance over servile women and helpless children, free rein was given to the growth of pride and the exercise of irresponsible tyranny. To these feelings, developed without check for thousands of years, and to the mental habits resultant, it is easy to trace much of the bias of our early ethical concepts.

The maternal instinct, seen throughout nature, is characterized by pure devotion, love, service, care, and protection, with no self-interest involved. The animal father, when he helps the young, supports the mother in much the same way. However, the human father in a family headed by a male quickly turned that family into a tool for desire, conflict, and self-expression, following typical masculine impulses. The children were his, and if they were boys, they were seen as valuable for serving and elevating him. In his dominance over dependent women and vulnerable children, he was free to develop pride and exercise irresponsible control. These feelings, unchecked for thousands of years, have significantly influenced the biases in our early ethical beliefs.

Perhaps it is worth while to repeat here that the effort of this book is by no means to attribute a wholly evil influence to men, and a wholly good one to women; it is not even claimed that a purely feminine culture would have advanced the world more successfully. It does claim that the influence of the two together is better than that of either one alone; and in especial to point out what special kind of injury is due to the exclusive influence of one sex heretofore.

Perhaps it's worth mentioning again that the aim of this book is not to suggest that men are entirely bad and women are entirely good; it doesn't even argue that a purely feminine culture would have made the world better. It does assert that the combined influence of both genders is more beneficial than that of either one alone; and it specifically focuses on highlighting the particular type of harm that results from the dominant influence of one sex in the past.

We have to-day reached a degree of human development where both men and women are capable of seeing over and across the distinctions of sex, and mutually working for the advancement of the world. Our progress is, however, seriously impeded by what we may call the masculine tradition, the unconscious dominance of a race habit based on this long androcentric period; and it is well worth while, in the interests of both sexes, to show the mischievous effects of the predominance of one.

We have today reached a level of human development where both men and women can look beyond the differences of gender and work together for the progress of the world. However, our advancement is seriously hindered by what we might call the masculine tradition, the unintentional dominance of a mindset rooted in this long period of male-centered thinking. It's important, for the benefit of both genders, to highlight the harmful effects of one side dominating the other.

We have in our ethics not only a "double standard" in one special line, but in nearly all. Man, as a sex, has quite naturally deified his own qualities rather than those of his opposite. In his codes of manners, of morals, of laws, in his early concepts of God, his ancient religions, we see masculinity written large on every side. Confining women wholly to their feminine functions, he has required of them only what he called feminine virtues, and the one virtue he has demanded, to the complete overshadowing of all others, is measured by wholly masculine requirements.

We have in our ethics not just a "double standard" in one area, but in almost all of them. Men, as a group, have naturally glorified their own qualities instead of those of women. In their social norms, moral codes, laws, early ideas about God, and ancient religions, we see masculinity prominently featured everywhere. By limiting women entirely to their feminine roles, men have expected from them only what they called feminine virtues, and the one virtue they insisted upon, overshadowing all others, is judged by purely masculine standards.

In the interests of health and happiness, monogamous marriage proves its superiority in our race as it has in others. It is essential to the best growth of humanity that we practice the virtue of chastity; it is a human virtue, not a feminine one. But in masculine hands this virtue was enforced upon women under penalties of hideous cruelty, and quite ignored by men. Masculine ethics, colored by masculine instincts, always dominated by sex, has at once recognized the value of chastity in the woman, which is right; punished its absence unfairly, which is wrong; and then reversed the whole matter when applied to men, which is ridiculous.

In the interest of health and happiness, monogamous marriage shows its superiority in our society just as it has in others. It's crucial for the flourishing of humanity that we embrace the virtue of chastity; it’s a human virtue, not just a feminine one. However, this virtue has often been imposed on women through severe penalties while being largely overlooked by men. Masculine ethics, influenced by masculine instincts and focused on sex, have recognized the importance of chastity in women, which is correct; unfairly punished its absence, which is wrong; and then completely reversed the situation when it comes to men, which is absurd.

Ethical laws are laws—not idle notions. Chastity is a virtue because it promotes human welfare—not because men happen to prize it in women and ignore it themselves. The underlying reason for the whole thing is the benefit of the child; and to that end a pure and noble fatherhood is requisite, as well as such a motherhood. Under the limitations of a too masculine ethics, we have developed on this one line social conditions which would be absurdly funny if they were not so horrible.

Ethical laws are laws—not just empty ideas. Chastity is a virtue because it enhances human well-being—not just because men value it in women and overlook it in themselves. The main reason for all of this is the benefit of the child; and to achieve that, we need both a pure and noble fatherhood, as well as a virtuous motherhood. Because of a too male-focused ethics, we have created social conditions that would be laughably absurd if they weren't so terrible.

Religion, be it noticed, does not bear out this attitude. The immense human need of religion, the noble human character of the great religious teachers, has always set its standards, when first established, ahead of human conduct.

Religion, it should be noted, does not support this attitude. The overwhelming human need for religion and the admirable character of the great religious leaders have always set their standards, when first established, above human behavior.

Some there are, men of learning and authority, who hold that the deadening immobility of our religions, their resistance to progress and relentless preservation of primitive ideals, is due to the conservatism of women. Men, they say, are progressive by nature; women are conservative. Women are more religious than men, and so preserve old religious forms unchanged after men have outgrown them.

Some people, particularly those with knowledge and influence, believe that the stagnation of our religions, their resistance to change, and their strict adherence to outdated ideals, is caused by women's conservatism. They argue that men are naturally progressive, while women are more traditional. Women tend to be more religious than men, which leads them to maintain old religious practices even after men have moved on from them.

If we saw women in absolute freedom, with a separate religion devised by women, practiced by women, and remaining unchanged through the centuries; while men, on the other hand, bounded bravely forward, making new ones as fast as they were needed, this belief might be maintained. But what do we see? All the old religions made by men, and forced on the women whether they liked it or not. Often women not even considered as part of the scheme—denied souls—given a much lower place in the system—going from the service of their father's gods to the service of their husbands—having none of their own. We see religions which make practically no place for women, as with the Moslem, as rigidly bigoted and unchanging as any other.

If we witnessed women enjoying complete freedom, with a distinct religion created by women, followed by women, and remaining unchanged over the years; while men confidently moved ahead, creating new ones as needed, we could hold onto that belief. But what do we actually see? All the old religions made by men, imposed on women regardless of their feelings. Often, women aren't even recognized as part of the equation—denied souls—assigned a much lower status—shifting from worshiping their father's gods to serving their husbands—without any of their own. We observe religions that offer virtually no role for women, like Islam, which is as rigidly dogmatic and unchanging as any other.

We see also this: that the wider and deeper the religion, the more human, the more it calls for practical applications in Christianity—the more it appeals to women. Further, in the diverging sects of the Christian religion, we find that its progressiveness is to be measured, not by the numbers of its women adherents, but by their relative freedom. The women of America, who belong to a thousand sects, who follow new ones with avidity, who even make them, and who also leave them all as men do, are women, as well as those of Spain, who remain contented Romanists, but in America the status of women is higher.

We also see this: the broader and deeper the religion, the more it connects with people, the more it requires practical applications in Christianity—the more it resonates with women. Moreover, in the various branches of the Christian faith, we find that its progressiveness is not measured by the number of female followers but by their level of freedom. The women in America, who belong to countless denominations, eagerly embrace new ones, even create them, and leave them just like men do, are similar to those in Spain, who remain satisfied with Catholicism, but in America, women's status is higher.

The fact is this: a servile womanhood is in a state of arrested development, and as such does form a ground for the retention of ancient ideas. But this is due to the condition of servility, not to womanhood. That women at present are the bulwark of the older forms of our religions is due to the action of two classes of men: the men of the world, who keep women in their restricted position, and the men of the church, who take every advantage of the limitations of women. When we have for the first time in history a really civilized womanhood, we can then judge better of its effect on religion.

The truth is this: a submissive womanhood is stuck in a state of immaturity, which allows for the persistence of outdated beliefs. However, this is a result of the condition of submission, not of womanhood itself. The fact that women are currently the defenders of traditional forms of our religions is because of the actions of two groups of men: worldly men, who keep women in their limited roles, and church men, who exploit the restrictions placed on women. When we finally establish a truly evolved womanhood in history, we will be better able to assess its impact on religion.

Meanwhile, we can see quite clearly the effect of manhood. Keeping in mind those basic masculine impulses—desire and combat—we see them reflected from high heaven in their religious concepts. Reward! Something to want tremendously and struggle to achieve! This is a concept perfectly masculine and most imperfectly religious. A religion is partly explanation—a theory of life; it is partly emotion—an attitude of mind, it is partly action—a system of morals. Man's special effect on this large field of human development is clear. He pictured his early gods as like to himself, and they behaved in accordance with his ideals. In the dimmest, oldest religions, nearest the matriarchate, we find great goddesses—types of Motherhood, Mother-love, Mother-care and Service. But under masculine dominance, Isis and Ashteroth dwindle away to an alluring Aphrodite—not Womanhood for the child and the World—but the incarnation of female attractiveness for man.

Meanwhile, we can clearly see the impact of manhood. Keeping in mind those basic male instincts—desire and competition—we see them reflected from above in their religious beliefs. Reward! Something to want intensely and fight to achieve! This is a perfectly masculine idea and a rather imperfect religious one. A religion is partly an explanation—a theory of life; it is partly emotion—an attitude of mind; it is partly action—a system of morals. Man's specific influence on this broad area of human development is obvious. He imagined his early gods to resemble himself, and they acted according to his ideals. In the earliest, most primitive religions, closest to matriarchy, we find powerful goddesses—representing Motherhood, Mother-love, Mother-care, and Service. But under masculine control, Isis and Astarte shrink down to an enticing Aphrodite—not Womanhood for the child and the World—but the embodiment of female allure for man.

As the idea of heaven developed in the man's mind it became the Happy Hunting Ground of the savage, the beery and gory Valhalla of the Norseman, the voluptuous, many-houri-ed Paradise of the Mohammedan. These are men's heavens all. Women have never been so fond of hunting, beer or blood; and their houris would be of the other kind. It may be said that the early Christian idea of heaven is by no means planned for men. That is trite, and is perhaps the reason why it has never had so compelling an attraction for them.

As the concept of heaven evolved in man's mind, it turned into the Happy Hunting Ground for the savage, the beer-filled and bloody Valhalla for the Norseman, and the pleasure-filled, numerous-houri Paradise for the Muslim. These are all visions of heaven created by men. Women have never been particularly interested in hunting, beer, or bloodshed; their houris would be different. It's fair to say that the early Christian idea of heaven wasn't really designed with men in mind. That's a common observation and might be why it has never been as appealing to them.

Very early in his vague efforts towards religious expression, man voiced his second strongest instinct—that of combat. His universe is always dual, always a scene of combat. Born with that impulse, exercising it continually, he naturally assumed it to be the major process in life. It is not. Growth is the major process. Combat is a useful subsidiary process, chiefly valuable for its initial use, to transmit the physical superiority of the victor. Psychic and social advantages are not thus secured or transmitted.

Very early in his unclear attempts at religious expression, humans expressed their second strongest instinct—combat. Their world is always dual, always a battleground. Born with this impulse and constantly acting on it, they naturally assumed it to be the main process in life. But it isn't. Growth is the main process. Combat is a helpful secondary process, mainly valuable for its initial purpose of showing the physical superiority of the winner. Psychic and social advantages aren't secured or passed on in this way.

In no one particular is the androcentric character of our common thought more clearly shown than in the general deification of what are now described as "conflict stimuli." That which is true of the male creature as such is assumed to be true of life in general; quite naturally, but by no means correctly. To this universal masculine error we may trace in the field of religion and ethics the great devil theory, which has for so long obscured our minds. A God without an Adversary was inconceivable to the masculine mind. From this basic misconception we find all our ideas of ethics distorted; that which should have been treated as a group of truths to be learned and habits to be cultivated was treated in terms of combat, and moral growth made an everlasting battle. This combat theory we may follow later into our common notions of discipline, government, law and punishment; here is it enough to see its painful effects in this primary field of ethics and religion?

In no particular aspect is the male-centered nature of our common thinking more clearly demonstrated than in the general worship of what we now call "conflict stimuli." What is true for men is assumed to be true for life in general; this assumption is made instinctively, but it's not correct. We can trace this widespread masculine error in religion and ethics to the great devil theory, which has long clouded our understanding. A God without an Opponent was unimaginable to the male mindset. From this fundamental misunderstanding, our ideas about ethics become distorted; what should have been seen as a set of truths to learn and habits to develop was viewed in terms of conflict, with moral growth framed as an ongoing battle. We can explore how this combat theory extends into our common views on discipline, government, law, and punishment later; for now, it's important to recognize its harmful effects in the essential areas of ethics and religion.

The third essential male trait of self-expression we may follow from its innocent natural form in strutting cock or stamping stag up to the characteristics we label vanity and pride. The degradation of women in forcing them to adopt masculine methods of personal decoration as a means of livelihood, has carried with the concomitant of personal vanity: but to this day and at their worst we do not find in women the naive exultant glow of pride which swells the bosom of the men who march in procession with brass bands, in full regalia of any sort, so that it be gorgeous, exhibiting their glories to all.

The third essential male trait of self-expression can be traced from its innocent natural form seen in a strutting rooster or a stamping stag, leading up to what we call vanity and pride. The way women have been pushed into adopting masculine styles of personal decoration to earn a living has brought about a sense of personal vanity. However, even at their worst, we still don’t see in women the naive exultant glow of pride that fills the chests of men who march in parades with brass bands, dressed in full regalia, as long as it looks magnificent, showing off their achievements to everyone.

It is this purely masculine spirit which has given to our early concepts of Deity the unadmirable qualities of boundless pride and a thirst for constant praise and prostrate admiration, characteristics certainly unbefitting any noble idea of God. Desire, combat and self-expression all have had their unavoidable influence on masculine religions. What deified Maternity a purely feminine culture might have put forth we do not know, having had none such. Women are generally credited with as much moral sense as men, and as much religious instinct; but so far it has had small power to modify our prevailing creeds.

It’s this purely masculine mindset that has given our early ideas of God the unappealing traits of endless pride and a craving for constant praise and extreme admiration, qualities that certainly don’t fit any noble concept of God. Desire, conflict, and self-expression have all inevitably shaped masculine religions. We can only speculate what a purely feminine culture might have established in terms of deified motherhood, as we haven’t experienced any. Women are generally regarded as having as much moral sensibility and religious instinct as men, but so far, that hasn’t significantly changed our dominant beliefs.

As a matter of fact, no special sex attributes should have any weight in our ideas of right and wrong. Ethics and religion are distinctly human concerns; they belong to us as social factors, not as physical ones. As we learn to recognize our humanness, and to leave our sex characteristics where they belong, we shall at last learn something about ethics as a simple and practical science, and see that religions grow as the mind grows to formulate them.

In fact, no specific traits related to sex should influence our ideas of right and wrong. Ethics and religion are clearly human issues; they are part of our social interactions, not our physical differences. As we start to acknowledge our humanity and set aside our sexual characteristics, we will finally understand ethics as a straightforward and practical science and realize that religions develop as our minds evolve to create them.

If anyone seeks for a clear, simple, easily grasped proof of our ethics, it is to be found in a popular proverb. Struggling upward from beast and savage into humanness, man has seen, reverenced, and striven to attain various human virtues.

If anyone is looking for a clear, simple, easy-to-understand proof of our ethics, it can be found in a well-known saying. As humans have evolved from beasts and savages into more civilized beings, we've recognized, respected, and worked towards various human virtues.

He was willing to check many primitive impulses, to change many barbarous habits, to manifest newer, nobler powers. Much he would concede to Humanness, but not his sex—that was beyond the range of Ethics or Religion. By the state of what he calls "morals," and the laws he makes to regulate them, by his attitude in courtship and in marriage, and by the gross anomaly of militarism, in all its senseless waste of life and wealth and joy, we may perceive this little masculine exception:

He was ready to control many basic urges, to change many brutal habits, and to show newer, greater abilities. He would give up a lot for human qualities, but not his masculinity—that was beyond the scope of Ethics or Religion. From the state of what he refers to as "morals," and the laws he creates to manage them, through his behavior in dating and marriage, and by the shocking absurdity of militarism, with its pointless destruction of life, resources, and happiness, we can see this small masculine exception:

"All's fair in love and war."

"Everything's fair in love and war."





VIII. EDUCATION.

The origin of education is maternal. The mother animal is seen to teach her young what she knows of life, its gains and losses; and, whether consciously done or not, this is education. In our human life, education, even in its present state, is the most important process. Without it we could not maintain ourselves, much less dominate and improve conditions as we do; and when education is what it should be, our power will increase far beyond present hopes.

The source of education is maternal. The mother animal teaches her young what she knows about life, its benefits and challenges; whether she does this intentionally or not, this is still education. In our human experience, education, even in its current form, is the most crucial process. Without it, we could not sustain ourselves, let alone improve and control our circumstances as we do; and when education is what it should be, our potential will grow far beyond what we currently imagine.

In lower animals, speaking generally, the powers of the race must be lodged in each individual. No gain of personal experience is of avail to the others. No advantages remain, save those physically transmitted. The narrow limits of personal gain and personal inheritance rigidly hem in sub-human progress. With us, what one learns may be taught to the others. Our life is social, collective. Our gain is for all, and profits us in proportion as we extend it to all. As the human soul develops in us, we become able to grasp more fully our common needs and advantages; and with this growth has come the extension of education to the people as a whole. Social functions are developed under natural laws, like physical ones, and may be studied similarly.

In lower animals, generally speaking, the abilities of the species must be found in each individual. Personal experiences don't benefit others. The only advantages that persist are those passed down physically. The limited scope of personal achievement and inheritance strictly restricts sub-human progress. In our case, what one person learns can be taught to others. Our lives are social and collective. Our progress benefits everyone and increases as we share it with all. As our human spirit evolves, we become better able to understand our shared needs and benefits; and with this growth, education has expanded to the entire population. Social functions develop according to natural laws, just like physical ones, and can be studied in the same way.

In the evolution of this basic social function, what has been the effect of wholly masculine influence?

In the development of this fundamental social role, what impact has entirely male influence had?

The original process, instruction of individual child by individual mother, has been largely neglected in our man-made world. That was considered as a subsidiary sex-function of the woman, and as such, left to her "instinct." This is the main reason why we show such great progress in education for older children, and especially for youths, and so little comparatively in that given to little ones.

The original way of teaching a child by their mother has mostly been overlooked in our artificial world. It was seen as a secondary function of women and was therefore left to their "instinct." This is the main reason we’ve made such significant advancements in education for older children, especially teenagers, while there’s been relatively little progress for younger children.

We have had on the one side the natural current of maternal education, with its first assistant, the nursemaid, and its second, the "dame-school"; and on the other the influence of the dominant class, organized in university, college, and public school, slowly filtering downward.

We have had, on one hand, the natural flow of maternal education, with its first helper, the nanny, and its second, the "dame-school"; and on the other hand, the influence of the ruling class, structured in universities, colleges, and public schools, gradually making its way down.

Educational forces are many. The child is born into certain conditions, physical and psychic, and "educated" thereby. He grows up into social, political and economic conditions, and is further modified by them. All these conditions, so far, have been of androcentric character; but what we call education as a special social process is what the child is deliberately taught and subjected to; and it is here we may see the same dominant influence so clearly.

Educational influences are numerous. A child is born into specific physical and psychological conditions that shape their early development. As they grow, they are further influenced by the social, political, and economic environments around them. Until now, these conditions have predominantly centered on male perspectives; however, what we refer to as education—a distinct social process—includes what the child is intentionally taught and exposed to, where we can clearly observe the same dominant influence at play.

This conscious education was, for long, given to boys alone, the girls being left to maternal influence, each to learn what her mother knew, and no more. This very clear instance of the masculine theory is glaring enough by itself to rest a case on. It shows how absolute was the assumption that the world was composed of men, and men alone were to be fitted for it. Women were no part of the world, and needed no training for its uses. As females they were born and not made; as human beings they were only servants, trained as such by their servant mothers.

This focused education was, for a long time, only provided to boys, while girls were left to learn from their mothers, picking up only what their mothers knew. This clear example of male-centric thinking is enough on its own to support an argument. It highlights the complete assumption that the world was made up of men, and only men were prepared for it. Women were seen as irrelevant to the world and didn’t require any training for its needs. They were born as females and not shaped into something else; as human beings, they were just seen as helpers, trained for that role by their own mothers.

This system of education we are outgrowing more swiftly with each year. The growing humanness of women, and its recognition, is forcing an equal education for boy and girl. When this demand was first made, by women of unusual calibre, and by men sufficiently human to overlook sex-prejudice, how was it met? What was the attitude of woman's "natural protector" when she began to ask some share in human life?

This education system is becoming outdated faster every year. The increasing recognition of women's humanity is pushing for equal education for both boys and girls. When this demand was first voiced by exceptional women and by men who were open-minded enough to set aside gender bias, how was it responded to? What was the stance of a woman’s so-called "natural protector" when she started seeking a place in the human experience?

Under the universal assumption that men alone were humanity, that the world was masculine and for men only, the efforts of the women were met as a deliberate attempt to "unsex" themselves and become men. To be a woman was to be ignorant, uneducated; to be wise, educated, was to be a man. Women were not men, visibly; therefore they could not be educated, and ought not to want to be.

Under the widespread belief that men represented all of humanity and that the world was exclusively for men, women's efforts were seen as a deliberate attempt to "unsex" themselves and become like men. Being a woman meant being uneducated and ignorant; being wise and educated was equated with being a man. Women were not men, obviously; therefore, they couldn't be educated and shouldn't want to be.

Under this androcentric prejudice, the equal extension of education to women was opposed at every step, and is still opposed by many. Seeing in women only sex, and not humanness, they would confine her exclusively to feminine interests. This is the masculine view, par excellence. In spite of it, the human development of women, which so splendidly characterizes our age, has gone on; and now both woman's colleges and those for both sexes offer "the higher education" to our girls, as well as the lower grades in school and kindergarten.

Under this male-centric bias, the equal opportunity for education for women faced opposition at every turn, and many still oppose it today. Viewing women solely as objects of desire rather than as human beings, they attempt to limit her to traditional female roles. This is the ultimate expression of the masculine perspective. Despite this, the advancement of women, which wonderfully defines our time, has continued; now, women's colleges and co-ed schools provide "higher education" to our girls, in addition to primary and kindergarten levels.

In the special professional training, the same opposition was experienced, even more rancorous and cruel. One would think that on the entrance of a few straggling and necessarily inferior feminine beginners into a trade or profession, those in possession would extend to them the right hand of fellowship, as comrades, extra assistance as beginners, and special courtesy as women.

In the special professional training, the same opposition was experienced, even more bitter and harsh. One would think that with the arrival of a few struggling and inevitably less skilled female newcomers into a trade or profession, those already established would offer them a friendly welcome, support as beginners, and extra courtesy as women.

The contrary occurred. Women were barred out, discriminated against, taken advantage of, as competitors; and as women they have had to meet special danger and offence instead of special courtesy. An unforgettable instance of this lies in the attitude of the medical colleges toward women students. The men, strong enough, one would think, in numbers, in knowledge, in established precedent, to be generous, opposed the newcomers first with absolute refusal; then, when the patient, persistent applicants did get inside, both students and teachers met them not only with unkindness and unfairness, but with a weapon ingeniously well chosen, and most discreditable—namely, obscenity. Grave professors, in lecture and clinic, as well as grinning students, used offensive language, and played offensive tricks, to drive the women out—a most androcentric performance.

The opposite happened. Women were excluded, discriminated against, and exploited as competitors; and as women, they faced unique dangers and offenses rather than special kindness. A striking example of this is the attitude of medical colleges toward female students. The men, seemingly strong in numbers, knowledge, and established tradition, should have been generous, but they initially responded with outright refusal. Then, when the determined applicants finally gained entry, both students and teachers greeted them with not only unkindness and unfairness but also with a particularly despicable tactic—obscenity. Serious professors in lectures and clinics, along with mocking students, used offensive language and played cruel tricks to force the women out—a thoroughly male-centric display.

Remember that the essential masculine attitude is one of opposition, of combat; his desire is obtained by first overcoming a competitor; and then see how this dominant masculinity stands out where it has no possible use or benefit—in the field of education. All along the line, man, long master of a subject sex, fought every step of woman toward mental equality. Nevertheless, since modern man has become human enough to be just, he has at last let her have a share in the advantages of education; and she has proven her full power to appreciate and use these advantages.

Remember that the core masculine mindset is one of conflict and competition; his desire is fulfilled by first defeating a rival. You can see how this assertive masculinity is evident even where it has no practical purpose—like in education. Throughout history, men, who were once in control of a gendered domain, resisted every effort by women to achieve mental equality. However, now that modern men have become just enough to be fair, they have finally allowed women to benefit from education, and women have shown their ability to recognize and make the most of these opportunities.

Then to-day rises a new cry against "women in education." Here is Mr. Barrett Wendell, of Harvard, solemnly claiming that teaching women weakens the intellect of the teacher, and every now and then bursts out a frantic sputter of alarm over the "feminization" of our schools. It is true that the majority of teachers are now women. It is true that they do have an influence on growing children. It would even seem to be true that that is largely what women are for.

Then today, there's a new outcry against "women in education." Mr. Barrett Wendell from Harvard is seriously claiming that having women as teachers lowers the intellect of the teaching staff, and he occasionally expresses frantic concern over the "feminization" of our schools. It's true that most teachers are now women. It's true that they have an impact on developing children. It even seems accurate that this influence is largely what women are meant for.

But the male assumes his influence to be normal, human, and the female influence as wholly a matter of sex; therefore, where women teach boys, the boys become "effeminate"—a grievous fall. When men teach girls, do the girls become ——-? Here again we lack the analogue. Never has it occurred to the androcentric mind to conceive of such a thing as being too masculine. There is no such word! It is odd to notice that which ever way the woman is placed, she is supposed to exert this degrading influence; if the teacher, she effeminizes her pupils; if the pupil, she effeminizes her teachers.

But men think their influence is just normal and human, while they see women's influence as entirely based on sex. So, when women teach boys, those boys become "effeminate"—which is seen as a serious decline. But when men teach girls, do the girls become ——-? Here, we don't have an equivalent situation. It never occurs to a male-centered mind to think that something could be "too masculine." That term doesn't even exist! It's strange to note that no matter what role a woman takes, she’s always seen as having this degrading influence; if she’s the teacher, she makes her students more feminine; if she’s the student, she makes her teachers more feminine.

Now let us shake ourselves free, if only for a moment, from the androcentric habit of mind.

Now let’s free ourselves, even if just for a moment, from the male-centered way of thinking.

