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EMILE

By Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Translated by Barbara Foxley










CONTENTS

TABLE OF CONTENTS










Author’s Preface

This collection of scattered thoughts and observations has little order or continuity; it was begun to give pleasure to a good mother who thinks for herself. My first idea was to write a tract a few pages long, but I was carried away by my subject, and before I knew what I was doing my tract had become a kind of book, too large indeed for the matter contained in it, but too small for the subject of which it treats. For a long time I hesitated whether to publish it or not, and I have often felt, when at work upon it, that it is one thing to publish a few pamphlets and another to write a book. After vain attempts to improve it, I have decided that it is my duty to publish it as it stands. I consider that public attention requires to be directed to this subject, and even if my own ideas are mistaken, my time will not have been wasted if I stir up others to form right ideas. A solitary who casts his writings before the public without any one to advertise them, without any party ready to defend them, one who does not even know what is thought and said about those writings, is at least free from one anxiety—if he is mistaken, no one will take his errors for gospel.

This collection of random thoughts and observations lacks much order or continuity; it started as a way to bring joy to a thoughtful mother. My original plan was to write a short pamphlet, but I got carried away with my topic, and before I knew it, my pamphlet had turned into something resembling a book—too lengthy for its content but too brief for its subject. For a long time, I debated whether to publish it or not, and while working on it, I often felt that publishing a few pamphlets is different from writing a book. After several unsuccessful attempts to improve it, I’ve decided it’s my responsibility to publish it as is. I believe public attention needs to be drawn to this topic, and even if my ideas are flawed, my efforts won’t be wasted if they inspire others to develop better perspectives. A writer who puts their work out there without anyone to promote it, without any supporters to back it up, and who doesn't even know what people think about their writings, at least doesn't have to worry about one thing—if they’re wrong, no one will take their mistakes as truth.

I shall say very little about the value of a good education, nor shall I stop to prove that the customary method of education is bad; this has been done again and again, and I do not wish to fill my book with things which everyone knows. I will merely state that, go as far back as you will, you will find a continual outcry against the established method, but no attempt to suggest a better. The literature and science of our day tend rather to destroy than to build up. We find fault after the manner of a master; to suggest, we must adopt another style, a style less in accordance with the pride of the philosopher. In spite of all those books, whose only aim, so they say, is public utility, the most useful of all arts, the art of training men, is still neglected. Even after Locke’s book was written the subject remained almost untouched, and I fear that my book will leave it pretty much as it found it.

I won’t say much about how valuable a good education is, nor will I take the time to prove that the traditional methods of education are ineffective; this has been stated over and over, and I don’t want to fill my book with what everyone already knows. I’ll simply point out that, no matter how far back you look, there’s always been a loud criticism of the established methods, but no one has really tried to come up with a better approach. The literature and science of our time tend to tear down rather than build up. We criticize like experts; to propose solutions, we need to take a different approach, one that’s not so aligned with the ego of the philosopher. Despite all those books that claim to be aimed at public benefit, the most useful art of all—the art of training people—remains overlooked. Even after Locke’s book was published, the topic barely received any attention, and I’m afraid my book will leave things pretty much as they are.

We know nothing of childhood; and with our mistaken notions the further we advance the further we go astray. The wisest writers devote themselves to what a man ought to know, without asking what a child is capable of learning. They are always looking for the man in the child, without considering what he is before he becomes a man. It is to this study that I have chiefly devoted myself, so that if my method is fanciful and unsound, my observations may still be of service. I may be greatly mistaken as to what ought to be done, but I think I have clearly perceived the material which is to be worked upon. Begin thus by making a more careful study of your scholars, for it is clear that you know nothing about them; yet if you read this book with that end in view, I think you will find that it is not entirely useless.

We know very little about childhood, and with our misconceptions, the more we learn, the more we go off track. The best writers focus on what an adult should understand, without considering what a child is capable of learning. They’re always searching for the adult in the child, ignoring who the child is before they grow up. This is the area I have mostly focused on, so even if my approach is a bit out there and flawed, my insights might still be helpful. I could be completely wrong about what should be done, but I believe I've clearly recognized what needs to be addressed. Start by studying your students more carefully, because it’s obvious that you don’t know enough about them; however, if you read this book with that intention, I think you’ll find it’s not entirely useless.

With regard to what will be called the systematic portion of the book, which is nothing more than the course of nature, it is here that the reader will probably go wrong, and no doubt I shall be attacked on this side, and perhaps my critics may be right. You will tell me, “This is not so much a treatise on education as the visions of a dreamer with regard to education.” What can I do? I have not written about other people’s ideas of education, but about my own. My thoughts are not those of others; this reproach has been brought against me again and again. But is it within my power to furnish myself with other eyes, or to adopt other ideas? It is within my power to refuse to be wedded to my own opinions and to refuse to think myself wiser than others. I cannot change my mind; I can distrust myself. This is all I can do, and this I have done. If I sometimes adopt a confident tone, it is not to impress the reader, it is to make my meaning plain to him. Why should I profess to suggest as doubtful that which is not a matter of doubt to myself? I say just what I think.

Regarding what will be known as the systematic part of the book, which is simply the course of nature, this is where the reader might misinterpret things, and I expect I’ll face criticism for this, and my critics might be justified. You might say to me, “This isn’t really an essay on education; it’s just a dreamer’s ideas about education.” What can I do? I haven’t written about other people’s views on education; I’ve written about my own. My thoughts are my own; I’ve faced this criticism repeatedly. But can I give myself different perspectives or adopt other ideas? I can choose not to be attached to my own opinions and not think I’m wiser than others. I can’t change my beliefs; I can question myself. That’s all I can do, and that’s what I’ve done. If I sometimes sound confident, it’s not to impress the reader, but to clarify my point. Why would I suggest uncertainty about something that isn’t uncertain to me? I’m sharing exactly what I believe.

When I freely express my opinion, I have so little idea of claiming authority that I always give my reasons, so that you may weigh and judge them for yourselves; but though I would not obstinately defend my ideas, I think it my duty to put them forward; for the principles with regard to which I differ from other writers are not matters of indifference; we must know whether they are true or false, for on them depends the happiness or the misery of mankind. People are always telling me to make PRACTICABLE suggestions. You might as well tell me to suggest what people are doing already, or at least to suggest improvements which may be incorporated with the wrong methods at present in use. There are matters with regard to which such a suggestion is far more chimerical than my own, for in such a connection the good is corrupted and the bad is none the better for it. I would rather follow exactly the established method than adopt a better method by halves. There would be fewer contradictions in the man; he cannot aim at one and the same time at two different objects. Fathers and mothers, what you desire that you can do. May I count on your goodwill?

When I share my opinion, I really don’t think of claiming authority at all, so I always provide my reasons for you to consider and judge for yourselves. Even though I wouldn’t stubbornly defend my ideas, I believe it’s my duty to present them because the principles I disagree with compared to other writers aren’t trivial; we need to know whether they’re true or false, as they affect the happiness or suffering of humanity. People often tell me to make PRACTICABLE suggestions. You might as well ask me to suggest things people are already doing or at least to come up with improvements that could be combined with the wrong methods currently in use. In some cases, such a suggestion is much more unrealistic than my own because, in that context, the good gets twisted and the bad doesn’t get any better. I would rather stick to the established method than only partially adopt a better method. There would be fewer inconsistencies in a person; you can’t aim for two different goals at the same time. Parents, whatever you desire, you can achieve. Can I count on your support?

There are two things to be considered with regard to any scheme. In the first place, “Is it good in itself” In the second, “Can it be easily put into practice?”

There are two things to consider with any plan. First, "Is it good in itself?" Second, "Can it be easily put into action?"

With regard to the first of these it is enough that the scheme should be intelligible and feasible in itself, that what is good in it should be adapted to the nature of things, in this case, for example, that the proposed method of education should be suitable to man and adapted to the human heart.

Regarding the first point, it’s enough for the plan to be clear and practical on its own, and that what’s beneficial in it aligns with the nature of reality. For instance, the suggested educational approach should be appropriate for humans and cater to human emotions.

The second consideration depends upon certain given conditions in particular cases; these conditions are accidental and therefore variable; they may vary indefinitely. Thus one kind of education would be possible in Switzerland and not in France; another would be adapted to the middle classes but not to the nobility. The scheme can be carried out, with more or less success, according to a multitude of circumstances, and its results can only be determined by its special application to one country or another, to this class or that. Now all these particular applications are not essential to my subject, and they form no part of my scheme. It is enough for me that, wherever men are born into the world, my suggestions with regard to them may be carried out, and when you have made them what I would have them be, you have done what is best for them and best for other people. If I fail to fulfil this promise, no doubt I am to blame; but if I fulfil my promise, it is your own fault if you ask anything more of me, for I have promised you nothing more.

The second consideration depends on specific conditions in certain cases; these conditions are random and therefore changeable; they can vary infinitely. For example, one type of education might work in Switzerland but not in France; another might be suitable for the middle class but not for the nobility. The approach can be implemented with varying degrees of success, depending on many factors, and its outcomes can only be determined by its specific application to one country or another, or to this class or that. However, all these specific applications are not central to my topic, and they are not part of my plan. It is enough for me that, wherever people are born, my suggestions for them can be implemented, and once you shape them into what I envision, you will have done what is best for them and for society as a whole. If I fail to deliver on this promise, then I am at fault; but if I keep my promise, it is your own responsibility if you expect anything more from me, because I haven't promised you anything beyond that.










BOOK I

God makes all things good; man meddles with them and they become evil. He forces one soil to yield the products of another, one tree to bear another’s fruit. He confuses and confounds time, place, and natural conditions. He mutilates his dog, his horse, and his slave. He destroys and defaces all things; he loves all that is deformed and monstrous; he will have nothing as nature made it, not even man himself, who must learn his paces like a saddle-horse, and be shaped to his master’s taste like the trees in his garden. Yet things would be worse without this education, and mankind cannot be made by halves. Under existing conditions a man left to himself from birth would be more of a monster than the rest. Prejudice, authority, necessity, example, all the social conditions into which we are plunged, would stifle nature in him and put nothing in her place. She would be like a sapling chance sown in the midst of the highway, bent hither and thither and soon crushed by the passers-by.

God creates everything good; humans interfere, and it turns bad. They make one type of soil produce what another does, force one tree to bear a different fruit. They mix up and distort time, place, and natural conditions. They harm their pets, horses, and servants. They ruin and disfigure everything; they embrace all that is twisted and grotesque; they reject everything as nature intended, not even humans, who must learn their steps like a horse in training and be shaped to suit their masters like the trees in a garden. However, without this guidance, things would be worse, and humanity can’t be formed in half-measures. In the current situation, a person left alone from birth would be more of a monster than others. Prejudice, authority, necessity, and the examples set by society would stifle their true nature and leave nothing in its place. They would be like a sapling accidentally planted in the middle of a road, bent this way and that, and soon crushed by passersby.

Tender, anxious mother, [Footnote: The earliest education is most important and it undoubtedly is woman’s work. If the author of nature had meant to assign it to men he would have given them milk to feed the child. Address your treatises on education to the women, for not only are they able to watch over it more closely than men, not only is their influence always predominant in education, its success concerns them more nearly, for most widows are at the mercy of their children, who show them very plainly whether their education was good or bad. The laws, always more concerned about property than about people, since their object is not virtue but peace, the laws give too little authority to the mother. Yet her position is more certain than that of the father, her duties are more trying; the right ordering of the family depends more upon her, and she is usually fonder of her children. There are occasions when a son may be excused for lack of respect for his father, but if a child could be so unnatural as to fail in respect for the mother who bore him and nursed him at her breast, who for so many years devoted herself to his care, such a monstrous wretch should be smothered at once as unworthy to live. You say mothers spoil their children, and no doubt that is wrong, but it is worse to deprave them as you do. The mother wants her child to be happy now. She is right, and if her method is wrong, she must be taught a better. Ambition, avarice, tyranny, the mistaken foresight of fathers, their neglect, their harshness, are a hundredfold more harmful to the child than the blind affection of the mother. Moreover, I must explain what I mean by a mother and that explanation follows.] I appeal to you. You can remove this young tree from the highway and shield it from the crushing force of social conventions. Tend and water it ere it dies. One day its fruit will reward your care. From the outset raise a wall round your child’s soul; another may sketch the plan, you alone should carry it into execution.

Tender, anxious mother, [Footnote: The earliest education is crucial, and it’s clearly a woman’s responsibility. If nature intended for men to take this role, they would have been given milk to nourish the child. Focus your discussions about education on women, because they can oversee it more closely than men, their influence is always stronger, and its success directly affects them more. Most widows depend on their children, who clearly indicate whether their education was good or bad. The laws are generally more concerned with property than with people, aiming for order rather than virtue, and thus they give mothers too little authority. However, a mother’s role is more certain than a father’s, her responsibilities are more demanding; the proper management of the family hinges more on her, and she usually loves her children more. There may be moments when a son can be excused for disrespecting his father, but if a child were to show a lack of respect for the mother who bore him and nursed him, who dedicated so many years to caring for him, such an unnatural child would deserve to be silenced immediately as unworthy of existence. You say mothers spoil their children, and that’s probably true, but it’s worse to corrupt them as you do. The mother wants her child to be happy now, and she’s right; if her approach is flawed, she should be taught a better one. Ambition, greed, oppression, and the misguided foresight of fathers, along with their neglect and harshness, are far more detrimental to the child than a mother’s blind affection. Moreover, I need to clarify what I mean by a mother, and that explanation follows.] I urge you. You can lift this young tree from the path and protect it from the crushing weight of societal expectations. Nurture and care for it before it withers. One day its fruit will pay off your efforts. From the start, build a wall around your child’s soul; others may outline the plan, but only you should carry it out.

Plants are fashioned by cultivation, man by education. If a man were born tall and strong, his size and strength would be of no good to him till he had learnt to use them; they would even harm him by preventing others from coming to his aid; [Footnote: Like them in externals, but without speech and without the ideas which are expressed by speech, he would be unable to make his wants known, while there would be nothing in his appearance to suggest that he needed their help.] left to himself he would die of want before he knew his needs. We lament the helplessness of infancy; we fail to perceive that the race would have perished had not man begun by being a child.

Plants are shaped by cultivation, and people are shaped by education. If a person is born tall and strong, their size and strength won't do them any good until they've learned how to use them; in fact, they could even be a disadvantage because it might keep others from helping them. Without the ability to speak and express ideas, they wouldn't be able to communicate their needs, and there would be nothing in their appearance to indicate that they needed assistance. If left to their own devices, they'd starve before they even realized what they needed. We often feel sorry for the helplessness of infants; however, we fail to understand that humanity would have vanished if people hadn’t started out as children.

We are born weak, we need strength; helpless, we need aid; foolish, we need reason. All that we lack at birth, all that we need when we come to man’s estate, is the gift of education.

We are born weak, we need strength; helpless, we need help; foolish, we need wisdom. Everything we lack at birth, everything we need as we become adults, is the gift of education.

This education comes to us from nature, from men, or from things. The inner growth of our organs and faculties is the education of nature, the use we learn to make of this growth is the education of men, what we gain by our experience of our surroundings is the education of things.

This education comes from nature, people, or experiences. The natural development of our abilities and skills is the education of nature; the way we learn to utilize this development is the education from people; and what we acquire from our experiences with the world around us is the education from things.

Thus we are each taught by three masters. If their teaching conflicts, the scholar is ill-educated and will never be at peace with himself; if their teaching agrees, he goes straight to his goal, he lives at peace with himself, he is well-educated.

So, we all learn from three teachers. If their lessons clash, the learner is poorly educated and will never find peace within; if their lessons align, he moves directly toward his goal, lives in harmony with himself, and is well-educated.

Now of these three factors in education nature is wholly beyond our control, things are only partly in our power; the education of men is the only one controlled by us; and even here our power is largely illusory, for who can hope to direct every word and deed of all with whom the child has to do.

Now, out of these three factors in education, nature is completely beyond our control, and the circumstances are only partly in our hands; the education of people is the only one that we can influence; and even here, our control is mostly an illusion, because who can truly expect to direct every word and action of everyone that the child interacts with?

Viewed as an art, the success of education is almost impossible, since the essential conditions of success are beyond our control. Our efforts may bring us within sight of the goal, but fortune must favour us if we are to reach it.

Seen as an art, achieving success in education is nearly impossible, since the key factors for success are out of our hands. Our efforts might get us close to the goal, but we need luck on our side to actually achieve it.

What is this goal? As we have just shown, it is the goal of nature. Since all three modes of education must work together, the two that we can control must follow the lead of that which is beyond our control. Perhaps this word Nature has too vague a meaning. Let us try to define it.

What is this goal? As we've just shown, it’s the goal of nature. Since all three educational approaches need to work together, the two we can control should align with what’s beyond our control. Maybe the word "Nature" is a bit too vague. Let’s try to define it.

Nature, we are told, is merely habit. What does that mean? Are there not habits formed under compulsion, habits which never stifle nature? Such, for example, are the habits of plants trained horizontally. The plant keeps its artificial shape, but the sap has not changed its course, and any new growth the plant may make will be vertical. It is the same with a man’s disposition; while the conditions remain the same, habits, even the least natural of them, hold good; but change the conditions, habits vanish, nature reasserts herself. Education itself is but habit, for are there not people who forget or lose their education and others who keep it? Whence comes this difference? If the term nature is to be restricted to habits conformable to nature we need say no more.

Nature, we're told, is just a habit. What does that mean? Aren't there habits formed under pressure that don't suppress nature? For instance, consider plants trained to grow horizontally. The plant maintains its artificial shape, but the sap still follows its natural path, and any new growth will be vertical. It’s the same with a person's disposition; as long as the conditions remain the same, habits—no matter how unnatural—persist. But change the conditions, and those habits disappear; nature asserts itself again. Education is just a habit too—some people forget or lose their education, while others retain it. What accounts for this difference? If we limit the term nature to habits that align with nature, then we really have nothing more to say.

We are born sensitive and from our birth onwards we are affected in various ways by our environment. As soon as we become conscious of our sensations we tend to seek or shun the things that cause them, at first because they are pleasant or unpleasant, then because they suit us or not, and at last because of judgments formed by means of the ideas of happiness and goodness which reason gives us. These tendencies gain strength and permanence with the growth of reason, but hindered by our habits they are more or less warped by our prejudices. Before this change they are what I call Nature within us.

We are born sensitive, and from the moment we arrive, our environment impacts us in various ways. Once we become aware of our sensations, we start to seek out or avoid the things that trigger them—first because they feel good or bad, then based on whether they suit us or not, and finally due to judgments shaped by our understanding of happiness and goodness that reason provides. These tendencies grow stronger and more consistent as our reasoning develops, but they can be distorted by our habits and biases. Before this shift occurs, they represent what I refer to as Nature within us.

Everything should therefore be brought into harmony with these natural tendencies, and that might well be if our three modes of education merely differed from one another; but what can be done when they conflict, when instead of training man for himself you try to train him for others? Harmony becomes impossible. Forced to combat either nature or society, you must make your choice between the man and the citizen, you cannot train both.

Everything should be aligned with these natural tendencies, and that could be feasible if our three educational methods simply varied from one another; but what happens when they clash, when instead of preparing individuals for themselves, you attempt to prepare them for others? Harmony becomes unachievable. When you must fight against either nature or society, you have to choose between the individual and the citizen; you can't successfully train both.

The smaller social group, firmly united in itself and dwelling apart from others, tends to withdraw itself from the larger society. Every patriot hates foreigners; they are only men, and nothing to him.[Footnote: Thus the wars of republics are more cruel than those of monarchies. But if the wars of kings are less cruel, their peace is terrible; better be their foe than their subject.] This defect is inevitable, but of little importance. The great thing is to be kind to our neighbours. Among strangers the Spartan was selfish, grasping, and unjust, but unselfishness, justice, and harmony ruled his home life. Distrust those cosmopolitans who search out remote duties in their books and neglect those that lie nearest. Such philosophers will love the Tartars to avoid loving their neighbour.

The smaller social group, tightly-knit and separate from others, often pulls away from the larger society. Every patriot dislikes foreigners; to them, they are just people and nothing more.[Footnote: So, wars among republics tend to be harsher than those among monarchies. But while kings' wars may be less brutal, their peace is awful; it’s better to be their enemy than their subject.] This flaw is unavoidable but not very significant. The important thing is to be kind to our neighbors. Among strangers, the Spartan was selfish, greedy, and unfair, but at home, he practiced selflessness, fairness, and harmony. Be wary of those cosmopolitans who look for distant responsibilities in their books while ignoring the ones right in front of them. Such philosophers prefer to love distant people over their own neighbors.

The natural man lives for himself; he is the unit, the whole, dependent only on himself and on his like. The citizen is but the numerator of a fraction, whose value depends on its denominator; his value depends upon the whole, that is, on the community. Good social institutions are those best fitted to make a man unnatural, to exchange his independence for dependence, to merge the unit in the group, so that he no longer regards himself as one, but as a part of the whole, and is only conscious of the common life. A citizen of Rome was neither Caius nor Lucius, he was a Roman; he ever loved his country better than his life. The captive Regulus professed himself a Carthaginian; as a foreigner he refused to take his seat in the Senate except at his master’s bidding. He scorned the attempt to save his life. He had his will, and returned in triumph to a cruel death. There is no great likeness between Regulus and the men of our own day.

The natural person lives for themselves; they are an individual, complete and dependent only on themselves and their peers. The citizen is just the top number of a fraction, whose value relies on the bottom number; their worth depends on the whole, meaning the community. Good social institutions are those best suited to make a person less self-reliant, to trade their independence for reliance, blending the individual into the group, so they no longer see themselves as one, but as part of the whole, only aware of the shared life. A citizen of Rome was neither Caius nor Lucius; he was a Roman and loved his country more than his own life. The captive Regulus identified as a Carthaginian; as a foreigner, he refused to take his seat in the Senate unless commanded by his master. He rejected the idea of saving his life. He had his own choice and returned triumphantly to a cruel death. There’s not much resemblance between Regulus and the people of today.

The Spartan Pedaretes presented himself for admission to the council of the Three Hundred and was rejected; he went away rejoicing that there were three hundred Spartans better than himself. I suppose he was in earnest; there is no reason to doubt it. That was a citizen.

The Spartan Pedaretes applied to join the council of the Three Hundred but was turned down; he left feeling happy that there were three hundred Spartans who were better than him. I assume he meant it sincerely; there's no reason to think otherwise. That was a true citizen.

A Spartan mother had five sons with the army. A Helot arrived; trembling she asked his news. “Your five sons are slain.” “Vile slave, was that what I asked thee?” “We have won the victory.” She hastened to the temple to render thanks to the gods. That was a citizen.

A Spartan mother had five sons in the army. A Helot came to her, trembling, and she asked for news. “Your five sons are dead.” “You lowly slave, is that what I asked you?” “We have won the victory.” She rushed to the temple to give thanks to the gods. That was a true citizen.

He who would preserve the supremacy of natural feelings in social life knows not what he asks. Ever at war with himself, hesitating between his wishes and his duties, he will be neither a man nor a citizen. He will be of no use to himself nor to others. He will be a man of our day, a Frenchman, an Englishman, one of the great middle class.

He who wants to keep natural feelings at the forefront of social life doesn't realize what he's asking for. Constantly fighting with himself, torn between his desires and his responsibilities, he will be neither a man nor a good citizen. He won't be of any help to himself or to others. He will be a man of our times, a Frenchman, an Englishman, just another member of the great middle class.

To be something, to be himself, and always at one with himself, a man must act as he speaks, must know what course he ought to take, and must follow that course with vigour and persistence. When I meet this miracle it will be time enough to decide whether he is a man or a citizen, or how he contrives to be both.

To be someone, to be true to himself, and always in harmony with himself, a man must act in accordance with his words, understand the path he should take, and pursue that path with energy and determination. When I encounter this miracle, it will be time to figure out whether he is a man or a citizen, or how he manages to be both.

Two conflicting types of educational systems spring from these conflicting aims. One is public and common to many, the other private and domestic.

Two opposing types of educational systems arise from these conflicting goals. One is public and shared by many, while the other is private and personal.

If you wish to know what is meant by public education, read Plato’s Republic. Those who merely judge books by their titles take this for a treatise on politics, but it is the finest treatise on education ever written.

If you want to understand what public education really means, read Plato’s Republic. People who only judge books by their titles think it’s just a book about politics, but it’s actually the best book on education ever written.

In popular estimation the Platonic Institute stands for all that is fanciful and unreal. For my own part I should have thought the system of Lycurgus far more impracticable had he merely committed it to writing. Plato only sought to purge man’s heart; Lycurgus turned it from its natural course.

In popular opinion, the Platonic Institute represents everything that's unrealistic and whimsical. Personally, I would have considered Lycurgus's system much more impractical if he had just written it down. Plato aimed to cleanse the human heart; Lycurgus redirected it away from its natural path.

The public institute does not and cannot exist, for there is neither country nor patriot. The very words should be struck out of our language. The reason does not concern us at present, so that though I know it I refrain from stating it.

The public institute doesn't and can't exist, because there are no countries or patriots. Those words should be removed from our language. The reason isn't important right now, so even though I know it, I'm choosing not to say it.

I do not consider our ridiculous colleges [Footnote: There are teachers dear to me in many schools and especially in the University of Paris, men for whom I have a great respect, men whom I believe to be quite capable of instructing young people, if they were not compelled to follow the established custom. I exhort one of them to publish the scheme of reform which he has thought out. Perhaps people would at length seek to cure the evil if they realised that there was a remedy.] as public institutes, nor do I include under this head a fashionable education, for this education facing two ways at once achieves nothing. It is only fit to turn out hypocrites, always professing to live for others, while thinking of themselves alone. These professions, however, deceive no one, for every one has his share in them; they are so much labour wasted.

I don't see our ridiculous colleges as genuine public institutions, nor do I consider a trendy education as part of this category because this kind of education, which tries to please everyone, doesn’t accomplish anything. It only produces hypocrites who claim to live for others while really only thinking about themselves. But these claims fool no one; everyone can see through them, making it all a waste of effort.

Our inner conflicts are caused by these contradictions. Drawn this way by nature and that way by man, compelled to yield to both forces, we make a compromise and reach neither goal. We go through life, struggling and hesitating, and die before we have found peace, useless alike to ourselves and to others.

Our internal struggles come from these contradictions. Pulled one way by our nature and another by society, forced to give in to both sides, we end up compromising and achieving neither goal. We navigate through life, fighting and hesitating, and we die before we find peace, being of no use to ourselves or to anyone else.

There remains the education of the home or of nature; but how will a man live with others if he is educated for himself alone? If the twofold aims could be resolved into one by removing the man’s self-contradictions, one great obstacle to his happiness would be gone. To judge of this you must see the man full-grown; you must have noted his inclinations, watched his progress, followed his steps; in a word you must really know a natural man. When you have read this work, I think you will have made some progress in this inquiry.

There’s still the education from home or nature; but how can a person coexist with others if they are only educated for themselves? If we could merge these two goals by resolving a person’s internal conflicts, one major barrier to their happiness would be eliminated. To evaluate this effectively, you need to see the person as an adult; you should have observed their tendencies, monitored their development, and followed their journey; in short, you need to truly understand a natural person. Once you’ve gone through this work, I believe you will have made some headway in this exploration.

What must be done to train this exceptional man! We can do much, but the chief thing is to prevent anything being done. To sail against the wind we merely follow one tack and another; to keep our position in a stormy sea we must cast anchor. Beware, young pilot, lest your boat slip its cable or drag its anchor before you know it.

What needs to be done to train this remarkable man! We can accomplish a lot, but the main thing is to stop anything from happening. To sail against the wind, we just follow one direction after another; to hold our ground in rough waters, we have to drop anchor. Be careful, young pilot, so your boat doesn't slip its cable or drag its anchor before you realize it.

In the social order where each has his own place a man must be educated for it. If such a one leave his own station he is fit for nothing else. His education is only useful when fate agrees with his parents’ choice; if not, education harms the scholar, if only by the prejudices it has created. In Egypt, where the son was compelled to adopt his father’s calling, education had at least a settled aim; where social grades remain fixed, but the men who form them are constantly changing, no one knows whether he is not harming his son by educating him for his own class.

In a social structure where everyone has their own role, a person needs to be educated for it. If someone leaves their assigned role, they become unqualified for anything else. Their education is only beneficial if fate aligns with their parents' choice; if not, education can actually harm the student, mainly due to the biases it has instilled. In Egypt, where sons were required to follow their father's profession, education at least had a clear purpose; when social classes stay fixed but the individuals within them are always changing, no one can be sure if they're doing their child a disservice by educating them for their own class.

In the natural order men are all equal and their common calling is that of manhood, so that a well-educated man cannot fail to do well in that calling and those related to it. It matters little to me whether my pupil is intended for the army, the church, or the law. Before his parents chose a calling for him nature called him to be a man. Life is the trade I would teach him. When he leaves me, I grant you, he will be neither a magistrate, a soldier, nor a priest; he will be a man. All that becomes a man he will learn as quickly as another. In vain will fate change his station, he will always be in his right place. “Occupavi te, fortuna, atque cepi; omnes-que aditus tuos interclusi, ut ad me aspirare non posses.” The real object of our study is man and his environment. To my mind those of us who can best endure the good and evil of life are the best educated; hence it follows that true education consists less in precept than in practice. We begin to learn when we begin to live; our education begins with ourselves, our first teacher is our nurse. The ancients used the word “Education” in a different sense, it meant “Nurture.” “Educit obstetrix,” says Varro. “Educat nutrix, instituit paedagogus, docet magister.” Thus, education, discipline, and instruction are three things as different in their purpose as the dame, the usher, and the teacher. But these distinctions are undesirable and the child should only follow one guide.

In the natural order, all men are equal, and their shared purpose is to be men, so a well-educated man is bound to excel in that role and related ones. It doesn’t matter to me if my student is meant for the military, the clergy, or the legal profession. Before his parents picked a path for him, nature called him to be a man. Life is the trade I would teach him. When he leaves me, I agree, he won’t be a judge, a soldier, or a priest; he will simply be a man. Everything that defines a man, he will learn as quickly as anyone else. No matter how fate changes his situation, he will always be in his rightful place. “I have occupied you, fortune, and taken you captive; I have blocked all your paths so you cannot aspire to me.” The real focus of our study is man and his environment. I believe that those who can best handle the ups and downs of life are the best educated; thus, true education is more about practice than instruction. We start learning when we begin living; our education begins with ourselves, and our first teacher is our caregiver. The ancients used the word "Education" in a different way; it meant "Nurturing." “The midwife brings forth,” says Varro. "The caregiver nurtures, the tutor trains, and the teacher instructs." Therefore, education, discipline, and instruction serve different purposes, just like the roles of the caregiver, the usher, and the teacher. But these distinctions are unnecessary, and the child should only have one guide.

We must therefore look at the general rather than the particular, and consider our scholar as man in the abstract, man exposed to all the changes and chances of mortal life. If men were born attached to the soil of our country, if one season lasted all the year round, if every man’s fortune were so firmly grasped that he could never lose it, then the established method of education would have certain advantages; the child brought up to his own calling would never leave it, he could never have to face the difficulties of any other condition. But when we consider the fleeting nature of human affairs, the restless and uneasy spirit of our times, when every generation overturns the work of its predecessor, can we conceive a more senseless plan than to educate a child as if he would never leave his room, as if he would always have his servants about him? If the wretched creature takes a single step up or down he is lost. This is not teaching him to bear pain; it is training him to feel it.

We need to focus on the general rather than the specific, and think of our student as a person in the abstract, someone facing all the ups and downs of life. If people were born connected to the land of our country, if one season lasted all year, if everyone’s fortunes were so secure that they could never lose them, then the traditional education system might have some benefits; a child raised for a specific job would never stray from it, and wouldn’t have to deal with the challenges of other situations. But considering the temporary nature of human affairs, and the restless and uneasy spirit of our time, where each generation dismantles what the previous one built, can we think of a more pointless plan than to educate a child as if he would never leave his room, as if he would always have servants around him? If this poor soul takes even one step up or down, he’s doomed. This isn’t teaching him to endure pain; it’s training him to feel it.

People think only of preserving their child’s life; this is not enough, he must be taught to preserve his own life when he is a man, to bear the buffets of fortune, to brave wealth and poverty, to live at need among the snows of Iceland or on the scorching rocks of Malta. In vain you guard against death; he must needs die; and even if you do not kill him with your precautions, they are mistaken. Teach him to live rather than to avoid death: life is not breath, but action, the use of our senses, our mind, our faculties, every part of ourselves which makes us conscious of our being. Life consists less in length of days than in the keen sense of living. A man maybe buried at a hundred and may never have lived at all. He would have fared better had he died young.

People think only about keeping their child alive; that’s not enough. He needs to learn how to take care of himself when he grows up, to handle whatever life throws at him, to face wealth and poverty, to survive in the freezing cold of Iceland or on the scorching stones of Malta. It's pointless to protect against death; he will eventually die. Even if your precautions don’t cause his death, they're misguided. Teach him to truly live instead of just avoiding death: life is about action, using our senses, our minds, our abilities, every part of us that makes us aware of our existence. Life is less about how many days you live and more about how intensely you experience living. A person can live to be a hundred years old and never actually live at all. He would have been better off if he had died young.

Our wisdom is slavish prejudice, our customs consist in control, constraint, compulsion. Civilised man is born and dies a slave. The infant is bound up in swaddling clothes, the corpse is nailed down in his coffin. All his life long man is imprisoned by our institutions.

Our wisdom is just blind bias, our customs revolve around control, restriction, and force. Civilized people are born and die as slaves. The baby is wrapped in swaddling clothes, and the corpse is sealed in a coffin. Throughout his entire life, a person is trapped by our institutions.

I am told that many midwives profess to improve the shape of the infant’s head by rubbing, and they are allowed to do it. Our heads are not good enough as God made them, they must be moulded outside by the nurse and inside by the philosopher. The Caribs are better off than we are. The child has hardly left the mother’s womb, it has hardly begun to move and stretch its limbs, when it is deprived of its freedom. It is wrapped in swaddling bands, laid down with its head fixed, its legs stretched out, and its arms by its sides; it is wound round with linen and bandages of all sorts so that it cannot move. It is fortunate if it has room to breathe, and it is laid on its side so that water which should flow from its mouth can escape, for it is not free to turn its head on one side for this purpose.

I've heard that many midwives claim they can reshape a baby's head by rubbing it, and they're allowed to do that. It's as if our heads aren’t good enough as God made them; they need to be sculpted on the outside by the nurse and on the inside by the philosopher. The Caribs have it better than we do. The child has barely left the mother’s womb, barely started to move and stretch its limbs, yet it is stripped of its freedom. It’s wrapped in swaddling clothes, laid down with its head固定, its legs stretched out, and its arms by its sides; it’s tangled up in linen and all kinds of bandages so it can't move. It's lucky if it has enough room to breathe, and it’s positioned on its side so that any water that comes out of its mouth can escape, since it’s not free to turn its head to do this.

The new-born child requires to stir and stretch his limbs to free them from the stiffness resulting from being curled up so long. His limbs are stretched indeed, but he is not allowed to move them. Even the head is confined by a cap. One would think they were afraid the child should look as if it were alive.

The newborn baby needs to move and stretch his limbs to relieve the stiffness from being curled up for so long. His limbs are stretched, but he isn't allowed to move them. Even his head is restricted by a cap. One might think they were afraid the baby would look like he was alive.

Thus the internal impulses which should lead to growth find an insurmountable obstacle in the way of the necessary movements. The child exhausts his strength in vain struggles, or he gains strength very slowly. He was freer and less constrained in the womb; he has gained nothing by birth.

Thus, the inner drives that are meant to promote growth face a huge barrier in the way of the necessary movements. The child wears himself out on pointless struggles, or he gains strength very slowly. He was freer and less restricted in the womb; he hasn’t gained anything by being born.

The inaction, the constraint to which the child’s limbs are subjected can only check the circulation of the blood and humours; it can only hinder the child’s growth in size and strength, and injure its constitution. Where these absurd precautions are absent, all the men are tall, strong, and well-made. Where children are swaddled, the country swarms with the hump-backed, the lame, the bow-legged, the rickety, and every kind of deformity. In our fear lest the body should become deformed by free movement, we hasten to deform it by putting it in a press. We make our children helpless lest they should hurt themselves.

The lack of movement and the constraint on a child's limbs can only slow down blood circulation and bodily fluids; it can only prevent the child from growing in size and strength and harm their overall health. In places where these ridiculous precautions are not practiced, everyone tends to be tall, strong, and well-formed. In contrast, where children are tightly wrapped, the population is filled with hunchbacks, the disabled, bow-legged individuals, the weak, and various deformities. In our fear that free movement might cause physical deformities, we rush to create deformity by restricting movement. We make our children helpless to protect them from hurting themselves.

Is not such a cruel bondage certain to affect both health and temper? Their first feeling is one of pain and suffering; they find every necessary movement hampered; more miserable than a galley slave, in vain they struggle, they become angry, they cry. Their first words you say are tears. That is so. From birth you are always checking them, your first gifts are fetters, your first treatment, torture. Their voice alone is free; why should they not raise it in complaint? They cry because you are hurting them; if you were swaddled you would cry louder still.

Isn't this cruel bondage bound to impact both health and mood? Their initial feeling is one of pain and suffering; every necessary movement feels restricted. More miserable than a galley slave, they struggle in vain, becoming angry and crying. Their first words, you could say, are tears. That's true. From birth, you're always holding them back; your first gifts are restraints, your first treatment is suffering. The only thing they have that's free is their voice; why shouldn't they use it to complain? They cry because you're hurting them; if you were wrapped up like that, you'd cry even louder.

What is the origin of this senseless and unnatural custom? Since mothers have despised their first duty and refused to nurse their own children, they have had to be entrusted to hired nurses. Finding themselves the mothers of a stranger’s children, without the ties of nature, they have merely tried to save themselves trouble. A child unswaddled would need constant watching; well swaddled it is cast into a corner and its cries are unheeded. So long as the nurse’s negligence escapes notice, so long as the nursling does not break its arms or legs, what matter if it dies or becomes a weakling for life. Its limbs are kept safe at the expense of its body, and if anything goes wrong it is not the nurse’s fault.

What’s the origin of this pointless and unnatural practice? Since mothers have rejected their primary responsibility and refused to breastfeed their own children, those children have had to be cared for by hired nurses. As they find themselves taking care of someone else’s kids, without any natural bond, they simply try to make things easier for themselves. An unswaddled baby needs constant attention; when swaddled well, it can be left in a corner and ignored. As long as no one notices the nurse’s negligence and the baby doesn’t get any broken arms or legs, it doesn’t matter if it ends up dead or weak for life. Its limbs are protected at the cost of its overall health, and if anything goes wrong, it’s not the nurse’s problem.

These gentle mothers, having got rid of their babies, devote themselves gaily to the pleasures of the town. Do they know how their children are being treated in the villages? If the nurse is at all busy, the child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and is left crucified while the nurse goes leisurely about her business. Children have been found in this position purple in the face, their tightly bandaged chest forbade the circulation of the blood, and it went to the head; so the sufferer was considered very quiet because he had not strength to cry. How long a child might survive under such conditions I do not know, but it could not be long. That, I fancy, is one of the chief advantages of swaddling clothes.

These gentle mothers, having given up their babies, happily throw themselves into the pleasures of the city. Do they have any idea how their children are being treated in the villages? If the nurse is busy at all, the child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and left there while the nurse casually carries on with her tasks. Children have been found in this state, with purple faces; their tightly wrapped chests blocked blood circulation, causing it to pool in their heads, so the poor child was thought to be very quiet because they didn’t have the strength to cry. I don’t know how long a child could survive in those conditions, but it couldn’t be long. That, I imagine, is one of the main benefits of swaddling clothes.

It is maintained that unswaddled infants would assume faulty positions and make movements which might injure the proper development of their limbs. That is one of the empty arguments of our false wisdom which has never been confirmed by experience. Out of all the crowds of children who grow up with the full use of their limbs among nations wiser than ourselves, you never find one who hurts himself or maims himself; their movements are too feeble to be dangerous, and when they assume an injurious position, pain warns them to change it.

It’s believed that infants who aren’t wrapped up will take bad positions and make movements that could harm the proper development of their limbs. This is one of the baseless claims of our misguided understanding, which has never been proven by experience. Among all the children who grow up using their limbs in societies smarter than ours, you never see one getting hurt or injuring themselves; their movements are too weak to cause harm, and when they find themselves in a harmful position, pain lets them know to change it.

We have not yet decided to swaddle our kittens and puppies; are they any the worse for this neglect? Children are heavier, I admit, but they are also weaker. They can scarcely move, how could they hurt themselves! If you lay them on their backs, they will lie there till they die, like the turtle, unable to turn itself over. Not content with having ceased to suckle their children, women no longer wish to do it; with the natural result motherhood becomes a burden; means are found to avoid it. They will destroy their work to begin it over again, and they thus turn to the injury of the race the charm which was given them for its increase. This practice, with other causes of depopulation, forbodes the coming fate of Europe. Her arts and sciences, her philosophy and morals, will shortly reduce her to a desert. She will be the home of wild beasts, and her inhabitants will hardly have changed for the worse.

We haven’t decided to wrap our kittens and puppies in blankets; are they any worse off for it? I admit children are heavier, but they’re also weaker. They can barely move, so how could they hurt themselves? If you lay them on their backs, they’ll just lie there until they die, like a turtle that can’t flip over. Not only have women stopped breastfeeding their children, but they also no longer want to; naturally, this makes motherhood feel like a burden, and they find ways to avoid it. They will destroy their creations just to start over, and in doing so, they harm the very thing that was meant to help grow their population. This trend, along with other reasons for declining birth rates, foreshadows Europe’s impending fate. Its arts and sciences, philosophy and morals, will soon leave it a wasteland. It will become a home for wild animals, and its people will hardly be any worse off.

I have sometimes watched the tricks of young wives who pretend that they wish to nurse their own children. They take care to be dissuaded from this whim. They contrive that husbands, doctors, and especially mothers should intervene. If a husband should let his wife nurse her own baby it would be the ruin of him; they would make him out a murderer who wanted to be rid of her. A prudent husband must sacrifice paternal affection to domestic peace. Fortunately for you there are women in the country districts more continent than your wives. You are still more fortunate if the time thus gained is not intended for another than yourself.

I've sometimes seen the tricks young wives play when they act like they want to nurse their own kids. They make sure to be talked out of this idea. They arrange for husbands, doctors, and especially mothers to step in. If a husband lets his wife nurse their baby, it would be the end of him; they'd paint him as a murderer trying to get rid of her. A wise husband has to prioritize family harmony over fatherly love. Luckily for you, there are women in the countryside who are more restrained than your wives. You're even luckier if the time gained isn’t meant for someone else besides you.

There can be no doubt about a wife’s duty, but, considering the contempt in which it is held, it is doubtful whether it is not just as good for the child to be suckled by a stranger. This is a question for the doctors to settle, and in my opinion they have settled it according to the women’s wishes, [Footnote: The league between the women and the doctors has always struck me as one of the oddest things in Paris. The doctors’ reputation depends on the women, and by means of the doctors the women get their own way. It is easy to see what qualifications a doctor requires in Paris if he is to become celebrated.] and for my own part I think it is better that the child should suck the breast of a healthy nurse rather than of a petted mother, if he has any further evil to fear from her who has given him birth.

There’s no doubt about a wife’s responsibilities, but given the disrespect they receive, it raises the question of whether it’s just as beneficial for a child to be breastfed by someone else. This is something for doctors to clarify, and in my view, they’ve made their judgment based on what women want. [Footnote: The alliance between women and doctors has always struck me as one of the weirdest things in Paris. The doctors’ status relies on women, and through doctors, women manage to get their way. It’s clear what kind of qualifications a doctor needs in Paris to become well-known.] Personally, I believe it’s better for a child to be nursed by a healthy caregiver instead of a spoiled mother, if there are any additional concerns about his birth mother.

Ought the question, however, to be considered only from the physiological point of view? Does not the child need a mother’s care as much as her milk? Other women, or even other animals, may give him the milk she denies him, but there is no substitute for a mother’s love.

Should the question be looked at only from a physiological perspective? Doesn’t the child need a mother’s care just as much as her milk? Other women, or even other animals, can provide the milk she withholds, but nothing can replace a mother’s love.

The woman who nurses another’s child in place of her own is a bad mother; how can she be a good nurse? She may become one in time; use will overcome nature, but the child may perish a hundred times before his nurse has developed a mother’s affection for him.

The woman who takes care of someone else's child instead of her own is not a good mother; how can she be a good caregiver? She might become one eventually; experience can override instinct, but the child might suffer many times before his caregiver develops a motherly bond with him.

And this affection when developed has its drawbacks, which should make any feeling woman afraid to put her child out to nurse. Is she prepared to divide her mother’s rights, or rather to abdicate them in favour of a stranger; to see her child loving another more than herself; to feel that the affection he retains for his own mother is a favour, while his love for his foster-mother is a duty; for is not some affection due where there has been a mother’s care?

And this love, when it grows, has its downsides, which should make any caring woman hesitant to send her child off to a wet nurse. Is she ready to share her rights as a mother, or even give them up for someone else? To watch her child bond with another person more than with her? To realize that the love he holds for her is a privilege, while his love for his foster mother feels like an obligation? After all, isn’t some love owed to someone who has taken care of him like a mother?

To remove this difficulty, children are taught to look down on their nurses, to treat them as mere servants. When their task is completed the child is withdrawn or the nurse is dismissed. Her visits to her foster-child are discouraged by a cold reception. After a few years the child never sees her again. The mother expects to take her place, and to repair by her cruelty the results of her own neglect. But she is greatly mistaken; she is making an ungrateful foster-child, not an affectionate son; she is teaching him ingratitude, and she is preparing him to despise at a later day the mother who bore him, as he now despises his nurse.

To solve this problem, children are taught to look down on their nurses and treat them like nothing more than servants. Once their job is done, the child is pulled away or the nurse is let go. The nurse’s visits to her foster child are met with a frosty reception. After a few years, the child never sees her again. The mother thinks she can take her place and fix her own neglect through cruelty. But she's very wrong; she's creating an ungrateful foster child, not a loving son. She's teaching him to be ungrateful and setting him up to later look down on the mother who gave him life, just as he currently looks down on his nurse.

How emphatically would I speak if it were not so hopeless to keep struggling in vain on behalf of a real reform. More depends on this than you realise. Would you restore all men to their primal duties, begin with the mothers; the results will surprise you. Every evil follows in the train of this first sin; the whole moral order is disturbed, nature is quenched in every breast, the home becomes gloomy, the spectacle of a young family no longer stirs the husband’s love and the stranger’s reverence. The mother whose children are out of sight wins scanty esteem; there is no home life, the ties of nature are not strengthened by those of habit; fathers, mothers, children, brothers, and sisters cease to exist. They are almost strangers; how should they love one another? Each thinks of himself first. When the home is a gloomy solitude pleasure will be sought elsewhere.

How strongly would I express myself if it weren't so pointless to keep struggling for real change. Much more is at stake here than you realize. If you want to bring everyone back to their fundamental responsibilities, start with the mothers; the results will astonish you. Every problem stems from this initial failure; the entire moral order is thrown off balance, and a sense of connection is extinguished in every heart. The home becomes a dreary place, and the sight of a young family no longer ignites the husband’s affection or the stranger’s respect. A mother whose children are out of sight receives little respect; there's no family life, and the bonds of nature aren't reinforced by habitual connections; fathers, mothers, children, brothers, and sisters start to feel like strangers. How can they love one another? Each person looks out for themselves first. When home is just a lonely place, people will seek enjoyment elsewhere.

But when mothers deign to nurse their own children, then will be a reform in morals; natural feeling will revive in every heart; there will be no lack of citizens for the state; this first step by itself will restore mutual affection. The charms of home are the best antidote to vice. The noisy play of children, which we thought so trying, becomes a delight; mother and father rely more on each other and grow dearer to one another; the marriage tie is strengthened. In the cheerful home life the mother finds her sweetest duties and the father his pleasantest recreation. Thus the cure of this one evil would work a wide-spread reformation; nature would regain her rights. When women become good mothers, men will be good husbands and fathers.

But when mothers choose to nurse their own children, there will be a change in morals; natural feelings will come alive in everyone's heart; the state won't be short of citizens; this first step alone will restore mutual affection. The comforts of home are the best remedy for vice. The noisy play of children, which we used to find so exhausting, becomes a joy; mothers and fathers rely more on each other and grow closer; the marriage bond is strengthened. In the joyful home life, mothers find their greatest responsibilities and fathers enjoy their best leisure. So, addressing this one issue could lead to widespread reform; nature would reclaim its role. When women become good mothers, men will be good husbands and fathers.

My words are vain! When we are sick of worldly pleasures we do not return to the pleasures of the home. Women have ceased to be mothers, they do not and will not return to their duty. Could they do it if they would? The contrary custom is firmly established; each would have to overcome the opposition of her neighbours, leagued together against the example which some have never given and others do not desire to follow.

My words are pointless! When we get tired of worldly pleasures, we don’t go back to the comforts of home. Women have stopped being mothers; they don't and won't return to their responsibilities. Could they do it if they wanted to? The opposite norm is deeply rooted; each woman would have to fight against the resistance of her neighbors, united against those who have never set an example and those who don't want to follow it.

Yet there are still a few young women of good natural disposition who refuse to be the slaves of fashion and rebel against the clamour of other women, who fulfil the sweet task imposed on them by nature. Would that the reward in store for them might draw others to follow their example. My conclusion is based upon plain reason, and upon facts I have never seen disputed; and I venture to promise these worthy mothers the firm and steadfast affection of their husbands and the truly filial love of their children and the respect of all the world. Child-birth will be easy and will leave no ill-results, their health will be strong and vigorous, and they will see their daughters follow their example, and find that example quoted as a pattern to others.

Yet there are still a few young women with good hearts who refuse to be slaves to fashion and push back against the pressures from other women. They embrace the beautiful role nature has given them. I wish the rewards they receive would encourage others to do the same. My conclusion is based on straightforward reasoning and on facts I've never heard anyone dispute. I dare to promise these admirable mothers the unwavering love of their husbands, the genuine affection of their children, and the respect of everyone around them. Childbirth will be easy and won’t come with negative consequences; their health will be strong and vibrant, and they'll see their daughters follow in their footsteps, with that example being held up as a model for others.

No mother, no child; their duties are reciprocal, and when ill done by the one they will be neglected by the other. The child should love his mother before he knows what he owes her. If the voice of instinct is not strengthened by habit it soon dies, the heart is still-born. From the outset we have strayed from the path of nature.

No mother, no child; their responsibilities are mutual, and when one fails, the other will be neglected. A child should love their mother before they understand what they owe her. If the voice of instinct isn't reinforced by habit, it quickly fades away, leaving the heart lifeless. From the very beginning, we've wandered off the path of nature.

There is another by-way which may tempt our feet from the path of nature. The mother may lavish excessive care on her child instead of neglecting him; she may make an idol of him; she may develop and increase his weakness to prevent him feeling it; she wards off every painful experience in the hope of withdrawing him from the power of nature, and fails to realise that for every trifling ill from which she preserves him the future holds in store many accidents and dangers, and that it is a cruel kindness to prolong the child’s weakness when the grown man must bear fatigue.

There’s another detour that might lead us away from the natural path. The mother might shower her child with excessive attention instead of ignoring him; she might turn him into an idol; she might foster and amplify his weaknesses to shield him from feeling them; she protects him from every painful experience in the hope of freeing him from the grip of nature, not realizing that for every small discomfort she saves him from, the future has many accidents and dangers in store. It’s a cruel kindness to prolong the child's weaknesses when the adult will have to face hardships.

Thetis, so the story goes, plunged her son in the waters of Styx to make him invulnerable. The truth of this allegory is apparent. The cruel mothers I speak of do otherwise; they plunge their children into softness, and they are preparing suffering for them, they open the way to every kind of ill, which their children will not fail to experience after they grow up.

Thetis, as the story goes, dipped her son into the waters of Styx to make him invulnerable. The meaning of this tale is clear. The cruel mothers I'm talking about do the opposite; they immerse their children in comfort, and they are setting them up for pain. They pave the way for all kinds of hardships that their children will inevitably face when they grow up.

Fix your eyes on nature, follow the path traced by her. She keeps children at work, she hardens them by all kinds of difficulties, she soon teaches them the meaning of pain and grief. They cut their teeth and are feverish, sharp colics bring on convulsions, they are choked by fits of coughing and tormented by worms, evil humours corrupt the blood, germs of various kinds ferment in it, causing dangerous eruptions. Sickness and danger play the chief part in infancy. One half of the children who are born die before their eighth year. The child who has overcome hardships has gained strength, and as soon as he can use his life he holds it more securely.

Focus your attention on nature and follow her lead. She keeps children busy, toughens them through various challenges, and quickly teaches them about pain and sorrow. They go through teething and experience fever, sharp stomach pains can lead to convulsions, they choke on coughing fits and suffer from worms, negative symptoms taint their blood, and various germs develop, causing serious outbreaks. Illness and peril play a major role in early childhood. Half of the children born don’t make it past their eighth year. A child who has faced difficulties becomes stronger, and once they can embrace life, they hold onto it more tightly.

This is nature’s law; why contradict it? Do you not see that in your efforts to improve upon her handiwork you are destroying it; her cares are wasted? To do from without what she does within is according to you to increase the danger twofold. On the contrary, it is the way to avert it; experience shows that children delicately nurtured are more likely to die. Provided we do not overdo it, there is less risk in using their strength than in sparing it. Accustom them therefore to the hardships they will have to face; train them to endure extremes of temperature, climate, and condition, hunger, thirst, and weariness. Dip them in the waters of Styx. Before bodily habits become fixed you may teach what habits you will without any risk, but once habits are established any change is fraught with peril. A child will bear changes which a man cannot bear, the muscles of the one are soft and flexible, they take whatever direction you give them without any effort; the muscles of the grown man are harder and they only change their accustomed mode of action when subjected to violence. So we can make a child strong without risking his life or health, and even if there were some risk, it should not be taken into consideration. Since human life is full of dangers, can we do better than face them at a time when they can do the least harm?

This is the law of nature; why go against it? Don’t you see that by trying to improve on what she has created, you’re actually ruining it; her efforts are wasted? Trying to do externally what she does internally, according to you, doubles the danger. On the contrary, it’s actually the way to avoid it; experience shows that children raised too delicately are more likely to die. As long as we don’t overdo it, there’s less risk in using their strength than in holding it back. So, get them used to the challenges they'll face; train them to handle extremes in temperature, climate, and conditions, along with hunger, thirst, and fatigue. Expose them to tough situations. Before physical habits become established, you can teach them any habits you want without risk, but once habits are set, any change carries danger. A child can adapt to changes that an adult cannot; a child’s muscles are soft and flexible, allowing them to bend to any direction you give them easily, while an adult’s muscles are tougher and only change their usual way of functioning when forced. Therefore, we can strengthen a child without risking their life or health, and even if there were some risk, it shouldn’t matter. Since life is full of dangers, can we do any better than to confront them when they can cause the least harm?

A child’s worth increases with his years. To his personal value must be added the cost of the care bestowed upon him. For himself there is not only loss of life, but the consciousness of death. We must therefore think most of his future in our efforts for his preservation. He must be protected against the ills of youth before he reaches them: for if the value of life increases until the child reaches an age when he can be useful, what madness to spare some suffering in infancy only to multiply his pain when he reaches the age of reason. Is that what our master teaches us?

A child's value grows as he gets older. Along with his personal worth, we also need to consider the care given to him. It's not just a loss of life for him, but also the awareness of death

Man is born to suffer; pain is the means of his preservation. His childhood is happy, knowing only pain of body. These bodily sufferings are much less cruel, much less painful, than other forms of suffering, and they rarely lead to self-destruction. It is not the twinges of gout which make a man kill himself, it is mental suffering that leads to despair. We pity the sufferings of childhood; we should pity ourselves; our worst sorrows are of our own making.

Man is born to experience suffering; pain is what keeps him alive. His childhood is joyful, as it only knows physical pain. These physical struggles are far less harsh, much less painful, than other types of suffering, and they rarely drive someone to self-destruction. It’s not the pangs of gout that cause a person to take their own life; it’s emotional suffering that leads to despair. We feel sorry for the struggles of childhood; we should feel sorry for ourselves; our deepest sorrows come from our own choices.

The new-born infant cries, his early days are spent in crying. He is alternately petted and shaken by way of soothing him; sometimes he is threatened, sometimes beaten, to keep him quiet. We do what he wants or we make him do what we want, we submit to his whims or subject him to our own. There is no middle course; he must rule or obey. Thus his earliest ideas are those of the tyrant or the slave. He commands before he can speak, he obeys before he can act, and sometimes he is punished for faults before he is aware of them, or rather before they are committed. Thus early are the seeds of evil passions sown in his young heart. At a later day these are attributed to nature, and when we have taken pains to make him bad we lament his badness.

The newborn baby cries; his early days are all about crying. He is sometimes cuddled and sometimes shaken to calm him down; other times he is threatened or punished to keep him quiet. We either give in to his demands or make him do what we want, allowing him to have his way or imposing our own will on him. There’s no middle ground; he either controls or submits. So his first ideas are those of a ruler or a subordinate. He gives orders before he can talk, he follows commands before he can act, and sometimes he gets punished for mistakes before he even knows about them, or rather, before they happen. This is how the seeds of negative emotions are planted in his young heart. Later on, these tendencies are blamed on his nature, and when we’ve worked hard to shape him into a bad person, we complain about his bad behavior.

In this way the child passes six or seven years in the hands of women, the victim of his own caprices or theirs, and after they have taught him all sorts of things, when they have burdened his memory with words he cannot understand, or things which are of no use to him, when nature has been stifled by the passions they have implanted in him, this sham article is sent to a tutor. The tutor completes the development of the germs of artificiality which he finds already well grown, he teaches him everything except self-knowledge and self-control, the arts of life and happiness. When at length this infant slave and tyrant, crammed with knowledge but empty of sense, feeble alike in mind and body, is flung upon the world, and his helplessness, his pride, and his other vices are displayed, we begin to lament the wretchedness and perversity of mankind. We are wrong; this is the creature of our fantasy; the natural man is cast in another mould.

In this way, the child spends six or seven years with women, becoming a victim of either his own whims or theirs. After they teach him all kinds of things, filling his memory with words he can't understand or information that's useless to him, and suffocating his natural instincts with the passions they've instilled in him, this imitation of a person is handed over to a tutor. The tutor then further develops the traits of artificiality that are already well entrenched, teaching him everything except self-awareness and self-control, the skills necessary for life and happiness. When this infant, who is both a slave and a tyrant, is finally thrown into the world, filled with knowledge but lacking wisdom, weak in both mind and body, and his helplessness, pride, and other flaws become evident, we start to lament the misery and corruption of humanity. We are mistaken; this is a creation of our imagination; the true natural person is shaped differently.

Would you keep him as nature made him? Watch over him from his birth. Take possession of him as soon as he comes into the world and keep him till he is a man; you will never succeed otherwise. The real nurse is the mother and the real teacher is the father. Let them agree in the ordering of their duties as well as in their method, let the child pass from one to the other. He will be better educated by a sensible though ignorant father than by the cleverest master in the world. For zeal will atone for lack of knowledge, rather than knowledge for lack of zeal. But the duties of public and private business! Duty indeed! Does a father’s duty come last. [Footnote: When we read in Plutarch that Cato the Censor, who ruled Rome with such glory, brought up his own sons from the cradle, and so carefully that he left everything to be present when their nurse, that is to say their mother, bathed them; when we read in Suetonius that Augustus, the master of the world which he had conquered and which he himself governed, himself taught his grandsons to write, to swim, to understand the beginnings of science, and that he always had them with him, we cannot help smiling at the little people of those days who amused themselves with such follies, and who were too ignorant, no doubt, to attend to the great affairs of the great people of our own time.] It is not surprising that the man whose wife despises the duty of suckling her child should despise its education. There is no more charming picture than that of family life; but when one feature is wanting the whole is marred. If the mother is too delicate to nurse her child, the father will be too busy to teach him. Their children, scattered about in schools, convents, and colleges, will find the home of their affections elsewhere, or rather they will form the habit of caring for nothing. Brothers and sisters will scarcely know each other; when they are together in company they will behave as strangers. When there is no confidence between relations, when the family society ceases to give savour to life, its place is soon usurped by vice. Is there any man so stupid that he cannot see how all this hangs together?

Would you keep him as nature intended? Watch over him from birth. Take charge of him as soon as he enters the world and stay with him until he grows up; you won’t succeed otherwise. The real caregiver is the mother and the real educator is the father. Let them coordinate their responsibilities and their approach, allowing the child to move from one to the other. He will be better educated by a wise but uneducated father than by the smartest teacher in the world. Passion will compensate for a lack of knowledge, rather than knowledge compensating for a lack of passion. But what about duties in public and private life? Does a father’s responsibility come last? [Footnote: When we read in Plutarch that Cato the Censor, who ruled Rome with great honor, raised his own sons from infancy, and so carefully that he left everything to be present when their caregiver, that is, their mother, bathed them; when we read in Suetonius that Augustus, master of the world he had conquered and governed, personally taught his grandsons to write, swim, and understand the basics of science, and always kept them with him, we can’t help but smile at the young people of that time who entertained themselves with such trivialities, and who were probably too ignorant to care about the major issues of the elite in our own day.] It’s not surprising that a man whose wife neglects the responsibility of breastfeeding their child would also disregard its education. There’s no more beautiful image than that of family life; but when one aspect is missing, the whole picture suffers. If the mother is too frail to nurse her child, the father will be too busy to educate him. Their children, scattered in schools, convents, and colleges, will find their emotional connection elsewhere, or worse, they will develop a habit of not caring about anything. Siblings will barely recognize each other; when they find themselves together, they will act like strangers. When there’s no trust among relatives, and family life stops being fulfilling, it quickly gets replaced by vice. Is there anyone so clueless that they can’t see how all of this is connected?

A father has done but a third of his task when he begets children and provides a living for them. He owes men to humanity, citizens to the state. A man who can pay this threefold debt and neglect to do so is guilty, more guilty, perhaps, if he pays it in part than when he neglects it entirely. He has no right to be a father if he cannot fulfil a father’s duties. Poverty, pressure of business, mistaken social prejudices, none of these can excuse a man from his duty, which is to support and educate his own children. If a man of any natural feeling neglects these sacred duties he will repent it with bitter tears and will never be comforted.

A father has only completed a third of his responsibilities when he has children and provides for them. He owes it to humanity to raise good people and to the state to raise good citizens. A man who can fulfill this threefold obligation but fails to do so is guilty, perhaps even more guilty if he only fulfills part of it than if he ignores it completely. He has no right to be a father if he cannot meet a father's responsibilities. Poverty, work pressures, and misguided social beliefs cannot excuse a man from his duty to support and educate his own children. If a man with any sense of decency neglects these important responsibilities, he will regret it deeply and will never find peace.

But what does this rich man do, this father of a family, compelled, so he says, to neglect his children? He pays another man to perform those duties which are his alone. Mercenary man! do you expect to purchase a second father for your child? Do not deceive yourself; it is not even a master you have hired for him, it is a flunkey, who will soon train such another as himself.

But what does this wealthy man do, this family man, who claims he has to neglect his kids? He pays someone else to take on responsibilities that are his alone. Mercenary man! Do you really think you can buy a second father for your child? Don’t fool yourself; you haven’t even hired a mentor for him, it’s a lackey, who will quickly raise another just like himself.

There is much discussion as to the characteristics of a good tutor. My first requirement, and it implies a good many more, is that he should not take up his task for reward. There are callings so great that they cannot be undertaken for money without showing our unfitness for them; such callings are those of the soldier and the teacher.

There’s a lot of debate about what makes a good tutor. My top requirement, which implies many others, is that they shouldn’t take on their role for personal gain. Some professions are so noble that they shouldn’t be pursued for money, as doing so reveals our unworthiness for them; these professions include being a soldier and a teacher.

“But who must train my child?” “I have just told you, you should do it yourself.” “I cannot.” “You cannot! Then find a friend. I see no other course.”

“But who has to train my child?” “I just told you, you should do it yourself.” “I can’t.” “You can’t! Then find a friend. I don’t see any other option.”

A tutor! What a noble soul! Indeed for the training of a man one must either be a father or more than man. It is this duty you would calmly hand over to a hireling!

A tutor! What a noble person! Truly, to train a man, one must either be a father or something greater. Is this responsibility something you would just pass off to a hired worker?

The more you think of it the harder you will find it. The tutor must have been trained for his pupil, his servants must have been trained for their master, so that all who come near him may have received the impression which is to be transmitted to him. We must pass from education to education, I know not how far. How can a child be well educated by one who has not been well educated himself!

The more you think about it, the harder it will seem. The tutor must have been trained for their student, and their servants must have been trained for their master, so that everyone who is close to him has the same impression to pass on to him. We must move from education to education, though I don't know how far it goes. How can a child be educated well by someone who hasn't been educated well themselves!

Can such a one be found? I know not. In this age of degradation who knows the height of virtue to which man’s soul may attain? But let us assume that this prodigy has been discovered. We shall learn what he should be from the consideration of his duties. I fancy the father who realises the value of a good tutor will contrive to do without one, for it will be harder to find one than to become such a tutor himself; he need search no further, nature herself having done half the work.

Can anyone like that be found? I don't know. In this time of decline, who can say how high a person's character can reach? But let's assume this amazing individual has been found. We'll understand what he should be by looking at his responsibilities. I think a father who understands the importance of a good teacher will figure out how to manage without one, since it will be harder to find a good teacher than to become one himself; he shouldn't need to look any further, as nature has already done half the job.

Some one whose rank alone is known to me suggested that I should educate his son. He did me a great honour, no doubt, but far from regretting my refusal, he ought to congratulate himself on my prudence. Had the offer been accepted, and had I been mistaken in my method, there would have been an education ruined; had I succeeded, things would have been worse—his son would have renounced his title and refused to be a prince.

Someone whose rank I know suggested that I should educate his son. He did me a great honor, no doubt, but instead of regretting my refusal, he should be congratulating himself for my wisdom. If I had accepted the offer and been wrong in my approach, it would have ruined the education. If I had succeeded, it would have been worse—his son would have given up his title and refused to be a prince.

I feel too deeply the importance of a tutor’s duties and my own unfitness, ever to accept such a post, whoever offered it, and even the claims of friendship would be only an additional motive for my refusal. Few, I think, will be tempted to make me such an offer when they have read this book, and I beg any one who would do so to spare his pains. I have had enough experience of the task to convince myself of my own unfitness, and my circumstances would make it impossible, even if my talents were such as to fit me for it. I have thought it my duty to make this public declaration to those who apparently refuse to do me the honour of believing in the sincerity of my determination. If I am unable to undertake the more useful task, I will at least venture to attempt the easier one; I will follow the example of my predecessors and take up, not the task, but my pen; and instead of doing the right thing I will try to say it.

I feel the weight of a tutor’s responsibilities and recognize my own unfitness, so I would never accept such a position, no matter who offered it. Even the bonds of friendship would only add to my reasons for declining. I doubt many will be tempted to make me such an offer after reading this book, and I kindly ask anyone considering it to save themselves the effort. I’ve had enough experience in the role to know I’m not suited for it, and my current situation would make it impossible, even if I possessed the necessary skills. I felt it was important to make this public statement for those who seem unwilling to believe in my genuine resolve. If I can’t take on the more significant task, I’ll at least attempt the easier one; I’ll follow in the footsteps of those before me and pick up my pen, focusing on writing about what is right rather than doing it.

I know that in such an undertaking the author, who ranges at will among theoretical systems, utters many fine precepts impossible to practise, and even when he says what is practicable it remains undone for want of details and examples as to its application.

I understand that in this kind of work, the author, who freely explores different theoretical systems, shares many great ideas that are hard to put into practice. Even when he offers suggestions that are doable, they often go unimplemented because they lack the necessary details and examples for how to apply them.

I have therefore decided to take an imaginary pupil, to assume on my own part the age, health, knowledge, and talents required for the work of his education, to guide him from birth to manhood, when he needs no guide but himself. This method seems to me useful for an author who fears lest he may stray from the practical to the visionary; for as soon as he departs from common practice he has only to try his method on his pupil; he will soon know, or the reader will know for him, whether he is following the development of the child and the natural growth of the human heart.

I've decided to create an imaginary student and take on the age, health, knowledge, and skills needed for their education. I'll guide this student from birth to adulthood, at which point they will only need to rely on themselves. This approach seems helpful for any author worried about drifting from practical ideas to more abstract ones; if they stray from common practice, they can simply apply their method to their student. They will quickly find out, or the reader will realize for them, if they are aligned with the child's development and the natural progression of human emotions.

This is what I have tried to do. Lest my book should be unduly bulky, I have been content to state those principles the truth of which is self-evident. But as to the rules which call for proof, I have applied them to Emile or to others, and I have shown, in very great detail, how my theories may be put into practice. Such at least is my plan; the reader must decide whether I have succeeded. At first I have said little about Emile, for my earliest maxims of education, though very different from those generally accepted, are so plain that it is hard for a man of sense to refuse to accept them, but as I advance, my scholar, educated after another fashion than yours, is no longer an ordinary child, he needs a special system. Then he appears upon the scene more frequently, and towards the end I never lose sight of him for a moment, until, whatever he may say, he needs me no longer.

This is what I've tried to do. To keep my book from being too heavy, I've focused on stating those principles that are obviously true. But for the rules that require proof, I've applied them to Emile and others, providing a lot of detail on how my theories can be put into practice. That's my plan; it's up to the reader to decide if I've succeeded. Initially, I haven't said much about Emile because my early educational principles, although quite different from those generally accepted, are so clear that a sensible person would find them hard to reject. As I continue, my student, educated in a different way than yours, is no longer just an ordinary child; he needs a special approach. Then he appears more often, and toward the end, I never lose sight of him until, no matter what he says, he no longer needs me.

I pass over the qualities required in a good tutor; I take them for granted, and assume that I am endowed with them. As you read this book you will see how generous I have been to myself.

I’ll skip discussing the qualities needed in a good tutor; I just assume I have them. As you read this book, you’ll notice how generous I’ve been to myself.

I will only remark that, contrary to the received opinion, a child’s tutor should be young, as young indeed as a man may well be who is also wise. Were it possible, he should become a child himself, that he may be the companion of his pupil and win his confidence by sharing his games. Childhood and age have too little in common for the formation of a really firm affection. Children sometimes flatter old men; they never love them.

I just want to point out that, contrary to popular belief, a child's tutor should be young, as young as a wise man can be. If possible, he should become like a child himself so he can be a friend to his student and gain his trust by playing together. Childhood and old age have too little in common for a truly strong bond to develop. Kids might flatter older men, but they never really love them.

People seek a tutor who has already educated one pupil. This is too much; one man can only educate one pupil; if two were essential to success, what right would he have to undertake the first? With more experience you may know better what to do, but you are less capable of doing it; once this task has been well done, you will know too much of its difficulties to attempt it a second time—if ill done, the first attempt augurs badly for the second.

People look for a tutor who has taught at least one student before. This is unreasonable; one person can only teach one student at a time. If two were necessary for success, what right would he have to take on the first? With more experience, you might know what to do better, but you’re less able to do it; once this job has been done well, you'll know too much about its challenges to try again—if it’s done poorly, the first attempt doesn’t bode well for the second.

It is one thing to follow a young man about for four years, another to be his guide for five-and-twenty. You find a tutor for your son when he is already formed; I want one for him before he is born. Your man may change his pupil every five years; mine will never have but one pupil. You distinguish between the teacher and the tutor. Another piece of folly! Do you make any distinction between the pupil and the scholar? There is only one science for children to learn—the duties of man. This science is one, and, whatever Xenophon may say of the education of the Persians, it is indivisible. Besides, I prefer to call the man who has this knowledge master rather than teacher, since it is a question of guidance rather than instruction. He must not give precepts, he must let the scholar find them out for himself.

It's one thing to follow a young man around for four years, and another to be his guide for twenty-five. You find a tutor for your son once he's already shaped; I want someone for him before he's even born. Your guy might change his student every five years; mine will only ever have one student. You make a distinction between a teacher and a tutor. That's another mistake! Do you differentiate between the student and the scholar? There's only one subject for children to learn—the duties of a human being. This subject is unified, and no matter what Xenophon says about the education of the Persians, it can't be divided. Plus, I prefer to call the person who has this knowledge a master instead of a teacher, as it’s about guidance rather than just instruction. He shouldn't give rules; he should allow the scholar to discover them on his own.

If the master is to be so carefully chosen, he may well choose his pupil, above all when he proposes to set a pattern for others. This choice cannot depend on the child’s genius or character, as I adopt him before he is born, and they are only known when my task is finished. If I had my choice I would take a child of ordinary mind, such as I assume in my pupil. It is ordinary people who have to be educated, and their education alone can serve as a pattern for the education of their fellows. The others find their way alone.

If the teacher is going to be chosen so carefully, he might as well choose his student, especially when he plans to set an example for others. This choice can't hinge on the child's talent or personality, since I choose them before they're even born, and those traits are only revealed when my work is done. If it were up to me, I would pick an average child, just like the one I have in mind for my student. It's ordinary people who need to be educated, and their education alone can serve as a model for educating their peers. The others figure it out on their own.

The birthplace is not a matter of indifference in the education of man; it is only in temperate climes that he comes to his full growth. The disadvantages of extremes are easily seen. A man is not planted in one place like a tree, to stay there the rest of his life, and to pass from one extreme to another you must travel twice as far as he who starts half-way.

The place where someone is born is important in their education; it's only in mild climates that a person can fully develop. The drawbacks of extreme conditions are clear. A person isn't rooted in one spot like a tree to remain there for life, and to move from one extreme to another, you have to travel twice as far as someone who starts in the middle.

If the inhabitant of a temperate climate passes in turn through both extremes his advantage is plain, for although he may be changed as much as he who goes from one extreme to the other, he only removes half-way from his natural condition. A Frenchman can live in New Guinea or in Lapland, but a negro cannot live in Tornea nor a Samoyed in Benin. It seems also as if the brain were less perfectly organised in the two extremes. Neither the negroes nor the Laps are as wise as Europeans. So if I want my pupil to be a citizen of the world I will choose him in the temperate zone, in France for example, rather than elsewhere.

If someone from a temperate climate experiences both extremes, their advantage is clear. Even though they may change just as much as someone who moves from one extreme to the other, they only shift halfway from their natural state. A French person can adapt to living in New Guinea or in Lapland, but a Black person can't thrive in Tornea, nor can a Samoyed survive in Benin. It also seems like the brain is less well-organized at the two extremes. Neither Black people nor Lapps are as wise as Europeans. So, if I want my student to be a global citizen, I would prefer to choose them from the temperate zone, like France, rather than from somewhere else.

In the north with its barren soil men devour much food, in the fertile south they eat little. This produces another difference: the one is industrious, the other contemplative. Society shows us, in one and the same spot, a similar difference between rich and poor. The one dwells in a fertile land, the other in a barren land.

In the north, where the soil is poor, people consume a lot of food, while in the fertile south, they eat less. This leads to another difference: one group is hardworking, while the other is reflective. Society reflects a similar difference between the rich and the poor, even in the same location. The rich live in fertile areas, while the poor live in barren ones.

The poor man has no need of education. The education of his own station in life is forced upon him, he can have no other; the education received by the rich man from his own station is least fitted for himself and for society. Moreover, a natural education should fit a man for any position. Now it is more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth than a rich man for poverty, for in proportion to their numbers more rich men are ruined and fewer poor men become rich. Let us choose our scholar among the rich; we shall at least have made another man; the poor may come to manhood without our help.

The poor man doesn't need an education. The education suited to his social class is imposed on him; he can't have anything else. The education received by the rich man, however, is the least appropriate for him and for society. Also, a natural education should prepare a person for any role. It’s more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth than to train a rich man for poverty, since more rich people tend to be ruined, while fewer poor people actually become rich. Let's choose our student from among the wealthy; at least we’ll have created another person. The poor can grow into adulthood without our assistance.

For the same reason I should not be sorry if Emile came of a good family. He will be another victim snatched from prejudice.

For the same reason, I shouldn't feel bad if Emile comes from a good family. He will be just another victim taken away from prejudice.

Emile is an orphan. No matter whether he has father or mother, having undertaken their duties I am invested with their rights. He must honour his parents, but he must obey me. That is my first and only condition.

Emile is an orphan. It doesn't matter if he has a father or mother; since I've taken on their responsibilities, I have their rights. He needs to respect his parents, but he must listen to me. That's my one and only condition.

I must add that there is just one other point arising out of this; we must never be separated except by mutual consent. This clause is essential, and I would have tutor and scholar so inseparable that they should regard their fate as one. If once they perceive the time of their separation drawing near, the time which must make them strangers to one another, they become strangers then and there; each makes his own little world, and both of them being busy in thought with the time when they will no longer be together, they remain together against their will. The disciple regards his master as the badge and scourge of childhood, the master regards his scholar as a heavy burden which he longs to be rid of. Both are looking forward to the time when they will part, and as there is never any real affection between them, there will be scant vigilance on the one hand, and on the other scant obedience.

I should mention one more thing: we should only be apart if we both agree to it. This is crucial, and I want the teacher and student to be so close that they see their futures as intertwined. As soon as they sense that their time together is coming to an end, the time that will turn them into strangers, they start to become strangers right then and there; each creates their own little world, and both of them, preoccupied with the thought of when they won’t be together anymore, end up stuck together unwillingly. The student views the teacher as a symbol of childhood’s limitations, while the teacher sees the student as a burden they can’t wait to shake off. Both are anticipating the moment they will split, and since there's never any genuine affection between them, one side shows little vigilance, while the other shows little obedience.

But when they consider they must always live together, they must needs love one another, and in this way they really learn to love one another. The pupil is not ashamed to follow as a child the friend who will be with him in manhood; the tutor takes an interest in the efforts whose fruits he will enjoy, and the virtues he is cultivating in his pupil form a store laid up for his old age.

But when they realize they have to live together all the time, they have to love each other, and that's how they truly learn to care for one another. The student isn't embarrassed to follow the friend who will be there with him as an adult; the teacher is invested in the efforts that will benefit him later, and the values he is instilling in his student become a treasure for his older years.

This agreement made beforehand assumes a normal birth, a strong, well-made, healthy child. A father has no choice, and should have no preference within the limits of the family God has given him; all his children are his alike, the same care and affection is due to all. Crippled or well-made, weak or strong, each of them is a trust for which he is responsible to the Giver, and nature is a party to the marriage contract along with husband and wife.

This agreement made in advance assumes a normal birth and a strong, healthy child. A father has no choice and should have no preference regarding the family God has given him; all his children are equally his, and he owes them the same care and affection. Whether they are disabled or healthy, weak or strong, each child is a responsibility for which he is accountable to the Creator, and nature is a part of the marriage contract along with the husband and wife.

But if you undertake a duty not imposed upon you by nature, you must secure beforehand the means for its fulfilment, unless you would undertake duties you cannot fulfil. If you take the care of a sickly, unhealthy child, you are a sick nurse, not a tutor. To preserve a useless life you are wasting the time which should be spent in increasing its value, you risk the sight of a despairing mother reproaching you for the death of her child, who ought to have died long ago.

But if you take on a responsibility that nature hasn’t placed on you, you need to make sure you have the means to handle it beforehand, or else you'll take on responsibilities you can't manage. If you look after a sick, unhealthy child, you're a caretaker, not a teacher. By trying to preserve a life that isn’t thriving, you’re wasting time that could be spent improving its quality, and you risk facing a grief-stricken mother blaming you for the death of her child, who should have passed away a long time ago.

I would not undertake the care of a feeble, sickly child, should he live to four score years. I want no pupil who is useless alike to himself and others, one whose sole business is to keep himself alive, one whose body is always a hindrance to the training of his mind. If I vainly lavish my care upon him, what can I do but double the loss to society by robbing it of two men, instead of one? Let another tend this weakling for me; I am quite willing, I approve his charity, but I myself have no gift for such a task; I could never teach the art of living to one who needs all his strength to keep himself alive.

I wouldn’t take care of a weak, sickly child, even if he lived to be eighty. I don’t want a student who’s useless to himself and others, someone whose only job is to stay alive, whose body always gets in the way of training his mind. If I foolishly spend my effort on him, what can I do but double the loss to society by depriving it of two people instead of one? Let someone else take care of this fragile person; I’m completely okay with that, and I support their kindness, but I really don’t have the skill for such a task; I could never teach someone how to live when they need all their energy just to survive.

The body must be strong enough to obey the mind; a good servant must be strong. I know that intemperance stimulates the passions; in course of time it also destroys the body; fasting and penance often produce the same results in an opposite way. The weaker the body, the more imperious its demands; the stronger it is, the better it obeys. All sensual passions find their home in effeminate bodies; the less satisfaction they can get the keener their sting.

The body has to be strong enough to follow the mind; a good servant needs to be strong. I understand that excess can fuel desires; eventually, it also harms the body; fasting and self-discipline can produce similar effects, but in the opposite way. The weaker the body, the more it demands; the stronger it is, the better it listens. All sensual desires thrive in weak bodies; the less satisfaction they receive, the sharper their pain.

A feeble body makes a feeble mind. Hence the influence of physic, an art which does more harm to man than all the evils it professes to cure. I do not know what the doctors cure us of, but I know this: they infect us with very deadly diseases, cowardice, timidity, credulity, the fear of death. What matter if they make the dead walk, we have no need of corpses; they fail to give us men, and it is men we need.

A weak body leads to a weak mind. That's the impact of medicine, an art that does more damage to people than all the problems it claims to fix. I don’t really know what doctors cure us of, but I do know this: they give us some pretty serious illnesses, like cowardice, fearfulness, gullibility, and the fear of death. So what if they can bring the dead back to life? We don't need corpses; they don’t help us find real people, and that’s what we truly need.

Medicine is all the fashion in these days, and very naturally. It is the amusement of the idle and unemployed, who do not know what to do with their time, and so spend it in taking care of themselves. If by ill-luck they had happened to be born immortal, they would have been the most miserable of men; a life they could not lose would be of no value to them. Such men must have doctors to threaten and flatter them, to give them the only pleasure they can enjoy, the pleasure of not being dead.

Medicine is all the rage these days, and it makes sense. It's the pastime of those who are idle and unemployed, who aren’t sure how to spend their time, so they focus on taking care of themselves. If by some unfortunate chance they had been born immortal, they would be the most miserable people; a life they couldn’t lose wouldn’t mean anything to them. These people need doctors to either threaten or flatter them, providing them with their only source of enjoyment: the pleasure of not being dead.

I will say no more at present as to the uselessness of medicine. My aim is to consider its bearings on morals. Still I cannot refrain from saying that men employ the same sophism about medicine as they do about the search for truth. They assume that the patient is cured and that the seeker after truth finds it. They fail to see that against one life saved by the doctors you must set a hundred slain, and against the value of one truth discovered the errors which creep in with it. The science which instructs and the medicine which heals are no doubt excellent, but the science which misleads us and the medicine which kills us are evil. Teach us to know them apart. That is the real difficulty. If we were content to be ignorant of truth we should not be the dupes of falsehood; if we did not want to be cured in spite of nature, we should not be killed by the doctors. We should do well to steer clear of both, and we should evidently be the gainers. I do not deny that medicine is useful to some men; I assert that it is fatal to mankind.

I won't say more for now about the uselessness of medicine. My focus is to think about its impact on morals. Still, I can't help but point out that people use the same flawed reasoning about medicine as they do when searching for truth. They assume that a patient is cured and that the seeker of truth finds it. They don't see that for every life saved by doctors, there are a hundred lives lost, and alongside one truth discovered, countless errors come with it. The science that educates and the medicine that heals are certainly valuable, but the science that misleads us and the medicine that harms us are harmful. We need to learn how to differentiate between them. That's the real challenge. If we were okay with being ignorant of the truth, we wouldn't be tricked by falsehoods; if we didn't seek to be cured against nature's course, we wouldn't fall victim to doctors. It would be wise to avoid both, and it's clear we would benefit from that. I don't deny that medicine is helpful to some people; I argue that it is detrimental to humanity.

You will tell me, as usual, that the doctors are to blame, that medicine herself is infallible. Well and good, then give us the medicine without the doctor, for when we have both, the blunders of the artist are a hundredfold greater than our hopes from the art. This lying art, invented rather for the ills of the mind than of the body, is useless to both alike; it does less to cure us of our diseases than to fill us with alarm. It does less to ward off death than to make us dread its approach. It exhausts life rather than prolongs it; should it even prolong life it would only be to the prejudice of the race, since it makes us set its precautions before society and our fears before our duties. It is the knowledge of danger that makes us afraid. If we thought ourselves invulnerable we should know no fear. The poet armed Achilles against danger and so robbed him of the merit of courage; on such terms any man would be an Achilles.

You’ll tell me, as always, that the doctors are at fault, and that medicine itself is perfect. Fine, then let us have medicine without the doctor, because when we have both, the mistakes of the practitioner are way more significant than our hopes from the practice. This deceptive practice, created more for mental issues than physical ones, is useless for both; it does less to heal our ailments than to fill us with anxiety. It does less to fend off death than to make us fear its arrival. It drains life instead of extending it; even if it did extend life, it would only harm our species, since it makes us prioritize its precautions over society and our fears over our responsibilities. It’s the awareness of danger that causes our fear. If we believed we were invulnerable, we wouldn’t fear anything. The poet made Achilles invincible against danger, which took away his courage; under those conditions, anyone could be an Achilles.

Would you find a really brave man? Seek him where there are no doctors, where the results of disease are unknown, and where death is little thought of. By nature a man bears pain bravely and dies in peace. It is the doctors with their rules, the philosophers with their precepts, the priests with their exhortations, who debase the heart and make us afraid to die.

Would you find a truly brave man? Look for him where there are no doctors, where the outcomes of illness are uncertain, and where people rarely think about death. By nature, a man endures pain with courage and dies peacefully. It’s the doctors with their rules, the philosophers with their doctrines, and the priests with their sermons who undermine the heart and make us fear death.

Give me a pupil who has no need of these, or I will have nothing to do with him. No one else shall spoil my work, I will educate him myself or not at all. That wise man, Locke, who had devoted part of his life to the study of medicine, advises us to give no drugs to the child, whether as a precaution, or on account of slight ailments. I will go farther, and will declare that, as I never call in a doctor for myself, I will never send for one for Emile, unless his life is clearly in danger, when the doctor can but kill him.

Give me a student who doesn’t need any of this, or I won’t get involved with him. No one else is going to mess up my work; I’ll educate him myself or not at all. That wise man, Locke, who spent part of his life studying medicine, advises us not to give any medication to the child, whether for prevention or for minor issues. I’ll go further and say that just as I never call a doctor for myself, I won’t call one for Emile unless his life is obviously in danger, because the doctor can only harm him.

I know the doctor will make capital out of my delay. If the child dies, he was called in too late; if he recovers, it is his doing. So be it; let the doctor boast, but do not call him in except in extremity.

I know the doctor will take advantage of my delay. If the child dies, he was called in too late; if he recovers, it’s all thanks to him. Fine, let him brag, but don’t call him in unless it’s absolutely necessary.

As the child does not know how to be cured, he knows how to be ill. The one art takes the place of the other and is often more successful; it is the art of nature. When a beast is ill, it keeps quiet and suffers in silence; but we see fewer sickly animals than sick men. How many men have been slain by impatience, fear, anxiety, and above all by medicine, men whom disease would have spared, and time alone have cured. I shall be told that animals, who live according to nature, are less liable to disease than ourselves. Well, that way of living is just what I mean to teach my pupil; he should profit by it in the same way.

As the child doesn't know how to heal, he knows how to be sick. One skill replaces the other and often works better; it's the skill of nature. When an animal is sick, it stays quiet and suffers in silence; but we see fewer sick animals than sick people. How many people have been harmed by impatience, fear, anxiety, and especially by medicine, people whom illness would have left alone, and time could have cured. I'll be told that animals, who live naturally, get sick less often than we do. Well, that's exactly the way of living I want to teach my student; he should benefit from it in the same way.

Hygiene is the only useful part of medicine, and hygiene is rather a virtue than a science. Temperance and industry are man’s true remedies; work sharpens his appetite and temperance teaches him to control it.

Hygiene is the only valuable aspect of medicine, and hygiene is more of a virtue than a science. Self-control and hard work are humanity's real solutions; work enhances our appetite and self-control helps us manage it.

To learn what system is most beneficial you have only to study those races remarkable for health, strength, and length of days. If common observation shows us that medicine neither increases health nor prolongs life, it follows that this useless art is worse than useless, since it wastes time, men, and things on what is pure loss. Not only must we deduct the time spent, not in using life, but preserving it, but if this time is spent in tormenting ourselves it is worse than wasted, it is so much to the bad, and to reckon fairly a corresponding share must be deducted from what remains to us. A man who lives ten years for himself and others without the help of doctors lives more for himself and others than one who spends thirty years as their victim. I have tried both, so I think I have a better right than most to draw my own conclusions.

To figure out which system is the most beneficial, you just have to look at the races known for their health, strength, and longevity. If common observation shows that medicine doesn't really improve health or extend life, then it’s clear that this ineffective practice is worse than pointless because it wastes time, resources, and effort on things that yield no benefits. Not only do we need to account for the time spent not enjoying life but just trying to preserve it, but if that time is spent in suffering, then it’s even more than wasted; it's a loss. To be fair, we should deduct that time from what remains for us. A person who lives ten years independently and for others, without relying on doctors, actually lives more for themselves and those around them than someone who spends thirty years as a patient. I've experienced both, so I believe I have a better understanding than most to draw my own conclusions.

For these reasons I decline to take any but a strong and healthy pupil, and these are my principles for keeping him in health. I will not stop to prove at length the value of manual labour and bodily exercise for strengthening the health and constitution; no one denies it. Nearly all the instances of long life are to be found among the men who have taken most exercise, who have endured fatigue and labour. [Footnote: I cannot help quoting the following passage from an English newspaper, as it throws much light on my opinions: “A certain Patrick O’Neil, born in 1647, has just married his seventh wife in 1760. In the seventeenth year of Charles II. he served in the dragoons and in other regiments up to 1740, when he took his discharge. He served in all the campaigns of William III. and Marlborough. This man has never drunk anything but small beer; he has always lived on vegetables, and has never eaten meat except on few occasions when he made a feast for his relations. He has always been accustomed to rise with the sun and go to bed at sunset unless prevented by his military duties. He is now in his 130th year; he is healthy, his hearing is good, and he walks with the help of a stick. In spite of his great age he is never idle, and every Sunday he goes to his parish church accompanied by his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.”] Neither will I enter into details as to the care I shall take for this alone. It will be clear that it forms such an essential part of my practice that it is enough to get hold of the idea without further explanation.

For these reasons, I will only accept strong and healthy students, and these are my principles for keeping them that way. I won’t go into lengthy proof of how valuable manual labor and physical exercise are for maintaining health and fitness; no one disputes this. Almost all examples of long life are found among those who have engaged in regular exercise, endured fatigue, and worked hard. [Footnote: I must quote this passage from an English newspaper, as it sheds light on my views: “A certain Patrick O’Neil, born in 1647, has just married his seventh wife in 1760. In the seventeenth year of Charles II, he served in the dragoons and other regiments until 1740 when he took his discharge. He participated in all the campaigns of William III and Marlborough. This man has only ever drunk small beer, has always eaten vegetables, and has only had meat on a few occasions when he hosted a feast for his family. He has always been used to waking with the sun and going to bed at sunset unless prevented by his military duties. He is now in his 130th year; he is healthy, his hearing is good, and he walks with a stick. Despite his age, he is never idle, and every Sunday he attends his parish church with his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.”] I won’t go into the specifics of how I’ll ensure this alone. It should be clear that it’s such an essential part of my practice that the idea alone is enough without further explanation.

When our life begins our needs begin too. The new-born infant must have a nurse. If his mother will do her duty, so much the better; her instructions will be given her in writing, but this advantage has its drawbacks, it removes the tutor from his charge. But it is to be hoped that the child’s own interests, and her respect for the person to whom she is about to confide so precious a treasure, will induce the mother to follow the master’s wishes, and whatever she does you may be sure she will do better than another. If we must have a strange nurse, make a good choice to begin with.

When our lives begin, so do our needs. A newborn baby needs a caregiver. If the mother takes on that role, that's even better; she'll have written guidelines to follow, but this can be a downside as it distances the caregiver from the baby. However, we can hope that the child's best interests, along with the mother's respect for the person she's entrusting her precious child to, will motivate her to adhere to the caregiver's recommendations. Whatever she chooses to do, you can be sure she'll do it better than someone else. If we have to hire an outside caregiver, let's make a smart choice right from the start.

It is one of the misfortunes of the rich to be cheated on all sides; what wonder they think ill of mankind! It is riches that corrupt men, and the rich are rightly the first to feel the defects of the only tool they know. Everything is ill-done for them, except what they do themselves, and they do next to nothing. When a nurse must be selected the choice is left to the doctor. What happens? The best nurse is the one who offers the highest bribe. I shall not consult the doctor about Emile’s nurse, I shall take care to choose her myself. I may not argue about it so elegantly as the surgeon, but I shall be more reliable, I shall be less deceived by my zeal than the doctor by his greed.

One of the unfortunate things about being rich is that you get cheated from every angle; it’s no surprise they have a poor view of humanity! It's wealth that corrupts people, and the wealthy are the first to notice the flaws of the only thing they rely on. Everything is done poorly for them, except for what they do themselves, and they hardly do anything. When it comes to choosing a nurse, the decision is left to the doctor. What does that lead to? The best nurse is usually the one who offers the biggest bribe. I won’t ask the doctor about Emile’s nurse; I’ll make sure to choose her myself. I might not be able to argue about it as well as the surgeon, but I’ll be more trustworthy; I won’t be swayed by my enthusiasm like the doctor is by his greed.

There is no mystery about this choice; its rules are well known, but I think we ought probably to pay more attention to the age of the milk as well as its quality. The first milk is watery, it must be almost an aperient, to purge the remains of the meconium curdled in the bowels of the new-born child. Little by little the milk thickens and supplies more solid food as the child is able to digest it. It is surely not without cause that nature changes the milk in the female of every species according to the age of the offspring.

There's no mystery about this choice; the rules are well known, but I think we should probably pay more attention to both the age of the milk and its quality. The first milk is watery and is almost like a laxative, helping to clear out the meconium that has settled in the intestines of the newborn. Gradually, the milk thickens and provides more solid nourishment as the child can handle it. It's definitely not by chance that nature alters the milk in the female of every species based on the age of the offspring.

Thus a new-born child requires a nurse who has recently become mother. There is, I know, a difficulty here, but as soon as we leave the path of nature there are difficulties in the way of all well-doing. The wrong course is the only right one under the circumstances, so we take it.

Thus a newborn baby needs a nurse who's just become a mother. I understand there’s a challenge here, but once we stray from the natural way, we face obstacles in doing what’s right. The wrong path becomes the only option in this situation, so we choose it.

The nurse must be healthy alike in disposition and in body. The violence of the passions as well as the humours may spoil her milk. Moreover, to consider the body only is to keep only half our aim in view. The milk may be good and the nurse bad; a good character is as necessary as a good constitution. If you choose a vicious person, I do not say her foster-child will acquire her vices, but he will suffer for them. Ought she not to bestow on him day by day, along with her milk, a care which calls for zeal, patience, gentleness, and cleanliness. If she is intemperate and greedy her milk will soon be spoilt; if she is careless and hasty what will become of a poor little wretch left to her mercy, and unable either to protect himself or to complain. The wicked are never good for anything.

The nurse needs to be healthy both in mind and body. The intensity of her emotions, as well as her temperaments, can affect the quality of her milk. Additionally, focusing only on her physical health means we're only seeing part of the picture. The milk might be fine, but if the nurse has a bad character, that’s just as important. If she’s a bad person, I won't say her baby will take on her flaws, but he will definitely be impacted by them. Shouldn’t she provide him daily, along with her milk, a level of care that requires dedication, patience, kindness, and cleanliness? If she is uncontrolled and greedy, her milk will quickly go bad; if she is negligent and rushed, what will happen to a helpless little one left in her care, who can neither defend himself nor voice his needs? Those who are wicked are never good for anything.

The choice is all the more important because her foster-child should have no other guardian, just as he should have no teacher but his tutor. This was the custom of the ancients, who talked less but acted more wisely than we. The nurse never left her foster-daughter; this is why the nurse is the confidante in most of their plays. A child who passes through many hands in turn, can never be well brought up.

The choice is even more crucial because her foster child shouldn't have any other guardian, just like he shouldn't have anyone but his tutor as a teacher. This was the way of the ancients, who spoke less but acted more wisely than we do. The nurse never left her foster daughter, which is why the nurse is often the confidante in many of their plays. A child who is passed around from one person to another can't be properly raised.

At every change he makes a secret comparison, which continually tends to lessen his respect for those who control him, and with it their authority over him. If once he thinks there are grown-up people with no more sense than children the authority of age is destroyed and his education is ruined. A child should know no betters but its father and mother, or failing them its foster-mother and its tutor, and even this is one too many, but this division is inevitable, and the best that can be done in the way of remedy is that the man and woman who control him shall be so well agreed with regard to him that they seem like one.

At every change, he secretly compares himself to others, which constantly decreases his respect for those in charge of him, along with their authority over him. If he starts to think that there are adults who have no more sense than kids, then the power of age is lost and his education is harmed. A child should only look up to their parents or, if they're not around, to their caregiver and tutor; ideally, that’s already one person too many. However, this separation is unavoidable, and the best solution is for the man and woman in charge of him to agree so well about how to raise him that they appear to be one person.

The nurse must live rather more comfortably, she must have rather more substantial food, but her whole way of living must not be altered, for a sudden change, even a change for the better, is dangerous to health, and since her usual way of life has made her healthy and strong, why change it?

The nurse should live a bit more comfortably, with more substantial food, but her overall lifestyle shouldn’t change drastically. A sudden shift, even if it’s for the better, can harm her health. Since her regular way of life has kept her healthy and strong, why change it?

Country women eat less meat and more vegetables than towns-women, and this vegetarian diet seems favourable rather than otherwise to themselves and their children. When they take nurslings from the upper classes they eat meat and broth with the idea that they will form better chyle and supply more milk. I do not hold with this at all, and experience is on my side, for we do not find children fed in this way less liable to colic and worms.

Country women eat less meat and more vegetables than women in the towns, and this vegetarian diet seems to be better for both them and their kids. When they nurse infants from wealthier families, they eat meat and broth thinking it will help produce better nourishment and more milk. I completely disagree with this, and my experience supports my view, since we don’t see kids fed this way being less prone to colic and worms.

That need not surprise us, for decaying animal matter swarms with worms, but this is not the case with vegetable matter. [Footnote: Women eat bread, vegetables, and dairy produce; female dogs and cats do the same; the she-wolves eat grass. This supplies vegetable juices to their milk. There are still those species which are unable to eat anything but flesh, if such there are, which I very much doubt.] Milk, although manufactured in the body of an animal, is a vegetable substance; this is shown by analysis; it readily turns acid, and far from showing traces of any volatile alkali like animal matter, it gives a neutral salt like plants.

That shouldn't surprise us, because rotting animal matter is full of worms, but that's not the case with plant matter. [Footnote: Women eat bread, vegetables, and dairy products; female dogs and cats do the same; female wolves eat grass. This provides plant juices to their milk. There are still some species that can only eat meat, if any exist, which I seriously doubt.] Milk, even though produced in an animal's body, is a plant-based substance; this is proven by analysis. It easily turns sour and, unlike animal matter that shows signs of volatile alkali, it produces a neutral salt similar to that of plants.

The milk of herbivorous creatures is sweeter and more wholesome than the milk of the carnivorous; formed of a substance similar to its own, it keeps its goodness and becomes less liable to putrifaction. If quantity is considered, it is well known that farinaceous foods produce more blood than meat, so they ought to yield more milk. If a child were not weaned too soon, and if it were fed on vegetarian food, and its foster-mother were a vegetarian, I do not think it would be troubled with worms.

The milk from herbivorous animals is sweeter and healthier than the milk from carnivorous ones; because it's made from a substance similar to their own, it retains its quality and is less likely to spoil. If we look at quantity, it's well known that starchy foods produce more blood than meat, so they should produce more milk. If a child weren't weaned too early and was fed a plant-based diet, and if its nurse were also vegetarian, I believe it wouldn't have issues with worms.

Milk derived from vegetable foods may perhaps be more liable to go sour, but I am far from considering sour milk an unwholesome food; whole nations have no other food and are none the worse, and all the array of absorbents seems to me mere humbug. There are constitutions which do not thrive on milk, others can take it without absorbents. People are afraid of the milk separating or curdling; that is absurd, for we know that milk always curdles in the stomach. This is how it becomes sufficiently solid to nourish children and young animals; if it did not curdle it would merely pass away without feeding them. [Footnote: Although the juices which nourish us are liquid, they must be extracted from solids. A hard-working man who ate nothing but soup would soon waste away. He would be far better fed on milk, just because it curdles.] In vain you dilute milk and use absorbents; whoever swallows milk digests cheese, this rule is without exception; rennet is made from a calf’s stomach.

Milk from plant sources might spoil more easily, but I don’t think sour milk is an unhealthy food; whole cultures rely on it and are just fine, and all those absorbents are just nonsense to me. Some people can’t handle milk well, while others can drink it without any additives. Many worry about milk separating or curdling; that’s silly because we know milk always curdles in the stomach. That’s how it becomes thick enough to nourish children and young animals; if it didn’t curdle, it would just pass through without providing any nutrition. [Footnote: Even though the nutrients that sustain us are liquid, they must come from solids. A hardworking person who only ate soup would quickly lose weight. He’d be much better off with milk, simply because it curdles.] You can dilute milk and add absorbents all you want; anyone who drinks milk is actually digesting cheese—this is a universal truth; rennet comes from a calf’s stomach.

Instead of changing the nurse’s usual diet, I think it would be enough to give food in larger quantities and better of its kind. It is not the nature of the food that makes a vegetable diet indigestible, but the flavouring that makes it unwholesome. Reform your cookery, use neither butter nor oil for frying. Butter, salt, and milk should never be cooked. Let your vegetables be cooked in water and only seasoned when they come to table. The vegetable diet, far from disturbing the nurse, will give her a plentiful supply of milk. [Footnote: Those who wish to study a full account of the advantages and disadvantages of the Pythagorean regime, may consult the works of Dr. Cocchi and his opponent Dr. Bianchi on this important subject.] If a vegetable diet is best for the child, how can meat food be best for his nurse? The things are contradictory.

Instead of changing the nurse’s usual diet, I think it would be enough to provide larger portions of better quality food. It's not the type of food that makes a vegetable diet hard to digest, but rather the seasoning that makes it unhealthy. Improve your cooking; avoid using butter or oil for frying. Butter, salt, and milk should never be heated. Cook your vegetables in water and only season them when they’re served. A vegetable diet, instead of upsetting the nurse, will actually provide her with a generous supply of milk. [Footnote: Those who want to explore a comprehensive discussion on the pros and cons of the Pythagorean diet can refer to the works of Dr. Cocchi and his rival Dr. Bianchi on this important topic.] If a vegetable diet is best for the child, how can meat be the best choice for his nurse? These ideas are contradictory.

Fresh air affects children’s constitutions, particularly in early years. It enters every pore of a soft and tender skin, it has a powerful effect on their young bodies. Its effects can never be destroyed. So I should not agree with those who take a country woman from her village and shut her up in one room in a town and her nursling with her. I would rather send him to breathe the fresh air of the country than the foul air of the town. He will take his new mother’s position, will live in her cottage, where his tutor will follow him. The reader will bear in mind that this tutor is not a paid servant, but the father’s friend. But if this friend cannot be found, if this transfer is not easy, if none of my advice can be followed, you will say to me, “What shall I do instead?” I have told you already—“Do what you are doing;” no advice is needed there.

Fresh air has a strong impact on children's health, especially in their early years. It seeps into every pore of their delicate skin and has a significant effect on their growing bodies. Its benefits can never be undone. I cannot support those who take a country woman from her village and confine her to one room in a city with her baby. I would prefer him to enjoy the fresh air of the countryside rather than the polluted air of the city. He will take his new mother's place and live in her cottage, where his tutor will follow him. Keep in mind that this tutor is not a hired help, but a friend of the father. However, if this friend isn’t available, if this transition is difficult, if none of my suggestions can be applied, you might ask me, “What should I do instead?” I’ve already answered you—“Continue with what you’re doing;” no other advice is needed.

Men are not made to be crowded together in ant-hills, but scattered over the earth to till it. The more they are massed together, the more corrupt they become. Disease and vice are the sure results of over-crowded cities. Of all creatures man is least fitted to live in herds. Huddled together like sheep, men would very soon die. Man’s breath is fatal to his fellows. This is literally as well as figuratively true.

Men aren't meant to live packed together like ants in a hill; they're meant to be spread out across the earth to cultivate it. The more they are grouped together, the more corrupt they become. Illness and immorality are the inevitable results of overcrowded cities. Of all beings, humans are the least suited to live in bunches. Cramped together like sheep, they would soon perish. A man's breath is harmful to others. This is true both literally and figuratively.

Men are devoured by our towns. In a few generations the race dies out or becomes degenerate; it needs renewal, and it is always renewed from the country. Send your children to renew themselves, so to speak, send them to regain in the open fields the strength lost in the foul air of our crowded cities. Women hurry home that their children may be born in the town; they ought to do just the opposite, especially those who mean to nurse their own children. They would lose less than they think, and in more natural surroundings the pleasures associated by nature with maternal duties would soon destroy the taste for other delights.

Men are consumed by our towns. In just a few generations, the population either fades away or becomes unhealthy; it needs renewal, and that renewal always comes from the countryside. Send your children to recharge, so to speak; let them regain the strength lost in the polluted air of our crowded cities. Women rush home so their children can be born in the city; they should really do the opposite, especially those who plan to breastfeed. They would lose less than they believe, and in a more natural environment, the joys linked to motherhood would quickly outweigh any desire for other pleasures.

The new-born infant is first bathed in warm water to which a little wine is usually added. I think the wine might be dispensed with. As nature does not produce fermented liquors, it is not likely that they are of much value to her creatures.

The newborn baby is first bathed in warm water, often with a bit of wine added. I think the wine could be skipped. Since nature doesn’t produce fermented drinks, it’s probably not very beneficial for her creatures.

In the same way it is unnecessary to take the precaution of heating the water; in fact among many races the new-born infants are bathed with no more ado in rivers or in the sea. Our children, made tender before birth by the softness of their parents, come into the world with a constitution already enfeebled, which cannot be at once exposed to all the trials required to restore it to health. Little by little they must be restored to their natural vigour. Begin then by following this custom, and leave it off gradually. Wash your children often, their dirty ways show the need of this. If they are only wiped their skin is injured; but as they grow stronger gradually reduce the heat of the water, till at last you bathe them winter and summer in cold, even in ice-cold water. To avoid risk this change must be slow, gradual, and imperceptible, so you may use the thermometer for exact measurements.

It's not necessary to heat the water; in fact, in many cultures, newborns are simply bathed in rivers or the sea without any fuss. Our children, having been softened by their parents before birth, enter the world with a constitution that is already weakened and can't immediately handle all the challenges needed to restore their health. They need to regain their natural strength slowly. So, start by following this practice and gradually phase it out. Wash your children often; their messy habits show that it's necessary. Just wiping them can harm their skin, but as they grow stronger, slowly decrease the temperature of the water until you can bathe them in cold water, even ice-cold, all year round. To ensure safety, this transition should be slow, gradual, and barely noticeable, so you can use a thermometer for precise measurements.

This habit of the bath, once established, should never be broken off, it must be kept up all through life. I value it not only on grounds of cleanliness and present health, but also as a wholesome means of making the muscles supple, and accustoming them to bear without risk or effort extremes of heat and cold. As he gets older I would have the child trained to bathe occasionally in hot water of every bearable degree, and often in every degree of cold water. Now water being a denser fluid touches us at more points than air, so that, having learnt to bear all the variations of temperature in water, we shall scarcely feel this of the air. [Footnote: Children in towns are stifled by being kept indoors and too much wrapped up. Those who control them have still to learn that fresh air, far from doing them harm, will make them strong, while hot air will make them weak, will give rise to fevers, and will eventually kill them.]

This bathing habit, once established, should never be broken. It must be maintained throughout life. I value it not just for cleanliness and current health, but also as a healthy way to keep the muscles flexible and help them adapt to extreme heat and cold without risk or strain. As he gets older, I would have the child occasionally bathe in hot water at every tolerable temperature and often in cold water of all degrees. Since water is denser than air, it touches us at more points, so after learning to handle all the temperature variations in water, we will hardly notice those in the air. [Footnote: Children in cities are stifled by being kept indoors and overly bundled up. Those who care for them still need to understand that fresh air, far from harming them, will make them strong, while hot air will weaken them, lead to fevers, and eventually could be fatal.]

When the child draws its first breath do not confine it in tight wrappings. No cap, no bandages, nor swaddling clothes. Loose and flowing flannel wrappers, which leave its limbs free and are not too heavy to check his movements, not too warm to prevent his feeling the air. [Footnote: I say “cradle” using the common word for want of a better, though I am convinced that it is never necessary and often harmful to rock children in the cradle.] Put him in a big cradle, well padded, where he can move easily and safely. As he begins to grow stronger, let him crawl about the room; let him develop and stretch his tiny limbs; you will see him gain strength from day to day. Compare him with a well swaddled child of the same age and you will be surprised at their different rates of progress. [Footnote: The ancient Peruvians wrapped their children in loose swaddling bands, leaving the arms quite free. Later they placed them unswaddled in a hole in the ground, lined with cloths, so that the lower part of the body was in the hole, and their arms were free and they could move the head and bend the body at will without falling or hurting themselves. When they began to walk they were enticed to come to the breast. The little negroes are often in a position much more difficult for sucking. They cling to the mother’s hip, and cling so tightly that the mother’s arm is often not needed to support them. They clasp the breast with their hand and continue sucking while their mother goes on with her ordinary work. These children begin to walk at two months, or rather to crawl. Later on they can run on all fours almost as well as on their feet.—Buffon. M. Buffon might also have quoted the example of England, where the senseless and barbarous swaddling clothes have become almost obsolete. Cf. La Longue Voyage de Siam, Le Beau Voyage de Canada, etc.]

When a baby takes its first breath, don’t wrap it up tightly. No hat, no bandages, or swaddling clothes. Use loose and flowing flannel wraps that let its limbs move freely and aren’t too heavy to restrict movement, nor too warm to stop it from feeling the air. [Footnote: I use the term “cradle” simply because there isn’t a better word, although I believe it’s often unnecessary and sometimes harmful to rock babies in a cradle.] Place the baby in a large, well-padded cradle where it can move easily and safely. As it grows stronger, let it crawl around the room; let it develop and stretch its tiny limbs, and you’ll see it gain strength day by day. Compare it to a well-swaddled baby of the same age, and you’ll be surprised by how differently they progress. [Footnote: The ancient Peruvians wrapped their children in loose bands, leaving their arms free. Later, they placed them unswaddled in a lined hole in the ground, allowing their lower bodies to be in the hole while their arms were free, so they could move their heads and bend their bodies without falling or hurting themselves. When they started to walk, they were encouraged to come to the breast. Black children often find themselves in much more challenging positions for feeding. They cling to their mother’s hip so tightly that the mother often doesn’t need to support them with her arm. They hold onto the breast with their hand and continue to suck while their mother goes about her daily tasks. These children start crawling at two months, and later on, they can run on all fours almost as well as on their feet.—Buffon. M. Buffon might also have mentioned England, where the senseless and cruel practice of swaddling clothes has nearly disappeared. Cf. La Longue Voyage de Siam, Le Beau Voyage de Canada, etc.]

You must expect great opposition from the nurses, who find a half strangled baby needs much less watching. Besides his dirtyness is more perceptible in an open garment; he must be attended to more frequently. Indeed, custom is an unanswerable argument in some lands and among all classes of people.

You should anticipate strong resistance from the nurses, as they believe a baby who is half-strangled requires much less supervision. Plus, his dirtiness is more obvious in an open outfit; he needs more frequent attention. In fact, tradition is a compelling argument in some places and among all kinds of people.

Do not argue with the nurses; give your orders, see them carried out, and spare no pains to make the attention you prescribe easy in practice. Why not take your share in it? With ordinary nurslings, where the body alone is thought of, nothing matters so long as the child lives and does not actually die, but with us, when education begins with life, the new-born child is already a disciple, not of his tutor, but of nature. The tutor merely studies under this master, and sees that his orders are not evaded. He watches over the infant, he observes it, he looks for the first feeble glimmering of intelligence, as the Moslem looks for the moment of the moon’s rising in her first quarter.

Don't argue with the nurses; give your orders, make sure they’re followed, and do everything you can to ensure that the care you recommend is easy to implement. Why not get involved? With regular infants, where only physical well-being is considered, it doesn’t matter much as long as the child survives and isn't in danger of dying. But for us, since education starts at birth, the newborn is already a learner, not just from their caregiver, but from nature itself. The caregiver is simply studying under this teacher and making sure their directions are followed. They keep an eye on the baby, observe them, and look for the first faint hints of intelligence, just like a Muslim watches for the moment the moon first appears in its new phase.

We are born capable of learning, but knowing nothing, perceiving nothing. The mind, bound up within imperfect and half grown organs, is not even aware of its own existence. The movements and cries of the new-born child are purely reflex, without knowledge or will.

We are born able to learn, but we know nothing and perceive nothing. The mind, limited by imperfect and underdeveloped organs, isn't even aware of its own existence. The movements and cries of a newborn baby are purely reflexive, without any knowledge or intention.

Suppose a child born with the size and strength of manhood, entering upon life full grown like Pallas from the brain of Jupiter; such a child-man would be a perfect idiot, an automaton, a statue without motion and almost without feeling; he would see and hear nothing, he would recognise no one, he could not turn his eyes towards what he wanted to see; not only would he perceive no external object, he would not even be aware of sensation through the several sense-organs. His eye would not perceive colour, his ear sounds, his body would be unaware of contact with neighbouring bodies, he would not even know he had a body, what his hands handled would be in his brain alone; all his sensations would be united in one place, they would exist only in the common “sensorium,” he would have only one idea, that of self, to which he would refer all his sensations; and this idea, or rather this feeling, would be the only thing in which he excelled an ordinary child.

Imagine a child who is born with the size and strength of an adult, starting life fully grown like Athena emerging from the head of Zeus; such a child-man would be completely clueless, like a robot, a motionless statue with barely any feelings. He wouldn't see or hear anything, wouldn't recognize anyone, and wouldn't be able to look at what he wanted to see. Not only would he not notice anything around him, but he also wouldn't be aware of sensations from his senses. His eyes wouldn't perceive color, his ears wouldn't hear sounds, his body wouldn't feel anything pressing against it, and he wouldn't even know he had a body. What he handled would only exist in his mind; all his sensations would be gathered in one place, existing only in a shared “sensorium.” He would have just one thought, the idea of self, to which he would connect all his sensations, and this idea, or more accurately this feeling, would be the only way he surpassed an ordinary child.

This man, full grown at birth, would also be unable to stand on his feet, he would need a long time to learn how to keep his balance; perhaps he would not even be able to try to do it, and you would see the big strong body left in one place like a stone, or creeping and crawling like a young puppy.

This man, fully grown at birth, still wouldn't be able to stand on his feet; he would take a long time to learn how to balance. Maybe he wouldn't even be able to attempt it, and you would see his big, strong body just sitting still like a rock, or moving around on all fours like a young puppy.

He would feel the discomfort of bodily needs without knowing what was the matter and without knowing how to provide for these needs. There is no immediate connection between the muscles of the stomach and those of the arms and legs to make him take a step towards food, or stretch a hand to seize it, even were he surrounded with it; and as his body would be full grown and his limbs well developed he would be without the perpetual restlessness and movement of childhood, so that he might die of hunger without stirring to seek food. However little you may have thought about the order and development of our knowledge, you cannot deny that such a one would be in the state of almost primitive ignorance and stupidity natural to man before he has learnt anything from experience or from his fellows.

He would feel the discomfort of his physical needs without understanding what was wrong or how to satisfy those needs. There’s no direct link between the muscles in his stomach and those in his arms and legs that would motivate him to get up and grab food, even if it were right in front of him; and since his body would be fully grown and his limbs well-developed, he wouldn't have the constant restlessness and movement typical of childhood, meaning he could starve without making an effort to find food. No matter how little you’ve considered the order and development of our understanding, you can’t deny that this person would be in a state of almost primitive ignorance and confusion that’s natural for humans before they learn anything from experience or from others.

We know then, or we may know, the point of departure from which we each start towards the usual level of understanding; but who knows the other extreme? Each progresses more or less according to his genius, his taste, his needs, his talents, his zeal, and his opportunities for using them. No philosopher, so far as I know, has dared to say to man, “Thus far shalt thou go and no further.” We know not what nature allows us to be, none of us has measured the possible difference between man and man. Is there a mind so dead that this thought has never kindled it, that has never said in his pride, “How much have I already done, how much more may I achieve? Why should I lag behind my fellows?”

We understand, or we might understand, where we all start on our journey towards a typical level of understanding; but who knows the other end? Everyone moves forward at their own pace, depending on their intelligence, preferences, needs, skills, enthusiasm, and the chances they get to use them. No philosopher, as far as I know, has ever had the audacity to tell people, “You can go this far and no further.” We don’t know what nature permits us to become; none of us has measured the potential differences between individuals. Is there anyone so unfeeling that this idea has never sparked their thoughts, who has never thought with pride, “What have I accomplished so far, and how much more can I achieve? Why should I fall behind my peers?”

As I said before, man’s education begins at birth; before he can speak or understand he is learning. Experience precedes instruction; when he recognises his nurse he has learnt much. The knowledge of the most ignorant man would surprise us if we had followed his course from birth to the present time. If all human knowledge were divided into two parts, one common to all, the other peculiar to the learned, the latter would seem very small compared with the former. But we scarcely heed this general experience, because it is acquired before the age of reason. Moreover, knowledge only attracts attention by its rarity, as in algebraic equations common factors count for nothing. Even animals learn much. They have senses and must learn to use them; they have needs, they must learn to satisfy them; they must learn to eat, walk, or fly. Quadrupeds which can stand on their feet from the first cannot walk for all that; from their first attempts it is clear that they lack confidence. Canaries who escape from their cage are unable to fly, having never used their wings. Living and feeling creatures are always learning. If plants could walk they would need senses and knowledge, else their species would die out. The child’s first mental experiences are purely affective, he is only aware of pleasure and pain; it takes him a long time to acquire the definite sensations which show him things outside himself, but before these things present and withdraw themselves, so to speak, from his sight, taking size and shape for him, the recurrence of emotional experiences is beginning to subject the child to the rule of habit. You see his eyes constantly follow the light, and if the light comes from the side the eyes turn towards it, so that one must be careful to turn his head towards the light lest he should squint. He must also be accustomed from the first to the dark, or he will cry if he misses the light. Food and sleep, too, exactly measured, become necessary at regular intervals, and soon desire is no longer the effect of need, but of habit, or rather habit adds a fresh need to those of nature. You must be on your guard against this.

As I mentioned before, a person's education starts at birth; even before they can speak or understand, they're already learning. Experience comes before instruction; when a baby recognizes their caregiver, they've learned a lot. The knowledge of the most uninformed person would surprise us if we followed their journey from birth to now. If all human knowledge were split into two parts—one that everyone shares and the other that’s exclusive to the educated—the latter would seem very small compared to the former. However, we barely pay attention to this shared understanding because it develops before we reach rational thought. Furthermore, knowledge only stands out because of its rarity, similar to how common factors don’t matter in algebraic equations. Even animals learn a lot. They have senses and need to learn how to use them; they have needs and must learn to fulfill them; they must learn how to eat, walk, or fly. Quadrupeds that can stand on their feet from the start still can’t walk; their first attempts show that they lack confidence. Canaries that escape from their cages can't fly because they've never used their wings. Living beings are always learning. If plants could walk, they would need senses and knowledge, or their species would die out. A child's initial mental experiences are purely emotional; they're only aware of pleasure and pain. It takes time for them to acquire definite sensations that reveal the world outside themselves, but even before these things appear and disappear from their view, the reoccurrence of emotional experiences starts to guide the child's habits. You can see their eyes constantly following the light, and if the light comes from the side, their eyes turn towards it. One must be careful to position their head towards the light to avoid squinting. They also need to get used to the dark right from the beginning, or they'll cry when they can't see the light. Food and sleep, too, become necessary at regular intervals, and soon those desires are no longer just due to need but from habit, or rather habit creates a new need alongside the natural ones. You need to watch out for this.

The only habit the child should be allowed to contract is that of having no habits; let him be carried on either arm, let him be accustomed to offer either hand, to use one or other indifferently; let him not want to eat, sleep, or do anything at fixed hours, nor be unable to be left alone by day or night. Prepare the way for his control of his liberty and the use of his strength by leaving his body its natural habit, by making him capable of lasting self-control, of doing all that he wills when his will is formed.

The only habit a child should form is to have no habits at all; let him be carried on either arm, let him get used to offering either hand, using one or the other without preference. He shouldn't have set times for eating, sleeping, or doing anything, nor should he be unable to be left alone, day or night. Prepare the way for him to manage his freedom and use his strength by allowing his body to maintain its natural state, enabling him to develop lasting self-control, so he can do whatever he wants when his will is established.

As soon as the child begins to take notice, what is shown him must be carefully chosen. The natural man is interested in all new things. He feels so feeble that he fears the unknown: the habit of seeing fresh things without ill effects destroys this fear. Children brought up in clean houses where there are no spiders are afraid of spiders, and this fear often lasts through life. I never saw peasants, man, woman, or child, afraid of spiders.

As soon as a child starts to pay attention, what's shown to them needs to be thoughtfully selected. Naturally, people are intrigued by new things. They feel vulnerable, so they tend to fear the unknown; however, regularly encountering new experiences without negative consequences helps eliminate that fear. Kids raised in clean homes without spiders often grow up being afraid of them, and that fear can last a lifetime. I've never seen farmers, whether man, woman, or child, who are afraid of spiders.

Since the mere choice of things shown him may make the child timid or brave, why should not his education begin before he can speak or understand? I would have him accustomed to see fresh things, ugly, repulsive, and strange beasts, but little by little, and far off till he is used to them, and till having seen others handle them he handles them himself. If in childhood he sees toads, snakes, and crayfish, he will not be afraid of any animal when he is grown up. Those who are continually seeing terrible things think nothing of them.

Since just the choice of what he sees can make a child shy or brave, why shouldn't his education start before he can talk or understand? I want him to get used to seeing new things, ugly, off-putting, and bizarre creatures, but gradually and from a distance until he is comfortable with them, and until he sees others interact with them before he tries it himself. If he encounters toads, snakes, and crayfish during his childhood, he won’t be afraid of any animal when he grows up. Those who are constantly exposed to frightening things become desensitized to them.

All children are afraid of masks. I begin by showing Emile a mask with a pleasant face, then some one puts this mask before his face; I begin to laugh, they all laugh too, and the child with them. By degrees I accustom him to less pleasing masks, and at last hideous ones. If I have arranged my stages skilfully, far from being afraid of the last mask, he will laugh at it as he did at the first. After that I am not afraid of people frightening him with masks.

All kids are scared of masks. I start by showing Emile a mask with a friendly face, then someone puts that mask in front of his face; I start laughing, and they all laugh too, including the child. Gradually, I get him used to less friendly masks, and eventually, even really scary ones. If I’ve planned my steps well, instead of being scared of the last mask, he’ll laugh at it like he did with the first one. After that, I’m not worried about people scaring him with masks.

When Hector bids farewell to Andromache, the young Astyanax, startled by the nodding plumes on the helmet, does not know his father; he flings himself weeping upon his nurse’s bosom and wins from his mother a smile mingled with tears. What must be done to stay this terror? Just what Hector did; put the helmet on the ground and caress the child. In a calmer moment one would do more; one would go up to the helmet, play with the plumes, let the child feel them; at last the nurse would take the helmet and place it laughingly on her own head, if indeed a woman’s hand dare touch the armour of Hector.

When Hector says goodbye to Andromache, the young Astyanax, confused by the swaying plumes on the helmet, doesn’t recognize his father. He throws himself into his nurse’s arms, crying, and earns a smile from his mother, mixed with tears. What can be done to stop this fear? Just what Hector did; he set the helmet down and comforted the child. In a calmer moment, one would do more; one would approach the helmet, play with the plumes, let the child touch them; eventually, the nurse would take the helmet and jokingly place it on her head, if a woman’s hand would even dare to touch Hector’s armor.

If Emile must get used to the sound of a gun, I first fire a pistol with a small charge. He is delighted with this sudden flash, this sort of lightning; I repeat the process with more powder; gradually I add a small charge without a wad, then a larger; in the end I accustom him to the sound of a gun, to fireworks, cannon, and the most terrible explosions.

If Emile has to get used to the sound of a gun, I first shoot a pistol with a light load. He is thrilled by this sudden flash, this kind of lightning; I do it again with more powder; gradually I add a small charge without a wad, then a bigger one; in the end, I get him used to the sound of a gun, fireworks, cannons, and the loudest explosions.

I have observed that children are rarely afraid of thunder unless the peals are really terrible and actually hurt the ear, otherwise this fear only comes to them when they know that thunder sometimes hurts or kills. When reason begins to cause fear, let us reassure them. By slow and careful stages man and child learn to fear nothing.

I've noticed that kids are hardly ever scared of thunder unless it's really loud and actually hurts their ears; otherwise, they only start to fear it when they understand that thunder can sometimes hurt or kill. When fear comes from understanding, let's calm them down. Through gradual and careful steps, both adults and children can learn not to fear anything.

In the dawn of life, when memory and imagination have not begun to function, the child only attends to what affects its senses. His sense experiences are the raw material of thought; they should, therefore, be presented to him in fitting order, so that memory may at a future time present them in the same order to his understanding; but as he only attends to his sensations it is enough, at first, to show him clearly the connection between these sensations and the things which cause them. He wants to touch and handle everything; do not check these movements which teach him invaluable lessons. Thus he learns to perceive the heat, cold, hardness, softness, weight, or lightness of bodies, to judge their size and shape and all their physical properties, by looking, feeling, [Footnote: Of all the senses that of smell is the latest to develop in children up to two or three years of age they appear to be insensible of pleasant or unpleasant odours; in this respect they are as indifferent or rather as insensible as many animals.] listening, and, above all, by comparing sight and touch, by judging with the eye what sensation they would cause to his hand.

At the beginning of life, when memory and imagination haven’t kicked in yet, a child only focuses on what they can sense. Their sensory experiences are the building blocks of thought, so it's important to present these experiences in a logical order. This way, memory can later bring them back to their understanding in the same sequence. Since a child mainly attends to their sensations, it's enough at first to clearly show the links between these sensations and the things that create them. They want to touch and explore everything, so don't hold back these movements that teach them invaluable lessons. Through this, they learn to feel heat, cold, hardness, softness, weight, or lightness of objects, judging their size, shape, and all physical properties by looking, feeling, listening, and especially by comparing what they see with what they touch, estimating what sensations they might feel with their hands.

It is only by movement that we learn the difference between self and not self; it is only by our own movements that we gain the idea of space. The child has not this idea, so he stretches out his hand to seize the object within his reach or that which is a hundred paces from him. You take this as a sign of tyranny, an attempt to bid the thing draw near, or to bid you bring it. Nothing of the kind, it is merely that the object first seen in his brain, then before his eyes, now seems close to his arms, and he has no idea of space beyond his reach. Be careful, therefore, to take him about, to move him from place to place, and to let him perceive the change in his surroundings, so as to teach him to judge of distances.

We only learn the difference between ourselves and everything else through movement; it’s our own movements that help us understand space. A child doesn’t have this understanding yet, so they reach out to grab something close or even something that’s far away. You might see this as a sign of trying to control or demand that the object come closer or that you bring it to them. That’s not the case at all; the object starts in their mind, then appears in front of their eyes, and now it seems to be within their reach, and they don’t comprehend space beyond what they can touch. So, make sure to take them around, move them from one place to another, and help them notice the changes in their environment, so they can learn to gauge distances.

When he begins to perceive distances then you must change your plan, and only carry him when you please, not when he pleases; for as soon as he is no longer deceived by his senses, there is another motive for his effort. This change is remarkable and calls for explanation.

When he starts to see distances, you need to adjust your approach and only carry him when it works for you, not when he wants; because once he can no longer be misled by his senses, he has a different reason for his actions. This shift is significant and requires some explanation.

The discomfort caused by real needs is shown by signs, when the help of others is required. Hence the cries of children; they often cry; it must be so. Since they are only conscious of feelings, when those feelings are pleasant they enjoy them in silence; when they are painful they say so in their own way and demand relief. Now when they are awake they can scarcely be in a state of indifference, either they are asleep or else they are feeling something.

The discomfort from genuine needs is indicated by signs, especially when help from others is needed. This explains why children cry; they often cry, and that’s just how it is. They're only aware of their feelings; when those feelings are pleasant, they enjoy them quietly. When they’re painful, they express it in their own way and seek comfort. When they’re awake, they can hardly be indifferent; they’re either asleep or feeling something.

All our languages are the result of art. It has long been a subject of inquiry whether there ever was a natural language common to all; no doubt there is, and it is the language of children before they begin to speak. This language is inarticulate, but it has tone, stress, and meaning. The use of our own language has led us to neglect it so far as to forget it altogether. Let us study children and we shall soon learn it afresh from them. Nurses can teach us this language; they understand all their nurslings say to them, they answer them, and keep up long conversations with them; and though they use words, these words are quite useless. It is not the hearing of the word, but its accompanying intonation that is understood.

All our languages come from art. It's been debated whether there was ever a natural language shared by everyone; there definitely is, and it's the language of children before they start speaking. This language is unspoken, but it has tone, emphasis, and meaning. Our use of our own language has caused us to ignore it to the point of forgetting it altogether. If we study children, we'll quickly rediscover it through them. Caregivers can teach us this language; they understand everything their little ones say to them, respond to them, and maintain long conversations with them; and even though they use words, those words are largely irrelevant. It's not the words that are understood, but the tone that goes along with them.

To the language of intonation is added the no less forcible language of gesture. The child uses, not its weak hands, but its face. The amount of expression in these undeveloped faces is extraordinary; their features change from one moment to another with incredible speed. You see smiles, desires, terror, come and go like lightning; every time the face seems different. The muscles of the face are undoubtedly more mobile than our own. On the other hand the eyes are almost expressionless. Such must be the sort of signs they use at an age when their only needs are those of the body. Grimaces are the sign of sensation, the glance expresses sentiment.

The language of tone is complemented by the equally powerful language of gesture. The child doesn’t just use its weak hands; it uses its face. The level of expression in these undeveloped faces is remarkable; their features shift from one moment to the next with astonishing speed. You see smiles, desires, and fear appear and vanish like lightning; each time, the face seems different. The muscles in their faces are definitely more flexible than ours. Meanwhile, their eyes are nearly devoid of expression. This is likely the kind of communication they rely on at a stage when their needs are purely physical. Grimaces indicate feelings, while a look conveys emotion.

As man’s first state is one of want and weakness, his first sounds are cries and tears. The child feels his needs and cannot satisfy them, he begs for help by his cries. Is he hungry or thirsty? there are tears; is he too cold or too hot? more tears; he needs movement and is kept quiet, more tears; he wants to sleep and is disturbed, he weeps. The less comfortable he is, the more he demands change. He has only one language because he has, so to say, only one kind of discomfort. In the imperfect state of his sense organs he does not distinguish their several impressions; all ills produce one feeling of sorrow.

As man’s initial state is one of need and vulnerability, his first sounds are cries and tears. The child recognizes his needs but cannot meet them, so he cries out for help. Is he hungry or thirsty? There are tears. Is he too cold or too hot? More tears. He needs to move but is kept still, and then there are more tears. He wants to sleep but is disturbed, and he weeps. The less comfortable he is, the more he wants change. He has just one form of expression because he experiences, in a sense, only one type of discomfort. Due to the underdeveloped state of his senses, he cannot distinguish between different sensations; all discomforts create a single feeling of sadness.

These tears, which you think so little worthy of your attention, give rise to the first relation between man and his environment; here is forged the first link in the long chain of social order.

These tears, which you think are not worth your attention, create the first connection between a person and their surroundings; this is where the first link in the long chain of social order is formed.

When the child cries he is uneasy, he feels some need which he cannot satisfy; you watch him, seek this need, find it, and satisfy it. If you can neither find it nor satisfy it, the tears continue and become tiresome. The child is petted to quiet him, he is rocked or sung to sleep; if he is obstinate, the nurse becomes impatient and threatens him; cruel nurses sometimes strike him. What strange lessons for him at his first entrance into life!

When the child cries, he’s uncomfortable; he has a need he can't fulfill. You observe him, try to identify this need, find it, and meet it. If you can’t locate it or fulfill it, the tears keep coming and become annoying. The child is pampered to calm him down, he’s rocked or sung to sleep; if he’s stubborn, the caregiver gets frustrated and threatens him; some harsh caregivers might even hit him. What strange lessons for him as he first enters the world!

I shall never forget seeing one of these troublesome crying children thus beaten by his nurse. He was silent at once. I thought he was frightened, and said to myself, “This will be a servile being from whom nothing can be got but by harshness.” I was wrong, the poor wretch was choking with rage, he could not breathe, he was black in the face. A moment later there were bitter cries, every sign of the anger, rage, and despair of this age was in his tones. I thought he would die. Had I doubted the innate sense of justice and injustice in man’s heart, this one instance would have convinced me. I am sure that a drop of boiling liquid falling by chance on that child’s hand would have hurt him less than that blow, slight in itself, but clearly given with the intention of hurting him.

I will never forget watching one of those troublesome crying kids being hit by his caregiver. He went quiet instantly. I thought he was scared and said to myself, “This will be a submissive person who can only be controlled through harsh treatment.” I was wrong; the poor kid was choking with rage, unable to breathe, and his face turned black. A moment later, he let out bitter cries that showed all the anger, rage, and despair of his age. I thought he might die. If I had ever doubted the natural sense of justice and injustice in a person's heart, this one instance would have changed my mind. I’m sure that a drop of boiling liquid accidentally landing on that child’s hand would have hurt him less than that slap, which was minor in itself but clearly delivered with the intent to hurt him.

This tendency to anger, vexation, and rage needs great care. Boerhaave thinks that most of the diseases of children are of the nature of convulsions, because the head being larger in proportion and the nervous system more extensive than in adults, they are more liable to nervous irritation. Take the greatest care to remove from them any servants who tease, annoy, or vex them. They are a hundredfold more dangerous and more fatal than fresh air and changing seasons. When children only experience resistance in things and never in the will of man, they do not become rebellious or passionate, and their health is better. This is one reason why the children of the poor, who are freer and more independent, are generally less frail and weakly, more vigorous than those who are supposed to be better brought up by being constantly thwarted; but you must always remember that it is one thing to refrain from thwarting them, but quite another to obey them. The child’s first tears are prayers, beware lest they become commands; he begins by asking for aid, he ends by demanding service. Thus from his own weakness, the source of his first consciousness of dependence, springs the later idea of rule and tyranny; but as this idea is aroused rather by his needs than by our services, we begin to see moral results whose causes are not in nature; thus we see how important it is, even at the earliest age, to discern the secret meaning of the gesture or cry.

This tendency toward anger, annoyance, and rage needs careful management. Boerhaave believes that many childhood illnesses resemble convulsions, as children have larger heads and more developed nervous systems compared to adults, making them more susceptible to nervous stress. Make sure to remove any caregivers who tease, irritate, or upset them. These influences are far more harmful and potentially deadly than fresh air and changing seasons. When kids face challenges in their surroundings instead of from people's wills, they don’t become rebellious or emotional, and their health improves. This is one reason why children from poorer backgrounds, who have more freedom and independence, are generally stronger and healthier than those who are thought to be better raised but face constant obstacles; however, it’s important to note that it’s one thing to avoid pushing back against them and quite another to simply give in to their wishes. A child’s first tears are requests; be cautious they don’t turn into demands. They start by seeking help, but can end up expecting service. Thus, from their initial vulnerability, which signifies their first awareness of dependence, grows the later concept of authority and oppression; and since this concept arises more from their needs than our assistance, we start to observe moral outcomes whose roots aren’t in nature. Therefore, it’s crucial, even from a very young age, to understand the deeper meaning behind a gesture or cry.

When the child tries to seize something without speaking, he thinks he can reach the object, for he does not rightly judge its distance; when he cries and stretches out his hands he no longer misjudges the distance, he bids the object approach, or orders you to bring it to him. In the first case bring it to him slowly; in the second do not even seem to hear his cries. The more he cries the less you should heed him. He must learn in good time not to give commands to men, for he is not their master, nor to things, for they cannot hear him. Thus when the child wants something you mean to give him, it is better to carry him to it rather than to bring the thing to him. From this he will draw a conclusion suited to his age, and there is no other way of suggesting it to him.

When a child tries to grab something without saying anything, he thinks he can reach it because he doesn’t accurately judge how far away it is. But when he cries and reaches out his hands, he no longer misjudges the distance; he’s asking the object to come closer or telling you to bring it to him. In the first situation, bring it to him slowly; in the second, act like you don’t even hear his cries. The more he cries, the less attention you should give him. He needs to learn in due time that he can't give orders to people, since he isn't their boss, or to objects, since they can’t hear him. So when a child wants something you intend to give him, it’s better to take him to it rather than bring the item to him. This way, he will form an understanding that matches his age, and there’s no other way to suggest it to him.

The Abbe Saint-Pierre calls men big children; one might also call children little men. These statements are true, but they require explanation. But when Hobbes calls the wicked a strong child, his statement is contradicted by facts. All wickedness comes from weakness. The child is only naughty because he is weak; make him strong and he will be good; if we could do everything we should never do wrong. Of all the attributes of the Almighty, goodness is that which it would be hardest to dissociate from our conception of Him. All nations who have acknowledged a good and an evil power, have always regarded the evil as inferior to the good; otherwise their opinion would have been absurd. Compare this with the creed of the Savoyard clergyman later on in this book.

The Abbe Saint-Pierre refers to men as big children, while children could just as easily be called little men. These statements hold true, but they need some clarification. However, when Hobbes describes the wicked as strong children, his claim is contradicted by reality. All wickedness stems from weakness. A child is only misbehaving because he's weak; make him strong, and he'll be good; if we could do anything, we would never do wrong. Of all the qualities of the Almighty, goodness is the one that's hardest to separate from our understanding of Him. All cultures that recognize a good and an evil force have always viewed evil as lesser than good; otherwise, their belief would be nonsensical. Compare this with the beliefs of the Savoyard clergyman mentioned later in this book.

Reason alone teaches us to know good and evil. Therefore conscience, which makes us love the one and hate the other, though it is independent of reason, cannot develop without it. Before the age of reason we do good or ill without knowing it, and there is no morality in our actions, although there is sometimes in our feeling with regard to other people’s actions in relation to ourselves. A child wants to overturn everything he sees. He breaks and smashes everything he can reach; he seizes a bird as he seizes a stone, and strangles it without knowing what he is about.

Reason alone teaches us to understand good and evil. So, conscience, which makes us love one and hate the other, even though it operates separately from reason, can't grow without it. Before we reach the age of reason, we do good or bad things without realizing it, and our actions lack true morality, even if we sometimes have feelings about others' actions towards us. A child wants to knock over everything he sees. He breaks and destroys anything within his reach; he grabs a bird just like he grabs a stone and strangles it without understanding what he's doing.

Why so? In the first place philosophy will account for this by inbred sin, man’s pride, love of power, selfishness, spite; perhaps it will say in addition to this that the child’s consciousness of his own weakness makes him eager to use his strength, to convince himself of it. But watch that broken down old man reduced in the downward course of life to the weakness of a child; not only is he quiet and peaceful, he would have all about him quiet and peaceful too; the least change disturbs and troubles him, he would like to see universal calm. How is it possible that similar feebleness and similar passions should produce such different effects in age and in infancy, if the original cause were not different? And where can we find this difference in cause except in the bodily condition of the two. The active principle, common to both, is growing in one case and declining in the other; it is being formed in the one and destroyed in the other; one is moving towards life, the other towards death. The failing activity of the old man is centred in his heart, the child’s overflowing activity spreads abroad. He feels, if we may say so, strong enough to give life to all about him. To make or to destroy, it is all one to him; change is what he seeks, and all change involves action. If he seems to enjoy destructive activity it is only that it takes time to make things and very little time to break them, so that the work of destruction accords better with his eagerness.

Why is that? First, philosophy might explain it as an inherent sin, stemming from man's pride, his desire for power, selfishness, and spite; it could also say that a child's awareness of their own weakness makes them eager to prove their strength. But look at that frail old man, reduced by life's downward spiral to the vulnerability of a child; he is not only calm and peaceful but wishes for everyone around him to be the same. The slightest change upsets him, and he longs for universal tranquility. How can the same weakness and similar emotions lead to such different outcomes in old age and childhood if the underlying cause weren't different? And where can we find this difference in cause except in the physical state of the two? The active force common to both is growing in one while decreasing in the other; it's being created in one and destroyed in the other; one is moving toward life, while the other is heading toward death. The declining vitality of the old man is focused in his heart, while the child's abundant energy is directed outward. He feels, so to speak, strong enough to bring life to everything around him. To create or to destroy is all the same to him; he seeks change, and every change requires action. If he seems to enjoy destructive activities, it’s only because making things takes time, while breaking them takes very little, so destruction aligns better with his eagerness.

While the Author of nature has given children this activity, He takes care that it shall do little harm by giving them small power to use it. But as soon as they can think of people as tools to be used, they use them to carry out their wishes and to supplement their own weakness. This is how they become tiresome, masterful, imperious, naughty, and unmanageable; a development which does not spring from a natural love of power, but one which has been taught them, for it does not need much experience to realise how pleasant it is to set others to work and to move the world by a word.

While the creator of nature has given kids this drive, He ensures that it causes little harm by giving them limited power to use it. However, once they start thinking of people as tools to achieve their desires, they utilize them to fulfill their wishes and compensate for their own weaknesses. This is how they become irritating, controlling, bossy, mischievous, and difficult to manage; a development that doesn't come from a natural desire for power, but rather from what they've been taught, since it doesn't take much experience to realize how enjoyable it is to direct others and make an impact with just a word.

As the child grows it gains strength and becomes less restless and unquiet and more independent. Soul and body become better balanced and nature no longer asks for more movement than is required for self-preservation. But the love of power does not die with the need that aroused it; power arouses and flatters self-love, and habit strengthens it; thus caprice follows upon need, and the first seeds of prejudice and obstinacy are sown.

As the child grows, it gains strength and becomes less restless and anxious, becoming more independent. The mind and body find a better balance, and nature no longer demands more movement than what’s necessary for survival. However, the desire for power doesn’t fade away with the need that created it; power stimulates and boosts self-esteem, and routine reinforces it. This leads to whims following need, and the first signs of bias and stubbornness begin to take root.

FIRST MAXIM.—Far from being too strong, children are not strong enough for all the claims of nature. Give them full use of such strength as they have; they will not abuse it.

FIRST MAXIM.—Children aren’t too strong; they simply don’t have enough strength to meet all of nature's demands. Allow them to fully utilize their strength; they won’t misuse it.

SECOND MAXIM.—Help them and supply the experience and strength they lack whenever the need is of the body.

SECOND MAXIM.—Assist them and provide the experience and strength they lack whenever there’s a physical need.

THIRD MAXIM.—In the help you give them confine yourself to what is really needful, without granting anything to caprice or unreason; for they will not be tormented by caprice if you do not call it into existence, seeing it is no part of nature.

THIRD MAXIM.—When you help them, stick to what’s actually necessary, without giving in to whims or irrationality; they won’t be bothered by whims if you don’t encourage them, since it’s not part of their nature.

FOURTH MAXIM—Study carefully their speech and gestures, so that at an age when they are incapable of deceit you may discriminate between those desires which come from nature and those which spring from perversity.

FOURTH MAXIM—Pay close attention to their words and actions, so that when they are too young to lie, you can tell the difference between desires that arise from nature and those that come from a twisted sense of will.

The spirit of these rules is to give children more real liberty and less power, to let them do more for themselves and demand less of others; so that by teaching them from the first to confine their wishes within the limits of their powers they will scarcely feel the want of whatever is not in their power.

The purpose of these rules is to give kids more genuine freedom and less control, allowing them to do more for themselves and rely less on others; by teaching them from the start to keep their desires within what they can actually achieve, they'll hardly feel the lack of anything that's beyond their reach.

This is another very important reason for leaving children’s limbs and bodies perfectly free, only taking care that they do not fall, and keeping anything that might hurt them out of their way.

This is another very important reason for allowing children's limbs and bodies to be completely free, just ensuring that they don’t fall and keeping anything that could hurt them away.

The child whose body and arms are free will certainly cry much less than a child tied up in swaddling clothes. He who knows only bodily needs, only cries when in pain; and this is a great advantage, for then we know exactly when he needs help, and if possible we should not delay our help for an instant. But if you cannot relieve his pain, stay where you are and do not flatter him by way of soothing him; your caresses will not cure his colic, but he will remember what he must do to win them; and if he once finds out how to gain your attention at will, he is your master; the whole education is spoilt.

The child who has free movement of his body and arms will definitely cry a lot less than a child wrapped tightly in swaddling clothes. A child who only understands physical needs will only cry when he’s in pain; and this is a big advantage, because it lets us know exactly when he needs help, and we should avoid delaying our assistance for even a moment. But if you can’t relieve his pain, just stay where you are and don’t try to comfort him with empty words; your affection won’t solve his colic, but he’ll remember how to get your attention. Once he figures out how to get your focus whenever he wants, he’ll be in control; the entire process of education will be ruined.

Their movements being less constrained, children will cry less; less wearied with their tears, people will not take so much trouble to check them. With fewer threats and promises, they will be less timid and less obstinate, and will remain more nearly in their natural state. Ruptures are produced less by letting children cry than by the means taken to stop them, and my evidence for this is the fact that the most neglected children are less liable to them than others. I am very far from wishing that they should be neglected; on the contrary, it is of the utmost importance that their wants should be anticipated, so that they need not proclaim their wants by crying. But neither would I have unwise care bestowed on them. Why should they think it wrong to cry when they find they can get so much by it? When they have learned the value of their silence they take good care not to waste it. In the end they will so exaggerate its importance that no one will be able to pay its price; then worn out with crying they become exhausted, and are at length silent.

When children are less restricted, they cry less; and since people are less burdened by their tears, they won’t bother to stop them as much. With fewer threats and promises, kids will be less fearful and stubborn, and will stay closer to their natural selves. Issues arise more from attempts to get children to stop crying than from letting them cry, and my proof is that the most neglected children cry less than others. I definitely don’t want them to be neglected; on the contrary, it’s extremely important to anticipate their needs so they don’t have to express them through crying. But I also don’t want them to be smothered with misguided care. Why should they see crying as wrong when it gets them what they want? Once they understand the value of their silence, they make sure not to waste it. Eventually, they’ll make such a big deal out of it that no one will be able to pay it any attention; then, exhausted from crying, they’ll finally fall silent.

Prolonged crying on the part of a child neither swaddled nor out of health, a child who lacks nothing, is merely the result of habit or obstinacy. Such tears are no longer the work of nature, but the work of the child’s nurse, who could not resist its importunity and so has increased it, without considering that while she quiets the child to-day she is teaching him to cry louder to-morrow.

Prolonged crying from a child who isn’t swaddled or unwell, and who has all their needs met, is simply a matter of habit or stubbornness. Those tears are no longer natural, but a product of the child's caregiver, who couldn’t say no to the child’s demands and has only encouraged it, not realizing that while she calms the child today, she’s teaching him to cry even louder tomorrow.

Moreover, when caprice or obstinacy is the cause of their tears, there is a sure way of stopping them by distracting their attention by some pleasant or conspicuous object which makes them forget that they want to cry. Most nurses excel in this art, and rightly used it is very useful; but it is of the utmost importance that the child should not perceive that you mean to distract his attention, and that he should be amused without suspecting you are thinking about him; now this is what most nurses cannot do.

Moreover, when moodiness or stubbornness causes their tears, there's a reliable way to stop them by distracting their attention with something pleasant or eye-catching that makes them forget they want to cry. Most nurses are great at this, and when used correctly, it's very effective; however, it's crucial that the child doesn't realize you're trying to distract them, and that they find joy without sensing your focus is on them; unfortunately, this is something most nurses struggle with.

Most children are weaned too soon. The time to wean them is when they cut their teeth. This generally causes pain and suffering. At this time the child instinctively carries everything he gets hold of to his mouth to chew it. To help forward this process he is given as a plaything some hard object such as ivory or a wolf’s tooth. I think this is a mistake. Hard bodies applied to the gums do not soften them; far from it, they make the process of cutting the teeth more difficult and painful. Let us always take instinct as our guide; we never see puppies practising their budding teeth on pebbles, iron, or bones, but on wood, leather, rags, soft materials which yield to their jaws, and on which the tooth leaves its mark.

Most kids are weaned too early. The right time to wean them is when they start getting their teeth. This usually brings pain and discomfort. During this time, the child naturally wants to put everything they can grab into their mouth to chew on. To support this, they are often given some hard object like ivory or a wolf’s tooth as a toy. I believe this is a mistake. Hard objects pressed against the gums don’t soften them; in fact, they make the teething process more difficult and painful. We should always follow instincts; we never see puppies practicing their new teeth on pebbles, metal, or bones, but rather on wood, leather, rags, and other soft materials that yield to their jaws and which leave a mark from their teeth.

We can do nothing simply, not even for our children. Toys of silver, gold, coral, cut crystal, rattles of every price and kind; what vain and useless appliances. Away with them all! Let us have no corals or rattles; a small branch of a tree with its leaves and fruit, a stick of liquorice which he may suck and chew, will amuse him as well as these splendid trifles, and they will have this advantage at least, he will not be brought up to luxury from his birth.

We can’t do anything simply, not even for our kids. Fancy toys made of silver, gold, coral, and cut crystal, and rattles of all sorts; what pointless and useless stuff. Let’s get rid of all that! We don’t need corals or rattles; a small branch from a tree with its leaves and fruit, or a stick of licorice he can suck and chew, will entertain him just as much as those fancy toys, and at least this way, he won’t grow up spoiled from the start.

It is admitted that pap is not a very wholesome food. Boiled milk and uncooked flour cause gravel and do not suit the stomach. In pap the flour is less thoroughly cooked than in bread and it has not fermented. I think bread and milk or rice-cream are better. If you will have pap, the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand. In my own country they make a very pleasant and wholesome soup from flour thus heated. Meat-broth or soup is not a very suitable food and should be used as little as possible. The child must first get used to chewing his food; this is the right way to bring the teeth through, and when the child begins to swallow, the saliva mixed with the food helps digestion.

It’s acknowledged that porridge isn’t the healthiest food. Boiled milk and raw flour can lead to kidney stones and aren’t easy on the stomach. In porridge, the flour isn’t cooked as thoroughly as it is in bread, and it hasn’t fermented. I believe that bread and milk or rice pudding are better options. If you choose to have porridge, the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand. In my country, they make a very nice and nutritious soup from pre-heated flour. Meat broth or soup is not an ideal food and should be used sparingly. A child needs to learn to chew their food first; this is the best way to promote healthy tooth development, and when the child starts to swallow, the saliva mixed with the food aids digestion.

I would have them first chew dried fruit or crusts. I should give them as playthings little bits of dry bread or biscuits, like the Piedmont bread, known in the country as “grisses.” By dint of softening this bread in the mouth some of it is eventually swallowed the teeth come through of themselves, and the child is weaned almost imperceptibly. Peasants have usually very good digestions, and they are weaned with no more ado.

I would have them first chew on dried fruit or crusts. I should give them little pieces of dry bread or biscuits, like the Piedmont bread, known in the country as “grisses,” as toys. By softening this bread in their mouths, some of it eventually gets swallowed, and the teeth come in on their own, so the child is weaned almost without noticing. Peasants usually have very good digestion, and they wean their children without much fuss.

From the very first children hear spoken language; we speak to them before they can understand or even imitate spoken sounds. The vocal organs are still stiff, and only gradually lend themselves to the reproduction of the sounds heard; it is even doubtful whether these sounds are heard distinctly as we hear them. The nurse may amuse the child with songs and with very merry and varied intonation, but I object to her bewildering the child with a multitude of vain words of which it understands nothing but her tone of voice. I would have the first words he hears few in number, distinctly and often repeated, while the words themselves should be related to things which can first be shown to the child. That fatal facility in the use of words we do not understand begins earlier than we think. In the schoolroom the scholar listens to the verbiage of his master as he listened in the cradle to the babble of his nurse. I think it would be a very useful education to leave him in ignorance of both.

From the moment children first hear spoken language, we talk to them before they can fully understand or even mimic the sounds. Their vocal cords are still stiff, and they only gradually learn to make the sounds they hear; it's even uncertain if they hear these sounds as clearly as we do. The caregiver might entertain the child with songs and playful intonations, but I don't believe in confusing the child with a flood of meaningless words where they only understand the tone. I prefer the first words they hear to be few in number, clear, and often repeated, with those words connected to things that can be shown to the child. That worrying ease with using words we don't grasp starts earlier than we realize. In the classroom, a student listens to their teacher's chatter just as they did to their caregiver's babble in infancy. I think it would be greatly beneficial for them to remain unaware of both.

All sorts of ideas crowd in upon us when we try to consider the development of speech and the child’s first words. Whatever we do they all learn to talk in the same way, and all philosophical speculations are utterly useless.

All kinds of ideas come to mind when we think about how speech develops and a child's first words. No matter what we do, they all learn to talk in the same way, and any philosophical musings are completely pointless.

To begin with, they have, so to say, a grammar of their own, whose rules and syntax are more general than our own; if you attend carefully you will be surprised to find how exactly they follow certain analogies, very much mistaken if you like, but very regular; these forms are only objectionable because of their harshness or because they are not recognised by custom. I have just heard a child severely scolded by his father for saying, “Mon pere, irai-je-t-y?” Now we see that this child was following the analogy more closely than our grammarians, for as they say to him, “Vas-y,” why should he not say, “Irai-je-t-y?” Notice too the skilful way in which he avoids the hiatus in irai-je-y or y-irai-je? Is it the poor child’s fault that we have so unskilfully deprived the phrase of this determinative adverb “y,” because we did not know what to do with it? It is an intolerable piece of pedantry and most superfluous attention to detail to make a point of correcting all children’s little sins against the customary expression, for they always cure themselves with time. Always speak correctly before them, let them never be so happy with any one as with you, and be sure that their speech will be imperceptibly modelled upon yours without any correction on your part.

To start, they have their own kind of grammar, with rules and syntax that are broader than ours; if you pay close attention, you’ll be surprised to see how closely they follow certain patterns, which might seem wrong to you but are actually quite regular. These forms are only seen as problematic because they sound harsh or aren’t accepted by tradition. I just heard a father harshly criticize his child for saying, “Mon père, irai-je-t-y?” But it turns out that the child was actually following the analogy more closely than our grammar rules suggest, because if they say to him, “Vas-y,” then why can’t he say, “Irai-je-t-y?” Notice how skillfully he avoids the awkwardness in irai-je-y or y-irai-je? Is it the child’s fault that we clumsily took out the adverb “y,” just because we didn’t know how to handle it? It’s ridiculous and overly pedantic to insist on correcting kids for their minor mistakes in speech, since they always fix themselves over time. Just speak correctly in front of them, let them enjoy your company the most, and you can be sure their speech will naturally adapt to yours without you needing to correct them.

But a much greater evil, and one far less easy to guard against, is that they are urged to speak too much, as if people were afraid they would not learn to talk of themselves. This indiscreet zeal produces an effect directly opposite to what is meant. They speak later and more confusedly; the extreme attention paid to everything they say makes it unnecessary for them to speak distinctly, and as they will scarcely open their mouths, many of them contract a vicious pronunciation and a confused speech, which last all their life and make them almost unintelligible.

But a much bigger problem, and one that's harder to defend against, is that they are pushed to talk too much, as if people are afraid they won't learn to express themselves. This overzealous encouragement ends up having the opposite effect. They end up speaking less clearly and more confusedly; the intense focus on everything they say means they don’t feel the need to speak clearly, and since they rarely open their mouths, many of them develop a poor way of speaking and muddled speech, which can last their whole lives and make them nearly impossible to understand.

I have lived much among peasants, and I never knew one of them lisp, man or woman, boy or girl. Why is this? Are their speech organs differently made from our own? No, but they are differently used. There is a hillock facing my window on which the children of the place assemble for their games. Although they are far enough away, I can distinguish perfectly what they say, and often get good notes for this book. Every day my ear deceives me as to their age. I hear the voices of children of ten; I look and see the height and features of children of three or four. This experience is not confined to me; the townspeople who come to see me, and whom I consult on this point, all fall into the same mistake.

I’ve spent a lot of time around peasants, and I’ve never heard any of them speak with a lisp, whether they’re men or women, boys or girls. Why is that? Are their speech organs structured differently than ours? No, it’s just that they use them differently. There's a small hill in front of my window where the local children gather to play. Even though they're quite far away, I can clearly hear what they’re saying, and I often get great notes for this book from them. Every day, I misjudge their ages by their voices. I hear the voices of ten-year-olds; then I look and see the height and features of three or four-year-olds. This isn’t just my experience; the townspeople who visit me and whom I ask about this also make the same mistake.

This results from the fact that, up to five or six, children in town, brought up in a room and under the care of a nursery governess, do not need to speak above a whisper to make themselves heard. As soon as their lips move people take pains to make out what they mean; they are taught words which they repeat inaccurately, and by paying great attention to them the people who are always with them rather guess what they meant to say than what they said.

This happens because, until they’re five or six, kids in town, raised in a room with a nursery governess, don’t need to speak above a whisper to be heard. As soon as they start to talk, people make an effort to understand them; they learn words they often mispronounce, and the adults around them are more likely to guess what they meant rather than understand what they actually said.

It is quite a different matter in the country. A peasant woman is not always with her child; he is obliged to learn to say very clearly and loudly what he wants, if he is to make himself understood. Children scattered about the fields at a distance from their fathers, mothers and other children, gain practice in making themselves heard at a distance, and in adapting the loudness of the voice to the distance which separates them from those to whom they want to speak. This is the real way to learn pronunciation, not by stammering out a few vowels into the ear of an attentive governess. So when you question a peasant child, he may be too shy to answer, but what he says he says distinctly, while the nurse must serve as interpreter for the town child; without her one can understand nothing of what he is muttering between his teeth. [Footnote: There are exceptions to this; and often those children who at first are most difficult to hear, become the noisiest when they begin to raise their voices. But if I were to enter into all these details I should never make an end; every sensible reader ought to see that defect and excess, caused by the same abuse, are both corrected by my method. I regard the two maxims as inseparable—always enough—never too much. When the first is well established, the latter necessarily follows on it.]

It's a whole different situation in the countryside. A peasant woman isn't always with her child; he has to learn to express himself clearly and loudly if he wants to be understood. Kids spread out in the fields, away from their parents and other children, get practice in making their voices heard from a distance and adjusting their volume based on how far away they are from the person they're trying to talk to. This is the real way to learn pronunciation, not by mumbling a few vowels into the ear of an attentive governess. So when you ask a peasant child a question, he might be too shy to respond, but he speaks clearly, while a town child often needs their nurse to interpret; without her, you can't understand a word of what he’s mumbling under his breath. [Footnote: There are exceptions to this; often, the children who are hardest to hear initially become the loudest once they start raising their voices. But if I delve into all these details, I’d never finish; any sensible reader should see that both a lack and an excess, caused by the same issue, are corrected by my method. I consider the two principles inseparable—always enough—never too much. Once the first is well established, the latter naturally follows.]

As they grow older, the boys are supposed to be cured of this fault at college, the girls in the convent schools; and indeed both usually speak more clearly than children brought up entirely at home. But they are prevented from acquiring as clear a pronunciation as the peasants in this way—they are required to learn all sorts of things by heart, and to repeat aloud what they have learnt; for when they are studying they get into the way of gabbling and pronouncing carelessly and ill; it is still worse when they repeat their lessons; they cannot find the right words, they drag out their syllables. This is only possible when the memory hesitates, the tongue does not stammer of itself. Thus they acquire or continue habits of bad pronunciation. Later on you will see that Emile does not acquire such habits or at least not from this cause.

As they get older, boys are expected to overcome this flaw at college, while girls do so in convent schools; and generally, both tend to speak more clearly than children who are raised entirely at home. However, they don't develop as clear a pronunciation as the peasants because they are made to memorize all sorts of things and recite what they've learned out loud; while studying, they fall into the habit of mumbling and pronouncing words carelessly and incorrectly. It gets even worse when they recite their lessons; they struggle to find the right words and drag out their syllables. This happens when their memory falters; the tongue doesn't stutter on its own. As a result, they pick up or maintain habits of poor pronunciation. Later on, you'll see that Emile doesn't develop such habits, or at least not for this reason.

I grant you uneducated people and villagers often fall into the opposite extreme. They almost always speak too loud; their pronunciation is too exact, and leads to rough and coarse articulation; their accent is too pronounced, they choose their expressions badly, etc.

I admit that uneducated people and villagers often go to the other extreme. They usually speak too loudly; their pronunciation is too precise, which results in harsh and rough speech; their accent is very strong, and they don’t choose their words well, etc.

But, to begin with, this extreme strikes me as much less dangerous than the other, for the first law of speech is to make oneself understood, and the chief fault is to fail to be understood. To pride ourselves on having no accent is to pride ourselves on ridding our phrases of strength and elegance. Emphasis is the soul of speech, it gives it its feeling and truth. Emphasis deceives less than words; perhaps that is why well-educated people are so afraid of it. From the custom of saying everything in the same tone has arisen that of poking fun at people without their knowing it. When emphasis is proscribed, its place is taken by all sorts of ridiculous, affected, and ephemeral pronunciations, such as one observes especially among the young people about court. It is this affectation of speech and manner which makes Frenchmen disagreeable and repulsive to other nations on first acquaintance. Emphasis is found, not in their speech, but in their bearing. That is not the way to make themselves attractive.

But, to start with, this extreme seems way less risky than the other because the main rule of speaking is to be understood, and the biggest mistake is not being understood. Taking pride in not having an accent is like taking pride in stripping our words of their strength and elegance. Emphasis is the essence of speech; it gives it emotion and truth. Emphasis misleads less than words do; maybe that's why educated people tend to shy away from it. The habit of speaking in a monotone has led to the practice of mocking people without them realizing it. When emphasis is banned, it's replaced by all sorts of silly, affected, and temporary pronunciations, especially noticeable among the young people at court. It’s this pretentiousness in speech and manner that makes French people off-putting and unpleasant to other nations at first glance. Emphasis isn’t present in their words but in their presence. That’s not how to make themselves appealing.

All these little faults of speech, which you are so afraid the children will acquire, are mere trifles; they may be prevented or corrected with the greatest ease, but the faults which are taught them when you make them speak in a low, indistinct, and timid voice, when you are always criticising their tone and finding fault with their words, are never cured. A man who has only learnt to speak in society of fine ladies could not make himself heard at the head of his troops, and would make little impression on the rabble in a riot. First teach the child to speak to men; he will be able to speak to the women when required.

All these little speech faults that you're so worried the kids will pick up are just minor issues; they can be easily prevented or fixed. But the problems that come from teaching them to speak in a low, unclear, and timid way—always criticizing their tone and nitpicking their words—are never fully resolved. A guy who only knows how to talk in front of classy ladies won’t be able to make himself heard leading his troops or make much impact during a riot. First, teach the child to speak to men; they'll be able to talk to women when necessary.

Brought up in all the rustic simplicity of the country, your children will gain a more sonorous voice; they will not acquire the hesitating stammer of town children, neither will they acquire the expressions nor the tone of the villagers, or if they do they will easily lose them; their master being with them from their earliest years, and more and more in their society the older they grow, will be able to prevent or efface by speaking correctly himself the impression of the peasants’ talk. Emile will speak the purest French I know, but he will speak it more distinctly and with a better articulation than myself.

Raised in the simple life of the countryside, your children will develop a more resonant voice; they won't pick up the hesitant stammer of city kids, nor will they adopt the expressions or tone of the villagers, and if they do, they'll easily shed them. Their teacher, being with them from a young age and spending more time with them as they grow older, will be able to counteract or erase the influence of the peasants' speech by speaking correctly himself. Emile will speak the purest French I know, but he'll articulate it more clearly and with better enunciation than I do.

The child who is trying to speak should hear nothing but words he can understand, nor should he say words he cannot articulate; his efforts lead him to repeat the same syllable as if he were practising its clear pronunciation. When he begins to stammer, do not try to understand him. To expect to be always listened to is a form of tyranny which is not good for the child. See carefully to his real needs, and let him try to make you understand the rest. Still less should you hurry him into speech; he will learn to talk when he feels the want of it.

The child who is trying to communicate should only hear words he can understand, and he shouldn’t say words he can’t pronounce; his attempts lead him to repeat the same sound as if he’s practicing how to say it clearly. When he starts to stutter, don’t try to figure out what he’s saying. Expecting to be listened to all the time is a kind of pressure that isn’t good for the child. Pay close attention to his real needs and let him try to express everything else. Even more importantly, don’t rush him into speaking; he will learn to talk when he feels the need to do so.

It has indeed been remarked that those who begin to speak very late never speak so distinctly as others; but it is not because they talked late that they are hesitating; on the contrary, they began to talk late because they hesitate; if not, why did they begin to talk so late? Have they less need of speech, have they been less urged to it? On the contrary, the anxiety aroused with the first suspicion of this backwardness leads people to tease them much more to begin to talk than those who articulated earlier; and this mistaken zeal may do much to make their speech confused, when with less haste they might have had time to bring it to greater perfection.

It’s been observed that people who start talking very late never speak as clearly as others; but it’s not that they hesitate because they started talking late. On the contrary, they began to speak late because they hesitate; otherwise, why would they have started so late? Do they need speech less, or have they been pushed less to speak? On the flip side, the anxiety that comes with the first hint of this delay often leads others to pressure them more to start talking than those who spoke earlier. This misplaced eagerness can contribute to their speech being unclear, when with a bit more time, they could have refined it better.

Children who are forced to speak too soon have no time to learn either to pronounce correctly or to understand what they are made to say; while left to themselves they first practise the easiest syllables, and then, adding to them little by little some meaning which their gestures explain, they teach you their own words before they learn yours. By this means they do not acquire your words till they have understood them. Being in no hurry to use them, they begin by carefully observing the sense in which you use them, and when they are sure of them they adopt them.

Children who are pushed to talk too early don’t get the chance to learn how to pronounce words correctly or to grasp what they’re being asked to say. When left to their own devices, they start by practicing simple syllables and gradually add meaning that their gestures convey, teaching you their own words before they learn yours. This way, they don’t pick up your words until they really understand them. Since they’re not rushed to use them, they begin by closely watching how you use them, and once they feel confident, they incorporate them into their speech.

The worst evil resulting from the precocious use of speech by young children is that we not only fail to understand the first words they use, we misunderstand them without knowing it; so that while they seem to answer us correctly, they fail to understand us and we them. This is the most frequent cause of our surprise at children’s sayings; we attribute to them ideas which they did not attach to their words. This lack of attention on our part to the real meaning which words have for children seems to me the cause of their earliest misconceptions; and these misconceptions, even when corrected, colour their whole course of thought for the rest of their life. I shall have several opportunities of illustrating these by examples later on.

The biggest issue that comes from young children speaking too early is that we not only don’t understand their first words, but we also misinterpret them without realizing it. So, while they seem to respond correctly, they don’t really grasp what we mean, and we don’t get what they mean either. This is often why we’re surprised by what children say; we assume they have ideas connected to their words that they don’t. This lack of attention to what those words actually mean to children seems to lead to their early misunderstandings, and even when we correct these misunderstandings, they still impact their thinking for the rest of their lives. I’ll have several chances to illustrate this with examples later on.

Let the child’s vocabulary, therefore, be limited; it is very undesirable that he should have more words than ideas, that he should be able to say more than he thinks. One of the reasons why peasants are generally shrewder than townsfolk is, I think, that their vocabulary is smaller. They have few ideas, but those few are thoroughly grasped.

Let the child’s vocabulary be limited; it's not ideal for them to have more words than ideas, or to say more than they really think. One reason why country folks are usually sharper than city people is, I believe, that they have a smaller vocabulary. They may have fewer ideas, but they truly understand those few.

The infant is progressing in several ways at once; he is learning to talk, eat, and walk about the same time. This is really the first phase of his life. Up till now, he was little more than he was before birth; he had neither feeling nor thought, he was barely capable of sensation; he was unconscious of his own existence.

The baby is developing in multiple ways at the same time; he is learning to talk, eat, and walk all at once. This is truly the first stage of his life. Until now, he was barely more than he was before birth; he had no feelings or thoughts, was hardly capable of sensation, and was unaware of his own existence.

“Vivit, et est vitae nescius ipse suae.”—Ovid.

“Living, and he is unaware of his own life.”—Ovid.










BOOK II

We have now reached the second phase of life; infancy, strictly so-called, is over; for the words infans and puer are not synonymous. The latter includes the former, which means literally “one who cannot speak;” thus Valerius speaks of puerum infantem. But I shall continue to use the word child (French enfant) according to the custom of our language till an age for which there is another term.

We have now entered the second stage of life; infancy, as we typically define it, is behind us; the terms infans and puer aren’t the same. The latter encompasses the former, which literally means “one who cannot speak;” thus Valerius refers to puerum infantem. However, I’ll keep using the word child (French enfant) as per the convention of our language until we reach an age that has a different term.

When children begin to talk they cry less. This progress is quite natural; one language supplants another. As soon as they can say “It hurts me,” why should they cry, unless the pain is too sharp for words? If they still cry, those about them are to blame. When once Emile has said, “It hurts me,” it will take a very sharp pain to make him cry.

When kids start to talk, they cry less. This is a normal development; one way of expressing themselves replaces another. As soon as they can say “It hurts,” why would they cry, unless the pain is too intense for words? If they still cry, the people around them are at fault. Once Emile has said, “It hurts,” only a really strong pain will make him cry.

If the child is delicate and sensitive, if by nature he begins to cry for nothing, I let him cry in vain and soon check his tears at their source. So long as he cries I will not go near him; I come at once when he leaves off crying. He will soon be quiet when he wants to call me, or rather he will utter a single cry. Children learn the meaning of signs by their effects; they have no other meaning for them. However much a child hurts himself when he is alone, he rarely cries, unless he expects to be heard.

If a child is fragile and sensitive, and starts to cry for no reason, I let him cry without comfort until he stops on his own. As long as he’s crying, I won't approach him; I will come right away when he stops. He’ll quiet down quickly when he wants to get my attention, or he’ll just make a single sound. Kids learn what things mean based on the results; that’s the only way they understand. No matter how much a child may hurt himself when he’s by himself, he rarely cries unless he thinks someone will hear him.

Should he fall or bump his head, or make his nose bleed, or cut his fingers, I shall show no alarm, nor shall I make any fuss over him; I shall take no notice, at any rate at first. The harm is done; he must bear it; all my zeal could only frighten him more and make him more nervous. Indeed it is not the blow but the fear of it which distresses us when we are hurt. I shall spare him this suffering at least, for he will certainly regard the injury as he sees me regard it; if he finds that I hasten anxiously to him, if I pity him or comfort him, he will think he is badly hurt. If he finds I take no notice, he will soon recover himself, and will think the wound is healed when it ceases to hurt. This is the time for his first lesson in courage, and by bearing slight ills without fear we gradually learn to bear greater.

If he falls or bumps his head, makes his nose bleed, or cuts his fingers, I won’t show any alarm or make a fuss over him; I won’t acknowledge it, at least at first. The harm is done; he has to deal with it; my urgency would only scare him more and make him more anxious. It's actually not the injury that bothers us, but the fear of it when we're hurt. I’ll spare him that suffering, at least, because he will definitely perceive the injury the way he sees me react to it; if he sees me rush to him anxiously, if I express pity or comfort him, he will think he’s really hurt. If he sees that I’m not concerned, he will quickly calm down and believe the wound is healed once it stops hurting. This is the moment for his first lesson in courage, and by enduring small hurts without fear, we gradually learn to handle bigger ones.

I shall not take pains to prevent Emile hurting himself; far from it, I should be vexed if he never hurt himself, if he grew up unacquainted with pain. To bear pain is his first and most useful lesson. It seems as if children were small and weak on purpose to teach them these valuable lessons without danger. The child has such a little way to fall he will not break his leg; if he knocks himself with a stick he will not break his arm; if he seizes a sharp knife he will not grasp it tight enough to make a deep wound. So far as I know, no child, left to himself, has ever been known to kill or maim itself, or even to do itself any serious harm, unless it has been foolishly left on a high place, or alone near the fire, or within reach of dangerous weapons. What is there to be said for all the paraphernalia with which the child is surrounded to shield him on every side so that he grows up at the mercy of pain, with neither courage nor experience, so that he thinks he is killed by a pin-prick and faints at the sight of blood?

I won’t go out of my way to stop Emile from getting hurt; in fact, I’d be annoyed if he never experienced any pain, if he grew up not knowing what it feels like. Learning to deal with pain is his first and most valuable lesson. It seems like children are small and weak on purpose so they can learn these important lessons without serious danger. The child has such a short fall that he won’t break his leg; if he hits himself with a stick, he won’t break his arm; if he grabs a sharp knife, he won't hold it tightly enough to cause a deep cut. As far as I know, no child, when left alone, has ever seriously harmed themselves unless they were foolishly put somewhere high, left alone near a fire, or within reach of dangerous objects. What’s the point of all the protective gear that surrounds the child, making them so dependent on not feeling pain, lacking both courage and experience, so that they think they’re dying from a tiny scratch and faint at the sight of blood?

With our foolish and pedantic methods we are always preventing children from learning what they could learn much better by themselves, while we neglect what we alone can teach them. Can anything be sillier than the pains taken to teach them to walk, as if there were any one who was unable to walk when he grows up through his nurse’s neglect? How many we see walking badly all their life because they were ill taught?

With our silly and overly complicated methods, we constantly stop kids from learning things they could figure out on their own, while we ignore what only we can teach them. Is there anything more ridiculous than the effort we put into teaching them to walk, as if anyone could really grow up unable to walk due to their caregiver's lack of attention? How many do we see struggling to walk properly all their lives because they were taught poorly?

Emile shall have no head-pads, no go-carts, no leading-strings; or at least as soon as he can put one foot before another he shall only be supported along pavements, and he shall be taken quickly across them. [Footnote: There is nothing so absurd and hesitating as the gait of those who have been kept too long in leading-strings when they were little. This is one of the observations which are considered trivial because they are true.] Instead of keeping him mewed up in a stuffy room, take him out into a meadow every day; let him run about, let him struggle and fall again and again, the oftener the better; he will learn all the sooner to pick himself up. The delights of liberty will make up for many bruises. My pupil will hurt himself oftener than yours, but he will always be merry; your pupils may receive fewer injuries, but they are always thwarted, constrained, and sad. I doubt whether they are any better off.

Emile won’t have any head-pads, no go-carts, and no leading strings; as soon as he can walk, he will only be supported on sidewalks, and he will be taken quickly across them. [Footnote: There’s nothing more ridiculous and hesitant than the walk of those who were kept too long in leading strings when they were young. This is one of those observations that seem trivial because they’re true.] Instead of keeping him cooped up in a stuffy room, take him out to a meadow every day; let him run around, let him struggle and fall over and over; the more, the better—he’ll learn to pick himself up faster. The joys of freedom will make up for many bruises. My student will hurt himself more often than yours, but he’ll always be cheerful; your students might get hurt less, but they’re always frustrated, constrained, and unhappy. I wonder if they’re really better off.

As their strength increases, children have also less need for tears. They can do more for themselves, they need the help of others less frequently. With strength comes the sense to use it. It is with this second phase that the real personal life has its beginning; it is then that the child becomes conscious of himself. During every moment of his life memory calls up the feeling of self; he becomes really one person, always the same, and therefore capable of joy or sorrow. Hence we must begin to consider him as a moral being.

As children grow stronger, they need tears less often. They can do more for themselves and rely on others less frequently. With strength comes the wisdom to use it. It's in this next phase that real personal development begins; that's when the child becomes aware of themselves. Every moment of their life brings back the awareness of self; they become a single person, always the same, and therefore capable of joy or sadness. So, we must start to see them as moral beings.

Although we know approximately the limits of human life and our chances of attaining those limits, nothing is more uncertain than the length of the life of any one of us. Very few reach old age. The chief risks occur at the beginning of life; the shorter our past life, the less we must hope to live. Of all the children who are born scarcely one half reach adolescence, and it is very likely your pupil will not live to be a man.

Although we have a general idea of how long humans can live and our odds of reaching that age, nothing is as unpredictable as how long any individual will actually live. Very few people make it to old age. The biggest risks happen early in life; the less time someone has already lived, the less we can expect them to live in the future. Out of all the children born, barely half make it to their teenage years, and it's very likely that your student won't reach adulthood.

What is to be thought, therefore, of that cruel education which sacrifices the present to an uncertain future, that burdens a child with all sorts of restrictions and begins by making him miserable, in order to prepare him for some far-off happiness which he may never enjoy? Even if I considered that education wise in its aims, how could I view without indignation those poor wretches subjected to an intolerable slavery and condemned like galley-slaves to endless toil, with no certainty that they will gain anything by it? The age of harmless mirth is spent in tears, punishments, threats, and slavery. You torment the poor thing for his good; you fail to see that you are calling Death to snatch him from these gloomy surroundings. Who can say how many children fall victims to the excessive care of their fathers and mothers? They are happy to escape from this cruelty; this is all that they gain from the ills they are forced to endure: they die without regretting, having known nothing of life but its sorrows.

What should we think about that harsh education that sacrifices the present for an uncertain future, shackling a child with all kinds of restrictions and starting by making him miserable, all to prepare him for some distant happiness he may never experience? Even if I considered that education to have wise goals, how can I not feel anger at those poor souls trapped in unbearable conditions, forced like galley slaves into endless labor, with no guarantee of any reward? The time for innocent joy is lost in tears, punishments, threats, and servitude. You torture the poor child for his own good; you fail to see that you're inviting Death to take him away from this gloomy reality. Who can say how many children become victims of their parents' excessive care? They are relieved to escape this cruelty; that is all they gain from the suffering they are made to endure: they die without regrets, having known only the sorrows of life.

Men, be kind to your fellow-men; this is your first duty, kind to every age and station, kind to all that is not foreign to humanity. What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness? Love childhood, indulge its sports, its pleasures, its delightful instincts. Who has not sometimes regretted that age when laughter was ever on the lips, and when the heart was ever at peace? Why rob these innocents of the joys which pass so quickly, of that precious gift which they cannot abuse? Why fill with bitterness the fleeting days of early childhood, days which will no more return for them than for you? Fathers, can you tell when death will call your children to him? Do not lay up sorrow for yourselves by robbing them of the short span which nature has allotted to them. As soon as they are aware of the joy of life, let them rejoice in it, go that whenever God calls them they may not die without having tasted the joy of life.

Men, be kind to your fellow men; this is your primary responsibility, kind to people of every age and background, kind to everything that is part of humanity. What greater wisdom is there than kindness? Cherish childhood, enjoy its games, its joys, its wonderful instincts. Who hasn’t sometimes wished to go back to that time when laughter was always present, and the heart was always at peace? Why take away these innocent ones' joys that pass so quickly, that precious gift they cannot misuse? Why fill the fleeting days of early childhood with bitterness, days that will not return for them just as they won't for you? Fathers, can you predict when death will come for your children? Don’t create sorrow for yourselves by denying them the short time nature has given them. As soon as they recognize the joy of life, let them relish it, so that whenever God calls them, they will not leave without having experienced the joy of life.

How people will cry out against me! I hear from afar the shouts of that false wisdom which is ever dragging us onwards, counting the present as nothing, and pursuing without a pause a future which flies as we pursue, that false wisdom which removes us from our place and never brings us to any other.

How people will scream against me! I can hear from a distance the cries of that fake wisdom that always pushes us forward, treating the present as insignificant, and chasing a future that slips away as we go after it. This fake wisdom takes us away from where we are and never leads us to anywhere better.

Now is the time, you say, to correct his evil tendencies; we must increase suffering in childhood, when it is less keenly felt, to lessen it in manhood. But how do you know that you can carry out all these fine schemes; how do you know that all this fine teaching with which you overwhelm the feeble mind of the child will not do him more harm than good in the future? How do you know that you can spare him anything by the vexations you heap upon him now? Why inflict on him more ills than befit his present condition unless you are quite sure that these present ills will save him future ill? And what proof can you give me that those evil tendencies you profess to cure are not the result of your foolish precautions rather than of nature? What a poor sort of foresight, to make a child wretched in the present with the more or less doubtful hope of making him happy at some future day. If such blundering thinkers fail to distinguish between liberty and licence, between a merry child and a spoilt darling, let them learn to discriminate.

Now is the time, you say, to fix his bad habits; we should increase suffering in childhood, when it's felt less intensely, to reduce it in adulthood. But how can you be sure that you can execute all these great plans? How do you know that all this impressive teaching you bombard the child's fragile mind with won’t cause more harm than good later on? How can you be certain that the troubles you pile on him now will save him from even worse ones in the future? Why inflict more pain than appropriate for his current situation unless you're completely sure that these current pains will prevent future suffering? And what proof do you have that the bad tendencies you claim to fix aren’t actually a result of your misguided precautions instead of being part of his nature? It's poor foresight to make a child miserable now with the uncertain hope of making him happy someday. If such careless thinkers can't tell the difference between freedom and chaos, or between a joyful child and a spoiled brat, they need to learn to recognize the difference.

Let us not forget what befits our present state in the pursuit of vain fancies. Mankind has its place in the sequence of things; childhood has its place in the sequence of human life; the man must be treated as a man and the child as a child. Give each his place, and keep him there. Control human passions according to man’s nature; that is all we can do for his welfare. The rest depends on external forces, which are beyond our control.

Let's not forget what suits our current situation in the chase of pointless dreams. Humanity has its role in the grand scheme of things; childhood has its role in the course of life; we must treat an adult as an adult and a child as a child. Give each their place and keep them there. Manage human emotions in line with human nature; that’s all we can do for someone's well-being. The rest depends on external forces that are beyond our control.

Absolute good and evil are unknown to us. In this life they are blended together; we never enjoy any perfectly pure feeling, nor do we remain for more than a moment in the same state. The feelings of our minds, like the changes in our bodies, are in a continual flux. Good and ill are common to all, but in varying proportions. The happiest is he who suffers least; the most miserable is he who enjoys least. Ever more sorrow than joy—this is the lot of all of us. Man’s happiness in this world is but a negative state; it must be reckoned by the fewness of his ills.

Absolute good and evil are unknown to us. In this life, they are mixed together; we never experience any completely pure feeling, nor do we stay in the same emotional state for more than a moment. Our feelings, like our physical changes, are constantly in flux. Good and bad are common to everyone, but in different amounts. The happiest person is the one who suffers the least; the most miserable is the one who enjoys the least. There is always more sorrow than joy—this is the reality for all of us. A person's happiness in this world is merely a negative state; it should be measured by how few troubles they have.

Every feeling of hardship is inseparable from the desire to escape from it; every idea of pleasure from the desire to enjoy it. All desire implies a want, and all wants are painful; hence our wretchedness consists in the disproportion between our desires and our powers. A conscious being whose powers were equal to his desires would be perfectly happy.

Every feeling of hardship comes with the desire to get away from it; every idea of pleasure is tied to the desire to experience it. All desire suggests a lack, and all lacks are uncomfortable; therefore, our misery arises from the gap between our desires and our abilities. A conscious being whose abilities matched their desires would be completely happy.

What then is human wisdom? Where is the path of true happiness? The mere limitation of our desires is not enough, for if they were less than our powers, part of our faculties would be idle, and we should not enjoy our whole being; neither is the mere extension of our powers enough, for if our desires were also increased we should only be the more miserable. True happiness consists in decreasing the difference between our desires and our powers, in establishing a perfect equilibrium between the power and the will. Then only, when all its forces are employed, will the soul be at rest and man will find himself in his true position.

What is human wisdom? Where can we find true happiness? Simply limiting our desires isn’t enough, because if they’re less than our abilities, some of our capacities will go to waste, and we won’t fully enjoy our existence. Likewise, just expanding our abilities isn’t sufficient; if our desires also grow, we'll only become more miserable. True happiness comes from reducing the gap between our desires and our abilities, achieving a perfect balance between power and will. Only then, when all our strengths are engaged, will our souls find peace, and we will be in our rightful place.

In this condition, nature, who does everything for the best, has placed him from the first. To begin with, she gives him only such desires as are necessary for self-preservation and such powers as are sufficient for their satisfaction. All the rest she has stored in his mind as a sort of reserve, to be drawn upon at need. It is only in this primitive condition that we find the equilibrium between desire and power, and then alone man is not unhappy. As soon as his potential powers of mind begin to function, imagination, more powerful than all the rest, awakes, and precedes all the rest. It is imagination which enlarges the bounds of possibility for us, whether for good or ill, and therefore stimulates and feeds desires by the hope of satisfying them. But the object which seemed within our grasp flies quicker than we can follow; when we think we have grasped it, it transforms itself and is again far ahead of us. We no longer perceive the country we have traversed, and we think nothing of it; that which lies before us becomes vaster and stretches still before us. Thus we exhaust our strength, yet never reach our goal, and the nearer we are to pleasure, the further we are from happiness.

In this state, nature, who always acts in our best interest, has positioned him well from the start. First, she gives him only the desires necessary for survival and the means to fulfill them. Everything else is kept in his mind as a kind of reserve to be used when needed. It’s only in this basic state that we find a balance between desire and ability, and only then is a person not unhappy. Once his mental abilities start to develop, imagination, which is stronger than everything else, awakens and takes the lead. Imagination expands our sense of what’s possible, for better or worse, and feeds our desires with the hope of fulfilling them. But the object that seemed within our reach slips away faster than we can chase it; just when we think we’ve caught it, it shifts and stays far ahead of us. We stop noticing the ground we’ve covered and pay it no mind; what lies ahead seems larger and continues to stretch out before us. In this way, we drain our energy but never reach our destination, and the closer we get to pleasure, the further we find ourselves from happiness.

On the other hand, the more nearly a man’s condition approximates to this state of nature the less difference is there between his desires and his powers, and happiness is therefore less remote. Lacking everything, he is never less miserable; for misery consists, not in the lack of things, but in the needs which they inspire.

On the other hand, the closer a person’s situation is to this natural state, the less difference there is between what they want and what they can actually do, making happiness feel more attainable. Even with nothing at all, he is never less unhappy; because misery doesn’t come from lacking things, but from the needs those things create.

The world of reality has its bounds, the world of imagination is boundless; as we cannot enlarge the one, let us restrict the other; for all the sufferings which really make us miserable arise from the difference between the real and the imaginary. Health, strength, and a good conscience excepted, all the good things of life are a matter of opinion; except bodily suffering and remorse, all our woes are imaginary. You will tell me this is a commonplace; I admit it, but its practical application is no commonplace, and it is with practice only that we are now concerned.

The real world has its limits, while the world of imagination is endless; since we can’t expand the former, let’s limit the latter; because all the pain that truly makes us unhappy comes from the gap between reality and imagination. Aside from health, strength, and a clear conscience, all the good things in life are subjective; except for physical pain and guilt, all our troubles are in our heads. You might say this is something everyone knows; I agree, but actually putting it into practice is no small feat, and that’s what we need to focus on now.

What do you mean when you say, “Man is weak”? The term weak implies a relation, a relation of the creature to whom it is applied. An insect or a worm whose strength exceeds its needs is strong; an elephant, a lion, a conqueror, a hero, a god himself, whose needs exceed his strength is weak. The rebellious angel who fought against his own nature was weaker than the happy mortal who is living at peace according to nature. When man is content to be himself he is strong indeed; when he strives to be more than man he is weak indeed. But do not imagine that you can increase your strength by increasing your powers. Not so; if your pride increases more rapidly your strength is diminished. Let us measure the extent of our sphere and remain in its centre like the spider in its web; we shall have strength sufficient for our needs, we shall have no cause to lament our weakness, for we shall never be aware of it.

What do you mean when you say, “Man is weak”? The term weak refers to a relationship, a connection between the creature it describes and its context. An insect or a worm that has strength beyond what it needs is strong; an elephant, a lion, a conqueror, a hero, or even a god whose needs surpass their strength is weak. The rebellious angel who fought against his own nature was weaker than the happy person living in harmony with nature. When a person is content to be themselves, they are indeed strong; when they try to be more than human, they are truly weak. But don’t think that you can boost your strength by simply increasing your abilities. That’s not how it works; if your pride grows faster, your strength actually diminishes. Let's recognize the limits of our abilities and stay centered within them, like a spider in its web; we will have enough strength for what we need, and we won't have to lament our weaknesses, because we won’t even notice them.

The other animals possess only such powers as are required for self-preservation; man alone has more. Is it not very strange that this superfluity should make him miserable? In every land a man’s labour yields more than a bare living. If he were wise enough to disregard this surplus he would always have enough, for he would never have too much. “Great needs,” said Favorin, “spring from great wealth; and often the best way of getting what we want is to get rid of what we have.” By striving to increase our happiness we change it into wretchedness. If a man were content to live, he would live happy; and he would therefore be good, for what would he have to gain by vice?

The other animals have only the abilities they need to survive; only humans have more. Isn't it strange that this excess makes him unhappy? In every place, a person's work earns more than just enough to get by. If he were smart enough to ignore this extra, he would always have enough because he wouldn’t have too much. “Big wants,” said Favorin, “come from big wealth; and often the best way to get what we want is to let go of what we have.” By trying to boost our happiness, we often turn it into misery. If a person were satisfied with just living, he would be happy; and because of that, he would be good, since what would he gain from wrongdoing?

If we were immortal we should all be miserable; no doubt it is hard to die, but it is sweet to think that we shall not live for ever, and that a better life will put an end to the sorrows of this world. If we had the offer of immortality here below, who would accept the sorrowful gift? [Footnote: You understand I am speaking of those who think, and not of the crowd.] What resources, what hopes, what consolation would be left against the cruelties of fate and man’s injustice? The ignorant man never looks before; he knows little of the value of life and does not fear to lose it; the wise man sees things of greater worth and prefers them to it. Half knowledge and sham wisdom set us thinking about death and what lies beyond it; and they thus create the worst of our ills. The wise man bears life’s ills all the better because he knows he must die. Life would be too dearly bought did we not know that sooner or later death will end it.

If we were immortal, we would all be miserable; it’s definitely hard to die, but it’s comforting to think that we won’t live forever and that a better life will put an end to the troubles of this world. If we were offered immortality here on earth, who would actually take that sorrowful gift? [Footnote: You understand I'm talking about those who think, not the masses.] What resources, hopes, or comfort would remain against the harshness of fate and humanity's injustice? The ignorant person never looks ahead; they know little about the value of life and aren't afraid to lose it; the wise person sees what's truly important and values it more. A little knowledge and false wisdom get us thinking about death and what comes after, which creates the worst of our problems. The wise person handles life's difficulties better because they know they must die. Life would be too precious if we didn't know that eventually, death will come to end it.

Our moral ills are the result of prejudice, crime alone excepted, and that depends on ourselves; our bodily ills either put an end to themselves or to us. Time or death will cure them, but the less we know how to bear it, the greater is our pain, and we suffer more in our efforts to cure our diseases than if we endured them. Live according to nature; be patient, get rid of the doctors; you will not escape death, but you will only die once, while the doctors make you die daily through your diseased imagination; their lying art, instead of prolonging your days, robs you of all delight in them. I am always asking what real good this art has done to mankind. True, the doctors cure some who would have died, but they kill millions who would have lived. If you are wise you will decline to take part in this lottery when the odds are so great against you. Suffer, die, or get better; but whatever you do, live while you are alive.

Our moral issues come from prejudice, except for crime, which is entirely on us; our physical ailments either resolve themselves or take us down with them. Time or death will ultimately heal them, but the less we know how to handle them, the more we suffer, and we endure more pain trying to fix our illnesses than if we just accepted them. Live naturally; be patient, and ignore doctors; you won’t avoid death, but you’ll only die once, while doctors make you feel like you’re dying every day with their anxious treatments. Their deceptive practices, instead of extending your life, rob you of joy in it. I constantly wonder what real benefit this practice has brought to humanity. Sure, doctors save some who would have died, but they also cause the deaths of millions who could have lived. If you’re smart, you’ll choose not to partake in this gamble when the odds are so stacked against you. Suffer, die, or get better; just remember, whatever you do, live while you can.

Human institutions are one mass of folly and contradiction. As our life loses its value we set a higher price upon it. The old regret life more than the young; they do not want to lose all they have spent in preparing for its enjoyment. At sixty it is cruel to die when one has not begun to live. Man is credited with a strong desire for self-preservation, and this desire exists; but we fail to perceive that this desire, as felt by us, is largely the work of man. In a natural state man is only eager to preserve his life while he has the means for its preservation; when self-preservation is no longer possible, he resigns himself to his fate and dies without vain torments. Nature teaches us the first law of resignation. Savages, like wild beasts, make very little struggle against death, and meet it almost without a murmur. When this natural law is overthrown reason establishes another, but few discern it, and man’s resignation is never so complete as nature’s.

Human institutions are a mix of foolishness and contradictions. As life loses its meaning, we place a higher value on it. Older people regret life more than the young; they don’t want to lose everything they’ve invested in enjoying it. At sixty, it’s cruel to die when one hasn’t even started to truly live. People are thought to have a strong instinct for self-preservation, and that instinct is real; however, we often overlook that this desire is largely shaped by society. In a natural state, a person is only eager to protect their life as long as they have the means to do so; when self-preservation is no longer an option, they accept their fate and die without unnecessary suffering. Nature teaches us the fundamental law of acceptance. Primitive people, like wild animals, hardly resist death and face it almost silently. When this natural law is disrupted, reason creates a new one, but few recognize it, and human acceptance is never as complete as nature's.

Prudence! Prudence which is ever bidding us look forward into the future, a future which in many cases we shall never reach; here is the real source of all our troubles! How mad it is for so short-lived a creature as man to look forward into a future to which he rarely attains, while he neglects the present which is his? This madness is all the more fatal since it increases with years, and the old, always timid, prudent, and miserly, prefer to do without necessaries to-day that they may have luxuries at a hundred. Thus we grasp everything, we cling to everything; we are anxious about time, place, people, things, all that is and will be; we ourselves are but the least part of ourselves. We spread ourselves, so to speak, over the whole world, and all this vast expanse becomes sensitive. No wonder our woes increase when we may be wounded on every side. How many princes make themselves miserable for the loss of lands they never saw, and how many merchants lament in Paris over some misfortune in the Indies!

Be cautious! Caution that constantly urges us to look ahead to the future, a future that in many cases we will never reach; that is the real source of all our problems! How foolish it is for such a short-lived being as a human to focus on a future that we rarely achieve, while ignoring the present that belongs to us? This madness becomes even more dangerous as we age, and the elderly, always fearful, careful, and stingy, choose to do without necessities today so they can have luxuries later. We grasp at everything, we cling to everything; we worry about time, places, people, things, everything that is and will be; we ourselves are just a small part of who we are. We spread ourselves, so to speak, all over the world, and this vast expanse becomes vulnerable. It's no surprise our troubles multiply when we can be hurt from every direction. How many princes make themselves miserable over the loss of lands they’ve never seen, and how many merchants mourn in Paris over a misfortune in the Indies!

Is it nature that carries men so far from their real selves? Is it her will that each should learn his fate from others and even be the last to learn it; so that a man dies happy or miserable before he knows what he is about. There is a healthy, cheerful, strong, and vigorous man; it does me good to see him; his eyes tell of content and well-being; he is the picture of happiness. A letter comes by post; the happy man glances at it, it is addressed to him, he opens it and reads it. In a moment he is changed, he turns pale and falls into a swoon. When he comes to himself he weeps, laments, and groans, he tears his hair, and his shrieks re-echo through the air. You would say he was in convulsions. Fool, what harm has this bit of paper done you? What limb has it torn away? What crime has it made you commit? What change has it wrought in you to reduce you to this state of misery?

Is it nature that takes people so far away from their true selves? Is it her desire for each person to learn their fate from others and even be the last to know it; so that a person lives happily or miserably before they understand what’s happening to them? There’s a healthy, cheerful, strong, and vibrant man; it lifts my spirits to see him; his eyes show contentment and well-being; he embodies happiness. A letter arrives in the mail; the happy man glances at it, it’s addressed to him, he opens it and reads it. In an instant, he changes, turns pale, and collapses. When he comes to, he weeps, mourns, and groans, pulling at his hair, and his cries echo in the air. You’d think he was having a seizure. Fool, what harm has this piece of paper done to you? What part of you has it taken away? What crime has it caused you to commit? What change has it brought about to leave you in this state of misery?

Had the letter miscarried, had some kindly hand thrown it into the fire, it strikes me that the fate of this mortal, at once happy and unhappy, would have offered us a strange problem. His misfortunes, you say, were real enough. Granted; but he did not feel them. What of that? His happiness was imaginary. I admit it; health, wealth, a contented spirit, are mere dreams. We no longer live in our own place, we live outside it. What does it profit us to live in such fear of death, when all that makes life worth living is our own?

Had the letter been lost, or if someone had tossed it into the fire, it seems to me that the fate of this person, both happy and unhappy, would present us with a curious dilemma. You say his misfortunes were very real. That's true; but he didn’t actually feel them. So what? His happiness was just an illusion. I agree; health, wealth, and a peaceful mind are simply fantasies. We no longer exist in our own world; we exist outside of it. What good does it do to live in such fear of death when everything that makes life worthwhile comes from within us?

Oh, man! live your own life and you will no longer be wretched. Keep to your appointed place in the order of nature and nothing can tear you from it. Do not kick against the stern law of necessity, nor waste in vain resistance the strength bestowed on you by heaven, not to prolong or extend your existence, but to preserve it so far and so long as heaven pleases. Your freedom and your power extend as far and no further than your natural strength; anything more is but slavery, deceit, and trickery. Power itself is servile when it depends upon public opinion; for you are dependent on the prejudices of others when you rule them by means of those prejudices. To lead them as you will, they must be led as they will. They have only to change their way of thinking and you are forced to change your course of action. Those who approach you need only contrive to sway the opinions of those you rule, or of the favourite by whom you are ruled, or those of your own family or theirs. Had you the genius of Themistocles, [Footnote: “You see that little boy,” said Themistocles to his friends, “the fate of Greece is in his hands, for he rules his mother and his mother rules me, I rule the Athenians and the Athenians rule the Greeks.” What petty creatures we should often find controlling great empires if we traced the course of power from the prince to those who secretly put that power in motion.] viziers, courtiers, priests, soldiers, servants, babblers, the very children themselves, would lead you like a child in the midst of your legions. Whatever you do, your actual authority can never extend beyond your own powers. As soon as you are obliged to see with another’s eyes you must will what he wills. You say with pride, “My people are my subjects.” Granted, but what are you? The subject of your ministers. And your ministers, what are they? The subjects of their clerks, their mistresses, the servants of their servants. Grasp all, usurp all, and then pour out your silver with both hands; set up your batteries, raise the gallows and the wheel; make laws, issue proclamations, multiply your spies, your soldiers, your hangmen, your prisons, and your chains. Poor little men, what good does it do you? You will be no better served, you will be none the less robbed and deceived, you will be no nearer absolute power. You will say continually, “It is our will,” and you will continually do the will of others.

Oh, man! Live your own life, and you won't feel miserable anymore. Stick to your assigned role in the natural order, and nothing can pull you away from it. Don’t fight against the strict laws of necessity, nor waste the strength given to you by the heavens on futile resistance; it was not meant to prolong your existence, but to maintain it for as long as the heavens allow. Your freedom and power extend only as far as your natural abilities; anything more is just slavery, deceit, and trickery. Power itself becomes servitude when it relies on public opinion; because you are subject to the biases of others when you govern them through those biases. To lead them the way you want, they must first be led by their own preferences. They only need to change their mindset, and you must change your actions. Those who come to you only need to influence the opinions of those you govern, of the favorite who has influence over you, or of your own family or theirs. Even if you had the genius of Themistocles, viziers, courtiers, priests, soldiers, servants, gossipers, and even the children themselves, would lead you around like a child amidst your armies. No matter what you do, your actual authority can never exceed your own capabilities. As soon as you have to see things through someone else's eyes, you must want what they want. You say with pride, “My people are my subjects.” Sure, but what about you? You’re the subject of your ministers. And your ministers, what are they? The subjects of their clerks, their lovers, the servants of their servants. Grab everything, take control of everything, and then throw your money around; set up your defenses, raise the gallows and the wheel; create laws, issue proclamations, multiply your spies, soldiers, executioners, prisons, and chains. Poor little men, what does it get you? You won’t be served better, you won’t be less robbed and deceived, and you won’t be closer to absolute power. You’ll keep saying, “It is our will,” and you will constantly do the will of others.

There is only one man who gets his own way—he who can get it single-handed; therefore freedom, not power, is the greatest good. That man is truly free who desires what he is able to perform, and does what he desires. This is my fundamental maxim. Apply it to childhood, and all the rules of education spring from it.

There’s only one person who always gets their way—someone who can achieve it on their own; so freedom, not power, is the highest good. A person is truly free when they want what they can actually do and do what they want. This is my core principle. Apply it to childhood, and all the rules of education come from it.

Society has enfeebled man, not merely by robbing him of the right to his own strength, but still more by making his strength insufficient for his needs. This is why his desires increase in proportion to his weakness; and this is why the child is weaker than the man. If a man is strong and a child is weak it is not because the strength of the one is absolutely greater than the strength of the other, but because the one can naturally provide for himself and the other cannot. Thus the man will have more desires and the child more caprices, a word which means, I take it, desires which are not true needs, desires which can only be satisfied with the help of others.

Society has weakened people, not just by taking away their right to their own strength, but even more by making their strength insufficient for their needs. This is why their desires grow in line with their weakness; and this is why a child is weaker than an adult. If an adult is strong and a child is weak, it’s not because one is absolutely stronger than the other, but because the adult can naturally take care of themselves while the child cannot. Therefore, the adult will have more desires and the child more whims, which means, as I understand it, desires that aren’t real needs, desires that can only be fulfilled with the help of others.

I have already given the reason for this state of weakness. Parental affection is nature’s provision against it; but parental affection may be carried to excess, it may be wanting, or it may be ill applied. Parents who live under our ordinary social conditions bring their child into these conditions too soon. By increasing his needs they do not relieve his weakness; they rather increase it. They further increase it by demanding of him what nature does not demand, by subjecting to their will what little strength he has to further his own wishes, by making slaves of themselves or of him instead of recognising that mutual dependence which should result from his weakness or their affection.

I've already explained why this state of weakness exists. Parental love is nature's way of countering it; however, parental love can be excessive, absent, or misdirected. Parents who live in our typical social environment introduce their child to these conditions too early. Instead of alleviating the child's weakness, they actually increase it by raising the child's needs. They further exacerbate this by expecting more from the child than nature requires, forcing their will on the limited strength he has to pursue his own desires, and turning themselves or him into slaves rather than recognizing the mutual dependence that should arise from his weakness or their love.

The wise man can keep his own place; but the child who does not know what his place is, is unable to keep it. There are a thousand ways out of it, and it is the business of those who have charge of the child to keep him in his place, and this is no easy task. He should be neither beast nor man, but a child. He must feel his weakness, but not suffer through it; he must be dependent, but he must not obey; he must ask, not command. He is only subject to others because of his needs, and because they see better than he what he really needs, what may help or hinder his existence. No one, not even his father, has the right to bid the child do what is of no use to him.

The wise person can maintain their own position; however, the child who doesn’t understand their place can’t hold onto it. There are countless ways to escape it, and it's up to those responsible for the child to help them stay in their place, which is no easy job. The child should be neither beast nor adult, but simply a child. They must acknowledge their limitations without being overwhelmed by them; they should be reliant but not blindly obedient; they should ask for help rather than issue commands. They are only subject to others because of their needs and because those adults can see better than the child what they truly require, what can support or hinder their well-being. No one, not even their parent, has the right to instruct the child to do things that won’t benefit them.

When our natural tendencies have not been interfered with by human prejudice and human institutions, the happiness alike of children and of men consists in the enjoyment of their liberty. But the child’s liberty is restricted by his lack of strength. He who does as he likes is happy provided he is self-sufficing; it is so with the man who is living in a state of nature. He who does what he likes is not happy if his desires exceed his strength; it is so with a child in like conditions. Even in a state of nature children only enjoy an imperfect liberty, like that enjoyed by men in social life. Each of us, unable to dispense with the help of others, becomes so far weak and wretched. We were meant to be men, laws and customs thrust us back into infancy. The rich and great, the very kings themselves are but children; they see that we are ready to relieve their misery; this makes them childishly vain, and they are quite proud of the care bestowed on them, a care which they would never get if they were grown men.

When our natural instincts haven't been disrupted by human bias and societal structures, both children and adults find happiness in enjoying their freedom. However, a child's freedom is limited by their lack of strength. A person who can do what they want is happy as long as they are self-sufficient; this is true for someone living outside of society. But someone whose desires exceed their strength won't be happy, just like a child in similar circumstances. Even in a natural state, children only experience a limited kind of freedom, similar to what adults experience in society. Each of us, unable to manage without the support of others, becomes somewhat weak and unhappy. We were meant to be fully developed adults, but laws and customs push us back into a childlike state. The wealthy and powerful, even the kings themselves, are just like children; they notice that we're eager to alleviate their suffering, which makes them foolishly proud, and they take pride in the care they receive—care they would never receive if they were truly grown-up.

These are weighty considerations, and they provide a solution for all the conflicting problems of our social system. There are two kinds of dependence: dependence on things, which is the work of nature; and dependence on men, which is the work of society. Dependence on things, being non-moral, does no injury to liberty and begets no vices; dependence on men, being out of order, [Footnote: In my PRINCIPLES OF POLITICAL LAW it is proved that no private will can be ordered in the social system.] gives rise to every kind of vice, and through this master and slave become mutually depraved. If there is any cure for this social evil, it is to be found in the substitution of law for the individual; in arming the general will with a real strength beyond the power of any individual will. If the laws of nations, like the laws of nature, could never be broken by any human power, dependence on men would become dependence on things; all the advantages of a state of nature would be combined with all the advantages of social life in the commonwealth. The liberty which preserves a man from vice would be united with the morality which raises him to virtue.

These are important points, and they offer a solution for all the conflicting issues in our social system. There are two types of dependence: dependence on things, which is part of nature, and dependence on people, which comes from society. Dependence on things is non-moral, does not harm freedom, and doesn’t create vices; dependence on people, being dysfunctional, gives rise to all sorts of vices, and through this, both master and slave become corrupted. If there is a solution to this social problem, it lies in replacing individual will with law; in empowering the collective will with real strength that surpasses any single individual's power. If the laws of nations, like the laws of nature, could never be violated by any human force, dependence on people would transform into dependence on things; all the benefits of a natural state would merge with all the benefits of social life within the commonwealth. The freedom that protects a person from vice would be combined with the morality that elevates them to virtue.

Keep the child dependent on things only. By this course of education you will have followed the order of nature. Let his unreasonable wishes meet with physical obstacles only, or the punishment which results from his own actions, lessons which will be recalled when the same circumstances occur again. It is enough to prevent him from wrong doing without forbidding him to do wrong. Experience or lack of power should take the place of law. Give him, not what he wants, but what he needs. Let there be no question of obedience for him or tyranny for you. Supply the strength he lacks just so far as is required for freedom, not for power, so that he may receive your services with a sort of shame, and look forward to the time when he may dispense with them and may achieve the honour of self-help.

Keep the child dependent only on things. By following this approach to education, you'll be in line with the natural order. Let his unreasonable desires face only physical obstacles or the consequences of his own actions, lessons that will be remembered when similar situations arise again. It's enough to stop him from doing wrong without outright forbidding him. Experience or lack of ability should replace the law. Provide him not with what he wants, but with what he needs. There should be no question of obedience for him or tyranny for you. Offer him the strength he lacks only as much as necessary for freedom, not for control, so that he may accept your help with a bit of shame and look forward to the time when he no longer needs it and can achieve the honor of self-sufficiency.

Nature provides for the child’s growth in her own fashion, and this should never be thwarted. Do not make him sit still when he wants to run about, nor run when he wants to be quiet. If we did not spoil our children’s wills by our blunders their desires would be free from caprice. Let them run, jump, and shout to their heart’s content. All their own activities are instincts of the body for its growth in strength; but you should regard with suspicion those wishes which they cannot carry out for themselves, those which others must carry out for them. Then you must distinguish carefully between natural and artificial needs, between the needs of budding caprice and the needs which spring from the overflowing life just described.

Nature supports a child’s growth in its own way, and this should never be interrupted. Don't make him sit still when he wants to run around, nor force him to be quiet when he wants to be active. If we didn’t hinder our children’s wills with our mistakes, their desires would be genuine and not whimsical. Let them run, jump, and scream as much as they want. All their activities are natural instincts for building strength; however, you should be cautious about those desires they can't fulfill on their own, which require others to do for them. Then, you need to clearly differentiate between natural and artificial needs, between the needs arising from fleeting whims and those that emerge from the vibrant life mentioned earlier.

I have already told you what you ought to do when a child cries for this thing or that. I will only add that as soon as he has words to ask for what he wants and accompanies his demands with tears, either to get his own way quicker or to over-ride a refusal, he should never have his way. If his words were prompted by a real need you should recognise it and satisfy it at once; but to yield to his tears is to encourage him to cry, to teach him to doubt your kindness, and to think that you are influenced more by his importunity than your own good-will. If he does not think you kind he will soon think you unkind; if he thinks you weak he will soon become obstinate; what you mean to give must be given at once. Be chary of refusing, but, having refused, do not change your mind.

I've already told you what to do when a child cries for something. I’ll just add that once they have words to ask for what they want and they combine their demands with tears—either to get what they want faster or to push past a refusal—you should never give in. If their words come from a genuine need, recognize it and fulfill it right away; but giving in to their tears only encourages them to cry, teaches them to question your kindness, and makes them think you're swayed more by their pleas than your own good intentions. If they see you as unkind, they'll quickly start to see you as unkind; if they view you as weak, they'll soon become stubborn. What you intend to give should be given immediately. Be careful about refusing, but once you've refused, don't change your mind.

Above all, beware of teaching the child empty phrases of politeness, which serve as spells to subdue those around him to his will, and to get him what he wants at once. The artificial education of the rich never fails to make them politely imperious, by teaching them the words to use so that no one will dare to resist them. Their children have neither the tone nor the manner of suppliants; they are as haughty or even more haughty in their entreaties than in their commands, as though they were more certain to be obeyed. You see at once that “If you please” means “It pleases me,” and “I beg” means “I command.” What a fine sort of politeness which only succeeds in changing the meaning of words so that every word is a command! For my own part, I would rather Emile were rude than haughty, that he should say “Do this” as a request, rather than “Please” as a command. What concerns me is his meaning, not his words.

Above all, be careful not to teach the child empty polite phrases that serve as tricks to control those around him and get what he wants immediately. The artificial upbringing of the wealthy always makes them politely bossy by teaching them the right words to use so that no one will dare to oppose them. Their children don’t have the tone or demeanor of those who are asking. They are just as arrogant, or even more so, in their requests than in their orders, as if they are more sure of being obeyed. You can tell right away that “If you please” means “It pleases me,” and “I beg” means “I command.” What kind of politeness is that, which only succeeds in changing the meaning of words so that every word becomes a command? Personally, I would rather Emile be rude than arrogant; I’d prefer him to say “Do this” as a request rather than “Please” as a command. What matters to me is his intent, not his words.

There is such a thing as excessive severity as well as excessive indulgence, and both alike should be avoided. If you let children suffer you risk their health and life; you make them miserable now; if you take too much pains to spare them every kind of uneasiness you are laying up much misery for them in the future; you are making them delicate and over-sensitive; you are taking them out of their place among men, a place to which they must sooner or later return, in spite of all your pains. You will say I am falling into the same mistake as those bad fathers whom I blamed for sacrificing the present happiness of their children to a future which may never be theirs.

There is such a thing as being excessively strict as well as being overly lenient, and both should be avoided. If you let children experience too much hardship, you could endanger their health and life; you make them unhappy now. If you try too hard to spare them from any discomfort, you are creating a lot of future misery for them; you are making them fragile and overly sensitive; you are removing them from their rightful place among people, a place they will eventually have to return to, regardless of all your efforts. You might say I'm making the same mistake as those flawed parents I criticized for sacrificing their children's present happiness for a future that may never happen.

Not so; for the liberty I give my pupil makes up for the slight hardships to which he is exposed. I see little fellows playing in the snow, stiff and blue with cold, scarcely able to stir a finger. They could go and warm themselves if they chose, but they do not choose; if you forced them to come in they would feel the harshness of constraint a hundredfold more than the sharpness of the cold. Then what becomes of your grievance? Shall I make your child miserable by exposing him to hardships which he is perfectly ready to endure? I secure his present good by leaving him his freedom, and his future good by arming him against the evils he will have to bear. If he had his choice, would he hesitate for a moment between you and me?

Not at all; the freedom I give my student makes up for the minor hardships they experience. I see little kids playing in the snow, stiff and blue with cold, barely able to move a finger. They could go warm up if they wanted to, but they choose not to; if you forced them to come inside, they would feel the harshness of being forced a hundred times more than the sting of the cold. So what’s your complaint? Should I make your child unhappy by exposing them to challenges they are completely willing to face? I ensure their immediate well-being by allowing them their freedom, and their future well-being by preparing them for the hardships they will encounter. If given the choice, would they hesitate for even a moment between you and me?

Do you think any man can find true happiness elsewhere than in his natural state; and when you try to spare him all suffering, are you not taking him out of his natural state? Indeed I maintain that to enjoy great happiness he must experience slight ills; such is his nature. Too much bodily prosperity corrupts the morals. A man who knew nothing of suffering would be incapable of tenderness towards his fellow-creatures and ignorant of the joys of pity; he would be hard-hearted, unsocial, a very monster among men.

Do you think any person can find true happiness outside of their natural state? And when you try to shield them from all suffering, aren’t you taking them out of that natural state? I really believe that to experience great happiness, a person must go through some minor hardships; that's just human nature. Too much physical comfort can corrupt one’s morals. A person who has never faced suffering would lack the ability to show compassion to others and wouldn't understand the joys of empathy; they would be cold-hearted, antisocial, like a monster among humans.

Do you know the surest way to make your child miserable? Let him have everything he wants; for as his wants increase in proportion to the ease with which they are satisfied, you will be compelled, sooner or later, to refuse his demands, and this unlooked-for refusal will hurt him more than the lack of what he wants. He will want your stick first, then your watch, the bird that flies, or the star that shines above him. He will want all he sets eyes on, and unless you were God himself, how could you satisfy him?

Do you know the best way to make your child miserable? Give him everything he wants; because as his desires grow in line with how easily they are met, you’ll eventually have to say no to his demands, and that unexpected refusal will hurt him more than not getting what he wants at all. He’ll want your stick first, then your watch, the bird that flies, or the star that shines above him. He’ll desire everything he sees, and unless you were God himself, how could you possibly satisfy him?

Man naturally considers all that he can get as his own. In this sense Hobbes’ theory is true to a certain extent: Multiply both our wishes and the means of satisfying them, and each will be master of all. Thus the child, who has only to ask and have, thinks himself the master of the universe; he considers all men as his slaves; and when you are at last compelled to refuse, he takes your refusal as an act of rebellion, for he thinks he has only to command. All the reasons you give him, while he is still too young to reason, are so many pretences in his eyes; they seem to him only unkindness; the sense of injustice embitters his disposition; he hates every one. Though he has never felt grateful for kindness, he resents all opposition.

People naturally think of everything they can acquire as belonging to them. In this way, Hobbes’ theory is somewhat accurate: If we increase both our desires and the means to fulfill them, each person will feel in control of everything. This is like a child who, simply by asking, gets what they want and believes they rule the universe; they see everyone as their servants. When you finally have to say no, the child interprets your refusal as defiance, convinced that they just need to give orders. All the explanations you offer, while they are still too young to reason, seem to them like mere excuses; they perceive them as unkindness, and the feeling of unfairness makes them bitter. They may never have appreciated kindness, but they certainly resent any opposition.

How should I suppose that such a child can ever be happy? He is the slave of anger, a prey to the fiercest passions. Happy! He is a tyrant, at once the basest of slaves and the most wretched of creatures. I have known children brought up like this who expected you to knock the house down, to give them the weather-cock on the steeple, to stop a regiment on the march so that they might listen to the band; when they could not get their way they screamed and cried and would pay no attention to any one. In vain everybody strove to please them; as their desires were stimulated by the ease with which they got their own way, they set their hearts on impossibilities, and found themselves face to face with opposition and difficulty, pain and grief. Scolding, sulking, or in a rage, they wept and cried all day. Were they really so greatly favoured? Weakness, combined with love of power, produces nothing but folly and suffering. One spoilt child beats the table; another whips the sea. They may beat and whip long enough before they find contentment.

How can I believe that such a child could ever be happy? They are slaves to anger, consumed by intense emotions. Happy? They are a tyrant, simultaneously the most wretched of beings and the lowest of slaves. I've seen children raised this way who expect you to tear the house down, to give them the weathervane from the church steeple, to stop a marching band just so they can listen; when they don’t get their way, they scream and cry, ignoring everyone around them. No matter how hard everyone tries to please them, their desires only grow because they are used to getting what they want easily. They fixate on the impossible and end up facing resistance and challenges, pain and sorrow. Whether they’re being scolded, sulking, or furious, they cry and whine all day. Were they really that privileged? Weakness, mixed with a desire for power, results in nothing but foolishness and suffering. One spoiled child bangs on the table; another lashes out at the sea. They can beat and lash out for a long time before they find any sort of satisfaction.

If their childhood is made wretched by these notions of power and tyranny, what of their manhood, when their relations with their fellow-men begin to grow and multiply? They are used to find everything give way to them; what a painful surprise to enter society and meet with opposition on every side, to be crushed beneath the weight of a universe which they expected to move at will. Their insolent manners, their childish vanity, only draw down upon them mortification, scorn, and mockery; they swallow insults like water; sharp experience soon teaches them that they have realised neither their position nor their strength. As they cannot do everything, they think they can do nothing. They are daunted by unexpected obstacles, degraded by the scorn of men; they become base, cowardly, and deceitful, and fall as far below their true level as they formerly soared above it.

If their childhood is made miserable by these ideas of power and tyranny, what happens in their adulthood when their relationships with others start to grow and multiply? They’re used to getting everything they want; what a shocking surprise it is to enter society and face opposition at every turn, to be crushed by a universe they thought would bend to their will. Their rude behavior and childish arrogance only bring them humiliation, contempt, and ridicule; they take insults like they’re nothing. Harsh lessons quickly show them that they don’t understand their position or their true strength. Since they can’t do everything, they believe they can’t do anything. They’re intimidated by unexpected challenges, belittled by the disdain of others; they become petty, cowardly, and deceitful, falling as far below their true potential as they once soared above it.

Let us come back to the primitive law. Nature has made children helpless and in need of affection; did she make them to be obeyed and feared? Has she given them an imposing manner, a stern eye, a loud and threatening voice with which to make themselves feared? I understand how the roaring of the lion strikes terror into the other beasts, so that they tremble when they behold his terrible mane, but of all unseemly, hateful, and ridiculous sights, was there ever anything like a body of statesmen in their robes of office with their chief at their head bowing down before a swaddled babe, addressing him in pompous phrases, while he cries and slavers in reply?

Let’s return to the basic principles of law. Nature has made children vulnerable and in need of care; did she create them to be obeyed and feared? Did she give them an intimidating presence, a harsh gaze, and a loud, threatening voice to instill fear? I get how the roar of a lion terrifies other animals, causing them to tremble at the sight of his fierce mane, but of all the absurd, loathsome, and ridiculous sights, has there ever been anything quite like a group of politicians in their formal attire with their leader bowing down before a wrapped-up baby, addressing him in grandiose terms while he cries and drools in response?

If we consider childhood itself, is there anything so weak and wretched as a child, anything so utterly at the mercy of those about it, so dependent on their pity, their care, and their affection? Does it not seem as if his gentle face and touching appearance were intended to interest every one on behalf of his weakness and to make them eager to help him? And what is there more offensive, more unsuitable, than the sight of a sulky or imperious child, who commands those about him, and impudently assumes the tones of a master towards those without whom he would perish?

If we think about childhood, is there anything as weak and miserable as a child? They're completely at the mercy of those around them, relying on their compassion, care, and love. Doesn't it seem like their gentle faces and innocent looks are meant to inspire everyone to notice their vulnerability and be eager to help? And what could be more upsetting and inappropriate than seeing a sulky or bossy child who gives orders to those around them and arrogantly acts like a master towards the very people they depend on to survive?

On the other hand, do you not see how children are fettered by the weakness of infancy? Do you not see how cruel it is to increase this servitude by obedience to our caprices, by depriving them of such liberty as they have? a liberty which they can scarcely abuse, a liberty the loss of which will do so little good to them or us. If there is nothing more ridiculous than a haughty child, there is nothing that claims our pity like a timid child. With the age of reason the child becomes the slave of the community; then why forestall this by slavery in the home? Let this brief hour of life be free from a yoke which nature has not laid upon it; leave the child the use of his natural liberty, which, for a time at least, secures him from the vices of the slave. Bring me those harsh masters, and those fathers who are the slaves of their children, bring them both with their frivolous objections, and before they boast of their own methods let them for once learn the method of nature.

On the other hand, don’t you see how children are bound by the weaknesses of being young? Don’t you see how cruel it is to increase this servitude by making them obey our whims, depriving them of the little freedom they do have? That freedom is something they can hardly misuse, and losing it won’t benefit them or us much. If there's nothing more ridiculous than a proud child, nothing deserves our sympathy more than a shy child. Once they reach the age of reason, they become slaves to society; so why should we start this process of slavery at home? Let this brief time of life be free from a burden that nature hasn’t placed on them; let the child enjoy their natural freedom, which, at least for a while, protects them from the vices of being a slave. Bring me those strict masters and those parents who are slaves to their children. Bring them both with their silly objections, and before they brag about their own ways, let them, for once, learn the way of nature.

I return to practical matters. I have already said your child must not get what he asks, but what he needs; [Footnote: We must recognise that pain is often necessary, pleasure is sometimes needed. So there is only one of the child’s desires which should never be complied with, the desire for power. Hence, whenever they ask for anything we must pay special attention to their motive in asking. As far as possible give them everything they ask for, provided it can really give them pleasure; refuse everything they demand from mere caprice or love of power.] he must never act from obedience, but from necessity.

I’ll get back to practical issues. I’ve already mentioned that your child shouldn’t get everything they want, but rather what they need; [Footnote: We must recognize that sometimes pain is necessary, and pleasure can also be important. So there’s only one thing a child should never get, which is the desire for power. Therefore, whenever they ask for something, we should pay special attention to their motivation behind the request. As much as possible, give them everything they ask for, as long as it can genuinely bring them joy; deny anything they demand out of whim or a desire for power.] they should never act out of blind obedience, but instead out of necessity.

The very words OBEY and COMMAND will be excluded from his vocabulary, still more those of DUTY and OBLIGATION; but the words strength, necessity, weakness, and constraint must have a large place in it. Before the age of reason it is impossible to form any idea of moral beings or social relations; so avoid, as far as may be, the use of words which express these ideas, lest the child at an early age should attach wrong ideas to them, ideas which you cannot or will not destroy when he is older. The first mistaken idea he gets into his head is the germ of error and vice; it is the first step that needs watching. Act in such a way that while he only notices external objects his ideas are confined to sensations; let him only see the physical world around him. If not, you may be sure that either he will pay no heed to you at all, or he will form fantastic ideas of the moral world of which you prate, ideas which you will never efface as long as he lives.

The words OBEY and COMMAND will be completely removed from his vocabulary, along with DUTY and OBLIGATION; instead, the words strength, necessity, weakness, and constraint should be prominent. Before the age of reason, it's impossible for a child to understand moral beings or social relationships, so avoid using words that express these concepts whenever possible. Otherwise, the child might attach incorrect meanings to them at an early age—meanings that you won’t be able to change later on. The first wrong idea he forms is the seed of error and vice; it’s the first step that needs careful attention. Act in such a way that while he only focuses on external objects, his ideas remain tied to sensations; let him only perceive the physical world around him. If not, you can be sure he will either ignore you completely or develop unrealistic ideas about the moral world you talk about, ideas that will stick with him for life.

“Reason with children” was Locke’s chief maxim; it is in the height of fashion at present, and I hardly think it is justified by its results; those children who have been constantly reasoned with strike me as exceedingly silly. Of all man’s faculties, reason, which is, so to speak, compounded of all the rest, is the last and choicest growth, and it is this you would use for the child’s early training. To make a man reasonable is the coping stone of a good education, and yet you profess to train a child through his reason! You begin at the wrong end, you make the end the means. If children understood reason they would not need education, but by talking to them from their earliest age in a language they do not understand you accustom them to be satisfied with words, to question all that is said to them, to think themselves as wise as their teachers; you train them to be argumentative and rebellious; and whatever you think you gain from motives of reason, you really gain from greediness, fear, or vanity with which you are obliged to reinforce your reasoning.

“Reason with children” was Locke’s main principle; it’s very popular today, but I don’t think it’s really backed by its outcomes; those kids who have been constantly reasoned with seem pretty silly to me. Of all human abilities, reason—which essentially combines all the others—is the last and most refined to develop, and it’s this you plan to use for a child’s early education. Making someone reasonable is the ultimate goal of a good education, yet you claim to educate a child through reasoning! You’re starting at the wrong end; you’re making the end the means. If kids truly understood reason, they wouldn’t need education, but by speaking to them from a young age in a language they don’t comprehend, you train them to settle for just words, to question everything said to them, and to believe they’re as knowledgeable as their teachers; you’re preparing them to be argumentative and defiant; and whatever gains you think you’re getting from reasoning, you’re actually getting from their greed, fear, or vanity that you have to use to support your reasoning.

Most of the moral lessons which are and can be given to children may be reduced to this formula; Master. You must not do that.

Most of the moral lessons that are and can be taught to children can be summed up like this: "Don't do that."

Child. Why not?

Child. Why not?

Master. Because it is wrong.

Master. Because it's wrong.

Child. Wrong! What is wrong?

Child. Incorrect! What's wrong?

Master. What is forbidden you.

Boss. What is off-limits?

Child. Why is it wrong to do what is forbidden?

Child. Why is it wrong to do things that are not allowed?

Master. You will be punished for disobedience.

Master. You will face consequences for disobedience.

Child. I will do it when no one is looking.

Child. I’ll do it when no one’s watching.

Master. We shall watch you.

Master. We'll be watching you.

Child. I will hide.

Kid. I'm going to hide.

Master. We shall ask you what you were doing.

Master, we want to know what you were doing.

Child. I shall tell a lie.

Child. I'm going to tell a lie.

Master. You must not tell lies.

Boss. You shouldn't lie.

Child. Why must not I tell lies?

Child. Why shouldn't I tell lies?

Master. Because it is wrong, etc.

Master. Because it's not right, etc.

That is the inevitable circle. Go beyond it, and the child will not understand you. What sort of use is there in such teaching? I should greatly like to know what you would substitute for this dialogue. It would have puzzled Locke himself. It is no part of a child’s business to know right and wrong, to perceive the reason for a man’s duties.

That’s the unavoidable cycle. Go outside of it, and the child won’t understand you. What’s the point of that kind of teaching? I would really like to know what you would replace this conversation with. It would have confused Locke himself. It’s not a child’s job to know what’s right and wrong or to understand the reasons behind a person’s responsibilities.

Nature would have them children before they are men. If we try to invert this order we shall produce a forced fruit immature and flavourless, fruit which will be rotten before it is ripe; we shall have young doctors and old children. Childhood has its own ways of seeing, thinking, and feeling; nothing is more foolish than to try and substitute our ways; and I should no more expect judgment in a ten-year-old child than I should expect him to be five feet high. Indeed, what use would reason be to him at that age? It is the curb of strength, and the child does not need the curb.

Nature intends for them to be children before they become men. If we try to reverse this order, we'll end up with a forced, immature, and tasteless result, something that will spoil before it’s even ripe; we’ll have young doctors and old children. Childhood has its own ways of seeing, thinking, and feeling; nothing is more foolish than trying to impose our ways on them. I wouldn’t expect a ten-year-old child to show good judgment any more than I would expect him to be five feet tall. Honestly, what would reason even be good for at that age? It’s a limitation on strength, and a child doesn’t need that limitation.

When you try to persuade your scholars of the duty of obedience, you add to this so-called persuasion compulsion and threats, or still worse, flattery and bribes. Attracted by selfishness or constrained by force, they pretend to be convinced by reason. They see as soon as you do that obedience is to their advantage and disobedience to their disadvantage. But as you only demand disagreeable things of them, and as it is always disagreeable to do another’s will, they hide themselves so that they may do as they please, persuaded that they are doing no wrong so long as they are not found out, but ready, if found out, to own themselves in the wrong for fear of worse evils. The reason for duty is beyond their age, and there is not a man in the world who could make them really aware of it; but the fear of punishment, the hope of forgiveness, importunity, the difficulty of answering, wrings from them as many confessions as you want; and you think you have convinced them when you have only wearied or frightened them.

When you try to convince your students of the importance of obeying, you often mix in pressure and threats, or even worse, flattery and bribes. Drawn in by selfishness or forced by coercion, they pretend to agree with your reasoning. They quickly realize that following orders benefits them while disobeying harms them. However, since you only ask them to do things they dislike, and it’s always unpleasant to do someone else's bidding, they try to hide so they can act as they want, believing they’re not doing anything wrong as long as they don’t get caught. If they are caught, they’re ready to admit their faults out of fear of worse consequences. The true reasons for duty are beyond their maturity, and there’s no one who could truly make them understand it. Yet, the fear of punishment, the hope for forgiveness, nagging, and the challenge of responding end up forcing them to confess as much as you want; you believe you’ve convinced them, but really, you’ve just exhausted or scared them.

What does it all come to? In the first place, by imposing on them a duty which they fail to recognise, you make them disinclined to submit to your tyranny, and you turn away their love; you teach them deceit, falsehood, and lying as a way to gain rewards or escape punishment; then by accustoming them to conceal a secret motive under the cloak of an apparent one, you yourself put into their hands the means of deceiving you, of depriving you of a knowledge of their real character, of answering you and others with empty words whenever they have the chance. Laws, you say, though binding on conscience, exercise the same constraint over grown-up men. That is so, but what are these men but children spoilt by education? This is just what you should avoid. Use force with children and reasoning with men; this is the natural order; the wise man needs no laws.

What does it all add up to? First of all, by placing a responsibility on them that they don’t recognize, you make them less willing to accept your control and push away their affection; you teach them to be sneaky, dishonest, and to lie in order to get rewards or to avoid punishment. By making them hide their true motives behind a fake one, you give them the tools to deceive you, to keep you from knowing their true nature, and to respond to you and others with meaningless words whenever they get the chance. You say laws, though they weigh on the conscience, have the same effect on adults. That’s true, but what are these adults but kids spoiled by their upbringing? This is exactly what you should avoid. Use force with children and reason with adults; this is the natural order; a wise person doesn't need laws.

Treat your scholar according to his age. Put him in his place from the first, and keep him in it, so that he no longer tries to leave it. Then before he knows what goodness is, he will be practising its chief lesson. Give him no orders at all, absolutely none. Do not even let him think that you claim any authority over him. Let him only know that he is weak and you are strong, that his condition and yours puts him at your mercy; let this be perceived, learned, and felt. Let him early find upon his proud neck, the heavy yoke which nature has imposed upon us, the heavy yoke of necessity, under which every finite being must bow. Let him find this necessity in things, not in the caprices [Footnote: You may be sure the child will regard as caprice any will which opposes his own or any will which he does not understand. Now the child does not understand anything which interferes with his own fancies.] of man; let the curb be force, not authority. If there is something he should not do, do not forbid him, but prevent him without explanation or reasoning; what you give him, give it at his first word without prayers or entreaties, above all without conditions. Give willingly, refuse unwillingly, but let your refusal be irrevocable; let no entreaties move you; let your “No,” once uttered, be a wall of brass, against which the child may exhaust his strength some five or six times, but in the end he will try no more to overthrow it.

Treat your student according to their age. Establish their role from the beginning and maintain it so they don't try to escape it. Before they even understand what goodness is, they'll be practicing its most important lesson. Don’t give them any orders—absolutely none. Don't even let them think you have any authority over them. Let them know they are weak and you are strong, that their situation and yours puts them at your mercy; let this be felt, understood, and recognized. Let them soon feel that heavy burden nature has placed on us, the heavy burden of necessity, under which every finite being must submit. Let them find this necessity in things, not in the whims of people; let the constraint be force, not authority. If there's something they shouldn't do, don’t forbid it, but prevent it without explanation or reasoning; what you give them, give it immediately upon their request without begging or pleading, and especially without conditions. Give freely, resist reluctantly, but make sure your refusal is final; let no pleas change your mind; let your "No," once spoken, be as unyielding as a wall of brass, against which the child may wear themselves out five or six times, but in the end, they won't try to break it again.

Thus you will make him patient, equable, calm, and resigned, even when he does not get all he wants; for it is in man’s nature to bear patiently with the nature of things, but not with the ill-will of another. A child never rebels against, “There is none left,” unless he thinks the reply is false. Moreover, there is no middle course; you must either make no demands on him at all, or else you must fashion him to perfect obedience. The worst education of all is to leave him hesitating between his own will and yours, constantly disputing whether you or he is master; I would rather a hundred times that he were master.

Therefore, you will make him patient, balanced, calm, and accepting, even when he doesn’t get everything he desires; it's in human nature to endure the way things are, but not to tolerate someone else's hostility. A child never rebels against, “There’s none left,” unless he believes the answer is a lie. Furthermore, there’s no middle ground; you either place no expectations on him whatsoever, or you shape him into perfect obedience. The worst kind of education is leaving him in doubt between his will and yours, constantly arguing over who is in charge; I would much prefer that he be in charge.

It is very strange that ever since people began to think about education they should have hit upon no other way of guiding children than emulation, jealousy, envy, vanity, greediness, base cowardice, all the most dangerous passions, passions ever ready to ferment, ever prepared to corrupt the soul even before the body is full-grown. With every piece of precocious instruction which you try to force into their minds you plant a vice in the depths of their hearts; foolish teachers think they are doing wonders when they are making their scholars wicked in order to teach them what goodness is, and then they tell us seriously, “Such is man.” Yes, such is man, as you have made him. Every means has been tried except one, the very one which might succeed—well-regulated liberty. Do not undertake to bring up a child if you cannot guide him merely by the laws of what can or cannot be. The limits of the possible and the impossible are alike unknown to him, so they can be extended or contracted around him at your will. Without a murmur he is restrained, urged on, held back, by the hands of necessity alone; he is made adaptable and teachable by the mere force of things, without any chance for vice to spring up in him; for passions do not arise so long as they have accomplished nothing.

It's really strange that ever since people started thinking about education, they’ve relied on nothing but competition, jealousy, envy, vanity, greed, and cowardice—all the most dangerous emotions that are always ready to boil over and corrupt the soul even before the body is fully developed. With every bit of advanced instruction you force into their minds, you plant a vice deep in their hearts; foolish teachers think they’re doing amazing work when they’re actually making their students wicked just to teach them what goodness is, and then they seriously tell us, “This is human nature.” Yes, it’s human nature, as you’ve created it. Every method has been tried except one—the only one that might work: well-regulated freedom. Don’t try to raise a child if you can’t guide him only by what is possible or impossible. He doesn’t know the boundaries of what’s possible, so those boundaries can be stretched or pulled in according to your wishes. He is quietly held back, encouraged, or restrained only by the necessities of life; he becomes adaptable and teachable simply by the natural forces around him, leaving no room for vices to develop because passions don’t arise as long as they haven’t achieved anything.

Give your scholar no verbal lessons; he should be taught by experience alone; never punish him, for he does not know what it is to do wrong; never make him say, “Forgive me,” for he does not know how to do you wrong. Wholly unmoral in his actions, he can do nothing morally wrong, and he deserves neither punishment nor reproof.

Give your student no verbal lessons; they should learn through experience alone; never punish them, because they don’t understand what doing wrong means; never make them say, “Forgive me,” because they don’t know how to wrong you. Completely amoral in their actions, they cannot do anything morally wrong, and they deserve neither punishment nor criticism.

Already I see the frightened reader comparing this child with those of our time; he is mistaken. The perpetual restraint imposed upon your scholars stimulates their activity; the more subdued they are in your presence, the more boisterous they are as soon as they are out of your sight. They must make amends to themselves in some way or other for the harsh constraint to which you subject them. Two schoolboys from the town will do more damage in the country than all the children of the village. Shut up a young gentleman and a young peasant in a room; the former will have upset and smashed everything before the latter has stirred from his place. Why is that, unless that the one hastens to misuse a moment’s licence, while the other, always sure of freedom, does not use it rashly. And yet the village children, often flattered or constrained, are still very far from the state in which I would have them kept.

Already I see the worried reader comparing this child to those of our time; they are mistaken. The constant restrictions placed on your students boost their energy; the more quiet they are around you, the rowdier they become as soon as they're out of your sight. They have to find some way to make up for the harsh limits you impose on them. Two schoolboys from the town will cause more chaos in the countryside than all the kids in the village combined. Lock a young gentleman and a young peasant in a room; the former will have knocked everything over and broken things before the latter has even moved. Why is that, unless it's because one rushes to misuse a moment of freedom, while the other, always assured of freedom, doesn’t take it for granted? Yet, the village children, often praised or restricted, are still far from the state I want them to be in.

Let us lay it down as an incontrovertible rule that the first impulses of nature are always right; there is no original sin in the human heart, the how and why of the entrance of every vice can be traced. The only natural passion is self-love or selfishness taken in a wider sense. This selfishness is good in itself and in relation to ourselves; and as the child has no necessary relations to other people he is naturally indifferent to them; his self-love only becomes good or bad by the use made of it and the relations established by its means. Until the time is ripe for the appearance of reason, that guide of selfishness, the main thing is that the child shall do nothing because you are watching him or listening to him; in a word, nothing because of other people, but only what nature asks of him; then he will never do wrong.

Let's establish a clear rule: the initial instincts of human nature are always correct; there's no original sin in our hearts, and we can trace the origins of every vice. The only natural drive is self-love or, more broadly, selfishness. This selfishness is inherently good for us and in relation to ourselves. A child, lacking necessary relationships with others, is naturally indifferent to them; their self-love only becomes positive or negative based on how it is used and the relationships formed through it. Until the time comes for reason—our guide for selfishness—the most important thing is that the child should never act just because someone is watching or listening; in other words, they should act based solely on what their nature requires, and then they will never do anything wrong.

I do not mean to say that he will never do any mischief, never hurt himself, never break a costly ornament if you leave it within his reach. He might do much damage without doing wrong, since wrong-doing depends on the harmful intention which will never be his. If once he meant to do harm, his whole education would be ruined; he would be almost hopelessly bad.

I’m not saying he will never create any trouble, never hurt himself, or never break an expensive ornament if you leave it within his reach. He could cause a lot of damage without it being wrong, since wrongdoing relies on harmful intent, which he will never have. If he ever intended to harm, his entire education would be destroyed; he would be nearly hopelessly bad.

Greed considers some things wrong which are not wrong in the eyes of reason. When you leave free scope to a child’s heedlessness, you must put anything he could spoil out of his way, and leave nothing fragile or costly within his reach. Let the room be furnished with plain and solid furniture; no mirrors, china, or useless ornaments. My pupil Emile, who is brought up in the country, shall have a room just like a peasant’s. Why take such pains to adorn it when he will be so little in it? I am mistaken, however; he will ornament it for himself, and we shall soon see how.

Greed makes us think some things are wrong that aren't actually wrong according to reason. When you let a child act without thinking, you have to move anything they could damage out of the way and keep all fragile or valuable items out of reach. The room should be filled with simple and sturdy furniture; no mirrors, china, or pointless decorations. My student Emile, who is raised in the countryside, will have a room just like a peasant's. Why bother decorating it when he will spend so little time there? I realize now I'm wrong; he will decorate it himself, and we’ll see how he does that soon.

But if, in spite of your precautions, the child contrives to do some damage, if he breaks some useful article, do not punish him for your carelessness, do not even scold him; let him hear no word of reproval, do not even let him see that he has vexed you; behave just as if the thing had come to pieces of itself; you may consider you have done great things if you have managed to hold your tongue.

But if, despite your precautions, the child manages to cause some damage, like breaking something useful, don’t punish him for your carelessness, and don’t even scold him; don’t let him hear any words of disapproval, or even let him see that he’s upset you; act as if the item just fell apart on its own; you can feel accomplished if you manage to keep quiet.

May I venture at this point to state the greatest, the most important, the most useful rule of education? It is: Do not save time, but lose it. I hope that every-day readers will excuse my paradoxes; you cannot avoid paradox if you think for yourself, and whatever you may say I would rather fall into paradox than into prejudice. The most dangerous period in human life lies between birth and the age of twelve. It is the time when errors and vices spring up, while as yet there is no means to destroy them; when the means of destruction are ready, the roots have gone too deep to be pulled up. If the infant sprang at one bound from its mother’s breast to the age of reason, the present type of education would be quite suitable, but its natural growth calls for quite a different training. The mind should be left undisturbed till its faculties have developed; for while it is blind it cannot see the torch you offer it, nor can it follow through the vast expanse of ideas a path so faintly traced by reason that the best eyes can scarcely follow it.

Can I take a moment to share the most important and useful rule of education? It is this: Don’t try to save time, but instead, spend it. I hope that everyday readers will forgive my paradoxes; you can’t avoid sounding paradoxical if you think for yourself, and honestly, I’d prefer to be paradoxical than biased. The most dangerous time in a person’s life is between birth and the age of twelve. This is when mistakes and bad habits form, and there’s no way to get rid of them yet; by the time you can remove them, the roots have grown too deep to be pulled out. If a baby could jump straight from its mother’s breast to the age of reason, the current education system might work well, but its natural development requires a different approach. The mind should be left alone until its abilities have matured; because when it’s still blind, it can’t see the light you’re trying to show it, nor can it navigate through the vast sea of ideas along a path that’s so faintly marked by reason that even the best vision struggles to see it.

Therefore the education of the earliest years should be merely negative. It consists, not in teaching virtue or truth, but in preserving the heart from vice and from the spirit of error. If only you could let well alone, and get others to follow your example; if you could bring your scholar to the age of twelve strong and healthy, but unable to tell his right hand from his left, the eyes of his understanding would be open to reason as soon as you began to teach him. Free from prejudices and free from habits, there would be nothing in him to counteract the effects of your labours. In your hands he would soon become the wisest of men; by doing nothing to begin with, you would end with a prodigy of education.

Therefore, early education should be mostly about avoiding negative influences. It’s not about teaching virtue or truth, but rather about keeping the heart away from wrongdoing and misconceptions. If you could just leave things as they are and get others to mimic your example; if you could have your student reach the age of twelve strong and healthy, but unable to tell his right from his left, his mind would be open to reason as soon as you started teaching him. Free from biases and habits, there would be nothing to interfere with your efforts. In your hands, he would quickly become the wisest of men; by starting with a hands-off approach, you would end up with an impressive achievement in education.

Reverse the usual practice and you will almost always do right. Fathers and teachers who want to make the child, not a child but a man of learning, think it never too soon to scold, correct, reprove, threaten, bribe, teach, and reason. Do better than they; be reasonable, and do not reason with your pupil, more especially do not try to make him approve what he dislikes; for if reason is always connected with disagreeable matters, you make it distasteful to him, you discredit it at an early age in a mind not yet ready to understand it. Exercise his body, his limbs, his senses, his strength, but keep his mind idle as long as you can. Distrust all opinions which appear before the judgment to discriminate between them. Restrain and ward off strange impressions; and to prevent the birth of evil do not hasten to do well, for goodness is only possible when enlightened by reason. Regard all delays as so much time gained; you have achieved much, you approach the boundary without loss. Leave childhood to ripen in your children. In a word, beware of giving anything they need to-day if it can be deferred without danger to to-morrow.

Reverse the usual approach and you'll almost always do the right thing. Fathers and teachers who aim to shape a child into a man of knowledge believe it's never too early to scold, correct, reprimand, threaten, bribe, teach, and discuss. Do better than they do; be reasonable, and don’t try to convince your student to accept what he dislikes. If reason is always linked to unpleasant topics, you'll make it unappealing to him, damaging its credibility at an age when he's not ready to grasp it. Develop his body, limbs, senses, and strength, but keep his mind free as long as possible. Be skeptical of any opinions that come before he has the ability to evaluate them. Protect him from confusing influences; to avoid the emergence of negativity, don’t rush to do good, as true goodness only comes when supported by understanding. Consider any delays as time gained; you've accomplished a lot, inching closer to the goal without loss. Allow your children’s childhood to mature. In short, avoid giving them what they need today if it can wait without endangering tomorrow.

