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Woman in the
Golden Age

By

By

Amelia Gere Mason

Amelia Gere Mason

New York
The Century Co.
1901

New York
The Century Co.
1901


Copyright, 1901, by
The Century Co.

Copyright, 1901, by
The Century Co.


Published October, 1901.

Published October 1901.

THE DEVINNE PRESS.

THE DEVINNE PRESS.


TO THE
REPRESENTATIVE WOMEN
OF TO-DAY

TO THE
REPRESENTATIVE WOMEN
OF TODAY


[Pg vii]

[Pg vii]

PREFACE

In this series of detached essays I have tried to gather and group the most salient and essential facts relating to the character, position, and intellectual attainments of women in the great ages of the world. It is not an easy matter to trace with any exactness the lives of women of classic times, as they were largely ignored by men who chronicled events. If the historians gave them any place at all, it was an insignificant one, concerning only their relations to men, and they were more inclined to sing the praises of those who ministered to masculine caprices than of those distinguished for any merit whatever. There were exceptions in the cases of a few women of very remarkable gifts; but even these were subject to the worst aspersions, for the simple reason that they had the courage of their talents and convictions. This[Pg viii] fashion of considering women only as convenient appendages of men may account largely for the space given to those of more beauty and sensuous charm than decorum—a fact which has doubtless misled after-ages. It accounts also for the reckless flings of satirists and comedians, who were even less to be trusted in early times than they are to-day. Truth compels me to recall more or less the contemptuous attitude of men, as it was too large a factor in determining the position of women to be omitted. But in no case has it been exaggerated, or set down in a spirit of antagonism.

In this series of separate essays, I've tried to gather and organize the most important facts about the character, status, and intellectual achievements of women throughout history. It's not easy to accurately trace the lives of women in ancient times, as they were largely overlooked by the male historians who recorded events. When historians did mention them, it was usually in a trivial way, focusing only on their relationships with men, and they were more likely to praise those who catered to male whims rather than those recognized for their own merits. There were exceptions for a few women with exceptional talents, but even they faced harsh criticism simply for being bold about their abilities and beliefs. This[Pg viii] way of viewing women as mere extensions of men likely explains the emphasis on those with physical beauty and sensual appeal rather than virtue—a fact that has probably misled later generations. It also helps explain the careless sarcasm of satirists and comedians, who were even less trustworthy in ancient times than they are today. I must acknowledge the dismissive attitude of men, as it played a significant role in shaping women's status and cannot be ignored. However, I have not exaggerated this perspective or presented it with a bias against men.

The most striking points in the lives of world-famous women are sufficiently familiar. True or false, they are often quoted in proof of one theory or another. But a few isolated facts gathered at random count for little. It is only in the grouping of many facts of many ages that the real quality of the old types of womanhood can be clearly discerned. One is constantly confronted, however, with discrepancies in the records. This may be readily understood when we consider the impossibility of getting a correct version of things that happen next door to us. Reports of events and estimates of character are about as various as the people who[Pg ix] offer them. One can only accept those which have the most inherent probability, or are given by the chronicler who has the best reputation for veracity. So far as possible, I have relied upon contemporary writers for the facts of their own age; but I am also indebted largely to the research of the great modern historians. In the few classic or Italian translations, I have usually availed myself of those nearest at hand, if they had the stamp of authority, though they might not always be the latest, perhaps not even the best.

The most notable aspects of the lives of world-famous women are well-known. Whether true or false, they're often cited to support various theories. However, a few random facts don't carry much weight. It's only through the collection of numerous facts across different times that we can truly understand the nature of historical womanhood. Yet, we're constantly faced with discrepancies in the records. This is understandable when we think about how difficult it is to get an accurate account of events happening right next to us. Reports of incidents and assessments of character vary as much as the people who present them. We can only accept those that seem most plausible or are provided by the most trustworthy chroniclers. I've tried to depend mainly on contemporary writers for facts from their era, but I have also benefited significantly from the research of great modern historians. In the few classic or Italian translations I've used, I've usually opted for those that were readily available and had a mark of authority, even though they might not always be the most recent or the best.

These essays are limited mainly to the golden ages of Greece, Rome, and the Renaissance, with a brief interlude that serves as a transition from pagan to medieval times. The mantle of the great Italians fell upon the women of the golden age of France, who reached the summit of the power and influence of their sex in the past. The personality and intellectual influence of these women I have considered at length in “The Women of the French Salons.”

These essays primarily focus on the golden ages of Greece, Rome, and the Renaissance, with a short section that transitions from pagan to medieval times. The legacy of the great Italians was taken up by the women of France's golden age, who achieved the peak of power and influence for their gender in history. I have explored the personalities and intellectual impact of these women in detail in “The Women of the French Salons.”

The inevitable “woman question” is not touched except as it may appear in the effort to show, in a small degree, the intellectual quality and influence of some of the representative women of the past, and to vindicate them from charges which are often[Pg x] as untrue as unjust. Without any pretension to profound learning or philosophic criticism, I have simply presented the most significant facts available, with their various settings, and a few plain conclusions which may be insufficient, but which are at least sincere and carefully considered. In estimates of people I have taken the most charitable view possible without sacrificing truth to imagination. It is the safer side in which to err, as the world has always been much more active in the spread of calumny than of praise, especially where women are concerned.

The unavoidable "woman question" isn't addressed except in a limited way to highlight the intellectual contributions and impact of some notable women from the past and to clear them of charges that are often as false as they are unfair.[Pg x] Without claiming any deep expertise or philosophical critique, I've simply laid out the most important facts I could find, along with their contexts, and a few straightforward conclusions that might not be perfect, but are at least honest and thoughtfully considered. In assessing people, I've tried to be as generous as possible without sacrificing truth for fantasy. It’s safer to err on that side, as the world has always been quicker to spread rumors than to give praise, especially when it comes to women.

There is no pretense to historical continuity, or to a serious study of present conditions, in the single modern essay. It simply considers one phase of our own age, which we doubtless claim to be altogether golden.

There’s no pretense of historical continuity or a serious examination of current conditions in the single modern essay. It just looks at one aspect of our own time, which we certainly believe to be completely golden.

The work has been a labor of love. If I have succeeded in throwing any fresh light upon the women of long ago, many of whom are already half mythical, or in giving a clear impression of what we owe them, my long and pleasant hours among old chronicles and forgotten records will not have been in vain.

The work has been a labor of love. If I've managed to shed any new light on the women from the past, many of whom are now almost mythical, or if I've provided a clearer understanding of what we owe them, my long and enjoyable hours spent with old chronicles and forgotten records will have been worth it.

Amelia Gere Mason.

Amelia Gere Mason.

August, 1901.

August 1901.


[Pg xi]

[Pg xi]

CONTENTS

PAGE
Introduction vii
Intro xiii
Women in Greek Poetry 1
Sappho and the First Women’s Club 25
Glances at the Spartan Woman 51
The Athenian Woman, Aspasia, and the First Salon 69
Roman Women's Revolt 105
The "New Woman" of Ancient Rome 137
Famous Women of Imperial Rome 167
Marcella, Paula, and the First Convent 205
The Educated Women of the Renaissance 241
The Literary Courts and Platonic Love 291
Salon and Women's Club 353

[Pg xiii]

INTRODUCTION

It has been quite gravely asserted of late that “woman has just discovered her intellect.” As a result of this we are told with great earnestness that the nineteenth century belonged to her by virtue of conquest, and that she is entering upon a new era of power and intelligence which is to usher in the millennium.

It has been seriously stated recently that "woman has just discovered her intellect." Because of this, we're told with much seriousness that the nineteenth century was hers by right of conquest, and that she is stepping into a new era of power and intelligence that will bring about a brighter future.

On the other hand, we are assured with equal persistency that the divine order of things is being upset: that women are spoiled by over-education; that the time-honored privileges of men are ruthlessly invaded and their mental vigor endangered; that morals are suffering; that all the good old ideals are in process of destruction; and that we have the dismal prospect of being ruled, to our sorrow, by a race of Minervas who neglect their families, if they have any, and insist upon running things in their own way, to the ruin of social order—all of which has been said periodically since the beginning of the world.

On the other hand, we are just as assured that the natural order of things is being disrupted: that women are being spoiled by too much education; that men's long-standing privileges are being aggressively challenged and their mental strength put at risk; that morals are declining; that all the cherished old ideals are being destroyed; and that we face the grim possibility of being governed, much to our regret, by a group of capable women who ignore their families, if they have any, and insist on doing things their own way, leading to the collapse of social order—all of which has been claimed repeatedly since the dawn of time.

[Pg xiv]

[Pg xiv]

With these serious questions I do not attempt to deal any further than to picture, to the best of my ability in a limited space, the position of women in the great ages of the past, and the personality, aspirations, and achievements of a few of their most famous representatives, so far as this is possible after the lapse of centuries. From a multiplicity of facts which point their own moral, each one of us may draw his or her special lessons.

With these serious questions, I won't dig deeper but will instead try to illustrate, as best as I can within this limited space, the role of women in the significant eras of the past, along with the personalities, ambitions, and accomplishments of a few of their most notable figures, as much as possible after so many centuries. From a variety of facts that convey their own lessons, each of us can take away our own insights.

It is quite true that the woman of to-day is putting her intellect to new uses; possibly she has become more vividly conscious of it. We know also that the average intelligence of all classes of women, as well as of men, was never so high as now. But the intrinsic force of the human intellect is not measured by averages. A thousand satellites do not make a sun, though they may shine for ages by the light of one. Then, whatever our achievements may be—and I do not underrate them—it would reflect rather seriously on the feminine mind to suppose that it could lie practically dormant all these centuries, even under the heavy disabilities which were imposed upon it. The fact that women have always been in subjection and on the whole very much oppressed and trampled upon, especially in the early ages, makes it all the more remarkable that they have left so many striking examples, not only of the highest wisdom and intelligence, but of the highest executive power, ever since Deborah[Pg xv] sat as a judge in Israel, Miriam sang immortal songs of heroic deeds, and Semiramis conquered Asia.

It’s true that today's women are using their intellect in new ways; they might be more aware of it than ever. We also know that the average intelligence of women, just like men, is at an all-time high. However, the true strength of the human intellect isn't measured by averages. A thousand satellites don’t make a sun, even if they shine for ages by its light. So, regardless of our accomplishments— and I don’t want to undervalue them— it would be misleading to think that the female mind could remain mostly inactive throughout history, even with all the considerable challenges it faced. The fact that women have often been subjugated and oppressed, especially in ancient times, makes it even more impressive that they have produced so many outstanding examples of not just great wisdom and intelligence, but also remarkable leadership, ever since Deborah[Pg xv] served as a judge in Israel, Miriam sang unforgettable songs of heroic acts, and Semiramis conquered Asia.

No doubt our own deserts are great, and we do well to burn a fair amount of incense to them; but possibly the smoke of it is so dense that we fail to see all the fine things that have been done before us. Other women have been as clever as we are, and as strong, if not individually stronger; many have been as good, a few perhaps have been more wicked than most of us; and the majority have had a great deal more to complain of. “There is nothing new under the sun” was written so long ago that it seems as if there could have been nothing old. Even the “new woman” has her prototypes in the past, who have thought, written, lectured, ruled, asserted themselves, and been honored as well as talked about in their day. Men have prophesied strange revolutions in human affairs because of them, and sometimes have sent them back to the chimney-corner and silence, as one of our own chivalrous writers says they will do again if this irrepressible being who presumes to have opinions makes things too uncomfortable for them. But the world has gone on marrying and giving in marriage, and growing in the main, let us hope, happier and better, while the social condition of women has steadily improved, with an occasional reaction, in spite of the fears of the timid and the sneers of the cynical.

No doubt our own challenges are significant, and we should rightly acknowledge them; but perhaps the smoke from our recognition is so thick that we fail to see all the remarkable things that have been accomplished before us. Other women have been just as intelligent and strong as we are, if not stronger; many have been as virtuous, and a few maybe even more wicked than most of us; and the majority have had far more to complain about. "There is nothing new under the sun" was said so long ago that it feels like there could have been nothing old. Even the "new woman" has her predecessors from the past, who have thought, written, lectured, ruled, asserted themselves, and received both honor and discussion in their time. Men have predicted strange changes in society because of them, and sometimes have pushed them back to the background and silence, as one of our own noble writers says will happen again if this unstoppable figure, who dares to express opinions, makes things too uncomfortable for them. But the world has continued to marry and let others marry, and let’s hope it’s been getting happier and better overall, while the social condition of women has steadily improved, despite occasional setbacks, in spite of the fears of the timid and the sarcasm of the cynical.

[Pg xvi]

[Pg xvi]

It may be safely said that there was not much in the lives of the women of two or three thousand years ago which we should care to repeat. Their field was, as a rule, narrow and restricted, their privileges were few, their burdens and sorrows were many. To go outside the sphere prescribed for them called for great talent and great courage, since respectability was usually regarded as synonymous with insignificance. But even in this aspiring, much-knowing, self-gratulatory, woman-honoring twentieth century, whenever we are told that the feminine intellect is inherently weak and has never created anything worthy of immortality, we point with pride to Sappho, the one woman poet of the world whose claim to the first rank has never been disputed. If we wish to illustrate the social and political influence of woman, we cite Aspasia, the trusted confidante and adviser of the greatest statesmen and philosophers, as well as the presiding genius of the first salon of which we have any knowledge. Yet these women lived in the dawn of the present order of things. We may recall the scholarly mind and masterly executive qualities of Zenobia, which perhaps have never been exceeded; the profound learning and brilliant oratory of Hypatia, who was torn in pieces because of them by the fanatical Alexandrian mob; Cornelia, gifted and austere, adding the courage of a Stoic to the tenderness of a mother; Livia, wise, tactful, and[Pg xvii] far-seeing; Marcella, saint and grande dame, a savante, a leader, and a heroine. Other figures of the classic ages, grave and thoughtful, clever and brilliant, or mystical and sweet, pass in stately array before us, each supreme in her own field. It may have been an intellectual gift that she had; it may have been a masterful character, or a heroic virtue, or a spirit of sublime self-sacrifice, or a faith so exalted that it has illuminated all the centuries. Each of these traits has its illustrious examples among the women of long ago.

It’s safe to say that there wasn’t much in the lives of women two or three thousand years ago that we would want to replicate. Generally, their world was narrow and limited, they had few privileges, and they faced many burdens and sorrows. Stepping outside the roles assigned to them took a lot of talent and courage, as being respectable was often seen as the same as being insignificant. Yet, even in this ambitious, knowledgeable, self-congratulatory, and woman-respecting twentieth century, whenever we hear that women's intellect is inherently weak and has never produced anything worthy of lasting fame, we proudly point to Sappho, the only woman poet whose status at the top has never been questioned. To illustrate women's social and political influence, we mention Aspasia, the trusted confidante and advisor to the greatest statesmen and philosophers, as well as the leading figure of the first known salon. These women lived in the early stages of the current order. We can remember Zenobia’s scholarly mind and exceptional leadership skills, perhaps unmatched; Hypatia’s profound knowledge and brilliant speeches, which led to her being killed by the fanatical mob in Alexandria; Cornelia, gifted yet stern, who combined Stoic courage with maternal tenderness; Livia, wise, tactful, and insightful; and Marcella, a saint and a respected lady, a learned one, a leader, and a hero. Other figures from classical times, serious and contemplative, clever and brilliant, or mystical and gentle, pass before us in dignified procession, each exceptional in her own field. Whether it was an intellectual talent, strong character, heroic virtue, sublime self-sacrifice, or a faith so elevated that it lit up the centuries, each of these qualities has its historic examples among women of the past.

Passing ages of darkness, in which here and there the talent of a Countess Matilda or an Héloïse shone brightly through the mists of ignorance and superstition, we find the women of a new era delving side by side with men in the mines of classic lore, and bringing to their work the same enthusiasm, the same untiring patience. We find them, too, versed in all the learning of their time. If we are disposed to plume ourselves overmuch on our intellectual glories, it may serve as a lesson in humility to recall the wonderful women of the Renaissance, who filled chairs of philosophy and law in the universities, sustained public theses, spoke in Latin before learned societies, wrote pure Greek and studied Hebrew, preached in cathedrals were sent on special embassies and consulted on grave affairs of State by popes and kings. With all our latter-day prestige and the chivalry of modern[Pg xviii] men, it would be difficult to imagine Leo XIII or the German Emperor consulting a woman on serious questions of policy, or even listening to one unless she were a queen with power that must be reckoned with. If they did, it would be behind closed doors where no one could know it. Yet we have wise women and able ones.

After enduring ages of darkness, where the brilliance of Countess Matilda or Héloïse occasionally pierced through the fog of ignorance and superstition, we now see women of a new era working alongside men in the depths of classical knowledge, bringing the same passion and tireless dedication to their efforts. They are also well-versed in all the knowledge of their time. If we tend to boast about our intellectual achievements, it may be a humbling reminder to think of the amazing women of the Renaissance, who held positions in philosophy and law at universities, defended public theses, spoke Latin in scholarly circles, wrote in pure Greek, studied Hebrew, preached in cathedrals, were sent on special missions, and were consulted on significant state matters by popes and kings. Despite our modern status and the chivalry of contemporary men, it would be hard to imagine Leo XIII or the German Emperor seeking advice from a woman on serious policy issues or even paying attention to one unless she were a queen with notable power. If they did, it would likely happen behind closed doors where no one would know. Yet, we have wise and capable women.

When men lost themselves in metaphysical abstractions it was the “new woman” of the Renaissance who lent wings to their minds and stimulated creation. A touch from her uncaged intellect thrilled the learning of the age and put into it a soul. A Vittoria Colonna inspires a Michelangelo, writes an immortal in memoriam, and brings poetry to the service of religion. An Olympia Morata pauses in her high intellectual flight to give an object-lesson in moral courage and the virtues of a gentle womanhood. A Catherine of Siena thinks as well as loves, writes as well as prays; the head of Christendom is moved by her wise counsels, and the currents of the world are changed.

When men got lost in abstract ideas, it was the “new woman” of the Renaissance who inspired their thoughts and sparked creativity. A touch from her liberated intellect energized the knowledge of the time and infused it with passion. A Vittoria Colonna inspires a Michelangelo, writes an immortal in memoriam, and brings poetry into the realm of religion. An Olympia Morata takes a break from her high intellectual pursuits to offer a lesson in moral courage and the qualities of a kind womanhood. A Catherine of Siena thinks as deeply as she loves, writes as well as she prays; the leader of Christendom is influenced by her wise advice, and the tides of the world are shifted.

It was woman, too, who married thought to life, presided at the birth of society, and diffused the seeds of the new knowledge. She took philosophy out of the obscurity of ponderous tomes, and made men reduce it to clear terms with the logical processes left out, so that the unlettered might read. If men held the palm of supremacy in reason[Pg xix] and abstract thought, women illuminated them by sentiment and imagination, so touching the world to living issues. The swift, facile, intuitive intellects of women complemented the slower and more logical minds of men, and it is this union that creates life in all its larger, more enduring forms. It was the social gifts of women added to a flexible intelligence that raised conversation to a fine art. A Duchess Leonora, an Isabella d’Este, a Duchess Elisabetta, call about them the wit, learning, talent, and genius of an age, and in this atmosphere poets, artists, and men of letters find an audience and an inspiration. Each gives of his best, which is fostered and turned into new channels. Standards are raised by the association of various forms of excellence, and society reaches a higher altitude of living and thinking. To be sure, the day comes when it matters more to talk and be talked about than it does to know. The rank weeds of mediocrity spring up in profusion and overshadow the flowers. The ideals droop and the brilliant age ends. But it has fulfilled its mission, and all ages end, great and small, luminous and dark alike.

It was women who connected thought to life, led the way in building society, and spread the seeds of new knowledge. They took philosophy out of heavy books and made it accessible to everyone, so even those without formal education could understand. While men excelled in reason and abstract thinking, women brought depth through emotion and imagination, making issues real and relatable. The quick, intuitive minds of women balanced the slower, more logical thinking of men, creating a synergy that brings life to its fullest form. It was the social skills of women combined with adaptable intelligence that elevated conversation to an art form. Figures like Duchess Leonora, Isabella d’Este, and Duchess Elisabetta embodied the wit, knowledge, talent, and creativity of their time, providing an environment where poets, artists, and writers could find both audience and inspiration. Each contributed their best, which was nurtured and redirected into new paths. Standards improved through the collaboration of different kinds of excellence, helping society reach a higher level of living and thinking. However, a time inevitably arrives when being talked about becomes more important than genuine knowledge. The rampant growth of mediocrity can overshadow the exceptional. Ideals fade, and the brilliant era comes to an end. Yet it has accomplished its purpose, and all eras, whether great or small, bright or dark, inevitably conclude.

Did men degenerate in the intellectual companionship of women? To what glorious heights did they attain in the dark ages, when no woman’s voice was heard, except in prayer? What heights have they reached in any period that did not find its ideals in brute force, when, at least, a few women[Pg xx] of light and leading did not stand at their side, though only by courtesy, instead of sitting at their feet?

Did men decline in their intellectual companionship with women? To what amazing heights did they rise during the dark ages, when no woman’s voice was heard, except in prayer? What achievements have they accomplished in any era that didn’t base its ideals on brute strength, when, at the very least, a few women[Pg xx] of insight and influence didn’t stand beside them, even if just by courtesy, instead of sitting beneath them?

Did women lose in morals when they gained in intelligence, as men so often delight to tell us? Quite the reverse, if I have read history aright. In seasons of moral decadence it is the women of serious education who have been among the first to lift their voices against the sins of the period in which they lived. If they were often swept along by the current which they had no power to stem, it was because of their helplessness, not of their knowledge. They were not faultless but human, and subject at all periods to the same conditions that were fatal to men, who claimed supremacy in strength. If they have sometimes broken on the rocks of superstition, it was because they had too little intelligence, not too much.

Did women lose their morals when they became more intelligent, as men often like to claim? Quite the opposite, if I’ve understood history correctly. During times of moral decline, it has been educated women who have been among the first to speak out against the sins of their era. If they were sometimes carried along by circumstances they couldn't control, it was due to their lack of power, not a lack of knowledge. They were not perfect, but human, and faced the same challenges that harmed men who claimed to be superior in strength. If they have occasionally succumbed to superstition, it was due to not having enough intelligence, not too much.

Have they lost the tender instincts of wifehood and motherhood? The records of the world are full of the unselfish devotion of great wives and great mothers, and the men who shine most conspicuously on the pages of history, from Cæsar and the Gracchi to George Washington and Daniel Webster, have been the sons of able and intelligent women. A cultivated intellect is not a guaranty of virtue, but it has never yet made a woman forget her love and allegiance to a strong and noble man, or turn a cold ear to the artless prattle of a child, though vanity and weakness and folly have done so very often. But it has many a time given her the[Pg xxi] power and the impulse to rear a world-famed monument to the one, and to give the best work and thought of a self-sacrificing life for the glory of the other. It is not simply heredity, but the atmosphere and companionship of the first years, that make or mar a destiny. But let us not confound intelligent women with pedants and pretenders, or great women with small ones on a pedestal of any sort, self-erected or other.

Have they lost the caring instincts of being a wife and a mother? The history of the world is full of the selfless dedication of amazing wives and mothers, and the men who stand out most in history, from Caesar and the Gracchi to George Washington and Daniel Webster, have been the sons of capable and intelligent women. A well-educated mind doesn’t guarantee virtue, but it has never led a woman to forget her love and loyalty to a strong, noble man, or to ignore the innocent chatter of a child, although vanity, weakness, and foolishness have often done so. But it has frequently given her the[Pg xxi] power and motivation to create a world-famous legacy for one, and to dedicate the best of her efforts and thoughts from a selfless life for the benefit of the other. It’s not just heredity, but the environment and companionship of the early years that shape or ruin a destiny. But let's not confuse intelligent women with know-it-alls and fakes, or great women with lesser ones on any sort of pedestal, whether self-made or otherwise.

All this I trust will be made clear by illustration in these pages, together with the fact that the intellects of at least a few women have been very much awake in all the golden ages of the world, and exercised on many of the same problems that confront them to-day. The question of equality has been discussed in every period. It is needless to pursue these discussions here any further than to recall them. It does not signify whether women have or have not done this, that, or the other thing as well as men—whether they have or have not been conspicuous for creative genius, or scientific genius, or any other special form of genius. It is as idle to ask whether they are, on the whole, equal or inferior to men, as to ask whether an artist is equal to a general, an inventor to a philosopher, or a poet to a man of science. There are certain things that will always be done better by men; there are other things of equal value to the happiness and well-being of the race, and worthy of equal honor, that will always be done better by women; there[Pg xxii] are still other and many things that may be done equally well by either. The final proof of ability lies in its tangible result, and it is a waste of words to speculate on unknown quantities, or to say that under certain conditions women might have attained specific heights which they have not attained. No doubt it is true, but one cannot deal with shadows. We have to consider things as they are, with the possibilities toward which they point.

I hope this will be clarified with examples in these pages, along with the fact that the minds of at least a few women have been very active throughout the golden ages of the world, working on many of the same issues they face today. The topic of equality has been debated in every era. There's no need to go deeper into these discussions here other than to mention them. It doesn't matter whether women have done this, that, or the other thing as well as men—whether they have been particularly known for creative, scientific, or any other kind of genius. It’s pointless to ask whether they are, overall, equal to or lesser than men, just as it is pointless to compare an artist to a general, an inventor to a philosopher, or a poet to a scientist. There are certain things that men will always do better, and there are other equally valuable contributions to happiness and well-being that women will always excel in; there are still many things that either gender can do equally well. The ultimate proof of capability lies in its real outcomes, and it's pointless to speculate on unknown factors or to claim that under certain circumstances women might have reached specific heights that they haven't achieved. This may be true, but we can't deal with hypotheticals. We need to look at things as they are, considering the potential they point to.

But the past we have, with its achievements and its lessons. We find that women, with all their restrictions and in spite of denunciations from men which seem incredible, have long ago touched their highest mark in poetry, in wisdom, in administration, in learning, and in social power. In the great ages of the flowering of the human intellect, a rare few have always stood on the heights, beacon-stars which sent out their rays to distant centuries. As the world has advanced they have increased in number more than in altitude; but barriers have been removed, one after another, until they have practically ceased to exist. It is worth while, however, to bear in mind that four hundred years ago a woman, with many disabilities, had ample facilities for reaching her full intellectual stature with honor and without hindrance. Why did her sex lose these privileges so liberally accorded to men, in the “land of the free” and the early nineteenth century?

But the past we have, with its achievements and lessons. We find that women, despite all their restrictions and the unbelievable criticisms from men, have long ago reached their highest potential in poetry, wisdom, administration, learning, and social power. In the great ages of the flourishing human intellect, a few rare individuals have always stood at the top, shining like beacons that sent out their light to future generations. As the world has progressed, the number of these individuals has grown more than their heights; but barriers have been removed one by one until they've nearly disappeared. However, it's important to remember that four hundred years ago, a woman, despite many limitations, had ample opportunities to reach her full intellectual potential with honor and without obstacles. Why did her gender lose these privileges that were so freely given to men in the “land of the free” in the early nineteenth century?

We too have our stars—our women who think,[Pg xxiii] our women who know, our women who do; we too have our special distinctions—our triumphs in new fields in which we have had no rivals. But I have touched only a single phase of modern life. There are too many fresh and difficult problems to be disposed of in an essay. Then we can hardly hear the message of the age for the din of the voices. It is true enough that the old ideals are disappearing. What we do not know yet is whether, apart from the intelligence which gives all life a fresh impulse and meaning, the new ones forced upon us by the march of events are better. It suffices here to say that what really signifies to the woman of to-day is to expand in her own natural proportions, to maintain her own individuality without the loss of her essential charm, to temper strength of soul with tenderness, to strive for achievement instead of the passing honors of the hour, to preserve the fine and dignified quality of an enlarged and perfected womanhood. It is not as the poor copy of a man that she will ever come into her rightful kingdom. Duty or necessity may lead one into strange and hard paths, but the crown of glory is not for those who fling away their birthright to join in the strident chorus of the eager crowd that kneels before the glittering altars of the money-gods, or to follow the procession that throngs the dusty highways and, lifting its eyes no more to the mountain-tops, sings its own apotheosis in the market-place.

We also have our stars—our women who think, [Pg xxiii] our women who know, our women who take action; we have our unique achievements—our victories in new areas where we have had no competition. But I have only touched on one aspect of modern life. There are too many new and challenging issues to cover in a single essay. Plus, we can hardly hear the message of our times over the noise of all the voices. It’s true that the old ideals are fading away. What we don’t yet know is whether the new ones that are being thrust upon us by current events are any better than those we’re leaving behind. What really matters to today’s woman is to grow in her own unique way, to keep her individuality without losing her essential charm, to balance strength of character with softness, to aim for real achievements instead of fleeting honors, and to uphold the fine and dignified qualities of an evolved femininity. She will never find her true place by being an imitation of a man. Duty or necessity might lead someone down difficult and unfamiliar paths, but glory is not for those who abandon their true nature to join the loud crowd that bows before the shiny idols of wealth, or to follow the masses down the dusty roads, looking only at the ground, singing their own praises in the marketplace.


WOMAN IN GREEK POETRY

· Denunciation of Woman in Early Poets ·
· Kindlier Attitude of Homer ·
· Penelope · Nausicaä · Andromache · Helen ·
· Contemptuous Attitude of the Dramatists ·
· Their Fine Types ·
· Iphigenia · Alcestis · Antigone ·
· Consideration for Women in the Heroic Age ·

· Critique of Women in Early Poets ·
· More Compassionate View of Homer ·
· Penelope · Nausicaä · Andromache · Helen ·
· Dismissive View of the Dramatists ·
· Their Strong Characters ·
· Iphigenia · Alcestis · Antigone ·
· Respect for Women in the Heroic Age ·


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I

“The badness of man is better than the goodness of woman,” says a Jewish proverb. And worse still, “A man of straw is better than a woman of gold.” As men made the proverbs, these may be commended for modesty as well as chivalry. The climax is reached in this amiable sentiment: “A dead wife is the best goods in a man’s house.” Under such teaching it is not at all surprising that the Jews began their morning invocations, two thousand years ago, with these significant words: “Blessed art thou, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, who hast not made me a heathen, who hast not made me a slave, who hast not made me a woman.”

“The badness of men is better than the goodness of women,” says a Jewish proverb. And even worse, “A man made of straw is better than a woman made of gold.” Since men created these proverbs, they may be praised for their modesty as well as their chivalry. The peak of this agreeable sentiment is reached with: “A dead wife is the best possession in a man’s house.” Given this kind of teaching, it's not surprising that Jews began their morning prayers, two thousand years ago, with these significant words: “Blessed are you, O Lord our God, King of the Universe, who has not made me a pagan, who has not made me a slave, who has not made me a woman.”

These are very good samples of the manner in which women were talked of in ancient days. In[Pg 4] Egypt, however, they fared rather better. We are even told that men pledged obedience to their wives, in which case they doubtless spoke of them more respectfully. At all events, they had great political influence, were honored as priestess or prophetess, and had the privilege of owning themselves and their belongings. But a state of affairs in which

These are great examples of how women were talked about in ancient times. In[Pg 4] Egypt, however, their situation was a bit better. We even hear that men promised to obey their wives, which likely meant they spoke of them more respectfully. In any case, women had significant political influence, were revered as priestesses or prophetesses, and had the right to own themselves and their possessions. But a situation in which

Men indoors sit weaving at the loom,
And wives outdoors must earn their daily bread,

Men inside are weaving at the loom,
And women outside have to earn their daily bread,

has its unpleasant side. How it was regarded by women does not appear, but if they found a paradise they were speedily driven out of it. Evidently men did not find the exchange of occupations agreeable. Two or three centuries before our era, a Greek ruler came to the throne, who had other views, and every woman awoke one morning to the fact that her day was ended, her power was gone, and that she owned nothing at all. Everything that she had, from her house and her land to her feathers and her jewels, was practically confiscated, so that she could no longer dispose of it. These women had rights, and lost them. Why they were taken away we do not know. Possibly too much was claimed. But all this goes to prove that “chivalrous man” cannot be trusted so long as he holds not simply the balance of power, but the whole of it.

has its unpleasant side. It's unclear how women viewed it, but if they ever found a paradise, they were quickly driven out. Clearly, men did not find the role reversal enjoyable. Two or three centuries before our era, a Greek ruler ascended to the throne with different ideas, and every woman woke up one morning to realize that her days of power were over, and she owned nothing at all. Everything she had, from her house and land to her feathers and jewels, was essentially taken away, leaving her unable to make any decisions about it. These women had rights, which were stripped away. We don't know why this happened. Perhaps too much was claimed. But all of this shows that “chivalrous man” cannot be trusted as long as he holds not just the balance of power, but all of it.

Apart from this little episode, the early world never drifted far from the traditions of the Garden[Pg 5] of Eden, where Adam naturally reserved the supremacy for himself, and sent obedient Eve about her housewifely duties among the roses and myrtles. If these were soon turned into thorns and thistles, it was only her proper punishment for bringing into the world its burden of human ills.

Aside from this brief incident, the early world never strayed far from the customs of the Garden of Eden, where Adam naturally held the top position and assigned compliant Eve her domestic tasks among the roses and myrtles. If these flowers quickly transformed into thorns and thistles, it was merely her deserved punishment for introducing human suffering into the world.[Pg 5]

The changes were rung on this theme in all races and languages. The esthetic Greeks surpassed the Jews in their denunciations, and exhausted their wit in cynical phrases that lacked even the dignity of criticism. No writers have abused women more persistently. It is an evidence of great moral vitality that, in the face of such undisguised contempt, they were able to maintain any prestige at all. If we may credit the poets who gave the realistic side of things, there was neither honor nor joy in the life of the average woman who dwelt in the shadow of Helicon. It was bare and cheerless, without even the sympathy that tempers the hardest fate. This pastoral existence, which seems so serene, had its serpent, and that serpent was a woman. A wife was a necessary evil. If a man did not marry, he was doomed to a desolate age; if he did, his happiness was sure to be ruined. Out of ten types of women described by the elder Simonides, only one was fit for a wife, and this was because she had the nature of a bee and was likely to add to her husband’s fortune. As the proportion was so small, the risk may be imagined. Her side of the question[Pg 6] was never taken into account at all. The comfort of so insignificant a being was really not worth considering. “A man has but two pleasant days with his wife,” says the satirist; “one when he marries her, the other when he buries her.”

The changes were felt across all races and languages. The aesthetic Greeks outdid the Jews in their criticisms, using cynical remarks that even lacked the dignity of proper critique. No writers have insulted women more consistently. It's a sign of strong moral spirit that, amid such blatant disdain, women managed to hold onto any kind of respect. If we believe the poets who offered a realistic portrayal, the average woman living in the shadow of Helicon had neither honor nor happiness. Her life was bleak and joyless, lacking even the compassion that softens the harshest realities. This seemingly peaceful pastoral life had its hidden dangers, and that danger was a woman. A wife was seen as a necessary evil. If a man didn’t marry, he faced a lonely old age; if he did, his happiness was bound to be compromised. Out of ten types of women described by the elder Simonides, only one was considered suitable for marriage, and that was because she was industrious like a bee and likely to contribute to her husband’s wealth. Given how few were deemed acceptable, it’s easy to see the risks involved. Her perspective was never considered at all. The comfort of such an insignificant person really was not worth any thought. “A man has only two good days with his wife,” says the satirist; “one when he marries her, the other when he buries her.”

Hesiod mentions, among the troubles of having a wife, that she insists upon sitting at table with her husband. Later, when the Greeks found their pleasure in fields of the intellect which were closed to women, even this poor privilege was usually denied her, and always when other men were present. Hesiod was evidently a disappointed man, and took dark views of things, women in particular, but he only followed the fashion of his time in making them responsible for the troubles and sorrows of men. It was the old, old story: “The woman gave me, and I did eat.” She was the Pandora who had let loose upon the world all the ills, and kept in her box the hope that might have made them tolerable. If she found her position an unpleasant one, she had the consolation of being told that she was one of the evils sent into the world by the gods, to punish men for the sin of Prometheus. The other was disease.

Hesiod talks about the challenges of having a wife, noting that she insists on sitting at the table with her husband. Later, as the Greeks found enjoyment in intellectual pursuits that were off-limits to women, this meager privilege was often taken away from her, especially in the presence of other men. It’s clear that Hesiod was a letdown, viewing the world, especially women, through a dark lens, but he was just echoing the common beliefs of his time by blaming women for men's troubles and sorrows. It was the same old story: “The woman gave me, and I did eat.” She was the Pandora who unleashed all the suffering upon the world while keeping hope locked away in her box. If she found her situation unpleasant, she could take comfort in being told she was one of the evils sent into the world by the gods to punish men for Prometheus's transgression. The other was disease.

This is a sorry picture, but it reflects the usual Greek attitude toward women, and cannot be ignored, much as we should like to honor the sense of justice, and the heart as well as the intellect of men of so brilliant a race.

This is a sad scene, but it shows the typical Greek view of women, and it can't be overlooked, no matter how much we want to appreciate the sense of justice, and the heart as well as the intellect of men from such an impressive culture.

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II

There is another side, however, upon which it is more pleasing to dwell. By some curious paradox, the Hellenic poets, who delighted in saying such disagreeable things, have given us many of the finest types of womanhood, though these women lived only in the imagination of great men, or so near the border-land of shadows as to be half mythical. It may be said to the credit of Homer that he never joined in the popular chorus of abuse. His women are not permitted to forget their subjection, but the high-born ones at least are treated with gentle courtesy, and he indulges in no superfluous flings at their inferiority or general worthlessness. Many of them hold places of honor and power. These women of a primitive age, who stand at the portals of the young world luminous and smiling, or draped in the stately dignity of antique goddesses, still retain the distinction of classic ideals. They look out from the misty dawn of things with veiled faces, but we know that love shone from their soft eyes, and words of wisdom fell from their rosy lips.

There’s another side, though, that’s more enjoyable to explore. In a strange twist, the Greek poets, who often said unpleasant things, also created some of the best representations of womanhood, even if these women existed only in the imagination of great men, or were so close to the realm of myths that they seem almost legendary. It’s worth noting that Homer didn’t join in the common negative views. His female characters don’t forget their subordination, but at least the noble ones are treated with kind respect, and he doesn’t make unnecessary jabs at their inferiority or overall uselessness. Many of them hold positions of honor and influence. These women from a bygone era, who stand at the entrance of the emerging world, either bright and smiling or draped in the majestic dignity of ancient goddesses, still embody classic ideals. They look out from the misty beginnings of everything with veiled faces, but we know love shone from their gentle eyes, and words of wisdom flowed from their rosy lips.

The vulgar of my sex I most exceed
In real power, when most humane my deed,

The roughness of my gender I surpass
In true strength, when my actions are most kind,

says the gentle Penelope, as, tear-dimmed and constant, she weaves and unweaves the many-colored[Pg 8] threads, and waits for her royal lord, who basks in the smiles of Calypso over the sea, and forgets her until he tires of the fascinating siren and begins to long for his home. If there was a trace of artfulness in the innocent device of the faithful wife, it was all the weapon she had to save her honor.

says the gentle Penelope, as, with tear-filled eyes and unwavering patience, she weaves and unweaves the colorful[Pg 8] threads, waiting for her royal husband, who is enjoying the company of Calypso across the sea and forgetting her until he grows tired of the captivating siren and starts to yearn for home. If there was any hint of cleverness in the innocent trick of the loyal wife, it was the only tool she had to protect her honor.

There is no lovelier picture of radiant girlhood than the graceful Nausicaä, as she takes the silken reins in her white hands, and drives across the plains in the first flush of the morning to help her maids “wash their fair garments in the limpid streams.” When the snowy robes are laid in the sun to dry, they play a game of ball, this daughter of kings leading all the rest. We hear the echo of her silvery laughter, and see the flash of her shining veil as her light feet fly over the greensward. But the dignity of the princess asserts itself with the forethought and sympathy of the woman in the discreet words with which she greets the destitute stranger, and modestly directs him to her royal mother. Her swift eye notes his air of distinction, his courteous address, and she naïvely wishes in her heart that the gods would send her such a husband. It is to Arête that she bids him go, to the beloved queen who shares the throne of Alcinous with “honors never before given to a woman.” Simple is this gentle lady and gracious, whether she sits in her stately palace working rare designs in crimson and purple wools, or gives wise[Pg 9] counsel to her husband, or goes abroad among the people, who adore her as a goddess,

There’s no prettier image of youthful beauty than the graceful Nausicaä. With the silky reins in her white hands, she drives across the fields in the early morning to help her maids “wash their lovely clothes in the clear streams.” Once the white dresses are laid out in the sun to dry, they play a game of ball, with this princess of royals leading the fun. We hear her bright laughter echo and catch a glimpse of her shining veil as her light feet dance over the grass. But the princess’s dignity shines through as she shows thoughtfulness and compassion with her kind words when she greets the needy stranger and politely directs him to her royal mother. Her sharp eye observes his noble presence and his polite manner, and she innocently wishes in her heart that the gods would send her a husband like him. She tells him to go to Arête, the beloved queen who shares the throne of Alcinous with “honors never before given to a woman.” This simple and graceful lady is charming, whether she’s in her grand palace working on intricate designs in rich red and purple wools, giving wise advice to her husband, or mingling with the people who adore her as a goddess.

To heal divisions, to relieve the oppressed,
In virtue rich, in blessing others, blessed.

To heal divisions and relieve the oppressed,
In rich virtue, blessed by blessing others.

A more touching though less radiant figure is Andromache, who shows no trace of weakness as she folds her child to her bosom, after the tender farewell of her brave husband, and goes home, sad and prophetic, to “ply her melancholy loom,” and brood over the hopelessness of her coming fate.

A more emotional but less bright figure is Andromache, who shows no sign of weakness as she holds her child close after her brave husband’s tender goodbye, and returns home, sorrowful and foreseeing, to “work at her sad loom” and think about the bleakness of her future.

These are the great Homeric types, women of simple and noble outlines, untouched by the fires of passion, wise, loyal, efficient, and brave, but rich in sympathy and all sweet affections. The central figures of the fireside, with needle and distaff in hand, they were not without a fine intelligence which, after the fashion of primitive times, found its field in the every-day problems of life. The mysteries of knowledge and speculation had not opened to them.

These are the classic Homeric characters, women with straightforward and noble traits, untouched by the flames of passion, wise, loyal, capable, and brave, yet filled with compassion and warm feelings. They are the heart of the home, wielding needle and spindle, and although they may seem simple, they possess a keen intelligence that addressed the everyday challenges of life, as was common in ancient times. The depths of knowledge and philosophical thought were not available to them.

There is no fairer thing
Than when the lord and lady with one soul
One home possess.

Nothing is more beautiful.
Than when the lord and lady share one soul
And one home together.

This was the poet’s domestic ideal, and the ages have not brought a better one, though they have brought us many things to make it more beautiful.

This was the poet's vision of home life, and over the years, no better one has emerged, even though we've gained many things that make it more beautiful.

But what shall we say of Helen, the alluring child of fancy and romance, who stands as an[Pg 10] eternal type of the beauty that led captive the Hellenic world? Even this fair-haired daughter of the gods, who set nations at variance, and did so many things not to be commended, gathers a subtle charm from the domestic setting which the poet’s art has given her. She sits serenely in the midst of the woes she has brought, teaching her maidens to work after strange patterns, and weaving her own tragic story in the golden web. It does not occur to her that she is very wicked; indeed, she thinks regretfully that, after all, she is worthy of a braver man. The tears that fall do not dim her brightness. Gray-haired men go to their death under the spell of her divine loveliness, but forget to chide. She is the helpless victim of Aphrodite, who is indulgently charged with all her frailties. Twice ten years have gone since she sailed away from Sparta, but when her forgiving husband takes her home she has lost none of that mystic beauty which is “never stale and never old.” She takes her place as naturally as if she had not left it, plays again the pleasant rôle of hostess, and looks with care after the comfort of her guests. When Telemachus goes to see her, and recalls the uncertain fate of the wandering heroes, she gives him the “star-bright” veil her own hands have wrought to help dry the tears she has caused to flow. But she is troubled by no superfluous grief. What the gods send she tranquilly accepts.

But what can we say about Helen, the captivating figure of imagination and romance, who symbolizes the beauty that enchanted the Greek world? This golden-haired daughter of the gods, who caused nations to clash and committed countless unpardonable acts, gains a subtle charm from the homey atmosphere that the poet conveys. She sits calmly amidst the disasters she has caused, teaching her maidens to create from unfamiliar designs, all while weaving her own tragic tale into the golden fabric. It doesn't cross her mind that she's done anything wrong; in fact, she regretfully thinks she deserves a braver man. The tears that fall don't dull her radiance. Elderly men fall to their deaths under the spell of her divine beauty but forget to blame her. She's a helpless victim of Aphrodite, who bears the blame for all her faults. It’s been twenty years since she left Sparta, but when her forgiving husband brings her home, she hasn’t lost any of that enchanting beauty that is “never stale and never old.” She naturally resumes her place as if she never left, plays the role of gracious hostess again, and takes care of her guests' comfort. When Telemachus visits her and recalls the uncertain fates of the wandering heroes, she gives him the “star-bright” veil she made to help dry the tears she has caused. Yet she is not burdened by unnecessary sorrow. She calmly accepts whatever the gods send her.

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When the poets began to analyze, the glamour of this witching goddess was lost, and she became a sinning, soul-destroying woman, a human Circe that lured men to ruin. But the Greeks did not like to see their idols slandered or broken, so in later times they gave her a shadowy existence on the banks of the Nile, where we catch a last glimpse of her, sitting unruffled among the palms, in all the splendor of her radiant beauty, twining wreaths of lotus-flowers for her golden hair, and learning rare secrets of Eastern looms, while men fought and died across the sea for a phantom. It is not upon these fanciful pictures, however, that we like to dwell. The Helen who lives and breathes for us is the Helen of Homer, fair and sweet, more sinned against than sinning, pitying the sorrows she cannot cure, but saved by her matchless charm from the chilling frost of mortal censure.

When the poets started to analyze her, the allure of this enchanting goddess faded, and she became a sinful, soul-destroying woman, a human Circe who led men to their downfall. But the Greeks didn't want to see their idols slandered or shattered, so later on, they gave her a vague existence along the banks of the Nile, where we catch a final glimpse of her, sitting calmly among the palms, radiating beauty, weaving wreaths of lotus flowers for her golden hair, and learning rare secrets of Eastern textiles, while men fought and died across the sea for an illusion. However, it’s not these fanciful images that we prefer to focus on. The Helen who resonates with us is the Helen of Homer, graceful and sweet, more wronged than wrongdoer, empathizing with the sorrows she can't resolve, yet protected from harsh mortal judgment by her unmatched charm.

These women of Homer were mostly wives and daughters of kings. Whether it was because he had been greeted with gentle words and caressing smiles by the fair patricians to whom he recited his verses that he painted them in such glowing colors, or because the women of the heroic age really had the unstudied grace and simple dignity that spring from conscious freedom, we cannot know. But it is certain that the measure of honor and liberty which they enjoyed was a privilege of caste rather than of sex, though it gave them a[Pg 12] virile quality, and added a fresh luster of spontaneity to their domestic virtues.

These women of Homer were mostly the wives and daughters of kings. Whether it was because he received gentle words and warm smiles from the noblewomen he recited his verses to or because the women of the heroic age actually had a natural grace and simple dignity that came from true freedom, we can't know. But what is clear is that the level of honor and freedom they had was a privilege of their social class rather than their gender, even though it gave them a strong quality and added a new vibrancy to their domestic virtues.

The lesser women had small consideration. We find the captives, even of royal descent, tossed about among their masters with no regard to their wishes, or rights—if they had any, which seems doubtful. The gentle Briseïs, a high priest’s daughter, and as potent a factor in the final disasters of the Greeks as the divine Helen herself, was the merest puppet in the hands of the so-called heroes who quarreled over her, and Chryseïs was only saved from the same fate by the kind interference of Apollo. The bitterest drop in the cup of Hector was the thought of his wife led away weeping by some “mail-clad Achaian,” with no one to hear her cries or save her from the hopeless fate of weaving and carrying water at the bidding of another. The women of the people fared little better, if as well. Ulysses had no hesitation in putting to death a dozen of his wife’s maids whose conduct did not please him, and he threatened his devoted nurse Euryclea with a like fate, if she revealed the secret of his identity, which she had been the first to divine.

The women had little regard for themselves. Those captured, even of noble birth, were tossed around by their masters with no thought for their desires or rights—if they even had any, which seems questionable. The gentle Briseïs, daughter of a high priest and as influential in the Greeks' ultimate downfall as the divine Helen herself, was merely a pawn in the hands of the so-called heroes who fought over her, while Chryseïs was spared a similar fate only through the kind intervention of Apollo. The most painful thought for Hector was imagining his wife being taken away, weeping, by some “mail-clad Achaian,” with no one to hear her cries or save her from the desperate fate of weaving and carrying water at someone else's command. The common women fared little better, if at all. Ulysses had no qualms about killing a dozen of his wife’s maids whose behavior displeased him, and he threatened his loyal nurse Euryclea with the same fate if she revealed that she had figured out his true identity first.

III

It is difficult to comprehend the attitude of the dramatists of the golden age toward women. They have left many fine and powerful types; they have[Pg 13] created heroines of singular moral grandeur and a superb quality of courage that led them to face death or the bitterest fate as serenely as if they were composing themselves to pleasant dreams; but there was no insult or injustice too great to be heaped upon their sex.

It’s hard to understand how the playwrights of the golden age viewed women. They created many impressive and strong characters; they crafted heroines with incredible moral strength and remarkable courage that allowed them to confront death or the harshest circumstances with the same calmness as if they were settling in for a nice dream. Yet, there was no insult or injustice too extreme for them to inflict on their gender.

There is not anything, nor will be ever,
Than woman worse, let what will fall on man,

There isn't anything, nor will there ever be,
Worse than a woman, no matter what happens to a man,

says Sophocles. Æschylus, who is, on the whole, the most kindly disposed, makes Eteocles call the Theban maidens a “brood intolerable,” “loathed of the wise,” and emphasizes his opinion in these flattering lines:

says Sophocles. Aeschylus, who is generally the most sympathetic, has Eteocles refer to the Theban maidens as a “hard-to-bear group,” “hated by the wise,” and highlights his view in these complimentary lines:

Ne’er be it mine, in ill estate or good,
To dwell together with the race of women.

Never let it be my fate, in bad times or good,
To live alongside the female gender.

Euripides strikes the bitterest note of all, and sums up his verdict with crushing force:

Euripides expresses the most intense criticism of all and delivers his judgment with powerful impact:

Dire is the violence of ocean waves,
And dire the blast of rivers and hot fires,
And dire is want and dire are countless things,
But nothing is so dire and dread as woman.
No painting could express her dreadfulness,
No words describe it. If a god made woman
And fashioned her, he was for men the artist
Of woes unnumbered, and their deadly foe.

The violence of ocean waves is intense,
And so is the force of rivers and raging fires,
And there are many dire things and great needs,
But nothing is as terrible and frightening as a woman.
No painting could capture her awfulness,
No words can explain it. If a god created woman
And shaped her, he was certainly an artist
Of countless troubles for men and their deadly enemy.

And this in spite of such characters as Alcestis and Iphigenia, who, from a man’s point of view,[Pg 14] certainly deserved an apotheosis! It is said that Euripides was unfortunate in his wives, which may account, in part, for his cynical temper. One might suspect that the author of such a diatribe gave ample cause for disaffection, and that he had no more than his deserts. But he seems to have avenged himself, as smaller men have done, by railing at the whole sex. It is easy enough to understand the portrayal of a Phædra or a Medea in dark colors, and one can forgive the mad ravings of despair. But so many needless words of general contempt signify more than a dramatic purpose. To-day they would not be possible in a civilized country. The drama reflects the dominant sentiments of the time, if not always those of the author, and the frequency of such ungracious, not to say virulent, attacks proves the complaisance of a Greek audience and the absence of all consideration for women. Even Aristophanes takes Euripides to task for being a woman-hater, and turns upon him the sharpest points of his satire; but he has himself added the last touch of abuse, which only misses its aim for modern ears by its incredible coarseness. He gives to women all of the lowest vices, without a redeeming virtue. Their presence at the comedy was quite out of the question.

And this is despite characters like Alcestis and Iphigenia, who, from a man’s perspective,[Pg 14] definitely deserved to be celebrated! It's said that Euripides had bad luck with his marriages, which might explain, at least in part, his cynical nature. One might think the author of such a harsh critique had good reason for his discontent and got what he deserved. But it seems he took his frustrations out, like many smaller men have, by criticizing all women. It's pretty easy to understand why he painted characters like Phaedra or Medea in a negative light, and we can forgive the wild outbursts of despair. However, so many unnecessary insults show more than just a dramatic intent. Today, such attitudes wouldn't be accepted in a civilized society. The drama reflects the dominant views of the time, if not always those of the creator, and the regularity of these harsh and even venomous attacks highlights the complacency of a Greek audience and a complete lack of respect for women. Even Aristophanes criticizes Euripides for being a woman-hater, targeting him with the sharpest points of his satire; yet he himself has contributed to the abuse, which may only miss its target for modern audiences due to its unbelievable crude nature. He attributes all the worst vices to women, leaving out any redeeming qualities. Their presence in comedy was completely out of the question.

One is tempted to multiply these quotations, as they put in so vivid a light the injustice suffered by women when the expression of such sentiments[Pg 15] was habitual. The saddest feature of it is that men abused them for the ignorance and frivolity which they had themselves practically compelled. The dramatists lived and wrote in an age when men had reached a higher plane of knowledge from which orthodox women were rigidly excluded. The natural consequence of this exclusion was a total lack of companionship, which sent the Attic woman into a species of slavery, while her husband found his society in a class that was better educated and more interesting, but less respectable. This state of things was reflected in Athenian literature, especially in the comedies, and it doubtless led to the general disdain of women so freely expressed in the tragedies. To reconcile such an attitude with the strong character of many of the women portrayed is not easy, unless we take them as object-lessons to their sex in the honor and glory of self-sacrifice.

One could easily find more quotes, as they clearly highlight the injustice women faced when expressing such feelings[Pg 15] was common. The saddest part is that men criticized them for the ignorance and superficiality that they had essentially forced upon them. The playwrights worked in a time when men had gained a greater level of knowledge, while orthodox women were strictly excluded from it. The natural result of this exclusion was a complete lack of companionship, which pushed Athenian women into a form of slavery, while their husbands sought company among a group that was better educated and more engaging, but less respectable. This situation was reflected in Athenian literature, particularly in the comedies, and it likely contributed to the widespread contempt for women that was openly expressed in the tragedies. Reconciling such a viewpoint with the strong characters of many women depicted is challenging, unless we view them as lesson examples for their gender in the honor and glory of self-sacrifice.

In the glamour the poets have cast about their great creations, and the marvelous power with which they have made these women live for us, we are apt to lose sight of the fact that the moral force of the best of them is centered in the superhuman immolation of themselves for the benefit of men, to whom it never occurs that any consideration whatever is due to these innocent sufferers. They are subject to men, and ready to lay down their lives, if need be to make the world comfortable and[Pg 16] pleasant for them; yet they have only sorrow for themselves.

In the allure that poets have created around their incredible works, and the amazing ability they've shown to bring these women to life for us, we often overlook the fact that the true strength of the best among them lies in their selfless sacrifice for the benefit of men. It never seems to occur to these men that any consideration is owed to these innocent victims. They are devoted to men and willing to give up their lives if necessary to make the world comfortable and pleasant for them; yet all they feel is sorrow for themselves.

More than a thousand women is one man
Worthy to see the light of life,

More than a thousand women is one man
Worthy to see the light of life,

says the young Iphigenia, as she folds her saffron veil about her, and goes to her doom with words of love and forgiveness, praying for the cruel masters she dies to save. The essence of her training, as of her religion, lies in this meekly uttered sentiment, though the fated child pleads for pity, since “the sorriest life is better than the noblest death.” Strong men, among whom are her father and Achilles, the heroes of the ancient world, stand calmly by and let her die. The powerful lover, who will give his life later to avenge the death of his friend, is sorry to lose so sweet a flower for his wife, but he makes no real effort to save her. When she is told that the gods have decreed her sacrifice for the good of her country, the cry of nature is silenced, the touching appeal is stilled. She rises to a divine height of courage, and is the consoler rather than the consoled.

says the young Iphigenia as she wraps her saffron veil around her and heads towards her fate with words of love and forgiveness, praying for the cruel masters she’s dying to save. The heart of her upbringing, much like her faith, is found in this gently spoken sentiment, even as the fated girl pleads for compassion, since “the saddest life is better than the noblest death.” Strong men, including her father and Achilles, the heroes of the ancient world, stand by calmly and let her die. The powerful lover, who will later sacrifice his life to avenge the death of his friend, regrets losing such a beautiful soul for his wife, but he takes no real action to save her. When she learns that the gods have ordered her sacrifice for the sake of her country, the cry of nature is silenced, and the touching plea fades away. She rises to a divine level of courage and becomes the one offering comfort rather than seeking it.

Not less pathetic is the fate of Alcestis, though it is a voluntary one. She robes herself for the tomb as tranquilly as if she were going out on a message of mercy. With sad dignity she crowns with myrtle the altar at which she prays, but not until she takes leave of the familiar room so consecrated[Pg 17] by love and happiness do the tears begin to fall. This tender wife, who freely gives her life to save her husband, does not falter as she passionately embraces her weeping children, and bids a kind farewell to her pitying servants. The only thing she asks for herself is to see the sun once more, and she tries to inspire this selfish, posing, half-hearted husband with her own fortitude, as her spirit “glides on light wing down the silent paths of sleep.” One cannot help wondering if she never had a misgiving that the man who could ask his wife to comfort him for his unspeakable misery in letting her die for him was not worth dying for. But the Greek women had been long trained in the school of passive suffering, and it never seemed to occur to them that it was not quite in the nature of things for the weaker half of the human family to have a monopoly of the sacrifices. It was a part of their destiny; the gods so willed it. Men looked upon it as a comfortable arrangement for themselves, that had good moral results for women. To-day we are inclined to ask why a discipline that is good for women, and tends toward their moral perfection, is not also good for men, who have a like need of being perfected.

Not less tragic is the fate of Alcestis, even though it's a choice she makes. She dresses for the tomb as calmly as if she were going out on a mission of mercy. With sad dignity, she places myrtle on the altar where she prays, but it’s only after she bids farewell to the familiar room so filled with love and happiness that the tears start to fall. This devoted wife, who willingly gives her life to save her husband, doesn't hesitate as she passionately embraces her crying children and says a gentle goodbye to her compassionate servants. The only thing she asks for herself is to see the sun one last time, and she tries to instill her own strength into her selfish, indifferent husband, as her spirit “glides on light wing down the silent paths of sleep.” One can’t help but wonder if she ever doubted that the man who could ask his wife to comfort him for his unimaginable misery in letting her die for him wasn’t worth dying for. But Greek women had long been trained in enduring suffering, and it never seemed to cross their minds that it wasn't quite right for the weaker half of humanity to bear all the sacrifices. It was part of their fate; the gods wanted it this way. Men saw it as a convenient arrangement for themselves, with positive moral effects on women. Today, we tend to question why a discipline that benefits women and leads to their moral growth isn't also good for men, who also need to be improved.

But, in spite of rational theories, the world’s heart still thrills to a generous emotion so overpowering as to drown all consideration of self, whether or not it is faulty in its mundane wisdom[Pg 18] or its arithmetic. And this it is which casts so lasting a glamour over the women who loom out of the twilight of that far-off time, in noble proportions that dwarf the selfish, arrogant men with whom they are mated. They rise to the dignity of goddesses in their divine pity and courage, while the great Achilles, the masculine ideal of the Greeks, weeps like a child, and sends a generation of men to sleep on the plains of Troy, because he cannot have what he wishes.

But despite logical theories, the world's heart still responds to a powerful emotion so strong that it overshadows all self-interest, whether or not it makes sense in its everyday wisdom or its calculations. This is what creates such a lasting allure around the women who emerge from the shadows of that distant time, in noble forms that overshadow the selfish, arrogant men they are paired with. They rise to the status of goddesses in their divine compassion and bravery, while the great Achilles, the masculine ideal of the Greeks, cries like a child and sends a generation of men to rest on the plains of Troy because he can’t have what he desires.[Pg 18]

Yet it is in the minds of men that these women were conceived, and it is impossible to suppose that they had not at least some faint counterpart in real life, though possibly men, and women as well, are apt to make ideals of what they think ought to be rather than of what is. But why did the Greek poets cast such ridicule and dishonor upon the sex which they have shown capable of such supreme devotion and such exalted virtues?

Yet it is in the minds of men that these women were created, and it’s hard to believe that they didn’t have at least some faint counterpart in real life, although it’s possible that both men and women tend to idealize what they think should be rather than what actually is. But why did the Greek poets mock and dishonor the sex that they’ve shown to be capable of such deep devotion and such noble virtues?

There is a touch of justice in the bitter scorn with which the blind Œdipus speaks of his sons who

There is a hint of justice in the bitter contempt with which the blind Oedipus talks about his sons who

Keep house at home like maidens in their prime,

Keep the house at home like young women in their prime,

while his daughters wear themselves to death for him and for his sorrows.

while his daughters exhaust themselves for him and his troubles.

No women they, but men in will to toil.

No women among them, just men willing to work hard.

Perhaps Antigone is a trifle too coldly perfect, too faultlessly wise—a tacit reflection upon every-day[Pg 19] human nature, that likes its ease, and counts the cost of its renunciations. We look for a trace of weakness, a warm burst of living tenderness. But duty is shy like love, and chary of expression. “I do not love a friend who loves in words,” is the cry of her steadfast soul. There she stands, in the still majesty of a sorrow that lies too deep for tears, supreme among the classic types of the world as a model of filial devotion. Cordelia, true and loyal as she is, and tender at heart, does not approach her in strength and dignity. But the duty of the Greek heroine does not end with her father’s death. She lays down her life at last that the false-hearted brother, who has given her no gentle consideration in her days of helplessness and despair, may not lie unburied on the plains of Thebes, and so wander without rest in Hades. She laments the lost pleasures of living. No husband or children are to be hers. Yet no enthusiasm of passion or romance tempers this “cold statue’s fine-wrought grace.” The man she was to marry is secondary. Love, in our sense, does not enter as a motive power into her life, but her human need of sympathy is shown in a few pathetic words:

Perhaps Antigone is a bit too perfectly cold, too faultlessly wise—a quiet commentary on everyday human nature, which prefers ease and weighs the cost of its sacrifices. We search for a hint of weakness, a warm display of genuine tenderness. But duty is as elusive as love, hesitant to express itself. “I don’t love a friend who loves in words,” echoes her steadfast spirit. There she stands, in the quiet majesty of a sorrow that runs too deep for tears, standing out among the classic figures of the world as a symbol of filial devotion. Cordelia, though true and loyal with a tender heart, does not reach her level of strength and dignity. However, the duty of the Greek heroine doesn't end with her father's death. She ultimately gives her life so that her false-hearted brother, who showed her no kindness in her times of helplessness and despair, won’t lie unburied on the plains of Thebes, wandering restlessly in Hades. She mourns the lost joys of living. She will have no husband or children. Yet, no enthusiasm of passion or romance softens this “cold statue's exquisite grace.” The man she was meant to marry is secondary. Love, in our sense, isn’t a driving force in her life, but her human need for connection is revealed in a few poignant words:

And yet, of all my friends,
Not one bewails my fate;
No kindly tear is shed.

And yet, out of all my friends,
Not one laments my situation;
No gentle tear is shed.

There are a few women of colossal wickedness who serve as foils, or shadows in the picture. Their[Pg 20] very sins are a part of the overmastering strength that defies its hard limitations. “Of all things, as many as have life and intellect, we women are the most wretched race; we must first purchase a husband with excess of money, then receive him as our lord,” is the bitter protest of the wronged Medea, and the key-note to her tragical destiny. Clytemnestra says that she has always been trained to obey, but she towers far above her warrior husband in force as in crime. She resents his unfaithfulness; she does not forgive him for the inhuman sacrifice of their innocent daughter; she meets him on his own ground. It is appalling, the stern and pitiless passion with which her untamed spirit, spurred on by the white-hot hate which is often a great love reversed, tramples upon every human impulse, and sweeps a whole race with her to destruction. The clash of elemental forces is there, even though the responsibility is shifted upon the gods, who use these frail mortals as blind instruments in their inscrutable plans.

There are a few women of immense wickedness who act as contrasts, or shadows in the scene. Their[Pg 20] very sins contribute to the overwhelming strength that defies its harsh limitations. “Of all living beings with intellect, we women are the most miserable; we must first buy a husband with excessive wealth and then accept him as our master,” is the bitter cry of the wronged Medea, and the key to her tragic fate. Clytemnestra claims she has always been taught to obey, but she rises far above her warrior husband in both power and crime. She resents his infidelity; she cannot forgive him for the inhumane sacrifice of their innocent daughter; she meets him on his own terms. It’s shocking, the fierce and merciless passion with which her unrestrained spirit, driven by the intense hate that often accompanies deep love turned sour, crushes every human impulse, dragging an entire race down to destruction with her. The clash of elemental forces is present, even though the blame is placed on the gods, who use these fragile mortals as blind tools in their mysterious schemes.

But these monsters of crime are few, and seem to throw into stronger relief the self-forgetful women who exalt their inferior position, and bend their heads to the yoke with such stately dignity that they seem to command even in obeying. For, in spite of the important part assigned them in the world of affairs as well as at the fireside, they are constantly reminded of their little worth. “Let not women[Pg 21] counsel,” is the advice of men to the wisest of them.

But these criminals are rare, and they highlight even more the selfless women who uplift their lower status, accepting their roles with such grace that they seem to lead even while following. Despite the significant roles they play in both public life and at home, they’re continually reminded of their limited value. “Don’t let women give advice,” is the counsel of men to the wisest among them.

Woman, know
That silence is a woman’s noblest part,

Woman, be aware
That silence is a woman's greatest strength,

says the ill-tempered Ajax to his amiable wife. This gentle Tecmessa wishes to die with him, for “Why should I wish to live if you are dead?” He only tells her to mind her own affairs and be silent. Telemachus orders his faithful mother not to meddle with men’s business, but it was precisely because she did meddle with it, and tried, by various simple arts, to bring order into the chaos men had raised, that his royal father had any home to return to, or any kingdom to leave to his ungracious son.

says the grumpy Ajax to his kind wife. This gentle Tecmessa wants to die with him, because “Why should I want to live if you’re dead?” He just tells her to mind her own business and be quiet. Telemachus tells his loyal mother not to get involved in men’s matters, but it was exactly because she did get involved and tried, through her simple efforts, to bring some order to the chaos that the men created, that his royal father had any home to come back to, or any kingdom to pass on to his ungrateful son.

IV

So far as we can gather from Homer, women of the better sort had a degree of consideration in the heroic age which they lost at a later period. When men fought or tilled the soil, it was in the natural order of things that they should stay at home to look after their children and households. The division of duties was fair enough. In a reign of brute force they needed protection, and though it was pretty well settled that men were born to rule and women to be ruled, there was evidently a great[Pg 22] deal of pleasant companionship in family life. Compared with the seclusion of the Oriental harem, the position of these women was one of freedom, and it lasted to historic times. Their supreme distinction was a moral one. Books they had not. Of literature nothing was known beyond the verses and tales of wandering minstrels. Art was little more than a handicraft. If men worked in marble or in metal, women designed patterns for weaving and embroidery. Men had not begun to put their thoughts or speculations into enduring form, and women were not excluded from a large part of their lives. But so perfectly did many of them realize the world’s ideal of feminine virtues that we ask no more. They stand upon pedestals, like the masterpieces of Greek sculpture, noble in their simplicity and lovely in the repose of their surpassing strength.

As far as we can gather from Homer, women of higher status had a level of respect during the heroic age that they later lost. While men fought or farmed, it was only natural for women to stay home to care for their children and manage the household. The division of responsibilities seemed fair enough. In a time of brute force, they needed protection, and while it was generally accepted that men were born to lead and women to follow, there was clearly a lot of enjoyable companionship in family life. Compared to the isolation of the Eastern harem, these women enjoyed more freedom, which continued into historical times. Their main distinction was moral. They didn't have books. They knew nothing of literature beyond the songs and stories of wandering minstrels. Art was mostly just a craft. If men worked with marble or metal, women created designs for weaving and embroidery. Men hadn't started to put their thoughts or ideas into lasting forms yet, and women weren't excluded from many aspects of their lives. But so well did many of them embody the ideal of feminine virtues that we don't ask for more. They stand upon pedestals, like the masterpieces of Greek sculpture, noble in their simplicity and beautiful in the serenity of their extraordinary strength.

But the dramatists reflected in a thousand ways the altered spirit of an age in which good women had no visible part. Their immortal heroines are equally strong and instinct with vitality, though less simple and of severer mold, but they are revered from afar as the goddesses were, while real women are a target for abuse and ridicule. It is to no rare and perishable beauty, no fleeting grace, no intellectual brilliancy, that they owe their eternal charm, but to their moral greatness, their strength of sacrifice. These exalted ideals, so bravely tender, so patiently enduring, were the victims of adverse destiny[Pg 23] or of their own devotion. But the world held for them no reward in the masculine heart. There were many women in classic story who died for men, but only one for whom men were willing to die, and this was Helen, whose divine beauty appealed to the senses and the imagination. She was made to be loved, to command; all others were made to serve. The Greeks adored beauty; they lived in it, they created it. Here lay their pride; here more than once they found their Nemesis. But virtue they gave a place apart, as they did the wise Athena, who towered in golden isolation over the Attic divinities. It had no share in the joy of existence.

But the playwrights reflected in countless ways the changed spirit of an age where good women had no visible role. Their timeless heroines are equally strong and full of life, though less straightforward and more serious, but they are admired from a distance like goddesses, while real women face criticism and mockery. It’s not to fleeting beauty, passing grace, or intellectual brilliance that they owe their lasting appeal, but to their moral greatness and their selflessness. These elevated ideals, so boldly gentle and so patiently enduring, were victims of bad luck or their own dedication. But the world offered them no reward in the hearts of men. Many women in classic stories died for men, but only one man was willing to die for a woman, and that was Helen, whose divine beauty captivated the senses and imagination. She was meant to be loved and to command admiration; all others were meant to serve. The Greeks worshipped beauty; they lived in it and created it. Here lay their pride; here they often found their downfall. But they placed virtue apart, like the wise Athena, who stood in golden isolation above the Attic gods. It had no part in the joy of life.

Beneath the glad pæans of heroes we hear at intervals, across the ages, the clear voices of women chanting a miserere in an undertone of sorrow or despair. Doubtless the poets saw and felt the tragical side of their lives, but tradition had the inevitability of fate, as it has had in other times. They have given us great and lonely ideals of womanhood, but a somber picture of the place held by living women in the Athenian world.

Beneath the happy praises of heroes that we occasionally hear throughout the ages, the clear voices of women can be heard softly singing a lament filled with sorrow or despair. Surely, the poets noticed and felt the tragic aspects of their lives, but tradition was as unavoidable as fate, just like it has been in other times. They presented us with lofty and solitary ideals of womanhood, but a grim portrayal of the role that real women played in the Athenian world.

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SAPPHO AND THE FIRST WOMAN’S CLUB

· Golden Age of Lyric Poetry ·
· The Mythical and the Real Sappho ·
· Her Poems ·
· Contrast with Hebrew Singers ·
· Poet of Nature and Passion ·
· The First Woman’s Club ·
· Æolian and Doric Poetesses ·
· Honors to the Genius of Hellenic Women ·

· Golden Age of Lyric Poetry ·
· The Mythical and the Real Sappho ·
· Her Poems ·
· Contrast with Hebrew Poets ·
· Poet of Nature and Passion ·
· The First Women’s Club ·
· Æolian and Doric Poetesses ·
· Honors to the Genius of Hellenic Women ·


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I

A woman and a poet; adored by men and loved by her own sex; artist, singer, teacher, leader; an exile and an immortal—all this was the Sappho who stood upon the heights twenty-five centuries ago and sang the verses that thrilled the heart of the world. She lived in the brilliant period when lyric poetry reached its zenith and was its finest representative. Before her no woman had appeared in a distinctly literary rôle, so far as we know. To-day she still stands supreme in her own field.

A woman and a poet; admired by men and cherished by women; artist, singer, teacher, leader; an exile and an immortal—all this was Sappho, who stood on the heights twenty-five centuries ago and sang the verses that captivated the world. She lived during the brilliant period when lyric poetry peaked and was its greatest representative. Before her, no woman had taken on a clearly literary role, as far as we know. Today, she still stands out in her own field.

This “violet-crowned, pure, sweetly smiling Sappho,” who sang so divinely, and vanished so theatrically from Leucadia’s “rock of woe,” was long veiled in the mists of romance. The tragical[Pg 28] muse pictured in flowing draperies, with a crown of laurel on her head and a lyre in her hand, chanting her swan-song before cooling her heart of flame in the blue sea at her feet, was as intangible to us as one of Fra Angelico’s angels. She looked out of a land of mystery and shadows, with nothing human about her save that she loved, and suffered, and died. “Do thou, gentle Love, place wings beneath me as I fall, that I may not be the reproach of the Leucadian waves,” is her pathetic prayer, and here she fades from our sight.

This “violet-crowned, pure, sweetly smiling Sappho,” who sang so beautifully and dramatically disappeared from Leucadia’s “rock of woe,” has long been shrouded in the fog of romance. The tragic muse, depicted in flowing robes, with a laurel crown on her head and a lyre in her hand, singing her swan song before cooling her heart of passion in the blue sea at her feet, felt as elusive to us as one of Fra Angelico’s angels. She emerged from a realm of mystery and shadows, with nothing human about her except that she loved, suffered, and died. “Do thou, gentle Love, place wings beneath me as I fall, that I may not be the reproach of the Leucadian waves,” is her sorrowful plea, and here she fades from our view.

But it has been fairly settled that this romantic story was a dream; that Phaon was only a mythical Adonis; that Sappho did not follow him across the sea, did not die of love, and never took the fatal leap at all. The sentimental tourist who sighs over her melancholy fate to-day, as he passes the bare white cliffs of Santa Maura, so long consecrated to tragedies of love and sorrow, pays his sympathetic tribute to a phantom. She went to Sicily, it seems, but not for love. It is supposed that she was exiled. There were political conspiracies for which men were banished, and she may have written revolutionary songs. Possibly she held too radical opinions on the privileges of her sex. But all this is the purest surmise. In any case, her offense could not have been a grave one, as she returned in a few years to Mytilene, where she was adored by a fickle public as the glory of[Pg 29] her native city, and honored with altars and temples after her death. Her face was stamped upon coins—“though she was a woman,” said Aristotle. The outlines are clear and strong, with the virile quality so marked in most statues of Greek women. She was also represented, with Alcæus, on a vase of the next century, as not only beautiful, but tall and stately.

But it's now generally agreed that this romantic story was just a dream; that Phaon was only a mythical Adonis; that Sappho didn’t actually follow him across the sea, didn’t die from love, and never took the fatal leap at all. The sentimental tourist who sighs over her sad fate today, as he passes the bare white cliffs of Santa Maura, which have long been associated with tales of love and sorrow, is paying his respects to a ghost. She went to Sicily, it seems, but not for love. It’s believed she was exiled. There were political conspiracies that led to men being banished, and she might have written revolutionary songs. Perhaps she held too radical views about the rights of women. But all this is pure speculation. In any case, her crime couldn't have been serious, since she returned a few years later to Mytilene, where she was adored by a fickle public as the pride of[Pg 29] her hometown, and was honored with altars and temples after her death. Her image was stamped on coins—“though she was a woman,” said Aristotle. The features are clear and strong, showing the masculine quality so prominent in most statues of Greek women. She was also depicted, alongside Alcæus, on a vase from the next century, as not just beautiful, but tall and regal.

A thousand years afterward a statue of her is said to have been one of the ornaments of the gymnasium at Byzantium. But coin and bust and statue give us many faces. Which was the real one? We are more familiar with the ideal Sappho in the modern portrait in which Alma-Tadema has so subtly caught the prophetic light of her soul, her eager intellect, her unconscious grace, and the slumbering passion in her eloquent eyes.

A thousand years later, a statue of her is said to have been one of the features of the gymnasium in Byzantium. But coins, busts, and statues present us with many different faces. Which one was the real her? We're more familiar with the idealized Sappho in the modern portrait by Alma-Tadema, who has skillfully captured the prophetic light of her soul, her eager intellect, her effortless grace, and the dormant passion in her expressive eyes.

But recent critics tell us that even her beauty was a fiction of the imagination. Does she not say of herself, in the burning lines of Ovid, that she was brown and of low stature, though her name filled all lands? Or was it the sweet humility of love that made her own attractions seem to her slender and insufficient? She had been dead six hundred years or so when Ovid wrote, and his knowledge could not have been infallible.

But recent critics tell us that even her beauty was just a creation of the imagination. Doesn't she herself say, in the passionate lines of Ovid, that she was brown and short, even though her name was known everywhere? Or was it the gentle humility of love that made her own charms seem to her small and lacking? She had been dead for about six hundred years when Ovid wrote, and his knowledge couldn't have been perfect.

Men of her own time called her the “beautiful Sappho,” the “flower of the graces,” and Greek[Pg 30] standards of beauty included height and stateliness. Perhaps they were under the magic spell of her genius, and indulged in glowing figures of speech. At all events, modern scholars are more literal, and they have mostly decided that she was a small, dark woman, of noble birth, who was early left a widow with one fair daughter, “Cleïs, the beloved, with a form like a golden flower.” This was also the name of her own mother. One of her brothers held the honorable office of cup-bearer; the other went to Egypt, and, much to the displeasure of his gifted sister, married a woman of more charms than discretion, for whom he had paid a large ransom. This famous beauty of Naucratis became very rich, and, possibly by way of atonement for her sins, made a generous offering at the temple of Delphi. It was even said that she immortalized herself by building the third pyramid; but these tales, whether true or not, have been relegated to the region of myths. We learn from Sappho herself that she quarreled with her brother on account of this mésalliance. These are scant materials on which to base a life, but they include about all the facts we have of

Men of her time called her the “beautiful Sappho,” the “flower of the graces,” and Greek[Pg 30] standards of beauty valued height and elegance. Maybe they were enchanted by her talent and used grand expressions. In any case, modern scholars take a more straightforward approach and generally agree that she was a small, dark-haired woman from a noble family who became a widow early on and had a lovely daughter named “Cleïs, the beloved, with a figure like a golden flower.” This was also her mother's name. One of her brothers held the prestigious title of cup-bearer, while the other went to Egypt and, much to his talented sister’s irritation, married a woman who was more attractive than sensible, for whom he paid a hefty dowry. This well-known beauty from Naucratis became very wealthy and, possibly to make amends for her actions, made a generous donation to the temple of Delphi. It was even said that she made a name for herself by building the third pyramid; however, whether these stories are true or not, they have been pushed into the realm of myths. Sappho herself tells us that she fought with her brother over this mésalliance. These details are limited for creating a life story, but they cover nearly all the facts we have about

That mighty songstress, whose unrivaled powers
Weave for the Muse a crown of deathless flowers.

That powerful singer, whose unmatched abilities
Create for the Muse a crown of everlasting flowers.

We do not even know when or where or how she died, though epitaphs in the strain of these flattering and prosaic lines are numerous.

We don't even know when, where, or how she died, although there are plenty of epitaphs in the style of these flattering and plain lines.

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If her personality is veiled to us, still less do we know what manner of woman she was. The Attic comedians said unpleasant things about her a century after she died, and no one lived who could dispute them. Unfortunately, no infallible certificate of character can be found to protect a name that has been only a historic memory two or three thousand years. It is certain, however, that Æolian women had an honored place in society and literature. They formed a center of intellectual light in which the brilliant Sappho reigned supreme, and it was no unusual thing to see them at banquets and festivals with men. A well-born Athenian woman would have lost the rather illusory privileges of her position by such freedom. She was decorously ignorant and stayed at home. It was a foregone conclusion in Athens that a woman who was educated and a poet could not be respectable, and if the facts were against this conclusion, so much the worse for the facts.

If her personality is hidden from us, we know even less about what kind of woman she was. The comedic writers from Attica said unpleasant things about her a century after her death, and there was no one left to challenge them. Unfortunately, we can't find an infallible proof of character to defend a name that has been just a historical memory for two or three thousand years. However, it's clear that women from Æolia had a respected place in society and literature. They were a hub of intellectual activity where the brilliant Sappho was the standout figure, and it was common to see them attending banquets and festivals with men. A well-born Athenian woman would have lost the rather empty privileges of her status by behaving like this. She was expected to be decorously ignorant and stay at home. In Athens, it was taken for granted that an educated woman who was a poet couldn't be respectable, and if the facts contradicted this idea, that was just too bad for the facts.

Hence it was quite natural that Sappho, who did not go into seclusion or hide her light, should be decried by the satirists who had never seen her. A hundred years had sufficed to dim the incidents of her life, and left them free to invent any romance they chose. Her supposed love-affairs were a fruitful theme. That men died before she was born, or were born after she died, were impertinent details which were not held to interfere in the least with[Pg 32] their tender relations toward her. It is true that she wrote with a pen dipped in fire, but poems and tales of passion are not held even to-day as evidence against the fair fame of the author, whatever might be thought of her good taste. The Greek standards of morality were, at best, far from ours, and the frank naturalism of that age would be likely to shock our sense of decorum. But there is no indication that Sappho fell below these standards, and there is much to show that she rose above them. “I love delicacy,” she writes, “and for me love has the sun’s splendor and beauty.” Alcæus, her fellow-poet and rival, addresses her as “pure, sweetly smiling Sappho.” When he grows too ardent in his love, she rebukes him with gentle dignity: “Hadst thou felt desire for things good or noble, and had not thy tongue framed some evil speech, shame had not filled thine eyes, but thou hadst spoken honestly about it.” And why did she feel her brother’s disgrace so keenly if her own life was open to reproach?

It’s only natural that Sappho, who didn’t hide away or keep her talent to herself, was criticized by satirists who had never met her. A hundred years were enough to blur the details of her life, allowing them to create whatever stories they wanted. Her rumored love affairs provided plenty of material. That men either died before she was born or were born after her death were inconvenient details that didn’t seem to interfere with their romanticized views of her. It’s true she wrote with passionate intensity, but poetry and tales of love aren’t considered evidence against the author’s good reputation, regardless of opinions on her taste. The Greek standards of morality were, at best, quite different from ours, and the open naturalism of that period might shock our sense of propriety. However, there’s no sign that Sappho fell below those standards, and plenty suggests she exceeded them. “I love delicacy,” she writes, “and for me, love has the sun’s splendor and beauty.” Alcæus, her fellow poet and rival, calls her “pure, sweetly smiling Sappho.” When he becomes overly passionate about his feelings, she responds with gentle dignity: “If you had desired good or noble things, and your tongue hadn’t spoken ill, you wouldn’t feel shame, but would have spoken honestly about it.” And why did she feel her brother's disgrace so profoundly if her own life was open to criticism?

We gather from herself that she was simple, amiable, and sunny, with a Greek love of life and all that pertains to it. “I am not of revengeful temper,” she says, “but have a childlike mind.” To this naïve confession she adds a choice bit of wisdom: “When anger spreads through the breast, guard thy tongue from barking idly.” She tells her daughter not to mourn for her, as “a poet’s home is not a fit place for lamentation.” In the[Pg 33] spirit of her age and race, she insists that “death is an evil; the gods have so judged; had it been good, they would die.”

We learn from her that she was straightforward, friendly, and cheerful, with a Greek passion for life and everything that comes with it. “I don’t have a vengeful spirit,” she states, “but I think like a child.” To this innocent admission, she adds a piece of wisdom: “When anger fills your heart, keep your mouth from speaking without thought.” She advises her daughter not to grieve for her, as “a poet’s home is not the right place for mourning.” In the[Pg 33] spirit of her time and background, she asserts that “death is a misfortune; the gods have deemed it so; if it were good, they would die.”

Whatever her character and personal history may have been, we know that she wrote perfect lyrics with the spark of immortality in them, and gathered about her in the sunny island of Lesbos a circle of educated women who devoted themselves to the study of music, poetry, and the arts of refined living. Her genius has been recognized by poets, philosophers, and critics, as well as by simpler people who felt in her verse the “touch of nature” that “makes the whole world kin.” She was the “divine Muse” of Plato, and shared the lyric throne with Pindar. Aristotle quoted her, and the austere Solon was so charmed with one of her odes that he said he could not die until he had learned it. Strabo writes that “at no period on record has any woman been known who compared with her in the least degree as a poet.” Horace and Catullus imitated her, Ovid paraphrased her, but no one has caught the essence of her fiery spirit. Plutarch likens her to the “heart of a volcano.” Longinus called her celebrated ode, “not a passion, but a congress of passions.” Modern men have tried to put her golden-winged, fire-tipped words into another tongue, and turned with despair from the task. It is like trying to seize the light that blazes in the heart of the diamond, or[Pg 34] the fiery tints that hide in the opal. Perhaps Swinburne has best caught the spirit and the music of

Whatever her character and background may have been, we know that she wrote perfect lyrics with a spark of immortality, and gathered around her on the sunny island of Lesbos a group of educated women devoted to studying music, poetry, and the arts of refined living. Her genius has been recognized by poets, philosophers, and critics, as well as by ordinary people who felt in her verse the “touch of nature” that “makes the whole world kin.” She was the “divine Muse” of Plato and shared the lyric throne with Pindar. Aristotle quoted her, and the stern Solon was so impressed with one of her odes that he said he couldn’t die until he had learned it. Strabo writes that “at no time in history has any woman been known who compared with her in the slightest as a poet.” Horace and Catullus imitated her, Ovid paraphrased her, but no one has captured the essence of her fiery spirit. Plutarch compared her to the “heart of a volcano.” Longinus described her famous ode as “not a passion, but a gathering of passions.” Modern writers have tried to translate her golden-winged, fire-tipped words into another language, only to turn away in despair from the task. It’s like trying to grasp the light that shines in the heart of a diamond, or[Pg 34] the fiery colors hiding in an opal. Perhaps Swinburne has best captured the spirit and the music of

Songs that move the heart of the shaken heaven,
Songs that break the heart of the earth with pity.

Songs that touch the heart of the troubled sky,
Songs that shatter the heart of the earth with compassion.

But even this exquisite artist in words says: “Where Catullus failed I could not hope to succeed.”

But even this amazing word artist says: “Where Catullus failed I couldn’t expect to succeed.”

There were nine volumes of her works in the days of Horace. To-day scarcely more than two hundred lines survive. Besides the two immortal odes, we have only fragments, gems scattered here and there through the writers of antiquity. To the everlasting discredit of an ignorant and fanatical age, the fathers denounced her, and the Byzantine emperors or the ascetic monks of a later time burned these so-called relics of paganism, to supply their place with books of devotion and lives of the saints. When the Hellenic spirit woke again, after a sleep of more than a thousand years, it was too late. These poems had perished with many monumental works of the intellect, and scholars thought their lives well spent if they found a line or two from the lost treasures.

There were nine volumes of her works during Horace’s time. Today, barely more than two hundred lines remain. Aside from the two famous odes, we only have fragments, little gems scattered throughout the writings of ancient authors. To the lasting shame of an ignorant and extreme period, the early church fathers condemned her, and later, Byzantine emperors or ascetic monks destroyed these so-called remnants of paganism, replacing them with books of devotion and lives of the saints. When the Hellenic spirit revived after more than a thousand years, it was too late. These poems had vanished along with many great intellectual works, and scholars considered themselves lucky if they uncovered a line or two from the lost masterpieces.

But what was the life from which Sappho sprang, that she could reach the topmost bough of fame at a single flight? The lucid note, the tropical passion, the musical flow—these nature might give;[Pg 35] but where did she learn the fine sense of proportion, the perfection of metrical form, the mastery of the secrets of language, which placed her at the head of the lyric poets of Greece? The voices which might have told us are silent. Sparta was making heroic men and women, not literature. Athens was struggling through her stormy youth, and pluming her wings for the highest flight of all. The great Hebrew poetry was contemporary with Sappho, but she shows no trace of its influence. If she ever saw or heard it, her spirit was utterly alien to it. Still less had she in common with the inspired woman who led the armies of Israel to victory, six or seven centuries before, and chanted in stately measure the immortal song of their triumphs. It may be noted here that it was a woman who fired the hearts of these wandering people to brave deeds, when men drew back, timid and disheartened; it was a woman who went before them into battle; and it was a woman who broke into that impassioned poem which has come down to us across the ages as one of the great martial hymns of the world. But Deborah, the soldier, poet, prophetess, judge, and minstrel, never walked in the flowery paths of beauty and love. Her virile soul rose on the wings of a sublime faith, far above the things of sense. Behind that chorus of joy and exultation lay the long-baffled hopes, aspirations, and energies of an oppressed people, but it celebrated the apotheosis[Pg 36] of force. It was a barbaric song, wild and revengeful even in its splendid imagery and patriotic fervor. Miriam took her timbrel, and sang in the same strain of power and majesty, inspired by the same soaring imagination. But we find no touch of a woman’s pity or tenderness in these pæans of victory. Their note is strong and exultant, alive with the lofty enthusiasm of a religious race in which the passion for art and beauty was not yet born. Sappho had caught nothing from these singers of an earlier time. She does not live in the bracing air of great ideals, nor does she dwell upon any vexed moral problems, after the manner of later poets. She is simply human, and strikes a personal note, the charm of which is unfailing, and will be fresh as long as flowers bloom, or men and women live and love.

But what was the life that shaped Sappho, allowing her to soar to the highest levels of fame in one bound? The clear tone, the intense passion, the musical rhythm—nature might provide these;[Pg 35] but where did she acquire the keen sense of proportion, the perfection of verse form, the mastery of language that placed her among the top lyric poets of Greece? The voices that might have told us are quiet. Sparta was producing heroic individuals, not literature. Athens was navigating through its turbulent youth, preparing for the greatest achievements. The great Hebrew poetry was happening at the same time as Sappho, but she shows no signs of its influence. If she ever encountered it, her spirit was completely unconnected to it. She had even less in common with the inspiring woman who led the armies of Israel to victory six or seven centuries earlier and sang in grand verse about their triumphs. It’s worth noting that it was a woman who ignited the hearts of these wandering people to brave actions when men hesitated, fearful and discouraged; it was a woman who led them into battle; and it was a woman who created that passionate poem that has survived as one of the great war hymns of the world. But Deborah, the warrior, poet, prophetess, judge, and singer, never walked the flowery paths of beauty and love. Her strong spirit soared on the wings of a profound faith, far above material concerns. Behind that chorus of joy and triumph lay the long-denied hopes, aspirations, and energies of an oppressed people, but it celebrated the elevation[Pg 36] of strength. It was a wild song, fierce and revengeful even in its stunning imagery and patriotic fervor. Miriam took her tambourine and sang in the same powerful and majestic style, inspired by the same elevated imagination. But we find no trace of a woman’s compassion or gentleness in these victory songs. Their tone is strong and triumphant, bursting with the high enthusiasm of a religious people where the love for art and beauty had yet to emerge. Sappho drew nothing from these earlier singers. She doesn’t exist in the invigorating air of lofty ideals, nor does she wrestle with moral dilemmas like later poets. She is simply human, striking a personal chord, the charm of which is timeless and will remain fresh as long as flowers bloom and people love.

This sweet-voiced singer seems to have risen full-fledged with the dawn, and her notes were liquid and clear as the song of the lark that soars out of the morning mists, and makes the sky vocal with melody. The freshness of the woods and the wild freedom of the air are in them. She loves the flowers, the running streams, the silver moon, the “golden-sandaled dawn,” the “dear, glad angel of the spring, the nightingale.” Hesperus, fairest of stars, “brings all that bright morning scattered,” and smiles on “dark-eyed sleep, child of night.” Again she says, “The stars about the fair moon hide their bright faces when she lights up all the[Pg 37] earth with silver.” Was it the music of her voice that the doves heard “when their hearts turned cold and they dropped their wings”? She sings the praise of the purple hyacinth, the blushing apple-blossom, and the pale Lesbian rose, which she loves best of all. Dica is bidden to twine wreaths, “for even the blessed Graces look kindlier on a flowery sacrifice, and turn their faces from those who lack garlands.” In the garden of the nymphs, “the cool water gurgles through apple-boughs, and slumber streams from quivering leaves.” To this passionate love of nature, so vividly told in rare and exquisite figures and in phrases “shot with a thousand hues,” she adds a sensibility that responds to every breath that passes. “I flutter like a child after her mother,” is her cry. She likens a bird to a flower that grows in a garden and has nothing to fear from the storms. A woman alone is like a wild flower which no one takes care of. She touches every phase of love from the divine tenderness of girlhood to the wild passion that shakes the soul, “a wind on the mountains falling on oaks.” Her words flash and burn with the heart-consuming fire of her race. The lines in which she entreats the “star-throned Aphrodite” to have pity on her anguish, glow with a white heat. The swift-winged doves had brought the fickle goddess once before to soothe her pain with sweet promises and an immortal smile. Will she[Pg 38] not come again and lift the ache from her tortured soul, and give her what she asks?

This sweet-voiced singer seems to have fully emerged with the dawn, and her notes are as smooth and clear as a lark's song that rises from the morning mist, filling the sky with melody. The freshness of the woods and the wild freedom of the air are captured in her voice. She adores the flowers, the flowing streams, the silver moon, the “golden-sandaled dawn,” and the “dear, joyful angel of spring, the nightingale.” Hesperus, the fairest of stars, “brings together all that bright morning scattered” and smiles on “dark-eyed sleep, child of night.” Again, she says, “The stars hide their bright faces around the fair moon when she lights up the[Pg 37] earth with silver.” Was it the sound of her voice that the doves heard “when their hearts turned cold and they dropped their wings”? She sings the praises of the purple hyacinth, the blushing apple blossom, and the pale Lesbian rose, which she loves more than any other. Dica is asked to weave wreaths, “for even the blessed Graces smile more kindly on a flowery tribute, and turn away from those who lack garlands.” In the nymphs' garden, “the cool water gurgles through apple branches, and slumber flows from trembling leaves.” To this passionate love of nature, expressed in rare and exquisite imagery with phrases “shot with a thousand hues,” she adds a sensitivity that responds to every breeze that blows. “I flutter like a child after her mother,” she cries. She compares a bird to a flower that blooms in a garden and fears nothing from the storms. A woman alone is like a wildflower that no one cares for. She touches on every aspect of love, from the divine tenderness of girlhood to the wild passion that shakes the soul, “a wind on the mountains falling on oaks.” Her words flash and burn with the heart-consuming fire of her spirit. The lines where she pleads to the “star-throned Aphrodite” to show mercy for her pain glow with an intense heat. The swift-winged doves had brought the fickle goddess before to ease her suffering with sweet promises and an immortal smile. Will she[Pg 38] not come again, lift the ache from her tortured soul, and grant her wish?

The intensity of passion reaches its climax in the ode to Anactoria. Simple as it is, the vocabulary of “bitter-sweet” emotion is exhausted. In her most impassioned verses, our own Mrs. Browning does not quite forget to reflect about her love. She sets it forth in subtly woven thoughts, and lets it filter through her mind until it takes the color of it. Sappho sings of passion pure and artless. She does not think about it, she does not analyze it. It possesses her heart and imagination, and she tells it so simply, so sincerely, and so truly, that the familiar story never loses its charm. She sang in the childhood of the world, when people felt more than they thought, when love was a sensation, a joy, a passion, a pain, not a sentiment. If she did not spiritualize her theme, she purified it of the coarseness which made the love-songs of men, before and afterward, unfit for a delicate ear. This first touch of a woman in literature was to refine it, though it was many centuries before she had the power to lead men to take love from the exclusive domain of the senses and give it a soul.

The intensity of passion peaks in the ode to Anactoria. Simple as it is, the vocabulary of “bittersweet” emotion is fully explored. In her most passionate verses, Mrs. Browning doesn’t quite forget to reflect on her love. She expresses it in intricately woven thoughts and lets it seep through her mind until it takes on its hue. Sappho sings of pure and innocent passion. She doesn’t analyze it or think about it. It captures her heart and imagination, and she conveys it so simply, so sincerely, and so genuinely, that the familiar story never loses its appeal. She sang in the early days of humanity, when people felt more than they thought, when love was simply a sensation, a joy, a passion, a pain—not just a sentiment. If she didn’t elevate her theme spiritually, she did cleanse it of the coarseness that rendered men’s love songs, before and after, unfit for sensitive ears. This initial influence of a woman in literature refined it, although it took many centuries before she could inspire men to take love beyond mere physical desire and give it a soul.

II

But it is not alone as a singer that Sappho has come down to us. She was the leader of an intellectual[Pg 39] movement among women that was without a parallel in classic times. We may greet her as not only the first of woman poets, but as the founder of the first “woman’s club” known to us. It is not certain that it had either a constitution or by-laws, and it discussed poetry and esthetics instead of science and social economics. But the measure of the intellect is not so much what we discuss as the quality of thought we bring into the discussion. It is easy enough to talk platitudes about literature or philosophy, and not so easy as one might imagine to talk wisely and well about poetry, or manners, or the art of living; and it is easier to do any of these things than it is to write what is worth talking about. The women who came to Sappho from the isles of the Ægean and the far hills of Greece seem to have been more intent upon writing poems than talking about them. There is no trace of brilliant conversation, or critical papers, or gathered sheaves of the knowledge that comes so freely under our own hand. Unfortunately, there was no secretary in this primitive club to take notes for posterity, or, if there was, the records have been lost. We know little of its sayings, though there are scattered traces of its doings. A few faint echoes have come to us across the centuries,—a verse, a line, a trait, a word, a heart-cry,—and that is all. Even these give us glimpses of its personal rather than of its intellectual side. Of the quality of its[Pg 40] work we cannot judge, as there is little of it left. That it was thought worthy of praise in its day, with Sappho as a standard, proves at least a high degree of merit. She was musician as well as poet, and trained many of the maidens for singing in sacred festivals, as well as in the arts of poetry and manners. When they married, she wrote their bridal odes. These she sang with the lyre, and one of her minor claims to fame was her invention of the plectrum, which brought out the full resources of this instrument. For Timas, who died unmarried, she wrote a touching elegy, which was sung at her tomb by the maidens, who cut off their curls as a token of sorrow.