As a matter of sex, the female is the more important. Her share of the processes which sex distinction serves is by far the greater. To be feminine—if one were nothing else, is a far more extensive and dignified office than to be masculine—and nothing else.

As far as sex goes, the female is more important. Her role in the processes that sex distinction supports is much larger. To be feminine—if that were the only identity—is a much broader and more dignified role than being masculine—and just that.

But as a matter of humanity the male of our species is at present far ahead of the female. By this superior humanness, his knowledge, his skill, his experience, his organization and specialization, he makes and manages the world. All this is human, not male. All this is as open to the woman as the man by nature, but has been denied her during our androcentric culture.

But right now, men are generally more advanced than women in terms of humanity. Through their greater understanding, skills, experiences, organization, and specialization, they create and run the world. All of this is human, not specifically male. Nature offers the same opportunities to women as to men, but our male-centered culture has denied this to them.

But even if, in a purely human process, such as education, she does bring her special feminine characteristics to bear, what are they, and what are the results?

But even if, in a purely human process like education, she does bring her unique feminine traits into play, what are they, and what are the outcomes?

We can see the masculine influence everywhere still dominant and superior. There is the first spur, Desire, the base of the reward system, the incentive of self-interest, the attitude which says, "Why should I make an effort unless it will give me pleasure?" with its concomitant laziness, unwillingness to work without payment. There is the second spur, Combat, the competitive system, which sets one against another, and finds pleasure not in learning, not exercising the mind, but in getting ahead of one's fellows. Under these two wholly masculine influences we have made the educational process a joy to the few who successfully attain, and a weary effort, with failure and contumely attached, to all the others. This may be a good method in sex-competition, but is wholly out of place and mischievous in education. Its prevalence shows the injurious masculization of this noble social process.

We can see the masculine influence everywhere, still dominant and superior. There is the first motivator, Desire, which is the foundation of the reward system, the drive of self-interest, the mindset that says, "Why should I put in effort unless it benefits me?" along with its accompanying laziness, the reluctance to work without being paid. Then there’s the second motivator, Combat, the competitive system, which pits one person against another, finding pleasure not in learning or exercising the mind, but in getting ahead of peers. Under these two entirely masculine influences, we've turned the educational process into a joy for only a few who succeed, while it becomes a tiring struggle, marked by failure and scorn, for everyone else. This might be an effective method in competition related to gender, but it's completely inappropriate and harmful in education. Its widespread presence highlights the damaging masculization of this important social process.

What might we look for in a distinctly feminine influence? What are these much-dreaded feminine characteristics?

What should we look for in a uniquely feminine influence? What are these often-feared feminine traits?

The maternal ones, of course. The sex instincts of the male are of a preliminary nature, leading merely to the union preceding parenthood. The sex instincts of the female cover a far larger field, spending themselves most fully in the lasting love, the ceaseless service, the ingenuity and courage of efficient motherhood. To feminize education would be to make it more motherly. The mother does not rear her children by a system of prizes to be longed for and pursued; nor does she set them to compete with one another, giving to the conquering child what he needs, and to the vanquished, blame and deprivation. That would be "unfeminine."

The maternal ones, of course. Male sexual instincts are mainly about the initial attraction that leads to the union before parenthood. In contrast, female sexual instincts encompass a much broader scope, expressing themselves fully through lasting love, constant support, creativity, and the strength of effective motherhood. To make education more feminine would mean making it more nurturing. A mother doesn’t raise her children by offering rewards to crave and chase; nor does she pit them against each other, giving the winner what they need and blaming and denying the loser. That would be "unfeminine."

Motherhood does all it knows to give to each child what is most needed, to teach all to their fullest capacity, to affectionately and efficiently develop the whole of them.

Motherhood does everything it can to provide each child with what they need most, to teach them to their fullest potential, and to lovingly and effectively nurture all aspects of their being.

But this is not what is meant by those who fear so much the influence of women. Accustomed to a wholly male standard of living, to masculine ideals, virtues, methods and conditions, they say—and say with some justice—that feminine methods and ideals would be destructive to what they call "manliness." For instance, education to-day is closely interwoven with games and sports, all of an excessively masculine nature. "The education of a boy is carried on largely on the playground!" say the objectors to women teachers. Women cannot join them there; therefore, they cannot educate them.

But this isn’t what those who are so afraid of women’s influence mean. Used to a completely male standard of living—masculine ideals, values, methods, and conditions—they argue, and with some justification, that feminine methods and ideals would harm what they refer to as "manliness." For example, education today is deeply connected to games and sports, which are all very masculine. "A boy's education happens mostly on the playground!" say those against women teachers. Women can’t join in there; therefore, they can't educate them.

What games are these in which women cannot join? There are forms of fighting, of course, violent and fierce, modern modifications of the instinct of sex-combat. It is quite true that women are not adapted, or inclined, to baseball or football or any violent game. They are perfectly competent to take part in all normal athletic development, the human range of agility and skill is open to them, as everyone knows who has been to the circus; but they are not built for physical combat; nor do they find ceaseless pleasure in throwing, hitting or kicking things.

What games are these where women can't participate? There are definitely forms of fighting, which are violent and intense, modern versions of the instinct for sexual competition. It's true that women aren't naturally suited for baseball, football, or any other aggressive sport. However, they are fully capable of engaging in all standard athletic activities; the full range of agility and skills is available to them, as anyone who has been to the circus can see. But they aren't made for physical combat, and they don't find endless enjoyment in throwing, hitting, or kicking things.

But is it true that these strenuous games have the educational value attributed to them? It seems like blasphemy to question it. The whole range of male teachers, male pupils, male critics and spectators, are loud in their admiration for the "manliness" developed by the craft, courage, co-ordinative power and general "sportsmanship" developed by the game of football, for instance; that a few young men are killed and many maimed, is nothing in comparison to these advantages.

But is it really true that these demanding sports have the educational value they’re said to have? It almost feels wrong to question it. All the male teachers, students, critics, and spectators are vocal about their admiration for the "manliness" fostered by these activities, the bravery, coordination, and overall "sportsmanship" promoted by football, for example; the fact that a few young men die and many are injured is hardly a concern compared to these benefits.

Let us review the threefold distinction on which this whole study rests, between masculine, feminine and human. Grant that woman, being feminine, cannot emulate man in being masculine—and does not want to. Grant that the masculine qualities have their use and value, as well as feminine ones. There still remain the human qualities shared by both, owned by neither, most important of all. Education is a human process, and should develop human qualities—not sex qualities. Surely our boys are sufficiently masculine, without needing a special education to make them more so.

Let’s take a look at the three-part distinction that underlies this entire study: masculine, feminine, and human. Acknowledge that a woman, by being feminine, cannot imitate a man in being masculine—and doesn't want to. Acknowledge that masculine traits have their own usefulness and worth, just like feminine ones do. However, the most important qualities are the human ones that both share but neither can fully possess. Education is about developing human qualities, not gender-specific traits. Surely, our boys are masculine enough already without needing a specialized education to enhance that further.

The error lies here. A strictly masculine world, proud of its own sex and despising the other, seeing nothing in the world but sex, either male or female, has "viewed with alarm" the steady and rapid growth of humanness. Here, for instance, is a boy visibly tending to be an artist, a musician, a scientific discoverer. Here is another boy not particularly clever in any line, nor ambitious for any special work, though he means in a general way to "succeed"; he is, however, a big, husky fellow, a good fighter, mischievous as a monkey, and strong in the virtues covered by the word "sportsmanship." This boy we call "a fine manly fellow."

The mistake is right here. A strictly masculine world, proud of its own gender and looking down on the other, seeing everything in terms of male or female, has "viewed with alarm" the steady and rapid growth of humanity. For example, here's a boy who clearly wants to be an artist, a musician, or a scientific innovator. Here’s another boy who isn’t particularly talented in any area or ambitious about any specific job, even though he generally wants to "succeed"; he’s a big, strong guy, a good fighter, as playful as a monkey, and embodies the qualities we associate with "sportsmanship." This boy is what we call "a great manly guy."

We are quite right. He is. He is distinctly and excessively male, at the expense of his humanness. He may make a more prepotent sire than the other, though even that is not certain; he may, and probably will, appeal more strongly to the excessively feminine girl, who has even less humanness than he; but he is not therefore a better citizen.

We are absolutely right. He is. He is clearly and overly masculine, which comes at the cost of his humanity. He might be a more dominant father than the other one, though that's not guaranteed; he may very well attract the overly feminine girl, who has even less humanity than he does; but that doesn’t make him a better citizen.

The advance of civilization calls for human qualities, in both men and women. Our educational system is thwarted and hindered, not as Prof. Wendell and his life would have us believe, by "feminization," but by an overweening masculization.

The progress of civilization demands human qualities from both men and women. Our education system is obstructed and limited, not as Prof. Wendell and his life would suggest, by "feminization," but by an excessive masculinization.

Their position is a simple one. "We are men. Men are human beings. Women are only women. This is a man's world. To get on in it you must do it man-fashion—i.e., fight, and overcome the others. Being civilized, in part, we must arrange a sort of 'civilized warfare,' and learn to play the game, the old crude, fierce male game of combat, and we must educate our boys thereto." No wonder education was denied to women. No wonder their influence is dreaded by an ultra-masculine culture.

Their stance is straightforward. "We are men. Men are human beings. Women are just women. This is a man's world. To succeed in it, you have to do things the manly way—meaning, fight and beat the others. Being somewhat civilized, we need to organize a kind of 'civilized warfare' and learn how to play the game, the old, rough, intense male game of conflict, and we must teach our boys to do the same." It's no surprise that education was denied to women. It's no surprise that their influence is feared by a hyper-masculine culture.

It will change the system in time. It will gradually establish an equal place in life for the feminine characteristics, so long belittled and derided, and give pre-eminent dignity to the human power.

It will change the system eventually. It will slowly create an equal role in life for the feminine traits that have been so undervalued and mocked, and it will elevate the human experience to a place of greater dignity.

Physical culture, for both boys and girls, will be part of such a modified system. All things that both can do together will be accepted as human; but what either boys or girls have to retire apart to practice will be frankly called masculine and feminine, and not encouraged in children.

Physical culture, for both boys and girls, will be part of this updated system. Activities that both can do together will be considered normal; however, anything that boys or girls have to do separately will be clearly labeled as masculine or feminine and not encouraged in children.

The most important qualities are the human ones, and will be so named and honored. Courage is a human quality, not a sex-quality. What is commonly called courage in male animals is mere belligerence, the fighting instinct. To meet an adversary of his own sort is a universal masculine trait; two father cats may fight fiercely each other, but both will run from a dog as quickly as a mother cat. She has courage enough, however, in defence of her kittens.

The most important qualities are the human ones, and they will be named and recognized. Courage is a human quality, not a gender-specific one. What is typically referred to as courage in male animals is really just aggression, the fighting instinct. Facing an opponent of their own kind is a common masculine trait; two male cats may fight each other fiercely, but both will run away from a dog just as quickly as a female cat would. However, she has plenty of courage when it comes to protecting her kittens.

What this world most needs to-day in both men and women, is the power to recognize our public conditions; to see the relative importance of measures; to learn the processes of constructive citizenship. We need an education which shall give its facts in the order of their importance; morals and manners based on these facts; and train our personal powers with careful selection, so that each may best serve the community.

What this world really needs today in both men and women is the ability to recognize our social conditions; to understand the relative importance of different measures; to learn the processes of active citizenship. We need an education that presents facts in order of their significance; morals and manners based on these facts; and trains our personal abilities carefully, so that each can best serve the community.

At present, in the larger processes of extra-scholastic education, the advantage is still with the boy. From infancy we make the gross mistake of accentuating sex in our children, by dress and all its limitations, by special teaching of what is "ladylike" and "manly." The boy is allowed a freedom of experience far beyond the girl. He learns more of his town and city, more of machinery, more of life, passing on from father to son the truths as well as traditions of sex superiority.

Right now, in the broader context of education outside of school, boys still have the upper hand. From a young age, we make the significant mistake of emphasizing gender differences in our children through clothing and its restrictions, and by teaching them what is considered "ladylike" and "manly." Boys are given much more freedom to explore their surroundings compared to girls. They learn more about their community, technology, and life in general, passing down both the truths and traditions of male superiority from father to son.

All this is changing before our eyes, with the advancing humanness of women. Not yet, however, has their advance affected, to any large extent, the base of all education; the experience of a child's first years. Here is where the limitations of women have checked race progress most thoroughly. Here hereditary influence was constantly offset by the advance of the male. Social selection did develop higher types of men, though sex-selection reversed still insisted on primitive types of women. But the educative influence of these primitive women, acting most exclusively on the most susceptible years of life, has been a serious deterrent to race progress.

All of this is changing right before our eyes, with women becoming more humanized. However, their progress hasn't yet significantly impacted the foundation of all education; the experiences of a child's early years. This is where women's limitations have most thoroughly hindered racial progress. Here, hereditary influences were consistently countered by the advancements made by men. Social selection did create higher types of men, though the continued practice of sex selection still favored more primitive types of women. But the influence of these primitive women, who primarily affected the most impressionable years of life, has seriously hindered racial progress.

Here is the dominant male, largely humanized, yet still measuring life from male standards. He sees women only as a sex. (Note here the criticism of Europeans on American women. "Your women are so sexless!" they say, meaning merely that our women have human qualities as well as feminine.) And children he considers as part and parcel of the same domain, both inferior classes, "women and children."

Here is the dominant male, mostly humanized, yet still judging life by male standards. He views women solely as sexual objects. (Note the criticism from Europeans about American women: "Your women are so sexless!" They mean that our women possess both human and feminine qualities.) He sees children as part of the same category, both considered inferior, "women and children."

I recall in Rimmer's beautiful red chalk studies, certain profiles of man, woman and child, and careful explanation that the proportion of the woman's face and head were far more akin to the child than to the man. What Mr. Rimmer should have shown, and could have, by profuse illustration, was that the faces of boy and girl differ but slightly, and the faces of old men and women differ as little, sometimes not at all; while the face of the woman approximates the human more closely than that of the man; while the child, representing race more than sex, is naturally more akin to her than to him. The male reserves more primitive qualities, the hairiness, the more pugnacious jaw; the female is nearer to the higher human types.

I remember in Rimmer's beautiful red chalk studies, certain profiles of man, woman, and child, along with his careful explanation that the proportions of the woman's face and head were much more similar to the child's than to the man's. What Mr. Rimmer should have illustrated—and could have with plenty of examples—is that the faces of boys and girls are only slightly different, and the faces of older men and women are also very similar, sometimes even indistinguishable; while the woman's face is more closely aligned with human features than the man's; and because the child represents the race more than gender, they are naturally more similar to her than to him. The male retains more primitive characteristics, like hairiness and a more aggressive jaw; the female is closer to the more advanced human types.

An ultra-male selection has chosen women for their femininity first, and next for qualities of submissiveness and patient service bred by long ages of servility.

An ultra-male selection has chosen women primarily for their femininity, and then for qualities of submissiveness and patient service developed over long ages of servitude.

This servile womanhood, or the idler and more excessively feminine type, has never appreciated the real power and place of the mother, and has never been able to grasp or to carry out any worthy system of education for little children. Any experienced teacher, man or woman, will own how rare it is to find a mother capable of a dispassionate appreciation of educative values. Books in infant education and child culture generally are read by teachers more than mothers, so our public libraries prove. The mother-instinct, quite suitable and sufficient in animals, is by no means equal to the requirements of civilized life. Animal motherhood furnishes a fresh wave of devotion for each new birth; primitive human motherhood extends that passionate tenderness over the growing family for a longer period; but neither can carry education beyond its rudiments.

This submissive femininity, or the more passive and overly feminine type, has never truly understood the real power and role of motherhood, and has never been able to develop a meaningful education system for young children. Any experienced teacher, regardless of gender, will attest to how rare it is to find a mother who can objectively appreciate educational values. Books on early childhood education and child development are read more by teachers than by mothers, as our public libraries show. The maternal instinct, which works well in animals, is not enough to meet the demands of modern life. Animal motherhood brings a new wave of dedication with each birth; primitive human motherhood extends that passionate care over the growing family for a longer time, but neither can take education beyond its basics.

So accustomed are we to our world-old method of entrusting the first years of the child to the action of untaught, unbridled mother-instinct, that suggestions as to a better education for babies are received with the frank derision of massed ignorance.

So used to our age-old practice of relying on untrained, wild maternal instinct during a child's early years, that ideas for better educating babies are met with the blunt mockery of collective ignorance.

That powerful and brilliant writer, Mrs. Josephine Daskam Bacon, among others has lent her able pen to ridicule and obstruct the gradual awakening of human intelligence in mothers, the recognition that babies are no exception to the rest of us in being better off for competent care and service. It seems delightfully absurd to these reactionaries that ages of human progress should be of any benefit to babies, save, indeed, as their more human fathers, specialized and organized, are able to provide them with better homes and a better world to grow up in. The idea that mothers, more human, should specialize and organize as well, and extend to their babies these supreme advantages, is made a laughing stock.

That powerful and brilliant writer, Mrs. Josephine Daskam Bacon, among others, has used her talent to mock and hinder the gradual rise of human understanding in mothers—the recognition that babies deserve the same competent care and attention as anyone else. It seems wonderfully absurd to these traditionalists that progress made throughout human history could benefit babies at all, except in the way that their more evolved fathers, who are specialized and organized, can provide them with better homes and a better world to grow up in. The notion that mothers, who are more in touch with humanity, should also specialize and organize to offer their babies these important advantages is turned into a joke.

It is easy and profitable to laugh with the majority; but in the judgment of history, those who do so, hold unenviable positions. The time is coming when the human mother will recognize the educative possibilities of early childhood, learn that the ability to rightly teach little children is rare and precious, and be proud and glad to avail themselves of it.

It’s easy and convenient to go along with the crowd, but in the eyes of history, those who do end up in less than flattering positions. The time is coming when mothers will understand the educational potential of early childhood, realize that the skill to teach young kids properly is uncommon and valuable, and will be proud and happy to embrace it.

We shall then see a development of the most valuable human qualities in our children's minds such as would now seem wildly Utopian. We shall learn from wide and long experience to anticipate and provide for the steps of the unfolding mind, and train it, through carefully prearranged experiences, to a power of judgment, of self-control, of social perception, now utterly unthought of.

We will then witness a growth of the most valuable human qualities in our children's minds that may currently seem wildly idealistic. We will learn from extensive experience to anticipate and cater to the stages of developing minds and train them, through carefully planned experiences, to have judgment, self-control, and social awareness that are now completely unimagined.

Such an education would begin at birth; yes, far before it, in the standards of a conscious human motherhood. It would require a quite different status of wifehood, womanhood, girlhood. It would be wholly impossible if we were never to outgrow our androcentric culture.

Such an education would start at birth; in fact, even before that, in the expectations of an aware and intentional motherhood. It would need a completely different understanding of being a wife, a woman, and a girl. It would be entirely unfeasible if we never moved beyond our male-centered culture.





IX. "SOCIETY" AND "FASHION"

Among our many naive misbeliefs is the current fallacy that "society" is made by women; and that women are responsible for that peculiar social manifestation called "fashion."

Among our many naive misconceptions is the current belief that "society" is created by women; and that women are responsible for that unique social phenomenon known as "fashion."

Men and women alike accept this notion; the serious essayist and philosopher, as well as the novelist and paragrapher, reflect it in their pages. The force of inertia acts in the domain of psychics as well as physics; any idea pushed into the popular mind with considerable force will keep on going until some opposing force—or the slow resistance of friction—stops it at last.

Both men and women agree with this idea; it’s reflected in the writings of serious essayists, philosophers, novelists, and journalists. The force of inertia applies to psychology just like it does to physics; any idea that’s strongly pushed into the public consciousness will continue to spread until it encounters some opposing force—or is gradually slowed down by friction—halted in the end.

"Society" consists mostly of women. Women carry on most of its processes, therefore women are its makers and masters, they are responsible for it, that is the general belief.

"Society" is mostly made up of women. Women handle most of its processes, so they are its creators and leaders; they are seen as responsible for it, which is the common belief.

We might as well hold women responsible for harems—or prisoners for jails. To be helplessly confined to a given place or condition does not prove that one has chosen it; much less made it.

We might as well blame women for harems—or prisoners for jails. Being helplessly stuck in a certain place or situation doesn't mean that someone has chosen it; even less that they created it.

No; in an androcentric culture "society," like every other social relation, is dominated by the male and arranged for his convenience. There are, of course, modifications due to the presence of the other sex; where there are more women than men there are inevitable results of their influence; but the character and conditions of the whole performance are dictated by men.

No; in a male-centered culture, "society," like every other social relationship, is controlled by men and structured for their convenience. There are, of course, changes due to the presence of women; where there are more women than men, there are unavoidable outcomes of their influence; but the nature and circumstances of the entire situation are determined by men.

Social intercourse is the prime condition of human life. To meet, to mingle, to know one another, to exchange, not only definite ideas, facts, and feelings, but to experience that vague general stimulus and enlarged power that comes of contact—all this is essential to our happiness as well as to our progress.

Social interaction is the main condition of human life. To meet, to connect, to get to know each other, to share not just specific ideas, facts, and feelings, but to feel that vague general energy and expanded capability that comes from being in contact—all of this is crucial for our happiness as well as our progress.

This grand desideratum has always been monopolized by men as far as possible. What intercourse was allowed to women has been rigidly hemmed its by man-made conventions. Women accept these conventions, repeat them, enforce them upon their daughters; but they originate with men.

This important goal has historically been controlled by men as much as possible. The interactions allowed for women have been strictly limited by rules created by men. Women accept these rules, pass them on, and enforce them on their daughters; however, they were originally created by men.

The feet of the little Chinese girl are bound by her mother and her nurse—but it is not for woman's pleasure that this crippling torture was invented. The Oriental veil is worn by women, but it is not for any need of theirs that veils were decreed them.

The little Chinese girl's feet are bound by her mother and nurse—but this painful practice wasn't created for women's enjoyment. Women wear the Oriental veil, but it wasn't imposed on them out of any necessity.

When we look at society in its earlier form we find that the public house has always been with us. It is as old almost as the private house; the need for association is as human as the need for privacy. But the public house was—and is—for men only. The woman was kept as far as possible at home. Her female nature was supposed to delimit her life satisfactorily, and her human stature was completely ignored.

When we look at society in its earlier form, we see that pubs have always been a part of our lives. They’re almost as old as private homes; the need for socializing is just as human as the need for privacy. However, pubs were—and still are—primarily for men. Women were largely expected to stay at home. Their female identity was thought to define their lives sufficiently, and their worth as human beings was completely overlooked.

Under the pressure of that human nature she has always rebelled at the social restrictions which surrounded her; and from the women of older lands gathered at the well, or in the market place, to our own women on the church steps or in the sewing circle, they have ceaselessly struggled for the social intercourse which was as much a law of their being as of man's.

Under the pressure of her human nature, she has always resisted the social restrictions that surrounded her. From the women of older countries who gathered at the well or in the marketplace, to our own women on the church steps or in the sewing circle, they have constantly fought for the social interaction that is as much a part of their existence as it is of a man's.

When we come to the modern special field that we call "society," we find it to consist of a carefully arranged set of processes and places wherein women may meet one another and meet men. These vary, of course, with race, country, class, and period; from the clean licence of our western customs to the strict chaperonage of older lands; but free as it is in America, even here there are bounds.

When we discuss the modern area we refer to as "society," we see it as a well-organized mix of processes and locations where women can interact with each other and with men. These settings differ based on factors like race, country, social class, and time period; ranging from the relatively relaxed norms of Western customs to the strict supervision seen in older cultures. However, for all its freedom in America, there are still limitations.

Men associate without any limit but that of inclination and financial capacity. Even class distinction only works one way—the low-class man may not mingle with high-class women; but the high-class man may—and does—mingle with low-class women. It is his society—may not a man do what he will with his own?

Men connect without any limits except for personal preference and financial ability. Even class distinctions operate in one direction—the lower-class man can’t mix with upper-class women, but the upper-class man can—and often does—socialize with lower-class women. It’s his choice—can't a man do what he wants with his own?

Caste distinctions, as have been ably shown by Prof. Lester F. Ward, are relics of race distinction; the subordinate caste was once a subordinate race; and while mating, upward, was always forbidden to the subject race; mating, downward, was always practiced by the master race.

Caste distinctions, as effectively demonstrated by Prof. Lester F. Ward, are remnants of racial distinctions; the lower caste was once a lower race; and while upward mating was always forbidden for the subject race, downward mating was commonly practiced by the dominant race.

The elaborate shading of "the color line" in slavery days, from pure black up through mulatto, quadroon, octoroon, quinteroon, griffada, mustafee, mustee, and sang d'or—to white again; was not through white mothers—but white fathers; never too exclusive in their tastes. Even in slavery, the worst horrors were strictly androcentric.

The complex distinctions of "the color line" during slavery, ranging from pure black to mulatto, quadroon, octoroon, quinteroon, griffada, mustafee, mustee, and sang d'or—back to white—were not determined by white mothers, but by white fathers, who were never too picky about their preferences. Even in slavery, the most horrific aspects were focused on men.

"Society" is strictly guarded—that is its women are. As always, the main tabu is on the woman. Consider carefully the relation between "society" and the growing girl. She must, of course, marry; and her education, manners, character, must of course be pleasing to the prospective wooer. That which is desirable in young girls means, naturally, that which is desirable to men. Of all cultivated accomplishments the first is "innocence." Beauty may or may not be forthcoming; but "innocence" is "the chief charm of girlhood."

"Society" is carefully protected—that is, its women are. As always, the main taboo falls on the woman. Think deeply about the connection between "society" and the growing girl. She must, of course, get married; and her education, behavior, and character must be appealing to potential suitors. What is considered desirable in young girls naturally reflects what is desirable to men. Of all refined qualities, the most important is "innocence." Beauty may or may not be present; but "innocence" is "the main charm of girlhood."

Why? What good does it do her? Her whole life's success is made to depend on her marrying; her health and happiness depends on her marrying the right man. The more "innocent" she is, the less she knows, the easier it is for the wrong man to get her.

Why? What good does it do her? Her entire life's success is based on her getting married; her health and happiness depend on her marrying the right guy. The more "innocent" she is, the less she knows, the easier it is for the wrong guy to win her over.

As is so feelingly described in "The Sorrows of Amelia," in "The Ladies' Literary Cabinet," a magazine taken by my grandmother; "The only foible which the delicate Amelia possessed was an unsuspecting breast to lavish esteem. Unversed in the secret villanies of a base degenerate world, she ever imagined all mankind to be as spotless as herself. Alas for Amelia! This fatal credulity was the source of all her misfortunes." It was. It is yet.