There is another point to be considered which confirms the suitability of this method: it is the child’s individual bent, which must be thoroughly known before we can choose the fittest moral training. Every mind has its own form, in accordance with which it must be controlled; and the success of the pains taken depends largely on the fact that he is controlled in this way and no other. Oh, wise man, take time to observe nature; watch your scholar well before you say a word to him; first leave the germ of his character free to show itself, do not constrain him in anything, the better to see him as he really is. Do you think this time of liberty is wasted? On the contrary, your scholar will be the better employed, for this is the way you yourself will learn not to lose a single moment when time is of more value. If, however, you begin to act before you know what to do, you act at random; you may make mistakes, and must retrace your steps; your haste to reach your goal will only take you further from it. Do not imitate the miser who loses much lest he should lose a little. Sacrifice a little time in early childhood, and it will be repaid you with usury when your scholar is older. The wise physician does not hastily give prescriptions at first sight, but he studies the constitution of the sick man before he prescribes anything; the treatment is begun later, but the patient is cured, while the hasty doctor kills him.

There’s another important point to consider that supports this method: it's about knowing the child's unique tendencies deeply before selecting the most appropriate moral training. Every mind has its own shape, and it should be guided accordingly; the success of our efforts largely relies on the fact that the child is guided this way and not any other. Oh, wise person, take the time to observe nature; watch your student closely before saying anything to them; let the essence of their character emerge freely, don’t restrict them in any way, so you can see them as they truly are. Do you think this period of freedom is wasted? On the contrary, your student will be better off, for this is how you'll learn not to waste a moment when time is more valuable. If, however, you act before you know what to do, you’ll be acting randomly; you may make mistakes and need to backtrack; your rush to reach your goal will only take you further away from it. Don’t be like the miser who loses a lot to avoid losing a little. Spend a little time in early childhood, and it will pay off with interest when your student is older. The wise doctor doesn’t hastily prescribe treatment at first sight but studies the patient’s condition before recommending anything; treatment may begin later, but the patient gets better, while the rushed doctor may harm them.

But where shall we find a place for our child so as to bring him up as a senseless being, an automaton? Shall we keep him in the moon, or on a desert island? Shall we remove him from human society? Will he not always have around him the sight and the pattern of the passions of other people? Will he never see children of his own age? Will he not see his parents, his neighbours, his nurse, his governess, his man-servant, his tutor himself, who after all will not be an angel? Here we have a real and serious objection. But did I tell you that an education according to nature would be an easy task? Oh, men! is it my fault that you have made all good things difficult? I admit that I am aware of these difficulties; perhaps they are insuperable; but nevertheless it is certain that we do to some extent avoid them by trying to do so. I am showing what we should try to attain, I do not say we can attain it, but I do say that whoever comes nearest to it is nearest to success.

But where can we find a place for our child so we can raise him as a mindless being, an automaton? Should we keep him on the moon, or on a deserted island? Should we remove him from human society? Will he not always be surrounded by the sight and influence of other people's passions? Will he never meet children his own age? Will he not see his parents, his neighbors, his caregiver, his governess, or his tutor, who after all won't be perfect? Here we have a real and serious objection. But did I mention that educating according to nature would be easy? Oh, people! Is it my fault that you've made all good things difficult? I acknowledge that I'm aware of these challenges; maybe they are impossible to overcome; but still, it’s clear that we can somewhat avoid them by trying. I’m outlining what we should aim for; I'm not saying we can achieve it, but I do say that whoever gets closest to it is closest to success.

Remember you must be a man yourself before you try to train a man; you yourself must set the pattern he shall copy. While the child is still unconscious there is time to prepare his surroundings, so that nothing shall strike his eye but what is fit for his sight. Gain the respect of every one, begin to win their hearts, so that they may try to please you. You will not be master of the child if you cannot control every one about him; and this authority will never suffice unless it rests upon respect for your goodness. There is no question of squandering one’s means and giving money right and left; I never knew money win love. You must neither be harsh nor niggardly, nor must you merely pity misery when you can relieve it; but in vain will you open your purse if you do not open your heart along with it, the hearts of others will always be closed to you. You must give your own time, attention, affection, your very self; for whatever you do, people always perceive that your money is not you. There are proofs of kindly interest which produce more results and are really more useful than any gift; how many of the sick and wretched have more need of comfort than of charity; how many of the oppressed need protection rather than money? Reconcile those who are at strife, prevent lawsuits; incline children to duty, fathers to kindness; promote happy marriages; prevent annoyances; freely use the credit of your pupil’s parents on behalf of the weak who cannot obtain justice, the weak who are oppressed by the strong. Be just, human, kindly. Do not give alms alone, give charity; works of mercy do more than money for the relief of suffering; love others and they will love you; serve them and they will serve you; be their brother and they will be your children.

Remember, you need to be a good person yourself before you can help someone else become one; you have to set the example for them to follow. While the child is still unaware, take the time to shape their environment so that they only see what's appropriate for them. Earn the respect of everyone around you and start to win their hearts so they'll want to please you. You won't have control over the child if you can't manage those around him, and this authority won't mean much unless it's based on respect for your goodness. It's not about wasting your resources or handing out money indiscriminately; I've never seen money earn love. You shouldn't be harsh or greedy, nor should you just feel sorry for those in need when you can actually help; but opening your wallet will be pointless if you don't also open your heart, as others will always keep theirs closed to you. You need to invest your own time, attention, affection—your very self—because regardless of your actions, people will always see that your money isn't who you truly are. There are gestures of genuine concern that create greater impact and are more valuable than any financial gift; how many sick or suffering people need comfort more than charity? How many oppressed individuals need protection rather than cash? Help resolve conflicts, avoid lawsuits; encourage children to fulfill their responsibilities and fathers to be kind; foster happy marriages and reduce stress; use the influence of your pupil’s parents to assist those who cannot obtain justice, the weak who are oppressed by the strong. Be fair, compassionate, and kind. Don’t just give handouts; offer charity; acts of kindness do more for alleviating suffering than money ever could; love others, and they will love you back; serve them, and they will serve you; be their ally, and they will see you as their own.

This is one reason why I want to bring up Emile in the country, far from those miserable lacqueys, the most degraded of men except their masters; far from the vile morals of the town, whose gilded surface makes them seductive and contagious to children; while the vices of peasants, unadorned and in their naked grossness, are more fitted to repel than to seduce, when there is no motive for imitating them.

This is one reason why I want to raise Emile in the country, away from those miserable servants, the most degraded people except for their masters; far from the corrupt morals of the city, whose shiny facade makes them tempting and contagious to kids; while the vices of rural people, stripped of any embellishment and in their stark reality, are more likely to repel than to entice when there's no reason to imitate them.

In the village a tutor will have much more control over the things he wishes to show the child; his reputation, his words, his example, will have a weight they would never have in the town; he is of use to every one, so every one is eager to oblige him, to win his esteem, to appeal before the disciple what the master would have him be; if vice is not corrected, public scandal is at least avoided, which is all that our present purpose requires.

In the village, a tutor has much more influence over what he wants to teach the child; his reputation, his words, and his example carry a weight they wouldn’t have in the town. He is valuable to everyone, so everyone is eager to help him, to earn his respect, and to show the student what the teacher wants him to become. If bad behavior isn’t corrected, at least public embarrassment is avoided, which is all that we need for our current purpose.

Cease to blame others for your own faults; children are corrupted less by what they see than by your own teaching. With your endless preaching, moralising, and pedantry, for one idea you give your scholars, believing it to be good, you give them twenty more which are good for nothing; you are full of what is going on in your own minds, and you fail to see the effect you produce on theirs. In the continual flow of words with which you overwhelm them, do you think there is none which they get hold of in a wrong sense? Do you suppose they do not make their own comments on your long-winded explanations, that they do not find material for the construction of a system they can understand—one which they will use against you when they get the chance?

Stop blaming others for your own mistakes; kids are influenced less by what they observe than by what you teach them. With your constant preaching, moralizing, and nitpicking, for every good idea you give your students, you end up giving them twenty that are useless. You're so caught up in your own thoughts that you overlook the impact you have on theirs. In the endless stream of words you throw at them, do you really think none of them will be taken the wrong way? Do you believe they don’t come up with their own interpretations of your lengthy explanations, finding a basis for creating a system they can understand—one that they might even use against you when they get the chance?

Listen to a little fellow who has just been under instruction; let him chatter freely, ask questions, and talk at his ease, and you will be surprised to find the strange forms your arguments have assumed in his mind; he confuses everything, and turns everything topsy-turvy; you are vexed and grieved by his unforeseen objections; he reduces you to be silent yourself or to silence him: and what can he think of silence in one who is so fond of talking? If ever he gains this advantage and is aware of it, farewell education; from that moment all is lost; he is no longer trying to learn, he is trying to refute you.

Listen to a little kid who has just been taught; let him talk freely, ask questions, and express himself comfortably, and you’ll be surprised by the odd ideas your arguments have taken in his mind. He mixes everything up and turns things completely upside down; you become frustrated and upset by his unexpected objections. He either leaves you speechless or makes you want to silence him. And what can he think of silence in someone who loves to talk? If he ever gets the upper hand and realizes it, goodbye education; from that moment on, it’s all over; he’s no longer trying to learn, he’s trying to argue against you.

Zealous teachers, be simple, sensible, and reticent; be in no hurry to act unless to prevent the actions of others. Again and again I say, reject, if it may be, a good lesson for fear of giving a bad one. Beware of playing the tempter in this world, which nature intended as an earthly paradise for men, and do not attempt to give the innocent child the knowledge of good and evil; since you cannot prevent the child learning by what he sees outside himself, restrict your own efforts to impressing those examples on his mind in the form best suited for him.

Zealous teachers, be straightforward, practical, and quiet; don't rush to act unless it's to stop others from taking action. Time and time again, I urge you to pass up a good lesson if it risks delivering a bad one. Be cautious about tempting others in this world, which nature intended as a paradise for humanity, and avoid trying to teach the innocent child about good and evil; since you can't stop the child from learning through their own experiences, focus your efforts on presenting those examples in the most suitable way for them.

The explosive passions produce a great effect upon the child when he sees them; their outward expression is very marked; he is struck by this and his attention is arrested. Anger especially is so noisy in its rage that it is impossible not to perceive it if you are within reach. You need not ask yourself whether this is an opportunity for a pedagogue to frame a fine disquisition. What! no fine disquisition, nothing, not a word! Let the child come to you; impressed by what he has seen, he will not fail to ask you questions. The answer is easy; it is drawn from the very things which have appealed to his senses. He sees a flushed face, flashing eyes, a threatening gesture, he hears cries; everything shows that the body is ill at ease. Tell him plainly, without affectation or mystery, “This poor man is ill, he is in a fever.” You may take the opportunity of giving him in a few words some idea of disease and its effects; for that too belongs to nature, and is one of the bonds of necessity which he must recognise. By means of this idea, which is not false in itself, may he not early acquire a certain aversion to giving way to excessive passions, which he regards as diseases; and do you not think that such a notion, given at the right moment, will produce a more wholesome effect than the most tedious sermon? But consider the after effects of this idea; you have authority, if ever you find it necessary, to treat the rebellious child as a sick child; to keep him in his room, in bed if need be, to diet him, to make him afraid of his growing vices, to make him hate and dread them without ever regarding as a punishment the strict measures you will perhaps have to use for his recovery. If it happens that you yourself in a moment’s heat depart from the calm and self-control which you should aim at, do not try to conceal your fault, but tell him frankly, with a gentle reproach, “My dear, you have hurt me.”

The intense emotions have a strong impact on a child when he witnesses them; their outward display is very noticeable; he is struck by this and his attention is captured. Anger, in particular, is so loud in its fury that it’s impossible not to notice it if you’re nearby. There's no need to question whether this is a chance for a teacher to deliver a great lecture. What! No lecture, nothing, not a word! Let the child come to you; affected by what he has witnessed, he will certainly ask you questions. The answer is simple; it comes from the very things that have appealed to his senses. He sees a flushed face, glaring eyes, a threatening gesture, and hears shouts; everything indicates that the person is unwell. Just tell him directly, without pretension or mystery, “This poor man is sick, he has a fever.” You can take the opportunity to give him a brief idea of illness and its effects; after all, that is part of nature and is an essential truth he needs to understand. Through this concept, which is not incorrect in itself, might he not develop an early aversion to yielding to extreme emotions, which he views as sicknesses? Don’t you think that such an idea, presented at the right time, will have a more positive impact than the dullest sermon? But think about the long-term implications of this idea; you gain the authority, if needed, to treat a rebellious child as if he were sick; to keep him in his room, in bed if necessary, to regulate his diet, to instill a fear of his growing vices, to make him despise and fear them without him viewing the strict measures you might have to impose for his recovery as punishment. If you find yourself, in a moment of anger, straying from the calm and composure you should strive for, don’t attempt to hide your mistake; instead, tell him honestly, with gentle reproach, “My dear, you have upset me.”

Moreover, it is a matter of great importance that no notice should be taken in his presence of the quaint sayings which result from the simplicity of the ideas in which he is brought up, nor should they be quoted in a way he can understand. A foolish laugh may destroy six months’ work and do irreparable damage for life. I cannot repeat too often that to control the child one must often control oneself.

Moreover, it's really important that no one should mention the quirky sayings that come from the simple ideas he was raised with, nor should they be quoted in a way he can grasp. A careless laugh can ruin six months of effort and cause irreversible harm for a lifetime. I can't stress enough that to guide the child, one often has to master their own behavior.

I picture my little Emile at the height of a dispute between two neighbours going up to the fiercest of them and saying in a tone of pity, “You are ill, I am very sorry for you.” This speech will no doubt have its effect on the spectators and perhaps on the disputants. Without laughter, scolding, or praise I should take him away, willing or no, before he could see this result, or at least before he could think about it; and I should make haste to turn his thoughts to other things, so that he would soon forget all about it.

I imagine my little Emile in the middle of a heated argument between two neighbors, walking up to the angriest one and saying with genuine concern, “You seem upset; I really feel for you.” This comment will likely impact the onlookers and maybe even those arguing. Without any laughter, scolding, or praise, I would lead him away, whether he wanted to or not, before he could process the situation or at least before he had time to think about it; and I would quickly shift his focus to other topics so that he would forget all about it soon after.

I do not propose to enter into every detail, but only to explain general rules and to give illustrations in cases of difficulty. I think it is impossible to train a child up to the age of twelve in the midst of society, without giving him some idea of the relations between one man and another, and of the morality of human actions. It is enough to delay the development of these ideas as long as possible, and when they can no longer be avoided to limit them to present needs, so that he may neither think himself master of everything nor do harm to others without knowing or caring. There are calm and gentle characters which can be led a long way in their first innocence without any danger; but there are also stormy dispositions whose passions develop early; you must hasten to make men of them lest you should have to keep them in chains.

I don’t intend to go into every detail, but I just want to explain the general rules and provide examples for tricky situations. I believe it's impossible to raise a child until the age of twelve in society without giving them some understanding of relationships between people and the ethics of human behavior. It’s enough to postpone the development of these ideas for as long as possible, and when they can’t be avoided anymore, to focus on immediate needs, so that the child doesn’t feel like they have control over everything or harm others unknowingly or indifferently. There are calm and gentle personalities that can navigate their early innocence without any risk; however, there are also more fiery temperaments whose passions surface early. You need to help shape them into responsible adults quickly, or you might end up having to restrain them.

Our first duties are to ourselves; our first feelings are centred on self; all our instincts are at first directed to our own preservation and our own welfare. Thus the first notion of justice springs not from what we owe to others, but from what is due to us. Here is another error in popular methods of education. If you talk to children of their duties, and not of their rights, you are beginning at the wrong end, and telling them what they cannot understand, what cannot be of any interest to them.

Our first responsibilities are to ourselves; our initial feelings focus on self; all our instincts are primarily aimed at our own survival and well-being. Therefore, the first idea of justice comes not from what we owe to others, but from what we deserve. This highlights another flaw in common educational approaches. If you discuss duties with children instead of their rights, you're starting from the wrong place and telling them things they can't comprehend, things that hold no interest for them.

If I had to train a child such as I have just described, I should say to myself, “A child never attacks people, [Footnote: A child should never be allowed to play with grown-up people as if they were his inferiors, nor even as if they were only his equals. If he ventured to strike any one in earnest, were it only the footman, were it the hangman himself, let the sufferer return his blows with interest, so that he will not want to do it again. I have seen silly women inciting children to rebellion, encouraging them to hit people, allowing themselves to be beaten, and laughing at the harmless blows, never thinking that those blows were in intention the blows of a murderer, and that the child who desires to beat people now will desire to kill them when he is grown up.] only things; and he soon learns by experience to respect those older and stronger than himself. Things, however, do not defend themselves. Therefore the first idea he needs is not that of liberty but of property, and that he may get this idea he must have something of his own.” It is useless to enumerate his clothes, furniture, and playthings; although he uses these he knows not how or why he has come by them. To tell him they were given him is little better, for giving implies having; so here is property before his own, and it is the principle of property that you want to teach him; moreover, giving is a convention, and the child as yet has no idea of conventions. I hope my reader will note, in this and many other cases, how people think they have taught children thoroughly, when they have only thrust on them words which have no intelligible meaning to them. [Footnote: This is why most children want to take back what they have given, and cry if they cannot get it. They do not do this when once they know what a gift is; only they are more careful about giving things away.]

If I had to train a child like the one I've just described, I would tell myself, “A child never attacks others, [Footnote: A child should never be allowed to play with adults as if they were beneath him, or even as if they were his equals. If he ever strikes anyone seriously, even if it's just the servant or the executioner, the person he strikes should hit back meaningfully, so he won't want to do it again. I've seen foolish women encouraging children to rebel, letting them hit people, allowing themselves to be hit, and laughing at the harmless blows, never realizing that those blows are, in intent, the blows of a murderer, and that a child who wants to hit people now will want to kill them when he grows up.] only objects; and he quickly learns through experience to respect those who are older and stronger than he is. However, objects cannot defend themselves. So, the first concept he needs isn’t freedom but ownership, and to understand this concept, he has to have something that belongs to him.” It’s pointless to list his clothes, furniture, and toys; even though he uses them, he doesn’t know how or why he has them. Telling him they were given to him isn’t much better, because giving implies possessing; so here is property before his own, and it’s the principle of ownership that you want to instill in him; moreover, giving is a social rule, and the child doesn’t yet grasp social rules. I hope my reader will notice, in this and many other instances, how people believe they’ve taught children thoroughly when they’ve only imposed words on them that hold no real meaning. [Footnote: This is why most children want to take back what they’ve given and cry if they can’t get it. They don’t act this way once they understand what a gift is; they just become more careful about giving things away.]

We must therefore go back to the origin of property, for that is where the first idea of it must begin. The child, living in the country, will have got some idea of field work; eyes and leisure suffice for that, and he will have both. In every age, and especially in childhood, we want to create, to copy, to produce, to give all the signs of power and activity. He will hardly have seen the gardener at work twice, sowing, planting, and growing vegetables, before he will want to garden himself.

We need to go back to the origins of property because that’s where the first idea of it starts. A child living in the countryside will pick up some understanding of farm work; just being able to see and having free time are enough for that, and he’ll have both. At every stage of life, especially during childhood, we have this urge to create, imitate, produce, and show signs of energy and activity. After he’s seen the gardener working a couple of times—sowing, planting, and growing vegetables—he’ll want to try gardening for himself.

According to the principles I have already laid down, I shall not thwart him; on the contrary, I shall approve of his plan, share his hobby, and work with him, not for his pleasure but my own; at least, so he thinks; I shall be his under-gardener, and dig the ground for him till his arms are strong enough to do it; he will take possession of it by planting a bean, and this is surely a more sacred possession, and one more worthy of respect, than that of Nunes Balboa, who took possession of South America in the name of the King of Spain, by planting his banner on the coast of the Southern Sea.

According to the principles I've already laid out, I won’t hold him back; instead, I'll support his plan, join him in his hobby, and work alongside him, not for his enjoyment but for my own; at least, that’s what he thinks. I'll be his assistant gardener and dig the ground for him until he's strong enough to do it himself. He'll take ownership by planting a bean, and this is definitely a more sacred possession and more deserving of respect than what Nunes Balboa did when he claimed South America for the King of Spain by planting his flag on the coast of the Southern Sea.

We water the beans every day, we watch them coming up with the greatest delight. Day by day I increase this delight by saying, “Those belong to you.” To explain what that word “belong” means, I show him how he has given his time, his labour, and his trouble, his very self to it; that in this ground there is a part of himself which he can claim against all the world, as he could withdraw his arm from the hand of another man who wanted to keep it against his will.

We water the beans every day and watch them sprout with great joy. Each day, I build on that joy by saying, “Those are yours.” To explain what the word “yours” means, I show him how he has invested his time, effort, and worries—his very self—into it; that in this ground, there's a part of him he can claim against anyone, just like he could pull his arm away from someone who tried to hold it against his will.

One fine day he hurries up with his watering-can in his hand. What a scene of woe! Alas! all the beans are pulled up, the soil is dug over, you can scarcely find the place. Oh! what has become of my labour, my work, the beloved fruits of my care and effort? Who has stolen my property! Who has taken my beans? The young heart revolts; the first feeling of injustice brings its sorrow and bitterness; tears come in torrents, the unhappy child fills the air with cries and groans, I share his sorrow and anger; we look around us, we make inquiries. At last we discover that the gardener did it. We send for him.

One fine day, he rushes out with his watering can in hand. What a scene of misery! All the beans have been pulled up, the soil is all dug over, and you can barely recognize the spot. Oh! What has happened to my hard work, my efforts, the cherished results of my care? Who has taken my things? Who stole my beans? The young heart rebels; the first feeling of injustice brings sorrow and bitterness; tears flow endlessly as the unhappy child fills the air with cries and groans. I share his pain and anger; we look around, we ask questions. Finally, we find out that the gardener is the one who did it. We call for him.

But we are greatly mistaken. The gardener, hearing our complaint, begins to complain louder than we:

But we are completely wrong. The gardener, hearing our complaint, starts to complain even louder than we do:

What, gentlemen, was it you who spoilt my work! I had sown some Maltese melons; the seed was given me as something quite out of the common, and I meant to give you a treat when they were ripe; but you have planted your miserable beans and destroyed my melons, which were coming up so nicely, and I can never get any more. You have behaved very badly to me and you have deprived yourselves of the pleasure of eating most delicious melons.

What, guys, did you ruin my work! I had planted some Maltese melons; the seed was given to me as something really special, and I planned to treat you when they were ripe. But you've put in your awful beans and ruined my melons, which were growing so well, and I can never get any more. You've treated me badly, and you've also missed out on the chance to enjoy some amazing melons.

JEAN JACQUES. My poor Robert, you must forgive us. You had given your labour and your pains to it. I see we were wrong to spoil your work, but we will send to Malta for some more seed for you, and we will never dig the ground again without finding out if some one else has been beforehand with us.

JEAN JACQUES. My poor Robert, you have to forgive us. You put in so much effort and hard work. I realize now that we were wrong to ruin your work, but we'll get more seeds from Malta for you, and we'll never dig in the ground again without checking if someone else has already been there.

ROBERT. Well, gentlemen, you need not trouble yourselves, for there is no more waste ground. I dig what my father tilled; every one does the same, and all the land you see has been occupied time out of mind.

ROBERT. Well, guys, you don’t need to worry, because there’s no unused land anymore. I cultivate what my father farmed; everyone does the same, and all the land you see has been taken for ages.

EMILE. Mr. Robert, do people often lose the seed of Maltese melons?

EMILE. Mr. Robert, do people often lose the seeds of Maltese melons?

ROBERT. No indeed, sir; we do not often find such silly little gentlemen as you. No one meddles with his neighbour’s garden; every one respects other people’s work so that his own may be safe.

ROBERT. No, really, sir; we don't often come across such foolish little gentlemen like you. No one interferes with their neighbor’s garden; everyone respects other people’s efforts so that their own can be safe.

EMILE. But I have not got a garden.

EMILE. But I don't have a garden.

ROBERT. I don’t care; if you spoil mine I won’t let you walk in it, for you see I do not mean to lose my labour.

ROBERT. I don’t care; if you ruin mine, I won’t let you step in it, because I’m not planning to waste my effort.

JEAN JACQUES. Could not we suggest an arrangement with this kind Robert? Let him give my young friend and myself a corner of his garden to cultivate, on condition that he has half the crop.

JEAN JACQUES. Could we propose an arrangement with this kind Robert? Let him give my young friend and me a corner of his garden to cultivate, on the condition that he gets half the crop.

ROBERT. You may have it free. But remember I shall dig up your beans if you touch my melons.

ROBERT. You can have it for free. But remember, I’ll ruin your beans if you mess with my melons.

In this attempt to show how a child may be taught certain primitive ideas we see how the notion of property goes back naturally to the right of the first occupier to the results of his work. That is plain and simple, and quite within the child’s grasp. From that to the rights of property and exchange there is but a step, after which you must stop short.

In this attempt to show how a child can learn certain basic ideas, we observe that the concept of property naturally ties back to the right of the first person who occupies something to the results of their labor. That's clear and straightforward, and it's something a child can easily understand. From there, it's just a small step to the rights of property and exchange, after which you should halt.

You also see that an explanation which I can give in writing in a couple of pages may take a year in practice, for in the course of moral ideas we cannot advance too slowly, nor plant each step too firmly. Young teacher, pray consider this example, and remember that your lessons should always be in deeds rather than words, for children soon forget what they say or what is said to them, but not what they have done nor what has been done to them.

You can also see that an explanation I can write out in a few pages might take a year to practice. When it comes to moral lessons, we can't move too slowly or make each step too rigid. Young teacher, please think about this example and remember that your lessons should always be actions rather than words. Children quickly forget what they say or what is said to them, but they won't forget what they've done or what has been done to them.

Such teaching should be given, as I have said, sooner or later, as the scholar’s disposition, gentle or turbulent, requires it. The way of using it is unmistakable; but to omit no matter of importance in a difficult business let us take another example.

Such teaching should be provided, as I mentioned, eventually, depending on whether the student is calm or restless. The method of using it is clear; however, to cover every important detail in a challenging situation, let’s consider another example.

Your ill-tempered child destroys everything he touches. Do not vex yourself; put anything he can spoil out of his reach. He breaks the things he is using; do not be in a hurry to give him more; let him feel the want of them. He breaks the windows of his room; let the wind blow upon him night and day, and do not be afraid of his catching cold; it is better to catch cold than to be reckless. Never complain of the inconvenience he causes you, but let him feel it first. At last you will have the windows mended without saying anything. He breaks them again; then change your plan; tell him dryly and without anger, “The windows are mine, I took pains to have them put in, and I mean to keep them safe.” Then you will shut him up in a dark place without a window. At this unexpected proceeding he cries and howls; no one heeds. Soon he gets tired and changes his tone; he laments and sighs; a servant appears, the rebel begs to be let out. Without seeking any excuse for refusing, the servant merely says, “I, too, have windows to keep,” and goes away. At last, when the child has been there several hours, long enough to get very tired of it, long enough to make an impression on his memory, some one suggests to him that he should offer to make terms with you, so that you may set him free and he will never break windows again. That is just what he wants. He will send and ask you to come and see him; you will come, he will suggest his plan, and you will agree to it at once, saying, “That is a very good idea; it will suit us both; why didn’t you think of it sooner?” Then without asking for any affirmation or confirmation of his promise, you will embrace him joyfully and take him back at once to his own room, considering this agreement as sacred as if he had confirmed it by a formal oath. What idea do you think he will form from these proceedings, as to the fulfilment of a promise and its usefulness? If I am not greatly mistaken, there is not a child upon earth, unless he is utterly spoilt already, who could resist this treatment, or one who would ever dream of breaking windows again on purpose. Follow out the whole train of thought. The naughty little fellow hardly thought when he was making a hole for his beans that he was hewing out a cell in which his own knowledge would soon imprison him. [Footnote: Moreover if the duty of keeping his word were not established in the child’s mind by its own utility, the child’s growing consciousness would soon impress it on him as a law of conscience, as an innate principle, only requiring suitable experiences for its development. This first outline is not sketched by man, it is engraved on the heart by the author of all justice. Take away the primitive law of contract and the obligation imposed by contract and there is nothing left of human society but vanity and empty show. He who only keeps his word because it is to his own profit is hardly more pledged than if he had given no promise at all. This principle is of the utmost importance, and deserves to be thoroughly studied, for man is now beginning to be at war with himself.]

Your moody kid wrecks everything he touches. Don't stress yourself out; just keep anything he can ruin out of his reach. He breaks the things he's using; don’t rush to give him more; let him feel the need for them. He breaks the windows in his room; let the wind blow through night and day, and don’t worry about him catching a cold; it’s better to catch a cold than to be careless. Never complain about the trouble he causes you, but let him experience it first. Eventually, you’ll get the windows fixed without saying anything. He breaks them again; then change your approach; tell him calmly and without anger, “The windows are mine; I worked hard to have them put in, and I want to keep them safe.” Then you’ll lock him in a dark place without a window. When this happens, he cries and yells; no one pays attention. Soon he gets tired and changes his tune; he whines and sighs; a servant comes by, and the rebel asks to be let out. Without offering any excuse for saying no, the servant just says, “I have windows to keep too,” and walks away. Eventually, when the kid has been there for several hours, long enough to get really bored and to make an impression on his memory, someone suggests that he should negotiate with you so that you’ll release him and he won’t break windows again. That’s exactly what he wants. He’ll send for you to come see him; you will, he will propose his idea, and you will agree immediately, saying, “That’s a great idea; it works for both of us; why didn’t you think of this sooner?” Then without asking him to confirm his promise, you will happily hug him and take him back to his room, treating this agreement as if it were a binding contract. What do you think he’ll learn from this about keeping promises and their value? If I’m not mistaken, there’s not a child on earth, unless he’s already spoiled, who could resist this approach or who would ever think about breaking windows again on purpose. Think through the whole situation. The little troublemaker hardly considered when he was making a hole for his beans that he was actually creating a cell where his own actions would soon trap him. [Footnote: Additionally, if the responsibility of keeping his word isn’t established in the child’s mind based on its own usefulness, his growing awareness will soon Establish it as a moral obligation, a fundamental principle that just needs the right experiences to develop. This initial outline isn’t drawn by man; it’s carved into the heart by the source of all justice. Remove the basic law of contract and the obligations that come with it and all that’s left of human society is emptiness and show. Someone who only keeps their word for their own benefit is hardly more committed than if they had given no promise at all. This principle is extremely important and deserves thorough examination, as humanity is just starting to grapple with internal conflict.]

We are now in the world of morals, the door to vice is open. Deceit and falsehood are born along with conventions and duties. As soon as we can do what we ought not to do, we try to hide what we ought not to have done. As soon as self-interest makes us give a promise, a greater interest may make us break it; it is merely a question of doing it with impunity; we naturally take refuge in concealment and falsehood. As we have not been able to prevent vice, we must punish it. The sorrows of life begin with its mistakes.

We are now in the realm of morals, and the door to wrongdoing is wide open. Deception and dishonesty arise alongside social norms and responsibilities. As soon as we’re able to do what's wrong, we try to cover up our misdeeds. Once self-interest leads us to make a promise, a stronger interest might compel us to break it; it all comes down to whether we can do so without facing consequences. We instinctively seek refuge in secrecy and lies. Since we can't eliminate wrongdoing, we have to hold it accountable. The troubles of life start with its errors.

I have already said enough to show that children should never receive punishment merely as such; it should always come as the natural consequence of their fault. Thus you will not exclaim against their falsehood, you will not exactly punish them for lying, but you will arrange that all the ill effects of lying, such as not being believed when we speak the truth, or being accused of what we have not done in spite of our protests, shall fall on their heads when they have told a lie. But let us explain what lying means to the child.

I’ve already said enough to show that kids should never be punished just for the sake of punishment; it should always come as a natural consequence of their actions. So, you won’t react harshly to their dishonesty; you won’t necessarily punish them for lying, but you will make sure that they experience all the negative effects of lying, like not being believed when they tell the truth, or being wrongly accused of things they didn’t do despite their protests. But let’s clarify what lying means for the child.

There are two kinds of lies; one concerns an accomplished fact, the other concerns a future duty. The first occurs when we falsely deny or assert that we did or did not do something, or, to put it in general terms, when we knowingly say what is contrary to facts. The other occurs when we promise what we do not mean to perform, or, in general terms, when we profess an intention which we do not really mean to carry out. These two kinds of lie are sometimes found in combination, [Footnote: Thus the guilty person, accused of some evil deed, defends himself by asserting that he is a good man. His statement is false in itself and false in its application to the matter in hand.] but their differences are my present business.

There are two types of lies: one relates to something that has already happened, and the other relates to a future obligation. The first type happens when we incorrectly deny or claim that we did or didn’t do something, or generally when we knowingly say something that goes against the facts. The second type occurs when we promise something we don’t actually intend to do or, in general terms, when we state an intention that we don’t truly mean to follow through on. These two types of lies can sometimes be found together, [Footnote: For example, a guilty person accused of an evil act might defend themselves by claiming they are a good person. This statement is false in itself and also false in relation to the situation at hand.] but I am currently focused on their differences.

He who feels the need of help from others, he who is constantly experiencing their kindness, has nothing to gain by deceiving them; it is plainly to his advantage that they should see things as they are, lest they should mistake his interests. It is therefore plain that lying with regard to actual facts is not natural to children, but lying is made necessary by the law of obedience; since obedience is disagreeable, children disobey as far as they can in secret, and the present good of avoiding punishment or reproof outweighs the remoter good of speaking the truth. Under a free and natural education why should your child lie? What has he to conceal from you? You do not thwart him, you do not punish him, you demand nothing from him. Why should he not tell everything to you as simply as to his little playmate? He cannot see anything more risky in the one course than in the other.

Someone who relies on the help of others, and who is constantly experiencing their kindness, has nothing to gain from deceiving them; it’s clearly in his best interest that they see things as they are, so they don’t misunderstand his needs. It’s clear that lying about actual facts isn’t natural for children; instead, lying becomes necessary because of the pressure to obey. Since obeying can be unpleasant, children try to disobey as much as they can without getting caught, and the immediate benefit of avoiding punishment or criticism is more appealing than the distant benefit of telling the truth. In a free and natural education, why would your child lie? What does he have to hide from you? You don’t go against him, you don’t punish him, and you don’t demand anything from him. Why wouldn’t he share everything with you just as easily as he would with his little friend? He doesn’t see any added risk in either scenario.

The lie concerning duty is even less natural, since promises to do or refrain from doing are conventional agreements which are outside the state of nature and detract from our liberty. Moreover, all promises made by children are in themselves void; when they pledge themselves they do not know what they are doing, for their narrow vision cannot look beyond the present. A child can hardly lie when he makes a promise; for he is only thinking how he can get out of the present difficulty, any means which has not an immediate result is the same to him; when he promises for the future he promises nothing, and his imagination is as yet incapable of projecting him into the future while he lives in the present. If he could escape a whipping or get a packet of sweets by promising to throw himself out of the window to-morrow, he would promise on the spot. This is why the law disregards all promises made by minors, and when fathers and teachers are stricter and demand that promises shall be kept, it is only when the promise refers to something the child ought to do even if he had made no promise.

The idea of duty is even less natural because promises to do or not do something are just conventional agreements that go beyond the state of nature and limit our freedom. Also, any promises made by children are automatically invalid; when they commit to something, they don’t really understand what they’re doing because their limited perspective can’t see past the present. A child can hardly lie when making a promise; they’re just focused on how to resolve the current problem, and any solution that doesn’t produce immediate results seems the same to them. When they promise something for the future, they’re not really promising anything, as their imagination isn’t developed enough to think ahead while they’re living in the moment. If promising to throw themselves out of a window tomorrow would help them avoid a spanking or get a bag of candy, they’d agree to it without hesitation. That’s why the law ignores all promises made by minors, and when parents and teachers are stricter about holding them to promises, it's only when the promise involves something the child should do anyway.

The child cannot lie when he makes a promise, for he does not know what he is doing when he makes his promise. The case is different when he breaks his promise, which is a sort of retrospective falsehood; for he clearly remembers making the promise, but he fails to see the importance of keeping it. Unable to look into the future, he cannot foresee the results of things, and when he breaks his promises he does nothing contrary to his stage of reasoning.

The child can't lie when he makes a promise because he doesn't fully understand what he's doing when he makes it. However, breaking a promise is different; it's a kind of backward falsehood. He clearly remembers making the promise, but he doesn't grasp the importance of keeping it. Since he can't look into the future, he can't predict the consequences of things, and when he breaks promises, he isn't acting against his level of reasoning.

Children’s lies are therefore entirely the work of their teachers, and to teach them to speak the truth is nothing less than to teach them the art of lying. In your zeal to rule, control, and teach them, you never find sufficient means at your disposal. You wish to gain fresh influence over their minds by baseless maxims, by unreasonable precepts; and you would rather they knew their lessons and told lies, than leave them ignorant and truthful.

Children's lies are completely the responsibility of their teachers, and teaching them to tell the truth is really just teaching them how to lie. In your eagerness to dominate, control, and instruct them, you never find enough resources at your disposal. You want to gain new influence over their minds through unfounded maxims and unreasonable rules; you'd prefer they memorized their lessons and lied than to leave them uninformed but honest.

We, who only give our scholars lessons in practice, who prefer to have them good rather than clever, never demand the truth lest they should conceal it, and never claim any promise lest they should be tempted to break it. If some mischief has been done in my absence and I do not know who did it, I shall take care not to accuse Emile, nor to say, “Did you do it?” [Footnote: Nothing could be more indiscreet than such a question, especially if the child is guilty. Then if he thinks you know what he has done, he will think you are setting a trap for him, and this idea can only set him against you. If he thinks you do not know, he will say to himself, “Why should I make my fault known?” And here we have the first temptation to falsehood as the direct result of your foolish question.] For in so doing what should I do but teach him to deny it? If his difficult temperament compels me to make some agreement with him, I will take good care that the suggestion always comes from him, never from me; that when he undertakes anything he has always a present and effective interest in fulfilling his promise, and if he ever fails this lie will bring down on him all the unpleasant consequences which he sees arising from the natural order of things, and not from his tutor’s vengeance. But far from having recourse to such cruel measures, I feel almost certain that Emile will not know for many years what it is to lie, and that when he does find out, he will be astonished and unable to understand what can be the use of it. It is quite clear that the less I make his welfare dependent on the will or the opinions of others, the less is it to his interest to lie.

We, who only teach our students practical lessons and prefer them to be good rather than clever, never ask for the truth in case they hide it, and never ask for promises to avoid the temptation to break them. If some trouble has happened while I was away and I don’t know who did it, I won’t accuse Emile or ask, “Did you do it?” [Footnote: Nothing is more indiscreet than such a question, especially if the child is guilty. If he thinks you know what he did, he’ll think you’re trying to trap him, which only makes him resent you. If he thinks you don’t know, he’ll think, “Why should I admit my mistake?” This is the first temptation to lie that comes from your foolish question.] Because by doing that, I’d just be teaching him to deny it. If his challenging temperament forces me to make some agreement with him, I will ensure that the suggestion always comes from him, never from me; that whenever he commits to something, he has a direct and immediate interest in keeping his promise, and if he ever fails, this lie will lead to all the unpleasant outcomes resulting from the natural order of things, not from my vengeance as his tutor. But instead of resorting to such harsh methods, I’m nearly certain that Emile won’t know what lying is for many years, and when he eventually does, he will be surprised and unable to understand its purpose. It’s clear that the less I tie his well-being to the will or opinions of others, the less incentive he has to lie.

When we are in no hurry to teach there is no hurry to demand, and we can take our time, so as to demand nothing except under fitting conditions. Then the child is training himself, in so far as he is not being spoilt. But when a fool of a tutor, who does not know how to set about his business, is always making his pupil promise first this and then that, without discrimination, choice, or proportion, the child is puzzled and overburdened with all these promises, and neglects, forgets or even scorns them, and considering them as so many empty phrases he makes a game of making and breaking promises. Would you have him keep his promise faithfully, be moderate in your claims upon him.

When we’re not rushing to teach, there’s no rush to demand, and we can take our time to ask for things only under the right circumstances. This way, the child learns on their own, as long as they’re not being spoiled. But when a clueless tutor, who doesn’t know how to do their job, keeps making their student promise this and that without any thought or balance, the child becomes confused and overwhelmed by all these promises. They might ignore, forget, or even disregard them, treating them as meaningless words and turning promise-making into a game. If you want them to keep their promises seriously, be reasonable with your expectations of them.

The detailed treatment I have just given to lying may be applied in many respects to all the other duties imposed upon children, whereby these duties are made not only hateful but impracticable. For the sake of a show of preaching virtue you make them love every vice; you instil these vices by forbidding them. Would you have them pious, you take them to church till they are sick of it; you teach them to gabble prayers until they long for the happy time when they will not have to pray to God. To teach them charity you make them give alms as if you scorned to give yourself. It is not the child, but the master, who should give; however much he loves his pupil he should vie with him for this honour; he should make him think that he is too young to deserve it. Alms-giving is the deed of a man who can measure the worth of his gift and the needs of his fellow-men. The child, who knows nothing of these, can have no merit in giving; he gives without charity, without kindness; he is almost ashamed to give, for, to judge by your practice and his own, he thinks it is only children who give, and that there is no need for charity when we are grown up.

The detailed discussion I just had about lying can be related in many ways to all the other responsibilities placed on children, which make these duties not just unpleasant but also impossible to follow. In the name of promoting virtue, you make them embrace every vice; you teach these vices by forbidding them. If you want them to be devout, you drag them to church until they can't stand it; you have them recite prayers until they look forward to the day when they won't have to pray to God anymore. To teach them generosity, you make them give to charity as if you would never do it yourself. It’s not the child, but the adult, who should be giving; no matter how much he cares for his student, he should compete with the child for this opportunity; he should make the child feel that he’s too young to deserve this honor. Giving to charity is something that an adult does when he can truly understand the value of his gift and the needs of others. The child, who has no grasp of these concepts, gains nothing from giving; he gives without true generosity or kindness; he’s almost embarrassed to give because, based on your example and his own, he believes that only children give and that there’s no need for generosity when we become adults.

Observe that the only things children are set to give are things of which they do not know the value, bits of metal carried in their pockets for which they have no further use. A child would rather give a hundred coins than one cake. But get this prodigal giver to distribute what is dear to him, his toys, his sweets, his own lunch, and we shall soon see if you have made him really generous.

Notice that the only things kids are willing to give away are things they don't understand the value of, like bits of metal they carry in their pockets that they have no use for. A child would rather give away a hundred coins than one cake. But ask this carefree giver to share something he truly cares about, like his toys, his candy, or his own lunch, and we'll quickly find out if he’s really generous.

People try yet another way; they soon restore what he gave to the child, so that he gets used to giving everything which he knows will come back to him. I have scarcely seen generosity in children except of these two types, giving what is of no use to them, or what they expect to get back again. “Arrange things,” says Locke, “so that experience may convince them that the most generous giver gets the biggest share.” That is to make the child superficially generous but really greedy. He adds that “children will thus form the habit of liberality.” Yes, a usurer’s liberality, which expects cent. per cent. But when it is a question of real giving, good-bye to the habit; when they do not get things back, they will not give. It is the habit of the mind, not of the hands, that needs watching. All the other virtues taught to children are like this, and to preach these baseless virtues you waste their youth in sorrow. What a sensible sort of education!

People try yet another approach; they quickly return what he gave to the child, so that he gets used to giving everything he knows will come back to him. I've rarely seen true generosity in children, except in these two forms: giving what has no value to them or what they expect to get back. "Set things up," says Locke, "so that experience shows them that the most generous giver receives the greatest return." That makes the child appear generous on the surface but really greedy. He adds that "children will thus develop a habit of generosity." Yes, a usurer's kind of generosity that expects a full return. But when it comes to real giving, they lose that habit; if they don't receive something in return, they won’t give. It's the mindset that needs attention, not just the actions. All the other virtues taught to children are similar, and preaching these empty virtues only wastes their youth in sadness. What a smart way to educate!

Teachers, have done with these shams; be good and kind; let your example sink into your scholars’ memories till they are old enough to take it to heart. Rather than hasten to demand deeds of charity from my pupil I prefer to perform such deeds in his presence, even depriving him of the means of imitating me, as an honour beyond his years; for it is of the utmost importance that he should not regard a man’s duties as merely those of a child. If when he sees me help the poor he asks me about it, and it is time to reply to his questions, [Footnote: It must be understood that I do not answer his questions when he wants; that would be to subject myself to his will and to place myself in the most dangerous state of dependence that ever a tutor was in.] I shall say, “My dear boy, the rich only exist, through the good-will of the poor, so they have promised to feed those who have not enough to live on, either in goods or labour.” “Then you promised to do this?” “Certainly; I am only master of the wealth that passes through my hands on the condition attached to its ownership.”

Teachers, stop pretending; be good and kind; let your example sink into your students’ memories until they're old enough to understand it. Instead of rushing to ask my student to do charitable deeds, I prefer to do such deeds in front of him, even preventing him from copying me, as something beyond his years; because it's really important that he doesn't see a man's responsibilities as just those of a child. If he sees me helping the poor and asks me about it when it's the right time to answer his questions, I’ll say, “My dear boy, the rich only exist because of the goodwill of the poor, so they’ve promised to provide for those who don’t have enough to live on, whether in goods or services.” “So you promised to do this?” “Of course; I’m only in control of the wealth that comes through my hands under the condition attached to owning it.”

After this talk (and we have seen how a child may be brought to understand it) another than Emile would be tempted to imitate me and behave like a rich man; in such a case I should at least take care that it was done without ostentation; I would rather he robbed me of my privilege and hid himself to give. It is a fraud suitable to his age, and the only one I could forgive in him.

After this conversation (and we’ve seen how a child can come to understand it), someone other than Emile might be tempted to copy me and act like a wealthy person; in that case, I would make sure it was done without showing off. I would prefer he took away my privilege and hid himself to give instead. It’s a deception fitting for his age and the only one I could excuse in him.

I know that all these imitative virtues are only the virtues of a monkey, and that a good action is only morally good when it is done as such and not because of others. But at an age when the heart does not yet feel anything, you must make children copy the deeds you wish to grow into habits, until they can do them with understanding and for the love of what is good. Man imitates, as do the beasts. The love of imitating is well regulated by nature; in society it becomes a vice. The monkey imitates man, whom he fears, and not the other beasts, which he scorns; he thinks what is done by his betters must be good. Among ourselves, our harlequins imitate all that is good to degrade it and bring it into ridicule; knowing their owners’ baseness they try to equal what is better than they are, or they strive to imitate what they admire, and their bad taste appears in their choice of models, they would rather deceive others or win applause for their own talents than become wiser or better. Imitation has its roots in our desire to escape from ourselves. If I succeed in my undertaking, Emile will certainly have no such wish. So we must dispense with any seeming good that might arise from it.

I understand that all these imitative virtues are just monkey virtues, and that a good action is only truly good when done for its own sake, not because of others. But at an age when the heart isn't yet capable of feeling anything, you need to have children mimic the actions you want them to develop into habits, until they can perform them with understanding and love for what is good. Humans imitate, just like animals do. The desire to imitate is naturally balanced; however, in society, it can become a vice. The monkey mimics the man he fears, not the other animals he looks down on; he believes that what is done by those who are better must be good. In our society, our performers imitate all that is good to belittle it and make it ridiculous; aware of their owners' flaws, they try to match what is superior to them, or they attempt to imitate what they admire, and their poor taste shows in their choice of role models. They prefer to mislead others or seek applause for their own abilities rather than become wiser or better people. Imitation is rooted in our desire to escape from ourselves. If I succeed in my goal, Emile will definitely not have such a desire. So, we must forgo any apparent good that might come from it.

Examine your rules of education; you will find them all topsy-turvy, especially in all that concerns virtue and morals. The only moral lesson which is suited for a child—the most important lesson for every time of life—is this: “Never hurt anybody.” The very rule of well-doing, if not subordinated to this rule, is dangerous, false, and contradictory. Who is there who does no good? Every one does some good, the wicked as well as the righteous; he makes one happy at the cost of the misery of a hundred, and hence spring all our misfortunes. The noblest virtues are negative, they are also the most difficult, for they make little show, and do not even make room for that pleasure so dear to the heart of man, the thought that some one is pleased with us. If there be a man who does no harm to his neighbours, what good must he have accomplished! What a bold heart, what a strong character it needs! It is not in talking about this maxim, but in trying to practise it, that we discover both its greatness and its difficulty. [Footnote: The precept “Never hurt anybody,” implies the greatest possible independence of human society; for in the social state one man’s good is another man’s evil. This relation is part of the nature of things; it is inevitable. You may apply this test to man in society and to the hermit to discover which is best. A distinguished author says, “None but the wicked can live alone.” I say, “None but the good can live alone.” This proposition, if less sententious, is truer and more logical than the other. If the wicked were alone, what evil would he do? It is among his fellows that he lays his snares for others. If they wish to apply this argument to the man of property, my answer is to be found in the passage to which this note is appended.]

Examine your educational rules; you’ll find them all mixed up, especially regarding virtue and morals. The only moral lesson suitable for a child—the most important lesson for every stage of life—is this: “Never hurt anyone.” The very guideline for doing good, if it isn’t connected to this rule, is dangerous, misguided, and contradictory. Who is it that doesn’t do any good? Everyone does some good, both the wicked and the righteous; they might make one person happy at the expense of a hundred’s suffering, and that’s where all our troubles come from. The highest virtues are often about what not to do; they are also the hardest, because they don’t attract attention and don’t allow for that pleasure we humans cherish: the thought that someone appreciates us. If there’s a person who doesn’t harm their neighbors, look at the good they must be doing! What a courageous heart and strong character that requires! It’s not just in talking about this principle, but in trying to practice it, that we realize its significance and its challenges. [Footnote: The command “Never hurt anyone” suggests the greatest possible independence from human society; in social situations, one person’s good can often mean another’s harm. This relationship is part of the nature of things; it’s unavoidable. You could test this by comparing a person in society to a hermit to see which is better. A notable writer states, “Only the wicked can live in solitude.” I argue, “Only the good can live alone.” This statement, while less grandiose, is truer and more logical than the former. If the wicked were alone, what harm could they really do? It’s among others that they plot against people. If they try to apply this reasoning to someone with wealth, my response can be found in the passage this note references.]

This will give you some slight idea of the precautions I would have you take in giving children instruction which cannot always be refused without risk to themselves or others, or the far greater risk of the formation of bad habits, which would be difficult to correct later on; but be sure this necessity will not often arise with children who are properly brought up, for they cannot possibly become rebellious, spiteful, untruthful, or greedy, unless the seeds of these vices are sown in their hearts. What I have just said applies therefore rather to the exception than the rule. But the oftener children have the opportunity of quitting their proper condition, and contracting the vices of men, the oftener will these exceptions arise. Those who are brought up in the world must receive more precocious instruction than those who are brought up in retirement. So this solitary education would be preferable, even if it did nothing more than leave childhood time to ripen.

This gives you a hint about the precautions I want you to take when teaching children, which they can’t always refuse without putting themselves or others at risk, or the much bigger risk of developing bad habits that are hard to correct later. However, know that this situation won’t come up often with well-raised children, because they can’t become rebellious, spiteful, dishonest, or greedy unless those negative traits are planted in their hearts. What I just mentioned applies more to exceptions than to the general case. But the more often children have the chance to step out of their proper environment and pick up adult vices, the more those exceptions will happen. Kids raised in the world need more advanced instruction than those brought up in a private environment. So, solitary education would be better, even if it only allows childhood to mature naturally.

There is quite another class of exceptions: those so gifted by nature that they rise above the level of their age. As there are men who never get beyond infancy, so there are others who are never, so to speak, children, they are men almost from birth. The difficulty is that these cases are very rare, very difficult to distinguish; while every mother, who knows that a child may be a prodigy, is convinced that her child is that one. They go further; they mistake the common signs of growth for marks of exceptional talent. Liveliness, sharp sayings, romping, amusing simplicity, these are the characteristic marks of this age, and show that the child is a child indeed. Is it strange that a child who is encouraged to chatter and allowed to say anything, who is restrained neither by consideration nor convention, should chance to say something clever? Were he never to hit the mark, his case would be stranger than that of the astrologer who, among a thousand errors, occasionally predicts the truth. “They lie so often,” said Henry IV., “that at last they say what is true.” If you want to say something clever, you have only to talk long enough. May Providence watch over those fine folk who have no other claim to social distinction.

There’s another group of exceptions: those who are so gifted by nature that they rise above their time. Just like some people never mature beyond infancy, there are others who are, in a way, adults almost from birth. The challenge is that these cases are very rare and hard to identify; meanwhile, every mother who believes her child might be a prodigy is convinced that her child is the one. They go even further; they confuse the normal signs of development with indicators of exceptional talent. Energy, witty comments, playful antics, and charming simplicity are typical traits of this age and clearly show that the child is just that—a child. Is it surprising that a child who is encouraged to talk freely and isn’t held back by social norms might occasionally say something intelligent? If he never gets it right, that would be stranger than the astrologer who, despite many wrong predictions, sometimes gets it right. “They lie so often,” said Henry IV, “that eventually they say something true.” If you want to say something smart, all you have to do is keep talking long enough. May Providence look after those wonderful people who have no other reason for social distinction.

The finest thoughts may spring from a child’s brain, or rather the best words may drop from his lips, just as diamonds of great worth may fall into his hands, while neither the thoughts nor the diamonds are his own; at that age neither can be really his. The child’s sayings do not mean to him what they mean to us, the ideas he attaches to them are different. His ideas, if indeed he has any ideas at all, have neither order nor connection; there is nothing sure, nothing certain, in his thoughts. Examine your so-called prodigy. Now and again you will discover in him extreme activity of mind and extraordinary clearness of thought. More often this same mind will seem slack and spiritless, as if wrapped in mist. Sometimes he goes before you, sometimes he will not stir. One moment you would call him a genius, another a fool. You would be mistaken in both; he is a child, an eaglet who soars aloft for a moment, only to drop back into the nest.

The best ideas can come from a child's mind, or rather the best words can come from their mouth, just like valuable diamonds can fall into their hands, even though neither the ideas nor the diamonds actually belong to them; at that age, neither can truly be theirs. A child’s words don't hold the same meaning for them as they do for us; the concepts they connect with those words are different. Their thoughts, if they have any at all, lack organization and connection; there's nothing definite or certain in their thinking. Take a closer look at your so-called prodigy. Occasionally, you might find them extremely mentally active and remarkably clear in their thoughts. More often, their mind will seem dull and unfocused, as if shrouded in fog. Sometimes they are ahead of you, and other times they won’t budge. One minute you think of them as a genius, the next as a fool. You’d be wrong on both counts; they are just a child, an eaglet that soars high for a moment only to fall back into the nest.

Treat him, therefore, according to his age, in spite of appearances, and beware of exhausting his strength by over-much exercise. If the young brain grows warm and begins to bubble, let it work freely, but do not heat it any further, lest it lose its goodness, and when the first gases have been given off, collect and compress the rest so that in after years they may turn to life-giving heat and real energy. If not, your time and your pains will be wasted, you will destroy your own work, and after foolishly intoxicating yourself with these heady fumes, you will have nothing left but an insipid and worthless wine.

Treat him according to his age, regardless of how he seems, and be careful not to wear him out with too much exercise. If the young mind becomes excited and starts to bubble, let it flow freely, but don’t push it any further, or you risk losing its quality. Once the initial reactions occur, gather and condense the remaining energy so that in years to come it can transform into life-giving heat and genuine energy. Otherwise, your efforts and time will be wasted; you'll ruin your own work, and after carelessly indulging in these overwhelming feelings, you'll be left with nothing but bland and worthless results.

Silly children grow into ordinary men. I know no generalisation more certain than this. It is the most difficult thing in the world to distinguish between genuine stupidity, and that apparent and deceitful stupidity which is the sign of a strong character. At first sight it seems strange that the two extremes should have the same outward signs; and yet it may well be so, for at an age when man has as yet no true ideas, the whole difference between the genius and the rest consists in this: the latter only take in false ideas, while the former, finding nothing but false ideas, receives no ideas at all. In this he resembles the fool; the one is fit for nothing, the other finds nothing fit for him. The only way of distinguishing between them depends upon chance, which may offer the genius some idea which he can understand, while the fool is always the same. As a child, the young Cato was taken for an idiot by his parents; he was obstinate and silent, and that was all they perceived in him; it was only in Sulla’s ante-chamber that his uncle discovered what was in him. Had he never found his way there, he might have passed for a fool till he reached the age of reason. Had Caesar never lived, perhaps this same Cato, who discerned his fatal genius, and foretold his great schemes, would have passed for a dreamer all his days. Those who judge children hastily are apt to be mistaken; they are often more childish than the child himself. I knew a middle-aged man, [Footnote: The Abbe de Condillac] whose friendship I esteemed an honour, who was reckoned a fool by his family. All at once he made his name as a philosopher, and I have no doubt posterity will give him a high place among the greatest thinkers and the profoundest metaphysicians of his day.

Silly kids grow into ordinary men. I can't think of a more certain generalization than this. It's really hard to tell the difference between true stupidity and that fake, deceiving stupidity that signals a strong character. At first, it seems odd that both extremes show the same outward signs; yet it makes sense because at a stage when a person has no real ideas, the main difference between a genius and everyone else is this: the others only grasp false ideas, while the genius, unable to find anything but false ideas, has no ideas at all. In this respect, he resembles the fool; one is useless, while the other finds nothing useful for him. The only way to tell them apart is by chance—if the genius happens to come across an idea he can understand, while the fool remains unchanged. As a child, young Cato was thought to be an idiot by his parents; he was stubborn and quiet, and that's all they noticed. It was only in Sulla’s waiting room that his uncle realized what he was capable of. If he hadn't gone there, he might have been seen as a fool until he became of age. If Caesar had never existed, perhaps this same Cato, who recognized his dangerous genius and predicted his significant plans, would have been considered a dreamer all his life. Those who judge kids too quickly often get it wrong; they are often more childish than the child themselves. I knew a middle-aged man, [Footnote: The Abbe de Condillac] whose friendship I valued highly, who was considered a fool by his family. Suddenly, he established himself as a philosopher, and I have no doubt that future generations will rank him among the greatest thinkers and the deepest metaphysicians of his time.

Hold childhood in reverence, and do not be in any hurry to judge it for good or ill. Leave exceptional cases to show themselves, let their qualities be tested and confirmed, before special methods are adopted. Give nature time to work before you take over her business, lest you interfere with her dealings. You assert that you know the value of time and are afraid to waste it. You fail to perceive that it is a greater waste of time to use it ill than to do nothing, and that a child ill taught is further from virtue than a child who has learnt nothing at all. You are afraid to see him spending his early years doing nothing. What! is it nothing to be happy, nothing to run and jump all day? He will never be so busy again all his life long. Plato, in his Republic, which is considered so stern, teaches the children only through festivals, games, songs, and amusements. It seems as if he had accomplished his purpose when he had taught them to be happy; and Seneca, speaking of the Roman lads in olden days, says, “They were always on their feet, they were never taught anything which kept them sitting.” Were they any the worse for it in manhood? Do not be afraid, therefore, of this so-called idleness. What would you think of a man who refused to sleep lest he should waste part of his life? You would say, “He is mad; he is not enjoying his life, he is robbing himself of part of it; to avoid sleep he is hastening his death.” Remember that these two cases are alike, and that childhood is the sleep of reason.

Hold childhood in high regard, and don't rush to judge it as good or bad. Allow exceptional situations to reveal themselves, let their qualities be tested and confirmed, before adopting special approaches. Give nature time to do its work before you step in, or you might disrupt her process. You claim to understand the value of time and fear wasting it. You overlook that misusing time is a greater waste than doing nothing, and that a poorly taught child strays further from virtue than one who hasn't learned anything at all. You're worried about him spending his early years doing nothing. What! Is it nothing to be happy, nothing to run and jump all day? He won't be as busy again for the rest of his life. Plato, in his Republic, which is seen as quite serious, teaches children only through festivals, games, songs, and play. It seems like he achieved his goal when he taught them to be happy; and Seneca, discussing Roman boys in ancient times, says, “They were always active, never taught anything that made them sit still.” Did they suffer for it in adulthood? So, don’t fear this so-called idleness. What would you think of a man who refused to sleep because he didn't want to waste part of his life? You would say, “He's crazy; he isn't enjoying life, he's depriving himself of it; by avoiding sleep, he's hastening his death.” Remember that these two scenarios are similar, and that childhood is the sleep of reason.

The apparent ease with which children learn is their ruin. You fail to see that this very facility proves that they are not learning. Their shining, polished brain reflects, as in a mirror, the things you show them, but nothing sinks in. The child remembers the words and the ideas are reflected back; his hearers understand them, but to him they are meaningless.

The way children seem to pick things up so easily is actually a problem. You don’t realize that this ease shows they aren’t really learning. Their bright, shiny brains show you what you present, like a mirror, but nothing really sticks. The child can remember the words, and others get the ideas, but to him, they don’t have any real significance.

Although memory and reason are wholly different faculties, the one does not really develop apart from the other. Before the age of reason the child receives images, not ideas; and there is this difference between them: images are merely the pictures of external objects, while ideas are notions about those objects determined by their relations. An image when it is recalled may exist by itself in the mind, but every idea implies other ideas. When we image we merely perceive, when we reason we compare. Our sensations are merely passive, our notions or ideas spring from an active principle which judges. The proof of this will be given later.

Although memory and reason are completely different abilities, one really doesn't develop without the other. Before a child reaches the age of reason, they receive images instead of ideas; and the difference between them is that images are simply pictures of external objects, while ideas are thoughts about those objects shaped by their relationships. An image, when remembered, can exist alone in the mind, but every idea involves other ideas. When we visualize, we simply perceive; when we reason, we compare. Our sensations are purely passive, while our thoughts or ideas come from an active principle that judges. The proof of this will be provided later.

I maintain, therefore, that as children are incapable of judging, they have no true memory. They retain sounds, form, sensation, but rarely ideas, and still more rarely relations. You tell me they acquire some rudiments of geometry, and you think you prove your case; not so, it is mine you prove; you show that far from being able to reason themselves, children are unable to retain the reasoning of others; for if you follow the method of these little geometricians you will see they only retain the exact impression of the figure and the terms of the demonstration. They cannot meet the slightest new objection; if the figure is reversed they can do nothing. All their knowledge is on the sensation-level, nothing has penetrated to their understanding. Their memory is little better than their other powers, for they always have to learn over again, when they are grown up, what they learnt as children.

I believe, then, that since children can't really judge, they don't have true memory. They remember sounds, shapes, and sensations, but hardly ever ideas, and even less often connections. You argue that they pick up some basics of geometry, thinking you’re proving your point; in fact, you’re proving mine. You show that, instead of being able to reason on their own, children can't even remember the reasoning of others. If you examine how these young geometry learners work, you'll notice they only keep the exact image of the shape and the words of the proof. They can't handle even the slightest new challenge; if the shape is flipped, they can't do anything. All their knowledge is based on sensations; nothing has actually reached their understanding. Their memory isn't much better than their other skills, as they always have to relearn what they knew as kids once they're adults.

I am far from thinking, however, that children have no sort of reason. [Footnote: I have noticed again and again that it is impossible in writing a lengthy work to use the same words always in the same sense. There is no language rich enough to supply terms and expressions sufficient for the modifications of our ideas. The method of defining every term and constantly substituting the definition for the term defined looks well, but it is impracticable. For how can we escape from our vicious circle? Definitions would be all very well if we did not use words in the making of them. In spite of this I am convinced that even in our poor language we can make our meaning clear, not by always using words in the same sense, but by taking care that every time we use a word the sense in which we use it is sufficiently indicated by the sense of the context, so that each sentence in which the word occurs acts as a sort of definition. Sometimes I say children are incapable of reasoning. Sometimes I say they reason cleverly. I must admit that my words are often contradictory, but I do not think there is any contradiction in my ideas.] On the contrary, I think they reason very well with regard to things that affect their actual and sensible well-being. But people are mistaken as to the extent of their information, and they attribute to them knowledge they do not possess, and make them reason about things they cannot understand. Another mistake is to try to turn their attention to matters which do not concern them in the least, such as their future interest, their happiness when they are grown up, the opinion people will have of them when they are men—terms which are absolutely meaningless when addressed to creatures who are entirely without foresight. But all the forced studies of these poor little wretches are directed towards matters utterly remote from their minds. You may judge how much attention they can give to them.

I'm far from believing that children lack reason. [Footnote: I've noticed repeatedly that when writing a long work, it's impossible to use the same words always with the same meaning. No language is rich enough to provide enough terms and expressions to cover all the nuances of our thoughts. The approach of defining every term and constantly replacing the word with its definition looks good in theory, but it's impractical. After all, how can we avoid falling into a trap? Definitions would be fine if we didn’t use words to create them. Despite this, I'm convinced that even in our limited language, we can make our meaning clear, not by using words in the same way every time, but by ensuring that the context makes the meaning obvious. Each sentence using a word acts sort of like its definition. Sometimes I say children can't reason. Other times I say they reason quite cleverly. I admit there are contradictions in my wording, but I don't think my ideas are contradictory.] On the flip side, I believe they reason very well about things that directly impact their immediate well-being. However, people often misjudge how much they know and expect them to think about matters beyond their understanding. Another mistake is trying to get them to focus on issues that don't concern them at all, like their future interests, their happiness as adults, or what others will think of them when they grow up—terms that are completely pointless for beings who have no foresight. Yet, all the forced studies of these poor kids are aimed at topics that are completely distant from their understanding. You can see how much attention they can give to those subjects.

The pedagogues, who make a great display of the teaching they give their pupils, are paid to say just the opposite; yet their actions show that they think just as I do. For what do they teach? Words! words! words! Among the various sciences they boast of teaching their scholars, they take good care never to choose those which might be really useful to them, for then they would be compelled to deal with things and would fail utterly; the sciences they choose are those we seem to know when we know their technical terms—heraldry, geography, chronology, languages, etc., studies so remote from man, and even more remote from the child, that it is a wonder if he can ever make any use of any part of them.

The teachers, who put on a big show of the education they provide their students, are really being paid to say the opposite; yet their actions reveal they think just like I do. What do they actually teach? Just words! words! words! Among the various subjects they brag about teaching, they make sure to avoid those that might actually be useful to the students, because then they would have to engage with real things and would completely fail; the subjects they pick are those we seem to understand as long as we know the technical terms—heraldry, geography, chronology, languages, and so on—studies that are so disconnected from real life, and even more so from children, that it’s surprising if they can ever use any of it.

You will be surprised to find that I reckon the study of languages among the useless lumber of education; but you must remember that I am speaking of the studies of the earliest years, and whatever you may say, I do not believe any child under twelve or fifteen ever really acquired two languages.

You might be surprised to hear that I consider learning languages to be among the unnecessary parts of education; but keep in mind that I'm talking about studies from early childhood. No matter what you argue, I truly don’t think any child under twelve or fifteen ever really learns two languages.

If the study of languages were merely the study of words, that is, of the symbols by which language expresses itself, then this might be a suitable study for children; but languages, as they change the symbols, also modify the ideas which the symbols express. Minds are formed by language, thoughts take their colour from its ideas. Reason alone is common to all. Every language has its own form, a difference which may be partly cause and partly effect of differences in national character; this conjecture appears to be confirmed by the fact that in every nation under the sun speech follows the changes of manners, and is preserved or altered along with them.

If studying languages was just about studying words, which are the symbols that language uses to express itself, then it might be a good fit for kids. But languages change not just the symbols but also the ideas those symbols represent. Our minds are shaped by language, and our thoughts are colored by its ideas. Reason is the one thing everyone has in common. Each language has its own structure, a difference that can both influence and reflect the differences in national character. This idea seems to hold true since in every country, language evolves with changes in behavior and is maintained or altered alongside them.

By use the child acquires one of these different forms, and it is the only language he retains till the age of reason. To acquire two languages he must be able to compare their ideas, and how can he compare ideas he can barely understand? Everything may have a thousand meanings to him, but each idea can only have one form, so he can only learn one language. You assure me he learns several languages; I deny it. I have seen those little prodigies who are supposed to speak half a dozen languages. I have heard them speak first in German, then in Latin, French, or Italian; true, they used half a dozen different vocabularies, but they always spoke German. In a word, you may give children as many synonyms as you like; it is not their language but their words that you change; they will never have but one language.

Through usage, a child learns one of these different forms, and that’s the only language they hold onto until they reach the age of reason. To learn two languages, they need to be able to compare the ideas behind them, but how can they compare ideas they barely understand? Everything might have a thousand meanings to them, but each idea only has one form, so they can really only learn one language. You tell me they learn multiple languages; I disagree. I’ve seen those little prodigies who are said to speak half a dozen languages. I’ve heard them switch from German to Latin, French, or Italian; true, they used a half dozen different vocabularies, but they always spoke German. In summary, you can give children as many synonyms as you want; it’s not their language you’re changing, but their words; they will never have more than one language.

To conceal their deficiencies teachers choose the dead languages, in which we have no longer any judges whose authority is beyond dispute. The familiar use of these tongues disappeared long ago, so they are content to imitate what they find in books, and they call that talking. If the master’s Greek and Latin is such poor stuff, what about the children? They have scarcely learnt their primer by heart, without understanding a word of it, when they are set to translate a French speech into Latin words; then when they are more advanced they piece together a few phrases of Cicero for prose or a few lines of Vergil for verse. Then they think they can speak Latin, and who will contradict them?

To hide their shortcomings, teachers choose dead languages, where we no longer have any judges with undisputed authority. The common use of these languages faded away long ago, so they are satisfied to mimic what they find in books and call that speaking. If the teacher's Greek and Latin are so lacking, what about the students? They have barely memorized their basics without understanding any of it, yet they're asked to translate a French speech into Latin; then, as they progress, they string together a few phrases from Cicero for prose or a few lines from Vergil for poetry. They then believe they can speak Latin, and who’s going to argue with them?

In any study whatsoever the symbols are of no value without the idea of the things symbolised. Yet the education of the child in confined to those symbols, while no one ever succeeds in making him understand the thing signified. You think you are teaching him what the world is like; he is only learning the map; he is taught the names of towns, countries, rivers, which have no existence for him except on the paper before him. I remember seeing a geography somewhere which began with: “What is the world?”—“A sphere of cardboard.” That is the child’s geography. I maintain that after two years’ work with the globe and cosmography, there is not a single ten-year-old child who could find his way from Paris to Saint Denis by the help of the rules he has learnt. I maintain that not one of these children could find his way by the map about the paths on his father’s estate without getting lost. These are the young doctors who can tell us the position of Pekin, Ispahan, Mexico, and every country in the world.

In any study, symbols are meaningless without understanding the ideas they represent. However, a child's education is limited to those symbols, and no one really helps them grasp the concepts behind what they signify. You think you're teaching them what the world is like, but they're just learning the map; they're memorizing the names of towns, countries, and rivers that only exist for them on the paper in front of them. I remember seeing a geography book that started with: “What is the world?”—“A sphere of cardboard.” That's the child's view of geography. I believe that after two years of working with a globe and studying geography, there isn't a single ten-year-old who could find their way from Paris to Saint Denis using the rules they've learned. I believe that none of these children could navigate the paths on their father's estate using a map without getting lost. These are the same kids who can tell us the location of Beijing, Isfahan, Mexico, and every country in the world.

You tell me the child must be employed on studies which only need eyes. That may be; but if there are any such studies, they are unknown to me.

You say the child should focus on studies that only require looking. That might be true; but if there are any such studies, I’m not aware of them.

It is a still more ridiculous error to set them to study history, which is considered within their grasp because it is merely a collection of facts. But what is meant by this word “fact”? Do you think the relations which determine the facts of history are so easy to grasp that the corresponding ideas are easily developed in the child’s mind! Do you think that a real knowledge of events can exist apart from the knowledge of their causes and effects, and that history has so little relation to words that the one can be learnt without the other? If you perceive nothing in a man’s actions beyond merely physical and external movements, what do you learn from history? Absolutely nothing; while this study, robbed of all that makes it interesting, gives you neither pleasure nor information. If you want to judge actions by their moral bearings, try to make these moral bearings intelligible to your scholars. You will soon find out if they are old enough to learn history.

It's even more absurd to make them study history, thinking it's just a bunch of facts within their reach. But what do we mean by the word "fact"? Do you really believe that the connections determining the facts of history are so straightforward that the related ideas easily form in a child's mind? Do you think that a true understanding of events can exist without knowing their causes and effects, and that history has so little to do with words that you can learn one without the other? If you see nothing in a person's actions beyond just physical and external movements, what do you learn from history? Absolutely nothing; stripped of everything that makes it interesting, this study offers neither enjoyment nor knowledge. If you want to judge actions based on their moral implications, make an effort to explain these moral implications to your students. You'll quickly discover if they're old enough to learn history.

Remember, reader, that he who speaks to you is neither a scholar nor a philosopher, but a plain man and a lover of truth; a man who is pledged to no one party or system, a hermit, who mixes little with other men, and has less opportunity of imbibing their prejudices, and more time to reflect on the things that strike him in his intercourse with them. My arguments are based less on theories than on facts, and I think I can find no better way to bring the facts home to you than by quoting continually some example from the observations which suggested my arguments.

Remember, reader, that the person speaking to you is neither a scholar nor a philosopher, but just an ordinary guy who loves the truth; someone who isn’t tied to any party or belief system, a loner who doesn’t interact much with others, giving him less chance to pick up their biases and more time to think about what he notices in his interactions with them. My arguments are grounded more in facts than in theories, and I believe the best way to highlight these facts is by frequently quoting examples from the observations that inspired my arguments.

I had gone to spend a few days in the country with a worthy mother of a family who took great pains with her children and their education. One morning I was present while the eldest boy had his lessons. His tutor, who had taken great pains to teach him ancient history, began upon the story of Alexander and lighted on the well-known anecdote of Philip the Doctor. There is a picture of it, and the story is well worth study. The tutor, worthy man, made several reflections which I did not like with regard to Alexander’s courage, but I did not argue with him lest I should lower him in the eyes of his pupil. At dinner they did not fail to get the little fellow talking, French fashion. The eager spirit of a child of his age, and the confident expectation of applause, made him say a number of silly things, and among them from time to time there were things to the point, and these made people forget the rest. At last came the story of Philip the Doctor. He told it very distinctly and prettily. After the usual meed of praise, demanded by his mother and expected by the child himself, they discussed what he had said. Most of them blamed Alexander’s rashness, some of them, following the tutor’s example, praised his resolution, which showed me that none of those present really saw the beauty of the story. “For my own part,” I said, “if there was any courage or any steadfastness at all in Alexander’s conduct I think it was only a piece of bravado.” Then every one agreed that it was a piece of bravado. I was getting angry, and would have replied, when a lady sitting beside me, who had not hitherto spoken, bent towards me and whispered in my ear. “Jean Jacques,” said she, “say no more, they will never understand you.” I looked at her, I recognised the wisdom of her advice, and I held my tongue.

I had gone to spend a few days in the countryside with a caring mother who worked hard on her children's education. One morning, I was present while the oldest boy had his lessons. His tutor, who had put a lot of effort into teaching him ancient history, began with the story of Alexander and mentioned the well-known anecdote about Philip the Doctor. There’s a picture of it, and the story is definitely worth studying. The tutor, a good man, made several comments about Alexander’s bravery that I didn’t agree with, but I didn’t challenge him because I didn’t want to undermine his authority in front of his student. At dinner, they encouraged the little guy to talk, French-style. The eagerness of a child his age, along with the expectation of praise, led him to say a lot of silly things, but now and then he hit the mark, which made everyone overlook the rest. Eventually, he told the story of Philip the Doctor. He did it very clearly and charmingly. After the usual praise, demanded by his mother and expected by the child himself, they talked about what he had said. Most criticized Alexander’s recklessness, while some praised his determination, following the tutor’s lead, which showed me that no one really grasped the story's true beauty. “As for me,” I said, “if there was any courage or steadfastness in Alexander’s actions, I think it was just a display of bravado.” Everyone then agreed that it was indeed bravado. I was becoming frustrated and was about to respond when a lady sitting next to me, who had not spoken before, leaned in and whispered in my ear. “Jean Jacques,” she said, “don’t say anything more; they will never understand you.” I looked at her, recognized the wisdom of her words, and chose to remain silent.

Several things made me suspect that our young professor had not in the least understood the story he told so prettily. After dinner I took his hand in mine and we went for a walk in the park. When I had questioned him quietly, I discovered that he admired the vaunted courage of Alexander more than any one. But in what do you suppose he thought this courage consisted? Merely in swallowing a disagreeable drink at a single draught without hesitation and without any signs of dislike. Not a fortnight before the poor child had been made to take some medicine which he could hardly swallow, and the taste of it was still in his mouth. Death, and death by poisoning, were for him only disagreeable sensations, and senna was his only idea of poison. I must admit, however, that Alexander’s resolution had made a great impression on his young mind, and he was determined that next time he had to take medicine he would be an Alexander. Without entering upon explanations which were clearly beyond his grasp, I confirmed him in his praiseworthy intention, and returned home smiling to myself over the great wisdom of parents and teachers who expect to teach history to children.

Several things led me to think that our young professor didn’t really understand the story he told so nicely. After dinner, I took his hand, and we went for a walk in the park. When I quietly asked him questions, I found out that he admired Alexander's supposed courage more than anyone else. But can you guess what he thought this courage was? It was just about drinking a nasty potion in one go without hesitating or showing any disgust. Just two weeks before, this poor kid had been forced to take medicine he could barely swallow, and the taste was still fresh in his mouth. For him, death—and death by poisoning—were just unpleasant feelings, and senna was the only thing he associated with poison. I have to admit, though, that Alexander's determination really struck a chord with him, and he was set on being like Alexander the next time he had to take medicine. Without getting into explanations that were clearly beyond his understanding, I encouraged him in his admirable intention and went home smiling to myself about the great wisdom of parents and teachers who think they can teach history to kids.

Such words as king, emperor, war, conquest, law, and revolution are easily put into their mouths; but when it is a question of attaching clear ideas to these words the explanations are very different from our talk with Robert the gardener.

Words like king, emperor, war, conquest, law, and revolution are thrown around easily; but when it comes to defining these terms clearly, the explanations differ greatly from our conversations with Robert the gardener.

I feel sure some readers dissatisfied with that “Say no more, Jean Jacques,” will ask what I really saw to admire in the conduct of Alexander. Poor things! if you need telling, how can you comprehend it? Alexander believed in virtue, he staked his head, he staked his own life on that faith, his great soul was fitted to hold such a faith. To swallow that draught was to make a noble profession of the faith that was in him. Never did mortal man recite a finer creed. If there is an Alexander in our own days, show me such deeds.

I’m sure some readers who are unhappy with “Say no more, Jean Jacques,” will wonder what I really admired about Alexander's actions. Poor things! If you need an explanation, how can you truly understand it? Alexander believed in virtue; he put everything on the line—his head, his life—based on that belief. His great soul was meant to hold such a conviction. To embrace that idea was to make a noble statement about the faith within him. No one has ever expressed a finer creed. If there is an Alexander in our time, show me similar actions.

If children have no knowledge of words, there is no study that is suitable for them. If they have no real ideas they have no real memory, for I do not call that a memory which only recalls sensations. What is the use of inscribing on their brains a list of symbols which mean nothing to them? They will learn the symbols when they learn the things signified; why give them the useless trouble of learning them twice over? And yet what dangerous prejudices are you implanting when you teach them to accept as knowledge words which have no meaning for them. The first meaningless phrase, the first thing taken for granted on the word of another person without seeing its use for himself, this is the beginning of the ruin of the child’s judgment. He may dazzle the eyes of fools long enough before he recovers from such a loss. [Footnote: The learning of most philosophers is like the learning of children. Vast erudition results less in the multitude of ideas than in a multitude of images. Dates, names, places, all objects isolated or unconnected with ideas are merely retained in the memory for symbols, and we rarely recall any of these without seeing the right or left page of the book in which we read it, or the form in which we first saw it. Most science was of this kind till recently. The science of our times is another matter; study and observation are things of the past; we dream and the dreams of a bad night are given to us as philosophy. You will say I too am a dreamer; I admit it, but I do what the others fail to do, I give my dreams as dreams, and leave the reader to discover whether there is anything in them which may prove useful to those who are awake.]

If kids don't understand words, there's no education that works for them. Without real ideas, they can't have real memories; I don't consider it memory if it just recalls sensations. What's the point of putting a list of symbols in their minds that mean nothing? They’ll grasp the symbols when they understand the concepts behind them, so why make them learn twice? And what dangerous biases are you creating when you teach them to accept words as knowledge without meaning? The first meaningless phrase they learn, the first thing they take for granted on someone else's say-so without seeing its purpose for themselves, marks the start of the decline in the child's judgment. They might impress fools for a while before they recover from such a loss. [Footnote: Most philosophers learn like children do. Extensive knowledge often leads to a lot of images rather than a diversity of ideas. Dates, names, places, and other isolated objects are just stored in memory as symbols, and we usually recall them only by remembering the exact page of the book we read them in or how we first encountered them. Most scholarship was like this until recently. Nowadays, it's a different story; studying and observing feel like things of the past; we dream, and the dreams of a bad night are presented to us as philosophy. You might say I'm a dreamer too; I accept that, but I do what others don't: I present my dreams as dreams and let the reader figure out if there's anything useful in them for those who are awake.]

No, if nature has given the child this plasticity of brain which fits him to receive every kind of impression, it was not that you should imprint on it the names and dates of kings, the jargon of heraldry, the globe and geography, all those words without present meaning or future use for the child, which flood of words overwhelms his sad and barren childhood. But by means of this plasticity all the ideas he can understand and use, all that concern his happiness and will some day throw light upon his duties, should be traced at an early age in indelible characters upon his brain, to guide him to live in such a way as befits his nature and his powers.

No, if nature has given the child this flexibility in their brain that allows them to take in all kinds of impressions, it wasn't meant for you to cram in the names and dates of kings, the confusing terms of heraldry, world maps, and geography—it's all just a flood of words with no real meaning or purpose for the child, overwhelming their sad and empty childhood. Instead, this flexibility should be used to imprint ideas that they can understand and apply, all the things that relate to their happiness and will eventually help them understand their responsibilities, in permanent ways on their brain from an early age, guiding them to live in a manner that suits their nature and abilities.

Without the study of books, such a memory as the child may possess is not left idle; everything he sees and hears makes an impression on him, he keeps a record of men’s sayings and doings, and his whole environment is the book from which he unconsciously enriches his memory, till his judgment is able to profit by it.

Without studying books, a child's memory isn't wasted; everything he sees and hears leaves a mark on him. He remembers what people say and do, and his entire surroundings serve as the book from which he unknowingly enhances his memory until he can use it wisely.

To select these objects, to take care to present him constantly with those he may know, to conceal from him those he ought not to know, this is the real way of training his early memory; and in this way you must try to provide him with a storehouse of knowledge which will serve for his education in youth and his conduct throughout life. True, this method does not produce infant prodigies, nor will it reflect glory upon their tutors and governesses, but it produces men, strong, right-thinking men, vigorous both in mind and body, men who do not win admiration as children, but honour as men.

To choose these objects, to carefully show him those he might recognize, and to keep from him those he shouldn’t know about, is the true way to train his early memory; by doing this, you should aim to create a resource of knowledge that will support his education in youth and his behavior throughout life. It's true that this approach doesn't create child prodigies, nor does it bring fame to their tutors and governesses, but it produces strong, rational men, robust in both mind and body, who may not earn admiration as children but gain respect as adults.

Emile will not learn anything by heart, not even fables, not even the fables of La Fontaine, simple and delightful as they are, for the words are no more the fable than the words of history are history. How can people be so blind as to call fables the child’s system of morals, without considering that the child is not only amused by the apologue but misled by it? He is attracted by what is false and he misses the truth, and the means adopted to make the teaching pleasant prevent him profiting by it. Men may be taught by fables; children require the naked truth.

Emile won't memorize anything, not even fables, not even La Fontaine's fables, no matter how simple and charming they are, because the words aren't the story just like the words in history aren't history. How can people be so oblivious as to think of fables as the child's moral guide, without realizing that the child is not only entertained by the story but also misled by it? The child is drawn to what is false and misses the truth, and the methods used to make the lesson enjoyable prevent him from truly benefiting from it. Adults can learn from fables; kids need the bare truth.

All children learn La Fontaine’s fables, but not one of them understands them. It is just as well that they do not understand, for the morality of the fables is so mixed and so unsuitable for their age that it would be more likely to incline them to vice than to virtue. “More paradoxes!” you exclaim. Paradoxes they may be; but let us see if there is not some truth in them.

All kids learn La Fontaine’s fables, but none of them really get it. It’s probably for the best that they don’t understand, because the morals of the fables are so complicated and not really appropriate for their age that they’re more likely to lead them toward bad behavior than good. “More contradictions!” you might say. They may be contradictions; but let’s see if there’s some truth to them.

I maintain that the child does not understand the fables he is taught, for however you try to explain them, the teaching you wish to extract from them demands ideas which he cannot grasp, while the poetical form which makes it easier to remember makes it harder to understand, so that clearness is sacrificed to facility. Without quoting the host of wholly unintelligible and useless fables which are taught to children because they happen to be in the same book as the others, let us keep to those which the author seems to have written specially for children.

I believe that the child doesn't really understand the fables he's taught. No matter how you try to explain them, the lessons you want to draw from them require ideas that he can't grasp. The poetic form that makes it easier to remember actually makes it harder to understand, so clarity is sacrificed for convenience. Without mentioning all the completely unintelligible and pointless fables that are taught to children just because they appear in the same book as the others, let's focus on those that the author seems to have specifically written for children.

In the whole of La Fontaine’s works I only know five or six fables conspicuous for child-like simplicity; I will take the first of these as an example, for it is one whose moral is most suitable for all ages, one which children get hold of with the least difficulty, which they have most pleasure in learning, one which for this very reason the author has placed at the beginning of his book. If his object were really to delight and instruct children, this fable is his masterpiece. Let us go through it and examine it briefly.

In all of La Fontaine’s works, I only know five or six fables that stand out for their simple, child-like charm; I’ll use the first one as an example because its moral is suitable for all ages. It's easy for children to grasp, and they enjoy learning it, which is why the author placed it at the start of his book. If his goal was truly to entertain and educate children, this fable is his best work. Let’s go through it and look at it briefly.

THE FOX AND THE CROW

A FABLE

“Maitre corbeau, sur un arbre perche” (Mr. Crow perched on a tree).—“Mr.!” what does that word really mean? What does it mean before a proper noun? What is its meaning here? What is a crow? What is “un arbre perche”? We do not say “on a tree perched,” but perched on a tree. So we must speak of poetical inversions, we must distinguish between prose and verse.

“Mister Crow, perched on a tree.” — “Mister!” what does that word really mean? What does it mean before a proper noun? What does it mean here? What’s a crow? What does “a tree perched” mean? We don’t say “on a tree perched,” but perched on a tree. So we need to talk about poetic inversions; we have to distinguish between prose and verse.

“Tenait dans son bec un fromage” (Held a cheese in his beak)—What sort of a cheese? Swiss, Brie, or Dutch? If the child has never seen crows, what is the good of talking about them? If he has seen crows will he believe that they can hold a cheese in their beak? Your illustrations should always be taken from nature.

“Held a cheese in his beak”—What kind of cheese? Swiss, Brie, or Dutch? If the child has never seen crows, what’s the point of talking about them? If he has seen crows, will he believe they can hold a cheese in their beak? Your illustrations should always be from nature.

“Maitre renard, par l’odeur alleche” (Mr. Fox, attracted by the smell).—Another Master! But the title suits the fox,—who is master of all the tricks of his trade. You must explain what a fox is, and distinguish between the real fox and the conventional fox of the fables.

“Mister Fox, drawn in by the scent.” —Another master! But the title fits the fox—who is a master of all the tricks of his game. You need to clarify what a fox is and differentiate between the real fox and the fictional fox of the fables.

“Alleche.” The word is obsolete; you will have to explain it. You will say it is only used in verse. Perhaps the child will ask why people talk differently in verse. How will you answer that question?

“Alleche.” That word is out of date; you'll need to explain it. You might say it's only used in poetry. Maybe the child will ask why people speak differently in poetry. How will you respond to that question?

“Alleche, par l’odeur d’un fromage.” The cheese was held in his beak by a crow perched on a tree; it must indeed have smelt strong if the fox, in his thicket or his earth, could smell it. This is the way you train your pupil in that spirit of right judgment, which rejects all but reasonable arguments, and is able to distinguish between truth and falsehood in other tales.

“Alleche, by the smell of a cheese.” The cheese was clutched in the beak of a crow sitting on a tree; it must have really smelled strong if the fox, from his den or lair, could catch a whiff of it. This is how you teach your student to develop that sense of good judgment, which dismisses anything that isn’t a reasonable argument and can tell the difference between truth and lies in other stories.

“Lui tient a peu pres ce langage” (Spoke to him after this fashion).—“Ce langage.” So foxes talk, do they! They talk like crows! Mind what you are about, oh, wise tutor; weigh your answer before you give it, it is more important than you suspect.

“Lui tient à peu près ce langage” (Spoke to him like this).—“Ce langage.” So foxes speak, huh! They speak like crows! Be careful, oh wise tutor; think carefully about your answer before you give it, it’s more important than you realize.

“Eh! Bonjour, Monsieur le Corbeau!” (“Good-day, Mr. Crow!”)—Mr.! The child sees this title laughed to scorn before he knows it is a title of honour. Those who say “Monsieur du Corbeau” will find their work cut out for them to explain that “du.”

“Hey! Good morning, Mr. Crow!”—Mr.! The kid sees this title mocked before he realizes it's a title of respect. Those who say “Mr. du Corbeau” will have their work cut out for them to explain the “du.”

“Que vous etes joli! Que vous me semblez beau!” (“How handsome you are, how beautiful in my eyes!”)—Mere padding. The child, finding the same thing repeated twice over in different words, is learning to speak carelessly. If you say this redundance is a device of the author, a part of the fox’s scheme to make his praise seem all the greater by his flow of words, that is a valid excuse for me, but not for my pupil.

“Wow, you’re so handsome! You look so beautiful to me!”—Just fluff. The child, noticing the same thing repeated in different words, is picking up careless speech. If you say this repetition is a technique used by the author, part of the fox’s plan to make his compliments sound grander with extra words, that’s a valid point for me, but not for my student.

“Sans mentir, si votre ramage” (“Without lying, if your song”).—“Without lying.” So people do tell lies sometimes. What will the child think of you if you tell him the fox only says “Sans mentir” because he is lying?

“Without lying, if your song.” — “Without lying.” So people do lie sometimes. What will the child think of you if you tell him the fox only says “Without lying” because he is lying?

“Se rapporte a votre plumage” (“Answered to your fine feathers”).—“Answered!” What does that mean? Try to make the child compare qualities so different as those of song and plumage; you will see how much he understands.

“Se rapporte à votre plumage” (“Answered to your fine feathers”).—“Answered!” What does that mean? Try to have the child compare such different qualities as song and feathers; you’ll see how much he understands.

“Vous seriez le phenix des hotes de ces bois!” (“You would be the phoenix of all the inhabitants of this wood!”)—The phoenix! What is a phoenix? All of a sudden we are floundering in the lies of antiquity—we are on the edge of mythology.

“Vous seriez le phenix des hotes de ces bois!” (“You would be the phoenix of all the inhabitants of this wood!”)—The phoenix! What is a phoenix? Suddenly, we’re caught up in the myths of the past—we’re stepping into mythology.

“The inhabitants of this wood.” What figurative language! The flatterer adopts the grand style to add dignity to his speech, to make it more attractive. Will the child understand this cunning? Does he know, how could he possibly know, what is meant by grand style and simple style?

“The inhabitants of this wood.” What a figurative expression! The flatterer uses a lofty style to give weight to his words and make them more appealing. Will the child grasp this cleverness? Does he know, how could he possibly know, what is meant by lofty style and simple style?

“A ces mots le corbeau ne se sent pas de joie” (At these words, the crow is beside himself with delight).—To realise the full force of this proverbial expression we must have experienced very strong feeling.

“A ces mots le corbeau ne se sent pas de joie” (At these words, the crow is beside himself with delight).—To understand the full impact of this saying, we need to have experienced very intense emotions.

“Et, pour montrer sa belle voix” (And, to show his fine voice).—Remember that the child, to understand this line and the whole fable, must know what is meant by the crow’s fine voice.

“Et, pour montrer sa belle voix” (And, to show his fine voice).—Remember that the child, to understand this line and the whole fable, must know what is meant by the crow’s fine voice.

“Il ouvre un large bec, laisse tomber sa proie” (He opens his wide beak and drops his prey).—This is a splendid line; its very sound suggests a picture. I see the great big ugly gaping beak, I hear the cheese crashing through the branches; but this kind of beauty is thrown away upon children.

“He opens his wide beak and drops his prey.” — This is a great line; its sound paints a picture. I see the huge, ugly, gaping beak, I hear the cheese crashing through the branches; but this kind of beauty is lost on children.

“Le renard s’en saisit, et dit, ‘Mon bon monsieur’” (The fox catches it, and says, “My dear sir”).—So kindness is already folly. You certainly waste no time in teaching your children.

“Le renard s’en saisit, et dit, ‘Mon bon monsieur’” (The fox catches it, and says, “My good sir”).—So kindness is already foolishness. You certainly don’t waste any time teaching your children.

“Apprenez que tout flatteur” (“You must learn that every flatterer”).—A general maxim. The child can make neither head nor tail of it.

“Learn that every flatterer.” — A general maxim. The child can't make sense of it.

“Vit au depens de celui qui l’ecoute” (“Lives at the expense of the person who listens to his flattery”).—No child of ten ever understood that.

“Lives at the expense of the person who listens to his flattery.” — No ten-year-old ever understood that.

“Ce lecon vaut bien un fromage, sans doute” (“No doubt this lesson is well worth a cheese”).—This is intelligible and its meaning is very good. Yet there are few children who could compare a cheese and a lesson, few who would not prefer the cheese. You will therefore have to make them understand that this is said in mockery. What subtlety for a child!

“Cette leçon vaut bien un fromage, sans doute” (“No doubt this lesson is worth a cheese”).—This is clear and makes perfect sense. Still, there are few kids who could compare cheese and a lesson, and even fewer who wouldn’t choose the cheese. So, you’ll need to help them understand that this is said in jest. What a subtle concept for a child!

“Le corbeau, honteux et confus” (The crow, ashamed and confused).—A nothing pleonasm, and there is no excuse for it this time.

“Le corbeau, honteux et confus” (The crow, ashamed and confused).—It's just a pointless redundancy, and there's no justification for it this time.

“Jura, mais un peu tard, qu’on ne l’y prendrait plus” (Swore, but rather too late, that he would not be caught in that way again).—“Swore.” What master will be such a fool as to try to explain to a child the meaning of an oath?

“Swore, but a bit too late, that he wouldn't be trapped like that again.” — “Swore.” What kind of teacher would be silly enough to try to explain to a child what an oath means?

What a host of details! but much more would be needed for the analysis of all the ideas in this fable and their reduction to the simple and elementary ideas of which each is composed. But who thinks this analysis necessary to make himself intelligible to children? Who of us is philosopher enough to be able to put himself in the child’s place? Let us now proceed to the moral.

What a lot of details! But a lot more would be needed to break down all the ideas in this fable and simplify them into the basic elements that make them up. But who thinks this breakdown is necessary to make themselves clear to children? Who among us is philosophical enough to put themselves in a child's shoes? Now, let’s move on to the moral.

Should we teach a six-year-old child that there are people who flatter and lie for the sake of gain? One might perhaps teach them that there are people who make fools of little boys and laugh at their foolish vanity behind their backs. But the whole thing is spoilt by the cheese. You are teaching them how to make another drop his cheese rather than how to keep their own. This is my second paradox, and it is not less weighty than the former one.

Should we teach a six-year-old child that some people flatter and lie for personal gain? Maybe we could explain that there are those who make fools of little boys and laugh at their foolish pride behind their backs. But the whole message gets messed up by the cheese. You’re teaching them how to make someone else drop their cheese instead of how to keep their own. This is my second paradox, and it’s just as significant as the first one.

Watch children learning their fables and you will see that when they have a chance of applying them they almost always use them exactly contrary to the author’s meaning; instead of being on their guard against the fault which you would prevent or cure, they are disposed to like the vice by which one takes advantage of another’s defects. In the above fable children laugh at the crow, but they all love the fox. In the next fable you expect them to follow the example of the grasshopper. Not so, they will choose the ant. They do not care to abase themselves, they will always choose the principal part—this is the choice of self-love, a very natural choice. But what a dreadful lesson for children! There could be no monster more detestable than a harsh and avaricious child, who realised what he was asked to give and what he refused. The ant does more; she teaches him not merely to refuse but to revile.

Watch kids learning their fables, and you'll see that when they get the chance to use them, they often interpret them in the opposite way from the author’s intent. Instead of being cautious about the flaw you want to prevent or fix, they tend to embrace the vice that exploits someone else's shortcomings. In the fable mentioned, kids laugh at the crow but love the fox. In the next fable, you’d think they’d follow the grasshopper's example, but no, they’ll pick the ant instead. They don't want to belittle themselves; they always want to be the main character—this choice reflects self-love, which is a natural instinct. But what a terrible lesson for children! There could be no more detestable monster than a harsh and greedy child who understands what they're being asked to give and what they refuse. The ant does even more; she teaches him not just to refuse, but to insult.

In all the fables where the lion plays a part, usually the chief part, the child pretends to be the lion, and when he has to preside over some distribution of good things, he takes care to keep everything for himself; but when the lion is overthrown by the gnat, the child is the gnat. He learns how to sting to death those whom he dare not attack openly.

In all the fables where the lion is featured, usually in the leading role, the child pretends to be the lion. And when he has to oversee the distribution of goodies, he makes sure to keep everything for himself; but when the lion is defeated by the gnat, the child becomes the gnat. He learns how to secretly harm those he doesn’t dare confront openly.

From the fable of the sleek dog and the starving wolf he learns a lesson of licence rather than the lesson of moderation which you profess to teach him. I shall never forget seeing a little girl weeping bitterly over this tale, which had been told her as a lesson in obedience. The poor child hated to be chained up; she felt the chain chafing her neck; she was crying because she was not a wolf.

From the story of the slick dog and the starving wolf, he learns a lesson about indulgence instead of the lesson of moderation that you claim to teach him. I will always remember seeing a little girl crying hard over this tale, which was presented to her as a lesson in obedience. The poor child hated being tied up; she could feel the chain rubbing against her neck; she was crying because she wasn’t a wolf.

So from the first of these fables the child learns the basest flattery; from the second, cruelty; from the third, injustice; from the fourth, satire; from the fifth, insubordination. The last of these lessons is no more suitable for your pupils than for mine, though he has no use for it. What results do you expect to get from your teaching when it contradicts itself! But perhaps the same system of morals which furnishes me with objections against the fables supplies you with as many reasons for keeping to them. Society requires a rule of morality in our words; it also requires a rule of morality in our deeds; and these two rules are quite different. The former is contained in the Catechism and it is left there; the other is contained in La Fontaine’s fables for children and his tales for mothers. The same author does for both.

So from the first of these fables, the child learns the lowest form of flattery; from the second, cruelty; from the third, injustice; from the fourth, satire; and from the fifth, defiance. The last of these lessons is just as unsuitable for your students as it is for mine, even if he has no need for it. What results do you think you’ll get from your teaching when it contradicts itself? But maybe the same moral framework that gives me reasons to oppose the fables provides you with just as many reasons to stick with them. Society demands a moral code in our words; it also demands a moral code in our actions, and these two codes are quite different. The first is found in the Catechism, and it stays there; the second is found in La Fontaine’s fables for kids and his tales for mothers. The same author is behind both.

Let us make a bargain, M. de la Fontaine. For my own part, I undertake to make your books my favourite study; I undertake to love you, and to learn from your fables, for I hope I shall not mistake their meaning. As to my pupil, permit me to prevent him studying any one of them till you have convinced me that it is good for him to learn things three-fourths of which are unintelligible to him, and until you can convince me that in those fables he can understand he will never reverse the order and imitate the villain instead of taking warning from his dupe.

Let's make a deal, M. de la Fontaine. I promise to make your books my favorite study; I promise to appreciate you and learn from your fables, as I hope I won't misinterpret their meaning. As for my student, please allow me to prevent him from studying any of them until you can prove to me that it's beneficial for him to learn things that he won't understand most of. Also, until you can show me that in the fables he can grasp, he won't end up imitating the villain instead of learning a lesson from the victim.

When I thus get rid of children’s lessons, I get rid of the chief cause of their sorrows, namely their books. Reading is the curse of childhood, yet it is almost the only occupation you can find for children. Emile, at twelve years old, will hardly know what a book is. “But,” you say, “he must, at least, know how to read.”

When I finally get rid of kids' lessons, I remove the main source of their troubles, which are their books. Reading is a burden of childhood, yet it's nearly the only thing to keep kids occupied. Emile, at twelve years old, will barely know what a book is. “But,” you say, “he has to know how to read.”

When reading is of use to him, I admit he must learn to read, but till then he will only find it a nuisance.

When reading is beneficial to him, I agree he needs to learn to read, but until then, he will just see it as a hassle.

If children are not to be required to do anything as a matter of obedience, it follows that they will only learn what they perceive to be of real and present value, either for use or enjoyment; what other motive could they have for learning? The art of speaking to our absent friends, of hearing their words; the art of letting them know at first hand our feelings, our desires, and our longings, is an art whose usefulness can be made plain at any age. How is it that this art, so useful and pleasant in itself, has become a terror to children? Because the child is compelled to acquire it against his will, and to use it for purposes beyond his comprehension. A child has no great wish to perfect himself in the use of an instrument of torture, but make it a means to his pleasure, and soon you will not be able to keep him from it.

If kids aren't required to do anything just out of obedience, they'll only learn what they see as truly valuable and relevant, whether for practical use or enjoyment. What other reason would they have for learning? The skill of communicating with our friends who aren't around, of hearing their words; the skill of expressing our feelings, desires, and longings directly to them is something that can be appreciated at any age. So why has this skill, which is so useful and enjoyable on its own, become a fear for children? Because they are forced to learn it against their will and to use it for purposes they don’t fully understand. A child doesn't really want to master an instrument of torture, but turn it into something pleasurable, and soon you won’t be able to keep them away from it.

People make a great fuss about discovering the beat way to teach children to read. They invent “bureaux” [Footnote: Translator’s note.—The “bureau” was a sort of case containing letters to be put together to form words. It was a favourite device for the teaching of reading and gave its name to a special method, called the bureau-method, of learning to read.] and cards, they turn the nursery into a printer’s shop. Locke would have them taught to read by means of dice. What a fine idea! And the pity of it! There is a better way than any of those, and one which is generally overlooked—it consists in the desire to learn. Arouse this desire in your scholar and have done with your “bureaux” and your dice—any method will serve.

People make a big deal about finding the best way to teach kids how to read. They create "bureaus" [Footnote: Translator’s note.—The “bureau” was a case containing letters to be put together to form words. It was a popular method for teaching reading and gave its name to a specific technique called the bureau-method.] and cards, turning the nursery into a printing shop. Locke suggested teaching reading with dice. What a great idea! And what a shame! There's a better way than any of those, which is often overlooked—it’s the desire to learn. Spark this desire in your student, and forget about your “bureaus” and dice—any method will work.

Present interest, that is the motive power, the only motive power that takes us far and safely. Sometimes Emile receives notes of invitation from his father or mother, his relations or friends; he is invited to a dinner, a walk, a boating expedition, to see some public entertainment. These notes are short, clear, plain, and well written. Some one must read them to him, and he cannot always find anybody when wanted; no more consideration is shown to him than he himself showed to you yesterday. Time passes, the chance is lost. The note is read to him at last, but it is too late. Oh! if only he had known how to read! He receives other notes, so short, so interesting, he would like to try to read them. Sometimes he gets help, sometimes none. He does his best, and at last he makes out half the note; it is something about going to-morrow to drink cream—Where? With whom? He cannot tell—how hard he tries to make out the rest! I do not think Emile will need a “bureau.” Shall I proceed to the teaching of writing? No, I am ashamed to toy with these trifles in a treatise on education.

Present interest is the driving force, the only force that propels us forward safely. Sometimes Emile gets invitation notes from his dad, mom, relatives, or friends; he’s invited to dinner, a walk, a boating trip, or to see some public show. These notes are short, clear, and well-written. Someone needs to read them to him, but he can't always find anyone when he needs help; he gets no more consideration than he showed you yesterday. Time passes, and the opportunity is missed. The note is finally read to him, but it’s too late. Oh, if only he had learned to read! He receives other notes, just as short and intriguing, and he wants to try to read them. Sometimes he gets help, sometimes he doesn’t. He does his best, and eventually, he figures out half of the note; it’s something about going tomorrow to drink cream—Where? With whom? He can’t tell—he tries so hard to understand the rest! I don’t think Emile will need a “department.” Should I move on to teaching him how to write? No, I feel embarrassed to dabble in these minor topics in a discussion about education.

I will just add a few words which contain a principle of great importance. It is this—What we are in no hurry to get is usually obtained with speed and certainty. I am pretty sure Emile will learn to read and write before he is ten, just because I care very little whether he can do so before he is fifteen; but I would rather he never learnt to read at all, than that this art should be acquired at the price of all that makes reading useful. What is the use of reading to him if he always hates it? “Id imprimis cavere oportebit, ne studia, qui amare nondum potest, oderit, et amaritudinem semel perceptam etiam ultra rudes annos reformidet.”—Quintil.

I'll just add a few words that express a very important principle. It's this—What we aren’t in a rush to get is usually achieved quickly and reliably. I’m pretty sure Emile will learn to read and write before he turns ten, simply because I don’t care much if he can do it before he’s fifteen; but I’d prefer that he never learns to read at all than to learn this skill at the expense of everything that makes reading valuable. What’s the point of reading for him if he always dislikes it? “First of all, we must be careful that he who cannot yet love his studies does not come to hate them, and that the bitterness once experienced lingers even into later years.”—Quintil.

The more I urge my method of letting well alone, the more objections I perceive against it. If your pupil learns nothing from you, he will learn from others. If you do not instil truth he will learn falsehoods; the prejudices you fear to teach him he will acquire from those about him, they will find their way through every one of his senses; they will either corrupt his reason before it is fully developed or his mind will become torpid through inaction, and will become engrossed in material things. If we do not form the habit of thinking as children, we shall lose the power of thinking for the rest of our life.

The more I advocate for my approach of leaving things as they are, the more objections I see against it. If your student learns nothing from you, they'll learn from others. If you don't teach them the truth, they'll pick up lies; the biases you’re afraid to teach them will come from those around them—they'll seep in through all their senses. This will either corrupt their reasoning before it’s fully developed or make their minds dull from inactivity, becoming caught up in material things. If we don’t instill the habit of thinking as children, we’ll lose the ability to think for the rest of our lives.

I fancy I could easily answer that objection, but why should I answer every objection? If my method itself answers your objections, it is good; if not, it is good for nothing. I continue my explanation.

I think I could easily address that objection, but why should I respond to every single one? If my method itself addresses your objections, then it's valid; if it doesn't, then it's useless. I’ll continue with my explanation.

If, in accordance with the plan I have sketched, you follow rules which are just the opposite of the established practice, if instead of taking your scholar far afield, instead of wandering with him in distant places, in far-off lands, in remote centuries, in the ends of the earth, and in the very heavens themselves, you try to keep him to himself, to his own concerns, you will then find him able to perceive, to remember, and even to reason; this is nature’s order. As the sentient being becomes active his discernment develops along with his strength. Not till his strength is in excess of what is needed for self-preservation, is the speculative faculty developed, the faculty adapted for using this superfluous strength for other purposes. Would you cultivate your pupil’s intelligence, cultivate the strength it is meant to control. Give his body constant exercise, make it strong and healthy, in order to make him good and wise; let him work, let him do things, let him run and shout, let him be always on the go; make a man of him in strength, and he will soon be a man in reason.

If you follow the plan I’ve laid out and do the opposite of traditional methods, instead of taking your student to distant lands, remote times, and even the heavens, and instead keeping him focused on himself and his own interests, you'll find that he can understand, remember, and even think critically; this is how nature works. As a living being becomes more active, his ability to discern grows alongside his strength. The ability to think critically only develops when his strength exceeds what's needed for survival, allowing him to use that extra strength for other purposes. If you want to nurture your student's intelligence, you need to develop the strength it’s meant to harness. Give his body regular exercise to make him strong and healthy, which will help him become good and wise; let him work, let him engage in activities, let him run and shout, and keep him active; build his physical strength, and he will soon become strong in reasoning as well.

Of course by this method you will make him stupid if you are always giving him directions, always saying come here, go there, stop, do this, don’t do that. If your head always guides his hands, his own mind will become useless. But remember the conditions we laid down; if you are a mere pedant it is not worth your while to read my book.

Of course, using this approach will make him dumb if you're constantly giving him directions, always saying come here, go there, stop, do this, don’t do that. If your head is always guiding his hands, his own mind will become useless. But remember the conditions we established; if you’re just a know-it-all, it’s not worth your time to read my book.

It is a lamentable mistake to imagine that bodily activity hinders the working of the mind, as if these two kinds of activity ought not to advance hand in hand, and as if the one were not intended to act as guide to the other.

It’s a regrettable mistake to think that physical activity interferes with the mind's work, as if these two types of activity shouldn’t progress together, and as if one wasn’t meant to guide the other.

There are two classes of men who are constantly engaged in bodily activity, peasants and savages, and certainly neither of these pays the least attention to the cultivation of the mind. Peasants are rough, coarse, and clumsy; savages are noted, not only for their keen senses, but for great subtility of mind. Speaking generally, there is nothing duller than a peasant or sharper than a savage. What is the cause of this difference? The peasant has always done as he was told, what his father did before him, what he himself has always done; he is the creature of habit, he spends his life almost like an automaton on the same tasks; habit and obedience have taken the place of reason.

There are two groups of people who are always busy with physical work: farmers and tribal people. Neither group really focuses on developing their minds. Farmers tend to be rough, clumsy, and unrefined; tribal people, on the other hand, are known for their sharp senses and clever minds. Generally speaking, there's nothing duller than a farmer and nothing sharper than a tribal person. What causes this difference? Farmers have always followed what they were told, just like their parents did before them, and they continue to do the same things they've always done. They become creatures of habit, going through their lives almost like machines, repeating the same tasks; in their case, routine and obedience replace critical thinking.

The case of the savage is very different; he is tied to no one place, he has no prescribed task, no superior to obey, he knows no law but his own will; he is therefore forced to reason at every step he takes. He can neither move nor walk without considering the consequences. Thus the more his body is exercised, the more alert is his mind; his strength and his reason increase together, and each helps to develop the other.

The situation with the savage is quite different; he isn’t tied to one location, has no set duties, no authority to follow, and follows only his own rules. Because of this, he must think carefully about every move he makes. He can't move or walk without weighing the outcomes. Therefore, the more active his body is, the sharper his mind becomes; his physical strength and reasoning grow together, each one supporting the other.

Oh, learned tutor, let us see which of our two scholars is most like the savage and which is most like the peasant. Your scholar is subject to a power which is continually giving him instruction; he acts only at the word of command; he dare not eat when he is hungry, nor laugh when he is merry, nor weep when he is sad, nor offer one hand rather than the other, nor stir a foot unless he is told to do it; before long he will not venture to breathe without orders. What would you have him think about, when you do all the thinking for him? He rests securely on your foresight, why should he think for himself? He knows you have undertaken to take care of him, to secure his welfare, and he feels himself freed from this responsibility. His judgment relies on yours; what you have not forbidden that he does, knowing that he runs no risk. Why should he learn the signs of rain? He knows you watch the clouds for him. Why should he time his walk? He knows there is no fear of your letting him miss his dinner hour. He eats till you tell him to stop, he stops when you tell him to do so; he does not attend to the teaching of his own stomach, but yours. In vain do you make his body soft by inaction; his understanding does not become subtle. Far from it, you complete your task of discrediting reason in his eyes, by making him use such reasoning power as he has on the things which seem of least importance to him. As he never finds his reason any use to him, he decides at last that it is useless. If he reasons badly he will be found fault with; nothing worse will happen to him; and he has been found fault with so often that he pays no attention to it, such a common danger no longer alarms him.

Oh, wise teacher, let’s figure out which of our two students is more like a savage and which is more like a peasant. Your student is under constant instruction; he only acts when he’s told to. He can't eat when he's hungry, laugh when he's happy, cry when he's sad, or use one hand instead of the other. He won't even move a foot without permission; soon enough, he won't dare to breathe without orders. What can he think about when you do all the thinking for him? He relies on your guidance, so why would he think for himself? He knows you’re taking care of him, ensuring his well-being, and he feels relieved of that responsibility. His judgment is based on yours; he does what you haven't forbidden, knowing there's little risk involved. Why should he learn to read the weather? He knows you’ll watch the clouds for him. Why should he pay attention to when to go out? He knows you won’t let him miss his meal time. He eats until you tell him to stop, and he stops when you say so; he doesn’t listen to his own body but to yours. No matter how much you make his body soft with idleness, his understanding doesn’t sharpen. Instead, you undermine his reasoning by making him use whatever limited reasoning he has on trivial matters. Since he never finds his reasoning helpful, he eventually concludes it’s pointless. If he reasons poorly, he’ll be criticized; nothing worse will happen to him. He’s been criticized so many times that he ignores it; this common danger no longer frightens him.

Yet you will find he has a mind. He is quick enough to chatter with the women in the way I spoke of further back; but if he is in danger, if he must come to a decision in difficult circumstances, you will find him a hundredfold more stupid and silly than the son of the roughest labourer.

Yet you’ll see he has some brains. He’s chatty enough to talk with the women like I mentioned earlier; but if he’s in trouble, if he has to make a choice in tough situations, you’ll find him a hundred times more clueless and foolish than the son of the toughest worker.

As for my pupil, or rather Nature’s pupil, he has been trained from the outset to be as self-reliant as possible, he has not formed the habit of constantly seeking help from others, still less of displaying his stores of learning. On the other hand, he exercises discrimination and forethought, he reasons about everything that concerns himself. He does not chatter, he acts. Not a word does he know of what is going on in the world at large, but he knows very thoroughly what affects himself. As he is always stirring he is compelled to notice many things, to recognise many effects; he soon acquires a good deal of experience. Nature, not man, is his schoolmaster, and he learns all the quicker because he is not aware that he has any lesson to learn. So mind and body work together. He is always carrying out his own ideas, not those of other people, and thus he unites thought and action; as he grows in health and strength he grows in wisdom and discernment. This is the way to attain later on to what is generally considered incompatible, though most great men have achieved it, strength of body and strength of mind, the reason of the philosopher and the vigour of the athlete.

As for my student, or rather Nature's student, he has been trained from the beginning to be as independent as possible. He hasn't developed the habit of always seeking help from others, let alone showing off his knowledge. On the flip side, he exercises good judgment and forethought; he thinks critically about everything that affects him. He doesn't just talk; he takes action. He might not know much about what's happening in the world at large, but he understands very well what impacts him personally. Since he’s always active, he notices a lot and recognizes many effects, quickly gaining a lot of experience. Nature, not people, is his teacher, and he learns even faster because he doesn't realize he has lessons to learn. His mind and body work together. He always pursues his own ideas, not those of others, which helps him combine thought and action. As he grows in health and strength, he also grows in wisdom and insight. This is the way to eventually achieve what is often seen as incompatible, though many great individuals have managed it: the strength of body and mind, the reasoning of a philosopher and the energy of an athlete.

Young teacher, I am setting before you a difficult task, the art of controlling without precepts, and doing everything without doing anything at all. This art is, I confess, beyond your years, it is not calculated to display your talents nor to make your value known to your scholar’s parents; but it is the only road to success. You will never succeed in making wise men if you do not first make little imps of mischief. This was the education of the Spartans; they were not taught to stick to their books, they were set to steal their dinners. Were they any the worse for it in after life? Ever ready for victory, they crushed their foes in every kind of warfare, and the prating Athenians were as much afraid of their words as of their blows.

Young teacher, I’m presenting you with a tough challenge: the skill of guiding without rules, and achieving everything by doing nothing at all. I admit, this skill is beyond your experience; it won’t showcase your talents or help you impress your students’ parents, but it’s the only path to success. You won’t be able to raise wise individuals if you don’t first create little troublemakers. This was how the Spartans were educated; they weren’t told to stick to their textbooks; they were encouraged to steal their meals. Did that make them any worse in later life? Always ready for victory, they defeated their enemies in all kinds of battles, and the chatterbox Athenians feared their words as much as their blows.

When education is most carefully attended to, the teacher issues his orders and thinks himself master, but it is the child who is really master. He uses the tasks you set him to obtain what he wants from you, and he can always make you pay for an hour’s industry by a week’s complaisance. You must always be making bargains with him. These bargains, suggested in your fashion, but carried out in his, always follow the direction of his own fancies, especially when you are foolish enough to make the condition some advantage he is almost sure to obtain, whether he fulfils his part of the bargain or not. The child is usually much quicker to read the master’s thoughts than the master to read the child’s feelings. And that is as it should be, for all the sagacity which the child would have devoted to self-preservation, had he been left to himself, is now devoted to the rescue of his native freedom from the chains of his tyrant; while the latter, who has no such pressing need to understand the child, sometimes finds that it pays him better to leave him in idleness or vanity.

When education is taken seriously, the teacher thinks they’re in charge, but it’s actually the child who holds the power. The child uses the tasks assigned to them to get what they want from you, and they can always make you trade an hour of effort for a week of compliance. You’re constantly negotiating with them. These deals, suggested in your way but executed in theirs, always align with their own interests, especially when you're naive enough to tie the condition to something they’re likely to achieve, regardless of whether they keep their end of the deal. The child is usually much quicker to understand the teacher’s intentions than the teacher is to grasp the child’s emotions. And that’s how it should be, because all the cleverness the child would have spent on looking out for themselves, if left to their own devices, is now focused on reclaiming their freedom from their oppressor; while the teacher, who doesn’t have the same urgent need to understand the child, often finds it’s easier to let them be unproductive or self-absorbed.

Take the opposite course with your pupil; let him always think he is master while you are really master. There is no subjection so complete as that which preserves the forms of freedom; it is thus that the will itself is taken captive. Is not this poor child, without knowledge, strength, or wisdom, entirely at your mercy? Are you not master of his whole environment so far as it affects him? Cannot you make of him what you please? His work and play, his pleasure and pain, are they not, unknown to him, under your control? No doubt he ought only to do what he wants, but he ought to want to do nothing but what you want him to do. He should never take a step you have not foreseen, nor utter a word you could not foretell.

Take the opposite approach with your student; let him always believe he is in control while you are really in charge. There’s no form of control as complete as one that maintains the appearance of freedom; that’s how the will itself is captured. Isn’t this poor child, lacking knowledge, strength, or wisdom, entirely at your mercy? Aren’t you in control of his entire environment as it impacts him? Can’t you shape him into whatever you want? His work and play, his joy and suffering, aren’t they all, unbeknownst to him, under your influence? Of course, he should only do what he wants, but he should want to do nothing but what you want him to do. He should never take a step you haven’t anticipated, nor say a word you couldn’t predict.

Then he can devote himself to the bodily exercises adapted to his age without brutalising his mind; instead of developing his cunning to evade an unwelcome control, you will then find him entirely occupied in getting the best he can out of his environment with a view to his present welfare, and you will be surprised by the subtlety of the means he devises to get for himself such things as he can obtain, and to really enjoy things without the aid of other people’s ideas. You leave him master of his own wishes, but you do not multiply his caprices. When he only does what he wants, he will soon only do what he ought, and although his body is constantly in motion, so far as his sensible and present interests are concerned, you will find him developing all the reason of which he is capable, far better and in a manner much better fitted for him than in purely theoretical studies.

Then he can focus on physical activities suitable for his age without dulling his mind; instead of getting clever at avoiding unwanted control, you'll find him fully engaged in making the most of his surroundings for his current well-being. You'll be amazed at the clever ways he figures out how to get what he wants and truly enjoy things without relying on other people's ideas. You leave him in charge of his own desires, but you don't increase his whims. When he only does what he wants, he'll soon only do what he should, and even though his body is always moving in terms of what interests him, you'll see him developing all the reasoning he is capable of, much more effectively and in a way that suits him better than through purely theoretical studies.

Thus when he does not find you continually thwarting him, when he no longer distrusts you, no longer has anything to conceal from you, he will neither tell you lies nor deceive you; he will show himself fearlessly as he really is, and you can study him at your ease, and surround him with all the lessons you would have him learn, without awaking his suspicions.

Thus, when he no longer sees you as a constant obstacle, when he trusts you completely and has nothing to hide, he won’t lie to you or trick you; he will reveal his true self without fear, and you can observe him comfortably, surrounding him with all the lessons you want him to learn, without raising his suspicions.

Neither will he keep a curious and jealous eye on your own conduct, nor take a secret delight in catching you at fault. It is a great thing to avoid this. One of the child’s first objects is, as I have said, to find the weak spots in its rulers. Though this leads to spitefulness, it does not arise from it, but from the desire to evade a disagreeable control. Overburdened by the yoke laid upon him, he tries to shake it off, and the faults he finds in his master give him a good opportunity for this. Still the habit of spying out faults and delighting in them grows upon people. Clearly we have stopped another of the springs of vice in Emile’s heart. Having nothing to gain from my faults, he will not be on the watch for them, nor will he be tempted to look out for the faults of others.

He won't keep a close and jealous eye on your behavior or take secret pleasure in catching you out. It's really important to avoid that. One of the child's main goals, as I mentioned, is to find the weaknesses in those who lead them. While this can lead to bitterness, it doesn’t come from that; instead, it arises from the desire to escape an uncomfortable control. Feeling weighed down by the burden placed on him, he tries to shake it off, and the flaws he discovers in his authority figure provide a good chance to do so. However, the tendency to seek out faults and find joy in them grows on people. Clearly, we've prevented another source of wrongdoing in Emile’s heart. Since he has nothing to gain from my faults, he won't be looking for them, nor will he be tempted to watch for the faults of others.

All these methods seem difficult because they are new to us, but they ought not to be really difficult. I have a right to assume that you have the knowledge required for the business you have chosen; that you know the usual course of development of the human thought, that you can study mankind and man, that you know beforehand the effect on your pupil’s will of the various objects suited to his age which you put before him. You have the tools and the art to use them; are you not master of your trade?

All these methods might seem hard because they’re new to us, but they shouldn't actually be that difficult. I have every reason to believe that you have the knowledge needed for the profession you've chosen; that you understand the typical development of human thought, that you can study humanity and individuals, and that you know in advance how different things suitable for your student's age will affect their will. You have the tools and the skills to use them; aren’t you the expert in your field?

You speak of childish caprice; you are mistaken. Children’s caprices are never the work of nature, but of bad discipline; they have either obeyed or given orders, and I have said again and again, they must do neither. Your pupil will have the caprices you have taught him; it is fair you should bear the punishment of your own faults. “But how can I cure them?” do you say? That may still be done by better conduct on your own part and great patience. I once undertook the charge of a child for a few weeks; he was accustomed not only to have his own way, but to make every one else do as he pleased; he was therefore capricious. The very first day he wanted to get up at midnight, to try how far he could go with me. When I was sound asleep he jumped out of bed, got his dressing-gown, and waked me up. I got up and lighted the candle, which was all he wanted. After a quarter of an hour he became sleepy and went back to bed quite satisfied with his experiment. Two days later he repeated it, with the same success and with no sign of impatience on my part. When he kissed me as he lay down, I said to him very quietly, “My little dear, this is all very well, but do not try it again.” His curiosity was aroused by this, and the very next day he did not fail to get up at the same time and woke me to see whether I should dare to disobey him. I asked what he wanted, and he told me he could not sleep. “So much the worse for you,” I replied, and I lay quiet. He seemed perplexed by this way of speaking. He felt his way to the flint and steel and tried to strike a light. I could not help laughing when I heard him strike his fingers. Convinced at last that he could not manage it, he brought the steel to my bed; I told him I did not want it, and I turned my back to him. Then he began to rush wildly about the room, shouting, singing, making a great noise, knocking against chairs and tables, but taking, however, good care not to hurt himself seriously, but screaming loudly in the hope of alarming me. All this had no effect, but I perceived that though he was prepared for scolding or anger, he was quite unprepared for indifference.

You talk about childish whims; you're mistaken. Kids' whims are not natural, but a result of poor discipline; they either follow orders or give them, and I've said time and again, they shouldn't do either. Your student will have the whims you've taught him; it's only fair that you face the consequences of your own mistakes. “But how can I fix this?” you ask? It can still be done through better behavior on your part and a lot of patience. I once looked after a child for a few weeks; he was used to having his own way and making everyone else do what he wanted, so he was quite capricious. On the very first day, he wanted to get up at midnight to see how far he could push me. While I was sound asleep, he jumped out of bed, got his bathrobe, and woke me up. I got up and lit the candle, which was all he needed. After about fifteen minutes, he got sleepy and went back to bed, satisfied with his little experiment. Two days later, he did it again, achieving the same result with no impatience from me. When he kissed me as he settled down, I calmly said, “My little dear, this is fine, but don't try it again.” This piqued his curiosity, and the very next day, he got up at the same time and woke me up to see if I would dare to ignore him. I asked what he wanted, and he said he couldn't sleep. “Too bad for you,” I replied, and I stayed quiet. He seemed confused by my response. He fumbled for the flint and steel and tried to light it. I couldn't help but laugh when I heard him hit his fingers. Finally realizing he couldn't get it to work, he brought the steel to my bed; I told him I didn't want it and turned away from him. Then he started running around the room, shouting, singing, making a lot of noise, bumping into chairs and tables but being careful not to hurt himself too seriously, just screaming loudly to try to scare me. None of this worked, but I noticed that although he expected scolding or anger, he was completely unprepared for indifference.

However, he was determined to overcome my patience with his own obstinacy, and he continued his racket so successfully that at last I lost my temper. I foresaw that I should spoil the whole business by an unseemly outburst of passion. I determined on another course. I got up quietly, went to the tinder box, but could not find it; I asked him for it, and he gave it me, delighted to have won the victory over me. I struck a light, lighted the candle, took my young gentleman by the hand and led him quietly into an adjoining dressing-room with the shutters firmly fastened, and nothing he could break.

However, he was determined to push my patience with his stubbornness, and he kept making a racket so effectively that I eventually lost my temper. I knew that I would ruin everything with an inappropriate outburst of anger. I decided to take a different approach. I got up quietly, went to the tinderbox, but couldn't find it; I asked him for it, and he happily handed it over, pleased to have gotten the better of me. I struck a light, lit the candle, took the young man by the hand, and led him calmly into an adjoining dressing room with the shutters securely fastened and nothing he could break.

I left him there without a light; then locking him in I went back to my bed without a word. What a noise there was! That was what I expected, and took no notice. At last the noise ceased; I listened, heard him settling down, and I was quite easy about him. Next morning I entered the room at daybreak, and my little rebel was lying on a sofa enjoying a sound and much needed sleep after his exertions.

I left him there in the dark, locked the door, and went back to bed without saying a word. There was so much noise! Just as I expected, so I ignored it. Eventually, the noise stopped; I listened and heard him settling down, and I felt calm about him. The next morning, I entered the room at dawn, and my little rebel was on the sofa, sound asleep and finally getting the rest he needed after all his efforts.

The matter did not end there. His mother heard that the child had spent a great part of the night out of bed. That spoilt the whole thing; her child was as good as dead. Finding a good chance for revenge, he pretended to be ill, not seeing that he would gain nothing by it. They sent for the doctor. Unluckily for the mother, the doctor was a practical joker, and to amuse himself with her terrors he did his best to increase them. However, he whispered to me, “Leave it to me, I promise to cure the child of wanting to be ill for some time to come.” As a matter of fact he prescribed bed and dieting, and the child was handed over to the apothecary. I sighed to see the mother cheated on every hand except by me, whom she hated because I did not deceive her.

The situation didn't stop there. His mother found out that the child had spent a big part of the night out of bed. That ruined everything; her child felt like he was as good as dead. Looking for a chance for revenge, he pretended to be sick, not realizing he wouldn't gain anything from it. They called the doctor. Unfortunately for the mother, the doctor was a practical joker, and to entertain himself with her fears, he did everything he could to heighten them. However, he whispered to me, “Leave it to me, I promise to get the child to stop wanting to be sick for a while.” In reality, he prescribed bed rest and a diet, and the child was handed over to the pharmacist. I sighed, seeing the mother being deceived at every turn except by me, the one she despised because I didn’t trick her.

After pretty severe reproaches, she told me her son was delicate, that he was the sole heir of the family, his life must be preserved at all costs, and she would not have him contradicted. In that I thoroughly agreed with her, but what she meant by contradicting was not obeying him in everything. I saw I should have to treat the mother as I had treated the son. “Madam,” I said coldly, “I do not know how to educate the heir to a fortune, and what is more, I do not mean to study that art. You can take that as settled.” I was wanted for some days longer, and the father smoothed things over. The mother wrote to the tutor to hasten his return, and the child, finding he got nothing by disturbing my rest, nor yet by being ill, decided at last to get better and to go to sleep.

After some pretty serious criticism, she told me her son was fragile, that he was the only heir of the family, his life had to be protected at all costs, and she wouldn’t allow him to be disagreed with. I completely agreed with her on that point, but what she meant by disagreeing was not doing everything he said. I realized I would have to treat the mother the same way I treated the son. “Ma’am,” I said calmly, “I don’t know how to raise the heir to a fortune, and what’s more, I don’t intend to learn that skill. You can consider that settled.” I was needed for a few more days, and the father smoothed things over. The mother wrote to the tutor asking him to return quickly, and the child, realizing that disturbing my rest or being sick didn’t benefit him, finally decided to get better and go to sleep.

You can form no idea of the number of similar caprices to which the little tyrant had subjected his unlucky tutor; for his education was carried on under his mother’s eye, and she would not allow her son and heir to be disobeyed in anything. Whenever he wanted to go out, you must be ready to take him, or rather to follow him, and he always took good care to choose the time when he knew his tutor was very busy. He wished to exercise the same power over me and to avenge himself by day for having to leave me in peace at night. I gladly agreed and began by showing plainly how pleased I was to give him pleasure; after that when it was a matter of curing him of his fancies I set about it differently.

You can’t imagine how many similar whims the little tyrant put his poor tutor through; his education happened under his mother’s watchful eye, and she wouldn’t let her son and heir be disobeyed in anything. Whenever he wanted to go outside, you had to be ready to take him, or rather, to follow him, and he always made sure to pick times when he knew his tutor was extremely busy. He wanted to exert the same control over me and get back at me during the day for having to leave him alone at night. I happily agreed and started by making it clear how much I enjoyed pleasing him; after that, when it came to curing him of his quirks, I approached it differently.

In the first place, he must be shown that he was in the wrong. This was not difficult; knowing that children think only of the present, I took the easy advantage which foresight gives; I took care to provide him with some indoor amusement of which he was very fond. Just when he was most occupied with it, I went and suggested a short walk, and he sent me away. I insisted, but he paid no attention. I had to give in, and he took note of this sign of submission.

First, he needed to see that he was wrong. This wasn’t hard; knowing that kids only think about the here and now, I used the advantage that foresight brings. I made sure to give him some indoor fun that he really liked. Just when he was really into it, I suggested we go for a short walk, and he brushed me off. I pushed back, but he ignored me. I had to back down, and he noticed this sign of giving in.

The next day it was my turn. As I expected, he got tired of his occupation; I, however, pretended to be very busy. That was enough to decide him. He came to drag me from my work, to take him at once for a walk. I refused; he persisted. “No,” I said, “when I did what you wanted, you taught me how to get my own way; I shall not go out.” “Very well,” he replied eagerly, “I shall go out by myself.” “As you please,” and I returned to my work.

The next day it was my turn. Just as I expected, he got tired of his job; I, on the other hand, acted like I was really busy. That was enough to convince him. He came over to interrupt me, trying to get me to take him for a walk right away. I refused; he kept insisting. “No,” I said, “when I did what you wanted, you showed me how to get my way; I’m not going out.” “Fine,” he replied eagerly, “I’ll go out by myself.” “Do what you want,” and I went back to my work.

He put on his things rather uneasily when he saw I did not follow his example. When he was ready he came and made his bow; I bowed too; he tried to frighten me with stories of the expeditions he was going to make; to hear him talk you would think he was going to the world’s end. Quite unmoved, I wished him a pleasant journey. He became more and more perplexed. However, he put a good face on it, and when he was ready to go out he told his foot man to follow him. The footman, who had his instructions, replied that he had no time, and that he was busy carrying out my orders, and he must obey me first. For the moment the child was taken aback. How could he think they would really let him go out alone, him, who, in his own eyes, was the most important person in the world, who thought that everything in heaven and earth was wrapped up in his welfare? However, he was beginning to feel his weakness, he perceived that he should find himself alone among people who knew nothing of him. He saw beforehand the risks he would run; obstinacy alone sustained him; very slowly and unwillingly he went downstairs. At last he went out into the street, consoling himself a little for the harm that might happen to himself, in the hope that I should be held responsible for it.

He put on his things rather uneasily when he saw I wasn’t following his lead. Once he was ready, he came and bowed; I bowed back. He tried to scare me with stories of the adventures he was going to have; listening to him, you’d think he was heading to the edge of the world. Completely unfazed, I wished him a pleasant journey. He seemed more and more confused. Still, he kept a brave face, and when he was set to leave, he told his footman to follow him. The footman, who had his orders, replied that he had no time and was busy carrying out my instructions, so he had to obey me first. For a moment, the kid was caught off guard. How could he think they would actually let him go out alone, he, the one who considered himself the most important person in the world, who believed that everything in heaven and earth revolved around his well-being? However, he was starting to realize his vulnerability; he understood he would find himself alone among people who didn’t know him. He foresaw the risks he would face; only stubbornness kept him going, and he slowly and reluctantly made his way downstairs. Finally, he stepped out into the street, trying to console himself a bit for any trouble that might come his way, hoping I would be held responsible for it.

This was just what I expected. All was arranged beforehand, and as it meant some sort of public scene I had got his father’s consent. He had scarcely gone a few steps, when he heard, first on this side then on that, all sorts of remarks about himself. “What a pretty little gentleman, neighbour? Where is he going all alone? He will get lost! I will ask him into our house.” “Take care you don’t. Don’t you see he is a naughty little boy, who has been turned out of his own house because he is good for nothing? You must not stop naughty boys; let him go where he likes.” “Well, well; the good God take care of him. I should be sorry if anything happened to him.” A little further on he met some young urchins of about his own age who teased him and made fun of him. The further he got the more difficulties he found. Alone and unprotected he was at the mercy of everybody, and he found to his great surprise that his shoulder knot and his gold lace commanded no respect.

This was exactly what I expected. Everything had been planned in advance, and since it involved some type of public scene, I had gotten his father's approval. He had barely taken a few steps when he heard all kinds of comments about him from both sides. “What a cute little guy, neighbor! Where is he going all by himself? He’ll get lost! I’ll invite him into our house.” “Be careful you don’t. Can’t you see he’s a naughty little boy, who’s been kicked out of his own house because he’s useless? You shouldn’t stop naughty boys; let him go wherever he wants.” “Well, I hope God looks after him. I’d hate for anything to happen to him.” A little further along, he ran into some kids his age who teased him and made fun of him. The further he went, the more trouble he encountered. Alone and unprotected, he was at everyone’s mercy, and he was quite surprised to find that his shoulder knot and gold lace earned him no respect.

However, I had got a friend of mine, who was a stranger to him, to keep an eye on him. Unnoticed by him, this friend followed him step by step, and in due time he spoke to him. The role, like that of Sbrigani in Pourceaugnac, required an intelligent actor, and it was played to perfection. Without making the child fearful and timid by inspiring excessive terror, he made him realise so thoroughly the folly of his exploit that in half an hour’s time he brought him home to me, ashamed and humble, and afraid to look me in the face.

However, I had a friend, who didn’t know him, keep an eye on him. Unbeknownst to him, this friend followed him every step of the way, and eventually, he spoke to him. The role, similar to Sbrigani in Pourceaugnac, needed a smart actor, and it was performed flawlessly. Without making the child scared and timid by causing too much fear, he made him truly understand how silly his actions were, and within half an hour, he brought him back to me, feeling ashamed and humble, too afraid to look me in the eye.

To put the finishing touch to his discomfiture, just as he was coming in his father came down on his way out and met him on the stairs. He had to explain where he had been, and why I was not with him. [Footnote: In a case like this there is no danger in asking a child to tell the truth, for he knows very well that it cannot be hid, and that if he ventured to tell a lie he would be found out at once.] The poor child would gladly have sunk into the earth. His father did not take the trouble to scold him at length, but said with more severity than I should have expected, “When you want to go out by yourself, you can do so, but I will not have a rebel in my house, so when you go, take good care that you never come back.”

To add to his embarrassment, just as he was coming in, his father was leaving and ran into him on the stairs. He had to explain where he had been and why I wasn’t with him. [Footnote: In a situation like this, there’s no harm in asking a child to tell the truth, because he knows it can’t be hidden, and if he tries to lie, he’ll be found out right away.] The poor kid would have gladly vanished into thin air. His father didn’t bother to scold him for long; instead, he said with more seriousness than I expected, “When you want to go out by yourself, you can do that, but I won’t have a rebel in my house, so when you leave, make sure you never come back.”

As for me, I received him somewhat gravely, but without blame and without mockery, and for fear he should find out we had been playing with him, I declined to take him out walking that day. Next day I was well pleased to find that he passed in triumph with me through the very same people who had mocked him the previous day, when they met him out by himself. You may be sure he never threatened to go out without me again.

As for me, I greeted him pretty seriously, but without criticism or ridicule, and to avoid him realizing we had been messing with him, I decided not to take him for a walk that day. The next day, I was happy to see that he confidently walked with me past the same people who had made fun of him the day before when they saw him alone. You can bet he never threatened to go out without me again.

By these means and other like them I succeeded during the short time I was with him in getting him to do everything I wanted without bidding him or forbidding him to do anything, without preaching or exhortation, without wearying him with unnecessary lessons. So he was pleased when I spoke to him, but when I was silent he was frightened, for he knew there was something amiss, and he always got his lesson from the thing itself. But let us return to our subject.

By using these methods and others like them, I managed during the brief time I was with him to get him to do everything I wanted without telling him to do anything or stopping him from doing anything, without preaching or urging him, and without tiring him out with unnecessary lessons. He liked it when I talked to him, but when I was quiet, he felt uneasy because he sensed something was wrong, and he always learned from the situation itself. But let's get back to our topic.

The body is strengthened by this constant exercise under the guidance of nature herself, and far from brutalising the mind, this exercise develops in it the only kind of reason of which young children are capable, the kind of reason most necessary at every age. It teaches us how to use our strength, to perceive the relations between our own and neighbouring bodies, to use the natural tools, which are within our reach and adapted to our senses. Is there anything sillier than a child brought up indoors under his mother’s eye, who, in his ignorance of weight and resistance, tries to uproot a tall tree or pick up a rock. The first time I found myself outside Geneva I tried to catch a galloping horse, and I threw stones at Mont Saleve, two leagues away; I was the laughing stock of the whole village, and was supposed to be a regular idiot. At eighteen we are taught in our natural philosophy the use of the lever; every village boy of twelve knows how to use a lever better than the cleverest mechanician in the academy. The lessons the scholars learn from one another in the playground are worth a hundredfold more than what they learn in the class-room.

The body gets stronger through constant exercise guided by nature itself, and rather than brutalizing the mind, this exercise nurtures the only kind of reasoning that young children can handle—the reasoning that is essential at every stage of life. It teaches us how to channel our strength, understand the connections between our own bodies and those around us, and utilize the natural tools that are available and suited to our senses. Is there anything more ridiculous than a child raised indoors under their mother’s watch, who, unaware of weight and resistance, attempts to uproot a tall tree or lift a heavy rock? The first time I was outside of Geneva, I tried to catch a galloping horse and threw stones at Mont Saleve, which was two leagues away; I became the laughingstock of the entire village and was considered a complete fool. By the time we turn eighteen, we learn about levers in our natural philosophy classes, yet every village boy at twelve knows how to use a lever better than the smartest mechanic at the academy. The lessons that kids learn from each other on the playground are worth a hundred times more than what they pick up in the classroom.

Watch a cat when she comes into a room for the first time; she goes from place to place, she sniffs about and examines everything, she is never still for a moment; she is suspicious of everything till she has examined it and found out what it is. It is the same with the child when he begins to walk, and enters, so to speak, the room of the world around him. The only difference is that, while both use sight, the child uses his hands and the cat that subtle sense of smell which nature has bestowed upon it. It is this instinct, rightly or wrongly educated, which makes children skilful or clumsy, quick or slow, wise or foolish.

Watch a cat when she enters a room for the first time; she moves around, sniffs, and examines everything, never staying still for a moment. She's wary of everything until she has checked it out and figured out what it is. It's the same with a child when he learns to walk and, so to speak, enters the room of the world around him. The only difference is that while both rely on sight, the child uses his hands, and the cat relies on that keen sense of smell that nature has given her. It’s this instinct, whether educated rightly or wrongly, that makes children skilled or clumsy, quick or slow, wise or foolish.

Man’s primary natural goals are, therefore, to measure himself against his environment, to discover in every object he sees those sensible qualities which may concern himself, so his first study is a kind of experimental physics for his own preservation. He is turned away from this and sent to speculative studies before he has found his proper place in the world. While his delicate and flexible limbs can adjust themselves to the bodies upon which they are intended to act, while his senses are keen and as yet free from illusions, then is the time to exercise both limbs and senses in their proper business. It is the time to learn to perceive the physical relations between ourselves and things. Since everything that comes into the human mind enters through the gates of sense, man’s first reason is a reason of sense-experience. It is this that serves as a foundation for the reason of the intelligence; our first teachers in natural philosophy are our feet, hands, and eyes. To substitute books for them does not teach us to reason, it teaches us to use the reason of others rather than our own; it teaches us to believe much and know little.

A person's main natural goals are to measure themselves against their environment and to recognize in every object they encounter the qualities that relate to them. So, their first task is like a kind of experimental physics aimed at self-preservation. They are often distracted and pushed into abstract studies before they’ve truly found their place in the world. While their agile and adaptable limbs can adjust to the things they interact with, and their senses are sharp and free from deception, that’s the best time to engage both their body and senses in meaningful activities. It’s the moment to learn to understand the physical connections between ourselves and everything around us. Since everything that enters our minds does so through our senses, our initial reasoning is based on sensory experience. This forms the basis for intelligent reasoning; our first teachers in understanding the natural world are our feet, hands, and eyes. Replacing them with books doesn't teach us to think for ourselves; it teaches us to rely on the reasoning of others, making us believe a lot while understanding very little.

Before you can practise an art you must first get your tools; and if you are to make good use of those tools, they must be fashioned sufficiently strong to stand use. To learn to think we must therefore exercise our limbs, our senses, and our bodily organs, which are the tools of the intellect; and to get the best use out of these tools, the body which supplies us with them must be strong and healthy. Not only is it quite a mistake that true reason is developed apart from the body, but it is a good bodily constitution which makes the workings of the mind easy and correct.

Before you can practice an art, you first need to get your tools; and to make the most of those tools, they must be strong enough to endure use. To learn to think, we must exercise our limbs, senses, and bodily organs, which are the tools of the intellect; and to get the best use out of these tools, the body that provides them must be strong and healthy. It's a misconception that true reasoning develops independently from the body; in fact, a good physical condition makes the mind's processes easier and more accurate.

While I am showing how the child’s long period of leisure should be spent, I am entering into details which may seem absurd. You will say, “This is a strange sort of education, and it is subject to your own criticism, for it only teaches what no one needs to learn. Why spend your time in teaching what will come of itself without care or trouble? Is there any child of twelve who is ignorant of all you wish to teach your pupil, while he also knows what his master has taught him.”

While I explain how the child’s extended free time should be spent, I’m diving into details that might seem ridiculous. You might say, “This is an odd way to educate, and it’s open to criticism since it teaches things that no one actually needs to know. Why spend time teaching what will naturally happen without effort? Is there any twelve-year-old who doesn’t know everything you want to teach, while they also understand what their teacher has taught them?”

Gentlemen, you are mistaken. I am teaching my pupil an art, the acquirement of which demands much time and trouble, an art which your scholars certainly do not possess; it is the art of being ignorant; for the knowledge of any one who only thinks he knows, what he really does know is a very small matter. You teach science; well and good; I am busy fashioning the necessary tools for its acquisition. Once upon a time, they say the Venetians were displaying the treasures of the Cathedral of Saint Mark to the Spanish ambassador; the only comment he made was, “Qui non c’e la radice.” When I see a tutor showing off his pupil’s learning, I am always tempted to say the same to him.

Gentlemen, you are mistaken. I am teaching my student a skill that requires a lot of time and effort, a skill that your students definitely lack; it's the skill of being ignorant. The knowledge of someone who only thinks they know what they actually know is very limited. You teach science, which is great; I'm focused on providing the essential tools for learning it. There's a story that goes when the Venetians showcased the treasures of the Cathedral of Saint Mark to the Spanish ambassador, his only remark was, “There’s no root here.” Whenever I see a teacher bragging about their student’s knowledge, I’m always tempted to say the same to them.

Every one who has considered the manner of life among the ancients, attributes the strength of body and mind by which they are distinguished from the men of our own day to their gymnastic exercises. The stress laid by Montaigne upon this opinion, shows that it had made a great impression on him; he returns to it again and again. Speaking of a child’s education he says, “To strengthen the mind you must harden the muscles; by training the child to labour you train him to suffering; he must be broken in to the hardships of gymnastic exercises to prepare him for the hardships of dislocations, colics, and other bodily ills.” The philosopher Locke, the worthy Rollin, the learned Fleury, the pedant De Crouzas, differing as they do so widely from one another, are agreed in this one matter of sufficient bodily exercise for children. This is the wisest of their precepts, and the one which is certain to be neglected. I have already dwelt sufficiently on its importance, and as better reasons and more sensible rules cannot be found than those in Locke’s book, I will content myself with referring to it, after taking the liberty of adding a few remarks of my own.

Everyone who has thought about the way of life in ancient times attributes the physical and mental strength that sets them apart from people today to their exercise routines. Montaigne emphasizes this idea, showing how much it impacted him; he revisits it repeatedly. Speaking about a child’s education, he says, “To strengthen the mind, you must also strengthen the body; by training a child to work, you prepare them to endure hardship; they need to be accustomed to the rigors of exercise to prepare them for the challenges of injuries, pain, and other physical ailments.” The philosopher Locke, the respected Rollin, the knowledgeable Fleury, and the pedant De Crouzas, despite their many differences, all agree on the importance of adequate physical exercise for children. This is the most sensible of their teachings, and the one most likely to be overlooked. I have already emphasized its importance, and since better arguments and more sensible guidelines cannot be found than those in Locke’s book, I will simply refer to it, with the addition of a few of my own comments.

The limbs of a growing child should be free to move easily in his clothing; nothing should cramp their growth or movement; there should be nothing tight, nothing fitting closely to the body, no belts of any kind. The French style of dress, uncomfortable and unhealthy for a man, is especially bad for children. The stagnant humours, whose circulation is interrupted, putrify in a state of inaction, and this process proceeds more rapidly in an inactive and sedentary life; they become corrupt and give rise to scurvy; this disease, which is continually on the increase among us, was almost unknown to the ancients, whose way of dressing and living protected them from it. The hussar’s dress, far from correcting this fault, increases it, and compresses the whole of the child’s body, by way of dispensing with a few bands. The best plan is to keep children in frocks as long as possible and then to provide them with loose clothing, without trying to define the shape which is only another way of deforming it. Their defects of body and mind may all be traced to the same source, the desire to make men of them before their time.

The limbs of a growing child should have plenty of room to move freely in their clothing; nothing should restrict their growth or movement; there shouldn’t be anything tight, nothing that fits closely to the body, no belts of any kind. The French style of dress, which is uncomfortable and unhealthy for adults, is especially bad for children. The stagnant humors, whose circulation is interrupted, spoil when inactive, and this process speeds up in a sedentary lifestyle; they become corrupted and can lead to scurvy, a disease that is increasingly common among us but was nearly unknown to the ancients, who avoided it through their way of dressing and living. The hussar’s outfit, instead of fixing this issue, worsens it by compressing the child's entire body instead of simply eliminating a few bands. The best approach is to keep children in frocks for as long as possible and then provide them with loose clothing, without attempting to shape their bodies, which is just another form of deformation. Their physical and mental issues can all be traced back to the same root cause: the desire to force them to grow up too quickly.

There are bright colours and dull; children like the bright colours best, and they suit them better too. I see no reason why such natural suitability should not be taken into consideration; but as soon as they prefer a material because it is rich, their hearts are already given over to luxury, to every caprice of fashion, and this taste is certainly not their own. It is impossible to say how much education is influenced by this choice of clothes, and the motives for this choice. Not only do short-sighted mothers offer ornaments as rewards to their children, but there are foolish tutors who threaten to make their pupils wear the plainest and coarsest clothes as a punishment. “If you do not do your lessons better, if you do not take more care of your clothes, you shall be dressed like that little peasant boy.” This is like saying to them, “Understand that clothes make the man.” Is it to be wondered at that our young people profit by such wise teaching, that they care for nothing but dress, and that they only judge of merit by its outside.

There are bright colors and dull ones; kids prefer the bright colors the most, and they look better on them too. I don’t see why we shouldn’t consider this natural preference; however, as soon as they favor a material because it’s fancy, they’re already giving in to luxury and every whim of fashion, and that taste definitely isn’t their own. It’s hard to say how much education is affected by this choice of clothing and the reasons behind it. Not only do shortsighted parents reward their children with accessories, but there are also foolish teachers who threaten to make their students wear the simplest, roughest clothes as punishment. “If you don’t do your homework better, if you don’t take better care of your clothes, you’ll be dressed like that little peasant boy.” This is akin to saying, “Remember that clothes make the person.” Is it any wonder that our young people learn from such misguided lessons, that they care only about appearances, and that they judge worth based solely on how things look?

If I had to bring such a spoilt child to his senses, I would take care that his smartest clothes were the most uncomfortable, that he was always cramped, constrained, and embarrassed in every way; freedom and mirth should flee before his splendour. If he wanted to take part in the games of children more simply dressed, they should cease their play and run away. Before long I should make him so tired and sick of his magnificence, such a slave to his gold-laced coat, that it would become the plague of his life, and he would be less afraid to behold the darkest dungeon than to see the preparations for his adornment. Before the child is enslaved by our prejudices his first wish is always to be free and comfortable. The plainest and most comfortable clothes, those which leave him most liberty, are what he always likes best.

If I had to bring a spoiled kid to their senses, I'd make sure their fanciest clothes were also the most uncomfortable, so they'd feel cramped, restricted, and embarrassed in every way; freedom and fun should disappear in the face of their grandeur. If they wanted to join the games with kids dressed more simply, the others should stop playing and run away. Soon enough, I'd make them so tired and sick of their fancy clothes, so trapped by their gold-trimmed coat, that it would feel like a burden in their life, making them more afraid of the preparations for their outfit than of the darkest dungeon. Before the child is held back by our biases, their first desire is always to be free and comfortable. The simplest, most comfortable clothes, which give them the most freedom, are what they always prefer.

There are habits of body suited for an active life and others for a sedentary life. The latter leaves the humours an equable and uniform course, and the body should be protected from changes in temperature; the former is constantly passing from action to rest, from heat to cold, and the body should be inured to these changes. Hence people, engaged in sedentary pursuits indoors, should always be warmly dressed, to keep their bodies as nearly as possible at the same temperature at all times and seasons. Those, however, who come and go in sun, wind, and rain, who take much exercise, and spend most of their time out of doors, should always be lightly clad, so as to get used to the changes in the air and to every degree of temperature without suffering inconvenience. I would advise both never to change their clothes with the changing seasons, and that would be the invariable habit of my pupil Emile. By this I do not mean that he should wear his winter clothes in summer like many people of sedentary habits, but that he should wear his summer clothes in winter like hard-working folk. Sir Isaac Newton always did this, and he lived to be eighty.

There are body habits that fit an active lifestyle and others that fit a sedentary one. The latter keeps the body's humors steady and should be protected from temperature changes; the former constantly shifts from action to rest, from heat to cold, and the body should adapt to these changes. Therefore, people engaged in sedentary work indoors should always dress warmly to keep their bodies as close to the same temperature as possible at all times and seasons. On the other hand, those who are outdoors in the sun, wind, and rain, who exercise a lot and spend most of their time outside, should dress lightly to acclimate to the changes in the air and different temperatures without discomfort. I would advise both groups to avoid changing their clothes with the changing seasons, and that would be a consistent habit for my pupil Emile. I don’t mean that he should wear his winter clothes in summer like many sedentary people do, but rather that he should wear his summer clothes in winter like hardworking folks. Sir Isaac Newton always did this, and he lived to be eighty.

Emile should wear little or nothing on his head all the year round. The ancient Egyptians always went bareheaded; the Persians used to wear heavy tiaras and still wear large turbans, which according to Chardin are required by their climate. I have remarked elsewhere on the difference observed by Herodotus on a battle-field between the skulls of the Persians and those of the Egyptians. Since it is desirable that the bones of the skull should grow harder and more substantial, less fragile and porous, not only to protect the brain against injuries but against colds, fever, and every influence of the air, you should therefore accustom your children to go bare-headed winter and summer, day and night. If you make them wear a night-cap to keep their hair clean and tidy, let it be thin and transparent like the nets with which the Basques cover their hair. I am aware that most mothers will be more impressed by Chardin’s observations than my arguments, and will think that all climates are the climate of Persia, but I did not choose a European pupil to turn him into an Asiatic.

Emile should wear very little or nothing on his head all year round. Ancient Egyptians always went bareheaded; Persians used to wear heavy tiaras and still wear large turbans, which, according to Chardin, are necessary for their climate. I've pointed out elsewhere the difference noted by Herodotus on a battlefield between the skulls of Persians and Egyptians. Since it's important for the bones of the skull to become harder and more solid, less fragile and porous, not only to protect the brain from injuries but also from colds, fevers, and any effects of the air, you should indeed get your children used to going bareheaded in winter and summer, day and night. If you want them to wear a nightcap to keep their hair clean and tidy, make sure it's thin and transparent like the nets the Basques use to cover their hair. I know that most mothers will be more convinced by Chardin’s observations than by my arguments and will think that all climates are like Persia’s, but I didn’t choose a European student to turn him into an Asiatic.

Children are generally too much wrapped up, particularly in infancy. They should be accustomed to cold rather than heat; great cold never does them any harm, if they are exposed to it soon enough; but their skin is still too soft and tender and leaves too free a course for perspiration, so that they are inevitably exhausted by excessive heat. It has been observed that infant mortality is greatest in August. Moreover, it seems certain from a comparison of northern and southern races that we become stronger by bearing extreme cold rather than excessive heat. But as the child’s body grows bigger and his muscles get stronger, train him gradually to bear the rays of the sun. Little by little you will harden him till he can face the burning heat of the tropics without danger.

Children are generally too bundled up, especially when they're infants. They should get used to the cold instead of the heat; extreme cold doesn’t harm them if they’re exposed to it early enough. However, their skin is still too soft and sensitive, making it easy for them to sweat, so they get worn out by too much heat. It's been noted that infant mortality rates are highest in August. Additionally, looking at northern and southern populations suggests we become stronger by enduring extreme cold rather than extreme heat. But as the child grows and their muscles get stronger, gradually train them to handle the sun. Bit by bit, you can toughen them up so they can handle the intense heat of tropical regions safely.

Locke, in the midst of the manly and sensible advice he gives us, falls into inconsistencies one would hardly expect in such a careful thinker. The same man who would have children take an ice-cold bath summer and winter, will not let them drink cold water when they are hot, or lie on damp grass. But he would never have their shoes water-tight; and why should they let in more water when the child is hot than when he is cold, and may we not draw the same inference with regard to the feet and body that he draws with regard to the hands and feet and the body and face? If he would have a man all face, why blame me if I would have him all feet?

Locke, despite the strong and sensible advice he offers, gets caught up in contradictions that seem surprising for such a careful thinker. The same guy who thinks kids should take ice-cold baths in both summer and winter won’t let them drink cold water when they’re hot, or lie on damp grass. Yet, he wouldn’t make their shoes waterproof; so, why let in more water when the child is hot than when he’s cold? Can’t we draw the same conclusion about the feet and body that he does about the hands, feet, and face? If he wants a person to be all face, why should I be criticized for wanting them to be all feet?

To prevent children drinking when they are hot, he says they should be trained to eat a piece of bread first. It is a strange thing to make a child eat because he is thirsty; I would as soon give him a drink when he is hungry. You will never convince me that our first instincts are so ill-regulated that we cannot satisfy them without endangering our lives. Were that so, the man would have perished over and over again before he had learned how to keep himself alive.

To stop kids from drinking when they're hot, he says they should learn to eat a piece of bread first. It’s odd to make a child eat just because they’re thirsty; I’d be just as willing to give them a drink when they’re hungry. You won’t convince me that our basic instincts are so messed up that we can’t satisfy them without risking our lives. If that were true, people would have died countless times before figuring out how to survive.

Whenever Emile is thirsty let him have a drink, and let him drink fresh water just as it is, not even taking the chill off it in the depths of winter and when he is bathed in perspiration. The only precaution I advise is to take care what sort of water you give him. If the water comes from a river, give it him just as it is; if it is spring-water let it stand a little exposed to the air before he drinks it. In warm weather rivers are warm; it is not so with springs, whose water has not been in contact with the air. You must wait till the temperature of the water is the same as that of the air. In winter, on the other hand, spring water is safer than river water. It is, however, unusual and unnatural to perspire greatly in winter, especially in the open air, for the cold air constantly strikes the skin and drives the perspiration inwards, and prevents the pores opening enough to give it passage. Now I do not intend Emile to take his exercise by the fireside in winter, but in the open air and among the ice. If he only gets warm with making and throwing snowballs, let him drink when he is thirsty, and go on with his game after drinking, and you need not be afraid of any ill effects. And if any other exercise makes him perspire let him drink cold water even in winter provided he is thirsty. Only take care to take him to get the water some little distance away. In such cold as I am supposing, he would have cooled down sufficiently when he got there to be able to drink without danger. Above all, take care to conceal these precautions from him. I would rather he were ill now and then, than always thinking about his health.

Whenever Emile is thirsty, let him have a drink, and let him drink fresh water just as it is, not even warming it up during the depths of winter or when he’s sweating. The only advice I have is to be mindful of the type of water you give him. If the water comes from a river, give it to him as it is; if it’s spring water, let it sit out for a bit to cool down before he drinks it. In warm weather, river water is warm; spring water, however, hasn’t been exposed to the air. You should wait until the temperature of the water matches that of the air. In winter, on the other hand, spring water is safer than river water. It’s also unusual and unnatural to sweat heavily in winter, especially outdoors, since the cold air constantly hits the skin and drives the sweat inward, preventing the pores from opening enough to let it out. I don’t intend for Emile to exercise by the fireside in winter but outside in the open among the ice. If he warms up just from making and throwing snowballs, he can drink when he’s thirsty and then continue playing afterward, and there’s no need to worry about any adverse effects. If any other activity makes him sweat, he can drink cold water even in winter as long as he’s thirsty. Just make sure to take him to get the water a little distance away. In such cold conditions, he will have cooled down enough by the time he gets there to drink safely. Above all, keep these precautions a secret from him. I’d rather he be a bit sick now and then than always worrying about his health.

Since children take such violent exercise they need a great deal of sleep. The one makes up for the other, and this shows that both are necessary. Night is the time set apart by nature for rest. It is an established fact that sleep is quieter and calmer when the sun is below the horizon, and that our senses are less calm when the air is warmed by the rays of the sun. So it is certainly the healthiest plan to rise with the sun and go to bed with the sun. Hence in our country man and all the other animals with him want more sleep in winter than in summer. But town life is so complex, so unnatural, so subject to chances and changes, that it is not wise to accustom a man to such uniformity that he cannot do without it. No doubt he must submit to rules; but the chief rule is this—be able to break the rule if necessary. So do not be so foolish as to soften your pupil by letting him always sleep his sleep out. Leave him at first to the law of nature without any hindrance, but never forget that under our conditions he must rise above this law; he must be able to go to bed late and rise early, be awakened suddenly, or sit up all night without ill effects. Begin early and proceed gently, a step at a time, and the constitution adapts itself to the very conditions which would destroy it if they were imposed for the first time on the grown man.

Since kids get a lot of physical activity, they require plenty of sleep. One balances out the other, highlighting that both are essential. Night is the time nature has designated for rest. It’s a known fact that sleep is more peaceful and serene when the sun is down, and our senses tend to be more restless when the air heats up from the sun’s rays. Therefore, it’s definitely healthiest to wake up with the sun and go to bed when it sets. This is why, in our country, both humans and animals need more sleep in winter than in summer. However, urban life is so complicated, unnatural, and full of uncertainties that it’s not smart to train someone to rely too much on regular routines. Of course, he has to follow certain rules; but the main rule is this—be prepared to break the rules if necessary. So don’t make the mistake of pampering your student by allowing him to sleep as much as he wants. Initially, let him follow nature’s law without interruption, but always remember that under our circumstances, he needs to rise above this law; he should be able to stay up late and wake up early, be jolted awake suddenly, or pull an all-nighter without any negative effects. Start early and take it slow, step by step, and his body will adjust to the very conditions that would harm it if introduced suddenly to an adult.

In the next place he must be accustomed to sleep in an uncomfortable bed, which is the best way to find no bed uncomfortable. Speaking generally, a hard life, when once we have become used to it, increases our pleasant experiences; an easy life prepares the way for innumerable unpleasant experiences. Those who are too tenderly nurtured can only sleep on down; those who are used to sleep on bare boards can find them anywhere. There is no such thing as a hard bed for the man who falls asleep at once.

Next, he needs to get used to sleeping in an uncomfortable bed, which is the best way to make any bed feel comfortable. Generally speaking, a tough life, once we adapt to it, enhances our enjoyable experiences; an easy life leads to countless unpleasant experiences. Those who are overly pampered can only sleep on soft bedding; those who are accustomed to sleeping on hard surfaces can find them anywhere. For someone who falls asleep right away, there’s no such thing as a hard bed.

The body is, so to speak, melted and dissolved in a soft bed where one sinks into feathers and eider-down. The reins when too warmly covered become inflamed. Stone and other diseases are often due to this, and it invariably produces a delicate constitution, which is the seed-ground of every ailment.

The body is, in a sense, melted and dissolved in a soft bed where one sinks into feathers and down. The reins, when too warmly covered, become inflamed. Conditions like kidney stones and other illnesses often arise from this, and it consistently leads to a delicate constitution, which is the breeding ground for every ailment.

The best bed is that in which we get the best sleep. Emile and I will prepare such a bed for ourselves during the daytime. We do not need Persian slaves to make our beds; when we are digging the soil we are turning our mattresses. I know that a healthy child may be made to sleep or wake almost at will. When the child is put to bed and his nurse grows weary of his chatter, she says to him, “Go to sleep.” That is much like saying, “Get well,” when he is ill. The right way is to let him get tired of himself. Talk so much that he is compelled to hold his tongue, and he will soon be asleep. Here is at least one use for sermons, and you may as well preach to him as rock his cradle; but if you use this narcotic at night, do not use it by day.

The best bed is the one where we get the best sleep. Emile and I will set up that kind of bed for ourselves during the day. We don’t need Persian slaves to make our beds; when we’re working the soil, we’re flipping our mattresses. I know that a healthy child can be made to sleep or wake almost on command. When a child is put to bed and his nurse gets tired of his talking, she tells him, “Go to sleep.” That’s pretty much like saying, “Get better,” when he’s sick. The right approach is to let him wear himself out. Talk so much that he has to quiet down, and he’ll be asleep in no time. Here’s at least one use for sermons—you might as well preach to him as rock his cradle; but if you use this sleep aid at night, don’t use it during the day.

I shall sometimes rouse Emile, not so much to prevent his sleeping too much, as to accustom him to anything—even to waking with a start. Moreover, I should be unfit for my business if I could not make him wake himself, and get up, so to speak, at my will, without being called.

I will occasionally wake Emile, not just to stop him from sleeping too much, but to help him get used to everything—even waking up suddenly. Besides, I wouldn’t be good at my job if I couldn’t teach him to wake up on his own and get out of bed, so to speak, at my request, without needing to be called.

If he wakes too soon, I shall let him look forward to a tedious morning, so that he will count as gain any time he can give to sleep. If he sleeps too late I shall show him some favourite toy when he wakes. If I want him to wake at a given hour I shall say, “To-morrow at six I am going fishing,” or “I shall take a walk to such and such a place. Would you like to come too?” He assents, and begs me to wake him. I promise, or do not promise, as the case requires. If he wakes too late, he finds me gone. There is something amiss if he does not soon learn to wake himself.

If he wakes up too early, I’ll let him look forward to a boring morning, so he’ll be grateful for any extra time he can get to sleep. If he sleeps in too late, I’ll show him a favorite toy when he wakes up. If I want him to wake up at a specific time, I’ll say, “Tomorrow at six, I’m going fishing,” or “I’m going for a walk to such and such a place. Would you like to join me?” He agrees and asks me to wake him up. I promise or don’t promise, depending on the situation. If he wakes up too late, he’ll find me gone. It’s a problem if he doesn’t quickly learn to wake up on his own.

Moreover, should it happen, though it rarely does, that a sluggish child desires to stagnate in idleness, you must not give way to this tendency, which might stupefy him entirely, but you must apply some stimulus to wake him. You must understand that is no question of applying force, but of arousing some appetite which leads to action, and such an appetite, carefully selected on the lines laid down by nature, kills two birds with one stone.

Moreover, if it happens, though it rarely does, that a lazy child wants to do nothing, you shouldn't give in to this tendency, which could dull his mind completely. Instead, you should provide some motivation to wake him up. You need to realize that it’s not about using force, but about sparking a desire that leads to action, and such a desire, carefully chosen based on natural principles, achieves two goals at once.

If one has any sort of skill, I can think of nothing for which a taste, a very passion, cannot be aroused in children, and that without vanity, emulation, or jealousy. Their keenness, their spirit of imitation, is enough of itself; above all, there is their natural liveliness, of which no teacher so far has contrived to take advantage. In every game, when they are quite sure it is only play, they endure without complaint, or even with laughter, hardships which they would not submit to otherwise without floods of tears. The sports of the young savage involve long fasting, blows, burns, and fatigue of every kind, a proof that even pain has a charm of its own, which may remove its bitterness. It is not every master, however, who knows how to season this dish, nor can every scholar eat it without making faces. However, I must take care or I shall be wandering off again after exceptions.

If someone has any kind of skill, I can't think of anything that can't spark an interest or even a passion in children, and that’s without any sense of vanity, competition, or jealousy. Their enthusiasm and eagerness to imitate are more than enough; especially their natural energy, which no teacher has managed to tap into yet. In every game, when they're sure it's just for fun, they tolerate without complaint, or even with laughter, hardships they wouldn’t put up with otherwise without crying. The games of young kids can involve long waits, getting hit, burns, and all kinds of exhaustion, proving that even pain has its own appeal that can lessen its sting. However, not every teacher knows how to make this work, nor can every student handle it without grimacing. But I need to be careful, or I'll start going off on tangents about exceptions again.

It is not to be endured that man should become the slave of pain, disease, accident, the perils of life, or even death itself; the more familiar he becomes with these ideas the sooner he will be cured of that over-sensitiveness which adds to the pain by impatience in bearing it; the sooner he becomes used to the sufferings which may overtake him, the sooner he shall, as Montaigne has put it, rob those pains of the sting of unfamiliarity, and so make his soul strong and invulnerable; his body will be the coat of mail which stops all the darts which might otherwise find a vital part. Even the approach of death, which is not death itself, will scarcely be felt as such; he will not die, he will be, so to speak, alive or dead and nothing more. Montaigne might say of him as he did of a certain king of Morocco, “No man ever prolonged his life so far into death.” A child serves his apprenticeship in courage and endurance as well as in other virtues; but you cannot teach children these virtues by name alone; they must learn them unconsciously through experience.

It’s unacceptable for a person to be a slave to pain, illness, accidents, the dangers of life, or even death itself; the more comfortable he becomes with these concepts, the quicker he will overcome the over-sensitivity that amplifies the pain by being impatient with it. The sooner he gets used to the suffering that may come his way, the sooner he will, as Montaigne said, strip those pains of their unfamiliar sting, strengthening his soul and making it invincible; his body will act like armor that stops all the arrows that could otherwise hit a vulnerable spot. Even the thought of death, which is not death itself, will barely be felt; he won’t die, he will be, so to speak, alive or dead and nothing more. Montaigne might remark about him, as he did of a certain king of Morocco, “No man ever extended his life so deeply into death.” A child develops courage and resilience as well as other virtues, but you can’t teach these virtues to children by simply naming them; they must absorb them unconsciously through experience.

But speaking of death, what steps shall I take with regard to my pupil and the smallpox? Shall he be inoculated in infancy, or shall I wait till he takes it in the natural course of things? The former plan is more in accordance with our practice, for it preserves his life at a time when it is of greater value, at the cost of some danger when his life is of less worth; if indeed we can use the word danger with regard to inoculation when properly performed.

But speaking of death, what should I do about my student and the smallpox? Should he be vaccinated as a baby, or should I wait until he gets it naturally? The first option aligns more with our usual approach, as it protects his life when it’s more valuable, even if it involves some risk when his life matters less; if we can truly call it risk when vaccination is done correctly.

But the other plan is more in accordance with our general principles—to leave nature to take the precautions she delights in, precautions she abandons whenever man interferes. The natural man is always ready; let nature inoculate him herself, she will choose the fitting occasion better than we.

But the other plan aligns more with our overall principles—to let nature take the precautions it prefers, precautions it drops whenever humanity gets involved. The natural person is always prepared; let nature handle it herself; she'll pick the right moment better than we can.

Do not think I am finding fault with inoculation, for my reasons for exempting my pupil from it do not in the least apply to yours. Your training does not prepare them to escape catching smallpox as soon as they are exposed to infection. If you let them take it anyhow, they will probably die. I perceive that in different lands the resistance to inoculation is in proportion to the need for it; and the reason is plain. So I scarcely condescend to discuss this question with regard to Emile. He will be inoculated or not according to time, place, and circumstances; it is almost a matter of indifference, as far as he is concerned. If it gives him smallpox, there will be the advantage of knowing what to expect, knowing what the disease is; that is a good thing, but if he catches it naturally it will have kept him out of the doctor’s hands, which is better.

Don't think I'm criticizing inoculation; my reasons for exempting my student from it don't apply to yours at all. Your training doesn’t prepare them to avoid catching smallpox as soon as they're exposed to it. If you let them get it anyway, they might die. I've noticed that in different countries, the resistance to inoculation relates to how necessary it is, and the reason is obvious. So, I hardly bother to discuss this issue in relation to Emile. Whether he gets inoculated or not will depend on the time, place, and circumstances; it's almost irrelevant for him. If he gets smallpox from it, at least he’ll know what to expect and understand the disease, which is a good thing. But if he catches it naturally, he'll avoid the doctor's intervention, which is better.

An exclusive education, which merely tends to keep those who have received it apart from the mass of mankind, always selects such teaching as is costly rather than cheap, even when the latter is of more use. Thus all carefully educated young men learn to ride, because it is costly, but scarcely any of them learn to swim, as it costs nothing, and an artisan can swim as well as any one. Yet without passing through the riding school, the traveller learns to mount his horse, to stick on it, and to ride well enough for practical purposes; but in the water if you cannot swim you will drown, and we cannot swim unless we are taught. Again, you are not forced to ride on pain of death, while no one is sure of escaping such a common danger as drowning. Emile shall be as much at home in the water as on land. Why should he not be able to live in every element? If he could learn to fly, he should be an eagle; I would make him a salamander, if he could bear the heat.

An exclusive education, which only serves to separate those who have it from the rest of humanity, always focuses on expensive lessons rather than affordable ones, even when the latter is more beneficial. As a result, all well-educated young men learn to ride because it’s costly, but very few learn to swim since it’s free and any laborer can swim as well as anyone else. However, without going to riding school, travelers learn to get on a horse, stay on it, and ride well enough for practical use; but in water, if you can’t swim, you’ll drown, and we can’t swim unless we’re taught. Furthermore, you’re not compelled to ride under threat of death, whereas no one can completely escape the common risk of drowning. Emile should feel just as comfortable in the water as he does on land. Why shouldn’t he be able to thrive in every environment? If he could learn to fly, he should be like an eagle; I would make him a salamander if he could stand the heat.

People are afraid lest the child should be drowned while he is learning to swim; if he dies while he is learning, or if he dies because he has not learnt, it will be your own fault. Foolhardiness is the result of vanity; we are not rash when no one is looking. Emile will not be foolhardy, though all the world were watching him. As the exercise does not depend on its danger, he will learn to swim the Hellespont by swimming, without any danger, a stream in his father’s park; but he must get used to danger too, so as not to be flustered by it. This is an essential part of the apprenticeship I spoke of just now. Moreover, I shall take care to proportion the danger to his strength, and I shall always share it myself, so that I need scarcely fear any imprudence if I take as much care for his life as for my own.

People worry that the child might drown while learning to swim; if he dies during his lessons or if he dies because he hasn't learned, it will be your fault. Recklessness comes from pride; we aren't impulsive when no one is watching. Emile won’t be reckless, even if the whole world is watching him. Since the exercise isn't about its danger, he will learn to swim across the Hellespont by practicing in a stream in his father's park without any risk, but he also needs to get accustomed to danger so he won't panic. This is a crucial part of the training I just mentioned. Plus, I will make sure the level of danger matches his strength, and I will always share that risk with him, so I hardly need to worry about any recklessness if I care for his life as much as I care for my own.

A child is smaller than a man; he has not the man’s strength or reason, but he sees and hears as well or nearly as well; his sense of taste is very good, though he is less fastidious, and he distinguishes scents as clearly though less sensuously. The senses are the first of our faculties to mature; they are those most frequently overlooked or neglected.

A child is smaller than an adult; he doesn't have the adult's strength or reasoning, but he sees and hears as well, or almost as well; his sense of taste is quite good, although he's less particular, and he can distinguish smells clearly, if not as intensely. The senses are the first of our abilities to develop; they are the ones that are most often overlooked or ignored.

To train the senses it is not enough merely to use them; we must learn to judge by their means, to learn to feel, so to speak; for we cannot touch, see, or hear, except as we have been taught.

To train our senses, it’s not enough just to use them; we need to learn to evaluate through them, to understand how to feel, so to speak; because we can’t touch, see, or hear unless we’ve been taught how.

There is a mere natural and mechanical use of the senses which strengthens the body without improving the judgment. It is all very well to swim, run, jump, whip a top, throw stones; but have we nothing but arms and legs? Have we not eyes and ears as well; and are not these organs necessary for the use of the rest? Do not merely exercise the strength, exercise all the senses by which it is guided; make the best use of every one of them, and check the results of one by the other. Measure, count, weigh, compare. Do not use force till you have estimated the resistance; let the estimation of the effect always precede the application of the means. Get the child interested in avoiding insufficient or superfluous efforts. If in this way you train him to calculate the effects of all his movements, and to correct his mistakes by experience, is it not clear that the more he does the wiser he will become?

There's a simple natural and mechanical way to use our senses that only strengthens the body without improving our judgment. It's great to swim, run, jump, spin a top, and throw stones, but do we only have arms and legs? Don’t we also have eyes and ears? Aren't these organs essential for using the rest? Don't just work on strength; engage all the senses that guide it. Make the most of each one, and balance the results of one against another. Measure, count, weigh, and compare. Don’t apply force until you've assessed the resistance; always consider the effect before applying the means. Encourage the child to avoid unnecessary or excessive efforts. If you train them to think about the effects of all their movements and learn from their mistakes, isn’t it obvious that as they do more, they’ll become wiser?

Take the case of moving a heavy mass; if he takes too long a lever, he will waste his strength; if it is too short, he will not have strength enough; experience will teach him to use the very stick he needs. This knowledge is not beyond his years. Take, for example, a load to be carried; if he wants to carry as much as he can, and not to take up more than he can carry, must he not calculate the weight by the appearance? Does he know how to compare masses of like substance and different size, or to choose between masses of the same size and different substances? He must set to work to compare their specific weights. I have seen a young man, very highly educated, who could not be convinced, till he had tried it, that a bucket full of blocks of oak weighed less than the same bucket full of water.

Consider the situation of moving a heavy object; if he uses a lever that's too long, he'll waste his effort; if it's too short, he won't have enough force. Over time, he'll learn to use the right tool for the job. This understanding isn't beyond his capability. For instance, when carrying a load, if he wants to carry as much as possible without exceeding his limits, doesn't he need to assess the weight based on its appearance? Does he know how to compare objects of the same material but different sizes, or choose between objects of the same size with different materials? He needs to figure out their specific weights. I've seen a highly educated young man who wouldn't believe, until he tested it, that a bucket full of oak blocks weighed less than the same bucket full of water.

All our senses are not equally under our control. One of them, touch, is always busy during our waking hours; it is spread over the whole surface of the body, like a sentinel ever on the watch to warn us of anything which may do us harm. Whether we will or not, we learn to use it first of all by experience, by constant practice, and therefore we have less need for special training for it. Yet we know that the blind have a surer and more delicate sense of touch than we, for not being guided by the one sense, they are forced to get from the touch what we get from sight. Why, then, are not we trained to walk as they do in the dark, to recognise what we touch, to distinguish things about us; in a word, to do at night and in the dark what they do in the daytime without sight? We are better off than they while the sun shines; in the dark it is their turn to be our guide. We are blind half our time, with this difference: the really blind always know what to do, while we are afraid to stir in the dark. We have lights, you say. What always artificial aids. Who can insure that they will always be at hand when required. I had rather Emil’s eyes were in his finger tips, than in the chandler’s shop.

Not all of our senses are equally under our control. One sense, touch, is always active during our waking hours; it covers our entire body, like a guard constantly alert to warn us of anything that could harm us. Whether we want to or not, we learn to use it primarily through experience and constant practice, so we don’t need special training for it. However, we know that blind people have a more reliable and sensitive sense of touch than we do, since they aren't guided by sight and must rely on touch for the information we get from seeing. So why aren’t we trained to navigate in the dark like they do, to recognize what we touch, to distinguish things around us—in other words, to do at night what they manage to do all day without sight? We have an advantage when the sun is shining; in the dark, it’s their time to lead us. We are blind half the time, but there’s a difference: the truly blind always know what to do, while we hesitate to move in the dark. You might say we have lights. But those are just artificial aids. Who can guarantee they’ll always be available when we need them? I would prefer Emil’s eyesight to be in his fingertips rather than in the shop of a candlemaker.

If you are shut up in a building at night, clap your hands, you will know from the sound whether the space is large or small, if you are in the middle or in one corner. Half a foot from a wall the air, which is refracted and does not circulate freely, produces a different effect on your face. Stand still in one place and turn this way and that; a slight draught will tell you if there is a door open. If you are on a boat you will perceive from the way the air strikes your face not merely the direction in which you are going, but whether the current is bearing you slow or fast. These observations and many others like them can only be properly made at night; however much attention we give to them by daylight, we are always helped or hindered by sight, so that the results escape us. Yet here we use neither hand nor stick. How much may be learnt by touch, without ever touching anything!

If you're stuck in a building at night, clap your hands, and you’ll be able to tell from the sound whether the space is large or small, and whether you're in the middle or a corner. Just half a foot away from a wall, the air, which gets refracted and doesn’t move freely, feels different on your face. Stand still and turn this way and that; a slight breeze will let you know if a door is open. If you're on a boat, you'll notice from how the air hits your face not just which direction you're moving in, but whether the current is carrying you fast or slow. You can only make these observations properly at night; no matter how carefully we look at them in the daytime, our sight always influences the results. Yet here we don't use our hands or any tools. There's so much you can learn by touch, without ever actually touching anything!

I would have plenty of games in the dark! This suggestion is more valuable than it seems at first sight. Men are naturally afraid of the dark; so are some animals. [Footnote: This terror is very noticeable during great eclipses of the sun.] Only a few men are freed from this burden by knowledge, determination, and courage. I have seen thinkers, unbelievers, philosophers, exceedingly brave by daylight, tremble like women at the rustling of a leaf in the dark. This terror is put down to nurses’ tales; this is a mistake; it has a natural cause. What is this cause? What makes the deaf suspicious and the lower classes superstitious? Ignorance of the things about us, and of what is taking place around us. [Footnote: Another cause has been well explained by a philosopher, often quoted in this work, a philosopher to whose wide views I am very greatly indebted.]

I would have plenty of games in the dark! This suggestion is more valuable than it seems at first glance. People are naturally afraid of the dark, as are some animals. [Footnote: This fear is very noticeable during significant solar eclipses.] Only a few people are freed from this burden through knowledge, determination, and courage. I have seen thinkers, nonbelievers, and philosophers—who are incredibly brave in the daylight—tremble like women at the rustling of a leaf in the dark. This fear is often attributed to stories from nurses, which is a mistake; it has a natural cause. What is this cause? What makes the deaf suspicious and the lower classes superstitious? It’s ignorance of the things around us and what is happening in our environment. [Footnote: Another cause has been well explained by a philosopher, often quoted in this work, a philosopher to whom I am very greatly indebted for his broad insights.]

When under special conditions we cannot form a fair idea of distance, when we can only judge things by the size of the angle or rather of the image formed in our eyes, we cannot avoid being deceived as to the size of these objects. Every one knows by experience how when we are travelling at night we take a bush near at hand for a great tree at a distance, and vice versa. In the same way, if the objects were of a shape unknown to us, so that we could not tell their size in that way, we should be equally mistaken with regard to it. If a fly flew quickly past a few inches from our eyes, we should think it was a distant bird; a horse standing still at a distance from us in the midst of open country, in a position somewhat like that of a sheep, would be taken for a large sheep, so long as we did not perceive that it was a horse; but as soon as we recognise what it is, it seems as large as a horse, and we at once correct our former judgment.

When we’re in certain situations and can't accurately gauge distance, relying only on the angle or the image formed in our eyes, it’s easy to be fooled about the size of objects. Everyone has experienced how, while traveling at night, we might mistake a nearby bush for a faraway tree, and vice versa. Similarly, if we encounter objects with shapes we don't recognize, we could easily misjudge their size. For example, if a fly zipped by just inches away from us, we might think it was a bird in the distance. A horse standing still far away in an open field, looking somewhat like a sheep, could be mistaken for a large sheep until we realize it’s actually a horse. Once we recognize it, it suddenly seems as big as a horse, and we quickly adjust our earlier perception.

Whenever one finds oneself in unknown places at night where we cannot judge of distance, and where we cannot recognise objects by their shape on account of the darkness, we are in constant danger of forming mistaken judgments as to the objects which present themselves to our notice. Hence that terror, that kind of inward fear experienced by most people on dark nights. This is foundation for the supposed appearances of spectres, or gigantic and terrible forms which so many people profess to have seen. They are generally told that they imagined these things, yet they may really have seen them, and it is quite possible they really saw what they say they did see; for it will always be the case that when we can only estimate the size of an object by the angle it forms in the eye, that object will swell and grow as we approach it; and if the spectator thought it several feet high when it was thirty or forty feet away, it will seem very large indeed when it is a few feet off; this must indeed astonish and alarm the spectator until he touches it and perceives what it is, for as soon as he perceives what it is, the object which seemed so gigantic will suddenly shrink and assume its real size, but if we run away or are afraid to approach, we shall certainly form no other idea of the thing than the image formed in the eye, and we shall have really seen a gigantic figure of alarming size and shape. There is, therefore, a natural ground for the tendency to see ghosts, and these appearances are not merely the creation of the imagination, as the men of science would have us think.—Buffon, Nat. Hist.

Whenever you're in unfamiliar places at night, where you can't judge distances and can't recognize shapes because of the darkness, you're at risk of making wrong assumptions about the objects you see. This leads to that fear, that inner anxiety that many people feel on dark nights. It's the reason for the alleged sightings of ghosts or enormous, frightening figures that numerous people claim to have seen. They're often told they just imagined these things, but they might have genuinely seen them. It's entirely possible they really did see what they say they saw. When we can only judge the size of an object based on the angle it forms in our vision, the object will seem to grow larger as we get closer. If someone thinks it’s several feet tall when it's thirty or forty feet away, it will indeed look enormous when it’s just a few feet away. This can astonish and frighten them until they touch it and realize what it is. As soon as they recognize it, the object that seemed so huge will suddenly shrink down to its actual size. But if we run away or are too scared to approach, we'll only have the idea that was formed in our mind, and we will have genuinely perceived a giant figure of alarming size and shape. Therefore, there's a natural reason for people having visions of ghosts, and these experiences aren't just the product of imagination, despite what scientists might want us to believe.

In the text I have tried to show that they are always partly the creation of the imagination, and with regard to the cause explained in this quotation, it is clear that the habit of walking by night should teach us to distinguish those appearances which similarity of form and diversity of distance lend to the objects seen in the dark. For if the air is light enough for us to see the outlines there must be more air between us and them when they are further off, so that we ought to see them less distinctly when further off, which should be enough, when we are used to it, to prevent the error described by M. Buffon. [Whichever explanation you prefer, my mode of procedure is still efficacious, and experience entirely confirms it.] Accustomed to perceive things from a distance and to calculate their effects, how can I help supposing, when I cannot see, that there are hosts of creatures and all sorts of movements all about me which may do me harm, and against which I cannot protect myself? In vain do I know I am safe where I am; I am never so sure of it as when I can actually see it, so that I have always a cause for fear which did not exist in broad daylight. I know, indeed, that a foreign body can scarcely act upon me without some slight sound, and how intently I listen! At the least sound which I cannot explain, the desire of self-preservation makes me picture everything that would put me on my guard, and therefore everything most calculated to alarm me.

In this text, I've tried to show that our perceptions are always partly shaped by our imaginations. Concerning the reason mentioned in this quote, it's obvious that walking at night should help us differentiate the appearances that the similarity in shapes and varying distances gives to objects we see in the dark. If the air is clear enough for us to see outlines, then there must be more air between us and those objects when they're further away, which means we should see them less clearly at a distance. Once we get used to this, it should help prevent the confusion that M. Buffon described. [Regardless of which explanation you prefer, my approach still works, and experience fully supports it.] Being used to seeing things from afar and gauging their effects, how can I not imagine that there are countless creatures and movements around me that could harm me, especially when I can't see them? Even though I know I'm safe, I never feel as certain about it as I do when I can actually see it, so I always have a reason to feel fear that doesn’t exist in the bright light of day. I know that a foreign object can barely affect me without making a slight sound, and I listen intently! At the slightest noise I can't explain, my instinct for self-preservation makes me envision everything that could threaten me, leading to a heightened sense of alarm.

I am just as uneasy if I hear no sound, for I might be taken unawares without a sound. I must picture things as they were before, as they ought to be; I must see what I do not see. Thus driven to exercise my imagination, it soon becomes my master, and what I did to reassure myself only alarms me more. I hear a noise, it is a robber; I hear nothing, it is a ghost. The watchfulness inspired by the instinct of self-preservation only makes me more afraid. Everything that ought to reassure me exists only for my reason, and the voice of instinct is louder than that of reason. What is the good of thinking there is nothing to be afraid of, since in that case there is nothing we can do?

I'm just as anxious when there's no sound because I could be caught off guard without warning. I have to imagine things as they were before, as they should be; I have to visualize what I can't see. This need to use my imagination soon takes control, and what I initially did to calm myself ends up making me even more anxious. If I hear a noise, it's a thief; if I hear nothing, it's a ghost. The vigilance sparked by my instinct to survive only increases my fear. Everything that should calm me is only there for my rational mind, and the voice of instinct is louder than reason. What good does it do to think there’s nothing to fear when, in that case, there’s nothing we can do?

The cause indicates the cure. In everything habit overpowers imagination; it is only aroused by what is new. It is no longer imagination, but memory which is concerned with what we see every day, and that is the reason of the maxim, “Ab assuetis non fit passio,” for it is only at the flame of imagination that the passions are kindled. Therefore do not argue with any one whom you want to cure of the fear of darkness; take him often into dark places and be assured this practice will be of more avail than all the arguments of philosophy. The tiler on the roof does not know what it is to be dizzy, and those who are used to the dark will not be afraid.

The cause shows the cure. In everything, habits overpower imagination; it’s only stirred by something new. It’s not imagination anymore, but memory that deals with what we see every day, which is why the saying goes, “Ab assuetis non fit passio,” because only the flame of imagination can ignite our passions. So don’t argue with anyone you want to help overcome their fear of darkness; take them into dark places often, and trust that this approach will be more effective than any philosophical arguments. The roofer doesn’t know what it feels like to be dizzy, and those who are used to the dark won’t be afraid.

There is another advantage to be gained from our games in the dark. But if these games are to be a success I cannot speak too strongly of the need for gaiety. Nothing is so gloomy as the dark: do not shut your child up in a dungeon, let him laugh when he goes, into a dark place, let him laugh when he comes out, so that the thought of the game he is leaving and the games he will play next may protect him from the fantastic imagination which might lay hold on him.

There’s another benefit to our games in the dark. But for these games to succeed, I can’t stress enough how important it is to have fun. Nothing is as depressing as darkness: don’t lock your child away in a dungeon; let them laugh when they enter a dark space and laugh again when they leave. That way, the memories of the game they just played and the games they will play next can shield them from any wild imagination that might take over.

There comes a stage in life beyond which we progress backwards. I feel I have reached this stage. I am, so to speak, returning to a past career. The approach of age makes us recall the happy days of our childhood. As I grow old I become a child again, and I recall more readily what I did at ten than at thirty. Reader, forgive me if I sometimes draw my examples from my own experience. If this book is to be well written, I must enjoy writing it.

There comes a point in life after which we start to go backward. I feel like I've hit that point. It's like I'm going back to an old career. Getting older makes us remember the happy days of our childhood. As I age, I find myself becoming a child again, and I remember what I did at ten much more easily than what I did at thirty. Reader, please excuse me if I occasionally use my own experiences as examples. If this book is going to be well written, I need to enjoy writing it.

I was living in the country with a pastor called M. Lambercier. My companion was a cousin richer than myself, who was regarded as the heir to some property, while I, far from my father, was but a poor orphan. My big cousin Bernard was unusually timid, especially at night. I laughed at his fears, till M. Lambercier was tired of my boasting, and determined to put my courage to the proof. One autumn evening, when it was very dark, he gave me the church key, and told me to go and fetch a Bible he had left in the pulpit. To put me on my mettle he said something which made it impossible for me to refuse.

I was living in the countryside with a pastor named M. Lambercier. My companion was a cousin who was wealthier than I was and was seen as the heir to some property, while I, far from my father, was just a poor orphan. My larger cousin Bernard was surprisingly timid, especially at night. I used to laugh at his fears until M. Lambercier got fed up with my bragging and decided to test my courage. One autumn evening, when it was very dark, he handed me the church key and told me to go get a Bible he had left in the pulpit. To challenge me, he said something that made it impossible for me to say no.

I set out without a light; if I had had one, it would perhaps have been even worse. I had to pass through the graveyard; I crossed it bravely, for as long as I was in the open air I was never afraid of the dark.

I headed out without a light; if I had one, it might have made things even worse. I had to walk through the cemetery; I went through it confidently, because as long as I was outside, I didn't feel scared of the dark.

As I opened the door I heard a sort of echo in the roof; it sounded like voices and it began to shake my Roman courage. Having opened the door I tried to enter, but when I had gone a few steps I stopped. At the sight of the profound darkness in which the vast building lay I was seized with terror and my hair stood on end. I turned, I went out through the door, and took to my heels. In the yard I found a little dog, called Sultan, whose caresses reassured me. Ashamed of my fears, I retraced my steps, trying to take Sultan with me, but he refused to follow. Hurriedly I opened the door and entered the church. I was hardly inside when terror again got hold of me and so firmly that I lost my head, and though the pulpit was on the right, as I very well knew, I sought it on the left, and entangling myself among the benches I was completely lost. Unable to find either pulpit or door, I fell into an indescribable state of mind. At last I found the door and managed to get out of the church and run away as I had done before, quite determined never to enter the church again except in broad daylight.

As I opened the door, I heard an echo from above; it sounded like voices and started to shake my nerve. After opening the door, I tried to step inside, but after a few paces, I stopped. The deep darkness surrounding the enormous building frightened me, and my hair stood on end. I turned around, rushed through the doorway, and took off. In the yard, I found a little dog named Sultan, whose affection calmed me down. Embarrassed by my fear, I went back, trying to bring Sultan with me, but he wouldn’t follow. I quickly opened the door and entered the church. I had barely stepped inside when fear took hold of me again, so strongly that I lost my sense of direction, and even though I knew the pulpit was on the right, I looked for it on the left. I got tangled up in the benches and felt completely disoriented. Unable to find either the pulpit or the exit, I fell into an indescribable panic. Finally, I located the door and managed to escape the church, running away as I had before, fully resolved never to enter the church again except in broad daylight.

I returned to the house; on the doorstep I heard M. Lambercier laughing, laughing, as I supposed, at me. Ashamed to face his laughter, I was hesitating to open the door, when I heard Miss Lambercier, who was anxious about me, tell the maid to get the lantern, and M. Lambercier got ready to come and look for me, escorted by my gallant cousin, who would have got all the credit for the expedition. All at once my fears departed, and left me merely surprised at my terror. I ran, I fairly flew, to the church; without losing my way, without groping about, I reached the pulpit, took the Bible, and ran down the steps. In three strides I was out of the church, leaving the door open. Breathless, I entered the room and threw the Bible on the table, frightened indeed, but throbbing with pride that I had done it without the proposed assistance.

I went back to the house; on the doorstep, I heard M. Lambercier laughing, laughing, as I guessed, at me. Embarrassed to face his laughter, I hesitated to open the door when I heard Miss Lambercier, who was worried about me, telling the maid to get the lantern, and M. Lambercier was getting ready to come look for me, accompanied by my brave cousin, who would have taken all the credit for the mission. Suddenly, my fears vanished, leaving me just surprised at my earlier terror. I ran, I practically flew to the church; without losing my way or stumbling around, I reached the pulpit, took the Bible, and raced down the steps. In three strides, I was out of the church, leaving the door open. Breathless, I entered the room and threw the Bible on the table, genuinely scared, but filled with pride that I had done it without the planned help.

You will ask if I am giving this anecdote as an example, and as an illustration, of the mirth which I say should accompany these games. Not so, but I give it as a proof that there is nothing so well calculated to reassure any one who is afraid in the dark as to hear sounds of laughter and talking in an adjoining room. Instead of playing alone with your pupil in the evening, I would have you get together a number of merry children; do not send them alone to begin with, but several together, and do not venture to send any one quite alone, until you are quite certain beforehand that he will not be too frightened.

You might wonder if I'm sharing this story as an example or to illustrate the joy that should come with these games. That's not the case; I'm sharing it to show that nothing reassures someone who’s scared of the dark quite like hearing laughter and conversation coming from a nearby room. Instead of playing alone with your student in the evening, I suggest gathering a group of cheerful kids. Don't send them in by themselves at first; have several go together. And don’t risk sending anyone completely alone until you’re sure they won’t be too scared.

I can picture nothing more amusing and more profitable than such games, considering how little skill is required to organise them. In a large room I should arrange a sort of labyrinth of tables, armchairs, chairs, and screens. In the inextricable windings of this labyrinth I should place some eight or ten sham boxes, and one real box almost exactly like them, but well filled with sweets. I should describe clearly and briefly the place where the right box would be found. I should give instructions sufficient to enable people more attentive and less excitable than children to find it. [Footnote: To practise them in attention, only tell them things which it is clearly to their present interest that they should understand thoroughly; above all be brief, never say a word more than necessary. But neither let your speech be obscure nor of doubtful meaning.] Then having made the little competitors draw lots, I should send first one and then another till the right box was found. I should increase the difficulty of the task in proportion to their skill.

I can imagine nothing more entertaining and more rewarding than these games, considering how little skill is needed to set them up. In a large room, I would arrange a kind of maze with tables, armchairs, chairs, and screens. In the twists and turns of this maze, I would place about eight or ten fake boxes and one real box that looks almost exactly like them, but is filled with sweets. I would clearly and briefly describe where the right box can be found. I would give instructions good enough for people who are more attentive and less excitable than children to locate it. [Footnote: To train them in attention, only tell them things that are clearly in their current interest to understand thoroughly; above all, be concise, never say a word more than necessary. But do not let your speech be unclear or ambiguous.] Then, after having the little competitors draw lots, I would let one person go at a time until the right box was found. I would increase the difficulty of the task based on their skill level.

Picture to yourself a youthful Hercules returning, box in hand, quite proud of his expedition. The box is placed on the table and opened with great ceremony. I can hear the bursts of laughter and the shouts of the merry party when, instead of the looked-for sweets, he finds, neatly arranged on moss or cotton-wool, a beetle, a snail, a bit of coal, a few acorns, a turnip, or some such thing. Another time in a newly whitewashed room, a toy or some small article of furniture would be hung on the wall and the children would have to fetch it without touching the wall. When the child who fetches it comes back, if he has failed ever so little to fulfil the conditions, a dab of white on the brim of his cap, the tip of his shoe, the flap of his coat or his sleeve, will betray his lack of skill.

Imagine a young Hercules returning, box in hand, really proud of his adventure. He puts the box on the table and opens it with a lot of flair. I can hear the laughter and cheers of the joyful group when, instead of the expected treats, he discovers, neatly arranged on moss or cotton, a beetle, a snail, a piece of coal, a few acorns, a turnip, or something similar. Another time, in a freshly painted room, a toy or a small piece of furniture would be hung on the wall, and the kids would have to retrieve it without touching the wall. When the child who gets it back returns, if they’ve slipped up even a little bit—like getting a bit of white paint on the brim of their cap, the tip of their shoe, the flap of their coat, or their sleeve—it will reveal their lack of skill.

This is enough, or more than enough, to show the spirit of these games. Do not read my book if you expect me to tell you everything.

This is enough, or even more than enough, to capture the essence of these games. Don't read my book if you think I'm going to share everything.

What great advantages would be possessed by a man so educated, when compared with others. His feet are accustomed to tread firmly in the dark, and his hands to touch lightly; they will guide him safely in the thickest darkness. His imagination is busy with the evening games of his childhood, and will find it difficult to turn towards objects of alarm. If he thinks he hears laughter, it will be the laughter of his former playfellows, not of frenzied spirits; if he thinks there is a host of people, it will not be the witches’ sabbath, but the party in his tutor’s study. Night only recalls these cheerful memories, and it will never alarm him; it will inspire delight rather than fear. He will be ready for a military expedition at any hour, with or without his troop. He will enter the camp of Saul, he will find his way, he will reach the king’s tent without waking any one, and he will return unobserved. Are the steeds of Rhesus to be stolen, you may trust him. You will scarcely find a Ulysses among men educated in any other fashion.

What great advantages would a well-educated man have compared to others. His feet are trained to move confidently in the dark, and his hands to feel softly; they will guide him safely even in the thickest darkness. His mind is filled with the fun games of his childhood evenings and will find it hard to focus on anything frightening. If he thinks he hears laughter, it will be the laughter of his childhood friends, not of wild spirits; if he thinks he sees a crowd, it will be the gathering in his tutor’s study, not a witches’ gathering. Night only brings back these happy memories, and it will never scare him; instead, it will bring him joy rather than fear. He will be prepared for a military campaign at any time, with or without his group. He will go into Saul's camp, find his way, reach the king’s tent without waking anyone, and return unnoticed. If the horses of Rhesus are to be stolen, you can count on him. You will hardly find another Ulysses among men educated in any other way.

I have known people who tried to train the children not to fear the dark by startling them. This is a very bad plan; its effects are just the opposite of those desired, and it only makes children more timid. Neither reason nor habit can secure us from the fear of a present danger whose degree and kind are unknown, nor from the fear of surprises which we have often experienced. Yet how will you make sure that you can preserve your pupil from such accidents? I consider this the best advice to give him beforehand. I should say to Emile, “This is a matter of self-defence, for the aggressor does not let you know whether he means to hurt or frighten you, and as the advantage is on his side you cannot even take refuge in flight. Therefore seize boldly anything, whether man or beast, which takes you unawares in the dark. Grasp it, squeeze it with all your might; if it struggles, strike, and do not spare your blows; and whatever he may say or do, do not let him go till you know just who he is. The event will probably prove that you had little to be afraid of, but this way of treating practical jokers would naturally prevent their trying it again.”

I've known people who tried to teach kids not to fear the dark by scaring them. This is a terrible approach; it only makes kids more anxious instead of helping. Neither reason nor habit can shield us from the fear of a present danger that's unknown or from the fear of surprises we’ve often faced. So how can you ensure that your student avoids such situations? I think this is the best advice to give him in advance. I’d tell Emile, “This is about defending yourself because the attacker won’t let you know if they want to harm or scare you, and since they have the upper hand, you can't just run away. So, grab anything—whether it’s a person or an animal—that catches you off guard in the dark. Hold it tightly; if it struggles, hit it, and don't hold back; and no matter what they say or do, don’t let go until you know who they are. In the end, you'll probably find that you had little to fear, but this approach would likely deter pranksters from trying it again.”

Although touch is the sense oftenest used, its discrimination remains, as I have already pointed out, coarser and more imperfect than that of any other sense, because we always use sight along with it; the eye perceives the thing first, and the mind almost always judges without the hand. On the other hand, discrimination by touch is the surest just because of its limitations; for extending only as far as our hands can reach, it corrects the hasty judgments of the other senses, which pounce upon objects scarcely perceived, while what we learn by touch is learnt thoroughly. Moreover, touch, when required, unites the force of our muscles to the action of the nerves; we associate by simultaneous sensations our ideas of temperature, size, and shape, to those of weight and density. Thus touch is the sense which best teaches us the action of foreign bodies upon ourselves, the sense which most directly supplies us with the knowledge required for self-preservation.

Although touch is the sense we use most often, its ability to distinguish is, as I’ve mentioned before, rougher and less accurate than any other sense because we always use sight alongside it; our eyes notice things first, and our minds usually make judgments without involving our hands. On the flip side, touch is the most reliable way to differentiate precisely because of its limits; since it only extends as far as our hands can reach, it corrects the quick assumptions made by our other senses, which rush to conclusions about objects that are barely noticed, while what we learn through touch is understood completely. Additionally, when necessary, touch combines the strength of our muscles with the action of our nerves; we connect simultaneous sensations of temperature, size, and shape with those of weight and density. Therefore, touch is the sense that best teaches us how external objects interact with us, providing us with the most direct knowledge needed for self-preservation.

As the trained touch takes the place of sight, why should it not, to some extent, take the place of hearing, since sounds set up, in sonorous bodies, vibrations perceptible by touch? By placing the hand on the body of a ’cello one can distinguish without the use of eye or ear, merely by the way in which the wood vibrates and trembles, whether the sound given out is sharp or flat, whether it is drawn from the treble string or the bass. If our touch were trained to note these differences, no doubt we might in time become so sensitive as to hear a whole tune by means of our fingers. But if we admit this, it is clear that one could easily speak to the deaf by means of music; for tone and measure are no less capable of regular combination than voice and articulation, so that they might be used as the elements of speech.

As our sense of touch replaces sight, why couldn't it also, to some extent, replace hearing, since sounds create vibrations in resonant materials that we can feel? By placing a hand on a cello, one can tell without using sight or hearing, just by the way the wood vibrates and shakes, whether the sound is sharp or flat, and whether it comes from the treble string or the bass. If we trained our touch to recognize these differences, we could potentially become sensitive enough to "hear" an entire tune with our fingers. If we accept this idea, it's clear that we could easily communicate with deaf people through music; after all, tone and rhythm can be combined just as systematically as voice and speech, making them usable as elements of communication.

There are exercises by which the sense of touch is blunted and deadened, and others which sharpen it and make it delicate and discriminating. The former, which employ much movement and force for the continued impression of hard bodies, make the skin hard and thick, and deprive it of its natural sensitiveness. The latter are those which give variety to this feeling, by slight and repeated contact, so that the mind is attentive to constantly recurring impressions, and readily learns to discern their variations. This difference is clear in the use of musical instruments. The harsh and painful touch of the ’cello, bass-viol, and even of the violin, hardens the finger-tips, although it gives flexibility to the fingers. The soft and smooth touch of the harpsichord makes the fingers both flexible and sensitive. In this respect the harpsichord is to be preferred.

There are exercises that dull and weaken the sense of touch, and others that enhance it, making it more refined and precise. The first type, which involves a lot of movement and force against hard surfaces, toughens the skin and takes away its natural sensitivity. The second type provides variety to this sensation through gentle and repeated contact, so the mind stays engaged with the ongoing impressions and quickly learns to notice their differences. This distinction is evident in how musical instruments are used. The rough and challenging touch of the cello, double bass, and even the violin can harden the fingertips, even though they make the fingers more flexible. In contrast, the soft and smooth touch of the harpsichord keeps the fingers both flexible and sensitive. For this reason, the harpsichord is the better choice.

The skin protects the rest of the body, so it is very important to harden it to the effects of the air that it may be able to bear its changes. With regard to this I may say I would not have the hand roughened by too servile application to the same kind of work, nor should the skin of the hand become hardened so as to lose its delicate sense of touch which keeps the body informed of what is going on, and by the kind of contact sometimes makes us shudder in different ways even in the dark.

The skin protects the rest of the body, so it’s really important to toughen it up against the effects of the air so that it can handle changes. In this regard, I’d say I wouldn’t want my hands to become rough from doing the same kind of work all the time, nor should the skin on my hands get so tough that it loses its delicate sense of touch, which lets the body know what’s happening and can make us shudder in different ways, even in the dark.

Why should my pupil be always compelled to wear the skin of an ox under his foot? What harm would come of it if his own skin could serve him at need as a sole. It is clear that a delicate skin could never be of any use in this way, and may often do harm. The Genevese, aroused at midnight by their enemies in the depth of winter, seized their guns rather than their shoes. Who can tell whether the town would have escaped capture if its citizens had not been able to go barefoot?

Why should my student always have to wear an ox-hide sole? What would happen if his own skin could be used as a sole when needed? It's obvious that delicate skin wouldn't work for that purpose and could often be harmful. The people of Geneva, awakened in the middle of winter by their enemies, grabbed their guns instead of their shoes. Who can say if the town would have avoided capture if its citizens hadn't been able to go barefoot?

Let a man be always fore-armed against the unforeseen. Let Emile run about barefoot all the year round, upstairs, downstairs, and in the garden. Far from scolding him, I shall follow his example; only I shall be careful to remove any broken glass. I shall soon proceed to speak of work and manual occupations. Meanwhile, let him learn to perform every exercise which encourages agility of body; let him learn to hold himself easily and steadily in any position, let him practise jumping and leaping, climbing trees and walls. Let him always find his balance, and let his every movement and gesture be regulated by the laws of weight, long before he learns to explain them by the science of statics. By the way his foot is planted on the ground, and his body supported on his leg, he ought to know if he is holding himself well or ill. An easy carriage is always graceful, and the steadiest positions are the most elegant. If I were a dancing master I would refuse to play the monkey tricks of Marcel, which are only fit for the stage where they are performed; but instead of keeping my pupil busy with fancy steps, I would take him to the foot of a cliff. There I would show him how to hold himself, how to carry his body and head, how to place first a foot then a hand, to follow lightly the steep, toilsome, and rugged paths, to leap from point to point, either up or down. He should emulate the mountain-goat, not the ballet dancer.

Let a man always be prepared for the unexpected. Let Emile run around barefoot all year long, upstairs, downstairs, and in the garden. Instead of scolding him, I'll follow his example; I'll just make sure to remove any broken glass. I’ll soon talk about work and hands-on activities. In the meantime, let him learn to do exercises that build agility; let him learn to maintain a relaxed and steady posture in any position, let him practice jumping, leaping, and climbing trees and walls. He should always find his balance, and every movement and gesture should follow the principles of weight, long before he learns to explain them through the science of statics. By how his foot is planted on the ground and his body is supported on his leg, he should be able to tell if he’s holding himself well or poorly. A relaxed posture is always graceful, and the most stable positions are the most elegant. If I were a dance teacher, I wouldn’t do the silly tricks of Marcel, which are only suitable for the stage; instead of keeping my student busy with flashy moves, I would take him to the base of a cliff. There, I would show him how to hold himself, how to position his body and head, how to place one foot and then a hand, to navigate the steep, challenging, and rough paths lightly, to leap from point to point, whether going up or down. He should strive to mimic the mountain goat, not the ballet dancer.

As touch confines its operations to the man’s immediate surroundings, so sight extends its range beyond them; it is this which makes it misleading; man sees half his horizon at a glance. In the midst of this host of simultaneous impressions and the thoughts excited by them, how can he fail now and then to make mistakes? Thus sight is the least reliable of our senses, just because it has the widest range; it functions long before our other senses, and its work is too hasty and on too large a scale to be corrected by the rest. Moreover, the very illusions of perspective are necessary if we are to arrive at a knowledge of space and compare one part of space with another. Without false appearances we should never see anything at a distance; without the gradations of size and tone we could not judge of distance, or rather distance would have no existence for us. If two trees, one of which was a hundred paces from us and the other ten, looked equally large and distinct, we should think they were side by side. If we perceived the real dimensions of things, we should know nothing of space; everything would seem close to our eyes.

As touch limits its effects to what’s right around us, sight reaches far beyond that; this is what makes it deceiving. A person can see half their horizon at once. With all these simultaneous impressions and the thoughts they spark, how can they avoid making mistakes now and then? This is why sight is the least reliable of our senses—it has the widest reach, working long before our other senses do, and it operates too quickly and on too broad a scale to be corrected by them. Furthermore, the very illusions of perspective are essential for us to understand space and compare different areas within it. Without misleading images, we wouldn’t be able to see anything at a distance; without variations in size and tone, we couldn’t judge distance, or rather, distance wouldn’t even exist for us. If two trees, one a hundred paces away and the other ten, appeared equally large and clear, we would think they were right next to each other. If we perceived the true sizes of things, we wouldn’t understand space at all; everything would appear very close to us.

The angle formed between any objects and our eye is the only means by which our sight estimates their size and distance, and as this angle is the simple effect of complex causes, the judgment we form does not distinguish between the several causes; we are compelled to be inaccurate. For how can I tell, by sight alone, whether the angle at which an object appears to me smaller than another, indicates that it is really smaller or that it is further off.

The angle created between any objects and our eyes is the only way our vision estimates their size and distance. Since this angle is a straightforward result of complicated causes, the judgments we make can't tell apart the different causes; we have to be inaccurate. After all, how can I know, just by looking, whether the angle making one object appear smaller than another means it is actually smaller or that it's just farther away?

Here we must just reverse our former plan. Instead of simplifying the sensation, always reinforce it and verify it by means of another sense. Subject the eye to the hand, and, so to speak, restrain the precipitation of the former sense by the slower and more reasoned pace of the latter. For want of this sort of practice our sight measurements are very imperfect. We cannot correctly, and at a glance, estimate height, length, breadth, and distance; and the fact that engineers, surveyors, architects, masons, and painters are generally quicker to see and better able to estimate distances correctly, proves that the fault is not in our eyes, but in our use of them. Their occupations give them the training we lack, and they check the equivocal results of the angle of vision by its accompanying experiences, which determine the relations of the two causes of this angle for their eyes.

Here we need to change our previous approach. Instead of simplifying the sensation, we should always enhance it and confirm it using another sense. Let the eye follow the hand, and slow down the immediacy of the former sense with the more deliberate pace of the latter. Without this kind of practice, our visual measurements are quite flawed. We can't accurately estimate height, length, width, and distance at a glance. The fact that engineers, surveyors, architects, masons, and painters usually have a keener sense of sight and can judge distances better shows that the issue isn't with our eyes, but with how we use them. Their professions provide them with the training we lack, allowing them to verify the ambiguous results from their perspective with additional experiences that help them understand the relationship between the two factors affecting their vision.

Children will always do anything that keeps them moving freely. There are countless ways of rousing their interest in measuring, perceiving, and estimating distance. There is a very tall cherry tree; how shall we gather the cherries? Will the ladder in the barn be big enough? There is a wide stream; how shall we get to the other side? Would one of the wooden planks in the yard reach from bank to bank? From our windows we want to fish in the moat; how many yards of line are required? I want to make a swing between two trees; will two fathoms of cord be enough? They tell me our room in the new house will be twenty-five feet square; do you think it will be big enough for us? Will it be larger than this? We are very hungry; here are two villages, which can we get to first for our dinner?

Kids will always do anything that lets them move around freely. There are endless ways to spark their interest in measuring, seeing, and estimating distance. There's a really tall cherry tree; how are we going to pick the cherries? Will the ladder in the barn be long enough? There's a wide stream; how will we get to the other side? Could one of the wooden planks in the yard reach from one bank to the other? From our windows, we want to fish in the moat; how many yards of line do we need? I want to make a swing between two trees; will two fathoms of rope be enough? They say our new room will be twenty-five feet square; do you think it will be big enough for us? Will it be larger than this one? We're really hungry; here are two villages, which one can we reach first for dinner?

An idle, lazy child was to be taught to run. He had no liking for this or any other exercise, though he was intended for the army. Somehow or other he had got it into his head that a man of his rank need know nothing and do nothing—that his birth would serve as a substitute for arms and legs, as well as for every kind of virtue. The skill of Chiron himself would have failed to make a fleet-footed Achilles of this young gentleman. The difficulty was increased by my determination to give him no kind of orders. I had renounced all right to direct him by preaching, promises, threats, emulation, or the desire to show off. How should I make him want to run without saying anything? I might run myself, but he might not follow my example, and this plan had other drawbacks. Moreover, I must find some means of teaching him through this exercise, so as to train mind and body to work together. This is how I, or rather how the teacher who supplied me with this illustration, set about it.

A lazy, idle kid needed to be taught how to run. He didn't like this or any other exercise, even though he was meant for the army. Somehow, he had convinced himself that someone of his social status didn't need to know or do anything—he thought his birthright would take the place of effort and virtue. Even the greatest teacher wouldn't have been able to turn this guy into a swift Achilles. The challenge was made worse by my choice not to give him any orders. I had given up all rights to guide him through preaching, promises, threats, competition, or the desire to impress. How could I make him want to run without saying a word? I could run myself, but he might not follow my lead, and that idea had its own issues. Plus, I needed to find a way to teach him through this exercise, so that I could train both his mind and body to work together. This is how I, or more accurately, the teacher who provided this example, approached the situation.

When I took him a walk of an afternoon I sometimes put in my pocket a couple of cakes, of a kind he was very fond of; we each ate one while we were out, and we came back well pleased with our outing. One day he noticed I had three cakes; he could have easily eaten six, so he ate his cake quickly and asked for the other. “No,” said I, “I could eat it myself, or we might divide it, but I would rather see those two little boys run a race for it.” I called them to us, showed them the cake, and suggested that they should race for it. They were delighted. The cake was placed on a large stone which was to be the goal; the course was marked out, we sat down, and at a given signal off flew the children! The victor seized the cake and ate it without pity in the sight of the spectators and of his defeated rival.

When I took him for a walk one afternoon, I would sometimes slip a couple of cakes in my pocket that he really liked; we each had one while we were out, and we came back happy from our little adventure. One day, he noticed I had three cakes; he could have easily eaten six, so he quickly ate his cake and asked for another. “No,” I said, “I could eat it myself, or we could share it, but I’d rather see those two little boys race for it.” I called them over, showed them the cake, and suggested that they race for it. They were thrilled. We placed the cake on a big stone that would be the finish line; the course was set, we sat down, and on the signal, off the kids went! The winner grabbed the cake and devoured it with no mercy in front of the spectators and his defeated friend.

The sport was better than the cake; but the lesson did not take effect all at once, and produced no result. I was not discouraged, nor did I hurry; teaching is a trade at which one must be able to lose time and save it. Our walks were continued, sometimes we took three cakes, sometimes four, and from time to time there were one or two cakes for the racers. If the prize was not great, neither was the ambition of the competitors. The winner was praised and petted, and everything was done with much ceremony. To give room to run and to add interest to the race I marked out a longer course and admitted several fresh competitors. Scarcely had they entered the lists than all the passers-by stopped to watch. They were encouraged by shouting, cheering, and clapping. I sometimes saw my little man trembling with excitement, jumping up and shouting when one was about to reach or overtake another—to him these were the Olympian games.

The sport was more enjoyable than the cake, but the lesson didn’t take effect immediately and no results came from it. I wasn’t discouraged, nor did I rush; teaching is a skill that requires patience and knowing when to take your time. Our walks continued, and sometimes we took three cakes, sometimes four, and occasionally there were one or two cakes for the racers. If the prize wasn’t substantial, neither was the ambition of the competitors. The winner received praise and attention, and everything was done with great ceremony. To create more space for running and to make the race more exciting, I marked out a longer course and allowed several new competitors to join. As soon as they entered the field, all the passersby stopped to watch. They were encouraged by cheering, clapping, and shouting. Sometimes I saw my little guy trembling with excitement, jumping up and shouting when one was about to catch up to or pass another—these were the Olympic games for him.

However, the competitors did not always play fair, they got in each other’s way, or knocked one another down, or put stones on the track. That led us to separate them and make them start from different places at equal distances from the goal. You will soon see the reason for this, for I must describe this important affair at length.

However, the competitors didn’t always play fair; they got in each other’s way, knocked one another down, or put obstacles on the track. That led us to separate them and make them start from different spots at equal distances from the goal. You will soon see why this was necessary, as I need to explain this important situation in detail.

Tired of seeing his favourite cakes devoured before his eyes, the young lord began to suspect that there was some use in being a quick runner, and seeing that he had two legs of his own, he began to practise running on the quiet. I took care to see nothing, but I knew my stratagem had taken effect. When he thought he was good enough (and I thought so too), he pretended to tease me to give him the other cake. I refused; he persisted, and at last he said angrily, “Well, put it on the stone and mark out the course, and we shall see.” “Very good,” said I, laughing, “You will get a good appetite, but you will not get the cake.” Stung by my mockery, he took heart, won the prize, all the more easily because I had marked out a very short course and taken care that the best runner was out of the way. It will be evident that, after the first step, I had no difficulty in keeping him in training. Soon he took such a fancy for this form of exercise that without any favour he was almost certain to beat the little peasant boys at running, however long the course.

Tired of watching his favorite cakes vanish right in front of him, the young lord started to think that being a fast runner might come in handy. Realizing he had two legs of his own, he secretly began training to run. I made sure to stay out of sight, but I knew my plan was working. When he felt confident enough (and I agreed), he playfully challenged me to give him the other cake. I refused; he kept pushing, and finally, he said angrily, “Alright, put it on the stone and mark out the course, and we’ll see.” “Sounds good,” I said, laughing, “You’ll build up a good appetite, but you won’t get the cake.” Hurt by my teasing, he gathered his determination, won the race, which was made even easier since I had set up a very short course and ensured that the fastest runner was out of the way. It was clear that after that first step, I had no trouble keeping him in shape. Eventually, he became so fond of this type of exercise that without any special help, he was almost guaranteed to beat the little peasant boys in any race, no matter the distance.

The advantage thus obtained led unexpectedly to another. So long as he seldom won the prize, he ate it himself like his rivals, but as he got used to victory he grew generous, and often shared it with the defeated. That taught me a lesson in morals and I saw what was the real root of generosity.

The advantage he gained unexpectedly led to another benefit. As long as he rarely won the prize, he enjoyed it alone like his competitors, but as he became accustomed to winning, he became more generous and often shared it with those who lost. That taught me a valuable lesson about morals, and I understood the true essence of generosity.

While I continued to mark out a different starting place for each competitor, he did not notice that I had made the distances unequal, so that one of them, having farther to run to reach the goal, was clearly at a disadvantage. But though I left the choice to my pupil he did not know how to take advantage of it. Without thinking of the distance, he always chose the smoothest path, so that I could easily predict his choice, and could almost make him win or lose the cake at my pleasure. I had more than one end in view in this stratagem; but as my plan was to get him to notice the difference himself, I tried to make him aware of it. Though he was generally lazy and easy going, he was so eager in his sports and trusted me so completely that I had great difficulty in making him see that I was cheating him. When at last I managed to make him see it in spite of his excitement, he was angry with me. “What have you to complain of?” said I. “In a gift which I propose to give of my own free will am not I master of the conditions? Who makes you run? Did I promise to make the courses equal? Is not the choice yours? Do not you see that I am favouring you, and that the inequality you complain of is all to your advantage, if you knew how to use it?” That was plain to him; and to choose he must observe more carefully. At first he wanted to count the paces, but a child measures paces slowly and inaccurately; moreover, I decided to have several races on one day; and the game having become a sort of passion with the child, he was sorry to waste in measuring the portion of time intended for running. Such delays are not in accordance with a child’s impatience; he tried therefore to see better and to reckon the distance more accurately at sight. It was now quite easy to extend and develop this power. At length, after some months’ practice, and the correction of his errors, I so trained his power of judging at sight that I had only to place an imaginary cake on any distant object and his glance was nearly as accurate as the surveyor’s chain.

While I kept marking different starting points for each competitor, he didn’t notice that I had made the distances uneven, putting one of them at a clear disadvantage since they had to run farther to reach the goal. Even though I let my pupil choose, he couldn’t take advantage of it. Without considering the distance, he always picked the smoothest path, which made it easy for me to predict his choice and almost decide whether he would win or lose the cake. I had more than one goal with this trick; since my plan was to make him notice the difference himself, I tried to bring it to his attention. Although he was usually lazy and laid-back, he was so enthusiastic about sports and trusted me so fully that I found it hard to show him I was cheating. When I finally got him to see it despite his excitement, he got mad at me. “What are you complaining about?” I said. “In a gift I’m offering of my own free will, am I not in charge of the conditions? Who makes you run? Did I promise to make the courses equal? Isn’t the choice yours? Don’t you see that I’m actually helping you, and that the inequality you’re upset about is all to your advantage if you knew how to use it?” That was clear to him; to choose, he needed to pay more attention. At first, he wanted to count his steps, but a kid measures steps slowly and inaccurately; plus, I planned to have several races in one day, and since the game had become a bit of an obsession for him, he didn’t want to waste time measuring instead of running. This kind of delay doesn’t fit a child’s impatience; so he tried to see better and gauge the distance more accurately by sight. It became quite easy to enhance and develop this ability. Eventually, after months of practice and correcting his mistakes, I trained his power of visual judgment so well that I just had to place an imaginary cake on a distant object and his gaze was almost as precise as a surveyor's chain.

Of all the senses, sight is that which we can least distinguish from the judgments of the mind; as it takes a long time to learn to see. It takes a long time to compare sight and touch, and to train the former sense to give a true report of shape and distance. Without touch, without progressive motion, the sharpest eyes in the world could give us no idea of space. To the oyster the whole world must seem a point, and it would seem nothing more to it even if it had a human mind. It is only by walking, feeling, counting, measuring the dimensions of things, that we learn to judge them rightly; but, on the other hand, if we were always measuring, our senses would trust to the instrument and would never gain confidence. Nor must the child pass abruptly from measurement to judgment; he must continue to compare the parts when he could not compare the whole; he must substitute his estimated aliquot parts for exact aliquot parts, and instead of always applying the measure by hand he must get used to applying it by eye alone. I would, however, have his first estimates tested by measurement, so that he may correct his errors, and if there is a false impression left upon the senses he may correct it by a better judgment. The same natural standards of measurement are in use almost everywhere, the man’s foot, the extent of his outstretched arms, his height. When the child wants to measure the height of a room, his tutor may serve as a measuring rod; if he is estimating the height of a steeple let him measure it by the house; if he wants to know how many leagues of road there are, let him count the hours spent in walking along it. Above all, do not do this for him; let him do it himself.

Of all the senses, sight is the one we can least separate from our mental judgments; it takes a long time to learn how to see. It takes a long time to compare sight and touch and to train our vision to accurately report shape and distance. Without touch and movement, even the sharpest eyes in the world wouldn't give us any idea of space. To an oyster, the whole world must seem like just a point, and even if it had a human mind, it would still see it that way. We only learn to judge things accurately by walking, feeling, counting, and measuring their dimensions; however, if we were always measuring, our senses would rely on tools and would never build confidence. A child should not rush from measurement to judgment; they need to keep comparing parts when they can’t compare the whole. They should replace their rough estimates with exact measurements and get used to judging things visually rather than always measuring by hand. I would, however, recommend that their first estimates be checked with actual measurements, so they can correct their mistakes, and if there’s a wrong impression left on their senses, they can adjust it with better judgment. The same natural standards of measurement are used nearly everywhere: a man’s foot, the reach of his outstretched arms, his height. When a child wants to measure a room's height, their tutor can act as a measuring stick; if they're estimating the height of a steeple, they should compare it to the height of a house; if they want to know how many miles of road there are, they should count the hours spent walking it. Most importantly, don’t do this for them; let them do it themselves.

One cannot learn to estimate the extent and size of bodies without at the same time learning to know and even to copy their shape; for at bottom this copying depends entirely on the laws of perspective, and one cannot estimate distance without some feeling for these laws. All children in the course of their endless imitation try to draw; and I would have Emile cultivate this art; not so much for art’s sake, as to give him exactness of eye and flexibility of hand. Generally speaking, it matters little whether he is acquainted with this or that occupation, provided he gains clearness of sense—perception and the good bodily habits which belong to the exercise in question. So I shall take good care not to provide him with a drawing master, who would only set him to copy copies and draw from drawings. Nature should be his only teacher, and things his only models. He should have the real thing before his eyes, not its copy on paper. Let him draw a house from a house, a tree from a tree, a man from a man; so that he may train himself to observe objects and their appearance accurately and not to take false and conventional copies for truth. I would even train him to draw only from objects actually before him and not from memory, so that, by repeated observation, their exact form may be impressed on his imagination, for fear lest he should substitute absurd and fantastic forms for the real truth of things, and lose his sense of proportion and his taste for the beauties of nature.

You can't learn to judge the size and extent of objects without also learning to understand and even replicate their shape; in essence, this replication is entirely based on the rules of perspective, and you can't gauge distance without some grasp of those rules. All kids, through their endless imitations, try to draw; I want Emile to develop this skill, not just for the sake of art, but to sharpen his eye and enhance his hand's flexibility. Generally speaking, it doesn't really matter whether he's familiar with this or that trade, as long as he gains clarity of perception and the good physical skills that come from the practice. So, I will make sure he doesn't have a drawing teacher who would just have him copy other copies and draw from reproductions. Nature should be his only teacher, and real objects his only models. He should see the actual item, not just its representation on paper. Let him draw a house from an actual house, a tree from a real tree, a person from a real person, so he learns to observe things and their appearances accurately and doesn't mistake false and conventional representations for reality. I would even guide him to draw only from objects in front of him and not from memory, so that through repeated observation, their precise forms get imprinted on his mind, to prevent him from creating absurd and fantastical shapes instead of recognizing the true nature of things, and to maintain his sense of proportion and appreciation for the beauty of nature.

Of course I know that in this way he will make any number of daubs before he produces anything recognisable, that it will be long before he attains to the graceful outline and light touch of the draughtsman; perhaps he will never have an eye for picturesque effect or a good taste in drawing. On the other hand, he will certainly get a truer eye, a surer hand, a knowledge of the real relations of form and size between animals, plants, and natural objects, together with a quicker sense of the effects of perspective. That is just what I wanted, and my purpose is rather that he should know things than copy them. I would rather he showed me a plant of acanthus even if he drew a capital with less accuracy.

Of course, I know that this way he’ll make a lot of rough sketches before he creates anything recognizable, and it will take a while before he achieves the graceful lines and light touch of a skilled artist; maybe he’ll never have an eye for a picturesque scene or good taste in drawing. On the flip side, he will definitely develop a better eye, a steadier hand, a solid understanding of the real proportions of animals, plants, and natural objects, along with a sharper sense of perspective. That’s exactly what I want, and my goal is more for him to understand things rather than just copy them. I’d prefer he show me a plant of acanthus even if his drawing of a capital is less precise.

Moreover, in this occupation as in others, I do not intend my pupil to play by himself; I mean to make it pleasanter for him by always sharing it with him. He shall have no other rival; but mine will be a continual rivalry, and there will be no risk attaching to it; it will give interest to his pursuits without awaking jealousy between us. I shall follow his example and take up a pencil; at first I shall use it as unskilfully as he. I should be an Apelles if I did not set myself daubing. To begin with, I shall draw a man such as lads draw on walls, a line for each arm, another for each leg, with the fingers longer than the arm. Long after, one or other of us will notice this lack of proportion; we shall observe that the leg is thick, that this thickness varies, that the length of the arm is proportionate to the body. In this improvement I shall either go side by side with my pupil, or so little in advance that he will always overtake me easily and sometimes get ahead of me. We shall get brushes and paints, we shall try to copy the colours of things and their whole appearance, not merely their shape. We shall colour prints, we shall paint, we shall daub; but in all our daubing we shall be searching out the secrets of nature, and whatever we do shall be done under the eye of that master.

Moreover, in this job, just like in others, I don’t want my student to work alone; I plan to make it more enjoyable for him by always being involved. He won’t have any other competitors; my competition will be ongoing and completely risk-free. It will keep things interesting for him without creating any jealousy between us. I’ll follow his lead and pick up a pencil; at first, I’ll use it just as clumsily as he does. I’d be a master if I didn’t let myself mess up. To start, I’ll draw a person like kids do on walls, a line for each arm, another for each leg, with fingers longer than the arms. Eventually, one of us will notice this lack of proportion; we’ll see that the legs are thick and that thickness changes, and that arm length is related to body size. In this improvement, I’ll either move along with my student or be just a little ahead so that he can easily catch up and occasionally surpass me. We’ll get brushes and paints and try to replicate the colors of things and their entire look, not just their shape. We’ll color prints, we’ll paint, we’ll dabble; but in all our efforts, we’ll be exploring the secrets of nature, and everything we do will be done under the supervision of that master.

We badly needed ornaments for our room, and now we have them ready to our hand. I will have our drawings framed and covered with good glass, so that no one will touch them, and thus seeing them where we put them, each of us has a motive for taking care of his own. I arrange them in order round the room, each drawing repeated some twenty or thirty times, thus showing the author’s progress in each specimen, from the time when the house is merely a rude square, till its front view, its side view, its proportions, its light and shade are all exactly portrayed. These graduations will certainly furnish us with pictures, a source of interest to ourselves and of curiosity to others, which will spur us on to further emulation. The first and roughest drawings I put in very smart gilt frames to show them off; but as the copy becomes more accurate and the drawing really good, I only give it a very plain dark frame; it needs no other ornament than itself, and it would be a pity if the frame distracted the attention which the picture itself deserves. Thus we each aspire to a plain frame, and when we desire to pour scorn on each other’s drawings, we condemn them to a gilded frame. Some day perhaps “the gilt frame” will become a proverb among us, and we shall be surprised to find how many people show what they are really made of by demanding a gilt frame.

We really needed decorations for our room, and now we have them ready to go. I’ll get our drawings framed and covered with good glass, so that no one can touch them, and by seeing them where we place them, each of us has a reason to take care of his own. I’ll arrange them around the room, with each drawing repeated about twenty or thirty times, showcasing the artist’s progress in each piece, from when the house is just a rough square to its front view, side view, proportions, and the way light and shadow are accurately captured. These variations will definitely give us pictures that interest us and spark curiosity in others, encouraging us to pursue further improvement. I’ll put the first and roughest drawings in fancy gilt frames to highlight them; but as the copies get more accurate and the drawings turn out really well, I’ll just use very simple dark frames. They don’t need any other decoration besides themselves, and it would be a shame if the frame took away from the attention the artwork deserves. So, we all aim for a plain frame, and when we want to mock each other’s drawings, we put them in gilded frames. Maybe one day “the gilt frame” will become a saying among us, and we’ll be surprised to see how many people reveal their true character by insisting on a gilt frame.

I have said already that geometry is beyond the child’s reach; but that is our own fault. We fail to perceive that their method is not ours, that what is for us the art of reasoning, should be for them the art of seeing. Instead of teaching them our way, we should do better to adopt theirs, for our way of learning geometry is quite as much a matter of imagination as of reasoning. When a proposition is enunciated you must imagine the proof; that is, you must discover on what proposition already learnt it depends, and of all the possible deductions from that proposition you must choose just the one required.

I’ve already mentioned that geometry is hard for kids to grasp, but that’s on us. We fail to recognize that their approach is different from ours; what we see as reasoning, they see as observation. Instead of insisting they learn our way, we’d be better off adopting their method because our understanding of geometry relies just as much on imagination as it does on reasoning. When a statement is made, you need to visualize the proof; that is, you have to figure out which previously learned statement it relies on, and from all the possible conclusions of that statement, you need to pick the one that's needed.

In this way the closest reasoner, if he is not inventive, may find himself at a loss. What is the result? Instead of making us discover proofs, they are dictated to us; instead of teaching us to reason, our memory only is employed.

In this way, the sharpest thinker, if lacking creativity, may feel stuck. What’s the outcome? Instead of helping us uncover evidence, it’s handed to us; instead of guiding us to think critically, our memory is just put to work.

Draw accurate figures, combine them together, put them one upon another, examine their relations, and you will discover the whole of elementary geometry in passing from one observation to another, without a word of definitions, problems, or any other form of demonstration but super-position. I do not profess to teach Emile geometry; he will teach me; I shall seek for relations, he will find them, for I shall seek in such a fashion as to make him find. For instance, instead of using a pair of compasses to draw a circle, I shall draw it with a pencil at the end of bit of string attached to a pivot. After that, when I want to compare the radii one with another, Emile will laugh at me and show me that the same thread at full stretch cannot have given distances of unequal length. If I wish to measure an angle of 60 degrees I describe from the apex of the angle, not an arc, but a complete circle, for with children nothing must be taken for granted. I find that the part of the circle contained between the two lines of the angle is the sixth part of a circle. Then I describe another and larger circle from the same centre, and I find the second arc is again the sixth part of its circle. I describe a third concentric circle with a similar result, and I continue with more and more circles till Emile, shocked at my stupidity, shows me that every arc, large or small, contained by the same angle will always be the sixth part of its circle. Now we are ready to use the protractor.

Draw accurate figures, combine them, and stack them on top of each other. Examine their relationships, and you'll uncover all of elementary geometry by moving from one observation to another, without needing definitions, problems, or any other form of proof except for superposition. I don’t claim to teach Emile geometry; he will teach me. I’ll look for relationships, and he’ll discover them, as I’ll search in a way that leads him to find them. For example, instead of using a compass to draw a circle, I’ll use a pencil attached to a piece of string tied to a pivot. Later, when I want to compare the radii, Emile will laugh at me and point out that the same string, when fully stretched, can’t result in unequal distances. If I want to measure an angle of 60 degrees, I’ll draw a full circle from the vertex of the angle rather than just an arc, because with kids, nothing should be assumed. I find that the segment of the circle between the two angle lines is one-sixth of a circle. Then I draw another larger circle from the same center and discover that the second arc is again one-sixth of its circle. I draw a third concentric circle with the same outcome, and I keep going with more circles until Emile, baffled by my foolishness, points out that every arc—big or small—within the same angle will always be one-sixth of its circle. Now we’re ready to use the protractor.

To prove that two adjacent angles are equal to two right angles people describe a circle. On the contrary I would have Emile observe the fact in a circle, and then I should say, “If we took away the circle and left the straight lines, would the angles have changed their size, etc.?”

To show that two adjacent angles equal two right angles, people describe a circle. However, I would have Emile observe what's happening in a circle, and then I would say, “If we removed the circle and only had the straight lines, would the angles change in size, etc.?”

Exactness in the construction of figures is neglected; it is taken for granted and stress is laid on the proof. With us, on the other hand, there will be no question of proof. Our chief business will be to draw very straight, accurate, and even lines, a perfect square, a really round circle. To verify the exactness of a figure we will test it by each of its sensible properties, and that will give us a chance to discover fresh properties day by day. We will fold the two semi-circles along the diameter, the two halves of the square by the diagonal; he will compare our two figures to see who has got the edges to fit most exactly, i.e., who has done it best; we should argue whether this equal division would always be possible in parallelograms, trapezes, etc. We shall sometimes try to forecast the result of an experiment, to find reasons, etc.

Precision in drawing shapes is often overlooked; it's assumed and more emphasis is placed on the proof. Here, however, we won’t focus on proof. Our main task will be to create very straight, accurate, and consistent lines, a perfect square, and a truly round circle. To check the accuracy of a shape, we’ll test it against its recognizable properties, which will allow us to uncover new properties daily. We’ll fold the two semi-circles along the diameter and the two halves of the square by the diagonal; we will compare our two shapes to see whose edges fit together more perfectly, meaning who has done it better; we should discuss whether this equal division would always be possible in parallelograms, trapezoids, etc. Sometimes, we will attempt to predict the outcome of an experiment and explore the reasoning behind it, etc.

Geometry means to my scholar the successful use of the rule and compass; he must not confuse it with drawing, in which these instruments are not used. The rule and compass will be locked up, so that he will not get into the way of messing about with them, but we may sometimes take our figures with us when we go for a walk, and talk over what we have done, or what we mean to do.

Geometry means, to my student, the effective use of a ruler and compass; they should not mistake it for drawing, which doesn’t use these tools. The ruler and compass will be secured so they don’t get tempted to mess around with them, but we might sometimes take our shapes with us when we go for a walk and discuss what we’ve accomplished or what we plan to do.

I shall never forget seeing a young man at Turin, who had learnt as a child the relations of contours and surfaces by having to choose every day isoperimetric cakes among cakes of every geometrical figure. The greedy little fellow had exhausted the art of Archimedes to find which were the biggest.

I will never forget seeing a young man in Turin who, as a child, learned about the shapes and surfaces by having to pick isoperimetric cakes from a variety of geometrical figures every day. The eager little guy had mastered Archimedes' techniques to figure out which ones were the biggest.

When the child flies a kite he is training eye and hand to accuracy; when he whips a top, he is increasing his strength by using it, but without learning anything. I have sometimes asked why children are not given the same games of skill as men; tennis, mall, billiards, archery, football, and musical instruments. I was told that some of these are beyond their strength, that the child’s senses are not sufficiently developed for others. These do not strike me as valid reasons; a child is not as tall as a man, but he wears the same sort of coat; I do not want him to play with our cues at a billiard-table three feet high; I do not want him knocking about among our games, nor carrying one of our racquets in his little hand; but let him play in a room whose windows have been protected; at first let him only use soft balls, let his first racquets be of wood, then of parchment, and lastly of gut, according to his progress. You prefer the kite because it is less tiring and there is no danger. You are doubly wrong. Kite-flying is a sport for women, but every woman will run away from a swift ball. Their white skins were not meant to be hardened by blows and their faces were not made for bruises. But we men are made for strength; do you think we can attain it without hardship, and what defence shall we be able to make if we are attacked? People always play carelessly in games where there is no danger. A falling kite hurts nobody, but nothing makes the arm so supple as protecting the head, nothing makes the sight so accurate as having to guard the eye. To dash from one end of the room to another, to judge the rebound of a ball before it touches the ground, to return it with strength and accuracy, such games are not so much sports fit for a man, as sports fit to make a man of him.

When a child flies a kite, he's training his hand-eye coordination; when he spins a top, he's building strength, but doesn't really learn anything. I've sometimes wondered why kids aren't allowed to play the same skill games as adults—like tennis, croquet, billiards, archery, football, and musical instruments. I was told that some of these are too physically demanding for them, and their senses aren’t developed enough for others. I don’t think those are good reasons; a child may not be as tall as an adult, but he can wear a similar coat. I wouldn’t want him playing with our billiard cues on a table three feet high or knocking around among our games, nor carrying one of our racquets in his tiny hand. But he could play in a room with protected windows; at first, let him only use soft balls, let his initial racquets be made of wood, then parchment, and finally gut, as he gets better. You prefer the kite because it’s less exhausting and there’s no risk. You’re mistaken on both counts. Kite-flying is a sport for women, but every woman will run away from a fast ball. Their delicate skin isn’t meant to take hits, and their faces aren’t made for bruises. But we men are built for strength; do you think we can achieve it without facing challenges, and what kind of defense can we offer if we’re attacked? People tend to play carelessly in games without risks. A falling kite doesn’t hurt anyone, but nothing makes the arm as flexible as protecting the head, and nothing sharpens the eye like having to guard it. To dash from one side of the room to the other, to estimate the bounce of a ball before it hits the ground, and to return it with force and precision—these games aren't just sports suitable for a man, but rather sports that shape him into one.

The child’s limbs, you say, are too tender. They are not so strong as those of a man, but they are more supple. His arm is weak, still it is an arm, and it should be used with due consideration as we use other tools. Children have no skill in the use of their hands. That is just why I want them to acquire skill; a man with as little practice would be just as clumsy. We can only learn the use of our limbs by using them. It is only by long experience that we learn to make the best of ourselves, and this experience is the real object of study to which we cannot apply ourselves too early.

The child's limbs, you say, are too delicate. They aren't as strong as an adult's, but they are more flexible. His arm may be weak, but it's still an arm, and it should be used thoughtfully, just like we use other tools. Kids lack skill in using their hands. That’s exactly why I want them to develop those skills; an adult with that little practice would be just as awkward. We can only learn to use our limbs by actually using them. It’s through extensive experience that we figure out how to make the most of ourselves, and this experience is the real focus of learning that we can't start too early.

What is done can be done. Now there is nothing commoner than to find nimble and skilful children whose limbs are as active as those of a man. They may be seen at any fair, swinging, walking on their hands, jumping, dancing on the tight rope. For many years past, troops of children have attracted spectators to the ballets at the Italian Comedy House. Who is there in Germany and Italy who has not heard of the famous pantomime company of Nicolini? Has it ever occurred to any one that the movements of these children were less finished, their postures less graceful, their ears less true, their dancing more clumsy than those of grown-up dancers? If at first the fingers are thick, short, and awkward, the dimpled hands unable to grasp anything, does this prevent many children from learning to read and write at an age when others cannot even hold a pen or pencil? All Paris still recalls the little English girl of ten who did wonders on the harpsichord. I once saw a little fellow of eight, the son of a magistrate, who was set like a statuette on the table among the dishes, to play on a fiddle almost as big as himself, and even artists were surprised at his execution.

What can be done, can be done. It's now common to see agile and skilled children whose limbs are as active as those of an adult. You can find them at any fair, swinging, walking on their hands, jumping, and dancing on a tightrope. For many years, groups of children have drawn crowds to the ballets at the Italian Comedy House. Who in Germany and Italy hasn’t heard of the famous pantomime company of Nicolini? Has it ever crossed anyone's mind that these children's movements were less polished, their postures less graceful, their timing less accurate, and their dancing more awkward than that of adult dancers? Even if their fingers are thick, short, and uncoordinated, and their chubby hands struggle to grasp anything, does that stop many kids from learning to read and write at an age when others can barely hold a pen or pencil? All of Paris still remembers the little English girl of ten who performed wonders on the harpsichord. I once saw a little boy of eight, the son of a magistrate, who was placed like a statue on the table among the dishes, playing a fiddle almost as big as he was, and even artists were amazed by his skill.

To my mind, these and many more examples prove that the supposed incapacity of children for our games is imaginary, and that if they are unsuccessful in some of them, it is for want of practice.

In my opinion, these and many other examples show that the idea that children can't play our games is a myth, and if they struggle with some of them, it's just because they haven't had enough practice.

You will tell me that with regard to the body I am falling into the same mistake of precocious development which I found fault with for the mind. The cases are very different: in the one, progress is apparent only; in the other it is real. I have shown that children have not the mental development they appear to have, while they really do what they seem to do. Besides, we must never forget that all this should be play, the easy and voluntary control of the movements which nature demands of them, the art of varying their games to make them pleasanter, without the least bit of constraint to transform them into work; for what games do they play in which I cannot find material for instruction for them? And even if I could not do so, so long as they are amusing themselves harmlessly and passing the time pleasantly, their progress in learning is not yet of such great importance. But if one must be teaching them this or that at every opportunity, it cannot be done without constraint, vexation, or tedium.

You might argue that when it comes to the body, I'm making the same mistake of premature development that I criticized in terms of the mind. But the two cases are quite different: in the first, progress is only superficial; in the second, it's genuine. I've demonstrated that kids don't have the mental development they appear to possess, while they can actually do what it seems like they can do. Additionally, we should always remember that this should all be fun—an effortless and natural control of the movements that nature requires of them, and the skill of varying their games to make them more enjoyable, without any pressure to turn them into work. After all, what games do they play that I can't find valuable teaching moments in? And even if I couldn’t find any teaching moments, as long as they're having harmless fun and enjoying themselves, their learning progress isn’t that critical yet. But if we feel the need to teach them something at every chance, it’s bound to create pressure, frustration, or boredom.

What I have said about the use of the two senses whose use is most constant and most important, may serve as an example of how to train the rest. Sight and touch are applied to bodies at rest and bodies in motion, but as hearing is only affected by vibrations of the air, only a body in motion can make a noise or sound; if everything were at rest we should never hear. At night, when we ourselves only move as we choose, we have nothing to fear but moving bodies; hence we need a quick ear, and power to judge from the sensations experienced whether the body which causes them is large or small, far off or near, whether its movements are gentle or violent. When once the air is set in motion, it is subject to repercussions which produce echoes, these renew the sensations and make us hear a loud or penetrating sound in another quarter. If you put your ear to the ground you may hear the sound of men’s voices or horses’ feet in a plain or valley much further off than when you stand upright.

What I've said about using the two senses that are most consistently and importantly involved can serve as an example for training the others. Sight and touch apply to both stationary and moving objects, but since hearing is only affected by air vibrations, only a moving object can create noise or sound; if everything were still, we wouldn't hear anything. At night, when we can only move as we wish, our only concern is moving objects; therefore, we need a keen ear and the ability to judge from the sensations we feel whether the source is large or small, far away or close, and whether its movements are gentle or aggressive. Once the air is in motion, it can bounce back and create echoes, which renew the sensations and make us hear a loud or piercing sound from another direction. If you put your ear to the ground, you might hear voices or the sound of horses' hooves in a plain or valley much farther away than when you're standing upright.