But Sappho is remembered not just as a singer. She led an intellectual movement among women that had no equal in ancient times. We recognize her not only as the first female poet but also as the founder of the first “women’s club” known to us. It’s unclear whether it had a constitution or by-laws, and it focused on poetry and aesthetics rather than science and social economics. However, the measure of intelligence isn’t just in the topics we discuss but in the quality of thought we contribute to those discussions. It’s easy to spout clichés about literature or philosophy, but it's much harder to wisely and eloquently talk about poetry, manners, or the art of living; and writing something meaningful is even more challenging. The women who came to Sappho from the Aegean Islands and the distant hills of Greece seemed more interested in writing poems than discussing them. There’s no record of sparkling conversations, critical writings, or gathered insights that we take for granted today. Unfortunately, there was no secretary in this early club to take notes for future generations, or if there was, those records have been lost. We know little about what they said, although some traces of their activities remain. A few faint echoes have reached us through the centuries—a verse, a line, a trait, a word, a heartfelt expression—and that’s about it. Even those give us more insight into the personal side of the group rather than its intellectual contributions. We can’t evaluate the quality of their work since little remains. The fact that it was considered praiseworthy in its time, with Sappho as a standard, indicates at least a high level of merit. She was both a musician and a poet, training many young women for singing at sacred festivals, as well as in the arts of poetry and social graces. When they got married, she wrote their wedding odes, which she performed with the lyre. One of her lesser-known achievements was inventing the plectrum, which maximized the instrument's potential. For Timas, who died unmarried, she wrote a moving elegy that was sung at her tomb by the maidens, who cut off their hair as a sign of grief.

The most gifted of Sappho’s friends was Erinna, who died at nineteen, leaving among other things a poem of three hundred verses, which was said to deserve a place beside the epics of Homer. She sang of the sorrows of a maiden whose mother compelled her to spin when she wished to serve the Muses. There is also a tradition that she wrote an epitaph for a companion of “birth and lineage high,” who died on her wedding day, and “changed bridal songs to sound of sob and tear.” She was thought to surpass her teacher in hexameters. Sappho reproved her for being so scornful, and this is all the trait we have of this precocious child of genius, who preferred poetry to spinning. Her own epitaph speaks for itself:

The most talented of Sappho’s friends was Erinna, who passed away at nineteen, leaving behind a poem of three hundred verses, which was said to deserve a spot next to Homer’s epics. She wrote about the heartbreak of a young woman whose mother forced her to spin when she wanted to dedicate herself to the Muses. There's also a story that she wrote an epitaph for a friend of “noble birth,” who died on her wedding day, turning “wedding songs into sounds of sobs and tears.” It was believed that she surpassed her teacher in writing hexameters. Sappho criticized her for being so contemptuous, and that's all we know about this precocious genius who preferred poetry over spinning. Her own epitaph speaks for itself:

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These are Erinna’s songs; how sweet, though slight!
For she was but a girl of nineteen years.
Yet stronger far than what most men can write:
Had death delayed, whose fame had equaled hers?

These are Erinna’s songs; how sweet, though brief!
For she was just a girl of nineteen.
Yet much stronger than what most men can write:
Had death waited, whose fame would match hers?

The only thing about Andromeda of which we are sure is that she dressed badly. “What woman ever charmed thy mind who wore a graceless dress, or did not know how to draw her garments about her ankles?” says Sappho to this formidable rival who stole away from her the fickle heart of Atthis. Of the brilliant Gorgo she grew tired. It is supposed that these two were at the head of other clubs or schools. Damophyla wrote a hymn to Artemis, the patron goddess of pure-souled maidens, which was modeled after Sappho and had great praise in its day, but no fragment of it is left.

The only thing we know for sure about Andromeda is that she had terrible fashion sense. “What woman ever captivated your mind who wore an unflattering outfit, or didn’t know how to wrap her clothes around her ankles?” Sappho says to this formidable rival who took away the fickle heart of Atthis. She eventually grew tired of the stunning Gorgo. It’s believed that these two led other clubs or schools. Damophyla wrote a hymn to Artemis, the goddess of pure-hearted maidens, which was inspired by Sappho and received a lot of praise in its time, but no part of it remains.

“The fair-haired Lesbian,” so famed as the poet of nature and passion, was not without a wise philosophy of life, and she assumes the rôle of mentor with pitiless candor. “He who is fair to look upon is good, and he who is good will soon be fair,” is her motto; but she tells Mnasidica that her “gloomy temper spoils her, though she has a more beautiful form than the tender Gyrinna.” Her house is devoted to the service of the Muses and must be cheerful, but she shuts out of an honorable immortality those who prefer worldly fortune to the pleasures of the intellect. To a rich woman without education she says: “Where thou diest there wilt[Pg 42] thou lie, and no one will remember thy name in times to come, because thou hast no share in the roses of Pieria. Inglorious wilt thou wander about in Hades and flit among its dark shades.” She does not forget the finer graces of character, and evidently realizes the insidious fascination of material things. A moralist of to-day might be expected to tell us that “wealth without virtue is a dangerous guest,” but we are not apt to credit the gifted singers of the ancient world with so much ethical insight, least of all the women of a sensuous and passionate race, which loved before all things beauty and the pleasures of life.

“The fair-haired Lesbian,” renowned as a poet of nature and passion, had a thoughtful approach to life and took on the role of mentor with ruthless honesty. “Those who are beautiful are good, and those who are good will soon become beautiful,” is her motto; yet she tells Mnasidica that her “gloomy temper ruins her, even though she has a more beautiful figure than the delicate Gyrinna.” Her home is dedicated to the Muses and should be cheerful, but she excludes from a lasting legacy those who choose worldly wealth over intellectual joys. To an uneducated wealthy woman, she says: “Where you die, there you will lie, and no one will remember your name in the future, because you have no part in the roses of Pieria. You will wander about ingloriously in Hades, flitting amongst its dark shadows.” She doesn’t overlook the finer qualities of character and clearly understands the subtle allure of material things. A modern moralist might say that “wealth without virtue is a risky companion,” but we aren't likely to credit the talented poets of the ancient world, especially the women of a sensual and passionate culture, with such ethical insight, as they cherished beauty and the pleasures of life above all else.

These few touches of wisdom, satire, and criticism, relieved by the love of Sappho for the friends and pupils to whom she is a model, an adviser, and an inspiration, throw a passing side-light on a group of clever women who flit like phantoms across the pages of history, most of them names and nothing more. They are of interest in showing us that the women of ages ago had the same aspirations that we have to-day, together with the same faults, the same virtues, and the same griefs, though they had not learned to moralize their sensations or intellectualize their passions. They show us, too, another phase of the elusive being who dazzled the world in its youth, leaving a few records traced in flame, and charged with an ever-baffling secret for all coming generations.

These few insights of wisdom, humor, and critique, mixed with Sappho's love for her friends and students whom she inspires, guide, and mentor, cast a brief light on a group of intelligent women who drift like ghosts through history, most of them just names and little more. They interest us in revealing that women from long ago had the same dreams we have today, along with the same flaws, virtues, and sorrows, even if they hadn't figured out how to analyze their feelings or intellectualize their passions. They also show us another side of the captivating figure who amazed the world in its youth, leaving behind a few records marked by brilliance and an ever-elusive mystery for future generations.

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“Men, I think, will remember us hereafter,” she says with subtle foresight, a line that Swinburne has so gracefully expanded in words taken in part from her own lips:

“Guys, I think, will remember us later,” she says with a hint of foresight, a line that Swinburne has so beautifully elaborated on in phrases taken in part from her own words:

I, Sappho, shall be one with all these things,
With all high things forever; and my face
Seen once, my songs once heard in a strange place,
Cleave to men’s lives, and waste the days thereof
With gladness and much sadness and long love.

I, Sappho, will connect with all these things,
With all great things for eternity; and when my face
Is seen once, my songs once heard in an unfamiliar place,
They will stick to people's lives, and fill their days
With joy, deep sorrow, and lasting love.

III

The little coterie that wrote and talked and worked in the direction of finer ideals of life and manners, under the influence of the first woman poet of the world, has made the island of Lesbos, with its varying charm of sea and sky, and beautiful gardens, and singing birds, and sparkling fountains, and white cliffs outlined like sculpture in the crystalline air, luminous for all time. Of its four more or less famous poets, three were women, but Sappho has overshadowed all the rest. The very atmosphere woke the imagination, and made their hearts sing aloud with love and joy, varied by an occasional note of sorrow and pain. They came from all lands, these gifted maidens, to sit at the feet of Sappho, and to carry back to their distant homes the spirit of poesy and song which inspired so many Hellenic women to brave deeds as well as to tender and heroic words. But the passion of[Pg 44] southern seas became a religious enthusiasm in the sheltered and somber plains of Bœotia, where the lives of women had been so bare and hard, and Hesiod with his fellow-poets had given them such cold consolation. The songs of love were turned to processional hymns chanted by white-robed virgins as they brought offerings to the shrines of their gods.

The small group that wrote, talked, and worked towards higher ideals of life and manners, inspired by the first woman poet in history, has made the island of Lesbos, with its beautiful sea and sky, lovely gardens, singing birds, sparkling fountains, and white cliffs standing out like sculptures in the clear air, memorable forever. Out of its four well-known poets, three were women, but Sappho has outshone them all. The atmosphere inspired creativity and filled their hearts with love and joy, occasionally tinged with sorrow and pain. These talented young women came from all over to learn from Sappho and took back with them the spirit of poetry and song that inspired many Greek women to perform brave acts as well as express tender and heroic words. However, the passion of the southern seas took on a religious fervor in the quiet and gloomy plains of Bœotia, where women's lives had been challenging and harsh, and Hesiod with his fellow poets had offered them little comfort. The love songs transformed into processional hymns sung by white-robed virgins as they brought offerings to their gods.

It may have been the fame of Sappho that fired the genius of Myrtis and Corinna. Possibly some dark-eyed maiden had come back from Lesbos to spread the cult of knowledge and beauty, to found other esthetic clubs which should give a new impulse to women’s lives. But when we try to give a living form to these famous poets, we grasp at shadows. We simply know that they lived and sang and had their little day of glory, with grand tombs at the end, and statues in various parts of Greece. They were teachers of Pindar, and Corinna is said to have defeated him five times in poetic contests at Thebes. Several centuries later there was still at Tanagra a picture representing her in the act of binding a fillet about her beautiful head, probably in token of these victories. Five crowns on her tomb also told the story. She was the friend and critic of the great lyric poet, but he said some unkind things of his successful rival, and insisted that the prize was due to her beauty rather than her genius. In spite of this, he went to her for counsel. She had advised him to use the Greek[Pg 45] myths in his poems, and he did it so lavishly that she wittily told him to “sow with the hand and not pour out of a sack.” She was not quite generous, however, to her other friend, who also won a prize in the same manner. She says, “I blame the clear-toned Myrtis that she, a woman born, should enter the lists with Pindar.” Why it was not proper for a sister poet who had taught both of them to do what she did herself, is not clear. She was called the first of the nine lyrical muses, who were the earthly counterparts of the “celestial nine.” Myrtis was another. As the immortal Maids who dwelt on the slopes of Helicon were apt to visit their rivals with summary vengeance of much more serious character, perhaps their mortal representatives ought to be forgiven for a shade of jealousy so delicately implied.

It might have been Sappho’s fame that inspired the talents of Myrtis and Corinna. Maybe a dark-eyed girl returned from Lesbos to share the love of knowledge and beauty, starting new aesthetic clubs to energize women’s lives. But when we try to portray these famous poets in a real way, we only grasp at shadows. We know they lived, sang, and had their brief moments of glory, complete with grand tombs and statues in various parts of Greece. They were teachers of Pindar, and Corinna is said to have beaten him five times in poetry contests at Thebes. Centuries later, there was still a painting in Tanagra showing her tying a ribbon around her beautiful head, likely as a sign of those victories. Five crowns on her tomb also tell the story. She was the friend and critic of the great lyric poet, but he said some harsh things about his successful rival, claiming that the prize was more about her beauty than her talent. Despite this, he turned to her for advice. She suggested he use Greek[Pg 45] myths in his poems, and he did so abundantly that she cleverly told him to “sow with the hand and not pour out of a sack.” However, she wasn’t entirely generous to her other friend, who also won a prize in the same fashion. She said, “I blame the clear-toned Myrtis for entering the competition against Pindar as a woman.” It’s unclear why it wasn’t acceptable for a fellow poet who taught both of them to do what she herself did. She was called the first of the nine lyrical muses, earthly counterparts of the “celestial nine.” Myrtis was another. Since the immortal Muses who lived on the slopes of Helicon were known to punish their rivals with serious consequences, perhaps their mortal representations can be forgiven for showing a hint of jealousy that is so subtly implied.

Corinna left five books of poems, but small trace of them remains. Many of her verses were sung by maidens at religious festivals. Her modest niche in the temple of fame she owes mainly to her victories over Pindar, though she was second only to Sappho. Why her work, which was crowned with so many laurels, has not lived beside his, is one of the mysteries of buried ages. Perhaps it was because she made use of purely local legends and the local dialect, to which many thought she owed her success in her own day.

Corinna left behind five books of poems, but only a small trace of them remains. Many of her verses were sung by young women at religious festivals. She owes her modest spot in the hall of fame mainly to her victories over Pindar, though she was second only to Sappho. Why her work, which was honored with so many accolades, hasn't survived alongside his is one of the mysteries of lost ages. Perhaps it's because she relied on purely local legends and the local dialect, which many believed contributed to her success in her time.

This wave of feminine genius that passed over the hills and valleys of Greece spent itself in little[Pg 46] more than a century on Doric soil. The last of the lyrical muses were Praxilla and Telesilla. We have a faint glimpse of the first at Sicyon, where she lived, and ancient critics gave her a place by the side of Anacreon. She drew her inspiration largely from mythology, and sang successfully on that favorite theme of poetic maidens, the death of Adonis. In the most critical age of Greece she was honored with a statue by Lysippus, which may be taken as sufficient proof that she was much more than a writer of sentimental verses.

This wave of female brilliance that swept over the hills and valleys of Greece lasted just over a century in Doric lands. The last of the lyrical muses were Praxilla and Telesilla. We have a faint glimpse of the first at Sicyon, where she lived, and ancient critics placed her alongside Anacreon. She drew a lot of her inspiration from mythology and wrote successfully about that popular theme among poetic women, the death of Adonis. During Greece's most critical period, she was honored with a statue by Lysippus, which shows that she was much more than just a writer of sentimental poems.

More noted was Telesilla, the poet and heroine of Argos, an antique Joan of Arc, whose exaltation took a poetic form instead of a religious one. A curious little story, mythical or otherwise, is related of her. She was very ill and consulted the oracle, which told her to devote herself to the Muses. This species of mind-cure proved more effective than medicine, and she recovered under the magic of music and poetry. But she had the spirit of an Amazon as well as the genius of a poet. At a crisis in the war with Sparta, she armed the women, and manned the walls with slaves too young or too old to fight. The Spartans thought it discreditable to kill the women, and disgraceful to be beaten by them, so they retreated. The event was commemorated by an annual festival at which men appeared in feminine attire. Many centuries afterward a statue of Telesilla was still standing on a pillar in[Pg 47] front of the temple of Aphrodite at Argos. She held in her hand a helmet which she was about to put on her head, and several volumes of poetry were lying at her feet. Among her themes were the fated daughters of the weeping Niobe; she also wrote famous hymns to Artemis and Apollo. In spite of her allegiance to the Muses, she was more conspicuous for her service to Ares, who was henceforth worshiped at Argos as the patron deity of women.

More notable was Telesilla, the poet and heroine of Argos, an ancient Joan of Arc, whose inspiration took a poetic form instead of a religious one. A curious little story, mythical or not, is told about her. She was very ill and consulted the oracle, which advised her to dedicate herself to the Muses. This type of mental healing proved more effective than medicine, and she recovered under the influence of music and poetry. But she possessed the spirit of an Amazon as well as the talent of a poet. At a critical moment in the war with Sparta, she armed the women and filled the walls with slaves who were too young or too old to fight. The Spartans found it shameful to kill women and disgraceful to be defeated by them, so they retreated. This event was celebrated with an annual festival where men dressed in women's clothing. Many centuries later, a statue of Telesilla still stood on a pillar in[Pg 47] front of the temple of Aphrodite at Argos. She held a helmet that she was about to place on her head, and several volumes of poetry lay at her feet. Among her subjects were the fated daughters of the weeping Niobe; she also wrote famous hymns to Artemis and Apollo. Despite her dedication to the Muses, she was more recognized for her service to Ares, who was thereafter worshiped at Argos as the patron deity of women.

The poetry of the Æolians was largely inspired by love, or a religion of beauty. But the Doric genius was not a lyrical one, and the passionate personal note which made the charm of Sappho and her contemporaries was lost in stirring martial strains. Women ceased to write or to be known at all in literature until a later time, when they dipped into philosophy a little, especially in the Dorian colonies, where they were educated and held in great consideration. Pythagoras had many feminine followers, and his school at Crotona was continued after his death by his wife Theano and a daughter who had assisted him. But most of them live, if at all, only as names, or in the reflected light of famous men whose disciples they were.

The poetry of the Aeolians was mainly inspired by love or a celebration of beauty. However, the Doric spirit wasn't lyrical, and the passionate, personal touch that gave Sappho and her peers their charm was overshadowed by powerful war songs. Women stopped writing or being recognized in literature until later, when they explored philosophy a bit, especially in the Dorian colonies, where they received education and were highly respected. Pythagoras had many female followers, and his school in Croton continued after his death through his wife Theano and a daughter who helped him. But most of them live on, if at all, only as names or in the shadow of the famous men whose students they were.

IV

At no other time in the history of the world has the poetry of women reached the height or the[Pg 48] honor it attained in this first flowering of their intellect and imagination. One may doubtless take with a shade of reservation the “female Homers,” like Anyta, of whom we have only a few epigrams, but there is a dim and rather vague tradition of seventy-six women poets in a scattered and by no means large population. In the revival of poetry during the Renaissance, there were about sixty, and none of them had the same quality of perfection which we find in Sappho. No one claims that we have equaled her to-day on her own ground, however superior our achievements may be in other directions.

At no other time in history has women's poetry reached the same level of recognition and respect as it did during this initial burst of their creativity and imagination. While we might view the “female Homers,” like Anyta, with a bit of skepticism—since we only have a few of her epigrams—there is still a hazy tradition of seventy-six women poets within a small and scattered population. During the Renaissance's poetry revival, there were about sixty women, but none matched the exceptional quality found in Sappho's work. No one argues that we have surpassed her in her own domain, even if our accomplishments may be superior in other areas.

That the Æolian women did so much with so little, and in spite of their limited advantages, is the best proof of their inborn gifts. Mediocre talents do not thrive in so adverse a soil, though this outburst of mental vigor belongs to a time when women had a degree of freedom and honor which for some reason they lost in the golden age of Athens. But the books they wrote were not printed, the manuscript copies were limited, most of them were lost with other classic works, and the few that escaped the pitiless fingers of time were destroyed by fanatics and iconoclasts. Yet one woman shines across twenty-five centuries as a star of the first magnitude, and we have fading glimpses of others who received honors due only to genius, or to talent of the first order. They were not[Pg 49] judged apart as women, for they have come down to us as peers of great men. The divine gift of genius was rare then, as now and always, but even in women it did not lack recognition. To prove the gift and exact the homage, perhaps in any age, we have simply to show the fruit, except in a decadence, when the finest fruit loses its savor for corrupted tastes. If the number who wrote for immortality was small, it must be remembered that probably there were not enough people in all Greece to make a good-sized modern city.

That the Æolian women achieved so much with so little, despite their limited advantages, is the best evidence of their natural talents. Mediocre abilities don’t flourish in such challenging conditions, although this display of mental strength came from a time when women had a level of freedom and respect that they somehow lost during the golden age of Athens. However, the books they wrote were never published, manuscript copies were limited, most of them were lost along with other classic works, and the few that survived the relentless passage of time were destroyed by fanatics and iconoclasts. Yet one woman stands out across twenty-five centuries as a shining star, and we have faint glimpses of others who earned honors due to true genius or exceptional talent. They were not judged solely as women, as they are remembered alongside great men. The divine gift of genius was rare then, just as it is now, but it was still recognized in women. To demonstrate this gift and gain recognition, perhaps in any era, we just need to show the results, unless we’re in a time of decline when the finest fruits lose their appeal to corrupted tastes. If the number of those who wrote for lasting fame was small, we should remember that there likely weren't enough people in all of Greece to even make up a decent-sized modern city.

The statues that were reared to these women have long since vanished from the classic hills they graced, and their voices are heard only in the faintest of musical echoes. Most of them have fallen into eternal silence. That there were many others devoted to things of the intellect, but unknown to fame, it is fair to presume, as we see only those who look back upon us from the shining peaks of that far past, while the dark waters of oblivion have settled over the possible treasures of its sunny slopes and fragrant valleys. How many of our own women, with their myriads of books, lectures, and clubs, their university courses, their versatile intellects, and their unlimited freedom, are likely to be quoted two or three thousand years hence, and set in the firmament to live forever?

The statues dedicated to these women have long disappeared from the classic hills they once adorned, and their voices are heard only in faint musical echoes. Most of them have slipped into eternal silence. It's fair to assume there were many others dedicated to intellectual pursuits but unknown to history, as we only see those who gaze back at us from the shining peaks of a distant past, while the dark waters of oblivion have settled over the potential treasures of its sunny slopes and fragrant valleys. How many of our own women, with their countless books, lectures, and clubs, their university courses, their diverse intellects, and their unlimited freedom, are likely to be quoted two or three thousand years from now and celebrated forever?

To be sure, we stand upon a higher moral and social level, we have more knowledge, our field of[Pg 50] action is broader, our ideals of virtue are higher, and we have privileges and pleasures of which they never dreamed. It is quite impossible to put ourselves on the simple plane of these women. The world has grown old and sophisticated; we have learned to classify ourselves, to choose our fields of knowledge, to consecrate our talents to what we call larger uses. Perhaps we never again can reach the lyrical heights of these children of passion, imagination, and song. Our triumphs are of another sort. But whatever intellectual distinctions we may attain, it is to this youth of the world that we must look for the apotheosis of love and beauty.

Certainly, we exist on a higher moral and social plane. We have more knowledge, our sphere of[Pg 50] action is wider, our standards of virtue are elevated, and we enjoy privileges and pleasures they could never have imagined. It’s simply not possible for us to relate to these women on their level. The world has become old and sophisticated; we’ve learned to categorize ourselves, to select our areas of expertise, and to dedicate our talents to what we consider greater purposes. Perhaps we can never again reach the emotional heights of these passionate, imaginative, and musical individuals. Our successes are different. But no matter what intellectual achievements we may reach, it is to this youth of the world that we must turn for the ultimate expression of love and beauty.

It is needless to ask why we can point to no second Sappho. There is but one Parthenon. Broken and crumbling, it stands in its white majesty forever alone. The Hellenic spirit is as dead as the gods of Olympus.

It’s unnecessary to wonder why we can’t name another Sappho. There’s only one Parthenon. Broken and decaying, it stands in its white grandeur, forever solitary. The Greek spirit is as dead as the gods of Olympus.

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GLIMPSES OF THE SPARTAN WOMAN

· Homeric and Spartan Types Compared ·
· Training of the Spartan Woman ·
· Her Education Superior to that of Men ·
· Her Executive Talent ·
· Her Heroism ·
· Agesistrata Cratesiclea Chelonis ·
· The Puritans of the Classic World ·

· Comparison of Homeric and Spartan Types ·
· Education of the Spartan Woman ·
· Her Education is Superior to that of Men ·
· Her Leadership Skills ·
· Her Courage ·
· Agesistrata Cratesiclea Chelonis ·
· The Puritans of the Classical World ·


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The strength and vigor of the Homeric types reappear in the Spartan woman, but without their sweetness and charm. Was this charm the subtle touch of the poet’s imagination, or was it due in part to the setting that brought into relief their most lovable qualities? Their central point of character was a domestic one, and round this clustered all the gentler virtues. The central trait of the Spartan woman was patriotism, and to this even the tenderest affections were subordinate. The colder light of history shows them in outlines that are hard and stern. The fine symmetry of an ideal womanhood was lost in the excess of a single virtue that overshadowed all the others. Some one tells a mother who is waiting for tidings of a battle that her five sons have perished. “You contemptible slave,” she replies, “that is not what[Pg 54] I wish to know. How fares my country?” On learning that it was victorious, she says, “Willingly then do I hear of the death of my sons.” “A glorious fate!” exclaims another, to a friend who offered her sympathy for the loss of her boy in war. “Did I not bear him that he might die for Sparta?” Here lay the first and last duty of these women. Natural affection, private interest, inclination, everything we deem sacred, even to life, was at the bidding of the State, which strangled itself and its citizens with petty tyrannies in the name of liberty. They were dedicated to the State, ordered to rear men for the State, sacrificed to the State. This destiny they accepted without a murmur, finding in it their glory and their pride.

The strength and vitality of the heroic types show up again in Spartan women, but without their sweetness and charm. Was this charm just a product of the poet’s imagination, or was it partly due to the environment that highlighted their most lovable traits? Their main characteristic was domesticity, and around this revolved all their gentler virtues. The defining trait of Spartan women was patriotism, and even their deepest affections took a back seat to this. The harsher light of history presents them in stark, tough outlines. The beautiful balance of an ideal womanhood was overshadowed by an overwhelming focus on one virtue that eclipsed all others. One person tells a mother, who’s waiting for news of a battle, that her five sons have died. “You disgusting slave,” she replies, “that’s not what[Pg 54] I want to know. How is my country?” Upon learning of its victory, she says, “Then I gladly accept news of my sons' deaths.” “What a glorious fate!” exclaims another woman to a friend who offers her sympathy for the loss of her son in battle. “Did I not give birth to him so he could die for Sparta?” This was the primary and ultimate duty of these women. Natural affection, personal interests, desires, everything we hold dear—even life itself—was secondary to the demands of the State, which constrained its citizens with small tyrannies in the name of liberty. They were committed to the State, tasked with raising men for it, and sacrificed for its cause. They accepted this fate without complaint, finding their glory and pride in it.

Even as children the Spartan women caught the spirit of civic devotion, which was to be the dominant one in their lives. An anecdote in point is told of the little Gorgo, who was afterward the wife of the brave Leonidas. When a child of eight years, she happened to be in the room one day while a messenger was trying to bribe her father to aid the Persians. He offered ten talents at first, and gradually raised the sum until the child, suspecting danger, said: “Go away, father; this stranger will corrupt you.” It is pleasant to record that her advice was laughingly taken. When she was grown to womanhood, she rendered great service to her country, and proved her own sagacity,[Pg 55] by finding a message of vital concern so concealed in a wax tablet that no one had suspected it. “You Lacedæmonians are the only women in the world to rule men,” said a foreigner to her. “We are the only women who bring forth men,” was the ready reply. When her distinguished husband went away to his last battle, with forebodings of his fate, he could find no better parting words than these: “Marry nobly and bear brave sons.” We might regard the consolation as questionable, but it shows the inexorable tyranny of a single idea.

Even as kids, Spartan women embraced the spirit of civic responsibility, which would dominate their lives. There's a story about little Gorgo, who later became the wife of the courageous Leonidas. When she was just eight years old, she was in the room one day while a messenger tried to bribe her father to support the Persians. He started by offering ten talents, and kept increasing the amount until the child, sensing trouble, said, “Go away, Dad; this stranger will corrupt you.” It's nice to note that her advice was taken with a laugh. As an adult, she did great things for her country and showed her smarts by discovering a crucial message hidden inside a wax tablet that no one else had noticed. A foreigner once told her, “You Lacedæmonians are the only women in the world who rule men.” She quickly replied, “We are the only women who give birth to men.” When her famous husband went off to his final battle, aware of what might happen, he could only say, “Marry well and have brave sons.” We might find that consolation questionable, but it highlights the relentless grip of a single idea.[Pg 55]

It was from Sparta that the beautiful Helen sailed away on that fateful day which changed the face of the primitive world, and the tradition of her loveliness was not lost. The Spartan women were still noted for beauty of a healthy, vigorous, luxuriant sort, but it seems to have lacked the distinctly feminine and magical quality that raised Helen to the ranks of the goddesses. They were of firmer mold and less sensuous type. Aphrodite fared badly among the sturdy people in the valley of the Eurotas. She had but one temple, and even there she sat armed with a sword and veiled, with ignominious fetters on her feet. Artemis, active, fleet of foot, and strong, held the place of honor. Delicacy and tenderness were marks of inferiority which Spartan training tended to efface. These brave, decided, clear-headed, and efficient women had[Pg 56] abundant heroism, but little of the warm, sympathetic temperament which we call womanly and they called weak. This goes far to prove that, within certain limits, the accepted standard of what is womanly, and what is not, depends largely upon custom, or fashion, or expediency, and suggests some unpleasant possibilities if the race of women should be fully educated to the hard uses and material ideals of a purely industrial or commercial life, as outlined in the brains of many modern social reformers. Such uses may be a present necessity rather than a choice, but whether the gain in strength and independence will compensate for the inevitable loss of many gentler qualities is one of the problems for the future to solve. In any case, the old theory of a divine law that has fixed the nature as well as the status of women in the economy of creation, is likely to be seriously disturbed, as it was in the Sparta of old. In the martial chorus that called itself the song of liberty, the musical, love-inspired voices of women were lost. It celebrated the apotheosis of force, which has always been fatal to the finer and more spiritual gifts of the less militant sex. But for once it served them indirectly a good turn, in spite of certain hardening effects upon the character and manners. This is quite evident when we compare the Doric woman with the secluded Athenian of softer ways but with no outlet for her intelligence, and apparently no influence.

It was from Sparta that the beautiful Helen set sail on that fateful day that transformed the early world, and the legend of her beauty remained. Spartan women were still recognized for their healthy and vibrant beauty, but it seemed to lack the distinctly feminine and enchanting quality that elevated Helen to goddess status. They were of a sturdier type and less sensual. Aphrodite didn't fare well among the strong people in the Eurotas valley. She had only one temple, and even there, she sat armed with a sword and veiled, with shameful shackles on her feet. Artemis, active, swift, and powerful, held the top spot. Delicacy and tenderness were seen as signs of inferiority that Spartan training aimed to eliminate. These brave, decisive, clear-minded, and capable women had plenty of heroism but little of the warm, sympathetic temperament we consider feminine and they saw as weak. This suggests that, within certain limits, the accepted ideas of what is womanly and what is not largely depend on customs, fashion, or practicality, and raises some uncomfortable possibilities if women are fully educated for the harsh realities and material ideals of a purely industrial or commercial life, as many modern social reformers envision. Such roles may be necessary now rather than a choice, but whether the increase in strength and independence will make up for the inevitable loss of softer qualities is one of the challenges for the future to address. In any case, the old belief in a divine law that has determined both the nature and status of women in the grand scheme of things is likely to be significantly shaken, as it was in ancient Sparta. In the martial chorus that called itself the song of freedom, the melodic, love-inspired voices of women were lost. It celebrated the glorification of strength, which has consistently undermined the finer and more spiritual gifts of the less militant sex. Yet, for once, it served them indirectly well, despite certain hardening effects on character and behavior. This is especially clear when we compare the Doric woman with the secluded Athenian, who had a gentler nature but lacked an outlet for her intelligence and seemingly had no influence.

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Fortunately the supreme aim of the founders of Sparta was one which they were wise enough to know could not be attained without a larger freedom and development for women. It was a one-sided training that was given them, and the freedom was not altogether satisfactory from our point of view, if indeed we should call it freedom at all. But as an important factor in the State they were duly honored. It was an accepted theory that brave and vigorous men must spring from brave and vigorous women, so the aim of all their discipline was to make strong and healthy mothers. No delicate girl was allowed to marry, for the same reason that no sickly child was allowed to live. To insure the vitality of the race and the consequent glory of the State, girls were trained with boys in athletic exercises. They ran, wrestled, and boxed with them in public,—sometimes with no veil but their modesty,—danced with them at festivals, and marched freely with them in religious processions. All this naturally gave them masculine manners, and inevitably led to a spirit of independence and a virile character. The more refined Athenians criticized them and looked upon them much as the conventional Parisian of to-day, who will not send a daughter across the street without a chaperon, looks upon the irrepressible American girl of the frontier. Contrary also to the usual fashion, it was the maidens who had the privilege of living in[Pg 58] the public view. They did not even veil their faces, as the married women did.

Fortunately, the primary goal of the founders of Sparta was one they understood couldn't be achieved without greater freedom and development for women. The training they received was somewhat limited, and from our perspective, the freedom they had wasn't entirely satisfactory, if we should even call it freedom at all. However, they were recognized as an important part of the State. It was widely believed that strong and courageous men must come from strong and courageous women, so the focus of all their training was to produce strong and healthy mothers. Delicate girls were not allowed to marry, just as sickly children were not permitted to survive. To ensure the vitality of the race and the resulting glory of the State, girls were trained alongside boys in athletic activities. They ran, wrestled, and boxed with them in public—sometimes without any covering but their modesty—danced with them at festivals, and marched freely with them in religious processions. All of this naturally gave them masculine traits and led to a spirit of independence and a strong character. The more refined Athenians criticized them and regarded them much like a conventional Parisian today, who wouldn't let a daughter cross the street without a chaperone, views the spirited American girl from the frontier. Also, contrary to the usual custom, it was the maidens who had the privilege of being in the public eye. They did not even cover their faces, as the married women did.

With all their mannish tendencies, the Spartan women are said to have been noted for purity of character. It is safe perhaps to take with a degree of reservation the assertion that immorality according to their standards was practically unknown. We might at least justly find fault with the standards, and object to the material view taken of relations which we are in the habit of investing with a delicate halo of romance. It was an affair of the State, however, rather than of the individual, and it is a nice point to decide as to the morality of women who accepted from necessity certain prescribed modes of living in which they had no choice. So peculiar were the general notions of decorum that it was considered disgraceful for a bridegroom to be seen in the company of his wife; yet he could exchange her at will or at the command of the rulers, and jealousy was laughed at as a “vain and womanish passion.” But it was the pride of the Spartans that no invasion of the sanctity of the home was ever heard of! They excused themselves for what we should call moral delinquencies of the worst sort—if indeed they thought any excuse needed, which is not probable—by the convenient maxim that the end justifies the means. The interests of the State were above any moral law whatever. No doubt the arbitrary manner in[Pg 59] which women were often disposed of for the public good, or at the caprice of their lords, seemed to them a better sort of fate than living in seclusion, as their Attic sisters did, under the roof of a man who gave them no liberty, and no society, not even his own. They certainly were not troubled with an excess of sentiment; but marriages were, on the whole, happy, and love was often a factor in them, which was rarely the case among their more civilized neighbors. It was not in the nature of these practical people to look at things from an esthetic point of view. Their notions were confessedly utilitarian. To-day we should call many of them scientific. Happily, modern science has not yet meddled quite so far with the rights of the individual, though clearly headed in that direction.

With all their masculine traits, Spartan women are said to have been known for their strong character. It’s probably wise to take with a grain of salt the claim that immorality, by their standards, was practically nonexistent. We can definitely critique those standards and argue against the straightforward view taken of relationships that we typically view through a delicate lens of romance. It was more about the State than the individual, and it's a tricky issue to determine the morality of women who, out of necessity, accepted certain prescribed ways of living that left them with no choice. The societal norms were so unusual that it was deemed disgraceful for a groom to be seen with his wife; yet he could trade her at will or at the order of the rulers, and jealousy was mocked as a “silly and feminine emotion.” However, the Spartans took pride in the fact that there was never any invasion of the sanctity of the home! They justified what we would consider serious moral failings—if they thought they needed to justify them, which is unlikely—with the convenient saying that the end justifies the means. The needs of the State outweighed any moral law. No doubt, the arbitrary way women were often treated for the public good, or at the whim of their husbands, felt to them like a better fate than living in seclusion, like their Athenian counterparts, under the roof of a man who offered them no freedom or companionship, not even his own. They certainly weren't bogged down by too much sentimentality; but overall, marriages were happy, and love was often a part of them, which was rarely the case among their more refined neighbors. These practical people didn’t tend to view things from an artistic perspective. Their beliefs were frankly utilitarian. Today, many of their views would be considered scientific. Fortunately, modern science hasn’t yet intruded too much on individual rights, though it clearly seems to be heading in that direction.

If the Spartan woman did not relish such cavalier treatment, she had the small comfort of knowing that men were not free themselves, and that really, on the whole, she had the best of it. “The door of his court is the boundary of every man’s freedom,” was a Lacedæmonian maxim. Outside of it, all of his movements were controlled by the State. In this paradise of socialism, he was punished for not marrying, for waiting too long, and for marrying the wrong woman, that is, one who was too old, or too young, or too rich, or too far above or below him in station. Archidamus, one of their rulers, was fined for marrying a little[Pg 60] woman, because she would “bring them a race of pygmies instead of kings.” There were special penalties for those who sought money instead of merit and suitability. The fortune-hunter fared badly in Sparta. We have grown civilized and changed all that. A man suffered his penalty for remaining single, even if he were a coward whom no one was permitted to marry, which seems doubly hard. The poor bachelors who would not or could not take a wife, were stripped and marched in a procession about the market-place on a cold day once a year, as a fit target for ridicule and contempt, not to say more tangible missiles. If any woman had a private grudge, she might vent it with impunity, even to blows, while the unfortunate victim was forced to chant his own miserere. Maiden ladies of mature age were rare among the hills of Lacedæmon.

If a Spartan woman didn't appreciate such dismissive treatment, she could take some solace in knowing that men weren't truly free either, and overall, she had the upper hand. “The door of his court is the boundary of every man’s freedom,” was a common saying in Lacedæmon. Outside of it, all his actions were dictated by the State. In this socialist paradise, he faced penalties for not marrying, for taking too long, or for choosing the wrong woman—one who was either too old, too young, too wealthy, or too high or low in social rank. Archidamus, one of their leaders, was fined for marrying a small woman, because she would “bring them a race of pygmies instead of kings.” There were specific punishments for those who prioritized money over merit and suitability. Fortune-seekers had a tough time in Sparta. We've evolved and changed all that. A man faced repercussions for staying single, even if he was a coward whom no one would marry, which seems particularly unfair. The unfortunate bachelors who wouldn't or couldn't marry were stripped and paraded around the market on a cold day once a year, as a prime target for ridicule and scorn, not to mention thrown objects. If any woman held a personal grudge, she could unleash it without consequence, even resorting to physical blows, while the hapless target had to sing his own lament. Unmarried women of a certain age were scarce among the hills of Lacedæmon.

Notwithstanding the low ideals which would seem to have reduced the women of Sparta to the position of useful animals, valued solely for their physical vigor and fitness to be mothers of a hardy race, they evidently constituted a leisure class which had a monopoly of whatever learning and refinement were to be found there. They lived in such comfort as they could command, while their husbands slept on cold beds of reeds, dined on black bread and coarse rations at the public table, and practised every form of asceticism to fit themselves[Pg 61] for war. Their sons were taken from them at seven, to be put under the training of men and subjected to the same stern discipline. The spinning, weaving, and other work of the family was given to slaves, so that the privileges of luxury and idleness fell to the women alone. They came and went as they chose, and were even thought to have intellects worth cultivating. Men looked upon literary and artistic pursuits as effeminate. A Spartan king replied to some one who brought to his notice the greatest musician of his time, by pointing to his cook as the best maker of black broth. This social Utopia in which the individual was lost in the mass, and no one could safely be superior to his neighbor, was the blessed haven of mediocrity and what we should call indolence. War was the only honorable business; even trade and the mechanic arts were left to slaves. A Spartan visiting Athens was much disturbed on hearing that a man had been fined for idleness, and naïvely asked to see one who was punished for keeping up his dignity. Life was materialized, and all fine ideals were destroyed save the single one of national glory, for which they willingly stifled personal feeling and personal talent. Things of the intellect and spirit were quite ignored.

Despite the low standards that seemed to have reduced the women of Sparta to the role of useful beings, valued only for their strength and ability to be mothers of a tough people, they clearly made up a leisure class that held a monopoly on whatever education and refinement existed there. They lived in as much comfort as they could manage, while their husbands slept on hard beds of reeds, ate black bread and rough portions at the communal meal, and practiced extreme self-discipline to prepare for war. Their sons were taken from them at the age of seven, placed under the training of men, and subjected to strict discipline. Tasks like spinning, weaving, and other family duties were assigned to slaves, allowing the privileges of luxury and idleness to fall solely to the women. They came and went freely, and were even considered to have minds worth developing. Men viewed literary and artistic pursuits as unmanly. A Spartan king, when someone pointed out the best musician of his time, indicated his cook instead, claiming he was the best at making black broth. This social Utopia, where individual identity was submerged in the collective and no one could safely stand out from their neighbor, was a blessed refuge of mediocrity and what we would call laziness. War was the only respectable profession; even commerce and crafts were left to slaves. When a Spartan visiting Athens heard that a man had been fined for idleness, he was quite upset and innocently asked to meet someone who was punished for maintaining his dignity. Life was materialized, and all lofty ideals were abandoned except for the singular pursuit of national glory, for which they gladly suppressed personal feelings and individual talents. Matters of intellect and spirit were completely disregarded.

But the Doric women had to some extent the tastes of the Æolians, and were as a rule far better educated than their husbands. We hear of clubs[Pg 62] or associations of women for the cultivation of the mind, and for teaching girls after the fashion of the time. In music they excelled. Aristophanes introduces in “Lysistrata” choruses of Spartan and Athenian maidens who sing in friendly rivalry. Many of the parthenia, or processional hymns, were written by foreign poets for these young girls, whose spiritual aspirations found vent in that way. They did not give voice to personal emotions, but to great religious or patriotic enthusiasms.

But the Doric women had some of the tastes of the Æolians and were generally much better educated than their husbands. We hear about clubs[Pg 62] or groups of women focusing on intellectual development and teaching girls in the style of the time. They excelled in music. Aristophanes features in “Lysistrata” choruses of Spartan and Athenian maidens who sing in friendly competition. Many of the parthenia, or processional hymns, were written by foreign poets for these young girls, whose spiritual aspirations were expressed this way. They didn’t express personal emotions but rather significant religious or patriotic passions.

Whatever education may have been given to women, it is not likely that their intellectual standards were very broad or very high; at least, we have no visible evidence of it, as we find no living trace of their talents for some centuries after the brief poetic flowering that followed Sappho, and even then not in Sparta. It was among the Dorians of a later time, and mainly in the colonies, that the feminine taste for literature revived, but it took a didactic or philosophical form, and they wrote in prose.

Whatever education women received, it’s unlikely that their intellectual standards were very broad or high; at least, we don’t have any clear evidence of it, as we find no lasting signs of their talents for several centuries after the brief poetic flourish that came after Sappho, and even then, not in Sparta. It was among the later Dorians, mainly in the colonies, that the interest in literature from women was reignited, but it took on a didactic or philosophical style, and they wrote in prose.

The talent of the Spartan women was largely executive, and they were noted for judgment, as well as for heroism. As nurses they were in great demand in other parts of Greece. A strong proof of their gifts of administration is found in the fact that they had equal rights of inheritance with men, and came in time to own two fifths of the land and a large share of the personal property. This gave[Pg 63] them a dignity and influence not accorded to their sex elsewhere. Aristotle did not like their freedom and power. He claimed that they ruled their husbands too imperiously; also, that they were liable to be troublesome in times of war, as it was impossible to bring them under military discipline. If they ruled the rulers, he thought that the results would be the same as if they ruled in their own right. Plutarch tells us that “the Spartans listened to their wives, and women were permitted to meddle more with public business than men with the domestic.” Again he says that “women considered themselves absolute mistresses in their houses; indeed, they wanted a share in affairs of State, and delivered their opinions with great freedom concerning the most weighty matters.” But freedom is relative, and a little of it goes a great way where there has been, as a rule, none at all. It does not seem that any fears on this subject were realized, as their influence, so far as we know, was conservative, and they were subordinate in theory if not always in fact. “When I was a girl I was taught to obey my father, and I obeyed him,” said a woman, when asked to do something of doubtful propriety; “and when I became a wife I obeyed my husband; if you have anything just to urge, make it known to him first.” A clever if not very chivalrous writer of the time says: “It becomes a man to talk much, and a woman to rejoice in all[Pg 64] she hears”—a comfortable arrangement for dull husbands, who would be sure at least of an appreciative audience at home.

The talent of Spartan women was mainly leadership, and they were known for their judgement as well as their bravery. They were in high demand as nurses in other parts of Greece. A strong indication of their administrative skills is that they had equal rights to inherit property as men, and eventually owned two-fifths of the land and a significant portion of personal property. This gave[Pg 63] them a level of dignity and influence that women elsewhere did not have. Aristotle disapproved of their freedom and power. He argued that they dominated their husbands too much and were prone to being disruptive in times of war since it was hard to keep them under military control. He thought if they were in charge of the leaders, the outcome would be the same as if they were in charge themselves. Plutarch tells us that “the Spartans listened to their wives, and women were allowed to be more involved in public affairs than men were in domestic matters.” He also stated that “women considered themselves the absolute bosses of their homes; in fact, they sought a role in state affairs and expressed their opinions freely on important issues.” However, freedom is relative, and a little bit of it can feel like a lot when there's usually none at all. It appears that any concerns about this issue were unfounded, as their influence, to the extent we know, was conservative, and they were theoretically subordinate even if not always in practice. “When I was a girl, I was taught to obey my father, and I did,” said a woman when asked to do something questionable; “and when I became a wife, I obeyed my husband; if you have anything reasonable to suggest, bring it to him first.” A clever, though not very gallant, writer of the time remarked: “It suits a man to talk a lot, while a woman should delight in all[Pg 64] she hears”—a comfortable setup for dull husbands, who could at least count on an appreciative audience at home.

But we find instances of heroic devotion among these hardy women, for which we look in vain among the ignorant and secluded wives of Athens. It is a pity that Plutarch did not give some of them a distinct place in his gallery of celebrities. He had a superior wife himself, a well-bred woman of dignity, tenderness, great mental vigor, simple taste, and distinguished virtues, who was above the vanities of her time, and bore sorrow like a philosopher. He loved her devotedly, praised her fortitude, and admired her strength. This perhaps accounts for the fact that he was kindly disposed toward women in general, and thought that their fame should be known, since love of glory was not confined to one sex. But if he did not set them on a pinnacle of their own, he has shown us by various anecdotes that they could counsel like seers and die like heroes. In the decline of Sparta, when Agis planned to restore the old simplicity it had lost with the coming of luxury and foreign ways, he asked the aid of his mother, the brave Agesistrata, a woman of great wealth and influence. She thought the division of property he proposed neither wise nor practicable, and advised him against it. But when she found his heart set upon it as a means of winning glory, as well as bringing back the people[Pg 65] to virtue and simpler manners, she consented not only to give up her own great fortune, but to induce others to join her. As the wealth of Sparta was largely in the hands of women who were less disinterested and did not care to lose either their luxuries or their power, this socialistic movement failed, and its self-sacrificing leaders were put to death. When Agesistrata was led into the prison to see her son, he lay strangled before her. She tenderly placed her own dead mother by his side, and baring her neck with calm dignity, said: “May this prove for the good of Sparta.”

But we find examples of heroic devotion among these strong women, which we search for in vain among the uneducated and isolated wives of Athens. It's a shame that Plutarch didn't give some of them a specific place in his collection of famous figures. He had a remarkable wife himself, a cultured woman of dignity, kindness, sharp intellect, simple taste, and admirable virtues, who rose above the superficialities of her time and faced sorrow like a philosopher. He loved her deeply, praised her bravery, and admired her strength. This might explain why he was generally supportive of women and believed that their achievements should be acknowledged since the desire for glory isn't limited to one gender. While he didn't elevate them to a pedestal of their own, he showed through various stories that they could advise like prophets and die like heroes. During the decline of Sparta, when Agis aimed to restore the simplicity that had been lost to luxury and foreign influences, he sought the help of his mother, the courageous Agesistrata, a woman of great wealth and influence. She thought the division of property he proposed wasn't wise or practical, and advised him against it. But when she realized he was determined to pursue it as a way to gain glory and to bring the people back to virtue and simpler ways, she agreed not only to give up her own substantial fortune but to convince others to join her. Since much of Sparta's wealth was in the hands of women who were less selfless and unwilling to relinquish their luxuries or power, this socialist initiative failed, and its self-sacrificing leaders were executed. When Agesistrata was taken to the prison to see her son, he lay there strangled before her. She gently placed her own deceased mother by his side, and, with calm dignity, bared her neck and said: “May this serve the good of Sparta.”

In the second attempt to restore the prestige of the falling State, Cratesiclea rivals the great heroines of the dramatists in her noble self-surrender. Ptolemy demanded, as the price of his alliance, that Cleomenes should send his mother and son to Egypt as hostages. When she heard of it she smilingly said: “Was this the thing you have so long hesitated to tell me? Send this body of mine at once where it will be of the most use to Sparta, before age renders it good for nothing.” She went without tears, saying that no one must see them weep. Finding afterward that the king was hampered by the fear that some ill might befall them, she sent him word to do what was best, and never mind what became of an old woman and a little child. This enterprise, too, was a futile one, but the women who had inspired men with their own courage and[Pg 66] devotion died as bravely as they had lived. It is a touching scene where the young and beautiful wife of Panteus pays the last offices to her dead friends, then, folding her robe modestly about her, tranquilly tells the executioner to do his work.

In her second attempt to restore the prestige of the declining State, Cratesiclea stands alongside the great heroines of drama with her selfless sacrifice. Ptolemy demanded that Cleomenes send his mother and son to Egypt as hostages to secure their alliance. When she heard this, she smiled and said, “Is this the thing you've been hesitating to tell me? Send my body right away where it will be most useful to Sparta, before age makes it worthless.” She left without tears, insisting that no one should see them cry. Later, learning that the king was worried something bad might happen to them, she messaged him to do what he thought was best and not to worry about an old woman and a little child. This mission also ended in failure, but the women who inspired men with their own courage and commitment faced death as bravely as they had lived. It's a moving scene where the young and beautiful wife of Panteus pays her last respects to her dead friends, then, wrapping her robe around her modestly, calmly tells the executioner to proceed with his task.

“In women too there lives the strength of battle,” says Sophocles, and nowhere could he have found such heroic examples as among the rugged hills of Sparta. Out of such material, Antigones and Iphigenias are created.

“In women too there exists the strength of battle,” says Sophocles, and nowhere could he have found such heroic examples as among the rugged hills of Sparta. Out of such material, Antigones and Iphigenias are born.

Beneath a discipline of the affections so severe that it seems as if they must have been crushed altogether, we sometimes fall upon unsuspected depths of tenderness. Chelonis left her husband in his day of power, to care for her father, who had been deposed and was in disgrace and need. When the political tables were turned, and her father was again on the throne, she pleaded with eloquence and tears for her husband’s life. Her wise and tactful words saved him, but he was exiled. She was urged by her family to stay and enjoy the fruits of their victory, but, turning sorrowfully away, she took her children, kissed the altar where they had found a sanctuary, and went out with her disgraced husband to poverty and obscurity.

Beneath a strict emotional restraint that makes it seem like their feelings must be entirely suppressed, we sometimes discover unexpected depths of compassion. Chelonis left her husband during his time of power to take care of her father, who had been overthrown and was in disgrace and need. When the political situation changed and her father regained the throne, she passionately and tearfully pleaded for her husband’s life. Her wise and diplomatic words saved him, but he was still exiled. Her family urged her to stay and enjoy the benefits of their victory, but with a heavy heart, she turned away, took her children, kissed the altar that had offered them safety, and left with her disgraced husband to face poverty and obscurity.

We cannot measure these Spartan women by the standards of to-day. They did not belong to the age of university courses, society functions, and Christian ideals. Love as we understand it played[Pg 67] a small part in their lives, and of romance there is little trace, though examples of conjugal affection are not rare. Of what we call learning they probably had very little, and of esthetic taste still less, but of clear judgment, solid character, and fearless courage, they had a great deal. They were trained as companions and helpers of men, not as their toys, though they were always subject to them. It was a simple life they led—a life with few graces and few of our complexities. They were the Puritans of the classic world, without the Puritan conscience or moral sense, but with more than Puritan courage and fortitude.

We can’t judge these Spartan women by today’s standards. They didn’t live in an age of university education, social events, or Christian ideals. Love, as we understand it, played a small role in their lives, and there’s little trace of romance, though you can find examples of marital affection. They probably had very little of what we consider learning and even less appreciation for aesthetics, but they had a lot of clear judgment, strong character, and fearless courage. They were raised to be companions and supporters of men, not as their playthings, even though they were always subject to them. They lived a simple life—one with few refinements and few of our complexities. They were the Puritans of the ancient world, lacking the Puritan conscience or moral sense, but possessing greater courage and resilience than the Puritans.

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THE ATHENIAN WOMAN, ASPASIA, AND THE FIRST SALON

· Vassalage of the Athenian Woman ·
· Her Ignorance and Seclusion ·
· Religious Festivals · The Hetæræ ·
· Aspasia · Her Position · Her Gifts ·
· Tribute of Socrates ·
· Devotion of Pericles ·
· The First Salon · Opinions of the Philosophers ·
· Woman’s Inferior Position a Cause of Athenian Decline ·

· The Subservience of Athenian Women ·
· Their Lack of Knowledge and Isolation ·
· Religious Celebrations · The Courtesans ·
· Aspasia · Her Role · Her Skills ·
· Tribute to Socrates ·
· Devotion of Pericles ·
· The First Salon · Views of the Philosophers ·
· Women's Lower Status as a Factor in Athenian Decline ·


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The Athenians agreed with the opinion ascribed to Pericles that “the best wife is the one of whom the least is said either of good or evil.” But this wise statesman does not seem to have found his theory agreeable in practice, as he sent away his own wife, who was quite innocent even of local fame, to put in her place the cleverest and most talked of woman of her time. She accepted the inevitable with becoming philosophy, if not gratefully, and it must be said to his credit that he was kind enough to help her to another husband. But what became of his theory? One is tempted to think that Thucydides, who put these words into his mouth, was speaking largely for himself, as it is clear that he thought women too unimportant, if[Pg 72] not too precious, to be talked about; else why did the great historian so utterly ignore them?

The Athenians agreed with Pericles' view that “the best wife is the one of whom the least is said, whether good or bad.” However, this wise leader doesn’t seem to have found his theory practical, as he sent away his own wife, who was completely unknown, to replace her with the smartest and most talked-about woman of the time. She accepted this change with grace, if not gratitude, and it’s worth noting that he was kind enough to help her find another husband. But what happened to his theory? One might think that Thucydides, who attributed these words to him, was mainly expressing his own views, since it’s clear he considered women too insignificant, if not too valuable, to discuss; otherwise, why would the great historian completely overlook them?

It is a significant fact which upsets many pleasant little theories about the superior justice of a democracy, that women who shared the power and glory of their husbands in the heroic age,—even if they had little of their own,—and preserved a measure of influence under the rule of kings in historic times, lost their honored position in republican Athens. In a rule of the people they had no longer the prestige of an aristocracy, and they did not count politically. As they held no recognized place of honor, and it was not respectable to shine by their talents, they had no apparent claim to consideration. They might stand on a pedestal to add to the glory of men, they might grace a hereditary throne for the honor of a family, but it never occurred to the classic world that woman sprang, as the witty Frenchman said, “from the side of Adam, and not from his feet.”

It’s a significant fact that challenges many nice little theories about the better justice of a democracy: women who shared in the power and glory of their husbands during the heroic age—even if they had little power of their own—and maintained some influence under kings in historical times, lost their respected position in republican Athens. In a government by the people, they no longer had the prestige of an aristocracy, and they didn’t have a political voice. Since they didn’t hold a recognized position of honor and it wasn’t seen as respectable for them to stand out because of their talents, they had no obvious claim to respect. They could be placed on a pedestal to enhance the glory of men, or they could adorn a hereditary throne for the honor of a family, but it never occurred to the ancient world that women were, as the clever Frenchman said, “from the side of Adam, and not from his feet.”

To all intents and purposes, the Attic women were slaves, with no rights and few privileges. We do not know much about them directly, as they left no record of themselves, and very little was written of them except by the satirists, who are always ready to distort the truth in order to “point a moral or adorn a tale.” Historians were strangely silent regarding them; unless of royal lineage, women were too insignificant. It is difficult,[Pg 73] in the face of the few facts we know, to credit the brilliant Athenians with any chivalry. We must either suppose that the poets were a sour and disappointed race, or that they reflected the spirit of their time. Apart from the few great ideals that lived in the imaginations of men, everything that has come down to us shows the light estimate in which women were held. They were a lower order of beings, and anything done by their advice was invalid. “Women are an evil,” says the comedian, “and yet, my countrymen, one cannot set up a house without evil; for to be married or not to be married is alike bad.” This arrogant and contemptuous tone runs through the Attic literature, as I have shown more fully elsewhere.

To all intents and purposes, the women of Attica were slaves, with no rights and few privileges. We don’t know much about them directly, as they left no records of themselves, and very little was written about them except by satirists, who are always eager to twist the truth to “teach a lesson or embellish a story.” Historians were oddly silent about them; unless they were of royal descent, women were considered too insignificant. It’s hard,[Pg 73] given the few facts we have, to believe that the brilliant Athenians had any sense of chivalry. We must either assume that the poets were a bitter and disappointed bunch, or that they reflected the attitude of their time. Aside from the few great ideals that lived in men's imaginations, everything we have shows how little value was placed on women. They were seen as a lower class of beings, and anything done with their input was considered invalid. “Women are a curse,” says the comedian, “and yet, my fellow citizens, you can’t set up a household without a curse; because being married or not being married is equally bad.” This arrogant and dismissive attitude runs throughout Attic literature, as I have explained more thoroughly elsewhere.

From the vague and shadowy outlines of a life that was practically shut out from the light of day twenty-five centuries ago, we cannot gather with certainty even the moral and domestic value of women who were treated with lofty disdain by poets, satirists, and historians alike. But we do know that intellectually they counted for nothing, within the pale of orthodox society. At a period when the central idea was culture, when art was at its zenith, and there were giants in literature, the wives and daughters of men noted before all things for brilliancy and esprit had fallen into hopeless ignorance and vassalage. They lacked even the companionship and the small diversions of the Oriental[Pg 74] harem, where the inmates, though they had only a small fraction of a husband, could break the monotony by gossiping or quarreling with the other wives. The women of the better class at Athens had special apartments, usually in the upper story, so that they could not go out without being seen. Men went to market themselves or sent their slaves. We learn from Aristophanes that they often put their wives under lock and key, with a seal when they went away, also that they kept Molossian hounds to frighten away possible lovers. A woman addressed her husband as “master,” was always a minor, and could transact no business on her own account, which even Plato thought unjust. If he died she was not his heir, but the ward of her son or of some male relative. In her marriage she was not consulted, and she was never supposed to know any man but the one chosen for her. Solon, who wished to prevent mercenary marriages, decreed that no dowries should be given, and that the bride could have only three suits of clothes; later, unions were arranged by the families, on a basis of equal fortunes. Infidelity on the part of the husband was no ground of complaint. As wives were so closely guarded there does not seem to have been much danger of indiscretions, but they were sent away on the slightest suspicion, and their punishments were carried to the utmost refinement of cruelty. In spite of this surveillance, possibly[Pg 75] because of it, sins against morality were more frequent than in Sparta.

From the unclear and shadowy outlines of a life that was almost completely hidden from the light of day twenty-five centuries ago, we can’t definitively determine even the moral and domestic value of women who were treated with great disdain by poets, satirists, and historians alike. However, we do know that intellectually they were considered insignificant within standard society. At a time when the main focus was culture, when art was thriving, and there were giants in literature, the wives and daughters of men known for their brilliance and wit had fallen into a state of hopeless ignorance and servitude. They didn’t even have the companionship and small distractions of the Oriental [Pg 74] harem, where the women, despite having only a fraction of a husband, could ease the monotony by gossiping or arguing with the other wives. Women of the upper class in Athens had special rooms, usually on the upper floor, so they couldn’t go out without being seen. Men either went to the market themselves or sent their slaves. We learn from Aristophanes that they often locked their wives up and sealed the door when they left, and they kept Molossian hounds to scare off potential lovers. A woman referred to her husband as “master,” was always regarded as a minor, and couldn’t conduct any business on her own, which even Plato considered unfair. If her husband died, she was not his heir but instead the guardian of her son or some male relative. In her marriage, she wasn’t consulted, nor was she expected to know any man except the one chosen for her. Solon, aiming to prevent transactional marriages, mandated that no dowries should be given and that the bride could possess only three outfits; later, marriages were arranged by families based on equal wealth. A husband's infidelity was not grounds for complaint. While wives were strictly controlled, it seems there wasn’t much risk of their indiscretions, yet they could be sent away at the slightest suspicion, and their punishments could be exceedingly cruel. Despite this tight control, or perhaps because of it, moral transgressions were more common than in Sparta.

After the age of sixty, women were permitted to go to funerals outside of their families, if they would not mourn too violently. These occasions must have been rather welcome than otherwise, as Greek funerals were not hopelessly solemn affairs, except to the immediate family. Brides had the special privilege of sitting at table at their own wedding banquets, to which only relatives or very near friends were asked. The amusements of women seem to have consisted largely in looking out of the window and making their toilets. If they went to the theater at all, they were limited to tragedy and had to take back seats.

After turning sixty, women were allowed to attend funerals outside their families, as long as they didn’t mourn too strongly. These events likely felt more like a welcome break, since Greek funerals weren’t excessively serious, except for the immediate family. Brides had the special privilege of sitting at the table during their own wedding receptions, which were attended only by relatives or very close friends. Women’s entertainment mainly involved looking out the window and getting ready. If they did go to the theater, they were restricted to tragedy and had to sit in the back.

We have an account of one model husband who is not content that his young wife should simply know how to spin, weave, and direct her maids, so he tries to educate her. She is only fifteen, and he says that she has lived under the strictest restraint so that she might “see as little, hear as little, and ask as few questions as possible.” When he has her properly domesticated so that she dares to speak in his presence, he explains their mutual responsibilities in terms that must have mystified this child of nature a little, tells her to do well what the gods have suited to her and men approve, to use no cosmetics or aids to beauty, and to knead bread or fold linen for exercise, since she must not[Pg 76] walk out. The main thing he dwells upon is the necessity of looking closely after their common fortunes; but she has also to take care of the children, and nurse the slaves when they are ill. He kindly admits that if she is superior to him she will be mistress,—taking good care, however, that such an unfortunate state of affairs shall not exist so far as education is concerned,—and assures her that the better she serves the interests of his family and household, the more she will be honored. This is all very well so far as it goes, and we may readily admit that it is of more vital importance to administer the affairs of one’s family with judgment and dignity than to talk about art or read Homer. But the docile wife had a housekeeper as well as plenty of slaves, and, naturally, abundant leisure. It certainly implied a degree of what Socrates called “manly understanding” on her part, to follow her husband’s abstruse reasoning on the duties of women, and his minute instructions for carrying them out; yet this wise representative of the most civilized race the world has known never so much as hints that she has an intellect.

We have a story about a model husband who isn’t satisfied with his young wife just knowing how to spin, weave, and manage her maids, so he tries to educate her. She is only fifteen, and he says she has lived under strict control so that she should “see as little, hear as little, and ask as few questions as possible.” Once he has her trained enough to speak in front of him, he explains their mutual responsibilities in ways that must have confused this natural child a bit. He tells her to do well what the gods have suited for her and what men approve, to avoid cosmetics or beauty aids, and to knead bread or fold linen for exercise since she must not[Pg 76] go out. The main point he emphasizes is the importance of closely managing their shared fortunes; but she also has to take care of the kids and nurse the slaves when they’re sick. He generously concedes that if she is smarter than him, she will be in charge—though he makes sure this unfortunate situation doesn’t happen regarding her education—and assures her that the better she serves his family and household, the more she will be respected. This sounds good, and we can agree that managing one’s family with wisdom and dignity is more crucial than discussing art or reading Homer. But the obedient wife had a housekeeper as well as many slaves, which naturally gave her plenty of free time. It certainly showed a level of what Socrates called “manly understanding” on her part to follow her husband’s complicated reasoning about women’s duties and his detailed instructions for carrying them out; yet this wise representative of the most civilized race the world has ever known never even suggests that she has an intellect.

Socrates listens with great interest to this advanced theory of wife-training as it is unfolded to him, and sagely remarks that the husband is responsible for her errors if he does not properly teach her. It seems that he did not try the system on Xanthippe, or if he did it was a dismal failure,[Pg 77] as the much-abused woman is never quoted as a model or a saint, and we do not hear that he taxed himself with her shortcomings. He said that he married her for the excitement of conquest—the same motive that leads a man to try his power over a high-spirited horse; also as a discipline, because he was sure that he could endure every one else if he could endure her. It would be curious to know what she thought about it, but one cannot help suspecting that she had the lion’s share of the discipline, and that Socrates was a greater success as a philosopher and talker than as a husband.

Socrates listens with great interest to this advanced theory of wife-training as it’s explained to him and wisely notes that the husband is responsible for her mistakes if he doesn’t properly teach her. It seems he didn’t try this approach with Xanthippe, or if he did, it was a total failure, as the often-maligned woman is never referenced as a model or a saint, and we don’t hear that he took responsibility for her flaws. He claimed he married her for the thrill of conquest—the same reason a man would want to assert his control over a spirited horse; also as a form of discipline because he believed that if he could handle her, he could handle anyone else. It would be interesting to know what she thought about it, but one can’t help but suspect that she had to endure far more discipline and that Socrates was more successful as a philosopher and speaker than as a husband.[Pg 77]

There was one exception, however, to this rigid seclusion, a small recognition of the fact that women probably have souls. They were allowed a part in religious festivals, and these were events in their lives. They meant a breath of fresh air and a glimpse of the outer world. Perhaps they meant also a little spiritual consolation, which must often have been greatly needed; but of this we are not sure. The Hellenic divinities were not eminently consoling, and the wise Athena was particularly unsympathetic, though the Athenian virgins had at least the pleasure of making her richly ornamented robes, and putting them on her once a year. The woman in the comedy says that at seven she could carry the peplum in the procession, at ten she ground cakes for the patron goddess, and when she[Pg 78] grew to be a beautiful maiden, she had charge of the sacred basket.

There was one exception, though, to this strict isolation: a small acknowledgment that women probably have souls. They were allowed to participate in religious festivals, which were significant moments in their lives. These events brought a breath of fresh air and a glimpse of the outside world. They might also have provided some spiritual comfort, which must have often been sorely needed; but we can't be sure about that. The Greek gods weren't particularly comforting, and the wise Athena was especially unsympathetic, although the Athenian maidens at least enjoyed making her beautifully decorated robes and dressing her once a year. The woman in the comedy says that at seven she could carry the peplum in the procession, at ten she ground cakes for the patron goddess, and when she[Pg 78] grew into a beautiful young woman, she was in charge of the sacred basket.

One can imagine the flutter of pleasure with which the young girls of the golden age of Athens donned their white draperies and gold-embroidered mantles to march in the Panathenaic procession to the Acropolis. Their snowy veils floated airily in the breeze, as they went up the marble steps of the propylæa chanting choral hymns and carrying in their hands the branches of silvery olive to lay at the feet of the stately goddess. How bright the sky! how blue the sparkling sea! How beautiful the white temples and colonnades, alive with sculptured heroes! Before them rose Hymettus in its robe of violet haze, and the cone of Lycabettus, sharply outlined in the clear air. Sheltered behind the low hills on the other side of the vast olive-groves, the magnificent temple of Eleusis, with its heart of mystery, towered in its peerless majesty, and the restless waves of Salamis lapped the shore at its side. This world of beauty was young then and fresh, with no age-old tragedies to sadden the brilliant crowd that wound in dazzling array through the forest of columns and statues. The flower of Athens was there—brave, handsome, and clever men, poets, artists, and philosophers, warriors on prancing horses, beautiful women and laughing children. If the uncaged maidens were tempted to flirt a little with their soft, dark eyes, who can blame[Pg 79] them? They were young and human, companionship was sweet, and they too had tender hearts, though small account was made of them.

One can imagine the thrill of joy that the young girls of Athens's golden age felt as they put on their white dresses and gold-embroidered cloaks to join the Panathenaic procession to the Acropolis. Their white veils floated lightly in the breeze as they ascended the marble steps of the propylæa, singing choral hymns and holding silvery olive branches to place at the feet of the majestic goddess. How bright the sky! How blue the sparkling sea! How beautiful the white temples and colonnades, alive with sculpted heroes! Before them rose Hymettus, shrouded in a violet haze, and the cone of Lycabettus, sharply defined in the clear air. Nestled behind the low hills on the other side of the vast olive groves, the magnificent temple of Eleusis stood tall in its unmatched grandeur, while the restless waves of Salamis lapped against the shore beside it. This world of beauty was youthful and fresh, with no ancient tragedies to cast gloom over the radiant crowd that moved in brilliant formation through the forest of columns and statues. The best of Athens was present—brave, handsome, and intelligent men, along with poets, artists, and philosophers, warriors on spirited horses, stunning women, and joyful children. If the carefree maidens were tempted to flirt a bit with their soft, dark eyes, who could blame them? They were young and human; companionship felt sweet, and they too had tender hearts, even if little regard was held for them.

But the day ends. The sacred Athena is resplendent in her new robe. The gay crowd moves back past the exquisite little Ionic temple of Victory and down the massive steps into the agora, where life goes on as before. Men throng the porticos and talk of the new play of Sophocles, or the last statue of Phidias, or the prospects of war, or any of the thousand and one things that come uppermost in the affairs of a great city. When the shadows fall and the stars come out bright and shining in that crystal air, they gather at banquets or symposia, where flute-players and dancing-girls are brought in to amuse them, or some Lais or Phryne of the hour enthralls them by her beauty and dazzles them with her wit. But the wives and daughters of these men, who do not see fit to educate them for companions, go back to their lonely homes and to an isolation from all social and intellectual interests as deep as if they were asleep in the sculptured tombs of the Via Sacra.

But the day comes to an end. The sacred Athena shines in her new robe. The lively crowd moves past the beautiful little Ionic temple of Victory and down the massive steps into the agora, where life continues as usual. Men crowd the porticos and discuss the new play by Sophocles, the latest statue by Phidias, the prospects of war, or any of the countless topics that arise in the affairs of a great city. When the shadows fall and the stars shine bright in that clear air, they gather at banquets or symposia, where flute players and dancing girls are brought in to entertain them, or some Lais or Phryne of the moment captivates them with her beauty and dazzles them with her wit. But the wives and daughters of these men, who don’t consider it necessary to educate them to be companions, return to their lonely homes, experiencing an isolation from all social and intellectual interests as profound as if they were asleep in the sculpted tombs of the Via Sacra.

The women of Athens fulfilled their duties with becoming modesty, so far as we know. They were respectably ignorant, and did not encroach upon the time-honored privileges of men. It is true that Elpinice, the sister of Cimon, was a trifle strong-minded, and, taking the Spartan women as models,[Pg 80] went about alone; but we do not hear that she had any following. Unpleasant things were said about her, which we are safe in doubting, as unpleasant things have always been said of women who presumed to have opinions of their own, or to walk outside of the straight line of tradition. At all events, a rich Athenian fell in love with her, and was glad to take her without a dowry and pay the fine of her distinguished father. But it is certain that no appreciable number of Attic ladies were disposed to incur the odium of public opinion so distinctly expressed in these words:

The women of Athens handled their responsibilities with appropriate modesty, as far as we know. They were respectably uninformed and didn't intrude on the long-standing rights of men. It’s true that Elpinice, the sister of Cimon, was a bit strong-willed and, looking to Spartan women as examples,[Pg 80] went out on her own; but we don’t hear about her having any followers. Unpleasant rumors circulated about her, which we can safely doubt, as unpleasant things have always been said about women who dared to have their own opinions or step outside of traditional norms. In any case, a wealthy Athenian fell in love with her and was happy to take her without a dowry and pay the fine of her notable father. But it’s clear that no significant number of Athenian women were willing to face the backlash of public opinion so clearly expressed in these words:

Good women must abide within the house;
Those whom we meet abroad are nothing worth.

Good women should stay at home;
Those we see out and about aren't worth much.

Why in the face of such reverent submission were they so contemptuously spoken of? We are often told to-day that women cannot expect any privileges when they want rights. It may be pertinent to ask, in the name of consistency, why they had no privileges when they sat humbly at the feet of their husbands and demanded no rights?

Why, despite showing such deep respect, were they talked about with such disdain? Nowadays, we're often told that women can't expect any privileges when they're seeking rights. It’s worth asking, for the sake of consistency, why they had no privileges when they quietly sat at their husbands' feet and asked for no rights?

But it was among these women that the great dramatists lived and created the masterpieces of the world. It may be that they saw and felt the cheerless side of so fettered a life, and that is why they painted their heroines in such somber colors, too often innocent victims of men’s misdeeds, and doomed to suffering with the sad inevitability of[Pg 81] fate. But the noble character and fine intelligence given to so many of them must have had some counterpart in reality. Did the city that produced Antigone, Iphigenia, and Alcestis, have no great women, or did their creators look elsewhere for the moral dignity that made them possible? And where were the models found? Not, surely, among the hetæræ whose power, whatever it may have been, was not a moral one. Not even among the goddesses, who were notoriously vain, selfish, crafty, and cruel. We know that a thousand untold tales of virtue and heroism are hidden behind closed doors, and we may well believe they were not without precedent among these apparently colorless and pent-up lives.

But it was among these women that the great playwrights lived and created the masterpieces of the world. They might have seen and felt the dreary side of such a confined life, which is why they portrayed their heroines in such dark tones, often innocent victims of men’s wrongdoings and destined to suffer with the sad certainty of fate. But the noble character and intelligence given to many of them must have reflected some truth in reality. Did the city that produced Antigone, Iphigenia, and Alcestis have no remarkable women, or did their creators look elsewhere for the moral dignity that made them possible? And where were the inspirations found? Not, certainly, among the hetæræ whose power, whatever it may have been, was not moral in nature. Not even among the goddesses, who were famously vain, selfish, cunning, and cruel. We know that countless untold stories of virtue and bravery are hidden behind closed doors, and we can well believe they were not without examples among these seemingly colorless and constrained lives.

Then it is easy perhaps to err in assuming that there were no women who rose above hard conditions into a degree of companionship with their husbands. It is true they had no education and were excluded from the society of men who had it, but it is impossible to suppose that the women of so brilliant a race were utterly without the clear perception and flexible intelligence which made its men so famous. Nor can we infer invariable misery. There have been good men in all ages who loved their families, and women whose light could not be extinguished. The great Cimon is said to have had an ardent affection for his wife, and he was inconsolable after her death, though he did not curb his wandering fancies while she lived. Socrates[Pg 82] mentions Niceratus as “one who was in love with his wife and loved by her.” There is a familiar anecdote of Themistocles that puts him in a pleasant light. He said in a laughing way that his little son was greater than any man in Greece, “for the Athenians command the Greeks, I command the Athenians, his mother commands me, and he commands his mother.” If reports be true, however, the influence of his wife was largely theoretical, as it did not suffice to keep him from doing some very disreputable things. But he wished a worthy man for his daughter, rather than a rich one, saying he “would prefer a man without money to money without a man.” Aristotle is not quoted among the champions of women, but he tenderly loved his own wife, whom he married in spite of the reverses which had ruined her family. Her life was brief, but he left orders that when he died her remains should be transferred to the tomb which held his own, according to her last request. This was done long years after her death, though he had another wife whose virtues he commends, asking his friends to give her kind attention and provide her with a suitable husband if she wishes to marry again. These instances among well-known men are worthy of note, and others might be cited. But the exceptions prove the rule, and the very fact that it was a matter of comment when a man was in love with his wife shows that it was rare.

Then it’s easy to mistakenly think there were no women who rose above tough conditions to have a meaningful connection with their husbands. It’s true they lacked education and were kept out of the male-dominated society, but it’s hard to believe that the women of such a remarkable race didn’t possess the sharp insight and adaptable intelligence that made their men so renowned. We also can’t assume their lives were always miserable. Throughout history, there have been good men who cared for their families and women whose spirits remained bright. The great Cimon was said to have had deep affection for his wife and was heartbroken after she died, even though he didn’t rein in his wandering desires when she was alive. Socrates mentions Niceratus as “one who was in love with his wife and loved by her.” There’s a well-known story about Themistocles that shows him in a good light. He jokingly said his young son was greater than any man in Greece, “because the Athenians lead the Greeks, I lead the Athenians, his mother leads me, and he leads his mother.” However, if the reports are true, the influence of his wife was mostly theoretical, as it didn’t stop him from engaging in some questionable behavior. Still, he wanted a good man for his daughter rather than a wealthy one, saying he “would prefer a man without money to money without a man.” Aristotle isn’t typically celebrated as a supporter of women, but he deeply loved his wife, marrying her despite the hardships that had fallen on her family. Although her life was short, he requested that when he died, her remains be placed in the tomb that contained his, as per her last wish. This was carried out many years after she passed, even though he had another wife whose qualities he praised, asking his friends to treat her kindly and help her find a suitable partner if she wanted to remarry. These examples from well-known men are worth noting, and more could be mentioned. But these exceptions prove the rule, and the fact that it was noteworthy when a man loved his wife indicates that it was uncommon.

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II

It would be a mistake, however, to suppose that the great Athenians were without the sympathy and influence of educated women; indeed, it may be safely said that no great things in art or literature have ever been done without this inspiration. The ignorance of the Attic woman had its natural protest, though it did not come from an orthodox source. Respectability was on the side of servitude. It had a dull time, but it was decorous, and consoled itself, as it has often done since, with the reflection that dullness was its natural lot. No doubt it took pride in its nothingness, and looked with haughty disdain upon the clever foreign women who were free to do as they chose. Fashion is imperious, not to say cruel, and even the Chinese lady hobbles along on her distorted feet with a happy consciousness of distinction that amply repays her for all her suffering.

It would be a mistake to think that the great Athenians lacked the support and influence of educated women; in fact, it's safe to say that no significant achievements in art or literature have ever happened without this inspiration. The limitations of the Athenian woman had its own natural resistance, even though it didn’t come from a conventional source. Respectability favored servitude. It may have been unexciting, but it was proper, and it often consoled itself with the thought that monotony was its fate. No doubt, it took pride in its insignificance and looked down on the clever foreign women who were free to do as they pleased. Fashion can be demanding, if not cruel, and even the Chinese woman walks with her bound feet, feeling a sense of pride in her distinction that makes all her suffering worthwhile.

But social conventions had small weight with the foreign hetæræ or companions, who had no legal rights, and no caste to lose. The real power of women was in their hands. They were intelligent, often gifted, and the better class had refined and graceful manners, which the Athenian wives evidently had not. It was said of them that they were delicate at table, and not like the native women, who[Pg 84] “stuffed their cheeks, and tore off the meat.” They were also noted for wit and esprit, a quality of volatilized intellect that has always had great social charm. These advanced women of the day, who cast into the shade their illiterate sisters, monopolized both attention and honors. Men praised the good women who stayed at home and looked after their families, but sought the society of clever ones who did neither of these fine things. With curious inconsistency, they found the culture which was reprehensible and out of the proper order of nature in their wives and daughters so charming in other women as to merit the highest distinction. Poets sang of them, artists immortalized them, statesmen and philosophers paid court to them.

But social conventions meant little to the foreign hetæræ or companions, who had no legal rights and nothing to lose in terms of caste. The real power of women was in their hands. They were intelligent, often talented, and the higher-class ones had refined and graceful manners, which Athenian wives clearly lacked. It was said that they were delicate at the table and not like the native women, who [Pg 84] “stuffed their cheeks and tore off the meat.” They were also known for their wit and esprit, a quality of elevated intellect that has always had great social appeal. These progressive women of the time, who overshadowed their uneducated sisters, captured all the attention and accolades. Men praised the virtuous women who stayed at home and cared for their families, yet they sought the company of clever women who did neither of those admirable things. With strange inconsistency, they found the traits that were deemed inappropriate and against the natural order in their wives and daughters to be so charming in other women that they deserved the utmost distinction. Poets sang of them, artists immortalized them, and statesmen and philosophers courted them.

’T is not for nothing that where’er we go
We find a temple of hetæræ there,
But nowhere one to any wedded wife,

It’s no coincidence that wherever we go
We find a temple of courtesans there,
But there’s no temple for any married woman,

says the poet.

says the poet.

Unfortunately, talent and the virtues did not always go together, and it is impossible, at this distance, to determine with any certainty who were good and who were not. In the conservative circles of Athens, intelligence itself was a vice in women, and put them under a ban. They might pray to Athena, and offer incense to her, and embroider her robes, but it would not do to take this personification of wisdom and knowledge for a model; indeed, it is[Pg 85] not quite clear why so dangerous a representative of the sex that was thought to have no intellect worth considering should have been chosen to preside over all the Attic divinities. There was a time, according to Varro, when it had been customary for women to take part with men in public councils. In the early ages they voted to name Athens after Athena, outvoting the men by one. Poseidon was angry, and the sea overflowed. To appease the god, the citizens imposed a punishment on their wives. They were to lose their votes, the children were to receive no more their mother’s name, and they were no longer called Athenians. Perhaps this is why they were relegated forever after to ignorance and obscurity. Athena, however, retained her power, and men still worshiped the gray-eyed goddess in the abstract, as their fathers had done, doubtless quite content that the superfluous wisdom of woman should be given a pedestal so high and remote that it was not likely to cause serious inconvenience in family relations. But their personal devotion was largely reserved for Aphrodite, who was more beautiful and facile, if not so wise, and still less fit to be held up as a worthy example for her sex. The race had not greatly changed since its men went to their death for the “divine Helen,” and thought the world well lost for a sight of her radiant beauty.

Unfortunately, talent and virtues didn’t always go hand in hand, and it's impossible to say for sure, from this distance, who was good and who wasn’t. In the conservative circles of Athens, being intelligent was actually considered a flaw in women, and they were often sidelined because of it. They could pray to Athena, burn incense for her, and decorate her garments, but it wasn't acceptable to take this embodiment of wisdom and knowledge as a role model; in fact, it’s[Pg 85] not very clear why such a dangerous representation of a gender deemed to have no real intellect was chosen to preside over all the Attic deities. According to Varro, there was a time when it was normal for women to participate alongside men in public councils. In ancient times, they even voted to name Athens after Athena, outvoting the men by one vote. Poseidon was furious, and the sea flooded. To placate the god, the citizens punished their wives. They lost their voting rights, their children no longer carried their mother’s name, and they ceased to be called Athenians. Perhaps this is why they were forever pushed into ignorance and obscurity. Athena, however, kept her power, and men continued to worship the gray-eyed goddess in theory, just as their fathers had, likely quite satisfied that women’s excess wisdom was placed on such a high and distant pedestal that it wouldn't disrupt family dynamics. But their personal devotion was mainly reserved for Aphrodite, who was more beautiful and charming, though less wise, making her an even less suitable role model for her gender. The situation hadn’t changed much since the days when men faced death for the “divine Helen,” believing the world was worth losing just to catch a glimpse of her stunning beauty.

The witty Phryne, whose exquisite face and form was made immortal by Apelles and Praxiteles, was[Pg 86] given a statue of gold between two kings at Delphi. In the cypress-grove at Corinth there was a monument to the beautiful Lais, who had enriched the city with fine architecture. Lamia built a splendid portico for the people of Sicyon, and a temple at Athens was consecrated to her under the name of Aphrodite. One of the most striking and costly monuments in Greece was also erected there to Pythionice. The wit and fascination of Glycera brought her the honors due to a queen. Some of her letters to Menander were preserved, and they were said to show not only a tender and delicate sentiment, but a fine intellectual sympathy with her poet lover. No doubt the tributes offered to the notoriously dissolute women were largely the expression of a beauty-loving people who cherished “art for art’s sake.”

The clever Phryne, whose stunning face and body were immortalized by Apelles and Praxiteles, was[Pg 86] given a gold statue between two kings at Delphi. In the cypress grove at Corinth, there was a monument to the beautiful Lais, who enhanced the city with magnificent architecture. Lamia built an impressive portico for the people of Sicyon, and a temple in Athens was dedicated to her under the name Aphrodite. One of the most remarkable and expensive monuments in Greece was also erected there to Pythionice. The charm and wit of Glycera earned her the honors of a queen. Some of her letters to Menander were preserved, and they were said to reveal not only a tender and delicate sentiment but also a deep intellectual connection with her poet lover. The tributes to these notoriously indulgent women likely reflected the admiration of a beauty-loving society that valued “art for art’s sake.”

But there were other women with serious gifts of a high order, who were far less likely to be honored with temples and statues. Leontium, the disciple and favorite of Epicurus, wrote a treatise against Theophrastus that was quoted by Cicero as a model of style. She had a thoughtful face, and was painted in a meditative attitude by Theodorus. It matters little whether Diotima was Arcadian priestess or philosopher; she was the friend of Socrates, the counselor of the wisest and subtlest of men. It was her high and spiritual conception of love that he quoted at the famous symposium of Plato, raising[Pg 87] the conversation from a curious blending of unholy passion and metaphysical subtlety to a region of light. Famous among the disciples of Pythagoras was Perictione, who attracted the attention of Aristotle by writing on such grave subjects as “Wisdom” and “The Harmony of Woman.” She was duly conservative, and accepted the passive position of her sex, dwelling on their need of a forbearing spirit. Possibly this amiable attitude accounts in part for the kind consideration of the philosopher. More advanced and less popular was Hipparchia, the wife of Crates, an eminent Cynic, who called the statue of Phryne “a votive offering of the profligacy of Greece.” She recognized virtue as the supreme end of life, but contended that “virtue is the same in a man as in a woman.” To Theodorus she said: “What Theodorus is not wrong in doing, the same thing Hipparchia ought not to be wrong in doing.” That she was severely attacked goes without saying. Such sentiments were subversive of the inalienable rights of man, in the code of the classic world. It was easier and more agreeable to discredit the woman than to raise their own standards. Themista, the wife of Leon, was a philosopher, corresponded with Epicurus, and was called by Cicero “a sort of female Solon.” Lastheneia was a pupil of Plato, and went so far as to disguise herself in a man’s robes in order to hear him discourse at the Academy.

But there were other women with serious high-level abilities who were much less likely to receive temples and statues in their honor. Leontium, a student and favorite of Epicurus, wrote a treatise against Theophrastus that Cicero cited as a model of style. She had a thoughtful expression and was depicted in a reflective pose by Theodorus. It doesn’t really matter whether Diotima was an Arcadian priestess or philosopher; she was a friend of Socrates, advising the wisest and most insightful of men. It was her elevated and spiritual view of love that he referenced at the famous symposium of Plato, lifting the conversation from a strange mix of inappropriate desire and deep metaphysics to a place of clarity. Notable among Pythagoras's followers was Perictione, who caught Aristotle's attention by writing about serious topics like “Wisdom” and “The Harmony of Woman.” She was traditionally minded, accepting the passive role of her gender and emphasizing their need for patience. This agreeable perspective likely contributed to the philosopher’s kind treatment of her. More progressive and less well-received was Hipparchia, the wife of Crates, a well-known Cynic, who referred to the statue of Phryne as “a tribute to Greece's decadence.” She viewed virtue as the ultimate goal of life but argued that “virtue is the same in a man as in a woman.” To Theodorus, she said, “What Theodorus is not wrong in doing, the same thing Hipparchia shouldn't be wrong in doing.” It goes without saying that she faced severe criticism. Such views undermined the inalienable rights of men according to the standards of the classical world. It was easier and more comfortable to discredit the woman than to elevate their own values. Themista, the wife of Leon, was a philosopher, exchanged letters with Epicurus, and was called by Cicero “a kind of female Solon.” Lastheneia was a student of Plato and even went so far as to dress in a man’s clothes to attend his lectures at the Academy.

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Perhaps it is unfair to group these women together. They were of different shades, and not all contemporary. Some of them were Athenians. Of most of them we have no knowledge except such as may be gathered from a few passing words in connection with famous men, and even this is involved in doubt and contradiction. What were the attractions of Archaianassa, to whom Plato wrote sonnets, or did she ever exist outside of the realm of dreams?

Perhaps it's unfair to lump these women together. They came from different backgrounds, and not all were from the same time period. Some of them were Athenians. We know very little about most of them, aside from a few brief mentions alongside famous men, and even that information is filled with uncertainty and contradictions. What made Archaianassa appealing, the woman to whom Plato wrote sonnets? Did she ever really exist, or was she just a figment of imagination?

For dear to me Theoris is,

For Theoris is so dear to me,

says Sophocles. Did he find in her the talent that inspired his own? And what was the secret of Archippa’s influence, that he should have left her his fortune? Or is she, too, a myth? Nor can we divine the gifts that drew the eloquent Isocrates to Metaneira.

says Sophocles. Did he find in her the talent that inspired his own? And what was the secret of Archippa’s influence, that he should have left her his fortune? Or is she, too, a myth? Nor can we figure out the gifts that attracted the eloquent Isocrates to Metaneira.

How far the honor accorded to so many of the hetæræ was due to their talents and how far to their personal fascination, it is difficult to say. In many cases, beauty was their chief distinction. Some are known to have been fair and frail; others were apparently of good character as well as brilliant intellect. A poet of the time speaks of one as

How much of the respect given to so many of the hetæræ was due to their skills and how much to their personal charm is hard to determine. In many cases, beauty was their main trait. Some are known to have been lovely and delicate; others seemed to have both good character and sharp intelligence. A poet from that time writes about one as

Pure and on virtue’s strictest model formed.

Pure and shaped by the highest standards of virtue.

It would not be quite safe, however, to measure them by our standards. We may go to the Greeks[Pg 89] for art and literature, but not for morals. Things that we consider criminal, they looked upon as quite natural and innocent. No doubt, too, many things which we consider so harmless as to pass unnoted would have been censured by them as violations of all laws of decorum.

It wouldn't be entirely safe to judge them by our standards. We can look to the Greeks[Pg 89] for art and literature, but not for morals. Things that we see as criminal, they viewed as completely natural and innocent. Similarly, many things we see as harmless and overlook would likely have been criticized by them as violations of all standards of propriety.

III

There was one woman, however, whose individuality was too strong to be altogether merged into that of the man with whom her name is associated. Aspasia stands supreme, after Sappho, as the most brilliant and lettered woman of classic times. The center of a circle so luminous that the ages have not greatly dimmed its radiance, she is likely to live as long as the world cherishes the memory of its greatest men. She was the prototype of the charming and intellectual women who made the literary courts of the Renaissance so famous two thousand years afterward; also of the more familiar ones who shone as leaders of the powerful salons of France a century or two later. Even to-day the aspiring woman who dreams of reviving the social triumphs of her sex recalls the golden days of Athens and wonders what magic drew so many of the great poets, statesmen, and philosophers of the world from the groves of the Academy, the colonnades of the Lyceum, the porticos, and the gymnasia, to pour their treasures[Pg 90] of wit and thought at the feet of the fair Ionian. She may remember, too, that this fascinating woman was not only the high priestess who presided at the birth of society as we know it, but was also the first to assert the right of the wife to be educated, that she might live as the peer and companion of her husband, not as his slave.

There was one woman, though, whose individuality was too strong to be completely overshadowed by the man she's often associated with. Aspasia stands out, after Sappho, as the most brilliant and educated woman of ancient times. The center of a circle so bright that the ages haven't dimmed its light much, she is likely to be remembered as long as the world honors its greatest figures. She was the model for the charming and intellectual women who made the literary courts of the Renaissance so famous two thousand years later, as well as the more familiar women who led the influential salons of France a century or two afterward. Even today, the aspiring woman who dreams of reviving the social achievements of her gender thinks back to the golden days of Athens and wonders what magic attracted so many great poets, statesmen, and philosophers from the groves of the Academy, the colonnades of the Lyceum, the porticos, and the gymnasiums, to share their treasures of wit and thought at the feet of the lovely Ionian. She may also remember that this captivating woman was not only the high priestess who oversaw the birth of society as we know it, but was also the first to claim the right for wives to be educated so they could be equals and companions to their husbands, rather than their subordinates.[Pg 90]

Little is known of the facts of her life. She was the first woman who came from Miletus, the pleasure-loving city of roses, and song, and beautiful maidens. Why or how she left her home we are not told, but there is a vague tradition that her parents were dead and that she went away with the famous Thargelia, whose vigorous intellect, together with her wit and beauty, made her a political power in Thessaly and the wife of one of its kings during the Persian wars, though her personality is the faintest of shadows to-day. It is supposed that Aspasia was young, scarcely more than twenty, when she came to Athens, possibly to live with a relative; but this is only a surmise. As a foreigner, whatever her rank, she was outside the pale of good society. The high-born Athenian women looked askance at her, were jealous of her, and said wicked things about her. To be sure, the all-powerful Pericles took her to his home and called her his wife, but she was not a citizen like themselves, and could not lawfully bear his name.

Little is known about her life. She was the first woman from Miletus, a city known for its love of pleasure, roses, songs, and beautiful maidens. We don’t really know why or how she left her home, but there’s a vague tradition that her parents had died and that she left with the famous Thargelia, whose strong intellect, along with her charm and beauty, made her a political force in Thessaly and the wife of one of its kings during the Persian wars, even though her personality is barely a footnote today. It’s believed that Aspasia was young, barely over twenty, when she arrived in Athens, possibly to stay with a relative; but that’s just a guess. As a foreigner, no matter her status, she was excluded from good society. High-born Athenian women looked down on her, were envious of her, and spread rumors about her. Of course, the powerful Pericles brought her into his home and called her his wife, but she wasn’t a citizen like them, and she couldn’t legally carry his name.

The relation, however, left-handed though it may[Pg 91] have been, was a recognized and permanent one, not less regular perhaps than the morganatic marriages of royal princes to-day, which make a woman a pure and legal wife but never a queen. So rare was the devotion of the grave statesman that it was thought worthy of record, and it was a matter of gossip that he kissed Aspasia when he went out and when he came in—clearly a startling innovation among Athenian husbands. Still more astonishing was the fact that he listened to her counsel and talked with her on State affairs, which, according to their traditions, no reputable woman ought to know anything about. Plutarch tells us that some went so far as to say that he paid court to her on account of her wisdom and political sagacity. Socrates confesses his own indebtedness to her in the use of language, and says that she made many great orators. He thinks it no wonder that Pericles can speak, as he has so excellent a mistress in the art of rhetoric, one who could even write his speeches. He was himself so pleased with a funeral oration she had spoken in his presence, partly from previous thought and partly from the inspiration of the moment, that he learned it by heart. A friend to whom he repeated it was amazed that a woman could compose such a speech, and Socrates added that he might recall many more if he would not tell. This special address was such a masterpiece of wisdom and eloquence that Pericles was asked to[Pg 92] give it every year. As he was quite able to write his own, there was no room for jealousy, even if Aspasia sometimes found in the same field a happy outlet for her fine talent and living enthusiasm.

The relationship, though perhaps unconventional, was recognized and permanent, just as regular as the morganatic marriages of royal princes today, which allow a woman to be a legitimate wife but never a queen. The commitment of the serious statesman was so noteworthy that it became a topic of conversation; people gossiped about how he kissed Aspasia when he left and returned—definitely a surprising change for Athenian husbands. Even more remarkable was that he listened to her advice and discussed political matters with her, which, by their customs, no respectable woman was supposed to know anything about. Plutarch mentions that some even claimed he was attracted to her because of her wisdom and political insight. Socrates admitted he owed her for his use of language and said she helped create many great orators. He thought it was no surprise that Pericles could speak well, having such an excellent mistress in the art of rhetoric, one who could even write his speeches. He was so impressed by a funeral oration she delivered in his presence, partly from prior reflection and partly from the inspiration of the moment, that he memorized it. A friend he recited it to was amazed that a woman could compose such a speech, and Socrates added that he could recall many more if he wanted to. This particular address was such a masterpiece of wisdom and eloquence that Pericles was asked to present it every year. Since he was capable of writing his own, there was no reason for jealousy, even if Aspasia occasionally found a fulfilling outlet for her remarkable talent and passion in the same area.

All this points to a strong probability that the gifted Milesian came to Athens to teach rhetoric and other arts of which she was mistress, as a Frenchwoman might seek her fortune in our own country to-day. But she had not the same immunity from criticism, as the very fact of her talents, and her ability to utilize them, sufficed to put her under a cloud. This, too, might account for the wicked things Aristophanes said of her, but we cannot imagine that Socrates would have advised his friends to send their sons to her for training had they been true. He knew her well, had profited by her instructions, and no one will charge him with gallantry or the disposition to give undue praise. He was essentially a truth-seeker. It is a matter of note, too, that the philosophers had only pleasant words for Aspasia. Her detractors were the satirists and comic poets; but who ever went to either for justice or truth? She was clear-sighted, penetrating, and versed not only in letters but in civil affairs, so it was easy enough to say that she was the power behind the throne in the Samian and Peloponnesian wars. It is certain, however, that Pericles was too wise a statesman to be led into a war by any one against his judgment. It is quite[Pg 93] likely that she had young girls in her house who came to be instructed in the refinements and amenities of life, as poetic maidens had flocked to Sappho from all the isles of the sea a century or so before. This again was a fruitful source of calumny and satire. But it is impossible to read the Attic comedians without a conviction that they measured every one by their own moral standards, which were of the lowest and coarsest. A woman who could discuss philosophy with Socrates and Anaxagoras, art with Phidias, poetry with Sophocles and Euripides, politics and history with Thucydides, if occasion offered, and affairs of the gay world with the young Alcibiades, was not likely to escape the tongue of scandal among people who numbered the silent subjection of women among their most sacred traditions.

All this suggests a strong likelihood that the talented Milesian came to Athens to teach rhetoric and other arts she excelled in, similar to how a French woman might seek her fortune in our country today. However, she didn’t have the same protection from criticism, as her talents and her ability to use them put her under scrutiny. This might explain the harsh remarks Aristophanes made about her, but we can't imagine Socrates would have recommended his friends send their sons to her for training if those claims were true. He knew her well, benefited from her teachings, and nobody would accuse him of being overly flattering or biased. He was fundamentally a seeker of truth. It's also notable that philosophers spoke well of Aspasia. Her critics were satirists and comic poets; but who ever looked to them for fairness or honesty? She was insightful, sharp, and knowledgeable not only in literature but in political matters, so it was easy to claim she was the power behind the throne during the Samian and Peloponnesian wars. However, it’s certain that Pericles was too shrewd a statesman to be led into a war by anyone against his own judgment. It’s quite[Pg 93] likely that she hosted young girls in her home who came for lessons in the finer points of life, much like the poetic maidens who gathered around Sappho from all over the islands a century earlier. This, again, was a rich source of slander and ridicule. But it’s impossible to read the Attic comedians without feeling that they judged everyone by their own low and crude moral standards. A woman who could discuss philosophy with Socrates and Anaxagoras, art with Phidias, poetry with Sophocles and Euripides, politics and history with Thucydides when the chance arose, and social affairs with the youthful Alcibiades, was unlikely to avoid gossip among a society that viewed the silent subjugation of women as one of their most cherished traditions.

