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STORY LESSONS
ON
CHARACTER-BUILDING (MORALS)
AND
MANNERS.
BY
LOÏS BATES
"GAMES WITHOUT MUSIC," ETC.
LONGMANS, GREEN, AND CO.
39 PATERNOSTER ROW, LONDON
NEW YORK AND BOMBAY
1900
PREFACE.
Incidents often occur in the school or home life which afford fitting opportunity for the inculcation of some special moral truth, but maybe the teacher or mother has no suitable illustration just at hand, and the occasion is passed over with a reproof. It is hoped that where such want is felt this little book may supply the need.
Incidents often happen in school or home life that provide a perfect opportunity to teach a particular moral lesson, but sometimes the teacher or parent doesn’t have a good example available, and the moment is missed with a reprimand. It is hoped that this little book can fill that gap when needed.
The stories may be either told or read to the children, and are as suitable for the home as the school. "The Fairy Temple" should be read as an introduction to the Story Lessons, for the teaching of the latter is based on this introductory fairy tale. If used at home the blackboard sketch may be written on a slate or slip of paper. The children will not weary if the stories are repeated again and again (this at least was the writer's experience), and they will be eager to pronounce what is the teaching of the tale. In this way the lessons are reiterated and enforced. The method is one which the writer found exceedingly effective during long years of[vi] experience. Picture-teaching is an ideal way of conveying truths to children, and these little stories are intended to be pictures in which the children may see and contrast the good with the bad, and learn to love the good. The faults of young children are almost invariably due either to thoughtlessness or want of knowledge, and the little ones are delighted to learn and put into practice the lessons taught in these stories, which teaching should be applied in the class or home as occasion arises. E.g., a child is passing in front of another without any apology, the teacher says, immediately: "Remember Minnie, you do not wish to be rude, like she was" (Story Lesson 111). Or if a child omits to say "Thank you," he may be reminded by asking: "Have you forgotten 'Alec and the Fairies'?" (Story Lesson 95). The story lessons should be read to the children until they become perfectly familiar with them, so that each may be applied in the manner indicated.
The stories can be either told or read to the kids, and they work well at home as well as in school. "The Fairy Temple" should be read first as it introduces the Story Lessons, which are based on this fairy tale. If you're using it at home, the blackboard sketch can be written on a slate or piece of paper. Kids won't get tired of hearing the stories over and over (at least that's been my experience), and they'll be excited to share what they learned from the tale. This way, the lessons are reinforced. I found this method to be very effective throughout my many years of experience. Picture-teaching is a great way to share truths with children, and these little stories are designed to be visual aids where kids can see and compare the good and the bad, and learn to appreciate the good. Young children's mistakes usually come from either being thoughtless or lacking knowledge, and they love to learn and apply the lessons from these stories, which should be integrated into class or home discussions as situations arise. For example, if a child walks past another without saying sorry, the teacher might say right away: "Remember Minnie, you don't want to be rude like she was" (Story Lesson 111). Or if a child forgets to say "Thank you," you can remind them by asking: "Have you forgotten 'Alec and the Fairies'?" (Story Lesson 95). The story lessons should be read to kids until they're completely familiar with them, so that each can be applied in the suggested way.
CONTENTS.
1.—MORALS. | ||||
CHAPTER | PAGE | |||
I. | Intro Story— | |||
1. | The Fairy Temple | 1 | ||
II. | Compliance— | |||
2. | The Two Voices | 4 | ||
3. | (Why we Should Obey.) The Pilot | 6 | ||
4. | (Why we Should Obey.) The Dog that did not like to be Washed | 7 | ||
5. | (Ready Obedience.) Robert and the Marbles | 9 | ||
6. | (Unready, Sulky Obedience.) Jimmy and the Overcoat | 9 | ||
III. | Loyalty— | |||
7. | Rowland and the Apple Tart | 10 | ||
IV. | Honesty— | |||
8. | (Direct Untruth.) Lucy and the Jug of Milk | 12 | ||
9. | (Untruth, by not Speaking.) Mabel and Fritz | 13 | ||
10. | (Untruth, by not Telling All.) A Game of Cricket | 14 | ||
11. | (Untruth, by "Stretching"—Exaggeration.) The Three Feathers | 16 | ||
V. | Truthfulness— | |||
12. | Lulu and the Pretty Coloured Wool | 17 | ||
13. | (Taking Little Things.) Carl and the Lump of Sugar | 19 | ||
14. | (Taking Little Things.) Lilie and the Scent | 19 | ||
15. | Copying | 20 | ||
16. | On Finding Things | 22 | ||
VI. | Kindness— | |||
17. | Squeaking Wheels | 23 | ||
18. | Birds and Trees | 24 | ||
19. | Flowers and Bees | 25[viii] | ||
20. | Lulu and the Bundle | 26 | ||
VII. | Thoughtfulness— | |||
21. | Baby Elsie and the Stool | 27 | ||
22. | The Thoughtful Soldier | 28 | ||
VIII. | Support Each Other— | |||
23. | The Cat and the Parrot | 29 | ||
24. | The Two Monkeys | 30 | ||
25. | The Wounded Bird | 31 | ||
IX. | Being Brave— | |||
26. | (Brave in Danger.) How Leonard Saved his Little Brother | 32 | ||
27. | (Brave in Little Things.) The Twins | 33 | ||
28. | (Brave in Suffering.) The Broken Arm | 34 | ||
29. | (Brave in Suffering.) The Brave Monkey | 35 | ||
X. | Keep trying— | |||
30. | The Sparrow that would not be Beaten | 35 | ||
31. | The Railway Train | 36 | ||
32. | The Man who Found America | 37 | ||
XI. | Patience— | |||
33. | Walter and the Spoilt Page | 38 | ||
34. | The Drawings Eaten by the Rats | 39 | ||
XII. | On Surrendering— | |||
35. | Playing at Shop | 40 | ||
36. | The Two Goats | 41 | ||
XIII. | On Generosity— | |||
37. | Lilie and the Beggar Girl | 41 | ||
38. | Bertie and the Porridge | 42 | ||
XIV. | Letting go— | |||
39. | The Two Dogs | 43 | ||
XV. | Good vs Evil— | |||
40. | The Blotted Copy-book | 43 | ||
XVI. | Kindness— | |||
41. | The Horse and the Child | 45 | ||
42. | The Overturned Fruit Stall | 46 | ||
XVII. | On Being Thankful— | |||
43. | Rose and her Birthday Present | 47 | ||
44. | The Boy who was Grateful | 47 | ||
XVIII. | Self-care— | |||
45. | The Crow and the Pitcher | 48 | ||
XIX. | Content—[ix] | |||
46. | Harold and the Blind Man | 49 | ||
XX. | Cleanliness— | |||
47. | The Slovenly Boy | 50 | ||
48. | Pussy and the Knitting | 51 | ||
49. | The Packing of the Trunks | 53 | ||
XXI. | Humility— | |||
50. | The Violet | 54 | ||
51. | Modesty in Dress | 55 | ||
XXII. | On Bringing Joy to Others— | |||
52. | "Selfless" and "Thoughtful". A Fairy Tale | 56 | ||
53. | The Bunch of Roses | 56 | ||
54. | Edwin and the Birthday Party | 57 | ||
55. | Davie's Christmas Present | 59 | ||
XXIII. | Cleanliness— | |||
56. | Why we Should be Clean | 61 | ||
57. | Little Creatures who like to be Clean | 62 | ||
58. | The Boy who did not like to be Washed | 63 | ||
59. | The Nails and the Teeth | 64 | ||
XXIV. | Clear Language— | |||
60. | Toads and Diamonds. A Fairy Tale | 66 | ||
XXV. | Timeliness— | |||
61. | Lewis and the School Picnic | 67 | ||
XXVI. | All Work is Honorable— | |||
62. | The Chimney-sweep | 69 | ||
XXVII. | Toxic Friends— | |||
63. | Playing with Pitch | 70 | ||
64. | Stealing Strawberries | 71 | ||
XXVIII. | On Forgetting— | |||
65. | Maggie's Birthday Present | 73 | ||
66. | The Promised Drive | 74 | ||
67. | The Boy who Remembered | 75 | ||
XXIX. | Animal Kindness— | |||
68. | Lulu and the Sparrow | 76 | ||
69. | Why we Should be Kind to Animals | 77 | ||
70. | The Butterfly | 78 | ||
71. | The Kind-hearted Dog | 78 | ||
XXX. | Anger Issues— | |||
72. | How Paul was Cured | 79 | ||
73. | The Young Horse | 80 | ||
XXXI. | Self-centeredness—[x] | |||
74. | The Child on the Coach | 82 | ||
75. | Edna and the Cherries | 82 | ||
76. | The Boy who liked always to Win | 83 | ||
77. | The two Boxes of Chocolate | 84 | ||
78. | Eva | 85 | ||
XXXII. | Negligence— | |||
79. | The Misfortunes of Elinor | 86 | ||
XXXIII. | Being Stubborn— | |||
80. | How Daisy's Holiday was Spoilt | 87 | ||
XXXIV. | Greed— | |||
81. | Stephen and the Buns | 89 | ||
XXXV. | Bragging— | |||
82. | The Stag and his Horns | 90 | ||
XXXVI. | Wastefulness— | |||
83. | The Little Girl who was Lost | 91 | ||
XXXVII. | Laziness— | |||
84. | The Sluggard | 91 | ||
XXXVIII. | On Feeling Ashamed— | |||
85. | The Elephant that Stole the Cakes | 92 | ||
XXXIX. | Ears and No Ears— | |||
86. | Heedless Albert | 94 | ||
87. | Olive and Gertie | 95 | ||
XL. | Eyes and No Eyes— | |||
88. | The Two Brothers | 97 | ||
89. | Ruby and the Wall | 98 | ||
XLI. | Love of Beauty— | |||
90. | The Daisy | 99 | ||
XLII. | About Destroying Things— | |||
91. | Beauty and Goodness | 100 | ||
XLIII. | On Backtracking When Mistaken— | |||
92. | The Lost Path | 101 | ||
XLIV. | One bad "stone" can ruin the "temple."— | |||
93. | Intemperance | 103 | ||
2.—MANNERS. | ||||
XLV. | Introductory Story Lesson— | |||
94. | The Watch and its Springs | 104 | ||
XLVI. | On Saying "Please" and "Thank You"—[xi] | |||
95. | Fairy Tale of Alec and his Toys | 105 | ||
XLVII. | On Respectfulness— | |||
96. | Story Lesson | 108 | ||
XLVIII. | Putting My Feet Up— | |||
97. | Alice and the Pink Frock | 109 | ||
XLIX. | Slamming Doors— | |||
98. | How Maurice came Home from School | 110 | ||
99. | Lulu and the Glass Door | 111 | ||
L. | Cutting in line— | |||
100. | The Big Boy and the Little Lady | 112 | ||
LI. | Stay to the Right— | |||
101. | Story Lesson | 113 | ||
LII. | Awkward People— | |||
102. | Story Lesson | 114 | ||
LIII. | Turning Around While Walking— | |||
103. | The Girl and her Eggs | 115 | ||
LIV. | On Gazing— | |||
104. | Ruth and the Window | 116 | ||
LV. | Walk Quietly— | |||
105. | Florence Nightingale | 117 | ||
LVI. | Responding When Spoken To— | |||
106. | The Civil Boy | 118 | ||
LVII. | Speaking Up— | |||
107. | The Woman who Shouted | 119 | ||
LVIII. | On Talking While Others are Talking— | |||
108. | Margery and the Picnic | 120 | ||
LIX. | Make eye contact with people when you're talking to them.— | |||
109. | Fred and his Master | 122 | ||
LX. | On Overcommunication— | |||
110. | Story Lesson | 122 | ||
LXI. | Speaking in Public— | |||
111. | Minnie and the Book | 124 | ||
112. | The Man and his Luggage | 124 | ||
LXII. | When to Say "I’m Sorry"— | |||
113. | Story Lesson | 125 | ||
114. | The Lady and the Poor Boy | 126 | ||
LXIII. | Increasing cap— | |||
115. | Story Lesson | 126 | ||
LXIV. | Offering a seat to a lady— | |||
116. | Story Lesson | 127 | ||
LXV. | On Shaking Hands—[xii] | |||
117. | Reggie and the Visitors | 129 | ||
LXVI. | Knock Before Entering a Room— | |||
118. | The Boy who Forgot | 130 | ||
LXVII. | Hanging Up Hats, Etc.— | |||
119. | Careless Percy | 130 | ||
LXVIII. | How to Offer Treats, Etc.— | |||
120. | How Baby did it | 132 | ||
LXIX. | Yawning, coughing, and sneezing— | |||
121. | Story Lesson | 132 | ||
LXX. | How to Not Clean a Slate— | |||
122. | Story Lesson | 133 | ||
LXXI. | The Pocket Handkerchief— | |||
123. | Story Lesson | 135 | ||
LXXII. | Table Manners — | |||
124. | (On Sitting Still at Table.) Phil's Disaster | 136 | ||
125. | (On Sitting Still at Table.) Fidgety Katie | 136 | ||
126. | (Thinking of Others at Table.) The Helpful Little Girl | 137 | ||
127. | (Upsetting Things at Table.) Leslie and the Christmas Dinner | 138 | ||
128. | Cherry Stones | 138 | ||
LXXIII. | On Food and Drinks— | |||
129. | Rhymes | 140 | ||
130. | Rhymes | 141 | ||
LXXIV. | Finale— | |||
131. | How another Queen Builded | 142 |
LIST OF SUBJECTS ALPHABETICALLY ARRANGED.
1.—MORAL SUBJECTS. | |
PAGE | |
All Work Honourable | 69 |
Ashamed, On being | 92 |
Bad Companions | 70 |
Boasting | 90 |
Brave, On being | 32 |
Carelessness | 86 |
Cleanliness | 61 |
Content | 49 |
Copying | 20 |
Destroying Things, On | 100 |
Ears and no Ears | 94 |
Exaggeration | 16 |
Eyes and no Eyes | 97 |
Fairy Temple | 1 |
Finding Things | 22 |
Forgetting | 73 |
Forgiveness | 43 |
Generous, On being | 41 |
Gentleness | 45 |
Giving In, On | 40 |
Giving Pleasure to Others, On | 56 |
Good for Evil | 43 |
Grateful, On being | 47 |
Greediness | 89 |
Help one Another | 29 |
Honesty | 17 |
How another Queen Builded | 142[xiv] |
Intemperance | 103 |
Introductory Story | 1 |
Kindness | 23 |
Kindness to Animals | 76 |
Laziness | 91 |
Love of the Beautiful | 99 |
Loyalty | 10 |
Modesty | 54 |
Nails, The | 64 |
Obedience | 4 |
Obstinate, On being | 87 |
Patience | 38 |
Punctuality | 67 |
Pure Language | 66 |
Self-Help | 48 |
Selfishness | 82 |
Teeth, The | 65 |
Thoughtfulness | 27 |
Tidiness | 50 |
Truthfulness | 12 |
Try, Try Again | 35 |
Turning Back when Wrong | 101 |
Wastefulness | 91 |
2.—MANNERS. | |
Answering when Spoken To | 118 |
Banging Doors | 110 |
Cherry Stones (see "How to Behave at Table") | 138 |
Clumsy People | 114 |
Coughing | 132 |
Eating and Drinking, On | 140 |
Excuse Me, Please (see "Going in Front of People") | 124 |
Going in Front of People | 124 |
Hanging Hats Up, etc. | 130 |
How to Behave at Table | 136 |
"I Beg Your Pardon," When to say | 125 |
[xv]Keeping to the Right | 113 |
Knocking Before Entering a Room | 130 |
Look at People when Speaking to Them | 122 |
Manners | 104 |
Offering Seat to Lady | 127 |
Offer Sweets, How to | 132 |
"Please," On Saying | 105 |
Pocket-handkerchief, The | 135 |
Preliminary Story Lesson | 104 |
Pushing in Front of People | 112 |
Putting Feet Up | 109 |
Raising Cap | 126 |
Respectful, On being | 108 |
Shaking Hands, On | 129 |
Sitting Still at Table, On | 136 |
Sneezing | 132 |
Speaking Loudly, On | 119 |
Speaking when Others are Speaking, On | 120 |
Spitting (see "How a Slate Should Not be Cleaned") | 133 |
Staring, On | 116 |
Talking Too Much, On | 122 |
"Thank You," On Saying | 105 |
Thinking of Others at Table | 137 |
Turning Round when Walking | 115 |
Upsetting Things at Table (see "Leslie and the Christmas Dinner") | 138 |
Walking Softly | 117 |
Yawning | 132 |
1.—MORAL SUBJECTS.
I. INTRODUCTORY STORY.
(The following story should be read to the children first, as it forms a kind of groundwork for the Story Lessons which follow.)
(The following story should be read to the children first, as it lays the foundation for the Story Lessons that come next.)
It was night—a glorious, moonlight night, and in the shade of the leafy woods the Queen of the fairies was calling her little people together by the sweet tones of a tinkling, silver bell. When they were all gathered round, she said: "My dear children, I am going to do a great work, and I want you all to help me". At this the fairies spread their wings and bowed, for they were always ready to do the bidding of their Queen. They were all dressed in lovely colours, of a gauzy substance, finer than any silk that ever was seen, and their names were called after the colours they wore. The Queen's robe was of purple and gold, and glittered grandly in the moonlight.
It was night—a beautiful, moonlit night, and in the shade of the leafy woods, the Queen of the fairies was calling her little ones together with the sweet sound of a tinkling silver bell. Once they were all gathered around, she said: "My dear children, I'm going to do something important, and I want all of you to help me." At this, the fairies spread their wings and bowed, always eager to follow their Queen's wishes. They wore lovely outfits in sheer fabrics, finer than any silk ever seen, and their names were based on the colors they wore. The Queen's gown was purple and gold, shimmering brilliantly in the moonlight.
"I have determined," said the Queen, "to build a Temple of precious stones, and your work will be to bring me the material." "Rosy-wings," she continued, turning to a little fairy clad in delicate pink, and fair as a rose, "you shall bring rubies." "Grass-green," to a fairy dressed in green, "your work is to find emeralds; and Shiny-wings, you will go to the mermaids and ask them to give you pearls."[2]
"I've decided," said the Queen, "to build a Temple of precious stones, and your job will be to gather the materials." "Rosy-wings," she continued, turning to a small fairy dressed in light pink, beautiful like a rose, "you'll bring rubies." "Grass-green," to a fairy in green, "your task is to find emeralds; and Shiny-wings, you'll go to the mermaids and ask them for pearls."[2]
Now there stood near the Queen six tiny, fairy sisters, whose robes were whiter and purer than any. The sisters were all called by the same name—"Crystal-clear," and they waited to hear what their work was to be.
Now there stood near the Queen six tiny, fairy sisters, whose robes were whiter and purer than anything else. The sisters were all called by the same name—"Crystal-clear," and they waited to find out what their task would be.
"Sisters Crystal-clear," said the Queen, "you shall all of you bring diamonds; we shall need so many diamonds."
"Sisters, crystal clear," said the Queen, "you all need to bring diamonds; we will need so many diamonds."
There was another fairy standing there, whose robe seemed to change into many colours as it shimmered in the moonlight, just as you have seen the sky change colour at sunset, and to her the Queen said, "Rainbow-robe, go and find the opal".
There was another fairy standing there, whose robe seemed to shift into many colors as it sparkled in the moonlight, just like you've seen the sky change color at sunset, and to her the Queen said, "Rainbow-robe, go and find the opal."
Then there were three other fairy sisters called "Gold-wings," who were always trying to help the other fairies, and to do good to everybody, and the Queen told them to bring fine gold to fasten the precious stones together.
Then there were three other fairy sisters called "Gold-wings," who were always trying to help the other fairies and do good for everyone. The Queen told them to bring fine gold to hold the precious stones together.
These are not all the fairies who were there; some others wore blue, some yellow, and the Queen gave them all their work. Then she rang a tiny, silver bell, and they all spread their wings and bowed before they flew away to do her bidding.
These aren't all the fairies that were there; some wore blue, others yellow, and the Queen assigned them all their tasks. Then she rang a small, silver bell, and they all spread their wings and bowed before flying off to carry out her orders.
After many days the fairies came together to bring their precious treasures to the Queen. How they carried them I scarcely know, but there was a little girl, many years ago, who often paused at the window of a jeweller's shop to gaze at a tiny, silver boy, with silver wings, wheeling a silver wheel-barrow full of rings, and the little girl thought that perhaps the fairies carried things in the same way. Anyhow, they all came to the Queen bringing their burdens, and she soon set to work on the Temple.
After many days, the fairies gathered to bring their precious treasures to the Queen. I’m not sure how they carried them, but there was a little girl, many years ago, who often stopped at the window of a jeweler's shop to admire a tiny silver boy with silver wings, pushing a silver wheelbarrow full of rings. The little girl thought that maybe the fairies carried things in a similar way. Anyway, they all arrived at the Queen, bringing their loads, and she quickly got started on the Temple.
"The foundations must be laid with diamonds," said the Queen. "Where are the six sisters? Ah! here they come with the lovely, shining diamonds, which are like themselves, 'clear as crystal'. Now little Gold-wings, bring your treasure," and the three little sisters brought the[3] finest of gold. So the work went merrily on, and the fairies danced in glee as they saw the glittering Temple growing under the clever hands of the Queen. She made the doors of pearls and the windows of rubies, and the roof she said should be of opal, because it would show many colours when the light played upon it.
"The foundations have to be laid with diamonds," said the Queen. "Where are the six sisters? Ah! here they come with the beautiful, shining diamonds, just like them, 'clear as crystal.' Now little Gold-wings, bring your treasure," and the three little sisters brought the [3] finest gold. So the work went on happily, and the fairies danced with joy as they watched the sparkling Temple rise under the skilled hands of the Queen. She made the doors out of pearls and the windows out of rubies, and she decided the roof should be made of opal, because it would show many colors when the light shone on it.
At last the lovely building was finished, and after the fairies had danced joyfully round it in a ring again and again, until they could dance no longer, they gathered in a group round the dear Queen, and thanked her for having made so beautiful a Temple.
At last, the beautiful building was complete, and after the fairies had joyfully danced around it in a circle over and over until they couldn’t dance anymore, they gathered together around their beloved Queen and thanked her for creating such a beautiful Temple.
"It is quite the loveliest thing in the world, I am sure," said Rosy-wings.
"It is definitely the most beautiful thing in the world, I’m sure," said Rosy-wings.
"Not quite," replied the Queen, "mortals have it in their power to make a lovelier Temple than ours."
"Not exactly," replied the Queen, "humans have the ability to create a more beautiful Temple than ours."
"Who are 'mortals'?" asked Shiny-wings.
"Who are 'mortals'?" asked Shiny-wings.
"Boys and girls are mortals," said the Queen, "and grown-up people also."
"Boys and girls are human," said the Queen, "and so are adults."
"I have never seen mortals build anything half so pretty as our Temple," said Grass-green; "their houses are made of stone and brick."
"I've never seen humans build anything as beautiful as our Temple," said Grass-green; "their homes are made of stone and brick."
"Ah! Grass-green," answered the Queen, smiling, "you have never seen the Temple I am speaking of, but it is better than ours, for it lasts—lasts for ever. Wind and rain, frost and snow, will spoil our Temple in time; but the Temple of the mortals lives on, and is never destroyed."
"Ah! Grass green," answered the Queen with a smile, "you've never seen the Temple I’m talking about, but it is better than ours because it lasts—lasts forever. Wind and rain, frost and snow will eventually wear down our Temple; but the Temple of the mortals endures and is never destroyed."
"Do tell us about it, dear Queen," said all the fairies; "we will try to understand."
"Please tell us about it, dear Queen," said all the fairies; "we'll do our best to understand."
"It is called by rather a long word," said the Queen, "its name is 'character'; that is what the mortals build, and the stones they use are more precious than our stones. I will tell you the names of some of them. First there is Truth, clear and bright like the diamonds; that must be the foundation; no good character can be made without Truth."[4]
"It has a pretty long name," said the Queen, "it's called 'character'; that's what humans create, and the materials they use are more valuable than our jewels. Let me share some of their names. First, there’s Truth, shiny and clear like diamonds; that has to be the foundation; no good character can exist without Truth."[4]
Then the sisters Crystal-clear smiled at each other and said, "We brought diamonds for truth".
Then the sisters smiled brightly at each other and said, "We brought diamonds for truth."
"There are Honesty, Obedience, and many others," continued the Queen, "and Kindness, which is like the pure gold that was brought by Gold-wings, and makes a lovely setting for all the other stones."
"There are Honesty, Obedience, and many others," the Queen continued, "and Kindness, which is like the pure gold brought by Gold-wings, creating a beautiful setting for all the other stones."
The little fairies were glad to hear all this about the Temple which the mortals build, and Gold-wings said that she would like above everything to be able to help boys and girls to make their Temple beautiful, and the other fairies said the same; so the Queen said they all might try to help them, for each boy and girl must build a Temple, and the name of that Temple is Character.
The little fairies were happy to hear all of this about the Temple that the mortals build, and Gold-wings said that she would love more than anything to help boys and girls make their Temple beautiful, and the other fairies agreed; so the Queen said they could all try to help, because each boy and girl must build a Temple, and the name of that Temple is Character.
II. OBEDIENCE.
There was once a little boy who said that whenever he was going to do anything wrong he heard two voices speaking to him. Do you know what he meant? Perhaps this story will help you.
There was once a little boy who said that whenever he was about to do something wrong, he heard two voices talking to him. Do you know what he meant? Maybe this story will help you.
The boy's name was Cecil. Cecil's father had a very beautiful and rare canary, which had been brought far over the sea as a present to him.
The boy's name was Cecil. Cecil's dad had a really beautiful and rare canary that had been brought all the way across the ocean as a gift for him.
Cecil often helped to feed the canary and give it fresh water, and sometimes his father would allow him to open the door of the cage, and the bird would come out and perch on his hand, which delighted Cecil very much, but he was not allowed to open the door of the cage unless his father was with him.[5]
Cecil frequently helped to feed the canary and provide it with fresh water. Sometimes his father would let him open the cage door, and the bird would fly out and sit on his hand, which made Cecil very happy. However, he wasn't allowed to open the cage door unless his father was there with him.[5]
One day, however, Cecil came to the cage alone, and while he watched the canary, a little voice said, "Open the door and take him out; father will never know". That was a wrong voice, and Cecil tried not to listen. It would have been better if he had gone away from the cage, but he did not; and the voice came again, "Open the door and let him out". And another little voice said, "No, don't; your father said you must not". But Cecil listened to the wrong voice; he opened the door gently, and out flew the pretty bird. First it perched on his finger, then it flew about the room, and then—Cecil had not noticed that the window was open—then, before he knew, out of the window flew the canary, and poor Cecil burst into tears. "Oh! if I had listened to the good voice, the right voice, and not opened the door! Father will be so angry." Then the bad voice came again and said, "Don't tell your father; say you know nothing about it ". But Cecil did not listen this time; he was too brave a boy to tell his father a lie, and he determined to tell the truth and be punished, if necessary.
One day, though, Cecil came to the cage by himself, and while he watched the canary, a small voice said, "Open the door and take him out; Dad will never know." That was a wrong voice, and Cecil tried not to pay attention. He should have walked away from the cage, but he didn't; the voice came again, "Open the door and let him out." Another little voice said, "No, don't; your dad said you must not." But Cecil listened to the wrong voice; he gently opened the door, and out flew the pretty bird. First, it landed on his finger, then it flew around the room, and then—Cecil hadn’t noticed that the window was open—then, before he realized it, the canary flew out of the window, and poor Cecil started crying. "Oh! If I had listened to the good voice, the right voice, and not opened the door! Dad will be so angry." Then the bad voice came again and said, "Don't tell your dad; say you know nothing about it." But Cecil didn't listen this time; he was too brave to lie to his dad, and he decided to tell the truth and accept whatever punishment came.
Of course his father was very sorry to lose his beautiful canary, and more sorry still that his little son had been disobedient, but he was glad that Cecil told him the truth.
Of course, his father was really sad to lose his beautiful canary, and even more upset that his little son had been disobedient, but he was glad that Cecil had told him the truth.
Now do you know the two things that the wrong voice told Cecil to do? It told him (1) Not to obey; (2) Not to tell the truth. I think we have all heard those two voices, not with our ears, but within us. Let us always listen to the good voice—the right voice.
Now do you know the two things the wrong voice told Cecil to do? It told him (1) not to obey; (2) not to tell the truth. I think we’ve all heard those two voices, not with our ears, but inside us. Let’s always listen to the good voice—the right voice.
(Blackboard Sketch.)
1st. Good says, "Obey," "Tell the truth."
2nd. Bad says, "Disobey," "Tell lies".
You know that the country in which you live is an island? That means there is water all round it, and that water is the sea.
You know that the country you live in is an island? That means there’s water all around it, and that water is the sea.
England and Scotland are joined together in one large island; and if you want to go to any other country, you must sail in a ship. A great many ships come to England, bringing us tea, coffee, sugar, oranges and many other things, and the towns they come to are called ports. London is a port, so is Liverpool; and in the North of England is another port called Hull. To get to Hull from the sea we have to sail up a wide river called the Humber for more than twenty miles. This river has a great many sandbanks in it, and there are men called pilots who know just where these sandbanks lie, and they are the ones who can guide the ships safely into port.
England and Scotland are connected on one big island, and if you want to travel to another country, you have to take a ship. A lot of ships come to England, bringing us tea, coffee, sugar, oranges, and many other items, and the places they arrive at are called ports. London is a port, as is Liverpool; in Northern England, there's another port called Hull. To reach Hull from the sea, we have to navigate a wide river called the Humber for more than twenty miles. This river has many sandbanks, and there are people known as pilots who know exactly where these sandbanks are, and they are the ones who can safely guide the ships into port.
One day there was a captain who brought his ship into the river, and said to himself, "I do not want the pilot on board, I can guide the ship myself". So he did not hoist the "union jack" on the foremast head, which means "Pilot come on board"; and the pilot did not come.
One day, there was a captain who brought his ship into the river and thought to himself, "I don't need a pilot on board; I can steer the ship myself." So, he didn't raise the "union jack" on the foremast, which signals "Pilot, come aboard"; and the pilot didn't come.
For a little time the good ship sailed along all right, but presently they found that she was not moving at all. What had happened? The ship was stuck fast on a sandbank, and the foolish captain wished now that he had taken the pilot on board. First he had to go out in the little boat and fetch a "tug-boat" to pull the ship off the sandbank, and then he was glad enough to have the pilot on board, and to let him guide the ship just as he liked. Why could not the captain guide the ship? Because he did not know the way.[7]
For a little while, the good ship sailed smoothly, but soon they realized it wasn't moving at all. What happened? The ship was stuck on a sandbank, and the foolish captain now regretted not bringing the pilot on board. First, he had to take a small boat to fetch a tugboat to pull the ship off the sandbank, and then he was more than happy to have the pilot on board and let him steer the ship however he wanted. Why couldn't the captain steer the ship? Because he didn't know the way.[7]
Have you ever known children who did not like to do as they were told? who thought that they knew best—better than father or mother? They are like the foolish captain, who tried to guide his ship when he did not know the way. Fathers and mothers are like the pilot, who knew which was the best way to take; and wise children are willing to be guided, for they do not know the way any more than the captain did.
Have you ever known kids who didn't like following instructions? Who thought they knew better than their parents? They're like the foolish captain who tried to steer his ship without knowing the route. Parents are like the pilot, who knows the best way to go; and smart kids are open to being guided, because they don't know the way any better than the captain did.
(Blackboard.)
Because we don't know the way.
The story and its teaching may be further impressed on the minds of the children by a sand lesson:—
The story and its lesson can be further reinforced in the minds of the children through a sand lesson:—
Place a blackboard or large piece of oil-cloth on the floor, and make an "island" in sand, and in the "island" form a large "estuary," with little heaps of sand dotted about in it, to represent sandbanks. The sailors cannot see the sandbanks, for they are all covered with water in the real river, so we will take a duster and spread it over these sandbanks. Now, take a tiny boat and ask one of the children to sail it up the river, keeping clear of the sandbanks. The children will soon see that it cannot be done, and the "blackboard" lesson may be again enforced.
Place a blackboard or a large piece of oil cloth on the floor, and create an "island" out of sand. In this "island," shape a large "estuary," with small hills of sand scattered throughout to act as sandbanks. The sailors can’t see the sandbanks because they’re all underwater in the real river, so we’ll take a cloth and cover these sandbanks. Now, take a small boat and ask one of the kids to sail it up the river, avoiding the sandbanks. The kids will quickly realize that it can’t be done, and the "blackboard" lesson can be reinforced again.
A lady once had a dog of which she was very fond. The dog was fond of his mistress also, and loved to romp by her side when she was out walking, or to lie at her feet as she[8] sat at work. But the dog had one serious fault—he did not like to be washed, and he was so savage when he was put into the bath, that at last none of the servants dare do it.
A woman once had a dog that she really loved. The dog loved her too and enjoyed playing by her side when she went for walks or lying at her feet while she[8] worked. However, the dog had one big flaw—he hated getting washed, and he was so aggressive when he was put in the bath that eventually none of the servants dared to do it.
The lady decided that she would not take any more notice of the dog until he was willing to have his bath quietly, so she did not take him out with her for walks, nor allow him to come near her in the house. There were no pattings, no caresses, no romps, and he began to look quite wretched and miserable. You see the dog did not like his mistress to be vexed with him, and he felt very unhappy—so unhappy that at last he could bear it no longer.
The lady decided she wouldn't pay any more attention to the dog until he was ready to have his bath without a fuss, so she didn't take him for walks and didn't let him come near her in the house. There were no pets, no hugs, no playtime, and he started to look really sad and miserable. You see, the dog didn't like it when his owner was upset with him, and he felt very unhappy—so unhappy that eventually he couldn't stand it any longer.
Then one morning he crept quietly up to the lady and gave her a look which she knew quite well meant, "I cannot bear this any longer; I will be good".
Then one morning he sneaked up to the lady and gave her a look that she completely understood meant, "I can't take this anymore; I promise I’ll behave."
So he was put in the bath, and though he had to be scrubbed very hard—for by this time he was unusually dirty—he stood still quite patiently, and when it was all over, he bounded to his mistress with a joyous bark and a wag of the tail, as much as to say, "It is all right now".
So he was put in the bath, and even though he had to be scrubbed really hard—since he was super dirty by that point—he stood still quite patiently. When it was all done, he jumped over to his owner with an excited bark and a wag of his tail, as if to say, "Everything's good now."
After this he was allowed to go for walks as usual, and was once more a happy dog, and he never objected to his bath afterwards.
After this, he was allowed to go for walks as usual, and he was once again a happy dog, never complaining about his bath afterwards.
The dog could not bear to grieve his mistress; and how much more should children be sorry to grieve kind father and mother, who do so much for them.
The dog couldn’t handle grieving for his owner; and how much more should kids feel bad for upsetting their loving parents, who do so much for them.
(Blackboard.)
1. Because the "Good Voice" informs us.
2. Because we don't know the way.
3. Because it pleases Mom and Dad.
A little boy named Robert was having a game at marbles with a number of other boys, and it had just come his turn to play. He meant to win, and was carefully aiming the marble, when he heard his mother's voice calling, "Robert, I want you". Quick as thought the marbles were dropped into his pocket, and off he ran to see what mother wanted.
A little boy named Robert was playing marbles with some other boys, and it was just his turn to go. He intended to win and was focused on aiming his marble when he heard his mom calling, "Robert, I need you." In an instant, he stuffed the marbles into his pocket and ran off to see what his mom wanted.
Robert Obeyed Readily, Cheerfully, Quickly.
I was in a house one day where a boy was getting ready to go to school. His bag was slung over his shoulder, and he was just reaching his cap from the peg, when his mother said, "Put on your overcoat, Jimmy; it is rather cold this morning". Oh, what a fuss there was! How he argued with his mother, "It was not cold; he hated overcoats. Could he not take it over his arm, or put it on in the afternoon?" Many more objections he made, and when at last he had put it on, he went out grumbling, and slammed the door after him.
I was at a house one day where a boy was getting ready to go to school. His bag was slung over his shoulder, and he was just reaching for his cap on the hook when his mother said, "Put on your overcoat, Jimmy; it’s pretty cold this morning." Oh, what a fuss there was! He argued with his mother, claiming it wasn't cold and that he hated overcoats. Could he just carry it over his arm or put it on later? He made a ton of objections, and when he finally put it on, he went outside grumbling and slammed the door behind him.
Can you guess how his mother felt? "Unhappy," you will say. And do you think it is right, dear children, to make mother unhappy? I am sure you do not.
Can you guess how his mom felt? "Not happy," you'll say. And do you think it's okay, dear kids, to make mom unhappy? I'm sure you don't.
What has mother done for you?
Taught your little feet to stand,
Guided you softly by the hand,
And in countless ways
Protected you during infancy:
Do not think that you know best,
Just obey, and leave the rest.
You see Jimmy thought that he knew better than his mother, but he did not. Children need to be guided like the boat in the Humber (Story Lesson 3), for they are not very wise; and when we obey, we are building up our Temple with beautiful stones.
You see, Jimmy thought he knew better than his mom, but he didn't. Kids need to be guided like a boat on the Humber (Story Lesson 3) because they're not very wise; and when we follow the rules, we're building up our lives with beautiful stones.
(Blackboard.)
1. Ready, Cheerful-Robert.
2. Unprepared, Sulky-Jimmy.
Which do you like best?