As described so passionately in "The Sorrows of Amelia," from "The Ladies' Literary Cabinet," a magazine my grandmother used to read: "The only flaw that delicate Amelia had was her trusting nature that overflowed with affection. Naive to the hidden wickedness of a corrupt world, she always believed that everyone was as pure as she was. Alas for Amelia! This devastating gullibility was the root of all her misfortunes." It was. It still is.

Just face the facts with new eyes—look at it as if you had never seen "society" before; and observe the position of its "Queen."

Just face the facts with fresh eyes—look at it as if you had never seen "society" before; and notice the position of its "Queen."

Here is Woman. Let us grant that Motherhood is her chief purpose. (As a female it is. As a human being she has others!) Marriage is our way of safeguarding motherhood; of ensuring "support" and "protection" to the wife and children.

Here is Woman. Let’s acknowledge that Motherhood is her main purpose. (It is for her as a female. As a human, she has other purposes!) Marriage is how we protect motherhood; it provides “support” and “protection” for the wife and kids.

"Society" is very largely used as a means to bring together young people, to promote marriage. If "society" is made and governed by women we should naturally look to see its restrictions and encouragements such as would put a premium on successful maternity and protect women—and their children—from the evils of ill-regulated fatherhood.

"Society" is mostly used to bring young people together and encourage marriage. If "society" is created and managed by women, we should expect its rules and support to highlight the importance of successful motherhood and safeguard women—and their children—from the dangers of poorly managed fatherhood.

Do we find this? By no means.

Do we find this? Not at all.

"Society" allows the man all liberty—all privilege—all license. There are certain offences which would exclude him; such as not paying gambling debts, or being poor; but offences against womanhood—against motherhood—do not exclude him.

"Society" gives men complete freedom—all advantages—all permissions. There are some offenses that could exclude him, like not paying gambling debts or being broke; but offenses against womanhood—against motherhood—don’t exclude him.

How about the reverse?

How about the opposite?

If "society" is made by women, for women, surely a misstep by a helplessly "innocent" girl, will not injure her standing!

If "society" is created by women, for women, then a mistake made by a naively "innocent" girl won't hurt her reputation!

But it does. She is no longer "innocent." She knows now. She has lost her market value and is thrown out of the shop. Why not? It is his shop—not hers. What women may and may not be, what they must and must not do, all is measured from the masculine standard.

But it does. She is no longer "innocent." She knows now. She has lost her market value and is tossed out of the store. Why not? It’s his store—not hers. What women can and can’t be, what they have to and don’t have to do, is all judged by the male standard.

A really feminine "society" based on the needs and pleasures of women, both as females and as human beings, would in the first place accord them freedom and knowledge; the knowledge which is power. It would not show us "the queen of the ballroom" in the position of a wall-flower unless favored by masculine invitation; unable to eat unless he brings her something; unable to cross the floor without his arm. Of all blind stultified "royal sluggards" she is the archetype. No, a feminine society would grant at least equality to women in this, their so-called special field.

A truly feminine "society" focused on the needs and joys of women, both as individuals and as human beings, would first provide them with freedom and knowledge—the kind of knowledge that empowers. It wouldn't depict "the queen of the ballroom" as a wallflower waiting for a man's invitation; unable to eat unless he offers her something, or unable to cross the dance floor without his arm. She is the ultimate example of all those blind, passive "royal sluggards." No, a feminine society would at least grant women equality in this so-called special arena.

Its attitude toward men, however, would be rigidly critical.

Its attitude toward men, however, would be strictly critical.

Fancy a real Mrs. Grundy (up to date it has been a Mr., his whiskers hid in capstrings) saying, "No, no, young man. You won't do. You've been drinking. The habit's growing on you. You'll make a bad husband."

Fancy a modern-day Mrs. Grundy (now it's a Mr., his whiskers tucked into his cap) saying, "No, no, young man. This won't work. You've been drinking. It's becoming a habit. You'll be a terrible husband."

Or still more severely, "Out with you, sir! You've forfeited your right to marry! Go into retirement for seven years, and when you come back bring a doctor's certificate with you."

Or even more harshly, "Get out of here, sir! You’ve lost your right to marry! Go into seclusion for seven years, and when you return, bring a doctor’s note with you."

That sounds ridiculous, doesn't it—for "Society" to say? It is ridiculous, in a man's "society."

That sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it—for “Society” to say? It is ridiculous, in a man’s “society.”

The required dress and decoration of "society"; the everlasting eating and drinking of "society," the preferred amusements of "society," the absolute requirements and absolute exclusions of "society," are of men, by men, for men,—to paraphrase a threadbare quotation. And then, upon all that vast edifice of masculine influence, they turn upon women as Adam did; and blame them for severity with their fallen sisters! "Women are so hard upon women!"

The necessary dress and decor of "society"; the constant eating and drinking of "society"; the favored pastimes of "society"; the strict demands and total exclusions of "society" are all created by men, for men, and about men—to rephrase a well-worn quote. Then, on top of that massive structure of male influence, they turn to women like Adam did and criticize them for being harsh toward their struggling sisters! "Women are so tough on women!"

They have to be. What man would "allow" his wife, his daughters, to visit and associate with "the fallen"? His esteem would be forfeited, they would lose their "social position," the girl's chance of marrying would be gone.

They have to be. What kind of man would "allow" his wife or daughters to visit and hang out with "the fallen"? He would lose respect, they would lose their "social status," and the girl's chances of getting married would vanish.

Men are not so stern. They may visit the unfortunate women, to bring them help, sympathy, re-establishment—or for other reasons; and it does not forfeit their social position. Why should it? They make the regulation.

Men aren't as strict. They might visit unfortunate women to offer help, sympathy, support—or for other reasons; and it doesn't affect their social standing. Why would it? They make the rules.

Women are to-day, far more conspicuously than men, the exponents and victims of that mysterious power we call "Fashion." As shown in mere helpless imitation of one another's idea, customs, methods, there is not much difference; in patient acquiescence with prescribed models of architecture, furniture, literature, or anything else; there is not much difference; but in personal decoration there is a most conspicuous difference. Women do to-day submit to more grotesque ugliness and absurdity than men; and there are plenty of good reasons for it. Confining our brief study of fashion to fashion in dress, let us observe why it is that women wear these fine clothes at all; and why they change them as they do.

Women today are, much more than men, the champions and victims of that strange force we call "Fashion." Whether it’s through mindlessly copying each other's ideas, customs, or methods, there isn’t much difference; in their acceptance of set standards for architecture, furniture, literature, or anything else, there isn’t much difference either; but in personal style, there is a significant difference. Women today accept more ridiculous ugliness and absurdity than men do, and there are many reasons for this. Focusing our brief exploration of fashion on clothing, let’s look at why women wear these stylish outfits at all and why they change them so often.

First, and very clearly, the human female carries the weight of sex decoration, solely because of her economic dependence on the male. She alone in nature adds to the burdens of maternity, which she was meant for, this unnatural burden of ornament, which she was not meant for. Every other female in the world is sufficiently attractive to the male without trimmings. He carries the trimmings, sparing no expense of spreading antlers or trailing plumes; no monstrosity of crest and wattles, to win her favor.

First and foremost, the human female bears the burden of sexual decoration, primarily due to her economic reliance on the male. She is the only one in nature who takes on the added weight of ornamental appearance, which she wasn't meant to have, alongside the natural responsibilities of motherhood. Every other female in the animal kingdom is attractive enough to males without any embellishments. Males, on the other hand, don elaborate decorations, spending lavishly on antlers and extravagant feathers, and displaying all sorts of crests and wattles to gain her attention.

She is only temporarily interested in him. The rest of the time she is getting her own living, and caring for her own young. But our women get their bread from their husbands, and every other social need. The woman depends on the man for her position in life, as well as the necessities of existence. For herself and for her children she must win and hold him who is the source of all supplies. Therefore she is forced to add to her own natural attractions this "dance of the seven veils," of the seventeen gowns, of the seventy-seven hats of gay delirium.

She’s only temporarily interested in him. Most of the time, she’s busy making a living and taking care of her kids. But our women rely on their husbands for everything they need to survive and for their social status. The woman depends on the man for both her place in society and the necessities of life. To provide for herself and her children, she has to win and keep the man who is the source of all their support. So, she has to add to her natural charm this "dance of the seven veils," the seventeen dresses, and the seventy-seven extravagant hats.

There are many who think in one syllable, who say, "women don't dress to please men—they dress to please themselves—and to outshine other women." To these I would suggest a visit to some summer shore resort during the week and extending over Saturday night. The women have all the week to please themselves and outshine one another; but their array on Saturday seems to indicate the approach of some new force or attraction.

There are many who think in one syllable and say, "women don’t dress to please men—they dress to please themselves and to outshine other women." To these people, I would suggest a trip to a summer beach resort during the week and extending into Saturday night. The women have all week to please themselves and outshine one another, but their outfits on Saturday seem to show that something new and exciting is coming.

If all this does not satisfy I would then call their attention to the well-known fact that the young damsel previous to marriage spends far more time and ingenuity in decoration than she does afterward. This has long been observed and deprecated by those who write Advice to Wives, on the ground that this difference is displeasing to the husband—that she loses her influence over him; which is true. But since his own "society," knowing his weakness, has tied him to her by law; why should she keep up what is after all an unnatural exertion?

If all this doesn't satisfy, I would then point out the well-known fact that the young woman before marriage puts much more time and effort into her appearance than she does afterward. This has long been noted and criticized by those who write Advice to Wives, claiming that this change is upsetting to her husband—that she loses her influence over him; which is true. But since his own "society," aware of his weaknesses, has bound him to her by law, why should she continue what is ultimately an unnatural effort?

That excellent magazine "Good Housekeeping" has been running for some months a rhymed and illustrated story of "Miss Melissa Clarissa McRae," an extremely dainty and well-dressed stenographer, who captured and married a fastidious young man, her employer, by the force of her artificial attractions—and then lost his love after marriage by a sudden unaccountable slovenliness—the same old story.

That great magazine "Good Housekeeping" has been showcasing a rhymed and illustrated story about "Miss Melissa Clarissa McRae," a very refined and stylish stenographer. She caught and married her picky young boss using her carefully crafted charms—but then lost his love after they got married due to an abrupt and mysterious decline in her neatness—just the same old story.

If this in not enough, let me instance further the attitude toward "Fashion" of that class of women who live most openly and directly upon the favor of men. These know their business. To continually attract the vagrant fancy of the male, nature's born "variant," they must not only pile on artificial charms, but change them constantly. They do. From the leaders of this profession comes a steady stream of changing fashions; the more extreme and bizarre, the more successful—and because they are successful they are imitated.

If this isn’t enough, let me further illustrate the attitude toward “Fashion” of those women who rely most directly on the approval of men. They know what they’re doing. To keep capturing the wandering interest of men, nature's natural "wild card," they must not only load on artificial beauty but also change it up constantly. They do. From the leaders in this field comes a steady flow of changing trends; the more extreme and unusual, the more successful—and because they succeed, they are copied.

If men did not like changes in fashion be assured these professional men-pleasers would not change them, but since Nature's Variant tires of any face in favor of a new one, the lady who would hold her sway and cannot change her face (except in color) must needs change her hat and gown.

If men didn't like changes in fashion, you can bet these trendsetters wouldn't change them. But since nature gets bored with any face and prefers something new, a woman who wants to keep her appeal and can't change her face (except for its color) has to change her hat and dress.

But the Arbiter, the Ruling Cause, he who not only by choice demands, but as a business manufactures and supplies this amazing stream of fashions; again like Adam blames the woman—for accepting what he both demands and supplies.

But the Arbiter, the Ruling Cause, the one who not only demands by choice but also produces and provides this incredible flow of fashions; just like Adam, blames the woman—for accepting what he both demands and supplies.

A further proof, if more were needed, is shown in this; that in exact proportion as women grow independent, educated, wise and free, do they become less submissive to men-made fashions. Was this improvement hailed with sympathy and admiration—crowned with masculine favor?

A further proof, if more were needed, is shown in this; that in exact proportion as women become independent, educated, smart, and free, they become less submissive to men-made fashions. Was this improvement welcomed with sympathy and admiration—supported by men?

The attitude of men toward those women who have so far presumed to "unsex themselves" is known to all. They like women to be foolish, changeable, always newly attractive; and while women must "attract" for a living—why they do, that's all.

The way men view women who have dared to "unsex themselves" is widely recognized. They prefer women to be naive, unpredictable, and perpetually appealing; and since women need to "attract" to survive—well, that's just how it is.

It is a pity. It is humiliating to any far-seeing woman to have to recognize this glaring proof of the dependent, degraded position of her sex; and it ought to be humiliating to men to see the results of their mastery. These crazily decorated little creatures do not represent womanhood.

It’s a shame. It’s humiliating for any forward-thinking woman to have to acknowledge this obvious evidence of her gender's dependent and degraded status; and men should also feel embarrassed when they see the consequences of their dominance. These wildly adorned little beings do not embody true womanhood.

When the artist uses the woman as the type of every highest ideal; as Justice, Liberty, Charity, Truth—he does not represent her trimmed. In any part of the world where women are even in part economically independent there we find less of the absurdities of fashion. Women who work cannot be utterly absurd.

When the artist uses women to embody the highest ideals like Justice, Liberty, Charity, and Truth, he doesn't depict them in a superficial way. In places where women have some level of economic independence, we see fewer of the ridiculous extremes of fashion. Women who work can't afford to be completely ridiculous.

But the idle woman, the Queen of Society, who must please men within their prescribed bounds; and those of the half-world, who must please them at any cost—these are the vehicles of fashion.

But the idle woman, the Queen of Society, who has to please men within their set limits; and those in the half-world, who have to please them at any cost—these are the influencers of fashion.





X. LAW AND GOVERNMENT.

It is easy to assume that men are naturally the lawmakers and law-enforcers, under the plain historic fact that they have been such since the beginning of the patriarchate.

It’s easy to think that men are naturally the ones who make and enforce laws because, historically, they have been that way since the start of patriarchy.

Back of law lies custom and tradition. Back of government lies the correlative activity of any organized group. What group-insects and group-animals evolve unconsciously and fulfill by their social instincts, we evolve consciously and fulfill by arbitrary systems called laws and governments. In this, as in all other fields of our action, we must discriminate between the humanness of the function in process of development, and the influence of the male or female upon it. Quite apart from what they may like or dislike as sexes, from their differing tastes and faculties, lies the much larger field of human progress, in which they equally participate.

The foundation of law is made up of customs and traditions. The foundation of government is based on the collective activities of any organized group. While group insects and animals evolve naturally and follow their social instincts, we evolve intentionally and create systems known as laws and governments. In this, as in all other areas of our actions, we need to distinguish between the human aspect of the function that is developing and the impact of male or female on it. Regardless of their preferences as genders, their different tastes and abilities, there exists a much broader domain of human progress in which both participate equally.

On this plane the evolution of law and government proceeds somewhat as follows:—The early woman-centered group organized on maternal lines of common love and service. The early combinations of men were first a grouped predacity—organized hunting; then a grouped belligerency,—organized warfare.

On this level, the evolution of law and government happens like this: The early groups centered around women were organized on maternal principles of shared love and support. The early groups of men started as a united predation—organized hunting; then they became a united aggression—organized warfare.

By special development some minds are able to perceive the need of certain lines of conduct over others, and to make this clear to their fellows; whereby, gradually, our higher social nature establishes rules and precedents to which we personally agree to submit. The process of social development is one of progressive co-ordination.

By special development, some people can recognize the importance of certain behaviors over others and communicate this to others; as a result, our higher social nature gradually establishes rules and precedents that we choose to follow. The process of social development involves progressive coordination.

From independent individual action for individual ends, up to interdependent social action for social ends we slowly move; the "devil" in the play being the old Ego, which has to be harmonized with the new social spirit. This social process, like all others, having been in masculine hands, we may find in it the same marks of one-sided Specialization so visible in our previous studies.

From acting independently for personal goals to working together for social goals, we gradually transition; the "devil" in the story being the old Ego that needs to be balanced with the new social spirit. This social process, like all others, has often been dominated by men, so we might see the same signs of narrow specialization that we've noticed in our earlier studies.

The coersive attitude is essentially male. In the ceaseless age-old struggle of sex combat he developed the desire to overcome, which is always stimulated by resistance; and in this later historic period of his supremacy, he further developed the habit of dominance and mastery. We may instance the contrast between the conduct of a man when "in love" and while courting; in which period he falls into the natural position of his sex towards the other—namely, that of a wooer; and his behavior when, with marriage, they enter the, artificial relation of the master male and servile female. His "instinct of dominance" does not assert itself during the earlier period, which was a million times longer than the latter; it only appears in the more modern and arbitrary relation.

The coercive attitude is basically male. In the continuous, age-old struggle of sexual competition, he developed the desire to conquer, which is always triggered by resistance; and in this later historical period of his dominance, he further developed the habit of control and authority. We can highlight the contrast between how a man behaves when he's "in love" and during the courting phase; during this time, he naturally assumes his role as a wooer towards the other—this changes when, through marriage, they enter the artificial dynamic of the dominant male and submissive female. His "instinct to dominate" doesn’t come into play during the earlier period, which lasted much longer than the latter; it only emerges in the more modern and arbitrary dynamic.

Among other animals monogamous union is not accompanied by any such discordant and unnatural features. However recent as this habit is when considered biologically, it is as old as civilization when we consider it historically: quite old enough to be a serious force. Under its pressure we see the legal systems and forms of government slowly evolving, the general human growth always heavily perverted by the special masculine influence. First we find the mere force of custom governing us, the mores of the ancient people. Then comes the gradual appearance of authority, from the purely natural leadership of the best hunter or fighter up through the unnatural mastery of the patriarch, owning and governing his wives, children, slaves and cattle, and making such rules and regulations as pleased him.

Among other animals, monogamous relationships don’t come with any conflicting or unnatural traits. However, even though this behavior is relatively recent from a biological standpoint, it has existed as long as civilization when viewed historically: quite long enough to be a significant force. Under its pressure, we see legal systems and forms of government slowly developing, with general human progress often being heavily skewed by distinct male influences. Initially, we find ourselves governed by the simple force of custom, the mores of ancient cultures. Then, we see the gradual emergence of authority, starting with the natural leadership of the strongest hunter or fighter and evolving into the unnatural control of the patriarch, who owns and governs his wives, children, slaves, and livestock, creating rules and regulations that suit him.

Our laws as we support them now are slow, wasteful, cumbrous systems, which require a special caste to interpret and another to enforce; wherein the average citizen knows nothing of the law, and cares only to evade it when he can, obey it when he must. In the household, that stunted, crippled rudiment of the matriarchate, where alone we can find what is left of the natural influence of woman, the laws and government, so far as she is responsible for them, are fairly simple, and bear visible relation to the common good, which relation is clearly and persistently taught.

Our current laws are slow, wasteful, and complicated systems that require a specialized group to interpret them and another to enforce them; the average citizen knows little about the law and only cares to dodge it when possible and follow it when necessary. In the home, that limited and broken version of matriarchy, where we can still find some of the natural influence of women, the laws and governance, as far as she is accountable for them, are relatively straightforward and clearly connected to the common good, a connection that is consistently and clearly taught.

In the larger household of city and state the educational part of the law is grievously neglected. It makes no allowance for ignorance. If a man breaks a law of which he never heard he is not excused therefore; the penalty rolls on just the same. Fancy a mother making solemn rules and regulations for her family, telling the children nothing about them, and then punishing them when they disobeyed the unknown laws!

In the broader community of the city and state, education under the law is seriously overlooked. It doesn’t take ignorance into account. If someone breaks a law they’ve never heard of, they’re not excused; the penalties still apply. Imagine a mother setting strict rules for her family, not informing the children about them, and then punishing them when they break these unknown laws!

The use of force is natural to the male; while as a human being he must needs legislate somewhat in the interests of the community, as a male being he sees no necessity for other enforcement than by penalty. To violently oppose, to fight, to trample to the earth, to triumph in loud bellowings of savage joy,—these are the primitive male instincts; and the perfectly natural social instinct which leads to peaceful persuasion, to education, to an easy harmony of action, are contemptuously ranked as "feminine," or as "philanthropic,"—which is almost as bad. "Men need stronger measures" they say proudly. Yes, but four-fifths of the world are women and children!

The use of force is inherent to males; while as a human, he needs to create laws for the community, as a male, he feels there's no need for anything other than punishment. To oppose violently, to fight, to dominate, to celebrate with loud shouts of raw joy—these are the basic male instincts. The completely natural social instinct that leads to peaceful persuasion, education, and easy cooperation is dismissively labeled as "feminine" or "philanthropic," which is almost as bad. "Men need tougher measures," they proudly declare. Yes, but four-fifths of the world are women and children!

As a matter of fact the woman, the mother, is the first co-ordinator, legislator, administrator and executive. From the guarding and guidance of her cubs and kittens up to the longer, larger management of human youth, she is the first to consider group interests and co-relate them.

In fact, the woman, the mother, is the first coordinator, legislator, administrator, and executive. From raising and guiding her young to the broader management of human youth, she is the first to think about group interests and connect them.

As a father the male grows to share in these original feminine functions, and with us, fatherhood having become socialized while motherhood has not, he does the best he can, alone, to do the world's mother-work in his father way.

As a father, the male learns to participate in these original feminine roles, and since fatherhood has become more recognized in society while motherhood hasn't, he does his best, on his own, to fulfill the nurturing work of the world in his own fatherly way.

In study of any long established human custom it is very difficult to see it clearly and dispassionately. Our minds are heavily loaded with precedent, with race-custom, with the iron weight called authority. These heavy forces reach their most perfect expression in the absolutely masculine field of warfare. The absolute authority; the brainless, voiceless obedience; the relentless penalty. Here we have male coercion at its height; law and government wholly arbitrary. The result is as might be expected, a fine machine of destruction. But destruction is not a human process—merely a male process of eliminating the unfit.

In studying any long-standing human tradition, it's hard to see it clearly and without bias. Our minds are weighed down by tradition, cultural customs, and the heavy burden of authority. These powerful forces are most clearly demonstrated in the distinctly masculine realm of warfare. You find absolute authority, mindless obedience, and harsh penalties. Here, male dominance reaches its peak; laws and governance become completely arbitrary. The outcome, as one could expect, is a well-oiled machine of destruction. However, destruction is not a human endeavor—it's simply a male method of eliminating the unfit.

The female process is to select the fit; her elimination is negative and painless.

The female process is to choose the suitable ones; her elimination is negative and painless.

Greater than either is the human process, to develop fitness.

Greater than either is the human process, to develop fitness.

Men are at present far more human than women. Alone upon their self-seized thrones they have carried as best they might the burdens of the state; and the history of law and government shows them as changing slowly but irresistably in the direction of social improvement.

Men today are much more human than women. Sitting alone on their self-appointed thrones, they've done their best to bear the burdens of the state; and the history of law and government shows them slowly but surely moving toward social progress.

The ancient kings were the joyous apotheosis of masculinity. Power and Pride were theirs; Limitless Display; Boundless Self-indulgence; Irresistable Authority. Slaves and courtiers bowed before them, subjects obeyed them, captive women filled their harems. But the day of the masculine monarchy is passing, and the day of the human democracy is coming in. In a Democracy Law and Government both change. Laws are no longer imposed on the people by one above them, but are evolved from the people themselves. How absurd that the people should not be educated in the laws they make; that the trailing remnants of blind submission should still becloud their minds and make them bow down patiently under the absurd pressure of outgrown tradition!

The ancient kings were the ultimate embodiment of masculinity. They had power and pride, limitless display, boundless self-indulgence, and irresistible authority. Slaves and courtiers bowed before them, subjects obeyed them, and captive women filled their harems. But the era of masculine monarchy is fading, and the age of human democracy is on the rise. In a democracy, both law and government evolve. Laws are no longer dictated by those in power but are developed by the people themselves. How ridiculous is it that the people aren’t educated about the laws they create; that the lingering traces of blind submission still cloud their minds and make them patiently endure the absurd pressure of outdated traditions!

Democratic government is no longer an exercise of arbitrary authority from one above, but is an organization for public service of the people themselves—or will be when it is really attained.

Democratic government is no longer about arbitrary control from those in power, but is an organization for the public service of the people themselves—or will be when it is truly achieved.

In this change government ceases to be compulsion, and becomes agreement; law ceases to be authority and becomes co-ordination. When we learn the rules of whist or chess we do not obey them because we fear to be punished if we don't, but because we want to play the game. The rules of human conduct are for our own happiness and service—any child can see that. Every child will see it when laws are simplified, based on sociology, and taught in schools. A child of ten should be considered grossly uneducated who could not rewrite the main features of the laws of his country, state, and city; and those laws should be so simple in their principles that a child of ten could understand them.

In this change, government stops being something you have to follow and becomes something we agree on; law stops being just a force and becomes a way to coordinate. When we learn the rules of whist or chess, we don’t follow them out of fear of punishment, but because we want to enjoy the game. The rules of how we interact as humans are meant for our own happiness and service—any child can understand that. Every child will grasp this when laws are simplified, rooted in sociology, and taught in schools. A ten-year-old should be viewed as severely uneducated if they can’t explain the main points of the laws of their country, state, and city; and those laws should be so straightforward that a ten-year-old can understand them.

Teacher: "What is a tax?"

Teacher: "What’s a tax?"

Child: "A tax is the money we agree to pay to keep up our common advantages."

Child: "A tax is the money we all agree to pay to maintain our shared benefits."

Teacher: "Why do we all pay taxes?"

Teacher: "Why do we all have to pay taxes?"

Child: "Because the country belongs to all of us, and we must all pay our share to keep it up."

Child: "Because this country belongs to all of us, and we all need to contribute our part to maintain it."

Teacher: "In what proportion do we pay taxes?"

Teacher: "What percentage of our income do we pay in taxes?"

Child: "In proportion to how much money we have." (Sotto voce: "Of course!")

Child: "According to how much money we have." (Sotto voce: "Of course!")

Teacher: "What is it to evade taxes?"

Teacher: "What does it mean to avoid paying taxes?"

Child: "It is treason." (Sotto voce: "And a dirty mean trick.")

Child: "That's treason." (Sotto voce: "And a nasty, underhanded move.")

In masculine administration of the laws we may follow the instinctive love of battle down through the custom of "trial by combat"—only recently outgrown, to our present method, where each contending party hires a champion to represent him, and these fight it out in a wordy war, with tricks and devices of complex ingenuity, enjoying this kind of struggle as they enjoy all other kinds.