Of the beauty of Aspasia we are not sure. We hear of her “honey-colored” or golden hair, of her “small, high-arched foot,” of her “silvery voice”; but no one of her time has told us that she was beautiful. There is a bust on which her name is inscribed, but it gives us no clue to the living charm that held great men captive. Did this charm lie in the depth and brilliancy of the veiled eyes, in the tender curve of the half-voluptuous mouth, or in the subtle and variable light of the soul that forever eludes the chilling marble? Another bust, supposed to represent her, has a gentler quality, a finer[Pg 94] distinction, with a faint shadow on the thoughtful face. But the secret of her power did not lie in any rare perfection of form or feature. Perhaps this secret is always difficult to define. Of her fascinating personality we are left in no doubt. With the qualities of esprit that belonged to her race, and all the winning graces of her Ionian culture, she combined an intellect of firm and substantial fiber. She was noted for the divining spirit which instinctively recognized the special gifts of her friends; she had, too, the tact and finesse to make the most of them. This is par excellence the talent of the social leader.

We’re not really sure about Aspasia's beauty. We hear descriptions of her “honey-colored” or golden hair, her “small, high-arched foot,” and her “silvery voice,” but no one from her time actually called her beautiful. There’s a bust with her name on it, but it doesn’t show us the living charm that captivated great men. Did that charm come from the depth and brilliance of her veiled eyes, the tender curve of her slightly voluptuous mouth, or the subtle, changing light of her soul that always escapes the coldness of marble? Another bust, thought to represent her, has a gentler quality and a more refined distinction, with a faint shadow playing across its thoughtful face. But the secret of her power wasn’t in any rare perfection of form or feature. Perhaps this secret is always hard to describe. We definitely know that her personality was fascinating. With the qualities of spirit that came from her heritage and all the charming traits of her Ionian culture, she blended a strong and substantial intellect. She was known for her intuitive ability to recognize the unique talents of her friends, and she also had the tact and finesse to help them shine. This is truly the hallmark of a social leader.

The salon of Aspasia was the first of which we have any record. The stars of the Attic world gathered there, men who were in the advance-guard of Hellenic thought. Reclining on the many-colored cushions beneath the white pillars, with pictured walls and rare tapestries and exquisite statues of Greek divinities about them, they talked of the new temples; of the last word in art; of the triumph of Sophocles, who had just won the prize of tragedy in the theater of Dionysus; perhaps of Æschylus, who had gone away broken-hearted; of happiness, morals, love, and immortality. The thoughtful woman who sat there radiant in her saffron draperies was not silent. Men marveled at her eager intellect, her grasp of Athenian possibilities; they were charmed with her graceful ways and musical speech. We hear of symposia in other houses, where a Theodota[Pg 95] dances, the free wit of Lais flashes, and conversation glides on a low and vulgar level, but no wife or daughter ever appears. There is nothing to indicate that the coterie of Aspasia was otherwise than decorous. Music there was, as the accomplished Ionian played the cithara with skill and taste. Wit there must have been, as no company of Athenians was ever without it. But more was said of its serious side. One of the sons of Pericles, angry because his father would not give him all the money he wished, ridiculed this circle of philosophers and the hours they spent in discussing theories or splitting metaphysical hairs. Their learned disquisitions were not at all to the taste of the pleasure-loving youth.

The salon of Aspasia was the first we have any record of. The stars of the Attic world gathered there—men who were at the forefront of Hellenic thought. Reclining on colorful cushions beneath white pillars, surrounded by painted walls, rare tapestries, and exquisite statues of Greek gods, they discussed the new temples, the latest in art, and the triumph of Sophocles, who had just won the prize for tragedy at the theater of Dionysus. They might have talked about Æschylus, who had left feeling heartbroken; topics included happiness, morals, love, and immortality. The thoughtful woman sitting there, radiant in her saffron draperies, was not quiet. Men were amazed by her keen intellect and her understanding of Athenian possibilities; they were enchanted by her graceful manner and melodic speech. We hear of symposia in other houses, where a Theodota[Pg 95] dances, the sharp wit of Lais sparkles, and conversations stay on a low and vulgar level, but no wife or daughter ever appears. There’s nothing to suggest that Aspasia’s circle was anything less than respectable. There was music, as the talented Ionian played the cithara with skill and taste. There had to be wit, since no gathering of Athenians ever lacked it. However, more attention was paid to its serious aspects. One of Pericles's sons, frustrated that his father wouldn’t give him all the money he wanted, mocked this circle of philosophers and the time they spent discussing theories or nitpicking metaphysical details. Their scholarly discussions were definitely not to the liking of the pleasure-seeking youth.

A few men had the courage to bring their wives, and Aspasia talked to them of their duties and the need of cultivating their minds. Nor did she forget the value of manners and the graces. It is said that she wrote a book on cosmetics; but all her teaching, so far as we know it, went to show that personal charm lay not so much in physical beauty as in the culture of the intellect. The few direct words we have from her lips prove that, with a clear sense of values, she was the true child of an age and race that was singularly devoid of sentiment. If she taught Socrates in some things, she was evidently his pupil in others. This is curiously illustrated in an anecdote related by Æschines.

A few men had the courage to bring their wives, and Aspasia spoke to them about their responsibilities and the importance of developing their minds. She also highlighted the significance of good manners and grace. It's said she wrote a book on cosmetics, but all we know from her teachings suggests that personal charm was more about intellectual cultivation than physical beauty. The few direct quotes we have from her show that, with a clear sense of values, she truly reflected an age and culture that was largely lacking in sentiment. While she may have taught Socrates in some areas, it’s clear she also learned from him in others. This is interestingly illustrated in a story shared by Æschines.

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“Tell me,” says Aspasia, one day, to the wife of Xenophon, “if your neighbor had finer gold than you have, whether you would prefer her gold or your own.”

“Tell me,” Aspasia says one day to Xenophon's wife, “if your neighbor had better gold than you, would you prefer her gold or your own?”

“I should prefer hers,” was the reply.

“I would prefer hers,” was the reply.

“Suppose that she had dresses and ornaments of more value than yours; would you prefer your own or hers?”

“Let’s say she had dresses and jewelry worth more than yours; would you choose your own or hers?”

“Hers, to be sure.”

"Definitely hers."

“If she had a better husband than you have, which would you choose?”

“If she had a better husband than the one you have, which would you pick?”

The lady blushed and was silent.

The woman blushed and remained quiet.

The hostess then turned to the husband with like questions.

The hostess then turned to the husband with similar questions.

“I ask you, O Xenophon, whether, if your neighbor had a better horse than yours, you would prefer your own or his.”

“I ask you, Xenophon, if your neighbor had a better horse than yours, would you choose your horse or his?”

“Certainly his,” was the prompt answer.

“Definitely his,” was the quick response.

“If he had a better farm than yours, which would you wish to own?”

“If he had a better farm than yours, which one would you want to own?”

“Beyond doubt, that which is best.”

"Absolutely the best."

“Suppose that he had a better wife than you have, would you prefer his wife?”

“Imagine if he had a better wife than you do, would you rather have his wife?”

The conversation became embarrassing, and Xenophon was discreetly silent.

The conversation got awkward, and Xenophon quietly stayed silent.

The conclusion was obvious. This too logical questioner advised those present to order their lives so that there should be no more admirable woman or more excellent man; then each would always[Pg 97] prefer the other to any one else—a piece of wise counsel that might be profitably considered, in spite of its veiled sophistry. Evidently she did not regard love as a flame that burns without fuel, though in her notions of human perfectibility she makes small account of the quality of the material.

The conclusion was clear. This logical thinker suggested that everyone present should arrange their lives so that there would be no more admirable women or excellent men; then each would always prefer the other over anyone else—a wise piece of advice that’s worth considering, despite its subtle trickery. Clearly, she didn’t see love as a flame that burns without fuel, although in her views on human improvement, she doesn’t give much importance to the quality of the material.

This parlor-talk is a trifle didactic, and lacks the modern elements of popularity, but it is not in the least the talk of such a woman as the enemies of Aspasia pictured her. It was clearly a party of innovation that she led, but it was not a party of corrupt tastes. It was for her opinions that she suffered. Just what connection moral turpitude has with a question of the infallibility of any special form of belief is not apparent, but a charge of impiety cast a darker shadow upon her reputation. In this case it meant little more than a doubt as to the divinity of their quarrelsome and immoral gods, which we should consider highly creditable. She was too rational for a good orthodox pagan. Or it may have meant simply that her house was a rendezvous for the free-thinking philosophers. Here, too, was a woman who took the unheard-of liberty of presiding over her husband’s house, making it agreeable for his friends and attractive for himself. She had put dangerous notions into the heads of Athenian wives. Who was this impertinent foreigner, that she should presume to tell them how to please their husbands? How, indeed, could they[Pg 98] please them better than to keep a decorous silence in their apartments, and let their noble lords bring dancing- and talking-women to their banquets, and do otherwise as they liked? Of course she did not respect the gods, and deserved death.

This conversation is a bit preachy and doesn't have the trendy elements of popularity, but it’s nothing like how Aspasia's enemies described her. She obviously led a movement for change, but it wasn't about bad tastes. She faced backlash for her beliefs. The link between moral wrongdoing and the question of whether a certain belief is infallible isn’t clear, but accusations of impiety definitely tarnished her reputation. In this case, it mainly meant questioning the divinity of their quarrelsome and immoral gods, which we would probably see as commendable. She was too logical to be a good orthodox pagan. Or it might have just meant that her home was a meeting spot for free-thinking philosophers. Here was a woman who dared to take the unusual step of managing her husband's household, making it enjoyable for his friends and appealing to him. She had planted dangerous ideas in the minds of Athenian wives. Who was this bold foreigner to assume she could teach them how to make their husbands happy? How could they possibly please their husbands better than to remain quietly in their rooms, allowing their noble lords to bring in dancing and talking women to their banquets, and go about their own business as they pleased? Naturally, she disrespected the gods, and surely deserved to die.

And so she was taken before the judges. The dignified and austere Pericles wept as he pleaded her cause, and his tears won it. She was released, but Anaxagoras, who was under the same charge of impiety because he gave natural causes to apparently supernatural things, as Galileo did centuries later, thought it safe to go away until the fickle Athenians, the French of the classic world, found something else to occupy them.

And so she was brought before the judges. The dignified and serious Pericles cried as he argued for her, and his tears swayed the decision. She was set free, but Anaxagoras, who faced the same accusation of impiety for explaining natural causes behind seemingly supernatural events, like Galileo did centuries later, decided it was best to leave until the unpredictable Athenians, the French of the ancient world, found something else to distract them.

Without the poetic genius or the passionate intensity of Sappho, Aspasia seems to have had greater breadth and largeness of mind, with the calm judgment and clear reason that belong to a more sophisticated age. She was evidently solid as well as brilliant. That she was eminently tactful and had a great deal of the Greek subtlety counted for much in her success. She had also the perfect comprehension of genius, which is an inspiration, and nearly allied to genius itself. In the vast plans for the glory of Athens, she could hardly have been ignored by the man who adored her and consulted her on the gravest matters. It is not as the Omphale to this Hercules, the Hera to this Zeus, that she has come down to us, save in the jeer of the[Pg 99] satirist, but as the watchful Egeria, who whispered prophetic words of wisdom in the ears of the great Athenian. Who knows how far the world owes to her fine insight and critical taste the superb flowering of art which left an immortal heritage to all the ages?

Without the poetic genius or passionate intensity of Sappho, Aspasia seems to have had a broader perspective and a more expansive mind, along with the calm judgment and clear reasoning that come from a more sophisticated era. She was clearly solid as well as brilliant. Her notable tact and a lot of Greek subtlety contributed significantly to her success. She also had a perfect understanding of genius, which is inspiring and closely related to genius itself. In the grand plans for the glory of Athens, she could hardly have been overlooked by the man who adored her and sought her advice on serious matters. She has not been remembered as the Omphale to this Hercules, or the Hera to this Zeus, except in the mocking words of the satirist, but as the attentive Egeria, who whispered prophetic words of wisdom into the ears of the great Athenian. Who knows how much the world owes to her keen insight and critical taste for the exceptional flourishing of art that left an immortal legacy for all ages?

With the death of Pericles and the dispersion of the distinguished group that surrounded him, Aspasia disappears. There was no place at that time for talents like hers, apart from a great man’s protection. It was rumored that she afterward married a rich but obscure citizen, whom she raised by her abilities to a high position in the State, though he did not live long enough to reap much glory from it. The affair savors of the mythical, and perhaps we are safe in giving it little credence. We should like to believe that the woman who had been blessed with the love of a Pericles could never console herself with a lesser man.

With the death of Pericles and the scattering of the distinguished group around him, Aspasia fades from view. There wasn't a place for talents like hers at that time, except under the protection of a great man. It was rumored that she later married a wealthy but unknown citizen, whom she helped rise to a high position in the government, although he didn't live long enough to enjoy much fame from it. This story feels a bit mythical, and maybe it's wise to take it with a grain of salt. We want to believe that a woman who had the love of a Pericles could never settle for a lesser man.

Of versatile gifts and endless shades of temperament, teacher, thinker, artist in words and life, critic, musician, friend of women and inspirer of men, but before all things a harmony uniting the grace and sensibility of her sex with a masculine strength of intellect, this gracious Ionian stands with Sappho on the pinnacle of Hellenic culture, each in her own field the highest feminine representative of an esthetic race. Her mission was not an ethical one, and she cannot be so judged; but against the censure[Pg 100] of the enemies and rivals of Pericles, as well as of her own, we have abundant evidence that, in her virtues, as in her talents, she surpassed the standards of her class and time. It was not of a light-minded woman that Pericles said when dying: “Athens intrusted her greatness and Aspasia her happiness to me.”

Of diverse talents and countless personality traits, teacher, thinker, wordsmith, life artist, critic, musician, friend to women, and motivator of men, but above all a harmony fusing the grace and sensitivity of her gender with a masculine strength of intellect, this remarkable Ionian stands with Sappho at the peak of Hellenic culture, each being the highest female representative in her own area of an aesthetic race. Her mission wasn't about ethics, and she shouldn't be judged that way; however, in opposition to the criticism from Pericles' enemies and rivals, as well as her own, we have plenty of proof that, in her virtues as much as in her abilities, she exceeded the expectations of her class and era. It wasn’t a frivolous woman that Pericles referred to when he said on his deathbed: “Athens entrusted her greatness and Aspasia her happiness to me.”

IV

It is not unlikely that Aspasia had much to do with modifying the low views held regarding her sex, and with promoting the discussions of the philosophers who came after her. Socrates had her example before him when he said that the talent of women was not at all inferior to that of men, though they lacked bodily vigor and strength. Plato accorded them the same talents as men, though less in degree; indeed, he went so far as to advise a common training, as in Sparta, on the ground that gifts are diffused equally between the sexes. Aristotle is less generous to women. He accords them weaker reasoning powers, and insists upon their silent and passive obedience; but he preaches to men justice, appreciation, and the sanctity of marriage. On the whole, from our point of view, he paints a more agreeable society than Plato, in spite of the greater equality taught by the latter. The satirists were not slow to take up the matter, and[Pg 101] Aristophanes drew a doleful picture of women donning male attire and going to the agora to reform the State, while their husbands were left to look after things at home. They start out with the idea of making everybody happy. There are to be no rich, no poor, no thefts, no slanders, no miseries. Praxagora pleads her cause with all the force and energy of the modern woman who seeks political rights, but she is less poised and goes further. The State is to be intrusted to women. They are successful managers at home and have shown their superior gifts of administration. In any case, they could not do worse than men have done. They end, however, by voting unlimited communism and outdoing the demagogues. This “woman’s congress” was not an unqualified success; indeed, it was a disgraceful failure, as it was intended to be: but it cast into like ridicule the philosophers and the “strong-minded” women, among whom Aspasia was doubtless included, as she had convictions, though the conversations in her salon probably marked the limit of their public expression. Who the others were we do not know, but it is clear that there was an undercurrent of “divine discontent” among the women of two thousand years ago. History repeats itself, and the “woman question” is not a new one, though we have made immense strides in the rational consideration of it.

It’s very likely that Aspasia played a significant role in changing the negative perceptions about women and in encouraging discussions among the philosophers who followed her. Socrates had her as an example when he claimed that women’s abilities are not at all inferior to men’s, even if they lack physical strength and vigor. Plato recognized that women had the same abilities as men, just to a lesser extent; in fact, he even suggested a shared training system, like that of Sparta, because he believed that talents are evenly spread across genders. Aristotle, however, is less kind to women. He contends that they have weaker reasoning skills and demands their silent and passive obedience; yet, he teaches men about justice, appreciation, and the sacredness of marriage. Overall, from our perspective, he paints a more pleasant society than Plato does, despite the latter's emphasis on greater equality. The satirists quickly took notice, and Aristophanes illustrated a gloomy scenario where women wore men’s clothing and went to the agora to change the State, leaving their husbands to manage everything at home. They started out wanting to make everyone happy. Their aim was to eliminate rich and poor, theft, slander, and suffering. Praxagora advocates her case with all the passion and energy of a modern woman fighting for political rights, but she is less diplomatic and goes further. She believes the State should be entrusted to women, who are capable managers at home and have demonstrated their superior administrative abilities. In any event, they couldn’t do worse than men have done. However, they ultimately propose unlimited communism and surpass the demagogues. This “woman’s congress” was not a complete success; in fact, it was a disgraceful failure, as it was meant to be: but it equally mocked the philosophers and the “strong-minded” women, among whom Aspasia was surely included, as she held strong beliefs, though discussions in her salon likely represented the limits of their public expression. We don’t know who the others were, but it’s evident that there was a sense of “divine discontent” among women two thousand years ago. History repeats itself, and the “woman question” isn't new, even though we have made significant progress in thoughtfully addressing it.

It is sufficiently clear that the harmonious development[Pg 102] of the Hellenic women was in proportion to their liberty of action, and the most fault was found with them where they had the least freedom. If the spirited women of Sparta had been born in conservative Athens the world might never have known that they were capable of so much strength and heroism. The sparks hidden in their cramped souls would have gone out for lack of air. If the secluded Athenian woman had been born in Sparta, who can say that she might not have been as clever as Gorgo, as brave as Cratesiclea, and as independent as Lampito? It is possible that the genius of Sappho would have been smothered in the social atmosphere of either place. There is ample evidence that the intellects of Greek women expanded fast enough when the conventional pressure was even partly removed. Nor is it true that they retrograded in morals as they advanced in intelligence. Never did the Attic poets point their shafts of satire so sharply as against the follies of the ignorant women who were limited mainly to their apartments, far from the possible corruption of knowledge or the visible temptation to sin. The tone of morality was purer even among the free Spartan women, who had more education but less surveillance.

It’s quite clear that the growth of Hellenic women was directly tied to their freedom to act, and they were often criticized where they had the least freedom. If the strong women of Sparta had been born in conservative Athens, the world might never have realized their strength and bravery. The potential buried in their restricted lives would have faded away for lack of opportunity. If an isolated Athenian woman had been born in Sparta, who knows if she could have been as smart as Gorgo, as courageous as Cratesiclea, or as independent as Lampito? It’s possible that Sappho’s talent would have been stifled in either place’s social environment. There’s plenty of evidence that Greek women’s minds thrived when conventional constraints were lifted even a little. It’s also not true that they declined in morals as their intelligence grew. The Attic poets never directed their sharpest satire at the foolishness of ignorant women, who were mostly confined to their homes, far from the potential corruption of knowledge or temptation to sin. The moral standards were even purer among the free Spartan women, who received more education but had less oversight.

There is nothing more vitally significant in the lives of Athenian wives than the extent to which they saw themselves set aside and neglected for foreigners of more brilliant accomplishments, because[Pg 103] they could not or would not break the bonds of fashionable tradition, which decreed for them silence and seclusion. In primitive conditions where no one is educated, the virtues may suffice for companionship; but at a certain stage of civilization, when men read and think, the woman who does not is sure to be practically excluded from his society, though she may still be his housekeeper or the toy of an idle hour. Athens in the height of her glory presented the strange anomaly of a respectable illiterate class from which the mothers of future citizens must be taken, and an educated class without civil rights who could not marry Athenians. If the latter had any domestic ties at all, they were forced into morganatic relations. This did not of necessity imply laxity of character; indeed, it was not always condemned by Athenian moralists. But no class could long maintain any high standard of virtue under such conditions. They opened the way for endless license. The gay and dissolute women from the East flocked to the Hellenic cities, and in the reckless corruption that followed, wise men trace a potent cause of Athenian decline.

There's nothing more crucial in the lives of Athenian wives than how much they felt overlooked and neglected for more accomplished outsiders. This happened because they couldn't or wouldn't break the binds of trendy traditions that demanded their silence and isolation. In primitive times, when no one was educated, virtues might be enough for companionship; but at a certain point in civilization, when men read and think, a woman who doesn’t do the same is likely to be excluded from their society, even if she remains his housekeeper or a mere distraction. Athens at its peak showcased the weird contradiction of a respectable illiterate class from which the mothers of future citizens had to come, and an educated class without civil rights that couldn't marry Athenians. If these educated women had any family connections, they were confined to morganatic relationships. This didn’t necessarily mean they had loose morals; in fact, it wasn’t always frowned upon by Athenian moralists. However, no class could maintain a high standard of virtue under such circumstances. These conditions led to endless permissiveness. The lively and morally loose women from the East flocked to the Hellenic cities, and in the reckless corruption that followed, wise men identify a significant cause of Athenian decline.

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REVOLT OF THE ROMAN WOMEN

· The Woman Question an Old One ·
· Character and Virtues of Early Roman Women ·
· Instances of Heroism ·
· Their Disabilities ·
· Primitive Roman Morals ·
· Servitude of Wives · Husband Poisoning ·
· The Oppian Law · The Revolt ·
· Crabbed Cato · Change in Laws ·
· Second Revolt · Hortensia ·
· The Marriage Question ·
· Intellectual Movement · Cornelia ·

· The Woman Question: A Long-Standing Issue ·
· Traits and Values of Early Roman Women ·
· Instances of Bravery ·
· Their Challenges ·
· Early Roman Morality ·
· Wives in Servitude · Husband Poisoning ·
· The Oppian Law · The Rebellion ·
· Strict Cato · Changes in Legislation ·
· Second Rebellion · Hortensia ·
· The Marriage Debate ·
· Intellectual Movement · Cornelia ·


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I

Not long ago an able and eloquent man, well known in political life, made the astonishing statement that from the time Eve left paradise to the advent of the modern champion of her sex, “woman was apparently content with her subordination.” It is not proposed here to enter at all into the present phases of a subject that has been sufficiently discussed, or to define the precise point where those who belong to what our noble friend is pleased to call the “inferior and defective half of the race” may with reason protest; but as a matter of fact there has never been so prolonged and serious a commotion on the much-talked-of “woman question” as in the Rome of two thousand years ago; and perhaps no recorded moment in the history of women has been of such far-reaching[Pg 108] importance as those struggles for justice and recognition. With possibly one exception, the points at issue were not quite the same as in the middle of the nineteenth century, but they involved many of the same privileges. The contention concerned not only a woman’s right to a voice in the control of her own property, but to some consideration in marriage, and a measure of personal liberty. The laws that grew out of it, in the slow process of years, have served as a basis for the codes that have more or less governed civilized countries ever since, and though these have often deviated far from the liberal standard of the statutes of Justinian, they have never fallen permanently to the old level. A certain marked resemblance in the character and growth of the Roman and the Anglo-Saxon woman gives us a special interest in these controversies and their practical outcome.

Not long ago, a skilled and articulate man, well-known in politics, made the surprising claim that from the time Eve left paradise until the rise of the modern advocate for women, “woman was apparently content with her subordination.” It’s not my intention to dive into the current aspects of a topic that has been thoroughly discussed, or to pinpoint exactly where those who belong to what our esteemed friend refers to as the “inferior and defective half of the race” might justifiably object; however, it’s worth noting that there has never been such a prolonged and serious upheaval regarding the often-discussed “woman question” as there was in Rome two thousand years ago. Perhaps no moment in the history of women has been as significant as those struggles for justice and recognition. With maybe one exception, the issues at hand weren’t quite the same as those in the mid-nineteenth century, but they did involve many of the same rights. The debate was about a woman's right to have a say in her own property, as well as some consideration in marriage and a degree of personal freedom. The laws that emerged from these struggles, developed over many years, have served as the foundation for the legal systems that have governed civilized countries ever since. Although these systems have often strayed far from the progressive standards of Justinian's statutes, they have never permanently regressed to the former state. A certain resemblance in the character and development of Roman and Anglo-Saxon women adds a unique interest to these debates and their practical outcomes.

That the Roman woman had ample cause for protest could hardly be questioned to-day, even by the most determined advocate of the old order of things. The contrast between the character and ability so conspicuously shown by what she did at various times for her country, and the humiliation of her position, was too great. In the qualities of temperament and imagination which, if given free scope, make poets and artists, the Grecian women surpassed her. But the very traits of sensibility that constituted their fascination rendered them an easy[Pg 109] prey to the rule of a master. Their chief legacy to posterity was an esthetic one. The talent of the Roman woman was of another sort. She was of a masterful type, striking in physique, strong in purpose, clear in judgment, with the pride and dignity of a race born to rule the world. It was through her practical wisdom in directing affairs, together with her courage, foresight, and indomitable will, that she gained in the end a degree of independence which perhaps we should hardly call by that name to-day, but which was relative freedom and left a permanent trace on after-ages.

That the Roman woman had plenty of reasons to protest is hard to deny today, even by the most staunch supporter of the old ways. The contrast between her character and abilities, which she demonstrated through her contributions to her country at various times, and the humiliation of her position was just too stark. In terms of temperament and imagination, which, if allowed to flourish, create poets and artists, Greek women outshone her. However, the very qualities that made them captivating also made them easy targets for a controlling master. Their main legacy to future generations was aesthetic. The talent of the Roman woman was quite different. She was assertive, physically striking, strong-willed, and had a clear sense of judgment, embodying the pride and dignity of a race destined to rule the world. It was her practical wisdom in managing affairs, along with her courage, foresight, and unyielding spirit, that ultimately led her to achieve a level of independence that we might hesitate to call by that name today, but which represented a form of relative freedom and left a lasting impact on later generations.

Of the heroism, political sagacity, and moral value of the Roman women we have abundant evidence, but it is difficult to catch the outline of faces seen in half-lights, or of characters revealed only on one side. They did not write of themselves, or of each other, as women of later and, to some extent, even of earlier ages have done. There was no Sappho to sing of their joys and sorrows, or give us a clue to what they thought and felt. Men who wrote freely of affairs reserved small space for them, so we know little of their personal life, except through passing glimpses in a few private letters, and the cynical if not malicious pictures of satirists. The Romans were not a creative or imaginative race, and have left us none of the great ideals of womanhood that grace the pages of the Greek poets. No Helen with her divine beauty and charm, no Antigone with[Pg 110] her strength of sacrifice, no Andromache with her tender and winning personality, shows us the manner of woman that lived in the minds and hearts of men. But if the delicacy of shading which reveals fine complexities of character is wanting, we have a few records of brave deeds and individual virtues that are likely to stand as long as the world to show us the quality that made them possible. Alcestis going serenely to her death for her weak and selfish lord is not more heroic than Lucretia, who saved the falling liberties of Rome by plunging the dagger into her heart and calling upon her husband to avenge her outraged honor. Iphigenia is not a more touching figure than the innocent Virginia, sacrificed, not to the gods, but to the brutality of wicked men.

We have plenty of evidence of the bravery, political insight, and moral strength of Roman women, but it's hard to clearly see their faces in shadowy light or to fully understand their characters when only one side is shown. They didn’t write about themselves or each other the way women of later periods, or even some earlier ones, have done. There was no Sappho to express their joys and sorrows, or to give us insights into their thoughts and feelings. Men who freely wrote about their lives often gave little attention to women, so we know very little about their personal lives, except for brief glimpses in a few private letters and the cynical or even malicious portrayals by satirists. The Romans weren’t a creative or imaginative people and didn’t leave us any of the great ideals of womanhood that fill the works of Greek poets. There’s no Helen with her divine beauty and charm, no Antigone with her strong sense of sacrifice, and no Andromache with her gentle and appealing nature to show what kinds of women occupied the minds and hearts of men. However, while the subtlety that reveals complex character may be lacking, we do have some records of brave actions and individual virtues that will resonate for as long as the world lasts to show us the qualities that made such actions possible. Alcestis, going calmly to her death for her weak and selfish husband, is no less heroic than Lucretia, who saved Rome's faltering liberties by stabbing herself and urging her husband to seek revenge for her dishonor. Iphigenia is not a more poignant figure than innocent Virginia, sacrificed, not to the gods, but to the cruelty of wicked men.

From Tanaquil, whose ambition and prophetic insight led the first Tarquin to leave his simple Etruscan home for a Roman throne, to the wise Livia, who shared the power and glory of Augustus for more than half a century, women came to the front in many a public crisis. Men gave them no real liberty, but they did give them monuments. These are mostly gone now, but the records of them are left. Standing by the Capitol to-day and looking across the crumbling temples, columns, statues, and arches which have preserved for us the memories of Old Rome, one is forcibly reminded of the important part played by women in laying the[Pg 111] foundations of the long faded glory that still lends these ruins so melancholy and picturesque a charm. The strength and courage of the Roman woman were immortalized in the equestrian statue of the daring Clœlia, in the Via Sacra, that stretches before us. Not far off was the temple of Juno, where the festivals of the Matronalia were held for centuries, in honor of the women who settled the contest between the Romans and the Sabines. Beyond the walls on the way to the Alban hills was the temple of Fortuna Muliebris, which bore lasting testimony to the wisdom and patriotism of Valeria, its first priestess; also to the gentle but powerful influence of Volumnia and Virgilia, who, led by her counsels, saved the city from a too ambitious son and brother. It was the spirit of the divine Egeria that whispered prophetic words of warning to Numa in the secluded grotto beyond the Aventine. The Sibyls held the secrets of divination, and in the vaults at our feet they deposited the books that foretold the destinies of Rome.

From Tanaquil, whose ambition and prophetic skills prompted the first Tarquin to leave his simple Etruscan home for a Roman throne, to the wise Livia, who shared the power and glory of Augustus for more than fifty years, women took center stage during many public crises. Men didn’t grant them real freedom, but they did give them monuments. Most of these are gone now, but their records remain. Standing by the Capitol today and looking across the crumbling temples, columns, statues, and arches that remind us of Old Rome, one is starkly reminded of the crucial role women played in laying the foundations of the long-lost glory that still gives these ruins such a sad and picturesque charm. The strength and bravery of Roman women were immortalized in the equestrian statue of the bold Clœlia, located on the Via Sacra that stretches before us. Close by was the temple of Juno, where the festivals of the Matronalia were celebrated for centuries, in honor of the women who resolved the dispute between the Romans and the Sabines. Outside the walls, on the path to the Alban hills, was the temple of Fortuna Muliebris, which stood as a testament to the wisdom and patriotism of Valeria, its first priestess; and also to the gentle yet powerful influence of Volumnia and Virgilia, who, guided by her advice, saved the city from an overly ambitious son and brother. It was the spirit of the divine Egeria that whispered prophetic warnings to Numa in the secluded grotto beyond the Aventine. The Sibyls held the secrets of divination, and in the vaults beneath us, they deposited the books that foretold the destinies of Rome.

There still stands the little temple where the white-robed Vestals watched over the holy Palladium and took care that the sacred fire should never go out for eleven hundred years. Men on the heights of power bowed to the authority of these consecrated women, who occupied everywhere the place of honor, settled disputes, testified without oath, and brought pardon even to a criminal who[Pg 112] met them by accident. All this, whether fact or legend, was a tacit recognition of the judgment, purity, and insight of woman. It might not be desirable to give her any rights civil or social, but, as a sort of compensation, men quieted their consciences and gave themselves a comfortable feeling of being just, if indeed they ever had any doubt on that point, by offering her more or less theoretical honor, and a shadowy place near the gods, where they could avail themselves of her wisdom without any personal inconvenience. In addition to this, they built her a little temple dedicated to the goddess Viriplaca, Appeaser of Husbands, where she could solace her bruised heart by confiding her wrongs and sorrows to this conciliatory divinity, who seems to have been useful mainly as a repository of tears, though her office was to compose differences. It has long since vanished, but it speaks volumes for the helplessness of women that it ever existed at all. It told the tragedy of many a Roman matron’s life.

There still stands the little temple where the white-robed Vestals watched over the holy Palladium and made sure the sacred fire never went out for eleven hundred years. Powerful men bowed to the authority of these dedicated women, who held a place of honor everywhere, settled disputes, testified without oath, and even granted forgiveness to a criminal who[Pg 112] crossed their path by chance. Whether fact or legend, all of this acknowledged the judgment, purity, and insight of women. While it might not have been desirable to grant her any civil or social rights, men eased their consciences and felt justified, if they ever had any doubts, by offering her mostly theoretical honor and a vague connection to the gods, allowing them to benefit from her wisdom without any personal hassle. Plus, they built her a little temple dedicated to the goddess Viriplaca, Appeaser of Husbands, where she could soothe her bruised heart by sharing her wrongs and sorrows with this conciliatory divinity, who seemed to exist mainly as a place for tears, though her role was to resolve conflicts. That temple has long since disappeared, but its existence speaks volumes about the helplessness of women. It told the story of many a Roman matron’s life.

II

We have seen a little of what these women were and what they did. What they suffered can be better gathered from a glance at their position and the share they had in the liberties they had done so much to foster and save. Of freedom the Roman woman of earlier times had none at all, though she[Pg 113] was not secluded like her Athenian sisters, and her place in the family was a better one. Her character was formed, like that of our Puritan mothers, in times of toil and danger, when she worked side by side with men for a common end, and, in both, their strength of purpose and spirit of heroic sacrifice lasted long after the hard conditions of primitive life had passed. Besides, the natural talent for administration which shone through all her limitations was to a certain degree recognized by her husband, and she was often his counselor, as well as the instructor of his children, even beyond the seven years prescribed. But all this did not suffice to give her any liberty of thought or action, and she was to all intents and purposes a slave, subject to the caprices of a master who might choose to be kind, though, in case he did not, she had no protection either in law or custom; and we all know how soon the consciousness of absolute power warps the sensibilities of even the gentlest. “Created to please and obey,” says Gibbon, “she was never supposed to have reached the age of reason and experience.” She was under guardianship all her life, first of her father, then of her husband, and, at his death, of her nearest male relative. For centuries she had no right to her own property, no control of her own person, no choice in marriage, no recourse against cruelty and oppression. “The husband has absolute power over the wife,” said the stern old[Pg 114] Cato; “it is for him to condemn and punish her for any shameful act, such as taking wine or violating the moral law.” To show what was possible in the way of surveillance, we are told that he was in the habit of kissing her, when he came home, to satisfy himself that she had not been drinking. One man who found his wife sipping wine beat her to death; another dismissed his weaker half because she was seen on the street without a veil; and a daring woman was sent away because she went to the circus without leave. Any man could spend his wife’s money, beat her, sell her, give her to some one else when he was tired of her, even put her to death, “acting as accuser, judge, jury, and executioner.” In the last case it was better to call her friends into council, perhaps even necessary, if they were powerful enough to ask for an explanation; but “a man can do as he likes with his own” was sufficient to cover any injustice or any crime. Even in the last days of the Republic, when the laws were greatly modified, the younger Cato, a man noted for his stoical virtues, gave his wife to his friend Hortensius, and after his death took her back—with a dowry added. What she thought of the matter signified little. It does not appear that she was even consulted. The family was the unit, and the man was the family.

We've seen a bit of what these women were like and what they accomplished. Their struggles can be better understood by looking at their roles and the contributions they made to the freedoms they had worked so hard to promote and protect. Roman women in earlier times had no freedom at all, even though they weren't as secluded as their Athenian counterparts, and their position in the family was somewhat better. Like our Puritan mothers, their character was shaped during times of hard work and danger, when they labored alongside men for a common goal, and both men and women maintained a strong sense of purpose and a spirit of heroic sacrifice long after the harsh conditions of ancient life had ended. Moreover, her natural talent for management, despite her limitations, was somewhat acknowledged by her husband, who often relied on her as an advisor and as a teacher to their children, even beyond the prescribed seven years. But none of this was enough to grant her any freedom of thought or action; she was essentially a slave, subject to the whims of a master who could choose to be kind, while if he wasn't, she had no protection in law or social customs. And we all know how quickly absolute power can distort the feelings of even the kindest individual. “Created to please and obey,” as Gibbon said, “she was never considered to have reached the age of reason and experience.” She lived under guardianship her entire life, first under her father, then her husband, and after his death, her closest male relative. For centuries, she had no rights to her own property, no control over her own body, no say in marriage, and no means of addressing cruelty and oppression. “The husband has absolute power over the wife,” said the stern old Cato; “it’s up to him to condemn and punish her for any shameful act, like drinking wine or violating moral law.” To illustrate the extent of this control, we’re told he would kiss her when he got home to make sure she hadn’t been drinking. One man beat his wife to death for drinking wine; another divorced his wife simply because she was seen on the street without a veil; and a bold woman was sent away for going to the circus without permission. Any man could spend his wife's money, beat her, sell her, give her away when he was done with her, or even kill her, acting as accuser, judge, jury, and executioner. In such cases, it was better to involve her friends, and perhaps necessary if they had enough power to demand an explanation; but the saying “a man can do as he likes with his own” was enough to justify any injustice or crime. Even in the final days of the Republic, when laws had changed significantly, the younger Cato, known for his stoic virtues, gave his wife to his friend Hortensius, and after Hortensius's death, took her back—with an added dowry. It didn’t seem to matter what she thought about it. There’s no indication that she was even consulted. The family was the fundamental unit, and the man was the family.

It is fair to say that it was not women alone who suffered from this peculiar phase of Roman society, as men had little more freedom so long as their[Pg 115] fathers lived; but it fell much more severely on those who were, in the nature of things, more helpless. The best they could hope for was a change of masters, which might be for the worse; and who was to protect them from their irresponsible protectors, even with all the safeguards supposed to be provided by law? For this evidently put them where Terence did the philosophers, along with horses and hunting-dogs, that were owned but not necessarily considered.

It’s fair to say that it wasn’t just women who suffered during this strange time in Roman society; men had little more freedom as long as their fathers were alive. However, it hit those who were inherently more vulnerable much harder. The best they could hope for was a change of masters, which could end up being worse. And who would protect them from their careless guardians, even with all the legal safeguards that were supposed to be in place? This clearly placed them in a situation similar to what Terence described for the philosophers, alongside horses and hunting dogs—owned but not necessarily valued.

It is said, in praise of the morals of Rome during its first centuries, that there was not a divorce for five hundred years. The exact nature of this merit is seen more clearly when we find that a woman could not apply for a divorce, or expect a redress of any wrong, whatever might befall her; while a man simply sent away his wife, if she did not please him, without any formalities, and with slight, if any, penalties. This did not release her from perpetual servitude, though he was free to follow his inclinations, amenable to no law and no obligation. It is true, however, that Roman matrons prided themselves on their dignity. A certain respect was exacted for them, and familiarity in their presence was a punishable offense. They took every occasion also to show appreciation of their defenders. They mourned a year for Brutus, who died in avenging Lucretia’s honor, and did the same later for his upright colleague.

It is said, in praise of the morals of Rome during its early centuries, that there was no divorce for five hundred years. The specifics of this merit become clearer when we see that a woman couldn’t request a divorce or expect to have any wrongs addressed, no matter what happened to her; while a man could simply send his wife away if she no longer pleased him, without any formalities and with little, if any, penalties. This did not free her from lifelong servitude, even though he was free to pursue his desires, accountable to no law and no obligations. However, it’s true that Roman matrons took pride in their dignity. They commanded a certain level of respect, and being overly familiar in their presence was punishable. They also made it a point to show gratitude to their defenders. They mourned for a year for Brutus, who died avenging Lucretia’s honor, and did the same later for his honorable colleague.

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Many years afterward there was a temple of patrician chastity in which women assembled for sacred rites, but they found as many causes for contention as some of our societies do to-day. One noble matron lost caste by marrying a plebeian, and was excluded. She protested in vain. Her birth, her spotless fame, her devotion to her husband, counted for nothing so long as that husband did not belong to the elect. There was no lack of spirited words, but the matter did not end here. This slighted Virginia started another association on her own ground, set apart a chapel in her house, and erected an altar to plebeian chastity. The standards were to be much higher. She called together the plebeian ladies, and proposed that they emulate one another in virtue, as men did in valor. No woman of doubtful honor or twice married was admitted. Unfortunately, this organization in time opened its doors too wide, and shared the fate of many others.

Many years later, there was a temple of upper-class purity where women gathered for sacred ceremonies, but they found just as many reasons for conflict as some of our groups do today. One noble woman lost her status by marrying a commoner and was excluded. She protested without success. Her lineage, her impeccable reputation, her loyalty to her husband, meant nothing as long as that husband wasn’t part of the elite. There was no shortage of passionate debates, but the issue didn’t stop there. This slighted Virginia started another group on her own terms, designated a chapel in her house, and built an altar to commoner purity. The standards were set to be much higher. She brought together the women of the lower class and encouraged them to inspire one another in virtue, just as men did in bravery. No woman with a questionable reputation or who had been married twice was allowed to join. Unfortunately, this organization eventually became too inclusive and met the same fate as many others.

On another occasion Quinta Claudia, one of the leading matrons of Rome, played so conspicuous a part that she won immortality and a statue of brass. She was at the head of a delegation appointed to meet the Idæan Mother, who was expected at Terracina, and whose coming was of great importance, as various strange happenings showed conclusively that Juno was angry and needed propitiation. It was decided that the most virtuous man in the State should accompany the matrons, but it was[Pg 117] only after much tribulation that the Senate found one fit to be intrusted with the office, and this was a young Scipio. Unfortunately, the vessel containing the image went aground, and the augurs declared that only a woman of spotless character could dislodge it. Quinta Claudia was equal to the occasion. She seized the oar, with a prayer to Cybele; the boat moved from its place as if by magic, and was safely carried to its destination. The lady’s fair fame, which had been a little clouded, was forever established by a direct interposition of the gods. The matrons acquitted themselves with honor and, it is to be hoped, to the satisfaction of the goddess, who was duly installed in her temple.

On another occasion, Quinta Claudia, one of the prominent women of Rome, played such a significant role that she earned fame and a bronze statue. She led a delegation sent to meet the Idæan Mother, who was expected in Terracina, and whose arrival was crucial since several unusual events indicated that Juno was angry and required appeasement. It was agreed that the most virtuous man in the State should accompany the women, but after much difficulty, the Senate found a suitable candidate, a young Scipio. Unfortunately, the ship carrying the statue ran aground, and the augurs declared that only a woman of impeccable character could free it. Quinta Claudia rose to the challenge. She took the oar, prayed to Cybele, and the boat moved as if by magic, safely reaching its destination. The lady’s reputation, which had been slightly tarnished, was forever solidified by a direct act of the gods. The women performed admirably and, hopefully, to the satisfaction of the goddess, who was properly installed in her temple.

All this goes to prove that the women of twenty centuries ago often combined in the interest of religion and morals, and were quite capable of managing public as well as private affairs; also that great value was attached to the austere virtues. The wise Cato is said to have erased the name of a Roman from the list of senators because he kissed his wife in the presence of his daughters—a worse penalty than the old Blue Laws imposed on the man who kissed his wife on Sunday. It is a pity that this crabbed censor, of many theoretical virtues and a few practical ones set in thorns, failed to appreciate the dignity and decorum of the Roman matron. It was this same rigid Cato who, in spite of the fact that he “preferred a good husband to a[Pg 118] great senator,” was so inconsistently shocked that a Roman lady should presume to be a companion to her noble lord. He looked upon a wife as a necessary evil, and declared that “the lives of men would be less godless if they were quit of women.”

All this shows that women from twenty centuries ago often came together for the sake of religion and morals and were fully capable of managing both public and private matters. It also highlights how much importance was placed on strict virtues. The wise Cato supposedly removed a Roman's name from the list of senators because he kissed his wife in front of his daughters—a worse punishment than the old Blue Laws that penalized a man for kissing his wife on Sunday. It's unfortunate that this grumpy censor, who had many theoretical virtues but only a few practical ones, failed to appreciate the dignity and decorum of the Roman matron. This same strict Cato, despite claiming he “preferred a good husband to a[Pg 118] great senator,” was inconsistently outraged that a Roman lady would dare to be a companion to her esteemed husband. He viewed a wife as a necessary evil and stated that “the lives of men would be less godless if they were rid of women.”

There was no question of love or inclination in arranging a Roman marriage. It was simply a contract between citizens, a State affair intended solely to perpetuate the race in its purity, and to preserve family and religious traditions. In its best form it was for centuries restricted to patricians, who alone were privileged to take the mystic bread together. This constituted a religious marriage, and only this could give their children pure descent or admission to the highest functions of the State. There were two lower grades of civil marriage, but each gave a man supreme control of his wife, without the dignity of consecration. Whatever cruelty and suffering might result from this one-sided relation,—and the possibilities were enormous,—a woman was expected to love the husband chosen by her friends, for himself alone, and a bridegroom’s presents were limited by custom, so that she might not be tempted to love him for what he could give her. She must go out to meet him, submit patiently to any indignities he might offer, and mourn him in due form when he died. Her death he was not required to mourn at all. His infidelities she must never see, as any complaint was likely to meet with[Pg 119] a dismissal, and she knew that even her father would say it served her right for interfering in any way with a man’s privilege of doing as he liked.

There was no question of love or desire in arranging a Roman marriage. It was just a contract between citizens, a government matter meant solely to continue the race in its purity and maintain family and religious traditions. In its best form, for centuries, it was only for patricians, who alone were allowed to share the sacred bread together. This constituted a religious marriage, and only this could give their children pure lineage or access to the highest positions in the government. There were two lower levels of civil marriage, but each gave a man complete control over his wife, without the honor of consecration. No matter the cruelty and suffering that might arise from this unbalanced relationship—and the possibilities were vast—a woman was expected to love the husband chosen by her friends for who he was, and the gifts from the groom were restricted by tradition, so she wouldn’t be tempted to love him for his wealth. She was supposed to welcome him, endure any disrespect he might show, and mourn for him appropriately when he died. His death, however, didn’t require her to be mourned at all. She was expected to overlook his affairs, as any complaint would likely lead to a dismissal, and she knew even her father would say she deserved it for interfering with a man’s right to do as he pleased. Her death he was not required to mourn at all. His infidelities she must never see, as any complaint was likely to meet with[Pg 119] a dismissal, and she knew that even her father would say it served her right for interfering in any way with a man’s privilege of doing as he liked.

That a woman ever did love her husband under such conditions proves that her heart was as tender as her capacity for self-sacrifice was great; also that men were by no means as wicked or tyrannical as they had the power to be. We know that liberty is not always insured by an edict, nor does cruelty or injustice invariably follow the lack of a decree against it. There are many notable instances of the devotion of Roman women and the affection of Roman men; indeed, it is quite certain that there was a great deal of happy domestic life. Men naturally accepted the traditions of a society into which they had been born, and women did not question them unless their burdens became intolerable, and even these they considered a part of their destiny, as good women had done before them—and have done since. But power is a dangerous gift for the best of us, and without some strong safeguard, moral or legal, brute force inevitably asserts itself over helplessness. In modern times a sentiment grown into a tradition has done much toward tempering the condition of women even under arbitrary rule, though their own increased intelligence has done more. Sentiment, however, was not a quality of the average Roman character. Men were masterful and passionate, eager of power and impatient[Pg 120] of contradiction. To offset this, they often had a strong family feeling and a certain sense of justice, besides a natural love of peace in the home; but this did not suffice to curb the violence and cruelty of the wicked, nor to render the position of the high-spirited wife a possible one. The stuff out of which Lucretias and Cornelias are made is not the stuff to bear habitual oppression silently, beyond a certain point.

That a woman ever loved her husband under such circumstances shows that her heart was as tender as her ability to sacrifice was great; it also indicates that men weren’t as wicked or tyrannical as they could have been. We know that freedom isn't always guaranteed by a law, nor does cruelty or injustice always happen just because there's no law against it. There are many remarkable examples of the loyalty of Roman women and the affection of Roman men; in fact, it's clear that there was a lot of happy family life. Men naturally accepted the traditions of the society they were born into, and women didn’t question them unless their burdens became unbearable, which they often saw as part of their destiny, just as good women had done before and have done since. But power is a dangerous thing for even the best among us, and without some strong moral or legal safeguard, brute force will eventually overpower those who are helpless. In modern times, a sentiment that has become a tradition has helped improve the situation for women even under arbitrary rule, but their own increasing intelligence has contributed even more. However, sentiment was not a trait of the average Roman character. Men were assertive and passionate, eager for power and impatient with opposition. To balance this, they often had a strong sense of family and a certain sense of justice, along with a natural love for peace at home; but this wasn't enough to curb the violence and cruelty of the wicked or to make the situation of a spirited wife bearable. The kind of women like Lucretia and Cornelia are not the kind to endure constant oppression silently, beyond a certain limit.

It was doubtless this oppression that was responsible for a startling epidemic of husband-poisoning in the fourth century before Christ. The women who prepared the drugs were betrayed by a maid, and one hundred and seventy matrons—some of them patricians—were found guilty. The leaders were forced to take their own poisons, and died with the calmness of Stoics. Two hundred years afterward there was another epidemic of the same sort, and many eminent men paid the penalty of their cruelties with their lives. This mode of redressing wrongs became too common to be passed to the account of individual crime. It was the protest of helpless ignorance that had found no other weapon.

It was definitely this oppression that led to a shocking outbreak of husband-poisoning in the fourth century BC. The women who made the poisons were betrayed by a maid, and one hundred seventy married women—some of them from aristocratic families—were found guilty. The leaders were forced to take their own poisons and died with the composure of Stoics. Two hundred years later, there was another outbreak of the same kind, and many prominent men paid the price for their cruelty with their lives. This method of seeking justice became so common that it couldn't just be attributed to individual crime. It was the outcry of powerless people who had no other means to fight back.

About this time, however, the Roman matrons took a more civilized and rational method of asserting their rights. It was an innovation to claim any, but they were too proud to accept the hopeless vassalage of the Athenian woman. Indignant at[Pg 121] the inferiority of their condition, without recourse or refuge against cruelty and injustice, hampered by needless and petty restrictions, they rebelled at last.

About this time, however, the Roman women adopted a more civilized and logical way to assert their rights. It was groundbreaking to claim any rights at all, but they were too proud to accept the miserable subservience of Athenian women. Outraged by the lesser status they faced, without any means to protect themselves against cruelty and injustice, and burdened by unnecessary and trivial restrictions, they finally rebelled.

III

One sees little clearly through the mists of two thousand years, and we know few details of what seems to have been the first concerted revolt on the part of women. The visible cause was a trivial one, but it was the proverbial last drop, and served at least to bring dismay into the councils of men, and afterward, possibly, reflection. The Roman woman was patriotic and quite ready, at need, to give all and ask nothing. When money was required to carry on the Punic wars, she poured out her jewels and personal treasures with lavish generosity; nor did she murmur when the Oppian law decreed that she must no longer wear purple or many-colored robes, that her gold ornaments must weigh no more than half an ounce, and that she must walk if she went out, as the use of a carriage in the city was a forbidden luxury. These were small privileges, but they were about all she had, and when the crisis was past, she asked a repeal of the decree. She met the usual rebuff of those who seek to regain a lost point. Men saw in such a request only an “irruption of female emancipators,” dangerous alike to religion and the State. Cato, the austere, refused a petition[Pg 122] which he regarded as a subversion of order and a rebellion against lawful masters. He said that the claim of women to any rights or any voice in public affairs was a proof that men had lost their majesty as well as their authority; such a thing could not have happened if each one had kept his own wife in proper subjection. “Our privileges,” he continues, “overpowered at home by female contumacy, are, even here in the forum, spurned and trodden under foot”; indeed, he begins to fear that “the whole race of males may be utterly destroyed by a conspiracy of women.” He rails at the matrons, who throng the forum, for “running into public and addressing other women’s husbands.” It “does not concern them what laws are passed or repealed.” He bewails the “good old days” when women were forced to obey their fathers, brothers, or husbands. “Now they are so lost to a sense of decency as to ask favors of other men.” “Women,” he says, “bear law with impatience.” They long for liberty, which is not good for them. With all the old restrictions, it is difficult to keep them within bounds. “The moment they have arrived at equality they will be our superiors”—a dangerous admission surely. He calls the affair a sedition, an insurrection, a secession of women.

It's hard to see clearly through the fog of two thousand years, and we have limited details about what seems to be the first organized revolt by women. The immediate cause was trivial, but it was the final straw and at least made men uneasy and possibly prompted some reflection. The Roman woman was patriotic and completely willing to give everything without asking for anything in return. When funding was needed for the Punic wars, she generously offered her jewels and personal treasures; she didn’t complain when the Oppian law said she could no longer wear purple or colorful robes, that her gold jewelry couldn’t weigh more than half an ounce, and that she had to walk if she went out, as using a carriage in the city was considered an extravagant luxury. These may have been small privileges, but they were practically all she had, and when the crisis ended, she requested the repeal of the decree. She faced the typical resistance from those trying to reclaim a lost privilege. Men viewed such a request as nothing more than an "outbreak of female emancipators," a threat to both religion and the State. Cato, the stern, rejected a petition that he saw as a challenge to order and a rebellion against rightful authority. He claimed that women demanding any rights or a voice in public affairs proved that men had lost their dignity and power; this wouldn’t have happened if each man had properly controlled his own wife. “Our privileges,” he said, “overpowered at home by female defiance, are even here in the forum, disregarded and trampled.” He began to worry that “the entire male race may be completely destroyed by a conspiracy of women.” He criticized the married women who crowded the forum for “venturing out and speaking to other women’s husbands.” They should not be concerned with what laws are created or repealed. He lamented the “good old days” when women were obliged to obey their fathers, brothers, or husbands. “Now they are so lacking in decency as to request favors from other men.” “Women,” he said, “endure laws with impatience.” They crave freedom, which is not good for them. Even with all the old restrictions, it's challenging to keep them in check. “The moment they achieve equality, they will surpass us”—a dangerous acknowledgment, indeed. He labeled the situation a rebellion, an uprising, a secession of women.

But the matrons had some able defenders. Lucius Valerius, who had asked the repeal of this obnoxious law, spoke for them. He objects to calling[Pg 123] a natural request by such hard names, and quotes from antiquity to prove that it is not a new thing for Roman matrons to come out in public, as they have often done so in the interest of the State, and “always to its advantage.” He recalls the various times when they saved Rome, and refers to the generosity with which they invariably responded to a call for help. No one objected when they appeared for the general good; why should they be censured when they asked a favor for themselves? In reply to the accusation of extravagance, he says: “When you wear purple on your own robe, why will you not permit your wife a purple mantle?”... “Will you spend more on your horse than on your wife?” Then he asks why women who have always been noted for modesty should lose it now through the repeal of a law that has not been in existence more than twenty years. One is tempted to quote at length from these speeches, because they show us how the Romans discussed certain questions that are familiar to-day. To be sure, it was only a woman’s privilege of dressing as she chose that they were considering, but it really involved her right to ask anything which her lord and master did not freely accord. We hear practically the same arguments, the same fears, the same special pleadings on both sides, at each new step in the social advancement of women.

But the women had some strong supporters. Lucius Valerius, who had called for the repeal of this annoying law, spoke on their behalf. He argues against labeling a natural request with such harsh terms and cites examples from history to show that it’s not a new thing for Roman women to step into public life; they’ve done so many times for the benefit of the State, and “always to its advantage.” He remembers the various occasions when they saved Rome and highlights the generosity with which they always responded to calls for help. No one protested when they appeared for the common good; so why should they be criticized when they ask for something for themselves? In response to the claim of extravagance, he says: “When you wear purple on your own robe, why won’t you allow your wife a purple cloak?”... “Will you spend more on your horse than on your wife?” Then he questions why women, who have always been recognized for their modesty, should lose it now just because a law that had only been around for twenty years is being repealed. One could easily quote extensively from these speeches, as they demonstrate how Romans debated certain issues that are still relevant today. Granted, it was merely a woman’s right to dress as she pleased that they were discussing, but it really touched upon her right to request anything that her husband did not voluntarily grant. We hear nearly the same arguments, the same fears, and the same special pleadings on both sides with each new step in the social progress of women.

The Roman matrons, however, were not discouraged[Pg 124] by criticism. They flocked to the forum in greater numbers than ever. Women came in from the towns and villages to aid them. The senators were so astounded at their audacity that they solemnly implored the gods to reveal the nature of the omen. They stigmatized the leaders as “androgynes” or “he-women,” a term of contempt so freely applied in this country, less than fifty years ago, to those who bravely presented the claims of their sex to larger consideration, and who, silver-haired and venerable, are so widely honored to-day. We do not hear that there were any congresses or conventions, but these Roman ladies held meetings, went into the streets for votes, and appealed to nobles, officials, and strangers alike. They sought the tribunes in their houses, and used all their arts of persuasion. There were fair-minded men then as now, and the spirited rebels won their cause, though Cato revenged himself for his defeat by imposing a heavy tax on the dress, ornaments, and carriages of women. It is said that they put on their gay robes and jewels at once, and celebrated their victory by dancing in the legislative halls.

The Roman women, however, were not put off by criticism[Pg 124]. They gathered at the forum in greater numbers than ever. Women traveled from towns and villages to support them. The senators were so shocked by their boldness that they seriously begged the gods to explain the meaning of the omen. They labeled the leaders as “androgynes” or “he-women,” a derogatory term that was commonly used in this country less than fifty years ago for those who bravely advocated for their gender's rights and who, now silver-haired and respected, are widely honored today. There’s no record of any congresses or conventions, but these Roman women held meetings, marched in the streets for votes, and appealed to nobles, officials, and strangers alike. They sought out the tribunes in their homes and used all their persuasive skills. There were fair-minded men back then, just like now, and the determined rebels succeeded in their cause, though Cato took revenge for his defeat by imposing a heavy tax on the clothing, jewelry, and carriages of women. It's said they immediately donned their fancy robes and jewels, celebrating their victory by dancing in the legislative halls.

Not far from this time, possibly a little before, a dowry was set apart for women. But there was a growing jealousy of their increasing independence, and, a few years later, it was proposed to take away from them the right of inheritance. It was feared that too much property might fall into their hands,[Pg 125] as had been the case in Sparta; also, that their taste for elegant living might lead to degeneracy of manners and morals. The irrepressible Cato again came to the front and declaimed against the arrogance and tyranny of rich women. After bringing their husbands a large dowry, he said, they even had the presumption to retain some of their own money for themselves and ask payment if they lent it to their masters! Men could not be expected to tolerate such insufferable insolence on the part of their “reserved slaves.” And so the decree was passed. But it was more honored in the breach than in the observance, and became a dead letter, as men themselves thought it unjust.

Not long before this time, a dowry was set aside for women. However, there was growing jealousy over their increasing independence, and a few years later, it was suggested that they be stripped of their right to inherit. There was a fear that too much property might end up in their hands, just like it had in Sparta; also, that their taste for a refined lifestyle could lead to a decline in manners and morals. The unstoppable Cato stepped forward once more and spoke out against the arrogance and tyranny of wealthy women. He claimed that after bringing their husbands a large dowry, they even had the nerve to keep some of their own money for themselves and demanded repayment if they lent it to their masters! Men couldn't be expected to put up with such outrageous insolence from their “reserved slaves.” And so the decree was enacted. But it was more often ignored than followed and effectively became a dead letter, as men themselves believed it was unjust.[Pg 125]

How far the gradual change in the laws was due to the efforts of women and how far to the justice of men, it is not easy to determine; but the astonished attitude of the latter when they felt that their time-honored supremacy was in peril shows better than anything else the real significance of the movement which was precipitated by so slight a cause. It is quite safe to say that without an emphatic protest there would have been no thought of justice. Traditions are only broken from the inside where they press heavily. In this case it was a daring and unheard-of thing to run against the current of centuries of passive submission; but “it is the first step that costs.” When the right of being heard had been once asserted, grave statesmen and[Pg 126] jurists took up the matter and solved it as best they could, with an evident desire to be just and kind, as they understood it. It could hardly be expected that half of the human family would voluntarily relinquish the absolute ownership of the other half, or even believe it to be good for the other half that they should do so. Men are not so constituted. The institutions and customs that had come to them from their fathers they felt bound to pass on, as far as possible, intact. Besides, all vital changes must be slow, unless they are to be chaotic. But the leaven of a new intelligence worked surely, if not swiftly.

It's hard to say how much the gradual change in the laws was due to the efforts of women and how much was due to the fairness of men; however, the shocked reaction of the latter when they realized their long-standing dominance was in danger illustrates the true importance of the movement that started from such a seemingly small trigger. It's safe to say that without a strong protest, there would have been no consideration for fairness. Traditions are only broken from within when they become too burdensome. In this situation, it was bold and unprecedented to challenge centuries of quiet submission; but "the first step is the hardest." Once the right to be heard was claimed, serious politicians and[Pg 126] legal experts took up the issue and tried to address it as best as they could, clearly wanting to be fair and compassionate in their own way. It was unrealistic to expect that half of humanity would willingly give up complete control over the other half, or even think it was beneficial for them to do so. Men are not wired that way. They felt obligated to pass down the institutions and customs inherited from their forebears as faithfully as possible. Moreover, all significant changes must take time, unless they lead to chaos. Yet, the influence of a new awareness was steadily taking hold, if not quickly.

The masses of the Roman women never passed out of a condition which we should call subjection, though they did secure at last the use of their own fortunes, relative freedom in the marriage contract, and a certain protection against money-hunting and spendthrift husbands. In the reign of Augustus the wife was given a guaranty for her own property, and the husband was forbidden to alienate the dowry. The mother was in a measure freed from oppressive guardianship, which later ceased altogether. Under Hadrian she was permitted to make a will without consulting any one, also to inherit from her sons. In many regards the Romans after the Antonines were more just to women than are most of the civilized nations of to-day. But these changes were the work of centuries, and it is possible[Pg 127] here to touch only upon a few essential points.

The majority of Roman women never escaped a state that we would now call subjugation, although they eventually gained control over their own finances, relative freedom in marriage contracts, and some protection against greedy or irresponsible husbands. During Augustus's reign, wives were guaranteed ownership of their property, and husbands were prohibited from selling the dowry. Mothers were somewhat relieved from harsh guardianship, which eventually disappeared completely. Under Hadrian, mothers could create a will without anyone's input and were allowed to inherit from their sons. In many ways, Romans after the Antonines treated women more fairly than most civilized nations do today. However, these changes took centuries to develop, and it’s possible[Pg 127] to only briefly mention a few key points here.

There was a second revolt more than a hundred years after the first, when the triumvirs levied on the rich women of Rome a tax which compelled many of them to sacrifice their jewels. They appealed to Octavia to use her influence, also to the able mother of Antony, both of whom favored them; but his wife, the Fulvia of unpleasant fame, treated them with intolerable rudeness. Again they thronged the forum; but they had made vast strides in intelligence, and this time the eloquent daughter of a famous orator was chosen to plead for them. It was no longer a simple matter of personal injustice, but also a moral question upon which thoughtful women had distinct opinions and the ability to express them. Hortensia spoke for peace. “Do not ask us,” she says, “to contribute to the fratricidal war that is rending the Republic.” Her appeal for justice recalls a plea so often heard to-day, in a form that is but slightly altered. “Why should we pay taxes,” she says, “when we have no part in the honors, the commands, the statecraft, for which you contend against each other with such harmful results?... When have taxes ever been imposed on women?” Quintilian refers to this address of a brilliant matron as worthy to be read for its excellence, and “not merely as an honor to her sex.”

There was a second revolt more than a hundred years after the first, when the triumvirs placed a tax on the wealthy women of Rome that forced many of them to part with their jewels. They asked Octavia to use her influence, as well as Antony's capable mother, both of whom supported them; but his wife, the notorious Fulvia, treated them with outrageous disrespect. Once again, they crowded the forum; but this time they had significantly increased their knowledge, and an eloquent daughter of a famous orator was chosen to speak on their behalf. It was no longer just a matter of personal unfairness, but also a moral issue on which thoughtful women had clear views and could voice them. Hortensia advocated for peace. “Don't ask us,” she said, “to contribute to the brotherly war that is tearing the Republic apart.” Her call for justice echoes a plea often heard today, only slightly changed. “Why should we pay taxes,” she argued, “when we have no share in the honors, commands, and state affairs for which you fight against each other with such damaging effects?... When have taxes ever been imposed on women?” Quintilian remarked that this speech by a remarkable woman was worthy of being read for its excellence, and “not merely as an honor to her gender.”

These spirited and high-born women were sent[Pg 128] home, as the others had been, but the people again came to their aid, and it was found best to limit the tax to a few who could bear the burden easily.

These lively, well-born women were sent home, just like the others had been, but the community stepped in to help them again, and it turned out to be best to only tax a few who could handle it without trouble.

IV

But the most serious conflict was on the marriage question. The attitude of the Roman man has been already touched upon—an attitude as old as the world. In theory, a woman might be as chaste as Lucretia, as wise as Minerva, as near to divinity as the Vestals; in fact, she was only the servant of men’s interests or passions, and when she ceased to be a willing or at least a passive one, the trouble began. So long as marriage gave a man added dignity and somebody to rule over, with no special obligations that were likely to be inconvenient, or that could not be shaken off at will, things went smoothly enough on his side. But when he had to deal with a being who demanded some consideration, perhaps some sacrifice, it was another affair. His privileges were seriously curtailed. If he married wealth, it was quite possible for the owner to become imperious and exacting, as it was not so easy to put away a wife when one must return her fortune. “I have sold my authority for the dowry I have accepted,” says Plautus. As to marrying from inclination, a man had little more freedom of action than a maiden, while his father lived. If he was[Pg 129] a patrician he must marry within a limited class, much as he might like to go outside of it; and so long as this law continued to exist, the penalty for violating it was too severe to be braved. Besides, there were cares and restrictions in the marriage relation for pleasure-loving men. Wives without fortunes might be less exacting, but they were more expensive, which was worse, since men preferred to spend their money on themselves—a state of affairs toward which a certain class is rapidly drifting to-day, if it is not there already. Statesmen began to be alarmed. “If it were possible to do without wives, great cares would be spared us,” said Metellus in an address to the Senate; “but since nature has decreed that we cannot live without a wife, nor comfortably with one, let us bear the burden manfully, and look to the perpetuity of the State rather than to our own satisfaction.” It never seems to have occurred to these consistent descendants of Adam to consider the burdens of the woman at all. On her side, a rich woman hesitated to take a master, if she was independent enough to have any choice, which was rare, and without a dowry she was quite sure of finding a capricious one, who would not scruple to neglect her. Some guaranties she must have, and these men did not like to give. So men and women alike combined against the existing order of things, men for the right to do precisely as they pleased, women for the[Pg 130] right of choice in husbands and of breaking chains when they became intolerable.

But the biggest conflict was over marriage. The Roman man's attitude has already been mentioned—an attitude as old as time. In theory, a woman could be as pure as Lucretia, as wise as Minerva, or as divine as the Vestal Virgins; in reality, she was just a servant of men's needs and desires, and when she stopped being willing or at least passive, things started to get complicated. As long as marriage gave a man more status and someone to dominate, without any special commitments that could become inconvenient or that he couldn’t easily escape from, everything went smoothly for him. But when he had to deal with someone who expected respect and maybe even some sacrifice, it became a different story. His privileges were significantly limited. If he married someone wealthy, that person could become demanding, making it harder to get rid of a wife if it meant losing her fortune. “I have sold my authority for the dowry I have accepted,” says Plautus. As for marrying for love, a man had just as little freedom as a woman while his father was alive. If he was a patrician, he had to marry within a specific class, no matter how much he might want to step outside of it; as long as this law was in place, the consequences for breaking it were too severe to ignore. Besides, there were worries and restrictions in marriage that pleasure-seeking men found burdensome. Wives without dowries might be less demanding, but they were more costly, which was worse since men preferred to spend their money on themselves—something that a certain class is quickly leaning towards today, if it hasn’t happened already. Statesmen began to worry. “If we could live without wives, we would save ourselves a lot of trouble,” said Metellus in a speech to the Senate; “but since nature has decided that we cannot live without a wife, nor comfortably with one, let us bear the burden bravely, and focus on the stability of the State rather than on our own happiness.” It never seemed to cross the minds of these consistent descendants of Adam to think about the burdens placed on women. On her end, a wealthy woman hesitated to take a husband, if she was independent enough to have a choice, which was rare, and without a dowry, she was likely to find a capricious one who would neglect her. She needed some guarantees, but these men were reluctant to provide them. So, men and women alike began to push against the current system, men seeking the freedom to do whatever they wanted, and women fighting for the right to choose husbands and to break free from unbearable situations.

It has often been stated, by moralists over-anxious to make out a case, that this aversion to marriage, on the part of men, was due to the laxity of women. Of this I do not find any evidence. It was due in part to the restrictions already mentioned, and in part to the increasing luxury which, added to the long habit of absolute power, led to impatience of any domestic obligations, and a riot of the senses, as it has always done, before and since. Besides, there were the brilliant Oriental women who began to flock to Rome, bringing with them Hellenic tastes, with subtle fascinations that stole away the hearts of men and threatened a state of affairs similar to that which existed in Athens. This the spirited Roman women could not tolerate. To be thrust by strangers into a secondary place was not to be thought of by these proud patricians, who refused to put themselves in a position where such neglect was possible. They began to realize that the old virtues did not suffice to hold men’s wandering fancies. It was very well to carve on a woman’s tombstone, as a last word of praise, an epitaph like this: “Gentle in words, graceful in manner; she loved her husband devotedly; she kept her house, she spun wool.” But what availed it when this husband left her to the companionship of her duties and her virtues, while he gave what he called his affections to those who had fewer[Pg 131] virtues and more accomplishments? It was not laxity of morals, but lack of intelligence and culture, that stood in the way of the Roman woman in the days when Greek literature, Greek art, and Greek refinement first came into fashion. That she protested against traditions which made it superfluous, if not dangerous, to cultivate her intellect, may fairly be assumed. But she had a powerful ally. On this point the Romans showed far more wisdom than the Greeks. When they saw their own daughters set aside for these fascinating rivals, they began to educate them.

It has often been said by moralists eager to prove a point that men's reluctance to marry was caused by women's looseness. However, I find no evidence to support this claim. The aversion stemmed partly from the previously mentioned restrictions and partly from the rising luxury, which, combined with the long-established absolute power, led to a weariness of domestic responsibilities and indulgence in pleasure, as has always happened before and since. Additionally, there were the dazzling Eastern women who began arriving in Rome, bringing Hellenic tastes and subtle charms that captivated men and threatened to create a situation similar to what existed in Athens. The spirited Roman women couldn't stand this. They refused to be pushed into a secondary role by strangers, as these proud patricians would not allow themselves to be in a position where such neglect could happen. They started to recognize that the old virtues were no longer enough to keep men's wandering interests in check. It was fine to inscribe on a woman's gravestone, as a final tribute, something like: “Gentle in words, graceful in manner; she loved her husband devotedly; she ran her household and spun wool.” But what good was that when her husband left her to her duties and virtues while he directed what he called his affections toward those with fewer virtues and more talents? It wasn't a matter of moral laxity, but a lack of education and culture that hindered Roman women during the time when Greek literature, art, and refinement first became popular. It's fair to assume that they protested against traditions that made it unnecessary, if not hazardous, to develop their intellect. But they had a strong ally. In this regard, the Romans demonstrated much greater wisdom than the Greeks. When they saw their own daughters being overlooked for these alluring competitors, they began to educate them.

Just when the movement toward things of the intellect began among Roman women, it is difficult to determine with any exactness. It was after the Eastern wars and probably about the time of the first revolt. It had not been long since men began to catch the spirit of Greek culture. For five hundred years after the foundation of Rome there was not a book written, nor even a poem or a song. As soon as men began to study and think, women were disposed to do the same thing. If they could not well fight, they had the ability to learn. The pretensions of sex were not emphasized, but individual attainment was not without recognition. We begin to find women who were noted not only for strength, wisdom, and administrative ability, but for literary taste and culture. The austere virtues of Cornelia, who lived in the second century before our[Pg 132] era, are among the familiar facts of history. She has been often quoted as the supreme exemplar of the crowning grace of womanhood, and we know that she was honored at her death with a statue dedicated to the “Mother of the Gracchi.” Of her refinement, knowledge, and love of letters, less has been said, but it was largely because of these that she was able to train great sons. Cicero, who pronounced her letters among the purest specimens of style extant in his time, dwells upon the fact that these sons were educated in the purity and elegance of their mother’s language. Quintilian says that the “mother, whose learned letters have come down to posterity, contributed greatly to their eloquence.” Her passion for Hellenic poetry and philosophy was well known. It was a part of her heritage from her father, the illustrious Scipio, a great general with the tastes and abilities of a great scholar. Cato found fault with him and said he must be brought down to republican equality. This fiery radical and economist, who hated luxury, reviled women who had opinions, preached morals which he did not possess, whipped his slaves if anything was lost or spoiled, sold them at auction when they were sick or old, and put them to death if they did not please him,—this censor who was so generally disagreeable that when he died a wit said, “Pluto dreaded to receive him because he was always ready to bite,”—could not tolerate a man of refinement who shaved[Pg 133] every day and patronized Greek learning, whatever glory he might reflect on his country. We do not know what he said about Cornelia, but it may be imagined, as he was the determined adversary of feminine culture.

Just when the movement toward intellectual pursuits started among Roman women is hard to pinpoint exactly. It was after the Eastern wars and likely around the time of the first revolt. It hadn't been long since men began to embrace Greek culture. For five hundred years after the founding of Rome, there was no book written, nor even a poem or song. As soon as men began to study and think, women were inclined to do the same. If they couldn't fight well, they had the ability to learn. Gender roles weren't overly emphasized, but individual achievements didn't go unrecognized. We start to see women who were known not just for their strength, wisdom, and leadership skills, but also for their literary taste and cultural knowledge. The strict virtues of Cornelia, who lived in the second century BCE, are well-documented. She has often been cited as the ultimate example of womanly grace, and we know she was honored at her death with a statue dedicated to the “Mother of the Gracchi.” Less has been said about her refinement, knowledge, and love of literature, but these qualities were a big part of why she was able to raise remarkable sons. Cicero called her letters some of the purest examples of style from his time and emphasized that her sons were educated in the purity and elegance of their mother’s language. Quintilian mentioned that the “mother, whose learned letters have come down to posterity, contributed greatly to their eloquence.” Her passion for Greek poetry and philosophy was well-known. It was part of her heritage from her father, the distinguished Scipio, a great general with scholarly tastes. Cato criticized him, claiming he needed to be brought down to republican equality. This fiery radical and economist, who detested luxury, condemned women with opinions, preached morals he himself didn’t possess, whipped his slaves if anything was lost or damaged, sold them at auction when they were sick or old, and executed them if they displeased him—this censor was so generally unpleasant that when he died, a wit remarked, “Pluto dreaded to receive him because he was always ready to bite”—could not stand a refined man who shaved every day and embraced Greek learning, regardless of the glory he might bring to his country. We don't know what he said about Cornelia, but it can be imagined since he was a staunch opponent of women's education.

The woman who brought up the Gracchi, and was so proud to show these “jewels” to her finery-loving friends, was no pedant, but in her last desolate years, when she was left alone with all her tragical memories, her hospitable home at Misenum was a center for learned Greeks and men of intellectual distinction. She was a woman of great force of character, and the composure with which she bore her misfortune, and talked of the deeds and sufferings of her sons, was sometimes thought to show a lack of sensibility. Plutarch, with his usual insight and cordial appreciation of women, said it indicated rather a lack of understanding on the part of the critics that they did not know the value of “a noble mind and liberal education” in supporting their possessor under sorrow and calamity. This heroic mother of heroic sons, who “refused Ptolemy and a crown,” was the first Roman matron of distinguished intellectual attainments of whom we have any definite knowledge, and the finest feminine representative of her age. Within the next century there were many others more or less prominent in social life.

The woman who raised the Gracchi and proudly showcased these “jewels” to her friends who loved luxury was no scholar, but in her later lonely years, when she was left with all her painful memories, her welcoming home in Misenum became a hub for learned Greeks and distinguished intellectuals. She was a woman of great strength, and the calmness with which she faced her misfortunes and spoke of her sons' achievements and hardships sometimes made others think she lacked sensitivity. Plutarch, with his usual insight and appreciation for women, noted that it showed a misunderstanding on the critics' part, as they didn’t recognize the value of “a noble mind and liberal education” in helping someone endure sorrow and hardship. This heroic mother of heroic sons, who “turned down Ptolemy and a crown,” was the first Roman matron of notable intellectual skills that we have clear knowledge of, and she was the finest female representative of her time. Within the next century, many others would emerge who were more or less prominent in social life.

With the advance in education many of the obstacles[Pg 134] to marriage were removed, and the dangers that had lurked in the ignorance of Athenian women were averted. But the problem never ceased to be a troublesome one. With the increase of wealth men grew more self-indulgent, and less inclined to incur obligations of any sort. The despair of Augustus had its humorous side. He exhausted his wit in devising means to induce men to marry. In vain he gave honor and freedom to the married, exacted fresh penalties from bachelors, who were forbidden to receive bequests, and made laws against immorality. Fathers had precedence everywhere—in affairs, at the theater, in public offices. “For less rewards than these thousands would lose their lives,” he said. “Can they not tempt a Roman citizen to marry a wife?” Some who wished the privileges without the troubles compromised the matter by entering into formal contracts with children four or five years of age. Others took a wife for a year to comply with the law, and then dismissed her.

As education advanced, many of the barriers to marriage were removed, and the risks that came from the ignorance of Athenian women were avoided. However, the issue remained a challenging one. With growing wealth, men became more indulgent and less willing to take on any obligations. Augustus's despair had its funny moments. He tried hard to come up with ways to encourage men to marry. Despite his efforts to offer honors and freedom to married couples, impose penalties on bachelors who were barred from receiving inheritances, and enact laws against immorality, nothing worked. Fathers held priority everywhere—in business, at the theater, and in public positions. “For fewer rewards than these, thousands would risk their lives,” he remarked. “Can’t we inspire a Roman citizen to marry a wife?” Some individuals wanted the benefits without the hassles and found a middle ground by entering into formal agreements with children aged four or five. Others would marry a woman for a year just to follow the law, then send her away.

It is not the purpose here to pursue in detail this phase of Roman life, nor to trace the slow and obscure changes in the laws that followed the revolt of women from ages of oppression. This brief outline suffices to show that the women of two thousand years ago were far from accepting abject subservience without a protest; that they had the spirit and intelligence to combine in their own defense; that[Pg 135] they won the privilege of virtually the same education which was given to men, and so much consideration that the Romans of the third and fourth centuries were more just to a woman’s rights of property than were the Americans in the first half of the nineteenth. Happily better counsels prevail here to-day; but it is a commentary on the instability of human affairs that, even on the higher plane of morals and intelligence from which we started, the battle had to be fought over again.

It’s not the goal here to dive deep into this aspect of Roman life or to outline the gradual and unclear changes in laws that came after women rebelled against years of oppression. This brief summary shows that the women of two thousand years ago did not simply accept being treated as inferior without a fight; they had the determination and intellect to unite for their own protection; that[Pg 135] they gained the right to nearly the same education as men, and were given so much regard that Romans in the third and fourth centuries treated women's property rights more fairly than Americans did in the first half of the nineteenth century. Fortunately, we have better judgments today; however, it reflects the instability of human affairs that, even from the higher standards of morality and intelligence we began with, the struggle had to be faced again.

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THE “NEW WOMAN” OF OLD ROME

· Wickedness of Imperial Days ·
· The Reverse of the Picture ·
· Parallel between the Romans and Ourselves ·
· Their “New Woman” ·
· Her Political Wisdom · Her Relative Independence ·
· Literature in the Golden Age ·
· Horace · Ovid ·
· Tributes to Cultivated Women in Letters of Cicero ·
· Literary Circles · Opinions of Satirists ·
· Reaction on Manners ·
· Tributes in Letters of Pliny and Seneca ·
· Glimpses of Family Life in Correspondence of Marcus Aurelius and Fronto ·
· Public Honors to Women ·

· The Immorality of Imperial Times ·
· The Other Side of the Coin ·
· Comparing the Romans and Us ·
· Their “Modern Woman” ·
· Her Political Insight · Her Relative Autonomy ·
· Literature in the Golden Age ·
· Horace · Ovid ·
· Acknowledgments to Educated Women in Cicero's Letters ·
· Literary Societies · Views of Satirists ·
· Impact on Social Norms ·
· Acknowledgments in Letters from Pliny and Seneca ·
· Insights into Family Life in the Correspondence of Marcus Aurelius and Fronto ·
· Public Recognition of Women ·


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I

A great deal has been said of the Roman women of imperial days. Much of it is not to their credit, but the bad are apt to be more striking figures than the good, and to overshadow them in a long perspective. The world likes to put its saints in a special category, and worship them from afar. It seems fitting that they should sing hymns and pray for suffering humanity in a cloistral seclusion, but they are rarely quoted as representative of their age. On the other hand, it holds up its brilliant or high-placed sinners as examples to be shunned; but it talks about them and lifts them on a pedestal to show us how wicked they are, until in the course of centuries they come to be looked upon as representing the women of their time, when in fact they represent only its worst type. Two thousand[Pg 140] years hence, no doubt a few conspicuous women noted to-day for brilliancy, beauty, or special gifts, rather than for flawless character, will stand out in more luminous colors than the great mass of refined and cultivated ones who have dazzled their generation less and graced it more. Possibly they may even furnish a text on which some strenuous moralist of the fortieth century will expatiate, with illustrations from our big-lettered journals, to show the corruption of our manners and the dangers that lie in the cultivation of feminine intellect! And yet we know that the moral standards of the world were never so high as in these days when the influence of women in the mass is greater than ever before.

A lot has been said about the Roman women of the imperial era. Much of it isn’t flattering, but the ones who are bad tend to stand out more than the good ones, overshadowing them over time. The world enjoys placing its saints in a special category and admiring them from a distance. It seems appropriate for them to sing hymns and pray for suffering humanity in a cloistered retreat, but they are rarely seen as representative of their time. On the flip side, society highlights its notorious or high-status sinners as examples to avoid; it discusses them and places them on a pedestal to show us how wicked they are, until over the centuries they come to be viewed as representative of the women of their era, when in reality they only exemplify its worst type. Two thousand[Pg 140] years from now, some prominent women known today for their brilliance, beauty, or special talents—rather than for their impeccable character—will likely stand out more vividly than the many refined and cultured women who may have dazzled their generation less but contributed more. They might even serve as the basis for some passionate moralist in the fortieth century to elaborate on, using examples from our sensationalist media to highlight the decline of our values and the risks tied to nurturing women's intellect! Yet, we know that the moral standards of the world have never been higher than they are today, when the influence of women as a whole is stronger than ever before.

Of the colossal wickedness of imperial Rome there is no question, and sinners were not rare among women. But the Julias and Messalinas did not represent the average tone of Roman society, any more than the too numerous examples of vice in high places reflect the average morality of the great cities of to-day. A careful study of those times reveals, beneath the surface of the life most conspicuous for its brilliancy and its vices, a type of womanhood as strong and heroic as we find in primitive days, with the added wisdom, culture, and helpfulness which had grown out of the freer development of the intellect.

There’s no doubt about the immense wickedness of imperial Rome, and sinful women were definitely not uncommon. However, the Julias and Messalinas were not typical representatives of Roman society, just as the many instances of vice in high positions don’t accurately reflect the general morality of today’s large cities. A detailed examination of that era reveals, beneath the surface of a life that was often flashy and immoral, a type of womanhood that was as strong and heroic as in earlier times, enriched by the wisdom, culture, and helpfulness that came from a more open development of the mind.

The Romans of the last century of the Republic[Pg 141] had, like ourselves, their corrupt politicians, their struggles for office, their demagogues, and their wars for liberty—meaning their own. They had also their plutocrats, their parvenus, their love of glittering splendor, their rage for culture, their patrons of art, who brought the masterpieces over the seas, and, not least, their “new woman.” I use the phrase in its best, not in its extreme, sense; the exaggeration of a good type is always a bad one. This last product of a growing civilization did not claim political rights or industrial privileges, as we understand them; she did not write books of any note, or seek university honors in cap and gown; nor did she combine in world-wide organizations to better herself and other people: but she did a great many things in similar directions, that were quite as new and vital to the world in which she lived. If she did not say much about the higher education, she was beginning to have a good deal of the best that was known. The example of the learned as well as virtuous and womanly Cornelia had not been lost. It was no longer sufficient to say, in the language of an old epitaph, that a woman was “good and beautiful, an indefatigable spinner, pious, reserved, chaste, and a good housekeeper.” The conservative matron still prided herself on these qualities which had so long constituted the glory of her sex, but it was decreed that she must have something more. In the new order of things, she shared in the cultivation[Pg 142] of the intellect, and ignorance had lost its place among the virtues. Girls were educated with boys, read the same books, and studied the same subjects. To keep pace with the age, a woman must be familiar with Greek as well as Roman letters. She must also know how to sing and dance. “This helps them to find husbands,” says Statius, who had little money to give his daughter, but felt sure she could marry well because she was a “cultivated woman.” The line of co-education, however, was drawn at singing and dancing, where it began with us. In earlier times these accomplishments and the knowledge of various languages were among the attractions of the courtezan.

The Romans in the last century of the Republic[Pg 141] had, like us, their corrupt politicians, their battles for office, their demagogues, and their wars for freedom—meaning their own. They also had their wealthy elites, their social climbers, their love of flashy wealth, their zeal for culture, and their patrons of the arts who brought masterpieces across the seas, and, not to be overlooked, their “new woman.” I use the term in a positive, not extreme, sense; exaggerating a good type is always a poor representation. This latest product of a developing civilization didn't demand political rights or industrial privileges like we think of today; she didn't write any notable books or seek university accolades in a cap and gown; nor did she join global organizations to improve herself and others: but she did many things in similar directions that were just as new and important to her world. While she may not have discussed higher education much, she was starting to gain a lot of the best knowledge available. The example of the learned, virtuous, and feminine Cornelia had not been forgotten. It was no longer enough to say, in the words of an old epitaph, that a woman was “good and beautiful, an indefatigable spinner, pious, reserved, chaste, and a good housekeeper.” The traditional matron still took pride in these qualities that had long defined her gender's glory, but it was established that she needed something more. In this new way of life, she participated in the cultivation[Pg 142] of intellect, and ignorance had lost its status among the virtues. Girls were educated alongside boys, reading the same books and studying the same subjects. To keep up with the times, a woman had to be familiar with both Greek and Roman literature. She also needed to know how to sing and dance. “This helps them find husbands,” says Statius, who had little money to offer his daughter but was confident she could marry well because she was a “cultured woman.” However, co-education had its limits at singing and dancing, where it all began. In earlier times, these skills and knowledge of various languages were part of what made a courtesan appealing.

The new Roman woman did not live her life apart from men, any more than did the women of the old régime. Probably it never occurred to her that it would be either pleasant or desirable to do so. She simply wished to be considered as a peer and companion. Nor does she seem to have been aggressive in public affairs. If she busied herself with them, it was in counsels with men, and her influence was mainly an indirect one. She had freed herself from some of the worst features of an irresponsible masculine rule, but she was still in leading-strings, though the strings were longer and gave her a little more freedom of movement. There were many women of the newer generation who added to the simple virtues of the home the larger[Pg 143] interests of the citizen, and conspicuous political wisdom as well as great intelligence. We first hear of them in councils of State through the letters of Cicero, who gossiped so agreeably, and at times so critically, of passing events. He speaks of the companions and advisers he found with Brutus at Antium, among whom were the heroic Portia, wife of the misguided leader, his sister Tertulla, and his mother Servilia, a woman of high attainments and masterful character, who had been the lifelong friend of Cæsar. The influence of this able and accomplished matron over the great statesman did not wane with her beauty, as it lasted to the end, though she could not save him from the fatal blow dealt by her son. The tongue of scandal did not spare her, but at this time she was old and past the suspicion of seeking to gain her purposes by the arts of coquetry. Cicero feared her power, as her force of intellect and masculine judgment had great weight in the discussions of these self-styled patriots. She even went so far as to engage to have certain important changes made in a decree of the Senate, which, for a woman, was going very far indeed. One is often struck with the fact that so many great Romans chose their women friends for qualities of intellect and character rather than for youth or beauty. When ambition is uppermost it has a keen eye for those who can minister to it, and a woman’s talents, so lightly considered before, begin to have[Pg 144] their due appreciation. To a friend who said to Cæsar that certain things were not very easy for a woman to do, he simply replied: “Semiramis ruled Assyria, and the Amazons conquered Asia.” It is known that he paid great deference to his mother, the wise and stately Aurelia, to whose careful training he owed so much. Later, women publicly recommended candidates for important offices. Seneca acknowledged that he owed the questorship to his aunt, who was one of the most modest and reserved as well as intelligent of matrons. “They govern our houses, the tribunals, the armies,” said a censor to the Senate. If their counsels were not always for the best,—and even men are not infallible,—they were usually in the interest of good morals and good government.

The new Roman woman didn't live her life separate from men, just like the women of the old regime. She probably never thought it would be pleasant or desirable to do so. She simply wanted to be seen as an equal and companion. She doesn’t seem to have been aggressive in public matters. When she participated, it was in discussions with men, and her influence was mostly indirect. She had freed herself from some of the worst aspects of irresponsible male rule, but she was still somewhat constrained, though with longer strings that allowed her a bit more freedom. Many women of the newer generation combined the basic virtues of home life with broader interests as citizens and were known for their political acumen and intelligence. We first hear about them in state councils through Cicero’s letters, which were often entertaining and critical of current events. He mentions the companions and advisors he found with Brutus at Antium, including the brave Portia, the wife of the misguided leader, his sister Tertulla, and his mother Servilia, a highly accomplished woman with a strong character, who had been a lifelong friend of Caesar. The influence of this capable and accomplished matron over the great statesman didn’t fade with her beauty, as it lasted until the end, though she could not save him from the fatal blow delivered by her son. Scandalous rumors did not spare her, but by this time she was old and beyond suspicion of trying to gain her goals through flirtation. Cicero feared her power because her intellect and sharp judgment carried significant weight in discussions among these so-called patriots. She even went so far as to work on getting certain important changes made to a Senate decree, which for a woman was quite bold. It’s often striking that so many great Romans chose their women friends for their intellect and character instead of youth or beauty. When ambition is at its peak, it recognizes those who can help it, and a woman’s talents, which were once overlooked, begin to receive their rightful recognition. When a friend told Caesar that some things were not very easy for women to accomplish, he simply replied, “Semiramis ruled Assyria, and the Amazons conquered Asia.” It’s known that he gave great respect to his mother, the wise and dignified Aurelia, whose careful upbringing shaped him significantly. Later on, women publicly endorsed candidates for major offices. Seneca acknowledged that he owed his questorship to his aunt, who was one of the most modest, reserved, and intelligent of women. “They govern our homes, the courts, the armies,” said a censor to the Senate. While their advice was not always perfect—after all, men aren't infallible either—they usually aimed to promote good morals and effective governance.

Nor was it uncommon for the Roman woman to plead her own cause in the forum. There was a senator’s wife who appeared often in the courts, and her name, Afrania, was applied to those who followed her example. The only speech that has come down to us was the celebrated plea of Hortensia for her own sex. This was much praised, not only by great men of that day but in after times. It showed breadth of intellect and a firm grasp of affairs. The privilege of speaking in the forum was withdrawn on account of the violence of a certain Calphurnia—an incident that might suggest a little wholesome moderation to some of our own councils and too zealous[Pg 145] reformers. There were also sacerdotal honors open to aspiring women. The Flaminica Augustalis offered sacrifices for the people on city altars, and the services of various divinities were always in the charge of women. There was no systematized philanthropy such as we have to-day, but we hear of much private beneficence. Women founded schools for girls and institutions for orphans. They built porticos and temples, erected monuments and established libraries; indeed, their gifts were often recognized by statues in their honor. We hear of societies of women who discuss city affairs and consider rewards to be conferred on magistrates of conspicuous merit. The names of others appear in inscriptions on tombs; but their mission is not clear. There were also women who practised medicine; this, however, may not have implied great knowledge in an age when science, as we understand it, was unknown.

It wasn't unusual for Roman women to represent themselves in the forum. There was a senator's wife who frequently appeared in court, and her name, Afrania, became associated with those who emulated her. The only speech we have from that time is the famous plea by Hortensia for her gender, which received praise from prominent figures then and has continued to be recognized later. It demonstrated a broad intellect and a strong understanding of issues. The right to speak in the forum was revoked due to the aggressiveness of a certain woman named Calphurnia—an event that might suggest a bit of healthy moderation to some of our own councils and overly enthusiastic reformers. Women also held religious honors. The Flaminica Augustalis conducted sacrifices for the people at city altars, and various divine services were managed by women. While there wasn't organized philanthropy like we have today, there were reports of significant private generosity. Women established schools for girls and orphanages. They constructed porticos and temples, erected monuments, and set up libraries; in fact, their contributions were frequently acknowledged with statues in their honor. We hear about groups of women who discuss city matters and consider awards for magistrates of notable achievement. The names of others can be found on tomb inscriptions, but their purpose is unclear. There were also women who practiced medicine, though this might not have indicated extensive knowledge in an era when science, as we know it, was not understood.

II

But a clearer idea of the representative Roman woman on her intellectual side, and of the estimation in which she was held, is gathered through her relation to the world of letters, and in the glimpses of a sympathetic family life which we find in the private correspondence of some great men.

But we get a better understanding of the intellectual side of the typical Roman woman and how she was regarded by looking at her connection to the literary world, along with the insights into a caring family life that we see in the personal letters of some prominent figures.

In the golden age of Augustus politics had ceased[Pg 146] to be profitable or even safe, and the educated classes turned to literature for occupation and amusement, when they did not turn to something worse. It was the fashion to patronize letters, and every idler prided himself on writing elegant verses. In the words of Horace:

In the golden age of Augustus, politics was no longer profitable or even safe, and the educated classes turned to literature for entertainment and distraction, when they didn't seek something worse. It was trendy to support the literary arts, and every idle person took pride in writing polished poetry. In the words of Horace:

Now the light people bend to other aims;
A lust of scribbling every breast inflames;
Our youth, our senators, with bays are crowned,
And rhymes eternal as our feasts go round.

Now the lively people turn to new goals;
A desire to write ignites every heart;
Our young, our leaders, wear laurels on their heads,
And verses last as our celebrations continue.

Even Augustus wrote bad epigrams and a worse tragedy. Public libraries were numerous,—there were twenty-nine,—and busts of great masters were placed beside their works. Authors were petted and flattered, and they flattered their patrons in turn. These were the days when Horace lived at his ease on his Sabine farm, gently satirizing the follies and vices that were preparing the decay of this pleasure-loving world, posing a little perhaps, and taking a lofty tone toward the courtly Mæcenas and his powerful master, who honored the brilliant poet and were glad to let him do as he liked. “Do you know that I am angry with you for not addressing to me one of your epistles?” wrote Augustus. “Are you afraid that posterity will reproach you for being my friend? If you are so proud as to scorn my friendship, that is no reason why I should lightly esteem yours in return.” The epistle came, but the little[Pg 147] gray-haired man, who saw so clearly and wrote so wisely, went on his way serenely among his own hills, stretching himself lazily on the grass by some ruined temple or running stream, and sending pleasant though sometimes caustic words to the friends he would not take the trouble to go and see unless peremptorily summoned. Such was the relation between the ruler of the world and those who conferred distinction on his reign. Ovid discoursed upon love, and became a lion, until he forgot to confine himself to theory, and went a step too far in practice. Then he was sent away from his honored place among the gilded youth who basked in the smiles of an emperor’s granddaughter, to meditate on the vanity of life and the uncertainty of fame, by the desolate shores of the Euxine.

Even Augustus wrote some pretty bad poems and an even worse play. Public libraries were everywhere—there were twenty-nine of them—and busts of great artists were displayed alongside their works. Authors were spoiled and praised, and they returned the favor by flattering their patrons. These were the days when Horace enjoyed a comfortable life on his Sabine farm, gently mocking the foolishness and vices that were leading to the decline of this pleasure-seeking world, perhaps posing a little and adopting a lofty attitude toward the refined Mæcenas and his powerful master, who honored the brilliant poet and let him do as he pleased. “Do you know that I’m upset with you for not sending me one of your letters?” Augustus wrote. “Are you worried that future generations will blame you for being my friend? Just because you’re too proud to accept my friendship doesn’t mean I should undervalue yours.” The letter arrived, but the little[Pg 147] gray-haired man, who saw things clearly and wrote wisely, continued his peaceful life among his hills, stretching out lazily on the grass near some ruined temple or running stream, sending pleasant yet sometimes sharp words to friends he wouldn’t visit unless they insisted on it. Such was the relationship between the ruler of the world and those who brought prestige to his reign. Ovid wrote about love and became a sensation, until he stopped just theorizing and went a bit too far in real life. Then he was sent away from his esteemed position among the privileged youth, who enjoyed the attention of an emperor’s granddaughter, to reflect on the emptiness of life and the unpredictability of fame along the lonely shores of the Euxine.

In this blending of literature and fashion women had a prominent place, though not as writers. No woman of the educated class could write for money, and talent of that sort, even if she had it, would have brought her little consideration. Whatever she may have done in that direction was like foam on the crest of a wave. It vanished with the moment. At a later period there were a few who wrote poetry of which a trace is left. Balbilla, who was taken to Egypt in the train of Hadrian and the good Empress Sabina, went out to hear the song with which Memnon greeted his mother Aurora at dawn, and scratched some verses on the statue in[Pg 148] honor of her visit. Possibly they were only the flattering trifles of a clever courtier, but they were graven on stone and outlasted many better things. Of wider fame was Sulpicia, the wife of a noted man in the reign of Domitian, who wrote a poem on “Conjugal Love,” also a satire on an edict banishing the philosophers, fragments of which still exist. She had the old Roman spirit, but was less conciliatory than the eloquent Hortensia of an earlier day, who was tired of the brutalities of war. She mourned the degeneracy of the age, calling for “reverses that will awaken patriotism, yes, reverses to make Rome strong again, to rouse her from the soft and enervating languor of a fatal peace.” The able but wicked Agrippina, of tragical memory, wrote the story of her life which gave to Tacitus many facts and points for his “Annals.” Doubtless there were other things that went the way of the passing epigrams and verses of Augustus and his elegant courtiers. Twenty centuries hence who will ever hear of the thousands, yes, millions of more or less clever essays and poems written by men and women to-day and multiplied indefinitely by a facile press? What will the future antiquarian who searches the pages of a nineteenth-century anthology know of us, save that every man and woman wrote, but nothing lived, except perhaps a volume or two from the work of a few poets, essayists, and historians, who can be counted on one’s[Pg 149] fingers? Oh, yes; there are the novelists whose value is measured by figures and dollars, who multiply as the locusts do. Fine as we may think them to-day, how many of their books will survive the sifting of time? They may be piled in old libraries, but who will take the trouble to dive into a mass that literally has no bottom? Will the world forget that women did anything worth preserving? Yet our women are educated; some of them are scholars, most of them are intelligent; many write well, and a few surpassingly well.