As we have made a comparison between sight and touch, it will be as well to do the same for hearing, and to find out which of the two impressions starting simultaneously from a given body first reaches the sense-organ. When you see the flash of a cannon, you have still time to take cover; but when you hear the sound it is too late, the ball is close to you. One can reckon the distance of a thunderstorm by the interval between the lightning and the thunder. Let the child learn all these facts, let him learn those that are within his reach by experiment, and discover the rest by induction; but I would far rather he knew nothing at all about them, than that you should tell him.

As we've compared sight and touch, we should do the same for hearing and figure out which of the two sensations that originate from a source first reaches the sense organ. When you see a cannon's flash, you still have time to take cover; but when you hear the sound, it's too late—the projectile is already near you. You can estimate the distance of a thunderstorm by counting the seconds between seeing the lightning and hearing the thunder. Let the child learn all these facts through experience, and discover the rest through reasoning; but I would much rather he knew nothing about them than have you explain them to him.

In the voice we have an organ answering to hearing; we have no such organ answering to sight, and we do not repeat colours as we repeat sounds. This supplies an additional means of cultivating the ear by practising the active and passive organs one with the other.

In hearing, we have an organ that responds to sound; we don't have a similar organ for sight, and we can’t repeat colors the way we can repeat sounds. This provides another way to develop our listening skills by practicing both the active and passive parts together.

Man has three kinds of voice, the speaking or articulate voice, the singing or melodious voice, and the pathetic or expressive voice, which serves as the language of the passions, and gives life to song and speech. The child has these three voices, just as the man has them, but he does not know how to use them in combination. Like us, he laughs, cries, laments, shrieks, and groans, but he does not know how to combine these inflexions with speech or song. These three voices find their best expression in perfect music. Children are incapable of such music, and their singing lacks feeling. In the same way their spoken language lacks expression; they shout, but they do not speak with emphasis, and there is as little power in their voice as there is emphasis in their speech. Our pupil’s speech will be plainer and simpler still, for his passions are still asleep, and will not blend their tones with his. Do not, therefore, set him to recite tragedy or comedy, nor try to teach declamation so-called. He will have too much sense to give voice to things he cannot understand, or expression to feelings he has never known.

Humans have three types of voices: the speaking or articulate voice, the singing or melodic voice, and the expressive or emotional voice, which conveys feelings and brings life to song and speech. A child has these three voices just like an adult, but they don’t know how to use them together. Like us, they laugh, cry, mourn, scream, and groan, but they can't combine these tones with speech or singing. These three voices are best expressed in perfect music. Children aren't capable of such music, and their singing lacks depth. Similarly, their spoken language lacks expression; they shout, but they don’t speak with emphasis, and their voice holds no power, just as their speech lacks emphasis. Our student’s speech will be even more straightforward and simpler because their emotions are still dormant and won’t blend with their tones. So, don’t have them recite tragedy or comedy, and don’t attempt to teach them to declaim. They will be too aware to vocalize things they can’t grasp or to express feelings they’ve never experienced.

Teach him to speak plainly and distinctly, to articulate clearly, to pronounce correctly and without affectation, to perceive and imitate the right accent in prose and verse, and always to speak loud enough to be heard, but without speaking too loud—a common fault with school-children. Let there be no waste in anything.

Teach him to speak clearly and distinctly, to articulate well, to pronounce correctly and naturally, to recognize and mimic the right accent in both prose and poetry, and always to speak loudly enough to be heard without being too loud—a common mistake among schoolchildren. Avoid any unnecessary waste in anything.

The same method applies to singing; make his voice smooth and true, flexible and full, his ear alive to time and tune, but nothing more. Descriptive and theatrical music is not suitable at his age——I would rather he sang no words; if he must have words, I would try to compose songs on purpose for him, songs interesting to a child, and as simple as his own thoughts.

The same approach works for singing; make his voice smooth and clear, flexible and rich, with an ear tuned to rhythm and melody, but nothing beyond that. Descriptive and dramatic music isn’t right for his age—I’d prefer he sang without words; if he really needs words, I’d try to create songs just for him, songs that capture a child's interest and are as simple as his own thoughts.

You may perhaps suppose that as I am in no hurry to teach Emile to read and write, I shall not want to teach him to read music. Let us spare his brain the strain of excessive attention, and let us be in no hurry to turn his mind towards conventional signs. I grant you there seems to be a difficulty here, for if at first sight the knowledge of notes seems no more necessary for singing than the knowledge of letters for speaking, there is really this difference between them: When we speak, we are expressing our own thoughts; when we sing we are expressing the thoughts of others. Now in order to express them we must read them.

You might think that since I’m not rushing to teach Emile to read and write, I won’t bother teaching him to read music either. Let’s avoid putting too much strain on his brain and not rush to get him focused on conventional symbols. I understand there seems to be a challenge here because, at first glance, knowing musical notes doesn’t seem more essential for singing than knowing letters is for speaking. However, there’s a key difference: When we speak, we’re sharing our own thoughts; when we sing, we’re conveying the thoughts of others. To express those thoughts, we need to read them.

But at first we can listen to them instead of reading them, and a song is better learnt by ear than by eye. Moreover, to learn music thoroughly we must make songs as well as sing them, and the two processes must be studied together, or we shall never have any real knowledge of music. First give your young musician practice in very regular, well-cadenced phrases; then let him connect these phrases with the very simplest modulations; then show him their relation one to another by correct accent, which can be done by a fit choice of cadences and rests. On no account give him anything unusual, or anything that requires pathos or expression. A simple, tuneful air, always based on the common chords of the key, with its bass so clearly indicated that it is easily felt and accompanied, for to train his voice and ear he should always sing with the harpsichord.

But at first, we can listen to songs instead of reading them, and a song is better learned by ear than by eye. Additionally, to understand music fully, we need to create songs as well as sing them, and both processes must be studied together, or we won't have any real knowledge of music. Start by giving your young musician practice with very regular, well-structured phrases; then let them connect these phrases with the simplest changes. Next, show them how these phrases relate to each other through correct emphasis, which can be achieved through a good choice of endings and pauses. Absolutely avoid giving them anything unusual, or anything that requires deep emotion or expression. A simple, catchy tune, always based on the common chords of the key, with its bass clearly defined so that it can be easily felt and accompanied, is essential, as to train their voice and ear, they should always sing along with the harpsichord.

We articulate the notes we sing the better to distinguish them; hence the custom of sol-faing with certain syllables. To tell the keys one from another they must have names and fixed intervals; hence the names of the intervals, and also the letters of the alphabet attached to the keys of the clavier and the notes of the scale. C and A indicate fixed sounds, invariable and always rendered by the same keys; Ut and La are different. Ut is always the dominant of a major scale, or the leading-note of a minor scale. La is always the dominant of a minor scale or the sixth of a major scale. Thus the letters indicate fixed terms in our system of music, and the syllables indicate terms homologous to the similar relations in different keys. The letters show the keys on the piano, and the syllables the degrees in the scale. French musicians have made a strange muddle of this. They have confused the meaning of the syllables with that of the letters, and while they have unnecessarily given us two sets of symbols for the keys of the piano, they have left none for the chords of the scales; so that Ut and C are always the same for them; this is not and ought not to be; if so, what is the use of C? Their method of sol-faing is, therefore, extremely and needlessly difficult, neither does it give any clear idea to the mind; since, by this method, Ut and Me, for example, may mean either a major third, a minor third, an augmented third, or a diminished third. What a strange thing that the country which produces the finest books about music should be the very country where it is hardest to learn music!

We sing notes to better distinguish them, which is why we use specific syllables in solfege. To differentiate the keys, they need names and fixed intervals, resulting in names for the intervals and letters of the alphabet assigned to the keys on the keyboard and the notes of the scale. C and A represent fixed sounds that are always produced by the same keys, while Ut and La are different. Ut is always the dominant of a major scale or the leading note of a minor scale. La serves as the dominant of a minor scale or the sixth note of a major scale. Thus, the letters signify fixed terms in our music system, and the syllables correspond to similar relationships in different keys. The letters indicate the keys on the piano, while the syllables represent the degrees in the scale. French musicians have created quite a mess with this. They have mixed up the meanings of the syllables and letters, and while they’ve unnecessarily provided two sets of symbols for the piano keys, they’ve left out any for the chords of the scales; hence, Ut and C are always the same for them. This shouldn’t be the case—what’s the point of C then? Their method of solfege is overly complicated and doesn’t provide any clear understanding, as Ut and Me, for instance, could mean a major third, minor third, augmented third, or diminished third. It's ironic that the country known for producing the best music books is also the hardest place to learn music!

Let us adopt a simpler and clearer plan with our pupil; let him have only two scales whose relations remain unchanged, and indicated by the same symbols. Whether he sings or plays, let him learn to fix his scale on one of the twelve tones which may serve as a base, and whether he modulates in D, C, or G, let the close be always Ut or La, according to the scale. In this way he will understand what you mean, and the essential relations for correct singing and playing will always be present in his mind; his execution will be better and his progress quicker. There is nothing funnier than what the French call “natural sol-faing;” it consists in removing the real meaning of things and putting in their place other meanings which only distract us. There is nothing more natural than sol-faing by transposition, when the scale is transposed. But I have said enough, and more than enough, about music; teach it as you please, so long as it is nothing but play.

Let's go with a simpler and clearer plan for our student; let him use just two scales that stay the same and are shown with the same symbols. Whether he sings or plays, he should learn to root his scale on one of the twelve tones that can act as a foundation, and whether he shifts into D, C, or G, let the ending always be Ut or La, depending on the scale. This way, he'll understand what you mean, and the key relationships for correct singing and playing will always be in his mind; his performance will improve, and his progress will be faster. There's nothing funnier than what the French call “natural sol-faing;” it involves taking away the true meaning of things and replacing them with other meanings that only confuse us. There's nothing more straightforward than sol-faing by transposition when the scale is moved. But I’ve said more than enough about music; teach it however you want, as long as it remains just a game.

We are now thoroughly acquainted with the condition of foreign bodies in relation to our own, their weight, form, colour, density, size, distance, temperature, stability, or motion. We have learnt which of them to approach or avoid, how to set about overcoming their resistance or to resist them so as to prevent ourselves from injury; but this is not enough. Our own body is constantly wasting and as constantly requires to be renewed. Although we have the power of changing other substances into our own, our choice is not a matter of indifference. Everything is not food for man, and what may be food for him is not all equally suitable; it depends on his racial constitution, the country he lives in, his individual temperament, and the way of living which his condition demands.

We now thoroughly understand the relationship between foreign bodies and our own, including their weight, shape, color, density, size, distance, temperature, stability, and motion. We have learned which of them to approach or avoid, how to overcome their resistance, or how to resist them to prevent injury; however, this is not enough. Our bodies are constantly wearing down and need to be renewed. While we can transform other substances into our own, our choices are not trivial. Not everything is suitable food for humans, and what is edible isn't always the best option; it depends on our racial makeup, the country we live in, our individual temperament, and the lifestyles our circumstances require.

If we had to wait till experience taught us to know and choose fit food for ourselves, we should die of hunger or poison; but a kindly providence which has made pleasure the means of self-preservation to sentient beings teaches us through our palate what is suitable for our stomach. In a state of nature there is no better doctor than a man’s own appetite, and no doubt in a state of nature man could find the most palateable food the most wholesome.

If we had to wait for experience to teach us how to choose the right food for ourselves, we would starve or poison ourselves; however, a kind providence has made pleasure the way to self-preservation for sentient beings, teaching us through our taste what is right for our bodies. In a natural state, there’s no better guide than our own appetite, and without a doubt, in a natural state, a person could find the most enjoyable food to be the healthiest.

Nor is this all. Our Maker provides, not only for those needs he has created, but for those we create for ourselves; and it is to keep the balance between our wants and our needs that he has caused our tastes to change and vary with our way of living. The further we are from a state of nature, the more we lose our natural tastes; or rather, habit becomes a second nature, and so completely replaces our real nature, that we have lost all knowledge of it.

This isn't everything. Our Creator provides not only for the needs He has created but also for the ones we create for ourselves; and it is to maintain the balance between our wants and needs that He has made our preferences change and adapt with our way of life. The further we are from a natural state, the more we lose our innate tastes; or rather, habits become a second nature that completely replaces our true nature, to the point where we have lost all awareness of it.

From this it follows that the most natural tastes should be the simplest, for those are more easily changed; but when they are sharpened and stimulated by our fancies they assume a form which is incapable of modification. The man who so far has not adapted himself to one country can learn the ways of any country whatsoever; but the man who has adopted the habits of one particular country can never shake them off.

From this, it follows that the most natural tastes should be the simplest, as they can be changed more easily; but when they are heightened and influenced by our preferences, they take on a form that can't be changed. A person who hasn't settled in one country can learn the customs of any country; however, someone who has embraced the habits of a specific country can never truly let them go.

This seems to be true of all our senses, especially of taste. Our first food is milk; we only become accustomed by degrees to strong flavours; at first we dislike them. Fruit, vegetables, herbs, and then fried meat without salt or seasoning, formed the feasts of primitive man. When the savage tastes wine for the first time, he makes a grimace and spits it out; and even among ourselves a man who has not tasted fermented liquors before twenty cannot get used to them; we should all be sober if we did not have wine when we were children. Indeed, the simpler our tastes are, the more general they are; made dishes are those most frequently disliked. Did you ever meet with any one who disliked bread or water? Here is the finger of nature, this then is our rule. Preserve the child’s primitive tastes as long as possible; let his food be plain and simple, let strong flavours be unknown to his palate, and do not let his diet be too uniform.

This is true for all our senses, especially taste. Our first food is milk; we gradually get used to strong flavors, and initially, we don't like them. Primitive humans feasted on fruit, vegetables, herbs, and then unseasoned fried meat. When a savage tries wine for the first time, he grimaces and spits it out; even today, a person who hasn’t had fermented drinks by age twenty struggles to adjust to them; we would all be sober if we didn’t have wine as kids. In fact, the simpler our tastes are, the more universally liked they tend to be; complex dishes are often the most disliked. Have you ever met someone who doesn’t like bread or water? This is nature’s influence, and it serves as our guideline. Keep a child’s natural tastes as long as possible; let their food be plain and simple, keep strong flavors away from their palate, and avoid making their diet too repetitive.

I am not asking, for the present, whether this way of living is healthier or no; that is not what I have in view. It is enough for me to know that my choice is more in accordance with nature, and that it can be more readily adapted to other conditions. In my opinion, those who say children should be accustomed to the food they will have when they are grown up are mistaken. Why should their food be the same when their way of living is so different? A man worn out by labour, anxiety, and pain needs tasty foods to give fresh vigour to his brain; a child fresh from his games, a child whose body is growing, needs plentiful food which will supply more chyle. Moreover the grown man has already a settled profession, occupation, and home, but who can tell what Fate holds in store for the child? Let us not give him so fixed a bent in any direction that he cannot change it if required without hardship. Do not bring him up so that he would die of hunger in a foreign land if he does not take a French cook about with him; do not let him say at some future time that France is the only country where the food is fit to eat. By the way, that is a strange way of praising one’s country. On the other hand, I myself should say that the French are the only people who do not know what good food is, since they require such a special art to make their dishes eatable.

I'm not asking, right now, whether this way of living is healthier or not; that's not my point. It’s enough for me to know that my choice aligns better with nature and can be adapted to different circumstances more easily. In my view, those who believe children should be used to the food they'll have as adults are mistaken. Why should their food be the same when their lifestyles are so different? A man who's exhausted from work, stress, and pain needs flavorful foods to rejuvenate his mind; a child, just coming from play and whose body is growing, needs plenty of food to provide more nourishment. Plus, the adult already has a fixed job, occupation, and home, but who knows what the future holds for the child? Let’s not train him so rigidly in one direction that he can't change it if necessary without difficulty. Don’t raise him so that he would starve in a foreign land if he doesn’t have a French cook with him; don’t let him say later that France is the only place where the food is worth eating. By the way, that’s a strange way to praise one’s country. On the flip side, I would argue that the French are the only ones who don't really know what good food is, since they need such specialized skills to make their dishes enjoyable.

Of all our different senses, we are usually most affected by taste. Thus it concerns us more nearly to judge aright of what will actually become part of ourselves, than of that which will merely form part of our environment. Many things are matters of indifference to touch, hearing, and sight; but taste is affected by almost everything. Moreover the activity of this sense is wholly physical and material; of all the senses, it alone makes no appeal to the imagination, or at least, imagination plays a smaller part in its sensations; while imitation and imagination often bring morality into the impressions of the other senses. Thus, speaking generally, soft and pleasure-loving minds, passionate and truly sensitive dispositions, which are easily stirred by the other senses, are usually indifferent to this. From this very fact, which apparently places taste below our other senses and makes our inclination towards it the more despicable, I draw just the opposite conclusion—that the best way to lead children is by the mouth. Greediness is a better motive than vanity; for the former is a natural appetite directly dependent on the senses, while the latter is the outcome of convention, it is the slave of human caprice and liable to every kind of abuse. Believe me the child will cease to care about his food only too soon, and when his heart is too busy, his palate will be idle. When he is grown up greediness will be expelled by a host of stronger passions, while vanity will only be stimulated by them; for this latter passion feeds upon the rest till at length they are all swallowed up in it. I have sometimes studied those men who pay great attention to good eating, men whose first waking thought is—What shall we have to eat to-day? men who describe their dinner with as much detail as Polybius describes a combat. I have found these so-called men were only children of forty, without strength or vigour—fruges consumere nati. Gluttony is the vice of feeble minds. The gourmand has his brains in his palate, he can do nothing but eat; he is so stupid and incapable that the table is the only place for him, and dishes are the only things he knows anything about. Let us leave him to this business without regret; it is better for him and for us.

Of all our senses, taste usually affects us the most. Therefore, it’s more important for us to rightly judge what will actually become part of us rather than what will just be part of our surroundings. Many things don’t matter much to our sense of touch, hearing, or sight, but taste is influenced by almost everything. Additionally, this sense is entirely physical and material; of all the senses, it makes no appeal to the imagination, or at least, imagination plays a smaller role in its sensations. Meanwhile, imitation and imagination often bring morality into the impressions from the other senses. So, generally speaking, gentle and pleasure-seeking minds, passionate and sensitive people, who are easily stirred by other senses, tend to be indifferent to taste. From this point, which seems to place taste below our other senses and makes our attraction to it more contemptible, I draw the opposite conclusion—that the best way to guide children is through their mouths. Greediness is a better motivation than vanity; the former is a natural desire directly tied to the senses, while the latter is based on convention, a slave to human whims, and prone to various abuses. Believe me, a child will stop caring about food far too quickly, and when their heart is too occupied, their palate will be neglected. When they grow up, greediness will be replaced by stronger passions, while vanity will only be fueled by them; this latter passion feeds off the others until they are all consumed by it. I've sometimes observed those who are really into good eating, those whose first thoughts in the morning are—What will we eat today?—who describe their meals with as much detail as Polybius describes a battle. I’ve found that these so-called men are really just grown-up children, lacking in strength or vitality—fruges consumere nati. Gluttony is a weakness of feeble minds. The gourmand has his brain in his palate; he can only eat. He is so dull and incapable that the table is the only place for him, and dishes are the only things he knows anything about. Let’s leave him to his pursuits without regret; it’s better for him and for us.

It is a small mind that fears lest greediness should take root in the child who is fit for something better. The child thinks of nothing but his food, the youth pays no heed to it at all; every kind of food is good, and we have other things to attend to. Yet I would not have you use the low motive unwisely. I would not have you trust to dainties rather than to the honour which is the reward of a good deed. But childhood is, or ought to be, a time of play and merry sports, and I do not see why the rewards of purely bodily exercises should not be material and sensible rewards. If a little lad in Majorca sees a basket on the tree-top and brings it down with his sling, is it not fair that he should get something by this, and a good breakfast should repair the strength spent in getting it. If a young Spartan, facing the risk of a hundred stripes, slips skilfully into the kitchen, and steals a live fox cub, carries it off in his garment, and is scratched, bitten till the blood comes, and for shame lest he should be caught the child allows his bowels to be torn out without a movement or a cry, is it not fair that he should keep his spoils, that he should eat his prey after it has eaten him? A good meal should never be a reward; but why should it not be sometimes the result of efforts made to get it. Emile does not consider the cake I put on the stone as a reward for good running; he knows that the only way to get the cake is to get there first.

It’s a narrow-minded perspective to worry that greed might take hold of a child who deserves better. The child only thinks about food, while a young person doesn’t think about it at all; any kind of food is fine, and we have other things to focus on. Still, I wouldn’t want you to use a low motivation carelessly. I wouldn’t want you to rely on treats instead of the honor that comes from doing a good deed. But childhood is meant to be a time for play and fun, and I don’t see why the rewards for purely physical activities shouldn’t be tangible and real. If a little boy in Majorca spots a basket in a tree and knocks it down with his sling, isn’t it fair for him to get something for that, and should a good breakfast not replace the energy spent in achieving it? If a young Spartan, risking a hundred lashes, skillfully sneaks into the kitchen, steals a live fox cub, and carries it away in his clothing, enduring scratches and bites that draw blood while staying silent out of shame if caught, isn’t it fair for him to keep his prize and eat his catch after it has taken a toll on him? A good meal shouldn’t be seen as a reward; but why can’t it sometimes be the result of efforts made to obtain it? Emile doesn’t view the cake I place on the stone as a reward for running well; he knows the only way to get the cake is to reach it first.

This does not contradict my previous rules about simple food; for to tempt a child’s appetite you need not stimulate it, you need only satisfy it; and the commonest things will do this if you do not attempt to refine children’s taste. Their perpetual hunger, the result of their need for growth, will be the best sauce. Fruit, milk, a piece of cake just a little better than ordinary bread, and above all the art of dispensing these things prudently, by these means you may lead a host of children to the world’s end, without on the one hand giving them a taste for strong flavours, nor on the other hand letting them get tired of their food.

This doesn't go against my earlier rules about simple food; to make a child want to eat, you don't need to excite their appetite—you just need to satisfy it. The most basic foods will do the trick if you don't try to elevate children's tastes. Their constant hunger, driven by their need to grow, is the best seasoning. Fruits, milk, a piece of cake that’s just slightly better than plain bread, and especially the skill of providing these things wisely, can help you guide a group of children anywhere without making them crave strong flavors or letting them get bored with their food.

The indifference of children towards meat is one proof that the taste for meat is unnatural; their preference is for vegetable foods, such as milk, pastry, fruit, etc. Beware of changing this natural taste and making children flesh-eaters, if not for their health’s sake, for the sake of their character; for how can one explain away the fact that great meat-eaters are usually fiercer and more cruel than other men; this has been recognised at all times and in all places. The English are noted for their cruelty [Footnote: I am aware that the English make a boast of their humanity and of the kindly disposition of their race, which they call “good-natured people;” but in vain do they proclaim this fact; no one else says it of them.] while the Gaures are the gentlest of men. [Footnote: The Banians, who abstain from flesh even more completely than the Gaures, are almost as gentle as the Gaures themselves, but as their morality is less pure and their form of worship less reasonable they are not such good men.] All savages are cruel, and it is not their customs that tend in this direction; their cruelty is the result of their food. They go to war as to the chase, and treat men as they would treat bears. Indeed in England butchers are not allowed to give evidence in a court of law, no more can surgeons. [Footnote: One of the English translators of my book has pointed out my mistake, and both of them have corrected it. Butchers and surgeons are allowed to give evidence in the law courts, but butchers may not serve on juries in criminal cases, though surgeons are allowed to do so.] Great criminals prepare themselves for murder by drinking blood. Homer makes his flesh-eating Cyclops a terrible man, while his Lotus-eaters are so delightful that those who went to trade with them forgot even their own country to dwell among them.

The way children don't care much for meat shows that liking meat is unnatural; they actually prefer plant-based foods like milk, pastries, and fruit. Be cautious about changing this natural preference and turning kids into meat-eaters. If not for their health, then for the sake of their character; how can we ignore the fact that those who eat a lot of meat tend to be fiercer and more cruel than others? This has been recognized throughout history and across cultures. The English are known for their cruelty [Footnote: I know that the English pride themselves on their humanity and claim their race is kind, calling themselves “good-natured people”; but despite their declarations, no one else describes them that way.] while the Gaures are some of the gentlest people. [Footnote: The Banians, who avoid meat even more strictly than the Gaures, are almost as gentle as the Gaures themselves, but since their morality is less pure and their worship less reasonable, they aren’t as good as the Gaures.] All savages tend to be cruel, and it’s not their customs that cause this—it’s their diet. They go to war as if they are hunting and treat people the same way they would treat bears. In fact, in England, butchers aren’t allowed to testify in court, nor can surgeons. [Footnote: One of the English translators of my book pointed out my mistake, and both of them have corrected it. Butchers and surgeons are allowed to give evidence in court, but butchers can't serve on juries in criminal cases, whereas surgeons can.] Notorious criminals even prepare for murder by drinking blood. Homer depicts his meat-eating Cyclops as a terrifying figure, while his Lotus-eaters are so charming that those who went to trade with them forgot their own homeland to stay with them.

“You ask me,” said Plutarch, “why Pythagoras abstained from eating the flesh of beasts, but I ask you, what courage must have been needed by the first man who raised to his lips the flesh of the slain, who broke with his teeth the bones of a dying beast, who had dead bodies, corpses, placed before him and swallowed down limbs which a few moments ago were bleating, bellowing, walking, and seeing? How could his hand plunge the knife into the heart of a sentient creature, how could his eyes look on murder, how could he behold a poor helpless animal bled to death, scorched, and dismembered? how can he bear the sight of this quivering flesh? does not the very smell of it turn his stomach? is he not repelled, disgusted, horror-struck, when he has to handle the blood from these wounds, and to cleanse his fingers from the dark and viscous bloodstains?

“You ask me,” Plutarch said, “why Pythagoras avoided eating meat, but I wonder, what kind of courage did the first person need to raise a piece of slaughtered flesh to their lips, to bite into the bones of a dying animal, to have dead bodies in front of them and swallow limbs that just moments ago were bleating, bellowing, walking, and seeing? How could that person bring the knife down into the heart of a living creature, how could they bear to witness murder, how could they watch a helpless animal bleed to death, get burned, and be torn apart? How can anyone stand to see that quivering flesh? Doesn’t the very smell of it make them feel sick? Aren’t they repulsed, disgusted, and horrified when they have to deal with the blood from those wounds and clean their fingers from the dark, sticky bloodstains?”

     “The scorched skins wriggled upon the ground,
     The shrinking flesh bellowed upon the spit.
     Man cannot eat them without a shudder;
     He seems to hear their cries within his breast.
“The burned skins squirmed on the ground,  
The shrinking flesh screamed on the spit.  
No one can eat them without feeling a chill;  
It’s like he hears their cries deep inside him.

“Thus must he have felt the first time he did despite to nature and made this horrible meal; the first time he hungered for the living creature, and desired to feed upon the beast which was still grazing; when he bade them slay, dismember, and cut up the sheep which licked his hands. It is those who began these cruel feasts, not those who abandon them, who should cause surprise, and there were excuses for those primitive men, excuses which we have not, and the absence of such excuses multiplies our barbarity a hundredfold.

“That's how he must have felt the first time he defied nature and made that awful meal; the first time he craved a living creature and wanted to eat the animal that was still grazing; when he ordered them to kill, dismember, and butcher the sheep that licked his hands. It’s the ones who started these cruel feasts, not those who gave them up, who should be surprising, and there were justifications for those early humans that we don’t have, and the lack of such justifications increases our barbarity a hundredfold.”

“‘Mortals, beloved of the gods,’ says this primitive man, ‘compare our times with yours; see how happy you are, and how wretched were we. The earth, newly formed, the air heavy with moisture, were not yet subjected to the rule of the seasons. Three-fourths of the surface of the globe was flooded by the ever-shifting channels of rivers uncertain of their course, and covered with pools, lakes, and bottomless morasses. The remaining quarter was covered with woods and barren forests. The earth yielded no good fruit, we had no instruments of tillage, we did not even know the use of them, and the time of harvest never came for those who had sown nothing. Thus hunger was always in our midst. In winter, mosses and the bark of trees were our common food. A few green roots of dogs-bit or heather were a feast, and when men found beech-mast, nuts, or acorns, they danced for joy round the beech or oak, to the sound of some rude song, while they called the earth their mother and their nurse. This was their only festival, their only sport; all the rest of man’s life was spent in sorrow, pain, and hunger.

“‘Mortals, loved by the gods,’ says this ancient man, ‘compare our times with yours; see how happy you are and how miserable we were. The earth, newly created, the air thick with moisture, had not yet surrendered to the seasons. Three-fourths of the planet was flooded by constantly changing river channels, unsure of their paths, and covered with pools, lakes, and endless swamps. The remaining quarter was filled with woods and barren forests. The earth didn’t produce good fruit; we had no farming tools, we didn’t even know how to use them, and there was no harvest time for those who had planted nothing. Thus, hunger was always with us. In winter, moss and tree bark were our main food. A few green roots of dogs-bit or heather were a feast, and when people found beech-mast, nuts, or acorns, they danced for joy around the beech or oak, singing some crude song while they called the earth their mother and their provider. This was their only celebration, their only fun; the rest of humanity's life was filled with sorrow, pain, and hunger.

“‘At length, when the bare and naked earth no longer offered us any food, we were compelled in self-defence to outrage nature, and to feed upon our companions in distress, rather than perish with them. But you, oh, cruel men! who forces you to shed blood? Behold the wealth of good things about you, the fruits yielded by the earth, the wealth of field and vineyard; the animals give their milk for your drink and their fleece for your clothing. What more do you ask? What madness compels you to commit such murders, when you have already more than you can eat or drink? Why do you slander our mother earth, and accuse her of denying you food? Why do you sin against Ceres, the inventor of the sacred laws, and against the gracious Bacchus, the comforter of man, as if their lavish gifts were not enough to preserve mankind? Have you the heart to mingle their sweet fruits with the bones upon your table, to eat with the milk the blood of the beasts which gave it? The lions and panthers, wild beasts as you call them, are driven to follow their natural instinct, and they kill other beasts that they may live. But, a hundredfold fiercer than they, you fight against your instincts without cause, and abandon yourselves to the most cruel pleasures. The animals you eat are not those who devour others; you do not eat the carnivorous beasts, you take them as your pattern. You only hunger for the sweet and gentle creatures which harm no one, which follow you, serve you, and are devoured by you as the reward of their service.

“At last, when the bare and empty earth stopped providing us with any food, we were forced to go against nature and feed on our suffering companions instead of dying with them. But you, oh, cruel people! Who makes you shed blood? Look around at the wealth of good things— the fruits from the earth, the bounty of fields and vineyards; the animals give their milk for your drink and their wool for your clothes. What more do you want? What madness drives you to commit such murders when you already have more than you can eat or drink? Why do you insult our mother earth and blame her for not providing food? Why do you go against Ceres, who created the sacred laws, and against the generous Bacchus, who comforts mankind, as if their abundant gifts aren’t enough to sustain us? Do you have the heart to mix their sweet fruits with the bones on your table, to eat the milk alongside the blood of the animals that produce it? The lions and panthers, as you call them wild beasts, act on their natural instincts by killing other animals to survive. But you, a hundred times more ferocious than they, fight against your instincts for no reason and give in to the most brutal pleasures. The animals you eat are not the ones that kill others; you don’t eat the carnivorous beasts but take them as your example. You only crave the sweet and gentle creatures that do no harm, that follow you, serve you, and are devoured by you as a reward for their service.”

“‘O unnatural murderer! if you persist in the assertion that nature has made you to devour your fellow-creatures, beings of flesh and blood, living and feeling like yourself, stifle if you can that horror with which nature makes you regard these horrible feasts; slay the animals yourself, slay them, I say, with your own hands, without knife or mallet; tear them with your nails like the lion and the bear, take this ox and rend him in pieces, plunge your claws into his hide; eat this lamb while it is yet alive, devour its warm flesh, drink its soul with its blood. You shudder! you dare not feel the living throbbing flesh between your teeth? Ruthless man; you begin by slaying the animal and then you devour it, as if to slay it twice. It is not enough. You turn against the dead flesh, it revolts you, it must be transformed by fire, boiled and roasted, seasoned and disguised with drugs; you must have butchers, cooks, turnspits, men who will rid the murder of its horrors, who will dress the dead bodies so that the taste deceived by these disguises will not reject what is strange to it, and will feast on corpses, the very sight of which would sicken you.’”

“‘O unnatural murderer! If you keep insisting that nature designed you to devour your fellow beings—those made of flesh and blood, living and feeling just like you—then try to suppress the horror that nature gives you when you think about these gruesome feasts; kill the animals yourself, I say, with your bare hands—no knives or hammers allowed. Tear them apart with your nails like a lion or a bear, take this ox and rip him to shreds, sink your claws into his hide; eat this lamb while it’s still alive, devour its warm flesh, drink its essence with its blood. You shudder! You can’t bear the thought of the living, pulsing flesh between your teeth? Ruthless man; you start by killing the animal and then you eat it, as if to kill it again. That’s not enough for you. You turn away from the dead flesh, it disgusts you, so it must be transformed by fire, boiled and roasted, seasoned and masked with spices; you need butchers, cooks, and spit-turners—people to strip the murder of its horrors, to prepare the dead bodies in a way that will trick your taste into accepting what it shouldn’t, so you can feast on corpses that would make you sick just to look at.’”

Although this quotation is irrelevant, I cannot resist the temptation to transcribe it, and I think few of my readers will resent it.

Although this quote is unrelated, I can't resist the urge to write it down, and I believe few of my readers will mind.

In conclusion, whatever food you give your children, provided you accustom them to nothing but plain and simple dishes, let them eat and run and play as much as they want; you may be sure they will never eat too much and will never have indigestion; but if you keep them hungry half their time, when they do contrive to evade your vigilance, they will take advantage of it as far as they can; they will eat till they are sick, they will gorge themselves till they can eat no more. Our appetite is only excessive because we try to impose on it rules other than those of nature, opposing, controlling, prescribing, adding, or substracting; the scales are always in our hands, but the scales are the measure of our caprices not of our stomachs. I return to my usual illustration; among peasants the cupboard and the apple-loft are always left open, and indigestion is unknown alike to children and grown-up people.

In conclusion, whatever food you give your kids, as long as you get them used to nothing but plain and simple meals, let them eat and run and play as much as they like; you can be sure they won't overeat and won't have indigestion. But if you keep them hungry half the time, when they do manage to slip past your watch, they'll take full advantage of it; they'll eat until they feel sick, they'll stuff themselves until they can't eat anymore. Our appetite only seems excessive because we try to set rules that go against nature—opposing, controlling, prescribing, adding, or subtracting. We always hold the scales, but those scales reflect our whims, not our stomachs. I go back to my usual example; in peasant households, the pantry and the fruit storage are always left open, and neither children nor adults experience indigestion.

If, however, it happened that a child were too great an eater, though, under my system, I think it is impossible, he is so easily distracted by his favourite games that one might easily starve him without his knowing it. How is it that teachers have failed to use such a safe and easy weapon. Herodotus records that the Lydians, [Footnote: The ancient historians are full of opinions which may be useful, even if the facts which they present are false. But we do not know how to make any real use of history. Criticism and erudition are our only care; as if it mattered more that a statement were true or false than that we should be able to get a useful lesson from it. A wise man should consider history a tissue of fables whose morals are well adapted to the human heart.] under the pressure of great scarcity, decided to invent sports and other amusements with which to cheat their hunger, and they passed whole days without thought of food. Your learned teachers may have read this passage time after time without seeing how it might be applied to children. One of these teachers will probably tell me that a child does not like to leave his dinner for his lessons. You are right, sir—I was not thinking of that sort of sport.

If a child happens to be a big eater, which I think is unlikely under my system, he can get so easily distracted by his favorite games that he could be starved without realizing it. It's surprising that teachers haven’t used such a simple and effective strategy. Herodotus notes that the Lydians, [Footnote: The ancient historians offer many opinions that can be useful, even if their facts are often incorrect. However, we haven't figured out how to use history effectively. We focus solely on criticism and scholarship, as if it matters more whether a statement is true or false than whether it teaches us something valuable. A wise person should view history as a collection of stories whose lessons fit well with human nature.] during tough times when resources were scarce, decided to create sports and other activities to distract themselves from their hunger, allowing them to spend entire days without thinking about food. Your educated teachers might have read this passage many times without considering how it could be relevant to children. One of these teachers will probably argue that a child doesn’t want to skip dinner for lessons. You’re right, but that’s not the kind of distraction I’m talking about.

The sense of smell is to taste what sight is to touch; it goes before it and gives it warning that it will be affected by this or that substance; and it inclines it to seek or shun this experience according to the impressions received beforehand. I have been told that savages receive impressions quite different from ours, and that they have quite different ideas with regard to pleasant or unpleasant odours. I can well believe it. Odours alone are slight sensations; they affect the imagination rather than the senses, and they work mainly through the anticipations they arouse. This being so, and the tastes of savages being so unlike the taste of civilised men, they should lead them to form very different ideas with regard to flavours and therefore with regard to the odours which announce them. A Tartar must enjoy the smell of a haunch of putrid horseflesh, much as a sportsman enjoys a very high partridge. Our idle sensations, such as the scents wafted from the flower beds, must pass unnoticed among men who walk too much to care for strolling in a garden, and do not work enough to find pleasure in repose. Hungry men would find little pleasure in scents which did not proclaim the approach of food.

The sense of smell is to taste what sight is to touch; it leads the way and alerts it that this or that substance will have an effect; it encourages it to seek out or avoid this experience based on prior impressions. I've heard that people from different cultures experience sensations differently from us and have different ideas about pleasant or unpleasant smells. I can totally believe that. Smells alone are light sensations; they appeal to the imagination more than the senses, and they primarily work through the expectations they create. Given this, and since the tastes of indigenous people are so different from those of civilized societies, they likely develop very different perceptions of flavors and consequently the smells that indicate them. A Tartar must enjoy the smell of rotting horse meat just as much as a sportsman enjoys the scent of a well-aged partridge. Our casual sensations, like the fragrances from flower beds, probably go unnoticed by people who walk too much to enjoy a stroll in a garden and don’t work enough to appreciate taking a break. Hungry people would find little joy in scents that didn’t signal the approach of food.

Smell is the sense of the imagination; as it gives tone to the nerves it must have a great effect on the brain; that is why it revives us for the time, but eventually causes exhaustion. Its effects on love are pretty generally recognised. The sweet perfumes of a dressing-room are not so slight a snare as you may fancy them, and I hardly know whether to congratulate or condole with that wise and somewhat insensible person whose senses are never stirred by the scent of the flowers his mistress wears in her bosom.

Smell is the sense tied to our imagination; since it influences our nerves, it must have a significant impact on the brain. That's why it can revitalize us temporarily but ultimately leads to fatigue. Its effects on love are pretty well known. The pleasant fragrances in a dressing room aren’t as harmless as you might think, and I’m not sure whether to congratulate or feel sorry for that wise but somewhat unfeeling person whose senses are never awakened by the scent of the flowers his partner wears close to her heart.

Hence the sense of smell should not be over-active in early childhood; the imagination, as yet unstirred by changing passions, is scarcely susceptible of emotion, and we have not enough experience to discern beforehand from one sense the promise of another. This view is confirmed by observation, and it is certain that the sense of smell is dull and almost blunted in most children. Not that their sensations are less acute than those of grown-up people, but that there is no idea associated with them; they do not easily experience pleasure or pain, and are not flattered or hurt as we are. Without going beyond my system, and without recourse to comparative anatomy, I think we can easily see why women are generally fonder of perfumes than men.

So, the sense of smell shouldn't be very strong in early childhood; the imagination, not yet stirred by changing feelings, is hardly capable of emotion, and we don't have enough experience to predict one sense from another. This idea is backed up by observation, and it's clear that the sense of smell is weak and almost dull in most kids. It's not that their senses are less sharp than those of adults, but that they don't associate any ideas with them; they don’t easily feel pleasure or pain and aren’t flattered or hurt like we are. Without going beyond my framework and without using comparative anatomy, I think it's easy to see why women generally prefer perfumes more than men.

It is said that from early childhood the Redskins of Canada, train their sense of smell to such a degree of subtlety that, although they have dogs, they do not condescend to use them in hunting—they are their own dogs. Indeed I believe that if children were trained to scent their dinner as a dog scents game, their sense of smell might be nearly as perfect; but I see no very real advantage to be derived from this sense, except by teaching the child to observe the relation between smell and taste. Nature has taken care to compel us to learn these relations. She has made the exercise of the latter sense practically inseparable from that of the former, by placing their organs close together, and by providing, in the mouth, a direct pathway between them, so that we taste nothing without smelling it too. Only I would not have these natural relations disturbed in order to deceive the child, e.g.; to conceal the taste of medicine with an aromatic odour, for the discord between the senses is too great for deception, the more active sense overpowers the other, the medicine is just as distasteful, and this disagreeable association extends to every sensation experienced at the time; so the slightest of these sensations recalls the rest to his imagination and a very pleasant perfume is for him only a nasty smell; thus our foolish precautions increase the sum total of his unpleasant sensations at the cost of his pleasant sensations.

It's said that from a young age, the Indigenous peoples of Canada train their sense of smell to such a fine degree that, although they have dogs, they prefer not to use them for hunting—they are their own dogs. In fact, I believe that if children were taught to detect their dinner the way a dog scents out game, their sense of smell could be almost as precise; however, I don't see much real benefit from this sense unless it’s to help the child understand the connection between smell and taste. Nature has already made it necessary for us to learn these connections. She has set their sensory organs close together and provided a direct path in the mouth between them, so we can't taste anything without also smelling it. However, I wouldn't want to disrupt these natural connections to trick the child, for instance, by masking the taste of medicine with a pleasant aroma. The clash between the senses is too strong for deception; the more sensitive sense dominates the other, and the medicine remains just as unpleasant. This negative association extends to every sensation experienced at that time, so even the faintest of these sensations brings back the rest to their mind, making a lovely perfume seem merely like an unpleasant smell. Hence, our misguided efforts end up increasing their unpleasant experiences while reducing their pleasant ones.

In the following books I have still to speak of the training of a sort of sixth sense, called common-sense, not so much because it is common to all men, but because it results from the well-regulated use of the other five, and teaches the nature of things by the sum-total of their external aspects. So this sixth sense has no special organ, it has its seat in the brain, and its sensations which are purely internal are called percepts or ideas. The number of these ideas is the measure of our knowledge; exactness of thought depends on their clearness and precision; the art of comparing them one with another is called human reason. Thus what I call the reasoning of the senses, or the reasoning of the child, consists in the formation of simple ideas through the associated experience of several sensations; what I call the reasoning of the intellect, consists in the formation, of complex ideas through the association of several simple ideas.

In the following books, I still need to discuss the development of a kind of sixth sense called common sense. It's not called that because everyone has it, but because it emerges from the well-managed use of the other five senses and helps us understand the nature of things based on their overall external characteristics. This sixth sense doesn't have a specific organ; it resides in the brain, and its sensations, which are entirely internal, are referred to as percepts or ideas. The number of these ideas reflects our knowledge; the accuracy of our thoughts relies on their clarity and precision. The skill of comparing these ideas with one another is called human reason. Therefore, what I refer to as the reasoning of the senses, or the reasoning of a child, involves forming simple ideas through the combined experiences of various sensations. In contrast, the reasoning of the intellect involves creating complex ideas by connecting multiple simple ideas.

If my method is indeed that of nature, and if I am not mistaken in the application of that method, we have led our pupil through the region of sensation to the bounds of the child’s reasoning; the first step we take beyond these bounds must be the step of a man. But before we make this fresh advance, let us glance back for a moment at the path we have hitherto followed. Every age, every station in life, has a perfection, a ripeness, of its own. We have often heard the phrase “a grown man;” but we will consider “a grown child.” This will be a new experience and none the less pleasing.

If my method truly reflects nature, and if I'm correct in how I apply that method, we've guided our student from the realm of sensation to the limits of a child's reasoning. The first step we take beyond those limits must be a step taken by an adult. But before we move forward, let's take a moment to look back at the path we've traveled so far. Each age and every stage in life has its own form of perfection and maturity. We often hear the term "a grown man," but let's think about "a grown child." This will provide a new experience that is just as enjoyable.

The life of finite creatures is so poor and narrow that the mere sight of what is arouses no emotion. It is fancy which decks reality, and if imagination does not lend its charm to that which touches our senses, our barren pleasure is confined to the senses alone, while the heart remains cold. The earth adorned with the treasures of autumn displays a wealth of colour which the eye admires; but this admiration fails to move us, it springs rather from thought than from feeling. In spring the country is almost bare and leafless, the trees give no shade, the grass has hardly begun to grow, yet the heart is touched by the sight. In this new birth of nature, we feel the revival of our own life; the memories of past pleasures surround us; tears of delight, those companions of pleasure ever ready to accompany a pleasing sentiment, tremble on our eyelids. Animated, lively, and delightful though the vintage may be, we behold it without a tear.

The lives of finite beings are so limited and narrow that just seeing what exists stirs no emotions. It's imagination that adds color to reality, and if it doesn't bring its charm to what we experience through our senses, our enjoyment is restricted to mere sensory perceptions, leaving our hearts untouched. The earth, adorned with the riches of autumn, shows off a range of colors that catch the eye; but this admiration doesn't move us, as it comes more from thought than from feeling. In spring, the countryside looks almost bare and leafless, the trees provide no shade, and the grass has barely started to grow, yet the sight stirs our hearts. In this rebirth of nature, we feel the awakening of our own lives; memories of past joys surround us; tears of joy, always ready to accompany a happy thought, linger on our eyelids. Even though the harvest may be vibrant, lively, and delightful, we look at it without shedding a tear.

And why is this? Because imagination adds to the sight of spring the image of the seasons which are yet to come; the eye sees the tender shoot, the mind’s eye beholds its flowers, fruit, and foliage, and even the mysteries they may conceal. It blends successive stages into one moment’s experience; we see things, not so much as they will be, but as we would have them be, for imagination has only to take her choice. In autumn, on the other hand, we only behold the present; if we wish to look forward to spring, winter bars the way, and our shivering imagination dies away among its frost and snow.

And why is that? Because imagination adds to the sight of spring the image of the seasons still to come; the eye sees the tender shoot, while the mind sees its flowers, fruit, and leaves, along with the mysteries they might hide. It combines different stages into a single moment's experience; we see things not just as they will be, but as we wish they would be, since imagination can choose whatever it wants. In autumn, however, we only focus on the present; if we try to look forward to spring, winter blocks the way, and our chilly imagination fades away in the frost and snow.

This is the source of the charm we find in beholding the beauties of childhood, rather than the perfection of manhood. When do we really delight in beholding a man? When the memory of his deeds leads us to look back over his life and his youth is renewed in our eyes. If we are reduced to viewing him as he is, or to picturing him as he will be in old age, the thought of declining years destroys all our pleasure. There is no pleasure in seeing a man hastening to his grave; the image of death makes all hideous.

This is where the charm lies in appreciating the beauty of childhood rather than the perfection of adulthood. When do we truly enjoy seeing a man? It's when memories of his actions make us reflect on his life, and his youth is revived in our minds. If we’re forced to see him as he currently is, or imagine him in old age, the idea of aging ruins all our enjoyment. There’s no joy in watching a man rush toward his grave; the thought of death makes everything ugly.

But when I think of a child of ten or twelve, strong, healthy, well-grown for his age, only pleasant thoughts are called up, whether of the present or the future. I see him keen, eager, and full of life, free from gnawing cares and painful forebodings, absorbed in this present state, and delighting in a fullness of life which seems to extend beyond himself. I look forward to a time when he will use his daily increasing sense, intelligence and vigour, those growing powers of which he continually gives fresh proof. I watch the child with delight, I picture to myself the man with even greater pleasure. His eager life seems to stir my own pulses, I seem to live his life and in his vigour I renew my own.

But when I think of a child around ten or twelve, strong, healthy, and well-built for his age, only happy thoughts come to mind, whether about the present or the future. I see him full of energy, eager, and vibrant, free from nagging worries and painful anxieties, immersed in the moment and enjoying a richness of life that seems to go beyond himself. I look forward to a time when he will apply his growing sense, intelligence, and energy—those developing abilities that he constantly demonstrates. I watch the child with joy, and I envision the man with even more pleasure. His enthusiastic spirit seems to energize my own, and in his vigor, I find a renewal of my own.

The hour strikes, the scene is changed. All of a sudden his eye grows dim, his mirth has fled. Farewell mirth, farewell untrammelled sports in which he delighted. A stern, angry man takes him by the hand, saying gravely, “Come with me, sir,” and he is led away. As they are entering the room, I catch a glimpse of books. Books, what dull food for a child of his age! The poor child allows himself to be dragged away; he casts a sorrowful look on all about him, and departs in silence, his eyes swollen with the tears he dare not shed, and his heart bursting with the sighs he dare not utter.

The hour strikes, and the scene changes. Suddenly, his eyes grow dim, and his joy disappears. Goodbye joy, goodbye to the carefree fun that used to bring him happiness. A stern, angry man grabs his hand and says seriously, “Come with me, sir,” and he is led away. As they enter the room, I catch a glimpse of books. Books, such boring stuff for a child his age! The poor child lets himself be pulled away; he gives a sad look at everything around him and leaves in silence, his eyes swollen with tears he can’t let fall, and his heart heavy with sighs he can’t express.

You who have no such cause for fear, you for whom no period of life is a time of weariness and tedium, you who welcome days without care and nights without impatience, you who only reckon time by your pleasures, come, my happy kindly pupil, and console us for the departure of that miserable creature. Come! Here he is and at his approach I feel a thrill of delight which I see he shares. It is his friend, his comrade, who meets him; when he sees me he knows very well that he will not be long without amusement; we are never dependent on each other, but we are always on good terms, and we are never so happy as when together.

You, who have no reason to be afraid, you for whom no stage of life feels tiresome or dull, you who enjoy carefree days and relaxed nights, you who measure time by your joys, come, my joyful and kind pupil, and comfort us over the departure of that miserable person. Come! Here he is, and at his arrival, I feel a surge of happiness that I see he shares too. It’s his friend, his mate, who meets him; when he spots me, he knows he won't be bored for long; we don't rely on each other, but we always get along well, and we are never as happy as when we’re together.

His face, his bearing, his expression, speak of confidence and contentment; health shines in his countenance, his firm step speaks of strength; his colour, delicate but not sickly, has nothing of softness or effeminacy. Sun and wind have already set the honourable stamp of manhood on his countenance; his rounded muscles already begin to show some signs of growing individuality; his eyes, as yet unlighted by the flame of feeling, have at least all their native calm; They have not been darkened by prolonged sorrow, nor are his cheeks furrowed by ceaseless tears. Behold in his quick and certain movements the natural vigour of his age and the confidence of independence. His manner is free and open, but without a trace of insolence or vanity; his head which has not been bent over books does not fall upon his breast; there is no need to say, “Hold your head up,” he will neither hang his head for shame or fear.

His face, posture, and expression show confidence and contentment; health radiates from him, and his steady stride signals strength; his complexion is delicate but not pale, lacking any softness or weakness. The sun and wind have already marked his face with the distinguished sign of manhood; his muscles are starting to display signs of individuality; his eyes, not yet ignited by strong emotions, retain their natural calm. They haven’t been clouded by prolonged sorrow, nor are his cheeks lined with endless tears. Notice in his quick and confident movements the natural energy of his age and the assurance of independence. His demeanor is open and friendly, without any hint of arrogance or vanity; his head, unbent by books, doesn’t droop towards his chest; there’s no need to say, “Hold your head up,” because he won’t lower it out of shame or fear.

Make room for him, gentlemen, in your midst; question him boldly; have no fear of importunity, chatter, or impertinent questions. You need not be afraid that he will take possession of you and expect you to devote yourself entirely to him, so that you cannot get rid of him.

Make space for him, guys, in your group; ask him questions confidently; don’t worry about being too pushy, chatty, or asking annoying questions. You don’t need to worry that he will try to control you and demand that you focus all your attention on him, making it impossible for you to shake him off.

Neither need you look for compliments from him; nor will he tell you what I have taught him to say; expect nothing from him but the plain, simple truth, without addition or ornament and without vanity. He will tell you the wrong things he has done and thought as readily as the right, without troubling himself in the least as to the effect of his words upon you; he will use speech with all the simplicity of its first beginnings.

You shouldn’t expect compliments from him, nor will he repeat what I've taught him to say; anticipate nothing from him but the plain, straightforward truth, without embellishments or pretension. He will openly share the wrong things he's done and thought just as easily as the right ones, without worrying at all about how his words might affect you; he will speak with the same simplicity as in the early days of speech.

We love to augur well of our children, and we are continually regretting the flood of folly which overwhelms the hopes we would fain have rested on some chance phrase. If my scholar rarely gives me cause for such prophecies, neither will he give me cause for such regrets, for he never says a useless word, and does not exhaust himself by chattering when he knows there is no one to listen to him. His ideas are few but precise, he knows nothing by rote but much by experience. If he reads our books worse than other children, he reads far better in the book of nature; his thoughts are not in his tongue but in his brain; he has less memory and more judgment; he can only speak one language, but he understands what he is saying, and if his speech is not so good as that of other children his deeds are better.

We love to have high hopes for our children, yet we often find ourselves disappointed by the foolishness that dashes those hopes, which we wish we could have based on the right words. If my student rarely gives me reasons for such prophecies, he also doesn't give me reasons for regrets, because he never says anything pointless and doesn't waste his energy talking when he knows no one is listening. His thoughts are few but clear; he memorizes little but learns a lot from experience. If he struggles with our books compared to other kids, he excels in understanding the book of nature; his ideas come from his mind rather than his mouth; he has a weaker memory but stronger judgment. He speaks only one language, but he understands what he’s saying, and while his speech might not be as polished as that of other children, his actions are superior.

He does not know the meaning of habit, routine, and custom; what he did yesterday has no control over what he is doing to-day; he follows no rule, submits to no authority, copies no pattern, and only acts or speaks as he pleases. So do not expect set speeches or studied manners from him, but just the faithful expression of his thoughts and the conduct that springs from his inclinations. [Footnote: Habit owes its charm to man’s natural idleness, and this idleness grows upon us if indulged; it is easier to do what we have already done, there is a beaten path which is easily followed. Thus we may observe that habit is very strong in the aged and in the indolent, and very weak in the young and active. The rule of habit is only good for feeble hearts, and it makes them more and more feeble day by day. The only useful habit for children is to be accustomed to submit without difficulty to necessity, and the only useful habit for man is to submit without difficulty to the rule of reason. Every other habit is a vice.]

He doesn’t understand the concepts of habit, routine, and custom; what he did yesterday doesn’t influence what he’s doing today. He follows no rules, obeys no authority, copies no example, and only acts or speaks as he wants. So don’t expect rehearsed speeches or polished manners from him, but rather the genuine expression of his thoughts and actions that come from his desires. [Footnote: Habit is appealing because of our natural laziness, and this laziness increases if we give in to it; it's easier to do what we’ve already done, as there's a familiar path that’s easy to follow. Thus, we see that habit is very strong in older people and the lazy, and very weak in the young and active. The rule of habit only benefits the weak-hearted, making them increasingly weak over time. The only beneficial habit for children is to learn to accept necessity without resistance, and the only beneficial habit for adults is to accept the rule of reason without resistance. Every other habit is a vice.]

You will find he has a few moral ideas concerning his present state and none concerning manhood; what use could he make of them, for the child is not, as yet, an active member of society. Speak to him of freedom, of property, or even of what is usually done; he may understand you so far; he knows why his things are his own, and why other things are not his, and nothing more. Speak to him of duty or obedience; he will not know what you are talking about; bid him do something and he will pay no attention; but say to him, “If you will give me this pleasure, I will repay it when required,” and he will hasten to give you satisfaction, for he asks nothing better than to extend his domain, to acquire rights over you, which will, he knows, be respected. Maybe he is not sorry to have a place of his own, to be reckoned of some account; but if he has formed this latter idea, he has already left the realms of nature, and you have failed to bar the gates of vanity.

You'll find he has a few moral ideas about his current situation but none about being a man; what good are they to him since the child isn’t yet an active member of society? If you talk to him about freedom, property, or what people usually do, he might get the gist; he understands why his things belong to him and why other things don’t belong to him, and that’s about it. If you mention duty or obedience, he won’t have a clue what you mean; if you ask him to do something, he won’t pay attention. But if you say to him, “If you give me this favor, I’ll return it when you need it,” he’ll hurry to please you because he wants nothing more than to expand his territory, to gain rights over you that he knows will be respected. Maybe he doesn’t mind having his own space, being considered important; but if he has come to this conclusion, he has already moved beyond the natural world, and you’ve failed to close the doors to vanity.

For his own part, should he need help, he will ask it readily of the first person he meets. He will ask it of a king as readily as of his servant; all men are equals in his eyes. From his way of asking you will see he knows you owe him nothing, that he is asking a favour. He knows too that humanity moves you to grant this favour; his words are few and simple. His voice, his look, his gesture are those of a being equally familiar with compliance and refusal. It is neither the crawling, servile submission of the slave, nor the imperious tone of the master, it is a modest confidence in mankind; it is the noble and touching gentleness of a creature, free, yet sensitive and feeble, who asks aid of a being, free, but strong and kindly. If you grant his request he will not thank you, but he will feel he has incurred a debt. If you refuse he will neither complain nor insist; he knows it is useless; he will not say, “They refused to help me,” but “It was impossible,” and as I have already said, we do not rebel against necessity when once we have perceived it.

If he needs help, he'll readily ask the first person he meets. He’ll ask a king just as easily as he would his servant; to him, everyone is equal. You can tell from the way he asks that he knows you don’t owe him anything and that he’s making a request. He understands that humanity inspires you to help, so his words are few and straightforward. His voice, look, and gestures show he’s comfortable with both receiving help and being turned down. It’s neither the submissive, desperate plea of a slave nor the commanding tone of a master; it’s a humble confidence in people. It’s the gentle grace of someone who’s free yet aware of their vulnerability, requesting help from someone else who’s free but strong and kind. If you agree to help him, he won’t thank you, but he’ll feel he owes you. If you say no, he won’t complain or push; he knows it’s pointless. He won’t say, “They refused to help me,” but “It was impossible,” and as I mentioned before, we don’t resist what’s unavoidable once we see it clearly.

Leave him to himself and watch his actions without speaking, consider what he is doing and how he sets about it. He does not require to convince himself that he is free, so he never acts thoughtlessly and merely to show that he can do what he likes; does he not know that he is always his own master? He is quick, alert, and ready; his movements are eager as befits his age, but you will not find one which has no end in view. Whatever he wants, he will never attempt what is beyond his powers, for he has learnt by experience what those powers are; his means will always be adapted to the end in view, and he will rarely attempt anything without the certainty of success; his eye is keen and true; he will not be so stupid as to go and ask other people about what he sees; he will examine it on his own account, and before he asks he will try every means at his disposal to discover what he wants to know for himself. If he lights upon some unexpected difficulty, he will be less upset than others; if there is danger he will be less afraid. His imagination is still asleep and nothing has been done to arouse it; he only sees what is really there, and rates the danger at its true worth; so he never loses his head. He does not rebel against necessity, her hand is too heavy upon him; he has borne her yoke all his life long, he is well used to it; he is always ready for anything.

Leave him to himself and observe his actions without speaking. Think about what he’s doing and how he goes about it. He doesn’t need to convince himself that he’s free, so he never acts thoughtlessly just to prove he can do whatever he wants; doesn’t he know that he’s always his own master? He’s quick, alert, and ready; his movements are eager, fitting for his age, but you won’t find one without a purpose. Whatever he wants, he won’t try something beyond his abilities because he has learned from experience what those abilities are; his resources will always align with his goals, and he rarely attempts anything unless he’s sure of success. His eye is sharp and accurate; he won’t be foolish enough to ask others about what he sees; he’ll investigate it on his own, and before he asks anyone, he’ll use every means available to find out what he wants to know himself. If he encounters an unexpected challenge, he won’t be as shaken as others; if there’s danger, he won’t be as scared. His imagination is still dormant, and nothing has stirred it; he only sees what’s really there and assesses the danger accurately, so he never panics. He doesn’t rebel against necessity; its weight is too heavy upon him. He has carried its burden throughout his life, and he’s well accustomed to it; he’s always ready for anything.

Work or play are all one to him, his games are his work; he knows no difference. He brings to everything the cheerfulness of interest, the charm of freedom, and he shows the bent of his own mind and the extent of his knowledge. Is there anything better worth seeing, anything more touching or more delightful, than a pretty child, with merry, cheerful glance, easy contented manner, open smiling countenance, playing at the most important things, or working at the lightest amusements?

Work or play are all the same to him; his games are his work, and he doesn’t see any difference. He approaches everything with enthusiasm, the joy of freedom, and showcases his own personality and knowledge. Is there anything more beautiful to witness, anything more poignant or delightful, than a lovely child with a joyful, cheerful look, a relaxed demeanor, and a beaming smile, playing at the most significant tasks, or engaging in the simplest pleasures?

Would you now judge him by comparison? Set him among other children and leave him to himself. You will soon see which has made most progress, which comes nearer to the perfection of childhood. Among all the children in the town there is none more skilful and none so strong. Among young peasants he is their equal in strength and their superior in skill. In everything within a child’s grasp he judges, reasons, and shows a forethought beyond the rest. Is it a matter of action, running, jumping, or shifting things, raising weights or estimating distance, inventing games, carrying off prizes; you might say, “Nature obeys his word,” so easily does he bend all things to his will. He is made to lead, to rule his fellows; talent and experience take the place of right and authority. In any garb, under any name, he will still be first; everywhere he will rule the rest, they will always feel his superiority, he will be master without knowing it, and they will serve him unawares.

Would you judge him by comparing him to others? Put him among the other kids and let him be. You'll quickly see who has made the most progress and who comes closest to the ideal of childhood. Among all the kids in town, there’s no one more skilled and none as strong. Among young farmers, he’s just as strong and better in skill. In everything a child can grasp, he evaluates, reasons, and shows a foresight that surpasses others. Whether it's about action, running, jumping, moving things, lifting weights, or estimating distance, inventing games, or winning prizes, you could say, “Nature listens to him,” as he easily bends everything to his will. He is made to lead and guide his peers; his talent and experience replace traditional power and authority. No matter what he wears or what name he goes by, he will always be the best; everywhere he goes, he will dominate, and others will always sense his superiority. He will be a leader without even realizing it, and they will unknowingly follow him.

He has reached the perfection of childhood; he has lived the life of a child; his progress has not been bought at the price of his happiness, he has gained both. While he has acquired all the wisdom of a child, he has been as free and happy as his health permits. If the Reaper Death should cut him off and rob us of our hopes, we need not bewail alike his life and death, we shall not have the added grief of knowing that we caused him pain; we will say, “His childhood, at least, was happy; we have robbed him of nothing that nature gave him.”

He has reached the peak of childhood; he has lived like a child; his growth hasn’t come at the cost of his happiness; he has gained both. While he has gathered all the wisdom of a child, he has also been as free and joyful as his health allows. If Death were to take him away and steal our hopes, we wouldn't need to mourn his life and death in the same way; we wouldn’t have the extra sorrow of knowing that we caused him any pain. We will say, “At least his childhood was happy; we have taken nothing away from him that nature gave.”

The chief drawback to this early education is that it is only appreciated by the wise; to vulgar eyes the child so carefully educated is nothing but a rough little boy. A tutor thinks rather of the advantage to himself than to his pupil; he makes a point of showing that there has been no time wasted; he provides his pupil with goods which can be readily displayed in the shop window, accomplishments which can be shown off at will; no matter whether they are useful, provided they are easily seen. Without choice or discrimination he loads his memory with a pack of rubbish. If the child is to be examined he is set to display his wares; he spreads them out, satisfies those who behold them, packs up his bundle and goes his way. My pupil is poorer, he has no bundle to display, he has only himself to show. Now neither child nor man can be read at a glance. Where are the observers who can at once discern the characteristics of this child? There are such people, but they are few and far between; among a thousand fathers you will scarcely find one.

The main downside to this early education is that only the wise truly value it; to most people, the well-educated child just seems like a rough little boy. A tutor often cares more about his own benefit than his student's; he focuses on proving that time hasn’t been wasted. He equips his pupil with flashy skills that can be easily shown off, regardless of their actual usefulness, as long as they’re eye-catching. Without any discernment, he fills the child’s mind with a load of nonsense. When the child is assessed, he’s put on display; he lays out his skills, impresses the onlookers, packs up, and moves on. My pupil is worse off; he has no flashy skills to showcase—only himself. But neither a child nor an adult can be understood at a glance. Where are the observers who can quickly recognize the true qualities of this child? They exist, but they are rare; among a thousand fathers, you’ll hardly find one.

Too many questions are tedious and revolting to most of us and especially to children. After a few minutes their attention flags, they cease to listen to your everlasting questions and reply at random. This way of testing them is pedantic and useless; a chance word will often show their sense and intelligence better than much talking, but take care that the answer is neither a matter of chance nor yet learnt by heart. A man must needs have a good judgment if he is to estimate the judgment of a child.

Too many questions can be boring and frustrating for most people, especially kids. After a few minutes, their attention wavers, they stop paying attention to your endless questions, and respond randomly. This method of testing them is overly formal and a waste of time; a single spontaneous comment can often reveal their understanding and intelligence more effectively than endless talking. However, make sure that the answer isn't just random or memorized. A person needs to have good judgment to accurately assess a child's judgment.

I heard the late Lord Hyde tell the following story about one of his friends. He had returned from Italy after a three years’ absence, and was anxious to test the progress of his son, a child of nine or ten. One evening he took a walk with the child and his tutor across a level space where the schoolboys were flying their kites. As they went, the father said to his son, “Where is the kite that casts this shadow?” Without hesitating and without glancing upwards the child replied, “Over the high road.” “And indeed,” said Lord Hyde, “the high road was between us and the sun.” At these words, the father kissed his child, and having finished his examination he departed. The next day he sent the tutor the papers settling an annuity on him in addition to his salary.

I heard the late Lord Hyde share this story about one of his friends. He had come back from Italy after being away for three years and was eager to see how much his son, who was about nine or ten, had learned. One evening, he took a walk with his son and the tutor across a flat area where schoolboys were flying their kites. As they walked, the father asked his son, “Where’s the kite that casts this shadow?” Without hesitating or looking up, the child answered, “Over the main road.” “And indeed,” said Lord Hyde, “the main road was between us and the sun.” At that, the father hugged his child, and after completing his evaluation, he left. The following day, he sent the tutor the papers setting up an annuity for him, in addition to his salary.

What a father! and what a promising child! The question is exactly adapted to the child’s age, the answer is perfectly simple; but see what precision it implies in the child’s judgment. Thus did the pupil of Aristotle master the famous steed which no squire had ever been able to tame.

What a father! And what a promising child! The question is just right for the child's age, and the answer is completely straightforward; but notice the accuracy it shows in the child's judgment. In this way, the student of Aristotle mastered the legendary horse that no squire had ever been able to tame.










BOOK III

The whole course of man’s life up to adolescence is a period of weakness; yet there comes a time during these early years when the child’s strength overtakes the demands upon it, when the growing creature, though absolutely weak, is relatively strong. His needs are not fully developed and his present strength is more than enough for them. He would be a very feeble man, but he is a strong child.

The entire journey of a person's life until adolescence is a time of vulnerability; however, there comes a moment during these early years when the child’s strength surpasses what is required of it. At this point, the growing child, though still quite weak, is comparatively strong. Their needs haven’t fully developed yet, and their current strength is more than sufficient to meet those needs. He might be a very fragile adult, but as a child, he is quite strong.

What is the cause of man’s weakness? It is to be found in the disproportion between his strength and his desires. It is our passions that make us weak, for our natural strength is not enough for their satisfaction. To limit our desires comes to the same thing, therefore, as to increase our strength. When we can do more than we want, we have strength enough and to spare, we are really strong. This is the third stage of childhood, the stage with which I am about to deal. I still speak of childhood for want of a better word; for our scholar is approaching adolescence, though he has not yet reached the age of puberty.

What causes human weakness? It's found in the imbalance between our strength and our desires. Our passions make us weak because our natural strength isn’t enough to satisfy them. So, limiting our desires is essentially the same as increasing our strength. When we can do more than we want, our strength is abundant, and we are truly strong. This is the third stage of childhood, which I’m about to discuss. I still refer to it as childhood because there isn’t a better term; our scholar is nearing adolescence, though he hasn’t reached puberty yet.

About twelve or thirteen the child’s strength increases far more rapidly than his needs. The strongest and fiercest of the passions is still unknown, his physical development is still imperfect and seems to await the call of the will. He is scarcely aware of extremes of heat and cold and braves them with impunity. He needs no coat, his blood is warm; no spices, hunger is his sauce, no food comes amiss at this age; if he is sleepy he stretches himself on the ground and goes to sleep; he finds all he needs within his reach; he is not tormented by any imaginary wants; he cares nothing what others think; his desires are not beyond his grasp; not only is he self-sufficing, but for the first and last time in his life he has more strength than he needs.

Around twelve or thirteen, a child's strength grows much faster than their needs. The strongest and most intense emotions are still unfamiliar, and their physical development is still incomplete, waiting for the will to kick in. They hardly notice extreme temperatures and endure them effortlessly. They don’t need a jacket; their blood is warm. They don’t crave spices; hunger is their seasoning, and any food is fine for them at this age. If they're tired, they lie on the ground and fall asleep. Everything they need is within reach; they're not troubled by imaginary wants, don’t care about others’ opinions, and their desires are easily attainable. Not only are they self-sufficient, but for the first and last time in their lives, they have more strength than necessary.

I know beforehand what you will say. You will not assert that the child has more needs than I attribute to him, but you will deny his strength. You forget that I am speaking of my own pupil, not of those puppets who walk with difficulty from one room to another, who toil indoors and carry bundles of paper. Manly strength, you say, appears only with manhood; the vital spirits, distilled in their proper vessels and spreading through the whole body, can alone make the muscles firm, sensitive, tense, and springy, can alone cause real strength. This is the philosophy of the study; I appeal to that of experience. In the country districts, I see big lads hoeing, digging, guiding the plough, filling the wine-cask, driving the cart, like their fathers; you would take them for grown men if their voices did not betray them. Even in our towns, iron-workers’, tool makers’, and blacksmiths’ lads are almost as strong as their masters and would be scarcely less skilful had their training begun earlier. If there is a difference, and I do not deny that there is, it is, I repeat, much less than the difference between the stormy passions of the man and the few wants of the child. Moreover, it is not merely a question of bodily strength, but more especially of strength of mind, which reinforces and directs the bodily strength.

I already know what you’re going to say. You won’t claim that the child has more needs than I say he does, but you will deny his strength. You forget that I’m talking about my own student, not those kids who struggle to walk from one room to another, labor indoors, and carry heavy loads. You say that true strength only comes with adulthood; that the vital energy, properly nurtured and spread throughout the body, is what truly makes muscles strong, responsive, tense, and flexible, and it’s what creates real strength. That’s the theory from books; I’m relying on real-life experience. In rural areas, I see big boys hoeing, digging, plowing, filling wine barrels, and driving carts just like their fathers; you’d consider them grown-ups if their voices didn’t give them away. Even in our towns, the boys working as ironworkers, tool makers, and blacksmiths are almost as strong as their masters and would be just as skilled if they’d started training earlier. If there is a difference—and I won’t deny that—it's much smaller than the gap between the intense passions of an adult and the few needs of a child. Furthermore, it’s not just about physical strength; it’s also about mental strength, which enhances and guides physical power.

This interval in which the strength of the individual is in excess of his wants is, as I have said, relatively though not absolutely the time of greatest strength. It is the most precious time in his life; it comes but once; it is very short, all too short, as you will see when you consider the importance of using it aright.

This period when a person’s abilities exceed their needs is, as I mentioned, relatively, though not absolutely, the time of greatest strength. It is the most valuable time in their life; it only happens once; it’s very brief, all too brief, as you will realize when you think about the importance of using it wisely.

He has, therefore, a surplus of strength and capacity which he will never have again. What use shall he make of it? He will strive to use it in tasks which will help at need. He will, so to speak, cast his present surplus into the storehouse of the future; the vigorous child will make provision for the feeble man; but he will not store his goods where thieves may break in, nor in barns which are not his own. To store them aright, they must be in the hands and the head, they must be stored within himself. This is the time for work, instruction, and inquiry. And note that this is no arbitrary choice of mine, it is the way of nature herself.

He has, therefore, a surplus of strength and ability that he will never have again. What will he do with it? He will try to use it for tasks that will be helpful in the future. He will, so to speak, invest his current surplus for the future; the strong child will provide for the weak adult; but he won’t store his possessions where thieves can break in, nor in barns that aren’t his own. To store them properly, they need to be within himself—both in his hands and in his mind. This is the time for work, learning, and exploration. And keep in mind that this isn’t just my personal preference; it’s the way of nature itself.

Human intelligence is finite, and not only can no man know everything, he cannot even acquire all the scanty knowledge of others. Since the contrary of every false proposition is a truth, there are as many truths as falsehoods. We must, therefore, choose what to teach as well as when to teach it. Some of the information within our reach is false, some is useless, some merely serves to puff up its possessor. The small store which really contributes to our welfare alone deserves the study of a wise man, and therefore of a child whom one would have wise. He must know not merely what is, but what is useful.

Human intelligence is limited, and not only can no one know everything, but they also can’t even grasp all the little knowledge that others have. Since the opposite of every false statement is a truth, there are as many truths as there are lies. Therefore, we must choose what to teach and when to teach it. Some of the information available to us is false, some is useless, and some only serves to inflate the ego of the person who possesses it. The small amount of knowledge that truly benefits us is the only thing that deserves the attention of a wise person, including a child whom we want to be wise. They must understand not just what exists, but what is useful.

From this small stock we must also deduct those truths which require a full grown mind for their understanding, those which suppose a knowledge of man’s relations to his fellow-men—a knowledge which no child can acquire; these things, although in themselves true, lead an inexperienced mind into mistakes with regard to other matters.

From this small collection, we also need to subtract those truths that require a mature mind to understand, those that assume knowledge of human relationships—a type of understanding that no child can have; these truths, even though they are accurate in themselves, can mislead an inexperienced mind in other areas.

We are now confined to a circle, small indeed compared with the whole of human thought, but this circle is still a vast sphere when measured by the child’s mind. Dark places of the human understanding, what rash hand shall dare to raise your veil? What pitfalls does our so-called science prepare for the miserable child. Would you guide him along this dangerous path and draw the veil from the face of nature? Stay your hand. First make sure that neither he nor you will become dizzy. Beware of the specious charms of error and the intoxicating fumes of pride. Keep this truth ever before you—Ignorance never did any one any harm, error alone is fatal, and we do not lose our way through ignorance but through self-confidence.

We are now limited to a circle, small compared to the entirety of human thought, but this circle is still a huge area when viewed through the eyes of a child. In the dark corners of human understanding, what reckless person would dare to lift your veil? What dangers does our so-called science set up for the unfortunate child? Will you lead him down this risky path and reveal the secrets of nature? Stop your hand. First, make sure that neither of you will get lost. Be cautious of the misleading allure of falsehoods and the intoxicating power of arrogance. Always remember this truth—ignorance has never harmed anyone; only error is deadly, and we stray from the right path not because of ignorance, but because of overconfidence.

His progress in geometry may serve as a test and a true measure of the growth of his intelligence, but as soon as he can distinguish between what is useful and what is useless, much skill and discretion are required to lead him towards theoretical studies. For example, would you have him find a mean proportional between two lines, contrive that he should require to find a square equal to a given rectangle; if two mean proportionals are required, you must first contrive to interest him in the doubling of the cube. See how we are gradually approaching the moral ideas which distinguish between good and evil. Hitherto we have known no law but necessity, now we are considering what is useful; we shall soon come to what is fitting and right.

His progress in geometry can be a test and a true measure of how his intelligence grows, but once he learns to tell the difference between what’s useful and what isn’t, it takes a lot of skill and careful thought to guide him toward theoretical studies. For example, if you want him to find a mean proportional between two lines, you should first make sure he needs to find a square that’s equal to a given rectangle; if he needs to find two mean proportionals, you must first get him interested in the doubling of the cube. Notice how we’re gradually moving toward the moral ideas that differentiate between good and evil. Until now, we only knew necessity as a law; now we’re thinking about what’s useful, and soon we’ll consider what’s appropriate and right.

Man’s diverse powers are stirred by the same instinct. The bodily activity, which seeks an outlet for its energies, is succeeded by the mental activity which seeks for knowledge. Children are first restless, then curious; and this curiosity, rightly directed, is the means of development for the age with which we are dealing. Always distinguish between natural and acquired tendencies. There is a zeal for learning which has no other foundation than a wish to appear learned, and there is another which springs from man’s natural curiosity about all things far or near which may affect himself. The innate desire for comfort and the impossibility of its complete satisfaction impel him to the endless search for fresh means of contributing to its satisfaction. This is the first principle of curiosity; a principle natural to the human heart, though its growth is proportional to the development of our feeling and knowledge. If a man of science were left on a desert island with his books and instruments and knowing that he must spend the rest of his life there, he would scarcely trouble himself about the solar system, the laws of attraction, or the differential calculus. He might never even open a book again; but he would never rest till he had explored the furthest corner of his island, however large it might be. Let us therefore omit from our early studies such knowledge as has no natural attraction for us, and confine ourselves to such things as instinct impels us to study.

A person's varied abilities are driven by the same instinct. The physical activity that looks for a way to release its energy is followed by the mental activity that seeks knowledge. Children start out restless and then become curious; this curiosity, when properly directed, is key to growth in the stage we’re discussing. It's important to always differentiate between natural and learned tendencies. Some people are eager to learn just to seem knowledgeable, while others are driven by a natural curiosity about everything around them that might impact their lives. The basic desire for comfort, combined with the inability to achieve it fully, pushes us to continuously search for new ways to find it. This is the core of curiosity; it's a natural instinct of the human heart, although its growth depends on our feelings and understanding. If a scientist were stranded on a desert island with his books and tools and knew he would be there for the rest of his life, he would hardly concern himself with the solar system, gravitational laws, or calculus. He might never read anything again, but he would tirelessly explore every corner of his island, no matter how big it was. So, let's leave out knowledge that doesn’t naturally interest us in our early studies and focus on what our instincts encourage us to learn.

Our island is this earth; and the most striking object we behold is the sun. As soon as we pass beyond our immediate surroundings, one or both of these must meet our eye. Thus the philosophy of most savage races is mainly directed to imaginary divisions of the earth or to the divinity of the sun.

Our island is this earth, and the most striking thing we see is the sun. As soon as we look beyond our immediate surroundings, one or both of these has to catch our attention. So, the beliefs of most primitive cultures focus mainly on imaginary divisions of the earth or the worship of the sun.

What a sudden change you will say. Just now we were concerned with what touches ourselves, with our immediate environment, and all at once we are exploring the round world and leaping to the bounds of the universe. This change is the result of our growing strength and of the natural bent of the mind. While we were weak and feeble, self-preservation concentrated our attention on ourselves; now that we are strong and powerful, the desire for a wider sphere carries us beyond ourselves as far as our eyes can reach. But as the intellectual world is still unknown to us, our thoughts are bounded by the visible horizon, and our understanding only develops within the limits of our vision.

What a sudden change, you might say. Just a moment ago, we were focused on what affects us directly, our immediate surroundings, and now we’re exploring the entire world and reaching out to the edges of the universe. This shift comes from our growing strength and the natural curiosity of the mind. When we were weak and vulnerable, self-preservation kept our attention on ourselves; now that we’re strong and capable, our desire for a broader perspective pushes us beyond ourselves as far as we can see. But since the intellectual world is still unfamiliar to us, our thoughts are limited by what we can visibly perceive, and our understanding only grows within the boundaries of our sight.

Let us transform our sensations into ideas, but do not let us jump all at once from the objects of sense to objects of thought. The latter are attained by means of the former. Let the senses be the only guide for the first workings of reason. No book but the world, no teaching but that of fact. The child who reads ceases to think, he only reads. He is acquiring words not knowledge.

Let's turn our feelings into ideas, but we shouldn't rush to go straight from our senses to our thoughts. We need to understand the former to reach the latter. Let our senses lead the initial steps of reason. The only book is the world, and the only teaching comes from facts. A child who reads stops thinking; they just read. They're collecting words, not knowledge.

Teach your scholar to observe the phenomena of nature; you will soon rouse his curiosity, but if you would have it grow, do not be in too great a hurry to satisfy this curiosity. Put the problems before him and let him solve them himself. Let him know nothing because you have told him, but because he has learnt it for himself. Let him not be taught science, let him discover it. If ever you substitute authority for reason he will cease to reason; he will be a mere plaything of other people’s thoughts.

Teach your child to observe the wonders of nature; you'll quickly spark their curiosity, but if you want it to deepen, don't rush to satisfy it. Present them with challenges and allow them to solve them on their own. Make sure they know things not just because you told them, but because they've discovered them themselves. Don't just teach them science; let them uncover it. If you ever replace reasoning with authority, they'll stop thinking for themselves and just become a puppet of other people's ideas.

You wish to teach this child geography and you provide him with globes, spheres, and maps. What elaborate preparations! What is the use of all these symbols; why not begin by showing him the real thing so that he may at least know what you are talking about?

You want to teach this child geography, so you give him globes, spheres, and maps. What a lot of effort! What’s the point of all these symbols? Why not just show him the real thing so he can at least understand what you're talking about?

One fine evening we are walking in a suitable place where the wide horizon gives us a full view of the setting sun, and we note the objects which mark the place where it sets. Next morning we return to the same place for a breath of fresh air before sun-rise. We see the rays of light which announce the sun’s approach; the glow increases, the east seems afire, and long before the sun appears the light leads us to expect its return. Every moment you expect to see it. There it is at last! A shining point appears like a flash of lightning and soon fills the whole space; the veil of darkness rolls away, man perceives his dwelling place in fresh beauty. During the night the grass has assumed a fresher green; in the light of early dawn, and gilded by the first rays of the sun, it seems covered with a shining network of dew reflecting the light and colour. The birds raise their chorus of praise to greet the Father of life, not one of them is mute; their gentle warbling is softer than by day, it expresses the langour of a peaceful waking. All these produce an impression of freshness which seems to reach the very soul. It is a brief hour of enchantment which no man can resist; a sight so grand, so fair, so delicious, that none can behold it unmoved.

One beautiful evening, we're walking in a perfect spot where the wide horizon gives us a full view of the setting sun, and we take note of the landmarks that indicate where it goes down. The next morning, we return to the same place for a breath of fresh air before sunrise. We see the rays of light announcing the sun's approach; the glow intensifies, the east looks like it's on fire, and long before the sun appears, the light leads us to expect its return. Every moment you think it will show up. There it is at last! A shining point appears like a flash of lightning and soon fills the entire space; the darkness rolls away, and we can see our surroundings in new beauty. During the night, the grass has taken on a brighter green; in the early dawn light, decorated by the sun’s first rays, it seems covered in a sparkling network of dew reflecting the light and color. The birds raise their chorus of praise to welcome the Source of life, and not one of them is silent; their gentle chirping is softer than during the day, expressing the calmness of a peaceful awakening. All this creates a feeling of freshness that seems to touch the very soul. It's a fleeting hour of magic that no one can resist; a sight so grand, so beautiful, so delightful that no one can witness it without being moved.

Fired with this enthusiasm, the master wishes to impart it to the child. He expects to rouse his emotion by drawing attention to his own. Mere folly! The splendour of nature lives in man’s heart; to be seen, it must be felt. The child sees the objects themselves, but does not perceive their relations, and cannot hear their harmony. It needs knowledge he has not yet acquired, feelings he has not yet experienced, to receive the complex impression which results from all these separate sensations. If he has not wandered over arid plains, if his feet have not been scorched by the burning sands of the desert, if he has not breathed the hot and oppressive air reflected from the glowing rocks, how shall he delight in the fresh air of a fine morning. The scent of flowers, the beauty of foliage, the moistness of the dew, the soft turf beneath his feet, how shall all these delight his senses. How shall the song of the birds arouse voluptuous emotion if love and pleasure are still unknown to him? How shall he behold with rapture the birth of this fair day, if his imagination cannot paint the joys it may bring in its track? How can he feel the beauty of nature, while the hand that formed it is unknown?

Fueled by this excitement, the teacher wants to share it with the child. He hopes to spark his feelings by showcasing his own. What a mistake! The beauty of nature exists in a person's heart; to be appreciated, it must be felt. The child sees the objects themselves but doesn't grasp their connections and cannot hear their harmony. He needs knowledge he hasn't gained yet, feelings he hasn't experienced yet, to understand the complex impression made up of these individual sensations. If he hasn’t wandered through dry plains, if his feet haven’t burned on the scorching sands of the desert, if he hasn’t breathed in the hot and heavy air reflecting off the glowing rocks, how can he enjoy the fresh air of a lovely morning? The fragrance of flowers, the beauty of leaves, the moisture of the dew, the soft grass under his feet—how can all of these please his senses? How can the birds' songs stir deep emotion if love and pleasure are still foreign to him? How can he marvel at the dawn of this beautiful day if his imagination can’t envision the joys it might bring? How can he appreciate the beauty of nature when he doesn’t know the hand that created it?

Never tell the child what he cannot understand: no descriptions, no eloquence, no figures of speech, no poetry. The time has not come for feeling or taste. Continue to be clear and cold; the time will come only too soon when you must adopt another tone.

Never tell the child what he can't understand: no descriptions, no fancy words, no metaphors, no poetry. It's not the right time for feelings or tastes. Keep it clear and straightforward; the time will come all too soon when you'll need to change your approach.

Brought up in the spirit of our maxims, accustomed to make his own tools and not to appeal to others until he has tried and failed, he will examine everything he sees carefully and in silence. He thinks rather than questions. Be content, therefore, to show him things at a fit season; then, when you see that his curiosity is thoroughly aroused, put some brief question which will set him trying to discover the answer.

Raised with our principles in mind, used to crafting his own tools and not asking for help until he has attempted and failed, he will observe everything around him carefully and quietly. He reflects more than he inquires. So, be ready to present things to him at the right moment; then, once you notice his curiosity is fully piqued, ask a short question that will encourage him to seek the answer.

On the present occasion when you and he have carefully observed the rising sun, when you have called his attention to the mountains and other objects visible from the same spot, after he has chattered freely about them, keep quiet for a few minutes as if lost in thought and then say, “I think the sun set over there last night; it rose here this morning. How can that be?” Say no more; if he asks questions, do not answer them; talk of something else. Let him alone, and be sure he will think about it.

On this occasion, when you and he have carefully watched the rising sun, and you have pointed out the mountains and other sights visible from the same spot, after he has chatted freely about them, take a moment of silence as if you're deep in thought, and then say, “I think the sun set over there last night; it rose here this morning. How can that be?” Don’t say anything more; if he asks questions, don’t answer them; change the subject. Leave him be, and he will definitely think about it.

To train a child to be really attentive so that he may be really impressed by any truth of experience, he must spend anxious days before he discovers that truth. If he does not learn enough in this way, there is another way of drawing his attention to the matter. Turn the question about. If he does not know how the sun gets from the place where it sets to where it rises, he knows at least how it travels from sunrise to sunset, his eyes teach him that. Use the second question to throw light on the first; either your pupil is a regular dunce or the analogy is too clear to be missed. This is his first lesson in cosmography.

To help a child really pay attention so that he can truly understand any truth from experience, he has to spend a lot of time figuring that truth out. If he doesn’t learn enough this way, there’s another method to get his focus on the subject. Flip the question around. If he doesn’t know how the sun moves from the place where it sets to where it rises, he at least knows how it journeys from sunrise to sunset; he sees that with his own eyes. Use the second question to clarify the first; either your student is completely clueless, or the connection is obvious. This is his first lesson in cosmography.

As we always advance slowly from one sensible idea to another, and as we give time enough to each for him to become really familiar with it before we go on to another, and lastly as we never force our scholar’s attention, we are still a long way from a knowledge of the course of the sun or the shape of the earth; but as all the apparent movements of the celestial bodies depend on the same principle, and the first observation leads on to all the rest, less effort is needed, though more time, to proceed from the diurnal revolution to the calculation of eclipses, than to get a thorough understanding of day and night.

As we always move slowly from one reasonable idea to another, and as we allow enough time for each person to really get familiar with it before we move on, and lastly, since we never force our student’s attention, we are still far from understanding the path of the sun or the shape of the earth; but since all the visible movements of the celestial bodies follow the same principle, and the first observation connects to all the others, it takes less effort, though more time, to progress from the daily cycle to calculating eclipses than it does to fully grasp day and night.

Since the sun revolves round the earth it describes a circle, and every circle must have a centre; that we know already. This centre is invisible, it is in the middle of the earth, but we can mark out two opposite points on the earth’s surface which correspond to it. A skewer passed through the three points and prolonged to the sky at either end would represent the earth’s axis and the sun’s daily course. A round teetotum revolving on its point represents the sky turning on its axis, the two points of the teetotum are the two poles; the child will be delighted to find one of them, and I show him the tail of the Little bear. Here is a another game for the dark. Little by little we get to know the stars, and from this comes a wish to know the planets and observe the constellations.

Since the sun orbits the earth, it makes a circular path, and every circle has to have a center; that's already clear. This center is invisible and located at the center of the earth, but we can identify two opposite points on the earth’s surface that correspond to it. If you imagine a skewer passing through these three points and extending upward to the sky at both ends, it would represent the earth’s axis and the sun’s daily movement. A spinning top turning on its point symbolizes the sky rotating on its axis, and the two points of the top are the two poles; the child will be excited to find one of them, and I point out the tail of the Little Bear. Here's another game for the dark. Gradually, we get to know the stars, which inspires a desire to learn about the planets and observe the constellations.

We saw the sun rise at midsummer, we shall see it rise at Christmas or some other fine winter’s day; for you know we are no lie-a-beds and we enjoy the cold. I take care to make this second observation in the same place as the first, and if skilfully lead up to, one or other will certainly exclaim, “What a funny thing! The sun is not rising in the same place; here are our landmarks, but it is rising over there. So there is the summer east and the winter east, etc.” Young teacher, you are on the right track. These examples should show you how to teach the sphere without any difficulty, taking the earth for the earth and the sun for the sun.

We watched the sun come up in the middle of summer, and we’ll see it rise on Christmas or another nice winter day; because, as you know, we’re not ones to sleep in, and we like the cold. I make sure to point this out in the same spot as the first time, and if done well, someone will definitely say, “What a strange thing! The sun isn’t rising in the same place; here are our landmarks, but it’s rising over there. So there’s the summer east and the winter east, etc.” Young teacher, you’re on the right path. These examples should help you teach about the sphere easily, taking the earth as it is and the sun as it is.

As a general rule—never substitute the symbol for the thing signified, unless it is impossible to show the thing itself; for the child’s attention is so taken up with the symbol that he will forget what it signifies.

As a general rule—never replace the symbol with what it represents unless you can't show the actual thing; because the child's focus gets so caught up with the symbol that they will forget what it stands for.

I consider the armillary sphere a clumsy disproportioned bit of apparatus. The confused circles and the strange figures described on it suggest witchcraft and frighten the child. The earth is too small, the circles too large and too numerous, some of them, the colures, for instance, are quite useless, and the thickness of the pasteboard gives them an appearance of solidity so that they are taken for circular masses having a real existence, and when you tell the child that these are imaginary circles, he does not know what he is looking at and is none the wiser.

I find the armillary sphere to be an awkward and disproportionate piece of equipment. The tangled circles and odd shapes on it evoke a sense of witchcraft and scare the child. The Earth is tiny, the circles are too big and way too many, and some of them, like the colures, are completely pointless. The thickness of the cardboard makes them look solid, so they’re mistaken for actual circular objects that exist in real life. When you tell the child that these are imaginary circles, he’s confused and still doesn’t understand what he’s looking at.

We are unable to put ourselves in the child’s place, we fail to enter into his thoughts, we invest him with our own ideas, and while we are following our own chain of reasoning, we merely fill his head with errors and absurdities.

We can’t see things from the child’s perspective; we struggle to understand their thoughts. Instead, we project our own ideas onto them, and while we follow our own logic, we just fill their minds with mistakes and nonsense.

Should the method of studying science be analytic or synthetic? People dispute over this question, but it is not always necessary to choose between them. Sometimes the same experiments allow one to use both analysis and synthesis, and thus to guide the child by the method of instruction when he fancies he is only analysing. Then, by using both at once, each method confirms the results of the other. Starting from opposite ends, without thinking of following the same road, he will unexpectedly reach their meeting place and this will be a delightful surprise. For example, I would begin geography at both ends and add to the study of the earth’s revolution the measurement of its divisions, beginning at home. While the child is studying the sphere and is thus transported to the heavens, bring him back to the divisions of the globe and show him his own home.

Should the way we study science be analytical or synthetic? People argue about this, but it’s not always necessary to pick one over the other. Sometimes the same experiments allow us to use both analysis and synthesis, guiding the child through the teaching method even when he thinks he’s just analyzing. By using both methods together, each one supports the findings of the other. Starting from different points, without intending to take the same path, he will unexpectedly reach their intersection, which will be a delightful surprise. For instance, I would start geography from both ends and combine the study of the earth’s rotation with measuring its sections, starting from home. While the child learns about the sphere and imagines traveling into space, bring him back to the sections of the globe and show him where he lives.

His geography will begin with the town he lives in and his father’s country house, then the places between them, the rivers near them, and then the sun’s aspect and how to find one’s way by its aid. This is the meeting place. Let him make his own map, a very simple map, at first containing only two places; others may be added from time to time, as he is able to estimate their distance and position. You see at once what a good start we have given him by making his eye his compass.

His geography will start with the town he lives in and his dad's country house, then the places in between, the nearby rivers, and how the sun looks and helps with navigation. This is the starting point. Let him create his own map, a really simple one, initially showing just two locations; he can add more over time as he learns to measure their distance and position. You can see right away how great a start we've given him by making his eye his compass.

No doubt he will require some guidance in spite of this, but very little, and that little without his knowing it. If he goes wrong let him alone, do not correct his mistakes; hold your tongue till he finds them out for himself and corrects them, or at most arrange something, as opportunity offers, which may show him his mistakes. If he never makes mistakes he will never learn anything thoroughly. Moreover, what he needs is not an exact knowledge of local topography, but how to find out for himself. No matter whether he carries maps in his head provided he understands what they mean, and has a clear idea of the art of making them. See what a difference there is already between the knowledge of your scholars and the ignorance of mine. They learn maps, he makes them. Here are fresh ornaments for his room.

No doubt he will need some guidance despite this, but very little, and that little without him realizing it. If he makes mistakes, just let him be; don’t correct him. Stay quiet until he spots the errors himself and fixes them, or at most create opportunities that might help him see his mistakes. If he never makes mistakes, he won’t learn anything thoroughly. Plus, what he really needs isn’t an exact knowledge of local geography, but the ability to discover things for himself. It doesn’t matter if he has maps in his head as long as he understands what they mean and knows how to create them. Just look at the difference between what your students know and what mine don’t. They learn to read maps, he learns to create them. Here are some fresh decorations for his room.

Remember that this is the essential point in my method—Do not teach the child many things, but never to let him form inaccurate or confused ideas. I care not if he knows nothing provided he is not mistaken, and I only acquaint him with truths to guard him against the errors he might put in their place. Reason and judgment come slowly, prejudices flock to us in crowds, and from these he must be protected. But if you make science itself your object, you embark on an unfathomable and shoreless ocean, an ocean strewn with reefs from which you will never return. When I see a man in love with knowledge, yielding to its charms and flitting from one branch to another unable to stay his steps, he seems to me like a child gathering shells on the sea-shore, now picking them up, then throwing them aside for others which he sees beyond them, then taking them again, till overwhelmed by their number and unable to choose between them, he flings them all away and returns empty handed.

Remember that this is the key point in my approach—Don’t teach the child a lot of things, but make sure he doesn’t develop inaccurate or confused ideas. I don’t mind if he doesn’t know much, as long as he doesn’t get things wrong, and I only introduce him to truths to protect him from the mistakes he might make instead. Reason and judgment take time to develop, and prejudices come at us in droves, so he needs to be shielded from them. But if you focus solely on science, you’re venturing into a deep and endless ocean, filled with reefs from which you may never return. When I see someone infatuated with knowledge, pulled in by its allure and jumping from one area to another without being able to settle down, he reminds me of a child picking up shells on the beach—sometimes gathering them, then tossing them aside for others he spots nearby, only to take them back again, until overwhelmed by their quantity and unable to choose, he throws them all away and walks off empty-handed.

Time was long during early childhood; we only tried to pass our time for fear of using it ill; now it is the other way; we have not time enough for all that would be of use. The passions, remember, are drawing near, and when they knock at the door your scholar will have no ear for anything else. The peaceful age of intelligence is so short, it flies so swiftly, there is so much to be done, that it is madness to try to make your child learned. It is not your business to teach him the various sciences, but to give him a taste for them and methods of learning them when this taste is more mature. That is assuredly a fundamental principle of all good education.

Time felt endless in early childhood; we spent it trying to avoid wasting it. Now, it’s the opposite; we never seem to have enough time for everything useful. The passions are coming, and when they arrive, your child won’t be able to focus on anything else. The calm period of learning is so brief; it goes by so quickly, and there’s so much to accomplish that it’s crazy to try to make your child an expert. Your role isn’t to teach them all the different sciences, but to spark their interest in them and provide methods for learning when that interest is stronger. This is definitely a key principle of effective education.

This is also the time to train him gradually to prolonged attention to a given object; but this attention should never be the result of constraint, but of interest or desire; you must be very careful that it is not too much for his strength, and that it is not carried to the point of tedium. Watch him, therefore, and whatever happens, stop before he is tired, for it matters little what he learns; it does matter that he should do nothing against his will.

This is also the time to gradually train him to focus on a specific object for longer periods; however, this focus should come from genuine interest or desire, not from pressure. You need to be very careful that it’s not too demanding for him and that it doesn’t become boring. Keep an eye on him, and no matter what happens, stop before he gets tired. It’s not as important what he learns; what matters is that he doesn’t do anything against his will.

If he asks questions let your answers be enough to whet his curiosity but not enough to satisfy it; above all, when you find him talking at random and overwhelming you with silly questions instead of asking for information, at once refuse to answer; for it is clear that he no longer cares about the matter in hand, but wants to make you a slave to his questions. Consider his motives rather than his words. This warning, which was scarcely needed before, becomes of supreme importance when the child begins to reason.

If he asks questions, let your answers spark his curiosity but not completely satisfy it; especially, if you notice him rambling and hitting you with pointless questions instead of seeking real information, refuse to answer right away. It's obvious he’s not interested in the topic anymore and just wants to put you at his beck and call with his questions. Focus on his motives rather than just his words. This advice, which wasn't really necessary before, becomes extremely important once the child starts reasoning.

There is a series of abstract truths by means of which all the sciences are related to common principles and are developed each in its turn. This relationship is the method of the philosophers. We are not concerned with it at present. There is quite another method by which every concrete example suggests another and always points to the next in the series. This succession, which stimulates the curiosity and so arouses the attention required by every object in turn, is the order followed by most men, and it is the right order for all children. To take our bearings so as to make our maps we must find meridians. Two points of intersection between the equal shadows morning and evening supply an excellent meridian for a thirteen-year-old astronomer. But these meridians disappear, it takes time to trace them, and you are obliged to work in one place. So much trouble and attention will at last become irksome. We foresaw this and are ready for it.

There are a bunch of abstract truths that connect all the sciences to common principles, and each one is developed in its own way. This connection is the method of philosophers, but that’s not our focus right now. There’s a different method where each real-life example leads to another and always points to the next in the series. This progression sparks curiosity and helps maintain the attention needed for each subject, which is the way most people learn, and it’s the right approach for all kids. To navigate and create our maps, we need to find reference points. Two points where the shadows are equal in the morning and evening provide a great reference for a thirteen-year-old astronomer. However, these reference points can fade over time, it takes a while to establish them, and you have to work in one spot. Eventually, all this effort and focus will become tedious. We anticipated this and are prepared for it.

Again I must enter into minute and detailed explanations. I hear my readers murmur, but I am prepared to meet their disapproval; I will not sacrifice the most important part of this book to your impatience. You may think me as long-winded as you please; I have my own opinion as to your complaints.

Again, I need to provide detailed explanations. I can hear my readers grumbling, but I'm ready to face their disapproval; I won’t compromise the most important part of this book for your impatience. You might think I'm rambling as much as you like; I have my own thoughts about your complaints.

Long ago my pupil and I remarked that some substances such as amber, glass, and wax, when well rubbed, attracted straws, while others did not. We accidentally discover a substance which has a more unusual property, that of attracting filings or other small particles of iron from a distance and without rubbing. How much time do we devote to this game to the exclusion of everything else! At last we discover that this property is communicated to the iron itself, which is, so to speak, endowed with life. We go to the fair one day [Footnote: I could not help laughing when I read an elaborate criticism of this little tale by M. de Formy. “This conjuror,” says he, “who is afraid of a child’s competition and preaches to his tutor is the sort of person we meet with in the world in which Emile and such as he are living.” This witty M. de Formy could not guess that this little scene was arranged beforehand, and that the juggler was taught his part in it; indeed I did not state this fact. But I have said again and again that I was not writing for people who expected to be told everything.] and a conjuror has a wax duck floating in a basin of water, and he makes it follow a bit of bread. We are greatly surprised, but we do not call him a wizard, never having heard of such persons. As we are continually observing effects whose causes are unknown to us, we are in no hurry to make up our minds, and we remain in ignorance till we find an opportunity of learning.

Long ago, my student and I noticed that some substances like amber, glass, and wax could attract straws when rubbed, while others could not. We accidentally discovered a material with a more unusual property: it could attract small iron filings or particles from a distance without any rubbing. We spent a lot of time playing with this, completely focused on it! Eventually, we figured out that this property was somehow transferred to the iron itself, almost as if it was alive. One day at the fair, a magician had a wax duck floating in a basin of water, and he made it follow a piece of bread. We were really surprised, but we didn’t think of him as a magician since we had never heard of such people. Since we were constantly observing effects without knowing their causes, we didn’t rush to conclusions and remained unaware until we found a chance to learn more.

When we get home we discuss the duck till we try to imitate it. We take a needle thoroughly magnetised, we imbed it in white wax, shaped as far as possible like a duck, with the needle running through the body, so that its eye forms the beak. We put the duck in water and put the end of a key near its beak, and you will readily understand our delight when we find that our duck follows the key just as the duck at the fair followed the bit of bread. Another time we may note the direction assumed by the duck when left in the basin; for the present we are wholly occupied with our work and we want nothing more.

When we get home, we talk about the duck until we try to copy it. We take a needle that's fully magnetized, embed it in white wax shaped as much like a duck as we can, with the needle running through the body so that its eye becomes the beak. We place the duck in water and hold the end of a key near its beak, and you can imagine our excitement when we see that our duck follows the key just like the one at the fair followed the piece of bread. At another time, we might observe the direction the duck takes when left in the basin; for now, we are completely focused on our project and want nothing more.

The same evening we return to the fair with some bread specially prepared in our pockets, and as soon as the conjuror has performed his trick, my little doctor, who can scarcely sit still, exclaims, “The trick is quite easy; I can do it myself.” “Do it then.” He at once takes the bread with a bit of iron hidden in it from his pocket; his heart throbs as he approaches the table and holds out the bread, his hand trembles with excitement. The duck approaches and follows his hand. The child cries out and jumps for joy. The applause, the shouts of the crowd, are too much for him, he is beside himself. The conjuror, though disappointed, embraces him, congratulates him, begs the honour of his company on the following day, and promises to collect a still greater crowd to applaud his skill. My young scientist is very proud of himself and is beginning to chatter, but I check him at once and take him home overwhelmed with praise.

That evening, we go back to the fair with some specially prepared bread in our pockets. As soon as the magician finishes his trick, my little doctor, who can hardly sit still, shouts, “That trick is super easy; I can do it myself.” “Okay, go for it.” He immediately pulls out the bread with a hidden piece of iron from his pocket. His heart races as he walks up to the table and offers the bread, his hand shaking with excitement. The duck comes over and follows his hand. The child cheers and jumps with joy. The applause and cheers from the crowd overwhelm him; he’s ecstatic. The magician, though a bit let down, hugs him, congratulates him, invites him to join again the next day, and promises to gather an even larger crowd to applaud his talent. My little scientist feels really proud and starts to chatter, but I quickly quiet him and take him home, showering him with praise.

The child counts the minutes till to-morrow with absurd anxiety. He invites every one he meets, he wants all mankind to behold his glory; he can scarcely wait till the appointed hour. He hurries to the place; the hall is full already; as he enters his young heart swells with pride. Other tricks are to come first. The conjuror surpasses himself and does the most surprising things. The child sees none of these; he wriggles, perspires, and hardly breathes; the time is spent in fingering with a trembling hand the bit of bread in his pocket. His turn comes at last; the master announces it to the audience with all ceremony; he goes up looking somewhat shamefaced and takes out his bit of bread. Oh fleeting joys of human life! the duck, so tame yesterday, is quite wild to-day; instead of offering its beak it turns tail and swims away; it avoids the bread and the hand that holds it as carefully as it followed them yesterday. After many vain attempts accompanied by derisive shouts from the audience the child complains that he is being cheated, that is not the same duck, and he defies the conjuror to attract it.

The child counts the minutes until tomorrow with ridiculous anxiety. He invites everyone he meets; he wants all of humanity to see his glory. He can hardly wait for the moment to arrive. He rushes to the venue; the hall is already packed. As he walks in, his young heart fills with pride. Other acts come first. The magician outdoes himself and performs the most astonishing tricks. The child sees none of these; he fidgets, sweats, and can barely breathe; he spends the time nervously handling the piece of bread in his pocket. Finally, his turn comes; the magician announces it to the audience with great ceremony. He walks up, looking a bit embarrassed, and pulls out his piece of bread. Oh, fleeting joys of human existence! The duck, so tame yesterday, is completely wild today; instead of offering its beak, it turns away and swims off; it avoids the bread and the hand that holds it just as eagerly as it followed them yesterday. After many futile attempts amidst mocking shouts from the audience, the child complains that he’s being cheated, insisting that it’s not the same duck, and challenges the magician to attract it.

The conjuror, without further words, takes a bit of bread and offers it to the duck, which at once follows it and comes to the hand which holds it. The child takes the same bit of bread with no better success; the duck mocks his efforts and swims round the basin. Overwhelmed with confusion he abandons the attempt, ashamed to face the crowd any longer. Then the conjuror takes the bit of bread the child brought with him and uses it as successfully as his own. He takes out the bit of iron before the audience—another laugh at our expense—then with this same bread he attracts the duck as before. He repeats the experiment with a piece of bread cut by a third person in full view of the audience. He does it with his glove, with his finger-tip. Finally he goes into the middle of the room and in the emphatic tones used by such persons he declares that his duck will obey his voice as readily as his hand; he speaks and the duck obeys; he bids him go to the right and he goes, to come back again and he comes. The movement is as ready as the command. The growing applause completes our discomfiture. We slip away unnoticed and shut ourselves up in our room, without relating our successes to everybody as we had expected.

The magician, without saying anything more, takes a piece of bread and offers it to the duck, which immediately follows it and comes to the hand that holds it. The child tries to do the same with the same piece of bread but with no success; the duck mocks his efforts and swims around the basin. Feeling embarrassed, he gives up, ashamed to face the crowd any longer. Then the magician takes the piece of bread the child brought with him and uses it just as effectively as his own. He pulls out the piece of iron in front of the audience—another laugh at our expense—and then uses the same bread to attract the duck again. He repeats the trick with a piece of bread cut by someone else in full view of the audience. He does it with his glove, with his fingertip. Finally, he moves to the center of the room and, using the dramatic tones typical of such performers, declares that his duck will respond to his voice as easily as to his hand; he speaks, and the duck obeys; he instructs it to go right, and it goes, to come back, and it returns. The movement is as prompt as the command. The rising applause only adds to our embarrassment. We sneak away unnoticed and lock ourselves in our room, without sharing our achievements with everyone as we had expected.

Next day there is a knock at the door. When I open it there is the conjuror, who makes a modest complaint with regard to our conduct. What had he done that we should try to discredit his tricks and deprive him of his livelihood? What is there so wonderful in attracting a duck that we should purchase this honour at the price of an honest man’s living? “My word, gentlemen! had I any other trade by which I could earn a living I would not pride myself on this. You may well believe that a man who has spent his life at this miserable trade knows more about it than you who only give your spare time to it. If I did not show you my best tricks at first, it was because one must not be so foolish as to display all one knows at once. I always take care to keep my best tricks for emergencies; and I have plenty more to prevent young folks from meddling. However, I have come, gentlemen, in all kindness, to show you the trick that gave you so much trouble; I only beg you not to use it to my hurt, and to be more discreet in future.” He then shows us his apparatus, and to our great surprise we find it is merely a strong magnet in the hand of a boy concealed under the table. The man puts up his things, and after we have offered our thanks and apologies, we try to give him something. He refuses it. “No, gentlemen,” says he, “I owe you no gratitude and I will not accept your gift. I leave you in my debt in spite of all, and that is my only revenge. Generosity may be found among all sorts of people, and I earn my pay by doing my tricks not by teaching them.”

The next day, there’s a knock at the door. When I open it, there’s the magician, who has a polite complaint about our behavior. Why did we try to undermine his tricks and threaten his livelihood? What’s so amazing about attracting a duck that we should pay for this honor at the cost of a hardworking man’s income? "Honestly, gentlemen! If I had any other job that could support me, I wouldn’t take pride in this one. You can believe that someone who has spent their life in this tough profession knows more about it than those who only dabble in it for fun. If I didn’t show you my best tricks right away, it’s because it’s foolish to reveal everything at once. I always save my best tricks for special occasions, and I have plenty more to keep young folks from getting involved. However, I’ve come, gentlemen, out of kindness, to show you the trick that gave you so much trouble; I just ask that you don’t use it to harm me and be more careful in the future.” He then shows us his setup, and to our surprise, we discover it’s just a strong magnet this boy is hiding under the table. The man packs up his things, and after we thank him and apologize, we try to give him something. He refuses. “No, gentlemen,” he says, “I owe you no thanks, and I won’t accept your gift. I leave you in my debt, despite everything, and that’s my only revenge. Generosity can be found in all kinds of people, and I earn my living by performing my tricks, not by teaching them.”

As he is going he blames me out-right. “I can make excuses for the child,” he says, “he sinned in ignorance. But you, sir, should know better. Why did you let him do it? As you are living together and you are older than he, you should look after him and give him good advice. Your experience should be his guide. When he is grown up he will reproach, not only himself, but you, for the faults of his youth.”

As he's leaving, he directly blames me. “I can make excuses for the kid,” he says, “he messed up because he didn’t know any better. But you, sir, should know better. Why didn’t you stop him? Since you live together and you’re older, you should take care of him and give him solid advice. Your experience should guide him. When he’s grown up, he’ll regret not just his own mistakes but yours too, for the wrongs of his youth.”

When he is gone we are greatly downcast. I blame myself for my easy-going ways. I promise the child that another time I will put his interests first and warn him against faults before he falls into them, for the time is coming when our relations will be changed, when the severity of the master must give way to the friendliness of the comrade; this change must come gradually, you must look ahead, and very far ahead.

When he’s gone, we feel really sad. I blame myself for being so laid-back. I promise the kid that next time I’ll prioritize his interests and warn him about mistakes before he makes them, because soon our relationship will change, and the strictness of the master will need to shift to the friendliness of a buddy; this change has to happen slowly, and you have to think ahead, way ahead.

We go to the fair again the next day to see the trick whose secret we know. We approach our Socrates, the conjuror, with profound respect, we scarcely dare to look him in the face. He overwhelms us with politeness, gives us the best places, and heaps coals of fire on our heads. He goes through his performance as usual, but he lingers affectionately over the duck, and often glances proudly in our direction. We are in the secret, but we do not tell. If my pupil did but open his mouth he would be worthy of death.

We go to the fair again the next day to see the trick whose secret we know. We approach our Socrates, the magician, with deep respect, barely daring to look him in the eye. He treats us with great politeness, gives us the best seats, and flatters us endlessly. He performs as usual, but he spends extra time on the duck and often looks proudly in our direction. We know the secret, but we keep it to ourselves. If my student were to speak up, he would deserve serious consequences.

There is more meaning than you suspect in this detailed illustration. How many lessons in one! How mortifying are the results of a first impulse towards vanity! Young tutor, watch this first impulse carefully. If you can use it to bring about shame and disgrace, you may be sure it will not recur for many a day. What a fuss you will say. Just so; and all to provide a compass which will enable us to dispense with a meridian!

There’s more meaning than you might think in this detailed illustration. So many lessons in one! The consequences of a first impulse toward vanity can be pretty embarrassing! Young tutor, pay close attention to this first impulse. If you can turn it into shame and disgrace, you can be sure it won't happen again for a long time. You might think that's a big deal. Exactly; all this is to give us a guide that will allow us to do without a specific reference point!

Having learnt that a magnet acts through other bodies, our next business is to construct a bit of apparatus similar to that shown us. A bare table, a shallow bowl placed on it and filled with water, a duck rather better finished than the first, and so on. We often watch the thing and at last we notice that the duck, when at rest, always turns the same way. We follow up this observation; we examine the direction, we find that it is from south to north. Enough! we have found our compass or its equivalent; the study of physics is begun.

Having learned that a magnet can affect other objects, our next task is to set up a device similar to the one we were shown. We need a bare table, a shallow bowl of water on it, a duck that's a bit more polished than the first, and so on. As we observe this setup, we eventually notice that the duck, when stationary, always points the same direction. We dive deeper into this observation, checking the alignment, and realize it points from south to north. That’s it! We’ve discovered our compass or something like it; thus, our exploration of physics begins.

There are various regions of the earth, and these regions differ in temperature. The variation is more evident as we approach the poles; all bodies expand with heat and contract with cold; this is best measured in liquids and best of all in spirits; hence the thermometer. The wind strikes the face, then the air is a body, a fluid; we feel it though we cannot see it. I invert a glass in water; the water will not fill it unless you leave a passage for the escape of the air; so air is capable of resistance. Plunge the glass further in the water; the water will encroach on the air-space without filling it entirely; so air yields somewhat to pressure. A ball filled with compressed air bounces better than one filled with anything else; so air is elastic. Raise your arm horizontally from the water when you are lying in your bath; you will feel a terrible weight on it; so air is a heavy body. By establishing an equilibrium between air and other fluids its weight can be measured, hence the barometer, the siphon, the air-gun, and the air-pump. All the laws of statics and hydrostatics are discovered by such rough experiments. For none of these would I take the child into a physical cabinet; I dislike that array of instruments and apparatus. The scientific atmosphere destroys science. Either the child is frightened by these instruments or his attention, which should be fixed on their effects, is distracted by their appearance.

There are different regions on Earth, and these regions have varying temperatures. The differences are more noticeable as we get closer to the poles; all materials expand when heated and shrink when cooled; this is most easily observed in liquids, and especially in spirits; hence the thermometer. The wind hits your face, showing that air is a substance, a fluid; we can feel it even though we can't see it. If I turn a glass upside down in water, it won't fill up unless I leave a way for the air to escape; this shows that air can push back. If I push the glass further into the water, the water will intrude into the space where the air is without completely filling it; this indicates that air can compress a bit under pressure. A ball filled with compressed air bounces better than one filled with anything else; this means air is elastic. If you raise your arm horizontally out of the water while lying in your bath, you'll feel a significant weight on it; thus, air is heavy. By balancing air against other fluids, we can measure its weight, which is how we use the barometer, the siphon, the air gun, and the air pump. All the principles of statics and hydrostatics can be learned through these simple experiments. Personally, I wouldn't take a child into a science lab; I find that collection of instruments and equipment unappealing. The scientific setting can take away from the learning experience. The child might either be scared of the equipment or become distracted by how it looks instead of focusing on what it can do.

We shall make all our apparatus ourselves, and I would not make it beforehand, but having caught a glimpse of the experiment by chance we mean to invent step by step an instrument for its verification. I would rather our apparatus was somewhat clumsy and imperfect, but our ideas clear as to what the apparatus ought to be, and the results to be obtained by means of it. For my first lesson in statics, instead of fetching a balance, I lay a stick across the back of a chair, I measure the two parts when it is balanced; add equal or unequal weights to either end; by pulling or pushing it as required, I find at last that equilibrium is the result of a reciprocal proportion between the amount of the weights and the length of the levers. Thus my little physicist is ready to rectify a balance before ever he sees one.

We will create all our equipment ourselves, and I don’t plan to make it ahead of time. Instead, after getting a glimpse of the experiment by chance, we intend to invent a tool for verification step by step. I would prefer our equipment to be a bit clumsy and imperfect, as long as we have clear ideas about what it should be and the results we want to achieve with it. For my first lesson in statics, instead of getting a scale, I place a stick across the back of a chair and measure the two sides when it’s balanced. I add equal or unequal weights to either end, and by adjusting it as needed, I ultimately find that equilibrium results from a proportional relationship between the weights and the length of the levers. This way, my little physicist is ready to correct a scale before ever actually seeing one.

Undoubtedly the notions of things thus acquired for oneself are clearer and much more convincing than those acquired from the teaching of others; and not only is our reason not accustomed to a slavish submission to authority, but we develop greater ingenuity in discovering relations, connecting ideas and inventing apparatus, than when we merely accept what is given us and allow our minds to be enfeebled by indifference, like the body of a man whose servants always wait on him, dress him and put on his shoes, whose horse carries him, till he loses the use of his limbs. Boileau used to boast that he had taught Racine the art of rhyming with difficulty. Among the many short cuts to science, we badly need some one to teach us the art of learning with difficulty.

Undoubtedly, the ideas we develop for ourselves are clearer and much more convincing than those we get from others’ teachings. Not only is our reasoning not trained to submit blindly to authority, but we also become better at finding connections, linking ideas, and creating tools than when we just accept things handed to us and let our minds weaken from apathy, like a man who is always waited on by servants, dressed and shoed by them, and carried by his horse until he loses the use of his limbs. Boileau used to brag that he taught Racine the art of difficult rhyming. Among the many shortcuts to knowledge, we really need someone to teach us how to learn the hard way.

The most obvious advantage of these slow and laborious inquiries is this: the scholar, while engaged in speculative studies, is actively using his body, gaining suppleness of limb, and training his hands to labour so that he will be able to make them useful when he is a man. Too much apparatus, designed to guide us in our experiments and to supplement the exactness of our senses, makes us neglect to use those senses. The theodolite makes it unnecessary to estimate the size of angles; the eye which used to judge distances with much precision, trusts to the chain for its measurements; the steel yard dispenses with the need of judging weight by the hand as I used to do. The more ingenious our apparatus, the coarser and more unskilful are our senses. We surround ourselves with tools and fail to use those with which nature has provided every one of us.

The biggest advantage of these slow and tedious inquiries is this: the scholar, while engaging in speculative studies, is actively using his body, gaining flexibility, and training his hands to work so he can make them useful as an adult. Relying too much on equipment designed to help us in our experiments and enhance our sensory accuracy leads us to neglect those senses. The theodolite makes it unnecessary to estimate angle sizes; the eye that used to judge distances accurately now depends on the chain for measurements; the steel yard eliminates the need to estimate weight by hand as I used to do. The more advanced our tools become, the less adept our senses tend to be. We surround ourselves with gadgets and overlook the natural abilities we all have.

But when we devote to the making of these instruments the skill which did instead of them, when for their construction we use the intelligence which enabled us to dispense with them, this is gain not loss, we add art to nature, we gain ingenuity without loss of skill. If instead of making a child stick to his books I employ him in a workshop, his hands work for the development of his mind. While he fancies himself a workman he is becoming a philosopher. Moreover, this exercise has other advantages of which I shall speak later; and you will see how, through philosophy in sport, one may rise to the real duties of man.

But when we dedicate the skill that was used to replace these tools to actually making them, and when we apply the intelligence that allowed us to live without them for their creation, it’s a gain, not a loss. We add creativity to nature, we gain resourcefulness without sacrificing skill. If instead of forcing a child to stick to his books, I have him working in a workshop, his hands contribute to his mental growth. While he sees himself as a craftsman, he’s becoming a thinker. Furthermore, this activity has other benefits that I will discuss later; and you will see how, through playful philosophy, one can rise to the true responsibilities of being human.

I have said already that purely theoretical science is hardly suitable for children, even for children approaching adolescence; but without going far into theoretical physics, take care that all their experiments are connected together by some chain of reasoning, so that they may follow an orderly sequence in the mind, and may be recalled at need; for it is very difficult to remember isolated facts or arguments, when there is no cue for their recall.

I've mentioned before that purely theoretical science isn't really suitable for kids, even those nearing their teenage years. But without diving too deep into theoretical physics, make sure all their experiments are linked by some kind of reasoning chain, so they can follow a logical sequence in their minds and recall them when necessary. It's tough to remember isolated facts or arguments without a prompt to help trigger that recall.

In your inquiry into the laws of nature always begin with the commonest and most conspicuous phenomena, and train your scholar not to accept these phenomena as causes but as facts. I take a stone and pretend to place it in the air; I open my hand, the stone falls. I see Emile watching my action and I say, “Why does this stone fall?”

In your investigation of the laws of nature, always start with the most common and noticeable phenomena, and teach your student not to see these phenomena as causes but as facts. I pick up a stone and act as if I'm holding it in the air; I let go of my hand, and the stone drops. I notice Emile watching what I'm doing and I ask, “Why does this stone fall?”

What child will hesitate over this question? None, not even Emile, unless I have taken great pains to teach him not to answer. Every one will say, “The stone falls because it is heavy.” “And what do you mean by heavy?” “That which falls.” “So the stone falls because it falls?” Here is a poser for my little philosopher. This is his first lesson in systematic physics, and whether he learns physics or no it is a good lesson in common-sense.

What kid would hesitate to answer this question? None, not even Emile, unless I’ve really tried hard to teach him not to respond. Everyone will say, “The stone falls because it’s heavy.” “And what do you mean by heavy?” “That which falls.” “So the stone falls because it falls?” Here’s a tricky question for my little philosopher. This is his first lesson in systematic physics, and whether he learns physics or not, it’s a solid lesson in common sense.

As the child develops in intelligence other important considerations require us to be still more careful in our choice of his occupations. As soon as he has sufficient self-knowledge to understand what constitutes his well-being, as soon as he can grasp such far-reaching relations as to judge what is good for him and what is not, then he is able to discern the difference between work and play, and to consider the latter merely as relaxation. The objects of real utility may be introduced into his studies and may lead him to more prolonged attention than he gave to his games. The ever-recurring law of necessity soon teaches a man to do what he does not like, so as to avert evils which he would dislike still more. Such is the use of foresight, and this foresight, well or ill used, is the source of all the wisdom or the wretchedness of mankind.

As the child grows in intelligence, we need to be even more careful when choosing their activities. Once they have enough self-awareness to understand what benefits them, and can grasp complex relationships to judge what's good for them and what's not, they can tell the difference between work and play, considering the latter as just a way to relax. Practical objects can be incorporated into their studies, leading to longer attention spans than they had during games. The constant demand of necessity soon teaches a person to do things they don’t enjoy in order to avoid consequences they would dislike even more. This is the purpose of foresight, and how this foresight is used determines the wisdom or misery of humanity.

Every one desires happiness, but to secure it he must know what happiness is. For the natural man happiness is as simple as his life; it consists in the absence of pain; health, freedom, the necessaries of life are its elements. The happiness of the moral man is another matter, but it does not concern us at present. I cannot repeat too often that it is only objects which can be perceived by the senses which can have any interest for children, especially children whose vanity has not been stimulated nor their minds corrupted by social conventions.

Everyone wants to be happy, but to achieve that, you need to understand what happiness really is. For a natural person, happiness is as straightforward as life itself; it’s all about the absence of pain. Health, freedom, and basic necessities are its key components. The happiness of a moral person is a different story, but that’s not what we’re focused on right now. I can't emphasize enough that only things we can perceive through our senses hold any interest for children, especially those whose vanity hasn’t been boosted or whose minds haven’t been tainted by social norms.

As soon as they foresee their needs before they feel them, their intelligence has made a great step forward, they are beginning to know the value of time. They must then be trained to devote this time to useful purposes, but this usefulness should be such as they can readily perceive and should be within the reach of their age and experience. What concerns the moral order and the customs of society should not yet be given them, for they are not in a condition to understand it. It is folly to expect them to attend to things vaguely described as good for them, when they do not know what this good is, things which they are assured will be to their advantage when they are grown up, though for the present they take no interest in this so-called advantage, which they are unable to understand.

As soon as they can anticipate their needs before actually feeling them, their intelligence has made a significant progress; they are starting to understand the importance of time. They should then be guided to use this time for productive purposes, but those purposes should be clear and appropriate for their age and experience. Topics related to moral values and societal norms shouldn't be introduced to them yet, as they aren’t ready to grasp these concepts. It's unwise to expect them to focus on things vaguely labeled as beneficial for them when they don’t understand what that benefit truly is. They may be told these things will help them when they're older, but currently, they have no interest in this so-called benefit, which they cannot comprehend.

Let the child do nothing because he is told; nothing is good for him but what he recognises as good. When you are always urging him beyond his present understanding, you think you are exercising a foresight which you really lack. To provide him with useless tools which he may never require, you deprive him of man’s most useful tool—common-sense. You would have him docile as a child; he will be a credulous dupe when he grows up. You are always saying, “What I ask is for your good, though you cannot understand it. What does it matter to me whether you do it or not; my efforts are entirely on your account.” All these fine speeches with which you hope to make him good, are preparing the way, so that the visionary, the tempter, the charlatan, the rascal, and every kind of fool may catch him in his snare or draw him into his folly.

Let the child do nothing just because he's told; nothing is good for him except what he recognizes as good. When you keep pushing him beyond his current understanding, you think you're being wise, but you really aren't. By giving him useless tools he may never need, you take away humanity's most valuable tool—common sense. You want him to be compliant like a child; he will become an easily misled adult when he grows up. You always say, “What I’m asking is for your own good, even if you can't see it. What does it matter to me if you do it or not; my efforts are all for you.” All these grand speeches that you hope will make him better are actually paving the way for the dreamer, the seducer, the con artist, the trickster, and every kind of fool to ensnare him or lead him into foolishness.

A man must know many things which seem useless to a child, but need the child learn, or can he indeed learn, all that the man must know? Try to teach the child what is of use to a child and you will find that it takes all his time. Why urge him to the studies of an age he may never reach, to the neglect of those studies which meet his present needs? “But,” you ask, “will it not be too late to learn what he ought to know when the time comes to use it?” I cannot tell; but this I do know, it is impossible to teach it sooner, for our real teachers are experience and emotion, and man will never learn what befits a man except under its own conditions. A child knows he must become a man; all the ideas he may have as to man’s estate are so many opportunities for his instruction, but he should remain in complete ignorance of those ideas which are beyond his grasp. My whole book is one continued argument in support of this fundamental principle of education.

A man needs to know many things that might seem useless to a child, but should the child learn, or can he really learn, everything the man needs to know? If you try to teach a child what’s useful for him, you’ll find that it takes all his time. Why push him into studying things he might never need, neglecting what he currently needs? “But,” you ask, “won’t it be too late to learn what he should know when he needs it?” I can't say for sure; what I do know is that it’s impossible to teach it any sooner, because our true teachers are experience and emotion, and a person won't learn what it means to be a man until the right conditions are met. A child knows he must grow into a man; all the ideas he might have about adulthood are opportunities for his learning, but he should stay completely unaware of concepts that are beyond his understanding. The entire book is a consistent argument supporting this essential principle of education.

As soon as we have contrived to give our pupil an idea of the word “Useful,” we have got an additional means of controlling him, for this word makes a great impression on him, provided that its meaning for him is a meaning relative to his own age, and provided he clearly sees its relation to his own well-being. This word makes no impression on your scholars because you have taken no pains to give it a meaning they can understand, and because other people always undertake to supply their needs so that they never require to think for themselves, and do not know what utility is.

As soon as we manage to help our student understand the word “Useful,” we gain another way to influence him. This word has a significant impact on him, as long as its meaning is relevant to his age and he clearly understands how it relates to his own well-being. This word doesn't resonate with your students because you haven’t made an effort to give it a meaning they can grasp, and other people always take care of their needs, so they never have to think for themselves and don't understand what utility is.

“What is the use of that?” In future this is the sacred formula, the formula by which he and I test every action of our lives. This is the question with which I invariably answer all his questions; it serves to check the stream of foolish and tiresome questions with which children weary those about them. These incessant questions produce no result, and their object is rather to get a hold over you than to gain any real advantage. A pupil, who has been really taught only to want to know what is useful, questions like Socrates; he never asks a question without a reason for it, for he knows he will be required to give his reason before he gets an answer.

“What’s the point of that?” From now on, this is the guiding principle, the principle by which he and I evaluate every action in our lives. This is the question I always use to respond to all his inquiries; it helps to filter out the endless and annoying questions that kids throw at the adults around them. These constant questions lead nowhere, and their main goal is more about trying to gain control over you than to actually learn something useful. A student who has truly been taught to seek out what is practical questions like Socrates; he never asks a question without a purpose, knowing he’ll need to provide his reasoning before receiving an answer.

See what a powerful instrument I have put into your hands for use with your pupil. As he does not know the reason for anything you can reduce him to silence almost at will; and what advantages do your knowledge and experience give you to show him the usefulness of what you suggest. For, make no mistake about it, when you put this question to him, you are teaching him to put it to you, and you must expect that whatever you suggest to him in the future he will follow your own example and ask, “What is the use of this?”

See what a powerful tool I've given you to use with your student. Since he doesn’t understand the reason behind anything, you can keep him quiet almost effortlessly; and your knowledge and experience give you the edge to demonstrate the value of what you propose. Make no mistake, when you ask him this question, you’re teaching him to ask it back to you, and you should expect that whatever you suggest in the future, he will mirror your example and ask, “What’s the point of this?”

Perhaps this is the greatest of the tutor’s difficulties. If you merely try to put the child off when he asks a question, and if you give him a single reason he is not able to understand, if he finds that you reason according to your own ideas, not his, he will think what you tell him is good for you but not for him; you will lose his confidence and all your labour is thrown away. But what master will stop short and confess his faults to his pupil? We all make it a rule never to own to the faults we really have. Now I would make it a rule to admit even the faults I have not, if I could not make my reasons clear to him; as my conduct will always be intelligible to him, he will never doubt me and I shall gain more credit by confessing my imaginary faults than those who conceal their real defects.

Maybe this is the biggest challenge for a tutor. If you just brush a child off when they ask a question, and if you give them a reason they can’t grasp, they’ll see that you reason based on your own understanding, not theirs. They might think what you tell them is useful for you but not for them, and you’ll lose their trust, rendering all your efforts pointless. But what teacher is willing to stop and admit their mistakes to a student? We all tend to avoid acknowledging the flaws we actually have. Personally, I would make it a point to admit even the mistakes I don’t have, if I can’t clearly explain my reasoning; since my actions will always be understandable to them, they won’t doubt me, and I’ll earn more respect by owning up to my fictional faults than those who hide their true shortcomings.

In the first place do not forget that it is rarely your business to suggest what he ought to learn; it is for him to want to learn, to seek and to find it. You should put it within his reach, you should skilfully awaken the desire and supply him with means for its satisfaction. So your questions should be few and well-chosen, and as he will always have more questions to put to you than you to him, you will always have the advantage and will be able to ask all the oftener, “What is the use of that question?” Moreover, as it matters little what he learns provided he understands it and knows how to use it, as soon as you cannot give him a suitable explanation give him none at all. Do not hesitate to say, “I have no good answer to give you; I was wrong, let us drop the subject.” If your teaching was really ill-chosen there is no harm in dropping it altogether; if it was not, with a little care you will soon find an opportunity of making its use apparent to him.

First of all, remember that it’s rarely your place to suggest what he should learn; it’s up to him to want to learn, to seek it out, and to discover it. You should make it accessible for him, skillfully spark his interest, and provide him with the tools to satisfy that interest. So, your questions should be few and thoughtfully chosen, and since he will always have more questions for you than you will have for him, you will consistently have the upper hand to ask, “What’s the point of that question?” Furthermore, it doesn’t really matter what he learns as long as he understands it and knows how to apply it. If you can’t provide a suitable explanation, then don’t give one at all. Don’t hesitate to say, “I don’t have a good answer for you right now; I was mistaken, let’s forget about this topic.” If your teaching was really off-base, there’s no harm in letting it go completely; if it wasn’t, with a bit of attention, you’ll soon find a chance to make its relevance clear to him.

I do not like verbal explanations. Young people pay little heed to them, nor do they remember them. Things! Things! I cannot repeat it too often. We lay too much stress upon words; we teachers babble, and our scholars follow our example.

I don't like verbal explanations. Young people hardly pay attention to them, and they definitely don't remember them. Stuff! Stuff! I can't say it enough. We focus too much on words; we teachers talk too much, and our students follow suit.

Suppose we are studying the course of the sun and the way to find our bearings, when all at once Emile interrupts me with the question, “What is the use of that?” what a fine lecture I might give, how many things I might take occasion to teach him in reply to his question, especially if there is any one there. I might speak of the advantages of travel, the value of commerce, the special products of different lands and the peculiar customs of different nations, the use of the calendar, the way to reckon the seasons for agriculture, the art of navigation, how to steer our course at sea, how to find our way without knowing exactly where we are. Politics, natural history, astronomy, even morals and international law are involved in my explanation, so as to give my pupil some idea of all these sciences and a great wish to learn them. When I have finished I shall have shown myself a regular pedant, I shall have made a great display of learning, and not one single idea has he understood. He is longing to ask me again, “What is the use of taking one’s bearings?” but he dare not for fear of vexing me. He finds it pays best to pretend to listen to what he is forced to hear. This is the practical result of our fine systems of education.

Imagine we're studying the sun's movement and how to find our direction when suddenly Emile interrupts me with the question, “What’s the point of that?” What a great lecture I could give, how many things I could teach him in response, especially if someone else is listening. I could talk about the benefits of traveling, the value of trade, the unique products of different countries, and the distinct customs of various cultures, the purpose of a calendar, how to track the seasons for farming, the art of navigation, how to find our way at sea, and how to navigate even when we don't know our exact location. Politics, natural history, astronomy, even ethics and international law are all part of my explanation, aiming to give my student an idea of these subjects and inspire a strong desire to learn. By the end, I'll have come off as a total know-it-all, showcasing my knowledge, but not one single idea will have registered with him. He’s itching to ask me again, “What’s the point of figuring out where we are?” but he hesitates for fear of annoying me. He thinks it's best to pretend to listen to what he has to endure. This is the real outcome of our so-called educational systems.

But Emile is educated in a simpler fashion. We take so much pains to teach him a difficult idea that he will have heard nothing of all this. At the first word he does not understand, he will run away, he will prance about the room, and leave me to speechify by myself. Let us seek a more commonplace explanation; my scientific learning is of no use to him.

But Emile is educated in a more straightforward way. We go to great lengths to teach him a complex idea that he won't have picked up on at all. At the first word he doesn't understand, he'll run off, he'll dance around the room, leaving me to talk by myself. Let's look for a more ordinary explanation; my scientific knowledge isn't useful to him.

We were observing the position of the forest to the north of Montmorency when he interrupted me with the usual question, “What is the use of that?” “You are right,” I said. “Let us take time to think it over, and if we find it is no use we will drop it, for we only want useful games.” We find something else to do and geography is put aside for the day.

We were looking at the position of the forest to the north of Montmorency when he interrupted me with the usual question, “What’s the point of that?” “You’re right,” I said. “Let’s take a moment to think it through, and if we decide it’s useless, we’ll forget about it, because we only want games that are useful.” We find something else to do and put geography aside for the day.

Next morning I suggest a walk before breakfast; there is nothing he would like better; children are always ready to run about, and he is a good walker. We climb up to the forest, we wander through its clearings and lose ourselves; we have no idea where we are, and when we want to retrace our steps we cannot find the way. Time passes, we are hot and hungry; hurrying vainly this way and that we find nothing but woods, quarries, plains, not a landmark to guide us. Very hot, very tired, very hungry, we only get further astray. At last we sit down to rest and to consider our position. I assume that Emile has been educated like an ordinary child. He does not think, he begins to cry; he has no idea we are close to Montmorency, which is hidden from our view by a mere thicket; but this thicket is a forest to him, a man of his size is buried among bushes. After a few minutes’ silence I begin anxiously——

The next morning, I suggest we take a walk before breakfast; there’s nothing he would enjoy more. Kids are always ready to run around, and he’s a good walker. We hike up to the forest, wander through its clearings, and lose ourselves; we have no clue where we are, and when we try to retrace our steps, we can’t find the way. Time passes, and we feel hot and hungry; we rush around aimlessly, but all we see are woods, quarries, and plains—no landmark to guide us. Very hot, very tired, and very hungry, we only end up getting more lost. Finally, we sit down to rest and think about our situation. I assume that Emile has been raised like a typical child. He doesn’t think; he starts to cry; he has no idea we’re close to Montmorency, which is hidden from us by just a thicket. But to him, that thicket feels like a forest, and he’s completely buried among the bushes. After a few minutes of silence, I start to feel anxious——

JEAN JACQUES. My dear Emile, what shall we do get out?

JEAN JACQUES. My dear Emile, what should we do to get out?

EMILE. I am sure I do not know. I am tired, I am hungry, I am thirsty. I cannot go any further.

EMILE. I'm really not sure. I'm tired, I'm hungry, and I'm thirsty. I can't go any further.

JEAN JACQUES. Do you suppose I am any better off? I would cry too if I could make my breakfast off tears. Crying is no use, we must look about us. Let us see your watch; what time is it?

JEAN JACQUES. Do you think I'm in a better situation? I would cry too if I could make my breakfast from tears. Crying won’t help, we need to figure things out. Let us see your watch; what time is it?

EMILE. It is noon and I am so hungry!

EMILE. It’s noon and I’m so hungry!

JEAN JACQUES. Just so; it is noon and I am so hungry too.

JEAN JACQUES. Exactly; it's noon and I'm really hungry too.

EMILE. You must be very hungry indeed.

EMILE. You must be really hungry.

JEAN JACQUES. Unluckily my dinner won’t come to find me. It is twelve o’clock. This time yesterday we were observing the position of the forest from Montmorency. If only we could see the position of Montmorency from the forest.

JEAN JACQUES. Unfortunately, my dinner isn’t going to come to me. It’s twelve o’clock. This time yesterday, we were looking at the view of the forest from Montmorency. If only we could see the view of Montmorency from the forest.

EMILE. But yesterday we could see the forest, and here we cannot see the town.

EMILE. But yesterday we could see the forest, and now we can't see the town.

JEAN JACQUES. That is just it. If we could only find it without seeing it.

JEAN JACQUES. That's exactly it. If only we could find it without having to see it.

EMILE. Oh! my dear friend!

EMILE. Oh! my dear friend!

JEAN JACQUES. Did not we say the forest was...

JEAN JACQUES. Didn’t we say the forest was...

EMILE. North of Montmorency.

EMILE. North of Montmorency.

JEAN JACQUES. Then Montmorency must lie...

JEAN JACQUES. Then Montmorency must be lying...

EMILE. South of the forest.

EMILE. South of the woods.

JEAN JACQUES. We know how to find the north at midday.

JEAN JACQUES. We know how to determine north at noon.

EMILE. Yes, by the direction of the shadows.

EMILE. Yeah, by the way the shadows are pointing.

JEAN JACQUES. But the south?

JEAN JACQUES. But what about the south?

EMILE. What shall we do?

EMILE. What should we do?

JEAN JACQUES. The south is opposite the north.

JEAN JACQUES. The south is across from the north.

EMILE. That is true; we need only find the opposite of the shadows. That is the south! That is the south! Montmorency must be over there! Let us look for it there!

EMILE. That's right; we just need to find the opposite of the shadows. That's south! That's south! Montmorency must be over there! Let's go look for it there!

JEAN JACQUES. Perhaps you are right; let us follow this path through the wood.

JEAN JACQUES. Maybe you're right; let's take this path through the woods.

EMILE. (Clapping his hands.) Oh, I can see Montmorency! there it is, quite plain, just in front of us! Come to luncheon, come to dinner, make haste! Astronomy is some use after all.

EMILE. (Clapping his hands.) Oh, I can see Montmorency! There it is, clear as day, right in front of us! Come for lunch, come for dinner, hurry up! Astronomy is actually useful after all.

Be sure that he thinks this if he does not say it; no matter which, provided I do not say it myself. He will certainly never forget this day’s lesson as long as he lives, while if I had only led him to think of all this at home, my lecture would have been forgotten the next day. Teach by doing whenever you can, and only fall back upon words when doing is out of the question.

Make sure he believes this even if he doesn't say it; it doesn't matter as long as I don't say it myself. He'll definitely remember today's lesson for the rest of his life, whereas if I had just made him think about it at home, my talk would have been forgotten by the next day. Teach by doing whenever possible, and only resort to words when doing isn’t an option.

The reader will not expect me to have such a poor opinion of him as to supply him with an example of every kind of study; but, whatever is taught, I cannot too strongly urge the tutor to adapt his instances to the capacity of his scholar; for once more I repeat the risk is not in what he does not know, but in what he thinks he knows.

The reader wouldn’t expect me to think so little of him as to provide an example for every type of study; however, no matter what is taught, I cannot emphasize enough that the tutor should tailor his examples to match the student’s abilities. Once again, I stress that the danger lies not in what the student doesn’t know, but in what he believes he knows.

I remember how I once tried to give a child a taste for chemistry. After showing him several metallic precipitates, I explained how ink was made. I told him how its blackness was merely the result of fine particles of iron separated from the vitriol and precipitated by an alkaline solution. In the midst of my learned explanation the little rascal pulled me up short with the question I myself had taught him. I was greatly puzzled. After a few moments’ thought I decided what to do. I sent for some wine from the cellar of our landlord, and some very cheap wine from a wine-merchant. I took a small [Footnote: Before giving any explanation to a child a little bit of apparatus serves to fix his attention.] flask of an alkaline solution, and placing two glasses before me filled with the two sorts of wine, I said.

I remember a time when I tried to spark a child's interest in chemistry. After showing him a few metal precipitates, I explained how ink is made. I told him that its black color comes from tiny particles of iron that get separated from vitriol and fall out because of an alkaline solution. In the middle of my detailed explanation, the little rascal halted me with a question I had taught him. I was really stumped. After thinking for a moment, I decided on a plan. I asked for some wine from our landlord's cellar and some really cheap wine from a store. I grabbed a small [Footnote: Before giving any explanation to a child, a little bit of apparatus serves to fix his attention.] flask of an alkaline solution, and with two glasses in front of me filled with the different wines, I said.

Food and drink are adulterated to make them seem better than they really are. These adulterations deceive both the eye and the palate, but they are unwholesome and make the adulterated article even worse than before in spite of its fine appearance.

Food and drinks are tampered with to look better than they actually are. These alterations trick both the eyes and the taste buds, but they are unhealthy and make the altered product even worse than it was before, regardless of its appealing look.

All sorts of drinks are adulterated, and wine more than others; for the fraud is more difficult to detect, and more profitable to the fraudulent person.

All kinds of drinks are mixed with other substances, and wine more than most; because it's harder to spot the deception, and it's more rewarding for the scammer.

Sour wine is adulterated with litharge; litharge is a preparation of lead. Lead in combination with acids forms a sweet salt which corrects the harsh taste of the sour wine, but it is poisonous. So before we drink wine of doubtful quality we should be able to tell if there is lead in it. This is how I should do it.

Sour wine is mixed with litharge; litharge is a form of lead. Lead combined with acids creates a sweet salt that improves the bitter taste of sour wine, but it's toxic. So before we drink wine of questionable quality, we need to know if it contains lead. Here's how I would do that.

Wine contains not merely an inflammable spirit as you have seen from the brandy made from it; it also contains an acid as you know from the vinegar made from it.

Wine contains not just a flammable alcohol, as you’ve seen from the brandy made from it; it also has an acid, which you know from the vinegar made from it.

This acid has an affinity for metals, it combines with them and forms salts, such as iron-rust, which is only iron dissolved by the acid in air or water, or such as verdegris, which is only copper dissolved in vinegar.

This acid is attracted to metals; it bonds with them to create salts, like iron rust, which is just iron dissolved by the acid in air or water, or verdegris, which is simply copper dissolved in vinegar.

But this acid has a still greater affinity for alkalis than for metals, so that when we add alkalis to the above-mentioned salts, the acid sets free the metal with which it had combined, and combines with the alkali.

But this acid has an even stronger attraction to alkalis than to metals, so when we add alkalis to the salts mentioned above, the acid releases the metal it had combined with and reacts with the alkali.

Then the metal, set free by the acid which held it in solution, is precipitated and the liquid becomes opaque.

Then the metal, released by the acid that kept it dissolved, is precipitated and the liquid turns cloudy.

If then there is litharge in either of these glasses of wine, the acid holds the litharge in solution. When I pour into it an alkaline solution, the acid will be forced to set the lead free in order to combine with the alkali. The lead, no longer held in solution, will reappear, the liquor will become thick, and after a time the lead will be deposited at the bottom of the glass.

If there's litharge in either of these glasses of wine, the acid keeps the litharge dissolved. When I add an alkaline solution, the acid will release the lead to combine with the alkali. The lead, no longer dissolved, will reemerge, the liquid will become thick, and eventually, the lead will settle at the bottom of the glass.

If there is no lead [Footnote: The wine sold by retail dealers in Paris is rarely free from lead, though some of it does not contain litharge, for the counters are covered with lead and when the wine is poured into the measures and some of it spilt upon the counter and the measures left standing on the counter, some of the lead is always dissolved. It is strange that so obvious and dangerous an abuse should be tolerated by the police. But indeed well-to-do people, who rarely drink these wines, are not likely to be poisoned by them.] nor other metal in the wine the alkali will slowly [Footnote: The vegetable acid is very gentle in its action. If it were a mineral acid and less diluted, the combination would not take place without effervescence.] combine with the acid, all will remain clear and there will be no precipitate.

If there’s no lead [Footnote: The wine sold by retail dealers in Paris usually has some lead in it, although some don’t contain litharge, as the counters are covered with lead. When the wine is poured into the measures and some spills on the counter, and the measures are left standing there, some of the lead always dissolves. It’s strange that such an obvious and dangerous issue is allowed by the police. However, wealthy people, who rarely drink these wines, are unlikely to be harmed by them.] or any other metal in the wine, the alkali will slowly [Footnote: The vegetable acid acts very gently. If it were a mineral acid and less diluted, the combination wouldn’t happen without fizzing.] combine with the acid, everything will stay clear, and there won’t be any precipitate.

Then I poured my alkaline solution first into one glass and then into the other. The wine from our own house remained clear and unclouded, the other at once became turbid, and an hour later the lead might be plainly seen, precipitated at the bottom of the glass.

Then I poured my alkaline solution into one glass and then the other. The wine from our own house stayed clear and unclouded, while the other immediately became cloudy, and an hour later, the lead could clearly be seen settled at the bottom of the glass.

“This,” said I, “is a pure natural wine and fit to drink; the other is adulterated and poisonous. You wanted to know the use of knowing how to make ink. If you can make ink you can find out what wines are adulterated.”

“This,” I said, “is pure natural wine and good to drink; the other is mixed and toxic. You wanted to know why it’s important to know how to make ink. If you can make ink, you can figure out which wines are mixed.”

I was very well pleased with my illustration, but I found it made little impression on my pupil. When I had time to think about it I saw I had been a fool, for not only was it impossible for a child of twelve to follow my explanations, but the usefulness of the experiment did not appeal to him; he had tasted both glasses of wine and found them both good, so he attached no meaning to the word “adulterated” which I thought I had explained so nicely. Indeed, the other words, “unwholesome” and “poison,” had no meaning whatever for him; he was in the same condition as the boy who told the story of Philip and his doctor. It is the condition of all children.

I was really pleased with my illustration, but I realized it hardly made an impression on my student. When I had time to think it over, I realized I had been foolish, because not only was it impossible for a twelve-year-old to understand my explanations, but the usefulness of the experiment didn’t register with him; he had tasted both glasses of wine and thought they were both good, so he didn’t grasp what I meant by “adulterated,” which I thought I had explained clearly. In fact, the other words “unwholesome” and “poison” didn’t mean anything to him either; he was in the same situation as the boy who told the story of Philip and his doctor. It’s a common state for all children.

The relation of causes and effects whose connection is unknown to us, good and ill of which we have no idea, the needs we have never felt, have no existence for us. It is impossible to interest ourselves in them sufficiently to make us do anything connected with them. At fifteen we become aware of the happiness of a good man, as at thirty we become aware of the glory of Paradise. If we had no clear idea of either we should make no effort for their attainment; and even if we had a clear idea of them, we should make little or no effort unless we desired them and unless we felt we were made for them. It is easy to convince a child that what you wish to teach him is useful, but it is useless to convince if you cannot also persuade. Pure reason may lead us to approve or censure, but it is feeling which leads to action, and how shall we care about that which does not concern us?

The relationship between causes and effects that we don’t understand, the good and bad that we can’t even imagine, and the needs we’ve never experienced have no relevance to us. It’s impossible for us to become invested in them enough to take action. At fifteen, we start to notice the happiness of a good person, just like at thirty we recognize the glory of Paradise. If we didn’t have a clear idea of either, we wouldn’t work towards achieving them; and even if we did have a clear idea, we wouldn’t put in much effort unless we truly desired them and felt that we were meant for them. It’s easy to convince a child that what you want to teach him is valuable, but it’s pointless to convince if you can’t also inspire him. Pure reason may guide us to approve or criticize, but it’s our feelings that drive us to act, and why should we care about what doesn’t concern us?

Never show a child what he cannot see. Since mankind is almost unknown to him, and since you cannot make a man of him, bring the man down to the level of the child. While you are thinking what will be useful to him when he is older, talk to him of what he knows he can use now. Moreover, as soon as he begins to reason let there be no comparison with other children, no rivalry, no competition, not even in running races. I would far rather he did not learn anything than have him learn it through jealousy or self-conceit. Year by year I shall just note the progress he had made, I shall compare the results with those of the following year, I shall say, “You have grown so much; that is the ditch you jumped, the weight you carried, the distance you flung a pebble, the race you ran without stopping to take breath, etc.; let us see what you can do now.”

Never show a child what he can't see. Since the world is mostly a mystery to him, and since you can't turn him into an adult, bring the adult down to the child's level. While you're thinking about what's going to be useful for him later, talk to him about what he can use right now. Also, as soon as he starts to reason, avoid comparing him to other children, fostering rivalry, or competition, not even in races. I would much rather he didn't learn anything than for him to learn it out of jealousy or arrogance. Year by year, I'll simply track his progress, compare it to the next year’s results, and say, “You've grown so much; that’s the ditch you jumped over, the weight you lifted, the distance you threw a pebble, the race you ran without stopping to catch your breath, etc.; let’s see what you can do now.”

In this way he is stimulated to further effort without jealousy. He wants to excel himself as he ought to do; I see no reason why he should not emulate his own performances.

In this way, he is motivated to put in more effort without feeling jealous. He wants to surpass himself as he should; I see no reason why he shouldn't strive to improve on his own achievements.

I hate books; they only teach us to talk about things we know nothing about. Hermes, they say, engraved the elements of science on pillars lest a deluge should destroy them. Had he imprinted them on men’s hearts they would have been preserved by tradition. Well-trained minds are the pillars on which human knowledge is most deeply engraved.

I hate books; they only teach us to talk about things we know nothing about. Hermes, they say, carved the elements of science on pillars so that a flood wouldn't wipe them out. If he had put them in people's hearts, they would have been passed down through tradition. Well-trained minds are the pillars on which human knowledge is most deeply engraved.

Is there no way of correlating so many lessons scattered through so many books, no way of focussing them on some common object, easy to see, interesting to follow, and stimulating even to a child? Could we but discover a state in which all man’s needs appear in such a way as to appeal to the child’s mind, a state in which the ways of providing for these needs are as easily developed, the simple and stirring portrayal of this state should form the earliest training of the child’s imagination.

Is there no way to connect all these lessons spread across so many books, no way to focus them on something common, easy to understand, interesting to follow, and engaging even for a child? If only we could find a way to present all of humanity's needs in a manner that captivates a child's mind, and make the ways to meet these needs just as easy to grasp, then a vivid and compelling depiction of this scenario should become the foundation of early training for a child's imagination.

Eager philosopher, I see your own imagination at work. Spare yourself the trouble; this state is already known, it is described, with due respect to you, far better than you could describe it, at least with greater truth and simplicity. Since we must have books, there is one book which, to my thinking, supplies the best treatise on an education according to nature. This is the first book Emile will read; for a long time it will form his whole library, and it will always retain an honoured place. It will be the text to which all our talks about natural science are but the commentary. It will serve to test our progress towards a right judgment, and it will always be read with delight, so long as our taste is unspoilt. What is this wonderful book? Is it Aristotle? Pliny? Buffon? No; it is Robinson Crusoe.

Eager philosopher, I can see your imagination at work. Save yourself the trouble; this state is already known, and it’s described, with all due respect, much better than you could express it, at least with greater truth and clarity. Since we need books, there’s one book that, in my opinion, offers the best guide to education according to nature. This is the first book Emile will read; for a long time, it will make up his entire library and will always hold a special place. It will be the text to which all our discussions about natural science are just commentary. It will help us measure our progress toward sound judgment, and it will always be enjoyed, as long as our taste remains pure. What is this amazing book? Is it Aristotle? Pliny? Buffon? No; it’s Robinson Crusoe.

Robinson Crusoe on his island, deprived of the help of his fellow-men, without the means of carrying on the various arts, yet finding food, preserving his life, and procuring a certain amount of comfort; this is the thing to interest people of all ages, and it can be made attractive to children in all sorts of ways. We shall thus make a reality of that desert island which formerly served as an illustration. The condition, I confess, is not that of a social being, nor is it in all probability Emile’s own condition, but he should use it as a standard of comparison for all other conditions. The surest way to raise him above prejudice and to base his judgments on the true relations of things, is to put him in the place of a solitary man, and to judge all things as they would be judged by such a man in relation to their own utility.

Robinson Crusoe on his island, without the support of other people, lacking the skills to continue various trades, yet managing to find food, stay alive, and achieve a level of comfort; this captures the interest of people of all ages and can be made appealing to children in many ways. We will therefore make that deserted island a reality that used to be just an example. I admit this situation is not one of social connection, nor is it likely Emile's own situation, but he should use it as a benchmark for all other situations. The best way to elevate him above bias and base his judgments on reality is to place him in the shoes of a solitary person, judging everything as such a person would, in terms of their usefulness.

This novel, stripped of irrelevant matter, begins with Robinson’s shipwreck on his island, and ends with the coming of the ship which bears him from it, and it will furnish Emile with material, both for work and play, during the whole period we are considering. His head should be full of it, he should always be busy with his castle, his goats, his plantations. Let him learn in detail, not from books but from things, all that is necessary in such a case. Let him think he is Robinson himself; let him see himself clad in skins, wearing a tall cap, a great cutlass, all the grotesque get-up of Robinson Crusoe, even to the umbrella which he will scarcely need. He should anxiously consider what steps to take; will this or that be wanting. He should examine his hero’s conduct; has he omitted nothing; is there nothing he could have done better? He should carefully note his mistakes, so as not to fall into them himself in similar circumstances, for you may be sure he will plan out just such a settlement for himself. This is the genuine castle in the air of this happy age, when the child knows no other happiness but food and freedom.

This novel, free of unnecessary details, starts with Robinson getting shipwrecked on his island and ends with the arrival of the ship that takes him away. It will provide Emile with material for both work and play throughout the entire time we're discussing. His mind should be filled with it; he should always be busy with his castle, his goats, and his plantations. He should learn in detail, not from books but from real experiences, everything he needs in such a situation. He should imagine himself as Robinson; he should picture himself dressed in skins, wearing a tall cap, wielding a big cutlass, all the quirky gear of Robinson Crusoe, even the umbrella he probably won't use. He should thoughtfully consider what he needs to do; will he be missing this or that? He should analyze his hero’s actions; has he missed anything? Is there something he could have done better? He should carefully note his mistakes so he doesn't repeat them in similar situations, because you can be sure he will plan out a settlement for himself exactly like that. This is the true daydream of this joyful age, when a child knows no happiness other than food and freedom.

What a motive will this infatuation supply in the hands of a skilful teacher who has aroused it for the purpose of using it. The child who wants to build a storehouse on his desert island will be more eager to learn than the master to teach. He will want to know all sorts of useful things and nothing else; you will need the curb as well as the spur. Make haste, therefore, to establish him on his island while this is all he needs to make him happy; for the day is at hand, when, if he must still live on his island, he will not be content to live alone, when even the companionship of Man Friday, who is almost disregarded now, will not long suffice.

What a motivation this obsession will give to a skilled teacher who has sparked it for their own use. The child who wants to build a storehouse on their desert island will be more eager to learn than the teacher will be to teach. They will want to know all kinds of useful things and nothing else; you'll need to encourage them as well as keep them in check. So, hurry up and establish them on their island while this is all they need to be happy; for the day will come when, if they still have to live on their island, they won’t be happy living alone, and even the company of Man Friday, who is almost ignored now, won’t satisfy them for long.

The exercise of the natural arts, which may be carried on by one man alone, leads on to the industrial arts which call for the cooperation of many hands. The former may be carried on by hermits, by savages, but the others can only arise in a society, and they make society necessary. So long as only bodily needs are recognised man is self-sufficing; with superfluity comes the need for division and distribution of labour, for though one man working alone can earn a man’s living, one hundred men working together can earn the living of two hundred. As soon as some men are idle, others must work to make up for their idleness.

The practice of natural skills, which can be done by an individual, paves the way to industrial skills that require teamwork. The former can be practiced by hermits or isolated individuals, but the latter can only develop in a community, making society essential. As long as only basic physical needs are acknowledged, a person can be self-sufficient; however, when there’s an excess, the need for division and distribution of labor arises. While one person can earn a living alone, a hundred people working together can generate enough for two hundred. When some individuals are idle, others need to work harder to compensate for their lack of effort.

Your main object should be to keep out of your scholar’s way all idea of such social relations as he cannot understand, but when the development of knowledge compels you to show him the mutual dependence of mankind, instead of showing him its moral side, turn all his attention at first towards industry and the mechanical arts which make men useful to one another. While you take him from one workshop to another, let him try his hand at every trade you show him, and do not let him leave it till he has thoroughly learnt why everything is done, or at least everything that has attracted his attention. With this aim you should take a share in his work and set him an example. Be yourself the apprentice that he may become a master; you may expect him to learn more in one hour’s work than he would retain after a whole day’s explanation.

Your main goal should be to keep your student away from any social concepts he can't grasp. But when knowledge requires you to explain the interdependence of people, instead of focusing on its moral implications, direct his attention initially to industry and the practical skills that help people support each other. As you take him from one workshop to another, let him try out every trade you show him, and make sure he doesn’t leave until he understands why everything is done, or at least everything that piques his interest. To achieve this, you should actively participate in his work and set a good example. Be the apprentice so that he can become the master; he’ll learn more in one hour of hands-on work than he would after a whole day of discussions.

The value set by the general public on the various arts is in inverse ratio to their real utility. They are even valued directly according to their uselessness. This might be expected. The most useful arts are the worst paid, for the number of workmen is regulated by the demand, and the work which everybody requires must necessarily be paid at a rate which puts it within the reach of the poor. On the other hand, those great people who are called artists, not artisans, who labour only for the rich and idle, put a fancy price on their trifles; and as the real value of this vain labour is purely imaginary, the price itself adds to their market value, and they are valued according to their costliness. The rich think so much of these things, not because they are useful, but because they are beyond the reach of the poor. Nolo habere bona, nisi quibus populus inviderit.

The value the general public places on various arts is inversely related to their actual usefulness. In fact, they are often valued based on their lack of utility. This is to be expected. The most practical arts are the least well-paid, as the number of workers is determined by demand, and jobs that everyone needs must be paid at rates affordable for the poor. In contrast, those esteemed individuals known as artists, not craftsmen, who create only for the wealthy and idle, set high prices for their trivial works; since the real value of this superficial labor is entirely imaginary, the price itself boosts their market value, and they are valued based on their expense. The wealthy place so much importance on these items, not because they are useful, but because they are unattainable for the poor. Nolo habere bona, nisi quibus populus inviderit.

What will become of your pupils if you let them acquire this foolish prejudice, if you share it yourself? If, for instance, they see you show more politeness in a jeweller’s shop than in a locksmith’s. What idea will they form of the true worth of the arts and the real value of things when they see, on the one hand, a fancy price and, on the other, the price of real utility, and that the more a thing costs the less it is worth? As soon as you let them get hold of these ideas, you may give up all attempt at further education; in spite of you they will be like all the other scholars—you have wasted fourteen years.

What will happen to your students if you let them develop this silly bias, especially if you hold it yourself? For example, if they notice that you’re more respectful in a jewelry store than in a locksmith’s. What will they think about the true value of different skills and the actual worth of things when they see a high price tag on one hand and the practical price on the other, realizing that the more something costs, the less valuable it is? Once you allow them to grasp these ideas, you might as well stop trying to teach them; despite your efforts, they’ll just end up like all the other students—you’ll have wasted fourteen years.

Emile, bent on furnishing his island, will look at things from another point of view. Robinson would have thought more of a toolmaker’s shop than all Saide’s trifles put together. He would have reckoned the toolmaker a very worthy man, and Saide little more than a charlatan.

Emile, determined to equip his island, will approach things from a different perspective. Robinson would value a toolmaker’s shop more than all of Saide’s trinkets combined. He would consider the toolmaker a truly respectable person, while seeing Saide as little more than a fraud.

“My son will have to take the world as he finds it, he will not live among the wise but among fools; he must therefore be acquainted with their follies, since they must be led by this means. A real knowledge of things may be a good thing in itself, but the knowledge of men and their opinions is better, for in human society man is the chief tool of man, and the wisest man is he who best knows the use of this tool. What is the good of teaching children an imaginary system, just the opposite of the established order of things, among which they will have to live? First teach them wisdom, then show them the follies of mankind.”

“My son will have to take the world as it is; he won’t be living among the wise but among fools. Therefore, he needs to understand their foolishness, as that’s how he’ll navigate through life. Knowing factual information is good, but understanding people and their opinions is even better. In human society, people are the main resource for each other, and the smartest person is the one who knows how to use that resource best. What’s the point of teaching kids a fictional system that contradicts reality, the one they’ll actually have to live in? First, teach them wisdom, then show them the foolishness of humanity.”

These are the specious maxims by which fathers, who mistake them for prudence, strive to make their children the slaves of the prejudices in which they are educated, and the puppets of the senseless crowd, which they hope to make subservient to their passions. How much must be known before we attain to a knowledge of man. This is the final study of the philosopher, and you expect to make it the first lesson of the child! Before teaching him our sentiments, first teach him to judge of their worth. Do you perceive folly when you mistake it for wisdom? To be wise we must discern between good and evil. How can your child know men, when he can neither judge of their judgments nor unravel their mistakes? It is a misfortune to know what they think, without knowing whether their thoughts are true or false. First teach him things as they really are, afterwards you will teach him how they appear to us. He will then be able to make a comparison between popular ideas and truth, and be able to rise above the vulgar crowd; for you are unaware of the prejudices you adopt, and you do not lead a nation when you are like it. But if you begin to teach the opinions of other people before you teach how to judge of their worth, of one thing you may be sure, your pupil will adopt those opinions whatever you may do, and you will not succeed in uprooting them. I am therefore convinced that to make a young man judge rightly, you must form his judgment rather than teach him your own.

These are the misleading beliefs that fathers, who mistake them for wisdom, use to make their children slaves to the prejudices they were raised with and puppets of the mindless crowd, which they hope to control for their own desires. We must understand so much before we can truly know humanity. This is the ultimate study of the philosopher, and you expect to make it the first lesson for a child! Before teaching him our beliefs, first teach him to evaluate their value. Can you recognize foolishness when you think it’s wisdom? To be wise, we need to distinguish between good and evil. How can your child understand people when he can’t assess their judgments or untangle their errors? It’s a disadvantage to know what they think without knowing whether their thoughts are right or wrong. First, teach him things as they really are; later, you can show him how they appear to us. He will then be able to compare popular opinions with the truth and rise above the ordinary crowd; for you are unaware of the biases you accept, and you do not lead a nation when you are just like it. But if you start teaching others’ opinions before teaching how to evaluate their worth, one thing is certain: your student will adopt those opinions regardless of anything you do, and you won’t be able to get rid of them. I am therefore convinced that to help a young man judge correctly, you must shape his judgment instead of simply teaching him your own.

So far you see I have not spoken to my pupil about men; he would have too much sense to listen to me. His relations to other people are as yet not sufficiently apparent to him to enable him to judge others by himself. The only person he knows is himself, and his knowledge of himself is very imperfect. But if he forms few opinions about others, those opinions are correct. He knows nothing of another’s place, but he knows his own and keeps to it. I have bound him with the strong cord of necessity, instead of social laws, which are beyond his knowledge. He is still little more than a body; let us treat him as such.

So far, you can see I haven't talked to my student about other people; he’s too sensible to pay attention to me. His relationships with others aren't clear enough for him to judge them on his own. The only person he truly knows is himself, and his understanding of himself is pretty limited. However, while he doesn't form many opinions about others, those he does have are spot on. He doesn't know anything about someone else's role, but he understands his own and sticks to it. I’ve tied him down with the strong cord of necessity instead of social rules that are beyond his grasp. He is still just a body; let’s treat him as such.

Every substance in nature and every work of man must be judged in relation to his own use, his own safety, his own preservation, his own comfort. Thus he should value iron far more than gold, and glass than diamonds; in the same way he has far more respect for a shoemaker or a mason than for a Lempereur, a Le Blanc, or all the jewellers in Europe. In his eyes a confectioner is a really great man, and he would give the whole academy of sciences for the smallest pastrycook in Lombard Street. Goldsmiths, engravers, gilders, and embroiderers, he considers lazy people, who play at quite useless games. He does not even think much of a clockmaker. The happy child enjoys Time without being a slave to it; he uses it, but he does not know its value. The freedom from passion which makes every day alike to him, makes any means of measuring time unnecessary. When I assumed that Emile had a watch, [Footnote: When our hearts are abandoned to the sway of passion, then it is that we need a measure of time. The wise man’s watch is his equable temper and his peaceful heart. He is always punctual, and he always knows the time.] just as I assumed that he cried, it was a commonplace Emile that I chose to serve my purpose and make myself understood. The real Emile, a child so different from the rest, would not serve as an illustration for anything.

Every substance in nature and every work of man should be evaluated based on its usefulness, safety, preservation, and comfort. So, someone should value iron much more than gold and glass more than diamonds; similarly, they respect a shoemaker or a mason far more than a Lempereur, a Le Blanc, or all the jewelers in Europe. In their eyes, a confectioner is a truly great person, and they would exchange the entire academy of sciences for the smallest pastry cook in Lombard Street. Goldsmiths, engravers, gilders, and embroiderers are seen as lazy people who engage in completely pointless activities. They don’t even think much of a clockmaker. The happy child enjoys Time without being enslaved by it; they use it, but they don’t understand its value. The freedom from passion that makes every day the same for them renders any timekeeping unnecessary. When I assumed that Emile had a watch, [Footnote: When our hearts are given over to passion, it is then that we need a way to measure time. The wise man’s watch is his balanced mood and peaceful heart. He is always punctual and always aware of the time.] just like I assumed that he cried, it was a typical Emile that I chose to illustrate my point and make myself understood. The real Emile, a child so different from the others, wouldn’t serve as an example for anything.

There is an order no less natural and even more accurate, by which the arts are valued according to bonds of necessity which connect them; the highest class consists of the most independent, the lowest of those most dependent on others. This classification, which suggests important considerations on the order of society in general, is like the preceding one in that it is subject to the same inversion in popular estimation, so that the use of raw material is the work of the lowest and worst paid trades, while the oftener the material changes hands, the more the work rises in price and in honour. I do not ask whether industry is really greater and more deserving of reward when engaged in the delicate arts which give the final shape to these materials, than in the labour which first gave them to man’s use; but this I say, that in everything the art which is most generally useful and necessary, is undoubtedly that which most deserves esteem, and that art which requires the least help from others, is more worthy of honour than those which are dependent on other arts, since it is freer and more nearly independent. These are the true laws of value in the arts; all others are arbitrary and dependent on popular prejudice.

There is a more natural and precise order in which the arts are valued based on their connections and dependencies. The highest category includes the most independent arts, while the lowest includes those that rely heavily on others. This classification brings to light important ideas about the structure of society as a whole. Like the previous classification, it can be flipped in public opinion; thus, working with raw materials tends to be the least respected and lowest paying jobs. Conversely, the more often materials change hands, the more their value and prestige increase. I won't say whether the work in delicate arts, which finalizes these materials, is more valuable than the initial labor that makes them available to us. However, I do believe that the art that is most widely useful and necessary is the one that truly deserves respect, and that the art requiring the least assistance from others merits more honor than those that depend on other arts, as it is more independent and freer. These are the real principles of value in the arts; all others are subjective and shaped by public perception.

Agriculture is the earliest and most honourable of arts; metal work I put next, then carpentry, and so on. This is the order in which the child will put them, if he has not been spoilt by vulgar prejudices. What valuable considerations Emile will derive from his Robinson in such matters. What will he think when he sees the arts only brought to perfection by sub-division, by the infinite multiplication of tools. He will say, “All those people are as silly as they are ingenious; one would think they were afraid to use their eyes and their hands, they invent so many tools instead. To carry on one trade they become the slaves of many others; every single workman needs a whole town. My friend and I try to gain skill; we only make tools we can take about with us; these people, who are so proud of their talents in Paris, would be no use at all on our island; they would have to become apprentices.”

Agriculture is the oldest and most respected of arts; I consider metalworking to be next, followed by carpentry, and so on. This is the order a child will follow if they haven't been influenced by common misconceptions. Emile will gain valuable insights from his Robinson about these topics. What will he think when he sees that the arts are perfected only through specialization and the endless creation of tools? He will say, “Those people are just as foolish as they are clever; it seems like they’re afraid to use their eyes and hands, inventing so many tools instead. To practice one trade, they become dependent on many others; every single worker needs an entire town. My friend and I strive to gain skills; we only make tools we can carry with us; those people who are so proud of their talents in Paris wouldn’t be of any use on our island; they would have to start as apprentices.”

Reader, do not stay to watch the bodily exercises and manual skill of our pupil, but consider the bent we are giving to his childish curiosity; consider his common-sense, his inventive spirit, his foresight; consider what a head he will have on his shoulders. He will want to know all about everything he sees or does, to learn the why and the wherefore of it; from tool to tool he will go back to the first beginning, taking nothing for granted; he will decline to learn anything that requires previous knowledge which he has not acquired. If he sees a spring made he will want to know how they got the steel from the mine; if he sees the pieces of a chest put together, he will want to know how the tree was out down; when at work he will say of each tool, “If I had not got this, how could I make one like it, or how could I get along without it?”

Reader, don’t just focus on our student’s physical activities and skills, but think about how we’re shaping his natural curiosity; consider his common sense, his inventive nature, his ability to plan ahead; think about the kind of thinking he’ll have. He’ll want to know everything about everything he sees or does, to understand the reasons behind it all; he’ll trace each tool back to its origins, never taking anything for granted; he won’t learn anything that requires prior knowledge he hasn’t yet gained. If he sees a spring being made, he’ll want to understand how the steel was mined; if he watches pieces of a chest being assembled, he’ll want to know how the tree was cut down; while working, he’ll look at each tool and question, “If I didn’t have this, how could I make something similar, or how would I manage without it?”

It is, however, difficult to avoid another error. When the master is very fond of certain occupations, he is apt to assume that the child shares his tastes; beware lest you are carried away by the interest of your work, while the child is bored by it, but is afraid to show it. The child must come first, and you must devote yourself entirely to him. Watch him, study him constantly, without his knowing it; consider his feelings beforehand, and provide against those which are undesirable, keep him occupied in such a way that he not only feels the usefulness of the thing, but takes a pleasure in understanding the purpose which his work will serve.

It’s, however, hard to avoid another mistake. When a parent really enjoys certain activities, they often assume that their child shares the same interests; be careful not to get so wrapped up in your work that the child gets bored but feels too scared to show it. The child should come first, and you need to focus completely on them. Observe them and study them constantly, without them realizing it; think about their feelings in advance and prevent any negative ones; keep them engaged in a way that makes them not only see how useful the task is but also enjoy understanding the purpose behind their work.

The solidarity of the arts consists in the exchange of industry, that of commerce in the exchange of commodities, that of banks in the exchange of money or securities. All these ideas hang together, and their foundation has already been laid in early childhood with the help of Robert the gardener. All we have now to do is to substitute general ideas for particular, and to enlarge these ideas by means of numerous examples, so as to make the child understand the game of business itself, brought home to him by means of particular instances of natural history with regard to the special products of each country, by particular instances of the arts and sciences which concern navigation and the difficulties of transport, greater or less in proportion to the distance between places, the position of land, seas, rivers, etc.

The connection between the arts comes from sharing skills, commerce connects through the exchange of goods, and banks deal with the exchange of money or securities. All these concepts are related, and their groundwork has already been established in early childhood with the guidance of Robert the gardener. What we need to do now is replace specific ideas with broader ones and expand these ideas through various examples, so the child can grasp the concept of business itself, illustrated through specific examples from natural history regarding the unique products of each country, as well as particular examples from the arts and sciences related to navigation and the challenges of transportation, which vary depending on the distance between locations and the geographical features of land, seas, rivers, and so on.

There can be no society without exchange, no exchange without a common standard of measurement, no common standard of measurement without equality. Hence the first law of every society is some conventional equality either in men or things.

There can be no society without trade, no trade without a shared standard of measurement, and no shared standard of measurement without equality. Therefore, the fundamental rule of every society is some form of conventional equality, whether among people or things.

Conventional equality between men, a very different thing from natural equality, leads to the necessity for positive law, i.e., government and kings. A child’s political knowledge should be clear and restricted; he should know nothing of government in general, beyond what concerns the rights of property, of which he has already some idea.

Conventional equality between men, which is quite different from natural equality, requires the existence of positive law, meaning government and kings. A child's understanding of politics should be straightforward and limited; they should know nothing about government in general, except for what relates to property rights, which they already have some understanding of.

Conventional equality between things has led to the invention of money, for money is only one term in a comparison between the values of different sorts of things; and in this sense money is the real bond of society; but anything may be money; in former days it was cattle; shells are used among many tribes at the present day; Sparta used iron; Sweden, leather; while we use gold and silver.

Conventional equality between things has led to the creation of money, since money is just one factor in comparing the values of different types of things; in this way, money is the true glue of society. Anything can serve as money; in the past, it was cattle; shells are still used by many tribes today; Sparta used iron; Sweden used leather; while we use gold and silver.

Metals, being easier to carry, have generally been chosen as the middle term of every exchange, and these metals have been made into coin to save the trouble of continual weighing and measuring, for the stamp on the coin is merely evidence that the coin is of given weight; and the sole right of coining money is vested in the ruler because he alone has the right to demand the recognition of his authority by the whole nation.

Metals, being easier to transport, have typically been selected as the standard for every exchange. These metals have been turned into coins to avoid the hassle of constant weighing and measuring, as the stamp on the coin simply proves that it has a specific weight. The exclusive power to mint money is held by the ruler because only they have the right to demand that the entire nation acknowledges their authority.

The stupidest person can perceive the use of money when it is explained in this way. It is difficult to make a direct comparison between various things, for instance, between cloth and corn; but when we find a common measure, in money, it is easy for the manufacturer and the farmer to estimate the value of the goods they wish to exchange in terms of this common measure. If a given quantity of cloth is worth a given some of money, and a given quantity of corn is worth the same sum of money, then the seller, receiving the corn in exchange for his cloth, makes a fair bargain. Thus by means of money it becomes possible to compare the values of goods of various kinds.

The simplest person can understand the use of money when it's explained like this. It's hard to directly compare different things, like cloth and corn, but when we use a common measure, such as money, it's easy for the manufacturer and the farmer to assess the value of the goods they want to trade based on this common measure. If a certain amount of cloth is worth a specific amount of money, and a certain amount of corn is also worth that same amount of money, then the seller who gets corn in exchange for his cloth is making a fair deal. This way, money allows us to compare the values of different kinds of goods.

Be content with this, and do not touch upon the moral effects of this institution. In everything you must show clearly the use before the abuse. If you attempt to teach children how the sign has led to the neglect of the thing signified, how money is the source of all the false ideas of society, how countries rich in silver must be poor in everything else, you will be treating these children as philosophers, and not only as philosophers but as wise men, for you are professing to teach them what very few philosophers have grasped.

Be happy with this, and don't get into the moral implications of this institution. In everything, you need to clearly show the proper use before highlighting the misuse. If you try to explain to children how the symbol has caused people to overlook what it represents, how money is the root of all society's misconceptions, and how countries rich in silver often lack in other areas, you'll be treating these kids like philosophers, and not just any philosophers, but as wise individuals, since you claim to teach them concepts that very few philosophers truly understand.

What a wealth of interesting objects, towards which the curiosity of our pupil may be directed without ever quitting the real and material relations he can understand, and without permitting the formation of a single idea beyond his grasp! The teacher’s art consists in this: To turn the child’s attention from trivial details and to guide his thoughts continually towards relations of importance which he will one day need to know, that he may judge rightly of good and evil in human society. The teacher must be able to adapt the conversation with which he amuses his pupil to the turn already given to his mind. A problem which another child would never heed will torment Emile half a year.

What a treasure trove of interesting objects that can spark our student's curiosity, allowing him to explore without straying from the real and tangible things he can understand, and without leading him to form ideas that are beyond his comprehension! The teacher’s skill lies in this: shifting the child’s focus away from trivial matters and consistently guiding his thoughts toward important relationships that he will eventually need to grasp, enabling him to rightly judge good and evil in society. The teacher must tailor the conversation to fit the mindset of the student. A problem that another child might overlook could trouble Emile for half a year.

We are going to dine with wealthy people; when we get there everything is ready for a feast, many guests, many servants, many dishes, dainty and elegant china. There is something intoxicating in all these preparations for pleasure and festivity when you are not used to them. I see how they will affect my young pupil. While dinner is going on, while course follows course, and conversation is loud around us, I whisper in his ear, “How many hands do you suppose the things on this table passed through before they got here?” What a crowd of ideas is called up by these few words. In a moment the mists of excitement have rolled away. He is thinking, considering, calculating, and anxious. The child is philosophising, while philosophers, excited by wine or perhaps by female society, are babbling like children. If he asks questions I decline to answer and put him off to another day. He becomes impatient, he forgets to eat and drink, he longs to get away from table and talk as he pleases. What an object of curiosity, what a text for instruction. Nothing has so far succeeded in corrupting his healthy reason; what will he think of luxury when he finds that every quarter of the globe has been ransacked, that some 2,000,000 men have laboured for years, that many lives have perhaps been sacrificed, and all to furnish him with fine clothes to be worn at midday and laid by in the wardrobe at night.

We are going to have dinner with wealthy people; when we arrive, everything is set for a feast—lots of guests, many servants, and a variety of fancy dishes served on elegant china. There’s something thrilling about all these preparations for enjoyment and celebration when you’re not used to them. I can see how they’ll affect my young student. While dinner is being served, with one course after another and loud conversations around us, I whisper in his ear, “How many hands do you think the things on this table went through before they arrived here?” Those few words spark a whole crowd of thoughts. In a moment, the excitement fades away. He is thinking, considering, calculating, and feeling anxious. The child is philosophizing, while the philosophers, fueled by wine or maybe the presence of women, are babbling like children. If he asks questions, I refuse to answer and tell him to wait for another day. He becomes restless, forgetting to eat or drink, longing to leave the table and talk freely. What a fascinating subject, what a chance for teaching. So far, nothing has managed to corrupt his clear reasoning; what will he think of luxury when he realizes that every corner of the globe has been searched, that around 2 million people have worked for years, and that many lives have probably been lost, all to provide him with nice clothes to wear during the day and put away in the wardrobe at night.

Be sure you observe what private conclusions he draws from all his observations. If you have watched him less carefully than I suppose, his thoughts may be tempted in another direction; he may consider himself a person of great importance in the world, when he sees so much labour concentrated on the preparation of his dinner. If you suspect his thoughts will take this direction you can easily prevent it, or at any rate promptly efface the false impression. As yet he can only appropriate things by personal enjoyment, he can only judge of their fitness or unfitness by their outward effects. Compare a plain rustic meal, preceded by exercise, seasoned by hunger, freedom, and delight, with this magnificent but tedious repast. This will suffice to make him realise that he has got no real advantage from the splendour of the feast, that his stomach was as well satisfied when he left the table of the peasant, as when he left the table of the banker; from neither had he gained anything he could really call his own.

Make sure to pay attention to the private conclusions he draws from all his observations. If you've watched him less closely than I think, his thoughts might be swayed in a different direction; he might see himself as someone of great importance in the world when he sees so much effort put into preparing his dinner. If you suspect his thoughts will go this way, you can easily steer him back or at least quickly erase this false impression. Right now, he can only truly appreciate things through personal enjoyment; he can only judge their suitability based on their visible effects. Compare a simple rustic meal, after some exercise and heightened by hunger, freedom, and joy, with this lavish but tiresome feast. This will be enough to make him realize that he hasn't gained any real advantage from the opulence of the dinner; his stomach was just as satisfied when he left the table of the peasant as it was when he left the table of the banker; from neither did he gain anything he could genuinely claim as his own.

Just fancy what a tutor might say to him on such an occasion. Consider the two dinners and decide for yourself which gave you most pleasure, which seemed the merriest, at which did you eat and drink most heartily, which was the least tedious and required least change of courses? Yet note the difference—this black bread you so enjoy is made from the peasant’s own harvest; his wine is dark in colour and of a common kind, but wholesome and refreshing; it was made in his own vineyard; the cloth is made of his own hemp, spun and woven in the winter by his wife and daughters and the maid; no hands but theirs have touched the food. His world is bounded by the nearest mill and the next market. How far did you enjoy all that the produce of distant lands and the service of many people had prepared for you at the other dinner? If you did not get a better meal, what good did this wealth do you? how much of it was made for you? Had you been the master of the house, the tutor might say, it would have been of still less use to you; for the anxiety of displaying your enjoyment before the eyes of others would have robbed you of it; the pains would be yours, the pleasure theirs.

Just think about what a tutor might say to him on such an occasion. Consider the two dinners and decide which one you enjoyed more, which seemed more cheerful, at which one you ate and drank more heartily, and which was the least boring with the fewest changes in courses. But notice the difference—this black bread you enjoy comes from the peasant’s own harvest; his wine is dark and simple, but it's wholesome and refreshing; it was made from grapes grown in his own vineyard; the cloth is woven from his own hemp, spun and crafted in the winter by his wife, daughters, and maid; only their hands have touched the food. His world is limited to the nearest mill and the next market. How much did you truly enjoy everything that the products from faraway lands and the help of many people prepared for you at the other dinner? If you didn’t have a better meal, what good did that wealth do you? How much of it was actually made for you? If you had been the host, the tutor might say, it would have been even less useful; the pressure to show your enjoyment in front of others would have taken away from it; the stress would have been yours, the enjoyment theirs.

This may be a very fine speech, but it would be thrown away upon Emile, as he cannot understand it, and he does not accept second-hand opinions. Speak more simply to him. After these two experiences, say to him some day, “Where shall we have our dinner to-day? Where that mountain of silver covered three quarters of the table and those beds of artificial flowers on looking glass were served with the dessert, where those smart ladies treated you as a toy and pretended you said what you did not mean; or in that village two leagues away, with those good people who were so pleased to see us and gave us such delicious cream?” Emile will not hesitate; he is not vain and he is no chatterbox; he cannot endure constraint, and he does not care for fine dishes; but he is always ready for a run in the country and is very fond of good fruit and vegetables, sweet cream and kindly people. [Footnote: This taste, which I assume my pupil to have acquired, is a natural result of his education. Moreover, he has nothing foppish or affected about him, so that the ladies take little notice of him and he is less petted than other children; therefore he does not care for them, and is less spoilt by their company; he is not yet of an age to feel its charm. I have taken care not to teach him to kiss their hands, to pay them compliments, or even to be more polite to them than to men. It is my constant rule to ask nothing from him but what he can understand, and there is no good reason why a child should treat one sex differently from the other.] On our way, the thought will occur to him, “All those people who laboured to prepare that grand feast were either wasting their time or they have no idea how to enjoy themselves.”

This might be a really nice speech, but it would be wasted on Emile because he can’t understand it, and he doesn’t accept second-hand opinions. Speak to him more simply. After those two experiences, one day say to him, “Where should we have dinner today? At that place where the mountain of silver covered three-quarters of the table and those beds of artificial flowers on the mirror served with the dessert, where those fashionable ladies treated you like a toy and pretended you said things you didn’t mean; or in that village two leagues away, with those good people who were so happy to see us and offered us such delicious cream?” Emile won’t hesitate; he’s not vain and he doesn’t talk just for the sake of it; he can’t stand being restricted, and he doesn’t care for fancy dishes; but he’s always ready for a run in the countryside and loves good fruits and vegetables, sweet cream, and friendly people. [Footnote: This preference, which I believe my student has developed, is a natural outcome of his education. Also, he has nothing pretentious or affected about him, so the ladies pay little attention to him and he is less spoiled than other children; for that reason, he doesn’t care for them and is less affected by their company; he’s not yet at an age where he feels its appeal. I’ve made sure not to teach him to kiss their hands, give compliments, or be more polite to them than to men. It’s my consistent rule to ask nothing from him that he can’t understand, and there’s no good reason why a child should treat one gender differently from the other.] On our way, he’ll think, “All those people who worked to prepare that grand feast were either wasting their time or they don’t know how to enjoy themselves.”

My example may be right for one child and wrong for the rest. If you enter into their way of looking at things you will know how to vary your instances as required; the choice depends on the study of the individual temperament, and this study in turn depends on the opportunities which occur to show this temperament. You will not suppose that, in the three or four years at our disposal, even the most gifted child can get an idea of all the arts and sciences, sufficient to enable him to study them for himself when he is older; but by bringing before him what he needs to know, we enable him to develop his own tastes, his own talents, to take the first step towards the object which appeals to his individuality and to show us the road we must open up to aid the work of nature.

My example might work for one child but not for others. If you understand their perspective, you'll know how to adjust your examples as needed; the choice depends on studying the individual temperament, and this study relies on the chances to reveal that temperament. You can't expect that, in the three or four years we have, even the most gifted child can grasp all the arts and sciences well enough to pursue them independently later on; but by providing what they need to know, we help them develop their own interests and talents, take the first step toward the things that resonate with their individuality, and show us the path we should take to support their natural development.

There is another advantage of these trains of limited but exact bits of knowledge; he learns by their connection and interdependence how to rank them in his own estimation and to be on his guard against those prejudices, common to most men, which draw them towards the gifts they themselves cultivate and away from those they have neglected. The man who clearly sees the whole, sees where each part should be; the man who sees one part clearly and knows it thoroughly may be a learned man, but the former is a wise man, and you remember it is wisdom rather than knowledge that we hope to acquire.

There's another benefit of these trains of specific but precise pieces of knowledge; he learns through their connections and interdependence how to evaluate them in his own view and to be cautious of those biases, common to most people, that pull them toward the skills they nurture and away from those they ignore. The person who clearly understands the whole picture knows where each piece fits; the person who comprehends one piece well and knows it inside out might be knowledgeable, but the former is a wise individual, and you recall that it is wisdom rather than just knowledge that we aim to gain.

However that may be, my method does not depend on my examples; it depends on the amount of a man’s powers at different ages, and the choice of occupations adapted to those powers. I think it would be easy to find a method which appeared to give better results, but if it were less suited to the type, sex, and age of the scholar, I doubt whether the results would really be as good.

However that may be, my method doesn’t rely on my examples; it relies on a person’s abilities at different ages and the selection of jobs that fit those abilities. I believe it would be simple to come up with a method that seemed to yield better results, but if it were less appropriate for the type, gender, and age of the student, I doubt the results would actually be as good.

At the beginning of this second period we took advantage of the fact that our strength was more than enough for our needs, to enable us to get outside ourselves. We have ranged the heavens and measured the earth; we have sought out the laws of nature; we have explored the whole of our island. Now let us return to ourselves, let us unconsciously approach our own dwelling. We are happy indeed if we do not find it already occupied by the dreaded foe, who is preparing to seize it.

At the start of this second period, we made the most of our abundant strength to look beyond ourselves. We've gazed at the skies and measured the land; we've uncovered the laws of nature and explored every corner of our island. Now, it's time to turn inward and approach our own home. We're truly fortunate if we don't find it already taken by the dreaded enemy, who is getting ready to claim it.

What remains to be done when we have observed all that lies around us? We must turn to our own use all that we can get, we must increase our comfort by means of our curiosity. Hitherto we have provided ourselves with tools of all kinds, not knowing which we require. Perhaps those we do not want will be useful to others, and perhaps we may need theirs. Thus we discover the use of exchange; but for this we must know each other’s needs, what tools other people use, what they can offer in exchange. Given ten men, each of them has ten different requirements. To get what he needs for himself each must work at ten different trades; but considering our different talents, one will do better at this trade, another at that. Each of them, fitted for one thing, will work at all, and will be badly served. Let us form these ten men into a society, and let each devote himself to the trade for which he is best adapted, and let him work at it for himself and for the rest. Each will reap the advantage of the others’ talents, just as if they were his own; by practice each will perfect his own talent, and thus all the ten, well provided for, will still have something to spare for others. This is the plain foundation of all our institutions. It is not my aim to examine its results here; I have done so in another book (Discours sur l’inegalite).

What do we do after we've taken stock of everything around us? We need to make the most of what we can acquire, and we should enhance our comfort through our curiosity. Until now, we've gathered all kinds of tools without knowing which ones we actually need. Perhaps the tools we don't want will benefit someone else, and maybe we'll find we need theirs. This is how we understand the value of exchange; but for that, we need to be aware of each other's needs, which tools others are using, and what they can offer in return. If we have ten people, each one has ten different needs. To get what they require, each person has to work in ten different jobs, but considering their varied skills, one might excel at one job while another excels at a different one. Each of them, suited for one specific task, will end up struggling with all of them and won't be served well. Let's bring these ten people together into a community, allowing each to focus on the job they're best suited for, working for themselves and for others. Each will benefit from the skills of the others, as if those skills were their own; through practice, each will hone their own abilities, and thus, all ten will be well taken care of while still having some resources left for others. This is the basic principle behind all our institutions. I'm not here to evaluate the outcomes of this principle; I've addressed that in another book (Discours sur l’inegalite).

According to this principle, any one who wanted to consider himself as an isolated individual, self-sufficing and independent of others, could only be utterly wretched. He could not even continue to exist, for finding the whole earth appropriated by others while he had only himself, how could he get the means of subsistence? When we leave the state of nature we compel others to do the same; no one can remain in a state of nature in spite of his fellow-creatures, and to try to remain in it when it is no longer practicable, would really be to leave it, for self-preservation is nature’s first law.

According to this principle, anyone who wants to see themselves as an isolated individual, self-sufficient and independent from others, would only end up completely miserable. They couldn't even survive, because with the whole world claimed by others while they have only themselves, how would they secure a means of living? When we move away from the state of nature, we force others to do the same; no one can stay in a state of nature despite their fellow beings, and trying to cling to it when it’s no longer possible would actually mean leaving it, since self-preservation is nature’s fundamental rule.

Thus the idea of social relations is gradually developed in the child’s mind, before he can really be an active member of human society. Emile sees that to get tools for his own use, other people must have theirs, and that he can get in exchange what he needs and they possess. I easily bring him to feel the need of such exchange and to take advantage of it.

Thus, the concept of social relationships slowly evolves in the child's mind before he can truly be an active member of society. Emile understands that in order to obtain tools for his own use, other people must have theirs, and he can trade for what he needs and they have. I easily help him recognize the necessity of such exchanges and to make the most of them.

“Sir, I must live,” said a miserable writer of lampoons to the minister who reproved him for his infamous trade. “I do not see the necessity,” replied the great man coldly. This answer, excellent from the minister, would have been barbarous and untrue in any other mouth. Every man must live; this argument, which appeals to every one with more or less force in proportion to his humanity, strikes me as unanswerable when applied to oneself. Since our dislike of death is the strongest of those aversions nature has implanted in us, it follows that everything is permissible to the man who has no other means of living. The principles, which teach the good man to count his life a little thing and to sacrifice it at duty’s call, are far removed from this primitive simplicity. Happy are those nations where one can be good without effort, and just without conscious virtue. If in this world there is any condition so miserable that one cannot live without wrong-doing, where the citizen is driven into evil, you should hang, not the criminal, but those who drove him into crime.

“Sir, I have to survive,” said a struggling satirist to the minister who criticized him for his disgraceful profession. “I don’t see why that’s necessary,” the minister replied coldly. This response, appropriate coming from him, would have been cruel and false if anyone else had said it. Everyone needs to survive; this argument resonates with everyone to some degree, depending on their humanity, and feels unarguable when applied to oneself. Since our fear of death is the strongest of nature's implanted aversions, it follows that anything is allowed for someone who has no other way to survive. The principles that encourage a good person to view their life as insignificant and to sacrifice it when duty calls are far removed from this basic reality. Blessed are the nations where one can be virtuous without struggle and just without self-consciousness. If there’s any situation so dire that one cannot exist without doing wrong, where a citizen is pushed into immorality, it’s not the criminal who should be punished, but those who forced him into crime.

As soon as Emile knows what life is, my first care will be to teach him to preserve his life. Hitherto I have made no distinction of condition, rank, station, or fortune; nor shall I distinguish between them in the future, since man is the same in every station; the rich man’s stomach is no bigger than the poor man’s, nor is his digestion any better; the master’s arm is neither longer nor stronger than the slave’s; a great man is no taller than one of the people, and indeed the natural needs are the same to all, and the means of satisfying them should be equally within the reach of all. Fit a man’s education to his real self, not to what is no part of him. Do you not see that in striving to fit him merely for one station, you are unfitting him for anything else, so that some caprice of Fortune may make your work really harmful to him? What could be more absurd than a nobleman in rags, who carries with him into his poverty the prejudices of his birth? What is more despicable than a rich man fallen into poverty, who recalls the scorn with which he himself regarded the poor, and feels that he has sunk to the lowest depth of degradation? The one may become a professional thief, the other a cringing servant, with this fine saying, “I must live.”

As soon as Emile understands what life is, my main priority will be to teach him how to protect his life. Until now, I haven’t made any distinctions based on social status, rank, or wealth, and I won’t do so in the future, because a person is the same regardless of their situation; a wealthy person's stomach isn’t any bigger than a poor person's, nor is their digestion any better; a master’s arm isn’t longer or stronger than that of a slave; a great person isn’t taller than an average person, and indeed our basic needs are the same, so the means to meet those needs should be accessible to everyone. Tailor a person’s education to their true self, not to something unrelated to who they are. Don’t you see that in trying to prepare him for just one social role, you make him unfit for any other, so that some twist of fate might render your efforts genuinely harmful to him? What could be more ridiculous than a nobleman in rags, who drags the prejudices of his background into his poverty? What’s more pitiful than a rich person who has fallen into poverty, who remembers the contempt with which they treated the poor and feels they have hit rock bottom? One may become a professional thief, while the other might end up as a submissive servant, with the justification, “I have to survive.”

You reckon on the present order of society, without considering that this order is itself subject to inscrutable changes, and that you can neither foresee nor provide against the revolution which may affect your children. The great become small, the rich poor, the king a commoner. Does fate strike so seldom that you can count on immunity from her blows? The crisis is approaching, and we are on the edge of a revolution. [Footnote: In my opinion it is impossible that the great kingdoms of Europe should last much longer. Each of them has had its period of splendour, after which it must inevitably decline. I have my own opinions as to the special applications of this general statement, but this is not the place to enter into details, and they are only too evident to everybody.] Who can answer for your fate? What man has made, man may destroy. Nature’s characters alone are ineffaceable, and nature makes neither the prince, the rich man, nor the nobleman. This satrap whom you have educated for greatness, what will become of him in his degradation? This farmer of the taxes who can only live on gold, what will he do in poverty? This haughty fool who cannot use his own hands, who prides himself on what is not really his, what will he do when he is stripped of all? In that day, happy will he be who can give up the rank which is no longer his, and be still a man in Fate’s despite. Let men praise as they will that conquered monarch who like a madman would be buried beneath the fragments of his throne; I behold him with scorn; to me he is merely a crown, and when that is gone he is nothing. But he who loses his crown and lives without it, is more than a king; from the rank of a king, which may be held by a coward, a villain, or madman, he rises to the rank of a man, a position few can fill. Thus he triumphs over Fortune, he dares to look her in the face; he depends on himself alone, and when he has nothing left to show but himself he is not a nonentity, he is somebody. Better a thousandfold the king of Corinth a schoolmaster at Syracuse, than a wretched Tarquin, unable to be anything but a king, or the heir of the ruler of three kingdoms, the sport of all who would scorn his poverty, wandering from court to court in search of help, and finding nothing but insults, for want of knowing any trade but one which he can no longer practise.

You rely on the current structure of society, without realizing that this structure is itself subject to unpredictable changes, and that you cannot anticipate or prepare for the upheaval that may impact your children. The powerful become powerless, the wealthy become poor, and the king can become an ordinary person. Does fate strike so infrequently that you can count on being safe from her blows? The crisis is approaching, and we are on the brink of a revolution. [Footnote: In my view, it is unlikely that the great kingdoms of Europe will last much longer. Each has had its period of glory, after which it is bound to decline. I have my own thoughts on the specific applications of this general idea, but this isn’t the right moment to go into details, and they are clear enough to everyone.] Who can guarantee your fate? What man has built, man can also destroy. Only nature's traits are permanent, and nature doesn't create the prince, the wealthy, or the noble. This person you’ve trained for greatness, what will happen to him in his downfall? This tax collector who can only thrive on wealth, what will he do in hardship? This arrogant fool who cannot work with his hands, who boasts of what isn’t truly his, what will he do when he loses everything? On that day, fortunate will be the one who can let go of the title that no longer belongs to him and still remain a man despite fate. Let people praise that defeated king, who, like a madman, would be buried under the debris of his throne; I see him with disdain; to me, he is just a crown, and once that’s gone, he is nothing. But he who loses his crown and continues to live without it is more than a king; he transcends the role of a king, which can be held by a coward, a scoundrel, or a madman, and rises to the status of a human being, a role few can truly fill. Thus, he overcomes fortune, daring to meet her gaze; he relies solely on himself, and when he has nothing left but himself, he is not insignificant; he is someone. A thousand times better to be the king of Corinth as a teacher in Syracuse than a miserable Tarquin, who can be nothing but a king, or the heir of a ruler of three kingdoms, the target of scorn for his poverty, wandering from court to court seeking help, and finding nothing but insults, because he knows no trade except one that he can no longer practice.

The man and the citizen, whoever he may be, has no property to invest in society but himself, all his other goods belong to society in spite of himself, and when a man is rich, either he does not enjoy his wealth, or the public enjoys it too; in the first case he robs others as well as himself; in the second he gives them nothing. Thus his debt to society is still unpaid, while he only pays with his property. “But my father was serving society while he was acquiring his wealth.” Just so; he paid his own debt, not yours. You owe more to others than if you had been born with nothing, since you were born under favourable conditions. It is not fair that what one man has done for society should pay another’s debt, for since every man owes all that he is, he can only pay his own debt, and no father can transmit to his son any right to be of no use to mankind. “But,” you say, “this is just what he does when he leaves me his wealth, the reward of his labour.” The man who eats in idleness what he has not himself earned, is a thief, and in my eyes, the man who lives on an income paid him by the state for doing nothing, differs little from a highwayman who lives on those who travel his way. Outside the pale of society, the solitary, owing nothing to any man, may live as he pleases, but in society either he lives at the cost of others, or he owes them in labour the cost of his keep; there is no exception to this rule. Man in society is bound to work; rich or poor, weak or strong, every idler is a thief.

The man and the citizen, no matter who he is, has no assets to contribute to society other than himself; all his other belongings belong to society, whether he likes it or not. When a man is wealthy, either he doesn't truly enjoy that wealth, or the public benefits from it too. In the first case, he's robbing himself and others; in the second, he's not giving anything away. So, his debt to society remains unpaid, even though he only compensates with his possessions. "But my father was serving society while he was earning his wealth." Exactly; he settled his own debt, not yours. You owe more to others than if you had been born with nothing because you were born into favorable circumstances. It's unfair that what one person has done for society should cover someone else's debt, since every person is responsible for all that they are, and they can only pay their own debts; no father can pass down a right to be useless to humanity. "But," you say, "that's exactly what he does when he leaves me his wealth, the reward for his hard work." A person who sits idle and lives off what they haven't earned is a thief, and to me, someone who lives on a government salary for doing nothing isn't much different from a robber who preys on travelers. Outside the rules of society, a lone person, owing nothing to anyone, can live however they like, but within society, they either survive at the expense of others or owe them in labor what they consume; this rule has no exceptions. In society, people are required to work; whether rich or poor, strong or weak, every idle person is a thief.

Now of all the pursuits by which a man may earn his living, the nearest to a state of nature is manual labour; of all stations that of the artisan is least dependent on Fortune. The artisan depends on his labour alone, he is a free man while the ploughman is a slave; for the latter depends on his field where the crops may be destroyed by others. An enemy, a prince, a powerful neighbour, or a law-suit may deprive him of his field; through this field he may be harassed in all sorts of ways. But if the artisan is ill-treated his goods are soon packed and he takes himself off. Yet agriculture is the earliest, the most honest of trades, and more useful than all the rest, and therefore more honourable for those who practise it. I do not say to Emile, “Study agriculture,” he is already familiar with it. He is acquainted with every kind of rural labour, it was his first occupation, and he returns to it continually. So I say to him, “Cultivate your father’s lands, but if you lose this inheritance, or if you have none to lose, what will you do? Learn a trade.”

Out of all the ways a person can make a living, manual labor is closest to a natural state. Among all occupations, that of an artisan is the least dependent on luck. The artisan relies solely on their own work; they are free, while the farmer is essentially a slave, dependent on their land which could be ruined by others. An enemy, a prince, a powerful neighbor, or a lawsuit can take away their land, leaving them vulnerable. But if the artisan is mistreated, they can quickly pack up their belongings and leave. Still, agriculture is the oldest, most honest profession, and it's more useful than any other, making it more honorable for those who pursue it. I'm not telling Emile to "study agriculture," because he's already well-versed in it. He's familiar with every kind of rural work—it's what he first did and what he keeps coming back to. So I tell him, "Tend to your father's land, but if you lose this inheritance or have none to lose, what will you do? Learn a trade."

“A trade for my son! My son a working man! What are you thinking of, sir?” Madam, my thoughts are wiser than yours; you want to make him fit for nothing but a lord, a marquis, or a prince; and some day he may be less than nothing. I want to give him a rank which he cannot lose, a rank which will always do him honour; I want to raise him to the status of a man, and, whatever you may say, he will have fewer equals in that rank than in your own.

“A job for my son! My son as a working man! What are you thinking, sir?” Madam, my thoughts are more sensible than yours; you want to prepare him for nothing but to be a lord, a marquis, or a prince; and someday he might end up with even less than that. I want to give him a position that he can't lose, a position that will always honor him; I want to elevate him to the status of a man, and no matter what you say, he will have fewer equals in that role than in your own.

The letter killeth, the spirit giveth life. Learning a trade matters less than overcoming the prejudices he despises. You will never be reduced to earning your livelihood; so much the worse for you. No matter; work for honour, not for need: stoop to the position of a working man, to rise above your own. To conquer Fortune and everything else, begin by independence. To rule through public opinion, begin by ruling over it.

The letter kills, but the spirit gives life. It's less important to learn a trade than to overcome the biases you hate. You'll never just scrape by to make a living; that's too bad for you. No worries; aim for honor, not necessity: lower yourself to the level of a worker to rise above your own. To conquer fate and everything else, start with independence. To lead through public opinion, begin by mastering it.

Remember I demand no talent, only a trade, a genuine trade, a mere mechanical art, in which the hands work harder than the head, a trade which does not lead to fortune but makes you independent of her. In households far removed from all danger of want I have known fathers carry prudence to such a point as to provide their children not only with ordinary teaching but with knowledge by means of which they could get a living if anything happened. These far-sighted parents thought they were doing a great thing. It is nothing, for the resources they fancy they have secured depend on that very fortune of which they would make their children independent; so that unless they found themselves in circumstances fitted for the display of their talents, they would die of hunger as if they had none.

Remember, I don’t ask for talent—only a skill, a real skill, just a mechanical trade where hands do more work than the mind. It’s a trade that won't make you wealthy but allows you to be self-sufficient. In households that are far removed from the risk of poverty, I've seen fathers be so cautious that they provide their children not just with basic education but also with knowledge that could help them earn a living if something went wrong. These forward-thinking parents believed they were doing something great. But it’s not enough, because the security they think they’ve secured relies on the very fortune they want their children to be free from; so unless they find themselves in situations that showcase their skills, they would starve as if they had no skills at all.

As soon as it is a question of influence and intrigue you may as well use these means to keep yourself in plenty, as to acquire, in the depths of poverty, the means of returning to your former position. If you cultivate the arts which depend on the artist’s reputation, if you fit yourself for posts which are only obtained by favour, how will that help you when, rightly disgusted with the world, you scorn the steps by which you must climb. You have studied politics and state-craft, so far so good; but how will you use this knowledge, if you cannot gain the ear of the ministers, the favourites, or the officials? if you have not the secret of winning their favour, if they fail to find you a rogue to their taste? You are an architect or a painter; well and good; but your talents must be displayed. Do you suppose you can exhibit in the salon without further ado? That is not the way to set about it. Lay aside the rule and the pencil, take a cab and drive from door to door; there is the road to fame. Now you must know that the doors of the great are guarded by porters and flunkeys, who only understand one language, and their ears are in their palms. If you wish to teach what you have learned, geography, mathematics, languages, music, drawing, even to find pupils, you must have friends who will sing your praises. Learning, remember, gains more credit than skill, and with no trade but your own none will believe in your skill. See how little you can depend on these fine “Resources,” and how many other resources are required before you can use what you have got. And what will become of you in your degradation? Misfortune will make you worse rather than better. More than ever the sport of public opinion, how will you rise above the prejudices on which your fate depends? How will you despise the vices and the baseness from which you get your living? You were dependent on wealth, now you are dependent on the wealthy; you are still a slave and a poor man into the bargain. Poverty without freedom, can a man sink lower than this!

As soon as it comes to influence and intrigue, you might as well use those methods to stay well-off, rather than trying to regain your old status while struggling in poverty. If you focus on skills that rely on your reputation, and prepare yourself for roles that are only available through connections, how will that benefit you when you’re rightly fed up with the world and reject the paths you have to take? You’ve studied politics and how to navigate power—great—but how will you leverage that knowledge if you can’t get the attention of ministers, favorites, or officials? If you don’t know how to win their favor, and they don’t see you as someone they want in their circle? You’re an architect or a painter—that’s nice; but your talents need to be showcased. Do you think you can just display your work in the gallery without any effort? That’s not how it works. Put down the ruler and pencil, grab a cab, and go from door to door; that’s the way to fame. You should know that the doors of the elite are manned by gatekeepers and servants who only speak one language, and they’re all about the cash in hand. If you want to teach what you know—geography, math, languages, music, drawing—just to find students, you need friends who will vouch for you. Don’t forget, education gets more respect than actual skill, and without anything but your own craft, no one will believe in your abilities. Look at how little you can rely on those so-called “Resources,” and how many more you need before you can actually use what you have. And what will happen to you in your downfall? Hardship will make things worse instead of better. Being even more at the mercy of public opinion, how will you overcome the biases that determine your future? How will you turn your back on the vices and weaknesses that provide for you? You depended on wealth before, and now you're dependent on the wealthy; you’re still a slave, and even poorer for it. Poverty without freedom—can a person go lower than this?

But if instead of this recondite learning adapted to feed the mind, not the body, you have recourse, at need, to your hands and your handiwork, there is no call for deceit, your trade is ready when required. Honour and honesty will not stand in the way of your living. You need no longer cringe and lie to the great, nor creep and crawl before rogues, a despicable flatterer of both, a borrower or a thief, for there is little to choose between them when you are penniless. Other people’s opinions are no concern of yours, you need not pay court to any one, there is no fool to flatter, no flunkey to bribe, no woman to win over. Let rogues conduct the affairs of state; in your lowly rank you can still be an honest man and yet get a living. You walk into the first workshop of your trade. “Master, I want work.” “Comrade, take your place and work.” Before dinner-time you have earned your dinner. If you are sober and industrious, before the week is out you will have earned your keep for another week; you will have lived in freedom, health, truth, industry, and righteousness. Time is not wasted when it brings these returns.

But if instead of this obscure knowledge meant to feed the mind and not the body, you use your hands and skills when needed, there’s no need for dishonesty; your trade is ready whenever you need it. Honor and honesty won’t get in the way of your survival. You no longer have to bow and lie to the powerful or grovel before con artists, as both are equally despicable when you’re broke. Other people’s opinions don’t matter to you; you don’t need to curry favor with anyone, flatter fools, bribe lackeys, or win over women. Let the dishonest run the government; at your lowly position, you can still be an honest person and make a living. You walk into the first workshop of your trade. “Master, I want work.” “Friend, take your place and get to work.” Before lunch, you’ve earned your meal. If you stay sober and work hard, by the end of the week, you’ll have earned your keep for another week; you’ll have lived in freedom, health, truth, hard work, and righteousness. Time isn’t wasted when it brings these rewards.

Emile shall learn a trade. “An honest trade, at least,” you say. What do you mean by honest? Is not every useful trade honest? I would not make an embroiderer, a gilder, a polisher of him, like Locke’s young gentleman. Neither would I make him a musician, an actor, or an author.[Footnote: You are an author yourself, you will reply. Yes, for my sins; and my ill deeds, which I think I have fully expiated, are no reason why others should be like me. I do not write to excuse my faults, but to prevent my readers from copying them.] With the exception of these and others like them, let him choose his own trade, I do not mean to interfere with his choice. I would rather have him a shoemaker than a poet, I would rather he paved streets than painted flowers on china. “But,” you will say, “policemen, spies, and hangmen are useful people.” There would be no use for them if it were not for the government. But let that pass. I was wrong. It is not enough to choose an honest trade, it must be a trade which does not develop detestable qualities in the mind, qualities incompatible with humanity. To return to our original expression, “Let us choose an honest trade,” but let us remember there can be no honesty without usefulness.

Emile should learn a trade. “At least an honest trade,” you say. What do you mean by honest? Isn’t every useful trade honest? I wouldn’t make him an embroiderer, a gilder, or a polisher like Locke’s young gentleman. I also wouldn’t make him a musician, an actor, or an author. [Footnote: You’re an author yourself, you’ll reply. Yes, for my sins; and my wrongs, which I think I have fully atoned for, don’t mean others should follow my lead. I don’t write to justify my faults, but to stop my readers from imitating them.] Aside from these and similar professions, let him pick his own trade; I don’t intend to interfere with his choice. I’d rather have him be a shoemaker than a poet, I’d prefer he paved streets rather than painted flowers on china. “But,” you’ll say, “policemen, spies, and executioners are useful people.” They wouldn’t be needed if it weren’t for the government. But let’s move on. I was mistaken. It’s not enough to pick an honest trade; it has to be a trade that doesn’t foster detestable qualities in the mind, qualities that are incompatible with humanity. To revisit our original statement, “Let’s choose an honest trade,” but let’s remember there can be no honesty without usefulness.

A famous writer of this century, whose books are full of great schemes and narrow views, was under a vow, like the other priests of his communion, not to take a wife. Finding himself more scrupulous than others with regard to his neighbour’s wife, he decided, so they say, to employ pretty servants, and so did his best to repair the wrong done to the race by his rash promise. He thought it the duty of a citizen to breed children for the state, and he made his children artisans. As soon as they were old enough they were taught whatever trade they chose; only idle or useless trades were excluded, such as that of the wigmaker who is never necessary, and may any day cease to be required, so long as nature does not get tired of providing us with hair.

A famous writer of this century, whose books are filled with grand ideas and narrow perspectives, had taken a vow, like the other priests in his faith, not to marry. Being more careful than others about his neighbor's wife, he supposedly decided to hire attractive servants and did his best to correct the wrong he felt he had done to humanity with his rash promise. He believed it was a citizen's duty to raise children for the state, so he raised his kids to become skilled workers. As soon as they were old enough, they were taught whatever trade they wanted; only unproductive or unnecessary trades were excluded, like that of the wigmaker, who is never essential and could stop being needed any day, as long as nature doesn’t lose its ability to provide us with hair.

This spirit shall guide our choice of trade for Emile, or rather, not our choice but his; for the maxims he has imbibed make him despise useless things, and he will never be content to waste his time on vain labours; his trade must be of use to Robinson on his island.

This spirit will guide Emile's choice of trade, or rather, not our choice but his; because the principles he has absorbed make him look down on useless things, and he will never be satisfied wasting his time on pointless tasks; his trade must be beneficial to Robinson on his island.

When we review with the child the productions of art and nature, when we stimulate his curiosity and follow its lead, we have great opportunities of studying his tastes and inclinations, and perceiving the first spark of genius, if he has any decided talent in any direction. You must, however, be on your guard against the common error which mistakes the effects of environment for the ardour of genius, or imagines there is a decided bent towards any one of the arts, when there is nothing more than that spirit of emulation, common to men and monkeys, which impels them instinctively to do what they see others doing, without knowing why. The world is full of artisans, and still fuller of artists, who have no native gift for their calling, into which they were driven in early childhood, either through the conventional ideas of other people, or because those about them were deceived by an appearance of zeal, which would have led them to take to any other art they saw practised. One hears a drum and fancies he is a general; another sees a building and wants to be an architect. Every one is drawn towards the trade he sees before him if he thinks it is held in honour.

When we look at art and nature with the child, and spark their curiosity while following its lead, we have great chances to learn about their tastes and interests, and to notice the first signs of talent if they have any clear abilities in a particular area. However, you need to be careful of the common mistake that confuses the effects of environment with the passion of true talent, or assumes there's a strong inclination toward a specific art form when it's just the instinct to imitate what others are doing, without understanding why. The world is full of craftsmen, and even more so of artists, who have no natural talent for what they do, but were pushed into it in childhood, either by societal expectations or because those around them were misled by a show of enthusiasm that could have led them to pursue any other art they saw being practiced. One person hears a drum and imagines they are a general; another sees a building and wants to be an architect. Everyone is drawn to the profession they see in front of them if they believe it is respected.

I once knew a footman who watched his master drawing and painting and took it into his head to become a designer and artist. He seized a pencil which he only abandoned for a paint-brush, to which he stuck for the rest of his days. Without teaching or rules of art he began to draw everything he saw. Three whole years were devoted to these daubs, from which nothing but his duties could stir him, nor was he discouraged by the small progress resulting from his very mediocre talents. I have seen him spend the whole of a broiling summer in a little ante-room towards the south, a room where one was suffocated merely passing through it; there he was, seated or rather nailed all day to his chair, before a globe, drawing it again and again and yet again, with invincible obstinacy till he had reproduced the rounded surface to his own satisfaction. At last with his master’s help and under the guidance of an artist he got so far as to abandon his livery and live by his brush. Perseverance does instead of talent up to a certain point; he got so far, but no further. This honest lad’s perseverance and ambition are praiseworthy; he will always be respected for his industry and steadfastness of purpose, but his paintings will always be third-rate. Who would not have been deceived by his zeal and taken it for real talent! There is all the difference in the world between a liking and an aptitude. To make sure of real genius or real taste in a child calls for more accurate observations than is generally suspected, for the child displays his wishes not his capacity, and we judge by the former instead of considering the latter. I wish some trustworthy person would give us a treatise on the art of child-study. This art is well worth studying, but neither parents nor teachers have mastered its elements.

I once knew a footman who watched his boss drawing and painting and decided he wanted to be a designer and artist. He grabbed a pencil and only put it down to pick up a paintbrush, which he stuck with for the rest of his life. Without any training or rules of art, he started drawing everything he saw. He spent three full years dedicated to these sketches, only being pulled away by his duties, and he wasn’t discouraged by the little progress he made with his pretty average skills. I saw him spend an entire hot summer in a tiny, stuffy room facing south, a place that felt suffocating just to walk through. There he was, sitting or rather stuck in his chair all day, in front of a globe, drawing it over and over again with an unyielding determination until he managed to recreate its round surface to his own satisfaction. Eventually, with his boss’s help and under the guidance of an artist, he managed to ditch his uniform and make a living as an artist. Perseverance can sometimes make up for talent to a certain extent; he got that far, but no further. This hardworking guy’s persistence and ambition deserve praise; he will always be respected for his diligence and commitment, but his paintings will always be mediocre. Who wouldn’t have been misled by his enthusiasm and mistaken it for real talent? There’s a huge difference between having a passion and having an aptitude. Identifying true genius or genuine taste in a child requires more careful observation than is usually assumed, as the child shows their desires, not their abilities, and we often judge based on the former instead of considering the latter. I wish there were someone reliable who could write a guide on the art of understanding children. This field is definitely worth studying, but neither parents nor teachers have mastered its basics.

Perhaps we are laying too much stress on the choice of a trade; as it is a manual occupation, Emile’s choice is no great matter, and his apprenticeship is more than half accomplished already, through the exercises which have hitherto occupied him. What would you have him do? He is ready for anything. He can handle the spade and hoe, he can use the lathe, hammer, plane, or file; he is already familiar with these tools which are common to many trades. He only needs to acquire sufficient skill in the use of any one of them to rival the speed, the familiarity, and the diligence of good workmen, and he will have a great advantage over them in suppleness of body and limb, so that he can easily take any position and can continue any kind of movements without effort. Moreover his senses are acute and well-practised, he knows the principles of the various trades; to work like a master of his craft he only needs experience, and experience comes with practice. To which of these trades which are open to us will he give sufficient time to make himself master of it? That is the whole question.

Maybe we're putting too much emphasis on choosing a trade; since it’s a hands-on job, Emile’s choice isn’t that crucial, and he’s already more than halfway through his apprenticeship because of the activities he’s done so far. What do you want him to do? He’s ready for anything. He can use a spade and hoe, operate a lathe, hammer, plane, or file; he’s already familiar with these tools that are common across many trades. He just needs to gain enough skill in one of them to match the speed, expertise, and hard work of skilled laborers, and he has a significant advantage with his agility and physical flexibility, allowing him to easily assume any position and perform any movements effortlessly. Plus, his senses are sharp and well-trained, and he understands the principles behind various trades; to work like a master craftsman, he just needs experience, and experience comes with practice. So, which of these available trades will he commit enough time to master? That’s the key question.

Give a man a trade befitting his sex, to a young man a trade befitting his age. Sedentary indoor employments, which make the body tender and effeminate, are neither pleasing nor suitable. No lad ever wanted to be a tailor. It takes some art to attract a man to this woman’s work.[Footnote: There were no tailors among the ancients; men’s clothes were made at home by the women.] The same hand cannot hold the needle and the sword. If I were king I would only allow needlework and dressmaking to be done by women and cripples who are obliged to work at such trades. If eunuchs were required I think the Easterns were very foolish to make them on purpose. Why not take those provided by nature, that crowd of base persons without natural feeling? There would be enough and to spare. The weak, feeble, timid man is condemned by nature to a sedentary life, he is fit to live among women or in their fashion. Let him adopt one of their trades if he likes; and if there must be eunuchs let them take those men who dishonour their sex by adopting trades unworthy of it. Their choice proclaims a blunder on the part of nature; correct it one way or other, you will do no harm.

Give a man a job that suits his gender, and a young man a job that suits his age. Sedentary indoor jobs that make the body soft and effeminate are neither enjoyable nor appropriate. No young guy ever dreamed of being a tailor. It takes some skill to make a man interested in this woman's job. [Footnote: There were no tailors in ancient times; men’s clothes were made at home by women.] The same hand can’t hold the needle and the sword. If I were king, I would allow only women and the disabled who need to work in such jobs to do needlework and dressmaking. If eunuchs were necessary, I think the Easterners were foolish to create them deliberately. Why not use those provided by nature, like that crowd of base individuals without natural feelings? There would be more than enough. The weak, timid man is destined by nature for a sedentary life; he is suited to live among women or in their style. Let him choose one of their jobs if he wants; and if eunuchs must exist, let them be those men who dishonor their gender by taking on unworthy trades. Their choice shows a mistake on nature's part; fix it one way or another, and you won't harm anyone.

An unhealthy trade I forbid to my pupil, but not a difficult or dangerous one. He will exercise himself in strength and courage; such trades are for men not women, who claim no share in them. Are not men ashamed to poach upon the women’s trades?

An unhealthy trade I prohibit for my student, but it's not a hard or risky one. He will work on building strength and courage; those kinds of trades are for men, not women, who have no part in them. Aren't men embarrassed to intrude on women's work?

    “Luctantur paucae, comedunt coliphia paucae.
     Vos lanam trahitis, calathisque peracta refertis
     Vellera.”—Juven. Sat. II. V. 55.
“Few struggle, few eat the coliphia. You pull the wool and carry the finished fleece in baskets.” —Juven. Sat. II. V. 55.

Women are not seen in shops in Italy, and to persons accustomed to the streets of England and France nothing could look gloomier. When I saw drapers selling ladies ribbons, pompons, net, and chenille, I thought these delicate ornaments very absurd in the coarse hands fit to blow the bellows and strike the anvil. I said to myself, “In this country women should set up as steel-polishers and armourers.” Let each make and sell the weapons of his or her own sex; knowledge is acquired through use.

Women are rarely seen in shops in Italy, and for those used to the streets of England and France, it feels quite dreary. When I saw store owners selling ladies' ribbons, pom-poms, netting, and chenille, I thought these delicate items were ridiculous in the rough hands suited for working the bellows and striking the anvil. I told myself, “In this country, women should be steel polishers and armor makers.” Everyone should create and sell the tools of their own gender; knowledge comes from experience.

I know I have said too much for my agreeable contemporaries, but I sometimes let myself be carried away by my argument. If any one is ashamed to be seen wearing a leathern apron or handling a plane, I think him a mere slave of public opinion, ready to blush for what is right when people poke fun at it. But let us yield to parents’ prejudices so long as they do not hurt the children. To honour trades we are not obliged to practise every one of them, so long as we do not think them beneath us. When the choice is ours and we are under no compulsion, why not choose the pleasanter, more attractive and more suitable trade. Metal work is useful, more useful, perhaps, than the rest, but unless for some special reason Emile shall not be a blacksmith, a locksmith nor an iron-worker. I do not want to see him a Cyclops at the forge. Neither would I have him a mason, still less a shoemaker. All trades must be carried on, but when the choice is ours, cleanliness should be taken into account; this is not a matter of class prejudice, our senses are our guides. In conclusion, I do not like those stupid trades in which the workmen mechanically perform the same action without pause and almost without mental effort. Weaving, stocking-knitting, stone-cutting; why employ intelligent men on such work? it is merely one machine employed on another.

I know I've said a lot for the people around me, but I sometimes get carried away with my arguments. If someone feels embarrassed to be seen wearing a leather apron or using a plane, I see them as a slave to public opinion, ready to feel ashamed of what's right just because others make fun of it. But let's give in to parents' biases as long as they don't harm the children. We don't have to practice every trade to honor them, as long as we don't think any of them are beneath us. When the choice is ours and we're not forced into anything, why not pick the more enjoyable, attractive, and suitable profession? Metalwork is useful, maybe even more useful than others, but unless there's a specific reason, Emile shouldn't be a blacksmith, locksmith, or ironworker. I don't want him to be a Cyclops at the forge. I also wouldn't want him to be a mason, let alone a shoemaker. Every trade needs to exist, but when we have the choice, we should consider cleanliness; this isn't about class prejudice, our senses are our guides. In conclusion, I don’t like those tedious trades where workers repetitively perform the same task without thinking. Weaving, knitting, stone-cutting—why assign intelligent people to such work? It's just one machine operating another.

All things considered, the trade I should choose for my pupil, among the trades he likes, is that of a carpenter. It is clean and useful; it may be carried on at home; it gives enough exercise; it calls for skill and industry, and while fashioning articles for everyday use, there is scope for elegance and taste. If your pupil’s talents happened to take a scientific turn, I should not blame you if you gave him a trade in accordance with his tastes, for instance, he might learn to make mathematical instruments, glasses, telescopes, etc.

All things considered, the best trade for my student, out of the ones he likes, is carpentry. It's clean and useful; it can be done at home; it provides enough physical activity; it requires skill and hard work, and while creating items for everyday use, there's room for elegance and style. If your student's interests were more scientific, I wouldn't blame you for guiding him toward a trade that aligns with his passions, like learning to make mathematical instruments, lenses, telescopes, and so on.

When Emile learns his trade I shall learn it too. I am convinced he will never learn anything thoroughly unless we learn it together. So we shall both serve our apprenticeship, and we do not mean to be treated as gentlemen, but as real apprentices who are not there for fun; why should not we actually be apprenticed? Peter the Great was a ship’s carpenter and drummer to his own troops; was not that prince at least your equal in birth and merit? You understand this is addressed not to Emile but to you—to you, whoever you may be.

When Emile learns his trade, I will learn it too. I'm sure he won't really master anything unless we do it together. So, we'll both serve our apprenticeship, and we don't expect to be treated like gentlemen, but like actual apprentices who are serious about this; why shouldn't we really be apprenticed? Peter the Great was a ship's carpenter and drummer for his own troops; wasn’t that prince at least your equal in birth and talent? You should know this is directed not to Emile, but to you—to you, whoever you are.

Unluckily we cannot spend the whole of our time at the workshop. We are not only ’prentice-carpenters but ’prentice-men—a trade whose apprenticeship is longer and more exacting than the rest. What shall we do? Shall we take a master to teach us the use of the plane and engage him by the hour like the dancing-master? In that case we should be not apprentices but students, and our ambition is not merely to learn carpentry but to be carpenters. Once or twice a week I think we should spend the whole day at our master’s; we should get up when he does, we should be at our work before him, we should take our meals with him, work under his orders, and after having had the honour of supping at his table we may if we please return to sleep upon our own hard beds. This is the way to learn several trades at once, to learn to do manual work without neglecting our apprenticeship to life.

Unfortunately, we can’t spend all our time in the workshop. We’re not just apprentice carpenters but also apprentice men—a role that requires a longer and more demanding apprenticeship than others. What should we do? Should we hire a master to teach us how to use the plane, like we would hire a dance instructor? In that case, we wouldn’t be apprentices but students, and our goal isn’t just to learn carpentry but to become carpenters. Once or twice a week, I think we should dedicate an entire day to our master; we should wake up when he does, start our work before he arrives, have meals with him, work under his guidance, and after we have the honor of dining at his table, we can choose to return to our own hard beds for the night. This is the best way to learn multiple trades simultaneously and gain practical skills while still embracing our apprenticeship to life.

Let us do what is right without ostentation; let us not fall into vanity through our efforts to resist it. To pride ourselves on our victory over prejudice is to succumb to prejudice. It is said that in accordance with an old custom of the Ottomans, the sultan is obliged to work with his hands, and, as every one knows, the handiwork of a king is a masterpiece. So he royally distributes his masterpieces among the great lords of the Porte and the price paid is in accordance with the rank of the workman. It is not this so-called abuse to which I object; on the contrary, it is an advantage, and by compelling the lords to share with him the spoils of the people it is so much the less necessary for the prince to plunder the people himself. Despotism needs some such relaxation, and without it that hateful rule could not last.

Let’s do what’s right without showing off; let’s not become vain in our attempts to avoid it. Taking pride in our victory over prejudice actually means giving in to it. There’s an old tradition among the Ottomans that says the sultan has to work with his hands, and everyone knows the creations of a king are extraordinary. He generously shares his creations with the top lords of the Porte, and the payment reflects the status of the worker. It's not this so-called misuse that I’m against; actually, it’s beneficial. By forcing the lords to share the wealth from the people, the prince has less need to exploit the citizens himself. Despotism requires some level of relief, and without it, that oppressive rule couldn't endure.

The real evil in such a custom is the idea it gives that poor man of his own worth. Like King Midas he sees all things turn to gold at his touch, but he does not see the ass’ ears growing. Let us keep Emile’s hands from money lest he should become an ass, let him take the work but not the wages. Never let his work be judged by any standard but that of the work of a master. Let it be judged as work, not because it is his. If anything is well done, I say, “That is a good piece of work,” but do not ask who did it. If he is pleased and proud and says, “I did it,” answer indifferently, “No matter who did it, it is well done.”

The real problem with this custom is the false sense of worth it gives to the poor man. Like King Midas, he sees everything he touches turn to gold, but he doesn’t notice the donkey ears sprouting. We should keep Emile away from money so he doesn’t become foolish; let him do the work but not get paid for it. His work should only be judged by the standards of a master. It should be assessed as work, not just because he did it. If something is done well, I’ll say, “That’s a good piece of work,” but don’t ask who made it. If he feels pleased and says, “I did it,” respond casually, “It doesn’t matter who did it; it’s well done.”

Good mother, be on your guard against the deceptions prepared for you. If your son knows many things, distrust his knowledge; if he is unlucky enough to be rich and educated in Paris he is ruined. As long as there are clever artists he will have every talent, but apart from his masters he will have none. In Paris a rich man knows everything, it is the poor who are ignorant. Our capital is full of amateurs, especially women, who do their work as M. Gillaume invents his colours. Among the men I know three striking exceptions, among the women I know no exceptions, and I doubt if there are any. In a general way a man becomes an artist and a judge of art as he becomes a Doctor of Laws and a magistrate.

Good mother, watch out for the tricks that are set for you. If your son knows a lot, be wary of that knowledge; if he’s unfortunate enough to be rich and educated in Paris, he’s doomed. As long as there are talented artists around, he may seem skilled, but outside of his mentors, he has none. In Paris, a rich person thinks they know everything, while it's the poor who are considered ignorant. Our capital is full of amateurs, especially women, who produce their work like M. Gillaume makes his paints. Among the men, I know three notable exceptions, but among the women, I know none, and I doubt there are any. Generally, a man becomes an artist and a critic of art just like he becomes a Doctor of Laws and a magistrate.

If then it is once admitted that it is a fine thing to have a trade, your children would soon have one without learning it. They would become postmasters like the councillors of Zurich. Let us have no such ceremonies for Emile; let it be the real thing not the sham. Do not say what he knows, let him learn in silence. Let him make his masterpiece, but not be hailed as master; let him be a workman not in name but in deed.

If it's accepted that having a trade is valuable, your children would quickly have one without needing to learn it. They would become postmasters like the officials in Zurich. Let’s skip the ceremonies for Emile; let it be genuine, not a facade. Don’t talk about what he knows; let him learn quietly. Let him create his masterpiece but not be celebrated as a master; let him be a worker in practice, not just in name.

If I have made my meaning clear you ought to realise how bodily exercise and manual work unconsciously arouse thought and reflexion in my pupil, and counteract the idleness which might result from his indifference to men’s judgments, and his freedom from passion. He must work like a peasant and think like a philosopher, if he is not to be as idle as a savage. The great secret of education is to use exercise of mind and body as relaxation one to the other.

If I’ve made my point clear, you should see how physical activity and hands-on work naturally stimulate thinking and reflection in my student, and help prevent the laziness that could come from his indifference to others’ opinions and his lack of passion. He needs to work like a farmer and think like a philosopher, or else he’ll end up as idle as a savage. The key to education is to use mental and physical exercise as a way to balance each other out.

But beware of anticipating teaching which demands more maturity of mind. Emile will not long be a workman before he discovers those social inequalities he had not previously observed. He will want to question me in turn on the maxims I have given him, maxims he is able to understand. When he derives everything from me, when he is so nearly in the position of the poor, he will want to know why I am so far removed from it. All of a sudden he may put scathing questions to me. “You are rich, you tell me, and I see you are. A rich man owes his work to the community like the rest because he is a man. What are you doing for the community?” What would a fine tutor say to that? I do not know. He would perhaps be foolish enough to talk to the child of the care he bestows upon him. The workshop will get me out of the difficulty. “My dear Emile that is a very good question; I will undertake to answer for myself, when you can answer for yourself to your own satisfaction. Meanwhile I will take care to give what I can spare to you and to the poor, and to make a table or a bench every week, so as not to be quite useless.”

But be careful not to expect teaching that requires more maturity. Emile won't work for long before he notices the social inequalities he hadn't seen before. He'll want to ask me about the principles I've shared with him, which he can now understand. When he relies on me for everything, and when he finds himself in a position similar to that of the less fortunate, he'll want to know why I'm so different from them. Suddenly, he might hit me with tough questions. “You say you're rich, and I can see that you are. A rich person owes their work to the community like everyone else because we're all human. What are you doing for the community?” What would a good tutor say to that? I have no idea. He might be silly enough to talk about the care he gives Emile. The workshop will help me out of this situation. “My dear Emile, that's a great question; I'll answer for myself when you can answer for yourself to your own satisfaction. In the meantime, I’ll make sure to give what I can to you and to those in need, and I'll build a table or a bench every week so I’m not completely useless.”

We have come back to ourselves. Having entered into possession of himself, our child is now ready to cease to be a child. He is more than ever conscious of the necessity which makes him dependent on things. After exercising his body and his senses you have exercised his mind and his judgment. Finally we have joined together the use of his limbs and his faculties. We have made him a worker and a thinker; we have now to make him loving and tender-hearted, to perfect reason through feeling. But before we enter on this new order of things, let us cast an eye over the stage we are leaving behind us, and perceive as clearly as we can how far we have got.

We have returned to ourselves. Now that he has come into his own, our child is ready to stop being just a child. He is more aware than ever of the need that makes him depend on things. After you’ve helped him exercise both his body and senses, you’ve also stimulated his mind and judgment. We have finally combined the use of his limbs and his abilities. We’ve made him a worker and a thinker; now we need to help him become loving and compassionate, to refine reason through emotion. But before we start this new phase, let’s take a moment to look back at the stage we are leaving behind and clearly see how far we’ve come.

At first our pupil had merely sensations, now he has ideas; he could only feel, now he reasons. For from the comparison of many successive or simultaneous sensations and the judgment arrived at with regard to them, there springs a sort of mixed or complex sensation which I call an idea.

At first, our student only had feelings; now, he has thoughts. He could only experience sensations, but now he can think things through. By comparing many different sensations over time or at the same time and making judgments about them, a kind of mixed or complex sensation arises, which I refer to as an idea.

The way in which ideas are formed gives a character to the human mind. The mind which derives its ideas from real relations is thorough; the mind which relies on apparent relations is superficial. He who sees relations as they are has an exact mind; he who fails to estimate them aright has an inaccurate mind; he who concocts imaginary relations, which have no real existence, is a madman; he who does not perceive any relation at all is an imbecile. Clever men are distinguished from others by their greater or less aptitude for the comparison of ideas and the discovery of relations between them.

The way ideas are formed shapes the human mind. A mind that gets its ideas from real connections is thorough; a mind that depends on surface-level connections is shallow. Someone who sees relationships as they truly are has a clear mind; someone who misjudges them has a confused mind; someone who creates imaginary relationships that don't actually exist is delusional; someone who can't see any relationships at all is foolish. Smart people are set apart from others by their ability to compare ideas and find connections between them.

Simple ideas consist merely of sensations compared one with another. Simple sensations involve judgments, as do the complex sensations which I call simple ideas. In the sensation the judgment is purely passive; it affirms that I feel what I feel. In the percept or idea the judgment is active; it connects, compares, it discriminates between relations not perceived by the senses. That is the whole difference; but it is a great difference. Nature never deceives us; we deceive ourselves.

Simple ideas are just sensations compared to each other. Simple sensations involve judgments, just like the complex sensations I refer to as simple ideas. In the sensation, the judgment is entirely passive; it simply confirms that I feel what I feel. In the perception or idea, the judgment is active; it connects, compares, and differentiates between relationships not perceived by the senses. That's the main difference, but it's a significant one. Nature never lies to us; we lie to ourselves.

I see some one giving an ice-cream to an eight-year-old child; he does not know what it is and puts the spoon in his mouth. Struck by the cold he cries out, “Oh, it burns!” He feels a very keen sensation, and the heat of the fire is the keenest sensation he knows, so he thinks that is what he feels. Yet he is mistaken; cold hurts, but it does not burn; and these two sensations are different, for persons with more experience do not confuse them. So it is not the sensation that is wrong, but the judgment formed with regard to it.

I see someone handing an ice cream to an eight-year-old child; he doesn’t know what it is and puts the spoon in his mouth. Shocked by the cold, he cries out, “Oh, it burns!” He experiences a very intense feeling, and since the heat of fire is the most intense sensation he knows, he thinks that’s what he feels. But he’s mistaken; cold hurts, but it doesn’t actually burn; and these two sensations are different, as people with more experience don’t confuse them. So it’s not the sensation that is wrong, but the judgment made about it.

It is just the same with those who see a mirror or some optical instrument for the first time, or enter a deep cellar in the depths of winter or at midsummer, or dip a very hot or cold hand into tepid water, or roll a little ball between two crossed fingers. If they are content to say what they really feel, their judgment, being purely passive, cannot go wrong; but when they judge according to appearances, their judgment is active; it compares and establishes by induction relations which are not really perceived. Then these inductions may or may not be mistaken. Experience is required to correct or prevent error.

It's the same for those who see a mirror or an optical device for the first time, or who enter a deep cellar in the middle of winter or in the heart of summer, or who dip a very hot or cold hand into lukewarm water, or roll a small ball between two crossed fingers. If they are willing to express what they genuinely feel, their judgment, being purely passive, can't be wrong; but when they judge based on appearances, their judgment becomes active; it compares and infers connections that aren't actually perceived. Then, these inferences might be right or wrong. Experience is needed to correct or prevent mistakes.

Show your pupil the clouds at night passing between himself and the moon; he will think the moon is moving in the opposite direction and that the clouds are stationary. He will think this through a hasty induction, because he generally sees small objects moving and larger ones at rest, and the clouds seems larger than the moon, whose distance is beyond his reckoning. When he watches the shore from a moving boat he falls into the opposite mistake and thinks the earth is moving because he does not feel the motion of the boat and considers it along with the sea or river as one motionless whole, of which the shore, which appears to move, forms no part.

Show your student the clouds at night passing between them and the moon; they will think the moon is moving in the opposite direction and that the clouds are still. They'll come to this conclusion quickly, because they usually see small objects moving and larger ones remaining still, and the clouds appear larger than the moon, which is too far away for them to gauge. When they look at the shore from a moving boat, they make the opposite mistake and believe the earth is moving because they don't feel the motion of the boat, thinking of it together with the sea or river as one motionless entity, while the shore, which seems to be moving, does not seem to be part of it.

The first time a child sees a stick half immersed in water he thinks he sees a broken stick; the sensation is true and would not cease to be true even if he knew the reason of this appearance. So if you ask him what he sees, he replies, “A broken stick,” for he is quite sure he is experiencing this sensation. But when deceived by his judgment he goes further and, after saying he sees a broken stick, he affirms that it really is broken he says what is not true. Why? Because he becomes active and judges no longer by observation but by induction, he affirms what he does not perceive, i.e., that the judgment he receives through one of his senses would be confirmed by another.

The first time a child sees a stick partly submerged in water, he thinks it’s a broken stick; the feeling is real and wouldn’t change even if he understood the reason for this illusion. So if you ask him what he sees, he says, “A broken stick,” because he genuinely believes he’s having that experience. But when he is misled by his judgment and goes further—after stating he sees a broken stick—he claims that it actually is broken, which is not true. Why? Because he becomes active and judges not by observation but by inference; he asserts what he doesn’t actually perceive, meaning that he believes the judgment he receives from one sense would be confirmed by another.

Since all our errors arise in our judgment, it is clear, that had we no need for judgment, we should not need to learn; we should never be liable to mistakes, we should be happier in our ignorance than we can be in our knowledge. Who can deny that a vast number of things are known to the learned, which the unlearned will never know? Are the learned any nearer truth? Not so, the further they go the further they get from truth, for their pride in their judgment increases faster than their progress in knowledge, so that for every truth they acquire they draw a hundred mistaken conclusions. Every one knows that the learned societies of Europe are mere schools of falsehood, and there are assuredly more mistaken notions in the Academy of Sciences than in a whole tribe of American Indians.

Since all our mistakes come from our judgment, it's clear that if we didn't need to judge, we wouldn't need to learn; we'd never make errors, and we would be happier in our ignorance than in our knowledge. Who can deny that there are countless things known by the educated that the uneducated will never learn? Are the educated any closer to the truth? Not at all; the more they learn, the further they drift from the truth, as their pride in their judgment grows faster than their knowledge progresses, leading them to draw a hundred wrong conclusions for every truth they gain. Everyone knows that the learned societies of Europe are just schools of falsehood, and there are surely more misconceptions in the Academy of Sciences than in an entire tribe of American Indians.

The more we know, the more mistakes we make; therefore ignorance is the only way to escape error. Form no judgments and you will never be mistaken. This is the teaching both of nature and reason. We come into direct contact with very few things, and these are very readily perceived; the rest we regard with profound indifference. A savage will not turn his head to watch the working of the finest machinery or all the wonders of electricity. “What does that matter to me?” is the common saying of the ignorant; it is the fittest phrase for the wise.

The more we learn, the more mistakes we make; so ignorance is the only way to avoid error. Don’t form any judgments and you’ll never be wrong. This is the lesson from both nature and reason. We only truly engage with a few things, and those are easily understood; everything else we regard with deep indifference. A primitive person won't even look to see how the best machines work or the marvels of electricity. “What does that have to do with me?” is what ignorant people commonly say; it’s also the perfect phrase for the wise.

Unluckily this phrase will no longer serve our turn. Everything matters to us, as we are dependent on everything, and our curiosity naturally increases with our needs. This is why I attribute much curiosity to the man of science and none to the savage. The latter needs no help from anybody; the former requires every one, and admirers most of all.

Unfortunately, this phrase won’t work for us anymore. Everything is important to us, since we rely on everything, and our curiosity naturally grows with our needs. This is why I believe that scientists are very curious, while the savage is not. The latter doesn’t need help from anyone; the former needs everyone, especially admirers.

You will tell me I am going beyond nature. I think not. She chooses her instruments and orders them, not according to fancy, but necessity. Now a man’s needs vary with his circumstances. There is all the difference in the world between a natural man living in a state of nature, and a natural man living in society. Emile is no savage to be banished to the desert, he is a savage who has to live in the town. He must know how to get his living in a town, how to use its inhabitants, and how to live among them, if not of them.

You might say I'm going against nature. I don’t think so. Nature chooses her tools and organizes them based on necessity, not whim. A person’s needs change depending on their situation. There’s a huge difference between a natural person living in the wild and a natural person living in society. Emile isn’t a wild man who should be sent to the desert; he’s a wild man who has to survive in the city. He needs to know how to make a living in a town, how to interact with its people, and how to exist among them, even if he isn’t one of them.

In the midst of so many new relations and dependent on them, he must reason whether he wants to or no. Let us therefore teach him to reason correctly.

In the middle of so many new relationships and relying on them, he has to think about whether he wants to or not. So, let's help him learn to think clearly.

The best way of learning to reason aright is that which tends to simplify our experiences, or to enable us to dispense with them altogether without falling into error. Hence it follows that we must learn to confirm the experiences of each sense by itself, without recourse to any other, though we have been in the habit of verifying the experience of one sense by that of another. Then each of our sensations will become an idea, and this idea will always correspond to the truth. This is the sort of knowledge I have tried to accumulate during this third phase of man’s life.

The best way to learn to think correctly is to simplify our experiences or to find ways to do without them entirely without making mistakes. Therefore, we need to learn to validate the experiences of each sense independently, without relying on others, even though we've usually confirmed one sense's experience with another. Each of our sensations will then turn into an idea, and this idea will always represent the truth. This is the kind of knowledge I've been trying to gather during this third stage of life.

This method of procedure demands a patience and circumspection which few teachers possess; without them the scholar will never learn to reason. For example, if you hasten to take the stick out of the water when the child is deceived by its appearance, you may perhaps undeceive him, but what have you taught him? Nothing more than he would soon have learnt for himself. That is not the right thing to do. You have not got to teach him truths so much as to show him how to set about discovering them for himself. To teach him better you must not be in such a hurry to correct his mistakes. Let us take Emile and myself as an illustration.

This approach requires a patience and carefulness that few teachers have; without these qualities, students won’t learn to think for themselves. For instance, if you quickly take the stick out of the water when a child is misled by its looks, you might clear up the confusion, but what have you really taught them? Nothing more than what they would have figured out on their own soon enough. That's not the right way to do it. You need to guide them in discovering truths rather than simply handing them out. To teach them effectively, you shouldn’t be too quick to fix their mistakes. Let's use Emile and myself as an example.

To begin with, any child educated in the usual way could not fail to answer the second of my imaginary questions in the affirmative. He will say, “That is certainly a broken stick.” I very much doubt whether Emile will give the same reply. He sees no reason for knowing everything or pretending to know it; he is never in a hurry to draw conclusions. He only reasons from evidence and on this occasion he has not got the evidence. He knows how appearances deceive us, if only through perspective.

To start with, any child taught in the typical way would definitely answer the second of my imaginary questions with a yes. He would say, “That is definitely a broken stick.” I seriously doubt that Emile would give the same answer. He doesn’t feel the need to know everything or to pretend to; he’s never in a rush to jump to conclusions. He only thinks based on evidence, and in this case, he doesn’t have the evidence. He understands how appearances can mislead us, especially through perspective.