In the way we enforce laws, we can trace our natural love for conflict back to the tradition of "trial by combat"—a practice we’ve just recently moved away from. Now, instead of fighting physically, each side hires a champion to represent them, and they engage in a battle of words, using clever tricks and complex strategies, savoring this kind of struggle just like they enjoy all other forms.

It is the old masculine spirit of government as authority which is so slow in adapting itself to the democratic idea of government as service. That it should be a representative government they grasp, but representative of what? of the common will, they say; the will of the majority;—never thinking that it is the common good, the common welfare, that government should represent.

It’s the outdated masculine mindset of government as authority that struggles to adjust to the democratic concept of government as a service. They understand that it should be a representative government, but representative of what? They say it’s of the common will, the will of the majority—never realizing that the government should represent the common good, the common welfare.

It is the inextricable masculinity in our idea of government which so revolts at the idea of women as voters. "To govern:" that means to boss, to control, to have authority; and that only, to most minds. They cannot bear to think of the woman as having control over even their own affairs; to control is masculine, they assume. Seeing only self-interest as a natural impulse, and the ruling powers of the state as a sort of umpire, an authority to preserve the rules of the game while men fight it out forever; they see in a democracy merely a wider range of self interest, and a wider, freer field to fight in.

It’s the deeply rooted masculinity in our understanding of government that strongly rejects the idea of women as voters. "To govern" means to lead, to control, to hold authority; and that’s all it means to most people. They can’t stand the thought of a woman having control over even her own matters; they assume that control is a masculine trait. Viewing self-interest as a natural instinct and the ruling powers of the state as a kind of referee—an authority to maintain the rules of the game while men compete indefinitely—they see democracy merely as a broader scope for self-interest and a larger, more open arena to compete in.

The law dictates the rules, the government enforces them, but the main business of life, hitherto, has been esteemed as one long fierce struggle; each man seeking for himself. To deliberately legislate for the service of all the people, to use the government as the main engine of that service, is a new process, wholly human, and difficult of development under an androcentric culture.

The law sets the rules, the government makes sure they’re followed, but the main focus of life has always been seen as a tough competition; each person looking out for themselves. Intentionally making laws to benefit everyone, using the government as the key tool for that benefit, is a new approach, completely human, and hard to develop in a male-centered society.

Furthermore they put forth those naively androcentric protests,—women cannot fight, and in case their laws were resisted by men they could not enforce them,—therefore they should not vote!

Furthermore, they expressed those naively male-centered arguments—women can’t fight, and if men resisted their laws, they couldn’t enforce them—so they shouldn’t vote!

What they do not so plainly say, but very strongly think, is that women should not share the loot which to their minds is so large a part of politics.

What they don’t explicitly say, but definitely believe, is that women shouldn’t get a share of the spoils that they see as a significant part of politics.

Here we may trace clearly the social heredity of male government.

Here we can clearly see the social inheritance of male leadership.

Fix clearly in your mind the first head-ship of man—the leader of the pack as it were—the Chief Hunter. Then the second head-ship, the Chief Fighter. Then the third head-ship, the Chief of the Family. Then the long line of Chiefs and Captains, Warlords and Landlords, Rulers and Kings.

Fix clearly in your mind the first leadership role of man—the leader of the group, the Chief Hunter. Then the second leadership role, the Chief Fighter. Next, the third leadership role, the Chief of the Family. Then the long line of Chiefs and Captains, Warlords and Landlords, Rulers and Kings.

The Hunter hunted for prey, and got it. The Fighter enriched himself with the spoils of the vanquished. The Patriarch lived on the labor of women and slaves. All down the ages, from frank piracy and robbery to the measured toll of tribute, ransom and indemnity, we see the same natural instinct of the hunter and fighter. In his hands the government is a thing to sap and wreck, to live on. It is his essential impulse to want something very much; to struggle and fight for it; to take all he can get.

The Hunter sought out prey and caught it. The Fighter gained wealth from the spoils of those he defeated. The Patriarch thrived on the work of women and slaves. Throughout history, from outright piracy and theft to the organized collection of tribute, ransom, and compensation, we see the same basic instincts of the hunter and fighter. For him, the government is something to exploit and destroy, a means of survival. His core drive is to desire something intensely; to strive and fight for it; to grab as much as he can.

Set against this the giving love that comes with motherhood; the endless service that comes of motherhood; the peaceful administration in the interest of the family that comes of motherhood. We prate much of the family as the unit of the state. If it is—why not run the state on that basis? Government by women, so far as it is influenced by their sex, would be influenced by motherhood; and that would mean care, nurture, provision, education. We have to go far down the scale for any instance of organized motherhood, but we do find it in the hymenoptera; in the overflowing industry, prosperity, peace and loving service of the ant-hill and bee-hive. These are the most highly socialized types of life, next to ours, and they are feminine types.

Contrast this with the nurturing love that comes with motherhood; the endless dedication that comes from being a mother; the calm management focused on the family's well-being that stems from motherhood. We talk a lot about the family as the basic unit of society. If that’s true, why not run society on that principle? A government led by women, shaped by their experiences as mothers, would prioritize care, nurturing, providing for needs, and education. While examples of organized motherhood are rare, we can find them in certain insects; the diligent work, thriving communities, harmony, and loving care of ant colonies and bee hives. These are the most advanced social structures next to our own, and they represent feminine models of organization.

We as human beings have a far higher form of association, with further issues than mere wealth and propagation of the species. In this human process we should never forget that men are far more advanced than women, at present. Because of their humanness has come all the noble growth of civilization, in spite of their maleness.

We as humans have a much higher level of connection, with more important issues than just money and the survival of our species. In this human experience, we should always remember that men are currently seen as more advanced than women. It's because of their humanity that we've seen the noble development of civilization, despite their gender.

As human beings both male and female stand alike useful and honorable, and should in our government be alike used and honored; but as creatures of sex, the female is fitter than the male for administration of constructive social interests. The change in governmental processes which marks our times is a change in principle. Two great movements convulse the world to-day, the woman's movement and the labor movement. Each regards the other as of less moment than itself. Both are parts of the same world-process.

As human beings, both men and women are equally valuable and should be treated with the same respect in our government; however, as members of different sexes, women are better suited than men to manage social interests. The shift in governmental processes we're witnessing today reflects a change in principles. Two major movements are shaking the world right now: the women's movement and the labor movement. Each views the other as less significant. Yet, both are integral parts of the same global progression.

We are entering upon a period of social consciousness. Whereas so far almost all of us have seen life only as individuals, and have regarded the growing strength and riches of the social body as merely so much the more to fatten on; now we are beginning to take an intelligent interest in our social nature, to understand it a little, and to begin to feel the vast increase of happiness and power that comes of real Human Life.

We are entering a time of social awareness. Until now, most of us have viewed life only as individuals and saw the increasing strength and wealth of society as just more for ourselves; now we are starting to take a thoughtful interest in our social nature, to understand it better, and to feel the significant boost in happiness and power that comes from genuine human life.

In this change of systems a government which consisted only of prohibition and commands; of tax collecting and making war; is rapidly giving way to a system which intelligently manages our common interests, which is a growing and improving method of universal service. Here the socialist is perfectly right in his vision of the economic welfare to be assured by the socialization of industry, though that is but part of the new development; and the individualist who opposes socialism, crying loudly for the advantage of "free competition" is but voicing the spirit of the predacious male.

In this shift of systems, a government that was solely about prohibitions and commands, tax collection, and warfare is quickly making way for a system that intelligently oversees our shared interests—a method of universal service that is expanding and improving. Here, the socialist is spot on in his perspective of the economic benefits that will come from the socialization of industry, although that's just one part of the new development; and the individualist who fights against socialism, loudly advocating for the benefits of "free competition," is merely expressing the mindset of the predatory male.

So with the opposers to the suffrage of women. They represent, whether men or women, the male viewpoint. They see the woman only as a female, utterly absorbed in feminine functions, belittled and ignored as her long tutelage has made her; and they see the man as he sees himself, the sole master of human affairs for as long as we have historic record.

So, regarding those against women's suffrage, they embody the male perspective, whether they are men or women. They perceive women merely as females, completely consumed by traditional feminine roles, diminished and overlooked because of the long-standing control over them; and they view men as they see themselves, the only rulers of human affairs throughout recorded history.

This, fortunately, is not long. We can now see back of the period of his supremacy, and are beginning to see beyond it. We are well under way already in a higher stage of social development, conscious, well-organized, wisely managed, in which the laws shall be simple and founded on constructive principles instead of being a set of ring-regulations within which people may fight as they will; and in which the government shall be recognized in its full use; not only the sternly dominant father, and the wisely servicable mother, but the real union of all people to sanely and economically manage their affairs.

This, thankfully, isn’t going to take long. We can now look back at the time of his control and are starting to see beyond it. We are already well on our way to a more advanced stage of social development—aware, well-organized, and wisely managed—where the laws will be straightforward and based on constructive principles rather than a set of strict rules that allow people to fight among themselves. In this future, the government will be fully engaged, not just the strict father figure and the supportive mother but a genuine collaboration of all people to sensibly and efficiently manage their lives.





XI. CRIME AND PUNISHMENT.

The human concept of Sin has had its uses no doubt; and our special invention of a thing called Punishment has also served a purpose.

The human idea of sin has definitely had its benefits, and our particular creation of something called punishment has also been useful.

Social evolution has worked in many ways wastefully, and with unnecessary pain, but it compares very favorably with natural evolution.

Social evolution has often been inefficient and painful, but it looks pretty good compared to natural evolution.

As we grow wiser; as our social consciousness develops, we are beginning to improve on nature in more ways than one; a part of the same great process, but of a more highly sublimated sort.

As we become wiser and our awareness of social issues grows, we’re starting to enhance nature in more ways than one; it's part of the same larger process, but it's a more refined version.

Nature shows a world of varied and changing environment. Into this comes Life—flushing and spreading in every direction. A pretty hard time Life has of it. In the first place it is dog eat dog in every direction; the joy of the hunter and the most unjoyous fear of the hunted.

Nature reveals a world with diverse and ever-changing environments. Into this enters Life—thriving and expanding in every direction. Life has a tough time of it. For starters, it’s a brutal struggle everywhere; the thrill for the hunter and the constant terror for the hunted.

But quite outside of this essential danger, the environment waits, grim and unappeasable, and continuously destroys the innocent myriads who fail to meet the one requirement of life—Adaptation. So we must not be too severe in self-condemnation when we see how foolish, cruel, crazily wasteful, is our attitude toward crime and punishment.

But aside from this fundamental danger, the environment looms, harsh and unforgiving, constantly wiping out the countless innocent people who don’t meet the one requirement for survival—Adaptation. So, we shouldn't be too hard on ourselves when we realize how foolish, cruel, and wildly wasteful our approach to crime and punishment is.

We become socially conscious largely through pain, and as we begin to see how much of the pain is wholly of our own causing we are overcome with shame. But the right way for society to face its past is the same as for the individual; to see where it was wrong and stop it—but to waste no time and no emotion over past misdeeds.

We develop social awareness mainly through suffering, and as we start to realize how much of that suffering we caused ourselves, we are filled with shame. However, the proper way for society to confront its history is the same as for individuals: to acknowledge where it went wrong and put a stop to it—but not to dwell on or be consumed by past mistakes.

What is our present state as to crime? It is pretty bad. Some say it is worse than it used to be; others that it is better. At any rate it is bad enough, and a disgrace to our civilization. We have murderers by the thousand and thieves by the million, of all kinds and sizes; we have what we tenderly call "immorality," from the "errors of youth" to the sodden grossness of old age; married, single, and mixed. We have all the old kinds of wickedness and a lot of new ones, until one marvels at the purity and power of human nature, that it should carry so much disease and still grow on to higher things.

What’s our current situation with crime? It’s pretty bad. Some people say it’s worse than it used to be; others think it’s better. Either way, it’s bad enough to be a shame for our society. We have thousands of murderers and millions of thieves, all different types; we have what we gently refer to as "immorality," ranging from the "mistakes of youth" to the blatant depravity of old age; whether married, single, or in between. We have all the old forms of wickedness and a lot of new ones, which makes one wonder at the resilience and potential of human nature, that it can carry so much corruption and still strive for greater things.

Also we have punishment still with us; private and public; applied like a rabbit's foot, with as little regard to its efficacy. Does a child offend? Punish it! Does a woman offend? Punish her! Does a man offend? Punish him! Does a group offend? Punish them!

Also, punishment is still with us; private and public; used like a rabbit's foot, with little thought to its effectiveness. Does a child misbehave? Punish them! Does a woman misbehave? Punish her! Does a man misbehave? Punish him! Does a group misbehave? Punish them!

"What for?" some one suddenly asks.

"What for?" someone suddenly asks.

"To make them stop doing it!"

"To get them to stop doing it!"

"But they have done it!"

"But they've done it!"

"To make them not do it again, then."

"To prevent them from doing it again, then."

"But they do do it again—and worse."

"But they do it again—and even worse."

"To prevent other people's doing it, then."

"To stop other people from doing it, then."

"But it does not prevent them—the crime keeps on. What good is your punishment?"

"But it doesn't stop them—the crime just goes on. What good is your punishment?"

What indeed!

What indeed!

What is the application of punishment to crime? Its base, its prehistoric base, is simple retaliation; and this is by no means wholly male, let us freely admit. The instinct of resistance, of opposition, of retaliation, lies deeper than life itself. Its underlying law is the law of physics—action and reaction are equal. Life's expression of this law is perfectly natural, but not always profitable. Hit your hand on a stone wall, and the stone wall hits your hand. Very good; you learn that stone walls are hard, and govern yourself accordingly.

What’s the point of punishing crime? Its fundamental, ancient basis is straightforward retaliation; and it’s important to acknowledge that this isn’t solely a male trait. The instinct to resist, oppose, and retaliate runs deeper than life itself. The principle behind it is the law of physics—every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Life’s way of expressing this law is entirely natural but not always beneficial. If you strike your hand against a stone wall, the wall strikes back. That’s fine; you learn that stone walls are hard and adjust your behavior accordingly.

Conscious young humanity observed and philosophized, congratulating itself on its discernment. "A man hits me—I hit the man a little harder—then he won't do it again." Unfortunately he did do it again—a little harder still. The effort to hit harder carried on the action and reaction till society, hitting hardest of all, set up a system of legal punishment, of unlimited severity. It imprisoned, it mutilated, it tortured, it killed; it destroyed whole families, and razed contumelious cities to the ground.

Conscious young humanity watched and pondered, patting itself on the back for its insight. "If someone hits me, I hit back a bit harder—then they won't do it again." Unfortunately, they did hit back again—even harder. The attempt to hit harder continued the cycle of action and reaction until society, hitting hardest of all, established a system of legal punishment with unlimited severity. It imprisoned, mutilated, tortured, and executed; it destroyed entire families and leveled defiant cities to the ground.

Therefore all crime ceased, of course? No? But crime was mitigated, surely! Perhaps. This we have proven at last; that crime does not decrease in proportion to the severest punishment. Little by little we have ceased to raze the cities, to wipe out the families, to cut off the ears, to torture; and our imprisonment is changing from slow death and insanity to a form of attempted improvement.

Therefore, all crime stopped, right? No? But crime was reduced, for sure! Maybe. We've finally proven that crime doesn’t go down just because the punishment is harsh. Little by little, we’ve stopped destroying cities, wiping out families, cutting off ears, and torturing; and our approach to imprisonment is shifting from a slow death and madness to trying to improve things.

But punishment as a principle remains in good standing, and is still the main reliance where it does the most harm—in the rearing of children. "Spare the rod and spoil the child" remains in belief, unmodified by the millions of children spoiled by the unspared rod.

But punishment as a principle is still accepted and continues to be the main method used where it causes the most damage—in raising children. "Spare the rod and spoil the child" is still believed, unchanged by the millions of children affected by the unspared rod.

The breeders of racehorses have learned better, but not the breeders of children. Our trouble is simply the lack of intelligence. We face the babyish error and the hideous crime in exactly the same attitude.

The racehorse breeders have figured things out, but the same can’t be said for those raising kids. Our problem is just a lack of intelligence. We confront childish mistakes and terrible crimes with the exact same mindset.

"This person has done something offensive."

"This person has done something inappropriate."

Yes?—and one waits eagerly for the first question of the rational mind—but does not hear it. One only hears "Punish him!"

Yes?—and one waits eagerly for the first question from the rational mind—but doesn’t hear it. All that comes is "Punish him!"

What is the first question of the rational mind?

What is the first question of a logical mind?

"Why?"

"Why?"

Human beings are not first causes. They do not evolve conduct out of nothing. The child does this, the man does that, because of something; because of many things. If we do not like the way people behave, and wish them to behave better, we should, if we are rational beings, study the conditions that produce the conduct.

Human beings are not the original causes. They don’t determine their actions out of thin air. The child acts this way, the man acts that way, because of something; because of many factors. If we don’t like the way people behave and want them to behave better, we should, if we’re rational beings, examine the conditions that lead to those behaviors.

The connection between our archaic system of punishment and our androcentric culture is two-fold. The impulse of resistance, while, as we have seen, of the deepest natural origin, is expressed more strongly in the male than in the female. The tendency to hit back and hit harder has been fostered in him by sex-combat till it has become of great intensity. The habit of authority too, as old as our history; and the cumulative weight of all the religions and systems of law and government, have furthermore built up and intensified the spirit of retaliation and vengeance.

The link between our outdated punishment system and our male-dominated culture is two-fold. The instinct to resist, as we've seen, comes from a deeply natural place but is expressed more strongly in men than in women. The tendency to retaliate and retaliate more fiercely has been reinforced in men through gender conflict to the point where it has become very intense. Additionally, the long-standing habit of authority, along with the total influence of all religions and systems of law and government, has further built up and intensified the mindset of revenge and retaliation.

They have even deified this concept, in ancient religions, crediting to God the evil passions of men. As the small boy recited; "Vengeance. A mean desire to get even with your enemies: 'Vengeance is mine saith the Lord'—'I will repay.'"

They have even turned this idea into a kind of worship in ancient religions, blaming God for the evil desires of humans. As the little boy recited, "Vengeance. A petty desire to get back at your enemies: 'Vengeance is mine, says the Lord'—'I will repay.'"

The Christian religion teaches better things; better than its expositors and upholders have ever understood—much less practised.

The Christian religion promotes better values; better than its interpreters and supporters have ever grasped—let alone practiced.

The teaching of "Love your enemies, do good unto them that hate you, and serve them that despitefully use you and persecute you," has too often resulted, when practised at all, in a sentimental negation; a pathetically useless attitude of non-resistance. You might as well base a religion on a feather pillow!

The teaching to "Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, and serve those who mistreat and persecute you" has often led, when it is practiced at all, to a sentimental refusal to confront issues; a sadly ineffective stance of non-resistance. It’s like trying to build a religion on a feather pillow!

The advice given was active; direct; concrete. "Love!" Love is not non-resistance. "Do good!" Doing good is not non-resistance. "Serve!" Service is not non-resistance.

The advice was active, direct, and specific. "Love!" Love isn't just about not resisting. "Do good!" Doing good isn't just about not resisting. "Serve!" Serving isn't just about not resisting.

Again we have an overwhelming proof of the far-reaching effects of our androcentric culture. Consider it once more. Here is one by nature combative and desirous, and not by nature intended to monopolize the management of his species. He assumes to be not only the leader, but the whole thing—to be humanity itself, and to see in woman as Grant Allen so clearly put it "Not only not the race; she is not even half the race, but a subspecies, told off for purposes of reproduction merely."

Once again, we see clear evidence of the far-reaching impact of our male-centered culture. Think about it again. Here is someone who is naturally competitive and driven, but not inherently meant to dominate the stewardship of his kind. He takes on the role of not only the leader but also the entirety of humanity, viewing women, as Grant Allen put it so clearly, "Not only not the race; she is not even half the race, but a subspecies, designated for reproduction only."

Under this monstrous assumption, his sex-attributes wholly identified with his human attributes, and overshadowing them, he has imprinted on every human institution the tastes and tendencies of the male. As a male he fought, as a male human being he fought more, and deified fighting; and in a culture based on desire and combat, loud with strident self-expression, there could be but slow acceptance of the more human methods urged by Christianity. "It is a religion for slaves and women!" said the warrior of old. (Slaves and women were largely the same thing.) "It is a religion for slaves and women" says the advocate of the Superman.

Under this extreme assumption, his masculine traits completely merged with his human traits, and overshadowed them. He has stamped every human institution with the preferences and tendencies of men. As a man, he fought; as a human being, he fought even more and glorified fighting. In a culture driven by desire and conflict, loud with bold self-expression, there could only be a slow acceptance of the more humane approaches promoted by Christianity. "It's a religion for the weak and women!" said the warrior of the past. (The weak and women were mostly viewed the same way.) "It's a religion for the weak and women," says the proponent of the Superman.

Well? Who did the work of all the ancient world? Who raised the food and garnered it and cooked it and served it? Who built the houses, the temples, the aqueducts, the city wall? Who made the furniture, the tools, the weapons, the utensils, the ornaments—made them strong and beautiful and useful? Who kept the human race going, somehow, in spite of the constant hideous waste of war, and slowly built up the real industrial civilization behind that gory show?—Why just the slaves and the women.

Well? Who did all the work in the ancient world? Who grew the food, harvested it, cooked it, and served it? Who built the houses, the temples, the aqueducts, the city walls? Who made the furniture, the tools, the weapons, the utensils, the ornaments—making them strong, beautiful, and useful? Who kept humanity going, somehow, despite the ongoing horrific waste of war, and gradually built up the real industrial civilization behind that bloody spectacle?—It was the slaves and the women.

A religion which had attractions for the real human type is not therefore to be utterly despised by the male.

A religion that appeals to real human nature shouldn't be completely dismissed by men.

In modern history we may watch with increasing ease the slow, sure progress of our growing humanness beneath the weakening shell of an all-male dominance. And in this field of what begins in the nurse as "discipline," and ends on the scaffold as "punishment," we can clearly see that blessed change.

In modern history, we can easily observe the gradual and certain advancement of our humanity breaking through the diminishing barrier of male dominance. In this area, which starts with the nurse's "discipline" and culminates on the scaffold as "punishment," we can clearly witness that wonderful change.

What is the natural, the human attribute? What does this "Love," and "Do good," and "Serve" mean? In the blundering old church, still androcentric, there was a great to-do to carry out this doctrine, in elaborate symbolism. A set of beggars and cripples, gathered for the occasion, was exhibited, and kings and cardinals went solemnly through the motions of serving them. As the English schoolboy phrased it, "Thomas Becket washed the feet of leopards."

What does it mean to be natural and human? What do "Love," "Do good," and "Serve" really mean? In the clumsy old church, still centered around men, there was a lot of fuss about practicing this teaching with complicated symbols. A group of beggars and disabled people were brought in for the event, and kings and cardinals went through the motions of serving them with great seriousness. As the English schoolboy put it, "Thomas Becket washed the feet of leopards."

Service and love and doing good must always remain side issues in a male world. Service and love and doing good are the spirit of motherhood, and the essence of human life.

Service, love, and doing good should always be considered secondary in a male-dominated world. These values embody the spirit of motherhood and represent the core of human life.

Human life is service, and is not combat. There you have the nature of the change now upon us.

Human life is about service, not fighting. That’s the essence of the change we’re experiencing now.

What has the male mind made of Christianity?

What has the male perspective created out of Christianity?

Desire—to save one's own soul. Combat—with the Devil. Self-expression—the whole gorgeous outpouring of pageant and display, from the jewels of the high priest's breastplate to the choir of mutilated men to praise a male Deity no woman may so serve.

Desire—to save one's own soul. Combat—with the Devil. Self-expression—the entire breathtaking display of spectacle and show, from the jewels on the high priest's breastplate to the choir of wounded men praising a male God that no woman can serve.

What kind of mind can imagine a kind of god who would like a eunuch better than a woman?

What kind of mind can picture a god who would prefer a eunuch over a woman?

For woman they made at last a place—the usual place—of renunciation, sacrifice and service, the Sisters of Mercy and their kind; and in that loving service the woman soul has been content, not yearning for cardinal's cape or bishop's mitre.

For women, they finally created a space—the typical space—of giving up personal desires, sacrifice, and service, like the Sisters of Mercy and others; and in that loving service, the female spirit has found contentment, not longing for a cardinal's cape or a bishop's mitre.

All this is changing—changing fast. Everywhere the churches are broadening out into more service, and the service broadening out beyond a little group of widows and fatherless, of sick and in prison, to embrace its true field—all human life. In this new attitude, how shall we face the problems of crime?

All this is changing—changing quickly. Everywhere, churches are expanding their services and reaching beyond just a small group of widows, orphans, the sick, and those in prison to include the whole spectrum of human life. With this new perspective, how should we tackle the issues of crime?

Thus: "It is painfully apparent that a certain percentage of our people do not function properly. They perform antisocial acts. Why? What is the matter with them?"

Thus: "It's clear that a certain percentage of our people don't function properly. They engage in antisocial behavior. Why? What's wrong with them?"

Then the heart and mind of society is applied to the question, and certain results are soon reached; others slowly worked toward.

Then society's heart and mind tackle the question, and some results come quickly; others are gradually worked towards.

First result. Some persons are so morally diseased that they must have hospital treatment. The world's last prison will be simply a hospital for moral incurables. They must by no means reproduce their kind,—that can be attended to at once. Some are morally diseased, but may be cured, and the best powers of society will be used to cure them. Some are only morally diseased because of the conditions in which they are born and reared, and here society can save millions at once.

First result. Some people are so morally corrupt that they need hospital treatment. The last prison in the world will just be a hospital for those who cannot be helped morally. They definitely shouldn't reproduce—this can be dealt with immediately. Some people are morally corrupt but can be healed, and society will use its best resources to help them. Some are only morally corrupt due to the circumstances of their birth and upbringing, and society can save millions in these cases.

An intelligent society will no more neglect its children than an intelligent mother will neglect her children; and will see as clearly that ill-fed, ill-dressed, ill-taught and vilely associated little ones must grow up gravely injured.

An intelligent society will no more neglect its children than a caring mother will neglect her kids; and it will understand just as clearly that poorly fed, poorly dressed, poorly educated, and poorly surrounded little ones will grow up seriously harmed.

As a matter of fact we make our crop of criminals, just as we make our idiots, blind, crippled, and generally defective. Everyone is a baby first, and a baby is not a criminal, unless we make it so. It never would be,—in right conditions. Sometimes a pervert is born, as sometimes a two-headed calf is born, but they are not common.

As a matter of fact, we create our criminals just like we create our idiots, blind, crippled, and generally defective individuals. Everyone starts as a baby, and a baby isn’t a criminal unless we shape it that way. It wouldn’t be in the right circumstances. Sometimes a pervert is born, just like occasionally a two-headed calf is born, but those cases are rare.