III. LOYALTY.
Perhaps you have never heard the word Loyalty before, and maybe Rowland had not either, but he knew what it meant, and tried to practise it.[11]
Perhaps you've never heard the word loyalty before, and maybe Rowland hadn't either, but he understood what it meant and tried to practice it.[11]
Rowland was not a very strong little boy, and he could not eat so many different kinds of food as some children can, for some of them made him sick. Among other things he was forbidden to take pastry. His mother, who loved him very dearly, had one day said to him, "Rowland, my boy, I cannot always be with you, but I trust you to do what I wish," and Rowland said he would try always to remember.
Rowland wasn't a very strong little boy, and he couldn't eat as many different kinds of food as some kids can, because some of them made him sick. For example, he wasn't allowed to have pastries. His mother, who loved him very much, once told him, "Rowland, my boy, I can't always be with you, but I trust you to do what I ask." Rowland promised he would always try to remember.
One time he was invited to go and stay with his cousins, who lived in a fine old house in the country. They were strong, healthy, rosy children, quite a contrast to their delicate little cousin, and perhaps they were a little rough and rude as well.
One time he was invited to go and stay with his cousins, who lived in a nice old house in the country. They were strong, healthy, rosy-faced kids, which was quite a contrast to their delicate little cousin, and they might have been a bit rough and rude too.
There was a large apple tart for dinner one day, and when Rowland said, "I do not wish for any, Auntie, thank you," his cousins looked at him in surprise, and the eldest said scornfully, "I am glad that I am not delicate," and the next boy remarked, "What a fad!" while the third muttered "Baby". This was all very hard to bear, and when his Aunt said, "I am sure a little will not hurt you," Rowland felt very much inclined to give in, but he remembered that his mother trusted him, and he remained true to her wishes.
There was a big apple tart for dinner one day, and when Rowland said, "I don't want any, Auntie, thanks," his cousins looked at him in surprise. The oldest one said sarcastically, "I'm glad I'm not picky," and the next boy added, "What a weird thing!" while the third muttered, "Baby." This was really hard for him to handle, and when his Aunt said, "I'm sure just a little won't hurt you," Rowland felt tempted to give in, but he remembered that his mom trusted him, and he stayed true to her wishes.
This is Loyalty, doing what is right even when there is no one there to see.
This is Loyalty, doing the right thing even when no one is watching.
Be True or Loyal when no eyes are upon you.
IV. TRUTHFULNESS.
8. Lucy and the Jug of Milk.
"Lucy," said her mother, "just run to the dairy and fetch a pint of milk for me, here is the money; and do remember, child, to look where you are going, so that you do not stumble and drop the jug." I am afraid Lucy was a little like another girl you will hear of (Story Lesson 103); she was too fond of staring about, and perhaps rather careless.
"Lucy," her mother said, "just run to the dairy and grab me a pint of milk. Here’s the money; and please, remember to watch where you're going so you don’t trip and drop the jug." I'm afraid Lucy was a bit like another girl you’ll hear about (Story Lesson 103); she liked to look around too much and was maybe a little careless.
However, she went to the dairy and bought the milk, and had returned half-way home without any mishap, when she met a flock of sheep coming down the road, followed by a large sheep-dog. Lucy stood on the pavement to watch them pass; it was such fun to see the sheep-dog scamper from one side to the other, and the timid sheep spring forward as soon as the dog came near them. So far the milk was safe; but, after the sheep had passed, Lucy thought she would just turn round to have one more peep at them, and oh, dear, her foot tripped against a stone, and down she fell, milk, and jug, and all, and the jug was smashed to pieces.
However, she went to the dairy and bought the milk, and had returned halfway home without any trouble when she came across a flock of sheep coming down the road, followed by a big sheepdog. Lucy stood on the sidewalk to watch them pass; it was so much fun to see the sheepdog dart from side to side, and the shy sheep jump forward as soon as the dog got close to them. So far the milk was safe; but after the sheep had passed, Lucy thought she would just turn around to take another look at them, and oh no, her foot tripped over a stone, and down she went, milk, jug, and all, and the jug shattered into pieces.
Lucy was in great trouble, and as she stood there and looked at the broken jug, and the milk trickling down the gutter, she cried bitterly.
Lucy was in big trouble, and as she stood there staring at the broken jug and the milk running down the gutter, she cried hard.
A big boy who was passing by at the time, and had seen the accident, came across the road and said to her: "Don't cry, little girl, just run home and tell your mother that the sheep-dog bounced up against you and knocked the jug out of your hand; then you will not be punished".[13]
A big boy who was passing by at that moment and had witnessed the accident came over and said to her, "Don't cry, little girl, just run home and tell your mom that the sheepdog bumped into you and knocked the jug out of your hand; then you won't get in trouble."[13]
Lucy dried her eyes quickly, and gazed at the boy in astonishment. "Tell my mother a lie!" said she; "no, I would rather be punished a dozen times than do so. I shall tell her the truth," and she walked away home. Lucy was careless, but she was not untruthful; surely the boy must have felt ashamed!
Lucy quickly wiped her eyes and stared at the boy in shock. "Tell my mom a lie!" she said; "no, I’d rather be punished a dozen times than do that. I’m going to tell her the truth," and she walked home. Lucy was careless, but she wasn’t dishonest; the boy must have felt ashamed!
You remember the Fairy Queen said that Truth was the foundation of our beautiful Temple (Story Lesson 1), and the building will all tumble down in ruins if we do not have a strong foundation, so we must be brave to bear punishment (as Lucy was) if we deserve it, and be sure to
You remember the Fairy Queen said that Truth was the foundation of our beautiful Temple (Story Lesson 1), and the whole structure will come crashing down if we don’t have a solid base, so we need to be courageous enough to accept punishment (like Lucy did) if we’ve earned it, and be sure to
Tell the Truth Whatever it Costs.
9. Mabel and Fritz.
This is a story of a dear little curly-headed girl called Mabel, whom everybody loved. She was so bright, and happy, and good-tempered, one could not help loving her, and when you looked into her clear, blue eyes, you could see that she was a frank, truthful child, who had nothing to hide, for she tried to listen to the Good Voice, and do what was right.
This is a story about a sweet little girl named Mabel with curly hair, who everyone adored. She was so cheerful, happy, and easygoing that it was impossible not to love her. When you looked into her bright blue eyes, you could see that she was an open, honest child with nothing to hide, as she tried to listen to the Good Voice and do what was right.
One day Mabel was having a romp with her little dog, Fritz, in the kitchen. Up and down she chased him, and away he went, jumping over the chairs, hiding under the dresser, always followed by Mabel, until at last he leaped on the table, and in trying to make him come down, Mabel and the dog together overturned a tray full of clean, starched linen that was on the table. Mabel had been giving Fritz[14] some water to drink a little before this, and in doing so had spilt a good deal on the floor, so the clean cuffs and collars rolled over in the wet, and were quite spoiled.
One day, Mabel was playing around with her little dog, Fritz, in the kitchen. She chased him up and down, and he darted away, jumping over the chairs and hiding under the dresser, always followed by Mabel. Finally, he jumped on the table, and while trying to get him down, Mabel and the dog accidentally knocked over a tray full of clean, starched linens that were on the table. Not long before this, Mabel had given Fritz some water to drink and had spilled quite a bit on the floor, so the clean cuffs and collars tumbled into the wet mess and got ruined.
Mabel's mother happened to come in just when the tray fell with a bang, and as the dog jumped down from the table at the same moment she thought he had done it, and Mabel did not tell that she was in fault, so poor Fritz was chained up in his kennel, and kept without dinner as a punishment.
Mabel's mom walked in just as the tray fell with a crash, and since the dog jumped down from the table at that moment, she assumed he was the culprit. Mabel didn’t admit it was her fault, so poor Fritz ended up being locked in his kennel and missing dinner as punishment.
Mabel felt sad about it all the rest of the day, and when she was put to bed at night, and mamma had left her, she did not go to sleep as usual, but tossed about on the pillow, until her little curly head was quite hot and tired. Then she began to cry. Mabel was listening to the Good Voice now, and it said, "Oh, Mabel, you helped Fritz to overturn the tray, and he got all the blame, how mean of you!" Mabel sobbed louder when she thought of herself as being mean, and her mother hearing the noise came to see what was the matter. Then Mabel confessed all, and her mother said, "Perhaps my little girl did not know that we could be untruthful by not speaking at all, but you see it is quite possible".
Mabel felt sad about everything for the rest of the day, and when she was put to bed at night, after her mom left her, she didn't fall asleep like usual but tossed around on the pillow until her little curly head was really hot and tired. Then she started to cry. Mabel was listening to the Good Voice now, and it said, "Oh, Mabel, you helped Fritz knock over the tray, and he got all the blame—how mean of you!" Mabel cried even harder when she thought about being mean, and her mom heard the noise and came to see what was wrong. Then Mabel confessed everything, and her mom said, "Maybe my little girl didn’t realize that we can be untruthful by not speaking at all, but you see it is totally possible."
I do not think Mabel ever forgot the lesson which she learnt that
I don't think Mabel ever forgot the lesson she learned that
There can be Untruth without Words.
10. A Game of Cricket.
Two boys were playing at bat and ball in a field. There was a high hedge on one side of the field, and on the other[15] side of the hedge was a market garden, where things are grown to be afterwards sold in the market. The boys had been playing some time, when the "batter," giving the ball a very hard blow, sent it over the hedge, and both the boys heard a loud crash as of breaking glass. They picked up the wickets quickly, and carried them, with the bat, to a hut that stood in the field, and were hurrying away when the gardener came and stopped them, asking, "Have you sent a cricket-ball over the hedge into my cucumber frame?" The boy who had struck the ball answered, "I did not see a ball go into your frame," and the other boy said, "Neither did I".
Two boys were playing baseball in a field. There was a tall hedge on one side of the field, and on the other side of the hedge was a market garden, where things are grown to be sold at the market. The boys had been playing for a while when the "batter," hitting the ball really hard, sent it over the hedge, and both boys heard a loud crash that sounded like breaking glass. They quickly grabbed the wickets and took them, along with the bat, to a hut in the field, hurrying away when the gardener came and stopped them, asking, "Did you send a cricket ball over the hedge into my cucumber patch?" The boy who hit the ball replied, "I didn't see a ball go into your patch," and the other boy said, "Neither did I."
They did not see the ball break the glass, but they both knew that it had crashed into the frame, and though the words they spoke might be true, the lie was there all the same.
They didn’t see the ball break the glass, but they both knew it had hit the frame, and even though the words they said might be true, the lie was still there.
Supposing the sisters "Crystal-clear" had brought to the Fairy Queen a diamond that was only good on one side, do you think she would have put it in the Temple? No, indeed, she would have said it was only half true; and so we must put away anything that looks like truth, but is not truth. How wrong it is to make believe we have not done a thing, when all the time we have.
Suppose the sisters "Crystal-clear" brought the Fairy Queen a diamond that was only good on one side. Do you think she would have placed it in the Temple? No way, she would have said it was only half true; and so we must set aside anything that looks like truth but isn’t truth. How wrong it is to pretend we haven’t done something when all along we have.
Dear children, be true all through! Have you ever seen a glass jar of pure honey, no bits of wax floating in it, all clear and pure? Let your heart be like that, sincere, which means "without wax, clear and pure".
Dear children, always be genuine! Have you ever seen a glass jar of pure honey, with no bits of wax floating in it, all clear and pure? Let your heart be like that, sincere, which means "without wax, clear and pure."
A Half-truth is as Hateful as a Lie.
One day three little girls were talking about hats and feathers.
One day, three little girls were chatting about hats and feathers.
The first girl said: "I have such a long feather in my best hat; it goes all down one side".
The first girl said, "I have this really long feather in my favorite hat; it goes all the way down one side."
Then the next girl said: "Oh! my feather is longer than that, for it goes all round the hat"; and the third girl said: "Ah! but my feather is longer than either of yours, for it goes round the hat and hangs down behind as well".
Then the next girl said: "Oh! my feather is longer than that because it goes all around the hat"; and the third girl said: "Ah! but my feather is longer than both of yours because it goes around the hat and hangs down in the back as well."
On the next Sunday each of these little girls went walking in the park with her parents, wearing her best hat with the wonderful feather; it never occurred to one of them that she might meet the other two, but that is just what happened, and the three "long" feathers proved to be nothing but three short, little feathers, one in each hat! Can you guess how ashamed each girl felt?
On the next Sunday, each of these little girls went for a walk in the park with her parents, wearing her best hat with the beautiful feather. It never crossed one of their minds that they might run into the other two, but that's exactly what happened, and the three "long" feathers turned out to be just three short, little feathers, one in each hat! Can you imagine how ashamed each girl felt?
You have seen a piece of elastic stretched out. How long you can make it, and how short it goes when you leave off stretching! Each girl wanted to be better than the other, and to appear so, each "stretched" the story of her feather, just as the length of elastic was stretched, forgetting that
You’ve seen a piece of elastic stretched out. Look at how long you can make it and how short it snaps back when you stop pulling! Each girl wanted to outdo the others, and to look that way, each one "stretched" the story of her feather, just like the elastic was stretched, forgetting that
When we "Stretch" a Story, we do not Speak the Truth.
V. HONESTY.
The little children who went to school long years ago did not have pretty things to play with as you have—no kindergarten balls with bright colours, nor nice bricks with which to build houses and churches! There was a little girl named Lulu who went to a dame's school in those far-off days, and most of the time she had to sit knitting a long, grey stocking, though she was only six years old.
The little kids who went to school many years ago didn’t have the nice toys to play with that you do—no colorful kindergarten balls or nice building blocks! There was a little girl named Lulu who attended a dame's school back then, and most of the time she had to sit and knit a long, gray stocking, even though she was only six years old.
Some of the older girls were sewing on canvas with pretty coloured wools, and making (what appeared to little Lulu) most beautiful pictures. How she longed for a length of the pink or blue wool to have for her very own!
Some of the older girls were sewing on canvas with pretty colored yarns and creating what seemed to little Lulu like the most beautiful pictures. She really wished she could have a length of the pink or blue yarn to call her own!
The school was in a room upstairs, and at the head of the stair there was a window, with a deep window-sill in front of it. As Lulu came out of the schoolroom one day to take a message for the teacher, and turned to close the door after her, she saw (oh, lovely sight!) that the window-sill was piled up with bundles of the pretty coloured wool that she liked so much. Oh! how she wished for a little of it! And, see, there is some rose-pink wool on the top, cut into lengths ready for the girls to sew with! It is too much for poor little Lulu; she draws out one! two! three lengths of the wool, folds it up hastily, puts it in her pocket, and runs down the stair on the errand she has been sent.
The school was on an upper floor, and at the top of the stairs, there was a window with a deep sill in front of it. One day, as Lulu came out of the classroom to deliver a message for the teacher and turned to close the door behind her, she saw (oh, such a lovely sight!) that the window-sill was stacked with bundles of the pretty colored wool that she loved so much. Oh! how she wished she could have some of it! And look, there’s some rose-pink wool on top, cut into lengths and ready for the girls to sew with! It was too much for poor little Lulu; she quickly pulled out one! two! three lengths of wool, folded it up hurriedly, stuffed it in her pocket, and rushed down the stairs to complete the errand she had been given.
But is she happy? Oh, no! for a little Voice says: "Lulu, you are stealing; the wool is not yours!" For a few minutes the wool rests in her pocket, and then she[18] runs back up the stair; the schoolroom door is still closed as Lulu draws the wool from her pocket, and gently puts it back on the window-sill. Then she takes the message and returns to her place in the schoolroom, and to the knitting of her long stocking, hot and ashamed at the thought of what she has done, but glad in her heart that she listened to the Good Voice, and did not keep the wool.
But is she happy? Oh, no! because a small Voice says: "Lulu, you are stealing; the wool isn't yours!" For a few minutes, the wool sits in her pocket, and then she[18]runs back up the stairs; the schoolroom door is still closed as Lulu pulls the wool from her pocket and gently puts it back on the windowsill. Then she takes the message and goes back to her spot in the schoolroom, returning to the knitting of her long stocking, feeling hot and ashamed about what she did, but happy in her heart that she listened to the Good Voice and didn't keep the wool.
Had any one seen her? Did any one know about it? Yes, there were loving Eyes watching little Lulu, and the One who looked down was very glad when she listened to the Good Voice. Do you know who it was?
Had anyone seen her? Did anyone know about it? Yes, there were loving eyes watching little Lulu, and the one who looked down was very glad when she listened to the good voice. Do you know who it was?
Boys and girls, and children small;
When we listen to His voice,
Angels in their songs rejoice.
Have you heard that voice, dear child,
Speaking in you, gentle, mild?
Always listen and obey,
For it leads you the right way.
Do not Take what is not Yours.
Note.—To the mother or teacher who can read between the lines, this little story (which is not imaginary, but a true record of fact) bears another meaning. It shows the child's passionate love for objects that are pretty, especially coloured objects, and how the withholding of these may open the way to temptation. Let the child's natural desire be gratified, and supply to it freely coloured wools, beads, etc., at the same time teaching the right use of them, according to kindergarten[3] principles.
Note.—To the mother or teacher who can read between the lines, this little story (which is not made up, but a true account of events) carries another meaning. It demonstrates the child's intense love for pretty things, especially colorful items, and how not providing these can lead to temptation. Allow the child's natural desires to be fulfilled by freely providing colorful wools, beads, etc., while also teaching them the proper way to use these according to kindergarten[3] principles.
13. Carl and the Lump of Sugar.
There are some people who think that taking little things is not stealing. But it is.
There are some people who think that taking small things is not stealing. But it is.
There was a little boy, named Carl, who began his wrong-doing by taking a piece of sugar. Then he took another piece, and another; but he always did it when his mother was not looking. We always want to hide the doing of wrong—we feel so ashamed.
There was a little boy named Carl who started his mischief by taking a piece of sugar. Then he took another piece, and another; but he always did it when his mom wasn't watching. We always want to hide our wrongdoings—we feel so ashamed.
One day Carl's mother sent him to the shop for something, and he kept a halfpenny out of the change. His mother did not notice it; she never thought her little boy would steal.
One day, Carl's mom sent him to the store for something, and he kept a halfpenny from the change. His mom didn’t notice it; she never thought her little boy would steal.
So it went on from bad to worse, until one day he stole a shilling from a boy in the school, and was expelled.
So things went from bad to worse, until one day he stole a shilling from a boy at school and got expelled.
As Carl grew older he took larger sums, and you will not be surprised to hear that in the end he was sent to prison, and nearly broke his mother's heart.
As Carl got older, he took bigger amounts of money, and it won’t shock you to learn that in the end, he was sent to jail, which almost shattered his mother's heart.
Lilie's cousin had a bottle of scent given to her, and it had such a pleasant smell that one day, when Lilie was alone in the room, she thought she would like a little, so she unscrewed the stopper, and sprinkled a few drops on her handkerchief. I do not suppose her cousin would have been angry if she had known, but Lilie knew the scent was not hers, and she was miserable the moment she had taken it, and had no peace until she confessed[20] the fault, and asked her cousin's forgiveness. I wish Carl had felt like that about the piece of sugar; do not you? Then he would never have taken the larger things, and been sent to prison.
Lilie’s cousin had a bottle of perfume that was gifted to her, and it smelled so nice that one day, when Lilie was by herself in the room, she thought she’d like to try some. So, she opened the bottle and sprinkled a few drops on her handkerchief. I don’t think her cousin would have gotten mad if she knew, but Lilie felt guilty because the perfume wasn’t hers, and she was unhappy the moment she took it. She couldn’t find peace until she confessed her mistake and asked her cousin for forgiveness. I wish Carl had felt that way about the piece of sugar; don’t you? Then he wouldn’t have taken the bigger items and ended up in prison.
Little Wrongs Lead to Greater Wrongs.
Carl—Sugar—Money—Prison.
It was the Christmas examination at school, and the boys were all at their desks ready for the questions in arithmetic. Will Jones's desk was next Tom Hardy's, and everybody thought that one of these two boys would win the prize.
It was the Christmas exam at school, and the boys were all at their desks, ready for the math questions. Will Jones's desk was next to Tom Hardy's, and everyone thought that one of these two boys would win the prize.
As soon as the questions had been given out, the boys set to work. Tom did all his sums on a scrap of paper first, then he copied them out carefully, and, after handing his paper to the master, left the room. Unfortunately he left the scrap of paper on which he had worked his sums lying on the desk. Will snatched it up, and looked to see if his answers were the same. No! two were different. Tom's would be sure to be right; so he copied the sums from Tom's scrap of paper. It was stealing, of course; just as much stealing as if he had taken Tom's pen or knife. Besides, it is so mean to let some one else do the work and then steal it from them—even the birds know that.
As soon as the questions were handed out, the boys got to work. Tom did all his calculations on a piece of scrap paper first, then carefully copied them down, and after giving his paper to the teacher, he left the room. Unfortunately, he left the scrap of paper with his calculations on the desk. Will grabbed it and checked to see if his answers matched. No! Two were different. Tom's answers were sure to be correct, so he copied the calculations from Tom's scrap of paper. It was stealing, of course; just as much stealing as if he had taken Tom's pen or knife. Plus, it's really low to let someone else do the work and then take it from them—even the birds know that.
Some little birds were building themselves a nest, and to save the trouble of gathering materials, they went and[21] took some twigs and other things from another bird's nest that was being built. But when the old birds saw what the little ones had done, they set to work and pulled the nest all to pieces. That was to teach them to go and find their own twigs and sticks, and not to steal from others.
Some little birds were making a nest, and to avoid the hassle of collecting materials, they went and[21] took some twigs and other things from another bird's nest that was under construction. But when the older birds saw what the little ones had done, they immediately began tearing the nest apart. This was to teach them to gather their own twigs and sticks, and not to take from others.
Of course Will was not happy. There was a little Voice within that would not let him rest, and when the boys kept talking about the arithmetic prize, and wondering who would get it, he felt as though he would like to go and hide somewhere, he was so ashamed. That is one of the results of wrong-doing, as we said before—it always makes us ashamed.
Of course, Will wasn't happy. There was a little voice inside him that wouldn't let him relax, and when the boys kept talking about the math prize and wondering who would win it, he felt like he wanted to hide somewhere because he was so embarrassed. That's one of the consequences of doing something wrong, as we mentioned before—it always makes us feel ashamed.
At last the day came when the master would tell who were the prize-winners. The boys were all sitting at their desks listening as the master read out these words:—
At last, the day arrived when the teacher would announce the prize-winners. The boys were all sitting at their desks, listening as the teacher read out these words:—
"Tom Hardy and Will Jones have all their sums right, but as Will's paper is the neater of the two, he will take the first prize".
"Tom Hardy and Will Jones have all their answers correct, but since Will's paper is the neater of the two, he will take the first prize."
The boys clapped their hands, but Will was not glad. The Voice within spoke louder and louder, so loudly that Will was almost afraid some of the other boys would hear it, and his face grew red and hot. At last he determined to obey the Good Voice and tell the truth, so he rose from his seat, walked up to the master, and said: "Please, sir, the prize does not belong to me, for I stole two of my answers from Tom Hardy. I am very sorry."
The boys cheered, but Will wasn't happy. The Voice inside him got louder and louder, so loud that Will almost worried some of the other boys would hear it, making his face turn red and hot. Finally, he decided to follow the Good Voice and tell the truth. He stood up from his seat, walked over to the teacher, and said, "Excuse me, sir, the prize isn't mine because I copied two of my answers from Tom Hardy. I'm really sorry."
The master was greatly surprised, but he could see that Will was very sorry and unhappy. He held out his hand to him, and said: "I am glad, Will, that you have been brave enough to confess this. It will make you far happier than the prize would have done, seeing that you had not honestly won it." So the prize went to Tom, and Will[22] was never guilty of copying again; he remembered too well the unhappiness that followed it.
The teacher was really surprised, but he could tell that Will was feeling really sorry and upset. He extended his hand to him and said, “I’m glad, Will, that you were brave enough to admit this. It’s going to make you a lot happier than winning the prize would have, especially since you hadn’t earned it honestly.” So, the prize went to Tom, and Will[22] never cheated again; he remembered too well the sadness that came after it.
Copying is Stealing.
When Lulu reached her fifteenth birthday she had a watch given to her. One afternoon she was walking through a wood, up a steep and rocky path, and when she reached the top she stood for a few moments to rest. Looking back down the wood she saw a boy coming by the same path, and when about half-way up he stooped down as if to raise something from the ground, but the thought did not occur to Lulu that it might be anything belonging to her.
When Lulu turned fifteen, she received a watch as a gift. One afternoon, she was walking through the woods, up a steep and rocky path. When she reached the top, she paused for a moment to catch her breath. Looking down through the trees, she saw a boy coming up the same path. When he was about halfway up, he bent down as if to pick something up from the ground, but it didn’t cross Lulu's mind that it could be anything that belonged to her.
When she was rested she walked on until she came to a house just outside the wood, where she was to take tea with a friend.
When she felt rested, she walked on until she reached a house just outside the woods, where she was going to have tea with a friend.
After tea they sat and worked until the sun began to go down. Then Lulu said, "I think I must be going home; I will see what time it is," and she was going to take out her watch, when, alas! she found it was gone. "Oh, dear!" said she, "what shall I do? How careless of me to put it in my belt; it was a present from my brother!" Then she suddenly remembered standing at the top of the path and seeing the boy pick something up. "That would be my watch," said she. And so it was.
After tea, they sat and worked until the sun started to set. Then Lulu said, "I think I should head home; let me check the time," and she was about to take out her watch when, unfortunately, she realized it was missing. "Oh no!" she exclaimed, "What am I going to do? How thoughtless of me to put it in my belt; it was a gift from my brother!" Then she suddenly remembered standing at the top of the path and seeing a boy pick something up. "That must be my watch," she said. And it was.
The boy had followed her up the wood, and had seen her go into the house, but he did not give up the watch. He waited until some bills were posted offering a reward of[23] £1, then he brought the watch and took the sovereign. If he had been an honest boy he would not have waited, but would have given up the watch at once. We ought not to wish any reward for doing what is right. It is quite enough to have the happiness that comes from obeying the Good Voice. We cannot build up a good character without honesty.
The boy had followed her up the woods and saw her go into the house, but he didn’t give up watching. He waited until some posters went up offering a reward of [23] £1, then he brought the watch and took the coin. If he had been an honest boy, he wouldn’t have waited and would have returned the watch right away. We shouldn’t expect any reward for doing what’s right. It’s enough to have the happiness that comes from following the Good Voice. We cannot build a good character without honesty.
And not for the hope of profit;
A conscience pure is rich reward,
But doing wrong causes pain.
When you Find Anything, try to Discover the Owner, and give it up at once.
VI. KINDNESS.
A lady was one day taking a walk along a country lane, and just as she was passing the gate of a field a horse and cart came out, and went down the road in the same direction as she was going, and oh! how the wheels did squeak! The lady longed to get away from the sound of them. First she walked very quickly, hoping to get well ahead; but no, the horse hurried up too, and kept pace with her. Perhaps he disliked the squeaking, and wanted his journey to be quickly finished. Then she lingered behind, and sauntered along slowly, but squeak, squeak—the hateful sound was still[24] there. At last the cart was driven down a lane to the right, and now the lady could listen to the songs of the birds, the humming of the bees, and the sweet rustle of the leaves as the wind played amongst them. "How much pleasanter," thought she, "are these sounds than the squeaking of the wheels."
A woman was out for a walk one day along a country lane, and just as she passed by a field’s gate, a horse and cart came out and headed down the road in the same direction as her. Oh, how the wheels squeaked! She wanted to escape the sound. At first, she walked quickly, hoping to get ahead of them, but no, the horse picked up speed too and matched her pace. Maybe he didn’t like the squeaking either and wanted to finish his journey fast. Then she slowed down and strolled, but squeak, squeak—the annoying sound was still there. Finally, the cart turned down a lane to the right, and now the woman could enjoy the songs of the birds, the buzzing of the bees, and the gentle rustle of the leaves as the wind danced through them. "These sounds are so much nicer," she thought, "than the squeaking of the wheels."
I wonder if you have ever seen any little children who make you think of those disagreeable wheels? They are children who do not like to lend their toys, or to play the games that their companions suggest, but who like, instead, to please themselves.
I wonder if you’ve ever seen any little kids who remind you of those annoying wheels? They’re the kids who don’t like to share their toys or play the games that their friends suggest, but instead, they prefer to do what makes them happy.
Do you know what the wheels needed to make them go sweetly? They needed oil. And the disagreeable children who grate on us with their selfish, unkind ways, need another sort of oil—the oil of kindness. That will make things go sweetly; so we will write on the blackboard
Do you know what the wheels need to make them run smoothly? They need oil. And the annoying kids who irritate us with their selfish, unkind behavior need another kind of oil—the oil of kindness. That will help things run smoothly; so we will write on the blackboard.
Children need the Oil of Kindness.
Did you know that trees and birds, bees and flowers could be kind to each other? They can; I will tell you how.
Did you know that trees, birds, bees, and flowers can be nice to each other? They can; I’ll tell you how.
See the pretty red cherries growing on that tree. All little children like cherries, and the birds like them too.
See the nice red cherries growing on that tree. All little kids love cherries, and the birds do too.
A little bird comes flying to the cherry tree and asks, "May I have one of these rosy little balls, please?"
A small bird flies over to the cherry tree and asks, "Can I have one of these bright little fruits, please?"
"Yes, little bird," says the cherry tree; "take some, by all means."[25]
"Yes, little bird," says the cherry tree; "go ahead, take some."[25]
So the bird has a nice fruit banquet with the cherries, and then, what do you think he does for the tree?
So the bird has a nice fruit feast with the cherries, and then, what do you think he does for the tree?
"Oh!" you say, "a little bird cannot do anything that would help a big tree." But he can.
"Oh!" you say, "a little bird can't do anything to help a big tree." But he can.
When he has eaten the cherry he drops the stone, and sometimes it sinks into the ground, and from it a young cherry tree springs up. The tree could not do that for itself, so we see that
When he eats the cherry, he drops the pit, and sometimes it sinks into the ground, where a young cherry tree grows from it. The tree couldn't do that on its own, so we see that
Birds and Trees are Kind to Each Other.
When you have been smelling a tiger-lily, has any of the yellow dust ever rested on the tip of your nose? (Let the children see a tiger-lily, or a picture of one, if possible.) Look into the large cup of the lily, and there, deep down, you will see some sweet, delicious juice. What is it for? Ask the bee; she will tell you.
When you've been smelling a tiger lily, has any of the yellow pollen ever settled on the tip of your nose? (Let the kids see a tiger lily, or a picture of one, if you can.) Look into the big cup of the lily, and there, deep down, you'll see some sweet, delicious nectar. What is it for? Ask the bee; she will tell you.
Here she comes, and down goes her long tongue into the flower. "Ah! Mrs. Bee, the honey is for you, I see. And pray, what have you done for the flower? Nothing, I'm afraid."
Here she comes, and down goes her long tongue into the flower. "Ah! Mrs. Bee, the honey is for you, I see. And tell me, what have you done for the flower? Nothing, I'm afraid."
"Oh, yes, I have," hums the bee. "I brought her some flower-dust (pollen) on my back from another tiger-lily that I have been visiting to make her seeds grow. When I dip down into the flower some of the 'dust' clings to me, so I take it to the next tiger-lily that I visit, and she is very much obliged to me."[26]
"Oh, yes, I have," hums the bee. "I brought her some pollen on my back from another tiger lily I visited to help her seeds grow. When I dip into the flower, some of the pollen sticks to me, so I take it to the next tiger lily I visit, and she really appreciates it."[26]
You see, dear children, how the flowers help each other, and how the bee carries messages from one to another; so if
You see, dear children, how the flowers support each other, and how the bee carries messages between them; so if
Birds and Trees, Flowers and Bees are Kind to Each Other,
Much more should Children be Kind.
Do you remember the story of "Lulu and the Wool"? This is a true tale of the same little girl when she was grown older.
Do you remember the story of "Lulu and the Wool"? This is a true story about the same little girl when she got older.
Lulu's home was at the top of a hill, and the road leading up to it was very steep. One summer evening, as Lulu walked home from town, she overtook a woman coming from market, and carrying a heavy basket as well as a bundle which was tied up in a blue checked handkerchief.
Lulu's house was at the top of a hill, and the road leading up to it was really steep. One summer evening, as Lulu walked home from town, she passed a woman coming from the market, who was carrying a heavy basket and a bundle tied up in a blue checked handkerchief.
The poor woman stopped to rest just as Lulu came up to her. "Let me carry your bundle," said Lulu. And before the woman could answer she had picked it up and was trudging along.
The weary woman paused to take a break right when Lulu approached her. "Let me carry your bag," Lulu offered. Before the woman could respond, Lulu had picked it up and was walking off with it.
"Perhaps your mother would not be pleased to see you carrying my bundle?" sighed the woman. "Some people think it is vulgar to be seen carrying parcels."
"Maybe your mom wouldn’t be happy to see you carrying my bag?" sighed the woman. "Some people think it looks tacky to be seen with packages."
"It is never vulgar to be kind," answered Lulu. "That is what mother would say." So they walked on until they came to the cottage, and Lulu left the grateful woman at her own door, and forgot all about it.
"It’s never tacky to be kind," Lulu replied. "That’s what my mom would say." They continued walking until they reached the cottage, and Lulu left the thankful woman at her door, then forgot all about it.
Some years after, Lulu had been away from home, and, missing her train, she returned laden with parcels one dark,[27] wet night. There was no one to meet her, no one to help to carry her parcels, and the rain was pouring down. She hurried outside to look for a cab, but there was not one to be had, so she began to walk up the hill. After going a very little way she stopped to rest, the parcels were so heavy; and just then a man came up and said: "Give me your parcels, miss, they seem too heavy for you". And Lulu, astonished, handed them to him. He carried them to the door of her mother's house, and hardly waited to hear the grateful thanks Lulu would have poured out.
Some years later, Lulu had been away from home, and after missing her train, she came back loaded with bags on a dark, wet night. Nobody was there to meet her, no one to help carry her bags, and the rain was pouring down. She hurried outside to look for a taxi, but there wasn’t one available, so she started walking up the hill. After going just a short distance, she stopped to take a break since the bags were so heavy; and just then, a man approached and said, "Let me take your bags, miss, they look too heavy for you." Surprised, Lulu handed them over to him. He carried them to the door of her mother’s house and barely waited to hear the grateful thanks Lulu would’ve given him.
Have you ever heard these words: "Give, and it shall be given unto you". I think they came true in this little story. Do not you?
Have you ever heard these words: "Give, and it shall be given unto you"? I think they are proven true in this little story. Don't you?
Let us all try to build a good deal of the "pure gold" of Kindness into our "Temple".
Let’s all work on building a lot of the "pure gold" of Kindness into our "Temple".
VII. THOUGHTFULNESS.
If you place your hand on your head you will feel something hard just beneath the hair. What is it? It is bone. Pass your hand all over your head and you will still feel the bone. It is called the skull, and it covers up a wonderful thing called the brain, with which we think, and learn, and remember.
If you put your hand on your head, you'll feel something hard just underneath your hair. What is it? It's bone. Move your hand all over your head, and you'll still feel the bone. It's called the skull, and it protects an amazing thing called the brain, which helps us think, learn, and remember.
A little baby girl was toddling about the room one afternoon while her mother sat sewing. The baby was a year and a half old. She had only just learned to walk, and could not talk much, but she had begun to think. Presently she noticed a little stool under the table, and[28] after a great deal of trouble she managed to get it out. Can you guess what she wanted it for? (Let children try to answer.) She wanted it for mother's feet to rest upon. Elsie could not say this, but she dragged the stool until it was close to her mother, and then she patted it, and said "Mamma," which meant, "Put your feet on it".
A little baby girl was walking around the room one afternoon while her mother sat sewing. The baby was a year and a half old. She had just learned to walk and couldn’t talk much, but she had started to think. Soon, she noticed a small stool under the table, and [28] after a lot of effort, she managed to pull it out. Can you guess what she wanted it for? (Let the children try to answer.) She wanted it for her mother to put her feet on. Elsie couldn’t say this, but she dragged the stool close to her mother, then patted it and said "Mamma," which meant, "Put your feet on it."
Was not that a sweet, kind thing for a one-year-old baby to do? You see she was learning to think—to think for others, and you will not be surprised to hear that she grew up to be a kind, helpful girl, and was so bright and happy that her mother called her "Sunshine".
Wasn't that a sweet, kind thing for a one-year-old to do? You see, she was learning to think—think about others—and you won't be surprised to hear that she grew up to be a kind, helpful girl, and was so bright and happy that her mom called her "Sunshine."
If any one asked me what kind of child I liked best, I believe the answer would be this: "A child who is thoughtful of others"; for a child who thinks of others will not be rude, or rough, or unkind. Who was it slammed the door when mother had a headache? It was a child who did not think. Who left his bat lying across the garden path so that baby tumbled over it and got a great bump on his little forehead? It was thoughtless Jimmy. Do not be thoughtless, dear children, for you cannot help hurting people, if you are thoughtless; and we are in the world to make it happy, not to hurt. Thoughtfulness is a lovely jewel; let us all try to build it into our "Temple".
If someone asked me what kind of child I liked best, I’d say it’s this: "A child who cares about others"; because a child who thinks of others won’t be rude, rough, or unkind. Who was it that slammed the door when mom had a headache? It was a child who wasn’t thinking. Who left his bat lying across the garden path so that the baby tripped over it and got a big bump on his little forehead? It was careless Jimmy. Don’t be careless, dear kids, because you can’t help but hurt people if you are; and we’re here to make the world happy, not to hurt. Thoughtfulness is a beautiful gem; let’s all try to build it into our "Temple".