Moreover, he knows by experience that there is always a reason for my slightest questions, though he may not see it at once; so he has not got into the habit of giving silly answers; on the contrary, he is on his guard, he considers things carefully and attentively before answering. He never gives me an answer unless he is satisfied with it himself, and he is hard to please. Lastly we neither of us take any pride in merely knowing a thing, but only in avoiding mistakes. We should be more ashamed to deceive ourselves with bad reasoning, than to find no explanation at all. There is no phrase so appropriate to us, or so often on our lips, as, “I do not know;” neither of us are ashamed to use it. But whether he gives the silly answer or whether he avoids it by our convenient phrase “I do not know,” my answer is the same. “Let us examine it.”

Moreover, he knows from experience that there’s always a reason behind my smallest questions, even if he doesn't see it right away; so he hasn't developed a habit of giving foolish answers. On the contrary, he is careful, he thinks things through attentively before responding. He never gives me an answer unless he’s satisfied with it himself, and he’s hard to please. Lastly, neither of us takes pride in simply knowing something, but in avoiding mistakes. We would feel more ashamed to mislead ourselves with poor reasoning than to admit we have no explanation at all. There’s no phrase more fitting for us, or that we say more often, than, “I don’t know;” neither of us is embarrassed to use it. But whether he gives a silly answer or avoids it with our go-to phrase “I don’t know,” my response is the same: “Let’s examine it.”

This stick immersed half way in the water is fixed in an upright position. To know if it is broken, how many things must be done before we take it out of the water or even touch it.

This stick is stuck in the water halfway and is standing straight up. To find out if it’s broken, there are several things we need to do before we take it out of the water or even touch it.

1. First we walk round it, and we see that the broken part follows us. So it is only our eye that changes it; looks do not make things move.

1. First, we walk around it, and we see that the broken part follows us. So it’s only our eyes that change it; looks don’t make things move.

2. We look straight down on that end of the stick which is above the water, the stick is no longer bent, [Footnote: I have since found by more exact experiment that this is not the case. Refraction acts in a circle, and the stick appears larger at the end which is in the water, but this makes no difference to the strength of the argument, and the conclusion is correct.] the end near our eye exactly hides the other end. Has our eye set the stick straight?

2. We're looking directly down at the end of the stick that’s above the water; it's no longer bent. [Footnote: I've since discovered through more precise experiments that this isn’t accurate. Refraction works in a circular way, and the end of the stick in the water looks larger, but this doesn't change the validity of the argument, and the conclusion remains correct.] The part closest to us completely obscures the other end. Did our eye make the stick look straight?

3. We stir the surface of the water; we see the stick break into several pieces, it moves in zigzags and follows the ripples of the water. Can the motion we gave the water suffice to break, soften, or melt the stick like this?

3. We disturb the surface of the water; we see the stick break into several pieces, moving in zigzags and following the ripples. Can the motion we created in the water really be enough to break, soften, or melt the stick like this?

4. We draw the water off, and little by little we see the stick straightening itself as the water sinks. Is not this more than enough to clear up the business and to discover refraction? So it is not true that our eyes deceive us, for nothing more has been required to correct the mistakes attributed to it.

4. We drain the water, and little by little we see the stick straightening up as the water level drops. Isn’t this more than enough to clarify things and understand refraction? So, it’s not true that our eyes deceive us, since nothing else is needed to fix the mistakes we blame on them.

Suppose the child were stupid enough not to perceive the result of these experiments, then you must call touch to the help of sight. Instead of taking the stick out of the water, leave it where it is and let the child pass his hand along it from end to end; he will feel no angle, therefore the stick is not broken.

Suppose the child is too clueless to understand the outcome of these experiments; then you must use touch to assist sight. Instead of removing the stick from the water, leave it where it is and let the child run their hand along it from one end to the other; they will feel no angles, so the stick is not broken.

You will tell me this is not mere judgment but formal reasoning. Just so; but do not you see that as soon as the mind has got any ideas at all, every judgment is a process of reasoning? So that as soon as we compare one sensation with another, we are beginning to reason. The art of judging and the art of reasoning are one and the same.

You might say this isn't just judgment but formal reasoning. That's true; but don't you see that once the mind has any ideas at all, every judgment is a process of reasoning? So, the moment we compare one sensation to another, we're starting to reason. The skill of judging and the skill of reasoning are essentially the same thing.

Emile will never learn dioptrics unless he learns with this stick. He will not have dissected insects nor counted the spots on the sun; he will not know what you mean by a microscope or a telescope. Your learned pupils will laugh at his ignorance and rightly, I intend him to invent these instruments before he uses them, and you will expect that to take some time.

Emile won't understand optics unless he learns with this stick. He won't have dissected insects or counted the spots on the sun; he won't know what you mean by a microscope or a telescope. Your knowledgeable students will mock his ignorance, and rightly so. I want him to invent these tools before he uses them, and you should expect that to take some time.

This is the spirit of my whole method at this stage. If the child rolls a little ball between two crossed fingers and thinks he feels two balls, I shall not let him look until he is convinced there is only one.

This is the essence of my approach at this stage. If the child rolls a small ball between two crossed fingers and believes he feels two balls, I won’t let him look until he’s sure there’s only one.

This explanation will suffice, I hope, to show plainly the progress made by my pupil hitherto and the route followed by him. But perhaps the number of things I have brought to his notice alarms you. I shall crush his mind beneath this weight of knowledge. Not so, I am rather teaching him to be ignorant of things than to know them. I am showing him the path of science, easy indeed, but long, far-reaching and slow to follow. I am taking him a few steps along this path, but I do not allow him to go far.

I hope this explanation clearly shows the progress my student has made so far and the path he’s taken. But maybe the number of things I've pointed out worries you. I’m not going to overwhelm his mind with all this knowledge. Instead, I’m teaching him to ignore trivial things rather than to know them. I’m guiding him along the path of science, which is straightforward but also long, wide-ranging, and slow to navigate. I’m taking him a few steps down this path, but I won’t let him go too far.

Compelled to learn for himself, he uses his own reason not that of others, for there must be no submission to authority if you would have no submission to convention. Most of our errors are due to others more than ourselves. This continual exercise should develop a vigour of mind like that acquired by the body through labour and weariness. Another advantage is that his progress is in proportion to his strength, neither mind nor body carries more than it can bear. When the understanding lays hold of things before they are stored in the memory, what is drawn from that store is his own; while we are in danger of never finding anything of our own in a memory over-burdened with undigested knowledge.

Driven to discover for himself, he relies on his own reasoning, not that of others, since there should be no submission to authority if you want to avoid submitting to convention. Most of our mistakes come from others more than from ourselves. This ongoing practice should build mental strength like physical labor and fatigue build strength in the body. Another benefit is that his progress aligns with his ability, as neither mind nor body takes on more than it can handle. When understanding grasps concepts before they are committed to memory, what is retrieved from that memory is truly his own; meanwhile, we risk never finding anything original in a memory overloaded with unprocessed information.

Emile knows little, but what he knows is really his own; he has no half-knowledge. Among the few things he knows and knows thoroughly this is the most valuable, that there are many things he does not know now but may know some day, many more that other men know but he will never know, and an infinite number which nobody will ever know. He is large-minded, not through knowledge, but through the power of acquiring it; he is open-minded, intelligent, ready for anything, and, as Montaigne says, capable of learning if not learned. I am content if he knows the “Wherefore” of his actions and the “Why” of his beliefs. For once more my object is not to supply him with exact knowledge, but the means of getting it when required, to teach him to value it at its true worth, and to love truth above all things. By this method progress is slow but sure, and we never need to retrace our steps.

Emile knows little, but what he knows truly belongs to him; he doesn’t have any superficial understanding. Among the few things he knows well, the most valuable is the awareness that there are many things he doesn’t know now but might in the future, many more that others know but he will never know, and countless things that no one will ever know. He has a broad perspective, not because of his current knowledge, but because of his ability to learn; he is open-minded, intelligent, ready for anything, and, as Montaigne says, capable of learning even if he hasn't learned yet. I’m satisfied as long as he understands the purpose of his actions and the reason behind his beliefs. Once again, my goal isn’t to give him specific knowledge but to provide the tools to acquire it when needed, to teach him to appreciate it for what it truly is, and to value truth above all else. This way, progress may be slow but is definitely steady, and we never have to go backtrack.

Emile’s knowledge is confined to nature and things. The very name of history is unknown to him, along with metaphysics and morals. He knows the essential relations between men and things, but nothing of the moral relations between man and man. He has little power of generalisation, he has no skill in abstraction. He perceives that certain qualities are common to certain things, without reasoning about these qualities themselves. He is acquainted with the abstract idea of space by the help of his geometrical figures; he is acquainted with the abstract idea of quantity by the help of his algebraical symbols. These figures and signs are the supports on which these ideas may be said to rest, the supports on which his senses repose. He does not attempt to know the nature of things, but only to know things in so far as they affect himself. He only judges what is outside himself in relation to himself, and his judgment is exact and certain. Caprice and prejudice have no part in it. He values most the things which are of use to himself, and as he never departs from this standard of values, he owes nothing to prejudice.

Emile’s understanding is limited to nature and objects. He doesn’t even know the term history, let alone metaphysics and morals. He understands the basic relationships between people and things, but has no concept of the moral relationships between individuals. He struggles with generalization and isn’t skilled at abstraction. He recognizes that certain qualities are shared by certain things, but doesn’t analyze those qualities. He understands the abstract concept of space through his geometric figures and the abstract concept of quantity through his algebraic symbols. These figures and symbols are the foundations on which these ideas are built, the bases for his sensory experiences. He doesn’t seek to understand the essence of things, only how they relate to him. He judges everything outside of himself in relation to his own experience, and his judgment is clear and accurate. There’s no whim or bias involved. He places the highest value on things that are useful to him, and since he never strays from this value system, he has no dependence on prejudice.

Emile is industrious, temperate, patient, stedfast, and full of courage. His imagination is still asleep, so he has no exaggerated ideas of danger; the few ills he feels he knows how to endure in patience, because he has not learnt to rebel against fate. As to death, he knows not what it means; but accustomed as he is to submit without resistance to the law of necessity, he will die, if die he must, without a groan and without a struggle; that is as much as we can demand of nature, in that hour which we all abhor. To live in freedom, and to be independent of human affairs, is the best way to learn how to die.

Emile is hardworking, disciplined, patient, steadfast, and brave. His imagination is still dormant, so he doesn’t have exaggerated fears of danger; he knows how to endure the few difficulties he faces with patience, as he hasn't learned to fight against fate. As for death, he doesn't know what it means; however, since he is used to accepting the laws of necessity without resistance, he will face death, if it comes, without complaining or putting up a fight; that's about all we can expect from nature in that moment we all dread. Living freely and being independent of human matters is the best way to learn how to face death.

In a word Emile is possessed of all that portion of virtue which concerns himself. To acquire the social virtues he only needs a knowledge of the relations which make those virtues necessary; he only lacks knowledge which he is quite ready to receive.

In short, Emile has all the personal virtues he needs. To gain the social virtues, he just needs to understand the relationships that make those virtues important; he only misses knowledge that he is more than willing to accept.

He thinks not of others but of himself, and prefers that others should do the same. He makes no claim upon them, and acknowledges no debt to them. He is alone in the midst of human society, he depends on himself alone, for he is all that a boy can be at his age. He has no errors, or at least only such as are inevitable; he has no vices, or only those from which no man can escape. His body is healthy, his limbs are supple, his mind is accurate and unprejudiced, his heart is free and untroubled by passion. Pride, the earliest and the most natural of passions, has scarcely shown itself. Without disturbing the peace of others, he has passed his life contented, happy, and free, so far as nature allows. Do you think that the earlier years of a child, who has reached his fifteenth year in this condition, have been wasted?

He thinks only about himself and wishes others would do the same. He doesn’t ask anything of them and feels no obligation to them. He’s isolated from society, relying solely on himself, as he is all a boy can be at his age. He has no major mistakes, or at least only the unavoidable ones; he has no vices, or only the ones that everyone has. His body is healthy, his limbs are flexible, his mind is clear and open, his heart is free and unbothered by emotions. Pride, the first and most instinctual of feelings, has barely shown up. Without upsetting anyone else, he has lived his life content, happy, and as free as nature permits. Do you think that the early years of a child who has reached fifteen in this state have been wasted?










BOOK IV

How swiftly life passes here below! The first quarter of it is gone before we know how to use it; the last quarter finds us incapable of enjoying life. At first we do not know how to live; and when we know how to live it is too late. In the interval between these two useless extremes we waste three-fourths of our time sleeping, working, sorrowing, enduring restraint and every kind of suffering. Life is short, not so much because of the short time it lasts, but because we are allowed scarcely any time to enjoy it. In vain is there a long interval between the hour of death and that of birth; life is still too short, if this interval is not well spent.

How quickly life flies by! We spend the first part of it not knowing how to make the most of it; by the time we reach the last part, we can no longer enjoy life. At first, we don't know how to live, and by the time we figure it out, it’s too late. In the time between these two pointless extremes, we waste three-quarters of our lives sleeping, working, grieving, enduring limitations, and all kinds of suffering. Life feels short, not just because it doesn't last long, but because we hardly have time to truly enjoy it. The gap between birth and death might be long, but if that time isn't spent wisely, life still feels too short.

We are born, so to speak, twice over; born into existence, and born into life; born a human being, and born a man. Those who regard woman as an imperfect man are no doubt mistaken, but they have external resemblance on their side. Up to the age of puberty children of both sexes have little to distinguish them to the eye, the same face and form, the same complexion and voice, everything is the same; girls are children and boys are children; one name is enough for creatures so closely resembling one another. Males whose development is arrested preserve this resemblance all their lives; they are always big children; and women who never lose this resemblance seem in many respects never to be more than children.

We are, in a sense, born twice; first into existence, and then into life; born as human beings, and then specifically as men. Those who view women as flawed men are clearly mistaken, though they do have external similarities on their side. Up until puberty, kids of both genders are hard to tell apart at first glance; they have the same face and body shape, the same skin tone and voice—everything is quite similar. Girls are children, and boys are children; one term is enough for beings that look so alike. Males whose growth is stunted keep this likeness throughout their lives; they remain big children. Likewise, women who never grow out of this resemblance often seem, in many ways, to remain children.

But, speaking generally, man is not meant to remain a child. He leaves childhood behind him at the time ordained by nature; and this critical moment, short enough in itself, has far-reaching consequences.

But, in general, a person isn't meant to stay a child. They move past childhood when it's time, as determined by nature; and this crucial moment, though brief, has lasting effects.

As the roaring of the waves precedes the tempest, so the murmur of rising passions announces this tumultuous change; a suppressed excitement warns us of the approaching danger. A change of temper, frequent outbreaks of anger, a perpetual stirring of the mind, make the child almost ungovernable. He becomes deaf to the voice he used to obey; he is a lion in a fever; he distrusts his keeper and refuses to be controlled.

As the crashing of the waves signals a storm, so the whisper of growing emotions hints at this chaotic shift; a bottled-up excitement alerts us to the impending threat. A shift in mood, frequent bursts of anger, and a constant restlessness make the child nearly unmanageable. He becomes unresponsive to the voice he once listened to; he is a lion in a frenzy; he no longer trusts his caregiver and rejects any attempts at control.

With the moral symptoms of a changing temper there are perceptible changes in appearance. His countenance develops and takes the stamp of his character; the soft and sparse down upon his cheeks becomes darker and stiffer. His voice grows hoarse or rather he loses it altogether. He is neither a child nor a man and cannot speak like either of them. His eyes, those organs of the soul which till now were dumb, find speech and meaning; a kindling fire illumines them, there is still a sacred innocence in their ever brightening glance, but they have lost their first meaningless expression; he is already aware that they can say too much; he is beginning to learn to lower his eyes and blush, he is becoming sensitive, though he does not know what it is that he feels; he is uneasy without knowing why. All this may happen gradually and give you time enough; but if his keenness becomes impatience, his eagerness madness, if he is angry and sorry all in a moment, if he weeps without cause, if in the presence of objects which are beginning to be a source of danger his pulse quickens and his eyes sparkle, if he trembles when a woman’s hand touches his, if he is troubled or timid in her presence, O Ulysses, wise Ulysses! have a care! The passages you closed with so much pains are open; the winds are unloosed; keep your hand upon the helm or all is lost.

With the moral signs of a changing mood, there are noticeable shifts in his appearance. His face develops and reflects his character; the soft and sparse hair on his cheeks becomes darker and coarser. His voice grows hoarse or he might even lose it entirely. He’s neither a child nor a man and can’t speak like either one. His eyes, those windows to the soul that were silent until now, find a voice and meaning; a warm fire lights them up, and there’s still a sense of innocent purity in their increasingly bright gaze, but they’ve lost their former blankness; he’s already starting to realize that they can express too much; he’s beginning to learn to look down and blush, becoming sensitive, even though he doesn’t quite understand what he's feeling; he feels uneasy without knowing why. All of this can happen gradually, giving you time to adjust; but if his sharpness turns to impatience, his eagerness to madness, if he feels anger and regret all at once, if he cries for no reason, if his heart races and his eyes light up in front of things that start to become dangerous, if he trembles when a woman's hand touches his, if he feels anxious or shy around her, oh Ulysses, wise Ulysses! be careful! The barriers you’ve worked so hard to put up are down; the winds are unleashed; keep your hand on the wheel or everything is lost.

This is the second birth I spoke of; then it is that man really enters upon life; henceforth no human passion is a stranger to him. Our efforts so far have been child’s play, now they are of the greatest importance. This period when education is usually finished is just the time to begin; but to explain this new plan properly, let us take up our story where we left it.

This is the second birth I mentioned; it’s at this point that a person truly begins life; from now on, no human emotion is unfamiliar to them. Our previous efforts have been simple, but now they carry immense significance. This time, when education typically ends, is actually the perfect moment to start; however, to properly explain this new approach, let’s pick up our story from where we paused.

Our passions are the chief means of self-preservation; to try to destroy them is therefore as absurd as it is useless; this would be to overcome nature, to reshape God’s handiwork. If God bade man annihilate the passions he has given him, God would bid him be and not be; He would contradict himself. He has never given such a foolish commandment, there is nothing like it written on the heart of man, and what God will have a man do, He does not leave to the words of another man. He speaks Himself; His words are written in the secret heart.

Our passions are the main way we preserve ourselves; trying to destroy them is just as ridiculous as it is pointless; it's like trying to go against nature, to reshape what God has created. If God wanted humans to erase the passions He has given them, He would be asking them to exist and not exist at the same time; that would be a contradiction. He has never given such a foolish commandment, nothing like that is written in the human heart, and what God wants a person to do, He doesn't leave to someone else's words. He speaks for Himself; His words are inscribed in the secret heart.

Now I consider those who would prevent the birth of the passions almost as foolish as those who would destroy them, and those who think this has been my object hitherto are greatly mistaken.

Now I see those who would stop passions from being born as almost as foolish as those who would destroy them, and anyone who thinks that has been my goal up to now is seriously mistaken.

But should we reason rightly, if from the fact that passions are natural to man, we inferred that all the passions we feel in ourselves and behold in others are natural? Their source, indeed, is natural; but they have been swollen by a thousand other streams; they are a great river which is constantly growing, one in which we can scarcely find a single drop of the original stream. Our natural passions are few in number; they are the means to freedom, they tend to self-preservation. All those which enslave and destroy us have another source; nature does not bestow them on us; we seize on them in her despite.

But should we think clearly, if we assume that just because passions are natural to humans, all the feelings we experience ourselves and see in others are also natural? Their origin is indeed natural, but they have been amplified by countless other influences; they form a vast river that keeps expanding, where it's hard to find even a trace of the original source. Our natural passions are limited; they lead to freedom and promote self-preservation. All the passions that trap and harm us come from a different source; nature doesn’t give them to us; we take them out of defiance against her.

The origin of our passions, the root and spring of all the rest, the only one which is born with man, which never leaves him as long as he lives, is self-love; this passion is primitive, instinctive, it precedes all the rest, which are in a sense only modifications of it. In this sense, if you like, they are all natural. But most of these modifications are the result of external influences, without which they would never occur, and such modifications, far from being advantageous to us, are harmful. They change the original purpose and work against its end; then it is that man finds himself outside nature and at strife with himself.

The source of our desires—the foundation and beginning of everything else, the one thing we’re born with that stays with us for life—is self-love. This desire is primal and instinctive; it comes before all others, which are really just variations of it. In that sense, you could say they’re all natural. However, many of these variations come from outside influences that wouldn’t exist without them, and these changes, instead of helping us, are actually harmful. They twist the original purpose and go against what it was meant to achieve; that’s when a person finds themselves disconnected from nature and in conflict with themselves.

Self-love is always good, always in accordance with the order of nature. The preservation of our own life is specially entrusted to each one of us, and our first care is, and must be, to watch over our own life; and how can we continually watch over it, if we do not take the greatest interest in it?

Self-love is always a positive thing, always aligned with the natural order. Taking care of our own lives is especially our responsibility, and our primary concern should be to look after our own well-being; and how can we keep an eye on it constantly if we don't have a genuine interest in it?

Self-preservation requires, therefore, that we shall love ourselves; we must love ourselves above everything, and it follows directly from this that we love what contributes to our preservation. Every child becomes fond of its nurse; Romulus must have loved the she-wolf who suckled him. At first this attachment is quite unconscious; the individual is attracted to that which contributes to his welfare and repelled by that which is harmful; this is merely blind instinct. What transforms this instinct into feeling, the liking into love, the aversion into hatred, is the evident intention of helping or hurting us. We do not become passionately attached to objects without feeling, which only follow the direction given them; but those from which we expect benefit or injury from their internal disposition, from their will, those we see acting freely for or against us, inspire us with like feelings to those they exhibit towards us. Something does us good, we seek after it; but we love the person who does us good; something harms us and we shrink from it, but we hate the person who tries to hurt us.

Self-preservation demands that we love ourselves; we must prioritize our self-love above all else, which naturally leads us to love what supports our well-being. Every child grows fond of their caregiver; Romulus must have loved the she-wolf that nursed him. Initially, this bond is completely unconscious; a person is drawn to what benefits them and pushed away by what is harmful; this is just blind instinct. What turns this instinct into genuine emotion, liking into love, and aversion into hatred, is the clear intention of helping or harming us. We don’t form deep attachments to things without feeling; instead, our feelings follow the direction they take. But those we expect to benefit or harm us because of their inherent nature and will—those we see acting freely for or against us—evoke feelings similar to their own towards us. If something benefits us, we pursue it; but we love the person who brings us that good. If something harms us, we pull away from it; but we hate the person who tries to hurt us.

The child’s first sentiment is self-love, his second, which is derived from it, is love of those about him; for in his present state of weakness he is only aware of people through the help and attention received from them. At first his affection for his nurse and his governess is mere habit. He seeks them because he needs them and because he is happy when they are there; it is rather perception than kindly feeling. It takes a long time to discover not merely that they are useful to him, but that they desire to be useful to him, and then it is that he begins to love them.

The child's first feeling is self-love; his second, which comes from it, is love for those around him. In his current state of weakness, he only recognizes people through the help and attention they give him. At first, his affection for his nurse and governess is just a habit. He seeks them out because he needs them and feels happy when they’re around; it’s more about recognition than genuine warmth. It takes a long time for him to realize not just that they are helpful to him, but also that they want to be helpful to him, and that’s when he starts to truly love them.

So a child is naturally disposed to kindly feeling because he sees that every one about him is inclined to help him, and from this experience he gets the habit of a kindly feeling towards his species; but with the expansion of his relations, his needs, his dependence, active or passive, the consciousness of his relations to others is awakened, and leads to the sense of duties and preferences. Then the child becomes masterful, jealous, deceitful, and vindictive. If he is not compelled to obedience, when he does not see the usefulness of what he is told to do, he attributes it to caprice, to an intention of tormenting him, and he rebels. If people give in to him, as soon as anything opposes him he regards it as rebellion, as a determination to resist him; he beats the chair or table for disobeying him. Self-love, which concerns itself only with ourselves, is content to satisfy our own needs; but selfishness, which is always comparing self with others, is never satisfied and never can be; for this feeling, which prefers ourselves to others, requires that they should prefer us to themselves, which is impossible. Thus the tender and gentle passions spring from self-love, while the hateful and angry passions spring from selfishness. So it is the fewness of his needs, the narrow limits within which he can compare himself with others, that makes a man really good; what makes him really bad is a multiplicity of needs and dependence on the opinions of others. It is easy to see how we can apply this principle and guide every passion of children and men towards good or evil. True, man cannot always live alone, and it will be hard therefore to remain good; and this difficulty will increase of necessity as his relations with others are extended. For this reason, above all, the dangers of social life demand that the necessary skill and care shall be devoted to guarding the human heart against the depravity which springs from fresh needs.

A child naturally tends to feel kindness because they see that everyone around them wants to help. From this, they develop a habit of feeling positively toward others. However, as their relationships grow, so do their needs and dependencies, whether active or passive. This awareness of their connections to others brings about a sense of duty and preference. Then, the child may become demanding, jealous, deceitful, and vindictive. If they are not forced to obey when they don’t understand the purpose of what they’re told to do, they think it’s just random or an attempt to annoy them, which leads to rebellion. If others give in to them, they see any opposition as rebellion or a resistance to their will; they might even hit a chair or table for not obeying them. Self-love, which focuses only on our own needs, is okay with just satisfying ourselves. But selfishness, which constantly compares ourselves to others, is never satisfied and never will be, because this feeling that favors ourselves over others demands that others favor us over themselves, which is impossible. So, the gentle and tender feelings come from self-love, while hateful and angry feelings stem from selfishness. A person is genuinely good when they have few needs and limited comparisons with others; what makes someone truly bad is having many needs and relying heavily on what others think. It’s clear how we can use this principle to steer the feelings of both children and adults toward good or bad. Indeed, it’s challenging for anyone to live in isolation, making it harder to stay good, and this challenge grows as their relationships widen. For this reason, the risks of social life require us to skillfully guard the human heart against the corruption that arises from new needs.

Man’s proper study is that of his relation to his environment. So long as he only knows that environment through his physical nature, he should study himself in relation to things; this is the business of his childhood; when he begins to be aware of his moral nature, he should study himself in relation to his fellow-men; this is the business of his whole life, and we have now reached the time when that study should be begun.

Man's main focus should be on his connection to his environment. As long as he understands that environment solely through his physical being, he should examine himself in relation to things; this is the job of his childhood. Once he starts to recognize his moral nature, he should then study himself in relation to other people; this is the work of his entire life, and we’ve now arrived at a moment when that study should begin.

As soon as a man needs a companion he is no longer an isolated creature, his heart is no longer alone. All his relations with his species, all the affections of his heart, come into being along with this. His first passion soon arouses the rest.

As soon as a man seeks companionship, he is no longer isolated; his heart is no longer alone. All his connections with others, all the feelings in his heart, emerge alongside this. His first passion quickly ignites the others.

The direction of the instinct is uncertain. One sex is attracted by the other; that is the impulse of nature. Choice, preferences, individual likings, are the work of reason, prejudice, and habit; time and knowledge are required to make us capable of love; we do not love without reasoning or prefer without comparison. These judgments are none the less real, although they are formed unconsciously. True love, whatever you may say, will always be held in honour by mankind; for although its impulses lead us astray, although it does not bar the door of the heart to certain detestable qualities, although it even gives rise to these, yet it always presupposes certain worthy characteristics, without which we should be incapable of love. This choice, which is supposed to be contrary to reason, really springs from reason. We say Love is blind because his eyes are better than ours, and he perceives relations which we cannot discern. All women would be alike to a man who had no idea of virtue or beauty, and the first comer would always be the most charming. Love does not spring from nature, far from it; it is the curb and law of her desires; it is love that makes one sex indifferent to the other, the loved one alone excepted.

The direction of instinct is unclear. One sex is drawn to the other; that’s the natural impulse. Choices, preferences, and individual likes are shaped by reason, biases, and habits; it takes time and experience to make us capable of love; we don’t love without thinking or prefer without comparing. These judgments are still real, even if they form unconsciously. True love, no matter what anyone says, will always be valued by people; because even if its impulses lead us off course, and even if it doesn't keep out undesirable traits, and even if it sometimes causes these traits, it still assumes certain admirable qualities, without which we wouldn’t be able to love. This choice, which seems against reason, actually comes from reason. We say love is blind because its view is better than ours, and it sees connections that we can’t recognize. All women would seem similar to a man who has no understanding of virtue or beauty, and the first one he encounters would always be the most appealing. Love doesn’t come from nature; rather, it constrains and guides her desires; it’s love that causes one sex to be indifferent to the other, except for the one they love.

We wish to inspire the preference we feel; love must be mutual. To be loved we must be worthy of love; to be preferred we must be more worthy than the rest, at least in the eyes of our beloved. Hence we begin to look around among our fellows; we begin to compare ourselves with them, there is emulation, rivalry, and jealousy. A heart full to overflowing loves to make itself known; from the need of a mistress there soon springs the need of a friend. He who feels how sweet it is to be loved, desires to be loved by everybody; and there could be no preferences if there were not many that fail to find satisfaction. With love and friendship there begin dissensions, enmity, and hatred. I behold deference to other people’s opinions enthroned among all these divers passions, and foolish mortals, enslaved by her power, base their very existence merely on what other people think.

We want to inspire the feelings we have; love should be mutual. To be loved, we have to be deserving of love; to be preferred, we need to be seen as more deserving than others, at least in the eyes of our beloved. So, we start looking around at our peers; we begin comparing ourselves with them, leading to competition, rivalry, and jealousy. A heart that's full of love wants to express itself; from the need for a partner, the need for a friend naturally follows. Those who know how sweet it is to be loved want to be loved by everyone; and there can't be any preferences if many people fail to feel satisfied. With love and friendship come disagreements, conflict, and even hatred. I see respect for others' opinions taking center stage among all these different passions, and foolish people, trapped by its power, build their lives around what others think.

Expand these ideas and you will see where we get that form of selfishness which we call natural selfishness, and how selfishness ceases to be a simple feeling and becomes pride in great minds, vanity in little ones, and in both feeds continually at our neighbour’s cost. Passions of this kind, not having any germ in the child’s heart, cannot spring up in it of themselves; it is we who sow the seeds, and they never take root unless by our fault. Not so with the young man; they will find an entrance in spite of us. It is therefore time to change our methods.

Expand these ideas, and you’ll see where we get that kind of selfishness we call natural selfishness, and how selfishness goes beyond just a simple feeling to become pride in great minds, vanity in lesser ones, and in both cases, it constantly feeds at the expense of our neighbors. Passions like this don’t have any origin in a child’s heart; they can’t arise on their own. We are the ones who plant the seeds, and they only take root because of our mistakes. That’s not the case with young adults; these feelings will find a way in regardless of what we do. So, it’s time to change our approach.

Let us begin with some considerations of importance with regard to the critical stage under discussion. The change from childhood to puberty is not so clearly determined by nature but that it varies according to individual temperament and racial conditions. Everybody knows the differences which have been observed with regard to this between hot and cold countries, and every one sees that ardent temperaments mature earlier than others; but we may be mistaken as to the causes, and we may often attribute to physical causes what is really due to moral: this is one of the commonest errors in the philosophy of our times. The teaching of nature comes slowly; man’s lessons are mostly premature. In the former case, the senses kindle the imagination, in the latter the imagination kindles the senses; it gives them a precocious activity which cannot fail to enervate the individual and, in the long run, the race. It is a more general and more trustworthy fact than that of climatic influences, that puberty and sexual power is always more precocious among educated and civilised races, than among the ignorant and barbarous. [Footnote: “In towns,” says M. Buffon, “and among the well-to-do classes, children accustomed to plentiful and nourishing food sooner reach this state; in the country and among the poor, children are more backward, because of their poor and scanty food.” I admit the fact but not the explanation, for in the districts where the food of the villagers is plentiful and good, as in the Valais and even in some of the mountain districts of Italy, such as Friuli, the age of puberty for both sexes is quite as much later than in the heart of the towns, where, in order to gratify their vanity, people are often extremely parsimonious in the matter of food, and where most people, in the words of the proverb, have a velvet coat and an empty belly. It is astonishing to find in these mountainous regions big lads as strong as a man with shrill voices and smooth chins, and tall girls, well developed in other respects, without any trace of the periodic functions of their sex. This difference is, in my opinion, solely due to the fact that in the simplicity of their manners the imagination remains calm and peaceful, and does not stir the blood till much later, and thus their temperament is much less precocious.] Children are preternaturally quick to discern immoral habits under the cloak of decency with which they are concealed. The prim speech imposed upon them, the lessons in good behaviour, the veil of mystery you profess to hang before their eyes, serve but to stimulate their curiosity. It is plain, from the way you set about it, that they are meant to learn what you profess to conceal; and of all you teach them this is most quickly assimilated.

Let’s start with some important considerations regarding the critical stage we’re discussing. The transition from childhood to puberty isn’t strictly defined by nature; it varies based on individual temperament and cultural factors. Everyone is aware of the differences observed between hot and cold climates, and it’s clear that passionate temperaments mature faster than others. However, we might mistake the reasons for this, often attributing what is really a moral issue to physical causes: this is one of the most common mistakes in today’s philosophy. Nature’s lessons come slowly, while human teachings often come too early. In the first case, our senses ignite our imagination; in the second, our imagination fires up our senses, leading to an accelerated response that ultimately weakens the individual and, over time, the entire race. It’s a more general and reliable fact than climatic influences that puberty and sexual maturity tend to come earlier in educated and civilized races compared to those who are uneducated and primitive. [Footnote: “In towns,” says M. Buffon, “and among the well-off, children who have plenty of nourishing food reach this stage sooner; in the countryside and among the poor, children develop more slowly due to their limited and inadequate food.” I acknowledge the fact but not the explanation, as in areas where villagers have abundant and good food, like Valais and some mountain regions of Italy, such as Friuli, the age of puberty for both genders is indeed later than in urban centers, where, to satisfy their vanity, people are often very stingy with food, and where most people, as the saying goes, have a velvet coat and an empty belly. It’s surprising to see strong boys with high-pitched voices and smooth chins, and tall girls, well-developed in other ways, who show no signs of their sexual reproductive functions. This difference, in my view, is solely due to the fact that in the simplicity of their lives, their imaginations remain calm and peaceful, not stirring the blood until much later, which leads to a less precocious temperament.] Children are unnaturally quick to recognize immoral behaviors hidden behind a façade of decency. The polite language imposed on them, the lessons in good manners, and the veil of mystery you claim to place before them only serve to pique their curiosity. It’s clear from your approach that they are intended to uncover what you try to hide; of everything they learn, this is what they absorb the fastest.

Consult experience and you will find how far this foolish method hastens the work of nature and ruins the character. This is one of the chief causes of physical degeneration in our towns. The young people, prematurely exhausted, remain small, puny, and misshapen, they grow old instead of growing up, like a vine forced to bear fruit in spring, which fades and dies before autumn.

Check experience and you'll see how much this foolish method speeds up nature's process and damages character. This is one of the main reasons for physical decline in our cities. Young people, worn out too soon, stay small, weak, and deformed; they age instead of growing up, like a vine forced to bear fruit in spring, which withers and dies before autumn.

To know how far a happy ignorance may prolong the innocence of children, you must live among rude and simple people. It is a sight both touching and amusing to see both sexes, left to the protection of their own hearts, continuing the sports of childhood in the flower of youth and beauty, showing by their very familiarity the purity of their pleasures. When at length those delightful young people marry, they bestow on each other the first fruits of their person, and are all the dearer therefore. Swarms of strong and healthy children are the pledges of a union which nothing can change, and the fruit of the virtue of their early years.

To understand how much a happy ignorance can extend the innocence of children, you need to spend time with simple, unrefined people. It's both touching and amusing to see boys and girls, relying on their own hearts, continue the games of childhood during their youth and beauty, showing through their ease with each other the purity of their enjoyment. When these delightful young people finally marry, they share their first experiences with each other, which makes them even more special. A bunch of strong and healthy kids are the proof of a bond that nothing can alter, and the result of the goodness of their early years.

If the age at which a man becomes conscious of his sex is deferred as much by the effects of education as by the action of nature, it follows that this age may be hastened or retarded according to the way in which the child is brought up; and if the body gains or loses strength in proportion as its development is accelerated or retarded, it also follows that the more we try to retard it the stronger and more vigorous will the young man be. I am still speaking of purely physical consequences; you will soon see that this is not all.

If the age at which a man becomes aware of his sexuality is delayed as much by education as it is by natural development, then this age can be sped up or slowed down depending on how the child is raised. If the body gains or loses strength in relation to its growth being sped up or slowed down, then it also means that the more we try to delay it, the stronger and more vigorous the young man will become. I’m still talking about purely physical effects; you’ll soon see that there's more to it than that.

From these considerations I arrive at the solution of the question so often discussed—Should we enlighten children at an early period as to the objects of their curiosity, or is it better to put them off with decent shams? I think we need do neither. In the first place, this curiosity will not arise unless we give it a chance. We must therefore take care not to give it an opportunity. In the next place, questions one is not obliged to answer do not compel us to deceive those who ask them; it is better to bid the child hold his tongue than to tell him a lie. He will not be greatly surprised at this treatment if you have already accustomed him to it in matters of no importance. Lastly, if you decide to answer his questions, let it be with the greatest plainness, without mystery or confusion, without a smile. It is much less dangerous to satisfy a child’s curiosity than to stimulate it.

From these thoughts, I reach a conclusion on the question often debated—Should we educate children early about what they are curious about, or is it better to distract them with harmless lies? I believe we should do neither. First, this curiosity won’t develop unless we give it a chance. We need to make sure we don’t provide that opportunity. Second, questions we don’t have to answer don’t require us to mislead those who ask; it’s better to tell the child to be quiet than to tell a lie. He won’t be too surprised by this approach if you’ve already prepared him for it in trivial matters. Finally, if you choose to answer his questions, do so plainly, without any mystery or confusion, and without a smile. It’s much less risky to satisfy a child's curiosity than to encourage it.

Let your answers be always grave, brief, decided, and without trace of hesitation. I need not add that they should be true. We cannot teach children the danger of telling lies to men without realising, on the man’s part, the danger of telling lies to children. A single untruth on the part of the master will destroy the results of his education.

Let your answers always be serious, concise, confident, and without any hesitation. I don't need to remind you that they should be true. We can’t teach kids the dangers of lying to adults without acknowledging the danger of lying to kids from the adult's side. A single lie from the teacher can undo all the effort put into their education.

Complete ignorance with regard to certain matters is perhaps the best thing for children; but let them learn very early what it is impossible to conceal from them permanently. Either their curiosity must never be aroused, or it must be satisfied before the age when it becomes a source of danger. Your conduct towards your pupil in this respect depends greatly on his individual circumstances, the society in which he moves, the position in which he may find himself, etc. Nothing must be left to chance; and if you are not sure of keeping him in ignorance of the difference between the sexes till he is sixteen, take care you teach him before he is ten.

Complete ignorance about certain things might actually be the best for children, but they should learn early what it's impossible to hide from them forever. Either their curiosity should never be sparked, or it should be satisfied before it becomes a risk. Your approach to your student in this regard heavily depends on their personal situation, the social circle they are in, their future position, etc. Nothing should be left to chance, and if you're not confident you can keep them unaware of the difference between the sexes until they're sixteen, make sure to teach them before they turn ten.

I do not like people to be too fastidious in speaking with children, nor should they go out of their way to avoid calling a spade a spade; they are always found out if they do. Good manners in this respect are always perfectly simple; but an imagination soiled by vice makes the ear over-sensitive and compels us to be constantly refining our expressions. Plain words do not matter; it is lascivious ideas which must be avoided.

I don't think people should be overly picky when talking to kids, and they shouldn’t avoid being straightforward; it always comes back to haunt them. Good manners in this regard are usually pretty simple, but a mind tainted by immorality makes us overly sensitive and forces us to keep tweaking our words. It's not the plain words that are the problem; it's the inappropriate ideas that we need to steer clear of.

Although modesty is natural to man, it is not natural to children. Modesty only begins with the knowledge of evil; and how should children without this knowledge of evil have the feeling which results from it? To give them lessons in modesty and good conduct is to teach them that there are things shameful and wicked, and to give them a secret wish to know what these things are. Sooner or later they will find out, and the first spark which touches the imagination will certainly hasten the awakening of the senses. Blushes are the sign of guilt; true innocence is ashamed of nothing.

Although modesty is natural for adults, it's not something children possess. Modesty only starts with an understanding of wrongdoing; so how can children, lacking this knowledge, feel the shame that comes from it? Teaching them lessons about modesty and proper behavior introduces the idea that there are shameful and wicked things, creating a hidden curiosity to learn what these things are. Eventually, they will discover the truth, and the first spark that stirs their imagination will definitely accelerate their awakening to the senses. Blushing indicates guilt; true innocence feels no shame.

Children have not the same desires as men; but they are subject like them to the same disagreeable needs which offend the senses, and by this means they may receive the same lessons in propriety. Follow the mind of nature which has located in the same place the organs of secret pleasures and those of disgusting needs; she teaches us the same precautions at different ages, sometimes by means of one idea and sometimes by another; to the man through modesty, to the child through cleanliness.

Children don’t have the same desires as adults, but they, like adults, face the same unpleasant needs that can hurt the senses, and in this way, they can learn the same lessons about proper behavior. Nature has placed both the organs of secret pleasures and those of unpleasant needs in the same location, teaching us to be careful at different ages, sometimes through one idea and sometimes through another: to adults through modesty, and to children through cleanliness.

I can only find one satisfactory way of preserving the child’s innocence, to surround him by those who respect and love him. Without this all our efforts to keep him in ignorance fail sooner or later; a smile, a wink, a careless gesture tells him all we sought to hide; it is enough to teach him to perceive that there is something we want to hide from him. The delicate phrases and expressions employed by persons of politeness assume a knowledge which children ought not to possess, and they are quite out of place with them, but when we truly respect the child’s innocence we easily find in talking to him the simple phrases which befit him. There is a certain directness of speech which is suitable and pleasing to innocence; this is the right tone to adopt in order to turn the child from dangerous curiosity. By speaking simply to him about everything you do not let him suspect there is anything left unsaid. By connecting coarse words with the unpleasant ideas which belong to them, you quench the first spark of imagination; you do not forbid the child to say these words or to form these ideas; but without his knowing it you make him unwilling to recall them. And how much confusion is spared to those who speaking from the heart always say the right thing, and say it as they themselves have felt it!

I can only find one effective way to protect a child’s innocence: to surround them with people who respect and love them. Without this, all our efforts to keep them unaware will eventually fail; a smile, a wink, or a casual gesture reveals everything we tried to conceal. It’s enough to teach them that there’s something we want to keep hidden. The polite phrases and expressions used by adults imply a knowledge that children shouldn’t have, and they feel completely out of place with them. However, when we truly respect a child’s innocence, we can easily find simple phrases that are appropriate for them. There’s a certain straightforwardness in speech that is suitable and pleasing to innocence; this is the right tone to use to redirect a child’s dangerous curiosity. By speaking simply about everything, you prevent them from suspecting that anything is being left unsaid. By linking inappropriate words to the unpleasant ideas they represent, you snuff out the first flicker of imagination; you don’t prohibit the child from using these words or having these thoughts, but without them realizing it, you make them reluctant to think of them again. And how much confusion is avoided by those who, speaking from the heart, always say the right things in a way that reflects their true feelings!

“Where do little children come from?” This is an embarrassing question, which occurs very naturally to children, one which foolishly or wisely answered may decide their health and their morals for life. The quickest way for a mother to escape from it without deceiving her son is to tell him to hold his tongue. That will serve its turn if he has always been accustomed to it in matters of no importance, and if he does not suspect some mystery from this new way of speaking. But the mother rarely stops there. “It is the married people’s secret,” she will say, “little boys should not be so curious.” That is all very well so far as the mother is concerned, but she may be sure that the little boy, piqued by her scornful manner, will not rest till he has found out the married people’s secret, which will very soon be the case.

“Where do little children come from?” This is an awkward question that kids naturally ask, and how it's answered—whether foolishly or wisely—can impact their wellbeing and morals for life. The easiest way for a mother to dodge it without misleading her son is to tell him to be quiet. That works if he's used to it in matters that don’t really matter and doesn’t suspect a mystery from this new response. But the mother usually doesn’t stop there. “It’s a secret for married people,” she might say, “little boys shouldn’t be so curious.” That’s fine for her, but she can be sure that the little boy, annoyed by her dismissive tone, won't rest until he discovers the married people’s secret, which will happen pretty quickly.

Let me tell you a very different answer which I heard given to the same question, one which made all the more impression on me, coming, as it did, from a woman, modest in speech and behaviour, but one who was able on occasion, for the welfare of her child and for the cause of virtue, to cast aside the false fear of blame and the silly jests of the foolish. Not long before the child had passed a small stone which had torn the passage, but the trouble was over and forgotten. “Mamma,” said the eager child, “where do little children come from?” “My child,” replied his mother without hesitation, “women pass them with pains that sometimes cost their life.” Let fools laugh and silly people be shocked; but let the wise inquire if it is possible to find a wiser answer and one which would better serve its purpose.

Let me share a very different answer I heard to the same question, one that really stuck with me, especially since it came from a woman who was humble in her speech and behavior but could, when necessary, set aside her fear of judgment and the foolish jokes of others for the sake of her child and virtue. Not long before, the child had passed a small stone that had caused some pain, but that was behind them now. “Mommy,” asked the curious child, “where do little kids come from?” “My child,” the mother replied without a second thought, “women give birth through painful experiences that sometimes even cost them their lives.” Let the foolish laugh and the easily offended be outraged; but let the wise consider if there could be a smarter answer that serves the purpose better.

In the first place the thought of a need of nature with which the child is well acquainted turns his thoughts from the idea of a mysterious process. The accompanying ideas of pain and death cover it with a veil of sadness which deadens the imagination and suppresses curiosity; everything leads the mind to the results, not the causes, of child-birth. This is the information to which this answer leads. If the repugnance inspired by this answer should permit the child to inquire further, his thoughts are turned to the infirmities of human nature, disgusting things, images of pain. What chance is there for any stimulation of desire in such a conversation? And yet you see there is no departure from truth, no need to deceive the scholar in order to teach him.

First of all, the idea of a natural need that the child knows well pulls their thoughts away from the concept of a mysterious process. The accompanying thoughts of pain and death shroud it in a sadness that dulls the imagination and stifles curiosity; everything directs the mind to the results, not the causes, of childbirth. This is the information that this answer leads to. If the aversion caused by this answer allows the child to ask more questions, their thoughts turn to the weaknesses of human nature, unpleasant things, images of pain. What chance is there for any spark of desire in such a conversation? Yet, you can see that there is no departure from the truth, and there’s no need to mislead the learner in order to teach them.

Your children read; in the course of their reading they meet with things they would never have known without reading. Are they students, their imagination is stimulated and quickened in the silence of the study. Do they move in the world of society, they hear a strange jargon, they see conduct which makes a great impression on them; they have been told so continually that they are men that in everything men do in their presence they at once try to find how that will suit themselves; the conduct of others must indeed serve as their pattern when the opinions of others are their law. Servants, dependent on them, and therefore anxious to please them, flatter them at the expense of their morals; giggling governesses say things to the four-year-old child which the most shameless woman would not dare to say to them at fifteen. They soon forget what they said, but the child has not forgotten what he heard. Loose conversation prepares the way for licentious conduct; the child is debauched by the cunning lacquey, and the secret of the one guarantees the secret of the other.

Your kids read; through their reading, they come across things they would never have known otherwise. If they're students, their imagination is sparked and energized in the quiet of study. If they’re socializing, they hear unfamiliar language and see behaviors that leave a strong impression on them; they've been told so often that they are adults that they instantly try to see how everything adults do relates to them. The actions of others become their model when the views of others dictate their behavior. Servants, relying on them and eager to please, flatter them in ways that compromise their morals; giggling governesses say things to the four-year-old that even the boldest woman wouldn't dare to say to them at fifteen. They quickly forget what they said, but the child doesn’t forget what he heard. Casual conversation paves the way for inappropriate behavior; the child is corrupted by the sly servant, and the secret of one ensures the secret of the other.

The child brought up in accordance with his age is alone. He knows no attachment but that of habit, he loves his sister like his watch, and his friend like his dog. He is unconscious of his sex and his species; men and women are alike unknown; he does not connect their sayings and doings with himself, he neither sees nor hears, or he pays no heed to them; he is no more concerned with their talk than their actions; he has nothing to do with it. This is no artificial error induced by our method, it is the ignorance of nature. The time is at hand when that same nature will take care to enlighten her pupil, and then only does she make him capable of profiting by the lessons without danger. This is our principle; the details of its rules are outside my subject; and the means I suggest with regard to other matters will still serve to illustrate this.

The child who is raised according to their age is alone. They know no attachment beyond habit; they love their sister like their watch and their friend like their dog. They are unaware of their gender and their species; men and women are completely unfamiliar to them. They don’t connect what others say and do with themselves; they neither see nor hear, or if they do, they don’t pay attention to it. They care no more about what others say than what they do; it’s irrelevant to them. This isn’t a false idea created by our approach, but a natural ignorance. The time will come when that same nature will make sure to enlighten them, and only then will they be able to benefit from the lessons without risk. This is our principle; the specifics of its rules are beyond my topic, and the suggestions I have regarding other matters will still help illustrate this.

Do you wish to establish law and order among the rising passions, prolong the period of their development, so that they may have time to find their proper place as they arise. Then they are controlled by nature herself, not by man; your task is merely to leave it in her hands. If your pupil were alone, you would have nothing to do; but everything about him enflames his imagination. He is swept along on the torrent of conventional ideas; to rescue him you must urge him in the opposite direction. Imagination must be curbed by feeling and reason must silence the voice of conventionality. Sensibility is the source of all the passions, imagination determines their course. Every creature who is aware of his relations must be disturbed by changes in these relations and when he imagines or fancies he imagines others better adapted to his nature. It is the errors of the imagination which transmute into vices the passions of finite beings, of angels even, if indeed they have passions; for they must needs know the nature of every creature to realise what relations are best adapted to themselves.

Do you want to establish law and order among the growing emotions, allowing them time to develop so they can find their rightful place as they surface? Then they will be guided by nature itself, not by humans; your job is simply to let her take the lead. If your student were alone, there would be nothing you need to do; however, everything around him fuels his imagination. He is carried away by the flood of societal ideas; to save him, you need to encourage him to think differently. Imagination must be restrained by feelings, and reason should quiet the voice of convention. Sensitivity is the source of all emotions, while imagination shapes their direction. Every being who understands their relationships will be unsettled by changes in them, and when they envision alternatives, they often picture ones that suit their nature better. It’s the mistakes of the imagination that turn the natural emotions of finite beings, and even angels if they have emotions, into vices; for they must understand the nature of every creature to know which relationships work best for them.

This is the sum of human wisdom with regard to the use of the passions. First, to be conscious of the true relations of man both in the species and the individual; second, to control all the affections in accordance with these relations.

This is the total understanding of human wisdom about managing emotions. First, be aware of the true relationships between people as a group and as individuals; second, control all feelings based on these relationships.

But is man in a position to control his affections according to such and such relations? No doubt he is, if he is able to fix his imagination on this or that object, or to form this or that habit. Moreover, we are not so much concerned with what a man can do for himself, as with what we can do for our pupil through our choice of the circumstances in which he shall be placed. To show the means by which he may be kept in the path of nature is to show plainly enough how he might stray from that path.

But can a person control their feelings based on certain relationships? Definitely, if they're able to focus their imagination on one thing or develop a particular habit. Furthermore, we're not just interested in what a person can do for themselves, but in what we can do for our student by choosing the right circumstances for them. Demonstrating how they can stay aligned with their true nature also highlights how they could deviate from that path.

So long as his consciousness is confined to himself there is no morality in his actions; it is only when it begins to extend beyond himself that he forms first the sentiments and then the ideas of good and ill, which make him indeed a man, and an integral part of his species. To begin with we must therefore confine our observations to this point.

As long as his awareness is limited to himself, there is no morality in what he does; it's only when his awareness starts to reach beyond himself that he develops feelings and then ideas of right and wrong, which truly make him a human being and a vital part of his species. So, we should start by focusing our observations on this point.

These observations are difficult to make, for we must reject the examples before our eyes, and seek out those in which the successive developments follow the order of nature.

These observations are tough to make because we have to ignore the examples right in front of us and look for those where the successive developments follow the natural order.

A child sophisticated, polished, and civilised, who is only awaiting the power to put into practice the precocious instruction he has received, is never mistaken with regard to the time when this power is acquired. Far from awaiting it, he accelerates it; he stirs his blood to a premature ferment; he knows what should be the object of his desires long before those desires are experienced. It is not nature which stimulates him; it is he who forces the hand of nature; she has nothing to teach him when he becomes a man; he was a man in thought long before he was a man in reality.

A child who is sophisticated, polished, and civilized, just waiting for the ability to put into action the early lessons he's learned, is never confused about when he gains that power. Instead of waiting for it, he speeds it up; he ignites a rush of excitement within himself before it's time. He understands what his desires should be long before he actually feels them. It’s not nature that drives him; he’s the one pushing nature forward. Nature has nothing to teach him when he becomes an adult; he’s been adult in mindset long before he becomes one in reality.

The true course of nature is slower and more gradual. Little by little the blood grows warmer, the faculties expand, the character is formed. The wise workman who directs the process is careful to perfect every tool before he puts it to use; the first desires are preceded by a long period of unrest, they are deceived by a prolonged ignorance, they know not what they want. The blood ferments and bubbles; overflowing vitality seeks to extend its sphere. The eye grows brighter and surveys others, we begin to be interested in those about us, we begin to feel that we are not meant to live alone; thus the heart is thrown open to human affection, and becomes capable of attachment.

The natural process is slower and more gradual. Bit by bit, our blood warms up, our abilities develop, and our character takes shape. The skilled craftsman who oversees this process makes sure to perfect each tool before using it; our initial desires are preceded by a long time of restlessness, blinded by prolonged ignorance, and we don’t even know what we truly want. Our blood simmers and bubbles; overflowing energy wants to expand its reach. Our eyes brighten as we start to notice others, realizing we aren't meant to be alone; thus, the heart opens up to human connection and becomes ready for attachment.

The first sentiment of which the well-trained youth is capable is not love but friendship. The first work of his rising imagination is to make known to him his fellows; the species affects him before the sex. Here is another advantage to be gained from prolonged innocence; you may take advantage of his dawning sensibility to sow the first seeds of humanity in the heart of the young adolescent. This advantage is all the greater because this is the only time in his life when such efforts may be really successful.

The first feeling a well-trained young person develops isn't love but friendship. The first thing their growing imagination does is help them recognize their peers; they relate to their kind before their gender. This is another benefit of extended innocence; you can use their emerging sensitivities to plant the initial seeds of humanity in the heart of a young teenager. This benefit is even more significant because it's the only time in their life when such efforts can truly succeed.

I have always observed that young men, corrupted in early youth and addicted to women and debauchery, are inhuman and cruel; their passionate temperament makes them impatient, vindictive, and angry; their imagination fixed on one object only, refuses all others; mercy and pity are alike unknown to them; they would have sacrificed father, mother, the whole world, to the least of their pleasures. A young man, on the other hand, brought up in happy innocence, is drawn by the first stirrings of nature to the tender and affectionate passions; his warm heart is touched by the sufferings of his fellow-creatures; he trembles with delight when he meets his comrade, his arms can embrace tenderly, his eyes can shed tears of pity; he learns to be sorry for offending others through his shame at causing annoyance. If the eager warmth of his blood makes him quick, hasty, and passionate, a moment later you see all his natural kindness of heart in the eagerness of his repentance; he weeps, he groans over the wound he has given; he would atone for the blood he has shed with his own; his anger dies away, his pride abases itself before the consciousness of his wrong-doing. Is he the injured party, in the height of his fury an excuse, a word, disarms him; he forgives the wrongs of others as whole-heartedly as he repairs his own. Adolescence is not the age of hatred or vengeance; it is the age of pity, mercy, and generosity. Yes, I maintain, and I am not afraid of the testimony of experience, a youth of good birth, one who has preserved his innocence up to the age of twenty, is at that age the best, the most generous, the most loving, and the most lovable of men. You never heard such a thing; I can well believe that philosophers such as you, brought up among the corruption of the public schools, are unaware of it.

I've always noticed that young men who are corrupted early on and addicted to women and excess are often inhumane and cruel. Their passionate nature makes them impatient, vengeful, and angry; their imagination fixates on one thing alone, ignoring everything else. They don't know mercy or compassion; they would sacrifice their parents or anyone for the smallest pleasure. Conversely, a young man raised in happy innocence is drawn by his initial feelings to tender and affectionate passions. His warm heart is moved by the sufferings of others; he feels joy when he sees his friend, he can embrace lovingly, and his eyes can shed tears of compassion. He learns to regret offending others, feeling ashamed for causing them discomfort. If the eagerness of his blood makes him quick and passionate, a moment later, you see his natural kindness in his eagerness to apologize; he cries, he mourns over the hurt he caused; he would make up for the blood he spilled with his own. His anger fades, and his pride diminishes in the face of his wrongdoing. If he's the one wronged, even in his fury, a simple excuse or word can disarm him; he forgives others’ wrongs as wholeheartedly as he seeks to right his own. Adolescence is not a time for hatred or vengeance; it's a time for compassion, mercy, and generosity. Yes, I firmly believe, without fear of rebuttal from experience, that a well-bred youth who has kept his innocence until twenty is, at that age, the best, most generous, most loving, and most lovable man. You might find this hard to believe; I can understand that philosophers like you, raised amid the corruption of public schools, might not see it.

Man’s weakness makes him sociable. Our common sufferings draw our hearts to our fellow-creatures; we should have no duties to mankind if we were not men. Every affection is a sign of insufficiency; if each of us had no need of others, we should hardly think of associating with them. So our frail happiness has its roots in our weakness. A really happy man is a hermit; God only enjoys absolute happiness; but which of us has any idea what that means? If any imperfect creature were self-sufficing, what would he have to enjoy? To our thinking he would be wretched and alone. I do not understand how one who has need of nothing could love anything, nor do I understand how he who loves nothing can be happy.

A person's weaknesses make them social. Our shared struggles connect us with others; we wouldn’t have any responsibilities toward humanity if we weren’t human ourselves. Every emotion shows a lack of something; if we didn’t rely on one another, we probably wouldn’t even think to spend time with anyone else. So, our fragile happiness is rooted in our vulnerabilities. A truly happy person is a hermit; only God experiences complete happiness, but who among us really understands what that means? If any imperfect being could be entirely self-sufficient, what would they have to enjoy? We think they would be miserable and isolated. I don’t get how someone who needs nothing could love anything, nor do I understand how someone who loves nothing can be happy.

Hence it follows that we are drawn towards our fellow-creatures less by our feeling for their joys than for their sorrows; for in them we discern more plainly a nature like our own, and a pledge of their affection for us. If our common needs create a bond of interest our common sufferings create a bond of affection. The sight of a happy man arouses in others envy rather than love, we are ready to accuse him of usurping a right which is not his, of seeking happiness for himself alone, and our selfishness suffers an additional pang in the thought that this man has no need of us. But who does not pity the wretch when he beholds his sufferings? who would not deliver him from his woes if a wish could do it? Imagination puts us more readily in the place of the miserable man than of the happy man; we feel that the one condition touches us more nearly than the other. Pity is sweet, because, when we put ourselves in the place of one who suffers, we are aware, nevertheless, of the pleasure of not suffering like him. Envy is bitter, because the sight of a happy man, far from putting the envious in his place, inspires him with regret that he is not there. The one seems to exempt us from the pains he suffers, the other seems to deprive us of the good things he enjoys.

It follows that we are more drawn to our fellow beings by their sorrows than their joys because their struggles remind us of our own nature and signal their connection to us. While our shared needs create a bond of interest, our shared sufferings create a bond of affection. Seeing a happy person often sparks envy rather than love; we tend to accuse him of taking a privilege that doesn’t belong to him, of pursuing happiness only for himself, and our selfishness is further hurt by the thought that this person doesn’t need us. But who doesn’t feel sympathy for someone in pain? Who wouldn’t want to relieve their suffering if they could just wish it away? Imagination allows us to relate more to the miserable than the happy; we realize that misery hits closer to home. Pity feels sweet because when we empathize with someone suffering, we can't help but appreciate our own lack of suffering. Envy is bitter because seeing someone happy doesn’t put us in their shoes; instead, it reminds us of our own lack and fills us with regret that we aren’t there. One feeling seems to free us from the pain they endure, while the other takes away the joy of what they have.

Do you desire to stimulate and nourish the first stirrings of awakening sensibility in the heart of a young man, do you desire to incline his disposition towards kindly deed and thought, do not cause the seeds of pride, vanity, and envy to spring up in him through the misleading picture of the happiness of mankind; do not show him to begin with the pomp of courts, the pride of palaces, the delights of pageants; do not take him into society and into brilliant assemblies; do not show him the outside of society till you have made him capable of estimating it at its true worth. To show him the world before he is acquainted with men, is not to train him, but to corrupt him; not to teach, but to mislead.

If you want to inspire and nurture the first signs of awareness in a young man's heart, if you want to guide his character toward kindness and positive thoughts, avoid planting the seeds of pride, vanity, and jealousy in him by presenting a false image of human happiness. Don’t start with the extravagance of courts, the arrogance of palaces, or the excitement of festivities. Don’t introduce him to society or glamorous gatherings; don’t expose him to the superficiality of the world until he’s ready to understand its true value. Showing him the world before he knows people will not educate him, but will lead him astray; it won’t teach him, but will mislead him.

By nature men are neither kings, nobles, courtiers, nor millionaires. All men are born poor and naked, all are liable to the sorrows of life, its disappointments, its ills, its needs, its suffering of every kind; and all are condemned at length to die. This is what it really means to be a man, this is what no mortal can escape. Begin then with the study of the essentials of humanity, that which really constitutes mankind.

By nature, men are neither kings, nobles, courtiers, nor millionaires. Everyone is born poor and vulnerable, facing life's sorrows, disappointments, hardships, needs, and all kinds of suffering; and ultimately, everyone is destined to die. This is the essence of being human, a truth that no one can avoid. So, start by exploring the fundamental aspects of humanity, what truly defines mankind.

At sixteen the adolescent knows what it is to suffer, for he himself has suffered; but he scarcely realises that others suffer too; to see without feeling is not knowledge, and as I have said again and again the child who does not picture the feelings of others knows no ills but his own; but when his imagination is kindled by the first beginnings of growing sensibility, he begins to perceive himself in his fellow-creatures, to be touched by their cries, to suffer in their sufferings. It is at this time that the sorrowful picture of suffering humanity should stir his heart with the first touch of pity he has ever known.

At sixteen, a teenager understands what it means to suffer because they have experienced pain themselves; however, they hardly realize that others suffer too. Just seeing without feeling doesn’t equate to real understanding. As I’ve said repeatedly, a child who can’t imagine how others feel only knows their own troubles. But when their imagination is sparked by the beginnings of growing empathy, they start to see themselves in others, to be moved by their cries, to experience their pain. This is when the sad reality of suffering humanity should awaken their heart with the first real sense of compassion they’ve ever felt.

If it is not easy to discover this opportunity in your scholars, whose fault is it? You taught them so soon to play at feeling, you taught them so early its language, that speaking continually in the same strain they turn your lessons against yourself, and give you no chance of discovering when they cease to lie, and begin to feel what they say. But look at Emile; I have led him up to this age, and he has neither felt nor pretended to feel. He has never said, “I love you dearly,” till he knew what it was to love; he has never been taught what expression to assume when he enters the room of his father, his mother, or his sick tutor; he has not learnt the art of affecting a sorrow he does not feel. He has never pretended to weep for the death of any one, for he does not know what it is to die. There is the same insensibility in his heart as in his manners. Indifferent, like every child, to every one but himself, he takes no interest in any one; his only peculiarity is that he will not pretend to take such an interest; he is less deceitful than others.

If it's hard to see this opportunity in your students, whose fault is that? You taught them to play at feelings too soon, you taught them its language so early that by constantly speaking the same way, they turn your lessons against you and give you no chance to tell when they stop lying and start genuinely feeling what they say. But look at Emile; I’ve brought him to this age, and he has neither felt nor pretended to feel. He’s never said, “I love you dearly,” until he truly understood what it means to love. He hasn’t been taught how to act when he enters the room of his father, mother, or sick tutor; he hasn’t learned to fake a sorrow he doesn’t feel. He has never pretended to cry for someone’s death because he doesn’t know what it means to die. His heart is as indifferent as his behavior. Like every child, he’s only concerned about himself, showing no interest in anyone else; his only distinction is that he won’t fake that interest; he is less deceptive than the others.

Emile having thought little about creatures of feeling will be a long time before he knows what is meant by pain and death. Groans and cries will begin to stir his compassion, he will turn away his eyes at the sight of blood; the convulsions of a dying animal will cause him I know not what anguish before he knows the source of these impulses. If he were still stupid and barbarous he would not feel them; if he were more learned he would recognise their source; he has compared ideas too frequently already to be insensible, but not enough to know what he feels.

Emile, having given little thought to the feelings of others, will take a long time to understand what pain and death really mean. The sounds of groans and cries will start to awaken his compassion, and he will look away at the sight of blood; the convulsions of a dying animal will bring him a kind of anguish that he won't fully understand yet. If he were still ignorant and uncivilized, he wouldn’t feel these things at all; if he were more knowledgeable, he would recognize where these feelings come from. He has compared ideas often enough to not be unaware, but not enough to fully understand what he is feeling.

So pity is born, the first relative sentiment which touches the human heart according to the order of nature. To become sensitive and pitiful the child must know that he has fellow-creatures who suffer as he has suffered, who feel the pains he has felt, and others which he can form some idea of, being capable of feeling them himself. Indeed, how can we let ourselves be stirred by pity unless we go beyond ourselves, and identify ourselves with the suffering animal, by leaving, so to speak, our own nature and taking his. We only suffer so far as we suppose he suffers; the suffering is not ours but his. So no one becomes sensitive till his imagination is aroused and begins to carry him outside himself.

So pity arises, the first emotional response that touches the human heart by nature. For a child to become sensitive and empathetic, they must understand that there are others who suffer like they do, who feel the pain they’ve experienced, and others that they can imagine, as they are capable of feeling those emotions themselves. In fact, how can we feel pity unless we reach beyond ourselves and identify with the suffering of another being, leaving our own perspective and adopting theirs? We only feel pain to the extent that we believe the other being is suffering; the suffering is not ours but theirs. Therefore, no one becomes empathetic until their imagination is sparked and begins to transport them outside of themselves.

What should we do to stimulate and nourish this growing sensibility, to direct it, and to follow its natural bent? Should we not present to the young man objects on which the expansive force of his heart may take effect, objects which dilate it, which extend it to other creatures, which take him outside himself? should we not carefully remove everything that narrows, concentrates, and strengthens the power of the human self? that is to say, in other words, we should arouse in him kindness, goodness, pity, and beneficence, all the gentle and attractive passions which are naturally pleasing to man; those passions prevent the growth of envy, covetousness, hatred, all the repulsive and cruel passions which make our sensibility not merely a cipher but a minus quantity, passions which are the curse of those who feel them.

What should we do to encourage and nurture this growing awareness, to guide it, and to follow its natural inclination? Should we not present young people with experiences that allow the expansive force of their hearts to flourish, experiences that broaden their perspective, connect them with others, and encourage them to look beyond themselves? Should we not carefully eliminate everything that narrows, focuses, and amplifies selfish tendencies? In other words, we should inspire in them kindness, goodness, compassion, and generosity—all the gentle and appealing feelings that are inherently satisfying to people. These feelings help prevent the development of envy, greed, and hatred, which are all the unpleasant and cruel emotions that turn our sensitivity into something negative, emotions that are a burden to those who experience them.

I think I can sum up the whole of the preceding reflections in two or three maxims, definite, straightforward, and easy to understand.

I believe I can sum up all the previous thoughts in two or three clear, straightforward, and easy-to-understand principles.

FIRST MAXIM.—It is not in human nature to put ourselves in the place of those who are happier than ourselves, but only in the place of those who can claim our pity.

FIRST MAXIM.—It’s not in human nature to put ourselves in the shoes of those who are happier than we are, but only in the shoes of those who deserve our sympathy.

If you find exceptions to this rule, they are more apparent than real. Thus we do not put ourselves in the place of the rich or great when we become fond of them; even when our affection is real, we only appropriate to ourselves a part of their welfare. Sometimes we love the rich man in the midst of misfortunes; but so long as he prospers he has no real friend, except the man who is not deceived by appearances, who pities rather than envies him in spite of his prosperity.

If you find exceptions to this rule, they’re more about appearances than reality. So, we don’t really put ourselves in the shoes of the rich or powerful when we become fond of them; even if our feelings are genuine, we only take a part of their well-being for ourselves. Sometimes we love the wealthy person when they face misfortune; but as long as they’re doing well, they don’t have any true friends, except for the person who isn’t fooled by appearances, who feels compassion rather than envy for them despite their success.

The happiness belonging to certain states of life appeals to us; take, for instance, the life of a shepherd in the country. The charm of seeing these good people so happy is not poisoned by envy; we are genuinely interested in them. Why is this? Because we feel we can descend into this state of peace and innocence and enjoy the same happiness; it is an alternative which only calls up pleasant thoughts, so long as the wish is as good as the deed. It is always pleasant to examine our stores, to contemplate our own wealth, even when we do not mean to spend it.

The happiness associated with certain lifestyles appeals to us; take, for example, the life of a shepherd in the countryside. The joy of seeing these good people so content isn’t tainted by jealousy; we are sincerely interested in them. Why is that? Because we feel we could also embrace this state of peace and innocence and experience the same happiness; it’s an option that only brings to mind positive thoughts, as long as the desire is as good as the action. It’s always enjoyable to reflect on what we have, to think about our own wealth, even if we don’t intend to use it.

From this we see that to incline a young man to humanity you must not make him admire the brilliant lot of others; you must show him life in its sorrowful aspects and arouse his fears. Thus it becomes clear that he must force his own way to happiness, without interfering with the happiness of others.

From this, we understand that to guide a young man towards compassion, you shouldn't make him envy the glamorous lives of others; instead, you should reveal the sad realities of life and awaken his fears. It becomes clear that he must carve out his own path to happiness without stepping on the happiness of others.

SECOND MAXIM.—We never pity another’s woes unless we know we may suffer in like manner ourselves.

SECOND MAXIM.—We only feel sympathy for someone else's troubles when we realize that we might experience the same kind of suffering ourselves.

     “Non ignara mali, miseris succurrere disco.”—Virgil.
“Knowing the trouble, I learn to help the unfortunate.” —Virgil.

I know nothing go fine, so full of meaning, so touching, so true as these words.

I know nothing that’s as great, so meaningful, so moving, and so real as these words.

Why have kings no pity on their people? Because they never expect to be ordinary men. Why are the rich so hard on the poor? Because they have no fear of becoming poor. Why do the nobles look down upon the people? Because a nobleman will never be one of the lower classes. Why are the Turks generally kinder and more hospitable than ourselves? Because, under their wholly arbitrary system of government, the rank and wealth of individuals are always uncertain and precarious, so that they do not regard poverty and degradation as conditions with which they have no concern; to-morrow, any one may himself be in the same position as those on whom he bestows alms to-day. This thought, which occurs again and again in eastern romances, lends them a certain tenderness which is not to be found in our pretentious and harsh morality.

Why do kings have no compassion for their people? Because they don’t see themselves as ordinary men. Why are the rich so hard on the poor? Because they don’t fear becoming poor. Why do nobles look down on the common people? Because a nobleman believes he will never belong to the lower classes. Why are the Turks generally kinder and more welcoming than we are? Because, under their completely arbitrary government system, the status and wealth of individuals are always uncertain and unstable, so they don’t view poverty and degradation as issues that don’t concern them; tomorrow, anyone could find themselves in the same situation as those they give charity to today. This idea, which appears repeatedly in Eastern stories, gives them a certain warmth that’s missing from our pretentious and harsh sense of morality.

So do not train your pupil to look down from the height of his glory upon the sufferings of the unfortunate, the labours of the wretched, and do not hope to teach him to pity them while he considers them as far removed from himself. Make him thoroughly aware of the fact that the fate of these unhappy persons may one day be his own, that his feet are standing on the edge of the abyss, into which he may be plunged at any moment by a thousand unexpected irresistible misfortunes. Teach him to put no trust in birth, health, or riches; show him all the changes of fortune; find him examples—there are only too many of them—in which men of higher rank than himself have sunk below the condition of these wretched ones. Whether by their own fault or another’s is for the present no concern of ours; does he indeed know the meaning of the word fault? Never interfere with the order in which he acquires knowledge, and teach him only through the means within his reach; it needs no great learning to perceive that all the prudence of mankind cannot make certain whether he will be alive or dead in an hour’s time, whether before nightfall he will not be grinding his teeth in the pangs of nephritis, whether a month hence he will be rich or poor, whether in a year’s time he may not be rowing an Algerian galley under the lash of the slave-driver. Above all do not teach him this, like his catechism, in cold blood; let him see and feel the calamities which overtake men; surprise and startle his imagination with the perils which lurk continually about a man’s path; let him see the pitfalls all about him, and when he hears you speak of them, let him cling more closely to you for fear lest he should fall. “You will make him timid and cowardly,” do you say? We shall see; let us make him kindly to begin with, that is what matters most.

So don’t train your student to look down from his position of success at the hardships of the unfortunate and the struggles of the miserable. Don’t expect him to learn to empathize with them while he views them as completely separate from himself. Help him understand that the fate of these unhappy people could one day be his own, that he’s standing on the edge of a cliff, into which he could fall at any moment due to countless unexpected misfortunes. Teach him not to rely on birth, health, or wealth; show him the ups and downs of life; give him examples—there are far too many—of people from higher social classes who have ended up worse off than these unfortunate individuals. Whether it’s due to their own actions or someone else’s isn’t our concern right now; does he even understand what the word “fault” means? Never interfere with the order in which he gains knowledge, and teach him only through the means available to him; it doesn’t take much intelligence to realize that no amount of human wisdom can guarantee whether he’ll be alive or dead in an hour, whether he’ll be suffering from pain before nightfall, whether he’ll be rich or poor a month from now, or whether he might be rowing in an Algerian galley under the whip of a slave driver a year from now. Above all, don’t teach him this in a detached way like a lesson from a textbook; let him see and experience the disasters that befall people; surprise and shock his imagination with the dangers that are always lurking in a person’s path; let him see the traps all around him, and when he hears you talk about them, let him hold onto you tightly out of fear of falling. “You’ll make him timid and cowardly,” you say? We’ll see; let’s make him kind first, that’s what really matters.

THIRD MAXIM.—The pity we feel for others is proportionate, not to the amount of the evil, but to the feelings we attribute to the sufferers.

THIRD MAXIM.—The compassion we feel for others is based not on the extent of their suffering, but on the emotions we believe they are experiencing.

We only pity the wretched so far as we think they feel the need of pity. The bodily effect of our sufferings is less than one would suppose; it is memory that prolongs the pain, imagination which projects it into the future, and makes us really to be pitied. This is, I think, one of the reasons why we are more callous to the sufferings of animals than of men, although a fellow-feeling ought to make us identify ourselves equally with either. We scarcely pity the cart-horse in his shed, for we do not suppose that while he is eating his hay he is thinking of the blows he has received and the labours in store for him. Neither do we pity the sheep grazing in the field, though we know it is about to be slaughtered, for we believe it knows nothing of the fate in store for it. In this way we also become callous to the fate of our fellow-men, and the rich console themselves for the harm done by them to the poor, by the assumption that the poor are too stupid to feel. I usually judge of the value any one puts on the welfare of his fellow-creatures by what he seems to think of them. We naturally think lightly of the happiness of those we despise. It need not surprise you that politicians speak so scornfully of the people, and philosophers profess to think mankind so wicked.

We only feel sorry for the unfortunate as much as we think they need our sympathy. The physical impact of our suffering is less than we might think; it’s our memories that keep the pain alive, and our imaginations that project it into the future, making us truly deserving of pity. I believe this is part of why we are more indifferent to the suffering of animals than to that of humans, even though we should empathize equally with both. We hardly feel sorry for the cart horse in its stall because we don’t think it’s dwelling on the blows it has received or the work ahead. Likewise, we don’t pity the sheep grazing in the field, even though we know it’s about to be slaughtered, because we assume it’s unaware of its fate. In the same way, we can become indifferent to the plight of our fellow humans, with the wealthy justifying the harm they cause to the poor by believing the poor are too ignorant to feel. I usually assess how much someone values the well-being of others based on how they regard them. We naturally take the happiness of those we look down on less seriously. So it’s not surprising that politicians are so derisive of the public, and philosophers claim to view humanity as so corrupt.

The people are mankind; those who do not belong to the people are so few in number that they are not worth counting. Man is the same in every station of life; if that be so, those ranks to which most men belong deserve most honour. All distinctions of rank fade away before the eyes of a thoughtful person; he sees the same passions, the same feelings in the noble and the guttersnipe; there is merely a slight difference in speech, and more or less artificiality of tone; and if there is indeed any essential difference between them, the disadvantage is all on the side of those who are more sophisticated. The people show themselves as they are, and they are not attractive; but the fashionable world is compelled to adopt a disguise; we should be horrified if we saw it as it really is.

The people represent humanity; those who aren't part of the people are so few that they aren't worth mentioning. Everyone is fundamentally the same, no matter their social status; if that's true, the ranks that most people belong to deserve the most respect. All social distinctions vanish for a thoughtful observer; they recognize the same passions and feelings in both the wealthy and the poor. There's just a slight difference in how they speak and varying levels of pretentiousness; and if there is any real difference, it's more of a disadvantage for those who are more refined. People show their true selves, and they aren't particularly appealing; meanwhile, the elite are forced to wear a mask; it would be shocking to see them as they truly are.

There is, so our wiseacres tell us, the same amount of happiness and sorrow in every station. This saying is as deadly in its effects as it is incapable of proof; if all are equally happy why should I trouble myself about any one? Let every one stay where he is; leave the slave to be ill-treated, the sick man to suffer, and the wretched to perish; they have nothing to gain by any change in their condition. You enumerate the sorrows of the rich, and show the vanity of his empty pleasures; what barefaced sophistry! The rich man’s sufferings do not come from his position, but from himself alone when he abuses it. He is not to be pitied were he indeed more miserable than the poor, for his ills are of his own making, and he could be happy if he chose. But the sufferings of the poor man come from external things, from the hardships fate has imposed upon him. No amount of habit can accustom him to the bodily ills of fatigue, exhaustion, and hunger. Neither head nor heart can serve to free him from the sufferings of his condition. How is Epictetus the better for knowing beforehand that his master will break his leg for him; does he do it any the less? He has to endure not only the pain itself but the pains of anticipation. If the people were as wise as we assume them to be stupid, how could they be other than they are? Observe persons of this class; you will see that, with a different way of speaking, they have as much intelligence and more common-sense than yourself. Have respect then for your species; remember that it consists essentially of the people, that if all the kings and all the philosophers were removed they would scarcely be missed, and things would go on none the worse. In a word, teach your pupil to love all men, even those who fail to appreciate him; act in such way that he is not a member of any class, but takes his place in all alike: speak in his hearing of the human race with tenderness, and even with pity, but never with scorn. You are a man; do not dishonour mankind.

So, our wise people say, there’s the same amount of happiness and sorrow in every situation. This saying is as harmful as it is impossible to prove; if everyone is equally happy, why should I care about anyone? Let everyone stay where they are; leave the slave to be mistreated, the sick to suffer, and the miserable to die; they have nothing to gain from changing their situation. You list the sorrows of the rich and point out the emptiness of their pleasures; what blatant nonsense! The rich person’s suffering doesn’t come from their position, but from themselves when they misuse it. They shouldn’t be pitied, even if they’re more miserable than the poor, because their problems are self-inflicted, and they could find happiness if they wanted to. But the sufferings of the poor come from outside forces, from the hardships that fate has dealt them. No amount of adjustment can make them used to the physical pains of fatigue, exhaustion, and hunger. Neither the mind nor the heart can relieve them from their conditions. How does knowing in advance that his master will break his leg make Epictetus any better off? He still has to endure the pain, along with the anxiety of waiting for it. If people were as wise as we think they are foolish, how could they be any different from what they are? Look at folks like this; you’ll see that, with different words, they have just as much intelligence, if not more common sense, than you do. So have respect for your fellow humans; remember that they are the core of our species. If all the kings and philosophers vanished, they would hardly be missed, and life would continue just fine. In short, teach your student to love all people, even those who overlook him; act in a way that he doesn’t belong to just one class, but fits into all of them: speak around him about humanity with kindness and even with compassion, but never with contempt. You are a human; don’t dishonor humanity.

It is by these ways and others like them—how different from the beaten paths—that we must reach the heart of the young adolescent, and stimulate in him the first impulses of nature; we must develop that heart and open its doors to his fellow-creatures, and there must be as little self-interest as possible mixed up with these impulses; above all, no vanity, no emulation, no boasting, none of those sentiments which force us to compare ourselves with others; for such comparisons are never made without arousing some measure of hatred against those who dispute our claim to the first place, were it only in our own estimation. Then we must be either blind or angry, a bad man or a fool; let us try to avoid this dilemma. Sooner or later these dangerous passions will appear, so you tell me, in spite of us. I do not deny it. There is a time and place for everything; I am only saying that we should not help to arouse these passions.

It’s through these paths and others like them—so different from the usual routes—that we need to reach the hearts of young adolescents and spark their natural impulses; we should nurture that heart and encourage it to connect with others, keeping self-interest to a minimum in these impulses; above all, there should be no vanity, no competition, no bragging, and none of those feelings that make us compare ourselves to others; because those comparisons only bring about some level of resentment toward those who challenge our claim to being the best, even if it's just in our own eyes. In that case, we either become blind or angry, a bad person or a fool; let’s strive to avoid this situation. Sooner or later, these dangerous emotions will surface, you say, despite our efforts. I don’t argue with that. There’s a time and place for everything; I’m just suggesting that we shouldn’t contribute to stirring up these emotions.

This is the spirit of the method to be laid down. In this case examples and illustrations are useless, for here we find the beginning of the countless differences of character, and every example I gave would possibly apply to only one case in a hundred thousand. It is at this age that the clever teacher begins his real business, as a student and a philosopher who knows how to probe the heart and strives to guide it aright. While the young man has not learnt to pretend, while he does not even know the meaning of pretence, you see by his look, his manner, his gestures, the impression he has received from any object presented to him; you read in his countenance every impulse of his heart; by watching his expression you learn to protect his impulses and actually to control them.

This is the essence of the method we will discuss. Here, examples and illustrations are pointless, because this is where we see the endless variations in character, and any example I provide might only relate to one case in a hundred thousand. At this stage, the skilled teacher begins his true work, as a learner and a thinker who knows how to understand emotions and aims to guide them correctly. While the young man hasn’t yet learned to fake emotions, and he doesn’t even grasp the concept of pretense, you can see through his expressions, demeanor, and gestures the impact he has felt from anything shown to him; his face reveals every feeling he experiences. By observing his expressions, you can learn to nurture his feelings and actually influence them.

It has been commonly observed that blood, wounds, cries and groans, the preparations for painful operations, and everything which directs the senses towards things connected with suffering, are usually the first to make an impression on all men. The idea of destruction, a more complex matter, does not have so great an effect; the thought of death affects us later and less forcibly, for no one knows from his own experience what it is to die; you must have seen corpses to feel the agonies of the dying. But when once this idea is established in the mind, there is no spectacle more dreadful in our eyes, whether because of the idea of complete destruction which it arouses through our senses, or because we know that this moment must come for each one of us and we feel ourselves all the more keenly affected by a situation from which we know there is no escape.

It’s often noted that blood, wounds, cries, and groans, along with the lead-up to painful procedures, are usually the first things that make an impression on people. The idea of destruction is a more complicated subject and doesn’t hit us as hard; the thought of death impacts us later and less strongly because no one knows from personal experience what it’s like to die; you need to have seen dead bodies to truly grasp the suffering of those who are dying. However, once this idea takes root in our minds, there’s no sight more terrifying to us, whether because it brings about the concept of complete destruction through our senses or because we know that this moment will eventually come for each of us, making us feel even more intensely affected by a reality from which there is no escape.

These various impressions differ in manner and in degree, according to the individual character of each one of us and his former habits, but they are universal and no one is altogether free from them. There are other impressions less universal and of a later growth, impressions most suited to sensitive souls, such impressions as we receive from moral suffering, inward grief, the sufferings of the mind, depression, and sadness. There are men who can be touched by nothing but groans and tears; the suppressed sobs of a heart labouring under sorrow would never win a sigh; the sight of a downcast visage, a pale and gloomy countenance, eyes which can weep no longer, would never draw a tear from them. The sufferings of the mind are as nothing to them; they weigh them, their own mind feels nothing; expect nothing from such persons but inflexible severity, harshness, cruelty. They may be just and upright, but not merciful, generous, or pitiful. They may, I say, be just, if a man can indeed be just without being merciful.

These different impressions vary in how they affect us and to what extent, depending on each person's unique character and past habits, but they are common, and no one is completely immune to them. There are also other impressions that are less common and develop later, which are more attuned to sensitive souls, like those we experience from moral pain, inner sorrow, mental suffering, depression, and sadness. Some people can only be moved by groans and tears; the stifled sobs of a heart weighed down by sorrow would never elicit even a sigh from them; the sight of a downcast face, a pale and gloomy expression, eyes that can’t cry anymore, would never provoke a tear. The sufferings of the mind mean nothing to them; they judge them, while their own minds remain untouched; expect nothing from these individuals but rigid severity, harshness, and cruelty. They may be just and upright, but they are not merciful, generous, or compassionate. They may, I say, be just if a person can indeed be just without being merciful.

But do not be in a hurry to judge young people by this standard, more especially those who have been educated rightly, who have no idea of the moral sufferings they have never had to endure; for once again they can only pity the ills they know, and this apparent insensibility is soon transformed into pity when they begin to feel that there are in human life a thousand ills of which they know nothing. As for Emile, if in childhood he was distinguished by simplicity and good sense, in his youth he will show a warm and tender heart; for the reality of the feelings depends to a great extent on the accuracy of the ideas.

But don’t rush to judge young people by this standard, especially those who have been properly educated and have no experience of the moral struggles they’ve never faced. They can only feel sympathy for the troubles they know, and this apparent lack of sensitivity quickly turns into compassion when they start to realize that there are countless hardships in life that they are unaware of. As for Emile, if he was known for his simplicity and good sense in childhood, he will demonstrate a warm and compassionate heart in his youth; the authenticity of feelings largely depends on the clarity of ideas.

But why call him hither? More than one reader will reproach me no doubt for departing from my first intention and forgetting the lasting happiness I promised my pupil. The sorrowful, the dying, such sights of pain and woe, what happiness, what delight is this for a young heart on the threshold of life? His gloomy tutor, who proposed to give him such a pleasant education, only introduces him to life that he may suffer. This is what they will say, but what care I? I promised to make him happy, not to make him seem happy. Am I to blame if, deceived as usual by the outward appearances, you take them for the reality?

But why call him here? I’m sure more than one reader will criticize me for straying from my original intention and forgetting the lasting happiness I promised my student. The sorrowful, the dying, such sights of pain and misery—what happiness, what joy does this bring to a young heart just starting out in life? His gloomy tutor, who aimed to provide him with such a joyful education, only introduces him to life so that he may suffer. This is what they will say, but I don’t care. I promised to make him happy, not to make him look happy. Am I at fault if you, misled as usual by appearances, mistake them for reality?

Let us take two young men at the close of their early education, and let them enter the world by opposite doors. The one mounts at once to Olympus, and moves in the smartest society; he is taken to court, he is presented in the houses of the great, of the rich, of the pretty women. I assume that he is everywhere made much of, and I do not regard too closely the effect of this reception on his reason; I assume it can stand it. Pleasures fly before him, every day provides him with fresh amusements; he flings himself into everything with an eagerness which carries you away. You find him busy, eager, and curious; his first wonder makes a great impression on you; you think him happy; but behold the state of his heart; you think he is rejoicing, I think he suffers.

Let’s consider two young men finishing their early education and stepping into the world through opposite doors. One of them quickly rises to the top and mingles with the elite; he’s invited to court and welcomed into the homes of the powerful, wealthy, and beautiful. I assume he receives a warm reception everywhere he goes, and I won't scrutinize how this affects his mind; I assume he can handle it. Pleasures chase after him, and each day brings new excitement; he throws himself into everything with an enthusiasm that is infectious. You see him busy, eager, and curious; his initial wonder impresses you, and you think he’s happy. But look at the state of his heart; while you see him celebrating, I think he’s actually suffering.

What does he see when first he opens his eyes? all sorts of so-called pleasures, hitherto unknown. Most of these pleasures are only for a moment within his reach, and seem to show themselves only to inspire regret for their loss. Does he wander through a palace; you see by his uneasy curiosity that he is asking why his father’s house is not like it. Every question shows you that he is comparing himself all the time with the owner of this grand place. And all the mortification arising from this comparison at once revolts and stimulates his vanity. If he meets a young man better dressed than himself, I find him secretly complaining of his parents’ meanness. If he is better dressed than another, he suffers because the latter is his superior in birth or in intellect, and all his gold lace is put to shame by a plain cloth coat. Does he shine unrivalled in some assembly, does he stand on tiptoe that they may see him better, who is there who does not secretly desire to humble the pride and vanity of the young fop? Everybody is in league against him; the disquieting glances of a solemn man, the biting phrases of some satirical person, do not fail to reach him, and if it were only one man who despised him, the scorn of that one would poison in a moment the applause of the rest.

What does he see when he first opens his eyes? All kinds of so-called pleasures that he’s never experienced before. Most of these pleasures are only briefly within his grasp, appearing just to make him regret their absence. If he wanders through a palace, you can tell from his uneasy curiosity that he’s wondering why his father’s house isn’t like this one. Each question shows that he’s constantly comparing himself to the owner of this grand place. All the embarrassment from this comparison instantly stirs both disgust and fuels his vanity. If he meets a young man who’s better dressed than he is, he secretly complains about his parents’ lack of generosity. If he’s better dressed than someone else, he feels inadequate because that person is superior in background or intelligence, and all his fancy attire pales in comparison to a simple coat. If he stands out at a gathering, trying to be noticed, who doesn’t secretly want to bring down the pride of this self-absorbed young man? Everyone seems against him; the disapproving looks from a serious person, the sharp comments from a witty critic, always reach him, and even if just one person looks down on him, that one person's disdain would overshadow the applause from the rest.

Let us grant him everything, let us not grudge him charm and worth; let him be well-made, witty, and attractive; the women will run after him; but by pursuing him before he is in love with them, they will inspire rage rather than love; he will have successes, but neither rapture nor passion to enjoy them. As his desires are always anticipated; they never have time to spring up among his pleasures, so he only feels the tedium of restraint. Even before he knows it he is disgusted and satiated with the sex formed to be the delight of his own; if he continues its pursuit it is only through vanity, and even should he really be devoted to women, he will not be the only brilliant, the only attractive young man, nor will he always find his mistresses prodigies of fidelity.

Let's give him everything; let's not hold back on his charm and worth. Let him be good-looking, clever, and appealing; the women will flock to him. But by going after him before he loves them, they'll only spark anger instead of love. He'll have his wins, but without any excitement or passion to enjoy them. Since his desires are always met, he never has the chance for them to grow amid his pleasures, leaving him only with the boredom of restraint. Even before he realizes it, he's already turned off and tired of the women meant to delight him. If he keeps pursuing them, it’s only for his own vanity. Even if he is genuinely devoted to women, he won’t be the only charming, attractive young man, and he definitely won’t always find his lovers to be paragons of loyalty.

I say nothing of the vexation, the deceit, the crimes, and the remorse of all kinds, inseparable from such a life. We know that experience of the world disgusts us with it; I am speaking only of the drawbacks belonging to youthful illusions.

I won't mention the frustration, the lies, the wrongdoings, and the guilt of all kinds that come with that kind of life. We know that experiencing the world can make us nauseated by it; I'm only talking about the downsides of youthful fantasies.

Hitherto the young man has lived in the bosom of his family and his friends, and has been the sole object of their care; what a change to enter all at once into a region where he counts for so little; to find himself plunged into another sphere, he who has been so long the centre of his own. What insults, what humiliation, must he endure, before he loses among strangers the ideas of his own importance which have been formed and nourished among his own people! As a child everything gave way to him, everybody flocked to him; as a young man he must give place to every one, or if he preserves ever so little of his former airs, what harsh lessons will bring him to himself! Accustomed to get everything he wants without any difficulty, his wants are many, and he feels continual privations. He is tempted by everything that flatters him; what others have, he must have too; he covets everything, he envies every one, he would always be master. He is devoured by vanity, his young heart is enflamed by unbridled passions, jealousy and hatred among the rest; all these violent passions burst out at once; their sting rankles in him in the busy world, they return with him at night, he comes back dissatisfied with himself, with others; he falls asleep among a thousand foolish schemes disturbed by a thousand fancies, and his pride shows him even in his dreams those fancied pleasures; he is tormented by a desire which will never be satisfied. So much for your pupil; let us turn to mine.

Until now, the young man has lived surrounded by his family and friends, who have focused all their attention on him; what a change it is to suddenly enter a world where he matters so little. To find himself thrown into a new environment after being the center of his own for so long is a jarring experience. What insults and humiliation must he face before he sheds the sense of importance that has been built and nurtured among his people! As a child, everything revolved around him, and everyone catered to his needs; now, as a young man, he must step aside for others. If he tries to hold onto any semblance of his previous entitlement, what harsh lessons await him! Used to getting everything he desires without effort, he has many wants and constantly feels deprived. He is easily tempted by anything that flatters him; he wants what others have, covets everything, and envies everyone while always wanting to be in control. He is consumed by vanity, and his young heart is ignited by unchecked passions, including jealousy and hatred. These intense feelings erupt all at once; their sting lingers as he navigates the busy world, and they return to him at night, leaving him unsatisfied with himself and others. He falls asleep amid a thousand foolish plans, distracted by countless thoughts, and his pride presents him with imagined pleasures even in his dreams. He is tortured by a desire that will never be fulfilled. That’s enough about your student; let’s focus on mine.

If the first thing to make an impression on him is something sorrowful his first return to himself is a feeling of pleasure. When he sees how many ills he has escaped he thinks he is happier than he fancied. He shares the suffering of his fellow-creatures, but he shares it of his own free will and finds pleasure in it. He enjoys at once the pity he feels for their woes and the joy of being exempt from them; he feels in himself that state of vigour which projects us beyond ourselves, and bids us carry elsewhere the superfluous activity of our well-being. To pity another’s woes we must indeed know them, but we need not feel them. When we have suffered, when we are in fear of suffering, we pity those who suffer; but when we suffer ourselves, we pity none but ourselves. But if all of us, being subject ourselves to the ills of life, only bestow upon others the sensibility we do not actually require for ourselves, it follows that pity must be a very pleasant feeling, since it speaks on our behalf; and, on the other hand, a hard-hearted man is always unhappy, since the state of his heart leaves him no superfluous sensibility to bestow on the sufferings of others.

If the first thing to catch his attention is something sad, his initial return to himself brings a sense of joy. When he realizes how many troubles he has avoided, he feels happier than he expected. He experiences the pain of others, but he does it willingly and finds satisfaction in it. He simultaneously enjoys the compassion he feels for their struggles and the relief of not being part of them; he senses an energy within himself that pushes him beyond his own concerns and encourages him to share the excess positivity of his well-being elsewhere. To empathize with another’s pain, we must understand it, but we don’t have to feel it ourselves. When we’ve experienced suffering or fear it, we empathize with those who are hurting; yet, when we are in pain ourselves, our compassion is often limited to our own situation. However, if we are all experiencing the challenges of life and only offer to others the sensitivity we don’t actually need for ourselves, it follows that pity must be a quite pleasant feeling since it expresses our own emotions; conversely, a cold-hearted person is often unhappy, as their emotional state leaves them with no surplus empathy to extend to the suffering of others.

We are too apt to judge of happiness by appearances; we suppose it is to be found in the most unlikely places, we seek for it where it cannot possibly be; mirth is a very doubtful indication of its presence. A merry man is often a wretch who is trying to deceive others and distract himself. The men who are jovial, friendly, and contented at their club are almost always gloomy grumblers at home, and their servants have to pay for the amusement they give among their friends. True contentment is neither merry nor noisy; we are jealous of so sweet a sentiment, when we enjoy it we think about it, we delight in it for fear it should escape us. A really happy man says little and laughs little; he hugs his happiness, so to speak, to his heart. Noisy games, violent delight, conceal the disappointment of satiety. But melancholy is the friend of pleasure; tears and pity attend our sweetest enjoyment, and great joys call for tears rather than laughter.

We tend to judge happiness based on appearances; we think it can be found in the most unlikely places and search for it where it can’t possibly be. Laughter is often a questionable sign of its presence. A cheerful person may actually be quite unhappy, trying to fool others and distract himself. The guys who are jovial and friendly at their clubs are often grumpy and discontented at home, and their servants end up suffering for the fun they have with their friends. True contentment isn’t loud or boisterous; we can be envious of such a sweet feeling. When we do experience it, we think about it and cherish it for fear it might slip away. A genuinely happy person speaks little and laughs infrequently; he keeps his happiness close to his heart. Loud games and extreme joy often hide the disappointment that comes with overindulgence. However, sadness is a companion to pleasure; tears and empathy follow our greatest joys, and the biggest delights often lead to tears instead of laughter.

If at first the number and variety of our amusements seem to contribute to our happiness, if at first the even tenor of a quiet life seems tedious, when we look at it more closely we discover that the pleasantest habit of mind consists in a moderate enjoyment which leaves little scope for desire and aversion. The unrest of passion causes curiosity and fickleness; the emptiness of noisy pleasures causes weariness. We never weary of our state when we know none more delightful. Savages suffer less than other men from curiosity and from tedium; everything is the same to them—themselves, not their possessions—and they are never weary.

If at first the number and variety of our entertainments seem to add to our happiness, if at first the steady flow of a calm life feels boring, when we examine it more closely we realize that the most enjoyable mindset comes from a moderate pleasure that leaves little room for desire and aversion. The turmoil of passion creates curiosity and inconsistency; the emptiness of loud pleasures leads to exhaustion. We never grow tired of our situation when we know of no other more enjoyable. Savages experience less curiosity and boredom than others; everything feels the same to them—themselves, not their belongings—and they are never exhausted.

The man of the world almost always wears a mask. He is scarcely ever himself and is almost a stranger to himself; he is ill at ease when he is forced into his own company. Not what he is, but what he seems, is all he cares for.

The worldly man almost always wears a mask. He hardly ever shows his true self and is nearly a stranger to who he really is; he feels uncomfortable when he has to be with himself. It's not about who he is, but rather how he appears that matters to him.

I cannot help picturing in the countenance of the young man I have just spoken of an indefinable but unpleasant impertinence, smoothness, and affectation, which is repulsive to a plain man, and in the countenance of my own pupil a simple and interesting expression which indicates the real contentment and the calm of his mind; an expression which inspires respect and confidence, and seems only to await the establishment of friendly relations to bestow his own confidence in return. It is thought that the expression is merely the development of certain features designed by nature. For my own part I think that over and above this development a man’s face is shaped, all unconsciously, by the frequent and habitual influence of certain affections of the heart. These affections are shown on the face, there is nothing more certain; and when they become habitual, they must surely leave lasting traces. This is why I think the expression shows the character, and that we can sometimes read one another without seeking mysterious explanations in powers we do not possess.

I can’t help but see in the young man’s face a vague yet off-putting arrogance, smoothness, and pretentiousness that repels an ordinary person. In contrast, my pupil has a simple and engaging expression that reflects genuine contentment and a calm mind. His expression inspires respect and confidence, and it seems like he’s just waiting for a friendly relationship to offer his own trust in return. People often think this expression results purely from features shaped by nature. However, I believe that, beyond this natural development, a man’s face is unconsciously shaped by the repeated and habitual influence of certain feelings. These feelings are definitely reflected on the face; there’s no doubt about that. And when they become habitual, they must leave permanent marks. That’s why I feel the expression reveals character, and sometimes we can understand each other without looking for mysterious explanations based on powers we don’t have.

A child has only two distinct feelings, joy and sorrow; he laughs or he cries; he knows no middle course, and he is constantly passing from one extreme to the other. On account of these perpetual changes there is no lasting impression on the face, and no expression; but when the child is older and more sensitive, his feelings are keener or more permanent, and these deeper impressions leave traces more difficult to erase; and the habitual state of the feelings has an effect on the features which in course of time becomes ineffaceable. Still it is not uncommon to meet with men whose expression varies with their age. I have met with several, and I have always found that those whom I could observe and follow had also changed their habitual temper. This one observation thoroughly confirmed would seem to me decisive, and it is not out of place in a treatise on education, where it is a matter of importance, that we should learn to judge the feelings of the heart by external signs.

A child experiences only two clear emotions: joy and sadness. He laughs or he cries; there’s no in-between, and he constantly shifts from one extreme to the other. Because of these frequent changes, there's no lasting expression on his face, no real emotion to see. However, as a child grows older and becomes more sensitive, his feelings become stronger and more lasting. These deeper emotions leave marks that are harder to erase, and the ongoing state of his feelings impacts his facial features in a way that becomes permanent over time. Still, it’s not unusual to encounter men whose expressions change with age. I have met several, and I’ve noticed that those I could observe closely had also changed their usual mood. This single observation, when thoroughly confirmed, seems conclusive to me. It's essential in a discussion about education, as it helps us learn to interpret the feelings of the heart through external signs.

I do not know whether my young man will be any the less amiable for not having learnt to copy conventional manners and to feign sentiments which are not his own; that does not concern me at present, I only know he will be more affectionate; and I find it difficult to believe that he, who cares for nobody but himself, can so far disguise his true feelings as to please as readily as he who finds fresh happiness for himself in his affection for others. But with regard to this feeling of happiness, I think I have said enough already for the guidance of any sensible reader, and to show that I have not contradicted myself.

I don’t know if my young man will be any less charming for not having learned to mimic social niceties and pretend to have feelings that aren’t his own; that’s not my concern right now. I only know he’ll be more loving, and I find it hard to believe that someone who only cares about himself can hide his true feelings enough to please others as easily as someone who finds joy in caring for others. But about this feeling of happiness, I think I’ve already said enough to guide any reasonable reader and to show that I haven’t contradicted myself.

I return to my system, and I say, when the critical age approaches, present to young people spectacles which restrain rather than excite them; put off their dawning imagination with objects which, far from inflaming their senses, put a check to their activity. Remove them from great cities, where the flaunting attire and the boldness of the women hasten and anticipate the teaching of nature, where everything presents to their view pleasures of which they should know nothing till they are of an age to choose for themselves. Bring them back to their early home, where rural simplicity allows the passions of their age to develop more slowly; or if their taste for the arts keeps them in town, guard them by means of this very taste from a dangerous idleness. Choose carefully their company, their occupations, and their pleasures; show them nothing but modest and pathetic pictures which are touching but not seductive, and nourish their sensibility without stimulating their senses. Remember also, that the danger of excess is not confined to any one place, and that immoderate passions always do irreparable damage. You need not make your pupil a sick-nurse or a Brother of Pity; you need not distress him by the perpetual sight of pain and suffering; you need not take him from one hospital to another, from the gallows to the prison. He must be softened, not hardened, by the sight of human misery. When we have seen a sight it ceases to impress us, use is second nature, what is always before our eyes no longer appeals to the imagination, and it is only through the imagination that we can feel the sorrows of others; this is why priests and doctors who are always beholding death and suffering become so hardened. Let your pupil therefore know something of the lot of man and the woes of his fellow-creatures, but let him not see them too often. A single thing, carefully selected and shown at the right time, will fill him with pity and set him thinking for a month. His opinion about anything depends not so much on what he sees, but on how it reacts on himself; and his lasting impression of any object depends less on the object itself than on the point of view from which he regards it. Thus by a sparing use of examples, lessons, and pictures, you may blunt the sting of sense and delay nature while following her own lead.

I return to my system, and I say, when young people reach a critical age, present them with experiences that hold them back rather than excite them; distract their growing imaginations with things that, instead of stirring their senses, slow down their activity. Keep them away from big cities, where flashy clothing and bold women rush them into experiences of nature, exposing them to pleasures they shouldn’t know until they can choose for themselves. Bring them back to their childhood home, where simple country life allows their passions to develop more slowly; or if their interest in the arts keeps them in the city, protect them from dangerous idleness through that very interest. Be selective about their friends, their activities, and their pleasures; show them only modest and moving images that are touching but not enticing, and nurture their sensitivity without exciting their senses. Remember also that the risk of excess isn’t limited to any one place, and that unchecked passions can cause irreparable harm. You don’t have to make your student a caretaker or a sympathetic brother; you don’t need to burden him with constant exposure to pain and suffering; you don’t have to take him from one hospital to another, from the gallows to the prison. He should be softened, not hardened, by seeing human misery. Once we’ve seen something, it stops impacting us; familiarity breeds indifference, and what’s always in front of our eyes doesn’t inspire our imagination anymore. It’s only through imagination that we can empathize with the sorrows of others; that’s why priests and doctors, who constantly witness death and suffering, become hardened. Let your student know something about the human condition and the struggles of others, but don’t let him see them too often. A single, well-chosen experience shown at the right time can fill him with compassion and make him think for a month. His opinion on something isn’t just about what he sees, but how it affects him; and his lasting impression of anything depends more on his perspective than on the object itself. Thus, by using examples, lessons, and images sparingly, you can dull the urge of the senses and allow nature to unfold at her own pace.

As he acquires knowledge, choose what ideas he shall attach to it; as his passions awake, select scenes calculated to repress them. A veteran, as distinguished for his character as for his courage, once told me that in early youth his father, a sensible man but extremely pious, observed that through his growing sensibility he was attracted by women, and spared no pains to restrain him; but at last when, in spite of all his care, his son was about to escape from his control, he decided to take him to a hospital, and, without telling him what to expect, he introduced him into a room where a number of wretched creatures were expiating, under a terrible treatment, the vices which had brought them into this plight. This hideous and revolting spectacle sickened the young man. “Miserable libertine,” said his father vehemently, “begone; follow your vile tastes; you will soon be only too glad to be admitted to this ward, and a victim to the most shameful sufferings, you will compel your father to thank God when you are dead.”

As he gains knowledge, he should choose which ideas to embrace; as his passions awaken, he should pick experiences that will help keep them in check. A veteran, known for both his character and bravery, once shared that in his early years, his father—a sensible but very religious man—noticed that as he became more sensitive, he was drawn to women. His father did everything he could to restrain him, but eventually, when his son was on the verge of slipping from his grasp, he decided to take him to a hospital. Without revealing what to expect, he led him into a room filled with unfortunate individuals suffering under horrific circumstances due to their vices. This ugly and disturbing scene made the young man feel ill. "Wretched libertine," his father exclaimed passionately, "go ahead; indulge your disgusting desires; before long, you'll be desperate to be in this place, and as a victim of the most shameful sufferings, you'll make your father grateful when you're dead."

These few words, together with the striking spectacle he beheld, made an impression on the young man which could never be effaced. Compelled by his profession to pass his youth in garrison, he preferred to face all the jests of his comrades rather than to share their evil ways. “I have been a man,” he said to me, “I have had my weaknesses, but even to the present day the sight of a harlot inspires me with horror.” Say little to your pupil, but choose time, place, and people; then rely on concrete examples for your teaching, and be sure it will take effect.

These few words, along with the striking scene he witnessed, left a mark on the young man that would never fade. Forced by his job to spend his youth in the military, he chose to endure all the jokes from his buddies rather than join them in their reckless behavior. “I’ve been a man,” he told me, “I’ve had my moments of weakness, but even now, just seeing a prostitute fills me with disgust.” Say little to your student, but carefully select the time, place, and people; then rely on real-life examples for your teaching, and you can be sure it will have an impact.

The way childhood is spent is no great matter; the evil which may find its way is not irremediable, and the good which may spring up might come later. But it is not so in those early years when a youth really begins to live. This time is never long enough for what there is to be done, and its importance demands unceasing attention; this is why I lay so much stress on the art of prolonging it. One of the best rules of good farming is to keep things back as much as possible. Let your progress also be slow and sure; prevent the youth from becoming a man all at once. While the body is growing the spirits destined to give vigour to the blood and strength to the muscles are in process of formation and elaboration. If you turn them into another channel, and permit that strength which should have gone to the perfecting of one person to go to the making of another, both remain in a state of weakness and the work of nature is unfinished. The workings of the mind, in their turn, are affected by this change, and the mind, as sickly as the body, functions languidly and feebly. Length and strength of limb are not the same thing as courage or genius, and I grant that strength of mind does not always accompany strength of body, when the means of connection between the two are otherwise faulty. But however well planned they may be, they will always work feebly if for motive power they depend upon an exhausted, impoverished supply of blood, deprived of the substance which gives strength and elasticity to all the springs of the machinery. There is generally more vigour of mind to be found among men whose early years have been preserved from precocious vice, than among those whose evil living has begun at the earliest opportunity; and this is no doubt the reason why nations whose morals are pure are generally superior in sense and courage to those whose morals are bad. The latter shine only through I know not what small and trifling qualities, which they call wit, sagacity, cunning; but those great and noble features of goodness and reason, by which a man is distinguished and honoured through good deeds, virtues, really useful efforts, are scarcely to be found except among the nations whose morals are pure.

The way childhood is spent isn’t a big deal; the bad experiences that may happen can be fixed, and the good things that could emerge might develop later. But that’s not the case in those early years when a young person really starts to live. This period is never long enough for everything that needs to be done, and its significance requires constant attention; that’s why I emphasize the importance of extending it. One of the best principles of good farming is to hold back as much as you can. Let your progress be slow and steady; don’t let a young person become an adult all at once. While their body is growing, the spirits that will give life to the blood and strength to the muscles are being formed. If you direct them elsewhere, and let that strength which should have been focused on perfecting one person go toward creating another, both will remain weak and nature's work will be incomplete. This change also affects the workings of the mind, making it as weak as the body, causing it to function sluggishly and feebly. Length and strength of limbs are not the same as courage or talent, and I acknowledge that mental strength doesn't always come with physical strength, especially when the connection between the two isn’t functioning properly. But no matter how well they are designed, they will always operate weakly if they rely on an exhausted, depleted supply of blood that lacks the substance needed to give strength and flexibility to all parts of the machinery. Generally, there is more mental vigor found among men whose early years have been protected from early corruption than among those who have lived poorly from the start; this is likely why nations with strong morals tend to be superior in sense and courage compared to those with poor morals. The latter tend to only shine through what I can only describe as trivial and minor traits, which they refer to as wit, cleverness, or cunning; but the great and noble qualities of goodness and reason, which truly distinguish and honor a person through good deeds and valuable efforts, are rarely found except among nations with strong morals.

Teachers complain that the energy of this age makes their pupils unruly; I see that it is so, but are not they themselves to blame? When once they have let this energy flow through the channel of the senses, do they not know that they cannot change its course? Will the long and dreary sermons of the pedant efface from the mind of his scholar the thoughts of pleasure when once they have found an entrance; will they banish from his heart the desires by which it is tormented; will they chill the heat of a passion whose meaning the scholar realises? Will not the pupil be roused to anger by the obstacles opposed to the only kind of happiness of which he has any notion? And in the harsh law imposed upon him before he can understand it, what will he see but the caprice and hatred of a man who is trying to torment him? Is it strange that he rebels and hates you too?

Teachers complain that the energy of this age makes their students unruly; I see that it’s true, but aren’t they partially to blame? Once they allow this energy to flow through the senses, don’t they realize they can’t change its direction? Can long and boring lectures from a pedant erase the thoughts of pleasure that have already taken root in a student’s mind? Will they push away the desires that torment the heart? Can they cool the passion that the student understands? Won’t the student be driven to anger by the barriers against the only kind of happiness they know? And in the harsh rules imposed upon them before they can grasp their meaning, won’t they see only the whims and spite of someone trying to make them suffer? Is it surprising that they rebel and hate you too?

I know very well that if one is easy-going one may be tolerated, and one may keep up a show of authority. But I fail to see the use of an authority over the pupil which is only maintained by fomenting the vices it ought to repress; it is like attempting to soothe a fiery steed by making it leap over a precipice.

I know very well that if someone is easy-going, they might be tolerated, and they might be able to maintain an appearance of authority. But I don’t understand the point of having authority over a student that is only upheld by encouraging the faults it should be correcting; it’s like trying to calm a fiery horse by making it jump off a cliff.

Far from being a hindrance to education, this enthusiasm of adolescence is its crown and coping-stone; this it is that gives you a hold on the youth’s heart when he is no longer weaker than you. His first affections are the reins by which you control his movements; he was free, and now I behold him in your power. So long as he loved nothing, he was independent of everything but himself and his own necessities; as soon as he loves, he is dependent on his affections. Thus the first ties which unite him to his species are already formed. When you direct his increasing sensibility in this direction, do not expect that it will at once include all men, and that the word “mankind” will have any meaning for him. Not so; this sensibility will at first confine itself to those like himself, and these will not be strangers to him, but those he knows, those whom habit has made dear to him or necessary to him, those who are evidently thinking and feeling as he does, those whom he perceives to be exposed to the pains he has endured, those who enjoy the pleasures he has enjoyed; in a word, those who are so like himself that he is the more disposed to self-love. It is only after long training, after much consideration as to his own feelings and the feelings he observes in others, that he will be able to generalise his individual notions under the abstract idea of humanity, and add to his individual affections those which may identify him with the race.

Far from being a barrier to education, this enthusiasm of youth is its highest point and foundation; it’s what helps you connect with a young person when they’re no longer weaker than you. Their first emotions are the reins that allow you to guide their actions; they were free, and now I see them under your influence. As long as they loved nothing, they were independent of everything except themselves and their own needs; but once they start loving, they become dependent on their feelings. Thus, the first bonds that tie them to others are already formed. When you guide their growing sensitivity in this way, don’t expect it to instantly encompass all people, or that the term “mankind” will mean anything to them. Not at all; this sensitivity will initially focus only on those who are similar to them, and these won’t be strangers, but people they know—those made dear or necessary by familiarity, those who clearly think and feel like they do, those who are experiencing the same pains they have felt, and those who enjoy the same pleasures. In short, they will connect with those who are so much like themselves that they end up loving themselves more. It’s only after extensive training and careful reflection on their own feelings, as well as the emotions they see in others, that they will be capable of generalizing their personal ideas into the broader concept of humanity, incorporating those feelings that link them with the human race.

When he becomes capable of affection, he becomes aware of the affection of others, [Footnote: Affection may be unrequited; not so friendship. Friendship is a bargain, a contract like any other; though a bargain more sacred than the rest. The word “friend” has no other correlation. Any man who is not the friend of his friend is undoubtedly a rascal; for one can only obtain friendship by giving it, or pretending to give it.] and he is on the lookout for the signs of that affection. Do you not see how you will acquire a fresh hold on him? What bands have you bound about his heart while he was yet unaware of them! What will he feel, when he beholds himself and sees what you have done for him; when he can compare himself with other youths, and other tutors with you! I say, “When he sees it,” but beware lest you tell him of it; if you tell him he will not perceive it. If you claim his obedience in return for the care bestowed upon him, he will think you have over-reached him; he will see that while you profess to have cared for him without reward, you meant to saddle him with a debt and to bind him to a bargain which he never made. In vain you will add that what you demand is for his own good; you demand it, and you demand it in virtue of what you have done without his consent. When a man down on his luck accepts the shilling which the sergeant professes to give him, and finds he has enlisted without knowing what he was about, you protest against the injustice; is it not still more unjust to demand from your pupil the price of care which he has not even accepted!

When he starts to feel affection, he becomes aware of the affection from others, [Footnote: Affection might not always be reciprocated; but friendship is different. Friendship is a deal, a contract like any other, though a more sacred one. The term “friend” has no other equivalent. Anyone who isn’t a friend to a friend is certainly untrustworthy; because you can only gain friendship by giving it or at least pretending to give it.] and he will be looking for signs of that affection. Don’t you see how you'll gain a stronger influence over him? What ties have you formed around his heart while he was still unaware of them! How will he feel when he realizes what you’ve done for him; when he compares himself to other young people, and other mentors to you! I say, “When he sees it,” but be careful not to mention it to him; if you do, he won't recognize it. If you expect his obedience in return for the care you’ve given him, he’ll think you’ve taken advantage of him; he'll see that while you claim to have cared for him without expecting anything back, you really intended to burden him with a debt and to bind him to a deal he never agreed to. It’s pointless for you to argue that what you want is for his own good; you want it, and you want it based on what you did without his consent. When a down-on-his-luck man takes a shilling that the sergeant claims to give him and realizes he has enlisted without knowing it, you speak out against the unfairness; isn’t it even more unfair to demand from your student the price of care he hasn’t even agreed to!

Ingratitude would be rarer if kindness were less often the investment of a usurer. We love those who have done us a kindness; what a natural feeling! Ingratitude is not to be found in the heart of man, but self-interest is there; those who are ungrateful for benefits received are fewer than those who do a kindness for their own ends. If you sell me your gifts, I will haggle over the price; but if you pretend to give, in order to sell later on at your own price, you are guilty of fraud; it is the free gift which is beyond price. The heart is a law to itself; if you try to bind it, you lose it; give it its liberty, and you make it your own.

Ingratitude would be less common if kindness wasn't so often an act motivated by self-interest. We naturally love those who have helped us! Ingratitude isn't found in people's hearts; self-interest is what's there. There are fewer people who are ungrateful for the help they receive than those who do nice things for their own benefit. If you sell me your gifts, I'll negotiate the price; but if you pretend to give in order to later sell at your own price, that's deceit. A true gift is priceless. The heart follows its own rules; if you try to control it, you lose it; give it freedom, and it belongs to you.

When the fisherman baits his line, the fish come round him without suspicion; but when they are caught on the hook concealed in the bait, they feel the line tighten and they try to escape. Is the fisherman a benefactor? Is the fish ungrateful? Do we find a man forgotten by his benefactor, unmindful of that benefactor? On the contrary, he delights to speak of him, he cannot think of him without emotion; if he gets a chance of showing him, by some unexpected service, that he remembers what he did for him, how delighted he is to satisfy his gratitude; what a pleasure it is to earn the gratitude of his benefactor. How delightful to say, “It is my turn now.” This is indeed the teaching of nature; a good deed never caused ingratitude.

When the fisherman puts bait on his line, the fish approach him without any doubt; but once they’re hooked by the bait, they feel the line tighten and try to escape. Is the fisherman a good guy? Is the fish ungrateful? Do we see a man who has forgotten his benefactor, ignoring that person? On the contrary, he loves to talk about him, can't think of him without feeling something; when he finds a way to show his benefactor, through some unexpected act of kindness, that he remembers what was done for him, he's thrilled to express his gratitude; it’s a joy to earn his benefactor’s thanks. How nice it is to say, “Now it’s my turn.” This is truly how nature teaches us; a good deed never leads to ingratitude.

If therefore gratitude is a natural feeling, and you do not destroy its effects by your blunders, be sure your pupil, as he begins to understand the value of your care for him, will be grateful for it, provided you have not put a price upon it; and this will give you an authority over his heart which nothing can overthrow. But beware of losing this advantage before it is really yours, beware of insisting on your own importance. Boast of your services and they become intolerable; forget them and they will not be forgotten. Until the time comes to treat him as a man let there be no question of his duty to you, but his duty to himself. Let him have his freedom if you would make him docile; hide yourself so that he may seek you; raise his heart to the noble sentiment of gratitude by only speaking of his own interest. Until he was able to understand I would not have him told that what was done was for his good; he would only have understood such words to mean that you were dependent on him and he would merely have made you his servant. But now that he is beginning to feel what love is, he also knows what a tender affection may bind a man to what he loves; and in the zeal which keeps you busy on his account, he now sees not the bonds of a slave, but the affection of a friend. Now there is nothing which carries so much weight with the human heart as the voice of friendship recognised as such, for we know that it never speaks but for our good. We may think our friend is mistaken, but we never believe he is deceiving us. We may reject his advice now and then, but we never scorn it.

If gratitude is a natural feeling and you don’t undermine it with your mistakes, your student will definitely appreciate your care for him as he starts to recognize its value, as long as you haven’t attached any conditions to it. This will give you a connection to his heart that nothing can break. But be careful not to lose this advantage before it’s truly yours; avoid emphasizing your own importance. If you brag about your efforts, they’ll become unbearable; if you forget them, they won’t be. Until it’s time to treat him as an adult, let’s focus on his duty to himself rather than to you. Allow him his freedom if you want him to be receptive; step back so he can come to you; inspire his sense of gratitude by only talking about his own interests. Until he’s ready to understand it, I wouldn’t want him to be told that what’s done is for his benefit; he would just see those words as you being dependent on him and would think of you as his servant. But now that he’s beginning to feel love, he also sees the deep bonds that can connect a person to what he loves; in your dedication to him, he sees not the chains of a servant but the affection of a friend. There’s nothing that resonates more with the human heart than the voice of friendship recognized as such, because we know it only speaks for our benefit. We might think our friend is wrong sometimes, but we never believe he’s trying to deceive us. We might brush off his advice now and then, but we never disrespect it.

We have reached the moral order at last; we have just taken the second step towards manhood. If this were the place for it, I would try to show how the first impulses of the heart give rise to the first stirrings of conscience, and how from the feelings of love and hatred spring the first notions of good and evil. I would show that justice and kindness are no mere abstract terms, no mere moral conceptions framed by the understanding, but true affections of the heart enlightened by reason, the natural outcome of our primitive affections; that by reason alone, unaided by conscience, we cannot establish any natural law, and that all natural right is a vain dream if it does not rest upon some instinctive need of the human heart. [Footnote: The precept “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” has no true foundation but that of conscience and feeling; for what valid reason is there why I, being myself, should do what I would do if I were some one else, especially when I am morally certain I never shall find myself in exactly the same case; and who will answer for it that if I faithfully follow out this maxim, I shall get others to follow it with regard to me? The wicked takes advantage both of the uprightness of the just and of his own injustice; he will gladly have everybody just but himself. This bargain, whatever you may say, is not greatly to the advantage of the just. But if the enthusiasm of an overflowing heart identifies me with my fellow-creature, if I feel, so to speak, that I will not let him suffer lest I should suffer too, I care for him because I care for myself, and the reason of the precept is found in nature herself, which inspires me with the desire for my own welfare wherever I may be. From this I conclude that it is false to say that the precepts of natural law are based on reason only; they have a firmer and more solid foundation. The love of others springing from self-love, is the source of human justice. The whole of morality is summed up in the gospel in this summary of the law.] But I do not think it is my business at present to prepare treatises on metaphysics and morals, nor courses of study of any kind whatsoever; it is enough if I indicate the order and development of our feelings and our knowledge in relation to our growth. Others will perhaps work out what I have here merely indicated.

We’ve finally arrived at a moral understanding; we’ve just taken the second step toward becoming adults. If this were the right moment, I would explain how the first emotions we feel lead to the early development of our conscience, and how our feelings of love and hate create our first concepts of good and evil. I would illustrate that justice and kindness aren’t just abstract ideas or moral concepts made by our minds; they are true feelings of the heart informed by reason, the natural results of our basic emotions. I would argue that reason alone, without the guidance of conscience, can’t establish any natural law, and that all natural rights are meaningless if they don’t arise from some instinctive need within the human heart. [Footnote: The principle “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” has no real foundation except for conscience and feeling; what solid reason is there for me, being who I am, to do what I would do if I were someone else, especially since I know I will never find myself in precisely the same situation? And who can guarantee that if I faithfully follow this principle, others will treat me the same way? The wicked take advantage of both the honesty of the just and their own wrongdoing; they would like everyone to be just except themselves. This arrangement, regardless of your arguments, isn’t much of a bargain for the just. However, if a passionate heart connects me with my fellow human beings, if I feel, in a sense, that I won’t let them suffer because I wouldn’t want to suffer either, I care for them because I care for myself, and the reason behind the principle is found in nature itself, which inspires me to wish for my own well-being no matter where I am. From this, I conclude that it’s incorrect to say that the principles of natural law rely solely on reason; they are built on a stronger and more stable foundation. The love for others derived from self-love is the source of human justice. The entirety of morality is summarized in the gospel in this summary of the law.] But I don’t think it’s my role right now to write treatises on metaphysics and ethics, or any kind of study course; it’s enough for me to outline the order and growth of our feelings and understanding in relation to our development. Others will likely expand upon what I’ve merely suggested here.

Hitherto my Emile has thought only of himself, so his first glance at his equals leads him to compare himself with them; and the first feeling excited by this comparison is the desire to be first. It is here that self-love is transformed into selfishness, and this is the starting point of all the passions which spring from selfishness. But to determine whether the passions by which his life will be governed shall be humane and gentle or harsh and cruel, whether they shall be the passions of benevolence and pity or those of envy and covetousness, we must know what he believes his place among men to be, and what sort of obstacles he expects to have to overcome in order to attain to the position he seeks.

Up until now, my Emile has only thought about himself, so when he first sees his peers, he starts comparing himself to them; and the first feeling that comes from this comparison is the desire to be the best. This is where self-love turns into selfishness, which is the starting point for all the passions that come from being selfish. However, to figure out whether the passions that will guide his life will be kind and gentle or harsh and cruel, whether they will be filled with generosity and compassion or with envy and greed, we need to understand what he thinks his place is among others and what kind of challenges he expects to face in order to reach the position he wants.

To guide him in this inquiry, after we have shown him men by means of the accidents common to the species, we must now show him them by means of their differences. This is the time for estimating inequality natural and civil, and for the scheme of the whole social order.

To help him with this investigation, after we've shown him people through the traits shared by the group, we now need to show him through their differences. This is the moment to assess both natural and civil inequality and to outline the entire social structure.

Society must be studied in the individual and the individual in society; those who desire to treat politics and morals apart from one another will never understand either. By confining ourselves at first to the primitive relations, we see how men should be influenced by them and what passions should spring from them; we see that it is in proportion to the development of these passions that a man’s relations with others expand or contract. It is not so much strength of arm as moderation of spirit which makes men free and independent. The man whose wants are few is dependent on but few people, but those who constantly confound our vain desires with our bodily needs, those who have made these needs the basis of human society, are continually mistaking effects for causes, and they have only confused themselves by their own reasoning.

Society needs to be understood through the individual and the individual through society; anyone who wants to separate politics from morals will never truly grasp either. By initially focusing on basic relationships, we can see how they should influence people and what feelings should arise from them; we observe that it's the growth of these feelings that expands or shrinks a person’s relationships with others. It's not just physical strength but a balanced mindset that makes people free and independent. A person with few needs relies on only a few others, but those who constantly mix up our empty desires with our real needs—those who have built society on these needs—are always confusing effects for causes, and their own reasoning just ends up muddling their understanding.

Since it is impossible in the state of nature that the difference between man and man should be great enough to make one dependent on another, there is in fact in this state of nature an actual and indestructible equality. In the civil state there is a vain and chimerical equality of right; the means intended for its maintenance, themselves serve to destroy it; and the power of the community, added to the power of the strongest for the oppression of the weak, disturbs the sort of equilibrium which nature has established between them. [Footnote: The universal spirit of the laws of every country is always to take the part of the strong against the weak, and the part of him who has against him who has not; this defect is inevitable, and there is no exception to it.] From this first contradiction spring all the other contradictions between the real and the apparent, which are to be found in the civil order. The many will always be sacrificed to the few, the common weal to private interest; those specious words—justice and subordination—will always serve as the tools of violence and the weapons of injustice; hence it follows that the higher classes which claim to be useful to the rest are really only seeking their own welfare at the expense of others; from this we may judge how much consideration is due to them according to right and justice. It remains to be seen if the rank to which they have attained is more favourable to their own happiness to know what opinion each one of us should form with regard to his own lot. This is the study with which we are now concerned; but to do it thoroughly we must begin with a knowledge of the human heart.

Since it’s impossible in the state of nature for the differences between people to be so great that one becomes dependent on another, there actually exists an undeniable and unbreakable equality in this state. In civil society, there’s a false and illusory equality of rights; the very means aimed at maintaining it end up undermining it, and the community’s power, combined with that of the strongest, oppresses the weak, disrupting the balance that nature intended between them. [Footnote: The overarching spirit of laws in every country tends to favor the strong over the weak, and those who have over those who don’t; this flaw is unavoidable, and no exceptions exist.] From this initial contradiction arise all the other contradictions between reality and appearance found in civil order. The many will always be sacrificed for the few, the common good for personal interests; those deceptive terms—justice and subordination—will always be used as tools of violence and weapons of injustice; thus, the upper classes that claim to be beneficial to the rest are really just looking out for their own interests at the expense of others; from this, we can determine how much regard they deserve according to right and justice. It remains to be seen if their status provides greater happiness, which will inform each of us about our own situation. This is the study we are now focused on; however, to truly understand it, we must start with an insight into the human heart.

If it were only a question of showing young people man in his mask, there would be no need to point him out, and he would always be before their eyes; but since the mask is not the man, and since they must not be led away by its specious appearance, when you paint men for your scholar, paint them as they are, not that he may hate them, but that he may pity them and have no wish to be like them. In my opinion that is the most reasonable view a man can hold with regard to his fellow-men.

If it were just a matter of showing young people a man in his mask, there would be no need to highlight him, and he would always be in front of them; but since the mask isn’t the man, and they shouldn’t be misled by its deceptive appearance, when you portray people for your student, depict them as they truly are, not so they will hate them, but so they will feel pity for them and not want to be like them. In my view, that is the most sensible perspective a person can have about their fellow humans.

With this object in view we must take the opposite way from that hitherto followed, and instruct the youth rather through the experience of others than through his own. If men deceive him he will hate them; but, if, while they treat him with respect, he sees them deceiving each other, he will pity them. “The spectacle of the world,” said Pythagoras, “is like the Olympic games; some are buying and selling and think only of their gains; others take an active part and strive for glory; others, and these not the worst, are content to be lookers-on.”

With this goal in mind, we need to take a different approach than we have so far and teach young people more through the experiences of others rather than their own. If people betray them, they will develop a hatred for them; however, if they are treated with respect while witnessing others deceive each other, they will feel pity for them. “The spectacle of the world,” Pythagoras said, “is like the Olympic games; some are buying and selling, only thinking about their profits; others are actively participating and striving for glory; and then there are those, not the worst of them, who are content to be spectators.”

I would have you so choose the company of a youth that he should think well of those among whom he lives, and I would have you so teach him to know the world that he should think ill of all that takes place in it. Let him know that man is by nature good, let him feel it, let him judge his neighbour by himself; but let him see how men are depraved and perverted by society; let him find the source of all their vices in their preconceived opinions; let him be disposed to respect the individual, but to despise the multitude; let him see that all men wear almost the same mask, but let him also know that some faces are fairer than the mask that conceals them.

I want you to choose friends for a young person who will think positively about the people around him, and I want you to teach him about the world in a way that makes him critical of what happens in it. Help him understand that people are naturally good; let him feel it and judge others based on himself. But also show him how society corrupts and twists people; let him discover that the root of their flaws lies in their biases. Teach him to respect individuals while looking down on the crowd; help him see that everyone wears a similar facade, but also let him know that some faces are more beautiful than the mask hiding them.

It must be admitted that this method has its drawbacks, and it is not easy to carry it out; for if he becomes too soon engrossed in watching other people, if you train him to mark too closely the actions of others, you will make him spiteful and satirical, quick and decided in his judgments of others; he will find a hateful pleasure in seeking bad motives, and will fail to see the good even in that which is really good. He will, at least, get used to the sight of vice, he will behold the wicked without horror, just as we get used to seeing the wretched without pity. Soon the perversity of mankind will be not so much a warning as an excuse; he will say, “Man is made so,” and he will have no wish to be different from the rest.

It has to be acknowledged that this approach has its downsides, and it's not easy to implement; if someone becomes too focused on observing others too soon, and if you train them to scrutinize the actions of others too closely, it will turn them bitter and sarcastic, quick to judge others. They will take a twisted pleasure in searching for bad intentions and will overlook the good, even in genuinely positive things. At the very least, they will become desensitized to seeing wrongdoing, viewing the wicked without shock, just as we become accustomed to seeing the unfortunate without empathy. Before long, humanity's flaws will be less of a warning and more of an excuse; they will say, “People are just like this,” and they won't want to be any different from everyone else.

But if you wish to teach him theoretically to make him acquainted, not only with the heart of man, but also with the application of the external causes which turn our inclinations into vices; when you thus transport him all at once from the objects of sense to the objects of reason, you employ a system of metaphysics which he is not in a position to understand; you fall back into the error, so carefully avoided hitherto, of giving him lessons which are like lessons, of substituting in his mind the experience and the authority of the master for his own experience and the development of his own reason.

But if you want to teach him in a way that helps him understand not just human emotions, but also how outside influences turn our tendencies into bad habits; when you suddenly shift his focus from sensory experiences to rational thought, you’re using a system of metaphysics that he can't grasp; you revert to the mistake that you've tried so hard to avoid, giving him lessons that feel like lessons, replacing his own experiences and the growth of his reasoning with the experiences and authority of the teacher.

To remove these two obstacles at once, and to bring the human heart within his reach without risk of spoiling his own, I would show him men from afar, in other times or in other places, so that he may behold the scene but cannot take part in it. This is the time for history; with its help he will read the hearts of men without any lessons in philosophy; with its help he will view them as a mere spectator, dispassionate and without prejudice; he will view them as their judge, not as their accomplice or their accuser.

To tackle these two challenges at once and to connect the human heart to him without compromising his own, I would show him people from a distance, in different times or places, so he can see the scene without being involved in it. This is the moment for history; it will allow him to understand people's hearts without needing lessons in philosophy; through it, he can observe them as an impartial spectator, free from bias; he will see them as their judge, not as a partner in crime or their accuser.

To know men you must behold their actions. In society we hear them talk; they show their words and hide their deeds; but in history the veil is drawn aside, and they are judged by their deeds. Their sayings even help us to understand them; for comparing what they say and what they do, we see not only what they are but what they would appear; the more they disguise themselves the more thoroughly they stand revealed.

To truly understand people, you have to look at what they do. In society, we hear them speak; they express their words while hiding their actions. But in history, the curtain is pulled back, and they are evaluated based on their actions. Their words help us grasp their true nature; by comparing what they say to what they do, we can see not just who they really are, but also how they want to be seen. The more they try to cover up their true selves, the more clearly they are exposed.

Unluckily this study has its dangers, its drawbacks of several kinds. It is difficult to adopt a point of view which will enable one to judge one’s fellow-creatures fairly. It is one of the chief defects of history to paint men’s evil deeds rather than their good ones; it is revolutions and catastrophes that make history interesting; so long as a nation grows and prospers quietly in the tranquillity of a peaceful government, history says nothing; she only begins to speak of nations when, no longer able to be self-sufficing, they interfere with their neighbours’ business, or allow their neighbours to interfere with their own; history only makes them famous when they are on the downward path; all our histories begin where they ought to end. We have very accurate accounts of declining nations; what we lack is the history of those nations which are multiplying; they are so happy and so good that history has nothing to tell us of them; and we see indeed in our own times that the most successful governments are least talked of. We only hear what is bad; the good is scarcely mentioned. Only the wicked become famous, the good are forgotten or laughed to scorn, and thus history, like philosophy, is for ever slandering mankind.

Unfortunately, this study has its risks and various drawbacks. It's hard to take a perspective that allows for a fair judgment of our fellow humans. One of the main flaws of history is that it tends to focus on people's wrongdoings rather than their good actions; revolutions and disasters are what make history captivating. As long as a nation is growing and thriving peacefully under a stable government, history stays silent; it only starts to acknowledge nations when they can no longer stand on their own, either by meddling in others' affairs or letting others meddle in theirs. History only makes them notable when they're in decline; all our histories begin where they should actually conclude. We have very detailed accounts of failing nations; what we lack is the history of nations that are thriving; they're so happy and virtuous that history has nothing to say about them. In fact, we can see in our own times that the most successful governments receive the least attention. We only hear about the negative; the positive is rarely acknowledged. Only the wicked gain fame, while the good are forgotten or mocked, and as a result, history, like philosophy, continuously misrepresents humanity.

Moreover, it is inevitable that the facts described in history should not give an exact picture of what really happened; they are transformed in the brain of the historian, they are moulded by his interests and coloured by his prejudices. Who can place the reader precisely in a position to see the event as it really happened? Ignorance or partiality disguises everything. What a different impression may be given merely by expanding or contracting the circumstances of the case without altering a single historical incident. The same object may be seen from several points of view, and it will hardly seem the same thing, yet there has been no change except in the eye that beholds it. Do you indeed do honour to truth when what you tell me is a genuine fact, but you make it appear something quite different? A tree more or less, a rock to the right or to the left, a cloud of dust raised by the wind, how often have these decided the result of a battle without any one knowing it? Does that prevent history from telling you the cause of defeat or victory with as much assurance as if she had been on the spot? But what are the facts to me, while I am ignorant of their causes, and what lessons can I draw from an event, whose true cause is unknown to me? The historian indeed gives me a reason, but he invents it; and criticism itself, of which we hear so much, is only the art of guessing, the art of choosing from among several lies, the lie that is most like truth.

Moreover, it's inevitable that the facts described in history don't provide an exact picture of what really happened; they're transformed in the historian's mind, shaped by their interests and influenced by their biases. Who can put the reader in a position to see the event as it actually occurred? Ignorance or bias distorts everything. Just expanding or contracting the context can create a completely different impression without changing a single historical fact. The same event can be viewed from different perspectives, and it will hardly seem the same, yet there’s been no change except in the observer's viewpoint. Do you really honor the truth when what you tell me is a genuine fact, but you make it seem something entirely different? A tree more or less, a rock to the right or left, a cloud of dust stirred up by the wind—how often have these things determined the outcome of a battle without anyone realizing it? Does that stop history from explaining the reasons for defeat or victory with as much certainty as if she were present? But what do the facts mean to me if I'm unaware of their causes, and what lessons can I learn from an event whose true cause I don’t know? The historian gives me a reason, but it's often fabricated; and criticism itself, which we hear so much about, is merely the art of guessing, the skill of selecting from among various lies the one that resembles the truth the most.

Have you ever read Cleopatra or Cassandra or any books of the kind? The author selects some well-known event, he then adapts it to his purpose, adorns it with details of his own invention, with people who never existed, with imaginary portraits; thus he piles fiction on fiction to lend a charm to his story. I see little difference between such romances and your histories, unless it is that the novelist draws more on his own imagination, while the historian slavishly copies what another has imagined; I will also admit, if you please, that the novelist has some moral purpose good or bad, about which the historian scarcely concerns himself.

Have you ever read Cleopatra or Cassandra or any similar books? The author picks a well-known event, then adapts it to suit his purpose, embellishing it with details he invented, characters that never existed, and fictional portraits; this way, he layers fiction upon fiction to make his story more appealing. I see little difference between such romances and your histories, except that the novelist relies more on his own imagination, while the historian blindly copies what someone else has imagined; I will also agree, if you like, that the novelist has some moral objective, whether good or bad, which the historian hardly ever considers.

You will tell me that accuracy in history is of less interest than a true picture of men and manners; provided the human heart is truly portrayed, it matters little that events should be accurately recorded; for after all you say, what does it matter to us what happened two thousand years ago? You are right if the portraits are indeed truly given according to nature; but if the model is to be found for the most part in the historian’s imagination, are you not falling into the very error you intended to avoid, and surrendering to the authority of the historian what you would not yield to the authority of the teacher? If my pupil is merely to see fancy pictures, I would rather draw them myself; they will, at least, be better suited to him.

You might say that accuracy in history is less important than a genuine depiction of people and their behavior; as long as the human heart is honestly represented, it doesn’t really matter if events are recorded accurately. After all, you argue, what does it matter to us what happened two thousand years ago? You’re correct if the portrayals are truly based on reality; however, if the representations mostly come from the historian’s imagination, are you not falling into the very mistake you wanted to avoid, and giving the historian the authority over something you wouldn’t let a teacher control? If my student is just going to see imaginary pictures, I’d rather create them myself; they will, at least, be more fitting for him.

The worst historians for a youth are those who give their opinions. Facts! Facts! and let him decide for himself; this is how he will learn to know mankind. If he is always directed by the opinion of the author, he is only seeing through the eyes of another person, and when those ayes are no longer at his disposal he can see nothing.

The worst historians for a young person are those who share their opinions. Facts! Facts! and let them decide for themselves; this is how they will learn to understand humanity. If they're always guided by the author’s opinion, they're just seeing through someone else’s eyes, and when those eyes are no longer available, they can’t see anything.

I leave modern history on one side, not only because it has no character and all our people are alike, but because our historians, wholly taken up with effect, think of nothing but highly coloured portraits, which often represent nothing. [Footnote: Take, for instance, Guicciardini, Streda, Solis, Machiavelli, and sometimes even De Thou himself. Vertot is almost the only one who knows how to describe without giving fancy portraits.] The old historians generally give fewer portraits and bring more intelligence and common-sense to their judgments; but even among them there is plenty of scope for choice, and you must not begin with the wisest but with the simplest. I would not put Polybius or Sallust into the hands of a youth; Tacitus is the author of the old, young men cannot understand him; you must learn to see in human actions the simplest features of the heart of man before you try to sound its depths. You must be able to read facts clearly before you begin to study maxims. Philosophy in the form of maxims is only fit for the experienced. Youth should never deal with the general, all its teaching should deal with individual instances.

I set aside modern history, not just because it lacks character and everyone seems the same, but because our historians, focused solely on effects, create highly dramatized portrayals that often miss the mark. [Footnote: For example, look at Guicciardini, Streda, Solis, Machiavelli, and sometimes even De Thou himself. Vertot is almost the only one who knows how to describe without resorting to exaggerated portraits.] The older historians usually provide fewer portraits and apply more intelligence and common sense in their judgments; however, even among them, there's a lot of variation, and you should start with the simplest works, not the most profound. I wouldn't recommend Polybius or Sallust for young readers; Tacitus is meant for an older audience—they can't grasp him. You need to learn to recognize the fundamental traits of human nature before delving deeper. You should be able to interpret events clearly before you tackle principles. Philosophy, presented as principles, is only suitable for those with experience. Young people should focus on specifics, not generalities; their education should revolve around individual cases.

To my mind Thucydides is the true model of historians. He relates facts without giving his opinion; but he omits no circumstance adapted to make us judge for ourselves. He puts everything that he relates before his reader; far from interposing between the facts and the readers, he conceals himself; we seem not to read but to see. Unfortunately he speaks of nothing but war, and in his stories we only see the least instructive part of the world, that is to say the battles. The virtues and defects of the Retreat of the Ten Thousand and the Commentaries of Caesar are almost the same. The kindly Herodotus, without portraits, without maxims, yet flowing, simple, full of details calculated to delight and interest in the highest degree, would be perhaps the best historian if these very details did not often degenerate into childish folly, better adapted to spoil the taste of youth than to form it; we need discretion before we can read him. I say nothing of Livy, his turn will come; but he is a statesman, a rhetorician, he is everything which is unsuitable for a youth.

In my opinion, Thucydides is the ideal historian. He presents facts without offering his own opinion; however, he includes all the details needed for us to form our own judgments. He lays everything out for his readers; instead of inserting himself between the facts and the audience, he steps back completely; it feels like we're not just reading, but witnessing. Unfortunately, he only focuses on war, and through his accounts, we mostly see the least informative aspect of the world—namely, the battles. The strengths and weaknesses of the Retreat of the Ten Thousand and Caesar's Commentaries are nearly identical. The friendly Herodotus, while lacking portraits and maxims, is still smooth, straightforward, and full of details that greatly entertain and engage us; he might be the best historian if those details didn't occasionally drift into childish nonsense, which is more likely to spoil a young person's taste than refine it; we need to be cautious when reading him. I'll hold off on discussing Livy; his moment will come, but he is more of a politician and a rhetorician, which makes him less suitable for young readers.

History in general is lacking because it only takes note of striking and clearly marked facts which may be fixed by names, places, and dates; but the slow evolution of these facts, which cannot be definitely noted in this way, still remains unknown. We often find in some battle, lost or won, the ostensible cause of a revolution which was inevitable before this battle took place. War only makes manifest events already determined by moral causes, which few historians can perceive.

History, in general, is lacking because it only records notable and clearly defined events that can be pinned down by names, places, and dates. However, the gradual development of these events, which can't be precisely recorded in this manner, remains overlooked. We often see that a battle, whether lost or won, appears to be the apparent cause of a revolution that was bound to happen before that battle occurred. War merely brings to light events that were already influenced by moral factors, which only a few historians can recognize.

The philosophic spirit has turned the thoughts of many of the historians of our times in this direction; but I doubt whether truth has profited by their labours. The rage for systems has got possession of all alike, no one seeks to see things as they are, but only as they agree with his system.

The philosophical mindset has influenced many historians today, but I'm not sure if truth has benefitted from their efforts. The obsession with systems has taken over everyone; no one tries to see things as they really are, but only in a way that aligns with their own system.

Add to all these considerations the fact that history shows us actions rather than men, because she only seizes men at certain chosen times in full dress; she only portrays the statesman when he is prepared to be seen; she does not follow him to his home, to his study, among his family and his friends; she only shows him in state; it is his clothes rather than himself that she describes.

Consider that history presents us with actions rather than individuals, as it only captures people at specific moments when they are fully prepared for public view. It depicts the statesman when he is ready to be seen and doesn't follow him home, to his study, or among his family and friends. History only shows him in formal settings; it reveals his clothing more than his true self.

I would prefer to begin the study of the human heart with reading the lives of individuals; for then the man hides himself in vain, the historian follows him everywhere; he never gives him a moment’s grace nor any corner where he can escape the piercing eye of the spectator; and when he thinks he is concealing himself, then it is that the writer shows him up most plainly.

I would rather start studying the human heart by reading about people's lives; that way, no one can hide. The historian tracks them down everywhere; they never get a moment to breathe or a place to hide from the watchful eye of the observer; and when someone thinks they’re blending in, that’s when the writer reveals them most clearly.

“Those who write lives,” says Montaigne, “in so far as they delight more in ideas than in events, more in that which comes from within than in that which comes from without, these are the writers I prefer; for this reason Plutarch is in every way the man for me.”

“Those who write about lives,” says Montaigne, “because they enjoy ideas more than events, and what comes from within more than what comes from outside, these are the writers I prefer; for this reason, Plutarch is definitely the one for me.”

It is true that the genius of men in groups or nations is very different from the character of the individual man, and that we have a very imperfect knowledge of the human heart if we do not also examine it in crowds; but it is none the less true that to judge of men we must study the individual man, and that he who had a perfect knowledge of the inclinations of each individual might foresee all their combined effects in the body of the nation.

It's true that the brilliance of people in groups or nations is quite different from that of the individual, and we don't fully understand the human heart if we don't also analyze it in crowds. However, it remains true that to evaluate people, we need to study the individual. Anyone who has a complete understanding of each person's tendencies could predict all their combined effects on the nation as a whole.

We must go back again to the ancients, for the reasons already stated, and also because all the details common and familiar, but true and characteristic, are banished by modern stylists, so that men are as much tricked out by our modern authors in their private life as in public. Propriety, no less strict in literature than in life, no longer permits us to say anything in public which we might not do in public; and as we may only show the man dressed up for his part, we never see a man in our books any more than we do on the stage. The lives of kings may be written a hundred times, but to no purpose; we shall never have another Suetonius.

We need to revisit the ancients, for the reasons already mentioned, and also because modern writers have removed all the familiar yet true details that define character. This means that people are portrayed in their private lives by contemporary authors just as they are in public. The standards of decency, which are just as important in literature as they are in life, stop us from saying anything in public that we wouldn’t do in public. Since we can only show a character dressed for their role, we rarely see a real person in our narratives, just like we don't on stage. The lives of kings could be written a hundred times, but it’s pointless; we will never have another Suetonius.

The excellence of Plutarch consists in these very details which we are no longer permitted to describe. With inimitable grace he paints the great man in little things; and he is so happy in the choice of his instances that a word, a smile, a gesture, will often suffice to indicate the nature of his hero. With a jest Hannibal cheers his frightened soldiers, and leads them laughing to the battle which will lay Italy at his feet; Agesilaus riding on a stick makes me love the conqueror of the great king; Caesar passing through a poor village and chatting with his friends unconsciously betrays the traitor who professed that he only wished to be Pompey’s equal. Alexander swallows a draught without a word—it is the finest moment in his life; Aristides writes his own name on the shell and so justifies his title; Philopoemen, his mantle laid aside, chops firewood in the kitchen of his host. This is the true art of portraiture. Our disposition does not show itself in our features, nor our character in our great deeds; it is trifles that show what we really are. What is done in public is either too commonplace or too artificial, and our modern authors are almost too grand to tell us anything else.

The brilliance of Plutarch lies in the very details that we can no longer discuss. With unmatched skill, he portrays great individuals in small moments; he's so adept at selecting his examples that a single word, a smile, or a gesture can often reveal the essence of his hero. Hannibal lightens the mood of his terrified soldiers with a joke, leading them to battle with laughter, ready to conquer Italy; Agesilaus, riding on a stick, makes me admire the victor over the great king; Caesar, passing through a struggling village and chatting with friends, unwittingly exposes the traitor who claimed to only want to match Pompey; Alexander drinks silently—a defining moment in his life; Aristides writes his own name on a shell, validating his title; Philopoemen, having set aside his cloak, chops firewood in his host’s kitchen. This is true artistry in portraiture. Our true nature doesn’t appear in our faces, nor does our character shine through our major accomplishments; it’s the little things that reveal who we genuinely are. What happens in public is often either too ordinary or too staged, and our contemporary writers are usually too lofty to share much else.

M. de Turenne was undoubtedly one of the greatest men of the last century. They have had the courage to make his life interesting by the little details which make us know and love him; but how many details have they felt obliged to omit which might have made us know and love him better still? I will only quote one which I have on good authority, one which Plutarch would never have omitted, and one which Ramsai would never have inserted had he been acquainted with it.

M. de Turenne was definitely one of the greatest figures of the last century. They had the courage to make his life engaging with the small details that help us understand and appreciate him; but how many details did they feel they had to leave out that could have helped us know and love him even more? I will just mention one that I can confirm from a reliable source, one that Plutarch would never have left out, and one that Ramsai would never have included if he had known about it.

On a hot summer’s day Viscount Turenne in a little white vest and nightcap was standing at the window of his antechamber; one of his men came up and, misled by the dress, took him for one of the kitchen lads whom he knew. He crept up behind him and smacked him with no light hand. The man he struck turned round hastily. The valet saw it was his master and trembled at the sight of his face. He fell on his knees in desperation. “Sir, I thought it was George.” “Well, even if it was George,” exclaimed Turenne rubbing the injured part, “you need not have struck so hard.” You do not dare to say this, you miserable writers! Remain for ever without humanity and without feeling; steel your hard hearts in your vile propriety, make yourselves contemptible through your high-mightiness. But as for you, dear youth, when you read this anecdote, when you are touched by all the kindliness displayed even on the impulse of the moment, read also the littleness of this great man when it was a question of his name and birth. Remember it was this very Turenne who always professed to yield precedence to his nephew, so that all men might see that this child was the head of a royal house. Look on this picture and on that, love nature, despise popular prejudice, and know the man as he was.

On a hot summer day, Viscount Turenne, wearing a little white vest and a nightcap, was standing at the window of his antechamber. One of his servants came up and, misled by his outfit, mistook him for one of the kitchen boys he recognized. He snuck up behind him and slapped him hard. The man who was struck turned around quickly. The valet realized it was his master and trembled at the sight of his face. He fell to his knees in desperation. “Sir, I thought it was George.” “Well, even if it was George,” Turenne exclaimed, rubbing the sore spot, “you didn’t have to hit so hard.” You wouldn’t dare say this, you pathetic writers! Stay forever devoid of humanity and emotion; harden your hearts with your pathetic sense of propriety and make yourselves contemptible with your arrogance. But as for you, dear reader, when you come across this story, when you’re moved by the kindness shown even in the heat of the moment, also recognize the smallness of this great man when it came to his name and background. Remember it was Turenne who always claimed to give way to his nephew, so that everyone could see this child was part of a royal family. Look at this image and that one, love humanity, despise public prejudice, and understand the man as he truly was.

There are few people able to realise what an effect such reading, carefully directed, will have upon the unspoilt mind of a youth. Weighed down by books from our earliest childhood, accustomed to read without thinking, what we read strikes us even less, because we already bear in ourselves the passions and prejudices with which history and the lives of men are filled; all that they do strikes us as only natural, for we ourselves are unnatural and we judge others by ourselves. But imagine my Emile, who has been carefully guarded for eighteen years with the sole object of preserving a right judgment and a healthy heart, imagine him when the curtain goes up casting his eyes for the first time upon the world’s stage; or rather picture him behind the scenes watching the actors don their costumes, and counting the cords and pulleys which deceive with their feigned shows the eyes of the spectators. His first surprise will soon give place to feelings of shame and scorn of his fellow-man; he will be indignant at the sight of the whole human race deceiving itself and stooping to this childish folly; he will grieve to see his brothers tearing each other limb from limb for a mere dream, and transforming themselves into wild beasts because they could not be content to be men.

There are few people who can realize the impact that carefully guided reading can have on the untouched mind of a young person. Burdened with books from a young age and used to reading without thinking, we absorb what we read even less because we already carry the passions and prejudices that fill history and human lives; everything they do seems natural to us, while we ourselves are unnatural and judge others by our own standards. But imagine my Emile, who has been carefully protected for eighteen years with the sole purpose of maintaining a clear judgment and a healthy heart. Picture him when the curtain rises, seeing the world’s stage for the first time; or rather, visualize him behind the scenes, watching the actors put on their costumes and counting the ropes and pulleys that trick the audience with their fake displays. His initial surprise will soon turn to feelings of shame and contempt for humanity; he will be outraged to see the entire human race deceiving itself and engaging in this childish folly. He will be saddened to witness his brothers tearing each other apart for a mere illusion, turning into wild beasts because they couldn’t be satisfied with just being human.

Given the natural disposition of the pupil, there is no doubt that if the master exercises any sort of prudence or discretion in his choice of reading, however little he may put him in the way of reflecting on the subject-matter, this exercise will serve as a course in practical philosophy, a philosophy better understood and more thoroughly mastered than all the empty speculations with which the brains of lads are muddled in our schools. After following the romantic schemes of Pyrrhus, Cineas asks him what real good he would gain by the conquest of the world, which he can never enjoy without such great sufferings; this only arouses in us a passing interest as a smart saying; but Emile will think it a very wise thought, one which had already occurred to himself, and one which he will never forget, because there is no hostile prejudice in his mind to prevent it sinking in. When he reads more of the life of this madman, he will find that all his great plans resulted in his death at the hands of a woman, and instead of admiring this pinchbeck heroism, what will he see in the exploits of this great captain and the schemes of this great statesman but so many steps towards that unlucky tile which was to bring life and schemes alike to a shameful death?

Given the natural tendencies of the student, it's clear that if the teacher shows any kind of care or thoughtfulness in choosing reading materials, even if he doesn't encourage much reflection on the content, this exercise will function as a practical course in philosophy. This type of philosophy is better understood and more fully grasped than all the pointless theories that confuse kids in our schools. After exploring the ambitious plans of Pyrrhus, Cineas asks him what real benefit he would get from conquering the world, which he can never truly enjoy due to all the suffering involved; this only sparks a fleeting interest as a clever remark, but Emile will see it as a very insightful thought, one he has likely pondered himself and will never forget, as there’s no bias in his mind to block it from taking root. When he reads more about the life of this reckless individual, he will discover that all his grand designs led to his death at the hands of a woman, and rather than admiring this pretentious heroism, what will he really see in the actions of this great general and the plans of this notable politician but just a series of steps leading to the unfortunate fate that brought life and ambitions to a disgraceful end?

All conquerors have not been killed; all usurpers have not failed in their plans; to minds imbued with vulgar prejudices many of them will seem happy, but he who looks below the surface and reckons men’s happiness by the condition of their hearts will perceive their wretchedness even in the midst of their successes; he will see them panting after advancement and never attaining their prize, he will find them like those inexperienced travellers among the Alps, who think that every height they see is the last, who reach its summit only to find to their disappointment there are loftier peaks beyond.

Not all conquerors have been killed; not all usurpers have failed in their ambitions. To those with common prejudices, many of them may appear happy, but anyone who looks deeper and measures happiness by the state of people's hearts will notice their misery even amidst their achievements. They chase after success without ever truly grasping it, much like inexperienced travelers in the Alps who believe every peak they see is the final one. They reach the summit only to be disappointed by even taller mountains ahead.

Augustus, when he had subdued his fellow-citizens and destroyed his rivals, reigned for forty years over the greatest empire that ever existed; but all this vast power could not hinder him from beating his head against the walls, and filling his palace with his groans as he cried to Varus to restore his slaughtered legions. If he had conquered all his foes what good would his empty triumphs have done him, when troubles of every kind beset his path, when his life was threatened by his dearest friends, and when he had to mourn the disgrace or death of all near and dear to him? The wretched man desired to rule the world and failed to rule his own household. What was the result of this neglect? He beheld his nephew, his adopted child, his son-in-law, perish in the flower of youth, his grandson reduced to eat the stuffing of his mattress to prolong his wretched existence for a few hours; his daughter and his granddaughter, after they had covered him with infamy, died, the one of hunger and want on a desert island, the other in prison by the hand of a common archer. He himself, the last survivor of his unhappy house, found himself compelled by his own wife to acknowledge a monster as his heir. Such was the fate of the master of the world, so famous for his glory and his good fortune. I cannot believe that any one of those who admire his glory and fortune would accept them at the same price.

Augustus, after defeating his fellow citizens and eliminating his rivals, ruled for forty years over the greatest empire that ever existed. But all this immense power couldn’t stop him from banging his head against the walls and filling his palace with his cries as he begged Varus to bring back his slaughtered legions. If he had conquered all his enemies, what good would his empty victories have done him when troubles surrounded him, when his life was in danger from those closest to him, and when he had to grieve the disgrace or death of everyone he loved? The miserable man wanted to rule the world but couldn’t even control his own household. What was the outcome of this neglect? He saw his nephew, his adopted son, and his son-in-law die young, his grandson reduced to eating the stuffing of his mattress to extend his miserable life for a few hours; his daughter and granddaughter, after bringing him shame, died—one of starvation on a deserted island, the other in prison by the hand of a common archer. He, the last survivor of his troubled family, was forced by his own wife to accept a monster as his heir. Such was the fate of the master of the world, famous for his glory and good fortune. I can’t believe that anyone who admires his glory and fortune would want to pay that price.

I have taken ambition as my example, but the play of every human passion offers similar lessons to any one who will study history to make himself wise and good at the expense of those who went before. The time is drawing near when the teaching of the life of Anthony will appeal more forcibly to the youth than the life of Augustus. Emile will scarcely know where he is among the many strange sights in his new studies; but he will know beforehand how to avoid the illusion of passions before they arise, and seeing how in all ages they have blinded men’s eyes, he will be forewarned of the way in which they may one day blind his own should he abandon himself to them. [Footnote: It is always prejudice which stirs up passion in our heart. He who only sees what really exists and only values what he knows, rarely becomes angry. The errors of our judgment produce the warmth of our desires.] These lessons, I know, are unsuited to him, perhaps at need they may prove scanty and ill-timed; but remember they are not the lessons I wished to draw from this study. To begin with, I had quite another end in view; and indeed, if this purpose is unfulfilled, the teacher will be to blame.

I chose ambition as my example, but every human emotion offers similar lessons for anyone willing to study history to become wiser and better, learning from those who came before. The time is approaching when the story of Anthony will resonate more with young people than that of Augustus. Emile will barely know where he is amid the many unfamiliar sights in his new studies; however, he will already know how to dodge the deception of emotions before they happen, and realizing how through the ages they have clouded people's judgment, he'll be warned about how they might one day cloud his own if he gives in to them. [Footnote: It's always prejudice that stirs up passion in our hearts. Those who see only what truly exists and value only what they understand rarely get angry. Our judgment errors fuel our desires.] I know these lessons might not be appropriate for him; they may seem limited and poorly timed; but keep in mind they aren’t the lessons I aimed to draw from this study. Initially, I had a completely different goal in mind; and indeed, if this purpose isn’t met, the fault lies with the teacher.

Remember that, as soon as selfishness has developed, the self in its relations to others is always with us, and the youth never observes others without coming back to himself and comparing himself with them. From the way young men are taught to study history I see that they are transformed, so to speak, into the people they behold, that you strive to make a Cicero, a Trajan, or an Alexander of them, to discourage them when they are themselves again, to make every one regret that he is merely himself. There are certain advantages in this plan which I do not deny; but, so far as Emile is concerned, should it happen at any time when he is making these comparisons that he wishes to be any one but himself—were it Socrates or Cato—I have failed entirely; he who begins to regard himself as a stranger will soon forget himself altogether.

Remember that once selfishness sets in, the self in relation to others is always present, and young people never observe others without reflecting on themselves and comparing themselves to them. From how young men are taught to study history, I see that they become, in a way, the people they admire, as if you strive to turn them into a Cicero, a Trajan, or an Alexander. This discourages them from being themselves, making everyone wish they were anyone but themselves. I won’t deny there are some benefits to this approach; however, as far as Emile is concerned, if he ever finds himself wanting to be anyone other than himself—be it Socrates or Cato—I have completely failed; anyone who starts to see themselves as a stranger will soon forget who they are altogether.

It is not philosophers who know most about men; they only view them through the preconceived ideas of philosophy, and I know no one so prejudiced as philosophers. A savage would judge us more sanely. The philosopher is aware of his own vices, he is indignant at ours, and he says to himself, “We are all bad alike;” the savage beholds us unmoved and says, “You are mad.” He is right, for no one does evil for evil’s sake. My pupil is that savage, with this difference: Emile has thought more, he has compared ideas, seen our errors at close quarters, he is more on his guard against himself, and only judges of what he knows.

It's not philosophers who understand people best; they just see them through the biased lens of their philosophy, and I don't know anyone as prejudiced as philosophers. A savage would assess us more objectively. The philosopher recognizes his own faults, feels outraged by ours, and thinks to himself, “We’re all flawed.” Meanwhile, the savage looks at us without any emotion and says, “You're crazy.” He's right because no one commits evil for the sake of evil. My student is that savage, but there's one key difference: Emile has thought more deeply, compared different ideas, seen our mistakes up close, is more cautious about himself, and judges only what he truly knows.

It is our own passions that excite us against the passions of others; it is our self-interest which makes us hate the wicked; if they did us no harm we should pity rather than hate them. We should readily forgive their vices if we could perceive how their own heart punishes those vices. We are aware of the offence, but we do not see the punishment; the advantages are plain, the penalty is hidden. The man who thinks he is enjoying the fruits of his vices is no less tormented by them than if they had not been successful; the object is different, the anxiety is the same; in vain he displays his good fortune and hides his heart; in spite of himself his conduct betrays him; but to discern this, our own heart must be utterly unlike his.

It's our own passions that fire us up against the passions of others; it's our self-interest that makes us hate the wicked. If they didn’t cause us any harm, we’d feel sorry for them instead of hating them. We’d easily forgive their faults if we could see how their own hearts punish those faults. We recognize the wrongdoing, but we can’t see the punishment; the benefits are obvious, while the consequences are hidden. The person who thinks they are enjoying the rewards of their bad actions is tormented by them just as much as if they hadn’t succeeded; the outcome is different, but the anxiety is the same. They may boast about their good fortune and conceal their true feelings, but their behavior reveals them despite their efforts. To see this clearly, our own hearts must be completely different from theirs.

We are led astray by those passions which we share; we are disgusted by those that militate against our own interests; and with a want of logic due to these very passions, we blame in others what we fain would imitate. Aversion and self-deception are inevitable when we are forced to endure at another’s hands what we ourselves would do in his place.

We get misled by the passions we have in common; we feel repulsed by those that go against our own interests; and due to these very passions, we lose our ability to think clearly and criticize in others what we secretly want to do ourselves. Dislike and self-deception become unavoidable when we have to endure from someone else what we would do if we were in their position.

What then is required for the proper study of men? A great wish to know men, great impartiality of judgment, a heart sufficiently sensitive to understand every human passion, and calm enough to be free from passion. If there is any time in our life when this study is likely to be appreciated, it is this that I have chosen for Emile; before this time men would have been strangers to him; later on he would have been like them. Convention, the effects of which he already perceives, has not yet made him its slave, the passions, whose consequences he realises, have not yet stirred his heart. He is a man; he takes an interest in his brethren; he is a just man and he judges his peers. Now it is certain that if he judges them rightly he will not want to change places with any one of them, for the goal of all their anxious efforts is the result of prejudices which he does not share, and that goal seems to him a mere dream. For his own part, he has all he wants within his reach. How should he be dependent on any one when he is self-sufficing and free from prejudice? Strong arms, good health, [Footnote: I think I may fairly reckon health and strength among the advantages he has obtained by his education, or rather among the gifts of nature which his education has preserved for him.] moderation, few needs, together with the means to satisfy those needs, are his. He has been brought up in complete liberty and servitude is the greatest ill he understands. He pities these miserable kings, the slaves of all who obey them; he pities these false prophets fettered by their empty fame; he pities these rich fools, martyrs to their own pomp; he pities these ostentatious voluptuaries, who spend their life in deadly dullness that they may seem to enjoy its pleasures. He would pity the very foe who harmed him, for he would discern his wretchedness beneath his cloak of spite. He would say to himself, “This man has yielded to his desire to hurt me, and this need of his places him at my mercy.”

What is needed for a proper understanding of people? A strong desire to know them, a fair mindset, a heart that can truly feel all human emotions, and a calmness that keeps it free from excessive passion. If there’s a time in life when this study is truly valuable, it’s now for Emile; before this, people would have been strangers to him, and later he would be just like them. He’s already aware of the constraints of society but hasn’t yet become a victim of them; the feelings he understands have yet to touch his heart. He is a man who cares about others; he is fair and judges his peers without bias. It’s clear that if he judges them fairly, he won’t want to be in their shoes, as their struggles stem from beliefs he does not share, and those struggles seem like nothing more than a fantasy to him. For himself, he has everything he needs within his grasp. How could he depend on anyone when he is self-sufficient and free from bias? He has strong abilities, good health, moderation, minimal needs, and the means to meet those needs. He has been raised in complete freedom, and he understands servitude as the greatest misfortune. He feels sorry for those miserable kings, enslaved by those who follow them; he pities the false prophets trapped by their empty fame; he empathizes with the wealthy fools, victims of their own vanity; he feels for those overindulgent pleasure-seekers, who spend their lives in exhausting boredom just to appear like they are enjoying life’s pleasures. He would even pity the enemy who harmed him, because he would see the misery beneath their spiteful exterior. He would tell himself, “This person has given in to their desire to hurt me, and that need of theirs puts them at my mercy.”

One step more and our goal is attained. Selfishness is a dangerous tool though a useful one; it often wounds the hand that uses it, and it rarely does good unmixed with evil. When Emile considers his place among men, when he finds himself so fortunately situated, he will be tempted to give credit to his own reason for the work of yours, and to attribute to his own deserts what is really the result of his good fortune. He will say to himself, “I am wise and other men are fools.” He will pity and despise them and will congratulate himself all the more heartily; and as he knows he is happier than they, he will think his deserts are greater. This is the fault we have most to fear, for it is the most difficult to eradicate. If he remained in this state of mind, he would have profited little by all our care; and if I had to choose, I hardly know whether I would not rather choose the illusions of prejudice than those of pride.

One more step and we’ve reached our goal. Selfishness is a dangerous tool, even though it can be useful; it often harms the person using it, and it rarely brings about good without some bad. When Emile considers his place among people, and realizes how fortunate he is, he might be tempted to credit his own reasoning for your work and to believe that his own merits are what led to his good fortune. He will tell himself, “I’m wise and others are fools.” He will feel pity and disdain for them, and congratulate himself even more; and since he knows he’s happier than they are, he’ll think he deserves even more. This is the flaw we should fear most because it is the hardest to correct. If he stays in this mindset, he won’t have gained much from all our efforts; and if I had to choose, I honestly don’t know if I wouldn’t prefer the illusions of bias over those of arrogance.

Great men are under no illusion with respect to their superiority; they see it and know it, but they are none the less modest. The more they have, the better they know what they lack. They are less vain of their superiority over us than ashamed by the consciousness of their weakness, and among the good things they really possess, they are too wise to pride themselves on a gift which is none of their getting. The good man may be proud of his virtue for it is his own, but what cause for pride has the man of intellect? What has Racine done that he is not Pradon, and Boileau that he is not Cotin?

Great men don’t fool themselves about their superiority; they recognize it and understand it, but they remain humble. The more they have, the more they realize what they lack. They care less about feeling superior to others and feel more ashamed of their weaknesses. Among the valuable qualities they genuinely possess, they're too wise to take pride in a talent that isn’t their own. A good person might be proud of their virtue since it's their own achievement, but what reason does an intelligent person have to feel proud? What has Racine done to distinguish himself from Pradon, and Boileau from Cotin?

The circumstances with which we are concerned are quite different. Let us keep to the common level. I assumed that my pupil had neither surpassing genius nor a defective understanding. I chose him of an ordinary mind to show what education could do for man. Exceptions defy all rules. If, therefore, as a result of my care, Emile prefers his way of living, seeing, and feeling to that of others, he is right; but if he thinks because of this that he is nobler and better born than they, he is wrong; he is deceiving himself; he must be undeceived, or rather let us prevent the mistake, lest it be too late to correct it.

The situation we're talking about is quite different. Let's stick to the basics. I believed that my student didn’t have extraordinary talent or a poor understanding. I picked him for his average mind to demonstrate what education can do for a person. Exceptions break all the rules. So, if as a result of my guidance, Emile prefers his own way of living, seeing, and feeling over others, he’s right; but if he thinks this makes him nobler or of better birth than them, he’s wrong; he’s fooling himself. He needs to recognize this mistake, or rather, let’s make sure he doesn’t fall into that trap before it's too late to fix it.

Provided a man is not mad, he can be cured of any folly but vanity; there is no cure for this but experience, if indeed there is any cure for it at all; when it first appears we can at least prevent its further growth. But do not on this account waste your breath on empty arguments to prove to the youth that he is like other men and subject to the same weaknesses. Make him feel it or he will never know it. This is another instance of an exception to my own rules; I must voluntarily expose my pupil to every accident which may convince him that he is no wiser than we. The adventure with the conjurer will be repeated again and again in different ways; I shall let flatterers take advantage of him; if rash comrades draw him into some perilous adventure, I will let him run the risk; if he falls into the hands of sharpers at the card-table, I will abandon him to them as their dupe.[Footnote: Moreover our pupil will be little tempted by this snare; he has so many amusements about him, he has never been bored in his life, and he scarcely knows the use of money. As children have been led by these two motives, self-interest and vanity, rogues and courtesans use the same means to get hold of them later. When you see their greediness encouraged by prizes and rewards, when you find their public performances at ten years old applauded at school or college, you see too how at twenty they will be induced to leave their purse in a gambling hell and their health in a worse place. You may safely wager that the sharpest boy in the class will become the greatest gambler and debauchee. Now the means which have not been employed in childhood have not the same effect in youth. But we must bear in mind my constant plan and take the thing at its worst. First I try to prevent the vice; then I assume its existence in order to correct it.] I will let them flatter him, pluck him, and rob him; and when having sucked him dry they turn and mock him, I will even thank them to his face for the lessons they have been good enough to give him. The only snares from which I will guard him with my utmost care are the wiles of wanton women. The only precaution I shall take will be to share all the dangers I let him run, and all the insults I let him receive. I will bear everything in silence, without a murmur or reproach, without a word to him, and be sure that if this wise conduct is faithfully adhered to, what he sees me endure on his account will make more impression on his heart than what he himself suffers.

As long as a man is sane, he can be cured of any foolishness except vanity; the only remedy for that seems to be experience, if there is one at all. When vanity first appears, at least we can stop it from growing. But don't waste your breath trying to convince a young man that he's just like everyone else and has the same weaknesses. He needs to feel it, or he'll never truly understand it. This is another exception to my usual rules; I have to let my student face every situation that might show him he's not any wiser than the rest of us. The situation with the magician will happen again and again in different forms; I'll let flatterers take advantage of him; if reckless friends lead him into dangerous situations, I'll let him take that risk; if he falls into the hands of con artists at the card table, I’ll leave him to be their fool. Moreover, my student won’t be easily tempted by this trap; he has so many distractions around him, he’s never been bored, and he hardly knows how to use money. Just as children have been led by self-interest and vanity, sneaky people and seducers use those same tactics to get to them later. When you see their greed encouraged by prizes and rewards, and when you find their performances at school celebrated at ten years old, it’s clear that by twenty, they’ll leave their money at a gambling den and their health in an even worse place. You can bet that the smartest kid in class will grow up to be the biggest gambler and indulgent. The methods not used in childhood don’t have the same impact in youth. But I always stick to my plan and consider the worst of things. First, I try to prevent the vice; then I acknowledge its presence to correct it. I’ll let them flatter him, cheat him, and rob him; and when they’ve drained him and then make fun of him, I’ll even thank them, in front of him, for the lessons they’ve given. The only traps I’ll protect him from are the tricks of reckless women. The only precaution I’ll take is to endure all the dangers I let him face and all the insults he receives. I’ll bear everything in silence, without complaining or blaming him, without saying a word, and I’m sure that if I stick to this wise approach, what he sees me endure for him will leave a stronger impression on his heart than what he actually suffers.

I cannot refrain at this point from drawing attention to the sham dignity of tutors, who foolishly pretend to be wise, who discourage their pupils by always professing to treat them as children, and by emphasising the difference between themselves and their scholars in everything they do. Far from damping their youthful spirits in this fashion, spare no effort to stimulate their courage; that they may become your equals, treat them as such already, and if they cannot rise to your level, do not scruple to come down to theirs without being ashamed of it. Remember that your honour is no longer in your own keeping but in your pupil’s. Share his faults that you may correct them, bear his disgrace that you may wipe it out; follow the example of that brave Roman who, unable to rally his fleeing soldiers, placed himself at their head, exclaiming, “They do not flee, they follow their captain!” Did this dishonour him? Not so; by sacrificing his glory he increased it. The power of duty, the beauty of virtue, compel our respect in spite of all our foolish prejudices. If I received a blow in the course of my duties to Emile, far from avenging it I would boast of it; and I doubt whether there is in the whole world a man so vile as to respect me any the less on this account.

I can’t help but point out the false dignity of tutors, who foolishly act like they’re wise, discouraging their students by always treating them like kids, and highlighting the difference between themselves and their students in everything they do. Instead of crushing their youthful spirit, put in the effort to encourage their bravery; treat them as equals already, and if they can’t reach your level, don’t hesitate to come down to theirs without feeling ashamed. Remember that your honor is no longer just in your hands, but in your student’s too. Share their faults so you can help correct them, bear their shame so you can help erase it; follow the example of that brave Roman who, unable to rally his fleeing soldiers, placed himself at their front, shouting, “They do not flee, they follow their captain!” Did this bring him dishonor? Not at all; by sacrificing his glory, he actually increased it. The power of duty and the beauty of virtue demand our respect despite all our silly prejudices. If I were to take a hit while doing my duties to Emile, rather than seeking revenge, I would take pride in it; and I doubt there’s anyone in the whole world who would respect me any less for it.

I do not intend the pupil to suppose his master to be as ignorant, or as liable to be led astray, as he is himself. This idea is all very well for a child who can neither see nor compare things, who thinks everything is within his reach, and only bestows his confidence on those who know how to come down to his level. But a youth of Emile’s age and sense is no longer so foolish as to make this mistake, and it would not be desirable that he should. The confidence he ought to have in his tutor is of another kind; it should rest on the authority of reason, and on superior knowledge, advantages which the young man is capable of appreciating while he perceives how useful they are to himself. Long experience has convinced him that his tutor loves him, that he is a wise and good man who desires his happiness and knows how to procure it. He ought to know that it is to his own advantage to listen to his advice. But if the master lets himself be taken in like the disciple, he will lose his right to expect deference from him, and to give him instruction. Still less should the pupil suppose that his master is purposely letting him fall into snares or preparing pitfalls for his inexperience. How can we avoid these two difficulties? Choose the best and most natural means; be frank and straightforward like himself; warn him of the dangers to which he is exposed, point them out plainly and sensibly, without exaggeration, without temper, without pedantic display, and above all without giving your opinions in the form of orders, until they have become such, and until this imperious tone is absolutely necessary. Should he still be obstinate as he often will be, leave him free to follow his own choice, follow him, copy his example, and that cheerfully and frankly; if possible fling yourself into things, amuse yourself as much as he does. If the consequences become too serious, you are at hand to prevent them; and yet when this young man has beheld your foresight and your kindliness, will he not be at once struck by the one and touched by the other? All his faults are but so many hands with which he himself provides you to restrain him at need. Now under these circumstances the great art of the master consists in controlling events and directing his exhortations so that he may know beforehand when the youth will give in, and when he will refuse to do so, so that all around him he may encompass him with the lessons of experience, and yet never let him run too great a risk.

I don't want the student to think that his teacher is as clueless or easily misled as he is. That's a reasonable thought for a child who can't really see or compare things, who believes everything is possible for him, and trusts only those who can connect with him on his level. But a young person like Emile, who has both age and understanding, should not be so naive, nor would it be good for him to be. The trust he should have in his tutor needs to be based on reason and greater knowledge—things Emile can recognize as beneficial to himself. His long experience should have shown him that his tutor cares for him, that he is wise and good-hearted, wanting his happiness and knowing how to achieve it. He should realize that listening to his advice is in his best interest. However, if the teacher allows himself to be fooled like the student, he loses his right to expect respect and to provide instruction. The student should also not think that his teacher is deliberately leading him into traps or setting up obstacles because of his inexperience. How can we address these issues? Use the best, natural methods; be open and honest with him; alert him to the dangers he faces, pointing them out clearly and reasonably, without overdoing it, without irritation, without sounding like a know-it-all, and especially without giving your opinions as commands until it's truly necessary. If he remains stubborn, which he often will, let him make his own choices, follow him, imitate him, and do so with good cheer and honesty; if possible, jump into his activities, enjoy yourself just as he does. If the consequences become too severe, you're there to step in; and when this young man sees your foresight and kindness, won't he be impressed by one and moved by the other? All his faults are just opportunities for you to guide him when he needs it. In these circumstances, the key skill of the teacher lies in managing the situation and directing his advice so that he can anticipate when the young man will give in and when he won’t, surrounding him with valuable lessons from experience without letting him take too much of a risk.

Warn him of his faults before he commits them; do not blame him when once they are committed; you would only stir his self-love to mutiny. We learn nothing from a lesson we detest. I know nothing more foolish than the phrase, “I told you so.” The best way to make him remember what you told him is to seem to have forgotten it. Go further than this, and when you find him ashamed of having refused to believe you, gently smooth away the shame with kindly words. He will indeed hold you dear when he sees how you forget yourself on his account, and how you console him instead of reproaching him. But if you increase his annoyance by your reproaches he will hate you, and will make it a rule never to heed you, as if to show you that he does not agree with you as to the value of your opinion.

Warn him about his mistakes before he makes them; don’t blame him after he has made them; that will only make him defensive. We learn nothing from a lesson we dislike. There's nothing more foolish than saying, “I told you so.” The best way to help him remember what you said is to act like you’ve forgotten it. Go even further, and when you notice he’s ashamed for not believing you, gently ease his shame with kind words. He will truly value you when he sees how you put aside your feelings for him and comfort him instead of criticizing him. But if you increase his frustration with your criticism, he will come to dislike you and will make it a point to ignore your opinions, as if to show you that he disagrees with your perspective.

The turn you give to your consolation may itself be a lesson to him, and all the more because he does not suspect it. When you tell him, for example, that many other people have made the same mistakes, this is not what he was expecting; you are administering correction under the guise of pity; for when one thinks oneself better than other people it is a very mortifying excuse to console oneself by their example; it means that we must realise that the most we can say is that they are no better than we.

The way you approach your comfort can actually teach him a lesson, especially since he doesn’t see it coming. For instance, when you point out that many others have made the same mistakes, it’s probably not what he anticipated; you’re actually correcting him while pretending to sympathize. When someone believes they’re better than others, it can be pretty humiliating to find solace in their shortcomings; it suggests that we have to accept that the most we can claim is that they’re no better than we are.

The time of faults is the time for fables. When we blame the guilty under the cover of a story we instruct without offending him; and he then understands that the story is not untrue by means of the truth he finds in its application to himself. The child who has never been deceived by flattery understands nothing of the fable I recently examined; but the rash youth who has just become the dupe of a flatterer perceives only too readily that the crow was a fool. Thus he acquires a maxim from the fact, and the experience he would soon have forgotten is engraved on his mind by means of the fable. There is no knowledge of morals which cannot be acquired through our own experience or that of others. When there is danger, instead of letting him try the experiment himself, we have recourse to history. When the risk is comparatively slight, it is just as well that the youth should be exposed to it; then by means of the apologue the special cases with which the young man is now acquainted are transformed into maxims.

The time of mistakes is when we share stories. When we point out the wrongdoer under the guise of a tale, we teach without directly offending them; they then realize that the story holds truth based on how it applies to their situation. A child who has never been misled by flattery doesn't grasp the fable I just looked at; but a reckless young person who has just fallen for a flatterer recognizes too easily that the crow acted foolishly. So, he learns a lesson from this fact, and the experience he might have quickly forgotten is imprinted in his mind through the fable. There’s no understanding of morals that we can’t learn through our own experiences or those of others. When danger is present, rather than letting someone test it out for themselves, we refer to history. When the risk is lower, it’s beneficial for young people to face it. Through the fable, the specific situations the young person now knows turn into life lessons.

It is not, however, my intention that these maxims should be explained, nor even formulated. Nothing is so foolish and unwise as the moral at the end of most of the fables; as if the moral was not, or ought not to be so clear in the fable itself that the reader cannot fail to perceive it. Why then add the moral at the end, and go deprive him of the pleasure of discovering it for himself. The art of teaching consists in making the pupil wish to learn. But if the pupil is to wish to learn, his mind must not remain in such a passive state with regard to what you tell him that there is really nothing for him to do but listen to you. The master’s vanity must always give way to the scholars; he must be able to say, I understand, I see it, I am getting at it, I am learning something. One of the things which makes the Pantaloon in the Italian comedies so wearisome is the pains taken by him to explain to the audience the platitudes they understand only too well already. We must always be intelligible, but we need not say all there is to be said. If you talk much you will say little, for at last no one will listen to you. What is the sense of the four lines at the end of La Fontaine’s fable of the frog who puffed herself up. Is he afraid we should not understand it? Does this great painter need to write the names beneath the things he has painted? His morals, far from generalising, restrict the lesson to some extent to the examples given, and prevent our applying them to others. Before I put the fables of this inimitable author into the hands of a youth, I should like to cut out all the conclusions with which he strives to explain what he has just said so clearly and pleasantly. If your pupil does not understand the fable without the explanation, he will not understand it with it.

It’s not my goal for these maxims to be explained or even formulated. Nothing is more foolish and unwise than the moral at the end of most fables; as if the moral isn’t or shouldn’t be so clear in the fable itself that the reader can’t help but see it. So why add the moral at the end and take away the joy of discovering it for oneself? The art of teaching is about making the student want to learn. However, if the student is just passively listening to what you say, there’s really nothing for them to do but listen. The teacher's ego should always take a back seat to the students; they should be able to say, I understand, I get it, I’m figuring it out, I’m learning something. One thing that makes the Pantaloon in Italian comedies so tiresome is the effort he puts into explaining things to the audience that they already understand perfectly well. We must always be clear, but we don’t have to say everything that could be said. If you talk too much, you’ll end up saying little, because eventually no one will pay attention to you. What’s the point of the four lines at the end of La Fontaine’s fable about the frog who puffed herself up? Is he worried we won’t get it? Does this great artist really need to write the names below the things he painted? His morals, rather than generalizing, somewhat limit the lesson to the examples given and prevent us from applying them to other situations. Before I hand over the fables of this unmatched author to a young person, I’d want to cut out all the conclusions he tries to use to explain what he has already expressed so clearly and enjoyably. If your student doesn’t understand the fable without the explanation, they won’t understand it with it either.

Moreover, the fables would require to be arranged in a more didactic order, one more in agreement with the feelings and knowledge of the young adolescent. Can you imagine anything so foolish as to follow the mere numerical order of the book without regard to our requirements or our opportunities. First the grasshopper, then the crow, then the frog, then the two mules, etc. I am sick of these two mules; I remember seeing a child who was being educated for finance; they never let him alone, but were always insisting on the profession he was to follow; they made him read this fable, learn it, say it, repeat it again and again without finding in it the slightest argument against his future calling. Not only have I never found children make any real use of the fables they learn, but I have never found anybody who took the trouble to see that they made such a use of them. The study claims to be instruction in morals; but the real aim of mother and child is nothing but to set a whole party watching the child while he recites his fables; when he is too old to recite them and old enough to make use of them, they are altogether forgotten. Only men, I repeat, can learn from fables, and Emile is now old enough to begin.

Moreover, the fables should be organized in a more educational way, one that aligns better with the feelings and understanding of young teenagers. Can you imagine anything more ridiculous than following the book's numerical order without considering our needs or the opportunities we have? First the grasshopper, then the crow, then the frog, then the two mules, etc. I'm tired of those two mules; I remember seeing a kid being trained for a finance career; they never left him alone, always pushing him about the profession he had to choose; they made him read this fable, memorize it, recite it, and repeat it over and over again without finding even the slightest argument against his future career. Not only have I never seen kids actually make good use of the fables they learn, but I've never come across anyone who took the time to ensure they did. The study claims to be a lesson in morals; but the real goal of both mother and child is just to have a whole group watch the child while he recites his fables; when he gets too old to recite them and is mature enough to use them, they are completely forgotten. Only adults, I repeat, can learn from fables, and Emile is now old enough to start.

I do not mean to tell you everything, so I only indicate the paths which diverge from the right way, so that you may know how to avoid them. If you follow the road I have marked out for you, I think your pupil will buy his knowledge of mankind and his knowledge of himself in the cheapest market; you will enable him to behold the tricks of fortune without envying the lot of her favourites, and to be content with himself without thinking himself better than others. You have begun by making him an actor that he may learn to be one of the audience; you must continue your task, for from the theatre things are what they seem, from the stage they seem what they are. For the general effect we must get a distant view, for the details we must observe more closely. But how can a young man take part in the business of life? What right has he to be initiated into its dark secrets? His interests are confined within the limits of his own pleasures, he has no power over others, it is much the same as if he had no power at all. Man is the cheapest commodity on the market, and among all our important rights of property, the rights of the individual are always considered last of all.

I don't intend to share everything, so I’ll only point out the paths that stray from the right direction, so you know how to steer clear of them. If you stick to the path I've laid out for you, I believe your pupil will gain insights about people and himself at the best price; you'll help him see life's ups and downs without envying those favored by fortune, and to be satisfied with who he is without thinking he’s better than others. You've started by making him an actor so he can learn to be part of the audience; you need to keep that up, because in the theater, things appear as they are, while from the stage, they seem as they are. For an overall perspective, we need to take a step back, and for the finer details, we should look closely. But how can a young man get involved in life's matters? What gives him the right to be let in on its hidden complexities? His interests are limited to his own pleasures, and he holds no sway over others; it’s almost like he has no power at all. People are the most inexpensive item on the market, and among all our valuable property rights, individual rights are always seen as the least important.

When I see the studies of young men at the period of their greatest activity confined to purely speculative matters, while later on they are suddenly plunged, without any sort of experience, into the world of men and affairs, it strikes me as contrary alike to reason and to nature, and I cease to be surprised that so few men know what to do. How strange a choice to teach us so many useless things, while the art of doing is never touched upon! They profess to fit us for society, and we are taught as if each of us were to live a life of contemplation in a solitary cell, or to discuss theories with persons whom they did not concern. You think you are teaching your scholars how to live, and you teach them certain bodily contortions and certain forms of words without meaning. I, too, have taught Emile how to live; for I have taught him to enjoy his own society and, more than that, to earn his own bread. But this is not enough. To live in the world he must know how to get on with other people, he must know what forces move them, he must calculate the action and re-action of self-interest in civil society, he must estimate the results so accurately that he will rarely fail in his undertakings, or he will at least have tried in the best possible way. The law does not allow young people to manage their own affairs nor to dispose of their own property; but what would be the use of these precautions if they never gained any experience until they were of age. They would have gained nothing by the delay, and would have no more experience at five-and-twenty than at fifteen. No doubt we must take precautions, so that a youth, blinded by ignorance or misled by passion, may not hurt himself; but at any age there are opportunities when deeds of kindness and of care for the weak may be performed under the direction of a wise man, on behalf of the unfortunate who need help.

When I see young men spending their most active years focused only on abstract ideas, then suddenly thrown into the real world without any experience, it seems totally unreasonable and unnatural to me. I’m not surprised that so few know what to do. How odd it is to teach us so many pointless things while never covering the skills needed for real-life action! They claim to prepare us for society, yet we’re taught as if each of us would live a life of solitude or discuss theories with people who aren’t involved in our lives. You think you’re teaching your students how to live, but all you give them are meaningless physical exercises and phrases without context. I’ve also taught Emile how to live; I taught him to enjoy his own company and, more importantly, to earn his own living. But that’s not enough. To survive in the world, he needs to know how to interact with others, understand what drives them, anticipate self-interest’s impact in society, and gauge outcomes so accurately that he rarely fails in his endeavors, or at least he’ll attempt them as best he can. The law doesn’t allow young people to manage their own affairs or control their property—but what’s the point of these restrictions if they gain no experience until they’re adults? They’d be no better off for the wait, having no more experience at twenty-five than they had at fifteen. Sure, we need to take precautions to protect a youth blinded by ignorance or misled by passion, but at any age there are opportunities to perform acts of kindness and care for the vulnerable under the guidance of a wise person, for those in need of help.

Mothers and nurses grow fond of children because of the care they lavish on them; the practice of social virtues touches the very heart with the love of humanity; by doing good we become good; and I know no surer way to this end. Keep your pupil busy with the good deeds that are within his power, let the cause of the poor be his own, let him help them not merely with his money, but with his service; let him work for them, protect them, let his person and his time be at their disposal; let him be their agent; he will never all his life long have a more honourable office. How many of the oppressed, who have never got a hearing, will obtain justice when he demands it for them with that courage and firmness which the practice of virtue inspires; when he makes his way into the presence of the rich and great, when he goes, if need be, to the footstool of the king himself, to plead the cause of the wretched, the cause of those who find all doors closed to them by their poverty, those who are so afraid of being punished for their misfortunes that they do not dare to complain?

Mothers and nurses grow attached to children because of the care they give them; practicing social virtues touches the very heart with love for humanity; by doing good, we become good; and I know no better way to achieve this. Keep your student engaged in good deeds that they can manage, let the plight of the poor be personal to them, and encourage them to help not just with their money but with their actions; let them work for them, protect them, and make their time and energy available to them; let them act on their behalf; they will never have a more honorable role in their life. How many of the oppressed, who have never been heard, will find justice when they advocate for them with the courage and determination that comes from practicing virtue; when they enter the presence of the wealthy and powerful, when they go, if necessary, to the foot of the king himself to plead the case of the downtrodden, those who have all doors closed against them by their poverty, those who are so afraid of being blamed for their misfortunes that they do not dare to complain?

But shall we make of Emile a knight-errant, a redresser of wrongs, a paladin? Shall he thrust himself into public life, play the sage and the defender of the laws before the great, before the magistrates, before the king? Shall he lay petitions before the judges and plead in the law courts? That I cannot say. The nature of things is not changed by terms of mockery and scorn. He will do all that he knows to be useful and good. He will do nothing more, and he knows that nothing is useful and good for him which is unbefitting his age. He knows that his first duty is to himself; that young men should distrust themselves; that they should act circumspectly; that they should show respect to those older than themselves, reticence and discretion in talking without cause, modesty in things indifferent, but courage in well doing, and boldness to speak the truth. Such were those illustrious Romans who, having been admitted into public life, spent their days in bringing criminals to justice and in protecting the innocent, without any motives beyond those of learning, and of the furtherance of justice and of the protection of right conduct.

But should we turn Emile into a knight-errant, a fixer of wrongs, a hero? Should he dive into public life, act as a wise sage and defender of the law before the powerful, the magistrates, and the king? Should he present petitions to the judges and argue in the courts? I can’t say. The nature of things doesn't change with mockery and disdain. He will do everything he believes is useful and good. He will do no more, and he knows that nothing is useful and good for him that isn't appropriate for his age. He understands that his first duty is to himself; that young men should be cautious; that they should act responsibly; that they should respect their elders, be reserved and discreet in their speech when there’s no need, show modesty in trivial matters, but have the courage to do good and the boldness to speak the truth. Such were the renowned Romans who, once entering public life, dedicated their days to bringing criminals to justice and protecting the innocent, motivated solely by a desire for knowledge, promoting justice, and upholding proper conduct.

Emile is not fond of noise or quarrelling, not only among men, but among animals. [Footnote: “But what will he do if any one seeks a quarrel with him?” My answer is that no one will ever quarrel with him, he will never lend himself to such a thing. But, indeed, you continue, who can be safe from a blow, or an insult from a bully, a drunkard, a bravo, who for the joy of killing his man begins by dishonouring him? That is another matter. The life and honour of the citizens should not be at the mercy of a bully, a drunkard, or a bravo, and one can no more insure oneself against such an accident than against a falling tile. A blow given, or a lie in the teeth, if he submit to them, have social consequences which no wisdom can prevent and no tribunal can avenge. The weakness of the laws, therefore, so far restores a man’s independence; he is the sole magistrate and judge between the offender and himself, the sole interpreter and administrator of natural law. Justice is his due, and he alone can obtain it, and in such a case there is no government on earth so foolish as to punish him for so doing. I do not say he must fight; that is absurd; I say justice is his due, and he alone can dispense it. If I were king, I promise you that in my kingdom no one would ever strike a man or call him a liar, and yet I would do without all those useless laws against duels; the means are simple and require no law courts. However that may be, Emile knows what is due to himself in such a case, and the example due from him to the safety of men of honour. The strongest of men cannot prevent insult, but he can take good care that his adversary has no opportunity to boast of that insult.] He will never set two dogs to fight, he will never set a dog to chase a cat. This peaceful spirit is one of the results of his education, which has never stimulated self-love or a high opinion of himself, and so has not encouraged him to seek his pleasure in domination and in the sufferings of others. The sight of suffering makes him suffer too; this is a natural feeling. It is one of the after effects of vanity that hardens a young man and makes him take a delight in seeing the torments of a living and feeling creature; it makes him consider himself beyond the reach of similar sufferings through his superior wisdom or virtue. He who is beyond the reach of vanity cannot fall into the vice which results from vanity. So Emile loves peace. He is delighted at the sight of happiness, and if he can help to bring it about, this is an additional reason for sharing it. I do not assume that when he sees the unhappy he will merely feel for them that barren and cruel pity which is content to pity the ills it can heal. His kindness is active and teaches him much he would have learnt far more slowly, or he would never have learnt at all, if his heart had been harder. If he finds his comrades at strife, he tries to reconcile them; if he sees the afflicted, he inquires as to the cause of their sufferings; if he meets two men who hate each other, he wants to know the reason of their enmity; if he finds one who is down-trodden groaning under the oppression of the rich and powerful, he tries to discover by what means he can counteract this oppression, and in the interest he takes with regard to all these unhappy persons, the means of removing their sufferings are never out of his sight. What use shall we make of this disposition so that it may re-act in a way suited to his age? Let us direct his efforts and his knowledge, and use his zeal to increase them.

Emile doesn't like noise or arguments, whether between people or animals. [Footnote: “But what will he do if someone picks a fight with him?” My answer is that no one will ever pick a fight with him; he won’t engage in such behavior. But, as you continue, who can be sure they won't face a punch or an insult from a bully, a drunkard, or someone looking to provoke a fight just for the thrill of it? That's a different issue. The lives and honor of citizens should not be at the mercy of bullies, drunkards, or provocateurs, and one can’t protect oneself from such incidents any more than from a falling tile. A blow dealt or a false accusation received, if he accepts them, has social consequences that no wisdom can avert and no court can rectify. The weakness of the laws thus restores a man's independence; he is the only magistrate and judge between the offender and himself, the only interpreter and enforcer of natural law. Justice is his right, and only he can achieve it; in such cases, there’s no foolish government that would punish him for doing so. I’m not saying he must fight; that’s ridiculous; I’m saying justice is his right, and he alone can administer it. If I were king, I assure you that in my kingdom, no one would ever hit a man or call him a liar, and yet I would not need all those pointless laws against duels; the solutions are simple and require no courts. Regardless, Emile understands what is due to him in such situations and the example he must set to protect honorable people. The strongest man can’t prevent insults, but he can ensure his opponent doesn’t have the chance to brag about it.] He will never make two dogs fight or set a dog on a cat. This peaceful nature is a result of his upbringing, which has never encouraged self-love or an inflated view of himself, so he hasn’t sought pleasure in dominating others or causing them suffering. Witnessing suffering causes him pain too; this is a natural instinct. One of the side effects of vanity is that it hardens a young man, making him take pleasure in observing the torment of living beings; it tricks him into thinking he’s immune to similar suffering due to his supposed wisdom or virtue. A person who is free from vanity can't fall into the vice that stems from it. Thus, Emile loves peace. He's thrilled to see happiness, and if he can contribute to it, that’s an extra reason to share it. I don't believe that when he sees those who are unhappy, he will feel only a shallow and cruel pity that is satisfied with mere sympathy for problems he can’t solve. His kindness is proactive, teaching him much he would learn more slowly or possibly never learn at all if his heart were harder. If he finds his friends in conflict, he tries to make peace; if he sees someone suffering, he asks about the reasons behind their distress; if he comes across two men who dislike each other, he wants to know the cause of their hostility; if he finds someone oppressed and groaning under the weight of the rich and powerful, he tries to figure out how he can help alleviate that oppression. In his concern for all these unfortunate people, the means to relieve their suffering are always before him. How shall we harness this disposition so that it responds appropriately to his age? Let’s guide his efforts and knowledge and use his enthusiasm to amplify them.

I am never weary of repeating: let all the lessons of young people take the form of doing rather than talking; let them learn nothing from books which they can learn from experience. How absurd to attempt to give them practice in speaking when they have nothing to say, to expect to make them feel, at their school desks, the vigour of the language of passion and all the force of the arts of persuasion when they have nothing and nobody to persuade! All the rules of rhetoric are mere waste of words to those who do not know how to use them for their own purposes. How does it concern a schoolboy to know how Hannibal encouraged his soldiers to cross the Alps? If instead of these grand speeches you showed him how to induce his prefect to give him a holiday, you may be sure he would pay more attention to your rules.

I never get tired of saying: let all the lessons for young people focus on doing instead of just talking; let them learn from experience rather than from books. It's ridiculous to try to train them in speaking when they have nothing to say, to expect them to feel the power of passionate language and the arts of persuasion at their desks when they have no one and nothing to persuade! All the rules of rhetoric are just wasted words for those who don’t know how to use them for their own aims. What does it matter to a schoolboy how Hannibal motivated his soldiers to cross the Alps? If instead of those grand speeches you showed him how to convince his prefect to give him a day off, you can bet he would pay a lot more attention to your rules.

If I wanted to teach rhetoric to a youth whose passions were as yet undeveloped, I would draw his attention continually to things that would stir his passions, and I would discuss with him how he should talk to people so as to get them to regard his wishes favourably. But Emile is not in a condition so favourable to the art of oratory. Concerned mainly with his physical well-being, he has less need of others than they of him; and having nothing to ask of others on his own account, what he wants to persuade them to do does not affect him sufficiently to awake any very strong feeling. From this it follows that his language will be on the whole simple and literal. He usually speaks to the point and only to make himself understood. He is not sententious, for he has not learnt to generalise; he does not speak in figures, for he is rarely impassioned.

If I wanted to teach rhetoric to a young person whose passions were still developing, I would constantly direct their attention to things that would awaken those passions, and I would talk with them about how to communicate with others in a way that makes them supportive of their desires. But Emile isn’t in a situation that’s good for learning oratory. Focused mainly on his physical well-being, he has less need for others than they do for him; and since he doesn’t have anything to ask from others for himself, what he wants to persuade them to do doesn’t affect him enough to stir strong feelings. As a result, his language tends to be simple and straightforward. He usually speaks clearly and only to be understood. He’s not one to use heavy moralizing because he hasn't learned to generalize; he doesn’t use figurative language because he’s rarely passionate.

Yet this is not because he is altogether cold and phlegmatic, neither his age, his character, nor his tastes permit of this. In the fire of adolescence the life-giving spirits, retained in the blood and distilled again and again, inspire his young heart with a warmth which glows in his eye, a warmth which is felt in his words and perceived in his actions. The lofty feeling with which he is inspired gives him strength and nobility; imbued with tender love for mankind his words betray the thoughts of his heart; I know not how it is, but there is more charm in his open-hearted generosity than in the artificial eloquence of others; or rather this eloquence of his is the only true eloquence, for he has only to show what he feels to make others share his feelings.

But this doesn’t mean he is completely cold and indifferent; his age, character, and preferences don’t allow for that. In the vibrant phase of youth, the life-giving energy held in his blood inspires his young heart with a warmth that shines in his eyes, resonates in his words, and is evident in his actions. The deep feelings that move him give him strength and nobility; filled with a genuine love for humanity, his words reveal what’s in his heart. I can’t quite explain it, but there’s more charm in his sincere generosity than in the forced eloquence of others; or rather, his way of speaking is the only true eloquence, as he simply needs to express what he feels to make others feel the same.

The more I think of it the more convinced I am that by thus translating our kindly impulses into action, by drawing from our good or ill success conclusions as to their cause, we shall find that there is little useful knowledge that cannot be imparted to a youth; and that together with such true learning as may be got at college he will learn a science of more importance than all the rest together, the application of what he has learned to the purposes of life. Taking such an interest in his fellow-creatures, it is impossible that he should fail to learn very quickly how to note and weigh their actions, their tastes, their pleasures, and to estimate generally at their true value what may increase or diminish the happiness of men; he should do this better than those who care for nobody and never do anything for any one. The feelings of those who are always occupied with their own concerns are too keenly affected for them to judge wisely of things. They consider everything as it affects themselves, they form their ideas of good and ill solely on their own experience, their minds are filled with all sorts of absurd prejudices, and anything which affects their own advantage ever so little, seems an upheaval of the universe.

The more I think about it, the more I believe that by translating our good intentions into action and learning from our successes or failures, we’ll discover that there's very little valuable knowledge that can't be shared with a young person. Along with the genuine knowledge gained in college, they'll learn a skill even more important than all the others combined: how to apply what they’ve learned to real-life situations. By taking an interest in others, it's clear that they'll quickly learn to observe and evaluate people's actions, preferences, and joys, and accurately assess what can boost or diminish happiness. They'll do this better than those who are indifferent to others and never help anyone. People too focused on their own issues are too emotionally driven to make sound judgments. They see everything through the lens of how it affects them personally, base their ideas of right and wrong solely on their own experiences, hold onto all sorts of ridiculous biases, and anything that impacts their own benefit—even just a little—seems like a disruption to the universe.

Extend self-love to others and it is transformed into virtue, a virtue which has its root in the heart of every one of us. The less the object of our care is directly dependent on ourselves, the less we have to fear from the illusion of self-interest; the more general this interest becomes, the juster it is; and the love of the human race is nothing but the love of justice within us. If therefore we desire Emile to be a lover of truth, if we desire that he should indeed perceive it, let us keep him far from self-interest in all his business. The more care he bestows upon the happiness of others the wiser and better he is, and the fewer mistakes he will make between good and evil; but never allow him any blind preference founded merely on personal predilection or unfair prejudice. Why should he harm one person to serve another? What does it matter to him who has the greater share of happiness, providing he promotes the happiness of all? Apart from self-interest this care for the general well-being is the first concern of the wise man, for each of us forms part of the human race and not part of any individual member of that race.

Show self-love to others, and it becomes a virtue, a virtue that is rooted in the heart of each of us. The less the person we care about relies directly on us, the less we have to worry about the illusion of self-interest; the more widespread this interest becomes, the more just it is; and the love for humanity is simply the love of justice within us. So, if we want Emile to be a truth-seeker, if we truly want him to recognize it, we must keep him away from self-interest in all his dealings. The more he focuses on the happiness of others, the wiser and better he becomes, and the fewer mistakes he will make in distinguishing between good and evil; but we should never allow him to have a blind preference that is based solely on personal bias or unfair prejudice. Why should he hurt one person to benefit another? What difference does it make to him who has more happiness, as long as he is promoting the happiness of all? Aside from self-interest, this concern for the common good should be the primary focus of the wise person, for each of us is part of the human race, not just an individual within that race.

To prevent pity degenerating into weakness we must generalise it and extend it to mankind. Then we only yield to it when it is in accordance with justice, since justice is of all the virtues that which contributes most to the common good. Reason and self-love compel us to love mankind even more than our neighbour, and to pity the wicked is to be very cruel to other men.

To keep pity from turning into weakness, we need to broaden it and apply it to all of humanity. That way, we only give in to it when it aligns with justice, since justice is the virtue that benefits the common good the most. Reason and self-interest drive us to love humanity even more than our neighbors, and feeling pity for the wicked is actually very unkind to others.

Moreover, you must bear in mind that all these means employed to project my pupil beyond himself have also a distinct relation to himself; since they not only cause him inward delight, but I am also endeavouring to instruct him, while I am making him kindly disposed towards others.

Moreover, you should remember that all these methods used to help my student go beyond himself also relate directly to him; they not only bring him inner joy, but I am also trying to teach him while fostering his kindness towards others.

First I showed the means employed, now I will show the result. What wide prospects do I perceive unfolding themselves before his mind! What noble feelings stifle the lesser passions in his heart! What clearness of judgment, what accuracy in reasoning, do I see developing from the inclinations we have cultivated, from the experience which concentrates the desires of a great heart within the narrow bounds of possibility, so that a man superior to others can come down to their level if he cannot raise them to his own! True principles of justice, true types of beauty, all moral relations between man and man, all ideas of order, these are engraved on his understanding; he sees the right place for everything and the causes which drive it from that place; he sees what may do good, and what hinders it. Without having felt the passions of mankind, he knows the illusions they produce and their mode of action.

First, I showed the methods used; now I'll show the outcome. What great possibilities I see unfolding in his mind! What noble feelings suppress the lesser passions in his heart! What clarity of judgment and accuracy in reasoning I observe developing from the inclinations we've nurtured, from the experiences that focus the desires of a great heart within the limited bounds of what’s possible, so that a person who excels can connect with others if he can't elevate them to his level! True principles of justice, true ideals of beauty, all moral relationships between people, and all concepts of order are firmly rooted in his understanding; he recognizes the right place for everything and the reasons that push it out of that place; he knows what can be helpful and what gets in the way. Without having experienced human passions, he understands the illusions they create and how they operate.

I proceed along the path which the force of circumstances compels me to tread, but I do not insist that my readers shall follow me. Long ago they have made up their minds that I am wandering in the land of chimeras, while for my part I think they are dwelling in the country of prejudice. When I wander so far from popular beliefs I do not cease to bear them in mind; I examine them, I consider them, not that I may follow them or shun them, but that I may weigh them in the balance of reason. Whenever reason compels me to abandon these popular beliefs, I know by experience that my readers will not follow my example; I know that they will persist in refusing to go beyond what they can see, and that they will take the youth I am describing for the creation of my fanciful imagination, merely because he is unlike the youths with whom they compare him; they forget that he must needs be different, because he has been brought up in a totally different fashion; he has been influenced by wholly different feelings, instructed in a wholly different manner, so that it would be far stranger if he were like your pupils than if he were what I have supposed. He is a man of nature’s making, not man’s. No wonder men find him strange.

I follow the path that circumstances force me to take, but I don’t expect my readers to follow me. A long time ago, they decided that I’m lost in a world of fantasies, while I believe they are stuck in their own prejudices. Even when I stray far from popular beliefs, I still keep them in mind; I examine and consider them, not to adopt or reject them, but to evaluate them with reason. Whenever reason leads me to let go of these popular beliefs, I’ve learned that my readers won’t follow suit; they will stick to what they can see and assume that the young person I’m describing is just a figment of my imagination, simply because he’s different from the youths they know. They forget that he has to be different because he was raised in a completely different way; he has been shaped by entirely different experiences and educated in a totally different manner, so it would be much stranger if he were like their students than if he’s how I’ve portrayed him. He is a creation of nature, not of society. It’s no surprise that people find him unusual.

When I began this work I took for granted nothing but what could be observed as readily by others as by myself; for our starting-point, the birth of man, is the same for all; but the further we go, while I am seeking to cultivate nature and you are seeking to deprave it, the further apart we find ourselves. At six years old my pupil was not so very unlike yours, whom you had not yet had time to disfigure; now there is nothing in common between them; and when they reach the age of manhood, which is now approaching, they will show themselves utterly different from each other, unless all my pains have been thrown away. There may not be so very great a difference in the amount of knowledge they possess, but there is all the difference in the world in the kind of knowledge. You are amazed to find that the one has noble sentiments of which the others have not the smallest germ, but remember that the latter are already philosophers and theologians while Emile does not even know what is meant by a philosopher and has scarcely heard the name of God.

When I started this work, I assumed that nothing was taken for granted except what could be observed easily by anyone, just like me; our starting point, the birth of a person, is the same for everyone. However, as we move forward, while I'm trying to nurture nature and you are trying to corrupt it, we find ourselves drifting further apart. At six years old, my student wasn't much different from yours, whom you hadn’t had time to distort yet; now there’s nothing in common between them. When they reach adulthood, which is approaching, they will be completely different from each other unless all my efforts have been wasted. They may not have a huge difference in the amount of knowledge they possess, but there’s a world of difference in the type of knowledge. You might be surprised to see that one has noble feelings that the other doesn’t have even a hint of, but remember that the latter are already philosophers and theologians while Emile doesn't even understand what a philosopher is and has barely heard the name of God.

But if you come and tell me, “There are no such young men, young people are not made that way; they have this passion or that, they do this or that,” it is as if you denied that a pear tree could ever be a tall tree because the pear trees in our gardens are all dwarfs.

But if you come to me and say, “There aren’t any young men like that, young people just aren’t made that way; they have this passion or that, they do this or that,” it’s like saying a pear tree can never be tall just because all the pear trees in our gardens are short.

I beg these critics who are so ready with their blame to consider that I am as well acquainted as they are with everything they say, that I have probably given more thought to it, and that, as I have no private end to serve in getting them to agree with me, I have a right to demand that they should at least take time to find out where I am mistaken. Let them thoroughly examine the nature of man, let them follow the earliest growth of the heart in any given circumstances, so as to see what a difference education may make in the individual; then let them compare my method of education with the results I ascribe to it; and let them tell me where my reasoning is unsound, and I shall have no answer to give them.

I urge these critics who are quick to judge to remember that I'm just as familiar with all their points as they are, and I've probably thought about it even more. Since I have no personal agenda in getting them to agree with me, I have every right to ask them to take the time to figure out where I might be wrong. They should carefully look into the nature of humanity, track the early development of the heart in various situations, to see how much of an impact education can have on a person. Then, they should compare my educational approach with the outcomes I attribute to it, and point out any flaws in my reasoning, and I won't have a response for them.

It is this that makes me speak so strongly, and as I think with good excuse: I have not pledged myself to any system, I depend as little as possible on arguments, and I trust to what I myself have observed. I do not base my ideas on what I have imagined, but on what I have seen. It is true that I have not confined my observations within the walls of any one town, nor to a single class of people; but having compared men of every class and every nation which I have been able to observe in the course of a life spent in this pursuit, I have discarded as artificial what belonged to one nation and not to another, to one rank and not to another; and I have regarded as proper to mankind what was common to all, at any age, in any station, and in any nation whatsoever.

This is why I speak so passionately, and I believe I have good reason: I haven't committed myself to any specific system, I rely as little as possible on arguments, and I trust what I have personally observed. I don't base my ideas on my imagination, but on my direct experiences. It's true I haven't limited my observations to just one town or a specific group of people; instead, I've compared individuals from all classes and nations I've encountered throughout my life dedicated to this study. I've discarded as artificial those traits unique to one nation or class, and I've focused on what is truly human that is shared by everyone, regardless of age, status, or nationality.

Now if in accordance with this method you follow from infancy the course of a youth who has not been shaped to any special mould, one who depends as little as possible on authority and the opinions of others, which will he most resemble, my pupil or yours? It seems to me that this is the question you must answer if you would know if I am mistaken.

Now, if you follow a young person from childhood according to this approach, someone who hasn’t been shaped by any specific expectations and relies as little as possible on authority and the opinions of others, who do you think they will resemble more, my student or yours? It seems to me that this is the question you need to answer if you want to determine if I’m wrong.

It is not easy for a man to begin to think; but when once he has begun he will never leave off. Once a thinker, always a thinker, and the understanding once practised in reflection will never rest. You may therefore think that I do too much or too little; that the human mind is not by nature so quick to unfold; and that after having given it opportunities it has not got, I keep it too long confined within a circle of ideas which it ought to have outgrown.

It’s not easy for a person to start thinking; but once they do, they won’t stop. Once you’re a thinker, you’re always a thinker, and a mind that has practiced reflection will never be at rest. You might think that I overdo it or don’t do enough; that the human mind doesn’t naturally develop so quickly; and that after giving it opportunities it didn’t seize, I keep it stuck within a set of ideas it should have moved beyond.

But remember, in the first place, that when I want to train a natural man, I do not want to make him a savage and to send him back to the woods, but that living in the whirl of social life it is enough that he should not let himself be carried away by the passions and prejudices of men; let him see with his eyes and feel with his heart, let him own no sway but that of reason. Under these conditions it is plain that many things will strike him; the oft-recurring feelings which affect him, the different ways of satisfying his real needs, must give him many ideas he would not otherwise have acquired or would only have acquired much later. The natural progress of the mind is quickened but not reversed. The same man who would remain stupid in the forests should become wise and reasonable in towns, if he were merely a spectator in them. Nothing is better fitted to make one wise than the sight of follies we do not share, and even if we share them, we still learn, provided we are not the dupe of our follies and provided we do not bring to them the same mistakes as the others.

But remember, first of all, that when I want to develop a natural person, I’m not trying to turn them into a savage and send them back to the wilderness. Instead, living in the chaos of social life, it’s enough that they don’t let themselves be swept away by the passions and prejudices of others. They should see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts, and let reason be their only guide. Under these conditions, it’s clear that many things will catch their attention; the recurring feelings that affect them and the different ways to satisfy their real needs will give them insights they wouldn’t otherwise have gained or would have acquired much later. The natural development of the mind is accelerated but not reversed. The same person who would remain ignorant in the forests can become wise and reasonable in the cities, even if they are simply an observer. Nothing teaches wisdom better than witnessing follies we don’t partake in, and even if we do share in them, we can still learn, as long as we aren’t fooled by our own follies and don’t bring the same mistakes as others.

Consider also that while our faculties are confined to the things of sense, we offer scarcely any hold to the abstractions of philosophy or to purely intellectual ideas. To attain to these we require either to free ourselves from the body to which we are so strongly bound, or to proceed step by step in a slow and gradual course, or else to leap across the intervening space with a gigantic bound of which no child is capable, one for which grown men even require many steps hewn on purpose for them; but I find it very difficult to see how you propose to construct such steps.

Consider that while our senses are limited to what we can perceive, we hardly grasp the abstractions of philosophy or purely intellectual ideas. To reach these, we either need to free ourselves from our strong attachment to the body, or take a slow and gradual approach, or make a huge leap that no child can manage—something that even adults need specially crafted steps to achieve. However, I find it really challenging to understand how you plan to create those steps.

The Incomprehensible embraces all, he gives its motion to the earth, and shapes the system of all creatures, but our eyes cannot see him nor can our hands search him out, he evades the efforts of our senses; we behold the work, but the workman is hidden from our eyes. It is no small matter to know that he exists, and when we have got so far, and when we ask. What is he? Where is he? our mind is overwhelmed, we lose ourselves, we know not what to think.

The Incomprehensible includes everything; it drives the movement of the earth and shapes the existence of all creatures. However, we can't see it, nor can we grasp it with our hands; it eludes our senses. We witness the creations, but the creator remains hidden from our sight. It's a big deal to acknowledge its existence, and when we reach that point and ask, "What is it? Where is it?" our minds become overwhelmed, we lose our sense of direction, and we don't know what to think.

Locke would have us begin with the study of spirits and go on to that of bodies. This is the method of superstition, prejudice, and error; it is not the method of nature, nor even that of well-ordered reason; it is to learn to see by shutting our eyes. We must have studied bodies long enough before we can form any true idea of spirits, or even suspect that there are such beings. The contrary practice merely puts materialism on a firmer footing.

Locke suggests that we should start by studying spirits and then move on to studying physical bodies. This approach leads to superstition, bias, and mistakes; it doesn't align with nature or sound reasoning. It’s like trying to see by closing our eyes. We need to study physical bodies for a sufficient amount of time before we can have a genuine understanding of spirits or even consider that they might exist. Doing the opposite only strengthens materialism.

Since our senses are the first instruments to our learning, corporeal and sensible bodies are the only bodies we directly apprehend. The word “spirit” has no meaning for any one who has not philosophised. To the unlearned and to the child a spirit is merely a body. Do they not fancy that spirits groan, speak, fight, and make noises? Now you must own that spirits with arms and voices are very like bodies. This is why every nation on the face of the earth, not even excepting the Jews, have made to themselves idols. We, ourselves, with our words, Spirit, Trinity, Persons, are for the most part quite anthropomorphic. I admit that we are taught that God is everywhere; but we also believe that there is air everywhere, at least in our atmosphere; and the word Spirit meant originally nothing more than breath and wind. Once you teach people to say what they do not understand, it is easy enough to get them to say anything you like.

Since our senses are the first tools for learning, physical and tangible bodies are the only ones we directly understand. The term “spirit” means nothing to someone who hasn’t contemplated it. To the uneducated and to children, a spirit is just another body. Don’t they imagine that spirits groan, talk, fight, and make sounds? You have to admit that spirits with arms and voices are quite similar to bodies. This is why every nation in the world, including the Jews, has created idols. We, too, with our terms like Spirit, Trinity, and Persons, are mostly anthropomorphic. I recognize that we’re taught that God is everywhere; however, we also believe that air is everywhere, at least in our atmosphere, and the word Spirit originally meant nothing more than breath and wind. Once you teach people to say things they don’t understand, it becomes easy to get them to say anything you want.

The perception of our action upon other bodies must have first induced us to suppose that their action upon us was effected in like manner. Thus man began by thinking that all things whose action affected him were alive. He did not recognise the limits of their powers, and he therefore supposed that they were boundless; as soon as he had supplied them with bodies they became his gods. In the earliest times men went in terror of everything and everything in nature seemed alive. The idea of matter was developed as slowly as that of spirit, for the former is itself an abstraction.

The way we perceive our actions affecting other things must have led us to believe that their actions on us happened in the same way. So, humans initially thought that everything that impacted them was alive. They didn’t understand the limitations of these forces, so they assumed they were limitless; once they gave them bodies, they became their gods. In ancient times, people were afraid of everything, and everything in nature seemed alive. The concept of matter developed just as slowly as the idea of spirit, since the former is also an abstraction.

Thus the universe was peopled with gods like themselves. The stars, the winds and the mountains, rivers, trees, and towns, their very dwellings, each had its soul, its god, its life. The teraphim of Laban, the manitos of savages, the fetishes of the negroes, every work of nature and of man, were the first gods of mortals; polytheism was their first religion and idolatry their earliest form of worship. The idea of one God was beyond their grasp, till little by little they formed general ideas, and they rose to the idea of a first cause and gave meaning to the word “substance,” which is at bottom the greatest of abstractions. So every child who believes in God is of necessity an idolater or at least he regards the Deity as a man, and when once the imagination has perceived God, it is very seldom that the understanding conceives him. Locke’s order leads us into this same mistake.

So, the universe was filled with gods like themselves. The stars, winds, mountains, rivers, trees, and even towns had their own souls, their own gods, their own lives. The teraphim of Laban, the manitos of those in primitive cultures, the fetishes of Africans—every creation of nature and humanity—were the first gods of people; polytheism was their first religion, and idolatry was their earliest form of worship. The concept of one God was beyond their understanding until they gradually formed broader ideas, eventually reaching the concept of a first cause and giving meaning to the term “substance,” which is fundamentally the highest of abstractions. Therefore, every child who believes in God is inevitably an idolater or at least sees the Deity as a person, and once the imagination has grasped the idea of God, it is very rare for the mind to truly understand Him. Locke’s reasoning leads us into this same confusion.

Having arrived, I know not how, at the idea of substance, it is clear that to allow of a single substance it must be assumed that this substance is endowed with incompatible and mutually exclusive properties, such as thought and size, one of which is by its nature divisible and the other wholly incapable of division. Moreover it is assumed that thought or, if you prefer it, feeling is a primitive quality inseparable from the substance to which it belongs, that its relation to the substance is like the relation between substance and size. Hence it is inferred that beings who lose one of these attributes lose the substance to which it belongs, and that death is, therefore, but a separation of substances, and that those beings in whom the two attributes are found are composed of the two substances to which those two qualities belong.

Having arrived, I don't know how, at the idea of substance, it’s clear that for there to be a single substance, it must be assumed that this substance has incompatible and mutually exclusive properties, like thought and size—one of which can be divided, while the other cannot be divided at all. Moreover, it's assumed that thought, or if you prefer, feeling, is a basic quality that can't be separated from the substance it's part of, and that its relationship to the substance is similar to the relationship between substance and size. Therefore, it follows that beings who lose one of these attributes lose the substance they belong to, and that death is simply a separation of substances. Thus, those beings who possess both attributes are made up of the two substances associated with those two qualities.

But consider what a gulf there still is between the idea of two substances and that of the divine nature, between the incomprehensible idea of the influence of our soul upon our body and the idea of the influence of God upon every living creature. The ideas of creation, destruction, ubiquity, eternity, almighty power, those of the divine attributes—these are all ideas so confused and obscure that few men succeed in grasping them; yet there is nothing obscure about them to the common people, because they do not understand them in the least; how then should they present themselves in full force, that is to say in all their obscurity, to the young mind which is still occupied with the first working of the senses, and fails to realise anything but what it handles? In vain do the abysses of the Infinite open around us, a child does not know the meaning of fear; his weak eyes cannot gauge their depths. To children everything is infinite, they cannot assign limits to anything; not that their measure is so large, but because their understanding is so small. I have even noticed that they place the infinite rather below than above the dimensions known to them. They judge a distance to be immense rather by their feet than by their eyes; infinity is bounded for them, not so much by what they can see, but how far they can go. If you talk to them of the power of God, they will think he is nearly as strong as their father. As their own knowledge is in everything the standard by which they judge of what is possible, they always picture what is described to them as rather smaller than what they know. Such are the natural reasonings of an ignorant and feeble mind. Ajax was afraid to measure his strength against Achilles, yet he challenged Jupiter to combat, for he knew Achilles and did not know Jupiter. A Swiss peasant thought himself the richest man alive; when they tried to explain to him what a king was, he asked with pride, “Has the king got a hundred cows on the high pastures?”

But think about how vast the gap still is between the idea of two substances and the concept of divine nature, between the complicated notion of our soul influencing our body and the idea of God influencing every living being. Concepts like creation, destruction, being everywhere, eternity, and all-powerful attributes of the divine—these are all so confusing and unclear that few people can truly grasp them; yet they seem completely clear to ordinary folks because they don't understand them at all. How, then, can these ideas present themselves strongly, in all their obscurity, to a young mind that is still focused on the initial experiences of the senses and can only comprehend what it can touch? The vastness of the Infinite may open up around us, but a child doesn’t know what fear is; their weak eyes can't measure those depths. To children, everything seems infinite; they can’t see limits anywhere—not because their perspective is vast, but because their understanding is so limited. I've even noticed that they view infinity as being more below them than above. They assess distance as huge more by how far they can walk than by what they can see. If you mention God's power to them, they'll think He is nearly as strong as their dad. Since their own knowledge forms the basis for judging what is possible, they usually picture what is explained to them as smaller than what they already know. This is how the reasoning of a simple and weak mind works. Ajax was afraid to compare his strength to Achilles, but he dared to challenge Jupiter because he knew Achilles but not Jupiter. A Swiss peasant thought he was the richest person in the world; when they tried to explain what a king was, he proudly asked, “Does the king have a hundred cows on the high pastures?”

I am aware that many of my readers will be surprised to find me tracing the course of my scholar through his early years without speaking to him of religion. At fifteen he will not even know that he has a soul, at eighteen even he may not be ready to learn about it. For if he learns about it too soon, there is the risk of his never really knowing anything about it.

I know that a lot of my readers will be surprised to see me discussing my scholar’s early years without mentioning religion. At fifteen, he won’t even realize he has a soul, and by eighteen, he might not be ready to learn about it yet. If he learns about it too early, there's a chance he'll never truly understand it.

If I had to depict the most heart-breaking stupidity, I would paint a pedant teaching children the catechism; if I wanted to drive a child crazy I would set him to explain what he learned in his catechism. You will reply that as most of the Christian doctrines are mysteries, you must wait, not merely till the child is a man, but till the man is dead, before the human mind will understand those doctrines. To that I reply, that there are mysteries which the heart of man can neither conceive nor believe, and I see no use in teaching them to children, unless you want to make liars of them. Moreover, I assert that to admit that there are mysteries, you must at least realise that they are incomprehensible, and children are not even capable of this conception! At an age when everything is mysterious, there are no mysteries properly so-called.

If I had to illustrate the most heartbreaking kind of foolishness, I would show a know-it-all teaching kids the catechism; if I wanted to drive a child crazy, I would make him explain what he learned in the catechism. You might say that since most Christian beliefs are mysteries, you'd have to wait not only until the child is an adult but until the adult is dead before anyone can truly understand those beliefs. My response is that there are mysteries that no one can fully grasp or believe, and I see no point in teaching them to children unless you want to turn them into liars. Furthermore, I argue that to acknowledge that there are mysteries, you must at least understand that they are beyond comprehension, and children can't even grasp this idea! At a time in life when everything seems mysterious, there are really no actual mysteries.

“We must believe in God if we would be saved.” This doctrine wrongly understood is the root of bloodthirsty intolerance and the cause of all the futile teaching which strikes a deadly blow at human reason by training it to cheat itself with mere words. No doubt there is not a moment to be lost if we would deserve eternal salvation; but if the repetition of certain words suffices to obtain it, I do not see why we should not people heaven with starlings and magpies as well as with children.

“We must believe in God if we want to be saved.” This belief, when misunderstood, fuels violent intolerance and creates all the pointless teachings that undermine human reason by encouraging it to deceive itself with empty words. Surely, there’s no time to waste if we want to earn eternal salvation; but if simply repeating certain words is enough to achieve it, I don’t see why we shouldn’t fill heaven with starlings and magpies just as much as with children.

The obligation of faith assumes the possibility of belief. The philosopher who does not believe is wrong, for he misuses the reason he has cultivated, and he is able to understand the truths he rejects. But the child who professes the Christian faith—what does he believe? Just what he understands; and he understands so little of what he is made to repeat that if you tell him to say just the opposite he will be quite ready to do it. The faith of children and the faith of many men is a matter of geography. Will they be rewarded for having been born in Rome rather than in Mecca? One is told that Mahomet is the prophet of God and he says, “Mahomet is the prophet of God.” The other is told that Mahomet is a rogue and he says, “Mahomet is a rogue.” Either of them would have said just the opposite had he stood in the other’s shoes. When they are so much alike to begin with, can the one be consigned to Paradise and the other to Hell? When a child says he believes in God, it is not God he believes in, but Peter or James who told him that there is something called God, and he believes it after the fashion of Euripides—

The requirement of faith assumes that belief is possible. The philosopher who doesn't believe is mistaken, as he misapplies the reasoning he has developed, and he can comprehend the truths he denies. But when a child professes the Christian faith—what does he actually believe? Just what he understands; and he understands so little of what he is told to repeat that if you ask him to say the exact opposite, he will easily do it. The faith of children and many adults is largely influenced by their geography. Will they be rewarded for being born in Rome instead of Mecca? One is told that Muhammad is the messenger of God and he responds, “Muhammad is the messenger of God.” The other is told that Muhammad is a fraud and he replies, “Muhammad is a fraud.” Either of them would say the opposite if they were in the other’s situation. Given how similar they are to begin with, can one be sent to Paradise while the other is sent to Hell? When a child says he believes in God, he doesn't actually believe in God; rather, he believes Peter or James, who told him that something called God exists, and he believes it in a way akin to Euripides—

“O Jupiter, of whom I know nothing but thy name.”

“O Jupiter, whom I know only by your name.”

[Footnote: Plutarch. It is thus that the tragedy of Menalippus originally began, but the clamour of the Athenians compelled Euripides to change these opening lines.]

[Footnote: Plutarch. This is how the tragedy of Menalippus initially started, but the outcry from the Athenians forced Euripides to alter these opening lines.]

We hold that no child who dies before the age of reason will be deprived of everlasting happiness; the Catholics believe the same of all children who have been baptised, even though they have never heard of God. There are, therefore, circumstances in which one can be saved without belief in God, and these circumstances occur in the case of children or madmen when the human mind is incapable of the operations necessary to perceive the Godhead. The only difference I see between you and me is that you profess that children of seven years old are able to do this and I do not think them ready for it at fifteen. Whether I am right or wrong depends, not on an article of the creed, but on a simple observation in natural history.

We believe that no child who dies before reaching the age of reason will miss out on eternal happiness; Catholics share the same belief about all children who have been baptized, even if they’ve never been taught about God. Therefore, there are situations where someone can be saved without believing in God, especially in the cases of children or those who are mentally ill, when the mind can't grasp the concept of the divine. The only difference I see between us is that you think seven-year-olds can understand this, while I don't believe they're ready for it even at fifteen. Whether I'm right or wrong isn't based on a specific belief, but rather on a straightforward observation in natural history.

From the same principle it is plain that any man having reached old age without faith in God will not, therefore, be deprived of God’s presence in another life if his blindness was not wilful; and I maintain that it is not always wilful. You admit that it is so in the case of lunatics deprived by disease of their spiritual faculties, but not of their manhood, and therefore still entitled to the goodness of their Creator. Why then should we not admit it in the case of those brought up from infancy in seclusion, those who have led the life of a savage and are without the knowledge that comes from intercourse with other men. [Footnote: For the natural condition of the human mind and its slow development, cf. the first part of the Discours sur Inegalite.] For it is clearly impossible that such a savage could ever raise his thoughts to the knowledge of the true God. Reason tells that man should only be punished for his wilful faults, and that invincible ignorance can never be imputed to him as a crime. Hence it follows that in the sight of the Eternal Justice every man who would believe if he had the necessary knowledge is counted a believer, and that there will be no unbelievers to be punished except those who have closed their hearts against the truth.

From the same principle, it's clear that any man who reaches old age without faith in God won't be deprived of God’s presence in the afterlife if his lack of belief wasn't intentional; and I argue that it isn't always intentional. You agree this is true for those who are mentally ill and have lost their spiritual faculties due to disease but still retain their humanity, and therefore remain deserving of their Creator's goodness. So why shouldn't we also acknowledge this for those raised in isolation, living like savages and lacking the knowledge that comes from interacting with other people? [Footnote: For the natural condition of the human mind and its slow development, see the first part of the Discours sur Inégalité.] It is clearly impossible for such a savage to ever comprehend the true God. Reason dictates that a person should only be punished for intentional faults, and that unpreventable ignorance cannot be considered a crime. Therefore, it follows that in the eyes of Eternal Justice, every person who would believe if they had the necessary knowledge is viewed as a believer, and that there will be no unbelievers to punish except those who have shut their hearts against the truth.

Let us beware of proclaiming the truth to those who cannot as yet comprehend it, for to do so is to try to inculcate error. It would be better to have no idea at all of the Divinity than to have mean, grotesque, harmful, and unworthy ideas; to fail to perceive the Divine is a lesser evil than to insult it. The worthy Plutarch says, “I would rather men said, ‘There is no such person as Plutarch,’ than that they should say, ‘Plutarch is unjust, envious, jealous, and such a tyrant that he demands more than can be performed.’”

Let’s be careful about sharing the truth with those who can’t understand it yet, because doing so just spreads misinformation. It’s better to not have any understanding of the Divine at all than to have mean, distorted, harmful, and unworthy thoughts about it; not recognizing the Divine is a smaller issue than disrespecting it. The wise Plutarch says, “I would rather people say, ‘Plutarch doesn’t exist,’ than to say, ‘Plutarch is unjust, envious, jealous, and such a tyrant that he asks for more than is possible.’”

The chief harm which results from the monstrous ideas of God which are instilled into the minds of children is that they last all their life long, and as men they understand no more of God than they did as children. In Switzerland I once saw a good and pious mother who was so convinced of the truth of this maxim that she refused to teach her son religion when he was a little child for fear lest he should be satisfied with this crude teaching and neglect a better teaching when he reached the age of reason. This child never heard the name of God pronounced except with reverence and devotion, and as soon as he attempted to say the word he was told to hold his tongue, as if the subject were too sublime and great for him. This reticence aroused his curiosity and his self-love; he looked forward to the time when he would know this mystery so carefully hidden from him. The less they spoke of God to him, the less he was himself permitted to speak of God, the more he thought about Him; this child beheld God everywhere. What I should most dread as the result of this unwise affectation of mystery is this: by over-stimulating the youth’s imagination you may turn his head, and make him at the best a fanatic rather than a believer.

The main harm that comes from the twisted ideas of God that are drilled into children's heads is that they stick with them for life, and as adults, they understand no more about God than they did as kids. In Switzerland, I once saw a caring and devout mother who was so convinced of this belief that she refused to teach her son about religion when he was young, worried that he would settle for this simplistic view and ignore a deeper understanding when he became mature. This child never heard the name of God spoken except with respect and devotion, and whenever he tried to say it, he was told to be quiet, as if the topic was too profound for him. This silence sparked his curiosity and his desire for knowledge; he looked forward to the day when he could uncover this mystery that was so carefully hidden from him. The less they talked about God with him, and the less he was allowed to speak about God, the more he thought about Him; this child saw God everywhere. What I would fear most from this misguided attempt to create mystery is that by overly stimulating the young person's imagination, you might drive them to fanaticism instead of genuine belief.

But we need fear nothing of the sort for Emile, who always declines to pay attention to what is beyond his reach, and listens with profound indifference to things he does not understand. There are so many things of which he is accustomed to say, “That is no concern of mine,” that one more or less makes little difference to him; and when he does begin to perplex himself with these great matters, it is because the natural growth of his knowledge is turning his thoughts that way.

But we don’t need to worry about anything like that for Emile, who always chooses to ignore what’s out of his reach and listens with complete indifference to things he doesn’t understand. There are so many things he’s used to saying, “That’s not my problem,” that one more or less doesn’t matter to him; and when he does start to trouble himself with these big concepts, it’s because his natural growth in knowledge is leading him in that direction.

We have seen the road by which the cultivated human mind approaches these mysteries, and I am ready to admit that it would not attain to them naturally, even in the bosom of society, till a much later age. But as there are in this same society inevitable causes which hasten the development of the passions, if we did not also hasten the development of the knowledge which controls these passions we should indeed depart from the path of nature and disturb her equilibrium. When we can no longer restrain a precocious development in one direction we must promote a corresponding development in another direction, so that the order of nature may not be inverted, and so that things should progress together, not separately, so that the man, complete at every moment of his life, may never find himself at one stage in one of his faculties and at another stage in another faculty.

We’ve observed how the educated human mind approaches these mysteries, and I’m willing to acknowledge that it wouldn't naturally reach them, even in society, until much later. However, since there are certain unavoidable factors in society that speed up the development of our emotions, if we don’t also accelerate the growth of the knowledge that manages these emotions, we would indeed stray from the natural path and disrupt its balance. When we can no longer hold back a rapid development in one area, we must encourage a corresponding growth in another, so that the natural order isn’t disturbed, and everything advances together instead of separately. This way, a person remains whole at every stage of life and doesn’t find one part of their abilities lagging behind another.

What a difficulty do I see before me! A difficulty all the greater because it depends less on actual facts than on the cowardice of those who dare not look the difficulty in the face. Let us at least venture to state our problem. A child should always be brought up in his father’s religion; he is always given plain proofs that this religion, whatever it may be, is the only true religion, that all others are ridiculous and absurd. The force of the argument depends entirely on the country in which it is put forward. Let a Turk, who thinks Christianity so absurd at Constantinople, come to Paris and see what they think of Mahomet. It is in matters of religion more than in anything else that prejudice is triumphant. But when we who profess to shake off its yoke entirely, we who refuse to yield any homage to authority, decline to teach Emile anything which he could not learn for himself in any country, what religion shall we give him, to what sect shall this child of nature belong? The answer strikes me as quite easy. We will not attach him to any sect, but we will give him the means to choose for himself according to the right use of his own reason.

What a challenge I see ahead of me! A challenge that’s even tougher because it relies less on actual facts and more on the cowardice of those who can't face the challenge directly. Let's at least have the courage to state our problem. A child should always be raised in his father’s religion; he is constantly given clear evidence that this religion, whatever it might be, is the only true one, and that all others are ridiculous and absurd. The strength of this argument relies entirely on the country in which it is presented. Let a Turk, who finds Christianity absurd in Constantinople, come to Paris and see what people think of Muhammad. It's in matters of religion more than anything else that prejudice reigns supreme. But when we, who claim to break free from its chains entirely, who refuse to pay any respect to authority, choose not to teach Emile anything he couldn’t learn for himself anywhere, what religion should we give him, and to what sect should this child of nature belong? The answer seems quite simple to me. We won't tie him to any sect, but we will provide him with the means to choose for himself based on the proper use of his own reason.

     Incedo per ignes
     Suppositos cineri doloso.—Horace, lib. ii. ode I.
     I walk through fires
     Laid beneath deceitful ashes.—Horace, lib. ii. ode I.

No matter! Thus far zeal and prudence have taken the place of caution. I hope that these guardians will not fail me now. Reader, do not fear lest I should take precautions unworthy of a lover of truth; I shall never forget my motto, but I distrust my own judgment all too easily. Instead of telling you what I think myself, I will tell you the thoughts of one whose opinions carry more weight than mine. I guarantee the truth of the facts I am about to relate; they actually happened to the author whose writings I am about to transcribe; it is for you to judge whether we can draw from them any considerations bearing on the matter in hand. I do not offer you my own idea or another’s as your rule; I merely present them for your examination.

No worries! So far, enthusiasm and carefulness have replaced caution. I hope these guides don't let me down now. Reader, don't worry that I'll take measures unworthy of someone seeking the truth; I will never forget my motto, but I easily doubt my own judgment. Instead of sharing my own thoughts, I'll share the ideas of someone whose opinions matter more than mine. I assure you that the facts I'm about to share are true; they genuinely happened to the author whose works I’m about to recount. It's up to you to decide if we can draw any relevant insights from them. I'm not giving you my own perspective or anyone else's as your guide; I’m just presenting them for you to consider.

Thirty years ago there was a young man in an Italian town; he was an exile from his native land and found himself reduced to the depths of poverty. He had been born a Calvinist, but the consequences of his own folly had made him a fugitive in a strange land; he had no money and he changed his religion for a morsel of bread. There was a hostel for proselytes in that town to which he gained admission. The study of controversy inspired doubts he had never felt before, and he made acquaintance with evil hitherto unsuspected by him; he heard strange doctrines and he met with morals still stranger to him; he beheld this evil conduct and nearly fell a victim to it. He longed to escape, but he was locked up; he complained, but his complaints were unheeded; at the mercy of his tyrants, he found himself treated as a criminal because he would not share their crimes. The anger kindled in a young and untried heart by the first experience of violence and injustice may be realised by those who have themselves experienced it. Tears of anger flowed from his eyes, he was wild with rage; he prayed to heaven and to man, and his prayers were unheard; he spoke to every one and no one listened to him. He saw no one but the vilest servants under the control of the wretch who insulted him, or accomplices in the same crime who laughed at his resistance and encouraged him to follow their example. He would have been ruined had not a worthy priest visited the hostel on some matter of business. He found an opportunity of consulting him secretly. The priest was poor and in need of help himself, but the victim had more need of his assistance, and he did not hesitate to help him to escape at the risk of making a dangerous enemy.

Thirty years ago, there was a young man in an Italian town; he was an exile from his homeland and had hit rock bottom in poverty. Born a Calvinist, the consequences of his own mistakes had turned him into a fugitive in a foreign land; he had no money and changed his religion for a meal. There was a hostel for converts in that town where he managed to get a place. The study of debates sparked doubts he had never experienced before, and he encountered evils he had never suspected; he heard strange beliefs and met morals that were even stranger to him; he saw this bad behavior and nearly fell victim to it. He yearned to escape, but he was locked in; he complained, but his complaints went unheard; completely at the mercy of his oppressors, he found himself treated like a criminal because he refused to partake in their wrongdoing. The anger ignited in a young heart by the first taste of violence and injustice can only be understood by those who have experienced it. Tears of fury streamed down his face; he was mad with rage; he prayed to heaven and to people, but his prayers went unanswered; he spoke to everyone, and no one listened to him. He saw only the lowest servants under the control of the man who insulted him, or accomplices in the same wrongdoing who laughed at his resistance and urged him to follow their path. He would have been destroyed if a good priest hadn’t visited the hostel on some business. He found a chance to consult with him secretly. The priest was poor and needed help himself, but the young man needed assistance more, and the priest didn’t hesitate to help him escape, risking the chance of making a dangerous enemy.

Having escaped from vice to return to poverty, the young man struggled vainly against fate: for a moment he thought he had gained the victory. At the first gleam of good fortune his woes and his protector were alike forgotten. He was soon punished for this ingratitude; all his hopes vanished; youth indeed was on his side, but his romantic ideas spoiled everything. He had neither talent nor skill to make his way easily, he could neither be commonplace nor wicked, he expected so much that he got nothing. When he had sunk to his former poverty, when he was without food or shelter and ready to die of hunger, he remembered his benefactor.

Having escaped from a life of vice only to return to poverty, the young man struggled desperately against fate: for a brief moment, he thought he had won. At the first sign of good fortune, he forgot both his miseries and his benefactor. He was soon punished for this ingratitude; all his hopes faded away. Although youth was on his side, his idealistic views ruined everything. He lacked the talent or skills to succeed easily, he couldn't be ordinary or malicious, and he expected so much that he ended up with nothing. When he fell back into his old poverty, homeless and starving, he remembered his benefactor.

He went back to him, found him, and was kindly welcomed; the sight of him reminded the priest of a good deed he had done; such a memory always rejoices the heart. This man was by nature humane and pitiful; he felt the sufferings of others through his own, and his heart had not been hardened by prosperity; in a word, the lessons of wisdom and an enlightened virtue had reinforced his natural kindness of heart. He welcomed the young man, found him a lodging, and recommended him; he shared with him his living which was barely enough for two. He did more, he instructed him, consoled him, and taught him the difficult art of bearing adversity in patience. You prejudiced people, would you have expected to find all this in a priest and in Italy?

He went back to him, found him, and received a warm welcome; seeing him reminded the priest of a good deed he had done, and such memories always bring joy to the heart. This man was naturally compassionate and empathetic; he felt the suffering of others because he understood his own, and prosperity hadn't hardened his heart. In short, the lessons of wisdom and a clear sense of virtue had strengthened his natural kindness. He welcomed the young man, found him a place to stay, and helped him out; he shared his modest living, which was barely enough for two. He did even more: he taught him, comforted him, and showed him how to endure hardship with patience. You judgmental people, would you really expect to find all this in a priest and in Italy?

This worthy priest was a poor Savoyard clergyman who had offended his bishop by some youthful fault; he had crossed the Alps to find a position which he could not obtain in his own country. He lacked neither wit nor learning, and with his interesting countenance he had met with patrons who found him a place in the household of one of the ministers, as tutor to his son. He preferred poverty to dependence, and he did not know how to get on with the great. He did not stay long with this minister, and when he departed he took with him his good opinion; and as he lived a good life and gained the hearts of everybody, he was glad to be forgiven by his bishop and to obtain from him a small parish among the mountains, where he might pass the rest of his life. This was the limit of his ambition.

This honorable priest was a poor clergyman from Savoy who had upset his bishop due to some youthful mistake; he had crossed the Alps to find a job that he couldn't get in his home country. He was neither lacking in intelligence nor education, and with his intriguing face, he had attracted patrons who secured him a position in the household of one of the ministers as a tutor to his son. He preferred poverty over being dependent, and he didn't know how to navigate relationships with the powerful. He didn’t stay with this minister for long, and when he left, he took with him the minister's good regard; since he lived a good life and won everyone’s affection, he was happy to be forgiven by his bishop and to receive a small parish in the mountains, where he could spend the rest of his life. This was the extent of his ambition.

He was attracted by the young fugitive and he questioned him closely. He saw that ill-fortune had already seared his heart, that scorn and disgrace had overthrown his courage, and that his pride, transformed into bitterness and spite, led him to see nothing in the harshness and injustice of men but their evil disposition and the vanity of all virtue. He had seen that religion was but a mask for selfishness, and its holy services but a screen for hypocrisy; he had found in the subtleties of empty disputations heaven and hell awarded as prizes for mere words; he had seen the sublime and primitive idea of Divinity disfigured by the vain fancies of men; and when, as he thought, faith in God required him to renounce the reason God himself had given him, he held in equal scorn our foolish imaginings and the object with which they are concerned. With no knowledge of things as they are, without any idea of their origins, he was immersed in his stubborn ignorance and utterly despised those who thought they knew more than himself.