The older, simpler forms of crime we may prevent with case and despatch, but how of the new ones?—big, terrible, far-reaching, wide-spread crimes, for which we have as yet no names; and before which our old system of anti-personal punishment falls helpless? What of the crimes of poisoning a community with bad food; of defiling the water; of blackening the air; of stealing whole forests? What of the crimes of working little children; of building and renting tenements that produce crime and physical disease as well? What of the crime of living on the wages of fallen women—of hiring men to ruin innocent young girls; of holding them enslaved and selling them for profit? (These things are only "misdemeanors" in a man-made world!)

The older, simpler types of crime we can manage quickly, but what about the new ones?—huge, horrifying, widespread crimes that don't even have names yet; ones that leave our traditional punishment system powerless? What about the crimes of poisoning a community with unhealthy food, contaminating the water, polluting the air, or stealing entire forests? What about the crimes of exploiting young children, or constructing and leasing apartments that lead to crime and illness? What about the crime of profiting off the lives of vulnerable women—hiring men to ruin innocent girls, keeping them enslaved and selling them for profit? (These acts are just labeled "misdemeanors" in a man-made society!)

And what about a crime like this; to use the public press to lie to the public for private ends? No name yet for this crime; much less a penalty.

And what about a crime like this: using the media to deceive the public for personal gain? There isn’t even a name for this crime, let alone a punishment.

And this: To bring worse than leprosy to an innocent clean wife who loves and trusts you?

And this: To bring something worse than leprosy to an innocent, pure wife who loves and trusts you?

Or this: To knowingly plant poison in an unborn child?

Or this: To deliberately harm an unborn child?

No names, for these; no "penalties"; no conceivable penalty that could touch them.

No names for these; no "penalties"; no possible penalty that could affect them.

The whole punishment system falls to the ground before the huge mass of evil that confronts us. If we saw a procession of air ships flying over a city and dropping bombs, should we rush madly off after each one crying, "Catch him! Punish him!" or should we try to stop the procession?

The entire punishment system collapses in the face of the overwhelming mass of evil we’re dealing with. If we saw a fleet of airships flying over a city and dropping bombs, should we frantically chase after each one yelling, "Catch it! Punish it!" or should we try to stop the whole fleet?

The time is coming when the very word "crime" will be disused, except in poems and orations; and "punishment," the word and deed, be obliterated. We are beginning to learn a little of the nature of humanity its goodness, its beauty, its lovingness; and to see that even its stupidity is only due to our foolish old methods of education.

The time is approaching when the word "crime" will hardly be used, except in poetry and speeches; and "punishment," both the word and the act, will be erased. We're starting to understand a bit more about human nature—its goodness, its beauty, its capacity for love; and to realize that even its ignorance is just a result of our outdated educational methods.

It is not new power, new light, new hope that we need, but to understand what ails us.

It’s not new power, new light, or new hope that we need, but to understand what’s troubling us.

We know enough now, we care enough now, we are strong enough now, to make the whole world a thousand fold better in a generation; but we are shackled, chained, blinded, by old false notions. The ideas of the past, the sentiments of the past, the attitude and prejudices of the past, are in our way; and among them none more universally mischievous than this great body of ideas and sentiments, prejudices and habits, which make up the offensive network of the androcentric culture.

We know enough now, we care enough now, and we are strong enough now to make the whole world a thousand times better in a generation. But we are restrained, chained, and blinded by outdated beliefs. The ideas, emotions, attitudes, and biases of the past are blocking our progress; among them, none are more harmful than the vast collection of ideas, emotions, biases, and habits that form the frustrating structure of a male-centered culture.





XII. POLITICS AND WARFARE.

I go to my old dictionary, and find; "Politics, I. The science of government; that part of ethics which has to do with the regulation and government of a nation or state, the preservation of its safety, peace and prosperity; the defence of its existence and rights against foreign control or conquest; the augmentation of its strength and resources, and the protection of its citizens in their rights; with the preservation and improvement of their morals. 2. The management of political parties; the advancement of candidates to office; in a bad sense, artful or dishonest management to secure the success of political measures or party schemes, political trickery."

I go to my old dictionary and find: "Politics, I. The study of government; the branch of ethics that deals with the organization and governance of a nation or state, ensuring its safety, peace, and prosperity; defending its existence and rights against foreign control or invasion; enhancing its strength and resources, and protecting its citizens’ rights; also focusing on the preservation and improvement of their morals. 2. The administration of political parties; promoting candidates for office; in a negative sense, manipulative or dishonest tactics to achieve the success of political objectives or party agendas, political maneuvering."

From present day experience we might add, 3. Politics, practical; The art of organizing and handling men in large numbers, manipulating votes, and, in especial, appropriating public wealth.

From current experience, we could add, 3. Politics, practical; The skill of organizing and managing large groups of people, influencing votes, and particularly, using public resources for personal gain.

We can easily see that the "science of government" may be divided into "pure" and "applied" like other sciences, but that it is "a part of ethics" will be news to many minds.

We can easily see that the "science of government" can be divided into "pure" and "applied" like other sciences, but the fact that it is "a part of ethics" will be surprising to many.

Yet why not? Ethics is the science of conduct, and politics is merely one field of conduct; a very common one. Its connection with Warfare in this chapter is perfectly legitimate in view of the history of politics on the one hand, and the imperative modern issues which are to-day opposed to this established combination.

Yet why not? Ethics is the study of behavior, and politics is just one area of behavior; a very common one. Its link with warfare in this chapter is entirely valid given the history of politics on one hand and the urgent modern issues that challenge this established connection today.

There are many to-day who hold that politics need not be at all connected with warfare, and others who hold that politics is warfare from start to finish.

There are many today who believe that politics doesn't have to be related to warfare at all, and others who argue that politics is warfare from beginning to end.

In order to dissociate the two ideas completely let us give a paraphrase of the above definition, applying it to domestic management;—that part of ethics which has to do with the regulation and government of a family; the preservation of its safety, peace and prosperity; the defense of its existence and rights against any strangers' interference or control; the augmentation of its strength and resources, and the protection of its members in their rights; with the preservation and improvement of their morals.

To completely separate the two ideas, let's rephrase the definition above, applying it to household management: that part of ethics that relates to managing and governing a family; ensuring its safety, peace, and prosperity; defending its existence and rights against any outside interference or control; increasing its strength and resources, and safeguarding its members' rights; along with maintaining and improving their moral standards.

All this is simple enough, and in no way masculine; neither is it feminine, save in this; that the tendency to care for, defend and manage a group, is in its origin maternal.

All of this is pretty straightforward and isn’t really masculine; it’s not feminine either, except for this: the inclination to care for, protect, and lead a group comes from a maternal instinct.

In every human sense, however, politics has left its maternal base far in the background; and as a field of study and of action is as well adapted to men as to women. There is no reason whatever why men should not develop great ability in this department of ethics, and gradually learn how to preserve the safety, peace and prosperity of their nation; together with those other services as to resources, protection of citizens, and improvement of morals.

In every way that matters, politics has moved far beyond its roots; it's a field of study and action that suits both men and women equally. There’s no reason men can’t become highly skilled in this area of ethics and gradually learn how to maintain their nation's safety, peace, and prosperity, along with managing resources, protecting citizens, and improving morals.

Men, as human beings, are capable of the noblest devotion and efficiency in these matters, and have often shown them; but their devotion and efficiency have been marred in this, as in so many other fields, by the constant obtrusion of an ultra-masculine tendency.

Men, as human beings, can show the highest levels of dedication and effectiveness in these areas, and they have done so many times; however, their dedication and effectiveness have been compromised in this, like in many other fields, by the ongoing influence of an overly masculine attitude.

In warfare, per se, we find maleness in its absurdest extremes. Here is to be studied the whole gamut of basic masculinity, from the initial instinct of combat, through every form of glorious ostentation, with the loudest possible accompaniment of noise.

In warfare, per se, we see masculinity at its most absurd extremes. Here, we can explore the entire range of basic masculinity, from the primal instinct for combat to every form of extravagant display, all accompanied by the loudest noise possible.

Primitive warfare had for its climax the possession of the primitive prize, the female. Without dogmatising on so remote a period, it may be suggested as a fair hypothesis that this was the very origin of our organized raids. We certainly find war before there was property in land, or any other property to tempt aggressors. Women, however, there were always, and when a specially androcentric tribe had reduced its supply of women by cruel treatment, or they were not born in sufficient numbers, owing to hard conditions, men must needs go farther afield after other women. Then, since the men of the other tribes naturally objected to losing their main labor supply and comfort, there was war.

Primitive warfare peaked with the ownership of the primitive prize: women. Without strictly defining such a distant era, it can be proposed as a reasonable theory that this was the very beginning of our organized raids. We certainly observe warfare existing before there was ownership of land or any other valuable possessions to entice attackers. However, women were always present, and when a particularly male-dominated tribe depleted its number of women through harsh treatment, or when not enough were born due to tough conditions, men had to venture further for other women. Naturally, the men from other tribes resisted losing their primary source of labor and comfort, leading to conflict.

Thus based on the sex impulse, it gave full range to the combative instinct, and further to that thirst for vocal exultation so exquisitely male. The proud bellowings of the conquering stag, as he trampled on his prostrate rival, found higher expression in the "triumphs" of old days, when the conquering warrior returned to his home, with victims chained to his chariot wheels, and braying trumpets.

Thus, based on the sexual drive, it unleashed the aggressive instinct and further fueled the desire for vocal celebration that is so distinctly masculine. The proud roars of the victorious stag, as he crushed his fallen opponent, found a greater expression in the "triumphs" of the past, when the victorious warrior returned home with captives tied to his chariot wheels and trumpets sounding.

When property became an appreciable factor in life, warfare took on a new significance. What was at first mere destruction, in the effort to defend or obtain some hunting ground or pasture; and, always, to secure the female; now coalesced with the acquisitive instinct, and the long black ages of predatory warfare closed in upon the world.

When property started to matter in life, war gained a new importance. What was once just destruction, aimed at defending or acquiring hunting grounds or pastures—and always to secure mates—merged with the desire to acquire more, and the long dark ages of predatory warfare engulfed the world.

Where the earliest form exterminated, the later enslaved, and took tribute; and for century upon century the "gentleman adventurer," i.e., the primitive male, greatly preferred to acquire wealth by the simple old process of taking it, to any form of productive industry.

Where the earliest form wiped out, the later enslaved, and collected tribute; and for century after century, the "gentleman adventurer," meaning the primitive male, strongly preferred to gain wealth through the straightforward old method of seizing it, rather than engaging in any kind of productive work.

We have been much misled as to warfare by our androcentric literature. With a history which recorded nothing else; a literature which praised and an art which exalted it; a religion which called its central power "the God of Battles"—never the God of Workshops, mind you!—with a whole complex social structure man-prejudiced from center to circumference, and giving highest praise and honor to the Soldier; it is still hard for its to see what warfare really is in human life.

We have been greatly misled about warfare by our male-centered literature. With a history that recorded nothing else; a literature that praised it; an art that glorified it; and a religion that referred to its main force as "the God of Battles"—not the God of Workshops, remember!—along with a whole social structure biased towards men, giving the highest praise and honor to the Soldier; it’s still hard for us to see what warfare truly is in human life.

Someday we shall have new histories written, histories of world progress, showing the slow uprising, the development, the interservice of the nations; showing the faint beautiful dawn of the larger spirit of world-consciousness, and all its benefitting growth.

Someday we'll have new histories written, histories of global progress, showing the gradual rise, the development, and the collaboration of nations; revealing the gentle, beautiful dawn of a greater sense of global awareness and all its positive growth.

We shall see people softening, learning, rising; see life lengthen with the possession of herds, and widen in rich prosperity with agriculture. Then industry, blossoming, fruiting, spreading wide; art, giving light and joy; the intellect developing with companionship and human intercourse; the whole spreading tree of social progress, the trunk of which is specialized industry, and the branches of which comprise every least and greatest line of human activity and enjoyment. This growing tree, springing up wherever conditions of peace and prosperity gave it a chance, we shall see continually hewed down to the very root by war.

We will see people becoming kinder, learning, and growing; see life extend with the ownership of livestock, and expand into rich prosperity through farming. Then industry will blossom and bear fruit, spreading far; art will bring light and joy; the mind will grow through friendship and human connections; the entire flourishing tree of social progress, with its trunk being specialized industry and its branches including every aspect of human activity and enjoyment. This expanding tree, thriving wherever peace and prosperity allow it to grow, will constantly be cut down to the root by war.

To the later historian will appear throughout the ages, like some Hideous Fate, some Curse, some predetermined check, to drag down all our hope and joy and set life forever at its first steps over again, this Red Plague of War.

To future historians, it will seem like a terrible fate, a curse, or some inevitable force dragging down all our hope and joy, forcing life to start over again at its very beginning—this Red Plague of War.

The instinct of combat, between males, worked advantageously so long as it did not injure the female or the young. It is a perfectly natural instinct, and therefore perfectly right, in its place; but its place is in a pre-patriarchal era. So long as the animal mother was free and competent to care for herself and her young; then it was an advantage to have "the best man win;" that is the best stag or lion; and to have the vanquished die, or live in sulky celibacy, was no disadvantage to any one but himself.

The instinct to fight among males was beneficial as long as it didn't harm the female or the young. It's a completely natural instinct, and therefore totally acceptable in its context; but its context belongs to a time before patriarchy. As long as the animal mother was independent and capable of taking care of herself and her young, it was advantageous to let "the best man win"—meaning the top stag or lion—and the defeated could either die or live in bitter isolation, which didn't negatively impact anyone but themselves.

Humanity is on a stage above this plan. The best man in the social structure is not always the huskiest. When a fresh horde of ultra-male savages swarmed down upon a prosperous young civilization, killed off the more civilized males and appropriated the more civilized females; they did, no doubt, bring in a fresh physical impetus to the race; but they destroyed the civilization.

Humanity exists on a higher plane than this. The strongest person in society isn't always the best. When a new group of aggressive, dominant males attacked a thriving young civilization, killing off the more civilized men and taking the more civilized women, they certainly brought a new physical energy to the human race; however, they destroyed the civilization in the process.

The reproduction of perfectly good savages is not the main business of humanity. Its business is to grow, socially; to develop, to improve; and warfare, at its best, retards human progress; at its worst, obliterates it.

The reproduction of perfectly good savages isn't the main goal of humanity. The goal is to grow socially; to develop, to improve; and warfare, at its best, slows down human progress; at its worst, completely destroys it.

Combat is not a social process at all; it is a physical process, a subsidiary sex process, purely masculine, intended to improve the species by the elimination of the unfit. Amusingly enough, or absurdly enough; when applied to society, it eliminates the fit, and leaves the unfit to perpetuate the race!

Combat isn't a social activity at all; it's a physical one, a secondary reproductive process, purely masculine, aimed at enhancing the species by removing the unfit. Ironically, or perhaps absurdly, when this is applied to society, it gets rid of the fit and allows the unfit to keep the race going!

We require, to do our organized fighting, a picked lot of vigorous young males, the fittest we can find. The too old or too young; the sick, crippled, defective; are all left behind, to marry and be fathers; while the pick of the country, physically, is sent off to oppose the pick of another country, and kill—kill—kill!

We need a select group of strong young men for our organized fighting, the best we can find. Those who are too old or too young, sick, disabled, or flawed are left behind to marry and become fathers, while the strongest in the nation are sent off to confront the strongest from another country, to kill—kill—kill!

Observe the result on the population! In the first place the balance is broken—there are not enough men to go around, at home; many women are left unmated. In primitive warfare, where women were promptly enslaved, or, at the best, polygamously married, this did not greatly matter to the population; but as civilization advances and monogamy obtains, whatever eugenic benefits may once have sprung from warfare are completely lost, and all its injuries remain.

Look at the impact on the population! First of all, the balance is disrupted—there aren’t enough men available at home; many women are left without partners. In primitive warfare, where women were quickly enslaved or, at best, married to multiple men, this didn't significantly affect the population; but as civilization progresses and monogamy takes hold, any genetic advantages that might have come from warfare are totally lost, leaving only the harm behind.

In what we innocently call "civilized warfare" (we might as well speak of "civilized cannibalism!"), this steady elimination of the fit leaves an everlowering standard of parentage at home. It makes a widening margin of what we call "surplus women," meaning more than enough to be monogamously married; and these women, not being economically independent, drag steadily upon the remaining men, postponing marriage, and increasing its burdens.

In what we naively refer to as "civilized warfare" (we might as well talk about "civilized cannibalism!"), this constant elimination of the strong results in a lowering standard of parentage at home. It creates a growing number of what we call "surplus women," meaning there are more than enough to be in monogamous marriages; and these women, lacking economic independence, increasingly rely on the remaining men, delaying marriage and adding to its burdens.

The birth rate is lowered in quantity by the lack of husbands, and lowered in quality both by the destruction of superior stock, and by the wide dissemination of those diseases which invariably accompany the wife-lessness of the segregated males who are told off to perform our military functions.

The birth rate decreases in quantity due to the absence of husbands and in quality because of the loss of better genetic lines and the widespread spread of diseases that often come with the lack of wives for the segregated men assigned to serve in our military roles.

The external horrors and wastes of warfare we are all familiar with; A. It arrests industry and all progress. B. It destroys the fruits of industry and progress. C. It weakens, hurts and kills the combatants. D. It lowers the standard of the non-combatants. Even the conquering nation is heavily injured; the conquered sometimes exterminated, or at least absorbed by the victor.

The external horrors and destruction of war are well known to all of us; A. It halts industry and all progress. B. It destroys the gains of industry and progress. C. It weakens, injures, and kills the fighters. D. It lowers the quality of life for non-fighters. Even the victorious nation suffers significant damage; the defeated can be wiped out or, at the very least, absorbed by the victor.

This masculine selective process, when applied to nations, does not produce the same result as when applied to single opposing animals. When little Greece was overcome it did not prove that the victors were superior, nor promote human interests in any way; it injured them.

This masculine selective process, when applied to nations, doesn't yield the same results as when it’s used on individual rival animals. When small Greece was defeated, it didn't show that the victors were superior, nor did it benefit human interests in any way; it harmed them.

The "stern arbitrament of war" may prove which of two peoples is the better fighter, but ft does not prove it therefor the fittest to survive.

The "harsh judgment of war" might show which of two groups is the better fighter, but it doesn’t prove that they are the fittest to survive.

Beyond all these more or less obvious evils, comes a further result, not enough recognized; the psychic effects of military standard of thought and feeling.

Beyond all these more or less obvious evils, there is another consequence that isn't recognized enough: the psychological effects of the military way of thinking and feeling.

Remember that an androcentric culture has always exempted its own essential activities from the restraints of ethics,—"All's fair in love and war!" Deceit, trickery, lying, every kind of skulking underhand effort to get information; ceaseless endeavor to outwit and overcome "the enemy"; besides as cruelty and destruction; are characteristic of the military process; as well as the much praised virtues of courage, endurance and loyalty, personal and public.

Remember that a male-focused culture has always allowed its own key activities to sidestep ethical constraints—"All's fair in love and war!" Deceit, trickery, lying, and all sorts of sneaky efforts to gather information; a relentless drive to outsmart and defeat "the enemy"; along with cruelty and destruction; are typical of the military process, alongside the highly celebrated virtues of courage, endurance, and loyalty, both personal and public.

Also classed as a virtue, and unquestionably such from the military point of view, is that prime factor in making and keeping an army, obedience.

Also recognized as a virtue, and undoubtedly so from a military perspective, is the key element in creating and maintaining an army: obedience.

See how the effect of this artificial maintenance of early mental attitudes acts on our later development. True human progress requires elements quite other than these. If successful warfare made one nation unquestioned master of the earth its social progress would not be promoted by that event. The rude hordes of Genghis Khan swarmed over Asia and into Europe, but remained rude hordes; conquest is not civilization, nor any part of it.

See how the impact of this artificial upkeep of early mental attitudes affects our later growth. Genuine human progress needs elements that are completely different from these. If successful warfare made one nation the undisputed ruler of the world, it wouldn’t promote that nation’s social progress. The rough tribes of Genghis Khan overran Asia and entered Europe, but they stayed as rough tribes; conquest isn’t civilization, nor is it any part of it.

When the northern tribes-men overwhelmed the Roman culture they paralysed progress for a thousand years or so; set back the clock by that much. So long as all Europe was at war, so long the arts and sciences sat still, or struggled in hid corners to keep their light alive.

When the northern tribes took over, they stunted the growth of Roman culture for about a thousand years, setting progress back by that much. As long as all of Europe was at war, the arts and sciences stagnated or struggled in hidden corners to keep their light alive.

When warfare itself ceases, the physical, social and psychic results do not cease. Our whole culture is still hag-ridden by military ideals.

When warfare itself stops, the physical, social, and mental effects don’t just go away. Our entire culture is still haunted by military ideals.

Peace congresses have begun to meet, peace societies write and talk, but the monuments to soldiers and sailors (naval sailors of course), still go up, and the tin soldier remains a popular toy. We do not see boxes of tin carpenters by any chance; tin farmers, weavers, shoemakers; we do not write our "boys books" about the real benefactors and servers of society; the adventurer and destroyer remains the idol of an Androcentric Culture.

Peace congresses have started meeting, peace organizations are writing and discussing, but the monuments to soldiers and sailors (naval sailors, of course) are still being erected, and toy soldiers continue to be popular. We don't see boxes of tin carpenters, tin farmers, weavers, or shoemakers; we don't write our "boys' books" about the real helpers and contributors to society; the adventurer and destroyer are still the idols of a male-dominated culture.

In politics the military ideal, the military processes, are so predominant as to almost monopolise "that part of ethics." The science of government, the plain wholesome business of managing a community for its own good; doing its work, advancing its prosperity, improving its morals—this is frankly understood and accepted as A Fight from start to finish. Marshall your forces and try to get in, this is the political campaign. When you are in, fight to stay in, and to keep the other fellow out. Fight for your own hand, like an animal; fight for your master like any hired bravo; fight always for some desired "victory"—and "to the victors belong the spoils."

In politics, the military ideal and military processes are so dominant that they almost take over "that part of ethics." The science of government, the straightforward and beneficial task of managing a community for its own good, doing its work, promoting its prosperity, and improving its morals—this is clearly understood and accepted as a fight from beginning to end. Gather your resources and make your move; this is the political campaign. Once you're in, battle to stay there and keep the other person out. Fight for yourself, like an animal; fight for your boss like a hired gun; always fight for some desired "victory"—and "to the victors belong the spoils."

This is not by any means the true nature of politics. It is not even a fair picture of politics to-day; in which man, the human being, is doing noble work for humanity; but it is the effect of man, the male, on politics.

This is definitely not the true nature of politics. It's not even a fair representation of politics today, where man, as a human being, is doing great work for humanity; instead, it reflects the influence of man, as a male, on politics.

Life, to the "male mind" (we have heard enough of the "female mind" to use the analogue!) is a fight, and his ancient military institutions and processes keep up the delusion.

Life, to the "male mind" (we've heard enough about the "female mind" to use the comparison!) is a struggle, and his long-standing military systems and practices maintain the illusion.

As a matter of fact life is growth. Growth comes naturally, by multiplication of cells, and requires three factors to promote it; nourishment, use, rest. Combat is a minor incident of life; belonging to low levels, and not of a developing influence socially.

As a matter of fact, life is all about growth. Growth happens naturally through the multiplication of cells and needs three key factors to support it: nourishment, activity, and rest. Conflict is a minor aspect of life; it belongs to lower levels and doesn’t have a positive impact on social development.

The science of politics, in a civilized community, should have by this time a fine accumulation of simplified knowledge for diffusion in public schools; a store of practical experience in how to promote social advancement most rapidly, a progressive economy and ease of administration, a simplicity in theory and visible benefit in practice, such as should make every child an eager and serviceable citizen.

The science of politics in a civilized society should now have a wealth of straightforward knowledge to share in public schools; a collection of practical experiences on how to promote social progress quickly, an effective economy, smooth administration, simple theories, and clear benefits in practice, all of which should inspire every child to become an eager and helpful citizen.

What do we find, here in America, in the field of "politics?"

What do we find here in America in the realm of "politics?"

We find first a party system which is the technical arrangement to carry on a fight. It is perfectly conceivable that a flourishing democratic government be carried on without any parties at all; public functionaries being elected on their merits, and each proposed measure judged on its merits; though this sounds impossible to the androcentric mind.

We first encounter a party system, which is the technical setup for engaging in a struggle. It's entirely possible for a successful democratic government to operate without any parties at all; public officials could be elected based on their qualifications, and each proposed measure could be evaluated on its own merits, even though this seems unlikely to a male-centered perspective.

"There has never been a democracy without factions and parties!" is protested.

"There has never been a democracy without groups and parties!" is protested.

There has never been a democracy, so far—only an androcracy.

There has never been a democracy—only a system ruled by men.

A group composed of males alone, naturally divides, opposes, fights; even a male church, under the most rigid rule, has its secret undercurrents of antagonism.

A group made up entirely of men inevitably splits, disagrees, and fights; even a male-only church, despite having strict rules, has hidden tensions of hostility.

"It is the human heart!" is again protested. No, not essentially the human heart, but the male heart. This is so well recognized by men in general, that, to their minds, in this mingled field of politics and warfare, women have no place.

"It is the human heart!" is again protested. No, not really the human heart, but the male heart. This is so well recognized by men in general that, in their opinion, in this mixed arena of politics and warfare, women have no role.

In "civilized warfare" they are, it is true, allowed to trail along and practice their feminine function of nursing; but this is no part of war proper, it is rather the beginning of the end of war. Some time it will strike our "funny spot," these strenuous efforts to hurt and destroy, and these accompanying efforts to heal and save.

In "civilized warfare," it’s true they can follow along and do their traditional role of nursing; but this isn’t really a part of the war itself, it’s more like the start of the end of war. Eventually, we’ll find it amusing how these intense efforts to hurt and destroy go hand in hand with the efforts to heal and save.

But in our politics there is not even provision for a nursing corps; women are absolutely excluded.

But in our politics, there isn't even a setup for a nursing corps; women are completely excluded.

"They cannot play the game!" cries the practical politician. There is loud talk of the defilement, the "dirty pool" and its resultant darkening of fair reputations, the total unfitness of lovely woman to take part in "the rough and tumble of politics."

"They can't play the game!" shouts the practical politician. There's a lot of talk about the corruption, the "dirty pool," and how it tarnishes good reputations, the complete unfitness of wonderful women to be involved in "the rough and tumble of politics."