A great soldier, Sir Ralph Abercromby, had been wounded in battle, and was dying. As they carried him on board the ship in a litter a soldier's blanket was rolled up and placed beneath his head for a pillow to ease his pain. "Whose blanket is this?" asked he.[29]
A brave soldier, Sir Ralph Abercromby, had been injured in battle and was dying. As they brought him on board the ship on a stretcher, a soldier's blanket was rolled up and placed under his head to help ease his pain. "Whose blanket is this?" he asked.[29]
One of the soldiers answered that it only belonged to one of the men. "But I want to know the name of the man," said Sir Ralph. He was then told that the man's name was Duncan Roy, and he said: "Then see that Duncan Roy gets his blanket this very night".
One of the soldiers replied that it only belonged to one of the men. "But I want to know the name of the man," said Sir Ralph. He was then told that the man's name was Duncan Roy, and he said, "Then make sure Duncan Roy gets his blanket tonight."
You see how thoughtful he was for the other man's comfort, so thoughtful that he did not wish to keep Duncan's blanket even though he himself was dying. Is it not true that "thoughtfulness" is one of the most beautiful of the precious stones that you build with.
You see how considerate he was of the other man's comfort, so considerate that he didn’t want to keep Duncan's blanket even though he was dying himself. Isn’t it true that "thoughtfulness" is one of the most beautiful of the precious qualities that you build with?
Be Thoughtful.
VIII. HELP ONE ANOTHER.
A cat and a parrot lived in the same house, and were very kind and friendly towards each other. One evening there was no one in the kitchen except the bird and the cat. The cook had gone upstairs, leaving a bowl full of dough to rise by the fire. Before long the cat rushed upstairs, mewing and making signs for the cook to come down, then she jumped up and seized her apron, and tried to pull her along. What could be the matter, what had happened? Cook went downstairs to see, and there was poor Polly shrieking, calling out, flapping her wings, and struggling with all her[30] might "up to her knees" in dough, and stuck quite fast. Of course the cook lifted the parrot out, and cleaned the dough from her legs, but if pussy had not been her kind friend, and run for help, she would have sunk farther and farther into the dough, and perhaps in the end would have been smothered.
A cat and a parrot lived in the same house and were very kind and friendly toward each other. One evening, the only ones in the kitchen were the bird and the cat. The cook had gone upstairs, leaving a bowl full of dough to rise by the fire. Before long, the cat raced upstairs, meowing and signaling for the cook to come down. Then she jumped up and grabbed her apron, trying to pull her along. What could be wrong? The cook went downstairs to check, and there was poor Polly shrieking, calling out, flapping her wings, and struggling with all her might, "up to her knees" in dough, stuck fast. Of course, the cook lifted the parrot out and cleaned the dough from her legs, but if the kitty hadn’t been her kind friend and fetched help, she would have sunk deeper and deeper into the dough and might have ended up smothered.
If a Cat can Help a Bird, surely Boys and Girls
should Help Each Other.
A ship that was crossing the sea had two monkeys on board; one of them was larger and older than the other, though she was not the mother of the younger one. Now it happened one day that the little monkey fell overboard, and the bigger one was immediately very much excited. She had a cord tied round her waist, with which she had been fastened up, and what do you think she did? She scrambled down the outside of the ship, until she came to a ledge, then she held on to the ship with one hand, and with the other she held out the cord to the poor little monkey that was struggling in the water. Was not she a clever, thoughtful, kind monkey? The cord was just a little too short, so one of the sailors threw out a longer rope, which the little monkey grasped, and by this means she was brought safely on board.
A ship sailing across the sea had two monkeys on board; one was older and bigger than the other, even though she wasn't the younger one's mother. One day, the little monkey fell overboard, and the bigger monkey got really worried. She had a cord tied around her waist from when she was secured, and guess what she did? She climbed down the outside of the ship until she reached a ledge, then she held onto the ship with one hand and extended the cord to the struggling little monkey in the water. Wasn't she a smart, caring, and kind monkey? The cord was just a bit too short, so one of the sailors threw out a longer rope, which the little monkey grabbed, and with that, she was safely brought back on board.
You will remember the story of the monkey, who tried to save her little friend, and remember, also, that
You will remember the story of the monkey who tried to save her little friend, and remember too that
Children should Help One Another.
There is a beautiful story about birds helping each other in a book[6] which you must read for yourselves when you grow older.
There’s a lovely story about birds supporting one another in a book[6] that you should read for yourselves when you get older.
One day a man was out with his gun, and shot a sea-bird, called a tern, which fell wounded into the sea, near the water's edge. The man stood and waited until the wind should blow the bird near enough for him to reach it, when, to his surprise, he saw two other terns fly down to the poor wounded bird and take hold of him, one at each wing, lift him out of the water, and carry him seawards. Two other terns followed, and when the first two had carried him a few yards and were tired, they laid him down gently and the next two picked him up, and so they went on carrying him in turns until they reached a rock a good way off, where they laid him down. The sportsman then made his way to the rock, but when they saw him coming, a whole swarm of terns came together, and just before he reached the place, two of them again lifted up the wounded bird and bore him out to sea. The man was near enough to have hindered this if he had wished, but he was so pleased to see the kindness of the birds that he would not take the poor creature from them.
One day, a man was out with his gun and shot a seabird called a tern, which fell injured into the sea near the shore. The man stood and waited for the wind to blow the bird close enough for him to reach it. To his surprise, he saw two other terns fly down to the wounded bird and grab hold of him, one at each wing, lifting him out of the water and carrying him out to sea. Two more terns followed, and when the first two had carried him a short distance and got tired, they gently laid him down and the next two picked him up. They continued taking turns carrying him until they reached a rock a good way off, where they placed him down. The sportsman then made his way to the rock, but when the terns saw him coming, a whole flock gathered together, and just before he reached the spot, two of them lifted the injured bird and took him out to sea again. The man was close enough to stop this if he wanted to, but he was so happy to witness the birds' kindness that he didn't take the poor creature from them.
So we have learnt another lesson from the birds, and will write it down.
So we’ve learned another lesson from the birds, and we’ll write it down.
Birds helped the Wounded Tern; we should Help Each Other.
IX. ON BEING BRAVE.
26. How Leonard Saved his Little Brother.
Have you ever known a little girl who cried whenever her face was washed? or a little boy who screamed each time he had a tumble, although he might not be hurt in the least? You would not call those brave children, would you? We say that people are brave when they are not afraid to face danger, like the men who go out in the life-boat when the sea is rough to try and save a crew from shipwreck; or the brave firemen who rescue the inmates of a burning house. Perhaps you think it is only grown-up people who can be brave, but that is not so; little children can be brave also, as you will see from this story of a little boy, about whom we read in the papers not long ago, and who lived not far from London. Some children were playing near a pool, when, by some means, one of them, a little boy named Arthur, three years old, fell in. All the children, except one, ran away. (They were not brave, were they?) The one who remained was little Arthur's brother, Leonard. He was only five years old, but he[33] had a brave heart, and he went into the water at once, although he could not see Arthur, who had fallen on his back under the water, and was too frightened to get up. Leonard had seen where he fell, and though he did not know how deep the water was, he walked in, lifted his little brother up, and pulled him out. It was all done much more quickly than I have told you. If Leonard had run away to fetch some one, instead of doing what he could himself, his brother must have been drowned, because he was fast in the mud. I am sure you will say that Leonard was a brave little boy, and we should not think that he cries when he is washed, or when he has a little tumble. Leonard teaches us to
Have you ever known a little girl who cried every time her face was washed? Or a little boy who yelled whenever he fell, even if he wasn’t hurt at all? You wouldn’t call those kids brave, would you? We say someone is brave when they aren’t afraid to confront danger, like the men who go out in a lifeboat during a storm to try to save a crew from a shipwreck, or the heroic firefighters who rescue people from a burning building. You might think only adults can be brave, but that’s not true; little kids can be brave too, as you’ll see from this story about a little boy we read about in the papers not long ago, who lived not far from London. Some kids were playing near a pool when, for some reason, one of them, a three-year-old boy named Arthur, fell in. All the kids, except for one, ran away. (They weren’t brave, were they?) The one who stayed was Arthur's brother, Leonard. He was only five years old, but he[33] had a brave heart, and he jumped into the water right away, even though he couldn’t see Arthur, who had fallen on his back underwater and was too scared to come up. Leonard saw where he fell, and even though he didn’t know how deep the water was, he walked in, picked his little brother up, and pulled him out. It all happened much faster than I’m telling you. If Leonard had run away to get someone instead of doing what he could himself, his brother would have drowned because he was stuck in the mud. I’m sure you’ll agree that Leonard was a brave little boy, and we shouldn’t think that he cries when he gets his face washed or when he falls down. Leonard teaches us to
Be Brave in Danger.
27. The Twins.
What a fuss some children make when they are hurt ever so little, and if a finger should bleed how dreadfully frightened they are!
What a fuss some kids make when they get hurt even a little, and if a finger starts to bleed, they get so scared!
A lady told me this story of two little twin boys whom she knew. Their names were Bennie and Joey, and they were just two years old.
A woman shared this story about two little twin boys she knew. Their names were Bennie and Joey, and they were only two years old.
One day as they were playing together Bennie cut his finger, and the blood came out in little drops. Now, the twins had never seen blood before, and you will think, maybe, that Bennie began to cry; but he did not. He looked at his finger and said: "Oh! Joey, look! what is[34] this?" "Don't know," said Joey, shaking his head. Then they both watched the bleeding finger for a little, and at last Bennie said: "I know, Joey; it is gravy". He had seen the gravy in the meat, and he thought this was something like it. Anyhow, it was better than crying and making a fuss, do you not think?
One day while they were playing together, Bennie cut his finger, and blood dripped out in tiny drops. The twins had never seen blood before, and you might think that Bennie started to cry; but he didn’t. He looked at his finger and said, "Oh! Joey, look! What is [34] this?" "I don’t know," Joey replied, shaking his head. Then they both stared at the bleeding finger for a bit, and eventually, Bennie said, "I know, Joey; it’s gravy." He had seen gravy on the meat and thought this looked similar. Anyway, it was better than crying and making a fuss, don’t you think?
Be Brave in Little Things.
28. The Broken Arm.
It was recreation time, and the boys were pretending to play football, when a boy of six, named Robin, had an awkward fall and broke his arm. The teacher bound it up as well as she could, and Robin did not cry, though the poor arm must have pained him. He walked quietly through the streets with the teacher, who took him to the doctor to have the broken bone set, and when the doctor pulled his arm straight out to get the bones in place before he bound it up, Robin gave one little cry; that was all. He is now a grown-up man, but the teacher still remembers how brave he was when his arm was broken, and feels proud of her pupil.
It was playtime, and the boys were pretending to play football when a six-year-old boy named Robin had an awkward fall and broke his arm. The teacher wrapped it up as best as she could, and even though his arm must have hurt him, Robin didn’t cry. He walked calmly through the streets with the teacher, who took him to the doctor to have the broken bone set. When the doctor straightened his arm to align the bones before wrapping it up, Robin let out just one small cry; that was all. Now he’s a grown man, but the teacher still remembers how brave he was when he broke his arm and feels proud of her student.
Be Brave in Suffering.
Did you ever hear of a monkey having toothache? There was a monkey once who lived in a cage in some gardens in London, and he had a very bad toothache, which made a large swelling on his face. The poor creature was in such great pain that a dentist was sent for. (A dentist, tell the children, is a man who attends to teeth.) When the monkey was taken out of the cage he struggled, but as soon as the dentist placed his hand on the spot he was quite still. He laid his head down so that the dentist might look at his bad tooth, and then he allowed him to take it out without making any fuss whatever. There was a little girl once who screamed and struggled dreadfully when she was taken to have her hair cut, and that, you know, does not hurt at all. Let us learn from the monkey, as we did from Robin, to
Did you ever hear of a monkey having a toothache? There was a monkey once who lived in a cage in some gardens in London, and he had a really bad toothache that caused a big swelling on his face. The poor creature was in so much pain that a dentist was called. (A dentist, tell the kids, is someone who takes care of teeth.) When the monkey was taken out of the cage, he struggled, but as soon as the dentist touched the sore spot, he became completely still. He rested his head down so the dentist could check his bad tooth, and then he let him pull it out without making any fuss at all. There was a little girl once who screamed and struggled horribly when she was taken to have her hair cut, and that, you know, doesn’t hurt at all. Let us learn from the monkey, as we did from Robin, to
Be Brave in Suffering.
X. TRY, TRY AGAIN.
A sparrow was one day flying over a road when he saw lying there a long strip of rag.
A sparrow was flying over a road one day when he saw a long strip of rag lying there.
"Ah!" said he, "that would be nice for the nest we are building; I will take it home." So he picked up one end[36] in his beak and flew away with it, but the wind blew the long streamer about his wings, and down he came, tumbling in the dust. Soon he was up again, and, after giving himself a little shake, he took the rag by the other end and mounted in the air. But again it entangled his wings, and he was soon on the ground. Next he seized it in the middle, but now there were two loose ends, and he was entangled more quickly than before.
"Ah!" he said, "that would be great for the nest we're building; I’ll take it home." So he picked it up by one end[36] in his beak and flew away with it, but the wind whipped the long strip around his wings, and he fell, landing in the dust. He quickly got back up, shook himself off, and grabbed the rag by the other end, taking to the air once more. But once again it got caught in his wings, and he was back on the ground. Next, he grabbed it in the middle, but now there were two loose ends, and he got tangled even faster than before.
Then he stopped to think for a minute, and looked at the rag as much as to say: "What shall I do with you next"? An idea struck him. He hopped up to the rag, and with his beak and claws rolled it into a nice little ball. Then he drove his beak into it, shook his head once or twice to make sure that the ends were fast, and flew away in triumph.
Then he paused to think for a moment and glanced at the rag as if to say, "What should I do with you now?" An idea came to him. He jumped over to the rag and, using his beak and claws, rolled it into a neat little ball. Then he drove his beak into it, shook his head a couple of times to ensure everything was secure, and flew away triumphantly.
Remember the sparrow and the rag, and
Remember the sparrow and the rag, and
Do not be Beaten, but Try, Try Again.
If you had been a little child a hundred years ago, instead of now, and had wished to travel to the seaside or any other place, do you know how you would have got there? You would have had to travel in a coach, for there were no trains in those days. I am afraid the little children who lived then did not get to the seashore as often as you do, unless they lived near it, for it cost so much money to ride in the coaches. How is it that we have trains now?
If you had been a little kid a hundred years ago instead of now and wanted to travel to the beach or anywhere else, do you know how you would have gotten there? You would have had to take a coach because there were no trains back then. I’m afraid the little kids who lived then didn't get to the seaside as often as you do, unless they lived nearby, since it cost so much to ride in coaches. How is it that we have trains now?
There was a man called George Stephenson—a poor man[37] he was; he did not even know how to read until he went to a night school when he was eighteen years old, but he worked and worked at the steam-engine until he had made one that could draw a train along. So you see that because this man and others tried and tried again, all those years ago, we have the nice, quick trains to take us to the seaside cheaply, and to other places as well. Like the sparrow, George Stephenson teaches us to
There was a man named George Stephenson—a poor man[37] who didn’t even learn to read until he attended night school at eighteen. But he kept working on steam engines until he created one that could pull a train. So you see, because this man and others persisted through the years, we now have nice, fast trains that can take us to the seaside affordably, among other places. Like the sparrow, George Stephenson reminds us to
Try, Try Again.
A long, long time ago the people in this country did not even know there was such a place as America; it was another "try, try again" man that found it out. His name was Christopher Columbus, and he thought there must be a country on the other side of that great ocean, if he could only get across. But it would take a good ship, and sailors, and money, and he had none of these. He was in a country called Spain, and he asked the king and queen to help him, but for a great while they did not. However, he waited and never gave it up, and at last the queen said he should go, and off he started with two or three ships and a number of sailors.
A long time ago, people in this country didn’t even know America existed; it was another persistent man who discovered it. His name was Christopher Columbus, and he believed there was a land on the other side of the vast ocean, if only he could get across. But he needed a good ship, sailors, and funding, and he had none of these. He was in a place called Spain, and he asked the king and queen for help, but for a long time they didn’t respond. However, he waited and never gave up, and eventually the queen agreed to support him, so he set off with a couple of ships and a crew of sailors.
It was more than two months before the new land appeared, and sometimes the sailors were afraid when it was very stormy, and wanted to turn back, but Columbus encouraged them to go on, and at last they saw the land. They all went on shore, and the first thing they did was[38] to kneel down and thank God for bringing them safe to land; then they kissed the ground for very gladness, and wept tears of joy.
It was over two months before they spotted new land, and sometimes the sailors were scared during the storms and wanted to turn back, but Columbus urged them to keep going, and eventually, they saw land. They all went ashore, and the first thing they did was[38] kneel down and thank God for bringing them safely to land; then they kissed the ground out of joy and cried tears of happiness.
When Columbus came home again, bringing gold, and cotton, and wonderful birds from the new country, he was received with great rejoicing by the king and queen and all the people. Do not forget this lesson:—
When Columbus returned home, bringing gold, cotton, and amazing birds from the new lands, he was welcomed with much celebration by the king, queen, and everyone else. Don't forget this lesson:—
Try, Try Again.
XI. PATIENCE.
Walter was busy doing his home lessons; he wanted to get them finished quickly, so that he could join his playmates at a game of cricket before it was time to go to bed. He was nearly at the end, and the page was just as neat as it could be—for Walter worked very carefully—when, in turning the paper over, he gave the pen which was in his hand a sharp jerk, and a great splash of ink fell in the very middle of the neat, clean page.
Walter was busy with his homework; he wanted to finish it quickly so he could join his friends for a game of cricket before bedtime. He was almost done, and the page was as neat as it could be—Walter worked very carefully—when, as he flipped the paper over, he gave the pen in his hand a sudden jerk, and a big splash of ink landed right in the middle of the neat, clean page.
"Oh, dear!" cried Walter, "all my work is wasted. I shall get no marks for this lesson unless I write it all over again; and I wanted so much to go out and have a game." However, he was a brave boy, and his mother was glad to notice that he set to work quietly, and soon had it written over again. When bedtime came, she said: "Walter, your[39] accident with the ink made me think of a story. Shall I tell it to you?"
"Oh no!" exclaimed Walter, "all my work is ruined. I won’t get any points for this lesson unless I redo it all; and I really wanted to go out and play a game." However, he was a brave kid, and his mom was happy to see that he started working quietly and soon had it rewritten. When bedtime came, she said: "Walter, your[39] ink accident made me think of a story. Do you want me to tell it to you?"
"Oh, yes, mother! please do," said Walter, for he loved stories.
"Oh, yes, mom! Please do," said Walter, because he loved stories.
"There was once a gentleman (Audubon) in America," said his mother, "who was very fond of studying birds. He would go out in the woods to watch them, and he also made sketches of them, and worked so hard that he had nearly a thousand of these drawings, which, of course, he valued very much. One time he was going away from home for some months, and before he went he collected all his precious drawings together, put them carefully in a wooden box, and gave them to a relative to take care of until he came back.
"There was once a man named Audubon in America," said his mother, "who really loved studying birds. He would go out into the woods to observe them, and he also made sketches of them. He worked so diligently that he almost had a thousand of these drawings, which he valued greatly. One time, he was leaving home for a few months, and before he left, he gathered all his precious drawings, placed them carefully in a wooden box, and entrusted them to a relative to take care of until he returned."
"The time went by and he returned, and soon after asked for the box containing his treasures. The box was there, but what do you think? Two rats had found their way into it, and had made a home there for their young ones, and the beautiful drawings were all gnawed until nothing was left but tiny scraps of paper. You can guess how dreadfully disappointed the poor man would feel. But he tells us that in a few days he went out to the woods and began his drawings again as gaily as if nothing had happened; and he was pleased to think that he might now make better drawings than before. It was nearly three years before he had made up for what the rats had eaten. This man must have possessed the precious jewel of patience. Do you not think so?"
"The time passed, and he came back, and shortly after, he asked for the box with his treasures. The box was there, but guess what? Two rats had gotten into it and made a home for their babies, and all the beautiful drawings were chewed up until there was nothing left but tiny scraps of paper. You can imagine how incredibly disappointed he must have felt. But he tells us that within a few days, he went out to the woods and started his drawings again with as much joy as if nothing had happened; he was happy to think that he could now create even better drawings than before. It took nearly three years for him to replace what the rats had eaten. This man must have had the invaluable quality of patience. Don’t you think so?"
"What is patience, mother?" asked Walter.
"What is patience, mom?" asked Walter.
"The little Scotch girl said it meant 'wait a wee, and no weary,'" said his mother; "and I think that is a very good[40] meaning. It is like saying that we must wait, and do the work over again, if necessary, without getting vexed or worried."
"The little Scottish girl said it meant 'wait a bit, and don't be tired,'" said his mother; "and I think that’s a really good[40] meaning. It’s like saying that we need to wait and redo the work if we have to, without getting upset or stressed."
Patience is a good "stone" to have in the Temple of Character.
Patience is a valuable "stone" to have in the Temple of Character.
Wait, don’t be weary.
XII. ON GIVING IN.
You have often played at keeping shop, have you not? Winnie and May were very fond of this game, and when it was holiday time they played it nearly every day. One morning they made the "shop" ready as usual; a stool was to be the "counter," and upon this they placed the scales, with all the things they meant to sell. When all was ready, Winnie stood behind the "counter," and said, "I will be the 'shopman'!"
You’ve often pretended to run a store, haven’t you? Winnie and May really loved this game, and during the holidays, they played it almost every day. One morning, they set up the "shop" just like always; a stool was the "counter," and they put the scales and all the items they planned to sell on it. When everything was ready, Winnie stood behind the "counter" and said, "I’ll be the 'shopkeeper'!"
"No!" exclaimed May, "I want to be 'shopman'; let me come behind the 'counter'." But Winnie would not move, then May tried to pull her away, and Winnie pushed May, and in the end both little girls were crying, and the game was spoilt. Were not they foolish?
"No!" shouted May, "I want to be 'shopkeeper'; let me come behind the 'counter'." But Winnie wouldn't budge, so May tried to pull her away, and Winnie pushed back, and in the end, both little girls were crying, and the game was ruined. Weren't they being silly?
How easy it would have been to take it in turns to be "shopman," and that would have been quite fair to both little girls. I am afraid we sometimes forget to be fair in our games. We will tell Winnie and May the story of the two goats.[41]
How simple it would have been to take turns being the "shopkeeper," and that would have been perfectly fair to both little girls. I’m afraid we sometimes forget to be fair in our games. We will share with Winnie and May the story of the two goats.[41]
Perhaps you know that goats like to live on the rocks, and as they have cloven feet (that is, feet that are split up the middle) they can walk in places that would not be at all safe for your little feet.
Perhaps you know that goats like to live on rocky terrain, and since they have split hooves (meaning their feet are divided in the middle), they can navigate areas that wouldn't be safe for your small feet at all.
One day two goats met each other on a narrow ledge of rock where there was not room to pass. Below them was a steep precipice; if they fell down there they would soon be dashed to pieces. How should they manage?
One day, two goats encountered each other on a narrow ledge of rock where there wasn’t enough space to get by. Below them was a steep drop; if they fell, they would quickly be shattered. How would they handle the situation?
It was now that one of the goats did a polite, kind, graceful act.
It was at this moment that one of the goats performed a nice, thoughtful, graceful gesture.
She knelt down on the ledge so that the other goat might walk over her, and when this was done, she rose up and went on her way, so both the goats were safe and unhurt.
She knelt on the ledge so the other goat could walk over her, and once that was done, she got up and continued on her way, so both goats were safe and unharmed.
The goat teaches us a beautiful lesson on "giving in".
The goat teaches us a valuable lesson about "letting go."
The Two Goats,
Sometimes it is Noble to give Way.
XIII. ON BEING GENEROUS.
You will think "generous" is a long word, but the stories will help you to understand what it means.
You might think "generous" is a long word, but the stories will help you understand what it means.
Lilie was staying with her auntie, for her mother had gone on a voyage with father in his ship.
Lilie was staying with her aunt because her mom had gone on a trip with her dad on his ship.
One day Lilie heard a timid little knock at the back door. She ran to open it, and saw standing outside a poor little[42] girl about her own size, with no shoes or stockings on. She asked for a piece of bread, and Lilie's auntie went into the pantry to cut it. While she was away Lilie noticed the little girl's bare feet, and, without thinking, she took off her own shoes and gave them to her.
One day, Lilie heard a soft knock at the back door. She rushed to open it and saw a small, barefoot girl about her size standing outside. The girl asked for a piece of bread, and Lilie's aunt went to the pantry to get some. While she was gone, Lilie noticed the girl's bare feet and, without thinking, took off her own shoes and gave them to her.
When the girl had gone, auntie asked, "Where are your shoes, Lilie?" And she replied, "I gave them to the little girl, auntie. I do not think mother would mind." It would have been better if Lilie had asked auntie before she gave away her shoes; but auntie did not scold her; she only said to herself, "What a generous little soul the child has".
When the girl left, Auntie asked, "Where are your shoes, Lilie?" She replied, "I gave them to the little girl, Auntie. I don't think Mom would mind." It would have been better if Lilie had asked Auntie before giving away her shoes, but Auntie didn’t scold her; she just thought to herself, "What a generous little soul that child is."
Bertie was a rosy-faced, healthy boy. His mother lived in a little cottage in the country, and she was too poor to buy dainties for her child, but the good, plain food he ate was quite enough to make him hearty and strong.
Bertie was a rosy-cheeked, healthy kid. His mom lived in a small cottage in the countryside, and she didn’t have enough money to buy treats for her child, but the wholesome, simple meals he ate were more than enough to keep him hearty and strong.
His usual breakfast was a basin of porridge mixed with milk, and one bright, sunny morning he was sitting on the doorstep, waiting until it should be cool enough for him to eat, when he saw a very poor, old man leaning on the garden gate. Bertie felt sure the old man must be wanting something to eat, he looked so pale and thin, and being a generous-hearted boy, he carried down his basin of porridge to the old man, and asked him to eat it, which he did with great enjoyment, for he was very hungry. I think you will understand now what being Generous means. We may do good by giving away things that are of no use to us, but that is not being generous.
His usual breakfast was a bowl of porridge mixed with milk, and one bright, sunny morning he was sitting on the doorstep, waiting for it to cool down enough for him to eat, when he saw a very poor, old man leaning on the garden gate. Bertie felt sure the old man must be needing something to eat; he looked so pale and thin. Being a kind-hearted boy, he took his bowl of porridge down to the old man and offered it to him, which he enjoyed greatly because he was very hungry. I think you can understand now what it means to be generous. We may do good by giving away things that are of no use to us, but that isn't true generosity.
(Blackboard.)
We are Generous when we go without Things, that Others may have them.
XIV. FORGIVENESS.
One day two dogs had been quarrelling, and when they parted at night, they had not made it up, but went to rest, thinking hard things of each other, I fear. Next day, however, one of the dogs brought a biscuit to the other, and laid it down beside him, as much as to say, "Let us be friends". I think the other dog would be sure to forgive him after that, and we are sure they would both be much happier for being friends once more.
One day, two dogs were fighting, and when they separated at night, they hadn't made up but went to sleep, probably thinking unkind thoughts about each other. The next day, though, one of the dogs brought a biscuit to the other and placed it beside him, as if to say, "Let's be friends." I think the other dog would definitely forgive him after that, and we can be sure they would both be much happier being friends again.
(Blackboard.)
If you Quarrel, make it up again.
XV. GOOD FOR EVIL.
Gladys and Dora were in the same class at school, and when the teacher promised to give a prize for the cleanest, neatest and best-written copy-book, they determined to try and win the prize. Both the little girls wrote their copies very carefully for several days, but by-and-by Gladys grew a little careless, and her copies were not so well written as Dora's. Gladys knew this quite well, and yet she longed for the prize. What should she do? There was only one copy more to be written, and then it would have to be decided[44] who should get the prize. Sad to say, Gladys thought of a very mean way by which she might spoil Dora's chance of it.
Gladys and Dora were in the same class at school, and when the teacher promised a prize for the cleanest, neatest, and best-written notebook, they both decided to try to win it. The two girls wrote their assignments very carefully for several days, but eventually, Gladys became a bit careless, and her work was not as well done as Dora's. Gladys was fully aware of this, yet she still wanted the prize. What could she do? There was only one more assignment to write, and then it would be decided[44] who would win the prize. Unfortunately, Gladys thought of a sneaky way to ruin Dora's chances of getting it.
She went to school one morning very early—no one was there; softly she walked to Dora's desk, and drew out her neat, tidy copy-book, which she opened at the last page, and, taking a pen, she dipped it in ink, and splashed the page all over; then she put it back in the desk, and said to herself, "There, now, the prize will be mine".
She went to school early one morning—no one was there; quietly, she walked to Dora's desk, pulled out her neat, tidy notebook, opened it to the last page, and took a pen. She dipped it in ink and splattered the page all over; then she put it back in the desk and said to herself, "There, now the prize will be mine."
But why does Gladys feel so wretched all at once? A little Voice that you have often heard spoke in her heart, and said, "Oh! Gladys, how mean, how unkind!" and she could not help being miserable.
But why does Gladys feel so terrible all of a sudden? A little Voice that she had often heard spoke in her heart and said, "Oh! Gladys, how petty, how unkind!" and she couldn’t help feeling miserable.
Presently the school assembled, and when the writing lesson came round the teacher said, "Now, girls, take out your copy-books and finish them". Dora drew hers out, and when she opened it and saw the blots her cheeks grew scarlet and her eyes filled with tears. Just then she turned and saw Gladys glancing at her in an ashamed sort of way (as the elephant looked at his driver when he had stolen the cakes—Story Lesson 85), and Dora knew in her heart that it was Gladys who had spoilt her copy-book. But she did not tell any one, not even when the teacher said, "Oh! Dora, what a mess you have made on your nice copy-book!" but she was thinking all the time, and when she went home she said to her mother, "Mamma, may I give my little tin box with the flowers painted on it to Gladys?" "Why, Dora," said her mother, "I thought you were very fond of that pretty box!" "So I am," replied Dora, "that is why I want Gladys to have it; please let me give it to her, mother!" So Dora's mother consented, and next morning Gladys found a small parcel on her desk, with a scrap of paper at the top, on which was written, "Gladys, with love from Dora". Dora was[45] generous, you see; she returned good for evil, and Gladys felt far more sorrow for her fault than she would have done had Dora caused her to be punished. Neither Gladys nor Dora won the prize, but Gladys learnt a lesson that was worth more than many prizes, and Dora had a gladness in her heart that was better than a prize—the gladness that comes from listening to the Good Voice. "Good for Evil" is a beautiful "stone" to have in your Temple.
Currently, the school gathered, and when it was time for the writing lesson, the teacher said, "Alright, girls, take out your notebooks and finish them." Dora pulled hers out, and when she opened it and saw the ink stains, her cheeks turned red and her eyes filled with tears. At that moment, she turned and noticed Gladys looking at her with a sort of embarrassment (like the elephant looked at its driver when he had stolen the cakes—Story Lesson 85), and Dora realized deep down that it was Gladys who had ruined her notebook. But she didn’t tell anyone, even when the teacher remarked, "Oh! Dora, what a mess you've made of your nice notebook!" Instead, she kept thinking about it, and when she got home, she said to her mom, "Mom, can I give my little tin box with the flowers painted on it to Gladys?" "Well, Dora," her mom replied, "I thought you really liked that pretty box!" "I do," Dora responded, "that’s why I want Gladys to have it; please let me give it to her, Mom!" So, Dora's mom agreed, and the next morning, Gladys found a small parcel on her desk with a note on top that read, "Gladys, with love from Dora." Dora was generous, you see; she returned good for wrong, and Gladys felt much more regret for her mistake than she would have if Dora had gotten her in trouble. Neither Gladys nor Dora won the prize, but Gladys learned a lesson that was worth more than many prizes, and Dora felt a joy in her heart that was better than a prize—the joy that comes from listening to the Good Voice. "Good for Evil" is a beautiful "stone" to have in your Temple.
(Blackboard.)
It is Generous to Return Good for Evil.
XVI. GENTLENESS.
Gentleness is a beautiful word, and I daresay you know what it means. When you are helping baby to walk, mother will say, "Be gentle with her," which means, "Do not be rough, do not hurt her". A gentleman is a man who is gentle, who will not hurt.
Gentleness is a lovely word, and I bet you know what it means. When you're helping a baby walk, a mother will say, "Be gentle with her," which means, "Don't be rough, don't hurt her." A gentleman is a man who is gentle, who will not hurt.
Did you ever hear of a horse who could behave like a gentleman? Here is the story.[10]
Did you ever hear of a horse that could act like a gentleman? Here’s the story.[10]
"A horse was drawing a cart along a narrow lane in Scotland when it spied a little child playing in the middle of the road. What do you think the kind, gentle horse did? It took hold of the little child's clothes with its teeth, lifted it up, and laid it gently on the bank at the side of the road, and then it turned its head to see that the cart had not hurt the child in passing. Did not the horse behave like a gentleman?"
"A horse was pulling a cart along a narrow lane in Scotland when it spotted a little child playing in the middle of the road. What do you think the kind, gentle horse did? It grabbed the little child's clothes with its teeth, lifted them up, and gently placed them on the bank at the side of the road. Then, it turned its head to check that the cart hadn’t harmed the child as it passed by. Didn’t the horse act like a gentleman?"
I have seen boys and girls helping the little ones to dress in the cloakroom at school, or leading them carefully down the steps, or carrying the babies over rough places; this is gentleness, and the gentle boy will grow up to be a gentle man.
I have seen kids helping the little ones get dressed in the cloakroom at school, leading them carefully down the steps, or carrying the babies over rough spots; this is kindness, and the kind boy will grow up to be a kind man.
You have seen boys playing the game of "Paper Chase," or, as it is sometimes called, "Hare and Hounds". One or two boys start first, each carrying a bag full of small pieces of paper, which they scatter as they run. Then all the other boys start, and follow the track made by the scattered paper.
You’ve seen boys playing the game “Paper Chase,” also known as “Hare and Hounds.” One or two boys start first, each carrying a bag full of small pieces of paper, which they throw down as they run. Then all the other boys start and follow the trail made by the scattered paper.
A number of boys were starting for a "Paper Chase" one Saturday afternoon, and, passing quickly round a corner of the street, some of them ran against a little fruit stall and overturned it. The apples, pears and plums were all rolling on the ground, and the old woman who belonged to the stall looked at them in dismay. The boys all ran on except one, and he stayed behind to help to put the stall right, and to gather up all the fruit. That boy was gentle and kind, and the poor old woman could not thank him enough.
A group of boys was heading out for a "Paper Chase" one Saturday afternoon, and as they quickly turned a corner, some of them bumped into a small fruit stand and knocked it over. The apples, pears, and plums rolled all over the ground, and the elderly woman who owned the stand looked at the mess in shock. The boys all ran off except for one, who stayed behind to help set the stand back up and collect the fruit. That boy was gentle and kind, and the poor old woman couldn’t thank him enough.
Be kind to the elderly,
Be gentle to the lame, to all—
Because it’s true, I’ve been told,
That gentleness is better far
Than riches, money or gold.
XVII. ON BEING GRATEFUL.
A little girl called Rose had a kind auntie who sent her half a sovereign for a birthday present. Rose was delighted with the money, and was always talking of the many nice things it would buy, but she never thought of writing and thanking her auntie. That was not grateful, was it? When we receive anything, we should always think at once of the giver, and express our thanks without delay. That is why we say "grace" before eating: we wish to thank our kind Father above for giving us the nice food to eat.
A little girl named Rose had a kind aunt who sent her half a sovereign for her birthday. Rose was thrilled with the money and was always talking about the many nice things she could buy, but she never thought about writing and thanking her aunt. That wasn't very grateful, was it? When we receive something, we should always think of the giver right away and express our thanks without delay. That's why we say "grace" before eating: we want to thank our kind Father in heaven for providing us with the nice food to eat.
The days went by, and still auntie received no word of thanks from her little niece. Then a letter came asking, "Has Rosy had my letter with the present?" Rose answered this, and said she had received the letter, and sent many thanks for the present. But how ashamed she must have felt that she had not written before! It is not nice to have to ask people for their thanks or gratitude; it ought to be given freely without asking.
The days passed, and Auntie still hadn’t heard any thank you from her little niece. Then a letter arrived asking, "Has Rosy gotten my letter with the gift?" Rose replied to this, saying she had received the letter and sent many thanks for the gift. But how embarrassed she must have felt that she hadn’t written sooner! It’s not pleasant to have to ask people for their thanks or gratitude; it should be given freely without needing to ask.
Little Vernon's father had a tricycle, and one day he fixed up a seat in front for his little boy, and took him for a nice, long ride.
Little Vernon's dad had a tricycle, and one day he set up a seat in front for his little boy and took him for a nice, long ride.
Vernon sat facing his father, and he was so delighted with the ride, and so grateful to his kind father for bringing him, that he could not help putting his arms round his father's neck sometimes, and giving him a kiss as they went along.[48] Vernon's father told me this himself, and I was glad to know that the little boy possessed this precious gift of gratitude, for it is a lovely "stone" to have in the Temple we are building.
Vernon sat facing his dad, and he was so happy about the ride and so thankful to his kind father for taking him that he couldn't help wrapping his arms around his dad's neck sometimes and giving him a kiss as they went along.[48] Vernon's dad told me this himself, and I was glad to hear that the little boy had this wonderful gift of gratitude, because it's a beautiful "stone" to have in the Temple we're building.
(Blackboard.)