He was drawn to the young fugitive and questioned him intensely. He could see that bad luck had already scarred his heart, that scorn and shame had crushed his courage, and that his pride, twisted into bitterness and resentment, made him see nothing in the harshness and injustice of people but their evil nature and the emptiness of all virtue. He believed that religion was just a cover for selfishness, and its sacred rituals were merely a façade for hypocrisy; he found in the intricacies of pointless arguments that heaven and hell were mere rewards for empty words; he witnessed the pure and original concept of God distorted by the fanciful ideas of people; and when he thought that faith in God required him to deny the reason God himself had given him, he looked down equally on our foolish beliefs and the subjects they pertain to. Lacking real understanding of things as they are, without any grasp of their origins, he was trapped in his stubborn ignorance and held a deep contempt for those who thought they knew more than he did.

The neglect of all religion soon leads to the neglect of a man’s duties. The heart of this young libertine was already far on this road. Yet his was not a bad nature, though incredulity and misery were gradually stifling his natural disposition and dragging him down to ruin; they were leading him into the conduct of a rascal and the morals of an atheist.

The disregard for all religion quickly results in a person neglecting their responsibilities. This young free spirit was already well on that path. However, he wasn't a bad person at heart, even though disbelief and despair were slowly suffocating his natural instincts and pulling him toward destruction; they were driving him toward the behavior of a scoundrel and the ethics of an atheist.

The almost inevitable evil was not actually consummated. The young man was not ignorant, his education had not been neglected. He was at that happy age when the pulse beats strongly and the heart is warm, but is not yet enslaved by the madness of the senses. His heart had not lost its elasticity. A native modesty, a timid disposition restrained him, and prolonged for him that period during which you watch your pupil so carefully. The hateful example of brutal depravity, of vice without any charm, had not merely failed to quicken his imagination, it had deadened it. For a long time disgust rather than virtue preserved his innocence, which would only succumb to more seductive charms.

The almost inevitable evil didn’t actually happen. The young man wasn’t clueless; his education hadn’t been overlooked. He was at that wonderful age when his heart beats strong and is full of warmth but hasn’t been enslaved by the madness of desire yet. His heart hadn’t lost its bounce. A natural modesty and a shy nature held him back, extending that time when you carefully observe your student. The awful example of brutal depravity, of vice that had no appeal, hadn’t just failed to stir his imagination; it had actually numbed it. For a long time, disgust rather than virtue kept him innocent, which would only give way to more alluring temptations.

The priest saw the danger and the way of escape. He was not discouraged by difficulties, he took a pleasure in his task; he determined to complete it and to restore to virtue the victim he had snatched from vice. He set about it cautiously; the beauty of the motive gave him courage and inspired him with means worthy of his zeal. Whatever might be the result, his pains would not be wasted. We are always successful when our sole aim is to do good.

The priest recognized the danger and the path to safety. He wasn't deterred by challenges; he found joy in his mission. He resolved to see it through and bring back the victim he had rescued from wrongdoing. He approached it carefully; the nobility of his cause gave him strength and motivated him to use methods that matched his dedication. No matter the outcome, his efforts would not be in vain. We always succeed when our only goal is to do good.

He began to win the confidence of the proselyte by not asking any price for his kindness, by not intruding himself upon him, by not preaching at him, by always coming down to his level, and treating him as an equal. It was, so I think, a touching sight to see a serious person becoming the comrade of a young scamp, and virtue putting up with the speech of licence in order to triumph over it more completely. When the young fool came to him with his silly confidences and opened his heart to him, the priest listened and set him at his ease; without giving his approval to what was bad, he took an interest in everything; no tactless reproof checked his chatter or closed his heart; the pleasure which he thought was given by his conversation increased his pleasure in telling everything; thus he made his general confession without knowing he was confessing anything.

He started to gain the trust of the new convert by not asking for anything in return for his kindness, by not forcing himself into the situation, by not preaching at him, and by always relating to him as an equal. I think it was a touching sight to see a serious person becoming friends with a young troublemaker, and virtue tolerating the language of freedom in order to overcome it more completely. When the young fool came to him with his silly secrets and opened up to him, the priest listened and made him feel at ease; without approving of the bad choices, he showed interest in everything; no awkward criticism interrupted his flow of words or shut him down; the enjoyment he felt from their conversation boosted his excitement in sharing everything; thus, he made his general confession without even realizing he was confessing anything.

After he had made a thorough study of his feelings and disposition, the priest saw plainly that, although he was not ignorant for his age, he had forgotten everything that he most needed to know, and that the disgrace which fortune had brought upon him had stifled in him all real sense of good and evil. There is a stage of degradation which robs the soul of its life; and the inner voice cannot be heard by one whose whole mind is bent on getting food. To protect the unlucky youth from the moral death which threatened him, he began to revive his self-love and his good opinion of himself. He showed him a happier future in the right use of his talents; he revived the generous warmth of his heart by stories of the noble deeds of others; by rousing his admiration for the doers of these deeds he revived his desire to do like deeds himself. To draw him gradually from his idle and wandering life, he made him copy out extracts from well-chosen books; he pretended to want these extracts, and so nourished in him the noble feeling of gratitude. He taught him indirectly through these books, and thus he made him sufficiently regain his good opinion of himself so that he would no longer think himself good for nothing, and would not make himself despicable in his own eyes.

After carefully analyzing his feelings and mindset, the priest realized that, although he wasn't naive for his age, he had forgotten everything he truly needed to know. The shame that fate had brought upon him had stifled all sense of right and wrong. There comes a point of degradation that drains the soul of vitality; someone focused only on survival can't hear their inner voice. To save the unfortunate young man from the moral decline that threatened him, the priest started to boost his self-esteem and self-worth. He painted a brighter future for him through the proper use of his talents; he reignited the warmth in his heart by sharing stories of others' noble actions. By fostering admiration for those who accomplished these deeds, he sparked the young man's desire to achieve great things himself. To help him gradually move away from his aimless and distracted life, he had him copy excerpts from well-chosen books, pretending to need them, which nourished a sense of gratitude in him. He taught him indirectly through these books, helping him regain enough self-respect so that he no longer viewed himself as worthless and wouldn't see himself as despicable.

A trifling incident will show how this kindly man tried, unknown to him, to raise the heart of his disciple out of its degradation, without seeming to think of teaching. The priest was so well known for his uprightness and his discretion, that many people preferred to entrust their alms to him, rather than to the wealthy clergy of the town. One day some one had given him some money to distribute among the poor, and the young man was mean enough to ask for some of it on the score of poverty. “No,” said he, “we are brothers, you belong to me and I must not touch the money entrusted to me.” Then he gave him the sum he had asked for out of his own pocket. Lessons of this sort seldom fail to make an impression on the heart of young people who are not wholly corrupt.

A small incident will show how this kind man tried, without even realizing it, to lift his disciple out of his misery, without appearing to teach him. The priest was so respected for his integrity and discretion that many people preferred to give their donations to him instead of the wealthy clergy in town. One day, someone gave him some money to distribute to the poor, and the young man selfishly asked for some, claiming he was poor. “No,” he replied, “we're brothers, you’re my own, and I can't take the money that was given to me.” Then he took out his own money and gave him what he had asked for. Lessons like this rarely fail to make an impact on the hearts of young people who aren't completely lost.

I am weary of speaking in the third person, and the precaution is unnecessary; for you are well aware, my dear friend, that I myself was this unhappy fugitive; I think I am so far removed from the disorders of my youth that I may venture to confess them, and the hand which rescued me well deserves that I should at least do honour to its goodness at the cost of some slight shame.

I'm tired of talking about myself in the third person, and it's not needed because you know, my dear friend, that I was this unhappy fugitive. I believe I’m distant enough from the troubles of my youth to admit them, and the hand that saved me truly deserves that I acknowledge its kindness, even if it comes with a bit of embarrassment.

What struck me most was to see in the private life of my worthy master, virtue without hypocrisy, humanity without weakness, speech always plain and straightforward, and conduct in accordance with this speech. I never saw him trouble himself whether those whom he assisted went to vespers or confession, whether they fasted at the appointed seasons and went without meat; nor did he impose upon them any other like conditions, without which you might die of hunger before you could hope for any help from the devout.

What impressed me the most was witnessing in my admirable master a genuine virtue, true kindness without any weakness, always straightforward speech, and actions that matched his words. I never saw him worry about whether those he helped attended evening prayers or confession, whether they fasted at the right times and abstained from meat; he never imposed any similar requirements on them, knowing that you could starve before you could expect any assistance from the devout.

Far from displaying before him the zeal of a new convert, I was encouraged by these observations and I made no secret of my way of thinking, nor did he seem to be shocked by it. Sometimes I would say to myself, he overlooks my indifference to the religion I have adopted because he sees I am equally indifferent to the religion in which I was brought up; he knows that my scorn for religion is not confined to one sect. But what could I think when I sometimes heard him give his approval to doctrines contrary to those of the Roman Catholic Church, and apparently having but a poor opinion of its ceremonies. I should have thought him a Protestant in disguise if I had not beheld him so faithful to those very customs which he seemed to value so lightly; but I knew he fulfilled his priestly duties as carefully in private as in public, and I knew not what to think of these apparent contradictions. Except for the fault which had formerly brought about his disgrace, a fault which he had only partially overcome, his life was exemplary, his conduct beyond reproach, his conversation honest and discreet. While I lived on very friendly terms with him, I learnt day by day to respect him more; and when he had completely won my heart by such great kindness, I awaited with eager curiosity the time when I should learn what was the principle on which the uniformity of this strange life was based.

Instead of showing the enthusiasm of a new believer, I was actually encouraged by what I observed, and I didn't hide my thoughts about it, nor did he seem surprised by them. Sometimes I'd tell myself that he overlooks my lack of interest in the religion I’ve adopted because he notices I'm just as indifferent to the faith I was raised with; he knows my disdain for religion isn't limited to one group. But what was I to make of the times I heard him support beliefs that contradicted those of the Roman Catholic Church and seem to hold a low opinion of its rituals? I would have thought he was a Protestant in disguise if I hadn’t seen how committed he was to the very practices he appeared to regard lightly; but I knew he performed his priestly duties just as diligently in private as he did in public, and I was at a loss over these apparent contradictions. Except for the mistake that had caused his earlier disgrace, which he had only partially corrected, his life was exemplary, his behavior beyond reproach, and his conversations were honest and discreet. While I maintained a friendly relationship with him, I grew to respect him more each day; and when he had completely captured my heart with his immense kindness, I looked forward with eager curiosity to learning the principle that underpinned the consistency of his unusual life.

This opportunity was a long time coming. Before taking his disciple into his confidence, he tried to get the seeds of reason and kindness which he had sown in my heart to germinate. The most difficult fault to overcome in me was a certain haughty misanthropy, a certain bitterness against the rich and successful, as if their wealth and happiness had been gained at my own expense, and as if their supposed happiness had been unjustly taken from my own. The foolish vanity of youth, which kicks against the pricks of humiliation, made me only too much inclined to this angry temper; and the self-respect, which my mentor strove to revive, led to pride, which made men still more vile in my eyes, and only added scorn to my hatred.

This opportunity took a long time to arrive. Before he fully trusted his disciple, he worked on getting the seeds of reason and kindness he had planted in my heart to grow. The hardest flaw for me to overcome was a certain arrogant misanthropy, a bitterness towards the rich and successful, as if their wealth and happiness were earned at my expense, and as if their so-called happiness had been unjustly taken from me. The foolish vanity of youth, which resents the pains of humiliation, made me all too prone to this angry attitude; and the self-respect my mentor tried to rebuild led to pride, which made people seem even more despicable in my eyes, only adding contempt to my hatred.

Without directly attacking this pride, he prevented it from developing into hardness of heart; and without depriving me of my self-esteem, he made me less scornful of my neighbours. By continually drawing my attention from the empty show, and directing it to the genuine sufferings concealed by it, he taught me to deplore the faults of my fellows and feel for their sufferings, to pity rather than envy them. Touched with compassion towards human weaknesses through the profound conviction of his own failings, he viewed all men as the victims of their own vices and those of others; he beheld the poor groaning under the tyranny of the rich, and the rich under the tyranny of their own prejudices. “Believe me,” said he, “our illusions, far from concealing our woes, only increase them by giving value to what is in itself valueless, in making us aware of all sorts of fancied privations which we should not otherwise feel. Peace of heart consists in despising everything that might disturb that peace; the man who clings most closely to life is the man who can least enjoy it; and the man who most eagerly desires happiness is always most miserable.”

Without directly challenging this pride, he kept it from turning into a hardened heart; and without taking away my self-esteem, he helped me be less scornful of my neighbors. By constantly shifting my focus from superficial appearances to the real suffering hidden beneath them, he taught me to lament the faults of others and empathize with their pain, to feel pity rather than envy. Moved by compassion for human weaknesses through a deep understanding of his own flaws, he saw all people as victims of their own vices and those of others; he observed the poor suffering under the domination of the rich, and the rich suffering under the weight of their own prejudices. “Believe me,” he said, “our illusions, instead of hiding our troubles, only amplify them by giving importance to what is ultimately worthless, making us aware of all sorts of imagined losses that we wouldn’t otherwise feel. True peace of mind comes from disregarding anything that might disrupt that peace; the person who clings tightly to life is the one who enjoys it the least; and the one who desperately seeks happiness is always the most miserable.”

“What gloomy ideas!” I exclaimed bitterly. “If we must deny ourselves everything, we might as well never have been born; and if we must despise even happiness itself who can be happy?” “I am,” replied the priest one day, in a tone which made a great impression on me. “You happy! So little favoured by fortune, so poor, an exile and persecuted, you are happy! How have you contrived to be happy?” “My child,” he answered, “I will gladly tell you.”

“What gloomy thoughts!” I said bitterly. “If we have to give up everything, we might as well never have been born; and if we have to look down on happiness itself, who can really be happy?” “I can,” the priest replied one day, his tone leaving a strong impression on me. “You happy! So unfortunate, so poor, an exile and persecuted, and you’re happy! How have you managed to be happy?” “My child,” he said, “I would be happy to tell you.”

Thereupon he explained that, having heard my confessions, he would confess to me. “I will open my whole heart to yours,” he said, embracing me. “You will see me, if not as I am, at least as I seem to myself. When you have heard my whole confession of faith, when you really know the condition of my heart, you will know why I think myself happy, and if you think as I do, you will know how to be happy too. But these explanations are not the affair of a moment, it will take time to show you all my ideas about the lot of man and the true value of life; let us choose a fitting time and a place where we may continue this conversation without interruption.”

Then he explained that, after hearing my confessions, he would share his with me. “I will open my whole heart to yours,” he said, embracing me. “You’ll see me, if not exactly as I am, at least how I see myself. Once you hear my entire confession of faith and truly understand my heart’s condition, you’ll understand why I believe I’m happy, and if you think like I do, you'll know how to be happy too. But these explanations can’t be done quickly; it will take time to share all my thoughts on the human experience and the true value of life. Let’s find a good time and place where we can keep this conversation going without interruptions.”

I showed him how eager I was to hear him. The meeting was fixed for the very next morning. It was summer time; we rose at daybreak. He took me out of the town on to a high hill above the river Po, whose course we beheld as it flowed between its fertile banks; in the distance the landscape was crowned by the vast chain of the Alps; the beams of the rising sun already touched the plains and cast across the fields long shadows of trees, hillocks, and houses, and enriched with a thousand gleams of light the fairest picture which the human eye can see. You would have thought that nature was displaying all her splendour before our eyes to furnish a text for our conversation. After contemplating this scene for a space in silence, the man of peace spoke to me.

I showed him how eager I was to hear from him. The meeting was set for the very next morning. It was summer; we got up at daybreak. He took me out of town to a high hill above the river Po, where we could see its flow between its fertile banks; in the distance, the landscape was framed by the vast Alps. The beams of the rising sun were already lighting up the plains and casting long shadows of trees, hillocks, and houses across the fields, creating a breathtaking scene with a thousand glimmers of light. You would have thought nature was showing off all her beauty just to inspire our conversation. After taking in this view in silence for a while, the man of peace spoke to me.

THE CREED OF A SAVOYARD PRIEST

My child, do not look to me for learned speeches or profound arguments. I am no great philosopher, nor do I desire to be one. I have, however, a certain amount of common-sense and a constant devotion to truth. I have no wish to argue with you nor even to convince you; it is enough for me to show you, in all simplicity of heart, what I really think. Consult your own heart while I speak; that is all I ask. If I am mistaken, I am honestly mistaken, and therefore my error will not be counted to me as a crime; if you, too, are honestly mistaken, there is no great harm done. If I am right, we are both endowed with reason, we have both the same motive for listening to the voice of reason. Why should not you think as I do?

My child, don’t expect me to give you elaborate speeches or deep arguments. I’m not a great philosopher, nor do I want to be one. However, I do have some common sense and a strong commitment to the truth. I don’t want to argue with you or try to convince you; I just want to simply share what I genuinely think. While I speak, trust your own feelings; that's all I ask. If I’m wrong, I’m genuinely wrong, and so my mistake won't be held against me as a crime; if you’re also genuinely mistaken, it's not a big deal. If I’m right, we both have the ability to reason, and we both share the same motivation to listen to that voice of reason. So why shouldn’t you see things the way I do?

By birth I was a peasant and poor; to till the ground was my portion; but my parents thought it a finer thing that I should learn to get my living as a priest and they found means to send me to college. I am quite sure that neither my parents nor I had any idea of seeking after what was good, useful, or true; we only sought what was wanted to get me ordained. I learned what was taught me, I said what I was told to say, I promised all that was required, and I became a priest. But I soon discovered that when I promised not to be a man, I had promised more than I could perform.

I was born a peasant and grew up poor; farming was my lot in life. But my parents believed it would be better for me to become a priest, so they found a way to send me to college. I’m sure that neither my parents nor I had any real sense of pursuing what was good, useful, or true; we just focused on what was needed to get me ordained. I learned what I was taught, said what I was supposed to say, and made all the promises required of me, and I became a priest. However, I soon realized that when I promised not to be a man, I had committed to more than I could actually deliver.

Conscience, they tell us, is the creature of prejudice, but I know from experience that conscience persists in following the order of nature in spite of all the laws of man. In vain is this or that forbidden; remorse makes her voice heard but feebly when what we do is permitted by well-ordered nature, and still more when we are doing her bidding. My good youth, nature has not yet appealed to your senses; may you long remain in this happy state when her voice is the voice of innocence. Remember that to anticipate her teaching is to offend more deeply against her than to resist her teaching; you must first learn to resist, that you may know when to yield without wrong-doing.

They say that conscience is shaped by prejudice, but from my experience, I know that conscience instinctively follows the natural order despite all human laws. It doesn’t matter how many things we’re told are forbidden; guilt barely whispers when our actions align with the natural order, and even more so when we’re acting according to it. My young friend, nature hasn’t yet reached your senses; may you stay in this blissful state where her voice is the sound of innocence. Remember, trying to rush her lessons offends her more deeply than resisting them; you must first learn to resist so you can understand when it’s right to yield without doing wrong.

From my youth up I had reverenced the married state as the first and most sacred institution of nature. Having renounced the right to marry, I was resolved not to profane the sanctity of marriage; for in spite of my education and reading I had always led a simple and regular life, and my mind had preserved the innocence of its natural instincts; these instincts had not been obscured by worldly wisdom, while my poverty kept me remote from the temptations dictated by the sophistry of vice.

From a young age, I’ve looked up to marriage as the most important and sacred part of life. Having given up my right to marry, I was determined not to disrespect the purity of marriage; despite my education and reading, I’ve always lived a simple and orderly life, and my mind has stayed untouched by the usual distractions. These natural instincts were clear to me because my financial struggles kept me away from the temptations that come from the clever tricks of bad behavior.

This very resolution proved my ruin. My respect for marriage led to the discovery of my misconduct. The scandal must be expiated; I was arrested, suspended, and dismissed; I was the victim of my scruples rather than of my incontinence, and I had reason to believe, from the reproaches which accompanied my disgrace, that one can often escape punishment by being guilty of a worse fault.

This very decision led to my downfall. My respect for marriage uncovered my wrongdoing. The scandal had to be atoned for; I was arrested, suspended, and fired; I was a victim of my morals instead of my recklessness, and I had reason to think, based on the criticisms that came with my disgrace, that you can often avoid punishment by committing an even bigger offense.

A thoughtful mind soon learns from such experiences. I found my former ideas of justice, honesty, and every duty of man overturned by these painful events, and day by day I was losing my hold on one or another of the opinions I had accepted. What was left was not enough to form a body of ideas which could stand alone, and I felt that the evidence on which my principles rested was being weakened; at last I knew not what to think, and I came to the same conclusion as yourself, but with this difference: My lack of faith was the slow growth of manhood, attained with great difficulty, and all the harder to uproot.

A reflective mind quickly learns from experiences like these. I found that my previous beliefs about justice, honesty, and every human responsibility were shaken by these painful events, and day by day, I was losing my grip on one or another of the opinions I held. What remained wasn’t enough to form a solid set of beliefs, and I felt like the foundation of my principles was crumbling; eventually, I didn’t know what to believe anymore, and I arrived at the same conclusion as you, but with one key difference: my loss of faith was a gradual result of growing up, achieved with great struggle, and that made it all the more difficult to pull up.

I was in that state of doubt and uncertainty which Descartes considers essential to the search for truth. It is a state which cannot continue, it is disquieting and painful; only vicious tendencies and an idle heart can keep us in that state. My heart was not so corrupt as to delight in it, and there is nothing which so maintains the habit of thinking as being better pleased with oneself than with one’s lot.

I found myself in that confusing and uncertain place that Descartes says is crucial for discovering the truth. It’s a state that can’t last; it’s unsettling and uncomfortable. Only bad habits and a lazy heart can keep us stuck there. My heart wasn't so twisted that it enjoyed being there, and nothing keeps the habit of thinking going like being more satisfied with yourself than with your situation.

I pondered, therefore, on the sad fate of mortals, adrift upon this sea of human opinions, without compass or rudder, and abandoned to their stormy passions with no guide but an inexperienced pilot who does not know whence he comes or whither he is going. I said to myself, “I love truth, I seek her, and cannot find her. Show me truth and I will hold her fast; why does she hide her face from the eager heart that would fain worship her?”

I reflected on the tragic destiny of humans, floating on this ocean of opinions, without direction or control, left to their turbulent emotions with only an unskilled navigator who has no idea where they've come from or where they're headed. I thought to myself, “I love the truth, I seek it, but I cannot find it. Show me the truth and I will hold onto it tightly; why does it turn away from a passionate heart that wants to revere it?”

Although I have often experienced worse sufferings, I have never led a life so uniformly distressing as this period of unrest and anxiety, when I wandered incessantly from one doubt to another, gaining nothing from my prolonged meditations but uncertainty, darkness, and contradiction with regard to the source of my being and the rule of my duties.

Although I've gone through worse pain, I've never had a life as consistently distressing as this time of turmoil and worry, when I kept jumping from one doubt to another, gaining nothing from my endless reflections except confusion, despair, and contradictions about the origin of my existence and the guidelines for my responsibilities.

I cannot understand how any one can be a sceptic sincerely and on principle. Either such philosophers do not exist or they are the most miserable of men. Doubt with regard to what we ought to know is a condition too violent for the human mind; it cannot long be endured; in spite of itself the mind decides one way or another, and it prefers to be deceived rather than to believe nothing.

I can't understand how anyone can be a skeptic genuinely and on principle. Either these philosophers don't really exist or they are the most miserable people. Doubt about what we should know is too intense for the human mind; it can't last long. In spite of itself, the mind will settle on one side or the other, and it would rather be fooled than believe in nothing.

My perplexity was increased by the fact that I had been brought up in a church which decides everything and permits no doubts, so that having rejected one article of faith I was forced to reject the rest; as I could not accept absurd decisions, I was deprived of those which were not absurd. When I was told to believe everything, I could believe nothing, and I knew not where to stop.

My confusion was made worse by the fact that I was raised in a church that dictates everything and allows no questions. Because I rejected one belief, I felt I had to reject all the others; since I couldn't accept ridiculous beliefs, I lost access to the ones that weren't ridiculous. When I was told to believe everything, I found I could believe nothing, and I had no idea where to draw the line.

I consulted the philosophers, I searched their books and examined their various theories; I found them all alike proud, assertive, dogmatic, professing, even in their so-called scepticism, to know everything, proving nothing, scoffing at each other. This last trait, which was common to all of them, struck me as the only point in which they were right. Braggarts in attack, they are weaklings in defence. Weigh their arguments, they are all destructive; count their voices, every one speaks for himself; they are only agreed in arguing with each other. I could find no way out of my uncertainty by listening to them.

I talked to the philosophers, looked through their books, and checked out their various theories; I found them all to be proud, assertive, and dogmatic, claiming, even in their so-called skepticism, to know everything, yet proving nothing, and mocking each other. This last trait, which was common to all of them, seemed to me the only thing they got right. They’re bold when attacking, but weak when defending. If you examine their arguments, they’re all destructive; each one speaks for themselves; the only thing they agree on is arguing with each other. I couldn’t find a way out of my uncertainty by listening to them.

I suppose this prodigious diversity of opinion is caused, in the first place, by the weakness of the human intellect; and, in the second, by pride. We have no means of measuring this vast machine, we are unable to calculate its workings; we know neither its guiding principles nor its final purpose; we do not know ourselves, we know neither our nature nor the spirit that moves us; we scarcely know whether man is one or many; we are surrounded by impenetrable mysteries. These mysteries are beyond the region of sense, we think we can penetrate them by the light of reason, but we fall back on our imagination. Through this imagined world each forces a way for himself which he holds to be right; none can tell whether his path will lead him to the goal. Yet we long to know and understand it all. The one thing we do not know is the limit of the knowable. We prefer to trust to chance and to believe what is not true, rather than to own that not one of us can see what really is. A fragment of some vast whole whose bounds are beyond our gaze, a fragment abandoned by its Creator to our foolish quarrels, we are vain enough to want to determine the nature of that whole and our own relations with regard to it.

I think this huge variety of opinions comes from, first, the limits of human understanding, and second, our pride. We have no way of measuring this vast system, we can't figure out how it works; we don’t know its guiding principles or ultimate purpose; we don’t even understand ourselves, our nature, or the motivations behind our actions; we can barely tell if humanity is one entity or many. We are surrounded by deep mysteries. These mysteries go beyond what we can sense; we believe we can understand them through reason, but we end up relying on our imagination. Each person carves out their own path in this imagined world, thinking it’s the right one; no one can say if their path will lead to the truth. Yet, we all want to know and understand everything. The one thing we can’t grasp is the limit of what can be known. We prefer to rely on chance and believe in falsehoods rather than admit that none of us has a clear view of reality. As fragments of a greater whole whose edges are beyond our sight, we are foolishly arrogant enough to try to define that whole and our relationships to it.

If the philosophers were in a position to declare the truth, which of them would care to do so? Every one of them knows that his own system rests on no surer foundations than the rest, but he maintains it because it is his own. There is not one of them who, if he chanced to discover the difference between truth and falsehood, would not prefer his own lie to the truth which another had discovered. Where is the philosopher who would not deceive the whole world for his own glory? If he can rise above the crowd, if he can excel his rivals, what more does he want? Among believers he is an atheist; among atheists he would be a believer.

If philosophers had the chance to state what’s true, which one of them would actually want to? They all understand that their own beliefs are no more solid than anyone else’s, yet they stick to them simply because they're theirs. Not one of them, if they stumbled upon the difference between truth and falsehood, wouldn’t choose their own falsehood over someone else’s truth. Where is the philosopher who wouldn’t mislead the entire world for his own fame? If he can stand out from the crowd, if he can outshine his competitors, what more could he want? Among believers, he acts like an atheist; among atheists, he would pretend to be a believer.

The first thing I learned from these considerations was to restrict my inquiries to what directly concerned myself, to rest in profound ignorance of everything else, and not even to trouble myself to doubt anything beyond what I required to know.

The first thing I learned from these thoughts was to limit my questions to what directly affected me, to be completely unaware of everything else, and not even to bother doubting anything outside of what I needed to know.

I also realised that the philosophers, far from ridding me of my vain doubts, only multiplied the doubts that tormented me and failed to remove any one of them. So I chose another guide and said, “Let me follow the Inner Light; it will not lead me so far astray as others have done, or if it does it will be my own fault, and I shall not go so far wrong if I follow my own illusions as if I trusted to their deceits.”

I also realized that the philosophers, instead of freeing me from my foolish doubts, only increased the doubts that troubled me and didn’t eliminate any of them. So, I picked a different path and said, “Let me follow my Inner Light; it won’t lead me as far off course as others have, and if it does, it will be my own mistake. I won’t go too far wrong if I trust my own illusions instead of their tricks.”

I then went over in my mind the various opinions which I had held in the course of my life, and I saw that although no one of them was plain enough to gain immediate belief, some were more probable than others, and my inward consent was given or withheld in proportion to this improbability. Having discovered this, I made an unprejudiced comparison of all these different ideas, and I perceived that the first and most general of them was also the simplest and the most reasonable, and that it would have been accepted by every one if only it had been last instead of first. Imagine all your philosophers, ancient and modern, having exhausted their strange systems of force, chance, fate, necessity, atoms, a living world, animated matter, and every variety of materialism. Then comes the illustrious Clarke who gives light to the world and proclaims the Being of beings and the Giver of things. What universal admiration, what unanimous applause would have greeted this new system—a system so great, so illuminating, and so simple. Other systems are full of absurdities; this system seems to me to contain fewer things which are beyond the understanding of the human mind. I said to myself, “Every system has its insoluble problems, for the finite mind of man is too small to deal with them; these difficulties are therefore no final arguments, against any system. But what a difference there is between the direct evidence on which these systems are based! Should we not prefer that theory which alone explains all the facts, when it is no more difficult than the rest?”

I reflected on the various opinions I had held throughout my life and realized that while none of them were convincing enough to be accepted immediately, some were more likely than others. My inner agreement was given or withheld based on this likelihood. Once I recognized this, I made an unbiased comparison of all these different ideas and found that the first and most general one was also the simplest and most reasonable, and it would have been embraced by everyone if only it had come last instead of first. Imagine all the philosophers, ancient and modern, who have explored their bizarre systems of force, chance, fate, necessity, atoms, a living world, animated matter, and every type of materialism. Then comes the famous Clarke, who enlightens the world and declares the Existence of existences and the Giver of all things. What universal admiration and unanimous applause would have welcomed this new system—a system so profound, so enlightening, and so straightforward. Other systems are filled with absurdities; this one seems to me to have fewer aspects that are beyond human understanding. I thought to myself, “Every system has its unsolvable issues, as the finite mind of man is too small to grasp them; these challenges are not conclusive arguments against any system. But how different is the clear evidence on which these systems are built! Shouldn’t we prefer the theory that alone explains all the facts when it isn't any more complicated than the others?”

Bearing thus within my heart the love of truth as my only philosophy, and as my only method a clear and simple rule which dispensed with the need for vain and subtle arguments, I returned with the help of this rule to the examination of such knowledge as concerned myself; I was resolved to admit as self-evident all that I could not honestly refuse to believe, and to admit as true all that seemed to follow directly from this; all the rest I determined to leave undecided, neither accepting nor rejecting it, nor yet troubling myself to clear up difficulties which did not lead to any practical ends.

Keeping the love of truth in my heart as my only philosophy, and relying on a straightforward rule that eliminated the need for complex and pointless arguments, I returned to examining what I knew about myself. I decided to accept as self-evident anything I couldn't honestly dismiss, and to recognize as true everything that clearly followed from that. Everything else I chose to leave unresolved, neither accepting nor rejecting it, and I didn't bother trying to solve problems that didn’t lead to any practical outcomes.

But who am I? What right have I to decide? What is it that determines my judgments? If they are inevitable, if they are the results of the impressions I receive, I am wasting my strength in such inquiries; they would be made or not without any interference of mine. I must therefore first turn my eyes upon myself to acquaint myself with the instrument I desire to use, and to discover how far it is reliable.

But who am I? What right do I have to decide? What shapes my judgments? If they are unavoidable, if they come from the impressions I gather, I’m wasting my energy on these questions; they would happen whether I interfere or not. I need to first look at myself to understand the tool I want to use and see how reliable it is.

I exist, and I have senses through which I receive impressions. This is the first truth that strikes me and I am forced to accept it. Have I any independent knowledge of my existence, or am I only aware of it through my sensations? This is my first difficulty, and so far I cannot solve it. For I continually experience sensations, either directly or indirectly through memory, so how can I know if the feeling of self is something beyond these sensations or if it can exist independently of them?

I exist, and I have senses that allow me to experience impressions. This is the first truth that hits me, and I have to accept it. Do I have any independent knowledge of my existence, or am I only aware of it through my sensations? This is my initial challenge, and so far I can’t figure it out. I constantly have sensations, either directly or indirectly through memory, so how can I know if the feeling of self is something more than these sensations or if it can exist on its own?

My sensations take place in myself, for they make me aware of my own existence; but their cause is outside me, for they affect me whether I have any reason for them or not, and they are produced or destroyed independently of me. So I clearly perceive that my sensation, which is within me, and its cause or its object, which is outside me, are different things.

My feelings happen within me because they make me aware of my own existence; however, their source is external, as they impact me regardless of any justification for them, and they occur or fade away without my control. So, I can distinctly see that my feelings, which are internal, and their source or object, which is external, are separate entities.

Thus, not only do I exist, but other entities exist also, that is to say, the objects of my sensations; and even if these objects are merely ideas, still these ideas are not me.

So, not only do I exist, but other things exist too, meaning the objects of my sensations; and even if these objects are just ideas, those ideas are still not me.

But everything outside myself, everything which acts upon my senses, I call matter, and all the particles of matter which I suppose to be united into separate entities I call bodies. Thus all the disputes of the idealists and the realists have no meaning for me; their distinctions between the appearance and the reality of bodies are wholly fanciful.

But everything outside of me, everything that affects my senses, I call matter, and all the particles of matter that I believe are combined into separate entities I call bodies. Therefore, all the arguments between idealists and realists don't make sense to me; their differences between the appearance and the reality of bodies are completely imaginary.

I am now as convinced of the existence of the universe as of my own. I next consider the objects of my sensations, and I find that I have the power of comparing them, so I perceive that I am endowed with an active force of which I was not previously aware.

I am now as sure of the existence of the universe as I am of my own. Next, I think about the things I sense, and I realize that I have the ability to compare them, so I see that I have an active force within me that I wasn't aware of before.

To perceive is to feel; to compare is to judge; to judge and to feel are not the same. Through sensation objects present themselves to me separately and singly as they are in nature; by comparing them I rearrange them, I shift them so to speak, I place one upon another to decide whether they are alike or different, or more generally to find out their relations. To my mind, the distinctive faculty of an active or intelligent being is the power of understanding this word “is.” I seek in vain in the merely sensitive entity that intelligent force which compares and judges; I can find no trace of it in its nature. This passive entity will be aware of each object separately, it will even be aware of the whole formed by the two together, but having no power to place them side by side it can never compare them, it can never form a judgment with regard to them.

To perceive is to feel; to compare is to judge; judging and feeling are not the same. Through sensation, objects appear to me individually, just as they exist in nature; by comparing them, I rearrange them, so to speak, stacking them up to decide whether they are similar or different, or more generally, to understand their relationships. To me, the unique ability of an active or intelligent being is the power to grasp the meaning of the word "is." I look in vain in a purely sensitive being for that intelligent force which compares and judges; I can find no evidence of it in its nature. This passive being will recognize each object individually, and it will also recognize the whole made by the two together, but without the ability to place them next to each other, it can never compare them or make a judgment about them.

To see two things at once is not to see their relations nor to judge of their differences; to perceive several objects, one beyond the other, is not to relate them. I may have at the same moment an idea of a big stick and a little stick without comparing them, without judging that one is less than the other, just as I can see my whole hand without counting my fingers. [Footnote: M. de le Cordamines’ narratives tell of a people who only know how to count up to three. Yet the men of this nation, having hands, have often seen their fingers without learning to count up to five.] These comparative ideas, ‘greater’, ‘smaller’, together with number ideas of ‘one’, two’, etc. are certainly not sensations, although my mind only produces them when my sensations occur.

Seeing two things at the same time doesn’t mean understanding their relationship or judging their differences; perceiving several objects, one after the other, doesn’t create a connection between them. I can simultaneously visualize a big stick and a small stick without comparing them or deciding that one is smaller than the other, just like I can see my entire hand without counting my fingers. [Footnote: M. de le Cordamines’ narratives describe a people who can only count up to three. Yet, the men of this nation, having hands, have often seen their fingers without learning to count up to five.] These comparative concepts, ‘greater’, ‘smaller’, along with numerical ideas of ‘one’, ‘two’, etc., are definitely not sensations, even though my mind generates them only when I have sensations.

We are told that a sensitive being distinguishes sensations from each other by the inherent differences in the sensations; this requires explanation. When the sensations are different, the sensitive being distinguishes them by their differences; when they are alike, he distinguishes them because he is aware of them one beyond the other. Otherwise, how could he distinguish between two equal objects simultaneously experienced? He would necessarily confound the two objects and take them for one object, especially under a system which professed that the representative sensations of space have no extension.

We’re told that a sensitive being can tell sensations apart due to their inherent differences; this needs clarification. When the sensations are different, the sensitive being recognizes them by their distinctions; when they’re similar, he notices them as one follows the other. If not, how could he tell two identical objects apart at the same time? He would inevitably mix them up and think they were one object, especially in a system that claims the sensations representing space have no extension.

When we become aware of the two sensations to be compared, their impression is made, each object is perceived, both are perceived, but for all that their relation is not perceived. If the judgment of this relation were merely a sensation, and came to me solely from the object itself, my judgments would never be mistaken, for it is never untrue that I feel what I feel.

When we notice the two sensations we’re comparing, we get an impression from each object, and both are recognized, but we still don’t perceive their relationship. If the judgment of this relationship was just a sensation that came only from the object itself, I would never be wrong in my judgments, because it’s always true that I feel what I feel.

Why then am I mistaken as to the relation between these two sticks, especially when they are not parallel? Why, for example, do I say the small stick is a third of the large, when it is only a quarter? Why is the picture, which is the sensation, unlike its model which is the object? It is because I am active when I judge, because the operation of comparison is at fault; because my understanding, which judges of relations, mingles its errors with the truth of sensations, which only reveal to me things.

Why am I confused about the relationship between these two sticks, especially when they're not parallel? Why do I claim that the small stick is a third of the large one when it’s actually just a quarter? Why does the image, which is the sensation, differ from its model, which is the object? It's because I’m involved when I make judgments; the process of comparison is flawed. My understanding, which assesses relationships, mixes its mistakes with the truth of sensations, which only show me things.

Add to this a consideration which will, I feel sure, appeal to you when you have thought about it: it is this—If we were purely passive in the use of our senses, there would be no communication between them; it would be impossible to know that the body we are touching and the thing we are looking at is the same. Either we should never perceive anything outside ourselves, or there would be for us five substances perceptible by the senses, whose identity we should have no means of perceiving.

Add to this a consideration that I’m sure will resonate with you once you think it over: if we were completely passive in how we use our senses, there would be no interaction between them; we wouldn’t be able to tell that the body we’re touching and the object we’re seeing are the same. We would either never perceive anything outside ourselves, or we would only recognize five different substances through our senses, and we wouldn’t have any way to realize they all have the same identity.

This power of my mind which brings my sensations together and compares them may be called by any name; let it be called attention, meditation, reflection, or what you will; it is still true that it is in me and not in things, that it is I alone who produce it, though I only produce it when I receive an impression from things. Though I am compelled to feel or not to feel, I am free to examine more or less what I feel.

This mental ability that helps me gather and compare my feelings can be named however you want; whether it’s called attention, meditation, reflection, or something else, it’s still true that it exists within me, not in external things. I’m the one who creates it, even though I can only do so when I’m affected by those external things. While I’m forced to experience certain feelings, I still have the freedom to examine how deeply or lightly I engage with those feelings.

Being now, so to speak, sure of myself, I begin to look at things outside myself, and I behold myself with a sort of shudder flung at random into this vast universe, plunged as it were into the vast number of entities, knowing nothing of what they are in themselves or in relation to me. I study them, I observe them; and the first object which suggests itself for comparison with them is myself.

Now that I feel more confident, I start to look beyond myself, and I view myself with a kind of dread, randomly thrown into this vast universe, immersed in countless entities, knowing nothing about what they truly are or how they relate to me. I examine them, I watch them; and the first thing that comes to mind for comparison is myself.

All that I perceive through the senses is matter, and I deduce all the essential properties of matter from the sensible qualities which make me perceive it, qualities which are inseparable from it. I see it sometimes in motion, sometimes at rest, [Footnote: This repose is, if you prefer it, merely relative; but as we perceive more or less of motion, we may plainly conceive one of two extremes, which is rest; and we conceive it so clearly that we are even disposed to take for absolute rest what is only relative. But it is not true that motion is of the essence of matter, if matter may be conceived of as at rest.] hence I infer that neither motion nor rest is essential to it, but motion, being an action, is the result of a cause of which rest is only the absence. When, therefore, there is nothing acting upon matter it does not move, and for the very reason that rest and motion are indifferent to it, its natural state is a state of rest.

Everything I perceive through my senses is matter, and I determine all the essential properties of matter from the qualities I can sense. These qualities are always linked to it. Sometimes I see it in motion, and other times I see it at rest. [Footnote: This rest is, if you prefer, just relative; but since we can perceive varying degrees of motion, we can clearly imagine one extreme, which is rest. We conceive of it so clearly that we often mistake relative rest for absolute rest. However, it’s not true that motion is essential to matter, as we can think of matter as being at rest.] Therefore, I conclude that neither motion nor rest is intrinsic to it, but rather, motion, being an action, arises from a cause, while rest is simply the absence of motion. Thus, when nothing acts upon matter, it doesn’t move, and because rest and motion don’t affect it intrinsically, its natural state is one of rest.

I perceive two sorts of motions of bodies, acquired motion and spontaneous or voluntary motion. In the first the cause is external to the body moved, in the second it is within. I shall not conclude from that that the motion, say of a watch, is spontaneous, for if no external cause operated upon the spring it would run down and the watch would cease to go. For the same reason I should not admit that the movements of fluids are spontaneous, neither should I attribute spontaneous motion to fire which causes their fluidity. [Footnote: Chemists regard phlogiston or the element of fire as diffused, motionless, and stagnant in the compounds of which it forms part, until external forces set it free, collect it and set it in motion, and change it into fire.]

I see two types of motion in bodies: acquired motion and spontaneous or voluntary motion. In the first, the cause comes from outside the moving body, while in the second, it originates within. However, I won't conclude that the motion of a watch is spontaneous, because if there were no external force acting on the spring, it would stop, and the watch would cease to function. Similarly, I wouldn't consider the movement of fluids to be spontaneous, nor would I say that fire has spontaneous motion since it is responsible for their fluidity. [Footnote: Chemists view phlogiston or the element of fire as spread out, motionless, and stagnant in the compounds it is part of, until external forces release, gather, and activate it, transforming it into fire.]

You ask me if the movements of animals are spontaneous; my answer is, “I cannot tell,” but analogy points that way. You ask me again, how do I know that there are spontaneous movements? I tell you, “I know it because I feel them.” I want to move my arm and I move it without any other immediate cause of the movement but my own will. In vain would any one try to argue me out of this feeling, it is stronger than any proofs; you might as well try to convince me that I do not exist.

You ask me if animals move on their own; my answer is, “I can’t say for sure,” but it seems likely. You ask me again how I know there are spontaneous movements. I tell you, “I know it because I feel them.” I want to move my arm, and I do it without any reason other than my own choice. Anyone trying to convince me otherwise is wasting their time; this feeling is stronger than any evidence; you might as well try to convince me that I don’t exist.

If there were no spontaneity in men’s actions, nor in anything that happens on this earth, it would be all the more difficult to imagine a first cause for all motion. For my own part, I feel myself so thoroughly convinced that the natural state of matter is a state of rest, and that it has no power of action in itself, that when I see a body in motion I at once assume that it is either a living body or that this motion has been imparted to it. My mind declines to accept in any way the idea of inorganic matter moving of its own accord, or giving rise to any action.

If there was no spontaneity in people's actions, or in anything that happens on this planet, it would be even harder to think of a first cause for all motion. Personally, I'm completely convinced that the natural state of matter is rest, and that it doesn't have any power to act on its own. So, when I see something moving, I immediately assume it's either a living thing or that this motion has been given to it. My mind just can't accept the idea of inorganic matter moving on its own or causing any action.

Yet this visible universe consists of matter, matter diffused and dead, [Footnote: I have tried hard to grasp the idea of a living molecule, but in vain. The idea of matter feeling without any senses seems to me unintelligible and self-contradictory. To accept or reject this idea one must first understand it, and I confess that so far I have not succeeded.] matter which has none of the cohesion, the organisation, the common feeling of the parts of a living body, for it is certain that we who are parts have no consciousness of the whole. This same universe is in motion, and in its movements, ordered, uniform, and subject to fixed laws, it has none of that freedom which appears in the spontaneous movements of men and animals. So the world is not some huge animal which moves of its own accord; its movements are therefore due to some external cause, a cause which I cannot perceive, but the inner voice makes this cause so apparent to me that I cannot watch the course of the sun without imagining a force which drives it, and when the earth revolves I think I see the hand that sets it in motion.

Yet this visible universe is made up of matter, matter that is dispersed and lifeless, [Footnote: I have tried hard to grasp the concept of a living molecule, but without success. The idea of matter having feelings without any senses seems perplexing and contradictory to me. To accept or reject this idea, one must first understand it, and I admit that so far I have not managed to do that.] matter that lacks the cohesion, organization, and shared awareness of the parts of a living body, because it’s clear that we, as parts, have no awareness of the whole. This same universe is in motion, and in its movements—structured, uniform, and governed by fixed laws—it lacks that freedom seen in the spontaneous actions of people and animals. So, the world isn’t some giant creature that moves on its own; its movements must come from some external cause, a cause that I can’t see, but my inner voice makes this cause so clear to me that I can’t watch the sun without imagining a force driving it, and when the earth rotates, I think I can see the hand that sets it in motion.

If I must accept general laws whose essential relation to matter is unperceived by me, how much further have I got? These laws, not being real things, not being substances, have therefore some other basis unknown to me. Experiment and observation have acquainted us with the laws of motion; these laws determine the results without showing their causes; they are quite inadequate to explain the system of the world and the course of the universe. With the help of dice Descartes made heaven and earth; but he could not set his dice in motion, nor start the action of his centrifugal force without the help of rotation. Newton discovered the law of gravitation; but gravitation alone would soon reduce the universe to a motionless mass; he was compelled to add a projectile force to account for the elliptical course of the celestial bodies; let Newton show us the hand that launched the planets in the tangent of their orbits.

If I have to accept general laws that I can't really perceive in relation to matter, how much further have I really gotten? These laws aren't real things or substances, so they must have some other basis that's unknown to me. Experiments and observations have taught us about the laws of motion; these laws determine the outcomes without revealing their causes. They fall short of explaining the system of the world and the universe's workings. Using dice, Descartes created heaven and earth, but he couldn't set his dice in motion or activate his centrifugal force without rotation. Newton discovered the law of gravitation, but just that alone would quickly turn the universe into a still mass; he had to introduce a projectile force to explain the elliptical paths of celestial bodies. Let's ask Newton to show us the hand that launched the planets along their orbits.

The first causes of motion are not to be found in matter; matter receives and transmits motion, but does not produce it. The more I observe the action and reaction of the forces of nature playing on one another, the more I see that we must always go back from one effect to another, till we arrive at a first cause in some will; for to assume an infinite succession of causes is to assume that there is no first cause. In a word, no motion which is not caused by another motion can take place, except by a spontaneous, voluntary action; inanimate bodies have no action but motion, and there is no real action without will. This is my first principle. I believe, therefore, that there is a will which sets the universe in motion and gives life to nature. This is my first dogma, or the first article of my creed.

The initial causes of motion aren't found in matter; matter only receives and transmits motion, but doesn't create it. The more I observe the interaction of natural forces, the more I realize that we always have to trace back from one effect to another until we reach a first cause in some will; to believe in an infinite chain of causes is to deny the existence of a first cause. In simple terms, no motion can happen without being triggered by another motion, except through a spontaneous, voluntary action; inanimate objects have no action other than motion, and there's no real action without will. This is my foundational principle. Therefore, I believe there is a will that sets the universe in motion and breathes life into nature. This is my first belief, or the first tenet of my creed.

How does a will produce a physical and corporeal action? I cannot tell, but I perceive that it does so in myself; I will to do something and I do it; I will to move my body and it moves, but if an inanimate body, when at rest, should begin to move itself, the thing is incomprehensible and without precedent. The will is known to me in its action, not in its nature. I know this will as a cause of motion, but to conceive of matter as producing motion is clearly to conceive of an effect without a cause, which is not to conceive at all.

How does a will create a physical and tangible action? I can't say for sure, but I can see it happening in myself; I decide to do something, and I do it; I decide to move my body, and it moves. However, if a non-living object, when still, were to start moving on its own, that would be incomprehensible and unprecedented. I recognize my will through its actions, not its essence. I understand this will as a cause of movement, but imagining matter creating motion is clearly envisioning an effect without a cause, which is not something one can truly envision.

It is no more possible for me to conceive how my will moves my body than to conceive how my sensations affect my mind. I do not even know why one of these mysteries has seemed less inexplicable than the other. For my own part, whether I am active or passive, the means of union of the two substances seem to me absolutely incomprehensible. It is very strange that people make this very incomprehensibility a step towards the compounding of the two substances, as if operations so different in kind were more easily explained in one case than in two.

I can't understand how my will influences my body any more than I can figure out how my sensations impact my mind. I don't even know why one of these mysteries seems less puzzling than the other. For me, whether I'm acting or being acted upon, the connection between the two substances seems completely incomprehensible. It's odd that people take this very incomprehensibility as a reason to merge the two substances, as if such different types of operations would be easier to explain in one case rather than two.

The doctrine I have just laid down is indeed obscure; but at least it suggests a meaning and there is nothing in it repugnant to reason or experience; can we say as much of materialism? Is it not plain that if motion is essential to matter it would be inseparable from it, it would always be present in it in the same degree, always present in every particle of matter, always the same in each particle of matter, it would not be capable of transmission, it could neither increase nor diminish, nor could we ever conceive of matter at rest. When you tell me that motion is not essential to matter but necessary to it, you try to cheat me with words which would be easier to refute if there was a little more sense in them. For either the motion of matter arises from the matter itself and is therefore essential to it; or it arises from an external cause and is not necessary to the matter, because the motive cause acts upon it; we have got back to our original difficulty.

The idea I've just presented is definitely unclear; however, at least it hints at a meaning and there's nothing in it that contradicts reason or experience. Can we say the same about materialism? Isn’t it obvious that if motion is essential to matter, it would be completely intertwined with it, always present to the same extent in every particle of matter, unchanging in each individual particle? It wouldn’t be able to be transferred, it couldn’t grow or shrink, and we couldn’t even imagine matter being at rest. When you say that motion isn’t essential to matter but necessary to it, you’re trying to trick me with words that would be easier to dispute if they made a bit more sense. Either the motion of matter comes from the matter itself and is therefore essential to it, or it comes from an outside force and isn’t necessary for the matter, since the motivating cause acts upon it; we’re back to our original problem.

The chief source of human error is to be found in general and abstract ideas; the jargon of metaphysics has never led to the discovery of any single truth, and it has filled philosophy with absurdities of which we are ashamed as soon as we strip them of their long words. Tell me, my friend, when they talk to you of a blind force diffused throughout nature, do they present any real idea to your mind? They think they are saying something by these vague expressions—universal force, essential motion—but they are saying nothing at all. The idea of motion is nothing more than the idea of transference from place to place; there is no motion without direction; for no individual can move all ways at once. In what direction then does matter move of necessity? Has the whole body of matter a uniform motion, or has each atom its own motion? According to the first idea the whole universe must form a solid and indivisible mass; according to the second it can only form a diffused and incoherent fluid, which would make the union of any two atoms impossible. What direction shall be taken by this motion common to all matter? Shall it be in a straight line, in a circle, or from above downwards, to the right or to the left? If each molecule has its own direction, what are the causes of all these directions and all these differences? If every molecule or atom only revolved on its own axis, nothing would ever leave its place and there would be no transmitted motion, and even then this circular movement would require to follow some direction. To set matter in motion by an abstraction is to utter words without meaning, and to attribute to matter a given direction is to assume a determining cause. The more examples I take, the more causes I have to explain, without ever finding a common agent which controls them. Far from being able to picture to myself an entire absence of order in the fortuitous concurrence of elements, I cannot even imagine such a strife, and the chaos of the universe is less conceivable to me than its harmony. I can understand that the mechanism of the universe may not be intelligible to the human mind, but when a man sets to work to explain it, he must say what men can understand.

The main source of human error lies in vague and abstract ideas; the complex language of metaphysics has never led to any real truth and has filled philosophy with absurdities that we feel embarrassed about once we strip away the fancy words. Tell me, my friend, when they talk about a blind force spread throughout nature, do they actually give you any real idea? They think they’re expressing something meaningful with terms like universal force and essential motion, but really, they’re saying nothing at all. Motion is simply the idea of moving from one place to another; there’s no motion without direction because no one can move in every direction at once. So in what direction does matter have to move? Does all matter move uniformly, or does each atom move on its own? If we consider the first idea, the entire universe must be one solid, indivisible mass; if we consider the second, it would have to be a spread-out and chaotic fluid that would make it impossible for any two atoms to join together. What direction should this common motion of all matter take? Should it be in a straight line, a circle, or moving up and down, to the right or the left? If each molecule has its own direction, what causes these different directions and variations? If every molecule or atom just spun in place, nothing would ever shift, and there would be no transfer of motion, and this circular movement would still need to follow some direction. To try to move matter using an abstract idea is to speak without meaning, and to assign a direction to matter implies a determining cause. The more examples I consider, the more causes I have to explain, without ever discovering a common force managing them. Rather than being able to envision absolute disorder in the random interaction of elements, I can’t even imagine such chaos; the disorder of the universe is less understandable to me than its harmony. I get that the universe’s mechanics might not be clear to the human mind, but when someone sets out to explain it, they need to use terms that people can understand.

If matter in motion points me to a will, matter in motion according to fixed laws points me to an intelligence; that is the second article of my creed. To act, to compare, to choose, are the operations of an active, thinking being; so this being exists. Where do you find him existing, you will say? Not merely in the revolving heavens, nor in the sun which gives us light, not in myself alone, but in the sheep that grazes, the bird that flies, the stone that falls, and the leaf blown by the wind.

If moving matter suggests a will, then moving matter that follows fixed laws suggests an intelligence; that's the second part of my belief. To act, compare, and choose are the actions of an active, thinking being; therefore, this being exists. You might ask, where do you find this being? Not just in the spinning heavens, nor in the sun that gives us light, nor solely in myself, but in the sheep that grazes, the bird that flies, the stone that falls, and the leaf carried by the wind.

I judge of the order of the world, although I know nothing of its purpose, for to judge of this order it is enough for me to compare the parts one with another, to study their co-operation, their relations, and to observe their united action. I know not why the universe exists, but I see continually how it is changed; I never fail to perceive the close connection by which the entities of which it consists lend their aid one to another. I am like a man who sees the works of a watch for the first time; he is never weary of admiring the mechanism, though he does not know the use of the instrument and has never seen its face. I do not know what this is for, says he, but I see that each part of it is fitted to the rest, I admire the workman in the details of his work, and I am quite certain that all these wheels only work together in this fashion for some common end which I cannot perceive.

I assess the order of the world, even though I don’t understand its purpose, because to judge this order, it’s enough for me to compare the parts with each other, study their cooperation, their relationships, and observe their combined actions. I don’t know why the universe exists, but I constantly see how it changes; I always notice the close connection by which the entities it’s made up of support one another. I’m like someone who sees the inner workings of a watch for the first time; I can’t help but admire the mechanism, even if I don’t know what the instrument is meant to do and have never seen its face. I don’t know what this is for, he says, but I can see that each part fits with the rest, I admire the craftsmanship in the details of the work, and I’m quite sure that all these gears work together in this way for some common purpose that I can’t grasp.

Let us compare the special ends, the means, the ordered relations of every kind, then let us listen to the inner voice of feeling; what healthy mind can reject its evidence? Unless the eyes are blinded by prejudices, can they fail to see that the visible order of the universe proclaims a supreme intelligence? What sophisms must be brought together before we fail to understand the harmony of existence and the wonderful co-operation of every part for the maintenance of the rest? Say what you will of combinations and probabilities; what do you gain by reducing me to silence if you cannot gain my consent? And how can you rob me of the spontaneous feeling which, in spite of myself, continually gives you the lie? If organised bodies had come together fortuitously in all sorts of ways before assuming settled forms, if stomachs are made without mouths, feet without heads, hands without arms, imperfect organs of every kind which died because they could not preserve their life, why do none of these imperfect attempts now meet our eyes; why has nature at length prescribed laws to herself which she did not at first recognise? I must not be surprised if that which is possible should happen, and if the improbability of the event is compensated for by the number of the attempts. I grant this; yet if any one told me that printed characters scattered broadcast had produced the Aeneid all complete, I would not condescend to take a single step to verify this falsehood. You will tell me I am forgetting the multitude of attempts. But how many such attempts must I assume to bring the combination within the bounds of probability? For my own part the only possible assumption is that the chances are infinity to one that the product is not the work of chance. In addition to this, chance combinations yield nothing but products of the same nature as the elements combined, so that life and organisation will not be produced by a flow of atoms, and a chemist when making his compounds will never give them thought and feeling in his crucible. [Footnote: Could one believe, if one had not seen it, that human absurdity could go so far? Amatus Lusitanus asserts that he saw a little man an inch long enclosed in a glass, which Julius Camillus, like a second Prometheus, had made by alchemy. Paracelsis (De natura rerum) teaches the method of making these tiny men, and he maintains that the pygmies, fauns, satyrs, and nymphs have been made by chemistry. Indeed I cannot see that there is anything more to be done, to establish the possibility of these facts, unless it is to assert that organic matter resists the heat of fire and that its molecules can preserve their life in the hottest furnace.]

Let’s compare the specific goals, the methods, and the organized relationships of all kinds, and then let’s listen to our feelings; what rational mind can ignore what they tell us? Unless someone is blinded by bias, how can they fail to see that the visible order of the universe points to a higher intelligence? What twisted arguments must we use to deny the harmony of existence and the amazing cooperation of every part that supports the whole? Say whatever you want about combinations and probabilities; what do you achieve by silencing me if you can’t win my agreement? And how can you take away the genuine feeling that, despite everything, constantly proves you wrong? If organized bodies had come together randomly in various ways before taking stable forms, if stomachs could exist without mouths, feet without heads, hands without arms, and imperfect organs that failed to survive, why don’t we see any of these flawed attempts now? Why has nature finally imposed laws on itself that it didn’t initially recognize? I shouldn't be surprised if what’s possible happens, and if the unlikely event is offset by the number of attempts. I accept this; however, if anyone told me that scattered printed characters created the Aeneid in its entirety, I wouldn’t even bother checking this falsehood. You might say I’m ignoring the numerous attempts. But how many of these attempts would I need to consider for the combination to be probably valid? Personally, I believe the odds are infinitely against the idea that the outcome is just a coincidence. Additionally, random combinations produce nothing but results similar to the original elements, so life and organization cannot arise from a mere flow of atoms, and a chemist mixing compounds will never instill them with thought and feeling in their lab. [Footnote: Could anyone believe, if they hadn’t seen it, that human folly could go this far? Amatus Lusitanus claimed to have seen a tiny man an inch tall trapped in a glass, which Julius Camillus, like a second Prometheus, created through alchemy. Paracelsus (De natura rerum) describes the method to create these tiny beings and asserts that pygmies, fauns, satyrs, and nymphs are products of chemistry. Indeed, I don’t see how one can establish the possibility of these facts any further, except to claim that organic matter resists fire and that its molecules can maintain life in the hottest furnace.]

I was surprised and almost shocked when I read Neuwentit. How could this man desire to make a book out of the wonders of nature, wonders which show the wisdom of the author of nature? His book would have been as large as the world itself before he had exhausted his subject, and as soon as we attempt to give details, that greatest wonder of all, the concord and harmony of the whole, escapes us. The mere generation of living organic bodies is the despair of the human mind; the insurmountable barrier raised by nature between the various species, so that they should not mix with one another, is the clearest proof of her intention. She is not content to have established order, she has taken adequate measures to prevent the disturbance of that order.

I was surprised and almost shocked when I read Neuwentit. How could this guy want to write a book about the wonders of nature, wonders that showcase the wisdom of the creator? His book would have been as vast as the world itself before he even came close to covering the topic, and as soon as we try to provide details, that greatest wonder of all—the unity and harmony of everything—slips away from us. Just the process of generating living organisms is overwhelming for the human mind; the insurmountable barrier that nature has created between different species, ensuring they don't mix, is clear evidence of her intent. She doesn't just set up order; she has taken strong steps to keep that order from being disrupted.

There is not a being in the universe which may not be regarded as in some respects the common centre of all, around which they are grouped, so that they are all reciprocally end and means in relation to each other. The mind is confused and lost amid these innumerable relations, not one of which is itself confused or lost in the crowd. What absurd assumptions are required to deduce all this harmony from the blind mechanism of matter set in motion by chance! In vain do those who deny the unity of intention manifested in the relations of all the parts of this great whole, in vain do they conceal their nonsense under abstractions, co-ordinations, general principles, symbolic expressions; whatever they do I find it impossible to conceive of a system of entities so firmly ordered unless I believe in an intelligence that orders them. It is not in my power to believe that passive and dead matter can have brought forth living and feeling beings, that blind chance has brought forth intelligent beings, that that which does not think has brought forth thinking beings.

There isn’t a single being in the universe that can’t be seen as a common center around which everything else is grouped, making them all both ends and means in relation to each other. The mind gets confused and lost among these countless relationships, none of which is confused or lost in the crowd. What ridiculous assumptions are needed to explain all this harmony as simply the random result of matter moving by chance! It’s pointless for those who deny the unity of purpose shown in the relationships of all the parts of this grand whole; it’s pointless for them to hide their nonsense under abstractions, co-ordinations, general principles, or symbolic expressions. No matter what they do, I can’t imagine a system of entities so well ordered without believing in an intelligence that organizes them. I can’t accept that lifeless and inert matter could produce living and feeling beings, that blind chance could create intelligent beings, or that what doesn’t think could give rise to thinking beings.

I believe, therefore, that the world is governed by a wise and powerful will; I see it or rather I feel it, and it is a great thing to know this. But has this same world always existed, or has it been created? Is there one source of all things? Are there two or many? What is their nature? I know not; and what concern is it of mine? When these things become of importance to me I will try to learn them; till then I abjure these idle speculations, which may trouble my peace, but cannot affect my conduct nor be comprehended by my reason.

I believe that the world is guided by a wise and powerful will; I see it or, more accurately, I feel it, and it’s truly significant to understand this. But has this world always been here, or was it created? Is there a single source for everything? Or are there two, or many? What are they like? I don't know; and why should I worry about it? When these questions become important to me, I’ll seek answers; until then, I reject these pointless speculations, which might disturb my peace but won’t change my behavior or be understood by my reasoning.

Recollect that I am not preaching my own opinion but explaining it. Whether matter is eternal or created, whether its origin is passive or not, it is still certain that the whole is one, and that it proclaims a single intelligence; for I see nothing that is not part of the same ordered system, nothing which does not co-operate to the same end, namely, the conservation of all within the established order. This being who wills and can perform his will, this being active through his own power, this being, whoever he may be, who moves the universe and orders all things, is what I call God. To this name I add the ideas of intelligence, power, will, which I have brought together, and that of kindness which is their necessary consequence; but for all this I know no more of the being to which I ascribe them. He hides himself alike from my senses and my understanding; the more I think of him, the more perplexed I am; I know full well that he exists, and that he exists of himself alone; I know that my existence depends on his, and that everything I know depends upon him also. I see God everywhere in his works; I feel him within myself; I behold him all around me; but if I try to ponder him himself, if I try to find out where he is, what he is, what is his substance, he escapes me and my troubled spirit finds nothing.

Remember that I'm not just sharing my opinion but explaining it. Whether matter is eternal or created, whether its origin is passive or not, it's clear that everything is one and reflects a single intelligence; because I see nothing that's not part of the same organized system, nothing that doesn't work toward the same goal—namely, the preservation of everything within the established order. This being that wills and can carry out his will, this being that is active through his own power, this being, whoever he is, who moves the universe and organizes all things, is what I call God. To this name, I add the concepts of intelligence, power, and will, which I have combined, along with kindness, which is their necessary outcome; but beyond that, I know nothing more about the being I attribute these qualities to. He remains hidden from my senses and understanding; the more I contemplate him, the more confused I become; I know very well that he exists, and that he exists independently; I understand that my existence relies on his, and that everything I know is also dependent on him. I see God everywhere in his creations; I feel him within myself; I perceive him all around me; but if I try to think about him directly, if I attempt to discover where he is, what he is, what his essence is, he eludes me, and my troubled mind finds nothing.

Convinced of my unfitness, I shall never argue about the nature of God unless I am driven to it by the feeling of his relations with myself. Such reasonings are always rash; a wise man should venture on them with trembling, he should be certain that he can never sound their abysses; for the most insolent attitude towards God is not to abstain from thinking of him, but to think evil of him.

Convinced of my inadequacy, I will never debate the nature of God unless compelled to do so by my own feelings about our relationship. Such discussions are always risky; a wise person should approach them with caution, knowing they can never fully understand their depths. The most arrogant stance toward God is not to avoid thinking about Him, but to think negatively of Him.

After the discovery of such of his attributes as enable me to conceive of his existence, I return to myself, and I try to discover what is my place in the order of things which he governs, and I can myself examine. At once, and beyond possibility of doubt, I discover my species; for by my own will and the instruments I can control to carry out my will, I have more power to act upon all bodies about me, either to make use of or to avoid their action at my pleasure, than any of them has power to act upon me against my will by mere physical impulsion; and through my intelligence I am the only one who can examine all the rest. What being here below, except man, can observe others, measure, calculate, forecast their motions, their effects, and unite, so to speak, the feeling of a common existence with that of his individual existence? What is there so absurd in the thought that all things are made for me, when I alone can relate all things to myself?

After discovering some of his traits that allow me to understand his existence, I turn back to myself and try to figure out my place in the world he oversees and that I can examine. Immediately and without a doubt, I recognize my species; because of my own will and the tools I can control to execute my will, I have more power to act on everything around me—either to utilize them or avoid their influence at my discretion—than any of them has to act on me against my will through mere physical force. Through my intelligence, I'm the only one who can analyze everything else. What creature here, besides humans, can observe others, measure, calculate, predict their movements, their effects, and connect, so to speak, the feeling of a shared existence with that of his individual existence? What is so ridiculous about the idea that everything is created for me when I alone can relate everything to myself?

It is true, therefore, that man is lord of the earth on which he dwells; for not only does he tame all the beasts, not only does he control its elements through his industry; but he alone knows how to control it; by contemplation he takes possession of the stars which he cannot approach. Show me any other creature on earth who can make a fire and who can behold with admiration the sun. What! can I observe and know all creatures and their relations; can I feel what is meant by order, beauty, and virtue; can I consider the universe and raise myself towards the hand that guides it; can I love good and perform it; and should I then liken myself to the beasts? Wretched soul, it is your gloomy philosophy which makes you like the beasts; or rather in vain do you seek to degrade yourself; your genius belies your principles, your kindly heart belies your doctrines, and even the abuse of your powers proves their excellence in your own despite.

It's true that humans are the masters of the earth they live on; not only do we tame all the animals, and control the elements through our work, but we also know how to dominate it. Through contemplation, we claim the stars that are beyond our reach. Can you show me any other creature on earth that can start a fire and admire the sun? What! I can observe and understand all living things and their connections; I can feel what order, beauty, and virtue mean; I can contemplate the universe and reach for the hand that guides it; I can love what is good and act on it; and yet, I should compare myself to animals? Poor soul, it’s your bleak philosophy that makes you similar to animals; or rather, you’re futilely trying to lower yourself; your brilliance contradicts your beliefs, your kind heart goes against your teachings, and even the misuse of your abilities demonstrates their greatness despite your own will.

For myself, I am not pledged to the support of any system. I am a plain and honest man, one who is not carried away by party spirit, one who has no ambition to be head of a sect; I am content with the place where God has set me; I see nothing, next to God himself, which is better than my species; and if I had to choose my place in the order of creation, what more could I choose than to be a man!

For me, I'm not committed to supporting any particular system. I'm just an honest guy, not swayed by party loyalties, with no desire to lead a group; I'm happy with the position where God has placed me. I don't see anything, besides God himself, that's better than my kind. If I had to pick my place in the order of creation, what more could I want than to be a human!

I am not puffed up by this thought, I am deeply moved by it; for this state was no choice of mine, it was not due to the deserts of a creature who as yet did not exist. Can I behold myself thus distinguished without congratulating myself on this post of honour, without blessing the hand which bestowed it? The first return to self has given birth to a feeling of gratitude and thankfulness to the author of my species, and this feeling calls forth my first homage to the beneficent Godhead. I worship his Almighty power and my heart acknowledges his mercies. Is it not a natural consequence of our self-love to honour our protector and to love our benefactor?

I’m not bragging about this thought; it really moves me. This state wasn’t my choice; it didn’t come from the accomplishments of a creature who didn’t even exist yet. Can I see myself in this distinguished position without congratulating myself for this honor, without thanking the hand that gave it to me? The first moment of self-awareness has sparked in me a feeling of gratitude toward the creator of my kind, and this feeling brings forth my first homage to the benevolent God. I worship his almighty power, and my heart recognizes his kindness. Isn’t it natural for our self-love to honor our protector and cherish our benefactor?

But when, in my desire to discover my own place within my species, I consider its different ranks and the men who fill them, where am I now? What a sight meets my eyes! Where is now the order I perceived? Nature showed me a scene of harmony and proportion; the human race shows me nothing but confusion and disorder. The elements agree together; men are in a state of chaos. The beasts are happy; their king alone is wretched. O Wisdom, where are thy laws? O Providence, is this thy rule over the world? Merciful God, where is thy Power? I behold the earth, and there is evil upon it.

But when I try to figure out my place in the human race, considering its different ranks and the people who occupy them, where do I stand now? What a sight I see! Where is the order I once noticed? Nature presented me with a picture of harmony and balance; humanity shows me nothing but chaos and disorder. The elements work together; humans are in turmoil. Animals are content; their ruler alone is miserable. O Wisdom, where are your laws? O Providence, is this how you govern the world? Merciful God, where is your Power? I look at the earth, and I see evil all around.

Would you believe it, dear friend, from these gloomy thoughts and apparent contradictions, there was shaped in my mind the sublime idea of the soul, which all my seeking had hitherto failed to discover? While I meditated upon man’s nature, I seemed to discover two distinct principles in it; one of them raised him to the study of the eternal truths, to the love of justice, and of true morality, to the regions of the world of thought, which the wise delight to contemplate; the other led him downwards to himself, made him the slave of his senses, of the passions which are their instruments, and thus opposed everything suggested to him by the former principle. When I felt myself carried away, distracted by these conflicting motives, I said, No; man is not one; I will and I will not; I feel myself at once a slave and a free man; I perceive what is right, I love it, and I do what is wrong; I am active when I listen to the voice of reason; I am passive when I am carried away by my passions; and when I yield, my worst suffering is the knowledge that I might have resisted.

Can you believe it, dear friend? From these dark thoughts and obvious contradictions, I formed in my mind the deep idea of the soul, which all my searching had failed to uncover until now. As I reflected on human nature, I seemed to find two distinct principles within it; one of these lifted him to the pursuit of eternal truths, a love for justice, and true morality, reaching the realms of thought that wise people enjoy contemplating; the other pulled him downward, making him a slave to his senses and the passions that drive them, opposing everything the first principle suggested. When I felt overwhelmed, torn between these conflicting urges, I said, No; man is not one; I want to and I don’t want to; I feel like both a slave and a free man; I see what is right, I love it, and I do what is wrong; I am active when I heed the voice of reason; I am passive when I’m swept away by my passions; and when I give in, my worst pain is knowing that I could have resisted.

Young man, hear me with confidence. I will always be honest with you. If conscience is the creature of prejudice, I am certainly wrong, and there is no such thing as a proof of morality; but if to put oneself first is an inclination natural to man, and if the first sentiment of justice is moreover inborn in the human heart, let those who say man is a simple creature remove these contradictions and I will grant that there is but one substance.

Young man, listen to me openly. I will always be truthful with you. If conscience is shaped by bias, then I must be mistaken, and there's no such thing as a proof of morality; but if putting oneself first is a natural tendency for humans, and if the basic feeling of justice is also innate to the human heart, then let those who claim that man is a simple being resolve these contradictions, and I will accept that there is only one substance.

You will note that by this term ‘substance’ I understand generally the being endowed with some primitive quality, apart from all special and secondary modifications. If then all the primitive qualities which are known to us can be united in one and the same being, we should only acknowledge one substance; but if there are qualities which are mutually exclusive, there are as many different substances as there are such exclusions. You will think this over; for my own part, whatever Locke may say, it is enough for me to recognise matter as having merely extension and divisibility to convince myself that it cannot think, and if a philosopher tells me that trees feel and rocks think [Footnote: It seems to me that modern philosophy, far from saying that rocks think, has discovered that men do not think. It perceives nothing more in nature than sensitive beings; and the only difference it finds between a man and a stone is that a man is a sensitive being which experiences sensations, and a stone is a sensitive being which does not experience sensations. But if it is true that all matter feels, where shall I find the sensitive unit, the individual ego? Shall it be in each molecule of matter or in bodies as aggregates of molecules? Shall I place this unity in fluids and solids alike, in compounds and in elements? You tell me nature consists of individuals. But what are these individuals? Is that stone an individual or an aggregate of individuals? Is it a single sensitive being, or are there as many beings in it as there are grains of sand? If every elementary atom is a sensitive being, how shall I conceive of that intimate communication by which one feels within the other, so that their two egos are blended in one? Attraction may be a law of nature whose mystery is unknown to us; but at least we conceive that there is nothing in attraction acting in proportion to mass which is contrary to extension and divisibility. Can you conceive of sensation in the same way? The sensitive parts have extension, but the sensitive being is one and indivisible; he cannot be cut in two, he is a whole or he is nothing; therefore the sensitive being is not a material body. I know not how our materialists understand it, but it seems to me that the same difficulties which have led them to reject thought, should have made them also reject feeling; and I see no reason why, when the first step has been taken, they should not take the second too; what more would it cost them? Since they are certain they do not think, why do they dare to affirm that they feel?] in vain will he perplex me with his cunning arguments; I merely regard him as a dishonest sophist, who prefers to say that stones have feeling rather than that men have souls.

You’ll notice that by ‘substance’ I mean a being that has some fundamental quality, separate from all specific and secondary changes. If all the basic qualities we know can come together in one being, we should only recognize one substance. But if there are qualities that can’t coexist, then there are as many different substances as there are exclusions. Think about this; for me, no matter what Locke claims, it’s enough to recognize matter as having only extension and divisibility to convince myself it can’t think. And if a philosopher tells me that trees feel and rocks think [Footnote: It seems to me that modern philosophy, far from claiming that rocks think, has discovered that people do not think. It perceives nothing more in nature than sensitive beings; the only difference it finds between a person and a stone is that a person is a sensitive being capable of experiencing sensations, while a stone is a sensitive being that doesn’t experience sensations. But if it’s true that all matter feels, where can I find the sensitive unit, the individual self? Should I locate it in each molecule of matter or in bodies as groups of molecules? Should this unity be found in both fluids and solids, in compounds and in elements? You tell me nature consists of individuals. But what are these individuals? Is that stone an individual or a collection of individuals? Is it a single sensitive being, or are there as many beings within it as there are grains of sand? If every elementary atom is a sensitive being, how can I understand the close connection through which one feels within the other so that their two selves blend into one? Attraction might be a natural law whose mystery remains unknown to us; at least we understand that nothing about attraction, which acts in relation to mass, contradicts extension and divisibility. But can you think of sensation in the same way? The sensitive parts have extension, but the sensitive being is one and indivisible; it can’t be split in two, it’s either a whole or nothing at all; therefore, the sensitive being isn’t a material body. I’m not sure how our materialists see it, but it seems to me that the same issues that led them to dismiss thought should have also made them reject feeling; and I see no reason why, after taking the first step, they shouldn't take the second too; what more would it cost them? Since they’re certain they don’t think, why do they assume they feel?] it’s pointless for him to confuse me with his clever arguments; I simply view him as a dishonest sophist, who prefers to claim that stones have feelings instead of admitting that people have souls.

Suppose a deaf man denies the existence of sounds because he has never heard them. I put before his eyes a stringed instrument and cause it to sound in unison by means of another instrument concealed from him; the deaf man sees the chord vibrate. I tell him, “The sound makes it do that.” “Not at all,” says he, “the string itself is the cause of the vibration; to vibrate in that way is a quality common to all bodies.” “Then show me this vibration in other bodies,” I answer, “or at least show me its cause in this string.” “I cannot,” replies the deaf man; “but because I do not understand how that string vibrates why should I try to explain it by means of your sounds, of which I have not the least idea? It is explaining one obscure fact by means of a cause still more obscure. Make me perceive your sounds; or I say there are no such things.”

Suppose a deaf man denies that sounds exist because he has never heard them. I put a stringed instrument in front of him and make it sound in sync using another instrument hidden from him; the deaf man sees the string vibrate. I tell him, “The sound makes it do that.” “Not at all," he says, "the string itself is what causes the vibration; to vibrate like that is a property common to all objects.” “Then show me this vibration in other objects,” I respond, “or at least show me what causes it in this string.” “I can’t,” replies the deaf man; “but since I don’t understand how that string vibrates, why should I try to explain it using your sounds, which I know nothing about? It’s explaining one unclear fact using a cause that’s even more unclear. Make me perceive your sounds; otherwise, I’ll say they don’t exist.”

The more I consider thought and the nature of the human mind, the more likeness I find between the arguments of the materialists and those of the deaf man. Indeed, they are deaf to the inner voice which cries aloud to them, in a tone which can hardly be mistaken. A machine does not think, there is neither movement nor form which can produce reflection; something within thee tries to break the bands which confine it; space is not thy measure, the whole universe does not suffice to contain thee; thy sentiments, thy desires, thy anxiety, thy pride itself, have another origin than this small body in which thou art imprisoned.

The more I think about thought and the nature of the human mind, the more I see similarities between the arguments of materialists and those of a deaf person. They are indeed deaf to the inner voice that calls out to them in a way that's hard to ignore. A machine doesn't think; there's no movement or shape that can create reflection. Something inside you is trying to break free from the limits that hold it back; space isn’t your measure, and the entire universe isn’t enough to contain you. Your feelings, desires, anxiety, and even your pride have a different source than this small body you’re trapped in.

No material creature is in itself active, and I am active. In vain do you argue this point with me; I feel it, and it is this feeling which speaks to me more forcibly than the reason which disputes it. I have a body which is acted upon by other bodies, and it acts in turn upon them; there is no doubt about this reciprocal action; but my will is independent of my senses; I consent or I resist; I yield or I win the victory, and I know very well in myself when I have done what I wanted and when I have merely given way to my passions. I have always the power to will, but not always the strength to do what I will. When I yield to temptation I surrender myself to the action of external objects. When I blame myself for this weakness, I listen to my own will alone; I am a slave in my vices, a free man in my remorse; the feeling of freedom is never effaced in me but when I myself do wrong, and when I at length prevent the voice of the soul from protesting against the authority of the body.

No material being is active on its own, and I am active. It's pointless to debate this with me; I can feel it, and that feeling speaks to me more powerfully than the logic that argues against it. I have a body that is influenced by other bodies, and it influences them in return; there’s no doubt about this mutual interaction. However, my will is separate from my senses; I can choose to agree or resist, to give in or to overcome, and I know clearly when I’ve done what I intended and when I’ve just submitted to my emotions. I always have the power to choose, but I don’t always have the strength to do what I choose. When I give in to temptation, I allow myself to be acted upon by external forces. When I feel guilty about this weakness, I’m listening only to my own will; I’m a slave to my vices but a free person in my regret. The feeling of freedom never leaves me unless I act wrongly and silence my soul’s protests against the body’s demands.

I am only aware of will through the consciousness of my own will, and intelligence is no better known to me. When you ask me what is the cause which determines my will, it is my turn to ask what cause determines my judgment; for it is plain that these two causes are but one; and if you understand clearly that man is active in his judgments, that his intelligence is only the power to compare and judge, you will see that his freedom is only a similar power or one derived from this; he chooses between good and evil as he judges between truth and falsehood; if his judgment is at fault, he chooses amiss. What then is the cause that determines his will? It is his judgment. And what is the cause that determines his judgment? It is his intelligence, his power of judging; the determining cause is in himself. Beyond that, I understand nothing.

I only know about will through my own awareness of it, and I have the same limited understanding of intelligence. When you ask me what causes my will, I have to ask what causes my judgment; because it’s clear that these two causes are essentially the same. If you understand that a person is active in their judgments and that their intelligence is just the ability to compare and judge, you’ll realize that their freedom is simply a similar ability or one derived from it. They choose between good and evil just like they judge between truth and falsehood; if their judgment is wrong, they make bad choices. So what causes their will? It’s their judgment. And what determines their judgment? It’s their intelligence, their capacity to judge; the deciding factor comes from within themselves. Beyond that, I don’t understand anything else.

No doubt I am not free not to desire my own welfare, I am not free to desire my own hurt; but my freedom consists in this very thing, that I can will what is for my own good, or what I esteem as such, without any external compulsion. Does it follow that I am not my own master because I cannot be other than myself?

No doubt I'm not free to not want my own well-being, and I'm not free to wish for my own harm; but my freedom lies in the fact that I can choose what I believe is good for me, without any outside pressure. Does that mean I'm not my own master just because I can't be anyone other than myself?

The motive power of all action is in the will of a free creature; we can go no farther. It is not the word freedom that is meaningless, but the word necessity. To suppose some action which is not the effect of an active motive power is indeed to suppose effects without cause, to reason in a vicious circle. Either there is no original impulse, or every original impulse has no antecedent cause, and there is no will properly so-called without freedom. Man is therefore free to act, and as such he is animated by an immaterial substance; that is the third article of my creed. From these three you will easily deduce the rest, so that I need not enumerate them.

The driving force behind all actions comes from the will of a free being; we can't go beyond that. It's not the term freedom that's meaningless, but the term necessity. To think there could be actions without an active driving force is indeed to think of effects without causes, leading to faulty reasoning. Either there’s no initial impulse, or every initial impulse has no prior cause, and there’s no true will without freedom. Therefore, humans are free to act, and because of this, they are driven by a non-physical substance; that’s the third principle of my belief. From these three, you can easily deduce the rest, so I won’t list them all.

If man is at once active and free, he acts of his own accord; what he does freely is no part of the system marked out by Providence and it cannot be imputed to Providence. Providence does not will the evil that man does when he misuses the freedom given to him; neither does Providence prevent him doing it, either because the wrong done by so feeble a creature is as nothing in its eyes, or because it could not prevent it without doing a greater wrong and degrading his nature. Providence has made him free that he may choose the good and refuse the evil. It has made him capable of this choice if he uses rightly the faculties bestowed upon him, but it has so strictly limited his powers that the misuse of his freedom cannot disturb the general order. The evil that man does reacts upon himself without affecting the system of the world, without preventing the preservation of the human species in spite of itself. To complain that God does not prevent us from doing wrong is to complain because he has made man of so excellent a nature, that he has endowed his actions with that morality by which they are ennobled, that he has made virtue man’s birthright. Supreme happiness consists in self-content; that we may gain this self-content we are placed upon this earth and endowed with freedom, we are tempted by our passions and restrained by conscience. What more could divine power itself have done on our behalf? Could it have made our nature a contradiction, and have given the prize of well-doing to one who was incapable of evil? To prevent a man from wickedness, should Providence have restricted him to instinct and made him a fool? Not so, O God of my soul, I will never reproach thee that thou hast created me in thine own image, that I may be free and good and happy like my Maker!

If people are both active and free, they act on their own. Their free actions aren't part of the plan established by Providence and can't be blamed on it. Providence doesn’t will the evil that people commit when they misuse their freedom; nor does it stop them from doing so, either because the wrongdoing of such a weak creature means nothing to it, or because preventing it would cause a greater wrong and diminish human nature. Providence has made people free so they can choose good and reject evil. It has made them capable of this choice if they properly use the abilities given to them, but it has limited their powers so that their misuse of freedom can’t disrupt the overall order. The evil that people commit only affects themselves without impacting the world's system, allowing the survival of the human species despite its flaws. To complain that God doesn’t stop us from doing wrong is to bemoan the fact that He has made humanity so wonderful, granting our actions the morality that elevates us, making virtue our natural right. True happiness comes from self-fulfillment; we are placed on this earth and given freedom to achieve this, tempted by our desires and held back by our conscience. What more could divine power have done for us? Could it have created us with an inherent contradiction, giving the reward for good deeds to someone incapable of doing wrong? To stop someone from being wicked, should Providence have limited them to instinct, making them foolish? No, O God of my soul, I will never blame you for creating me in your own image, so I can be free, good, and happy like my Creator!

It is the abuse of our powers that makes us unhappy and wicked. Our cares, our sorrows, our sufferings are of our own making. Moral ills are undoubtedly the work of man, and physical ills would be nothing but for our vices which have made us liable to them. Has not nature made us feel our needs as a means to our preservation! Is not bodily suffering a sign that the machine is out of order and needs attention? Death.... Do not the wicked poison their own life and ours? Who would wish to live for ever? Death is the cure for the evils you bring upon yourself; nature would not have you suffer perpetually. How few sufferings are felt by man living in a state of primitive simplicity! His life is almost entirely free from suffering and from passion; he neither fears nor feels death; if he feels it, his sufferings make him desire it; henceforth it is no evil in his eyes. If we were but content to be ourselves we should have no cause to complain of our lot; but in the search for an imaginary good we find a thousand real ills. He who cannot bear a little pain must expect to suffer greatly. If a man injures his constitution by dissipation, you try to cure him with medicine; the ill he fears is added to the ill he feels; the thought of death makes it horrible and hastens its approach; the more we seek to escape from it, the more we are aware of it; and we go through life in the fear of death, blaming nature for the evils we have inflicted on ourselves by our neglect of her laws.

It's the misuse of our powers that makes us unhappy and cruel. Our worries, our sadness, our pain are created by ourselves. Moral problems are undeniably caused by people, and physical problems exist only because of our vices that have made us susceptible to them. Hasn't nature made us aware of our needs to help us survive? Isn't physical pain a signal that our body needs fixing? Death... Don't the wicked poison not only their own lives but ours too? Who would want to live forever? Death is the remedy for the troubles you cause yourself; nature doesn't want you to suffer endlessly. How few pains are experienced by someone living in simple conditions! Their life is mostly free from suffering and passion; they don't fear or feel death; if they do feel it, their pain makes them wish for it, so it no longer seems bad to them. If we were just happy being ourselves, we wouldn't have any reason to complain about our situation; but in our quest for a made-up happiness, we encounter a thousand real problems. Those who can't handle a little pain should expect to face much greater suffering. If someone harms their body through excessive indulgence, you try to heal them with medicine; the fear of harm adds to the actual pain they feel; the thought of death makes it terrifying and speeds its arrival; the more we try to avoid it, the more we become aware of it; and we go through life terrified of death, blaming nature for the troubles we have brought upon ourselves by ignoring her rules.

O Man! seek no further for the author of evil; thou art he. There is no evil but the evil you do or the evil you suffer, and both come from yourself. Evil in general can only spring from disorder, and in the order of the world I find a never failing system. Evil in particular cases exists only in the mind of those who experience it; and this feeling is not the gift of nature, but the work of man himself. Pain has little power over those who, having thought little, look neither before nor after. Take away our fatal progress, take away our faults and our vices, take away man’s handiwork, and all is well.

O man! Stop looking for someone else to blame for evil; you are the source. The only evil comes from your actions or the pain you experience, and both originate with you. Evil arises from disorder, and in the natural order of the world, I see a consistent system. Specific instances of evil exist only in the minds of those who feel them; this feeling isn't a natural gift, but a creation of humanity itself. Pain has little hold over those who, having thought little, live only in the moment. Remove our destructive behaviors, remove our faults and vices, remove man's interference, and everything is fine.

Where all is well, there is no such thing as injustice. Justice and goodness are inseparable; now goodness is the necessary result of boundless power and of that self-love which is innate in all sentient beings. The omnipotent projects himself, so to speak, into the being of his creatures. Creation and preservation are the everlasting work of power; it does not act on that which has no existence; God is not the God of the dead; he could not harm and destroy without injury to himself. The omnipotent can only will what is good. [Footnote: The ancients were right when they called the supreme God Optimus Maximus, but it would have been better to say Maximus Optimus, for his goodness springs from his power, he is good because he is great.] Therefore he who is supremely good, because he is supremely powerful, must also be supremely just, otherwise he would contradict himself; for that love of order which creates order we call goodness and that love of order which preserves order we call justice.

Where everything is good, there’s no such thing as injustice. Justice and goodness go hand in hand; goodness is the natural outcome of unlimited power and the self-love that all sentient beings have. The all-powerful being projects himself, so to speak, into the essence of his creations. Creation and preservation are the ongoing work of power; it doesn’t act on what doesn’t exist; God is not the God of the dead; he couldn’t harm or destroy without causing harm to himself. The omnipotent can only intend what is good. [Footnote: The ancients were right when they called the supreme God Optimus Maximus, but it would have been better to say Maximus Optimus, for his goodness comes from his power; he is good because he is great.] Therefore, he who is supremely good, because he is supremely powerful, must also be supremely just; otherwise, he would be contradicting himself. The desire for order that creates order is what we call goodness, and the desire for order that maintains order is what we call justice.

Men say God owes nothing to his creatures. I think he owes them all he promised when he gave them their being. Now to give them the idea of something good and to make them feel the need of it, is to promise it to them. The more closely I study myself, the more carefully I consider, the more plainly do I read these words, “Be just and you will be happy.” It is not so, however, in the present condition of things, the wicked prospers and the oppression of the righteous continues. Observe how angry we are when this expectation is disappointed. Conscience revolts and murmurs against her Creator; she exclaims with cries and groans, “Thou hast deceived me.”

Men say that God doesn't owe anything to his creations. I believe he owes them everything he promised when he gave them life. When he gives them the idea of something good and makes them feel the need for it, that’s a promise. The more I examine myself and reflect on it, the clearer I see these words: “Be just and you will be happy.” However, that doesn’t seem to be true in our current situation; the wicked prosper while the righteous suffer. Notice how upset we become when our expectations are let down. Our conscience rebels and grumbles against its Creator, crying out in pain, “You have deceived me.”

“I have deceived thee, rash soul! Who told thee this? Is thy soul destroyed? Hast thou ceased to exist? O Brutus! O my son! let there be no stain upon the close of thy noble life; do not abandon thy hope and thy glory with thy corpse upon the plains of Philippi. Why dost thou say, ‘Virtue is naught,’ when thou art about to enjoy the reward of virtue? Thou art about to die! Nay, thou shalt live, and thus my promise is fulfilled.”

“I’ve deceived you, reckless soul! Who told you this? Is your soul lost? Have you stopped existing? Oh Brutus! Oh my son! Don’t let there be any stain on the end of your noble life; don’t give up your hope and glory along with your body on the plains of Philippi. Why do you say, ‘Virtue is nothing,’ when you are about to receive the reward for virtue? You are about to die! No, you will live, and thus my promise is kept.”

One might judge from the complaints of impatient men that God owes them the reward before they have deserved it, that he is bound to pay for virtue in advance. Oh! let us first be good and then we shall be happy. Let us not claim the prize before we have won it, nor demand our wages before we have finished our work. “It is not in the lists that we crown the victors in the sacred games,” says Plutarch, “it is when they have finished their course.”

One might conclude from the complaints of impatient people that God owes them a reward before they have earned it, that He is supposed to pay for goodness upfront. Oh! Let's be good first, and then we'll be happy. Let's not ask for the prize before we’ve earned it, nor demand our pay before we’ve completed our work. “It is not in the lists that we crown the victors in the sacred games,” says Plutarch, “it is when they have finished their course.”

If the soul is immaterial, it may survive the body; and if it so survives, Providence is justified. Had I no other proof of the immaterial nature of the soul, the triumph of the wicked and the oppression of the righteous in this world would be enough to convince me. I should seek to resolve so appalling a discord in the universal harmony. I should say to myself, “All is not over with life, everything finds its place at death.” I should still have to answer the question, “What becomes of man when all we know of him through our senses has vanished?” This question no longer presents any difficulty to me when I admit the two substances. It is easy to understand that what is imperceptible to those senses escapes me, during my bodily life, when I perceive through my senses only. When the union of soul and body is destroyed, I think one may be dissolved and the other may be preserved. Why should the destruction of the one imply the destruction of the other? On the contrary, so unlike in their nature, they were during their union in a highly unstable condition, and when this union comes to an end they both return to their natural state; the active vital substance regains all the force which it expended to set in motion the passive dead substance. Alas! my vices make me only too well aware that man is but half alive during this life; the life of the soul only begins with the death of the body.

If the soul is immaterial, it might continue to exist after the body dies; and if it does, then Providence makes sense. If I had no other evidence of the soul's immaterial nature, the success of the wicked and the suffering of the righteous in this world would be enough to convince me. I would seek a way to resolve such an awful contradiction in the universal order. I would tell myself, “Life doesn't end here; everything finds its place after death.” I would still need to answer the question, “What happens to a person when everything we know through our senses has disappeared?” This question is no longer a puzzle for me when I accept the existence of two substances. It's easy to see that what is beyond my senses is beyond my experience during my physical existence, where I rely solely on my senses. When the connection between the soul and body is broken, I believe one can be dissolved while the other is preserved. Why should one’s destruction mean the other is also destroyed? On the contrary, since they are so different in nature, they were in a very unstable state during their union, and when that union ends, they both return to their natural state; the active, living substance retrieves all the energy it spent to animate the passive, lifeless substance. Unfortunately, my flaws make it clear to me that a person is only half alive in this life; the true life of the soul only begins when the body dies.

But what is that life? Is the soul of man in its nature immortal? I know not. My finite understanding cannot hold the infinite; what is called eternity eludes my grasp. What can I assert or deny, how can I reason with regard to what I cannot conceive? I believe that the soul survives the body for the maintenance of order; who knows if this is enough to make it eternal? However, I know that the body is worn out and destroyed by the division of its parts, but I cannot conceive a similar destruction of the conscious nature, and as I cannot imagine how it can die, I presume that it does not die. As this assumption is consoling and in itself not unreasonable, why should I fear to accept it?

But what is that life? Is the soul of a person naturally immortal? I don't know. My limited understanding can't grasp the infinite; what we call eternity slips away from me. What can I claim or deny, how can I think about something I can't fully understand? I believe that the soul continues after the body to keep order; who knows if that’s enough to make it eternal? However, I know that the body gets worn out and destroyed as its parts break down, but I can't imagine a similar destruction of conscious existence, and since I can't picture how it could die, I assume that it doesn’t die. Since this assumption is comforting and not unreasonable, why should I be afraid to accept it?

I am aware of my soul; it is known to me in feeling and in thought; I know what it is without knowing its essence; I cannot reason about ideas which are unknown to me. What I do know is this, that my personal identity depends upon memory, and that to be indeed the same self I must remember that I have existed. Now after death I could not recall what I was when alive unless I also remembered what I felt and therefore what I did; and I have no doubt that this remembrance will one day form the happiness of the good and the torment of the bad. In this world our inner consciousness is absorbed by the crowd of eager passions which cheat remorse. The humiliation and disgrace involved in the practice of virtue do not permit us to realise its charm. But when, freed from the illusions of the bodily senses, we behold with joy the supreme Being and the eternal truths which flow from him; when all the powers of our soul are alive to the beauty of order and we are wholly occupied in comparing what we have done with what we ought to have done, then it is that the voice of conscience will regain its strength and sway; then it is that the pure delight which springs from self-content, and the sharp regret for our own degradation of that self, will decide by means of overpowering feeling what shall be the fate which each has prepared for himself. My good friend, do not ask me whether there are other sources of happiness or suffering; I cannot tell; that which my fancy pictures is enough to console me in this life and to bid me look for a life to come. I do not say the good will be rewarded, for what greater good can a truly good being expect than to exist in accordance with his nature? But I do assert that the good will be happy, because their maker, the author of all justice, who has made them capable of feeling, has not made them that they may suffer; moreover, they have not abused their freedom upon earth and they have not changed their fate through any fault of their own; yet they have suffered in this life and it will be made up to them in the life to come. This feeling relies not so much on man’s deserts as on the idea of good which seems to me inseparable from the divine essence. I only assume that the laws of order are constant and that God is true to himself.

I am aware of my soul; I feel it and think about it. I know what it is without grasping its essence; I can't reason about concepts that I don't understand. What I do know is that my personal identity relies on memory, and to truly be the same self, I must remember that I have existed. After death, I wouldn't be able to recall what I was when I was alive unless I also remembered what I felt and what I did. I have no doubt that this remembrance will one day bring happiness to the good and torment to the bad. In this world, our inner awareness is consumed by a flood of intense passions that drown out remorse. The humiliation and shame tied to practicing virtue prevent us from appreciating its beauty. But when we are freed from the illusions of our physical senses and joyfully perceive the supreme Being and the eternal truths that come from Him; when all the powers of our soul recognize the beauty of order and we are fully engaged in comparing what we have done with what we should have done, that is when the voice of conscience will regain its power and influence; that is when the pure joy stemming from self-satisfaction and the sharp regret for our own degradation will determine, through powerful emotion, the fate each has created for themselves. My good friend, don't ask me if there are other sources of happiness or suffering; I can't say. What my imagination pictures is enough to comfort me in this life and encourage me to hope for a life to come. I don’t claim that the good will be rewarded, because what greater good can a truly good being expect than to live in harmony with their nature? But I do assert that the good will be happy because their maker, the author of all justice who has made them capable of feeling, has not created them to suffer. Furthermore, they have not misused their freedom on earth, nor have they changed their fate through any fault of their own; yet they have suffered in this life, and that will be compensated in the life to come. This belief doesn’t rely so much on human merit as on the notion of good, which seems inseparable from the divine essence. I only assume that the laws of order are constant and that God is true to Himself.

Do not ask me whether the torments of the wicked will endure for ever, whether the goodness of their creator can condemn them to the eternal suffering; again, I cannot tell, and I have no empty curiosity for the investigation of useless problems. How does the fate of the wicked concern me? I take little interest in it. All the same I find it hard to believe that they will be condemned to everlasting torments. If the supreme justice calls for vengeance, it claims it in this life. The nations of the world with their errors are its ministers. Justice uses self-inflicted ills to punish the crimes which have deserved them. It is in your own insatiable souls, devoured by envy, greed, and ambition, it is in the midst of your false prosperity, that the avenging passions find the due reward of your crimes. What need to seek a hell in the future life? It is here in the breast of the wicked.

Don't ask me if the suffering of the wicked will last forever, or if their creator's goodness can really condemn them to eternal pain; honestly, I can't say, and I have no interest in exploring pointless questions. How does the fate of the wicked affect me? I don't care much about it. Still, it's hard for me to believe they will face endless suffering. If supreme justice demands retribution, it seeks it in this life. The nations of the world, with all their faults, act as its agents. Justice uses the pain we inflict upon ourselves to punish the wrongs we've committed. It's in your own insatiable souls, consumed by envy, greed, and ambition, in the midst of your deceptive success, that the punishing emotions reap the consequences of your actions. Why look for hell in the afterlife? It's already here within the hearts of the wicked.

When our fleeting needs are over, and our mad desires are at rest, there should also be an end of our passions and our crimes. Can pure spirits be capable of any perversity? Having need of nothing, why should they be wicked? If they are free from our gross senses, if their happiness consists in the contemplation of other beings, they can only desire what is good; and he who ceases to be bad can never be miserable. This is what I am inclined to think though I have not been at the pains to come to any decision. O God, merciful and good, whatever thy decrees may be I adore them; if thou shouldst commit the wicked to everlasting punishment, I abandon my feeble reason to thy justice; but if the remorse of these wretched beings should in the course of time be extinguished, if their sufferings should come to an end, and if the same peace shall one day be the lot of all mankind, I give thanks to thee for this. Is not the wicked my brother? How often have I been tempted to be like him? Let him be delivered from his misery and freed from the spirit of hatred that accompanied it; let him be as happy as I myself; his happiness, far from arousing my jealousy, will only increase my own.

Once our fleeting needs are satisfied and our wild desires settle down, there should also be an end to our passions and our wrongdoings. Can pure spirits really be capable of any wrongdoing? If they need nothing, why would they be evil? If they are free from our coarse senses and their happiness is in contemplating other beings, they can only desire what is good; and someone who stops being bad can never be unhappy. This is what I tend to believe, though I haven't put in the effort to make a firm decision. O God, merciful and good, no matter what your plans are, I adore them; if you were to condemn the wicked to everlasting punishment, I surrender my weak reasoning to your justice; but if the remorse of these unfortunate souls eventually fades away, if their suffering comes to an end, and if one day all humanity experiences the same peace, I thank you for this. Isn’t the wicked my brother? How often have I been tempted to be like him? Let him be freed from his misery and the spirit of hatred that comes with it; let him be as happy as I am; his happiness, far from making me jealous, will only enhance my own.

Thus it is that, in the contemplation of God in his works, and in the study of such of his attributes as it concerned me to know, I have slowly grasped and developed the idea, at first partial and imperfect, which I have formed of this Infinite Being. But if this idea has become nobler and greater it is also more suited to the human reason. As I approach in spirit the eternal light, I am confused and dazzled by its glory, and compelled to abandon all the earthly notions which helped me to picture it to myself. God is no longer corporeal and sensible; the supreme mind which rules the world is no longer the world itself; in vain do I strive to grasp his inconceivable essence. When I think that it is he that gives life and movement to the living and moving substance which controls all living bodies; when I hear it said that my soul is spiritual and that God is a spirit, I revolt against this abasement of the divine essence; as if God and my soul were of one and the same nature! As if God were not the one and only absolute being, the only really active, feeling, thinking, willing being, from whom we derive our thought, feeling, motion, will, our freedom and our very existence! We are free because he wills our freedom, and his inexplicable substance is to our souls what our souls are to our bodies. I know not whether he has created matter, body, soul, the world itself. The idea of creation confounds me and eludes my grasp; so far as I can conceive of it I believe it; but I know that he has formed the universe and all that is, that he has made and ordered all things. No doubt God is eternal; but can my mind grasp the idea of eternity? Why should I cheat myself with meaningless words? This is what I do understand; before things were—God was; he will be when they are no more, and if all things come to an end he will still endure. That a being beyond my comprehension should give life to other beings, this is merely difficult and beyond my understanding; but that Being and Nothing should be convertible terms, this is indeed a palpable contradiction, an evident absurdity.

So, in reflecting on God through his works and studying the attributes that matter to me, I've slowly developed an idea, initially partial and vague, of this Infinite Being. While my understanding has become more noble and vast, it also aligns better with human reason. As I spiritually draw closer to the eternal light, I find myself confused and overwhelmed by its brilliance, forcing me to let go of all the worldly concepts that helped me visualize it. God is no longer physical and tangible; the supreme mind that governs the universe is not the universe itself. I struggle in vain to grasp his incomprehensible essence. When I realize that he gives life and movement to everything that is alive and moving, and when I'm told that my soul is spiritual and that God is a spirit, I resist this diminishment of the divine essence; as if God and my soul shared the same nature! As if God weren’t the one and only absolute being, the only truly active, feeling, thinking, willing being, from whom we derive our thoughts, emotions, movement, will, our freedom, and our very existence! We are free because he wills our freedom, and his unfathomable essence is to our souls what our souls are to our bodies. I don't know if he created matter, body, soul, or the world itself. The idea of creation confuses me and slips through my fingers; as much as I can conceive it, I believe it, but I know that he has shaped the universe and everything within it, and that he has made and ordered all things. Certainly, God is eternal; but can my mind truly grasp the concept of eternity? Why should I deceive myself with empty words? What I do understand is this: before anything existed—God was; he will exist even when everything else has faded away, and if all things come to an end, he will still remain. The notion that a being beyond my understanding can give life to other beings is just challenging and beyond my grasp; but the idea that Being and Nothing could be interchangeable terms is a clear contradiction, an evident absurdity.

God is intelligent, but how? Man is intelligent when he reasons, but the Supreme Intelligence does not need to reason; there is neither premise nor conclusion for him, there is not even a proposition. The Supreme Intelligence is wholly intuitive, it sees what is and what shall be; all truths are one for it, as all places are but one point and all time but one moment. Man’s power makes use of means, the divine power is self-active. God can because he wills; his will is his power. God is good; this is certain; but man finds his happiness in the welfare of his kind. God’s happiness consists in the love of order; for it is through order that he maintains what is, and unites each part in the whole. God is just; of this I am sure, it is a consequence of his goodness; man’s injustice is not God’s work, but his own; that moral justice which seems to the philosophers a presumption against Providence, is to me a proof of its existence. But man’s justice consists in giving to each his due; God’s justice consists in demanding from each of us an account of that which he has given us.

God is intelligent, but how? Humans are intelligent when they think things through, but the Supreme Intelligence doesn't need to reason; it has no premises or conclusions, not even propositions. The Supreme Intelligence is completely intuitive; it sees what is and what will be. All truths are one to it, just as all places are a single point and all time is one moment. Human power relies on means, while divine power is self-active. God can do something because he chooses to; his will is his power. God is good; that much is certain, but humans find their happiness in the well-being of others. God's happiness comes from a love of order; it's through order that he maintains what exists and connects each part to the whole. God is just; I'm sure of that, as it's a result of his goodness. Human injustice is not God's doing, but our own. That moral justice which philosophers see as a challenge to Providence is, to me, proof of its existence. Human justice involves giving everyone what they deserve; God's justice involves holding each of us accountable for what he has given us.

If I have succeeded in discerning these attributes of which I have no absolute idea, it is in the form of unavoidable deductions, and by the right use of my reason; but I affirm them without understanding them, and at bottom that is no affirmation at all. In vain do I say, God is thus, I feel it, I experience it, none the more do I understand how God can be thus.

If I've managed to identify these qualities that I can't fully grasp, it's through unavoidable conclusions and by thinking rationally; however, I assert them without truly understanding them, and in the end, that's not really an assertion at all. It doesn't help to say, "God is like this; I feel it, I experience it," because I still don't understand how God can be like that.

In a word: the more I strive to envisage his infinite essence the less do I comprehend it; but it is, and that is enough for me; the less I understand, the more I adore. I abase myself, saying, “Being of beings, I am because thou art; to fix my thoughts on thee is to ascend to the source of my being. The best use I can make of my reason is to resign it before thee; my mind delights, my weakness rejoices, to feel myself overwhelmed by thy greatness.”

In short: the more I try to picture his infinite essence, the less I understand it; but it exists, and that’s enough for me; the less I understand, the more I admire. I humble myself, saying, “Being of beings, I exist because you exist; to focus my thoughts on you is to rise to the source of my existence. The best way to use my reason is to surrender it before you; my mind finds joy, my vulnerability rejoices, in feeling overwhelmed by your greatness.”

Having thus deduced from the perception of objects of sense and from my inner consciousness, which leads me to judge of causes by my native reason, the principal truths which I require to know, I must now seek such principles of conduct as I can draw from them, and such rules as I must lay down for my guidance in the fulfilment of my destiny in this world, according to the purpose of my Maker. Still following the same method, I do not derive these rules from the principles of the higher philosophy, I find them in the depths of my heart, traced by nature in characters which nothing can efface. I need only consult myself with regard to what I wish to do; what I feel to be right is right, what I feel to be wrong is wrong; conscience is the best casuist; and it is only when we haggle with conscience that we have recourse to the subtleties of argument. Our first duty is towards ourself; yet how often does the voice of others tell us that in seeking our good at the expense of others we are doing ill? We think we are following the guidance of nature, and we are resisting it; we listen to what she says to our senses, and we neglect what she says to our heart; the active being obeys, the passive commands. Conscience is the voice of the soul, the passions are the voice of the body. It is strange that these voices often contradict each other? And then to which should we give heed? Too often does reason deceive us; we have only too good a right to doubt her; but conscience never deceives us; she is the true guide of man; it is to the soul what instinct is to the body, [Footnote: Modern philosophy, which only admits what it can understand, is careful not to admit this obscure power called instinct which seems to guide the animals to some end without any acquired experience. Instinct, according to some of our wise philosophers, is only a secret habit of reflection, acquired by reflection; and from the way in which they explain this development one ought to suppose that children reflect more than grown-up people: a paradox strange enough to be worth examining. Without entering upon this discussion I must ask what name I shall give to the eagerness with which my dog makes war on the moles he does not eat, or to the patience with which he sometimes watches them for hours and the skill with which he seizes them, throws them to a distance from their earth as soon as they emerge, and then kills them and leaves them. Yet no one has trained him to this sport, nor even told him there were such things as moles. Again, I ask, and this is a more important question, why, when I threatened this same dog for the first time, why did he throw himself on the ground with his paws folded, in such a suppliant attitude .....calculated to touch me, a position which he would have maintained if, without being touched by it, I had continued to beat him in that position? What! Had my dog, little more than a puppy, acquired moral ideas? Did he know the meaning of mercy and generosity? By what acquired knowledge did he seek to appease my wrath by yielding to my discretion? Every dog in the world does almost the same thing in similar circumstances, and I am asserting nothing but what any one can verify for himself. Will the philosophers, who so scornfully reject instinct, kindly explain this fact by the mere play of sensations and experience which they assume we have acquired? Let them give an account of it which will satisfy any sensible man; in that case I have nothing further to urge, and I will say no more of instinct.] he who obeys his conscience is following nature and he need not fear that he will go astray. This is a matter of great importance, continued my benefactor, seeing that I was about to interrupt him; let me stop awhile to explain it more fully.

Having figured out the main truths I need to know based on my perception of the world and my inner thoughts, which lead me to understand causes through my natural reasoning, I now need to find principles of conduct that I can derive from them, as well as guidelines for how to navigate my life according to my Maker's purpose. Sticking to this approach, I don’t obtain these rules from advanced philosophy; I discover them deep within my heart, marked by nature in a way that nothing can erase. I just need to ask myself what I want to do; what feels right is right, and what feels wrong is wrong; my conscience is the best guide. It's only when we argue with our conscience that we resort to complicated reasoning. Our first responsibility is to ourselves, yet how often do we hear others say that pursuing our own good at the expense of others is wrong? We think we are aligning with nature when we are actually resisting it; we pay attention to what it tells us through our senses but ignore what it communicates to our hearts. The active being obeys, while the passive one commands. Conscience is the voice of the soul, while passions are the voice of the body. It’s odd that these voices often conflict with each other. So, which one should we listen to? Reason often misleads us; it’s perfectly reasonable to doubt it. However, conscience never misleads us; it’s the true guide for humans, similar to how instinct guides the body. [Footnote: Modern philosophy only accepts what it can comprehend, so it often overlooks this obscure force known as instinct, which seems to guide animals toward a purpose without any learned experience. Some of our so-called 'wise philosophers' claim instinct is just a hidden habit of thought, learned through reflection. The way they talk about this development implies that children reflect more than adults, which is a peculiar paradox worth examining. Without diving into that argument, I ask what name I should give to the zeal with which my dog hunts moles he doesn’t eat, or to the patience with which he sometimes watches them for hours, skillfully catching them, tossing them away from their burrows, and then killing them? Yet no one trained him for this, nor even told him about moles. Additionally, I ask a more crucial question: when I first threatened this same dog, why did he lie down with his paws folded in such a pleading position that would move me, a stance he would maintain even if I kept hitting him? What! Did my dog, still just a puppy, have moral understanding? Did he grasp mercy and generosity? How did he know to try to calm me by submitting to me? Every dog behaves similarly in such situations, and my claim is something anyone can confirm. Will philosophers, who scoff at instinct, kindly explain this behavior merely through sensation and experience? Let them provide an explanation that satisfies a sensible person; if they do, I won't have anything further to argue, and I won’t discuss instinct anymore.] Whoever listens to their conscience is following nature and doesn’t need to worry about going off track. This is a crucial point, my benefactor continued, as I was about to interject; let me pause to elaborate on it further.

The morality of our actions consists entirely in the judgments we ourselves form with regard to them. If good is good, it must be good in the depth of our heart as well as in our actions; and the first reward of justice is the consciousness that we are acting justly. If moral goodness is in accordance with our nature, man can only be healthy in mind and body when he is good. If it is not so, and if man is by nature evil, he cannot cease to be evil without corrupting his nature, and goodness in him is a crime against nature. If he is made to do harm to his fellow-creatures, as the wolf is made to devour his prey, a humane man would be as depraved a creature as a pitiful wolf; and virtue alone would cause remorse.

The morality of our actions is based entirely on the judgments we make about them. If something is good, it must be good in our hearts as well as in our actions; and the first reward of being just is the awareness that we are acting justly. If moral goodness aligns with our nature, a person can only be mentally and physically healthy when they are good. If that’s not the case, and if people are inherently evil, they can't stop being evil without damaging their nature, and goodness would be a violation of that nature. If someone is made to harm others, like a wolf is made to hunt its prey, a compassionate person would be as corrupted as a sorrowful wolf; and only virtue would bring about guilt.

My young friend, let us look within, let us set aside all personal prejudices and see whither our inclinations lead us. Do we take more pleasure in the sight of the sufferings of others or their joys? Is it pleasanter to do a kind action or an unkind action, and which leaves the more delightful memory behind it? Why do you enjoy the theatre? Do you delight in the crimes you behold? Do you weep over the punishment which overtakes the criminal? They say we are indifferent to everything but self-interest; yet we find our consolation in our sufferings in the charms of friendship and humanity, and even in our pleasures we should be too lonely and miserable if we had no one to share them with us. If there is no such thing as morality in man’s heart, what is the source of his rapturous admiration of noble deeds, his passionate devotion to great men? What connection is there between self-interest and this enthusiasm for virtue? Why should I choose to be Cato dying by his own hand, rather than Caesar in his triumphs? Take from our hearts this love of what is noble and you rob us of the joy of life. The mean-spirited man in whom these delicious feelings have been stifled among vile passions, who by thinking of no one but himself comes at last to love no one but himself, this man feels no raptures, his cold heart no longer throbs with joy, and his eyes no longer fill with the sweet tears of sympathy, he delights in nothing; the wretch has neither life nor feeling, he is already dead.

My young friend, let's look inside ourselves, set aside all our personal biases, and see where our true feelings lead us. Do we take more pleasure in seeing others suffer or in their joy? Is it more enjoyable to perform a kind act or an unkind one, and which leaves a more beautiful memory? Why do you enjoy the theater? Do you take pleasure in the crimes you witness? Do you cry over the punishment that befalls the criminal? People say we're indifferent to everything except our own self-interest, yet we find comfort in our suffering through the joys of friendship and humanity, and even in our happiness, we'd feel too lonely and miserable if we had no one to share it with. If there's no morality in a person's heart, where does the deep admiration for noble acts and the passionate devotion to great individuals come from? What link is there between self-interest and this enthusiasm for virtue? Why would I choose to be Cato, dying by his own hand, instead of Caesar basking in his triumphs? Remove our love for what is noble from our hearts, and you take away our joy in life. The small-minded person in whom these beautiful feelings are suffocated by vile passions, who thinks only of himself and ends up loving only himself, feels no rapture; his cold heart no longer beats with joy, and his eyes no longer fill with the sweet tears of compassion. He finds joy in nothing; the wretch has neither life nor feeling; he is already dead.

There are many bad men in this world, but there are few of these dead souls, alive only to self-interest, and insensible to all that is right and good. We only delight in injustice so long as it is to our own advantage; in every other case we wish the innocent to be protected. If we see some act of violence or injustice in town or country, our hearts are at once stirred to their depths by an instinctive anger and wrath, which bids us go to the help of the oppressed; but we are restrained by a stronger duty, and the law deprives us of our right to protect the innocent. On the other hand, if some deed of mercy or generosity meets our eye, what reverence and love does it inspire! Do we not say to ourselves, “I should like to have done that myself”? What does it matter to us that two thousand years ago a man was just or unjust? and yet we take the same interest in ancient history as if it happened yesterday. What are the crimes of Cataline to me? I shall not be his victim. Why then have I the same horror of his crimes as if he were living now? We do not hate the wicked merely because of the harm they do to ourselves, but because they are wicked. Not only do we wish to be happy ourselves, we wish others to be happy too, and if this happiness does not interfere with our own happiness, it increases it. In conclusion, whether we will or not, we pity the unfortunate; when we see their suffering we suffer too. Even the most depraved are not wholly without this instinct, and it often leads them to self-contradiction. The highwayman who robs the traveller, clothes the nakedness of the poor; the fiercest murderer supports a fainting man.

There are many bad people in this world, but few of them are like these dead souls, who live only for their own interests and are blind to what is right and good. We only enjoy injustice as long as it benefits us; in every other situation, we want the innocent to be protected. If we witness an act of violence or injustice in our town or countryside, we feel a deep, instinctive anger that drives us to help the oppressed. However, we are held back by a stronger obligation, and the law takes away our right to protect the innocent. On the flip side, when we see an act of kindness or generosity, it inspires us with admiration and love! Don’t we often think, “I wish I could have done that myself”? What difference does it make to us that someone was just or unjust two thousand years ago? Still, we take an interest in ancient history as if it happened yesterday. What do the crimes of Cataline mean to me? I won’t be his victim. So why do I feel the same horror at his crimes as if he were alive today? We don't hate the wicked just because of the harm they do to us, but because they are wicked. We not only want to be happy ourselves, but we also want others to be happy, and if their happiness doesn’t interfere with our own, it actually makes us happier. In conclusion, whether we like it or not, we feel pity for the unfortunate; when we see their suffering, we suffer too. Even the most depraved people aren’t entirely devoid of this instinct, and it often leads them to contradict themselves. The robber who holds up a traveler also helps clothe the naked, while the fiercest murderer might support a fainting person.

Men speak of the voice of remorse, the secret punishment of hidden crimes, by which such are often brought to light. Alas! who does not know its unwelcome voice? We speak from experience, and we would gladly stifle this imperious feeling which causes us such agony. Let us obey the call of nature; we shall see that her yoke is easy and that when we give heed to her voice we find a joy in the answer of a good conscience. The wicked fears and flees from her; he delights to escape from himself; his anxious eyes look around him for some object of diversion; without bitter satire and rude mockery he would always be sorrowful; the scornful laugh is his one pleasure. Not so the just man, who finds his peace within himself; there is joy not malice in his laughter, a joy which springs from his own heart; he is as cheerful alone as in company, his satisfaction does not depend on those who approach him; it includes them.

Men talk about the voice of regret, the hidden punishment for secret sins, which often brings such things to light. Sadly, who doesn’t recognize that unwelcome voice? We speak from experience, and we would love to silence this pressing feeling that causes us so much pain. Let's listen to the call of nature; we will see that her burden is light, and when we pay attention to her voice, we find joy in the response of a clear conscience. The wicked fears and runs from her; he enjoys escaping from himself; his anxious eyes search for something to distract him; without harsh sarcasm and cruel mockery, he would always be miserable; the scornful laugh is his only source of pleasure. Not so for the righteous person, who finds peace within themselves; there is joy, not malice, in their laughter, a joy that comes from their own heart; they are just as cheerful alone as they are in a crowd, and their happiness doesn’t rely on those around them; it embraces them.

Cast your eyes over every nation of the world; peruse every volume of its history; in the midst of all these strange and cruel forms of worship, among this amazing variety of manners and customs, you will everywhere find the same ideas of right and justice; everywhere the same principles of morality, the same ideas of good and evil. The old paganism gave birth to abominable gods who would have been punished as scoundrels here below, gods who merely offered, as a picture of supreme happiness, crimes to be committed and lust to be gratified. But in vain did vice descend from the abode of the gods armed with their sacred authority; the moral instinct refused to admit it into the heart of man. While the debaucheries of Jupiter were celebrated, the continence of Xenocrates was revered; the chaste Lucrece adored the shameless Venus; the bold Roman offered sacrifices to Fear; he invoked the god who mutilated his father, and he died without a murmur at the hand of his own father. The most unworthy gods were worshipped by the noblest men. The sacred voice of nature was stronger than the voice of the gods, and won reverence upon earth; it seemed to relegate guilt and the guilty alike to heaven.

Look at every nation in the world; read through every history book; amidst all these strange and brutal forms of worship, and the incredible variety of customs and behaviors, you will always find the same concepts of right and justice; the same principles of morality, the same ideas of good and evil everywhere. The old paganism created terrible gods who would be punished as villains here on earth, gods who offered nothing but crimes to commit and desires to satisfy as a picture of ultimate happiness. But vice, coming down from the realm of the gods with their supposed authority, was rejected by the moral instinct in human hearts. While the excesses of Jupiter were celebrated, the self-discipline of Xenocrates was admired; the virtuous Lucrece worshipped the shameless Venus; the brave Roman made sacrifices to Fear; he called upon the god who maimed his father, and he went to his death without complaint at the hands of his own father. The most despicable gods were honored by the most noble people. The innate voice of nature was stronger than the voice of the gods and gained respect on earth; it seemed to push sin and the sinful up to the heavens.

There is therefore at the bottom of our hearts an innate principle of justice and virtue, by which, in spite of our maxims, we judge our own actions or those of others to be good or evil; and it is this principle that I call conscience.

There is, deep down in our hearts, a natural sense of justice and virtue that leads us to judge our own actions or those of others as good or bad, regardless of our beliefs. This sense is what I refer to as conscience.

But at this word I hear the murmurs of all the wise men so-called. Childish errors, prejudices of our upbringing, they exclaim in concert! There is nothing in the human mind but what it has gained by experience; and we judge everything solely by means of the ideas we have acquired. They go further; they even venture to reject the clear and universal agreement of all peoples, and to set against this striking unanimity in the judgment of mankind, they seek out some obscure exception known to themselves alone; as if the whole trend of nature were rendered null by the depravity of a single nation, and as if the existence of monstrosities made an end of species. But to what purpose does the sceptic Montaigne strive himself to unearth in some obscure corner of the world a custom which is contrary to the ideas of justice? To what purpose does he credit the most untrustworthy travellers, while he refuses to believe the greatest writers? A few strange and doubtful customs, based on local causes, unknown to us; shall these destroy a general inference based on the agreement of all the nations of the earth, differing from each other in all else, but agreed in this? O Montaigne, you pride yourself on your truth and honesty; be sincere and truthful, if a philosopher can be so, and tell me if there is any country upon earth where it is a crime to keep one’s plighted word, to be merciful, helpful, and generous, where the good man is scorned, and the traitor is held in honour.

But when I hear that, I can almost hear the chatter of all the so-called wise men. "Childish mistakes, biases from our upbringing," they all shout in unison! Nothing exists in the human mind except what we've learned through experience; we judge everything through the ideas we've gathered. They go even further; they dare to dismiss the clear and universal agreement of all peoples, and against this remarkable consensus of mankind's judgment, they look for some obscure exception known only to themselves; as if the entire flow of nature could be invalidated by the corruption of a single nation, and as if the existence of abnormalities could invalidate an entire species. But what's the point of the skeptic Montaigne digging up some obscure custom in the world that goes against the principles of justice? Why does he trust the most unreliable travelers, while he doubts the greatest authors? A few strange and doubtful customs, rooted in local reasons that we don't understand; can these really overturn a general conclusion drawn from the agreement of all nations on Earth, which, despite their differences, all concur on this? O Montaigne, you boast about your truth and integrity; be genuine and honest, if a philosopher can be, and tell me, is there any country on Earth where keeping your word, being compassionate, helpful, and generous is seen as a crime, where a good person is mocked, and a traitor is respected?

Self-interest, so they say, induces each of us to agree for the common good. But how is it that the good man consents to this to his own hurt? Does a man go to death from self-interest? No doubt each man acts for his own good, but if there is no such thing as moral good to be taken into consideration, self-interest will only enable you to account for the deeds of the wicked; possibly you will not attempt to do more. A philosophy which could find no place for good deeds would be too detestable; you would find yourself compelled either to find some mean purpose, some wicked motive, or to abuse Socrates and slander Regulus. If such doctrines ever took root among us, the voice of nature, together with the voice of reason, would constantly protest against them, till no adherent of such teaching could plead an honest excuse for his partisanship.

They say that self-interest drives each of us to agree for the common good. But how is it that a good person goes along with this to their own detriment? Does someone face death just because of self-interest? Sure, each person acts for their own benefit, but if there's no consideration for moral good, self-interest will only help explain the actions of the wicked; you might not try to go any further. A philosophy that ignores good deeds would be truly repugnant; you'd either have to find some twisted motive or unfairly criticize Socrates and slander Regulus. If such beliefs ever took hold among us, both the voice of nature and the voice of reason would continually push back against them, until no supporter of such ideas could offer a genuine excuse for their stance.

It is no part of my scheme to enter at present into metaphysical discussions which neither you nor I can understand, discussions which really lead nowhere. I have told you already that I do not wish to philosophise with you, but to help you to consult your own heart. If all the philosophers in the world should prove that I am wrong, and you feel that I am right, that is all I ask.

It’s not my intention to get into complex philosophical debates right now, discussions that neither you nor I can fully grasp and that don’t really get us anywhere. I've already mentioned that I don’t want to ponder abstract ideas with you; I want to help you listen to your own feelings. If every philosopher out there says I’m wrong, but you feel I’m right, that’s all I need.

For this purpose it is enough to lead you to distinguish between our acquired ideas and our natural feelings; for feeling precedes knowledge; and since we do not learn to seek what is good for us and avoid what is bad for us, but get this desire from nature, in the same way the love of good and the hatred of evil are as natural to us as our self-love. The decrees of conscience are not judgments but feelings. Although all our ideas come from without, the feelings by which they are weighed are within us, and it is by these feelings alone that we perceive fitness or unfitness of things in relation to ourselves, which leads us to seek or shun these things.

To understand this, it's important to recognize the difference between our learned ideas and our natural instincts. Our feelings come before our knowledge; we don’t learn to pursue what is good for us and avoid what is bad; instead, we have that drive naturally. Just like self-love, the love of good and the dislike of evil are inherent to us. Conscience communicates through feelings, not judgments. While all our ideas come from external sources, the feelings we use to evaluate them come from within. It’s through these feelings that we determine what is suitable or unsuitable for ourselves, which guides us to seek or avoid certain things.

To exist is to feel; our feeling is undoubtedly earlier than our intelligence, and we had feelings before we had ideas.[Footnote: In some respects ideas are feelings and feelings are ideas. Both terms are appropriate to any perception with which we are concerned, appropriate both to the object of that perception and to ourselves who are affected by it; it is merely the order in which we are affected which decides the appropriate term. When we are chiefly concerned with the object and only think of ourselves as it were by reflection, that is an idea; when, on the other hand, the impression received excites our chief attention and we only think in the second place of the object which caused it, it is a feeling.] Whatever may be the cause of our being, it has provided for our preservation by giving us feelings suited to our nature; and no one can deny that these at least are innate. These feelings, so far as the individual is concerned, are self-love, fear, pain, the dread of death, the desire for comfort. Again, if, as it is impossible to doubt, man is by nature sociable, or at least fitted to become sociable, he can only be so by means of other innate feelings, relative to his kind; for if only physical well-being were considered, men would certainly be scattered rather than brought together. But the motive power of conscience is derived from the moral system formed through this twofold relation to himself and to his fellow-men. To know good is not to love it; this knowledge is not innate in man; but as soon as his reason leads him to perceive it, his conscience impels him to love it; it is this feeling which is innate.

To exist is to feel; our feelings definitely come before our understanding, and we experienced emotions before we developed ideas. [Footnote: In some ways, ideas are feelings, and feelings are ideas. Both terms apply to any perception we are dealing with, relating both to the object of that perception and to us who are affected by it; it’s just the order in which we are impacted that determines which term fits. When we focus mainly on the object and only think of ourselves as if in reflection, that’s an idea; however, when the impression we receive captures our main attention and we think of the object that caused it secondarily, it’s a feeling.] Whatever the reason for our existence, it has ensured our survival by giving us feelings aligned with our nature; and no one can deny that these are at least instinctual. These feelings, as far as the individual is concerned, include self-love, fear, pain, the fear of death, and the desire for comfort. Additionally, if it is undeniable that humans are naturally social or at least have the potential to be social, they can only achieve this through other inherent feelings related to their species; because if only physical well-being were taken into account, people would surely be more scattered than united. However, the driving force of conscience comes from the moral system created through this dual relationship with themselves and their fellow humans. Knowing what is good doesn’t mean loving it; this knowledge isn’t something humans are born with; but as soon as reason leads them to recognize it, their conscience pushes them to appreciate it; this feeling is what is innate.

So I do not think, my young friend, that it is impossible to explain the immediate force of conscience as a result of our own nature, independent of reason itself. And even should it be impossible, it is unnecessary; for those who deny this principle, admitted and received by everybody else in the world, do not prove that there is no such thing; they are content to affirm, and when we affirm its existence we have quite as good grounds as they, while we have moreover the witness within us, the voice of conscience, which speaks on its own behalf. If the first beams of judgment dazzle us and confuse the objects we behold, let us wait till our feeble sight grows clear and strong, and in the light of reason we shall soon behold these very objects as nature has already showed them to us. Or rather let us be simpler and less pretentious; let us be content with the first feelings we experience in ourselves, since science always brings us back to these, unless it has led us astray.

I don't think, my young friend, that explaining the immediate power of conscience as a result of our own nature, separate from reason itself, is impossible. And even if it were, it wouldn’t be necessary; those who deny this principle, which is accepted by everyone else in the world, don’t prove that it doesn’t exist; they simply state their opinion. When we affirm its existence, we have just as strong a basis as they do, plus we have the inner witness, the voice of conscience, that speaks for itself. If the first rays of judgment blind us and confuse what we see, let's wait until our weak sight becomes clear and strong, and in the light of reason, we'll soon see these same things as nature has already shown them to us. Or better yet, let’s be simpler and less pretentious; let's accept the initial feelings we have within ourselves, since science always brings us back to these unless it has misled us.

Conscience! Conscience! Divine instinct, immortal voice from heaven; sure guide for a creature ignorant and finite indeed, yet intelligent and free; infallible judge of good and evil, making man like to God! In thee consists the excellence of man’s nature and the morality of his actions; apart from thee, I find nothing in myself to raise me above the beasts—nothing but the sad privilege of wandering from one error to another, by the help of an unbridled understanding and a reason which knows no principle.

Conscience! Conscience! A divine instinct, an eternal voice from above; a reliable guide for a being that is certainly ignorant and limited, yet intelligent and free; an unerring judge of right and wrong, making humanity resemble God! In you lies the greatness of human nature and the morality of our actions; without you, I find nothing in myself that elevates me above the animals—nothing but the unfortunate ability to drift from one mistake to another, aided by an untamed intellect and a reason that follows no principles.

Thank heaven we have now got rid of all that alarming show of philosophy; we may be men without being scholars; now that we need not spend our life in the study of morality, we have found a less costly and surer guide through this vast labyrinth of human thought. But it is not enough to be aware that there is such a guide; we must know her and follow her. If she speaks to all hearts, how is it that so few give heed to her voice? She speaks to us in the language of nature, and everything leads us to forget that tongue. Conscience is timid, she loves peace and retirement; she is startled by noise and numbers; the prejudices from which she is said to arise are her worst enemies. She flees before them or she is silent; their noisy voices drown her words, so that she cannot get a hearing; fanaticism dares to counterfeit her voice and to inspire crimes in her name. She is discouraged by ill-treatment; she no longer speaks to us, no longer answers to our call; when she has been scorned so long, it is as hard to recall her as it was to banish her.

Thank goodness we've now moved past all that stressful display of philosophy; we can be individuals without being academics. Now that we don’t have to dedicate our lives to studying morality, we’ve discovered a less expensive and more reliable guide through this complex maze of human thought. But it’s not enough just to know there’s a guide; we need to recognize her and follow her. If she communicates with all of us, why do so few pay attention to her voice? She speaks to us in the language of nature, yet everything pushes us to forget that language. Conscience is shy; she prefers peace and solitude. She gets startled by noise and crowds; the biases she supposedly comes from are her biggest enemies. She runs away from them or stays silent; their loud voices overpower her words, so she can’t be heard. Fanaticism goes as far as mimicking her voice and inspiring wrongdoings in her name. She becomes discouraged by mistreatment; she stops speaking to us, no longer responds to our calls; when she’s been ignored for so long, it’s as difficult to bring her back as it was to push her away.

How often in the course of my inquiries have I grown weary of my own coldness of heart! How often have grief and weariness poured their poison into my first meditations and made them hateful to me! My barren heart yielded nothing but a feeble zeal and a lukewarm love of truth. I said to myself: Why should I strive to find what does not exist? Moral good is a dream, the pleasures of sense are the only real good. When once we have lost the taste for the pleasures of the soul, how hard it is to recover it! How much more difficult to acquire it if we have never possessed it! If there were any man so wretched as never to have done anything all his life long which he could remember with pleasure, and which would make him glad to have lived, that man would be incapable of self-knowledge, and for want of knowledge of goodness, of which his nature is capable, he would be constrained to remain in his wickedness and would be for ever miserable. But do you think there is any one man upon earth so depraved that he has never yielded to the temptation of well-doing? This temptation is so natural, so pleasant, that it is impossible always to resist it; and the thought of the pleasure it has once afforded is enough to recall it constantly to our memory. Unluckily it is hard at first to find satisfaction for it; we have any number of reasons for refusing to follow the inclinations of our heart; prudence, so called, restricts the heart within the limits of the self; a thousand efforts are needed to break these bonds. The joy of well-doing is the prize of having done well, and we must deserve the prize before we win it. There is nothing sweeter than virtue; but we do not know this till we have tried it. Like Proteus in the fable, she first assumes a thousand terrible shapes when we would embrace her, and only shows her true self to those who refuse to let her go.

How often during my inquiries have I become tired of my own emotional coldness! How often have sadness and exhaustion contaminated my initial thoughts and made them unbearable! My empty heart produced nothing but weak enthusiasm and a half-hearted love for truth. I told myself: Why should I try to find what doesn’t exist? Moral goodness is just an illusion; the pleasures of the senses are the only real goods. Once we lose our taste for the pleasures of the soul, how hard it is to regain it! It’s even more difficult to attain if we’ve never experienced it! If there were someone so unfortunate that they had never done anything in their life that they could remember with joy or that made them glad to be alive, that person would be incapable of understanding themselves. Lacking knowledge of goodness, which they are capable of, they would be forced to remain in their wickedness and would forever be miserable. But do you really think there’s anyone on earth so depraved that they’ve never given in to the temptation of doing good? That temptation is so natural, so enjoyable, that it’s impossible to resist it all the time; just thinking about the pleasure it once brought is enough to bring it to mind constantly. Unfortunately, at first, it’s hard to find satisfaction in it; we have countless reasons to avoid following our heart's inclinations; so-called prudence keeps our hearts restrained within the limits of selfishness; it takes countless efforts to break these chains. The joy of doing good is the reward for having done well, and we must earn that reward before we can enjoy it. There’s nothing sweeter than virtue, but we don’t realize this until we try it. Like Proteus in the fable, she initially takes on a thousand fearful forms when we try to embrace her, and only reveals her true self to those who refuse to let her go.

Ever at strife between my natural feelings, which spoke of the common weal, and my reason, which spoke of self, I should have drifted through life in perpetual uncertainty, hating evil, loving good, and always at war with myself, if my heart had not received further light, if that truth which determined my opinions had not also settled my conduct, and set me at peace with myself. Reason alone is not a sufficient foundation for virtue; what solid ground can be found? Virtue we are told is love of order. But can this love prevail over my love for my own well-being, and ought it so to prevail? Let them give me clear and sufficient reason for this preference. Their so-called principle is in truth a mere playing with words; for I also say that vice is love of order, differently understood. Wherever there is feeling and intelligence, there is some sort of moral order. The difference is this: the good man orders his life with regard to all men; the wicked orders it for self alone. The latter centres all things round himself; the other measures his radius and remains on the circumference. Thus his place depends on the common centre, which is God, and on all the concentric circles which are His creatures. If there is no God, the wicked is right and the good man is nothing but a fool.

Always caught in conflict between my natural feelings, which cared for the common good, and my reason, which prioritized myself, I would have drifted through life in constant uncertainty, hating evil, loving good, and perpetually at war with myself, if my heart hadn’t found further insight. If that truth that shaped my beliefs hadn’t also guided my actions and brought me peace within. Reason alone isn’t enough to build a foundation for virtue; what solid ground is there? Virtue, we’re told, is the love of order. But can this love take precedence over my love for my own well-being, and should it? They need to provide me with clear and sufficient reasons for this preference. Their so-called principle is really just wordplay; I can also argue that vice is a love of order, just understood differently. Wherever there is feeling and intelligence, some kind of moral order exists. The difference is this: the good person organizes their life with consideration for everyone; the wicked person does it solely for themselves. The latter revolves everything around themselves; the former measures their scope and stays on the outskirts. Thus, their place depends on the common center, which is God, and on all the concentric circles that are His creatures. If there is no God, then the wicked person is correct, and the good person is just a fool.

My child! May you one day feel what a burden is removed when, having fathomed the vanity of human thoughts and tasted the bitterness of passion, you find at length near at hand the path of wisdom, the prize of this life’s labours, the source of that happiness which you despaired of. Every duty of natural law, which man’s injustice had almost effaced from my heart, is engraven there, for the second time in the name of that eternal justice which lays these duties upon me and beholds my fulfilment of them. I feel myself merely the instrument of the Omnipotent, who wills what is good, who performs it, who will bring about my own good through the co-operation of my will with his own, and by the right use of my liberty. I acquiesce in the order he establishes, certain that one day I shall enjoy that order and find my happiness in it; for what sweeter joy is there than this, to feel oneself a part of a system where all is good? A prey to pain, I bear it in patience, remembering that it will soon be over, and that it results from a body which is not mine. If I do a good deed in secret, I know that it is seen, and my conduct in this life is a pledge of the life to come. When I suffer injustice, I say to myself, the Almighty who does all things well will reward me: my bodily needs, my poverty, make the idea of death less intolerable. There will be all the fewer bonds to be broken when my hour comes.

My child! I hope that one day you experience the relief that comes when, having understood the futility of human thoughts and tasted the bitterness of desire, you finally discover the path to wisdom, the reward for this life’s efforts, the source of happiness you thought was out of reach. Every duty of natural law, which was nearly erased from my heart by human injustice, is etched there once again by the name of that eternal justice which imposes these duties on me and observes how I fulfill them. I see myself as just a tool of the Omnipotent, who desires what is good, who carries it out, and who will bring about my own good by aligning my will with his and using my freedom wisely. I accept the order he sets, confident that one day I will enjoy that order and find my happiness in it; for what greater joy is there than feeling like a part of a system where everything is good? Enduring pain, I bear it patiently, knowing it will soon pass and that it comes from a body that is not truly mine. If I do a good deed in secret, I know it is seen, and my actions in this life are a promise of what’s to come. When I endure injustice, I remind myself that the Almighty, who does everything well, will reward me: my physical needs and struggles make the thought of death easier to bear. There will be fewer ties to break when my time comes.

Why is my soul subjected to my senses, and imprisoned in this body by which it is enslaved and thwarted? I know not; have I entered into the counsels of the Almighty? But I may, without rashness, venture on a modest conjecture. I say to myself: If man’s soul had remained in a state of freedom and innocence, what merit would there have been in loving and obeying the order he found established, an order which it would not have been to his advantage to disturb? He would be happy, no doubt, but his happiness would not attain to the highest point, the pride of virtue, and the witness of a good conscience within him; he would be but as the angels are, and no doubt the good man will be more than they. Bound to a mortal body, by bonds as strange as they are powerful, his care for the preservation of this body tempts the soul to think only of self, and gives it an interest opposed to the general order of things, which it is still capable of knowing and loving; then it is that the right use of his freedom becomes at once the merit and the reward; then it is that it prepares for itself unending happiness, by resisting its earthly passions and following its original direction.

Why is my soul controlled by my senses and trapped in this body that enslaves and frustrates it? I don’t know; have I been part of the Almighty's plans? Still, I can safely make a humble guess. I think to myself: If a person's soul had stayed free and innocent, what value would there be in loving and obeying the established order, an order that wouldn’t benefit him to disrupt? He would be happy, no doubt, but his happiness wouldn’t reach its fullest potential—the pride of virtue and the assurance of a clear conscience; he would be like the angels, and surely a good person will be more than they are. Bound to a mortal body, by ties as strange as they are strong, his concern for this body tempts the soul to focus only on itself, creating an interest that contradicts the larger order of things, which it can still understand and cherish; that's when the proper use of his freedom becomes both the achievement and the reward; that's when it sets itself up for endless happiness by resisting its earthly desires and following its true path.

If even in the lowly position in which we are placed during our present life our first impulses are always good, if all our vices are of our own making, why should we complain that they are our masters? Why should we blame the Creator for the ills we have ourselves created, and the enemies we ourselves have armed against us? Oh, let us leave man unspoilt; he will always find it easy to be good and he will always be happy without remorse. The guilty, who assert that they are driven to crime, are liars as well as evil-doers; how is it that they fail to perceive that the weakness they bewail is of their own making; that their earliest depravity was the result of their own will; that by dint of wishing to yield to temptations, they at length yield to them whether they will or no and make them irresistible? No doubt they can no longer avoid being weak and wicked, but they need not have become weak and wicked. Oh, how easy would it be to preserve control of ourselves and of our passions, even in this life, if with habits still unformed, with a mind beginning to expand, we were able to keep to such things as we ought to know, in order to value rightly what is unknown; if we really wished to learn, not that we might shine before the eyes of others, but that we might be wise and good in accordance with our nature, that we might be happy in the performance of our duty. This study seems tedious and painful to us, for we do not attempt it till we are already corrupted by vice and enslaved by our passions. Our judgments and our standards of worth are determined before we have the knowledge of good and evil; and then we measure all things by this false standard, and give nothing its true worth.

If even in our lowly position in this life our first instincts are always good, and if all our vices are self-made, why should we complain that they control us? Why should we blame the Creator for the troubles we have created ourselves and the enemies we have armed against us? Oh, let’s keep humanity unspoiled; they will always find it easy to be good and will always be happy without remorse. Those who claim they are forced into wrongdoing are liars as well as wrongdoers; how do they not see that the weakness they lament is of their own making, that their earliest depravity came from their own choices? By wanting to give in to temptations, they eventually do give in, whether they want to or not, and make them irresistible. No doubt they can no longer avoid being weak and wicked, but they didn’t have to become that way. Oh, how easy it would be to maintain control of ourselves and our passions, even now, if we could stick to what we ought to know while our habits are still forming and our minds are just starting to grow. If we genuinely wanted to learn, not to impress others, but to be wise and good in line with our true nature, that we might find happiness in doing our duties. This learning feels tiresome and painful because we don’t start it until we are already corrupted by vice and enslaved by our desires. Our judgments and our standards of worth are set before we truly understand good and evil, and then we measure everything by this false standard, giving nothing its true value.

There is an age when the heart is still free, but eager, unquiet, greedy of a happiness which is still unknown, a happiness which it seeks in curiosity and doubt; deceived by the senses it settles at length upon the empty show of happiness and thinks it has found it where it is not. In my own case these illusions endured for a long time. Alas! too late did I become aware of them, and I have not succeeded in overcoming them altogether; they will last as long as this mortal body from which they arise. If they lead me astray, I am at least no longer deceived by them; I know them for what they are, and even when I give way to them, I despise myself; far from regarding them as the goal of my happiness, I behold in them an obstacle to it. I long for the time when, freed from the fetters of the body, I shall be myself, at one with myself, no longer torn in two, when I myself shall suffice for my own happiness. Meanwhile I am happy even in this life, for I make small account of all its evils, in which I regard myself as having little or no part, while all the real good that I can get out of this life depends on myself alone.

There’s a time when the heart is still free but restless, craving a happiness that’s not yet known—happiness discovered through curiosity and uncertainty. Misled by the senses, it eventually settles for a hollow version of happiness and mistakenly believes it has found it where it doesn’t exist. In my case, these illusions lasted a long time. Sadly, I realized them too late, and I haven’t fully overcome them; they’ll persist as long as this mortal body I inhabit. If they mislead me, at least I’m no longer fooled by them; I recognize them for what they are, and even when I give in to them, I look down on myself. Rather than seeing them as the source of my happiness, I see them as barriers to it. I yearn for the time when, free from the chains of the body, I can be truly myself, united within, no longer torn in two, when I can find happiness within myself. In the meantime, I am content even in this life, as I deem all its hardships relatively insignificant, feeling little or no connection to them, while all the real good I can gain from life relies entirely on me.

To raise myself so far as may be even now to this state of happiness, strength, and freedom, I exercise myself in lofty contemplation. I consider the order of the universe, not to explain it by any futile system, but to revere it without ceasing, to adore the wise Author who reveals himself in it. I hold intercourse with him; I immerse all my powers in his divine essence; I am overwhelmed by his kindness, I bless him and his gifts, but I do not pray to him. What should I ask of him—to change the order of nature, to work miracles on my behalf? Should I, who am bound to love above all things the order which he has established in his wisdom and maintained by his providence, should I desire the disturbance of that order on my own account? No, that rash prayer would deserve to be punished rather than to be granted. Neither do I ask of him the power to do right; why should I ask what he has given me already? Has he not given me conscience that I may love the right, reason that I may perceive it, and freedom that I may choose it? If I do evil, I have no excuse; I do it of my own free will; to ask him to change my will is to ask him to do what he asks of me; it is to want him to do the work while I get the wages; to be dissatisfied with my lot is to wish to be no longer a man, to wish to be other than what I am, to wish for disorder and evil. Thou source of justice and truth, merciful and gracious God, in thee do I trust, and the desire of my heart is—Thy will be done. When I unite my will with thine, I do what thou doest; I have a share in thy goodness; I believe that I enjoy beforehand the supreme happiness which is the reward of goodness.

To lift myself up to this state of happiness, strength, and freedom, I engage in deep thought. I reflect on the order of the universe, not to explain it with a pointless system, but to continuously admire it, to worship the wise Creator who shows himself through it. I connect with him; I immerse all my abilities in his divine essence; I am overwhelmed by his kindness. I bless him and his gifts, but I do not pray to him. What would I ask of him—to change the natural order, to perform miracles for my sake? Should I, who am meant to love above all the order that he established in his wisdom and sustains through his providence, wish for that order to be disrupted for my benefit? No, such a reckless request would deserve punishment rather than fulfillment. I also don’t ask him for the ability to do what’s right; why would I ask for what he has already given me? Hasn’t he given me a conscience to love what is right, reason to understand it, and freedom to choose it? If I do wrong, I have no excuse; I do it of my own free will. To ask him to change my will is to ask him to do what he requires of me; it’s like wanting him to do the work while I take the rewards. To be unhappy with my circumstances is to wish to stop being human, to want to be something other than I am, to desire chaos and wrongdoing. You, source of justice and truth, merciful and gracious God, I trust in you, and the longing of my heart is—may your will be done. When I align my will with yours, I do what you do; I share in your goodness; I believe that I experience in advance the ultimate happiness that comes as the reward for goodness.

In my well-founded self-distrust the only thing that I ask of God, or rather expect from his justice, is to correct my error if I go astray, if that error is dangerous to me. To be honest I need not think myself infallible; my opinions, which seem to me true, may be so many lies; for what man is there who does not cling to his own beliefs; and how many men are agreed in everything? The illusion which deceives me may indeed have its source in myself, but it is God alone who can remove it. I have done all I can to attain to truth; but its source is beyond my reach; is it my fault if my strength fails me and I can go no further; it is for Truth to draw near to me.

In my well-founded self-doubt, the only thing I ask of God, or rather expect from His justice, is to correct my mistakes if I go astray, especially if those mistakes could harm me. Honestly, I don’t need to think of myself as infallible; my beliefs, which seem true to me, could just be many lies. After all, which person doesn’t hold tightly to their own beliefs, and how many people agree on everything? The illusion that tricks me might come from within, but only God can remove it. I’ve done everything I can to seek the truth; however, its source is beyond my reach. Is it my fault if my strength runs out and I can’t go any further? It’s up to Truth to come closer to me.

The good priest had spoken with passion; he and I were overcome with emotion. It seemed to me as if I were listening to the divine Orpheus when he sang the earliest hymns and taught men the worship of the gods. I saw any number of objections which might be raised; yet I raised none, for I perceived that they were more perplexing than serious, and that my inclination took his part. When he spoke to me according to his conscience, my own seemed to confirm what he said.

The good priest spoke with passion; both of us were filled with emotion. It felt like I was listening to the divine Orpheus when he sang the first hymns and taught people to worship the gods. I noticed plenty of objections that could be made; however, I didn’t bring any up because I realized they were more confusing than significant, and I found myself agreeing with him. When he spoke to me from his conscience, mine seemed to support what he said.

“The novelty of the sentiments you have made known to me,” said I, “strikes me all the more because of what you confess you do not know, than because of what you say you believe. They seem to be very like that theism or natural religion, which Christians profess to confound with atheism or irreligion which is their exact opposite. But in the present state of my faith I should have to ascend rather than descend to accept your views, and I find it difficult to remain just where you are unless I were as wise as you. That I may be at least as honest, I want time to take counsel with myself. By your own showing, the inner voice must be my guide, and you have yourself told me that when it has long been silenced it cannot be recalled in a moment. I take what you have said to heart, and I must consider it. If after I have thought things out, I am as convinced as you are, you will be my final teacher, and I will be your disciple till death. Continue your teaching however; you have only told me half what I must know. Speak to me of revelation, of the Scriptures, of those difficult doctrines among which I have strayed ever since I was a child, incapable either of understanding or believing them, unable to adopt or reject them.”

“The new feelings you’ve shared with me,” I said, “impress me even more because of what you admit you don’t understand, rather than what you say you believe. They seem very similar to theism or natural religion, which Christians often confuse with atheism or irreligion, which is its complete opposite. But given where I currently stand in my faith, I would have to rise rather than fall to embrace your views, and I find it hard to stay where you are unless I were as knowledgeable as you. To be at least as honest, I need time to reflect. According to you, my inner voice must guide me, and you told me that once it has been quiet for a long time, it can't just be revived in an instant. I take your words to heart, and I need to think it over. If, after I’ve considered everything, I feel as convinced as you do, you will be my ultimate teacher, and I will be your disciple until the end. But keep teaching me; you’ve only shared half of what I need to know. Tell me about revelation, the Scriptures, and those challenging doctrines I’ve been struggling with since I was a child, unable to either understand or believe them, and incapable of fully embracing or rejecting them.”

“Yes, my child,” said he, embracing me, “I will tell you all I think; I will not open my heart to you by halves; but the desire you express was necessary before I could cast aside all reserve. So far I have told you nothing but what I thought would be of service to you, nothing but what I was quite convinced of. The inquiry which remains to be made is very difficult. It seems to me full of perplexity, mystery, and darkness; I bring to it only doubt and distrust. I make up my mind with trembling, and I tell you my doubts rather than my convictions. If your own opinions were more settled I should hesitate to show you mine; but in your present condition, to think like me would be gain. [Footnote: I think the worthy clergyman might say this at the present time to the general public.] Moreover, give to my words only the authority of reason; I know not whether I am mistaken. It is difficult in discussion to avoid assuming sometimes a dogmatic tone; but remember in this respect that all my assertions are but reasons to doubt me. Seek truth for yourself, for my own part I only promise you sincerity.

“Yes, my child,” he said, hugging me, “I will share everything I think; I won’t hold back my feelings from you. But for me to be completely open, the desire you express was necessary. Until now, I’ve only told you what I thought would help you, nothing but what I truly believed. The question that still needs to be addressed is really tough. It seems full of confusion, mystery, and darkness; all I bring to it is doubt and skepticism. I'm hesitant as I share my thoughts, leaning more towards my uncertainties than my beliefs. If you were more certain in your opinions, I’d be reluctant to share mine; but given how you feel now, thinking like me would be a benefit. [Footnote: I think the worthy clergyman might say this at the present time to the general public.] Also, take my words as just rational thoughts; I’m not sure if I’m wrong. It’s tough to discuss without sounding dogmatic sometimes; but keep in mind that all my statements are just reasons to question me. Seek the truth for yourself; as for me, I can only promise you honesty.”

“In my exposition you find nothing but natural religion; strange that we should need more! How shall I become aware of this need? What guilt can be mine so long as I serve God according to the knowledge he has given to my mind, and the feelings he has put into my heart? What purity of morals, what dogma useful to man and worthy of its author, can I derive from a positive doctrine which cannot be derived without the aid of this doctrine by the right use of my faculties? Show me what you can add to the duties of the natural law, for the glory of God, for the good of mankind, and for my own welfare; and what virtue you will get from the new form of religion which does not result from mine. The grandest ideas of the Divine nature come to us from reason only. Behold the spectacle of nature; listen to the inner voice. Has not God spoken it all to our eyes, to our conscience, to our reason? What more can man tell us? Their revelations do but degrade God, by investing him with passions like our own. Far from throwing light upon the ideas of the Supreme Being, special doctrines seem to me to confuse these ideas; far from ennobling them, they degrade them; to the inconceivable mysteries which surround the Almighty, they add absurd contradictions, they make man proud, intolerant, and cruel; instead of bringing peace upon earth, they bring fire and sword. I ask myself what is the use of it all, and I find no answer. I see nothing but the crimes of men and the misery of mankind.

“In my explanation, you find nothing but natural religion; it’s strange that we should need more! How will I become aware of this need? What guilt can I have as long as I serve God according to the knowledge He has given me and the feelings He has put in my heart? What moral purity or useful dogma for humanity, worthy of its creator, can I gain from a positive doctrine that cannot be obtained through the proper use of my faculties? Show me what you can add to the duties of natural law for the glory of God, the good of humanity, and my own well-being; and what virtue you will find in the new form of religion that doesn’t come from mine. The greatest ideas about the Divine nature come to us only from reason. Look at the spectacle of nature; listen to your inner voice. Hasn’t God conveyed everything to our eyes, our conscience, and our reason? What more can humanity tell us? Their revelations only degrade God by attributing to Him passions like ours. Instead of clarifying our understanding of the Supreme Being, special doctrines seem to confuse these ideas; instead of elevating them, they lower them; they add absurd contradictions to the unfathomable mysteries surrounding the Almighty, making people proud, intolerant, and cruel; instead of bringing peace to earth, they bring conflict and violence. I ask myself what the point of it all is, and I find no answer. All I see are the crimes of men and the suffering of humanity."

“They tell me a revelation was required to teach men how God would be served; as a proof of this they point to the many strange rites which men have instituted, and they do not perceive that this very diversity springs from the fanciful nature of the revelations. As soon as the nations took to making God speak, every one made him speak in his own fashion, and made him say what he himself wanted. Had they listened only to what God says in the heart of man, there would have been but one religion upon earth.

“They say a revelation was needed to show people how to serve God; as evidence of this, they highlight the many bizarre rituals that have been created, not realizing that this very diversity comes from the imaginative nature of those revelations. Once nations started to claim they could make God speak, everyone interpreted His words in their own ways, making Him say what they wanted to hear. If they had only listened to what God conveys in the hearts of people, there would be just one religion on Earth.”

“One form of worship was required; just so, but was this a matter of such importance as to require all the power of the Godhead to establish it? Do not let us confuse the outward forms of religion with religion itself. The service God requires is of the heart; and when the heart is sincere that is ever the same. It is a strange sort of conceit which fancies that God takes such an interest in the shape of the priest’s vestments, the form of words he utters, the gestures he makes before the altar and all his genuflections. Oh, my friend, stand upright, you will still be too near the earth. God desires to be worshipped in spirit and in truth; this duty belongs to every religion, every country, every individual. As to the form of worship, if order demands uniformity, that is only a matter of discipline and needs no revelation.

“One type of worship was necessary; sure, but was it really important enough to need all the power of the divine to establish it? Let’s not confuse the external practices of religion with religion itself. The service God wants comes from the heart; and when the heart is genuine, it remains the same. It’s a strange arrogance to think that God cares so much about the priest’s clothing, the words he says, the gestures he makes at the altar, and all his bowing. Oh, my friend, stand tall; you’ll still be too close to the ground. God wants to be worshipped in spirit and truth; this obligation belongs to every faith, every nation, every person. As for the style of worship, if order calls for uniformity, that’s simply a matter of discipline and doesn’t require any divine revelation.”

“These thoughts did not come to me to begin with. Carried away by the prejudices of my education, and by that dangerous vanity which always strives to lift man out of his proper sphere, when I could not raise my feeble thoughts up to the great Being, I tried to bring him down to my own level. I tried to reduce the distance he has placed between his nature and mine. I desired more immediate relations, more individual instruction; not content to make God in the image of man that I might be favoured above my fellows, I desired supernatural knowledge; I required a special form of worship; I wanted God to tell me what he had not told others, or what others had not understood like myself.

These thoughts didn’t come to me at first. Influenced by the biases of my upbringing and that dangerous pride which often tries to elevate a person beyond their rightful place, when I couldn’t elevate my weak thoughts to the great Being, I attempted to bring him down to my level. I wanted to shorten the distance he placed between his nature and mine. I craved more direct connections, more personal guidance; not satisfied with making God in man’s image to gain favor over others, I sought supernatural knowledge; I demanded a unique way to worship; I wanted God to reveal to me what he hadn’t shared with others, or what others hadn’t grasped like I did.

“Considering the point I had now reached as the common centre from which all believers set out on the quest for a more enlightened form of religion, I merely found in natural religion the elements of all religion. I beheld the multitude of diverse sects which hold sway upon earth, each of which accuses the other of falsehood and error; which of these, I asked, is the right? Every one replied, My own;’ every one said, ‘I alone and those who agree with me think rightly, all the others are mistaken.’ And how do you know that your sect is in the right? Because God said so. And how do you know God said so? [Footnote: “All men,” said a wise and good priest, “maintain that they hold and believe their religion (and all use the same jargon), not of man, nor of any creature, but of God. But to speak truly, without pretence or flattery, none of them do so; whatever they may say, religions are taught by human hands and means; take, for example, the way in which religions have been received by the world, the way in which they are still received every day by individuals; the nation, the country, the locality gives the religion; we belong to the religion of the place where we are born and brought up; we are baptised or circumcised, we are Christians, Jews, Mohametans before we know that we are men; we do not pick and choose our religion for see how ill the life and conduct agree with the religion, see for what slight and human causes men go against the teaching of their religion.”—Charron, De la Sagesse.—It seems clear that the honest creed of the holy theologian of Condom would not have differed greatly from that of the Savoyard priest.] And who told you that God said it? My pastor, who knows all about it. My pastor tells me what to believe and I believe it; he assures me that any one who says anything else is mistaken, and I give not heed to them.

“Considering the point I've now reached as the common center from which all believers start their journey toward a more enlightened form of religion, I found in natural religion the elements of all religions. I noticed the multitude of different sects that exist on earth, each accusing the other of lies and errors; I wondered, which of these is right? Every one replied, ‘Mine;’ each claimed, ‘I alone, along with those who agree with me, think correctly, all the others are wrong.’ And how do you know your sect is right? Because God said so. And how do you know God said that? [Footnote: “All men,” said a wise and good priest, “maintain that they hold and believe their religion (and all use the same jargon), not of man, nor of any creature, but of God. But to speak truly, without pretense or flattery, none of them do so; whatever they may say, religions are taught by human hands and means; take, for example, the way in which religions have been accepted by the world, the way in which they are still accepted every day by individuals; the nation, the country, the locality gives the religion; we belong to the religion of the place where we are born and raised; we are baptized or circumcised, we are Christians, Jews, Muslims before we even know what it means to be human; we do not choose our religion, for see how poorly life and behavior align with religion, see for what trivial and human reasons people go against the teachings of their religion.” —Charron, De la Sagesse. —It seems clear that the honest beliefs of the holy theologian of Condom wouldn’t have differed much from those of the Savoyard priest.] And who told you that God said it? My pastor, who knows everything about it. My pastor tells me what to believe, and I believe it; he assures me that anyone who states otherwise is mistaken, and I don’t pay attention to them."

“What! thought I, is not truth one; can that which is true for me be false for you? If those who follow the right path and those who go astray have the same method, what merit or what blame can be assigned to one more than to the other? Their choice is the result of chance; it is unjust to hold them responsible for it, to reward or punish them for being born in one country or another. To dare to say that God judges us in this manner is an outrage on his justice.

“What! I thought, isn’t truth singular? Can what is true for me be false for you? If those who follow the right path and those who go astray use the same methods, what credit or blame can we give to one more than the other? Their choices result from chance; it’s unfair to hold them accountable for it, to reward or punish them for being born in one country or another. To claim that God judges us this way is an affront to His justice.”

“Either all religions are good and pleasing to God, or if there is one which he prescribes for men, if they will be punished for despising it, he will have distinguished it by plain and certain signs by which it can be known as the only true religion; these signs are alike in every time and place, equally plain to all men, great or small, learned or unlearned, Europeans, Indians, Africans, savages. If there were but one religion upon earth, and if all beyond its pale were condemned to eternal punishment, and if there were in any corner of the world one single honest man who was not convinced by this evidence, the God of that religion would be the most unjust and cruel of tyrants.

“Either all religions are good and pleasing to God, or if there is one that He prescribes for people, and if they will be punished for ignoring it, He will have made it clear with obvious signs that identify it as the only true religion; these signs would be clear in every time and place, equally obvious to everyone, whether they are rich or poor, educated or uneducated, Europeans, Indians, Africans, or even those considered savages. If there was only one true religion on Earth, and everyone outside of it was doomed to eternal punishment, and if in any part of the world there was even one honest person who wasn’t convinced by this evidence, then the God of that religion would be the most unjust and cruel tyrant imaginable.”

“Let us therefore seek honestly after truth; let us yield nothing to the claims of birth, to the authority of parents and pastors, but let us summon to the bar of conscience and of reason all that they have taught us from our childhood. In vain do they exclaim, Submit your reason;’ a deceiver might say as much; I must have reasons for submitting my reason.

“Let’s honestly seek the truth; let’s not give in to the demands of birth or the authority of parents and pastors, but instead, let’s examine everything they taught us since we were kids with our own conscience and reasoning. It’s pointless for them to shout, ‘Submit your reason;’ a deceiver could say the same; I need to have reasons for submitting my reasoning.”

“All the theology I can get for myself by observation of the universe and by the use of my faculties is contained in what I have already told you. To know more one must have recourse to strange means. These means cannot be the authority of men, for every man is of the same species as myself, and all that a man knows by nature I am capable of knowing, and another may be deceived as much as I; when I believe what he says, it is not because he says it but because he proves its truth. The witness of man is therefore nothing more than the witness of my own reason, and it adds nothing to the natural means which God has given me for the knowledge of truth.

“All the theology I can figure out from observing the universe and using my own abilities is what I’ve already shared with you. To learn more, one has to resort to unusual methods. These methods can’t rely on the authority of people, since every person is just like me, and all that anyone knows by nature is something I can understand too. Someone else can be just as easily misled as I can; when I trust what they say, it’s not because of their authority but because they can show me it’s true. So, the testimony of a person is really just the testimony of my own reason, and it doesn’t add anything to the natural means God has given me to know the truth.”

“Apostle of truth, what have you to tell me of which I am not the sole judge? God himself has spoken; give heed to his revelation. That is another matter. God has spoken, these are indeed words which demand attention. To whom has he spoken? He has spoken to men. Why then have I heard nothing? He has instructed others to make known his words to you. I understand; it is men who come and tell me what God has said. I would rather have heard the words of God himself; it would have been as easy for him and I should have been secure from fraud. He protects you from fraud by showing that his envoys come from him. How does he show this? By miracles. Where are these miracles? In the books. And who wrote the books? Men. And who saw the miracles? The men who bear witness to them. What! Nothing but human testimony! Nothing but men who tell me what others told them! How many men between God and me! Let us see, however, let us examine, compare, and verify. Oh! if God had but deigned to free me from all this labour, I would have served him with all my heart.

“Apostle of truth, what can you tell me that I can't judge for myself? God himself has spoken; pay attention to his revelation. That's a different issue. God has spoken; these are indeed words that deserve attention. To whom has he spoken? He has spoken to people. So why haven’t I heard anything? He instructed others to share his words with you. I get it; it's people who come and tell me what God has said. I would have preferred to hear God's words directly; it would have been just as easy for him, and I would have been safeguarded from deception. He protects you from deceit by showing that his messengers come from him. How does he demonstrate this? Through miracles. Where are these miracles? In the books. And who wrote the books? People. And who witnessed the miracles? The people who testify to them. What! Just human testimony! Just people telling me what others told them! How many people are there between God and me! Let's examine this; let’s check, compare, and verify. Oh! If only God had chosen to relieve me of all this effort, I would have served him wholeheartedly.

“Consider, my friend, the terrible controversy in which I am now engaged; what vast learning is required to go back to the remotest antiquity, to examine, weigh, confront prophecies, revelations, facts, all the monuments of faith set forth throughout the world, to assign their date, place, authorship, and occasion. What exactness of critical judgment is needed to distinguish genuine documents from forgeries, to compare objections with their answers, translations with their originals; to decide as to the impartiality of witnesses, their common-sense, their knowledge; to make sure that nothing has been omitted, nothing added, nothing transposed, altered, or falsified; to point out any remaining contradictions, to determine what weight should be given to the silence of our adversaries with regard to the charges brought against them; how far were they aware of those charges; did they think them sufficiently serious to require an answer; were books sufficiently well known for our books to reach them; have we been honest enough to allow their books to circulate among ourselves and to leave their strongest objections unaltered?

“Think about, my friend, the intense debate I'm currently involved in; the immense knowledge required to trace back to the earliest times, to examine, analyze, and compare prophecies, revelations, facts, and all the symbols of faith presented around the world, to identify their date, location, authorship, and purpose. What precision in critical thinking is necessary to tell apart authentic documents from fakes, to contrast objections with their responses, translations with their originals; to assess the impartiality of witnesses, their common sense, their familiarity; to ensure that nothing has been overlooked, nothing added, nothing rearranged, changed, or falsified; to highlight any remaining inconsistencies, to evaluate how much importance should be placed on the silence of our opponents concerning the accusations made against them; how aware they were of those accusations; did they consider them serious enough to warrant a response; were the books well-known enough for our works to reach them; have we been fair enough to let their works circulate among us and to keep their strongest objections intact?

“When the authenticity of all these documents is accepted, we must now pass to the evidence of their authors’ mission; we must know the laws of chance, and probability, to decide which prophecy cannot be fulfilled without a miracle; we must know the spirit of the original languages, to distinguish between prophecy and figures of speech; we must know what facts are in accordance with nature and what facts are not, so that we may say how far a clever man may deceive the eyes of the simple and may even astonish the learned; we must discover what are the characteristics of a prodigy and how its authenticity may be established, not only so far as to gain credence, but so that doubt may be deserving of punishment; we must compare the evidence for true and false miracles, and find sure tests to distinguish between them; lastly we must say why God chose as a witness to his words means which themselves require so much evidence on their behalf, as if he were playing with human credulity, and avoiding of set purpose the true means of persuasion.

“When we accept the authenticity of all these documents, we must then move on to the evidence of their authors’ mission; we need to understand the laws of chance and probability to determine which prophecy can only be fulfilled through a miracle; we must grasp the spirit of the original languages to differentiate between prophecy and figures of speech; we must know which facts align with nature and which do not, so we can identify how far a clever person might deceive simple minds and even surprise the knowledgeable; we need to determine the characteristics of a prodigy and how its authenticity can be established, not just to gain belief, but to make doubt merit punishment; we must compare the evidence for genuine and false miracles, and find reliable tests to tell them apart; finally, we need to understand why God chose as witnesses to his words means that themselves require so much evidence, as if he were toying with human credulity and deliberately avoiding the true methods of persuasion."

“Assuming that the divine majesty condescends so far as to make a man the channel of his sacred will, is it reasonable, is it fair, to demand that the whole of mankind should obey the voice of this minister without making him known as such? Is it just to give him as his sole credentials certain private signs, performed in the presence of a few obscure persons, signs which everybody else can only know by hearsay? If one were to believe all the miracles that the uneducated and credulous profess to have seen in every country upon earth, every sect would be in the right; there would be more miracles than ordinary events; and it would be the greatest miracle if there were no miracles wherever there were persecuted fanatics. The unchangeable order of nature is the chief witness to the wise hand that guides it; if there were many exceptions, I should hardly know what to think; for my own part I have too great a faith in God to believe in so many miracles which are so little worthy of him.

“Assuming that divine majesty chooses to use a person as a channel for its sacred will, is it reasonable or fair to expect everyone to follow this minister without revealing his identity as such? Is it just to provide him with only a few private signs, shown in front of a couple of obscure people, signs that everyone else can only hear about through rumors? If we were to believe all the miracles that the uneducated and gullible claim to have witnessed in every part of the world, then every group would be right; there would be more miracles than ordinary events; and it would be the biggest miracle if there were no miracles wherever there are persecuted fanatics. The consistent order of nature is the strongest evidence for the wise hand that directs it; if there were many exceptions, I would hardly know what to think; for my part, I have too much faith in God to believe in so many miracles that are so unworthy of Him.”

“Let a man come and say to us: Mortals, I proclaim to you the will of the Most Highest; accept my words as those of him who has sent me; I bid the sun to change his course, the stars to range themselves in a fresh order, the high places to become smooth, the floods to rise up, the earth to change her face. By these miracles who will not recognise the master of nature? She does not obey impostors, their miracles are wrought in holes and corners, in deserts, within closed doors, where they find easy dupes among a small company of spectators already disposed to believe them. Who will venture to tell me how many eye-witnesses are required to make a miracle credible! What use are your miracles, performed if proof of your doctrine, if they themselves require so much proof! You might as well have let them alone.

“Let someone come and say to us: Mortals, I bring you the will of the Most High; accept my words as those of the one who sent me; I command the sun to change its path, the stars to align in a new order, the high places to be made smooth, the waters to rise, the earth to change its appearance. With these miracles, who wouldn't recognize the master of nature? Nature does not obey frauds; their miracles happen in hidden places, in deserts, behind closed doors, where they find easy victims among a small group of spectators already inclined to believe them. Who is willing to tell me how many witnesses are needed for a miracle to be believable? What good are your miracles if they need evidence of your teachings, when they themselves require so much proof? You might as well have left them alone.”

“There still remains the most important inquiry of all with regard to the doctrine proclaimed; for since those who tell us God works miracles in this world, profess that the devil sometimes imitates them, when we have found the best attested miracles we have got very little further; and since the magicians of Pharaoh dared in the presence of Moses to counterfeit the very signs he wrought at God’s command, why should they not, behind his back, claim a like authority? So when we have proved our doctrine by means of miracles, we must prove our miracles by means of doctrine, [Footnote: This is expressly stated in many passages of Scripture, among others in Deuteronomy xiii., where it is said that when a prophet preaching strange gods confirms his words by means of miracles and what he foretells comes to pass, far from giving heed to him, this prophet must be put to death. If then the heathen put the apostles to death when they preached a strange god and confirmed their words by miracles which came to pass I cannot see what grounds we have for complaint which they could not at once turn against us. Now, what should be done in such a case? There is only one course; to return to argument and let the miracles alone. It would have been better not to have had recourse to them at all. That is plain common-sense which can only be obscured by great subtlety of distinction. Subtleties in Christianity! So Jesus Christ was mistaken when he promised the kingdom of heaven to the simple, he was mistaken when he began his finest discourse with the praise of the poor in spirit, if so much wit is needed to understand his teaching and to get others to believe in him. When you have convinced me that submission is my duty, all will be well; but to convince me of this, come down to my level; adapt your arguments to a lowly mind, or I shall not recognise you as a true disciple of your master, and it is not his doctrine that you are teaching me.] for fear lest we should take the devil’s doings for the handiwork of God. What think you of this dilemma?

“There still remains the most important question regarding the doctrine being presented; since those who say God performs miracles in this world also claim that the devil can imitate them, when we find the best-supported miracles, we haven't really moved much further. And since Pharaoh's magicians dared to replicate the very signs Moses performed at God’s command, why wouldn't they claim the same authority when he isn’t around? So once we’ve validated our doctrine with miracles, we need to validate our miracles with doctrine. [Footnote: This is explicitly stated in many parts of Scripture, including Deuteronomy 13, where it's said that when a prophet preaching strange gods backs up his words with miracles and what he predicts comes true, rather than listening to him, this prophet must be put to death. If the heathens executed the apostles for preaching a strange god and confirming their messages with miracles that came to pass, I don't see what justification we have for complaints that they couldn’t immediately turn against us. So, what should be done in such cases? The only path is to return to logical argumentation and set aside the miracles. It would have been better not to rely on them at all. That is straightforward common sense, which can only be confused by overly intricate distinctions. Intricacies in Christianity! So, was Jesus Christ wrong when he promised the kingdom of heaven to the simple? Was he wrong when he began his greatest discourse with praise for the humble? If so much cleverness is required to understand his teachings and to lead others to believe in him. Once you've convinced me that submission is my duty, everything will be fine; but to convince me of this, come down to my level; adjust your arguments to a simple mind, or I won’t recognize you as a true disciple of your master, and it's not his doctrine you're teaching me.] because of fear that we might mistake the devil's actions for God's handiwork. What do you think of this dilemma?

“This doctrine, if it comes from God, should bear the sacred stamp of the godhead; not only should it illumine the troubled thoughts which reason imprints on our minds, but it should also offer us a form of worship, a morality, and rules of conduct in accordance with the attributes by means of which we alone conceive of God’s essence. If then it teaches us what is absurd and unreasonable, if it inspires us with feelings of aversion for our fellows and terror for ourselves, if it paints us a God, angry, jealous, revengeful, partial, hating men, a God of war and battles, ever ready to strike and to destroy, ever speaking of punishment and torment, boasting even of the punishment of the innocent, my heart would not be drawn towards this terrible God, I would take good care not to quit the realm of natural religion to embrace such a religion as that; for you see plainly I must choose between them. Your God is not ours. He who begins by selecting a chosen people, and proscribing the rest of mankind, is not our common father; he who consigns to eternal punishment the greater part of his creatures, is not the merciful and gracious God revealed to me by my reason.

“This belief, if it truly comes from God, should clearly reflect the divine nature; not only should it clarify the troubled thoughts that reason brings to our minds, but it should also provide us with a way to worship, a moral framework, and guidelines for behavior that align with the qualities through which we understand God's essence. If it teaches us what is absurd and irrational, if it fills us with dislike for others and fear for ourselves, if it depicts a God who is angry, jealous, vengeful, biased, and hateful towards humanity, a God of war and conflict, always ready to punish and destroy, always talking about retribution and suffering, even taking pride in punishing the innocent, then my heart would not be inclined toward this frightening God. I would be careful not to abandon natural religion to adopt such a belief system; clearly, I must choose between the two. Your God is not our God. The one who starts by choosing a particular people while excluding the rest of humanity is not our universal father; the one who condemns most of his creations to eternal punishment is not the merciful and gracious God that my reason has revealed to me.”

“Reason tells me that dogmas should be plain, clear, and striking in their simplicity. If there is something lacking in natural religion, it is with respect to the obscurity in which it leaves the great truths it teaches; revelation should teach us these truths in a way which the mind of man can understand; it should bring them within his reach, make him comprehend them, so that he may believe them. Faith is confirmed and strengthened by understanding; the best religion is of necessity the simplest. He who hides beneath mysteries and contradictions the religion that he preaches to me, teaches me at the same time to distrust that religion. The God whom I adore is not the God of darkness, he has not given me understanding in order to forbid me to use it; to tell me to submit my reason is to insult the giver of reason. The minister of truth does not tyrannise over my reason, he enlightens it.

"Reason tells me that beliefs should be straightforward, clear, and striking in their simplicity. If there's one thing missing in natural religion, it's the confusion surrounding the important truths it teaches. Revelation should convey these truths in a way that people can understand; it should make them accessible, allowing us to grasp them so that we can believe them. Faith is confirmed and strengthened by comprehension; the best religion is necessarily the simplest. When someone cloaks the religion they preach to me in mysteries and contradictions, they are also teaching me to be suspicious of that religion. The God I worship is not a God of darkness; He hasn't given me understanding just to restrict its use. To ask me to suppress my reason is to insult the giver of reason. The minister of truth does not overpower my reason; he enlightens it."

“We have set aside all human authority, and without it I do not see how any man can convince another by preaching a doctrine contrary to reason. Let them fight it out, and let us see what they have to say with that harshness of speech which is common to both.

“We have disregarded all human authority, and without it, I don’t see how anyone can persuade another by promoting an idea that goes against reason. Let them argue it out, and let’s see what they have to say with that harshness of speech that both sides are known for.”

“INSPIRATION: Reason tells you that the whole is greater than the part; but I tell you, in God’s name, that the part is greater than the whole.

“INSPIRATION: Logic tells you that the whole is greater than the part; but I tell you, in God’s name, that the part is greater than the whole.

“REASON: And who are you to dare to tell me that God contradicts himself? And which shall I choose to believe. God who teaches me, through my reason, the eternal truth, or you who, in his name, proclaim an absurdity?

“REASON: And who are you to tell me that God contradicts himself? And who should I choose to believe? God, who teaches me the eternal truth through my reason, or you, who proclaim absurdities in His name?”

“INSPIRATION: Believe me, for my teaching is more positive; and I will prove to you beyond all manner of doubt that he has sent me.

“INSPIRATION: Trust me, my teachings are more certain; and I will show you beyond any doubt that he has sent me.”

“REASON: What! you will convince me that God has sent you to bear witness against himself? What sort of proofs will you adduce to convince me that God speaks more surely by your mouth than through the understanding he has given me?

“REASON: What! Are you really trying to convince me that God has sent you to testify against Himself? What kind of evidence will you present to show me that God communicates more clearly through you than through the understanding He has given me?

“INSPIRATION: The understanding he has given you! Petty, conceited creature! As if you were the first impious person who had been led astray through his reason corrupted by sin.

“INSPIRATION: The understanding he has given you! Small-minded, arrogant creature! As if you were the first person to be misled by a mind twisted by sin.

“REASON: Man of God, you would not be the first scoundrel who asserts his arrogance as a proof of his mission.

“REASON: Man of God, you wouldn't be the first shady character who uses his arrogance as proof of his calling.

“INSPIRATION: What! do even philosophers call names?

“INSPIRATION: What! Do even philosophers insult each other?”

“REASON: Sometimes, when the saints set them the example.

“REASON: Sometimes, when the saints show them how it's done.

“INSPIRATION: Oh, but I have a right to do it, for I am speaking on God’s behalf.

“INSPIRATION: Oh, but I have a right to do this because I am speaking on God’s behalf.

“REASON: You would do well to show your credentials before you make use of your privileges.

“REASON: It would be wise to present your credentials before using your privileges.

“INSPIRATION: My credentials are authentic, earth and heaven will bear witness on my behalf. Follow my arguments carefully, if you please.

“INSPIRATION: My credentials are real; both earth and heaven will vouch for me. Please follow my reasoning closely.”

“REASON: Your arguments! You forget what you are saying. When you teach me that my reason misleads me, do you not refute what it might have said on your behalf? He who denies the right of reason, must convince me without recourse to her aid. For suppose you have convinced me by reason, how am I to know that it is not my reason, corrupted by sin, which makes me accept what you say? besides, what proof, what demonstration, can you advance, more self-evident than the axiom it is to destroy? It is more credible that a good syllogism is a lie, than that the part is greater than the whole.

“REASON: Your arguments! You forget what you're saying. When you tell me that my reasoning misleads me, aren’t you undermining what it might support for you? Anyone who denies the validity of reason needs to convince me without using it. Because if you’ve convinced me by reason, how can I be sure it’s not my own reason, flawed by sin, that makes me accept what you're saying? Plus, what proof or demonstration can you offer that's more obvious than the principle you’re trying to disprove? It’s more believable that a good argument is a lie than that the part is greater than the whole.”

“INSPIRATION: What a difference! There is no answer to my evidence; it is of a supernatural kind.

“INSPIRATION: What a difference! There is no explanation for my evidence; it’s clearly something supernatural.”

“REASON: Supernatural! What do you mean by the word? I do not understand it.

“REASON: Supernatural! What do you mean by that term? I don't understand it.”

“INSPIRATION: I mean changes in the order of nature, prophecies, signs, and wonders of every kind.

“INSPIRATION: I’m talking about changes in the natural order, prophecies, signs, and all kinds of wonders."

“REASON: Signs and wonders! I have never seen anything of the kind.

“REASON: Incredible signs and wonders! I have never seen anything like this.”

“INSPIRATION: Others have seen them for you. Clouds of witnesses—the witness of whole nations....

“INSPIRATION: Others have seen them for you. Clouds of witnesses—the witness of entire nations....

“REASON: Is the witness of nations supernatural?

“REASON: Is the testimony of nations supernatural?

“INSPIRATION: No; but when it is unanimous, it is incontestable.

“INSPIRATION: No; but when it’s unanimous, it’s undeniable.”

“REASON: There is nothing so incontestable as the principles of reason, and one cannot accept an absurdity on human evidence. Once more, let us see your supernatural evidence, for the consent of mankind is not supernatural.

“REASON: There is nothing as undeniable as the principles of reason, and you cannot accept something absurd based on human evidence. Once again, let's look at your supernatural evidence, because the agreement of humanity is not supernatural.”

“INSPIRATION: Oh, hardened heart, grace does not speak to you.

“INSPIRATION: Oh, tough heart, grace doesn’t reach you.

“REASON: That is not my fault; for by your own showing, one must have already received grace before one is able to ask for it. Begin by speaking to me in its stead.

“REASON: That’s not my fault; according to your own argument, you have to have already received grace before you can ask for it. Start by talking to me instead.”

“INSPIRATION: But that is just what I am doing, and you will not listen. But what do you say to prophecy?

“INSPIRATION: But that's exactly what I'm doing, and you won't listen. But what do you think about prophecy?

“REASON: In the first place, I say I have no more heard a prophet than I have seen a miracle. In the next, I say that no prophet could claim authority over me.

“REASON: First of all, I say I have not heard a prophet any more than I have seen a miracle. Additionally, I say that no prophet could have authority over me.”

“INSPIRATION: Follower of the devil! Why should not the words of the prophets have authority over you?

“INSPIRATION: Follower of the devil! Why shouldn't the words of the prophets hold authority over you?

“REASON: Because three things are required, three things which will never happen: firstly, I must have heard the prophecy; secondly, I must have seen its fulfilment; and thirdly, it must be clearly proved that the fulfilment of the prophecy could not by any possibility have been a mere coincidence; for even if it was as precise, as plain, and clear as an axiom of geometry, since the clearness of a chance prediction does not make its fulfilment impossible, this fulfilment when it does take place does not, strictly speaking, prove what was foretold.

“REASON: Because three things are needed, three things that will never happen: first, I must have heard the prophecy; second, I must have witnessed its fulfillment; and third, it must be clearly proven that the fulfillment of the prophecy couldn’t possibly be just a coincidence; because even if it was as exact, obvious, and clear as a geometric axiom, the clarity of a chance prediction doesn’t make its fulfillment impossible, and when it does occur, it doesn’t, strictly speaking, prove what was predicted.”

“See what your so-called supernatural proofs, your miracles, your prophecies come to: believe all this upon the word of another. Submit to the authority of men the authority of God which speaks to my reason. If the eternal truths which my mind conceives of could suffer any shock, there would be no sort of certainty for me; and far from being sure that you speak to me on God’s behalf, I should not even be sure that there is a God.

“Look at what your so-called supernatural evidence, your miracles, and your prophecies amount to: believing all this on someone else's word. You want me to submit to the authority of men over the authority of God that speaks to my reason. If the eternal truths that I conceive could be shaken in any way, there would be no certainty for me at all; and far from being sure that you are speaking for God, I wouldn’t even be sure that God exists.”

“My child, here are difficulties enough, but these are not all. Among so many religions, mutually excluding and proscribing each other, one only is true, if indeed any one of them is true. To recognise the true religion we must inquire into, not one, but all; and in any question whatsoever we have no right to condemn unheard. [Footnote: On the other hand, Plutarch relates that the Stoics maintained, among other strange paradoxes, that it was no use hearing both sides; for, said they, the first either proves his point or he does not prove it; if he has proved it, there is an end of it, and the other should be condemned: if he has not proved it, he himself is in the wrong and judgment should be given against him. I consider the method of those who accept an exclusive revelation very much like that of these Stoics. When each of them claims to be the sole guardian of truth, we must hear them all before we can choose between them without injustice.] The objections must be compared with the evidence; we must know what accusation each brings against the other, and what answers they receive. The plainer any feeling appears to us, the more we must try to discover why so many other people refuse to accept it. We should be simple, indeed, if we thought it enough to hear the doctors on our own side, in order to acquaint ourselves with the arguments of the other. Where can you find theologians who pride themselves on their honesty? Where are those who, to refute the arguments of their opponents, do not begin by making out that they are of little importance? A man may make a good show among his own friends, and be very proud of his arguments, who would cut a very poor figure with those same arguments among those who are on the other side. Would you find out for yourself from books? What learning you will need! What languages you must learn; what libraries you must ransack; what an amount of reading must be got through! Who will guide me in such a choice? It will be hard to find the best books on the opposite side in any one country, and all the harder to find those on all sides; when found they would be easily answered. The absent are always in the wrong, and bad arguments boldly asserted easily efface good arguments put forward with scorn. Besides books are often very misleading, and scarcely express the opinions of their authors. If you think you can judge the Catholic faith from the writings of Bossuet, you will find yourself greatly mistaken when you have lived among us. You will see that the doctrines with which Protestants are answered are quite different from those of the pulpit. To judge a religion rightly, you must not study it in the books of its partisans, you must learn it in their lives; this is quite another matter. Each religion has its own traditions, meaning, customs, prejudices, which form the spirit of its creed, and must be taken in connection with it.

“My child, there are plenty of challenges here, but these aren’t all of them. Among all the religions that reject and oppose each other, only one is true, if any of them is true at all. To recognize the true religion, we need to look into not just one, but all of them; and in any situation, we don’t have the right to judge without hearing the other side. [Footnote: On the other hand, Plutarch tells us that the Stoics believed, among other odd ideas, that there was no point in hearing both sides; because, they said, the first speaker either proves his point or he doesn’t. If he proves it, that’s the end of it, and the other should be dismissed. If he hasn’t proved it, he’s in the wrong, and the judgment should go against him. I think the way those who claim exclusive revelation operate is very similar to the Stoics. When each claims to be the only keeper of the truth, we need to listen to them all before we can choose between them fairly.] The objections need to be weighed against the evidence; we have to know what accusations each side makes against the other and what responses they get. The clearer a feeling seems to us, the harder we must try to understand why so many others reject it. It would be naive to think that listening only to the experts on our side is enough to grasp the arguments from the other. Where can you find theologians who take pride in their honesty? Where are those who, to counter their opponents’ arguments, don’t start by diminishing their importance? A person might look impressive among their own friends and feel proud of their arguments, but those same arguments might not hold up well against someone from the opposing side. Do you think you can learn everything from books? Just imagine the amount of knowledge you’ll need! What languages you’ll have to learn, which libraries you’ll need to comb through, and how much reading you have to do! Who will help me make such choices? It’s hard enough to find the best books on one side in any country, and finding those on all sides is even tougher; when you do find them, they can often be easily countered. The absent are always at a disadvantage, and weak arguments, confidently declared, can easily overshadow strong arguments presented with scorn. Plus, books can be very misleading and often fail to accurately reflect their authors’ views. If you think you can understand the Catholic faith just from Bossuet’s writings, you’ll be greatly mistaken once you’ve spent time with us. You’ll see that the doctrines addressed to Protestants are quite different from what is preached. To properly judge a religion, you shouldn’t study it through the books of its supporters; you need to learn it through their lives; that’s a whole different thing. Each religion has its own traditions, meanings, customs, and biases that shape its beliefs, and those must be understood in context.”

“How many great nations neither print books of their own nor read ours! How shall they judge of our opinions, or we of theirs? We laugh at them, they despise us; and if our travellers turn them into ridicule, they need only travel among us to pay us back in our own coin. Are there not, in every country, men of common-sense, honesty, and good faith, lovers of truth, who only seek to know what truth is that they may profess it? Yet every one finds truth in his own religion, and thinks the religion of other nations absurd; so all these foreign religions are not so absurd as they seem to us, or else the reason we find for our own proves nothing.

“How many great nations neither publish their own books nor read ours! How can they judge our opinions, or we theirs? We laugh at them, and they look down on us; and if our travelers make fun of them, they just need to travel among us to return the favor. Aren’t there, in every country, sensible, honest, and trustworthy people who love the truth and just want to know what it is so they can share it? Yet everyone finds truth in their own religion and thinks the religions of other nations are ridiculous; so, all these foreign religions aren't as absurd as they appear to us, or else the reasons we find for our own don’t prove anything.

“We have three principal forms of religion in Europe. One accepts one revelation, another two, and another three. Each hates the others, showers curses on them, accuses them of blindness, obstinacy, hardness of heart, and falsehood. What fair-minded man will dare to decide between them without first carefully weighing their evidence, without listening attentively to their arguments? That which accepts only one revelation is the oldest and seems the best established; that which accepts three is the newest and seems the most consistent; that which accepts two revelations and rejects the third may perhaps be the best, but prejudice is certainly against it; its inconsistency is glaring.

"We have three main forms of religion in Europe. One accepts one revelation, another accepts two, and another accepts three. Each one despises the others, curses them, accuses them of ignorance, stubbornness, unfeelingness, and dishonesty. What fair-minded person would dare to choose between them without carefully considering their evidence and listening closely to their arguments? The one that accepts only one revelation is the oldest and seems the most established; the one that accepts three is the newest and appears the most consistent; the one that accepts two revelations and rejects the third might be the best, but there is certainly bias against it; its inconsistency is obvious."

“In all three revelations the sacred books are written in languages unknown to the people who believe in them. The Jews no longer understand Hebrew, the Christians understand neither Hebrew nor Greek; the Turks and Persians do not understand Arabic, and the Arabs of our time do not speak the language of Mahomet. Is not it a very foolish way of teaching, to teach people in an unknown tongue? These books are translated, you say. What an answer! How am I to know that the translations are correct, or how am I to make sure that such a thing as a correct translation is possible? If God has gone so far as to speak to men, why should he require an interpreter?

“In all three revelations, the sacred texts are written in languages that are unfamiliar to the people who believe in them. The Jews no longer understand Hebrew, Christians don’t know Hebrew or Greek; the Turks and Persians can’t understand Arabic, and today's Arabs don’t speak the language of Muhammad. Isn’t it quite foolish to teach people in an unknown language? You say these books are translated. What a response! How can I be sure that the translations are accurate, or that a correct translation is even possible? If God has gone to the extent of speaking to people, why would He need an interpreter?”

“I can never believe that every man is obliged to know what is contained in books, and that he who is out of reach of these books, and of those who understand them, will be punished for an ignorance which is no fault of his. Books upon books! What madness! As all Europe is full of books, Europeans regard them as necessary, forgetting that they are unknown throughout three-quarters of the globe. Were not all these books written by men? Why then should a man need them to teach him his duty, and how did he learn his duty before these books were in existence? Either he must have learnt his duties for himself, or his ignorance must have been excused.

“I can’t believe that everyone is expected to know what’s in books, and that someone who doesn’t have access to these books or those who understand them should be punished for an ignorance that isn’t their fault. Books upon books! What madness! Since Europe is filled with books, Europeans see them as essential, forgetting that they’re unknown to three-quarters of the world. Weren’t all these books written by people? So why does anyone need them to learn their responsibilities, and how did they figure out their responsibilities before these books existed? Either they must have learned their duties on their own, or their ignorance should be excused.”

“Our Catholics talk loudly of the authority of the Church; but what is the use of it all, if they also need just as great an array of proofs to establish that authority as the other seeks to establish their doctrine? The Church decides that the Church has a right to decide. What a well-founded authority! Go beyond it, and you are back again in our discussions.

“Our Catholics speak passionately about the authority of the Church; but what's the point if they also need just as much evidence to back that authority as others do to support their beliefs? The Church claims it has the right to make decisions. What a solid foundation for authority! Go beyond that, and you find yourself back in our debates.”

“Do you know many Christians who have taken the trouble to inquire what the Jews allege against them? If any one knows anything at all about it, it is from the writings of Christians. What a way of ascertaining the arguments of our adversaries! But what is to be done? If any one dared to publish in our day books which were openly in favour of the Jewish religion, we should punish the author, publisher, and bookseller. This regulation is a sure and certain plan for always being in the right. It is easy to refute those who dare not venture to speak.

“Do you know many Christians who have bothered to find out what the Jews say about them? If anyone knows anything, it’s from Christian writings. What a way to understand our opponents’ arguments! But what can we do? If someone had the guts to publish books openly supporting the Jewish religion today, we would punish the author, publisher, and bookseller. This rule is a foolproof plan for always being right. It’s easy to refute those who are too afraid to speak up.”

“Those among us who have the opportunity of talking with Jews are little better off. These unhappy people feel that they are in our power; the tyranny they have suffered makes them timid; they know that Christian charity thinks nothing of injustice and cruelty; will they dare to run the risk of an outcry against blasphemy? Our greed inspires us with zeal, and they are so rich that they must be in the wrong. The more learned, the more enlightened they are, the more cautious. You may convert some poor wretch whom you have paid to slander his religion; you get some wretched old-clothes-man to speak, and he says what you want; you may triumph over their ignorance and cowardice, while all the time their men of learning are laughing at your stupidity. But do you think you would get off so easily in any place where they knew they were safe! At the Sorbonne it is plain that the Messianic prophecies refer to Jesus Christ. Among the rabbis of Amsterdam it is just as clear that they have nothing to do with him. I do not think I have ever heard the arguments of the Jews as to why they should not have a free state, schools and universities, where they can speak and argue without danger. Then alone can we know what they have to say.

“Those of us who have the chance to talk to Jews aren’t much better off. These unfortunate people feel like they’re at our mercy; the oppression they’ve faced makes them timid. They know that Christian kindness often overlooks injustice and cruelty; will they risk facing accusations of blasphemy? Our greed drives us with passion, and since they are so wealthy, people assume they must be in the wrong. The more educated and knowledgeable they are, the more careful they become. You might convert some poor soul you’ve paid to speak against his religion; you can get a down-and-out secondhand dealer to say what you want, and you might feel victorious over their ignorance and fear. Meanwhile, their scholars are laughing at your foolishness. But do you really think you’d get off so easily in a place where they felt safe? At the Sorbonne, it’s obvious that the Messianic prophecies refer to Jesus Christ. Among the rabbis of Amsterdam, it’s just as clear that they have nothing to do with him. I don’t think I’ve ever heard the Jews’ arguments about why they shouldn’t have their own state, schools, and universities where they can speak and debate without fear. Only then can we truly understand what they have to say.”

“At Constantinople the Turks state their arguments, but we dare not give ours; then it is our turn to cringe. Can we blame the Turks if they require us to show the same respect for Mahomet, in whom we do not believe, as we demand from the Jews with regard to Jesus Christ in whom they do not believe? Are we right? On what grounds of justice can we answer this question?

“At Constantinople, the Turks present their arguments, but we hesitate to share ours; instead, we end up bowing down to them. Can we fault the Turks for expecting us to show the same respect for Muhammad, whom we don’t believe in, as we ask the Jews to show for Jesus Christ, whom they don’t believe in? Are we justified in this? What basis of fairness can we use to respond to this question?”

“Two-thirds of mankind are neither Jews, Mahometans, nor Christians; and how many millions of men have never heard the name of Moses, Jesus Christ, or Mahomet? They deny it; they maintain that our missionaries go everywhere. That is easily said. But do they go into the heart of Africa, still undiscovered, where as yet no European has ever ventured? Do they go to Eastern Tartary to follow on horseback the wandering tribes, whom no stranger approaches, who not only know nothing of the pope, but have scarcely heard tell of the Grand Lama! Do they penetrate into the vast continents of America, where there are still whole nations unaware that the people of another world have set foot on their shores? Do they go to Japan, where their intrigues have led to their perpetual banishment, where their predecessors are only known to the rising generation as skilful plotters who came with feigned zeal to take possession in secret of the empire? Do they reach the harems of the Asiatic princes to preach the gospel to those thousands of poor slaves? What have the women of those countries done that no missionary may preach the faith to them? Will they all go to hell because of their seclusion?

“Two-thirds of humanity are neither Jews, Muslims, nor Christians; and how many millions of people have never even heard the names of Moses, Jesus Christ, or Muhammad? They claim our missionaries are everywhere. That's easy to say. But do they go into the heart of Africa, still unexplored, where no European has ever set foot? Do they ride into Eastern Tartary to follow the nomadic tribes that no outsider approaches, who not only know nothing of the pope but have barely heard of the Grand Lama? Do they venture into the vast continents of America, where there are still entire nations unaware that people from another world have landed on their shores? Do they go to Japan, where their schemes have led to their ongoing banishment, where their predecessors are only known to the younger generation as cunning plotters who came with fake zeal to secretly take over the empire? Do they reach the harems of Asian princes to preach the gospel to those thousands of poor enslaved women? What have those women done that no missionary can share the faith with them? Will they all go to hell because of their isolation?

“If it were true that the gospel is preached throughout the world, what advantage would there be? The day before the first missionary set foot in any country, no doubt somebody died who could not hear him. Now tell me what we shall do with him? If there were a single soul in the whole world, to whom Jesus Christ had never been preached, this objection would be as strong for that man as for a quarter of the human race.

“If it were true that the gospel is preached all over the world, what benefit would that be? The day before the first missionary arrived in any country, there’s no doubt someone died who never got to hear him. So, what should we do with that person? If there was even one soul in the entire world who had never heard about Jesus Christ, this issue would apply just as strongly to that individual as it would to a quarter of humanity.”

“If the ministers of the gospel have made themselves heard among far-off nations, what have they told them which might reasonably be accepted on their word, without further and more exact verification? You preach to me God, born and dying, two thousand years ago, at the other end of the world, in some small town I know not where; and you tell me that all who have not believed this mystery are damned. These are strange things to be believed so quickly on the authority of an unknown person. Why did your God make these things happen so far off, if he would compel me to know about them? Is it a crime to be unaware of what is happening half a world away? Could I guess that in another hemisphere there was a Hebrew nation and a town called Jerusalem? You might as well expect me to know what was happening in the moon. You say you have come to teach me; but why did you not come and teach my father, or why do you consign that good old man to damnation because he knew nothing of all this? Must he be punished everlastingly for your laziness, he who was so kind and helpful, he who sought only for truth? Be honest; put yourself in my place; see if I ought to believe, on your word alone, all these incredible things which you have told me, and reconcile all this injustice with the just God you proclaim to me. At least allow me to go and see this distant land where such wonders, unheard of in my own country, took place; let me go and see why the inhabitants of Jerusalem put their God to death as a robber. You tell me they did not know he was God. What then shall I do, I who have only heard of him from you? You say they have been punished, dispersed, oppressed, enslaved; that none of them dare approach that town. Indeed they richly deserved it; but what do its present inhabitants say of their crime in slaying their God! They deny him; they too refuse to recognise God as God. They are no better than the children of the original inhabitants.

“If the ministers of the gospel have shared their message with distant nations, what have they said that I should accept without more thorough verification? You preach to me about God, who was born and died two thousand years ago, on the other side of the world, in some small town I’ve never heard of; and you tell me that everyone who doesn’t believe this mystery is damned. It’s strange to expect such extraordinary claims to be accepted so quickly based on the authority of someone unknown to me. Why did your God allow these events to happen so far away if he expects me to know about them? Is it really a crime to be unaware of what’s happening halfway across the globe? How could I even guess that in another hemisphere there was a Hebrew nation and a city called Jerusalem? You might as well expect me to know what’s going on on the moon. You say you’re here to teach me; but why didn’t you come and teach my father? Why do you condemn that good man to damnation just because he didn’t know anything about this? Must he suffer endlessly for your inaction, he who was so kind and helpful, always seeking the truth? Be honest; put yourself in my shoes; see if I should truly believe, solely on your word, all these unbelievable things you’ve told me, and justify this injustice with the just God you present to me. At least let me go and see this faraway land where such wonders, unheard of in my own country, took place; let me find out why the people of Jerusalem executed their God like a criminal. You say they didn’t recognize him as God. So what should I do, only having heard about him from you? You say they’ve been punished, scattered, oppressed, enslaved; that none of them dare approach that city. They’ve certainly earned it, but what do the present residents say about their crime of killing their God? They deny him; they too refuse to acknowledge God as God. They’re no better than the descendants of the original inhabitants."

“What! In the very town where God was put to death, neither the former nor the latter inhabitants knew him, and you expect that I should know him, I who was born two thousand years after his time, and two thousand leagues away? Do you not see that before I can believe this book which you call sacred, but which I do not in the least understand, I must know from others than yourself when and by whom it was written, how it has been preserved, how it came into your possession, what they say about it in those lands where it is rejected, and what are their reasons for rejecting it, though they know as well as you what you are telling me? You perceive I must go to Europe, Asia, Palestine, to examine these things for myself; it would be madness to listen to you before that.

"What! In the very town where God was crucified, neither the former nor the latter residents knew him, and you expect me to know him, I who was born two thousand years later and two thousand leagues away? Don’t you see that before I can believe this book that you call sacred, which I don’t understand at all, I need to learn from others besides you when and by whom it was written, how it has been preserved, how it came into your hands, what people say about it in those places where it’s rejected, and what their reasons are for rejecting it, even though they understand just as well as you do what you’re telling me? You see, I must go to Europe, Asia, and Palestine to investigate these matters myself; it would be crazy to listen to you before then."

“Not only does this seem reasonable to me, but I maintain that it is what every wise man ought to say in similar circumstances; that he ought to banish to a great distance the missionary who wants to instruct and baptise him all of a sudden before the evidence is verified. Now I maintain that there is no revelation against which these or similar objections cannot be made, and with more force than against Christianity. Hence it follows that if there is but one true religion and if every man is bound to follow it under pain of damnation, he must spend his whole life in studying, testing, comparing all these religions, in travelling through the countries in which they are established. No man is free from a man’s first duty; no one has a right to depend on another’s judgment. The artisan who earns his bread by his daily toil, the ploughboy who cannot read, the delicate and timid maiden, the invalid who can scarcely leave his bed, all without exception must study, consider, argue, travel over the whole world; there will be no more fixed and settled nations; the whole earth will swarm with pilgrims on their way, at great cost of time and trouble, to verify, compare, and examine for themselves the various religions to be found. Then farewell to the trades, the arts, the sciences of mankind, farewell to all peaceful occupations; there can be no study but that of religion, even the strongest, the most industrious, the most intelligent, the oldest, will hardly be able in his last years to know where he is; and it will be a wonder if he manages to find out what religion he ought to live by, before the hour of his death.

“Not only does this seem reasonable to me, but I believe that it’s what every wise person should say in similar situations; that they should keep a missionary who wants to teach and baptize them right away at a safe distance until the evidence is verified. I argue that there’s no revelation that can't be challenged by these or similar objections, and those challenges are stronger against Christianity than any other. Therefore, if there’s only one true religion, and if everyone must follow it or face damnation, they must spend their entire lives studying, testing, and comparing all these religions, traveling through the countries where they exist. No one is free from this primary duty; no one has the right to rely on someone else’s judgment. The worker who earns a living through hard labor, the farmer who can’t read, the shy and delicate girl, the sick person who can barely leave their bed—everyone without exception must study, reflect, debate, and travel all over the world; there will be no more stable and settled societies; the entire earth will be filled with pilgrims at great cost of time and effort, trying to verify, compare, and examine the various religions available. Then goodbye to trades, arts, and sciences; farewell to all peaceful pursuits; studying religion will be the only focus. Even the strongest, most industrious, most intelligent, and oldest individuals will struggle in their later years to understand where they stand; it will be remarkable if they can figure out what religion they should live by before they die.”

“Hard pressed by these arguments, some prefer to make God unjust and to punish the innocent for the sins of their fathers, rather than to renounce their barbarous dogmas. Others get out of the difficulty by kindly sending an angel to instruct all those who in invincible ignorance have lived a righteous life. A good idea, that angel! Not content to be the slaves of their own inventions they expect God to make use of them also!

“Under pressure from these arguments, some choose to portray God as unjust and punish the innocent for their parents' sins, rather than give up their brutal beliefs. Others solve the problem by kindly sending an angel to teach all those who, in their unavoidable ignorance, have lived a good life. A nice idea, that angel! Not satisfied with being slaves to their own creations, they expect God to use them too!”

“Behold, my son, the absurdities to which pride and intolerance bring us, when everybody wants others to think as he does, and everybody fancies that he has an exclusive claim upon the rest of mankind. I call to witness the God of Peace whom I adore, and whom I proclaim to you, that my inquiries were honestly made; but when I discovered that they were and always would be unsuccessful, and that I was embarked upon a boundless ocean, I turned back, and restricted my faith within the limits of my primitive ideas. I could never convince myself that God would require such learning of me under pain of hell. So I closed all my books. There is one book which is open to every one—the book of nature. In this good and great volume I learn to serve and adore its Author. There is no excuse for not reading this book, for it speaks to all in a language they can understand. Suppose I had been born in a desert island, suppose I had never seen any man but myself, suppose I had never heard what took place in olden days in a remote corner of the world; yet if I use my reason, if I cultivate it, if I employ rightly the innate faculties which God bestows upon me, I shall learn by myself to know and love him, to love his works, to will what he wills, and to fulfil all my duties upon earth, that I may do his pleasure. What more can all human learning teach me?

"Look, my son, at the ridiculous things pride and intolerance lead us to, when everyone wants others to think just like them, and everyone believes they have a unique claim on everyone else. I call upon the God of Peace, whom I love and share with you, to witness that my questions were genuinely pursued; but when I realized that they were and always would be fruitless, and that I was lost in an endless sea, I decided to turn back and limit my beliefs to my original ideas. I could never believe that God would demand such knowledge from me under the threat of hell. So I put all my books away. There is one book available to everyone—the book of nature. In this amazing and beautiful volume, I learn to serve and worship its Creator. There’s no excuse for not reading this book, as it speaks to everyone in a language they can understand. Imagine I had been born on a deserted island, never seeing anyone but myself, never hearing about events from long ago in a distant part of the world; yet if I use my reasoning, if I nurture it, if I properly use the natural abilities that God gives me, I would come to know and love Him by myself, to appreciate His creations, to desire what He desires, and to fulfill all my responsibilities on Earth in order to please Him. What more could all human learning teach me?"

“With regard to revelation, if I were a more accomplished disputant, or a more learned person, perhaps I should feel its truth, its usefulness for those who are happy enough to perceive it; but if I find evidence for it which I cannot combat, I also find objections against it which I cannot overcome. There are so many weighty reasons for and against that I do not know what to decide, so that I neither accept nor reject it. I only reject all obligation to be convinced of its truth; for this so-called obligation is incompatible with God’s justice, and far from removing objections in this way it would multiply them, and would make them insurmountable for the greater part of mankind. In this respect I maintain an attitude of reverent doubt. I do not presume to think myself infallible; other men may have been able to make up their minds though the matter seems doubtful to myself; I am speaking for myself, not for them; I neither blame them nor follow in their steps; their judgment may be superior to mine, but it is no fault of mine that my judgment does not agree with it.

"When it comes to revelation, if I were a better debater or more knowledgeable, maybe I would recognize its truth and its value for those who are fortunate enough to see it; however, while I see evidence for it that I can't argue against, I also have objections that I can't overcome. There are so many strong reasons both for and against it that I don't know what to think, so I neither accept nor reject it. I simply refuse to feel obligated to believe in its truth; because this so-called obligation clashes with God's justice, and instead of clearing up objections, it would only make them worse, creating insurmountable issues for most people. In this regard, I maintain a stance of respectful doubt. I don’t assume I'm infallible; others might have come to conclusions even though I find the topic uncertain. I'm only speaking for myself, not for them; I don’t blame them nor do I follow their lead; their judgment may be better than mine, but it’s not my fault that I see things differently."

“I own also that the holiness of the gospel speaks to my heart, and that this is an argument which I should be sorry to refute. Consider the books of the philosophers with all their outward show; how petty they are in comparison! Can a book at once so grand and so simple be the work of men? Is it possible that he whose history is contained in this book is no more than man? Is the tone of this book, the tone of the enthusiast or the ambitious sectary? What gentleness and purity in his actions, what a touching grace in his teaching, how lofty are his sayings, how profoundly wise are his sermons, how ready, how discriminating, and how just are his answers! What man, what sage, can live, suffer, and die without weakness or ostentation? When Plato describes his imaginary good man, overwhelmed with the disgrace of crime, and deserving of all the rewards of virtue, every feature of the portrait is that of Christ; the resemblance is so striking that it has been noticed by all the Fathers, and there can be no doubt about it. What prejudices and blindness must there be before we dare to compare the son of Sophronisca with the son of Mary. How far apart they are! Socrates dies a painless death, he is not put to open shame, and he plays his part easily to the last; and if this easy death had not done honour to his life, we might have doubted whether Socrates, with all his intellect, was more than a mere sophist. He invented morality, so they say; others before him had practised it; he only said what they had done, and made use of their example in his teaching. Aristides was just before Socrates defined justice; Leonidas died for his country before Socrates declared that patriotism was a virtue; Sparta was sober before Socrates extolled sobriety; there were plenty of virtuous men in Greece before he defined virtue. But among the men of his own time where did Jesus find that pure and lofty morality of which he is both the teacher and pattern? [Footnote: Cf. in the Sermon on the Mount the parallel he himself draws between the teaching of Moses and his own.—Matt. v.] The voice of loftiest wisdom arose among the fiercest fanaticism, the simplicity of the most heroic virtues did honour to the most degraded of nations. One could wish no easier death than that of Socrates, calmly discussing philosophy with his friends; one could fear nothing worse than that of Jesus, dying in torment, among the insults, the mockery, the curses of the whole nation. In the midst of these terrible sufferings, Jesus prays for his cruel murderers. Yes, if the life and death of Socrates are those of a philosopher, the life and death of Christ are those of a God. Shall we say that the gospel story is the work of the imagination? My friend, such things are not imagined; and the doings of Socrates, which no one doubts, are less well attested than those of Jesus Christ. At best, you only put the difficulty from you; it would be still more incredible that several persons should have agreed together to invent such a book, than that there was one man who supplied its subject matter. The tone and morality of this story are not those of any Jewish authors, and the gospel indeed contains characters so great, so striking, so entirely inimitable, that their invention would be more astonishing than their hero. With all this the same gospel is full of incredible things, things repugnant to reason, things which no natural man can understand or accept. What can you do among so many contradictions? You can be modest and wary, my child; respect in silence what you can neither reject nor understand, and humble yourself in the sight of the Divine Being who alone knows the truth.

“I also admit that the holiness of the gospel resonates with me, and I would regret refuting this argument. Look at the works of philosophers, with all their showiness; how trivial they seem in comparison! Can a book that is both so grand and so straightforward be created by mere humans? Is it possible that the person whose life is documented in this book is simply just a man? Is the tone of this book that of an enthusiast or an ambitious sect leader? What gentleness and purity in his actions, what a touching grace in his teachings, how profound are his sayings, how wise are his sermons, how ready, discerning, and just are his responses! What man, what sage, can live, suffer, and die without weakness or pretense? When Plato describes his ideal good man, burdened by the disgrace of crime but deserving all the rewards of virtue, every detail in the portrait resembles Christ; the likeness is so clear that all the Church Fathers have noted it, and there’s no doubt about it. What prejudices and blindness must exist for us to dare compare the son of Sophronisca with the son of Mary? They are worlds apart! Socrates dies a painless death without public shame, and he plays his part easily until the end. If this easy death hadn’t honored his life, we might have doubted whether Socrates, despite all his intellect, was more than just a sophist. They say he invented morality; others before him practiced it; he merely articulated what they had done and drew on their examples in his teachings. Aristides was just before Socrates defined justice; Leonidas died for his country before Socrates proclaimed that patriotism was a virtue; Sparta practiced sobriety before Socrates praised it; many virtuous men existed in Greece before he defined virtue. But among the people of his time, where did Jesus find that pure and lofty morality of which he is both the teacher and model? [Footnote: Cf. in the Sermon on the Mount the parallel he himself draws between the teaching of Moses and his own.—Matt. v.] The voice of the highest wisdom arose amidst the harshest fanaticism; the simplicity of the most heroic virtues brought honor to the most degraded of nations. One could wish for no easier death than that of Socrates, calmly discussing philosophy with his friends; one could fear nothing worse than the death of Jesus, dying in agony amidst the insults, mockery, and curses of the entire nation. In the midst of these horrific sufferings, Jesus prays for his cruel killers. Yes, if the life and death of Socrates are those of a philosopher, then the life and death of Christ are those of a God. Should we say that the gospel story is purely imaginative? My friend, such things aren’t made up; and the actions of Socrates, which no one doubts, are less well documented than those of Jesus Christ. At best, you push the difficulty aside; it would be even more unbelievable that several individuals would collaborate to invent such a book than that a single man provided its subject matter. The tone and morality of this story are not like those of any Jewish writers, and the gospel indeed contains characters so great, so striking, so utterly unique that their invention would be more astonishing than their hero. Yet the same gospel is filled with incredible things, things that defy reason, things no natural man can comprehend or accept. What can you do amid so many contradictions? You can be modest and cautious, my child; respect in silence what you cannot reject or understand, and humble yourself before the Divine Being who alone knows the truth.

“This is the unwilling scepticism in which I rest; but this scepticism is in no way painful to me, for it does not extend to matters of practice, and I am well assured as to the principles underlying all my duties. I serve God in the simplicity of my heart; I only seek to know what affects my conduct. As to those dogmas which have no effect upon action or morality, dogmas about which so many men torment themselves, I give no heed to them. I regard all individual religions as so many wholesome institutions which prescribe a uniform method by which each country may do honour to God in public worship; institutions which may each have its reason in the country, the government, the genius of the people, or in other local causes which make one preferable to another in a given time or place. I think them all good alike, when God is served in a fitting manner. True worship is of the heart. God rejects no homage, however offered, provided it is sincere. Called to the service of the Church in my own religion, I fulfil as scrupulously as I can all the duties prescribed to me, and my conscience would reproach me if I were knowingly wanting with regard to any point. You are aware that after being suspended for a long time, I have, through the influence of M. Mellarede, obtained permission to resume my priestly duties, as a means of livelihood. I used to say Mass with the levity that comes from long experience even of the most serious matters when they are too familiar to us; with my new principles I now celebrate it with more reverence; I dwell upon the majesty of the Supreme Being, his presence, the insufficiency of the human mind, which so little realises what concerns its Creator. When I consider how I present before him the prayers of all the people in a form laid down for me, I carry out the whole ritual exactly; I give heed to what I say, I am careful not to omit the least word, the least ceremony; when the moment of the consecration approaches, I collect my powers, that I may do all things as required by the Church and by the greatness of this sacrament; I strive to annihilate my own reason before the Supreme Mind; I say to myself, Who art thou to measure infinite power? I reverently pronounce the sacramental words, and I give to their effect all the faith I can bestow. Whatever may be this mystery which passes understanding, I am not afraid that at the day of judgment I shall be punished for having profaned it in my heart.”

“This is the skepticism I find myself in, but it doesn't trouble me because it doesn't impact my actions, and I am confident in the principles behind all my duties. I serve God sincerely; I only aim to understand what influences my behavior. As for those beliefs that don't affect actions or ethics, beliefs that so many people struggle with, I pay them no mind. I see all individual religions as beneficial systems that provide a consistent way for each country to honor God through public worship; systems that have their own reasons based on the country, the government, the people's character, or other local factors that make one preferable over another at a specific time or place. I view them all positively when God is served appropriately. True worship comes from the heart. God doesn't reject any form of respect, no matter how it is offered, as long as it is genuine. With my calling to serve in the Church of my own faith, I diligently fulfill all the duties required of me, and my conscience would blame me if I knowingly fell short in any area. You know that after being away for a long time, I have, through the influence of M. Mellarede, been granted permission to return to my priestly duties as a way to earn a living. I used to say Mass with a casualness that comes from long familiarity, even with serious things; with my new views, I now celebrate it with greater reverence. I reflect on the majesty of the Supreme Being, his presence, and the limitations of the human mind, which struggles to grasp what pertains to its Creator. When I think about presenting the prayers of all the people in a format prescribed to me, I follow the entire ritual precisely; I pay attention to what I say, ensuring I don't miss a single word or ceremony. As the moment of consecration nears, I gather my focus so I can perform everything as required by the Church and the significance of this sacrament; I strive to set aside my own reasoning before the Supreme Mind; I remind myself, who am I to judge infinite power? I respectfully articulate the sacramental words and give their effect as much faith as I can muster. Regardless of this mystery that surpasses understanding, I am not afraid that on judgment day I will be punished for having diminished its significance in my heart.”

Honoured with the sacred ministry, though in its lowest ranks, I will never do or say anything which may make me unworthy to fulfil these sublime duties. I will always preach virtue and exhort men to well-doing; and so far as I can I will set them a good example. It will be my business to make religion attractive; it will be my business to strengthen their faith in those doctrines which are really useful, those which every man must believe; but, please God, I shall never teach them to hate their neighbour, to say to other men, You will be damned; to say, No salvation outside the Church. [Footnote: The duty of following and loving the religion of our country does not go so far as to require us to accept doctrines contrary to good morals, such as intolerance. This horrible doctrine sets men in arms against their fellow-men, and makes them all enemies of mankind. The distinction between civil toleration and theological toleration is vain and childish. These two kinds of toleration are inseparable, and we cannot accept one without the other. Even the angels could not live at peace with men whom they regarded as the enemies of God.] If I were in a more conspicuous position, this reticence might get me into trouble; but I am too obscure to have much to fear, and I could hardly sink lower than I am. Come what may, I will never blaspheme the justice of God, nor lie against the Holy Ghost.

Honored with the sacred ministry, even at its lowest level, I will never do or say anything that would make me unworthy of these important duties. I will always promote virtue and encourage people to do good; as much as I can, I will set a good example for them. It will be my responsibility to make religion appealing; my job will be to strengthen their faith in the beliefs that are truly beneficial, the ones that everyone must accept; but, God willing, I will never teach them to hate their neighbor, to tell others, "You will be damned," or to claim that there is no salvation outside the Church. [Footnote: The obligation to follow and love the religion of our country does not extend to accepting doctrines that contradict good morals, like intolerance. This dreadful doctrine turns people against one another and creates enemies of humanity. The difference between civil tolerance and theological tolerance is meaningless and childish. These two types of tolerance are intertwined, and we cannot accept one without the other. Even the angels could not coexist peacefully with people they saw as enemies of God.] If I were in a more prominent position, this caution might land me in trouble; but I am too anonymous to have much to fear, and I could hardly fall lower than I already am. No matter what happens, I will never denounce the justice of God, nor will I lie against the Holy Spirit.

“I have long desired to have a parish of my own; it is still my ambition, but I no longer hope to attain it. My dear friend, I think there is nothing so delightful as to be a parish priest. A good clergyman is a minister of mercy, as a good magistrate is a minister of justice. A clergyman is never called upon to do evil; if he cannot always do good himself, it is never out of place for him to beg for others, and he often gets what he asks if he knows how to gain respect. Oh! if I should ever have some poor mountain parish where I might minister to kindly folk, I should be happy indeed; for it seems to me that I should make my parishioners happy. I should not bring them riches, but I should share their poverty; I should remove from them the scorn and opprobrium which are harder to bear than poverty. I should make them love peace and equality, which often remove poverty, and always make it tolerable. When they saw that I was in no way better off than themselves, and that yet I was content with my lot, they would learn to put up with their fate and to be content like me. In my sermons I would lay more stress on the spirit of the gospel than on the spirit of the church; its teaching is simple, its morality sublime; there is little in it about the practices of religion, but much about works of charity. Before I teach them what they ought to do, I would try to practise it myself, that they might see that at least I think what I say. If there were Protestants in the neighbourhood or in my parish, I would make no difference between them and my own congregation so far as concerns Christian charity; I would get them to love one another, to consider themselves brethren, to respect all religions, and each to live peaceably in his own religion. To ask any one to abandon the religion in which he was born is, I consider, to ask him to do wrong, and therefore to do wrong oneself. While we await further knowledge, let us respect public order; in every country let us respect the laws, let us not disturb the form of worship prescribed by law; let us not lead its citizens into disobedience; for we have no certain knowledge that it is good for them to abandon their own opinions for others, and on the other hand we are quite certain that it is a bad thing to disobey the law.

“I have long wanted to have my own parish; it’s still my goal, but I no longer believe I can achieve it. My dear friend, there’s nothing quite as wonderful as being a parish priest. A good clergyman serves as a minister of mercy, just like a good magistrate serves as a minister of justice. A clergyman is never asked to do wrong; if he can't always do good himself, it’s never inappropriate for him to ask for help for others, and he often gets what he requests if he knows how to earn respect. Oh! If I could ever have a small mountain parish where I could serve kind people, I would be truly happy; because I believe I would make my parishioners happy. I wouldn't bring them wealth, but I would share in their struggles; I would lift the scorn and shame that are harder to bear than being poor. I would encourage them to value peace and equality, which can often lessen poverty and always make it bearable. When they see that I’m no better off than they are, yet I’m content with my situation, they would learn to accept their circumstances and find contentment like I do. In my sermons, I would focus more on the spirit of the gospel than on the institutional church; its teachings are straightforward, its morals are high; there's little about religious practices, but a lot about charity. Before I teach them what they should do, I would try to practice it myself, so they can see that I at least believe what I say. If there were Protestants in the area or in my parish, I wouldn’t treat them any differently than my own congregation when it comes to Christian love; I would encourage them to love one another, to see themselves as siblings, to respect all faiths, and for each to live peacefully in their own beliefs. I believe asking someone to abandon the faith they were born into is asking them to do wrong, and therefore to do wrong myself. While we await more understanding, let’s respect public order; in every country let’s honor the laws, let’s not disrupt the form of worship that’s mandated by law; let’s not lead citizens into disobedience; because we have no certain reason to believe it’s good for them to reject their own beliefs for others, and we are quite certain that disobeying the law is a bad thing.”

“My young friend, I have now repeated to you my creed as God reads it in my heart; you are the first to whom I have told it; perhaps you will be the last. As long as there is any true faith left among men, we must not trouble quiet souls, nor scare the faith of the ignorant with problems they cannot solve, with difficulties which cause them uneasiness, but do not give them any guidance. But when once everything is shaken, the trunk must be preserved at the cost of the branches. Consciences, restless, uncertain, and almost quenched like yours, require to be strengthened and aroused; to set the feet again upon the foundation of eternal truth, we must remove the trembling supports on which they think they rest.

"My young friend, I've now shared my beliefs as God sees them in my heart; you’re the first person I've revealed this to, and you might be the last. As long as there’s still any genuine faith among people, we shouldn’t disturb peaceful souls or frighten the unaware with questions they can’t answer or challenges that only create anxiety without offering any direction. But when everything gets shaken up, we need to protect the core, even if it means sacrificing the branches. Consciences that are restless, uncertain, and almost extinguished like yours need to be strengthened and awakened; to place them back on the foundation of eternal truth, we have to remove the shaky supports they think they lean on."

“You are at that critical age when the mind is open to conviction, when the heart receives its form and character, when we decide our own fate for life, either for good or evil. At a later date, the material has hardened and fresh impressions leave no trace. Young man, take the stamp of truth upon your heart which is not yet hardened, if I were more certain of myself, I should have adopted a more decided and dogmatic tone; but I am a man ignorant and liable to error; what could I do? I have opened my heart fully to you; and I have told what I myself hold for certain and sure; I have told you my doubts as doubts, my opinions as opinions; I have given you my reasons both for faith and doubt. It is now your turn to judge; you have asked for time; that is a wise precaution and it makes me think well of you. Begin by bringing your conscience into that state in which it desires to see clearly; be honest with yourself. Take to yourself such of my opinions as convince you, reject the rest. You are not yet so depraved by vice as to run the risk of choosing amiss. I would offer to argue with you, but as soon as men dispute they lose their temper; pride and obstinacy come in, and there is an end of honesty. My friend, never argue; for by arguing we gain no light for ourselves or for others. So far as I myself am concerned, I have only made up my mind after many years of meditation; here I rest, my conscience is at peace, my heart is satisfied. If I wanted to begin afresh the examination of my feelings, I should not bring to the task a purer love of truth; and my mind, which is already less active, would be less able to perceive the truth. Here I shall rest, lest the love of contemplation, developing step by step into an idle passion, should make me lukewarm in the performance of my duties, lest I should fall into my former scepticism without strength to struggle out of it. More than half my life is spent; I have barely time to make good use of what is left, to blot out my faults by my virtues. If I am mistaken, it is against my will. He who reads my inmost heart knows that I have no love for my blindness. As my own knowledge is powerless to free me from this blindness, my only way out of it is by a good life; and if God from the very stones can raise up children to Abraham, every man has a right to hope that he may be taught the truth, if he makes himself worthy of it.

“You're at that crucial age when your mind is open to belief, when your heart is shaping its identity, and you’re deciding your fate for life, whether for good or bad. Later on, your views become set, and new experiences leave little impact. Young man, make sure to inscribe the truth in your still-soft heart. If I were more confident, I would speak with a stronger, more assertive tone; but I’m just a person, prone to mistakes; what can I do? I’ve opened my heart to you completely; I’ve shared what I believe to be true and certain; I’ve expressed my doubts and my opinions as such; I’ve explained my reasons for both my faith and my skepticism. Now it’s your turn to decide; you’ve asked for time, which is a smart move, and it makes me think positively of you. Start by getting your conscience into a state where it wants clarity; be honest with yourself. Accept the views of mine that resonate with you, and disregard the rest. You're not so corrupted by vice that you risk making the wrong choices. I’d be willing to discuss things with you, but once people argue, they often lose their cool; pride and stubbornness take over, and honesty goes out the window. My friend, avoid arguing; it brings no clarity for you or anyone else. As for me, I arrived at my conclusions after many years of reflection; I’m at peace with my conscience and satisfied in my heart. If I were to reevaluate my feelings, I wouldn’t approach it with a purer love for truth; and my mind, which has become less active, would struggle more to perceive the truth. I choose to stay where I am to avoid letting contemplation turn into a passive obsession that makes me neglect my responsibilities, or to slip back into my previous doubt without the strength to fight my way out. I’ve spent more than half my life; I have little time left to make the most of it and to counter my faults with virtues. If I'm wrong, it's unintentional. He who knows my inner thoughts understands that I dislike my blindness. Since my own understanding can’t free me from this blindness, the only way out for me is to live well; and if God can bring forth children to Abraham from stones, then every person has the right to hope for the truth, provided they make themselves deserving of it.

“If my reflections lead you to think as I do, if you share my feelings, if we have the same creed, I give you this advice: Do not continue to expose your life to the temptations of poverty and despair, nor waste it in degradation and at the mercy of strangers; no longer eat the shameful bread of charity. Return to your own country, go back to the religion of your fathers, and follow it in sincerity of heart, and never forsake it; it is very simple and very holy; I think there is no other religion upon earth whose morality is purer, no other more satisfying to the reason. Do not trouble about the cost of the journey, that will be provided for you. Neither do you fear the false shame of a humiliating return; we should blush to commit a fault, not to repair it. You are still at an age when all is forgiven, but when we cannot go on sinning with impunity. If you desire to listen to your conscience, a thousand empty objections will disappear at her voice. You will feel that, in our present state of uncertainty, it is an inexcusable presumption to profess any faith but that we were born into, while it is treachery not to practise honestly the faith we profess. If we go astray, we deprive ourselves of a great excuse before the tribunal of the sovereign judge. Will he not pardon the errors in which we were brought up, rather than those of our own choosing?

“If my thoughts inspire you to agree with me, if you share my feelings, if we hold the same beliefs, here’s my advice: Don’t keep putting your life at risk by facing the temptations of poverty and despair, and don’t waste it in degradation and depending on strangers; stop eating the shameful bread of charity. Go back to your homeland, return to the faith of your ancestors, and follow it sincerely; don’t abandon it. It’s simple and sacred; I believe there’s no other faith on earth with morals as pure or one more satisfying to reason. Don’t worry about the cost of the journey; it will be taken care of. Also, don’t fear the false shame of a humbling return; it’s better to be ashamed of doing wrong than to not fix it. You’re still young enough that all is forgiven, but we can’t keep sinning without consequences. If you want to listen to your conscience, a thousand empty excuses will vanish when it speaks. You’ll realize that, in our current state of uncertainty, it’s unreasonable to profess any faith other than the one we were born into, and it’s a betrayal not to practice the faith we claim. If we stray, we lose a major excuse before the judgment of the supreme judge. Will he not be more likely to forgive the mistakes we were raised with than those we chose ourselves?

“My son, keep your soul in such a state that you always desire that there should be a God and you will never doubt it. Moreover, whatever decision you come to, remember that the real duties of religion are independent of human institutions; that a righteous heart is the true temple of the Godhead; that in every land, in every sect, to love God above all things and to love our neighbour as ourself is the whole law; remember there is no religion which absolves us from our moral duties; that these alone are really essential, that the service of the heart is the first of these duties, and that without faith there is no such thing as true virtue.

“My son, maintain your spirit in a way that always makes you yearn for the existence of God, and you'll never question it. Also, whatever choices you make, keep in mind that the true responsibilities of faith exist independently of human systems; that a good heart is the real sanctuary of the divine; that in every country, in every belief, to love God above all and to love our neighbor as ourselves is the ultimate commandment; remember there is no faith that frees us from our moral obligations; that these alone are genuinely vital, that serving with the heart is the foremost of these responsibilities, and that without faith, there is no such thing as true virtue.”

“Shun those who, under the pretence of explaining nature, sow destructive doctrines in the heart of men, those whose apparent scepticism is a hundredfold more self-assertive and dogmatic than the firm tone of their opponents. Under the arrogant claim, that they alone are enlightened, true, honest, they subject us imperiously to their far-reaching decisions, and profess to give us, as the true principles of all things, the unintelligible systems framed by their imagination. Moreover, they overthrow, destroy, and trample under foot all that men reverence; they rob the afflicted of their last consolation in their misery; they deprive the rich and powerful of the sole bridle of their passions; they tear from the very depths of man’s heart all remorse for crime, and all hope of virtue; and they boast, moreover, that they are the benefactors of the human race. Truth, they say, can never do a man harm. I think so too, and to my mind that is strong evidence that what they teach is not true. [Footnote: The rival parties attack each other with so many sophistries that it would be a rash and overwhelming enterprise to attempt to deal with all of them; it is difficult enough to note some of them as they occur. One of the commonest errors among the partisans of philosophy is to contrast a nation of good philosophers with a nation of bad Christians; as if it were easier to make a nation of good philosophers than a nation of good Christians. I know not whether in individual cases it is easier to discover one rather than the other; but I am quite certain that, as far as nations are concerned, we must assume that there will be those who misuse their philosophy without religion, just as our people misuse their religion without philosophy, and that seems to put quite a different face upon the matter.]—Bayle has proved very satisfactorily that fanaticism is more harmful than atheism, and that cannot be denied; but what he has not taken the trouble to say, though it is none the less true, is this: Fanaticism, though cruel and bloodthirsty, is still a great and powerful passion, which stirs the heart of man, teaching him to despise death, and giving him an enormous motive power, which only needs to be guided rightly to produce the noblest virtues; while irreligion, and the argumentative philosophic spirit generally, on the other hand, assaults the life and enfeebles it, degrades the soul, concentrates all the passions in the basest self-interest, in the meanness of the human self; thus it saps unnoticed the very foundations of all society, for what is common to all these private interests is so small that it will never outweigh their opposing interests.—If atheism does not lead to bloodshed, it is less from love of peace than from indifference to what is good; as if it mattered little what happened to others, provided the sage remained undisturbed in his study. His principles do not kill men, but they prevent their birth, by destroying the morals by which they were multiplied, by detaching them from their fellows, by reducing all their affections to a secret selfishness, as fatal to population as to virtue. The indifference of the philosopher is like the peace in a despotic state; it is the repose of death; war itself is not more destructive.—Thus fanaticism though its immediate results are more fatal than those of what is now called the philosophic mind, is much less fatal in its after effects. Moreover, it is an easy matter to exhibit fine maxims in books; but the real question is—Are they really in accordance with your teaching, are they the necessary consequences of it? and this has not been clearly proved so far. It remains to be seen whether philosophy, safely enthroned, could control successfully man’s petty vanity, his self-interest, his ambition, all the lesser passions of mankind, and whether it would practise that sweet humanity which it boasts of, pen in hand.—In theory, there is no good which philosophy can bring about which is not equally secured by religion, while religion secures much that philosophy cannot secure.—In practice, it is another matter; but still we must put it to the proof. No man follows his religion in all things, even if his religion is true; most people have hardly any religion, and they do not in the least follow what they have; that is still more true; but still there are some people who have a religion and follow it, at least to some extent; and beyond doubt religious motives do prevent them from wrong-doing, and win from them virtues, praiseworthy actions, which would not have existed but for these motives.—A monk denies that money was entrusted to him; what of that? It only proves that the man who entrusted the money to him was a fool. If Pascal had done the same, that would have proved that Pascal was a hypocrite. But a monk! Are those who make a trade of religion religious people? All the crimes committed by the clergy, as by other men, do not prove that religion is useless, but that very few people are religious.—Most certainly our modern governments owe to Christianity their more stable authority, their less frequent revolutions; it has made those governments less bloodthirsty; this can be shown by comparing them with the governments of former times. Apart from fanaticism, the best known religion has given greater gentleness to Christian conduct. This change is not the result of learning; for wherever learning has been most illustrious humanity has been no more respected on that account; the cruelties of the Athenians, the Egyptians, the Roman emperors, the Chinese bear witness to this. What works of mercy spring from the gospel! How many acts of restitution, reparation, confession does the gospel lead to among Catholics! Among ourselves, as the times of communion draw near, do they not lead us to reconciliation and to alms-giving? Did not the Hebrew Jubilee make the grasping less greedy, did it not prevent much poverty? The brotherhood of the Law made the nation one; no beggar was found among them. Neither are there beggars among the Turks, where there are countless pious institutions; from motives of religion they even show hospitality to the foes of their religion.—“The Mahometans say, according to Chardin, that after the interrogation which will follow the general resurrection, all bodies will traverse a bridge called Poul-Serrho, which is thrown across the eternal fires, a bridge which may be called the third and last test of the great Judgment, because it is there that the good and bad will be separated, etc.—“The Persians, continues Chardin, make a great point of this bridge; and when any one suffers a wrong which he can never hope to wipe out by any means or at any time, he finds his last consolation in these words: ‘By the living God, you will pay me double at the last day; you will never get across the Poul-Serrho if you do not first do me justice; I will hold the hem of your garment, I will cling about your knees.’ I have seen many eminent men, of every profession, who for fear lest this hue and cry should be raised against them as they cross that fearful bridge, beg pardon of those who complained against them; it has happened to me myself on many occasions. Men of rank, who had compelled me by their importunity to do what I did not wish to do, have come to me when they thought my anger had had time to cool, and have said to me; I pray you “Halal becon antchisra,” that is, “Make this matter lawful and right.” Some of them have even sent gifts and done me service, so that I might forgive them and say I did it willingly; the cause of this is nothing else but this belief that they will not be able to get across the bridge of hell until they have paid the uttermost farthing to the oppressed.”—Must I think that the idea of this bridge where so many iniquities are made good is of no avail? If the Persians were deprived of this idea, if they were persuaded that there was no Poul-Serrho, nor anything of the kind, where the oppressed were avenged of their tyrants after death, is it not clear that they would be very much at their ease, and they would be freed from the care of appeasing the wretched? But it is false to say that this doctrine is hurtful; yet it would not be true.—O Philosopher, your moral laws are all very fine; but kindly show me their sanction. Cease to shirk the question, and tell me plainly what you would put in the place of Poul-Serrho.

“Stay away from those who, pretending to explain nature, spread harmful beliefs in people's hearts. Their apparent skepticism is far more self-righteous and opinionated than the confident stance of their opponents. They arrogantly claim to be the only ones who are enlightened, truthful, and honest, ruling over us with their sweeping judgments while insisting that their confusing theories, created from their imagination, are the true principles of everything. They dismantle, destroy, and trample on what people hold sacred; they strip the suffering of their last comfort in misery; they deny the wealthy and powerful the only check on their desires; they remove from the depths of the human heart all guilt for wrongdoing and all hope for goodness; and they boast about being the benefactors of humanity. They say that truth can never harm a person. I agree, and I believe that’s strong evidence that what they teach isn’t true. The rival factions attack each other with so many misleading arguments that it would be reckless and overwhelming to address them all; it’s already challenging enough to note some as they come up. One common mistake among philosophical supporters is to contrast a nation of good philosophers with a nation of bad Christians; as if it were easier to create a nation of good philosophers than a nation of good Christians. I’m not sure if it’s easier to find one than the other in individual cases; but I’m quite certain that, nationally speaking, we can assume there will be those who misuse their philosophy without faith, just as our people misuse their faith without philosophy, which changes the whole perspective. Bayle has convincingly shown that fanaticism is more harmful than atheism, and that can’t be denied; yet what he hasn’t mentioned, although it’s equally true, is this: Fanaticism, despite being cruel and bloodthirsty, is still a strong and powerful passion that stirs the human heart, teaching it to scorn death and providing an immense driving force that only needs to be properly directed to yield the noblest virtues. In contrast, irreligion and the argumentative spirit of philosophy tend to attack life and weaken it, degrading the soul and focusing all passions on the lowest self-interest, in the meanness of humanity. This quietly undermines the very foundations of society, as what these private interests share is so minimal that it will never outweigh their conflicting ambitions. If atheism doesn’t lead to violence, it’s less because of a love for peace than an indifference to what’s good; as if it doesn’t really matter what happens to others, as long as the wise person remains undisturbed in his studies. His principles may not kill people, but they prevent their existence by destroying the morals that promote growth, by isolating them from one another, by reducing all their affections to a hidden selfishness, which is just as harmful to population as it is to virtue. The philosopher’s indifference is like the peace in a tyrannical state; it’s the stillness of death; war itself is not more destructive. Thus, while the immediate consequences of fanaticism are more deadly than those of what is now referred to as a philosophical mindset, its long-term effects are far less deadly. Furthermore, it’s easy to present grand principles in books; but the real question is—Do they genuinely align with your teachings and are they the necessary results of it? So far, that hasn’t been proved clearly. It remains to be seen whether philosophy, safely established, could successfully control mankind’s petty vanities, self-interest, ambition, and all the lesser passions, and whether it would practice the kind humanity it claims to embody. In theory, there’s no good philosophy can achieve that religion can’t also accomplish, while religion secures many things that philosophy cannot. In practice, it’s a different matter; but we still need to test it. No person follows their religion in every aspect, even if their religion is true; most people hardly have any religion at all, and they don’t fully adhere to whatever faith they do have; that’s even more accurate; yet there are still some who have faith and follow it, at least to some degree; and without a doubt, religious motives do prevent them from wrongdoing and inspire virtues and commendable actions that wouldn’t exist without those motives. A monk denies ever being trusted with money; so what? It only shows that the person who entrusted the money to him was foolish. If Pascal had done the same, that would mean Pascal was a hypocrite. But a monk! Are those who make a living off religion really religious people? All the crimes committed by clergy, just like by any other individuals, do not prove that religion is ineffective, but rather that very few people are truly religious. Undoubtedly, our modern governments owe their more stable authority and less frequent revolutions to Christianity; it has made these governments less brutal; this can be demonstrated by comparing them with previous governments. Aside from fanaticism, the most well-known religions have encouraged more gentleness in Christian conduct. This shift isn’t a result of education; because wherever education has been most distinguished, humanity has not been more respected on its own merit; the cruelties of the Athenians, Egyptians, Roman emperors, and Chinese are proof of this. What works of mercy arise from the gospel! How many acts of restitution, reparations, and confessions result from the gospel among Catholics! At the times of communion, don’t they lead us to reconciliation and to giving? Didn’t the Hebrew Jubilee lessen greed and prevent much poverty? The brotherhood of the Law united the nation; there were no beggars among them. Similarly, there are no beggars among the Turks, where many pious institutions exist; for religious reasons, they even show hospitality to enemies of their faith. “The Muslims say, according to Chardin, that after the questioning that will follow the general resurrection, all bodies will cross a bridge called Poul-Serrho, which spans the eternal fires; a bridge that can be seen as the final test of the great Judgment, because it’s there that the good and bad will be separated, etc.—“The Persians, Chardin continues, place great importance on this bridge; and when someone suffers a wrong that they can never hope to rectify, they find their final comfort in these words: ‘By the living God, you will pay me back double on the last day; you won’t cross the Poul-Serrho unless you first do me justice; I will hold on to the hem of your garment, I will cling to your knees.’ I have seen many notable individuals from various professions who, fearing they might face accusations as they crossed that daunting bridge, ask forgiveness from those they’ve wronged; this has happened to me many times. Men of status, who have pressured me into doing something I didn’t want to, approached me when they thought enough time had passed for my anger to subside, saying: I beg you, “Halal becon antchisra,” which means, “Make this matter lawful and right.” Some of them even sent gifts and did me favors, hoping I might forgive them and say I did it willingly; the reason for this is solely this belief that they won’t be able to cross the bridge of hell until they have completely repaid their debt to the wronged.” Must I assume that the idea of this bridge, where so many injustices are rectified, is meaningless? If the Persians were deprived of this concept, if they were convinced there was no Poul-Serrho, nor anything similar, where the oppressed were avenged upon their oppressors after death, isn’t it clear they would feel quite at ease, free from the worry of appeasing the miserable? But it’s incorrect to claim that this belief is harmful; though it wouldn’t be true. O Philosopher, your moral laws are all well and good; but please show me their backing. Stop evading the question, and tell me plainly what you would substitute for Poul-Serrho.”

“My good youth, be honest and humble; learn how to be ignorant, then you will never deceive yourself or others. If ever your talents are so far cultivated as to enable you to speak to other men, always speak according to your conscience, without caring for their applause. The abuse of knowledge causes incredulity. The learned always despise the opinions of the crowd; each of them must have his own opinion. A haughty philosophy leads to atheism just as blind devotion leads to fanaticism. Avoid these extremes; keep steadfastly to the path of truth, or what seems to you truth, in simplicity of heart, and never let yourself be turned aside by pride or weakness. Dare to confess God before the philosophers; dare to preach humanity to the intolerant. It may be you will stand alone, but you will bear within you a witness which will make the witness of men of no account with you. Let them love or hate, let them read your writings or despise them; no matter. Speak the truth and do the right; the one thing that really matters is to do one’s duty in this world; and when we forget ourselves we are really working for ourselves. My child, self-interest misleads us; the hope of the just is the only sure guide.”

“My young friend, be honest and humble; learn to embrace your ignorance, and you won’t deceive yourself or others. If your talents ever develop enough to let you engage with others, always speak your truth, regardless of whether they applaud you or not. Misusing knowledge leads to disbelief. The educated often disregard the crowd’s opinions; each must hold their own. Arrogant philosophy can lead to atheism just like blind faith can lead to extremism. Avoid these extremes; stick closely to the path of truth or what you believe to be true, with a sincere heart, and never let pride or weakness sway you. Have the courage to acknowledge God in front of philosophers; have the courage to advocate for humanity to those who are intolerant. You might find yourself standing alone, but you’ll carry within you a conviction that makes the opinions of others insignificant. Let them love or hate you, let them read your work or disregard it; it doesn’t matter. Speak the truth and do what is right; the only thing that truly matters is fulfilling your duty in this world; and when we forget ourselves, we are genuinely working for our own good. My child, self-interest can lead us astray; the hope of the righteous is the only reliable guide.”

I have transcribed this document not as a rule for the sentiments we should adopt in matters of religion, but as an example of the way in which we may reason with our pupil without forsaking the method I have tried to establish. So long as we yield nothing to human authority, nor to the prejudices of our native land, the light of reason alone, in a state of nature, can lead us no further than to natural religion; and this is as far as I should go with Emile. If he must have any other religion, I have no right to be his guide; he must choose for himself.

I’ve written this document not as a rule for the beliefs we should hold about religion, but as an example of how we can reason with our student without abandoning the method I’ve aimed to establish. As long as we don’t give in to human authority or the biases of our homeland, the light of reason alone, in a natural state, can only lead us to natural religion; and that’s as far as I’d go with Emile. If he needs any other religion, I have no right to guide him; he has to decide for himself.

We are working in agreement with nature, and while she is shaping the physical man, we are striving to shape his moral being, but we do not make the same progress. The body is already strong and vigorous, the soul is still frail and delicate, and whatever can be done by human art, the body is always ahead of the mind. Hitherto all our care has been devoted to restrain the one and stimulate the other, so that the man might be as far as possible at one with himself. By developing his individuality, we have kept his growing susceptibilities in check; we have controlled it by cultivating his reason. Objects of thought moderate the influence of objects of sense. By going back to the causes of things, we have withdrawn him from the sway of the senses; it is an easy thing to raise him from the study of nature to the search for the author of nature.