In other words men have made a human institution into an ultra-masculine performance; and, quite rightly, feel that women could not take part in politics as men do. That it is not necessary to fulfill this human custom in so masculine a way does not occur to them. Few men can overlook the limitations of their sex and see the truth; that this business of taking care of our common affairs is not only equally open to women and men, but that women are distinctly needed in it.

In other words, men have turned a human institution into an ultra-masculine performance and, understandably, feel that women can't participate in politics like men do. They don't consider that it doesn’t have to be done in such a masculine way. Few men can see past the limits of their gender and recognize the truth: that managing our shared affairs is not only open to both women and men, but that women are definitely needed in this process.

Anyone will admit that a government wholly in the hands of women would be helped by the assistance of men; that a gynaecocracy must, of its own nature, be one sided. Yet it is hard to win reluctant admission of the opposite fact; that an androcracy must of its own nature be one sided also, and would be greatly improved by the participation of the other sex.

Anyone would agree that a government entirely run by women would benefit from the help of men; that a female-led government is, by its very nature, one-sided. However, it’s difficult to get people to acknowledge the opposite truth: that a male-led government is also inherently one-sided and would be significantly better with the involvement of women.

The inextricable confusion of politics and warfare is part of the stumbling block in the minds of men. As they see it, a nation is primarily a fighting organization; and its principal business is offensive and defensive warfare; therefore the ultimatum with which they oppose the demand for political equality—"women cannot fight, therefore they cannot vote."

The complicated mix of politics and warfare is a major hurdle for people. They believe that a nation is mainly a military organization and that its main job is to engage in offensive and defensive warfare. Therefore, their reasoning against political equality is, "women can’t fight, so they can’t vote."

Fighting, when all is said, is to them the real business of life; not to be able to fight is to be quite out of the running; and ability to solve our growing mass of public problems; questions of health, of education, of morals, of economics; weighs naught against the ability to kill.

Fighting, when it comes down to it, is for them the real purpose of life; not being able to fight means you're completely out of the game; and the ability to tackle our increasing number of public issues—like health, education, morals, and economics—counts for nothing compared to the ability to kill.

This naive assumption of supreme value in a process never of the first importance; and increasingly injurious as society progresses, would be laughable if it were not for its evil effects. It acts and reacts upon us to our hurt. Positively, we see the ill effects already touched on; the evils not only of active war; but of the spirit and methods of war; idealized, inculcated and practiced in other social processes. It tends to make each man-managed nation an actual or potential fighting organization, and to give us, instead of civilized peace, that "balance of power" which is like the counted time in the prize ring—only a rest between combats.

This naive belief in the supreme value of a process that was never truly important, and which becomes more harmful as society advances, would be laughable if it weren't for its negative impact. It influences us in ways that are detrimental. We can clearly see the harmful effects already mentioned— not just the evils of active warfare, but also the mindset and methods of war that are idealized, taught, and practiced in other areas of society. It turns every nation managed by people into an actual or potential fighting force, replacing civilized peace with that "balance of power," which is just a temporary break between fights, much like the downtime in a boxing match.

It leaves the weaker nations to be "conquered" and "annexed" just as they used to be; with tariffs instead of tribute. It forces upon each the burden of armament; upon many the dreaded conscription; and continually lowers the world's resources in money and in life.

It allows weaker nations to be "conquered" and "annexed" just like before; now with tariffs instead of tribute. It puts the burden of military spending on each, and for many, the feared conscription; and continually depletes the world’s resources in both money and lives.

Similarly in politics, it adds to the legitimate expenses of governing the illegitimate expenses of fighting; and must needs have a "spoils system" by which to pay its mercenaries.

Similarly in politics, it increases the legitimate costs of governing with the illegitimate costs of conflict; and it inevitably requires a "spoils system" to compensate its hired hands.

In carrying out the public policies the wheels of state are continually clogged by the "opposition;" always an opposition on one side or the other; and this slow wiggling uneven progress, through shorn victories and haggling concessions, is held to be the proper and only political method.

In implementing public policies, the machinery of the state is constantly hindered by the "opposition," which is always present on one side or another. This slow, unsteady progress, marked by limited victories and contentious compromises, is considered the appropriate and only political approach.

"Women do not understand politics," we are told; "Women do not care for politics;" "Women are unfitted for politics."

"Women just don't get politics," we're told; "Women aren't interested in politics;" "Women aren't suited for politics."

It is frankly inconceivable, from the androcentric view-point, that nations can live in peace together, and be friendly and serviceable as persons are. It is inconceivable also, that in the management of a nation, honesty, efficiency, wisdom, experience and love could work out good results without any element of combat.

It’s honestly hard to believe, from a male-centered perspective, that countries can coexist peacefully and be as friendly and helpful as individuals. It’s also hard to imagine that in running a nation, honesty, efficiency, wisdom, experience, and care could lead to positive outcomes without some element of conflict.

The "ultimate resort" is still to arms. "The will of the majority" is only respected on account of the guns of the majority. We have but a partial civilization, heavily modified to sex—the male sex.

The "ultimate resort" is still to violence. "The will of the majority" is only respected because of the power of the majority's weapons. We only have a partial civilization, heavily influenced by the male perspective.





WOMAN AND THE STATE

     [A Discussion of Political Equality of Men and Women.  To be
     read in connection with chapter 12 of Our Androcentric
     Culture.]
     [A Discussion of Political Equality of Men and Women. To be
     read in connection with chapter 12 of Our Androcentric
     Culture.]

Here are two vital factors in human life; one a prime essential to our existence; the other a prime essential to our progress.

Here are two essential factors in human life: one is crucial for our survival, and the other is vital for our advancement.

Both of them we idealize in certain lines, and exploit in others. Both of them are misinterpreted, balked of their full usefulness, and humanity thus injured.

Both of them are idealized in some respects and taken advantage of in others. Both of them are misunderstood, prevented from reaching their full potential, and as a result, humanity suffers.

The human race does not get the benefit of the full powers of women, nor of the full powers of the state.

The human race does not benefit from the full potential of women, nor from the full potential of the state.

In all civilized races to-day there is a wide and growing sense of discontent among women; a criticism of their assigned limitations, and a demand for larger freedom and opportunity. Under different conditions the demand varies; it is here for higher education, there for justice before the law; here for economic independence, and there for political equality.

In all civilized societies today, there is a growing sense of discontent among women; they are critiquing the limitations placed on them and demanding more freedom and opportunities. Depending on the circumstances, the demands differ; here it's for better education, there it's for justice under the law; here for financial independence, and there for equal political rights.

This last is at present the most prominent Issue of "the woman question" in England and America, as the activity of the "militant suffragists" has forced it upon the attention of the world.

This is currently the most significant issue of "the woman question" in England and America, as the actions of the "militant suffragists" have brought it to the world's attention.

Thoughtful people in general are now studying this point more seriously than ever before, genuinely anxious to adopt the right side, and there is an alarmed uprising of sincere objection to the political equality of women.

Thoughtful people today are studying this issue more seriously than ever before, genuinely eager to take the right stance, and there’s a growing and concerned pushback against the political equality of women.

Wasting no time on ignorance, prejudice, or the resistance of special interests, let us fairly face the honest opposition, and do it justice.

Wasting no time on ignorance, prejudice, or the pushback from special interests, let’s confront the genuine opposition head-on and give it the consideration it deserves.

The conservative position is this:

The conservative stance is this:

"Men and women have different spheres in life. To men belong the creation and management of the state, and the financial maintenance of the home and family:

"Men and women have different roles in life. Men are responsible for creating and managing the state, as well as providing financial support for the home and family:"

"To women belong the physical burden of maternity, and the industrial management of the home and family; these duties require all their time and strength:

"Women bear the physical burden of motherhood and manage the household and family; these responsibilities demand all their time and energy."

"The prosperity of the state may be sufficiently conserved by men alone; the prosperity of the family requires the personal presence and services of the mother in the home: if women assume the cares of the state, the home and family will suffer:"

"The prosperity of the state can be maintained by men alone; the well-being of the family relies on the mother’s personal presence and support at home: if women take on the responsibilities of the state, the home and family will be negatively impacted."

Some go even farther than this, and claim an essential limitation in "the female mind" which prevents it from grasping large political interests; holding, therefore, that if women took part in state affairs it would be to the detriment of the community:

Some go even further and claim that there’s a fundamental limitation in "the female mind" that stops it from understanding large political issues; thus, they argue that if women participated in government affairs, it would harm the community:

Others advance a theory that "society," in the special sense, is the true sphere of larger service for women, and that those of them not exclusively confined to "home duties" may find full occupation in "social duties," including the time honored fields of "religion" and "charity":

Others propose a theory that "society," in a specific sense, is the real area where women can provide broader service, and that those who are not solely focused on "home responsibilities" can find complete engagement in "social responsibilities," including the longstanding areas of "religion" and "charity":

Others again place their main reliance on the statement that, as to the suffrage, "women do not want it."

Others again rely primarily on the claim that, regarding the vote, "women don't want it."

Let us consider these points in inverse order, beginning with the last one.

Let’s look at these points in reverse order, starting with the last one.

We will admit that at present the majority of women are not consciously desirous of any extension of their political rights and privileges, but deny that this indifference is any evidence against the desirability of such extension.

We admit that right now most women are not actively seeking more political rights and privileges, but we argue that this lack of interest does not prove that expanding those rights isn't desirable.

It has long been accepted that the position of women is an index of civilization. Progressive people are proud of the freedom and honor given their women, and our nation honestly believes itself the leader in this line. "American women are the freest in the world!" we say; and boast of it.

It has long been recognized that the status of women reflects the level of civilization. Progressive individuals take pride in the freedom and respect afforded to their women, and our country genuinely considers itself a leader in this area. "American women are the freest in the world!" we claim; and we take pride in it.

Since the agitation for women's rights began, many concessions have been made to further improve their condition. Men, seeing the justice of certain demands, have granted in many states such privileges as admission to schools, colleges, universities, and special instruction for professions; followed by admission to the bar, the pulpit, and the practice of medicine. Married women, in many states, have now a right to their own earnings; and in a few, mothers have an equal right in the guardianship of their children.

Since the push for women's rights started, many concessions have been made to improve their situation. Men, recognizing the fairness of specific demands, have granted privileges in many states, like access to schools, colleges, universities, and specialized training for professions. This has been followed by allowing women to practice law, enter the ministry, and work in medicine. Married women now have the right to their own earnings in many states, and in a few places, mothers have equal rights in guardianship of their children.

We are proud and glad that our women are free to go unveiled, to travel alone, to choose their own husbands; we are proud and glad of every extension of justice already granted by men to women.

We are proud and happy that our women can go without a veil, travel alone, and choose their own husbands; we are proud and happy about every advancement of justice that men have granted to women.

Now:—Have any of these concessions been granted because a majority of women asked for them? Was it advanced in opposition to any of them that "women did not want it?" Have as many women ever asked for these things as are now asking for the ballot? If it was desirable to grant these other rights and privileges without the demand of a majority, why is the demand of a majority required before this one is granted?

Now:—Have any of these concessions been granted because most women requested them? Was it claimed against any of them that "women did not want it?" Have as many women ever asked for these things as are currently asking for the vote? If it was acceptable to grant these other rights and privileges without the demand of a majority, why is a majority's demand necessary before this one is granted?

The child widows of India did not unitedly demand the abolition of the "suttee."

The child widows of India did not unite to demand the abolition of "suttee."

The tortured girl children of China did not rise in overwhelming majority to demand free feet; yet surely no one would refuse to lift these burdens because only a minority of progressive women insisted on justice.

The suffering young girls in China didn’t gather in large numbers to demand liberation from bound feet; still, surely no one would ignore these burdens just because only a few progressive women were calling for justice.

It is a sociological impossibility that a majority of an unorganized class should unite in concerted demand for a right, a duty, which they have never known.

It is sociologically impossible for a majority of an unorganized group to come together and demand a right or duty that they have never experienced.

The point to be decided is whether political equality is to the advantage of women and of the state—not whether either, as a body, is asking for it.

The question we need to answer is whether political equality benefits women and the state—not whether either group is demanding it.

Now for the "society" theory. There is a venerable fiction to the effect that women make—and manage, "society." No careful student of comparative history can hold this belief for a moment. Whatever the conditions of the age or place; industrial, financial, religious, political, educational; these conditions are in the hands of men; and these conditions dictate the "society" of that age or place.

Now let’s discuss the "society" theory. There’s a long-standing belief that women create and control "society." However, no serious student of historical comparisons can accept this notion for even a second. Regardless of the era or location—whether industrial, financial, religious, political, or educational—these factors are controlled by men, and they determine the "society" of that time and place.

"Society" in a constitutional monarchy is one thing; in a primitive despotism another; among millionaires a third; but women do not make the despotism, the monarchy, or the millions. They take social conditions as provided by men, precisely as they take all other conditions at their hands. They do not even modify an existing society to their own interests, being powerless to do so. The "double standard of morals," ruling everywhere in "society," proves this; as does the comparative helplessness of women to enjoy even social entertainments, without the constant attendance and invitation of men.

"Society" in a constitutional monarchy is one thing; in a primitive despotism, it's another; and among millionaires, it's a third. But women don’t create the despotism, the monarchy, or the wealth. They accept social conditions as set by men, just like they accept all other circumstances handed to them. They don't even reshape an existing society to serve their own interests, as they are unable to do so. The "double standard of morals," prevalent throughout "society," supports this; as does the relative inability of women to participate in social events without the constant presence and invitation of men.

Even in its great function of exhibition leading to marriage, it is the girls who are trained and exhibited, under closest surveillance; while the men stroll in and out, to chose at will, under no surveillance whatever.

Even in its main role of showcasing for marriage, it's the girls who are trained and displayed, constantly being watched, while the men come and go as they please, with no one monitoring them at all.

That women, otherwise powerful, may use "society" to further their ends, is as true as that men do; and in England, where women, through their titled and landed position, have always had more political power than here, "society" is a very useful vehicle for the activities of both sexes.

That women, who are otherwise powerful, can use "society" to achieve their goals is just as true as men do; and in England, where women, because of their titles and land ownership, have always had more political power than they do here, "society" serves as a very useful tool for the actions of both genders.

But, in the main, the opportunities of "society" to women, are merely opportunities to use their "feminine influence" in extra domestic lines—a very questionable advantage to the home and family, to motherhood, to women, or to the state.

But overall, the chances that "society" offers women are mostly just chances to use their "feminine influence" outside the home—something that raises serious questions about its benefits for the household and family, for motherhood, for women, or for the community.

In religion women have always filled and more than filled the place allowed them. Needless to say it was a low one. The power of the church, its whole management and emoluments, were always in the hands of men, save when the Lady Abbess held her partial sway; but the work of the church has always been helped by women—the men have preached and the women practised!

In religion, women have always occupied and more than fulfilled the role assigned to them. It's no surprise that it was a lowly one. The church's power, overall management, and benefits have consistently been in the hands of men, except when the Lady Abbess exercised her limited authority; however, the work of the church has always been supported by women—the men have preached, and the women have put it into practice!

Charity, as a vocation, is directly in line with the mother instinct, and has always appealed to women. Since we have learned how injurious to true social development this mistaken kindness is, it might almost be classified as a morbid by-product of suppressed femininity!

Charity, as a calling, aligns perfectly with the nurturing instinct, and has always attracted women. Now that we understand how harmful this misguided kindness is to genuine social progress, it could almost be seen as a negative consequence of repressed femininity!

In passing we may note that charity as a virtue is ranked highest among those nations and religions where women are held lowest. With the Moslems it is a universal law—and in the Moslem Paradise there are no women—save the Houries!

In passing, we should mention that charity is considered the greatest virtue in those nations and religions where women are treated the least favorably. Among Muslims, this is a universal law—and in the Muslim Paradise, there are no women—except for the Houris!

The playground of a man-fenced "society"; the work-ground of a man-taught church; and this "osmosis" of social nutrition, this leakage and seepage of values which should circulate normally, called charity; these are not a sufficient field for the activities of women.

The playground of a man-made "society"; the work area of a man-taught church; and this "osmosis" of social nourishment, this leakage and seepage of values that should flow naturally, known as charity; these are not enough to accommodate the efforts of women.

As for those limitations of the "feminine mind" which render her unfit to consider the victuallage of a nation, or the justice of a tax on sugar; it hardly seems as if the charge need be taken seriously. Yet so able a woman as Mrs. Humphry Ward has recently advanced it in all earnestness.

As for those limitations of the "feminine mind" that make her unqualified to think about the welfare of a nation or the fairness of a tax on sugar, it hardly seems like this accusation should be taken seriously. Yet, a capable woman like Mrs. Humphry Ward has recently put it forward with complete seriousness.

In her view women are capable of handling municipal, but not state affairs. Since even this was once denied them; and since, in England, they have had municipal suffrage for some time; it would seem as if their abilities grew with use, as most abilities do; which is in truth the real answer.

In her opinion, women can manage local affairs, but not state matters. Since they were once denied even that; and since, in England, they have had the right to vote in local elections for a while now; it appears that their skills improve with practice, like most skills do; which is really the true explanation.

Most women spend their whole lives, and have spent their whole lives for uncounted generations, in the persistent and exclusive contemplation of their own family affairs. They are near-sighted, or near-minded, rather; the trouble is not with the nature of their minds, but with the use of them.

Most women spend their entire lives, and have for countless generations, focused entirely on their own family matters. They are narrow-minded; the issue isn't with how their minds work, but rather how they are used.

If men as a class had been exclusively confined to the occupation of house-service since history began, they would be similarly unlikely to manifest an acute political intelligence.

If men had only worked in house-service throughout history, they probably wouldn’t show much political awareness.

We may agree with Tennyson that "Woman is not undeveloped man, but diverse;" that is women are not undeveloped men; but the feminine half of humanity is undeveloped human. They have exercised their feminine functions, but not their human-functions; at least not to their full extent.

We might agree with Tennyson that "Woman is not undeveloped man, but diverse;" meaning women are not undeveloped men; rather, the feminine part of humanity isn't fully developed. They have embraced their feminine roles, but not their human roles; at least not to their full potential.

Here appears a distinction which needs to be widely appreciated.

Here is a distinction that needs to be widely recognized.

We are not merely male and female—all animals are that—our chief distinction is that of race, our humanness.

We aren't just male and female—all animals are. Our main difference is our race, our humanity.

Male characteristics we share with all males, bird and beast; female characteristics we share with all females, similarly; but human characteristics belong to genus homo alone; and are possessed by both sexes. A female horse is just as much a horse as a male of her species; a female human being is just as human as the male of her species—or ought to be!

Male traits are shared among all males, whether they're birds or beasts; female traits are shared among all females in the same way; but human traits belong exclusively to genus homo and are found in both sexes. A female horse is as much a horse as a male of her species; a female human is just as human as the male of her species—or should be!

In the special functions and relations of sex there is no contest, no possible rivalry or confusion; but in the general functions of humanity there is great misunderstanding.

In the unique aspects and connections of sex, there's no competition, no chance of rivalry or confusion; however, in the broader functions of humanity, there's a lot of misunderstanding.

Our trouble is that we have not recognized these human functions as such; but supposed them to be exclusively masculine; and, acting under that idea, strove to prevent women from an unnatural imitation of men.

Our issue is that we haven't acknowledged these human functions as they are; instead, we've assumed they belong solely to men, and under that belief, we tried to stop women from an unnatural imitation of men.

Hence this minor theory of the limitations of the "female mind."

Hence this minor theory of the limitations of the "female mind."

The mind is pre-eminently human. That degree of brain development which distinguishes our species, is a human, not a sex characteristic.

The mind is fundamentally human. The level of brain development that sets our species apart is a human characteristic, not a sexual one.

There may be, has been, and still is, a vast difference in our treatment of the minds of the two sexes. We have given them a different education, different exercises, different conditions in all ways. But all these differences are external, and their effect disappears with them.

There has been, and still is, a big difference in how we treat the minds of men and women. We have provided them with different education, activities, and circumstances in every way. But all these differences are superficial, and their impact fades away with them.

The "female mind" has proven its identical capacity with the "male mind," in so far as it has been given identical conditions. It will take a long time, however, before conditions are so identical, for successive generations, as to give the "female mind" a fair chance.

The "female mind" has shown that it is just as capable as the "male mind," as long as both have the same conditions. However, it will take a long time before the conditions become truly equal for both genders over successive generations, allowing the "female mind" a fair opportunity.

In the meantime, considering its traditional, educational and associative drawbacks, the "female mind" has made a remarkably good showing.

In the meantime, despite its traditional, educational, and social challenges, the "female mind" has performed impressively well.

The field of politics is an unfortunate one in which to urge this alleged limitation; because politics is one of the few fields in which some women have been reared and exercised under equal conditions with men.

The field of politics is an unfortunate area in which to suggest this supposed limitation because politics is one of the few fields where some women have been raised and trained under equal conditions with men.

We have had queens as long as we have had kings, perhaps longer; and history does not show the male mind, in kings, to have manifested a numerically proportionate superiority over the female mind, in queens. There have been more kings than queens, but have there been more good and great ones, in proportion?

We’ve had queens as long as we've had kings, maybe even longer; and history doesn’t show that the male mind, in kings, has demonstrated a numerically equal superiority over the female mind, in queens. There have been more kings than queens, but have there been more good and great ones, in proportion?

Even one practical and efficient queen is proof enough that being a woman does not preclude political capacity. Since England has had such an able queen for so long, and that within Mrs. Humphry Ward's personal memory, her position seems fatuous in the extreme.

Even one practical and capable queen proves that being a woman doesn't mean she's incapable of politics. Since England has had such a skilled queen for such a long time, especially within Mrs. Humphry Ward's own memory, her position seems incredibly unreasonable.

It has been advanced that great queens owed their power to the association and advice of the noble and high-minded men who surrounded them; and, further, that the poor showing made by many kings, was due to the association and vice of the base and low-minded women who surrounded them.

It has been claimed that great queens gained their power from the support and advice of the noble and admirable men around them; moreover, that the poor performance of many kings was due to the influence and corruption of the petty and shallow women surrounding them.

This is a particularly pusillanimous claim in the first place; is not provable in the second place; and, if it were true, opens up a very pretty field of study in the third place. It would seem to prove, if it proves anything, that men are not fit to be trusted with political power on account of an alarming affinity for the worst of women; and, conversely, that women, as commanding the assistance of the best of men, are visibly the right rulers! Also it opens a pleasant sidelight on that oft-recommended tool—"feminine influence."

This is a particularly cowardly claim to begin with; it's not provable to start with; and even if it were true, it would lead to an interesting area of study. It would suggest, if it suggests anything, that men can't be trusted with political power because they have a troubling attraction to the worst women; and, on the flip side, that women, who have the support of the best men, are clearly the right leaders! It also sheds light on that frequently suggested concept—"feminine influence."

We now come to our opening objection; that society and state, home, and family, are best served by the present division of interests: and its corollary, that if women enlarge that field of interest it would reduce their usefulness in their present sphere.

We now face our first objection: that society and the state, as well as home and family, are best supported by the current division of interests. The implication is that if women broaden their areas of interest, it would diminish their effectiveness in their existing roles.

The corollary is easily removed. We are now on the broad ground of established facts; of history, recent, but still achieved.

The corollary can be easily taken out. We are now on solid ground with established facts; of history, recent, but still accomplished.

Women have had equal political rights with men in several places, for considerable periods of time. In Wyoming, to come near home, they have enjoyed this status for more than a generation. Neither here nor in any other state or country where women vote, is there the faintest proof of injury to the home or family relation. In Wyoming, indeed, divorce has decreased, while gaining so fast in other places.

Women have had the same political rights as men in several places for quite some time. In Wyoming, to stay local, they’ve had this status for over a generation. In Wyoming or any other state or country where women can vote, there’s no evidence of harm to the home or family relationships. In fact, in Wyoming, divorce rates have actually gone down, while they’ve increased rapidly in other areas.

Political knowledge, political interest, does not take up more time and strength than any other form of mental activity; nor does it preclude a keen efficiency in other lines; and as for the actual time required to perform the average duties of citizenship—it is a contemptible bit of trickery in argument, if not mere ignorance and confusion of idea, to urge the occasional attendance on political meetings, or the annual or bi-annual dropping of a ballot, as any interference with the management of a house.

Political knowledge and interest don't require any more time or effort than other mental activities; they don't prevent you from being efficient in other areas. Also, when it comes to the actual time needed to fulfill the average responsibilities of citizenship, suggesting that attending political meetings occasionally or voting once or twice a year disrupts home management is an insultingly misleading argument, if not just ignorance and confusion.

It is proven, by years on years of established experience, that women can enjoy full political equality and use their power, without in the least ceasing to be contented and efficient wives and mothers, cooks and housekeepers.

It has been proven, over many years of established experience, that women can enjoy full political equality and use their power, without at all stopping from being happy and effective wives and mothers, cooks and housekeepers.

What really horrifies the popular mind at the thought of women in politics, is the picture of woman as a "practical politician;" giving her time to it as a business, and making money by it, in questionable, or unquestionable, ways; and, further, as a politician in office, as sheriff, alderman, senator, judge.

What really shocks people when they think about women in politics is the image of a woman as a "practical politician;" dedicating her time to it like a job, and earning money from it, whether in questionable or clear-cut ways; and, moreover, as a politician in a position of power, like sheriff, alderman, senator, or judge.

The popular mind becomes suffused with horror at the first idea, and scarcely less so at the second. It pictures blushing girlhood on the Bench; tender motherhood in the Senate; the housewife turned "ward-heeler;" and becomes quite sick in contemplation of these abominations.

The general public is filled with horror at the first idea, and almost just as much at the second. It imagines a blushing young woman in the courtroom; caring mothers in the Senate; the housewife becoming a political operative; and feels quite nauseated just thinking about these horrors.

No educated mind, practical mind, no mind able and willing to use its faculties, need be misled for a moment by these sophistries.

No educated, practical, or capable mind that is willing to use its abilities should be misled for even a second by these fallacies.

There is absolutely no evidence that women as a class will rush into "practical politics." Where they have voted longest they do not manifest this dread result. Neither is there any proof that they will all desire to hold office; or that any considerable portion of them will; or that, if they did, they would get it.

There is no evidence that women as a group will quickly get involved in "practical politics." In places where they have been voting the longest, this feared outcome does not occur. There is also no proof that they all want to hold office, or that a significant number of them do; nor is there any indication that, if they did, they would actually achieve it.

We seem unconsciously to assume that when women begin to vote, men will stop; or that the women will outnumber the men; also that, outnumbering them, they will be completely united in their vote; and, still further, that so outnumbering and uniting, they will solidly vote for a ticket composed wholly of women candidates.

We seem to unconsciously assume that when women start voting, men will stop; or that women will outnumber men; also that, with this majority, they will all vote together; and, additionally, that by outnumbering and uniting, they will all vote for a ticket made up entirely of women candidates.