In this mix of literature and fashion, women played a significant role, albeit not as writers. No educated woman could earn money by writing, and even if she had talent, it would earn her little respect. Any efforts she made in that direction were like bubbles on a wave; they disappeared quickly. Later on, a few women did write poetry, and remnants of their work remain. Balbilla, who traveled to Egypt with Hadrian and the good Empress Sabina, went to listen to the song that Memnon sang to his mother, Aurora, at dawn. She carved some verses into the statue in [Pg 148] honor of her visit. They might have been mere flattering trifles from a clever courtier, but they were etched in stone and have survived longer than many more significant works. Sulpicia, the wife of a notable figure during Domitian’s reign, gained wider recognition for her poem on “Conjugal Love” and a satire on an edict that banned philosophers, of which fragments still exist. She embodied the traditional Roman spirit but was less conciliatory than the eloquent Hortensia from an earlier time, who had grown weary of the brutality of war. Sulpicia lamented the moral decay of her time, calling for “defeats that would revive patriotism, indeed, defeats to make Rome strong again, to rouse her from the lethargy and weakness of a harmful peace.” The capable yet wicked Agrippina, whose life ended tragically, authored her story, providing Tacitus with many facts and insights for his “Annals.” Undoubtedly, there were other works that shared the fate of the fleeting epigrams and verses of Augustus and his stylish courtiers. Twenty centuries from now, who will remember the thousands, even millions, of more or less clever essays and poems penned by men and women today, endlessly reproduced by a convenient press? What will future historians, sifting through the pages of a nineteenth-century anthology, know about us, except that everyone wrote, but nothing lasted, save perhaps a couple of volumes by a few poets, essayists, and historians who could be counted on one’s [Pg 149] fingers? Indeed, there are novelists whose worth is measured in numbers and dollars, multiplying like locusts. As impressive as we may find them today, how many of their books will endure the test of time? They may fill old libraries, but who will bother to wade through a collection that seems bottomless? Will the world forget that women contributed anything worth preserving? Yet our women are educated; some are scholars, most are intelligent; many write well, and a few write exceptionally well.

But if women did not write, they used their influence to find a hearing for those who did. Of the learning of the time they had their share, though it may not have been very profound. Ovid tells us that “there are learned fair, a very limited number; another set are not learned, but they wish to be so.” He writes of a gay world which is not too decorous or too serious, but in the category of a woman’s attractions he mentions as necessary a knowledge of the great poets, both Greek and Latin, among whom he modestly counts himself. Women of fashion had poets or philosophers to read or talk to them, even at their toilets, while the maids brushed their hair. They discussed Plato and Aristotle as we do Browning and economics. They dabbled in the mysteries of Isis and Osiris as we do in theosophy and Buddhism; speculated on Christianity as we do on lesser faiths, and began to doubt their falling[Pg 150] gods. Philosophy was “the religion of polite society,” but women have always been drawn toward a faith that appeals to the emotions. Then there were the recitations and public readings, in which they were actors as well as listeners.

But if women didn’t write, they used their influence to ensure that those who did were heard. They had their share of the knowledge of the time, even if it wasn’t very deep. Ovid tells us that “there are educated women, a very limited number; another group isn’t educated, but they want to be.” He describes a lively world that isn’t too proper or serious, but when he talks about what attracts women, he mentions that a knowledge of the great poets, both Greek and Latin, is essential, among whom he humbly includes himself. Fashionable women had poets or philosophers to read to them or talk to them, even while they were getting ready, as their maids brushed their hair. They discussed Plato and Aristotle like we discuss Browning and economics. They explored the mysteries of Isis and Osiris as we explore theosophy and Buddhism; they speculated on Christianity as we do on lesser faiths, and they began to question their fading[Pg 150] gods. Philosophy was “the religion of polite society,” but women have always been attracted to faiths that resonate emotionally. Then there were the recitations and public readings, where they were both performers and audience members.

We have glimpses of the more seriously intellectual side of the Roman woman in the private letters of Cicero, which show us also the pleasant family life that gives us the best test of its value and sincerity. The brilliant orator seems to have had a special liking for able and accomplished matrons. In his youth he sought their society in order to polish and perfect his style. He speaks in special praise of Lælia, the wife of Scævola with whom he studied law, also of her daughter and granddaughters—all of whom excelled in conversation of a high order; he refers often to Cærellia, a woman of learning and talent, with whom he corresponded for many years; and he says that Caius Curio owes his great fame as an orator to the conversations in his mother’s house. Many other women he mentions whose attainments in literature, philosophy, and eloquence did honor to their sex and placed them on a level with the great men of their time. This was in the late days of the Republic, when genuine talent was not yet swamped in the pretensions of mediocrity.

We get a glimpse of the more intellectual side of Roman women in the private letters of Cicero, which also show us the enjoyable family life that gives us the best measure of its value and sincerity. The brilliant orator seemed to have a particular fondness for capable and accomplished women. In his youth, he sought their company to refine and enhance his style. He speaks highly of Lælia, the wife of Scævola, with whom he studied law, as well as her daughter and granddaughters—all of whom excelled in engaging conversation; he often references Cærellia, a knowledgeable and talented woman with whom he corresponded for many years; and he mentions that Caius Curio owes his significant reputation as an orator to conversations held in his mother’s home. He notes many other women whose accomplishments in literature, philosophy, and eloquence honored their gender and placed them on par with the great men of their time. This was during the later days of the Republic when real talent hadn't yet been overshadowed by the pretentiousness of mediocrity.

The praise of his daughter Tullia is always on his lips. She was versed in polite letters, “the best[Pg 151] and most learned of women,” and he valued her companionship beyond anything in life. It seems that she was unfortunate in husbands, and they gave him a good deal of trouble; but when she died the light went out of his world. His letters are full of tears, and he plans the most magnificent of monuments. He would deify her, and draw from all writers, Greek and Latin, to transmit to posterity her perfections and his own boundless love. But precious time was lost in dreams of the impossible, and swift fate overtook him before any of them crystallized. Instead of the splendid temple that was to last forever, only a few crumbling stones of his villa on the lonely heights of Tusculum are left to-day to recall the young, beautiful, and gifted woman in whose “sweet conversation” the great statesman could “drop all his cares and troubles.” Here she looked for the last time across the Campagna upon the shining array of marbles, columns, and palaces that were the pride of Rome in its glory, and went away from it all, leaving behind her a fast vanishing name, the fragrance of a fresh young life, and a desolate heart.

He constantly praises his daughter Tullia. She was well-educated, “the best and most learned of women,” and he cherished her companionship above everything else in life. Unfortunately, her marriages caused him a lot of trouble; but when she passed away, it felt like his world went dark. His letters are filled with sorrow, and he envisioned the grandest monument for her. He wanted to immortalize her and gather quotes from all writers, Greek and Latin, to share her qualities and his endless love for her. But precious time was wasted on dreams of the unattainable, and fate struck before any of his plans could come to life. Instead of the magnificent temple meant to stand forever, only a few crumbling stones of his villa on the isolated heights of Tusculum remain today to remind us of the young, beautiful, and talented woman whose “sweet conversation” allowed the great statesman to “forget all his cares and troubles.” Here she took her last look across the Campagna at the shining marbles, columns, and palaces that represented the pride of Rome in its glory, and then she left it all behind, taking with her a quickly fading name, the essence of a vibrant young life, and a heartbroken soul.

But if these charming pictures reveal a sympathetic side of the intimate life of the new age, they give us also the shadows that were creeping over it. The great man, who said so many fine things and did so many weak ones, has always a tender message for the little Attica, the daughter of his friend,[Pg 152] but he fears the fortune-hunters, and objects to a husband proposed for her, because he has paid court to a rich woman who is old and has been several times married. For his own wife, Terentia, he has less consideration. She is not facile enough, and finds too much fault with his way of doing things. Perhaps she presses her influence too far, and fails to pay proper deference to his authority. To be sure, he calls her “my light, my darling,” says she is in his thoughts night and day, praises her ability, and trusts her judgment until his affairs begin to go wrong. All this, however, does not prevent his sending her away after thirty years of devotion, and marrying his lovely young ward, who is rich enough to pay his debts. The latter is divorced in turn because she does not sufficiently mourn the loss of his idolized daughter, and his closing years are burdened with the care of restoring her dowry, which draws from him many a bitter complaint. There is a strange note of irony in the tone of the much-married, much-sinning, and perfidious Antony, who publicly censures the “Father of his Country” for repudiating a wife with whom he has grown old. But the high-spirited Terentia solaced herself with his friend Sallust, and married one or two others after his death. Evidently no hearts were broken, as she lived some years beyond a century.

But while these lovely images show a caring side of the intimate life of the new era, they also reveal the shadows looming over it. The great man, who spoke so many beautiful words and acted so weakly at times, always has a heartfelt message for little Attica, the daughter of his friend,[Pg 152] but he's wary of fortune-seekers and disapproves of a potential husband for her because he once pursued a wealthy older woman who's been married several times. He shows less concern for his own wife, Terentia. She's not agreeable enough and often criticizes how he does things. Maybe she pushes her influence too much and doesn't show enough respect for his authority. Of course, he calls her “my light, my darling,” says she’s on his mind day and night, praises her skills, and trusts her judgment until things start to go wrong in his life. Yet, none of this stops him from sending her away after thirty years of loyalty and marrying his beautiful young ward, who has enough money to settle his debts. He ends up divorcing her too because she doesn’t grieve enough for his beloved daughter, and his later years are filled with the burden of restoring her dowry, which leads to many bitter complaints from him. There’s a strange irony in the way the often-married, often-sinning, and treacherous Antony openly criticizes the “Father of his Country” for leaving a wife with whom he has grown old. Meanwhile, the spirited Terentia found comfort in his friend Sallust and married one or two others after his death. Clearly, no hearts were broken, as she lived for several years beyond a century.

In the literary circles of a later generation we hear of noble ladies of serious tastes meeting to converse[Pg 153] about the poets. Juvenal and Martial ridiculed them as Molière did the Précieuses centuries afterward. “I hate a woman who never violates the rules of grammar, and quotes verses I never knew,” says Juvenal. “A husband should have the privilege of committing a solecism.” He objects to being bored at supper with impertinent questions about Homer and Vergil, or misplaced sympathy with the unhappy Dido, who, no doubt, ought to have taken her desertion philosophically instead of making it so unpleasant for her hero lover. He even suggests that women blessed with literary tastes should put on the tunics of the bolder sex and do various mannish things which are sometimes recommended by the satirists of to-day. It is with a sigh of regret that he recalls the “good old days of poverty and morals,” when it was written on a woman’s tombstone that she “spun wool and looked after her house.” “A good wife is rarer than a white crow,” is his amiable conclusion.

In later literary circles, we hear about noblewomen with serious tastes gathering to discuss[Pg 153] poets. Juvenal and Martial made fun of them, just like Molière did with the Précieuses centuries later. “I dislike a woman who never breaks the rules of grammar and quotes verses I’ve never heard,” says Juvenal. “A husband should have the right to make a mistake.” He complains about being bored at dinner by annoying questions about Homer and Vergil, or misplaced sympathy for the unfortunate Dido, who, in his view, should have accepted her abandonment calmly instead of making it so difficult for her heroic lover. He even suggests that women with literary interests should wear the outfits of men and engage in various masculine activities, which are sometimes endorsed by today's satirists. He wistfully remembers the “good old days of poverty and morals,” when a woman’s tombstone would say she “spun wool and managed her home.” “A good wife is rarer than a white crow,” is his friendly conclusion.

All this goes to prove that in the first century women passed through the same ordeal of criticism as they have in the nineteenth. The satirists of to-day are no kinder to the Dante and Browning clubs, and mourn equally over the “good old days” when they were in no danger of a rival or a critic at the breakfast-table. Doubtless that age had its little pretensions and affectations, as every other great age has had—not excepting our own. There were[Pg 154] women who talked platitudes about things of which they knew nothing, and men who did the same thing or worse on other lines laughed at them just as men do now at similar follies, though often without the talent of a Juvenal or a Martial, and, it is fair to say, without their incredible coarseness. The coming of women into literature has made the latter practically impossible.

All this proves that in the first century, women faced the same criticism as they do in the nineteenth. Today's satirists are no kinder to the Dante and Browning clubs and lament just as much about the “good old days” when they didn't have to worry about rivals or critics at the breakfast table. Surely that era had its own pretensions and quirks, just like every great era has—ours included. There were[Pg 154] women who spouted clichés about topics they knew nothing about, and men who did the same or worse on other subjects laughed at them just as men do now at similar nonsense, though often without the skill of a Juvenal or a Martial, and, to be fair, without their outrageous rudeness. The entry of women into literature has made such rudeness practically impossible.

But even Martial had his better moments. He speaks of a young girl who has the eloquence of Plato, the austerity of the philosophers, and writes verses worthy of a chaste Sappho. One might imagine that his enthusiasm had run away with his prejudices, if Martial could be supposed to have had enthusiasms, as he warmly congratulates the friend who is to marry this prodigy. Possibly he preferred her as the wife of some one else, as he stipulates for himself, on another occasion, a wife who is “not too learned.”

But even Martial had his better moments. He talks about a young girl who has the eloquence of Plato, the seriousness of philosophers, and writes poems worthy of a modest Sappho. One might think that his excitement had gotten the better of his biases if Martial were thought to have had any, as he enthusiastically congratulates the friend who's going to marry this amazing woman. Maybe he actually preferred her as someone else's wife, since he insists for himself, on another occasion, that he wants a wife who is “not too educated.”

There was a great deal to censure in this dilettante world. The fashionable life of Rome had drifted into hopeless corruption, in spite of the efforts of good men and women to stem the tide. Long before, the Senate had ordered a temple to Venus Verticordia, the Venus that turns hearts to virtue; but the new goddess was not eminently successful among the votaries of pleasure, who preferred to offer incense to the more beautiful and less respectable one. The old patricians had their[Pg 155] faults and sins, but the new moneyed aristocracy was a great deal worse, as the noblesse oblige had ceased to exist, and there were no moral ideals to take the place of it. “First let us seek for fortune,” says the satirist; “virtue is of no importance. Hail to wealth!” “His Majesty Gold” was as powerful as he is to-day, and his worship was coarser. “He says silly things, but money serves for intellect,” remarks a wit of the time. Literature declined with morals. “These are only stores and shops, these schools in which wisdom is sold and supplied like goods,” said one who mourned over the degeneracy of the times. That women should suffer with the rest was inevitable. They are not faultless; indeed, they are very simply human. If they are usually found in the front ranks of great moral movements, they are not always able to stand individually against the resistless tide which we call the spirit of the age.

There was a lot to criticize in this amateurish world. The glamorous life in Rome had sunk into complete corruption, despite the efforts of good men and women to make a difference. Long before, the Senate had ordered a temple to Venus Verticordia, the goddess who turns hearts to virtue; but the new goddess was not very appealing to those who enjoyed pleasure, who preferred to offer incense to the more attractive and less reputable one. The old patricians had their faults and sins, but the new wealthy aristocracy was much worse, as the idea of noblesse oblige had vanished, and there were no moral ideals to take its place. “First, let’s chase after wealth,” says the satirist; “virtue doesn’t matter. Hail to money!” “His Majesty Gold” was just as powerful as he is today, and his worship was cruder. “He makes silly comments, but money serves as intellect,” a wit of the time remarked. Literature declined alongside morals. “These are just stores and shops, these schools where wisdom is sold like goods,” said someone who lamented the decline of the times. It was inevitable that women would suffer along with everyone else. They’re not perfect; in fact, they’re just very human. While they are often found in the forefront of major moral movements, they can’t always stand alone against the unstoppable force we call the spirit of the age.

III

The changes which a century or so had wrought in the position and education of women reacted on manners. The pagan virtues were essentially masculine ones, and even women had always been more noted for courage and stoical heroism than for the softer Christian qualities which are called feminine. In the old days they had been subservient because[Pg 156] they were virtually slaves. For the same reason they were expected to be blindly obedient. Their servile attitude toward men was a duty; tradition gave it the force of a sentiment. Nor did the fact that many Roman women had risen above their conditions, and shown great dignity and strength, alter this general relation. It was not in their nature, however, to be timid, or tender, or clinging. Sensibility was a weakness and a trait of inferior classes. Love was a passion, or a duty, or a habit, but not a sentiment. The new woman of the golden age of Augustus was strong, dignified, self-poised, and commanding. The fashionable set accented this tone and became haughty, arrogant, and masculine in manner. It looked upon the conservative matron who was disposed to preserve old traditions as antiquated. The change, in its various gradations, was quite similar to that which passed over Anglo-Saxon women in the century that has just closed. We also have our golden mean of poise and dignity, as represented by the conservative who are yet of the new age in culture, breadth, and intelligence; we, too, have a few of the emancipated who like to demonstrate their new-found independence by a defiance of social conventions; then we have our ultra-fashionable parvenus who fancy arrogance a badge of position, and pronounced manners a sign of modish distinction. Of these classes, the first and the last were the most defined[Pg 157] in Roman society, but it is mainly in the last that we find the degeneracy of morals which made a large section of it infamous.

The changes that happened over the past century or so in the role and education of women influenced social behavior. The traditional virtues were primarily masculine, and women had typically been recognized more for their courage and stoicism than for the gentler qualities typically associated with femininity. In earlier times, women were subservient because they were practically in a state of slavery. Because of this, they were expected to be blindly obedient. Their submissive attitude toward men was seen as a duty, strongly reinforced by tradition. Even though many Roman women had transcended their circumstances and displayed significant dignity and strength, this did not change the overall dynamic. They weren't naturally timid, tender, or clingy; sensitivity was viewed as a weakness and a characteristic of the lower classes. Love was seen as a passion, obligation, or routine, but not as a true sentiment. The new woman during the golden age of Augustus was strong, dignified, self-assured, and commanding. The fashionable crowd emphasized this attitude and became haughty, arrogant, and masculine in behavior. They regarded the conservative matron, who wanted to uphold old traditions, as outdated. This change, in its various forms, was quite similar to what Anglo-Saxon women experienced in the recently concluded century. We also have our balanced sense of poise and dignity, represented by conservatives who are modern in culture, perspective, and intelligence; we, too, have some liberated individuals who like to showcase their newfound independence by defying social norms; and then we have our extremely fashionable newcomers who believe arrogance is a mark of status, and bold manners signify trendy sophistication. Among these groups, the first and last were the most distinguishable in Roman society, but it is primarily in the last that we see the moral decline that made a significant part of it infamous.

Of the women of the conservative ruling classes we have pleasant glimpses in the letters of Pliny, which picture an intelligent and sympathetic family life that constantly recalls our own. His wife, Calphurnia, sets his verses to music and sings them, greatly to his surprise and delight. She has a taste for books and commits his compositions to memory. He says she has an excellent understanding, consummate prudence, and an affection for her husband that attests the purity of her heart. It is not his person but his character that she loves, so he is assured of lasting harmony. When absent, he entreats her to write every day, even twice a day. If he has only his wife and a few friends at his summer villa, he has some author to read to them, and afterward music or an interlude. Then he walks with his family and talks of literature. The charming little domestic traits, so unconsciously revealed in these letters, are as creditable to himself as to the wife who adores him. There is a touch of sentiment that we rarely find in pagan life.

Of the women from the conservative ruling classes, we get pleasant insights in the letters of Pliny, which show an intelligent and caring family life that often reminds us of our own. His wife, Calphurnia, sets his poems to music and sings them, much to his surprise and joy. She enjoys books and learns his works by heart. He mentions that she has great understanding, exceptional wisdom, and a love for her husband that reflects her kind heart. It's not his appearance but his character that she loves, ensuring a lasting harmony between them. When he’s away, he urges her to write every day, even twice a day. If he’s only with his wife and a few friends at his summer villa, he always has an author’s work to read to them, followed by music or a play. Then he takes walks with his family and discusses literature. The lovely little domestic details, so naturally expressed in these letters, reflect well on him as much as on the wife who adores him. There’s a hint of sentiment that we seldom see in pagan life.

These letters throw many side-lights on other households. Pliny has a word of profound sympathy for the sorrow of a friend who lived thirty-nine cloudless years with a wife whose virtues would have made her “an ornament even in former times,”[Pg 158] and was left desolate by her loss. We find a touching allusion to the fortitude of Fannia, who has the qualities of a “heroine of ancient story.” She was banished for supplying materials for her husband’s “Life.” “Pleasing in conversation, polite in address, venerable in demeanor,” she is quoted as a model for wives. She was a worthy granddaughter of the famous Arria, who refused to survive her husband when he was condemned to death, and gave him courage by first plunging the dagger into her own breast, saying, “Pætus, it does not hurt,” as she drew it out and passed it to him. Another of his friends lost a daughter of fourteen, who, he says, combined the wisdom of age and the discretion of a matron with the sprightliness of youth and the sweetness of virgin modesty. She was devoted to reading and study, caring little for amusements. Pompeius Saturninus read him some letters from his wife which were so fine that he thought he was listening to Plautus and Terence in prose; indeed, he suspects the husband of writing them himself, in spite of his denial, though he considers him deserving of equal praise, whether he wrote them or trained her genius to such a degree of perfection. It is worthy of note that, while these letters show us the intelligent companionship between husbands and wives which had taken the place of the old relations of superior and inferior, as well as the fine attainments of many women and the honor in which[Pg 159] they were held, they also pay the highest tribute to virtues that still shone brightly in an age when it had become a fashion to speak of them as things of the past.

These letters shed light on other households. Pliny expresses deep sympathy for a friend who spent thirty-nine happy years with a wife whose qualities would have made her “an ornament even in former times,”[Pg 158] and who was left heartbroken by her passing. There's a poignant reference to the strength of Fannia, who embodies the traits of a “heroine of ancient story.” She was exiled for providing material for her husband's “Life.” “Charming in conversation, polite in demeanor, venerable in presence,” she is highlighted as a role model for wives. She was a worthy granddaughter of the famous Arria, who chose not to live after her husband was sentenced to death, inspiring him by first stabbing herself in the chest and saying, “Pætus, it does not hurt,” as she pulled the dagger out and handed it to him. Another friend lost a fourteen-year-old daughter who, he notes, combined the wisdom of age and the discretion of a matron with the liveliness of youth and the sweetness of innocent modesty. She was dedicated to reading and study, showing little interest in entertainment. Pompeius Saturninus shared some letters from his wife that were so excellent he felt as though he were listening to Plautus and Terence in prose; in fact, he suspects the husband of writing them himself, despite his denial, though he believes he deserves equal credit, whether he penned them or nurtured her talent to such a high level. It's noteworthy that while these letters reveal the intelligent companionship between husbands and wives that had replaced the old hierarchical relationships, as well as the impressive accomplishments of many women and the respect in which[Pg 159] they were held, they also pay a great tribute to virtues that still shone brightly in an era when it had become trendy to regard them as relics of the past.

“Morals are gone,” said Seneca. “Evil triumphs. All virtue, all justice, is disappearing. That is what was exclaimed in our fathers’ days, what they are repeating to-day, and what will be the cry of our children.” If we may credit the history of that age, there was reason enough for the cry, but there was another side to the dark picture. This critical philosopher did not spare the vices and follies of the great ladies of his time, and any tribute of his to the talents and virtues of women is of value, as it is not likely to incline to the side of flattery. In his letters of consolation to his mother, Helvia, he mentions the fact that she is “learned in the principles of all the sciences,” in spite of the old-fashioned notions of his father, who “feared letters as a means of corruption for women.” More liberal himself, he exhorts her to return to them as “a source of safety, consolation, and joy.” To Marcia he writes in a tone that is appreciative, though a trifle patronizing: “Who dares say that nature in creating woman has gifted her less generously, or restricted for her the sphere of the virtues? Her moral strength, do not doubt it, equals ours.... Habit will render her, like us, capable of great efforts, as of great griefs.” An incident of his own family life is worth repeating,[Pg 160] as it shows a pleasant and not uncommon side of domestic relations at a period when Roman morals were at the worst. His wife was solicitous for his health. “As my life depends upon hers,” he says, “I shall follow her advice, because in doing so I am caring for her. Can anything be more agreeable than to feel that in loving your wife you are loving yourself?” The devotion on her side was more heroic, if less reasonable. When he was politely advised to take himself to some other world where he would be less in the way of his civil superiors, she insisted upon dying with him. He tried in vain to dissuade her, but, finding her persistent, he gave his consent, saying: “Let the fortitude of so courageous an end be alike in both of us, but let there be more in your death to win fame.” Her veins were opened with his; but Nero did not need to get rid of her just then, so the attendants quickly bound her wounds and saved her. This devoted Paulina had only the satisfaction of sacrificing her color, as she was noted for her extreme pallor to the end of her life.

“Morals are gone,” said Seneca. “Evil wins. All virtue, all justice, is fading away. That’s what people were saying in our parents’ days, what they’re repeating today, and what will be the cry of our children.” If we can trust the history of that time, there was plenty of reason for this outcry, but there was another side to the bleak situation. This critical philosopher didn’t hold back on the vices and foolishness of the prominent women of his time, and any praise from him regarding the talents and virtues of women is valuable because it’s unlikely to be flattery. In his letters of comfort to his mother, Helvia, he notes that she is “knowledgeable in the principles of all the sciences,” despite his father’s old-fashioned views, who “feared education as a corrupting influence for women.” Being more open-minded himself, he encourages her to return to learning as “a source of safety, comfort, and joy.” To Marcia, he writes with appreciation, though a bit patronizing: “Who dares say that nature, in creating woman, has gifted her less generously, or limited her in the realm of virtues? Her moral strength, make no mistake, matches ours.... Habit will make her, like us, capable of great efforts, as well as great sorrows.” An incident from his own family life is worth mentioning, as it shows a warm and not uncommon aspect of domestic relations at a time when Roman morals were at their worst. His wife was concerned for his health. “Since my life depends on hers,” he says, “I will follow her advice, because by doing so I am taking care of her. Can anything be more pleasant than feeling that in loving your wife you are loving yourself?” Her devotion was more heroic, though less rational. When he was politely urged to go to another world where he wouldn’t be in the way of his civil superiors, she insisted on dying with him. He tried in vain to convince her otherwise, but when he saw her determination, he gave his consent, saying: “Let our shared courage in facing such an end be equal, but let there be more in your death to earn glory.” Her veins were opened alongside his; but Nero didn’t need to dispose of her at that moment, so the attendants quickly bound her wounds and saved her. This devoted Paulina only had the satisfaction of sacrificing her complexion, as she was known for her extreme pallor until the end of her life.

We have other letters from a thinker and seer of the next century, which give us as sympathetic an insight into the private life of the Antonines as Cicero and Pliny give us into that of their own contemporaries in the two preceding ones. Nowhere does Marcus Aurelius appear in so human a light as in this correspondence with Fronto, the distinguished[Pg 161] master and philosopher, which came to us at a late day out of the silence of ages. It reveals one of the rare friendships of the world, and incidentally throws a pleasant light on the family relations of the wisest and simplest of emperors.

We have other letters from a thinker and visionary of the next century, which provide us with a sympathetic view into the private life of the Antonines, similar to what Cicero and Pliny offer about their contemporaries in the two previous centuries. Nowhere does Marcus Aurelius appear more relatable than in this correspondence with Fronto, the notable[Pg 161] teacher and philosopher, which was discovered much later after being lost to time. It reveals one of the rare friendships in history and casually sheds light on the family dynamics of the wisest and simplest of emperors.

History has cast a cloud over the wives of the Antonines—whether justly or not we can never know. In an age of great vices, even virtue is not safe, and the scandal-lover has always delighted to tear fair names. But the testimony of a husband surely ought to count for more than the flippant gossip of the idle voluptuary or the witty sneer of the satirist. Referring to the elder Faustina, Antoninus Pius says: “I would rather spend my life with her in Gyaros than live without her in a palace.” As this desolate abode of the exile was supposed to be very uncomfortable, the compliment was not a light one. It is not in such terms that men write of faithless wives, nor is it in the nature of such women to wear the white veil of innocence for a series of years in the presence of those nearest to them. There was a temple built in her honor which still keeps guard as a church over the Roman forum, a permanent monument to the devotion of this tender husband. A charitable institution for girls, that bore her name, has long since gone the way of all perishable things.

History has created a shadow over the wives of the Antonines—whether it's deserved or not, we can never know. In a time filled with great vices, even virtue isn't safe, and those who love scandal have always been eager to attack good reputations. However, a husband’s testimony should surely carry more weight than the careless gossip of hedonists or the sarcastic remarks of satirists. About the elder Faustina, Antoninus Pius says: “I would rather spend my life with her in Gyaros than live without her in a palace.” Since that lonely place of exile was thought to be quite uncomfortable, the compliment was significant. Men don’t speak of unfaithful wives in such terms, nor do such women typically pretend to be innocent for years in front of those closest to them. A temple was built in her honor, which still stands as a church overlooking the Roman forum, a lasting testament to the devotion of this loving husband. A charitable organization for girls that carried her name has long since faded away like all things that perish.

In the letters of Aurelius, which cover a wide range of thought and experience, there are constant[Pg 162] references to his family. It is difficult to believe the younger Faustina as wicked as men have painted her. One of the most beautiful women of her time, as brilliant and sweet as she was beautiful, the idol of her household, the object of affectionate care on the part of her husband, this gracious woman has been a mystery to successive generations. What if the lightly spoken word of a malicious rival, or a dark insinuation from some impertinent admirer whose vanity she may have wounded, kindled a fire which the ages cannot put out? Such things have been, and may be again. “I thank the gods for giving me a wife so kind, so tender to her children, so simple,” said the philosopher, who kept his soul at a serene altitude above things of sense; but he broke down when his children suffered or died, and mourned this much-loved wife as a saint, giving her divine honors. He also put a gold statue of her in the seat she had been in the habit of occupying at the theater, and had her represented in a bas-relief as borne to heaven, while he gazed after her with longing eyes.

In the letters of Aurelius, which explore a wide range of thoughts and experiences, there are constant[Pg 162] references to his family. It's hard to believe that the younger Faustina was as wicked as people have claimed. She was one of the most beautiful women of her time, as brilliant and sweet as she was stunning, the beloved figure of her household, and the recipient of her husband's affectionate care. This gracious woman has remained a mystery to generations. What if a careless comment from a spiteful rival, or a dark insinuation from an arrogant admirer she may have offended, sparked a lasting fire that time cannot extinguish? Such situations have happened before and can happen again. “I thank the gods for giving me a wife so kind, so tender to her children, so simple,” said the philosopher, who held his soul above worldly matters; but he broke down when his children suffered or died and mourned his beloved wife as a saint, giving her divine honors. He even placed a gold statue of her in her usual seat at the theater and had her depicted in a bas-relief as being taken to heaven, while he gazed after her with longing eyes.

Fronto writes that the mother of Marcus Aurelius laughingly declares herself jealous of him. He asks tenderly after the ailing domnula, who is the idol of her father’s heart. Of his own daughter Gratia he has much to tell, playing gracefully with her name. He chats pleasantly of sleep, of health, of dreams, of the art of speech, in which he was himself a master.[Pg 163] But this is varied with words of affection, with tender references to the children, their pretty voices and their winning ways. He had given the little prince a silver trumpet on his birthday, and draws a charming picture of the group about their mother, the beautiful Faustina. But he loses his own admirable and much-loved wife; then his grandson dies; and his heart is torn with grief, as with sympathy for the sorrow of the gentle Gratia. Joy falls away from the spent life of the white-haired philosopher. He finds nothing to bind him longer to a sad world. His silvery periods have lost their charm. He lays down his pen, and his last words are full of pathos. He writes to an emperor who, like himself, has lived on the heights of a calm reason. The blows of fate have struck them both, and they weep, like others.

Fronto writes that Marcus Aurelius's mother jokingly says she’s jealous of him. He tenderly asks about the sick domnula, who is her father's treasure. He has a lot to share about his own daughter Gratia, playing charmingly with her name. He talks easily about sleep, health, dreams, and the art of speech, where he was quite skilled.[Pg 163] But he mixes this with affectionate words and sweet references to the kids, their lovely voices, and their endearing ways. He gave the little prince a silver trumpet for his birthday and paints a lovely picture of the family gathered around their mother, the beautiful Faustina. But then he loses his beloved wife, and his grandson passes away; his heart breaks with grief, feeling deep sympathy for the sorrow of the gentle Gratia. Joy fades from the weary life of the gray-haired philosopher. He finds nothing to keep him tied to this sorrowful world. His eloquent phrases have lost their luster. He puts down his pen, and his final words are filled with emotion. He writes to an emperor who, like him, has lived in the heights of calm reason. Both have faced the blows of fate, and they weep, just like everyone else.

I have quoted more or less from the letters of four thoughtful and clear-sighted men, because their personal details and general tone go farther than any assertion to prove the pure and intelligent character of a large section of Roman womanhood and its refining influence in the family. They are a flattering tribute, not only to the women of the new age, but to the fine qualities of a corresponding circle of men. The life revealed by these distinguished observers who have talked so familiarly of its every-day side is certainly remote from that which has been dwelt upon by satirists and historians, but we[Pg 164] cannot doubt that it represents the domestic relations of an important class. It is fair to presume that the women of culture and virtue who came within their horizon were not exceptions.

I have referenced the letters of four insightful and discerning men, as their personal experiences and overall tone reveal more than any claim could to demonstrate the genuine and thoughtful nature of a significant portion of Roman women and their positive impact on family life. They serve as a commendable acknowledgment, not just of the women of the new era but also of the admirable qualities found in a similar group of men. The lives described by these notable observers, who have spoken so candidly about everyday life, are undoubtedly different from what has been portrayed by satirists and historians, but we[Pg 164] cannot deny that it reflects the domestic dynamics of an important social class. It is reasonable to assume that the cultured and virtuous women they encountered were not merely exceptions.

IV

Of the increasing influence of Roman matrons, a strong proof may be found in the public honors they began to receive. Many of these were of a conveniently perfunctory sort, and meant little more than a tribute to the vanity of a family which demanded respect for its name; but they had their significance. It became a fashion to give women a semblance of power that was not always genuine, and to compensate them for any sorrow or neglect they might have had in this world with a fine position and a grand title, which cost little, in the next. Julius Cæsar was far from a model husband, but he celebrated the virtues of his young wife Cornelia, whom he loved devotedly, in an eloquent oration over her remains. He also pronounced a public eulogy for his aunt Julia, wife of Marius who came in for a large share of the glory. Augustus, a boy of twelve, gave a funeral oration over his grandmother. He also honored his sister, the amiable Octavia, with a eulogy and a national funeral, the first one ever given to a woman who was not a sovereign. If there have been others I do not recall[Pg 165] them. He decreed divine honors to Livia, but he died before her, and her ungrateful son forbade them, though the more appreciative Senate proclaimed her “Mother of her Country,” and voted a funeral arch in her memory. Later, this Roman Juno was placed in the ranks of the gods by her grand-nephew Claudius, who was not wholly disinterested, as he did not wish to owe his descent to a simple mortal. The emptiness of some of these numerous honors was aptly illustrated by Nero, who killed his young but not immaculate wife, Poppæa, with a kick, then, like a dutiful husband, pronounced her eulogy and made her a diva! Many of them, however, were paid to worth and to great services for the State.

The growing influence of Roman women can be seen in the public honors they started to receive. Many of these honors were somewhat superficial and mainly served to flatter families that demanded respect for their name, but they did hold some meaning. It became trendy to give women a façade of power that wasn’t always genuine, and to make up for any pain or neglect they may have experienced in life with a prestigious position and a grand title, which cost little in the grand scheme. Julius Cæsar, far from being a model husband, nevertheless celebrated the qualities of his young wife Cornelia, whom he loved deeply, in a heartfelt speech at her funeral. He also delivered a public eulogy for his aunt Julia, the wife of Marius, who received a good share of the accolades. Augustus, only twelve years old, gave a funeral oration for his grandmother. He also honored his sister, the kind Octavia, with a eulogy and a national funeral, the first ever held for a woman who was not a ruler. If there were others, I don't recall them. He granted divine honors to Livia, but died before her, and her ungrateful son denied those honors, though the more appreciative Senate declared her “Mother of her Country” and voted to build a funeral arch in her memory. Later, this Roman Juno was elevated to the ranks of the gods by her grand-nephew Claudius, who had his own motives, as he didn't want to trace his lineage back to a mere mortal. The insincerity of some of these honors was strikingly demonstrated by Nero, who kicked his young but imperfect wife, Poppæa, to death and then, like a dutiful husband, eulogized her and made her a diva! However, many of these honors were genuinely given in recognition of merit and significant service to the State.

“I feel that I am becoming a god,” said Vespasian, when dying, with a skeptical smile at his approaching apotheosis. Women are more trustful. Perhaps they took their divine honors more seriously, and found in them a sort of consolation, as when, in later ages, they looked wistfully from the sorrows of life toward a saint’s crown.

“I feel like I'm becoming a god,” Vespasian said with a skeptical smile as he faced his impending deification. Women tend to be more trusting. Maybe they took their divine honors more seriously and found comfort in them, like when, in later times, they gazed longingly from the pains of life toward a saint’s crown.

We have seen the Roman women of primitive times reach great heights of courage and patriotism; we have seen them rise from virtual bondage to a measure of freedom and consideration. In the days of Scipio and the Gracchi they had won the privileges of education, and a certain respect for their intellectual abilities, as well as for their virtues. We find them later not only noted for fine domestic[Pg 166] qualities, but patrons of literature, and helpful companions of great husbands and sons. The last days of the Republic saw many strong and capable women, and we begin to trace their influence in large affairs. The instances were not numerous, perhaps, but individual talent asserted itself. With the new intelligence they moved rapidly, as our women have done, and apparently without aggression. But it was not until the privileges of rank offset in a degree the disabilities of sex that the Roman woman reached the height of her power and her honors. No doubt she sometimes schemed for a throne in the interest of a husband or a son, but she often proved herself eminently qualified for her own part in its duties and responsibilities. If her talents and energies sometimes went wrong in the lurid and immoral world in which she found herself, they were more frequently exerted for the general good.

We've seen Roman women from ancient times show incredible courage and patriotism; they have moved from a state of near bondage to a level of freedom and respect. In the era of Scipio and the Gracchi, they gained access to education and earned recognition for their intellectual talents as well as their virtues. Later, they were not only celebrated for their excellent domestic skills but also became patrons of literature and supportive partners to prominent husbands and sons. In the final days of the Republic, many strong and capable women emerged, and we start to see their influence in significant matters. While examples may have been few, individual talents stood out. With their newfound intelligence, they moved quickly, just like women today, seemingly without aggression. However, it wasn't until the privileges associated with higher social status alleviated some of the limitations imposed by gender that Roman women truly reached the pinnacle of their power and honors. While they occasionally plotted for a throne on behalf of a husband or son, they often demonstrated their qualifications to take on the responsibilities and duties themselves. Although their talents and energies sometimes went astray in the corrupt and immoral world around them, they were more often directed toward the greater good.

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SOME FAMOUS WOMEN OF IMPERIAL ROME

· Three Types of Roman Womanhood ·
· Livia · Octavia · Julia ·
· Corruption of the Age not Due to Women ·
· Persecution of Virtue · Multiplication of Divorces ·
· Good Women in Public Life ·
· Plotina · Julia Domna · Julia Mæsa ·
· Soæmias · Mamæa ·
· The Old Type Gives Place to the New ·

· Three Types of Roman Womanhood ·
· Livia · Octavia · Julia ·
· The Corruption of the Era Isn't Caused by Women ·
· Persecution of Virtue · Rise in Divorces ·
· Good Women in Public Life ·
· Plotina · Julia Domna · Julia Mæsa ·
· Soæmias · Mamæa ·
· The Old Type Gives Way to the New ·


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I

If one wishes to gain a clear notion of the dominant traits of the Roman woman of twenty centuries ago, there is no better way than to walk observantly through the old galleries where so many of them still live in marble, side by side with the men who made or marred their fortunes. There, graven in stone, one sees at a glance the strength, the passion, the pride, the ambition, that left its stamp upon an age. There too is the weakness, the sensuality, the arrogance, the cruelty, that ruined a life and brought misery upon a generation. Most of these women belonged to a class that held a conspicuous place in the public view by virtue of its position. Some were wicked, a few were great, and many were good though they rarely[Pg 170] get the credit of it. To make them live again is not easy, perhaps not possible, but we gather from many a record curious and interesting facts regarding them. Their surroundings are measurably familiar to us. We know how they looked, how they dressed their hair, how they wore their robes, how they carried themselves. With here and there a trait, an act, a passing word, an anecdote, in their relations to men and society, we may compose a picture which, if not exact, will give a fair idea of the manner of women they were.

If you want to get a clear idea of the main characteristics of Roman women from twenty centuries ago, there's no better way than to walk through the old galleries where many of them are still immortalized in marble, alongside the men who shaped or ruined their fortunes. There, carved in stone, you can instantly see the strength, passion, pride, and ambition that defined an era. You can also see the weaknesses, sensuality, arrogance, and cruelty that destroyed lives and brought suffering to a generation. Most of these women came from a class that was very visible to the public because of their status. Some were wicked, a few were great, and many were good, although they rarely get the recognition they deserve. Bringing them back to life is not easy—maybe it's even impossible—but we find curious and interesting facts about them in many records. Their environment is somewhat familiar to us. We know what they looked like, how they styled their hair, how they wore their robes, and how they carried themselves. With a few traits, actions, comments, and anecdotes about their relationships with men and society, we can create a picture that, while not perfect, gives a good idea of the kind of women they were.

There were three matrons in the family of the first emperor who may be taken as representatives of three dominant types of Roman womanhood. In Livia, we have the woman of affairs; in Octavia, the woman of the family; in Julia, the woman of the gay world. The first had before all things the genius of administration which was the special gift of her race; the second united the sweetest family affections with loyalty and moral strength; the last was of the numerous and dangerous class that made of society an occupation, and of pleasure an end.

There were three matrons in the family of the first emperor who can be seen as representatives of three main types of Roman womanhood. In Livia, we find the businesswoman; in Octavia, the family-oriented woman; in Julia, the socialite. The first prioritized the skill of administration, a special talent of her lineage; the second combined deep family love with loyalty and moral integrity; the last belonged to the many and risky class that turned social life into a career and pleasure into a goal.

Of the long line of capable women who had so strong and so lasting an influence in Roman affair—sometimes for good and sometimes for ill—the first and the best known was Livia. Standing as she did in the blazing light that shines upon a throne, we see her on many sides—if not always clearly, at least in bold outlines. That she had beauty, tact,[Pg 171] fascination, and a gracious address, doubtless counted for much in her youth; but it was through her wise judgment, far-seeing intellect, well-poised character, and keen practical sense of values that this remarkable woman shared the fortunes and held the affection of Augustus for more than half a century, and had a voice in the destinies of Rome for seventy years. She has been given the purity of Diana, the benevolence of Ceres, the wisdom and craft of Minerva. There are many busts and statues of her, but they vary, and it is not possible to know which best represents the real woman. We see her in marble as Ceres—a commanding figure, with strength in every line. The passion that lies in the delicate, half-sensuous curve of the lips is overshadowed by the will that shows itself in the firm poise of the head, and the intellect that sits in the ample forehead and looks out of the serene eyes. “In features Venus, in manner Juno,” says Ovid, who had ample reason to know the power of this discreet matron. She frowned upon the license of the gay set to which he belonged, and it is not unlikely that she had something to do with the hopeless exile that pressed so heavily on his last years. But he declares that “she has raised her head above all vices,” dwelling upon her strength and the fact that “with the power to injure, she has injured no one.”

Of the many capable women who had a significant and lasting impact on Roman affairs—sometimes positively and sometimes negatively—the first and most famous was Livia. Standing in the bright spotlight of power, we see her from various angles—if not always clearly, at least in bold strokes. Her beauty, charm, allure, and graciousness likely played a big role in her youth; however, it was her wise judgment, forward-thinking mind, balanced character, and sharp practical sense that allowed this remarkable woman to share the fortunes and earn the affection of Augustus for over fifty years, influencing the fate of Rome for seventy years. She’s been attributed with the purity of Diana, the kindness of Ceres, and the wisdom and cunning of Minerva. There are many busts and statues of her, but they differ, making it hard to determine which one accurately represents the real woman. We see her in marble as Ceres—a commanding figure, with strength in every detail. The passion reflected in the soft, slightly sensual curve of her lips is overshadowed by the determination evident in the steady posture of her head and the intelligence that shines from her broad forehead and calm eyes. “In features, Venus; in manner, Juno,” says Ovid, who had plenty of reason to recognize the influence of this careful matron. She disapproved of the indulgence of the lively crowd he belonged to, and it’s likely that she played a role in the painful banishment that burdened his later years. Yet, he insists that “she has raised her head above all vices,” highlighting her strength and the fact that “with the ability to harm, she has harmed no one.”

Whatever the faults of Livia may have been, no shadow rested on her womanly honor. Probably[Pg 172] she had no choice when, at eighteen, the emperor took her from her husband—who found it best to submit amiably where the caprices of his sovereign were concerned—and made her his wife, this complaisant but elderly soldier of culture and influence acting as her father or guardian in the ceremony, and dying soon after. If he bore any ill will it does not appear, as he left his two children to the care of his successor. At the same time, Augustus sent away his own wife, the too jealous and exacting mother of Julia, on the day of his daughter’s birth. The only failing of Scribonia seems to have been that she was imperious and did not bear her wrongs with sufficient equanimity.

Whatever Livia's faults were, her honor as a woman was undisputed. She probably had no choice when, at eighteen, the emperor took her from her husband—who found it best to go along with his sovereign's whims—and made her his wife. This accommodating but older man of culture and influence acted as her father or guardian during the ceremony, passing away soon after. If he held any resentment, it didn’t show, as he left his two children in the care of his successor. At the same time, Augustus sent away his own wife, who was overly jealous and demanding, on the day his daughter was born. Scribonia’s only flaw seems to have been her assertiveness and her inability to handle her grievances with enough composure.

This new union lasted fifty-two years, and the last recorded words of the husband were, “Livia, farewell, and do not forget our love.” To some one who asked her how she retained her influence so long, she replied: “That comes from my moderation and my honesty. I have done with joy all that he wished, without trying to meddle with his affairs or showing the least jealousy as to his infidelities, which I never seemed to see.” As a recipe for the management of husbands the last might be open to grave objection, from a woman’s point of view, but it was the undisputed privilege of Roman men, indeed of all men in early times,—to say nothing of later ones,—to be made comfortable under any circumstances; and they made no pretense to morality.[Pg 173] As to meddling, Livia evidently did it as though she did it not, as it was well known that she tempered the harshness of her husband and modified many of his stern decrees.

This new partnership lasted fifty-two years, and the last words the husband recorded were, “Livia, goodbye, and don’t forget our love.” When someone asked her how she managed to keep her influence for so long, she replied: “That comes from my balance and my honesty. I happily did everything he wanted, without trying to interfere in his business or showing any jealousy about his affairs, which I pretended not to notice.” As advice for handling husbands, this might be seriously questionable from a woman's perspective, but it was the accepted right of Roman men, and indeed all men in ancient times—and even later—to be kept comfortable no matter what; they didn’t pretend to be moral. [Pg 173] As for meddling, Livia clearly did it subtly, as it was widely known that she softened her husband's harshness and influenced many of his strict decisions.

Perhaps a better explanation of his devotion might have been found in the rare union of beauty and intelligence with the domestic virtues which he took so much pleasure in extolling. In the waning of her personal charms, she took care not to lose the attractions of a versatile intellect and agreeable manners, also to sheathe in velvet the delicate, closely welded chains of daily habit. She knew how to submit and she knew how to rule. Since life is always a series of compromises, perhaps its finest art lies just here. Maintaining the traditions of her sex, she wove and made her husband’s clothes. As she had six hundred or more attendants to fold her own garments and minister to her comfort, it is not likely that these domestic duties weighed very heavily. Doubtless a little supervision sufficed for a great deal of credit. A well-managed household does not imply doing things one’s self so much as the knowledge and ability to put the machinery in running order; and Livia was before all things executive, which has much more to do with brains than with virtues.

Perhaps a better explanation of his devotion could be found in the rare combination of beauty and intelligence along with the domestic qualities he loved to praise. As her personal charms faded, she made sure not to lose the appeal of her versatile mind and pleasant manners, while also softening the tight bonds of daily routine. She knew how to submit and how to take charge. Since life is always a series of compromises, maybe its greatest skill lies right there. Keeping up the traditions of her gender, she wove and made her husband’s clothes. With six hundred or more servants to handle her own clothing and attend to her comfort, it’s unlikely that these domestic tasks were a burden for her. Surely a little oversight was enough for a lot of credit. A well-run household doesn’t mean doing everything yourself but rather knowing how to keep things organized; and Livia was foremost an executive, which has much more to do with intelligence than with qualities.

Like her husband, or because of him, she hated luxury and ostentation in her daily life. Her house was small and simple, but decorated with taste. The[Pg 174] pleasures of sense had little weight with her; indeed, there was a trace of asceticism in her character and in her way of living. She had various theories which we call fads. These are specially noticeable in an epicurean age, when a fortune was spent on a dinner. She limited herself to a diet of fruits and vegetables, drank a certain wine that suited the health better than the palate, and had great faith in the virtues of cold water. Augustus was cured of a grave malady by cold baths, but rumor said that the young Marcellus died of them. Just why Livia was blamed is not clear, as the treatment was prescribed by Musa, the great physician; but it was new, and she had made it a fashion.

Like her husband, or maybe because of him, she hated luxury and showiness in her everyday life. Her house was small and simple, but it was tastefully decorated. The pleasures of the senses didn’t mean much to her; in fact, there was a hint of asceticism in her character and lifestyle. She had several theories that we now call fads. These were especially noticeable in a time focused on indulgence, when people spent a fortune on dinner. She limited herself to a diet of fruits and vegetables, drank a specific wine that was more about health than taste, and strongly believed in the benefits of cold water. Augustus recovered from a serious illness with cold baths, but rumors said that the young Marcellus died from them. It's not clear why Livia was blamed since the treatment was recommended by Musa, the renowned physician; but it was new, and she had turned it into a trend.

That she had many lovable traits is shown not only by the lifelong devotion of her husband, but in the adoring affection of those who served her. In recent years a large columbarium has been found which she consecrated to the ashes of her numerous household, each of whom had his little urn with a fitting inscription. She used her large fortune generously, helped the persecuted, established a school for poor but well-born children, and did a great many charitable things. It may be true that she was cruel to her enemies, but she was loyal to her friends and untiring in their interests. Wisely holding the threads of a large and diverse patronage, she kept herself in touch with the intelligence of the new age, and was inspired by a broad and[Pg 175] catholic public spirit. She is said to have built and endowed the Temple of Concord, also a portico rich in ancient paintings, which bore her name. If she was at home at the wheel or loom and looking after the personal comfort of her husband, she was equally so in the coteries of the learned and in the councils of State. She was called cold, but there were slumbering depths of feeling in that strong soul which few had fathomed. When her son Drusus died, it is said that only the tender interference of her husband prevented her from starving herself to death in the violence of her grief. But she quickly regained her poise, and went about her duties public and private with no outward sign of the sorrow that had come to her like a bolt out of a clear sky. She had much of the fortitude of the Stoics in the days when philosophy was the fashionable religion. But she went to the wise and learned Arius for help and consolation, as women of later ages have gone to a spiritual adviser. Seneca holds her up as a model of strength and well-regulated sensibility. He dwells upon her heroic qualities and contrasts her favorably with the more emotional Octavia, who mourned her life away over the death of her son and other domestic misfortunes.

That she had many lovable traits is shown not only by the lifelong devotion of her husband but also by the loving affection of those who served her. In recent years, a large columbarium has been found that she dedicated to the ashes of her many household members, each of whom had their own little urn with a fitting inscription. She used her considerable wealth generously, helped those who were persecuted, established a school for underprivileged but deserving children, and did many charitable deeds. It may be true that she was harsh to her enemies, but she was loyal to her friends and tireless in their support. Wisely managing a large and diverse group of patrons, she kept herself informed about the new age and was inspired by a broad and inclusive public spirit. She is said to have built and funded the Temple of Concord, as well as a portico rich in ancient paintings that bore her name. Whether at the wheel or loom, taking care of her husband's comfort, or among the learned circles and in state councils, she was equally at home. She was often called cold, but there were deep emotions in that strong soul that few had discovered. When her son Drusus died, it is said that only the loving intervention of her husband kept her from starving herself in her overwhelming grief. However, she quickly regained her composure and carried on with her public and private duties without showing any outward sign of the sorrow that had struck her like a bolt from the blue. She possessed much of the stoic fortitude in an era when philosophy was the popular creed. But she sought the guidance and solace of the wise and learned Arius, much like women of later times have turned to spiritual counselors. Seneca holds her up as a model of strength and balanced emotion. He emphasizes her heroic qualities and compares her favorably to the more emotional Octavia, who mourned her life away following the death of her son and other domestic tragedies.

There was another and less sympathetic side to her character. Without imagination, and little touched with sentiment, her life seems to have been guided by a calm reason which was always at the[Pg 176] service of a towering ambition—a trait which, sooner or later, is sure to make the gentlest man or woman hard and cruel toward any one who stands in its way. This ambition was her master passion, and in its direction lay her faults. To her judgment and discrimination was added the craft of a diplomatist. Her grandson Caligula called her a “Ulysses in petticoats.” That she had any hand in the singular falling away, one after another, of her husband’s direct heirs, or that she ever passed the point where intrigue becomes crime, is the purest surmise. She had too many enemies in his family, who feared and envied her, to escape calumny; but though many dark rumors were in the air, nothing was ever proved. One youth was ill and died in Gaul, another in the far East. It is too much to suppose that she could safely have helped them out of the world at that distance, even had she wished to do so. That she schemed long and successfully to raise her son Tiberius to the throne is certain. That he repaid her with a great deal of ingratitude is equally so. Perhaps he could not forget that it was her ambition which compelled him to send away his much-loved wife, Vipsania,—whom he could never meet afterward without tears,—to marry the already notorious Julia, for whom he had a distinct aversion. But no one then stopped to consider sensibilities. If Livia was sometimes hard and cruel, she lived in an age when people who did many kind and generous[Pg 177] things had no hesitation in walking over a rival, crushing an enemy, or even courteously suggesting to a friend who became inconvenient that it would be wise for him to take himself out of the world. The man of to-day is content with crushing rivals and ruining enemies in the name of high-sounding virtues, but he has grown humane, and lets them live. The time when fierce ambitions drove innocent victims out of life is gone by. But we can judge people only by the standards of their own day, and there is much evidence that Livia surpassed those of her time in justice and compassion.

There was another, less relatable side to her character. Lacking imagination and somewhat absent of sentiment, her life seemed to be guided by a steady reason that always served a towering ambition—a trait that inevitably turns even the kindest person hard and cruel towards anyone in their way. This ambition was her main passion, and it dictated her faults. Alongside her judgment and discrimination was the cunning of a diplomat. Her grandson Caligula called her a “Ulysses in skirts.” Whether she had any part in the peculiar decline of her husband’s direct heirs, one after the other, or if she ever crossed the line where schemes become crimes, is pure speculation. She had too many enemies in his family, who feared and envied her, to avoid slander; yet, despite the many dark rumors, nothing was ever proven. One young man was sick and died in Gaul, another in the far East. It's hard to believe she could have safely orchestrated their deaths from that distance, even if she had wanted to. What is certain is that she plotted for a long time and successfully to elevate her son Tiberius to the throne. Equally certain is that he repaid her with considerable ingratitude. Perhaps he couldn’t forget that her ambition forced him to send away his beloved wife, Vipsania—whom he could never see again without tears—to marry the already notorious Julia, whom he distinctly disliked. But no one back then stopped to think about feelings. If Livia was sometimes harsh and cruel, she lived in a time when people who did many kind and generous things had no qualms about stepping over a rival, crushing an enemy, or even politely suggesting to a friend who became troublesome that it might be wise for them to remove themselves from the world. Today's person is content to crush rivals and destroy enemies under the guise of lofty virtues, but has become humane and allows them to live. The era when fierce ambitions drove innocent victims out of existence is behind us. However, we can only judge people by the standards of their own time, and there is plenty of evidence that Livia exceeded those of her era in terms of justice and compassion.

Fortune certainly favored the aspiring empress. Her gentle sister-in-law, Octavia, died in good time for her ends. The brilliant Julia, who won hearts and stood in her way, plunged recklessly to her own ruin, taking with her into a hopeless exile the wronged but troublesome Scribonia. Of this step-daughter’s sons, two were dead in a far country, and the remaining one was chained for his vices to a desolate rock in the sea. Of her daughters, one followed in the footsteps and the fate of her unfortunate mother; the other was the first Agrippina, a proud, imperious woman with her mother’s beauty and her father’s inflexible will and courage. This granddaughter of Augustus, so noted for her virtues, her talents, and her sorrows, had followed her husband’s fortunes with wifely devotion, commanded the adoring soldiers in his absence, and returned[Pg 178] heartbroken, with his ashes, to stir up Rome against his supposed murderer, whose wife, one of Livia’s friends, was implicated. Sure of the justice of her cause and the sympathy of the people, she defied the cruel Tiberius and the cool Livia,—who was bent upon saving her possibly innocent favorites,—to be finally sent to starve on the rocky islet where her erring mother had expiated her follies and her vices. She was a tragical figure, this spirited and haughty Agrippina with the face and air of a Minerva and the fiery spirit of Mars, who paid so heavy a penalty for her virtue and her loyalty. It is said that Livia interceded for her, though without avail; also that she supported the second hapless Julia until her death. Whether this was a stroke of diplomacy, or the impulse of a pitying heart, we cannot know.

Fortune definitely smiled on the ambitious empress. Her kind sister-in-law, Octavia, died just in time for her plans. The dazzling Julia, who captured hearts and stood in her way, recklessly brought about her own downfall, taking with her the wronged but problematic Scribonia into a hopeless exile. Of this step-daughter’s sons, two had died in a distant land, and the remaining one was imprisoned for his misdeeds on a desolate island in the sea. Among her daughters, one followed in her unfortunate mother’s footsteps and met the same fate; the other was the first Agrippina, a proud, commanding woman with her mother’s beauty and her father’s strong will and courage. This granddaughter of Augustus, known for her virtues, talents, and hardships, had devotedly followed her husband’s fortunes, commanded the devoted soldiers during his absence, and returned[Pg 178] heartbroken, carrying his ashes, to rally Rome against his alleged murderer, whose wife, a friend of Livia's, was implicated. Confident in the justice of her cause and the support of the people, she confronted the ruthless Tiberius and the indifferent Livia—who was intent on protecting her potentially innocent favorites—only to be ultimately sentenced to starve on the rocky island where her wayward mother once atoned for her mistakes and sins. She was a tragic figure, this spirited and proud Agrippina with the statue-like grace of Minerva and the fiery spirit of Mars, who paid a steep price for her virtue and loyalty. It's said that Livia pleaded for her, but to no avail; she also reportedly supported the second unfortunate Julia until her death. Whether this was a clever maneuver or a genuine act of sympathy, we may never know.

The center of a hostile group, it is clear that Livia’s rôle was a difficult one, and the skill with which she disentangled these conflicting interests is the best proof of her insight and worldly tact. She had the instinct of leadership which divines men, women, and possibilities, and is swift to bend circumstances to its own ends. If she had her full share of troubles and chagrins, she hid them within her heart, kept her own counsel in perilous crises, and pursued her way with the calmness of a strong soul. By a singular fatality, every human barrier was swept from her path, some by fate and their own misdoings, some by more kindly nature, and[Pg 179] some by intrigues, the mysteries of which we cannot fathom. In the end she dominated friends and enemies alike.

At the center of a hostile group, it's obvious that Livia’s role was a tough one, and the way she navigated these conflicting interests shows her insight and social skills. She had a natural talent for leadership that understood people and possibilities and quickly adapted circumstances to her advantage. While she faced her fair share of troubles and disappointments, she kept them to herself, maintained her composure during critical moments, and moved forward with the poise of a strong individual. In a strange twist of fate, every obstacle in her way was removed, some by destiny and their own mistakes, others by kinder forces, and some by schemes that remain a mystery to us. Ultimately, she gained control over both friends and foes alike.

But, in spite of her success, the last of her eighty-eight years were burdened with griefs. Her heart was wounded in the tenderest point by the son for whom she had toiled and schemed; her pride was humiliated, and her hopes were dashed. That she played the sovereign and became capricious and exacting, was perhaps in the nature of things. No one was ever more flattered and honored by an admiring people. The Senate paid court to her, her receptions were officially announced, her signature was attached to decrees, she was attended by lictors when she went out, and had an altar on which her name was adored. She had a conspicuous place among the white-robed vestals and was made a priestess of Augustus. When she was ill the world mourned; when she recovered there were fêtes and votive offerings. “A woman in all things more comparable to the gods than to men, who knew how to use her power so as to turn away peril and advance the most deserving,” said one of her contemporaries. She remained to the end a stately figure among women who have held the reality of power without its titles, not through the arts of the coquette, but through tact, wisdom, foresight, and intellectual force. With less temperament and esthetic quality, she recalls Aspasia in her vigor, her[Pg 180] mental grasp, and her power to hold the affection of a great man in an age when such love seems to have been rare. Perhaps we find a closer resemblance in Mme. de Maintenon, who combined her strength, her cold reason, and her political sagacity with a finer modern culture. It may be that the latter used her power less wisely, but she was a sadder woman. She reached the goal of her ambition only after the loss of her illusions, if she ever had them, and the task of catering to the caprices of a spoiled monarch was too much for her. The records of her life reveal too surely the tragedy of a soul; she lacked the stoical endurance to suffer and make no sign. Livia apparently never ceased to love the husband of her youth, and they worked in sympathy. With this firm foundation of happiness, all things were possible. One can point to no mistakes that were made through her counsels, and their weight is shown in the letters of Augustus himself. Of her wisdom and moderation, no better evidence is needed than the unparalleled cruelties of her son as soon as her restraining influence was gone.

But despite her success, the last years of her eighty-eight were filled with sorrow. Her heart was deeply hurt by the son for whom she had worked and planned; her pride was wounded, and her hopes were shattered. It's perhaps natural that she took on a royal demeanor and became moody and demanding. No one was ever more praised and revered by her admiring public. The Senate courted her, her events were officially announced, her signature was on decrees, she had lictors accompanying her when she went out, and an altar was dedicated to her name. She held a prominent position among the white-robed vestals and was made a priestess of Augustus. When she was ill, the world mourned; when she recovered, there were celebrations and offerings. “A woman in every way more comparable to the gods than to men, who knew how to wield her power to avert danger and uplift the most deserving,” said one of her contemporaries. She remained a dignified figure among women who held real power without the titles, not through flirtation, but through tact, wisdom, foresight, and intellectual strength. With less temperament and aesthetic quality, she recalls Aspasia in her vigor, her mental acuity, and her ability to keep the affection of a great man in an era when such love seemed rare. Perhaps a closer comparison is with Mme. de Maintenon, who blended her strength, cold logic, and political skill with a more refined modern culture. It’s possible that the latter wielded her power less wisely, but she was a more sorrowful woman. She achieved her ambitions only after losing her illusions, if she ever had any, and catering to the whims of a spoiled king proved too overwhelming for her. The records of her life reveal the tragedy of her spirit; she lacked the stoic endurance to suffer silently. Livia seemingly never stopped loving the husband of her youth, and they worked in harmony. With this solid foundation of happiness, anything was possible. There are no mistakes attributable to her guidance, and her influence is evident in the letters of Augustus himself. No better proof of her wisdom and moderation is needed than the unmatched cruelties of her son once her restraining presence was gone.

We have able and gifted women to-day who are companions or mothers of great rulers, but I can recall no one not a reigning queen who has a like influence or has received equal honors. Have women of masterful character lost the subtle art of fascination to make it available, or are modern[Pg 181] rulers smaller men, who fear a rival? With us, women of this type find their place as presidents of charitable associations or powerful clubs, or leaders of a conservative society. Sometimes they are better known as wives and helpers of men with political aspirations. But we rarely hear of them in the latter rôle, as they are usually lost in a glory which they often make but do not visibly share.

There are capable and talented women today who are companions or mothers to great leaders, but I can't think of anyone who isn't a reigning queen with a similar level of influence or recognition. Have women with strong characters lost the subtle skill of charm to make it count, or are modern rulers less significant figures who fear competition? In our society, these women find their roles as presidents of charitable organizations or influential clubs, or as leaders of conservative groups. Sometimes they're more recognized as wives and supporters of men with political ambitions. However, we rarely hear about them in that role, as they often become eclipsed by a glory that they frequently create but do not visibly share.

II

In striking contrast to the many-sided Livia is the less dominating but more sympathetic Octavia, who lives through her virtues and her sufferings rather than her talents. This much-loved sister of Augustus represents the conservative element of the new age, with its amiable weaknesses and time-honored graces. The idol of her brother, who, nevertheless, did not hesitate to sacrifice her to his own interests and ambitions, she was the victim of lifelong misfortune. She was said to be more beautiful than her rival, Cleopatra. If her likeness in marble can be trusted, she had not the air of command that one sees in so many statues of Roman women. There is more of sensibility in the poise of the delicately shaped head, with its broad, low forehead. In the drooping corners of the full, tender mouth lies the sorrow of years fallen into a settled melancholy. But there is no lack of strength[Pg 182] in the face, which shows also a quality of clear sense and practical judgment. She was noted for dignity, reserve that verged upon coldness, and great simplicity of manner. Her reputation was without a cloud. It was the wish of her brother to take her from her first husband and marry her to Pompey, in order to cement an alliance, but this proposal she absolutely refused.

In stark contrast to the complex Livia is the less assertive but more relatable Octavia, who is defined by her kindness and struggles rather than her skills. This beloved sister of Augustus symbolizes the traditional aspects of the new era, with its gentle flaws and cherished customs. She was adored by her brother, who, however, did not hesitate to sacrifice her for his own goals and desires, making her a lifelong victim of misfortune. It was said that she was more beautiful than her rival, Cleopatra. If her marble likeness is to be believed, she lacked the commanding presence seen in many statues of Roman women. Instead, her delicately shaped head, with its broad, low forehead, exudes sensitivity. The drooping corners of her full, gentle mouth reflect the sorrow of years steeped in a deep melancholy. However, her face also displays strength, alongside a quality of clarity and practical wisdom. She was recognized for her dignity, a reserved demeanor that bordered on coldness, and her great simplicity of manner. Her reputation was entirely spotless. Her brother wished to divorce her from her first husband and marry her to Pompey to strengthen an alliance, but she firmly refused this proposal. [Pg 182]

After the death of Marcellus she was given, for reasons of State, to the cowardly and perfidious Antony, the Senate even setting aside a law that required a woman to wait ten months before remarriage. It was thought that her beauty, with her graces of mind and character, might win him from his follies—sad illusion, and source of many tragedies. She composed grave differences and used her influence for peace. When she returned from Athens, where she spent the first years of her marriage and was greatly loved for her gentle qualities and her fortitude in sorrow, she entreated her brother to forego his warlike purposes. “The eyes of the world are necessarily turned on one who is the wife of Antony and the sister of Cæsar,” she said; “and should these chiefs of the empire, misled by hasty counsels, involve the whole in war, whatever the event, it will be unhappy for me.” She gained concessions from each, and averted the immediate trouble.

After Marcellus died, she was given, for political reasons, to the cowardly and deceitful Antony, with the Senate even ignoring a law that required a woman to wait ten months before remarrying. People believed that her beauty, along with her intelligence and character, might pull him away from his reckless behavior—a sad illusion that led to many tragedies. She resolved serious disputes and used her influence to promote peace. When she came back from Athens, where she had spent the early years of her marriage and was greatly admired for her kindness and strength in times of sorrow, she urged her brother to abandon his aggressive plans. “The world is inevitably focused on one who is the wife of Antony and the sister of Cæsar,” she said; “and if these leaders of the empire, misguided by rash decisions, plunge everyone into war, no matter what happens, it will end badly for me.” She secured compromises from each of them and prevented the immediate crisis.

But this conciliating spirit did not prevent the[Pg 183] fickle Antony from breaking her heart, as he had that of the fiery and ambitious Fulvia. The strongest proof of her sweetness of temper and greatness of soul may be found in the fact that she brought up the children of Fulvia with her own, also the children of Cleopatra, after the latter’s death.

But this accommodating nature didn’t stop the unpredictable Antony from breaking her heart, just like he had done with the passionate and ambitious Fulvia. The best evidence of her gentle spirit and noble character can be seen in the way she raised Fulvia’s children alongside her own, as well as Cleopatra’s children after the latter’s death.

The worst fault ascribed to Octavia was aiding in the divorce of her own innocent daughter from Agrippa, the stern old soldier who was chosen by Augustus as a desirable husband for his only child, the young and widowed Julia. Whatever ambitions she may have had were crushed by the death of her youthful son. Naturally she did not love the intriguing sister-in-law, who ruled all about her in a way that was none the less sure because it was quiet. It is even possible that she was not unwilling to do what came in her path to circumvent the schemes of Livia for her own family. “She detested all mothers,” says Seneca, “and, above all, Livia,” who had domestic joys which she had not. But Seneca may not have been quite just, as he preferred women of a strong, heroic type, and this mother of sensibilities so acute that she fainted when Vergil read his eulogy of Marcellus in her presence, was not much to his liking. It is more probable, however, that resistance was useless. Where the emperor decreed, she had only to obey. Once, indeed, she had shown her loyalty and her strength by refusing a like proposal in her own case, but the marriage[Pg 184] of Julia was vital as a matter of State, and it is not likely that Augustus would have sacrificed a thing upon which he had set his heart, to the happiness of any woman whatever. Perhaps, too, she shared the common belief that private inclination must never stand in the way of public benefit. It was the noblesse oblige of good rulers.

The biggest mistake attributed to Octavia was helping to divorce her innocent daughter from Agrippa, the tough old soldier whom Augustus had picked as a suitable husband for his only child, the young and widowed Julia. Any ambitions she might have had were shattered by the death of her young son. Naturally, she didn’t care for her scheming sister-in-law, who quietly exerted her influence around her. It’s even possible that she was somewhat inclined to do whatever was necessary to thwart Livia’s plans for her own family. “She hated all mothers,” Seneca says, “especially Livia,” who enjoyed family happiness that she did not share. However, Seneca might not have been entirely fair, as he preferred strong, heroic women, and this sensitive mother, who fainted when Vergil recited his eulogy of Marcellus in front of her, wasn’t exactly in his favor. It’s more likely, though, that resistance was pointless. Where the emperor commanded, she had no choice but to follow. Once, she had demonstrated her loyalty and strength by turning down a similar proposal for herself, but Julia's marriage was crucial for the State, and Augustus probably wouldn’t have compromised something he cherished for the happiness of any woman. Perhaps she also believed that personal desires should never interfere with public good. It was the noblesse oblige of good rulers.

Octavia no doubt had her little foibles, though it is not at all certain that this step was due to one of them; but she did not forget the duties of her position. She had wide fame as a loyal, charitable, self-sacrificing, and virtuous woman. In the spirit of the new age, she patronized talent, and gave a public library to the portico which Augustus had built in her honor, filling it with valuable paintings of classical subjects. In the failure of her hopes and the loss of her illusions, she still devoted herself to the children of Antony as well as her own, and interested herself in arranging suitable marriages for them. But these things failed to bring consolation to a bruised heart, or serenity in the troubles that had fallen upon her. She shut herself from the world after her last humiliations, and died of her griefs at fifty-four, revered and idolized by the Roman people, who resented her wrongs as much as they pitied her sufferings. But the son she never ceased to mourn had been in his tomb many a year, and the fickle husband who deserted her had ended his career in disgrace long before. She did not live[Pg 185] to see the downfall of Julia, the death of her august brother, or the final triumph of Livia. She was spared, too, the misfortunes that befell some of the children of her love and care.

Octavia definitely had her quirks, though it’s unclear if this choice was one of them; still, she never neglected her responsibilities. She was well-known as a loyal, charitable, selfless, and virtuous woman. Embracing the spirit of her time, she supported talent and donated a public library to the portico Augustus built in her honor, filling it with valuable classical paintings. Despite her shattered hopes and lost illusions, she dedicated herself to Antony's children as well as her own, working to arrange suitable marriages for them. However, these efforts didn’t soothe her broken heart or bring her peace amidst her troubles. After her final humiliations, she withdrew from the world and died from her grief at fifty-four, respected and adored by the Roman people, who empathized with her suffering and resented the injustices she faced. Yet, the son she mourned had been in his grave for many years, and her treacherous husband had met his end in disgrace long before. She didn’t live[Pg 185] to witness Julia’s downfall, the death of her esteemed brother, or Livia’s ultimate victory. She was also spared the misfortunes that struck some of the children she loved and cared for.

The details of Octavia’s life are few and meager. Fate gave her a prominent part to play on the world’s stage, and she played it well, but with an evident longing to fall back upon her affections. She was never a woman of initiative, but she was clearly one of moral force, framed to temper the friction of more powerful individualities, but to be herself crushed in their collisions. She stands for the purest and most gracious type of Roman womanhood. Many were stronger, many were more brilliant, but few left a memory so fragrant or so sweet.

The details of Octavia’s life are sparse and limited. Fate assigned her an important role on the world’s stage, and she executed it well, but with a clear desire to retreat into her personal feelings. She was never a woman of initiative, but she was undoubtedly a person of moral strength, designed to smooth out the tensions of stronger personalities, even while being overwhelmed by their conflicts. She represents the most pure and graceful version of Roman womanhood. Many were stronger, and many were more impressive, but few left behind a memory as pleasant or as sweet.

III

There was another woman in the household of Augustus, who represented the new age on its worst and most dangerous side. In Julia we have the woman who lived to amuse herself, and left a name which has become a synonym for the appalling corruption of Roman society. No one was placed so high, no one fell so low; and no one has been so often quoted to “point a moral or adorn a tale.” But it has often been the wrong moral and the wrong tale. Bred austerely for a throne, versed in all the culture of her time, this brilliant, haughty,[Pg 186] impetuous daughter of the emperor led the fast set at Rome for a few years, dazzled the world with her wit and her toilets, shocked it with her escapades, only to sink at last from her lofty pedestal to untold depths of infamy and a living tomb.

There was another woman in Augustus's household who embodied the new age at its worst and most dangerous. Julia was a woman who lived for her own pleasure and whose name has become a symbol of the shocking corruption within Roman society. No one was as highly regarded, and no one fell as far; she has been cited repeatedly to "illustrate a lesson or enhance a story." But often, it’s been the wrong lesson and the wrong story. Raised strictly for royalty and skilled in all the culture of her era, this brilliant, arrogant, impetuous daughter of the emperor led the elite lifestyle in Rome for a few years, captivating the world with her charm and her fashion, shocking everyone with her wild behavior, only to eventually fall from her high status to unimaginable disgrace and a living nightmare.

Given, a woman with the sensual, dominating inheritance of the Cæsars and the pride of a new race that knows no law but its own will, without the pride of character which serves always as a balance-wheel to the passions; imagine her a widow at seventeen, and married again, with no choice, to a plain but distinguished soldier, nearly thrice her age, whose lack of patrician birth humiliated her, and whose bourgeois habits were not to her liking; surround her with idle and conscienceless men who make love a pursuit and the arts of flattery a study—and we have already the elements of a tragedy. This hard-headed husband wearied her; his ways were foreign to her; his world of interest was not hers. Even the public spirit which led him to give so many fine temples and works of art to the city that honored him annoyed her. She had the tastes of a dilettante, but she believed firmly in the divine right of emperors and emperors’ daughters to command all things for themselves.

Given, a woman with the sensual, dominating legacy of the Caesars and the pride of a new generation that knows no law but its own will, without the character pride that usually balances passions; picture her as a widow at seventeen, and remarried—without a choice—to a plain yet distinguished soldier, nearly three times her age, whose lack of noble birth embarrassed her, and whose middle-class habits she found unappealing; surround her with idle and unscrupulous men who treat love as a game and flatter as an art—and we already have the makings of a tragedy. This practical husband exhausted her; his ways felt foreign; his world of interests didn’t match hers. Even his civic spirit, which drove him to donate many fine temples and works of art to the city that honored him, irritated her. She had the tastes of a dabbler, but she firmly believed in the divine right of emperors and their daughters to command everything for themselves.

Nor did this petted child like any better the provincial notions of her old-fashioned father. It did not suit her to sew and spin with her stepmother, whose staid decorum irritated her. She belonged[Pg 187] to the pleasure-loving set of an age in which luxury was uppermost and vice was a fine art. Fatal hour in any age when fashion laughs at morals and glories in the cachet of would-be elegant sin! “If my father forgets that he is Cæsar, I who am his daughter have the right to remember it,” said Julia, by way of comment on his democratic ways. One day at the theater he noticed the contrast between the dignified Livia, simply attired, but surrounded by grave statesmen and men of distinction, and the gaily dressed Julia with her train of gilded, dissolute youth. After his usual fashion of writing little notes when he had anything to say, he sent the latter a line of reproof. “Do not blame my young friends,” was her ready answer; “they will grow old with me.” On another occasion, after he had found fault with her showy appearance, she presented herself the next day in a plain and modest costume. To his compliment on the becoming change, she replied: “To-day I am dressed for my father; yesterday it was for my husband.” The subtle satire in this remark was only apparent to those who knew that she dressed for all the world rather than for either.

Nor did this pampered girl think any better of her old-fashioned father's provincial ideas. She didn't want to sew and spin with her stepmother, whose rigid decorum annoyed her. She belonged to a pleasure-seeking crowd in an age where luxury was everything and vice was considered an art form. It's a dangerous time when fashion mocks morals and revels in the allure of so-called elegant sin! “If my father forgets that he’s Cæsar, I, his daughter, have the right to remember it,” Julia said, commenting on his democratic ways. One day at the theater, he noticed the difference between the dignified Livia, simply dressed but surrounded by serious statesmen and distinguished men, and the brightly dressed Julia with her entourage of flashy, reckless youth. As was his custom when he had something to say, he wrote her a note of reprimand. “Don’t blame my young friends,” was her quick reply; “they will grow old with me.” On another occasion, after he criticized her flashy outfit, she showed up the next day in a plain and modest outfit. To his compliment on the nice change, she replied, “Today I’m dressed for my father; yesterday it was for my husband.” The subtle irony in this remark was only clear to those who understood that she dressed for the world rather than for either of them.

She was gifted, witty, and cultured, we are told; but to be lettered in the age of the Cæsars did not necessarily mean learning or serious tastes. One must dabble a little in philosophy, read the Hellenic poets, patronize famous Roman writers, and be[Pg 188] able to talk of the Greek artists who were designing temples and flooding the imperial city with sculpture of various grades. It was even possible to have a long-haired philosopher to dress the intellect, as the maid dressed the person—the one a slave like the other. But all this might end in little more than the trifling of the dilettante, and was quite consistent with very bad morals—as it has always been and is to-day. To discourse of Ovid’s “Art of Love” was agreeable enough, and not mentally exacting. To be sure, the poet did not bring his admirers into very respectable society; indeed, we should think it not only altogether vulgar, but altogether base. But it appealed to the tastes of these spoiled darlings of fortune who had nothing else to do but amuse themselves—it did not matter how, so long as due regard was paid to the so-called elegancies. From love, as the Romans understood it, to unlimited license was but a step. They did not live in the “beyond” of refined sentiment. They mixed very little intellect or imagination with their passions, though they put a certain art into the stimulants of their sensations. When Catullus wished to add a last touch of seriousness to what he called his emotions, he said that he loved Lesbia “not merely as men commonly loved a mistress, but as a father loves his sons and his sons-in-law.” There was little romance in this epicurean life, in spite of a great deal of simple family affection outside of it,[Pg 189] which these perfumed sybarites looked upon as bourgeois. Splendor and not too decorous pleasure were all-sufficient. Anything else they would have laughed at as moonshine. “When Queen Money gave a dowry,” said Horace, with his inimitable satire, “she gave beauty, nobility, friends, and fidelity.” With the exception of Horace and Vergil, who had already grown too moral for the highest fashion, Roman poetry was incredibly coarse and demoralizing; but this was the literary food of the reckless and dashing group that gravitated from the palace on the Palatine to Baiæ, the Newport of the Roman world, rushing from one novelty to another, from one excess to a deeper and more highly spiced one, until its rapid course was run.

She was smart, funny, and sophisticated, or so we're told; but being educated in the era of the Caesars didn’t necessarily mean being knowledgeable or having serious interests. One needed to dabble in philosophy, read Greek poets, support well-known Roman writers, and be[Pg 188] able to discuss the Greek artists who were designing temples and flooding the capital with various kinds of sculpture. It was even possible to have a long-haired philosopher to fluff up the intellect, just like the maid took care of appearances—the former being a servant like the latter. However, all this could amount to little more than the distractions of a superficial enthusiast and was completely compatible with very poor morals—as it has always been and still is today. Talking about Ovid's "Art of Love" was entertaining enough and didn't require much thought. Of course, the poet didn’t bring his fans into very respectable circles; in fact, we would find it not only totally vulgar but downright disgraceful. Yet it appealed to the tastes of these pampered fortune's favorites who had nothing else to do but enjoy themselves—it didn’t matter how, as long as they maintained the so-called elegance. The Romans’ version of love led directly to unrestrained indulgence. They didn’t dwell in the realm of refined feelings. They mixed very little intellect or imagination with their desires, although they did infuse some art into the excitement of their sensations. When Catullus wanted to add a hint of seriousness to what he referred to as his feelings, he claimed he loved Lesbia “not just as men typically love a mistress, but as a father loves his sons and sons-in-law.” There was little romance in this hedonistic lifestyle, despite an abundance of basic family affection outside of it,[Pg 189] which these pampered elites regarded as bourgeois. Extravagance and a not-too-restrained pleasure were more than enough. Anything else they would have dismissed as nonsense. “When Queen Money provided a dowry,” Horace remarked with his unique satire, “she offered beauty, nobility, friends, and loyalty.” Aside from Horace and Vergil, who had become too moral for the highest fashion, Roman poetry was astonishingly crude and corrupting; yet this was the literary fare of the reckless and daring crowd that gravitated from the palace on the Palatine to Baiæ, the Newport of the Roman world, rushing from one novelty to another, from one excess to an even more intense one, until their wild ride finally ended.

Of this society Julia was the center, the life, and the inspiration. The days were past when the stern father put a man of high lineage peremptorily in his place for presuming to address her in the beautiful city by the sea. The complaisant husband, absorbed in affairs, no doubt thought it best to let her go her own way, but he died possibly unsuspecting. Again the still youthful widow was married in the interest of the State and of Livia—to Livia’s son. The brooding, gloomy student was equally far from filling the heart of the graceful woman who was overflowing with the joy of life, and intoxicated with a sense of power that knows no law. Livia may have been faulty enough, but she was above the[Pg 190] degradation of the senses. In Julia the virtues of the Roman matron seem to have been lost. When her conduct came to the knowledge of her inflexible father, he was as bitter as he had been tender. Her maid hung herself, and Augustus only said: “I would rather be the father of Phœbe than of Julia.” Of the youth entangled with her, some were exiled and some took themselves out of a world that was no longer possible for them. Among the latter was the clever, fascinating, but dissolute son of Antony, who had been carefully reared by Octavia and befriended by the emperor, only to repay their kindness by striking both in the tenderest point. But Julia, the beautiful, brilliant, flattered queen of society, was sent away from all her pleasures, her luxuries, her gay companions, her matchless position, to languish for fifteen years in a desolate exile, with no friend but the mother who shared with her the bare necessaries of a squalid existence. No wine, no luxury, no fine clothes, no men-servants without special restrictions and surveillance. A rock for a home, the sea and the sky for companions, and not even hope for consolation. And she was little past thirty-five! Once she was removed to a stronghold of Calabria, with a larger guard and no added comforts, but a little less severity. Many times the Roman people, who had loved her buoyant spirit and winning personality, begged her inexorable father to forgive her. “I wish you all had[Pg 191] such daughters and such wives,” was his only reply. She died shortly after her father, to lie, unsung and forgotten, far from her kindred in an unknown grave. Not a word is left to tell us the details of that long tragedy. Her daughter Julia inherited her vices and suffered a like fate.

In this society, Julia was the center, the life, and the inspiration. The days were gone when her strict father would put a man of noble lineage in his place for daring to speak to her in the beautiful coastal city. The complacent husband, caught up in his work, probably thought it was best to let her do as she pleased, but he died perhaps unaware. Once again, the still young widow was married for the sake of the State and Livia—to Livia’s son. The moody, brooding student was just as far from capturing the heart of the graceful woman, who was full of joy for life and high on a sense of unrestrained power. Livia may have had her flaws, but she was above the degradation of the senses. In Julia, the qualities of a Roman matron seemed to have vanished. When her actions came to the attention of her unyielding father, he felt as bitter as he had been tender. Her maid took her own life, and Augustus simply said, “I would rather be the father of Phœbe than of Julia.” Some of the young men involved with her were exiled, while others removed themselves from a world that was no longer viable for them. Among the latter was the charming, intelligent, but morally lax son of Antony, who had been carefully raised by Octavia and taken under the emperor’s wing, only to repay their kindness by causing them both the deepest pain. But Julia, the beautiful, captivating, and adored queen of society, was banished from all her pleasures, her luxuries, her lively friends, and her unmatched status, to suffer for fifteen years in a bleak exile, with only her mother to share the bare essentials of a miserable existence. No wine, no luxury, no fine clothes, no male servants without strict restrictions and oversight. A rocky home, the sea and sky as her companions, and not even hope for comfort. And she was barely over thirty-five! At one point, she was moved to a stronghold in Calabria, under tighter security and with no added comforts, but slightly less harshness. Many times, the Roman people, who had loved her vibrant spirit and winning personality, pleaded with her unyielding father to forgive her. “I wish you all had such daughters and such wives,” was his only response. She died shortly after her father, to lie, unsung and forgotten, far from her family in an unmarked grave. Not a word remains to reveal the details of that long tragedy. Her daughter Julia inherited her flaws and suffered a similar fate.

IV

It is needless to recall here the notorious women who followed in the footsteps of Julia, and added to all her sins a cruelty which she had not. The world is familiar enough with the crimes of Messalina, the second Agrippina, Poppæa, and others whose names have become a by-word and a reproach to womanhood. Men, and sometimes women, gravely tell us that these moral monsters are a measure of Roman standards, and a logical result of the culture of the feminine intellect. That two things exist at the same time does not prove that one is the result of the other. The facts in this case, indeed, prove quite the contrary. It would be idle to say that the weaker half of the human family hold a monopoly of the virtues, or that it is in the nature of things for them to pass unscathed through the fiery ordeal of a corrupt age whose supreme end lies in pleasures of sense. But even in Rome at its worst there was a great deal of pure family life, and its conservation rested with women. I have[Pg 192] quoted elsewhere from the private letters of distinguished Romans who have given us pleasant glimpses of refined, accomplished, and learned women, as free from the taint of moral laxity as our own; and this when men made no claims to morality themselves. To the great body of Roman women a spotless virtue was among their most cherished traditions. So far from finding their increased intelligence a cause of the decline in morals, it is a fact that those of the highest character and ability constantly suffered indignity and wrong, because their presence was a restraint upon their unscrupulous masters. Long domination had fostered the egotism of men to such an extent that they could not brook opposition of any sort, and it was the ignorant and flexible who bent the most easily to their will, even when it led them to the last extreme of moral subservience. Only a fearless courage and a strong conviction could venture to take high ground against the fashionable sins of men in power. It is always more or less true that when a dominant class lowers its moral standards, it likes to ostracize those who even tacitly reflect upon it.

It’s unnecessary to mention the infamous women who followed in Julia’s footsteps and added a cruelty that she didn’t possess. The world is well aware of the crimes of Messalina, the second Agrippina, Poppæa, and others whose names have become synonymous with disgrace for all women. Men, and sometimes women, seriously argue that these moral monsters reflect Roman standards and are a natural outcome of the cultivation of feminine intellect. The existence of two things doesn’t prove that one caused the other. In fact, the evidence suggests just the opposite. It would be foolish to claim that the weaker half of humanity has a monopoly on virtues or that it's in their nature to emerge unscathed from the corruption of an age obsessed with physical pleasures. Yet even in the worst days of Rome, there was a significant amount of genuine family life, and its preservation depended on women. I have[Pg 192] cited elsewhere private letters from notable Romans that provide us with glimpses of cultured, skilled, and intelligent women who were just as untainted by moral laxity as our modern counterparts, even when the men themselves made no claims to morality. For a large number of Roman women, personal integrity was one of their most valued traditions. Rather than viewing their increased intelligence as a reason for moral decline, it’s a fact that women of the highest character and capability often faced indignities and injustices because their very presence restrained their unscrupulous masters. Long-standing dominance had inflated men's egos to the point where they could not tolerate any opposition, and it was the ignorant and pliable who bent most easily to their will, even when that meant surrendering their morals entirely. Only those with fearless courage and strong convictions could dare to challenge the prevailing sins of the powerful men. It’s often true that when a dominant group lowers its moral standards, it prefers to push away those who even indirectly call it into question.

Examples of this in Roman life are so numerous that two thousand years have not sufficed to hide them all. Of women in high places who suffered death or banishment for their virtues, the list is a long one. Caligula decreed the same honors to his grandmother, the pure and high-minded Antonia,[Pg 193] which had been given to Livia. But when this dignified matron, worthy daughter of the gentle Octavia, presumed to reprove him for his vices, he starved her to death. Vitellius banished his mother, Sextilia, a woman of admirable character, because she wept at his elevation to the throne. This was a reproach which he could not brook, and, failing to break her heart by his cruelties, he took her life, or made it so intolerable that she was forced to end it herself. It was impossible for a good woman to stay in the palace, and the Empress Galeria begged permission to retire to a modest dwelling on the Aventine. Domitian ordered a vestal, charged with scandalous acts which were denied and not proved, to be buried alive; but he consistently marked virtue for persecution, hesitated at no crime, and declared a woman to be “a natural slave, with man for her divinely appointed master.” Carrying this to its logical conclusion, he made the Palatine unsafe for any woman. That the great heart of Roman womanhood was on the side of loyalty and virtue, and looked upon conjugal infidelity as a sin to be frowned upon even in men, is shown by their attitude toward Nero when he sent away his young, lovely, and innocent wife, Octavia, to marry the most dissolute woman of the time. Many men remonstrated, and women rose in a body to demand her return. For the moment he thought it best to yield to the popular clamor, but he soon invented a[Pg 194] pretext to send her to the long silence from which there is no return. Yet she was beautiful, of cloudless fame, and had lived hardly twenty years! Roman history is full of instances of moral heroism on the part of women, that had no counterpart among men, and of feminine virtue held at the expense of life. Servilia, the youthful daughter of Soranus, took upon herself a fault for which it was sought to compass her father’s death, and not being able to save him, died with him. Women in great numbers retired in sad dignity from a society whose current of vice they were powerless to change. A stately and pathetic figure is Pomponia Græcina, who wore mourning for forty years, and never smiled after her friend Julia, the daughter of Drusus, was murdered by Messalina. It was a pitiless world in which neither virtue nor life was safe, but it had its heroines, and they were not few.

Examples of this in Roman life are so numerous that two thousand years haven’t been enough to hide them all. The list of women in prominent positions who faced death or exile for their virtues is extensive. Caligula granted the same honors to his grandmother, the virtuous and noble Antonia,[Pg 193] that had been awarded to Livia. However, when this dignified matron, the worthy daughter of the gentle Octavia, dared to chastise him for his vices, he starved her to death. Vitellius banished his mother, Sextilia, a woman of admirable character, simply because she wept at his rise to power. This was a reproach he couldn’t tolerate, and after failing to break her spirit with his cruelty, he took her life or made her existence so unbearable that she chose to end it herself. It was impossible for a good woman to remain in the palace, and Empress Galeria pleaded for permission to retire to a modest home on the Aventine. Domitian ordered a vestal virgin, charged with scandalous acts that were denied and unproven, to be buried alive; yet he consistently targeted virtuous women for persecution, showed no hesitation in committing crimes, and declared that a woman was “a natural slave, with man as her divinely appointed master.” Taking this to its logical conclusion, he made the Palatine unsafe for any woman. The great heart of Roman womanhood was on the side of loyalty and virtue, viewing marital infidelity as a sin to be condemned even in men, as demonstrated by their reaction when Nero sent away his young, beautiful, and innocent wife, Octavia, to marry the most dissolute woman of the time. Many men protested, and women collectively demanded her return. For a moment, he thought it best to yield to the public outcry, but he soon concocted a[Pg 194] pretext to send her to the long silence from which there is no return. Yet she was beautiful, of impeccable reputation, and had barely lived twenty years! Roman history is full of examples of moral heroism by women that had no counterpart among men, and of feminine virtue that was often sacrificed at the cost of life. Servilia, the young daughter of Soranus, took on a blame intended to lead to her father’s death, and unable to save him, died alongside him. Countless women withdrew in sorrowful dignity from a society whose tide of vice they were powerless to change. A striking and tragic figure is Pomponia Græcina, who mourned for forty years and never smiled after her friend Julia, the daughter of Drusus, was murdered by Messalina. It was a ruthless world in which neither virtue nor life was safe, but it had its heroines, and they were not few.

Nor can the number of divorces be placed to the account of women. When a Julius Cæsar takes his tenderly loved daughter from her husband and marries her to another man in the interest of his own ambitions; when an Augustus makes laws against immorality, yet divorces an innocent wife who objects to his own infidelities, and puts in her place a beautiful woman of unsullied fame, whom he has taken from a worthy man; when both of these rulers of the world compel good citizens to divorce the consorts they possibly love, in order to dispose of one[Pg 195] or the other for personal ends or the good of the State—it is hardly worth while to hold helpless women responsible for conditions made and enforced by men in power, who are called wise and think themselves passably good. The most that can be said is that women of knowledge and character are less likely to bear wrong and abuse silently, but they are more likely to uphold the dignity of the family and to ignore the petty vanities and jealousies which are among the most prolific causes of divorce. A cultivated intellect does not necessarily imply good morals, but, other things being equal, an educated woman is less easily led into wrong, as she has more resources and is better fitted to stand on her own feet; unfortunately, this is precisely what her critics in the past have not wished her to do.

The number of divorces can't be blamed solely on women. When a Julius Caesar takes his beloved daughter away from her husband to marry her off to someone else for his own ambitions; when an Augustus makes laws against immorality but divorces an innocent wife who calls him out on his infidelities to replace her with a beautiful woman of good reputation who he has taken from a deserving man; when these leaders force good citizens to divorce the partners they may love for their own personal reasons or for the supposed good of the state—it hardly seems fair to hold powerless women accountable for situations created and enforced by powerful men who are considered wise and think of themselves as good. The most that can be said is that knowledgeable and principled women are less likely to endure mistreatment and abuse in silence, but they are more likely to uphold family dignity and ignore the petty vanities and jealousies that often lead to divorce. A cultured mind doesn’t necessarily guarantee good morals, but, all else being equal, an educated woman is less easily manipulated, as she has more resources and is better equipped to stand independently; unfortunately, this is exactly what her critics in the past have wanted to prevent.

With so many conspicuous examples in high places, it is hardly strange that divorces became deplorably common. “Does anybody blush at a divorce,” says one, “since illustrious and noble women compute their years, not by the number of consuls, but by the number of husbands they have had?” We hear of a woman who was the twenty-first wife of her twenty-third husband. The pretexts were often slight. It was said of Mæcenas that he had been divorced a thousand times, though he had but one wife, as he loved her and always married her over again. The woman who had been but once married was honored as a univira. She[Pg 196] was too often, however, like a goddess worshiped from afar by men who found both interest and pleasure in the number of their wives. Much of the trouble was due to the fortune-hunters, who did not scruple to use any means to get rid of a wife and retain her dowry, at the expense of her fair name. Even good women were so wholly at the mercy of false charges that Antoninus made a law that no man could bring suit against his wife for immorality unless he could prove his own fidelity. We know that wise and virtuous women were often forced to seclude themselves from the aggressions of wicked men against whose machinations they were unable to find protection.

With so many obvious examples in high places, it’s not surprising that divorces became distressingly common. “Does anyone feel embarrassed about a divorce?” one person asks, “since prominent and noble women count their years not by the number of consuls, but by the number of husbands they've had?” There's a story of a woman who was the twenty-first wife of her twenty-third husband. The reasons for divorce were often trivial. It was said of Mæcenas that he had been divorced a thousand times, even though he had only one wife, as he loved her and kept marrying her again. A woman who had been married just once was honored as a univira. However, she was often like a goddess worshiped from afar by men who took both interest and pleasure in the number of their wives. Much of the issue stemmed from fortune-seekers who didn't hesitate to use any means necessary to get rid of a wife while keeping her dowry, even at the cost of her reputation. Even decent women were completely vulnerable to false accusations, prompting Antoninus to create a law stating that no man could sue his wife for infidelity unless he could prove his own faithfulness. We know that wise and virtuous women often had to isolate themselves from the attacks of wicked men whose schemes they couldn't find protection against.

There was one law, however, which might be considered to advantage by some of our own legislators. It had been decreed that no one should marry sooner than six months after a divorce. Augustus extended the time to eighteen months. We talk much and with a fine consciousness of superior virtue about the chaotic state of Roman marriages. What will our fortieth-century moralist who reads present history, as photographed from day to day in the blazing journals, say of the decadence of a civilization in which people may marry two hours after divorce, or find themselves some fine morning released from their marriage bonds without knowing it? And we are an eminently moral people.

There was one law, however, that some of our lawmakers might find beneficial. It had been established that no one could remarry for at least six months after a divorce. Augustus extended that period to eighteen months. We often discuss, with a strong sense of superiority, the messy state of Roman marriages. What will our 40th-century moralist think when they read today’s history, as captured daily in the sensational news? How will they view the decline of a society where people can remarry just two hours after a divorce or suddenly discover they are no longer bound by marriage without even realizing it? And we consider ourselves a highly moral society.