Do not forget to be Grateful for Kindness; and do not forget to Show it.
XVIII. SELF-HELP.
Perhaps you have heard the fable of the crow who was thirsty. He found a pitcher with a little water in it, but he could not get at the water, for the neck of the jug was narrow.
Perhaps you’ve heard the tale of the thirsty crow. He discovered a pitcher with some water in it, but he couldn’t reach the water because the neck of the jug was too narrow.
Did he leave the water and say, "It is of no use to try"? No; he set to work, and found a way out of the difficulty. The crow dropped pebbles into the jug, one by one, and these made the water rise until he could reach it.
Did he leave the water and say, "There's no point in trying"? No; he got to work and figured out a way to solve the problem. The crow dropped pebbles into the jug, one by one, and these made the water rise until he could reach it.
(Illustrate by a tumbler with a few tablespoonfuls of water in it. Drop in some pebbles, and show how the water rises as the pebbles take its place.) If you have a steep hill to climb, or a hard lesson to learn, do not sit down and cry, and think you cannot do it, but be determined that, like the crow, you will master the difficulty. When you were a little, tiny child, your father carried you over the rough places, but as you grow older, you walk over them yourself. You do not want to be carried now, for you are not helpless any longer. But I am afraid there are some children who like to be helpless, and to let mother do everything for[49] them. I once knew a girl of ten who could not tie her own bootlaces; she was helpless. And I knew a little fellow of six who, when his mother was sick, could put on the kettle, and make her a cup of tea; he was a helpful boy.
(Illustrate by a tumbler with a few tablespoons of water in it. Drop in some pebbles, and show how the water rises as the pebbles take its place.) If you have a steep hill to climb or a tough lesson to learn, don’t just sit down and cry, thinking you can’t do it. Instead, be determined that, like the crow, you will overcome the challenge. When you were a little child, your dad carried you over the rough spots, but as you get older, you walk over them yourself. You don’t want to be carried now, because you’re not helpless anymore. But I’m afraid some kids like to be helpless and let their mom do everything for them. I once knew a ten-year-old girl who couldn’t tie her own shoelaces; she was helpless. And I knew a little six-year-old boy who, when his mom was sick, could put on the kettle and make her a cup of tea; he was a helpful boy.
It is brave and nice of boys and girls to help themselves all they can, and not to be beaten by a little difficulty. Remember the Sparrow and the Rag (Story Lesson 30), as well as the Crow, and
It’s courageous and kind of both boys and girls to do their best to help themselves and not let a bit of difficulty get them down. Remember the Sparrow and the Rag (Story Lesson 30), as well as the Crow, and
Do not be Helpless, but Master Difficulty as the Crow did.
XIX. CONTENT.
Do you know what it is to be contented? It is just the opposite of being dissatisfied and unhappy.
Do you know what it means to be content? It’s simply the opposite of being dissatisfied and unhappy.
Little Harold was looking forward to a day in the glen on the morrow, but when the morning came it was wet and cold, and the journey had to be put off. Harold had lots of toys to play with, but he would not touch any of them; he just stood with his face against the window-pane, discontented and unhappy.
Little Harold was excited about spending the day in the glen the next day, but when morning arrived, it was wet and cold, so the trip had to be postponed. Harold had plenty of toys to play with, but he wouldn’t touch any of them; he just stood with his face pressed against the window, feeling discontented and unhappy.
After a time he saw an old man with a stick coming up the street, and a little dog was walking beside him. As they drew nearer, Harold saw that the old man held the dog by a string, and that it was leading him, for he was blind. The discontented little boy began to wonder what it must be like to be blind, and he shut his eyes very tight[50] to try it. How dark it was! he could see nothing. How dreadful to be always in darkness! Then he opened his eyes again, and looked at the old man's face; it was a peaceful, pleasant face. The old man did not look discontented and unhappy, and yet it was far worse to be blind than to be disappointed of a picnic. Harold had yet to learn that it is not outside things that give content, but something within. He could not help being disappointed at the wet day, but he could have made the best of it and played with his toys, as indeed he did after seeing the blind man.
After a while, he noticed an old man with a cane walking up the street, accompanied by a little dog. As they got closer, Harold saw that the old man was holding the dog on a leash, and it was guiding him since he was blind. The unhappy little boy started to wonder what it would be like to be blind, so he shut his eyes tight[50] to find out. It was so dark! He couldn’t see anything. How awful to be always in darkness! Then he opened his eyes again and looked at the old man's face; it was calm and kind. The old man didn’t seem unhappy or discontented, and yet being blind was much worse than missing out on a picnic. Harold still had to learn that it’s not outside circumstances that bring happiness, but something within. He couldn't help feeling disappointed by the rainy day, but he could have made the most of it and played with his toys, which he finally did after seeing the blind man.
(Blackboard.)
Be Content and make the Best of Things.
XX. TIDINESS.
Of all the untidy children you ever saw Leo must have been the worst. His hair was unbrushed, his boots were uncleaned, and the laces were always trailing on the floor. Why did he not learn to tie a bow? (For full instructions, with illustrations, on the "Tying of a bow," see Games Without Music.) It must be very uncomfortable to have one's boots all loose about the ankles, besides looking so untidy.
Of all the messy kids you ever saw, Leo had to be the worst. His hair was a mess, his boots were dirty, and the laces were always dragging on the floor. Why didn't he learn to tie a bow? (For full instructions, with illustrations, on the "Tying of a bow," see Games Without Music.) It must be really uncomfortable to have loose boots around the ankles, not to mention how untidy it looks.
Can you guess how his stockings were? They were all in folds round his legs, instead of being drawn and held up tight, and he had always a button off somewhere. The worst of it was that Leo did not seem to mind being[51] untidy. I hope you are not like that. Do all the little girls love to have smooth, clean pinafores? and do the boys like to have a clean collar and smooth hair? and do all of you keep your hands and faces clean? Then you are like the children in these verses.
Can you imagine how his stockings were? They were all bunched up around his legs instead of being pulled up tight, and he was always missing a button somewhere. The worst part was that Leo didn’t seem to care about being messy. I hope you’re not like that. Do all the little girls enjoy having smooth, clean pinafores? And do the boys like having a clean collar and neat hair? Do all of you keep your hands and faces clean? Then you’re just like the children in these verses.
1. The Tidy Boy:—
The Neat Guy:—
With messy hair,
Nor come to meals with unwashed hands
And face; and he will care.
To have his collar clean and white,
And boots must polished be and bright.
2. The Tidy Girl:—
The Organized Girl:—
She's all nice and clean.
Her pinafore is smooth and straight,
Her hair is as neat as can be;
No wrinkled sock, or untied lace
Does this neat, tidy girl disgrace.
I wonder if you have heard of pussy getting mother's knitting and making it all in a tangle. These are the verses about it:—
I wonder if you've heard about a cat getting into mother's knitting and making it all a mess. These are the verses about it:—
Where are you?—say.
I hardly ever see you.
[52]At all today.
2. "You're not in mischief,
I hope, my dear;
Ah! Now I've found you.
How did you get here?
3. "That's mother's knitting,
You mischievous kid;
Oh! what a mess
You’ve created it.
4. "'Twas that which kept you
So quiet;
Mom will scold you,
"I know she will."
5. Then puss comes to me,
And pets her fur
Against my fingertips,
And says "purr, purr."
6. I know she means it
"Don't yell at me,"
So close in my arms
My cat I hold.
7. And then I tell her,
My small pet,
That mom's knitting
She can't receive.
8. The wool will never
I'm worried, I fear;
But Mom forgives
My dear kitty.
I do not suppose that pussy would know she was doing anything naughty in tangling the wool, but a child would know, of course, that wool must be kept straight and tidy if it is to be of use.[53]
I don’t think that the cat would know she was being bad by getting the wool all tangled, but a child would definitely know that wool needs to be kept neat and organized if it’s going to be useful.[53]
Nellie and Madge were two little girls getting ready to go for a visit to grandmamma. She lived many miles away, and the children were to go by train and stay with her for a whole month.
Nellie and Madge were two little girls getting ready to go visit their grandma. She lived many miles away, and the children were going to take the train and stay with her for an entire month.
Their clothes were all laid on the bed ready for packing, and as mother wanted them to grow up helpful girls, she said they might put the things in the boxes themselves. So Nellie and Madge began to pack. Nellie took each article by itself, and laid it carefully in the box without creasing, putting all the heavier things at the bottom, and the dresses and lighter articles at the top. When she had laid them all in, the lid just closed nicely, and her work was finished.
Their clothes were all laid out on the bed, ready to be packed, and since their mom wanted them to grow up to be helpful girls, she said they could pack the things into the boxes themselves. So Nellie and Madge started to pack. Nellie picked up each item one by one and placed it carefully in the box without creasing anything, putting all the heavier items at the bottom and the dresses and lighter items on top. Once she had arranged everything, the lid closed perfectly, and her job was done.
Then she turned to see what Madge was doing. Madge had not packed more than half her pile, and the box was full. "What shall I do?" she cried, "I cannot get them all in." Just then mamma came up and said: "Have you finished, children? it is nearly train time". Her eyes fell on the box Madge was packing, and she exclaimed, "Oh! Madge, you have put the clothes in anyhow, everything must be taken out!" Madge had just thrown them in "higgledy-piggledy," instead of laying them straight, and they came out a crumpled heap. She was so hot and flurried, and so afraid of being late for the train, that she could hardly keep the tears back, but mamma and Nellie helped to straighten the things, and to pack them neatly, and just as the cab drove up to the door the last frock was laid in the box, and the lid went down without any trouble. Madge remembered to take more pains next time she packed her box.
Then she turned to see what Madge was doing. Madge had only packed about half of her stuff, and the box was full. "What should I do?" she cried, "I can't fit everything in." Just then Mom came over and said, "Have you finished, kids? It's almost time for the train." Her eyes landed on the box Madge was packing, and she exclaimed, "Oh! Madge, you've thrown the clothes in all wrong; everything has to come out!" Madge had just tossed them in "higgledy-piggledy," instead of arranging them neatly, and they came out in a crumpled mess. She was so hot and flustered, and so worried about being late for the train, that she could barely hold back the tears, but Mom and Nellie helped straighten things out and pack them properly, and just as the cab pulled up to the door, the last dress was placed in the box, and the lid closed easily. Madge made a note to be more careful next time she packed her box.
I was in a house one day, and when the lady opened[54] a drawer to get something out, the articles in the drawer bounced up just like a "Jack in the box," because you see, they had been put in anyhow, and then crushed down to allow the drawer to be closed. Of course she could not find what she wanted. I hope none of your drawers are like a "Jack in the box". I wonder if untidy people are lazy? I am afraid they are.
I was at someone's house one day, and when the lady opened[54] a drawer to grab something, the items inside popped up like a "Jack in the box," because they had been shoved in haphazardly and then squished down to close the drawer. Naturally, she couldn't find what she was looking for. I hope none of your drawers are like a "Jack in the box." I wonder if messy people are just lazy? I’m afraid they might be.
A girl came home from school one day, and threw her wet cloak on a chair all in a heap, instead of hanging it up nicely on a peg. When she next wanted to wear the cloak, it was all over creases and not fit to put on. Perhaps she thought that mother would see it on the chair, and hang it up for her, but a nice, thoughtful child would not like to give mother the trouble, would she?
A girl came home from school one day and tossed her wet cloak onto a chair in a heap instead of hanging it up nicely on a peg. When she wanted to wear the cloak again, it was all wrinkled and not ready to put on. Maybe she thought her mom would see it on the chair and hang it up for her, but a caring, considerate child wouldn’t want to put that burden on her mom, right?
(Blackboard.)
Be Tidy and Neat.
XXI. MODESTY.
Two friends were walking along a country road, and as they went on one said: "I do believe there are violets somewhere on this bank, the air smells so sweet". The other lady replied that she did not see any; but, looking carefully, they at last found the leaves, and there, hiding away among them, was the little sweet violet, with its delicious scent.
Two friends were walking along a country road, and as they went on, one said, "I think there are violets somewhere on this bank; it smells so sweet." The other woman replied that she didn't see any, but after looking carefully, they finally found the leaves, and there, hiding among them, was the little sweet violet, with its lovely scent.
Why does the little violet hide away? Because she is modest, which means that she does not like to boast, or[55] make a display of her pretty petals and sweet perfume. Modest people do not like to talk of kind, noble or clever things they may have done; they prefer to hide their good deeds, and in this they are like the violet.
Why does the little violet stay hidden? Because she is modest, which means she doesn’t like to boast or [55] show off her beautiful petals and sweet fragrance. Modest people don’t like to talk about the kind, noble, or clever things they may have done; they prefer to hide their good deeds, and in this, they are like the violet.
There is another way in which children can be modest—they can be modest about dress. A child's dress is not so long as that of a grown-up person, because children want to romp and play about, but a modest child always likes its dress to cover it nicely, and will take care that no buttons are unfastened.
There’s another way that kids can show modesty—they can be modest in how they dress. A child's outfit isn't as long as an adult's because kids want to run around and play, but a modest child always likes their clothes to fit nicely and will make sure that no buttons are undone.
One evening some children were playing about on the hearthrug, when one of them, a little girl named Jessie, jumped up quite suddenly, and, with a blushing face, ran out of the room. The governess followed to see what was the matter, and Jessie told her in a whisper that she was so ashamed, because in romping about her dress had gone above her knees.
One evening, some kids were playing on the carpet when one of them, a little girl named Jessie, suddenly jumped up and, blushing, ran out of the room. The governess followed to see what was wrong, and Jessie whispered to her that she was so embarrassed because while playing around, her dress had gone above her knees.
Some people might say that Jessie was too modest, but I do not think so; a nice little girl will always like to keep her knees covered.
Some people might say that Jessie was too modest, but I don’t think so; a nice girl will always want to keep her knees covered.
In America the children have much longer dresses than in our country, and they would think little girls very rude who were not as careful as Jessie.
In America, children wear much longer dresses than they do in our country, and they would consider little girls very rude if they weren't as careful as Jessie.
You will think for yourselves of many other ways in which children can be modest. It is a good rule never to do anything that we would be ashamed for teacher or mother to see.[56]
You can come up with many other ways for kids to be modest. A good rule is to never do anything you wouldn't want your teacher or mom to see.[56]
XXII. ON GIVING PLEASURE TO OTHERS.
"Selfless" and "Thoughtful" were sisters of the little "Gold-wings" (Story Lesson 1). I cannot tell you which of the two was the sweetest and best; they were both so lovable, for like "Gold-wings" they were always thinking of others, and especially of how they could give pleasure to the sick and weak. One day, as they sat on a mossy bank in the Fairy wood, "Selfless" asked, "What shall we do next, sister?" and "Thoughtful" made answer, "I have been thinking of little Davie, who is so lame and weak; suppose I go to the Kindergarten and try to get some one to be kind to him". "A good idea," replied "Selfless," "and I will fly over the fields and see what can be done there; then in the moonlight we will meet, and tell each other what we have done." So they spread their pretty wings and flew away.
"Selfless" and "Thoughtful" were sisters of the little "Gold-wings" (Story Lesson 1). I can't say which of them was sweeter or better; they were both so lovable, because like "Gold-wings," they were always thinking of others, especially about how to bring joy to the sick and weak. One day, as they sat on a mossy bank in the Fairy woods, "Selfless" asked, "What should we do next, sister?" and "Thoughtful" replied, "I've been thinking about little Davie, who is so lame and weak; how about I go to the Kindergarten and try to find someone to be nice to him?" "That's a great idea," said "Selfless," "and I'll fly over the fields to see what I can do there; then in the moonlight, we'll meet and share what we’ve done." So they spread their lovely wings and flew away.
Now it is night in the Fairy wood, and in the silver moonlight the sisters rest again on the mossy bank and talk.
Now it’s night in the Fairy wood, and in the silver moonlight, the sisters rest once more on the mossy bank and chat.
"I flew to the Kindergarten," said "Thoughtful," "you know Davie used to attend there before he was ill. Of course no one saw me, and as I hovered over the teacher's desk, little Bessie, a rosy-cheeked maid, came up and laid a lovely bunch of crimson roses upon it for the teacher.[57] The scent was so delicious I could not help nestling down into one of the roses to enjoy it better. The teacher picked up the flowers, not knowing I was there, and as she buried her face in the soft petals, to smell the sweet perfume, I whispered 'Send them to Davie'."
"I flew to the Kindergarten," said "Thoughtful." "You know Davie used to go there before he got sick. Of course, no one saw me, and while I hovered over the teacher's desk, little Bessie, a rosy-cheeked girl, came up and placed a beautiful bunch of red roses on it for the teacher.[57] The smell was so amazing that I couldn’t help but snuggle into one of the roses to enjoy it more. The teacher picked up the flowers without realizing I was there, and as she buried her face in the soft petals to breathe in the sweet fragrance, I whispered, 'Send them to Davie.'"
"A smile instantly came over her face, and she said: 'Bessie, a good fairy has whispered a kind thought to me; shall we send your pretty roses to Davie?'"
"A smile instantly appeared on her face, and she said: 'Bessie, a good fairy just shared a nice idea with me; should we send your lovely roses to Davie?'"
"'Oh! yes,' said Bessie, 'please let me take them to him with your love, for I gave them to you."
"'Oh! yes,' Bessie said, 'please let me take them to him with your love, because I gave them to you.'"
"So the roses were taken to Davie, and how happy they made him to be sure! and the teacher was happy because she had remembered poor Davie, and Bessie was happy to carry the flowers to him, so I came away glad, also; but what have you done, dear sister?"
"So the roses were taken to Davie, and they made him so happy! The teacher was happy because she had thought of poor Davie, and Bessie was happy to bring the flowers to him, so I left feeling glad too; but what have you done, dear sister?"
Then "Selfless" answered:—
Then "Selfless" replied:—
"I flew away over the fields, and there I saw a little boy, dressed all in his best clothes, speeding away across the field-path, and I knew that he was going to a birthday party, and that he was walking quickly so as to be in time; for there was to be a lovely birthday cake, all iced over with sugar; and little pieces of silver, called threepenny pieces, had been scattered through the cake, so of course Edwin wanted to be there when it was cut up.
"I flew over the fields, and there I saw a little boy, dressed in his best clothes, rushing across the path. I knew he was heading to a birthday party, walking quickly to make it on time; there was going to be a beautiful birthday cake, all covered in icing; and little bits of silver, called threepenny pieces, had been sprinkled through the cake, so of course Edwin wanted to be there when it was cut."
"I saw a little girl in the fields, also, walking along the hedges looking for blackberries, and in trying to reach a branch of the ripe fruit that grew on the farther side of a ditch, the poor child overbalanced herself and fell in, uttering a loud scream.[58]
"I saw a little girl in the fields, walking along the hedges looking for blackberries. While trying to reach a branch of the ripe fruit that grew on the other side of a ditch, the poor child lost her balance and fell in, letting out a loud scream.[58]
"Edwin heard the scream and said to himself, 'I wonder what that is? I should like to go and see, but oh, dear! it will perhaps make me late for the party'. Then the Bad Voice spoke to him, and said, 'Never mind the scream; hurry on to the party," and Edwin hurried on, but his cheeks grew hot, and he looked unhappy.
Edwin heard the scream and thought, 'I wonder what that is? I'd like to go check it out, but oh no! It might make me late for the party.' Then the Bad Voice whispered to him, saying, 'Forget about the scream; just rush to the party,' and Edwin hurried on, but his cheeks flushed, and he looked upset.
"Soon the child screamed again, and the Good Voice said, 'Help! Edwin, never mind self,' and with that he turned back, and ran to the place where the sounds had seemed to come from. He soon saw the little girl, who was trying to scramble up the steep side of the ditch, and could not; it needed the help of Edwin's strong hands to give her a good pull, and bring her safely out. Oh, how glad she was to be on the grass once more! Edwin wiped her tears away, and told her to run home; then he made haste to the party with a light, glad heart, and he arrived just as they were sitting down to tea, so he was in time for the cake after all. But even if he had missed it, he would have been glad that he stayed behind to help the little girl."
"Soon the child screamed again, and the Good Voice said, 'Help! Edwin, don't worry about yourself,' and with that, he turned back and ran to where the sounds had come from. He quickly spotted the little girl, who was trying to climb up the steep side of the ditch but couldn’t; she needed Edwin's strong hands to give her a good pull and bring her to safety. Oh, how happy she was to be back on the grass! Edwin wiped her tears away and told her to run home; then he hurried back to the group with a light, joyful heart, arriving just as they were sitting down for tea, so he was just in time for the cake after all. But even if he had missed it, he would have been glad he stayed behind to help the little girl."
"What a nice boy," said "Thoughtful". "Did he tell the people at the party what he had done?"
"What a nice guy," said "Thoughtful." "Did he tell the people at the party what he did?"
"Oh, no," replied "Selfless"; "his mother told him that people should never boast of kind things they had done, for that would spoil it."
"Oh, no," replied "Selfless"; "his mom told him that people should never brag about the good things they've done, because that would ruin it."
"True," said "Thoughtful"; "but what did you do, dear "Selfless"? It is not boasting to tell me."
"True," said "Thoughtful"; "but what did you do, dear "Selfless"? It’s not bragging to share me."
"I only helped Edwin to listen to the Good Voice," replied "Selfless," as she looked down on the moss at her feet.
"I just helped Edwin listen to the Good Voice," replied "Selfless," as she looked down at the moss beneath her feet.
"A good work, too," said "Thoughtful"; "and now, what shall we do next?"[59]
"A good piece of work, too," said "Thoughtful"; "so, what should we do next?"[59]
"I have been thinking," said "Selfless," "that Christmas will soon be here, and how nice it would be if we could help the children at the Kindergarten to think of Davie, and make ready a Christmas present for him."
"I've been thinking," said "Selfless," "that Christmas will be here soon, and how great it would be if we could help the kids at the Kindergarten to remember Davie and prepare a Christmas gift for him."
"A lovely idea," said "Thoughtful "; "we will go to-morrow, for it wants only a month to Christmas."
"A lovely idea," said "Thoughtful "; "we'll go tomorrow, since there’s only a month left until Christmas."
Next morning the two fairy sisters came to the Kindergarten, and floated about unseen, as fairies always do. First they rested on the teacher, who was very fond of these unseen fairies, and she began to think of Davie. "Children," said she, "Christmas will be here in a month; shall we make a present for little Davie?"
Next morning, the two fairy sisters arrived at the Kindergarten and moved around unnoticed, just like fairies do. First, they settled on the teacher, who really loved having these unseen fairies around, and she started thinking about Davie. "Kids," she said, "Christmas is just a month away; should we make a gift for little Davie?"
(Do you know, I believe that doing kind things is like going to parties; when you have been to one party, you like it so much that you are glad to go to another, and when you have done one kind thing, it makes you so happy you want to do another.)
(Do you know, I think doing kind things is like going to parties; when you've been to one party, you enjoy it so much that you're excited to go to another, and when you've done one kind thing, it makes you so happy that you want to do another.)
Bessie was the first to answer, and she said, "Oh, yes, it would be lovely to make a Christmas present for Davie; do let us try". And all the children said, "Yes, do let us try".
Bessie was the first to respond, and she said, "Oh, yes, it would be great to make a Christmas gift for Davie; let's give it a shot." And all the kids chimed in, "Yes, let’s give it a shot."
"It must be something made by your own little hands," said the teacher. "Think now, what could you do?"
"It has to be something you made with your own hands," said the teacher. "Think about it, what can you create?"
"We could make some little 'boats'[12] in paperfolding," said one child. Teacher said that would do nicely, and she wrote it down.
"We could make some little 'boats'[12] out of paper," said one child. The teacher said that would be great, and she wrote it down.
Another child said, "I could sew a 'cat' in the embroidery lesson," and Bessie exclaimed, "Please let me sew a 'kitten' to go with it," and the teacher wrote that down, and remarked[60] that some one else might make the "saucer" for pussy's milk, in pricking. Then others might make a "nest"[13] in clay with eggs in it, and a little "bird" sitting on the eggs, suggested the teacher; and as the "babies" begged to be allowed to help also, it was decided that they should thread pretty coloured beads on sticks, and make a nice large "basket".[13]
Another kid said, "I could sew a 'cat' in the sewing lesson," and Bessie exclaimed, "Please let me sew a 'kitten' to go with it," so the teacher wrote that down and pointed out[60] that someone else might make the "saucer" for the kitty's milk while pricking. Then others could make a "nest"[13] in clay with eggs in it and a little "bird" sitting on the eggs, suggested the teacher; and since the "babies" begged to be allowed to help too, it was decided that they would thread pretty colored beads on sticks to make a nice large "basket."[13]
"Now," said teacher, "I have quite a long list, and we must begin at once." So they all set to work, and when breaking-up day came, Davie's present was ready. There was a whole fleet of "ships," white inside and crimson outside. The pictures of "pussy" and her "kitten" were neatly sewn, and the "saucer" was white and clean, and evenly pricked, while the "bird" on its "nest" looked as pretty as could be, and the "bead basket" was the best of all—at least the babies thought so.
"Alright," said the teacher, "I have a pretty long list, and we need to get started right away." So they all got to work, and by the time the end-of-term day arrived, Davie's gift was ready. There was a whole fleet of "ships," white on the inside and crimson on the outside. The images of "pussy" and her "kitten" were neatly stitched, and the "saucer" was white, clean, and evenly pricked, while the "bird" on its "nest" looked as nice as it could be, and the "bead basket" was the best of all—at least that’s what the babies thought.
I have no words to tell of the joy that the children's present brought to little Davie, his face flushed with pleasure as the "boats" and other gifts were spread out before him; it was so delightful to think that the children had remembered him and worked for him.
I can’t express how happy the children's gift made little Davie, his face bright with joy as the "boats" and other presents were laid out in front of him; it was so heartwarming to know that the kids had thought of him and put in the effort for him.
"Selfless" and "Thoughtful" sat once more on the mossy bank, and rejoiced that the plan had worked so well.
"Selfless" and "Thoughtful" sat once again on the mossy bank, feeling happy that the plan had gone so well.
If these little fairies and their sister "Kindness" should ever suggest thoughts to you, dear boys and girls, do not send them away. They will speak to you through the Good Voice, and the happiest people in the world are the people who listen to the Good Voice.
If these little fairies and their sister "Kindness" ever inspire thoughts in you, dear boys and girls, don't push them away. They’ll communicate with you through the Good Voice, and the happiest people in the world are those who pay attention to the Good Voice.
XXIII. CLEANLINESS.[14]
(Show the children a sponge.) Here is a sponge! What do we see all over the sponge? We see little holes. There is another name for these—we call them pores. (Write "pores" on Blackboard.) What comes out on your forehead sometimes on a hot day? Drops of water come out. They come through tiny holes in the skin, so tiny that we cannot see them, and these also are called pores.
(Show the children a sponge.) Here is a sponge! What do we notice all over the sponge? We notice small holes. There’s another name for these—we call them pores. (Write "pores" on the blackboard.) What comes out on your forehead sometimes on a hot day? Drops of water appear. They come through tiny holes in the skin, so small that we can’t see them, and these are also called pores.
Once upon a time, long, long ago, there was to be a grand procession in a fine old city called Rome, and a little golden-haired child was gilded all over his body to represent "The Golden Age" in the procession. When it was over the little child was soon dead. Can you guess why? The pores in his skin had been all stopped up with the gilding, so that the damp, warm air could not get out, and that caused his death.
Once upon a time, a long time ago, there was going to be a grand parade in a beautiful old city called Rome, and a little golden-haired child was covered in gold all over his body to symbolize "The Golden Age" in the parade. After it was over, the little child soon died. Can you guess why? The pores in his skin were all blocked up with the gold, so the warm, damp air couldn't escape, and that caused his death.
You see, then, that we breathe with these little pores, just as we breathe with our nose and mouth, and if the pores were all closed up we should die. Now you will understand why we have to be washed and bathed. What is it that the dirt does to your pores? It stops them up, so
You can see that we breathe through these tiny pores, just like we breathe through our nose and mouth, and if those pores got completely clogged, we would die. Now you can understand why it’s important for us to be washed and bathed. What does dirt do to your pores? It clogs them up, so
To be Healthy, We must be Clean.
57. Little Creatures who like to be Clean.
57. Small Creatures that Enjoy Being Clean.
You know that pussy likes to be clean, and that she washes herself carefully, and her little kittens, also, until they are big enough to wash themselves; but there are other creatures, much smaller than the cat, who like to be clean.
You know that a cat likes to be clean, and that she washes herself carefully, along with her little kittens, until they're big enough to clean themselves; but there are other creatures, much smaller than cats, who also enjoy being clean.
Do you know what shrimps or prawns are? I daresay you have often eaten a shrimp! Have you ever counted its ten long legs? On the front pair there are two tiny brushes, and the prawn has been seen to stand up on his eight hind legs, and brush himself with the tiny tufts on his front legs, to get all the sand away. Is not that clever for such a little fellow?
Do you know what shrimp or prawns are? I bet you've eaten shrimp many times! Have you ever counted their ten long legs? The front pair has two tiny brushes, and a prawn can actually stand on its eight back legs and use the little tufts on its front legs to clean off the sand. Isn't that clever for such a tiny creature?
There is another creature, very much smaller than the prawn, that is particularly clean, though we do not like to have it in our houses.
There is another creature, much smaller than the prawn, that is really clean, although we don't like to have it in our homes.
If the housemaid sees its little "parlour" in the corner of a room, she sweeps it away. You remember who it was that said: "Will you walk into my parlour?" It was the spider, and it is the spider who is so very fond of being clean, that it cannot bear to have a grain of dust anywhere about its body. Its hairs and legs are always kept perfectly clean.
If the maid sees the little "parlor" in the corner of a room, she sweeps it away. You remember who said, "Will you walk into my parlor?" It was the spider, and the spider is so obsessed with being clean that it can't stand having a speck of dust anywhere on its body. Its hairs and legs are always kept perfectly clean.
Then there is the tiny ant, which is smaller than a fly, and it loves to keep itself nice and clean, so if
Then there’s the tiny ant, which is smaller than a fly, and it loves to keep itself clean, so if
Shrimps and Spiders and Ants like to be Clean,
Children should like to be Clean.
Sydney was a little boy who did not like to be washed. He disliked it as much as the little dog in Story Lesson No. 4. When the time came for his bath he screamed and kicked and made such a fuss that at last his mother said he should remain dirty for a while, and see what would happen. So Sydney had no bath when he went to bed at night, neither was he washed in the morning. Of course no one wanted to kiss him, or play with him, for he was not sweet and clean; he had to play all by himself in the garden.
Sydney was a little boy who didn’t like to be washed. He hated it just as much as the little dog in Story Lesson No. 4. When it was time for his bath, he screamed and kicked and made such a fuss that eventually his mother decided he could stay dirty for a while and see what would happen. So, Sydney didn’t have a bath before bed that night, and he wasn’t washed in the morning either. Of course, no one wanted to kiss him or play with him because he wasn’t sweet and clean; he had to play all by himself in the garden.
Presently a carriage drove up and stopped at the garden gate; then a gentleman stepped out, walked up to the door, and rang the bell, which was answered by Sydney's mother.
Currently, a carriage pulled up and stopped at the garden gate; then a gentleman got out, walked to the door, and rang the bell, which Sydney's mother answered.
"I have called to take your little boy for a drive," said the gentleman, "but I am in a great hurry; could you have him ready at once?"
"I've come to take your little boy for a drive," said the gentleman, "but I'm in a big hurry; could you get him ready right away?"
Just then Sydney peeped in at the door. Oh! what a little blackamoor he was, not fit for any one to see! His mother had to explain to the kind gentleman how it was that he looked so dirty, and, as nothing but a bath and a whole suit of clean clothes would make him fit to go, he had to be left behind. Poor Sydney began to feel very sad and sorry now, and when the carriage had driven away he ran up to his mother, hid his little black face in her dress, and burst into tears. "Oh, mother," he cried, "do make me a clean boy again; I will never be naughty any more when I am washed." Sydney never forgot the lesson he had learnt that
Just then, Sydney peeked in at the door. Oh! what a little mess he was, not suitable for anyone to see! His mother had to explain to the kind gentleman why he looked so dirty, and since only a bath and a whole new set of clean clothes would make him presentable, he had to stay behind. Poor Sydney started to feel very sad and sorry, and when the carriage drove away, he ran to his mother, buried his little dirty face in her dress, and burst into tears. "Oh, mom," he cried, "please make me a clean boy again; I promise I won’t be naughty anymore once I’m washed." Sydney never forgot the lesson he learned that day.
Nobody likes Children to be Dirty.
What a good thing it is that we have nice, hard nails to keep the tips of our fingers from being hurt! How sore they would get if it were not for those bright, horny nails, and how well they protect the finger-tips, which have to touch so many things!
What a great thing it is that we have tough, hard nails to protect the tips of our fingers from getting hurt! They would be so sore if it weren't for those shiny, tough nails, and they do a great job of protecting the fingertips, which have to touch so many things!
Most of the nail is fast to the finger, but at the outer edge there is a little space between the nail and the finger, and if we are not careful this little space gets filled with dirt, and then the nail has a black band across the top, which looks very ugly. When the nails are long, the band is wider, and, although the dirt is under the nail, it shows on the outside, because the nail is transparent, that is, it can be seen through.
Most of the nail is securely attached to the finger, but at the outer edge, there’s a small gap between the nail and the finger. If we’re not careful, this tiny gap can fill with dirt, resulting in a black line across the top of the nail, which looks really unattractive. When the nails are long, the line is wider, and even though the dirt is under the nail, it’s visible from the outside because the nail is transparent, meaning you can see through it.
Do you like to have your hands clean? Then there must be no black bands to disfigure the pretty, shining nails; our hands cannot be called clean if there is a little arch of dirt at the tip of each finger. Ask mother to cut the nails when they get too long, then you can keep them clean more easily.
Do you like having clean hands? Then there shouldn't be any dark spots messing up your nice, shiny nails; our hands can't be considered clean if there's a little bit of dirt at the tip of each finger. Ask your mom to trim your nails when they get too long, so it's easier for you to keep them clean.
Men who do work that soils their hands very much like the chimney-sweep (Story Lesson 62) cannot possibly keep their nails clean, but children can.
Men who do jobs that dirty their hands, like chimney sweeps (Story Lesson 62), can't keep their nails clean, but kids can.
There was once a little boy who had the funniest finger-tips I ever saw. The nails were so short that there was not the tiniest space between the outer edge and the fleshy part, and so the tip of each finger had grown out like a little round cushion, not at all pretty to look at. If the little boy saw any one noticing his hands, he would hide them away, lest he should be asked what it was that caused the finger-tips to look so funny. I wonder if you can guess the reason? It was because the boy bit his nails. What a[65] horrid thing to do! Was it not? And how do you think his mother cured him? She dipped the tips of his fingers in tincture of bitter aloes, so that when he put them in his mouth he might get the bitter taste, and leave off biting them.
There was once a little boy who had the funniest fingertips I ever saw. His nails were so short that there was barely any space between the edge and the fleshy part, making the tips of his fingers look like little round cushions, not at all nice to see. If the little boy noticed anyone looking at his hands, he would hide them away, afraid of being asked why his fingertips looked so odd. I wonder if you can guess the reason? It was because the boy bit his nails. What a[65] disgusting thing to do! Wasn’t it? And how do you think his mother fixed it? She dipped the tips of his fingers in bitter aloe tincture so that when he put them in his mouth, he would taste the bitterness and stop biting them.
I once heard a gentleman say that he thought it was very rude to put a pencil or anything near the mouth, so what would he think of a child who put his fingers in his mouth, and bit his nails? Baby may suck her little thumb sometimes, perhaps, because she does not know better, but sensible children will remember that it is rude to put fingers in mouth.
I once heard a man say that he thought it was really rude to put a pencil or anything near your mouth, so what would he think of a kid who put his fingers in his mouth and bit his nails? A baby might suck her thumb sometimes, maybe because she doesn’t know any better, but sensible kids will remember that it’s rude to put fingers in their mouths.
Keep your Nails Clean.
Do not put Fingers in Mouth.
Can you think of anything else that should be kept clean besides the nails? In your mouth are two rows of beautiful little, white teeth. At least they ought to be white, but if we do not keep them clean, they often get discoloured and begin to decay and give us pain.
Can you think of anything else that should be kept clean besides your nails? In your mouth, you have two rows of beautiful little white teeth. At least they should be white, but if we don't keep them clean, they often get discolored, start to decay, and cause us pain.
We should each have a tooth-brush, and use it every day to cleanse the teeth, dipping it first in nice, clean water, and when the brushing is done, the mouth should be rinsed several times. The teeth should be brushed up and down from the gums (not from left to right), so that we may get all the particles of food from the tiny spaces between the teeth. If we do this regularly we shall not be likely to suffer much from toothache.[66]
We should all have a toothbrush and use it every day to clean our teeth. Start by dipping it in clean water, and after brushing, rinse your mouth several times. Brush your teeth up and down from the gums (not side to side) to remove all food particles from between your teeth. If we do this regularly, we’re less likely to experience toothaches.[66]
What can prettier be?
If you keep them clean and white,
They look good.
1. To stay clean and avoid toothaches.
2. To make them visually appealing.
XXIV. PURE LANGUAGE.
There was an old woman at a well, who, when a little girl came to draw water, asked for a drink, and the kind little maiden lifted the jug to the old woman's lips, and told her to take as much as she wished. Then the old woman blessed her for her kindness, and said that whenever the child spoke, pearls and diamonds should fall from her lips. Then another girl came to the well, and again the old woman asked to drink, but the girl said, "No! draw water for yourself". That was rude and unkind, was it not?