Does anyone seriously imagine this to be likely?

Does anyone actually think this is likely?

This may be stated with assurance; if ever we do see a clever, designing, flirtatious, man-twisting woman; or a pretty, charming, irresistable young girl, elected to office—it will not be by the votes of women!

This can be said with confidence: if we ever see a clever, scheming, flirtatious woman who knows how to manipulate men, or a beautiful, charming, irresistible young woman elected to office—it won’t be because of women's votes!

Where women are elected to office, by the votes of both men and women, they are of suitable age and abilities, and do their work well. They have already greatly improved some of the conditions of local politics, and the legislation they advocate is of a beneficial character.

Where women are elected to office by the votes of both men and women, they are of appropriate age and skills, and they perform their duties effectively. They have already significantly enhanced some of the local political conditions, and the legislation they support is beneficial.

What is the true relation of women to the state?

What is the actual relationship between women and the state?

It is precisely identical with that of men. Their forms of service may vary, but their duty, their interest, their responsibility, is the same.

It is exactly the same as that of men. Their roles may be different, but their duty, interest, and responsibility are the same.

Here are the people on earth, half of them women, all of them her children. It is her earth as much as his; the people are their people, the state their state; compounded of them all, in due relation.

Here are the people on earth, half of them women, all of them her children. It is her earth as much as his; the people are their people, the state their state; made up of them all, in the right balance.

As the father and mother, together; shelter, guard, teach and provide for their children in the home; so should all fathers and mothers, together; shelter, guard, teach and provide for their common children, the community.

As parents, both fathers and mothers should come together to support, protect, educate, and provide for their children at home. Similarly, all fathers and mothers should unite to support, protect, educate, and provide for their shared children in the community.

The state is no mystery; no taboo place of masculine secrecy; it is simply us.

The state isn't a mystery or a hidden place of male secrecy; it's just us.

Democracy is but a half-grown child as yet, one of twins? Its boy-half is a struggling thing, with "the diseases of babyhood"; its girl-half has hardly begun to take notice.

Democracy is still a young child, like one of a set of twins. Its boy side is struggling, facing "the challenges of infancy"; its girl side has barely started to pay attention.

As human creatures we have precisely the same duty and privilege, interest, and power in the state; sharing its protection, its advantages, and its services. As women we have a different relation.

As human beings, we have exactly the same duty and privilege, interest, and power in the state; sharing its protection, benefits, and services. As women, we have a different relationship.

Here indeed we will admit, and glory in, our "diversity." The "eternal womanly" is a far more useful thing in the state than the "eternal manly."

Here, we will gladly acknowledge and take pride in our "diversity." The "eternal feminine" is much more beneficial in society than the "eternal masculine."

To be woman means to be mother. To be mother means to give love, defense, nourishment, care, instruction. Too long, far too long has motherhood neglected its real social duties, its duties to humanity at large. Even in her position of retarded industrial development, as the housekeeper and houseworker of the world, woman has a contribution of special value to the state.

To be a woman means to be a mother. To be a mother means to provide love, protection, support, care, and guidance. For far too long, motherhood has overlooked its true social responsibilities, its obligations to humanity as a whole. Even in her role within an underdeveloped industrial landscape, as the caretaker and homemaker of the world, a woman has a uniquely valuable contribution to the community.

As the loving mother, the patient teacher, the tender nurse, the wise provider and care-taker, she can serve the state, and the state needs her service.

As the caring mother, the understanding teacher, the nurturing nurse, the wise provider, and caretaker, she can serve the state, and the state needs her support.





XIII. INDUSTRY AND ECONOMICS.

The forest of Truth, on the subject of industry and economics, is difficult to see on account of the trees.

The forest of Truth, concerning industry and economics, is hard to see because of the trees.

We have so many Facts on this subject; so many Opinions; so many Traditions and Habits; and the pressure of Immediate Conclusions is so intense upon us all; that it is not easy to form a clear space in one's mind and consider the field fairly.

We have a ton of facts on this subject, a lot of opinions, countless traditions and habits, and the push for quick conclusions is so strong on all of us that it's not easy to clear our minds and evaluate the situation fairly.

Possibly the present treatment of the subject will appeal most to the minds of those who know least about it; such as the Average Woman. To her, Industry is a daylong and lifelong duty, as well as a natural impulse; and economics means going without things. To such untrained but also unprejudiced minds it should be easy to show the main facts on these lines.

Possibly the current approach to the topic will resonate most with those who know the least about it; like the Average Woman. For her, work is a daylong and lifelong responsibility, as well as a natural instinct; and economics is all about making sacrifices. It should be straightforward to present the key facts along these lines to such untrained yet open-minded individuals.

Let us dispose of Economics first, as having a solemn scientific appearance.

Let’s tackle Economics first, since it has a serious, scientific vibe.

Physical Economics treats of the internal affairs of the body; the whole machinery and how it works; all organs, members, functions; each last and littlest capillary and leucocyte, are parts of that "economy."

Physical Economics covers the internal workings of the body; the entire system and how it functions; all organs, limbs, and processes; even the tiniest capillary and white blood cell are components of that "economy."

Nature's "economy" is not in the least "economical." The waste of life, the waste of material, the waste of time and effort, are prodigious, yet she achieves her end as we see.

Nature's "economy" isn't at all "economical." The waste of life, the waste of materials, the waste of time and effort are immense, yet she still accomplishes her goals, as we can see.

Domestic Economics covers the whole care and government of the household; the maintenance of peace, health, order, and morality; the care and nourishment of children as far as done at home; the entire management of the home, as well as the spending and saving of money; are included in it. Saving is the least and poorest part of it; especially as in mere abstinence from needed things; most especially when this abstinence is mainly "Mother's." How best to spend; time, strength, love, care, labor, knowledge, and money—this should be the main study in Domestic Economics.

Domestic Economics involves all aspects of managing a household; maintaining peace, health, order, and morality; and caring for and nurturing children at home. It includes overall home management, as well as the spending and saving of money. Saving is the least significant part of this, especially when it involves simply going without necessary things, particularly when this sacrifice is primarily made by "Mother." The main focus in Domestic Economics should be on how to best allocate time, energy, love, care, labor, knowledge, and money.

Social, or, as they are used to call it, Political Economics, covers a larger, but not essentially different field. A family consists of people, and the Mother is their natural manager. Society consists of people—the same people—only more of them. All the people, who are members of Society, are also members of families—except some incubated orphans maybe. Social Economics covers the whole care and management of the people, the maintenance of peace and health and order and morality; the care of children, as far as done out of the home; as well as the spending and saving of the public money—all these are included in it.

Social, or what people used to call Political Economics, encompasses a broader but essentially similar area. A family is made up of individuals, and the Mother is their natural leader. Society consists of people—the same individuals—just more of them. Everyone who is part of Society is also part of families—except for a few incubated orphans, perhaps. Social Economics involves the overall care and management of people, maintaining peace, health, order, and morality; the care of children, as far as it happens outside the home; as well as the spending and saving of public money—all of these are included in it.

This great business of Social Economics is at present little understood and most poorly managed, for this reason; we approach it from an individual point of view; seeking not so much to do our share in the common service, as to get our personal profit from the common wealth. Where the whole family labors together to harvest fruit and store it for the winter, we have legitimate Domestic Economics: but where one member takes and hides a lot for himself, to the exclusion of the others, we have no Domestic Economics at all—merely individual selfishness.

This important area of Social Economics is currently not well understood and is poorly managed for this reason: we look at it from an individual perspective, focusing not so much on contributing to the collective good but on gaining personal benefit from shared resources. When the entire family works together to gather and store food for the winter, we have true Domestic Economics. However, when one person takes and hoards a large amount for themselves, excluding everyone else, there is no Domestic Economics—just individual selfishness.

In Social Economics we have a large, but simple problem. Here is the earth, our farm. Here are the people, who own the earth. How can the most advantage to the most people be obtained from the earth with the least labor? That is the problem of Social Economics.

In Social Economics, we have a big yet straightforward issue. Here’s the earth, our land. Here are the people who own the land. How can we get the most benefit for the most people from the earth with the least amount of effort? That’s the challenge of Social Economics.

Looking at the world as if you held it in your hands to study and discuss, what do we find at present?

Looking at the world as if you’re holding it in your hands to examine and talk about, what do we see right now?

We find people living too thickly for health and comfort in some places, and too thinly for others; we find most people working too hard and too long at honest labor; some people working with damaging intensity at dishonest labor; and a few wretched paupers among the rich and poor, degenerate idlers who do not work at all, the scum and the dregs of Society.

We see some areas where people are crammed together, making it unhealthy and uncomfortable, while in other places, they are spaced too far apart. Most people put in long hours and work too hard at honest jobs, while some work excessively at dishonest ones. Then there are a few miserable beggars among both the rich and poor—lazy people who don’t work at all, the lowest of the low in society.

All this is bad economics. We do not get the comfort out of life we easily could; and work far too hard for what we do get. Moreover, there is no peace, no settled security. No man is sure of his living, no matter how hard he works, a thousand things may occur to deprive him of his job, or his income. In our time there is great excitement along this line of study; and more than one proposition is advanced whereby we may improve, most notably instanced in the world-covering advance of Socialism.

All of this is poor economics. We don’t experience the comfort in life that we easily could, and we work way too hard for what we do get. Plus, there’s no peace or sense of security. No one can be certain about their livelihood, no matter how hard they work; a thousand things can happen to take away their job or income. Nowadays, there’s a lot of excitement around this area of study, and multiple ideas are being proposed to help us improve, most notably seen in the widespread growth of Socialism.

In our present study the principal fact to be exhibited is the influence of a male culture upon Social Economics and Industry.

In our current study, the main point to highlight is the impact of a male-centered culture on Social Economics and Industry.

Industry, as a department of Social Economics, is little understood. Heretofore we have viewed this field from several wholly erroneous positions. From the Hebrew (and wholly androcentric) religious teaching, we have regarded labor as a curse.

Industry, as a part of Social Economics, is not well understood. Until now, we've looked at this area from several completely mistaken perspectives. From the Hebrew (and entirely male-centered) religious teachings, we've seen labor as a curse.

Nothing could be more absurdly false. Labor is not merely a means of supporting human life—it is human life. Imagine a race of beings living without labor! They must be the rudest savages.

Nothing could be more absurdly false. Work is not just a way to support human life—it is human life. Imagine a species of beings living without work! They would have to be the most primitive savages.

Human work consists in specialized industry and the exchange of its products; and without it is no civilization. As industry develops, civilization develops; peace expands; wealth increases; science and art help on the splendid total. Productive industry, and its concomitant of distributive industry cover the major field of human life.

Human work involves specialized industries and the exchange of their products; without it, there is no civilization. As industry grows, civilization grows; peace spreads; wealth increases; science and art contribute to the overall progress. Productive industry, along with its counterpart, distributive industry, encompass the main aspects of human life.

If our industry was normal, what should we see?

If our industry were normal, what should we be seeing?

A world full of healthy, happy people; each busily engaged in what he or she most enjoys doing. Normal Specialization, like all our voluntary processes, is accompanied by keen pleasure; and any check or interruption to it gives pain and injury. Whosoever works at what he loves is well and happy. Whoso works at what he does not love is ill and miserable. It is very bad economics to force unwilling industry. That is the weakness of slave labor; and of wage labor also where there is not full industrial education and freedom of choice.

A world filled with healthy, happy people, each engaged in what they love doing. Normal specialization, like all our voluntary activities, comes with great joy; any disruption or halt to it causes pain and harm. Whoever works at what they love is well and happy. Whoever works at what they don’t love feels unwell and miserable. It’s poor economic practice to push unwilling labor. That's the downside of slave labor; and also of wage labor when there isn’t complete industrial education and freedom of choice.

Under normal conditions we should see well developed, well trained specialists happily engaged in the work they most enjoyed; for reasonable hours (any work, or play either, becomes injurious if done too long); and as a consequence the whole output of the world would be vastly improved, not only in quantity but in quality.

Under normal circumstances, we would expect to see skilled, well-trained professionals happily doing the work they love; for reasonable hours (anything, whether work or play, becomes harmful if done excessively); and as a result, the overall output in the world would be greatly enhanced, both in quantity and quality.

Plain are the melancholy facts of what we do see. Following that pitiful conception of labor as a curse, comes the very old and androcentric habit of despising it as belonging to women, and then to slaves.

Plain are the sad facts of what we see. Following that unfortunate view of work as a curse, comes the very old and male-centered habit of looking down on it as something that belongs to women, and then to slaves.

As a matter of fact industry is in its origin feminine; that is, maternal. It is the overflowing fountain of mother-love and mother-power which first prompts the human race to labor; and for long ages men performed no productive industry at all; being merely hunters and fighters.

As a matter of fact, industry originates from the feminine, meaning maternal. It’s the overflowing source of motherly love and strength that first motivates humanity to work; for many ages, men engaged in no productive work at all, merely acting as hunters and warriors.

It is this lack of natural instinct for labor in the male of our species, together with the ideas and opinions based on that lack, and voiced by him in his many writings, religious and other, which have given to the world its false estimate of this great function, human work. That which is our very life, our greatest joy, our road to all advancement, we have scorned and oppressed; so that "working people," the "working classes," "having to work," etc., are to this day spoken of with contempt. Perhaps drones speak so among themselves of the "working bees!"

It’s this lack of natural drive for work in men of our species, along with the ideas and beliefs stemming from that lack, which he has expressed in his many writings, religious and otherwise, that has given the world a skewed view of this essential function—human work. What is our very life, our greatest joy, and the path to all our progress, we have rejected and marginalized; so that terms like "working people," the "working class," and "having to work," are still treated with disdain today. Maybe lazy ones talk among themselves about the "hardworking bees!"

Normally, widening out from the mother's careful and generous service in the family, to careful, generous service in the world, we should find labor freely given, with love and pride.

Typically, expanding from the mother’s attentive and generous care within the family to considerate, generous care in the world, we should encounter work offered freely, filled with love and pride.

Abnormally, crushed under the burden of androcentric scorn and prejudice, we have labor grudgingly produced under pressure of necessity; labor of slaves under fear of the whip, or of wage-slaves, one step higher, under fear of want. Long ages wherein hunting and fighting were the only manly occupations, have left their heavy impress. The predacious instinct and the combative instinct weigh down and disfigure our economic development. What Veblen calls "the instinct of workmanship" grows on, slowly and irresistably; but the malign features of our industrial life are distinctively androcentric: the desire to get, of the hunter; interfering with the desire to give, of the mother; the desire to overcome an antagonist—originally masculine, interfering with the desire to serve and benefit—originally feminine.

Abnormally, weighed down by the burden of male-dominated scorn and prejudice, we have produced labor grudgingly under the pressure of necessity; labor of slaves under the threat of punishment, or of wage-laborers, just a step up, under the fear of poverty. Long ages when hunting and fighting were the only manly pursuits have left their heavy mark. The predatory instinct and the combative instinct hinder and distort our economic progress. What Veblen refers to as "the instinct of workmanship" continues to grow, slowly and inevitably; however, the harmful aspects of our industrial life are distinctly male-centered: the desire to acquire, like that of the hunter, clashes with the desire to nurture, like that of the mother; the desire to defeat an opponent—originally masculine—clashes with the desire to help and support—originally feminine.

Let the reader keep in mind that as human beings, men are able to over-live their masculine natures and do noble service to the world; also that as human beings they are today far more highly developed than women, and doing far more for the world. The point here brought out is that as males their unchecked supremacy has resulted in the abnormal predominance of masculine impulses in our human processes; and that this predominance has been largely injurious.

Let the reader remember that as human beings, men can rise above their masculine instincts and contribute positively to the world; and also that today, they have developed much more than women and are doing significantly more for society. The main point here is that their unchecked dominance has led to an excessive influence of masculine impulses in our human experiences, which has been mostly harmful.

As it happens, the distinctly feminine or maternal impulses are far more nearly in line with human progress than are those of the male; which makes her exclusion from human functions the more mischievous.

As it turns out, the uniquely feminine or maternal instincts are much more aligned with human progress than those of men; which makes her exclusion from human roles even more harmful.

Our current teachings in the infant science of Political Economy are naively masculine. They assume as unquestionable that "the economic man" will never do anything unless he has to; will only do it to escape pain or attain pleasure; and will, inevitably, take all he can get, and do all he can to outwit, overcome, and if necessary destroy his antagonist.

Our current teachings in the early field of Political Economy are overly simplistic and male-focused. They assume without question that "the economic man" will never act unless absolutely necessary; that he will only do things to avoid pain or seek pleasure; and that he will, inescapably, take as much as he can and do whatever it takes to outsmart, overpower, or if needed, eliminate his opponent.

Always the antagonist; to the male mind an antagonist is essential to progress, to all achievement. He has planted that root-thought in all the human world; from that old hideous idea of Satan, "The Adversary," down to the competitor in business, or the boy at the head of the class, to be superseded by another.

Always the antagonist; for the male mindset, an antagonist is crucial for progress and achievement. He's embedded that idea in all of humanity; from the ancient, dreadful concept of Satan, "The Adversary," to the business rival or the top student who is to be overtaken by another.

Therefore, even in science, "the struggle for existence" is the dominant law—to the male mind, with the "survival of the fittest" and "the elimination of the unfit."

Therefore, even in science, "the struggle for existence" is the dominant law—to the male mind, with "survival of the fittest" and "the elimination of the unfit."

Therefore in industry and economics we find always and everywhere the antagonist; the necessity for somebody or something to be overcome—else why make an effort? If you have not the incentive of reward, or the incentive of combat, why work? "Competition is the life of trade."

Therefore, in industry and economics, we always encounter the opponent; the need for someone or something to conquer—otherwise, why put in the effort? If you don’t have the motivation of a reward or the drive of a challenge, why bother working? "Competition is the heart of business."

Thus the Economic Man.

So the Economic Man.

But how about the Economic Woman?

But what about the Economic Woman?

To the androcentric mind she does not exist. Women are females, and that's all; their working abilities are limited to personal service.

To a male-centered perspective, she doesn't exist. Women are just females, and that's it; their work capabilities are restricted to personal service.

That it would be possible to develop industry to far greater heights, and to find in social economics a simple and beneficial process for the promotion of human life and prosperity, under any other impulse than these two, Desire and Combat, is hard indeed to recognize—for the "male mind."

That it would be possible to take industry to much greater levels and to find in social economics a straightforward and positive method for improving human life and prosperity, under any motivation other than these two, Desire and Combat, is really difficult to see—for the "male mind."

So absolutely interwoven are our existing concepts of maleness and humanness, so sure are we that men are people and women only females, that the claim of equal weight and dignity in human affairs of the feminine instincts and methods is scouted as absurd. We find existing industry almost wholly in male hands; find it done as men do it; assume that that is the way it must be done.

So deeply intertwined are our current ideas of manhood and humanity, and so convinced are we that men are people while women are just females, that the idea of equal value and respect for feminine instincts and approaches in human matters is dismissed as ridiculous. We see that most industries are largely controlled by men, done in the way that men do it, and we assume that’s how it has to be done.

When women suggest that it could be done differently, their proposal is waved aside—they are "only women"—their ideas are "womanish."

When women propose that things could be done differently, their suggestions are brushed off—they're "just women"—their ideas are seen as "girlish."

Agreed. So are men "only men," their ideas are "mannish"; and of the two the women are more vitally human than the men.

Agreed. So are men "just men," their ideas are "manly"; and between the two, women are more fundamentally human than men.

The female is the race-type—the man the variant.

The woman is the standard for the race—the man is the exception.

The female, as a race-type, having the female processes besides; best performs the race processes. The male, however, has with great difficulty developed them, always heavily handicapped by his maleness; being in origin essentially a creature of sex, and so dominated almost exclusively by sex impulses.

The female, as a type of race, along with her unique characteristics, performs the race processes best. The male, on the other hand, has struggled to develop these processes, constantly held back by his masculinity; being fundamentally a sexual being, and therefore largely driven by sexual impulses.

The human instinct of mutual service is checked by the masculine instinct of combat; the human tendency to specialize in labor, to rejoicingly pour force in lines of specialized expression, is checked by the predacious instinct, which will exert itself for reward; and disfigured by the masculine instinct of self-expression, which is an entirely different thing from the great human outpouring of world force.

The human instinct to help one another is limited by the male instinct to fight; the human inclination to focus on specific tasks and happily direct energy into specialized efforts is held back by the aggressive instinct that seeks a reward; and it is distorted by the male instinct for self-expression, which is not the same as the overall human drive to contribute to the world.

Great men, the world's teachers and leaders, are great in humanness; mere maleness does not make for greatness unless it be in warfare—a disadvantageous glory! Great women also must be great in humanness; but their female instincts are not so subversive of human progress as are the instincts of the male. To be a teacher and leader, to love and serve, to guard and guide and help, are well in line with motherhood.

Great people, the world's educators and leaders, excel in their humanity; simply being male doesn't constitute greatness unless it's tied to warfare—an undesirable kind of glory! Great women also need to excel in their humanity; however, their instincts aren't as damaging to human progress as those of men. Being a teacher and leader, loving and serving, protecting and guiding, and helping others aligns perfectly with the essence of motherhood.

"Are they not also in line with fatherhood?" will be asked; and, "Are not the father's paternal instincts masculine?"

"Isn't that also part of being a dad?" someone will question; and, "Aren't a father's protective instincts masculine?"

No, they are not; they differ in no way from the maternal, in so far as they are beneficial. Parental functions of the higher sort, of the human sort, are identical. The father can give his children many advantages which the mother can not; but that is due to his superiority as a human being. He possesses far more knowledge and power in the world, the human world; he himself is more developed in human powers and processes; and is therefore able to do much for his children which the mother can not; but this is in no way due to his masculinity. It is in this development of human powers in man, through fatherhood, that we may read the explanation of our short period of androcentric culture.

No, they aren’t; they’re no different from the maternal when it comes to being beneficial. The higher parental roles, the human ones, are the same. A father can offer his children many advantages that a mother cannot, but that’s due to his greater capability as a human being. He has much more knowledge and power in the world, the human world; he is more developed in human abilities and processes; and because of this, he can do a lot for his children that the mother cannot. However, this isn't because of his masculinity. The development of human abilities in men through fatherhood helps explain our brief period of male-centered culture.

So thorough and complete a reversal of previous relation, such continuance of what appears in every way an unnatural position, must have had some justification in racial advantages, or it could not have endured. This is its justification; the establishment of humanness in the male; he being led into it, along natural lines, by the exercise of previously existing desires.

So complete a reversal of the previous relationship, and such a continuation of what seems to be an unnatural situation, must have had some justification in racial advantages, or it wouldn't have lasted. This is its justification: the establishment of humanity in the male; he being guided into it, along natural paths, by the express of already existing desires.

In a male culture the attracting forces must inevitably have been, we have seen, Desire and Combat. These masculine forces, acting upon human processes, while necessary to the uplifting of the man, have been anything but uplifting to civilization. A sex which thinks, feels and acts in terms of combat is difficult to harmonize in the smooth bonds of human relationship; that they have succeeded so well is a beautiful testimony to the superior power of race tendency over sex tendency. Uniting and organizing, crudely and temporarily, for the common hunt; and then, with progressive elaboration, for the common fight; they are now using the same tactics—and the same desires, unfortunately—in common work.

In a culture dominated by men, the main driving forces have been, as we've seen, Desire and Combat. These masculine forces, while essential for a man's development, have not done much to enhance civilization. A sex that thinks, feels, and acts primarily in terms of conflict is hard to align with smooth human relationships; that they have managed to do so is a remarkable indication of the strength of racial tendencies over sexual ones. They came together, rather crudely and temporarily, for the common hunt, and then progressively evolved to unite for common battles; now, unfortunately, they are applying the same tactics—and the same desires—to shared work.

Union, organization, complex interservice, are the essential processes of a growing society; in them, in the ever-increasing discharge of power along widening lines of action, is the joy and health of social life. But so far men combine in order to better combat; the mutual service held incidental to the common end of conquest and plunder.

Union, organization, and complex cooperation are the key processes of a growing society; within them, in the continually expanding exercise of power across broader areas of action, lies the happiness and vitality of social life. However, up until now, people come together mainly to fight better; mutual aid is seen as secondary to the shared goal of conquest and plunder.

In spite of this the overmastering power of humanness is now developing among modern men immense organizations of a wholly beneficial character, with no purpose but mutual advantage. This is true human growth, and as such will inevitably take the place of the sex-prejudiced earlier processes.

In spite of this, the overwhelming strength of humanity is now leading modern people to create huge organizations that are entirely positive, aimed solely at mutual benefit. This is real human progress, and as such, it will inevitably replace the earlier, gender-biased methods.

The human character of the Christian religion is now being more and more insisted on; the practical love and service of each and all; in place of the old insistence on Desire—for a Crown and Harp in Heaven, and Combat—with that everlasting adversary.

The human side of Christianity is increasingly emphasized; the genuine love and service for everyone, rather than the old focus on Desire—for a Crown and Harp in Heaven, and fighting against that eternal enemy.

In economics this great change is rapidly going on before our eyes. It is a change in idea, in basic concept, in our theory of what the whole thing is about. We are beginning to see the world, not as "a fair field and no favor"—not a place for one man to get ahead of others, for a price; but as an establishment belonging to us, the proceeds of which are to be applied, as a matter of course, to human advantage.

In economics, this significant change is happening right before our eyes. It’s a shift in thinking, in fundamental concepts, in our understanding of what everything is about. We’re starting to see the world, not as "a level playing field"—not just a place for one person to get ahead of others for a profit; but as a system that belongs to us, where the benefits should naturally be used for the betterment of humanity.

In the old idea, the wholly masculine idea, based on the processes of sex-combat, the advantage of the world lay in having "the best man win." Some, in the first steps of enthusiasm for Eugenics, think so still; imagining that the primal process of promoting evolution through the paternity of the conquering male is the best process.

In the traditional view, the entirely masculine perspective, which is rooted in the idea of sexual competition, people believed that the world's benefit came from having "the best man win." Some, during their early excitement about Eugenics, still think this way; believing that the fundamental method of encouraging evolution through the breeding of the dominant male is the most effective approach.

To have one superior lion kill six or sixty inferior lions, and leave a progeny of more superior lions behind him, is all right—for lions; the superiority in fighting being all the superiority they need.

To have one strong lion kill six or sixty weaker lions and leave behind a lineage of even stronger lions is fine—for lions; their strength in battle is all the superiority they require.

But the man able to outwit his follows, to destroy them in physical, or ruin in financial, combat, is not therefore a superior human creature. Even physical superiority, as a fighter, does not prove the kind of vigor best calculated to resist disease, or to adapt itself to changing conditions.