We are working in harmony with nature, and while she is shaping the physical body, we are trying to develop the moral self, but we're not making the same progress. The body is already strong and energetic, while the soul remains fragile and sensitive, and no matter what humans can achieve, the body always seems to be ahead of the mind. So far, we've focused on restraining one and encouraging the other, so that a person can be as aligned with themselves as possible. By nurturing individuality, we've managed to keep growing sensitivities in check, using reason to control them. Ideas help to temper the impact of sensory experiences. By exploring the underlying reasons behind things, we've helped to lessen the influence of the senses; it's straightforward to guide someone from studying nature to seeking the creator of nature.

When we have reached this point, what a fresh hold we have got over our pupil; what fresh ways of speaking to his heart! Then alone does he find a real motive for being good, for doing right when he is far from every human eye, and when he is not driven to it by law. To be just in his own eyes and in the sight of God, to do his duty, even at the cost of life itself, and to bear in his heart virtue, not only for the love of order which we all subordinate to the love of self, but for the love of the Author of his being, a love which mingles with that self-love, so that he may at length enjoy the lasting happiness which the peace of a good conscience and the contemplation of that supreme being promise him in another life, after he has used this life aright. Go beyond this, and I see nothing but injustice, hypocrisy, and falsehood among men; private interest, which in competition necessarily prevails over everything else, teaches all things to adorn vice with the outward show of virtue. Let all men do what is good for me at the cost of what is good for themselves; let everything depend on me alone; let the whole human race perish, if needs be, in suffering and want, to spare me a moment’s pain or hunger. Yes, I shall always maintain that whoso says in his heart, “There is no God,” while he takes the name of God upon his lips, is either a liar or a madman.

When we reach this point, we have a new grasp on our student; we have new ways to connect with his heart! Only then does he discover a true reason to be good and do the right thing, even when no one is watching and when he’s not compelled by the law. To be just in his own eyes and in the eyes of God, to fulfill his responsibilities even at the risk of his life, and to hold onto virtue not just for the sake of order, which we all prioritize over self-interest, but for the love of the Creator, a love that intertwines with self-love, allowing him to ultimately enjoy the lasting happiness that a clear conscience and the contemplation of that supreme being promise him in the next life, after he has rightly used this one. Beyond this, all I see is injustice, hypocrisy, and deceit among people; personal interests, which inevitably take precedence over everything else in competition, teach everyone to disguise vice as virtue. Let everyone do what is good for me at the expense of what is good for themselves; let everything rely solely on me; let the entire human race suffer and perish if necessary, just to save me a moment of pain or hunger. Yes, I will always argue that anyone who says in their heart, “There is no God,” while speaking God’s name, is either lying or insane.

Reader, it is all in vain; I perceive that you and I shall never see Emile with the same eyes; you will always fancy him like your own young people, hasty, impetuous, flighty, wandering from fete to fete, from amusement to amusement, never able to settle to anything. You smile when I expect to make a thinker, a philosopher, a young theologian, of an ardent, lively, eager, and fiery young man, at the most impulsive period of youth. This dreamer, you say, is always in pursuit of his fancy; when he gives us a pupil of his own making, he does not merely form him, he creates him, he makes him up out of his own head; and while he thinks he is treading in the steps of nature, he is getting further and further from her. As for me, when I compare my pupil with yours, I can scarcely find anything in common between them. So differently brought up, it is almost a miracle if they are alike in any respect. As his childhood was passed in the freedom they assume in youth, in his youth he begins to bear the yoke they bore as children; this yoke becomes hateful to them, they are sick of it, and they see in it nothing but their masters’ tyranny; when they escape from childhood, they think they must shake off all control, they make up for the prolonged restraint imposed upon them, as a prisoner, freed from his fetters, moves and stretches and shakes his limbs. [Footnote: There is no one who looks down upon childhood with such lofty scorn as those who are barely grown-up; just as there is no country where rank is more strictly regarded than that where there is little real inequality; everybody is afraid of being confounded with his inferiors.] Emile, however, is proud to be a man, and to submit to the yoke of his growing reason; his body, already well grown, no longer needs so much action, and begins to control itself, while his half-fledged mind tries its wings on every occasion. Thus the age of reason becomes for the one the age of licence; for the other, the age of reasoning.

Reader, it's all pointless; I realize that you and I will never see Emile the same way. You’ll always picture him like your own young people: hasty, impulsive, flighty, hopping from party to party, from one fun activity to another, never able to settle down. You smile when I hope to turn an enthusiastic, lively, eager, and fiery young man into a thinker, a philosopher, a budding theologian at the most impulsive stage of youth. You say this dreamer is always chasing after his whims; when he creates a student in his own image, he doesn’t just shape him, he invents him, crafting him from his own imagination; and while he believes he’s following nature’s path, he is drifting further away from it. For me, comparing my student with yours, I can hardly find anything they share. They were raised so differently; it’s almost a miracle if they are similar in any way. Since his childhood was full of the freedom they claim in youth, he begins to bear the burdens they carried as children during his adolescence; this burden becomes unbearable for them, they’re fed up with it, and they only see their masters’ tyranny in it. When they break free from childhood, they think they have to shed all control, compensating for the long restrictions placed on them, much like a prisoner, released from his chains, moves, stretches, and shakes his limbs. [Footnote: No one looks down on childhood with such disdain as those who are barely grown-up; just as there is no place where social rank is more strictly observed than where there is little real inequality; everyone fears being mistaken for their inferiors.] Emile, however, takes pride in being a man and in submitting to the guidance of his developing reason; his body, now well developed, no longer craves so much activity and starts to control itself, while his still-maturing mind seeks to explore every opportunity. Thus, for one, the age of reason becomes the age of freedom; for the other, the age of reasoning.

Would you know which of the two is nearer to the order of nature! Consider the differences between those who are more or less removed from a state of nature. Observe young villagers and see if they are as undisciplined as your scholars. The Sieur de Beau says that savages in childhood are always active, and ever busy with sports that keep the body in motion; but scarcely do they reach adolescence than they become quiet and dreamy; they no longer devote themselves to games of skill or chance. Emile, who has been brought up in full freedom like young peasants and savages, should behave like them and change as he grows up. The whole difference is in this, that instead of merely being active in sport or for food, he has, in the course of his sports, learned to think. Having reached this stage, and by this road, he is quite ready to enter upon the next stage to which I introduce him; the subjects I suggest for his consideration rouse his curiosity, because they are fine in themselves, because they are quite new to him, and because he is able to understand them. Your young people, on the other hand, are weary and overdone with your stupid lessons, your long sermons, and your tedious catechisms; why should they not refuse to devote their minds to what has made them sad, to the burdensome precepts which have been continually piled upon them, to the thought of the Author of their being, who has been represented as the enemy of their pleasures? All this has only inspired in them aversion, disgust, and weariness; constraint has set them against it; why then should they devote themselves to it when they are beginning to choose for themselves? They require novelty, you must not repeat what they learned as children. Just so with my own pupil, when he is a man I speak to him as a man, and only tell him what is new to him; it is just because they are tedious to your pupils that he will find them to his taste.

Would you know which of the two is closer to the natural order! Think about the differences between those who are more or less distanced from a natural state. Look at young villagers and see if they are as undisciplined as your students. The Sieur de Beau says that kids in primitive societies are always active, constantly engaged in activities that keep their bodies moving; but as soon as they reach their teenage years, they become quiet and introspective; they no longer focus on games of skill or chance. Emile, who has been raised in complete freedom like young peasants and primitives, should behave like them and change as he matures. The only difference is that instead of just being active for play or food, he has learned to think during his activities. Having reached this point, and through this experience, he is ready to move on to the next stage that I am introducing him to; the topics I present to him spark his curiosity because they are valuable on their own, completely new to him, and he can grasp them. Your young people, on the other hand, are tired and overwhelmed by your pointless lessons, long lectures, and boring catechisms; why should they want to focus on what has made them unhappy, on the heavy rules constantly imposed on them, or on the thought of the Creator, who has been depicted as an enemy of their enjoyment? All of this has only instilled in them feelings of aversion, disgust, and fatigue; constraints have pushed them away from it; so why should they engage with it when they are starting to think for themselves? They need freshness; you shouldn't repeat what they've learned as children. Similarly, with my own student, when he becomes an adult, I speak to him as an adult and only share what is new for him; it’s precisely because your topics are boring to your students that he will find them appealing.

This is how I doubly gain time for him by retarding nature to the advantage of reason. But have I indeed retarded the progress of nature? No, I have only prevented the imagination from hastening it; I have employed another sort of teaching to counterbalance the precocious instruction which the young man receives from other sources. When he is carried away by the flood of existing customs and I draw him in the opposite direction by means of other customs, this is not to remove him from his place, but to keep him in it.

This is how I gain time for him by slowing down nature for the sake of reason. But have I really slowed down nature's progress? No, I’ve just stopped the imagination from speeding it up; I've used a different kind of teaching to balance out the early lessons the young man gets from other places. When he's swept away by the tide of current customs, and I pull him in the opposite direction with other customs, it’s not to take him away from where he belongs, but to help him stay there.

Nature’s due time comes at length, as come it must. Since man must die, he must reproduce himself, so that the species may endure and the order of the world continue. When by the signs I have spoken of you perceive that the critical moment is at hand, at once abandon for ever your former tone. He is still your disciple, but not your scholar. He is a man and your friend; henceforth you must treat him as such.

Nature's time eventually arrives, as it inevitably must. Since humans have to die, they need to reproduce so the species can survive and the world's order can continue. When you recognize the signs I mentioned that indicate the critical moment is approaching, immediately let go of your old ways. He is still your disciple, but no longer just your student. He is a man and your friend; from now on, you should treat him as such.

What! Must I abdicate my authority when most I need it? Must I abandon the adult to himself just when he least knows how to control himself, when he may fall into the gravest errors! Must I renounce my rights when it matters most that I should use them on his behalf? Who bids you renounce them; he is only just becoming conscious of them. Hitherto all you have gained has been won by force or guile; authority, the law of duty, were unknown to him, you had to constrain or deceive him to gain his obedience. But see what fresh chains you have bound about his heart. Reason, friendship, affection, gratitude, a thousand bonds of affection, speak to him in a voice he cannot fail to hear. His ears are not yet dulled by vice, he is still sensitive only to the passions of nature. Self-love, the first of these, delivers him into your hands; habit confirms this. If a passing transport tears him from you, regret restores him to you without delay; the sentiment which attaches him to you is the only lasting sentiment, all the rest are fleeting and self-effacing. Do not let him become corrupt, and he will always be docile; he will not begin to rebel till he is already perverted.

What! Do I have to give up my authority when I need it the most? Do I have to leave the adult to figure things out on his own just when he is least able to control himself, when he might make the worst mistakes? Do I have to give up my rights when it's most important for me to use them for his benefit? Who tells you to give them up; he is only just starting to become aware of them. Up until now, everything you've gained has been through force or trickery; authority, the law of duty, was unknown to him, and you had to force or trick him to get his obedience. But look at the new chains you've put on his heart. Reason, friendship, affection, gratitude, a thousand bonds of love, speak to him in a way he can't ignore. His ears aren't dulled by vice yet; he's still sensitive only to natural passions. Self-love, the strongest of these, puts him in your hands; habits reinforce this. If a fleeting passion pulls him away from you, regret brings him back to you quickly; the connection that ties him to you is the only enduring connection; all the others are temporary and self-effacing. Don’t let him become corrupt, and he will always be obedient; he won’t start to rebel until he’s already been twisted.

I grant you, indeed, that if you directly oppose his growing desires and foolishly treat as crimes the fresh needs which are beginning to make themselves felt in him, he will not listen to you for long; but as soon as you abandon my method I cannot be answerable for the consequences. Remember that you are nature’s minister; you will never be her foe.

I admit that if you directly go against his increasing desires and foolishly see the new needs he’s feeling as wrong, he won’t listen to you for long. But once you abandon my approach, I can’t be held responsible for what happens next. Remember, you are nature’s representative; you can never be her enemy.

But what shall we decide to do? You see no alternative but either to favour his inclinations or to resist them; to tyrannise or to wink at his misconduct; and both of these may lead to such dangerous results that one must indeed hesitate between them.

But what should we choose to do? You see no option except to either support his desires or to push back against them; to control him or to ignore his wrongdoing; and both options could lead to such risky outcomes that one must really think carefully about which to pick.

The first way out of the difficulty is a very early marriage; this is undoubtedly the safest and most natural plan. I doubt, however, whether it is the best or the most useful. I will give my reasons later; meanwhile I admit that young men should marry when they reach a marriageable age. But this age comes too soon; we have made them precocious; marriage should be postponed to maturity.

The first way to solve the problem is to get married young; this is definitely the safest and most natural option. However, I’m not sure it’s the best or most beneficial. I’ll explain my reasons later; for now, I acknowledge that young men should marry when they’re old enough to do so. But this age comes too early; we’ve made them too grown-up too fast; marriage should be delayed until they’re more mature.

If it were merely a case of listening to their wishes and following their lead it would be an easy matter; but there are so many contradictions between the rights of nature and the laws of society that to conciliate them we must continually contradict ourselves. Much art is required to prevent man in society from being altogether artificial.

If it were just a matter of hearing what they want and going along with it, it would be simple; but there are so many conflicts between natural rights and social laws that to reconcile them, we constantly end up contradicting ourselves. It takes a lot of skill to keep people in society from becoming completely artificial.

For the reasons just stated, I consider that by the means I have indicated and others like them the young man’s desires may be kept in ignorance and his senses pure up to the age of twenty. This is so true that among the Germans a young man who lost his virginity before that age was considered dishonoured; and the writers justly attribute the vigour of constitution and the number of children among the Germans to the continence of these nations during youth.

For the reasons I've mentioned, I believe that through the methods I've outlined and similar ones, a young man’s desires can be kept in the dark and his senses untainted until he's twenty. This is so true that among the Germans, a young man who lost his virginity before that age was seen as dishonored; and writers rightly attribute the strength of their constitution and the high number of children among the Germans to the self-restraint of these nations during their youth.

This period may be prolonged still further, and a few centuries ago nothing was more common even in France. Among other well-known examples, Montaigne’s father, a man no less scrupulously truthful than strong and healthy, swore that his was a virgin marriage at three and thirty, and he had served for a long time in the Italian wars. We may see in the writings of his son what strength and spirit were shown by the father when he was over sixty. Certainly the contrary opinion depends rather on our own morals and our own prejudices than on the experience of the race as a whole.

This period can be extended even more, and a few centuries ago, nothing was more common, even in France. Among other well-known examples, Montaigne's father, a man just as truthful as he was strong and healthy, claimed that he had a virgin marriage at thirty-three, despite having served for a long time in the Italian wars. We can see in his son's writings the strength and spirit displayed by the father when he was over sixty. Clearly, the opposing view relies more on our own morals and biases rather than on the experience of humanity as a whole.

I may, therefore, leave on one side the experience of our young people; it proves nothing for those who have been educated in another fashion. Considering that nature has fixed no exact limits which cannot be advanced or postponed, I think I may, without going beyond the law of nature, assume that under my care Emil has so far remained in his first innocence, but I see that this happy period is drawing to a close. Surrounded by ever-increasing perils, he will escape me at the first opportunity in spite of all my efforts, and this opportunity will not long be delayed; he will follow the blind instinct of his senses; the chances are a thousand to one on his ruin. I have considered the morals of mankind too profoundly not to be aware of the irrevocable influence of this first moment on all the rest of his life. If I dissimulate and pretend to see nothing, he will take advantage of my weakness; if he thinks he can deceive me, he will despise me, and I become an accomplice in his destruction. If I try to recall him, the time is past, he no longer heeds me, he finds me tiresome, hateful, intolerable; it will not be long before he is rid of me. There is therefore only one reasonable course open to me; I must make him accountable for his own actions, I must at least preserve him from being taken unawares, and I must show him plainly the dangers which beset his path. I have restrained him so far through his ignorance; henceforward his restraint must be his own knowledge.

I can, therefore, set aside the experiences of our young people; they don’t mean much for those who have been raised differently. Given that nature hasn’t set any strict limits that can’t be stretched or delayed, I think I can, without contradicting the laws of nature, assume that under my guidance, Emil has so far maintained his innocence, but I see that this happy time is coming to an end. Surrounded by growing dangers, he will slip away from me at the first chance, despite all my efforts, and that moment won’t be long in coming; he will follow the blind instincts of his senses; the odds are overwhelmingly in favor of his downfall. I've thought deeply about human morality, so I'm aware of the lasting impact this first moment will have on the rest of his life. If I pretend not to see anything, he will exploit my weakness; if he thinks he can fool me, he will look down on me, and I risk becoming complicit in his downfall. If I try to pull him back, it’s too late; he no longer listens to me; he finds me tiresome, hateful, unbearable; it won’t be long before he gets rid of me. Therefore, there’s only one sensible option for me; I need to hold him accountable for his actions, I must at least keep him from being caught off guard, and I need to clearly show him the dangers that lie ahead. I have kept him in check through his ignorance so far; from now on, that restraint must come from his own understanding.

This new teaching is of great importance, and we will take up our story where we left it. This is the time to present my accounts, to show him how his time and mine have been spent, to make known to him what he is and what I am; what I have done, and what he has done; what we owe to each other; all his moral relations, all the undertakings to which he is pledged, all those to which others have pledged themselves in respect to him; the stage he has reached in the development of his faculties, the road that remains to be travelled, the difficulties he will meet, and the way to overcome them; how I can still help him and how he must henceforward help himself; in a word, the critical time which he has reached, the new dangers round about him, and all the valid reasons which should induce him to keep a close watch upon himself before giving heed to his growing desires.

This new teaching is really important, and we'll pick up our story where we left off. Now is the time to share my insights, show him how both his time and mine have been used, and reveal what he is and what I am; what I’ve accomplished and what he has accomplished; what we owe each other; all his moral responsibilities, all the commitments he has made, and those that others have made regarding him; the stage he has reached in developing his abilities, the path ahead of him, the challenges he will encounter, and how to overcome them; how I can still support him and how he needs to start taking care of himself; in short, the critical moment he has reached, the new risks surrounding him, and all the good reasons he has to keep a close watch on himself before acting on his increasing desires.

Remember that to guide a grown man you must reverse all that you did to guide the child. Do not hesitate to speak to him of those dangerous mysteries which you have so carefully concealed from him hitherto. Since he must become aware of them, let him not learn them from another, nor from himself, but from you alone; since he must henceforth fight against them, let him know his enemy, that he may not be taken unawares.

Remember that to guide an adult, you need to undo everything you did to guide a child. Don’t hold back from discussing those dangerous mysteries you’ve kept hidden from him until now. Since he will need to know about them eventually, let him learn from you, not from someone else or by chance. As he prepares to face them, he needs to know his enemy so he isn’t caught off guard.

Young people who are found to be aware of these matters, without our knowing how they obtained their knowledge, have not obtained it with impunity. This unwise teaching, which can have no honourable object, stains the imagination of those who receive it if it does nothing worse, and it inclines them to the vices of their instructors. This is not all; servants, by this means, ingratiate themselves with a child, gain his confidence, make him regard his tutor as a gloomy and tiresome person; and one of the favourite subjects of their secret colloquies is to slander him. When the pupil has got so far, the master may abandon his task; he can do no good.

Young people who are aware of these issues, without us knowing how they learned about them, haven’t come by this knowledge without consequences. This harmful teaching, which serves no good purpose, taints the imagination of those who receive it, if nothing worse, and leads them to adopt the vices of their teachers. That's not all; servants use this to win over a child, gain their trust, and make them see their tutor as a dull and annoying person. One of their favorite topics during secret chats is to badmouth him. Once the student reaches this point, the teacher might as well give up; he can’t make any difference.

But why does the child choose special confidants? Because of the tyranny of those who control him. Why should he hide himself from them if he were not driven to it? Why should he complain if he had nothing to complain of? Naturally those who control him are his first confidants; you can see from his eagerness to tell them what he thinks that he feels he has only half thought till he has told his thoughts to them. You may be sure that when the child knows you will neither preach nor scold, he will always tell you everything, and that no one will dare to tell him anything he must conceal from you, for they will know very well that he will tell you everything.

But why does the child choose certain trusted friends? Because of the control that others have over him. Why would he hide from them if he didn't have to? Why would he complain if there was nothing wrong? Naturally, the people in control are his first confidants; you can tell from how eager he is to share his thoughts that he only really understands them after he shares them with them. You can be sure that when the child knows you won’t lecture or scold him, he will open up to you completely, and no one will dare to tell him anything he needs to keep from you, because they know he will share everything with you.

What makes me most confident in my method is this: when I follow it out as closely as possible, I find no situation in the life of my scholar which does not leave me some pleasing memory of him. Even when he is carried away by his ardent temperament or when he revolts against the hand that guides him, when he struggles and is on the point of escaping from me, I still find his first simplicity in his agitation and his anger; his heart as pure as his body, he has no more knowledge of pretence than of vice; reproach and scorn have not made a coward of him; base fears have never taught him the art of concealment. He has all the indiscretion of innocence; he is absolutely out-spoken; he does not even know the use of deceit. Every impulse of his heart is betrayed either by word or look, and I often know what he is feeling before he is aware of it himself.

What gives me the most confidence in my approach is this: when I follow it as closely as possible, I see no situation in my scholar's life that doesn't leave me with a nice memory of him. Even when he's carried away by his intense emotions or when he pushes back against the guidance he receives, when he struggles and seems ready to break free, I still see his original simplicity in his agitation and anger; his heart is as pure as his body—he knows no more about deceit than he does about wrongdoing; criticism and disdain haven’t turned him into a coward; petty fears have never taught him how to hide his feelings. He has all the openness of innocence; he is completely candid; he doesn’t even understand the concept of deception. Every surge of his emotions shows through in either his words or his expressions, and often I can tell what he’s feeling before he realizes it himself.

So long as his heart is thus freely opened to me, so long as he delights to tell me what he feels, I have nothing to fear; the danger is not yet at hand; but if he becomes more timid, more reserved, if I perceive in his conversation the first signs of confusion and shame, his instincts are beginning to develop, he is beginning to connect the idea of evil with these instincts, there is not a moment to lose, and if I do not hasten to instruct him, he will learn in spite of me.

As long as he remains open with me, sharing his feelings freely, I have nothing to worry about; the danger hasn’t arrived yet. But if he starts to be more shy or closed off, if I notice signs of discomfort or shame in our conversations, it means he's starting to develop new instincts and associate those instincts with the idea of wrongness. There's no time to waste, and if I don't act quickly to guide him, he’ll learn on his own, regardless of my involvement.

Some of my readers, even of those who agree with me, will think that it is only a question of a conversation with the young man at any time. Oh, this is not the way to control the human heart. What we say has no meaning unless the opportunity has been carefully chosen. Before we sow we must till the ground; the seed of virtue is hard to grow; and a long period of preparation is required before it will take root. One reason why sermons have so little effect is that they are offered to everybody alike, without discrimination or choice. How can any one imagine that the same sermon could be suitable for so many hearers, with their different dispositions, so unlike in mind, temper, age, sex, station, and opinion. Perhaps there are not two among those to whom what is addressed to all is really suitable; and all our affections are so transitory that perhaps there are not even two occasions in the life of any man when the same speech would have the same effect on him. Judge for yourself whether the time when the eager senses disturb the understanding and tyrannise over the will, is the time to listen to the solemn lessons of wisdom. Therefore never reason with young men, even when they have reached the age of reason, unless you have first prepared the way. Most lectures miss their mark more through the master’s fault than the disciple’s. The pedant and the teacher say much the same; but the former says it at random, and the latter only when he is sure of its effect.

Some of my readers, even those who agree with me, might think that it’s just about having a conversation with the young man at any time. But that's not how you influence the human heart. What we say means nothing unless the opportunity is carefully chosen. Before we plant, we need to prepare the soil; the seed of virtue is tough to nurture, and it requires a long period of preparation before it can take root. One reason why sermons have so little impact is that they are given to everyone the same way, without any thought or choice. How can anyone believe that the same sermon could be appropriate for so many listeners, with their different personalities, so unlike in mindset, temperament, age, gender, social standing, and opinions? Perhaps there are not even two people among those to whom a general message is directed for whom it is truly fitting; and all our emotions are so fleeting that maybe there aren't even two moments in anyone's life when the same speech would have the same effect on him. Consider for yourself whether a time when excitement clouds understanding and dominates will is the right time to hear profound lessons of wisdom. Therefore, never engage with young men, even once they reach maturity, unless you've first laid the groundwork. Most lectures miss their target more because of the teacher's shortcomings than the student's. The pedant and the teacher often say much the same thing; but the former speaks at random, while the latter does so only when he knows it will have an impact.

As a somnambulist, wandering in his sleep, walks along the edge of a precipice, over which he would fall if he were awake, so my Emile, in the sleep of ignorance, escapes the perils which he does not see; were I to wake him with a start, he might fall. Let us first try to withdraw him from the edge of the precipice, and then we will awake him to show him it from a distance.

As a sleepwalker drifting through his dreams, walking right by a cliff he would fall off if he were awake, my Emile, in his ignorance, avoids dangers he's not aware of; if I were to suddenly wake him up, he might fall. First, let’s try to move him away from the edge of the cliff, and then we’ll wake him to show him the view from a safe distance.

Reading, solitude, idleness, a soft and sedentary life, intercourse with women and young people, these are perilous paths for a young man, and these lead him constantly into danger. I divert his senses by other objects of sense; I trace another course for his spirits by which I distract them from the course they would have taken; it is by bodily exercise and hard work that I check the activity of the imagination, which was leading him astray. When the arms are hard at work, the imagination is quiet; when the body is very weary, the passions are not easily inflamed. The quickest and easiest precaution is to remove him from immediate danger. At once I take him away from towns, away from things which might lead him into temptation. But that is not enough; in what desert, in what wilds, shall he escape from the thoughts which pursue him? It is not enough to remove dangerous objects; if I fail to remove the memory of them, if I fail to find a way to detach him from everything, if I fail to distract him from himself, I might as well have left him where he was.

Reading, being alone, idleness, a relaxed and sedentary lifestyle, interactions with women and young people—these are risky paths for a young man and constantly lead him into danger. I redirect his senses to other things; I guide his spirit onto a different path to distract him from the one he might take. It’s through physical exercise and hard work that I calm the imagination, which was leading him astray. When the body is busy, the imagination settles down; when the body is very tired, passions don’t easily ignite. The fastest and simplest way is to remove him from immediate danger. I take him away from cities and things that might tempt him. But that’s not enough; in what desert or wilderness can he escape the thoughts that chase him? It’s not enough to remove dangerous things; if I don’t eliminate the memory of them, if I can’t figure out how to detach him from everything, if I can’t distract him from himself, I might as well have left him where he was.

Emile has learned a trade, but we do not have recourse to it; he is fond of farming and understands it, but farming is not enough; the occupations he is acquainted with degenerate into routine; when he is engaged in them he is not really occupied; he is thinking of other things; head and hand are at work on different subjects. He must have some fresh occupation which has the interest of novelty—an occupation which keeps him busy, diligent, and hard at work, an occupation which he may become passionately fond of, one to which he will devote himself entirely. Now the only one which seems to possess all these characteristics is the chase. If hunting is ever an innocent pleasure, if it is ever worthy of a man, now is the time to betake ourselves to it. Emile is well-fitted to succeed in it. He is strong, skilful, patient, unwearied. He is sure to take a fancy to this sport; he will bring to it all the ardour of youth; in it he will lose, at least for a time, the dangerous inclinations which spring from softness. The chase hardens the heart a well as the body; we get used to the sight of blood and cruelty. Diana is represented as the enemy of love; and the allegory is true to life; the languors of love are born of soft repose, and tender feelings are stifled by violent exercise. In the woods and fields, the lover and the sportsman are so diversely affected that they receive very different impressions. The fresh shade, the arbours, the pleasant resting-places of the one, to the other are but feeding grounds, or places where the quarry will hide or turn to bay. Where the lover hears the flute and the nightingale, the hunter hears the horn and the hounds; one pictures to himself the nymphs and dryads, the other sees the horses, the huntsman, and the pack. Take a country walk with one or other of these men; their different conversation will soon show you that they behold the earth with other eyes, and that the direction of their thoughts is as different as their favourite pursuit.

Emile has learned a trade, but we can’t rely on it; he enjoys farming and understands it, but farming alone isn’t enough; the jobs he knows turn into a routine. When he’s working, he’s not really engaged; his mind is on other things; his mind and hands are focused on different topics. He needs a new activity that has the excitement of novelty—something that keeps him busy, diligent, and hard at work, something he might grow to love and fully commit to. The only thing that seems to have all these qualities is hunting. If hunting can ever be a harmless pleasure, if it can ever befit a man, now is the time to take it up. Emile is well-suited to succeed at it. He is strong, skilled, patient, and tireless. He is sure to enjoy this sport; he will bring all the enthusiasm of youth to it; in it, he will temporarily forget the dangerous urges that come from idleness. Hunting toughens both the heart and body; we get accustomed to the sight of blood and cruelty. Diana is seen as the enemy of love, and the metaphor holds true; the lethargy of love comes from comfort, and tender feelings are drowned out by vigorous activity. In the woods and fields, the lover and the hunter are affected so differently that they have very distinct experiences. The cool shade, arbors, and pleasant resting spots that are soothing for one are just feeding grounds or hiding spots for the other. Where the lover hears the flute and the nightingale, the hunter hears the horn and the hounds; one envisions nymphs and dryads, while the other sees horses, the huntsman, and the pack. Take a country walk with either of these men; their conversations will quickly reveal that they see the world through different lenses, and that the focus of their thoughts is as different as their preferred pastime.

I understand how these tastes may be combined, and that at last men find time for both. But the passions of youth cannot be divided in this way. Give the youth a single occupation which he loves, and the rest will soon be forgotten. Varied desires come with varied knowledge, and the first pleasures we know are the only ones we desire for long enough. I would not have the whole of Emile’s youth spent in killing creatures, and I do not even profess to justify this cruel passion; it is enough for me that it serves to delay a more dangerous passion, so that he may listen to me calmly when I speak of it, and give me time to describe it without stimulating it.

I get how these interests can mix, and eventually people make time for both. But you can't split the passions of youth like that. Give a young person one thing they love to do, and they'll quickly forget everything else. Different desires come with different experiences, and the first pleasures we encounter are the only ones we want for a long time. I wouldn't want all of Emile's youth spent hunting animals, and I'm not here to defend this cruel interest; I just think it helps hold off a more dangerous passion, so he can listen to me calmly when I talk about it and give me time to explain it without igniting it.

There are moments in human life which can never be forgotten. Such is the time when Emile receives the instruction of which I have spoken; its influence should endure all his life through. Let us try to engrave it on his memory so that it may never fade away. It is one of the faults of our age to rely too much on cold reason, as if men were all mind. By neglecting the language of expression we have lost the most forcible mode of speech. The spoken word is always weak, and we speak to the heart rather through the eyes than the ears. In our attempt to appeal to reason only, we have reduced our precepts to words, we have not embodied them in deed. Mere reason is not active; occasionally she restrains, more rarely she stimulates, but she never does any great thing. Small minds have a mania for reasoning. Strong souls speak a very different language, and it is by this language that men are persuaded and driven to action.

There are moments in life that we can never forget. One such moment is when Emile receives the instruction I mentioned; its impact should last his entire life. Let’s try to engrave it in his memory so that it never fades. One of the issues with our age is that we rely too much on cold reasoning, as if people were just minds. By ignoring the language of expression, we have lost the most powerful way to communicate. The spoken word is always weak; we connect more with the heart through our eyes than through our ears. In our effort to appeal only to reason, we have reduced our principles to words without bringing them to life through action. Pure reason isn’t proactive; sometimes it holds back, but rarely does it inspire, and it never accomplishes anything significant. Small-minded people obsess over reasoning. In contrast, strong souls communicate in a very different way, and it’s through this language that people are convinced and motivated to act.

I observe that in modern times men only get a hold over others by force or self-interest, while the ancients did more by persuasion, by the affections of the heart; because they did not neglect the language; of symbolic expression. All agreements were drawn up solemnly, so that they might be more inviolable; before the reign of force, the gods were the judges of mankind; in their presence, individuals made their treaties and alliances, and pledged themselves to perform their promises; the face of the earth was the book in which the archives were preserved. The leaves of this book were rocks, trees, piles of stones, made sacred by these transactions, and regarded with reverence by barbarous men; and these pages were always open before their eyes. The well of the oath, the well of the living and seeing one; the ancient oak of Mamre, the stones of witness, such were the simple but stately monuments of the sanctity of contracts; none dared to lay a sacrilegious hand on these monuments, and man’s faith was more secure under the warrant of these dumb witnesses than it is to-day upon all the rigour of the law.

I notice that in today’s world, men mostly gain power over others through force or self-interest, while in ancient times, they relied more on persuasion and heartfelt connections because they valued the language of symbolic expression. Agreements were made with solemnity to make them more binding; before force ruled, the gods judged humanity. In their presence, individuals forged treaties and alliances, promising to keep their word. The earth itself was the book where records were kept. The pages of this book were rocks, trees, and piles of stones, made sacred by these agreements and respected by primitive people, always visible to them. The well of the oath, the well of the living and seeing one; the ancient oak of Mamre, the stones of witness — these were the simple yet grand monuments that represented the sanctity of contracts. No one dared to defile these monuments, and people’s trust was more secure under the protection of these silent witnesses than it is today under the strictness of the law.

In government the people were over-awed by the pomp and splendour of royal power. The symbols of greatness, a throne, a sceptre, a purple robe, a crown, a fillet, these were sacred in their sight. These symbols, and the respect which they inspired, led them to reverence the venerable man whom they beheld adorned with them; without soldiers and without threats, he spoke and was obeyed. [Footnote: The Roman Catholic clergy have very wisely retained these symbols, and certain republics, such as Venice, have followed their example. Thus the Venetian government, despite the fallen condition of the state, still enjoys, under the trappings of its former greatness, all the affection, all the reverence of the people; and next to the pope in his triple crown, there is perhaps no king, no potentate, no person in the world so much respected as the Doge of Venice; he has no power, no authority, but he is rendered sacred by his pomp, and he wears beneath his ducal coronet a woman’s flowing locks. That ceremony of the Bucentaurius, which stirs the laughter of fools, stirs the Venetian populace to shed its life-blood for the maintenance of this tyrannical government.] In our own day men profess to do away with these symbols. What are the consequences of this contempt? The kingly majesty makes no impression on all hearts, kings can only gain obedience by the help of troops, and the respect of their subjects is based only on the fear of punishment. Kings are spared the trouble of wearing their crowns, and our nobles escape from the outward signs of their station, but they must have a hundred thousand men at their command if their orders are to be obeyed. Though this may seem a finer thing, it is easy to see that in the long run they will gain nothing.

In government, people were intimidated by the grandeur and splendor of royal authority. The symbols of greatness—a throne, a scepter, a purple robe, a crown, a fillet—were revered in their eyes. These symbols, and the respect they inspired, led people to honor the respected figure they saw adorned with them; without soldiers and without threats, he spoke and was obeyed. [Footnote: The Roman Catholic clergy have wisely maintained these symbols, and some republics, like Venice, have followed suit. So, despite its current decline, the Venetian government still enjoys, under the remnants of its former glory, the love and respect of the people; and next to the pope in his triple crown, there may be no king, no ruler, no individual in the world as respected as the Doge of Venice; he has no power or authority, but his grandeur makes him sacred, and underneath his ducal crown, he wears a woman’s flowing hair. That ceremony of the Bucentaurius, which makes fools laugh, compels the Venetian people to spill their blood for the upkeep of this tyrannical regime.] In our time, men claim to reject these symbols. What are the consequences of this disdain? The majesty of kings fails to impress everyone; kings can only gain obedience with the help of troops, and their subjects' respect is rooted only in the fear of punishment. Kings avoid the hassle of wearing crowns, and our nobles escape the external signs of their rank, but they require a hundred thousand men at their disposal if they want their orders followed. While this may seem preferable, it's clear that in the long run, they will achieve nothing.

It is amazing what the ancients accomplished with the aid of eloquence; but this eloquence did not merely consist in fine speeches carefully prepared; and it was most effective when the orator said least. The most startling speeches were expressed not in words but in signs; they were not uttered but shown. A thing beheld by the eyes kindles the imagination, stirs the curiosity, and keeps the mind on the alert for what we are about to say, and often enough the thing tells the whole story. Thrasybulus and Tarquin cutting off the heads of the poppies, Alexander placing his seal on the lips of his favourite, Diogenes marching before Zeno, do not these speak more plainly than if they had uttered long orations? What flow of words could have expressed the ideas as clearly? Darius, in the course of the Scythian war, received from the king of the Scythians a bird, a frog, a mouse, and five arrows. The ambassador deposited this gift and retired without a word. In our days he would have been taken for a madman. This terrible speech was understood, and Darius withdrew to his own country with what speed he could. Substitute a letter for these symbols and the more threatening it was the less terror it would inspire; it would have been merely a piece of bluff, to which Darius would have paid no attention.

It's incredible what the ancients achieved with the power of speech; but this power didn't just come from well-crafted speeches. It was most impactful when the speaker said the least. The most powerful messages were communicated not through words but through actions; they weren't spoken but demonstrated. Something seen by the eyes ignites the imagination, sparks curiosity, and keeps us engaged for what's coming next, and often the action conveys the entire story. Thrasybulus and Tarquin cutting off the heads of the poppies, Alexander sealing his favorite's lips, Diogenes walking in front of Zeno—don't these actions say more clearly than long speeches? What stream of words could capture those ideas as effectively? During the Scythian war, Darius received from the Scythian king a bird, a frog, a mouse, and five arrows. The messenger delivered this gift and left without a word. In today's world, he'd probably be seen as crazy. This powerful message was clear, and Darius hurried back to his own land as fast as he could. If a letter had replaced those symbols, the more threatening it was, the less fear it would evoke; it would have just been a bluff, which Darius would have ignored.

What heed the Romans gave to the language of signs! Different ages and different ranks had their appropriate garments, toga, tunic, patrician robes, fringes and borders, seats of honour, lictors, rods and axes, crowns of gold, crowns of leaves, crowns of flowers, ovations, triumphs, everything had its pomp, its observances, its ceremonial, and all these spoke to the heart of the citizens. The state regarded it as a matter of importance that the populace should assemble in one place rather than another, that they should or should not behold the Capitol, that they should or should not turn towards the Senate, that this day or that should be chosen for their deliberations. The accused wore a special dress, so did the candidates for election; warriors did not boast of their exploits, they showed their scars. I can fancy one of our orators at the death of Caesar exhausting all the commonplaces of rhetoric to give a pathetic description of his wounds, his blood, his dead body; Anthony was an orator, but he said none of this; he showed the murdered Caesar. What rhetoric was this!

How much attention the Romans paid to the language of signs! Different ages and social classes had their own distinct outfits—togas, tunics, patrician robes, fringes and borders, seats of honor, lictors, rods and axes, crowns of gold, crowns of leaves, crowns of flowers, ovations, triumphs—everything had its splendor, its rituals, its ceremonies, and all of these resonated with the hearts of the citizens. The state saw it as crucial for the people to gather in one spot rather than another, whether they should or shouldn’t see the Capitol, whether they should or shouldn't face the Senate, and which day should be selected for their discussions. The accused wore a specific outfit, as did the candidates for election; warriors didn’t brag about their achievements; they displayed their scars. I can imagine one of our speakers at Caesar's funeral exhausting all the clichés of rhetoric to give an emotional account of his wounds, his blood, his lifeless body; Anthony was an orator, but he didn’t say any of that; he showed the slain Caesar. What kind of rhetoric was this!

But this digression, like many others, is drawing me unawares away from my subject; and my digressions are too frequent to be borne with patience. I therefore return to the point.

But this aside, like many others, is unexpectedly pulling me away from my topic; and my asides are too frequent to be tolerated. So, I’ll get back to the main point.

Do not reason coldly with youth. Clothe your reason with a body, if you would make it felt. Let the mind speak the language of the heart, that it may be understood. I say again our opinions, not our actions, may be influenced by cold argument; they set us thinking, not doing; they show us what we ought to think, not what we ought to do. If this is true of men, it is all the truer of young people who are still enwrapped in their senses and cannot think otherwise than they imagine.

Don't reason with youth in a cold way. If you want them to really feel your reasoning, make it relatable. Let the mind speak with the passion of the heart so that it can be understood. Once again, I emphasize that our opinions, not our actions, can be swayed by cold arguments; they get us thinking but not acting; they tell us what we should think, not what we should do. If this applies to adults, it's even more true for young people who are still caught up in their emotions and can't think beyond their imaginations.

Even after the preparations of which I have spoken, I shall take good care not to go all of a sudden to Emile’s room and preach a long and heavy sermon on the subject in which he is to be instructed. I shall begin by rousing his imagination; I shall choose the time, place, and surroundings most favourable to the impression I wish to make; I shall, so to speak, summon all nature as witness to our conversations; I shall call upon the eternal God, the Creator of nature, to bear witness to the truth of what I say. He shall judge between Emile and myself; I will make the rocks, the woods, the mountains round about us, the monuments of his promises and mine; eyes, voice, and gesture shall show the enthusiasm I desire to inspire. Then I will speak and he will listen, and his emotion will be stirred by my own. The more impressed I am by the sanctity of my duties, the more sacred he will regard his own. I will enforce the voice of reason with images and figures, I will not give him long-winded speeches or cold precepts, but my overflowing feelings will break their bounds; my reason shall be grave and serious, but my heart cannot speak too warmly. Then when I have shown him all that I have done for him, I will show him how he is made for me; he will see in my tender affection the cause of all my care. How greatly shall I surprise and disturb him when I change my tone. Instead of shrivelling up his soul by always talking of his own interests, I shall henceforth speak of my own; he will be more deeply touched by this. I will kindle in his young heart all the sentiments of affection, generosity, and gratitude which I have already called into being, and it will indeed be sweet to watch their growth. I will press him to my bosom, and weep over him in my emotion; I will say to him: “You are my wealth, my child, my handiwork; my happiness is bound up in yours; if you frustrate my hopes, you rob me of twenty years of my life, and you bring my grey hairs with sorrow to the grave.” This is the way to gain a hearing and to impress what is said upon the heart and memory of the young man.

Even after all the preparations I mentioned, I will make sure not to rush into Emile’s room and deliver a long, boring lecture on the topic he’s supposed to learn. I will start by sparking his imagination; I’ll pick the right time, place, and setting to create the impression I want to make. I’ll, so to speak, call upon all of nature as a witness to our talks; I’ll ask the eternal God, the Creator of nature, to testify to the truth of what I say. He will decide between Emile and me; I’ll make the rocks, the woods, and the mountains around us reminders of his promises and mine; my eyes, voice, and gestures will convey the enthusiasm I aim to inspire. Then I’ll speak, and he’ll listen, his emotions stirred by mine. The more I feel the weight of my responsibilities, the more seriously he’ll take his own. I will reinforce reason with vivid images and metaphors; I won’t give him long, dry speeches or cold rules, but my overflowing feelings will break those barriers; my reasoning will be serious, but my heart can’t help but speak warmly. Once I’ve shown him everything I’ve done for him, I’ll show him how he’s meant for me; he’ll see in my tender love the reason behind all my care. How much I will surprise and stir him when I change my tone. Instead of draining his spirit by always talking about his own interests, I’ll now share mine; he’ll be touched more deeply by this. I will ignite all the feelings of affection, generosity, and gratitude in his young heart that I’ve already cultivated, and it will truly be rewarding to watch them grow. I’ll hold him close and weep for him in my emotion; I’ll say to him: “You are my treasure, my child, my creation; my happiness is tied to yours; if you crush my hopes, you rob me of twenty years of my life and bring my grey hairs to the grave with sorrow.” This is how to capture his attention and make what’s said stick in his heart and memory.

Hitherto I have tried to give examples of the way in which a tutor should instruct his pupil in cases of difficulty. I have tried to do so in this instance; but after many attempts I have abandoned the task, convinced that the French language is too artificial to permit in print the plainness of speech required for the first lessons in certain subjects.

Until now, I've tried to provide examples of how a tutor should teach a student when they face challenges. I've made attempts in this case too, but after several tries, I've given up, convinced that the French language is too artificial to allow the straightforwardness required for the initial lessons in some subjects to be conveyed in writing.

They say French is more chaste than other languages; for my own part I think it more obscene; for it seems to me that the purity of a language does not consist in avoiding coarse expressions but in having none. Indeed, if we are to avoid them, they must be in our thoughts, and there is no language in which it is so difficult to speak with purity on every subject than French. The reader is always quicker to detect than the author to avoid a gross meaning, and he is shocked and startled by everything. How can what is heard by impure ears avoid coarseness? On the other hand, a nation whose morals are pure has fit terms for everything, and these terms are always right because they are rightly used. One could not imagine more modest language than that of the Bible, just because of its plainness of speech. The same things translated into French would become immodest. What I ought to say to Emile will sound pure and honourable to him; but to make the same impression in print would demand a like purity of heart in the reader.

They say that French is more refined than other languages; personally, I find it more inappropriate. It seems to me that the purity of a language isn't about avoiding crude expressions but about not having them at all. In fact, if we’re trying to avoid them, they must still exist in our thoughts, and there's no language where it's harder to speak purely about every topic than French. Readers often pick up on crude meanings faster than writers can avoid them, and they react with shock. How can something heard by impure ears escape being crude? Conversely, a nation with pure morals has appropriate words for everything, and those words are always correct because they're used properly. You couldn't find more modest language than that of the Bible, simply because of its straightforwardness. The same expressions translated into French would become inappropriate. What I need to say to Emile will sound pure and honorable to him; however, to achieve the same effect in writing would require a similar purity of heart in the reader.

I should even think that reflections on true purity of speech and the sham delicacy of vice might find a useful place in the conversations as to morality to which this subject brings us; for when he learns the language of plain-spoken goodness, he must also learn the language of decency, and he must know why the two are so different. However this may be, I maintain that if instead of the empty precepts which are prematurely dinned into the ears of children, only to be scoffed at when the time comes when they might prove useful, if instead of this we bide our time, if we prepare the way for a hearing, if we then show him the laws of nature in all their truth, if we show him the sanction of these laws in the physical and moral evils which overtake those who neglect them, if while we speak to him of this great mystery of generation, we join to the idea of the pleasure which the Author of nature has given to this act the idea of the exclusive affection which makes it delightful, the idea of the duties of faithfulness and modesty which surround it, and redouble its charm while fulfilling its purpose; if we paint to him marriage, not only as the sweetest form of society, but also as the most sacred and inviolable of contracts, if we tell him plainly all the reasons which lead men to respect this sacred bond, and to pour hatred and curses upon him who dares to dishonour it; if we give him a true and terrible picture of the horrors of debauch, of its stupid brutality, of the downward road by which a first act of misconduct leads from bad to worse, and at last drags the sinner to his ruin; if, I say, we give him proofs that on a desire for chastity depends health, strength, courage, virtue, love itself, and all that is truly good for man—I maintain that this chastity will be so dear and so desirable in his eyes, that his mind will be ready to receive our teaching as to the way to preserve it; for so long as we are chaste we respect chastity; it is only when we have lost this virtue that we scorn it.

I even think that discussions on true purity of speech and the false delicacy of vice could be really helpful in conversations about morality that this topic brings up. When someone learns the language of straightforward goodness, they also need to understand the language of decency and why the two are so different. That said, I believe that instead of empty lessons that are force-fed to kids only to be dismissed when they might actually be useful, we should take our time. If we prepare them for a real listening experience, show them the laws of nature in all their truth, and illustrate the consequences of ignoring these laws through the physical and moral issues that come from doing so. If, while discussing this great mystery of creation, we pair the pleasure that the Creator of nature has associated with this act with the exclusive affection that makes it special, along with the responsibilities of loyalty and modesty that add to its beauty and purpose; if we present marriage not just as the sweetest form of community but also as the most sacred and unbreakable of contracts, and explain clearly the reasons why people respect this sacred bond and detest anyone who dares to dishonor it; if we provide a real and horrifying view of the miseries of debauchery, its mindless brutality, the downward spiral that begins with a first act of misconduct leading to worse outcomes, and ultimately drags the sinner to their downfall; if I say, we show them that the desire for chastity is linked to health, strength, courage, virtue, love itself, and everything good for a person—I believe that this chastity will become so valuable and desirable to them that they will be open to learning how to maintain it. Because as long as we are chaste, we respect chastity; it's only when we lose this virtue that we come to despise it.

It is not true that the inclination to evil is beyond our control, and that we cannot overcome it until we have acquired the habit of yielding to it. Aurelius Victor says that many men were mad enough to purchase a night with Cleopatra at the price of their life, and this is not incredible in the madness of passion. But let us suppose the maddest of men, the man who has his senses least under control; let him see the preparations for his death, let him realise that he will certainly die in torment a quarter of an hour later; not only would that man, from that time forward, become able to resist temptation, he would even find it easy to do so; the terrible picture with which they are associated will soon distract his attention from these temptations, and when they are continually put aside they will cease to recur. The sole cause of our weakness is the feebleness of our will, and we have always strength to perform what we strongly desire. “Volenti nihil difficile!” Oh! if only we hated vice as much as we love life, we should abstain as easily from a pleasant sin as from a deadly poison in a delicious dish.

It's not true that our urge to do wrong is beyond our control, and that we can't overcome it until we get used to giving in. Aurelius Victor mentions that many men were foolish enough to pay with their lives for a night with Cleopatra, and that's not surprising given the madness of passion. But let's consider the most reckless person, someone who is least in control of his senses; if he were to see preparations for his death and realize he would definitely die in agony in just fifteen minutes, he wouldn’t only become able to resist temptation from that moment on, he would actually find it easy. The horrifying thought of his impending death would soon distract him from those temptations, and when he keeps pushing them away, they will eventually stop coming back. The only reason for our weakness is our weak will, and we always have the strength to do what we truly desire. “Volenti nihil difficile!” Oh! If only we hated vice as much as we love life, we would avoid a tempting sin as easily as we would stay away from a deadly poison in a tasty meal.

How is it that you fail to perceive that if all the lessons given to a young man on this subject have no effect, it is because they are not adapted to his age, and that at every age reason must be presented in a shape which will win his affection? Speak seriously to him if required, but let what you say to him always have a charm which will compel him to listen. Do not coldly oppose his wishes; do not stifle his imagination, but direct it lest it should bring forth monsters. Speak to him of love, of women, of pleasure; let him find in your conversation a charm which delights his youthful heart; spare no pains to make yourself his confidant; under this name alone will you really be his master. Then you need not fear he will find your conversation tedious; he will make you talk more than you desire.

How is it that you can't see that if all the lessons given to a young man on this topic aren't having any impact, it's because they aren't suited for his age? At every stage of life, you need to present reason in a way that captures his affection. If it’s necessary, speak seriously to him, but always make sure what you say has a charm that makes him want to listen. Don’t just oppose his wishes coldly; don’t squash his imagination, but guide it so it doesn’t create nightmares. Talk to him about love, women, and pleasure; let your conversations be enchanting to his young heart. Do whatever it takes to become his confidant; under that title alone will you truly be his master. Then you won't have to worry about him finding your talks boring; he’ll make you talk more than you want to.

If I have managed to take all the requisite precautions in accordance with these maxims, and have said the right things to Emile at the age he has now reached, I am quite convinced that he will come of his own accord to the point to which I would lead him, and will eagerly confide himself to my care. When he sees the dangers by which he is surrounded, he will say to me with all the warmth of youth, “Oh, my friend, my protector, my master! resume the authority you desire to lay aside at the very time when I most need it; hitherto my weakness has given you this power. I now place it in your hands of my own free-will, and it will be all the more sacred in my eyes. Protect me from all the foes which are attacking me, and above all from the traitors within the citadel; watch over your work, that it may still be worthy of you. I mean to obey your laws, I shall ever do so, that is my steadfast purpose; if I ever disobey you, it will be against my will; make me free by guarding me against the passions which do me violence; do not let me become their slave; compel me to be my own master and to obey, not my senses, but my reason.”

If I’ve managed to take all the necessary precautions according to these principles, and I’ve spoken the right words to Emile at his current age, I truly believe he will naturally arrive at the place I want to guide him, and he will willingly entrust himself to my care. When he recognizes the dangers around him, he will say to me with all the enthusiasm of youth, “Oh, my friend, my protector, my mentor! Please take back the authority you wish to set aside at the very moment I need it most; until now, my weakness has given you this power. I now hand it over to you of my own free will, and it will hold even more significance for me. Protect me from all the enemies attacking me, especially from the traitors within the stronghold; look after your work, so it remains deserving of you. I intend to follow your rules, and I will always do so, that’s my firm intention; if I ever rebel against you, it will be against my will; help me be free by shielding me from the passions that harm me; don’t let me become their slave; force me to be my own master and to obey not my senses, but my reason.”

When you have led your pupil so far (and it will be your own fault if you fail to do so), beware of taking him too readily at his word, lest your rule should seem too strict to him, and lest he should think he has a right to escape from it, by accusing you of taking him by surprise. This is the time for reserve and seriousness; and this attitude will have all the more effect upon him seeing that it is the first time you have adopted it towards him.

When you’ve guided your student this far (and it’s on you if you don’t), be careful not to take him at his word too easily. Otherwise, your rules might seem too harsh to him, and he might feel entitled to avoid them by claiming you caught him off guard. This is the moment for restraint and seriousness; this approach will have an even greater impact on him since it’s the first time you’ve shown it towards him.

You will say to him therefore: “Young man, you readily make promises which are hard to keep; you must understand what they mean before you have a right to make them; you do not know how your fellows are drawn by their passions into the whirlpool of vice masquerading as pleasure. You are honourable, I know; you will never break your word, but how often will you repent of having given it? How often will you curse your friend, when, in order to guard you from the ills which threaten you, he finds himself compelled to do violence to your heart. Like Ulysses who, hearing the song of the Sirens, cried aloud to his rowers to unbind him, you will break your chains at the call of pleasure; you will importune me with your lamentations, you will reproach me as a tyrant when I have your welfare most at heart; when I am trying to make you happy, I shall incur your hatred. Oh, Emile, I can never bear to be hateful in your eyes; this is too heavy a price to pay even for your happiness. My dear young man, do you not see that when you undertake to obey me, you compel me to promise to be your guide, to forget myself in my devotion to you, to refuse to listen to your murmurs and complaints, to wage unceasing war against your wishes and my own. Before we either of us undertake such a task, let us count our resources; take your time, give me time to consider, and be sure that the slower we are to promise, the more faithfully will our promises be kept.”

You will say to him, “Young man, you easily make promises that are tough to keep; you need to understand what they mean before you have the right to make them. You don’t realize how your peers are pulled by their passions into the trap of vice disguised as pleasure. I know you’re honorable; you’ll never break your word, but how often will you regret having given it? How often will you blame your friend when, to protect you from the dangers that threaten you, he has to go against your wishes? Like Ulysses, who, hearing the Sirens' song, cried out to his crew to set him free, you will break your chains at the call of pleasure. You will come to me with your complaints, you will call me a tyrant when I have your best interests at heart; when I’m trying to make you happy, I will earn your anger. Oh, Emile, I can’t stand being hated in your eyes; it’s too high a cost to pay for your happiness. My dear young man, can’t you see that when you agree to follow me, you force me to promise to be your guide, to dedicate myself to you, to ignore your grumbles and complaints, to keep fighting against both your wishes and my own? Before we undertake such a commitment, let’s assess our resources; take your time and give me time to think, and know that the slower we are to make promises, the more sincerely we will keep them.”

You may be sure that the more difficulty he finds in getting your promise, the easier you will find it to carry it out. The young man must learn that he is promising a great deal, and that you are promising still more. When the time is come, when he has, so to say, signed the contract, then change your tone, and make your rule as gentle as you said it would be severe. Say to him, “My young friend, it is experience that you lack; but I have taken care that you do not lack reason. You are ready to see the motives of my conduct in every respect; to do this you need only wait till you are free from excitement. Always obey me first, and then ask the reasons for my commands; I am always ready to give my reasons so soon as you are ready to listen to them, and I shall never be afraid to make you the judge between us. You promise to follow my teaching, and I promise only to use your obedience to make you the happiest of men. For proof of this I have the life you have lived hitherto. Show me any one of your age who has led as happy a life as yours, and I promise you nothing more.”

You can be sure that the harder it is for him to make your promise, the easier it will be for you to keep it. The young man needs to understand that he’s making a big commitment, and you’re making an even bigger one. Once the time comes and he has, so to speak, signed the contract, then change your approach and make your rules as gentle as you said they would be strict. Say to him, “My young friend, you lack experience, but I’ve ensured that you won’t lack reason. You’re ready to understand the reasons behind my actions in every way; to do this, just wait until you’re calm. Always follow my lead first, and then ask why I’ve given those instructions; I’m always willing to explain my reasons as soon as you’re ready to hear them, and I’ll never hesitate to let you judge between us. You agree to follow my guidance, and I promise to use your obedience to make you the happiest person. For proof, just look at the life you’ve lived so far. Show me anyone your age who has lived as happily as you have, and I won’t ask for anything more.”

When my authority is firmly established, my first care will be to avoid the necessity of using it. I shall spare no pains to become more and more firmly established in his confidence, to make myself the confidant of his heart and the arbiter of his pleasures. Far from combating his youthful tastes, I shall consult them that I may be their master; I will look at things from his point of view that I may be his guide; I will not seek a remote distant good at the cost of his present happiness. I would always have him happy always if that may be.

Once my authority is well established, my top priority will be to avoid having to use it. I'll do everything I can to gain his trust more and more, to become his closest confidant and a key figure in his enjoyment. Instead of resisting his youthful interests, I will engage with them so I can steer him wisely; I’ll see things from his perspective so I can guide him. I won’t chase some far-off ideal if it means sacrificing his current happiness. I want him to be happy always, if that’s possible.

Those who desire to guide young people rightly and to preserve them from the snares of sense give them a disgust for love, and would willingly make the very thought of it a crime, as if love were for the old. All these mistaken lessons have no effect; the heart gives the lie to them. The young man, guided by a surer instinct, laughs to himself over the gloomy maxims which he pretends to accept, and only awaits the chance of disregarding them. All that is contrary to nature. By following the opposite course I reach the same end more safely. I am not afraid to encourage in him the tender feeling for which he is so eager, I shall paint it as the supreme joy of life, as indeed it is; when I picture it to him, I desire that he shall give himself up to it; by making him feel the charm which the union of hearts adds to the delights of sense, I shall inspire him with a disgust for debauchery; I shall make him a lover and a good man.

Those who want to guide young people the right way and protect them from the traps of desire encourage a dislike for love and would gladly make even the thought of it seem like a crime, as if love is only for the old. All these misguided lessons have no real impact; the heart proves them wrong. The young man, relying on a stronger instinct, just laughs to himself at the gloomy maxims he pretends to accept and waits for the opportunity to ignore them. Everything about this is against nature. By taking a different approach, I reach the same goal more safely. I’m not afraid to encourage him in the tender feelings he craves; I’ll describe it as the greatest joy in life, which it truly is. When I present it to him, I want him to fully embrace it; by helping him feel the joy that comes from a heartfelt connection alongside physical pleasure, I’ll inspire him to reject debauchery; I’ll turn him into a lover and a good man.

How narrow-minded to see nothing in the rising desires of a young heart but obstacles to the teaching of reason. In my eyes, these are the right means to make him obedient to that very teaching. Only through passion can we gain the mastery over passions; their tyranny must be controlled by their legitimate power, and nature herself must furnish us with the means to control her.

How short-sighted to see nothing in the growing desires of a young heart but obstacles to learning reason. To me, these are the right ways to make him obedient to that very teaching. Only through passion can we gain control over passions; their tyranny must be managed by their rightful power, and nature herself must provide us with the tools to manage her.

Emile is not made to live alone, he is a member of society, and must fulfil his duties as such. He is made to live among his fellow-men and he must get to know them. He knows mankind in general; he has still to learn to know individual men. He knows what goes on in the world; he has now to learn how men live in the world. It is time to show him the front of that vast stage, of which he already knows the hidden workings. It will not arouse in him the foolish admiration of a giddy youth, but the discrimination of an exact and upright spirit. He may no doubt be deceived by his passions; who is there who yields to his passions without being led astray by them? At least he will not be deceived by the passions of other people. If he sees them, he will regard them with the eye of the wise, and will neither be led away by their example nor seduced by their prejudices.

Emile isn't meant to live alone; he's part of society and needs to fulfill his responsibilities there. He's meant to live among other people and needs to understand them. He knows humanity in general; now he needs to learn about individual people. He understands what's happening in the world; now he needs to learn how people actually live in it. It's time to show him the front of that vast stage, which he already understands the behind-the-scenes aspects of. This won't spark the foolish admiration of an immature youth, but rather the discernment of a thoughtful and honest person. He may be misled by his own passions; who can resist their passions without getting off track? But at least he won't be fooled by other people's passions. If he observes them, he'll view them with the insight of the wise, neither swayed by their actions nor influenced by their biases.

As there is a fitting age for the study of the sciences, so there is a fitting age for the study of the ways of the world. Those who learn these too soon, follow them throughout life, without choice or consideration, and although they follow them fairly well they never really know what they are about. But he who studies the ways of the world and sees the reason for them, follows them with more insight, and therefore more exactly and gracefully. Give me a child of twelve who knows nothing at all; at fifteen I will restore him to you knowing as much as those who have been under instruction from infancy; with this difference, that your scholars only know things by heart, while mine knows how to use his knowledge. In the same way plunge a young man of twenty into society; under good guidance, in a year’s time, he will be more charming and more truly polite than one brought up in society from childhood. For the former is able to perceive the reasons for all the proceedings relating to age, position, and sex, on which the customs of society depend, and can reduce them to general principles, and apply them to unforeseen emergencies; while the latter, who is guided solely by habit, is at a loss when habit fails him.

Just like there's a right age to study science, there's also a right age to understand how the world works. Those who learn about the world too early end up just following it without thinking, and even if they do a decent job, they never really grasp what it's all about. But the person who studies how the world works and understands the reasons behind it follows with more insight, which means they do it more accurately and gracefully. Give me a twelve-year-old who knows nothing; by the time they're fifteen, I’ll have them knowing just as much as those who've been taught since childhood. The difference? Your students know things by heart, while mine know how to apply their knowledge. Likewise, throw a twenty-year-old into society; with good guidance, in a year, they’ll be more charming and genuinely polite than someone who’s been socializing since they were a kid. The first can understand the reasons behind all the social rules related to age, status, and gender, which are the foundations of society's customs, and can adapt those principles to new situations. Meanwhile, the second relies only on habit and is at a loss when that habitual behavior doesn't work.

Young French ladies are all brought up in convents till they are married. Do they seem to find any difficulty in acquiring the ways which are so new to them, and is it possible to accuse the ladies of Paris of awkward and embarrassed manners or of ignorance of the ways of society, because they have not acquired them in infancy! This is the prejudice of men of the world, who know nothing of more importance than this trifling science, and wrongly imagine that you cannot begin to acquire it too soon.

Young French women are raised in convents until they get married. Do they seem to have trouble picking up the social skills that are new to them? Is it fair to criticize the women of Paris for having awkward and uncomfortable manners or for being unaware of social norms simply because they didn't learn them as children? This is a bias held by worldly men who prioritize this trivial knowledge and mistakenly believe you can’t start learning it too early.

On the other hand, it is quite true that we must not wait too long. Any one who has spent the whole of his youth far from the great world is all his life long awkward, constrained, out of place; his manners will be heavy and clumsy, no amount of practice will get rid of this, and he will only make himself more ridiculous by trying to do so. There is a time for every kind of teaching and we ought to recognise it, and each has its own dangers to be avoided. At this age there are more dangers than at any other; but I do not expose my pupil to them without safeguards.

On the other hand, it’s true that we shouldn’t wait too long. Anyone who spends their entire youth away from the real world remains awkward, uncomfortable, and out of place for life. Their manners will be stiff and ungraceful; no amount of practice will change that, and trying to fit in will only make them look more foolish. There’s a right time for every kind of teaching, and we need to recognize it, as each phase comes with its own risks to avoid. At this age, the risks are greater than at any other time, but I won’t put my student in those situations without protections in place.

When my method succeeds completely in attaining one object, and when in avoiding one difficulty it also provides against another, I then consider that it is a good method, and that I am on the right track. This seems to be the case with regard to the expedient suggested by me in the present case. If I desire to be stern and cold towards my pupil, I shall lose his confidence, and he will soon conceal himself from me. If I wish to be easy and complaisant, to shut my eyes, what good does it do him to be under my care? I only give my authority to his excesses, and relieve his conscience at the expense of my own. If I introduce him into society with no object but to teach him, he will learn more than I want. If I keep him apart from society, what will he have learnt from me? Everything perhaps, except the one art absolutely necessary to a civilised man, the art of living among his fellow-men. If I try to attend to this at a distance, it will be of no avail; he is only concerned with the present. If I am content to supply him with amusement, he will acquire habits of luxury and will learn nothing.

When my approach completely achieves one goal, and by avoiding one issue it also prevents another, then I believe it's a solid method, and that I'm heading in the right direction. This seems to be true for the strategy I've suggested in this case. If I decide to be strict and unapproachable with my student, I'll lose his trust, and he’ll quickly shut himself off from me. If I choose to be lenient and easygoing, ignoring his behavior, what good does it do him to be under my guidance? All I’m doing is giving my approval to his excesses and easing his conscience at the cost of my own. If I introduce him to society solely to teach him, he'll learn more than I intend. If I keep him isolated from society, what will he really learn from me? Perhaps everything except the one skill absolutely essential for a civilized person: the ability to live among others. If I try to teach him this from a distance, it won’t be effective; he’s only focused on the here and now. If I'm only willing to provide him with entertainment, he'll develop habits of indulgence and won't learn anything meaningful.

We will have none of this. My plan provides for everything. Your heart, I say to the young man, requires a companion; let us go in search of a fitting one; perhaps we shall not easily find such a one, true worth is always rare, but we will be in no hurry, nor will we be easily discouraged. No doubt there is such a one, and we shall find her at last, or at least we shall find some one like her. With an end so attractive to himself, I introduce him into society. What more need I say? Have I not achieved my purpose?

We won't be doing any of that. My plan covers everything. Your heart, I tell the young man, needs a partner; let's go look for someone suitable; maybe we won’t find her easily—true value is always hard to come by—but we won’t rush, and we won’t get discouraged easily. There's definitely someone out there for him, and we’ll find her eventually, or at least someone like her. With a goal so appealing to him, I introduce him to society. What more is there to say? Haven't I accomplished what I set out to do?

By describing to him his future mistress, you may imagine whether I shall gain a hearing, whether I shall succeed in making the qualities he ought to love pleasing and dear to him, whether I shall sway his feelings to seek or shun what is good or bad for him. I shall be the stupidest of men if I fail to make him in love with he knows not whom. No matter that the person I describe is imaginary, it is enough to disgust him with those who might have attracted him; it is enough if it is continually suggesting comparisons which make him prefer his fancy to the real people he sees; and is not love itself a fancy, a falsehood, an illusion? We are far more in love with our own fancy than with the object of it. If we saw the object of our affections as it is, there would be no such thing as love. When we cease to love, the person we used to love remains unchanged, but we no longer see with the same eyes; the magic veil is drawn aside, and love disappears. But when I supply the object of imagination, I have control over comparisons, and I am able easily to prevent illusion with regard to realities.

By describing his future crush, you can imagine whether I’ll get his attention, whether I’ll be able to make the qualities he should adore appealing and endearing to him, and whether I can influence his feelings to pursue or avoid what’s good or bad for him. I’d be the biggest fool if I can’t make him fall for someone he doesn’t even know. It doesn’t matter that the person I describe is just a figment; it’s enough to turn him off from those who might have drawn his interest. As long as I’m constantly prompting comparisons that make him prefer his imagination over the real people he encounters, isn’t love itself just an illusion, a fantasy? We’re usually more in love with our own ideas than with the actual person. If we saw our loved ones as they truly are, love wouldn’t even exist. When we stop loving, the person we once adored remains the same, but we no longer see them in the same way; the magical veil is lifted, and love fades away. However, when I provide the object of his imagination, I can control the comparisons and easily prevent any illusions about reality.

For all that I would not mislead a young man by describing a model of perfection which could never exist; but I would so choose the faults of his mistress that they will suit him, that he will be pleased by them, and they may serve to correct his own. Neither would I lie to him and affirm that there really is such a person; let him delight in the portrait, he will soon desire to find the original. From desire to belief the transition is easy; it is a matter of a little skilful description, which under more perceptible features will give to this imaginary object an air of greater reality. I would go so far as to give her a name; I would say, smiling. Let us call your future mistress Sophy; Sophy is a name of good omen; if it is not the name of the lady of your choice at least she will be worthy of the name; we may honour her with it meanwhile. If after all these details, without affirming or denying, we excuse ourselves from giving an answer, his suspicions will become certainty; he will think that his destined bride is purposely concealed from him, and that he will see her in good time. If once he has arrived at this conclusion and if the characteristics to be shown to him have been well chosen, the rest is easy; there will be little risk in exposing him to the world; protect him from his senses, and his heart is safe.

I wouldn't want to mislead a young man by describing a perfect ideal that can never exist. Instead, I'd select the flaws of his love interest so that they suit him, making him appreciate them and use them to improve himself. I wouldn’t lie and say such a person truly exists; he can enjoy the idea, and he will soon want to find the real person. It's easy to transition from desire to belief; with a bit of clever description, this imaginary figure can seem more real through more vivid traits. I'd even give her a name—let's say, smiling, we should call your future love interest Sophy; it's a name with good vibes. Even if it’s not the name of the woman you choose, she’ll at least deserve the name, and we can honor her with it for now. If, after all this, we refuse to confirm or deny, he'll start to believe that his future bride is intentionally hidden from him and that he'll meet her in due time. Once he arrives at this conclusion and the traits we show him are well-chosen, the rest will be simple; there’ll be little risk in letting him face the world; if we protect him from his feelings, his heart will be safe.

But whether or no he personifies the model I have contrived to make so attractive to him, this model, if well done, will attach him none the less to everything that resembles itself, and will give him as great a distaste for all that is unlike it as if Sophy really existed. What a means to preserve his heart from the dangers to which his appearance would expose him, to repress his senses by means of his imagination, to rescue him from the hands of those women who profess to educate young men, and make them pay so dear for their teaching, and only teach a young man manners by making him utterly shameless. Sophy is so modest? What would she think of their advances! Sophy is so simple! How would she like their airs? They are too far from his thoughts and his observations to be dangerous.

But whether or not he embodies the ideal I've created to appeal to him, this ideal, if executed well, will still connect him to anything similar, and will instill in him a strong aversion to everything that is different, just as if Sophy were real. What a way to protect his heart from the risks his looks would bring him, to control his feelings through his imagination, to save him from those women who claim to educate young men and charge them a fortune for their lessons, only to teach them manners by making them completely shameless. Sophy is so modest? What would she think of their advances! Sophy is so simple! How would she react to their pretentiousness? They are too far removed from his thoughts and experiences to be a threat.

Every one who deals with the control of children follows the same prejudices and the same maxima, for their observation is at fault, and their reflection still more so. A young man is led astray in the first place neither by temperament nor by the senses, but by popular opinion. If we were concerned with boys brought up in boarding schools or girls in convents, I would show that this applies even to them; for the first lessons they learn from each other, the only lessons that bear fruit, are those of vice; and it is not nature that corrupts them but example. But let us leave the boarders in schools and convents to their bad morals; there is no cure for them. I am dealing only with home training. Take a young man carefully educated in his father’s country house, and examine him when he reaches Paris and makes his entrance into society; you will find him thinking clearly about honest matters, and you will find his will as wholesome as his reason. You will find scorn of vice and disgust for debauchery; his face will betray his innocent horror at the very mention of a prostitute. I maintain that no young man could make up his mind to enter the gloomy abodes of these unfortunates by himself, if indeed he were aware of their purpose and felt their necessity.

Everyone who works with children shares the same biases and ideas, because their observations are flawed, and their reflections are even more so. A young man is misled not by his temperament or senses, but by public opinion. If we looked at boys raised in boarding schools or girls in convents, I could prove this point even further; the first lessons they learn from one another, the only lessons that matter, are those of vice. It's not nature that leads to their corruption but rather the examples set around them. But let's leave the boarders in schools and convents to their questionable morals; there's no fixing them. I'm only focusing on home education. Take a young man raised carefully at his father's country house and observe him when he arrives in Paris and enters society; you'll find that he thinks clearly about honest matters, and his will is as healthy as his reasoning. He will disdain vice and feel disgust for debauchery; his face will show innocent horror at even the mention of a prostitute. I argue that no young man could bring himself to enter the dark places where these unfortunate individuals live, if he truly understood their purpose and felt their necessity.

See the same young man six months later, you will not know him; from his bold conversation, his fashionable maxims, his easy air, you would take him for another man, if his jests over his former simplicity and his shame when any one recalls it did not show that it is he indeed and that he is ashamed of himself. How greatly has he changed in so short a time! What has brought about so sudden and complete a change? His physical development? Would not that have taken place in his father’s house, and certainly he would not have acquired these maxims and this tone at home? The first charms of sense? On the contrary; those who are beginning to abandon themselves to these pleasures are timid and anxious, they shun the light and noise. The first pleasures are always mysterious, modesty gives them their savour, and modesty conceals them; the first mistress does not make a man bold but timid. Wholly absorbed in a situation so novel to him, the young man retires into himself to enjoy it, and trembles for fear it should escape him. If he is noisy he knows neither passion nor love; however he may boast, he has not enjoyed.

See the same young man six months later, and you won't recognize him; from his confident conversation, his trendy sayings, his relaxed demeanor, you would think he’s someone else, if not for his jokes about his old simplicity and his embarrassment when anyone brings it up, which show that it’s really him and that he feels ashamed. He has changed so much in such a short time! What caused such a sudden and complete transformation? His physical growth? That might have happened at his parents' house, and he definitely wouldn’t have picked up these sayings and this attitude at home. The initial attractions of sensory experience? Actually, those who are just starting to indulge in these pleasures are often shy and anxious; they avoid the spotlight and commotion. The early pleasures are always somewhat mysterious, and it’s their modesty that gives them flavor and keeps them hidden; the first love doesn’t make a man bold but rather timid. Completely caught up in a situation that’s so new to him, the young man turns inward to savor it and worries about losing it. If he’s loud, he knows neither passion nor love; no matter how much he brags, he hasn’t truly experienced it.

These changes are merely the result of changed ideas. His heart is the same, but his opinions have altered. His feelings, which change more slowly, will at length yield to his opinions and it is then that he is indeed corrupted. He has scarcely made his entrance into society before he receives a second education quite unlike the first, which teaches him to despise what he esteemed, and esteem what he despised; he learns to consider the teaching of his parents and masters as the jargon of pedants, and the duties they have instilled into him as a childish morality, to be scorned now that he is grown up. He thinks he is bound in honour to change his conduct; he becomes forward without desire, and he talks foolishly from false shame. He rails against morality before he has any taste for vice, and prides himself on debauchery without knowing how to set about it. I shall never forget the confession of a young officer in the Swiss Guards, who was utterly sick of the noisy pleasures of his comrades, but dared not refuse to take part in them lest he should be laughed at. “I am getting used to it,” he said, “as I am getting used to taking snuff; the taste will come with practice; it will not do to be a child for ever.”

These changes are simply the result of new ideas. His heart remains the same, but his opinions have shifted. His feelings, which change more slowly, will eventually give in to his opinions, and that’s when he truly becomes corrupted. He hardly enters society before he gets a second education that's completely different from the first, teaching him to look down on what he once valued and value what he once looked down on. He starts to view the lessons from his parents and teachers as the nonsense of know-it-alls, and the morals they instilled in him as childish ideas, to be mocked now that he’s grown up. He believes he has to change his behavior; he becomes bold without really wanting to, and he talks nonsense out of false shame. He criticizes morality before he even has a taste for vice, and he boasts about debauchery without having any idea how to engage in it. I will never forget a young officer's confession in the Swiss Guards, who was completely tired of the loud pleasures of his friends but didn’t dare refuse to join in for fear of being laughed at. “I’m getting used to it,” he said, “just like I’m getting used to taking snuff; the taste will come with practice. I can’t stay a child forever.”

So a young man when he enters society must be preserved from vanity rather than from sensibility; he succumbs rather to the tastes of others than to his own, and self-love is responsible for more libertines than love.

A young man entering society needs to be shielded from vanity rather than from emotional sensitivity; he is more likely to give in to what others prefer rather than follow his own desires, and self-love causes more libertines than actual love.

This being granted, I ask you. Is there any one on earth better armed than my pupil against all that may attack his morals, his sentiments, his principles; is there any one more able to resist the flood? What seduction is there against which he is not forearmed? If his desires attract him towards women, he fails to find what he seeks, and his heart, already occupied, holds him back. If he is disturbed and urged onward by his senses, where will he find satisfaction? His horror of adultery and debauch keeps him at a distance from prostitutes and married women, and the disorders of youth may always be traced to one or other of these. A maiden may be a coquette, but she will not be shameless, she will not fling herself at the head of a young man who may marry her if he believes in her virtue; besides she is always under supervision. Emile, too, will not be left entirely to himself; both of them will be under the guardianship of fear and shame, the constant companions of a first passion; they will not proceed at once to misconduct, and they will not have time to come to it gradually without hindrance. If he behaves otherwise, he must have taken lessons from his comrades, he must have learned from them to despise his self-control, and to imitate their boldness. But there is no one in the whole world so little given to imitation as Emile. What man is there who is so little influenced by mockery as one who has no prejudices himself and yields nothing to the prejudices of others. I have laboured twenty years to arm him against mockery; they will not make him their dupe in a day; for in his eyes ridicule is the argument of fools, and nothing makes one less susceptible to raillery than to be beyond the influence of prejudice. Instead of jests he must have arguments, and while he is in this frame of mind, I am not afraid that he will be carried away by young fools; conscience and truth are on my side. If prejudice is to enter into the matter at all, an affection of twenty years’ standing counts for something; no one will ever convince him that I have wearied him with vain lessons; and in a heart so upright and so sensitive the voice of a tried and trusted friend will soon efface the shouts of twenty libertines. As it is therefore merely a question of showing him that he is deceived, that while they pretend to treat him as a man they are really treating him as a child, I shall choose to be always simple but serious and plain in my arguments, so that he may feel that I do indeed treat him as a man. I will say to him, You will see that your welfare, in which my own is bound up, compels me to speak; I can do nothing else. But why do these young men want to persuade you? Because they desire to seduce you; they do not care for you, they take no real interest in you; their only motive is a secret spite because they see you are better than they; they want to drag you down to their own level, and they only reproach you with submitting to control that they may themselves control you. Do you think you have anything to gain by this? Are they so much wiser than I, is the affection of a day stronger than mine? To give any weight to their jests they must give weight to their authority; and by what experience do they support their maxima above ours? They have only followed the example of other giddy youths, as they would have you follow theirs. To escape from the so-called prejudices of their fathers, they yield to those of their comrades. I cannot see that they are any the better off; but I see that they lose two things of value—the affection of their parents, whose advice is that of tenderness and truth, and the wisdom of experience which teaches us to judge by what we know; for their fathers have once been young, but the young men have never been fathers.

Given this permission, I ask you: Is there anyone on earth better equipped than my student to defend against anything that might challenge his morals, feelings, or principles? Is there anyone more capable of resisting temptation? What seduction could possibly catch him off guard? If his desires lead him toward women, he finds that what he seeks remains out of reach, and his heart, already devoted, holds him back. If he's distracted and pushed forward by his senses, where will he find satisfaction? His strong aversion to cheating and promiscuity keeps him away from prostitutes and married women, and the troubles of youth can typically be traced back to one of these sources. A young woman might flirt, but she won’t be shameless; she won’t throw herself at a young man who might consider marrying her if he believes in her integrity; besides, she is always under watch. Emile, too, won’t be left completely to his own devices; both will be under the watchful eyes of fear and shame, the constant companions of first love; they won’t jump into misbehavior right away, nor will they have the time to gradually slip into it without any obstacles. If he acts otherwise, it must be because he has learned from his peers to disregard his self-discipline and imitate their recklessness. But there’s no one in the world less inclined to imitate than Emile. What man is less swayed by mockery than one who has no biases of his own and doesn’t conform to others' biases? I have spent twenty years preparing him against mockery; they won't trick him overnight because, to him, ridicule is the argument of fools, and nothing makes one less susceptible to taunts than being free from prejudice. Instead of jokes, he needs reasoning, and while he maintains this mindset, I am not worried that he will be led astray by foolish youths; I have conscience and truth on my side. If prejudice enters the conversation at all, a bond of twenty years means something; no one will convince him that I’ve burdened him with pointless lessons; in a heart so honest and sensitive, the words of a loyal and trusted friend will soon overshadow the noise of twenty libertines. Therefore, it’s simply a matter of showing him that he’s been misled, that while they pretend to treat him as an adult, they are really treating him like a child. I will choose to be straightforward but earnest and clear in my arguments so he may understand that I truly treat him as a man. I will say to him, "You will see that your well-being, which is tied to my own, forces me to speak; I can't do otherwise. But why do these young men want to persuade you? Because they want to seduce you; they don’t care about you or your best interests; their only motive is a hidden resentment because they see you are better than them; they want to drag you down to their level, and they only criticize you for adhering to standards so they can manipulate you themselves. Do you think you have anything to gain from this? Are they so much smarter than I am? Is their fleeting affection stronger than mine? To give credibility to their jests, they must invest credibility in their authority; and what experience do they have to back up their principles over ours? They’ve merely followed the lead of other reckless youths, just as they would have you follow theirs. In trying to escape their fathers' so-called prejudices, they simply adopt those of their peers. I don’t see that they’re any better off; but I see that they lose two valuable things—the affection of their parents, whose advice is based on care and truth, and the wisdom of experience, which teaches us to evaluate based on what we know; for their fathers have once been young, but these young men have never been fathers.

But you think they are at least sincere in their foolish precepts. Not so, dear Emile; they deceive themselves in order to deceive you; they are not in agreement with themselves; their heart continually revolts, and their very words often contradict themselves. This man who mocks at everything good would be in despair if his wife held the same views. Another extends his indifference to good morals even to his future wife, or he sinks to such depths of infamy as to be indifferent to his wife’s conduct; but go a step further; speak to him of his mother; is he willing to be treated as the child of an adulteress and the son of a woman of bad character, is he ready to assume the name of a family, to steal the patrimony of the true heir, in a word will he bear being treated as a bastard? Which of them will permit his daughter to be dishonoured as he dishonours the daughter of another? There is not one of them who would not kill you if you adopted in your conduct towards him all the principles he tries to teach you. Thus they prove their inconsistency, and we know they do not believe what they say. Here are reasons, dear Emile; weigh their arguments if they have any, and compare them with mine. If I wished to have recourse like them to scorn and mockery, you would see that they lend themselves to ridicule as much or more than myself. But I am not afraid of serious inquiry. The triumph of mockers is soon over; truth endures, and their foolish laughter dies away.

But you think they at least believe in their silly ideas. Not really, dear Emile; they fool themselves to fool you; they don't even agree with themselves; their hearts are always in turmoil, and their words often contradict each other. This guy who mocks everything good would be crushed if his wife thought the same way. Another guy shows his disregard for good morals even towards his future wife, or he sinks to such lows that he doesn't care about his wife’s behavior; but take it a step further; bring up his mother; would he accept being treated as the child of an adulteress and the son of a woman with a bad reputation? Is he ready to take on a family name, to steal the inheritance of the real heir, in short, will he accept being treated like a bastard? Which of them would allow his daughter to be dishonored like he dishonors another man’s daughter? Not one of them would hesitate to kill you if you acted towards him based on all the principles he tries to teach you. This shows their inconsistency, and we know they don’t believe what they say. Here are the reasons, dear Emile; consider their arguments if they have any, and compare them to mine. If I wanted to resort to scorn and mockery like them, you'd see they would be just as ridiculous or even more so than I am. But I'm not afraid of serious questioning. The triumph of mockers is short-lived; truth lasts, and their foolish laughter eventually fades away.

You do not think that Emile, at twenty, can possibly be docile. How differently we think! I cannot understand how he could be docile at ten, for what hold have I on him at that age? It took me fifteen years of careful preparation to secure that hold. I was not educating him, but preparing him for education. He is now sufficiently educated to be docile; he recognises the voice of friendship and he knows how to obey reason. It is true I allow him a show of freedom, but he was never more completely under control, because he obeys of his own free will. So long as I could not get the mastery over his will, I retained my control over his person; I never left him for a moment. Now I sometimes leave him to himself because I control him continually. When I leave him I embrace him and I say with confidence: Emile, I trust you to my friend, I leave you to his honour; he will answer for you.

You don’t think that Emile, at twenty, can possibly be obedient. How differently we see things! I can’t understand how he could be obedient at ten, since what influence did I have over him at that age? It took me fifteen years of careful preparation to gain that influence. I wasn’t educating him, but getting him ready for education. He’s now educated enough to be obedient; he recognizes the voice of friendship and knows how to follow reason. It’s true that I give him the illusion of freedom, but he’s never been more under my control because he obeys voluntarily. As long as I couldn’t dominate his will, I maintained control over his actions; I never left his side. Now I can sometimes let him be on his own because I’m always influencing him. When I do leave him, I embrace him and say confidently: Emile, I trust you to my friend, I leave you in his care; he’ll be responsible for you.

To corrupt healthy affections which have not been previously depraved, to efface principles which are directly derived from our own reasoning, is not the work of a moment. If any change takes place during my absence, that absence will not be long, he will never be able to conceal himself from me, so that I shall perceive the danger before any harm comes of it, and I shall be in time to provide a remedy. As we do not become depraved all at once, neither do we learn to deceive all at once; and if ever there was a man unskilled in the art of deception it is Emile, who has never had any occasion for deceit.

To ruin healthy feelings that haven't been messed up before, and to erase principles that come straight from our own reasoning, isn’t something that happens instantly. If there’s any change while I’m away, I won’t be gone for long; he will never be able to hide from me, so I’ll notice the danger before any harm is done, and I’ll be able to find a solution in time. Just as we don’t become corrupt all at once, we also don’t learn to deceive all at once; and if there’s ever been a person who’s really bad at deception, it’s Emile, who has never had a reason to be deceitful.

By means of these precautions and others like them, I expect to guard him so completely against strange sights and vulgar precepts that I would rather see him in the worst company in Paris than alone in his room or in a park left to all the restlessness of his age. Whatever we may do, a young man’s worst enemy is himself, and this is an enemy we cannot avoid. Yet this is an enemy of our own making, for, as I have said again and again, it is the imagination which stirs the senses. Desire is not a physical need; it is not true that it is a need at all. If no lascivious object had met our eye, if no unclean thought had entered our mind, this so-called need might never have made itself felt, and we should have remained chaste, without temptation, effort, or merit. We do not know how the blood of youth is stirred by certain situations and certain sights, while the youth himself does not understand the cause of his uneasiness-an uneasiness difficult to subdue and certain to recur. For my own part, the more I consider this serious crisis and its causes, immediate and remote, the more convinced I am that a solitary brought up in some desert, apart from books, teaching, and women, would die a virgin, however long he lived.

By taking these precautions and others like them, I hope to protect him so thoroughly from strange experiences and vulgar ideas that I'd rather see him in the worst company in Paris than alone in his room or a park, left to the restlessness of his age. No matter what we do, a young man's worst enemy is himself, and that's a battle we can't escape. Yet this enemy is of our own making, because, as I've said over and over, it's the imagination that stirs the senses. Desire isn't just a physical need; it's not even really a need at all. If no tempting sight had caught our attention, if no inappropriate thought had crossed our minds, this so-called need might never have emerged, and we would have remained pure, without temptation, struggle, or effort. We don't understand how the youthful blood is stirred by certain situations and sights, while the youth himself can't pinpoint the cause of his discomfort—an uneasiness that's hard to suppress and sure to come back. Personally, the more I think about this serious crisis and its causes, both immediate and distant, the more I'm convinced that someone raised alone in a desert, away from books, teachings, and women, would die a virgin, no matter how long they lived.

But we are not concerned with a savage of this sort. When we educate a man among his fellow-men and for social life, we cannot, and indeed we ought not to, bring him up in this wholesome ignorance, and half knowledge is worse than none. The memory of things we have observed, the ideas we have acquired, follow us into retirement and people it, against our will, with images more seductive than the things themselves, and these make solitude as fatal to those who bring such ideas with them as it is wholesome for those who have never left it.

But we’re not dealing with a savage like that. When we educate a person to live among others and participate in society, we can’t—and really shouldn’t—raise them in blissful ignorance, because half knowledge is worse than no knowledge at all. The memories of what we’ve seen and the ideas we’ve developed stick with us in isolation, filling our minds, whether we want them to or not, with images that are often more appealing than reality itself. This makes solitude harmful for those who carry such thoughts with them, unlike for those who have never stepped outside of it.

Therefore, watch carefully over the young man; he can protect himself from all other foes, but it is for you to protect him against himself. Never leave him night or day, or at least share his room; never let him go to bed till he is sleepy, and let him rise as soon as he wakes. Distrust instinct as soon as you cease to rely altogether upon it. Instinct was good while he acted under its guidance only; now that he is in the midst of human institutions, instinct is not to be trusted; it must not be destroyed, it must be controlled, which is perhaps a more difficult matter. It would be a dangerous matter if instinct taught your pupil to abuse his senses; if once he acquires this dangerous habit he is ruined. From that time forward, body and soul will be enervated; he will carry to the grave the sad effects of this habit, the most fatal habit which a young man can acquire. If you cannot attain to the mastery of your passions, dear Emile, I pity you; but I shall not hesitate for a moment, I will not permit the purposes of nature to be evaded. If you must be a slave, I prefer to surrender you to a tyrant from whom I may deliver you; whatever happens, I can free you more easily from the slavery of women than from yourself.

So, keep a close eye on the young man; he can defend himself against all other enemies, but it's your job to protect him from himself. Never leave him alone, day or night, or at least share his space; don't let him go to bed until he's actually sleepy, and let him wake up as soon as he does. Be skeptical of his instincts as soon as you stop relying solely on them. Instinct was helpful when he was following it alone; now that he’s part of society, it can’t be completely trusted. It shouldn't be destroyed, but needs to be managed, which might be more challenging. It could be dangerous if his instincts lead him to misuse his senses; if he develops that harmful habit, he’s doomed. From that point on, both his body and soul will suffer; he’ll carry the negative consequences of this habit to his grave, the most destructive habit a young man can adopt. If you can't gain control over your passions, dear Emile, I feel sorry for you; but I won't hesitate for even a moment, I won’t let nature’s intentions be ignored. If you have to be a slave, I’d rather hand you over to a tyrant I can rescue you from; whatever happens, I can free you from the bondage of women more easily than from yourself.

Up to the age of twenty, the body is still growing and requires all its strength; till that age continence is the law of nature, and this law is rarely violated without injury to the constitution. After twenty, continence is a moral duty; it is an important duty, for it teaches us to control ourselves, to be masters of our own appetites. But moral duties have their modifications, their exceptions, their rules. When human weakness makes an alternative inevitable, of two evils choose the least; in any case it is better to commit a misdeed than to contract a vicious habit.

Up to the age of twenty, the body is still developing and needs all its strength; before that age, self-control is natural, and breaking this rule rarely happens without harm to one’s health. After twenty, self-control becomes a moral responsibility; it’s an important duty because it teaches us to manage ourselves and to have control over our cravings. However, moral responsibilities have their nuances, exceptions, and guidelines. When human weakness makes a choice unavoidable, choose the lesser of two evils; in any situation, it’s better to make a mistake than to develop a bad habit.

Remember, I am not talking of my pupil now, but of yours. His passions, to which you have given way, are your master; yield to them openly and without concealing his victory. If you are able to show him it in its true light, he will be ashamed rather than proud of it, and you will secure the right to guide him in his wanderings, at least so as to avoid precipices. The disciple must do nothing, not even evil, without the knowledge and consent of his master; it is a hundredfold better that the tutor should approve of a misdeed than that he should deceive himself or be deceived by his pupil, and the wrong should be done without his knowledge. He who thinks he must shut his eyes to one thing, must soon shut them altogether; the first abuse which is permitted leads to others, and this chain of consequences only ends in the complete overthrow of all order and contempt for every law.

Remember, I'm not talking about my student now, but about yours. His passions, which you've indulged, are now in control; acknowledge them openly and without hiding his triumph. If you can show him the truth behind it, he will feel ashamed rather than proud, and you'll earn the right to guide him in his journey, at least enough to steer clear of pitfalls. The student shouldn't do anything, not even wrong, without the awareness and agreement of his teacher; it's far better for the teacher to approve of a mistake than to be misled by his student, resulting in wrongdoings happening without his awareness. Anyone who thinks they can ignore one issue will soon find themselves ignoring everything; the first allowed misstep leads to more, and this chain reaction ultimately results in total chaos and disregard for all rules.

There is another mistake which I have already dealt with, a mistake continually made by narrow-minded persons; they constantly affect the dignity of a master, and wish to be regarded by their disciples as perfect. This method is just the contrary of what should be done. How is it that they fail to perceive that when they try to strengthen their authority they are really destroying it; that to gain a hearing one must put oneself in the place of our hearers, and that to speak to the human heart, one must be a man. All these perfect people neither touch nor persuade; people always say, “It is easy for them to fight against passions they do not feel.” Show your pupil your own weaknesses if you want to cure his; let him see in you struggles like his own; let him learn by your example to master himself and let him not say like other young men, “These old people, who are vexed because they are no longer young, want to treat all young people as if they were old; and they make a crime of our passions because their own passions are dead.”

There’s another mistake I've already talked about, a mistake often made by narrow-minded people; they always try to uphold the dignity of a master and want to be seen by their followers as perfect. This approach is completely opposite to what should be done. How can they not see that when they try to reinforce their authority, they are actually undermining it? To be heard, one must put themselves in the shoes of their audience, and to speak to the human heart, one must be relatable. All these so-called perfect people neither resonate nor persuade; people often say, “It’s easy for them to resist passions they don’t feel.” Show your student your own weaknesses if you want to help him with his; let him see you struggle like he does; let him learn from your example to gain self-control, and let him not echo what other young people say, “These older folks, who are frustrated because they are no longer young, want to treat all young people like they’re old; and they condemn our passions because their own passions have faded.”

Montaigne tells us that he once asked Seigneur de Langey how often, in his negotiations with Germany, he had got drunk in his king’s service. I would willingly ask the tutor of a certain young man how often he has entered a house of ill-fame for his pupil’s sake. How often? I am wrong. If the first time has not cured the young libertine of all desire to go there again, if he does not return penitent and ashamed, if he does not shed torrents of tears upon your bosom, leave him on the spot; either he is a monster or you are a fool; you will never do him any good. But let us have done with these last expedients, which are as distressing as they are dangerous; our kind of education has no need of them.

Montaigne shares that he once asked Seigneur de Langey how often, in his dealings with Germany, he had gotten drunk in service of his king. I would like to ask the tutor of a certain young man how often he has gone to a brothel for his student’s benefit. How often? I misspoke. If the first visit didn't cure the young libertine of all desire to return, if he doesn’t come back feeling guilty and ashamed, if he doesn’t cry rivers of tears on your shoulder, leave him there; either he’s a monster or you’re a fool; you won’t be able to help him. But let’s move on from these last desperate measures, which are as distressing as they are risky; our style of education doesn’t need them.

What precautions we must take with a young man of good birth before exposing him to the scandalous manners of our age! These precautions are painful but necessary; negligence in this matter is the ruin of all our young men; degeneracy is the result of youthful excesses, and it is these excesses which make men what they are. Old and base in their vices, their hearts are shrivelled, because their worn-out bodies were corrupted at an early age; they have scarcely strength to stir. The subtlety of their thoughts betrays a mind lacking in substance; they are incapable of any great or noble feeling, they have neither simplicity nor vigour; altogether abject and meanly wicked, they are merely frivolous, deceitful, and false; they have not even courage enough to be distinguished criminals. Such are the despicable men produced by early debauchery; if there were but one among them who knew how to be sober and temperate, to guard his heart, his body, his morals from the contagion of bad example, at the age of thirty he would crush all these insects, and would become their master with far less trouble than it cost him to become master of himself.

What precautions must we take with a young man from a good family before exposing him to the shocking behavior of our time? These precautions are uncomfortable but necessary; neglecting this issue can ruin all our young men. Degeneration is a result of youthful indulgence, and it’s these excesses that shape men into who they are. Old and base in their vices, their hearts are withered because their decayed bodies were tainted at a young age; they barely have the strength to move. The sharpness of their thoughts reveals a mind devoid of substance; they are incapable of any great or noble feelings, lacking both simplicity and energy; overall, they are pathetic and wicked in a minor way, merely frivolous, deceitful, and false; they lack even the courage to be notable criminals. Such are the contemptible men born from early corruption; if only one of them knew how to be sober and moderate, to protect his heart, his body, and his morals from the influence of bad examples, by age thirty he would crush all these pests and would become their master with far less effort than it took him to gain control over himself.

However little Emile owes to birth and fortune, he might be this man if he chose; but he despises such people too much to condescend to make them his slaves. Let us now watch him in their midst, as he enters into society, not to claim the first place, but to acquaint himself with it and to seek a helpmeet worthy of himself.

However little Emile owes to his background and luck, he could be that man if he wanted to; but he looks down on those people too much to lower himself to make them his subordinates. Now let’s observe him among them as he enters society, not to take the top spot but to understand it and to find a partner who is deserving of him.

Whatever his rank or birth, whatever the society into which he is introduced, his entrance into that society will be simple and unaffected; God grant he may not be unlucky enough to shine in society; the qualities which make a good impression at the first glance are not his, he neither possesses them, nor desires to possess them. He cares too little for the opinions of other people to value their prejudices, and he is indifferent whether people esteem him or not until they know him. His address is neither shy nor conceited, but natural and sincere, he knows nothing of constraint or concealment, and he is just the same among a group of people as he is when he is alone. Will this make him rude, scornful, and careless of others? On the contrary; if he were not heedless of others when he lived alone, why should he be heedless of them now that he is living among them? He does not prefer them to himself in his manners, because he does not prefer them to himself in his heart, but neither does he show them an indifference which he is far from feeling; if he is unacquainted with the forms of politeness, he is not unacquainted with the attentions dictated by humanity. He cannot bear to see any one suffer; he will not give up his place to another from mere external politeness, but he will willingly yield it to him out of kindness if he sees that he is being neglected and that this neglect hurts him; for it will be less disagreeable to Emile to remain standing of his own accord than to see another compelled to stand.

No matter his rank or background, or the society he's entering, he'll step in simply and genuinely; let’s hope he’s not unfortunate enough to stand out in a crowd. The traits that make a great first impression aren’t his. He doesn’t have them, nor does he want them. He cares too little about what others think to worry about their biases, and he’s indifferent to whether people admire him or not until they truly know him. His manner is neither shy nor arrogant, but natural and sincere. He knows nothing of restraint or pretense, and he acts the same in a crowd as he does when he’s alone. Will this make him rude, scornful, or careless about others? Quite the opposite; if he wasn’t careless about others when he was by himself, why would he be indifferent now that he’s around them? He doesn’t treat them with more importance than himself in his behavior because he doesn’t in his heart, but he doesn’t show an indifference he doesn’t actually feel. Even if he's unfamiliar with the formalities of politeness, he understands the kindness dictated by humanity. He can’t stand to see anyone in pain; he won’t give up his spot for someone else out of mere social nicety, but he will gladly let it go out of kindness if he sees someone being overlooked and that it’s causing them distress. It’s less upsetting for Emile to stand on his own than to watch someone else forced to stand.

Although Emile has no very high opinion of people in general, he does not show any scorn of them, because he pities them and is sorry for them. As he cannot give them a taste for what is truly good, he leaves them the imaginary good with which they are satisfied, lest by robbing them of this he should leave them worse off than before. So he neither argues nor contradicts; neither does he flatter nor agree; he states his opinion without arguing with others, because he loves liberty above all things, and freedom is one of the fairest gifts of liberty.

Although Emile doesn’t think very highly of people in general, he doesn’t show any disdain for them because he feels sorry for them. Since he can’t inspire them to appreciate what is truly good, he allows them to have the imaginary good that satisfies them. He believes that taking that away would leave them worse off than before. So, he neither argues nor contradicts; he doesn’t flatter or agree either. He shares his opinion without debating with others because he values freedom above everything else, and freedom is one of the greatest gifts of liberty.

He says little, for he is not anxious to attract attention; for the same reason he only says what is to the point; who could induce him to speak otherwise? Emile is too well informed to be a chatter-box. A great flow of words comes either from a pretentious spirit, of which I shall speak presently, or from the value laid upon trifles which we foolishly think to be as important in the eyes of others as in our own. He who knows enough of things to value them at their true worth never says too much; for he can also judge of the attention bestowed on him and the interest aroused by what he says. People who know little are usually great talkers, while men who know much say little. It is plain that an ignorant person thinks everything he does know important, and he tells it to everybody. But a well-educated man is not so ready to display his learning; he would have too much to say, and he sees that there is much more to be said, so he holds his peace.

He says very little because he doesn’t want to draw attention to himself; for the same reason, he sticks to what’s relevant. Who could make him talk otherwise? Emile is too knowledgeable to be a chatterbox. A lot of words usually come from someone who wants to show off, which I’ll discuss later, or from someone who mistakenly believes that trivial matters are as significant to others as they are to themselves. Someone who understands things enough to appreciate their true value never talks too much, as he can also gauge the attention he’s getting and the interest stirred by what he says. People who know little tend to talk a lot, while those who are knowledgeable say very little. It’s clear that an ignorant person thinks everything he knows is important and shares it with everyone. However, a well-educated person is more reserved about showcasing his knowledge; he has too much to say and realizes there’s so much more to discuss, so he stays quiet.

Far from disregarding the ways of other people, Emile conforms to them readily enough; not that he may appear to know all about them, nor yet to affect the airs of a man of fashion, but on the contrary for fear lest he should attract attention, and in order to pass unnoticed; he is most at his ease when no one pays any attention to him.

Emile does not ignore how others behave; instead, he easily goes along with them. It's not because he wants to seem knowledgeable or to show off like someone fashionable, but rather because he wants to avoid attracting attention and to stay under the radar. He feels most comfortable when no one is focused on him.

Although when he makes his entrance into society he knows nothing of its customs, this does not make him shy or timid; if he keeps in the background, it is not because he is embarrassed, but because, if you want to see, you must not be seen; for he scarcely troubles himself at all about what people think of him, and he is not the least afraid of ridicule. Hence he is always quiet and self-possessed and is not troubled with shyness. All he has to do is done as well as he knows how to do it, whether people are looking at him or not; and as he is always on the alert to observe other people, he acquires their ways with an ease impossible to the slaves of other people’s opinions. We might say that he acquires the ways of society just because he cares so little about them.

Although when he enters society he knows nothing of its customs, that doesn't make him shy or timid; if he stays in the background, it's not because he feels embarrassed, but because if you want to see, you can't be seen. He hardly cares about what people think of him and is not at all afraid of being ridiculed. As a result, he is always calm and collected, free from shyness. He does everything to the best of his ability, whether people are watching him or not. Since he is always ready to observe others, he picks up on their behaviors with a ease that is impossible for those who are slaves to others’ opinions. We might say that he learns the ways of society precisely because he cares so little about them.

But do not make any mistake as to his bearing; it is not to be compared with that of your young dandies. It is self-possessed, not conceited; his manners are easy, not haughty; an insolent look is the mark of a slave, there is nothing affected in independence. I never saw a man of lofty soul who showed it in his bearing; this affectation is more suited to vile and frivolous souls, who have no other means of asserting themselves. I read somewhere that a foreigner appeared one day in the presence of the famous Marcel, who asked him what country he came from. “I am an Englishman,” replied the stranger. “You are an Englishman!” replied the dancer, “You come from that island where the citizens have a share in the government, and form part of the sovereign power? [Footnote: As if there were citizens who were not part of the city and had not, as such, a share in sovereign power! But the French, who have thought fit to usurp the honourable name of citizen which was formerly the right of the members of the Gallic cities, have degraded the idea till it has no longer any sort of meaning. A man who recently wrote a number of silly criticisms on the “Nouvelle Heloise” added to his signature the title “Citizen of Paimboeuf,” and he thought it a capital joke.] No, sir, that modest bearing, that timid glance, that hesitating manner, proclaim only a slave adorned with the title of an elector.”

But don’t get it twisted when it comes to his demeanor; it’s nothing like those young dandy types. It’s confident, not arrogant; his manners are relaxed, not snobby; a cocky look is a sign of a servant, and true independence doesn’t come off as fake. I’ve never met a genuinely noble person who displayed it through their demeanor; that kind of pretentiousness suits low and silly people who lack any other way to stand out. I once read about a foreigner who met the famous Marcel, who asked him where he was from. “I’m English,” replied the stranger. “You’re English!” exclaimed the dancer. “You’re from that island where citizens have a say in the government and are part of the sovereign power? [Footnote: As if there were citizens who weren’t part of the city and didn’t, as such, have a share in sovereign power! But the French, who have seen fit to take on the honorable title of citizen which was once reserved for members of the Gallic cities, have watered down the idea to the point where it’s lost all meaning. A man who recently wrote several silly critiques of the ‘Nouvelle Heloise’ signed off with the title ‘Citizen of Paimboeuf,’ thinking it was a great joke.] No, sir, that modest demeanor, that shy glance, that unsure manner, only reveal a servant dressed up with the title of an elector.”

I cannot say whether this saying shows much knowledge of the true relation between a man’s character and his appearance. I have not the honour of being a dancing master, and I should have thought just the opposite. I should have said, “This Englishman is no courtier; I never heard that courtiers have a timid bearing and a hesitating manner. A man whose appearance is timid in the presence of a dancer might not be timid in the House of Commons.” Surely this M. Marcel must take his fellow-countrymen for so many Romans.

I can’t say if this saying shows a real understanding of the connection between a person’s character and their appearance. I’m not a dance instructor, and I would have thought the opposite. I would have said, “This Englishman isn’t a courtier; I’ve never heard that courtiers carry themselves timidly or act unsure. A man who seems timid in front of a dancer might not be timid in the House of Commons.” Surely, this M. Marcel must see his fellow countrymen as a bunch of Romans.

He who loves desires to be loved, Emile loves his fellows and desires to please them. Even more does he wish to please the women; his age, his character, the object he has in view, all increase this desire. I say his character, for this has a great effect; men of good character are those who really adore women. They have not the mocking jargon of gallantry like the rest, but their eagerness is more genuinely tender, because it comes from the heart. In the presence of a young woman, I could pick out a young man of character and self-control from among a hundred thousand libertines. Consider what Emile must be, with all the eagerness of early youth and so many reasons for resistance! For in the presence of women I think he will sometimes be shy and timid; but this shyness will certainly not be displeasing, and the least foolish of them will only too often find a way to enjoy it and augment it. Moreover, his eagerness will take a different shape according to those he has to do with. He will be more modest and respectful to married women, more eager and tender towards young girls. He never loses sight of his purpose, and it is always those who most recall it to him who receive the greater share of his attentions.

He who loves wants to be loved back. Emile cares about his friends and wants to make them happy. Even more, he wants to please women; his age, his character, and his intentions all boost that desire. I mention his character because it's very important; men of good character are the ones who truly admire women. They don’t use the sarcastic language of flirtation like others do, but their enthusiasm is more genuinely affectionate because it comes from the heart. In front of a young woman, I could easily identify a young man with character and self-control among a crowd of reckless types. Think about what Emile must be like, with all the passion of youth and so many reasons to hold back! In the company of women, he might sometimes seem shy and timid; however, that shyness is likely to be endearing, and the least naïve of them will often find ways to enjoy and encourage it. Plus, his eagerness will vary depending on who he's with. He’ll be more modest and respectful toward married women, while being more eager and tender with young girls. He never loses sight of his goals, and it's always those who remind him of them that receive the most of his attention.

No one could be more attentive to every consideration based upon the laws of nature, and even on the laws of good society; but the former are always preferred before the latter, and Emile will show more respect to an elderly person in private life than to a young magistrate of his own age. As he is generally one of the youngest in the company, he will always be one of the most modest, not from the vanity which apes humility, but from a natural feeling founded upon reason. He will not have the effrontery of the young fop, who speaks louder than the wise and interrupts the old in order to amuse the company. He will never give any cause for the reply given to Louis XV by an old gentleman who was asked whether he preferred this century or the last: “Sire, I spent my youth in reverence towards the old; I find myself compelled to spend my old age in reverence towards the young.”

No one could be more attentive to every consideration based on the laws of nature and the norms of good society; however, the former are always prioritized over the latter, and Emile will show more respect to an elderly person in private life than to a young magistrate of his own age. Since he is usually one of the youngest in the group, he will also be one of the most modest, not out of the vanity that pretends to be humility, but from a natural feeling grounded in reason. He won’t have the cheekiness of the young dandy who speaks louder than the wise and interrupts the old to entertain the group. He will never give rise to the response given to Louis XV by an old man who was asked whether he preferred this century or the last: “Your Majesty, I spent my youth respecting the old; I find myself compelled to spend my old age respecting the young.”

His heart is tender and sensitive, but he cares nothing for the weight of popular opinion, though he loves to give pleasure to others; so he will care little to be thought a person of importance. Hence he will be affectionate rather than polite, he will never be pompous or affected, and he will be always more touched by a caress than by much praise. For the same reasons he will never be careless of his manners or his clothes; perhaps he will be rather particular about his dress, not that he may show himself a man of taste, but to make his appearance more pleasing; he will never require a gilt frame, and he will never spoil his style by a display of wealth.

His heart is gentle and sensitive, but he doesn’t care about what people think, even though he enjoys making others happy; so he won’t mind being seen as unimportant. As a result, he will be warm rather than overly polite, he will never be arrogant or pretentious, and he will always be more moved by a hug than by lots of compliments. For the same reasons, he will never neglect his manners or his appearance; he might be a bit particular about his clothing, not to show off his taste, but to look more appealing; he will never need a flashy presentation, and he will never ruin his style by flaunting his wealth.

All this demands, as you see, no stock of precepts from me; it is all the result of his early education. People make a great mystery of the ways of society, as if, at the age when these ways are acquired, we did not take to them quite naturally, and as if the first laws of politeness were not to be found in a kindly heart. True politeness consists in showing our goodwill towards men; it shows its presence without any difficulty; those only who lack this goodwill are compelled to reduce the outward signs of it to an art.

All this, as you can see, doesn’t require any special rules from me; it’s all the result of his early education. People often create a big mystery around social norms, as if we didn't adopt these customs quite naturally when we were young, and as if the basic principles of politeness weren't rooted in kindness. True politeness is about expressing our goodwill towards others; it comes naturally to those who have it; only those who lack this goodwill have to turn the signs of it into a skill.

“The worst effect of artificial politeness is that it teaches us how to dispense with the virtues it imitates. If our education teaches us kindness and humanity, we shall be polite, or we shall have no need of politeness.

“The worst effect of artificial politeness is that it teaches us how to get by without the virtues it pretends to have. If our education teaches us kindness and humanity, we will be polite, or we will not need politeness at all."

“If we have not those qualities which display themselves gracefully we shall have those which proclaim the honest man and the citizen; we shall have no need for falsehood.

“If we don’t have those qualities that show themselves elegantly, we’ll have those that reveal us as honest individuals and good citizens; we won’t need to resort to dishonesty."

“Instead of seeking to please by artificiality, it will suffice that we are kindly; instead of flattering the weaknesses of others by falsehood, it will suffice to tolerate them.

“Instead of trying to please through artificial behavior, we just need to be kind; instead of flattering others' weaknesses with lies, we only need to accept them.”

“Those with whom we have to do will neither be puffed up nor corrupted by such intercourse; they will only be grateful and will be informed by it.” [Footnote: Considerations sur les moeurs de ce siecle, par M. Duclos.]

“Those we interact with won’t be arrogant or tainted by such interactions; they will simply be thankful and enlightened by them.” [Footnote: Considerations sur les moeurs de ce siecle, par M. Duclos.]

It seems to me that if any education is calculated to produce the sort of politeness required by M. Duclos in this passage, it is the education I have already described.

It seems to me that any education designed to create the kind of politeness that M. Duclos talks about in this passage is the education I've already mentioned.

Yet I admit that with such different teaching Emile will not be just like everybody else, and heaven preserve him from such a fate! But where he is unlike other people, he will neither cause annoyance nor will he be absurd; the difference will be perceptible but not unpleasant. Emile will be, if you like, an agreeable foreigner. At first his peculiarities will be excused with the phrase, “He will learn.” After a time people will get used to his ways, and seeing that he does not change they will still make excuses for him and say, “He is made that way.”

Yet I admit that with such different teaching, Emile won’t be just like everyone else, and I hope he never becomes that! But where he differs from others, he won’t be annoying or ridiculous; the differences will be noticeable but not unpleasant. Emile will be, if you will, a charming outsider. At first, people will excuse his quirks with, “He’ll learn.” Over time, they’ll get used to his habits, and since he doesn’t change, they’ll continue to make excuses for him and say, “He’s just like that.”

He will not be feted as a charming man, but every one will like him without knowing why; no one will praise his intellect, but every one will be ready to make him the judge between men of intellect; his own intelligence will be clear and limited, his mind will be accurate, and his judgment sane. As he never runs after new ideas, he cannot pride himself on his wit. I have convinced him that all wholesome ideas, ideas which are really useful to mankind, were among the earliest known, that in all times they have formed the true bonds of society, and that there is nothing left for ambitious minds but to seek distinction for themselves by means of ideas which are injurious and fatal to mankind. This way of winning admiration scarcely appeals to him; he knows how he ought to seek his own happiness in life, and how he can contribute to the happiness of others. The sphere of his knowledge is restricted to what is profitable. His path is narrow and clearly defined; as he has no temptation to leave it, he is lost in the crowd; he will neither distinguish himself nor will he lose his way. Emile is a man of common sense and he has no desire to be anything more; you may try in vain to insult him by applying this phrase to him; he will always consider it a title of honour.

He won't be celebrated as a charming guy, but everyone will like him for reasons they can’t quite explain; no one will commend his intellect, but everyone will be willing to have him mediate between smart people. His own intelligence will be evident and limited, his mind will be precise, and his judgment sound. Since he doesn’t chase after new ideas, he can't boast about his wit. I've convinced him that all valuable ideas, those truly beneficial to humanity, were among the earliest known, that throughout history they have formed the real bonds of society, and that there's nothing left for ambitious minds but to seek personal glory through ideas that are harmful and destructive to humanity. This way of gaining admiration doesn’t really appeal to him; he understands how to find his own happiness in life and how he can help others find happiness too. His knowledge is focused on what’s useful. His path is narrow and clearly marked; since he has no reason to stray from it, he blends in with the crowd; he won't stand out, but he also won’t lose his way. Emile is a man of common sense and doesn’t wish to be anything more; you might try in vain to insult him by calling him that; he will always see it as a badge of honor.

Although from his wish to please he is no longer wholly indifferent to the opinion of others, he only considers that opinion so far as he himself is directly concerned, without troubling himself about arbitrary values, which are subject to no law but that of fashion or conventionality. He will have pride enough to wish to do well in everything that he undertakes, and even to wish to do it better than others; he will want to be the swiftest runner, the strongest wrestler, the cleverest workman, the readiest in games of skill; but he will not seek advantages which are not in themselves clear gain, but need to be supported by the opinion of others, such as to be thought wittier than another, a better speaker, more learned, etc.; still less will he trouble himself with those which have nothing to do with the man himself, such as higher birth, a greater reputation for wealth, credit, or public estimation, or the impression created by a showy exterior.

Although he wishes to please others, he's no longer completely indifferent to their opinions; he only cares about those opinions as they relate to him personally, without worrying about arbitrary values that depend on trends or social norms. He will take enough pride in wanting to succeed in all his endeavors and even aims to outperform others; he'll strive to be the fastest runner, the strongest wrestler, the most skilled worker, and the quickest in games of skill. However, he won't pursue advantages that aren't clear benefits on their own and require validation from others, like being seen as wittier, a better speaker, or more knowledgeable, nor will he concern himself with factors unrelated to his character, such as noble lineage, greater wealth, social standing, or the impression made by a flashy appearance.

As he loves his fellows because they are like himself, he will prefer him who is most like himself, because he will feel that he is good; and as he will judge of this resemblance by similarity of taste in morals, in all that belongs to a good character, he will be delighted to win approval. He will not say to himself in so many words, “I am delighted to gain approval,” but “I am delighted because they say I have done right; I am delighted because the men who honour me are worthy of honour; while they judge so wisely, it is a fine thing to win their respect.”

As he loves his peers because they're similar to him, he will prefer those who are most alike, because he feels good about it; and since he evaluates this similarity based on shared morals and attributes of good character, he will be pleased to earn their approval. He won’t explicitly think, “I’m thrilled to get approval,” but rather, “I’m happy because they say I’ve done the right thing; I’m happy because the people who respect me are deserving of respect; since they judge wisely, earning their respect is truly valuable.”

As he studies men in their conduct in society, just as he formerly studied them through their passions in history, he will often have occasion to consider what it is that pleases or offends the human heart. He is now busy with the philosophy of the principles of taste, and this is the most suitable subject for his present study.

As he observes how people behave in society, similar to how he once examined their passions in history, he will frequently reflect on what pleases or offends the human heart. He is now focused on the philosophy of taste, which is the most fitting topic for his current study.

The further we seek our definitions of taste, the further we go astray; taste is merely the power of judging what is pleasing or displeasing to most people. Go beyond this, and you cannot say what taste is. It does not follow that the men of taste are in the majority; for though the majority judges wisely with regard to each individual thing, there are few men who follow the judgment of the majority in everything; and though the most general agreement in taste constitutes good taste, there are few men of good taste just as there are few beautiful people, although beauty consists in the sum of the most usual features.

The more we look for clear definitions of taste, the more lost we become; taste is simply the ability to judge what is pleasing or unpleasant to most people. Go beyond that, and it’s hard to articulate what taste really is. Just because people of taste aren't necessarily in the majority doesn’t mean that the majority doesn't judge wisely about individual things; in fact, very few people consistently follow the majority's opinions across the board. While the most common consensus on taste forms what we consider good taste, there are only a handful of people with good taste, just as there are only a few beautiful people, even though beauty is made up of the most common features.

It must be observed that we are not here concerned with what we like because it is serviceable, or hate because it is harmful to us. Taste deals only with things that are indifferent to us, or which affect at most our amusements, not those which relate to our needs; taste is not required to judge of these, appetite only is sufficient. It is this which makes mere decisions of taste so difficult and as it seems so arbitrary; for beyond the instinct they follow there appears to be no reason whatever for them. We must also make a distinction between the laws of good taste in morals and its laws in physical matters. In the latter the laws of taste appear to be absolutely inexplicable. But it must be observed that there is a moral element in everything which involves imitation.[Footnote: This is demonstrated in an “Essay on the Origin of Languages” which will be found in my collected works.] This is the explanation of beauties which seem to be physical, but are not so in reality. I may add that taste has local rules which make it dependent in many respects on the country we are in, its manners, government, institutions; it has other rules which depend upon age, sex, and character, and it is in this sense that we must not dispute over matters of taste.

We should note that we aren’t focusing on what we like because it’s useful or dislike because it’s harmful to us. Taste only concerns things that are neutral to us, or that affect us minimally, like our entertainment, rather than things that relate to our basic needs; appetite is enough to judge those. This is why decisions based on taste can seem so difficult and arbitrary; beyond the instinct behind them, there doesn’t seem to be any real reasoning. We also need to differentiate between the standards of good taste in morals and those in physical matters. In the latter, the rules of taste seem completely puzzling. However, it’s important to recognize that there is a moral aspect to everything that involves imitation. This explains beauties that might seem physical but aren’t in reality. Additionally, taste has local norms that vary depending on the country we’re in, its customs, governance, and institutions; there are also different rules shaped by age, gender, and personality, which is why we shouldn’t argue over matters of taste.

Taste is natural to men; but all do not possess it in the same degree, it is not developed to the same extent in every one; and in every one it is liable to be modified by a variety of causes. Such taste as we may possess depends on our native sensibility; its cultivation and its form depend upon the society in which we have lived. In the first place we must live in societies of many different kinds, so as to compare much. In the next place, there must be societies for amusement and idleness, for in business relations, interest, not pleasure, is our rule. Lastly, there must be societies in which people are fairly equal, where the tyranny of public opinion may be moderate, where pleasure rather than vanity is queen; where this is not so, fashion stifles taste, and we seek what gives distinction rather than delight.

Taste is natural to people, but not everyone has it to the same degree; it isn't developed equally in everyone, and it's subject to various influences. Our taste depends on our natural sensitivity; its growth and form are shaped by the society we've lived in. First, we need to be part of many different kinds of communities to make comparisons. Next, there should be spaces for fun and leisure, because in business contexts, interest, not enjoyment, guides us. Finally, there need to be communities where people are relatively equal, where the pressure of public opinion is limited, and where enjoyment takes precedence over vanity; without this, trends suppress taste, and we prioritize what gives us status over what brings us joy.

In the latter case it is no longer true that good taste is the taste of the majority. Why is this? Because the purpose is different. Then the crowd has no longer any opinion of its own, it only follows the judgment of those who are supposed to know more about it; its approval is bestowed not on what is good, but on what they have already approved. At any time let every man have his own opinion, and what is most pleasing in itself will always secure most votes.

In this case, good taste isn't just what most people like anymore. Why is that? Because the goal is different. The crowd no longer has its own opinion; it just goes along with what those who are seen as knowledgeable say. Their approval isn’t given to what’s actually good, but to what these experts have already validated. If everyone is allowed to have their own opinion, what is truly enjoyable will always get the most support.

Every beauty that is to be found in the works of man is imitated. All the true models of taste are to be found in nature. The further we get from the master, the worse are our pictures. Then it is that we find our models in what we ourselves like, and the beauty of fancy, subject to caprice and to authority, is nothing but what is pleasing to our leaders.

Every beauty seen in human creations is imitated. All the true examples of good taste come from nature. The farther we stray from the original, the worse our representations become. That's when we start looking for models based on our own preferences, and the beauty of imagination, which is shaped by whims and authority, is simply what pleases those in charge.

Those leaders are the artists, the wealthy, and the great, and they themselves follow the lead of self-interest or pride. Some to display their wealth, others to profit by it, they seek eagerly for new ways of spending it. This is how luxury acquires its power and makes us love what is rare and costly; this so-called beauty consists, not in following nature, but in disobeying her. Hence luxury and bad taste are inseparable. Wherever taste is lavish, it is bad.

Those leaders are the artists, the wealthy, and the influential, and they are guided by self-interest or pride. Some flaunt their wealth, while others seek to benefit from it, eagerly looking for new ways to spend it. This is how luxury gains its power and makes us desire what is rare and expensive; this so-called beauty doesn't come from following nature but from going against it. Thus, luxury and bad taste go hand in hand. Wherever taste is extravagant, it is poor.

Taste, good or bad, takes its shape especially in the intercourse between the two sexes; the cultivation of taste is a necessary consequence of this form of society. But when enjoyment is easily obtained, and the desire to please becomes lukewarm, taste must degenerate; and this is, in my opinion, one of the best reasons why good taste implies good morals.

Taste, whether good or bad, is shaped primarily through interactions between the sexes; developing taste is a necessary result of this social structure. However, when pleasure comes too easily and the desire to impress fades, taste starts to decline; and I believe this is one of the best reasons why good taste reflects good morals.

Consult the women’s opinions in bodily matters, in all that concerns the senses; consult the men in matters of morality and all that concerns the understanding. When women are what they ought to be, they will keep to what they can understand, and their judgment will be right; but since they have set themselves up as judges of literature, since they have begun to criticise books and to make them with might and main, they are altogether astray. Authors who take the advice of blue-stockings will always be ill-advised; gallants who consult them about their clothes will always be absurdly dressed. I shall presently have an opportunity of speaking of the real talents of the female sex, the way to cultivate these talents, and the matters in regard to which their decisions should receive attention.

Consult women for their views on physical matters and anything related to the senses; consult men for moral matters and anything related to intellect. When women are true to themselves, they'll stick to what they understand, and their judgment will be sound; but as long as they’ve positioned themselves as judges of literature, started critiquing books, and passionately creating them, they’re completely off course. Authors who heed the advice of blue-stockings will always make poor choices, and guys who ask them about fashion will end up looking ridiculous. Soon, I will have the chance to discuss the genuine talents of women, how to nurture these talents, and the areas where their opinions should be valued.

These are the elementary considerations which I shall lay down as principles when I discuss with Emile this matter which is by no means indifferent to him in his present inquiries. And to whom should it be a matter of indifference? To know what people may find pleasant or unpleasant is not only necessary to any one who requires their help, it is still more necessary to any one who would help them; you must please them if you would do them service; and the art of writing is no idle pursuit if it is used to make men hear the truth.

These are the basic ideas I will present as principles when I talk with Emile about a topic that is definitely important to him in his current inquiries. And who wouldn’t care about this? Understanding what people find enjoyable or annoying isn’t just essential for someone who needs their support; it’s even more crucial for someone who wants to assist them. You need to please them if you want to help them; and writing is not a trivial activity if it’s meant to help people recognize the truth.

If in order to cultivate my pupil’s taste, I were compelled to choose between a country where this form of culture has not yet arisen and those in which it has already degenerated, I would progress backwards; I would begin his survey with the latter and end with the former. My reason for this choice is, that taste becomes corrupted through excessive delicacy, which makes it sensitive to things which most men do not perceive; this delicacy leads to a spirit of discussion, for the more subtle is our discrimination of things the more things there are for us. This subtlety increases the delicacy and decreases the uniformity of our touch. So there are as many tastes as there are people. In disputes as to our preferences, philosophy and knowledge are enlarged, and thus we learn to think. It is only men accustomed to plenty of society who are capable of very delicate observations, for these observations do not occur to us till the last, and people who are unused to all sorts of society exhaust their attention in the consideration of the more conspicuous features. There is perhaps no civilised place upon earth where the common taste is so bad as in Paris. Yet it is in this capital that good taste is cultivated, and it seems that few books make any impression in Europe whose authors have not studied in Paris. Those who think it is enough to read our books are mistaken; there is more to be learnt from the conversation of authors than from their books; and it is not from the authors that we learn most. It is the spirit of social life which develops a thinking mind, and carries the eye as far as it can reach. If you have a spark of genius, go and spend a year in Paris; you will soon be all that you are capable of becoming, or you will never be good for anything at all.

If I had to choose between a place where culture hasn’t emerged yet and places where it has already declined, I would definitely go backwards. I would start by examining the latter and finish with the former. My reason for this is that taste tends to get spoiled by too much sensitivity, which makes it aware of things that most people don’t notice. This sensitivity encourages a mindset of debate; the more refined our sense of things, the more opinions we have. This refinement increases sensitivity and reduces consistency in our judgments. So there are as many tastes as there are individuals. In arguments over our preferences, both philosophy and knowledge expand, helping us learn to think critically. Only those used to being in social situations can make very subtle observations, as these insights often come to us later on, and those who aren’t used to various social experiences tend to focus their attention on more obvious aspects. There’s probably no civilized place on Earth with as poor a common taste as Paris. Yet it’s in this city that good taste is developed, and it seems that few books make an impact in Europe unless their authors have studied in Paris. Those who believe it’s enough to just read our books are mistaken; there’s much more to learn from the conversations with authors than from their writings, and often we learn more from others than from the authors themselves. It’s the essence of social life that sharpens a thoughtful mind and broadens our perspective. If you have a spark of talent, spend a year in Paris; you’ll soon realize your full potential, or you’ll end up being good for nothing at all.

One may learn to think in places where bad taste rules supreme; but we must not think like those whose taste is bad, and it is very difficult to avoid this if we spend much time among them. We must use their efforts to perfect the machinery of judgment, but we must be careful not to make the same use of it. I shall take care not to polish Emile’s judgment so far as to transform it, and when he has acquired discernment enough to feel and compare the varied tastes of men, I shall lead him to fix his own taste upon simpler matters.

You can learn to think in environments where bad taste is everywhere; however, we shouldn’t adopt the mindset of those with poor taste, and it’s really challenging to avoid this if we spend too much time with them. We should take their efforts to refine our judgment, but we need to be careful not to use it the same way they do. I will ensure that I don’t refine Emile’s judgment so much that it changes. Once he has developed enough insight to recognize and compare the different tastes of people, I’ll guide him to focus his own taste on simpler things.

I will go still further in order to keep his taste pure and wholesome. In the tumult of dissipation I shall find opportunities for useful conversation with him; and while these conversations are always about things in which he takes a delight, I shall take care to make them as amusing as they are instructive. Now is the time to read pleasant books; now is the time to teach him to analyse speech and to appreciate all the beauties of eloquence and diction. It is a small matter to learn languages, they are less useful than people think; but the study of languages leads us on to that of grammar in general. We must learn Latin if we would have a thorough knowledge of French; these two languages must be studied and compared if we would understand the rules of the art of speaking.

I will go even further to keep his tastes pure and healthy. In the chaos of partying, I'll find opportunities for meaningful conversations with him; and while these talks will always be about things he enjoys, I'll make sure they're just as entertaining as they are educational. Now is the perfect time to read enjoyable books; now is the time to teach him how to analyze language and appreciate the beauty of expression and style. Learning languages is relatively easy; they’re not as useful as people think, but studying languages leads to a broader understanding of grammar. We need to learn Latin in order to gain a full understanding of French; these two languages should be studied and compared if we want to grasp the rules of effective communication.

There is, moreover, a certain simplicity of taste which goes straight to the heart; and this is only to be found in the classics. In oratory, poetry, and every kind of literature, Emile will find the classical authors as he found them in history, full of matter and sober in their judgment. The authors of our own time, on the contrary, say little and talk much. To take their judgment as our constant law is not the way to form our own judgment. These differences of taste make themselves felt in all that is left of classical times and even on their tombs. Our monuments are covered with praises, theirs recorded facts.

There’s a certain simplicity in taste that goes straight to the heart, and this can only be found in the classics. In oratory, poetry, and all kinds of literature, Emile will discover the classical authors as he did in history, rich in content and wise in their judgment. The authors of our time, on the other hand, say little and chatter a lot. Relying on their opinions as our constant guide isn’t the best way to develop our own judgment. These differences in taste are evident in everything that remains from classical times, even on their gravestones. Our monuments are filled with praises, while theirs record facts.

     “Sta, viator; heroem calcas.”
 
“Stop, traveler; you tread on a hero.”

If I had found this epitaph on an ancient monument, I should at once have guessed it was modern; for there is nothing so common among us as heroes, but among the ancients they were rare. Instead of saying a man was a hero, they would have said what he had done to gain that name. With the epitaph of this hero compare that of the effeminate Sardanapalus—

If I had come across this epitaph on an old monument, I would have instantly thought it was modern; because we have so many heroes today, whereas they were rare in ancient times. Instead of just calling someone a hero, they would have explained what that person did to earn that title. Compare this hero's epitaph to that of the soft Sardanapalus—

     “Tarsus and Anchiales I built in a day, and now I am dead.”
 
 “I built Tarsus and Anchiales in a day, and now I’m dead.”

Which do you think says most? Our inflated monumental style is only fit to trumpet forth the praises of pygmies. The ancients showed men as they were, and it was plain that they were men indeed. Xenophon did honour to the memory of some warriors who were slain by treason during the retreat of the Ten Thousand. “They died,” said he, “without stain in war and in love.” That is all, but think how full was the heart of the author of this short and simple elegy. Woe to him who fails to perceive its charm. The following words were engraved on a tomb at Thermopylae—

Which do you think conveys the most meaning? Our over-the-top monumental style is only suited to shout the praises of insignificant people. The ancients represented individuals as they truly were, clearly showing them as real men. Xenophon honored the memory of some warriors who were betrayed during the retreat of the Ten Thousand. “They died,” he said, “without blemish in war and in love.” That’s all, but consider how profound the emotions were for the author of this short and simple elegy. Woe to anyone who cannot see its beauty. The following words were engraved on a tomb at Thermopylae—

“Go, Traveller, tell Sparta that here we fell in obedience to her laws.”

“Go, Traveler, tell Sparta that we fell here in obedience to her laws.”

It is pretty clear that this was not the work of the Academy of Inscriptions.

It’s pretty clear that this wasn’t the work of the Academy of Inscriptions.

If I am not mistaken, the attention of my pupil, who sets so small value upon words, will be directed in the first place to these differences, and they will affect his choice in his reading. He will be carried away by the manly eloquence of Demosthenes, and will say, “This is an orator;” but when he reads Cicero, he will say, “This is a lawyer.”

If I'm not wrong, my student, who doesn't think much of words, will first notice these differences, and they'll influence his reading choices. He’ll be impressed by Demosthenes' strong eloquence and say, “This is an orator,” but when he reads Cicero, he’ll say, “This is a lawyer.”

Speaking generally Emile will have more taste for the books of the ancients than for our own, just because they were the first, and therefore the ancients are nearer to nature and their genius is more distinct. Whatever La Motte and the Abbe Terrasson may say, there is no real advance in human reason, for what we gain in one direction we lose in another; for all minds start from the same point, and as the time spent in learning what others have thought is so much time lost in learning to think for ourselves, we have more acquired knowledge and less vigour of mind. Our minds like our arms are accustomed to use tools for everything, and to do nothing for themselves. Fontenelle used to say that all these disputes as to the ancients and the moderns came to this—Were the trees in former times taller than they are now. If agriculture had changed, it would be worth our while to ask this question.

Generally speaking, Emile will have a greater appreciation for ancient books than for those of our own time, simply because they came first, and thus the ancients are closer to nature, with their genius being more distinct. Regardless of what La Motte and Abbe Terrasson may argue, there hasn’t been a real advancement in human reasoning; what we gain in one area, we lose in another. All minds start from the same point, and since the time spent learning what others have thought is time not spent learning to think for ourselves, we end up with more acquired knowledge but less intellectual vigor. Our minds, like our arms, have become reliant on tools for everything, leaving us unable to do anything on our own. Fontenelle used to say that all these debates about the ancients and the moderns boil down to one question—were the trees in earlier times taller than they are now? If farming methods had changed, it would be worth asking this question.

After I have led Emile to the sources of pure literature, I will also show him the channels into the reservoirs of modern compilers; journals, translations, dictionaries, he shall cast a glance at them all, and then leave them for ever. To amuse him he shall hear the chatter of the academies; I will draw his attention to the fast that every member of them is worth more by himself than he is as a member of the society; he will then draw his own conclusions as to the utility of these fine institutions.

After I’ve guided Emile to the sources of true literature, I’ll also show him the pathways to the collections of modern compilers; he’ll take a look at journals, translations, and dictionaries, and then leave them behind for good. To entertain him, he’ll hear the chatter of the academies; I’ll point out that each member is more valuable on their own than as part of the group; he’ll then come to his own conclusions about the usefulness of these prestigious institutions.

I take him to the theatre to study taste, not morals; for in the theatre above all taste is revealed to those who can think. Lay aside precepts and morality, I should say; this is not the place to study them. The stage is not made for truth; its object is to flatter and amuse: there is no place where one can learn so completely the art of pleasing and of interesting the human heart. The study of plays leads to the study of poetry; both have the same end in view. If he has the least glimmering of taste for poetry, how eagerly will he study the languages of the poets, Greek, Latin, and Italian! These studies will afford him unlimited amusement and will be none the less valuable; they will be a delight to him at an age and in circumstances when the heart finds so great a charm in every kind of beauty which affects it. Picture to yourself on the one hand Emile, on the other some young rascal from college, reading the fourth book of the Aeneid, or Tibollus, or the Banquet of Plato: what a difference between them! What stirs the heart of Emile to its depths, makes not the least impression on the other! Oh, good youth, stay, make a pause in your reading, you are too deeply moved; I would have you find pleasure in the language of love, but I would not have you carried away by it; be a wise man, but be a good man too. If you are only one of these, you are nothing. After this let him win fame or not in dead languages, in literature, in poetry, I care little. He will be none the worse if he knows nothing of them, and his education is not concerned with these mere words.

I take him to the theater to explore taste, not morals; because in the theater, above all, taste is revealed to those who can think. Forget rules and morality; this isn't the place to study them. The stage isn't about truth; its purpose is to entertain and amuse: there's no better way to learn the art of pleasing and captivating the human heart. Studying plays leads to studying poetry; both aim for the same thing. If he has even a slight appreciation for poetry, he will enthusiastically dive into the languages of poets—Greek, Latin, and Italian! These studies will offer him endless enjoyment and will be just as valuable; they'll be a joy to him at a time when the heart finds so much beauty around it. Just imagine Emile on one side and some young troublemaker from college on the other, reading the fourth book of the Aeneid, or Tibullus, or Plato's Banquet: what a contrast between them! What deeply moves Emile doesn’t even touch the other! Oh, dear youth, hold on, take a break from your reading; you’re getting too emotional. I want you to enjoy the language of love, but I don't want you to get swept away by it; be wise, but also be good. If you’re only one of those, you're nothing. After this, whether he gains fame or not in dead languages, literature, or poetry doesn't matter to me. He won't be any worse off if he knows nothing about them, and his education isn't tied up with these mere words.

My main object in teaching him to feel and love beauty of every kind is to fix his affections and his taste on these, to prevent the corruption of his natural appetites, lest he should have to seek some day in the midst of his wealth for the means of happiness which should be found close at hand. I have said elsewhere that taste is only the art of being a connoisseur in matters of little importance, and this is quite true; but since the charm of life depends on a tissue of these matters of little importance, such efforts are no small thing; through their means we learn how to fill our life with the good things within our reach, with as much truth as they may hold for us. I do not refer to the morally good which depends on a good disposition of the heart, but only to that which depends on the body, on real delight, apart from the prejudices of public opinion.

My main goal in teaching him to appreciate and love beauty in all its forms is to focus his feelings and taste on these, to prevent the corruption of his natural desires, so that he doesn't end up searching for happiness amidst his wealth when it should be right in front of him. I’ve mentioned before that taste is basically the skill of being a connoisseur of things that aren’t that important, and that’s true; but since life’s charm relies on a web of these seemingly trivial things, such efforts are significant. They help us learn how to fill our lives with the good things available to us, based on as much truth as they can provide. I'm not talking about moral goodness, which relies on a good heart, but rather about what’s tied to the body, about genuine pleasure, free from societal biases.

The better to unfold my idea, allow me for a moment to leave Emile, whose pure and wholesome heart cannot be taken as a rule for others, and to seek in my own memory for an illustration better suited to the reader and more in accordance with his own manners.

To better express my idea, let me take a moment to step away from Emile, whose pure and wholesome heart shouldn’t be used as a standard for everyone, and look into my own memory for an example that’s more fitting for the reader and aligns better with his own character.

There are professions which seem to change a man’s nature, to recast, either for better or worse, the men who adopt them. A coward becomes a brave man in the regiment of Navarre. It is not only in the army that esprit de corps is acquired, and its effects are not always for good. I have thought again and again with terror that if I had the misfortune to fill a certain post I am thinking of in a certain country, before to-morrow I should certainly be a tyrant, an extortioner, a destroyer of the people, harmful to my king, and a professed enemy of mankind, a foe to justice and every kind of virtue.

Some jobs seem to change a person's character, reshaping those who take them, for better or worse. A coward becomes brave in the Navarre regiment. It's not just in the military that this sense of unity develops, and its effects aren’t always positive. I’ve often thought with dread that if I were unfortunate enough to take on a certain position in a certain country, by tomorrow, I would definitely become a tyrant, a scammer, a destroyer of the people, harmful to my king, and a sworn enemy of humanity, opposed to justice and every kind of virtue.

In the same way, if I were rich, I should have done all that is required to gain riches; I should therefore be insolent and degraded, sensitive and feeling only on my own behalf, harsh and pitiless to all besides, a scornful spectator of the sufferings of the lower classes; for that is what I should call the poor, to make people forget that I was once poor myself. Lastly I should make my fortune a means to my own pleasures with which I should be wholly occupied; and so far I should be just like other people.

If I were rich, I would have done everything needed to get wealthy; I would then be arrogant and contemptible, only caring about my own feelings, cruel and unfeeling towards everyone else, looking down on the struggles of those less fortunate. I would refer to the poor as the lower classes, just to make others forget that I was once poor too. In the end, I would use my wealth to indulge myself, focused only on my own enjoyment; in that way, I would be just like everyone else.

But in one respect I should be very unlike them; I should be sensual and voluptuous rather than proud and vain, and I should give myself up to the luxury of comfort rather than to that of ostentation. I should even be somewhat ashamed to make too great a show of my wealth, and if I overwhelmed the envious with my pomp I should always fancy I heard him saying, “Here is a rascal who is greatly afraid lest we should take him for anything but what he is.”

But in one way, I would be very different from them; I would be sensual and indulgent instead of proud and vain, and I would immerse myself in the comfort of luxury rather than in flashy displays. I would even feel a bit embarrassed to flaunt my wealth too much, and if I overwhelmed the jealous with my showiness, I would always imagine hearing them say, “Here’s a guy who’s really worried that we’ll think he’s anything other than what he is.”

In the vast profusion of good things upon this earth I should seek what I like best, and what I can best appropriate to myself.

In the abundance of wonderful things on this earth, I should look for what I like most and what I can best make my own.

To this end, the first use I should make of my wealth would be to purchase leisure and freedom, to which I would add health, if it were to be purchased; but health can only be bought by temperance, and as there is no real pleasure without health, I should be temperate from sensual motives.

To achieve this, the first thing I'd do with my wealth would be to buy leisure and freedom, and I would add health if it were something I could purchase; but health can only be attained through moderation, and since there's no true pleasure without health, I would practice moderation for sensual reasons.

I should also keep as close as possible to nature, to gratify the senses given me by nature, being quite convinced that, the greater her share in my pleasures, the more real I shall find them. In the choice of models for imitation I shall always choose nature as my pattern; in my appetites I will give her the preference; in my tastes she shall always be consulted; in my food I will always choose what most owes its charm to her, and what has passed through the fewest possible hands on its way to table. I will be on my guard against fraudulent shams; I will go out to meet pleasure. No cook shall grow rich on my gross and foolish greediness; he shall not poison me with fish which cost its weight in gold, my table shall not be decked with fetid splendour or putrid flesh from far-off lands. I will take any amount of trouble to gratify my sensibility, since this trouble has a pleasure of its own, a pleasure more than we expect. If I wished to taste a food from the ends of the earth, I would go, like Apicius, in search of it, rather than send for it; for the daintiest dishes always lack a charm which cannot be brought along with them, a flavour which no cook can give them—the air of the country where they are produced.

I should stick as close to nature as possible to enjoy the senses that nature has given me, fully believing that the more she contributes to my pleasures, the more genuine they’ll be. When choosing models to imitate, I will always use nature as my benchmark; I will prioritize her in my desires; I will always consult her regarding my tastes; in my food, I will consistently select what most owes its appeal to her and what has gone through the fewest hands before reaching my table. I will be cautious about deceitful imitations; I will actively seek out pleasure. No chef will profit from my gluttony; they won't poison me with fish that cost a fortune; my table won't be adorned with foul splendor or rotten meat from distant places. I will gladly put in the effort to satisfy my sensitivity since that effort brings its own enjoyment, one that often exceeds our expectations. If I wanted to taste food from the far corners of the earth, I would, like Apicius, go in search of it instead of ordering it; the finest dishes always lack a charm that can't be transported, a flavor that no chef can provide—the essence of the land where they come from.

For the same reason I would not follow the example of those who are never well off where they are, but are always setting the seasons at nought, and confusing countries and their seasons; those who seek winter in summer and summer in winter, and go to Italy to be cold and to the north to be warm, do not consider that when they think they are escaping from the severity of the seasons, they are going to meet that severity in places where people are not prepared for it. I shall stay in one place, or I shall adopt just the opposite course; I should like to get all possible enjoyment out of one season to discover what is peculiar to any given country. I would have a variety of pleasures, and habits quite unlike one another, but each according to nature; I would spend the summer at Naples and the winter in St. Petersburg; sometimes I would breathe the soft zephyr lying in the cool grottoes of Tarentum, and again I would enjoy the illuminations of an ice palace, breathless and wearied with the pleasures of the dance.

For the same reason, I wouldn’t follow the example of those who are never satisfied where they are but constantly disregard the seasons and mix up different countries and their climates. Those who look for winter in summer and summer in winter, travelling to Italy to be cold and to the north to be warm, don’t realize that when they think they’re escaping the harshness of the seasons, they are actually encountering that harshness in places unprepared for it. I’d rather stay in one place or take the complete opposite approach; I want to get as much enjoyment as possible from one season to truly appreciate what’s unique about each country. I’d like to experience a variety of pleasures and habits that are completely different from one another, but each one in harmony with nature; I’d spend the summer in Naples and the winter in St. Petersburg; sometimes I would relax in the gentle breeze of the cool grottos in Tarentum, and other times I would enjoy the dazzling lights of an ice palace, breathless and exhausted from the pleasures of dancing.

In the service of my table and the adornment of my dwelling I would imitate in the simplest ornaments the variety of the seasons, and draw from each its charm without anticipating its successor. There is no taste but only difficulty to be found in thus disturbing the order of nature; to snatch from her unwilling gifts, which she yields regretfully, with her curse upon them; gifts which have neither strength nor flavour, which can neither nourish the body nor tickle the palate. Nothing is more insipid than forced fruits. A wealthy man in Paris, with all his stoves and hot-houses, only succeeds in getting all the year round poor fruit and poor vegetables for his table at a very high price. If I had cherries in frost, and golden melons in the depths of winter, what pleasure should I find in them when my palate did not need moisture or refreshment. Would the heavy chestnut be very pleasant in the heat of the dog-days; should I prefer to have it hot from the stove, rather than the gooseberry, the strawberry, the refreshing fruits which the earth takes care to provide for me. A mantelpiece covered in January with forced vegetation, with pale and scentless flowers, is not winter adorned, but spring robbed of its beauty; we deprive ourselves of the pleasure of seeking the first violet in the woods, of noting the earliest buds, and exclaiming in a rapture of delight, “Mortals, you are not forsaken, nature is living still.”

In setting my table and decorating my home, I would replicate the simple ornaments reflecting the variety of the seasons, taking inspiration from each one without rushing to the next. There’s no pleasure, only trouble, in upsetting nature’s order; to take her unwilling gifts, which she provides reluctantly, with a curse lingering over them; gifts that lack both strength and flavor, incapable of nourishing the body or pleasing the taste buds. Nothing is more bland than forced fruit. A wealthy person in Paris, with all their stoves and greenhouses, only ends up with poor quality fruit and vegetables all year round, at a very high cost. If I had cherries in winter and golden melons in the depths of the season, what enjoyment would I derive from them when my palate didn’t crave moisture or refreshment? Would a heavy chestnut be enjoyable in the scorching summer days? Would I prefer it hot from the stove over the gooseberry or strawberry, the refreshing fruits that nature provides? A mantelpiece covered in January with forced greenery, with pale and scentless flowers, isn’t winter dressed up; it’s spring stripped of its beauty. We miss out on the joy of searching for the first violet in the woods, spotting the earliest buds, and exclaiming with delight, “Humans, you are not abandoned; nature is still alive.”

To be well served I would have few servants; this has been said before, but it is worth saying again. A tradesman gets more real service from his one man than a duke from the ten gentlemen round about him. It has often struck me when I am sitting at table with my glass beside me that I can drink whenever I please; whereas, if I were dining in state, twenty men would have to call for “Wine” before I could quench my thirst. You may be sure that whatever is done for you by other people is ill done. I would not send to the shops, I would go myself; I would go so that my servants should not make their own terms with the shopkeepers, and to get a better choice and cheaper prices; I would go for the sake of pleasant exercise and to get a glimpse of what was going on out of doors; this is amusing and sometimes instructive; lastly I would go for the sake of the walk; there is always something in that. A sedentary life is the source of tedium; when we walk a good deal we are never dull. A porter and footmen are poor interpreters, I should never wish to have such people between the world and myself, nor would I travel with all the fuss of a coach, as if I were afraid people would speak to me. Shanks’ mare is always ready; if she is tired or ill, her owner is the first to know it; he need not be afraid of being kept at home while his coachman is on the spree; on the road he will not have to submit to all sorts of delays, nor will he be consumed with impatience, nor compelled to stay in one place a moment longer than he chooses. Lastly, since no one serves us so well as we serve ourselves, had we the power of Alexander and the wealth of Croesus we should accept no services from others, except those we cannot perform for ourselves.

To be well taken care of, I would have a few servants; this has been said before, but it's worth repeating. A tradesman gets better real service from his one employee than a duke gets from the ten gentlemen around him. It often hits me when I'm sitting at the table with my drink that I can sip whenever I want; meanwhile, if I were dining in a fancy setting, twenty people would have to shout for "Wine" before I could satisfy my thirst. You can be sure that anything done for you by others is poorly done. I wouldn't send someone to the shops; I would go myself. I would go so that my servants don't make their own deals with the shopkeepers, and to get better options and lower prices; I would go for some enjoyable exercise and to see what's happening outside; this can be both fun and enlightening; lastly, I would go just for the walk; there's always something valuable in that. A sedentary life leads to boredom; when we walk a lot, we are never dull. Porters and footmen are terrible middlemen; I would never want such people between me and the world, nor would I want to travel with all the hassle of a coach, as if I were scared people would talk to me. My own two feet are always ready; if they are tired or unwell, I'm the first to notice; I don’t need to worry about being stuck at home while my driver is out having fun; on the road, I won't have to deal with all kinds of delays, and I won’t be filled with frustration, nor forced to stay in one place longer than I want. Finally, since no one serves us as well as we serve ourselves, even if we had the power of Alexander and the riches of Croesus, we should accept no help from others, except for things we can't do ourselves.

I would not live in a palace; for even in a palace I should only occupy one room; every room which is common property belongs to nobody, and the rooms of each of my servants would be as strange to me as my neighbour’s. The Orientals, although very voluptuous, are lodged in plain and simply furnished dwellings. They consider life as a journey, and their house as an inn. This reason scarcely appeals to us rich people who propose to live for ever; but I should find another reason which would have the same effect. It would seem to me that if I settled myself in one place in the midst of such splendour, I should banish myself from every other place, and imprison myself, so to speak, in my palace. The world is a palace fair enough for any one; and is not everything at the disposal of the rich man when he seeks enjoyment? “Ubi bene, ibi patria,” that is his motto; his home is anywhere where money will carry him, his country is anywhere where there is room for his strong-box, as Philip considered as his own any place where a mule laden with silver could enter. [Footnote: A stranger, splendidly clad, was asked in Athens what country he belonged to. “I am one of the rich,” was his answer; and a very good answer in my opinion.] Why then should we shut ourselves up within walls and gates as if we never meant to leave them? If pestilence, war, or rebellion drive me from one place, I go to another, and I find my hotel there before me. Why should I build a mansion for myself when the world is already at my disposal? Why should I be in such a hurry to live, to bring from afar delights which I can find on the spot? It is impossible to make a pleasant life for oneself when one is always at war with oneself. Thus Empedocles reproached the men of Agrigentum with heaping up pleasures as if they had but one day to live, and building as if they would live for ever.

I wouldn't live in a palace; because even in a palace, I'd only have one room. Every room that's shared belongs to no one, and the rooms of my servants would seem as unfamiliar to me as my neighbor's. Even though people in the East live lavishly, they stay in simple, plainly furnished homes. They view life as a journey, and their house as a place to rest. This idea doesn’t resonate much with us wealthy folks who plan to live forever, but I can find another reason that leads to the same conclusion. It feels to me that if I settled down in such luxury, I'd be shutting myself off from everywhere else and, in a way, trapping myself in my palace. The world is a beautiful palace for anyone, and don't rich people have access to everything they want whenever they seek enjoyment? “Where it’s good, there’s home,” that’s their motto; their home is anywhere their money takes them, and their country is any place that can accommodate their wealth, just as Philip thought of any place that a mule loaded with silver could enter as his own. [Footnote: A stranger, dressed in fine clothes, was asked in Athens where he was from. “I am one of the rich,” he replied; and I think that’s a very good answer.] So why should we confine ourselves within walls and gates as if we never expect to leave? If disease, war, or rebellion force me from one place, I go to another, and I find my hotel waiting for me there. Why should I build a house for myself when the world is already available to me? Why rush to experience life and bring in pleasures from afar that I can find right here? It's impossible to create an enjoyable life for oneself if you’re always at odds with yourself. That's why Empedocles criticized the people of Agrigentum for hoarding pleasures as if they had only one day to live while building as though they would live forever.

And what use have I for so large a dwelling, as I have so few people to live in it, and still fewer goods to fill it? My furniture would be as simple as my tastes; I would have neither picture-gallery nor library, especially if I was fond of reading and knew something about pictures. I should then know that such collections are never complete, and that the lack of that which is wanting causes more annoyance than if one had nothing at all. In this respect abundance is the cause of want, as every collector knows to his cost. If you are an expert, do not make a collection; if you know how to use your cabinets, you will not have any to show.

And what do I need such a big house for when I have so few people to live in it and even fewer things to fill it? My furniture would be as simple as my tastes; I wouldn’t have a gallery or a library, especially if I loved reading and knew a thing or two about art. I’d realize that collections are never truly complete, and the things I’m missing would annoy me more than having nothing at all. In this way, having too much can make you feel lacking, as every collector knows all too well. If you’re an expert, don’t start a collection; if you know how to use your space, you won’t have anything to display.

Gambling is no sport for the rich, it is the resource of those who have nothing to do; I shall be so busy with my pleasures that I shall have no time to waste. I am poor and lonely and I never play, unless it is a game of chess now and then, and that is more than enough. If I were rich I would play even less, and for very low stakes, so that I should not be disappointed myself, nor see the disappointment of others. The wealthy man has no motive for play, and the love of play will not degenerate into the passion for gambling unless the disposition is evil. The rich man is always more keenly aware of his losses than his gains, and as in games where the stakes are not high the winnings are generally exhausted in the long run, he will usually lose more than he gains, so that if we reason rightly we shall scarcely take a great fancy to games where the odds are against us. He who flatters his vanity so far as to believe that Fortune favours him can seek her favour in more exciting ways; and her favours are just as clearly shown when the stakes are low as when they are high. The taste for play, the result of greed and dullness, only lays hold of empty hearts and heads; and I think I should have enough feeling and knowledge to dispense with its help. Thinkers are seldom gamblers; gambling interrupts the habit of thought and turns it towards barren combinations; thus one good result, perhaps the only good result of the taste for science, is that it deadens to some extent this vulgar passion; people will prefer to try to discover the uses of play rather than to devote themselves to it. I should argue with the gamblers against gambling, and I should find more delight in scoffing at their losses than in winning their money.

Gambling isn't a game for the wealthy; it's something for those who have nothing better to do. I’ll be too busy enjoying my life to waste time on it. I’m poor and alone, and I rarely play, except for the occasional game of chess, which is more than enough for me. If I were rich, I would play even less and only for very small amounts, so I wouldn’t feel disappointed nor witness others' disappointments. A rich person has no real reason to play, and the enjoyment of playing doesn’t turn into a gambling addiction unless there's something wrong with their character. Wealthy individuals are always more focused on their losses than their winnings, and since low-stakes games usually leave them with nothing in the end, they often lose more than they win. So, if we think logically, we shouldn’t get too excited about games that are stacked against us. Those who inflate their ego enough to think that luck is on their side can pursue that luck in more thrilling ways; and luck can show itself just as clearly with small stakes as with large ones. The craving for gambling, born out of greed and boredom, only attracts empty hearts and minds; and I believe I have enough insight and emotion to get by without it. People who think deeply are rarely gamblers; gambling disrupts thought and leads to pointless distractions. One positive outcome, perhaps the only one, of a passion for knowledge is that it dulls this crass desire to some extent; people would rather seek to understand the purpose of games than get lost in them. I would argue against gamblers about the futility of gambling, and I’d find more joy in mocking their losses than in winning their money.

I should be the same in private life as in my social intercourse. I should wish my fortune to bring comfort in its train, and never to make people conscious of inequalities of wealth. Showy dress is inconvenient in many ways. To preserve as much freedom as possible among other men, I should like to be dressed in such a way that I should not seem out of place among all classes, and should not attract attention in any; so that without affectation or change I might mingle with the crowd at the inn or with the nobility at the Palais Royal. In this way I should be more than ever my own master, and should be free to enjoy the pleasures of all sorts and conditions of men. There are women, so they say, whose doors are closed to embroidered cuffs, women who will only receive guests who wear lace ruffles; I should spend my days elsewhere; though if these women were young and pretty I might sometimes put on lace ruffles to spend an evening or so in their company.

I should be the same in private as I am in social situations. I want my fortune to bring comfort and never make people aware of wealth differences. Flashy clothing is inconvenient in many ways. To maintain as much freedom as possible among others, I’d like to dress in a way that doesn’t make me stand out among any class, so that I can blend in with the crowd at the inn or with the nobility at the Palais Royal without any pretension or change. This way, I would be more in control of my life and free to enjoy the company of all kinds of people. There are women, they say, whose doors are closed to anyone wearing fancy cuffs; women who will only host guests in lace ruffles. I would rather spend my time elsewhere; though if these women were young and attractive, I might occasionally wear lace ruffles to enjoy an evening or two in their company.

Mutual affection, similarity of tastes, suitability of character; these are the only bonds between my companions and myself; among them I would be a man, not a person of wealth; the charm of their society should never be embittered by self-seeking. If my wealth had not robbed me of all humanity, I would scatter my benefits and my services broadcast, but I should want companions about me, not courtiers, friends, not proteges; I should wish my friends to regard me as their host, not their patron. Independence and equality would leave to my relations with my friends the sincerity of goodwill; while duty and self-seeking would have no place among us, and we should know no law but that of pleasure and friendship.

Mutual affection, shared interests, and compatible personalities; these are the only connections I have with my friends. Among them, I prefer to be a person, not someone with wealth; the joy of their company should never be spoiled by selfishness. If my wealth hadn’t stripped away my humanity, I would generously share my resources and help everyone, but I want friends around me, not people looking for favors; I want my friends to see me as their host, not their benefactor. Independence and equality would ensure that my relationships with them are built on genuine goodwill; duty and self-interest wouldn’t have a place in our interactions, and we would be guided only by pleasure and friendship.

Neither a friend nor a mistress can be bought. Women may be got for money, but that road will never lead to love. Love is not only not for sale; money strikes it dead. If a man pays, were he indeed the most lovable of men, the mere fact of payment would prevent any lasting affection. He will soon be paying for some one else, or rather some one else will get his money; and in this double connection based on self-seeking and debauchery, without love, honour, or true pleasure, the woman is grasping, faithless, and unhappy, and she is treated by the wretch to whom she gives her money as she treats the fool who gives his money to her; she has no love for either. It would be sweet to lie generous towards one we love, if that did not make a bargain of love. I know only one way of gratifying this desire with the woman one loves without embittering love; it is to bestow our all upon her and to live at her expense. It remains to be seen whether there is any woman with regard to whom such conduct would not be unwise.

Neither a friend nor a lover can be bought. You can get women for money, but that path will never lead to love. Love isn't for sale; money kills it. If a man pays, even if he's the most charming guy around, the act of paying itself will stop any real affection from developing. He'll soon be paying for someone else, or rather, someone else will be taking his money; and in this tangled connection driven by selfishness and indulgence, absent of love, honor, or genuine pleasure, the woman becomes greedy, unfaithful, and unhappy, treated by the loser who gives her money just as she treats the fool who pays her; she feels no love for either. It would be lovely to be generous towards someone we love, but that turns love into a transaction. I only know one way to satisfy this desire for the woman you love without poisoning that love; it's to give her everything and live off her. Whether there’s a woman for whom this approach wouldn’t be foolish remains to be seen.

He who said, “Lais is mine, but I am not hers,” was talking nonsense. Possession which is not mutual is nothing at all; at most it is the possession of the sex not of the individual. But where there is no morality in love, why make such ado about the rest? Nothing is so easy to find. A muleteer is in this respect as near to happiness as a millionaire.

He who said, “Lais is mine, but I am not hers,” was speaking nonsense. Possession that isn’t mutual means nothing at all; at best, it’s just the possession of sex, not of a person. But if there’s no morality in love, why fuss over anything else? Nothing is harder to come by. A mule driver, in this sense, is just as close to happiness as a millionaire.

Oh, if we could thus trace out the unreasonableness of vice, how often should we find that, when it has attained its object, it discovers it is not what it seemed! Why is there this cruel haste to corrupt innocence, to make, a victim of a young creature whom we ought to protect, one who is dragged by this first false step into a gulf of misery from which only death can release her? Brutality, vanity, folly, error, and nothing more. This pleasure itself is unnatural; it rests on popular opinion, and popular opinion at its worst, since it depends on scorn of self. He who knows he is the basest of men fears comparison with others, and would be the first that he may be less hateful. See if those who are most greedy in pursuit of such fancied pleasures are ever attractive young men—men worthy of pleasing, men who might have some excuse if they were hard to please. Not so; any one with good looks, merit, and feeling has little fear of his mistress’ experience; with well-placed confidence he says to her, “You know what pleasure is, what is that to me? my heart assures me that this is not so.”

Oh, if we could clearly see the absurdity of vice, how often we would find that, once it gets what it wants, it realizes it’s not what it seemed! Why rush to corrupt innocence, turning a young person into a victim we should be protecting, someone who is dragged by this first wrong choice into a pit of misery from which only death can free her? It’s cruelty, vanity, foolishness, and nothing more. This pleasure itself is unnatural; it relies on public opinion, and that opinion is at its worst when it comes from self-hatred. The one who knows he is the lowest of men fears being compared to others and would rather be the least despicable. Look at those who are most eager to chase after such imagined pleasures—are they ever appealing young men? Men deserving of admiration, men who could have some reason to be hard to please? Not at all; anyone with looks, talent, and sensitivity has little concern about his partner’s experience; with well-placed confidence, he tells her, “You know what pleasure is; what does that matter to me? My heart tells me it’s not like that.”

But an aged satyr, worn out with debauchery, with no charm, no consideration, no thought for any but himself, with no shred of honour, incapable and unworthy of finding favour in the eyes of any woman who knows anything of men deserving of love, expects to make up for all this with an innocent girl by trading on her inexperience and stirring her emotions for the first time. His last hope is to find favour as a novelty; no doubt this is the secret motive of this desire; but he is mistaken, the horror he excites is just as natural as the desires he wishes to arouse. He is also mistaken in his foolish attempt; that very nature takes care to assert her rights; every girl who sells herself is no longer a maid; she has given herself to the man of her choice, and she is making the very comparison he dreads. The pleasure purchased is imaginary, but none the less hateful.

But an old satyr, worn out from indulgence, with no charm, no regard for others, only concerned about himself, lacking any sense of honor, and unworthy of earning the affection of any woman who knows what love really is, thinks he can make up for all this with an innocent girl by taking advantage of her naivety and stirring her emotions for the first time. His last hope is to gain her favor as something new and exciting; no doubt this is the hidden motive behind his desire, but he’s wrong— the fear he creates is just as natural as the feelings he wants to provoke. He’s also misguided in his foolish plan; nature will assert herself. Every girl who sells herself is no longer a virgin; she has chosen her partner, and she’s making the very comparison that terrifies him. The pleasure bought is imaginary, but it’s still loathsome.

For my own part, however riches may change me, there is one matter in which I shall never change. If I have neither morals nor virtue, I shall not be wholly without taste, without sense, without delicacy; and this will prevent me from spending my fortune in the pursuit of empty dreams, from wasting my money and my strength in teaching children to betray me and mock at me. If I were young, I would seek the pleasures of youth; and as I would have them at their best I would not seek them in the guise of a rich man. If I were at my present age, it would be another matter; I would wisely confine myself to the pleasures of my age; I would form tastes which I could enjoy, and I would stifle those which could only cause suffering. I would not go and offer my grey beard to the scornful jests of young girls; I could never bear to sicken them with my disgusting caresses, to furnish them at my expense with the most absurd stories, to imagine them describing the vile pleasures of the old ape, so as to avenge themselves for what they had endured. But if habits unresisted had changed my former desires into needs, I would perhaps satisfy those needs, but with shame and blushes. I would distinguish between passion and necessity, I would find a suitable mistress and would keep to her. I would not make a business of my weakness, and above all I would only have one person aware of it. Life has other pleasures when these fail us; by hastening in vain after those that fly us, we deprive ourselves of those that remain. Let our tastes change with our years, let us no more meddle with age than with the seasons. We should be ourselves at all times, instead of struggling against nature; such vain attempts exhaust our strength and prevent the right use of life.

For my part, no matter how wealth might change me, there's one thing I’ll never change. Even if I lack morals or virtue, I won't be completely without taste, sense, or delicacy; this will stop me from spending my fortune chasing empty dreams and wasting my money and energy on teaching children to betray and mock me. If I were young, I’d go after the joys of youth, but I wouldn’t seek them in the guise of a rich man. If I were my current age, it would be a different story; I’d wisely stick to the pleasures appropriate for my age, cultivate tastes I could actually enjoy, and suppress those that would only bring pain. I wouldn’t offer my gray hair to the scornful jibes of young girls; I could never stand to sicken them with my gross advances, to feed them the most ridiculous stories at my expense, to imagine them mocking the foolish pleasures of an old man as a way to get back at me for what they had to endure. But if unresisted habits had turned my former desires into needs, I might satisfy those needs, though with shame and embarrassment. I would know the difference between passion and necessity, find an appropriate partner, and stick with her. I wouldn’t make my weakness into a business, and above all, only one person would know about it. Life offers other pleasures when these fail us; by desperately chasing after what eludes us, we rob ourselves of what’s still available. Let our tastes evolve with our years; we shouldn’t mess with age any more than we should with the seasons. We should be ourselves at all times instead of fighting against nature; such futile efforts drain our energy and prevent us from truly living.

The lower classes are seldom dull, their life is full of activity; if there is little variety in their amusements they do not recur frequently; many days of labour teach them to enjoy their rare holidays. Short intervals of leisure between long periods of labour give a spice to the pleasures of their station. The chief curse of the rich is dullness; in the midst of costly amusements, among so many men striving to give them pleasure, they are devoured and slain by dullness; their life is spent in fleeing from it and in being overtaken by it; they are overwhelmed by the intolerable burden; women more especially, who do not know how to work or play, are a prey to tedium under the name of the vapours; with them it takes the shape of a dreadful disease, which robs them of their reason and even of their life. For my own part I know no more terrible fate than that of a pretty woman in Paris, unless it is that of the pretty manikin who devotes himself to her, who becomes idle and effeminate like her, and so deprives himself twice over of his manhood, while he prides himself on his successes and for their sake endures the longest and dullest days which human being ever put up with.

The lower classes are rarely boring; their lives are full of activity. While their entertainment options may not be very varied, they don't happen often, and their long days of work teach them to appreciate their rare days off. Short breaks of leisure between long work periods add excitement to their lives. The biggest problem for the rich is boredom. Despite having expensive entertainment and surrounded by people trying to please them, they are consumed by dullness. Their lives are spent running from it, only to be caught by it; they are crushed under the unbearable weight of it. Women, in particular, who don’t know how to work or have fun, suffer from boredom, often referred to as the vapors. For them, it can become a terrible condition that drives them to madness and even death. As for me, I can’t imagine a worse fate than that of a beautiful woman in Paris, except perhaps that of the pretty man who is devoted to her, who becomes idle and soft like her and thus loses his manhood twice while boasting about his achievements and enduring the longest, dullest days imaginable.

Proprieties, fashions, customs which depend on luxury and breeding, confine the course of life within the limits of the most miserable uniformity. The pleasure we desire to display to others is a pleasure lost; we neither enjoy it ourselves, nor do others enjoy it. [Footnote: Two ladies of fashion, who wished to seem to be enjoying themselves greatly, decided never to go to bed before five o’clock in the morning. In the depths of winter their servants spent the night in the street waiting for them, and with great difficulty kept themselves from freezing. One night, or rather one morning, some one entered the room where these merry people spent their hours without knowing how time passed. He found them quite alone; each of them was asleep in her arm-chair.] Ridicule, which public opinion dreads more than anything, is ever at hand to tyrannise, and punish. It is only ceremony that makes us ridiculous; if we can vary our place and our pleasures, to-day’s impressions can efface those of yesterday; in the mind of men they are as if they had never been; but we enjoy ourselves for we throw ourselves into every hour and everything. My only set rule would be this: wherever I was I would pay no heed to anything else. I would take each day as it came, as if there were neither yesterday nor to-morrow. As I should be a man of the people, with the populace, I should be a countryman in the fields; and if I spoke of farming, the peasant should not laugh at my expense. I would not go and build a town in the country nor erect the Tuileries at the door of my lodgings. On some pleasant shady hill-side I would have a little cottage, a white house with green shutters, and though a thatched roof is the best all the year round, I would be grand enough to have, not those gloomy slates, but tiles, because they look brighter and more cheerful than thatch, and the houses in my own country are always roofed with them, and so they would recall to me something of the happy days of my youth. For my courtyard I would have a poultry-yard, and for my stables a cowshed for the sake of the milk which I love. My garden should be a kitchen-garden, and my park an orchard, like the one described further on. The fruit would be free to those who walked in the orchard, my gardener should neither count it nor gather it; I would not, with greedy show, display before your eyes superb espaliers which one scarcely dare touch. But this small extravagance would not be costly, for I would choose my abode in some remote province where silver is scarce and food plentiful, where plenty and poverty have their seat.

Social norms, trends, and customs that revolve around luxury and status trap us in a cycle of dull sameness. The enjoyment we want to show off to others ends up being an enjoyment lost; neither we nor others really appreciate it. [Footnote: Two fashionable women, eager to seem like they were having a great time, decided they wouldn't go to bed before five in the morning. In the depths of winter, their servants waited outside all night, struggling not to freeze. One night, or rather one morning, someone walked into the room where these party-goers spent their hours unaware of time passing. He found them completely alone; each was asleep in her armchair.] Public ridicule, which people fear more than anything, is always ready to control and punish. It's only the formality that makes us look foolish; if we can change our setting and our activities, today’s experiences can erase yesterday’s; in people's minds, they might as well have never happened. But we can enjoy life if we fully engage with each moment. My one guiding principle would be this: wherever I am, I wouldn’t worry about anything else. I would take each day as it comes, as if there were neither yesterday nor tomorrow. As a person of the people, I would be a farmer in the fields; and when I spoke about farming, the locals wouldn’t laugh at me. I wouldn’t go build a city in the countryside nor put a fancy palace right outside my door. On a lovely, shaded hillside, I’d have a small cottage, a white house with green shutters, and although a thatched roof is practical year-round, I would be fancy enough to have tiles instead of those dreary slates, because they look brighter and more cheerful than thatch, and the houses in my homeland are always roofed with them, reminding me of my happy youth. For my yard, I’d have a coop, and for my stables, a cowshed for the milk I love. My garden would be a vegetable garden, and my park an orchard, like the one described later. The fruit would be free for those who walk in the orchard; my gardener wouldn’t count or harvest it. I wouldn’t display extravagant trellises that no one dares to touch. But this small luxury wouldn’t be expensive, as I’d choose my home in a distant province where silver is rare and food is abundant, where abundance and poverty coexist.

There I would gather round me a company, select rather than numerous, a band of friends who know what pleasure is, and how to enjoy it, women who can leave their arm-chairs and betake themselves to outdoor sports, women who can exchange the shuttle or the cards for the fishing line or the bird-trap, the gleaner’s rake or grape-gatherer’s basket. There all the pretensions of the town will be forgotten, and we shall be villagers in a village; we shall find all sorts of different sports and we shall hardly know how to choose the morrow’s occupation. Exercise and an active life will improve our digestion and modify our tastes. Every meal will be a feast, where plenty will be more pleasing than any delicacies. There are no such cooks in the world as mirth, rural pursuits, and merry games; and the finest made dishes are quite ridiculous in the eyes of people who have been on foot since early dawn. Our meals will be served without regard to order or elegance; we shall make our dining-room anywhere, in the garden, on a boat, beneath a tree; sometimes at a distance from the house on the banks of a running stream, on the fresh green grass, among the clumps of willow and hazel; a long procession of guests will carry the material for the feast with laughter and singing; the turf will be our chairs and table, the banks of the stream our side-board, and our dessert is hanging on the trees; the dishes will be served in any order, appetite needs no ceremony; each one of us, openly putting himself first, would gladly see every one else do the same; from this warm-hearted and temperate familiarity there would arise, without coarseness, pretence, or constraint, a laughing conflict a hundredfold more delightful than politeness, and more likely to cement our friendship. No tedious flunkeys to listen to our words, to whisper criticisms on our behaviour, to count every mouthful with greedy eyes, to amuse themselves by keeping us waiting for our wine, to complain of the length of our dinner. We will be our own servants, in order to be our own masters. Time will fly unheeded, our meal will be an interval of rest during the heat of the day. If some peasant comes our way, returning from his work with his tools over his shoulder, I will cheer his heart with kindly words, and a glass or two of good wine, which will help him to bear his poverty more cheerfully; and I too shall have the joy of feeling my heart stirred within me, and I should say to myself—I too am a man.

There, I would gather a group of friends—not too many, but the right ones—people who know how to have a good time, women who can leave their comfy chairs and dive into outdoor activities. Women who can swap their knitting or cards for a fishing line or a bird trap, a rake for gathering crops or a basket for picking grapes. In that place, all the pretentiousness of the city would be forgotten, and we would turn into villagers in a village; we would discover all sorts of different games, and we would hardly know how to choose what to do the next day. Staying active would boost our digestion and change our tastes. Every meal would feel like a feast, where abundance is more enjoyable than any fancy dishes. There are no cooks as wonderful as laughter, country activities, and fun games; and the fanciest meals seem ridiculous to those who have been on their feet since dawn. Our meals won't be served with any regard for order or elegance; we’ll make our dining area wherever we want, in the garden, on a boat, under a tree; sometimes far from the house by a flowing stream, on the fresh green grass, surrounded by willows and hazels; a long line of guests will bring the feast supplies with laughter and singing; the grass will be our chairs and table, the riverbank our serving counter, and our dessert hanging from the trees; dishes will come out in any order, appetite needs no formality; each of us, putting ourselves first, would gladly see everyone else do the same; from this warm and easy familiarity, there would arise, without rudeness, pretension, or awkwardness, a playful clash that is way more fun than politeness, and would strengthen our friendship. No tedious servants to eavesdrop on our conversations, to whisper criticisms about our behavior, to count every bite with greedy eyes, to entertain themselves by making us wait for our wine, to complain about how long dinner takes. We’ll be our own servers so we can be our own masters. Time will fly without us noticing, and our meal will be a break during the heat of the day. If a farmer happens by, coming back from work with his tools over his shoulder, I will brighten his day with kind words and a glass or two of good wine, which will help him bear his hardships more cheerfully; and I too will feel my heart lifted, and I’ll think to myself—I too am a man.

If the inhabitants of the district assembled for some rustic feast, I and my friends would be there among the first; if there were marriages, more blessed than those of towns, celebrated near my home, every one would know how I love to see people happy, and I should be invited. I would take these good folks some gift as simple as themselves, a gift which would be my share of the feast; and in exchange I should obtain gifts beyond price, gifts so little known among my equals, the gifts of freedom and true pleasure. I should sup gaily at the head of their long table; I should join in the chorus of some rustic song and I should dance in the barn more merrily than at a ball in the Opera House.

If the people in the area got together for some rustic celebration, my friends and I would be among the first to arrive; if there were weddings, sweeter than those in the city, happening near my place, everyone would know how much I love seeing people happy, and I would get invited. I’d bring these good folks a gift as simple as they are, which would be my way of contributing to the feast; in return, I would receive priceless gifts, things rarely found among my peers, the gifts of freedom and true joy. I’d happily sit at the head of their long table; I’d join in singing some folk song and dance in the barn more joyfully than at a ball in the Opera House.

“This is all very well so far,” you will say, “but what about the shooting! One must have some sport in the country.” Just so; I only wanted a farm, but I was wrong. I assume I am rich, I must keep my pleasures to myself, I must be free to kill something; this is quite another matter. I must have estates, woods, keepers, rents, seignorial rights, particularly incense and holy water.

“This is all great so far,” you might say, “but what about the shooting? You need some fun in the countryside.” Exactly; I just wanted a farm, but I was mistaken. I assume I’m wealthy, and I should keep my pleasures to myself, but I need the freedom to hunt; that's a different story. I need estates, forests, gamekeepers, income, feudal rights, especially incense and holy water.

Well and good. But I shall have neighbours about my estate who are jealous of their rights and anxious to encroach on those of others; our keepers will quarrel, and possibly their masters will quarrel too; this means altercations, disputes, ill-will, or law-suits at the least; this in itself is not very pleasant. My tenants will not enjoy finding my hares at work upon their corn, or my wild boars among their beans. As they dare not kill the enemy, every one of them will try to drive him from their fields; when the day has been spent in cultivating the ground, they will be compelled to sit up at night to watch it; they will have watch-dogs, drums, horns, and bells; my sleep will be disturbed by their racket. Do what I will, I cannot help thinking of the misery of these poor people, and I cannot help blaming myself for it. If I had the honour of being a prince, this would make little impression on me; but as I am a self-made man who has only just come into his property, I am still rather vulgar at heart.

Alright then. But I’ll have neighbors around my estate who are protective of their rights and eager to infringe on those of others; our gamekeepers will argue, and probably their bosses will argue too; this leads to conflicts, disputes, resentment, or at least lawsuits; that’s not very pleasant. My tenants won’t be happy to find my hares damaging their crops or my wild boars raiding their beans. Since they can’t kill the pests, each of them will try to scare them away from their fields; after spending all day working the land, they’ll have to stay up at night to guard it; they’ll use watch-dogs, drums, horns, and bells; my sleep will be interrupted by their noise. No matter what I do, I can’t help but think about the suffering of these poor people, and I can’t help but feel guilty about it. If I were a prince, it wouldn’t bother me much; but since I’m just a self-made man who recently came into my property, I still have a rather ordinary mindset at heart.

That is not all; abundance of game attracts trespassers; I shall soon have poachers to punish; I shall require prisons, gaolers, guards, and galleys; all this strikes me as cruel. The wives of those miserable creatures will besiege my door and disturb me with their crying; they must either be driven away or roughly handled. The poor people who are not poachers, whose harvest has been destroyed by my game, will come next with their complaints. Some people will be put to death for killing the game, the rest will be punished for having spared it; what a choice of evils! On every side I shall find nothing but misery and hear nothing but groans. So far as I can see this must greatly disturb the pleasure of slaying at one’s ease heaps of partridges and hares which are tame enough to run about one’s feet.

That's not all; the abundance of game attracts trespassers; soon, I'll have poachers to deal with; I'll need prisons, guards, and ships for punishment; all this seems cruel to me. The wives of those unfortunate souls will crowd around my door, disturbing me with their cries; I’ll have to either chase them away or handle them roughly. The poor folks who aren’t poachers, whose harvests have been ruined by my game, will come next with their complaints. Some people will be executed for killing the game, while others will be punished for sparing it; what a terrible choice! All around me, I’ll find nothing but misery and hear nothing but groans. As far as I can see, this will seriously ruin the joy of casually hunting down piles of partridges and hares that are so tame they run around my feet.

If you would have pleasure without pain let there be no monopoly; the more you leave it free to everybody, the purer will be your own enjoyment. Therefore I should not do what I have just described, but without change of tastes I would follow those which seem likely to cause me least pain. I would fix my rustic abode in a district where game is not preserved, and where I can have my sport without hindrance. Game will be less plentiful, but there will be more skill in finding it, and more pleasure in securing it. I remember the start of delight with which my father watched the rise of his first partridge and the rapture with which he found the hare he had sought all day long. Yes, I declare, that alone with his dog, carrying his own gun, cartridges, and game bag together with his hare, he came home at nightfall, worn out with fatigue and torn to pieces by brambles, but better pleased with his day’s sport than all your ordinary sportsmen, who on a good horse, with twenty guns ready for them, merely take one gun after another, and shoot and kill everything that comes their way, without skill, without glory, and almost without exercise. The pleasure is none the less, and the difficulties are removed; there is no estate to be preserved, no poacher to be punished, and no wretches to be tormented; here are solid grounds for preference. Whatever you do, you cannot torment men for ever without experiencing some amount of discomfort; and sooner or later the muttered curses of the people will spoil the flavour of your game.

If you want to enjoy yourself without pain, don't keep it exclusive; the more you let everyone have access, the more genuine your enjoyment will be. So, I wouldn't do what I just described, but I would pursue those things that seem likely to cause me the least pain. I'd settle down in a place where game isn't protected, allowing me to hunt without obstacles. There might be less game, but it would take more skill to track it down, and it would be more rewarding to catch it. I remember how my father lit up with joy when he first spotted a partridge and how excited he was when he finally found the hare he had been searching for all day. Yes, I can picture him, alone with his dog, carrying his own gun, cartridges, and game bag along with his hare, coming home at dusk, exhausted and scraped up from the thorns, but happier with his day’s hunting than all those average hunters who, on a fine horse, with twenty guns at their disposal, just fire away at anything that comes by, lacking skill, glory, and even a good workout. The thrill may still be there, and the challenges have disappeared; there’s no estate to maintain, no poacher to chase off, and no poor souls to torment; these are solid reasons to prefer it. No matter what you do, you can’t keep oppressing people forever without facing some discomfort yourself; eventually, the quiet curses of the crowd will ruin the taste of your game.

Again, monopoly destroys pleasure. Real pleasures are those which we share with the crowd; we lose what we try to keep to ourselves alone. If the walls I build round my park transform it into a gloomy prison, I have only deprived myself, at great expense, of the pleasure of a walk; I must now seek that pleasure at a distance. The demon of property spoils everything he lays hands upon. A rich man wants to be master everywhere, and he is never happy where he is; he is continually driven to flee from himself. I shall therefore continue to do in my prosperity what I did in my poverty. Henceforward, richer in the wealth of others than I ever shall be in my own wealth, I will take possession of everything in my neighbourhood that takes my fancy; no conqueror is so determined as I; I even usurp the rights of princes; I take possession of every open place that pleases me, I give them names; this is my park, chat is my terrace, and I am their owner; henceforward I wander among them at will; I often return to maintain my proprietary rights; I make what use I choose of the ground to walk upon, and you will never convince me that the nominal owner of the property which I have appropriated gets better value out of the money it yields him than I do out of his land. No matter if I am interrupted by hedges and ditches, I take my park on my back, and I carry it elsewhere; there will be space enough for it near at hand, and I may plunder my neighbours long enough before I outstay my welcome.

Again, monopoly kills enjoyment. True pleasures are those we share with others; we lose what we try to keep all to ourselves. If the walls I build around my park turn it into a dark prison, I’ve only deprived myself, at a high cost, of the joy of a walk; I now have to seek that joy elsewhere. The obsession with ownership ruins everything it touches. A rich person wants to be in control everywhere, and they’re never satisfied with where they are; they’re constantly trying to escape from themselves. So, I will continue to act in my wealth as I did in my poverty. From now on, richer in the abundance of others than I will ever be in my own, I will claim everything in my neighborhood that I like; no conqueror is more determined than I am; I even seize the rights of rulers; I lay claim to every open space that appeals to me, giving them names; this is my park, that’s my terrace, and I’m their owner; from now on, I wander among them freely; I often return to assert my ownership; I use the ground I walk on as I please, and you’ll never convince me that the official owner of the property I've claimed gets more value from the money it makes than I do from his land. It doesn’t matter if I’m blocked by fences and ditches, I carry my park with me, and I take it elsewhere; there will be enough space for it nearby, and I can take from my neighbors long enough before I overstay my welcome.

This is an attempt to show what is meant by good taste in the choice of pleasant occupations for our leisure hours; this is the spirit of enjoyment; all else is illusion, fancy, and foolish pride. He who disobeys these rules, however rich he may be, will devour his gold on a dung-hill, and will never know what it is to live.

This is an effort to explain what good taste means when it comes to choosing enjoyable activities for our free time; this embodies the essence of enjoyment; everything else is just an illusion, a fantasy, or foolish pride. Those who ignore these principles, no matter how wealthy they are, will squander their riches in a worthless way and will never truly experience what it means to live.

You will say, no doubt, that such amusements lie within the reach of all, that we need not be rich to enjoy them. That is the very point I was coming to. Pleasure is ours when we want it; it is only social prejudice which makes everything hard to obtain, and drives pleasure before us. To be happy is a hundredfold easier than it seems. If he really desires to enjoy himself the man of taste has no need of riches; all he wants is to be free and to be his own master. With health and daily bread we are rich enough, if we will but get rid of our prejudices; this is the “Golden Mean” of Horace. You folks with your strong-boxes may find some other use for your wealth, for it cannot buy you pleasure. Emile knows this as well as I, but his heart is purer and more healthy, so he will feel it more strongly, and all that he has beheld in society will only serve to confirm him in this opinion.

You might say that these kinds of fun are available to everyone, that you don’t have to be wealthy to enjoy them. That’s exactly the point I was getting to. Enjoyment is ours whenever we want it; it’s just social biases that make everything hard to get and push joy away from us. Being happy is a lot easier than it seems. If someone truly wants to enjoy life, a person with good taste doesn’t need money; all they need is to be free and in control of their own life. With good health and enough to eat, we are already rich, as long as we can let go of our biases; this is the “Golden Mean” that Horace talked about. You people with your safes might find other uses for your wealth, but it won’t buy you happiness. Emile knows this as well as I do, but his heart is purer and healthier, so he will feel it more deeply, and everything he has observed in society will only reinforce this belief.

While our time is thus employed, we are ever on the look-out for Sophy, and we have not yet found her. It was not desirable that she should be found too easily, and I have taken care to look for her where I knew we should not find her.

While we're spending our time this way, we're still keeping an eye out for Sophy, and we haven't found her yet. It wasn’t ideal for her to be found too easily, so I made sure to search in places where I knew we wouldn’t find her.

The time is come; we must now seek her in earnest, lest Emile should mistake some one else for Sophy, and only discover his error when it is too late. Then farewell Paris, far-famed Paris, with all your noise and smoke and dirt, where the women have ceased to believe in honour and the men in virtue. We are in search of love, happiness, innocence; the further we go from Paris the better.

The time has come; we must now seriously search for her, or else Emile might confuse someone else for Sophy and only realize his mistake when it's too late. So long, Paris, renowned Paris, with all your noise, smoke, and grime, where women no longer believe in honor and men in virtue. We are looking for love, happiness, and innocence; the farther we get from Paris, the better.










BOOK V

We have reached the last act of youth’s drama; we are approaching its closing scene.

We have reached the last act of youth's story; we are nearing its final scene.

It is not good that man should be alone. Emile is now a man, and we must give him his promised helpmeet. That helpmeet is Sophy. Where is her dwelling-place, where shall she be found? We must know beforehand what she is, and then we can decide where to look for her. And when she is found, our task is not ended. “Since our young gentleman,” says Locke, “is about to marry, it is time to leave him with his mistress.” And with these words he ends his book. As I have not the honour of educating “A young gentleman,” I shall take care not to follow his example.

It’s not good for man to be alone. Emile is now a man, and we need to provide him with the promised partner. That partner is Sophy. Where does she live, and where can we find her? We need to understand who she is first, and then we can decide where to search for her. And once we find her, our job isn't done. “Since our young gentleman,” says Locke, “is about to marry, it’s time to leave him with his mistress.” And with that, he concludes his book. Since I don’t have the privilege of educating “a young gentleman,” I’ll be sure not to follow his lead.

SOPHY, OR WOMAN

Sophy should be as truly a woman as Emile is a man, i.e., she must possess all those characters of her sex which are required to enable her to play her part in the physical and moral order. Let us inquire to begin with in what respects her sex differs from our own.

Sophy should be just as much a woman as Emile is a man; that is, she needs to have all the traits of her gender that are necessary for her to fulfill her role in both the physical and moral realms. Let's start by examining how her gender differs from ours.

But for her sex, a woman is a man; she has the same organs, the same needs, the same faculties. The machine is the same in its construction; its parts, its working, and its appearance are similar. Regard it as you will the difference is only in degree.

But for her gender, a woman is a man; she has the same organs, the same needs, the same abilities. The system is the same in its design; its components, its function, and its appearance are alike. No matter how you look at it, the difference is just a matter of degree.

Yet where sex is concerned man and woman are unlike; each is the complement of the other; the difficulty in comparing them lies in our inability to decide, in either case, what is a matter of sex, and what is not. General differences present themselves to the comparative anatomist and even to the superficial observer; they seem not to be a matter of sex; yet they are really sex differences, though the connection eludes our observation. How far such differences may extend we cannot tell; all we know for certain is that where man and woman are alike we have to do with the characteristics of the species; where they are unlike, we have to do with the characteristics of sex. Considered from these two standpoints, we find so many instances of likeness and unlikeness that it is perhaps one of the greatest of marvels how nature has contrived to make two beings so like and yet so different.

Yet when it comes to sex, men and women are different; each one complements the other. The challenge in comparing them comes from our inability to determine what aspects relate to sex and what do not. General differences can be observed by comparative anatomists and even casual observers; they may not seem connected to sex, but they actually are, even if we don't recognize the link. We can't say how far these differences go; all we know for sure is that when men and women are similar, we’re looking at traits of the species, and when they’re different, we’re dealing with traits of sex. When we consider these two perspectives, we see so many examples of similarities and differences that it’s truly remarkable how nature has managed to create two beings that are so alike and yet so different.

These resemblances and differences must have an influence on the moral nature; this inference is obvious, and it is confirmed by experience; it shows the vanity of the disputes as to the superiority or the equality of the sexes; as if each sex, pursuing the path marked out for it by nature, were not more perfect in that very divergence than if it more closely resembled the other. A perfect man and a perfect woman should no more be alike in mind than in face, and perfection admits of neither less nor more.

These similarities and differences must impact moral character; this conclusion is clear and supported by experience. It highlights the futility of arguments about the superiority or equality of the sexes, as if each sex, following the natural path set for it, isn't more perfect in its unique ways than if it resembled the other more closely. A perfect man and a perfect woman shouldn't be alike in mind any more than in appearance, and perfection allows for neither more nor less.

In the union of the sexes each alike contributes to the common end, but in different ways. From this diversity springs the first difference which may be observed between man and woman in their moral relations. The man should be strong and active; the woman should be weak and passive; the one must have both the power and the will; it is enough that the other should offer little resistance.

In the relationship between men and women, both contribute to the common goal, but in different ways. This diversity leads to the first noticeable difference in their moral roles. Men should be strong and proactive; women should be gentle and receptive; one must possess both power and determination, while the other only needs to offer minimal resistance.

When this principle is admitted, it follows that woman is specially made for man’s delight. If man in his turn ought to be pleasing in her eyes, the necessity is less urgent, his virtue is in his strength, he pleases because he is strong. I grant you this is not the law of love, but it is the law of nature, which is older than love itself.

When this principle is accepted, it follows that woman is specifically created for man’s enjoyment. If man also needs to be attractive to her, it’s not as crucial; his worth comes from his strength, and he is appealing because he is strong. I admit this isn’t the rule of love, but it is the rule of nature, which has existed longer than love itself.

If woman is made to please and to be in subjection to man, she ought to make herself pleasing in his eyes and not provoke him to anger; her strength is in her charms, by their means she should compel him to discover and use his strength. The surest way of arousing this strength is to make it necessary by resistance. Thus pride comes to the help of desire and each exults in the other’s victory. This is the origin of attack and defence, of the boldness of one sex and the timidity of the other, and even of the shame and modesty with which nature has armed the weak for the conquest of the strong.

If a woman is meant to please and be submissive to a man, she should make herself appealing in his eyes and avoid provoking his anger; her power lies in her charms, and through them, she should encourage him to recognize and harness his strength. The best way to trigger this strength is by necessitating it through resistance. In this way, pride fuels desire, and both celebrate each other's triumphs. This is the foundation of offense and defense, the confidence of one gender and the shyness of the other, and even the shame and modesty with which nature has equipped the weaker for the conquest of the stronger.

Who can possibly suppose that nature has prescribed the same advances to the one sex as to the other, or that the first to feel desire should be the first to show it? What strange depravity of judgment! The consequences of the act being so different for the two sexes, is it natural that they should enter upon it with equal boldness? How can any one fail to see that when the share of each is so unequal, if the one were not controlled by modesty as the other is controlled by nature, the result would be the destruction of both, and the human race would perish through the very means ordained for its continuance?

Who could possibly think that nature has set the same rules for one sex as for the other, or that the first to feel desire should also be the first to act on it? What a strange misunderstanding! Given that the consequences of the act are so different for men and women, is it natural for them to approach it with the same level of confidence? How can anyone fail to see that when each has such an unequal role, if one weren’t held back by modesty as the other is by nature, the outcome would be the destruction of both, and humanity would cease to exist through the very means intended to ensure its survival?

Women so easily stir a man’s senses and fan the ashes of a dying passion, that if philosophy ever succeeded in introducing this custom into any unlucky country, especially if it were a warm country where more women are born than men, the men, tyrannised over by the women, would at last become their victims, and would be dragged to their death without the least chance of escape.

Women have a way of awakening a man’s emotions and reigniting a fading passion so effortlessly that if philosophy ever managed to bring this practice into any unfortunate country—especially a warm one where more women are born than men—the men, dominated by women, would ultimately become their victims, dragged to their demise without any chance of escape.

Female animals are without this sense of shame, but what of that? Are their desires as boundless as those of women, which are curbed by this shame? The desires of the animals are the result of necessity, and when the need is satisfied, the desire ceases; they no longer make a feint of repulsing the male, they do it in earnest. Their seasons of complaisance are short and soon over. Impulse and restraint are alike the work of nature. But what would take the place of this negative instinct in women if you rob them of their modesty?

Female animals don't experience this sense of shame, but so what? Are their desires as limitless as those of women, which are restrained by this shame? The desires of animals stem from necessity, and once that need is met, the desire ends; they aren't pretending to reject the male, they truly do. Their periods of willingness are brief and quickly pass. Both impulse and restraint are natural. But what would replace this negative instinct in women if you take away their modesty?

The Most High has deigned to do honour to mankind; he has endowed man with boundless passions, together with a law to guide them, so that man may be alike free and self-controlled; though swayed by these passions man is endowed with reason by which to control them. Woman is also endowed with boundless passions; God has given her modesty to restrain them. Moreover, he has given to both a present reward for the right use of their powers, in the delight which springs from that right use of them, i.e., the taste for right conduct established as the law of our behaviour. To my mind this is far higher than the instinct of the beasts.

The Most High has chosen to honor humanity; He has given people endless passions, along with a law to guide them, so that they can be both free and self-disciplined. Even though people are influenced by these passions, they possess reason to control them. Women also have endless passions, and God has granted them modesty to keep them in check. Additionally, He has provided both men and women with an immediate reward for using their abilities wisely, found in the joy that comes from using them correctly, which is the appreciation for right conduct seen as the law of our behavior. In my view, this is much greater than the instincts of animals.

Whether the woman shares the man’s passion or not, whether she is willing or unwilling to satisfy it, she always repulses him and defends herself, though not always with the same vigour, and therefore not always with the same success. If the siege is to be successful, the besieged must permit or direct the attack. How skilfully can she stimulate the efforts of the aggressor. The freest and most delightful of activities does not permit of any real violence; reason and nature are alike against it; nature, in that she has given the weaker party strength enough to resist if she chooses; reason, in that actual violence is not only most brutal in itself, but it defeats its own ends, not only because the man thus declares war against his companion and thus gives her a right to defend her person and her liberty even at the cost of the enemy’s life, but also because the woman alone is the judge of her condition, and a child would have no father if any man might usurp a father’s rights.

Whether the woman shares the man's passion or not, and whether she wants to satisfy it or not, she always pushes him away and protects herself, though not always with the same intensity, and therefore not always with the same level of success. For the siege to succeed, the one being besieged must allow or guide the attack. How skillfully can she encourage the efforts of the aggressor? The freest and most enjoyable activities don’t allow for any real violence; both reason and nature oppose it. Nature has given the weaker party enough strength to resist if she chooses, and reason shows that actual violence is not just brutal in itself, but it also undermines its own goals—not only because the man essentially declares war against his partner and gives her the right to defend herself and her freedom, even at the cost of his life, but also because only the woman can determine her own state, and a child wouldn’t have a father if any man could take that role.

Thus the different constitution of the two sexes leads us to a third conclusion, that the stronger party seems to be master, but is as a matter of fact dependent on the weaker, and that, not by any foolish custom of gallantry, nor yet by the magnanimity of the protector, but by an inexorable law of nature. For nature has endowed woman with a power of stimulating man’s passions in excess of man’s power of satisfying those passions, and has thus made him dependent on her goodwill, and compelled him in his turn to endeavour to please her, so that she may be willing to yield to his superior strength. Is it weakness which yields to force, or is it voluntary self-surrender? This uncertainty constitutes the chief charm of the man’s victory, and the woman is usually cunning enough to leave him in doubt. In this respect the woman’s mind exactly resembles her body; far from being ashamed of her weakness, she is proud of it; her soft muscles offer no resistance, she professes that she cannot lift the lightest weight; she would be ashamed to be strong. And why? Not only to gain an appearance of refinement; she is too clever for that; she is providing herself beforehand with excuses, with the right to be weak if she chooses.

The different nature of the two sexes leads us to a third conclusion: the stronger party appears to be in charge, but is actually dependent on the weaker one, not due to outdated customs of chivalry or the noble actions of a protector, but because of an unchangeable law of nature. Nature has given women a unique ability to stir men's desires beyond what men can fulfill, thus making men reliant on women's favor and forcing them to try to please women so that they might be willing to submit to their greater strength. Is it truly weakness that gives in to force, or is it a voluntary choice to surrender? This uncertainty is what makes a man's victory enticing, and women are often clever enough to keep him guessing. In this way, a woman's mindset mirrors her physique; rather than feeling ashamed of her perceived weaknesses, she takes pride in them. Her soft muscles resist nothing, and she claims she can't lift even the lightest weight; she would be embarrassed to be strong. And why? Not just to appear refined—she's too smart for that. She's setting up excuses for herself, giving herself the option to be weak if she wants to.

The experience we have gained through our vices has considerably modified the views held in older times; we rarely hear of violence for which there is so little occasion that it would hardly be credited. Yet such stories are common enough among the Jews and ancient Greeks; for such views belong to the simplicity of nature, and have only been uprooted by our profligacy. If fewer deeds of violence are quoted in our days, it is not that men are more temperate, but because they are less credulous, and a complaint which would have been believed among a simple people would only excite laughter among ourselves; therefore silence is the better course. There is a law in Deuteronomy, under which the outraged maiden was punished, along with her assailant, if the crime were committed in a town; but if in the country or in a lonely place, the latter alone was punished. “For,” says the law, “the maiden cried for help, and there was none to hear.” From this merciful interpretation of the law, girls learnt not to let themselves be surprised in lonely places.

The experience we've gained from our vices has significantly changed the views held in the past; we rarely hear of acts of violence for which there's so little reason that it would hardly be believed. Yet such stories are quite common among the Jews and ancient Greeks; these views stem from a straightforward nature and have only been uprooted by our excesses. If fewer acts of violence are reported today, it's not because people are more moderate, but because they are less gullible, and a complaint that would have been believed among a naive population would only elicit laughter from us; thus, silence is the better choice. There's a law in Deuteronomy stating that if a maiden was assaulted in a town, she would be punished alongside her attacker; but if the crime took place in the countryside or a secluded area, only the attacker would be punished. “For,” says the law, “the maiden cried for help, and there was no one to hear.” From this compassionate interpretation of the law, girls learned not to let themselves be caught in isolated places.

This change in public opinion has had a perceptible effect on our morals. It has produced our modern gallantry. Men have found that their pleasures depend, more than they expected, on the goodwill of the fair sex, and have secured this goodwill by attentions which have had their reward.

This shift in public opinion has noticeably impacted our morals. It has given rise to our modern sense of chivalry. Men have realized that their enjoyment relies more than they anticipated on the favor of women, and they have earned this favor through gestures that have paid off.

See how we find ourselves led unconsciously from the physical to the moral constitution, how from the grosser union of the sexes spring the sweet laws of love. Woman reigns, not by the will of man, but by the decrees of nature herself; she had the power long before she showed it. That same Hercules who proposed to violate all the fifty daughters of Thespis was compelled to spin at the feet of Omphale, and Samson, the strong man, was less strong than Delilah. This power cannot be taken from woman; it is hers by right; she would have lost it long ago, were it possible.

See how we find ourselves unconsciously moving from the physical to the moral foundation, how the basic connection between the sexes gives rise to the beautiful laws of love. Woman reigns, not because of man's will, but by the very laws of nature; she had the strength long before she revealed it. That same Hercules who intended to violate all fifty daughters of Thespis was forced to spin at the feet of Omphale, and Samson, the strong man, was weaker than Delilah. This power cannot be taken from woman; it belongs to her by nature; she would have lost it long ago, if that were possible.

The consequences of sex are wholly unlike for man and woman. The male is only a male now and again, the female is always a female, or at least all her youth; everything reminds her of her sex; the performance of her functions requires a special constitution. She needs care during pregnancy and freedom from work when her child is born; she must have a quiet, easy life while she nurses her children; their education calls for patience and gentleness, for a zeal and love which nothing can dismay; she forms a bond between father and child, she alone can win the father’s love for his children and convince him that they are indeed his own. What loving care is required to preserve a united family! And there should be no question of virtue in all this, it must be a labour of love, without which the human race would be doomed to extinction.

The impact of sex is completely different for men and women. A man is only a man occasionally, while a woman is always a woman, or at least throughout her youth; everything reminds her of her gender. Performing her roles requires a unique makeup. She needs support during pregnancy and time off from work after giving birth; she must have a calm, comfortable life while caring for her children; their upbringing demands patience and kindness, along with a passion and love that can’t be shaken. She builds a connection between the father and the child; only she can earn the father’s love for his kids and convince him that they are truly his. It takes a lot of nurturing to maintain a united family! And there shouldn’t be any debate about virtue in all this; it must be done out of love, without which the human race would face extinction.

The mutual duties of the two sexes are not, and cannot be, equally binding on both. Women do wrong to complain of the inequality of man-made laws; this inequality is not of man’s making, or at any rate it is not the result of mere prejudice, but of reason. She to whom nature has entrusted the care of the children must hold herself responsible for them to their father. No doubt every breach of faith is wrong, and every faithless husband, who robs his wife of the sole reward of the stern duties of her sex, is cruel and unjust; but the faithless wife is worse; she destroys the family and breaks the bonds of nature; when she gives her husband children who are not his own, she is false both to him and them, her crime is not infidelity but treason. To my mind, it is the source of dissension and of crime of every kind. Can any position be more wretched than that of the unhappy father who, when he clasps his child to his breast, is haunted by the suspicion that this is the child of another, the badge of his own dishonour, a thief who is robbing his own children of their inheritance. Under such circumstances the family is little more than a group of secret enemies, armed against each other by a guilty woman, who compels them to pretend to love one another.

The responsibilities of both genders aren't, and can't be, equally important for everyone. Women shouldn't complain about the unfairness of laws created by men; this unfairness isn't just something men created, or at least it's not simply a result of bias, but of reason. The person nature has assigned to take care of the children must be accountable to their father. It's true that any betrayal is wrong, and a husband who deceives his wife and takes away the rewards of her serious responsibilities is cruel and unfair; however, the unfaithful wife is worse; she destroys the family and shatters natural bonds. When she gives her husband children who aren't his, she's betraying both him and them; her offense isn't just infidelity but treason. To me, this is the root of conflict and crimes of all sorts. Is there any situation more miserable than that of an unfortunate father who, while holding his child, is tormented by the thought that this might not be his child, a constant reminder of his own dishonor, a thief robbing his own kids of their legacy? In such a scenario, the family becomes little more than a group of secret adversaries, armed against each other by a guilty woman who forces them to fake their love for one another.

Thus it is not enough that a wife should be faithful; her husband, along with his friends and neighbours, must believe in her fidelity; she must be modest, devoted, retiring; she should have the witness not only of a good conscience, but of a good reputation. In a word, if a father must love his children, he must be able to respect their mother. For these reasons it is not enough that the woman should be chaste, she must preserve her reputation and her good name. From these principles there arises not only a moral difference between the sexes, but also a fresh motive for duty and propriety, which prescribes to women in particular the most scrupulous attention to their conduct, their manners, their behaviour. Vague assertions as to the equality of the sexes and the similarity of their duties are only empty words; they are no answer to my argument.

It’s not enough for a wife to be loyal; her husband, along with his friends and neighbors, needs to believe in her loyalty. She should be modest, dedicated, and reserved. She should have not only a clear conscience but also a good reputation. In short, if a father is to love his children, he must respect their mother. For this reason, it’s not sufficient for a woman to be virtuous; she must also maintain her reputation and good name. These principles lead to not just a moral distinction between the sexes, but also create a new motivation for duty and propriety, which requires women in particular to pay careful attention to their conduct, manners, and behavior. Vague claims about the equality of the sexes and the similarity of their responsibilities are just empty words; they don’t address my argument.

It is a poor sort of logic to quote isolated exceptions against laws so firmly established. Women, you say, are not always bearing children. Granted; yet that is their proper business. Because there are a hundred or so of large towns in the world where women live licentiously and have few children, will you maintain that it is their business to have few children? And what would become of your towns if the remote country districts, with their simpler and purer women, did not make up for the barrenness of your fine ladies? There are plenty of country places where women with only four or five children are reckoned unfruitful. In conclusion, although here and there a woman may have few children, what difference does it make? [Footnote: Without this the race would necessarily diminish; all things considered, for its preservation each woman ought to have about four children, for about half the children born die before they can become parents, and two must survive to replace the father and mother. See whether the towns will supply them?] Is it any the less a woman’s business to be a mother? And to not the general laws of nature and morality make provision for this state of things?

It's poor reasoning to bring up isolated exceptions against well-established laws. You claim that women don't always have children. Okay, but that's their primary role. Just because there are a handful of big cities where women live freely and have few children, does that mean it's right for them to have fewer kids? And what would happen to your cities if the rural areas, with their simpler and more wholesome women, didn't compensate for the lack of children from your stylish ladies? In many rural places, women with only four or five kids are considered not very fruitful. In conclusion, even if some women have few children, what difference does it make? [Footnote: Without this, the population would inevitably decline; all things considered, for the sake of survival, each woman should ideally have about four children, since roughly half of them don’t live long enough to become parents, and two must survive to replace each parent. Will the cities provide that?] Is it any less a woman's duty to be a mother? And don't the general principles of nature and morality account for this situation?

Even if there were these long intervals, which you assume, between the periods of pregnancy, can a woman suddenly change her way of life without danger? Can she be a nursing mother to-day and a soldier to-morrow? Will she change her tastes and her feelings as a chameleon changes his colour? Will she pass at once from the privacy of household duties and indoor occupations to the buffeting of the winds, the toils, the labours, the perils of war? Will she be now timid, [Footnote: Women’s timidity is yet another instinct of nature against the double risk she runs during pregnancy.] now brave, now fragile, now robust? If the young men of Paris find a soldier’s life too hard for them, how would a woman put up with it, a woman who has hardly ventured out of doors without a parasol and who has scarcely put a foot to the ground? Will she make a good soldier at an age when even men are retiring from this arduous business?

Even if there were these long gaps, which you assume, between pregnancies, can a woman really change her way of life without risk? Can she be a nursing mother today and a soldier tomorrow? Will she shift her tastes and feelings like a chameleon changes its color? Will she instantly move from the comfort of household duties and indoor activities to facing the winds, the hard work, the struggles, and the dangers of war? Will she be timid now, [Footnote: Women’s timidity is yet another instinct of nature against the double risk she runs during pregnancy.] brave at another moment, fragile sometimes, and strong at other times? If the young men of Paris find a soldier’s life too tough for them, how would a woman handle it, especially one who has barely stepped outside without an umbrella and who has hardly touched the ground? Will she be a good soldier at an age when even men are stepping back from this demanding role?

There are countries, I grant you, where women bear and rear children with little or no difficulty, but in those lands the men go half-naked in all weathers, they strike down the wild beasts, they carry a canoe as easily as a knapsack, they pursue the chase for 700 or 800 leagues, they sleep in the open on the bare ground, they bear incredible fatigues and go many days without food. When women become strong, men become still stronger; when men become soft, women become softer; change both the terms and the ratio remains unaltered.

There are countries, I admit, where women give birth and raise kids with little or no trouble, but in those places, men walk around mostly bare in any weather, they hunt wild animals, they carry canoes as easily as backpacks, they chase game for 700 or 800 miles, they sleep outside on the ground, they endure incredible exhaustion and go many days without eating. When women get stronger, men get even stronger; when men get weaker, women get weaker too; change the players, and the balance stays the same.

I am quite aware that Plato, in the Republic, assigns the same gymnastics to women and men. Having got rid of the family there is no place for women in his system of government, so he is forced to turn them into men. That great genius has worked out his plans in detail and has provided for every contingency; he has even provided against a difficulty which in all likelihood no one would ever have raised; but he has not succeeded in meeting the real difficulty. I am not speaking of the alleged community of wives which has often been laid to his charge; this assertion only shows that his detractors have never read his works. I refer to that political promiscuity under which the same occupations are assigned to both sexes alike, a scheme which could only lead to intolerable evils; I refer to that subversion of all the tenderest of our natural feelings, which he sacrificed to an artificial sentiment which can only exist by their aid. Will the bonds of convention hold firm without some foundation in nature? Can devotion to the state exist apart from the love of those near and dear to us? Can patriotism thrive except in the soil of that miniature fatherland, the home? Is it not the good son, the good husband, the good father, who makes the good citizen?

I fully recognize that Plato, in the Republic, assigns the same physical training to both women and men. Once he eliminates the family structure, there’s no role for women in his government system, so he ends up making them into men. That brilliant thinker has meticulously crafted his ideas and has covered every potential issue; he's even addressed a problem that most likely no one would ever think to raise. However, he hasn’t tackled the real issue. I’m not referring to the supposed sharing of wives often attributed to him; that claim just reveals that his critics haven't actually read his writings. I’m talking about that political equality where both genders are given the same roles, a plan that could only result in serious problems. I point to the destruction of our deepest natural feelings, which he sacrificed for an artificial sentiment that can only exist with their support. Can social conventions hold strong without a natural foundation? Can loyalty to the state thrive without love for those close to us? Can patriotism flourish without the nurturing environment of home? Isn’t it the good son, the good partner, the good parent, who becomes the good citizen?

When once it is proved that men and women are and ought to be unlike in constitution and in temperament, it follows that their education must be different. Nature teaches us that they should work together, but that each has its own share of the work; the end is the same, but the means are different, as are also the feelings which direct them. We have attempted to paint a natural man, let us try to paint a helpmeet for him.

Once it’s proven that men and women are and should be different in their nature and temperament, it follows that their education must be different as well. Nature shows us that they should collaborate, but each has their own part to play; the goal is the same, but the methods differ, as do the emotions that guide them. We’ve tried to depict a natural man, let’s try to depict a complement for him.

You must follow nature’s guidance if you would walk aright. The native characters of sex should be respected as nature’s handiwork. You are always saying, “Women have such and such faults, from which we are free.” You are misled by your vanity; what would be faults in you are virtues in them; and things would go worse, if they were without these so-called faults. Take care that they do not degenerate into evil, but beware of destroying them.

You need to follow nature's guidance if you want to live rightly. The natural traits of each gender should be respected as nature’s work. You often say, “Women have these faults, while we don’t.” You’re being misled by your vanity; what you see as faults in yourself are actually virtues in them, and things would be worse if they didn’t have these so-called faults. Make sure they don’t turn into something negative, but be careful not to destroy them.

On the other hand, women are always exclaiming that we educate them for nothing but vanity and coquetry, that we keep them amused with trifles that we may be their masters; we are responsible, so they say, for the faults we attribute to them. How silly! What have men to do with the education of girls? What is there to hinder their mothers educating them as they please? There are no colleges for girls; so much the better for them! Would God there were none for the boys, their education would be more sensible and more wholesome. Who is it that compels a girl to waste her time on foolish trifles? Are they forced, against their will, to spend half their time over their toilet, following the example set them by you? Who prevents you teaching them, or having them taught, whatever seems good in your eyes? Is it our fault that we are charmed by their beauty and delighted by their airs and graces, if we are attracted and flattered by the arts they learn from you, if we love to see them prettily dressed, if we let them display at leisure the weapons by which we are subjugated? Well then, educate them like men. The more women are like men, the less influence they will have over men, and then men will be masters indeed.

On the other hand, women are always saying that we educate them for nothing but vanity and flirting, that we keep them entertained with trivial things so we can control them; they claim we are responsible for the faults we attribute to them. How foolish! What do men have to do with the education of girls? What stops their mothers from educating them however they want? There are no colleges for girls; that’s better for them! I wish there weren't any for boys either; their education would be more sensible and healthier. Who forces a girl to waste her time on silly things? Are they being made to spend half their time on their appearance, following the example set by you? Who’s stopping you from teaching them or having them taught whatever you think is right? Is it our fault that we are captivated by their beauty and enjoy their charm, that we are drawn to and flattered by the skills they learn from you, that we love to see them dressed nicely, that we allow them to show off the things that weaken us? Well then, educate them like men. The more women are like men, the less influence they will have over them, and then men will truly be the ones in charge.

All the faculties common to both sexes are not equally shared between them, but taken as a whole they are fairly divided. Woman is worth more as a woman and less as a man; when she makes a good use of her own rights, she has the best of it; when she tries to usurp our rights, she is our inferior. It is impossible to controvert this, except by quoting exceptions after the usual fashion of the partisans of the fair sex.

All the abilities common to both men and women aren't equally shared between them, but overall they are fairly divided. A woman holds more value as a woman and less as a man; when she effectively uses her own rights, she excels; when she attempts to take our rights, she falls short. It's impossible to dispute this without citing exceptions, as is typical of those who support women.

To cultivate the masculine virtues in women and to neglect their own is evidently to do them an injury. Women are too clear-sighted to be thus deceived; when they try to usurp our privileges they do not abandon their own; with this result: they are unable to make use of two incompatible things, so they fall below their own level as women, instead of rising to the level of men. If you are a sensible mother you will take my advice. Do not try to make your daughter a good man in defiance of nature. Make her a good woman, and be sure it will be better both for her and us.

To encourage women to adopt masculine traits while ignoring their own is clearly harmful. Women are too perceptive to be fooled by this; when they attempt to take on our rights, they don’t let go of their own. The result is that they can’t balance two conflicting roles, leading them to fall short of their potential as women instead of rising to the level of men. If you’re a wise mother, you should heed my advice. Don’t try to turn your daughter into a good man against nature. Help her become a good woman, and it will be better for both her and us.

Does this mean that she must be brought up in ignorance and kept to housework only? Is she to be man’s handmaid or his help-meet? Will he dispense with her greatest charm, her companionship? To keep her a slave will he prevent her knowing and feeling? Will he make an automaton of her? No, indeed, that is not the teaching of nature, who has given women such a pleasant easy wit. On the contrary, nature means them to think, to will, to love, to cultivate their minds as well as their persons; she puts these weapons in their hands to make up for their lack of strength and to enable them to direct the strength of men. They should learn many things, but only such things as are suitable.

Does this mean she has to be raised in ignorance and limited to housework? Is she meant to be a man's servant or his equal partner? Will he give up her greatest asset, her companionship? To keep her subservient, will he stop her from knowing and feeling? Will he turn her into a robot? No, that’s definitely not what nature teaches, which has gifted women with a sharp and pleasant wit. On the contrary, nature intends for them to think, to choose, to love, and to develop their minds just as much as their appearances; she provides them with these tools to compensate for their physical limitations and to help them harness the strength of men. They should learn many things, but only those that are appropriate.

When I consider the special purpose of woman, when I observe her inclinations or reckon up her duties, everything combines to indicate the mode of education she requires. Men and women are made for each other, but their mutual dependence differs in degree; man is dependent on woman through his desires; woman is dependent on man through her desires and also through her needs; he could do without her better than she can do without him. She cannot fulfil her purpose in life without his aid, without his goodwill, without his respect; she is dependent on our feelings, on the price we put upon her virtue, and the opinion we have of her charms and her deserts. Nature herself has decreed that woman, both for herself and her children, should be at the mercy of man’s judgment.

When I think about the unique role of women, when I look at their tendencies or consider their responsibilities, everything points to the kind of education they need. Men and women are made for each other, but their reliance on one another varies; men depend on women for their desires, while women depend on men for both their desires and their needs; men could manage without women more easily than women could manage without men. A woman can't achieve her purpose in life without his support, his goodwill, and his respect; she relies on our feelings, the value we assign to her virtue, and our opinions about her beauty and worth. Nature has determined that women, for themselves and their children, should be subject to men’s judgments.

Worth alone will not suffice, a woman must be thought worthy; nor beauty, she must be admired; nor virtue, she must be respected. A woman’s honour does not depend on her conduct alone, but on her reputation, and no woman who permits herself to be considered vile is really virtuous. A man has no one but himself to consider, and so long as he does right he may defy public opinion; but when a woman does right her task is only half finished, and what people think of her matters as much as what she really is. Hence her education must, in this respect, be different from man’s education. “What will people think” is the grave of a man’s virtue and the throne of a woman’s.

Worth alone isn't enough; a woman must be seen as worthy. It's the same with beauty; she needs to be admired. And with virtue, she has to be respected. A woman's honor doesn't just depend on her actions, but also on her reputation. No woman who allows herself to be seen as immoral can truly be virtuous. A man only has himself to think about, and as long as he does what's right, he can ignore public opinion. But when a woman does what's right, her job is only half done; how people perceive her is just as important as who she really is. Therefore, her education needs to be different from a man's. "What will people think?" can destroy a man's virtue but is the foundation of a woman's.

The children’s health depends in the first place on the mother’s, and the early education of man is also in a woman’s hands; his morals, his passions, his tastes, his pleasures, his happiness itself, depend on her. A woman’s education must therefore be planned in relation to man. To be pleasing in his sight, to win his respect and love, to train him in childhood, to tend him in manhood, to counsel and console, to make his life pleasant and happy, these are the duties of woman for all time, and this is what she should be taught while she is young. The further we depart from this principle, the further we shall be from our goal, and all our precepts will fail to secure her happiness or our own.

A child's health primarily relies on the mother, and early education is also in a woman's hands; a man's morals, passions, tastes, pleasures, and happiness depend on her. Therefore, a woman’s education should be designed with men in mind. To be appealing to him, to earn his respect and love, to nurture him in childhood, to care for him as an adult, to advise and comfort him, and to make his life enjoyable and fulfilling are the timeless responsibilities of women, and this is what they should learn from a young age. The further we stray from this principle, the further we will be from our goal, and none of our guidelines will ensure her happiness or ours.

Every woman desires to be pleasing in men’s eyes, and this is right; but there is a great difference between wishing to please a man of worth, a really lovable man, and seeking to please those foppish manikins who are a disgrace to their own sex and to the sex which they imitate. Neither nature nor reason can induce a woman to love an effeminate person, nor will she win love by imitating such a person.

Every woman wants to be attractive to men, and that's fine; but there's a big difference between wanting to please a decent guy, a genuinely lovable man, and trying to impress those vain, superficial guys who are a shame to their own gender and to the gender they mimic. Neither nature nor common sense can make a woman fall for an effeminate person, nor will she gain love by acting like one.

If a woman discards the quiet modest bearing of her sex, and adopts the airs of such foolish creatures, she is not following her vocation, she is forsaking it; she is robbing herself of the rights to which she lays claim. “If we were different,” she says, “the men would not like us.” She is mistaken. Only a fool likes folly; to wish to attract such men only shows her own foolishness. If there were no frivolous men, women would soon make them, and women are more responsible for men’s follies than men are for theirs. The woman who loves true manhood and seeks to find favour in its sight will adopt means adapted to her ends. Woman is a coquette by profession, but her coquetry varies with her aims; let these aims be in accordance with those of nature, and a woman will receive a fitting education.

If a woman throws away the quiet, modest attitude expected of her and instead takes on the behaviors of foolish people, she’s not embracing her true path but abandoning it; she’s robbing herself of the rights she deserves. “If we were different,” she argues, “men wouldn’t like us.” She’s wrong. Only a fool is attracted to foolishness; wanting to draw in such men just highlights her own foolishness. If there were no frivolous men, women would quickly create them, and women are more responsible for men’s foolish behavior than men are for their own. A woman who admires true masculinity and wants to earn its appreciation will choose actions that align with her goals. A woman is naturally a coquette, but her flirtation changes based on her objectives; if those objectives align with nature, she will receive a proper education.

Even the tiniest little girls love finery; they are not content to be pretty, they must be admired; their little airs and graces show that their heads are full of this idea, and as soon as they can understand they are controlled by “What will people think of you?” If you are foolish enough to try this way with little boys, it will not have the same effect; give them their freedom and their sports, and they care very little what people think; it is a work of time to bring them under the control of this law.

Even the tiniest little girls love dressing up; they aren’t satisfied just being pretty, they want to be admired. Their little behaviors show that they’re full of this idea, and as soon as they can grasp it, they are influenced by “What will people think of you?” If you’re silly enough to try this with little boys, it won’t have the same effect; give them their freedom and their games, and they hardly care what others think; it takes time to get them to follow this mindset.

However acquired, this early education of little girls is an excellent thing in itself. As the birth of the body must precede the birth of the mind, so the training of the body must precede the cultivation of the mind. This is true of both sexes; but the aim of physical training for boys and girls is not the same; in the one case it is the development of strength, in the other of grace; not that these qualities should be peculiar to either sex, but that their relative values should be different. Women should be strong enough to do anything gracefully; men should be skilful enough to do anything easily.

However acquired, this early education of little girls is a great thing in itself. Just as the physical body must be born before the mind can develop, the training of the body must come before the cultivation of the mind. This applies to both boys and girls; however, the goals of physical training are not the same for each. For boys, it focuses on developing strength, while for girls, it emphasizes grace. This doesn't mean these qualities belong exclusively to one sex or the other, but rather that their importance should differ. Women should be strong enough to do anything with grace; men should be skilled enough to do anything with ease.

The exaggeration of feminine delicacy leads to effeminacy in men. Women should not be strong like men but for them, so that their sons may be strong. Convents and boarding-schools, with their plain food and ample opportunities for amusements, races, and games in the open air and in the garden, are better in this respect than the home, where the little girl is fed on delicacies, continually encouraged or reproved, where she is kept sitting in a stuffy room, always under her mother’s eye, afraid to stand or walk or speak or breathe, without a moment’s freedom to play or jump or run or shout, or to be her natural, lively, little self; there is either harmful indulgence or misguided severity, and no trace of reason. In this fashion heart and body are alike destroyed.

The overemphasis on feminine delicacy can lead to softness in men. Women shouldn’t be strong like men, but strong enough for their sons to be strong. Convents and boarding schools, with their simple food and plenty of chances for fun, races, and games outdoors and in the garden, are better in this way than home, where little girls are spoiled with treats, constantly encouraged or criticized, kept sitting in a cramped room, always under their mother’s watchful eye, scared to stand, walk, speak, or even breathe without a moment of freedom to play, jump, run, or shout, or to just be their lively, little selves; there’s either harmful pampering or misguided strictness, with no sign of reason. This way, both heart and body are damaged.

In Sparta the girls used to take part in military sports just like the boys, not that they might go to war, but that they might bear sons who could endure hardship. That is not what I desire. To provide the state with soldiers it is not necessary that the mother should carry a musket and master the Prussian drill. Yet, on the whole, I think the Greeks were very wise in this matter of physical training. Young girls frequently appeared in public, not with the boys, but in groups apart. There was scarcely a festival, a sacrifice, or a procession without its bands of maidens, the daughters of the chief citizens. Crowned with flowers, chanting hymns, forming the chorus of the dance, bearing baskets, vases, offerings, they presented a charming spectacle to the depraved senses of the Greeks, a spectacle well fitted to efface the evil effects of their unseemly gymnastics. Whatever this custom may have done for the Greek men, it was well fitted to develop in the Greek women a sound constitution by means of pleasant, moderate, and healthy exercise; while the desire to please would develop a keen and cultivated taste without risk to character.

In Sparta, girls participated in military sports just like the boys, not to go off to war, but to have sons who could handle tough situations. That's not what I want. To provide the state with soldiers, it's not necessary for the mother to carry a gun and learn the Prussian drill. Still, overall, I think the Greeks were very smart about physical training. Young girls often appeared in public, not with the boys, but in separate groups. There was hardly a festival, offering, or parade without its groups of young women, the daughters of prominent citizens. Wreathed in flowers, singing hymns, joining in the dance, and carrying baskets, vases, and offerings, they created a beautiful sight for the corrupt senses of the Greeks, effectively countering the negative effects of their inappropriate physical training. Whatever benefit this custom may have had for Greek men, it was well-suited to developing a healthy constitution in Greek women through enjoyable, moderate, and healthy activities; while the desire to attract attention would foster an appreciation for beauty without compromising their integrity.

When the Greek women married, they disappeared from public life; within the four walls of their home they devoted themselves to the care of their household and family. This is the mode of life prescribed for women alike by nature and reason. These women gave birth to the healthiest, strongest, and best proportioned men who ever lived, and except in certain islands of ill repute, no women in the whole world, not even the Roman matrons, were ever at once so wise and so charming, so beautiful and so virtuous, as the women of ancient Greece.

When Greek women got married, they basically vanished from public life; inside their homes, they focused on taking care of their households and families. This was the way life was meant to be for women, according to both nature and logic. These women gave birth to the healthiest, strongest, and best-built men in history, and except for a few notorious islands, no women anywhere, not even Roman matrons, were ever as wise and charming, beautiful and virtuous as the women of ancient Greece.

It is admitted that their flowing garments, which did not cramp the figure, preserved in men and women alike the fine proportions which are seen in their statues. These are still the models of art, although nature is so disfigured that they are no longer to be found among us. The Gothic trammels, the innumerable bands which confine our limbs as in a press, were quite unknown. The Greek women were wholly unacquainted with those frames of whalebone in which our women distort rather than display their figures. It seems to me that this abuse, which is carried to an incredible degree of folly in England, must sooner or later lead to the production of a degenerate race. Moreover, I maintain that the charm which these corsets are supposed to produce is in the worst possible taste; it is not a pleasant thing to see a woman cut in two like a wasp—it offends both the eye and the imagination. A slender waist has its limits, like everything else, in proportion and suitability, and beyond these limits it becomes a defect. This defect would be a glaring one in the nude; why should it be beautiful under the costume?

It’s recognized that their flowing clothes, which didn’t restrict the body, maintained the harmonious proportions found in both men and women’s statues. These statues are still the standards in art, even though nature has been so distorted that such proportions are rare today. The constraining garments and countless bands that restrict our limbs like a cage were completely unknown back then. Greek women had no experience with those whalebone corsets that twist rather than showcase their bodies. I believe this practice, which is taken to an extreme level of absurdity in England, will eventually lead to the emergence of a degenerate population. Furthermore, I argue that the appeal these corsets are thought to create is in the worst taste; it’s unattractive to see a woman divided like a wasp—it offends both sight and imagination. A slender waist has its limits, just like everything else, regarding proportion and suitability, and when it exceeds those limits, it becomes a flaw. This flaw would be glaringly obvious in the nude; so why should it be considered beautiful in clothing?

I will not venture upon the reasons which induce women to incase themselves in these coats of mail. A clumsy figure, a large waist, are no doubt very ugly at twenty, but at thirty they cease to offend the eye, and as we are bound to be what nature has made us at any given age, and as there is no deceiving the eye of man, such defects are less offensive at any age than the foolish affectations of a young thing of forty.

I won't go into the reasons that make women wrap themselves in these suits of armor. A clumsy figure and a large waist might be considered unattractive at twenty, but by thirty they don't bother the eye as much. Since we have to accept who we are at any age, and since you can't trick the eyes of others, these flaws are less off-putting at any age than the silly pretensions of a young woman who's forty.

Everything which cramps and confines nature is in bad taste; this is as true of the adornments of the person as of the ornaments of the mind. Life, health, common-sense, and comfort must come first; there is no grace in discomfort, languor is not refinement, there is no charm in ill-health; suffering may excite pity, but pleasure and delight demand the freshness of health.

Everything that restricts and limits nature is just in poor taste; this is as true for personal decorations as it is for mental adornments. Life, health, common sense, and comfort must come first; there's no elegance in discomfort, sluggishness isn't sophistication, and there's no allure in being unwell; suffering might elicit sympathy, but joy and happiness require the vitality of good health.

Boys and girls have many games in common, and this is as it should be; do they not play together when they are grown up? They have also special tastes of their own. Boys want movement and noise, drums, tops, toy-carts; girls prefer things which appeal to the eye, and can be used for dressing-up—mirrors, jewellery, finery, and specially dolls. The doll is the girl’s special plaything; this shows her instinctive bent towards her life’s work. The art of pleasing finds its physical basis in personal adornment, and this physical side of the art is the only one which the child can cultivate.

Boys and girls share many games, and that's how it should be; don't they play together when they grow up? They also have their own unique preferences. Boys enjoy activities with movement and noise, like drums, spinning tops, and toy carts; girls tend to like things that are visually appealing and can be used for dress-up, such as mirrors, jewelry, fancy clothes, and especially dolls. The doll is the girl’s favorite toy; it reflects her natural inclination toward her future role. The art of pleasing has its basis in personal decoration, and this tangible aspect of the art is the only one the child can develop.

Here is a little girl busy all day with her doll; she is always changing its clothes, dressing and undressing it, trying new combinations of trimmings well or ill matched; her fingers are clumsy, her taste is crude, but there is no mistaking her bent; in this endless occupation time flies unheeded, the hours slip away unnoticed, even meals are forgotten. She is more eager for adornment than for food. “But she is dressing her doll, not herself,” you will say. Just so; she sees her doll, she cannot see herself; she cannot do anything for herself, she has neither the training, nor the talent, nor the strength; as yet she herself is nothing, she is engrossed in her doll and all her coquetry is devoted to it. This will not always be so; in due time she will be her own doll.

Here is a little girl busy all day with her doll; she is always changing its clothes, dressing and undressing it, trying new combinations of trimmings that match well or don’t. Her fingers are clumsy, her taste is basic, but it’s clear what she loves; in this endless activity, time flies by unnoticed, the hours slip away, even meals are forgotten. She cares more about dressing up her doll than about eating. “But she’s dressing her doll, not herself,” you might say. Exactly; she sees her doll, she can’t see herself; she can’t do anything for herself, she doesn’t have the training, talent, or strength; for now, she is nothing, completely absorbed in her doll, and all her attention is on it. This won't always be the case; eventually, she will become her own doll.

We have here a very early and clearly-marked bent; you have only to follow it and train it. What the little girl most clearly desires is to dress her doll, to make its bows, its tippets, its sashes, and its tuckers; she is dependent on other people’s kindness in all this, and it would be much pleasanter to be able to do it herself. Here is a motive for her earliest lessons, they are not tasks prescribed, but favours bestowed. Little girls always dislike learning to read and write, but they are always ready to learn to sew. They think they are grown up, and in imagination they are using their knowledge for their own adornment.

We have here a very early and clearly marked interest; you just need to follow it and nurture it. What the little girl really wants is to dress her doll, to make its bows, its ribbons, its sashes, and its frills; she relies on other people’s help for all this, and it would be much nicer to be able to do it herself. This is a reason for her earliest lessons; they aren't tasks imposed on her, but favors given. Little girls always dislike learning to read and write, but they are always eager to learn how to sew. They feel grown up, and in their imagination, they are using their skills for their own adornment.

The way is open and it is easy to follow it; cutting out, embroidery, lace-making follow naturally. Tapestry is not popular; furniture is too remote from the child’s interests, it has nothing to do with the person, it depends on conventional tastes. Tapestry is a woman’s amusement; young girls never care for it.

The path is clear and easy to navigate; cutting, embroidery, and lace-making come naturally. Tapestry isn't popular; furniture feels too distant from what interests kids; it has nothing to do with individuals and relies on traditional tastes. Tapestry is a pastime for women; young girls are never interested in it.

This voluntary course is easily extended to include drawing, an art which is closely connected with taste in dress; but I would not have them taught landscape and still less figure painting. Leaves, fruit, flowers, draperies, anything that will make an elegant trimming for the accessories of the toilet, and enable the girl to design her own embroidery if she cannot find a pattern to her taste; that will be quite enough. Speaking generally, if it is desirable to restrict a man’s studies to what is useful, this is even more necessary for women, whose life, though less laborious, should be even more industrious and more uniformly employed in a variety of duties, so that one talent should not be encouraged at the expense of others.

This optional course can easily be expanded to include drawing, an art form that is closely tied to fashion sense; however, I wouldn’t want them to be taught landscape painting, and even less so figure painting. Leaves, fruit, flowers, fabrics—anything that can serve as elegant decorations for their outfits and help the girl create her own embroidery when she can’t find a design she likes; that would be plenty. Generally speaking, if it is important to limit a man’s studies to what is practical, it’s even more crucial for women, whose lives, although less strenuous, should be even more diligent and consistently involved in a variety of tasks, so no single talent should be developed at the cost of others.

Whatever may be said by the scornful, good sense belongs to both sexes alike. Girls are usually more docile than boys, and they should be subjected to more authority, as I shall show later on, but that is no reason why they should be required to do things in which they can see neither rhyme nor reason. The mother’s art consists in showing the use of everything they are set to do, and this is all the easier as the girl’s intelligence is more precocious than the boy’s. This principle banishes, both for boys and girls, not only those pursuits which never lead to any appreciable results, not even increasing the charms of those who have pursued them, but also those studies whose utility is beyond the scholar’s present age and can only be appreciated in later years. If I object to little boys being made to learn to read, still more do I object to it for little girls until they are able to see the use of reading; we generally think more of our own ideas than theirs in our attempts to convince them of the utility of this art. After all, why should a little girl know how to read and write! Has she a house to manage? Most of them make a bad use of this fatal knowledge, and girls are so full of curiosity that few of them will fail to learn without compulsion. Possibly cyphering should come first; there is nothing so obviously useful, nothing which needs so much practice or gives so much opportunity for error as reckoning. If the little girl does not get the cherries for her lunch without an arithmetical exercise, she will soon learn to count.

No matter what the critics say, common sense belongs to both genders. Girls are generally more compliant than boys, and they should have a bit more guidance, as I will explain later. However, that doesn't mean they should be forced to do things that make no sense to them. A mother's role is to illustrate the purpose behind everything her daughters are tasked with, which is easier since girls often grasp ideas more quickly than boys. This approach eliminates, for both boys and girls, not only activities that yield no real benefits, but also studies that only make sense later in life. If I oppose teaching little boys how to read, I'm even more against it for little girls until they can understand the value of reading. We often prioritize our understanding over theirs when trying to persuade them about its usefulness. After all, why does a little girl need to know how to read and write? Does she have a home to run? Many end up using this knowledge poorly, and given how curious they are, most will learn without being forced. Maybe learning arithmetic should come first; it's undeniably useful, requires a lot of practice, and allows for numerous mistakes. If a little girl doesn't get her cherries for lunch without doing some math, she will quickly learn to count.

I once knew a little girl who learnt to write before she could read, and she began to write with her needle. To begin with, she would write nothing but O’s; she was always making O’s, large and small, of all kinds and one within another, but always drawn backwards. Unluckily one day she caught a glimpse of herself in the glass while she was at this useful work, and thinking that the cramped attitude was not pretty, like another Minerva she flung away her pen and declined to make any more O’s. Her brother was no fonder of writing, but what he disliked was the constraint, not the look of the thing. She was induced to go on with her writing in this way. The child was fastidious and vain; she could not bear her sisters to wear her clothes. Her things had been marked, they declined to mark them any more, she must learn to mark them herself; there is no need to continue the story.

I once knew a little girl who learned to write before she could read, and she started writing with her needle. At first, she would only write O’s; she was always making O’s, big and small, all kinds and one inside another, but always drawn backwards. Unfortunately, one day she caught a glimpse of herself in the mirror while she was doing this and thinking that the awkward position didn’t look nice, like another Minerva, she tossed aside her pen and decided not to make any more O’s. Her brother didn’t like writing either, but it was the restrictions he disliked, not how it looked. She was persuaded to continue writing this way. The child was picky and vain; she couldn’t stand her sisters wearing her clothes. Her things had been marked, they didn’t want to mark them anymore, and she had to learn to mark them herself; there's no need to continue the story.

Show the sense of the tasks you set your little girls, but keep them busy. Idleness and insubordination are two very dangerous faults, and very hard to cure when once established. Girls should be attentive and industrious, but this is not enough by itself; they should early be accustomed to restraint. This misfortune, if such it be, is inherent in their sex, and they will never escape from it, unless to endure more cruel sufferings. All their life long, they will have to submit to the strictest and most enduring restraints, those of propriety. They must be trained to bear the yoke from the first, so that they may not feel it, to master their own caprices and to submit themselves to the will of others. If they were always eager to be at work, they should sometimes be compelled to do nothing. Their childish faults, unchecked and unheeded, may easily lead to dissipation, frivolity, and inconstancy. To guard against this, teach them above all things self-control. Under our senseless conditions, the life of a good woman is a perpetual struggle against self; it is only fair that woman should bear her share of the ills she has brought upon man.

Show your little girls the value of the tasks you give them, but keep them occupied. Idleness and disobedience are two very serious issues that are hard to fix once they take hold. Girls should be attentive and hardworking, but that alone isn’t enough; they should also get used to limits from an early age. This challenge, if it can be called that, is part of their nature, and they won’t escape it without facing even harsher consequences. Throughout their lives, they will have to adhere to strict and lasting expectations of behavior. They need to learn to bear this burden from the start, so it doesn’t become a heavy weight, mastering their own whims and submitting to the will of others. Even if they are always eager to work, they should sometimes be made to do nothing. Their childish faults, if ignored, can easily lead to irresponsibility, vanity, and inconsistency. To prevent this, instill self-control above all else. In our unreasonable society, being a good woman means constantly battling with oneself; it’s only fair that women share in the burdens they have placed on men.

Beware lest your girls become weary of their tasks and infatuated with their amusements; this often happens under our ordinary methods of education, where, as Fenelon says, all the tedium is on one side and all the pleasure on the other. If the rules already laid down are followed, the first of these dangers will be avoided, unless the child dislikes those about her. A little girl who is fond of her mother or her friend will work by her side all day without getting tired; the chatter alone will make up for any loss of liberty. But if her companion is distasteful to her, everything done under her direction will be distasteful too. Children who take no delight in their mother’s company are not likely to turn out well; but to judge of their real feelings you must watch them and not trust to their words alone, for they are flatterers and deceitful and soon learn to conceal their thoughts. Neither should they be told that they ought to love their mother. Affection is not the result of duty, and in this respect constraint is out of place. Continual intercourse, constant care, habit itself, all these will lead a child to love her mother, if the mother does nothing to deserve the child’s ill-will. The very control she exercises over the child, if well directed, will increase rather than diminish the affection, for women being made for dependence, girls feel themselves made to obey.

Be careful that your girls don't get tired of their chores and obsessed with their play; this often happens with our usual teaching methods, where, as Fenelon points out, all the boredom is on one side and all the fun on the other. If the rules set out are followed, the first risk can be avoided, unless the child doesn't like those around her. A little girl who loves her mother or a friend will happily work beside her all day without feeling tired; just chatting will make up for any loss of freedom. But if her companion is someone she dislikes, everything done under that person's direction will be unappealing too. Children who don't enjoy their mother's company are unlikely to thrive; however, to evaluate their true feelings, you must observe them rather than trust their words alone, as they can be flattering and deceptive, learning quickly to hide their true thoughts. They shouldn't be told to love their mother either. Affection doesn't come from obligation, and in this regard, pressure is unnecessary. Regular interaction, consistent care, and habit will lead a child to love her mother if the mother doesn't do anything to make the child resentful. The very control she has over the child, if handled well, will grow rather than lessen that affection, as women are meant for dependence, and girls instinctively feel they are meant to obey.

Just because they have, or ought to have, little freedom, they are apt to indulge themselves too fully with regard to such freedom as they have; they carry everything to extremes, and they devote themselves to their games with an enthusiasm even greater than that of boys. This is the second difficulty to which I referred. This enthusiasm must be kept in check, for it is the source of several vices commonly found among women, caprice and that extravagant admiration which leads a woman to regard a thing with rapture to-day and to be quite indifferent to it to-morrow. This fickleness of taste is as dangerous as exaggeration; and both spring from the same cause. Do not deprive them of mirth, laughter, noise, and romping games, but do not let them tire of one game and go off to another; do not leave them for a moment without restraint. Train them to break off their games and return to their other occupations without a murmur. Habit is all that is needed, as you have nature on your side.

Just because they have, or should have, limited freedom, they tend to fully indulge in whatever freedom they do have; they take everything to extremes and get into their games with even more enthusiasm than boys do. This is the second issue I mentioned. This enthusiasm needs to be controlled because it's the source of several negative traits often seen in women, like unpredictability and that over-the-top admiration that makes a woman feel ecstatic about something today and completely indifferent to it tomorrow. This fickleness in taste is as risky as going overboard, and both stem from the same cause. Don't take away their fun, laughter, noise, and playful games, but don't let them get bored with one game and just switch to another; don’t leave them unsupervised for even a moment. Teach them to stop their games and return to other tasks without complaining. All it takes is habit, since you have nature on your side.

This habitual restraint produces a docility which woman requires all her life long, for she will always be in subjection to a man, or to man’s judgment, and she will never be free to set her own opinion above his. What is most wanted in a woman is gentleness; formed to obey a creature so imperfect as man, a creature often vicious and always faulty, she should early learn to submit to injustice and to suffer the wrongs inflicted on her by her husband without complaint; she must be gentle for her own sake, not his. Bitterness and obstinacy only multiply the sufferings of the wife and the misdeeds of the husband; the man feels that these are not the weapons to be used against him. Heaven did not make women attractive and persuasive that they might degenerate into bitterness, or meek that they should desire the mastery; their soft voice was not meant for hard words, nor their delicate features for the frowns of anger. When they lose their temper they forget themselves; often enough they have just cause of complaint; but when they scold they always put themselves in the wrong. We should each adopt the tone which befits our sex; a soft-hearted husband may make an overbearing wife, but a man, unless he is a perfect monster, will sooner or later yield to his wife’s gentleness, and the victory will be hers.

This habitual restraint creates a behavior that women need throughout their lives because they will always be under the authority of a man or society's judgment, and they won’t have the freedom to prioritize their own opinions over his. What’s most valued in a woman is gentleness; made to follow someone as flawed as man—often cruel and always imperfect—she should learn early to endure injustice and accept the wrongs inflicted on her by her husband without complaints; she must be gentle for her own well-being, not his. Resentment and stubbornness only intensify the suffering of the wife and the faults of the husband; the man recognizes that these aren’t effective weapons against him. Heaven didn’t create women to be attractive and persuasive so they could fall into bitterness, nor did they make them gentle so they would seek control; their soft voices weren’t meant for harsh words, nor their delicate features for angry frowns. When they lose their cool, they often forget themselves; they may have valid reasons to complain, but when they scold, they always end up in the wrong. We should all adopt the demeanor appropriate for our gender; a kind-hearted husband might create a domineering wife, but a man, unless he is an absolute monster, will eventually give in to his wife’s gentleness, and the victory will be hers.

Daughters must always be obedient, but mothers need not always be harsh. To make a girl docile you need not make her miserable; to make her modest you need not terrify her; on the contrary, I should not be sorry to see her allowed occasionally to exercise a little ingenuity, not to escape punishment for her disobedience, but to evade the necessity for obedience. Her dependence need not be made unpleasant, it is enough that she should realise that she is dependent. Cunning is a natural gift of woman, and so convinced am I that all our natural inclinations are right, that I would cultivate this among others, only guarding against its abuse.

Daughters should always be obedient, but mothers don't have to be harsh all the time. To make a girl compliant, you don’t have to make her unhappy; to encourage modesty, you don’t need to frighten her. In fact, I wouldn’t mind seeing her allowed to show a little creativity, not to avoid punishment for her disobedience, but to get around the need for strict obedience. Her dependence doesn’t have to be unpleasant; it’s enough for her to understand that she is dependent. Cleverness is a natural talent in women, and I’m so convinced that our natural inclinations are right that I would nurture this quality among others, while being careful to avoid its misuse.

For the truth of this I appeal to every honest observer. I do not ask you to question women themselves, our cramping institutions may compel them to sharpen their wits; I would have you examine girls, little girls, newly-born so to speak; compare them with boys of the same age, and I am greatly mistaken if you do not find the little boys heavy, silly, and foolish, in comparison. Let me give one illustration in all its childish simplicity.

For the truth of this, I turn to every honest observer. I’m not asking you to question women themselves; our restrictive institutions might force them to become sharper. Instead, I want you to look at girls, little girls, so fresh and new, and compare them with boys of the same age. I would be very surprised if you didn't find the little boys to be slow, silly, and foolish in comparison. Let me give one example in all its simple, childlike clarity.

Children are commonly forbidden to ask for anything at table, for people think they can do nothing better in the way of education than to burden them with useless precepts; as if a little bit of this or that were not readily given or refused without leaving a poor child dying of greediness intensified by hope. Every one knows how cunningly a little boy brought up in this way asked for salt when he had been overlooked at table. I do not suppose any one will blame him for asking directly for salt and indirectly for meat; the neglect was so cruel that I hardly think he would have been punished had he broken the rule and said plainly that he was hungry. But this is what I saw done by a little girl of six; the circumstances were much more difficult, for not only was she strictly forbidden to ask for anything directly or indirectly, but disobedience would have been unpardonable, for she had eaten of every dish; one only had been overlooked, and on this she had set her heart. This is what she did to repair the omission without laying herself open to the charge of disobedience; she pointed to every dish in turn, saying, “I’ve had some of this; I’ve had some of this;” however she omitted the one dish so markedly that some one noticed it and said, “Have not you had some of this?” “Oh, no,” replied the greedy little girl with soft voice and downcast eyes. These instances are typical of the cunning of the little boy and girl.