There was an old woman at a well who, when a little girl came to draw water, asked for a drink. The kind little girl lifted the jug to the old woman's lips and told her to take as much as she wanted. Then the old woman blessed her for her kindness and said that whenever the girl spoke, pearls and diamonds would fall from her lips. Then another girl came to the well, and again the old woman asked for a drink. But the girl replied, "No! Get your own water." That was rude and unkind, wasn’t it?
The old woman, who was really the Queen of the Fairies, could not bless this girl for her kindness, because she had showed none, so she said that whenever the girl spoke, toads and vipers should fall from her lips. That is like the people who do not speak good, pure language; the bad words that fall from their lips are like toads and[67] vipers. I hope you have never heard such words, but if you ever should, do not stop to listen, for wicked words are like the pitch that Martin tried to play with (Story Lesson 63); the person who says them cannot be pure and true, for bad words are not clean.
The old woman, who was actually the Queen of the Fairies, couldn’t bless this girl for her kindness because she hadn’t shown any, so she declared that every time the girl spoke, toads and snakes would fall from her lips. This is like people who don’t use good, clean language; the ugly words that come out of their mouths are like toads and [67] snakes. I hope you’ve never heard such words, but if you do, don’t take the time to listen, because evil words are like the tar that Martin tried to play with (Story Lesson 63); the person who says them can't be pure and honest, since bad words are not clean.
A lady was travelling in a railway train one day, and several young men were in the carriage, who spoke and looked like gentlemen. But by-and-by they began to swear dreadfully, and the lady asked if they would be kind enough to say the bad words in Greek or Latin, so that she could not understand them. She did not want to hear the bad words, you see; they were like toads and vipers to her, because she loved what was pure and clean.
A woman was traveling on a train one day, and there were several young men in the carriage who spoke and acted like gentlemen. However, after a while, they started swearing heavily, and the woman asked if they could please say those words in Greek or Latin so that she wouldn't understand them. She didn't want to hear the foul language, you see; it was as repulsive to her as toads and snakes because she cherished what was pure and clean.
Keep your Language Pure. Do not Listen to Bad Words.
XXV. PUNCTUALITY.
There was once a little boy called Lewis, who had one bad fault—he was very, very slow; so slow, that I am afraid he was really lazy. He could do his sums quite well, but he was always the last boy to get them finished; and in a morning his mother had no end of trouble to get him off to school in time, he did everything so slowly. (Read the following sentence very deliberately, and allow the children to fill in the adverbs): He got out of bed (slowly), dressed himself (slowly), washed himself (slowly), laced his boots[68] (slowly), ate his breakfast (slowly), and walked to school at the same pace (slowly).
There was once a little boy named Lewis who had one big flaw—he was super, super slow; so slow that, honestly, he was kind of lazy. He could do his math pretty well, but he was always the last one to finish; and in the mornings, his mother had tons of trouble getting him to school on time because he did everything so slowly. (Read the following sentence really deliberately and let the kids fill in the adverbs): He got out of bed (slowly), dressed himself (slowly), washed himself (slowly), laced his boots[68] (slowly), ate his breakfast (slowly), and walked to school at the same pace (slowly).
Now one day a gentleman came to the school, and told the teacher that he was going to take all the children in a boat down the river to have a picnic by the seaside. Could anything be more delightful? The scholars clapped their hands for gladness, and talked and thought of nothing but the picnic. It was to be on the very next day, and they were to start from the school at nine o'clock in the morning.
Now one day, a man showed up at the school and told the teacher he was taking all the kids on a boat trip down the river for a picnic by the seaside. Could anything be more exciting? The students clapped their hands with joy and could only think and talk about the picnic. It was scheduled for the very next day, and they were set to leave from the school at nine in the morning.
"Lewis," said the teacher, "remember to be in time, for the boat will not wait!"
"Lewis," the teacher said, "make sure you’re on time because the boat won’t wait!"
The morning came, and Lewis was called by his mother at seven o'clock. "There is plenty of time," said Lewis, "I will lie a little longer;" and he did so. Then his mother called again, and this time he rose, but he went through all his work as slowly as ever, and all the time his mother was telling him to "hurry up" or he would be too late.
The morning arrived, and Lewis's mom called him at seven o'clock. "There's plenty of time," Lewis said, "I'll sleep a little longer;" and he did. Then his mom called again, and this time he got up, but he went through all his tasks as slowly as ever, while his mom kept telling him to "hurry up" or he would be late.
At last he is ready to start; but just as he leaves the house a bell is rung. "What is that?" says Lewis; "it must be the bell of the steamer. I have no time to go round by the school; I must go straight to the pier," and off he ran. But, alas! by the time he reached the pier the boat was steaming off. He could see the children with their pails and spades waving their handkerchiefs in glee, and there was he left behind!
At last, he’s ready to go, but just as he leaves the house, a bell rings. "What’s that?" Lewis says. "It must be the steamer’s bell. I don’t have time to go by the school; I need to head straight to the pier," and off he ran. But, sadly, by the time he got to the pier, the boat was pulling away. He could see the kids with their buckets and shovels waving their handkerchiefs in excitement, and there he was, left behind!
I was telling this story to a little boy once, and when it came to this part he said: "Oh, auntie! could not they get a little boat and take Lewis to the steamer? It is so hard for him to be left behind."
I was telling this story to a little boy once, and when it got to this part, he said, "Oh, auntie! Couldn't they get a small boat and take Lewis to the steamer? It's so tough for him to be left behind."
But you see, boys and girls, we must be left behind, if we are slow and lazy.
But you see, guys, we have to be left behind if we’re slow and lazy.
I am glad to tell you, however, that Lewis was cured of his fault by this disappointment. He really did try to get[69] on more quickly afterwards, and he succeeded. At school he had his sums finished so soon that the teacher began to let him help the other boys who did not get on so well, and Lewis was quite proud and happy. Then he came to school so early that he was made "monitor," and had to put out the slates and books, ready for the others. So, after all, Lewis grew up to be smart and quick, and not like the man you will hear of in another story (Story Lesson 84), who grew worse as he grew older.
I'm happy to share that Lewis overcame his issue because of this disappointment. He really made an effort to improve afterwards, and he succeeded. At school, he finished his math problems so quickly that the teacher started letting him help the other boys who were struggling, which made Lewis feel proud and happy. He began coming to school so early that he was made the "monitor," responsible for putting out the slates and books for everyone else. In the end, Lewis turned out to be smart and quick, unlike the man you'll hear about in another story (Story Lesson 84), who only got worse as he aged.
Do not be Slow and Lazy, or you will be always "Too Late".
XXVI. ALL WORK HONOURABLE.
"Mother," said little Frank, "I saw a man walking along the street to-day with a bundle of brushes in his hand, and such a black face. I was careful not to touch him as I passed, he looked so dirty—quite a 'blackamoor'"!
"Mom," said little Frank, "I saw a guy walking down the street today with a bunch of brushes in his hand, and he had such a dark face. I was careful not to touch him as I walked by; he looked so dirty—totally a 'blackamoor'!"
"Ah!" said his mother, "that was a chimney-sweep; he cannot help being dirty, and my little boy ought to feel very kindly to him, for we should be badly off without such men."
"Ah!" said his mother, "that was a chimney sweep; he can't help being dirty, and my little boy should feel very kindly toward him, because we would be in a tough spot without people like him."
Not many days afterwards there was a storm. How the wind blew and roared! All through the night it rattled the windows and whistled in the chimney. Frank's mother went downstairs early in the morning to make a fire, but[70] as soon as she lighted it, puff! the smoke came down the chimney, and filled the room, and she was obliged to let the fire go out.
Not long after, there was a storm. The wind howled and roared! All night long, it rattled the windows and whistled in the chimney. Frank's mother went downstairs early in the morning to start a fire, but[70] as soon as she lit it, puff! the smoke came down the chimney, filled the room, and she had to let the fire go out.
Down came the children for breakfast, and Frank cried: "Is the fire not lighted, mother? I am so cold; and oh! the house is smoky."
Down came the kids for breakfast, and Frank shouted: "Isn't the fire lit, mom? I’m so cold; and oh! the house is smoky."
"I have tried to light a fire," said his mother, "but the smoke blows down the chimney. I think it needs sweeping; I shall have to give you milk for breakfast; there is no nice, hot coffee for you, because the fire will not burn."
"I’ve tried to start a fire," his mother said, "but the smoke keeps coming down the chimney. I think it needs to be cleaned; I’m going to have to give you milk for breakfast; there isn’t any nice, hot coffee for you because the fire won’t stay lit."
After breakfast Frank's brother went to fetch the chimney-sweep, who soon came, and with his long brushes brought down all the soot, which he carried away in a bag. Then the fire burned merrily, making the room look quite bright and cheerful, and Frank said: "Thank you, Mr. Chimney-sweep, for your good work. I will never call you 'blackamoor' again; and when I meet you in the street, I will not think you are too dirty to speak to."
After breakfast, Frank's brother went to get the chimney sweep, who arrived shortly after with his long brushes. He cleaned out all the soot and took it away in a bag. Then the fire burned happily, filling the room with a warm and cheerful light. Frank said, "Thank you, Mr. Chimney Sweep, for your hard work. I will never call you 'blackamoor' again; and when I see you in the street, I won't think you're too dirty to talk to."
Frank had learnt two lessons:—
Frank had learned two lessons:—
2. We must be kind to these Men, for we Need their Work.
XXVII. BAD COMPANIONS.
You have seen the men at work mending the roads, and you know how sometimes they spread little stones all over the road, and then roll them flat with a steam-roller.[71] But in some places the roads are laid with stones as large as bricks, and when these have all been placed together, the men take a large can with a spout, full of hot pitch, and pour it into the spaces between the stones to fasten them together.
You’ve seen the workers fixing the roads, and you know how sometimes they spread small stones all over the road and then flatten them with a steamroller.[71] But in some areas, the roads are made with stones as big as bricks, and once they are all laid down, the workers take a large can with a spout filled with hot tar and pour it into the gaps between the stones to hold them together.
A little boy, named Martin, was watching the men do this one day, and he said to himself, "I should like a piece of that black stuff; it has cooled now, and looks like a black piece of dough; I could make all sorts of shapes with it, and I do not believe it would soil my hands". So he picked up a length that lay near him, rolled it into a ball, and put it in his pocket. Some of the tar stuck to his hands, and when he washed them it did not come off, but it was now school time, and away he went. When he came out of school, he put his hand in his pocket to get the tar, and oh, what a sticky mess it was! His pocket was all over tar, so was his hand, and when he reached home, his mother set to work to get it off, and it took her a long, long time.
A little boy named Martin was watching the men one day, and he thought to himself, "I want a piece of that black stuff; it's cooled down now and looks like a black lump of dough; I could make all kinds of shapes with it, and I don’t think it would get my hands dirty." So he picked up a piece that was lying nearby, rolled it into a ball, and put it in his pocket. Some of the tar stuck to his hands, and when he washed them, it wouldn’t come off, but it was time for school, so off he went. When he got out of school, he reached into his pocket to grab the tar, and oh, what a sticky mess it was! His pocket was covered in tar, so were his hands, and when he got home, his mother had to work hard to clean it off, and it took her a long, long time.
Martin was mistaken in thinking he could play with the pitch and not get soiled.
Martin was wrong to think he could play with the dirt and not get dirty.
When Martin grew older he had some playmates who were not very good, and his mother said, "Martin, I wish you would not play with those boys; I fear they will get you into trouble".
When Martin got older, he had some friends who weren't very good, and his mother said, "Martin, I wish you wouldn't hang out with those boys; I'm worried they might get you into trouble."
"Oh! no, mother," replied Martin, "if they wanted me to do anything wrong I would not; I need not learn their bad ways if I do play with them." But his mother shook her head, for she knew better.
"Oh! no, mom," replied Martin, "if they wanted me to do anything wrong, I wouldn't; I don't have to pick up their bad habits just because I do play with them." But his mom shook her head, because she knew better.
Some time afterwards the boys had a half-holiday, and[72] Martin went with his friends into the country. Presently they came to a large garden, with a high wall round it, and the boys began to climb the wall.
Some time later, the boys had a half-day off, and[72] Martin went with his friends to the countryside. Soon, they arrived at a large garden enclosed by a tall wall, and the boys started to climb the wall.
"Where are you going?" asked Martin.
"Where are you headed?" Martin asked.
"Oh!" said one of the boys, laughing, "a friend of ours owns this garden, and we are going to help him gather strawberries."
"Oh!" said one of the boys, laughing, "a friend of ours owns this garden, and we're going to help him pick strawberries."
There was a large bed of strawberries on the other side of the wall, and as soon as the boys were over, they began to pick and eat.
There was a big patch of strawberries on the other side of the wall, and as soon as the boys got over there, they started picking and eating.
What the boy had told Martin was quite untrue—they were stealing the strawberries; but before very long the gardener spied them, and with one or two other men came upon them so quietly, that they had no time to get away, and every boy was made prisoner. The gardener locked them up in the tool-house until the owner came, and he took their names and addresses, and said they should be brought before the magistrates, as it was not the first time they had stolen his fruit. Of course Martin had not been with them the other times, but he was caught with them now, and can you imagine how dreadfully ashamed he felt, and how his cheeks burned when he thought of his dear mother, and the trouble it would be to her. When he reached home, he told his mother all that had happened, and begged her forgiveness. His mother was greatly distressed, and said: "You remember playing with the pitch, Martin, when you were a very little boy—you thought you could handle it, and still keep clean, but you could not; so neither can you have bad companions without being mixed up in wrong-doing".
What the boy had told Martin was completely false—they were stealing the strawberries. But before long, the gardener spotted them, and with one or two other men, approached so quietly that they had no time to escape, and every boy was caught. The gardener locked them in the tool shed until the owner arrived, and he took their names and addresses, saying they would be brought before the magistrates since this wasn’t the first time they had taken his fruit. Of course, Martin hadn’t been with them before, but now he was caught with them, and can you imagine how incredibly ashamed he felt and how his cheeks burned when he thought of his dear mother and the trouble it would cause her? When he got home, he told his mother everything that happened and begged her forgiveness. His mother was very upset and said, "You remember playing with the pitch, Martin, when you were a little kid—you thought you could handle it and stay clean, but you couldn’t; just like you can’t hang out with bad company without getting caught up in wrongdoing."
To mix with Bad Company is like Playing with Pitch.
XXVIII. ON FORGETTING.
It was Maggie's birthday, and her father brought her as a present something that she had been wishing for a very long time. It was a beautiful yellow canary, and its little house was the prettiest cage imaginable, for it was made of brass wire, which was so bright that you could almost think it was gold. Of course Maggie was delighted. "It is just what I have been wishing for," said she; "I shall feed the canary myself, and give it fresh water every day; it is the prettiest bird I ever saw."
It was Maggie's birthday, and her dad got her something she had been wanting for a long time. It was a beautiful yellow canary, and its little house was the prettiest cage you could imagine, made of shiny brass wire that looked almost like gold. Of course, Maggie was thrilled. "It's exactly what I've been wishing for," she said; "I’ll feed the canary myself and give it fresh water every day; it’s the prettiest bird I’ve ever seen."
For some weeks Maggie remembered her little pet each day, and attended to all its wants, but there came a day when there was to be a picnic for all the school children, and Maggie was so excited and glad about the picnic that she forgot all about feeding the bird.
For several weeks, Maggie thought about her little pet every day and took care of all its needs, but then came a day when there was a picnic for all the school kids, and Maggie was so excited and happy about the picnic that she completely forgot to feed the bird.
Then next day there was hay-making, and she was in the field all day, and again forgot the poor bird.
Then the next day there was hay-making, and she was in the field all day, and again forgot the poor bird.
This went on for a few days, and when at last she did remember, and went to the cage, the bird was dead.
This went on for a few days, and when she finally remembered and went to the cage, the bird was dead.
Maggie was full of grief, and cried until her head ached, but she could not undo the results of her forgetting.
Maggie was overwhelmed with sadness and cried until her head hurt, but she couldn't change the consequences of her forgetfulness.
Some people think it is a little fault to forget, but that cannot be, for we know well that "forgetting" often causes pain and suffering to others.
Some people think it's a small mistake to forget, but that can't be true, because we know that "forgetting" often brings pain and suffering to others.
Forgetting often causes Pain.
Daniel was a lame little boy. He could not walk at all, nor play about with the other children, so he was very puny and pale. His mother used to put his little chair near the door of the cottage where they lived, so that he could watch the people pass, and one day, as he sat there, a lady came by with a well-dressed little boy, and when she saw the pale-faced child she stopped and spoke to him, and then Daniel's mother came to the door, and invited her to step inside the cottage.
Daniel was a frail little boy. He couldn’t walk or play with the other kids, so he was very tiny and pale. His mom would place his little chair by the door of their cottage so he could watch people walk by. One day, while he was sitting there, a lady passed by with a well-dressed little boy. When she noticed the pale-faced child, she stopped to talk to him. Daniel's mom then came to the door and invited her to come inside the cottage.
The lady's little boy was called Emil, and he stood on the doorstep talking to Daniel, while the two mothers spoke together within the cottage. Emil, who was a kind-hearted little fellow, felt very sorry for the lame child, and when he found that Daniel was never able to go any farther than the street where he lived, Emil said: "I will ask my father to bring his carriage round and take you for a drive; I am sure he will, and then you can see the green fields and trees, and hear the birds sing".
The lady's little boy was named Emil, and he stood on the doorstep chatting with Daniel while the two mothers talked inside the cottage. Emil, who was a kind-hearted kid, felt really bad for the boy with the limp, and when he learned that Daniel could never go farther than the street where he lived, Emil said, "I'll ask my dad to bring the carriage around and take you for a drive; I'm sure he'll do it, and then you can see the green fields and trees and hear the birds sing."
Daniel's little face flushed with pleasure, and he said; "Oh that would be lovely!"
Daniel's little face turned red with joy, and he said, "Oh, that would be wonderful!"
By-and-by the lady and her boy said "Good-bye," and went away, and then Daniel told his mother all that Emil had said. "Do you think he will come to-morrow, mother?" asked Daniel.
By and by, the woman and her son said "Goodbye" and left, and then Daniel told his mom everything Emil had said. "Do you think he’ll come tomorrow, mom?" asked Daniel.
"Perhaps not to-morrow, dear," replied she, "but some day soon maybe."
"Maybe not tomorrow, dear," she replied, "but maybe soon."
So Daniel sat at the door each day, and waited for the carriage, but it never came, and when he grew too ill to sit up he would still lie and listen for the sound of the wheels, and say: "I think it will come to-day, mother," but it never did. And do you know why? Emil had[75] forgotten to ask his father, and so Daniel waited in vain for the drive.
So Daniel sat by the door every day, waiting for the carriage, but it never arrived. When he got too sick to sit up, he would still lie there listening for the sound of the wheels, saying, "I think it will come today, mom," but it never did. And do you know why? Emil had[75] forgotten to ask his father, so Daniel waited in vain for the ride.
You see how much pain and disappointment can be caused by forgetting, and when you promise to do a thing and forget to keep the promise it is just like telling an untruth. You do not intend to speak what is not the truth, but you do it all the same. Remember, then, that it is not a little fault to forget, and that those who do it are not building on the firm foundation of truth.
You can see how much pain and disappointment forgetting can cause, and when you promise to do something and forget to keep that promise, it’s just like lying. You may not intend to say something that isn’t true, but that’s what ends up happening. So remember, it’s not a small mistake to forget, and those who do are not building on a strong foundation of truth.
When we Promise and Forget, we are not True.
To the Parent or Teacher.—However culpable it may be to break promises to adults (and it is in reality nothing less than untruth), it is infinitely worse to break faith with children. An unredeemed promise is a sure way of shaking a child's confidence in truth and goodness. Let us keep our word with the little ones at whatever cost.
To the Parent or Teacher.—While it’s definitely wrong to break promises to adults (and it really is nothing short of lying), it’s even worse to break promises to children. A promise not kept can seriously undermine a child's trust in truth and goodness. We must keep our promises to the little ones, no matter the cost.
Little Elsie had a big brother called Jack, of whom she was very fond, and he was fond of Elsie also. Jack was about fifteen years old, and he was learning to be a sailor. When his ship came into port he used to come home for a few days, and then he would tell Elsie all about the places he had seen. One time the voyage had been very long, and Jack told Elsie that when the bread was all finished they had had to eat sea-biscuits instead.
Little Elsie had a big brother named Jack, who she adored, and he was fond of Elsie too. Jack was around fifteen years old, and he was training to be a sailor. When his ship docked, he would come home for a few days and share stories with Elsie about the places he had visited. One time, the voyage had been really long, and Jack told Elsie that when the bread ran out, they had to eat sea biscuits instead.
"How funny," said Elsie; "what are sea-biscuits like, Jack?"
"That's funny," said Elsie. "What are sea biscuits like, Jack?"
"They are very hard and round and thick," replied Jack.[76]
"They're really hard, round, and thick," Jack replied.[76]
Elsie said she would like to see one, and Jack promised that when he went back to his ship he would send her one.
Elsie said she would like to see one, and Jack promised that when he went back to his ship, he would send her one.
It was not a great thing to promise, was it? But Elsie felt very important when the postman brought her a little parcel a day or two after Jack had left, and she was very glad when she opened it and found the promised biscuit.
It wasn't a big deal to promise, was it? But Elsie felt really special when the postman brought her a small package a day or two after Jack had left, and she was really happy when she opened it and found the promised cookie.
"There is one good thing about Jack," exclaimed Elsie, "he always does what he says." I think Jack would have been pleased to hear Elsie say that; it is one of the nicest things that could have been said about him. I hope it is true of all of us.
"There’s one good thing about Jack," said Elsie, "he always follows through on his word." I believe Jack would have been happy to hear Elsie say that; it’s one of the most flattering things that could be said about him. I hope it’s true for all of us.
Be True, and do what you say.
XXIX. KINDNESS TO ANIMALS.
As Lulu came home from school one afternoon, she noticed three or four boys throwing stones at something—I hardly like to tell you what. It was a poor little brown sparrow that had somehow hurt its leg, and could not fly. However, this happened a great many years ago, and perhaps boys are less cruel now.
As Lulu got home from school one afternoon, she saw three or four boys throwing stones at something—I really don't want to say what. It was a poor little brown sparrow that had somehow hurt its leg and couldn’t fly. But this happened a long time ago, and maybe boys are less cruel now.
Lulu could not bear to see the poor bird treated so badly, and she asked the boys to give it to her. At first they laughed, and went on throwing the stones; but she continued to beg for it so earnestly, that at last one of the boys[77] said, "Let her have it". And Lulu was only too glad to pick up the wounded bird and carry it home. She nursed and fed it carefully, and put it in a warm place by the fire; but, in spite of all her care, the sparrow died in a few hours.
Lulu couldn't stand to see the poor bird being treated so badly, so she asked the boys to give it to her. At first, they laughed and kept throwing stones, but she kept pleading for it so earnestly that eventually one of the boys[77] said, "Let her have it." Lulu was more than happy to pick up the wounded bird and take it home. She took care of it, fed it, and placed it in a warm spot by the fire; however, despite all her efforts, the sparrow died within a few hours.
Sometimes pain is necessary, as in Story Lesson 29; we should never think of saying the dentist was cruel; rather we should say he was kind, because he saved the monkey from further pain. But when we cause pain that is needless, as these boys did, it is cruel. They were cowardly also. If the bird had been an eagle, with strong claws that could have hurt them in return, would they have stoned it? No; they chose a poor little sparrow that could not defend itself, and this was cowardly.
Sometimes pain is necessary, as in Story Lesson 29; we should never say that the dentist was cruel; instead, we should say he was kind because he saved the monkey from further pain. But when we inflict pain that is needless, like these boys did, it is cruel. They were cowardly too. If the bird had been an eagle, with strong claws that could have hurt them back, would they have stoned it? No; they picked on a poor little sparrow that couldn't defend itself, and this was cowardly.
Then it was unfair. You do not like to be punished or found fault with if you have done nothing wrong; you feel it is not fair; neither is it fair to hurt a dumb animal that has done nothing wrong.
Then it was unfair. You don’t want to be punished or criticized if you haven’t done anything wrong; you feel that it’s not fair; it’s also not fair to harm a helpless animal that hasn’t done anything wrong.
Just think how many things animals do for us. Where did the wool come from that makes your nice, warm clothes? (Let children answer.) How do we get the coals to our houses—the coals that make the bright, hot fires? (Ans.) What could we do without the brave, strong horses? I heard the other day of a man who did not give his horse enough to eat. What kind of man was he? (Ans.) I would rather be like the Arab, who loves his horse so much that he brings it into his tent, and shares his food and bed with it. Where do we get our milk, butter and cheese? (Ans.) Then think of all the stories of animals in this book,[78] who have done kind, clever things (and all these stories are true). If boys and girls would think, I am quite sure they would never be unkind to animals.
Just think about all the things animals do for us. Where does the wool for your nice, warm clothes come from? (Let children answer.) How do we get the coal for our homes—the coal that creates the bright, hot fires? (Ans.) What would we do without brave, strong horses? I heard recently about a man who didn’t give his horse enough to eat. What kind of man was he? (Ans.) I’d rather be like the Arab who loves his horse so much that he brings it into his tent and shares his food and bed with it. Where do we get our milk, butter, and cheese? (Ans.) And think about all the stories of animals in this book,[78] that showcase their kind and clever actions (and all these stories are true). If boys and girls would think, I’m sure they would never be unkind to animals.
One day a boy was chasing a butterfly, cap in hand, and just as he had caught it, a bee stung him. He was so angry that he threw the butterfly down and trampled on it. Was not that cruel? The butterfly had done him no harm, and the greatest skill in the world could not paint anything so delicate and beautiful as a butterfly's wing; and yet he destroyed that beauty. Sometimes children will hunt spiders out of the crevices in the wall and torture them, and others will torment the little fly, or steal the bird's pretty eggs that the mother sits on with such care. All this is cruel and unkind. Remember it is not noble to hurt. The truest gentleman is he who is full of kindness and gentleness and will not hurt anything.
One day, a boy was chasing a butterfly, holding his cap, and just as he caught it, a bee stung him. He got so angry that he threw the butterfly down and stomped on it. Wasn't that cruel? The butterfly hadn’t done anything to him, and no artist could create something as delicate and beautiful as a butterfly's wing; yet he destroyed that beauty. Sometimes kids will hunt spiders out of the corners of the wall and torture them, while others will bother little flies or steal the pretty eggs from birds that their mothers care for so much. All of this is cruel and unkind. Remember, it is not noble to hurt. The truest gentleman is one who is full of kindness and gentleness and won’t hurt anything.
Have you ever seen children riding donkeys at the seaside? and have you noticed how the boys beat the poor things sometimes to make them go faster? I do not think a kind boy or girl would like to have a donkey beaten. I hope you would not.
Have you ever seen kids riding donkeys at the beach? And have you noticed how the boys sometimes hit the poor animals to make them go faster? I don’t think a kind boy or girl would enjoy seeing a donkey being beaten. I hope you wouldn’t.
There was once a little dog who could not bear to see any creature beaten. If any one were ill-treating a dog he would rush up and bark quite angrily, and when he was[79] driving in the dog-cart with his master, he always used to hold the sleeve of his master's coat every time he touched the horse with the whip, as if he would have said, "Do not beat him, please". Now, if a dog knows that it is not kind to hurt dumb creatures, we are sure boys and girls know.
Once there was a little dog who couldn’t stand to see any creature being mistreated. If he saw anyone mistreating a dog, he would run over and bark furiously. Whenever he was in the dog cart with his owner, he would grab the sleeve of his owner’s coat every time he touched the horse with the whip, as if to say, “Please don’t hit him.” Now, if a dog understands that it’s not right to hurt helpless creatures, we’re sure that boys and girls understand it too.
It is Unfair, for they do not deserve it.
It is Cowardly, for often they cannot hurt you in return.
XXX. BAD TEMPER.
Paul was a little boy who was very fond of having his own way, and when he could not get it he used to throw himself into the most dreadful tempers. He would take his pocket-handkerchief and tear it all to pieces in his rage, not to mention lying on the floor and kicking with his heels. One day his governess said to him, "Paul, I will tell you a true story". Paul sat down ready to listen, for he loved stories, so the governess began:—
Paul was a little boy who really liked getting his way, and when he didn’t, he would throw the biggest tantrums. He’d grab his pocket handkerchief and rip it to shreds in his fury, not to mention lying on the floor and kicking his legs. One day, his governess said to him, "Paul, I’m going to tell you a true story." Paul sat down, eager to listen, because he loved stories, so the governess began:—
"There was once a little boy, bright, honest and truthful, always ready to run messages for his mother, or to help a schoolmate with his lessons, he was so good-natured. But Henry (for that was his name) had one great fault—he would get into violent passions when any one vexed him, and as he grew older his passion became stronger, and had[80] the mastery of him more and more. He was a sailor, and as time went on he had a ship of his own, and was captain of it. Henry could manage the ship well; he knew just how to turn the wheel to make her go East or West, and he knew also how to trim the sails to make the ship move swiftly along. If he could have controlled his temper as he did his ship, all might have been well. But he used to be very angry with the sailors when they did not please him, and one day when the cabin-boy had done something that vexed him, the captain in a fit of passion beat the poor boy so cruelly that he died. When the ship came home the captain was taken to prison, and in the end he lost his life for having taken the boy's life."
"There was once a little boy who was bright, honest, and truthful. He was always ready to run errands for his mother or help a classmate with his lessons because he was so good-natured. But Henry (that was his name) had one major flaw—he would fly into a rage whenever someone annoyed him, and as he got older, his temper grew stronger and took over him more and more. He became a sailor, and eventually, he had his own ship and was the captain of it. Henry knew how to handle the ship well; he knew just how to steer it to go East or West, and he also knew how to adjust the sails to make the ship move quickly. If he could have controlled his temper like he did his ship, everything might have turned out fine. But he would get really angry with the sailors when they didn’t meet his expectations, and one day, when the cabin boy did something that irritated him, the captain, in a fit of rage, beat the poor boy so badly that he died. When the ship returned home, the captain was taken to prison, and in the end, he lost his life for taking the boy's life."
The governess paused, and Paul gazed up into her face with wide-open, anxious eyes. "Is that what happens to boys who get into a passion?" he asked.
The governess paused, and Paul looked up at her with wide, anxious eyes. "Is that what happens to boys who lose their temper?" he asked.
"It happened to the captain," said she.
"It happened to the captain," she said.
"Then I will never give way to passion again if it has such a dreadful ending," said Paul, and the governess told me that he kept his word.
"Then I will never let passion control me again if it leads to such a terrible ending," said Paul, and the governess told me that he stuck to his word.
If Bad Temper gets the Mastery, it leads to sad Results.
Edgar was riding in the train with his mother one day. He sat next the window, as children like to do, so that he could see all that was going on. How the train speeds along! now passing through a tunnel, then out again into the sunshine; next it goes over a long row of arches built[81] across a valley, and called a viaduct. "How high up we seem to be," said Edgar; "see, mother, the river is down there ever so far below!" Now they are passing through fields again, and there, looking over the hedge, is a beautiful young horse. But as the train whirls by, the horse runs off and scampers round and round the field. Edgar watched him as long as he could see, and then he said: "What a lovely horse, mother! how I should like to ride him!"
Edgar was riding on the train with his mom one day. He sat by the window, like kids often do, so he could see everything happening outside. Wow, the train moves fast! First, they went through a tunnel, then back out into the sunlight; next, they crossed a long series of arches built[81] over a valley, called a viaduct. "We seem so high up," said Edgar; "look, mom, the river is way down there!" Now they were passing through fields again, and there, peeking over the hedge, was a beautiful young horse. But as the train zoomed by, the horse took off and ran around the field. Edgar watched him for as long as he could see, and then he said: "What a gorgeous horse, mom! I would love to ride him!"
"The horse is of no use for riding yet, Edgar," said his mother.
"The horse isn't ready for riding yet, Edgar," his mother said.
"Why?" asked Edgar.
"Why?" Edgar asked.
"Because he has not yet learnt to obey a rider," replied she; "the horse has to wear bit and bridle before he can be of use, and to learn by them to be controlled. A horse that could not be managed would run away with you, just as poor Henry's temper ran away with him (Story Lesson 72)."
"Since he hasn’t learned to listen to a rider yet," she answered, "the horse needs to wear a bit and bridle before he can be useful and learn to be controlled by them. A horse that can’t be managed would take off with you, just like poor Henry's temper took over him (Story Lesson 72).
Bad tempers and bad habits are like wild horses: they take us where they will, and get us into sad trouble if we do not bridle them, so we must take care not to let the temper be master, but bridle it just as the horse-trainer bridles the horse.
Bad tempers and bad habits are like wild horses: they take us wherever they want, and they lead us into serious trouble if we don't control them. So we must make sure not to let our temper take charge, but instead, manage it just like a horse trainer manages a horse.
"I should think the horse does not like the bit and bridle at first," said Edgar.
"I think the horse doesn't like the bit and bridle at first," said Edgar.
"Very likely not," replied his mother; "but he would not be the useful, patient animal that he is if he did not submit."
"Probably not," his mother replied. "But he wouldn’t be the helpful, patient animal he is if he didn’t comply."
Horse has to be Held in by Bit and Bridle.
We Must Bridle Temper and Bad Habit.
XXXI. SELFISHNESS.
It was summer, and we were riding on the top of the coach through one of the loveliest parts of Scotland. The coach had five seats with four persons on each, so you may easily find out how many people there were. On the next seat to ours sat a lady with a little spoilt boy, about four years of age, who was very hard to please, and very discontented and unhappy. You will not be much surprised to hear that presently he began to cry, for spoilt children often do that, but I do not think you could ever guess the reason. His mother was speaking to a lady on the seat behind, and when the child was asked, "What is the matter?" he said, "Mamma is not attending to me when I speak to her," and that was why he cried. He wanted his mother to attend to him, to speak to him all the time, and that was selfish. He was only a very little child, but he thought too much of that ugly word—self, and that was why he was so discontented and unhappy.
It was summer, and we were riding on the top of the coach through one of the most beautiful parts of Scotland. The coach had five seats with four people on each, so you can easily figure out how many of us there were. Next to us sat a lady with a little spoiled boy, about four years old, who was very hard to please and very unhappy. You wouldn't be surprised to hear that he soon started to cry, as spoiled children often do, but I doubt you could ever guess the reason. His mother was talking to a lady in the seat behind us, and when someone asked the child, "What's wrong?" he replied, "Mamma isn't paying attention to me when I talk to her," and that was why he cried. He wanted his mom to focus on him and talk to him all the time, which was selfish. He was just a little kid, but he thought too much about that ugly word—self, and that’s why he was so discontented and unhappy.
I knew another little child who was always wanting some one to play with her; she never tried to amuse herself, but was continually teasing her mother to join in her games. It is better to be like little Elsie (Story Lesson 21) who when only a year old thought of the comfort of others.
I knew another little kid who always wanted someone to play with her; she never tried to entertain herself but kept bugging her mom to join her games. It's better to be like little Elsie (Story Lesson 21) who, when she was only a year old, thought about making others comfortable.
One day a lady called at a cottage where there lived a little girl, named Edna, who was playing on the hearth-rug[83] with another little girl, Lizzie. The lady had come to see Edna's grandmamma, but she had not forgotten that Edna lived there, and she brought out of her basket a little paper bag full of ripe cherries, and gave them to the child. Edna did not forget to say "thank you," then she took the little bag, put it on a chair, and peeped inside; she was only two years old, and could not have reached the table. As soon as she saw the pretty, red cherries, she toddled to her little friend, and holding out the bag, said, "Lizzie some". When Lizzie had taken a handful, she went to her grandmother, and said, "Grandmamma some," and then with a shy, little glance at the lady, she placed the bag in her lap, and said, "Lady some".
One day, a woman stopped by a cottage where a little girl named Edna was playing on the hearth rug[83] with another little girl, Lizzie. The woman had come to visit Edna's grandma, but she didn’t forget that Edna lived there, so she pulled a small paper bag filled with ripe cherries out of her basket and gave it to the child. Edna remembered to say "thank you," then she took the little bag, set it on a chair, and peeked inside; she was only two years old and couldn't reach the table. As soon as she spotted the pretty red cherries, she waddled over to her friend, held out the bag, and said, "Lizzie some." After Lizzie took a handful, Edna went to her grandma and said, "Grandmamma some," and then, with a shy glance at the woman, she placed the bag in her lap and said, "Lady some."
Last of all she helped her dear little self, and so we say that Edna was unselfish, that means not selfish. Baby Edna did not know about the Temple we all have to make, but she was building it just the same. Perhaps "Selfless" and "Thoughtful" were helping her to find the stones!
Last of all, she helped her dear little self, and so we say that Edna was unselfish, which means not selfish. Baby Edna didn't know about the Temple we all have to create, but she was building it anyway. Maybe "Selfless" and "Thoughtful" were helping her gather the stones!
Think First of Others, Last of Self.
We all like to win when we play games, and that is quite right, but Johnny liked so much to win that he was cross and unhappy if any one else was winning, and did not enjoy the game at all; I am afraid that he even cheated sometimes to win. Now all that was downright selfish; it reminds one of a story—a sort of fairy-tale—about Minerva and Arachne.[84]
We all enjoy winning when we play games, and that's totally fine, but Johnny wanted to win so much that he got upset and unhappy if anyone else was winning, and he didn't enjoy the game at all; I'm afraid he even cheated sometimes to win. That was just plain selfish; it reminds me of a story—a kind of fairy tale—about Minerva and Arachne.[84]
Arachne said to Minerva, "Let us see who can spin the best". So they began to spin, and when Minerva saw that Arachne was beating her at the spinning, she struck her on the head with a spindle, and turned poor Arachne into a spider. It is a pity when people are so anxious to win that it makes them selfish.