On the influence of the Roman women let the[Pg 197] Romans speak for themselves. It was proposed in the Senate that men should not be permitted to take their wives into the provinces, as they had too much power with the soldiers, interfered in settling business affairs, and made another center of government—indeed, they sometimes “presided at the drill of cohorts and the evolutions of the legions,” besides dividing the homage. The majority of the senators objected to this bill, and pronounced its author “no fit censor.” An able and eloquent man, in reply to it, said that “much of the sternness of antiquity had been changed into a better and more genial system.” A few concessions had been made to the wants of women, but “in other respects man and wife share alike.” There might be some scheming women, but were the magistrates free from various unworthy passions, and was this a reason why none should be sent to the provinces? If husbands were sometimes corrupted by their wives, were single men any better? “It is idle to shelter our own weakness under other names; for it is the husband’s fault if the wife transgresses propriety.” This wise orator was sustained by eminent men who gave their own fortunate experiences, and the bill was lost. Such a tribute to the helpfulness and strong character of the Roman woman may be commended to a few of our enlightened thinkers who, curiously enough, use the low standards of men who never pretended to be moral, and the frailties of dependent women who[Pg 198] were not permitted to be so, or of a class that has always appealed to the weaknesses of men since the beginning of the world, to prove the degeneracy of society under the influence of feminine intelligence! It was never the woman of strong intellectual fiber and serious interests that Rome had to fear. It was another class, that did not, in any sense, represent her either in intelligence or character.

On the influence of Roman women, let the[Pg 197] Romans speak for themselves. The Senate proposed that men shouldn’t be allowed to take their wives to the provinces, as they held too much power over the soldiers, interfered with business decisions, and created another center of government. In fact, they sometimes “oversaw the drill of cohorts and the maneuvers of the legions,” in addition to dividing the admiration of the troops. Most senators opposed this proposal and labeled its author “not a suitable censor.” An articulate and skilled speaker responded, noting that “much of the harshness of the past has transformed into a better and kinder system.” A few adjustments had been made to accommodate women's needs, but “in other respects, husband and wife share equally.” While there may be some scheming women, were the magistrates free from their own flaws? Should this be a reason to deny any women the right to go to the provinces? If husbands were sometimes led astray by their wives, were single men any better? “It is pointless to hide our own weaknesses under different names; it falls on the husband if the wife behaves improperly.” This wise speaker was supported by notable individuals who shared their own successful experiences, and the bill failed. Such a tribute to the supportiveness and strong character of Roman women may be noted by some of our enlightened thinkers who, curiously, use the low standards of men who never claimed to be moral, and the weaknesses of dependent women who[Pg 198] were not allowed to be, or of a class that has always exploited men’s weaknesses since the dawn of time, to argue that society has declined under the influence of women's intelligence! It was never the strong, intellectually capable woman with serious interests that Rome needed to fear. It was a different group that did not represent her at all in terms of intellect or character.

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The wicked side of the Roman woman—and this was sometimes very wicked indeed—has been sufficiently emphasized. It is more agreeable and perhaps more profitable to consider her better side. Her talent was essentially administrative, and we find many illustrations of it among those who were conspicuous in public life. There were strong and wise women who had great power; as a rule, it was held wisely. Many of them, indeed most of them, brought moral questions to bear upon State problems, with a keen discriminating insight into conditions that troubled the hearts of wise men. Their number was small, as no woman below the rank of an empress was eligible to the smallest position of influence, aside from the religious offices, which were largely perfunctory; but it was sufficient to show a quality of womanhood that was not only strong, but intrinsically fine and noble.

The darker side of the Roman woman—and it was sometimes really dark—has been talked about enough. It’s more pleasant and maybe more worthwhile to focus on her better qualities. Her skills were mainly in administration, and we see many examples of this among those who stood out in public life. There were strong and wise women with significant power, and they generally used it wisely. Many of them, in fact most, applied moral considerations to state issues, with a sharp understanding of the problems that weighed on the minds of wise men. Their numbers were few, as no woman below the rank of an empress could hold even a minor position of influence, except for religious roles, which were mostly just ceremonial; but this was enough to demonstrate a quality of womanhood that was not only strong but also inherently admirable and noble.

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Of these, as we have seen, the most striking representative was Livia. Among those who followed more or less in her footsteps was Plotina, the able and accomplished wife of Trajan. Trained in the philosophy of the Stoics, her head was turned neither by prosperity nor misfortune. She entered the palace, on her husband’s elevation to the throne, with serene dignity, and said that she could leave it with equal calmness. With less ambition than the first empress, she had a finer moral sense, also the gravity and firmness of a matron of the old school. She loved truth and justice better than the pageantry of courts, and ignored the claims of an artificial society. A woman of brilliant intellect, noble character, and exalted aims, she led a simple life in the midst of luxury, and used her power not only to raise the tone of morals and to foster a taste for letters, but to expose political corruptions, suppress abuses, diminish unjust taxes, and promote financial reforms. It was through her influence that Hadrian was adopted, a favor which he recognized by extending her authority in his reign, and writing hymns in her praise. The trace of asceticism in her character and manners did not please the idlers who liked to bask in the sunshine of a gay and luxurious court. She was censured and talked about, with little enough reason as it seems, as no records have left a shadow on her reputation. Her fault, in the eyes of bad men, lay in her moral force. To frown upon[Pg 200] vice, to oppose corruption in high places, was an unwarranted interference with their natural rights. But good men sustained her. At her death she was placed in the ranks of the gods and honored with a temple dedicated to the “Mother of the People.”

Of the individuals we discussed, the most notable was Livia. Following in her footsteps was Plotina, the capable and talented wife of Trajan. Educated in Stoic philosophy, she wasn’t swayed by wealth or hardship. When her husband became emperor, she entered the palace with composed dignity and stated that she could leave with the same calmness. Unlike the first empress, she had less ambition but a greater sense of morality, along with the seriousness and strength of a traditional matron. She valued truth and justice more than royal extravagance and dismissed the demands of a superficial society. A woman of sharp intellect, noble character, and high aspirations, she lived simply amidst luxury and used her influence not only to elevate moral standards and encourage literary pursuits but also to expose political corruption, eliminate abuses, reduce unfair taxes, and promote financial reforms. It was through her influence that Hadrian was adopted, a gesture he acknowledged by enhancing her authority during his reign and composing hymns in her honor. Her ascetic nature did not appeal to those who enjoyed the frivolity of a lavish court. She was criticized and gossip surrounded her, seemingly without justification, as no records tarnish her reputation. Her perceived fault, in the eyes of corrupt men, was her moral strength. To disapprove of wrongdoing and challenge corruption at high levels was considered an unwelcome intrusion on their perceived rights. However, good individuals supported her. Upon her death, she was revered among the gods and honored with a temple dedicated to the “Mother of the People.”

A more conspicuous example of the ability of the women who figured in the public life of Rome is found in Julia Domna, the Syrian wife of Septimius Severus, who is said to have owed his success to her wise counsels. She was not simply an ambitious woman who schemed for place and power. To a genius for diplomacy she added the fascinations of beauty, wit, and imagination. She had a knowledge of history, philosophy, geometry, and the sciences of her time, was a patron of art, and made her court a center of all that was left of literature and culture in an age of decadence. Her husband evidently did not object to a learned woman, as he had a special admiration for Arria “because she read Plato.” Then this clever wife—who was called “Julia the philosopher,” surrounded herself with savants, and loved to discuss great subjects—put her versatile intellect to his service and advancement. Her youth was not free from rumors of follies, but no woman of note escaped these, even if she were pure as Diana. Her father was a “priest of the Sun,” and she was always a student, with a tendency toward Oriental mysticism. She ruled wisely and made the fortune of her family. In her last years she[Pg 201] sought refuge from many sorrows in the resources of her intellect, but these failed to bring her happiness. The wicked Caracalla, who did not profit by his mother’s wisdom, killed his brother in her arms, and finally broke her heart.

A more prominent example of the capability of the women involved in the public life of Rome is Julia Domna, the Syrian wife of Septimius Severus, who is said to have contributed to his success through her wise advice. She was not just an ambitious woman looking for status and power. Alongside her talent for diplomacy, she possessed beauty, wit, and imagination. She had a grasp of history, philosophy, geometry, and the sciences of her time, supported the arts, and turned her court into a hub for all that remained of literature and culture during an age of decline. Her husband clearly appreciated a learned woman, as he had a particular admiration for Arria “because she read Plato.” This intelligent wife—known as “Julia the philosopher”—surrounded herself with scholars and enjoyed discussing significant topics, using her versatile intellect to support his goals and advancement. Though her youth was not without rumors of misdeeds, no notable woman was spared from such gossip, even if she was as chaste as Diana. Her father was a “priest of the Sun,” and she was always a student, leaning towards Eastern mysticism. She ruled wisely and enhanced her family's fortune. In her final years, she sought solace from her many sorrows through her intellect, but it failed to bring her happiness. The wicked Caracalla, who did not learn from his mother’s wisdom, killed his brother in her presence and ultimately broke her heart.

Her sister, Julia Mæsa, shared her abilities, and, with the aid of her daughters, secured the throne for her grandson. She was no doubt ambitious, but was known as wise, just, and moderate. This family, which ruled Rome for many years, was a remarkable one, but its credit was sustained mainly by its women. One of the daughters of Julia Mæsa was Soæmias, who was the first woman to take her place in the Senate and attach her name to legislative decrees. She also presided over the Little Senate, a sort of “woman’s club,” which regulated morals, dress, etiquette, and other matters pertaining to her sex. It was accused of gossip and scandal; but as this accusation has been made against every association of women, from the coterie of Sappho to the modern sewing-society and the last luncheon club, it cannot be taken too seriously. Let the man who lounges about the clubs of to-day,—as his Greek and Roman predecessors did about the porticos, gymnasia, or baths,—and has never heard or repeated any gossip of his fellow-men and -women, throw the first stone.

Her sister, Julia Mæsa, had similar abilities and, with the help of her daughters, secured the throne for her grandson. She was undoubtedly ambitious, but she was also known for being wise, fair, and balanced. This family, which ruled Rome for many years, was remarkable, but its strength was largely supported by its women. One of Julia Mæsa’s daughters was Soæmias, who became the first woman to take her seat in the Senate and put her name on legislative decrees. She also led the Little Senate, a sort of “women’s club,” which oversaw morals, fashion, etiquette, and other issues related to women. It was often accused of gossip and scandal; however, since this accusation has been made against every group of women, from Sappho's circle to modern sewing societies and the latest lunch clubs, it shouldn’t be taken too seriously. Let the man who hangs out in today’s clubs—just as his Greek and Roman counterparts did in the porticos, gymnasia, or baths—and has never heard or shared gossip about his fellow men and women, cast the first stone.

But Soæmias had a bad son, the Heliogabulus of infamous note, whom she could not save or reform,[Pg 202] and she was wise enough to pave the way for the succession of her sister’s more reputable one, after his death. This sister, Mamæa, was virtually regent during the minority of Alexander Severus, whose purity of character and conduct she guarded with the greatest care. She tried to apply the moral ideals of womanhood to the men of the period, and found the task a difficult and thankless one. Without assuming the trappings of power, she administered the affairs of the empire with wisdom and judgment. An able, humane, and thoughtful woman of conservative tendencies and limited ambition for herself, she declined to sit in the Senate, but chose a body of just and learned counselors to decide upon public questions, while she discussed Christianity with her friend Origen, founded a school for the free education of orphans, gave her son a serious training for his future responsibilities, and worked for the moral betterment of a world that did not wish to be bettered in that way. Her standards were too high, and she reformed too much for people who found license and corruption more to their interest and liking. The Senate was jealous of her wise and just counselors, who could not be used as tools for unscrupulous ends. Impatient, at last, of their interference, and incensed at a woman who wished a moral government, it passed a law excluding women from its ranks and “devoting to the infernal gods the head of the wretch by whom this decree should be violated.” With singular[Pg 203] consistency, however, it voted her an apotheosis after ridding itself of the restraining influence of her virtues by practically sending her to a violent death.

But Soæmias had a problematic son, the infamous Heliogabulus, whom she couldn't save or change,[Pg 202] and she wisely set the stage for the succession of her sister's more respectable son after his death. This sister, Mamæa, essentially acted as regent during the minority of Alexander Severus, safeguarding his pure character and conduct with great diligence. She attempted to apply the moral ideals of womanhood to the men of her time, but found it to be a challenging and thankless task. Without taking on the formal symbols of power, she managed the empire's affairs with wisdom and judgment. An able, compassionate, and thoughtful woman with conservative views and limited personal ambition, she chose not to sit in the Senate but instead selected a group of just and knowledgeable advisors to address public matters, while she engaged in discussions about Christianity with her friend Origen, established a school for the free education of orphans, prepared her son seriously for his future duties, and worked towards the moral improvement of a world that didn’t want to be improved in that way. Her standards were too high, and she aimed for too much reform for people who preferred freedom and corruption. The Senate grew jealous of her wise and fair counselors, who couldn’t be used as tools for unscrupulous purposes. Eventually, fed up with their interference and angry at a woman wishing for moral governance, it enacted a law banning women from its ranks and “dedicating to the infernal gods the head of the wretch who violated this decree.” However, with remarkable[Pg 203] consistency, it voted her an apotheosis after freeing itself from the restraint of her virtues by effectively sending her to a violent death.

VI

These few instances, gathered from many that are more or less familiar to the student of history, may serve to show in some degree the influence of strong and able women in the affairs of Old Rome. They show, also, the intellectual as well as moral force of the best type of pagan womanhood, which was formed after classic ideals of an heroic pattern.

These few examples, taken from many that are either well-known or somewhat familiar to history students, may help illustrate the impact of strong and capable women in the affairs of Ancient Rome. They also demonstrate the intellectual and moral strength of the finest kind of pagan womanhood, which was shaped by classic ideals of heroism.

There were still women of learning and distinction when the old standards had fallen and society was sunk in the grossest materialism. The last and greatest of these was an alien. It was at Tivoli, in the shadow of the Sabine Hills, that Zenobia, a captive, and alone with her children among the ruins of her past grandeur, solaced herself with letters and philosophy. Her teacher, minister, counselor, and friend, Longinus, had paid the penalty of his devotion with his life, and the world was poorer by the loss of one of its immortal thinkers. But he left an apt pupil in a woman who had treasured his wisdom and profited by his marvelous knowledge. An Amazon in war, empress, linguist, Platonist, with the grasp of a statesman and the insight of a seer, this gifted, eloquent, and versatile woman of flashing dark eyes, winning manners, and Oriental[Pg 204] beauty, who graced a triumph like a goddess and met misfortune like a philosopher, is a shining example of the dignity and greatness of a type that was passing. “Who has ever shown more prudence in council, more firmness in her undertakings, more authority over her soldiers, more discernment in her conduct?” said her arch-enemy Aurelian, who bowed to her talents, felt her fascinations, but made a spectacle of her sorrow and humiliation to add a jewel to his crown.

There were still educated and distinguished women even when the old standards had disappeared and society had sunk into the worst materialism. The last and greatest of these was a foreigner. It was in Tivoli, under the Sabine Hills, that Zenobia, a captive, found solace in letters and philosophy while alone with her children amidst the ruins of her former greatness. Her teacher, mentor, counselor, and friend, Longinus, had paid the ultimate price for his dedication with his life, leaving the world poorer for the loss of one of its immortal thinkers. However, he left behind a capable student in a woman who cherished his wisdom and benefited from his incredible knowledge. An Amazon in battle, empress, linguist, Platonist, with the mindset of a statesman and the insight of a seer, this talented, eloquent, and versatile woman with striking dark eyes, charming manners, and exotic beauty, who adorned a triumph like a goddess and faced misfortune with the composure of a philosopher, stands as a brilliant example of the dignity and greatness of a fading type. “Who has ever displayed more prudence in counsel, more determination in her endeavors, more authority over her soldiers, or more discernment in her actions?” said her arch-enemy Aurelian, who acknowledged her talents, was captivated by her charm, but showcased her suffering and humiliation to add another jewel to his crown.[Pg 204]

It is idle to depreciate the qualities of the pagan women. Under all their disabilities, which were many, those whose position gave them a certain freedom of movement often attained great heights through their gifts of character and intellect. There were great wives, great mothers, great administrators, great rulers, great writers among the more sensitive races, and great women, which means a symmetry of mind, heart, and intellect in large proportions. But the ages in which they lived were masculine ones—masculine in their cruelties and their vices, as well as in their force and their theories of virtue. Women did not escape the contagion, and when they plunged into abysses of corruption, it was with the abandon of a passionate temperament. Still, it was the voices of those who were too strong and too intelligent to be blindly led that were first raised in a moral protest, the echo of which has not yet died away.

It's pointless to downgrade the qualities of pagan women. Despite their many limitations, those who had a degree of freedom often achieved remarkable heights thanks to their character and intelligence. There were amazing wives, mothers, administrators, rulers, and writers among the more sensitive cultures, symbolizing a balance of mind, heart, and intellect in significant measure. However, the eras they lived in were dominated by men—men who exhibited cruelty and vice, as well as strength and their own concepts of virtue. Women were not immune to this influence, and when they fell into deep corruption, they did so with the fervor of intense emotions. Still, it was the voices of those who were too strong and intelligent to be blindly followed that first spoke up in moral protest, an echo that hasn't faded away.

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MARCELLA, PAULA, AND THE FIRST CONVENT

· Woman’s Need of a Faith ·
· Rome in its Decadence ·
· The Reaction of Roman Women ·
· Marcella · The Church of the Household ·
· Asella · Fabiola · Paula ·
· Eustochium · Blæsilla · St. Jerome · Melania ·
· The Convent at Bethlehem ·
· Translation of the Latin Vulgate ·
· Hebrew Studies · Death of Paula ·
· Tragical Fate of Marcella ·
· Revolution in Roman Society ·
· Spread of Convents · Christian Ideals ·
· Value of Able Women in the Early Church ·
· St. Chrysostom · Olympias ·
· Intellectual Decline of Women in the Dark Ages ·
· Influence of the Renaissance ·
· Condition Tempered by Chivalry ·
· Elevated by the Renaissance ·

· A Woman's Need for Faith ·
· Rome in Its Decline ·
· The Response of Roman Women ·
· Marcella · The Church at Home ·
· Asella · Fabiola · Paula ·
· Eustochium · Blæsilla · St. Jerome · Melania ·
· The Nunnery in Bethlehem ·
· Translation of the Latin Vulgate ·
· Hebrew Studies · Death of Paula ·
· The Tragic Fate of Marcella ·
· Change in Roman Society ·
· Growth of Convents · Christian Values ·
· Importance of Capable Women in the Early Church ·
· St. Chrysostom · Olympias ·
· Decline of Women's Intellectual Status in the Dark Ages ·
· Impact of the Renaissance ·
· Condition Influenced by Chivalry ·
· Uplifted by the Renaissance ·


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I

“The majority of men, and especially of women, whose imagination is double, cannot live without a faith,” said the Abbé Galiani, “and those who can, sustain the effort only in the greatest force and youth of the soul.” How far this may be true it is needless to discuss here, but it is certain enough that women have been the strongest agents in the religious movements of the world. A tender heart may go with a skeptical mind, but the fine type of womanhood, in which reason is tempered with love and imagination, inevitably turns to some faith for support in seasons of moral decadence as in moments of sorrow and despair. This has never had a more striking illustration than in the reaction of a large class of Roman[Pg 208] women from the vices, follies, and debasing pleasures of a civilization falling into ruin, toward an extreme asceticism. At this moment in its history the golden age of Rome was long past, and the world was to wait more than a thousand years for another brilliant flowering of the human intellect on the same soil. But glory of a different sort set its seal upon the women of the darkening ages. To the enthusiasms of patriotism and passion, culture and ambition, succeeded the enthusiasms of religion.

“The majority of men, and especially women, whose imagination is dual, cannot live without some kind of faith,” said Abbé Galiani, “and those who can manage it do so only during the peak strength and youth of their spirit.” How true this may be isn’t necessary to debate here, but it’s clear that women have played a vital role in the religious movements of the world. A compassionate heart can coexist with a skeptical mind, but the ideal type of womanhood, where reason meets love and imagination, inevitably seeks some sort of faith for support during times of moral decline as well as in moments of sorrow and despair. This has never been more vividly illustrated than in the reaction of a significant number of Roman[Pg 208] women against the vices, foolishness, and degrading pleasures of a decaying civilization, leaning instead towards extreme asceticism. At this point in history, Rome’s golden age was long gone, and the world would have to wait over a thousand years for another brilliant revival of human intellect on that same land. However, glory of a different kind marked the women of the dark ages. The excitement of patriotism and passion, culture and ambition, gave way to the fervor of religion.

In the fourth century the images of the pagan gods, white and silent on their stone pedestals, still kept guard over the city. Their temples were comparatively fresh, but the gods themselves were dead. The seventy thousand statues that made Rome a forest of marbles in the days of its glory had not lost their majesty, their beauty, or their grace; but the spirit which had made them alive had gone with their virgin purity. Pan held his flute as of old, but it was mute. Bacchus still wore his vine-leaves and his air of rollicking mirth, but the bands of roistering men who had once paid him homage no longer cared for a god to preside over their plain worship of the senses. Venus had taken off her divine halo and gone back to the foam of the sea whence she came, leaving only the smiling face of a beautiful woman. The Muses had ceased to dance to the lyre of Apollo, and the god of light was asleep like the rest. Men and women had[Pg 209] thrown aside the thin veil of idealism with which they had once invested their sins, and Rome was become a sink of iniquity without even the leaven of the Hellenic imagination. Between a life of the senses and a life of the intellect, it gravitated from a wild orgy to a passionless philosophy that held its own pulse and counted its own heart-beats as it drifted curiously and mockingly into the unknown.

In the fourth century, the images of the pagan gods, white and silent on their stone pedestals, still watched over the city. Their temples were relatively new, but the gods themselves were gone. The seventy thousand statues that turned Rome into a forest of marble during its glory days hadn't lost their majesty, beauty, or grace; however, the spirit that had made them come alive had vanished along with their original purity. Pan held his flute as before, but it was silent. Bacchus still wore his vine leaves and had an air of carefree joy, but the wild partygoers who once honored him no longer needed a god to oversee their straightforward indulgence. Venus had removed her divine halo and returned to the sea foam from which she arose, leaving behind just the smiling face of a beautiful woman. The Muses had stopped dancing to Apollo's lyre, and the god of light was asleep like the rest. Men and women had discarded the thin veil of idealism they once wrapped around their sins, and Rome had become a haven of vice without even a hint of the Hellenic imagination. Caught between a life of the senses and a life of the intellect, it swung from wild revelry to a cold philosophy that monitored its own pulse and counted its own heartbeats as it drifted skeptically into the unknown.

But women do not carry easily the burden of a cold skepticism, and philosophy failed to satisfy them. When the age became hopelessly corrupt, and men scoffed at morals, sending one another to death for inconvenient virtues, they had been swept along with the current, and many plunged into a life of the senses with the recklessness of an ardent, virile temperament. But there was still a large number of intelligent matrons who preserved the waning traditions of an educated womanhood, and these revolted at the hopeless vacuum of a life devoted to intrigue and the tiresome mysteries of the toilet. The jewels, silks, and embroidered gauzes of fabulous cost had no more charm for them. Nor did they care to please the curled and perfumed sybarites who gambled or discussed the last bit of scandal in their pillared halls, fanned by slaves, and crying out at the crumple of a rose-leaf. The Roman women had been distinguished for the stronger qualities of character. Their bounding energies had been shown in deeds of[Pg 210] heroism. They had to a large degree the ardors of the imagination. These traits, together with the moral sense that lies at the base of the feminine nature, though often submerged for a time, vindicated themselves in the passionate devotion with which so many turned from a beautiful but bad world toward things of the spirit.

But women don’t easily take on the weight of cold skepticism, and philosophy didn’t meet their needs. When society became utterly corrupt, and men mocked morals, sending one another to death over inconvenient virtues, women were swept along with the current, and many dove headfirst into a life of pleasure with the recklessness of a passionate, masculine spirit. However, there were still many insightful women who held onto the fading traditions of educated womanhood, and they revolted against the empty life filled with intrigue and the tedious mysteries of fashion. The jewels, silks, and expensive embroidered fabrics lost their appeal for them. They weren’t interested in pleasing the well-groomed and perfumed elites who gambled or gossiped about the latest scandals in their grand halls, attended by slaves, and fussed over the crinkle of a rose petal. Roman women had always been known for their stronger character traits. Their boundless energy had shown in heroic acts. They possessed a great deal of imagination. These qualities, along with the moral sensibility that forms the foundation of femininity, although sometimes buried for a while, emerged in the passionate commitment with which many turned away from a beautiful but corrupt world toward spiritual matters.

They had already been captivated in numbers by the mystic cults of the Orient. Out of the East, whence came the pagan gods as well as the luxury and sensualism which had sapped the moral life of Rome, came also the “still small voice” of a new faith, with unfamiliar messages of hope and consolation. It had been singing its hymns for nearly three hundred years in that great under-world, of which little note had been taken, except in periodical outbursts of persecution. In the vast network of dark passages and lighted cells which lay far from the light of the sun; beneath the shining temples and statues of the gods they were undermining; beneath the groves, and gardens, and fountains, and palaces in which vice reigned and idle voluptuaries were inventing new refinements of sin to spur their jaded senses—the disciples of a lowly faith which trampled upon all that these Epicureans loved, making a sin of pleasure and a joy of suffering, had met to offer incense at strange altars. It was women, with their natural tendency toward a personal devotion and a self-sacrifice strengthened[Pg 211] perhaps by the forced self-effacement of centuries, who embraced with the most passionate fervor a religion that deified all that was best and most distinctive in their own natures. This religion, with its spirit of love, its trust in some other existence that would compensate a thousandfold for the sorrows of this, appealed to them irresistibly. Already it had brought peace and a martyr’s crown to multitudes of the poor and ignorant who had little to lose but their lives. It had gained, too, a firm foothold among the cultivated classes, who did not always forsake the things of the world in their acceptance of things of the spirit. But the fact that it had become a State religion had not made it a fashionable one, though its later votaries often outdid their pagan neighbors in luxury and worldliness.

They had already been drawn in large numbers by the mystical cults of the East. From the East, where pagan gods originated alongside the luxury and sensuality that had drained the moral fabric of Rome, came also the “still small voice” of a new faith, bringing unfamiliar messages of hope and comfort. This faith had been quietly spreading its hymns for nearly three hundred years in the underground world, which often went unnoticed except during periodic outbreaks of persecution. In the vast network of dark tunnels and lit cells far from sunlight; beneath the shining temples and statues of the gods they were undermining; beneath the groves, gardens, fountains, and palaces where vice thrived and idle hedonists were creating new ways to indulge their weary senses—the followers of a humble faith that condemned everything these Epicureans cherished, made pleasure sinful and suffering a source of joy, gathered to offer incense at strange altars. It was women, with their natural inclination toward personal devotion and self-sacrifice—perhaps strengthened by centuries of forced humility—who embraced with the most passionate fervor a religion that celebrated everything best and most unique in their own natures. This religion, with its spirit of love and its belief in a different existence that would repay a thousandfold for the sorrows of this life, appealed to them irresistibly. Already it had brought peace and a martyr’s crown to countless poor and ignorant individuals who had little to lose aside from their lives. It had also gained a solid following among the educated classes, who did not always abandon worldly things in their pursuit of spiritual matters. However, the fact that it had become a State religion didn’t make it fashionable, even though its later followers often surpassed their pagan neighbors in luxury and materialism.

One day in the later years of the fourth century, a rich, noble, educated, and able woman withdrew in weariness and disgust from the vanities and unblushing vices of Roman society, fitted up an oratory in her stately palace on the Aventine, and asked her friends to join her in the worship, duties, and sacrifices of the Christian faith. This was the germ of the Church of the Household, the Ecclesia Domestica, on which St. Jerome has thrown so bright a light—the small beginning of the vast combinations of women, in which one of the greatest religious movements of the world found its strongest instrument and support. Nothing shows[Pg 212] more clearly the strength and moral purity of the large body of Roman womanhood than the numbers who flocked to a standard that offered no worldly attractions, and imposed, as the first of duties, self-renunciation and the denial of all pleasures of sense.

One day in the late fourth century, a wealthy, noble, educated, and capable woman stepped back in exhaustion and disappointment from the superficialities and blatant vices of Roman society. She set up a small place of worship in her impressive palace on the Aventine and invited her friends to join her in the practices, responsibilities, and sacrifices of the Christian faith. This was the foundation of the Church of the Household, the Ecclesia Domestica, which St. Jerome has illuminated so vividly—the humble beginning of a large movement of women, where one of the greatest religious movements in history found its most powerful instrument and support. Nothing illustrates the strength and moral integrity of the vast majority of Roman women more than the numbers who gathered around a cause that offered no worldly rewards and required, as the first duty, self-denial and the rejection of all sensory pleasures.

II

It is not likely that Marcella had any thought of the vital significance of a step that opened a new field to women, which absorbed their talents and energies for ten centuries, sometimes for good, sometimes for ill, and still holds a powerful attraction for certain temperaments. She belonged to one of the noblest families of Rome, and had led the life of the more serious of the rich patricians of her time. Her mother was the Albina who had entertained Athanasius many years before, and shown great interest in his ascetic teachings. He held up solitude and meditation as an ideal, and no doubt his words, which she must have heard discussed afterward, made a strong impression on the imagination of the thoughtful child. They came back with a new force later, when she lost her husband a few months after marriage. In spite of much criticism, she retired from a world which no longer had any attractions for her, gave away her jewels and personal adornments, put on a simple brown[Pg 213] robe, and gave herself to religious and charitable work. At first she sought seclusion in her country villa, but she was of too active and wholesome a temperament for a life of solitary brooding and introspection. It was after the early days of her grief were passed that she opened her palace on the Aventine, and made it a center for the devotional women of Rome.

It’s unlikely that Marcella realized the significant impact of a decision that opened up new opportunities for women, channeling their talents and energy for a thousand years, sometimes positively, sometimes negatively, and continues to appeal to certain personalities today. She came from one of the most esteemed families in Rome and lived the life typical of the more serious rich patricians of her era. Her mother was Albina, who had hosted Athanasius many years earlier and was deeply interested in his ascetic teachings. He promoted solitude and meditation as ideals, and no doubt, his ideas—discussed later—left a lasting impression on the young, thoughtful girl. These ideas returned with even greater strength after she lost her husband a few months into their marriage. Despite criticism, she withdrew from a world that no longer held any interest for her, gave away her jewels and personal belongings, donned a simple brown robe, and devoted herself to religious and charitable work. Initially, she sought solitude in her country villa, but her active and vibrant nature was ill-suited for a life of isolation and self-reflection. After she got through the early days of her grief, she opened her palace on the Aventine and transformed it into a hub for the devout women of Rome.

There was nothing in the life she planned to tempt her ambition. Nor did she abdicate the world and its pleasures on account of the waning of her charms. She was still in the fullness of life, young, beautiful, rich, and much sought in marriage by men of the highest rank and position. In her persistent refusal of their brilliant offers she met with great opposition from her family, who evidently preferred the ascetic life for some one outside of their own circle. But she was a woman of strong, vigorous intellect and firm character, as well as fine moral aims and religious fervor. Born to lead and not to follow, she was never the reflex of other minds. We find in all the known acts of her life the stamp of a distinct and well-poised individuality. If she started on a new path, it was through the reaction of a pure and conscientious nature from a society in which the virtues seemed dying, the need of an outlet for emotions suddenly turned upon themselves, and the going out toward humanity of the unsatisfied longing of motherhood.

There was nothing in the life she envisioned that sparked her ambition. Nor did she give up the world and its pleasures because her looks were fading. She was still vibrant, young, beautiful, wealthy, and highly sought after for marriage by men of the highest rank and status. In her ongoing refusal of their impressive offers, she faced significant opposition from her family, who clearly preferred an ascetic life for someone outside their circle. But she was a woman of strong, vibrant intellect and determination, along with strong moral values and deep religious passion. Born to lead rather than follow, she was never a reflection of others' thoughts. All her actions in life showed the mark of a unique and well-balanced individuality. When she ventured onto a new path, it was driven by the response of a pure and conscientious nature to a society where virtues seemed to be fading, the need for an outlet for emotions turning inward, and the unfulfilled longing for connection with humanity stemming from her maternal instincts.

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To this quiet but palatial retreat on the Aventine—which tradition places not far from the present site of Sta. Sabina—many women fled from the gay world of splendor and fashion. They were mostly rich and high-born; some were widows, who consecrated a broken life to the service of God and their fellow-men; a few were devoted maidens. The oldest of the little group was Asella, a sister of Marcella, who had been drawn from childhood to an ascetic life. She dressed like a pilgrim, lived on bread and water with a little salt, slept on the bare ground, went out only to visit the graves of the martyrs, and held it a jewel in her crown that she never spoke to a man, though she evidently did not object to receiving letters from the good St. Jerome. He speaks of her as “an illustrious lady, a model of perfection,” and says that no one knew better how to combine “austerity of manner with grace of language and serious charm. No one gave more gravity to joy, more sweetness to melancholy. She rarely opened her mouth; her face spoke; her silence was eloquent. A cell was her paradise, fasting her delight. She did not see those to whom she was most tenderly attached, and was full of holy ardor.” But hardships and low diet seem to have agreed with this saintly woman, as she was well, in spite of them, through a long life, in which she won praises from good and bad alike. Lea is a dim figure at this distance, but she was spoken of[Pg 215] as “the head of a monastery and mother of virgins,” who died early and was greatly honored for her goodness, her humility, her robe of sackcloth not too well cared for, her days of fasting, and her nights of prayer.

To this quiet yet grand retreat on the Aventine—traditionally thought to be near the current location of Sta. Sabina—many women escaped from the lavish lifestyle of glamour and fashion. Most were wealthy and of noble birth; some were widows who dedicated their broken lives to serving God and helping others; a few were devoted young women. The oldest in the small group was Asella, sister to Marcella, who had been drawn to an ascetic lifestyle since childhood. She dressed like a pilgrim, lived on bread and water with a bit of salt, slept on the bare ground, only went out to visit the graves of martyrs, and took pride in never speaking to a man, although she clearly had no problem receiving letters from the good St. Jerome. He described her as “an illustrious lady, a model of perfection,” noting that no one combined “austerity of manner with grace of language and serious charm” better than she did. No one brought more depth to joy or more sweetness to sadness. She rarely spoke; her face conveyed her thoughts; her silence was powerful. A cell was her paradise, and fasting was her pleasure. She didn't see those she cared for most deeply but was filled with holy passion.” Despite the hardships and meager diet, this saintly woman remained healthy throughout her long life, earning praise from both the good and the bad. Lea appears as a vague figure from this distance, but she was referred to as “the head of a monastery and mother of virgins,” who died young and was highly respected for her goodness, her humility, her somewhat neglected sackcloth robe, her days of fasting, and her nights of prayer.

More noted was Fabiola, a member of the great Fabian family, who had been divorced from a vicious husband and made a second marriage which seems to have lain heavily on her tender conscience when she became a widow shortly afterward. Indeed, she went so far in her remorse as to stand in the crowd of penitents at the door of the Lateran on Easter Eve, clad in coarse sackcloth, unveiled, and weeping, with ashes on her head and hair trailing, as she prostrated herself and waited for public absolution. It is said that bishop, priests, and people were alike touched to tears at the humiliation of the young, gay, and beautiful woman, the idol of a patrician society. But her religious enthusiasm was more than a sudden outburst of feeling. This pale devotee gave her large fortune to charity, built the first Christian hospital, gathered from the streets the sick, the maimed, and the suffering, even ministering with her own hands to outcast lepers. Her charities were boundless, and extended to remote islands of the sea. St. Jerome calls her a heroine of Christianity, the admiration of unbelievers. But her intellect was clear and brilliant, and her close questionings spurred him to write of many things[Pg 216] which would otherwise have been left in darkness. In her later days she surprised him one evening in the convent at Bethlehem, where she was visiting her friends, by reciting from memory a celebrated letter in praise of a solitary and ascetic life which he had written to Heliodorus many years earlier. It was the letter which had brought so much censure on the austere monk, as it sent great numbers of noble women and many men into the ranks of the hermits and cenobites.

More notable was Fabiola, a member of the prominent Fabian family, who had divorced a cruel husband and entered a second marriage that seemed to weigh heavily on her conscience when she became a widow soon after. In fact, she went so far in her remorse that she stood among the crowd of penitents at the Lateran on Easter Eve, dressed in rough sackcloth, without a veil, and crying, with ashes on her head and her hair unkempt, as she prostrated herself and waited for public forgiveness. It is said that the bishop, priests, and people were all moved to tears by the humiliation of the young, cheerful, and beautiful woman, the idol of high society. But her religious fervor was more than just a sudden burst of emotion. This pale devotee donated her large fortune to charity, established the first Christian hospital, collected the sick, the disabled, and the suffering from the streets, even caring for outcast lepers with her own hands. Her charitable works were limitless and reached far-off islands. St. Jerome called her a heroine of Christianity, admired even by non-believers. But her intellect was sharp and brilliant, and her probing questions inspired him to write about many topics[Pg 216] that would otherwise have remained unexplored. In her later years, she surprised him one evening in the convent at Bethlehem, where she was visiting friends, by reciting from memory a famous letter praising a solitary and ascetic life that he had written to Heliodorus many years before. This letter had attracted much criticism toward the austere monk, as it led many noble women and several men to join the ranks of hermits and cenobites.

This woman of talent and fashion, who left the gay world to become saint, philanthropist, nurse, and pilgrim, died shortly before the terrible days came to Rome, and its temples resounded with psalms in her honor. Young and old sang her praises. The galleries, housetops, and public places could not contain the people who flocked to her funeral. So wicked Rome, in the last days of its fading glory, paid homage to women of great virtues, great deeds, and unselfish lives.

This talented and stylish woman, who abandoned her glamorous life to become a saint, philanthropist, nurse, and pilgrim, passed away just before the terrible days arrived in Rome, and its temples echoed with psalms in her honor. Both young and old celebrated her. The galleries, rooftops, and public spaces couldn’t hold all the people who came to her funeral. So, wicked Rome, in the final days of its declining glory, honored women of great virtue, significant achievements, and selfless lives.

But the most distinguished of the matrons who frequented the chapel on the Aventine was Paula, a descendant of Scipio and the Gracchi on one side, and, it was claimed, of Agamemnon on the other. The Romans did not stop at myths or probabilities in their genealogies, and her husband traced his ancestry to Æneas. But it is certain that Paula belonged to the oldest and noblest family in Rome. She had an immense fortune, and had[Pg 217] passed her life in the fashionable circles of her time. A widow at thirty-three, with five children, and inconsolable, she suddenly laid aside the personal insignia of her rank, exchanged cloth of gold for a nun’s robe, silken couches for the bare ground, gaiety for prayers, and the costly pleasures of the sybarite for days and nights of weeping over the most trivial faults, imaginary or real. Even the stern St. Jerome begged her to limit her austerities; but she said that she must disfigure a face she had been so wicked as to paint, afflict a body which had tasted so much delight, and expiate her laughter with her tears. She dressed and lived as poorly as the lowest of her servants, and expressed a wish to be buried as a beggar. Full of a sweet and tender humanity, however, she was no less pitiful to others than severe to herself.

But the most prominent woman who visited the chapel on the Aventine was Paula, who came from a line of Scipio and the Gracchi on one side, and it was said she also descended from Agamemnon on the other. The Romans didn't just rely on myths or possibilities for their family trees, and her husband traced his lineage back to Æneas. But what is clear is that Paula belonged to one of the oldest and most distinguished families in Rome. She had a vast fortune and had spent her life in the high society of her time. A widow at thirty-three with five children, and heartbroken, she suddenly cast aside the symbols of her status, swapping gold fabric for a nun’s robe, luxurious couches for the bare ground, joy for prayers, and the expensive pleasures of a hedonist for days and nights of crying over the smallest faults, whether real or imagined. Even the stern St. Jerome urged her to tone down her strictness; but she said she needed to disfigure a face she had been so sinful as to adorn, punish a body that had enjoyed so much pleasure, and atone for her laughter with her tears. She dressed and lived as simply as the poorest of her servants and expressed a wish to be buried like a beggar. However, full of sweet and tender humanity, she was just as compassionate to others as she was strict with herself.

Of her four daughters, Eustochium, a serious girl of sixteen, sympathized most with her ascetic views and was closely associated with her life-work. She was the first patrician maiden to take the vow of perpetual virginity. But the flower of the family was her sister Blæsilla, “older in nature, but inferior in vocation,” said St. Jerome. Beautiful, gay, clever, young, and a widow after seven months of marriage, she loved things of the world and had small taste for the austerities of her mother. She found time for study, however, as she spoke Greek fluently and learned Hebrew so rapidly that she bade[Pg 218] fair to equal Paula, who liked to sing the psalms of David in the rugged and majestic language in which they were written. But a violent fever turned her thoughts from mundane vanities to a life of asceticism. No more long days before the mirror, no more decking of her pretty little person. She put on the brown gown like the others, and devoted her brilliant youth to the same service. But so excessive were her penances, so rigorous her fastings, and so severe her austerities, that she died of them at twenty, asking God to pardon her because she could not carry out her plans of devotion and self-sacrifice. Her funeral was hardly in keeping with these plans. All the world did honor to the beautiful, accomplished woman who had forsaken a life of elegant ease for the hardships of a self-imposed poverty. They covered her coffin with cloth of gold, and the most distinguished men in Rome marched at the head of the cortège. Her untimely death brought an outburst of indignation against the mother who had encouraged a self-denial so hard and unnatural. But this mother had fainted as she followed her idolized daughter to the tomb. St. Jerome dwells upon the piety, innocence, chastity, and virtues, as well as the more brilliant qualities, of the dévote who had gone so early, but while the tears flowed down his own cheeks, he reproved Paula for permitting the mother to overshadow the religieuse. He adds a curious bit of consolation,[Pg 219] however, for a spiritual adviser who has renounced all worldly motives and interests, when he tells her that Blæsilla will live forever in his writings, as every page will be marked with her name. This immortality he modestly thinks will compensate her for the short time she spent on earth.

Of her four daughters, Eustochium, a serious sixteen-year-old, sympathized the most with her mother’s ascetic beliefs and was deeply involved in her life’s work. She was the first patrician girl to take the vow of perpetual virginity. But the standout of the family was her sister Blæsilla, "older in nature, but less devoted," as St. Jerome said. Beautiful, cheerful, intelligent, young, and a widow after just seven months of marriage, she loved worldly pleasures and had little interest in her mother’s strict lifestyle. However, she found time to study, speaking Greek fluently and picking up Hebrew so quickly that she seemed likely to match Paula, who enjoyed singing the psalms of David in their original rugged and majestic language. But after a severe fever, she shifted her focus from worldly joys to a life of asceticism. No more long hours in front of the mirror, no more adorning her lovely self. She wore the brown gown like the others and devoted her vibrant youth to the same cause. Yet, her extreme self-discipline, intense fasting, and strict austerity were so harsh that she died from them at twenty, asking God for forgiveness because she couldn't fulfill her devotion and self-sacrifice plans. Her funeral did not quite reflect those plans. The world honored the beautiful, talented woman who had given up a life of luxury for the challenges of self-imposed poverty. They draped her coffin in cloth of gold, and the most distinguished men in Rome led the procession. Her premature death sparked outrage against the mother who had encouraged such severe self-denial. But this mother had fainted as she followed her beloved daughter to the grave. St. Jerome reflects on the piety, innocence, chastity, and virtues, as well as the more brilliant traits, of the devoted one who left us too soon. While tears streamed down his cheeks, he scolded Paula for allowing the mother to overshadow the religious life. Nevertheless, he offers a curious bit of comfort—as a spiritual adviser removed from all worldly ties, he tells her that Blæsilla will live on in his writings, as every page will bear her name. He modestly believes that this immortality will make up for the brief time she spent on earth.

III

These brief outlines indicate the character and position of a few of the best-known women who gathered about Marcella. Some of them lived with her; others came from time to time, or were constant attendants at the Bible readings and prayers. Saintly women, and worldly ones who were doubtless eager to flock to the little chapel in a palace that represented to them a great name, if not a living faith, had been going in and out for some years before St. Jerome came from the East at the summons of Pope Damasus, and was invited by Marcella to stay at her house, after the manner of famous divines of all ages. It is to this most interesting and learned of the early fathers that we are indebted for the blaze of light that was thrown upon the Church of the Household. It was also to this group of consecrated women that St. Jerome owed the inspiration and the intelligent criticism that led him to give the world some of the works on which his greatest fame rests. The circle that listened to[Pg 220] his persuasive eloquence, born of a keen intellect, an ardent imagination, a passionate temperament, and an exalted faith, was not an ignorant one. Most of these ladies spoke Greek and were familiar with Greek letters. Some had learned Hebrew, which was not included among the fashionable accomplishments of the day. A few were women of brilliant ability and distinct individuality, who could not live in the world without leaving some trace of themselves. The discriminating mind of Marcella exercised itself on every new problem. “During the whole of my residence at Rome she never saw me without asking some question about history or dogma,” said St. Jerome. “She was not satisfied with any answer I might give; she never yielded to my authority only, but discussed the matter so thoroughly that often I ceased to be the master and became the humble pupil.” It would have been better for him if he had given more heed to her gentle voice when she tried to temper his bitterness and restrain his unruly tongue. We have another proof of the solid fiber of her intellect in the fact that she was consulted on Biblical matters by Roman ecclesiastics, even by the Pope himself; indeed, it was her counsel that led Pope Anastasius to condemn the heresies of Origen in the synod.

These brief outlines highlight the character and roles of some of the most renowned women who gathered around Marcella. Some lived with her, while others visited occasionally or consistently attended the Bible readings and prayers. Saintly women, along with worldly ones eager to flock to the little chapel in a palace that symbolized a great name, if not a genuine faith, had been coming and going for several years before St. Jerome arrived from the East at the invitation of Pope Damasus and was invited by Marcella to stay at her home, as was customary for notable theologians throughout history. We owe the illuminating insights into the Church of the Household to this most fascinating and scholarly early church father. This dedicated group of women also inspired St. Jerome and provided the constructive criticism that led him to produce some of the works that form the basis of his greatest acclaim. The audience that listened to[Pg 220] his compelling rhetoric, fueled by a sharp intellect, passionate imagination, intense emotions, and deep faith, was not uninformed. Most of these women spoke Greek and were knowledgeable about Greek literature. Some had even learned Hebrew, which was not a common accomplishment at that time. A few were exceptionally talented with strong personalities who left a mark wherever they went. Marcella had a discerning mind that engaged with every new challenge. “Throughout my entire time in Rome, she never saw me without asking some question about history or doctrine,” said St. Jerome. “She was never satisfied with any answer I could provide; she didn’t just accept my authority, but engaged so thoroughly that often I ended up becoming the student instead of the teacher.” It would have been better for him if he had listened more to her gentle reminders when she sought to soften his bitterness and curb his volatile tongue. We have further evidence of her remarkable intellect in the fact that Roman church officials, including the Pope himself, consulted her on Biblical issues; indeed, it was her advice that led Pope Anastasius to denounce Origen's heresies at the synod.

It may easily be imagined that the pale, slender, ascetic monk of thirty-four, with the light of genius in his eye, the fire of sublimated passion in his soul,[Pg 221] and the vein of poetry running through his nature, had a strange power over these women who lived on moral heights quite above the heavy worldly atmosphere about them. This spiritual exaltation has swayed women of ardent imagination ever since the days of the apostles, and doubtless swayed them before. It was the secret of Savonarola’s influence. Under the inspiration of the persuasive Nicole, the earnest Arnauld, and the austere Pascal, the great ladies of France put off their silks and jewels with their mundane vanities, and knelt in the bare cells at Port-Royal, with the haircloth and the iron girdle pressing the delicate flesh as they prayed. Fénelon found his most ardent disciple in the mystic Mme. Guyon. The pure soul of Mme. Swetchine responded to the earnest words of Lacordaire as the Æolian harp vibrates to the lightest breath of wind. “I cannot attach to your name the glory of the Roman women whom St. Jerome has immortalized,” he says, “and yet you were of their race.... The light of your soul illumined the land that received you, and for forty years you were for us the sweetest echo of the gospel and the surest road to honor.” It is needless to recall the power of many spiritual men of our own race and day in leading the serious and gay alike into paths of a rational self-renunciation. Perhaps the little coterie in which St. Jerome found himself was more permanently severe in its self-discipline than most[Pg 222] of the later ones have been. Doubtless there was a little blending of the church and the world, of literature and prayers, of gilded trappings with the nun’s robe and the monk’s cowl. But when these Roman women came into the devoted household on the Aventine, they usually renounced the world very literally, though it is not unlikely that they had a following of those who mingled a pale and decorous piety with their worldly pleasures, as did many of the priests whom St. Jerome attacks with such biting sarcasm.

It’s easy to picture the pale, slender, ascetic monk at thirty-four, with the spark of genius in his eye and the intensity of deep passion in his soul,[Pg 221] along with a poetic nature that gave him a strange power over the women who occupied moral heights far above the heavy worldly atmosphere around them. This kind of spiritual elevation has always influenced women with vivid imaginations since the days of the apostles and likely even before. It was the secret behind Savonarola’s influence. Inspired by the persuasive Nicole, the earnest Arnauld, and the austere Pascal, the prominent women of France set aside their silks and jewels along with their earthly vanities and knelt in the bare cells at Port-Royal, wearing haircloth and iron girdles that pressed against their delicate skin as they prayed. Fénelon found his most passionate disciple in the mystic Mme. Guyon. The pure soul of Mme. Swetchine responded to Lacordaire's earnest words like an Aeolian harp vibrating to the gentlest breeze. “I cannot associate your name with the glory of the Roman women that St. Jerome has immortalized,” he says, “and yet you belong to their lineage.... The light of your soul shone upon the land that welcomed you, and for forty years, you were, for us, the most beautiful echo of the gospel and the surest path to honor.” There’s no need to mention the influence of many spiritual leaders in our time who guide both the serious and the carefree into rational self-denial. Perhaps the small group that St. Jerome was part of was more consistently strict in its self-discipline than most later ones have been. There was likely some blending of church and world, of literature and prayer, of gilded accessories with the nun’s habit and the monk’s cowl. But when these Roman women joined the devoted household on the Aventine, they typically renounced the world quite literally, although it’s possible they attracted those who combined a modest and respectful piety with their worldly pleasures, as many of the priests whom St. Jerome critiques with such sharp sarcasm.

Then this monk of many dreams and visions, with his halo of saintship, was fresh from the hermits and cenobites of the Thebaid. The even-song that went up from countless caves and cabins under the clear Egyptian sky still lingered in his ear as he expatiated on the paradise of solitude. Forgetting in his zeal the violent moral struggles he had passed through himself, he appealed to them in impassioned words to immolate every natural affection on the altar of a faith that invited them to a life of prayer and meditation far from the tempting delights of a sinful world. It was under this teaching that the ascetic spirit grew so strong as to call out the indignation of the pagan society of Rome. People of the fourth century were as fond of gossip as are the men and women of to-day, and no more charitable. Malicious tongues were whispering evil things of the gifted and famous monk who exercised[Pg 223] so pernicious an influence over the wives and daughters of illustrious Roman citizens, inciting them to fling away their fortunes for a dream and seclude themselves from the world to which they belonged. He had spent three years in an atmosphere that must have been grateful to his restless and stormy spirit. But now he found that he was bringing reproach upon those he most revered and loved, so in the summer of 385, when Pope Damasus died, and his occupation was gone, he bade farewell to his friends, and went back to the East, leaving a letter to Asella in which he bitterly denounces those who had dared to malign him. Of Paula he says that “her songs were psalms, her conversations were of the gospel, her delight was in purity, her life a long fast.” Yet his enemies had presumed to attack his attitude toward the saintly woman whose “mourning and penance had touched his heart with sympathy and veneration.”

Then this monk full of dreams and visions, with his saintly aura, had just come from the hermits and monks of the Thebaid. The evening prayers rising from countless caves and huts under the clear Egyptian sky still echoed in his ears as he passionately talked about the paradise of solitude. In his enthusiasm, he forgot the intense moral battles he had faced himself and urged them in heartfelt words to sacrifice every natural affection for a faith that called them to a life of prayer and meditation, far from the tempting pleasures of a sinful world. It was under this teaching that the ascetic spirit grew so strong that it sparked the outrage of pagan society in Rome. People of the fourth century were just as fond of gossip as people are today, and no more forgiving. Malicious gossip was spreading about the talented and famous monk who had such a harmful influence on the wives and daughters of notable Roman citizens, urging them to abandon their wealth for a dream and isolate themselves from the world they belonged to. He had spent three years in an environment that must have been soothing to his restless and turbulent spirit. But now he realized that he was bringing shame upon those he cherished and respected, so in the summer of 385, after the death of Pope Damasus and the end of his role, he said goodbye to his friends and returned to the East, leaving a letter for Asella in which he harshly criticized those who had dared to slander him. Of Paula, he wrote that “her songs were psalms, her conversations were of the gospel, her delight was in purity, her life a long fast.” Yet his enemies had dared to question his feelings toward the saintly woman whose “mourning and penance had touched his heart with sympathy and veneration.”

But his pleadings for a life of penitence and sacrifice had not been in vain. A few months later Paula carried out a plan which had been for some time maturing, and followed him, with her daughter Eustochium and a train of consecrated virgins and attendants. The power of religious enthusiasm was never shown more clearly than in this able and learned matron, who had all the strength of the Roman character together with the mystical exaltation of a Christian sibyl. That she was a woman[Pg 224] of ardent emotions is evident from the violence of her grief at the death of her daughter and her husband. But in spite of her family affections she was firm in her purpose to leave home and friends for a life of hardship in the far East. The tears of her youngest daughter, Rufina, who begged her to stay for her wedding day,—which, alas! she never lived to see,—were of no avail. Her little son entreated her in vain. The words of St. Jerome were ringing in her ears. “Though thy father should lie on the threshold, trample over his body with dry eyes, and fly to the standard of the cross,” he had said. “In this matter, to be cruel is the only true filial affection.”

But her pleas for a life of atonement and sacrifice weren't in vain. A few months later, Paula executed a plan she had been developing for some time, following him with her daughter Eustochium and a group of consecrated virgins and attendants. The power of religious passion was never more evident than in this capable and educated woman, who possessed all the strength of the Roman spirit along with the mystical fervor of a Christian prophetess. It's clear she was a woman of intense emotions, shown by the depth of her sorrow at the deaths of her daughter and husband. Yet, despite her family ties, she was determined to leave home and loved ones for a life of hardship in the far East. The tears of her youngest daughter, Rufina, who begged her to stay for her wedding day—which, tragically, she never witnessed—were in vain. Her little son pleaded with her fruitlessly. The words of St. Jerome echoed in her mind: “Even if your father lies at the door, step over his body with dry eyes and rush to the cross,” he had said. “In this situation, to be harsh is the only true way to show love.”

Several years before, Melania, a widow of twenty-three, had sailed away to the Thebaid, on a similar mission. She too had passed through great sorrows. With strange calmness and without a tear, she had buried her husband and two sons in quick succession, thanking God that she had no longer any ties to stand between her and her pious duties. And for this hardness St. Jerome had applauded her, holding her up as an example to her sex! She too had turned away dry-eyed and inflexible from the tears of the little son she left to the tender mercies of the pretor. Did Mme. de Chantal recall these women, centuries after, when she walked serenely over the prostrate body of her son, who had thrown himself across the threshold to bar[Pg 225] her departure from her home to a life of spiritual consecration and conventual discipline under the direction of St. François de Sales?

Several years earlier, Melania, a twenty-three-year-old widow, had sailed to the Thebaid on a similar mission. She had also gone through immense sorrow. With an unusual calmness and without shedding a tear, she buried her husband and two sons in quick succession, thanking God that she no longer had any ties to prevent her from fulfilling her religious duties. For this stoicism, St. Jerome praised her, presenting her as a role model for women! She too had turned away, dry-eyed and unyielding, from the tears of her little son as she left him in the care of the pretor. Did Mme. de Chantal remember these women, centuries later, when she calmly stepped over the prostrate body of her son, who had thrown himself across the threshold to prevent her from leaving their home for a life of spiritual dedication and conventual discipline under the guidance of St. François de Sales?

We cannot follow the wanderings of these fourth-century pilgrims among the hermits of the desert and the holy places of Syria. They were among the first of a long line of women who have given up the luxuries and refinements of life for a hut or a cave in the wilderness, and a bare, hard existence, illuminated only by the “light that never was on sea or land.” Melania established a convent on the Mount of Olives, with Rufinus as the spiritual director, and here it is probable that Paula visited her before settling finally near the Cave of the Nativity at Bethlehem, where she built three convents, a hospital, and a monastery, which was superintended by St. Jerome. It was here that the rich descendant of the Scipios, who had gone from a palace to a cell, gave herself to prayer and menial duties, while she scattered her fortune among the poor.

We can't trace the journeys of these fourth-century pilgrims among the desert hermits and the sacred sites of Syria. They were some of the earliest women to leave behind the comforts and luxuries of life for a simple hut or cave in the wilderness, living a basic and tough existence, illuminated only by the “light that never was on sea or land.” Melania set up a convent on the Mount of Olives, with Rufinus serving as the spiritual leader, and it's likely that Paula visited her there before finally settling near the Cave of the Nativity in Bethlehem, where she built three convents, a hospital, and a monastery overseen by St. Jerome. It was here that the wealthy descendant of the Scipios, who had moved from a palace to a cell, devoted herself to prayer and menial tasks while sharing her wealth with the poor.

IV

The most immediate and important outcome of the Church of the Household was this convent at Bethlehem, which had its origin in the brain of Paula and was managed by her until her death. The little community, with its austerities, its studies, its lowly duties, its charities, and its peaceful life, was clearly[Pg 226] visible while St. Jerome lived to electrify the world periodically with some fresh outburst of rage at its follies, or its presumption in differing in opinion from himself. It was here that he did his greatest work, and it is of special interest to us that he depended largely upon the intelligent aid of Paula and Eustochium in his revision of the Septuagint and the invaluable translation of the Bible known as the Latin Vulgate. His instructions to them were minute, and his confidence in their ability is shown in the preface to one of his works, where he says: “You, who are so familiar with Hebrew literature and so skilled in judging the merits of a translation, go over this one carefully, word by word, so as to discover where I have added or omitted anything which is not in the original.” They also revised with him and largely settled the text of the Psalter which is in use to-day in the Latin churches. He said that they acquired with ease, and spoke perfectly, the Hebrew language, which had cost him so much labor. He was censured for dedicating so many of his works to the women who had given him such efficient help. His reply is of value, as it expressed the opinion of the most scholarly and brilliant of the early fathers on the intellectual ability of the sex which they seem, as a rule, to have taken the greatest pleasure in denouncing.

The most immediate and significant result of the Church of the Household was the convent in Bethlehem, which originated from Paula’s vision and was run by her until she passed away. The small community, with its strict routines, studies, humble tasks, acts of charity, and peaceful lifestyle, was clearly visible while St. Jerome lived, as he frequently stirred the world with his passionate criticisms of its foolishness or its audacity in disagreeing with him. It was here that he produced his most important work, and it’s particularly notable that he relied heavily on the knowledgeable support of Paula and Eustochium in revising the Septuagint and in creating the invaluable Bible translation known as the Latin Vulgate. His instructions to them were detailed, and he showed confidence in their capabilities, as seen in the preface to one of his works, where he says: “You, who are so familiar with Hebrew literature and so skilled at evaluating the quality of a translation, should carefully review this one, word by word, to find out if I have added or left out anything that isn’t in the original.” They also collaborated with him and significantly established the text of the Psalter that is still used today in Latin churches. He mentioned that they quickly learned and spoke Hebrew fluently, something that took him a lot of effort. He faced criticism for dedicating so many of his works to the women who had assisted him so effectively. His response is important, as it reflects the views of some of the most scholarly and brilliant early church fathers regarding the intellectual capabilities of women, a topic they often seemed to take pleasure in disparaging.

“As if these women were not more capable of forming a judgment upon them than most men,”[Pg 227] he says. “The good people who would have me prefer them to you, O Paula and Eustochium, know as little of their Bible as of Greek and Roman history. They do not know that Huldah prophesied when men were silent, that Deborah overcame the enemies of Israel when Barak trembled, that Judith and Esther saved the people of God. So much for the Hebrews. As for the Greeks, who does not know that Plato listened to the discourse of Aspasia, that Sappho held the lyre beside Alcæus and Pindar, that Themistia was one of the philosophers of Greece? And, among ourselves, Cornelia the mother of the Gracchi, Portia the daughter of Cato and wife of Brutus, before whom the virtue of the father and the austerity of the husband paled, do we not count them among the glories of Rome?”

“As if these women were not better at judging them than most men,”[Pg 227] he says. “The people who would have me prefer them over you, O Paula and Eustochium, know as little about their Bible as they do about Greek and Roman history. They don’t realize that Huldah prophesied while men were silent, that Deborah defeated Israel's enemies while Barak hesitated, and that Judith and Esther saved the people of God. That's the situation for the Hebrews. As for the Greeks, who doesn't know that Plato listened to Aspasia's discussions, that Sappho played the lyre alongside Alcæus and Pindar, or that Themistocles was one of Greece's philosophers? And, among us, Cornelia, the mother of the Gracchi, and Portia, the daughter of Cato and wife of Brutus, who overshadowed their father's virtue and their husband's severity, don’t we celebrate them as part of Rome's glory?”

Through the correspondence of these women with their friends, we have various glimpses of their life, as well as of the changes that came to the group on the Aventine. The heart of Paula was first saddened by the death of her daughter Paulina, who had married a brother of Marcella, and lived a life of great devotion in the world. Perhaps she found a grain of consolation in the fact that Paulina’s large fortune was left to her husband to be distributed among the poor. We have a glowing account of the great funeral at St. Peter’s, where this sorrowing husband scattered the gifts with his own hand[Pg 228] to the starving multitude, after turning his wife’s jewels and fine, gold-embroidered robes into plain garments for the naked and needy. Then he went to his desolate home, took the vows of poverty, and put on a monk’s cowl, though he still held his seat in the Senate, where he doubtless felt that he could render the best service.

Through the letters of these women to their friends, we catch various glimpses of their lives, as well as the changes that came to the group on the Aventine. Paula was initially heartbroken by the death of her daughter Paulina, who had married a brother of Marcella and lived a life of deep devotion in the world. Maybe she found a small comfort in the fact that Paulina’s large fortune was left to her husband to share with the poor. We have a vivid account of the grand funeral at St. Peter’s, where this grieving husband scattered gifts with his own hands[Pg 228] to the hungry crowd, after turning his wife’s jewels and elaborate, gold-embroidered robes into simple clothes for the naked and needy. Then he returned to his empty home, took vows of poverty, and donned a monk’s cowl, even though he still held a position in the Senate, where he surely believed he could provide the best service.

This grief was tempered for Paula by the glad tidings that the little son she had left weeping on the shore had married Læta, a Christian, who, with his approval, consecrated their daughter, a second Paula, to the service of religion. It was the wife who wrote to her for direction as to her child’s education; and we have an interesting letter from St. Jerome giving careful instruction on all points that concern the training of a young maiden. This Paula helped to cheer the last days of her grandmother, and became the third abbess of the convent.

This sorrow was softened for Paula by the joyful news that her little son, whom she had left crying on the shore, had married Læta, a Christian. With his blessing, they dedicated their daughter, also named Paula, to a life of service in religion. It was Læta who wrote to Paula asking for advice on her child's education, and we have an interesting letter from St. Jerome providing detailed guidance on everything related to raising a young girl. This Paula helped bring joy to her grandmother in her final days and became the third abbess of the convent.

Fabiola came once to visit them, and spent two years, entering into all their duties, and brightening the little community with her quick and eager intellect. But she died soon after her return to Rome. They urged Marcella to join them, and sent vivid descriptions of their idyllic life among the hills consecrated by so many sacred memories. “In summer we seek the shade of our trees,” they write; “in autumn the mild weather and pure air invite us to rest on a bed of fallen leaves; in spring, when the fields are painted with flowers, we[Pg 229] sing our songs among the birds.” To be sure, they had the hospital work, the menial duties, the prayers, and the penances, but they had, too, long and pleasant hours to study the holy books. Then they were free from the “need of seeing and being seen, of greeting and being greeted, of praising and detracting, hearing and talking, of seeing the crowds of the world.” The monastery and the convent were quite separate, but it is likely that St. Jerome passed many moments in the converse of his friends and helpers, though his instructions were largely given by letter. These pastoral pictures, however, with their dark shadings, did not tempt the Roman lady from her chosen work. With her clear and sane intellect she saw her duty to those among whom she was born.

Fabiola visited them once and stayed for two years, immersing herself in their responsibilities and bringing life to the small community with her sharp and enthusiastic mind. But she passed away shortly after returning to Rome. They encouraged Marcella to join them and sent vibrant descriptions of their idyllic life in the hills rich with sacred memories. “In summer, we seek shade under our trees,” they wrote; “in autumn, the gentle weather and fresh air invite us to relax on a bed of fallen leaves; in spring, as the fields bloom with flowers, we sing our songs among the birds.” Of course, they had hospital work, everyday tasks, prayers, and penances, but they also enjoyed long and pleasant hours studying holy texts. Plus, they were free from the “need to see and be seen, greet and be greeted, praise and criticize, hear and speak, and witness the crowds of the world.” The monastery and the convent were quite distinct, but it’s likely that St. Jerome spent many moments in the company of his friends and helpers, even though he mainly communicated through letters. These pastoral scenes, however, with their darker undertones, did not entice the Roman lady away from her chosen path. With her clear and rational mind, she recognized her duty to those among whom she was born.

After seventeen years of unselfish labor for the poor and suffering, varied by the study of which we have the fruit, Paula died and was laid away in the grotto at Bethlehem. In her last moments she replied in Greek to a question of St. Jerome, that she felt no pain, and that everything before her was calm and tranquil. All Palestine flocked to her funeral, which was conducted by the Bishop of Jerusalem, and people of every rank and grade looked with tears on her grave and majestic features. “Illustrious by birth,” says St. Jerome, “more illustrious by her piety, first in Rome by the wealth of her house, then more honored by Christian poverty,[Pg 230] she scorned pomp and glory, exchanged gilded walls for a cabin, and won the esteem of the entire world.”

After seventeen years of selfless work for the poor and suffering, mixed with the study that resulted in her achievements, Paula passed away and was buried in the grotto at Bethlehem. In her final moments, she answered a question from St. Jerome in Greek, saying that she felt no pain and that everything in front of her was calm and peaceful. People from all over Palestine gathered for her funeral, led by the Bishop of Jerusalem, and individuals from every background wept at her grave and admired her dignified features. “Illustrious by birth,” says St. Jerome, “even more illustrious for her piety, first in Rome for the wealth of her family, and then more revered for her Christian humility, she turned her back on pomp and glory, traded lavish surroundings for a simple life, and earned the respect of the whole world.”[Pg 230]

Her mantle fell upon Eustochium, an earnest, sincere woman of serious education but less strength and individuality than her mother, who filled her place with dignity and ability for sixteen years. In the first days of his grief St. Jerome was unable to take up his work, but this sympathetic helper turned his thoughts by carrying to him the Book of Ruth to be translated. At her death she was succeeded by her niece, another Paula, who had been long associated with her. The younger Melania, who had followed in the footsteps of her own grandmother, the first woman to leave Rome for an ascetic retreat in the East, was there also, and it was these women who, not long afterward, closed the eyes of St. Jerome, already dimmed with age.

Her mantle passed to Eustochium, a dedicated and sincere woman with a solid education but less strength and individuality than her mother, who held her position with dignity and competence for sixteen years. In the early days of his grief, St. Jerome couldn't resume his work, but this compassionate helper shifted his focus by bringing him the Book of Ruth to translate. After her death, her niece, another Paula, who had been closely associated with her, took over. The younger Melania, who followed in the footsteps of her grandmother, the first woman to leave Rome for an ascetic retreat in the East, was there too, and it was these women who, not long thereafter, closed the eyes of St. Jerome, which were already dimmed with age.

But the close of Marcella’s life came some time before this last light went out in the Syrian monastery, and it was tragical enough. For thirty years she had devoted herself and her large wealth to the unfortunate, and to the interests of the church she loved. During the siege of Alaric and the terrible days that saw the ruin of Rome, she was beaten and tortured to compel her to tell where she had hidden her treasures; but these had all gone for the relief of the suffering, and there was nothing to tell. A soldier with a kinder heart than the rest helped her[Pg 231] to reach the old Church of St. Paul without the walls, together with Principia, the only companion left to her, whom she had saved with great difficulty from the fury of her brutal captors. A few days later she died of these tortures, and the maiden was left alone to tell the tale. The Ecclesia Domestica appears no more in history. The little group of devoted women was already scattered. Many were dead. Some had found refuge in the convent at Bethlehem, some in the cells of the Thebaid, and some had gone to carry the seeds of their faith to remote places where we cannot trace them. Strictly speaking, this was never a convent, as there were no vows and women went in and out at pleasure. But it has been called the “Mother of Convents.”

But the end of Marcella’s life came some time before the last light went out in the Syrian monastery, and it was tragic enough. For thirty years, she dedicated herself and her considerable wealth to helping those in need and to the church she loved. During the siege of Alaric and the horrific days that led to Rome's downfall, she was beaten and tortured in an attempt to force her to reveal where she had hidden her treasures; but those had all been given to help the suffering, and there was nothing to disclose. A soldier with a kinder heart than the others assisted her[Pg 231] in reaching the old Church of St. Paul outside the city walls, along with Principia, the only companion she had left, whom she had rescued with great effort from the rage of her brutal captors. A few days later, she died from these tortures, leaving the young woman alone to tell the story. The Ecclesia Domestica disappears from history. The small group of devoted women had already scattered. Many had died. Some found refuge in the convent at Bethlehem, some in the cells of the Thebaid, and others went to spread the seeds of their faith in remote areas we cannot trace. Strictly speaking, this was never a convent, as there were no vows, and women came and went as they pleased. But it has been referred to as the “Mother of Convents.”

V

The revolution effected in Roman society through these intelligent patrician matrons, whose names had great prestige, and whose wealth seems to have been inexhaustible, was a vital and important one. The women also show us, even in their often intemperate zeal, the magnificent possibilities of the Roman character. But their value to us lies largely in the results of the work they began, which expanded into the vast system of convents that soon overspread the known world. That these have been an unmixed good no one will contend to-day,[Pg 232] but that they fulfilled a mission which was, on the whole, a blessing in its time, few, I think, will deny. For centuries they furnished an outlet for the administrative talents as well as the surplus energies and emotions of women. They were also a refuge for multitudes who had no secure place in the world, and for those who did not wish to subject themselves to the slavery of a forced and loveless marriage. If they were not the best things possible, they were the best things available. So far as these women led lives of active charity, and forgot their own comfort in gentle ministrations to the poor and suffering, the results were good for themselves and the world. When they lost their poise in ecstatic visions, spent long hours in useless austerities and morbid introspection, crushing every natural impulse in the effort to attain an impossible holiness that was as airy and unsubstantial as the fabric of a dream, they became abnormal, and the results were distinctly bad; it was in the last analysis the apotheosis of emotionalism. The old extremes of sensuality were followed by equal extremes in another direction. To glorify pain, to neglect the person, to substitute states of exaltation for family ties, was a mark of piety. The movement started with an ideal of virgin purity that depreciated any life but that of a celibate. The immoralities that early began to creep in with the theories of spiritual marriage, even among the[Pg 233] cenobites of the desert, to the dismay of the fathers themselves, were doubtless due in part to the repression of tender human affections, and in part to the vow of obedience which placed pure and saintly women at the mercy of the wolves in sheep’s clothing that speedily overran the church and the world.

The changes brought about in Roman society by these influential patrician women, who held significant reputation and appeared to have endless wealth, were crucial and significant. Even with their sometimes excessive enthusiasm, these women reveal the remarkable potential of the Roman spirit. However, their true value to us is largely found in the outcomes of their efforts, which evolved into the extensive network of convents that soon spread across the known world. No one today can argue that these developments were entirely positive,[Pg 232] but few would deny that they served a purpose that was, overall, beneficial at the time. For centuries, these institutions provided an outlet for women's organizational skills as well as their extra energy and emotions. They also offered refuge to countless individuals who lacked a secure place in society, and for those who didn't want to be trapped in a forced, loveless marriage. While they might not have been the best options available, they were the best options at hand. As long as these women lived lives of active charity and set aside their own comfort to care for the poor and suffering, the outcomes were positive for both themselves and the world. However, when they lost their balance in ecstatic visions, spent excessive time in pointless austerities and morbid self-reflection, stifling every natural impulse in the pursuit of an unattainable holiness that was as insubstantial as a dream, they became abnormal, and the results were clearly negative; it ultimately represented the extreme of emotionalism. The old extremes of sensuality were met with equally extreme reactions in the opposite direction. To glorify suffering, disregard the individual, and replace family loyalty with states of heightened emotion became a sign of devotion. The movement began with an ideal of virgin purity that discredited any life outside of celibacy. The moral issues that began to emerge alongside the concepts of spiritual marriage, even among the[Pg 233] desert monks, to the shock of the founding fathers, were undoubtedly caused in part by the suppression of tender human feelings, and in part due to the vow of obedience that left pure and saintly women vulnerable to the predators that quickly infiltrated the church and the wider world.

The Christian ideals are essentially feminine ones. They exalt love, not force, and glorify the finest and most distinctive traits of womanhood. “Heavens, what wives these Christians have!” said a pagan ruler, struck with their spirit of supreme self-sacrifice. “Kill me,” said Eve to Adam, as they were being driven from the Garden of Eden; “then perhaps God will put you back into paradise.” So wrote a man centuries later who was trying to illustrate the unselfishness of woman at the crucial point of her history. But the obedience which was so beautiful to the husband was quite another matter when demanded by a spiritual director, and family life began to suffer. Perhaps this state of affairs is partly responsible for the bitter denunciations of women in the writings of the fathers, though by no means confined to them. “You are the devil’s gateway,” says Tertullian, “the unsealer of the forbidden tree, the deserter from the divine law. You persuaded him whom the devil was not brave enough to attack. You destroyed God’s image, man.” “Eve was the[Pg 234] principle of death,” wrote St. Jerome; but remembering, perhaps, how far the work of his life had been aided by women, he adds that “Mary is the source of life.” His attacks elsewhere are frequent and merciless. “Woman has the poison of an asp and the malice of a dragon,” is the kindly tribute of Gregory the Great. “Of all wild beasts the most dangerous is woman,” says St. Chrysostom, who owed so much to his own mother and loved her so devotedly. “It brings great shame to reflect of what nature woman is,” writes Clement of Alexandria. One might fill a book with similar quotations. “A woman is an evil.” “A woman is a whited sepulcher.” This is the burden of priestly complaint from St. Augustine to the Protestant Calvin and John Knox, who sang variations on the same theme in a different key. Not even the classic Greeks were more abusive. All this is specially surprising, since we find no such spirit in the words of Christ, who was invariably gentle toward women and tender even to their faults. St. Paul was disposed to keep them in a very humble place, but, after all, he was never incurably bitter.

The Christian ideals are fundamentally feminine. They celebrate love, not power, and highlight the best and most unique qualities of womanhood. “Wow, the wives these Christians have!” remarked a pagan ruler, impressed by their deep sense of self-sacrifice. “Kill me,” Eve told Adam as they were being expelled from the Garden of Eden; “maybe then God will let you back into paradise.” A man wrote this centuries later, trying to show women’s selflessness at a critical moment in their history. However, the obedience that was so admirable to a husband became a different matter when it was expected by a spiritual leader, leading to issues in family life. This situation might partly explain the harsh criticisms of women in the writings of early church fathers, though they weren't the only ones making those remarks. “You are the devil’s gateway,” says Tertullian, “the unsealer of the forbidden tree, the breaker of divine law. You convinced him that the devil dared not approach. You ruined God's image, man.” “Eve was the principle of death,” wrote St. Jerome; but, perhaps recalling how much help women had been in his life, he also mentions that “Mary is the source of life.” His critiques in other places are often harsh and relentless. “Woman has the poison of a snake and the malice of a dragon,” is the kind compliment from Gregory the Great. “Of all wild beasts, the most dangerous is woman,” says St. Chrysostom, who was very thankful to his own mother and loved her deeply. “It's shameful to think about the nature of women,” writes Clement of Alexandria. One could fill a book with similar quotes. “A woman is evil.” “A woman is a painted tomb.” This is the consistent theme of complaints from St. Augustine to Protestant figures like Calvin and John Knox, who expressed similar sentiments in different ways. Even the classic Greeks were not more disparaging. This is particularly surprising given the absence of such attitudes in the words of Christ, who was always kind to women and gentle even regarding their faults. St. Paul tended to keep women in a subordinate role, but, in all fairness, he was never unreasonably bitter.

In spite of these persistent attacks, however, the church has availed itself, throughout its history, of the talents of great women, from the first St. Catherine to her namesake of Siena, from Marcella to the gifted St. Theresa and Mère Angélique, the thoughtful saint of Port-Royal. Women were[Pg 235] associated with all the humane movements of the primitive church. They held honorable and prominent positions as deaconesses, were intrusted with grave responsibilities, and venerated to an extent unheard of before. Salvina officially protected the Eastern churches, and supplications for favors were addressed to her on account of her ability and her influence at the court of the emperor. St. Chrysostom always spoke of Olympias, the ablest of his deaconesses, as his “dear and trusted friend.” A rich woman, noble, and a widow, she had given up her life to the service of religion, and managed the affairs of the great archbishop, who depended upon her as St. Ambrose depended upon his sister Marcellina. When he was driven into exile, and the flames were bursting from St. Sophia, it was to her, not to the bishops, that he gave instructions for the government of his church in his absence, which was destined to be final.

Despite these ongoing attacks, the church has always made use of the talents of remarkable women throughout its history, from the early St. Catherine to her namesake in Siena, from Marcella to the talented St. Theresa and Mère Angélique, the thoughtful saint of Port-Royal. Women were associated with all the humane movements of the early church. They held respected and significant roles as deaconesses, were entrusted with important responsibilities, and were honored in ways that were unprecedented before. Salvina officially protected the Eastern churches, and people turned to her for help due to her skills and her influence at the emperor's court. St. Chrysostom often referred to Olympias, the most capable of his deaconesses, as his “dear and trusted friend.” A wealthy, noble widow, she dedicated her life to religious service and managed the affairs of the great archbishop, who relied on her just like St. Ambrose relied on his sister Marcellina. When he was exiled and St. Sophia was in flames, it was to her, not the bishops, that he entrusted instructions for governing his church in his absence, which turned out to be permanent.

It is worth while, perhaps, to quote a few lines from a letter written by this celebrated man to a Roman lady whose influence he asked in the interest of a general council. After a few generalities about the sphere of her sex, he continues: “But in the work which has the service of God for its object, in the church militant, these distinctions are effaced, and it often happens that the woman excels the man in the courage with which she supports her opinions and in her holy zeal.... Do not consider[Pg 236] as unbecoming to your sex that earnest work which in any way promotes the welfare of the faithful.... I beg you to undertake this with the utmost diligence; the more frightful the tempest, the more precious the recompense for your share in calming it.”

It might be helpful to share a few lines from a letter written by this well-known man to a Roman woman whose support he sought for a general council. After mentioning some general thoughts about women's roles, he goes on: “But in the work aimed at serving God, in the active church, these distinctions disappear, and it often happens that women surpass men in the courage with which they stand by their beliefs and in their holy enthusiasm.... Don't think that it’s inappropriate for your gender to take on serious work that promotes the welfare of the faithful.... I urge you to take this on with the greatest commitment; the worse the storm, the greater the reward for your role in calming it.”

There were a great many other able women, and some wicked ones, connected with the earlier movements of Christianity, especially in the Eastern Church, but they do not fall within the scope of this paper. I mention these few simply to show that it was by no means the emotional enthusiasm of women which gave them so much influence in a field for which they were peculiarly fitted, though this may account for much of their subsequent power over the masses, and many of their errors. Most of the leaders had great force of intellect and a special talent for organization.

There were many other capable women, and some who were less than good, involved with the early movements of Christianity, particularly in the Eastern Church, but they aren’t the focus of this paper. I mention these few just to illustrate that it wasn’t solely the emotional enthusiasm of women that gave them such influence in a field for which they were particularly suited, though this may explain much of their later power over the masses, as well as many of their mistakes. Most of the leaders possessed a strong intellect and a special gift for organization.

The ultimate effect of conventual life on the minds of women is open to serious question. The founders of the movement were matrons of pagan education. The little circle on the Aventine, as we have seen, was versed in the knowledge of the time. But learning was already in its decline. About the time that Marcella was a victim to the barbarians who destroyed the glory of Rome, the last great feminine representative of the genius and culture of the classic world, the beautiful and gifted Hypatia, was dead in Alexandria, a sacrifice to the[Pg 237] mad passions of a fanatical mob that marched under the banner of One who came into the world with a message of peace and good will to men. Even the semi-mythical St. Catherine, the patron saint of science, philosophy, education, and eloquence, who lived not long before,—if at all,—was brought up on Plato and taught by pagan masters. So clear was the intellect of this prodigy of wisdom and knowledge that she was called upon to dispute with fifty of the most learned pagans, and, if the legends are to be trusted, vanquished them all on their own ground. The philosopher and the saint were trained in the same schools, and they were alike martyrs to their own learning and talents, though one was a partizan of the old order of things, the other of the new.

The ultimate impact of conventual life on women's minds is up for serious debate. The founders of the movement were women educated in pagan traditions. The small group on the Aventine, as we have seen, was knowledgeable about the times. However, learning was already on the decline. Around the time that Marcella fell victim to the barbarians who brought down the glory of Rome, the last significant female figure representing the genius and culture of the classic world, the beautiful and talented Hypatia, had been killed in Alexandria, a victim of the frenzied passions of a fanatical mob that marched under the banner of One who came into the world with a message of peace and goodwill to humanity. Even the semi-mythical St. Catherine, the patron saint of science, philosophy, education, and eloquence, who lived not long before—if at all—was educated in Plato and taught by pagan masters. Her extraordinary intellect was so remarkable that she was called to debate with fifty of the most learned pagans and, if we can trust the legends, defeated them all on their own turf. The philosopher and the saint were both trained in the same schools, and both were martyrs to their own learning and abilities, though one supported the old order while the other championed the new.

But those who followed them do not seem to have equaled the early women who were the product of pagan schools. Polite letters were discouraged, if not forbidden. St. Jerome himself mourns over the lost hours spent over Cicero and the poets, though, fortunately for his fame, he never wholly broke away from their influence. “What has Horace to do with the Psalter, or Vergil with the gospels, or Cicero with the apostles?” he said to Eustochium. No pursuit of secular knowledge was ever countenanced in the large bodies of women swayed by a spiritual director who would have burned Sappho and Euripides if he could,[Pg 238] and dominated by a visionary emotionalism turned out of its natural channels and centered on a single idea. Great ability asserted itself, not in learning, but in organization, leadership, and an ever-narrowing discipline.

But those who came after them don’t seem to measure up to the early women who came from pagan schools. Education in refined literature was frowned upon, if not outright banned. St. Jerome himself lamented the wasted hours spent on Cicero and the poets, although, fortunately for his legacy, he never completely detached himself from their influence. “What does Horace have to do with the Psalter, or Vergil with the gospels, or Cicero with the apostles?” he said to Eustochium. No pursuit of secular knowledge was ever supported among the large groups of women influenced by a spiritual leader who would have burned Sappho and Euripides if he had the chance,[Pg 238] and whose vision was dominated by an emotionalism that had gone off course and focused on just one idea. Great talent showed itself not in academic learning, but in organization, leadership, and an increasingly strict discipline.

The representative pagan woman had her shortcomings and her disabilities. She had also her virtues. If she had less of the spirit of religion, she had equally the spirit of patriotism, of culture, of honor, and of duty. There was a finer sensibility among the Christian women, and a stronger instinct of self-sacrifice. None of us will depreciate the beauty of those traits, but without the firmness of fiber that is fostered by trained intelligence, they have their dangers. When they mark the permanent attitude of one class toward another which in no wise recognizes any corresponding duty, they inevitably result in the servility of the one and the tyranny of the other. Such was the relative position of men and women in the dark ages. Even chivalry which paid a tribute to weakness was largely a theory, or a fashion that offered a new path to glory, and does not bear too close a scrutiny, though it tempered the condition of women and modified the character of men, upon whom it reflected great honor. Its ideals were fine, but the gulf between the ideal and its attainment in daily life was often a very wide one. There were conspicuous examples of feminine courage and heroism[Pg 239] as well as talent, but the lives of women in these ages were not, as a rule, pleasant ones, in spite of a certain halo of romance that was thrown about them. No doubt it was their suffering and helplessness that sent so many of them into convents where they frequently found a state of morals little better than the one from which they fled. It was not until the Renaissance brought back the old spirit of learning and a vigorous intellectual life among women that they combined the sweetness of Christian virtues with the dignity and strength born of knowledge and a measure of freedom, took the rightful position that belongs to the mothers of the race, and once more played a distinctly civilizing [Pg 241]and beneficent rôle on the world’s stage.

The typical pagan woman had her flaws and limitations. She also had her strengths. While she may have had less of a religious spirit, she equally possessed a spirit of patriotism, culture, honor, and duty. Christian women displayed a finer sensitivity and a stronger instinct for self-sacrifice. None of us would underestimate the beauty of those traits, but without the strength that comes from educated intelligence, they have their risks. When they define the consistent attitude of one group toward another that doesn't acknowledge any corresponding responsibilities, they inevitably lead to the subservience of one and the oppression of the other. This was the situation between men and women in the dark ages. Even chivalry, which paid respect to weakness, was largely theoretical or a trend that provided a new road to glory, and it doesn’t hold up under close examination, though it did improve the condition of women and alter the behaviors of men, who were given great honor by it. Its ideals were admirable, but the gap between the ideal and its actual realization in everyday life was often very wide. There were notable instances of women's courage and heroism as well as talent, but, generally speaking, women's lives in these times were not pleasant, despite a certain romanticized view of them. Certainly, it was their suffering and vulnerability that drove many into convents, where they often found a moral environment little better than the one they escaped. It wasn’t until the Renaissance revived the spirit of learning and a lively intellectual life among women that they combined the gentleness of Christian virtues with the dignity and strength derived from knowledge and a degree of freedom. They took their rightful place as the mothers of society and once again played a distinctly civilizing and beneficial role on the world stage.

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THE LEARNED WOMEN OF THE RENAISSANCE

· Glorification of Women in the Fifteenth and Sixteenth Centuries ·
· Their New Cult of Knowledge ·
· Bitisia Gozzadina ·
· Ideals of the Early Poets ·
· Dante · Petrarch · Boccaccio · Medieval Saints ·
· Catherine of Siena · Women in Universities ·
· Precocious Girls · Olympia Morata ·
· Women Poets · Veronica Gambara ·
· Vittoria Colonna ·
· High Moral Tone of Literary Women ·
· An Exception · Tullia d’Aragona ·

· Celebrating Women in the 15th and 16th Centuries ·
· Their New Pursuit of Knowledge ·
· Bitisia Gozzadina ·
· Ideals of Early Poets ·
· Dante · Petrarch · Boccaccio · Medieval Saints ·
· Catherine of Siena · Women in Universities ·
· Gifted Girls · Olympia Morata ·
· Women Poets · Veronica Gambara ·
· Vittoria Colonna ·
· Strong Moral Standards of Literary Women ·
· An Exception · Tullia d’Aragona ·


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There was a curious book written early in the sixteenth century by a savant of Cologne, on “The Superiority of Women over Men.” It was one out of many that were devoted to the glorification of the long-secluded sex, but its title serves to indicate the nature of the epidemic of eulogies that raged more or less for nearly two hundred years after Boccaccio set the fashion. This he did by singing the praises of the great heroines he brought out from the shadows of the past to adorn the pages of his “Illustrious Women.” It seemed as if men had been struck with a sudden remorse for the unkind things they had been saying about women since the dawn of the world, and were trying to make amends by putting[Pg 244] them, theoretically at least, on a pinnacle of glory. Some celebrated their beauty, others their virtues, and still others their talents, while a few did not stop short of awarding them all the graces and perfections. Paul de Ribera published “The Immortal Triumphs and Heroic Enterprises of Eight Hundred and Forty-five Women,” which was comprehensive if not convincing. Hilarion of Coste devoted two large volumes to eulogies of women of the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries, finding nearly two hundred to put into his Temple of Fame. What their special claims to glory may have been I do not know beyond the fact that they were pious and devout Catholics. One man who had contended for the equality of the sexes tried afterward to refute himself; but his recantation was half-hearted, as he confessed his private conviction that logic was against him.

There was an interesting book written in the early sixteenth century by a scholar from Cologne called “The Superiority of Women over Men.” It was just one of many that celebrated women, but its title shows the wave of praise that surged for nearly two hundred years after Boccaccio set the trend. He did this by highlighting the great heroines from history in his book “Illustrious Women.” It seemed like men were suddenly feeling guilty about all the negative things they had said about women since the beginning of time and were trying to make up for it by placing them, at least in theory, on a pedestal. Some praised their beauty, others their virtues, and a few even went as far as to attribute all the qualities and perfections to them. Paul de Ribera published “The Immortal Triumphs and Heroic Enterprises of Eight Hundred and Forty-five Women,” which was extensive if not convincing. Hilarion of Coste dedicated two large volumes to praising women from the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries, identifying nearly two hundred to include in his Temple of Fame. I'm not sure what specifically made them noteworthy, except that they were pious and devoted Catholics. One man who had argued for gender equality later attempted to take back his argument; however, his retraction felt insincere as he admitted he believed logic was on his side.

Cardinal Pompeo Colonna takes it upon himself to demolish the old creed that a woman is an inferior creature, convenient in the house, but unfit for any large responsibility. He proves her capacity for public life by many examples, treats lightly the plea of the moral dangers that would beset her, and shows what men become when left to their own devices. After giving exalted praise to the masterful, accomplished women of his time, he cites his beautiful cousin, the “divine Vittoria,” as a living model of talent and strength, as well as of[Pg 245] virtue, magnanimity, and devotion. More pointed and concise, though less definite, was Monti, a famous Roman prelate, who said: “If men complain of seeing themselves equaled or surpassed by women, so much the worse for them. It is because they are not worthy of their wives.” The climax of praise was reached in a work written to prove that women are “nobler, braver, more tactful, more learned, more virtuous, and more economical than men.” Such a pitch of adulation could hardly be maintained without a protest, and there were a few men ungallant enough to say that the best proof of their own sovereignty was the effort needed to combat it.

Cardinal Pompeo Colonna takes it upon himself to dismantle the old belief that a woman is an inferior being, suitable only for the home but unfit for any significant responsibility. He demonstrates her ability to engage in public life through various examples, dismisses concerns about the moral dangers she might face, and illustrates what men become when left to their own devices. After offering high praise for the strong, accomplished women of his time, he points to his beautiful cousin, the “divine Vittoria,” as a living example of talent and strength, as well as virtue, generosity, and dedication. More succinct but less clear was Monti, a well-known Roman prelate, who remarked: “If men complain about being equal to or outdone by women, that’s their problem. It’s because they aren’t worthy of their wives.” The peak of praise was captured in a work that argued women are “nobler, braver, more tactful, more educated, more virtuous, and more economical than men.” Such extreme praise couldn't go without some objection, and a few men, lacking in chivalry, claimed that the best evidence of their own dominance was the effort required to oppose it.

It is pleasant to record that the most ardent champions of feminine ability were men of more than ordinary caliber. As men rarely exaggerate the talents of women, though they sometimes make goddesses of them, we may safely conclude that their pictures were not overdrawn on that side. Truth, however, compels me to say that some of the eulogists were accomplished courtiers with special appreciation of queens and princesses who might make or mar their fortunes; also that this complaisance was by no means universal. Whether the satirists, novelists, and minor poets found the wicked more effective, from a dramatic point of view, than the good, as many of their successors do to-day, or the sensual age was more interested in[Pg 246] pretty sinners than in saints, it is certain that these writers paid scant honor to women, and delighted to put them in the worst light, though satire was in the main directed against the ignorant and the frivolous, not against the intelligent or the strong. Even Montaigne refused to look upon a woman otherwise than as a useful but inferior animal, though he inconsistently chose one of these “inferior animals” as his confidante and literary executor, because she was the “only person he knew in whose literary judgment he could confide.” The scholarly Erasmus said she was “a foolish, silly creature, no doubt, but amusing and agreeable.” He was happy in the belief that “the great end of her existence is to please men”; but he pays his own sex a poorer compliment than we should like to when he adds that “she could not do this without folly.”

It's nice to note that the most passionate supporters of women's abilities were usually men of above-average quality. Since men rarely exaggerate women's talents, even though they sometimes idolize them, we can conclude their portrayals weren't overly flattering in that respect. However, I must admit that some of the praise came from skilled courtiers who had a vested interest in queens and princesses who could affect their fortunes; and this flattery was far from universal. Whether satirists, novelists, and minor poets found that portraying the wicked was more effective, from a dramatic standpoint, than depicting the virtuous—as many do today—or if the sensual era was more captivated by enticing sinners than saints, it's clear these writers paid little tribute to women and often chose to depict them in a negative light. Despite satire mainly targeting the ignorant and frivolous rather than the intelligent or strong, even Montaigne viewed women as useful but inferior beings, though inconsistently, he selected one of these "inferior beings" as his confidante and literary executor because she was the "only person he knew whose literary judgment he could trust." The learned Erasmus called her "a foolish, silly creature, no doubt, but amusing and pleasant." He took comfort in the belief that "the great purpose of her existence is to please men"; yet, he does his own gender a disservice when he adds that "she could not do this without folly."

So much for the man’s point of view. But the women were not silent, and a few glorified themselves as naïvely as some of their modern sisters have done. If we ever had any doubts as to our own modesty they ought to convince us of it. Lucrezia Marinelli, a clever Venetian and a poet, defined herself quite clearly in a work entitled “The Nobleness and Excellence of Women and the Faults and Imperfections of Men.” As a comparison this seems rather unfair, but considering the fact that men had for ages given themselves all the noble[Pg 247] qualities and women all the weak ones, they could not take serious exception to it. Indeed, they evidently found it refreshing. It furnished them with a new sensation, and was quite harmless on the practical side, as they still held the reins of power. Marguerite of France, the brilliant and lettered wife of Henry IV, tried to prove that women are very superior to men, but, unfortunately, in her category of superiorities morals had no place. Mlle. de Gournay was more generous, as well as more just, and declared herself content with simple equality, though one cannot help wondering how she settled that matter with her friend Montaigne. But Mlle. Schurmann of Cologne thought that even this was going too far. It seems as if she might fairly have claimed to be the peer of the average man, since she spoke nine languages and was more or less noted as painter, musician, sculptor, engraver, philosopher, mathematician, and theologian. Just how much solid learning was implied in this formidable list of accomplishments we cannot judge, but it is clear that there has been a time before to-day when women aimed to know everything, though there was a safeguard against shattered nerves in the fact that there were not so many books to read nor so many brain-splitting problems to solve. It is fair, however, to suppose that this learned lady did not waste much time on clothes or five-o’clock teas. Louise Labé, the poet[Pg 248] and savante of Lyons, takes a more modern tone. In claiming intellectual equality for women, she begs them not to permit themselves to be despoiled of the “honest liberty so painfully won—the liberty of knowing, thinking, working, shining.” In spite of her courageous words, however, this paragon of so many talents and virtues, the glory of her sex and the pride of her city, asserts herself in a half-deprecating way, as if she were asking pardon for presuming to publish her little verses, and shelters herself behind the admiring friends who are willing to “take half the shame.” But she was a Frenchwoman, and her day was not yet. Women had so long hidden their light, if they had any, that it blinked perceptibly when exposed to the winds of heaven or the more chilly breezes of masculine criticism.

So much for the man’s perspective. But the women weren’t silent, and some praised themselves as naively as some modern women do today. If we ever had doubts about our own modesty, they should convince us otherwise. Lucrezia Marinelli, a clever Venetian poet, clearly defined herself in a work titled “The Nobleness and Excellence of Women and the Faults and Imperfections of Men.” As a comparison, this seems a bit unfair, but considering that men had long claimed all the noble qualities for themselves while relegating women to the weak ones, they couldn’t seriously take issue with it. In fact, they seemed to find it refreshing. It gave them a new sensation and was harmless practically, as they still held all the power. Marguerite of France, the brilliant and educated wife of Henry IV, tried to prove that women were vastly superior to men, but, unfortunately, her definition of superiority didn’t include morals. Mlle. de Gournay was more generous and more just, declaring herself satisfied with simple equality, though one can’t help but wonder how she reconciled that with her friend Montaigne. But Mlle. Schurmann of Cologne thought that even this was too much. It seems she fairly could claim to be the equal of the average man since she spoke nine languages and was known as a painter, musician, sculptor, engraver, philosopher, mathematician, and theologian. Just how much solid knowledge this impressive list implied, we can’t judge, but it’s clear that there was a time before today when women aimed to know everything, though there was some protection against burnout since there weren’t as many books to read or mind-bending problems to solve. However, it’s fair to assume this learned lady didn’t waste much time on clothes or five-o’clock teas. Louise Labé, the poet and savante from Lyons, takes a more modern approach. In claiming intellectual equality for women, she urges them not to let themselves be stripped of the “honest liberty so painfully won—the liberty of knowing, thinking, working, shining.” Despite her brave words, though, this paragon of many talents and virtues, the pride of her gender and her city, asserts herself in a half-embarrassed way as if she’s apologizing for daring to publish her little verses, relying on her admiring friends who are willing to “take half the shame.” But she was a Frenchwoman, and her time had not yet come. Women had hidden their light for so long, if they had any, that it flickered noticeably when exposed to the winds of heaven or the colder breezes of masculine criticism.

It is needless to extend the list of writers on this subject, but it is a long and remarkable one. The books would make rather interesting reading to-day, whatever we might think of their quality, as problems familiar to us were pretty thoroughly if not always ably discussed, and apparently with great good nature. A distinguished Frenchman, well known in the salons of the eighteenth century, unearthed a great many curious facts and opinions hidden away in these books, which are now mostly buried too deep in the dust of old libraries for resurrection, and his own wise and quite modern[Pg 249] conclusions entitled him to more consideration than he received from the women of his time. But this rapid glimpse will suffice, perhaps, to show the spirit in which latter-day questions were treated four or five centuries ago; also to throw a strong light on the position of women during the period, without very precise limits, known as the Renaissance—a period of special interest to us, as it marks the dawn of a new era of feminine intelligence.