Children are often not allowed to ask for anything at the table because adults believe that the best way to educate them is by loading them down with pointless rules. They act as if a little request for something wouldn’t be quickly granted or denied without leaving a poor child suffering from a hunger intensified by hope. Everyone knows about the clever little boy who, raised this way, asked for salt when he was ignored at the table. I doubt anyone would blame him for asking for salt while indirectly hinting at wanting some meat; the oversight was so cruel that I hardly think he would have been punished if he had broken the rule and stated outright that he was hungry. But this is what I witnessed with a six-year-old girl; her situation was much more complicated because she was strictly forbidden to ask for anything, directly or indirectly, and disobeying would have been inexcusable since she had already eaten from every dish except one that she really wanted. This is how she tried to fix the oversight without being accused of disobedience: she pointed to each dish in turn, saying, “I’ve had some of this; I’ve had some of this;” however, she pointedly skipped the one dish so much that someone noticed and asked, “Haven’t you had some of this?” “Oh, no,” replied the greedy little girl in a soft voice with downcast eyes. These examples reveal the cleverness of both the little boy and girl.

What is, is good, and no general law can be bad. This special skill with which the female sex is endowed is a fair equivalent for its lack of strength; without it woman would be man’s slave, not his helpmeet. By her superiority in this respect she maintains her equality with man, and rules in obedience. She has everything against her, our faults and her own weakness and timidity; her beauty and her wiles are all that she has. Should she not cultivate both? Yet beauty is not universal; it may be destroyed by all sorts of accidents, it will disappear with years, and habit will destroy its influence. A woman’s real resource is her wit; not that foolish wit which is so greatly admired in society, a wit which does nothing to make life happier; but that wit which is adapted to her condition, the art of taking advantage of our position and controlling us through our own strength. Words cannot tell how beneficial this is to man, what a charm it gives to the society of men and women, how it checks the petulant child and restrains the brutal husband; without it the home would be a scene of strife; with it, it is the abode of happiness. I know that this power is abused by the sly and the spiteful; but what is there that is not liable to abuse? Do not destroy the means of happiness because the wicked use them to our hurt.

What is, is good, and no general law can be bad. This special ability that women have is a fair compensation for their lack of physical strength; without it, women would be men’s slaves, not their partners. Through her advantages in this area, she maintains her equality with men and holds power in submission. She has everything working against her—our faults and her own weaknesses and shyness; her beauty and her charm are all she possesses. Shouldn’t she nurture both? Yet beauty isn’t guaranteed; it can be taken away by various circumstances, it fades with age, and routine can diminish its impact. A woman’s real asset is her wit; not the silly wit that society often admires, which doesn’t contribute to a happier life, but a type of wit that suits her circumstances, the skill of leveraging our vulnerabilities and influencing us using our own strengths. Words can’t express how beneficial this is for men, how it enhances the interactions between men and women, how it calms the irritable child and controls the aggressive husband; without it, home becomes a battleground; with it, it is a place of joy. I acknowledge that some may misuse this power for selfish or malicious purposes; but what isn’t subject to misuse? Don’t take away the means of happiness just because the unscrupulous use them to our disadvantage.

The toilet may attract notice, but it is the person that wins our hearts. Our finery is not us; its very artificiality often offends, and that which is least noticeable in itself often wins the most attention. The education of our girls is, in this respect, absolutely topsy-turvy. Ornaments are promised them as rewards, and they are taught to delight in elaborate finery. “How lovely she is!” people say when she is most dressed up. On the contrary, they should be taught that so much finery is only required to hide their defects, and that beauty’s real triumph is to shine alone. The love of fashion is contrary to good taste, for faces do not change with the fashion, and while the person remains unchanged, what suits it at one time will suit it always.

The toilet might grab attention, but it’s the person who truly wins our hearts. Our fancy clothes don’t define us; their artificial nature often turns people off, and what’s least noticeable often gets the most focus. In this regard, the education of our girls is completely upside down. They’re promised decorations as rewards and taught to take pleasure in elaborate outfits. “How beautiful she is!” people say when she’s all dressed up. But they should be taught that all that flashy stuff is just to cover up their flaws, and real beauty shines on its own. The obsession with fashion goes against good taste, since faces don’t change with trends, and what looks good on a person at one time will always look good.

If I saw a young girl decked out like a little peacock, I should show myself anxious about her figure so disguised, and anxious what people would think of her; I should say, “She is over-dressed with all those ornaments; what a pity! Do you think she could do with something simpler? Is she pretty enough to do without this or that?” Possibly she herself would be the first to ask that her finery might be taken off and that we should see how she looked without it. In that case her beauty should receive such praise as it deserves. I should never praise her unless simply dressed. If she only regards fine clothes as an aid to personal beauty, and as a tacit confession that she needs their aid, she will not be proud of her finery, she will be humbled by it; and if she hears some one say, “How pretty she is,” when she is smarter than usual, she will blush for shame.

If I saw a young girl dressed up like a little peacock, I would be worried about how her outfit might be perceived and what others would think of her. I might say, “She’s over-dressed with all those accessories; what a shame! Do you think she could go for something simpler? Is she pretty enough to pull off this or that?” Maybe she'd be the first to want her fancy outfit taken off so we could see how she looks without it. In that case, her true beauty would get the recognition it deserves. I would never compliment her unless she was dressed simply. If she sees fancy clothes as just a way to enhance her beauty, and a quiet admission that she needs that enhancement, she won’t take pride in her fancy attire; instead, it will humble her. And if she hears someone say, “How pretty she is,” when she looks especially nice, she’ll feel embarrassed.

Moreover, though there are figures that require adornment there are none that require expensive clothes. Extravagance in dress is the folly of the class rather than the individual, it is merely conventional. Genuine coquetry is sometimes carefully thought out, but never sumptuous, and Juno dressed herself more magnificently than Venus. “As you cannot make her beautiful you are making her fine,” said Apelles to an unskilful artist who was painting Helen loaded with jewellery. I have also noticed that the smartest clothes proclaim the plainest women; no folly could be more misguided. If a young girl has good taste and a contempt for fashion, give her a few yards of ribbon, muslin, and gauze, and a handful of flowers, without any diamonds, fringes, or lace, and she will make herself a dress a hundredfold more becoming than all the smart clothes of La Duchapt.

Moreover, while there are figures that need embellishment, none require expensive clothing. The excess in dress is more about societal norms than individual choice; it's just conventional. True flirtation might be carefully planned, but it's never lavish, and Juno dressed herself more impressively than Venus. “Since you can’t make her beautiful, you're making her fancy,” said Apelles to a clumsy artist painting Helen adorned with jewels. I've also noticed that the fanciest clothes often highlight the plainest women; no mistake could be more misguided. If a young girl has great taste and disregards trends, give her some fabric, muslin, and gauze, along with a handful of flowers, without any diamonds, fringes, or lace, and she’ll create a dress that looks a hundred times better than all the trendy outfits from La Duchapt.

Good is always good, and as you should always look your best, the women who know what they are about select a good style and keep to it, and as they are not always changing their style they think less about dress than those who can never settle to any one style. A genuine desire to dress becomingly does not require an elaborate toilet. Young girls rarely give much time to dress; needlework and lessons are the business of the day; yet, except for the rouge, they are generally as carefully dressed as older women and often in better taste. Contrary to the usual opinion, the real cause of the abuse of the toilet is not vanity but lack of occupation. The woman who devotes six hours to her toilet is well aware that she is no better dressed than the woman who took half an hour, but she has got rid of so many of the tedious hours and it is better to amuse oneself with one’s clothes than to be sick of everything. Without the toilet how would she spend the time between dinner and supper. With a crowd of women about her, she can at least cause them annoyance, which is amusement of a kind; better still she avoids a tete-a-tete with the husband whom she never sees at any other time; then there are the tradespeople, the dealers in bric-a-brac, the fine gentlemen, the minor poets with their songs, their verses, and their pamphlets; how could you get them together but for the toilet. Its only real advantage is the chance of a little more display than is permitted by full dress, and perhaps this is less than it seems and a woman gains less than she thinks. Do not be afraid to educate your women as women; teach them a woman’s business, that they be modest, that they may know how to manage their house and look after their family; the grand toilet will soon disappear, and they will be more tastefully dressed.

Good is always good, and since you should always look your best, women who know what they want choose a solid style and stick with it. Because they aren’t constantly changing their look, they think less about clothing than those who can never settle on one style. A genuine desire to dress nicely doesn’t require an elaborate outfit. Young girls usually don’t spend much time on their appearance; sewing and classes take up their day. However, aside from makeup, they are generally as well-dressed as older women and often have better taste. Contrary to popular belief, the main reason for excessive grooming isn’t vanity but a lack of things to do. A woman who spends six hours on her appearance knows she looks no better than one who takes half an hour; she’s just finding a way to fill the tedious hours. It's better to entertain oneself with clothing than to be bored with everything. Without dressing up, how would she pass the time between dinner and supper? With a crowd of women around her, at least she can annoy them, which is entertaining in its own way; even better, she avoids a one-on-one with a husband she rarely sees otherwise. Then there are the shops, the dealers in odds and ends, the charming gentlemen, and the aspiring poets with their songs, poems, and pamphlets—how else could you bring them together except through dressing up? The only real benefit is the opportunity for a little more flair than what is allowed in formal wear, and maybe this advantage isn’t as significant as it seems; a woman may gain less than she thinks. Don’t hesitate to educate women in their role; teach them domestic skills so they can manage their homes and take care of their families. The extravagant dressing will soon fade away, and they will dress more tastefully.

Growing girls perceive at once that all this outside adornment is not enough unless they have charms of their own. They cannot make themselves beautiful, they are too young for coquetry, but they are not too young to acquire graceful gestures, a pleasing voice, a self-possessed manner, a light step, a graceful bearing, to choose whatever advantages are within their reach. The voice extends its range, it grows stronger and more resonant, the arms become plumper, the bearing more assured, and they perceive that it is easy to attract attention however dressed. Needlework and industry suffice no longer, fresh gifts are developing and their usefulness is already recognised.

Growing girls instantly realize that all this external decoration isn't enough unless they have their own charms. They can't make themselves beautiful; they’re too young for flirting, but they’re not too young to develop graceful gestures, a pleasant voice, a confident demeanor, a light step, and an elegant posture. They can choose the advantages available to them. Their voices expand in range, becoming stronger and more resonant, their arms get fuller, their posture becomes more assured, and they discover it's easy to attract attention regardless of how they dress. Simply doing needlework and being industrious isn't enough anymore; new talents are emerging, and their value is already recognized.

I know that stern teachers would have us refuse to teach little girls to sing or dance, or to acquire any of the pleasing arts. This strikes me as absurd. Who should learn these arts—our boys? Are these to be the favourite accomplishments of men or women? Of neither, say they; profane songs are simply so many crimes, dancing is an invention of the Evil One; her tasks and her prayers we all the amusement a young girl should have. What strange amusements for a child of ten! I fear that these little saints who have been forced to spend their childhood in prayers to God will pass their youth in another fashion; when they are married they will try to make up for lost time. I think we must consider age as well as sex; a young girl should not live like her grandmother; she should be lively, merry, and eager; she should sing and dance to her heart’s content, and enjoy all the innocent pleasures of youth; the time will come, all too soon, when she must settle down and adopt a more serious tone.

I know that strict teachers would have us stop little girls from learning to sing or dance, or from picking up any of the enjoyable arts. This seems ridiculous to me. Who should learn these skills—our boys? Are these meant to be the favorite hobbies of men or women? Neither, they say; profane songs are nothing but wrongs, dancing is a creation of the Devil; their tasks and prayers are all the fun a young girl should have. What odd fun for a ten-year-old! I worry that these little saints, who have been forced to spend their childhood praying to God, will spend their youth in a different way; when they get married, they’ll try to make up for lost time. I believe we should consider both age and gender; a young girl shouldn't live like her grandmother; she should be lively, cheerful, and enthusiastic; she should sing and dance as much as she likes and enjoy all the innocent joys of youth; the time will come, all too quickly, when she has to settle down and take on a more serious attitude.

But is this change in itself really necessary? Is it not merely another result of our own prejudices? By making good women the slaves of dismal duties, we have deprived marriage of its charm for men. Can we wonder that the gloomy silence they find at home drives them elsewhere, or inspires little desire to enter a state which offers so few attractions? Christianity, by exaggerating every duty, has made our duties impracticable and useless; by forbidding singing, dancing, and amusements of every kind, it renders women sulky, fault-finding, and intolerable at home. There is no religion which imposes such strict duties upon married life, and none in which such a sacred engagement is so often profaned. Such pains has been taken to prevent wives being amiable, that their husbands have become indifferent to them. This should not be, I grant you, but it will be, since husbands are but men. I would have an English maiden cultivate the talents which will delight her husband as zealously as the Circassian cultivates the accomplishments of an Eastern harem. Husbands, you say, care little for such accomplishments. So I should suppose, when they are employed, not for the husband, but to attract the young rakes who dishonour the home. But imagine a virtuous and charming wife, adorned with such accomplishments and devoting them to her husband’s amusement; will she not add to his happiness? When he leaves his office worn out with the day’s work, will she not prevent him seeking recreation elsewhere? Have we not all beheld happy families gathered together, each contributing to the general amusement? Are not the confidence and familiarity thus established, the innocence and the charm of the pleasures thus enjoyed, more than enough to make up for the more riotous pleasures of public entertainments?

But is this change really necessary? Is it just another result of our own biases? By turning good women into the servants of tedious tasks, we've stripped marriage of its appeal for men. Can we be surprised that the gloomy silence they experience at home drives them elsewhere or creates little desire to enter a relationship that offers so few benefits? Christianity, by emphasizing every duty, has made our responsibilities impossible and pointless; by banning singing, dancing, and all kinds of fun, it leaves women sullen, complaining, and unbearable at home. No religion imposes such strict obligations on married life, and none sees such a sacred commitment frequently disrespected. So much effort has gone into making wives less pleasant that their husbands have grown indifferent to them. This shouldn’t be the case, I agree, but it will be, since husbands are just men. I would want an English woman to develop the skills that will please her husband just as eagerly as a Circassian woman cultivates the skills of an Eastern harem. You say husbands don’t care much for those skills. That’s likely, especially when they’re used not for the husband but to attract young men who undermine the home. But imagine a virtuous and charming wife, gifted with those skills and using them to entertain her husband; wouldn’t she enhance his happiness? When he comes home exhausted from work, wouldn’t she keep him from seeking enjoyment elsewhere? Haven’t we all seen happy families gathered together, each contributing to the collective fun? Aren’t the trust and closeness built through such shared joy, along with the innocence and charm of those pleasures, more than enough to make up for the wilder indulgences of public entertainment?

Pleasant accomplishments have been made too formal an affair of rules and precepts, so that young people find them very tedious instead of a mere amusement or a merry game as they ought to be. Nothing can be more absurd than an elderly singing or dancing master frowning upon young people, whose one desire is to laugh, and adopting a more pedantic and magisterial manner in teaching his frivolous art than if he were teaching the catechism. Take the case of singing; does this art depend on reading music; cannot the voice be made true and flexible, can we not learn to sing with taste and even to play an accompaniment without knowing a note? Does the same kind of singing suit all voices alike? Is the same method adapted to every mind? You will never persuade me that the same attitudes, the same steps, the same movements, the same gestures, the same dances will suit a lively little brunette and a tall fair maiden with languishing eyes. So when I find a master giving the same lessons to all his pupils I say, “He has his own routine, but he knows nothing of his art!”

Enjoyable activities have become too formal with rules and guidelines, making them tedious for young people instead of being just fun or a lively game as they should be. It’s ridiculous to see an older singing or dancing teacher scolding young people, who just want to have a good time, while adopting a more serious and teacher-like attitude in teaching a lighthearted art than if he were teaching a religious lesson. Take singing, for example; does this skill really rely on reading music? Can't we develop a true and flexible voice, learn to sing with style, and even play along without knowing a single note? Does the same type of singing really work for every voice? Is the same approach suitable for every mind? You won’t convince me that the same postures, steps, movements, gestures, and dances work for a lively little brunette and a tall, fair maiden with dreamy eyes. So when I see a teacher giving the same lessons to all his students, I think, “He has his own routine, but he doesn’t understand his craft!”

Should young girls have masters or mistresses? I cannot say; I wish they could dispense with both; I wish they could learn of their own accord what they are already so willing to learn. I wish there were fewer of these dressed-up old ballet masters promenading our streets. I fear our young people will get more harm from intercourse with such people than profit from their instruction, and that their jargon, their tone, their airs and graces, will instil a precocious taste for the frivolities which the teacher thinks so important, and to which the scholars are only too likely to devote themselves.

Should young girls have teachers or mentors? I can't say; I wish they could do without either; I wish they could learn on their own what they are already so eager to learn. I wish there were fewer of these pretentious old dance instructors strutting around our streets. I'm worried our young people will get more harm from being around such individuals than any real benefit from their teaching, and that their jargon, attitude, and pretentiousness will create an early fascination for the trivialities that the teacher thinks are so important, and to which the students are likely to become too devoted.

Where pleasure is the only end in view, any one may serve as teacher—father, mother, brother, sister, friend, governess, the girl’s mirror, and above all her own taste. Do not offer to teach, let her ask; do not make a task of what should be a reward, and in these studies above all remember that the wish to succeed is the first step. If formal instruction is required I leave it to you to choose between a master and a mistress. How can I tell whether a dancing master should take a young pupil by her soft white hand, make her lift her skirt and raise her eyes, open her arms and advance her throbbing bosom? but this I know, nothing on earth would induce me to be that master.

Where pleasure is the only goal, anyone can be a teacher—father, mother, brother, sister, friend, governess, the girl’s mirror, and especially her own taste. Don’t offer to teach, let her ask; don’t turn what should be a reward into a chore, and in these studies, remember that the desire to succeed is the first step. If formal instruction is needed, I leave it up to you to choose between a male or female teacher. How can I know whether a dance instructor should take a young student by her soft white hand, make her lift her skirt and raise her eyes, open her arms and advance her beating heart? But this I know, nothing on earth would make me want to be that instructor.

Taste is formed partly by industry and partly by talent, and by its means the mind is unconsciously opened to the idea of beauty of every kind, till at length it attains to those moral ideas which are so closely related to beauty. Perhaps this is one reason why ideas of propriety and modesty are acquired earlier by girls than by boys, for to suppose that this early feeling is due to the teaching of the governesses would show little knowledge of their style of teaching and of the natural development of the human mind. The art of speaking stands first among the pleasing arts; it alone can add fresh charms to those which have been blunted by habit. It is the mind which not only gives life to the body, but renews, so to speak, its youth; the flow of feelings and ideas give life and variety to the countenance, and the conversation to which it gives rise arouses and sustains attention, and fixes it continuously on one object. I suppose this is why little girls so soon learn to prattle prettily, and why men enjoy listening to them even before the child can understand them; they are watching for the first gleam of intelligence and sentiment.

Taste is shaped partly by culture and partly by individual talent, and through this, the mind is subtly exposed to the concept of beauty in all its forms, until it eventually reaches those moral ideas that are closely tied to beauty. This may be one reason why girls tend to grasp ideas of propriety and modesty sooner than boys; to claim that this early awareness comes solely from the governesses’ teachings would show a lack of understanding of their teaching style and the natural growth of the human mind. The art of speaking is the foremost among the enjoyable arts; it alone can bring new charm to those that have become dull from routine. It’s the mind that not only breathes life into the body but also revitalizes, so to speak, its youth; the flow of feelings and ideas enlivens and diversifies the face, and the conversations that arise from it captivate and maintain attention, focusing it continuously on one point. I guess this is why little girls quickly learn to chatter beautifully, and why men find pleasure in listening to them even before the child can comprehend their words; they are looking for that first spark of intelligence and emotion.

Women have ready tongues; they talk earlier, more easily, and more pleasantly than men. They are also said to talk more; this may be true, but I am prepared to reckon it to their credit; eyes and mouth are equally busy and for the same cause. A man says what he knows, a woman says what will please; the one needs knowledge, the other taste; utility should be the man’s object; the woman speaks to give pleasure. There should be nothing in common but truth.

Women are quick to speak; they talk sooner, more easily, and more pleasantly than men. They're also said to talk more; this might be true, but I consider it a positive trait. Both eyes and mouth are equally active for the same reason. A man shares what he knows, while a woman shares what will please; one relies on knowledge, the other on taste. A man focuses on utility, while a woman speaks to bring joy. The only thing that should matter is truth.

You should not check a girl’s prattle like a boy’s by the harsh question, “What is the use of that?” but by another question at least as difficult to answer, “What effect will that have?” At this early age when they know neither good nor evil, and are incapable of judging others, they should make this their rule and never say anything which is unpleasant to those about them; this rule is all the more difficult to apply because it must always be subordinated to our first rule, “Never tell a lie.”

You shouldn't shut down a girl's chatter like a boy's with a harsh question like, “What’s the point of that?” Instead, ask another question that’s just as hard to answer: “What impact will that have?” At this young age, when they don’t understand good or evil and can’t really judge others, they should follow this guideline and avoid saying anything hurtful to those around them. This rule is even tougher to follow because it always has to come after our first rule: “Never tell a lie.”

I can see many other difficulties, but they belong to a later stage. For the present it is enough for your little girls to speak the truth without grossness, and as they are naturally averse to what is gross, education easily teaches them to avoid it. In social intercourse I observe that a man’s politeness is usually more helpful and a woman’s more caressing. This distinction is natural, not artificial. A man seeks to serve, a woman seeks to please. Hence a woman’s politeness is less insincere than ours, whatever we may think of her character; for she is only acting upon a fundamental instinct; but when a man professes to put my interests before his own, I detect the falsehood, however disguised. Hence it is easy for women to be polite, and easy to teach little girls politeness. The first lessons come by nature; art only supplements them and determines the conventional form which politeness shall take. The courtesy of woman to woman is another matter; their manner is so constrained, their attentions so chilly, they find each other so wearisome, that they take little pains to conceal the fact, and seem sincere even in their falsehood, since they take so little pains to conceal it. Still young girls do sometimes become sincerely attached to one another. At their age good spirits take the place of a good disposition, and they are so pleased with themselves that they are pleased with every one else. Moreover, it is certain that they kiss each other more affectionately and caress each other more gracefully in the presence of men, for they are proud to be able to arouse their envy without danger to themselves by the sight of favours which they know will arouse that envy.

I can see many other issues, but they’re for another time. Right now, it’s enough for your little girls to speak the truth without being crude, and since they naturally shy away from anything gross, education can easily guide them to avoid it. In social interactions, I notice that a man’s politeness is usually more helpful, while a woman’s is more nurturing. This difference is natural, not created. A man aims to serve, while a woman aims to please. Therefore, a woman’s politeness is generally more sincere than ours, regardless of what we might think of her character; she’s simply following a basic instinct. But when a man claims to prioritize my interests over his own, I can see the dishonesty, no matter how he tries to hide it. Because of this, it’s easy for women to be polite, and easy to teach little girls to be polite. The first lessons come naturally; art merely adds to them and shapes the conventional form of politeness. The courtesy between women is a different story; their interactions can feel awkward, their attentions cold, and they often find each other tiring, so they don’t bother to hide it, seeming genuine even in their insincerity. That said, young girls sometimes do genuinely become attached to each other. At their age, good spirits substitute for a good temperament, and when they feel good about themselves, they’re happy with others too. Plus, it’s clear that they hug and kiss each other more affectionately and behave more gracefully in front of men because they take pride in being able to spark envy without any risk to themselves through displays of affection that they know will provoke that envy.

If young boys must not be allowed to ask unsuitable questions, much more must they be forbidden to little girls; if their curiosity is satisfied or unskilfully evaded it is a much more serious matter, for they are so keen to guess the mysteries concealed from them and so skilful to discover them. But while I would not permit them to ask questions, I would have them questioned frequently, and pains should be taken to make them talk; let them be teased to make them speak freely, to make them answer readily, to loosen mind and tongue while it can be done without danger. Such conversation always leading to merriment, yet skilfully controlled and directed, would form a delightful amusement at this age and might instil into these youthful hearts the first and perhaps the most helpful lessons in morals which they will ever receive, by teaching them in the guise of pleasure and fun what qualities are esteemed by men and what is the true glory and happiness of a good woman.

If young boys shouldn't be allowed to ask inappropriate questions, then it's even more important to stop little girls from doing the same. If their curiosity is satisfied or awkwardly avoided, it becomes a bigger issue because they're eager to figure out the mysteries hidden from them and are quite clever at uncovering them. While I wouldn’t let them ask questions, I would want them to be asked questions often, and effort should be made to encourage them to talk; let them be playfully prompted to speak openly, to respond easily, and to free both their minds and tongues while it's safe to do so. This kind of conversation, always leading to laughter yet skillfully managed and guided, would provide enjoyable entertainment at this age and could instill in these young hearts the first and possibly the most valuable lessons in morals they will ever learn. It teaches them, under the guise of fun, what qualities are valued by others and what true glory and happiness look like for a good woman.

If boys are incapable of forming any true idea of religion, much more is it beyond the grasp of girls; and for this reason I would speak of it all the sooner to little girls, for if we wait till they are ready for a serious discussion of these deep subjects we should be in danger of never speaking of religion at all. A woman’s reason is practical, and therefore she soon arrives at a given conclusion, but she fails to discover it for herself. The social relation of the sexes is a wonderful thing. This relation produces a moral person of which woman is the eye and man the hand, but the two are so dependent on one another that the man teaches the woman what to see, while she teaches him what to do. If women could discover principles and if men had as good heads for detail, they would be mutually independent, they would live in perpetual strife, and there would be an end to all society. But in their mutual harmony each contributes to a common purpose; each follows the other’s lead, each commands and each obeys.

If boys can't really understand religion, girls are even more out of touch with it. That's why I think it's important to talk to little girls about it sooner rather than later; if we wait until they're ready for a serious conversation about these heavy topics, we might never end up discussing religion at all. A woman's reasoning is practical, so she quickly reaches a conclusion, but she often doesn’t figure it out on her own. The social relationship between the sexes is amazing. This relationship creates a moral being where woman represents perception and man represents action, but they rely on each other so much that the man shows the woman what to notice, while she teaches him what to do. If women could uncover principles independently and if men were better at details, they would be self-sufficient, constantly at odds, and society would collapse. But in their harmonious interdependence, each contributes to a shared goal; they each follow and lead, commanding and obeying each other.

As a woman’s conduct is controlled by public opinion, so is her religion ruled by authority. The daughter should follow her mother’s religion, the wife her husband’s. Were that religion false, the docility which leads mother and daughter to submit to nature’s laws would blot out the sin of error in the sight of God. Unable to judge for themselves they should accept the judgment of father and husband as that of the church.

As a woman's behavior is shaped by what others think, her faith is governed by authority. A daughter is expected to follow her mother's beliefs, while a wife adheres to her husband's. If that faith were false, the willingness of mother and daughter to obey natural laws would erase the fault of being wrong in God's eyes. Unable to decide for themselves, they should accept their father and husband's decisions as those of the church.

While women unaided cannot deduce the rules of their faith, neither can they assign limits to that faith by the evidence of reason; they allow themselves to be driven hither and thither by all sorts of external influences, they are ever above or below the truth. Extreme in everything, they are either altogether reckless or altogether pious; you never find them able to combine virtue and piety. Their natural exaggeration is not wholly to blame; the ill-regulated control exercised over them by men is partly responsible. Loose morals bring religion into contempt; the terrors of remorse make it a tyrant; this is why women have always too much or too little religion.

While women on their own can't figure out the rules of their faith, they also can't set boundaries for that faith based on reason. They let themselves be swayed by all kinds of outside influences and often drift away from the truth. They tend to be extreme in everything, either completely reckless or completely pious; it's rare to find them balancing virtue and piety. Their natural tendency to exaggerate isn't entirely their fault; the inconsistent control from men plays a part in this. Loose morals lead to a disregard for religion, while the fear of remorse makes it feel like a burden; this is why women often end up with either too much or too little religion.

As a woman’s religion is controlled by authority it is more important to show her plainly what to believe than to explain the reasons for belief; for faith attached to ideas half-understood is the main source of fanaticism, and faith demanded on behalf of what is absurd leads to madness or unbelief. Whether our catechisms tend to produce impiety rather than fanaticism I cannot say, but I do know that they lead to one or other.

As a woman's faith is regulated by authority, it's more crucial to clearly tell her what to believe than to explain the reasons behind those beliefs. Faith that is tied to ideas that are only partially understood is a major cause of fanaticism, and faith that is required for something absurd can lead to madness or disbelief. I can't say whether our teachings result in irreverence rather than fanaticism, but I do know they lead to one or the other.

In the first place, when you teach religion to little girls never make it gloomy or tiresome, never make it a task or a duty, and therefore never give them anything to learn by heart, not even their prayers. Be content to say your own prayers regularly in their presence, but do not compel them to join you. Let their prayers be short, as Christ himself has taught us. Let them always be said with becoming reverence and respect; remember that if we ask the Almighty to give heed to our words, we should at least give heed to what we mean to say.

First of all, when teaching religion to young girls, never make it feel gloomy or boring. Don’t turn it into a chore or a duty, and don’t make them memorize anything, not even their prayers. Be sure to say your own prayers regularly in front of them, but don’t force them to join in. Keep their prayers short, just as Christ taught us. Always say them with proper respect and reverence; remember, if we’re asking the Almighty to listen to our words, we should at least pay attention to what we intend to say.

It does not much matter that a girl should learn her religion young, but it does matter that she should learn it thoroughly, and still more that she should learn to love it. If you make religion a burden to her, if you always speak of God’s anger, if in the name of religion you impose all sorts of disagreeable duties, duties which she never sees you perform, what can she suppose but that to learn one’s catechism and to say one’s prayers is only the duty of a little girl, and she will long to be grown-up to escape, like you, from these duties. Example! Example! Without it you will never succeed in teaching children anything.

It really doesn’t matter if a girl learns about her faith when she’s young, but it’s important that she learns it well, and even more crucial that she learns to love it. If you make faith feel like a chore for her, if you always talk about God being angry, or if you enforce a bunch of unpleasant obligations in the name of religion—obligations that she never sees you do—what else can she think except that learning the catechism and saying her prayers is just something little girls have to do? She’ll wish to be grown up so she can escape from these duties, just like you do. Lead by example! Without that, you won’t really teach kids anything.

When you explain the Articles of Faith let it be by direct teaching, not by question and answer. Children should only answer what they think, not what has been drilled into them. All the answers in the catechism are the wrong way about; it is the scholar who instructs the teacher; in the child’s mouth they are a downright lie, since they explain what he does not understand, and affirm what he cannot believe. Find me, if you can, an intelligent man who could honestly say his catechism. The first question I find in our catechism is as follows: “Who created you and brought you into the world?” To which the girl, who thinks it was her mother, replies without hesitation, “It was God.” All she knows is that she is asked a question which she only half understands and she gives an answer she does not understand at all.

When you explain the Articles of Faith, do it through direct teaching, not by using question and answer. Kids should respond with their own thoughts, not just what they've memorized. The answers in the catechism are misleading; it's actually the student who teaches the teacher. In a child's words, these answers are completely false, since they express ideas the child doesn't grasp and confirm beliefs they can't hold. Show me an intelligent person who can truthfully recite their catechism. The first question in our catechism goes like this: “Who created you and brought you into the world?” To which the girl, who believes it was her mother, responds without hesitation, “It was God.” All she knows is that she's being asked a question she only partially understands, and she gives an answer she doesn't comprehend at all.

I wish some one who really understands the development of children’s minds would write a catechism for them. It might be the most useful book ever written, and, in my opinion, it would do its author no little honour. This at least is certain—if it were a good book it would be very unlike our catechisms.

I wish someone who truly understands how children's minds develop would write a guide for them. It could be the most useful book ever made, and in my opinion, it would bring a lot of respect to its author. One thing is definitely true—if it were a good book, it would be very different from our current guides.

Such a catechism will not be satisfactory unless the child can answer the questions of its own accord without having to learn the answers; indeed the child will often ask the questions itself. An example is required to make my meaning plain and I feel how ill equipped I am to furnish such an example. I will try to give some sort of outline of my meaning.

Such a catechism won’t be effective unless the child can respond to the questions freely, without memorizing the answers; in fact, the child will often ask the questions themselves. I need to provide an example to clarify my point, and I recognize how unprepared I am to provide one. I’ll attempt to give a rough outline of what I mean.

To get to the first question in our catechism I suppose we must begin somewhat after the following fashion.

To start addressing the first question in our catechism, I think we should begin in a manner like this.

NURSE: Do you remember when your mother was a little girl?

NURSE: Do you remember when your mom was a little girl?

CHILD: No, nurse.

No, nurse.

NURSE: Why not, when you have such a good memory?

NURSE: Why not, when you have such a great memory?

CHILD: I was not alive.

CHILD: I wasn't alive.

NURSE: Then you were not always alive!

NURSE: So you weren't always alive!

CHILD: No.

Nope.

NURSE: Will you live for ever!

NURSE: Are you going to live forever?

CHILD: Yes.

Yes.

NURSE: Are you young or old?

NURSE: Are you young or old?

CHILD: I am young.

CHILD: I'm young.

NURSE: Is your grandmamma old or young?

NURSE: Is your grandma old or young?

CHILD: She is old.

She’s old.

NURSE: Was she ever young?

NURSE: Was she ever a kid?

CHILD: Yes.

Yes.

NURSE: Why is she not young now?

NURSE: Why isn't she young anymore?

CHILD: She has grown old.

CHILD: She's gotten old.

NURSE: Will you grow old too?

NURSE: Will you get older too?

CHILD: I don’t know.

I have no idea.

NURSE: Where are your last year’s frocks?

NURSE: Where are your dresses from last year?

CHILD: They have been unpicked.

They've been unpicked.

NURSE: Why!

NURSE: Why?!

CHILD: Because they were too small for me.

CHILD: Because they were too small for me.

NURSE: Why were they too small?

NURSE: Why were they so small?

CHILD: I have grown bigger.

KID: I've grown bigger.

NURSE: Will you grow any more!

NURSE: Are you going to grow any taller!

CHILD: Oh, yes.

CHILD: Yup.

NURSE: And what becomes of big girls?

NURSE: So, what happens to big girls?

CHILD: They grow into women.

They grow into women.

NURSE: And what becomes of women!

NURSE: So what happens to women!

CHILD: They are mothers.

They are moms.

NURSE: And what becomes of mothers?

NURSE: So, what happens to mothers?

CHILD: They grow old.

They get older.

NURSE: Will you grow old?

NURSE: Will you get old?

CHILD: When I am a mother.

CHILD: When I become a mom.

NURSE: And what becomes of old people?

NURSE: So, what happens to older people?

CHILD: I don’t know.

I’m not sure.

NURSE: What became of your grandfather?

NURSE: What happened to your grandfather?

CHILD: He died. [Footnote: The child will say this because she has heard it said; but you must make sure she knows what death is, for the idea is not so simple and within the child’s grasp as people think. In that little poem “Abel” you will find an example of the way to teach them. This charming work breathes a delightful simplicity with which one should feed one’s own mind so as to talk with children.]

CHILD: He died. [Footnote: The child says this because she has heard it before, but you need to make sure she understands what death really means, as it’s a more complex idea than most people realize. In the little poem “Abel,” you’ll find a good example of how to explain this. This lovely piece has a simple charm that’s great for inspiring your own thoughts so you can talk to children about it.]

NURSE: Why did he die?

NURSE: Why did he pass away?

CHILD: Because he was so old.

CHILD: Because he was so old.

NURSE: What becomes of old people!

NURSE: What happens to old people!

CHILD: They die.

They die.

NURSE: And when you are old——?

NURSE: And when you’re older?

CHILD: Oh nurse! I don’t want to die!

CHILD: Oh nurse! I don’t want to die!

NURSE: My dear, no one wants to die, and everybody dies.

NURSE: My dear, no one wants to die, and everyone dies.

CHILD: Why, will mamma die too!

CHILD: Why, will mom die too!

NURSE: Yes, like everybody else. Women grow old as well as men, and old age ends in death.

NURSE: Yes, just like everyone else. Women age just like men do, and old age ultimately leads to death.

CHILD: What must I do to grow old very, very slowly?

CHILD: What do I need to do to grow old really, really slowly?

NURSE: Be good while you are little.

NURSE: Be good while you're young.

CHILD: I will always be good, nurse.

CHILD: I will always be good, nurse.

NURSE: So much the better. But do you suppose you will live for ever?

NURSE: That's even better. But do you really think you'll live forever?

CHILD: When I am very, very old——

CHILD: When I'm really, really old——

NURSE: Well?

NURSE: So?

CHILD: When we are so very old you say we must die?

CHILD: When we get really old, do you mean we have to die?

NURSE: You must die some day.

NURSE: You’re going to die someday.

CHILD: Oh dear! I suppose I must.

CHILD: Oh no! I guess I have to.

NURSE: Who lived before you?

NURSE: Who lived here before you?

CHILD: My father and mother.

My parents.

NURSE: And before them?

NURSE: And what about before them?

CHILD: Their father and mother.

Parents.

NURSE: Who will live after you?

NURSE: Who will survive after you?

CHILD: My children.

KID: My kids.

NURSE: Who will live after them?

NURSE: Who will survive them?

CHILD: Their children.

KIDS: Their kids.

In this way, by concrete examples, you will find a beginning and end for the human race like everything else—that is to say, a father and mother who never had a father and mother, and children who will never have children of their own.

In this way, through concrete examples, you will see a beginning and end for the human race like everything else—that is, a father and mother who never had parents, and children who will never have kids of their own.

It is only after a long course of similar questions that we are ready for the first question in the catechism; then alone can we put the question and the child may be able to understand it. But what a gap there is between the first and the second question which is concerned with the definitions of the divine nature. When will this chasm be bridged? “God is a spirit.” “And what is a spirit?” Shall I start the child upon this difficult question of metaphysics which grown men find so hard to understand? These are no questions for a little girl to answer; if she asks them, it is as much or more than we can expect. In that case I should tell her quite simply, “You ask me what God is; it is not easy to say; we can neither hear nor see nor handle God; we can only know Him by His works. To learn what He is, you must wait till you know what He has done.”

It’s only after we’ve gone through a lot of similar questions that we’re ready for the first question in the catechism; then, and only then, can we ask the question, and the child might understand it. But there’s a huge gap between the first and the second question, which deals with the definitions of divine nature. When will we bridge this gap? “God is a spirit.” “And what is a spirit?” Should I dive into this complex question of metaphysics that even adults struggle to grasp? These aren’t questions meant for a little girl to answer; if she asks them, that’s already more than we can expect. In that case, I would simply tell her, “You’re asking what God is; it’s not easy to explain; we can’t hear, see, or touch God; we can only know Him by His actions. To understand what He is, you’ll need to see what He’s done.”

If our dogmas are all equally true, they are not equally important. It makes little difference to the glory of God that we should perceive it everywhere, but it does make a difference to human society, and to every member of that society, that a man should know and do the duties which are laid upon him by the law of God, his duty to his neighbour and to himself. This is what we should always be teaching one another, and it is this which fathers and mothers are specially bound to teach their little ones. Whether a virgin became the mother of her Creator, whether she gave birth to God, or merely to a man into whom God has entered, whether the Father and the Son are of the same substance or of like substance only, whether the Spirit proceeded from one or both of these who are but one, or from both together, however important these questions may seem, I cannot see that it is any more necessary for the human race to come to a decision with regard to them than to know what day to keep Easter, or whether we should tell our beads, fast, and refuse to eat meat, speak Latin or French in church, adorn the walls with statues, hear or say mass, and have no wife of our own. Let each think as he pleases; I cannot see that it matters to any one but himself; for my own part it is no concern of mine. But what does concern my fellow-creatures and myself alike is to know that there is indeed a judge of human fate, that we are all His children, that He bids us all be just, He bids us love one another, He bids us be kindly and merciful, He bids us keep our word with all men, even with our own enemies and His; we must know that the apparent happiness of this world is naught; that there is another life to come, in which this Supreme Being will be the rewarder of the just and the judge of the unjust. Children need to be taught these doctrines and others like them and all citizens require to be persuaded of their truth. Whoever sets his face against these doctrines is indeed guilty; he is the disturber of the peace, the enemy of society. Whoever goes beyond these doctrines and seeks to make us the slaves of his private opinions, reaches the same goal by another way; to establish his own kind of order he disturbs the peace; in his rash pride he makes himself the interpreter of the Divine, and in His name demands the homage and the reverence of mankind; so far as may be, he sets himself in God’s place; he should receive the punishment of sacrilege if he is not punished for his intolerance.

If all our beliefs are equally true, they aren't all equally important. It doesn't matter much to God's glory that we see it everywhere, but it does matter to society and each person in it that individuals understand and fulfill the responsibilities laid upon them by God's law— their duties to their neighbors and to themselves. This is what we should always be teaching each other, and it's particularly the responsibility of parents to teach their little ones. Whether a virgin gave birth to her Creator, whether she gave birth to God or merely to a man who God entered, whether the Father and the Son are the same substance or just similar, whether the Spirit comes from one or both of them who are one, or from both together—however important these issues may seem, I don't think it's any more necessary for humanity to decide on them than knowing which day to celebrate Easter, or whether we should pray with beads, fast, avoid meat, speak Latin or French in church, decorate the walls with statues, attend mass, or have no wife of our own. Let each person think as they wish; I don’t see how it matters to anyone but themselves; as for me, it’s not my concern. However, what does concern both my fellow humans and me is knowing there is indeed a judge of human fate, that we are all His children, that He asks us to be just, to love one another, to be kind and merciful, and to keep our word with everyone, even our enemies and His; we must understand that the apparent happiness of this world is nothing; that there is a life to come in which this Supreme Being will reward the just and judge the unjust. Children need to be taught these beliefs and others like them, and all citizens need to be convinced of their truth. Anyone who goes against these beliefs is guilty; they disturb the peace and are an enemy of society. Anyone who goes beyond these teachings and tries to make us slaves to their personal opinions achieves the same outcome in another way; to create their own version of order, they disrupt the peace; in their reckless pride, they position themselves as the interpreter of the Divine, demanding the respect and reverence of humanity; as much as possible, they put themselves in God's place; they should face the consequences of sacrilege if they are not punished for their intolerance.

Give no heed, therefore, to all those mysterious doctrines which are words without ideas for us, all those strange teachings, the study of which is too often offered as a substitute for virtue, a study which more often makes men mad rather than good. Keep your children ever within the little circle of dogmas which are related to morality. Convince them that the only useful learning is that which teaches us to act rightly. Do not make your daughters theologians and casuists; only teach them such things of heaven as conduce to human goodness; train them to feel that they are always in the presence of God, who sees their thoughts and deeds, their virtue and their pleasures; teach them to do good without ostentation and because they love it, to suffer evil without a murmur, because God will reward them; in a word to be all their life long what they will be glad to have been when they appear in His presence. This is true religion; this alone is incapable of abuse, impiety, or fanaticism. Let those who will, teach a religion more sublime, but this is the only religion I know.

Don’t pay attention to all those mysterious ideas that are just empty words for us, all those strange teachings that are often presented as a substitute for true virtue—a study that tends to drive people crazy rather than make them better. Keep your children within a small circle of beliefs related to morality. Convince them that the only valuable knowledge is the kind that teaches us to act rightly. Don’t turn your daughters into theologians and moral philosophers; only teach them about heaven in ways that promote human goodness. Train them to feel that they are always in the presence of God, who sees their thoughts and actions, their virtues, and their pleasures. Teach them to do good without showing off and out of love, to endure hardship without complaining, because God will reward them; in short, to live their lives in a way that they will be proud of when they stand before Him. This is true religion; this is the only kind that can’t be abused, misused, or turned into fanaticism. Let others teach a higher form of religion if they wish, but this is the only one I know.

Moreover, it is as well to observe that, until the age when the reason becomes enlightened, when growing emotion gives a voice to conscience, what is wrong for young people is what those about have decided to be wrong. What they are told to do is good; what they are forbidden to do is bad; that is all they ought to know: this shows how important it is for girls, even more than for boys, that the right people should be chosen to be with them and to have authority over them. At last there comes a time when they begin to judge things for themselves, and that is the time to change your method of education.

Also, it's important to note that until young people's reasoning is fully developed and their emotions begin to shape their sense of right and wrong, what's considered wrong is simply what the adults around them have decided is wrong. What they're instructed to do is seen as good; what they're told not to do is seen as bad; that’s all they really need to understand: this highlights how crucial it is for girls, even more than boys, to have the right people around them to guide and influence them. Eventually, there will come a time when they start to form their own judgments, and that's when it's time to change the way you educate them.

Perhaps I have said too much already. To what shall we reduce the education of our women if we give them no law but that of conventional prejudice? Let us not degrade so far the set which rules over us, and which does us honour when we have not made it vile. For all mankind there is a law anterior to that of public opinion. All other laws should bend before the inflexible control of this law; it is the judge of public opinion, and only in so far as the esteem of men is in accordance with this law has it any claim on our obedience.

Maybe I've already said too much. What will we do to the education of our women if we only follow the rules of social prejudice? Let’s not lower the standards of those who govern us, especially when they represent us well unless we make them look bad. There is a law for all humanity that exists before public opinion. All other laws should submit to this unyielding principle; it judges public opinion, and only to the extent that people's respect aligns with this law does it deserve our obedience.

This law is our individual conscience. I will not repeat what has been said already; it is enough to point out that if these two laws clash, the education of women will always be imperfect. Right feeling without respect for public opinion will not give them that delicacy of soul which lends to right conduct the charm of social approval; while respect for public opinion without right feeling will only make false and wicked women who put appearances in the place of virtue.

This law represents our personal conscience. I won’t go over what’s already been said; it’s enough to highlight that if these two laws conflict, women’s education will always be lacking. Having the right emotions without considering public opinion won’t give them the sensitivity necessary for their actions to be socially approved; on the other hand, respecting public opinion without having the right emotions will only create dishonest and immoral women who value appearances over true virtue.

It is, therefore, important to cultivate a faculty which serves as judge between the two guides, which does not permit conscience to go astray and corrects the errors of prejudice. That faculty is reason. But what a crowd of questions arise at this word. Are women capable of solid reason; should they cultivate it, can they cultivate it successfully? Is this culture useful in relation to the functions laid upon them? Is it compatible with becoming simplicity?

It’s important to develop a skill that acts as a judge between the two guides, one that doesn’t allow conscience to go off track and corrects the mistakes of bias. That skill is reason. But so many questions come up when we think about this term. Are women capable of solid reasoning? Should they work on it? Can they do it successfully? Is this development useful for the roles expected of them? Is it compatible with being genuinely simple?

The different ways of envisaging and answering these questions lead to two extremes; some would have us keep women indoors sewing and spinning with their maids; thus they make them nothing more than the chief servant of their master. Others, not content to secure their rights, lead them to usurp ours; for to make woman our superior in all the qualities proper to her sex, and to make her our equal in all the rest, what is this but to transfer to the woman the superiority which nature has given to her husband? The reason which teaches a man his duties is not very complex; the reason which teaches a woman hers is even simpler. The obedience and fidelity which she owes to her husband, the tenderness and care due to her children, are such natural and self-evident consequences of her position that she cannot honestly refuse her consent to the inner voice which is her guide, nor fail to discern her duty in her natural inclination.

The different ways of thinking about and answering these questions lead to two extremes; some want to keep women indoors, sewing and spinning with their maids, essentially reducing them to just the chief servant of their master. Others, not satisfied with claiming their own rights, push women to take over ours; for to make women superior in all the qualities suited to their gender, and to make them equal in everything else, is simply shifting the superiority that nature has given to their husbands onto women. The reasoning that teaches a man his responsibilities isn't very complicated; the reasoning that teaches a woman hers is even simpler. The obedience and loyalty she owes to her husband, along with the love and care she must provide for her children, are such natural and obvious outcomes of her role that she can't honestly deny her inner voice that guides her, nor can she fail to recognize her duty in her natural inclinations.

I would not altogether blame those who would restrict a woman to the labours of her sex and would leave her in profound ignorance of everything else; but that would require a standard of morality at once very simple and very healthy, or a life withdrawn from the world. In great towns, among immoral men, such a woman would be too easily led astray; her virtue would too often be at the mercy of circumstances; in this age of philosophy, virtue must be able to resist temptation; she must know beforehand what she may hear and what she should think of it.

I can't entirely blame those who want to limit a woman to her traditional roles and keep her in the dark about everything else; but that would need a very straightforward and healthy moral standard, or a life removed from society. In big cities, around immoral people, such a woman could easily be led astray; her virtue would often be at the mercy of situations. In this age of ideas, virtue needs to be able to withstand temptation; she must be aware in advance of what she might encounter and how she should respond to it.

Moreover, in submission to man’s judgment she should deserve his esteem; above all she should obtain the esteem of her husband; she should not only make him love her person, she should make him approve her conduct; she should justify his choice before the world, and do honour to her husband through the honour given to the wife. But how can she set about this task if she is ignorant of our institutions, our customs, our notions of propriety, if she knows nothing of the source of man’s judgment, nor the passions by which it is swayed! Since she depends both on her own conscience and on public opinion, she must learn to know and reconcile these two laws, and to put her own conscience first only when the two are opposed to each other. She becomes the judge of her own judges, she decides when she should obey and when she should refuse her obedience. She weighs their prejudices before she accepts or rejects them; she learns to trace them to their source, to foresee what they will be, and to turn them in her own favour; she is careful never to give cause for blame if duty allows her to avoid it. This cannot be properly done without cultivating her mind and reason.

Also, to earn a man’s respect, she should be worthy of it; most importantly, she needs to gain her husband’s admiration. She shouldn’t just make him love her as a person; she should also make him approve of her behavior. She needs to validate his choice in front of society and elevate her husband through the respect given to her as his wife. But how can she take on this challenge if she is unaware of our institutions, customs, and views on propriety, if she knows nothing about the basis of a man's judgment and the emotions that influence it? Since she relies on her own conscience and public opinion, she must learn to understand and balance these two principles, prioritizing her own conscience only when they conflict. She becomes the judge of her own judges, deciding when to comply and when to refuse compliance. She assesses their biases before she accepts or dismisses them; she learns to trace their origins, anticipate what they will be, and manipulate them to her advantage. She is careful never to give reason for criticism if her obligations allow her to avoid it. This can’t be done properly without developing her intellect and reasoning.

I always come back to my first principle and it supplies the solution of all my difficulties. I study what is, I seek its cause, and I discover in the end that what is, is good. I go to houses where the master and mistress do the honours together. They are equally well educated, equally polite, equally well equipped with wit and good taste, both of them are inspired with the same desire to give their guests a good reception and to send every one away satisfied. The husband omits no pains to be attentive to every one; he comes and goes and sees to every one and takes all sorts of trouble; he is attention itself. The wife remains in her place; a little circle gathers round her and apparently conceals the rest of the company from her; yet she sees everything that goes on, no one goes without a word with her; she has omitted nothing which might interest anybody, she has said nothing unpleasant to any one, and without any fuss the least is no more overlooked than the greatest. Dinner is announced, they take their places; the man knowing the assembled guests will place them according to his knowledge; the wife, without previous acquaintance, never makes a mistake; their looks and bearing have already shown her what is wanted and every one will find himself where he wishes to be. I do not assert that the servants forget no one. The master of the house may have omitted no one, but the mistress perceives what you like and sees that you get it; while she is talking to her neighbour she has one eye on the other end of the table; she sees who is not eating because he is not hungry and who is afraid to help himself because he is clumsy and timid. When the guests leave the table every one thinks she has had no thought but for him, everybody thinks she has had no time to eat anything, but she has really eaten more than anybody.

I always return to my guiding principle, which provides the answer to all my challenges. I observe what exists, investigate its origins, and ultimately find that what exists is good. I visit homes where both the hosts are equally involved in entertaining. They are both well-educated, polite, and possess a good sense of humor and taste; each is dedicated to ensuring their guests are warmly welcomed and leave satisfied. The husband spares no effort to attend to everyone; he moves around, checks on guests, and takes great pains to be attentive—he’s the epitome of hospitality. The wife stays in her spot, surrounded by a small circle that seemingly hides the rest of the guests from her view; yet she notices everything happening, and everyone has a word with her. She doesn't overlook anything that might interest anyone, hasn't said anything rude, and effortlessly acknowledges both the smallest and largest details. When dinner is announced, they take their seats; the husband, knowing the guests well, arranges them accordingly; the wife, without previous acquaintances, never makes a mistake. Her observations and demeanor have already indicated what is needed, and everyone ends up where they want to be. I don’t claim that the servants miss anyone either. While the master of the house may make sure no one is overlooked, it's the mistress who picks up on your preferences and ensures you get what you desire; while chatting with one guest, she keeps an eye on the other end of the table, noticing who isn’t eating because they’re not hungry and who holds back because they feel awkward and shy. When the guests leave the table, everyone thinks she has focused solely on them, believing she had no time to eat, yet she has actually consumed more than anyone else.

When the guests are gone, husband and wife tails over the events of the evening. He relates what was said to him, what was said and done by those with whom he conversed. If the lady is not always quite exact in this respect, yet on the other hand she perceived what was whispered at the other end of the room; she knows what so-and-so thought, and what was the meaning of this speech or that gesture; there is scarcely a change of expression for which she has not an explanation in readiness, and she is almost always right.

When the guests have left, husband and wife reflect on the events of the evening. He shares what was said to him and what happened during his conversations. While she might not always remember every detail perfectly, she picked up on what was whispered across the room; she understands what someone thought and the meaning behind certain comments or gestures. There’s hardly a change in expression that she doesn’t have an explanation for, and she’s almost always correct.

The same turn of mind which makes a woman of the world such an excellent hostess, enables a flirt to excel in the art of amusing a number of suitors. Coquetry, cleverly carried out, demands an even finer discernment than courtesy; provided a polite lady is civil to everybody, she has done fairly well in any case; but the flirt would soon lose her hold by such clumsy uniformity; if she tries to be pleasant to all her lovers alike, she will disgust them all. In ordinary social intercourse the manners adopted towards everybody are good enough for all; no question is asked as to private likes or dislikes provided all are alike well received. But in love, a favour shared with others is an insult. A man of feeling would rather be singled out for ill-treatment than be caressed with the crowd, and the worst that can befall him is to be treated like every one else. So a woman who wants to keep several lovers at her feet must persuade every one of them that she prefers him, and she must contrive to do this in the sight of all the rest, each of whom is equally convinced that he is her favourite.

The same mindset that makes a worldly woman a great hostess helps a flirt to master the art of entertaining multiple suitors. Skilled coquetry requires even sharper insight than simple courtesy; a polite woman can be nice to everyone and do reasonably well, but a flirt would quickly lose her appeal with such awkward uniformity. If she tries to treat all her lovers the same, she will turn them all off. In regular social interactions, the manners shown to everyone are usually acceptable; no one questions personal preferences as long as everyone feels welcomed. But in love, sharing affection with others feels like an insult. A sensitive man would prefer to be treated poorly than to be adored along with the crowd, and the worst thing that can happen to him is to be treated like everyone else. Therefore, a woman who wants to keep several lovers at her feet must make each of them believe that she prefers him, and she must do this while all the others are watching, each of whom is equally convinced that he is her favorite.

If you want to see a man in a quandary, place him between two women with each of whom he has a secret understanding, and see what a fool he looks. But put a woman in similar circumstances between two men, and the results will be even more remarkable; you will be astonished at the skill with which she cheats them both, and makes them laugh at each other. Now if that woman were to show the same confidence in both, if she were to be equally familiar with both, how could they be deceived for a moment? If she treated them alike, would she not show that they both had the same claims upon her? Oh, she is far too clever for that; so far from treating them just alike, she makes a marked difference between them, and she does it so skilfully that the man she flatters thinks it is affection, and the man she ill uses think it is spite. So that each of them believes she is thinking of him, when she is thinking of no one but herself.

If you want to see a guy in a tough spot, put him between two women with whom he has a private connection, and watch how foolish he looks. But put a woman in the same situation between two men, and the outcome will be even more impressive; you'll be amazed at how she plays both of them and gets them to laugh at each other. Now, if that woman were to treat both men equally and be familiar with both, how could they possibly be fooled for even a second? If she treated them the same, wouldn't it show that they both have equal claims on her? Oh, she's way too smart for that; instead of treating them the same, she creates a clear distinction between them, and she does it so skillfully that the guy she flatters thinks it’s love, and the guy she mistreats thinks it’s resentment. So, each of them believes she’s focused on him, when she’s really only thinking about herself.

A general desire to please suggests similar measures; people would be disgusted with a woman’s whims if they were not skilfully managed, and when they are artistically distributed her servants are more than ever enslaved.

A common desire to please implies similar actions; people would be put off by a woman's whims if they weren't handled skillfully, and when they are artfully managed, her servants become even more enslaved.

     “Usa ogn’arte la donna, onde sia colto
     Nella sua rete alcun novello amante;
     Ne con tutti, ne sempre un stesso volto
     Serba; ma cangia a tempo atto e sembiante.”
           Tasso, Jerus. Del., c. iv., v. 87.
“Use your charm, woman, to catch a new lover in your net; she doesn’t always keep the same face, but changes her appearance and demeanor in time.”  
           Tasso, Jerus. Del., c. iv., v. 87.

What is the secret of this art? Is it not the result of a delicate and continuous observation which shows her what is taking place in a man’s heart, so that she is able to encourage or to check every hidden impulse? Can this art be acquired? No; it is born with women; it is common to them all, and men never show it to the same degree. It is one of the distinctive characters of the sex. Self-possession, penetration, delicate observation, this is a woman’s science; the skill to make use of it is her chief accomplishment.

What’s the secret behind this skill? Isn’t it the result of careful and ongoing observation that allows her to understand what’s going on in a man’s heart, enabling her to support or suppress every hidden impulse? Can this skill be learned? No; it’s something women are born with; it’s inherent to all of them, and men never demonstrate it to the same extent. It’s one of the defining traits of women. Composure, insight, and keen observation—this is a woman’s expertise; knowing how to utilize it is her greatest achievement.

This is what is, and we have seen why it is so. It is said that women are false. They become false. They are really endowed with skill not duplicity; in the genuine inclinations of their sex they are not false even when they tell a lie. Why do you consult their words when it is not their mouths that speak? Consult their eyes, their colour, their breathing, their timid manner, their slight resistance, that is the language nature gave them for your answer. The lips always say “No,” and rightly so; but the tone is not always the same, and that cannot lie. Has not a woman the same needs as a man, but without the same right to make them known? Her fate would be too cruel if she had no language in which to express her legitimate desires except the words which she dare not utter. Must her modesty condemn her to misery? Does she not require a means of indicating her inclinations without open expression? What skill is needed to hide from her lover what she would fain reveal! Is it not of vital importance that she should learn to touch his heart without showing that she cares for him? It is a pretty story that tale of Galatea with her apple and her clumsy flight. What more is needed? Will she tell the shepherd who pursues her among the willows that she only flees that he may follow? If she did, it would be a lie; for she would no longer attract him. The more modest a woman is, the more art she needs, even with her husband. Yes, I maintain that coquetry, kept within bounds, becomes modest and true, and out of it springs a law of right conduct.

This is how things are, and we've seen why they are that way. People say women are dishonest. They become dishonest. In reality, they possess skill instead of deceit; in their true feelings, they aren't dishonest even when they lie. Why rely on their words when it’s not really their mouths doing the talking? Pay attention to their eyes, their color, their breathing, their shy manner, their slight resistance—these are the ways nature has given them to communicate. Their lips often say “No,” and that’s fair enough; but their tone doesn't always convey the same meaning, and that doesn’t lie. Doesn’t a woman have the same needs as a man, but without the same opportunity to express them? Her situation would be too harsh if the only way she could communicate her legitimate desires was through

One of my opponents has very truly asserted that virtue is one; you cannot disintegrate it and choose this and reject the other. If you love virtue, you love it in its entirety, and you close your heart when you can, and you always close your lips to the feelings which you ought not to allow. Moral truth is not only what is, but what is good; what is bad ought not to be, and ought not to be confessed, especially when that confession produces results which might have been avoided. If I were tempted to steal, and in confessing it I tempted another to become my accomplice, the very confession of my temptation would amount to a yielding to that temptation. Why do you say that modesty makes women false? Are those who lose their modesty more sincere than the rest? Not so, they are a thousandfold more deceitful. This degree of depravity is due to many vices, none of which is rejected, vices which owe their power to intrigue and falsehood. [Footnote: I know that women who have openly decided on a certain course of conduct profess that their lack of concealment is a virtue in itself, and swear that, with one exception, they are possessed of all the virtues; but I am sure they never persuaded any but fools to believe them. When the natural curb is removed from their sex, what is there left to restrain them? What honour will they prize when they have rejected the honour of their sex? Having once given the rein to passion they have no longer any reason for self-control. “Nec femina, amissa pudicitia, alia abnuerit.” No author ever understood more thoroughly the heart of both sexes than Tacitus when he wrote those words.]

One of my opponents has correctly pointed out that virtue is singular; you can’t break it apart and pick one part while rejecting another. If you love virtue, you embrace it totally, and you guard your heart and hold back your words in situations where you shouldn’t express certain feelings. Moral truth isn't just about what exists; it's about what is right. What is wrong shouldn't exist, and it definitely shouldn't be admitted, especially when that admission leads to outcomes that could have been avoided. If I was tempted to steal, and by confessing my temptation I made someone else my accomplice, then confessing my temptation would actually mean giving in to that temptation. Why do you claim that modesty makes women insincere? Are those who lose their modesty more genuine than others? Not at all; they are actually a thousand times more deceptive. This level of corruption stems from many vices, none of which are rejected, and these vices draw their power from intrigue and deceit. [Footnote: I know that women who have openly chosen a certain way to live claim that their transparency is a virtue in itself, insisting that, aside from one exception, they possess all the virtues; but I’m sure they’ve only convinced fools of that. When the natural checks on their behavior are gone, what will hold them back? What honor will they value after discarding the honor of their gender? Once they give in to passion, they have no reason for self-restraint. “Nec femina, amissa pudicitia, alia abnuerit.” No one understood the hearts of both genders better than Tacitus when he wrote those words.]

On the other hand, those who are not utterly shameless, who take no pride in their faults, who are able to conceal their desires even from those who inspire them, those who confess their passion most reluctantly, these are the truest and most sincere, these are they on whose fidelity you may generally rely.

On the other hand, those who aren’t completely shameless, who don’t take pride in their flaws, who can hide their desires even from those who trigger them, and those who admit their passion only with hesitation, these are the most genuine and sincere. These are the ones you can usually count on for loyalty.

The only example I know which might be quoted as a recognised exception to these remarks is Mlle. de L’Enclos; and she was considered a prodigy. In her scorn for the virtues of women, she practised, so they say, the virtues of a man. She is praised for her frankness and uprightness; she was a trustworthy acquaintance and a faithful friend. To complete the picture of her glory it is said that she became a man. That may be, but in spite of her high reputation I should no more desire that man as my friend than as my mistress.

The only example I can think of that might be seen as a recognized exception to these comments is Mlle. de L’Enclos, who was considered a prodigy. In her disdain for the virtues of women, she supposedly practiced the virtues of a man. She is celebrated for her honesty and integrity; she was a reliable friend and a loyal companion. To add to her legendary status, it’s said that she became a man. That might be true, but despite her esteemed reputation, I wouldn't want that man as my friend any more than I would want her as my lover.

This is not so irrelevant as it seems. I am aware of the tendencies of our modern philosophy which make a jest of female modesty and its so-called insincerity; I also perceive that the most certain result of this philosophy will be to deprive the women of this century of such shreds of honour as they still possess.

This isn't as trivial as it appears. I'm aware of the trends in our modern philosophy that mock female modesty and its so-called insincerity; I also see that the most certain outcome of this philosophy will be to strip women of this century of the bits of honor they still have.

On these grounds I think we may decide in general terms what sort of education is suited to the female mind, and the objects to which we should turn its attention in early youth.

On this basis, I believe we can generally determine what kind of education is appropriate for women and the topics we should focus on in their early development.

As I have already said, the duties of their sex are more easily recognised than performed. They must learn in the first place to love those duties by considering the advantages to be derived from them—that is the only way to make duty easy. Every age and condition has its own duties. We are quick to see our duty if we love it. Honour your position as a woman, and in whatever station of life to which it shall please heaven to call you, you will be well off. The essential thing is to be what nature has made you; women are only too ready to be what men would have them.

As I've already mentioned, the responsibilities of their gender are more easily recognized than carried out. They need to first learn to embrace these responsibilities by understanding the benefits that come from them—that's the only way to make duty manageable. Each age and situation has its own set of responsibilities. We quickly see our duty when we love it. Respect your role as a woman, and no matter what position in life heaven chooses for you, you will thrive. The most important thing is to be true to what nature has made you; women often too readily conform to what men want them to be.

The search for abstract and speculative truths, for principles and axioms in science, for all that tends to wide generalisation, is beyond a woman’s grasp; their studies should be thoroughly practical. It is their business to apply the principles discovered by men, it is their place to make the observations which lead men to discover those principles. A woman’s thoughts, beyond the range of her immediate duties, should be directed to the study of men, or the acquirement of that agreeable learning whose sole end is the formation of taste; for the works of genius are beyond her reach, and she has neither the accuracy nor the attention for success in the exact sciences; as for the physical sciences, to decide the relations between living creatures and the laws of nature is the task of that sex which is more active and enterprising, which sees more things, that sex which is possessed of greater strength and is more accustomed to the exercise of that strength. Woman, weak as she is and limited in her range of observation, perceives and judges the forces at her disposal to supplement her weakness, and those forces are the passions of man. Her own mechanism is more powerful than ours; she has many levers which may set the human heart in motion. She must find a way to make us desire what she cannot achieve unaided and what she considers necessary or pleasing; therefore she must have a thorough knowledge of man’s mind; not an abstract knowledge of the mind of man in general, but the mind of those men who are about her, the mind of those men who have authority over her, either by law or custom. She must learn to divine their feelings from speech and action, look and gesture. By her own speech and action, look and gesture, she must be able to inspire them with the feelings she desires, without seeming to have any such purpose. The men will have a better philosophy of the human heart, but she will read more accurately in the heart of men. Woman should discover, so to speak, an experimental morality, man should reduce it to a system. Woman has more wit, man more genius; woman observes, man reasons; together they provide the clearest light and the profoundest knowledge which is possible to the unaided human mind; in a word, the surest knowledge of self and of others of which the human race is capable. In this way art may constantly tend to the perfection of the instrument which nature has given us.

The search for abstract and speculative truths, principles and axioms in science, and everything that tends toward broad generalizations is beyond a woman’s reach; her studies should focus on practical matters. It’s her role to apply the principles discovered by men and to make the observations that lead men to discover those principles. A woman’s thoughts, beyond her immediate responsibilities, should be directed toward understanding men or gaining knowledge that simply enhances her taste; the works of genius are out of her reach, and she lacks the precision and focus needed to succeed in exact sciences. As for the physical sciences, determining the relationships between living things and the laws of nature is a task better suited for those who are more active and adventurous, who observe more, and possess greater strength and are more accustomed to using that strength. A woman, limited in her range of observation and generally weaker, perceives and assesses the forces she can use to compensate for her weaknesses, which are the passions of men. Her own abilities are more powerful than ours; she has many ways to influence the human heart. She needs to find out how to make us desire what she can’t achieve on her own and what she considers necessary or appealing; therefore, she must have a deep understanding of men’s minds—not just a general knowledge of men in abstract, but the minds of the men around her, especially those in positions of power over her, by law or tradition. She must learn to interpret their feelings through their words, actions, looks, and gestures. Through her own words, actions, looks, and gestures, she must be able to evoke the feelings she desires in them, without making her intentions obvious. Men may have a better philosophy of the human heart, but she will read men’s hearts more accurately. Women should develop, so to speak, an experimental morality, while men should organize it into a system. Women are more insightful, while men have more genius; women observe, men reason. Together, they provide the clearest insight and the deepest knowledge possible for the unaided human mind; in short, the best understanding of oneself and of others that human beings can achieve. In this way, art can continually strive for the perfection of the tools nature has given us.

The world is woman’s book; if she reads it ill, it is either her own fault or she is blinded by passion. Yet the genuine mother of a family is no woman of the world, she is almost as much of a recluse as the nun in her convent. Those who have marriageable daughters should do what is or ought to be done for those who are entering the cloisters: they should show them the pleasures they forsake before they are allowed to renounce them, lest the deceitful picture of unknown pleasures should creep in to disturb the happiness of their retreat. In France it is the girls who live in convents and the wives who flaunt in society. Among the ancients it was quite otherwise; girls enjoyed, as I have said already, many games and public festivals; the married women lived in retirement. This was a more reasonable custom and more conducive to morality. A girl may be allowed a certain amount of coquetry, and she may be mainly occupied at amusement. A wife has other responsibilities at home, and she is no longer on the look-out for a husband; but women would not appreciate the change, and unluckily it is they who set the fashion. Mothers, let your daughters be your companions. Give them good sense and an honest heart, and then conceal from them nothing that a pure eye may behold. Balls, assemblies, sports, the theatre itself; everything which viewed amiss delights imprudent youth may be safely displayed to a healthy mind. The more they know of these noisy pleasures, the sooner they will cease to desire them.

The world is a woman's book; if she reads it poorly, it’s either her own fault or she’s blinded by passion. However, the true mother of a family is not a worldly woman; she’s almost as much of a recluse as a nun in her convent. Those with daughters of marriageable age should do what is or should be done for those entering the convent: they should show them the pleasures they are about to give up before they make that choice, so the deceptive idea of unknown pleasures doesn’t creep in to upset their happiness. In France, it’s the girls who live in convents and the wives who shine in society. In ancient times, it was the opposite; girls enjoyed many games and public festivals, while married women stayed home. This was a more reasonable custom and better for morality. A girl might be allowed some flirtation and mostly be focused on fun. A wife has other responsibilities at home and is no longer looking for a husband; but women wouldn’t appreciate this change, and unfortunately, they are the ones who set the trends. Mothers, let your daughters be your friends. Give them good sense and honest hearts, and then hide nothing from them that a pure eye can see. Balls, gatherings, sports, even the theater; everything that, seen the wrong way, might tempt foolish youth can be safely shown to a healthy mind. The more they know about these loud pleasures, the sooner they will stop wanting them.

I can fancy the outcry with which this will be received. What girl will resist such an example? Their heads are turned by the first glimpse of the world; not one of them is ready to give it up. That may be; but before you showed them this deceitful prospect, did you prepare them to behold it without emotion? Did you tell them plainly what it was they would see? Did you show it in its true light? Did you arm them against the illusions of vanity? Did you inspire their young hearts with a taste for the true pleasures which are not to be met with in this tumult? What precautions, what steps, did you take to preserve them from the false taste which leads them astray? Not only have you done nothing to preserve their minds from the tyranny of prejudice, you have fostered that prejudice; you have taught them to desire every foolish amusement they can get. Your own example is their teacher. Young people on their entrance into society have no guide but their mother, who is often just as silly as they are themselves, and quite unable to show them things except as she sees them herself. Her example is stronger than reason; it justifies them in their own eyes, and the mother’s authority is an unanswerable excuse for the daughter. If I ask a mother to bring her daughter into society, I assume that she will show it in its true light.

I can imagine the uproar this will cause. What girl will resist such an example? Their heads are spun by the first taste of the world; none of them are ready to let it go. That might be true; but before you showed them this misleading outlook, did you prepare them to see it without getting swept away? Did you tell them clearly what they would encounter? Did you present it in an honest way? Did you equip them to resist the illusions of vanity? Did you inspire their young hearts with an appreciation for the real pleasures that can’t be found in this chaos? What precautions, what steps, did you take to keep them from the false desires that lead them astray? Not only have you done nothing to protect their minds from the grip of prejudice, you’ve encouraged that prejudice; you’ve taught them to crave every silly entertainment they can find. Your own example is their guide. Young people entering society have no mentor but their mother, who is often just as naive as they are and unable to show them things except how she sees them. Her example is more powerful than reason; it validates them in their own eyes, and the mother’s authority is an unquestionable excuse for the daughter. If I ask a mother to introduce her daughter to society, I expect that she will show it in its true light.

The evil begins still earlier; the convents are regular schools of coquetry; not that honest coquetry which I have described, but a coquetry the source of every kind of misconduct, a coquetry which turns out girls who are the most ridiculous little madams. When they leave the convent to take their place in smart society, young women find themselves quite at home. They have been educated for such a life; is it strange that they like it? I am afraid what I am going to say may be based on prejudice rather than observation, but so far as I can see, one finds more family affection, more good wives and loving mothers in Protestant than in Catholic countries; if that is so, we cannot fail to suspect that the difference is partly due to the convent schools.

The trouble starts even earlier; the convents are just like schools for flirtation. Not the genuine kind of flirtation I've mentioned, but a flirtation that leads to all sorts of wrong behavior, creating girls who become the most ridiculous little divas. When they leave the convent to enter fashionable society, young women feel completely at home. They've been trained for that life; is it surprising they enjoy it? I worry that what I'm about to say may be more about bias than actual observation, but from what I can see, there seems to be more family affection, better wives, and loving mothers in Protestant countries than in Catholic ones. If that's true, we can't help but think that part of the difference is because of the convent schools.

The charms of a peaceful family life must be known to be enjoyed; their delights should be tasted in childhood. It is only in our father’s home that we learn to love our own, and a woman whose mother did not educate her herself will not be willing to educate her own children. Unfortunately, there is no such thing as home education in our large towns. Society is so general and so mixed there is no place left for retirement, and even in the home we live in public. We live in company till we have no family, and we scarcely know our own relations, we see them as strangers; and the simplicity of home life disappears together with the sweet familiarity which was its charm. In this wise do we draw with our mother’s milk a taste for the pleasures of the age and the maxims by which it is controlled.

The joys of a peaceful family life need to be experienced to be appreciated; we should savor them in childhood. It's only in our father's home that we learn to love our own, and a woman whose mother didn't raise her will be reluctant to raise her own kids. Unfortunately, home education is nonexistent in our big cities. Society is so broad and so mixed that there's no room for privacy, and even in our own homes, we live publicly. We hang out with others so much that we hardly know our own family; we see them as strangers, and the simplicity of home life fades away along with the sweet familiarity that made it special. In this way, we absorb a taste for the pleasures of the time and the principles that govern them, just as we do from our mother's milk.

Girls are compelled to assume an air of propriety so that men may be deceived into marrying them by their appearance. But watch these young people for a moment; under a pretence of coyness they barely conceal the passion which devours them, and already you may read in their eager eyes their desire to imitate their mothers. It is not a husband they want, but the licence of a married woman. What need of a husband when there are so many other resources; but a husband there must be to act as a screen. [Footnote: The way of a man in his youth was one of the four things that the sage could not understand; the fifth was the shamelessness of an adulteress. “Quae comedit, et tergens os suum dicit; non sum operata malum.” Prov. xxx. 20.] There is modesty on the brow, but vice in the heart; this sham modesty is one of its outward signs; they affect it that they may be rid of it once for all. Women of Paris and London, forgive me! There may be miracles everywhere, but I am not aware of them; and if there is even one among you who is really pure in heart, I know nothing of our institutions.

Girls feel pressured to act proper so that men are tricked into marrying them based on their looks. But take a moment to observe these young people; beneath their act of shyness, they barely hide the intense desire that consumes them, and you can already see in their eager eyes their wish to mimic their mothers. They don’t truly want a husband; they crave the freedom that comes with being married. Why would they need a husband when there are so many other options? But a husband is necessary to provide a façade. [Footnote: The behavior of a young man was one of the four things that the sage couldn’t grasp; the fifth was the shamelessness of an adulteress. “She eats, and wiping her mouth, says; I have done no wrong.” Prov. xxx. 20.] There’s modesty on the surface, but vice in the heart; this false modesty is one of its visible signs; they pretend to uphold it so they can be free of it for good. Women of Paris and London, forgive me! There may be miracles everywhere, but I haven't seen them; and if there’s even one among you who is genuinely pure in heart, I know nothing of our society.

All these different methods of education lead alike to a taste for the pleasures of the great world, and to the passions which this taste so soon kindles. In our great towns depravity begins at birth; in the smaller towns it begins with reason. Young women brought up in the country are soon taught to despise the happy simplicity of their lives, and hasten to Paris to share the corruption of ours. Vices, cloaked under the fair name of accomplishments, are the sole object of their journey; ashamed to find themselves so much behind the noble licence of the Parisian ladies, they hasten to become worthy of the name of Parisian. Which is responsible for the evil—the place where it begins, or the place where it is accomplished?

All these different ways of educating people lead to a liking for the pleasures of the wider world and to the desires that this liking quickly ignites. In big cities, corruption starts at birth; in smaller towns, it begins with awareness. Young women raised in the countryside are quickly taught to look down on the simple joys of their lives, rushing to Paris to partake in our corruption. Vices, disguised as skills, are the only purpose of their trip; embarrassed to find themselves lagging behind the freedoms of the Parisian women, they hurry to prove themselves worthy of the title “Parisian.” Which is to blame for the harm—the place where it starts, or the place where it is fulfilled?

I would not have a sensible mother bring her girl to Paris to show her these sights so harmful to others; but I assert that if she did so, either the girl has been badly brought up, or such sights have little danger for her. With good taste, good sense, and a love of what is right, these things are less attractive than to those who abandon themselves to their charm. In Paris you may see giddy young things hastening to adopt the tone and fashions of the town for some six months, so that they may spend the rest of their life in disgrace; but who gives any heed to those who, disgusted with the rout, return to their distant home and are contented with their lot when they have compared it with that which others desire. How many young wives have I seen whose good-natured husbands have taken them to Paris where they might live if they pleased; but they have shrunk from it and returned home more willingly than they went, saying tenderly, “Ah, let us go back to our cottage, life is happier there than in these palaces.” We do not know how many there are who have not bowed the knee to Baal, who scorn his senseless worship. Fools make a stir; good women pass unnoticed.

I wouldn't want a sensible mother to take her daughter to Paris to see sights that are harmful to others; but I maintain that if she did, either the girl has been poorly raised, or those sights are not very dangerous for her. With good taste, common sense, and a love of what's right, these things are less appealing than to those who indulge in their allure. In Paris, you can see naive young people rushing to adopt the city's style and trends for a few months, only to spend the rest of their lives in disgrace; but who pays attention to those who, tired of the chaos, return to their distant homes and are happy with their lives when they compare it to what others seek? I've seen so many young wives whose kind husbands have taken them to Paris, where they could live if they wanted; but they've recoiled from it and returned home more eagerly than they left, saying affectionately, “Ah, let's go back to our cottage; life is happier there than in these palaces.” We don't know how many haven't bowed to Baal, who disdain his meaningless worship. Fools make a scene; good women go unnoticed.

If so many women preserve a judgment which is proof against temptation, in spite of universal prejudice, in spite of the bad education of girls, what would their judgment have been, had it been strengthened by suitable instruction, or rather left unaffected by evil teaching, for to preserve or restore the natural feelings is our main business? You can do this without preaching endless sermons to your daughters, without crediting them with your harsh morality. The only effect of such teaching is to inspire a dislike for the teacher and the lessons. In talking to a young girl you need not make her afraid of her duties, nor need you increase the burden laid upon her by nature. When you explain her duties speak plainly and pleasantly; do not let her suppose that the performance of these duties is a dismal thing—away with every affectation of disgust or pride. Every thought which we desire to arouse should find its expression in our pupils, their catechism of conduct should be as brief and plain as their catechism of religion, but it need not be so serious. Show them that these same duties are the source of their pleasures and the basis of their rights. Is it so hard to win love by love, happiness by an amiable disposition, obedience by worth, and honour by self-respect? How fair are these woman’s rights, how worthy of reverence, how dear to the heart of man when a woman is able to show their worth! These rights are no privilege of years; a woman’s empire begins with her virtues; her charms are only in the bud, yet she reigns already by the gentleness of her character and the dignity of her modesty. Is there any man so hard-hearted and uncivilised that he does not abate his pride and take heed to his manners with a sweet and virtuous girl of sixteen, who listens but says little; her bearing is modest, her conversation honest, her beauty does not lead her to forget her sex and her youth, her very timidity arouses interest, while she wins for herself the respect which she shows to others?

If so many women maintain a judgment that stands strong against temptation despite widespread bias and poor education for girls, imagine how their judgment would be if it were supported by proper instruction or, even better, left unaffected by negative teachings. Our main goal is to preserve or restore their natural feelings. You can do this without giving long lectures to your daughters or imposing your strict morals on them. Such teaching only leads to a dislike for the teacher and the lessons. When talking to a young girl, you don’t need to make her fear her responsibilities or add to the burdens imposed by nature. When you explain her duties, be clear and friendly; don’t let her think that fulfilling these responsibilities is a gloomy task—eliminate any pretenses of disgust or pride. Every idea you want to inspire should be reflected in your students; their code of conduct should be as simple and straightforward as their religious teachings, but it doesn't have to be solemn. Show them that those same responsibilities are the source of their joy and the foundation of their rights. Is it really that difficult to earn love through love, to find happiness through a pleasant attitude, to gain obedience through merit, and to receive honor through self-respect? How beautiful are a woman's rights, how deserving of respect, how precious to the heart of a man when a woman can demonstrate their value! These rights aren’t based on age; a woman’s influence begins with her virtues. Her attractiveness may still be developing, yet she already holds power through her gentle nature and the dignity of her modesty. Is there any man so hardened and uncultured that he doesn’t soften his pride and mind his manners around a sweet and virtuous sixteen-year-old girl who listens more than she speaks? Her demeanor is modest, her conversation sincere, and her beauty doesn’t lead her to forget her femininity and youth; her very shyness sparks interest, while she earns the respect that she shows to others.

These external signs are not devoid of meaning; they do not rest entirely upon the charms of sense; they arise from that conviction that we all feel that women are the natural judges of a man’s worth. Who would be scorned by women? not even he who has ceased to desire their love. And do you suppose that I, who tell them such harsh truths, am indifferent to their verdict? Reader, I care more for their approval than for yours; you are often more effeminate than they. While I scorn their morals, I will revere their justice; I care not though they hate me, if I can compel their esteem.

These external signs have meaning; they aren't just based on sensory appeal. They come from the shared belief that women are natural judges of a man's worth. Who would want to be looked down on by women? Not even someone who has stopped wanting their love. And do you think that I, who share these harsh truths with them, don't care about their opinions? Reader, I value their approval more than yours; you can be more sensitive than they are. While I may criticize their morals, I respect their sense of justice; I don't mind if they dislike me, as long as I can earn their respect.

What great things might be accomplished by their influence if only we could bring it to bear! Alas for the age whose women lose their ascendancy, and fail to make men respect their judgment! This is the last stage of degradation. Every virtuous nation has shown respect to women. Consider Sparta, Germany, and Rome; Rome the throne of glory and virtue, if ever they were enthroned on earth. The Roman women awarded honour to the deeds of great generals, they mourned in public for the fathers of the country, their awards and their tears were alike held sacred as the most solemn utterance of the Republic. Every great revolution began with the women. Through a woman Rome gained her liberty, through a woman the plebeians won the consulate, through a woman the tyranny of the decemvirs was overthrown; it was the women who saved Rome when besieged by Coriolanus. What would you have said at the sight of this procession, you Frenchmen who pride yourselves on your gallantry, would you not have followed it with shouts of laughter? You and I see things with such different eyes, and perhaps we are both right. Such a procession formed of the fairest beauties of France would be an indecent spectacle; but let it consist of Roman ladies, you will all gaze with the eyes of the Volscians and feel with the heart of Coriolanus.

What amazing things could be achieved by their influence if we could just harness it! It's unfortunate for an era when women lose their power and fail to earn men’s respect for their judgment. This is the lowest point of decline. Every virtuous nation has respected women. Think about Sparta, Germany, and Rome; Rome, the peak of glory and virtue, if anything ever was on earth. Roman women honored the achievements of great generals, publicly mourned for the fathers of their country, and their honors and tears were both regarded as the most sacred expressions of the Republic. Every major revolution started with women. Rome gained its freedom through a woman, the plebeians won the consulate through a woman, and the tyranny of the decemvirs was toppled because of a woman; it was women who saved Rome when Coriolanus laid siege. What would you have thought witnessing this procession, you Frenchmen who take pride in your chivalry? Would you not have followed it with laughter? You and I view things through such different perspectives, and perhaps we are both right. A procession made up of the most beautiful women in France would be seen as indecent; but if it featured Roman ladies, you would all watch with the eyes of the Volscians and feel with the heart of Coriolanus.

I will go further and maintain that virtue is no less favourable to love than to other rights of nature, and that it adds as much to the power of the beloved as to that of the wife or mother. There is no real love without enthusiasm, and no enthusiasm without an object of perfection real or supposed, but always present in the imagination. What is there to kindle the hearts of lovers for whom this perfection is nothing, for whom the loved one is merely the means to sensual pleasure? Nay, not thus is the heart kindled, not thus does it abandon itself to those sublime transports which form the rapture of lovers and the charm of love. Love is an illusion, I grant you, but its reality consists in the feelings it awakes, in the love of true beauty which it inspires. That beauty is not to be found in the object of our affections, it is the creation of our illusions. What matter! do we not still sacrifice all those baser feelings to the imaginary model? and we still feed our hearts on the virtues we attribute to the beloved, we still withdraw ourselves from the baseness of human nature. What lover is there who would not give his life for his mistress? What gross and sensual passion is there in a man who is willing to die? We scoff at the knights of old; they knew the meaning of love; we know nothing but debauchery. When the teachings of romance began to seem ridiculous, it was not so much the work of reason as of immorality.

I will go further and argue that virtue is just as beneficial to love as it is to other natural rights, and it enhances the worth of both the beloved and the wife or mother. There’s no real love without passion, and no passion without an ideal of perfection, whether real or imagined, but always present in our minds. What can ignite the hearts of lovers for whom this perfection means nothing, and who see their partner merely as a means to physical pleasure? No, the heart isn’t ignited that way; it doesn’t surrender to the sublime ecstasies that define true love and the magic of romance. Love is an illusion, I’ll give you that, but its truth lies in the emotions it stirs up, in the appreciation of true beauty that it inspires. That beauty isn’t found in the person we love; it’s a product of our illusions. What does it matter? Don’t we still sacrifice all those baser feelings for that imagined ideal? We continue to fill our hearts with the virtues we see in our beloved, distancing ourselves from the ugliness of human nature. What lover wouldn’t give their life for their sweetheart? What base and senseless passion can exist in someone willing to die? We mock the knights of old, but they understood the essence of love; we only know excess. When the lessons of romance began to seem foolish, it wasn’t so much reason at work as it was immorality.

Natural relations remain the same throughout the centuries, their good or evil effects are unchanged; prejudices, masquerading as reason, can but change their outward seeming; self-mastery, even at the behest of fantastic opinions, will not cease to be great and good. And the true motives of honour will not fail to appeal to the heart of every woman who is able to seek happiness in life in her woman’s duties. To a high-souled woman chastity above all must be a delightful virtue. She sees all the kingdoms of the world before her and she triumphs over herself and them; she sits enthroned in her own soul and all men do her homage; a few passing struggles are crowned with perpetual glory; she secures the affection, or it may be the envy, she secures in any case the esteem of both sexes and the universal respect of her own. The loss is fleeting, the gain is permanent. What a joy for a noble heart—the pride of virtue combined with beauty. Let her be a heroine of romance; she will taste delights more exquisite than those of Lais and Cleopatra; and when her beauty is fled, her glory and her joys remain; she alone can enjoy the past.

Natural relationships stay the same over the centuries; their good or bad effects don’t change. Prejudices, disguised as reason, may only alter their outward appearance. Self-control, even when influenced by whimsical opinions, will always be admirable and good. The genuine reasons for honor will always resonate with any woman who can find happiness in her responsibilities. For a woman of high ideals, chastity must be a cherished virtue. She envisions all the kingdoms of the world before her and conquers both herself and them; she reigns over her own soul, and all men pay her respect. A few temporary struggles are rewarded with lasting glory; she earns the affection—or perhaps the envy—of both genders and the widespread respect of her own. The loss is temporary, but the gain is forever. What a joy for a noble heart—the pride of virtue combined with beauty. Let her be a heroine of romance; she will experience delights more exquisite than those of Lais and Cleopatra; and even when her beauty fades, her glory and joys remain; she alone can fully appreciate the past.

The harder and more important the duties, the stronger and clearer must be the reasons on which they are based. There is a sort of pious talk about the most serious subjects which is dinned in vain into the ears of young people. This talk, quite unsuited to their ideas and the small importance they attach to it in secret, inclines them to yield readily to their inclinations, for lack of any reasons for resistance drawn from the facts themselves. No doubt a girl brought up to goodness and piety has strong weapons against temptation; but one whose heart, or rather her ears, are merely filled with the jargon of piety, will certainly fall a prey to the first skilful seducer who attacks her. A young and beautiful girl will never despise her body, she will never really deplore sins which her beauty leads men to commit, she will never lament earnestly in the sight of God that she is an object of desire, she will never be convinced that the tenderest feeling is an invention of the Evil One. Give her other and more pertinent reasons for her own sake, for these will have no effect. It will be worse to instil, as is often done, ideas which contradict each other, and after having humbled and degraded her person and her charms as the stain of sin, to bid her reverence that same vile body as the temple of Jesus Christ. Ideas too sublime and too humble are equally ineffective and they cannot both be true. A reason adapted to her age and sex is what is needed. Considerations of duty are of no effect unless they are combined with some motive for the performance of our duty.

The harder and more important the responsibilities, the stronger and clearer the reasons behind them need to be. There’s a kind of empty talk about serious matters that gets endlessly repeated to young people. This talk, which doesn’t match their thoughts and the little importance they secretly assign to it, tends to make them give in to their desires, as there aren't any real reasons based on facts to resist. Sure, a girl raised with good values and faith has strong defenses against temptation; but one who only hears the empty phrases of piety will likely fall victim to the first clever seducer who comes along. A young, beautiful girl will never look down on her body, she won’t truly regret the sins her beauty prompts men to commit, she won’t earnestly mourn in front of God for being an object of desire, and she won’t believe that the most tender feelings are merely tricks of the Devil. Provide her with better and more relevant reasons for her own good, because the old ways will not work. It will be even worse to instill, as is often done, conflicting ideas—teaching her to feel shame and degradation for her beauty because of sin, while also telling her to honor that same body as a temple of Jesus Christ. Concepts that are either too lofty or too humble are equally ineffective; they can’t both be true. What’s needed is a reason suited to her age and gender. Thoughts about duty won’t matter unless they’re paired with some motivation to carry out that duty.

     “Quae quia non liceat non facit, illa facit.”
           OVID, Amor. I. iii. eleg. iv.
“Things that cannot be done won’t be done, but things that can be done will be done.”  
    OVID, Amor. I. iii. eleg. iv.

One would not suspect Ovid of such a harsh judgment.

One wouldn’t expect Ovid to make such a harsh judgment.

If you would inspire young people with a love of good conduct avoid saying, “Be good;” make it their interest to be good; make them feel the value of goodness and they will love it. It is not enough to show this effect in the distant future, show it now, in the relations of the present, in the character of their lovers. Describe a good man, a man of worth, teach them to recognise him when they see him, to love him for their own sake; convince them that such a man alone can make them happy as friend, wife, or mistress. Let reason lead the way to virtue; make them feel that the empire of their sex and all the advantages derived from it depend not merely on the right conduct, the morality, of women, but also on that of men; that they have little hold over the vile and base, and that the lover is incapable of serving his mistress unless he can do homage to virtue. You may then be sure that when you describe the manners of our age you will inspire them with a genuine disgust; when you show them men of fashion they will despise them; you will give them a distaste for their maxims, an aversion to their sentiments, and a scorn for their empty gallantry; you will arouse a nobler ambition, to reign over great and strong souls, the ambition of the Spartan women to rule over men. A bold, shameless, intriguing woman, who can only attract her lovers by coquetry and retain them by her favours, wins a servile obedience in common things; in weighty and important matters she has no influence over them. But the woman who is both virtuous, wise, and charming, she who, in a word, combines love and esteem, can send them at her bidding to the end of the world, to war, to glory, and to death at her behest. This is a fine kingdom and worth the winning.

If you want to inspire young people to love good behavior, avoid just saying, “Be good;” make it in their interest to be good; help them see the value of goodness and they’ll appreciate it. It’s not enough to show them the benefits far into the future; show them the impact now, in their current relationships, in the character of the people they care about. Describe a good man, a valuable man, teach them to recognize him when they see him, and to love him for their own sake; prove to them that such a man is the only one who can truly make them happy as a friend, partner, or lover. Let reasoning guide them to virtue; make them understand that the power of their gender and all the perks that come with it depend not just on women’s right behavior and morals, but also on men’s; that they have little influence over the mean and deceitful, and that a lover cannot serve his beloved unless he respects virtue. You can be confident that when you depict the manners of our time, you will spark genuine disgust in them; when you show them fashionable men, they will look down on them; you will instill in them a distaste for their principles, an aversion to their opinions, and a contempt for their superficial charm; you will inspire a higher ambition, to have authority over great and strong souls, like the ambition of Spartan women to govern men. A bold, shameless, flirtatious woman, who can only capture her lovers through teasing and keep them with favors, earns their servile obedience in trivial matters; but the woman who is virtuous, wise, and charming—who, in essence, combines love and respect—can send them, at her command, to the ends of the earth, to war, to glory, and even to death at her request. This is a wonderful domain and well worth winning.

This is the spirit in which Sophy has been educated, she has been trained carefully rather than strictly, and her taste has been followed rather than thwarted. Let us say just a word about her person, according to the description I have given to Emile and the picture he himself has formed of the wife in whom he hopes to find happiness.

This is the mindset in which Sophy has been raised; she has been nurtured thoughtfully rather than harshly, and her preferences have been encouraged rather than suppressed. Let’s say a few words about her appearance, based on the description I provided to Emile and the image he has created of the wife he hopes will bring him happiness.

I cannot repeat too often that I am not dealing with prodigies. Emile is no prodigy, neither is Sophy. He is a man and she is a woman; this is all they have to boast of. In the present confusion between the sexes it is almost a miracle to belong to one’s own sex. Sophy is well born and she has a good disposition; she is very warm-hearted, and this warmth of heart sometimes makes her imagination run away with her. Her mind is keen rather than accurate, her temper is pleasant but variable, her person pleasing though nothing out of the common, her countenance bespeaks a soul and it speaks true; you may meet her with indifference, but you will not leave her without emotion. Others possess good qualities which she lacks; others possess her good qualities in a higher degree, but in no one are these qualities better blended to form a happy disposition. She knows how to make the best of her very faults, and if she were more perfect she would be less pleasing.

I can’t say it enough that I'm not talking about geniuses. Emile is not a genius, and neither is Sophy. He’s a man, and she’s a woman; that’s all they have to take pride in. In today’s mix-up between genders, it’s almost miraculous to truly belong to your own. Sophy comes from a good background and has a great personality; she’s very kind-hearted, and sometimes that warmth of hers makes her a bit too imaginative. Her mind is sharp but not always precise, her temper is friendly but can be inconsistent, her looks are attractive though nothing extraordinary, and her face shows a deep soul, and it’s genuine; you might meet her without feeling anything, but you won’t walk away without some emotion. Others might have good traits that she doesn’t, and others may have her traits in a stronger form, but no one mixes these traits better to create a happy personality. She knows how to make the most of her flaws, and if she were more perfect, she might be less appealing.

Sophy is not beautiful; but in her presence men forget the fairer women, and the latter are dissatisfied with themselves. At first sight she is hardly pretty; but the more we see her the prettier she is; she wins where so many lose, and what she wins she keeps. Her eyes might be finer, her mouth more beautiful, her stature more imposing; but no one could have a more graceful figure, a finer complexion, a whiter hand, a daintier foot, a sweeter look, and a more expressive countenance. She does not dazzle; she arouses interest; she delights us, we know not why.

Sophy isn’t traditionally beautiful; however, when men are around her, they overlook more attractive women, who end up feeling dissatisfied with themselves. At first glance, she doesn’t seem pretty, but the more we see her, the more attractive she becomes; she succeeds where many fail, and what she gains, she holds onto. Her eyes could be prettier, her mouth more lovely, and her height more striking; but no one has a more graceful figure, a better complexion, a fairer hand, a more delicate foot, a sweeter expression, or a more expressive face. She doesn’t just shine; she captures our interest; she brings us joy for reasons we can’t fully understand.

Sophy is fond of dress, and she knows how to dress; her mother has no other maid; she has taste enough to dress herself well; but she hates rich clothes; her own are always simple but elegant. She does not like showy but becoming things. She does not know what colours are fashionable, but she makes no mistake about those that suit her. No girl seems more simply dressed, but no one could take more pains over her toilet; no article is selected at random, and yet there is no trace of artificiality. Her dress is very modest in appearance and very coquettish in reality; she does not display her charms, she conceals them, but in such a way as to enhance them. When you see her you say, “That is a good modest girl,” but while you are with her, you cannot take your eyes or your thoughts off her and one might say that this very simple adornment is only put on to be removed bit by bit by the imagination.

Sophy loves fashion, and she knows how to style herself; her mother has no other maid. She has just enough taste to dress herself well, but she dislikes extravagant clothes; her own outfits are always simple yet elegant. She isn't into flashy things, but she prefers items that complement her. She might not know what colors are trendy, but she definitely knows which ones look great on her. No girl appears more simply dressed, yet no one puts more effort into her appearance; not a single piece is chosen carelessly, but there's no sign of artificiality. Her outfit looks very modest, but in reality, it's quite flirty; she doesn't flaunt her charms, she subtly obscures them in a way that makes them even more appealing. When you see her, you think, “That’s a sweet, modest girl,” but when you’re around her, you can’t help but be captivated by her, and it feels like this very simple look is there just to be slowly revealed by your imagination.

Sophy has natural gifts; she is aware of them, and they have not been neglected; but never having had a chance of much training she is content to use her pretty voice to sing tastefully and truly; her little feet step lightly, easily, and gracefully, she can always make an easy graceful courtesy. She has had no singing master but her father, no dancing mistress but her mother; a neighbouring organist has given her a few lessons in playing accompaniments on the spinet, and she has improved herself by practice. At first she only wished to show off her hand on the dark keys; then she discovered that the thin clear tone of the spinet made her voice sound sweeter; little by little she recognised the charms of harmony; as she grew older she at last began to enjoy the charms of expression, to love music for its own sake. But she has taste rather than talent; she cannot read a simple air from notes.

Sophy has natural talents; she knows it, and they haven’t gone unnoticed; but since she hasn’t had much training, she’s happy to use her lovely voice to sing beautifully and accurately. Her little feet move lightly, easily, and gracefully, and she can always do a polite curtsy with ease. She hasn’t had a singing teacher except for her father, nor a dance instructor other than her mother; a local organist has given her a few lessons on playing accompaniments on the spinet, and she has improved through practice. At first, she just wanted to show off her skills on the dark keys; then she realized that the bright, clear tone of the spinet made her voice sound sweeter. Gradually, she came to appreciate the beauty of harmony; as she got older, she finally started to enjoy the beauty of expression and love music for its own sake. However, she has taste more than talent; she can’t read a simple melody from sheet music.

Needlework is what Sophy likes best; and the feminine arts have been taught her most carefully, even those you would not expect, such as cutting out and dressmaking. There is nothing she cannot do with her needle, and nothing that she does not take a delight in doing; but lace-making is her favourite occupation, because there is nothing which requires such a pleasing attitude, nothing which calls for such grace and dexterity of finger. She has also studied all the details of housekeeping; she understands cooking and cleaning; she knows the prices of food, and also how to choose it; she can keep accounts accurately, she is her mother’s housekeeper. Some day she will be the mother of a family; by managing her father’s house she is preparing to manage her own; she can take the place of any of the servants and she is always ready to do so. You cannot give orders unless you can do the work yourself; that is why her mother sets her to do it. Sophy does not think of that; her first duty is to be a good daughter, and that is all she thinks about for the present. Her one idea is to help her mother and relieve her of some of her anxieties. However, she does not like them all equally well. For instance, she likes dainty food, but she does not like cooking; the details of cookery offend her, and things are never clean enough for her. She is extremely sensitive in this respect and carries her sensitiveness to a fault; she would let the whole dinner boil over into the fire rather than soil her cuffs. She has always disliked inspecting the kitchen-garden for the same reason. The soil is dirty, and as soon as she sees the manure heap she fancies there is a disagreeable smell.

Sophy loves needlework the most; she's been taught all the feminine arts with great care, even those you'd least expect, like cutting and sewing. There's nothing she can't do with her needle, and she enjoys every bit of it; however, lace-making is her favorite because it demands a delightful attitude and requires grace and skill. She has also learned all about running a household; she knows how to cook and clean, is aware of food prices, and understands how to choose the best ingredients. She's good at keeping accurate accounts and acts as her mother’s housekeeper. One day, she’ll be a mother herself; by managing her father’s house, she’s getting ready to manage her own. She can handle any of the servants' duties and is always willing to step in. You can't give orders unless you know how to do the work yourself, which is why her mother has her do it. Sophy doesn’t think about that; her main concern is to be a good daughter, and that's her focus for now. Her primary goal is to help her mother and ease some of her worries. However, she doesn't enjoy every task equally. For example, she appreciates fine food but isn’t a fan of cooking; the intricacies of cooking annoy her, and she finds things are never clean enough. She's very sensitive about this and takes it to an extreme; she would let an entire dinner boil over rather than risk dirtying her cuffs. She's always disliked checking the kitchen garden for the same reason. The dirt bothers her, and when she sees the manure pile, she imagines a foul smell.

This defect is the result of her mother’s teaching. According to her, cleanliness is one of the most necessary of a woman’s duties, a special duty, of the highest importance and a duty imposed by nature. Nothing could be more revolting than a dirty woman, and a husband who tires of her is not to blame. She insisted so strongly on this duty when Sophy was little, she required such absolute cleanliness in her person, clothing, room, work, and toilet, that use has become habit, till it absorbs one half of her time and controls the other; so that she thinks less of how to do a thing than of how to do it without getting dirty.

This flaw comes from her mother’s lessons. She believed that cleanliness is one of the most important responsibilities of a woman, a significant duty imposed by nature. Nothing is more disgusting than a dirty woman, and a husband who becomes tired of her isn’t at fault. She emphasized this duty so intensely when Sophy was young, demanding absolute cleanliness in her appearance, clothing, room, work, and grooming, that it became a habit, consuming half of her time and dictating the other half; now, she thinks less about how to do a task and more about how to do it without getting dirty.

Yet this has not degenerated into mere affectation and softness; there is none of the over refinement of luxury. Nothing but clean water enters her room; she knows no perfumes but the scent of flowers, and her husband will never find anything sweeter than her breath. In conclusion, the attention she pays to the outside does not blind her to the fact that time and strength are meant for greater tasks; either she does not know or she despises that exaggerated cleanliness of body which degrades the soul. Sophy is more than clean, she is pure.

Yet this has not turned into mere pretense and softness; there's none of the excessive refinement of luxury. Only clean water enters her room; she knows no scents besides the smell of flowers, and her husband will never find anything sweeter than her breath. In short, the care she gives to her appearance doesn't blind her to the fact that time and strength are meant for greater purposes; either she doesn’t know or she looks down on that extreme fixation on cleanliness that devalues the soul. Sophy is more than clean; she is pure.

I said that Sophy was fond of good things. She was so by nature; but she became temperate by habit and now she is temperate by virtue. Little girls are not to be controlled, as little boys are, to some extent, through their greediness. This tendency may have ill effects on women and it is too dangerous to be left unchecked. When Sophy was little, she did not always return empty handed if she was sent to her mother’s cupboard, and she was not quite to be trusted with sweets and sugar-almonds. Her mother caught her, took them from her, punished her, and made her go without her dinner. At last she managed to persuade her that sweets were bad for the teeth, and that over-eating spoiled the figure. Thus Sophy overcame her faults; and when she grew older other tastes distracted her from this low kind of self-indulgence. With awakening feeling greediness ceases to be the ruling passion, both with men and women. Sophy has preserved her feminine tastes; she likes milk and sweets; she likes pastry and made-dishes, but not much meat. She has never tasted wine or spirits; moreover, she eats sparingly; women, who do not work so hard as men, have less waste to repair. In all things she likes what is good, and knows how to appreciate it; but she can also put up with what is not so good, or can go without it.

I mentioned that Sophy loved good things. That was just her nature; but she became moderate through habit and now she's moderate because of her character. Little girls can’t be controlled like little boys, to some extent, by their greed. This tendency can be harmful to women and it's too risky to leave unchecked. When Sophy was young, she didn’t always come back empty-handed when sent to her mother’s cupboard, and she wasn’t completely trustworthy with sweets and sugar-coated almonds. Her mother caught her, took the treats away, punished her, and made her skip dinner. Eventually, she convinced her that sweets were bad for her teeth and that overeating affected her figure. So, Sophy managed to overcome her faults; as she grew older, other interests distracted her from that kind of indulgence. With growing emotions, greed stops being the main drive for both men and women. Sophy has kept her feminine preferences; she enjoys milk and sweets, pastries and main dishes, but not much meat. She has never tried wine or strong spirits; also, she eats in moderation; women, who don’t work as hard as men, have less to replenish. In everything, she appreciates what's good and knows how to enjoy it; but she can also tolerate lesser things or go without them.

Sophy’s mind is pleasing but not brilliant, and thorough but not deep; it is the sort of mind which calls for no remark, as she never seems cleverer or stupider than oneself. When people talk to her they always find what she says attractive, though it may not be highly ornamental according to modern ideas of an educated woman; her mind has been formed not only by reading, but by conversation with her father and mother, by her own reflections, and by her own observations in the little world in which she has lived. Sophy is naturally merry; as a child she was even giddy; but her mother cured her of her silly ways, little by little, lest too sudden a change should make her self-conscious. Thus she became modest and retiring while still a child, and now that she is a child no longer, she finds it easier to continue this conduct than it would have been to acquire it without knowing why. It is amusing to see her occasionally return to her old ways and indulge in childish mirth and then suddenly check herself, with silent lips, downcast eyes, and rosy blushes; neither child nor woman, she may well partake of both.

Sophy's mind is pleasant but not brilliant, and thorough but not deep; it’s the kind of mind that doesn't really stand out, as she never seems smarter or duller than anyone else. When people talk to her, they always find her thoughts appealing, even if they don’t fit the modern idea of a highly educated woman; her understanding has come not just from reading, but from conversations with her parents, her own reflections, and her observations in the small world she has known. Sophy is naturally cheerful; as a child, she was even a bit silly, but her mother gradually helped her out of those childish ways, so that a sudden shift wouldn’t make her self-conscious. As a result, she became modest and reserved while still young, and now that she’s no longer a child, it’s easier for her to maintain this behavior than it would have been to learn it without understanding why. It’s amusing to see her occasionally slip back into her old ways, laughing like a child, only to suddenly catch herself, with closed lips, downcast eyes, and rosy cheeks; neither fully a child nor a woman, she embodies the traits of both.

Sophy is too sensitive to be always good humoured, but too gentle to let this be really disagreeable to other people; it is only herself who suffers. If you say anything that hurts her she does not sulk, but her heart swells; she tries to run away and cry. In the midst of her tears, at a word from her father or mother she returns at once laughing and playing, secretly wiping her eyes and trying to stifle her sobs.

Sophy is too sensitive to always be cheerful, but she's too kind to let it seriously affect others; it's only herself who feels the pain. If you say something that hurts her, she doesn’t pout, but her heart feels heavy; she tries to escape and cry. In the middle of her tears, at one word from her dad or mom, she immediately comes back laughing and playing, secretly wiping her eyes and trying to hold back her sobs.

Yet she has her whims; if her temper is too much indulged it degenerates into rebellion, and then she forgets herself. But give her time to come round and her way of making you forget her wrong-doing is almost a virtue. If you punish her she is gentle and submissive, and you see that she is more ashamed of the fault than the punishment. If you say nothing, she never fails to make amends, and she does it so frankly and so readily that you cannot be angry with her. She would kiss the ground before the lowest servant and would make no fuss about it; and as soon as she is forgiven, you can see by her delight and her caresses that a load is taken off her heart. In a word, she endures patiently the wrong-doing of others, and she is eager to atone for her own. This amiability is natural to her sex when unspoiled. Woman is made to submit to man and to endure even injustice at his hands. You will never bring young lads to this; their feelings rise in revolt against injustice; nature has not fitted them to put up with it.

Yet she has her moods; if you indulge her temper too much, it turns into rebellion, and then she loses herself. But if you give her time to calm down, her way of making you forget her mistakes is almost admirable. If you punish her, she becomes gentle and submissive, and you can see that she's more ashamed of her mistake than of the punishment. If you don’t say anything, she always finds a way to make it right, and she does it so sincerely and readily that you can't stay mad at her. She would kiss the ground before the lowest servant without making a fuss, and as soon as she's forgiven, you can see from her joy and affection that a weight has been lifted off her heart. In short, she patiently endures the wrongdoings of others and is eager to make up for her own. This kindness is natural for her gender when unspoiled. Women are meant to submit to men and even tolerate injustice at their hands. You will never teach young boys to do this; their feelings rise in rebellion against injustice; nature hasn’t equipped them to accept it.

     “Gravem Pelidae stomachum cedere nescii.”
           HORACE, lib. i. ode vi.
“Gravem Pelidae stomachum cedere nescii.”  
          HORACE, lib. i. ode vi.

Sophy’s religion is reasonable and simple, with few doctrines and fewer observances; or rather as she knows no course of conduct but the right her whole life is devoted to the service of God and to doing good. In all her parents’ teaching of religion she has been trained to a reverent submission; they have often said, “My little girl, this is too hard for you; your husband will teach you when you are grown up.” Instead of long sermons about piety, they have been content to preach by their example, and this example is engraved on her heart.

Sophy’s religion is straightforward and uncomplicated, with few beliefs and even fewer rituals; or rather, since she only knows the right way to act, her entire life is focused on serving God and doing good. Throughout her parents’ teachings about religion, she has been taught to submit with respect; they have often said, “My little girl, this is too difficult for you; your husband will guide you when you’re older.” Instead of lengthy sermons on piety, they have chosen to teach by their actions, and this example is etched in her heart.

Sophy loves virtue; this love has come to be her ruling passion; she loves virtue because there is nothing fairer in itself, she loves it because it is a woman’s glory and because a virtuous woman is little lower than the angels; she loves virtue as the only road to real happiness, because she sees nothing but poverty, neglect, unhappiness, shame, and disgrace in the life of a bad woman; she loves virtue because it is dear to her revered father and to her tender and worthy mother; they are not content to be happy in their own virtue, they desire hers; and she finds her chief happiness in the hope of making them happy. All these feelings inspire an enthusiasm which stirs her heart and keeps all its budding passions in subjection to this noble enthusiasm. Sophy will be chaste and good till her dying day; she has vowed it in her secret heart, and not before she knew how hard it would be to keep her vow; she made this vow at a time when she would have revoked it had she been the slave of her senses.

Sophy loves virtue; this love has become her main passion. She loves virtue because there’s nothing more beautiful in itself, she loves it because it’s a woman’s glory, and because a virtuous woman is just a bit lower than angels. She loves virtue as the only path to true happiness, since she sees nothing but poverty, neglect, unhappiness, shame, and disgrace in the life of a bad woman. She loves virtue because it is precious to her respected father and to her caring, worthy mother; they aren't satisfied just being happy in their own virtue, they want hers too. She finds her greatest happiness in the hope of making them happy. All these feelings spark an enthusiasm that stirs her heart and keeps all her budding passions in check under this noble zeal. Sophy will be pure and good for the rest of her life; she has vowed it in her heart, and she didn’t realize how hard it would be to keep her vow until afterward; she made this vow during a time when she might have retracted it if she had given in to her desires.

Sophy is not so fortunate as to be a charming French woman, cold-hearted and vain, who would rather attract attention than give pleasure, who seeks amusement rather than delight. She suffers from a consuming desire for love; it even disturbs and troubles her heart in the midst of festivities; she has lost her former liveliness, and her taste for merry games; far from being afraid of the tedium of solitude she desires it. Her thoughts go out to him who will make solitude sweet to her. She finds strangers tedious, she wants a lover, not a circle of admirers. She would rather give pleasure to one good man than be a general favourite, or win that applause of society which lasts but a day and to-morrow is turned to scorn.

Sophy isn't lucky enough to be a charming French woman, cold-hearted and vain, who prefers to grab attention over bringing joy, who looks for amusement instead of true delight. She suffers from an overwhelming desire for love; it even disrupts her heart during celebrations; she has lost her previous liveliness and her enjoyment of fun activities; far from fearing the dullness of being alone, she longs for it. Her thoughts are directed towards the one who will make solitude enjoyable for her. She finds strangers boring, she wants a lover, not just a group of admirers. She would rather bring joy to one good man than be a general favorite or receive the fleeting praise of society that lasts only a day and is turned into scorn by the next.

A woman’s judgment develops sooner than a man’s; being on the defensive from her childhood up, and intrusted with a treasure so hard to keep, she is earlier acquainted with good and evil. Sophy is precocious by temperament in everything, and her judgment is more formed than that of most girls of her age. There is nothing strange in that, maturity is not always reached at the same age.

A woman’s judgment develops earlier than a man’s; having to be careful from a young age and being trusted with something so valuable that’s hard to protect, she becomes familiar with good and evil sooner. Sophy is naturally advanced in everything, and her judgment is more developed than that of most girls her age. There’s nothing surprising about that; maturity doesn’t always happen at the same age.

Sophy has been taught the duties and rights of her own sex and of ours. She knows men’s faults and women’s vices; she also knows their corresponding good qualities and virtues, and has them by heart. No one can have a higher ideal of a virtuous woman, but she would rather think of a virtuous man, a man of true worth; she knows that she is made for such a man, that she is worthy of him, that she can make him as happy as he will make her; she is sure she will know him when she sees him; the difficulty is to find him.

Sophy has learned the responsibilities and rights of both her gender and ours. She understands men’s flaws and women’s shortcomings; she also knows their corresponding strengths and virtues, and can recite them easily. No one holds a higher standard for a virtuous woman, but she prefers to think about a virtuous man, a man of true value; she recognizes that she is meant for such a man, that she is deserving of him, and that she can make him as happy as he will make her; she is confident she will recognize him when she sees him; the challenge is finding him.

Women are by nature judges of a man’s worth, as he is of theirs; this right is reciprocal, and it is recognised as such both by men and women. Sophy recognises this right and exercises it, but with the modesty becoming her youth, her inexperience, and her position; she confines her judgment to what she knows, and she only forms an opinion when it may help to illustrate some useful precept. She is extremely careful what she says about those who are absent, particularly if they are women. She thinks that talking about each other makes women spiteful and satirical; so long as they only talk about men they are merely just. So Sophy stops there. As to women she never says anything at all about them, except to tell the good she knows; she thinks this is only fair to her sex; and if she knows no good of any woman, she says nothing, and that is enough.

Women naturally judge a man's worth, just as he judges theirs; this right goes both ways and is acknowledged by both men and women. Sophy understands this right and uses it, but she does so with the modesty appropriate for her youth, inexperience, and position. She limits her judgment to what she knows and only shares her opinions when they can help illustrate a useful principle. She is very careful about what she says regarding those who are not present, especially if they are women. She believes that talking about each other makes women resentful and critical; as long as they only discuss men, they remain fair. So, Sophy stops there. When it comes to women, she never speaks about them unless it's to share something good she knows; she thinks this is fair to her gender, and if she has nothing good to say about any woman, she remains silent, which is enough.

Sophy has little knowledge of society, but she is observant and obliging, and all that she does is full of grace. A happy disposition does more for her than much art. She has a certain courtesy of her own, which is not dependent on fashion, and does not change with its changes; it is not a matter of custom, but it arises from a feminine desire to please. She is unacquainted with the language of empty compliment, nor does she invent more elaborate compliments of her own; she does not say that she is greatly obliged, that you do her too much honour, that you should not take so much trouble, etc. Still less does she try to make phrases of her own. She responds to an attention or a customary piece of politeness by a courtesy or a mere “Thank you;” but this phrase in her mouth is quite enough. If you do her a real service, she lets her heart speak, and its words are no empty compliment. She has never allowed French manners to make her a slave to appearances; when she goes from one room to another she does not take the arm of an old gentleman, whom she would much rather help. When a scented fop offers her this empty attention, she leaves him on the staircase and rushes into the room saying that she is not lame. Indeed, she will never wear high heels though she is not tall; her feet are small enough to dispense with them.

Sophy doesn't know much about society, but she's observant and helpful, and everything she does is full of grace. Her cheerful nature does more for her than any amount of skill. She has her own kind of politeness that isn’t influenced by trends and doesn’t change with them; it’s not about habit, but comes from a genuine desire to please. She's unfamiliar with the language of empty compliments and doesn’t come up with more elaborate ones herself; she doesn’t say that she’s very grateful, that you’re being too kind, or that you shouldn’t bother so much, etc. Even less does she try to create her own phrases. She responds to kindness or common courtesies with her own simple courtesy or just a “Thank you;” but in her case, those words are more than enough. When someone does her a real favor, she speaks from the heart, and her words carry real meaning. She never lets French manners turn her into a slave to appearances; when moving from one room to another, she won’t take the arm of an older gentleman, whom she would much prefer to help. When a self-absorbed dandy offers her this meaningless gesture, she leaves him on the staircase and rushes into the room, saying that she isn’t lame. In fact, she will never wear high heels, even though she isn’t tall; her feet are small enough that she doesn’t need them.

Not only does she adopt a silent and respectful attitude towards women, but also towards married men, or those who are much older than herself; she will never take her place above them, unless compelled to do so; and she will return to her own lower place as soon as she can; for she knows that the rights of age take precedence of those of sex, as age is presumably wiser than youth, and wisdom should be held in the greatest honour.

Not only does she maintain a quiet and respectful demeanor toward women, but also toward married men and those much older than herself; she will never put herself above them unless absolutely necessary, and she will go back to her lower position as soon as she can. She understands that the rights of age come before those of gender, as age is assumed to be wiser than youth, and wisdom should be highly regarded.

With young folks of her own age it is another matter; she requires a different manner to gain their respect, and she knows how to adopt it without dropping the modest ways which become her. If they themselves are shy and modest, she will gladly preserve the friendly familiarity of youth; their innocent conversation will be merry but suitable; if they become serious they must say something useful; if they become silly, she soon puts a stop to it, for she has an utter contempt for the jargon of gallantry, which she considers an insult to her sex. She feels sure that the man she seeks does not speak that jargon, and she will never permit in another what would be displeasing to her in him whose character is engraved on her heart. Her high opinion of the rights of women, her pride in the purity of her feelings, that active virtue which is the basis of her self-respect, make her indignant at the sentimental speeches intended for her amusement. She does not receive them with open anger, but with a disconcerting irony or an unexpected iciness. If a fair Apollo displays his charms, and makes use of his wit in the praise of her wit, her beauty, and her grace; at the risk of offending him she is quite capable of saying politely, “Sir, I am afraid I know that better than you; if we have nothing more interesting to talk about, I think we may put an end to this conversation.” To say this with a deep courtesy, and then to withdraw to a considerable distance, is the work of a moment. Ask your lady-killers if it is easy to continue to babble to such, an unsympathetic ear.

With young people her own age, it's a different story; she needs to use a different approach to earn their respect, and she knows how to do it while still keeping her modesty intact. If they are shy and modest themselves, she maintains a friendly familiarity that feels natural; their innocent chats are fun yet appropriate. If the mood turns serious, they should say something meaningful; if they get silly, she quickly shuts it down because she has no patience for the superficial talk of romance, which she sees as insulting to her gender. She is confident that the guy she wants doesn't use that kind of language, and she won't tolerate in anyone else what she finds unacceptable in him, the one who has captured her heart. Her strong belief in women's rights, her pride in her pure feelings, and her active virtue— the foundation of her self-respect—make her outraged by sentimental compliments meant to amuse her. She doesn't react with outright anger, but with disarming irony or surprising coldness. If a handsome guy shows off his charm and praises her wit, beauty, and grace, she can politely respond, “Sir, I think I know that better than you; if we have nothing more interesting to discuss, I’d prefer to end this conversation." Saying this with deep courtesy and then stepping away quickly is effortless. Just ask your charming suitors if it’s easy to keep chatting with someone so unresponsive.

It is not that she is not fond of praise if it is really sincere, and if she thinks you believe what you say. You must show that you appreciate her merit if you would have her believe you. Her proud spirit may take pleasure in homage which is based upon esteem, but empty compliments are always rejected; Sophy was not meant to practise the small arts of the dancing-girl.

It’s not that she doesn’t like praise if it’s genuine, and if she thinks you truly believe what you’re saying. You need to show that you recognize her worth if you want her to trust you. Her proud nature might enjoy admiration that comes from respect, but she always turns down insincere flattery; Sophy wasn’t made to perform the petty tricks of a showgirl.

With a judgment so mature, and a mind like that of a woman of twenty, Sophy, at fifteen, is no longer treated as a child by her parents. No sooner do they perceive the first signs of youthful disquiet than they hasten to anticipate its development, their conversations with her are wise and tender. These wise and tender conversations are in keeping with her age and disposition. If her disposition is what I fancy why should not her father speak to her somewhat after this fashion?

With such a mature judgment and a mind like that of a twenty-year-old, Sophy, at fifteen, is no longer treated like a child by her parents. As soon as they notice her first signs of youthful restlessness, they quickly try to address it, engaging in wise and caring conversations with her. These thoughtful and gentle discussions match her age and personality. If her personality is what I think it is, why shouldn't her father talk to her in this manner?

“You are a big girl now, Sophy, you will soon be a woman. We want you to be happy, for our own sakes as well as yours, for our happiness depends on yours. A good girl finds her own happiness in the happiness of a good man, so we must consider your marriage; we must think of it in good time, for marriage makes or mars our whole life, and we cannot have too much time to consider it.

“You're a big girl now, Sophy; you'll soon be a woman. We want you to be happy, both for your sake and ours, because our happiness relies on yours. A good girl finds her happiness in the happiness of a good man, so we need to think about your marriage; we should consider it well in advance, since marriage can shape or ruin our entire lives, and we can never take too much time to think it through.”

“There is nothing so hard to choose as a good husband, unless it is a good wife. You will be that rare creature, Sophy, you will be the crown of our life and the blessing of our declining years; but however worthy you are, there are worthier people upon earth. There is no one who would not do himself honour by marriage with you; there are many who would do you even greater honour than themselves. Among these we must try to find one who suits you, we must get to know him and introduce you to him.

“There’s nothing harder to choose than a good husband, except maybe a good wife. You will be that rare gem, Sophy; you will be the highlight of our lives and the joy of our later years. But no matter how deserving you are, there are people even more deserving out there. No one wouldn’t feel honored marrying you; there are many who would bring you even more honor than themselves. Among them, we need to find someone who fits you, get to know him, and introduce you to him.”

“The greatest possible happiness in marriage depends on so many points of agreement that it is folly to expect to secure them all. We must first consider the more important matters; if others are to be found along with them, so much the better; if not we must do without them. Perfect happiness is not to be found in this world, but we can, at least, avoid the worst form of unhappiness, that for which ourselves are to blame.

“The greatest happiness in marriage relies on so many commonalities that it’s unrealistic to expect to have them all. We should first focus on the more important issues; if we can find others alongside them, that's great; if not, we'll have to let them go. Perfect happiness doesn’t exist in this world, but we can, at the very least, steer clear of the worst kind of unhappiness—the kind that we’ve caused ourselves.”

“There is a natural suitability, there is a suitability of established usage, and a suitability which is merely conventional. Parents should decide as to the two latters, and the children themselves should decide as to the former. Marriages arranged by parents only depend on a suitability of custom and convention; it is not two people who are united, but two positions and two properties; but these things may change, the people remain, they are always there; and in spite of fortune it is the personal relation that makes a happy or an unhappy marriage.

“There is a natural compatibility, a compatibility based on established norms, and a compatibility that is purely conventional. Parents should determine the latter two, while the children themselves should decide on the former. Marriages arranged solely by parents rely on customary and conventional compatibility; it’s not two individuals coming together, but rather two roles and two assets. However, these factors can change; the people remain constant, and regardless of external circumstances, it’s the personal connection that determines whether a marriage is joyful or miserable.”

“Your mother had rank, I had wealth; this was all that our parents considered in arranging our marriage. I lost my money, she lost her position; forgotten by her family, what good did it do her to be a lady born? In the midst of our misfortunes, the union of our hearts has outweighed them all; the similarity of our tastes led us to choose this retreat; we live happily in our poverty, we are all in all to each other. Sophy is a treasure we hold in common, and we thank Heaven which has bestowed this treasure and deprived us of all others. You see, my child, whither we have been led by Providence; the conventional motives which brought about our marriage no longer exist, our happiness consists in that natural suitability which was held of no account.

“Your mother had status, I had money; that’s all our parents thought about when they arranged our marriage. I lost my wealth, she lost her standing; now that her family has forgotten her, what good does it do her to be born a lady? Despite our misfortunes, our love has made everything worthwhile; our shared interests led us to choose this place to live. We’re happy in our poverty; we mean everything to each other. Sophy is the one treasure we share, and we are grateful to Heaven for giving us this blessing while taking away everything else. You see, my child, where Providence has led us; the conventional reasons for our marriage don’t matter anymore, and our happiness comes from that natural compatibility which was once overlooked.”

“Husband and wife should choose each other. A mutual liking should be the first bond between them. They should follow the guidance of their own eyes and hearts; when they are married their first duty will be to love one another, and as love and hatred do not depend on ourselves, this duty brings another with it, and they must begin to love each other before marriage. That is the law of nature, and no power can abrogate it; those who have fettered it by so many legal restrictions have given heed rather to the outward show of order than to the happiness of marriage or the morals of the citizen. You see, my dear Sophy, we do not preach a harsh morality. It tends to make you your own mistress and to make us leave the choice of your husband to yourself.

“Husband and wife should choose each other. A mutual attraction should be the first bond between them. They should listen to their own feelings and instincts; when they marry, their primary responsibility will be to love one another, and since love and hate aren’t completely in our control, this responsibility brings another with it: they need to start loving each other before marriage. That’s the law of nature, and no authority can change it; those who have restricted it with so many legal rules have focused more on appearances than on the happiness of marriage or the ethics of the individual. You see, my dear Sophy, we aren’t advocating a harsh moral code. We encourage you to be your own decision-maker and to have the freedom to choose your husband yourself.”

“When we have told you our reasons for giving you full liberty, it is only fair to speak of your reasons for making a wise use of that liberty. My child, you are good and sensible, upright and pious, you have the accomplishments of a good woman and you are not altogether without charms; but you are poor; you have the gifts most worthy of esteem, but not those which are most esteemed. Do not seek what is beyond your reach, and let your ambition be controlled, not by your ideas or ours, but by the opinion of others. If it were merely a question of equal merits, I know not what limits to impose on your hopes; but do not let your ambitions outrun your fortune, and remember it is very small. Although a man worthy of you would not consider this inequality an obstacle, you must do what he would not do; Sophy must follow her mother’s example and only enter a family which counts it an honour to receive her. You never saw our wealth, you were born in our poverty; you make it sweet for us, and you share it without hardship. Believe me, Sophy, do not seek those good things we indeed thank heaven for having taken from us; we did not know what happiness was till we lost our money.

"When we’ve explained our reasons for giving you complete freedom, it’s only fair to address your reasons for using that freedom wisely. My child, you are kind and sensible, honest and virtuous; you have the qualities of a good woman and you have your own charm, but you are poor. You possess qualities that are truly admirable, but not the ones that are most sought after. Don’t chase after what’s out of your reach, and let your ambition be guided not by your own ideas or ours, but by what others think. If it were just about equal abilities, I wouldn’t know what limits to place on your hopes; but don’t let your ambitions exceed your means, and remember, those means are quite modest. Although a man worthy of you wouldn’t see this difference as a barrier, you need to do what he wouldn’t: Sophy must follow her mother’s example and only join a family that considers it an honor to welcome her. You’ve never seen our wealth; you were born into our poverty. You make it easier for us, and you share it without struggle. Believe me, Sophy, don’t pursue those good things that we are grateful heaven has taken from us; we didn’t understand happiness until we lost our money."

“You are so amiable that you will win affection, and you are not go poor as to be a burden. You will be sought in marriage, it may be by those who are unworthy of you. If they showed themselves in their true colours, you would rate them at their real value; all their outward show would not long deceive you; but though your judgment is good and you know what merit is when you see it, you are inexperienced and you do not know how people can conceal their real selves. A skilful knave might study your tastes in order to seduce you, and make a pretence of those virtues which he does not possess. You would be ruined, Sophy, before you knew what you were doing, and you would only perceive your error when you had cause to lament it. The most dangerous snare, the only snare which reason cannot avoid, is that of the senses; if ever you have the misfortune to fall into its toils, you will perceive nothing but fancies and illusions; your eyes will be fascinated, your judgment troubled, your will corrupted, your very error will be dear to you, and even if you were able to perceive it you would not be willing to escape from it. My child, I trust you to Sophy’s own reason; I do not trust you to the fancies of your own heart. Judge for yourself so long as your heart is untouched, but when you love betake yourself to your mother’s care.

"You’re so friendly that you'll win people’s affection, and you’re not too poor to be a burden. You’ll be sought after for marriage, possibly by people who aren’t worthy of you. If they revealed their true selves, you would see them for what they really are; all their outward appearances wouldn’t deceive you for long. However, even though you have good judgment and can recognize true merit when you see it, you’re inexperienced and don’t realize how some people can hide their true nature. A clever trickster might pay attention to your likes to win you over and pretend to have virtues he doesn’t actually possess. You could get hurt, Sophy, before you even realize it, and you’d only recognize your mistake when it’s too late to change it. The most dangerous trap, the only one that reason can't avoid, is the trap of the senses; if you ever fall into it, you’ll only see illusions and fantasies. Your eyes will be captivated, your judgment clouded, your will compromised, and your mistake will seem precious to you. Even if you were to realize it, you wouldn't want to escape. My child, I trust you to Sophy’s own reasoning; I don’t trust you to the whims of your heart. Think for yourself while your heart remains untouched, but once you fall in love, turn to your mother for guidance."

“I propose a treaty between us which shows our esteem for you, and restores the order of nature between us. Parents choose a husband for their daughter and she is only consulted as a matter of form; that is the custom. We shall do just the opposite; you will choose, and we shall be consulted. Use your right, Sophy, use it freely and wisely. The husband suitable for you should be chosen by you not us. But it is for us to judge whether he is really suitable, or whether, without knowing it, you are only following your own wishes. Birth, wealth, position, conventional opinions will count for nothing with us. Choose a good man whose person and character suit you; whatever he may be in other respects, we will accept him as our son-in-law. He will be rich enough if he has bodily strength, a good character, and family affection. His position will be good enough if it is ennobled by virtue. If everybody blames us, we do not care. We do not seek the approbation of men, but your happiness.”

“I propose a treaty between us that shows our respect for you and restores the natural order between us. Parents typically choose a husband for their daughter, and she’s only consulted out of formality; that’s how it usually goes. We will do the exact opposite; you will choose, and we will be consulted. Use your right, Sophy, and use it wisely and freely. The right person for you should be chosen by you, not us. But it’s up to us to determine whether he is truly suitable or if, without realizing it, you are just following your own feelings. Factors like birth, wealth, social status, and conventional opinions won’t matter to us. Choose a good man whose character and personality fit you; whatever else he may be, we will wholeheartedly accept him as our son-in-law. He will be rich enough if he has physical strength, good character, and family affection. His status will be sufficient if it’s elevated by virtue. If everyone criticizes us, it doesn’t matter. We are not looking for the approval of others, but for your happiness.”

I cannot tell my readers what effect such words would have upon girls brought up in their fashion. As for Sophy, she will have no words to reply; shame and emotion will not permit her to express herself easily; but I am sure that what was said will remain engraved upon her heart as long as she lives, and that if any human resolution may be trusted, we may rely on her determination to deserve her parent’s esteem.

I can't say how those words would affect girls raised in that way. As for Sophy, she won't have the words to respond; her shame and feelings will make it hard for her to express herself. But I'm sure what was said will stick with her for the rest of her life, and if we can trust any human commitment, we can count on her desire to earn her parents' respect.

At worst let us suppose her endowed with an ardent disposition which will make her impatient of long delays; I maintain that her judgment, her knowledge, her taste, her refinement, and, above all, the sentiments in which she has been brought up from childhood, will outweigh the impetuosity of the senses, and enable her to offer a prolonged resistance, if not to overcome them altogether. She would rather die a virgin martyr than distress her parents by marrying a worthless man and exposing herself to the unhappiness of an ill-assorted marriage. Ardent as an Italian and sentimental as an Englishwoman, she has a curb upon heart and sense in the pride of a Spaniard, who even when she seeks a lover does not easily discover one worthy of her.

At worst, let’s assume she has a passionate nature that makes her impatient with long waits; I believe that her judgment, knowledge, taste, refinement, and especially the values she’s been raised with since childhood will outweigh the impulsiveness of her feelings and allow her to resist for a long time, if not completely overcome them. She would rather remain a virgin martyr than upset her parents by marrying a useless man and putting herself in a troubled marriage. Passionate like an Italian and sentimental like an Englishwoman, she holds back her heart and senses with the pride of a Spaniard, who, even when looking for a partner, doesn’t easily find someone worthy of her.

Not every one can realise the motive power to be found in a love of what is right, nor the inner strength which results from a genuine love of virtue. There are men who think that all greatness is a figment of the brain, men who with their vile and degraded reason will never recognise the power over human passions which is wielded by the very madness of virtue. You can only teach such men by examples; if they persist in denying their existence, so much the worse for them. If I told them that Sophy is no imaginary person, that her name alone is my invention, that her education, her conduct, her character, her very features, really existed, and that her loss is still mourned by a very worthy family, they would, no doubt, refuse to believe me; but indeed why should I not venture to relate word for word the story of a girl so like Sophy that this story might be hers without surprising any one. Believe it or no, it is all the same to me; call my history fiction if you will; in any case I have explained my method and furthered my purpose.

Not everyone can recognize the powerful motivation that comes from a love for what is right, nor the inner strength that arises from a true love for virtue. There are men who believe that greatness is just a product of the imagination, men who will never see the influence over human passions that comes from the very intensity of virtue. You can only teach such men through examples; if they continue to deny it, that’s their loss. If I told them that Sophy is not a fictional character, that her name is the only thing I made up, that her upbringing, her behavior, her personality, and even her looks genuinely existed, and that her loss is still felt by a very respectable family, they would probably refuse to believe me; but honestly, why shouldn't I share the story of a girl so similar to Sophy that it could easily be hers without anyone being surprised? Whether you believe it or not doesn’t matter to me; call my story fiction if you want; in any case, I have explained my method and achieved my goal.

This young girl with the temperament which I have attributed to Sophy was so like her in other respects that she was worthy of the name, and so we will continue to use it. After the conversation related above, her father and mother thought that suitable husbands would not be likely to offer themselves in the hamlet where they lived; so they decided to send her to spend the winter in town, under the care of an aunt who was privately acquainted with the object of the journey; for Sophy’s heart throbbed with noble pride at the thought of her self-control; and however much she might want to marry, she would rather have died a maid than have brought herself to go in search of a husband.

This young girl, with the personality I've associated with Sophy, was so similar to her in many ways that she truly deserves the name, so we'll keep using it. After the conversation mentioned above, her parents believed that suitable husbands weren’t likely to be found in their small village, so they decided to send her to spend the winter in the city, under the care of an aunt who was familiar with the purpose of the trip. Sophy felt a sense of noble pride in her self-control; no matter how much she wanted to marry, she’d rather remain single than lower herself to actively seek a husband.

In response to her parents’ wishes her aunt introduced her to her friends, took her into company, both private and public, showed her society, or rather showed her in society, for Sophy paid little heed to its bustle. Yet it was plain that she did not shrink from young men of pleasing appearance and modest seemly behaviour. Her very shyness had a charm of its own, which was very much like coquetry; but after talking to them once or twice she repulsed them. She soon exchanged that air of authority which seems to accept men’s homage for a humbler bearing and a still more chilling politeness. Always watchful over her conduct, she gave them no chance of doing her the least service; it was perfectly plain that she was determined not to accept any one of them.

In response to her parents’ wishes, her aunt introduced her to her friends, took her into various social situations, and showed her around society, or rather, showed society who she was, since Sophy paid little attention to all the commotion. However, it was clear that she didn’t shy away from good-looking young men with decent behavior. Her shyness had a certain charm that resembled flirtation, but after a couple of conversations, she would push them away. She quickly shifted from an air of authority that seemed to welcome admiration to a humbler demeanor and an even colder politeness. Always careful about her behavior, she didn’t give them a chance to help her at all; it was obvious she was set on not accepting any of them.

Never did sensitive heart take pleasure in noisy amusements, the empty and barren delights of those who have no feelings, those who think that a merry life is a happy life. Sophy did not find what she sought, and she felt sure she never would, so she got tired of the town. She loved her parents dearly and nothing made up for their absence, nothing could make her forget them; she went home long before the time fixed for the end of her visit.

Never did a sensitive heart enjoy loud entertainment, the hollow and empty pleasures of those who lack feelings, who believe that a fun life equals a happy life. Sophy didn’t find what she was looking for, and she was certain she never would, so she grew weary of the town. She loved her parents dearly, and nothing compensated for their absence; nothing could help her forget them. She went home long before the planned end of her visit.

Scarcely had she resumed her home duties when they perceived that her temper had changed though her conduct was unaltered, she was forgetful, impatient, sad, and dreamy; she wept in secret. At first they thought she was in love and was ashamed to own it; they spoke to her, but she repudiated the idea. She protested she had seen no one who could touch her heart, and Sophy always spoke the truth.

As soon as she got back to her chores at home, they noticed that her mood had shifted even though her behavior stayed the same. She seemed forgetful, impatient, sad, and lost in thought; she cried in private. At first, they thought she must be in love but was embarrassed to admit it. They talked to her, but she rejected that idea. She insisted she hadn’t met anyone who could capture her heart, and Sophy always told the truth.

Yet her languor steadily increased, and her health began to give way. Her mother was anxious about her, and determined to know the reason for this change. She took her aside, and with the winning speech and the irresistible caresses which only a mother can employ, she said, “My child, whom I have borne beneath my heart, whom I bear ever in my affection, confide your secret to your mother’s bosom. What secrets are these which a mother may not know? Who pities your sufferings, who shares them, who would gladly relieve them, if not your father and myself? Ah, my child! would you have me die of grief for your sorrow without letting me share it?”

Yet her fatigue kept getting worse, and her health started to decline. Her mother was worried about her and decided to find out the reason for this change. She took her aside and, with the charming words and tender affection that only a mother can give, said, “My child, whom I carried in my womb, whom I always hold in my heart, please share your secret with your mother. What could possibly be so secret that a mother shouldn’t know? Who feels your pain, who shares it, who would be eager to help you if not your father and me? Oh, my child! Would you really want me to suffer in silence because of your sorrow without letting me in?”

Far from hiding her griefs from her mother, the young girl asked nothing better than to have her as friend and comforter; but she could not speak for shame, her modesty could find no words to describe a condition so unworthy of her, as the emotion which disturbed her senses in spite of all her efforts. At length her very shame gave her mother a clue to her difficulty, and she drew from her the humiliating confession. Far from distressing her with reproaches or unjust blame, she consoled her, pitied her, wept over her; she was too wise to make a crime of an evil which virtue alone made so cruel. But why put up with such an evil when there was no necessity to do so, when the remedy was so easy and so legitimate? Why did she not use the freedom they had granted her? Why did she not take a husband? Why did she not make her choice? Did she not know that she was perfectly independent in this matter, that whatever her choice, it would be approved, for it was sure to be good? They had sent her to town, but she would not stay; many suitors had offered themselves, but she would have none of them. What did she expect? What did she want? What an inexplicable contradiction?

Rather than hiding her sadness from her mother, the young girl wanted nothing more than to have her as a friend and comforter; but she couldn’t express herself for shame, her modesty failing to find the words to describe a situation so unworthy of her, as the emotions that overwhelmed her senses despite her efforts. Eventually, her very shame gave her mother a hint about her struggle, leading to a painful confession. Instead of upsetting her with accusations or unfair blame, her mother consoled her, sympathized with her, and cried for her; she was too wise to make a crime out of a pain that virtue alone made so harsh. But why endure such a hardship when it wasn’t necessary, when the solution was so easy and legitimate? Why didn’t she take advantage of the freedom they had given her? Why didn’t she marry? Why didn’t she make her choice? Didn’t she realize she was completely independent in this matter, that whatever choice she made would be approved, because it was sure to be good? They had sent her to the city, but she wouldn’t stay; many suitors had come forward, but she refused them all. What was she expecting? What did she want? What an inexplicable contradiction!

The reply was simple. If it were only a question of the partner of her youth, her choice would soon be made; but a master for life is not so easily chosen; and since the two cannot be separated, people must often wait and sacrifice their youth before they find the man with whom they could spend their life. Such was Sophy’s case; she wanted a lover, but this lover must be her husband; and to discover a heart such as she required, a lover and husband were equally difficult to find. All these dashing young men were only her equals in age, in everything else they were found lacking; their empty wit, their vanity, their affectations of speech, their ill-regulated conduct, their frivolous imitations alike disgusted her. She sought a man and she found monkeys; she sought a soul and there was none to be found.

The response was straightforward. If it were just about the partner of her youth, her decision would be quick; but choosing a lifelong partner isn’t easy, and since those two roles can’t be split, people often have to wait and give up their youth before they find the man they can spend their life with. That was Sophy’s situation; she wanted a lover, but he also had to be her husband. Finding a heart that met her needs was just as tough as finding a lover and husband. All those charming young men were her peers in age, but in every other way, they fell short; their shallow humor, their arrogance, their pretentious ways of speaking, their reckless behavior, and their silly mimicry all repulsed her. She was looking for a man but found only boys; she sought a soul but found none.

“How unhappy I am!” said she to her mother; “I am compelled to love and yet I am dissatisfied with every one. My heart rejects every one who appeals to my senses. Every one of them stirs my passions and all alike revolt them; a liking unaccompanied by respect cannot last. That is not the sort of man for your Sophy; the delightful image of her ideal is too deeply graven in her heart. She can love no other; she can make no one happy but him, and she cannot be happy without him. She would rather consume herself in ceaseless conflicts, she would rather die free and wretched, than driven desperate by the company of a man she did not love, a man she would make as unhappy as herself; she would rather die than live to suffer.”

“How unhappy I am!” she told her mother. “I’m forced to love, yet I’m unsatisfied with everyone. My heart rejects anyone who appeals to my senses. Every one of them ignites my passions, and yet they all repel me; a liking without respect can’t last. That’s not the kind of man for your Sophy; the beautiful vision of her ideal is too deeply etched in her heart. She can’t love anyone else; she can make no one happy but him, and she can’t be happy without him. She would rather destroy herself in endless struggles, she would rather die free and miserable than be driven to despair by the company of a man she doesn’t love, a man she would make just as unhappy as herself; she would rather die than live to suffer.”

Amazed at these strange ideas, her mother found them so peculiar that she could not fail to suspect some mystery. Sophy was neither affected nor absurd. How could such exaggerated delicacy exist in one who had been so carefully taught from her childhood to adapt herself to those with whom she must live, and to make a virtue of necessity? This ideal of the delightful man with which she was so enchanted, who appeared so often in her conversation, made her mother suspect that there was some foundation for her caprices which was still unknown to her, and that Sophy had not told her all. The unhappy girl, overwhelmed with her secret grief, was only too eager to confide it to another. Her mother urged her to speak; she hesitated, she yielded, and leaving the room without a word, she presently returned with a book in her hand. “Have pity on your unhappy daughter, there is no remedy for her grief, her tears cannot be dried. You would know the cause: well, here it is,” said she, flinging the book on the table. Her mother took the book and opened it; it was The Adventures of Telemachus. At first she could make nothing of this riddle; by dint of questions and vague replies, she discovered to her great surprise that her daughter was the rival of Eucharis.

Amazed by these strange ideas, her mother found them so unusual that she couldn't help but suspect there was some mystery behind them. Sophy was neither affected nor ridiculous. How could such exaggerated delicacy exist in someone who had been so carefully taught from childhood to adapt to those around her and to turn necessity into a virtue? This ideal of the charming man, with whom she was so enchanted and who came up often in her conversations, led her mother to suspect there was some underlying truth to her whims that she still didn't know, and that Sophy hadn't told her everything. The unhappy girl, overwhelmed by her secret sadness, was all too eager to share it with someone else. Her mother urged her to open up; she hesitated, gave in, and left the room without saying a word, only to return shortly with a book in her hand. “Have pity on your unhappy daughter; there’s no cure for her sorrow, and her tears can't be dried. You want to know the cause? Well, here it is,” she said, tossing the book onto the table. Her mother took the book and opened it; it turned out to be The Adventures of Telemachus. At first, she couldn't make sense of this riddle; through questions and vague answers, she was shocked to discover that her daughter was the rival of Eucharis.

Sophy was in love with Telemachus, and loved him with a passion which nothing could cure. When her father and mother became aware of her infatuation, they laughed at it and tried to cure her by reasoning with her. They were mistaken, reason was not altogether on their side; Sophy had her own reason and knew how to use it. Many a time did she reduce them to silence by turning their own arguments against them, by showing them that it was all their own fault for not having trained her to suit the men of that century; that she would be compelled to adopt her husband’s way of thinking or he must adopt hers, that they had made the former course impossible by the way she had been brought up, and that the latter was just what she wanted. “Give me,” said she, “a man who holds the same opinions as I do, or one who will be willing to learn them from me, and I will marry him; but until then, why do you scold me? Pity me; I am miserable, but not mad. Is the heart controlled by the will? Did my father not ask that very question? Is it my fault if I love what has no existence? I am no visionary; I desire no prince, I seek no Telemachus, I know he is only an imaginary person; I seek some one like him. And why should there be no such person, since there is such a person as I, I who feel that my heart is like his? No, let us not wrong humanity so greatly, let us not think that an amiable and virtuous man is a figment of the imagination. He exists, he lives, perhaps he is seeking me; he is seeking a soul which is capable of love for him. But who is he, where is he? I know not; he is not among those I have seen; and no doubt I shall never see him. Oh! mother, why did you make virtue too attractive? If I can love nothing less, you are more to blame than I.”

Sophy was in love with Telemachus, and her feelings were so intense that nothing could change them. When her parents found out about her crush, they laughed and tried to reason with her to make her get over it. They were wrong; logic wasn’t entirely on their side. Sophy had her own reasons and knew how to express them. Time and again, she silenced them by turning their own arguments against them, pointing out that it was their fault for not raising her to fit the expectations of men in that era. She argued that she would have to adopt her husband's views or he would have to adopt hers, and they had made the first option impossible due to her upbringing, while the second was exactly what she wanted. “Give me,” she said, “a man who shares my beliefs or one who is willing to learn them from me, and I’ll marry him. But until then, why are you scolding me? Feel sorry for me; I’m unhappy, but not crazy. Can the heart be controlled by the will? Didn’t my father ask that very question? Is it my fault that I love something that doesn’t exist? I’m not a dreamer; I don’t want a prince or a Telemachus; I know he’s just a fictional character. I’m looking for someone like him. And why shouldn’t such a person exist, since I exist, someone who feels that their heart is like his? No, let’s not do humanity such a disservice; let’s not believe that a kind and virtuous man is merely a figment of our imagination. He exists, he’s out there, maybe he’s looking for me; he’s searching for a soul that can love him. But who is he, where is he? I don’t know; he’s not among the ones I’ve seen, and I probably will never meet him. Oh! Mother, why did you make virtue so appealing? If I can love nothing less, you are more to blame than I.”

Must I continue this sad story to its close? Must I describe the long struggles which preceded it? Must I show an impatient mother exchanging her former caresses for severity? Must I paint an angry father forgetting his former promises, and treating the most virtuous of daughters as a mad woman? Must I portray the unhappy girl, more than ever devoted to her imaginary hero, because of the persecution brought upon her by that devotion, drawing nearer step by step to her death, and descending into the grave when they were about to force her to the altar? No; I will not dwell upon these gloomy scenes; I have no need to go so far to show, by what I consider a sufficiently striking example, that in spite of the prejudices arising from the manners of our age, the enthusiasm for the good and the beautiful is no more foreign to women than to men, and that there is nothing which, under nature’s guidance, cannot be obtained from them as well as from us.

Must I continue this sad story to the end? Must I describe the long struggles that came before it? Must I show an impatient mother swapping her loving touches for harshness? Must I depict an angry father forgetting his earlier promises and treating his virtuous daughter like a madwoman? Must I portray the unfortunate girl, even more devoted to her imaginary hero because of the trouble her devotion has caused her, getting closer and closer to her death, and heading to her grave just as they were about to force her to the altar? No; I won’t linger on these dark scenes; I don’t need to go that far to demonstrate, with what I think is a strong example, that despite the prejudices shaped by our society, the passion for the good and the beautiful is just as natural for women as it is for men, and that there’s nothing that, under nature’s guidance, can't be achieved by them just as much as by us.

You stop me here to inquire whether it is nature which teaches us to take such pains to repress our immoderate desires. No, I reply, but neither is it nature who gives us these immoderate desires. Now, all that is not from nature is contrary to nature, as I have proved again and again.

You stop me here to ask if it's nature that teaches us to work so hard to control our excessive desires. No, I reply, but it's not nature that gives us these excessive desires either. Everything that doesn't come from nature is against nature, as I have shown many times.

Let us give Emile his Sophy; let us restore this sweet girl to life and provide her with a less vivid imagination and a happier fate. I desired to paint an ordinary woman, but by endowing her with a great soul, I have disturbed her reason. I have gone astray. Let us retrace our steps. Sophy has only a good disposition and an ordinary heart; her education is responsible for everything in which she excels other women.

Let's give Emile his Sophy; let's bring this sweet girl to life and give her a less intense imagination and a happier outcome. I intended to depict an ordinary woman, but by giving her a great spirit, I've upset her balance. I've lost my way. Let's go back. Sophy has just a good nature and an average heart; her upbringing is responsible for everything that makes her stand out from other women.

In this book I intended to describe all that might be done and to leave every one free to choose what he could out of all the good things I described. I meant to train a helpmeet for Emile, from the very first, and to educate them for each other and with each other. But on consideration I thought all these premature arrangements undesirable, for it was absurd to plan the marriage of two children before I could tell whether this union was in accordance with nature and whether they were really suited to each other. We must not confuse what is suitable in a state of savagery with what is suitable in civilised life. In the former, any woman will suit any man, for both are still in their primitive and undifferentiated condition; in the latter, all their characteristics have been developed by social institutions, and each mind, having taken its own settled form, not from education alone, but by the co-operation, more or less well-regulated, of natural disposition and education, we can only make a match by introducing them to each other to see if they suit each other in every respect, or at least we can let them make that choice which gives the most promise of mutual suitability.

In this book, I aimed to describe all the possibilities and allow everyone the freedom to choose what they wanted from the good things I outlined. My intention was to prepare a partner for Emile from the start and to educate them for each other and alongside each other. However, upon reflection, I realized that these early plans were not ideal, as it would be unreasonable to arrange the marriage of two children before I could determine if this union was natural and if they were truly compatible. We shouldn’t confuse what works in a primitive state with what works in civilized life. In a more basic society, any woman can be suitable for any man, since both are still in their raw, undeveloped state. In a civilized society, however, their traits have been shaped by social institutions, and each person’s mind has formed through a combination of natural inclination and education. Thus, we can only find a match by introducing them to each other to see if they click in every way, or at the very least, we should let them make the choice that shows the most promise for mutual compatibility.

The difficulty is this: while social life develops character it differentiates classes, and these two classifications do not correspond, so that the greater the social distinctions, the greater the difficulty of finding the corresponding character. Hence we have ill-assorted marriages and all their accompanying evils; and we find that it follows logically that the further we get from equality, the greater the change in our natural feelings; the wider the distance between great and small, the looser the marriage tie; the deeper the gulf between rich and poor the fewer husbands and fathers. Neither master nor slave belongs to a family, but only to a class.

The issue is this: while social life shapes character, it also creates class distinctions that don’t align, meaning that the greater the social differences, the harder it is to find compatible characters. This leads to mismatched marriages and all the problems that come with them. Logically, the further we move away from equality, the more our natural feelings change; the bigger the gap between the rich and poor, the weaker the marriage bond becomes; and the greater the divide between the wealthy and the less fortunate, the fewer husbands and fathers there are. Neither masters nor slaves belong to a family, but only to a class.

If you would guard against these abuses, and secure happy marriages, you must stifle your prejudices, forget human institutions, and consult nature. Do not join together those who are only alike in one given condition, those who will not suit one another if that condition is changed; but those who are adapted to one another in every situation, in every country, and in every rank in which they may be placed. I do not say that conventional considerations are of no importance in marriage, but I do say that the influence of natural relations is so much more important, that our fate in life is decided by them alone, and that there is such an agreement of taste, temper, feeling, and disposition as should induce a wise father, though he were a prince, to marry his son, without a moment’s hesitation, to the woman so adapted to him, were she born in a bad home, were she even the hangman’s daughter. I maintain indeed that every possible misfortune may overtake husband and wife if they are thus united, yet they will enjoy more real happiness while they mingle their tears, than if they possessed all the riches of the world, poisoned by divided hearts.

If you want to prevent these problems and ensure happy marriages, you need to set aside your biases, forget about societal norms, and look to nature. Don’t pair people together who only have one thing in common, someone who won’t match well with them if that one thing changes; instead, focus on those who are compatible in every situation, in every country, and at any social level they may find themselves in. I’m not saying that social considerations don’t matter in marriage, but I argue that the role of natural relationships is far more important, that our life outcomes are determined by them alone, and that there’s such a harmony in taste, personality, feelings, and character that a wise father, even if he were a prince, should have no hesitation in marrying his son to a woman who suits him perfectly, even if she comes from a poor background, or is even the daughter of a criminal. I truly believe that any possible hardship may befall a married couple like this, yet they will experience more genuine happiness while sharing their struggles than if they had all the wealth in the world, tainted by divided hearts.

Instead of providing a wife for Emile in childhood, I have waited till I knew what would suit him. It is not for me to decide, but for nature; my task is to discover the choice she has made. My business, mine I repeat, not his father’s; for when he entrusted his son to my care, he gave up his place to me. He gave me his rights; it is I who am really Emile’s father; it is I who have made a man of him. I would have refused to educate him if I were not free to marry him according to his own choice, which is mine. Nothing but the pleasure of bestowing happiness on a man can repay me for the cost of making him capable of happiness.

Instead of finding a wife for Emile when he was a child, I've waited until I knew what would be best for him. It's not my decision to make; it's nature's. My job is to figure out the choice she's made. This is my responsibility, not his father’s; when he entrusted his son to me, he handed over his role to me. He gave me his rights; I am truly Emile’s father; I shaped him into the man he is. I wouldn’t have taken on his education if I wasn’t free to marry him according to his preferences, which align with mine. The only thing that makes the effort of preparing him for happiness worthwhile is the joy of bringing happiness to a man.

Do not suppose, however, that I have delayed to find a wife for Emile till I sent him in search of her. This search is only a pretext for acquainting him with women, so that he may perceive the value of a suitable wife. Sophy was discovered long since; Emile may even have seen her already, but he will not recognise her till the time is come.

Do not think, however, that I've waited to find a wife for Emile until after I sent him out looking for one. This search is just an excuse to introduce him to women, so he can understand the value of a suitable partner. Sophy has been found for a long time; Emile may have even met her already, but he won’t recognize her until the right moment comes.

Although equality of rank is not essential in marriage, yet this equality along with other kinds of suitability increases their value; it is not to be weighed against any one of them, but, other things being equal, it turns the scale.

While equal social standing isn't necessary for marriage, this equality, along with other forms of compatibility, enhances their value. It's not meant to be compared against any single aspect, but when everything else is equal, it tips the balance.

A man, unless he is a king, cannot seek a wife in any and every class; if he himself is free from prejudices, he will find them in others; and this girl or that might perhaps suit him and yet she would be beyond his reach. A wise father will therefore restrict his inquiries within the bounds of prudence. He should not wish to marry his pupil into a family above his own, for that is not within his power. If he could do so he ought not desire it; for what difference does rank make to a young man, at least to my pupil? Yet, if he rises he is exposed to all sorts of real evils which he will feel all his life long. I even say that he should not try to adjust the balance between different gifts, such as rank and money; for each of these adds less to the value of the other than the amount deducted from its own value in the process of adjustment; moreover, we can never agree as to a common denominator; and finally the preference, which each feels for his own surroundings, paves the way for discord between the two families and often to difficulties between husband and wife.

A man, unless he's a king, can't just look for a wife in any class he wants; even if he doesn't have biases, he will find them in others. This girl or that might be a good match for him, but she might be out of his reach. A wise father will keep his search within reasonable limits. He shouldn't try to marry his child into a family that's above their own status, because that's not realistic. If he could, he still shouldn't want it; after all, what does status really matter to a young man, especially to my student? However, if he tries to climb up, he'll face various real problems that will stay with him for life. I even believe he shouldn't try to balance different qualities like status and wealth; each of these contributes less to the other’s worth than what gets taken away from its own value during the balancing act. Plus, we can never agree on a common measure, and in the end, the preference people have for their own backgrounds can lead to tension between the two families and often difficulties between husband and wife.

It makes a considerable difference as to the suitability of a marriage whether a man marries above or beneath him. The former case is quite contrary to reason, the latter is more in conformity with reason. As the family is only connected with society through its head, it is the rank of that head which decides that of the family as a whole. When he marries into a lower rank, a man does not lower himself, he raises his wife; if, on the other hand, he marries above his position, he lowers his wife and does not raise himself. Thus there is in the first case good unmixed with evil, in the other evil unmixed with good. Moreover, the law of nature bids the woman obey the man. If he takes a wife from a lower class, natural and civil law are in accordance and all goes well. When he marries a woman of higher rank it is just the opposite case; the man must choose between diminished rights or imperfect gratitude; he must be ungrateful or despised. Then the wife, laying claim to authority, makes herself a tyrant over her lawful head; and the master, who has become a slave, is the most ridiculous and miserable of creatures. Such are the unhappy favourites whom the sovereigns of Asia honour and torment with their alliance; people tell us that if they desire to sleep with their wife they must enter by the foot of the bed.

It significantly affects the suitability of a marriage whether a man marries someone of a higher or lower social status. Marrying above oneself is completely unreasonable, whereas marrying beneath oneself aligns more with reason. Since a family is only connected to society through its head, the status of that head determines the status of the entire family. When a man marries into a lower social class, he doesn’t lower himself; he elevates his wife. Conversely, if he marries someone above his own status, he diminishes his wife and does not elevate himself. Therefore, the first scenario brings good without any negative aspects, while the second brings negative aspects without any good. Furthermore, nature dictates that a woman should obey her husband. If he marries someone from a lower class, both natural and civil law agree, and everything functions smoothly. However, if he marries a woman of higher status, the situation is reversed; the man faces a choice between losing his rights or receiving inadequate gratitude; he must either be ungrateful or feel inferior. In this case, the wife, asserting her authority, becomes a tyrant over her rightful head, and the master, who has turned into a servant, becomes the most ridiculous and miserable person. These are the unfortunate favorites that Asian sovereigns honor and torment with their association; it is said that if they wish to sleep with their wives, they must enter from the foot of the bed.

I expect that many of my readers will remember that I think women have a natural gift for managing men, and will accuse me of contradicting myself; yet they are mistaken. There is a vast difference between claiming the right to command, and managing him who commands. Woman’s reign is a reign of gentleness, tact, and kindness; her commands are caresses, her threats are tears. She should reign in the home as a minister reigns in the state, by contriving to be ordered to do what she wants. In this sense, I grant you, that the best managed homes are those where the wife has most power. But when she despises the voice of her head, when she desires to usurp his rights and take the command upon herself, this inversion of the proper order of things leads only to misery, scandal, and dishonour.

I believe that many of my readers will remember that I think women naturally excel at managing men and might accuse me of being inconsistent; however, they're mistaken. There's a big difference between claiming the right to lead and managing someone who leads. A woman's reign is one of gentleness, tact, and kindness; her commands are like affectionate gestures, and her threats are expressed through tears. She should rule the home like a minister governs a state, figuring out how to be directed toward what she wants. In this regard, I admit that the best-managed homes are where the wife holds the most power. But when she disregards her partner's authority, seeking to take over his rights and authority, it only creates misery, scandal, and dishonor.

There remains the choice between our equals and our inferiors; and I think we ought also to make certain restrictions with regard to the latter; for it is hard to find in the lowest stratum of society a woman who is able to make a good man happy; not that the lower classes are more vicious than the higher, but because they have so little idea of what is good and beautiful, and because the injustice of other classes makes its very vices seem right in the eyes of this class.

There’s still the choice between those who are equal to us and those who aren’t; and I believe we should also set some limits regarding the latter. It’s hard to find a woman in the lowest social class who can make a good man happy. It’s not that the lower classes are more corrupt than the higher ones, but rather that they have little understanding of what is good and beautiful. Additionally, the unfairness of other classes makes their own flaws appear justified to them.

By nature man thinks but seldom. He learns to think as he acquires the other arts, but with even greater difficulty. In both sexes alike I am only aware of two really distinct classes, those who think and those who do not; and this difference is almost entirely one of education. A man who thinks should not ally himself with a woman who does not think, for he loses the chief delight of social life if he has a wife who cannot share his thoughts. People who spend their whole life in working for a living have no ideas beyond their work and their own interests, and their mind seems to reside in their arms. This ignorance is not necessarily unfavourable either to their honesty or their morals; it is often favourable; we often content ourselves with thinking about our duties, and in the end we substitute words for things. Conscience is the most enlightened philosopher; to be an honest man we need not read Cicero’s De Officiis, and the most virtuous woman in the world is probably she who knows least about virtue. But it is none the less true that a cultivated mind alone makes intercourse pleasant, and it is a sad thing for a father of a family, who delights in his home, to be forced to shut himself up in himself and to be unable to make himself understood.

By nature, people think but not very often. They learn to think as they pick up other skills, but it's even harder for them. I see only two real groups in both genders: those who think and those who don’t; and this difference mostly comes from education. A man who thinks shouldn’t partner with a woman who doesn’t, because he misses out on the joy of social life if his wife can’t engage with his thoughts. People who spend their lives just working don’t have ideas beyond their job and personal interests, and their thoughts seem to be stuck in their physical labor. This lack of awareness doesn’t necessarily harm their honesty or morals; in fact, it can sometimes help. We often find ourselves only thinking about our responsibilities and end up replacing real experiences with mere words. Conscience is the most insightful guide—being an honest person doesn’t require reading Cicero’s De Officiis, and the most virtuous woman is probably the one who knows the least about virtue. But it’s still true that only a well-cultivated mind makes connections enjoyable, and it’s a sad situation for a family man who loves his home but has to withdraw into himself and feels unable to communicate.

Moreover, if a woman is quite unaccustomed to think, how can she bring up her children? How will she know what is good for them? How can she incline them to virtues of which she is ignorant, to merit of which she has no conception? She can only flatter or threaten, she can only make them insolent or timid; she will make them performing monkeys or noisy little rascals; she will never make them intelligent or pleasing children.

Moreover, if a woman isn't used to thinking, how can she raise her kids? How will she know what's best for them? How can she guide them toward virtues she doesn't understand, or achievements she has no idea about? She can only flatter or threaten; she can only make them arrogant or afraid. She'll turn them into performing monkeys or loud little troublemakers; she'll never help them become smart or well-mannered kids.

Therefore it is not fitting that a man of education should choose a wife who has none, or take her from a class where she cannot be expected to have any education. But I would a thousand times rather have a homely girl, simply brought up, than a learned lady and a wit who would make a literary circle of my house and install herself as its president. A female wit is a scourge to her husband, her children, her friends, her servants, to everybody. From the lofty height of her genius she scorns every womanly duty, and she is always trying to make a man of herself after the fashion of Mlle. de L’Enclos. Outside her home she always makes herself ridiculous and she is very rightly a butt for criticism, as we always are when we try to escape from our own position into one for which we are unfitted. These highly talented women only get a hold over fools. We can always tell what artist or friend holds the pen or pencil when they are at work; we know what discreet man of letters dictates their oracles in private. This trickery is unworthy of a decent woman. If she really had talents, her pretentiousness would degrade them. Her honour is to be unknown; her glory is the respect of her husband; her joys the happiness of her family. I appeal to my readers to give me an honest answer; when you enter a woman’s room what makes you think more highly of her, what makes you address her with more respect—to see her busy with feminine occupations, with her household duties, with her children’s clothes about her, or to find her writing verses at her toilet table surrounded with pamphlets of every kind and with notes on tinted paper? If there were none but wise men upon earth such a woman would die an old maid.

It’s not appropriate for an educated man to choose a wife who isn’t educated or to take one from a background where she can’t be expected to have any education. But I would much prefer a plain girl who was raised simply over a learned woman who would want to transform my home into a literary salon and appoint herself as its leader. A witty woman can be a burden to her husband, her children, her friends, her servants—everyone. From her lofty position, she looks down on every traditional duty of a woman and tries to turn herself into a man in the style of Mlle. de L’Enclos. Outside her home, she often makes a fool of herself and deserves the criticism she gets, just as we do when we attempt to rise above our place into one for which we aren't suited. These highly talented women only attract fools. We can always tell which artist or friend is guiding their creative work; we know which discreet writer is behind their statements in private. This kind of deception is beneath a respectable woman. If she truly had talent, her arrogance would only diminish it. Her true honor lies in being unrecognized; her glory is in her husband's respect; her joy comes from her family's happiness. I ask my readers to give me an honest answer: when you enter a woman's space, what makes you think more highly of her? Is it seeing her engaged in traditional feminine tasks, handling household duties, or surrounded by her children's clothes? Or is it discovering her writing poetry at her vanity, surrounded by all kinds of pamphlets and notes on colored paper? If there were only wise men in the world, such a woman would die an old maid.

     “Quaeris cur nolim te ducere, galla? diserta es.”
           Martial xi. 20.
     “Are you asking why I don’t want to take you out, girl? You’re quite eloquent.”  
           Martial xi. 20.

Looks must next be considered; they are the first thing that strikes us and they ought to be the last, still they should not count for nothing. I think that great beauty is rather to be shunned than sought after in marriage. Possession soon exhausts our appreciation of beauty; in six weeks’ time we think no more about it, but its dangers endure as long as life itself. Unless a beautiful woman is an angel, her husband is the most miserable of men; and even if she were an angel he would still be the centre of a hostile crowd and she could not prevent it. If extreme ugliness were not repulsive I should prefer it to extreme beauty; for before very long the husband would cease to notice either, but beauty would still have its disadvantages and ugliness its advantages. But ugliness which is actually repulsive is the worst misfortune; repulsion increases rather than diminishes, and it turns to hatred. Such a union is a hell upon earth; better death than such a marriage.

We need to think about looks next; they’re the first thing that catches our attention and should be the last, yet they shouldn’t be dismissed entirely. I believe that extreme beauty is more something to avoid than pursue in marriage. Over time, we lose our appreciation for beauty; after about six weeks, it becomes unimportant, but its complications linger throughout life. If a beautiful woman isn't an angel, her husband ends up being the most miserable man; and even if she were an angel, he'd still find himself surrounded by negativity, and she couldn’t change that. If severe ugliness weren’t off-putting, I’d choose it over extreme beauty; because eventually, the husband would stop noticing either, while beauty would still come with its issues, and ugliness might have some benefits. However, ugliness that is genuinely repulsive is the worst fate; repulsion increases rather than decreases and can turn into hatred. Such a marriage is like living in hell; death would be preferable to it.

Desire mediocrity in all things, even in beauty. A pleasant attractive countenance, which inspires kindly feelings rather than love, is what we should prefer; the husband runs no risk, and the advantages are common to husband and wife; charm is less perishable than beauty; it is a living thing, which constantly renews itself, and after thirty years of married life, the charms of a good woman delight her husband even as they did on the wedding-day.

Desire mediocrity in everything, even in beauty. A pleasing and attractive appearance that evokes friendly feelings rather than romantic love is what we should value; the husband faces no risk, and the benefits are shared by both partners; charm lasts longer than beauty; it’s something that keeps renewing itself, and after thirty years of marriage, the charms of a good woman still bring her husband joy just like they did on their wedding day.

Such are the considerations which decided my choice of Sophy. Brought up, like Emile, by Nature, she is better suited to him than any other; she will be his true mate. She is his equal in birth and character, his inferior in fortune. She makes no great impression at first sight, but day by day reveals fresh charms. Her chief influence only takes effect gradually, it is only discovered in friendly intercourse; and her husband will feel it more than any one. Her education is neither showy nor neglected; she has taste without deep study, talent without art, judgment without learning. Her mind knows little, but it is trained to learn; it is well-tilled soil ready for the sower. She has read no book but Bareme and Telemachus which happened to fall into her hands; but no girl who can feel so passionately towards Telemachus can have a heart without feeling or a mind without discernment. What charming ignorance! Happy is he who is destined to be her tutor. She will not be her husband’s teacher but his scholar; far from seeking to control his tastes, she will share them. She will suit him far better than a blue-stocking and he will have the pleasure of teaching her everything. It is time they made acquaintance; let us try to plan a meeting.

These are the reasons that led me to choose Sophy. Raised, like Emile, by Nature, she is better suited to him than anyone else; she will be his true partner. She is his equal in background and character, though not in wealth. At first glance, she may not make a strong impression, but day by day, she reveals more of her charms. Her main influence takes effect slowly, becoming apparent through friendly interaction, and her husband will feel it more than anyone else. Her education is neither flashy nor neglected; she has taste without extensive study, talent without refinement, and judgment without formal learning. Her mind may not hold much knowledge, but it is eager to learn; it’s like well-cultivated soil ready for planting. She has only read Bareme and Telemachus, which happened to come her way; still, no girl who can feel so passionately about Telemachus can lack a heart filled with feeling or a mind without insight. What delightful ignorance! He is fortunate indeed who is to be her mentor. She will not be her husband’s teacher, but rather his student; instead of trying to impose her tastes, she will embrace his. She will fit him far better than a bookish woman, and he will enjoy the pleasure of teaching her everything. It's time for them to meet; let's figure out how to arrange an introduction.

When we left Paris we were sorrowful and wrapped in thought. This Babel is not our home. Emile casts a scornful glance towards the great city, saying angrily, “What a time we have wasted; the bride of my heart is not there. My friend, you knew it, but you think nothing of my time, and you pay no heed to my sufferings.” With steady look and firm voice I reply, “Emile, do you mean what you say?” At once he flings his arms round my neck and clasps me to his breast without speaking. That is his answer when he knows he is in the wrong.

When we left Paris, we felt sad and lost in thought. This place isn't our home. Emile shot a scornful look at the big city, saying angrily, "What a waste of time; the love of my life isn't here. My friend, you knew that, but you don’t care about my time, and you ignore my pain." With a steady gaze and firm voice, I reply, "Emile, are you serious?" Immediately, he wraps his arms around me and holds me tight without saying a word. That's his answer when he realizes he's in the wrong.

And now we are wandering through the country like true knights-errant; yet we are not seeking adventures when we leave Paris; we are escaping from them; now fast now slow, we wander through the country like knights-errants. By following my usual practice the taste for it has become established; and I do not suppose any of my readers are such slaves of custom as to picture us dozing in a post-chaise with closed windows, travelling, yet seeing nothing, observing nothing, making the time between our start and our arrival a mere blank, and losing in the speed of our journey, the time we meant to save.

And now we're wandering through the countryside like true knights-errant; but we're not looking for adventures as we leave Paris; we're actually trying to escape from them. Sometimes fast, sometimes slow, we roam through the countryside like knights-errants. By sticking to my usual approach, I've developed a taste for it; and I doubt any of my readers are so trapped in routine as to imagine us dozing in a carriage with the windows shut, traveling yet seeing nothing, noticing nothing, making the time between our departure and arrival a total blank, and wasting the time we aimed to save by rushing our journey.

Men say life is short, and I see them doing their best to shorten it. As they do not know how to spend their time they lament the swiftness of its flight, and I perceive that for them it goes only too slowly. Intent merely on the object of their pursuit, they behold unwillingly the space between them and it; one desires to-morrow, another looks a month ahead, another ten years beyond that. No one wants to live to-day, no one contents himself with the present hour, all complain that it passes slowly. When they complain that time flies, they lie; they would gladly purchase the power to hasten it; they would gladly spend their fortune to get rid of their whole life; and there is probably not a single one who would not have reduced his life to a few hours if he had been free to get rid of those hours he found tedious, and those which separated him from the desired moment. A man spends his whole life rushing from Paris to Versailles, from Versailles to Paris, from town to country, from country to town, from one district of the town to another; but he would not know what to do with his time if he had not discovered this way of wasting it, by leaving his business on purpose to find something to do in coming back to it; he thinks he is saving the time he spends, which would otherwise be unoccupied; or maybe he rushes for the sake of rushing, and travels post in order to return in the same fashion. When will mankind cease to slander nature? Why do you complain that life is short when it is never short enough for you? If there were but one of you, able to moderate his desires, so that he did not desire the flight of time, he would never find life too short; for him life and the joy of life would be one and the same; should he die young, he would still die full of days.

Men say life is short, and I see them doing their best to make it even shorter. Since they don't know how to spend their time, they complain about how quickly it passes, yet for them, it seems to drag on. Focused solely on their goals, they reluctantly notice the distance between themselves and what they seek; one looks forward to tomorrow, another a month ahead, and another ten years beyond that. No one wants to live in the present; everyone is dissatisfied with the current moment, all claiming that time moves slowly. When they say time flies, they're not being honest; they'd happily pay to speed it up. They’d gladly use their fortune to escape their entire lives; there’s probably not a single one who wouldn’t shorten his life to just a few hours if he could eliminate the tedious ones and those that kept him from what he desires. A person spends their whole life racing between Paris and Versailles, from Versailles back to Paris, from city to countryside, from countryside to city, from one neighborhood to another; yet they wouldn't know what to do with their time if they hadn't found this way to waste it, intentionally leaving their work to look for something else to occupy themselves, believing they're saving the time they’d otherwise waste; or maybe they rush just for the thrill of it and travel fast so they can return just as quickly. When will people stop blaming nature? Why complain that life is short when it’s never short enough for you? If even one of you could learn to temper your desires so that you didn't wish for time to pass faster, you would never think life was too short; for you, life and the joy of living would be the same thing; and if you died young, you'd still die having lived a full life.

If this were the only advantage of my way of travelling it would be enough. I have brought Emile up neither to desire nor to wait, but to enjoy; and when his desires are bent upon the future, their ardour is not so great as to make time seem tedious. He will not only enjoy the delights of longing, but the delights of approaching the object of his desires; and his passions are under such restraint that he lives to a great extent in the present.

If this were the only benefit of my way of traveling, it would be enough. I’ve raised Emile not to yearn or to wait, but to enjoy; and when his desires focus on the future, they aren’t so intense that time feels slow. He will not only savor the joys of longing but also the pleasures of getting closer to what he wants; and his feelings are kept in check so that he mainly lives in the moment.

So we do not travel like couriers but like explorers. We do not merely consider the beginning and the end, but the space between. The journey itself is a delight. We do not travel sitting, dismally imprisoned, so to speak, in a tightly closed cage. We do not travel with the ease and comfort of ladies. We do not deprive ourselves of the fresh air, nor the sight of the things about us, nor the opportunity of examining them at our pleasure. Emile will never enter a post-chaise, nor will he ride post unless in a great hurry. But what cause has Emile for haste? None but the joy of life. Shall I add to this the desire to do good when he can? No, for that is itself one of the joys of life.

So we don’t travel like messengers but like adventurers. We don’t just focus on the start and the end, but on everything in between. The journey itself is enjoyable. We don’t travel sitting, feeling trapped, so to speak, in a tightly closed cage. We don’t travel with the ease and comfort of ladies. We don’t miss out on fresh air, the sights around us, or the chance to explore them at our leisure. Emile will never get into a carriage, nor will he travel by post unless he's in a big hurry. But why would Emile be in a hurry? There’s no reason except for the joy of life. Should I add the desire to do good when he can? No, because that’s also one of the joys of life.

I can only think of one way of travelling pleasanter than travelling on horseback, and that is to travel on foot. You start at your own time, you stop when you will, you do as much or as little as you choose. You see the country, you turn off to the right or left; you examine anything which interests you, you stop to admire every view. Do I see a stream, I wander by its banks; a leafy wood, I seek its shade; a cave, I enter it; a quarry, I study its geology. If I like a place, I stop there. As soon as I am weary of it, I go on. I am independent of horses and postillions; I need not stick to regular routes or good roads; I go anywhere where a man can go; I see all that a man can see; and as I am quite independent of everybody, I enjoy all the freedom man can enjoy. If I am stopped by bad weather and I find myself getting bored, then I take horses. If I am tired—but Emile is hardly ever tired; he is strong; why should he get tired? There is no hurry? If he stops, why should he be bored? He always finds some amusement. He works at a trade; he uses his arms to rest his feet.

I can only think of one way to travel that’s more enjoyable than riding a horse, and that’s walking. You can start whenever you want, take breaks whenever you feel like it, and do as much or as little as you want. You get to see the landscape, take detours to the right or left; check out anything that catches your interest, and stop to appreciate every view. If I see a stream, I stroll along its banks; if there’s a shady forest, I relax there; if there’s a cave, I explore it; if I find a quarry, I look into its geology. If I like a spot, I linger there. As soon as I’m tired of it, I move on. I’m not tied to horses or drivers; I don’t have to stick to set paths or good roads; I can go anywhere that a person can go; I see everything a person can see; and since I’m completely independent, I enjoy all the freedom that comes with it. If bad weather stops me and I start feeling bored, then I can take horses. If I get tired—but Emile is hardly ever tired; he’s strong; why should he be? There’s no rush. If he stops, why would he be bored? He always finds something to do. He works at a trade; he uses his hands to give his feet a break.

To travel on foot is to travel in the fashion of Thales, Plato, and Pythagoras. I find it hard to understand how a philosopher can bring himself to travel in any other way; how he can tear himself from the study of the wealth which lies before his eyes and beneath his feet. Is there any one with an interest in agriculture, who does not want to know the special products of the district through which he is passing, and their method of cultivation? Is there any one with a taste for natural history, who can pass a piece of ground without examining it, a rock without breaking off a piece of it, hills without looking for plants, and stones without seeking for fossils?

To walk is to travel like Thales, Plato, and Pythagoras. I find it hard to understand how a philosopher could choose to travel any other way; how he could pull himself away from the knowledge that’s right in front of him and under his feet. Is there anyone interested in farming who wouldn’t want to learn about the unique crops of the area they’re passing through and how they are grown? Is there anyone with a passion for natural history who can walk over land without examining it, pass by a rock without chipping off a piece, overlook hills without searching for plants, or see stones without looking for fossils?

Your town-bred scientists study natural history in cabinets; they have small specimens; they know their names but nothing of their nature. Emile’s museum is richer than that of kings; it is the whole world. Everything is in its right place; the Naturalist who is its curator has taken care to arrange it in the fairest order; Dauberton could do no better.

Your local scientists study natural history in offices; they have small specimens; they know their names but not much about their nature. Emile’s museum is more impressive than that of kings; it represents the entire world. Everything is organized perfectly; the curator, who is a Naturalist, has ensured it’s arranged in the best possible way; Dauberton couldn't do any better.

What varied pleasures we enjoy in this delightful way of travelling, not to speak of increasing health and a cheerful spirit. I notice that those who ride in nice, well-padded carriages are always wrapped in thought, gloomy, fault-finding, or sick; while those who go on foot are always merry, light-hearted, and delighted with everything. How cheerful we are when we get near our lodging for the night! How savoury is the coarse food! How we linger at table enjoying our rest! How soundly we sleep on a hard bed! If you only want to get to a place you may ride in a post-chaise; if you want to travel you must go on foot.

What different pleasures we find in this enjoyable way of traveling, not to mention the boost to our health and our cheerful mood. I’ve noticed that those who ride in nice, cushioned carriages are often lost in thought, gloomy, critical, or unwell; while those who walk are always joyful, light-hearted, and happy with everything. How cheerful we feel when we’re close to our lodging for the night! How delicious the simple food is! How we linger at the table, savoring our rest! How well we sleep on a hard bed! If all you want is to reach a destination, you can take a carriage; but if you want to truly travel, you have to go on foot.

If Sophy is not forgotten before we have gone fifty leagues in the way I propose, either I am a bungler or Emile lacks curiosity; for with an elementary knowledge of so many things, it is hardly to be supposed that he will not be tempted to extend his knowledge. It is knowledge that makes us curious; and Emile knows just enough to want to know more.

If Sophy isn't forgotten by the time we've traveled fifty leagues on the path I suggest, either I'm doing a terrible job or Emile isn't curious; because with a basic understanding of so many things, it's hard to believe he wouldn't be interested in learning more. It's knowledge that fuels our curiosity, and Emile knows just enough to want to learn more.

One thing leads on to another, and we make our way forward. If I chose a distant object for the end of our first journey, it is not difficult to find an excuse for it; when we leave Paris we must seek a wife at a distance.

One thing leads to another, and we move ahead. If I picked a faraway destination for the end of our first journey, it’s easy to justify; when we leave Paris, we have to look for a wife from a distance.

A few days later we had wandered further than usual among hills and valleys where no road was to be seen and we lost our way completely. No matter, all roads are alike if they bring you to your journey’s end, but if you are hungry they must lead somewhere. Luckily we came across a peasant who took up to his cottage; we enjoyed his poor dinner with a hearty appetite. When he saw how hungry and tired we were he said, “If the Lord had led you to the other side of the hill you would have had a better welcome, you would have found a good resting place, such good, kindly people! They could not wish to do more for you than I, but they are richer, though folks say they used to be much better off. Still they are not reduced to poverty, and the whole country-side is the better for what they have.”

A few days later, we wandered farther than usual among hills and valleys where there were no visible roads, and we completely lost our way. No worries, all roads are the same if they lead you to your destination, but if you're hungry, they have to go somewhere. Fortunately, we stumbled upon a peasant who took us to his cottage; we enjoyed his simple dinner with hearty appetites. When he saw how hungry and tired we were, he said, “If the Lord had guided you over the hill, you would have received a warmer welcome; you would have found a nice place to rest, with good, kind people! They couldn’t do more for you than I can, but they are wealthier, though people say they used to be much better off. Still, they aren’t in poverty, and the whole area is better for what they have.”

When Emile heard of these good people his heart warmed to them. “My friend,” said he, looking at me, “let us visit this house, whose owners are a blessing to the district; I shall be very glad to see them; perhaps they will be pleased to see us too; I am sure we shall be welcome; we shall just suit each other.”

When Emile heard about these kind people, he felt a warmth in his heart. “My friend,” he said, looking at me, “let’s go visit this house, where the owners are a blessing to the community; I’d be really happy to see them; maybe they’ll be glad to see us too; I’m sure we’ll all get along well.”

Our host told us how to find our way to the house and we set off, but lost our way in the woods. We were caught in a heavy rainstorm, which delayed us further. At last we found the right path and in the evening we reached the house, which had been described to us. It was the only house among the cottages of the little hamlet, and though plain it had an air of dignity. We went up to the door and asked for hospitality. We were taken to the owner of the house, who questioned us courteously; without telling him the object of our journey, we told him why we had left our path. His former wealth enabled him to judge a man’s position by his manners; those who have lived in society are rarely mistaken; with this passport we were admitted.

Our host showed us how to get to the house, and we set off, but we got lost in the woods. A heavy rainstorm hit us, which delayed us even more. Finally, we found the right path, and in the evening we arrived at the house that had been described to us. It was the only house among the cottages of the small village, and even though it was simple, it had a sense of dignity. We approached the door and asked for a place to stay. We were taken to the owner of the house, who greeted us politely; without revealing the purpose of our journey, we explained why we had strayed from our path. His past wealth allowed him to assess a person's status based on their manners; those who have been part of society rarely make mistakes in this regard; with this understanding, we were welcomed.

The room we were shown into was very small, but clean and comfortable; a fire was lighted, and we found linen, clothes, and everything we needed. “Why,” said Emile, in astonishment, “one would think they were expecting us. The peasant was quite right; how kind and attentive, how considerate, and for strangers too! I shall think I am living in the times of Homer.” “I am glad you feel this,” said I, “but you need not be surprised; where strangers are scarce, they are welcome; nothing makes people more hospitable than the fact that calls upon their hospitality are rare; when guests are frequent there is an end to hospitality. In Homer’s time, people rarely travelled, and travellers were everywhere welcome. Very likely we are the only people who have passed this way this year.” “Never mind,” said he, “to know how to do without guests and yet to give them a kind welcome, is its own praise.”

The room we were shown into was small but clean and cozy; a fire was lit, and we found linens, clothes, and everything we needed. “Wow,” Emile said, surprised, “it’s like they were expecting us. The peasant was right; how kind and attentive they are, especially to strangers! I feel like I’m living back in Homer’s time.” “I’m glad you feel that way,” I replied, “but you shouldn’t be surprised; where strangers are rare, they’re welcomed. Nothing makes people more hospitable than the fact that they don’t often get guests; when guests come too frequently, hospitality fades. Back in Homer’s day, people hardly traveled, and travelers were welcomed everywhere. We might be the only ones to have passed this way this year.” “That’s okay,” he said, “to know how to get by without guests yet still give them a warm welcome is a compliment in itself.”

Having dried ourselves and changed our clothes, we rejoined the master of the house, who introduced us to his wife; she received us not merely with courtesy but with kindness. Her glance rested on Emile. A mother, in her position, rarely receives a young man into her house without some anxiety or some curiosity at least.

Having dried off and changed clothes, we went back to the host, who introduced us to his wife; she welcomed us not just with politeness but with genuine warmth. Her gaze lingered on Emile. A mother in her position often has some worries or at least curiosity when a young man enters her home.

Supper was hurried forward on our account. When we went into the dining-room there were five places laid; we took our seats and the fifth chair remained empty. Presently a young girl entered, made a deep courtesy, and modestly took her place without a word. Emile was busy with his supper or considering how to reply to what was said to him; he bowed to her and continued talking and eating. The main object of his journey was as far from his thoughts as he believed himself to be from the end of his journey. The conversation turned upon our losing our way. “Sir,” said the master of the house to Emile, “you seem to be a pleasant well-behaved young gentleman, and that reminds me that your tutor and you arrived wet and weary like Telemachus and Mentor in the island of Calypso.” “Indeed,” said Emile, “we have found the hospitality of Calypso.” His Mentor added, “And the charms of Eucharis.” But Emile knew the Odyssey and he had not read Telemachus, so he knew nothing of Eucharis. As for the young girl, I saw she blushed up to her eyebrows, fixed her eyes on her plate, and hardly dared to breathe. Her mother, noticing her confusion, made a sign to her father to turn the conversation. When he talked of his lonely life, he unconsciously began to relate the circumstances which brought him into it; his misfortunes, his wife’s fidelity, the consolations they found in their marriage, their quiet, peaceful life in their retirement, and all this without a word of the young girl; it is a pleasing and a touching story, which cannot fail to interest. Emile, interested and sympathetic, leaves off eating and listens. When finally this best of men discourses with delight of the affection of the best of women, the young traveller, carried away by his feelings, stretches one hand to the husband, and taking the wife’s hand with the other, he kisses it rapturously and bathes it with his tears. Everybody is charmed with the simple enthusiasm of the young man; but the daughter, more deeply touched than the rest by this evidence of his kindly heart, is reminded of Telemachus weeping for the woes of Philoctetus. She looks at him shyly, the better to study his countenance; there is nothing in it to give the lie to her comparison.

Supper was rushed for us. When we entered the dining room, there were five places set; we took our seats, leaving one chair empty. Shortly after, a young girl came in, curtsied deeply, and quietly took her place. Emile was preoccupied with his meal or thinking about how to respond to what was being said; he nodded to her and went on talking and eating. He was so lost in thought that the main purpose of his journey felt as distant as his final destination. The conversation shifted to how we got lost. “Sir,” said the host to Emile, “you seem like a pleasant young man, and it reminds me of how your tutor and you arrived, soaked and tired, like Telemachus and Mentor on Calypso's island.” “Indeed,” Emile replied, “we have found Calypso’s hospitality.” His Mentor added, “And the charms of Eucharis.” But Emile knew the Odyssey and hadn’t read Telemachus, so he didn’t know anything about Eucharis. The young girl turned bright red, fixed her eyes on her plate, and barely dared to breathe. Her mother noticed her embarrassment and gestured to her father to change the topic. When he spoke about his solitary life, he began to share the story of how he came to live that way, his hardships, his wife’s loyalty, the comforts they found in their marriage, their quiet, peaceful life together, and all this without mentioning the young girl; it was a touching story that was bound to captivate. Emile, interested and empathetic, paused his eating to listen. When this wonderful man spoke happily about the love of the best woman, the young traveler, moved by emotion, reached out one hand to the husband and took the wife’s hand with the other, kissing it passionately and wetting it with his tears. Everyone was charmed by the young man’s simple enthusiasm; however, the daughter, more affected than the others by this display of his warm heart, thought of Telemachus weeping for Philoctetus's troubles. She gazed at him shyly, wanting to study his face; there was nothing in it to contradict her comparison.

His easy bearing shows freedom without pride; his manners are lively but not boisterous; sympathy makes his glance softer and his expression more pleasing; the young girl, seeing him weep, is ready to mingle her tears with his. With so good an excuse for tears, she is restrained by a secret shame; she blames herself already for the tears which tremble on her eyelids, as though it were wrong to weep for one’s family.

His relaxed demeanor shows freedom without arrogance; his manners are energetic but not overwhelming; compassion makes his gaze softer and his expression more charming; the young girl, seeing him cry, is ready to share her tears with him. With such a good reason to cry, she holds back due to a hidden sense of shame; she already feels guilty for the tears that are about to spill over her eyelids, as if it’s wrong to weep for her family.

Her mother, who has been watching her ever since she sat down to supper, sees her distress, and to relieve it she sends her on some errand. The daughter returns directly, but so little recovered that her distress is apparent to all. Her mother says gently, “Sophy, control yourself; will you never cease to weep for the misfortunes of your parents? Why should you, who are their chief comfort, be more sensitive than they are themselves?”

Her mother, who has been watching her ever since she sat down to dinner, notices her distress and sends her on an errand to help ease it. The daughter comes back right away, but she’s barely improved, and her distress is obvious to everyone. Her mother says softly, “Sophy, pull yourself together; will you ever stop crying over your parents' misfortunes? Why should you, who are their main source of comfort, be more sensitive than they are?”

At the name of Sophy you would have seen Emile give a start. His attention is arrested by this dear name, and he awakes all at once and looks eagerly at one who dares to bear it. Sophy! Are you the Sophy whom my heart is seeking? Is it you that I love? He looks at her; he watches her with a sort of fear and self-distrust. The face is not quite what he pictured; he cannot tell whether he likes it more or less. He studies every feature, he watches every movement, every gesture; he has a hundred fleeting interpretations for them all; he would give half his life if she would but speak. He looks at me anxiously and uneasily; his eyes are full of questions and reproaches. His every glance seems to say, “Guide me while there is yet time; if my heart yields itself and is deceived, I shall never get over it.”

At the mention of Sophy, you would have seen Emile flinch. That beloved name grabs his attention, and he suddenly wakes up, looking eagerly at the person who dares to carry it. Sophy! Are you the Sophy my heart has been searching for? Is it you that I love? He examines her closely, filled with a mix of fear and self-doubt. Her face isn't exactly what he imagined; he can't decide if he likes it more or less. He scrutinizes every feature, every movement, every gesture; he has a hundred different interpretations for them all. He would give up half his life just for her to say something. He looks at me with anxiety and unease; his eyes are filled with questions and accusations. Each glance seems to say, “Guide me while there’s still time; if my heart gives in and gets tricked, I’ll never recover from it.”

There is no one in the world less able to conceal his feelings than Emile. How should he conceal them, in the midst of the greatest disturbance he has ever experienced, and under the eyes of four spectators who are all watching him, while she who seems to heed him least is really most occupied with him. His uneasiness does not escape the keen eyes of Sophy; his own eyes tell her that she is its cause; she sees that this uneasiness is not yet love; what matter? He is thinking of her, and that is enough; she will be very unlucky if he thinks of her with impunity.

There’s no one in the world worse at hiding his feelings than Emile. How can he hide them when he’s experiencing the biggest turmoil of his life and four people are watching him? The one person who seems least concerned is actually the most focused on him. Sophy notices his discomfort; his eyes reveal that she’s the reason for it. She realizes that this uneasiness isn’t quite love yet; but so what? He’s thinking about her, and that’s enough; she’ll be very unfortunate if he thinks about her without any consequences.

Mothers, like daughters, have eyes; and they have experience too. Sophy’s mother smiles at the success of our schemes. She reads the hearts of the young people; she sees that the time has come to secure the heart of this new Telemachus; she makes her daughter speak. Her daughter, with her native sweetness, replies in a timid tone which makes all the more impression. At the first sound of her voice, Emile surrenders; it is Sophy herself; there can be no doubt about it. If it were not so, it would be too late to deny it.

Mothers, like daughters, have eyes and experience. Sophy’s mother smiles at the success of our plans. She understands the feelings of the young people; she knows the time has come to win the heart of this new Telemachus; she encourages her daughter to speak. Her daughter, with her natural sweetness, replies in a shy tone that makes an even greater impact. At the first sound of her voice, Emile gives in; it is Sophy herself; there’s no doubt about it. If it weren’t true, it would be too late to deny it.

The charms of this maiden enchantress rush like torrents through his heart, and he begins to drain the draughts of poison with which he is intoxicated. He says nothing; questions pass unheeded; he sees only Sophy, he hears only Sophy; if she says a word, he opens his mouth; if her eyes are cast down, so are his; if he sees her sigh, he sighs too; it is Sophy’s heart which seems to speak in his. What a change have these few moments wrought in her heart! It is no longer her turn to tremble, it is Emile’s. Farewell liberty, simplicity, frankness. Confused, embarrassed, fearful, he dare not look about him for fear he should see that we are watching him. Ashamed that we should read his secret, he would fain become invisible to every one, that he might feed in secret on the sight of Sophy. Sophy, on the other hand, regains her confidence at the sight of Emile’s fear; she sees her triumph and rejoices in it.

The charms of this enchanting girl rush like torrents through his heart, and he starts to consume the toxic feelings that have intoxicated him. He says nothing; questions go unanswered; he sees only Sophy, he hears only Sophy; if she says a word, he opens his mouth; if her eyes drop, so do his; if he notices her sigh, he sighs too; it’s as if Sophy’s heart is speaking through his. What a change have these few moments made in her heart! It’s no longer her turn to feel anxious; now it’s Emile’s. Goodbye to freedom, simplicity, and honesty. Confused, embarrassed, and scared, he doesn’t dare look around for fear that he will see us watching him. Ashamed that we might uncover his secret, he wishes he could become invisible to everyone, just so he could secretly gaze at Sophy. On the other hand, Sophy regains her confidence at the sight of Emile’s fear; she sees her victory and takes joy in it.

     “No’l mostra gia, ben che in suo cor ne rida.”
           Tasso, Jerus. Del., c. iv. v. 33.
“No’l mostra gia, ben che in suo cor ne rida.”  
Tasso, Jerus. Del., c. iv. v. 33.

Her expression remains unchanged; but in spite of her modest look and downcast eyes, her tender heart is throbbing with joy, and it tells her that she has found Telemachus.

Her expression stays the same; but despite her modest appearance and lowered eyes, her tender heart is beating with joy, and it tells her that she has found Telemachus.

If I relate the plain and simple tale of their innocent affections you will accuse me of frivolity, but you will be mistaken. Sufficient attention is not given to the effect which the first connection between man and woman is bound to produce on the future life of both. People do not see that a first impression so vivid as that of love, or the liking which takes the place of love, produces lasting effects whose influence continues till death. Works on education are crammed with wordy and unnecessary accounts of the imaginary duties of children; but there is not a word about the most important and most difficult part of their education, the crisis which forms the bridge between the child and the man. If any part of this work is really useful, it will be because I have dwelt at great length on this matter, so essential in itself and so neglected by other authors, and because I have not allowed myself to be discouraged either by false delicacy or by the difficulties of expression. The story of human nature is a fair romance. Am I to blame if it is not found elsewhere? I am trying to write the history of mankind. If my book is a romance, the fault lies with those who deprave mankind.

If I share the straightforward story of their innocent feelings, you'll probably accuse me of being trivial, but you'd be wrong. Not enough attention is paid to the impact that the first relationship between a man and a woman has on the future lives of both. People often overlook how a first impression as intense as love, or the affection that replaces it, creates lasting effects that persist until death. Educational works are packed with lengthy and unnecessary discussions about the imaginary responsibilities of children; yet, there’s barely any mention of the most crucial and challenging aspect of their education: the transition that bridges childhood and adulthood. If any part of this work is truly valuable, it’s because I’ve extensively explored this vital but overlooked topic, and I haven’t let false modesty or the challenges of expression deter me. The story of human nature is a beautiful romance. Am I to be blamed if it’s not found elsewhere? I’m attempting to write the history of humanity. If my book turns out to be a romance, the blame lies with those who corrupt mankind.

This is supported by another reason; we are not dealing with a youth given over from childhood to fear, greed, envy, pride, and all those passions which are the common tools of the schoolmaster; we have to do with a youth who is not only in love for the first time, but with one who is also experiencing his first passion of any kind; very likely it will be the only strong passion he will ever know, and upon it depends the final formation of his character. His mode of thought, his feelings, his tastes, determined by a lasting passion, are about to become so fixed that they will be incapable of further change.

This is backed up by another point: we’re not talking about a young person driven by fear, greed, envy, pride, and all those feelings that are typical tools of a teacher. We're dealing with a young person who is not only falling in love for the first time but is also experiencing his first strong passion overall; it’s likely to be the only intense passion he will ever feel, and it will shape the final development of his character. His way of thinking, his emotions, and his preferences, defined by this enduring passion, are about to become so entrenched that they won't be able to change further.

You will easily understand that Emile and I do not spend the whole of the night which follows after such an evening in sleep. Why! Do you mean to tell me that a wise man should be so much affected by a mere coincidence of name! Is there only one Sophy in the world? Are they all alike in heart and in name? Is every Sophy he meets his Sophy? Is he mad to fall in love with a person of whom he knows so little, with whom he has scarcely exchanged a couple of words? Wait, young man; examine, observe. You do not even know who our hosts may be, and to hear you talk one would think the house was your own.

You can easily see that Emile and I don't spend the entire night after such an evening asleep. Really! Are you saying that a wise person should be so affected by just a coincidence of names? Is there only one Sophy in existence? Are they all the same in heart and name? Is every Sophy he encounters his Sophy? Is it crazy to fall in love with someone he knows so little about, with whom he’s hardly exchanged a few words? Hold on, young man; take a closer look, pay attention. You don't even know who our hosts are, and from the way you speak, you'd think this house was yours.

This is no time for teaching, and what I say will receive scant attention. It only serves to stimulate Emile to further interest in Sophy, through his desire to find reasons for his fancy. The unexpected coincidence in the name, the meeting which, so far as he knows, was quite accidental, my very caution itself, only serve as fuel to the fire. He is so convinced already of Sophy’s excellence, that he feels sure he can make me fond of her.

This isn’t the right time for teaching, and what I say will hardly be noticed. It only encourages Emile to become even more interested in Sophy because he wants to find reasons for his infatuation. The surprising coincidence of the name, the meeting that, as far as he knows, was completely by chance, and my own caution only add fuel to the fire. He is already so convinced of Sophy’s greatness that he believes he can make me like her.

Next morning I have no doubt Emile will make himself as smart as his old travelling suit permits. I am not mistaken; but I am amused to see how eager he is to wear the clean linen put out for us. I know his thoughts, and I am delighted to see that he is trying to establish a means of intercourse, through the return and exchange of the linen; so that he may have a right to return it and so pay another visit to the house.

Next morning, I’m sure Emile will dress up as much as his old travel suit allows. I’m not wrong; it’s funny to see how eager he is to wear the clean linen laid out for us. I know what he’s thinking, and I’m pleased to see that he’s trying to create a way to communicate by returning and exchanging the linen, so he’ll have an excuse to come back to the house.

I expected to find Sophy rather more carefully dressed too; but I was mistaken. Such common coquetry is all very well for those who merely desire to please. The coquetry of true love is a more delicate matter; it has quite another end in view. Sophy is dressed, if possible, more simply than last night, though as usual her frock is exquisitely clean. The only sign of coquetry is her self-consciousness. She knows that an elaborate toilet is a sign of love, but she does not know that a careless toilet is another of its signs; it shows a desire to be like not merely for one’s clothes but for oneself. What does a lover care for her clothes if he knows she is thinking of him? Sophy is already sure of her power over Emile, and she is not content to delight his eyes if his heart is not hers also; he must not only perceive her charms, he must divine them; has he not seen enough to guess the rest?

I expected Sophy to be dressed a bit more carefully too, but I was wrong. Such basic flirting is fine for those who just want to impress. The flirting that comes from true love is more subtle; it has a different purpose. Sophy is dressed, if anything, even more simply than last night, though as always, her dress is beautifully clean. The only hint of flirting is her self-awareness. She knows that an elaborate outfit shows love, but she doesn’t realize that a laid-back outfit can signal it too; it reflects a desire to be appreciated not just for her clothes but for who she is. What does a lover care about her clothes if he knows she’s thinking of him? Sophy is already confident in her hold over Emile, and she’s not satisfied with just catching his eye if his heart isn’t hers as well; he must not only notice her beauty, but also sense it; hasn’t he seen enough to figure out the rest?

We may take it for granted that while Emile and I were talking last night, Sophy and her mother were not silent; a confession was made and instructions given. The morning’s meeting is not unprepared. Twelve hours ago our young people had never met; they have never said a word to each other; but it is clear that there is already an understanding between them. Their greeting is formal, confused, timid; they say nothing, their downcast eyes seem to avoid each other, but that is in itself a sign that they understand, they avoid each other with one consent; they already feel the need of concealment, though not a word has been uttered. When we depart we ask leave to come again to return the borrowed clothes in person, Emile’s words are addressed to the father and mother, but his eyes seek Sophy’s, and his looks are more eloquent than his words. Sophy says nothing by word or gesture; she seems deaf and blind, but she blushes, and that blush is an answer even plainer than that of her parents.

We might assume that while Emile and I were talking last night, Sophy and her mom were having a conversation too; a confession was made and instructions were given. The morning’s meeting isn’t spontaneous. Twelve hours ago, our young people had never met; they hadn’t said a word to each other; but it’s clear there’s already an understanding between them. Their greeting is formal, awkward, and shy; they say nothing, their downcast eyes seem to avoid each other, but that alone shows they get it—they’re deliberately avoiding each other; they already feel the need to keep things hidden, even though not a word has been spoken. When we leave, we ask if we can come back to return the borrowed clothes in person. Emile speaks to Sophy’s parents, but his eyes are on Sophy, and his gaze says more than his words. Sophy doesn’t say anything with words or gestures; she seems oblivious, but she blushes, and that blush communicates even more clearly than her parents' responses.

We receive permission to come again, though we are not invited to stay. This is only fitting; you offer shelter to benighted travellers, but a lover does not sleep in the house of his mistress.

We’re allowed to come back, but we’re not invited to stay. This makes sense; you provide shelter to lost travelers, but a lover doesn’t spend the night in his mistress’s home.

We have hardly left the beloved abode before Emile is thinking of taking rooms in the neighbourhood; the nearest cottage seems too far; he would like to sleep in the next ditch. “You young fool!” I said in a tone of pity, “are you already blinded by passion? Have you no regard for manners or for reason? Wretched youth, you call yourself a lover and you would bring disgrace upon her you love! What would people say of her if they knew that a young man who has been staying at her house was sleeping close by? You say you love her! Would you ruin her reputation? Is that the price you offer for her parents’ hospitality? Would you bring disgrace on her who will one day make you the happiest of men?” “Why should we trouble ourselves about the empty words and unjust suspicions of other people?” said he eagerly. “Have you not taught me yourself to make light of them? Who knows better than I how greatly I honour Sophy, what respect I desire to show her? My attachment will not cause her shame, it will be her glory, it shall be worthy of her. If my heart and my actions continually give her the homage she deserves, what harm can I do her?” “Dear Emile,” I said, as I clasped him to my heart, “you are thinking of yourself alone; learn to think for her too. Do not compare the honour of one sex with that of the other, they rest on different foundations. These foundations are equally firm and right, because they are both laid by nature, and that same virtue which makes you scorn what men say about yourself, binds you to respect what they say of her you love. Your honour is in your own keeping, her honour depends on others. To neglect it is to wound your own honour, and you fail in what is due to yourself if you do not give her the respect she deserves.”

We just left our cherished home when Emile starts thinking about renting a place nearby; the closest cottage feels too far away; he’d rather sleep in the next ditch. “You young fool!” I said, feeling sorry for him, “are you already blinded by love? Don’t you care about manners or reason? Poor guy, you call yourself a lover, and you want to bring shame upon the woman you love! What would people think if they knew that a young man staying at her house was sleeping so close by? You claim to love her! Would you ruin her reputation? Is that the price you’re offering for her parents’ hospitality? Would you bring disgrace to the woman who could one day make you the happiest man?” “Why should we worry about the empty words and unfair doubts of others?” he replied eagerly. “Haven’t you taught me to not take them seriously? Who knows better than I how much I honor Sophy and the respect I want to show her? My feelings won’t cause her shame; they’ll be her glory, and they will be worthy of her. If my heart and my actions continually show her the respect she deserves, what harm can I do to her?” “Dear Emile,” I said, pulling him close, “you’re only thinking of yourself; you need to think of her too. Don’t compare the honor of one sex with the other; they’re built on different foundations. These foundations are equally strong and right because they’re both established by nature, and that same virtue that makes you disregard what others say about you also binds you to respect what they say about her. Your honor is in your hands; her honor depends on others. To ignore it is to hurt your own honor, and you fail to uphold what you owe to yourself if you don’t give her the respect she deserves.”

Then while I explain the reasons for this difference, I make him realise how wrong it would be to pay no attention to it. Who can say if he will really be Sophy’s husband? He does not know how she feels towards him; her own heart or her parents’ will may already have formed other engagements; he knows nothing of her, perhaps there are none of those grounds of suitability which make a happy marriage. Is he not aware that the least breath of scandal with regard to a young girl is an indelible stain, which not even marriage with him who has caused the scandal can efface? What man of feeling would ruin the woman he loves? What man of honour would desire that a miserable woman should for ever lament the misfortune of having found favour in his eyes?

Then, as I explain the reasons for this difference, I help him understand how wrong it would be to ignore it. Who can say if he will actually be Sophy’s husband? He doesn’t know how she feels about him; her own heart or her parents may have already arranged other commitments; he knows nothing about her, and maybe there aren't any of those qualities that create a happy marriage. Doesn’t he realize that even the slightest hint of scandal involving a young girl is an unforgivable mark, which not even marrying the one who caused the scandal can erase? What man with feelings would ruin the woman he loves? What man of honor would want a miserable woman to forever mourn the misfortune of having attracted his attention?

Always prone to extremes, the youth takes alarm at the consequences which I have compelled him to consider, and now he thinks that he cannot be too far from Sophy’s home; he hastens his steps to get further from it; he glances round to make sure that no one is listening; he would sacrifice his own happiness a thousand times to the honour of her whom he loves; he would rather never see her again than cause her the least unpleasantness. This is the first result of the pains I have taken ever since he was a child to make him capable of affection.

Always prone to extremes, the young man is alarmed by the consequences I’ve made him consider, and now he believes he can't be too far from Sophy’s home; he quickens his pace to distance himself from it. He looks around to ensure no one is listening; he would sacrifice his own happiness a thousand times for the honor of the woman he loves. He would rather never see her again than cause her any discomfort. This is the first outcome of the efforts I've put in since he was a child to help him become capable of love.

We must therefore seek a lodging at a distance, but not too far. We look about us, we make inquiries; we find that there is a town at least two leagues away. We try and find lodgings in this town, rather than in the nearer villages, where our presence might give rise to suspicion. It is there that the new lover takes up his abode, full of love, hope, joy, above all full of right feeling. In this way, I guide his rising passion towards all that is honourable and good, so that his inclinations unconsciously follow the same bent.

We need to find a place to stay that's a bit far from here, but not too far. We look around and ask for recommendations; we discover there's a town at least two leagues away. We decide to find accommodations there instead of in the closer villages, where we might raise suspicions. This is where the new lover sets up his home, filled with love, hope, and joy, especially with the right mindset. In this way, I steer his growing passion towards what is honorable and good, so that his feelings naturally align with that direction.

My course is drawing to a close; the end is in view. All the chief difficulties are vanquished, the chief obstacles overcome; the hardest thing left to do is to refrain from spoiling my work by undue haste to complete it. Amid the uncertainty of human life, let us shun that false prudence which seeks to sacrifice the present to the future; what is, is too often sacrificed to what will never be. Let us make man happy at every age lest in spite of our care he should die without knowing the meaning of happiness. Now if there is a time to enjoy life, it is undoubtedly the close of adolescence, when the powers of mind and body have reached their greatest strength, and when man in the midst of his course is furthest from those two extremes which tell him “Life is short.” If the imprudence of youth deceives itself it is not in its desire for enjoyment, but because it seeks enjoyment where it is not to be found, and lays up misery for the future, while unable to enjoy the present.

My course is coming to an end; I can see the finish line. All the major difficulties have been conquered, and the biggest obstacles have been cleared; the hardest part now is to avoid ruining my work by rushing to finish it. In the midst of life's uncertainties, let’s avoid that misguided caution that sacrifices the present for the future; what is real is too often lost in pursuit of what may never happen. Let’s ensure that people find happiness at every stage of life so that, despite our best efforts, they don’t leave this world without ever experiencing true joy. If there’s a time to enjoy life, it’s definitely at the end of adolescence, when both mind and body are at their peak, and when a person, in the midst of their journey, is farthest from those two extremes reminding them, “Life is short.” If youthful recklessness leads to self-deception, it’s not in the pursuit of enjoyment, but because it looks for happiness in places where it can’t be found and ends up storing up future misery while missing out on the present.

Consider my Emile over twenty years of age, well formed, well developed in mind and body, strong, healthy, active, skilful, robust, full of sense, reason, kindness, humanity, possessed of good morals and good taste, loving what is beautiful, doing what is good, free from the sway of fierce passions, released from the tyranny of popular prejudices, but subject to the law of wisdom, and easily guided by the voice of a friend; gifted with so many useful and pleasant accomplishments, caring little for wealth, able to earn a living with his own hands, and not afraid of want, whatever may come. Behold him in the intoxication of a growing passion; his heart opens to the first beams of love; its pleasant fancies reveal to him a whole world of new delights and enjoyments; he loves a sweet woman, whose character is even more delightful than her person; he hopes, he expects the reward which he deserves.

Imagine my Emile at over twenty years old, well-shaped, developed in mind and body, strong, healthy, active, skilled, robust, full of sense, reason, kindness, and humanity. He has good morals and good taste, appreciates beauty, does good deeds, is free from intense passions, released from the constraints of popular prejudices, but follows the law of wisdom and is easily guided by a friend's advice. He possesses many useful and enjoyable skills, cares little for wealth, can earn a living with his own hands, and is not afraid of scarcity, whatever may happen. Picture him in the thrill of newfound love; his heart opens to the first rays of affection, and its lovely dreams reveal to him a whole world of new joys and pleasures. He loves a wonderful woman, whose character is even more captivating than her appearance; he hopes and expects the reward he deserves.

Their first attachment took its rise in mutual affection, in community of honourable feelings; therefore this affection is lasting. It abandons itself, with confidence, with reason, to the most delightful madness, without fear, regret, remorse, or any other disturbing thought, but that which is inseparable from all happiness. What lacks there yet? Behold, inquire, imagine what still is lacking, that can be combined with present joys. Every happiness which can exist in combination is already present; nothing could be added without taking away from what there is; he is as happy as man can be. Shall I choose this time to cut short so sweet a period? Shall I disturb such pure enjoyment? The happiness he enjoys is my life’s reward. What could I give that could outweigh what I should take away? Even if I set the crown to his happiness I should destroy its greatest charm. That supreme joy is a hundredfold greater in anticipation than in possession; its savour is greater while we wait for it than when it is ours. O worthy Emile! love and be loved! prolong your enjoyment before it is yours; rejoice in your love and in your innocence, find your paradise upon earth, while you await your heaven. I shall not cut short this happy period of life. I will draw out its enchantments, I will prolong them as far as possible. Alas! it must come to an end and that soon; but it shall at least linger in your memory, and you will never repent of its joys.

Their first connection began with shared feelings of love and mutual respect, making this bond last. They freely give themselves to the most joyous madness, without fear, regret, guilt, or any troubling thoughts, except for the one that often accompanies happiness. What more could there possibly be? Look closely, question, imagine what else could enhance the joy that already exists. All possible sources of happiness are already present; nothing can be added without taking away from what there is; he is as happy as anyone can be. Should I really choose to interrupt such a sweet moment? Should I disrupt this pure enjoyment? The happiness he feels is the reward of my life. What could I give that would surpass what I would take away? Even if I were to crown his happiness, I’d ruin its greatest charm. That ultimate joy is far greater in anticipation than in reality; its essence is more enjoyable while we wait for it than when we possess it. Oh, dear Emile! Love and be loved! Savor your joy before it fully belongs to you; take pleasure in your love and innocence, find your paradise on earth while you await your heaven. I won’t cut this happy phase of life short. I will savor its magic, stretching it out as long as possible. Unfortunately, it must come to an end soon; but at least it will remain in your memory, and you will never regret its joys.

Emile has not forgotten that we have something to return. As soon as the things are ready, we take horse and set off at a great pace, for on this occasion he is anxious to get there. When the heart opens the door to passion, it becomes conscious of the slow flight of time. If my time has not been wasted he will not spend his life like this.

Emile hasn't forgotten that we have something to return. As soon as everything is ready, we hop on our horses and set off at full speed because he's eager to get there. When the heart opens up to passion, it becomes aware of how slowly time passes. If I haven't wasted my time, he won't spend his life like this.

Unluckily the road is intricate and the country difficult. We lose our way; he is the first to notice it, and without losing his temper, and without grumbling, he devotes his whole attention to discovering the path; he wanders for a long time before he knows where he is and always with the same self-control. You think nothing of that; but I think it a matter of great importance, for I know how eager he is; I see the results of the care I have taken from his infancy to harden him to endure the blows of necessity.

Unfortunately, the road is complicated and the terrain is tough. We get lost; he notices it first, and without getting angry or complaining, he focuses entirely on finding the way. He explores for a long time before figuring out where he is, always maintaining his composure. You might not think much of that, but I consider it very important because I know how determined he is; I see the results of the effort I've put in since he was a child to prepare him to handle life's challenges.

We are there at last! Our reception is much simpler and more friendly than on the previous occasion; we are already old acquaintances. Emile and Sophy bow shyly and say nothing; what can they say in our presence? What they wish to say requires no spectators. We walk in the garden; a well-kept kitchen-garden takes the place of flower-beds, the park is an orchard full of fine tall fruit trees of every kind, divided by pretty streams and borders full of flowers. “What a lovely place!” exclaims Emile, still thinking of his Homer, and still full of enthusiasm, “I could fancy myself in the garden of Alcinous.” The daughter wishes she knew who Alcinous was; her mother asks. “Alcinous,” I tell them, “was a king of Coreyra. Homer describes his garden and the critics think it too simple and unadorned. [Footnote: “‘When you leave the palace you enter a vast garden, four acres in extent, walled in on every side, planted with tall trees in blossom, and yielding pears, pomegranates, and other goodly fruits, fig-trees with their luscious burden and green olives. All the year round these fair trees are heavy with fruit; summer and winter the soft breath of the west wind sways the trees and ripens the fruit. Pears and apples wither on the branches, the fig on the fig-tree, and the clusters of grapes on the vine. The inexhaustible stock bears fresh grapes, some are baked, some are spread out on the threshing floor to dry, others are made into wine, while flowers, sour grapes, and those which are beginning to wither are left upon the tree. At either end is a square garden filled with flowers which bloom throughout the year, these gardens are adorned by two fountains, one of these streams waters the garden, the other passes through the palace and is then taken to a lofty tower in the town to provide drinking water for its citizens.’ Such is the description of the royal garden of Alcinous in the 7th book of the Odyssey, a garden in which, to the lasting disgrace of that old dreamer Homer and the princes of his day, there were neither trellises, statues, cascades, nor bowling-greens.”] This Alcinous had a charming daughter who dreamed the night before her father received a stranger at his board that she would soon have a husband.” Sophy, taken unawares, blushed, hung her head, and bit her lips; no one could be more confused. Her father, who was enjoying her confusion, added that the young princess bent herself to wash the linen in the river. “Do you think,” said he, “she would have scorned to touch the dirty clothes, saying, that they smelt of grease?” Sophy, touched to the quick, forgot her natural timidity and defended herself eagerly. Her papa knew very well all the smaller things would have had no other laundress if she had been allowed to wash them, and she would gladly have done more had she been set to do it. [Footnote: I own I feel grateful to Sophy’s mother for not letting her spoil such pretty hands with soap, hands which Emile will kiss so often.] Meanwhile she watched me secretly with such anxiety that I could not suppress a smile, while I read the terrors of her simple heart which urged her to speak. Her father was cruel enough to continue this foolish sport, by asking her, in jest, why she spoke on her own behalf and what had she in common with the daughter of Alcinous. Trembling and ashamed she dared hardly breathe or look at us. Charming girl! This is no time for feigning, you have shown your true feelings in spite of yourself.

We’ve finally arrived! Our welcome is much simpler and friendlier than last time; we’re already old friends. Emile and Sophy quietly bow and say nothing; what can they say in front of us? What they want to express doesn’t need an audience. We stroll through the garden; a well-maintained vegetable garden takes the place of flowerbeds, and the park is an orchard filled with beautiful tall fruit trees of all kinds, separated by lovely streams and flower borders. “What a beautiful place!” exclaims Emile, still captivated by his Homer and full of excitement, “I could imagine I’m in the garden of Alcinous.” The daughter wonders who Alcinous is; her mother asks. “Alcinous,” I tell them, “was a king of Corfu. Homer describes his garden, and critics find it too simple and plain. [Footnote: “‘When you leave the palace, you enter a vast garden, four acres in size, walled in on all sides, filled with tall flowering trees that produce pears, pomegranates, and other delicious fruits, fig trees with their juicy offerings, and green olives. All year round, these beautiful trees are laden with fruit; summer and winter, the soft breeze from the west sways the trees and ripens the fruit. Pears and apples fall from their branches, figs drop from the fig tree, and grape clusters hang from the vine. The abundant vines yield fresh grapes, some are dried, some spread out on the threshing floor, others made into wine, while flowers, sour grapes, and those beginning to wither remain on the tree. At each end is a square garden filled with flowers that bloom year-round, adorned by two fountains, one watering the garden and the other flowing through the palace before being sent to a tall tower in the town to provide drinking water for its citizens.’ Such is the description of the royal garden of Alcinous in the 7th book of the Odyssey, a garden that, to the lasting shame of that old dreamer Homer and the princes of his time, had no trellises, statues, waterfalls, or bowling greens.”] This Alcinous had a lovely daughter who dreamed the night before her father welcomed a stranger to his table that she would soon find a husband.” Sophy, caught off guard, blushed, looked down, and bit her lips; she couldn’t be more embarrassed. Her father, enjoying her embarrassment, added that the young princess went to wash the linens in the river. “Do you think,” he said, “she would have refused to touch the dirty clothes, claiming they smelled like grease?” Sophy, deeply affected, quickly overcame her natural shyness and defended herself passionately. Her dad knew very well that none of the little things would have had another laundress if she’d been allowed to wash them, and she would have happily done even more if given the chance. [Footnote: I must say I’m grateful to Sophy’s mom for not letting her ruin those beautiful hands with soap, hands that Emile will kiss so often.] Meanwhile, she watched me furtively with such anxiety that I couldn’t help but smile, seeing the fear of her innocent heart urging her to speak. Her father was cruel enough to continue this silly game by asking her, jokingly, why she was defending herself and what she had in common with the daughter of Alcinous. Trembling and embarrassed, she hardly dared to breathe or look at us. What a charming girl! This isn’t a time for pretending; you’ve revealed your true feelings despite yourself.

To all appearance this little scene is soon forgotten; luckily for Sophy, Emile, at least, is unaware of it. We continue our walk, the young people at first keeping close beside us; but they find it hard to adapt themselves to our slower pace, and presently they are a little in front of us, they are walking side by side, they begin to talk, and before long they are a good way ahead. Sophy seems to be listening quietly, Emile is talking and gesticulating vigorously; they seem to find their conversation interesting. When we turn homewards a full hour later, we call them to us and they return slowly enough now, and we can see they are making good use of their time. Their conversation ceases suddenly before they come within earshot, and they hurry up to us. Emile meets us with a frank affectionate expression; his eyes are sparkling with joy; yet he looks anxiously at Sophy’s mother to see how she takes it. Sophy is not nearly so much at her ease; as she approaches us she seems covered with confusion at finding herself tete-a-tete with a young man, though she has met so many other young men frankly enough, and without being found fault with for it. She runs up to her mother, somewhat out of breath, and makes some trivial remark, as if to pretend she had been with her for some time.

To everyone watching, this little scene is quickly forgotten; fortunately for Sophy, Emile doesn’t notice it at all. We continue our walk, the young people initially sticking close to us, but they struggle to keep up with our slower pace. Before long, they drift a bit ahead, walking side by side, chatting away, and soon they're quite far ahead. Sophy appears to be listening quietly, while Emile talks animatedly and gestures enthusiastically; they seem to be enjoying their conversation. When we turn to head home an hour later, we call them back, and they return slowly enough now, clearly making the most of their time. Their conversation stops suddenly before they reach us, and they hurry up. Emile meets us with a warm, affectionate look; his eyes are shining with happiness, but he glances nervously at Sophy’s mother to see how she feels about it. Sophy, on the other hand, looks far less comfortable; as she approaches, she appears embarrassed to find herself face-to-face with a young man, even though she has interacted with many others quite freely without concern. She rushes over to her mother, a bit breathless, and makes a trivial comment, almost as if to pretend she’s been with her all along.

From the happy expression of these dear children we see that this conversation has taken a load off their hearts. They are no less reticent in their intercourse, but their reticence is less embarrassing, it is only due to Emile’s reverence and Sophy’s modesty, to the goodness of both. Emile ventures to say a few words to her, she ventures to reply, but she always looks at her mother before she dares to answer. The most remarkable change is in her attitude towards me. She shows me the greatest respect, she watches me with interest, she takes pains to please me; I see that I am honoured with her esteem, and that she is not indifferent to mine. I understand that Emile has been talking to her about me; you might say they have been scheming to win me over to their side; yet it is not so, and Sophy herself is not so easily won. Perhaps Emile will have more need of my influence with her than of hers with me. What a charming pair! When I consider that the tender love of my young friend has brought my name so prominently into his first conversation with his lady-love, I enjoy the reward of all my trouble; his affection is a sufficient recompense.

From the happy expressions on these dear children's faces, it's clear that this conversation has lifted a weight off their hearts. They’re still a bit reserved in how they interact, but their reticence isn’t as awkward; it stems from Emile’s respect and Sophy’s modesty, both of which are lovely qualities. Emile says a few words to her, and she hesitantly replies, always glancing at her mother before daring to answer. The biggest change is in how she behaves around me. She shows me deep respect, watches me with interest, and makes an effort to please me; it's clear that she holds me in high regard, and she’s not indifferent to my feelings either. I gather that Emile has been discussing me with her; it’s as if they’ve been plotting to win me over to their side, but that isn’t quite right, as Sophy isn't easily swayed. Maybe Emile will need my influence with her more than she'll need hers with me. What a charming pair they are! When I think about how my young friend's tender love has brought my name into his first conversation with his love interest, I feel a great sense of reward for all my efforts; his affection is more than enough compensation.

Our visit is repeated. There are frequent conversations between the young people. Emile is madly in love and thinks that his happiness is within his grasp. Yet he does not succeed in winning any formal avowal from Sophy; she listens to what he says and answers nothing. Emile knows how modest she is, and is not surprised at her reticence; he feels sure that she likes him; he knows that parents decide whom their daughters shall marry; he supposes that Sophy is awaiting her parents’ commands; he asks her permission to speak to them, and she makes no objection. He talks to me and I speak on his behalf and in his presence. He is immensely surprised to hear that Sophy is her own mistress, that his happiness depends on her alone. He begins to be puzzled by her conduct. He is less self-confident, he takes alarm, he sees that he has not made so much progress as he expected, and then it is that his love appeals to her in the tenderest and most moving language.

Our visits happen often. The young people talk frequently. Emile is head over heels in love and believes that his happiness is just within reach. However, he can't get any clear confirmation from Sophy; she listens to him but doesn't respond. Emile knows how shy she is and isn’t surprised by her silence; he is confident that she likes him. He understands that parents have control over who their daughters marry, and he assumes Sophy is waiting for her parents' approval. He asks her if he can talk to them, and she doesn’t object. He confides in me, and I speak for him in front of her. He is shocked to learn that Sophy has the freedom to choose for herself, that his happiness relies solely on her. He starts to feel confused about her behavior. His confidence wavers, and he becomes worried; he realizes that he hasn’t made as much progress as he thought. It's then that his love for her comes out in the most tender and heartfelt way.

Emile is not the sort of man to guess what is the matter; if no one told him he would never discover it as long as he lived, and Sophy is too proud to tell him. What she considers obstacles, others would call advantages. She has not forgotten her parents’ teaching. She is poor; Emile is rich; so much she knows. He must win her esteem; his deserts must be great indeed to remove this inequality. But how should he perceive these obstacles? Is Emile aware that he is rich? Has he ever condescended to inquire? Thank heaven, he has no need of riches, he can do good without their aid. The good he does comes from his heart, not his purse. He gives the wretched his time, his care, his affection, himself; and when he reckons up what he has done, he hardly dares to mention the money spent on the poor.

Emile isn’t the type of guy to figure out what’s wrong; if no one tells him, he’ll never find out, and Sophy is too proud to share. What she sees as obstacles, others might see as advantages. She hasn’t forgotten her parents’ lessons. She’s poor; Emile is rich; that much she knows. He needs to earn her respect; his merits must be significant to bridge this gap. But how will he notice these obstacles? Does Emile even realize he’s wealthy? Has he ever bothered to ask? Thankfully, he doesn’t rely on money; he can help others without it. The good he does comes from his heart, not his wallet. He gives his time, care, affection, and himself to those in need; and when he reflects on his contributions, he hardly mentions the money spent on the less fortunate.

As he does not know what to make of his disgrace, he thinks it is his own fault; for who would venture to accuse the adored one of caprice. The shame of humiliation adds to the pangs of disappointed love. He no longer approaches Sophy with that pleasant confidence of his own worth; he is shy and timid in her presence. He no longer hopes to win her affections, but to gain her pity. Sometimes he loses patience and is almost angry with her. Sophy seems to guess his angry feelings and she looks at him. Her glance is enough to disarm and terrify him; he is more submissive than he used to be.

As he struggles to understand his humiliation, he blames himself; after all, who would dare accuse someone so beloved of being fickle? The shame of being humiliated only adds to the pain of unrequited love. He no longer approaches Sophy with the ease and confidence he once had; now he feels shy and reserved around her. He has stopped hoping to win her love, and is instead focused on earning her sympathy. Occasionally, he loses his cool and feels frustrated with her. Sophy seems to sense his irritation and looks at him. Her gaze is enough to disarm and intimidate him; he is now more compliant than he used to be.

Disturbed by this stubborn resistance, this invincible silence, he pours out his heart to his friend. He shares with him the pangs of a heart devoured by sorrow; he implores his help and counsel. “How mysterious it is, how hard to understand! She takes an interest in me, that I am sure; far from avoiding me she is pleased to see me; when I come she shows signs of pleasure, when I go she shows regret; she receives my attentions kindly, my services seem to give her pleasure, she condescends to give me her advice and even her commands. Yet she rejects my requests and my prayers. When I venture to speak of marriage, she bids me be silent; if I say a word, she leaves me at once. Why on earth should she wish me to be hers but refuse to be mine? She respects and loves you, and she will not dare to refuse to listen to you. Speak to her, make her answer. Come to your friend’s help, and put the coping stone to all you have done for him; do not let him fall a victim to your care! If you fail to secure his happiness, your own teaching will have been the cause of his misery.”

Disturbed by this stubborn resistance, this unbreakable silence, he opens up to his friend. He shares the pain of a heart consumed by sorrow; he begs for his help and advice. “It’s so mysterious, so hard to understand! I know she’s interested in me; she doesn’t avoid me, and she seems happy to see me. When I arrive, she shows pleasure, and when I leave, she seems regretful. She accepts my attention graciously, my efforts seem to make her happy, and she even condescends to advise me and give me orders. Yet she turns down my requests and pleas. Whenever I dare to mention marriage, she tells me to be quiet; if I say anything, she leaves immediately. Why would she want me to be hers but refuse to be mine? She respects and loves you, and she wouldn’t dare ignore you. Talk to her, make her respond. Help your friend, and finish what you’ve started for him; don’t let him become a victim of your care! If you can’t ensure his happiness, your own teachings will have led to his misery.”

I speak to Sophy, and have no difficulty in getting her to confide her secret to me, a secret which was known to me already. It is not so easy to get permission to tell Emile; but at last she gives me leave and I tell him what is the matter. He cannot get over his surprise at this explanation. He cannot understand this delicacy; he cannot see how a few pounds more or less can affect his character or his deserts. When I get him to see their effect on people’s prejudices he begins to laugh; he is so wild with delight that he wants to be off at once to tear up his title deeds and renounce his money, so as to have the honour of being as poor as Sophy, and to return worthy to be her husband.

I talk to Sophy, and I have no trouble getting her to share her secret with me, a secret I already knew. It's not as easy to get her permission to tell Emile; but eventually, she agrees, and I explain the situation to him. He can't believe this news. He doesn't get why this matter is so sensitive; he can't understand how a few extra pounds could change his character or worth. When I help him see how it affects people's biases, he starts to laugh; he’s so excited that he wants to rush off and tear up his title deeds and give up his money, just to have the honor of being as poor as Sophy, so he can return worthy to be her husband.

“Why,” said I, trying to check him, and laughing in my turn at his impetuosity, “will this young head never grow any older? Having dabbled all your life in philosophy, will you never learn to reason? Do not you see that your wild scheme would only make things worse, and Sophy more obstinate? It is a small superiority to be rather richer than she, but to give up all for her would be a very great superiority; if her pride cannot bear to be under the small obligation, how will she make up her mind to the greater? If she cannot bear to think that her husband might taunt her with the fact that he has enriched her, would she permit him to blame her for having brought him to poverty? Wretched boy, beware lest she suspects you of such a plan! On the contrary, be careful and economical for her sake, lest she should accuse you of trying to gain her by cunning, by sacrificing of your own free will what you are really wasting through carelessness.

“Why,” I said, trying to rein him in and laughing at his eagerness, “will this young mind never mature? After spending your whole life on philosophy, will you never learn to think logically? Don’t you see that your reckless plan would only make things worse and make Sophy more stubborn? It's a minor advantage to be a bit richer than her, but giving everything up for her would be a significant advantage; if her pride can’t handle a small obligation, how will she cope with a bigger one? If she can’t stand the idea that her husband might tease her about how he has supported her, would she really allow him to blame her for his downfall? Poor boy, watch out that she doesn’t suspect you of such a scheme! Instead, be careful and frugal for her sake, or she may accuse you of trying to win her over through deceit, sacrificing what you truly waste through negligence.”

“Do you really think that she is afraid of wealth, and that she is opposed to great possessions in themselves? No, dear Emile; there are more serious and substantial grounds for her opinion, in the effect produced by wealth on its possessor. She knows that those who are possessed of fortune’s gifts are apt to place them first. The rich always put wealth before merit. When services are reckoned against silver, the latter always outweighs the former, and those who have spent their life in their master’s service are considered his debtors for the very bread they eat. What must you do, Emile, to calm her fears? Let her get to know you better; that is not done in a day. Show her the treasures of your heart, to counterbalance the wealth which is unfortunately yours. Time and constancy will overcome her resistance; let your great and noble feelings make her forget your wealth. Love her, serve her, serve her worthy parents. Convince her that these attentions are not the result of a foolish fleeting passion, but of settled principles engraved upon your heart. Show them the honour deserved by worth when exposed to the buffets of Fortune; that is the only way to reconcile it with that worth which basks in her smiles.”

“Do you really think she’s afraid of wealth and against having great possessions? No, dear Emile; her views are based on the serious and substantial effects that wealth has on the person who possesses it. She knows that those who have money tend to prioritize it. The rich always put wealth above merit. When services are weighed against money, the latter always comes out on top, and those who have devoted their lives to serving their masters are seen as debtors for the very bread they eat. What should you do, Emile, to ease her worries? Help her get to know you better; that doesn’t happen overnight. Show her the treasures of your heart to balance out the wealth that you unfortunately have. With time and consistency, you will overcome her resistance; let your great and noble feelings make her forget about your wealth. Love her, serve her, and serve her deserving parents. Prove to her that these gestures come from deep, enduring principles in your heart, not just a passing infatuation. Show them the respect that true worth deserves when it faces the challenges of fortune; that’s the only way to reconcile it with that worth which enjoys her approval.”

The transports of joy experienced by the young man at these words may easily be imagined; they restore confidence and hope, his good heart rejoices to do something to please Sophy, which he would have done if there had been no such person, or if he had not been in love with her. However little his character has been understood, anybody can see how he would behave under such circumstances.

The joy the young man felt when he heard these words is easy to picture; they give him confidence and hope. His good heart is happy to do something to please Sophy, something he would have done even if she didn't exist or if he wasn't in love with her. No matter how little his character has been understood, it's clear how he would act in such a situation.

Here am I, the confidant of these two young people and the mediator of their affection. What a fine task for a tutor! So fine that never in all my life have I stood so high in my own eyes, nor felt so pleased with myself. Moreover, this duty is not without its charms. I am not unwelcome in the home; it is my business to see that the lovers behave themselves; Emile, ever afraid of offending me, was never so docile. The little lady herself overwhelms me with a kindness which does not deceive me, and of which I only take my proper share. This is her way of making up for her severity towards Emile. For his sake she bestows on me a hundred tender caresses, though she would die rather than bestow them on him; and he, knowing that I would never stand in his way, is delighted that I should get on so well with her. If she refuses his arm when we are out walking, he consoles himself with the thought that she has taken mine. He makes way for me without a murmur, he clasps my hand, and voice and look alike whisper, “My friend, plead for me!” and his eyes follow us with interest; he tries to read our feelings in our faces, and to interpret our conversation by our gestures; he knows that everything we are saying concerns him. Dear Sophy, how frank and easy you are when you can talk to Mentor without being overheard by Telemachus. How freely and delightfully you permit him to read what is passing in your tender little heart! How delighted you are to show him how you esteem his pupil! How cunningly and appealingly you allow him to divine still tenderer sentiments. With what a pretence of anger you dismiss Emile when his impatience leads him to interrupt you? With what pretty vexation you reproach his indiscretion when he comes and prevents you saying something to his credit, or listening to what I say about him, or finding in my words some new excuse to love him!

Here I am, the confidant of these two young people and the mediator of their love. What a great job for a tutor! So great that I've never felt so proud of myself or been this pleased with who I am. Plus, this role has its perks. I'm welcome in their home; it's my job to make sure the lovers behave; Emile, always worried about upsetting me, has never been so obedient. The young lady herself showers me with kindness that is sincere, and I only take my fair share of it. This is her way of making up for her strictness towards Emile. For his sake, she gives me a hundred affectionate gestures, though she'd rather die than show them to him; and he, knowing that I won't get in his way, is thrilled that I'm getting along so well with her. If she refuses his arm when we're out walking, he comforts himself with the thought that she has taken mine. He makes way for me without complaint, holds my hand, and both his voice and gaze seem to say, “My friend, speak up for me!” and his eyes watch us with interest; he tries to read our feelings on our faces and to interpret our conversation through our gestures; he knows that everything we talk about concerns him. Dear Sophy, how open and relaxed you are when you can talk to Mentor without being overheard by Telemachus! How freely and joyfully you let him see what’s going on in your sweet little heart! How happy you are to show him how much you value his pupil! How cleverly and charmingly you allow him to guess even deeper feelings. With what a façade of annoyance you send Emile away when his impatience prompts him to interrupt you! With what adorable irritation you scold him for his indiscretion when he comes and prevents you from saying something nice about him, or from listening to what I say about him, or from finding in my words a new reason to love him!

Having got so far as to be tolerated as an acknowledged lover, Emile takes full advantage of his position; he speaks, he urges, he implores, he demands. Hard words or ill treatment make no difference, provided he gets a hearing. At length Sophy is persuaded, though with some difficulty, to assume the authority of a betrothed, to decide what he shall do, to command instead of to ask, to accept instead of to thank, to control the frequency and the hours of his visits, to forbid him to come till such a day or to stay beyond such an hour. This is not done in play, but in earnest, and if it was hard to induce her to accept these rights, she uses them so sternly that Emile is often ready to regret that he gave them to her. But whatever her commands, they are obeyed without question, and often when at her bidding he is about to leave her, he glances at me his eyes full of delight, as if to say, “You see she has taken possession of me.” Yet unknown to him, Sophy, with all her pride, is observing him closely, and she is smiling to herself at the pride of her slave.

Now that he's officially recognized as a lover, Emile fully embraces his role; he speaks, he pushes, he begs, he demands. Harsh words or mistreatment don’t faze him, as long as he gets a chance to be heard. Eventually, with some effort, Sophy is convinced to take on the authority of a fiancée, to make decisions about his actions, to command rather than request, to accept rather than thank, to control how often and when he visits, to tell him he can’t come until a certain day or to leave by a specific time. This isn’t just a game, but serious, and while it was challenging to get her to accept these rights, she exercises them so strictly that Emile often wishes he hadn’t given them to her. However, no matter what her orders are, he obeys without question, and often when he’s about to leave at her request, he glances at me with delight in his eyes, as if to say, “You see she has taken control of me.” Yet, unbeknownst to him, Sophy, with all her pride, is closely watching him, smiling to herself at the pride of her submissive.

Oh that I had the brush of an Alban or a Raphael to paint their bliss, or the pen of the divine Milton to describe the pleasures of love and innocence! Not so; let such hollow arts shrink back before the sacred truth of nature. In tenderness and pureness of heart let your imagination freely trace the raptures of these young lovers, who under the eyes of parents and tutor, abandon themselves to their blissful illusions; in the intoxication of passion they are advancing step by step to its consummation; with flowers and garlands they are weaving the bonds which are to bind them till death do part. I am carried away by this succession of pictures, I am so happy that I cannot group them in any sort of order or scheme; any one with a heart in his breast can paint the charming picture for himself and realise the different experiences of father, mother, daughter, tutor, and pupil, and the part played by each and all in the union of the most delightful couple whom love and virtue have ever led to happiness.

Oh, how I wish I had the skills of an Alban or a Raphael to capture their joy, or the eloquence of the great Milton to express the delights of love and innocence! But instead, let such superficial arts step aside in favor of the sacred truth of nature. With tenderness and purity of heart, let your imagination freely explore the ecstasy of these young lovers, who, under the watchful eyes of their parents and tutor, surrender themselves to their blissful dreams; in the thrill of passion, they are gradually moving towards its fulfillment; with flowers and garlands, they are weaving the ties that will bind them until death parts them. I am swept away by this series of images, so happy that I can't organize them in any clear way; anyone with a heart can envision the charming scene for themselves and understand the different experiences of the father, mother, daughter, tutor, and pupil, and the roles each plays in the union of the most delightful couple ever brought to happiness by love and virtue.

Now that he is really eager to please, Emile begins to feel the value of the accomplishments he has acquired. Sophy is fond of singing, he sings with her; he does more, he teaches her music. She is lively and light of foot, she loves skipping; he dances with her, he perfects and develops her untrained movements into the steps of the dance. These lessons, enlivened by the gayest mirth, are quite delightful, they melt the timid respect of love; a lover may enjoy teaching his betrothed—he has a right to be her teacher.

Now that he’s really eager to make her happy, Emile starts to appreciate the value of what he’s achieved. Sophy loves to sing, so he sings along with her; he even teaches her music. She’s energetic and light on her feet, and she enjoys skipping; he dances with her and refines her natural movements into actual dance steps. These lessons, filled with joyful laughter, are truly enjoyable; they break down the shy respect that comes with love; a lover can take pleasure in teaching his fiancée—he has the right to be her teacher.

There is an old spinet quite out of order. Emile mends and tunes it; he is a maker and mender of musical instruments as well as a carpenter; it has always been his rule to learn to do everything he can for himself. The house is picturesquely situated and he makes several sketches of it, in some of which Sophy does her share, and she hangs them in her father’s study. The frames are not gilded, nor do they require gilding. When she sees Emile drawing, she draws too, and improves her own drawing; she cultivates all her talents, and her grace gives a charm to all she does. Her father and mother recall the days of their wealth, when they find themselves surrounded by the works of art which alone gave value to wealth; the whole house is adorned by love; love alone has enthroned among them, without cost or effort, the very same pleasures which were gathered together in former days by dint of toil and money.

There’s an old spinet that’s really out of tune. Emile fixes and tunes it; he’s both a builder and a repairer of musical instruments as well as a carpenter. He’s always believed in doing everything he can for himself. The house is charmingly located, and he makes several sketches of it, some of which Sophy helps with, and she hangs them in her dad’s study. The frames aren’t gilded, nor do they need to be. When she sees Emile drawing, she draws too, and her own drawing improves; she works on all her talents, and her grace adds charm to everything she does. Her mom and dad remember the days when they were wealthy, as they find themselves surrounded by the art that once gave value to their riches; the whole house is filled with love; love alone has brought them the same joys that they used to amass through hard work and money.

As the idolater gives what he loves best to the shrine of the object of his worship, so the lover is not content to see perfection in his mistress, he must be ever trying to add to her adornment. She does not need it for his pleasure, it is he who needs the pleasure of giving, it is a fresh homage to be rendered to her, a fresh pleasure in the joy of beholding her. Everything of beauty seems to find its place only as an accessory to the supreme beauty. It is both touching and amusing to see Emile eager to teach Sophy everything he knows, without asking whether she wants to learn it or whether it is suitable for her. He talks about all sorts of things and explains them to her with boyish eagerness; he thinks he has only to speak and she will understand; he looks forward to arguing, and discussing philosophy with her; everything he cannot display before her is so much useless learning; he is quite ashamed of knowing more than she.

As the idolater offers what he cherishes most to the shrine of his worship, the lover isn't satisfied with just seeing the perfection in his beloved; he constantly seeks to enhance her beauty. She doesn't require it for his satisfaction; he craves the joy of giving, a new tribute to her, a fresh delight in just being in her presence. Every beautiful thing seems to find its place only as a complement to her supreme beauty. It's both touching and amusing to see Emile eager to teach Sophy everything he knows, without considering if she wants to learn or if it's even right for her. He chats about all kinds of topics and enthusiastically explains them to her; he believes that as long as he talks, she will get it. He looks forward to debating and discussing philosophy with her; every piece of knowledge he can’t share with her feels like wasted learning, and he feels a bit ashamed of knowing more than she does.

So he gives her lessons in philosophy, physics, mathematics, history, and everything else. Sophy is delighted to share his enthusiasm and to try and profit by it. How pleased Emile is when he can get leave to give these lessons on his knees before her! He thinks the heavens are open. Yet this position, more trying to pupil than to teacher, is hardly favourable to study. It is not easy to know where to look, to avoid meeting the eyes which follow our own, and if they meet so much the worse for the lesson.

So he gives her lessons in philosophy, physics, math, history, and everything else. Sophy is excited to share his enthusiasm and to try to benefit from it. Emile is so happy when he gets the chance to give these lessons while kneeling in front of her! He feels like the heavens have opened up. However, this position, which is more challenging for the student than for the teacher, isn’t really good for learning. It’s tough to know where to look to avoid meeting the eyes that are following ours, and if they do meet, it makes the lesson even harder.

Women are no strangers to the art of thinking, but they should only skim the surface of logic and metaphysics. Sophy understands readily, but she soon forgets. She makes most progress in the moral sciences and aesthetics; as to physical science she retains some vague idea of the general laws and order of this world. Sometimes in the course of their walks, the spectacle of the wonders of nature bids them not fear to raise their pure and innocent hearts to nature’s God; they are not afraid of His presence, and they pour out their hearts before him.

Women are familiar with the art of thinking, but they should only scratch the surface of logic and metaphysics. Sophy grasps things quickly, but she tends to forget them. She makes the most progress in moral sciences and aesthetics; regarding physical science, she holds onto some vague ideas about the general laws and order of the world. Sometimes, while walking, the beauty of nature encourages them to raise their pure and innocent hearts to God; they are not afraid of His presence and openly share their feelings with Him.

What! Two young lovers spending their time together talking of religion! Have they nothing better to do than to say their catechism! What profit is there in the attempt to degrade what is noble? Yes, no doubt they are saying their catechism in their delightful land of romance; they are perfect in each other’s eyes; they love one another, they talk eagerly of all that makes virtue worth having. Their sacrifices to virtue make her all the dearer to them. Their struggles after self-control draw from them tears purer than the dew of heaven, and these sweet tears are the joy of life; no human heart has ever experienced a sweeter intoxication. Their very renunciation adds to their happiness, and their sacrifices increase their self-respect. Sensual men, bodies without souls, some day they will know your pleasures, and all their life long they will recall with regret the happy days when they refused the cup of pleasure.