Arachne said to Minerva, "Let's see who can spin the best." So they started to spin, and when Minerva noticed that Arachne was outdoing her, she hit her on the head with a spindle and transformed poor Arachne into a spider. It's a shame when people are so eager to win that it turns them selfish.
Selfishness is an ugly stone to have in your Temple, dear children. Just as Thoughtfulness is one of the most beautiful stones, so Selfishness is one of the ugliest. Try not to let it come into your lives at all. No one likes a selfish child, but everybody loves the child who forgets self and thinks of others.
Selfishness is a nasty stone to have in your Temple, dear kids. Just like Thoughtfulness is one of the most beautiful stones, Selfishness is one of the ugliest. Try to avoid letting it into your lives at all. No one likes a selfish kid, but everyone loves the kid who forgets themselves and thinks of others.
Try to be Glad when Others Win, as well as when you Win Yourself.
It was Christmas time, and on Christmas Eve the children hung up their stockings as usual. Next morning they were awake early, and eagerly turned out the stockings to see what they contained. Among other things Horace and Stanley found that they each had a beautiful large picture-box full of lovely chocolate creams.
It was Christmas time, and on Christmas Eve the children hung up their stockings as usual. The next morning they woke up early and excitedly emptied their stockings to see what was inside. Among other things, Horace and Stanley found that they each had a beautiful large picture box full of delicious chocolate creams.
After dinner on Christmas Day Stanley brought out his box, and handed it round to everybody, and by the next day his chocolates were all finished.
After dinner on Christmas Day, Stanley brought out his box and shared it with everyone, and by the next day, all his chocolates were gone.
But Horace hid his box away in a drawer, and kept going to it, and taking out a few at a time, so his chocolates lasted much longer than Stanley's, and he ate[85] them all himself, but we are obliged to say that he was rather selfish. "Shared joy is double joy," and of the two boys we are sure that Stanley would be the happier.
But Horace tucked his box away in a drawer and kept sneaking a few pieces at a time, so his chocolates lasted much longer than Stanley's. He ate[85] them all himself, but we have to admit that he was a bit selfish. "Shared joy is double joy," and of the two boys, we're sure that Stanley would be the happier one.
Shall I tell you a little secret? Selfishness will spoil the other stones if you let it come into your Temple, and as to the gold—the lovely gold of "Kindness" that the little "Gold-wings" brought—Selfishness will eat it all away in time. I am sure we all hate selfishness; let us write down
Shall I share a little secret? Selfishness will ruin the other stones if you allow it into your Temple, and as for the gold—the beautiful gold of "Kindness" that the little "Gold-wings" brought—Selfishness will devour it completely over time. I'm sure we all dislike selfishness; let's jot it down
We will not have the Ugly Stone "Selfishness" in our Temple.
Eva was not a very big girl, and her boots were generally cleaned by the older ones, but one day her mother said, "Eva, I wish you would brush your own boots this morning, we are all so busy".
Eva wasn't a very big girl, and her boots were usually cleaned by the older kids, but one day her mom said, "Eva, I wish you would brush your own boots this morning; we're all so busy."
"Oh mother!" said Eva, "you know it gives me a headache to brush boots, and I shall make my hands so dirty, and perhaps bespatter the floor with blacking as well." I am afraid Eva was rather a spoilt little girl, and this had made her somewhat selfish.
"Oh mom!" said Eva, "you know it gives me a headache to clean boots, and I’ll get my hands all dirty, and maybe even splatter the floor with polish too." I’m afraid Eva was a bit of a spoiled girl, which made her somewhat selfish.
Half an hour later her mother came into the room again, just as Eva was lacing up her boots, and she inquired who had made them so bright and shiny. It was Eva's elder sister, Mary, and Eva knew that her mother was not pleased, but nothing more was said.
Half an hour later, her mom walked into the room again, just as Eva was lacing up her boots, and she asked who had made them so bright and shiny. It was Eva's older sister, Mary, and Eva knew her mom wasn't happy about it, but nothing more was said.
In the afternoon Mary and her mother went out shopping, and Eva hurried home from school, although she would have liked very much to stay for a while and play with the other girls. But she wanted to give mother a surprise. First she put the kettle on the fire, and then she laid the table all neatly and nicely, ready for tea. When everything was in its place, she went to the door several times to look for her mother and sister; at last she saw they were just turning the corner of the street, and Eva ran along to meet them, and said, "Come away, mother, tea is quite ready; I have been looking for you and Mary ever so long". And dear mother knew what it all meant.
In the afternoon, Mary and her mom went shopping, while Eva hurried home from school, even though she really wanted to stick around and play with the other girls. But she wanted to surprise her mom. First, she turned on the kettle, and then she set the table nicely and neatly, all ready for tea. Once everything was in place, she checked the door several times to see if her mom and sister were back; finally, she spotted them just turning the corner of the street, so Eva ran to meet them and said, "Come on, Mom, tea is all ready; I've been waiting for you and Mary for so long." And her dear mom understood what it all meant.
It meant that Eva had been listening to the Good Voice, and that she was sorry she had been so selfish in the morning. The Good Voice says
It meant that Eva had been listening to the Good Voice, and that she was sorry she had been so selfish in the morning. The Good Voice says
Don't be Selfish. Help all you can.
XXXII. CARELESSNESS.
Elinor was a great anxiety to her mother, for she was always either tearing her clothes, or forgetting, or losing something—all because she was so careless. One day at tea Elinor was taking the cup which her mother had just filled, but as she was not looking at it, nor taking any care, it tilted over and fell against a tall flower-vase that stood[87] in the centre of the table. The vase was broken, and the tablecloth deluged with tea and water—all for want of a little care.
Elinor was a constant source of worry for her mother because she was always tearing her clothes, forgetting things, or losing stuff—all because she was so careless. One day at tea, Elinor reached for the cup her mother had just filled, but since she wasn't looking at it or paying attention, it tipped over and fell against a tall flower vase that stood[87] in the center of the table. The vase shattered, and the tablecloth was soaked with tea and water—all due to a little lack of care.
Another day Elinor's mother gave her a shilling, and sent her to the shop for some fruit, but she lost the money, and returned empty-handed.
Another day, Elinor's mom gave her a shilling and sent her to the store for some fruit, but she lost the money and came back empty-handed.
Coming home from school one day, she was poking her umbrella about in a little stream of water that the rain had made along the side of the road, when the tip of the stick caught in a grate and broke off, so the umbrella was spoilt. I could tell you many more things about poor careless Elinor, but these are enough to show how bad it is not to take care. Sometimes people have taken poison instead of medicine by being careless, and not noticing the label on the bottle; and sometimes a train has been wrecked, and lives lost, because the engine-driver was careless about noticing the signal.
Coming home from school one day, she was poking her umbrella in a small stream of water that the rain had created along the side of the road when the tip of the stick got stuck in a grate and broke off, ruining the umbrella. I could share many more stories about poor careless Elinor, but these are enough to illustrate how harmful it is not to be careful. Sometimes people have taken poison instead of medication due to carelessness, not noticing the label on the bottle; and sometimes a train has derailed, resulting in loss of life, because the engineer was careless about watching the signals.
Do not be Careless; it brings Trouble.
XXXIII. ON BEING OBSTINATE.
Daisy's aunt had invited her to go and spend the day with her cousin Violet, and to Daisy, who lived in the town, it was a very great treat; for Violet's father and mother lived at a farm, and when Daisy went there, the two little girls spent the whole day out in the open air, climbing on[88] the hay, playing "hide and seek" in the barn, or helping to milk the cows. The last time Daisy went to the farm, however, she had taken cold, and her mother found that she had been playing without coat and hat, so on this occasion she said, "Daisy, I want you to promise me that you will keep your outdoor things on when you are playing with Violet, for the day is cold".
Daisy's aunt invited her to spend the day with her cousin Violet, and for Daisy, who lived in town, it was a real treat; Violet's parents lived on a farm, and whenever Daisy visited, the two girls spent the entire day outdoors, climbing on[88] the hay, playing "hide and seek" in the barn, or helping to milk the cows. However, the last time Daisy went to the farm, she caught a cold, and her mother discovered that she had been playing without her coat and hat. So this time, she said, "Daisy, I need you to promise me that you’ll keep your outdoor clothes on while you're playing with Violet, because it's a chilly day."
Daisy did not answer, and when her mother again asked her, she would not promise. The omnibus which was to take Daisy to the farm would pass at nine o'clock, and the time was drawing near, but still Daisy was self-willed and would not give in. (Oh, Daisy! that is not the Good Voice you are listening to, you will be sorry afterwards.) The omnibus came rumbling down the street, and Daisy sprang up ready to go.
Daisy didn't respond, and when her mom asked her again, she refused to promise. The bus that was supposed to take Daisy to the farm would arrive at nine o'clock, and the time was getting close, but Daisy remained stubborn and wouldn't back down. (Oh, Daisy! that is not the Good Voice you're listening to, you’ll regret it later.) The bus rolled down the street, and Daisy jumped up, ready to go.
"Do you promise, Daisy?" asked her mother; "I cannot let you go unless you do;" but Daisy was still obstinate, and the omnibus went quickly past. A minute after she burst into tears, and cried, "I will promise, mother," but by this time the omnibus was too far on its way, and there was not another until two o'clock. At this time Daisy was allowed to go, but what a pity that she should lose half a day's pleasure, and disappoint her cousin, as well as grieving her dear mother, all for the sake of wanting her own way. You remember what we said about mother knowing best in "Obedience" (Story Lesson 6). When we are obstinate, we want to please ourselves instead of some one else, so you can see that
"Do you promise, Daisy?" her mother asked. "I can't let you go unless you do." But Daisy was still stubborn, and the bus quickly drove by. A minute later, she started crying and said, "I will promise, Mom," but by then, the bus was too far along, and the next one wasn’t until two o'clock. At that point, Daisy was finally allowed to go, but it was such a shame that she would miss out on half a day's fun and let down her cousin, not to mention upsetting her dear mother, all because she wanted things her way. Remember what we said about mothers knowing best in "Obedience" (Story Lesson 6)? When we're stubborn, we choose to please ourselves instead of someone else, so you can see that
It is Selfish to be Obstinate;
Better give in; Mother Knows Best.
XXXIV. GREEDINESS.
It was breaking-up day at school, and the children were having buns and tea. Each child had brought a clean pocket-handkerchief, and spread it on the desk for a tablecloth. Then the teacher gave out the buns; nice large buns they were, with sugar on the top, and there were just a few left over, after one had been given to each child. Next a cup of tea was placed on each desk, and the tea-party went on merrily.
It was the last day of school, and the kids were enjoying buns and tea. Each child had brought a clean handkerchief and spread it on their desk like a tablecloth. The teacher handed out the buns; they were nice big ones, sprinkled with sugar on top, and there were just a few left after each child got one. Next, a cup of tea was set on each desk, and the tea party continued happily.
But why does Stephen take such large bites, and fill his mouth so full? And why is he eating so quickly? See, his bun is finished now, and he is asking for another! "Oh! Stephie, naughty boy, you have gobbled up your bun as fast as you could, because you were afraid the buns left over would be used up before you asked for more. That was greedy."
But why does Stephen take such big bites and stuff his mouth so full? And why is he eating so fast? Look, his bun is gone now, and he’s asking for another one! "Oh! Stephie, naughty boy, you gobbled up your bun as quickly as you could because you were worried the leftover buns would be gone before you asked for more. That was greedy."
Do not be greedy, boys and girls. Never mind how hungry you are; eat slowly and nicely, and pass things to others. It is so selfish to think only of your own wants, and not to care how other people are getting on. "Greediness" is an ugly word, and no one likes to see greedy children.
Don’t be greedy, kids. No matter how hungry you are, eat slowly and politely, and share with others. It’s selfish to only think about your own wants and not care about how others are doing. "Greediness" is an unpleasant word, and no one enjoys seeing greedy children.
It is Rude and Vulgar to be Greedy.
XXXV. BOASTING.
Have you ever seen a stag with its graceful, branching horns?
Have you ever seen a deer with its elegant, branching antlers?
There is a fable told of a stag who went to a pool to drink, and seeing himself reflected in the water, he said: "Dear me, how beautiful are my horns; what a nice, graceful appearance they give to me! My legs are quite slender, and not at all beautiful, but my horns are handsome." When the hunters came, however, the stag found that his slender legs were very useful, for by means of them he could run away from his enemies, and if it had not been that his horns caught in the branches of a tree and held him fast, he might have escaped.
There’s a fable about a stag who went to a pool to drink, and when he saw his reflection in the water, he said: "Wow, my horns are so beautiful; they really make me look elegant! My legs are pretty thin and not attractive at all, but my horns are impressive." However, when the hunters showed up, the stag realized that his thin legs were actually quite valuable because they allowed him to run away from danger. If it hadn’t been for his horns getting stuck in the branches of a tree, he might have been able to escape.
You see how foolish it was of the stag to boast about his fine horns; and we are just as foolish when we boast of anything that we have, or of anything we can do.
You can see how silly it was for the stag to brag about his impressive antlers; and we're just as foolish when we brag about anything we own or anything we can accomplish.
Boasting often leads to untruth, as in (Story Lesson 11) "The Three Feathers". It is always vulgar to pretend that we are better than our neighbours, and people who boast generally try to make one believe that they are cleverer or richer or better than somebody else. Let us be like the modest violet, who hides her beauty, rather than be boastful and foolish, as the stag was.
Boasting often leads to lies, as in (Story Lesson 11) "The Three Feathers." It's always crass to pretend that we're better than our neighbors, and people who brag usually try to convince others that they are smarter or wealthier or better than someone else. Let's be like the modest violet that hides its beauty, instead of being boastful and foolish like the stag was.
It is Foolish and Vulgar to Boast.
XXXVI. WASTEFULNESS.
A little girl wandered away from home one morning and got lost in a wood. She tried in vain to find the way home again, but she could not, and then she sat down and cried, for she was so tired, and oh! so hungry. She thought of the many crusts of bread and pieces of meat that she had often left on her plate at home, and how glad she would have been to eat them now. It was evening when her friends found her, and took her safely home; we will hope that she remembered that hungry day in the woods, and did not waste any more pieces of bread afterwards.
A little girl wandered away from home one morning and got lost in the woods. She tried hard to find her way back home but couldn’t, so she sat down and cried because she was so tired and, oh! so hungry. She thought about all the crusts of bread and pieces of meat she often left on her plate at home and how happy she would have been to eat them now. It was evening when her friends found her and took her safely home; hopefully, she remembered that hungry day in the woods and didn’t waste any more pieces of bread after that.
If you think of the many poor people who have scarcely enough to eat, you will see how wrong it is to waste anything. When we have more than we need, let us give it to those who have not enough, and never forget that
If you think about the countless people struggling to get enough food, you'll realize how wasteful it is to throw anything away. When we have more than we need, let's share it with those who don’t have enough, and always remember that
It is Wrong to Waste.
XXXVII. LAZINESS.
You will hear of a great king (in Story Lesson 90) who had a throne of ivory overlaid with gold. When you are old enough to read the words he wrote (Proverbs) you will find that he always kept his eyes wide open and noticed things.
You will hear about a great king (in Story Lesson 90) who had a throne made of ivory layered with gold. When you are old enough to read the words he wrote (Proverbs), you will see that he always kept his eyes wide open and paid attention to things.
As the king was taking a walk one day, he passed by a[92] vineyard, which is another name for a grape-garden, and he noticed that the wall was broken down. He looked farther, and saw that the vines were all trailing on the ground, instead of being tied up, and worse still, they were all grown over with nettles and thorns—the beautiful grape vines that give such rich, delicious fruit. "How is this?" thought the king, and he began to consider. "Ah!" said he, "this vineyard belongs to the man who likes 'a little sleep,' 'a little slumber,' and who would rather fold his hands and go to sleep again than use them to work in his garden. And what will be the end of it all? He will soon be poor, and have nothing to eat, while his lovely grapes which would have sold for money if he had looked after them, lie there buried and spoilt by the nettles and thorns."
As the king was out for a stroll one day, he walked past a[92] vineyard, which is just another term for a grape garden, and noticed that the wall was in ruins. He looked closer and saw the vines sprawled on the ground instead of being tied up, and even worse, they were all overgrown with nettles and thorns—the beautiful grape vines that produce such rich, delicious fruit. "What's going on here?" thought the king, and he started to ponder. "Ah!" he said, "this vineyard belongs to the guy who enjoys 'a little sleep,' 'a little slumber,' and who would rather fold his hands and doze off than use them to work in his garden. And what's going to happen in the end? He’ll soon be broke and have nothing to eat, while his lovely grapes, which could have been sold for money if he’d taken care of them, are left there wasted and ruined by the nettles and thorns."
It is quite right to sleep through the dark night, but this man slept in the daytime as well, instead of weeding his garden, and tying up the grapes, so we say he was a sluggard. What an ugly word it is! Would you like to be a sluggard? No, indeed you would not. Then remember this:—
It’s perfectly fine to sleep through the night, but this guy also napped during the day instead of tending to his garden and tying up the grapes, so we call him lazy. What a terrible word that is! Would you want to be called lazy? Definitely not. So keep this in mind:—
Never be Lazy.
XXXVIII. ON BEING ASHAMED.
Far away in a country called India there are many elephants, which are used for hunting, and also for carrying burdens.
Far away in a country called India, there are many elephants that are used for hunting and for carrying loads.
One evening a driver brought his elephant home, and chained him to a tree; then he went a short distance away, and made an oven to bake his cakes for supper. You will wonder how this was done.
One evening, a driver brought his elephant home and tied it to a tree. Then he walked a little ways away and set up an oven to bake his cakes for dinner. You might wonder how he managed to do this.
First he dug a hole in the ground, in which to place his fuel, and when he had set the fuel alight, he covered it with a flat stone or plate of iron, and on this he put his rice cakes to bake. He then covered them up with grass and stones and went away.
First, he dug a hole in the ground to put his fuel in, and when he lit the fuel, he covered it with a flat stone or iron plate, and on that he placed his rice cakes to bake. He then covered them with grass and stones and left.
The elephant had been watching all this, and when the man was gone, he unfastened the chain which was round his leg with his trunk, went to the oven, uncovered the cakes, and took them off with his trunk and ate them. (Perhaps he waited a little while until they cooled, for the elephant does not like his food hot.) Then he put back the grass as before, and returned to the tree. He could not manage to fasten the chain round his leg again, so he just twisted it round as well as he could, and stood with his back to the oven as if nothing had happened.
The elephant had been watching everything, and when the man left, he used his trunk to unfasten the chain around his leg, went to the oven, uncovered the cakes, took them off with his trunk, and ate them. (He might have waited a little while for them to cool, since the elephant doesn’t like his food hot.) Then he put the grass back as it was and returned to the tree. He couldn’t manage to fasten the chain around his leg again, so he just twisted it around as best as he could and stood with his back to the oven as if nothing had happened.
By-and-by the driver returned, and went to see if his cakes were ready. They were all gone, and the elephant was peeping over his shoulder to see what would happen next. The driver knew by his guilty look that he was the thief; the elephant knew he had done wrong and was ashamed.
By-and-by, the driver came back and checked to see if his cakes were ready. They were all gone, and the elephant was looking over his shoulder to see what would happen next. The driver could tell by the elephant's guilty expression that he was the thief; the elephant knew he had done something wrong and felt ashamed.
Let us not do anything that we need be ashamed of. We know what is right better than the elephant, because we can think better.
Let’s not do anything we would regret. We understand what’s right better than the elephant because we can think more clearly.
Do nothing that you need be ashamed of.
XXXIX. EARS AND NO EARS.
"Listen, boys," said the teacher, "I am going to tell you about a land across the sea, not much more than twenty miles from England—the sunny land of France." So he went on to tell them of the vines loaded with grapes, from which wine is made; of the apples growing by the roadside, and of the French people, how gay and merry they are, and how neatly the poor people dress.
"Listen up, guys," said the teacher, "I’m going to tell you about a place across the sea, just about twenty miles from England—the sunny land of France." So he went on to describe the vines heavy with grapes, from which wine is made; the apples growing by the roadside, and the French people, how cheerful and happy they are, and how neatly the less fortunate dress.
Many more interesting things he told them, and then he said: "Now, take your papers, and write down all that you can remember about France". The boys set to work, and soon all were very busy, except one—a boy named Albert, who could not think of anything to write, and who, when the papers were collected had not managed to pen a single line. How was this, do you think? It was simply because he had not attended to the teacher when he was speaking, and so he could not remember anything that had been told him.
Many more interesting things he shared with them, and then he said: "Now, take your papers and write down everything you can remember about France." The boys got to work, and soon everyone was busy, except for one boy named Albert, who couldn't think of anything to write. When the papers were collected, he hadn't managed to write a single line. Why do you think that was? It was simply because he had not paid attention to the teacher when he was speaking, so he couldn't remember anything that had been said.
One day, when Albert was about ten years old, his mother sent him to a farm for some eggs. He had not been to the farm before, but his mother told him exactly which way to go, and if he had listened he could have found it easily.
One day, when Albert was around ten years old, his mom sent him to a farm to get some eggs. He had never been to the farm before, but his mom told him exactly how to get there, and if he had paid attention, he could have found it easily.
In about an hour Albert came back, swinging the empty basket. He had not been able to find the farm. Why? Because he did not attend when his mother was telling him the way.
In about an hour, Albert came back, swinging the empty basket. He couldn’t find the farm. Why? Because he didn’t pay attention when his mom was explaining the way.
You will readily see that a child who does not attend[95] cannot learn much, and will never be bright and clever, nor of much use in helping others.
You can easily see that a child who doesn't attend[95] can't learn much and will never be bright or clever, nor be of much help to others.
Do not be Heedless; Listen and Attend.
Olive and Gertie were walking along a country road, and high up in the sky a lark poured forth his sweet song.
Olive and Gertie were walking down a country road, and high in the sky, a lark was singing its beautiful song.
"How beautifully that skylark sings," said Olive; "it is worth while to come out into the country just to hear it."
"That skylark sings so beautifully," Olive said; "it's worth coming out to the countryside just to hear it."
"I did not hear it," said Gertie, swinging her parasol.
"I didn't hear it," said Gertie, swinging her umbrella.
"It is there, right overhead," exclaimed Olive; "do look, Gertie; it will drop like a stone when it gets nearer the ground."
"It’s right up there," Olive exclaimed. "Check it out, Gertie; it’s going to fall like a rock when it gets closer to the ground."
"Oh! I cannot trouble to look up," replied Gertie, "it makes my neck ache."
"Oh! I can’t be bothered to look up," replied Gertie, "it makes my neck hurt."
By-and-by they passed a field of oats, nearly ripe, and as the wind swayed them to and fro, they made a pleasant rustling sound.
By and by, they passed a field of oats that was almost ripe, and as the wind blew through them, they made a nice rustling sound.
"How nice it is to hear the corn as it rustles in the wind," said Olive, "and listen, Gertie, is not this a pretty tinkling sound?"
"Isn't it lovely to hear the corn rustling in the wind?" Olive said. "And listen, Gertie, isn't that a nice tinkling sound?"
Olive had plucked one of the ears of oats, and was shaking its little bells close to her friend's ear.
Olive had picked one of the ears of oats and was shaking its tiny bells next to her friend's ear.
"It is nothing," said Gertie.
"It's nothing," Gertie said.
"To me it is lovely," replied Olive, "and the tinkle of the harebells is just as sweet."[96]
"To me, it's beautiful," Olive replied, "and the sound of the harebells is just as lovely."[96]
Then a bee went buzzing by, and Olive liked to hear its drowsy hum, but Gertie did not notice it.
Then a bee buzzed by, and Olive enjoyed listening to its lazy hum, but Gertie didn’t notice it.
Presently they were on the edge of the cliffs, and could hear the splash of the waves as they rolled in and broke on the beach.
Currently, they were at the edge of the cliffs and could hear the waves splashing as they rolled in and crashed on the beach.
"Surely you like to hear 'the song of the sea,'" said Olive, but Gertie made no reply—she was thinking of something else.
"Surely you enjoy listening to 'the song of the sea,'" said Olive, but Gertie didn't respond—she was lost in her own thoughts.
Do not be like Gertie, who seemed as if she had "No Ears," but, like Olive, keep your ears open to all the sweet and pleasant sounds.
Do not be like Gertie, who seemed as if she had "No Ears," but, like Olive, keep your ears open to all the sweet and pleasant sounds.
The fire makes a pleasant sound as it burns and crackles in the grate, and who does not like to hear the "singing" of the kettle on the hob? How musical is the flow of the stream, and do you not love to hear the splash of the oars as they dip in the river? or the sound made by the bow of the boat as it cuts through the water? Some people like to hear the "thud" of a great steamer as it ploughs its way through the sea, and everybody loves the sound of the wind as it whispers in the trees.
The fire makes a nice sound as it burns and crackles in the fireplace, and who doesn’t enjoy hearing the kettle "sing" on the stove? How soothing is the sound of the stream, and don’t you love hearing the splash of the oars as they dip into the river? Or the noise made by the bow of the boat as it cuts through the water? Some people like the "thud" of a huge ship as it pushes its way through the sea, and everyone loves the sound of the wind as it whispers through the trees.
The sounds that we hear in the fields and woods are called "voices of nature," let us listen to them, for they speak to us of God's love.
The sounds we hear in the fields and woods are called "voices of nature." Let’s listen to them because they tell us about God’s love.
Listen to the Voices of Nature;
They Speak of God's Love.
(Let the children enumerate some of the pleasant "sounds" mentioned, and the teacher might then write them on the Blackboard.)
(Let the children list some of the nice "sounds" mentioned, and the teacher can then write them on the board.)
XL. EYES AND NO EYES.
Have you ever heard of the "Black Country"? It is a part of England where there are many furnaces and iron-works, and a great deal of smoke; that is why it is called by this name.
Have you ever heard of the "Black Country"? It's an area in England known for its numerous furnaces and ironworks, along with a lot of smoke; that's why it's called that.
Two boys, named Francis and Algie, lived in this district, for their father was an iron-worker, and one evening they went out for a long walk. They were away two or three hours, and when they returned their mother said: "Well, boys, what did you see in your walk?"
Two boys, named Francis and Algie, lived in this neighborhood because their dad was an ironworker. One evening, they went out for a long walk. They were gone for two or three hours, and when they came back, their mom asked, "So, boys, what did you see on your walk?"
"Nothing, mother," replied Algie, "there is nothing pretty to be seen; it is all black and ugly."
"Nothing, mom," Algie replied, "there's nothing nice to look at; it's all dark and ugly."
"Ah!" said Francis, "but there was the sky, and that was beautiful, for we were walking towards the sunset, and the colours were changing all the time. First the sky seemed to be all over gold, and then as the sun went down it changed to red; next when I looked there were shades of a lovely green or blue, which soon changed to dark red; it was the loveliest sunset I have ever seen."
"Ah!" said Francis, "but there was the sky, and it was beautiful because we were walking toward the sunset, and the colors kept changing. First the sky appeared completely golden, and then as the sun set, it shifted to red; next, when I looked, there were shades of a lovely green or blue, which quickly turned to dark red; it was the most beautiful sunset I have ever seen."
How strange it was that, although both boys had eyes, only one of them saw anything worth seeing! Francis was the boy with "eyes," while Algie was as though he had "no eyes". Keep your eyes open, children, and try to see all that is beautiful. It is such a pity when people grow up and walk about without seeing anything. There is always something to see in the sky. Sometimes it is all a lovely blue, with white, fleecy clouds floating across it, or piled up in curly masses; and at night it is of a[98] deeper blue, and the stars come peeping out, reminding us in their beauty of goodness and God:—
How strange it was that, even though both boys had eyes, only one of them noticed anything worth seeing! Francis was the boy with "eyes," while Algie seemed as if he had "no eyes." Keep your eyes open, kids, and try to see all the beauty around you. It’s such a shame when people grow up and go through life without seeing anything. There's always something to notice in the sky. Sometimes it’s a lovely blue, with white, fluffy clouds drifting by or stacked in curly shapes; and at night it turns a deeper blue, with stars peeking out, reminding us through their beauty of goodness and God:—
Setting your thoughts in gold.
Little Ruby was not two years old, but she always noticed things, and tried to find out their names.
Little Ruby was not even two years old, but she always noticed things and tried to figure out their names.
One day when she was walking out with her auntie they passed a stone wall. Ruby looked at it, and then glancing up said, "Wall".
One day when she was out walking with her aunt, they passed a stone wall. Ruby looked at it, and then glancing up said, "Wall."
"Yes," said auntie. "What is the wall made of?"
"Yes," said Auntie. "What is the wall made of?"
"Coal," answered Ruby quite seriously. (I suppose the blocks of stone reminded her of the same shape in the coals.)
"Coal," Ruby replied with a straight face. (I guess the blocks of stone looked like the same shape as the coals.)
"No, it is not coal," said auntie.
"No, it isn't coal," said Auntie.
Ruby was puzzled, and thought for a little, then she said, "Wash it".
Ruby was confused and thought for a moment, then she said, "Wash it."
You see she had never heard the word "stone," and as her little hands, when dirty, became lighter coloured with washing, she thought that stone must be "washed" coal. It was wrong, of course, but it shows you that tiny Ruby used her eyes, and thought about things.
You see, she had never heard the word "stone," and as her little hands, when dirty, became lighter in color with washing, she thought that stone must be "washed" coal. It was incorrect, of course, but it shows you that little Ruby used her eyes and thought about things.
1. Eyes That See—Francis, Ruby.
**2. Eyes that Don't See—Algie.**
XLI. LOVE OF THE BEAUTIFUL.[17]
You have often gathered buttercups and daisies, but have you ever gazed into the daisy's yellow eye, and thought how wonderful it was? You will find that it is made up of many tiny flowerets, all packed closely together. And the fringe of white petals, tipped with pink, how beautiful they are! and so dainty that we might almost think they had been painted by the pencil of a fairy! And have you noticed the strong, green cup which closes round the petals at night, and keeps them all safe?
You’ve often picked buttercups and daisies, but have you ever looked into the daisy's yellow center and thought about how amazing it is? You’ll see it’s made up of lots of tiny flowers all packed together closely. And the fringe of white petals, tipped with pink, how beautiful they are! They’re so delicate that you might almost think a fairy painted them! And have you noticed the sturdy green cup that closes around the petals at night and keeps them safe?
You have held the pretty buttercup under your chin to make it look yellow, but have you ever looked carefully at the shining petals of gold? How smooth, and clear, and glossy they are!
You’ve held a pretty buttercup under your chin to see if it looks yellow, but have you ever really paid attention to the shining golden petals? They're so smooth, clear, and shiny!
There was once a great, wise king, who was so rich that he had plates and cups of gold instead of china. He made a beautiful throne of ivory, with six lions on the one side and six on the other, and the throne was all overlaid with gold; how bright and glittering it would be! And then picture the king himself in his robes of state, seated on his gilded throne, how dazzling and beautiful it would all look! And yet the greatest Teacher who ever lived—He who took the little children in his arms—said that the great King Solomon, with his throne of ivory and gold, "in all his glory" was not so beautiful as the lily growing in the field. So you see the best of all beauty[100] is close beside us, at our feet indeed, if we only have eyes to see it.
There was once a great, wise king who was so wealthy that he had gold plates and cups instead of china. He crafted a stunning throne out of ivory, featuring six lions on one side and six on the other, all covered in gold; just imagine how bright and shiny it must have been! And think about the king himself in his royal robes, sitting on his golden throne—how dazzling and lovely it all would look! Yet the greatest Teacher who ever lived—He who embraced little children—said that the great King Solomon, with his ivory and gold throne, "in all his glory," was not as beautiful as a lily growing in the field. So, you can see that the most beautiful things are right beside us, at our feet, if only we have the eyes to see them.
I love your yellow eye.
I love the pink-tipped petals
That circle around the center;
I love the pretty buttercup
Of beautiful, shining gold;
I love it, for it speaks to me,
Of amazing love unknown.
XLII. ON DESTROYING THINGS.
Why do we hang pictures on the walls, and put plants in the windows? Because we want to make the room look pretty.
Why do we hang pictures on the walls and put plants in the windows? Because we want to make the room look nice.
Why do we love the flowers and the trees, the bright green fields and the waving yellow corn? Why are we so glad to be near the sea, with its glorious, rolling waves, and to bask in the warm, bright rays of the sun? Because they are all beautiful, and when we love what is beautiful it helps us to love what is good; and when we love goodness we love God, who gave us all this beauty.
Why do we love flowers and trees, the bright green fields and the swaying yellow corn? Why are we so happy to be by the sea, with its amazing, rolling waves, and to enjoy the warm, bright sun? Because they are all beautiful, and when we appreciate beauty, it helps us to appreciate goodness; and when we appreciate goodness, we love God, who gave us all this beauty.
Now you will see why it is so wicked to destroy beautiful things. When a boy carves his name on a tree, or breaks[101] off its graceful branches, he destroys that which is good, instead of loving it; and how can he grow up gentle and true if he does not love beauty and goodness? Sometimes people put iron railings round their gardens, and you will have noticed that they are often finished off with a pointed pattern at the top, to make them look pretty. When a boy comes along and knocks off the points, he makes the railings look ugly instead of pretty. He would never think of destroying the pictures that hang on the walls of his home, or of throwing the plants away that stand in the window, yet he destroys things that are not his, and that other people have put there to make their houses look nice. I am sure you will say this is not right; it is downright wrong, just as wrong as it would be for me to go and break that boy's slate, or to snap his wickets in two when he is wanting a game of cricket, and it is all for want of thinking.
Now you'll understand why it's so wrong to destroy beautiful things. When a boy carves his name into a tree or breaks off its graceful branches, he destroys something good instead of cherishing it; and how can he grow up to be kind and honest if he doesn’t appreciate beauty and goodness? Sometimes, people put iron railings around their gardens, and you might have noticed that they often have a pointed design at the top to make them look nice. When a boy comes by and knocks off the points, he makes the railings look ugly instead of attractive. He would never think of destroying the pictures that hang on the walls of his home or throwing out the plants in the window, yet he damages things that are not his, which others put there to beautify their homes. I'm sure you would agree that this isn't right; it's downright wrong, just like it would be for me to go and break that boy's slate or snap his wickets in two when he wants to play cricket, all because he didn’t think.
It is quite dreadful to know that so many cruel, unkind things are done, just because boys and girls do not trouble to think! But I hope that you, dear children, will think, and keep your little hands from spoiling anything.
It’s really terrible to realize that so many mean and hurtful things happen simply because kids don’t take the time to think! But I hope that you, dear children, will think and keep your little hands from messing up anything.
It is Wrong to Spoil and Destroy.
XLIII. ON TURNING BACK WHEN WRONG.
A boy named Eric was coming home from school. There were two ways that he could take—one was a path through[102] the fields, and the other was a winding road. It was winter time, and there was snow on the ground. Eric chose the field path, for it was the shorter of the two, but he had not gone far when it began to snow very fast. The snow-flakes were so large, and fell so quickly, that there was very soon quite a thick carpet on the ground, and before long Eric found that he could not see the path, and he scarcely knew where he was. If he had only turned round just then, he could have seen his own footprints in the snow, and following them, would have got back to the road safely, but he did not want to do this, so he went on and on until he was lost entirely, and had not the least idea as to which was the way home.
A boy named Eric was on his way home from school. He had two options for his route—one was a path through the fields, and the other was a winding road. It was winter, and there was snow covering the ground. Eric chose the field path because it was the shorter option, but he hadn’t gone far when it started to snow heavily. The snowflakes were huge, and they were falling so fast that soon there was a thick layer covering the ground. Before long, Eric realized he could no longer see the path, and he hardly knew where he was. If he had just turned around at that moment, he could have followed his own footprints in the snow and safely made it back to the road, but he didn’t want to do that, so he kept going until he was completely lost and had no idea which way led home.
Then he determined to turn back, and try to reach the road, but where are his footprints? All covered up with snow. Eric felt ready to cry, but he struggled on as long as he could, and then a great drowsiness came over him, and he fell down in the snow.
Then he decided to turn back and try to find the road, but where are his footprints? All buried under the snow. Eric felt like crying, but he pushed on as long as he could, and then an overwhelming drowsiness hit him, and he collapsed in the snow.
It is just like that with wrong-doing, if we do not turn back at once, it becomes more and more difficult to find the path, and sometimes the wrong-doer loses it altogether.
It’s just like that with wrongdoing; if we don’t turn back right away, it becomes harder and harder to find our way, and sometimes the person who did wrong loses it completely.
When Eric did not come home from school his parents became very anxious, and his father accompanied by the dog went out to seek him. First he took the way by the road, then he came over the field-path, and the dog ran sniffing about in the snow, until he came to what looked like a white mound, and there was Eric half-buried in the snow. You can imagine how pleased the father was when he had his boy safe in his arms, and how gladly he carried him home, for if Eric had not been found quickly, he must have died. Remember Eric in the snow, and
When Eric didn't come home from school, his parents got really worried, and his dad, along with the dog, went out to look for him. First, he took the main road, then he crossed the field path, and the dog sniffed around in the snow until they found what looked like a white mound—Eric, half-buried in the snow. You can imagine how relieved the dad was when he finally had his son safe in his arms, and how happily he carried him home. If Eric hadn't been found soon, he could have frozen to death. Remember Eric in the snow, and
When you have gone Wrong, Turn Back at Once.
XLIV. ONE BAD "STONE" MAY SPOIL THE "TEMPLE".
From all these Story Lessons you will see that there are a great many "stones" for the building of "character".