It’s unnecessary to add to the list of writers on this topic, but it’s a long and impressive one. The books would offer pretty interesting reading today, no matter what we think of their quality, since issues familiar to us were thoroughly discussed, if not always skillfully, and seemingly with a lot of good humor. A prominent Frenchman, famous in the salons of the eighteenth century, uncovered many intriguing facts and opinions hidden in these books, which are now mostly too deep in the dust of old libraries to be brought back to life. His own insightful and quite modern conclusions deserved more recognition than he got from the women of his time. But this brief overview should be enough to show how contemporary issues were addressed four or five centuries ago, and also to highlight the status of women during the Renaissance—a period of particular interest to us, as it marks the beginning of a new age of female intelligence.[Pg 249]

II

We do not know how it happened that Bitisia Gozzadina stepped out of the traditional seclusion of her sex as early as the benighted thirteenth century, to be made doctor of civil and canon law in the University of Bologna at the age of twenty-seven. She had already pronounced a funeral oration in Latin and otherwise distinguished herself several years before. It is no longer the fashion to give Latin orations outside of the universities, but we know how women fared a few decades ago, when they tried to speak publicly in their own language. It was perfectly understood that women of such oratorical proclivities forfeited all right to social consideration. They were practically ostracized. Happily, now they are treated about as well as they were six hundred years ago, when people crowded the university halls and even[Pg 250] the public squares to listen to this remarkable woman. We do not hear that she was called any disagreeable names, not even a bas-bleu, though there is a vague tradition that she had peculiar notions about dress. It is said that she had rare beauty, but her charm and esprit made people forget it.

We don’t know how it happened that Bitisia Gozzadina broke free from the traditional restrictions placed on women as early as the dark thirteenth century to become a doctor of civil and canon law at the University of Bologna at the age of twenty-seven. She had already delivered a funeral oration in Latin and distinguished herself several years earlier. It’s no longer common to give Latin orations outside of universities, but we know how women were treated just a few decades ago when they attempted to speak publicly in their own language. It was clearly understood that women who showed such oratorical talent lost all rights to social respect. They were effectively ostracized. Fortunately, today they are treated about as well as they were six hundred years ago, when crowds filled university halls and even[Pg 250] public squares to hear this remarkable woman. There’s no record of her being called any unpleasant names, not even a bas-bleu, although there’s a vague tradition that she had unique ideas about fashion. It’s said that she possessed rare beauty, but her charm and intelligence made people forget it.

There is nothing in the medieval ideals of womanhood to suggest such a phenomenon, still less its cordial acceptance. Not even in the early poets is there a trace of the type of woman which played so distinguished a part in the golden age of the Renaissance. Beatrice was little more than a beautiful abstraction, the spiritual ideal of a man who dwelt mainly upon other-worldly matters. Petrarch found it interesting to kneel before Madonna Laura in the clouds, and sing hymns in her praise; but she was only an elusive figure on which to drape poetic fancies. In these days, when it is quite the fashion to pull the halos from the saints and put them on the sinners,—when even the wicked Lucrezia Borgia has become a respectable wife and a particularly good mother, who expiated the sins of her youth, if she had any, by her pious devotion, her kindness to the poor, and her patronage of art and literature,—it is not surprising to hear that Laura was a common-place matron, “fair, fat, and forty,” who would have found it difficult to live up to the ideals of her adorer,—even if she had known what they were,—and[Pg 251] prudently kept out of so rarefied an air. This blending of chivalry and mysticism made fine poetry but not very substantial women.

There’s nothing in medieval ideas of womanhood to suggest such a phenomenon, let alone its warm acceptance. Even the early poets don’t show any trace of the kind of woman who played such a prominent role in the golden age of the Renaissance. Beatrice was just a beautiful idea, the spiritual ideal of a man focused mostly on otherworldly matters. Petrarch found it fascinating to kneel before Madonna Laura in the clouds and sing hymns in her honor; however, she was merely an elusive figure for him to project his poetic fantasies onto. Nowadays, when it’s trendy to strip the halos from saints and place them on sinners—when even the notorious Lucrezia Borgia is seen as a respectable wife and a good mother who redeemed her youthful sins through her religious devotion, kindness to the poor, and support for art and literature—it’s no surprise to learn that Laura was actually an ordinary matron, “fair, fat, and forty,” who would have struggled to live up to the ideals her admirer cherished—even if she had known what they were—and wisely stayed away from such an ethereal atmosphere. This mix of chivalry and mysticism created beautiful poetry but not very substantial women.

Boccaccio paid a generous tribute to the heroic qualities of the women of the past, but he evidently preferred them at a distance or in books. Personally he seems to have had no more taste for savantes than for saints. He belonged to the new age, which glorified the joys of life and liked to sing love-songs—not of the choicest—to frail beauties. Fiammetta was, no doubt, a clever woman and a beautiful one, but she was no divine Egeria to inspire him with high thoughts. If he did brilliant things at her bidding, the trail of the serpent was over them all. Perhaps he aimed to suit the taste of the day, which was neither delicate nor moral; or he may have lived in bad company from which he took his models. We should be sorry to take as representative the heroines of the Decameron, who must have brought blushes, which the twilight could not hide, to the faces of the little coterie of friends that sat on the grass telling or listening to these tales during the long summer evenings at Florence, when men and women were dying all about them. But they give us one phase of the life of the time, and reflect the taste of an audience composed mainly of men who laughed at morals and deified art, regardless of its aim or its subject. The age was not strait-laced, but Italian[Pg 252] ladies were not permitted to read Boccaccio. One story, however, they might read. When the poet wished to portray a good woman, for a change, he made a fine little picture of Griselda, the patient, who was duly thankful for every indignity her amiable lord chose to offer, mainly because she thought her sufferings made him happy. When these incredible cruelties culminated in sending her away loaded with unmerited disgrace, she still thanked him like a good wife who was grateful for being trampled upon, even when her innocent heart was breaking. It was a fine object-lesson for the proper education of girls, and this marvel of self-sacrifice was held up from one end of Europe to the other as a model of womanhood. Poets painted her over and over again, with race variations; moralists praised her; and men quoted her to their wives. Some instinct of justice prompted Boccaccio to reward her in the end for all this useless misery, which was simply a test of her servile quality, by putting her again, after a series of years, into the good graces of her inhuman husband; but it is needless to say that such rewards of virtue, if they could be considered rewards, are not in the way of a world in which these lessons are read.

Boccaccio paid a generous tribute to the heroic qualities of the women of the past, but he clearly preferred to keep them at a distance or confined to books. Personally, he didn't seem to have any more appreciation for clever women than for saints. He belonged to a new age that celebrated the joys of life and enjoyed singing love songs—not the best ones—to delicate beauties. Fiammetta was undoubtedly a smart and beautiful woman, but she wasn't a divine Egeria to inspire him with lofty ideas. If he did remarkable things at her request, there was always a hint of something sinister behind them. Perhaps he aimed to appeal to the tastes of the time, which were neither refined nor moral; or maybe he was influenced by the bad company he kept. It would be unfortunate to consider the heroines of the Decameron as representative, as they must have brought blushes, which the twilight couldn't hide, to the faces of the small group of friends gathered on the grass, sharing and listening to these stories during the long summer evenings in Florence, while people were dying all around them. But they do offer a glimpse into one aspect of life during that time and reflect the preferences of an audience mostly made up of men who mocked morals and worshiped art, regardless of its purpose or subject. The age wasn't uptight, but Italian women were not allowed to read Boccaccio. However, there was one story they could read. When the poet wanted to depict a good woman for a change, he created a nice little portrait of Griselda, the patient one, who was grateful for every humiliation her kind husband chose to inflict upon her, primarily because she believed her suffering made him happy. When these unbelievable cruelties culminated in sending her away, burdened with unwarranted disgrace, she still thanked him like a good wife who appreciated being mistreated, even as her innocent heart was breaking. It served as a fine lesson for the proper upbringing of girls, and this remarkable example of self-sacrifice was held up across Europe as a model of womanhood. Poets painted her repeatedly, with variations; moralists praised her; and men quoted her to their wives. Some sense of justice led Boccaccio to reward her at the end for all this pointless suffering, which was merely a test of her submissive nature, by eventually reinstating her in the favor of her cruel husband after many years; but it's unnecessary to say that such rewards for virtue, if they could be considered rewards, are not found in a world where these lessons are learned.

All this shows how far the heroines of the early poets, whether good or bad, differed from the strong, able, and accomplished women who were recognized as the glories of the Renaissance. It[Pg 253] suggests also the lurid or colorless background against which the latter were outlined. The cynical bachelor in Molière’s comedy summed up the whole duty of woman according to the gospel of the middle ages—and, it might be added, of many other ages—when he said that his wife must know only how to “pray to God, love, sew, and spin.” The last three qualifications were necessary for his own comfort, and he had the penetration to divine that she might have ample need of the first on her own account. Then it gave him an agreeable sense of security to have a certain proprietorship in some one mildly affiliated with the next world. “In thy orisons be all my sins remembered,” says Hamlet to the fair Ophelia. A man might be the worst of sinners himself, but he liked a seasoning of piety in his wife, provided it was not too aggressive and left him free to be wicked if he chose. It was like having an altar in the home, and gave it a desirable flavor of saintliness.

All this shows how much the heroines of early poets, whether they were good or bad, differed from the strong, capable, and accomplished women celebrated during the Renaissance. It[Pg 253] also hints at the stark or dull backdrop against which these women were portrayed. The jaded bachelor in Molière’s play summed up the entire role of women according to the beliefs of the Middle Ages—and, it could be said, many other periods—when he stated that his wife should only know how to “pray to God, love, sew, and spin.” The last three skills were necessary for his comfort, and he had the insight to realize that she might need the first one for her own sake. It also gave him a reassuring sense of security to have a certain ownership over someone mildly connected to the next world. “In thy orisons be all my sins remembered,” Hamlet says to the beautiful Ophelia. A man might be the worst sinner himself, but he appreciated having a touch of piety in his wife, as long as it wasn't too intense and allowed him the freedom to be wicked if he wanted. It was like having an altar at home, giving it a desirable hint of saintliness.

Beyond the fireside and the docile domestic slave, however, there was another medieval ideal of womanhood, a religieuse who prayed and sang hymns in the cloister. Aside from this, it was her special mission to help the poor, care for the sick, console the sorrowful, and advance the interests of the church. But these women of the cloister, who had the altar without the home, found a possible outlet for their imprisoned intellects, if they had sufficient[Pg 254] natural force. The Roman Church, which had always frowned upon any exercise of a woman’s mental gifts in a worldly sphere, was glad to avail itself of them in its own interest, and there were a few women more or less distinguished both as leaders of religious organizations and counselors of ecclesiastics, who kept alive the prestige of their sex through centuries of darkness. It was one of the strange paradoxes of that age, as of many others, that a woman is an irrational being, too fragile to bear distinction of any sort, except when her talents make for the glory of men or the church. Activity in public affairs, so long as they were religious ones, was not considered unwomanly, notwithstanding the conservative opinions of St. Paul. No one took it amiss when Catherine of Siena used her wisdom and eloquence in persuading the Pope to return from Avignon to Rome after men’s counsels had failed. No one found fault because her emotional exaltation was tempered by a vigorous intellect. She was a thinker and seer, and wrote ably on political as well as ecclesiastical questions. Her style was simple and classic; indeed, she was altogether phenomenal, and had strange influence over the popes and kings to whom she did not hesitate to tell unpleasant truths. It was quite fitting that she should devote these gifts to the interests of her church and incidentally of her country. Men honored her for it, and canonized her.

Beyond the fireside and the compliant domestic servant, there was another medieval ideal of womanhood: a religieuse who prayed and sang hymns in the cloister. Besides this, it was her special mission to help the poor, care for the sick, console the sorrowful, and support the church's interests. However, these cloistered women, who had the altar but not the home, found a potential outlet for their confined intellects, if they had enough[Pg 254] natural strength. The Roman Church, which had always disapproved of women using their mental gifts in the secular world, was eager to benefit from them for its own purposes. There were a few women, more or less notable, who served as leaders of religious organizations and advisors to church officials, keeping the respect for their sex alive through centuries of oppression. One of the strange paradoxes of that time, as in many others, was that a woman was seen as irrational and too delicate to achieve any distinction, unless her talents contributed to the glory of men or the church. Involvement in public affairs, as long as they were related to religion, was not deemed unwomanly, despite the conservative views of St. Paul. No one criticized Catherine of Siena for using her wisdom and eloquence to persuade the Pope to return from Avignon to Rome after the advice of men had failed. No one objected because her emotional intensity was balanced by a strong intellect. She was a thinker and visionary, and she wrote effectively on political as well as church matters. Her style was straightforward and classic; indeed, she was truly remarkable and had an unusual influence over the popes and kings, to whom she did not hesitate to speak uncomfortable truths. It was entirely appropriate that she dedicated these gifts to the benefit of her church and, incidentally, her country. Men respected her for it and canonized her.

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This was a hundred and fifty years or so before the beautiful Isabella of Cordova, who was more learned and less mystical, gave up mundane pleasures for the classics and a degree in theology; and Isabella Rosera devoted herself to the conversion of the Jews, dazzled multitudes with her eloquence in the cathedral at Barcelona, and expounded the subtleties of Duns Scotus before prelates and cardinals at Rome. But in that interval women had made great strides in intelligence, and the talents that shone so conspicuously in great moral and religious movements had become a powerful factor in other directions. Bitisia Gozzadina had multitudes of successors to her honors.

This was about a hundred and fifty years before the remarkable Isabella of Cordova, who was more educated and less mystical, traded worldly pleasures for the classics and a degree in theology; and Isabella Rosera dedicated herself to converting the Jews, captivating crowds with her speaking skills in the Barcelona cathedral, and explaining the complexities of Duns Scotus to bishops and cardinals in Rome. But during that time, women had made significant advances in intellect, and the abilities that shone brightly in major moral and religious movements had become a strong influence in other areas. Bitisia Gozzadina had many successors to her accolades.

III

That women emerged so suddenly from a state of ignorance, superstition, and mystic dreams to a position of intellectual distinction and virtual though not legal equality with men, is one of the marvels of the Renaissance. The change was as rapid and complete as that which came over the women of the nineteenth century. It is scarcely less remarkable, in the light of our own experience, that their new-born passion for learning met with so little opposition. They did not find it necessary to fight their own battles. There was no question of asserting their right to the higher education, as we have[Pg 256] been forced to do. This was taken as a matter of course and without controversy. They were educated on equal lines with men, and by the same masters; nor were the most distinguished teachers of the age afraid of being enervated by this contact with the feminine mind, as certain modern professors claim to be. Doubtless they would have smiled at such a reflection on their own mental vigor.

That women suddenly moved from ignorance, superstition, and mystical thinking to a place of intellectual recognition and actual, if not legal, equality with men is one of the wonders of the Renaissance. The transformation was as swift and thorough as what the women of the nineteenth century experienced. It’s almost as impressive, considering our own experiences, that their newfound passion for learning faced so little resistance. They didn’t have to fight their own battles. There was no need to claim their right to higher education, as we have[Pg 256] been compelled to do. This was taken for granted and without debate. They were educated alongside men, by the same teachers; and the most esteemed educators of the time weren’t worried about being weakened by interacting with women, unlike some modern professors who claim to be. They would likely have found such a thought amusing regarding their own mental strength.

One is constantly surprised by the extraordinary precocity of the young girls. Cecilia, the daughter of an early Marquis of Mantua, was trained with her brothers by the most famous master in Italy, and wrote Greek with singular purity at ten. She refused a brilliant but distasteful marriage, and devoted her life to literature. The little Battista, whose talents descended to her illustrious granddaughter, Vittoria Colonna, was chosen, at an age when girls are usually playing with dolls or learning their letters, to greet Pius II in a Latin address. Anna d’Este, who became the wife of the Duke of Guise, and in later life was so prominent a patroness of letters in France, translated Italian into Latin with ease at ten, and was otherwise a prodigy. One might imagine these children to have been insufferable little prigs, but such does not seem to have been the case. So far as we can learn, they did not lose their simplicity, and grew up to be capable, many-sided, and charming women,[Pg 257] quite free from pedantry or affectation of any sort. Without attaching too much importance to these childish efforts, which were by no means uncommon, they are of value mainly in showing the care given to the serious education of girls.

One is always amazed by the incredible intelligence of the young girls. Cecilia, the daughter of an early Marquis of Mantua, was trained alongside her brothers by the most renowned teacher in Italy and could write Greek with impressive accuracy by the age of ten. She turned down a prestigious but unappealing marriage and dedicated her life to literature. The young Battista, whose talents were inherited by her famous granddaughter, Vittoria Colonna, was selected at an age when most girls are typically playing with dolls or learning their ABCs to deliver a Latin speech to Pius II. Anna d’Este, who later became the wife of the Duke of Guise and a well-known supporter of literature in France, translated Italian into Latin effortlessly at ten and was otherwise a remarkable talent. One might think these kids would be unbearable know-it-alls, but that doesn’t seem to have been the case. From what we understand, they maintained their innocence and grew up to be capable, well-rounded, and delightful women,[Pg 257] completely free from any pretentiousness. While we shouldn’t place too much emphasis on these youthful accomplishments, which were by no means rare, they importantly highlight the serious attention given to the education of girls.

It is certain that the place held by educated women was a new and exceptional one. They filled chairs of philosophy and law, discoursed in Latin before bishops and cardinals, spoke half a dozen or more languages, understood the mysteries of statecraft better than any of us do to-day, and were consulted on public affairs by the greatest sovereigns of their age. Nor do we hear that they were unsexed or out of their sphere. On the contrary, men recognized their talents and gave them cordial appreciation. While the shafts of satire fell thick and fast upon the follies peculiar to ignorance and weakness, they were rarely aimed at those who, even to-day, would be more or less stigmatized as strong-minded. Possibly a clue to this may be found in the fact that in training the intellect they did not lose their distinctive virtues and graces; they simply added the cult of knowledge, which heightened all other charms. We find constant reference to their attractions of person and character, as well as of mind. Novella d’Andrea took her father’s place in his absence and lectured on jurisprudence at the University of Bologna; but, either from modesty or from the fear of distracting[Pg 258] the too susceptible students, she hid her lovely face behind a curtain. At a later time Elena Cornaro—who was not only versed in mathematics, astronomy, philosophy, theology, and six languages, but sang her own verses, gave Latin eulogies, and lectured on various sciences—was crowned doctor of philosophy at Padua. She took her honors modestly, and is said to have been as pious as she was learned.

It’s clear that educated women held a unique and remarkable position. They held chairs in philosophy and law, discussed topics in Latin before bishops and cardinals, spoke six or more languages, understood the intricacies of government better than most today, and were consulted on public matters by the most powerful rulers of their time. We don’t hear that they lost their femininity or stepped out of their roles. On the contrary, men acknowledged their talents and appreciated them genuinely. While criticism often targeted the foolishness tied to ignorance and weakness, it rarely focused on those who today would be labeled as strong-minded. This might relate to the fact that, while training their intellect, they didn't lose their unique virtues and charm; they simply enriched themselves with knowledge, enhancing their other qualities. There are frequent mentions of their appeal in personality and intellect, as well as appearance. Novella d’Andrea filled in for her father at the University of Bologna when he was absent and lectured on law; however, either due to modesty or to avoid distracting the easily influenced students, she concealed her beautiful face behind a curtain. Later, Elena Cornaro—who was well-versed in mathematics, astronomy, philosophy, theology, and six languages, composed her own poetry, delivered Latin speeches, and lectured on various sciences—was awarded a doctorate in philosophy at Padua. She accepted her honors with humility and was said to be as devout as she was knowledgeable.

In these days of specialties one looks with distrust on so formidable an array of accomplishments. We are apt to think of such women as either hopelessly superficial, or pedants without any fine human quality. A few salient points from the life of one of the most distinguished may serve to correct this impression.

In today's world of specialization, we tend to view such an impressive list of skills with skepticism. We often consider women like this as either completely superficial or as know-it-alls lacking any genuine human qualities. A few key highlights from the life of one of the most notable individuals can help change this perception.

IV

Olympia Morata deserves, for her own sake, more than a passing mention. She was by no means a simple receptacle of heterogeneous knowledge, but a woman as noted for feminine virtues and strength of character as for the brilliancy of her intellect. Her father was a distinguished professor in the University of Ferrara, and his gifted daughter was fed from infancy on the classics. At six she was taught by a learned canon who advised her parents to put a pen in her hand instead of a needle. At twelve she was well versed in[Pg 259] Greek, Latin, and the sciences of the day, petted and flattered by scholars old and young, compared to the Muses and to all the feminine stars of antiquity, and in the way of being altogether spoiled. In the midst of this chorus of praise she donned the habit of a professor at sixteen, wrote dialogues in the language of Vergil and Plato, a Greek essay on the Stoics, and many poems. She also lectured without notes at the academy, before the court and the university dons, on such themes as the paradoxes of Cicero, speaking in Latin, and improvising at pleasure with perfect ease. The great Roman orator was her model of style, and in a preface to one of her lectures she says: “I come to my task as an unskilled artist who can make nothing of a coarse-grained marble. But if you offer a block of Parian to his chisel, he will no longer deem his work useless. The beauty of the material will give value to his production. Perhaps it will be so with mine. There are some tunes so full of melody that they retain their sweetness even when played upon a poor instrument. Such are the words of my author. In passing through my lips they will lose nothing of their grace and majesty.”

Olympia Morata deserves, for her own sake, more than a quick mention. She was far from just a simple collector of various knowledge; she was a woman recognized for her feminine qualities and strength of character as much as for her brilliant mind. Her father was a respected professor at the University of Ferrara, and his talented daughter was immersed in the classics from a young age. By six, she was taught by a well-educated canon who encouraged her parents to give her a pen instead of a needle. By twelve, she was proficient in[Pg 259] Greek, Latin, and the contemporary sciences, adored and praised by scholars of all ages, likened to the Muses and all the great women of ancient times, and on the verge of being spoiled. Amidst this praise, she took on the role of a professor at sixteen, wrote dialogues in the style of Vergil and Plato, composed a Greek essay on the Stoics, and created many poems. She also delivered lectures without notes at the academy, in front of the court and university professors, discussing topics like Cicero's paradoxes, speaking in Latin, and effortlessly improvising. The great Roman orator was her stylistic role model, and in a preface to one of her lectures, she stated: “I approach my task like an unskilled artist who can’t shape coarse-grained marble. But if you give him a block of Parian, he’ll no longer see his work as worthless. The beauty of the material will elevate his creation. Perhaps it will be the same with mine. Some melodies are so rich that they retain their sweetness even when played on a poor instrument. Such are the words of my author. When they come through me, they will lose none of their grace and majesty.”

This brilliant and classical maiden passed eight or ten years of her youth at the court of Ferrara in intimate companionship with Anna d’Este and her mother, the “wise, witty, and virtuous” Duchess Renée. These were the days when the latter had[Pg 260] Bernardo Tasso, a fashionable poet who was eclipsed by his greater son, for her private secretary, and delighted to fill her apartments with men of learning. The little Anna, too, a child of ten, had been brought up on the classics, and the two girls, who studied Greek together, liked to talk of Plato, Apollo, and the Muses much better than to gossip about dress and society, or the gallants of the court. Even their diversions had a pagan flavor. When Paul III came on a visit, the royal children played a comedy of Terence to entertain his eighteen cardinals and forty bishops, with all the magnates and great ladies that usually grace such festivities. It is quite probable that the clever Olympia had much to do in directing it.

This brilliant and classic young woman spent eight or ten years of her youth at the court of Ferrara, closely connected with Anna d’Este and her mother, the “wise, witty, and virtuous” Duchess Renée. These were the days when the Duchess had [Pg 260] Bernardo Tasso, a well-known poet overshadowed by his more famous son, as her private secretary, and she loved to fill her rooms with learned men. Little Anna, just ten years old, had been raised on the classics, and the two girls, who studied Greek together, preferred discussing Plato, Apollo, and the Muses to gossiping about outfits and society, or the handsome men at court. Even their entertainment had a pagan touch. When Paul III came for a visit, the royal children performed a comedy by Terence to entertain his eighteen cardinals and forty bishops, along with all the nobles and high ladies that typically attended such celebrations. It’s quite likely that the clever Olympia played a significant role in directing it.

The literary academy of the duchess had a singular fascination for the gifted young girl, who was one of its brightest ornaments. “Her enthusiasm over antiquity became an idolatry, and badly prepared her intellect for the doctrines of grace,” wrote one of her friends. “She loved better the wisdom of Homer and Plato than the foolishness of St. Paul.” She says of herself that she was full of the vanities of her sex, though it is difficult to conceive of this worshiper of poets and philosophers as very frivolous. That she had many attractions is certain, as she won all hearts. “Thy face is not only beautiful and thy grace charming,” said one of the great scholars of the time, “but thou hast been[Pg 261] elevated to the court by thy virtues.... Happy the princess who has such a companion! Happy the parents of such a child, who pronounce thy beautiful name within their doors! Blessed the husband who shall win thy hand!”

The literary academy of the duchess fascinated the talented young girl, making her one of its brightest stars. “Her passion for ancient works turned into an obsession, which didn't really prepare her mind for the teachings of grace,” wrote one of her friends. “She preferred the wisdom of Homer and Plato over the foolishness of St. Paul.” She describes herself as being full of the vanities typical of her gender, though it’s hard to see this lover of poets and philosophers as very shallow. It’s clear she had many appeals, as she won everyone’s heart. “Your face is not only beautiful and your grace enchanting,” said one of the great scholars of the time, “but you have been elevated to the court by your virtues.... Lucky is the princess who has such a companion! Lucky are the parents of such a child who speak your beautiful name within their home! Blessed is the husband who will win your hand!”

But this sunny life could not go on forever. The “Tenth Muse” was called home to care for her father in his last illness, and proved as capable in the qualities of a nurse as in those of a muse. At his death the little family was left to her care. To make the prospect darker, her friend Anna d’Este had just married and gone off to her brilliant but not altogether smooth career in France, and the duchess gave her a chilling reception that boded no good; indeed, night had overtaken her, and she found herself cruelly dismissed in her hour of sorrow and trouble.

But this sunny life couldn't last forever. The “Tenth Muse” was called home to take care of her father during his final illness and proved just as capable as a nurse as she was as a muse. After his death, the little family was left in her hands. To make matters worse, her friend Anna d’Este had just gotten married and set off for her impressive but somewhat tumultuous career in France, and the duchess gave her a cold reception that foreshadowed trouble. In fact, night had fallen on her, and she found herself harshly dismissed in her time of grief and difficulty.

Other subjects had been discussed in this literary circle besides Greek poetry and Ariosto and the courtly Bembo and the rising stars of the day. Calvin had been there in disguise, and they had talked of free will, predestination, and like heresies, much to the discomfiture of the orthodox duke, whose interests did not lie in that direction. The young savante had listened to these things, and her eager mind had pondered on them. Perhaps, too, she was one of the group that discussed high and grave themes when Vittoria Colonna was there. At all events, the duchess had fallen into disgrace[Pg 262] for her Protestant leanings, and could do no more for her favorite, who was branded with a suspicion of the same heresy. Indeed, she was herself confined for a time to one wing of the palace and forbidden to see her children lest she should contaminate them with her own liberal views. The only powerful friend left to the desolate girl in her adversity was Lavinia della Rovere of the ducal family of Urbino, who had shared her tastes, sympathized with her views in happier times, and now proved her loyalty in various ways that sustained her drooping heart. But there was another, equally helpful if not so powerful, a young German of good family, who had been a medical student in the university, and fallen in love with this paragon of learning and accomplishments. He was true when others fell away, and she gave him the devotion of her life. Both were under the same ban, and soon after their marriage fled to Germany, with the blessing of Lavinia and some valuable letters to her friends.

Other topics had come up in this literary group besides Greek poetry, Ariosto, the refined Bembo, and the emerging talents of the time. Calvin had attended in disguise, and they had discussed free will, predestination, and similar heresies, much to the discomfort of the orthodox duke, whose interests didn’t align with those ideas. The young scholar had absorbed these discussions, and her curious mind had wrestled with them. Perhaps she was also part of the group that tackled serious themes when Vittoria Colonna was present. In any case, the duchess had fallen out of favor due to her Protestant beliefs and could no longer support her favorite, who was suspected of sharing the same heresy. In fact, she was confined for a time to one wing of the palace and forbidden to see her children lest she influence them with her progressive views. The only powerful ally left to the lonely girl in her difficult times was Lavinia della Rovere from the ducal family of Urbino, who had once shared her interests, supported her views during better days, and now showed her loyalty in various ways that uplifted her saddened spirit. However, there was another equally supportive figure, a young German from a good family who had been a medical student at the university and had fallen in love with this remarkable woman. He remained steadfast when others turned away, and she devoted her life to him. Both faced the same ban, and shortly after their marriage, they fled to Germany with Lavinia’s blessings and some valuable letters to her friends.

It was a strange series of misfortunes that pursued this brave couple. After drifting about in the vain search for a foothold in an unsympathetic world, where they could think their own thoughts and satisfy their modest wants, they found at last a home in which they set up their household goods and gathered their few treasures with their much-loved books. But when kings fall out other people[Pg 263] suffer. No sooner were they settled than the small city was besieged, and for many months they went through all the horrors of war, famine, pestilence, and, in the end, fire, which destroyed their small possessions, and compelled them to flee for their lives through a hostile country, scantily clothed, unprotected, and penniless.

It was a strange series of misfortunes that followed this brave couple. After wandering around in a fruitless search for a place in a cold world where they could have their own thoughts and meet their simple needs, they finally found a home where they set up their belongings and cherished their few treasures along with their beloved books. But when powerful people clash, everyone else[Pg 263] suffers. No sooner had they settled in than the small city was besieged, and for many months they endured all the horrors of war, hunger, disease, and ultimately fire, which destroyed their limited possessions and forced them to flee for their lives through an unfriendly land, poorly dressed, defenseless, and broke.

It is needless to follow their dark wanderings. Suffice it to say that they found refuge at last in Heidelberg, where the husband was given a professorship, and the wife, too, was offered the chair of Greek, which she was never able to take. Her health had succumbed to her many sufferings and hardships, and she died before she was twenty-nine. But her strong soul rose above them all. “I am happy—entirely happy,” she said at the close. “I have never known a spirit so bright and fair, or a disposition so amiable and upright,” wrote her husband, who could not survive her loss and followed her within a few months.

It’s unnecessary to go into their troubled journey. It’s enough to say that they finally found shelter in Heidelberg, where the husband got a professorship, and the wife was also offered the chair in Greek, which she was never able to accept. Her health had deteriorated from her many struggles and hardships, and she died before turning twenty-nine. But her strong spirit transcended it all. “I am happy—completely happy,” she said in the end. “I have never encountered a spirit so bright and pure, or a character so kind and honorable,” wrote her husband, who couldn’t handle her loss and passed away within a few months.

There is more than the many-colored tissue of a life as sad as it was brilliant in these records. They carry within them all the possibilities of a strong and symmetrical womanhood. The rare quality of her scholarship was never questioned. She was the admitted peer of the most learned men of her time, one of whom expects her to “produce something worthy of Sophocles.” But she was clever, winning, and fascinating, as well as serious. Living for years[Pg 264] among the gaieties of a court, she went out into a world of storms and gloom without a murmur or a regret, buoyed up by her love and unquestioning faith. She refers more to the joys than to the sorrows of this tempestuous time. Lavinia and the Duchess of Guise, the friends of her youth, were true to the end. In her letters to them and to the learned men who never lost sight of her, we have curious glimpses of the home of a woman who was a disciple of the Muses and a savante of intrinsic quality. While her husband prepares his lectures, she puts the house in order, buys furniture, and manages servants who were about as troublesome as they are to-day. One asks a florin a month, and reserves a part of the time for her own profit. Others insist upon staying out late and running in the streets. Most of them are grossly incompetent. Poor as she is, she is always ready to help those who are in greater need, and is constantly imposed upon. She even borrows money to send to an old servant in distress.

There’s more to the colorful fabric of a life that was both sad and brilliant in these records. They hold within them all the potential of a strong and balanced womanhood. The exceptional quality of her scholarship was never questioned. She was recognized as an equal by the most learned men of her time, one of whom expected her to “create something worthy of Sophocles.” But she was also clever, charming, and captivating, alongside being serious. After living for years [Pg 264] amid the joys of a court, she stepped into a world filled with storms and sadness without a complaint or regret, supported by her love and unwavering faith. She focuses more on the joys than the sorrows of this tumultuous period. Lavinia and the Duchess of Guise, her childhood friends, stayed loyal to the end. In her letters to them and to the learned men who always kept her in mind, we get intriguing insights into the life of a woman who was a follower of the Muses and possessed genuine talent. While her husband prepares his lectures, she tidies up the house, buys furniture, and manages servants who are just as troublesome as they are today. One asks for a florin a month and saves part of the time for her own benefit. Others insist on staying out late and running around the streets. Most of them are completely incompetent. Despite being poor, she is always willing to help those in greater need and is often taken advantage of. She even borrows money to send to an old servant in trouble.

Then there are the evenings when grave professors come in, and they talk in Latin of the affairs of the day, the religious persecutions, or some disputed dogma. Sometimes they sing one of her Greek psalms which her husband has set to music. She has her heart full with the care of her young brother and the little daughter of a friend, who has been sent to her for instruction. But her life is[Pg 265] bound up in that of her husband, whom she “cannot live without.” A pure and generous spirit, happy in her sacrifices, and true to every relation, she is a living refutation of the fallacy, too often heard even now, that learning and the gentler qualities of womanhood do not go together.

Then there are the evenings when serious professors come in, and they talk in Latin about the day’s events, the religious persecutions, or some debated doctrine. Sometimes they sing one of her Greek psalms that her husband has set to music. She is filled with the responsibility of caring for her young brother and the little daughter of a friend who has been sent to her for guidance. But her life is[Pg 265] intertwined with that of her husband, whom she “cannot live without.” A pure and generous spirit, happy in her sacrifices and faithful to every relationship, she is a living refutation of the misconception, too often heard even today, that intelligence and the softer qualities of womanhood cannot coexist.

There were many other women of great distinction in the universities, whose names still live in enduring characters after four or five centuries—professors, and wives of professors who worked side by side with their husbands, and received their due meed of consideration. We have women of fine scholarly attainments to-day, though in the great universities they are mostly relegated to the anterooms and honored with second-class degrees; but fancy the consternation of the students of Harvard or Oxford if asked to listen to the lecture of a woman on law or philosophy, or, indeed, on any subject whatever! Yet there were great men and great scholars in Italy, possibly too great to fear competition. Society was in no sense upset, and, so far as women were concerned, the harmony of creation was not interfered with. Indeed, the best mothers and the most devoted, helpful wives in Italy of whom we have any knowledge were among the women who spoke Latin, read Greek, and worshiped at the shrine of the Muses—all of which may be commended to the college girls of to-day as well as to their critics.

There were many other remarkable women in the universities, whose names still stand out after four or five centuries—professors and the wives of professors who worked alongside their husbands and received the recognition they deserved. Today, we still have women with impressive academic achievements, but in the major universities, they are mostly pushed to the sidelines and honored with lower-tier degrees; just imagine the shock of Harvard or Oxford students if they were asked to attend a lecture by a woman on law, philosophy, or any topic at all! Yet there were great men and scholars in Italy, perhaps too confident to fear competition. Society was not disrupted, and women's roles were not diminished. In fact, the best mothers and most dedicated, supportive wives in Italy that we know of were among those women who spoke Latin, read Greek, and celebrated the Muses—all of which could be encouraged for today's college girls as well as their critics.

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V

In other fields there were equally accomplished women. Cassandra Fidelis was the pride and glory of Venice in the days when Titian walked along the shores of the Adriatic, absorbing the luminous tints of sea and sky, and picturing to himself the faces that look out upon us to-day from the buried centuries, instinct with color and the fullness of life. Poet and philosopher, she wrote in many languages, even spoke publicly at Padua. She caught, too, the spirit of beauty and song, and was as noted for her music and her graceful manners as for her learning. Men of letters paid court to her, Leo X wrote to her, and Ferdinand tried to draw her to Naples; but the Doge refused to part with this model of so many gifts and virtues. She lived a century divided between literature and piety, but drifted at last, in her widowhood, to the refuge of so many tired souls, and ended her brilliant career in a convent.

In other fields, there were equally accomplished women. Cassandra Fidelis was the pride and glory of Venice when Titian strolled along the shores of the Adriatic, soaking in the vibrant colors of the sea and sky, and imagining the faces that look out at us today from the buried centuries, full of color and life. A poet and philosopher, she wrote in many languages and even spoke publicly in Padua. She also embraced the spirit of beauty and song, earning a reputation for her music and graceful manners as well as her intellect. Men of letters pursued her, Leo X wrote to her, and Ferdinand tried to entice her to Naples; however, the Doge refused to let go of this example of so many gifts and virtues. She spent a century divided between literature and devotion but ultimately drifted, in her widowhood, to the refuge of many weary souls, ending her brilliant career in a convent.

This remarkable flowering of the feminine intellect was not confined to Italy. Besides the noted Spanish women already mentioned, there were celebrated professors of rhetoric in the universities of Alcala and Salamanca. Even more distinguished was Aloysia Sigea, a poet and savante of Toledo, who surprised Paul III with a letter in five languages, which he was able to answer in only three.[Pg 267] Just why she found it necessary to put what she had to say in five languages, instead of one, does not appear, but she proved her right to be considered a prodigy. Her fame was great, and she died young.

This impressive blossoming of women's intellect wasn't limited to Italy. In addition to the well-known Spanish women mentioned earlier, there were renowned professors of rhetoric at the universities of Alcala and Salamanca. Even more notable was Aloysia Sigea, a poet and scholar from Toledo, who amazed Paul III with a letter written in five languages, while he could only respond in three.[Pg 267] It's unclear why she felt the need to express herself in five languages instead of just one, but she undeniably earned her place as a prodigy. Her reputation was immense, and she passed away at a young age.

Frenchwomen were less serious and made a stronger point of the arts of pleasing. They approached literature with the air of a dilettante, who finds in it an amusement or accomplishment rather than a passion or an aim. At a later period they brought to its height a society based upon talent and the less tangible quality of esprit. But we have the virile intellect and versatile knowledge of the Renaissance in Mlle. de Gournay, who aspired to the highest things, including the perfection of friendship, which she said her sex had never been able to reach; and the famous Marguerite, the witty, learned, independent, and original sister of Francis I, who aimed at all knowledge, and tried her hand at everything from writing verses and tales, patronizing letters, and gathering a society of philosophers and poets, to reforming religion and ruling a state.

French women were less serious and emphasized the art of pleasing more intensely. They approached literature like enthusiasts, seeing it as a source of entertainment or a skill rather than a deep passion or a goal. Later on, they elevated society to focus on talent and the more elusive quality of esprit. However, we also have the strong intellect and diverse knowledge of Mlle. de Gournay, who aspired to the highest ideals, including the perfect friendship that she claimed her gender had never achieved; and the famous Marguerite, the witty, educated, independent, and original sister of Francis I, who pursued all types of knowledge and explored everything from writing poetry and stories, supporting literature, and gathering a community of philosophers and poets, to reforming religion and governing a state.

In England we find Lady Jane Grey at sixteen a mistress of many languages and preferring Plato to a hunting-party; the Seymour sisters, who were familiar with the sciences and wrote Latin verses; the daughters of Sir Thomas More, whose talents and accomplishments were only surpassed by their[Pg 268] virtues; and many others, by no means least Queen Elizabeth herself, whose attainments were overshadowed by her genius of administration. The taste for knowledge was widely spread, and it would take us far beyond the limits of this essay to recall the women of many countries who were noted for learning and gifts that must always be relatively rare in any age, though pretenders may be as numerous as parrots in a tropical forest.

In England, we see Lady Jane Grey at just sixteen, fluent in many languages and preferring Plato over a hunting trip; the Seymour sisters, who were well-versed in the sciences and wrote Latin poetry; the daughters of Sir Thomas More, whose skills and achievements were only outdone by their[Pg 268] virtues; and many others, including Queen Elizabeth herself, whose talents were overshadowed by her exceptional leadership. The desire for knowledge was widespread, and it would take us far beyond the scope of this essay to mention the women from various countries known for their intelligence and abilities that will always be relatively rare, even if there are many pretenders like parrots in a tropical forest.

But it is mainly the women of Italy, where this movement had its birth, that we are considering here, and their talents were not confined to the acquisition of knowledge. There were many poets among them. To be sure, we find no Dante, or Petrarch, or Ariosto, or Tasso. Of creative genius there was very little; of taste and skill and poetic feeling there was a great deal. Domenichi made a collection of fifty women poets who compared well with the average men of their time and far surpassed them in refinement and moral purity. In their new enthusiasm for things of the intellect, they never lost their simplicity of faith, and were infected little, if at all, with the cynical skepticism of the age. Some of these numerous poets were connected with the universities, others belonged to the great world, and still others were women of moderate station, who were honored at the various courts for their gifts of mind.

But mainly, we’re focusing on the women of Italy, where this movement began, and their talents weren’t just about gaining knowledge. Many of them were poets. Sure, we don’t see any Dantes, Petrarchs, Ariostos, or Tassos among them. There was very little creative genius, but a lot of taste, skill, and poetic feeling. Domenichi gathered a collection of fifty women poets who compared well to the average men of their time and greatly surpassed them in refinement and moral purity. In their newfound enthusiasm for intellectual pursuits, they maintained their simple faith and were hardly influenced by the cynical skepticism of the era. Some of these many poets were linked to universities, others were part of high society, and still others were women of modest means who were celebrated at various courts for their intellectual gifts.

No doubt much of this poetry was mediocre.[Pg 269] Indeed, men, aside from the greatest, wrote very little that one now cares to read. It is a truism that “poets are born, not made,” and they are not born very often. But the work of women which was not even of the best received high consideration. Tarquinia Molza, a maid of honor at Ferrara,—who held public discussions with Tasso, wrote sonnets and epigrams, and translated the dialogues of Plato,—was so celebrated for her learning and poetic gifts that the Senate of Rome conferred upon her the title of Roman Citizen. Laura Battiferri, one of the ornaments of the court of Urbino, was spoken of as a rival of Sappho in genius and her superior in modesty and decorum. She was an honored member of the Academy of the Intronati at Siena. There were no women’s clubs in those days. They were not needed when women were admitted to many of the academies on equal terms with men. The number may have been small, but evidently the way was clear. They were barred, if at all, by incapacity, not by sex.

No doubt a lot of this poetry was mediocre.[Pg 269] In fact, aside from the greatest writers, men produced very little that anyone cares to read today. It's a well-known saying that “poets are born, not made,” and they aren't born very often. However, the work of women, even when it wasn't the best, received a lot of attention. Tarquinia Molza, a maid of honor in Ferrara—who had public discussions with Tasso, wrote sonnets and epigrams, and translated Plato's dialogues—was so renowned for her knowledge and poetic talent that the Senate of Rome granted her the title of Roman Citizen. Laura Battiferri, one of the highlights of the court of Urbino, was compared to Sappho in talent and was seen as superior in modesty and propriety. She was a respected member of the Academy of the Intronati in Siena. Back then, there weren't women's clubs. They weren't necessary when women were allowed to join many academies on equal terms with men. The number may have been small, but clearly, the door was open. If they faced any barriers, it was due to ability, not gender.

One of the most celebrated of these numerous poets was Veronica Gambara, Countess of Correggio, a woman of fine gifts, many virtues, and great personal charm, who was left a widow after nine happy years of marriage. Like her friend Vittoria Colonna, she spent the rest of her life in mourning her husband, draping herself, her apartments, and everything she had in black, and refusing all offers[Pg 270] of a second marriage. But this sable grief did not prevent her from managing her affairs, her little state, and her two sons, both of whom reached high positions, with great judgment and ability. Her husband had trusted her implicitly, and left her in full control at his death. It was largely to his memory that she devoted her poetic gifts. She did not write a great deal, but her verses were simple and showed masculine vigor. Many of them were tender, though by no means sentimental. She wrote on the vanity of earthly things, a subject on which women have always been specially eloquent, as they have so often written out of their own sad experience. Her home at Bologna was a sort of academy, where the most distinguished men of the age met, and it was noted as a center of brilliant conversation. One of its chief attractions was Cardinal Bembo, a lifelong friend, to whom she addressed a sonnet at ten. Philosopher, high priest of Platonism, critic, poet, and man of the world, this famous cardinal paid the highest tributes to the distinguished women of his time. Intellectually he lived in an air that was somewhat tenuous, but he sought the society of those who loved things of the spirit—especially princesses. It was a convenient fashion among these diplomats and churchmen to have two lives—one poetic, Platonic, with ecstatic glimpses of the celestial, the other running through various grades of the terrestrial. The versatile[Pg 271] Bembo was no exception. Veronica Gambara, who combined grace and delicacy with a distinctly mundane vigor, sat metaphorically at his feet, and was an ardent disciple of the new Platonic philosophy. She had natural eloquence, and gave a charm to the serious discussions at her house. Among her noted visitors was Charles V, who was fascinated by her talents and gracious manners. She reproached him and Francis I with the quarrels that had flooded Europe with tears, and wrote him a poem fired with patriotic ardor, in which she asks peace for Italy and protection against the infidel. In her poetry and her letters she followed Petrarch. Without commanding genius, and less mystical than Vittoria Colonna, but with possibly more strength in a limited range, she was greatly considered for her learning, her poetry, her social graces, her practical ability, and her spotless character.

One of the most celebrated poets of her time was Veronica Gambara, Countess of Correggio. She was a woman of great talent, many virtues, and considerable charm, who became a widow after nine happy years of marriage. Like her friend Vittoria Colonna, she spent the rest of her life mourning her husband, adorning herself, her home, and everything around her in black, while turning down all proposals for a second marriage. However, this deep sorrow didn't stop her from skillfully managing her affairs, her small estate, and her two sons, both of whom achieved high positions in society. Her husband had trusted her completely and left her in charge when he passed away. Much of her poetry was dedicated to his memory. She didn't write extensively, but her verses were straightforward and showed a masculine strength. Many of them were tender without being overly sentimental. She wrote about the emptiness of worldly things, a topic women have always expressed eloquently, often stemming from their own painful experiences. Her home in Bologna was like an academy where the most prominent men of the time gathered, and it was known for its lively discussions. One of its main draws was Cardinal Bembo, a lifelong friend, to whom she dedicated a sonnet when she was just ten. A philosopher, high priest of Platonism, critic, poet, and worldly man, this famous cardinal highly praised the distinguished women of his era. Intellectually, he lived in a somewhat abstract realm but sought the company of those who cherished the spiritual—especially princesses. It was a common practice among these diplomats and churchmen to lead two lives—one poetic and Platonic, filled with ecstatic visions of the divine, and the other navigating various social ranks. The adaptable Bembo was no exception. Veronica Gambara, who blended grace and delicacy with a distinctly worldly strength, metaphorically sat at his feet as a devoted follower of the new Platonic philosophy. She possessed natural eloquence and added charm to the serious discussions held at her home. Among her notable visitors was Charles V, who was captivated by her talents and gracious demeanor. She confronted him and Francis I about the conflicts that had brought tears to Europe, and wrote him a passionate poem asking for peace for Italy and protection against the infidel. In her poetry and letters, she followed the style of Petrarch. Without commanding genius, and being less mystical than Vittoria Colonna, she potentially had more strength in a limited range and was highly regarded for her knowledge, her poetry, her social skills, her practical abilities, and her impeccable character.

These are a few out of a multitude of poets and savantes who are of little interest to-day, except as showing the notable attainments of women in a new field and the drift of public sentiment regarding them.

These are just a few of the many poets and scholars who aren't very interesting today, except for highlighting the significant achievements of women in a new area and the changing public opinion about them.

VI

There is one, however, who calls for more attention, not only because of her enduring fame, but because she stood in a light so strong as to make her, even at this distance, a living personality to us;[Pg 272] also because she represents the best phases of the Renaissance, its learning, its intelligence, its enthusiasm, its subtle Platonism, combined with a profound religious faith and a trace of the mysticism of a simpler age. We are apt to recall Vittoria Colonna as half poet, half saint. Her spiritual face looks out of a century of vice and license, crowned with the delicate halo of a Madonna brooding tenderly over the sins of the world in which she lives with an air of apartness, as if she were in it but not of it. Whether we see her under the soft skies of Ischia, happy and a bride, or seeking solace among its orange-scented groves for the lost joys of her youth; at Naples, holding a lettered court with the beautiful and accomplished Giulia Gonzaga; at Rome, talking on high themes with a group of serious and thoughtful men in the cool shadows of the Colonna gardens; at Ferrara, discussing the new thought, receiving the homage of a distinguished circle, and generously using her great name to shield the persecuted and unhappy; or kneeling at prayers and chanting Misereres in the cloisters where, at intervals, she hid a sorrowful heart—there is always the same flavor of purity and saintliness in her character and personality as in her genius.

There's one person, however, who captures our attention not just because of her lasting fame, but because she shines with such brilliance that she feels like a vivid presence to us even now;[Pg 272] also because she embodies the finest aspects of the Renaissance, including its knowledge, intelligence, enthusiasm, and subtle Platonism, along with a deep religious faith and a hint of the mysticism from a simpler time. We often think of Vittoria Colonna as part poet, part saint. Her spiritual face emerges from a time of excess and indulgence, adorned with the gentle glow of a Madonna tenderly watching over the world's sins while maintaining a sense of distance, as if she exists in this world but isn't truly part of it. Whether we're imagining her under the gentle skies of Ischia, joyful and a newlywed, or seeking comfort among its fragrant orange groves for the lost joys of her youth; at Naples, hosting an intellectual circle with the beautiful and talented Giulia Gonzaga; in Rome, engaging in deep conversations with a group of serious and thoughtful men in the cool shade of the Colonna gardens; at Ferrara, discussing new ideas, gaining respect from a distinguished group, and generously using her famous name to protect the persecuted and downtrodden; or kneeling in prayer, chanting Misereres in the cloisters where she occasionally concealed her sorrowful heart—there is always the same essence of purity and saintliness in her character and personality as in her artistic genius.

The romance of her life is well known. She was born in 1490,—just before Lorenzo de’ Medici died and Savonarola expiated the crime of being too good for his time,—in a gloomy old Colonna castle[Pg 273] that towers picturesquely above the rambling, medieval town of Marino among the Alban hills. But she did not stay there long, as she was betrothed at four to the Marquis of Pescara, and, for some inexplicable reason, sent away to the sunny island of Ischia to be educated with him by his sister Costanza d’Avalos, Duchess of Francavilla, a woman so noted for wisdom, ability, and virtue that she was made governor, or châtelaine, of the island at her husband’s death. For once, this commercial arrangement proved a fortunate one, as the brilliant duchess was as famous for her culture and the lettered society gathered about her as for her practical talent in ruling. The gifted child grew up among poets and men of learning, with her future lord as her playmate and a woman of intellect as her guide. Add to this the changing splendors of sea and sky, the haunting memories of the beautiful shore that curves away from the headlands of Misenum to the Isles of the Sirens, the repose broken only by the cool dripping of fountains, the plashing of the indolent waves on the beach, and the plaintive songs of the boatmen floating at evening across the tranquil water to find a sweet refrain in the music of the vesper bell—and we have the milieu of the poet. There were royal festivities when the king came to break the monotony of the days, occasional glimpses of the magnificent court pageants at Naples, and rare visits to the somber[Pg 274] ancestral home on the Alban Lake. But the mind of the thoughtful maiden was more in harmony with the quiet scenes among which most of her days were passed, and had taken its permanent tone when the youthful lovers were married at about eighteen, or possibly nineteen.

The romance of her life is well known. She was born in 1490—just before Lorenzo de’ Medici died and Savonarola faced the consequences of being too good for his time—in a gloomy old Colonna castle[Pg 273] that stands strikingly over the winding, medieval town of Marino among the Alban hills. But she didn’t stay there long, as she was engaged at four to the Marquis of Pescara and, for some unknown reason, sent off to the sunny island of Ischia to be educated with him by his sister Costanza d’Avalos, Duchess of Francavilla, a woman known for her wisdom, talent, and virtue, who became governor, or châtelaine, of the island after her husband’s death. For once, this match turned out to be a fortunate one, as the brilliant duchess was famous for her culture and the learned society around her, as well as her practical skills in leadership. The talented child grew up among poets and scholars, with her future husband as her playmate and a woman of intellect as her mentor. On top of this were the beautiful changing views of sea and sky, the lingering memories of the stunning coast stretching from the headlands of Misenum to the Isles of the Sirens, the tranquility only disturbed by the gentle drip of fountains, the soft waves lapping at the shore, and the mournful songs of fishermen emanating in the evening air to find a sweet echo in the vesper bell’s music—and we have the milieu of the poet. There were royal festivities when the king arrived to break up the routine of the days, occasional glimpses of the grand court spectacles in Naples, and rare visits to the somber[Pg 274] ancestral home by Alban Lake. However, the thoughtful young woman’s mind resonated more with the peaceful scenes where most of her days were spent, and it had set its permanent tone when the young lovers were married at about eighteen, or possibly nineteen.

Two or three years of unclouded happiness, and this idyllic life came to an end. The marquis was called to the army, and the devoted wife saw him only at long intervals during his brilliant career, which he closed some fifteen years later with a tarnished name. The blow that shattered the hopes of Vittoria came near costing her life. In the first agony of her grief she fled to a convent, and wished to take the veil of a nun; but she was too valuable in her own sphere to be lost to the world, and Clement VII forbade it. Her only resource was to consecrate herself to the memory of one she never ceased to call mio bel sole, to religion, and to matters of the intellect.

Two or three years of pure happiness, and this perfect life came to an end. The marquis was called to serve in the army, and his devoted wife only saw him occasionally during his impressive career, which he ended about fifteen years later with a damaged reputation. The blow that shattered Vittoria's hopes almost cost her her life. In the depths of her grief, she ran to a convent and wanted to take vows as a nun; but she was too important in her own life to be lost to the world, and Clement VII prohibited it. Her only option was to dedicate herself to the memory of the one she always called mio bel sole, to religion, and to intellectual pursuits.

How she reconciled her undying love with the faithless and treacherous character of her Spanish husband, who was willing to sell his loyalty for a kingdom, we do not know. That she was ignorant of his disgrace is not probable. She had given him high counsel, putting honor and virtue above titles and worldly grandeur, and saying that she had no wish to be the wife of a king, since she is already the wife of a captain who has vanquished kings, not[Pg 275] only by his bravery, but by his magnanimity. But she had, to a marked degree, the fine idealism that gives vitality to a sentiment. It is shown in the poise of the shapely head, in the broad, high, speculative forehead that hid a wealth of imagination and exalted feeling, in the large, soft, penetrating dark eyes, lighted with sensibility, which relieved the delicately chiseled features and firm but beautiful mouth from a tinge of asceticism. She was tall, stately, and graceful, with a fair, variable face of pure outlines, and hair of Titian gold. Her picture is one of a rare woman, capable of high thought, great generosity, great sacrifice, and great devotion. This love of her youth was interwoven with every fiber of her being. The child with whom she had wandered hand in hand by the sea; the youth who had responded to her every taste and thought, poetic like herself, proud, accomplished, handsome, and knightly; the man who had whiled away the hours of his captivity in writing for her a rather stilted Dialogue of Love, were alike transfigured in her memory. If she heard that he was a traitor, probably she did not believe it, and the very fact of unmerited disgrace would have been an added claim upon her affection. She was young, and naturally slow to think that an act which Pope and cardinals had assured him was quite consistent with the finest honor could be treasonable at all, though she had a keen moral sense that led her straight to the heart of[Pg 276] things. Then the harshness and cruelty for which he was noted belonged to the exigencies of war, which is never merciful. It was easy to malign him there. At all events, it is certain that the faults of this brilliant cavalier of very flexible honor were swept away in a flood of happy memories and imperishable love. Many were the suitors who presented themselves to the gifted, rich, and beautiful princess, who was scarcely past thirty-five; but she had gathered the wealth of her affections in a vase that was broken, and for her there was no second gathering. The spirit that held captive her own still shone in the heavens as a sun that lighted the inner temple of her soul and made its hidden treasures luminous.

How she made peace with her unwavering love for her unfaithful and deceitful Spanish husband, who would trade his loyalty for a kingdom, we don’t know. It’s unlikely that she was unaware of his shame. She had advised him to prioritize honor and virtue over titles and worldly success, saying she didn’t want to be the wife of a king since she was already the wife of a captain who had defeated kings, not just through his bravery, but through his nobility. She possessed a notable kind of idealism that brought life to her feelings. It was evident in the way her shapely head was held, in her broad, high forehead that concealed a wealth of imagination and elevated emotions, in her large, soft, penetrating dark eyes filled with sensitivity that softened her delicately chiseled features and firm yet beautiful mouth, which otherwise might seem a bit ascetic. She was tall, regal, and graceful, with a fair, changing face with pure contours and hair the color of Titian gold. Her image is that of a rare woman, capable of deep thought, great generosity, substantial sacrifice, and profound devotion. This love from her youth was woven into every fiber of her being. The child she had walked hand in hand with along the beach; the young man who shared her every taste and thought, poetic like herself, proud, skilled, handsome, and gallant; the man who spent his time in captivity writing her a rather stiff Dialogue of Love, all were glorified in her memory. If she heard he was a traitor, she probably didn’t believe it, and the very idea of undeserved disgrace would have only increased her affection for him. She was young, and naturally loath to think that an action which Pope and cardinals had assured him was perfectly in line with the highest honor could be considered treasonous at all, even though she had a sharp moral awareness that directed her straight to the heart of things. The harshness and cruelty that he was known for were merely part of the brutal realities of war, which is often uncompromising. It was easy to slander him there. In any case, it’s clear that the flaws of this brilliant knight with very flexible honor were washed away in a tide of joyful memories and everlasting love. Many suitors came forward for the talented, wealthy, and beautiful princess, who was just past thirty-five; but she had collected the wealth of her affections in a vase that was shattered, and for her, there would be no second chance. The spirit that held her captive still shone in the sky like a sun that illuminated the inner sanctuary of her soul and made its hidden treasures glow.

When she rallied a little from the first stunning blow, she began to write. This had been one of the diversions of her youth, and she had often sent tender verses to her husband. Now it offered an outlet to her sorrows, and, at the same time, a tribute to his memory. Never was such a monument dedicated to a man as this series of more than a hundred sonnets. Her love colored all her thoughts, and gave to her clear, strong intellect a living touch that comes only from the heart. If one misses in these verses the fire of Sappho, one is conscious of coming in contact with a pure and lofty soul in which earthly passion has been transformed into a glow of divine tenderness. But the note of[Pg 277] longing and loneliness is always there. Laura was no more idealized by her poet lover than was this unworthy man by his desolate wife. For seven years her poems were a series of variations on the same theme. The sun shone no longer for her; there was no more beauty in tree, or flower, or sparkling waves; the birds were mute, and nature was draped in gloom. In death only there was hope; but even here was the dreadful possibility that she might not be perfect enough to meet this paragon of all noble qualities in heaven. So Mrs. Browning might have written. She had the same tendency to transfigure her idols in the light of the imagination, the same meditative quality, the same fine idealism. But she lived and died a happy wife, while her sister poet spent lonely years in the companionship of a memory.

When she regained her composure after the initial shock, she started to write. This had been one of her childhood pastimes, and she had often sent sweet poems to her husband. Now, it became a way to express her grief and also honor his memory. Never was there a tribute like this collection of over a hundred sonnets dedicated to a man. Her love colored all her thoughts and gave her clear, strong mind a warmth that only comes from the heart. If these verses lack the passion of Sappho, they still connect you with a pure and noble spirit where earthly love has turned into a glow of divine tenderness. Yet, the note of longing and loneliness is always present. Laura was no more glorified by her poet lover than this unworthy man was by his grief-stricken wife. For seven years, her poems were variations on the same theme. The sun no longer shone for her; there was no beauty left in trees, flowers, or sparkling waves; the birds were silent, and nature was draped in sadness. In death, there was only hope; but even then, a haunting possibility loomed that she might not be worthy enough to meet her idea of perfection in heaven. This could be how Mrs. Browning might have written. She also had a tendency to idealize her idols through her imagination, the same reflective quality, the same beautiful idealism. But she lived and died a happy wife, while her sister poet spent lonely years in the company of a memory.

Time, however, which tempers all things, if it does not change them, brought a new element into her thoughts, and her elegiac songs rose to cathedral hymns. In her religious sonnets she reveals the intrinsic quality of her mind and its firm grasp of spiritual things. Some of them touch on forbidden questions, and wander among the dangerous heresies of the new age. Theology and poetry are not quite in accord, and these are of value mainly as showing the liberal drift of her opinions. Others are the spontaneous outpouring of a full and ardent soul. Rich in thought, alive with feeling, and lighted with[Pg 278] hope, they soar on the wings of an exalted faith far above the heavy and sin-laden air of her time.

Time, however, which shapes everything, if it doesn’t change them, brought a new element into her thoughts, and her mournful songs became like church hymns. In her spiritual sonnets, she reveals the true nature of her mind and its strong grasp of spiritual matters. Some of them address taboo topics and flirt with the risky ideas of the new age. Theology and poetry don’t always align, and these pieces mainly highlight her increasingly open views. Others are the spontaneous expression of a passionate and vibrant soul. Rich in ideas, full of emotion, and illuminated with[Pg 278] hope, they rise on the wings of an elevated faith far above the heavy and sinful atmosphere of her time.

And, as the light streams gently from above,
Sin’s gloomy mantle bursts its bonds in twain,
And robed in white, I seem to feel again
The first sweet sense of innocence and love.

And, as the light shines softly from above,
Sin's dark cloak tears apart in two,
Dressed in white, I feel it again.
The first sweet sense of innocence and love.

This gentle-hearted poet was a purist in style, and chiseled carefully the vase in which she put her thoughts, not for the sake of the vase, but reverently, to make it worthy of the thought. These hymns fall upon the ear like some thrilling strain from Palestrina, who translated into song the dreams, the aspirations, the baffled hopes, the sorrows of a race in its decline, and sent it along the centuries with its everlasting message of love and consolation. There was something akin in the two spirits that lived at the same time, though Palestrina was young when the poet neared the evening. It was he who first gave to music a living soul. Vittoria gave the world its first collection of religious poems, and poured her own heart into them. Both vibrated to the deepest note of their age. Only the arts differed, and the quality of thought, and the outer vestments of life.

This kind-hearted poet was a purist in style and carefully crafted the vessel for her thoughts, not for the vessel itself, but out of respect to make it deserving of the thought. These hymns resonate like an exhilarating melody from Palestrina, who transformed into song the dreams, aspirations, unfulfilled hopes, and sorrows of a declining race, sending it through the ages with its timeless message of love and comfort. There was a similarity between the two spirits that existed at the same time, even though Palestrina was young when the poet approached her twilight years. He was the one who first infused music with a living soul. Vittoria provided the world with its first collection of religious poems, pouring her heart into them. Both were attuned to the deepest sentiments of their time. Only the arts differed, along with the depth of thought and the external expressions of life.

But we are far from the days when this beautiful woman in her magnificent robes of crimson velvet and gold, attended by six ladies in azure damask and as many grooms in blue and yellow satin, was[Pg 279] one of the central figures in some royal wedding festivities at Naples. Mundane pleasures had long ago lost their charm, and the still lovely poet in her sable costume finds her consolation in ministering to the poor and suffering, and in an active interest in all the intellectual movements of her time. She was the friend of great men and distinguished women. Cardinal Bembo, the famous “dictator of letters,” lauds her virtues and her genius while he craves her favor. She writes of the gifts of her “divine Bembo,” addresses sonnets to him, and receives his “celestial, holy, and very Platonic” affection with gracious dignity. Castiglione sends her his manuscript of “Il Cortegiano” for criticism, and complains that she held it too long and copied it for other eyes. She gives discriminating praise of the “subject as well as the tact, elegance, and animation of the style,” but she suggests the wisdom of dwelling less persistently on the beauty and virtue of living women. The unscrupulous but keen-witted Aretino pays her compliments and begs her aid. “One must count with the tastes of one’s contemporaries,” he writes, in half-apology for his own base standards; “only amusement or scandal are lucrative; they burn with unholy passions, as you do with an inextinguishable angelic flame. Sermons and vespers for you, music and comedy for others.... Why write serious books? After all, I write to live.” This was the note of the new[Pg 280] age in an ever-descending scale—the death-knell of all that is fine and noble in any age. It is needless to ask what this high-souled woman thought of sordid motives that were by no means confined to the Italian decadence; but she managed the vain and vindictive man, who held reputations in the hollow of his hand, with graceful dignity and infinite tact. Living at a time when the great poets were passing, and literature was fast becoming the trade of artisans who appealed to the lowest passions of a sense-intoxicated people, or the tool of cynics and courtiers, she held her own way serenely, superior to worldly motives and worldly entanglements. There are numerous glimpses of her in the poems and letters of her time, but the chorus of praise was universal. “She has more eloquence and breathes more sweetness than all other women,” says Ariosto, “and gives such force to her lofty words that she adorns the heavens in our day with another sun.” And again: “She has not only made herself immortal by her beautiful style, than which I have heard none better, but she can raise from the tomb those of whom she speaks or writes, and make them live forever.”

But we are far from the days when this beautiful woman, dressed in her stunning crimson velvet and gold robes, attended by six ladies in blue damask and as many grooms in blue and yellow satin, was[Pg 279] a central figure at royal wedding celebrations in Naples. Everyday pleasures had faded for her, and the still lovely poet in her black attire finds her solace in helping the poor and suffering, while taking an active interest in the intellectual movements of her time. She was friends with prominent men and distinguished women. Cardinal Bembo, the renowned “dictator of letters,” praises her virtues and genius while seeking her favor. She writes about the gifts from her “divine Bembo,” addresses sonnets to him, and graciously accepts his “celestial, holy, and very Platonic” affection. Castiglione sends her his manuscript of “Il Cortegiano” for feedback, expressing concern that she kept it too long and shared it with others. She offers thoughtful praise for the “subject as well as the tact, elegance, and liveliness of the style,” but suggests that it might be wise to lessen the focus on the beauty and virtue of living women. The sharp-witted but unscrupulous Aretino flatters her and seeks her help. “One must consider the tastes of one’s contemporaries,” he writes, somewhat apologetically about his own low standards; “only entertainment or scandal are profitable; they ignite with unholy passions, as you do with an unquenchable angelic flame. Sermons and vespers for you, music and comedy for others... Why write serious books? After all, I write to live.” This reflects the tone of the new[Pg 280] age, signaling the decline of all that is beautiful and noble in any era. It’s unnecessary to speculate on what this noble woman thought of the sordid motives that weren’t exclusive to the Italian decadence; however, she handled the vain and vindictive man, who controlled reputations at will, with graceful dignity and immense tact. Living at a time when great poets were fading away, and literature was rapidly becoming the profession of artisans catering to the lowest passions of a pleasure-driven society, or a tool for cynics and courtiers, she maintained her own path with serenity, above worldly motives and entanglements. There are many mentions of her in the poems and letters of the time, but the universal chorus of praise was clear. “She has more eloquence and breathes more sweetness than all other women,” says Ariosto, “and gives such power to her lofty words that she adds another sun to the heavens in our time.” And again: “She has not only made herself immortal with her beautiful style, which I have not heard bettered, but she can also bring back to life those she speaks or writes about, making them live forever.”

It was her sympathy with all high things that made her so warm a friend to the apostles of the new religious thought. Though an ardent Catholic, she was no bigot to be held within the iron-bound limits of a creed which had lost its moral force, no beauty-loving[Pg 281] disciple of an estheticism that veiled crime and corruption with the splendors of a ceremonial, sang Te Deums over the triumphs of the wicked and Misereres while plotting assassination. She felt the need of a purer morality and a deeper spirituality, though, like Savonarola, she wished reform within the church, not outside of it. We find her always in the ranks of the thinkers. She was the devoted friend of Contarini, the broad-minded cardinal, who grieved so sincerely over the universal corruption, and died, possibly of that grief and his own helplessness, before the hour came when it was a crime to speak one’s best thoughts. He should have been Pope, she said in her sonnet on his death, to make the age happy. It was a striking tribute to the vigorous quality of her intellect that he dedicated to her his work “On Free Will.” Fra Bernardino she defended when he fled to Switzerland and joined the Lutherans, but she was powerless to help him in his hours of darkness. Even this brought her under the suspicion of heresy. Carnesecchi, another of her friends, was burned, and one of the chief accusations against a Florentine who was condemned to a like fate years afterward was that he belonged to her circle. “It is an inexpressible pleasure to me that my counsels are approved by a woman of so much virtue and wisdom,” wrote Sadolet to Cardinal Pole. She sustained these powerful prelates by the prestige of her name and[Pg 282] the fullness of her sympathy. The liberal circle of her friend Renée attracted her to Ferrara, but the air was full of suspicion. They talked much and pleasantly of literature, poetry, and the arts; when they touched upon the new thought which was revolutionizing the world, it was behind closed doors, and with the vivid consciousness that the walls had ears which stretched to Rome.

It was her empathy for all noble ideals that made her such a passionate supporter of the advocates of new religious thinking. Although she was a devoted Catholic, she was not a narrow-minded bigot confined to the restrictive boundaries of a faith that had lost its moral impact, nor was she a beauty-loving follower of an aestheticism that hid crime and corruption behind the splendor of ritual, celebrating the victories of the wicked with Te Deums and saying Misereres while scheming to commit murder. She recognized the need for a purer morality and deeper spirituality, though, like Savonarola, she wanted reform within the church, not outside of it. She was always among the ranks of thinkers. She was a loyal friend of Contarini, the open-minded cardinal who was deeply saddened by the widespread corruption and likely died from that sorrow and his own helplessness before the time when it became a crime to express one's best thoughts. “He should have been Pope,” she remarked in her sonnet about his death, “to make the age happy.” It was a significant acknowledgment of her sharp intellect that he dedicated his work “On Free Will” to her. She defended Fra Bernardino when he fled to Switzerland and joined the Lutherans, but she was powerless to assist him during his darkest moments. This also put her under suspicion of heresy. Carnesecchi, another of her friends, was executed, and one of the main accusations against a Florentine who faced a similar fate years later was that he belonged to her circle. “It is an indescribable pleasure for me that my advice is endorsed by a woman of such virtue and wisdom,” Sadolet wrote to Cardinal Pole. She supported these influential prelates with her reputation and her abundant sympathy. The liberal circle of her friend Renée drew her to Ferrara, but the atmosphere was charged with suspicion. They discussed literature, poetry, and the arts pleasantly and extensively; however, when they delved into the new ideas that were transforming the world, they did so behind closed doors, acutely aware that the walls might be listening, with ears that reached all the way to Rome.

But to-day Vittoria Colonna is known best as the friend of Michelangelo, to whom she was a polar star, an inspiration, an everlasting joy. “Without wings, I fly with your wings; by your genius I am raised toward the skies,” he writes. “In your soul my thought is born; my words are in your mind.” It was the perfect sympathy of finely attuned spirits, the divine friendship that exists only between men and women who live at an altitude far above the things of sense. The age was full of talk about Platonic love. A few reached it, and they were of the spiritual elect; but they did not talk much about it. To this solitary artist, who dwelt on lonely heights, the divining and sympathetic spirit of a thoughtful woman was a revelation. He wrote sonnets to her, sometimes calm and philosophical, sometimes fiery and passionate. He also sent her poems and sketches for criticism. The tact with which she drew out the best in this colossal man is shown by a conversation in the softly lighted Chapel of San Silvestro, as recorded[Pg 283] by an artist who was present. She had been listening to a private exposition of St. Paul, but when Michelangelo came in, she delicately turned the conversation upon the subject nearest his heart, on which it was not easy to lead him to talk. Both were apart from the spirit of an age that was fast tearing down the few ethical standards it had, and virtually taking for its motto the most dangerous of fallacies, “Art for art’s sake.” “True painting is only an image of the perfection of God, a shadow of the pencil with which he paints, a melody, a striving after harmony,” said the master. And the lady, in her turn, spoke, until the tears fell, of the divine message of art that “leads to piety, to glory, to greatness.” They discussed, too, her project of building a convent on the spot where Nero had watched the burning of Rome, that “virtuous women might efface the memory of so wicked a man.”

But today, Vittoria Colonna is best known as Michelangelo's friend, who was a guiding light, an inspiration, and a constant source of joy for him. "Without wings, I soar with your wings; through your brilliance, I am lifted toward the heavens," he writes. "In your soul, my thoughts take flight; my words reside in your mind." It was the perfect harmony of well-matched spirits, a divine friendship that only exists between men and women who live far above the ordinary. The time was filled with discussions about Platonic love. A few attained it, and they were the spiritually enlightened; but they didn’t speak about it much. For this solitary artist, who lived on lofty heights, the discerning and empathetic spirit of a reflective woman was a revelation. He composed sonnets for her, sometimes calm and philosophical, other times fiery and passionate. He also sent her poems and sketches for feedback. The subtle way she brought out the best in this great man is illustrated by a conversation in the softly lit Chapel of San Silvestro, as noted[Pg 283] by an artist who was there. She had been listening to a private talk about St. Paul, but when Michelangelo arrived, she gracefully shifted the conversation to the topic closest to his heart, one that was hard to draw him into. Both were detached from the spirit of an age that was quickly dismantling the few ethical standards it had, essentially adopting the most dangerous of fallacies: "Art for art's sake." "True painting is simply a reflection of God's perfection, a shadow of the brush with which He paints, a melody, a pursuit of harmony," said the master. And the lady, in her turn, spoke until tears fell about the divine message of art that "leads to piety, to glory, to greatness." They also talked about her plan to build a convent on the site where Nero had watched Rome burn, so that "virtuous women might erase the memory of such a wicked man."

No shadow ever rested on this friendship. Michelangelo was past sixty and Vittoria was not far from forty-seven when they met. There is no trace of tender sentiment in their brief correspondence, though a deep and abiding friendship is apparent. Once she playfully writes him to curtail his letters lest they interfere with his duties at St. Peter’s and keep her from the Chapel of St. Catherine, “so that one would fail in duty to the sisters of Christ and the other to his Vicar.” She said that those who knew only his works[Pg 284] were ignorant of the best part of the man. When she lay dead before him he kissed her hand reverently, and went out in inconsolable grief to regret the rest of his life that he had not dared to leave a kiss on the pure forehead.

No shadow ever fell on this friendship. Michelangelo was over sixty, and Vittoria was nearly forty-seven when they met. Their brief correspondence doesn’t show any romantic feelings, but a strong and lasting friendship is clear. Once, she playfully told him to cut back on his letters so they wouldn't interfere with his work at St. Peter’s and keep her from the Chapel of St. Catherine, “so that one would fail in duty to the sisters of Christ and the other to his Vicar.” She remarked that those who only knew his works[Pg 284] were missing out on the best part of him. When she lay dead before him, he kissed her hand with reverence and left in overwhelming sorrow, regretting for the rest of his life that he hadn't dared to leave a kiss on her pure forehead.

In early life, Vittoria, having no children of her own, had undertaken the care of her husband’s cousin, the Marchese del Vasto, a boy of singular beauty, fine gifts, but wild and passionate temper, which no one had been able to control. Under her gentle and wise influence he had grown to be a brilliant and accomplished man, who never ceased to regard her with the greatest affection. She said that she could not be considered childless after molding the moral character of this son of her adoption. It was one of her great griefs that he died in the flower of his manhood, when the shadows were darkening about her and she needed more than ever his sympathy and support.

In her early years, Vittoria, who didn't have any children of her own, took on the responsibility of caring for her husband's cousin, the Marchese del Vasto, a boy of exceptional beauty and talent, but he had a wild and passionate temperament that no one could rein in. With her gentle guidance and wisdom, he grew into a brilliant and accomplished man who always held her in the highest regard. She believed she could never be considered childless after shaping the moral character of this son she had adopted. One of her biggest sorrows was that he died in the prime of his life, just when the darkness was closing in around her and she needed his empathy and support more than ever.

At this time fate laid upon her a heavy hand. When Rome became unsafe, she joined the devoted group that surrounded Cardinal Pole at Viterbo; but the last years before her final illness were spent in the Benedictine convent of St. Anne, where she prayed and wrote devotional poems. When she grew ill a celebrated physician said that the fairest light in this world would go out unless some physician for the mind could be found. Her friends were scattered or dead; the misfortunes of her family weighed[Pg 285] heavily on her spirit; the cruelties of the new régime had crushed the lives of many whom she loved; she had been forced to stifle her purest convictions and to turn away from the falling fortunes which she had no power to save. It was only a joy to lay down the burden of her fifty-seven years, surrounded by the few who were left to her. She ordered a simple burial, such as was given to the sisters in the convent. There was no memorial, and, strange to say, no one knows where she lies.

At this time, fate pressed heavily on her. When Rome became unsafe, she joined the loyal group around Cardinal Pole in Viterbo; however, the last years before her final illness were spent in the Benedictine convent of St. Anne, where she prayed and wrote devotional poems. When she fell ill, a renowned doctor warned that the brightest light in the world would extinguish unless a physician for the mind could be found. Her friends were scattered or had died; the misfortunes of her family weighed heavily on her spirit; the cruelties of the new regime had shattered the lives of many she loved; she had been forced to suppress her deepest beliefs and turn away from the declining fortunes that she had no power to save. It was almost a relief to let go of the burden of her fifty-seven years, surrounded by the few who remained with her. She requested a simple burial, like those given to the sisters in the convent. There was no memorial, and, strangely enough, no one knows where she is buried.

No woman better refutes the theory that knowledge makes pedants, that the gentler qualities fade before the cold light of the intellect. To a vigorous, versatile mind, and the calm courage of her convictions, Vittoria Colonna united a tender heart, fine sensibilities, and broad sympathies. Her clear judgment was tempered by a winning sweetness. The age of specialties was still in the distance, and the woman was superior to any of her achievements. In a period that was notably lax in morals, she carried herself among crowds of adorers with such gentle dignity that no cloud ever shadowed her fair fame. With this rare harmony of intellect, heart, and character, she held the essentials of life above all its decorations; but she retained to the end the simple graces, the flexible tact, and the stately manners of the grande dame.

No woman better disproves the idea that knowledge turns people into know-it-alls, or that softer qualities diminish under the harsh light of intellect. Vittoria Colonna combined a strong, versatile mind with the calm courage of her beliefs, alongside a tender heart, delicate sensibilities, and wide-ranging empathy. Her clear judgment was softened by a charming sweetness. The era of specialization was still ahead, and she was greater than any of her accomplishments. In a time known for its moral laxity, she navigated her admirers with such gentle dignity that no shadow ever fell over her good reputation. With this rare balance of intellect, heart, and character, she valued the essentials of life over its superficial adornments; yet she maintained, until the end, the simple elegance, adaptable tact, and dignified manners of the grande dame.

This literary woman, great lady, and dévote of[Pg 286] centuries ago belongs to a type that is out of fashion to-day; it was not common even then. She was the perfected fruit of the finest spirit of her time. She did not write for money or fame; she sought neither honors nor society nor worldly pleasures, though she was a social queen by right of inheritance. She loved high things for their own sake and because she was akin to them. She loved her friends, too, for what they were, not for what they brought her, and gave them of her best, even to her own hurt. If she tried to reconcile her beliefs and her environment, it was a fault of sanity and loyalty; to break with her church traditions was to lose her influence and gain nothing. Possibly this is not the spirit of a reformer, but it is the spirit of those who trust to the saving quality of light rather than of heat. No doubt the conflict helped to wear out her waning forces. In this restless age the world praises such women from afar. They appeal to it as do the pictures of Raphael and Fra Angelico, which we are quite ready to adore as they hang in gallery or drawing-room, for some subtle quality of beauty consecrated by the homage of centuries, though their underlying significance we may have long outgrown. If they are seen at rare intervals in real life, we give them a certain tribute of admiration, no doubt, but we are apt to speak of them personally as visionary, antiquated, or other-worldly. The lofty sentiment, the stateliness, the[Pg 287] repose, the indefinable distinction, are not in the line of modern ideals.

This literary woman, great lady, and dévote of[Pg 286] centuries ago belongs to a type that is out of fashion today; it wasn't common even back then. She was the ultimate result of the finest spirit of her time. She didn't write for money or fame; she sought neither honors nor social status nor worldly pleasures, even though she was a social queen by birthright. She loved noble things for their own sake and because she felt a connection to them. She also loved her friends for who they were, not for what they could offer her, and she gave them her best, even at her own expense. When she tried to reconcile her beliefs with her surroundings, it was a flaw of sanity and loyalty; breaking away from her church traditions would have cost her influence and gained her nothing. This might not embody the spirit of a reformer, but it reflects the spirit of those who believe in the saving power of light rather than heat. There's no doubt that the conflict contributed to the weakening of her strength. In this restless age, the world admires such women from a distance. They resonate like the paintings of Raphael and Fra Angelico, which we are eager to appreciate as they hang in galleries or drawing rooms, for some subtle quality of beauty that has been revered for centuries, even though we may have outgrown their deeper meanings. When we encounter them occasionally in real life, we certainly give them a certain tribute of admiration, but we tend to describe them personally as visionary, outdated, or ethereal. The elevated sentiment, the grandeur, the[Pg 287] calmness, and the indescribable distinction are not aligned with modern ideals.

VII

It is worthy of note that in an age which was essentially devoted to beauty and a glorification of the senses, women almost invariably wrote on sacred or ethical themes. Even love they transfigured into something divine. The first-fruits of their intelligence were offered on the shrine of a purer morality. As a rule, too, they were women of serious tastes and conspicuous virtues.

It’s worth mentioning that in a time largely focused on beauty and celebrating the senses, women almost always chose to write about religious or ethical subjects. Even love was transformed into something divine. The initial expressions of their intellect were dedicated to a higher sense of morality. Generally, they were women with serious interests and notable virtues.

There was one poet, however, of some note who may be mentioned as an exception to the consistently high character of the literary women of a notably wicked period; but even her poems were largely religious in tone. Tullia d’Aragona, who discussed affairs in Latin and wrote Greek when a child, was a wit, a genius, and a brilliant woman. She had a bad father, though he was a cardinal, and a mother who was beautiful but is not plainly visible at this distance. The clever Tullia, who had a questionable salon at Rome, with plenty of cardinals and princes in her train, carried with her to other courts a certain prestige which they did not scrutinize too closely, and she fascinated many men who were not quite equal to the moral and intellectual altitude of a Vittoria Colonna or an Olympia Morata. “Vittoria is a moon, Tullia a sun,” said an enthusiastic[Pg 288] admirer and fellow-poet. But in the waning of her charms she turned seriously to literature, and wrote a poem of thirty thousand lines, besides a curious dialogue on “The Infinity of Love,” and many sonnets. At this time in her life, which verged toward the twilight, she had put off frivolous things and was disposed to moralize. In the preface to her poem she says that reading is a resource for women when everything else fails; but she mourns over the fact that Boccaccio, who claimed to write for them, said so many things not fit to be read; that even Ariosto was not above reproach; and closes by declaring that she has not put down a word that might not be read by “maiden, nun, or widow at any hour”—all of which goes to show the final tendency of women toward moral ideals, in spite of the entanglements of very mundane surroundings. They take refuge in charity and religion from a world that has ceased to charm, as men do in cynicism and stimulants.

There was one poet, however, of some note who can be seen as an exception to the generally high character of the literary women from a notably wicked time; yet even her poems were mostly religious in nature. Tullia d’Aragona, who discussed matters in Latin and wrote in Greek as a child, was witty, brilliant, and a remarkable woman. She had a not-so-great father, despite being a cardinal, and a mother who was beautiful but is less clear from this distance. The clever Tullia, who had a controversial salon in Rome, filled with cardinals and princes, carried a certain prestige to other courts that went mostly unexamined, and she captivated many men who weren't quite on the same moral and intellectual level as Vittoria Colonna or Olympia Morata. “Vittoria is a moon, Tullia a sun,” exclaimed an enthusiastic admirer and fellow poet. But as her charms began to fade, she turned seriously to literature, writing a poem of thirty thousand lines, along with an interesting dialogue on “The Infinity of Love,” and many sonnets. At this point in her life, which was nearing its end, she shed her frivolous ways and was inclined to moralize. In the preface to her poem, she states that reading is a resource for women when everything else fails; however, she laments that Boccaccio, who claimed to write for them, said many things not suitable for reading; that even Ariosto wasn’t without faults; and she concludes by asserting that she hasn’t written anything that couldn’t be read by “maiden, nun, or widow at any hour”—which all underscores the eventual tendency of women toward moral ideals, despite being entangled in very worldly surroundings. They seek refuge in charity and faith from a world that has lost its appeal, similar to how men resort to cynicism and stimulants.

This versatile poet of more esprit than decorum had a great deal of incense offered her, and in the end won even the patronage of the grave, virtuous, and sorrowful Eleanor of Toledo, but she died in penitence and misery. As she lived and shone in the most dissolute society of her day, and was trained from childhood with special reference to pleasing men of brilliant position and gifts but low morals, she by no means fitly represents the[Pg 289] learned women of Italy, whether of court or university. She belonged to a class apart. We lift our eyes at the laxity of a society which could receive and smile upon her, but we have not far to go to find the same complaisance even in a period that prides itself on its superior morals. Our censor of the twenty-fifth century may find here a text for a sermon on the wickedness of the scientific age, which he will otherwise prove by copious quotations from the glaring headlines of our daily journals.

This versatile poet, with more spirit than propriety, received a lot of praise throughout her life and ultimately gained the support of the serious, virtuous, and sorrowful Eleanor of Toledo. However, she passed away in regret and sadness. Living in and shining within the most decadent society of her time, she was raised from childhood to appeal to men of high status who were talented but morally compromised, so she doesn't truly represent the[Pg 289] educated women of Italy, whether at court or university. She belonged to a distinct class. We can only shake our heads at the indulgence of a society that could accept and even celebrate her, but we don't have to look far to find the same tolerance in a time that prides itself on its better morals. Our critic in the twenty-fifth century might find in this a basis for a sermon about the immorality of the scientific age, which he could then support with plenty of quotes from the sensational headlines of our daily news.

So far as appears, in an age when no man’s life was secure and no woman’s honor was quite safe, when men in power did not scruple to send those who were in their way out of the world, atoning for it, if it needed atonement, at least celebrating it, by a grand Te Deum, or a De Profundis,—which seems more suitable though less cheerful,—it was the women of the highest intelligence who held the balance of humanity and morals. There were wicked ones, no doubt, in abundance, as the more facile and helpless sex was not free from the subtle influence of the spirit of the age against which good men with all their vaunted strength struggled in vain. But it can hardly be disputed that the virtues and graces of character blossomed in the most significant profusion among women of distinctly scholarly tastes, who found in the pleasures of the intellect an unfailing resource against the vices as well as the sorrows and disappointments of a bad and pitiless world.

As far as we can see, in a time when no man's life was secure and no woman's honor was safe, when powerful men didn't hesitate to eliminate those who got in their way—often justifying it with a grand celebration like a Te Deum or perhaps a more somber De Profundis—it was the highly intelligent women who maintained the balance of humanity and morals. There were definitely wicked individuals, as the more vulnerable sex was not immune to the pervasive influences of the age that good men struggled against in vain with all their proclaimed strength. However, it's hard to argue that the virtues and qualities of character flourished most abundantly among women with a strong scholarly inclination, who found in the joys of intellectual pursuits a constant refuge from the vices, sorrows, and disappointments of a harsh and unyielding world.

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THE LITERARY COURTS AND PLATONIC LOVE

· Social Spirit of Women ·
· Accomplished Princesses · Their Executive Ability ·
· Caterina Sforza · Patrons of Letters ·
· Court of Urbino ·
· Duchess Elisabetta · Count Castiglione ·
· Record of Conversations · Qualities of a Lady ·
· A Medici Champion of Women ·
· Platonic Love · Court of Ferrara ·
· Boiardo · Ariosto · Duchess Leonora ·
· Lucrezia Borgia · Renée · Tasso’s Leonora ·
· Court of Mantua · Isabella d’Este ·
· Court of Milan · Beatrice d’Este ·
· Moral and Intellectual Value of Women of the Renaissance ·
· From Court to Literary Salon ·

· Social Spirit of Women ·
· Accomplished Princesses · Their Leadership Skills ·
· Caterina Sforza · Supporters of Literature ·
· Court of Urbino ·
· Duchess Elisabetta · Count Castiglione ·
· Record of Conversations · Traits of a Lady ·
· A Medici Advocate for Women ·
· Platonic Love · Court of Ferrara ·
· Boiardo · Ariosto · Duchess Leonora ·
· Lucrezia Borgia · Renée · Tasso’s Leonora ·
· Court of Mantua · Isabella d’Este ·
· Court of Milan · Beatrice d’Este ·
· Moral and Intellectual Importance of Women in the Renaissance ·
· From Court to Literary Salon ·


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I

We have heard of a man who, after writing two hundred volumes or so on various learned subjects, added a “Eulogy of Silence.” Among other curious things, he said that he was “never more with those he loved than when alone.” Men have sometimes been known to prefer society in this form, but women rarely; they like things in the concrete, and they like to talk about them. They may turn to a life of the spirit, but even this they do not care to live in solitude. There are few anchorets among them. In their exaltation, as in their pursuit of knowledge, they seek companionship.

We’ve heard about a man who, after writing around two hundred volumes on various scholarly topics, added a “Eulogy of Silence.” Among other interesting things, he mentioned that he was “never more with those he loved than when alone.” Sometimes, men prefer companionship in this way, but women rarely do; they prefer things to be tangible, and they enjoy discussing them. They might turn to a spiritual life, but even then, they don’t like to live in solitude. There are few hermits among them. In their inspiration, as in their quest for knowledge, they seek out companionship.

Just how much women had to do with awakening the world from its long sleep we do not know, but they were very active in keeping it awake after[Pg 294] it began to open its eyes. They mastered old languages, studied old manuscripts, held public discussions on classic themes, wrote verses, and entered with enthusiasm into the search for records that had been lying in the dust for a thousand years. But they did more than this: they revived the art of conversation and created society anew. Possibly this was the most distinct heritage they left to the coming ages.

Just how much women contributed to waking the world from its long slumber is unclear, but they were very active in keeping it awake once it started to open its eyes. They mastered ancient languages, studied old manuscripts, held public discussions on classic topics, wrote poetry, and enthusiastically searched for records that had been forgotten for a thousand years. But they did even more: they revived the art of conversation and reshaped society. Perhaps this was the most important legacy they left for future generations.[Pg 294]

If conversation did not reach its maturity in Italy, it had its brilliant youth there. Later it was taken up in France, spiced with Gallic wit, and raised to the dignity of a fine art; but it lost a little of its first seriousness. The accomplished princesses of the Renaissance, who raved over a new-found line of Plato or Socrates, and expatiated on the merits of a long-buried statue they had helped to unearth, recalled the famous circle of Aspasia and made social centers of their own. But they added a fresh and original flavor. One does not copy accurately after fifteen or twenty centuries, nor even after two or three; but we are safe in thinking that these groups of poets, statesmen, prelates, artists, wits, and litterateurs, who discussed the new life and thought, were not far behind their model in brilliancy. If the men were not so great, the world was older, the field of knowledge was wider, and there was more to talk about. Then, there was but one Aspasia. If there were lesser[Pg 295] stars of her own sex, we do not know who they were. It was a brave woman, whatever her abilities may have been, if she had a reputation to lose, that would show her face in the society of those grand old Greeks who claimed the universe for themselves and made of her an insignificant vassal. But there was a multitude of women, both clever and learned, who added life and piquancy to the coteries of the Renaissance. Men were proud of the versatile wives and daughters who made their courts centers of light and learning; if they were without lettered tastes themselves, they were glad of the reflected glory. So, naturally, it was the ambition of every well-born girl to fit herself to shine in these brilliant circles, and every father who had a daughter of talent was conscious of possessing a treasure of great value upon which too much care could not be lavished.

If conversation didn't fully develop in Italy, it definitely had its exciting beginnings there. Later, it caught on in France, adding a dash of French wit and elevating it to an art form; however, it lost some of its initial seriousness. The educated princesses of the Renaissance, who were thrilled by newly discovered works of Plato or Socrates, and could talk endlessly about the merits of a long-buried statue they helped dig up, reminded us of the famous circle of Aspasia and created their own social hubs. But they brought a fresh and original twist. You can't copy perfectly after fifteen or twenty centuries—or even two or three—but we can confidently say that these groups of poets, politicians, clergymen, artists, thinkers, and writers, who discussed new life and ideas, were not far behind their predecessors in brilliance. If the men weren't as great, the world was older, knowledge was broader, and there was more to discuss. Back then, there was only one Aspasia. If there were lesser stars among her peers, we don't know who they were. It took a brave woman, regardless of her talents, to show her face among those great Greeks who claimed the universe for themselves and made her seem like a minor figure. But there were many clever and educated women who brought excitement and interest to the social gatherings of the Renaissance. Men took pride in their talented wives and daughters who turned their courts into centers of culture and knowledge; even if they weren't interested in learning themselves, they appreciated the reflected glory. So, it was only natural for every well-born girl to aspire to shine in these vibrant circles, and every father with a talented daughter was aware that he possessed a highly valuable treasure that deserved plenty of attention and care.

It must not be thought, however, that the women who made their courts so famous were simply devotees of fashion, or the pretty toys of men’s caprices, any more than they were colorless saints of the household or cloister. They were not without high domestic and womanly virtues, but they had also intelligence, a grasp of affairs, masterly character, and the tact to make all these qualities available for the good of their families and society. They were versed not only in classic lore, but in the art of living. It was not weakness that constituted[Pg 296] their charm; it was their symmetry and the fullness of their strength.

It shouldn't be assumed that the women who made their courts so famous were just fashion enthusiasts or mere playthings for men’s whims, any more than they were just bland household figures or nuns in a convent. They possessed strong domestic and feminine qualities, but they were also intelligent, savvy about affairs, strong-willed, and had the skill to use all these traits for the benefit of their families and society. They were knowledgeable not just in classic literature but also in the art of living well. Their charm didn’t come from weakness; it came from their balance and the depth of their strength.[Pg 296]

As we have already seen, it was an age of educated women. A lady was expected to understand Latin, at least, besides her own language, and Greek was a common acquirement. The earliest Greek grammar was written by the celebrated Lascaris for Ippolita Sforza, the wife of Alfonso and a ruling spirit at the lettered court of Naples. In her precocious childhood this brilliant princess made a collection of Latin apothegms, and a translation of Cicero’s “De Senectute,” which is said to be still preserved in a convent at Rome. Plato, Seneca, and other philosophers supplied the great ladies of four centuries ago with moral nutriment, and Cicero was studied as a model of style. With the exception of Vergil and parts of Horace, the Latin poets were too coarse, and Boccaccio was forbidden; but Dante was a favorite companion of leisure hours, and Petrarch, the high priest of Platonism, an idol. The “Lives of the Fathers” and the chronicles of the saints were antidotes to the worldliness of poets and historians. It was understood, however, that literary tastes must not interfere with prayers and an intelligent oversight of the household.

As we've already seen, it was a time when women were educated. A lady was expected to know Latin, at least, in addition to her own language, and Greek was commonly learned. The first Greek grammar was written by the famous Lascaris for Ippolita Sforza, the wife of Alfonso and a key figure at the scholarly court of Naples. In her early childhood, this brilliant princess compiled a collection of Latin sayings and translated Cicero’s “De Senectute,” which is said to still be kept in a convent in Rome. Plato, Seneca, and other philosophers provided intellectual nourishment for the prominent women of four centuries ago, and Cicero was studied as a model for writing style. With the exception of Vergil and some parts of Horace, most Latin poets were considered too crude, and Boccaccio was banned; however, Dante was a beloved leisure read, and Petrarch, the high priest of Platonism, was idolized. The “Lives of the Fathers” and the chronicles of the saints served as remedies against the worldly themes of poets and historians. It was understood, though, that literary interests should not disrupt prayers and a thoughtful management of the household.

Of their talent for administration these versatile princesses gave ample evidence. They were constantly called upon to hold the reins of government[Pg 297] when their husbands were absent, and ruled with great wisdom and skill. We do not hear that they talked much of their ability to do various things not usually included among a woman’s duties, but they did them at need as a matter of course. In affairs of delicate diplomacy they were of special value, also in questions pertaining to morals. It is interesting to know that this quarrelsome period had its peace societies, as well as our own, and that the Pacieri, which was organized to prevent litigation, was made up of men and women. Veronica Gambara used her influence and her pen in the interest of peace, also Vittoria Colonna, and many others.

These versatile princesses clearly showed their talent for administration. They were often called upon to take charge of the government when their husbands were away, and they ruled with great wisdom and skill. We don’t hear them bragging about their abilities to do things not usually expected of women, but they handled those tasks as a matter of course when necessary. They were particularly valuable in delicate diplomatic matters and moral questions. It’s interesting to note that this contentious time had its own peace societies, just like ours, and that the Pacieri, created to prevent lawsuits, included both men and women. Veronica Gambara used her influence and writing to promote peace, as did Vittoria Colonna and many others.[Pg 297]

Some of the women who ruled so ably, however, were of virile temper, and threw themselves with passionate energy into the storm and stress of affairs, though it was rarely, if ever, from choice. In an emergency they could ride fearlessly to the field of battle, or address a foreign council. It was to save her children’s heritage that Caterina Sforza defended the rocky fortress of Forli after the violent death of her husband. She was a picturesque figure, this imposing lady of fair face, golden hair, indomitable spirit, and fiery temper, as accomplished as she was beautiful and brave, who rode at the head of her troops, and graciously smiled upon the people, who loved her and were ready to die for her. As a lovely bride of fifteen she had made a[Pg 298] triumphal entry into Rome, where she lived like a queen, and literally controlled the fate of every one who sought aid, promotion, or a place of her uncle, the formidable Sixtus IV, but she was destined to come to the front in many a stormy crisis. She was only twenty-two when the Pope died suddenly, but she took prompt possession of the castle of St. Angelo in the name of her absent husband, who was Commander of the Forces, and found there an asylum for her children until she could make terms that saved the family fortunes. No wonder the husband took her with him when he went to Venice, that he might avail himself of her swift and clear judgment in his delicate negotiations.

Some of the women who ruled so effectively were quite strong-willed and threw themselves into the chaos of political affairs with intense energy, though it was rarely by choice. In a crisis, they could bravely ride into battle or speak at foreign meetings. Caterina Sforza defended the rocky fortress of Forli after her husband’s violent death to protect her children's inheritance. She was a striking figure, this impressive woman with a fair face, golden hair, fierce spirit, and strong temper, accomplished, beautiful, and brave, who led her troops and graciously smiled at the people who loved her and were willing to die for her. As a beautiful bride at fifteen, she made a[Pg 298] triumphant entry into Rome, where she lived like a queen and practically controlled the fate of everyone who sought help, promotion, or a position from her powerful uncle, Sixtus IV. However, she was destined to face many turbulent crises. At just twenty-two, when the Pope died suddenly, she quickly seized control of the Castle of St. Angelo in the name of her absent husband, who was Commander of the Forces, finding there a refuge for her children until she could negotiate terms that preserved the family’s wealth. It’s no surprise her husband brought her with him to Venice, knowing he could rely on her sharp and clear judgment during his delicate negotiations.