But a man who can outsmart his followers and defeat them in physical or financial battles is not necessarily a better human being. Even being physically superior as a fighter doesn’t indicate the kind of strength that’s best suited to fight off illness or adapt to new circumstances.

That our masculine culture in its effect on Economics and Industry is injurious, is clearly shown by the whole open page of history. From the simple beneficent activities of a matriarchal period we follow the same lamentable steps; nation after nation. Women are enslaved and captives are enslaved; a military despotism is developed; labor is despised and discouraged. Then when the irresistible social forces do bring us onward, in science, art, commerce, and all that we call civilization, we find the same check acting always upon that progress; and the really vital social processes of production and distribution heavily injured by the financial combat and carnage which rages ever over and among them.

That the impact of our male-dominated culture on Economics and Industry is harmful is clearly illustrated by the entire record of history. From the simple, positive actions of a matriarchal era, we follow the same unfortunate path, nation after nation. Women are oppressed and captives are enslaved; a military dictatorship emerges; work is devalued and discouraged. Then, when unstoppable social forces push us forward in science, art, commerce, and what we refer to as civilization, we find the same constraints hindering that progress, with the crucial social processes of production and distribution being severely affected by the financial struggles and conflicts that constantly surround and impact them.

The real development of the people, the forming of finer physiques, finer minds, a higher level of efficiency, a broader range of enjoyment and accomplishment—is hindered and not helped by this artificially maintained "struggle for existence," this constant endeavor to eliminate what, from a masculine standard, is "unfit."

The true progress of people—the development of better bodies, sharper minds, a higher level of efficiency, and a wider range of enjoyment and achievement—is held back rather than supported by this artificially created "struggle for existence," this ongoing effort to eliminate what is considered "unfit" by a masculine standard.

That we have progressed thus far, that we are now moving forward so rapidly, is in spite of and not because of our androcentric culture.

That we've come this far and are now moving forward so quickly is in spite of our male-centered culture, not because of it.





XIV. A HUMAN WORLD.

In the change from the dominance of one sex to the equal power of two, to what may we look forward? What effect upon civilization is to be expected from the equality of womanhood in the human race?

In the shift from one sex being in control to both having equal power, what should we anticipate? What impact can we expect on civilization from the equality of women in society?

To put the most natural question first—what will men lose by it? Many men are genuinely concerned about this; fearing some new position of subservience and disrespect. Others laugh at the very idea of change in their position, relying as always on the heavier fist. So long as fighting was the determining process, the best fighter must needs win; but in the rearrangement of processes which marks our age, superior physical strength does not make the poorer wealthy, nor even the soldier a general.

To start with the most straightforward question—what will men lose from this? Many men genuinely worry about this; they're afraid of becoming subordinate and losing respect. Others dismiss the idea of any change in their status, relying, as always, on brute force. As long as fighting determined the outcome, the strongest fighter had to win; but in the shift of processes that defines our time, having superior physical strength doesn’t make the weaker rich, nor does it automatically elevate a soldier to general.

The major processes of life to-day are quite within the powers of women; women are fulfilling their new relations more and more successfully; gathering new strength, new knowledge, new ideals. The change is upon us; what will it do to men?

The main aspects of life today are well within women's capabilities; women are increasingly succeeding in their new roles, gaining new strength, knowledge, and ideals. The change is happening; what impact will it have on men?

No harm.

No problem.

As we are a monogamous race, there will be no such drastic and cruel selection among competing males as would eliminate the vast majority as unfit. Even though some be considered unfit for fatherhood, all human life remains open to them. Perhaps the most important feature of this change comes in right here; along this old line of sex-selection, replacing that power in the right hands, and using it for the good of the race.

As a monogamous species, we won't see the harsh and ruthless elimination of the majority of males as unfit. Even if some are deemed unfit for fatherhood, all human life is still accessible to them. Perhaps the most significant aspect of this change happens right here; we are shifting that power from an outdated system of sex selection to the right hands, using it for the benefit of the species.

The woman, free at last, intelligent, recognizing her real place and responsibility in life as a human being, will be not less, but more, efficient as a mother. She will understand that, in the line of physical evolution, motherhood is the highest process; and that her work, as a contribution to an improved race, must always involve this great function. She will see that right parentage is the purpose of the whole scheme of sex-relationship, and act accordingly.

The woman, finally free, smart, and aware of her true role and responsibilities as a human being, will be not less, but more, effective as a mother. She will recognize that, in terms of physical evolution, motherhood is the highest achievement; and that her efforts, as part of creating a better generation, must always include this significant role. She will understand that responsible parenthood is the goal of the entire system of sexual relationships and will act accordingly.

In our time, his human faculties being sufficiently developed, civilized man can look over and around his sex limitations, and begin to see what are the true purposes and methods of human life.

In our age, with his human abilities well-developed, a civilized person can look beyond his gender limitations and start to understand what the true purposes and methods of human life are.

He is now beginning to learn that his own governing necessity of Desire is not the governing necessity of parentage, but only a contributory tendency; and that, in the interests of better parentage, motherhood is the dominant factor, and must be so considered.

He is starting to realize that his own driving need for desire is not the main necessity of parenthood, but just a contributing factor; and that, for the sake of better parenting, motherhood is the key element and should be treated as such.

In slow reluctant admission of this fact, man heretofore has recognized one class of women as mothers; and has granted them a varying amount of consideration as such; but he has none the less insisted on maintaining another class of women, forbidden motherhood, and merely subservient to his desires; a barren, mischievous unnatural relation, wholly aside from parental purposes, and absolutely injurious to society. This whole field of morbid action will be eliminated from human life by the normal development of women.

In a slow and reluctant acknowledgment of this fact, society has recognized one group of women as mothers and has given them different levels of respect. However, it has also insisted on keeping another group of women, who are denied motherhood and exist solely to serve men's desires; a barren, disruptive, and unnatural relationship that has nothing to do with parenting and is completely harmful to society. This entire area of unhealthy behavior will be removed from human life through the natural progression of women.

It is not a question of interfering with or punishing men; still less of interfering with or punishing women; but purely a matter of changed education and opportunity for every child.

It’s not about interfering with or punishing men; even less about interfering with or punishing women; it’s simply a matter of providing changed education and opportunities for every child.

Each and all shall be taught the real nature and purpose of motherhood; the real nature and purpose of manhood; what each is for, and which is the more important. A new sense of the power and pride of womanhood will waken; a womanhood no longer sunk in helpless dependence upon men; no longer limited to mere unpaid house-service; no longer blinded by the false morality which subjects even motherhood to man's dominance; but a womanhood which will recognize its pre-eminent responsibility to the human race, and live up to it. Then, with all normal and right competition among men for the favor of women, those best fitted for fatherhood will be chosen. Those who are not chosen will live single—perforce.

Everyone will learn the true nature and purpose of motherhood; the true nature and purpose of manhood; what each represents, and which is more important. A new sense of the strength and pride of womanhood will emerge; a womanhood no longer trapped in helpless dependence on men; no longer confined to unpaid domestic work; no longer deceived by the false morality that allows even motherhood to be dominated by men; but a womanhood that will acknowledge its vital responsibility to humanity and embrace it. Then, with healthy and fair competition among men for women's attention, those most suited for fatherhood will be chosen. Those who aren't chosen will remain single—inevitably.

Many, under the old mistaken notion of what used to be called the "social necessity" of prostitution, will protest at the idea of its extinction.

Many, under the outdated belief in what was once termed the "social necessity" of prostitution, will oppose the idea of its elimination.

"It is necessary to have it," they will say.

"It’s necessary to have it," they will say.

"Necessary to whom?"

"Necessary for whom?"

Not to the women hideously sacrificed to it, surely.

Not to the women who were brutally sacrificed to it, for sure.

Not to society, honey-combed with diseases due to this cause.

Not to society, riddled with issues because of this.

Not to the family, weakened and impoverished by it.

Not to the family, weakened and poor because of it.

To whom then? To the men who want it?

To whom, then? To the guys who want it?

But it is not good for them, it promotes all manner of disease, of vice, of crime. It is absolutely and unquestionably a "social evil."

But it's not good for them; it encourages all kinds of disease, vice, and crime. It's definitely and undeniably a "social evil."

An intelligent and powerful womanhood will put an end to this indulgence of one sex at the expense of the other; and to the injury of both.

An intelligent and empowered womanhood will put an end to the indulgence of one sex at the expense of the other, which harms both.

In this inevitable change will lie what some men will consider a loss. But only those of the present generation. For the sons of the women now entering upon this new era of world life will be differently reared. They will recognize the true relation of men to the primal process; and be amazed that for so long the greater values have been lost sight of in favor of the less.

In this inevitable change, some people will see it as a loss. But this view will only come from the current generation. The sons of the women who are now stepping into this new era of world life will be raised differently. They will understand the true relationship of men to the fundamental process and will be shocked that for so long the more important values have been overlooked in favor of the lesser ones.

This one change will do more to promote the physical health and beauty of the race; to improve the quality of children born, and the general vigor and purity of social life, than any one measure which could be proposed. It rests upon a recognition of motherhood as the real base and cause of the family; and dismisses to the limbo of all outworn superstition that false Hebraic and grossly androcentric doctrine that the woman is to be subject to the man, and that he shall rule over her. He has tried this arrangement long enough—to the grievous injury of the world. A higher standard of happiness will result; equality and mutual respect between parents; pure love, undefiled by self-interests on either side; and a new respect for Childhood.

This one change will do more to enhance the physical health and beauty of our society; to improve the quality of children born, and the overall vitality and purity of social life, than any other measure that could be proposed. It is based on recognizing motherhood as the true foundation and driving force of the family; and it discards the outdated and misguided belief that women should be subordinate to men, and that men should dominate them. This arrangement has been tried long enough—to the serious detriment of the world. A higher standard of happiness will emerge; equality and mutual respect between parents; pure love, untainted by self-interests on either side; and a renewed respect for childhood.

With the Child, seen at last to be the governing purpose of this relation, with all the best energies of men and women bent on raising the standard of life for all children, we shall have a new status of family life which will be clean and noble, and satisfying to all its members.

With the Child finally recognized as the main focus of this relationship, with everyone’s best efforts aimed at improving the quality of life for all children, we will see a new state of family life that is pure, honorable, and fulfilling for all its members.

The change in all the varied lines of human work is beyond the powers of any present day prophet to forecast with precision. A new grade of womanhood we can clearly foresee; proud, strong, serene, independent; great mothers of great women and great men. These will hold high standards and draw men up to them; by no compulsion save nature's law of attraction. A clean and healthful world, enjoying the taste of life as it never has since racial babyhood, with homes of quiet and content—this we can foresee.

The changes in all the different areas of human work are beyond what any modern-day prophet can accurately predict. We can definitely see a new level of womanhood emerging; proud, strong, calm, and independent; the great mothers of remarkable women and men. They will set high standards and inspire men to rise to them, without any force except nature's law of attraction. A clean and healthy world, savoring life as it never has since its early days, with homes filled with peace and contentment—this we can envision.

Art—in the extreme sense will perhaps always belong most to men. It would seem as if that ceaseless urge to expression, was, at least originally, most congenial to the male. But applied art, in every form, and art used directly for transmission of ideas, such as literature, or oratory, appeals to women as much, if not more, than to men.

Art—in its most intense form—will likely always belong primarily to men. It seems that the constant drive for expression was, at least in the beginning, more suited to males. However, applied art in all its forms, along with art used directly for conveying ideas, like literature or public speaking, appeals to women just as much, if not more, than to men.

We can make no safe assumption as to what, if any, distinction there will be in the free human work of men and women, until we have seen generation after generation grow up under absolutely equal conditions. In all our games and sports and minor social customs, such changes will occur as must needs follow upon the rising dignity alloted to the woman's temperament, the woman's point of view; not in the least denying to men the fullest exercise of their special powers and preferences; but classifying these newly, as not human—merely male. At present we have pages or columns in our papers, marked as "The Woman's Page" "Of Interest to Women," and similar delimiting titles. Similarly we might have distinctly masculine matters so marked and specified; not assumed as now to be of general human interest.

We can't safely assume what, if any, distinctions will exist between the work of men and women until we've seen generations grow up under completely equal conditions. In all our games, sports, and minor social customs, changes will happen as a result of the increased value given to women's perspectives and experiences; this doesn't take away from men's ability to fully express their unique strengths and interests, but rather reclassifies them as not just human—merely male. Right now, we have pages or sections in our newspapers labeled "The Woman's Page," "Of Interest to Women," and similar titles that define content for women. Similarly, we could have sections specifically for men labeled in the same way, rather than assuming they are of general interest to everyone.

The effect of the change upon Ethics and Religion is deep and wide. With the entrance of women upon full human life, a new principle comes into prominence; the principle of loving service. That this is the governing principle of Christianity is believed by many; but an androcentric interpretation has quite overlooked it; and made, as we have shown, the essential dogma of their faith the desire of an eternal reward and the combat with an eternal enemy.

The impact of this change on Ethics and Religion is significant and extensive. With women fully participating in human life, a new principle emerges: the principle of loving service. Many believe this is the core principle of Christianity; however, a male-centered interpretation has largely ignored it and has, as we've demonstrated, focused instead on the fundamental belief in seeking eternal reward and fighting against an eternal enemy.

The feminine attitude in life is wholly different. As a female she has merely to be herself and passively attract; neither to compete nor to pursue; as a mother her whole process is one of growth; first the development of the live child within her, and the wonderful nourishment from her own body; and then all the later cultivation to make the child grow; all the watching, teaching, guarding, feeding. In none of this is there either desire, combat, or self-expression. The feminine attitude, as expressed in religion, makes of it a patient practical fulfillment of law; a process of large sure improvements; a limitless comforting love and care.

The feminine approach to life is completely different. As a woman, she simply needs to be herself and attract effortlessly; there’s no need to compete or chase after anything. As a mother, her journey is all about growth—first nurturing the living child within her, then providing wonderful nourishment from her own body, and later cultivating the child through watching, teaching, protecting, and feeding. In all of this, there’s no desire, struggle, or need for self-expression. The feminine perspective, as reflected in religion, embodies a patient and practical adherence to principles; it's a process of significant and steady improvements, along with endless love and care.

This full assurance of love and of power; this endless cheerful service; the broad provision for all people; rather than the competitive selection of a few "victors;" is the natural presentation of religious truth from the woman's viewpoint. Her governing principle being growth and not combat; her main tendency being to give and not to get; she more easily and naturally lives and teaches these religious principles. It is for this reason that the broader gentler teaching of the Unitarian and Universalist sects have appealed so especially to women, and that so many women preach in their churches.

This complete confidence in love and strength; this endless joyful service; the wide availability for all people instead of choosing only a few "winners"; is the natural expression of religious truth from a woman's perspective. Her guiding principle is growth rather than struggle; her main focus is on giving rather than receiving; she more naturally lives by and teaches these religious values. This is why the more inclusive and compassionate teachings of the Unitarian and Universalist churches have resonated so strongly with women, and why so many women preach in their congregations.

This principle of growth, as applied and used in general human life will work to far other ends than those now so painfully visible.

This principle of growth, when applied and used in everyday life, will lead to many different outcomes than those that are currently so painfully obvious.

In education, for instance, with neither reward nor punishment as spur or bait; with no competition to rouse effort and animosity, but rather with the feeling of a gardener towards his plants; the teacher will teach and the children learn, in mutual ease and happiness. The law of passive attraction applies here, leading to such ingenuity in presentation as shall arouse the child's interest; and, in the true spirit of promoting growth, each child will have his best and fullest training, without regard to who is "ahead" of him, or her, or who "behind."

In education, for example, without any rewards or punishments to motivate or entice; without competition to provoke effort and hostility, but rather with the same care a gardener has for their plants; the teacher will teach and the children will learn, in a relaxed and joyful atmosphere. The principle of passive attraction applies here, encouraging creativity in presentation that captures the child's interest; and, in the genuine spirit of fostering growth, each child will receive their best and most comprehensive training, regardless of who is "ahead" of them or who is "behind."

We do not sadly measure the cabbage-stalk by the corn-stalk, and praise the corn for getting ahead of the cabbage—nor incite the cabbage to emulate the corn. We nourish both, to its best growth—and are the richer.

We don’t sadly compare the cabbage to the corn and praise the corn for outpacing the cabbage—nor do we urge the cabbage to imitate the corn. We nurture both for their best growth—and we end up richer for it.

That every child on earth shall have right conditions to make the best growth possible to it; that every citizen, from birth to death, shall have a chance to learn all he or she can assimilate, to develop every power that is in them—for the common good—this will be the aim of education, under human management.

That every child on earth should have the right conditions to grow as best as possible; that every citizen, from birth to death, should have the opportunity to learn as much as they can handle, to develop every ability within them—for the common good—this will be the goal of education, managed by humans.

In the world of "society" we may look for very radical changes.

In the world of "society," we might seek very radical changes.

With all women full human beings, trained and useful in some form of work; the class of busy idlers, who run about forever "entertaining" and being "entertained" will disappear as utterly as will the prostitute. No woman with real work to do could have the time for such petty amusements; or enjoy them if she did have time. No woman with real work to do, work she loved and was well fitted for, work honored and well-paid, would take up the Unnatural Trade. Genuine relaxation and recreation, all manner of healthful sports and pastimes, beloved of both sexes to-day, will remain, of course; but the set structure of "social functions"—so laughably misnamed—will disappear with the "society women" who make it possible. Once active members of real Society; no woman could go back to "society," any more than a roughrider could return to a hobbyhorse.

With all women being fully realized human beings, trained and capable in various forms of work, the group of busy idlers who constantly run around "entertaining" and being "entertained" will vanish just like the prostitute. No woman with meaningful work to do would have time for such trivial amusements, nor would she enjoy them if she did. A woman engaged in real work that she loves and is suited for—work that is respected and well-paid—would not resort to the Unnatural Trade. Genuine relaxation and recreation, along with all sorts of healthy sports and activities that both genders enjoy today, will certainly remain; however, the rigid structure of "social functions"—so absurdly misnamed—will fade away with the "society women" who sustain it. Once active participants in true Society, no woman could ever revert to "society," just like a roughrider could never go back to a hobbyhorse.

New development in dress, wise, comfortable, beautiful, may be confidently expected, as woman becomes more human. No fully human creature could hold up its head under the absurdities our women wear to-day—and have worn for dreary centuries.

New developments in clothing—smart, comfortable, beautiful—can be confidently expected as women become more empowered. No fully realized person could hold their head high while wearing the ridiculous outfits our women wear today—and have worn for countless dreary centuries.

So on through all the aspects of life we may look for changes, rapid and far-reaching; but natural and all for good. The improvement is not due to any inherent moral superiority of women; nor to any moral inferiority of men; men at present, as more human, are ahead of women in all distinctly human ways; yet their maleness, as we have shown repeatedly, warps and disfigures their humanness. The woman, being by nature the race-type; and her feminine functions being far more akin to human functions than are those essential to the male; will bring into human life a more normal influence.

So as we look at all aspects of life, we can expect changes that are rapid and significant; but they are natural and ultimately positive. This improvement isn't because women are inherently morally superior, nor because men are morally inferior; right now, men, being more human, excel women in all distinctly human ways. However, as we've shown repeatedly, their masculinity distorts and hinders their humanity. Women, being the natural archetype of the human race, and their feminine roles being more closely related to human functions than those essential to men, will bring a more balanced influence into human life.

Under this more normal influence our present perversities of functions will, of course, tend to disappear. The directly serviceable tendency of women, as shown in every step of their public work, will have small patience with hoary traditions of absurdity. We need but look at long recorded facts to see what women do—or try to do, when they have opportunity. Even in their crippled, smothered past, they have made valiant efforts—not always wise—in charity and philanthropy.

Under this more normal influence, our current issues with functions will tend to fade away. The practical drive of women, evident in every aspect of their public work, will have little tolerance for outdated traditions of nonsense. We only need to look at the long history of what women have done—or attempted to do, when given the chance. Even in their constrained, suppressed past, they have made brave efforts—not always wisely—in charity and philanthropy.

In our own time this is shown through all the length and breadth of our country, by the Woman's Clubs. Little groups of women, drawing together in human relation, at first, perhaps, with no better purpose than to "improve their minds," have grown and spread; combined and federated; and in their great reports, representing hundreds of thousands of women—we find a splendid record of human work. They strive always to improve something, to take care of something, to help and serve and benefit. In "village improvement," in traveling libraries, in lecture courses and exhibitions, in promoting good legislation; in many a line of noble effort our Women's Clubs show what women want to do.

In today's world, this is evident across our entire country, through the Woman's Clubs. Small groups of women, initially coming together simply to "expand their minds," have grown and spread; they've joined forces and organized; and in their comprehensive reports, which represent hundreds of thousands of women, we see a remarkable record of human achievement. They are always working to improve something, to take care of something, to help, serve, and make a difference. In "village improvement," through traveling libraries, lecture series, exhibitions, and advocating for good legislation, our Women's Clubs illustrate what women aim to accomplish.

Men do not have to do these things through their clubs, which are mainly for pleasure; they can accomplish what they wish to through regular channels. But the character and direction of the influence of women in human affairs is conclusively established by the things they already do and try to do. In those countries, and in our own states, where they are already full citizens, the legislation introduced and promoted by them is of the same beneficent character. The normal woman is a strong creature, loving and serviceable. The kind of woman men are afraid to entrust with political power, selfish, idle, over-sexed, or ignorant and narrow-minded, is not normal, but is the creature of conditions men have made. We need have no fear of her, for she will disappear with the conditions which created her.

Men don’t need to rely on their clubs, which are mostly for leisure; they can achieve their goals through regular channels. However, the impact and role of women in society are clearly shown by what they already do and strive to accomplish. In those countries, and in our own states, where women are full citizens, the laws they advocate for are equally beneficial. The typical woman is a strong individual, nurturing and helpful. The kind of woman men fear to give political power to—selfish, lazy, overly sexual, or ignorant and narrow-minded—is not the norm, but rather a product of the circumstances created by men. We shouldn’t worry about her, as she will fade away with the conditions that brought her about.

In older days, without knowledge of the natural sciences, we accepted life as static. If, being born in China, we grew up with foot-bound women, we assumed that women were such, and must so remain. Born in India, we accepted the child-wife, the pitiful child-widow, the ecstatic suttee, as natural expressions of womanhood. In each age, each country, we have assumed life to be necessarily what it was—a moveless fact.

In the past, without an understanding of the natural sciences, we viewed life as unchanging. If we were born in China and grew up around women with bound feet, we believed that was how women were and always would be. Born in India, we accepted child brides, the tragic child widows, and the ritual of suttee as natural parts of being a woman. In every era and every country, we assumed that life was just how it was—a fixed reality.

All this is giving way fast in our new knowledge of the laws of life. We find that Growth is the eternal law, and that even rocks are slowly changing. Human life is seen to be as dynamic as any other form; and the most certain thing about it is that it will change. In the light of this knowledge we need no longer accept the load of what we call "sin;" the grouped misery of poverty, disease and crime; the cumbrous, inefficacious, wasteful processes of life today, as needful or permanent.

All of this is quickly changing with our new understanding of the laws of life. We learn that Growth is the constant principle, and even rocks are gradually transforming. Human life is recognized as being just as dynamic as any other form; and the one thing we can be sure of is that it will evolve. With this knowledge, we don't have to carry the burden of what we refer to as "sin;" the collective suffering of poverty, illness, and crime; the clumsy, ineffective, and wasteful ways of life today, as something necessary or lasting.

We have but to learn the real elements in humanity; its true powers and natural characteristics; to see wherein we are hampered by the wrong ideas and inherited habits of earlier generations, and break loose from them—then we can safely and swiftly introduce a far nobler grade of living.

We just need to understand the real elements of humanity; its true strengths and natural traits; to recognize how we're held back by misguided beliefs and inherited habits from previous generations, and break free from them—only then can we confidently and quickly embrace a much higher standard of living.

Of all crippling hindrances in false ideas, we have none more universally mischievous than this root error about men and women. Given the old androcentric theory, and we have an androcentric culture—the kind we so far know; this short stretch we call "history;" with its proud and pitiful record. We have done wonders of upward growth—for growth is the main law, and may not be wholly resisted. But we have hindered, perverted, temporarily checked that growth, age after age; and again and again has a given nation, far advanced and promising, sunk to ruin, and left another to take up its task of social evolution; repeat its errors—and its failure.

Of all the crippling obstacles created by false ideas, there’s none more damaging than this fundamental mistake about men and women. With the outdated androcentric theory in place, we end up with an androcentric culture—the kind we currently know; this short period we refer to as "history," with its mix of accomplishments and failures. We’ve made incredible strides in growth—because growth is the main principle, and it can’t be completely stopped. But we’ve hindered, distorted, and temporarily slowed down that growth, time after time; and repeatedly, a particular nation that was once advanced and promising has fallen into decline, leaving another to pick up the pieces of social evolution; making the same mistakes—and experiencing the same failures.

One major cause of the decay of nations is "the social evil"—a thing wholly due to the androcentric culture. Another steady endless check is warfare—due to the same cause. Largest of all is poverty; that spreading disease which grows with our social growth and shows most horribly when and where we are most proud, keeping step, as it were, with private wealth. This too, in large measure, is due to the false ideas on industry and economics, based, like the others mentioned, on a wholly masculine view of life.

One major cause of the decline of nations is "the social evil"—completely caused by a male-centered culture. Another constant and never-ending issue is warfare—also stemming from the same cause. The biggest problem of all is poverty; that growing affliction that expands with our social development and is most evident when and where we feel the proudest, keeping pace, so to speak, with private wealth. This, too, is largely due to misguided beliefs about industry and economics, which, like the other factors mentioned, are based on a purely masculine perspective on life.

By changing our underlying theory in this matter we change all the resultant assumptions; and it is this alteration in our basic theory of life which is being urged.

By changing our basic theory on this issue, we change all the resulting assumptions; and it's this shift in our fundamental theory of life that is being encouraged.

The scope and purpose of human life is entirely above and beyond the field of sex relationship. Women are human beings, as much as men, by nature; and as women, are even more sympathetic with human processes. To develop human life in its true powers we need full equal citizenship for women.

The scope and purpose of human life goes far beyond just sexual relationships. Women are human beings just like men; and as women, they are often even more in tune with human experiences. To fully develop human life in its true potential, we need complete equal citizenship for women.

The great woman's movement and labor movement of to-day are parts of the same pressure, the same world-progress. An economic democracy must rest on a free womanhood; and a free womanhood inevitably leads to an economic democracy.

The modern women's movement and today's labor movement are a part of the same force, the same progress in the world. Economic equality must be built on the independence of women, and the independence of women will inevitably lead to economic equality.










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