From all these Story Lessons, you'll see that there are a lot of "stones" for building "character."
But there is another thought, which is this: a bad "stone," one bad "stone" may spoil all the rest. You remember we said (Story Lesson 77) that Selfishness could spoil a character. And there is another fault—I think we ought to call it a sin—that spoils the character of many an up-grown person. I mean the sin of Intemperance. You know what that is, do you not? When we say that people are intemperate, we generally mean that they take too much beer or wine, and I have known most beautiful characters spoilt by that bad "stone".
But there's another thought to consider: a bad "stone," one bad "stone" can ruin all the others. Remember we mentioned (Story Lesson 77) that selfishness can damage a character. There's another flaw—I think we should refer to it as a sin—that tarnishes the character of many adults. I'm talking about the sin of intemperance. You know what that means, right? When we say someone is intemperate, we usually mean they consume too much beer or wine, and I've seen many wonderful characters ruined by that bad "stone."
When a man has lovely "stones" like Kindness, Unselfishness and Truth in his Temple, is it not a pity that these should be all eaten away by the dreadful sin of Intemperance? Even truth, the foundation, decays, and often the lovely temple of character tumbles all to ruins.
When a man has beautiful "qualities" like Kindness, Selflessness, and Truth in his heart, isn't it a shame that these can be completely destroyed by the terrible sin of Excess? Even Truth, the foundation, deteriorates, and often the beautiful structure of character falls apart completely.
What should you think is the best thing for children to do? Is it not this? Never take any of these things that cause Intemperance, and then you will never be fond of them, and they will never get the mastery of you and spoil your character.
What do you think is the best thing for kids to do? Isn't it this? Never take any of these things that cause excess, and then you won’t like them, and they won’t control you or ruin your character.
It is Better not to Take Things that Cause
Intemperance.
2.—MANNERS.
XLV. PRELIMINARY.
You have heard the ticking of your father's watch, and have seen the hands on its face, but did you ever get a peep inside at the wonderful tiny wheels and springs? These are called the works, and if they are not right and true the hands and the face are of no use at all, because it is only when the wheels and springs work properly that the hands can tell the time correctly.
You’ve heard your dad’s watch ticking and seen the hands on its face, but did you ever get a glimpse inside at the amazing tiny wheels and springs? These are called the works, and if they aren’t right and true, the hands and the face don’t matter at all because it’s only when the wheels and springs function properly that the hands can tell the time accurately.
It is just the same with us. If the character is true and good, it will not be difficult to be polite and nice in manner, for manners are the outside part of us (just as the hands and face are the outside parts of the watch). The kind, good thoughts within—in our hearts—will teach us how to behave.
It’s the same with us. If our character is genuine and good, being polite and kind will come easily, because manners are the outside part of who we are (just like the hands and face are the outer parts of a watch). The kind, good thoughts within—in our hearts—will guide us on how to act.
There is nothing that makes people so rude as thinking of self and forgetting the comfort of others; some call it "Thoughtlessness," but we fear the true name is "Selfishness". If we are unselfish and thoughtful for others, we shall not be likely to do anything that hurts people, and so we shall not be likely to be rude.
There’s nothing that makes people as rude as focusing only on themselves and ignoring the comfort of others; some call it “thoughtlessness,” but we think the real term is “selfishness.” If we’re unselfish and considerate of others, we’re less likely to do anything that hurts people, and that means we’re less likely to be rude.
In the Story Lessons on "Manners" which follow, just see if you can find out what it is that causes each rude[105] action. You will probably say that it is "want of thought" for others.
In the Story Lessons on "Manners" that follow, see if you can figure out what causes each rude[105] action. You might say it’s a "lack of consideration" for others.
(The writer would ask the teacher, or mother, who reads the following Story Lessons to the little ones to emphasise this fact in each—that thought for others induces nice manners, while "Thoughtlessness" and "Selfishness" invariably lead to rudeness. Spoilt children, and those whose mothers are in the habit of doing everything for them, miss the training in "Thoughtfulness for others" which is so essential to the building up of an unselfish character; and so the mother's intended kindness is in reality not kindness, seeing that it causes distinct loss to the child, viz., loss of those traits of character which are the most desirable, and which tend to the greatest happiness.)
(The writer would ask the teacher, or mother, who reads the following Story Lessons to the little ones to emphasize this fact in each—that thinking about others encourages good manners, while "indifference" and "selfishness" always lead to rudeness. Spoiled children, and those whose mothers usually do everything for them, miss the training in "Consideration for others" that is crucial for developing an unselfish character; thus, the mother’s intended kindness is really not kindness, as it causes a noticeable disadvantage to the child, viz., loss of those character traits that are most desirable and that contribute to the greatest happiness.)
XLVI. ON SAYING "PLEASE" AND "THANK YOU".[18]
Alec was a merry little fellow, full of life and fun, and a great favourite with his aunties and uncles, who often gave him nice presents.
Alec was a cheerful little guy, full of energy and fun, and a big favorite with his aunts and uncles, who often showered him with nice gifts.
The strange thing about Alec was that he always forgot to say "Thank you". No matter how beautiful the present, he would just take it and play with it, and return no thanks to the kind giver, until his mother reminded him how rude it was not to say "Thank you". Alec was not like little Vernon (Story Lesson 44), who was brimming over with thanks.
The weird thing about Alec was that he always forgot to say "Thank you." No matter how nice the gift was, he would just take it, play with it, and not show any appreciation to the generous giver until his mom reminded him how rude it was to skip saying "Thank you." Alec wasn't like little Vernon (Story Lesson 44), who was full of gratitude.
One night as Alec's mother was putting him to bed, she said: "Alec, I have been reading some verses about a little girl who would not say 'Please'. She would cry 'Pass me the butter,' 'Give me some cheese'. So the fairies, 'this very rude maiden to tease,' carried her down into the woods, among the butterflies and birds and bees, until she should have learnt better manners."
One night, as Alec's mom was tucking him in, she said, "Alec, I've been reading some lines about a little girl who wouldn’t say 'Please.' She would yell 'Pass me the butter!' or 'Give me some cheese!' So the fairies, 'this very rude girl to tease,' took her down into the woods, among the butterflies, birds, and bees, until she learned some better manners."
Alec listened with wide-open eyes fixed on his mother's face, but when she said, "I wonder what the fairies would do with a little boy who always forgets to say 'Thank you,'" his eyes dropped, and he was very quiet while his mother was tucking him in his little cot.
Alec listened with his eyes wide open, focused on his mom's face, but when she said, "I wonder what the fairies would do with a little boy who always forgets to say 'Thank you,'" his eyes fell down, and he got really quiet while his mom was tucking him into his small bed.
When she had gone Alec thought to himself, "Suppose the fairies should come and take all my toys away," then he fell asleep, and this is what happened.
When she left, Alec thought to himself, "What if the fairies come and take all my toys away?" Then he fell asleep, and this is what happened.
The fairies did come, and Alec saw them. Such funny little fellows they were, dressed in red, with funny little wings stuck out behind, and the funniest of little peaked caps on their heads.
The fairies did come, and Alec saw them. They were such quirky little guys, dressed in red, with funny little wings sticking out behind and the silliest little pointed caps on their heads.
Alec began to wonder about his toys, and sure enough they had come to fetch them. First they picked up a beautiful, long railway train, which was a present from Aunt Sophie. It took them all to lift it, there were so many carriages. (Why do they not draw it along? thought Alec.) Up on their shoulders it went. Would the peaked caps fall off? No, they were all tilted sideways, and the train was borne safely out.
Alec started to think about his toys, and sure enough, they had come to get them. First, they grabbed a beautiful, long train set, which was a gift from Aunt Sophie. It took all of them to lift it because there were so many carriages. (Why don’t they just pull it along? thought Alec.) Up on their shoulders it went. Would the peaked hats fall off? No, they were all tilted sideways, and the train was carried out safely.
Soon the funny little fairies came dancing in again, laughing and rubbing their hands as they looked all about. Surely they were not going to take the Noah's ark! That was Uncle Jack's present, and the animals were such beauties! But that did not matter to the fairies. Slowly the ark was lifted on their shoulders; six fairies were on one side and six on the other; again the peaked[107] caps were tilted sideways, and solemnly they all marched out.
Soon the quirky little fairies came dancing in again, laughing and rubbing their hands as they looked around. They surely weren't going to take Noah's ark! That was Uncle Jack's gift, and the animals were such beauties! But the fairies didn't care. Slowly, they lifted the ark onto their shoulders; six fairies were on one side and six on the other. Again, their pointed[107] caps were tilted sideways, and seriously, they all marched out.
Next time they pulled out a wooden horse, papa's gift, and Alec saw that the fairies all jumped on its back, and then a funny thing happened—the horse walked out of its own accord.
Next time, they took out a wooden horse that dad had given as a gift, and Alec saw all the fairies jump onto its back. Then something funny happened—the horse walked out on its own.
Again and again they came in and bore away one precious toy after another, until there was nothing left but grandpapa's gift—the tricycle. Surely they will leave that! Alec never knew until now how much he loved his toys; but here they are again, and, yes! they are actually bringing out the tricycle. One sits on the saddle, one on each pedal, and all the rest on the handle-bar. Now the pedals go round, and, strange to say, the funny little men do not fall off. The tricycle seems to go of itself, as the horse did.
Again and again they came in and took away one precious toy after another, until there was nothing left but grandpa's gift—the tricycle. Surely they will leave that! Alec never realized until now how much he loved his toys; but here they are again, and, yes! they are actually taking out the tricycle. One sits on the saddle, one on each pedal, and everyone else on the handlebars. Now the pedals turn, and oddly enough, the little guys don’t fall off. The tricycle seems to move on its own, just like the horse did.
And now, oh dear! everything is gone, and Alec thinks he is worse off than the little girl who was carried away by the fairies.
And now, oh no! everything is gone, and Alec believes he is in a worse situation than the little girl who was taken away by the fairies.
Morning comes! Alec wakes and rubs his eyes; what has happened? Oh! the toys! Quick as thought he is out of bed, and off to the playroom in his night-dress. Where are the toys? All there, just as he left them last night. "It was only a dream, then," said Alec; "how glad I am that it is not true, but all the same I will remember to say 'Thank you' in future," and he did.
Morning arrives! Alec wakes up and rubs his eyes; what just happened? Oh! The toys! In a flash, he's out of bed and heading to the playroom in his nightgown. Where are the toys? All there, just as he left them last night. "So it was just a dream," Alec said; "I'm so glad that it’s not true, but I will remember to say 'Thank you' from now on," and he did.
Always Remember to say "Please" and "Thank you," not in a Whisper, but loudly enough to be Heard.
XLVII. ON BEING RESPECTFUL.
If you should see the sailors on board ship when they are receiving orders from the captain, you will notice how polite and respectful they are. They never forget to say "Yes, sir," or "No, sir," when he speaks to them. Perhaps the captain was once a little cabin-boy himself, and he, in his turn, had to learn to be respectful to his captain.
If you see the sailors on the ship when they're getting orders from the captain, you'll notice how polite and respectful they are. They always remember to say "Yes, sir," or "No, sir," when he talks to them. Maybe the captain was once a cabin boy himself, and he had to learn to be respectful to his captain too.
But it is not only on board ship that it is necessary to be respectful; children should always remember to say "Sir" or "Ma'am" when speaking to a gentleman or lady, wherever they may be.
But it's not just on the ship that you need to be respectful; kids should always remember to say "Sir" or "Ma'am" when talking to a man or woman, no matter where they are.
In France the word "madam" is used when addressing a lady, but in our country the "d" is mostly left out, and we say only "ma'am". (Show the two words, "madam" and "ma'am" on blackboard.)
In France, the word "madam" is used to address a lady, but in our country, the "d" is usually dropped, and we just say "ma'am." (Show the two words, "madam" and "ma'am" on the blackboard.)
No one thinks a boy or girl well-behaved who answers "Yes," or "No"; it is blunt and rude. You can always say "Sir" and "Ma'am," even if you do not know the name of the person to whom you are speaking, and in answering your father or mother you should always say "Yes, father," or "No, mother," as the case may be.
No one considers a boy or girl well-mannered if they simply reply "Yes" or "No"; it comes off as blunt and rude. You can always say "Sir" and "Ma'am," even if you don't know the person's name, and when answering your father or mother, you should always say "Yes, father," or "No, mother," depending on the situation.
But "Yes, sir" or "No, ma'am" are both right and good;
"Yes, father," "No, mother," polite children say,
And these are good rules to remember each day.
XLVIII. PUTTING FEET UP.
You have often heard grown-up people say to little children, "Behave nicely," or "Mind your manners"; I wonder if you know just what they mean. There is a little word that describes people who have not nice manners—we say they are rude. Try to find out who was rude in this story.
You’ve probably heard adults tell little kids, "Be nice," or "Watch your manners." I wonder if you really understand what they mean. There’s a small word that describes people who don’t have nice manners—we call them rude. See if you can figure out who was rude in this story.
One bright day in April little Alice was dressed all ready for a birthday party. She had on a pretty, new pink frock, of which she was very proud, and over this she wore a cloak, but the cloak was not quite long enough to cover all the pretty dress, for which Alice was not sorry. She was all the more pleased about the party because she had to go by train. It was only three miles, but Alice thought that was quite a long journey for a little girl of ten to take all by herself.
One bright day in April, little Alice was all set for a birthday party. She was wearing a lovely, new pink dress that she was very proud of, and over it, she had on a cloak, though the cloak wasn’t long enough to cover all of her pretty dress, which Alice didn’t mind at all. She was even more excited about the party because she had to take the train. It was just three miles away, but Alice thought that was quite a long journey for a ten-year-old to make all on her own.
Her mother brought her to the station, and when the train came up, Alice jumped in and sat near the window, opposite to a tall, nicely-dressed boy. Now before Alice came into the carriage, what do you think the boy had been doing? He had been sitting with his feet up on the cushions opposite, and his boots were very muddy. Can you guess the rest? Poor Alice sat down on the muddy patches left by the boy's dirty, wet boots, and her pretty pink frock was spoilt.
Her mom took her to the station, and when the train arrived, Alice jumped in and found a seat by the window, across from a tall, well-dressed boy. Before Alice entered the carriage, can you guess what the boy had been up to? He was sitting with his feet up on the seats opposite him, and his boots were really muddy. Can you imagine what happened next? Poor Alice sat down on the muddy spots left by the boy's dirty, wet boots, and her pretty pink dress got ruined.
Can you tell who was rude in this story? "The boy was rude." What did he do that was rude? "He put his feet up." Then we will say, "It is rude to put our feet up". The proper place for feet is the floor. What effect did the boy's rudeness have on Alice? (or to younger children):[110] How did the boy's rudeness make Alice feel? It made her unhappy. Then I think we might say that manners are rude when they make other people uncomfortable or unhappy.
Can you identify who was rude in this story? "The boy was rude." What did he do that was rude? "He put his feet up." So we'll say, "It's rude to put our feet up." The correct place for feet is on the floor. How did the boy's rudeness affect Alice? (or for younger kids):[110] How did the boy's rudeness make Alice feel? It made her unhappy. So I think we could say that manners are rude when they make other people uncomfortable or unhappy.
Write on Blackboard and let the children repeat the following:—
Write on the board and have the kids repeat the following:
If in our work or in our play
We take our friend's comfort away,
And make him sad instead of gay,
That's just being rude.
XLIX. BANGING DOORS.
How is it that boys and girls so often forget to close the door quietly? When Maurice went out to school in the afternoon he knew that his mother had a headache, but by the time he came home he had forgotten all about it, and so he stamped in with his muddy shoes unwiped, leaving the front door wide open.
How is it that boys and girls often forget to close the door quietly? When Maurice left for school in the afternoon, he knew his mom had a headache, but by the time he got home, he had completely forgotten. So, he stomped in with his dirty shoes still muddy, leaving the front door wide open.
His mother said, "Close the door, Maurice," and he gave it a great bang, which made her shudder.
His mom said, "Close the door, Maurice," and he slammed it hard, making her flinch.
Next he walked into the room, flung his bag on a chair, his cap on the floor, and his overcoat on the sofa. Then he said in a loud voice, "Well, mother, how's your head?" His poor mother felt almost too sad to answer him; she had so often told her little boy about hanging up his coat[111] and other things, and had tried so hard to teach him to be gentle and polite, instead of rough and rude; but you see Maurice was thoughtless, and did not remember the nice things he had been taught.
Next, he walked into the room, tossed his bag onto a chair, his cap on the floor, and his overcoat on the sofa. Then he called out loudly, "Well, mom, how's your head?" His poor mother felt almost too sad to respond; she had often told her little boy about hanging up his coat[111] and other things, and had tried hard to teach him to be gentle and polite instead of rough and rude. But you see, Maurice was thoughtless and didn't remember the nice things he had been taught.
Take care, Maurice! or you will have the ugly stone of "Selfishness" in your Temple. A boy who is not kind to his mother is the worst kind of boy, and will find it difficult to grow up into a good and noble man.
Take care, Maurice! or you’ll end up with the ugly stone of "Selfishness" in your Temple. A boy who isn't kind to his mother is the worst kind of boy and will struggle to grow into a good and noble man.
When Lulu was a little girl, she lived with her auntie and uncle. The front door of their house was made half of glass, and there was a shutter which covered the glass part of the door at night.
When Lulu was a young girl, she lived with her aunt and uncle. The front door of their house was mostly glass, and at night, there was a shutter that covered the glass section of the door.
Lulu's auntie told her that when it was windy weather she must go round to the back door, lest the front door should get a bang, and some of the panes of glass be broken.
Lulu's aunt told her that when it was windy, she should go to the back door, so the front door wouldn't slam and break some of the glass panes.
I am afraid Lulu did not always remember to obey her auntie, for one very windy morning she came home from school, and went as usual to the front door. She managed to open it and to get inside safely, then the door closed with a loud bang, for the wind was very strong, and it happened just as auntie had feared—a large pane of glass fell out of the door, and was shivered into a thousand pieces.
I’m afraid Lulu didn’t always remember to listen to her aunt. One very windy morning, she came home from school and went to the front door as usual. She managed to open it and get inside safely, but then the door slammed shut with a loud bang because the wind was so strong. Just as her aunt had feared, a large pane of glass fell out of the door and shattered into a thousand pieces.
Auntie was very angry, and Lulu was so unhappy, and cried so much that she could not eat her dinner. When her uncle came home and heard the story, and knew how sorry Lulu was, he said: "Oh, well, dry your tears, we will call and ask old James to come and mend the door, and my little girl must do what auntie tells her next time".[112]
Auntie was really angry, and Lulu was so upset that she cried so much she couldn't eat her dinner. When her uncle came home and heard what happened and saw how sorry Lulu was, he said, "Oh, come on, dry your tears. We'll call old James to come and fix the door, and my little girl needs to listen to what auntie says next time."[112]
So Lulu trotted back to afternoon school, holding to the hand of her kind uncle, and they called to tell James to put a new pane of glass into the door. But Lulu has not forgotten her disobedience, and the banging of auntie's door, although it is now more than forty years ago.
So Lulu walked back to afternoon school, holding her kind uncle's hand, and they called to tell James to put a new pane of glass in the door. But Lulu hasn't forgotten her disobedience and the slamming of auntie's door, even though it was over forty years ago.
Close Doors Softly.
L. PUSHING IN FRONT OF PEOPLE.
The Queen was in London, and as the time drew near when she was expected to drive through the park, many people stood on the sidewalk to see her carriage pass.
The Queen was in London, and as the time approached for her to drive through the park, many people lined the sidewalk to watch her carriage go by.
A little lady who was walking through the park thought she would stand with the others to see Her Majesty, and as she was too short to look over the heads of the people, she found a place at the edge of the crowd near the roadway.
A small lady who was walking through the park decided to join the others to catch a glimpse of Her Majesty, and since she was too short to see over the heads of the crowd, she found a spot at the edge of the group near the road.
By-and-by they heard a cheer in the distance, and knew that the Queen's carriage had come out of the palace gates. At that very moment some one came pushing through the people, and before the little lady had time to speak, a great big boy brushed rudely past, and stood in front of her. The lady touched him on the arm, and he turned round, and saw that it was a friend of his mother's whom he had been treating so rudely. He raised his cap at once, and, blushing with shame, begged the lady's pardon, and took a place behind her.[113]
By and by, they heard a cheer in the distance and realized that the Queen's carriage had come out of the palace gates. Just then, someone pushed through the crowd, and before the little lady had a chance to speak, a big boy rudely brushed past her and stood in front of her. The lady touched him on the arm, and he turned around, realizing it was a friend of his mother's whom he had been treating so disrespectfully. He quickly raised his cap, blushed with shame, apologized to the lady, and took a place behind her.[113]
But if the lady had been a perfect stranger, it would have been equally wrong for the boy to act like that. It is always rude to push, whether we are entering a tramcar, a railway train, or going to some place of amusement; let us remember this:—
But even if the woman had been a complete stranger, it would still have been wrong for the boy to act that way. It's always rude to shove, whether we're getting on a tram, a train, or heading to a place for fun; let’s keep this in mind:—
It is Rude to Push in Front of People.
LI. KEEPING TO THE RIGHT.[19]
When you have been walking down the street, has it ever happened that you could scarcely move for the people who are blocking up the causeway? That is because they do not keep to the right.
When you’ve been walking down the street, have you ever found it hard to get through because of the people crowding the path? That’s because they don’t stay to the right.
In London, where the streets are so busy, it would be impossible to get along if people did not keep to the right. What accidents we should have in the streets if the drivers did not remember to keep to their proper side of the road, which is the left! And how often the ships at sea would go bumping against each other if they did not remember always to keep to the right in passing those that are coming in an opposite direction! If you are ever puzzled as to how you should pass people in the street
In London, where the streets are always bustling, it would be impossible to navigate if people didn’t stick to the right. Just imagine the accidents we would have in the streets if drivers didn’t remember to stay on their designated side of the road, which is the left! And how often would ships at sea collide with each other if they didn’t always keep to the right when passing those coming from the opposite direction? If you ever feel confused about how to pass people in the street
Keep to the Right.
LII. CLUMSY PEOPLE.
I wonder if you know any boys and girls who are clumsy. I am always a little sorry for clumsy people; they seem to be so often in trouble. If the clumsy boy is allowed to collect the slates, he is sure to send some of them sliding on to the floor with a noise like thunder; or if he gathers the books in a pile it is sure to topple over, and the books are scattered in every direction. The clumsy people tread on our toes, step on a lady's dress and tear it maybe, or bump against baby's cot in passing and wake the little sleeper.
I wonder if you know any clumsy boys and girls. I always feel a bit sorry for clumsy people; they seem to get into trouble a lot. If the clumsy boy is given the job of collecting the slates, he's definitely going to send some sliding to the floor with a loud crash; or if he stacks the books, it’s guaranteed to topple over, scattering the books everywhere. Clumsy people step on our toes, trip over a lady's dress and tear it, or bump into a baby's crib while passing by and wake the little one.
Do you think we could find out the secret of being clumsy? Is not it for want of taking care? You remember Elinor, in Story Lesson 79, how she upset her tea, broke the vase, and spoilt the tablecloth, all for want of care? It is the same with clumsy people—they forget to take care?
Do you think we could figure out the secret to being clumsy? Isn't it just a matter of not taking care? Remember Elinor, in Story Lesson 79, how she spilled her tea, broke the vase, and ruined the tablecloth, all because she didn't take care? Clumsy people are the same—they just forget to be careful.
The books and slates are not piled carefully, that is why they tumble; they bulge out here and go in there, instead of being smooth and straight on every side. If you do not want to be clumsy
The books and slates aren't stacked carefully, which is why they fall over; they stick out on one side and dip on another, instead of being neat and straight all around. If you don’t want to be awkward
Take Pains, and be Careful in all you do.
LIII. TURNING ROUND WHEN WALKING.
Have you ever seen a girl walking along the street with her head turned backwards, trying to look behind her as she goes? Of course she does not walk straight, for she is not looking where she is going. It would be better if she did either look where she is going or turn quite round, and go where she is looking.
Have you ever seen a girl walking down the street with her head turned backwards, trying to look behind her as she walks? Of course she doesn't walk straight because she's not paying attention to where she's going. It would be better if she either focused on where she’s headed or turned completely around and walked in the direction she’s looking.
A girl was coming along the street one day with a paper bag full of eggs, looking behind her all the time.
A girl was walking down the street one day with a paper bag full of eggs, constantly looking over her shoulder.
A lady, who was walking in the opposite direction, tried to get out of her way, but as we said before, the girl could not walk straight when her eyes were turned backward, and as the lady stepped to one side to avoid her, the girl in her zigzag walk came to the same side and bumped up against the lady.
A woman who was walking in the opposite direction tried to move out of her way, but as we mentioned earlier, the girl couldn’t walk straight when she was looking backward. When the woman stepped aside to avoid her, the girl, in her zigzag walk, ended up on the same side and bumped into the woman.
Crash! went the eggs, and a yellow stream ran down the pretty blue dress worn by the lady. What would the girl's mother say when her eggs were all wasted? This is a true story, and you will agree that the girl was very silly to walk along with her head turned round. You see we have no eyes behind our head, nor even at the side; they are at the front, so
Crash! went the eggs, and a yellow stream ran down the pretty blue dress that the lady was wearing. What would the girl's mom say when all her eggs were ruined? This is a true story, and you'll agree that the girl was very silly to walk around with her head turned. You see, we don’t have eyes in the back of our heads, or even on the sides; they're in the front, so
Look where you are Going.
LIV. ON STARING.
There was once a girl named Ruth, who was in many respects very well-behaved indeed. For instance, you would never hear her reply to her mother without saying "Yes, mother," or "No, mother," and she never banged the door or came into a room noisily, but she had one fault that was really very bad.
There was once a girl named Ruth who, in many ways, was really well-behaved. For example, you would never hear her respond to her mother without saying "Yes, mom" or "No, mom," and she never slammed the door or entered a room loudly, but she had one fault that was quite serious.
As Ruth went on her way to school each day, she passed a house that had its dining-room window facing the street. The window was rather low, and every time that Ruth went by she would walk slowly, and stare into the room all the time. If the people were at dinner it made no difference—she still gazed in. You will think this exceedingly rude, as indeed it was, but it is quite true nevertheless.
As Ruth walked to school each day, she passed a house with a dining room window facing the street. The window was pretty low, and every time Ruth went by, she would slow down and stare into the room. It didn't matter if the people were at dinner; she kept looking in. You might find this really rude, and it definitely was, but it's still true.
One day a lady came to the school that Ruth attended; she was driven there in her carriage, and remained talking to the teacher after the children had been dismissed. Presently she said, "Good afternoon," and left, and the teacher, happening to glance out of the window, was vexed to see that a number of the scholars had gathered round the carriage, and were staring in, and staring at the lady as she took her seat. Next day the children were told how rude this was, and we hope that Ruth learnt at the same time how rude it is to stare into people's houses.
One day, a woman came to the school that Ruth went to; she arrived in her carriage and stayed to talk to the teacher after the kids had been let out. Eventually, she said, "Good afternoon," and left. The teacher, glancing out the window, was annoyed to see several students gathered around the carriage, staring inside and at the woman as she took her seat. The next day, the kids were told how rude this behavior was, and we hope that Ruth also learned how disrespectful it is to stare into people’s homes.
Another day some Japanese ladies came to the school to see the children drill; they were dressed so differently from English people, and looked so funny with their little slanting eyes, and their shiny, black hair dressed high, with no bonnet to cover it, that the children were tempted to[117] stare again, but the teacher had told them that it would be rude to stare at the ladies. "You may glance at them," said she, "but do not keep your eyes fixed on them." It is natural to wish to look at curious things, but we can be careful to take our eyes away when we have glanced, so that we do not stare, and make the person uncomfortable, for you remember we said that anything was rude which caused people to be uncomfortable (p. 110).
Another day, some Japanese women came to the school to watch the kids practice; they were dressed so differently from English people and looked so funny with their little slanting eyes and their shiny black hair styled high, without any hats to cover it, that the children were tempted to[117] stare again. But the teacher had told them it would be rude to stare at the women. "You can glance at them," she said, "but don't keep your eyes on them." It’s natural to want to look at interesting things, but we can be careful to look away after we’ve glanced so we don’t stare and make the person uncomfortable, because you remember we said that anything that makes people uncomfortable is rude (p. 110).
There was a little boy in church who had just the same rude habit as Ruth. He would sit or stand at the end of the pew, and turn his head round to see what was passing behind. He did not take just a little glance, and then turn his eyes back again—even that would have been rude—but he kept his gaze fixed behind for ever so long.
There was a little boy in church who had the same rude habit as Ruth. He would sit or stand at the end of the pew and turn his head to see what was happening behind him. He didn't just take a quick look and then turn his eyes back—even that would have been rude—but he kept his gaze fixed behind for a really long time.
Do you know why we do not look about in church? It is because we go there to worship the Great God, to hear of Him, and think about Him, and we cannot do this if we are looking about, and thinking of other things. Why do we close our eyes when we pray? It is so that we may think of what we are saying; if we kept them open, we should be thinking of what we were seeing instead, should we not?
Do you know why we don't look around in church? It’s because we go there to worship the Great God, to learn about Him, and reflect on Him, and we can’t do that if we’re gazing around and thinking about other things. Why do we close our eyes when we pray? It’s so we can focus on what we’re saying; if we kept them open, we’d end up thinking about what we were seeing instead, right?
It is Rude to Stare.
LV. WALKING SOFTLY.
A long time ago there was a war, and the English soldiers went out to fight. Many of the poor fellows were wounded,[118] and a kind lady, who is now quite old, went from England to nurse the brave soldiers. Her name was Florence Nightingale, and it is a name that everybody loves.
A long time ago, there was a war, and the English soldiers went out to fight. Many of the poor guys were wounded,[118] and a kind lady, who is now pretty old, traveled from England to care for the brave soldiers. Her name was Florence Nightingale, and it's a name that everyone loves.
The soldiers had never been nursed by a lady before, and she was so kind and gentle, they loved her more than I can tell you—so much, indeed, that they would kiss her shadow on the pillow as she walked softly through the rooms where they lay.
The soldiers had never been cared for by a woman before, and she was so kind and gentle that they loved her more than I can express—so much, in fact, that they would kiss her shadow on the pillow as she walked quietly through the rooms where they were resting.
If you have ever been in a hospital you will know how quietly the nurses move about. Why is it? Because a noise would disturb the poor sufferers. But it is not nice for people who are well either to hear children stamping about as if they would send their feet through the floor. Have you noticed how softly pussy moves? It is because she walks on her toes. We have to wear shoes on our feet, and cannot help making a little noise, but we must remember to step on our toes, and move as quietly as possible.
If you've ever been in a hospital, you know how quietly the nurses move around. Why is that? Because noise would disturb the patients. But it's also not pleasant for healthy people to hear children stomping around like they’re trying to break through the floor. Have you noticed how softly a cat moves? It's because she walks on her toes. We have to wear shoes on our feet and can't help making a bit of noise, but we should remember to walk on our toes and move as quietly as we can.
Try always to Walk Softly.
LVI. ANSWERING WHEN SPOKEN TO.[20]
One day a lady was passing through a country village, and not being quite sure as to which was the right road to take, she went up to some boys who were playing on the green to inquire.
One day, a woman was walking through a rural village, and unsure of which road to take, she approached some boys playing on the green to ask for directions.
"Can you tell me, please, which is the way to East Thorpe?" asked the lady.
"Could you please tell me how to get to East Thorpe?" asked the lady.
"Yes, ma'am," said one of the boys, raising his cap, "you walk straight past the church, and then take the first road to the right." The lady thanked the boy, and bade him "Good-day," and as he replied "Good-day, ma'am," and again raised his cap, she thought to herself, "What a civil, polite boy! He is very poorly dressed, but he has the manners of a gentleman, and how nicely he answered when I spoke to him; I must tell Dorothy about it."
"Yes, ma'am," one of the boys said, tipping his cap. "You just walk straight past the church and then take the first road on the right." The lady thanked the boy and said "Have a good day," and as he responded "Have a good day, ma'am," and tipped his cap again, she thought to herself, "What a respectful, polite boy! He’s not dressed well, but he has the manners of a gentleman, and he answered me so nicely; I have to tell Dorothy about this."
Dorothy was the lady's little niece, and had been staying with her some time. One afternoon auntie had taken Dorothy with her to call at the house of a friend, and when the lady spoke kindly to the little girl, and asked her name and where she lived, Dorothy only smiled and looked foolish, and did not speak or answer. Her auntie was very much surprised, and perhaps felt a wee bit ashamed of her little niece that afternoon.
Dorothy was her aunt’s little niece and had been visiting her for a while. One afternoon, her aunt took Dorothy along to visit a friend, and when the lady kindly spoke to the little girl, asking her name and where she lived, Dorothy just smiled and looked silly, not saying anything in response. Her aunt was quite surprised and maybe felt a bit embarrassed by her niece that day.
Children should never be bold and forward, but they should look up and answer a question fearlessly and clearly when they are asked one; it is so foolish to simper and not speak.
Children shouldn’t be overly bold or pushy, but they should look up and answer a question confidently and clearly when asked; it’s really silly to smile shyly and stay quiet.
Always Answer when you are Spoken To.
LVII. ON SPEAKING LOUDLY.
The train had just steamed into the railway station, when a porter opened the carriage door to let a lady step in—at[120] least she looked like a lady, and was dressed most elegantly. Her gown was of silk, over which she wore a rich fur-lined cloak, and her bonnet was quite smart with feathers and flowers. As she drew off her gloves, you could not help noticing that her fingers were covered with glittering rings. "Surely she must be going to some grand concert, or to a party," thought we.
The train had just arrived at the railway station when a porter opened the carriage door to let a woman step in—at[120] least she looked like a lady, dressed very elegantly. Her gown was made of silk, and she wore a luxurious fur-lined cloak over it. Her hat was quite stylish with feathers and flowers. As she took off her gloves, you couldn’t help but notice her fingers were adorned with sparkling rings. "She must be heading to some fancy concert or a party," we thought.
But listen to what happened next! Just before the train started she suddenly opened the carriage window, and leaning out as far as ever she could, shouted in a loud, rough voice, so loudly that all the people round could hear, "Heigh! you porter there, is my luggage all right?" Then she closed the window and sat down, and we felt that in spite of her finery she was a rude, rough woman, for a lady is gentle, and would never speak in a loud, coarse voice that grates on those who hear it.
But listen to what happened next! Just before the train started, she suddenly opened the carriage window and leaned out as far as she could, shouting in a loud, harsh voice, so loudly that everyone around could hear, "Hey! You there, porter, is my luggage all right?" Then she closed the window and sat down, and we felt that despite her fancy clothes, she was a rude, rough woman, because a lady is gentle and would never speak in a loud, coarse voice that grates on those who hear it.
Never speak too loudly either out of doors or elsewhere; keep always a soft, sweet voice.
Never speak too loudly, whether outdoors or anywhere else; always maintain a soft, sweet voice.
Is loved, like sweet music;
Coarse tones and loud are out of place
At home or on the street.
LVIII. ON SPEAKING WHEN OTHERS ARE SPEAKING.
It was holiday time, and Margery had gone to play with her little friend Helena Poynter, who lived in the next street but one. They were in a little summer-house at the[121] end of the garden, having a happy time with their dolls, and Helena was telling Margery that her father had promised to take them all for a picnic to the hills next day. They were to drive there in a coach, papa, mamma, Helena, and her brothers, who were all at home for the holidays.
It was vacation time, and Margery had gone to hang out with her little friend Helena Poynter, who lived just down the street. They were in a small summerhouse at the[121] end of the garden, having a great time with their dolls. Helena was telling Margery that her dad had promised to take them all for a picnic in the hills the next day. They were going to drive there in a coach along with her parents, Helena, and her brothers, who were all home for the holidays.
Just then Helena's mamma came walking down the garden. "Good-morning, Margery," said she, and Margery stood up at once and returned her greeting. "I have been thinking," said Mrs. Poynter, "that you would like to join our picnic to-morrow, and I am sure we could find room for one more on the coach."
Just then, Helena's mom walked down the garden. "Good morning, Margery," she said, and Margery immediately stood up to greet her back. "I've been thinking," Mrs. Poynter continued, "that you would like to join our picnic tomorrow, and I'm sure we can make room for one more on the coach."
"Oh! thank you, ma'am," said Margery, "I should like it so much; I will run round and ask mother at once," and off she ran as fast as her little legs could carry her.
"Oh! Thank you, ma'am," said Margery. "I would really love that; I'm going to ask my mom right now," and off she ran as fast as her little legs could carry her.
Margery came into the house bubbling over with the good news, and anxious to tell it all to her mother immediately, but she found that a lady had called and was talking to her mother, so she just waited quietly until the conversation was ended before she spoke a word, for Margery knew that
Margery came into the house, excited to share the good news, and eager to tell her mother right away, but she discovered that a lady had stopped by and was chatting with her mom. So, she waited patiently until their conversation was over before saying anything, because Margery knew that
It is Rude to Speak when Other People are Speaking.
You will see now why we sit quietly in church, or at an entertainment, or in a room when any one is singing or playing—it is because we do not wish to be rude, and it is rude to speak when any one else is speaking, or praying, or reading aloud, or singing, or playing music for us.
You can now understand why we sit quietly in church, at an event, or in a room when someone is singing or playing. It's because we don't want to be rude, and it is rude to talk when someone else is speaking, praying, reading aloud, singing, or playing music for us.