The history of this fifteenth-century heroine reads like the most improbable romance. With the daring of a man, she had the flexibility of a woman. If she could hold her own against an army and crush an enemy with inexorable decision, she could care for the wounded like a nurse. She danced as vigorously as she ruled, and did not disdain the arts of a coquette or a diplomatist. One and the most obscure of her three husbands she loved, but the others she served well. Of fear she was incapable. “I am used to grief; I am not afraid of it,” she wrote to her son from the solitary cell at Rome, where she was caged for a time by the terrible Borgia Pope in the fortress over which she had once ruled. But the careful, devoted mother, who[Pg 299] was so full of energy, so generous to her friends, so courageous in war, so subtle in diplomacy, so dignified in misfortune, turned in her last years to spiritual things with the same ardor she had given to mundane ones. She had lived her life, and retired from its storms at thirty-nine. Then she gave herself to the austerities of a convent at Florence, still directing the education of her young children. If we do not approve of all the methods of this irrepressible woman of clear head and strong heart, we have to judge her by the standards of an age in which the directors of the world’s conscience scoffed at morality and gave the prizes of life to libertines and assassins. I quote her as one out of many, to show the firm quality and abounding vitality as well as the solid attainments of the women of this remarkable period.

The story of this fifteenth-century heroine feels like the most unlikely romance. With the courage of a man, she had the adaptability of a woman. If she could stand up to an army and decisively defeat an enemy, she could also care for the wounded like a nurse. She danced as energetically as she ruled and didn’t shy away from the tactics of a flirt or a diplomat. Among her three husbands, she genuinely loved one who was the least notable, but she served the others well. She was incapable of fear. “I’m used to grief; I’m not afraid of it,” she wrote to her son from the lonely cell in Rome, where she was imprisoned for a time by the cruel Borgia Pope in the fortress she once ruled. Yet the attentive, devoted mother, full of energy, generous to her friends, brave in battle, subtle in diplomacy, and dignified in hardship, turned to spiritual matters in her later years with the same passion she had for worldly pursuits. She had lived her life and withdrew from its chaos at thirty-nine. Then she dedicated herself to the austerities of a convent in Florence, while still overseeing the education of her young children. If we don’t approve of all the methods of this unstoppable woman with a clear mind and strong spirit, we must judge her by the standards of a time when the leaders of the world’s conscience mocked morality and rewarded libertines and assassins. I mention her as one example among many to highlight the strong character and abundant vitality, as well as the significant accomplishments of the women from this remarkable period.

But the special mission of these princesses, so valiant on occasion, was to patronize learning and the arts, to aid men of letters, to diffuse a taste for the beautiful, to put a curb on license, so far as this was possible, and to foster discussions of things high and serious. They vied with one another in making their courts intellectually luminous. The more we study them, the more we are convinced of the beneficent influence of thoroughly trained, broad-minded women in molding the destinies of nations as well as of individuals. We are fascinated by their variable charm, their mastery of life in its larger as[Pg 300] well as its smaller phases. The woman who led all hearts captive with her beauty, her gaiety, her kindness, the faithful wife, the tender mother, the sympathetic friend, was also the woman of lucid intellect and strong soul, who sustained her husband in his darkest hours and added laurels to his glory while winning some for herself.

But the unique role of these princesses, sometimes brave, was to support education and the arts, to help writers, to spread an appreciation for beauty, to restrain excess whenever they could, and to encourage serious discussions about important matters. They competed to make their courts intellectually vibrant. The more we learn about them, the more we realize how positively impactful well-educated, open-minded women can be in shaping the futures of both nations and individuals. We are captivated by their changing charm, their ability to navigate life’s bigger and smaller challenges. The woman who captured everyone’s heart with her beauty, joy, and kindness—the devoted wife, loving mother, and caring friend—was also a woman of clear intellect and strong spirit, who stood by her husband in his darkest times and added to his achievements while earning some for herself.

II

Of the Italian courts, it was only those led by able women that left a permanent fame. If they are associated with the names of great men who gave them the halo of their own glory, it was women who made a society for these men, inspired them, and centralized their influence. Urbino was called the Athens of Italy. During the reign of the Duchess Elisabetta it is safe to say that there was hardly a man of distinction in the country, whether poet, artist, prelate, or statesman, who did not find his way there sooner or later. It may be pleasant to dwell a little on this brilliant court, which was the best and purest of its time and furnished the model upon which the Hôtel de Rambouillet was founded more than a century afterward. It was more fortunate than others in having a chronicler. Count Castiglione left a graphic picture of its personnel and amusements, as well as a record of some of its conversations, so that we know not[Pg 301] only the quality of the people who met there, but what they thought, what they talked about, and what they did. He gives us the best glimpse we have of the society and manners of the golden age of the Renaissance.

Of the Italian courts, only those run by capable women earned lasting fame. While they are linked to the names of great men who brought them glory, it was these women who created a society for these men, inspired them, and consolidated their influence. Urbino was known as the Athens of Italy. During Duchess Elisabetta's reign, it’s fair to say that nearly every notable man in the country—whether a poet, artist, church leader, or politician—eventually made his way there. It's nice to reflect on this brilliant court, which was the finest and most refined of its time and served as the model for the Hôtel de Rambouillet over a century later. It was luckier than others because it had a chronicler. Count Castiglione painted a vivid picture of its people and entertainment, as well as recorded some of its conversations, so we know not[Pg 301] only about the quality of the individuals who gathered there, but also what they thought, what they talked about, and what they did. He gives us the best view we have of the society and customs of the Renaissance's golden age.

But this atmosphere of culture and refinement was not made in a day. It was largely due to the more or less gifted princesses who had lived or ruled there for more than a hundred years. Far back toward the beginning of the fifteenth century there was a Battista who was distinguished for her piety, her talents, and her noble character. A worthless husband drove her to seek refuge with her brother at Urbino, where she solaced the wounds of her heart in writing sonnets and moral essays on faith and human frailty, also in corresponding with scholars and sending Latin letters to her father-in-law, a Malatesta, who had fostered her literary tastes and evidently remained her friend. Her daughter inherited her sorrows with her talents, and both closed their lives, after the fashion of women to whom the world has not been kind or has lost its charm, in the austerities of a convent. Her granddaughter was Costanza Varana, a valued friend of philosophers and men of learning; but she died early, leaving another Battista, who was sent to Milan at four to be educated with her precocious cousin Ippolita Sforza. The extraordinary gifts of this child have already been mentioned,[Pg 302] but she more than fulfilled her promise. At fifteen, or earlier, she was married to Federigo, the great Duke of Urbino, who shared the enthusiasm of the Medici in the revival of the classics. This small duchess of vigorous intellect, much learning, and strong character, was in full sympathy with her husband’s tastes, and he speaks of her as “the ornament of his house, the delight of his public and private hours.” If she could read Demosthenes and Plato, and talk with the wisdom of Cicero, as one of her contemporaries tells us, she was not spoiled for the practical duties of her position. At an age when our school-girls are playing golf or conning their lessons, she was prudently managing affairs of the State of which she was regent in her husband’s absence. She was simple in manners, cared little for dress, and put on her magnificent robes only for courtly ceremonies to maintain the outward dignity of her place. At Rome she was greatly honored by the Pope, whom she addressed in Latin, much to his delight. But this beautiful, gifted, efficient, and adored woman died at twenty-six, leaving seven children, a broken-hearted husband, and a sorrowing people. The glories of her short, full life were sung by poets, statesmen, and churchmen alike. She left the imperishable stamp of intellect and taste on all her surroundings, and is of special interest to us as the grandmother of Vittoria Colonna, in whom[Pg 303] the talent of generations found its consummate flower.

But this atmosphere of culture and refinement didn’t develop overnight. It was largely thanks to the talented princesses who had lived or ruled there for over a hundred years. Going back to the early 15th century, there was a Battista known for her piety, talents, and noble character. A worthless husband drove her to seek refuge with her brother in Urbino, where she healed her heart by writing sonnets and moral essays on faith and human frailty, as well as corresponding with scholars and sending Latin letters to her father-in-law, a Malatesta, who had nurtured her literary interests and remained a supportive friend. Her daughter inherited both her sorrows and talents, and both ended their lives, like many women who have faced hard times or found the world unkind, in the austerity of a convent. Her granddaughter was Costanza Varana, a respected friend of philosophers and learned men; however, she died young, leaving another Battista, who was sent to Milan at age four to be educated alongside her gifted cousin Ippolita Sforza. The extraordinary talents of this child have already been noted,[Pg 302] but she exceeded expectations. By the time she was fifteen, or even earlier, she was married to Federigo, the great Duke of Urbino, who shared the Medici’s enthusiasm for the revival of classical knowledge. This young duchess, with her sharp intellect, extensive learning, and strong character, was fully in tune with her husband’s interests, and he regarded her as “the ornament of his house, the delight of his public and private hours.” If she could read Demosthenes and Plato and converse with the wisdom of Cicero, as noted by one of her contemporaries, she wasn’t distracted from the practical responsibilities of her role. At an age when our schoolgirls are busy with sports or studying, she was wisely managing state affairs as regent during her husband’s absence. She was modest in her behavior, cared little about fashion, and only wore her magnificent gowns for formal ceremonies to uphold the dignity of her position. In Rome, she was highly regarded by the Pope, whom she addressed in Latin, to his great pleasure. But this beautiful, talented, capable, and cherished woman died at twenty-six, leaving behind seven children, a devastated husband, and a grieving community. The glories of her brief, fulfilling life were celebrated by poets, statesmen, and church leaders alike. She left an enduring mark of intellect and taste on everything around her and is particularly significant to us as the grandmother of Vittoria Colonna, in whom[Pg 303] the talents of generations bloomed in full.

But the luminous period of Urbino was during the reign of her son, who added to the martial qualities and manly accomplishments of his age, remarkable talent, great learning, and a singularly gentle character. This was the Duke Guidobaldo, who consoled his friends in his last moments with lines from Vergil. His health was always delicate, and the brilliancy of his court was due to his wife, the celebrated Elisabetta Gonzaga, who had been reared in the scholarly air of Mantua, where the daughters were educated with the sons. She found in her new home standards of culture that had been set, as we have seen, by a long line of princesses devoted to things of the intellect.

But the bright period of Urbino was during the rule of her son, who combined the military skills and masculine achievements of his time with notable talent, extensive knowledge, and a uniquely gentle nature. This was Duke Guidobaldo, who comforted his friends in his final moments with lines from Vergil. He was always in fragile health, and the brilliance of his court was thanks to his wife, the renowned Elisabetta Gonzaga, who grew up in the scholarly environment of Mantua, where daughters received the same education as sons. She discovered in her new home cultural standards that had been established, as we've seen, by a long line of princesses dedicated to intellectual pursuits.

In its palmy days, the young Giuliano de’ Medici, son of the great Lorenzo and brother of Leo X,—the one who was immortalized by Michelangelo in the statue so familiar to the traveler in the Medicean Chapel at Florence,—was living at Urbino during the exile of his family. It was also the home of the “divine Bembo,” critic, Platonist, arbiter of letters, finally cardinal, and one of the most famous men of his time, though his claim to be called “divine” is not apparent. The witty Mæcenas of this group was Bibbiena, poet, diplomat, man of the world, a dilettante in taste and an Epicurean in philosophy, also a cardinal and an aspirant for the[Pg 304] papal throne. There were, too, the Fregosos, men of strong intellect, many personal attractions, and manly character, one of whom became the Doge of Genoa, and the other a cardinal—with many others of fame and learning whose names signify little to us to-day. By no means the least important member of the household was Castiglione, the courtier and diplomat of classical tastes and varied accomplishments, who has given us so pleasant a glimpse of its sayings and doings. To this intellectual Mecca came, from time to time, literary pilgrims from all parts of the world.

In its heyday, the young Giuliano de’ Medici, son of the great Lorenzo and brother of Leo X—the one who was immortalized by Michelangelo in the statue famously seen by travelers in the Medicean Chapel in Florence—was living in Urbino during his family's exile. This was also the home of the “divine Bembo,” a critic, Platonist, literary authority, ultimately a cardinal, and one of the most well-known figures of his time, although it’s unclear why he earned the title “divine.” The witty Mæcenas of this group was Bibbiena, a poet, diplomat, worldly man, a connoisseur of taste, and an Epicurean in philosophy, who was also a cardinal and a contender for the papal throne. There were also the Fregosos, known for their strong intellect, attractive personalities, and noble character, one of whom became the Doge of Genoa, while the other became a cardinal—along with many others notable for their fame and knowledge, whose names mean little to us today. By far not the least significant member of the household was Castiglione, a courtier and diplomat with classical tastes and diverse talents, who has provided us with a delightful insight into its conversations and activities. To this intellectual hub, literary travelers would occasionally come from all over the world.

It was the special mission of the Duchess Elisabetta to fuse these elements into a society that should be a model for other courts and coming generations. Here lies her originality and her claim to distinction. This clever princess, who loved her husband devotedly, cared for the poor and sorrowing among her people, and had moral convictions of her own as well as ideas, was well fitted for her position. Without any pretension to genius, she had a clear, discriminating mind, rare intelligence, great beauty, and gracious manners. Her character had a fine symmetry, and she was equally successful in directing her household, conversing with great men, and holding the reins of government when her husband—a condottiere by profession, like most of the smaller princes—was in the field elsewhere. Surrounded by adorers[Pg 305] in an age when indiscretions, even sins, were easily forgiven, no breath of censure ever touched her fair name. Her dignity and a reserve that verged upon coldness gave a pure tone to her court. She permitted neither malicious gossip nor heated talk, and required unsullied honor and exemplary conduct of her friends. We might question the standards a little, as men at least were privileged beings not to be too closely scrutinized.

It was Duchess Elisabetta's unique mission to blend these elements into a society that would serve as a model for other courts and future generations. This is where her originality and distinction lie. This intelligent princess, who loved her husband deeply, cared for the poor and the grieving among her people, and held strong moral beliefs and ideas, was well-suited for her role. Without claiming to be a genius, she possessed a clear, discerning mind, rare intelligence, great beauty, and charming manners. Her character had a lovely balance, and she excelled at managing her household, engaging with prominent figures, and handling government affairs when her husband—a mercenary by trade, like many of the smaller princes—was away. Surrounded by admirers[Pg 305] in an era when indiscretions, even sins, were easily overlooked, no hint of criticism ever tainted her good name. Her dignity and a reserve that bordered on coldness lent a refined atmosphere to her court. She tolerated neither malicious gossip nor heated debates and demanded unblemished honor and exemplary behavior from her friends. We might question the standards a bit, as men were often privileged and not scrutinized too closely.

In her social duties she had the efficient aid of Emilia Pia, the duke’s sister-in-law, a woman of brilliant intellect and high character, who had lost her husband in youth, and lived at Urbino. Of a gayer turn, her ready wit and happy temperament, added to her knowledge and personal fascination, made her the life of the house. Other and younger ladies of well-known names and kindred tastes figure in its diversions.

In her social responsibilities, she had the effective support of Emilia Pia, the duke’s sister-in-law. Emilia was a woman with a sharp mind and strong character who had lost her husband when she was young and lived in Urbino. With a cheerful personality, her quick wit and positive attitude, combined with her knowledge and charm, made her the heart of the home. Other younger ladies from notable backgrounds and with similar interests participated in its activities.

The magnificent old palace that overlooked the city from its picturesque site among the hills was one of the finest in Italy. Its stately rooms were filled with rare treasures of painting, sculpture, mosaic, and costly furniture. There were exquisite decorations in marble and tarsia, and the walls were draped with rich tapestries. Raphael was a youth then, and no doubt his first dreams had been of these beautiful things, among which he must have rambled. It is likely, too, that he met here the friends who were of so much service to him afterward[Pg 306] at Rome, among them Bibbiena, to whose grandniece he was betrothed. His father had painted some of the frescos, and was a welcome visitor. Other artists were invited there, and added to the glories of the famous pile. Among these surroundings of art and beauty, with the traditions of culture that lay behind them, clever, thoughtful women and brilliant men met evening after evening to talk of the world and its affairs, of things light and serious, of love, manners, literature, statecraft, and philosophy. When they tired of grave themes, they amused themselves with allegories, playful badinage, witty repartees, and devices of all sorts to stimulate the intellect. After supper there was music and dancing, if the conversation did not last until the morning hours. Sometimes they had their own plays acted in the pretty little theater. It was here that Bibbiena’s famous comedy, “Calandra,” with its gorgeous pagan setting and its curious blending of love and mythology, of nymphs, Cupids, and goddesses, was first given to an admiring world.

The stunning old palace that overlooked the city from its beautiful location in the hills was one of the best in Italy. Its grand rooms were filled with rare treasures of paintings, sculptures, mosaics, and expensive furniture. There were exquisite decorations in marble and tarsia, and the walls were draped with rich tapestries. Raphael was a young man at that time, and surely his first dreams were of these beautiful things, among which he must have roamed. It's also likely that he met here friends who would be very helpful to him later in Rome, including Bibbiena, to whose grandniece he was engaged. His father had painted some of the frescoes and was a frequent visitor. Other artists were invited, adding to the glory of the famous place. Amidst this art and beauty, with the cultural traditions that surrounded them, clever, thoughtful women and brilliant men gathered evening after evening to discuss the world and its issues, from light topics to serious ones, including love, manners, literature, politics, and philosophy. When they grew tired of serious discussions, they entertained themselves with allegories, playful banter, witty exchanges, and various devices to spark the intellect. After dinner, there was music and dancing, unless the conversation carried on until morning. Sometimes, they held their own plays in the charming little theater. It was here that Bibbiena’s famous comedy, “Calandra,” with its stunning pagan backdrop and its intriguing mix of love and mythology, featuring nymphs, Cupids, and goddesses, was first performed for an admiring audience.[Pg 306]

But we are most interested to-day in the conversations. Many evenings were devoted to defining the character and duties of a courtier, which differed little from those of a modern gentleman, except in the exaggerated deference claimed to be due to a superior and verging upon servility. It is more to the purpose here to touch upon the[Pg 307] discussions relating to women, as they furnish a key to fifteenth-century manners which were the basis of all modern codes, though to-day many of the best of their formulas are more conspicuous in the breach than in the observance.

But today, we're most interested in the conversations. Many evenings were spent defining the character and responsibilities of a courtier, which were not very different from those of a modern gentleman, except for the excessive respect expected towards a superior that bordered on servility. It's more relevant here to discuss the[Pg 307] conversations about women, as they provide insight into the manners of the fifteenth century, which formed the foundation of all modern codes, although nowadays many of their best principles are more often ignored than followed.

It was agreed that a lady must be gracious, affable, discreet, of character above reproach, free from pride or envy, and neither vain, contentious, nor arrogant. To speak of the failings of others, or listen to reflections upon them, was taken as an indication that one’s own follies needed a vindication or a veil. This model lady must dress with taste, but not think too much about it, and she was forbidden to dye her hair, or use cosmetics and other artificial aids to beauty. Her personal distinction lay in an elegant simplicity, without luxury or pretension. She must know how to manage her children and her fortune, as well as her household; but she was expected to be versed in letters, music, and the arts, also to be able to converse on any topic of the day without childish affectation of knowledge which she did not possess. Modesty, tact, decorum, and purity of thought were cardinal virtues, and religion was a matter of course. Noisy manners, egotism, and familiarity were unpardonable. Dignity, self-possession, and a gentle urbanity were marks of good breeding. No license in language was permitted, but we cannot help wondering what they called license. Men,[Pg 308] it must be added, could be about as wicked as they liked, and, if history is to be trusted, many in high places were very wicked indeed. The latitude of the best of them in speech would be rather embarrassing to the sensitive woman of our time; but the days of the précieuses had not dawned, and no one hesitated to call a spade a spade, even if it were a very black one. Women might blush and be silent, but further protest was set down as disagreeable prudery. Perhaps the frank naturalism of the Latin races must be taken into account, as it often quite unconsciously shocks our own more delicate tastes even to-day. But it was conceded that no man was so bad as not to esteem a woman of pure character and refined sensibilities.

It was agreed that a lady should be gracious, friendly, discreet, with a character above reproach, free from pride or envy, and neither vain, argumentative, nor arrogant. Speaking about the faults of others, or listening to comments about them, was seen as a sign that one’s own shortcomings needed justification or cover. This ideal lady must dress tastefully but not obsess over it, and she was not allowed to dye her hair, or use makeup or other artificial beauty enhancements. Her personal distinction lay in an elegant simplicity, without luxury or pretension. She needed to manage her children, finances, and household; however, she was also expected to be knowledgeable in literature, music, and the arts, and to be able to engage in conversation on any current topic without pretentiousness regarding knowledge she didn’t have. Modesty, tact, decorum, and pure thoughts were essential virtues, and religion was a given. Loud behavior, egotism, and familiarity were unacceptable. Dignity, composure, and kind politeness were signs of good upbringing. No improper language was allowed, but one can’t help but wonder what they considered inappropriate. Men,[Pg 308] it should be noted, could be as wicked as they wanted, and, if history is reliable, many in high positions were quite immoral indeed. The leniency of even the best of them in speech would likely be quite uncomfortable for a sensitive woman today; however, the era of the précieuses hadn’t arrived yet, and no one hesitated to call things as they were, even if they were especially harsh. Women might blush and stay quiet, but any further objection was seen as unpleasant prudishness. Perhaps the straightforward naturalness of Latin cultures should be considered, as it often unconsciously shocks our more refined sensibilities even today. Nevertheless, it was acknowledged that no man was so bad that he didn’t value a woman of pure character and refined sensibilities.

These men and women who lived on the confines of two great centuries and tried to introduce a finer code of manners and morals, touched also on the equality of the sexes, a question which agitated that world as it does our own. Some one asks, one evening, why women should not be permitted to govern cities, make laws, and command armies.

These men and women who lived on the edge of two major centuries and attempted to establish a better standard of behavior and ethics also addressed the issue of gender equality, which stirred up that society just like it does ours today. One evening, someone asks why women shouldn’t have the right to lead cities, create laws, and command armies.

Giuliano de’ Medici, who was an ardent champion of the dependent sex, replies that it might not be amiss. Many of them he declares to be as capable of doing these things as men, and he cites history to show that they have led armies and governed with equal prudence. To a friend who mildly suggests[Pg 309] that women are inferior, he says that “the difference is accidental, not essential,” adding that the qualities of strength, activity, and endurance are not always most esteemed, even in men. As to mind, “whatever men can know and understand, women can also; where one intellect penetrates, so does the other.... Many have been learned in philosophy, written poetry, practised law, and spoken with eloquence.”

Giuliano de’ Medici, a strong supporter of women, responds that it could be a good idea. He states that many women are just as capable of achieving these things as men are, citing history to demonstrate that they have led armies and governed with equal wisdom. When a friend lightly suggests that women are inferior, he replies that “the difference is accidental, not essential,” adding that qualities like strength, energy, and endurance aren’t always valued the most, even in men. Regarding the mind, “whatever men can know and understand, women can too; where one intellect can go deep, so can the other.... Many have excelled in philosophy, written poetry, practiced law, and spoken with great skill.”

A gentleman of the party ungallantly remarks that women desire to be men so as to be more perfect.

A member of the group rudely states that women want to be men to become more perfect.

Giuliano wisely answers that it is not for perfection, but for liberty to shake off the power that men assume over them. He says they are more firm and constant in affection, as men are apt to be wandering and unsettled. When asked to name women who are equal to men, he replies that he is confounded by numbers, but mentions, among others, “Portia, Cornelia, and Nicostrata, mother of Evander, who taught the Latins the use of letters.” “Rome,” he adds, “owes its greatness as much to women as to men.... They were never in any age inferior, nor are they now.” He goes on to cite Countess Matilda, Anne of France, wife of two kings in succession, and inferior to neither, Marguerite, daughter of Maximilian, famed for prudence and justice, Isabella of Mantua, singularly great and virtuous, with many other noted women[Pg 310] of his time. “If there are Cleopatras, there are multitudes of Sardanapali who are much worse.”

Giuliano wisely responds that it’s not about perfection, but about the freedom to break free from the control that men impose on them. He says women are more steadfast and consistent in their affections, while men tend to be fickle and restless. When asked to name women equal to men, he admits he's overwhelmed by choices but mentions, among others, “Portia, Cornelia, and Nicostrata, the mother of Evander, who taught the Latins how to use writing.” “Rome,” he adds, “owes its greatness to women just as much as to men.... They have never been inferior in any age, nor are they now.” He goes on to mention Countess Matilda, Anne of France, who was married to two kings in a row and was equal to neither, Marguerite, daughter of Maximilian, known for her wisdom and fairness, Isabella of Mantua, incredibly great and virtuous, along with many other renowned women[Pg 310] of his time. “If there are Cleopatras, there are plenty of Sardanapali who are much worse.”

The limits of this paper permit only the suggestion of a few points in a long conversation which touched the subject on every side. It was interspersed with thoughtful questions from the duchess, who did not fail to interfere if it took too free a turn, also with brilliant sallies of wit from Emilia Pia, and spicy comments from the less serious members of the party. They were not all in accord with the opinions quoted here, but, on the whole, Giuliano de’ Medici and his supporters, who paid a fine tribute to the abilities of women without wishing to impose upon them heavier duties, had the best of the argument.

The limits of this paper allow for only a few points to be suggested from a lengthy conversation that covered the topic from every angle. It was sprinkled with thought-provoking questions from the duchess, who stepped in whenever the discussion became too bold, along with sharp remarks from Emilia Pia and playful comments from the more carefree members of the group. Not everyone agreed with the views mentioned here, but overall, Giuliano de’ Medici and his supporters, who praised women's talents without wanting to burden them with additional responsibilities, had the strongest position in the debate.

From men, women, and manners, the transition to love was an easy one, and this fifteenth-century coterie discussed it in all its variations, as we discuss the last play, or the last novel, or the last word in sociology, or the misty era of universal peace. It was not a new thing to discourse upon the most interesting of human passions. Men had talked of it centuries before on the banks of the Ilissus; but when they passed from its lowest phases they lost themselves in metaphysical subtleties. It became an intellectual aspiration, a “passion of the reason,” without warmth or life. Diotima, a woman quoted by Socrates, called it “a mystic dream of the beautiful[Pg 311] and good”; but if she was not a myth herself, she could not join the symposia of philosophers. Outside of the circle of Aspasia, no respectable woman was admitted to the conversations of men; indeed, these finely drawn dissertations on love had small reference to her. In the classic world women had no part in the marriage of souls. Love, when not purely a thing of the senses, was a worship of beauty, and the Greek ideal of beauty was a masculine one. They might die for a Helen, but it was not for love. These wise talkers sent the flute-players to amuse their wives and daughters in the inner court, while they considered high things, as well as many not suitable for delicate ears. The coarser Romans treated love as altogether a thing of the senses, with Ovid as a text.

For men, women, and social behaviors, moving to discussions about love was a natural shift, and this fifteenth-century group talked about it in all its forms, just like we discuss the latest play, novel, or trending topic in sociology, or the vague idea of global peace. Talking about the most fascinating of human emotions wasn’t new. Men had been discussing it centuries earlier along the banks of the Ilissus; however, when they moved beyond its simplest aspects, they got lost in complicated theories. It became an intellectual goal, a “passion of reason,” lacking any warmth or life. Diotima, a woman referenced by Socrates, described it as “a mystic dream of the beautiful[Pg 311] and good”; but if she wasn’t a myth herself, she couldn’t take part in the philosophers’ gatherings. Outside of Aspasia’s circle, no respectable woman was allowed in the discussions the men had; indeed, these elaborate talks about love had little to do with her. In the ancient world, women played no role in the union of souls. Love, when it wasn’t purely physical, was a devotion to beauty, and the Greek concept of beauty was centered on men. They might sacrifice themselves for a Helen, but it wasn't out of love. These learned speakers sent the musicians to entertain their wives and daughters in the inner courtyard while they contemplated lofty ideas, as well as many that weren’t appropriate for gentle ears. The more blunt Romans viewed love solely as a physical affair, with Ovid as their guide.

But in the golden age of the Renaissance, women no longer stayed in the inner court, to gossip and listen to flute-players, while their husbands talked on themes high or low. The worship of the Madonna, if it had done little else, had idealized the pure affection of an exalted womanhood. Chivalry following in its train had made the cult of woman a fashion by giving her more or less of the homage already paid to her divine representative, though this sentiment was less active in Italy than in Provence or among the more romantic races. It was a tribute of strength to helplessness, and had its roots in the finest traits of men; but it exalted moral qualities[Pg 312] rather than intellectual ones, and was largely theoretical outside of a limited class. Now that men had begun to dip into classic lore, however, they found a valuable ally in women, and the old cult became a companionship. To be educated and a princess was to be doubly a power, to have opinions which it was worth while to consider.

But in the golden age of the Renaissance, women no longer stayed in the inner court, gossiping and listening to flute players while their husbands discussed serious or trivial topics. The worship of the Madonna, if nothing else, had idealized the pure affection of a highly esteemed womanhood. Chivalry, following this trend, turned the admiration of women into a fashion by giving them some of the respect already given to their divine counterpart, although this sentiment was less active in Italy than in Provence or among more romantic cultures. It was a tribute of strength to weakness, rooted in the finest qualities of men; but it emphasized moral traits rather than intellectual ones and was mostly theoretical outside of a small elite group. However, now that men had begun to explore classical knowledge, they found a valuable ally in women, and the old admiration evolved into companionship. Being educated and a princess meant having double the power, with opinions that were worth considering.

The princesses of Urbino had doubtless read Plato. In an age, too, that occupied itself with Boccaccio, who had glorified the senses and written books that no pure and refined woman could read, they had turned to Dante and the spiritual love which was an inspiration and a benediction. In the white soul of Beatrice they found the exquisite flower of womanhood. They caught also the subtle fragrance of the ideal love which Petrarch gave, first to a woman, then to an unfading memory. It was of such a love they dreamed and liked to talk. Then one of the chief apostles of Platonism was the brilliant Bembo, who was the star of this company. “Through love,” he says, “the supreme virtues rule the inferior.” He puts on record and dedicates to Lucrezia Borgia the conversations of three days on its joys and sorrows; but the subject was evidently exhausted, as, at the end, a hermit gives a homily on the vanity of the world. He closes an eloquent apostrophe, however, with these words: “Chase away ignorance and make us see celestial beauty in its perfection. Love, it is the communion with[Pg 313] divine beauty, the banquet of angels, the heavenly ambrosia.” On this theme his listeners rang the changes, but not always on so ethereal a plane. The relative constancy of the sexes, the divine right of man, the passive nature of woman, who was called a pale moon to the masculine sun, and various other points, had their fair share of discussion. Between terrestrial and celestial love there are many gradations, and the character and temperament of the men were clearly revealed in their opinions. Some were disposed to be autocrats, others took issue with masculine egotism, and still others dwelt on the sentimental side of the question. One of the Fregosos rather ungraciously assumed the traditional attitude of his sex and contended that women are “imperfect animals,” not at all to be compared with men. But he was in an unpopular minority. The Duchess Elisabetta was a well-poised, discreet woman, who was devoted to her invalid husband, kept her admirers at a prudent distance, and was in no wise a victim to superfluous sensibility. The effusive Bembo, who was given to friendships touched with the fire of the imagination, was untiring in his devotion to this Minerva, but he confessedly adored her as a goddess from afar. The witty and brilliant Emilia Pia had a temperament the reverse of sentimental, and was ready to demolish any castle of moonlight with a shaft of merciless satire. Both brought a solid equipment[Pg 314] of common sense into an analysis that often reached a very fine point. But this friendship that was not love, this love that was a sublimated friendship, appealed to them as it did to many others besides poets in a grossly material age. To separate the soul from the senses and intellectualize the emotions, was the natural protest of intelligent women against the old traditions that considered them only as servants or toys of men’s fancies. It took them out of the realm of the passions and “gave them wings for a sublime flight.” The mysticism of love is closely related to the mysticism of religion, and the faith that sees God in ecstatic visions is not far from the love that feeds itself from spiritual sources. These rambling talks, to which the young ladies listened curiously and with interest, though usually in discreet silence, proved so absorbing that on the last of a series of evenings devoted to the subject, the party forgot its usual gaieties, and did not disperse until the birds began to sing in the trees and the rosy dawn shone over the rugged heights of Monte Catri.

The princesses of Urbino had definitely read Plato. In a time that also focused on Boccaccio, who celebrated the senses and wrote books that no decent woman could read, they turned to Dante and the spiritual love that inspired and uplifted them. In the pure soul of Beatrice, they discovered the beautiful essence of womanhood. They also absorbed the subtle fragrance of the ideal love that Petrarch offered, first to a woman and then to an everlasting memory. It was this kind of love they dreamed of and enjoyed discussing. One of the main proponents of Platonism was the brilliant Bembo, who stood out in this group. “Through love,” he says, “the supreme virtues govern the lesser ones.” He recorded and dedicated to Lucrezia Borgia the conversations of three days about its joys and sorrows; however, as the discussions progressed, a hermit concluded with a sermon on the vanity of the world. Nevertheless, he wrapped up a passionate speech with these words: “Chase away ignorance and help us see celestial beauty in its fullness. Love, it is the connection with divine beauty, the feast of angels, the heavenly ambrosia.” On this theme, his listeners varied the discussion, but not always in such lofty terms. The relative constants of the sexes, the divine right of man, the passive nature of women—often compared to a pale moon to the masculine sun—and various other issues had their fair share of debate. There are many nuances between earthly and heavenly love, and the personalities and temperaments of the men were clearly evident in their views. Some leaned toward being autocrats, others challenged male self-centeredness, while still others focused on the sentimental aspects of the matter. One of the Fregosos rather rudely took the traditional stance of his gender and argued that women are “imperfect beings,” not to be compared with men at all. But he was in an unpopular minority. Duchess Elisabetta was composed and sensible, devoted to her ill husband, kept her admirers at a respectful distance, and was not swayed by excessive emotions. The expressive Bembo, known for his imaginative friendships, was tireless in his devotion to this Minerva, but he openly adored her like a goddess from a distance. The witty and clever Emilia Pia had a temperament that was the complete opposite of sentimental and was quick to dismantle any fanciful ideas with sharp satire. Both brought a solid dose of common sense to discussions that often became quite intricate. But this friendship that wasn’t quite love, this love that was an elevated friendship, appealed to them as it did to many others besides poets in a highly materialistic age. Separating the soul from the senses and intellectualizing emotions was a natural response of intelligent women against old traditions that saw them merely as servants or playthings of men’s desires. It lifted them out of the realm of passion and “gave them wings for a sublime flight.” The mysticism of love closely relates to the mysticism of religion, and the faith that experiences God in ecstatic visions is not far removed from the love that feeds on spiritual sources. These meandering discussions, which the young ladies listened to with curiosity and interest, though usually in polite silence, became so engaging that on the last evening of this series of conversations, the group lost track of their usual festivities and didn’t break up until the birds began to sing in the trees and the rosy dawn illuminated the rugged heights of Monte Catri.

III

It was these conversations that set in motion the wave of Platonism which swept over the surface of society for two or three centuries, until it lost itself in the pale inanities and vapid phrases of the précieuses.[Pg 315] We find it difficult now to conceive of a company of grave dignitaries old and young, statesmen, wits, men of letters, and clever women, chasing theories of love through an infinity of shades and gradations, as seriously as we talk of trusts, strikes, education, and the best means of making everybody happy. The subject had a perennial interest for them. They considered it mathematically as to quantity, spiritually as to quality. They quoted Plato on love and divine beauty, but no one would have been more surprised at the application than the philosopher himself. They proposed to do away with all the chagrins and disenchantments of love, by making it altogether a dream, beautiful, no doubt, but shadowy. As a last refuge, they put terrestrial love into celestial robes and drowned themselves in illusions. Bembo wished to serve Isabella d’Este “as if she were Pope,” but he sends her quite tenderly the kiss of his soul, which she, no doubt, took gracefully and at its value. She was not a sentimental woman; a clear, vigorous intellect is a very good antidote against false sensibility. But these other vigorous intellects were so busy weaving the tissue of their dreams that they did not trouble themselves much about possible applications.

It was these discussions that sparked the wave of Platonism that spread through society for two or three centuries until it got lost in the empty clichés and dull expressions of the précieuses.[Pg 315] It's hard for us today to imagine a group of serious dignitaries, both young and old—politicians, intellectuals, writers, and smart women—chasing theories of love through countless nuances and shades, as earnestly as we talk about trusts, labor strikes, education, and the best ways to ensure everyone's happiness. The topic held lasting interest for them. They examined it mathematically in terms of quantity and spiritually in terms of quality. They quoted Plato on love and divine beauty, but no one would have been more surprised at the usage than the philosopher himself. They aimed to eliminate all the sorrows and disappointments of love by making it entirely a dream—beautiful, undoubtedly, but vague. As a last resort, they draped earthly love in celestial robes and drowned themselves in illusions. Bembo wanted to serve Isabella d’Este "as if she were Pope," but he gently sent her the kiss of his soul, which she likely received graciously and at face value. She was not a sentimental woman; a sharp, strong intellect is a great antidote to false sentimentality. However, these other strong minds were so busy weaving the fabric of their dreams that they hardly concerned themselves with practical applications.

This Platonic mania, which ran through Italian society, and, if it did nothing else, tempered its grossness and spiritualized its ideals, did not originate[Pg 316] at Urbino, though it probably blossomed into a fashion there. Petrarch found the germ in Plato, but he developed it into fruit of quite another color, and furnished the poets after him with a new background for their fantasy-flowers. The magnificent Lorenzo, poet, ruler, patron of letters, Platonist, and buffoon, went into poetic raptures at the sight of the beautiful face of “la belle Simonetta” as she lay white and cold on the bier that passed him in the street. He dreamed of it, apostrophized it, grew melancholy over it, until he found a living face almost as lovely about which to drape the pearls of his poetic fancy. He wrote sonnets à la Petrarch, without the genuine ring of Petrarch. It was all moonlight, the pale copy of a paler emotion. But he did not in the least lose control of what he called his heart, as he dutifully married the woman his clear-headed mother chose for him; she was not at all a figure of romance and, it is to be hoped, had small knowledge of the vagaries of her theoretically Platonic husband. In any case, it was the destiny of her sex to submit to the inevitable.

This Platonic obsession, which swept through Italian society, and even if it did nothing else, softened its coarseness and elevated its ideals, didn’t start at Urbino, though it likely became a trend there. Petrarch discovered the seed in Plato, but he transformed it into something entirely different, providing poets after him with a new backdrop for their imaginative creations. The magnificent Lorenzo, poet, ruler, supporter of literature, Platonist, and jokester, was entranced by the beautiful face of “la belle Simonetta” as she lay pale and still on the bier that passed him in the street. He fantasized about it, addressed it, became wistful over it, until he found a living face almost as beautiful to drape the jewels of his poetic imagination upon. He wrote sonnets in the style of Petrarch, but lacking the authentic feel of Petrarch's work. It was all moonlight, a faint imitation of a fainter emotion. However, he never lost control of what he called his heart, as he dutifully married the woman his practical mother picked out for him; she was no figure of romance and, one hopes, was largely unaware of the whims of her theoretically Platonic husband. In any case, it was the fate of her gender to accept the inevitable.

But the dreams of the poets naturally found an echo in the hearts of lonely women and artless maidens. When marriage was a matter of bargain and sale, a union of fortune and interest in which love played no part, sensibility was a subtle factor difficult to reckon with. A man had legally, as well as morally, supreme control over his wife. He might[Pg 317] happen to love her and be kind to her, but if he chose to neglect her or beat her, there was no one to find fault with him. This “divine right” of man was the foundation-stone of society, and it was no more possible to question it than it was to question the divine right of popes and kings. Princesses were privileged beings who were both useful and ornamental, but this did not save them from being ill-treated to the last degree. No one thought of interfering when one of the later Medici, angry at his sister, sent for her husband and, after telling him that her frivolous conduct reflected on the decorum of his very disreputable court, bade him remember that he was a Christian and a gentleman, placed a villa at his disposal, and the hapless but too gay Isabella, who went there with suspicious reluctance, suddenly died of a convenient apoplexy, and appeared no more on this earthly scene to be a thorn in the side of her brother’s favorite, the very beautiful but too aspiring Bianca Capello. His sister-in-law, a much-wronged Spanish princess, was invited to a gloomy old castle among the hills at the same time, and disposed of in a similar way, by her amiable husband, who asked forty thousand ducats for the deed, and expiated it at once by a prayer to the Virgin, and a vow which he forgot.

But the dreams of poets naturally resonated with the hearts of lonely women and naive young girls. When marriage was more like a business deal than a loving partnership, where love didn’t factor in, emotional sensitivity became a tricky aspect to handle. Legally and morally, a man had complete control over his wife. He could love her and treat her well, but if he decided to ignore her or abuse her, there was no one to call him out on it. This “divine right” of men was the foundation of society, and questioning it was as unthinkable as questioning the divine rights of popes and kings. Princesses were privileged figures who served both practical and decorative purposes, but that didn’t protect them from severe mistreatment. No one intervened when one of the later Medici, upset with his sister, called for her husband and, after telling him that her reckless behavior tarnished the reputation of his very scandalous court, reminded him that he was a Christian and a gentleman, provided him with a villa, and the unfortunate but overly lively Isabella, who went there with evident hesitation, suddenly died of a conveniently timed stroke, disappearing from the earthly scene and becoming no longer a burden to her brother’s favorite, the incredibly beautiful but overly ambitious Bianca Capello. His sister-in-law, a deeply wronged Spanish princess, was taken to a gloomy old castle in the hills at the same time and met a similar fate at the hands of her charming husband, who asked for forty thousand ducats for the deed and immediately atoned for it with a prayer to the Virgin and a vow he would forget.

With all these tragic possibilities, it was out of the question to secure a divorce for any incompatibility[Pg 318] of temper, small or great, unless his Holiness saw that it would serve some interest or caprice of his own, and incidentally add to the glory of the church. But pent-up emotions are apt to be troublesome, and it is hardly strange that these women, with an abyss on one side and a vacuum on the other, sought a way of reconciling matters that infringed visibly on no man’s rights. They adopted the fashion of supplementing a terrestrial love that was not very comfortable with a celestial one which, if rather attenuated, seemed quite innocent and harmless, and gave them something pleasant to think about. These airy and Platonic sentiments had a much more substantial character among men and women who lived at a high mental altitude. It is to live confessedly on a very low plane to deny that there is a tie of the intellect which tends only to fine issues, and is a source of light and inspiration. But this implies first of all an intellect of distinct range, and a clear moral sense, that are not always forthcoming. The friendship between Michelangelo and Vittoria Colonna was a sympathy between two exalted souls who dwelt habitually on the heights, far above the mists of sense and the banalities of lesser minds. “Friendship is not a sentiment without fire,” wrote the cold and skeptical Buffon to Mme. Necker, nearly four centuries later; “it is rather a warming of the soul, an emotion, a movement sweeter than that of any other[Pg 319] passion, and also quite as strong.” But this passion of friendship can exist in its perfection only between those in whom sensibility lights the intellect without submerging it; on a lower plane it has its dangers.

With all these unfortunate possibilities, getting a divorce for any incompatibility of temperament, whether minor or major, was completely out of the question unless his Holiness believed it would advance some personal interest or whim of his own and also enhance the glory of the church. However, repressed emotions can be problematic, and it's not surprising that these women, caught between a deep void on one side and emptiness on the other, looked for a way to resolve their issues that didn’t visibly infringe on anyone’s rights. They took to blending an earthly love that was rather uncomfortable with a celestial one that, while somewhat diluted, seemed completely innocent and harmless, giving them something pleasant to focus on. These lofty and Platonic feelings took on a much more tangible form among men and women who existed at a high intellectual level. It’s quite narrow-minded to deny that there exists a connection of the intellect that leads only to refined outcomes and serves as a source of light and creativity. But this requires, first and foremost, a clear intellect and a strong moral sense, which aren't always present. The friendship between Michelangelo and Vittoria Colonna was a bond between two elevated spirits who consistently dwelled above the fog of basic desires and the trivialities of lesser minds. “Friendship is not a sentiment without fire,” wrote the cold and skeptical Buffon to Mme. Necker nearly four centuries later; “it is rather a warming of the soul, an emotion, a movement sweeter than that of any other passion, and also just as strong.” But this passionate friendship can only exist in its ideal form between those whose sensitivity illuminates the intellect without drowning it; on a lower level, it carries its risks.

In the days of the précieuses, the apostles of Platonic love cut the cord that bound them to reality, and floated away on a cloud of pure emotionalism. Merged in affectations, it finally evaporated in phrases on the lips of sighing youths and romantic maidens. In the Anglo-Saxon world it never had a very strong foothold. The race is not sufficiently imaginative.

In the era of the précieuses, the followers of Platonic love detached themselves from reality and drifted off into a realm of pure emotions. Lost in their pretentiousness, it ultimately vanished in the words spoken by lovesick young men and romantic young women. In the Anglo-Saxon world, it never took root very firmly. The culture is not imaginative enough.

There is no doubt that there has been a great deal of senseless talk about Platonic love, and that it drew after it much that was far from Platonic. We all know that one of the most conspicuous daughters of devotion is hypocrisy, but who can hold religion responsible because its garb is put on to disguise sin? The trouble is that the finest spirits are apt to be measured by the standards of the lowest. It is not easy to convince people of material ideals that all things are not to be brought to their level. But this curious agitation had its place and did its work. We may smile at the finely drawn sophistries of a Bembo, who pointed to an ideal he sometimes failed to reach. It is easy enough for cynics to say that Beatrice, the apotheosis of spiritual love, died early, and was worshiped, not as[Pg 320] a woman, but as a star shining from inaccessible heights; that Laura, the ideal of the high priest of Platonism, was simply a dream, intangible as the moonlight and cold as the everlasting snows; that it is not good for every-day men and women to see such visions, even if it were possible, nor to dream such dreams, nor to live at such an altitude—all of which no doubt has its side of truth. But the fact remains that it was largely through the inspired vision, which looked past the entanglements of sense into the pure heart and transparent soul of an idealized womanhood, that the long-enduring sex came into its intellectual kingdom. To the old ties of interest, passion, and habit, were added those of the intellect and spirit. In this new contact of intelligences society had its birth, women took their rightful places, and the world found a new regenerating force.

There’s no doubt that there’s been a lot of pointless chatter about Platonic love, and that it led to many things that were anything but Platonic. We all know that one of the most obvious outcomes of devotion is hypocrisy, but who can blame religion for being used as a disguise for sin? The problem is that the best minds often get judged by the standards of the worst. It’s not easy to convince people with material ideals that not everything should be brought down to their level. But this interesting agitation had its place and served its purpose. We can chuckle at the overly complicated arguments of a Bembo, who pointed to an ideal he sometimes struggled to reach. It’s easy for cynics to say that Beatrice, the embodiment of spiritual love, died young and was revered not as a woman, but as a star shining from unreachable heights; that Laura, the ideal of the high priest of Platonism, was merely a dream, as intangible as moonlight and as cold as everlasting snow; that it’s not good for everyday people to see such visions, even if it were possible, nor to dream such dreams, nor to live at such a high level—all of which certainly has some truth to it. But the fact remains that it was mainly through the inspired vision that looked beyond the entanglements of physical desires into the pure heart and clear soul of an idealized womanhood that women gained their intellectual power. The old ties of interest, passion, and habit were joined by those of intellect and spirit. Through this new connection of minds, society was born, women took their rightful places, and the world discovered a new force for regeneration.

IV

The life at Urbino, with its literary flavor, its refined manners, its serious conversations, and its Platonic dreams, took another tone at Ferrara. This court was gayer, but hardly less noted as a center of culture. No one chronicled its conversations, but the fame of its poets illuminated it. Boiardo lived and wrote and administered affairs in the magnificent old castle whose four towers frown to-day in lonely grandeur over the silent and grass-grown streets of[Pg 321] the once lively city; Ariosto immortalized the women “as fair as good, and as learned as they were fair,” who gathered artists, men of letters, statesmen, cardinals, and philosophers within its tapestried walls; and the genius of Tasso still sheds over it a melancholy splendor strangely contrasting with the tragedy that left so dark a cloud on the last days of its glory.

Life in Urbino, with its literary vibe, its refined manners, serious discussions, and idealistic dreams, felt different in Ferrara. This court was livelier but still recognized as a cultural hub. No one recorded its conversations, but the fame of its poets brought it to life. Boiardo lived, wrote, and managed affairs in the impressive old castle whose four towers today loom in solitary grandeur over the silent and overgrown streets of[Pg 321] the once-bustling city; Ariosto immortalized the women “as beautiful as they were virtuous, and as educated as they were beautiful,” who brought together artists, writers, politicians, cardinals, and philosophers within its tapestry-adorned walls; and the genius of Tasso still casts a melancholy beauty over it, creating a striking contrast with the tragedy that darkened the final days of its glory.

The Duke Hercules I did a wise thing for the brilliancy of his reign when he chose for his wife the learned and accomplished Leonora of Aragon, who had grown up in the intellectual atmosphere of her royal father’s court at Naples. She was a versatile princess, a lover of art, a patron of letters, and an able, efficient woman, who gave equal care to the fostering of talent and the practical interests of her people. The art of gold and silver metal work, on which she was an authority, reached great perfection under her patronage, and she gave her personal supervision to the skilled embroiderers whom she brought from elsewhere to stimulate the native artists. When her husband was absent he left the government in her charge. Nothing shows more clearly the masterful ability of these Italian princesses than the wisdom and facility with which they managed public affairs, and the confidence reposed in them. In this model republic of the twentieth century, who would think of intrusting matters of State to the wife of president or governor[Pg 322] in any emergency whatever? Let us admit that women are not trained here for such responsibilities, even if they cared to assume them; but why treat us to a homily on their natural incapacity for affairs of State, in the face of innumerable examples in the past that prove the contrary?

The Duke Hercules I made a smart choice for the glory of his reign when he married the intelligent and accomplished Leonora of Aragon, who was raised in the cultured environment of her royal father's court in Naples. She was a multifaceted princess, passionate about art, a supporter of literature, and a capable, efficient woman who equally prioritized nurturing talent and the practical needs of her people. The craft of gold and silver metalwork, in which she was an expert, reached new heights under her support, and she personally oversaw the skilled embroiderers she brought from elsewhere to inspire local artists. When her husband was away, he entrusted the government to her. Nothing illustrates more clearly the strong capabilities of these Italian princesses than the wisdom and ease with which they handled public affairs and the trust placed in them. In this model republic of the twentieth century, who would consider handing over State matters to the wife of a president or governor in any emergency? Let's acknowledge that women aren't prepared for such responsibilities here, even if they wanted to take them on; but why should we hear lectures on their supposed natural inability to handle State affairs when countless historical examples prove otherwise?[Pg 322]

And these women lost neither their charm nor their essentially feminine qualities. Certainly there was no wiser mother than this same Duchess Leonora. Her daughters had the best of masters, and were versed in all the knowledge of the day, as well as in the lighter accomplishments. They were schooled also in the duties of their high position, and were never permitted to neglect their serious studies for amusement. While they were busy with their tapestries some man of letters recited or read to them. Perhaps it was Boiardo, perhaps another of the literary stars of the court. The untiring mother had her reward in the fame and virtuous character of these children. One of them, the beautiful and gifted Isabella d’Este, had a brilliant career as the Marchioness of Mantua, and her scarcely less fascinating sister Beatrice carried the tastes of her own youth to the more splendid but corrupt court of the Sforzas at Milan.

And these women didn't lose their charm or their inherently feminine qualities. Undoubtedly, there was no wiser mother than Duchess Leonora. Her daughters had the best teachers and were knowledgeable in all the relevant subjects of their time, as well as in more lighthearted skills. They were also trained in the responsibilities of their elevated status and were never allowed to neglect their serious studies for entertainment. While they worked on their tapestries, some scholar would recite or read to them. It could have been Boiardo, or perhaps another literary figure from the court. The tireless mother found reward in the fame and virtuous character of her children. One of them, the beautiful and talented Isabella d’Este, had a remarkable career as the Marchioness of Mantua, and her equally captivating sister Beatrice brought her youthful tastes to the more glamorous but corrupt court of the Sforzas in Milan.

The enlightened duchess, who seems to have been as kind as she was capable, did not escape calumny, as few did in that age of license; but she has a blessed immortality in the glowing lines of[Pg 323] Ariosto, who paid an eloquent tribute to her talents and virtues at her death. The court of Ferrara never lost the lettered tone which she gave it, though its fashions of living and thinking changed from time to time.

The enlightened duchess, known for her kindness and capability, didn’t avoid slander, as few did during that unruly time; however, she has a lasting legacy in the beautiful lines of[Pg 323] Ariosto, who gave a heartfelt tribute to her talents and virtues at her passing. The court of Ferrara never lost the cultured atmosphere she established, even as its lifestyles and ideas evolved over time.

One cannot quote her son’s wife, the fair-haired Lucrezia Borgia, as a model princess, though in later years she partly redeemed the faults of her past by her kindness to the poor, her intelligent patronage of art and letters, and her devotion as wife and mother. It is not likely that she was as black as she has been painted, or, as has been suggested by later historians, Ariosto, with all his courtier love for paying pretty compliments to women, especially princesses, would hardly have dared to put her on a level with the Roman Lucretia in “charms and chastity,” in a country where satire was merciless and scandal many-tongued. In her tragical youth she was possibly more sinned against than sinning. With a father who was the embodiment of all the vices, and brothers as powerful as they were infamous, one can readily imagine that she had little choice in her manner of life. It was quite in the interest of this terrible trio that her three husbands were disposed of in one way or another, and it was equally in their interest that the widowed Duke Alfonso was virtually forced to marry her, though evidently against his inclination. The wishes of a Holy Father[Pg 324] with unlimited power were compelling. And so it happened that this beautiful, clever, and much-talked-of woman went to Ferrara with a flourish of trumpets, as became a pope’s daughter. She was only twenty-five, though she had seen tragedies enough to color a lifetime. On her way she visited Urbino with her two thousand attendants,—princesses were costly guests in those days,—and the good Duchess Elisabetta, by command of this wicked and grasping Holy Father, who had designs on her own domains that might be furthered by her absence, went with the much heralded bride to take part in the magnificent wedding festivities. There was little in the entry of this brilliant but very much clouded Lucrezia on her white jennet, resplendent in satin and gold and flashing jewels, to suggest the beauty and desirableness of “plain living and high thinking.” To be sure, she had university dons to support her canopy, and all the learning of Ferrara in her train; but it was a fashion of these princesses to honor scholars. Then there were comedies of Plautus to give the occasion a classic flavor, besides music, dancing, medieval combats, Moorish interludes, and more barbaric amusements for the multitude. The splendors of dress, the wealth of velvets, brocades, gold, and gems, were all duly chronicled by the society reporter of the time, and the descriptions of modern court balls seem modest and tame in comparison.[Pg 325] The good Duchess Leonora had been sleeping in her tomb with the other princesses many a year, duly labeled by Ariosto. But the pure-souled Isabella d’Este was there with a new and regal costume for every scene, and no doubt various misgivings about her imposing sister-in-law which she thought best to say nothing about.

One can't really view her son’s wife, the fair-haired Lucrezia Borgia, as a model princess, although in later years she somewhat made up for her past mistakes with her kindness to the less fortunate, her smart support of art and literature, and her dedication as a wife and mother. It’s unlikely she was as bad as people say; as later historians have suggested, Ariosto, with his courtly appreciation for flattering women, especially princesses, wouldn’t have dared to compare her to the Roman Lucretia in “charms and chastity” in a place where satire was unforgiving and gossip was rampant. During her tragic youth, she was probably more wronged than wronging. With a father who embodied all the vices, and brothers who were as powerful as they were notorious, one can easily imagine she had little control over her life choices. It was definitely in the interest of this dreadful trio that her three husbands were dealt with in one way or another, and they also pushed the widowed Duke Alfonso to marry her, even though he clearly didn’t want to. The desires of a Holy Father[Pg 324] with immense power were hard to resist. So, this beautiful, intelligent, and much-discussed woman arrived in Ferrara with a grand spectacle, fitting for a pope’s daughter. She was only twenty-five, yet she had experienced enough tragedies to fill a lifetime. On her way, she stopped in Urbino with her two thousand attendants—princesses were expensive guests back then—and the good Duchess Elisabetta, under the orders of this wicked and greedy Holy Father, who had his own ambitions for her lands that would benefit from her absence, accompanied the well-publicized bride to participate in the lavish wedding festivities. There was little in this grand entry of the surprisingly troubled Lucrezia on her white horse, adorned in satin and gold and sparkling jewels, to suggest the appeal of “plain living and high thinking.” Of course, she had university professors to hold her canopy and all the intellect of Ferrara accompanying her; the fashion among these princesses was to honor scholars. There were also comedies by Plautus to lend a classic touch to the event, along with music, dancing, medieval battles, Moorish performances, and more crude entertainment for the masses. The extravagance of her clothing, the wealth of velvets, brocades, gold, and gems were all meticulously recorded by the society reporter of the time, and descriptions of modern court balls seem modest and tame in comparison.[Pg 325] The good Duchess Leonora had been resting in her tomb with other princesses for many years, as noted by Ariosto. But the pure-hearted Isabella d’Este was there with a new and regal outfit for every scene, undoubtedly filled with various concerns about her impressive sister-in-law, which she wisely chose to keep to herself.

This dangerous Lucrezia, however, had her serious moments. After the pageants were over, she took out of her traveling-case the Dante and Petrarch she had brought for her daily reading, also some histories, with her manual of devotion. She had, too, her literary circle of poets, savants, men of letters, prelates, cardinals, and clever women who spoke in Latin and wrote Greek quite naturally and as a matter of course. They talked of manners, art, and philosophy, as at Urbino, but perhaps not quite so seriously; they talked also of love, spiritual and otherwise. The inevitable Bembo was there for a time, and afterward wrote Platonic letters about literature to the friend of his soul, which she answered with insight and discrimination as well as matronly discretion. These letters were preserved, with a lock of her golden hair.

This dangerous Lucrezia, however, had her serious moments. After the events were over, she took out of her suitcase the Dante and Petrarch she had brought for her daily reading, along with some histories and her book of devotion. She also had her literary group of poets, scholars, writers, prelates, cardinals, and sharp-witted women who spoke Latin and wrote Greek effortlessly and as a matter of course. They discussed manners, art, and philosophy, like in Urbino, but maybe not quite as seriously; they also talked about love, both spiritual and otherwise. The inevitable Bembo was there for a while and later wrote Platonic letters about literature to his dear friend, which she replied to with insight and discernment as well as matronly propriety. These letters were kept, along with a lock of her golden hair.

There is little trace of the early Lucrezia in her later years. No more worldly vanities. She prayed a great deal, and spent her evenings in working beautiful designs in embroidery with the ladies of her court. “Her husband and his subjects all loved[Pg 326] her for her gracious manners and her piety,” we are told. She was not old when she died,—two or three years past forty,—leaving an inconsolable husband and several children. In a letter of condolence the Doge of Venice gives great praise to her devotion and her fine qualities of character. The most distinguished prelates of the day pay a tribute to her many virtues. The experiences of her life, which were dark enough at its beginning and too surely not blameless, are wrapped in a mystery so deep that we cannot fairly judge them to-day.

There is little evidence of the early Lucrezia in her later years. No more worldly vanities. She prayed a lot and spent her evenings creating beautiful embroidery designs with the ladies of her court. “Her husband and his subjects all loved[Pg 326] her for her gracious manners and her piety,” we are told. She wasn’t old when she died—just two or three years past forty—leaving behind a grieving husband and several children. In a letter of condolence, the Doge of Venice praises her dedication and her wonderful qualities. The most distinguished prelates of the time pay tribute to her many virtues. The experiences of her life, which were quite dark at the beginning and definitely not without fault, are shrouded in such deep mystery that we cannot fairly judge them today.

If the court of Ferrara was gay, literary, artistic, with more or less of a dilettante tone under Lucrezia, it took quite another color in the reign of her daughter-in-law, the serious and thoughtful Renée. This princess had more solid qualities of intellect, but less beauty and less charm. “She was good and clever, with a mind the best and most acute possible,” says Brantôme. Her father was Louis XII, and her mother Anne of Bretagne, whose talent and independent spirit she inherited. She had Protestant tendencies, and brought strange guests to these stately halls and haunts of poets. Calvin was among them. He was young then, and came under the name of Charles d’Espeville—which was much safer for an arch-heretic. With him came Clément Marot, a poet and a heretic of milder type, who shone brilliantly at the court of the clever Marguerite of Navarre. The stern moralist and[Pg 327] ascetic reformer was no friend to women, except as convenient appendages, and these were apt to be troublesome unless kept in their lowly place. He looked upon their government as “a deviation from the original and proper order of nature, to be ranked no less than slavery among the punishments consequent upon the fall of man.” In this case he evidently found the punishment rather pleasant, as he stayed many months in a court where the power of women was very much en évidence, though it fell under an eclipse because of him. Perhaps he modified his opinions for the moment in so stimulating an atmosphere. While he never fails to denounce the “inferior sex” in plain terms, he is kind enough to make discreet exceptions as to women in high places, who were not made of common clay. It was certainly inconvenient for the duke to have a wife with convictions, who persisted in compromising him with the higher powers; but what would have become of the superior Calvin, with the door closed upon him and the Inquisition on his track, if this incapable being had been superintending the cook and the maids or working patterns in embroidery, as she plainly ought to have been, instead of courageously and with clear foresight despatching some trustworthy friends to liberate the reverend suspect from his dangerous and uncomfortable surveillance, and send him on his way to a freer air?

If the Ferrara court was vibrant, artistic, and somewhat amateurish under Lucrezia’s influence, it took on a different tone during the reign of her daughter-in-law, the serious and thoughtful Renée. This princess had more substantial intellectual qualities, though she lacked in beauty and charm. “She was good and smart, with an exceptionally sharp mind,” says Brantôme. Her father was Louis XII, and her mother was Anne of Bretagne, whose talent and independent spirit she inherited. She had Protestant beliefs and invited unusual guests to these grand halls and the favored spots of poets. Calvin was one of them. He was young at the time and came under the name Charles d’Espeville—much safer for an arch-heretic. Along with him came Clément Marot, a poet and a milder heretic, who brilliantly graced the court of the intelligent Marguerite of Navarre. The stern moralist and ascetic reformer wasn't a friend to women, viewing them mainly as convenient accessories, often troublesome unless kept in their lower roles. He considered their governance a “deviation from the original and proper order of nature, ranking it alongside slavery as one of the punishments that followed humanity's fall.” In this case, he seemed to find the punishment rather enjoyable, as he lingered for months in a court where the power of women was very much on display, though it dimmed somewhat because of him. Perhaps he adjusted his views for a moment in such an inspiring environment. While he consistently condemned the “inferior sex” in plain terms, he was generous enough to make discreet exceptions for women in high positions, who didn’t fit the usual mold. It was certainly inconvenient for the duke to have a wife with strong convictions, who continued to compromise him with the upper authorities; but what would have happened to the superior Calvin, with the door shut on him and the Inquisition on his trail, if this seemingly inept individual had been busy overseeing the cook and maids or working on embroidery patterns, as she clearly should have been, rather than bravely and wisely sending trustworthy friends to free the revered suspect from his dangerous and uncomfortable watch, allowing him to escape to a place with more freedom?

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There was much talk on free will and election, as well as of sinners in power, and the need of grace and reformation, when Vittoria Colonna came, a little later, to enjoy the liberty of thought and literary discussion for which this court was famous, also to forward the interest of her friend, the eloquent Fra Bernardino, who wished to found here a Capuchin convent. It was quite safe to sit on the grass or in the gardens during the long summer evenings, listening to a Greek play, and talking about the respective merits of Homer and Petrarch, who had been dead a long time, or the genius of Ariosto, who had just closed his eyes after charming his age and saying so many agreeable things about its women. But it was not so safe to reflect on wicked popes, or call in question whatever dogma they might choose to present to a credulous world. The Duchess Renée was made sadly conscious of this fact, as was her gifted protégée, Olympia Morata. Her mind had a mystical quality, and the germs of a more spiritual faith had taken root there. But her amiable husband applied the screw as he was told. To have one’s children taken away and to be confined in a remote corner of one’s castle was too much to bear, and a suspiciously sudden conversion under good orthodox ministrations was the result, with convenient mental reservations to serve until the duke died and the lady was safely back in France with her royal kin[Pg 329] and the protecting sympathy of her heretical friend, the gifted and powerful Marguerite of many-sided fame.

There was a lot of discussion about free will and elections, as well as about sinners in power, and the need for grace and reform when Vittoria Colonna arrived a little later to enjoy the freedom of thought and literary discussions that this court was known for. She also aimed to support her friend, the eloquent Fra Bernardino, who wanted to establish a Capuchin convent here. It was perfectly safe to sit on the grass or in the gardens during the long summer evenings, listening to a Greek play and debating the merits of Homer and Petrarch, who had been dead for a long time, or the brilliance of Ariosto, who had just passed away after delighting his generation and saying so many charming things about its women. However, it was much less safe to think about corrupt popes or question any dogma they decided to present to a gullible world. Duchess Renée became painfully aware of this reality, as did her talented protégé, Olympia Morata. Olympia had a mystical quality to her mind, and the seeds of a more spiritual faith had begun to grow there. But her well-meaning husband pressured her as directed. To have her children taken away and to be confined to a remote part of her castle was unbearable, resulting in a suspiciously quick conversion under proper orthodox teachings, with convenient mental reservations to hold her over until the duke died and she could safely return to France with her royal family and the protective support of her heretical friend, the talented and influential Marguerite of many talents.[Pg 329]

But in the meantime the literary talks went on, led by her brilliant daughters, who contented themselves with topics that were less explosive. Tasso said that Lucrezia and Leonora d’Este were “so well versed in affairs of State and literature that no one could listen to their conversation without amazement.” Here, as elsewhere, they talked a great deal about matters of sentiment. Tasso held a controversy at the academy on “Fifty Points of Love.” One of them was a question whether men or women love the more constantly and intensely. Orsini Cavaletti, a lady of distinction in literature and philosophy, claimed the palm for her own sex, and came off with equal if not superior honors before a learned and brilliant audience. What the other points were I do not know. The amount of energy expended on such trivial themes was curiously illustrated a few years before by Isotta Nogarola, a lady of Verona, who discussed with learned men the question as to whether Adam or Eve was the more guilty, and wrote a defense of Eve which must have created more than a ripple of interest, as it was printed a century afterward. This champion of justice was not a reformer nor an emancipée, but a woman of rank and a friend of popes, who had the courage to come to the rescue[Pg 330] of her sex from the denunciations of ages. Doubtless the discussion was largely a play of wit and an exercise in analysis that applied itself to small things, since it was not safe to attack great ones.

But in the meantime, the literary discussions continued, led by her brilliant daughters, who focused on less controversial topics. Tasso remarked that Lucrezia and Leonora d’Este were “so knowledgeable about state affairs and literature that no one could eavesdrop on their conversations without being amazed.” Here, as elsewhere, they talked a lot about matters of emotion. Tasso engaged in a debate at the academy on “Fifty Points of Love.” One of the questions was whether men or women love more consistently and intensely. Orsini Cavaletti, a distinguished lady in literature and philosophy, claimed the credit for her own gender and emerged with equal, if not greater, recognition before an educated and brilliant audience. I don't know what the other points were. The amount of energy spent on such trivial themes was interestingly highlighted a few years earlier by Isotta Nogarola, a lady from Verona, who debated with learned men about whether Adam or Eve was more guilty and wrote a defense of Eve that must have stirred considerable interest, as it was printed a century later. This champion of justice wasn’t a reformer or an emancipée, but a woman of rank and a friend of popes, who had the courage to defend her sex against the criticisms of ages. Without a doubt, the discussion was largely a display of wit and an exercise in analysis that focused on small matters, since it wasn’t safe to challenge major ones.

But our unfortunate poet did not confine himself to theory, and love proved a more disastrous subject for him than did religion for some of his friends. It was to this same brilliant Leonora, whom he lauded to the skies, that Tasso dared lift his eyes in too familiar or ambitious a fashion before he was shut out of the world seven years as a madman. Whatever the facts of this tragical romance may have been, we know that the lady died at forty-five, in the odor of sanctity and unmarried, while her gayer but equally clever sister became the wife of the last Duke of Urbino, whom she found so dull and tiresome that she returned after three years to her brother’s court, where the livelier tastes were more to her liking. But its glories had already paled and its stars had mostly set. Tasso was the last.

But our unfortunate poet didn’t just stick to theory, and love turned out to be a more disastrous topic for him than religion was for some of his friends. It was to the same brilliant Leonora, whom he praised endlessly, that Tasso dared to lift his gaze in a way that was too familiar or ambitious before he was shut out from the world for seven years as a madman. No matter what the truth of this tragic romance was, we know that the lady died at forty-five, widely regarded as virtuous and unmarried, while her more lively but equally smart sister married the last Duke of Urbino, whom she found so dull and boring that she returned to her brother’s court after three years, where the livelier atmosphere suited her better. But the court’s glories had already faded, and its stars had mostly disappeared. Tasso was the last.

The traveler of to-day looks with curious eye on the faded splendors of the grim old castle, and speculates idly upon the tragedies that have been acted within its silent walls. But he goes away to the poor little cell at the hospital of St. Anna and drops a tear over the fate of the poet who ate his heart out there. Time brings strange reparations, but they are always too late.

The traveler today looks with curiosity at the faded grandeur of the grim old castle and idly wonders about the tragedies that took place within its silent walls. But he leaves for the small room at the hospital of St. Anna and sheds a tear for the poet who suffered there. Time brings odd reconciliations, but they're always too late.

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V

In the days when they were talking of men, women, and manners at Urbino, and the brilliant Bembo was writing high-flown letters about literature and celestial love to Lucrezia Borgia, or discoursing upon the same themes, in the intervals of many graver ones, at Ferrara, and Alexander VI was making the society of Rome as wicked as he knew how, which was very wicked indeed, Isabella d’Este, wife of the Marquis of Mantua, was the central figure of one of the most charming and intellectual courts in Italy. This “noble-minded Isabel,” of whom Ariosto says,

In the days when people were discussing men, women, and social customs in Urbino, and the brilliant Bembo was penning lofty letters about literature and heavenly love to Lucrezia Borgia, or chatting about similar topics amid serious discussions in Ferrara, while Alexander VI was making Roman society as corrupt as possible—which was quite corrupt indeed—Isabella d’Este, the wife of the Marquis of Mantua, stood as the central figure of one of the most delightful and intellectual courts in Italy. This "noble-minded Isabel," as Ariosto describes her,

I know not well if she more fair
May be entitled, or more chaste and sage,

I don't really know if she's more beautiful
and deserving, or more pure and wise,

carried with her to the banks of the Mincio, already made classic as the birthplace of Vergil, the literary tastes which had been nurtured in the scholarly air of Ferrara. We have seen her developing as a child under the care of the wise Leonora. At six she astonished the envoy sent to arrange her betrothal, by her precocious intelligence, engaging conversation, and graceful manners. It was a kindly fate that led her to the court of the Gonzagas, which was famous for the learning and culture of its women.

carried with her to the banks of the Mincio, already known as the birthplace of Vergil, the literary interests that had been nurtured in the scholarly atmosphere of Ferrara. We have seen her growing up as a child under the guidance of the wise Leonora. At six, she surprised the envoy sent to arrange her engagement with her advanced intelligence, engaging conversation, and graceful demeanor. It was a fortunate destiny that brought her to the court of the Gonzagas, renowned for the knowledge and culture of its women.

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Of all the princesses who shed such luster on this period she had, perhaps, the most personal distinction. To the wisdom and force of her mother she added more esprit and a warmer temperament. In tact, dignity, learning, and the virtues of a well-poised character, she did not surpass her husband’s sister, the much-loved Duchess Elisabetta of Urbino, but she seems to have had more native brilliancy of intellect. Living from 1474 to 1525, she was brought into familiar contact with the most famous men and women of the golden age of the Renaissance, and played an important part in many of its stormy crises, but, under all conditions, one is impressed with her strong individuality, her versatility, her intrepid spirit, and her unfailing charm. She combined the tenderness of a woman with the mental vigor of a man. Fair, witty, gracious, and a noted beauty, she was equally at home discussing art and literature with the masters, and grave political problems with popes and kings, arranging fêtes, ordering a picture, selecting a brocade, or playing with a child.

Of all the princesses who illuminated this era, she probably had the most unique qualities. Along with her mother's wisdom and strength, she brought more spirit and warmth. While she may not have surpassed her husband’s sister, the beloved Duchess Elisabetta of Urbino, in grace, dignity, education, or the qualities of a well-balanced character, she appeared to possess a more naturally brilliant mind. Living from 1474 to 1525, she interacted closely with the most renowned figures of the Renaissance's golden age and played a significant role in many of its tumultuous events. Yet, regardless of the circumstances, her strong individuality, adaptability, fearless nature, and consistent charm stood out. She combined the tenderness of a woman with the mental sharpness of a man. Beautiful, witty, gracious, and recognized for her looks, she was just as comfortable discussing art and literature with masters as she was tackling serious political issues with popes and kings, organizing celebrations, commissioning art, choosing fabrics, or playing with a child.

The old and imposing palace of Mantua to this day shows traces of the taste and generosity of its most distinguished mistress. She filled it with rare books, exquisite tapestries, and curios of all sorts, chosen with the discrimination of a connoisseur. Its walls were decorated with the masterpieces of Correggio, Mantegna, Perugino, and other great artists whom[Pg 333] she was proud to call her friends. Chief among those in whose conversation she delighted were Titian and Leonardo da Vinci, who immortalized her. A living portrait by the latter is still one of the treasures of the Louvre. Her keen critical taste was quick to divine intrinsic values, and she was always on the alert for fresh talent to add to the glories of her little court. It was not rich, and we find her troubled at the prospect of entertaining her sister’s magnificent husband, Lodovico Sforza, who proposed to visit her with a retinue of a thousand or so. But her money went freely for everything pertaining to matters of intellect and taste. She sent her agents in all directions, even to the far East, and a new-found statue, a rare bit of tapestry, or a precious mosaic was an event of joy. Her own teeming imagination was full of pictures, and she liked to suggest themes to artists, which were not always easy to put into living form. But her sympathetic and intelligent enthusiasm was in itself an inspiration.

The grand and impressive palace of Mantua still showcases the taste and generosity of its most distinguished mistress. She filled it with rare books, beautiful tapestries, and all kinds of curiosities, selected with the eye of a true connoisseur. Its walls were adorned with masterpieces by Correggio, Mantegna, Perugino, and other great artists she proudly considered friends. Among those whose conversations she cherished were Titian and Leonardo da Vinci, who immortalized her. A living portrait by the latter remains one of the treasures of the Louvre. Her sharp critical eye was adept at recognizing true value, and she was always on the lookout for new talent to enhance the prestige of her small court. Although it wasn't wealthy, she worried about entertaining her sister’s illustrious husband, Lodovico Sforza, who planned to visit her with a retinue of about a thousand. Yet she freely spent her money on anything related to intellect and taste. She sent her agents on expeditions far and wide, even to the East, and the discovery of a new statue, a rare tapestry, or a precious mosaic brought her joy. Her own vivid imagination was filled with ideas, and she enjoyed suggesting themes to artists, which were not always easy to realize. However, her passionate and insightful enthusiasm was a source of inspiration in itself.

This critical, art-loving Isabella, however, was more than a dilettante. Her heart went out to every form of suffering. Running over with kindness, and always ready to help the needy and deserving, her sympathies sometimes got the better of her judgment, and more than once she had to regret enlisting her friends in the cause of the unworthy. This generous quality was a part of her[Pg 334] rich temperament. With her intellectual tastes, and the many cares and responsibilities of her position, she was no grave and cold Minerva. We find her everywhere entering into the sports and gaieties of her age with the zest of a woman abounding in spirit, vitality, and the joy of life. When she went to see her sister at Milan, she rode, danced, hunted, made impromptu verses, dazzled her friends with flashes of wit, and fascinated old and young alike with her winning, lively ways. Her powerful brother-in-law was always glad to consult her on serious questions of State, as well as on his vast plans for making a beautiful and artistic city. The things that were shaping themselves in the minds of great artists appealed to her ardent imagination. “This is the school of the master and of those who know, the home of art and understanding,” she wrote from there.

This critical, art-loving Isabella was more than just a hobbyist. She deeply cared about all forms of suffering. Overflowing with kindness and always ready to help the needy and deserving, her empathy sometimes clouded her judgment, and more than once, she regretted involving her friends in causes that weren't worthy. This generous trait was part of her[Pg 334] vibrant personality. With her intellectual interests and the many responsibilities she had, she wasn’t a serious and cold figure. We see her engaging in the sports and celebrations of her time with the enthusiasm of a woman full of spirit, energy, and joy. When she visited her sister in Milan, she rode, danced, hunted, wrote spontaneous poetry, dazzled her friends with her quick wit, and captivated both old and young with her charming, lively nature. Her powerful brother-in-law was always eager to consult her on serious state matters as well as his grand plans for creating a beautiful and artistic city. The ideas that were forming in the minds of great artists inspired her passionate imagination. “This is the school of the master and of those who know, the home of art and understanding,” she wrote from there.

Her letters to her family are always full of vivacity, clear and to the point, but glowing with affection. The friendships she inspired were devoted, even passionate. “It seems as if I had lost not only a tenderly loved sister, but a part of myself,” wrote the Duchess Elisabetta, after one of her visits. “I long to write to you every hour.... If I could clearly express to you my grief, I am sure it would have so much force that compassion would bring you back.” In such a spirit these women wrote to one another. The Latin race is effusive, and the[Pg 335] art of expression, which is its supreme gift, no doubt often ran ahead of the feeling or the thought; but these familiar letters bear the stamp of sincerity and help us to know the manner of woman that wrote them.

Her letters to her family are always lively, straightforward, and filled with love. The friendships she inspired were dedicated, even passionate. “It feels like I’ve lost not only a dearly loved sister but also a part of myself,” wrote Duchess Elisabetta after one of her visits. “I want to write to you every hour... If I could express to you my sorrow clearly, I know it would be so powerful that compassion would bring you back.” This is the spirit in which these women wrote to each other. The Latin culture is expressive, and the art of expression, its greatest gift, often outpaced the feeling or thought behind it; but these personal letters reflect sincerity and help us understand the kind of woman who wrote them.

This noble lady of so many gifts and graces was born to lead and not to follow. She could take the affairs of government on occasion, and was amply fitted to rule firmly and wisely. Her first aim was to win the love of her people, which, she says, is of “more value to a State than all its fortresses, treasures, and men-at-arms.” When her husband had matters to settle that required delicate diplomacy, he sent her on a special embassy to the Vatican, where the Pope loaded her with honors and had Bibbiena’s new comedy, “Calandra,” played for her entertainment. A helpful wife was this queen of the Renaissance, and no one knew it better than her husband, whose profession was war, which often led him far from the court she had made so famous. Perhaps she had a trace of pardonable vanity. She deferred a visit to Venice because she did not care to have her modest train brought into so close a contrast with the imposing splendors of the “little sister” whom she loved but did not attempt to rival on her own ground. The glories she most sought were of the intellect and not to be bought with money.

This noble lady, with so many talents and charms, was born to lead rather than follow. She could step in and manage the government when needed, and she was well-equipped to rule firmly and wisely. Her primary goal was to earn the love of her people, which she believed was "more valuable to a state than all its fortresses, treasures, and men-at-arms." When her husband had issues that needed careful diplomacy, he would send her on special missions to the Vatican, where the Pope honored her and even had Bibbiena’s new comedy, “Calandra,” performed for her enjoyment. This queen of the Renaissance was a supportive wife, and her husband, a man of war, appreciated this, especially since his profession often took him far from the court she had made so renowned. She might have had a hint of understandable vanity. She postponed a visit to Venice because she didn’t want her modest entourage to be starkly compared with the impressive splendor of the "little sister" she loved, yet didn’t try to compete with on her own turf. The glories she pursued were primarily intellectual and not something that could be bought with money.

The distinctive quality she impressed upon her[Pg 336] court was an artistic one. Its art treasures were of the choicest, and the best plays, classical or modern, were brought out there. Music was her passion. She sang well herself, also played the lute and viol. In the days before Palestrina had opened a new world of harmony, she maintained one of the finest orchestras in Italy. No gifted musician ever appealed to her in vain. But there was no field of thought in her time which she did not explore. If her knowledge was not profound, it was wide, and she looked at things largely from a human point of view, not superficially, but sympathetically. She applied her intelligence and her talents not only to the advancement of the fine arts, to the cultivation of the best in literature, to the interests of her people, but to the art of living with due regard for one’s duties and responsibilities to the future as well as to the present. If Vittoria Colonna represents the highest thought of her age as applied to things spiritual and literary, Isabella d’Este is a living example of its finest mundane side. No one better illustrates the power and the penetrating fragrance of a strong and vivid personality. It is a type that has many imitators, but such a gift, which is an assemblage of many gifts, cannot be copied.

The unique quality she left on her[Pg 336] court was artistic. It had the finest art treasures, and the best plays, whether classical or modern, were performed there. Music was her passion. She sang beautifully and played both the lute and the viol. Before Palestrina introduced a new world of harmony, she kept one of the best orchestras in Italy. No talented musician ever approached her without being welcomed. But there wasn’t a subject in her time that she didn’t explore. While her knowledge might not have been deep, it was broad, and she considered things from a human perspective—thoughtfully and with empathy. She applied her intelligence and talents not just to advancing the fine arts and fostering great literature, but also to the well-being of her people, as well as to the art of living, taking into account one’s duties and responsibilities to both the present and the future. If Vittoria Colonna exemplifies the highest thought of her time in spiritual and literary matters, Isabella d’Este is a living example of its finest worldly aspects. No one better captures the power and captivating essence of a strong and vibrant personality. This type has many imitators, but such a gift, which combines many talents, cannot be replicated.

A court dominated by so rare a spirit, and attracting all the refinement, talent, and intelligence of a brilliant age, could not be otherwise than luminous.[Pg 337] We have no record of its conversations, but we know that its standards were high, and that the best passports of admission there were achievements of the intellect. Rank no doubt had its place, and manners were indispensable, but to genius and learning much was forgiven. Purely material splendors had small weight. Some of its princes had left traditions of culture, but it was a woman of intellect, force, independence, and charm who gathered these into a society that proved a center of light which shone brightly on after generations.

A court led by such a unique spirit, attracting all the sophistication, talent, and intelligence of a remarkable era, could only be radiant.[Pg 337] We have no records of their conversations, but we know their standards were high, and the best qualifications for entry were intellectual achievements. Status certainly mattered, and manners were essential, but when it came to genius and knowledge, a lot was forgiven. Purely material wealth held little significance. Some of its leaders left a legacy of culture, but it was a woman of intellect, strength, independence, and charisma who brought them together into a society that became a beacon of light for future generations.

VI

Of scarcely less interest than Isabella d’Este is her sister Beatrice, the fresh, dark-eyed, dark-haired, gay, and laughing girl who went to Milan at fifteen as the bride of Lodovico Sforza, and died before she was twenty-two, after condensing the experiences of a lifetime in a few short years. This court has left the record of much sin and many tragedies, and it furnished some great princesses to the smaller and less imposing ones, but its literary glory was not so conspicuous as its splendor and its crimes. A court that numbered Bramante and Leonardo da Vinci among its stars, however, is not to be passed lightly. These colossal men were not easy to command, and prince as well as princess often appealed to them in vain. It[Pg 338] is not likely that they gave much precious time to courtly pleasures, as the first order of genius thrives better in solitude or the sympathetic companionship of the few, though Leonardo was much sought after for his personal accomplishments. But the inspiration of an intelligent woman has more to do with the results of genius than an unthinking and altogether material world is apt to imagine. The Duchess Beatrice was the moving spirit at Milan when its greatest artists were creating the monuments that were to be its lasting glory. Under her critical eye, too, the architects, painters, sculptors, and decorators made the church and cloisters of Certosa things of imperishable beauty, happily unconscious that they were building and carving the tomb of the little lady who was so gracious and so appreciative.

Of nearly as much interest as Isabella d’Este is her sister Beatrice, the lively, dark-eyed, dark-haired girl who went to Milan at fifteen to marry Lodovico Sforza and died before turning twenty-two, after packing a lifetime’s worth of experiences into just a few short years. This court has left behind a history filled with sin and tragedy, and it produced some great princesses for the smaller and less significant ones, but its literary reputation wasn't as prominent as its splendor and its crimes. However, a court that included Bramante and Leonardo da Vinci among its stars shouldn’t be taken lightly. These brilliant figures were not easy to manage, and both princes and princesses often sought their help in vain. It’s unlikely they spent much precious time on courtly pleasures, as true genius flourishes better in solitude or in the company of a few sympathetic souls, though Leonardo was in high demand for his personal talents. But the inspiration of an intelligent woman plays a larger role in the outcomes of genius than an unthinking, materialistic world tends to recognize. Duchess Beatrice was the driving force in Milan when its greatest artists were creating the lasting monuments of its glory. Under her discerning eye, the architects, painters, sculptors, and decorators turned the church and cloisters of Certosa into masterpieces of enduring beauty, blissfully unaware that they were building and carving the tomb of the charming and appreciative young lady.

These artistic tastes, which she shared with her sister, were inherited from her mother, and they were fostered in the court of her grandfather at Naples, where she spent her childhood. At Ferrara she was a trifle overshadowed by the more gifted and beautiful Isabella, but she still lived in a stimulating atmosphere. From a worldly point of view it was a brilliant prospect that opened before the young girl when she went away from classical Ferrara as the child-wife of a man she had never seen. On the personal side the clouds were dark, but that inner realm in which lies happiness or misery was never considered. The formidable Lodovico[Pg 339] was certainly not good, but he had the cultivated tastes of his time, and magnificent projects, into which the small but clever duchess entered with enthusiasm. With grace, generosity, a fine intellect, and a singularly brave and vigorous character, she captivated at once the heart of the blasé prince, who had been none too well pleased with the policy of her coming. No one loved better the pageants, tournaments, and amusements of her age. No one rode more fearlessly, hunted with more zest, or danced with more pleasure. She pursued everything with the ardor of youth and a happy temperament. But her careful training had not been in vain. This fifteen-year-old wife reserved her leisure hours for serious things. She had a fine literary as well as artistic taste, and filled her cabinet with rare and costly books. It is common enough to collect costly books which are never read, but not so common for pleasure-loving girls to take delight in the masters of literature. Even in our enlightened day they are apt to prefer novels, and usually very poor ones. Doubtless the Duchess Beatrice had learned advisers, but she knew how to select them, which is in itself a talent. There were many men of letters about the court, and some of them read to her while she was busy with her needle, just as others used to do in the old days at Ferrara. They did not read the last romance, but great poems, sometimes the “Divine Comedy,” sometimes Petrarch,[Pg 340] sometimes later verses, or histories. The grand Lodovico often stole in to listen, and gave thoughtful attention, especially to the greater master. Perhaps he recalled those happy moments in his sad captivity when the only thing he asked was a copy of Dante to while away the long and lonely hours in a French prison.

These artistic interests, which she shared with her sister, were passed down from their mother and nurtured in her grandfather's court in Naples, where she spent her childhood. In Ferrara, she felt a bit overshadowed by the more talented and beautiful Isabella, but she still thrived in a stimulating environment. From a worldly perspective, it was a bright future that opened up for the young girl when she left classical Ferrara as the child-bride of a man she had never met. On a personal level, things were uncertain, but the inner world where happiness or misery resides was never taken into account. The formidable Lodovico[Pg 339] wasn’t exactly kind, but he possessed the refined tastes of his time and had grand ambitions, which the clever little duchess enthusiastically embraced. With charm, generosity, sharp intellect, and a uniquely bold and dynamic character, she quickly won over the jaded prince, who had initially been less than thrilled with her arrival. No one enjoyed the elaborate festivities, tournaments, and entertainment of her time more than she did. No one rode more fearlessly, hunted with greater enthusiasm, or danced with more joy. She approached everything with youthful passion and a cheerful spirit. However, her careful upbringing had paid off. This fifteen-year-old wife dedicated her free time to serious pursuits. She had an excellent taste in literature and art, filling her collection with rare and valuable books. It’s quite common to collect expensive books that never get read, but it's not as common for pleasure-loving girls to truly enjoy the masters of literature. Even today, many tend to prefer novels, often of poor quality. Surely, Duchess Beatrice had learned advisors, but she knew how to choose them, which is a talent in itself. There were many literary figures at the court, and some would read to her while she worked on her needlework, just as they had done back in Ferrara. They didn’t read the latest romance, but grand poems, sometimes the “Divine Comedy,” sometimes Petrarch,[Pg 340] sometimes more recent verses or histories. The great Lodovico often slipped in to listen, paying close attention, especially to the greater master. Perhaps he remembered those happy moments during his sorrowful captivity when all he wished for was a copy of Dante to help pass the long, lonely hours in a French prison.

In the quiet summer days, among the groves and fountains of Vigevano or Pavia, when the dripping of the water and the rustling of the leaves made a sweet accompaniment for the strains of the orchestra that floated away past the tree-tops and lost themselves in the upper air, we find her listening to an animated discussion between Bramante and Gaspari Visconti on the relative merits of Dante and Petrarch, with her own sympathies on the side of the more spiritual poet. It was this same Visconti who said that the talents and virtues of the discriminating duchess surpassed those of the greatest women of antiquity. Giuliano de’ Medici also speaks of her as a woman of “wonderful parts.” Poets, artists, and singers flocked to her for patronage and recognition from many countries, sure of a generous sympathy.

In the peaceful summer days, among the groves and fountains of Vigevano or Pavia, where the sound of water dripping and leaves rustling created a sweet background for the music of the orchestra that floated away above the treetops and disappeared into the sky, we find her listening to a lively debate between Bramante and Gaspari Visconti about the relative strengths of Dante and Petrarch, with her own preferences leaning towards the more spiritual poet. It was this same Visconti who claimed that the skills and virtues of the discerning duchess were greater than those of the most impressive women from ancient times. Giuliano de’ Medici also referred to her as a woman of “remarkable talents.” Poets, artists, and singers gathered around her for support and recognition from various countries, confident they would receive a warm welcome.

Nor were her tastes and abilities limited to things gay, artistic, and literary. She had a clear head and a facile talent. When scarcely more than eighteen her husband sent her on a diplomatic mission to Venice, where she spoke with grace[Pg 341] and dignity before the doge and seigniory on a matter of politics. No one questioned her modesty in doing so, and every one praised her wise and tactful eloquence. She confesses to a little tremulous apprehension, but writes in a naïve and artless way of her cordial reception by the councilors, also of the magnificent fêtes given in her honor.

Nor were her tastes and skills limited to fun, artistic, and literary things. She had a clear mind and a natural talent. When she was barely eighteen, her husband sent her on a diplomatic mission to Venice, where she spoke with grace[Pg 341] and dignity before the doge and the council about a political matter. No one doubted her modesty in doing this, and everyone praised her wise and tactful eloquence. She admits to feeling a bit nervous, but writes in a straightforward and genuine way about her warm welcome by the councilors and the grand celebrations held in her honor.

In the troubled days of Milan, when the aspiring Lodovico proved weak and faint-hearted, it was his brave little wife who went with him to the camp, reconciled the differences among the officers, and inspired the soldiers with her own courage and enthusiasm. In the final crisis, at this time, it was still the young and fearless woman who took prompt measures to defend the city after her husband had fled and left her to bear all the burdens alone. It is not a question here whether he was right or wrong. The morals of politics were worse then, if possible, than they are now, and he had at least a powerful following. On a matter of public policy it is clear enough that she could not lead a party in opposition to him. What she thought we do not know, though her courage and her swift resources showed the quality of the woman.

In the challenging times of Milan, when the ambitious Lodovico proved to be weak and hesitant, it was his brave little wife who accompanied him to the camp, settled disputes among the officers, and motivated the soldiers with her own courage and enthusiasm. In the final crisis, it was still the young and fearless woman who took immediate action to defend the city after her husband had fled, leaving her to handle all the burdens alone. The question isn’t whether he was right or wrong. The ethics of politics were, if anything, worse then than they are now, and he at least had a strong following. When it comes to public policy, it’s clear that she couldn’t lead an opposition against him. We don’t know what she thought, but her bravery and quick thinking showed the strength of her character.

Many were the sad hours this inconstant husband gave her, but when she was gone in the freshness of her innocent youth, he put himself and everything about him in sable, refused to be comforted,[Pg 342] and mourned her the rest of his life. In spite of his wandering fancies, which she had the spirit to curb, he said that he loved her better than himself,—which, if true, was saying a great deal,—and that she had been his adored companion no less in the cares of State than in his hours of ease. That she shared his cruelties is not supposable from anything we know of her character, but it is certain that he owed to her taste and counsel much of his reputation as an enlightened ruler who crowned his city with the glories of art.

He gave her many sad hours, but when she left in her youthful innocence, he dressed in black, refused to be comforted,[Pg 342] and mourned her for the rest of his life. Despite his restless desires, which she bravely managed, he claimed he loved her more than himself—if that was true, it meant a lot—and that she was his beloved partner in both the challenges of leadership and his moments of leisure. It’s hard to believe she participated in his cruelties based on what we know of her character, but it’s clear that her taste and advice contributed significantly to his reputation as an enlightened ruler who enhanced his city with the beauty of art.

With her loss his star began to wane. “When the Duchess Beatrice died, everything fell into ruin. The court, which had been a paradise of joy, became a dark and gloomy inferno; poets and artists were forced to seek another place.” So writes a man of letters, in the last days of the fifteenth century, of a woman of twenty-one who had tried to make the richest and worst court in Italy a home for literature, art, and all that makes for the intellectual good of the race.

With her loss, his star started to fade. “When Duchess Beatrice passed away, everything crumbled. The court, which had been a paradise of joy, turned into a dark and gloomy hell; poets and artists had to find another place.” So writes a literary figure in the final days of the fifteenth century about a twenty-one-year-old woman who had tried to make the richest and most corrupt court in Italy a home for literature, art, and everything that contributes to the intellectual well-being of humanity.

VII

If I have lingered a little over personal details in these brief sketches, it is the better to show the versatile character of the women who shed so much luster on the golden age of the Renaissance. Of the relative moral value of these representative[Pg 343] women of their time I think there is little question, in spite of the fact that the age is so persistently quoted to prove that women degenerate in virtue as they advance in intelligence. That the tone of morality was very low, that vice was scarcely frowned upon, that men in power and out of it broke every commandment in the decalogue without compunction or even taking the trouble to put on a veil of respectability, and that a large class of women were swept into the vortex of corruption, is true enough. But it is also true that the strongest protest against this state of affairs was made by women, and that the few prelates who dared lift their voices against the scandals in high places numbered their most zealous assistants among them. To say nothing of the multitudes who cast their jewels and ornaments into the flames at the bidding of Savonarola, and consecrated themselves to a pure and simple if not ascetic life,—all of which may be set down to the account of emotionalism rather than intelligence,—it was the women most noted for talent and learning, whether princess, poet, or university professor, who were most honored for their virtues. The pure-minded Contarini found in Vittoria Colonna his strongest support in a hopeless struggle against the sins and corruptions of the church. Olympia Morata was a conspicuous example of great intellect and great learning put to the service of a bettered humanity at serious, indeed fatal,[Pg 344] personal sacrifice. And she was not alone. There were numbers of these women—poets, scholars, and thinkers—who lived spotless lives and worked for the good of their sex and race.

If I've spent a bit of time on personal details in these short sketches, it's to better highlight the versatile character of the women who illuminated the golden age of the Renaissance. I believe there's little doubt about the relative moral value of these representative[Pg 343] women of their time, despite the common claim that women's virtue declines as their intelligence rises. It's true that the moral environment was quite low, that vice was hardly criticized, that both powerful men and ordinary ones flouted every commandment without remorse and without the effort to feign respectability, and that many women were drawn into the chaos of corruption. However, it's also true that the strongest protests against this situation came from women, and that the few church leaders who dared to speak out against the scandals in high places counted among their most passionate supporters those same women. Not to mention the many who threw their jewels and ornaments into the flames at Savonarola's urging and committed themselves to a pure and simple, if not ascetic, life—though this may stem more from emotionalism than intelligence—it was the women renowned for their talent and knowledge, be they princesses, poets, or university professors, who were most celebrated for their virtues. The virtuous Contarini found in Vittoria Colonna his greatest ally in a seemingly hopeless fight against the sins and corruption of the church. Olympia Morata stands out as a notable example of great intellect and knowledge dedicated to improving humanity, even at a serious and potentially lethal,[Pg 344] personal cost. And she wasn't alone. There were many of these women—poets, scholars, and thinkers—who lived unblemished lives and worked for the benefit of their gender and race.

Of the noble ladies who presided over the literary courts, the few we have recalled were among the greatest, and, with one exception, it is generally conceded that their lives were without reproach. Others were victims of a power over which they had no control. It must be remembered that these women, however capable or high in place, were in the last resort subject to the will of men. Their new intelligence had made them helpers to be respected, and tempered a little the possible tyranny of their self-constituted masters, but men themselves, the nobler and wiser, saw the dangers in the abuse of their own power. “If women corrupt, they have first been corrupted by their age,” said Giuliano de’ Medici, the best and purest of his family, in one of the conversations at Urbino, which, thanks to its women, had not only the most intelligent but the most virtuous court in Italy.

Of the noble ladies who led the literary circles, the few we've mentioned were among the greatest, and with one exception, it's widely accepted that their lives were blameless. Others were victims of a power beyond their control. It must be remembered that these women, no matter how capable or high-ranking, ultimately answered to the will of men. Their newfound intelligence made them respected helpers and slightly reduced the potential tyranny of their self-appointed masters, but the nobler and wiser men themselves recognized the risks of abusing their own power. “If women are corrupt, they have first been corrupted by their era,” said Giuliano de’ Medici, the best and purest of his family, during one of the discussions at Urbino, which, thanks to its women, boasted not only the most intelligent but also the most virtuous court in Italy.

When a Borgia or some other pope equally devoid of moral sense, who sits at the head of Christendom and directs its conscience, orders at pleasure the marriage and divorce of his own daughter, or of any other woman who can serve his political or mercenary ends, giving her no choice and no recourse; when Imperias and Tullias preside[Pg 345] over the salons of Rome because etiquette forbids a pure and high-minded woman to live in this lax society of prelates and cardinals, which she would be likely to find neither safe nor agreeable, there is little to be said about the connection between woman’s intelligence and moral decadence. Imperias and Tullias have lived in all ages, and they have flourished best where good women were the most ignorant and colorless. Some of them have had talent and esprit. They have sung, acted, danced, written sonnets, affected learning, patronized the arts, even put on the garb of virtue and piety; but they can be no more cited as representatives of the women of centuries ago than the same class to-day can be taken as a measure of our own moral standards, which is clearly impossible. Intelligence was never a guaranty of morals, as the mind can be sharpened for bad ends as well as good ones. It is even possible that the woman of education and strong mental fiber may be more easily led into the sins of ambition, but she is far less likely to drift into the follies of vanity, passion, and a weak will than the ignorant one who has no rational outlet for her energies and her untempered sensibilities. The faults, too, of a luminous age are seen in a glare of light that is wholly wanting in periods of darkness when vice shelters itself behind closed doors upon which it too often hangs the drapery of virtue.