What! Two young lovers spending their time together talking about religion! Don't they have anything better to do than recite their catechism? What’s the point in trying to tarnish what is noble? Yes, they’re probably discussing their catechism in their charming world of romance; they see each other as perfect; they love one another and eagerly talk about everything that makes virtue worthwhile. Their sacrifices for virtue only make it more valuable to them. Their struggles for self-control bring forth tears purer than morning dew, and these sweet tears are the joys of life; no human heart has ever felt a sweeter high. Their very self-denial adds to their happiness, and their sacrifices boost their self-respect. Sensual men, bodies without souls, someday you’ll experience their pleasures, and all your life, you’ll look back with regret on the happy days when you turned down the cup of pleasure.

In spite of this good understanding, differences and even quarrels occur from time to time; the lady has her whims, the lover has a hot temper; but these passing showers are soon over and only serve to strengthen their union. Emile learns by experience not to attach too much importance to them, he always gains more by the reconciliation than he lost by the quarrel. The results of the first difference made him expect a like result from all; he was mistaken, but even if he does not make any appreciable step forward, he has always the satisfaction of finding Sophy’s genuine concern for his affection more firmly established. “What advantage is this to him?” you would ask. I will gladly tell you; all the more gladly because it will give me an opportunity to establish clearly a very important principle, and to combat a very deadly one.

Despite their good understanding, differences and even arguments happen from time to time; the woman has her quirks, the man has a quick temper; but these brief storms pass quickly and only serve to strengthen their bond. Emile learns through experience not to take them too seriously; he always ends up gaining more from the reconciliation than he lost in the fight. The outcome of the first disagreement led him to expect the same from all future ones; he was wrong, but even if he doesn’t make significant progress, he always finds satisfaction in discovering that Sophy’s genuine concern for his affection is more firmly established. “What good does this do him?” you might ask. I’ll be happy to explain; even happier because it gives me a chance to clarify a very important principle and to challenge a very harmful one.

Emile is in love, but he is not presuming; and you will easily understand that the dignified Sophy is not the sort of girl to allow any kind of familiarity. Yet virtue has its bounds like everything else, and she is rather to be blamed for her severity than for indulgence; even her father himself is sometimes afraid lest her lofty pride should degenerate into a haughty spirit. When most alone, Emile dare not ask for the slightest favour, he must not even seem to desire it; and if she is gracious enough to take his arm when they are out walking, a favour which she will never permit him to claim as a right, it is only occasionally that he dare venture with a sigh to press her hand to his heart. However, after a long period of self-restraint, he ventured secretly to kiss the hem of her dress, and several times he was lucky enough to find her willing at least to pretend she was not aware of it. One day he attempts to take the same privilege rather more openly, and Sophy takes it into her head to be greatly offended. He persists, she gets angry and speaks sharply to him; Emile will not put up with this without reply; the rest of the day is given over to sulks, and they part in a very ill temper.

Emile is in love, but he’s not presumptuous; you can easily see that the dignified Sophy isn’t the type of girl to allow any sort of familiarity. However, virtue has its limits like everything else, and she’s more to be criticized for her strictness than for being lenient; even her father sometimes worries that her high pride might turn into arrogance. When they are mostly alone, Emile doesn’t dare to ask for even the slightest favor; he must not even appear to want one. If she is kind enough to take his arm while they’re walking—a favor she would never let him assume he has the right to—it’s only occasionally that he risks a sigh to press her hand to his heart. After a long time of holding back, he secretly kissed the hem of her dress, and several times he was fortunate enough to find her willing to at least pretend she didn’t notice. One day, he tries to take that same privilege a bit more openly, and Sophy decides to be very offended. He persists, she gets upset and speaks harshly to him; Emile won’t take this without responding; the rest of the day is filled with sulking, and they part in a very bad mood.

Sophy is ill at ease; her mother is her confidant in all things, how can she keep this from her? It is their first misunderstanding, and the misunderstanding of an hour is such a serious business. She is sorry for what she has done, she has her mother’s permission and her father’s commands to make reparation.

Sophy feels uncomfortable; her mother is her trusted friend in everything, so how can she hide this from her? This is their first disagreement, and even a misunderstanding lasting an hour is a big deal. She regrets her actions, and she has her mother’s support and her father’s orders to make things right.

The next day Emile returns somewhat earlier than usual and in a state of some anxiety. Sophy is in her mother’s dressing-room and her father is also present. Emile enters respectfully but gloomily. Scarcely have her parents greeted him than Sophy turns round and holding out her hand asks him in an affectionate tone how he is. That pretty hand is clearly held out to be kissed; he takes it but does not kiss it. Sophy, rather ashamed of herself, withdraws her hand as best she may. Emile, who is not used to a woman’s whims, and does not know how far caprice may be carried, does not forget so easily or make friends again all at once. Sophy’s father, seeing her confusion, completes her discomfiture by his jokes. The poor girl, confused and ashamed, does not know what to do with herself and would gladly have a good cry. The more she tries to control herself the worse she feels; at last a tear escapes in spite of all she can do to prevent it. Emile, seeing this tear, rushes towards her, falls on his knees, takes her hand and kisses it again and again with the greatest devotion. “My word, you are too kind to her,” says her father, laughing; “if I were you, I should deal more severely with these follies, I should punish the mouth that wronged me.” Emboldened by these words, Emile turns a suppliant eye towards her mother, and thinking she is not unwilling, he tremblingly approaches Sophy’s face; she turns away her head, and to save her mouth she exposes a blushing cheek. The daring young man is not content with this; there is no great resistance. What a kiss, if it were not taken under her mother’s eyes. Have a care, Sophy, in your severity; he will be ready enough to try to kiss your dress if only you will sometimes say “No.”

The next day, Emile comes back a bit earlier than usual and seems pretty anxious. Sophy is in her mom’s dressing room, and her dad is there too. Emile walks in respectfully but looks gloomy. As soon as her parents greet him, Sophy turns around, extends her hand, and asks him affectionately how he is. That pretty hand is clearly meant to be kissed; he takes it but doesn’t kiss it. Sophy, feeling a bit ashamed, retracts her hand as gracefully as she can. Emile, who’s not used to a woman’s moods and doesn’t know how far caprice can go, doesn’t easily forget this or become friends again right away. Sophy’s dad, noticing her embarrassment, makes jokes that only add to her discomfort. The poor girl, flustered and embarrassed, doesn’t know what to do with herself and wishes she could just cry. The more she tries to hold it together, the worse she feels; eventually, a tear slips out despite her best efforts to stop it. Seeing the tear, Emile rushes over, drops to his knees, takes her hand, and kisses it again and again with deep devotion. “Honestly, you’re too nice to her,” her dad laughs. “If I were you, I’d take a tougher stance on these whims; I’d punish the mouth that wronged me.” Encouraged by these words, Emile looks at her mom with hopeful eyes and, thinking she’s not opposed, nervously moves closer to Sophy’s face; she turns her head away, exposing a blushing cheek instead. The brave young man isn’t satisfied with that; she doesn’t resist too much. What a kiss it would be, if it weren’t right in front of her mom. Be careful, Sophy, with your harshness; he’ll be more than willing to try to kiss your dress if you just say “No” sometimes.

After this exemplary punishment, Sophy’s father goes about his business, and her mother makes some excuse for sending her out of the room; then she speaks to Emile very seriously. “Sir,” she says, “I think a young man so well born and well bred as yourself, a man of feeling and character, would never reward with dishonour the confidence reposed in him by the friendship of this family. I am neither prudish nor over strict; I know how to make excuses for youthful folly, and what I have permitted in my own presence is sufficient proof of this. Consult your friend as to your own duty, he will tell you there is all the difference in the world between the playful kisses sanctioned by the presence of father and mother, and the same freedom taken in their absence and in betrayal of their confidence, a freedom which makes a snare of the very favours which in the parents’ presence were wholly innocent. He will tell you, sir, that my daughter is only to blame for not having perceived from the first what she ought never to have permitted; he will tell you that every favour, taken as such, is a favour, and that it is unworthy of a man of honour to take advantage of a young girl’s innocence, to usurp in private the same freedom which she may permit in the presence of others. For good manners teach us what is permitted in public; but we do not know what a man will permit to himself in private, if he makes himself the sole judge of his conduct.”

After this clear punishment, Sophy’s father goes back to his work, and her mother makes an excuse to send her out of the room; then she speaks to Emile very seriously. “Sir,” she says, “I believe that a young man like you, someone with good background and upbringing, and possessing feelings and character, would never betray the trust that this family has placed in you through its friendship. I’m neither overly prudish nor strict; I know how to excuse youthful mistakes, and what I’ve allowed in my own presence proves that. Talk to your friend about your responsibilities; he’ll tell you there’s a big difference between playful kisses allowed in front of parents and the same actions taken in their absence, which betray their trust. That kind of freedom turns the very favors that were innocent in front of parents into something questionable. He will also tell you that my daughter is only at fault for not realizing from the start what she should never have allowed. He will tell you that every favor, when taken as such, is a favor, and it’s unworthy of an honorable man to exploit a young girl’s innocence, to claim privately the same freedom she might grant in front of others. Good manners teach us what’s acceptable in public; but we cannot know what a man will allow himself to do in private if he decides to be the only judge of his behavior.”

After this well-deserved rebuke, addressed rather to me than to my pupil, the good mother leaves us, and I am amazed by her rare prudence, in thinking it a little thing that Emile should kiss her daughter’s lips in her presence, while fearing lest he should venture to kiss her dress when they are alone. When I consider the folly of worldly maxims, whereby real purity is continually sacrificed to a show of propriety, I understand why speech becomes more refined while the heart becomes more corrupt, and why etiquette is stricter while those who conform to it are most immoral.

After this well-deserved reprimand, aimed more at me than at my student, the good mother leaves us, and I'm struck by her unusual wisdom, thinking it’s a small matter that Emile should kiss her daughter's lips in front of her, while worrying he might dare to kiss her dress when they are alone. When I reflect on the foolishness of societal norms, which constantly sacrifice true purity for the appearance of decency, I realize why language becomes more polished while the heart becomes more corrupted, and why manners are stricter even as those who follow them are often the most immoral.

While I am trying to convince Emile’s heart with regard to these duties which I ought to have instilled into him sooner, a new idea occurs to me, an idea which perhaps does Sophy all the more credit, though I shall take care not to tell her lover; this so-called pride, for which she has been censured, is clearly only a very wise precaution to protect her from herself. Being aware that, unfortunately, her own temperament is inflammable, she dreads the least spark, and keeps out of reach so far as she can. Her sternness is due not to pride but to humility. She assumes a control over Emile because she doubts her control of herself; she turns the one against the other. If she had more confidence in herself she would be much less haughty. With this exception is there anywhere on earth a gentler, sweeter girl? Is there any who endures an affront with greater patience, any who is more afraid of annoying others? Is there any with less pretension, except in the matter of virtue? Moreover, she is not proud of her virtue, she is only proud in order to preserve her virtue, and if she can follow the guidance of her heart without danger, she caresses her lover himself. But her wise mother does not confide all this even to her father; men should not hear everything.

While I'm trying to win Emile’s heart regarding the responsibilities I should have taught him earlier, a new idea comes to mind—one that might even reflect better on Sophy, though I won't mention it to her partner. This so-called pride, which she’s been criticized for, is really just a smart way to protect herself. Aware that her own temperament can easily ignite, she fears even the smallest spark and keeps her distance as much as possible. Her sternness comes not from pride but from humility. She tries to control Emile because she doubts her ability to control herself; she pits the two against each other. If she had more confidence in herself, she'd be much less aloof. Aside from this, is there anywhere in the world a gentler, sweeter girl? Is there anyone who takes an insult with more patience, or who is more afraid of upsetting others? Is there anyone less pretentious, except when it comes to virtue? Furthermore, she isn’t arrogant about her virtue; she only acts proud to maintain it, and if she can follow her heart safely, she lovingly embraces her partner. But her wise mother doesn’t share all this even with her father; some things are better kept from men.

Far from seeming proud of her conquest, Sophy has grown more friendly and less exacting towards everybody, except perhaps the one person who has wrought this change. Her noble heart no longer swells with the feeling of independence. She triumphs modestly over a victory gained at the price of her freedom. Her bearing is more restrained, her speech more timid, since she has begun to blush at the word “lover”; but contentment may be seen beneath her outward confusion and this very shame is not painful. This change is most noticeable in her behaviour towards the young men she meets. Now that she has ceased to be afraid of them, much of her extreme reserve has disappeared. Now that her choice is made, she does not hesitate to be gracious to those to whom she is quite indifferent; taking no more interest in them, she is less difficult to please, and she always finds them pleasant enough for people who are of no importance to her.

Far from being proud of her victory, Sophy has become friendlier and less demanding with everyone, except maybe the one person responsible for this change. Her noble heart doesn’t swell with a sense of independence anymore. She modestly enjoys a victory that cost her freedom. She carries herself more calmly, and her speech is more hesitant since she now blushes at the word “lover”; however, you can see contentment underneath her outward shyness, and this very embarrassment isn’t painful. This change is most evident in how she acts around the young men she encounters. Now that she doesn't fear them anymore, a lot of her extreme shyness has faded. With her choice made, she’s willing to be pleasant to those she doesn’t really care about; since she shows no more interest in them, she’s easier to please, and she finds them perfectly fine for people who don’t matter to her.

If true love were capable of coquetry, I should fancy I saw traces of it in the way Sophy behaves towards other young men in her lover’s presence. One would say that not content with the ardent passion she inspires by a mixture of shyness and caresses, she is not sorry to rouse this passion by a little anxiety; one would say that when she is purposely amusing her young guests she means to torment Emile by the charms of a freedom she will not allow herself with him; but Sophy is too considerate, too kindly, too wise to really torment him. Love and honour take the place of prudence and control the use of this dangerous weapon. She can alarm and reassure him just as he needs it; and if she sometimes makes him uneasy she never really gives him pain. The anxiety she causes to her beloved may be forgiven because of her fear that he is not sufficiently her own.

If true love could flirt, I would think I noticed signs of it in the way Sophy interacts with other young men when her boyfriend is around. It seems that, not satisfied with the intense passion she ignites through a mix of shyness and affection, she also enjoys provoking this passion a bit by causing some anxiety. It looks like when she’s playfully entertaining her young guests, she aims to tease Emile with the kind of freedom she won’t show him. But Sophy is too thoughtful, too kind, and too wise to truly torment him. Love and honor replace caution and control how she wields this risky approach. She can both unsettle and reassure him as he needs it, and while she might make him feel uneasy at times, she never really causes him pain. The anxiety she creates for her beloved can be forgiven because of her worry that he doesn’t belong to her completely.

But what effect will this little performance have upon Emile? Will he be jealous or not? That is what we must discover; for such digressions form part of the purpose of my book, and they do not lead me far from my main subject.

But what effect will this little performance have on Emile? Will he be jealous or not? That’s what we need to find out; these digressions are part of the overall purpose of my book, and they don’t take me too far away from my main topic.

I have already shown how this passion of jealousy in matters of convention finds its way into the heart of man. In love it is another matter; then jealousy is so near akin to nature, that it is hard to believe that it is not her work; and the example of the very beasts, many of whom are madly jealous, seems to prove this point beyond reply. Is it man’s influence that has taught cooks to tear each other to pieces or bulls to fight to the death?

I’ve already shown how jealousy in social situations gets into the hearts of people. When it comes to love, it’s different; jealousy feels so natural that it’s hard to believe it’s not something instinctive. Just look at animals, many of whom are fiercely jealous, which seems to back this up completely. Is it really humans who have taught chefs to tear each other apart or bulls to fight to the death?

No one can deny that the aversion to everything which may disturb or interfere with our pleasures is a natural impulse. Up to a certain point the desire for the exclusive possession of that which ministers to our pleasure is in the same case. But when this desire has become a passion, when it is transformed into madness, or into a bitter and suspicious fancy known as jealousy, that is quite another matter; such a passion may be natural or it may not; we must distinguish between these different cases.

No one can deny that the dislike for anything that might disrupt or interrupt our enjoyment is a natural instinct. Up to a certain point, the urge to fully own what brings us pleasure is similar. But when this urge turns into an obsession, when it morphs into madness or a bitter and paranoid feeling known as jealousy, that's a different story; such an obsession can be natural or it might not be; we need to differentiate between these various cases.

I have already analysed the example of the animal world in my Discourse on Inequality, and on further consideration I think I may refer my readers to that analysis as sufficiently thorough. I will only add this further point to those already made in that work, that the jealousy which springs from nature depends greatly on sexual power, and that when sexual power is or appears to be boundless, that jealousy is at its height; for then the male, measuring his rights by his needs, can never see another male except as an unwelcome rival. In such species the females always submit to the first comer, they only belong to the male by right of conquest, and they are the cause of unending strife.

I've already analyzed the example from the animal world in my Discourse on Inequality, and upon further reflection, I believe I can direct my readers to that analysis as it is quite detailed. I’ll just add one more point to what I’ve already discussed in that work: the jealousy that comes from nature is heavily influenced by sexual power. When sexual power is, or seems to be, unlimited, that jealousy reaches its peak; the male, judging his rights by his needs, can only view another male as an unwanted competitor. In such species, females always yield to the first male they encounter; they belong to the male solely by the right of conquest, leading to endless conflict.

Among the monogamous species, where intercourse seems to give rise to some sort of moral bond, a kind of marriage, the female who belongs by choice to the male on whom she has bestowed herself usually denies herself to all others; and the male, having this preference of affection as a pledge of her fidelity, is less uneasy at the sight of other males and lives more peaceably with them. Among these species the male shares the care of the little ones; and by one of those touching laws of nature it seems as if the female rewards the father for his love for his children.

Among monogamous species, where sexual relationships seem to create a kind of moral bond, almost like marriage, the female who has chosen her male partner typically refuses to engage with others. In return, the male, having her affection as a sign of her loyalty, tends to feel less anxious about other males being around and coexists more peacefully with them. In these species, the male also helps take care of the young, and almost as a natural law, it appears that the female rewards the father for his love for their children.

Now consider the human species in its primitive simplicity; it is easy to see, from the limited powers of the male, and the moderation of his desires, that nature meant him to be content with one female; this is confirmed by the numerical equality of the two sexes, at any rate in our part of the world; an equality which does not exist in anything like the same degree among those species in which several females are collected around one male. Though a man does not brood like a pigeon, and though he has no milk to suckle the young, and must in this respect be classed with the quadrupeds, his children are feeble and helpless for so long a time, that mother and children could ill dispense with the father’s affection, and the care which results from it.

Now think about humans in their basic simplicity; it’s clear from the limited abilities of males and their moderate desires that nature intended them to be satisfied with one female. This is backed up by the roughly equal number of males and females, at least in our part of the world—an equality that isn’t anywhere near as strong in species where one male has multiple females around him. While a man doesn’t sit on eggs like a pigeon and can’t nurse his young, putting him in the same category as mammals, his children are so weak and vulnerable for a long time that both the mother and children really need the father’s love and care.

All these observations combine to prove that the jealous fury of the males of certain animals proves nothing with regard to man; and the exceptional case of those southern regions were polygamy is the established custom, only confirms the rule, since it is the plurality of wives that gives rise to the tyrannical precautions of the husband, and the consciousness of his own weakness makes the man resort to constraint to evade the laws of nature.

All these observations show that the jealous rage of male animals doesn’t say anything about humans; and the rare cases in southern regions where polygamy is the norm only reinforce this idea, since it’s the multiple wives that trigger the husband’s controlling behavior, and his awareness of his own weakness leads him to impose restrictions to escape the natural order.

Among ourselves where these same laws are less frequently evaded in this respect, but are more frequently evaded in another and even more detestable manner, jealousy finds its motives in the passions of society rather than in those of primitive instinct. In most irregular connections the hatred of the lover for his rivals far exceeds his love for his mistress; if he fears a rival in her affections it is the effect of that self-love whose origin I have already traced out, and he is moved by vanity rather than affection. Moreover, our clumsy systems of education have made women so deceitful, [Footnote: The kind of deceit referred to here is just the opposite of that deceit becoming in a woman, and taught her by nature; the latter consists in concealing her real feelings, the former in feigning what she does not feel. Every society lady spends her life in boasting of her supposed sensibility, when in reality she cares for no one but herself.] and have so over-stimulated their appetites, that you cannot rely even on the most clearly proved affection; they can no longer display a preference which secures you against the fear of a rival.

Among ourselves, where these same laws are less often avoided in this context but more frequently in a way that’s even more despicable, jealousy stems from social passions rather than basic instincts. In most unconventional relationships, the hatred a lover has for their rivals far outweighs their love for their partner; if they fear a rival for their partner’s affection, it comes from that self-love I've already mentioned, driven by vanity rather than genuine affection. Furthermore, our flawed education systems have made women so deceitful, [Footnote: The kind of deceit referred to here is just the opposite of that deceit becoming in a woman, and taught her by nature; the latter consists in concealing her real feelings, the former in feigning what she does not feel. Every society lady spends her life in boasting of her supposed sensibility, when in reality she cares for no one but herself.] and have so heightened their desires that you can’t even trust the most obvious affection; they can no longer show a preference that protects you from the fear of a rival.

True love is another matter. I have shown, in the work already referred to, that this sentiment is not so natural as men think, and that there is a great difference between the gentle habit which binds a man with cords of love to his helpmeet, and the unbridled passion which is intoxicated by the fancied charms of an object which he no longer sees in its true light. This passion which is full of exclusions and preferences, only differs from vanity in this respect, that vanity demands all and gives nothing, so that it is always harmful, while love, bestowing as much as it demands, is in itself a sentiment full of equity. Moreover, the more exacting it is, the more credulous; that very illusion which gave rise to it, makes it easy to persuade. If love is suspicious, esteem is trustful; and love will never exist in an honest heart without esteem, for every one loves in another the qualities which he himself holds in honour.

True love is a different story. As I've shown in the previous work, this feeling isn't as natural as people think. There's a significant difference between the gentle bond that ties a man to his partner and the wild passion fueled by the imagined allure of someone he no longer sees clearly. This passion, filled with exclusions and preferences, only differs from vanity in that vanity demands everything and gives nothing, making it always damaging, whereas love, which gives as much as it takes, is inherently fair. Furthermore, the more demanding love is, the more gullible it becomes; that very illusion that sparked it makes it easy to convince. If love is suspicious, respect is trusting, and love cannot exist in an honest heart without respect, as everyone loves in others the qualities they hold dear themselves.

When once this is clearly understood, we can predict with confidence the kind of jealousy which Emile will be capable of experiencing; as there is only the smallest germ of this passion in the human heart, the form it takes must depend solely upon education: Emile, full of love and jealousy, will not be angry, sullen, suspicious, but delicate, sensitive, and timid; he will be more alarmed than vexed; he will think more of securing his lady-love than of threatening his rival; he will treat him as an obstacle to be removed if possible from his path, rather than as a rival to be hated; if he hates him, it is not because he presumes to compete with him for Sophy’s affection, but because Emile feels that there is a real danger of losing that affection; he will not be so unjust and foolish as to take offence at the rivalry itself; he understands that the law of preference rests upon merit only, and that honour depends upon success; he will redouble his efforts to make himself acceptable, and he will probably succeed. His generous Sophy, though she has given alarm to his love, is well able to allay that fear, to atone for it; and the rivals who were only suffered to put him to the proof are speedily dismissed.

Once this is clearly understood, we can confidently predict the type of jealousy that Emile will feel; since there’s only a small seed of this emotion in the human heart, its expression will depend entirely on education. Emile, full of love and jealousy, won’t be angry, sulky, or suspicious, but will be delicate, sensitive, and timid; he will be more worried than irritated. He will focus more on winning his lady-love's heart than on threatening his rival; he will see his rival as an obstacle to be dealt with rather than someone to despise. If he does harbor any hatred, it won't be because the rival competes for Sophy’s affection, but because Emile senses a genuine risk of losing that love. He won’t be so unreasonable and foolish as to be offended by the competition itself; he knows that preference is based on merit alone and that honor comes from success. He will double his efforts to make himself appealing, and he will likely succeed. His generous Sophy, although she has caused him concern, is more than capable of easing that fear and making it right; the rivals who were only allowed to test him will soon be sent away.

But whither am I going? O Emile! what art thou now? Is this my pupil? How art thou fallen! Where is that young man so sternly fashioned, who braved all weathers, who devoted his body to the hardest tasks and his soul to the laws of wisdom; untouched by prejudice or passion, a lover of truth, swayed by reason only, unheeding all that was not hers? Living in softness and idleness he now lets himself be ruled by women; their amusements are the business of his life, their wishes are his laws; a young girl is the arbiter of his fate, he cringes and grovels before her; the earnest Emile is the plaything of a child.

But where am I going? Oh Emile! What have you become? Is this my student? How you have fallen! Where is that young man who was so tough, who faced all challenges, who dedicated his body to hard work and his mind to the principles of wisdom; untouched by bias or emotion, a seeker of truth, guided only by reason, ignoring everything else? Now, living in comfort and laziness, he lets himself be controlled by women; their entertainment has become the focus of his life, their desires are his commands; a young girl decides his fate, and he bends and grovels before her; the serious Emile is now just a child's plaything.

So shift the scenes of life; each age is swayed by its own motives, but the man is the same. At ten his mind was set upon cakes, at twenty it is set upon his mistress; at thirty it will be set upon pleasure; at forty on ambition, at fifty on avarice; when will he seek after wisdom only? Happy is he who is compelled to follow her against his will! What matter who is the guide, if the end is attained. Heroes and sages have themselves paid tribute to this human weakness; and those who handled the distaff with clumsy fingers were none the less great men.

Life changes constantly; each generation is influenced by its own desires, but people remain the same. At ten, a boy is focused on sweets; at twenty, he’s focused on his girlfriend; at thirty, he's chasing fun; at forty, he’s driven by career goals; at fifty, he’s concerned with money. When will he seek wisdom for its own sake? Blessed is the one who is forced to pursue it against his wishes! It doesn’t matter who leads the way, as long as the goal is achieved. Great heroes and wise people have acknowledged this human flaw, and those who struggled with simple tasks were still remarkable individuals.

If you would prolong the influence of a good education through life itself, the good habits acquired in childhood must be carried forward into adolescence, and when your pupil is what he ought to be you must manage to keep him what he ought to be. This is the coping-stone of your work. This is why it is of the first importance that the tutor should remain with young men; otherwise there is little doubt they will learn to make love without him. The great mistake of tutors and still more of fathers is to think that one way of living makes another impossible, and that as soon as the child is grown up, you must abandon everything you used to do when he was little. If that were so, why should we take such pains in childhood, since the good or bad use we make of it will vanish with childhood itself; if another way of life were necessarily accompanied by other ways of thinking?

If you want the impact of a good education to last throughout life, the positive habits formed in childhood need to continue into adolescence. Once your student develops into who he should be, you must ensure he stays that way. This is the cornerstone of your work. That’s why it’s crucial for the tutor to stay involved with young men; otherwise, there’s no doubt they’ll learn to flirt without guidance. The biggest mistake that tutors, and even more so fathers, make is thinking that one way of living makes another impossible, and that as soon as the child grows up, you have to stop doing everything you did when he was young. If that were true, why would we put so much effort into childhood, if the way we use it—good or bad—would just disappear once childhood ends? Wouldn’t another way of life automatically come with different ways of thinking?

The stream of memory is only interrupted by great illnesses, and the stream of conduct, by great passions. Our tastes and inclinations may change, but this change, though it may be sudden enough, is rendered less abrupt by our habits. The skilful artist, in a good colour scheme, contrives so to mingle and blend his tints that the transitions are imperceptible; and certain colour washes are spread over the whole picture so that there may be no sudden breaks. So should it be with our likings. Unbalanced characters are always changing their affections, their tastes, their sentiments; the only constant factor is the habit of change; but the man of settled character always returns to his former habits and preserves to old age the tastes and the pleasures of his childhood.

The flow of memory is only interrupted by serious illnesses, and the flow of behavior, by intense emotions. Our preferences and inclinations may shift, but this change, even if it’s sudden, feels less jarring because of our habits. A skilled artist, using a good color scheme, manages to mix and blend his hues so that the transitions are smooth; certain washes of color are applied throughout the entire artwork to prevent any abrupt shifts. Our preferences should be like this. Unstable individuals constantly change their feelings, tastes, and opinions; the only consistent factor is their tendency to change. However, a person of steady character always returns to their old habits and maintains the likes and joys of their childhood into old age.

If you contrive that young people passing from one stage of life to another do not despise what has gone before, that when they form new habits, they do not forsake the old, and that they always love to do what is right, in things new and old; then only are the fruits of your toil secure, and you are sure of your scholars as long as they live; for the revolution most to be dreaded is that of the age over which you are now watching. As men always look back to this period with regret so the tastes carried forward into it from childhood are not easily destroyed; but if once interrupted they are never resumed.

If you ensure that young people transitioning from one stage of life to another don't disregard what came before, that when they develop new habits, they don't abandon the old ones, and that they always have a passion for doing what's right, both in new and old matters; only then are the results of your efforts secure, and you can count on your students for their entire lives. The most feared revolution is the one happening during the time you are currently overseeing. Just as people often look back on this time with nostalgia, the preferences carried into it from childhood are hard to erase; but if they are once disrupted, they are rarely revived.

Most of the habits you think you have instilled into children and young people are not really habits at all; they have only been acquired under compulsion, and being followed reluctantly they will be cast off at the first opportunity. However long you remain in prison you never get a taste for prison life; so aversion is increased rather than diminished by habit. Not so with Emile; as a child he only did what he could do willingly and with pleasure, and as a man he will do the same, and the force of habit will only lend its help to the joys of freedom. An active life, bodily labour, exercise, movement, have become so essential to him that he could not relinquish them without suffering. Reduce him all at once to a soft and sedentary life and you condemn him to chains and imprisonment, you keep him in a condition of thraldom and constraint; he would suffer, no doubt, both in health and temper. He can scarcely breathe in a stuffy room, he requires open air, movement, fatigue. Even at Sophy’s feet he cannot help casting a glance at the country and longing to explore it in her company. Yet he remains if he must; but he is anxious and ill at ease; he seems to be struggling with himself; he remains because he is a captive. “Yes,” you will say, “these are necessities to which you have subjected him, a yoke which you have laid upon him.” You speak truly, I have subjected him to the yoke of manhood.

Most of the habits you think you've taught children and young people aren't really habits at all; they've only been picked up under pressure, and because they're followed reluctantly, they'll be dropped at the first chance. No matter how long you stay in prison, you'll never enjoy prison life; in fact, the dislike grows stronger with time. But that's not the case with Emile; as a child, he only did what he wanted to do willingly and happily, and as an adult, he’ll do the same, with the influence of habit only enhancing the joys of freedom. An active life, physical work, exercise, and movement have become so essential to him that he couldn't give them up without suffering. If you suddenly forced him into a soft, sedentary life, you’d be chaining him and locking him up, keeping him in a state of bondage and constraint; he would certainly suffer, both physically and emotionally. He can hardly breathe in a stuffy room; he needs fresh air, movement, and to be worn out. Even at Sophy’s feet, he can't help sneaking glances at the countryside and yearning to explore it with her. Still, he stays if he has to; but he’s anxious and uncomfortable; he seems to be battling with himself; he stays because he’s trapped. “Yes,” you might say, “these are necessities you’ve forced upon him, a burden you’ve placed on him.” You’re right; I have subjected him to the burden of adulthood.

Emile loves Sophy; but what were the charms by which he was first attracted? Sensibility, virtue, and love for things pure and honest. When he loves this love in Sophy, will he cease to feel it himself? And what price did she put upon herself? She required all her lover’s natural feelings—esteem of what is really good, frugality, simplicity, generous unselfishness, a scorn of pomp and riches. These virtues were Emile’s before love claimed them of him. Is he really changed? He has all the more reason to be himself; that is the only difference. The careful reader will not suppose that all the circumstances in which he is placed are the work of chance. There were many charming girls in the town; is it chance that his choice is discovered in a distant retreat? Is their meeting the work of chance? Is it chance that makes them so suited to each other? Is it chance that they cannot live in the same place, that he is compelled to find a lodging so far from her? Is it chance that he can see her so seldom and must purchase the pleasure of seeing her at the price of such fatigue? You say he is becoming effeminate. Not so, he is growing stronger; he must be fairly robust to stand the fatigue he endures on Sophy’s account.

Emile loves Sophy; but what initially attracted him? Sensitivity, virtue, and a love for things that are pure and honest. When he loves this goodness in Sophy, will he stop feeling it himself? And what value does she place on herself? She asks for all her lover’s natural feelings—appreciation for what is truly good, frugality, simplicity, generous selflessness, and disdain for showiness and wealth. These virtues were already a part of Emile before love demanded them from him. Is he really changed? He has all the more reason to be himself; that is the only difference. A thoughtful reader won't think that all the circumstances surrounding him are mere coincidence. There were many charming girls in town; is it coincidence that he found his choice in a distant place? Is their meeting a random event? Is it coincidental that they are so well-suited to each other? Is it just luck that they can't live in the same place, forcing him to find a home so far from her? Is it coincidence that he can see her so rarely and must endure such fatigue to enjoy the pleasure of her company? You say he’s becoming unmanly. Not at all; he is getting stronger; he has to be pretty tough to handle the fatigue he experiences for Sophy’s sake.

He lives more than two leagues away. That distance serves to temper the shafts of love. If they lived next door to each other, or if he could drive to see her in a comfortable carriage, he would love at his ease in the Paris fashion. Would Leander have braved death for the sake of Hero if the sea had not lain between them? Need I say more; if my reader is able to take my meaning, he will be able to follow out my principles in detail.

He lives more than two leagues away. That distance helps keep the intensity of love in check. If they lived next door to each other or if he could easily drive to see her in a nice carriage, he would love her casually, like people do in Paris. Would Leander have risked his life for Hero if the sea hadn't been between them? Do I need to say more? If my reader understands my point, they'll be able to grasp my ideas in detail.

The first time we went to see Sophy, we went on horseback, so as to get there more quickly. We continue this convenient plan until our fifth visit. We were expected; and more than half a league from the house we see people on the road. Emile watches them, his pulse quickens as he gets nearer, he recognises Sophy and dismounts quickly; he hastens to join the charming family. Emile is fond of good horses; his horse is fresh, he feels he is free, and gallops off across the fields; I follow and with some difficulty I succeed in catching him and bringing him back. Unluckily Sophy is afraid of horses, and I dare not approach her. Emile has not seen what happened, but Sophy whispers to him that he is giving his friend a great deal of trouble. He hurries up quite ashamed of himself, takes the horses, and follows after the party. It is only fair that each should take his turn and he rides on to get rid of our mounts. He has to leave Sophy behind him, and he no longer thinks riding a convenient mode of travelling. He returns out of breath and meets us half-way.

The first time we went to see Sophy, we rode horses to get there faster. We kept up this handy system until our fifth visit. We were expected, and more than half a mile from the house, we saw people on the road. Emile watched them, his heart racing as he got closer; he recognized Sophy and quickly got off his horse, eager to join the lovely family. Emile loves good horses; his horse is energetic, and he feels free as he gallops across the fields. I follow him and, after some effort, manage to catch up and bring him back. Unfortunately, Sophy is afraid of horses, so I hesitate to approach her. Emile doesn’t notice what happened, but Sophy whispers to him that he’s causing his friend a lot of trouble. He rushes over, embarrassed, takes the horses, and follows the group. It's only fair that everyone takes their turn, so he rides on to take care of our mounts. He has to leave Sophy behind, and he no longer thinks riding is a convenient way to travel. He returns, out of breath, and meets us halfway.

The next time, Emile will not hear of horses. “Why,” say I, “we need only take a servant to look after them.” “Shall we put our worthy friends to such expense?” he replies. “You see they would insist on feeding man and horse.” “That is true,” I reply; “theirs is the generous hospitality of the poor. The rich man in his niggardly pride only welcomes his friends, but the poor find room for their friends’ horses.” “Let us go on foot,” says he; “won’t you venture on the walk, when you are always so ready to share the toilsome pleasures of your child?” “I will gladly go with you,” I reply at once, “and it seems to me that love does not desire so much show.”

The next time, Emile won’t hear anything about horses. “Why,” I say, “we just need to bring a servant to take care of them.” “Do we really want to put our friends to that expense?” he replies. “You know they’d insist on feeding both man and horse.” “That’s true,” I respond; “they have the generous hospitality of those who have little. The rich man, in his greedy pride, only welcomes his friends, but the poor make room for their friends’ horses.” “Let’s walk,” he suggests; “won’t you take on the walk when you’re always so eager to share the hard-earned joys of your child?” “I’d gladly join you,” I answer immediately, “and it seems to me that love doesn’t need to make a show of itself.”

As we draw near, we meet the mother and daughter even further from home than on the last occasion. We have come at a great pace. Emile is very warm; his beloved condescends to pass her handkerchief over his cheeks. It would take a good many horses to make us ride there after this.

As we get closer, we see the mother and daughter even farther from home than before. We’ve come quickly. Emile is quite warm; his beloved kindly wipes his cheeks with her handkerchief. It would take a lot of horses to make us ride there after this.

But it is rather hard never to be able to spend an evening together. Midsummer is long past and the days are growing shorter. Whatever we say, we are not allowed to return home in the dark, and unless we make a very early start, we have to go back almost as soon as we get there. The mother is sorry for us and uneasy on our account, and it occurs to her that, though it would not be proper for us to stay in the house, beds might be found for us in the village, if we liked to stay there occasionally. Emile claps his hands at this idea and trembles with joy; Sophy, unwittingly, kisses her mother rather oftener than usual on the day this idea occurs to her.

But it’s pretty tough not being able to spend an evening together. Midsummer is long gone, and the days are getting shorter. No matter what we say, we can’t go home in the dark, and unless we leave really early, we have to head back almost as soon as we arrive. Our mom feels sorry for us and is worried about us, and it occurs to her that, even though it wouldn’t be appropriate for us to stay in the house, there might be beds available in the village if we want to stay there sometimes. Emile claps his hands at this idea and shakes with excitement; Sophy, without meaning to, kisses her mom a bit more than usual on the day that idea comes to her.

Little by little the charm of friendship and the familiarity of innocence take root and grow among us. I generally accompany my young friend on the days appointed by Sophy or her mother, but sometimes I let him go alone. The heart thrives in the sunshine of confidence, and a man must not be treated as a child; and what have I accomplished so far, if my pupil is unworthy of my esteem? Now and then I go without him; he is sorry, but he does not complain; what use would it be? And then he knows I shall not interfere with his interests. However, whether we go together or separately you will understand that we are not stopped by the weather; we are only too proud to arrive in a condition which calls for pity. Unluckily Sophy deprives us of this honour and forbids us to come in bad weather. This is the only occasion on which she rebels against the rules which I laid down for her in private.

Little by little, the charm of friendship and the innocence of familiarity take root and flourish among us. I usually accompany my young friend on the days set by Sophy or her mother, but sometimes I let him go by himself. The heart thrives in the light of trust, and a man shouldn't be treated like a child; and what have I achieved so far if my pupil isn't worthy of my respect? Occasionally, I go without him; he feels bad, but he doesn't complain; what's the point? Plus, he knows I won’t interfere with his interests. Whether we go together or separately, you should know that the weather doesn't stop us; we simply take pride in not arriving in a state that invites pity. Unfortunately, Sophy takes that away from us and forbids us to come out in bad weather. This is the only time she goes against the rules I set for her in private.

One day Emile had gone alone and I did not expect him back till the following day, but he returned the same evening. “My dear Emile,” said I, “have you come back to your old friend already?” But instead of responding to my caresses he replied with some show of temper, “You need not suppose I came back so soon of my own accord; she insisted on it; it is for her sake not yours that I am here.” Touched by his frankness I renewed my caresses, saying, “Truthful heart and faithful friend, do not conceal from me anything I ought to know. If you came back for her sake, you told me so for my own; your return is her doing, your frankness is mine. Continue to preserve the noble candour of great souls; strangers may think what they will, but it is a crime to let our friends think us better than we are.”

One day, Emile had gone out alone, and I didn’t expect him back until the next day, but he returned that same evening. “My dear Emile,” I said, “have you come back to your old friend already?” But instead of responding to my affection, he replied, a bit annoyed, “Don’t think I came back this soon on my own; she insisted I do it; I’m here for her, not for you.” Touched by his honesty, I showed him more affection, saying, “Truthful heart and loyal friend, don’t hide anything from me that I should know. If you came back for her sake, you mentioned it for my benefit; your return is because of her, and your honesty is for me. Keep that noble honesty of great souls; let strangers think what they want, but it’s wrong to let our friends believe we’re better than we are.”

I take care not to let him underrate the cost of his confession by assuming that there is more love than generosity in it, and by telling him that he would rather deprive himself of the honour of this return, than give it to Sophy. But this is how he revealed to me, all unconsciously, what were his real feelings; if he had returned slowly and comfortably, dreaming of his sweetheart, I should know he was merely her lover; when he hurried back, even if he was a little out of temper, he was the friend of his Mentor.

I make sure he doesn’t underestimate the cost of his confession by suggesting that there’s more love than generosity in it, and by saying that he would prefer to miss out on the honor of this return than give it to Sophy. But this is how he unintentionally showed me what his true feelings were; if he had come back slowly and relaxed, thinking about his sweetheart, I would know he was just her lover; when he rushed back, even if he was a bit grumpy, he was the friend of his Mentor.

You see that the young man is very far from spending his days with Sophy, and seeing as much of her as he wants. One or two visits a week are all that is permitted, and these visits are often only for the afternoon and are rarely extended to the next day. He spends much more of his time in longing to see her, or in rejoicing that he has seen her, than he actually spends in her presence. Even when he goes to see her, more time is spent in going and returning than by her side. His pleasures, genuine, pure, delicious, but more imaginary than real, serve to kindle his love but not to make him effeminate.

You can see that the young man doesn't get to spend his days with Sophy, and he can't see her as often as he'd like. He’s allowed only one or two visits a week, and those are usually just for the afternoon and rarely go into the next day. He spends way more time longing to see her or celebrating the times he has seen her than he actually does in her company. Even when he visits her, he spends more time traveling to and from than he does with her. His pleasures are real, pure, and delightful, but they feel more like fantasies than reality, fueling his love without making him soft.

On the days when he does not see Sophy he is not sitting idle at home. He is Emile himself and quite unchanged. He usually scours the country round in pursuit of its natural history; he observes and studies the soil, its products, and their mode of cultivation; he compares the methods he sees with those with which he is already familiar; he tries to find the reasons for any differences; if he thinks other methods better than those of the locality, he introduces them to the farmers’ notice; if he suggests a better kind of plough, he has one made from his own drawings; if he finds a lime pit he teaches them how to use the lime on the land, a process new to them; he often lends a hand himself; they are surprised to find him handling all manner of tools more easily than they can themselves; his furrows are deeper and straighter than theirs, he is a more skilful sower, and his beds for early produce are more cleverly planned. They do not scoff at him as a fine talker, they see he knows what he is talking about. In a word, his zeal and attention are bestowed on everything that is really useful to everybody; nor does he stop there. He visits the peasants in their homes; inquires into their circumstances, their families, the number of their children, the extent of their holdings, the nature of their produce, their markets, their rights, their burdens, their debts, etc. He gives away very little money, for he knows it is usually ill spent; but he himself directs the use of his money, and makes it helpful to them without distributing it among them. He supplies them with labourers, and often pays them for work done by themselves, on tasks for their own benefit. For one he has the falling thatch repaired or renewed; for another he clears a piece of land which had gone out of cultivation for lack of means; to another he gives a cow, a horse, or stock of any kind to replace a loss; two neighbours are ready to go to law, he wins them over, and makes them friends again; a peasant falls ill, he has him cared for, he looks after him himself; [Footnote: To look after a sick peasant is not merely to give him a pill, or medicine, or to send a surgeon to him. That is not what these poor folk require in sickness; what they want is more and better food. When you have fever, you will do well to fast, but when your peasants have it, give them meat and wine; illness, in their case, is nearly always due to poverty and exhaustion; your cellar will supply the best draught, your butchers will be the best apothecary.] another is harassed by a rich and powerful neighbor, he protects him and speaks on his behalf; young people are fond of one another, he helps forward their marriage; a good woman has lost her beloved child, he goes to see her, he speaks words of comfort and sits a while with her; he does not despise the poor, he is in no hurry to avoid the unfortunate; he often takes his dinner with some peasant he is helping, and he will even accept a meal from those who have no need of his help; though he is the benefactor of some and the friend of all, he is none the less their equal. In conclusion, he always does as much good by his personal efforts as by his money.

On the days when he doesn’t see Sophy, he isn't just sitting idle at home. He is still Emile, completely the same. He usually explores the surrounding countryside, diving into its natural history. He observes and studies the soil, its products, and how they’re cultivated; he compares the techniques he sees with those he already knows; he tries to understand the reasons behind any differences. If he thinks other methods are better than local ones, he brings them to the farmers’ attention; if he suggests a better type of plow, he draws up plans for one to be made; if he discovers a lime pit, he shows them how to use the lime on their fields, which is something new to them. He often lends a hand himself, and they’re surprised to see him handling all kinds of tools more skillfully than they can; his furrows are deeper and straighter than theirs, he sows seeds more skillfully, and his layouts for early crops are more thoughtfully organized. They don’t mock him as just a smooth talker; they recognize he knows what he’s talking about. In short, his enthusiasm and attention are focused on everything that is genuinely beneficial for everyone; and he doesn’t stop there. He visits farmers in their homes, asks about their situations, their families, the number of kids they have, how much land they farm, what they produce, where they sell it, what rights and burdens they carry, their debts, etc. He gives out very little money because he knows it’s often wasted; instead, he controls how his money is used to make a real difference without just handing it out. He provides them with workers, and often pays them for tasks they do for their benefit. For one farmer, he has their old thatch repaired or replaced; for another, he clears land that had fallen out of use due to lack of resources; to another, he gives a cow, a horse, or some livestock to replace something lost; when two neighbors are about to fight, he reconciles them and helps them become friends again; if a farmer falls ill, he ensures they get care and looks after them himself; [Footnote: Caring for a sick farmer doesn’t just mean giving them pills or sending a doctor. That’s not what these poor folks need when they’re sick; what they truly need is more and better food. When you have a fever, it’s best to fast, but when your peasants have one, you should give them meat and wine; their sickness is often due to poverty and exhaustion; your cellar provides the best drinks, and your butchers can be the best healers.] another farmer is being harassed by a rich and powerful neighbor, he stands up for him and speaks on his behalf; young couples are falling in love, and he helps them get married; a grieving mother lost her beloved child; he visits her, offers comforting words, and spends some time with her; he doesn’t look down on the poor and isn’t quick to distance himself from those who are struggling; he often shares his meals with farmers he’s helping, and he will even accept a meal from those who don’t need his assistance; even though he is a benefactor to some and a friend to all, he remains their equal. In conclusion, he does as much good through his personal efforts as he does with his money.

Sometimes his steps are turned in the direction of the happy abode; he may hope to see Sophy without her knowing, to see her out walking without being seen. But Emile is always quite open in everything he does; he neither can nor would deceive. His delicacy is of that pleasing type in which pride rests on the foundation of a good conscience. He keeps strictly within bounds, and never comes near enough to gain from chance what he only desires to win from Sophy herself. On the other hand, he delights to roam about the neighbourhood, looking for the trace of Sophy’s steps, feeling what pains she has taken and what a distance she has walked to please him.

Sometimes he finds himself heading toward the happy place, hoping to catch a glimpse of Sophy without her noticing, to see her out for a walk without being seen. But Emile is always completely honest in everything he does; he neither can nor would deceive. His sensitivity is of that nice kind where pride is built on a good conscience. He strictly respects boundaries and never gets close enough to accidentally gain what he only wants to earn from Sophy herself. On the other hand, he loves wandering around the neighborhood, searching for any signs of Sophy's footsteps, appreciating the effort she’s made and the distance she’s walked to make him happy.

The day before his visit, he will go to some neighbouring farm and order a little feast for the morrow. We shall take our walk in that direction without any special object, we shall turn in apparently by chance; fruit, cakes, and cream are waiting for us. Sophy likes sweets, so is not insensible to these attentions, and she is quite ready to do honour to what we have provided; for I always have my share of the credit even if I have had no part in the trouble; it is a girl’s way of returning thanks more easily. Her father and I have cakes and wine; Emile keeps the ladies company and is always on the look-out to secure a dish of cream in which Sophy has dipped her spoon.

The day before his visit, he'll head to a nearby farm and arrange a little feast for the next day. We’ll take a stroll in that direction without any specific purpose, casually turning in as if by chance; there will be fruit, cakes, and cream waiting for us. Sophy has a sweet tooth, so she appreciates these gestures and is more than happy to enjoy what we’ve brought; I always get some credit even if I didn't do any of the work, as it’s an easier way for a girl to show her gratitude. Her father and I will have cakes and wine, while Emile keeps the ladies company and is always on the lookout to grab a dish of cream that Sophy has dipped her spoon into.

The cakes lead me to talk of the races Emile used to run. Every one wants to hear about them; I explain amid much laughter; they ask him if he can run as well as ever. “Better,” says he; “I should be sorry to forget how to run.” One member of the company is dying to see him run, but she dare not say so; some one else undertakes to suggest it; he agrees and we send for two or three young men of the neighbourhood; a prize is offered, and in imitation of our earlier games a cake is placed on the goal. Every one is ready, Sophy’s father gives the signal by clapping his hands. The nimble Emile flies like lightning and reaches the goal almost before the others have started. He receives his prize at Sophy’s hands, and no less generous than Aeneas, he gives gifts to all the vanquished.

The cakes remind me of the races Emile used to run. Everyone wants to hear about them; I explain while everyone laughs; they ask him if he can still run as well as before. “Better,” he replies, “I’d be sorry to forget how to run.” One person is eager to see him run, but she doesn't dare to say it; someone else suggests it, and he agrees. We call for a few young men from the neighborhood; a prize is offered, and like our earlier games, a cake is placed at the finish line. Everyone is ready, and Sophy’s father gives the signal by clapping his hands. The quick Emile takes off like lightning and reaches the finish almost before the others have even started. He receives his prize from Sophy and, as generous as Aeneas, he gives gifts to all the runners he beat.

In the midst of his triumph, Sophy dares to challenge the victor, and to assert that she can run as fast as he. He does not refuse to enter the lists with her, and while she is getting ready to start, while she is tucking up her skirt at each side, more eager to show Emile a pretty ankle than to vanquish him in the race, while she is seeing if her petticoats are short enough, he whispers a word to her mother who smiles and nods approval. Then he takes his place by his competitor; no sooner is the signal given than she is off like a bird.

In the middle of his victory, Sophy boldly challenges the winner, claiming she can run just as fast as he can. He agrees to race her, and as she gets ready to start—gathering her skirt on each side, more excited to show Emile a nice ankle than to beat him—she checks if her petticoats are short enough. He leans in and whispers something to her mom, who smiles and nods in approval. Then, he takes his position next to her; as soon as the signal is given, she takes off like a bird.

Women were not meant to run; they flee that they may be overtaken. Running is not the only thing they do ill, but it is the only thing they do awkwardly; their elbows glued to their sides and pointed backwards look ridiculous, and the high heels on which they are perched make them look like so many grasshoppers trying to run instead of to jump.

Women weren't meant to run; they flee so they can be caught. Running isn’t the only thing they struggle with, but it’s the only thing they do awkwardly; their elbows stuck to their sides and pointed backwards look silly, and the high heels they're balancing on make them appear like a bunch of grasshoppers trying to run instead of jump.

Emile, supposing that Sophy runs no better than other women, does not deign to stir from his place and watches her start with a smile of mockery. But Sophy is light of foot and she wears low heels; she needs no pretence to make her foot look smaller; she runs so quickly that he has only just time to overtake this new Atalanta when he sees her so far ahead. Then he starts like an eagle dashing upon its prey; he pursues her, clutches her, grasps her at last quite out of breath, and gently placing his left arm about her, he lifts her like a feather, and pressing his sweet burden to his heart, he finishes the race, makes her touch the goal first, and then exclaiming, “Sophy wins!” he sinks on one knee before her and owns himself beaten.

Emile, assuming that Sophy can’t run any faster than other women, doesn’t bother to move from his spot and watches her take off with a mocking smile. But Sophy is quick on her feet and wearing low heels; she doesn’t need to pretend her feet are smaller; she runs so fast that he barely has time to catch up to this new Atalanta when he sees her way ahead. Then he springs into action like an eagle swooping down on its prey; he chases her, grabs her, finally catching his breath, and gently wrapping his left arm around her, he lifts her like a feather. Pressing his sweet burden to his heart, he crosses the finish line, making her touch the goal first, and then, exclaiming, “Sophy wins!” he drops to one knee in front of her and admits he’s been beaten.

Along with such occupations there is also the trade we learnt. One day a week at least, and every day when the weather is too bad for country pursuits, Emile and I go to work under a master-joiner. We do not work for show, like people above our trade; we work in earnest like regular workmen. Once when Sophy’s father came to see us, he found us at work, and did not fail to report his wonder to his wife and daughter. “Go and see that young man in the workshop,” said he, “and you will soon see if he despises the condition of the poor.” You may fancy how pleased Sophy was at this! They talk it over, and they decide to surprise him at his work. They question me, apparently without any special object, and having made sure of the time, mother and daughter take a little carriage and come to town on that very day.

Along with those jobs, there's also the trade we learned. At least one day a week, and every day when the weather is too bad for outdoor activities, Emile and I work under a master carpenter. We don't work for show like those above our trade; we work genuinely like real tradesmen. One time when Sophy’s father came to visit us, he found us hard at work and couldn’t wait to tell his wife and daughter about it. “Go see that young man in the workshop,” he said, “and you’ll quickly see if he looks down on poor people.” You can imagine how happy Sophy was about this! They discussed it and decided to surprise him while he was working. They asked me questions, seemingly without any particular reason, and after confirming the time, mother and daughter took a little carriage and came to town that very day.

On her arrival, Sophy sees, at the other end of the shop, a young man in his shirt sleeves, with his hair all untidy, so hard at work that he does not see her; she makes a sign to her mother. Emile, a chisel in one hand and a hammer in the other, is just finishing a mortise; then he saws a piece of wood and places it in the vice in order to polish it. The sight of this does not set Sophy laughing; it affects her greatly; it wins her respect. Woman, honour your master; he it is who works for you, he it is who gives you bread to eat; this is he!

On her arrival, Sophy spots a young man at the other end of the shop, dressed in his shirt sleeves and with messy hair, so focused on his work that he doesn't notice her. She gestures to her mother. Emile, holding a chisel in one hand and a hammer in the other, is just finishing a mortise; then he saws a piece of wood and puts it in the vice to polish it. Watching this doesn't make Sophy laugh; it deeply affects her and earns her respect. Woman, honor your master; he is the one who works for you, he is the one who provides you with food; this is him!

While they are busy watching him, I perceive them and pull Emile by the sleeve; he turns round, drops his tools, and hastens to them with an exclamation of delight. After he has given way to his first raptures, he makes them take a seat and he goes back to his work. But Sophy cannot keep quiet; she gets up hastily, runs about the workshop, looks at the tools, feels the polish of the boards, picks up shavings, looks at our hands, and says she likes this trade, it is so clean. The merry girl tries to copy Emile. With her delicate white hand she passes a plane over a bit of wood; the plane slips and makes no impression. It seems to me that Love himself is hovering over us and beating his wings; I think I can hear his joyous cries, “Hercules is avenged.”

While they're busy watching him, I notice them and tug on Emile's sleeve; he turns around, drops his tools, and rushes over to them with a shout of joy. After he gets over his initial excitement, he has them sit down while he returns to his work. But Sophy can't sit still; she jumps up, runs around the workshop, examines the tools, feels the smoothness of the boards, picks up some shavings, looks at our hands, and says she loves this trade because it's so clean. The cheerful girl tries to mimic Emile. With her delicate white hand, she slides a plane over a piece of wood; the plane slips and leaves no mark. It feels like Love himself is hovering above us, fluttering his wings; I can almost hear his joyful cries, “Hercules is avenged.”

Yet Sophy’s mother questions the master. “Sir, how much do you pay these two men a day?” “I give them each tenpence a day and their food; but if that young fellow wanted he could earn much more, for he is the best workman in the country.” “Tenpence a day and their food,” said she looking at us tenderly. “That is so, madam,” replied the master. At these words she hurries up to Emile, kisses him, and clasps him to her breast with tears; unable to say more she repeats again and again, “My son, my son!”

Yet Sophy’s mother questions the master. “Sir, how much do you pay these two men a day?” “I give them each ten pence a day and their food; but if that young man wanted to, he could earn much more because he is the best worker in the country.” “Ten pence a day and their food,” she said, looking at us tenderly. “That’s correct, madam,” replied the master. At these words, she rushes over to Emile, kisses him, and holds him tightly to her chest with tears; unable to say more, she keeps repeating, “My son, my son!”

When they had spent some time chatting with us, but without interrupting our work, “We must be going now,” said the mother to her daughter, “it is getting late and we must not keep your father waiting.” Then approaching Emile she tapped him playfully on the cheek, saying, “Well, my good workman, won’t you come with us?” He replied sadly, “I am at work, ask the master.” The master is asked if he can spare us. He replies that he cannot. “I have work on hand,” said he, “which is wanted the day after to-morrow, so there is not much time. Counting on these gentlemen I refused other workmen who came; if they fail me I don’t know how to replace them and I shall not be able to send the work home at the time promised.” The mother said nothing, she was waiting to hear what Emile would say. Emile hung his head in silence. “Sir,” she said, somewhat surprised at this, “have you nothing to say to that?” Emile looked tenderly at her daughter and merely said, “You see I am bound to stay.” Then the ladies left us. Emile went with them to the door, gazed after them as long as they were in sight, and returned to his work without a word.

After chatting with us for a while without interrupting our work, the mother said to her daughter, “We should get going now; it’s getting late, and we don’t want to keep your father waiting.” Then she playfully tapped Emile on the cheek and asked, “Well, my good worker, won’t you come with us?” He replied sadly, “I’m working; ask the boss.” They asked the boss if he could let them go, and he said he couldn’t. “I have a job due the day after tomorrow, and there’s not much time left. I turned away other workers hoping for these gentlemen; if they don’t show up, I won’t know how to replace them, and I won’t be able to deliver the work on time.” The mother didn’t say anything, waiting for Emile’s response. Emile hung his head in silence. “Sir,” she said, a bit surprised, “don’t you have anything to say about that?” Emile looked tenderly at her daughter and simply said, “You see, I have to stay.” Then the ladies left us. Emile walked them to the door, watched them until they were out of sight, and returned to his work without saying a word.

On the way home, the mother, somewhat vexed at his conduct, spoke to her daughter of the strange way in which he had behaved. “Why,” said she, “was it so difficult to arrange matters with the master without being obliged to stay. The young man is generous enough and ready to spend money when there is no need for it, could not he spend a little on such a fitting occasion?” “Oh, mamma,” replied Sophy, “I trust Emile will never rely so much on money as to use it to break an engagement, to fail to keep his own word, and to make another break his! I know he could easily give the master a trifle to make up for the slight inconvenience caused by his absence; but his soul would become the slave of riches, he would become accustomed to place wealth before duty, and he would think that any duty might be neglected provided he was ready to pay. That is not Emile’s way of thinking, and I hope he will never change on my account. Do you think it cost him nothing to stay? You are quite wrong, mamma; it was for my sake that he stayed; I saw it in his eyes.”

On the way home, the mother, a bit annoyed by his behavior, talked to her daughter about the strange way he acted. “Why,” she said, “was it so hard to sort things out with the master without having to stay? The young man is generous and willing to spend money when it’s unnecessary; couldn’t he spend a little for such an appropriate occasion?” “Oh, Mom,” replied Sophy, “I hope Emile never relies so much on money that he would use it to get out of an engagement, break his word, and make someone else do the same! I know he could easily give the master a little something to make up for the minor inconvenience of his absence; but that would make him a slave to wealth, he would get used to prioritizing money over duty, and he might think it’s okay to neglect any responsibility as long as he’s willing to pay. That’s not how Emile thinks, and I hope he never changes that for me. Do you think it didn’t cost him anything to stay? You’re completely wrong, Mom; he stayed for my sake; I could see it in his eyes.”

It is not that Sophy is indifferent to genuine proofs of love; on the contrary she is imperious and exacting; she would rather not be loved at all than be loved half-heartedly. Hers is the noble pride of worth, conscious of its own value, self-respecting and claiming a like honour from others. She would scorn a heart that did not recognise the full worth of her own; that did not love her for her virtues as much and more than for her charms; a heart which did not put duty first, and prefer it to everything. She did not desire a lover who knew no will but hers. She wished to reign over a man whom she had not spoilt. Thus Circe, having changed into swine the comrades of Ulysses, bestowed herself on him over whom she had no power.

Sophy isn't indifferent to true expressions of love; in fact, she is strong-willed and demanding. She would rather not be loved at all than be loved in a half-hearted way. She has the noble pride of someone who knows their worth, values themselves, and expects the same respect from others. She would dismiss a person who didn't recognize her full value; someone who didn't love her for her virtues as much as for her appearance; a person who didn't prioritize duty above all else. She didn't want a lover who had no will of their own. She wanted to have the power over a man she hadn't spoiled. Just like Circe, who transformed the companions of Ulysses into pigs and then chose to keep for herself someone she had no control over.

Except for this sacred and inviolable right, Sophy is very jealous of her own rights; she observes how carefully Emile respects them, how zealously he does her will; how cleverly he guesses her wishes, how exactly he arrives at the appointed time; she will have him neither late nor early; he must arrive to the moment. To come early is to think more of himself than of her; to come late is to neglect her. To neglect Sophy, that could not happen twice. An unfounded suspicion on her part nearly ruined everything, but Sophy is really just and knows how to atone for her faults.

Except for this sacred and inviolable right, Sophy is very protective of her own rights; she notices how carefully Emile respects them, how eagerly he follows her wishes; how well he understands her desires, how precisely he arrives at the appointed time; she wants him to be neither late nor early; he must arrive right on time. Arriving early suggests he thinks more of himself than of her; arriving late indicates he is neglecting her. Neglecting Sophy is not something that can happen twice. An unfounded suspicion on her part almost ruined everything, but Sophy is genuinely fair and knows how to make up for her mistakes.

They were expecting us one evening; Emile had received his orders. They came to meet us, but we were not there. What has become of us? What accident have we met with? No message from us! The evening is spent in expectation of our arrival. Sophy thinks we are dead; she is miserable and in an agony of distress; she cries all the night through. In the course of the evening a messenger was despatched to inquire after us and bring back news in the morning. The messenger returns together with another messenger sent by us, who makes our excuses verbally and says we are quite well. Then the scene is changed; Sophy dries her tears, or if she still weeps it is for anger. It is small consolation to her proud spirit to know that we are alive; Emile lives and he has kept her waiting.

They were waiting for us one evening; Emile had received his orders. They came to meet us, but we weren’t there. What happened to us? What accident did we have? No word from us! The evening passes while they expect our arrival. Sophy thinks we’re dead; she is heartbroken and in agony; she cries all night long. During the evening, a messenger was sent to check on us and bring back news in the morning. The messenger returns along with another messenger sent by us, who apologizes on our behalf and says we are fine. Then the mood changes; Sophy dries her tears, or if she still cries, it’s out of anger. It offers little comfort to her proud spirit to know that we are alive; Emile is alive, and he has kept her waiting.

When we arrive she tries to escape to her own room; her parents desire her to remain, so she is obliged to do so; but deciding at once what course she will take she assumes a calm and contented expression which would deceive most people. Her father comes forward to receive us saying, “You have made your friends very uneasy; there are people here who will not forgive you very readily.” “Who are they, papa,” said Sophy with the most gracious smile she could assume. “What business is that of yours,” said her father, “if it is not you?” Sophy bent over her work without reply. Her mother received us coldly and formally. Emile was so confused he dared not speak to Sophy. She spoke first, inquired how he was, asked him to take a chair, and pretended so cleverly that the poor young fellow, who as yet knew nothing of the language of angry passions, was quite deceived by her apparent indifference, and ready to take offence on his own account.

When we arrive, she tries to escape to her own room; her parents want her to stay, so she has to. But immediately deciding what to do, she puts on a calm and contented expression that would fool most people. Her father steps up to greet us, saying, “You’ve made your friends very uneasy; there are people here who won’t forgive you easily.” “Who are they, Dad?” Sophy replies with the most charming smile she can muster. “What’s it to you if it’s not you?” her father retorts. Sophy doesn’t respond and bends over her work instead. Her mother greets us coldly and formally. Emile, feeling so awkward, doesn't dare to speak to Sophy. She speaks first, asks how he is, invites him to sit down, and pretends so skillfully that the poor guy, who doesn’t yet understand the language of angry emotions, is completely fooled by her seeming indifference and ready to take offense on his own behalf.

To undeceive him I was going to take Sophy’s hand and raise it to my lips as I sometimes did; she drew it back so hastily, with the word, “Sir,” uttered in such a strange manner that Emile’s eyes were opened at once by this involuntary movement.

To clear up his misunderstanding, I was about to take Sophy’s hand and kiss it like I sometimes did; she pulled her hand back so quickly, saying “Sir,” in such an unusual way that Emile immediately noticed this involuntary action.

Sophy herself, seeing that she had betrayed herself, exercised less control over herself. Her apparent indifference was succeeded by scornful irony. She replied to everything he said in monosyllables uttered slowly and hesitatingly as if she were afraid her anger should show itself too plainly. Emile half dead with terror stared at her full of sorrow, and tried to get her to look at him so that his eyes might read in hers her real feelings. Sophy, still more angry at his boldness, gave him one look which removed all wish for another. Luckily for himself, Emile, trembling and dumbfounded, dared neither look at her nor speak to her again; for had he not been guilty, had he been able to endure her wrath, she would never have forgiven him.

Sophy, realizing she had revealed her feelings, had less control over her emotions. Her earlier indifference turned into scornful irony. She responded to everything he said with slow, hesitant monosyllables, as if afraid her anger would show too clearly. Emile, terrified and heartbroken, stared at her, hoping his gaze would uncover her true feelings. But Sophy, even more infuriated by his boldness, shot him a look that erased any desire for another. Fortunately for him, Emile, trembling and stunned, dared not look at or speak to her again; if he hadn’t felt guilty and could handle her anger, she would have never forgiven him.

Seeing that it was my turn now, and that the time was ripe for explanation, I returned to Sophy. I took her hand and this time she did not snatch it away; she was ready to faint. I said gently, “Dear Sophy, we are the victims of misfortune; but you are just and reasonable; you will not judge us unheard; listen to what we have to say.” She said nothing and I proceeded—

Seeing that it was my turn now and that the moment was right for an explanation, I turned back to Sophy. I took her hand, and this time she didn’t pull it away; she looked like she might faint. I said softly, “Dear Sophy, we are victims of bad luck; but you are fair and reasonable; you won’t judge us without hearing us out; please listen to what we have to say.” She didn’t say anything, so I continued—

“We set out yesterday at four o’clock; we were told to be here at seven, and we always allow ourselves rather more time than we need, so as to rest a little before we get here. We were more than half way here when we heard lamentable groans, which came from a little valley in the hillside, some distance off. We hurried towards the place and found an unlucky peasant who had taken rather more wine than was good for him; on his way home he had fallen heavily from his horse and broken his leg. We shouted and called for help; there was no answer; we tried to lift the injured man on his horse, but without success; the least movement caused intense agony. We decided to tie up the horse in a quiet part of the wood; then we made a chair of our crossed arms and carried the man as gently as possible, following his directions till we got him home. The way was long, and we were constantly obliged to stop and rest. At last we got there, but thoroughly exhausted. We were surprised and sorry to find that it was a house we knew already and that the wretched creature we had carried with such difficulty was the very man who received us so kindly when first we came. We had all been so upset that until that moment we had not recognised each other.

“We set out yesterday at four o’clock; we were told to be here at seven, and we always give ourselves a bit more time than we need to relax a little before arriving. We were more than halfway here when we heard sorrowful groans coming from a small valley in the hillside, not too far away. We rushed over and found an unfortunate peasant who had drunk a bit too much wine; on his way home, he had fallen hard from his horse and broken his leg. We shouted and called for help, but there was no response; we tried to lift the injured man onto his horse, but it didn’t work; any movement caused him intense pain. We decided to tie the horse up in a quiet spot in the woods; then we made a chair with our crossed arms and carried the man as gently as we could, following his directions until we got him home. The journey was long, and we had to stop and rest frequently. Finally, we arrived, completely exhausted. We were shocked and saddened to discover that it was a house we already knew and that the poor guy we had struggled to carry was the same man who had welcomed us so warmly when we first arrived. We had all been so distressed that we hadn’t recognized each other until that moment.

“There were only two little children. His wife was about to present him with another, and she was so overwhelmed at the sight of him brought home in such a condition, that she was taken ill and a few hours later gave birth to another little one. What was to be done under such circumstances in a lonely cottage far from any help? Emile decided to fetch the horse we had left in the wood, to ride as fast as he could into the town and fetch a surgeon. He let the surgeon have the horse, and not succeeding in finding a nurse all at once, he returned on foot with a servant, after having sent a messenger to you; meanwhile I hardly knew what to do between a man with a broken leg and a woman in travail, but I got ready as well as I could such things in the house as I thought would be needed for the relief of both.

“There were only two little kids. His wife was about to have another, and she was so overwhelmed by seeing him brought home in such a state that she got sick and a few hours later gave birth to another little one. What could be done in such a situation in a lonely cottage far from any help? Emile decided to go get the horse we left in the woods, to ride as fast as he could into town and get a surgeon. He let the surgeon use the horse, and since he couldn't find a nurse right away, he returned on foot with a servant after sending a message to you; meanwhile, I hardly knew what to do with a man who had a broken leg and a woman in labor, but I prepared as best I could the things around the house that I thought would help both of them.

“I will pass over the rest of the details; they are not to the point. It was two o’clock in the morning before we got a moment’s rest. At last we returned before daybreak to our lodging close at hand, where we waited till you were up to let you know what had happened to us.”

“I'll skip the other details; they’re not relevant. It was two in the morning before we finally got a moment to rest. Eventually, we went back to our nearby accommodation before dawn, where we waited for you to wake up to tell you what happened to us.”

That was all I said. But before any one could speak Emile, approaching Sophy, raised his voice and said with greater firmness than I expected, “Sophy, my fate is in your hands, as you very well know. You may condemn me to die of grief; but do not hope to make me forget the rights of humanity; they are even more sacred in my eyes than your own rights; I will never renounce them for you.”

That’s all I said. But before anyone could respond, Emile walked up to Sophy, raised his voice, and said with more determination than I expected, “Sophy, my future is in your hands, as you know very well. You can make me suffer from heartbreak; but don’t think you can make me forget the rights of humanity; they are even more sacred to me than your own rights; I will never give them up for you.”

For all answer, Sophy rose, put her arm round his neck, and kissed him on the cheek; then offering him her hand with inimitable grace she said to him, “Emile, take this hand; it is yours. When you will, you shall be my husband and my master; I will try to be worthy of that honour.”

For all of his questions, Sophy stood up, wrapped her arm around his neck, and kissed him on the cheek. Then, extending her hand with unmatched grace, she said to him, “Emile, take this hand; it’s yours. Whenever you want, you can be my husband and my master; I’ll do my best to deserve that honor.”

Scarcely had she kissed him, when her delighted father clapped his hands calling, “Encore, encore,” and Sophy without further ado, kissed him twice on the other cheek; but afraid of what she had done she took refuge at once in her mother’s arms and hid her blushing face on the maternal bosom.

Scarcely had she kissed him when her delighted father clapped his hands, shouting, “Encore, encore,” and Sophy, without hesitation, kissed him twice on the other cheek; but feeling scared about what she had done, she immediately took refuge in her mother’s arms and hid her blushing face against her mom’s chest.

I will not describe our happiness; everybody will feel with us. After dinner Sophy asked if it were too far to go and see the poor invalids. It was her wish and it was a work of mercy. When we got there we found them both in bed—Emile had sent for a second bedstead; there were people there to look after them—Emile had seen to it. But in spite of this everything was so untidy that they suffered almost as much from discomfort as from their condition. Sophy asked for one of the good wife’s aprons and set to work to make her more comfortable in her bed; then she did as much for the man; her soft and gentle hand seemed to find out what was hurting them and how to settle them into less painful positions. Her very presence seemed to make them more comfortable; she seemed to guess what was the matter. This fastidious girl was not disgusted by the dirt or smells, and she managed to get rid of both without disturbing the sick people. She who had always appeared so modest and sometimes so disdainful, she who would not for all the world have touched a man’s bed with her little finger, lifted the sick man and changed his linen without any fuss, and placed him to rest in a more comfortable position. The zeal of charity is of more value than modesty. What she did was done so skilfully and with such a light touch that he felt better almost without knowing she had touched him. Husband and wife mingled their blessings upon the kindly girl who tended, pitied, and consoled them. She was an angel from heaven come to visit them; she was an angel in face and manner, in gentleness and goodness. Emile was greatly touched by all this and he watched her without speaking. O man, love thy helpmeet. God gave her to relieve thy sufferings, to comfort thee in thy troubles. This is she!

I won’t describe our happiness; everyone will empathize with us. After dinner, Sophy asked if it was too far to visit the poor patients. It was her wish, and it was an act of kindness. When we arrived, we found them both in bed—Emile had arranged for a second bed; there were caregivers present—Emile had taken care of it. However, despite that, everything was so messy that they were as uncomfortable as they were unwell. Sophy asked for one of the good wife’s aprons and got to work making her more comfortable in bed; then she did the same for the man. Her gentle touch seemed to know exactly what was hurting them and how to help them get into less painful positions. Just her presence seemed to ease their discomfort; she seemed to understand what they needed. This particular girl, who had always seemed so delicate and sometimes even disdainful, would never have touched a man's bed with her little finger, lifted the sick man and changed his sheets without any fuss, and settled him into a more comfortable position. The eagerness of charity is more valuable than modesty. What she did was so skillful and so gentle that he felt better almost without realizing she had touched him. The husband and wife mixed their blessings over the kind girl who cared for, pitied, and comforted them. She was like an angel from heaven come to visit them; she was an angel in looks and demeanor, in kindness and compassion. Emile was deeply moved by all of this and watched her silently. Oh man, love your partner. God gave her to ease your suffering, to comfort you in your troubles. This is she!

The new-born baby was baptised. The two lovers were its god-parents, and as they held it at the font they were longing, at the bottom of their hearts, for the time when they should have a child of their own to be baptised. They longed for their wedding day; they thought it was close at hand; all Sophy’s scruples had vanished, but mine remained. They had not got so far as they expected; every one must have his turn.

The newborn baby was baptized. The two lovers were its godparents, and as they held it at the font, deep down in their hearts, they wished for the day when they would have a child of their own to be baptized. They yearned for their wedding day, believing it was just around the corner; all of Sophy's doubts had faded away, but mine still lingered. They hadn't progressed as much as they hoped; everyone has their own turn.

One morning when they had not seen each other for two whole days, I entered Emile’s room with a letter in my hands, and looking fixedly at him I said to him, “What would you do if some one told you Sophy were dead?” He uttered a loud cry, got up and struck his hands together, and without saying a single word, he looked at me with eyes of desperation. “Answer me,” I continued with the same calmness. Vexed at my composure, he then approached me with eyes blazing with anger; and checking himself in an almost threatening attitude, “What would I do? I know not; but this I do know, I would never set eyes again upon the person who brought me such news.” “Comfort yourself,” said I, smiling, “she lives, she is well, and they are expecting us this evening. But let us go for a short walk and we can talk things over.”

One morning, after not seeing each other for two full days, I walked into Emile’s room holding a letter. I stared at him and asked, “What would you do if someone told you Sophy was dead?” He let out a loud cry, jumped up, and clapped his hands together. Without saying a word, he looked at me with desperate eyes. “Answer me,” I said, maintaining my calm. Frustrated by my composure, he stepped closer, his eyes filled with anger. Then, catching himself in a nearly threatening way, he retorted, “What would I do? I don’t know; but I do know that I would never want to see the person who brought me such news again.” “Don’t worry,” I replied with a smile, “she’s alive, she’s fine, and they’re expecting us this evening. But let’s take a short walk so we can talk things over.”

The passion which engrosses him will no longer permit him to devote himself as in former days to discussions of pure reason; this very passion must be called to our aid if his attention is to be given to my teaching. That is why I made use of this terrible preface; I am quite sure he will listen to me now.

The passion that consumes him won't allow him to dedicate himself to discussions of pure reason like he used to; this very passion needs to be harnessed if he is going to pay attention to what I'm teaching. That's why I used this harsh opening; I'm confident he'll listen to me now.

“We must be happy, dear Emile; it is the end of every feeling creature; it is the first desire taught us by nature, and the only one which never leaves us. But where is happiness? Who knows? Every one seeks it, and no one finds it. We spend our lives in the search and we die before the end is attained. My young friend, when I took you, a new-born infant, in my arms, and called God himself to witness to the vow I dared to make that I would devote my life to the happiness of your life, did I know myself what I was undertaking? No; I only knew that in making you happy, I was sure of my own happiness. By making this useful inquiry on your account, I made it for us both.

“We have to be happy, dear Emile; it's the ultimate goal of every living being; it's the first desire nature teaches us, and the only one that never fades away. But where is happiness? Who can say? Everyone searches for it, yet no one finds it. We spend our lives looking for it and often die before we discover it. My young friend, when I held you, a newborn infant, in my arms and called upon God to witness the promise I dared to make that I would dedicate my life to ensuring your happiness, did I truly understand what I was committing to? No; I only knew that by making you happy, I would find my own happiness. By asking this important question for your sake, I was also asking it for both of us.

“So long as we do not know what to do, wisdom consists in doing nothing. Of all rules there is none so greatly needed by man, and none which he is less able to obey. In seeking happiness when we know not where it is, we are perhaps getting further and further from it, we are running as many risks as there are roads to choose from. But it is not every one that can keep still. Our passion for our own well-being makes us so uneasy, that we would rather deceive ourselves in the search for happiness than sit still and do nothing; and when once we have left the place where we might have known happiness, we can never return.

“As long as we don’t know what to do, wisdom means doing nothing. Of all the rules, there’s none more important for people, and none they're less able to follow. In trying to find happiness when we don’t know where it is, we might actually be moving further away from it, taking as many risks as there are paths to choose from. But not everyone can stay still. Our desire for our own happiness makes us so restless that we’d rather fool ourselves in the hunt for happiness than sit still and do nothing; and once we’ve left the place where we might have found happiness, we can never go back.”

“In ignorance like this I tried to avoid a similar fault. When I took charge of you I decided to take no useless steps and to prevent you from doing so too. I kept to the path of nature, until she should show me the path of happiness. And lo! their paths were the same, and without knowing it this was the path I trod.

“In ignorance like this, I tried to avoid making the same mistake. When I took care of you, I decided not to take any unnecessary actions and to stop you from doing so as well. I stuck to the natural way until it revealed the path to happiness. And suddenly! Their paths were the same, and without realizing it, this was the path I was walking.”

“Be at once my witness and my judge; I will never refuse to accept your decision. Your early years have not been sacrificed to those that were to follow, you have enjoyed all the good gifts which nature bestowed upon you. Of the ills to which you were by nature subject, and from which I could shelter you, you have only experienced such as would harden you to bear others. You have never suffered any evil, except to escape a greater. You have known neither hatred nor servitude. Free and happy, you have remained just and kindly; for suffering and vice are inseparable, and no man ever became bad until he was unhappy. May the memory of your childhood remain with you to old age! I am not afraid that your kind heart will ever recall the hand that trained it without a blessing upon it.

“Be both my witness and my judge; I will always accept your decision. Your early years haven’t been wasted for what came next; you’ve enjoyed all the good things that nature gave you. Of the hardships you were naturally prone to, from which I could have protected you, you’ve only faced those that would toughen you up for more. You’ve never experienced true evil, only what you needed to avoid something worse. You’ve known neither hatred nor servitude. Free and happy, you’ve remained kind and just; because suffering and wrongdoing go hand in hand, and no one ever turned bad until they were unhappy. May the memories of your childhood stay with you into old age! I’m not worried that your kind heart will remember the one who nurtured it without feeling grateful.”

“When you reached the age of reason, I secured you from the influence of human prejudice; when your heart awoke I preserved you from the sway of passion. Had I been able to prolong this inner tranquillity till your life’s end, my work would have been secure, and you would have been as happy as man can be; but, my dear Emile, in vain did I dip you in the waters of Styx, I could not make you everywhere invulnerable; a fresh enemy has appeared, whom you have not yet learnt to conquer, and from whom I cannot save you. That enemy is yourself. Nature and fortune had left you free. You could face poverty, you could bear bodily pain; the sufferings of the heart were unknown to you; you were then dependent on nothing but your position as a human being; now you depend on all the ties you have formed for yourself; you have learnt to desire, and you are now the slave of your desires. Without any change in yourself, without any insult, any injury to yourself, what sorrows may attack your soul, what pains may you suffer without sickness, how many deaths may you die and yet live! A lie, an error, a suspicion, may plunge you in despair.

“When you reached the age of reason, I protected you from the influence of human prejudice; when your heart awakened, I kept you safe from the pull of passion. If I had been able to maintain this inner peace until the end of your life, my work would have been successful, and you would have been as happy as a person can be; but, my dear Emile, despite my efforts to shield you, I couldn't make you invulnerable everywhere; a new enemy has emerged, one you haven't yet learned to overcome, and I can't protect you from it. That enemy is yourself. Nature and fate left you free. You could face poverty, you could endure physical pain; emotional suffering was unfamiliar to you; you were only dependent on your existence as a human being; now you rely on all the bonds you’ve created for yourself; you’ve learned to want, and now you are a slave to your desires. Without any change in yourself, without any insult or injury to yourself, what sorrows may torment your soul, what pains may you endure without illness, how many times may you die and still live! A lie, an error, a suspicion could plunge you into despair.

“At the theatre you used to see heroes, abandoned to depths of woe, making the stage re-echo with their wild cries, lamenting like women, weeping like children, and thus securing the applause of the audience. Do you remember how shocked you were by those lamentations, cries, and groans, in men from whom one would only expect deeds of constancy and heroism. ‘Why,’ said you, ‘are those the patterns we are to follow, the models set for our imitation! Are they afraid man will not be small enough, unhappy enough, weak enough, if his weakness is not enshrined under a false show of virtue.’ My young friend, henceforward you must be more merciful to the stage; you have become one of those heroes.

“At the theater, you used to see heroes, sunk in deep despair, making the stage echo with their intense cries, lamenting like women and weeping like children, earning the audience's applause. Do you remember how shocked you were by those lamentations, cries, and groans from men you expected to show only courage and heroism? ‘Why,’ you asked, ‘are those the examples we are supposed to follow, the models for our imitation? Are they worried that men won’t be small enough, unhappy enough, or weak enough if their weakness isn’t hidden under a false facade of virtue?’ My young friend, from now on, you must be more forgiving towards the stage; you have become one of those heroes.”

“You know how to suffer and to die; you know how to bear the heavy yoke of necessity in ills of the body, but you have not yet learnt to give a law to the desires of your heart; and the difficulties of life arise rather from our affections than from our needs. Our desires are vast, our strength is little better than nothing. In his wishes man is dependent on many things; in himself he is dependent on nothing, not even on his own life; the more his connections are multiplied, the greater his sufferings. Everything upon earth has an end; sooner or later all that we love escapes from our fingers, and we behave as if it would last for ever. What was your terror at the mere suspicion of Sophy’s death? Do you suppose she will live for ever? Do not young people of her age die? She must die, my son, and perhaps before you. Who knows if she is alive at this moment? Nature meant you to die but once; you have prepared a second death for yourself.

“You know how to endure pain and face death; you know how to handle the heavy burden of life's struggles, but you haven't yet learned to control the desires of your heart. The challenges we face in life often stem more from our emotions than from our physical needs. Our desires are endless, while our strength is barely enough. In our wishes, we rely on many external factors; within ourselves, we shouldn’t depend on anything, not even our own lives. The more connections we form, the more we suffer. Everything on Earth has an end; eventually, everything we love slips through our fingers, yet we act as if it will last forever. What was your fear at the mere thought of Sophy's death? Do you really believe she will live forever? Don’t young people like her die? She will die, my son, and maybe even before you. Who knows if she’s alive right now? Nature has destined you to die only once; you’ve set yourself up for a second death.”

“A slave to your unbridled passions, how greatly are you to be pitied! Ever privations, losses, alarms; you will not even enjoy what is left. You will possess nothing because of the fear of losing it; you will never be able to satisfy your passions, because you desired to follow them continually. You will ever be seeking that which will fly before you; you will be miserable and you will become wicked. How can you be otherwise, having no care but your unbridled passions! If you cannot put up with involuntary privations how will you voluntarily deprive yourself? How can you sacrifice desire to duty, and resist your heart in order to listen to your reason? You would never see that man again who dared to bring you word of the death of your mistress; how would you behold him who would deprive you of her living self, him who would dare to tell you, ‘She is dead to you, virtue puts a gulf between you’? If you must live with her whatever happens, whether Sophy is married or single, whether you are free or not, whether she loves or hates you, whether she is given or refused to you, no matter, it is your will and you must have her at any price. Tell me then what crime will stop a man who has no law but his heart’s desires, who knows not how to resist his own passions.

“A slave to your uncontrolled desires, how much you should be pitied! Always facing deprivation, loss, and anxiety; you won’t even enjoy what little remains. You’ll own nothing because you’re too afraid of losing it; you’ll never satisfy your desires since you want to chase them endlessly. You’ll always be chasing what’s just out of reach; you’ll be unhappy and turn wicked. How could you be otherwise with only your uncontrolled desires to care about? If you can’t handle involuntary losses, how will you willingly give up anything? How can you put duty above desire and silence your heart to listen to your reason? You wouldn’t be able to face the person who brought you news of your mistress’s death; how could you stand the one who would take her away from you, the one who would dare to say, ‘She is dead to you, virtue stands between you’? If you have to live with her no matter what happens, whether Sophy is married or single, whether you are free or not, whether she loves or hates you, whether she is available or denied to you, it doesn’t matter—it’s your will, and you must have her at any cost. So tell me, what crime would stop a man who has no law but his heart’s desires and doesn’t know how to resist his own passions?"

“My son, there is no happiness without courage, nor virtue without a struggle. The word virtue is derived from a word signifying strength, and strength is the foundation of all virtue. Virtue is the heritage of a creature weak by nature but strong by will; that is the whole merit of the righteous man; and though we call God good we do not call Him virtuous, because He does good without effort. I waited to explain the meaning of this word, so often profaned, until you were ready to understand me. As long as virtue is quite easy to practise, there is little need to know it. This need arises with the awakening of the passions; your time has come.

"My son, there is no happiness without courage, and no virtue without struggle. The word virtue comes from a term that means strength, and strength is the foundation of all virtue. Virtue is the inheritance of a being who is weak by nature but strong by will; that is the true worth of a righteous person. While we call God good, we don't call Him virtuous because He does good effortlessly. I held off on explaining this word, so often misused, until you were ready to understand. As long as virtue is easy to practice, there’s little need to grasp its meaning. This need becomes apparent when passions awaken; that time is now for you."

“When I brought you up in all the simplicity of nature, instead of preaching disagreeable duties, I secured for you immunity from the vices which make such duties disagreeable; I made lying not so much hateful as unnecessary in your sight; I taught you not so much to give others their due, as to care little about your own rights; I made you kindly rather than virtuous. But the kindly man is only kind so long as he finds it pleasant; kindness falls to pieces at the shook of human passions; the kindly man is only kind to himself.

“When I raised you in a natural and straightforward way, rather than burdening you with unpleasant obligations, I protected you from the flaws that make those obligations hard to bear; I made lying not so much something to hate as something unnecessary in your eyes; I taught you not so much to ensure others get their fair share, but to not worry too much about your own rights; I nurtured kindness in you instead of strict virtue. But a truly kind person remains kind only as long as it's comfortable; kindness breaks down when faced with strong emotions; a genuinely kind person is really just kind to themselves."

“What is meant by a virtuous man? He who can conquer his affections; for then he follows his reason, his conscience; he does his duty; he is his own master and nothing can turn him from the right way. So far you have had only the semblance of liberty, the precarious liberty of the slave who has not received his orders. Now is the time for real freedom; learn to be your own master; control your heart, my Emile, and you will be virtuous.

“What does it mean to be a virtuous man? It’s someone who can master his emotions; because then he listens to his reason and conscience; he fulfills his responsibilities; he is in control of himself, and nothing can sway him from the right path. Up until now, you’ve only experienced a false sense of freedom, like a slave who hasn't received his orders. Now is the moment for true freedom; learn to be your own master; manage your heart, my Emile, and you will be virtuous."

“There is another apprenticeship before you, an apprenticeship more difficult than the former; for nature delivers us from the evils she lays upon us, or else she teaches us to submit to them; but she has no message for us with regard to our self-imposed evils; she leaves us to ourselves; she leaves us, victims of our own passions, to succumb to our vain sorrows, to pride ourselves on the tears of which we should be ashamed.

“There is another apprenticeship ahead of you, a tougher one than the last; because nature frees us from the troubles she brings us, or teaches us to accept them; but she has nothing to say about the troubles we create for ourselves; she leaves us to figure it out on our own; she leaves us, victims of our own desires, to give in to our pointless sorrows, to take pride in the tears we should be embarrassed about."

“This is your first passion. Perhaps it is the only passion worthy of you. If you can control it like a man, it will be the last; you will be master of all the rest, and you will obey nothing but the passion for virtue.

“This is your first passion. Maybe it’s the only passion that truly matters to you. If you can manage it like a man, it will be the last; you’ll be in control of everything else, and you will follow nothing but the passion for doing what’s right."

“There is nothing criminal in this passion; I know it; it is as pure as the hearts which experience it. It was born of honour and nursed by innocence. Happy lovers! for you the charms of virtue do but add to those of love; and the blessed union to which you are looking forward is less the reward of your goodness than of your affection. But tell me, O truthful man, though this passion is pure, is it any the less your master? Are you the less its slave? And if to-morrow it should cease to be innocent, would you strangle it on the spot? Now is the time to try your strength; there is no time for that in hours of danger. These perilous efforts should be made when danger is still afar. We do not practise the use of our weapons when we are face to face with the enemy, we do that before the war; we come to the battle-field ready prepared.

"There’s nothing wrong with this passion; I know it; it’s as pure as the hearts that feel it. It was born from honor and nurtured by innocence. Happy lovers! For you, the beauty of virtue only enhances the beauty of love, and the blessed union you’re looking forward to is more a reward of your affection than your goodness. But tell me, O truthful man, even though this passion is pure, is it still not in control of you? Are you any less its servant? And if tomorrow it stopped being innocent, would you end it right away? Now is the time to test your strength; there’s no time for that in moments of danger. These risky efforts should be made while danger is still far away. We don’t practice our skills when we’re face to face with the enemy; we do that before the battle; we come to the battlefield prepared."

“It is a mistake to classify the passions as lawful and unlawful, so as to yield to the one and refuse the other. All alike are good if we are their masters; all alike are bad if we abandon ourselves to them. Nature forbids us to extend our relations beyond the limits of our strength; reason forbids us to want what we cannot get, conscience forbids us, not to be tempted, but to yield to temptation. To feel or not to feel a passion is beyond our control, but we can control ourselves. Every sentiment under our own control is lawful; those which control us are criminal. A man is not guilty if he loves his neighbour’s wife, provided he keeps this unhappy passion under the control of the law of duty; he is guilty if he loves his own wife so greatly as to sacrifice everything to that love.

“It’s a mistake to label passions as right or wrong, and to give in to some while rejecting others. They’re all good if we’re in charge of them; they’re all bad if we let them control us. Nature tells us not to stretch our relationships beyond what we can handle; reason tells us not to desire what we can't have, and conscience advises us not to give in to temptation, even though we might be tempted. Feeling a passion is something we can’t control, but we can control our actions. Any sentiment we can manage is acceptable; those that take control of us are wrong. A man isn’t at fault for loving his neighbor’s wife as long as he keeps that unfortunate feeling in check with his sense of duty; he is at fault if he loves his own wife so much that he sacrifices everything for that love.”

“Do not expect me to supply you with lengthy precepts of morality, I have only one rule to give you which sums up all the rest. Be a man; restrain your heart within the limits of your manhood. Study and know these limits; however narrow they may be, we are not unhappy within them; it is only when we wish to go beyond them that we are unhappy, only when, in our mad passions, we try to attain the impossible; we are unhappy when we forget our manhood to make an imaginary world for ourselves, from which we are always slipping back into our own. The only good things, whose loss really affects us, are those which we claim as our rights. If it is clear that we cannot obtain what we want, our mind turns away from it; wishes without hope cease to torture us. A beggar is not tormented by a desire to be a king; a king only wishes to be a god when he thinks himself more than man.

“Don’t expect me to give you a lot of lengthy moral guidelines; I have just one rule that encompasses everything else. Be a man; keep your heart within the bounds of your manhood. Learn and understand these boundaries; no matter how narrow they may seem, we aren’t unhappy within them; it’s only when we try to go beyond them that we feel discontent, only when, in our wild desires, we seek what’s unattainable. We are unhappy when we abandon our manhood to create a fantasy world for ourselves, from which we always end up returning to reality. The only things that truly matter and their loss affects us are those we see as our rights. If it’s clear we can’t get what we want, our minds shift away from it; unfulfilled wishes no longer torment us. A beggar isn’t plagued by wanting to be a king; a king only longs to be a god when he believes he’s more than human.”

“The illusions of pride are the source of our greatest ills; but the contemplation of human suffering keeps the wise humble. He keeps to his proper place and makes no attempt to depart from it; he does not waste his strength in getting what he cannot keep; and his whole strength being devoted to the right employment of what he has, he is in reality richer and more powerful in proportion as he desires less than we. A man, subject to death and change, shall I forge for myself lasting chains upon this earth, where everything changes and disappears, whence I myself shall shortly vanish! Oh, Emile! my son! if I were to lose you, what would be left of myself? And yet I must learn to lose you, for who knows when you may be taken from me?

“The illusions of pride are the root of our biggest problems; but reflecting on human suffering keeps the wise grounded. He stays in his rightful place and doesn’t try to change it; he doesn’t waste his energy chasing things he can’t hold on to; and by focusing his energy on wisely using what he has, he becomes richer and more powerful as he desires less than we do. A man, who is subject to death and change, should I really create lasting chains for myself on this earth, where everything shifts and disappears, from which I too will soon vanish? Oh, Emile! my son! if I were to lose you, what would be left of me? And yet I must learn to let you go, for who knows when you might be taken from me?

“Would you live in wisdom and happiness, fix your heart on the beauty that is eternal; let your desires be limited by your position, let your duties take precedence of your wishes; extend the law of necessity into the region of morals; learn to lose what may be taken from you; learn to forsake all things at the command of virtue, to set yourself above the chances of life, to detach your heart before it is torn in pieces, to be brave in adversity so that you may never be wretched, to be steadfast in duty that you may never be guilty of a crime. Then you will be happy in spite of fortune, and good in spite of your passions. You will find a pleasure that cannot be destroyed, even in the possession of the most fragile things; you will possess them, they will not possess you, and you will realise that the man who loses everything, only enjoys what he knows how to resign. It is true you will not enjoy the illusions of imaginary pleasures, neither will you feel the sufferings which are their result. You will profit greatly by this exchange, for the sufferings are real and frequent, the pleasures are rare and empty. Victor over so many deceitful ideas, you will also vanquish the idea that attaches such an excessive value to life. You will spend your life in peace, and you will leave it without terror; you will detach yourself from life as from other things. Let others, horror-struck, believe that when this life is ended they cease to be; conscious of the nothingness of life, you will think that you are but entering upon the true life. To the wicked, death is the close of life; to the just it is its dawn.”

“Would you like to live wisely and happily? Focus your heart on the beauty that lasts forever. Limit your desires to fit your situation, and let your responsibilities come before your wishes. Extend the concept of necessity into moral areas; learn to let go of what can be taken from you. Learn to give up everything when virtue demands it, to rise above life's unpredictability, to detach your heart before it gets shattered, to be courageous in tough times so you never feel miserable, and to remain committed to your duties so you never do something wrong. Then you'll find happiness despite your circumstances, and goodness despite your desires. You'll discover a joy that can't be taken away, even in the most fragile things; you'll have them, but they won't have you, and you'll realize that someone who loses everything still enjoys what they can let go of. It's true you won't enjoy the illusions of fake pleasures, but you also won't feel the pain that comes from them. You'll gain a lot from this swap because real pain is common, while those pleasures are rare and hollow. By overcoming so many misleading thoughts, you'll also conquer the notion that places such excessive worth on life. You'll live peacefully and leave it without fear; you'll detach from life just like from other things. Let others, filled with dread, believe that ending this life means they cease to exist; aware of life's emptiness, you'll think you're just starting the true life. For the wicked, death marks the end of life; for the righteous, it's its beginning.”

Emile heard me with attention not unmixed with anxiety. After such a startling preface he feared some gloomy conclusion. He foresaw that when I showed him how necessary it is to practise the strength of the soul, I desired to subject him to this stern discipline; he was like a wounded man who shrinks from the surgeon, and fancies he already feels the painful but healing touch which will cure the deadly wound.

Emile listened to me carefully, but there was a mix of anxiety in his attention. After such a shocking introduction, he was worried about a depressing conclusion. He anticipated that when I explained how important it is to strengthen the soul, he would see that I wanted to put him through this tough training; he was like a hurt person who flinches away from the doctor, imagining he can already feel the painful yet healing touch that will fix his serious injury.

Uncertain, anxious, eager to know what I am driving at, he does not answer, he questions me but timidly. “What must I do?” says he almost trembling, not daring to raise his eyes. “What must you do?” I reply firmly. “You must leave Sophy.” “What are you saying?” he exclaimed angrily. “Leave Sophy, leave Sophy, deceive her, become a traitor, a villain, a perjurer!” “Why!” I continue, interrupting him; “does Emile suppose I shall teach him to deserve such titles?” “No,” he continued with the same vigour. “Neither you nor any one else; I am capable of preserving your work; I shall not deserve such reproaches.”

Uncertain, anxious, and eager to know what I’m getting at, he doesn’t answer; he questions me but hesitantly. “What should I do?” he asks, almost trembling and not daring to look up. “What should you do?” I respond firmly. “You need to leave Sophy.” “What are you talking about?” he exclaimed angrily. “Leave Sophy, leave Sophy, betray her, become a traitor, a villain, a liar!” “Why!” I continue, cutting him off; “does Emile think I’m going to teach him to earn those titles?” “No,” he insisted with the same intensity. “Not you or anyone else; I’m capable of preserving your work; I won’t deserve those criticisms.”

I was prepared for this first outburst; I let it pass unheeded. If I had not the moderation I preach it would not be much use preaching it! Emile knows me too well to believe me capable of demanding any wrong action from him, and he knows that it would be wrong to leave Sophy, in the sense he attaches to the phrase. So he waits for an explanation. Then I resume my speech.

I was ready for this initial outburst; I ignored it. If I didn't practice the self-control I talk about, it wouldn’t make much sense to preach it! Emile knows me too well to think I would ever ask him to do something wrong, and he understands that leaving Sophy, in the way he sees it, would be wrong. So, he waits for an explanation. Then I continue with my speech.

“My dear Emile, do you think any man whatsoever can be happier than you have been for the last three months? If you think so, undeceive yourself. Before tasting the pleasures of life you have plumbed the depths of its happiness. There is nothing more than you have already experienced. The joys of sense are soon over; habit invariably destroys them. You have tasted greater joys through hope than you will ever enjoy in reality. The imagination which adorns what we long for, deserts its possession. With the exception of the one self-existing Being, there is nothing beautiful except that which is not. If that state could have lasted for ever, you would have found perfect happiness. But all that is related to man shares his decline; all is finite, all is fleeting in human life, and even if the conditions which make us happy could be prolonged for ever, habit would deprive us of all taste for that happiness. If external circumstances remain unchanged, the heart changes; either happiness forsakes us, or we forsake her.

“My dear Emile, do you really think anyone can be happier than you have been for the last three months? If you do, think again. Before you experienced life’s pleasures, you had already discovered its depths of happiness. There’s nothing more than what you’ve already felt. The joy of the senses is short-lived; over time, familiarity ruins it. You’ve felt greater joy in hope than you’ll ever find in reality. The imagination that enhances what we desire often abandons us once we possess it. Aside from the one eternal Being, nothing is beautiful except what doesn’t exist. If that state could last forever, you would have found perfect happiness. But everything related to humanity shares in its decline; everything is finite and fleeting in our lives, and even if the situations that make us happy could last indefinitely, familiarity would drain all the joy from that happiness. If our circumstances stay the same, our hearts change; either happiness leaves us, or we leave her.”

“During your infatuation time has passed unheeded. Summer is over, winter is at hand. Even if our expeditions were possible, at such a time of year they would not be permitted. Whether we wish it or no, we shall have to change our way of life; it cannot continue. I read in your eager eyes that this does not disturb you greatly; Sophy’s confession and your own wishes suggest a simple plan for avoiding the snow and escaping the journey. The plan has its advantages, no doubt; but when spring returns, the snow will melt and the marriage will remain; you must reckon for all seasons.

“During your crush, time went by without you noticing. Summer is over, and winter is coming. Even if we could go on our adventures, this time of year wouldn’t allow it. Whether we like it or not, we’ll have to change how we live; it can't go on like this. I can see in your excited eyes that this doesn’t bother you much; Sophy’s confession and your own desires suggest a straightforward plan to avoid the snow and skip the trip. That plan definitely has its perks; but when spring comes back, the snow will melt, and the marriage will still be there; you have to think about all seasons.”

“You wish to marry Sophy and you have only known her five months! You wish to marry her, not because she is a fit wife for you, but because she pleases you; as if love were never mistaken as to fitness, as if those, who begin with love, never ended with hatred! I know she is virtuous; but is that enough? Is fitness merely a matter of honour? It is not her virtue I misdoubt, it is her disposition. Does a woman show her real character in a day? Do you know how often you must have seen her and under what varying conditions to really know her temper? Is four months of liking a sufficient pledge for the rest of your life? A couple of months hence you may have forgotten her; as soon as you are gone another may efface your image in her heart; on your return you may find her as indifferent as you have hitherto found her affectionate. Sentiments are not a matter of principle; she may be perfectly virtuous and yet cease to love you. I am inclined to think she will be faithful and true; but who will answer for her, and who will answer for you if you are not put to the proof? Will you postpone this trial till it is too late, will you wait to know your true selves till parting is no longer possible?

“You want to marry Sophy after only knowing her for five months! You want to marry her, not because she’s the right match for you, but because she appeals to you; as if love never leads to mistakes about compatibility, as if those who start with love never end up with hatred! I know she is virtuous, but is that enough? Is being a good match just about honor? It’s not her virtue I doubt; it’s her character. Can a woman show her true self in just one day? Do you know how many times you’ve seen her and in what different situations to really understand her temperament? Is four months of affection a solid promise for the rest of your life? A couple of months from now, you might have forgotten her; as soon as you leave, someone else might take your place in her heart; when you come back, you might find her as indifferent as she was once affectionate. Feelings aren’t always principled; she may be fully virtuous and yet stop loving you. I think she’ll be loyal, but who can guarantee that, and who can guarantee your loyalty if you’re never tested? Will you wait until it’s too late to discover your true selves when parting is no longer an option?"

“Sophy is not eighteen, and you are barely twenty-two; this is the age for love, but not for marriage. What a father and mother for a family! If you want to know how to bring up children, you should at least wait till you yourselves are children no longer. Do you not know that too early motherhood has weakened the constitution, destroyed the health, and shortened the life of many young women? Do you not know that many children have always been weak and sickly because their mother was little more than a child herself? When mother and child are both growing, the strength required for their growth is divided, and neither gets all that nature intended; are not both sure to suffer? Either I know very little of Emile, or he would rather wait and have a healthy wife and children, than satisfy his impatience at the price of their life and health.

“Sophy isn’t even eighteen, and you’re just barely twenty-two; this is the age for love, not for marriage. What kind of parents would you be for a family? If you want to learn how to raise kids, you should at least wait until you’re not kids yourselves anymore. Don’t you realize that becoming a mother too young has weakened the bodies, destroyed the health, and shortened the lives of many young women? Don’t you know that many kids have been weak and sickly because their mothers were practically still children? When both mother and child are still growing, the strength needed for their development gets split between them, and neither receives all that nature intended; aren't they both bound to suffer? Either I don’t know much about Emile, or he’d prefer to wait and have a healthy wife and children rather than rush things at the cost of their well-being.”

“Let us speak of yourself. You hope to be a husband and a father; have you seriously considered your duties? When you become the head of a family you will become a citizen of your country. And what is a citizen of the state? What do you know about it? You have studied your duties as a man, but what do you know of the duties of a citizen? Do you know the meaning of such terms as government, laws, country? Do you know the price you must pay for life, and for what you must be prepared to die? You think you know everything, when you really know nothing at all. Before you take your place in the civil order, learn to perceive and know what is your proper place.

“Let’s talk about you. You want to be a husband and a father; have you really thought about your responsibilities? When you become the head of a family, you'll also become a citizen of your country. And what does it mean to be a citizen? What do you know about it? You've learned about your duties as a man, but what do you know about the duties of a citizen? Do you understand terms like government, laws, and country? Do you know what life costs, and what you must be willing to die for? You think you know everything when you really know very little. Before you take your place in society, learn to understand what your true role is."

“Emile, you must leave Sophy; I do not bid you forsake her; if you were capable of such conduct, she would be only too happy not to have married you; you must leave her in order to return worthy of her. Do not be vain enough to think yourself already worthy. How much remains to be done! Come and fulfil this splendid task; come and learn to submit to absence; come and earn the prize of fidelity, so that when you return you may indeed deserve some honour, and may ask her hand not as a favour but as a reward.”

“Emile, you need to leave Sophy; I’m not asking you to abandon her. If you could do that, she would be more than happy not to have married you. You must leave her in order to become someone worthy of her. Don’t be arrogant enough to think you’re already worthy. There's so much left to achieve! Come and take on this amazing challenge; come and learn to deal with being apart; come and earn the reward of loyalty, so that when you come back, you truly deserve some honor, and you can ask for her hand not as a favor but as a reward.”

Unaccustomed to struggle with himself, untrained to desire one thing and to will another, the young man will not give way; he resists, he argues. Why should he refuse the happiness which awaits him? Would he not despise the hand which is offered him if he hesitated to accept it? Why need he leave her to learn what he ought to know? And if it were necessary to leave her why not leave her as his wife with a certain pledge of his return? Let him be her husband, and he is ready to follow me; let them be married and he will leave her without fear. “Marry her in order to leave her, dear Emile! what a contradiction! A lover who can leave his mistress shows himself capable of great things; a husband should never leave his wife unless through necessity. To cure your scruples, I see the delay must be involuntary on your part; you must be able to tell Sophy you leave her against your will. Very well, be content, and since you will not follow the commands of reason, you must submit to another master. You have not forgotten your promise. Emile, you must leave Sophy; I will have it.”

Not used to struggling with himself, untrained to want one thing while wishing for another, the young man refuses to give in; he resists and argues. Why should he turn down the happiness that’s waiting for him? Wouldn't he look down on the hand that's offered to him if he hesitated to take it? Why does he need to leave her to learn what he should know? And if he must leave her, why not leave her as his wife with a definite promise of his return? Let him be her husband, and he’s ready to follow me; if they’re married, he can leave her without worry. “Marry her in order to leave her, dear Emile! What a contradiction! A lover who can walk away from his mistress shows that he is capable of great things; a husband should never leave his wife unless absolutely necessary. To ease your concerns, I think the delay must be out of your hands; you need to be able to tell Sophy you’re leaving against your will. Very well, be satisfied, and since you won’t obey reason, you’ll have to submit to another authority. You haven't forgotten your promise. Emile, you must leave Sophy; I will make sure of it.”

For a moment or two he was downcast, silent, and thoughtful, then looking me full in the face he said, “When do we start?” “In a week’s time,” I replied; “Sophy must be prepared for our going. Women are weaker than we are, and we must show consideration for them; and this parting is not a duty for her as it is for you, so she may be allowed to bear it less bravely.”

For a moment, he seemed discouraged, quiet, and deep in thought. Then, looking me straight in the eye, he asked, “When do we start?” “In a week,” I replied. “Sophy needs to be ready for us to leave. Women are more fragile than we are, and we need to be considerate of them. This goodbye isn't a duty for her like it is for you, so she should be allowed to handle it with a little less courage.”

The temptation to continue the daily history of their love up to the time of their separation is very great; but I have already presumed too much upon the good nature of my readers; let us abridge the story so as to bring it to an end. Will Emile face the situation as bravely at his mistress’ feet as he has done in conversation with his friend? I think he will; his confidence is rooted in the sincerity of his love. He would be more at a loss with her, if it cost him less to leave her; he would leave her feeling himself to blame, and that is a difficult part for a man of honour to play; but the greater the sacrifice, the more credit he demands for it in the sight of her who makes it so difficult. He has no fear that she will misunderstand his motives. Every look seems to say, “Oh, Sophy, read my heart and be faithful to me; your lover is not without virtue.”

The temptation to keep telling the story of their love until their separation is really strong, but I’ve already asked a lot from my readers; let’s shorten the story to bring it to a close. Will Emile handle the situation as bravely at his mistress' feet as he has in conversations with his friend? I believe he will; his confidence comes from the sincerity of his love. He would feel more lost with her if it didn’t cost him so much to leave; he would leave feeling guilty, and that’s a tough role for an honorable man to play. But the greater the sacrifice, the more recognition he hopes to gain from the one who makes it so hard. He doesn’t worry that she will misinterpret his intentions. Every look seems to say, “Oh, Sophy, understand my heart and stay faithful to me; your lover is not without virtue.”

Sophy tries to bear the unforeseen blow with her usual pride and dignity. She tries to seem as if she did not care, but as the honours of war are not hers, but Emile’s, her strength is less equal to the task. She weeps, she sighs against her will, and the fear of being forgotten embitters the pain of parting. She does not weep in her lover’s sight, she does not let him see her terror; she would die rather than utter a sigh in his presence. I am the recipient of her lamentations, I behold her tears, it is I who am supposed to be her confidant. Women are very clever and know how to conceal their cleverness; the more she frets in private, the more pains she takes to please me; she feels that her fate is in my hands.

Sophy tries to handle the unexpected blow with her usual pride and dignity. She attempts to act as if she doesn't care, but since the honors of war belong to Emile, not her, she's less able to manage it. She cries and sighs against her will, and the fear of being forgotten makes parting even more painful. She doesn’t cry in front of her lover; she won’t let him see her fear; she'd rather die than let out a sigh when he’s around. I am the one who receives her tears; I see her sadness; I’m supposed to be her confidant. Women are very clever and know how to hide their cleverness; the more she struggles in private, the more she tries to make me happy; she understands that her fate is in my hands.

I console and comfort her; I make myself answerable for her lover, or rather for her husband; let her be as true to him as he to her and I promise they shall be married in two years’ time. She respects me enough to believe that I do not want to deceive her. I am guarantor to each for the other. Their hearts, their virtue, my honesty, the confidence of their parents, all combine to reassure them. But what can reason avail against weakness? They part as if they were never to meet again.

I comfort her and take responsibility for her boyfriend, or really her husband; I promise her that if she is as loyal to him as he is to her, they will get married in two years. She trusts me enough to believe that I won’t lead her astray. I stand as a guarantor for both of them. Their feelings, their integrity, my honesty, and their parents' trust all help to reassure them. But what good is reason when faced with weakness? They say goodbye as if they'll never see each other again.

Then it is that Sophy recalls the regrets of Eucharis, and fancies herself in her place. Do not let us revive that fantastic affection during his absence “Sophy,” say I one day, “exchange books with Emile; let him have your Telemachus that he may learn to be like him, and let him give you his Spectator which you enjoy reading. Study the duties of good wives in it, and remember that in two years’ time you will undertake those duties.” The exchange gave pleasure to both and inspired them with confidence. At last the sad day arrived and they must part.

Then Sophy remembers the regrets of Eucharis and imagines herself in her position. “Let’s not bring up that fanciful affection while he’s away,” I say one day. “Sophy, why don't you swap books with Emile? Give him your Telemachus so he can learn to be like him, and he’ll give you his Spectator that you enjoy reading. Study the responsibilities of being a good wife in it, and keep in mind that in two years you’ll take on those responsibilities.” The exchange pleased both of them and filled them with confidence. Finally, the sad day came, and they had to say goodbye.

Sophy’s worthy father, with whom I had arranged the whole business, took affectionate leave of me, and taking me aside, he spoke seriously and somewhat emphatically, saying, “I have done everything to please you; I knew I had to do with a man of honour; I have only one word to say. Remembering your pupil has signed his contract of marriage on my daughter’s lips.”

Sophy’s respected father, with whom I had set up the entire arrangement, said a warm goodbye to me. Pulling me aside, he spoke earnestly and with some emphasis, saying, “I’ve done everything to make you happy; I knew I was dealing with an honorable man; I have just one thing to say. Keep in mind that your student has sealed his commitment to marriage with my daughter’s kiss.”

What a difference in the behaviour of the two lovers! Emile, impetuous, eager, excited, almost beside himself, cries aloud and sheds torrents of tears upon the hands of father, mother, and daughter; with sobs he embraces every one in the house and repeats the same thing over and over again in a way that would be ludicrous at any other time. Sophy, pale, sorrowful, doleful, and heavy-eyed, remains quiet without a word or a tear, she sees no one, not even Emile. In vain he takes her hand, and clasps her in his arms; she remains motionless, unheeding his tears, his caresses, and everything he does; so far as she is concerned, he is gone already. A sight more moving than the prolonged lamentations and noisy regrets of her lover! He sees, he feels, he is heartbroken. I drag him reluctantly away; if I left him another minute, he would never go. I am delighted that he should carry this touching picture with him. If he should ever be tempted to forget what is due to Sophy, his heart must have strayed very far indeed if I cannot bring it back to her by recalling her as he saw her last.

What a contrast in the behavior of the two lovers! Emile, impulsive, eager, and excited, is almost beside himself, crying out and shedding torrents of tears onto the hands of his father, mother, and daughter; he sobs as he embraces everyone in the house, repeating the same thing over and over in a way that would be funny at any other time. Sophy, pale, sorrowful, and heavy-eyed, stays quiet without a word or a tear, not looking at anyone, not even Emile. He takes her hand and holds her in his arms in vain; she remains motionless, ignoring his tears, his affection, and everything he does; as far as she’s concerned, he’s already gone. A scene more poignant than the prolonged laments and loud regrets of her lover! He sees it, he feels it, he’s heartbroken. I pull him away reluctantly; if I left him for another minute, he would never leave. I’m glad that he will carry this touching image with him. If he ever feels tempted to forget what he owes to Sophy, his heart must have strayed very far indeed if I can’t bring it back to her by recalling how he saw her last.

OF TRAVEL

Is it good for young people to travel? The question is often asked and as often hotly disputed. If it were stated otherwise—Are men the better for having travelled?—perhaps there would be less difference of opinion.

Is it good for young people to travel? This question comes up frequently and is often hotly debated. If it were phrased differently—Are people better off for having traveled?—maybe there would be less disagreement.

The misuse of books is the death of sound learning. People think they know what they have read, and take no pains to learn. Too much reading only produces a pretentious ignoramus. There was never so much reading in any age as the present, and never was there less learning; in no country of Europe are so many histories and books of travel printed as in France, and nowhere is there less knowledge of the mind and manners of other nations. So many books lead us to neglect the book of the world; if we read it at all, we keep each to our own page. If the phrase, “Can one become a Persian,” were unknown to me, I should suspect on hearing it that it came from the country where national prejudice is most prevalent and from the sex which does most to increase it.

The misuse of books kills genuine learning. People believe they understand what they’ve read and don’t put in the effort to learn. Excessive reading only creates a pretentious know-it-all. There has never been as much reading as there is today, and never has there been less actual learning; in no country in Europe are more histories and travel books published than in France, and nowhere is there less understanding of other nations' cultures and customs. So many books cause us to overlook the book of the world; if we read it at all, we stick to our own perspective. If I didn’t know the phrase “Can one become a Persian,” I would guess upon hearing it that it came from a place where national bias is strongest and from the gender that contributes the most to it.

A Parisian thinks he has a knowledge of men and he knows only Frenchmen; his town is always full of foreigners, but he considers every foreigner as a strange phenomenon which has no equal in the universe. You must have a close acquaintance with the middle classes of that great city, you must have lived among them, before you can believe that people could be at once so witty and so stupid. The strangest thing about it is that probably every one of them has read a dozen times a description of the country whose inhabitants inspire him with such wonder.

A Parisian thinks he understands people, but he only knows French people; his city is always filled with foreigners, but he sees each one as a strange phenomenon like no other in the world. You have to really know the middle class in that huge city, you have to have lived among them, before you can believe that people can be both so clever and so foolish at the same time. The weirdest part is that probably each one of them has read a description of the country whose people fill them with such awe at least a dozen times.

To discover the truth amidst our own prejudices and those of the authors is too hard a task. I have been reading books of travels all my life, but I never found two that gave me the same idea of the same nation. On comparing my own scanty observations with what I have read, I have decided to abandon the travellers and I regret the time wasted in trying to learn from their books; for I am quite convinced that for that sort of study, seeing not reading is required. That would be true enough if every traveller were honest, if he only said what he saw and believed, and if truth were not tinged with false colours from his own eyes. What must it be when we have to disentangle the truth from the web of lies and ill-faith?

Discovering the truth amid our own biases and those of the authors is a tough challenge. I've been reading travel books my entire life, but I've never come across two that presented the same perspective on the same country. After comparing my limited observations with what I've read, I've decided to give up on travelers' accounts, and I regret the time spent trying to learn from their books. I'm convinced that to truly understand a place, you have to see it for yourself, not just read about it. This would be accurate if every traveler were honest, if they only shared what they saw and believed, and if truth weren’t colored by their own perceptions. What happens when we have to untangle the truth from a web of lies and bad faith?

Let us leave the boasted resources of books to those who are content to use them. Like the art of Raymond Lully they are able to set people chattering about things they do not know. They are able to set fifteen-year-old Platos discussing philosophy in the clubs, and teaching people the customs of Egypt and the Indies on the word of Paul Lucas or Tavernier.

Let's leave the bragged-about resources of books to those who are happy to use them. Like the art of Raymond Lully, they can get people talking about things they don't understand. They can have fifteen-year-old Platos debating philosophy in clubs and teaching others about the customs of Egypt and the Indies based on the words of Paul Lucas or Tavernier.

I maintain that it is beyond dispute that any one who has only seen one nation does not know men; he only knows those men among whom he has lived. Hence there is another way of stating the question about travel: “Is it enough for a well-educated man to know his fellow-countrymen, or ought he to know mankind in general?” Then there is no place for argument or uncertainty. See how greatly the solution of a difficult problem may depend on the way in which it is stated.

I believe it’s clear that anyone who has only seen one country doesn’t truly understand people; they only know the individuals they’ve lived around. So, we can rephrase the travel question: “Is it enough for a well-educated person to know their fellow countrymen, or should they understand humanity as a whole?” There’s no room for debate or doubt in that. Notice how much the way a complex problem is phrased can impact its solution.

But is it necessary to travel the whole globe to study mankind? Need we go to Japan to study Europeans? Need we know every individual before we know the species? No, there are men so much alike that it is not worth while to study them individually. When you have seen a dozen Frenchmen you have seen them all. Though one cannot say as much of the English and other nations, it is, however, certain that every nation has its own specific character, which is derived by induction from the study, not of one, but many of its members. He who has compared a dozen nations knows men, just he who has compared a dozen Frenchmen knows the French.

But is it really necessary to travel the entire world to understand humanity? Do we need to go to Japan to learn about Europeans? Do we have to know every single person before we get to know the overall group? No, there are people so similar that it isn’t worth studying them individually. After you’ve met a dozen French people, you’ve essentially met them all. While that isn't quite true for the English and other nations, it is definitely true that each nation has its own unique character, which we can understand by studying not just one, but many of its members. Someone who has compared a dozen nations understands people, just as someone who has compared a dozen French people understands the French.

To acquire knowledge it is not enough to travel hastily through a country. Observation demands eyes, and the power of directing them towards the object we desire to know. There are plenty of people who learn no more from their travels than from their books, because they do not know how to think; because in reading their mind is at least under the guidance of the author, and in their travels they do not know how to see for themselves. Others learn nothing, because they have no desire to learn. Their object is so entirely different, that this never occurs to them; it is very unlikely that you will see clearly what you take no trouble to look for. The French travel more than any other nation, but they are so taken up with their own customs, that everything else is confused together. There are Frenchmen in every corner of the globe. In no country of the world do you find more people who have travelled than in France. And yet of all the nations of Europe, that which has seen most, knows least. The English are also travellers, but they travel in another fashion; these two nations must always be at opposite extremes. The English nobility travels, the French stays at home; the French people travel, the English stay at home. This difference does credit, I think, to the English. The French almost always travel for their own ends; the English do not seek their fortune in other lands, unless in the way of commerce and with their hands full; when they travel it is to spend their money, not to live by their wits; they are too proud to cringe before strangers. This is why they learn more abroad than the French who have other fish to fry. Yet the English have their national prejudices; but these prejudices are not so much the result of ignorance as of feeling. The Englishman’s prejudices are the result of pride, the Frenchman’s are due to vanity.

To gain knowledge, it’s not enough to rush through a country. True observation needs attention and the ability to focus on what we want to understand. Many people learn no more from their travels than from their books because they don’t know how to think independently; when reading, their minds are guided by the author, but in their travels, they fail to see for themselves. Others learn nothing because they lack the desire to learn. Their goals are so completely different that this doesn’t even occur to them; it’s highly unlikely you’ll notice clearly what you don’t bother to look for. The French travel more than any other nation, but they are so focused on their own customs that everything else gets jumbled together. French people are found in every corner of the world. No other country has more travelers than France. Yet, among all the nations in Europe, the one that has seen the most knows the least. The English also travel, but they do it differently; these two nations are always at opposite ends. The English nobility travels while the French stay home; the French people travel while the English stay home. This difference, I believe, reflects positively on the English. The French usually travel for their own purposes; the English don’t look for fortune in other lands unless it’s related to commerce and they are well-prepared; when they travel, it’s to spend their money, not to rely on their wits; they are too proud to bow to strangers. Because of this, they learn more abroad than the French, who have other priorities. However, the English do carry their national prejudices, but these are less about ignorance and more about feelings. An Englishman’s prejudices stem from pride, while a Frenchman’s arise from vanity.

Just as the least cultivated nations are usually the best, so those travel best who travel least; they have made less progress than we in our frivolous pursuits, they are less concerned with the objects of our empty curiosity, so that they give their attention to what is really useful. I hardly know any but the Spaniards who travel in this fashion. While the Frenchman is running after all the artists of the country, while the Englishman is getting a copy of some antique, while the German is taking his album to every man of science, the Spaniard is silently studying the government, the manners of the country, its police, and he is the only one of the four who from all that he has seen will carry home any observation useful to his own country.

Just as the least developed nations often have the most to offer, those who travel the least tend to gain the most from their experiences. They haven't spent as much time as we have on our trivial pursuits and are less fixated on our superficial curiosities, so they focus on what is truly beneficial. I can hardly think of anyone except the Spaniards who travel this way. While the Frenchman chases after every artist in the country, while the Englishman searches for a replica of some ancient artifact, and while the German takes his album to every scientist, the Spaniard quietly observes the government, the local customs, and the police. He's the only one of the four who, from everything he has seen, will bring back valuable insights for his own country.

The ancients travelled little, read little, and wrote few books; yet we see in those books that remain to us, that they observed each other more thoroughly than we observe our contemporaries. Without going back to the days of Homer, the only poet who transports us to the country he describes, we cannot deny to Herodotus the glory of having painted manners in his history, though he does it rather by narrative than by comment; still he does it better than all our historians whose books are overladen with portraits and characters. Tacitus has described the Germans of his time better than any author has described the Germans of to-day. There can be no doubt that those who have devoted themselves to ancient history know more about the Greeks, Carthaginians, Romans, Gauls, and Persians than any nation of to-day knows about its neighbours.

The ancients traveled less, read less, and wrote fewer books; yet in the books that have survived, we see that they understood each other more deeply than we understand our contemporaries. Without going back to the time of Homer, the only poet who really brings us into the land he describes, we can't deny Herodotus the credit for capturing the customs of his time in his history, even though he does it more through storytelling than analysis; he still does it better than all our historians whose works are filled with portraits and characters. Tacitus has depicted the Germans of his era more effectively than any author has described the Germans of today. There’s no doubt that those who study ancient history know more about the Greeks, Carthaginians, Romans, Gauls, and Persians than any modern nation knows about its neighbors.

It must also be admitted that the original characteristics of different nations are changing day by day, and are therefore more difficult to grasp. As races blend and nations intermingle, those national differences which formerly struck the observer at first sight gradually disappear. Before our time every nation remained more or less cut off from the rest; the means of communication were fewer; there was less travelling, less of mutual or conflicting interests, less political and civil intercourse between nation and nation; those intricate schemes of royalty, miscalled diplomacy, were less frequent; there were no permanent ambassadors resident at foreign courts; long voyages were rare, there was little foreign trade, and what little there was, was either the work of princes, who employed foreigners, or of people of no account who had no influence on others and did nothing to bring the nations together. The relations between Europe and Asia in the present century are a hundredfold more numerous than those between Gaul and Spain in the past; Europe alone was less accessible than the whole world is now.

It must also be acknowledged that the unique traits of different nations are changing every day, making them harder to understand. As races mix and nations interact, the national differences that once stood out at first glance are slowly fading away. In the past, each nation was more or less isolated; there were fewer means of communication, less travel, fewer shared or conflicting interests, and less political and social interaction between nations. Those complicated royal schemes, wrongly labeled as diplomacy, were less common; there were no permanent ambassadors stationed at foreign courts; long journeys were rare, foreign trade was minimal, and what little existed was either handled by princes who employed foreigners or by insignificant individuals who had no influence and did nothing to unite the nations. The connections between Europe and Asia today are a hundred times more numerous than those between Gaul and Spain in the past; Europe alone was less accessible than the entire world is now.

Moreover, the peoples of antiquity usually considered themselves as the original inhabitants of their country; they had dwelt there so long that all record was lost of the far-off times when their ancestors settled there; they had been there so long that the place had made a lasting impression on them; but in modern Europe the invasions of the barbarians, following upon the Roman conquests, have caused an extraordinary confusion. The Frenchmen of to-day are no longer the big fair men of old; the Greeks are no longer beautiful enough to serve as a sculptor’s model; the very face of the Romans has changed as well as their character; the Persians, originally from Tartary, are daily losing their native ugliness through the intermixture of Circassian blood. Europeans are no longer Gauls, Germans, Iberians, Allobroges; they are all Scythians, more or less degenerate in countenance, and still more so in conduct.

Moreover, the people of ancient times usually saw themselves as the original inhabitants of their land; they had lived there for so long that all record was lost of the distant past when their ancestors settled there; they had been there so long that the place left a lasting mark on them; but in modern Europe, the invasions of the barbarians, following the Roman conquests, have created a chaotic situation. The French people today are no longer the tall, fair individuals of the past; the Greeks are no longer beautiful enough to be used as models for sculptures; the very faces of the Romans have changed along with their character; the Persians, originally from Tartary, are gradually losing their native features due to the mixing of Circassian blood. Europeans are no longer Gauls, Germans, Iberians, Allobroges; they are all Scythians, more or less degraded in appearance, and even more so in behavior.

This is why the ancient distinctions of race, the effect of soil and climate, made a greater difference between nation and nation in respect of temperament, looks, manners, and character than can be distinguished in our own time, when the fickleness of Europe leaves no time for natural causes to work, when the forests are cut down and the marshes drained, when the earth is more generally, though less thoroughly, tilled, so that the same differences between country and country can no longer be detected even in purely physical features.

This is why the old distinctions of race, influenced by soil and climate, created much bigger differences between nations in terms of temperament, appearance, behavior, and character than we see today, when Europe’s instability doesn’t allow for natural factors to play out. With forests cleared and wetlands drained, and the land being farmed more widely, though not as deeply, the same distinctions between countries can no longer be seen, even in their physical traits.

If they considered these facts perhaps people would not be in such a hurry to ridicule Herodotus, Ctesias, Pliny for having described the inhabitants of different countries each with its own peculiarities and with striking differences which we no longer see. To recognise such types of face we should need to see the men themselves; no change must have passed over them, if they are to remain the same. If we could behold all the people who have ever lived, who can doubt that we should find greater variations between one century and another, than are now found between nation and nation.

If people took these facts into account, they might not be so quick to mock Herodotus, Ctesias, and Pliny for describing the different peoples of various countries, each with their unique traits and striking differences that we no longer observe. To recognize such distinct facial types, we would need to see the individuals themselves; they must not have changed if they are to remain the same. If we could see all the people who have ever lived, who could doubt that we would find more variations between one century and another than we currently find between nations?

At the same time, while observation becomes more difficult, it is more carelessly and badly done; this is another reason for the small success of our researches into the natural history of the human race. The information acquired by travel depends upon the object of the journey. If this object is a system of philosophy, the traveller only sees what he desires to see; if it is self-interest, it engrosses the whole attention of those concerned. Commerce and the arts which blend and mingle the nations at the same time prevent them from studying each other. If they know how to make a profit out of their neighbours, what more do they need to know?

At the same time, as observation becomes harder, it’s done more carelessly and poorly; this is another reason for the limited success of our studies on human nature. The information gained from travel depends on the purpose of the journey. If that purpose is a philosophical outlook, the traveler only notices what they want to see; if it’s self-interest, it takes up all the attention of those involved. Trade and the arts that connect nations also prevent them from learning about each other. If they can profit from their neighbors, what else do they really need to know?

It is a good thing to know all the places where we might live, so as to choose those where we can live most comfortably. If every one lived by his own efforts, all he would need to know would be how much land would keep him in food. The savage, who has need of no one, and envies no one, neither knows nor seeks to know any other country but his own. If he requires more land for his subsistence he shuns inhabited places; he makes war upon the wild beasts and feeds on them. But for us, to whom civilised life has become a necessity, for us who must needs devour our fellow-creatures, self-interest prompts each one of us to frequent those districts where there are most people to be devoured. This is why we all flock to Rome, Paris, and London. Human flesh and blood are always cheapest in the capital cities. Thus we only know the great nations, which are just like one another.

It’s important to know all the places we might live so we can choose the ones where we can be most comfortable. If everyone lived solely off their own efforts, all they’d need to know is how much land they require for food. The wild person, who relies on no one and envies no one, knows nothing of other lands but their own. If they need more land to survive, they avoid populated areas; they hunt wild animals and eat them. But for us, who have made civilized life a necessity and must rely on others, our self-interest drives us to seek out places with the most people to consume. This is why we all gather in cities like Rome, Paris, and London. Human flesh and blood are always cheapest in capital cities. As a result, we only become familiar with the great nations, which are all quite similar to one another.

They say that men of learning travel to obtain information; not so, they travel like other people from interested motives. Philosophers like Plato and Pythagoras are no longer to be found, or if they are, it must be in far-off lands. Our men of learning only travel at the king’s command; they are sent out, their expenses are paid, they receive a salary for seeing such and such things, and the object of that journey is certainly not the study of any question of morals. Their whole time is required for the object of their journey, and they are too honest not to earn their pay. If in any country whatsoever there are people travelling at their own expense, you may be sure it is not to study men but to teach them. It is not knowledge they desire but ostentation. How should their travels teach them to shake off the yoke of prejudice? It is prejudice that sends them on their travels.

They say that educated people travel to gain knowledge; that's not true. They travel like everyone else, driven by self-interest. Thinkers like Plato and Pythagoras are no longer around, or if they exist, they’re in distant places. Nowadays, our scholars only travel when the king orders it; they go with their expenses covered and a salary for checking out specific things, and their journeys aren’t focused on studying moral questions. They spend all their time on the purpose of the trip and are too honest not to justify their pay. If there are people traveling at their own expense in any country, you can bet it’s not to learn about others but to show off. They’re not seeking knowledge but rather the chance to be seen. How could their travels help them break free from prejudice? It’s prejudice that motivates their journeys.

To travel to see foreign lands or to see foreign nations are two very different things. The former is the usual aim of the curious, the latter is merely subordinate to it. If you wish to travel as a philosopher you should reverse this order. The child observes things till he is old enough to study men. Man should begin by studying his fellows; he can study things later if time permits.

To travel to explore different countries and to meet different cultures are two completely different things. The first is the common goal of the curious, while the second is just a minor part of it. If you want to travel like a philosopher, you should switch this order. A child watches things until they’re old enough to learn about people. A person should start by learning about their fellow humans; they can learn about things later if there’s time.

It is therefore illogical to conclude that travel is useless because we travel ill. But granting the usefulness of travel, does it follow that it is good for all of us? Far from it; there are very few people who are really fit to travel; it is only good for those who are strong enough in themselves to listen to the voice of error without being deceived, strong enough to see the example of vice without being led away by it. Travelling accelerates the progress of nature, and completes the man for good or evil. When a man returns from travelling about the world, he is what he will be all his life; there are more who return bad than good, because there are more who start with an inclination towards evil. In the course of their travels, young people, ill-educated and ill-behaved, pick up all the vices of the nations among whom they have sojourned, and none of the virtues with which those vices are associated; but those who, happily for themselves, are well-born, those whose good disposition has been well cultivated, those who travel with a real desire to learn, all such return better and wiser than they went. Emile will travel in this fashion; in this fashion there travelled another young man, worthy of a nobler age; one whose worth was the admiration of Europe, one who died for his country in the flower of his manhood; he deserved to live, and his tomb, ennobled by his virtues only, received no honour till a stranger’s hand adorned it with flowers.

It doesn't make sense to say that travel is pointless just because we travel poorly. But even if we accept that travel has its benefits, does that mean it’s good for everyone? Not at all; very few people are truly prepared for travel. It’s only beneficial for those who are strong enough to recognize mistakes without being misled, and strong enough to observe bad behavior without being influenced by it. Travel speeds up personal growth and shapes a person for better or worse. When someone returns from exploring the world, they become who they will be for the rest of their life; more often than not, they come back worse than when they left because most people start off with a tendency toward wrongdoing. During their journeys, young people who are poorly educated and poorly behaved tend to adopt the vices of the cultures they encounter, without picking up the associated virtues. However, those who come from good backgrounds, whose positive traits have been nurtured, and who travel with a genuine desire to learn, return improved and wiser. Emile will travel in this way; in a similar manner, another young man, deserving of a greater age, traveled; one whose worth was celebrated across Europe, who died for his country in the prime of his life; he deserved to live, and his grave, honorably marked only by his virtues, received no recognition until a stranger laid flowers on it.

Everything that is done in reason should have its rules. Travel, undertaken as a part of education, should therefore have its rules. To travel for travelling’s sake is to wander, to be a vagabond; to travel to learn is still too vague; learning without some definite aim is worthless. I would give a young man a personal interest in learning, and that interest, well-chosen, will also decide the nature of the instruction. This is merely the continuation of the method I have hitherto practised.

Everything done with reason should have its guidelines. Travel, when part of education, should also have its rules. Traveling just for the sake of it is aimless, like being a drifter; traveling to learn is still too ambiguous; learning without a specific goal is pointless. I would give a young man a personal interest in learning, and that well-chosen interest will also determine the kind of teaching. This is simply a continuation of the method I've used so far.

Now after he has considered himself in his physical relations to other creatures, in his moral relations with other men, there remains to be considered his civil relations with his fellow-citizens. To do this he must first study the nature of government in general, then the different forms of government, and lastly the particular government under which he was born, to know if it suits him to live under it; for by a right which nothing can abrogate, every man, when he comes of age, becomes his own master, free to renounce the contract by which he forms part of the community, by leaving the country in which that contract holds good. It is only by sojourning in that country, after he has come to years of discretion, that he is supposed to have tacitly confirmed the pledge given by his ancestors. He acquires the right to renounce his country, just as he has the right to renounce all claim to his father’s lands; yet his place of birth was a gift of nature, and in renouncing it, he renounces what is his own. Strictly speaking, every man remains in the land of his birth at his own risk unless he voluntarily submits to its laws in order to acquire a right to their protection.

Now that he has thought about his physical connections to other creatures and his moral connections with other people, he needs to consider his civil connections with his fellow citizens. To do this, he must first understand the nature of government in general, then different types of government, and finally the specific government he was born under, to see if it's suitable for him to live under it. By a right that cannot be denied, every man, once he reaches adulthood, becomes his own master, free to reject the agreement that makes him part of the community by leaving the country where that agreement is valid. Only by staying in that country after he has reached maturity is he seen as having implicitly reaffirmed the promise made by his ancestors. He gains the right to leave his country, just as he has the right to give up any claim to his father's land; yet, his birthplace was a gift from nature, and by renouncing it, he turns his back on what is inherently his. Strictly speaking, every man remains in his birthplace at his own risk unless he willingly abides by its laws to earn the right to its protection.

For example, I should say to Emile, “Hitherto you have lived under my guidance, you were unable to rule yourself. But now you are approaching the age when the law, giving you the control over your property, makes you master of your person. You are about to find yourself alone in society, dependent on everything, even on your patrimony. You mean to marry; that is a praiseworthy intention, it is one of the duties of man; but before you marry you must know what sort of man you want to be, how you wish to spend your life, what steps you mean to take to secure a living for your family and for yourself; for although we should not make this our main business, it must be definitely considered. Do you wish to be dependent on men whom you despise? Do you wish to establish your fortune and determine your position by means of civil relations which will make you always dependent on the choice of others, which will compel you, if you would escape from knaves, to become a knave yourself?”

For example, I should say to Emile, “Up until now, you’ve lived under my guidance and weren’t able to take control of your own life. But now you’re reaching the age when the law grants you control over your property, making you responsible for yourself. You’re about to find yourself alone in society, relying on everything, even your inheritance. You plan to get married; that’s a commendable intention, as it’s one of the responsibilities of a man. But before you marry, you need to know what kind of man you want to be, how you wish to live your life, and what steps you intend to take to provide for yourself and your family. While we shouldn’t make this our main focus, it definitely needs to be considered. Do you want to depend on people you look down on? Do you want to build your fortune and shape your future through social connections that will always leave you at the mercy of others, forcing you, to avoid dishonest people, to become dishonest yourself?”

In the next place I would show him every possible way of using his money in trade, in the civil service, in finance, and I shall show him that in every one of these there are risks to be taken, every one of them places him in a precarious and dependent position, and compels him to adapt his morals, his sentiments, his conduct to the example and the prejudices of others.

Next, I would demonstrate to him every possible way to use his money— in business, in public service, and in finance. I’ll show him that each of these options comes with risks, putting him in a vulnerable and dependent position, and forcing him to align his morals, feelings, and behavior with the example and biases of those around him.

“There is yet another way of spending your time and money; you may join the army; that is to say, you may hire yourself out at very high wages to go and kill men who never did you any harm. This trade is held in great honour among men, and they cannot think too highly of those who are fit for nothing better. Moreover, this profession, far from making you independent of other resources, makes them all the more necessary; for it is a point of honour in this profession to ruin those who have adopted it. It is true they are not all ruined; it is even becoming fashionable to grow rich in this as in other professions; but if I told you how people manage to do it, I doubt whether you would desire to follow their example.

“There’s another way to spend your time and money; you could join the army. In other words, you could sell your services for very high pay to go and kill people who never did anything to you. This job is seen as very respectable among men, and they hold those who can do nothing else in high regard. Furthermore, this career, rather than making you independent, actually makes you more dependent on other resources; it’s a point of pride in this line of work to bring down those who take it up. It’s true that not everyone ends up ruined; it’s even becoming trendy to get rich in this field like in others; but if I told you how some manage to do it, I doubt you would want to follow their lead.”

“Moreover, you must know that, even in this trade, it is no longer a question of courage or valour, unless with regard to the ladies; on the contrary, the more cringing, mean, and degraded you are, the more honour you obtain; if you have decided to take your profession seriously, you will be despised, you will be hated, you will very possibly be driven out of the service, or at least you will fall a victim to favouritism and be supplanted by your comrades, because you have been doing your duty in the trenches, while they have been attending to their toilet.”

"Also, you should know that, even in this profession, it's no longer about bravery or strength, except when it comes to the women; instead, the more submissive, petty, and degraded you are, the more respect you gain. If you’ve chosen to take your job seriously, you will be looked down upon, hated, and you might very well be pushed out of the position, or at the very least, you’ll be a victim of favoritism and replaced by your peers, because you've been focused on your work in the trenches while they’ve been preening themselves."

We can hardly suppose that any of these occupations will be much to Emile’s taste. “Why,” he will exclaim, “have I forgotten the amusements of my childhood? Have I lost the use of my arms? Is my strength failing me? Do I not know how to work? What do I care about all your fine professions and all the silly prejudices of others? I know no other pride than to be kindly and just; no other happiness than to live in independence with her I love, gaining health and a good appetite by the day’s work. All these difficulties you speak of do not concern me. The only property I desire is a little farm in some quiet corner. I will devote all my efforts after wealth to making it pay, and I will live without a care. Give me Sophy and my land, and I shall be rich.”

We can hardly assume that any of these jobs will suit Emile. “Why,” he will shout, “have I forgotten the fun of my childhood? Have I lost the use of my arms? Is my strength giving out? Do I not know how to work? What do I care about your fancy jobs and all the ridiculous opinions of others? My only pride comes from being kind and fair; my only happiness is living freely with the person I love, gaining health and a good appetite from a hard day's work. All these challenges you talk about don’t matter to me. The only thing I want is a little farm in a peaceful spot. I’ll put all my efforts to making it profitable, and I’ll live without worries. Give me Sophy and my land, and I’ll be rich.”

“Yes, my dear friend, that is all a wise man requires, a wife and land of his own; but these treasures are scarcer than you think. The rarest you have found already; let us discuss the other.

“Yes, my dear friend, that’s all a wise man needs, a wife and land of his own; but these treasures are harder to find than you might think. The rarest one you’ve already found; let’s talk about the other.”

“A field of your own, dear Emile! Where will you find it, in what remote corner of the earth can you say, ‘Here am I master of myself and of this estate which belongs to me?’ We know where a man may grow rich; who knows where he can do without riches? Who knows where to live free and independent, without ill-treating others and without fear of being ill-treated himself! Do you think it is so easy to find a place where you can always live like an honest man? If there is any safe and lawful way of living without intrigues, without lawsuits, without dependence on others, it is, I admit, to live by the labour of our hands, by the cultivation of our own land; but where is the state in which a man can say, ‘The earth which I dig is my own?’ Before choosing this happy spot, be sure that you will find the peace you desire; beware lest an unjust government, a persecuting religion, and evil habits should disturb you in your home. Secure yourself against the excessive taxes which devour the fruits of your labours, and the endless lawsuits which consume your capital. Take care that you can live rightly without having to pay court to intendents, to their deputies, to judges, to priests, to powerful neighbours, and to knaves of every kind, who are always ready to annoy you if you neglect them. Above all, secure yourself from annoyance on the part of the rich and great; remember that their estates may anywhere adjoin your Naboth’s vineyard. If unluckily for you some great man buys or builds a house near your cottage, make sure that he will not find a way, under some pretence or other, to encroach on your lands to round off his estate, or that you do not find him at once absorbing all your resources to make a wide highroad. If you keep sufficient credit to ward off all these disagreeables, you might as well keep your money, for it will cost you no more to keep it. Riches and credit lean upon each other, the one can hardly stand without the other.

“A place of your own, dear Emile! Where will you find it? In what far corner of the earth can you say, ‘Here I am the master of myself and this property belongs to me?’ We know how someone can get wealthy; who knows where one can live without wealth? Who knows where to live freely and independently, without mistreating others and without the fear of being mistreated themselves? Do you think it’s so easy to find a spot where you can always live like an honest person? If there’s any safe and legitimate way to live without scheming, without lawsuits, and without relying on others, it’s, I admit, to earn a living through our own labor, by tending to our own land; but where is the place where a person can say, ‘The land I till is my own?’ Before you choose this ideal location, make sure you’ll find the peace you seek; beware of an unjust government, a repressive religion, and bad habits that might disrupt your home. Protect yourself from excessive taxes that eat away at your earnings and the endless lawsuits that drain your resources. Ensure you can live rightly without having to curry favor with officials, their assistants, judges, priests, powerful neighbors, and all sorts of dishonest people who are always ready to bother you if you ignore them. Above all, protect yourself from trouble caused by the rich and powerful; remember that their properties may neighbor your Naboth’s vineyard. If, unfortunately for you, some wealthy person buys or builds a house near your cottage, make sure they won’t find a way, under some pretense, to encroach on your land to expand their estate, or that you won’t see them quickly consuming all your resources to create a wide highway. If you maintain enough credit to fend off these annoyances, you might as well keep your money, because it won’t cost you more to keep it. Wealth and credit rely on each other; one can hardly stand without the other.”

“I have more experience than you, dear Emile; I see more clearly the difficulties in the way of your scheme. Yet it is a fine scheme and honourable; it would make you happy indeed. Let us try to carry it out. I have a suggestion to make; let us devote the two years from now till the time of your return to choosing a place in Europe where you could live happily with your family, secure from all the dangers I have just described. If we succeed, you will have discovered that true happiness, so often sought for in vain; and you will not have to regret the time spent in its search. If we fail, you will be cured of a mistaken idea; you will console yourself for an inevitable ill, and you will bow to the law of necessity.”

“I have more experience than you, dear Emile; I clearly see the difficulties in the way of your plan. However, it’s a great plan and honorable; it would truly make you happy. Let’s try to make it happen. I have a suggestion: let’s spend the next two years, until your return, finding a place in Europe where you could live happily with your family, safe from all the dangers I've just mentioned. If we succeed, you’ll find that true happiness, which is often sought in vain; and you won’t regret the time spent looking for it. If we fail, you’ll be freed from a mistaken idea; you’ll find comfort in an unavoidable issue, and you’ll accept the law of necessity.”

I do not know whether all my readers will see whither this suggested inquiry will lead us; but this I do know, if Emile returns from his travels, begun and continued with this end in view, without a full knowledge of questions of government, public morality, and political philosophy of every kind, we are greatly lacking, he in intelligence and I in judgment.

I’m not sure if all my readers will understand where this inquiry will take us; but I do know that if Emile comes back from his travels, which he started and continued for this purpose, without a solid understanding of government issues, public ethics, and political philosophy in all its forms, then we’re both missing something—him in understanding and me in judgment.

The science of politics is and probably always will be unknown. Grotius, our leader in this branch of learning, is only a child, and what is worse an untruthful child. When I hear Grotius praised to the skies and Hobbes overwhelmed with abuse, I perceive how little sensible men have read or understood these authors. As a matter of fact, their principles are exactly alike, they only differ in their mode of expression. Their methods are also different: Hobbes relies on sophism; Grotius relies on the poets; they are agreed in everything else. In modern times the only man who could have created this vast and useless science was the illustrious Montesquieu. But he was not concerned with the principles of political law; he was content to deal with the positive laws of settled governments; and nothing could be more different than these two branches of study.

The study of politics is, and likely always will be, uncertain. Grotius, our figurehead in this field, is merely a child, and worse yet, an untruthful one. When I hear people excessively praise Grotius and unfairly criticize Hobbes, I realize how little thoughtful individuals have actually read or grasped these authors. In reality, their ideas are quite similar; they only differ in how they express them. Their approaches are also distinct: Hobbes leans on reasoning tricks, while Grotius draws from poetry; otherwise, they agree on everything else. In modern times, the only person who could have shaped this vast and unproductive science was the renowned Montesquieu. However, he wasn’t focused on the principles of political law; he chose to address the established laws of existing governments, and nothing could be further apart than these two areas of study.

Yet he who would judge wisely in matters of actual government is forced to combine the two; he must know what ought to be in order to judge what is. The chief difficulty in the way of throwing light upon this important matter is to induce an individual to discuss and to answer these two questions. “How does it concern me; and what can I do?” Emile is in a position to answer both.

Yet anyone who wants to judge wisely in real government has to combine both sides; they need to understand what should be in place in order to assess what actually exists. The main challenge in shedding light on this important issue is getting someone to talk about and answer these two questions: “How does this affect me, and what can I do?” Emile is able to address both.

The next difficulty is due to the prejudices of childhood, the principles in which we were brought up; it is due above all to the partiality of authors, who are always talking about truth, though they care very little about it; it is only their own interests that they care for, and of these they say nothing. Now the nation has neither professorships, nor pensions, nor membership of the academies to bestow. How then shall its rights be established by men of that type? The education I have given him has removed this difficulty also from Emile’s path. He scarcely knows what is meant by government; his business is to find the best; he does not want to write books; if ever he did so, it would not be to pay court to those in authority, but to establish the rights of humanity.

The next challenge comes from the biases we develop in childhood and the principles we’re raised with. It’s mainly due to the favoritism of authors, who constantly talk about the truth but actually care very little about it; what they really care about are their own interests, and they don’t mention those. Now the nation doesn’t offer any professorships, pensions, or memberships in academies to hand out. So how will its rights be established by people like that? The education I’ve provided for Emile has also removed this obstacle from his path. He hardly understands what government means; his goal is to find the best. He doesn’t want to write books; if he ever does, it won’t be to win favor with those in power, but to establish the rights of humanity.

There is a third difficulty, more specious than real; a difficulty which I neither desire to solve nor even to state; enough that I am not afraid of it; sure I am that in inquiries of this kind, great talents are less necessary than a genuine love of justice and a sincere reverence for truth. If matters of government can ever be fairly discussed, now or never is our chance.

There’s a third challenge, more misleading than genuine; a challenge that I don’t wish to tackle or even mention; it’s enough that I’m not scared of it; I’m certain that when it comes to questions like this, having great talent is less important than having a real passion for justice and a true respect for truth. If there’s ever a time when matters of government can be discussed fairly, it’s now or never.

Before beginning our observations we must lay down rules of procedure; we must find a scale with which to compare our measurements. Our principles of political law are our scale. Our actual measurements are the civil law of each country.

Before we start our observations, we need to establish some rules for how we’ll proceed; we need to find a scale to compare our measurements. Our principles of political law act as our scale. Our actual measurements are the civil law of each country.

Our elementary notions are plain and simple, being taken directly from the nature of things. They will take the form of problems discussed between us, and they will not be formulated into principles, until we have found a satisfactory solution of our problems.

Our basic ideas are straightforward and clear, directly drawn from the nature of things. They will take shape through discussions between us, and we won't turn them into principles until we've found a satisfactory solution to our problems.

For example, we shall begin with the state of nature, we shall see whether men are born slaves or free, in a community or independent; is their association the result of free will or of force? Can the force which compels them to united action ever form a permanent law, by which this original force becomes binding, even when another has been imposed upon it, so that since the power of King Nimrod, who is said to have been the first conqueror, every other power which has overthrown the original power is unjust and usurping, so that there are no lawful kings but the descendants of Nimrod or their representatives; or if this original power has ceased, has the power which succeeded it any right over us, and does it destroy the binding force of the former power, so that we are not bound to obey except under compulsion, and we are free to rebel as soon as we are capable of resistance? Such a right is not very different from might; it is little more than a play upon words.

For instance, let's start with the state of nature and explore whether people are born as slaves or free, part of a community or independent. Is their coming together a choice made freely or a result of force? Can the force that pushes them to act together create a lasting law that makes this original force binding, even when another force has been imposed on it? Since the time of King Nimrod, who is said to have been the first conqueror, is every other power that has overthrown the original power unjust and usurping, meaning that only the descendants of Nimrod or their representatives are lawful kings? Or, if this original power has ended, does the power that took its place have any rights over us, and does it nullify the obligation to follow the former power, so that we only need to obey under threat, and we are free to revolt as soon as we can resist? Such a right is not far from sheer strength; it’s barely more than playing with words.

We shall inquire whether man might not say that all sickness comes from God, and that it is therefore a crime to send for the doctor.

We will explore whether a person could argue that all illness is from God, and that it is therefore wrong to call for a doctor.

Again, we shall inquire whether we are bound by our conscience to give our purse to a highwayman when we might conceal it from him, for the pistol in his hand is also a power.

Again, we will consider whether our conscience compels us to hand over our money to a robber when we could hide it from him, since the gun in his hand represents a form of power.

Does this word power in this context mean something different from a power which is lawful and therefore subject to the laws to which it owes its being?

Does the word "power" in this context mean something different from a lawful power that is subject to the laws that define it?

Suppose we reject this theory that might is right and admit the right of nature, or the authority of the father, as the foundation of society; we shall inquire into the extent of this authority; what is its foundation in nature? Has it any other grounds but that of its usefulness to the child, his weakness, and the natural love which his father feels towards him? When the child is no longer feeble, when he is grown-up in mind as well as in body, does not he become the sole judge of what is necessary for his preservation? Is he not therefore his own master, independent of all men, even of his father himself? For is it not still more certain that the son loves himself, than that the father loves the son?

Suppose we reject the idea that power makes right and accept the authority of nature, or the father, as the basis of society; we will examine the extent of this authority. What is its foundation in nature? Does it have any basis beyond its usefulness to the child, his vulnerability, and the natural love the father has for him? When the child is no longer weak and has matured in both mind and body, does he not become the sole judge of what is necessary for his survival? Is he not therefore his own master, independent of everyone, including his father? For isn't it even more certain that the son loves himself than that the father loves the son?

The father being dead, should the children obey the eldest brother, or some other person who has not the natural affection of a father? Should there always be, from family to family, one single head to whom all the family owe obedience? If so, how has power ever come to be divided, and how is it that there is more than one head to govern the human race throughout the world?

The father is dead. Should the children follow the oldest brother or someone else who doesn't have a father's natural affection? Should there always be one single leader in each family that everyone must obey? If that's the case, how did power become divided, and why are there multiple leaders governing humanity around the world?

Suppose the nations to have been formed each by its own choice; we shall then distinguish between right and fact; being thus subjected to their brothers, uncles, or other relations, not because they were obliged, but because they choose, we shall inquire whether this kind of society is not a sort of free and voluntary association?

Suppose the nations were formed by their own choice; we will then differentiate between what is right and what is real; being subjected to their brothers, uncles, or other relatives, not because they had to, but because they chose to, we will consider whether this type of society isn't a form of free and voluntary association?

Taking next the law of slavery, we shall inquire whether a man can make over to another his right to himself, without restriction, without reserve, without any kind of conditions; that is to say, can he renounce his person, his life, his reason, his very self, can he renounce all morality in his actions; in a word, can he cease to exist before his death, in spite of nature who places him directly in charge of his own preservation, in spite of reason and conscience which tell him what to do and what to leave undone?

Looking next at the law of slavery, we will examine whether a person can fully transfer their right to themselves to someone else, without any restrictions, reservations, or conditions; in other words, can they renounce their own identity, their life, their reasoning, their very essence, can they give up all moral considerations in their actions; in short, can they stop existing before their death, despite nature putting them in charge of their own preservation, and despite reason and conscience guiding them on what to do and what to avoid?

If there is any reservation or restriction in the deed of slavery, we shall discuss whether this deed does not then become a true contract, in which both the contracting powers, having in this respect no common master, [Footnote: If they had such a common master, he would be no other than the sovereign, and then the right of slavery resting on the right of sovereignty would not be its origin.] remain their own judge as to the conditions of the contract, and therefore free to this extent, and able to break the contract as soon as it becomes hurtful.

If there’s any limitation or condition in the slavery agreement, we’ll examine whether this agreement isn't actually a genuine contract, where both parties involved, having no shared authority in this regard, [Footnote: If they did have a shared authority, it would only be the sovereign, and then the right of slavery, based on sovereign authority, wouldn't be its origin.] can judge the terms of the contract themselves, and therefore are free to some extent and able to terminate the contract if it becomes detrimental.

If then a slave cannot convey himself altogether to his master, how can a nation convey itself altogether to its head? If a slave is to judge whether his master is fulfilling his contract, is not the nation to judge whether its head is fulfilling his contract?

If a slave can't fully give himself to his master, how can a nation fully give itself to its leader? If a slave is supposed to judge whether his master is meeting his obligations, isn't the nation supposed to judge whether its leader is fulfilling his duties?

Thus we are compelled to retrace our steps, and when we consider the meaning of this collective nation we shall inquire whether some contract, a tacit contract at the least, is not required to make a nation, a contract anterior to that which we are assuming.

Thus we are forced to go back and reconsider the meaning of this collective nation. We will explore whether some kind of agreement, at least an unspoken one, is necessary to form a nation—an agreement that comes before the one we are assuming.

Since the nation was a nation before it chose a king, what made it a nation, except the social contract? Therefore the social contract is the foundation of all civil society, and it is in the nature of this contract that we must seek the nature of the society formed by it.

Since the country existed as a country before it chose a king, what defined it as a nation, if not the social contract? So, the social contract is the basis of all civil society, and it's in the essence of this contract that we need to explore the nature of the society it created.

We will inquire into the meaning of this contract; may it not be fairly well expressed in this formula? As an individual every one of us contributes his goods, his person, his life, to the common stock, under the supreme direction of the general will; while as a body we receive each member as an indivisible part of the whole.

We will look into what this contract means; can it be clearly stated in this way? As individuals, each of us offers our goods, our selves, our lives, to the collective under the ultimate guidance of the general will; while as a group, we accept each member as an integral part of the whole.

Assuming this, in order to define the terms we require, we shall observe that, instead of the individual person of each contracting party, this deed of association produces a moral and collective body, consisting of as many members as there are votes in the Assembly. This public personality is usually called the body politic, which is called by its members the State when it is passive, and the Sovereign when it is active, and a Power when compared with its equals. With regard to the members themselves, collectively they are known as the nation, and individually as citizens as members of the city or partakers in the sovereign power, and subjects as obedient to the same authority.

Assuming this, to define the terms we need, we should note that, rather than focusing on the individual person of each party involved, this association creates a moral and collective body made up of as many members as there are votes in the Assembly. This public entity is commonly referred to as the body politic, known as the State when it is inactive, the Sovereign when it is active, and a Power in relation to its equals. Regarding the members, together they are recognized as the nation, and individually they are called citizens as part of the city or participants in the sovereign power, and subjects as they obey the same authority.

We shall note that this contract of association includes a mutual pledge on the part of the public and the individual; and that each individual, entering, so to speak, into a contract with himself, finds himself in a twofold capacity, i.e., as a member of the sovereign with regard to others, as member of the state with regard to the sovereign.

We should point out that this partnership agreement includes a mutual commitment from both the public and the individual; and that each person, essentially making a deal with themselves, has a dual role, meaning they are a member of the sovereign in relation to others and a member of the state in relation to the sovereign.

We shall also note that while no one is bound by any engagement to which he was not himself a party, the general deliberation which may be binding on all the subjects with regard to the sovereign, because of the two different relations under which each of them is envisaged, cannot be binding on the state with regard to itself. Hence we see that there is not, and cannot be, any other fundamental law, properly so called, except the social contract only. This does not mean that the body politic cannot, in certain respects, pledge itself to others; for in regard to the foreigner, it then becomes a simple creature, an individual.

We should also point out that while no one is obligated to any agreement they weren’t part of, the general discussion that may apply to everyone regarding the sovereign, due to the two different ways each is viewed, can’t bind the state to itself. Therefore, we see that there isn’t, and can’t be, any fundamental law, strictly speaking, other than the social contract. This doesn’t mean that the political body cannot, in certain ways, commit itself to others; because when it comes to outsiders, it then acts as a simple entity, like an individual.

Thus the two contracting parties, i.e., each individual and the public, have no common superior to decide their differences; so we will inquire if each of them remains free to break the contract at will, that is to repudiate it on his side as soon as he considers it hurtful.

Thus, the two parties involved, meaning each individual and the public, don’t have a shared authority to resolve their disagreements. So, let’s examine whether each of them is free to terminate the contract whenever they want, that is, to reject it on their part as soon as they find it harmful.

To clear up this difficulty, we shall observe that, according to the social pact, the sovereign power is only able to act through the common, general will; so its decrees can only have a general or common aim; hence it follows that a private individual cannot be directly injured by the sovereign, unless all are injured, which is impossible, for that would be to want to harm oneself. Thus the social contract has no need of any warrant but the general power, for it can only be broken by individuals, and they are not therefore freed from their engagement, but punished for having broken it.

To resolve this issue, we should note that, according to the social contract, the sovereign power can only act through the collective, general will; thus, its decisions can only target a common or general purpose. This means that a private individual cannot be harmed directly by the sovereign unless everyone is harmed, which is impossible since that would mean wanting to harm oneself. Therefore, the social contract doesn't require any justification beyond the general power, as it can only be violated by individuals, who are not freed from their obligation but rather punished for breaking it.

To decide all such questions rightly, we must always bear in mind that the nature of the social pact is private and peculiar to itself, in that the nation only contracts with itself, i.e., the people as a whole as sovereign, with the individuals as subjects; this condition is essential to the construction and working of the political machine, it alone makes pledges lawful, reasonable, and secure, without which it would be absurd, tyrannical, and liable to the grossest abuse.

To rightly decide all such questions, we need to remember that the nature of the social contract is private and unique to itself, meaning the nation only makes agreements with itself, i.e., the people as a whole act as sovereign, while individuals are seen as subjects. This condition is crucial for the construction and functioning of the political system; it alone makes agreements lawful, reasonable, and secure. Without it, such agreements would be absurd, tyrannical, and prone to severe abuse.

Individuals having only submitted themselves to the sovereign, and the sovereign power being only the general will, we shall see that every man in obeying the sovereign only obeys himself, and how much freer are we under the social part than in the state of nature.

Individuals who have only submitted to the sovereign, and the sovereign power being just the general will, we will see that when each person obeys the sovereign, they are really obeying themselves, and how much freer we are in society than in the state of nature.

Having compared natural and civil liberty with regard to persons, we will compare them as to property, the rights of ownership and the rights of sovereignty, the private and the common domain. If the sovereign power rests upon the right of ownership, there is no right more worthy of respect; it is inviolable and sacred for the sovereign power, so long as it remains a private individual right; as soon as it is viewed as common to all the citizens, it is subject to the common will, and this will may destroy it. Thus the sovereign has no right to touch the property of one or many; but he may lawfully take possession of the property of all, as was done in Sparta in the time of Lycurgus; while the abolition of debts by Solon was an unlawful deed.

Having compared natural and civil liberty in terms of individuals, we'll now look at them regarding property, ownership rights, and sovereignty rights, along with private and public domains. If sovereign power is based on ownership rights, then there's no right more deserving of respect; it is untouchable and sacred to the sovereign as long as it remains a private individual right. However, once it is seen as common to all citizens, it falls under the collective will, which can dismantle it. Therefore, the sovereign has no right to interfere with the property of an individual or a few, but he may legally take possession of everyone’s property, as was the case in Sparta during Lycurgus's time; whereas the cancellation of debts by Solon was an unlawful act.

Since nothing is binding on the subjects except the general will, let us inquire how this will is made manifest, by what signs we may recognise it with certainty, what is a law, and what are the true characters of the law? This is quite a fresh subject; we have still to define the term law.

Since nothing binds the subjects except the general will, let's explore how this will is expressed, how we can recognize it with certainty, what a law is, and what the true characteristics of the law are. This is a completely new topic; we still need to define the term law.

As soon as the nation considers one or more of its members, the nation is divided. A relation is established between the whole and its part which makes of them two separate entities, of which the part is one, and the whole, minus that part, is the other. But the whole minus the part is not the whole; as long as this relation exists, there is no longer a whole, but two unequal parts.

As soon as the nation thinks about one or more of its members, it becomes divided. A relationship forms between the whole and its part, making them two distinct entities: one as the part and the other as the whole without that part. However, the whole minus the part isn’t truly the whole; as long as this relationship exists, there isn’t a whole anymore, just two unequal parts.

On the other hand, if the whole nation makes a law for the whole nation, it is only considering itself; and if a relation is set up, it is between the whole community regarded from one point of view, and the whole community regarded from another point of view, without any division of that whole. Then the object of the statute is general, and the will which makes that statute is general too. Let us see if there is any other kind of decree which may bear the name of law.

On the other hand, if the entire nation creates a law for everyone, it’s only focused on itself; and if a relationship is established, it’s between the whole community viewed from one perspective and the whole community seen from another perspective, without any division of that whole. Then the purpose of the law is general, and the will that creates that law is general as well. Let’s see if there are any other types of decrees that can be called law.

If the sovereign can only speak through laws, and if the law can never have any but a general purpose, concerning all the members of the state, it follows that the sovereign never has the power to make any law with regard to particular cases; and yet it is necessary for the preservation of the state that particular cases should also be dealt with; let us see how this can be done.

If the ruler can only communicate through laws, and if the law can only serve a general purpose affecting all members of the state, then the ruler can never create a law for specific situations. However, it is essential for the state's survival to address individual cases as well; let’s explore how this can be accomplished.

The decrees of the sovereign can only be decrees of the general will, that is laws; there must also be determining decrees, decrees of power or government, for the execution of those laws; and these, on the other hand, can only have particular aims. Thus the decrees by which the sovereign decides that a chief shall be elected is a law; the decree by which that chief is elected, in pursuance of the law, is only a decree of government.

The orders from the ruler can only be seen as expressions of the general will, meaning they are laws; however, there also need to be specific orders, government decrees, to implement those laws; and these, in turn, can only have specific objectives. So, the order by which the ruler decides that a leader should be elected is a law; the order through which that leader is elected, following the law, is just a government decree.

This is a third relation in which the assembled people may be considered, i.e., as magistrates or executors of the law which it has passed in its capacity as sovereign. [Footnote: These problems and theorems are mostly taken from the Treatise on the Social Contract, itself a summary of a larger work, undertaken without due consideration of my own powers, and long since abandoned.]

This is a third way to view the gathered individuals, meaning as those responsible for enforcing the laws they’ve created as a governing body. [Footnote: These issues and principles are primarily drawn from the Treatise on the Social Contract, which is a summary of a more extensive work that I started without fully considering my own abilities and that I abandoned a long time ago.]

We will now inquire whether it is possible for the nation to deprive itself of its right of sovereignty, to bestow it on one or more persons; for the decree of election not being a law, and the people in this decree not being themselves sovereign, we do not see how they can transfer a right which they do not possess.

We will now examine whether a nation can give up its right to self-governance and hand it over to one or more individuals; since the election decree is not a law and the people involved in this decree are not sovereign themselves, we don't see how they can transfer a right they don't actually have.

The essence of sovereignty consisting in the general will, it is equally hard to see how we can be certain that an individual will shall always be in agreement with the general will. We should rather assume that it will often be opposed to it; for individual interest always tends to privileges, while the common interest always tends to equality, and if such an agreement were possible, no sovereign right could exist, unless the agreement were either necessary or indestructible.

The core of sovereignty is based on the general will, so it's difficult to be sure that an individual's will will always align with the general will. In fact, we should expect that it often won't; individual interests usually aim for privileges, while the common interest strives for equality. If such alignment were possible, no sovereign right could exist unless that agreement was either necessary or unbreakable.

We will inquire if, without violating the social pact, the heads of the nation, under whatever name they are chosen, can ever be more than the officers of the people, entrusted by them with the duty of carrying the law into execution. Are not these chiefs themselves accountable for their administration, and are not they themselves subject to the laws which it is their business to see carried out?

We will ask whether, without breaking the social agreement, the leaders of the nation, no matter what title they hold, can ever be anything more than representatives of the people, given the responsibility of enforcing the law. Aren't these leaders themselves responsible for their actions, and aren't they also subject to the laws that they are supposed to enforce?

If the nation cannot alienate its supreme right, can it entrust it to others for a time? Cannot it give itself a master, cannot it find representatives? This is an important question and deserves discussion.

If the nation can't give up its ultimate right, can it temporarily hand it over to others? Can it appoint a leader for itself, or can it find representatives? This is an important question and deserves discussion.

If the nation can have neither sovereign nor representatives we will inquire how it can pass its own laws; must there be many laws; must they be often altered; is it easy for a great nation to be its own lawgiver?

If the nation can't have either a sovereign or representatives, we need to consider how it can create its own laws. Should there be numerous laws? Should they change frequently? Is it feasible for a large nation to make its own laws?

Was not the Roman people a great nation?

Wasn't the Roman people a great nation?

Is it a good thing that there should be great nations?

Is it a good thing for there to be great nations?

It follows from considerations already established that there is an intermediate body in the state between subjects and sovereign; and this intermediate body, consisting of one or more members, is entrusted with the public administration, the carrying out of the laws, and the maintenance of civil and political liberty.

It's clear from what has already been discussed that there's a group in the state that's in between the citizens and the ruler; this group, made up of one or more individuals, is responsible for managing public affairs, enforcing the laws, and safeguarding civil and political freedoms.

The members of this body are called magistrates or kings, that is to say, rulers. This body, as a whole, considered in relation to its members, is called the prince, and considered in its actions it is called the government.

The members of this group are referred to as magistrates or kings, which means rulers. This group, when looked at as a whole in relation to its members, is called the prince, and when viewed in terms of its actions, it is called the government.

If we consider the action of the whole body upon itself, that is to say, the relation of the whole to the whole, of the sovereign to the state, we can compare this relation to that of the extremes in a proportion of which the government is the middle term. The magistrate receives from the sovereign the commands which he gives to the nation, and when it is reckoned up his product or his power is in the same degree as the product or power of the citizens who are subjects on one side of the proportion and sovereigns on the other. None of the three terms can be varied without at once destroying this proportion. If the sovereign tries to govern, and if the prince wants to make the laws, or if the subject refuses to obey them, disorder takes the place of order, and the state falls to pieces under despotism or anarchy.

If we look at how the entire body interacts with itself, meaning the relationship between the whole and the whole, the ruler and the state, we can liken this relationship to the extremes in a proportion where the government is the middle term. The official receives orders from the ruler, which he then communicates to the people, and when you add it all up, his influence or power is equal to that of the citizens who are subjects on one side of the proportion and rulers on the other. None of the three terms can change without immediately disrupting this balance. If the ruler tries to take control, or if the prince wants to create the laws, or if the citizens refuse to follow them, chaos replaces order, and the state crumbles under tyranny or disorder.

Let us suppose that this state consists of ten thousand citizens. The sovereign can only be considered collectively and as a body, but each individual, as a subject, has his private and independent existence. Thus the sovereign is as ten thousand to one; that is to say, every member of the state has, as his own share, only one ten-thousandth part of the sovereign power, although he is subject to the whole. Let the nation be composed of one hundred thousand men, the position of the subjects is unchanged, and each continues to bear the whole weight of the laws, while his vote, reduced to the one hundred-thousandth part, has ten times less influence in the making of the laws. Thus the subject being always one, the sovereign is relatively greater as the number of the citizens is increased. Hence it follows that the larger the state the less liberty.

Let’s say this state has ten thousand citizens. The sovereign can only be seen as a whole, but each individual, as a subject, has his own separate existence. So, the sovereign is ten thousand to one; meaning every member of the state has just one ten-thousandth of the sovereign power, even though he is subject to all of it. If the nation is made up of one hundred thousand people, the situation for the subjects doesn’t change, and each still carries the full burden of the laws, while his vote, now reduced to one one-hundred-thousandth, has ten times less impact on creating the laws. Therefore, since the subject remains one, the sovereign becomes relatively greater as the number of citizens increases. This leads to the conclusion that the larger the state, the less freedom there is.

Now the greater the disproportion between private wishes and the general will, i.e., between manners and laws, the greater must be the power of repression. On the other side, the greatness of the state gives the depositaries of public authority greater temptations and additional means of abusing that authority, so that the more power is required by the government to control the people, the more power should there be in the sovereign to control the government.

Now, the bigger the gap between personal desires and the collective will, meaning between behavior and laws, the more control will be needed. On the flip side, the larger the state, the more temptation and resources the holders of public authority have to misuse that power. So, the more power the government needs to manage the people, the more power there should be in the sovereign to manage the government.

From this twofold relation it follows that the continued proportion between the sovereign, the prince, and the people is not an arbitrary idea, but a consequence of the nature of the state. Moreover, it follows that one of the extremes, i.e., the nation, being constant, every time the double ratio increases or decreases, the simple ratio increases or diminishes in its turn; which cannot be unless the middle term is as often changed. From this we may conclude that there is no single absolute form of government, but there must be as many different forms of government as there are states of different size.

From this twofold relationship, it follows that the ongoing balance between the sovereign, the prince, and the people isn’t just a random concept, but a reflection of the nature of the state. Additionally, since one end, namely the nation, remains constant, whenever the double ratio goes up or down, the simple ratio also increases or decreases accordingly; this can only happen if the middle term is adjusted just as often. From this, we can conclude that there isn't one single absolute form of government, but rather as many different forms of government as there are states of varying sizes.

If the greater the numbers of the nation the less the ratio between its manners and its laws, by a fairly clear analogy, we may also say, the more numerous the magistrates, the weaker the government.

If a nation has a larger population but a smaller ratio of manners to laws, we can also fairly say that the more magistrates there are, the weaker the government becomes.

To make this principle clearer we will distinguish three essentially different wills in the person of each magistrate; first, his own will as an individual, which looks to his own advantage only; secondly, the common will of the magistrates, which is concerned only with the advantage of the prince, a will which may be called corporate, and one which is general in relation to the government and particular in relation to the state of which the government forms part; thirdly, the will of the people, or the sovereign will, which is general, as much in relation to the state viewed as the whole as in relation to the government viewed as a part of the whole. In a perfect legislature the private individual will should be almost nothing; the corporate will belonging to the government should be quite subordinate, and therefore the general and sovereign will is the master of all the others. On the other hand, in the natural order, these different wills become more and more active in proportion as they become centralised; the general will is always weak, the corporate will takes the second place, the individual will is preferred to all; so that every one is himself first, then a magistrate, and then a citizen; a series just the opposite of that required by the social order.

To clarify this principle, we will identify three distinct wills in each magistrate. First is his personal will as an individual, which focuses solely on his own benefit. Second is the collective will of the magistrates, which concerns only the benefit of the prince; this can be called a corporate will, general in relation to the government and specific in relation to the state it belongs to. Third is the will of the people, or the sovereign will, which is general both in terms of the state as a whole and in relation to the government as part of that whole. In an ideal legislature, the individual will should have almost no influence; the corporate will of the government should be significantly limited, while the general and sovereign will should dominate all others. However, in the natural order, these different wills become increasingly active as they become centralized; the general will remains weak, the corporate will takes a secondary position, and the individual will is prioritized above all. This creates a hierarchy where everyone first identifies as an individual, then as a magistrate, and lastly as a citizen, which is the exact opposite of what is needed in a social order.

Having laid down this principle, let us assume that the government is in the hands of one man. In this case the individual and the corporate will are absolutely one, and therefore this will has reached the greatest possible degree of intensity. Now the use of power depends on the degree of this intensity, and as the absolute power of the government is always that of the people, and therefore invariable, it follows that the rule of one man is the most active form of government.

Having established this principle, let's assume that the government is controlled by a single individual. In this scenario, the will of the individual and that of the corporation are completely aligned, resulting in the highest possible level of intensity. The exercise of power hinges on this intensity, and since the absolute power of the government always comes from the people and is therefore unchanging, it follows that a one-man rule is the most dynamic form of government.

If, on the other hand, we unite the government with the supreme power, and make the prince the sovereign and the citizens so many magistrates, then the corporate will is completely lost in the general will, and will have no more activity than the general will, and it will leave the individual will in full vigour. Thus the government, though its absolute force is constant, will have the minimum of activity.

If we combine the government with the highest authority and make the prince the ruler while the citizens serve as magistrates, then the collective will completely dissolves into the general will, losing any distinct action apart from it, while the individual will remains fully active. Therefore, even though the government’s absolute power is steady, its overall effectiveness will be minimal.

These rules are incontestable in themselves, and other considerations only serve to confirm them. For example, we see the magistrates as a body far more active than the citizens as a body, so that the individual will always counts for more. For each magistrate usually has charge of some particular duty of government; while each citizen, in himself, has no particular duty of sovereignty. Moreover, the greater the state the greater its real power, although its power does not increase because of the increase in territory; but the state remaining unchanged, the magistrates are multiplied in vain, the government acquires no further real strength, because it is the depositary of that of the state, which I have assumed to be constant. Thus, this plurality of magistrates decreases the activity of the government without increasing its power.

These rules are undeniable on their own, and other factors only help confirm them. For instance, we observe that the magistrates act as a more dynamic group than the citizens, so the individual always holds more weight. Each magistrate is typically responsible for a specific governmental duty, while each citizen doesn't have a particular responsibility in governance. Additionally, the larger the state, the greater its actual power, although this power doesn’t grow just because the territory expands; if the state remains the same, adding more magistrates is pointless. The government does not gain any true strength because it reflects that of the state, which I assume stays constant. Therefore, having multiple magistrates reduces the government's effectiveness without boosting its power.

Having found that the power of the government is relaxed in proportion as the number of magistrates is multiplied, and that the more numerous the people, the more the controlling power must be increased, we shall infer that the ratio between the magistrates and the government should be inverse to that between subjects and sovereign, that is to say, that the greater the state, the smaller the government, and that in like manner the number of chiefs should be diminished because of the increased numbers of the people.

Finding that the government's power decreases as the number of officials increases, and that a larger population requires more oversight, we conclude that the ratio between officials and the government should be opposite to that between citizens and rulers. In other words, as the state grows, the government should shrink, and similarly, the number of leaders should be reduced as the population increases.

In order to make this diversity of forms clearer, and to assign them their different names, we shall observe in the first place that the sovereign may entrust the care of the government to the whole nation or to the greater part of the nation, so that there are more citizen magistrates than private citizens. This form of government is called Democracy.

To clarify this variety of forms and to give them their respective names, we first need to note that the sovereign can delegate the governance to the entire nation or to most of the nation, resulting in more citizen magistrates than private citizens. This type of government is known as Democracy.

Or the sovereign may restrict the government in the hands of a lesser number, so that there are more plain citizens than magistrates; and this form of government is called Aristocracy.

Or the ruler may limit the government to a smaller group, so that there are more regular citizens than officials; and this type of government is called Aristocracy.

Finally, the sovereign may concentrate the whole government in the hands of one man. This is the third and commonest form of government, and is called Monarchy or royal government.

Finally, the ruler can put all of the government in the hands of one person. This is the third and most common form of government, known as Monarchy or royal government.

We shall observe that all these forms, or the first and second at least, may be less or more, and that within tolerably wide limits. For the democracy may include the whole nation, or may be confined to one half of it. The aristocracy, in its turn, may shrink from the half of the nation to the smallest number. Even royalty may be shared, either between father and son, between two brothers, or in some other fashion. There were always two kings in Sparta, and in the Roman empire there were as many as eight emperors at once, and yet it cannot be said that the empire was divided. There is a point where each form of government blends with the next; and under the three specific forms there may be really as many forms of government as there are citizens in the state.

We will see that all these forms, or at least the first and second, can vary in degree, and that within fairly broad limits. The democracy can include the entire nation, or it can be limited to half of it. The aristocracy, in turn, can range from half the nation down to the smallest group. Even royalty can be shared, whether between a father and son, two brothers, or in some other way. Sparta always had two kings, and during the Roman Empire, there could be as many as eight emperors at the same time, yet you couldn't say the empire was split. There's a point where each form of government blends into the next; and under the three specific forms, there could really be as many forms of government as there are citizens in the state.

Nor is this all. In certain respects each of these governments is capable of subdivision into different parts, each administered in one of these three ways. From these forms in combination there may arise a multitude of mixed forms, since each may be multiplied by all the simple forms.

Nor is this all. In some ways, each of these governments can be divided into different parts, each managed in one of these three ways. From these combinations, a variety of mixed forms can emerge, as each can be combined with all the simple forms.

In all ages there have been great disputes as to which is the best form of government, and people have failed to consider that each is the best in some cases and the worst in others. For ourselves, if the number of magistrates [Footnote: You will remember that I mean, in this context, the supreme magistrates or heads of the nation, the others being only their deputies in this or that respect.] in the various states is to be in inverse ratio to the number of the citizens, we infer that generally a democratic government is adapted to small states, an aristocratic government to those of moderate size, and a monarchy to large states.

Throughout history, there has been a lot of debate about what the best form of government is, and people often overlook the fact that each type can be the best in some situations and the worst in others. For us, if the number of leaders [Footnote: Remember that in this context, I’m referring to the supreme leaders or heads of the nation, while others are just their deputies in various respects.] in different states is inversely related to the number of citizens, we conclude that typically, a democratic government works well in smaller states, an aristocratic government is suited for medium-sized states, and a monarchy fits larger states.

These inquiries furnish us with a clue by which we may discover what are the duties and rights of citizens, and whether they can be separated one from the other; what is our country, in what does it really consist, and how can each of us ascertain whether he has a country or no?

These questions give us a hint about what the duties and rights of citizens are, and whether they can be separated from each other; what our country is, what it really consists of, and how each of us can determine whether we have a country or not?

Having thus considered every kind of civil society in itself, we shall compare them, so as to note their relations one with another; great and small, strong and weak, attacking one another, insulting one another, destroying one another; and in this perpetual action and reaction causing more misery and loss of life than if men had preserved their original freedom. We shall inquire whether too much or too little has not been accomplished in the matter of social institutions; whether individuals who are subject to law and to men, while societies preserve the independence of nature, are not exposed to the ills of both conditions without the advantages of either, and whether it would not be better to have no civil society in the world rather than to have many such societies. Is it not that mixed condition which partakes of both and secures neither?

Having considered every type of civil society on its own, we will compare them to see how they relate to each other—big and small, strong and weak, attacking and insulting one another, destroying one another; and in this constant cycle of conflict, they cause more misery and loss of life than if people had kept their original freedom. We will examine whether too much or too little has been done regarding social institutions; whether individuals who are bound by laws and other people, while societies maintain the independence of nature, are not exposed to the problems of both situations without enjoying any benefits, and whether it might be better to have no civil society in the world than to have many such societies. Isn’t it that mixed situation which includes elements of both but secures neither?

    “Per quem neutrum licet, nec tanquam in bello paratum esse, nec
     tanquam in pace securum.”—Seneca De Trang: Animi, cap. I.
“Through whom it is permitted neither to be prepared as in war, nor to be secure as in peace.” —Seneca De Trang: Animi, cap. I.

Is it not this partial and imperfect association which gives rise to tyranny and war? And are not tyranny and war the worst scourges of humanity?

Isn't it this flawed and incomplete connection that leads to tyranny and war? And aren't tyranny and war the worst afflictions for humanity?

Finally we will inquire how men seek to get rid of these difficulties by means of leagues and confederations, which leave each state its own master in internal affairs, while they arm it against any unjust aggression. We will inquire how a good federal association may be established, what can make it lasting, and how far the rights of the federation may be stretched without destroying the right of sovereignty.

Finally, we will explore how people try to overcome these challenges through alliances and partnerships that allow each state to maintain control over its internal matters while protecting it from any unfair attacks. We will examine how to create a strong federal association, what can ensure its longevity, and the extent to which the rights of the federation can be expanded without undermining the right to sovereignty.

The Abbe de Saint-Pierre suggested an association of all the states of Europe to maintain perpetual peace among themselves. Is this association practicable, and supposing that it were established, would it be likely to last? These inquiries lead us straight to all the questions of international law which may clear up the remaining difficulties of political law. Finally we shall lay down the real principles of the laws of war, and we shall see why Grotius and others have only stated false principles.

The Abbe de Saint-Pierre proposed that all the nations of Europe come together to ensure lasting peace among themselves. Is this proposal doable, and if it were implemented, would it endure? These questions direct us to the various issues of international law that could resolve the ongoing challenges of political law. Lastly, we will establish the true principles of the laws of war and explore why Grotius and others have only presented incorrect principles.

I should not be surprised if my pupil, who is a sensible young man, should interrupt me saying, “One would think we were building our edifice of wood and not of men; we are putting everything so exactly in its place!” That is true; but remember that the law does not bow to the passions of men, and that we have first to establish the true principles of political law. Now that our foundations are laid, come and see what men have built upon them; and you will see some strange sights!

I wouldn’t be surprised if my student, who is a smart young man, interrupted me to say, “You’d think we were building our structure with wood instead of with people; we’re organizing everything so perfectly!” That’s valid, but keep in mind that the law doesn’t give in to human emotions, and we first need to establish the real principles of political law. Now that our foundations are set, come and see what people have constructed on top of them; you’ll encounter some surprising sights!

Then I set him to read Telemachus, and we pursue our journey; we are seeking that happy Salentum and the good Idomeneus made wise by misfortunes. By the way we find many like Protesilas and no Philocles, neither can Adrastes, King of the Daunians, be found. But let our readers picture our travels for themselves, or take the same journeys with Telemachus in their hand; and let us not suggest to them painful applications which the author himself avoids or makes in spite of himself.

Then I had him read Telemachus, and we continued our journey; we were on the lookout for that happy Salentum and the wise Idomeneus, shaped by his misfortunes. Along the way, we encountered many like Protesilas but found no Philocles, and neither could we locate Adrastes, King of the Daunians. But let our readers imagine our travels themselves, or join the same journeys with Telemachus in their hands; and let’s not bring up painful interpretations that the author himself shies away from or makes despite himself.

Moreover, Emile is not a king, nor am I a god, so that we are not distressed that we cannot imitate Telemachus and Mentor in the good they did; none know better than we how to keep to our own place, none have less desire to leave it. We know that the same task is allotted to all; that whoever loves what is right with all his heart, and does the right so far as it is in his power, has fulfilled that task. We know that Telemachus and Mentor are creatures of the imagination. Emile does not travel in idleness and he does more good than if he were a prince. If we were kings we should be no greater benefactors. If we were kings and benefactors we should cause any number of real evils for every apparent good we supposed we were doing. If we were kings and sages, the first good deed we should desire to perform, for ourselves and for others, would be to abdicate our kingship and return to our present position.

Moreover, Emile isn't a king, and I'm not a god, so we aren't upset that we can't imitate the good deeds of Telemachus and Mentor; no one knows better than we do how to stay in our own lane, and none of us wants to leave it. We understand that the same job is assigned to everyone; whoever truly loves what's right and acts on it as much as they can has done their part. We realize that Telemachus and Mentor are fictional characters. Emile doesn't waste time traveling and he does more good than if he were a prince. If we were kings, we wouldn't be greater do-gooders. If we were kings and benefactors, we'd create many real problems for every apparent good we thought we were achieving. If we were kings and wise, the first good action we would want to take, for ourselves and for others, would be to give up our kingship and return to our current status.

I have said why travel does so little for every one. What makes it still more barren for the young is the way in which they are sent on their travels. Tutors, more concerned to amuse than to instruct, take them from town to town, from palace to palace, where if they are men of learning and letters, they make them spend their time in libraries, or visiting antiquaries, or rummaging among old buildings transcribing ancient inscriptions. In every country they are busy over some other century, as if they were living in another country; so that after they have travelled all over Europe at great expense, a prey to frivolity or tedium, they return, having seen nothing to interest them, and having learnt nothing that could be of any possible use to them.

I’ve explained why travel benefits so few people. What makes it even less rewarding for the young is the way they’re taken on trips. Tutors, more focused on entertainment than education, take them from city to city, from palace to palace. If the tutors are knowledgeable, they make the students spend their time in libraries, visiting antique shops, or digging through old buildings to copy ancient inscriptions. In every country, they’re preoccupied with past centuries, as if they’re living in a different time. So, after traveling all over Europe at a high cost, either bored or unfocused, they come back having seen nothing truly interesting and having learned nothing useful.

All capitals are just alike, they are a mixture of all nations and all ways of living; they are not the place in which to study the nations. Paris and London seem to me the same town. Their inhabitants have a few prejudices of their own, but each has as many as the other, and all their rules of conduct are the same. We know the kind of people who will throng the court. We know the way of living which the crowds of people and the unequal distribution of wealth will produce. As soon as any one tells me of a town with two hundred thousand people, I know its life already. What I do not know about it is not worth going there to learn.

All capitals are pretty much the same; they're a mix of all nations and lifestyles. They're not the best places to truly understand different cultures. To me, Paris and London feel like the same city. Their residents have some unique biases, but each has just as many as the other, and their social norms are alike. We know the type of people who will flock to the court. We understand the lifestyle that comes from the masses and the uneven distribution of wealth. As soon as someone mentions a city with two hundred thousand residents, I already know what life is like there. Anything I don't know about it isn't worth the trip to find out.

To study the genius and character of a nation you should go to the more remote provinces, where there is less stir, less commerce, where strangers seldom travel, where the inhabitants stay in one place, where there are fewer changes of wealth and position. Take a look at the capital on your way, but go and study the country far away from that capital. The French are not in Paris, but in Touraine; the English are more English in Mercia than in London, and the Spaniards more Spanish in Galicia than in Madrid. In these remoter provinces a nation assumes its true character and shows what it really is; there the good or ill effects of the government are best perceived, just as you can measure the arc more exactly at a greater radius.

To understand the genius and character of a nation, you should visit the more remote areas, where there's less activity, less trade, where travelers are rare, where people settle in one place, and where changes in wealth and status are fewer. You can check out the capital on the way, but really focus on the countryside far from that capital. The French are found not in Paris, but in Touraine; the English are more truly English in Mercia than in London, and the Spaniards are more authentically Spanish in Galicia than in Madrid. In these distant regions, a nation reveals its true character and shows what it really is; there, the positive or negative effects of the government are more clearly seen, just like you can measure an arc more accurately with a larger radius.

The necessary relations between character and government have been so clearly pointed out in the book of L’Esprit des Lois, that one cannot do better than have recourse to that work for the study of those relations. But speaking generally, there are two plain and simple standards by which to decide whether governments are good or bad. One is the population. Every country in which the population is decreasing is on its way to ruin; and the countries in which the population increases most rapidly, even were they the poorest countries in the world, are certainly the best governed. [Footnote: I only know one exception to this rule—it is China.] But this population must be the natural result of the government and the national character, for if it is caused by colonisation or any other temporary and accidental cause, then the remedy itself is evidence of the disease. When Augustus passed laws against celibacy, those laws showed that the Roman empire was already beginning to decline. Citizens must be induced to marry by the goodness of the government, not compelled to marry by law; you must not examine the effects of force, for the law which strives against the constitution has little or no effect; you should study what is done by the influence of public morals and by the natural inclination of the government, for these alone produce a lasting effect. It was the policy of the worthy Abbe de Saint-Pierre always to look for a little remedy for every individual ill, instead of tracing them to their common source and seeing if they could not all be cured together. You do not need to treat separately every sore on a rich man’s body; you should purify the blood which produces them. They say that in England there are prizes for agriculture; that is enough for me; that is proof enough that agriculture will not flourish there much longer.

The necessary relationship between character and government has been clearly outlined in the book L’Esprit des Lois, so it's a good idea to refer to that work to study those relationships. Generally speaking, there are two straightforward criteria to determine if governments are good or bad. One is the population. Any country with a declining population is heading for disaster; the countries where the population is growing the most rapidly, even if they are the poorest, are definitely the best governed. [Footnote: I know of only one exception to this rule—it is China.] However, this population growth must be a natural outcome of the government and national character; if it results from colonization or any other temporary and accidental cause, then the remedy itself highlights the problem. When Augustus enforced laws against celibacy, those laws indicated that the Roman Empire was already starting to decline. Citizens should be encouraged to marry by the quality of the government, not forced to marry by law; you shouldn’t focus on the effects of coercion, since laws that go against the natural constitution have little to no impact. You should examine what is shaped by public morals and the natural tendencies of the government, as these are what create lasting change. The approach of the honorable Abbe de Saint-Pierre was to always seek a small remedy for each individual problem instead of tracing them back to their common source to see if they could all be solved together. You don't need to treat each individual sore on a wealthy person’s body; you should purify the blood that causes them. They say that in England there are prizes for agriculture; that’s enough for me; it’s clear evidence that agriculture isn’t going to thrive there for much longer.

The second sign of the goodness or badness of the government and the laws is also to be found in the population, but it is to be found not in its numbers but in its distribution. Two states equal in size and population may be very unequal in strength; and the more powerful is always that in which the people are more evenly distributed over its territory; the country which has fewer large towns, and makes less show on this account, will always defeat the other. It is the great towns which exhaust the state and are the cause of its weakness; the wealth which they produce is a sham wealth, there is much money and few goods. They say the town of Paris is worth a whole province to the King of France; for my own part I believe it costs him more than several provinces. I believe that Paris is fed by the provinces in more senses than one, and that the greater part of their revenues is poured into that town and stays there, without ever returning to the people or to the king. It is inconceivable that in this age of calculators there is no one to see that France would be much more powerful if Paris were destroyed. Not only is this ill-distributed population not advantageous to the state, it is more ruinous than depopulation itself, because depopulation only gives as produce nought, and the ill-regulated addition of still more people gives a negative result. When I hear an Englishman and a Frenchman so proud of the size of their capitals, and disputing whether London or Paris has more inhabitants, it seems to me that they are quarrelling as to which nation can claim the honour of being the worst governed.

The second indicator of whether a government and its laws are good or bad can also be found in the population, but not in its total number—rather, in how it’s spread out. Two states that are equal in size and population can still be very different in strength; the one that is stronger is the one where the people are more evenly distributed across the land. The country with fewer large cities, which might not seem impressive for that reason, will always outmatch the other. It’s the big cities that drain the state and contribute to its weakness; the wealth they generate is superficial—there’s plenty of money but not many goods. They say Paris is worth an entire province to the King of France; personally, I think it actually costs him more than several provinces. I believe that Paris is sustained by the provinces in more ways than one, and a large part of their revenue flows into that city and stays there, never returning to the people or the king. It's hard to believe that in this age of numbers, no one realizes that France would be much stronger if Paris were eliminated. Not only is this poorly distributed population detrimental to the state, but it’s also more damaging than depopulation itself because while depopulation yields nothing, the poorly regulated addition of more people leads to negative outcomes. When I hear an Englishman and a Frenchman bragging about the size of their capitals and arguing over whether London or Paris has more residents, it seems to me they’re just bickering about which nation can take pride in being more poorly governed.

Study the nation outside its towns; thus only will you really get to know it. It is nothing to see the apparent form of a government, overladen with the machinery of administration and the jargon of the administrators, if you have not also studied its nature as seen in the effects it has upon the people, and in every degree of administration. The difference of form is really shared by every degree of the administration, and it is only by including every degree that you really know the difference. In one country you begin to feel the spirit of the minister in the manoeuvres of his underlings; in another you must see the election of members of parliament to see if the nation is really free; in each and every country, he who has only seen the towns cannot possibly know what the government is like, as its spirit is never the same in town and country. Now it is the agricultural districts which form the country, and the country people who make the nation.

Study the nation beyond its cities; that’s the only way to really understand it. It doesn't matter if you only see the surface of a government, weighed down by the bureaucracy and the language of the officials, if you haven’t also looked at its essence as reflected in the impact it has on the people and in all levels of administration. The difference in form exists at every level of the administration, and it’s only by examining all levels that you can truly grasp the difference. In one country, you might sense the attitude of the minister in the actions of his subordinates; in another, you may need to observe the election of parliament members to determine if the nation is genuinely free. In every country, if you’ve only experienced the cities, you can’t possibly understand what the government is truly like, as its spirit varies between urban and rural areas. The agricultural regions build the country, and the rural people create the nation.

This study of different nations in their remoter provinces, and in the simplicity of their native genius, gives a general result which is very satisfactory, to my thinking, and very consoling to the human heart; it is this: All the nations, if you observe them in this fashion, seem much better worth observing; the nearer they are to nature, the more does kindness hold sway in their character; it is only when they are cooped up in towns, it is only when they are changed by cultivation, that they become depraved, that certain faults which were rather coarse than injurious are exchanged for pleasant but pernicious vices.

This study of different countries in their remote regions, and in the straightforwardness of their native character, leads to a conclusion that I find very satisfying and comforting to the human spirit: All nations, when examined this way, seem much more interesting to observe; the closer they are to nature, the more kindness dominates their character; it’s only when they get stuck in cities, and only when they are transformed by civilization, that they become corrupted, trading certain rough faults for charming but harmful vices.

From this observation we see another advantage in the mode of travel I suggest; for young men, sojourning less in the big towns which are horribly corrupt, are less likely to catch the infection of vice; among simpler people and less numerous company, they will preserve a surer judgment, a healthier taste, and better morals. Besides this contagion of vice is hardly to be feared for Emile; he has everything to protect him from it. Among all the precautions I have taken, I reckon much on the love he bears in his heart.

From this observation, we see another advantage in the way of travel I suggest; young men who spend less time in the big cities, which are terribly corrupt, are less likely to catch the infection of vice. Among simpler people and smaller groups, they will maintain better judgment, healthier tastes, and stronger morals. Moreover, the risk of vice hardly concerns Emile; he has everything to guard him against it. Among all the precautions I've taken, I rely heavily on the love he carries in his heart.

We do not know the power of true love over youthful desires, because we are ourselves as ignorant of it as they are, and those who have control over the young turn them from true love. Yet a young man must either love or fall into bad ways. It is easy to be deceived by appearances. You will quote any number of young men who are said to live very chastely without love; but show me one grown man, a real man, who can truly say that his youth was thus spent? In all our virtues, all our duties, people are content with appearances; for my own part I want the reality, and I am much mistaken if there is any other way of securing it beyond the means I have suggested.

We don’t really understand the power of true love over youthful desires because we are just as clueless about it as the young are, and those who have influence over the youth steer them away from true love. However, a young man must either love or go down a bad path. It's easy to be misled by surface appearances. You can name plenty of young men who are said to live very chaste lives without love; but show me one grown man, a real man, who can honestly claim that he spent his youth that way? In all our virtues and responsibilities, people are satisfied with pretenses; for my part, I want the real thing, and I would be very surprised if there’s any other way to achieve it than through the means I’ve suggested.

The idea of letting Emile fall in love before taking him on his travels is not my own. It was suggested to me by the following incident.

The idea of letting Emile fall in love before taking him on his travels isn’t mine. It came to me from the following incident.

I was in Venice calling on the tutor of a young Englishman. It was winter and we were sitting round the fire. The tutor’s letters were brought from the post office. He glanced at them, and then read them aloud to his pupil. They were in English; I understood not a word, but while he was reading I saw the young man tear some fine point lace ruffles which he was wearing, and throw them in the fire one after another, as quietly as he could, so that no one should see it. Surprised at this whim, I looked at his face and thought I perceived some emotion; but the external signs of passion, though much alike in all men, have national differences which may easily lead one astray. Nations have a different language of facial expression as well as of speech. I waited till the letters were finished and then showing the tutor the bare wrists of his pupil, which he did his best to hide, I said, “May I ask the meaning of this?”

I was in Venice visiting the tutor of a young Englishman. It was winter, and we were sitting around the fire. The tutor’s letters were delivered from the post office. He glanced at them and then read them aloud to his pupil. They were in English; I didn’t understand a word, but while he was reading, I noticed the young man tearing at some fine lace ruffles he was wearing and quietly throwing them into the fire, one by one, so no one would see. Surprised by this behavior, I looked at his face and thought I saw some emotion. However, the outward signs of passion, although similar in all men, have national differences that can easily mislead you. Different nations have their own languages of facial expression as well as speech. I waited until he finished reading the letters, and then, showing the tutor the bare wrists of his pupil, which he tried to hide, I said, “May I ask what this means?”

The tutor seeing what had happened began to laugh; he embraced his pupil with an air of satisfaction and, with his consent, he gave me the desired explanation.

The tutor, seeing what had happened, started to laugh; he hugged his student with a sense of satisfaction and, with his agreement, he gave me the explanation I wanted.

“The ruffles,” said he, “which Mr. John has just torn to pieces, were a present from a lady in this town, who made them for him not long ago. Now you must know that Mr. John is engaged to a young lady in his own country, with whom he is greatly in love, and she well deserves it. This letter is from the lady’s mother, and I will translate the passage which caused the destruction you beheld.

“The ruffles,” he said, “that Mr. John just ripped apart were a gift from a woman in this town who made them for him recently. You should know that Mr. John is engaged to a young woman in his homeland, and he is very much in love with her, and she truly deserves it. This letter is from the young lady’s mother, and I will translate the part that led to the destruction you saw.

“‘Lucy is always at work upon Mr. John’s ruffles. Yesterday Miss Betty Roldham came to spend the afternoon and insisted on doing some of her work. I knew that Lucy was up very early this morning and I wanted to see what she was doing; I found her busy unpicking what Miss Betty had done. She would not have a single stitch in her present done by any hand but her own.’”

“‘Lucy is always working on Mr. John’s ruffles. Yesterday, Miss Betty Roldham came over to spend the afternoon and insisted on helping out. I knew that Lucy had been up very early this morning, so I wanted to see what she was doing; I found her busy taking out the stitches that Miss Betty had done. She wouldn’t let anyone else’s hands touch her project.’”

Mr. John went to fetch another pair of ruffles, and I said to his tutor: “Your pupil has a very good disposition; but tell me is not the letter from Miss Lucy’s mother a put up job? Is it not an expedient of your designing against the lady of the ruffles?” “No,” said he, “it is quite genuine; I am not so artful as that; I have made use of simplicity and zeal, and God has blessed my efforts.”

Mr. John went to get another pair of ruffles, and I said to his tutor: “Your student has a really good character, but tell me, isn’t the letter from Miss Lucy’s mother a setup? Isn’t it a trick you’re pulling against the lady with the ruffles?” “No,” he replied, “it’s completely genuine; I’m not that crafty. I’ve relied on honesty and enthusiasm, and God has blessed my efforts.”

This incident with regard to the young man stuck in my mind; it was sure to set a dreamer like me thinking.

This incident with the young man stayed in my mind; it was bound to make a dreamer like me reflect.

But it is time we finished. Let us take Mr. John back to Miss Lucy, or rather Emile to Sophy. He brings her a heart as tender as ever, and a more enlightened mind, and he returns to his native land all the bettor for having made acquaintance with foreign governments through their vices and foreign nations through their virtues. I have even taken care that he should associate himself with some man of worth in every nation, by means of a treaty of hospitality after the fashion of the ancients, and I shall not be sorry if this acquaintance is kept up by means of letters. Not only may this be useful, not only is it always pleasant to have a correspondent in foreign lands, it is also an excellent antidote against the sway of patriotic prejudices, to which we are liable all through our life, and to which sooner or later we are more or less enslaved. Nothing is better calculated to lessen the hold of such prejudices than a friendly interchange of opinions with sensible people whom we respect; they are free from our prejudices and we find ourselves face to face with theirs, and so we can set the one set of prejudices against the other and be safe from both. It is not the same thing to have to do with strangers in our own country and in theirs. In the former case there is always a certain amount of politeness which either makes them conceal their real opinions, or makes them think more favourably of our country while they are with us; when they get home again this disappears, and they merely do us justice. I should be very glad if the foreigner I consult has seen my country, but I shall not ask what he thinks of it till he is at home again.

But it’s time we wrapped things up. Let’s take Mr. John back to Miss Lucy, or rather, Emile to Sophy. He returns to her with a heart as tender as ever and a more open-minded perspective, having gained insights from foreign governments through their flaws and from foreign nations through their strengths. I’ve made sure he connects with some respectable person in each country through a hospitality agreement that’s reminiscent of ancient customs, and I wouldn’t mind if this friendship continued through letters. Not only could this be beneficial, but it’s always nice to have a pen pal in another country. It also serves as a great way to combat patriotic biases, which we all face throughout our lives and can become trapped by. Nothing helps to diminish the impact of such biases like a friendly exchange of ideas with smart individuals we admire; they don’t share our biases, and we confront theirs, allowing us to weigh one set of opinions against the other and protect ourselves from both. It’s different interacting with strangers in our own country versus in theirs. In the first case, there’s often a level of politeness that either causes them to hide their true opinions or encourages them to view our country in a better light while they are here; when they return home, this politeness fades, and they simply give us an honest assessment. I’d be very pleased if the foreigner I consult has visited my country, but I won’t ask for their opinion until they’re back home.

When we have spent nearly two years travelling in a few of the great countries and many of the smaller countries of Europe, when we have learnt two or three of the chief languages, when we have seen what is really interesting in natural history, government, arts, or men, Emile, devoured by impatience, reminds me that our time is almost up. Then I say, “Well, my friend, you remember the main object of our journey; you have seen and observed; what is the final result of your observations? What decision have you come to?” Either my method is wrong, or he will answer me somewhat after this fashion—

When we've spent nearly two years traveling through a few of the major countries and many of the smaller ones in Europe, when we've learned two or three of the main languages, when we've experienced what’s truly interesting in nature, government, arts, or people, Emile, filled with impatience, reminds me that our time is nearly up. Then I say, “Well, my friend, do you remember the main purpose of our journey? You’ve seen and observed; what’s the final outcome of your observations? What conclusion have you reached?” Either my approach is off, or he responds to me somewhat like this—

“What decision have I come to? I have decided to be what you made me; of my own free will I will add no fetters to those imposed upon me by nature and the laws. The more I study the works of men in their institutions, the more clearly I see that, in their efforts after independence, they become slaves, and that their very freedom is wasted in vain attempts to assure its continuance. That they may not be carried away by the flood of things, they form all sorts of attachments; then as soon as they wish to move forward they are surprised to find that everything drags them back. It seems to me that to set oneself free we need do nothing, we need only continue to desire freedom. My master, you have made me free by teaching me to yield to necessity. Let her come when she will, I follow her without compulsion; I lay hold of nothing to keep me back. In our travels I have sought for some corner of the earth where I might be absolutely my own; but where can one dwell among men without being dependent on their passions? On further consideration I have discovered that my desire contradicted itself; for were I to hold to nothing else, I should at least hold to the spot on which I had settled; my life would be attached to that spot, as the dryads were attached to their trees. I have discovered that the words liberty and empire are incompatible; I can only be master of a cottage by ceasing to be master of myself.

“What decision have I come to? I have decided to be what you made me; of my own free will, I will not add any restrictions to those imposed on me by nature and the laws. The more I study how people operate within their institutions, the clearer it becomes that, in their pursuit of independence, they become slaves, and their freedom is often wasted on futile efforts to maintain it. To avoid being swept away by life's chaos, they form all sorts of attachments; then, when they want to move forward, they are shocked to find that everything pulls them back. It seems to me that to set ourselves free, we need to do nothing more than continue to desire freedom. My master, you have made me free by teaching me to accept necessity. Let it come when it will; I follow it without feeling forced; I hold onto nothing that could keep me back. In our travels, I have searched for some corner of the earth where I could be absolutely my own, but where can one live among people without being influenced by their passions? Upon further reflection, I realize that my desire contradicts itself; for if I were to hold onto nothing else, I would still hold onto the place where I settled; my life would be tied to that spot, just as the dryads were tied to their trees. I've discovered that the concepts of liberty and control are mutually exclusive; I can only be the master of a cottage by giving up being the master of myself.”

     “‘Hoc erat in votis, modus agri non ita magnus.’
          Horace, lib. ii., sat. vi.
“‘This was in my prayers, a piece of land not so large.’  
          Horace, lib. ii., sat. vi.

“I remember that my property was the origin of our inquiries. You argued very forcibly that I could not keep both my wealth and my liberty; but when you wished me to be free and at the same time without needs, you desired two incompatible things, for I could only be independent of men by returning to dependence on nature. What then shall I do with the fortune bequeathed to me by my parents? To begin with, I will not be dependent on it; I will cut myself loose from all the ties which bind me to it; if it is left in my hands, I shall keep it; if I am deprived of it, I shall not be dragged away with it. I shall not trouble myself to keep it, but I shall keep steadfastly to my own place. Rich or poor, I shall be free. I shall be free not merely in this country or in that; I shall be free in any part of the world. All the chains of prejudice are broken; as far as I am concerned I know only the bonds of necessity. I have been trained to endure them from my childhood, and I shall endure them until death, for I am a man; and why should I not wear those chains as a free man, for I should have to wear them even if I were a slave, together with the additional fetters of slavery?

“I remember that my property was the starting point of our discussions. You strongly argued that I couldn’t have both my wealth and my freedom; but when you wanted me to be free while also having no needs, you were asking for two contradictory things, because I could only be independent from people by going back to depending on nature. So what should I do with the fortune my parents left me? First of all, I won’t rely on it; I will sever all the ties that connect me to it. If it stays in my hands, I’ll keep it; if I lose it, I won’t be pulled down with it. I won’t stress over keeping it, but I’ll firmly hold my own position. Whether rich or poor, I’ll be free. I’ll be free not just in this country or that; I’ll be free anywhere in the world. All the chains of prejudice are broken; as far as I’m concerned, I know only the chains of necessity. I’ve been taught to endure them since childhood, and I’ll endure them until I die, because I’m a man; and why shouldn’t I wear those chains as a free man? I’d have to wear them even if I were a slave, along with the extra shackles of slavery.”

“What matters my place in the world? What matters it where I am? Wherever there are men, I am among my brethren; wherever there are none, I am in my own home. So long as I may be independent and rich, and have wherewithal to live, and I shall live. If my wealth makes a slave of me, I shall find it easy to renounce it. I have hands to work, and I shall get a living. If my hands fail me, I shall live if others will support me; if they forsake me I shall die; I shall die even if I am not forsaken, for death is not the penalty of poverty, it is a law of nature. Whensoever death comes I defy it; it shall never find me making preparations for life; it shall never prevent me having lived.

"What does my place in the world matter? Where I am doesn’t matter. Wherever there are people, I’m among my peers; wherever there aren’t any, I’m in my own space. As long as I can be independent and comfortable, and have what I need to live, I will thrive. If my wealth turns me into a slave, it will be easy to give it up. I have hands to work, and I will earn a living. If my hands fail me, I’ll survive if others help me; if they abandon me, I’ll die; I’ll die even if I’m not abandoned, because death isn’t a punishment for being poor, it’s a law of nature. Whenever death comes, I challenge it; it will never find me preparing for life; it will never stop me from having lived."

“My father, this is my decision. But for my passions, I should be in my manhood independent as God himself, for I only desire what is and I should never fight against fate. At least, there is only one chain, a chain which I shall ever wear, a chain of which I may be justly proud. Come then, give me my Sophy, and I am free.”

“My father, this is my choice. For my passions, I should be independent in my adulthood like God himself, because I only want what is meant to be and I should never go against fate. At least, there’s only one chain I’ll ever wear, a chain I can be proud of. So, please give me my Sophy, and I will be free.”

“Dear Emile, I am glad indeed to hear you speak like a man, and to behold the feelings of your heart. At your age this exaggerated unselfishness is not unpleasing. It will decrease when you have children of your own, and then you will be just what a good father and a wise man ought to be. I knew what the result would be before our travels; I knew that when you saw our institutions you would be far from reposing a confidence in them which they do not deserve. In vain do we seek freedom under the power of the laws. The laws! Where is there any law? Where is there any respect for law? Under the name of law you have everywhere seen the rule of self-interest and human passion. But the eternal laws of nature and of order exist. For the wise man they take the place of positive law; they are written in the depths of his heart by conscience and reason; let him obey these laws and be free; for there is no slave but the evil-doer, for he always does evil against his will. Liberty is not to be found in any form of government, she is in the heart of the free man, he bears her with him everywhere. The vile man bears his slavery in himself; the one would be a slave in Geneva, the other free in Paris.

“Dear Emile, I’m really glad to hear you talk like a man and to see the feelings in your heart. At your age, this intense selflessness is quite admirable. It will fade when you have kids of your own, and then you will become exactly what a good father and a wise man should be. I knew what the outcome would be before our travels; I knew that when you saw our institutions, you wouldn’t place any trust in them, which they don’t deserve. It’s pointless to seek freedom under the power of the laws. The laws! Where is there any law? Where is there any respect for the law? Under the guise of law, you’ve seen the dominance of self-interest and human passion everywhere. But the eternal laws of nature and order exist. For the wise person, they replace positive law; they’re written deep in his heart by conscience and reason; if he obeys these laws, he is free; for there is no slave except the wrongdoer, as he always acts against his will. Liberty isn’t found in any government system; it lives in the heart of the free individual, who carries it with him everywhere. The vile person carries his slavery within himself; one would be a slave in Geneva, while the other would be free in Paris.”

“If I spoke to you of the duties of a citizen, you would perhaps ask me, ‘Which is my country?’ And you would think you had put me to confusion. Yet you would be mistaken, dear Emile, for he who has no country has, at least, the land in which he lives. There is always a government and certain so-called laws under which he has lived in peace. What matter though the social contract has not been observed, if he has been protected by private interest against the general will, if he has been secured by public violence against private aggressions, if the evil he has beheld has taught him to love the good, and if our institutions themselves have made him perceive and hate their own iniquities? Oh, Emile, where is the man who owes nothing to the land in which he lives? Whatever that land may be, he owes to it the most precious thing possessed by man, the morality of his actions and the love of virtue. Born in the depths of a forest he would have lived in greater happiness and freedom; but being able to follow his inclinations without a struggle there would have been no merit in his goodness, he would not have been virtuous, as he may be now, in spite of his passions. The mere sight of order teaches him to know and love it. The public good, which to others is a mere pretext, is a real motive for him. He learns to fight against himself and to prevail, to sacrifice his own interest to the common weal. It is not true that he gains nothing from the laws; they give him courage to be just, even in the midst of the wicked. It is not true that they have failed to make him free; they have taught him to rule himself.

“If I talked to you about the responsibilities of being a citizen, you might ask me, ‘Which is my country?’ And you would think you had caught me off guard. But you would be wrong, dear Emile, because someone without a country at least has the land they live on. There's always a government and certain so-called laws under which they have lived in peace. What does it matter if the social contract hasn't been honored, if they've been protected by personal interest against the general will, if they've been shielded by public force against private attacks, if the negativity they've seen has taught them to appreciate goodness, and if our institutions have made them aware of and detest their own injustices? Oh, Emile, where is the person who owes nothing to the land they inhabit? No matter where that land is, they owe it the most precious thing a person has: the morality of their actions and the love of virtue. Born deep in a forest, they might have lived in greater happiness and freedom; but being able to follow their inclinations without struggle would mean their goodness lacked merit. They wouldn't be virtuous, as they can be now, despite their passions. Just seeing order teaches them to recognize and appreciate it. The public good, which to others might be just a cover, is a genuine motivation for them. They learn to fight against themselves and to win, to sacrifice their own interests for the common good. It's not true that they gain nothing from the laws; they give them the courage to be just, even among the wicked. It's not true that they haven't become free; they've learned to govern themselves."

“Do not say therefore, ‘What matter where I am?’ It does matter that you should be where you can best do your duty; and one of these duties is to love your native land. Your fellow-countrymen protected you in childhood; you should love them in your manhood. You should live among them, or at least you should live where you can serve them to the best of your power, and where they know where to find you if ever they are in need of you. There are circumstances in which a man may be of more use to his fellow-countrymen outside his country than within it. Then he should listen only to his own zeal and should bear his exile without a murmur; that exile is one of his duties. But you, dear Emile, you have not undertaken the painful task of telling men the truth, you must live in the midst of your fellow-creatures, cultivating their friendship in pleasant intercourse; you must be their benefactor, their pattern; your example will do more than all our books, and the good they see you do will touch them more deeply than all our empty words.

“Don't say, ‘Does it really matter where I am?’ It does matter that you should be where you can best fulfill your responsibilities; and one of those responsibilities is to love your homeland. Your fellow countrymen supported you in your childhood; you should love them in your adulthood. You should live among them, or at least you should live where you can serve them to the best of your ability, and where they know how to reach you if they ever need you. There are situations where a person might be more helpful to their fellow countrymen outside their homeland than within it. In that case, he should follow his own passion and accept his exile without complaint; that exile is part of his duties. But you, dear Emile, you have not taken on the difficult task of revealing the truth to people; you need to live among your fellow beings, nurturing their friendship through enjoyable interactions; you must be their benefactor, their role model; your example will be more effective than all our books, and the good they see you doing will resonate with them more deeply than all our meaningless words.”

“Yet I do not exhort you to live in a town; on the contrary, one of the examples which the good should give to others is that of a patriarchal, rural life, the earliest life of man, the most peaceful, the most natural, and the most attractive to the uncorrupted heart. Happy is the land, my young friend, where one need not seek peace in the wilderness! But where is that country? A man of good will finds it hard to satisfy his inclinations in the midst of towns, where he can find few but frauds and rogues to work for. The welcome given by the towns to those idlers who flock to them to seek their fortunes only completes the ruin of the country, when the country ought really to be repopulated at the cost of the towns. All the men who withdraw from high society are useful just because of their withdrawal, since its vices are the result of its numbers. They are also useful when they can bring with them into the desert places life, culture, and the love of their first condition. I like to think what benefits Emile and Sophy, in their simple home, may spread about them, what a stimulus they may give to the country, how they may revive the zeal of the unlucky villagers.

“Yet I’m not suggesting you live in a city; on the contrary, one of the best examples for the good to show others is that of a simple, rural life—the earliest way of life for humans, the most peaceful, the most natural, and the most appealing to an untainted heart. Blessed is the land, my young friend, where you don’t have to seek peace in the wilderness! But where is that place? A person with good intentions struggles to fulfill their desires in the midst of cities, where they encounter few but tricksters and con artists to work for. The welcome given by urban areas to those who come looking for their fortune only adds to the downfall of the countryside, when it really should be revitalized at the expense of the cities. All the people who step away from high society are valuable just by doing so, since its vices stem from its sheer numbers. They also contribute positively when they can bring life, culture, and affection for their original way of living into the remote areas. I like to imagine the benefits that Emile and Sophy, in their simple home, might spread around them, the inspiration they could provide to the countryside, and how they could reignite the enthusiasm of the unfortunate villagers.”

“In fancy I see the population increasing, the land coming under cultivation, the earth clothed with fresh beauty. Many workers and plenteous crops transform the labours of the fields into holidays; I see the young couple in the midst of the rustic sports which they have revived, and I hear the shouts of joy and the blessings of those about them. Men say the golden age is a fable; it always will be for those whose feelings and taste are depraved. People do not really regret the golden age, for they do nothing to restore it. What is needed for its restoration? One thing only, and that is an impossibility; we must love the golden age.

“In my imagination, I see the population growing, the land being cultivated, and the earth adorned with fresh beauty. Many workers and abundant crops turn the hard work of the fields into celebrations; I see a young couple enjoying the rustic festivities they've revived, and I hear the cheers of joy and the blessings from those around them. Some say the golden age is just a myth; it will always seem that way to those with twisted feelings and tastes. People don’t truly mourn the golden age, because they do nothing to bring it back. What do we need to restore it? Just one thing, which is impossible; we must cherish the golden age.”

“Already it seems to be reviving around Sophy’s home; together you will only complete what her worthy parents have begun. But, dear Emile, you must not let so pleasant a life give you a distaste for sterner duties, if every they are laid upon you; remember that the Romans sometimes left the plough to become consul. If the prince or the state calls you to the service of your country, leave all to fulfil the honourable duties of a citizen in the post assigned to you. If you find that duty onerous, there is a sure and honourable means of escaping from it; do your duty so honestly that it will not long be left in your hands. Moreover, you need not fear the difficulties of such a test; while there are men of our own time, they will not summon you to serve the state.”

“Already it seems to be coming to life around Sophy’s home; together you will just finish what her admirable parents have started. But, dear Emile, you must not let such a pleasant life make you dislike tougher responsibilities if they ever fall on you; remember that the Romans sometimes left the farm to become consul. If the prince or the state calls you to serve your country, put everything aside to fulfill the honorable duties of a citizen in the role given to you. If you find that duty burdensome, there’s a reliable and honorable way to escape it; do your job so well that it won’t stay in your hands for long. Plus, you don't need to worry about the challenges of such a test; as long as there are people like us around, they won't call on you to serve the state.”

Why may I not paint the return of Emile to Sophy and the end of their love, or rather the beginning of their wedded love! A love founded on esteem which will last with life itself, on virtues which will not fade with fading beauty, on fitness of character which gives a charm to intercourse, and prolongs to old age the delights of early love. But all such details would be pleasing but not useful, and so far I have not permitted myself to give attractive details unless I thought they would be useful. Shall I abandon this rule when my task is nearly ended? No, I feel that my pen is weary. Too feeble for such prolonged labours, I should abandon this if it were not so nearly completed; if it is not to be left imperfect it is time it were finished.

Why can't I depict Emile's return to Sophy and the end of their love, or more accurately, the beginning of their married love? A love built on respect that will last a lifetime, based on virtues that won't fade with passing beauty, and on compatible characters that add charm to their interactions, keeping the joys of young love alive into old age. But all those details would be nice but not necessary, and until now I've refrained from including appealing details unless I believed they served a purpose. Should I break this rule now that my work is almost done? No, I sense my pen is tired. Too weak for such extended work, I would stop if I weren't so close to finishing; if it's not meant to be left incomplete, it's time to wrap it up.

At last I see the happy day approaching, the happiest day of Emile’s life and my own; I see the crown of my labours, I begin to appreciate their results. The noble pair are united till death do part; heart and lips confirm no empty vows; they are man and wife. When they return from the church, they follow where they are led; they know not where they are, whither they are going, or what is happening around them. They heed nothing, they answer at random; their eyes are troubled and they see nothing. Oh, rapture! Oh, human weakness! Man is overwhelmed by the feeling of happiness, he is not strong enough to bear it.

Finally, I see the happy day coming—the happiest day of Emile’s life and mine. I can see the culmination of my efforts and start to appreciate their results. The noble couple is united until death parts them; their hearts and lips confirm their vows with sincerity; they are officially husband and wife. When they come back from the church, they follow wherever they are guided; they don’t know where they are, where they’re heading, or what’s going on around them. They notice nothing, respond at random; their eyes are troubled, and they see nothing. Oh, the joy! Oh, human frailty! A person is overwhelmed by the feeling of happiness; they are not strong enough to handle it.

There are few people who know how to talk to the newly-married couple. The gloomy propriety of some and the light conversation of others seem to me equally out of place. I would rather their young hearts were left to themselves, to abandon themselves to an agitation which is not without its charm, rather than that they should be so cruelly distressed by a false modesty, or annoyed by coarse witticisms which, even if they appealed to them at other times, are surely out of place on such a day.

There are few people who know how to talk to a newly married couple. The stiff formality of some and the casual chatter of others both feel equally inappropriate to me. I’d prefer that their young hearts be allowed to feel their emotions freely, experiencing a kind of turmoil that has its own beauty, rather than being uncomfortably constrained by fake modesty or bothered by crude jokes that, even if they seemed funny at other times, are definitely out of place on a day like this.

I behold our young people, wrapped in a pleasant languor, giving no heed to what is said. Shall I, who desire that they should enjoy all the days of their life, shall I let them lose this precious day? No, I desire that they shall taste its pleasures and enjoy them. I rescue them from the foolish crowd, and walk with them in some quiet place; I recall them to themselves by speaking of them I wish to speak, not merely to their ears, but to their hearts, and I know that there is only one subject of which they can think to-day.

I see our young people, lost in a pleasant daze, not paying attention to what's being said. Should I, who want them to enjoy every day of their lives, allow them to waste this valuable day? No, I want them to savor its delights and truly appreciate them. I pull them away from the mindless crowd and take them to a peaceful spot; I bring them back to themselves by talking about what I want to share, aiming not just at their ears but at their hearts. I know there's only one thing on their minds today.

“My children,” say I, taking a hand of each, “it is three years since I beheld the birth of the pure and vigorous passion which is your happiness to-day. It has gone on growing; your eyes tell me that it has reached its highest point; it must inevitably decline.” My readers can fancy the raptures, the anger, the vows of Emile, and the scornful air with which Sophy withdraws her hand from mine; how their eyes protest that they will adore each other till their latest breath. I let them have their way; then I continue:

“My children,” I say, holding a hand of each, “it has been three years since I witnessed the birth of the pure and vigorous passion that is your happiness today. It has continued to grow; your eyes tell me it has reached its peak; it will inevitably decline.” My readers can imagine the ecstasy, the anger, the promises from Emile, and the dismissive way Sophy pulls her hand away from mine; how their eyes insist they will love each other until their last breath. I let them have their moment; then I continue:

“I have often thought that if the happiness of love could continue in marriage, we should find a Paradise upon earth. So far this has never been. But if it were not quite impossible, you two are quite worthy to set an example you have not received, an example which few married couples could follow. My children, shall I tell you what I think is the way, and the only way, to do it?”

“I’ve often thought that if the joy of love could last in marriage, we would discover a paradise on earth. So far, that hasn’t happened. But if it weren’t totally impossible, you two are definitely worthy of setting an example that you haven’t yet seen, an example that few married couples could follow. My children, should I tell you what I believe is the way, and the only way, to achieve it?”

They look at one another and smile at my simplicity. Emile thanks me curtly for my prescription, saying that he thinks Sophy has a better, at any rate it is good enough for him. Sophy agrees with him and seems just as certain. Yet in spite of her mockery, I think I see a trace of curiosity. I study Emile; his eager eyes are fixed upon his wife’s beauty; he has no curiosity for anything else; and he pays little heed to what I say. It is my turn to smile, and I say to myself, “I will soon get your attention.”

They look at each other and smile at my naivety. Emile thanks me shortly for my prescription, saying he thinks Sophy has a better one; at least it's good enough for him. Sophy agrees and seems just as confident. Yet despite her teasing, I think I see a hint of curiosity. I watch Emile; his eager eyes are focused on his wife’s beauty; he has no interest in anything else and barely listens to what I say. It’s my turn to smile, and I tell myself, “I’ll soon grab your attention.”

The almost imperceptible difference between these two hidden impulses is characteristic of a real difference between the two sexes; it is that men are generally less constant than women, and are sooner weary of success in love. A woman foresees man’s future inconstancy, and is anxious; it is this which makes her more jealous. [Footnote: In France it is the wives who first emancipate themselves; and necessarily so, for having very little heart, and only desiring attention, when a husband ceases to pay them attention they care very little for himself. In other countries it is not so; it is the husband who first emancipates himself; and necessarily so, for women, faithful, but foolish, importune men with their desires and only disgust them. There may be plenty of exceptions to these general truths; but I still think they are truths.] When his passion begins to cool she is compelled to pay him the attentions he used to bestow on her for her pleasure; she weeps, it is her turn to humiliate herself, and she is rarely successful. Affection and kind deeds rarely win hearts, and they hardly ever win them back. I return to my prescription against the cooling of love in marriage.

The almost unnoticeable difference between these two hidden urges reflects a real distinction between the sexes; generally, men tend to be less consistent than women and grow weary of successful romantic relationships more quickly. A woman anticipates a man's future inconsistency and becomes anxious, which makes her more jealous. [Footnote: In France, it's typically the wives who first gain their independence; understandably so, since they have little emotional attachment and only seek attention. When a husband stops giving them attention, they care very little for him. In other countries, it works differently; it’s the husband who first seeks independence, which is also understandable, as women, loyal but naive, overwhelm men with their desires and only push them away. There may be many exceptions to these general truths, but I still believe they hold true.] When a man's passion starts to fade, she feels forced to give him the attention he once gave her for her enjoyment; she cries, and it becomes her turn to lower herself, which rarely works out for her. Love and kind acts seldom win hearts back, and they hardly ever reclaim them. I return to my advice on preventing the decline of love in marriage.

“It is plain and simple,” I continue. “It consists in remaining lovers when you are husband and wife.”

“It’s straightforward,” I continue. “It means staying in love even when you’re married.”

“Indeed,” said Emile, laughing at my secret, “we shall not find that hard.”

“Sure,” Emile said, laughing about my secret, “we won’t find that difficult.”

“Perhaps you will find it harder than you think. Pray give me time to explain.

“Maybe you will find it harder than you think. Please give me a moment to explain.”

“Cords too tightly stretched are soon broken. This is what happens when the marriage bond is subjected to too great a strain. The fidelity imposed by it upon husband and wife is the most sacred of all rights; but it gives to each too great a power over the other. Constraint and love do not agree together, and pleasure is not to be had for the asking. Do not blush, Sophy, and do not try to run away. God forbid that I should offend your modesty! But your fate for life is at stake. For so great a cause, permit a conversation between your husband and your father which you would not permit elsewhere.

“Cords that are pulled too tight break easily. This is what happens when the marriage bond is put under too much pressure. The loyalty it demands from both husband and wife is the most sacred right of all; however, it also gives each person too much power over the other. Constraint and love don’t mix well, and you can’t just ask for pleasure. Don’t be embarrassed, Sophy, and don’t try to escape. God forbid that I should offend your modesty! But your lifelong happiness is at stake. For such an important matter, allow a conversation between your husband and your father that you wouldn’t allow otherwise.”

“It is not so much possession as mastery of which people tire, and affection is often more prolonged with regard to a mistress than a wife. How can people make a duty of the tenderest caresses, and a right of the sweetest pledges of love? It is mutual desire which gives the right, and nature knows no other. The law may restrict this right, it cannot extend it. The pleasure is so sweet in itself! Should it owe to sad constraint the power which it cannot gain from its own charms? No, my children, in marriage the hearts are bound, but the bodies are not enslaved. You owe one another fidelity, but not complaisance. Neither of you may give yourself to another, but neither of you belongs to the other except at your own will.

“It’s not so much about having someone as it is about truly understanding them, and often, people feel more affection for a lover than for a spouse. How can anyone turn the most loving gestures into a duty, or make the sweetest promises a right? It's the mutual desire that creates this right, and nature recognizes no other. The law can limit this right, but it can’t broaden it. The pleasure is so delightful in itself! Should it depend on sad restrictions for power that it cannot obtain from its own allure? No, my children, in marriage, hearts are connected, but bodies are not enslaved. You owe each other loyalty, but not obligation. Neither of you can give yourselves to someone else, but neither of you truly owns the other unless you choose to."

“If it is true, dear Emile, that you would always be your wife’s lover, that she should always be your mistress and her own, be a happy but respectful lover; obtain all from love and nothing from duty, and let the slightest favours never be of right but of grace. I know that modesty shuns formal confessions and requires to be overcome; but with delicacy and true love, will the lover ever be mistaken as to the real will? Will not he know when heart and eyes grant what the lips refuse? Let both for ever be master of their person and their caresses, let them have the right to bestow them only at their own will. Remember that even in marriage this pleasure is only lawful when the desire is mutual. Do not be afraid, my children, that this law will keep you apart; on the contrary, it will make both more eager to please, and will prevent satiety. True to one another, nature and love will draw you to each other.”

“If it's true, dear Emile, that you would always be your wife's lover, that she should always be your mistress and her own, be a happy yet respectful lover; get everything from love and nothing from duty, and let even the smallest favors never be taken for granted but be given freely. I know that modesty avoids formal declarations and needs to be gently coaxed; but with sensitivity and true love, will a lover ever be confused about what the other really wants? Won't he know when hearts and eyes give what lips refuse? Let both always have control over themselves and their affection, allowing them to share it only when they choose. Remember that even in marriage, this pleasure is only right when the desire is shared. Don’t worry, my children, that this principle will drive you apart; on the contrary, it will make you both more eager to please each other and will prevent boredom. Being true to one another, nature and love will bring you closer together.”

Emile is angry and cries out against these and similar suggestions. Sophy is ashamed, she hides her face behind her fan and says nothing. Perhaps while she is saying nothing, she is the most annoyed. Yet I insist, without mercy; I make Emile blush for his lack of delicacy; I undertake to be surety for Sophy that she will undertake her share of the treaty. I incite her to speak, you may guess she will not dare to say I am mistaken. Emile anxiously consults the eyes of his young wife; he beholds them, through all her confusion, filled with a, voluptuous anxiety which reassures him against the dangers of trusting her. He flings himself at her feet, kisses with rapture the hand extended to him, and swears that beyond the fidelity he has already promised, he will renounce all other rights over her. “My dear wife,” said he, “be the arbiter of my pleasures as you are already the arbiter of my life and fate. Should your cruelty cost me life itself I would yield to you my most cherished rights. I will owe nothing to your complaisance, but all to your heart.”

Emile is angry and shouts out against these and similar suggestions. Sophy is embarrassed; she hides her face behind her fan and says nothing. Maybe while she isn't speaking, she's the most upset. Still, I press on mercilessly; I make Emile feel ashamed for his lack of tact; I assure Sophy that she will take on her part of the agreement. I urge her to speak, and you can guess she won't dare to say I'm wrong. Emile nervously searches his young wife's eyes; he sees, through all her embarrassment, an anxious desire that reassures him about the risks of trusting her. He throws himself at her feet, passionately kisses the hand she offers him, and swears that besides the loyalty he has already promised, he will give up all other claims over her. “My dear wife,” he says, “be the guide of my pleasures as you’re already the guide of my life and destiny. Even if your cruelty costs me my life, I would give up my most valued rights to you. I will owe nothing to your kindness, but everything to your heart.”

Dear Emile, be comforted; Sophy herself is too generous to let you fall a victim to your generosity.

Dear Emile, take heart; Sophy is too kind to allow you to suffer because of your own generosity.

In the evening, when I am about to leave them, I say in the most solemn tone, “Remember both of you, that you are free, that there is no question of marital rights; believe me, no false deference. Emile will you come home with me? Sophy permits it.” Emile is ready to strike me in his anger. “And you, Sophy, what do you say? Shall I take him away?” The little liar, blushing, answers, “Yes.” A tender and delightful falsehood, better than truth itself!

In the evening, just before I leave them, I say in the most serious tone, “Remember both of you, that you are free, that there’s no issue of marital rights; believe me, no false respect. Emile, will you come home with me? Sophy is okay with it.” Emile looks like he wants to hit me in his anger. “And you, Sophy, what do you say? Should I take him with me?” The little liar, blushing, replies, “Yes.” A sweet and charming lie, better than the truth itself!

The next day. ... Men no longer delight in the picture of bliss; their taste is as much depraved by the corruption of vice as their hearts. They can no longer feel what is touching or perceive what is truly delightful. You who, as a picture of voluptuous joys, see only the happy lovers immersed in pleasure, your picture is very imperfect; you have only its grosser part, the sweetest charms of pleasure are not there. Which of you has seen a young couple, happily married, on the morrow of their marriage? their chaste yet languid looks betray the intoxication of the bliss they have enjoyed, the blessed security of innocence, and the delightful certainty that they will spend the rest of their life together. The heart of man can behold no more rapturous sight; this is the real picture of happiness; you have beheld it a hundred times without heeding it; your hearts are so hard that you cannot love it. Sophy, peaceful and happy, spends the day in the arms of her tender mother; a pleasant resting place, after a night spent in the arms of her husband.

The next day... Men no longer take pleasure in the image of happiness; their taste has been spoiled by the decay of vice just like their hearts. They can’t truly feel what is moving or recognize what is genuinely enjoyable. You who view only the joyful lovers wrapped in pleasure as a depiction of bliss, your perspective is incomplete; you only see the crude surface— the sweetest pleasures are missing from your view. Which of you has witnessed a young couple, happily married, the morning after their wedding? Their innocent yet dreamy gazes reveal the intoxication of the joy they've experienced, the blessed comfort of purity, and the delightful assurance that they will spend their lives together. The sight of this is the most exhilarating for the human heart; this is the true picture of happiness. You’ve seen it a hundred times without acknowledging it; your hearts are so hardened that you cannot appreciate it. Sophy, calm and joyful, spends the day in the embrace of her loving mother; it’s a soothing haven after a night in the arms of her husband.

The day after I am aware of a slight change. Emile tries to look somewhat vexed; but through this pretence I notice such a tender eagerness, and indeed so much submission, that I do not think there is much amiss. As for Sophy she is merrier than she was yesterday; her eyes are sparkling and she looks very well pleased with herself; she is charming to Emile; she ventures to tease him a little and vexes him still more.

The day after, I notice a slight change. Emile tries to look a bit annoyed, but behind that facade, I can see a tender eagerness and a lot of submission, so I don't think anything is wrong. As for Sophy, she's in a better mood than she was yesterday; her eyes are sparkling, and she seems really pleased with herself. She's charming towards Emile, playfully teasing him a little and getting on his nerves even more.

These changes are almost imperceptible, but they do not escape me; I am anxious and I question Emile in private, and I learn that, to his great regret, and in spite of all entreaties, he was not permitted last night to share Sophy’s bed. That haughty lady had made haste to assert her right. An explanation takes place. Emile complains bitterly, Sophy laughs; but at last, seeing that Emile is really getting angry, she looks at him with eyes full of tenderness and love, and pressing my hand, she only says these two words, but in a tone that goes to his heart, “Ungrateful man!” Emile is too stupid to understand. But I understand, and I send Emile away and speak to Sophy privately in her turn.

These changes are almost impossible to notice, but I see them; I'm anxious and I ask Emile in private, and I find out that, to his great disappointment, and despite all his pleas, he wasn’t allowed to share Sophy’s bed last night. That proud lady wasted no time asserting her right. An explanation occurs. Emile complains bitterly, and Sophy laughs; but eventually, seeing that Emile is genuinely getting angry, she gazes at him with eyes full of tenderness and love, and squeezing my hand, she simply says these two words, but in a tone that touches his heart, “Ungrateful man!” Emile is too dense to get it. But I understand, and I send Emile away and speak to Sophy privately in her turn.

“I see,” said I, “the reason for this whim. No one could be more delicate, and no one could use that delicacy so ill. Dear Sophy, do not be anxious, I have given you a man; do not be afraid to treat him as such. You have had the first fruits of his youth; he has not squandered his manhood and it will endure for you. My dear child, I must explain to you why I said what I did in our conversation of the day before yesterday. Perhaps you only understood it as a way of restraining your pleasures to secure their continuance. Oh, Sophy, there was another object, more worthy of my care. When Emile became your husband, he became your head, it is yours to obey; this is the will of nature. When the wife is like Sophy, it is, however, good for the man to be led by her; that is another of nature’s laws, and it is to give you as much authority over his heart, as his sex gives him over your person, that I have made you the arbiter of his pleasures. It will be hard for you, but you will control him if you can control yourself, and what has already happened shows me that this difficult art is not beyond your courage. You will long rule him by love if you make your favours scarce and precious, if you know how to use them aright. If you want to have your husband always in your power, keep him at a distance. But let your sternness be the result of modesty not caprice; let him find you modest not capricious; beware lest in controlling his love you make him doubt your own. Be all the dearer for your favours and all the more respected when you refuse them; let him honour his wife’s chastity, without having to complain of her coldness.

"I get it," I said, "the reason behind this whim. No one could be more delicate, and no one could misuse that delicacy so badly. Dear Sophy, don’t worry, I've given you a man; don’t be afraid to treat him like one. You've experienced the best of his youth; he hasn’t wasted his manhood, and it will last for you. My dear child, I need to explain why I said what I did in our conversation the other day. Maybe you only took it as a way to hold back your pleasures to keep them going. Oh, Sophy, there was another, more important reason for my concern. When Emile became your husband, he became your leader, and you are meant to follow him; that’s how nature intended it. When the wife is like Sophy, it’s actually good for the man to be guided by her; that’s another one of nature's laws, and it’s to give you as much influence over his heart as his gender gives him over your body, that I’ve made you the judge of his pleasures. It will be challenging for you, but you will have control over him if you can control yourself, and what has already happened shows me that this difficult skill isn’t beyond your courage. You will long hold his love if you make your affections rare and valuable, if you know how to use them wisely. If you want your husband always under your influence, keep him at a distance. But let your seriousness come from modesty, not just moodiness; let him see you as modest, not fickle; be careful that in controlling his love, you don’t make him doubt your own. Be all the more cherished for your affections and respected even more when you deny them; let him honor his wife’s virtue without feeling like he has to complain about her distance."

“Thus, my child, he will give you his confidence, he will listen to your opinion, will consult you in his business, and will decide nothing without you. Thus you may recall him to wisdom, if he strays, and bring him back by a gentle persuasion, you may make yourself lovable in order to be useful, you may employ coquetry on behalf of virtue, and love on behalf of reason.

“Therefore, my child, he will trust you, he will value your opinion, consult you about his affairs, and will not make any decisions without your input. In this way, you can guide him back to wisdom if he goes off track, gently persuading him to return. You can make yourself appealing to be helpful, use charm for the sake of virtue, and love for the sake of reason.”

“Do not think that with all this, your art will always serve your purpose. In spite of every precaution pleasures are destroyed by possession, and love above all others. But when love has lasted long enough, a gentle habit takes its place and the charm of confidence succeeds the raptures of passion. Children form a bond between their parents, a bond no less tender and a bond which is sometimes stronger than love itself. When you cease to be Emile’s mistress you will be his friend and wife; you will be the mother of his children. Then instead of your first reticence let there be the fullest intimacy between you; no more separate beds, no more refusals, no more caprices. Become so truly his better half that he can no longer do without you, and if he must leave you, let him feel that he is far from himself. You have made the charms of home life so powerful in your father’s home, let them prevail in your own. Every man who is happy at home loves his wife. Remember that if your husband is happy in his home, you will be a happy wife.

“Don’t think that your art will always fulfill your needs. No matter how careful you are, pleasures are ruined by possession, especially love. But when love lasts long enough, a gentle routine takes over, and the comfort of trust replaces the excitement of passion. Children create a bond between their parents, a bond that is no less tender and sometimes stronger than love itself. When you stop being Emile’s mistress, you’ll become his friend and wife; you’ll be the mother of his children. So instead of your initial shyness, allow for complete intimacy between you; no more separate beds, no more refusals, no more whims. Become such an essential part of his life that he can’t imagine being without you, and if he has to leave, let him feel like he’s lost a part of himself. You’ve made home life so appealing in your father’s home; let it thrive in your own. Every man who is happy at home loves his wife. Remember, if your husband is happy at home, you will be a happy wife.”

“For the present, do not be too hard on your lover; he deserves more consideration; he will be offended by your fears; do not care for his health at the cost of his happiness, and enjoy your own happiness. You must neither wait for disgust nor repulse desire; you must not refuse for the sake of refusing, but only to add to the value of your favours.”

“For now, don’t be too tough on your partner; he deserves more understanding. Your fears will upset him, so don’t prioritize his health over his happiness. Enjoy your own happiness too. Don’t wait for disgust or push away desire; reject him only if it adds value to what you offer.”

Then, taking her back to Emile, I say to her young husband, “One must bear the yoke voluntarily imposed upon oneself. Let your deserts be such that the yoke may be lightened. Above all, sacrifice to the graces, and do not think that sulkiness will make you more amiable.” Peace is soon made, and everybody can guess its terms. The treaty is signed with a kiss, after which I say to my pupil, “Dear Emile, all his life through a man needs a guide and counsellor. So far I have done my best to fulfil that duty; my lengthy task is now ended, and another will undertake this duty. To-day I abdicate the authority which you gave me; henceforward Sophy is your guardian.”

Then, taking her back to Emile, I say to her young husband, “You have to accept the burden you put on yourself willingly. Make your actions such that the burden becomes lighter. Above all, be ready to make sacrifices for kindness, and don’t think that being sulky will make you more likable.” Peace is quickly restored, and everyone can guess its terms. The agreement is sealed with a kiss, after which I say to my student, “Dear Emile, a person always needs a guide and advisor throughout life. I have done my best to fulfill that role; my long task is now complete, and someone else will take over this responsibility. Today, I give up the authority you entrusted to me; from now on, Sophy is your guardian.”

Little by little the first raptures subside and they can peacefully enjoy the delights of their new condition. Happy lovers, worthy husband and wife! To do honour to their virtues, to paint their felicity, would require the history of their lives. How often does my heart throb with rapture when I behold in them the crown of my life’s work! How often do I take their hands in mine blessing God with all my heart! How often do I kiss their clasped hands! How often do their tears of joy fall upon mine! They are touched by my joy and they share my raptures. Their worthy parents see their own youth renewed in that of their children; they begin to live, as it were, afresh in them; or rather they perceive, for the first time, the true value of life; they curse their former wealth, which prevented them from enjoying so delightful a lot when they were young. If there is such a thing as happiness upon earth, you must seek it in our abode.

Little by little, the initial excitement fades, and they can calmly enjoy the pleasures of their new life together. Happy lovers, wonderful husband and wife! To truly honor their virtues and capture their happiness would take the entire story of their lives. How often does my heart race with joy when I see in them the pinnacle of my life's work! How often do I hold their hands in mine, thanking God with all my heart! How often do I kiss their joined hands! How often do their tears of joy fall on mine! They feel my happiness and share in my joy. Their deserving parents see their own youth reflected in their children; they begin to experience life anew through them; or rather, they realize for the first time the true value of life; they regret their past wealth, which kept them from enjoying such a wonderful fate when they were young. If happiness exists on earth, you must find it in our home.

One morning a few months later Emile enters my room and embraces me, saying, “My master, congratulate your son; he hopes soon to have the honour of being a father. What a responsibility will be ours, how much we shall need you! Yet God forbid that I should let you educate the son as you educated the father. God forbid that so sweet and holy a task should be fulfilled by any but myself, even though I should make as good a choice for my child as was made for me! But continue to be the teacher of the young teachers. Advise and control us; we shall be easily led; as long as I live I shall need you. I need you more than ever now that I am taking up the duties of manhood. You have done your own duty; teach me to follow your example, while you enjoy your well-earned leisure.”

One morning a few months later, Emile walks into my room and hugs me, saying, “My master, congratulate your son; he hopes to soon have the honor of being a dad. What a responsibility we’ll have and how much we’ll need you! But God forbid that I let you raise my son the way you raised me. God forbid that such a sweet and sacred job should be done by anyone but me, even if I make as good a choice for my child as was made for me! But please keep being the teacher for the new teachers. Guide and support us; we’ll be easy to lead. As long as I live, I will need you. I need you more than ever now that I’m stepping into my manly duties. You’ve done your own part; teach me to follow your example while you enjoy your well-earned free time.”

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