You will like to know that Margery was allowed to go to the picnic, and she enjoyed it very much.[122]
You’ll be happy to know that Margery was able to go to the picnic, and she had a great time.[122]
LIX. LOOK AT PEOPLE WHEN SPEAKING TO THEM.
In a previous Story Lesson, No. 106, we spoke of a village boy who, you remember, answered the lady politely, when she inquired her way. His name was Fred, and when a gentleman came to the school that Fred attended one day, and said he wanted an office-boy, the schoolmaster called Fred up to the desk. The boy looked so bright and honest, and said, "Yes, sir" so politely, that the gentleman thought he would do, and the next week Fred began his work. Sometimes he had to sit at a desk and do writing; one morning as he sat thus, the master came in to speak to him. What do you think Fred did? He rose from his stool at once, turned towards his master, and stood while he was speaking. The master was giving Fred instructions about his work, and as soon as he had finished, Fred looked up and replied, "Yes, sir, I will attend to it".
In a previous Story Lesson, No. 106, we talked about a village boy who, as you may remember, answered the lady politely when she asked for directions. His name was Fred, and one day, when a gentleman came to the school Fred attended and said he needed an office boy, the schoolmaster called Fred up to the desk. The boy looked bright and honest, and when he said, "Yes, sir," so politely, the gentleman thought he would be a good fit, so the following week Fred started his job. Sometimes he had to sit at a desk and do some writing; one morning while he was working, the master came in to talk to him. What do you think Fred did? He immediately got up from his stool, faced his master, and stood while he was speaking. The master was giving Fred instructions about his work, and as soon as he finished, Fred looked up and replied, "Yes, sir, I will take care of it."
We have learnt two lessons from Fred, what are they?
We’ve learned two lessons from Fred; what are they?
2. To Look up when Speaking to any one.
LX. ON TALKING TOO MUCH.
One evening a number of friends met together at a little party. First they all had tea, and after tea was over[123] they sat round the fire to talk, for some of them had not seen each other for a long time. But there was one lady there who had so much to say that scarcely any one else could get a chance to speak. She talked and talked nearly all the evening. Sometimes we expect one person to speak all the time, as when we go to hear a lecture, or to listen to a sermon in church, but when people meet together for conversation, it is much pleasanter to hear more than one speak.
One evening, a group of friends gathered for a small party. They started off with tea, and after finishing their tea[123], they sat around the fire to chat since some hadn’t seen each other in a while. However, there was one lady who had so much to say that hardly anyone else got a chance to speak. She talked and talked for most of the evening. Sometimes we expect one person to do all the talking, like when we go to a lecture or listen to a sermon in church, but when friends get together for a conversation, it’s much nicer to hear more than one person share.
Another time three children were having dinner with some grown-up people, and a lady who was there told me that one of the children, a little girl about eight years of age, talked continually, so that even the grown-up people had scarcely an opportunity of speaking.
Another time, three kids were having dinner with some adults, and a lady who was there told me that one of the kids, a little girl around eight years old, kept talking so much that even the adults hardly had a chance to speak.
So you see it is quite possible for people to be made uncomfortable by a child speaking too much, as well as by a child that refuses to speak at all (Dorothy in Story Lesson 106).
So you can see it’s totally possible for people to feel uncomfortable with a child who talks too much, just like with a child who won’t speak at all (Dorothy in Story Lesson 106).
Perhaps you have been in a railway carriage where a little boy has never ceased asking questions and talking during the whole journey. Years ago children used to be told that "they must be seen and not heard". We do not often say that now, but we must remember that it is rude to take up all the conversation, or even more than our share. I believe it is more than rude—it is selfish. We must learn to listen to other people as well as to talk ourselves.
Maybe you've been on a train where a little boy kept asking questions and talking the entire trip. Years ago, kids were told that "they should be seen and not heard." We don’t really say that anymore, but we should remember that it’s rude to dominate the conversation, or even to take more than our fair share. I think it's more than just rude—it’s selfish. We need to learn to listen to others as much as we talk.
Do not be too Fond of Hearing Yourself Talk;
Learn to Listen as well.
LXI. GOING IN FRONT OF PEOPLE.
One evening Minnie sat at the table preparing her lessons. Her father and mother, with an aunt who had called to see them, were seated at the hearth.
One evening, Minnie was sitting at the table getting her lessons ready. Her father and mother, along with an aunt who had come to visit them, were sitting by the fireplace.
In a little while Minnie found that she required a book from the bookcase, which stood in a recess to the left of the fireplace, so she rose from the table, and, without speaking a word, walked in front of her aunt and in front of her father to reach the book. Her aunt looked up in astonishment, and her father exclaimed: "Minnie, how rude you are!"
In a little while, Minnie realized she needed a book from the bookcase, which was in a niche to the left of the fireplace. So, she stood up from the table and, without saying a word, walked in front of her aunt and her father to grab the book. Her aunt looked up in surprise, and her father said, "Minnie, how rude you are!"
Why was Minnie rude? Because she did not say "Excuse me, please," both to her aunt and her father. We ought not to go in front of any one, if we can by any means avoid it; but, if it is impossible to get behind, we must never forget to say those little words which Minnie so rudely forgot.
Why was Minnie rude? Because she didn't say "Excuse me, please," to both her aunt and her dad. We shouldn't not walk in front of anyone if we can help it; but if it's impossible to go behind, we must always remember to say those little words that Minnie rudely forgot.
A gentleman was travelling in a railway train, and, as there was no one else in the carriage, he placed his portmanteau and other luggage on the rack opposite to where he sat instead of overhead.
A man was traveling on a train, and since there was no one else in the carriage, he put his suitcase and other bags on the rack across from where he sat instead of above.
At the next station several people entered the carriage, and, when the gentleman wanted to get out, he was obliged to reach up in front of the people sitting opposite to get[125] his luggage. But he did not forget to say, "Excuse me, please".
At the next stop, several people got on the train, and when the man wanted to get off, he had to reach over the people sitting across from him to grab his luggage. But he remembered to say, "Excuse me, please."
When Passing in Front of others, or when Reaching in Front, always say "Excuse me, please".
LXII. WHEN TO SAY "I BEG YOUR PARDON".
I was talking to a lady one day, and not happening to hear something that I said, she exclaimed in a loud voice, "What?" I was as much astonished as Minnie's aunt was in Story Lesson 111, and quite forgot what I had intended to say next. What should the lady have said? She should have said, "I beg your pardon". Perhaps she had forgotten herself just that one time.
I was talking to a lady one day, and not hearing something I said, she exclaimed loudly, "What?" I was as surprised as Minnie's aunt was in Story Lesson 111, and totally forgot what I intended to say next. What should the lady have said? She should have said, "Excuse me." Maybe she just lost track of herself that one time.
Suppose you are sitting at table next to mother, who is pouring the tea; perhaps there is no bread and butter near enough for her to reach, and you do not notice that her plate is empty. She is obliged to ask you to pass her something, and as you do so you feel sorry that you have not done it without being asked, and you say, "I beg your pardon, mother". Some people leave out the "I," and say "Beg your pardon," or "Beg pardon," but the proper words are, "I beg your pardon".[126]
Imagine you're sitting at the table next to your mom, who is pouring the tea. Maybe there's no bread and butter close enough for her to reach, and you don't notice that her plate is empty. She has to ask you to pass her something, and as you do, you feel bad that you didn't do it without being asked, so you say, "I beg your pardon, mom." Some people skip the "I" and say "Beg your pardon" or "Beg pardon," but the correct phrase is "I beg your pardon."[126]
A young lady was hurrying down a street, and, as she turned the corner quickly, she nearly ran against a little ragged boy, but by putting out her arms she just managed to save him from being hurt. Then she rested her hands on his shoulders, and said in a sweet voice: "I beg your pardon, my boy". The boy was greatly surprised that any one should beg his pardon; he had not been accustomed to have people speak politely to him, but the lady knew that it is just as important to be polite to a beggar as to a fine gentleman.
A young woman was rushing down the street, and as she quickly turned the corner, she almost bumped into a little ragged boy. But by reaching out her arms, she managed to prevent him from getting hurt. She then rested her hands on his shoulders and said in a gentle voice, "I'm sorry, my boy." The boy was really surprised that anyone would apologize to him; he wasn't used to people speaking nicely to him. However, the woman knew that it’s just as important to be polite to a beggar as it is to a well-dressed gentleman.
We should, of course, try not to run against people, and be careful not to step on a lady's dress or on any one's toes, but if by accident we do make any of these blunders, we must remember to say, "I beg your pardon".
We should, of course, try not to bump into people, and be careful not to step on a lady's dress or anyone's toes, but if we accidentally do make any of these mistakes, we must remember to say, "I’m sorry."
When you Forget to pass a Plate,
When you Bump against any one,
When you Hurt any one in any way,
Do not Forget to say, "I Beg your Pardon".
LXIII. RAISING CAP.
Why is it, do you think, that a boy raises his cap? It is to show respect to the lady or gentleman whom he is passing[127] or speaking to. That was why the boy raised his cap to the lady in Story Lesson 106, and said "Yes, ma'am;" he wished to show her respect. Soldiers do not raise their caps to the general or captain; they salute (that is, they raise the forefinger of right hand to forehead), but it answers the same purpose—it shows their respect. Why do men and boys take off their caps and hats when they enter a church or chapel? It is to show reverence to the God of all who is worshipped there.
Why do you think a boy takes off his cap? It's to show respect to the lady or gentleman he is passing by or talking to[127]. That's why the boy took off his cap to the lady in Story Lesson 106 and said "Yes, ma'am;" he wanted to show her respect. Soldiers don't take off their caps for the general or captain; they salute (which means they raise their right forefinger to their forehead), but it serves the same purpose—it shows their respect. Why do men and boys remove their caps and hats when they enter a church or chapel? It's to show reverence to God, who is worshiped there.
Boys should always remember to raise their caps when a lady or gentleman bows or speaks to them, and also when they enter a house or other place, such as a church or chapel.
Boys should always remember to lift their caps when a lady or gentleman bows or talks to them, and also when they enter a house or another place, like a church or chapel.
LXIV. ON OFFERING SEAT TO LADY.
A number of soldiers were one day riding in a car, indeed the car was quite full of soldiers; and at the end there was a general, that is the man who is at the head of the soldiers.
A group of soldiers was riding in a car one day, and the car was really packed with soldiers; at the back, there was a general, who is the person in charge of the soldiers.
Presently the car stopped, and a poor old woman entered, but there was no room for her to sit, and not one of the soldiers had the good manners to offer her his seat. So the woman walked to the end of the car where the general sat, that she might stand where she would not be in any one's way, but the kind general rose instantly, and gave her his place; that was courteous and kind of him, was it not? Then several of the other soldiers stood, and asked the general to be seated, but he said: "No, there was no seat for[128] the poor woman, so there is none for me". The soldiers were very much ashamed, and soon left the car.
Currently, the train stopped, and a poor old woman got on, but there wasn’t any space for her to sit, and not one of the soldiers had the decency to offer her their seat. So, the woman walked to the end of the car where the general sat, so she could stand out of everyone’s way, but the kind general immediately stood up and offered her his spot; that was polite and nice of him, wasn’t it? Then several of the other soldiers stood up and told the general to take a seat, but he replied, "No, there isn't a seat for the poor woman, so there isn't one for me." The soldiers felt very embarrassed and soon left the car.
Why did the general offer his seat to the old woman? For the same reason that the boy raises his cap—to show respect to her.
Why did the general give his seat to the old woman? For the same reason the boy tips his hat—to show her respect.
You know how father takes care of mother and lifts heavy weights for her, and how brothers take care of sisters, and so if there is not room for everybody to sit, a man or boy will rise, and let a woman have his place; and they do all this partly because they are strong and like to do kind acts, and partly because it is nice and right to be courteous to women.
You know how dads take care of moms and lift heavy stuff for them, and how brothers look out for their sisters. So, if there isn’t enough room for everyone to sit, a guy or boy will get up and let a woman have his seat. They do this partly because they’re strong and enjoy doing kind things, and partly because it’s nice and right to be polite to women.
But a kind woman does not like always to take the seat that is offered to her. The man may be old or weak, then the woman would say, "Thank you, I will stand," for she sees that the man needs the seat more than she does. And if a man had been working hard all day (never sitting down at all maybe), and he should be coming home tired at night, in the train or tramcar, one would not like to let him stand, and give up his place.
But a kind woman doesn’t always want to take the seat that’s offered to her. If the man is old or weak, she might say, “Thanks, I’ll stand,” because she recognizes that he needs the seat more than she does. And if a man has been working hard all day (maybe not sitting down at all), and he’s coming home tired at night on the train or tram, she wouldn’t want to let him stand and give up his spot.
It is nice and polite for a man to offer his seat, and the lady should always say, "Thank you," whether she takes it or not.
It’s kind and considerate for a man to offer his seat, and the woman should always say, "Thank you," regardless of whether she sits down or not.
A very old man entered a crowded railway carriage, and a young girl who was sitting near the door stood up at once and offered the old man her place, for she knew that he was too weak to stand. So you see that sometimes it is right for a girl or woman to give up her seat; we must not let the men do all the kind, polite actions.[129]
An elderly man walked into a packed train car, and a young girl sitting by the door immediately got up and offered him her seat, knowing he was too frail to stand. So, you see, sometimes it’s appropriate for a girl or woman to give up her seat; we shouldn’t expect men to handle all the kind, polite gestures.[129]
LXV. ON SHAKING HANDS.
One afternoon I called with a friend to see a lady at whose house I had not been before; she was very pleased to see us, and brought her little boy, Reggie, into the room where we sat.
One afternoon, I went with a friend to visit a woman I hadn’t met before; she was really happy to see us and brought her little boy, Reggie, into the room where we were sitting.
"Shake hands with the ladies, Reggie," said his mother; but Reggie refused, and hid his face in her dress. She explained that he was shy, and went on coaxing him to come and speak to us. After a great deal of talking and persuading, he consented to come and shake hands, if his mother would come with him. So she brought him across the room, and held out his hand, just as you hold out the arm of your doll, when you play at shaking hands with her.
"Shake hands with the ladies, Reggie," his mother said; but Reggie wouldn’t do it and hid his face in her dress. She explained that he was shy and kept coaxing him to come and talk to us. After a lot of talking and convincing, he agreed to come and shake hands, if his mother would come with him. So she brought him across the room and held out his hand, just like you hold out your doll's arm when you pretend to shake hands with her.
Would you make all that fuss and trouble about shaking hands with any one? I hope not. It is so silly, as well as ill-mannered.
Would you make all that fuss and trouble about shaking hands with anyone? I hope not. It’s so silly, not to mention rude.
After this Reggie sat down in a little chair, and tried to put his feet up on a small table that was near—but you will not care to hear about such a badly-behaved little boy. And it was not very long before his mother had to take him from the room screaming, he was so tiresome and naughty.
After this, Reggie sat down in a small chair and tried to rest his feet on a nearby little table—but you probably don't want to hear about such a poorly-behaved little boy. It wasn't long before his mom had to take him out of the room while he was screaming; he was so annoying and misbehaving.
If Reggie had tried to please his mother and her visitors, instead of his little self, everybody would have been much happier, and I am sure he would, for selfish people cannot be happy.
If Reggie had tried to please his mom and her guests, instead of just focusing on his own needs, everyone would have been much happier, and I'm sure he would have been too, because selfish people can't find happiness.
Be friendly, be kind everywhere;
Shake hands with strangers, be polite,
Always be kind and unselfish.
LXVI. KNOCKING BEFORE ENTERING A ROOM.
A lady was sitting in a cottage one morning talking to the person who lived there, when suddenly, and without any warning knock, or even a little tap, some one lifted the latch noisily, and pushing the door wide open, burst into the room, asking, "What time is it?"
A woman was sitting in a cottage one morning talking to the person who lived there when suddenly, without any warning knock or even a little tap, someone lifted the latch loudly and pushed the door wide open, bursting into the room and asking, "What time is it?"
The lady looked up to see who the rude intruder could be, and beheld a little, rosy-faced boy. She called him to her, and placing her hand on his shoulder said kindly: "My little fellow, do you not know that you should knock at a door before entering, and should say, 'Please, will you tell me the time?'" The boy hung his head and looked ashamed, but we hope he remembered what the lady said to him, and I hope also that none of you ever forget to
The lady looked up to see who the rude intruder could be, and saw a little, rosy-faced boy. She called him over and placed her hand on his shoulder, saying kindly: "My little guy, don’t you know you should knock on a door before coming in, and say, 'Please, can you tell me the time?'" The boy hung his head and looked embarrassed, but we hope he remembered what the lady told him, and I also hope that none of you ever forget to
Knock at the Door before Entering a Room.
LXVII. HANGING HATS UP, ETC.
You did not admire the boy (Story Lesson No. 98) who threw his bag here, his cap there, and his coat somewhere else, did you? neither will you be likely to admire the little boy in this story.[131]
You didn't really admire the boy (Story Lesson No. 98) who tossed his bag here, his cap there, and his coat somewhere else, did you? You probably won't end up admiring the little boy in this story either.[131]
But come with me—I will take you into the bedroom of a boy named Percy, who has gone to a party. I am afraid you can scarcely get inside though, for everything he has taken off is lying on the floor. His coat is flung behind the door, his collar lies inside the fender, and his trousers are beside the bed. He has been playing on the bed, you see, for it is all tossed, and one of the pillows has tumbled on the floor.
But come with me—I’ll take you into a boy named Percy’s bedroom, who’s been to a party. I’m afraid you can hardly get in though, because everything he took off is lying on the floor. His coat is thrown behind the door, his collar is inside the fireplace, and his pants are next to the bed. He’s been playing on the bed, you can tell, because it’s all messed up, and one of the pillows has fallen on the floor.
Let as take a peep into the nursery, where Percy's play-things are. There is a railway train on the floor, just as he has been playing with it; and beyond the train, where he had made a huge castle with all the bricks he could find, the floor is all strewn over with bricks from the castle, which has tumbled down.
Let’s take a look in the nursery, where Percy’s toys are. There’s a toy train on the floor, just like he was playing with it; and beyond the train, where he built a huge castle with all the bricks he could find, the floor is covered with bricks from the castle, which has fallen down.
Who will pick up all these things, and tidy the two rooms that Percy has left in such a dreadful state? His mother, maybe, who has so many other things to do. Would you leave all your clothes scattered on the floor for some one else to pick up, instead of folding them neatly yourself? or would you like another to have the trouble of putting away all your toys? No, I am sure you would not. None of us want to be selfish, but if Percy does not mind, he will grow up selfish, because he is not taking thought for others.
Who will clean up all this stuff and straighten the two rooms Percy has left in such a terrible mess? Maybe his mom, who already has so much to do. Would you leave all your clothes lying around for someone else to clean up instead of folding them neatly yourself? Or would you want someone else to deal with putting away all your toys? No, I’m sure you wouldn’t. None of us want to be selfish, but if Percy doesn’t care, he will grow up selfish because he’s not considering others.
Put away your toys,
Save mother all the work you can,
Dear kids.
The recitation, "Two Little Maids" (New Recitations for Infants) would follow this Story Lesson appropriately.
The recitation, "Two Little Maids" (New Recitations for Infants) would follow this Story Lesson perfectly.
LXVIII. HOW TO OFFER SWEETS, ETC.
Some one had brought baby a parcel of sweets. They were rather sticky, but baby did not mind that when the colours were so pretty! There were pink, blue, red and yellow sweets, and she was greatly pleased with them. Baby was very kind and unselfish, so she wanted us all to share her sweets, and picking one out with her little chubby fingers, (which were not any too clean), she offered it to mamma. You see baby was very tiny, and had not yet learnt that sweets should always be offered in the paper or box, and not be touched by the fingers at all. But mamma explained this to her, and then baby lifted up the paper, and trotted round to everybody, holding it out, and saying, "Please, take one".
Someone had brought the baby a box of sweets. They were a bit sticky, but the baby didn’t mind because the colors were so bright! There were pink, blue, red, and yellow candies, and she was really happy with them. The baby was very kind and unselfish, so she wanted us all to share her sweets. Picking one out with her little chubby fingers (which weren’t very clean), she offered it to mom. You see, the baby was very small and hadn’t learned that sweets should always be offered in the wrapper or box and shouldn’t be touched by fingers at all. But mom explained this to her, and then the baby lifted the paper, walked around to everyone, holding it out and saying, “Please, take one.”
Fruit and nuts should be offered in a plate or dish. It is not nice to touch with our fingers anything that we are offering to others.
Fruit and nuts should be served on a plate or in a bowl. It's not polite to touch anything we're offering to others with our fingers.
Always offer Sweets in the Paper or Box.
LXIX. YAWNING, COUGHING, AND SNEEZING.
I daresay you have sometime been in a room where a person was sleepy, and kept yawning continually. You[133] know that by-and-by you begin to do the same yourself, and it is very disagreeable. A good plan is to run out of the room and bathe your face in cold water: that will soon make you feel bright again. It is not nice to yawn, because it makes other people feel sleepy, and we should never forget to cover the mouth with the hand: it is very rude to open the mouth wide, and not to put the hand in front of it.
I dare say you’ve been in a room with someone who was sleepy and kept yawning constantly. You[133] know that eventually, you start doing the same thing, and it’s quite unpleasant. A good idea is to step out of the room and splash your face with cold water: that will quickly wake you up. Yawning isn’t great because it makes others feel tired, and we should always remember to cover our mouths with our hands: it’s very rude to yawn widely without putting your hand in front of it.
In coughing and sneezing, people should make as little noise as they possibly can. Sometimes we hear coughing in church, and the minister can scarcely speak for the noise. A pocket-handkerchief will soften the sound a good deal, both in coughing and sneezing.
In coughing and sneezing, people should be as quiet as possible. Sometimes we hear coughing in church, and the minister can barely speak over the noise. A handkerchief will really help muffle the sound when coughing or sneezing.
These are only little things, but they can make others feel uncomfortable, and you remember we said that it was rude to do anything that caused people to be uncomfortable (p. 110), so do not forget to
These are just small things, but they can make others feel uneasy, and remember we said it was rude to do anything that made people uncomfortable (p. 110), so don’t forget to
Cover the Mouth when Yawning;
Make as Little Noise as Possible when Coughing
or Sneezing.
LXX. HOW A SLATE SHOULD NOT BE CLEANED.
You will have noticed that there is always moisture in your mouth. Where do you think it comes from? Perhaps[134] you did not know that there were six tiny fountains in your mouth, two on each side the tongue, and one in each cheek. When you are well these little fountains pour out the fluid which keeps your mouth so nice and moist. Sometimes when people are ill the little fountains do not flow, and the mouth is all dry and parched, and they are longing to drink all the time.
You might have noticed that there's always some moisture in your mouth. Where do you think it comes from? Maybe you didn’t realize that there are six tiny fountains in your mouth—two on each side of the tongue and one in each cheek. When you're healthy, these little fountains produce the fluid that keeps your mouth nice and moist. Sometimes, when people are sick, these little fountains don’t work properly, and their mouths get dry and parched, making them crave a drink all the time.
The fluid that comes from the tiny wells is called saliva, and, when we eat, it mixes with the food in the mouth, and goes down with it into the stomach. But this is what I want you to learn, the saliva is never to be sent out of the mouth in the way that is called "spitting" (an ugly word, is it not?), and you must remember never to do this, not even when you are cleaning your slate. You may breathe on your slate, and rub it dry with your slate rag, though that is not a very nice way. The best plan of all is to have a damp sponge, as well as a slate rag, and a well-mannered child would have both.
The fluid that comes from the tiny glands is called saliva, and when we eat, it mixes with the food in our mouths and goes down with it into the stomach. But here's what I want you to learn: saliva should never be spat out of the mouth, which is called "spitting" (such an unpleasant word, right?), and you need to remember never to do this, not even when you're cleaning your slate. You can breathe on your slate and wipe it dry with your slate rag, although that's not the most pleasant method. The best approach is to have a damp sponge, along with a slate rag, and a well-mannered child would have both.
If there is anything in your mouth that needs to come away, take it out with your pocket-handkerchief, and remember that the proper way is to
If you have anything in your mouth that needs to come out, use your pocket handkerchief to remove it, and keep in mind that the proper way is to
Clean your Slate with a Damp Sponge, and Dry with a Slate Rag, not with a Pocket-handkerchief.
LXXI. THE POCKET-HANDKERCHIEF.
I'm square and white, that's true,
And many things I'm used for
By kids like you.
(Let children guess answer.—Pocket-handkerchief.)
There is moisture in the nose as well as in the mouth, and we keep a handkerchief in our pocket to take the moisture away, when it makes us uncomfortable. A nice, clean child will never be without a pocket-handkerchief, and he will use it without having to be told.
There is moisture in the nose as well as in the mouth, and we keep a handkerchief in our pocket to wipe away the moisture when it makes us uncomfortable. A nice, clean child will never be without a pocket handkerchief, and he will use it without needing to be told.
In using a pocket-handkerchief, as in coughing and sneezing, we should make as little noise as possible, and we should try not to have to use it at table. If it is necessary to do so, we must turn our head away, as we should do if we were obliged to cough or sneeze.
In using a pocket handkerchief, just like when coughing and sneezing, we should try to be as quiet as possible and avoid using it at the table. If we have to use it, we should turn our head away, just like we would if we needed to cough or sneeze.
Use Pocket-handkerchief Without Being Told,
Making as Little Noise as Possible.
LXXII. HOW TO BEHAVE AT TABLE.
124. Phil's Disaster.
Phil was a little boy, and sat on a high chair at the table. He was very fond of tilting his chair backwards and forwards, which was not well-mannered, you will say. One dinner time, just as all the dishes had been placed on the table, and Phil was tilting back as far as ever he could, it happened that the chair lost its balance, and fell over backwards, taking Phil with it; and as he grasped the tablecloth in falling, he drew it with all the dishes on the top of him. Many of the dishes were broken, and the dinner was all scattered and spoilt. Surely Phil would never tilt his chair again.
Phil was a little boy who sat in a high chair at the table. He loved to tilt his chair back and forth, which wasn’t very polite, you might say. One dinner time, just as all the dishes were placed on the table, Phil tilted back as far as he could, and the chair suddenly lost its balance, falling over backwards and taking Phil with it. As he fell, he grabbed the tablecloth, pulling it with all the dishes right on top of him. Many of the dishes broke, and dinner was scattered and ruined. Surely Phil would never tilt his chair again.
Have you ever sat at table with a child who was never still? Such a child was Katie! Instead of waiting quietly until every one was served, she would fidget about on her chair, put her little fat arms on the table (which you know is a very rude thing to do), and move from side to side all the time. When at last she was served, her dinner would be quickly eaten, and then she was impatient to be gone, and kept asking mother if she might not leave the table, and go to her book or her play.
Have you ever sat at a table with a child who just couldn't sit still? That was Katie! Instead of waiting quietly until everyone was served, she would squirm in her chair, rest her little chubby arms on the table (which is pretty rude), and constantly shift from side to side. When she finally got her food, she'd eat it super fast and then get impatient to leave, constantly asking her mom if she could leave the table to go read or play.
Now if Katie had thought a little of others, she would not have made everybody uncomfortable by being so restless. When she was waiting to be served, and when she had[137] finished, she should have sat quietly with her hands in her lap. These two stories teach us that
Now, if Katie had considered others a bit more, she wouldn't have made everyone feel uneasy by being so fidgety. While waiting to be served, and even after she was done, she ought to have sat calmly with her hands in her lap. These two stories show us that
We must Sit Still at Table.
126. The Helpful Little Girl.
A very different child from restless Katie (Story Lesson 125) was Hilda, whose mother had died, and left her little ones to the care of auntie. When the dinner-bell rang, Hilda would run into the room, and see that all the chairs were in their places round the table, especially baby's, for he was much too little to bring his own chair. It was Hilda who lifted baby into his place, and tied on his "feeder"; and when his plate was passed, she prepared his food, and took care that it was not too hot for him.
A very different child from restless Katie (Story Lesson 125) was Hilda, whose mother had died and left her little ones in the care of their aunt. When the dinner bell rang, Hilda would run into the room and make sure all the chairs were in their places around the table, especially the baby's, since he was way too small to bring his own chair. It was Hilda who lifted the baby into his spot and tied on his "feeder"; and when his plate was passed, she prepared his food and ensured it wasn't too hot for him.
Hilda's bright eyes were always ready to see anything that was needed: "Shall I pass you the salt, grandpapa?" "May I give you a little water, auntie?" No wonder auntie said that Hilda was just like sunshine in the house, and the reason was that she thought so little of herself, and so much of those around her. Let us try to be like Hilda; she was much happier, I am sure, than restless Katie, for there is nothing nicer than to bring sunshine into the lives of others, and this we do by being helpful.
Hilda’s bright eyes were always ready to notice anything that was needed: “Should I pass you the salt, grandpa?” “Can I get you some water, auntie?” It’s no surprise that auntie said Hilda was just like sunshine in the house, and the reason was that she thought so little of herself and so much of those around her. Let’s try to be like Hilda; she was much happier, I’m sure, than restless Katie, because there’s nothing better than bringing sunshine into the lives of others, and we do this by being helpful.
Pass Things and Help all you can.
127. Leslie and the Christmas Dinner
We heard of people who were clumsy in another Story Lesson (No. 102), and I am afraid Leslie was a little like them.
We heard about people who were awkward in another story lesson (No. 102), and I’m afraid Leslie was a bit like them.
It was Christmas Day, and there was a large family party at grandmamma's, to which Leslie and his mother were invited. The dinner-table looked beautiful with its snow-white cloth and shining silver, and its decorations of Christmas roses and red-berried holly.
It was Christmas Day, and there was a big family gathering at Grandma's, where Leslie and his mom were invited. The dinner table looked stunning with its white tablecloth, shiny silverware, and decorations of Christmas roses and red-berried holly.
The dinner-bell rang, and the guests took their places at the table. Leslie bounced into the room, and was sitting down on the last chair, all in a hurry, when he somehow caught the tablecloth, and by dragging it upset the gravy, and sent it streaming all over the nice, clean cloth. Leslie was very sorry, and his mother was so uncomfortable at the thought of his clumsiness, that I am afraid the dinner was spoilt for her. From Leslie we learn to
The dinner bell rang, and the guests settled at the table. Leslie rushed into the room and was about to sit down in the last chair when he accidentally grabbed the tablecloth, pulling it and spilling the gravy all over the nice, clean cloth. Leslie was really sorry, and his mom felt so embarrassed about his clumsiness that I’m afraid the dinner was ruined for her. From Leslie, we learn to
Sit Down Carefully, so as not to Upset Anything.
If you were eating plum tart or cherry pudding, how should you manage with the stones? (Let children try to answer.) When a little bird eats a cherry, he drops the stone on the ground; the bird has no spoon and fork to eat with, so that is the best thing he can do.[139]
If you were eating plum tart or cherry pudding, how should you deal with the pits? (Let kids try to answer.) When a little bird eats a cherry, it drops the pit on the ground; the bird doesn’t have a spoon and fork to eat with, so that’s the best it can do.[139]
One day a boy, named Kenneth, was invited out to dinner, and one of the dishes was cherry tart. There was a custard pudding as well, but Kenneth thought he would like cherry tart better, and he did not remember that the stones might be a difficulty until he began to eat it. He felt sure that it was not right to drop them out of his mouth on to the plate, and he could not think what else to do. He looked round the table, but no one else was taking cherry tart, or he might have noticed what another person did. At last he determined that he would keep all the cherry stones in his cheek until dinner was over, and put them out afterwards, when no one was looking. But presently some one told a funny little story, and, as Kenneth could not help laughing with the rest, out came the cherry stones, to his great dismay.
One day, a boy named Kenneth was invited to dinner, and one of the dishes was cherry tart. There was also a custard pudding, but Kenneth thought he would prefer the cherry tart, and he didn’t remember that the pits might be a problem until he started eating it. He was sure it wasn’t okay to spit them out onto the plate, and he couldn’t think of what else to do. He looked around the table, but no one else was having cherry tart, or he might have seen what someone else did. Finally, he decided he would hold all the cherry pits in his cheek until dinner was over and discreetly get rid of them later when no one was watching. But then someone told a funny little story, and as Kenneth couldn’t help laughing with everyone else, out came the cherry pits, to his great embarrassment.
The best way is to separate the stone from the cherry on your plate with the spoon and fork, but if you cannot manage this, take the stone from your mouth with the spoon, and put it gently on the edge of the plate. Everybody has to learn these things, and as no one had happened to tell Kenneth, of course he did not know.[140]
The best way is to separate the pit from the cherry on your plate using a spoon and fork, but if you can't do that, take the pit from your mouth with the spoon and gently place it on the edge of the plate. Everyone needs to learn these things, and since no one ever mentioned it to Kenneth, he obviously didn't know.[140]
LXXIII. ON EATING AND DRINKING.

At the fork, I see;
The knife is used for cutting, and should
Not close to the lips to be.
3. When pudding comes, the point of spoon
Can go in the mouth,
But soup or broth is made from
The side you know.
4. Without a noise I eat and drink,
I shouldn't spill my food,
Neither scorch my mouth nor express any complaints,
"This isn't nice, it isn't good."

If we sneeze or cough, we try,
When we're sitting down to eat,
Do it quietly;
And don't forget, please,
Turn your head away.
3. When we have finished, then
The knife and fork should be placed
On our plate together,
And hands rest peacefully
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Until mom wakes up.
(Explain that children should not leave table until mother has done so, unless she gives them permission.)
(Explain that kids shouldn't leave the table until their mother has finished, unless she gives them permission.)
LXXIV. FINALE.
A great many years ago, a little girl played in a garden in London. Her father was dead, but she had a dear, good mother, who taught her to build for herself a good and beautiful character, for the mother knew that this would be a better thing for the little girl to have than gold or diamonds, because as the Fairy Queen told us, it lasts for ever.
Many years ago, a little girl played in a garden in London. Her father had passed away, but she had a loving, caring mother who taught her to create a good and beautiful character for herself, as her mother understood that this would be more valuable for the little girl than gold or diamonds, because as the Fairy Queen told us, it lasts forever.
As time went on the little girl grew up, and became a great queen. She has been a queen now for more than sixty years, and I do not think there ever was so good a queen, and we are sure there never was one so dearly loved. The queen has a beautiful gold crown, and beautiful castles and palaces to live in, but these are not the things she values most. Best of all, she has all those lovely jewels in her character that we have been speaking about, with "Truth" for the foundation, and it is all woven round with the pure gold of "Kindness"; these are the jewels that are more precious to the great queen than crowns and costly stones.
As time passed, the little girl grew up and became a great queen. She has been queen for over sixty years now, and I don't think there has ever been a better queen, nor one so deeply loved. The queen has a stunning gold crown, along with beautiful castles and palaces to live in, but those aren’t what she values most. Above all, she possesses all those lovely qualities we've talked about, with "Truth" as the foundation, and it’s all surrounded by the pure gold of "Kindness"; these are the jewels that matter more to the great queen than crowns and precious stones.
Do you know the name of this queen? It is our own Queen Victoria.
Do you know the name of this queen? It's our very own Queen Victoria.
Why do we love her so much? Not because she is a queen, simply, for queens have sometimes been wicked, but because she is good, and true, and kind, and these jewels make up the something that we call "character," which when built like this is more beautiful than the Fairies' Temple.[143]
Why do we love her so much? Not just because she’s a queen—after all, queens can sometimes be cruel—but because she’s good, honest, and kind. These qualities create what we call "character," and when it's built this way, it’s more beautiful than the Fairies' Temple.[143]
And just think of it: every little boy and girl may build up a good, true character, which is the most precious thing you can have.
And just think about it: every little boy and girl can develop a solid, genuine character, which is the most valuable thing you can possess.
The Story Lessons in this book have been written to help each one of you who hear them to build up this beautiful Temple of Character.
The story lessons in this book have been written to help each one of you who hears them to build this beautiful Temple of Character.
The queen believes that a good "character" is the best thing in the world, and I want you all to think so too.
The queen thinks that a good "character" is the most valuable thing in the world, and I want all of you to believe that too.
A man who was put in prison for preaching wrote a beautiful book,[23] which you will read when you are older, and in it there is this story.
A man who was imprisoned for preaching wrote a beautiful book,[23] which you'll read when you're older, and it includes this story.
The story tells of a man who spent all his time raking up rubbish on the floor to find gold and other things, and never once looked up. But all the time there was an angel standing behind him with a beautiful crown in her hand, which she wanted the man to have, but he never saw it.
The story is about a man who spent all his time raking up garbage on the ground to find gold and other treasures, and never once looked up. But all the while, there was an angel standing behind him with a beautiful crown in her hand that she wanted him to have, but he never noticed it.
That is like the people who think of nothing but self, instead of "looking up" and thinking of the beautiful "stones" that build up the "Temple," which is such a good thing to have, just as the crown was, which the man did not see. Let us look up and see all that is beautiful and good, so that we may become like God who made all these things.
That’s like people who only think about themselves, instead of “looking up” and appreciating the beautiful “stones” that make up the “Temple,” which is so wonderful to have, just like the crown that the man didn’t notice. Let’s look up and recognize all that is beautiful and good, so we can become like God, who created all these things.
FOOTNOTES:
[1] Animal Intelligence, Romanes.
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[3] Kindergarten Guide, published by Messrs. Longmans.
[4] Romanes' Animal Intelligence.
[5] Romanes' Animal Intelligence.
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[6] Smiles' Life of Edward.
[7] Romanes' Animal Intelligence.
[8] Ibid.
[9] Romanes' Animal Intelligence.
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[10] Heads Without Hands.
[16] Romanes' Animal Intelligence.
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[21] Games Without Music, No. 55.
[22] Fold hands in lap.
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[23] Pilgrim's Progress.
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