When a Borgia or another equally immoral pope sits at the head of Christendom and directs its conscience, ordering the marriage and divorce of his own daughter or any woman who can advance his political or mercenary interests, giving her no choice or recourse; when Imperias and Tullias rule over the salons of Rome because society norms forbid a pure and principled woman from living in this lax environment filled with prelates and cardinals, which she would likely find unsafe and unpleasant, there is little to say about the link between a woman's intelligence and moral decay. Imperias and Tullias have existed throughout history, thriving best where good women were most ignorant and bland. Some of them have had talent and spirit. They have sung, acted, danced, written sonnets, pretended to be learned, supported the arts, and even dressed in the guise of virtue and piety; but they cannot be considered representatives of the women of centuries past any more than the same group today can reflect our own moral standards, which is clearly impossible. Intelligence has never been a guarantee of morals, as the mind can be sharpened for both bad and good purposes. It's even possible that an educated woman with strong mental capacity might be more easily swayed by ambition, but she is much less likely to fall into the traps of vanity, passion, and weakness of will than an ignorant one who has no rational outlet for her energies and intense emotions. The flaws of a bright era are visible in strong light, which is completely absent in dark times when vice hides behind closed doors that often display the false facade of virtue.

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It is difficult to measure the intellectual value of the women of the Renaissance, as their influence went out in a thousand rills, seen and unseen, to fertilize after-ages, and not least our own. There were many good writers, but no great ones, unless we except Vittoria Colonna, whose poems, though unequal, were of a high and intrinsic literary as well as moral quality. As an in memoriam her sonnets to her husband are not likely to die, and as the first collection of sacred poems her later work has a distinct and honorable place on the world’s records. Why there were no artists of note is a problem not easy to solve, as the field is one in which women seem especially fitted to excel. Elisabetta Sirani might have won a high place on the roll of fame, as great critics were struck with her vigor, her grasp of large subjects, her facile style, and her careful finish; but she lived in the decline of art, and died at twenty-six. Women were more famous as scholars, and many of them stood on a level with distinguished men. Educated with them in the best schools, their tastes were formed on the best models. A lady who converses or lectures before learned dons in Latin, and writes the purest Greek, is not a shallow pretender, though she may be neither original nor profound. Nor do they seem to have been pedants, though much of the phraseology of both men and women strikes us now as stilted and inflated; it[Pg 347] was the style of the day. No doubt there was more or less dilettantism, which was a weakness of the time that ended in the destruction of literary values; it is quite possible, too, that many liked what it was the fashion to like, as they have done in all ages, without any clear tastes or convictions of their own, though this foible is by no means confined to women. That period, like our own, had its army of pale imitators who follow in the wake of every movement that is likely to reflect on them a small degree of honor, and in the end sink its finest standards in hopeless mediocrity.

It’s hard to assess the intellectual contributions of Renaissance women, as their influence rippled out in various ways, both seen and unseen, enriching later generations, including our own. There were several good writers, but no truly great ones, except perhaps Vittoria Colonna, whose poems, while uneven, possessed significant literary and moral value. Her sonnets dedicated to her husband will likely endure, and her later collection of sacred poems holds a unique and respectable place in history. The absence of notable female artists remains a challenging question, especially since it seems women should naturally excel in this field. Elisabetta Sirani had the potential to achieve great fame, as respected critics admired her energy, her ability to tackle grand subjects, her fluid writing style, and her meticulous finishing. Unfortunately, she lived during a decline in the arts and passed away at just twenty-six. Women were often better known as scholars, and many were on par with distinguished male counterparts. Educated alongside them in the best schools, they developed their tastes based on excellent models. A woman who engages in conversation or lectures in Latin before learned scholars and writes impeccable Greek isn't just showing off, though she might not be especially original or deep. They also didn’t seem to be mere pedants, though the language used by both men and women might strike us as overly formal today; that was simply the style of the time. Certainly, there was a level of dilettantism, a common weakness of that period that ultimately undermined literary values. It's also possible that many people liked what was fashionable without having clear tastes or personal convictions, a tendency not exclusive to women. That era, much like ours, had its share of imitators who followed every trend that might bestow a little honor, ultimately dragging down the highest standards into mediocrity.

But the influence of a multitude of highly educated and intelligent women is too subtle and far-reaching to put into definite terms. To trace it in its large results, even if this were possible, would take us far beyond our present limits. It is felt at every moment, in the home, in society, in amusements, in the church. It directs the currents of men’s lives from the starting-point, it infolds them like light, it is a stimulant and an inspiration. But no one knows precisely where it begins or ends. This is why it has been so ignored, why men, except in individual cases, have so persistently depreciated the qualities that opened for them the way to the finest issues.

But the impact of a large number of educated and intelligent women is too nuanced and widespread to define clearly. Even if we could trace its broader effects, it would take us far beyond our current boundaries. It is felt constantly—in the home, in society, in entertainment, in the church. It shapes the direction of men’s lives from the very beginning, enveloping them like light; it serves as both a motivator and an inspiration. Yet, no one knows exactly where it starts or ends. This is why it has often been overlooked, and why men, except in individual cases, have consistently downplayed the qualities that opened up paths to the best outcomes.

The direct power of the learned princesses of the literary courts is more readily seen. By virtue of their position, as well as their talents, they[Pg 348] created a society, spread a taste for things of the intellect, and did a great deal to curb the vice and cruelty which pressed with special severity on their own sex. If they could not change the drift of the age, and were subject to conditions which good men were unable to control, they tempered and modified them. The whole Platonic movement, which they did so much to foster, was a protest against the sensualism that has always been their worst enemy. To sustain a spiritual cult in a race that worshiped, before all things, material beauty was not easy. It had a tendency always to lose itself in phrases and mystical subtleties, but it put woman on a new pedestal, and social life on a higher plane. We have only to note the bacchanalian revels of the poets, wits, and philosophers of Florence, the orgies of folly, vulgarity, and sin which the great Lorenzo led and the very wise Platonic Academy smiled upon, to learn the difference between a lettered society of men without the tempering influence of high-minded women, and the brilliant circles we have seen gathered about princesses of learning, refinement, and grace, who guided its amusements and restrained its license. No woman of conspicuous virtue and ability has left a permanent stamp on the social life of Florence. Clarice, the wife of the versatile Lorenzo, had many virtues, but she was evidently in no sense a leader. Poliziano has no prejudice against learned women, as he[Pg 349] falls in love with the gifted and beautiful Alessandra Scala and is inconsolable because she will not marry him. He also pays court to Cassandra Fidelis, and corresponds with Lucrezia, the mother of his patron, who is finely educated and writes poetry; but he is angry when Clarice interferes with his manner of training her children, “because she is a woman and unlettered”; indeed, he quarrels with her about it and goes away. She, in her turn, finds fault with his pagan morals, and is glad to be rid of his presence, no doubt with good reason. But whatever she may have been as a mother, she seems to have lacked the talent or the desire to gather about her a lettered society, and the result is seen in the disgraceful orgies of her husband and his clever satellites, with no advantage to the “unhampered intellects” of these poets and savants, but with a decided disadvantage to their manners and morals.

The direct influence of the educated princesses in literary circles is clear. Thanks to their status and talents, they[Pg 348] created a community, encouraged an appreciation for intellectual pursuits, and did a lot to combat the vices and cruelty that particularly affected women. While they couldn't change the course of the era or control the conditions that good people struggled against, they adjusted and softened them. The entire Platonic movement, which they significantly supported, was a reaction against the sensualism that has always been their greatest adversary. Maintaining a spiritual culture in a society that prioritized material beauty was challenging. It often got lost in elaborate language and mystical concepts, but it elevated women and improved social life. Just look at the wild parties of the poets, intellectuals, and philosophers in Florence—the excesses and immorality led by the great Lorenzo, which the esteemed Platonic Academy looked upon favorably—to see the difference between a learned society of men lacking the moderating influence of high-minded women and the vibrant circles we witnessed surrounding educated, refined, and graceful princesses who directed social activities and kept things in check. No notable woman of virtue and talent has made a lasting impact on Florence's social scene. Clarice, the wife of the versatile Lorenzo, had many admirable qualities, but she was clearly not a leader. Poliziano had no bias against educated women, falling in love with the gifted and beautiful Alessandra Scala, and was heartbroken because she wouldn’t marry him. He also pursued Cassandra Fidelis and corresponded with Lucrezia, his patron's mother, who was well-educated and wrote poetry; yet he got upset when Clarice interfered with how he was raising her children, “because she is a woman and uneducated”; in fact, he argued with her over it and left. She, in turn, criticized his pagan morals and was relieved to be free from his company, likely for good reason. But whatever her qualities as a mother, she seems to have lacked the ability or desire to create a learned community around her, which resulted in the disgraceful revelries of her husband and his clever friends, doing nothing to benefit the "unrestrained intellects" of these poets and thinkers, but certainly harming their manners and morals.

It was during the reign of pure, highly educated, and able women that the Italian courts reached their highest point of power and brilliancy. When, by the accident of succession, those of smaller caliber and more frivolous tastes took the scepter, they invariably declined and lost their prestige.

It was during the time of strong, highly educated, and capable women that the Italian courts reached their peak power and brilliance. When, by chance of succession, those of lesser ability and more superficial interests took over, they always declined and lost their prestige.

It is quite superfluous to cast a mantle of charity, or any mantle whatever, over the crimes of the Renaissance, but I have tried in a small way to recall another side of its abounding life, which had its[Pg 350] roots largely in the character of its forceful and intelligent women. The age that gave us a Bianca Capello gave us also a Vittoria Colonna. The one has long since been consigned to the fitful oblivion of infamy; the other holds her imperishable place among the stars, still lighting the sorrowful and world-weary with her messages of love and hope. The centuries of beauty and sin when men like to say that woman lost her birthright of virtue—a birthright which they never ceased to invade from their own stronghold of power—saw her transfigured by the imagination of Michelangelo into the immortal sibyls who sit side by side with the prophets in the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, pure and passionless, with the brooding eyes that long ago fathomed all the secrets of a suffering world, read in the mystic leaves the records of nations still unborn, and saw from afar the light of the ages—unchanging types of the wisdom and divination that lie in the feminine soul. It saw, too, the Virgins of Fra Angelico, unfading symbols of purity as of angelic sweetness; and the Madonnas of Raphael, looking wistfully out of their repose with a ray of celestial love in their eyes and a smile of eternal beauty on their lips.

It's unnecessary to cover up the crimes of the Renaissance with a cloak of charity, but I've made an effort to highlight another side of its vibrant life, which largely stemmed from the strength and intelligence of its remarkable women. The era that produced Bianca Capello also gave us Vittoria Colonna. One has long been forgotten in disgrace, while the other remains a timeless figure among the stars, continuing to inspire the sorrowful and weary with her messages of love and hope. During those centuries marked by beauty and sin, when men insisted that women lost their innate virtue— a virtue they continuously violated from their position of power—women were transformed by Michelangelo's imagination into the immortal sibyls who sit beside the prophets on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, pure and devoid of passion, with contemplative eyes that have long understood the mysteries of a suffering world, seen in the mystical leaves the histories of nations yet to come, and glimpsed from afar the light of the ages—enduring representations of the wisdom and insight exists within the feminine soul. We also witnessed Fra Angelico's Virgins, timeless symbols of both purity and angelic sweetness; and Raphael's Madonnas, gazing out from their serenity with a sparkle of divine love in their eyes and a smile of everlasting beauty on their lips.

VIII

It is no part of the plan here to trace the causes of the decadence in which men lost their liberty of[Pg 351] thought and women their position. Greed of money, greed of power, love of pleasure, the growth of luxury, and the low ideals that surely follow in their train, brought their logical results. The flower of estheticism that expands in the rich splendors of its ripe perfection verges already toward its dissolution. Then the Roman Catholic reaction, which forbade men to think, sent women back to prayers and seclusion, as a business instead of a resource; it was becoming, and quite safe. But the Italian princesses had set a fashion of knowledge, and of putting society on an intellectual plane, with what trimming of beauty and adornment of manners they could add. The irrepressible and many-gifted Marguerite of Navarre took it up with various changes and originalities of her own. The clever Frenchwomen saw their opportunity, and when the courts were sunk in vice and inanities, they drew out of the past its secret of social power, and created the literary salon, which was one of the glories of the golden age of France. The wave of knowledge which had raised the Italian women so high, and then so strangely receded, culminated again in the intellectual brilliancy and unparalleled influence of the Frenchwomen of the eighteenth century. The rise and fall of this movement and its central figures I have treated quite fully elsewhere. Again the wave receded, with the coming of the republic, to revive under other forms in our[Pg 352] own country and our own day. Will another decadence follow? The future alone can tell, and no prophetic sibyl has read the secret of that future. Possibly it will depend largely upon the poise and sanity of women themselves.

It’s not the purpose here to explore the reasons behind the decline that caused men to lose their freedom of thought and women to lose their status. The pursuit of money, power, pleasure, the rise of luxury, and the shallow ideals that inevitably come with them led to their logical outcomes. The bloom of aestheticism that flourished in the rich luster of its maturity is already tipping into decay. Then the Roman Catholic backlash, which stopped men from thinking, pushed women back into prayer and isolation, treating it as a duty instead of a refuge; it was becoming, and quite safe. However, the Italian princesses had created a trend of knowledge and elevating society intellectually, adding whatever beauty and grace they could. The unstoppable and talented Marguerite of Navarre adopted this with her own twists and innovations. The sharp Frenchwomen saw their chance, and when the courts were mired in vice and foolishness, they unearthed the past’s secret for social influence and established the literary salon, which became one of the shining highlights of France’s golden age. The surge of knowledge that had elevated Italian women so high, and then strangely receded, peaked again in the intellectual brilliance and unmatched influence of the French women of the eighteenth century. I've addressed the rise and fall of this movement and its key figures in depth elsewhere. Once again, the wave receded with the advent of the republic, only to revive in different forms in our country and our time. Will another decline follow? Only time will tell, and no prophetic oracle has uncovered the mystery of that future. It might largely depend on the balance and clarity of women themselves.

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SALON AND WOMAN’S CLUB

· New Mania for Knowledge ·
· Women’s Clubs as Central Points ·
· Parallel between the Literary Salon and the
Woman’s Club ·
· French and American Women ·
· Attitude of Anglo-Saxon Men toward Women ·
· Puritan Gospel of Feminine Liberty ·
· The Woman’s Club not a School of Manners ·
· Its Moral Value ·
· Its Social and Intellectual Value ·
· Imitation Culture ·
· Special Distinction of American Women ·
· Their Foibles ·
· Multiplication of Clubs ·
· Warning in the Excesses of the Later Salons ·
· Tendency to Separate Men and Women ·
· The Charm of Social Life ·
· Wisdom of Consulting the Past ·

· New Excitement for Knowledge ·
· Women’s Clubs as Important Gathering Places ·
· Comparison between the Literary Salon and the
Women’s Club ·
· French and American Women ·
· Attitude of Anglo-Saxon Men towards Women ·
· Puritan Views on Women's Freedom ·
· The Women’s Club is Not a Place for Etiquette Lessons ·
· Its Moral Significance ·
· Its Social and Intellectual Significance ·
· Culture of Imitation ·
· Unique Traits of American Women ·
· Their Distinctive Characteristics ·
· Increase in the Number of Clubs ·
· Caution Against the Excesses of Later Salons ·
· Trend to Separate Men and Women ·
· The Appeal of Social Life ·
· Wisdom in Learning from the Past ·


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I

It is not too much to say that the entire present generation of women is going to school. Infancy cultivates its mind in the kindergarten, while the woman of threescore seeks consolation and diversion in clubs or a university course, instead of resigning herself to seclusion and prayers, or the chimney-corner and knitting, after the manner of her ancestors. Even our amusements carry instruction in solution. Childhood takes in knowledge through its toys and games; the débutante discusses Plato or Coquelin in the intervals of the waltz; youth and maturity alike find their pleasure in papers, talks, plays, music, and recitations. In these social menus everything is included, from a Greek drama or an Oriental faith to Wagner and the latest theory of economics. We have Kipling[Pg 356] at breakfast, Rostand or Maeterlinck at luncheon, and the new Utopia at dinner. After a brilliant day of being adored and talked about, Browning has been duly labeled and put away, but Homer classes and Dante classes still alternate with lectures on the Impressionists or the Decadents. In this rage for knowledge, science and philosophy are not forgotten. Fashion ranges the field from occultism to agnosticism, from the qualities of a microbe to the origin of man. To-day it searches the problems of this world, to-morrow the mysteries of the next. There is nothing too large or too abstruse for the eager, questioning spirit that seeks to know all things, or at least to skim the surface of all things.

It's fair to say that women today are all about education. Young kids are learning in kindergarten, while older women are finding comfort and engagement in clubs or university courses instead of resigning themselves to isolation and prayer, or sitting by the fire knitting like their ancestors did. Even our entertainment has an educational twist. Children absorb knowledge through their toys and games; young women chat about Plato or Coquelin between waltzes; people of all ages enjoy reading, discussions, plays, music, and recitations. These social gatherings cover everything from Greek drama and Eastern religions to Wagner and the latest economic theories. We read Kipling at breakfast, discuss Rostand or Maeterlinck at lunch, and dive into the new Utopia at dinner. After a day of being admired and talked about, Browning has been properly categorized and set aside, but classes on Homer and Dante still alternate with lectures on Impressionists or Decadents. This thirst for knowledge doesn’t overlook science and philosophy. Trends explore everything from occultism to agnosticism, from microbe characteristics to human origins. Today we tackle the challenges of our world, and tomorrow we delve into the mysteries of the next. There’s nothing too big or too complex for the eager, curious minds seeking to understand everything, or at least to skim the surface of it all.

Nor is this energetic pursuit of intelligence confined to towns or cities. Go into the remote village or hamlet, and you will find the inevitable club, where the merits of the last novel, the labor problem, the political situation, the silver question, the Boer war, and the state of the universe generally, are canvassed by a circle of women as freely, and with as keen a zest, as the virtues and shortcomings of their neighbors were talked over by their grandmothers—possibly may be still by a few of their benighted contemporaries.

This active pursuit of knowledge isn’t limited to towns or cities. Visit a remote village or small community, and you’ll discover the essential social club, where the latest novel, labor issues, political affairs, the silver debate, the Boer War, and the general state of the world are discussed by a group of women with just as much enthusiasm and engagement as their grandmothers once shared opinions on the strengths and weaknesses of their neighbors—perhaps some of their less-informed peers still do.

In its extent, this mania for things of the intellect is phenomenal. One might imagine that we were rapidly becoming a generation of pedants. Perhaps we are saved from it by the perpetual change that[Pg 357] gives nothing time to crystallize. The central points of all this movement are the women’s clubs, of which the social element is a conspicuous feature, and we take our learning so comfortably diluted and pleasantly varied that it ceases to be formidable, though on the side of learning it may leave much to be desired.

This obsession with intellectual pursuits is incredible. It feels like we’re turning into a generation of know-it-alls. Luckily, the constant change around us keeps things from becoming too rigid. The hub of this activity is the women’s clubs, where the social aspect stands out. We consume our knowledge in a way that's easy to digest and nicely diverse, making it seem less intimidating, even if there's still a lot to improve on the learning front.[Pg 357]

But it is notably in this mingling of literature and life that women have always found their greatest intellectual influence, and the club is not likely to prove an exception. The rapidity of its growth is equaled only by the extent of its range. Of women’s clubs there is literally no end, and they are yet in their vigorous youth. We have literary clubs, and art clubs, and musical clubs; clubs for science, and clubs for philanthropy; parliamentary clubs, and suffrage clubs, and anti-suffrage clubs—clubs of every variety and every grade, from the luncheon club, with its dilettante menu, and the more pretentious chartered club, that aims at mastering a scheme of the world, to the simple working-girls’ club, which is content with something less: and all in the sacred name of culture. They multiply, federate, hold conventions, organize congresses, and really form a vast educational system that is fast changing old ideals and opening possibilities of which no prophetic eye can see the end. That they have marvelously raised the average standard of intelligence cannot be questioned, nor[Pg 358] that they have brought out a large number of able and interesting women who have generously taken upon themselves not only their own share of the work of the world, but a great deal more.

But it's in this blend of literature and life that women have always found their biggest intellectual impact, and the club is likely to follow suit. The speed of its growth is matched only by its wide scope. There is literally no end to women's clubs, and they are still in their energetic youth. We have literary clubs, art clubs, musical clubs; clubs for science and philanthropy; parliamentary clubs, suffrage clubs, and anti-suffrage clubs—clubs of every variety and grade, from the luncheon club with its casual menu to the more ambitious chartered club aiming to master a worldview, to the simple working-girls' club which settles for something more modest: all in the noble pursuit of culture. They are multiplying, forming federations, holding conventions, organizing congresses, and truly creating a vast educational network that is quickly transforming outdated ideals and opening up possibilities that no one can fully envision. It's undeniable that they have significantly raised the average level of intelligence, nor can one overlook the many capable and fascinating women who have willingly taken on not just their own share of the world's work but a great deal more.

One can hardly overrate the value of an institution which has given light and an upward impulse to so many lives, and changed the complexion of society so distinctly for the better. But it may be worth while to ask if the women of to-day, with their splendid initiative and boundless aspirations, are not going a little too fast, getting entangled in too much machinery, losing their individuality in masses, assuming more responsibility than they can well carry. Why is it that lines too deep for harmonious thought are so early writing themselves on the strong, tense, mobile, and delicate faces of American women? Why is it that the pure joy of life seems to be lost in the restless and insatiable passion for multitudes, so often thinly disguised as love for knowledge, which is not seldom little more than the shell and husk of things? Is the pursuit of culture degenerating into a pursuit of clubs, and are we taking for ourselves new taskmasters more pitiless than the old? “The emancipation of woman is fast becoming her slavery,” said one who was caught in the whirl of the social machinery and could find no point of repose. We pride ourselves on our liberty; but the true value of liberty is to leave people free from a pressure that prevents[Pg 359] their fullest growth. What do we gain if we simply exchange one tyranny for another? Apart from the fact that the finest flowers of culture do not spring from a soil that is constantly turned, any more than they do from a soil that is not turned at all, it is a question of human limitations, of living so as to continue to live, of growing so as to continue to grow. Nor is it simply a matter of individuals. Societies, too, exhaust themselves; and those which reach an exaggerated growth in a day are apt to perish in a day. It is not the first time in the history of the world that there has been a brilliant reign of intelligence among women, though perhaps there was never one so widely spread as now. Why have they ended in more or less violent reactions? We may not be able to answer the question satisfactorily, but it gives us food for reflection.

One can hardly overrate the value of an institution that has brought enlightenment and uplifted so many lives, significantly improving society. But it may be worth considering whether today's women, with their incredible initiative and limitless aspirations, are moving a bit too quickly, getting caught up in too much complexity, losing their individuality in groups, and taking on more responsibility than they can handle. Why do deep lines that disrupt harmonious thought appear so early on the strong, tense, expressive, and delicate faces of American women? Why does the pure joy of life seem to fade in the face of a restless and unending desire for crowds, often just masked as a love for knowledge, which is often just the surface and not the substance? Is the quest for culture turning into a quest for clubs, and are we not taking on new oppressors that are harsher than the old ones? “The emancipation of woman is fast becoming her slavery,” said someone who got caught up in the chaos of social structures and couldn't find a moment of peace. We take pride in our freedom; however, the true value of freedom is to allow people to be free from pressures that hinder their full development. What do we gain if we simply swap one form of oppression for another? Besides the fact that the most beautiful aspects of culture don’t thrive in soil that is constantly disturbed, just as they don’t in soil that isn’t disturbed at all, it raises questions about human limitations, living so that we can continue to live, and growing so that we can keep growing. It's not just about individuals either. Societies can exhaust themselves too, and those that experience rapid growth in a single day are likely to collapse just as quickly. It’s not the first time in history that women have experienced an intense period of intelligence, though perhaps this one is more widespread than ever. Why have these periods led to more or less violent reactions? We might not be able to answer that question definitively, but it certainly gives us something to think about.

II

The most remarkable, though by no means the only, precedent we have for a social organization planned by women on a basis of the intellect, was the French literary salon of the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries. These women had relatively as much intelligence as we have, and possibly more power. It must be taken into consideration that they were remote from us by race, religion, and political régime, as well as by several generations of time, and[Pg 360] that their spirit, aims, and methods were as unlike ours as their points of view. But that which they did on traditional lines and a small scale we are doing on new lines and a very large scale. Their intellectual life found its outlet in the salon, as ours does in the club. These equally represent the active influence of women in their respective ages. Both have resulted in a mania for knowledge, a change of ideals, a radical revolution in social life, and an unprecedented increase in the authority of women. As they have certain tendencies and dangers in common, it may be of interest to trace a few points of resemblance and contrast between them; also to glance at the elements which have gone into the club and are making it so considerable a factor in American life.

The most remarkable, though not the only, example we have of a social organization created by women based on intellect was the French literary salon of the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries. These women had as much intelligence as we do today, and possibly even more power. We need to keep in mind that they were separated from us by race, religion, and political regime, as well as by several generations of time, and[Pg 360] that their spirit, goals, and methods were as different from ours as their perspectives. However, what they did on traditional lines and a small scale, we are doing on new lines and a much larger scale. Their intellectual life found its expression in the salon, just as ours does in clubs. Both represent the active influence of women in their respective eras. Each has led to a thirst for knowledge, a shift in ideals, a radical transformation in social life, and an unprecedented rise in women's authority. Since they share certain tendencies and challenges, it might be interesting to explore a few similarities and differences between them, as well as to look at the elements that have contributed to the club and are making it a significant factor in American life.

The salon, like the club, was founded and led by clever women in the interests of culture, both literary and social; but, unlike the club, it was devoted to bringing into relief the talents of men. The difference, so far as manners are concerned, is a fundamental one. It would never have occurred to the women of that age to band together for self-improvement. If they had given the matter a thought, it would not have seemed to them likely to come in that way; still less would it have occurred to them that this mode of doing things could be of any service in bettering the world or their own position. Rousseau, who wrote so many fine phrases[Pg 361] about liberty, and left women none at all, not even the small privilege of protesting against injustice, said that they were “made to please men”; and it is safe to say that the Frenchwomen had no scheme of life apart from men, until they were ready to go into seclusion for prayer and penance and preparation for the next world. They accepted the fact that men had the ordering of affairs, and that they could make their own influence felt only by acting through them. “What is the difference whether women rule, or the rulers are guided by women?” said Aristotle. “If the power is in their hands, the result is the same.” It was simply a question of the best way of ruling the rulers. In this case the rulers were of a race that has not only a great liking for women in the concrete, but a great admiration for woman in the abstract. So long as her gifts are consecrated to his interest and pleasure, the Frenchman never objects to them—indeed, he is disposed to pay much homage to them. In the interest of some one else, or even in her own, it is another matter. They might be inconvenient. But in this new kingdom of the salon he was quite willing to accord her the supremacy, since she gave him the place of honor and furnished an effective background for his talents without too much parading her own. He had only to shine and be applauded. What more could he desire?

The salon, like the club, was created and run by smart women focused on culture, both literary and social; however, unlike the club, it aimed to highlight men's talents. The difference, especially when it comes to social behavior, is a fundamental one. It wouldn't have crossed the minds of women back then to come together for self-improvement. Even if they had considered it, they wouldn’t have thought it likely to work that way; even less likely would they have imagined that this approach could help improve the world or their own situation. Rousseau, who wrote many fine words about freedom but gave women none at all, not even the small privilege of protesting against injustice, said that women were “made to please men”; and it's safe to say that Frenchwomen had no plan for life separate from men until they chose to retreat for prayer, penance, and preparation for the afterlife. They accepted that men had control over affairs, and that they could make their influence felt only by acting through them. “What’s the difference if women govern, or if the rulers are influenced by women?” Aristotle asked. “If the power is in their hands, the outcome is the same.” It was simply about finding the best way to manage the rulers. In this case, the rulers were from a culture that not only appreciates women in real life but also admires the concept of womanhood. As long as her talents are dedicated to his interest and enjoyment, the Frenchman has no issue with them—in fact, he is likely to show a lot of respect for them. When it comes to someone else’s benefit, or even her own, it’s another story. They could be seen as a hassle. But in this new realm of the salon, he was completely willing to give her the leading role, as long as she gave him the spotlight and provided an effective backdrop for his talents without overshadowing her own too much. He just had to shine and receive applause. What more could he wish for?

Naturally, under such conditions, among the first[Pg 362] of her arts was that of making things agreeable. If she had any fine moral lessons to inculcate, she gave them in the form of sugared pills that were pleasant to take. In her category of virtues the social ones were uppermost; but they were the means to an end, and this end must not be lost sight of. Her special mission was to correct coarse manners and bad morals, as well as to secure due recognition for talent; but she went about it in her own way. It may be said that, as a rule, the Frenchwoman is much less interested in what is done than in how it is done. In the early days of the salons she concerned herself little, if at all, with theories and grave social problems; but she did concern herself very much with questions of taste and manners, the refinements of language and literature, the subtleties of sentiment, the dignity of converse between men and women. Nor did she bring to these questions an untrained mind. If she did not make so much of a business of improving it as we do, she did not neglect private study and the reading of the best books, which, though few, were undiluted. “It gives dull colors to the mind to have no taste for solid reading,” said Mme. de Sévigné, who delighted in Montaigne and Pascal, Tacitus and Vergil, with various other classics which are not exactly the food for frivolity. These women did not always spell correctly, and would have declined altogether to write a paper on the[Pg 363] “Science of Government” or the “Philosophy of Confucius,”—subjects which the school-girls of to-day feel quite competent to treat,—but they showed surprising clearness and penetration in their criticisms of literature and manners. The coteries which formed an audience for Corneille, sympathized with the exalted thought of Pascal and Arnauld, helped to modify and polish the maxims of La Rochefoucauld,—as those which, a century or so later, discussed the tragedies of Voltaire or the philosophy of Rousseau with men of genius who would have had small patience with platitudes,—needed no lowering of levels to suit their taste or comprehension. They were held firmly to fine literary ideals. All they asked was simplicity of statement, and this was made a fashion, to the lasting benefit of French literature.

Naturally, in such situations, one of her primary skills was creating a pleasant atmosphere. If she had any important moral lessons to teach, she presented them as easy-to-swallow truths. In her view, social virtues were at the forefront; however, they were just a means to an end, which should never be overlooked. Her special mission was to refine crude behavior and poor morals while ensuring that talent received proper recognition, but she approached this in her own style. Generally speaking, it can be said that the French woman is much more focused on how something is done rather than what is done. In the early days of salons, she paid little attention, if any, to serious theories and social issues; instead, she was very invested in matters of taste and behavior, the nuances of language and literature, the subtleties of feelings, and the dignity of conversations between men and women. She didn’t approach these issues with an untrained mind. While she may not have prioritized improvement as much as we do today, she certainly didn’t neglect private study or reading high-quality books, which, although few, were of high quality. “Not having an appreciation for solid reading dulls the mind,” said Mme. de Sévigné, who enjoyed Montaigne, Pascal, Tacitus, and Vergil, among other classics that aren’t exactly light reading. These women didn’t always spell correctly and would have completely avoided writing essays on the[Pg 363] “Science of Government” or the “Philosophy of Confucius,”—topics that today’s schoolgirls feel perfectly capable of tackling—but they demonstrated remarkable clarity and insight in their critiques of literature and social behavior. The circles that gathered to hear Corneille appreciated the profound thoughts of Pascal and Arnauld, contributed to refining and polishing La Rochefoucauld's maxims—similar to how, a century or so later, discussions about the tragedies of Voltaire or the philosophy of Rousseau were held with brilliant minds that had little tolerance for clichés—they didn’t require any dumbing down to match their taste or understanding. They remained committed to high literary standards. All they wanted was straightforwardness in expression, which became fashionable and ultimately benefited French literature for the long term.

It is true that the movement of the salon was in the direction of a brilliant social as well as a brilliant intellectual life; but to fuse such varied materials, to unite men of action and men of letters, nobles and philosophers, statesmen and poets, people within the pale and people outside of it, in a harmonious society, presided over by women who set up new standards and new codes of manners, meant more than intelligence, more than social charm. It involved diplomacy of a high order, which implies flexibility, penetration, and the subtler qualities of the intellect, as well as tact, sympathy, and knowledge[Pg 364] of men. This was notably an outgrowth of the salon, where women owed much of their influence to a quick perception of the fine shades of temperament, genius, interest, and passion through which the world is swayed. The result of such training was a mind singularly lucid, great administrative ability, and a character full of the intangible quality that we call charm. If it was a trifle weak as to moral fiber, this may be largely laid to the standards of the time, which were not ours. Mme. du Deffand put the philosophy of her age and race into an epigram when she said that “the virtues are superior to the sentiments, but not so agreeable.” Both temperament and education led these women toward Hellenic ideals. The latter-day woman is inclined to look upon their methods as trivial and their attitude as humiliating; but, whatever we may think of their point of view, we must admit their masterly ability in making vital changes for the better, and attaining a position of influence which we have hardly yet secured for ourselves. They did much more than form society, create a code of manners, and set the fashions, which we are apt to look upon as their special province. They refined the language, stimulated talent, gave fresh life to literature, exacted a new respect for women, and held political as well as social and academic honors in their hands.

It’s true that the salon movement aimed for a vibrant social and intellectual life; but bringing together such diverse groups — men of action and writers, nobles and philosophers, statesmen and poets, those within the upper class and those outside of it — into a cohesive society, led by women who established new standards and manners, required more than just intelligence or social charm. It needed a high level of diplomacy, which means being adaptable, insightful, and possessing the subtler qualities of intellect, along with tact, empathy, and an understanding of people. This was particularly seen in the salon, where women gained much of their influence from quickly picking up on the subtle differences in temperament, talent, interests, and passions that sway the world. The outcome of this kind of training was a uniquely clear mind, significant administrative skills, and a personality filled with that elusive quality we call charm. If there was a slight lack of moral strength, it could largely be attributed to the standards of the time, which were different from ours. Mme. du Deffand summed up her era's philosophy in an epigram when she said, “the virtues are superior to the sentiments, but not as enjoyable.” Both temperament and upbringing led these women toward classical ideals. Today’s women might view their methods as trivial and their attitudes as demeaning; however, regardless of our opinions on their perspective, we must acknowledge their impressive skill in making important improvements and achieving a level of influence that we still struggle to attain. They did much more than just create a social scene, establish a code of manners, and set trends, which we often see as their domain. They refined language, encouraged talent, revitalized literature, demanded a greater respect for women, and held political, social, and academic honors in their grasp.

If they sometimes dipped into affairs of state in[Pg 365] support of their friends, and with a too incidental reference to the interests of the State, I am not sure that even the men of our own time are absolutely free from a personal tinge of the same sort, without the saving grace of altruism. At all events, in the pursuit of a better order of things, they took the pleasant path around the mountain rather than the doubtful and untrodden path over it, which, since they could not go over it if they tried, was, to my thinking, the wiser way.

If they occasionally got involved in political matters to help their friends, without really considering the State's interests, I’m not convinced that even people today are completely free from a personal bias of the same nature, lacking the redeeming quality of altruism. In any case, in their quest for a better system, they chose the easier route around the mountain instead of the uncertain and unexplored one over it, which, since they couldn't realistically go over it, seems to me to be the smarter choice.

III

But other times, other conditions and other methods. It was a long step from these fine ladies in rouge and ruffles to the earnest American women of high aims and simpler lives who, not far from thirty years ago, began seriously to group themselves in clubs for social fellowship and mental culture. The difference is equally marked, now that these gatherings are numbered by thousands. It is more vital than a variation in manners, as it lies in the character of the two races.

But at other times, under different conditions and using different methods. It was quite a leap from these elegant women in makeup and frills to the dedicated American women with ambitious goals and simpler lives who, nearly thirty years ago, began to come together in clubs focused on social connection and personal growth. The distinction is just as noticeable now that these gatherings number in the thousands. It’s more significant than just a change in behavior, as it reflects the character of the two groups.

The club had no prestige of a class behind it, and concerned itself little with traditions. It was a far more radical departure from the old order than the salon, which, though it established a new social basis, did it through delicate compromises that left the aristocratic spirit intact. It was only in its[Pg 366] later days that the iconoclasts invaded it, to some extent, and made it a sort of hotbed for the propagation of democratic theories which seemed quite harmless until, one day, a spark set them ablaze, and the generation that had played with them was swept to destruction. The club was democratic from the foundation. It did not revolve round men of letters, or men of any class. There was no man, or influence of man, behind it—no man in the vista. It does not aim to bring into relief the talents of men, but the talents of women who had come, perhaps, to wish a little glory on their own account. There was no longer an outlet for their activities in the salon, which belonged neither to the genius of the age nor the genius of the race. The Anglo-Saxon man is not preëminently a social being, and though he has not been entirely neglected in the matter of vanity or personal susceptibility, he has rather less of either than his Gallic compeers. Nor is he so amenable, either by temperament or training, to the delicate arts that make social life agreeable. Half a century or so ago, the American, in whose chivalrous regard for women we take so much pride, was in the habit of saying many fine things about them in what he was pleased to call the sphere God had assigned them; indeed, he went so far as to offer a great deal of theoretical incense to them as household divinities, with special and very human limitations as to privileges. But[Pg 367] he frowned distinctly upon any intellectual tastes or aspirations. His attitude was tersely and modestly expressed in Tennyson’s couplet:

The club had no prestigious class behind it and didn’t care much about traditions. It was a much more radical break from the old order than the salon, which, while creating a new social foundation, did so through careful compromises that kept the aristocratic spirit intact. It was only in its[Pg 366] later days that the iconoclasts began to influence it, turning it into a sort of hotbed for spreading democratic ideas that seemed harmless until, one day, a spark ignited them, and the generation that played with those ideas faced destruction. The club was democratic from the start. It didn't center around writers or any particular class. There was no man, or man's influence, behind it—no man in sight. It aimed to highlight the talents of women, who perhaps came hoping for a little glory for themselves. There was no longer a place for their activities in the salon, which did not reflect the genius of the age or the race. The Anglo-Saxon man isn’t primarily a social being, and while he hasn’t been entirely overlooked in terms of vanity or personal sensitivity, he generally has less of both than his Gallic counterparts. He’s also less inclined, either by nature or upbringing, to the subtle arts that make social life enjoyable. About half a century ago, the American, who prided himself on his chivalrous regard for women, often made lofty statements about them within what he considered the role God had given them; in fact, he seemed to offer quite a bit of theoretical admiration for them as household deities, though with specific and very human limits on their privileges. But[Pg 367] he clearly frowned upon any intellectual interests or ambitions. His view was succinctly and modestly expressed in Tennyson’s couplet:

She knows but matters of the house,
And he, he knows a thousand things.

She knows only about the house,
And he, he knows a thousand things.

This master of diverse knowledge would have smiled at the notion of finding either profit or amusement in meeting women for the purpose of conversation on the plane of the intellect. The few rare exceptions only emphasize this fact. “A woman, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can,” said Jane Austen. We are far from that time; but men of affairs even now find literary talks in the drawing-room tiresome, and persistently stay away. Thoughts, too, had become a commodity with a market value, and men of letters no longer found their pleasure or interest in wasting them on limited coteries. They preferred sending them out to a larger audience, at so much a page, while they smoked and chatted more at their ease among themselves at their clubs. Whether they did not find women inspiring,—which, under such conditions, is quite possible,—or did not care to be inspired in that way, the rôle of inspirer was clearly ended. The few efforts to take up the fallen scepter of the salon proved futile in intellectual prestige, though they may have served to while away some[Pg 368] pleasant hours. A society based upon wealth without the traditions of culture is apt to smother in accessories the delicacy of insight and the esprit which were the life of the salons. On the other hand, those who pose as apostles of plain living and high thinking make the mistake of ignoring the imagination altogether, and too often serve their feasts of reason without any sauces at all, which fact should probably be laid to the account of the race that takes its diversion as seriously as its work. After all, one cannot say “Let us have esprit,” and have it, any more than one can say, “Let us have charm,” and put it on like a garment.

This master of diverse knowledge would have found it amusing to think about gaining either profit or enjoyment from talking to women on an intellectual level. The few rare exceptions only highlight this point. “A woman, if she happens to know anything, should hide it as well as she can,” said Jane Austen. We are far from that era; yet even today, businessmen often find literary discussions in drawing rooms boring and tend to avoid them. Ideas have become a valuable commodity, and writers no longer enjoy wasting them on small circles. They prefer to share their thoughts with a larger audience for a fee per page while they smoke and relax among themselves at their clubs. Whether they don’t find women inspiring— which is quite possible under these conditions— or simply don’t want to be inspired that way, the role of inspirer is clearly over. The few attempts to revive the intellectual prestige of the salon have proven unsuccessful, even if they might have allowed for some pleasant hours to pass. A society based on wealth, lacking cultural traditions, tends to drown the subtleties of insight and the spirit that were once the essence of salons in sheer excess. Conversely, those who position themselves as champions of simple living and high thinking often overlook imagination entirely, serving their feasts of reason without any creativity, a tendency likely stemming from a society that treats its pastimes as seriously as its work. After all, one can’t just say “Let’s have spirit” and expect it to appear, any more than one can say, “Let’s have charm” and wear it like clothing.

But the women of forty or fifty years ago lacked much more than a social outlet for their talents and aspirations. They had no outlet of any sort beyond charity and the fireside. The Frenchwomen had little, if any, more real freedom, possibly not so much in some directions: but rank brought them deference and consideration; the age of chivalry had put them on a pedestal. It may have been a bit theoretical, but an illusory power is better than none at all, as it has a certain prestige. If they were queens without a very substantial kingdom, they had, at least, the privileges, as well as the responsibilities, of high positions, and shone with something more than reflected glory. Then their talents were too valuable to be ignored, as they were the best of purveyors to Gallic ambitions. The[Pg 369] Roman Church, too, was far-seeing when it provided an outlet for their surplus energies and emotions. If they had no fireside of their own, or the world pressed heavily upon them, they could retire from it, and hope for places of influence, even of power, in some of the various religious orders. In any case, there were peace and a dignified refuge. But it is a noteworthy fact that the Reformation left to women all the sacrifices of their religion, and none of its outward honors or consolations. If the philosophers had no message of freedom for them, still less was it found on Puritan soil. “Women are frail, impatient, feeble, and foolish,” said John Knox, who was far from being a model of patience himself, and seems to have been singularly swayed by these weak, inconsequent creatures above whom he asserts that man is placed “as God is above the angels.” Milton has left us in no doubt as to his position regarding them:

But the women of forty or fifty years ago lacked much more than a social outlet for their talents and dreams. They had no outlet at all beyond charity work and the home. Frenchwomen had little, if any, more real freedom, maybe even less in some respects; however, social rank brought them respect and recognition; the age of chivalry had elevated them. It may have been somewhat theoretical, but having an illusory power is better than having none at all, as it carries a certain prestige. Even if they were queens without a significant kingdom, they still enjoyed the privileges, as well as the responsibilities, of high status, and radiated something more than just reflected glory. Their abilities were too valuable to be overlooked since they were the best at feeding French ambitions. The[Pg 369] Roman Church also showed foresight by providing an outlet for their excess energies and emotions. If they had no home of their own, or the outside world weighed heavily on them, they could withdraw from it and aspire to positions of influence, even power, in various religious orders. In any case, there was peace and a dignified refuge. However, it is notable that the Reformation left women with all the sacrifices of their faith, but none of its outward honors or comforts. If philosophers had no message of freedom for them, it was even less evident on Puritan soil. “Women are frail, impatient, feeble, and foolish,” said John Knox, who was hardly a model of patience himself, and seemed particularly influenced by these weak, inconsequential beings above whom he claimed that man stands “as God is above the angels.” Milton has made his stance regarding them very clear:

My author and dispenser, what thou bidst
Unargued I obey: so God ordains;
God is thy law, thou mine: to know no more
Is woman’s happiest knowledge and her praise.

My author and giver, whatever you command
I follow without question: it’s how God intends;
God is your law, and you are mine: to know nothing more
Is a woman’s greatest wisdom and her honor.

Such was the Puritan gospel of liberty as applied to women. John Knox and Milton joined in the chorus that glorified their vassalage, while Calvin added a cordial refrain, with a prudent reservation as to queens and princesses.

Such was the Puritan message of freedom for women. John Knox and Milton echoed the idea that celebrated their subservience, while Calvin added a friendly note, with a careful exception for queens and princesses.

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It is needless to dwell upon this phase of a past the ideals of which are as dead to us as the goddesses of Greece and the heroines of the Nibelungenlied. It has been sufficiently emphasized already, and concerns us here only as it shows us the spirit under which our grandmothers were born and bred. It cannot be denied that they were a wise, strong race, rearing thinkers and statesmen who have left few worthy successors, though they did not spend much time in discussing the best methods of training children, were better versed in domestic than social economics, and doubtless had misty ideas about Buddhism and the ultimate destiny of Woman. It may be superfluous, also, to say that many of them had occasion to think little of their restrictions, and would have resented the suggestion that they had any which were not good for them, if not positively desirable. Limitations, even hardships, do not necessarily imply misery. People are curiously flexible, and get a sort of happiness from trying to fit themselves to conditions which, though unpleasant, are inevitable. Then, conditions are not always hard because they have unlimited possibilities in that direction. One may even wear a chain and ball quite comfortably so long as one stands still, or if the chain be a silken one and the ball cast in pleasant places. The difficulty is that one does not always wish to stand still; nor is it always possible, whatever the inclination[Pg 371] may be. The march of events is irresistible, and one is often forced to a change of position to escape being trampled upon. Besides, in a society that is based upon the right of people to do as they choose within certain very flexible limits, one half is not likely to continue to do, without a protest, what the other half says it ought to do, when it is compelled to take its full share of burdens and rather more than its full share of sacrifices, without any choice as to cakes and ale. These daughters of liberty held no longer the places of honor accorded to rank, and were not only without visible dignities of any kind, except as the palest of satellites, but were largely, if not altogether, excluded from the intellectual life of their husbands. They were told to be content with the dignity of maternity, while they were virtually shut out from the things that consecrate maternity. It was under such conditions that the woman’s club was born. Men had already set up clubs of their own, and women had no choice but to do the same thing, or drift into the hopeless position of their respectable Athenian sisters of the classic age, who lived in fashionable but ignorant seclusion, while their brilliant husbands sought more congenial companionship elsewhere.

It’s unnecessary to dwell on this phase of a past whose ideals are as irrelevant to us as the goddesses of Greece and the heroines of the Nibelungenlied. This has been adequately pointed out before and matters here only because it reveals the mindset under which our grandmothers were raised. There's no denying that they were a wise and strong generation, raising thinkers and leaders who have left few worthy successors. Although they didn’t spend much time discussing the best ways to raise children and were more familiar with domestic than social economics, they probably had vague ideas about Buddhism and the ultimate fate of women. It might also be redundant to say that many of them had little reason to worry about their limitations and would have resented the idea that any of these were not good for them, if not outright desirable. Limitations, even hardships, don’t automatically mean misery. People are surprisingly adaptable and find a kind of happiness in trying to adjust to conditions that, while uncomfortable, are unavoidable. Furthermore, conditions aren’t necessarily harsh just because they have endless possibilities in that direction. One can even wear a chain and ball quite comfortably as long as one stays still, or if the chain is silk and the ball rests in pleasant places. The challenge comes when one doesn’t always want to stay still; nor is it always possible, regardless of desire. The march of events is relentless, and one is often pushed to change their position to avoid being trampling. In a society built on the right of individuals to act freely within certain flexible limits, one group isn’t likely to keep doing what the other insists it should do, especially when it’s forced to carry equal burdens and more than its fair share of sacrifices, without any option for indulgences. These daughters of liberty no longer held the honorable positions assigned by social rank and were not only without any visible dignities, except as the faintest of satellites, but were also largely, if not completely, excluded from the intellectual life of their husbands. They were told to find contentment in the dignity of motherhood while being effectively shut out from everything that elevates motherhood. It was under such circumstances that the women’s club emerged. Men had already formed their own clubs, and women had no choice but to do the same or risk sliding into the hopeless situation of their respectable Athenian sisters of the classical age, who lived in fashionable but ignorant isolation while their brilliant husbands sought more appealing companionship elsewhere.

But women did not plan a club for amusement, as men have usually done: they planned it for mental improvement. It was not without a prophecy of the coming time that the characters of our grandmothers[Pg 372] were trained in so severe a school. They were the reverse of pleasure-loving, and took even their diversions seriously. The central point of their lives was an inexorable sense of duty. Its twin trait was energy. With a radical change of ideals their daughters did not lose these traits. A religious devotion to one set of aims was simply transferred to another. The road to their new Utopia was knowledge. All things would come in its train—culture, independence, happiness, the power to help a suffering world. It was this leaven of Puritan traditions which gave the club an element that was not found in the salon. The American woman may lack a little of that elusive quality, half sensibility, half wit, which makes so much of the Frenchwoman’s charm; she may lack, too, her perfection of tact, her inborn genius for form and measure: but she has what the Frenchwoman has not—something that belongs to a race in which the ethical overshadows the artistic. It is devotion to principles rather than to persons, to essentials rather than to forms. Her pursuit of knowledge may often be superficial, from the immensity of the field she lays out for herself; but her aims are serious, and lead her toward moral and sociological questions, rather than matters of sentiment and taste.

But women didn’t organize a club just for fun, like men typically have: they created it for mental growth. There was a hint of the future in how our grandmothers were raised in such a strict environment. They were the opposite of pleasure-seeking and approached their entertainment seriously. The core of their lives was a relentless sense of duty, paired with energy. Even with a significant shift in values, their daughters didn’t lose these qualities. Their passionate commitment to one set of goals simply shifted to another. The path to their new ideal was knowledge. Everything else would follow—culture, independence, happiness, the ability to help a suffering world. It was this influence of Puritan traditions that gave the club a quality not found in salons. The American woman might lack some of that elusive charm of the Frenchwoman, which is a mix of sensibility and wit; she may also miss the perfect tact and natural talent for style and balance that the Frenchwoman possesses. But she has something the Frenchwoman lacks—something inherent in a culture where ethics outweigh aesthetics. It’s a dedication to principles over people, to essentials over appearances. Her pursuit of knowledge may seem superficial at times, given the vast scope she sets for herself; however, her intentions are serious and direct her focus toward moral and social issues rather than just feelings and taste.

The woman’s club is not a school of manners, and concerns itself little with the fine art of living. It claims to instruct, not to amuse—or, rather, it seeks[Pg 373] amusement in that way; and it is more interested in doing things than in the modes of doing them. It does not rely upon diplomacy to gain its ends, but upon the wisdom and justice of the ends, appealing to the reason instead of the imagination. It also deals more with masses than with individuals. No doubt, the necessity of going outside the realm of personal feeling in managing public or semi-public affairs helps to give the poise and self-command which go far toward offsetting the intensity of temperament that has always made the discussion of vital questions so perilous in gatherings of women, though we have occasion enough to know that wisdom and sanity do not invariably preside at gatherings of men, even supposably wise ones. The qualities fostered by the club are energy, earnestness, independence, versatility, and—not exactly intellectual conscience, which implies traditional standards, but a sense of intellectual duty that is not quite the same thing. All this is remote from the spirit of the salon, with its social codes and conventions, its graceful amenities, its sparkling wit, its play of sentiment, its diplomatic reserves, and its clear intelligence working through endless private channels toward a new order of things. It points to the club, not as a conservator of social traditions, or a creator of social standards, or a tribunal of criticism, but as a literary and political training-school, a maker of citizens with a broader outlook into the[Pg 374] world of affairs, a powerful engine of moral force. Perhaps its greatest direct value at present lies in this moral force, which is the outgrowth of centuries of sternly moral heritage, and runs not only through philanthropic channels, but through all the avenues of life.

The women’s club isn’t a finishing school and doesn’t focus much on the art of living well. It claims to teach rather than entertain—or rather, it finds entertainment in teaching; it’s more focused on action than on how to take action. The club doesn’t rely on diplomacy to achieve its goals, but rather on the wisdom and fairness of those goals, appealing to reason instead of imagination. It deals more with groups than with individuals. Certainly, the need to step outside personal feelings when managing public or semi-public matters helps foster the composure and self-control that can balance the strong emotions that often make discussing important issues risky in women’s gatherings, although it’s clear that wisdom and sanity aren’t always present in men’s gatherings, even among those considered wise. The qualities promoted by the club are energy, seriousness, independence, flexibility, and—not quite intellectual conscience, which suggests traditional standards, but a sense of intellectual responsibility that isn’t exactly the same. This is far removed from the spirit of the salon, with its social norms and rules, its polite gestures, its witty dialogue, its emotional nuances, its diplomatic subtleties, and its sharp intelligence navigating numerous private channels toward a new social order. It refers to the club not as a protector of social customs, creator of social standards, or a critique forum, but as a literary and political training ground, shaping citizens with a broader understanding of the world around them—a powerful engine for moral strength. Its greatest value today may lie in this moral influence, which has developed over centuries of a strict moral legacy, flowing not just through charitable efforts but through every aspect of life.

Of scarcely less importance are the impulse and direction the club has given to the administrative talents of women—talents which mark their special strength, and are far too valuable to be ignored at a time when all the wisdom of the world is needed, in private as well as in public affairs, to guide it safely through its threatening storms.

Of almost equal importance is the motivation and guidance the club has provided to the administrative skills of women—skills that highlight their unique strengths and are way too valuable to overlook, especially now when we need all the wisdom we can get, in both personal and public matters, to navigate through the challenging times ahead.

IV

But it is of the intellectual and social value of the club that I wish more especially to speak here. It is often asked by thoughtful foreigners why American women, who are free to pursue any career they like, with ample privileges of education and the universal reign of the literary club, have produced no writers of the first order, measured even by the standards of their own sex. One finds many clever ones, and a few able ones, but no Jane Austen, no George Eliot, no Mme. de Staël, no Mrs. Browning. This may be partly due to the fact that we have not yet passed the period of going to school. It is possible that another generation, reared in the[Pg 375] stimulating atmosphere of this, may give us some rare flower of genius, if its mental force be not weakened by the general pouring-in process, or dissipated in the modern tendency toward limitless expansion and dilution. But club life in itself is not directly favorable to creative genius. The qualities of the imagination never flourish in crowds, though a certain order of talent does flourish there—a talent that brings quicker returns and more immediate consideration, at far less cost. The salon made brilliant and versatile women who were noted for conversation and diplomacy; it made charming women who ruled men and affairs through rare gifts of administration, tempered with intelligent sympathy and tact; it made executive women, and finely critical women, and masterful women, who left a strong and lasting impression upon the national life: but, though they lived in the main intellectual current of their time, stimulated and inspired its leaders, and had much to do with its direction, they seldom made a serious effort in literature themselves. The few who have left a name in letters only illustrate the fact that individual genius is a flower of another growth. Mme. de Staël would have been a great woman under any conditions; but we owe all of her best work in literature to her exile from the social life of Paris, where her thoughts had no time to crystallize. The gift of Mme. de Sévigné was nearly allied to a conversational[Pg 376] one, but her mind was matured and deepened during years of seclusion under the lonely skies of Brittany. Mme. de la Fayette left the world of the salons early, to find her literary inspiration in the solitude of ill health and the stimulating friendship of La Rochefoucauld. Mme. du Châtelet, whose talent was of another color, wrote on philosophy and translated Newton, not in the breezy air of the salons, but in the tranquil shades of Cirey and the less tranquil society of Voltaire. There were other women who wrote, though they usually chose to hide a light which was not a very brilliant one, and to shine in other ways. It may be that it was the salon which made these women possible, as it created an intellectual atmosphere in which thought blossomed into intense and vivid life; but its direct tendency was to foster in women talents of a quite different sort from creative ones. It developed to a high degree, however, the fine discrimination and critical sense which led Rousseau to say that “a point of morals would not be better discussed in a society of philosophers than in that of a pretty woman of Paris.”

But I want to focus specifically on the intellectual and social value of the club here. Thoughtful foreigners often ask why American women, who have the freedom to pursue any career they want, enjoy ample educational opportunities, and engage widely in literary clubs, have not produced any first-rate writers, even by their own standards. There are many clever writers and a few capable ones, but no Jane Austen, no George Eliot, no Mme. de Staël, no Mrs. Browning. This might partly be because we haven't yet moved past the period of schooling. It's possible that another generation, raised in the stimulating environment of this club, may yield some rare genius—if their mental strength isn’t diluted by the general influx of ideas or scattered by the modern trend of endless expansion and dilution. However, club life itself doesn’t significantly encourage creative genius. Imagination doesn’t thrive in large crowds, although a certain type of talent does—one that yields quicker results and more immediate recognition at much lower cost. The salon produced brilliant and versatile women noted for their conversation and diplomacy; it created charming women who dominated men and events through exceptional administrative skills combined with thoughtful empathy and tact; it fostered executive women, insightful critics, and strong-willed women who made a lasting impact on national life. Yet, while they were part of the main intellectual currents of their time, inspired its leaders, and influenced its direction, they rarely made a genuine effort in literature. The few women who have made a name in letters only highlight the fact that true individual genius is of a different kind. Mme. de Staël would have been remarkable under any circumstances, but we owe her best literary work to her exile from Parisian social life, where her thoughts could barely take shape. Mme. de Sévigné's talent was closely tied to her conversational skills, but her mind matured and deepened through years of solitude in Brittany. Mme. de la Fayette distanced herself from salon life early on, finding literary inspiration in the solitude of ill health and the stimulating friendship of La Rochefoucauld. Mme. du Châtelet, whose talent was more philosophical, wrote on philosophy and translated Newton, not in the lively atmosphere of salons but in the tranquil settings of Cirey and in the more restless company of Voltaire. Other women wrote as well, often choosing to downplay their light, which wasn’t always very bright, and to shine in different ways. The salon may have made these women possible by creating an intellectual atmosphere where ideas could flourish, but its direct effect was to nurture talents in women that were quite different from creative ones. It certainly developed fine discrimination and critical sense to such a degree that Rousseau remarked, “A point of morals would not be better discussed in a society of philosophers than in that of a pretty woman of Paris.”

The clubs have hardly lived long enough to justify a final judgment as to their outcome; but the best writers of our own time have not been, as a rule, actively identified with them, though a few, whose minds were already formed in another school, have had much to do in founding and leading them.[Pg 377] The many able women who have given their time and talents to the clubs have oftener merged their literary gifts, if they had them, into work of another sort, not less valuable in its way, but less tangible and less individual. It is the work of the general, who plans, organizes, sifts values, adapts means to definite ends, but who lives too much in the swift current of affairs to give heed to the voice of the imagination, or to master the art of literary form which alone makes for thought a permanent abiding-place.

The clubs haven't been around long enough to make a final judgment on their results; however, the best writers of our time haven't really been actively involved with them. A few who were already shaped by a different background have played significant roles in starting and leading these clubs.[Pg 377] Many talented women who have dedicated their time and skills to the clubs often combined their literary talents, if they had any, with other types of work that are valuable in their own way, but are less tangible and less personal. It resembles the work of a general who plans, organizes, evaluates values, and adapts resources to specific goals, but who gets too caught up in the fast pace of life to pay attention to the imagination or to master the art of literary form, which is what truly creates a lasting space for thought.

But if the clubs do not produce great creative writers,—who, after all, are born, not made,—they furnish a multitude of ready ones, and an army of readers who are likely to have a dominant voice in the taste of the next generation. The result is certain to be—indeed, is already—a voluminous literature. The quantity of a thing, however, does not insure its fine quality; oftener the reverse. Naturally, the question of standards becomes one of grave importance, unless we are ready to accept the rule of the average, which more than offsets the rise of the lowest by the fall of the highest, with an ultimate tendency downward. We grow in the direction of our ideals, and these are measured by the height of our standards. That many of the clubs have exalted ideals, and are doing a great deal of valuable work, is not a matter of doubt. It is equally certain that some of them work with a zeal[Pg 378] that is not according to knowledge, through lack of capable leaders, and through a fallacy, nowhere so fatal as in art and letters, that the wish to do a thing is equivalent to a talent for doing it.

But if the clubs don't produce outstanding creative writers—who, after all, are born, not made—they do provide a lot of skilled ones, along with an army of readers who are likely to shape the tastes of the next generation. The outcome is bound to be—indeed, it already is—a massive body of literature. However, just because there's a lot of something doesn't mean it's of high quality; often, it's the opposite. Naturally, the question of standards becomes really important, unless we’re okay with letting average define things, which tends to lower the bar overall. We move towards our ideals, and those are defined by how high our standards are. It’s clear that many of the clubs have high ideals and are doing significant work. It's also clear that some of them operate with enthusiasm that doesn't match their knowledge, due to a lack of capable leaders, and a dangerous misconception that simply wanting to do something means you have the talent to do it.

There is no doubt that American women read and discuss books enough. It may be that we read too many. One may devour books as one does bonbons, and with little more profit. Nor is there any doubt that we write papers enough and hear talks enough on every imaginable subject, from the antediluvians to Imperialism and the Chinese question. To whatever all this mental activity may lead, it does not always lead to culture, even of the mind, and I take the word, unqualified, to include much more. It does lead to a broad diffusion of intelligence, but there is an essential difference between intelligence and culture. Paradoxical as it may seem, it is quite possible, in running after the one, to run away from the other. The woman who belongs to ten or twelve clubs in order to be of the new age, and to learn enough of all sorts of things to be able to talk about them, may find her social compensation and a harmless way of amusing herself, if she likes that sort of amusement; but if she aims at mental culture, that is another affair. It is not a matter of facts and phrases and formulas that one goes in search of, but an inward growth, the result of long and loving companionship with the best thought of the world, which is not at all the[Pg 379] same thing as a flitting acquaintance with a multitude of subjects, or the ability to talk glib platitudes about the latest fads in art or science or literature. Such companionship is found to only a limited extent in gatherings of any sort; but stimulus and inspiration may be found there, and here lies the true intellectual value of the club. To thoughtful and sincere women, who have a certain amount of training and natural gifts of assimilation, with small facilities for contact with the thinking world, it is a priceless boon. But to narrow and untrained intellects that like to flit from one thing to another, content with a flying glimpse and a telling point or two which will go far toward making them seem wise to the uninitiated, there are large possibilities in the way of what we may call imitation culture. It is simply another outlet for the ambition of the parvenu who puts on costly clothes and rare jewels in the comfortable assurance that “fine feathers make fine birds.”

There’s no doubt that American women read and discuss books a lot. It might even be that we read too many. One can consume books like candy, with little more benefit. And there’s also no doubt that we write enough papers and attend enough talks on every topic imaginable, from ancient times to Imperialism and the Chinese question. While all this mental activity might lead somewhere, it doesn’t always lead to true culture, which I’m using here to mean much more than just intellectual engagement. It leads to a broad spread of knowledge, but there’s an important distinction between knowledge and culture. Paradoxically, while pursuing one, you might end up turning away from the other. A woman who belongs to ten or twelve clubs to keep up with the times and learn about a variety of topics in order to discuss them may find social fulfillment and a harmless way to entertain herself if that’s what she enjoys; but if she’s aiming for mental culture, that's a different matter. It’s not about gathering facts, phrases, or formulas; it’s about inner growth that comes from a deep and loving connection with the best thinking in the world, which is not at all the same as having a fleeting acquaintance with many subjects or being able to spout trendy ideas about the latest developments in art, science, or literature. Such deep engagement is found only to a limited extent in any gatherings, but they can provide stimulus and inspiration, which is where the true intellectual value of a club lies. For thoughtful and sincere women, who have some education and a natural ability to absorb ideas but limited ways to interact with the intellectual world, it’s an invaluable opportunity. However, for narrow and untrained minds that flit from one topic to another, satisfied with a quick overview and a few catchy points that make them seem wise to the inexperienced, there are significant possibilities for what we might call imitation culture. It’s just another way for those who are new to privilege to show off, dressing in expensive clothes and rare jewels with the comfortable belief that “fine feathers make fine birds.”

V

It will, I think, be conceded that the special distinction of the American woman does not lie in her intellect or her learning. Brilliant gifts and attainments, to a certain point, may indeed be exceptionally frequent; but they have often been equaled, if not exceeded, in the past. It lies, rather, in her facility for utilizing knowledge and adapting it to[Pg 380] visible ends. To a combination of many talents has been added one to make them all available. It is essentially a talent for “arriving,” in other words, a talent for success, either with or without intellectual ability of a high order, and consists largely in a keen insight as to serviceable values, with a marked aptness for catching salient points and using them to the best advantage. It is a variation of the same talent that has made our country the wonder of the century. In men we call it business sagacity, but it may find an outlet in many other channels besides the amassing of fortunes. In women we call it cleverness, and its shades are endless. It makes the success of the philanthropist, the leader, and the administrator of the household, as well as the fortune of the social aspirant, and sometimes of the charlatan. In itself it has no ethical quality. It is simply an instrument, and its value depends upon the end for which it is used. But the result of it is that no women in the world have so much versatility, or make a little knowledge go so far.

I think it’s generally accepted that the unique quality of the American woman isn’t found in her intellect or education. While impressive abilities and achievements may be fairly common to some extent, they've often been matched, if not surpassed, in the past. What truly sets her apart is her ability to use knowledge and adapt it to practical purposes. She has a combination of many talents, along with an additional skill that makes them all useful. It’s essentially a knack for “arriving,” or in other words, a talent for success, whether or not it involves high-level intellectual ability. It mostly consists of a sharp understanding of what is valuable, with a strong ability to grasp key points and leverage them to their fullest advantage. This same skill has contributed to making our country the marvel of the century. In men, we refer to this as business savvy, but it can be expressed in many ways beyond just accumulating wealth. In women, we call it cleverness, and its variations are countless. It contributes to the success of philanthropists, leaders, and household managers, as well as the fortunes of social climbers, and sometimes even frauds. It has no moral quality on its own; it’s merely a tool, and its worth is determined by the purpose for which it’s used. As a result, no other women in the world possess such versatility, or make a small amount of knowledge stretch so far.

On the social side this talent is invaluable, and it is one of the most piquant charms of the American woman, when the sharp corners of provincialism are rubbed off. On the intellectual side, however, though it gives an adaptable quality to genuine scholarship, it drifts easily into superficiality and affectation. I do not mean to say that the club is responsible for the fact that a hundred charlatans[Pg 381] follow in the wake of every real talent, as a hundred Tartufes in the wake of every saint—when saints are in fashion; but it is responsible when it takes a bit of colored glass for a gem. It is sure, also, to suffer from the pretension of those who illy represent it. The salon, which made things of the intellect a fashion, received its worst blow in the house of its friends. Madelon, in “Les Précieuses Ridicules,” looked upon life as a failure if she chanced to miss the last romance, or portrait, or madrigal, or sonnet; and Cathos declared that she should die of shame if any one asked her about something new which she had not seen. The pen of Molière sketched the crude copy of a fine thing in colors too vivid to be mistaken, and henceforth the copy stood for the thing. The world had its undiscriminating laugh at the salons; good taste blushed at the company in which it found itself; and the interests of intelligent women were put back for a generation. It was not the first time that a good cause has suffered from its too zealous followers, nor is it likely to be the last. The world moves in circles, even if there be a spiral tendency upward, as the optimists amiably assure us.

On the social side, this talent is incredibly valuable, and it’s one of the most appealing qualities of American women, especially when the rough edges of provincialism are smoothed out. However, on the intellectual side, while it adds a flexible quality to real scholarship, it can easily slip into superficiality and pretentiousness. I’m not saying that the club is to blame for the fact that a hundred frauds follow every real talent, like a hundred Tartufes trailing behind every saint—especially when saints are trendy; but it *is* responsible when it mistakes a piece of colored glass for a gem. It will also inevitably suffer from the pretentiousness of those who poorly represent it. The salon, which transformed intellectual pursuits into a trend, got hit hardest by its own friends. Madelon from “Les Précieuses Ridicules” viewed her life as a failure if she missed the latest romance, portrait, madrigal, or sonnet; and Cathos claimed she would die of embarrassment if anyone asked her about something new she hadn’t seen. Molière's pen painted a vivid caricature of something refined, and from then on, the copy became synonymous with the original. The world laughed indiscriminately at the salons; good taste was embarrassed by the company it found itself in; and the interests of intelligent women were set back for a generation. This isn’t the first time a good cause has suffered because of its overly passionate supporters, and it probably won’t be the last. The world moves in circles, even if there’s a general upward trend, as optimists kindly assure us.

Doubtless we fancy ourselves much wiser than those seventeenth-century précieuses whose imitators did them so much harm. Certainly we put more seriousness into our pretensions. But we have our own little faults and affectations, though[Pg 382] they are not precisely the same. We do not devote ourselves to portraits, or sonnets, or madrigals. We do not moralize in maxims, good or bad, nor do we pretend to be sentimental; indeed, we pretend not to be, if we are. Sentiment is out of fashion. The modern Philaminte may look with chilling pity upon her belated sister who has the courage to like Tennyson and Mrs. Browning, when she ought to prefer Ibsen and the symbolists; but she is not likely to faint at a common word, or dismiss her cook for a solecism. Our foibles are of quite another sort. Instead of painting little pictures on a small canvas, we take a very large canvas and pad our pictures to fit it. We do not map out the passions on a carte du tendre, or give our valuable time to the discussion of a high-flown Platonism which cradles a woman in rose-leaves, while her lover waits for her a dozen years or so because it is vulgar to marry; but we map out the fields of the intellect, extending from protoplasm to the fixed stars, and undertake to traverse the whole as confidently as we start for a morning walk. If we cannot get over the ground fast enough, we can take an electric train and catch flying glimpses sufficient to give us a pleasant consciousness of being intelligent and quite modern.

No doubt we think we’re much smarter than those 17th-century précieuses whose imitators caused them a lot of trouble. We definitely take our pretensions more seriously. But we have our own little flaws and quirks, even if they’re not exactly the same. We don’t dedicate ourselves to portraits, sonnets, or madrigals. We don’t moralize in maxims, whether good or bad, nor do we pretend to be sentimental; in fact, we act like we’re not, even if we are. Sentiment isn’t in style anymore. The modern Philaminte might look at her outdated sister with icy pity for daring to like Tennyson and Mrs. Browning when she should prefer Ibsen and the symbolists; however, she’s not likely to swoon over a common word or fire her cook for a grammatical mistake. Our quirks are quite different. Instead of creating small paintings on tiny canvases, we use large canvases and pad our pictures to fit. We don’t outline passions on a carte du tendre, nor do we waste our precious time discussing some lofty Platonism that treats a woman like a delicate flower while her lover waits for her for a decade because it’s not classy to marry; instead, we chart the fields of intellect, ranging from protoplasm to the fixed stars, and set out to explore the whole thing as casually as if we were heading out for a morning walk. If we can’t cover the distance quickly enough, we can hop on an electric train and catch fleeting glimpses just enough to feel smart and modern.

Such vast aims are, no doubt, praiseworthy, and reflect great credit on the clubs which have demonstrated so clearly the expansive quality of the[Pg 383] feminine mind; but they are also fatiguing, and suggest the possibility that these same clubs are pushing us a little too fast and too far. One is often forced to the conclusion that we should do more if we did not try to do quite so much. It is very well to follow Emerson’s advice to “hitch your wagon to a star”; but he never proposed hitching it to all the constellations at once. When I hear the Greek poets, the Italian painters, the English novelists, and the German masters disposed of at a symposium in a single afternoon, as I did not long ago, I wonder if the rare quality of mental distinction which made the glory of the Immortals will exist at all in the future; whether we shall not build tents for our thoughts instead of temples; whether, indeed, the finest flavor of thought will not be as hopelessly lost as the perfume of the flowers that are scattered in indiscriminate heaps along the highways to show their quantity.

Such ambitious goals are definitely commendable and reflect well on the clubs that have shown the expansive nature of the[Pg 383] female mind; however, they can also be exhausting and hint that these clubs might be pushing us a bit too quickly and too far. It’s often clear that we could achieve more if we didn’t try to do so much at once. It’s great to follow Emerson’s advice to “hitch your wagon to a star,” but he never suggested hitching it to all the constellations at the same time. When I recently heard about Greek poets, Italian painters, English novelists, and German masters being discussed at a symposium all in one afternoon, I couldn’t help but wonder if the unique quality of mental distinction that defined the greatness of the Immortals will even exist in the future; if we won’t end up creating tents for our thoughts instead of temples; if, in fact, the deepest essence of thought will be as completely lost as the fragrance of flowers scattered in random piles along the roads just to show their quantity.

Nor is there less danger in attempting too large things than too many things. It is certainly courageous for a woman who knows little of history, less of philosophy, and nothing at all about the art of writing, to undertake the Herculean task of preparing a paper on “The Pagan Philosophers and their Schools.” With the best efforts, she will have only a few outlines of facts and second-hand opinions, which might have a certain value if either she or her audience proposed to fill them out. But[Pg 384] this is precisely what the modern woman who wishes to know a little of everything has no time to do, even if she have the inclination. There is to be a similar outline of Greek literature the next week, one of the middle ages the week after, and so on to the end of the season, when she has a fine collection of skeletons, with no flesh and blood on any of them, if, indeed, the skeletons themselves have not vanished into thin air. The Forty Immortals would shrink with dismay from the magnitude of such a scheme. The worst of it is that one comes to have a false sense of perspective, and to judge works of the intellect by their size instead of their quality—like the pretentious but ignorant woman who gravely remarked, after hearing a brilliant talk from a brilliant man on Irish wit, that she “did not find it very improving.” There is, too, the natural result of calling things by the wrong names, and mistaking the thinnest of veneering for culture.

There's just as much danger in trying to do too much as there is in trying to do things that are too big. It's definitely brave for a woman who knows little about history, even less about philosophy, and nothing at all about writing, to take on the huge task of writing a paper on “The Pagan Philosophers and their Schools.” No matter how hard she tries, she’ll only end up with a few outlines of facts and secondhand opinions, which could be somewhat valuable if she or her audience had the time to elaborate on them. But[Pg 384] that’s exactly what modern women, who want to know a little about everything, don’t have time for, even if they feel like doing it. There’s going to be a similar overview of Greek literature next week, then one on the Middle Ages the following week, and so on until the end of the season, leaving her with a nice collection of outlines, with no depth to any of them, if those outlines haven’t simply disappeared altogether. The Forty Immortals would be horrified by the scale of such a plan. The worst part is that it leads to a distorted view, where one evaluates intellectual work by its size rather than its quality—like the pretentious but clueless woman who seriously said, after hearing a brilliant talk from a brilliant man on Irish wit, that she “did not find it very improving.” There’s also the natural consequence of mislabeling things and mistaking the thinnest veneer for real culture.

It is by no means necessary, or even desirable, that every woman belonging to a club should be a savante; indeed, considering the number of the clubs, I am not sure that this would not bring about a more deplorable state of affairs than if there were none at all. It may even be better for the average woman to know a little about many things than all about one thing, if she has a certain discrimination as to values, and the fine sense of proportion[Pg 385] which is the result of more or less mental training. But it is desirable that each one should have at least a little knowledge of what she undertakes to write or talk about. Why a woman who might have something to say concerning certain phases of our colonial life should be asked to write a paper on Greek art, of which she has not even read, much less thought, or one who is more or less familiar with various pleasant corners of English literature should be called upon to entertain her hearers on the Italian Renaissance, of which she knows nothing whatever, is one of the mysteries of the new era. “I am so glad to see you,” said one woman to a friend whom she met on the street. “I have a paper to write on the symbolists. You know all about such things. What are the symbolists, anyway?” We are told that when the blind lead the blind, both are likely to come to grief. It is needless to say that these faults are not universal, as there is a great deal of careful study and fine thought in the clubs, but they are sufficiently common to be noted among things to be avoided.

It’s definitely not necessary, or even a good idea, for every woman in a club to be an expert; in fact, given the number of clubs, I’m not sure that would lead to a better situation than if there were none at all. It might even be more beneficial for the average woman to know a bit about a lot of subjects rather than know everything about just one, as long as she has some ability to gauge value and a good sense of balance that comes from a decent amount of mental training. However, it is important for everyone to have at least some knowledge about what they’re writing or talking about. Why would a woman with insights on certain aspects of our colonial life be asked to write a paper on Greek art, of which she hasn't even read about, let alone thought? Or why would someone somewhat familiar with various nice parts of English literature be called upon to engage her audience with the Italian Renaissance, which she knows nothing about? That’s one of the mysteries of this new era. “I’m so glad to see you,” one woman said to a friend she met on the street. “I have a paper to write on the symbolists. You know all about that stuff. What exactly are the symbolists?” We’ve been told that when the blind lead the blind, both are likely to stumble. It goes without saying that these issues aren’t universal, as there’s a lot of careful study and thoughtful insight in the clubs, but they are common enough to be recognized as things to avoid.

A still more serious danger lies in the endless multiplication of clubs, which offers an irresistible temptation to those who like to cull a little here, and a little there, without too exacting effort in any direction. They may all be valuable in themselves, but because it is good to belong to one or[Pg 386] two active clubs of different aims, it does not follow that it is good to belong to a dozen; and I know of a woman who claims with pride that she belongs to twenty-two! “Moderation is the charm of life,” said Jean Paul, and one sees with regret how little of that sort of charm there is left; indeed, I am not sure that it has not ceased to be considered a charm. We may find a note of warning in the later days of the great salons. The social life of the eighteenth century reads like a page of our own, with its whirl of conversazioni, its talks on science, its experiments in chemistry, physiology, psychology, its mania for discussing literature, art, and philosophy. The literary salons had blossomed into great centers of intellectual brilliancy, of which all this life was the natural pendant. It was the fashion then, as now, for women to concern themselves with affairs of state; to talk of the rights of man, though they had less to say than we have about the rights of woman; to dream of a social millennium, which they were doomed to wade through rivers of blood without reaching. They too invaded the secrets of the laboratory, and even the surgeon’s domain. We hear of a young countess who carried a skeleton in her trunk when she went on a journey, “as one might carry a book to read,” in order to study anatomy. These women, like ourselves, aimed to know a little of everything. They too were fired with the passion[Pg 387] for intelligence and the passion for multitudes. With the craving for novelties came the ever-growing need of a stronger spice to make them palatable. In this carnival of the mind they lost their faith and simplicity, loved with their brains instead of their hearts, forgot their natural duties, and found natural ties irksome. Longing for rest without the power to rest, they suffered from maladies of the nerves, and were devoured with the ennui of exhaustion. Life lost its equilibrium, and the result was inevitable. The reaction from the restlessness of an intellect that is not fed from inner sources, but finds its stimulus and theater alike in the world, was toward an exaggeration of the sensibilities. “If I could become calm, I should believe myself on a wheel,” said one whose brilliancy had dazzled a generation. This fatal “too much” was not the least of the causes that lost to women the empire they had won. All movements are measured, in the end, by a standard of common sense, and reactions are in proportion to the deviation from a just mean. The revolution which brought liberty to men, or at least shifted the burdens to some one else, deprived women of what they had. They were forbidden to organize, and sent back to the fireside and cradles. The republic swept away from them the last vestige of political power, and gave them nothing in the place of their lost social kingdom. They were forced to[Pg 388] speak with hushed voices in hidden coteries. Of these there were always a few, but their prestige was gone. “There is one thing which is not French,” said Napoleon; “it is that a woman can do as she pleases.” And he proceeded straightway to give point to his theory by exiling the ablest woman in France and silencing all the rest.

A more serious danger comes from the endless growth of clubs, which creates an irresistible temptation for those who want to pick a little here and a little there without putting in much effort. Each club may have its own value, but while it’s beneficial to be part of one or two active clubs with different goals, it doesn’t mean it’s good to be part of a dozen. I know a woman who proudly claims to belong to twenty-two! “Moderation is the charm of life,” said Jean Paul, and it’s regrettable to see how little of that charm remains; in fact, I’m not even sure it’s still seen as a charm. We can find a warning sign in the later days of the great salons. The social life of the eighteenth century reads like a page from our own, with its whirlwind of conversations, discussions on science, experiments in chemistry, physiology, and psychology, and a mania for talking about literature, art, and philosophy. The literary salons had transformed into major hubs of intellectual brilliance, naturally tied to this vibrant life. It was fashionable then, just like now, for women to engage in state affairs, to discuss the rights of man, though they had less to say about the rights of women than we do; to dream of a social utopia that they were meant to navigate through rivers of blood without ever reaching. They too delved into the secrets of the laboratory and even the surgeon’s domain. We hear of a young countess who carried a skeleton in her trunk while traveling, “just like one might carry a book to read,” in order to study anatomy. These women, like us, sought to know a little about everything. They were just as driven by a passion for knowledge and a thirst for new experiences. With the constant craving for novelty came the ever-increasing need for stronger stimulation to make it exciting. In this mental carnival, they lost their faith and simplicity, thought with their minds instead of their hearts, forgot their natural responsibilities, and found their natural connections burdensome. Desiring rest without the ability to achieve it, they suffered from nerve-related issues and were overwhelmed by the boredom of exhaustion. Life lost its balance, and the outcome was inevitable. The reaction to the restless intellect that isn't nourished from within but finds its inspiration and stage in the world led to an exaggeration of the senses. “If I could become calm, I would feel like I was on a wheel,” said someone whose brilliance had dazzled a generation. This fatal “too much” was a significant reason women lost the power they had gained. All movements are ultimately measured by a standard of common sense, and reactions correlate to how far they stray from a reasonable middle ground. The revolution that granted liberty to men, or at least shifted the burdens onto someone else, stripped women of what they had. They were barred from organizing and sent back to the home and to child-rearing. The republic took away the last remnants of their political power and offered nothing in place of their lost social influence. They were forced to speak in hushed tones in secret gatherings. There were always a few of these, but their prestige had vanished. “There is one thing that is not French,” said Napoleon; “it's that a woman can do as she pleases.” And he immediately emphasized his point by exiling the most capable woman in France and silencing all the others.

We are apt to take high moral ground on the frivolity of these women, and to pride ourselves on our superiority because we have such a serious way of amusing ourselves—so serious, indeed, that we forget there can be anything so questionable as frivolity about it. To be sure, the clubs are free from many of the faults of the salons. They do not put social conventions in the place of principles, nor substitute an esthetic conscience for an ethical one; nor do they drift at all in the direction of moral laxity. A movement of the intellect, too, which has its roots in the character is more likely to last than one that hangs on the suffrage of those it was meant to please and glorify. But we have the same mental unrest, the same thirst for excitement, the same feverish activity, the same indisposition to stay at home with our thoughts. A fever of the intellect may be preferable to a fever of the senses, and less harmful as an epidemic, but it tends equally toward exhaustion and disintegration. It is not so much a question of morals as a question of balance. The modern fashion, however, of doing[Pg 389] everything, even to thinking, in masses, is not altogether due to a fever of the intellect, any more than it was a hundred years ago. Much of it is doubtless due to a genuine love of knowledge, much of it to a haunting desire to be doing something in the outside world, though the thing done be possibly not at all worth the doing; but a great deal of it is due to a sort of hyperæsthesia of the social sentiment, or the mental restlessness that betrays a lack of poise and depth in the character. We call it the spirit of the age—the innocent phantom which has to bear the burden of most of our sins, and is gathering so resistless a force that the strongest and wisest are swept along, despite themselves, in its accelerating course. But the spirit of the age is only the sum of individual forces. It needs only a sufficient number of wise counter-forces to temper and modify it.

We tend to look down on the silliness of these women and feel proud of our superiority because we have such a serious way of having fun—so serious, in fact, that we forget that there can be anything questionable about it. Sure, the clubs don’t have many of the flaws of the salons. They don’t replace principles with social conventions or swap an aesthetic conscience for an ethical one; nor do they really lean toward moral looseness. An intellectual movement that comes from character is more likely to endure than one that relies on the approval of the very people it was meant to please and glorify. But we still experience the same mental unease, the same craving for excitement, the same frenzied activity, and the same unwillingness to sit quietly with our thoughts. An intellectual fever might be better than a sensory one and less harmful as an epidemic, but it still leads to exhaustion and fragmentation. This isn’t just a moral issue; it’s about finding balance. The modern trend of doing everything, even thinking, en masse isn’t entirely the result of an intellectual fever, just as it wasn’t a hundred years ago. Much of it is certainly driven by a genuine love for knowledge, and much of it comes from a pressing desire to be active in the outside world, even if what we're doing isn't really worthwhile; but a big part of it stems from a kind of hypersensitivity to social feelings, or the mental restlessness that shows a lack of stability and depth in character. We call it the spirit of the age—the innocent phantom that has to bear the burden of many of our failings, and it’s gaining such unstoppable momentum that even the strongest and wisest among us are swept along, despite our better judgment. But the spirit of the age is just the sum of individual forces. It only takes enough wise counterforces to balance and shape it.

VI

A word as to another phase of the club. We have seen that the salons broke through the exclusive lines of rank, and created a society based largely upon standards of the intellect, with a meeting-point of good manners. The woman’s club has done a similar work toward preventing the crystallization of American society on the basis of wealth. Its standards are professedly of the mind, though they are flexible enough to include a wide range of[Pg 390] ability, aspiration, and small distinctions of various sorts. It would be too much to say that these elements are fused into anything like a homogeneous society; but they have a recognized point of contact that suffices for literary or charitable aims, though not altogether for social ones, which demand the larger contact of personal sympathies, and a certain community of language that comes within the province of manners. The salons, however, were wise enough to establish and maintain the social equilibrium between men and women, while the clubs seem to be rapidly destroying it. Outside of a limited dinner-giving, amusement-loving circle, it is undeniable that our social life is centering largely in clubs composed exclusively of women, whose tastes are diverging more and more from those of men, and in the functions growing out of them. To these we may add a few receptions with a sprinkling of men, and an endless procession of teas and luncheons with no men at all. Private entertaining of a general character, with its varying flavor of individuality, seems likely, with many other pleasant things, to become a memory. If these clubs grew out of a state of affairs in which women were virtually excluded from the intellectual life of men, we are fast drifting toward the reverse condition, in which men will have no part in the intellectual and very little in the social life of women.

A word about another aspect of the club. We've seen that salons broke through strict social rankings and created a society based mainly on intellectual standards, with an emphasis on good manners. The women’s club has done something similar by preventing the solidifying of American society around wealth. Its standards are openly focused on the mind, though they are flexible enough to accommodate a wide range of abilities, aspirations, and various small distinctions. It would be too much to say that these elements come together to form a cohesive society; however, they share a common point of connection that is enough for literary or charitable objectives, though not quite enough for social ones, which require a broader connection based on personal sympathies and a certain shared language that falls under the category of manners. The salons were smart enough to establish and maintain social balance between men and women, while the clubs seem to be quickly disrupting it. Outside of a limited circle that enjoys dinner parties and entertainment, it’s clear that our social life is increasingly focused on clubs made up exclusively of women, whose interests are diverging more and more from those of men, along with the events that arise from them. To this, we can add a few receptions with a handful of men, and an endless series of teas and luncheons that involve no men at all. Private social gatherings, with their unique touch of individuality, seem likely to become a thing of the past, along with many other enjoyable experiences. If these clubs emerged from a time when women were largely excluded from men’s intellectual life, we are quickly moving toward a situation where men will have no role in the intellectual and very little in the social lives of women.

Whether this marked separation of interests beyond[Pg 391] a reasonable point be for the good of either men or women, is a matter of grave doubt. It is certain that women who are brought into frequent contact with the minds of men think more clearly and definitely, look at things in a larger way, and do a finer quality of intellectual work, than those who have been limited mainly to the companionship of their own sex. Societies of women are apt to fail in breadth through too much attention to technicalities out of season, to sacrifice the greater good to personal prejudices, to emphasize a little brief authority, to grow hard rather than strong, to become carping and critical without the clearness of vision that gives a rational basis for criticism. Nor does the fact that a great many women are superior to these limitations, and that men are not invariably free from them, affect the general drift of things. On the other side, it is equally true that men have done the greatest work under the influence of able women, from the days of Pericles and the great Greeks who found a fresh inspiration in the salon of Aspasia, to the brilliant men of modern times, too numerous to cite here, who have not failed to acknowledge their debt to feminine judgment and criticism. Men, too, are naturally averse to the trammels of form, and, left to themselves, rapidly lose the refinement and courtesy that came in with the social reign of women. While the best of each is drawn out[Pg 392] through social contact on the plane of the intellect, the worst is accented by separation.

Whether this clear separation of interests beyond[Pg 391] a reasonable point is beneficial for either men or women is highly questionable. It's clear that women who frequently engage with men tend to think more clearly and specifically, see things from a broader perspective, and produce higher-quality intellectual work than those who primarily interact with other women. Women's groups often struggle with depth due to excessive focus on irrelevant details, sacrificing greater good for personal biases, stressing minor authority, becoming rigid instead of strong, and turning critical without having the clarity required for constructive critique. However, the fact that many women rise above these limitations, and that men are not always free from them, does not change the general trend. Conversely, it is equally true that men have achieved their greatest accomplishments under the influence of capable women, from the time of Pericles and the great Greeks inspired by Aspasia's salon to the numerous brilliant modern figures who openly recognize their reliance on women's judgment and criticism. Similarly, men naturally shy away from the constraints of formality and, if left to their own devices, quickly lose the refinement and courtesy that flourished during the social era of women. While social interaction on an intellectual level brings out the best in both genders, separation tends to magnify the worst traits.

Then, aside from the fact that a large part of the happiness of the world depends upon a certain degree of harmony in the tastes of men and women, which is not likely to exist if they have utterly divergent points of social interest, men are an incontestable factor in all our plans for bettering matters, themselves included. We cannot fairly claim to constitute more than half of the human family, and, if we do not make some social compromise, we may share the fate of the Princess Ida, and see all of our fine schemes melt away like the fabric of a dream. We are not yet ready to establish an order of intellectual vestals, though drifting in that direction; and, since the women’s clubs do really constitute a distinct social life, why not make them more effective on that side? Why leave all these possibilities of power in the hands of those who make a business of amusing themselves? It is a fashion to rail at society as frivolous; but it is precisely what we make it, and it is ruled by women. If it tends to grow vapid, and luxurious, and commercial, and artificial, we have only to plan something as attractive on a finer and more natural basis. And where do we find a better starting-point than in connection with the women’s clubs? To be sure, men do not, as a rule, find them interesting; indeed, they vote them a trifle dull, but[Pg 393] that may be because they have no vital part in them. Then, the fault may lie a little in the women themselves. There is clearly a flaw somewhere in our methods or our ideals. In trying to avoid the frivolities of society, we may fall into the equally fatal error of failing to make better things attractive, and so permit the busy men of to-day to slip away altogether from the influence of what many are pleased to call our finer moral and esthetic sense—to say nothing of what we lose ourselves. It may be deplorable, but it is still a fact, that truth is doubly captivating when served with the piquant sauces that make even error dangerously fascinating. We have to deal with people as they are, not as we think they ought to be.

Then, aside from the fact that a large part of the world's happiness depends on a certain level of harmony between the tastes of men and women, which is unlikely to happen if they have completely different social interests, men are undeniably a key part of all our plans for improvement, including their own. We can’t honestly claim to be more than half of the human family, and if we don't find a way to compromise socially, we might end up like Princess Ida and watch all our great ideas vanish like a dream. We’re not yet ready to create an order of intellectual guardians, although we’re moving that way; and since women’s clubs do truly form a unique social presence, why not make them more powerful in that regard? Why leave all this potential power in the hands of those who just enjoy themselves? It’s trendy to criticize society as superficial; but it’s exactly what we make it, and it’s led by women. If it starts to feel shallow, luxurious, commercial, and artificial, we just need to come up with something more appealing that’s built on a better and more natural foundation. And where could we start better than with women’s clubs? Of course, men generally don’t find them interesting; in fact, they often think they’re a bit dull, but that might be because they don’t have a significant role in them. The problem could be partly with the women themselves. There’s clearly a flaw in either our methods or our values. In our effort to avoid the frivolities of society, we might fall into the equally serious mistake of not making better things appealing, allowing the busy men of today to completely turn away from what many like to call our higher moral and aesthetic sensibilities—not to mention what we lose ourselves. It may be unfortunate, but it’s still true that truth is much more captivating when it’s served with the exciting elements that make even falsehood dangerously compelling. We have to deal with people as they are, not as we think they should be.

I am not disposed to quote the Frenchwomen of a century or so ago as models. But there are many points we might take from them in the art of making a social life on intellectual lines agreeable, as well as a vital force. When women who are neither young nor beautiful dominate an age of brilliant men through intellect and tact, it does no harm to study their methods a little in an age when women of equal talent, superior education, and finer moral aims succeed to only a limited extent in doing more than stimulate one another—a good thing to do, but not final. Those women, too, had old distinctions to reconcile, and a powerful court for a rival. They had one advantage, as they made a[Pg 394] cult of esprit, which is a gift of their race, while we make a cult of knowledge, which may be more substantial, but is less luminous, and not so available socially. Besides, knowledge is a thing to be acquired and not caviar to mediocrity, which is apt to use it crudely, and with pretension. “Let your studies flow into your manners, and your readings show themselves in your virtues,” said Mme. de Lambert. I am sorry to say that the typical Frenchwoman of a hundred years ago did not always take so exalted a view of her duties; but even as a matter of taste she had too delicate a sense of proportion to merge the woman in the intellect. She scattered about her the flavor of knowledge rather than the knowledge itself; which is not so easy, as one does not have the real flavor of knowledge without the essence of it, and something more. Rare natural gifts have a distinction of their own, but in ordinary life what one is counts for more than what one knows, and the secret of attraction lies rather in the sum of the qualities which we call character than in the acquirements. A woman may be familiar with Sanskrit, and calculate the distance of the fixed stars, without being interesting, or even admirable, as a woman. The main point is to preserve one’s symmetry, and one’s center of gravity; then, the more knowledge the better. It may be that the flaw in our ideals lies just here, and that in the too exclusive pursuit of certain[Pg 395] things fine in themselves, we neglect other things equally if not more vital.

I’m not inclined to hold up the French women from a century ago as role models. However, there are definitely aspects we can learn from them about creating a fulfilling social life grounded in intellect. When women who aren’t young or conventionally beautiful manage to lead an era filled with brilliant men using their intellect and social skills, it’s worthwhile to look at their methods. Today, women with similar talent, better education, and higher moral standards often only manage to support one another—this is a positive but ultimately insufficient effort. Those women also had to navigate old societal norms and a powerful rival in the court. They had an advantage by cultivating a sense of spirit, which is an innate trait of their lineage, while we focus on knowledge, which might be deeper but isn’t as vibrant or socially engaging. Furthermore, knowledge is something you gain and not a delicacy that mediocrity can grasp, as it tends to be applied in a crude or pretentious way. “Let your studies flow into your manners, and let your readings reflect in your virtues,” said Mme. de Lambert. Unfortunately, the typical Frenchwoman a century ago didn’t always take such a high view of her responsibilities; even taste-wise, she had too refined a sense of balance to let intellect overshadow her femininity. She spread the essence of knowledge rather than the knowledge itself, which is a trickier endeavor because you can’t have the true essence of knowledge without having actually absorbed it, and even more than that. Unique natural talents have their own charm, but in everyday life, who you are matters more than what you know, and the real draw comes from the combination of qualities we refer to as character rather than just academic achievements. A woman can be well-versed in Sanskrit or calculate the distance of fixed stars and still not be captivating or admirable as a person. The key is to maintain one’s balance and sense of self; the more knowledge you have, the better. Perhaps our ideals are flawed in that, in focusing too narrowly on certain admirable pursuits, we overlook other aspects that are equally, if not more, essential.

No doubt the Frenchwoman did much that she ought not to have done, and left undone much that she ought to have done, just as we do, though the things were not precisely the same; we know, too, that the time came when she did lose her poise, and with it her power. But, with all her faults, in the days of her glory she never forgot her point of view. She was rarely aggressive, and, without being too conscious of herself or her aims, it was a part of her esthetic creed to call out the best in others. With consummate tact, she crowned her serious gifts with the gracious ways and gentle amenities that disarmed antagonism and diffused everywhere a breath of sweetness. She carried with her, too, the sunshine that springs from an inexhaustible gaiety of heart, and this was one source of her unfailing charm. Perhaps it was partly why the literary salon retained its prestige for nearly two hundred years, and, in spite of its errors, was brilliant and amusing, as well as an intellectual force, to the end.

No doubt the Frenchwoman did a lot of things she shouldn't have done, and left many things undone that she should have, just like we do, even if the specifics were different; we also know that the time came when she lost her balance, along with her power. But despite her faults, during her prime she never forgot her perspective. She was rarely confrontational, and without being overly self-aware or fixated on her goals, it was part of her aesthetic belief to bring out the best in others. With remarkable tact, she complemented her serious talents with gracious manners and gentle kindness that eased tensions and spread a sense of sweetness everywhere. She also radiated the brightness that comes from an endless joyfulness, which was one source of her constant charm. Perhaps this was partly why the literary salon remained respected for nearly two hundred years and, despite its flaws, was vibrant and entertaining, as well as a significant intellectual force, until the end.

It is far from my intention to repeat the old cry that other days were better days, and other ways better ways, than ours. We have a life of our own, and do not wish to copy one that is dead, or to put on manners that do not fit us. But the essentials of human nature are eternally the same, and in[Pg 396] bringing new forces to bear upon it we may do well sometimes to consult the wisdom of the past, to ponder the secret of its failures as of its successes. It is not a matter of depreciating our aims or our ways, but of getting the most out of them, perhaps through some subtle touch that we have missed; also of preserving our sanity and equilibrium in this new order of things, which tends always to grow more complex and more bewildering.

It’s not my intention to echo the old sentiment that past days were better than today, or that past ways were better than ours. We have our own lives and don’t want to mimic something that’s gone, or adopt behaviors that don’t suit us. However, the core aspects of human nature remain unchanged, and in[Pg 396] applying new forces to it, we might benefit from considering the wisdom of the past, reflecting on both its failures and successes. It’s not about looking down on our goals or methods, but about maximizing their potential, maybe by discovering some subtle detail we've overlooked; it’s also about maintaining our sanity and balance in this increasingly complex and confusing new reality.


Transcriber’s Notes

In a few cases, inconsistent hyphenization was standardized to use the one more common throughout the text.

In a few cases, inconsistent hyphenation was standardized to use the one that appears more frequently throughout the text.

Page 262: “set up their household gods” changed to “set up their household goods”

Page 262: “set up their household gods” changed to “set up their household goods”

Page 346: “died at twenty-six” changed to “died at twenty-six.”

Page 346: “died at twenty-six” changed to “died at twenty-six.”


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